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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>We will dig deeper into numbers 6, 7, and 8 since those numbers are represented by Bryan, Lisa and Jeff. Can you relate to anything we say about a number?</p><p>We advise all who use the enneagram to use it as a tool to view through the lens of the Gospel. You can find arguments from all angles, so just pray about what God would ask of you when it comes to using any tool, symbol, teaching, book, etc.</p><ol><li>Loyal Guardian or loyalist (Phobic or counter phobic)</li><li>Entertaining Optimist</li><li>Protective Challenger</li><li>Peaceful Mediator</li></ol><p>Resources found at<br /><a href="http://www.myenneagramcoach.com">www.myenneagramcoach.com</a><br /><a href="http://www.Enneagramandmarriage.com">www.Enneagramandmarriage.com</a></p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Should Christians use the Enneagram?</p><p>Do your own research please! We advise all who use the enneagram to use it as a tool to view through the lens of the Gospel. You can find arguments from all angles, so just pray about what God would ask of you when it comes to using any tool, symbol, teaching, book, etc.</p><ol><li>Moral Perfectionist/Reformer</li><li>Supportive Adviser/Helper</li><li>Successful Achiever</li><li>Romantic Individualist</li><li>Investigative Thinker</li></ol><p>Resources found at<br /><a href="http://www.myenneagramcoach.com">www.myenneagramcoach.com</a><br /><a href="http://www.Enneagramandmarriage.com">www.Enneagramandmarriage.com</a></p><p>What the Bible says about our unique personalities</p><ol><li><p>Psalm 139:14 - Embracing Your Uniqueness<br />"I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."<br />We are wonderfully crafted by God’s hands, each with a unique design and purpose. This verse reminds us to celebrate our individuality and recognize the intricate care God has taken in creating us. Every detail about us is intentional and purposeful. Be encouraged that you are a masterpiece in God's eyes, perfectly made for His plans. [Embrace your uniqueness]with gratitude and confidence.</p></li><li><p>1 Corinthians 12:4-6 - Using Your God-Given Gifts<br />"There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work.”<br />God has given each of us unique gifts and talents. These differences are not just by chance but by God’s design to fulfill various roles in His kingdom. When we use our gifts, we reflect God’s creativity and wisdom. Take heart knowing your unique abilities are valuable and essential to God’s work. Use them to serve others and glorify Him.</p></li><li><p>Jeremiah 1:5 - Your Unique Calling and Purpose<br />"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations."<br />God has known us and set us apart for His purposes even before we were born. Our uniqueness is part of His divine plan and He has specific roles for us to play in His story. Feel encouraged that you are uniquely chosen and known by God for a special purpose. Trust in His plan for your life.</p></li><li><p>Ephesians 2:10 - Uniquely Made for Good Works<br />"For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do."<br />As God’s handiwork, we are designed with intentionality and purpose to do good works. This verse highlights that our creation was not random but purposeful, with good works prepared for us to accomplish. Rejoice in knowing you are created with a divine purpose to fulfill. Step confidently into the good works God has planned for you.</p></li><li><p>1 Peter 4:10 - Serving Others with Your Unique Abilities<br />"Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms."<br />We are called to use our unique gifts to serve others, being faithful stewards of God’s grace. Our individuality allows us to reach and impact people in ways others cannot. Be encouraged that your unique gifts can [make a difference in the lives of others]. Serve with joy and faithfulness.</p></li><li><p>Romans 12:6 - Diversity in Gifts<br />"We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith;"<br />Each of us is graced with different gifts that reflect God’s creative spirit. This diversity in gifts ensures that all aspects of God’s work are covered. Embrace your unique gifts and use them [confidently] in faith. Your individuality is a crucial part of God’s plan.</p></li><li><p>Exodus 9:16 - The Significance of Your Unique Purpose<br />"But I have raised you up for this very purpose, that I might show you my power and that my name might be proclaimed in all the earth."<br />God raises us up for specific purposes to display His power and proclaim His name. Our unique journeys and experiences are part of how God shows His greatness. Find comfort in knowing your life has a powerful purpose in God’s plan. You are part of something much bigger than yourself.</p></li><li><p>Matthew 10:30 - God’s Attention to Detail<br />"And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered."<br />God knows every detail about us, even the number of hairs on our head. This level of care and attention shows just how precious we are to Him. Rest assured that God cares deeply about every aspect of your life. You are intimately known and loved by Him.</p></li><li><p>Isaiah 64:8 - Uniquely Shaped by God<br />"Yet you, Lord, are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand."<br />As clay in the Potter’s hands, we are carefully and lovingly shaped by God. Each of us is molded uniquely, reflecting [God’s creativity] and purpose. Trust that you are being molded into a unique and beautiful creation by God’s hands. Embrace the process, knowing the outcome is wonderfully made.</p></li><li><p>Galatians 6:4 - Find Joy in Your Individual Path<br />"Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else,"<br />We are encouraged to focus on our own actions and not compare ourselves to others. Our individual paths are unique, and comparison only distracts us from our own journey. Take pride in your individuality and the unique path God has for you. [Celebrate your progress without comparison].</p></li><li><p>John 10:3 - Known by Name<br />"The gatekeeper opens the gate for him, and the sheep listen to his voice. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out."<br />God knows us by name and leads us personally. This personal relationship is a testament to our unique value to Him. Feel special knowing that Jesus knows you intimately and calls you by name. [Follow His lead]with confidence.</p></li><li><p>1 Samuel 16:7 - Heart Over Appearance<br />"But the Lord said to Samuel, 'Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.'"<br />God values our hearts over outward appearances. This verse encourages us to [focus on our inner character], knowing that’s what matters most to God. Be encouraged that God sees and values your heart above all else. Cultivate a heart that honors Him.</p></li><li><p>Proverbs 5:15 - Embracing Your Own Path<br />"Drink water from your own cistern, running water from your own well."<br />We are called to focus on our own blessings and resources. This verse reminds us to appreciate and nurture what God has uniquely given us. Find joy in the unique blessings and resources God has given you. Cherish and develop your own path.</p></li><li><p>Luke 12:7 - Valued Beyond Measure<br />"Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows."<br />God values us greatly, knowing even the smallest details about us. This assurance of our worth helps us overcome fear and anxiety. Take courage in knowing you are incredibly valued by God. <a href="https://marisadamore.com/verses/35-encouraging-bible-verses-about-self-worth">Your worth</a> is beyond measure in His eyes.</p></li><li><p>Romans 8:29 - God’s Unique Plan<br />"For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters."<br />We are predestined to be conformed to the image of Christ. This transformation is unique for each of us, reflecting God’s design. Be inspired by God’s unique plan to [shape you into the image of His Son]. Embrace the journey of transformation.</p></li><li><p>2 Timothy 1:7 - Living Fearlessly<br />"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind."_<br />God equips us with a spirit of power, love and a sound mind. Our unique spirit is a gift from Him to overcome fear and live boldly. Embrace the unique strength and courage God has given you. Live fearlessly and love deeply.</p></li><li><p>Psalm 119:73 - Purposeful Formation<br />"Your hands made me and formed me; give me understanding to learn your commands."_<br />God’s hands have formed us with purpose and intention. We are encouraged to seek understanding and live according to His commands. Seek understanding and embrace the unique way God has made you. Live purposefully in His design.</p></li><li><p>Jeremiah 29:11 - God’s Unique Plan for Your Future<br />"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."_<br />God’s plans for us are unique and filled with hope. This promise assures us that God’s intentions are for our well-being and future. Take comfort in knowing that [God’s unique plans] for you are for your good and future. Trust in His hopeful plans.</p></li><li><p>Genesis 1:27 - Your Individuality Reflects God’s Image<br /><i>"So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them."</i><br />We are uniquely created in the image of God. This fundamental truth affirms our inherent value and dignity. Rejoice in your unique reflection of God’s image. Celebrate your divine design.</p></li><li><p>Philippians 2:13 - God’s Unique Work in You<br /><i>"For it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose."</i></p></li></ol>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Should Christians use the Enneagram?</p><p>Do your own research please! We advise all who use the enneagram to use it as a tool to view through the lens of the Gospel. You can find arguments from all angles, so just pray about what God would ask of you when it comes to using any tool, symbol, teaching, book, etc.</p><ol><li>Moral Perfectionist/Reformer</li><li>Supportive Adviser/Helper</li><li>Successful Achiever</li><li>Romantic Individualist</li><li>Investigative Thinker</li></ol><p>Resources found at<br /><a href="http://www.myenneagramcoach.com">www.myenneagramcoach.com</a><br /><a href="http://www.Enneagramandmarriage.com">www.Enneagramandmarriage.com</a></p><p>What the Bible says about our unique personalities</p><ol><li><p>Psalm 139:14 - Embracing Your Uniqueness<br />"I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well."<br />We are wonderfully crafted by God’s hands, each with a unique design and purpose. This verse reminds us to celebrate our individuality and recognize the intricate care God has taken in creating us. Every detail about us is intentional and purposeful. Be encouraged that you are a masterpiece in God's eyes, perfectly made for His plans. [Embrace your uniqueness]with gratitude and confidence.