It’s about continuing to move in the same direction.

In this episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad and Megan celebrate 31 years of marriage by sharing the biggest lessons they’ve learned about staying connected, building unity, and continuing to grow together through every season of life.

They use the powerful analogy of a rowboat to explain what marriage really looks like. When one person rows and the other stops, the relationship starts moving in circles. When couples row against each other, frustration and disconnection grow. But when both people intentionally move in the same direction, the marriage begins to gain momentum, rhythm, and purpose.

This episode dives into the reality that strong marriages are not built by accident. They are built through intentional communication, shared vision, spiritual alignment, and the willingness to keep choosing each other even when life gets hard.

Chad and Megan also open up about the different seasons they’ve walked through over the last 31 years, including stress, parenting, business pressures, emotional disconnection, and learning how to communicate honestly without giving up on each other.

Because the goal of marriage is not perfection.

It’s unity.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn

• How to stay united in marriage during stressful seasons
• Why communication is one of the most important parts of marriage
• How shared vision strengthens your relationship
• What causes couples to drift apart emotionally and spiritually
• Why rhythms and routines matter in marriage
• How to reconnect when you feel disconnected
• The importance of praying together and dreaming together
• Practical ways to strengthen emotional connection in marriage

Key Takeaways

• Strong marriages require intentionality
• Unity doesn’t mean perfect, it means purposeful
• Couples drift when they stop dreaming together
• Communication creates connection
• Healthy rhythms help marriages stay aligned
• You don’t have to be perfect to move forward together

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In this episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad and Megan talk about what it really looks like to stay connected in marriage during stressful seasons and why so many couples unintentionally begin fighting each other instead of fighting for each other.

Because the truth is, stress is inevitable.

The weight of work, raising kids, responsibilities, expectations, and everyday life can slowly create tension in a relationship. And when that pressure builds, it can either bring you closer together or quietly push you apart.

Most of the time, disconnection doesn’t come from one big moment.
It comes from small, unaddressed things, like exhaustion, miscommunication, distractions, and unspoken expectations.

That’s where many couples get stuck.

Instead of recognizing the real problem, they begin to see each other as the problem.

But you’re not the enemy.
You’re on the same team.

This episode walks through how to shift that perspective and begin approaching your marriage with unity again. Chad and Megan share how to identify the real source of tension, name what’s actually going on beneath the surface, and create space for honest, intentional conversations that bring you back into alignment.

They also introduce a simple but powerful practice they use in their own marriage, a weekly “team huddle.” This is a dedicated time to check in, talk through schedules, acknowledge pressure points, and support each other intentionally so that stress doesn’t turn into distance.

Because strong marriages aren’t the ones without pressure.
They’re the ones that learn how to stay soft toward each other, even in the middle of it.

This episode is a reminder that connection doesn’t require a perfect season.
It requires intentionality.

And sometimes, the most powerful shift you can make is choosing to pause, refocus, and take one step back toward each other.

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In this episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad and Megan talk about what it really looks like to stay connected in marriage during stressful seasons and why so many couples unintentionally begin fighting each other instead of fighting for each other.

Because the truth is, stress is inevitable.

The weight of work, raising kids, responsibilities, expectations, and everyday life can slowly create tension in a relationship. And when that pressure builds, it can either bring you closer together or quietly push you apart.

Most of the time, disconnection doesn’t come from one big moment.
It comes from small, unaddressed things, like exhaustion, miscommunication, distractions, and unspoken expectations.

That’s where many couples get stuck.

Instead of recognizing the real problem, they begin to see each other as the problem.

But you’re not the enemy.
You’re on the same team.

This episode walks through how to shift that perspective and begin approaching your marriage with unity again. Chad and Megan share how to identify the real source of tension, name what’s actually going on beneath the surface, and create space for honest, intentional conversations that bring you back into alignment.

They also introduce a simple but powerful practice they use in their own marriage, a weekly “team huddle.” This is a dedicated time to check in, talk through schedules, acknowledge pressure points, and support each other intentionally so that stress doesn’t turn into distance.

Because strong marriages aren’t the ones without pressure.
They’re the ones that learn how to stay soft toward each other, even in the middle of it.

This episode is a reminder that connection doesn’t require a perfect season.
It requires intentionality.

And sometimes, the most powerful shift you can make is choosing to pause, refocus, and take one step back toward each other.

Ready to Reset and Realign? Start Here

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In this episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad and Megan talk about one of the most common challenges couples face today, feeling disconnected in marriage, even when everything looks “fine” on the outside.

Most marriages don’t break overnight.
They slowly drift.

Through busy schedules, responsibilities, kids, work, and everyday life, couples can begin to feel like they’re just going through the motions instead of truly connecting.

But here’s the truth:

Disconnection doesn’t mean it’s over
It means it’s time to turn back toward each other

What This Episode Covers

•  How to recognize emotional distance in your marriage
• Why couples feel disconnected even when they’re committed
• The difference between living side by side vs truly connecting
• How small moments of disconnection turn into bigger gaps
• Why intentional conversations are key to rebuilding connection

Key Takeaways

• Disconnection happens slowly, not all at once
• Feeling distant doesn’t mean your marriage is failing
• You don’t need a big fix, you need small intentional steps
• Connection requires communication and presence
• Strong marriages are built through daily choices

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In this episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad and Megan share a powerful and practical approach to spring cleaning your marriage and how it can help you improve communication, rebuild connection, and create a stronger relationship.

Just like your home can become cluttered over time, your marriage can quietly fill up with things that create distance.

The result?
You’re doing life together… but not truly feeling connected.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn

• How to reconnect in your marriage when you feel distant
• Practical ways to improve communication in marriage
• How to prioritize your spouse in a busy season
• Simple habits to strengthen your relationship
• How to build emotional and spiritual connection
• Why small, consistent actions create lasting change

Key Takeaways

• Disconnection doesn’t happen overnight, it builds slowly
• Busy doesn’t always mean connected
• Small things can create big distance over time
• A strong marriage is built through intentional choices

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In this episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad dives into what it really takes to create lasting life change through daily habits, discipline, and intentional decisions.

So many people say they want to change their life, improve their health, strengthen their marriage, grow their business, or become more successful, but they stay stuck in the same patterns.

Why?

Because real transformation doesn’t come from motivation.
It comes from the choices you make every single day.

This episode breaks down the truth about personal growth, self-discipline, and success. Chad challenges listeners to take full ownership of their life and recognize that their current results are not random, they are the outcome of repeated daily decisions.

If you’ve been feeling stuck, inconsistent, or unclear about what to do next, this conversation will help you get honest about where you are and what needs to change.

What This Episode Teaches

You don’t change, you choose
Your life today is a reflection of the decisions you’ve made, not just your intentions.

Clarity creates direction
If you don’t know exactly what you want, you’ll continue to drift. Clear goals produce clear results.

Daily habits shape your future
Success is not built in one moment, it’s built through small, consistent actions that compound over time.

Discipline is the difference
You don’t need more motivation, you need structure, consistency, and commitment.

Your environment matters
The people you spend time with will either push you forward or keep you where you are.

Growth is optional
Life will change no matter what, but growth only happens when you choose it.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn

• How to change your life by changing your daily choices
• Why most people stay stuck in the same patterns
• The power of habits, discipline, and consistency
• How to set clear goals that actually move your life forward
• Why your environment and circle influence your results
• How to build momentum and stay consistent over time
• The role of personal responsibility in long-term success
• How small decisions compound into major life transformation

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It’s about truly seeing people.

In this episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Megan shares a powerful reflection on kindness in the Bible through the story of the woman at the well in John 4.

In a world that moves fast, it’s easy to interact with people without really engaging with them. We say the right things, we stay busy, and we move on. But biblical kindness calls us to something deeper.

Through this story, we see how Jesus modeled kindness in a way that was both truthful and compassionate.

He didn’t avoid her.
He didn’t rush past her.
He didn’t condemn her.

He saw her.

And that moment changed everything.

In This Episode, You’ll Learn:

• What true kindness in the Bible actually looks like
• Lessons from the woman at the well (John 4)
• How Jesus showed kindness without avoiding truth
• Why people are not interruptions, they are the assignment
• How to slow down and be more present in your daily life
• Practical ways to show kindness in relationships
• Why small moments of kindness can have lasting impact

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In today’s culture, many couples find themselves feeling disconnected, overwhelmed, and stuck in the routine of everyday life. But the truth is, most marriages don’t explode, they slowly drift apart over time due to busyness, misaligned priorities, and lack of intentional connection.

In this episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad and Megan share the four foundational pillars that have guided their marriage for over 30 years: pursuit, priority, purpose, and play.

These four principles offer a practical and faith-based framework for couples who want to strengthen their relationship, deepen their connection, and build a marriage that creates a lasting legacy. 

In This Episode You’ll Learn

• Why most marriages slowly drift apart
• How to reconnect with your spouse intentionally
• What it means to pursue your spouse daily
• How to realign your priorities as a couple
• Why purpose strengthens your relationship
• The role of fun and play in a healthy marriage
• Simple questions to start meaningful conversations

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In this episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Megan shares a powerful reminder about the importance of seeking God first through worship, prayer, and stillness. She reflects on her personal spiritual rhythms and how returning to God’s presence has helped her stay grounded in seasons of busyness, emotional overwhelm, and life transitions.

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The truth is that God never moves. He remains faithful and present. But as believers, we can easily become distracted by responsibilities, stress, and the constant noise of everyday life.

Megan reminds listeners that spiritual alignment begins when we intentionally make space for God.

She shares how three simple practices have been helping her stay connected to the Lord:

Worship – Turning your heart and attention toward God, whether through music, silence, or gratitude.

Prayer – Talking honestly with God about what’s happening in your heart and life.

Stillness – Creating quiet space to hear God’s voice and allow His presence to bring clarity and peace.

This episode also explores how believers can:

• Hear God’s voice in a noisy world
• Seek God’s presence in everyday moments
• Move toward God even in emotional or difficult seasons
• Take the next faithful step in their spiritual journey
• Stay spiritually grounded during busy seasons of life

Megan reminds listeners that spiritual growth doesn’t require knowing the entire path ahead. Often, God simply lights the next step as we choose to seek Him first.

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In this episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad and Megan explore what the Bible teaches about leadership in the home through the lens of Titus 1, unpacking how husbands can lead their families with faith, character, and responsibility.

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Many men feel pressure to lead perfectly, but biblical leadership is not about control or dominance. It is about responsibility, spiritual guidance, and setting the tone for the home.

Chad explains that every household has a leader, whether that leadership is intentional or not. When husbands step into their role with humility and purpose, they create stability, safety, and direction for their families.

Drawing from the Apostle Paul’s guidance to Titus, this episode highlights key qualities of godly leadership, including self-control, discipline, humility, and spiritual integrity.

Chad and Megan also discuss:

• Why the husband sets the emotional temperature of the home
• The connection between leadership and family culture
• How character builds the foundation for a family legacy
• Why presence matters more than perfection
• How husbands can lead spiritually even if they feel unqualified
• The importance of protecting your marriage and family priorities
• Simple ways to begin leading spiritually today

Megan shares how a husband’s leadership creates emotional safety inside the home and allows the entire family to flourish.

Together, they remind listeners that leadership is not about having all the answers. It is about going first, initiating faith, and building a culture where love, respect, and spiritual growth thrive.

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In this episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad and Megan address one of the most common struggles for Christian couples and families: maintaining spiritual growth during stressful and busy seasons of life

When routines are predictable, faith feels easier. But when travel, work pressure, parenting, and unexpected disruptions hit, spiritual disciplines often weaken. This episode explores how to stay spiritually strong when your faith rhythm feels off.

They discuss:

• How to stay close to God in busy seasons
• What to do when your quiet time gets disrupted
• Why spiritual drift impacts Christian marriage
• Keeping faith strong as a husband and wife
• How to maintain spiritual growth during stress
• Protecting your relationship with God when schedules shift
• Christian habits that prevent burnout
• Turning daily routines into devotion
• Staying rooted in Christ during chaotic weeks
• How to pray together when time is limited

Chad shares how anchor scriptures and intentional prayer keep him spiritually grounded during travel and heavy workloads. Megan explains why shrinking expectations but not priority helps prevent guilt and spiritual discouragement.

They emphasize that faith is not confined to a quiet time chair. Your relationship with God is portable. You can pray while walking, worship in the car, journal in a hotel room, or send scripture through text messages to stay spiritually connected.