</p></li><li><p>1 Corinthians 12:4-6 - Using Your God-Given Gifts<br />"There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work.”<br />God has given each of us unique gifts and talents. These differences are not just by chance but by God’s design to fulfill various roles in His kingdom. When we use our gifts, we reflect God’s creativity and wisdom. Take heart knowing your unique abilities are valuable and essential to God’s work. Use them to serve others and glorify Him.</p></li><li><p>Jeremiah 1:5 - Your Unique Calling and Purpose<br />"Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart; I appointed you as a prophet to the nations."<br />God has known us and set us apart for His purposes even before we were born. Our uniqueness is part of His divine plan and He has specific roles for us to play in His story. Feel encouraged that you are uniquely chosen and known by God for a special purpose. Trust in His plan for your life.</p></li><li><p>Ephesians 2:10 - Uniquely Made for Good Works<br />"For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, which God prepared in advance for us to do."<br />As God’s handiwork, we are designed with intentionality and purpose to do good works. This verse highlights that our creation was not random but purposeful, with good works prepared for us to accomplish. Rejoice in knowing you are created with a divine purpose to fulfill. Step confidently into the good works God has planned for you.</p></li><li><p>1 Peter 4:10 - Serving Others with Your Unique Abilities<br />"Each of you should use whatever gift you have received to serve others, as faithful stewards of God’s grace in its various forms."<br />We are called to use our unique gifts to serve others, being faithful stewards of God’s grace. Our individuality allows us to reach and impact people in ways others cannot. Be encouraged that your unique gifts can [make a difference in the lives of others]. Serve with joy and faithfulness.</p></li><li><p>Romans 12:6 - Diversity in Gifts<br />"We have different gifts, according to the grace given to each of us. If your gift is prophesying, then prophesy in accordance with your faith;"<br />Each of us is graced with different gifts that reflect God’s creative spirit. This diversity in gifts ensures that all aspects of God’s work are covered. Embrace your unique gifts and use them [confidently] in faith. Your individuality is a crucial part of God’s plan.</p></li><li><p>Exodus 9:16 - The Significance of Your Unique Purpose<br />"But I have raised you up for this very purpose, that I might show you my power and that my name might be proclaimed in all the earth."<br />God raises us up for specific purposes to display His power and proclaim His name. Our unique journeys and experiences are part of how God shows His greatness. Find comfort in knowing your life has a powerful purpose in God’s plan. You are part of something much bigger than yourself.</p></li><li><p>Matthew 10:30 - God’s Attention to Detail<br />"And even the very hairs of your head are all numbered."<br />God knows every detail about us, even the number of hairs on our head. This level of care and attention shows just how precious we are to Him. Rest assured that God cares deeply about every aspect of your life. You are intimately known and loved by Him.</p></li><li><p>Isaiah 64:8 - Uniquely Shaped by God<br />"Yet you, Lord, are our Father. We are the clay, you are the potter; we are all the work of your hand."<br />As clay in the Potter’s hands, we are carefully and lovingly shaped by God. Each of us is molded uniquely, reflecting [God’s creativity] and purpose. Trust that you are being molded into a unique and beautiful creation by God’s hands. Embrace the process, knowing the outcome is wonderfully made.</p></li><li><p>Galatians 6:4 - Find Joy in Your Individual Path<br />"Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take pride in themselves alone, without comparing themselves to someone else,"<br />We are encouraged to focus on our own actions and not compare ourselves to others. Our individual paths are unique, and comparison only distracts us from our own journey. Take pride in your individuality and the unique path God has for you. [Celebrate your progress without comparison].</p></li><li><p>John 10:3 - Known by Name<br />"The gatekeeper opens the gate for him, and the sheep listen to his voice. He calls his own sheep by name and leads them out."<br />God knows us by name and leads us personally. This personal relationship is a testament to our unique value to Him. Feel special knowing that Jesus knows you intimately and calls you by name. [Follow His lead]with confidence.</p></li><li><p>1 Samuel 16:7 - Heart Over Appearance<br />"But the Lord said to Samuel, 'Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.'"<br />God values our hearts over outward appearances. This verse encourages us to [focus on our inner character], knowing that’s what matters most to God. Be encouraged that God sees and values your heart above all else. Cultivate a heart that honors Him.</p></li><li><p>Proverbs 5:15 - Embracing Your Own Path<br />"Drink water from your own cistern, running water from your own well."<br />We are called to focus on our own blessings and resources. This verse reminds us to appreciate and nurture what God has uniquely given us. Find joy in the unique blessings and resources God has given you. Cherish and develop your own path.