This episode also highlights:

• The connection between spiritual health and marriage communication
• Why irritability and anxiety can signal spiritual misalignment
• How to reset after a spiritually chaotic week
• Simple prayers to realign your heart
• Why rest is an act of trust in God
• This conversation is especially helpful for:
• Christian couples navigating busy work schedules
• Traveling professionals
• Parents balancing faith and family
• Leaders wanting consistent spiritual discipline
• Anyone feeling spiritually disconnected

If you want to grow spiritually without guilt, maintain faith during stressful seasons, and build strong spiritual rhythms in marriage and family life, this episode will give you practical direction.

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In this powerful conversation on Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Megan interviews Christian author Shayla Huber about healing shame in marriage and motherhood and discovering your true identity in Christ

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Raised in church but carrying unresolved trauma, Shayla describes what she calls being an “orphan Christian” — believing in God but not fully receiving His love. That internal shame followed her into marriage, where self-criticism and insecurity shaped communication, and into motherhood, where overstimulation and perfectionism created frustration and guilt.

Through mentorship, inner healing, and a renewed understanding of God’s love, Shayla experienced radical transformation. She went from striving for approval to resting in her identity as a daughter of God.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• How shame affects Christian marriage
• Why motherhood often exposes unresolved trauma
• How to stop self-criticism as a Christian mom
• Breaking generational patterns through faith
• The difference between striving and surrender
• How to respond instead of react in parenting
• Why identity in Christ changes marriage and motherhood
• The power of mentorship and spiritual guidance
• Growing spiritually as a young wife and mom
• How to build a legacy rooted in love instead of fear

Healing shame begins when you stop asking, “What’s wrong with me?” and start believing, “I belong.”

You are not called to perform for God’s love.
You are called to receive it.

When you live from identity instead of insecurity, your marriage softens, your parenting steadies, and your legacy shifts.

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In this week’s episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad and Megan continue their Advance series by focusing on one foundational truth: if your faith isn’t advancing, everything else eventually slows down.

Many believers want to grow spiritually but struggle with consistency. The problem usually isn’t desire. It’s structure. Spiritual growth requires intentional habits that keep God’s Word in front of you and obedience active in your life.

In this conversation, Chad and Megan share how they build faith into daily rhythms in practical ways, including:

• Memorizing and writing scripture weekly
• Keeping God’s Word visible in journals and everyday spaces
• Praying intentionally before decisions
• Saying yes and no with spiritual discernment
• Leading with biblical alignment at home and at work

They emphasize that faith isn’t fragile. One hard day doesn’t undo your growth. Obedience still moves you forward. The more consistently you turn to God, the more natural it becomes to keep turning to Him.

Spiritual discipline is not about pressure or perfection. It’s about alignment. Daily faith habits compound over time and create a stronger relationship with God, deeper peace, clearer leadership, and greater impact in your marriage and family.

If you want to grow in faith daily, prevent spiritual drift, and build habits that truly matter, this episode offers both encouragement and direction.

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In this week’s episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad and Megan kick off the year by addressing one of the most common struggles in the Christian life: losing spiritual momentum without meaning to. Life gets busy, responsibilities pile up, and before we know it, our faith feels distant, inconsistent, or stalled.

This episode centers on the idea of advancing spiritually instead of drifting, especially in the New Year. Chad and Megan remind listeners that faith isn’t passive. You don’t accidentally grow closer to God. Spiritual growth requires intention, alignment, and obedience, even when the steps feel small.

Using Philippians 3:13–14, they explore the movement language of faith, forgetting what’s behind, pressing forward, and focusing on what God is calling us toward next. They talk about why faith must come before focusing on family, health, leadership, or goals, because when faith stalls, everything else eventually feels heavier.

This conversation is especially for those who:

• Feel spiritually distant or disconnected from God
• Want to grow in faith but don’t know where to start
• Are tired of New Year resolutions that don’t last
• Desire alignment instead of overwhelm
• Want practical, faith-based rhythms for everyday life

Rather than encouraging listeners to overhaul their lives, Chad and Megan emphasize small, obedient steps, daily and weekly rhythms, and choosing alignment over pressure. Growth doesn’t happen overnight. It happens one faithful step at a time.

This episode sets the foundation for the year ahead and invites listeners into a different pace, one rooted in intention, obedience, and trust in God’s direction.

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In this week’s episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad and Megan continue their Advance series by focusing on the second pillar that shapes legacy: family. They speak honestly about how easy it is to be advancing at work while slowly drifting at home, and why winning professionally while losing relationally is never a true win

Chad and Megan share their story of becoming parents young, choosing to fight for family despite broken backgrounds, and learning over time that alignment, not good intentions, keeps a family moving in the right direction. They explain why faith is the foundation, but family is often the first place pressure, distraction, and misalignment show up.

This episode challenges the idea that families fail because of bad intentions. Instead, Chad and Megan point out that most families struggle because there is no clear direction, no shared vision, and no intentional rhythms holding things together.

They unpack the powerful truth that presence matters more than perfection, especially in parenting and marriage. Kids don’t need packed schedules or more stuff, they need connection. Spouses don’t need grand gestures, they need intentional time and honest communication.

Using Joshua 24:15, they emphasize that strong families are led, not managed. Leadership at home doesn’t mean control or micromanagement, it means clarity, consistency, and choosing your family first, even when work, schedules, and responsibilities compete for attention.

Chad and Megan also share practical rhythms they’ve built over the years, including weekly calendar check-ins, intentional date nights, prayer walks, and simple habits that protect margin and connection. They remind listeners that if you don’t lead your family intentionally, something else will, whether it’s work, phones, sports, or busyness.

This episode is both a wake-up call and an encouragement. You don’t have to be perfect. You just have to be present, willing, and intentional.

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In this foundational episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad and Megan share the word God placed on their hearts for 2026: Advance. Not rushed growth. Not burnout-driven hustle. But forward movement rooted in faith, alignment, and intention.

This episode is an invitation to pause, reflect, and reframe how you approach the year ahead. Instead of chasing resolutions that fade, Chad and Megan introduce a simple but powerful framework that helps guide decisions, priorities, and daily rhythms throughout the year.

They unpack how choosing a word becomes a filter for decision-making, a posture for everyday life, and a way to stay aligned with what matters most — especially in seasons that feel busy, overwhelming, or unclear.

At the heart of this episode are four foundational pillars that shape their family, leadership, and legacy:

The Four Pillars of Advancement

Faith – Building everything on a deep, anchored relationship with God

Family – Being intentional with marriage, children, and grandchildren

Fitness – Stewarding physical, mental, and emotional health for longevity and impact

Focus – Living with clarity in work, calling, and stewardship

Rather than chasing perfection, this episode emphasizes progress, self-awareness, and sustainable growth. Chad and Megan share real-life examples from their marriage, parenting, grandparenting, and careers, showing how alignment leads to peace, clarity, and momentum.

You’ll also hear practical encouragement for listeners who feel behind, overwhelmed, or stuck. This episode reminds you that growth doesn’t happen overnight — and that even choosing one pillar to focus on can begin meaningful change.

This is not just an episode — it’s the starting line of a year-long conversation about living anchored, intentional, and aligned with God’s direction.

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In this episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad and Megan welcome CJ and Sid, a married couple, parents, and faith-based fitness coaches, to talk about how health, marriage, and faith are deeply connected. Their story is honest, relatable, and encouraging for couples who want to grow together without pressure, comparison, or perfection.

CJ and Sid share how their fitness journeys started in very different places. CJ went all-in with a bold goal, while Sid began with small, gentle steps during a season marked by postpartum depression and low confidence. What made the difference was not pressure, but patience, grace, and unwavering support inside their marriage.

Together, they unpack what it looks like to pursue growth without forcing it, how to support your spouse when they are not ready yet, and why small, consistent habits often lead to the biggest transformation. The conversation also dives into raising kids with faith, teaching children to honor their God-given bodies, and making Christ the foundation of every area of life.

This episode is especially powerful for couples navigating health goals, busy schedules, business ownership, and the tension between ambition and alignment. It offers practical wisdom for building a strong marriage, protecting connection, and keeping faith from becoming an afterthought.

You'll hear conversations around:

• How to support your spouse without pressure or comparison
• Why small, simple steps often lead to lasting health changes
• Navigating fitness and confidence after pregnancy
• Building discipline without letting health become an idol
• Making faith the foundation of marriage, parenting, and business
• Teaching children about prayer, movement, and stewardship of their bodies
• Setting boundaries and safeguards to protect your marriage
• Why communication and trust matter more than control
• How consistency, grace, and shared goals strengthen couples
• What it means to live a legacy now, not just leave one later

📲 Connect with Our Guests
To continue following CJ & Sid’s journey in faith, fitness, marriage, and family life, connect with them on Instagram at @spjute_strong.fit. They share encouragement, practical wisdom, and real-life rhythms for couples who want to pursue health and faith together.

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In this meaningful episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Megan reconnects with Jo Warren, a woman who has modeled faith, family, and service for decades. Their conversation spans generations and seasons of life marriage, motherhood, ministry, grandparenting, caregiving, joy, and loss, all centered around one powerful truth: legacy is built through daily choices.

Jo shares stories from over 50 years of marriage, raising children, opening her home to countless people, serving in ministry, and now caring for her mother while embracing the sacredness of later seasons. Megan reflects on how Jo and her husband modeled legacy living long before it had a name. through hospitality, faithfulness, and steady obedience to God.

Together, they explore what it means to live for legacy instead of living from pain, pressure, or the past. From choosing joy in hard seasons to embracing opportunities even when they feel uncomfortable, this episode reminds listeners that God uses every chapter. even the difficult ones  for purpose.

This conversation is especially timely during the Christmas season, pointing listeners back to faith, generosity, and living a Christ-centered life that impacts generations watching from behind.

You’ll hear conversations around:

• Choosing legacy over pain, trauma, and past hardship
• How faith is passed down through modeling, not perfection
• The role of hospitality and opening your home
• Living with intention as a parent, grandparent, and mentor
• Choosing joy even when life feels heavy
• Saying yes to opportunities God places in front of you
• Why legacy is built in ordinary, everyday moments
• Teaching kindness, service, and faith to the next generation
• Embracing every season of life with gratitude and trust in God

Legacy Takeaway

Legacy living isn’t about having everything figured out — it’s about choosing faith, joy, and obedience daily. The example you live today will echo into generations you may never fully see.

Reflection Prompt

What choices are you making today that will shape the faith, character, and joy of the generations coming behind you?

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Through honest stories, laughter, and meaningful reflection, they explore why celebrating your journey, honoring the people who shaped you, and choosing your community with intention are essential parts of building a Christ-centered legacy.

Chad reflects on the last five decades—from early work memories to raising kids, becoming a grandparent, retiring, shifting careers, and rediscovering purpose. Megan shares what it meant to gather the people who shaped their lives and why celebration becomes more meaningful with age.

This episode dives into Christian leadership, marriage, community building, and spiritual growth—reminding listeners that legacy isn’t built by accident. It’s built through reflection, gratitude, and the intentional people you welcome to your table.

You’ll hear:

• Why reflection helps you grow spiritually, personally, and professionally
• The importance of celebrating milestones as adults
• How community shapes your identity and legacy
• Why your “table” (inner circle) determines who you become
• How to choose relationships that challenge, strengthen, and sharpen you
• Why celebrating others is just as important as celebrating yourself
• How ordinary moments—like doing dishes or showing up consistently—build the strongest marriages and families
• The spiritual impact of tables, seasons, and the people God brings into your life

👉 Legacy takeaway: Your legacy is built through reflection, celebration, and the people who sit at your table. Choose wisely, show up consistently, and never underestimate the power of the small moments that build a life worth following.

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What began as a quiet time reflection turned into a powerful discussion about how God forms our identity long before we feel qualified. Peter wasn’t polished. He wasn’t predictable. He wasn’t perfect. But he was willing — and that willingness shaped his calling, leadership, and legacy.

Chad shares the moment he realized his own personality mirrors Peter’s: bold, passionate, unfiltered, and deeply committed to learning as he goes. Together, he and Megan unpack what Peter teaches all of us about becoming who God designed us to be, even in seasons of doubt, stretching, or refining.

This episode encourages listeners to stop striving for perfection and instead focus on becoming — becoming faithful, becoming teachable, becoming courageous, and becoming the person God can build a legacy through.

You’ll hear:

• Why your identity in Christ matters more than your qualifications
• How Peter’s boldness and imperfections reveal our own journey of growth
• Why willingness is more important than perfection in your calling
• How God uses your personality, passion, and mistakes to shape your purpose
• What it looks like to lead your family, your marriage, and your life with disciple-level courage
• Practical ways to “feed your sheep” in everyday moments

Scriptures Shared

Matthew 14:29 — Peter walks on the water
Luke 22:32 — Strengthen your brothers
John 21:17 — Feed my sheep
1 Peter 5:2–3 — Shepherd the flock under your care

Legacy Takeaway

You don’t become who you’re called to be through perfection — you become through obedience. God uses your passion, your process, and even your failures to shape your identity and build a legacy that lasts.

Conversation Starter

Ask yourself: If my life mirrors a disciple’s journey, what does that reveal about who I’m becoming right now?

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They share how daily habits, structure, and intentional rhythms shape not just your success, but your character. Whether you’re leading a business, a family, or simply yourself, this episode will challenge you to look at the systems that support your mission—and how discipline builds trust, stability, and growth in every area of life.

You’ll hear:

• Why discipline is an identity, not just a behavior
• How consistency builds trust in marriage and leadership
• Practical ways to set non-negotiables that align with your values
• How structure and rest work together to fuel long-term growth
• Why discipline is built in the dark and revealed in the light
• How to choose mission over mood, and legacy over laziness

This episode includes honest stories from their own life—how they’ve learned to lead with order, set boundaries, and stay committed to what matters most. From morning routines to family rhythms, to finding rest as leaders, Chad and Megan reveal that true discipline doesn’t limit you—it frees you.

 Scriptures shared:
Matthew 5:37 — Let your yes be yes and your no be no.
1 Corinthians 9:24–27 — Run in such a way as to get the prize.
Proverbs 12:1 — Whoever loves discipline loves knowledge.
Exodus 20:8 — Remember the Sabbath day, to keep it holy.

Legacy Takeaway:
Discipline isn’t a feeling—it’s a decision you make daily. It’s the quiet commitment that fuels consistency, strengthens your leadership, and builds the kind of legacy that lasts long after you’re gone.

Conversation Starter:
Ask yourself: Where in your life do you need to raise your level of discipline to become who you’re called to be?

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Drawing from 1 Thessalonians 5:18 — “Give thanks in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus” — Megan unpacks how thankfulness softens your heart, deepens your faith, and strengthens your relationships. She shares real stories of finding gratitude through life’s highs and lows, marriage, parenting, and leadership, reminding us that grace recognized is gratitude expressed.

Whether you’re walking through joy or hardship, this conversation will help you cultivate a spirit of thanksgiving that overflows into your family, work, and daily life.

You’ll hear:

• How gratitude shifts your focus from pressure to peace
• Practical ways to practice gratitude in marriage, parenting, and friendship
• Why thankfulness in hard seasons leads to spiritual growth
• The link between grace, joy, and lasting gratitude
• How gratitude becomes the foundation of your legacy
• Simple ways to give grace back to God through daily praise and reflection

 Scriptures shared:
1 Thessalonians 5:18 — Give thanks in all circumstances.
Psalm 100:4 — Enter His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise.
Ephesians 5:20 — Always give thanks to God the Father for everything.
Colossians 3:17 — Whatever you do, do it in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks.

Legacy Takeaway:
Gratitude doesn’t change your circumstances — it changes you. When we give thanks in all things, we open the door for peace, joy, and God’s presence to fill our lives. Gratitude is how we live our legacy one day, one moment, one “thank you” at a time.

Conversation Starter:
Ask yourself: What am I grateful for today — and how can I give grace back to God for it?

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Through real stories, Biblical truth, and practical encouragement, they remind us that the pursuit of marriage never stops—it deepens. Drawing from Scripture and thirty years of marriage, the Lacefields share how to strengthen your relationship, rebuild connection, and live out the vows that started it all.

This episode is for couples, engaged partners, and anyone longing to build a marriage that’s not just strong—but Christ-centered, purpose-driven, and anchored in legacy.

You’ll hear:

• Why pursuit is the heartbeat of every strong Christian marriage
• How to seek God first—individually and together as a couple
• Practical ways to reconnect when life gets busy or distant
• How humility, prayer, and grace restore intimacy and unity
• What it means to pursue through the storms and hard seasons
• How to protect your marriage from comparison and complacency
• Why love is a rhythm—and how to find your rhythm again

Scriptures shared:
Matthew 6:33 — Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness.
James 4:8 — Draw near to God and He will draw near to you.
Joshua 24:15 — As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.
Romans 12:10 — Outdo one another in showing honor.
Philippians 3:12–14 — I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me.

Legacy Takeaway:
A legacy marriage is built through consistent pursuit—of God, of each other, and of the vows that hold you together. Love isn’t found in perfection; it’s found in the daily decision to keep chasing one another with grace, humility, and purpose.

Conversation Starter:
Ask each other: Where have we stopped pursuing—and how can we start again?

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Drawing wisdom from the story of Job and her own personal journey, Megan offers honest encouragement for anyone navigating transition, uncertainty, or change. She reminds listeners that pain doesn’t mean God has left — it often means He’s preparing you for something greater.

Through moments of reflection, worship, and surrender, this episode will help you see how faith grows in the middle of the fire — and how God uses testing to bring forth gold.

You’ll hear:

• How God uses trials to refine your heart and renew your mind
• What it means to stay grounded in faith when life feels uncertain
• Why surrender is the key to spiritual growth and lasting peace
• How worship and gratitude shift your focus from fear to faith
• Why refinement reveals God’s faithfulness—not His absence
• How to recognize the purpose behind your current season

Scriptures shared:
Job 23:10 — When He has tested me, I will come forth as gold.
Romans 12:2 — Be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
Psalm 139:23–24 — Search me, God, and know my heart.
Isaiah 48:10 — I have refined you, though not as silver; I have tested you in the furnace of affliction.
John 15:5 — Remain in Me, and I in you.

Legacy Takeaway:
Refinement isn’t punishment — it’s preparation. God uses fire to form faith, pain to build purpose, and testing to bring out the gold in us. The refining process is where true strength, wisdom, and legacy are born.

Conversation Starter:
Ask yourself: Where might God be refining me right now? What would it look like to trust Him in the middle of my hard season?

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Through practical wisdom and real-life leadership insight, Chad challenges listeners to take a step back and intentionally work on their marriage, not just in it. He shares how to lead with vision, set standards rooted in faith, and create systems that strengthen both your home and your work life.

This episode is for Christian men, leaders, and husbands who want to grow in purpose, lead with integrity, and build a family culture that honors God.

You’ll hear:

• How to lead your home with the same intentionality you bring to work
• The importance of setting a godly standard in your marriage and family
• Why leading with purpose means making others feel seen and valued
• How to balance leadership in business and family through Biblical wisdom
• Why self-awareness, accountability, and reflection are key to lasting legacy

Legacy Takeaway:
You don’t grow a business — you grow people. And the same is true at home. When you lead your marriage and family with purpose, consistency, and God’s wisdom, you build success that lasts far beyond the workplace.

📌 Conversation Starter:
Ask yourself: Who in my home or workplace is better today because of my leadership? What can I shift this week to lead with more purpose and presence?

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Through relatable stories, scripture, and personal reflection, Megan shares how to live faithfully in a distracted world — and how devotion can strengthen your relationship with God, transform your home, and shape your legacy for generations to come.

This episode is a powerful reminder that true devotion isn’t about doing more — it’s about being present with God in every moment.

You’ll hear:

• How to stay spiritually grounded as a Christian woman in a fast-paced world
• Why devotion begins with identity and overflows into marriage and motherhood
• How to balance faith, family, and calling without striving for perfection
• The difference between distraction and devotion — and how to guard your heart
• How spiritual practices like prayer, journaling, and worship strengthen your faith daily
• Why devotion defines your legacy and how your faith impacts generations

Scriptures shared:
Romans 12:11–12 • Psalm 139:23–24 • Luke 10:38–42 • Proverbs 3:5–6 • Isaiah 40:31 • Deuteronomy 6:5–9 • 2 Timothy 1:5

 Legacy Takeaway:
Your greatest legacy begins with your devotion. When you’re rooted in God’s presence and surrendered to His plan, you build a home, marriage, and life that reflect His faithfulness — even in the middle of the mess.

📌 Conversation Starter:
Ask yourself: Where in my life do I need to trade distraction for devotion? How can I make space to be with God instead of just doing things for Him?

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Drawing from Scripture and his message at a recent men’s conference, Chad unpacks the pillars of godly leadership and how men can build an unshakable foundation that impacts generations. He shares personal stories of faith, fatherhood, and legacy while breaking down how identity, vision, and self-control align to create the life God designed for you.

This episode will encourage you to become a man of excellence — rooted in God’s Word, consistent in daily habits, and committed to protecting the people and purpose He’s placed in your care.

You’ll hear:

• Why identity comes before discipline in building Christian character and confidence
• How vision gives direction for your marriage, fatherhood, and business
• The role of self-control in protecting your faith, home, and mental resilience
• What it means to practice daily spiritual discipline through prayer and Scripture
• How to lead with excellence and model Biblical manhood in a modern world

Legacy Takeaway:
Faithful leadership starts with daily discipline. When you renew your mind, live with vision, and lead with self-control, you don’t just build success — you build a family legacy anchored in faith and excellence.

Conversation Starter:
Ask yourself: Where in my life do I need to sharpen my focus, grow in discipline, and lead more intentionally?

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In this episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad and Megan talk about the power of changing your lens and how it transforms the way you live, lead, and love. With real-life stories, Biblical wisdom, and practical rhythms, they share how Christian couples can reframe challenges and choose gratitude in every season.

You’ll hear:

• Why marriage and family thrive when you choose gratitude daily
• How to renew your mind through God’s Word and shift negative thinking
• The impact of surrounding yourself with the right people and conversations
• Practical ways to stop negative spirals and reframe them with truth

Scriptures that shape this mindset: Proverbs 23:7, Romans 12:2, Philippians 4:8, James 1:2–3

 Legacy takeaway: Change your lens and you change your life. Gratitude and faith reframe your perspective, strengthen your marriage, and anchor your family legacy.

Conversation Starter: Ask your spouse, “What lens have I been looking through lately, and how can I shift toward gratitude this week?”

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In this episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad and Megan open up about what has sustained their marriage for 30 years—and how you can apply the same principles to your own relationship. Whether you’re newlyweds or decades in, these truths will encourage you to keep building a marriage that lasts.

You’ll hear:

• Why commitment over convenience keeps love steady through every season
• How to laugh often and forgive quickly to protect unity
• The importance of pursuing your spouse daily in both small gestures and big moments
• A powerful look at Ecclesiastes 4:9–12 and why “two are better than one”
• How faith, grace, and shared rhythms create a strong Christian marriage foundation

Legacy takeaway: A lasting marriage isn’t built in a day—it’s built daily. Choose commitment, grace, and pursuit over perfection, and watch your love grow stronger with time.

Conversation Starter for Couples: Ask each other, “What makes you feel most loved in this season?” and be ready to listen with open hearts.

Scripture reference: Ecclesiastes 4:9–12

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In this episode of Legacy Life with the Lacefields, Chad and Megan open up about the anchors that have carried them through decades of marriage, parenting, business, and ministry. Rooted in Scripture and shaped by community, they share what it really means to be anchored in faith and how those anchors strengthen marriage, family culture, and your legacy.

You’ll hear:

• The role of daily faith habits like prayer, Scripture, and church community in keeping you steady.
• How to choose your table wisely and surround yourself with people who cheer you on in hard seasons.
• Why your marriage rhythms and routines matter more than your calendar or bank account.
• The miracle story of their son’s fall and how God showed up in the middle of a storm.
• The power of celebrating milestones and documenting God’s faithfulness in a legacy journal.

 Legacy Takeaway: When your faith is anchored, the storms can’t sink you. Build habits, rhythms, and community that keep you steady through every season.

 Conversation Starter for Couples: Ask your spouse, “What’s one way we can anchor ourselves in faith this week?” Then choose one small step and do it together.

Scripture references: Hebrews 12:1–2, Jeremiah 29:13

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In this episode, they share:

• The moment they realized legacy wasn’t just about raising kids, but about impacting generations.
• Why legacy isn’t about what you leave—it’s about what you live every single day.
• How to define your own version of legacy by asking the right questions.
• Practical steps to clarify your values, celebrate milestones, and create rhythms of intentional living.
• Why accountability, community, and faith are essential to building a life that lasts.

Legacy takeaway: Give the best of you for the rest of you. Start now. Live full. Love deeply. Lead strong. Your legacy begins today.

Action challenge of the week: Write down three values you want to be known for, share them with someone you trust, and celebrate one small milestone this week together.

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They reflect on the shift from their former podcast, Built for Two, which focused on Christian marriage, into Live Your Legacy Life—a broader conversation about faith, family, leadership, health, and legacy. Through candid storytelling, Chad and Megan talk about relearning each other after decades of busyness, redefining success beyond career milestones, and choosing presence over pressure in their marriage and family life.

You’ll walk away encouraged and challenged to:

Seek God’s voice when navigating change and uncertainty.

Reevaluate your rhythms at home, in marriage, and in leadership.

Understand why legacy isn’t something you leave behind—it’s something you live out daily.

Ask yourself powerful questions like: What do I need to release? What rhythms align with my values? How can I be more intentional with my time, health, and family?

 Whether you’re navigating a career shift, redefining success, or simply longing for more presence in your marriage and family, this episode will give you practical wisdom and spiritual encouragement to take the next step toward living your legacy today.

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 Here’s what we cover:

• Why reassurance and respect are foundational in marriage
• What it really means to pursue and appreciate your spouse
• The surprising ways we process emotions differently — and how we make it work
• Why laughter is our secret superpower (and our sneaky escape route from real talk 😅)
• Creating space for quality time, fun, and adventure in every season
• How our marriage reflects our personal pursuit of God
• Loving the evolving versions of each other — through every high, low, and “in-between”
•  Whether you’re just a few years in or nearing your own big milestone, this episode will help you reflect on the kind of love that lasts — one that’s honest, intentional, and full of grace.

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Marriage isn’t about staying the same—it’s about growing together and individually. From learning how to navigate emotional disconnection to honoring each other’s differences, we’re talking through the lessons we wish someone had told us sooner. If your relationship has ever felt off-rhythm, you’re not alone—and this conversation is for you.

Whether you're newly married or decades in, this episode will help you reflect, realign, and move forward with more grace and intention.

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You’ll hear about:

• Why marriage is worth the work—even when it’s hard
• How unity doesn’t require total agreement
• The importance of staying emotionally and spiritually in sync
• How forgiveness, laughter, and growth shape a lasting relationship
• Why the best is yet to come—no matter what season you're in

If you're ready to grow a legacy-centered marriage that lasts, this episode is packed with truth, encouragement, and real talk! 

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If you’ve been feeling stuck, uninspired, or unsure of your next steps, this episode is a wake-up call. Tune in and discover how small, intentional choices can lead to massive transformation in every area of your life.

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Through real-life experiences, we discuss how to cultivate deeper connection in marriage, the importance of honest communication, and the power of living out your legacy with purpose. Whether you’re navigating a career change, adjusting to a new season in life, or simply looking for ways to strengthen your marriage, this episode is full of encouragement and wisdom.

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Whether you're newly married or decades in, this episode will remind you why marriage is worth the work.

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Discover how they’ve built a foundation of resilience, intentionality, and grace in their marriage and family. Whether it’s creating a “greenhouse of greatness” for their kids, navigating major life changes, or finding alignment in their decisions, their story is a testament to the power of unity, faith, and purpose.

This episode is packed with wisdom and encouragement for couples in every stage of life. Tune in and be inspired to deepen your connection, embrace growth, and walk in purpose together.

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The conversation explores the physical and emotional challenges he faced during his recovery, and the role of faith and family support in his healing process. Riley opens up about his journey of vulnerability, the power of prayer, and how his community became a lifeline during one of his most challenging seasons.

This episode is a testament to the strength of the human spirit and the importance of leaning on faith and loved ones in times of hardship.

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Megan also breaks down how to turn big dreams into actionable steps and why it’s so important to keep the process fun, light, and memorable. If you’re ready to set a foundation for your marriage this year and move forward with purpose and intention, this episode is for you.

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From celebrating both big and small wins to building deeper connections with your family and community, this episode is an open invitation to approach the new year with clarity, purpose, and gratitude. Whether you're planning with your spouse, reflecting on your own, or dreaming about your next chapter, this conversation will inspire you to step into the year ahead with intention and heart.

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Chad and Megan talk about finding balance during the busy holiday season, focusing on what truly matters, and how intentional communication can make a big difference when planning with family. Whether it’s keeping old traditions, letting go of ones that no longer fit, or creating new memories, this episode is packed with ideas to make this season one to remember

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They share practical insights on navigating family dynamics, creating meaningful traditions, and prioritizing rest over the hustle and bustle. This conversation will inspire you to slow down, focus on what truly matters, and set the stage for a joyful, peaceful holiday season.

If you’re feeling overwhelmed by the holiday rush, this episode is the perfect reminder to embrace presence over presents.

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Riley and Savannah talk about how their childhood experiences influenced their approach to marriage, how they chose to marry young despite the challenges, and how family dynamics and community support have helped them grow as a couple and as parents.

This heartfelt conversation dives into the importance of faith, communication, and respect in building a lasting marriage. The Lacefields share personal stories about overcoming struggles, embracing vulnerability, and finding strength in prayer and their community. If you’re looking for inspiration to build a strong foundation in your marriage, this episode is for you.

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Goal 1 - Promote and Encourage your spouse so that they feel loved and supported

Goal 2 - Lead Well by taking initiative and leading by example

Goal 3 - You First. When there are arguments or things that don’t go right, look at yourself and what you could be doing better before blaming others.

Gaol 4 - Health. Focus on longevity so that you can continue to serve your spouse throughout your marriage.

Goal 5 - Have fun together. Be intentional about the ways you have fun with your spouse. 

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1. We Love your man for who he is so he believes he can be the man you need.

2. Invest in your marriage now. When the kids are grown+gone it’s just you two.

3. Prioritize your personal health and growth. This affects more than just you.

4. Pursue your man inside the bedroom. When he feels pursued he will fight for your heart everywhere else.

5. Submit one to another. Mutual submission is a learned behavior.

6. Practice loving them in their love language instead of always expecting them to love you in yours.

7. Make room for grace. Mistakes will be made and how we handle each other’s hearts in the middle of the mess determines their willingness to share the messy stuff.

8. Speak life and love. You are stewarding a son of God. If you have boys they’re watching you as you model being a wife.

9.   Show up for him in the big and little things Cheer him on every chance you get.

10. Build your marriage with God as the foundation and you can’t fail. God doesn’t fail.  No matter where you’re starting, take daily steps to keep God in the center of your marriage or to build a fail proof marriage founded on God. 

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Being in a place of activity can free up your mind. Build relationships through exercise.

Pray before a workout. Center yourself with God first.

Emotional Health can come from Physical Health. When you work out and spend quiet time with God, you’ve accomplished something at the start of your day.

The output and capacity that you have is directly impacted by what you eat, what you consume through social media, and who you engage with throughout the day.

Everyday that you stay committed, you gain more and more confidence.

Guard your perception of health. With social media, magazines, and tv, we can fall into the trap of setting a standard that is unrealistic.

Three step plan for Physical Growth

• 1 - Do physical activity together
• 2 - Rest together
• 3 - Plan and cook meals together

Romans 12:1 

“Therefore, I urge you, brothers and sisters, in view of God’s mercy, to offer your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and pleasing to God—this is your true and proper worship.”

What pleases God pleases your spouse

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Relationships require to do a little extra

Play the “Question Game”

Relationships will only go as deep as you let them go. It requires making room to grow, and pressing in. 

Spiritual growth is framed by relational growth. 

Make sure that your relationship is in alignment. 

Love Languages: 

• Physical Touch
• Words of Affirmation
• Acts of Service
• Gifts
• Quality Time

Take the test and learn your partner’s Love Language

Monitor your partner’s body language and facial expressions to check in on them emotionally 

Ways to lean into your relationships

• Time 
• Words
• Touch

Be intentional, show your partner you love them in the way they need to be loved. If the intention or motivation is off, your partner can sense that. 

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Evaluate where you are, and where your deficiencies are. 

Often times, when we get off with our partner, it’s because we are off in our spiritual life

You must have God in the center

Things We Often Put In The Place Of God:

• Work
• Family
• Physical Health/Getting Fit
• Marriage

When He is not in his rightful place, we have the opportunity to put him back.

Hebrews 12:1: Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles. And let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us

For growth, you have to be active. God doesn’t want you on the sidelines

Take moments of repentance. Be honest with yourself, God, and others.

Share your moments with the Lord with your spouse

Grow in your personal time with God, The Word, and Prayer:

• Personal moments (nature walks, jogging, meditation)
• Reading and hearing The Word
• Talking to God personally, and together

To grow with God, you have to put in the time.

Start where you are. Bring him what is on your heart.

Part of the Spiritual Growth Process is leaning into others. Begin to encourage people.

Encouragement is speaking courage into someone or something. Speak courage into yourself, as well as the situation you are in.

Commit to your local church. Lean into a group of people who are invested in the same thing as you. There are people there who love you, and who need to be loved by you.

Invest in your community. Figure out how you're going to invest in your people. 

Seek to be held accountable. Be in a position where you are teachable and coachable.

This Week’s Challenge: Encourage Someone

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Work = activity involving mental or physical effort in order to achieve a purpose or result

Three Areas of Growth

• Spiritual growth is growing with God
• Relational Growth is focusing on building your relationship with each other
• Physical Growth is building Health and Intimacy 

Areas we have put in the work

• Communication
• Making each other a priority over work/kids
• Scheduling time just for us
• Praying for each other

Remember that you are joining two families

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Evaluate Your Environment

• Watch for cues when they are “spent”
• Lean into whatever feels like rest
• Turn off the distractions and communicate to connect
• Ask your spouse what they need

Signs You’re Too Busy - Areas That Suffer

• Convos are surface; intimacy isn’t priority
• Use TV/phone to unwind or avoid
• Easily irritable + disengaged 

Create Your Culture - Intentional Reset

Listen

Observe 

Outline 

Keep going

Plan a date night/getaway and prepare your heart for honest conversation

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• “Offense is an event, offended is a decision” -Steven Furtic
• Live like we believe in the Bible
• Col 3:13 "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you"
• Forgiveness is a choice
• Forgiveness is a gift you give yourself
• Forgiveness is a gift you give your spouse

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Be Where Your Feet Are

Question: What are some of the non negotiables we put in place to make this happen?

Shut  Off What Is Distracting You

Get up extra early to work out and take care of stuff so you don’t sacrifice family time

Take a 15 minute nap to recharge so you can engage

Don’t be selfish

Engage with those in front of you

Are you in the moment?

What are you worried about?

Don’t miss out on today

Tomorrow will take care of itself

Matthew 6:34 is “Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. ... Each day has enough trouble of its own.”

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The First Thing We Learned: Know Who Is Leading

• If You’re Not In Rhythm And No One Is Leading, You’ll End Up Paddling In Circles
• It’s Not Just “Submitting To Your Role”, It’s Trusting That God Is Working In Your Partner, And Honoring Them By Letting Them Use The Gifts God Has Given Them
• Set Your Partner Up For Success Instead Of Assuming They’ll Fail

The Second Thing We Learned: Find Your Rhythm

• If You’re Simply Going Through The Motions, You Can Lose Sight Of Your Common Goal. It Is Best To Recenter And Work Together.
• Getting Stuck Is Common And Normal. Lean Into God And Understand You Aren’t Just Working Through Hardships and Challenges For Yourself. You Are Becoming Better So That You Can Make An Impact On Generations To Come

The Third Thing We Learned: Don’t Quit

• Understand That Quitting Is Not An Option. When You’re In The Middle Of The Ocean, The Only Way To Get Back To Shore Is To Trust One Another
• We All Get Tired And Frustrated Because We Are Trying To Do All The Work Ourselves; This Leads To Becoming Out Of Sync. Take A Deep Breath, Refocus, And Start To Work Together Again
• Recognize That Marriage Is Built For Two; We Don’t Complete Each Other, We Don’t Compete With Each Other, We Compliment Each Other.

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• To Be Intentional, You Have To Be Thoughtful
• Be Listening To What Your Partner Likes And Wants, So That When The Time Comes, You Can Make Your Partner Feel Special
• Ask Your Partner What They’d Like You To Wear, If They Have A Preference

The Second Ingredient: Have Fun and Laugh Together

• Make Sure It’s Light Hearted And Fun
• Laugh A LOT
• If You’ve Had A Tough Week, Think Back On What It Was Like When You First Started Dating And The Excitement That Came With That
• Make A Note On Your Phone Called “Date Ideas” And Share It With Your Spouse. When You See Something Fun You’d Like To Do, Write It Down

The Third Ingredient: Connect Through Conversation

• Initiate The Conversation, And Engage 
• Ask Questions Like: How Are YOU Doing? How Is Your Heart? What Are You Thinking About?
• If It Seems Like It Isn’t The Right Time To Ask A Certain Question, Move To A More Light Hearted One
• Communicate To CONNECT, Not Just To Get A Point Across

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