</p></li><li><p>Luke 12:7 - Valued Beyond Measure<br />"Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don't be afraid; you are worth more than many sparrows."<br />God values us greatly, knowing even the smallest details about us. This assurance of our worth helps us overcome fear and anxiety. Take courage in knowing you are incredibly valued by God. <a href="https://marisadamore.com/verses/35-encouraging-bible-verses-about-self-worth">Your worth</a> is beyond measure in His eyes.</p></li><li><p>Romans 8:29 - God’s Unique Plan<br />"For those God foreknew he also predestined to be conformed to the image of his Son, that he might be the firstborn among many brothers and sisters."<br />We are predestined to be conformed to the image of Christ. This transformation is unique for each of us, reflecting God’s design. Be inspired by God’s unique plan to [shape you into the image of His Son]. Embrace the journey of transformation.</p></li><li><p>2 Timothy 1:7 - Living Fearlessly<br />"For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power and of love and of a sound mind."_<br />God equips us with a spirit of power, love and a sound mind. Our unique spirit is a gift from Him to overcome fear and live boldly. Embrace the unique strength and courage God has given you. Live fearlessly and love deeply.</p></li><li><p>Psalm 119:73 - Purposeful Formation<br />"Your hands made me and formed me; give me understanding to learn your commands."_<br />God’s hands have formed us with purpose and intention. We are encouraged to seek understanding and live according to His commands. Seek understanding and embrace the unique way God has made you. Live purposefully in His design.</p></li><li><p>Jeremiah 29:11 - God’s Unique Plan for Your Future<br />"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."_<br />God’s plans for us are unique and filled with hope. This promise assures us that God’s intentions are for our well-being and future. Take comfort in knowing that [God’s unique plans] for you are for your good and future. Trust in His hopeful plans.</p></li><li><p>Genesis 1:27 - Your Individuality Reflects God’s Image<br /><i>"So God created mankind in his own image, in the image of God he created them; male and female he created them."</i><br />We are uniquely created in the image of God. This fundamental truth affirms our inherent value and dignity. Rejoice in your unique reflection of God’s image. Celebrate your divine design.</p></li><li><p>Philippians 2:13 - God’s Unique Work in You<br /><i>"For it is God who works in you to will and to act in order to fulfill his good purpose."</i></p></li></ol>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Enneagram The Greek word Ennea means 9 and Gram means points. The picture we often see drawn out is a 9 pointed star as a visual way for us to see each type and their tendencies.</p><p>References and resources: Relate Better Enneacast Podcast, Enneagram and Marriage Podcast with Christa Hardin, MA, Becoming Us by Your Enneagram Coach Beth McCord.</p><p>Gut Triad: 8 - 9 - 1</p><p>Heart: 2 - 3 - 4</p><p>Head: 5 - 6 - 7</p><p>@millionpodcasts</p><p>Number 40 married Couple Podcast</p><p>Number 96 in Christian Marriage Podcasts</p><p> </p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=John%2015&version=CSB">John 15</a></p><h3>The Vine and the Branches</h3><p>“I am the true vine, and my Father is the gardener. Every branch <strong>in</strong> <strong>me</strong> that does not produce fruit he removes, and he prunes every branch that produces fruit so that it will produce more fruit.</p><p>What does it mean to you do "Abide"? </p><p>What obedience is God calling you to right now?</p><p>We would love to hear from you.</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Israelites wandered in the desert because they never could FULLY obey. </p><p>God tells us that He will be with us no matter what, but he also tells us to obey His Commands. What happens when we are not fully obedient to the things God commands of us? How does obedience to God apply to marriage?</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>We get in trouble when our expectations are:</p><p>Unknown-We may not be aware of the expectations we have, but we all have them. Even if we feel we do not, we have expectations about others having expectations.</p><p>Unreasonable-Sometimes we feel we would like things a certain way, but just because that is what we expect doesn't mean, it is reasonable.</p><p>Unexpressed-How can our spouse possibly know our expectations if we do not voice them. </p><p>This week, the Fields and the Carters are both arguing and it all revolves about our expectations, communication about expectations and the lies we believe about our spouse when we do not voice our expectations and our spouse falls short.</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We get in trouble when our expectations are:</p><p>Unknown-We may not be aware of the expectations we have, but we all have them. Even if we feel we do not, we have expectations about others having expectations.</p><p>Unreasonable-Sometimes we feel we would like things a certain way, but just because that is what we expect doesn't mean, it is reasonable.</p><p>Unexpressed-How can our spouse possibly know our expectations if we do not voice them. </p><p>This week, the Fields and the Carters are both arguing and it all revolves about our expectations, communication about expectations and the lies we believe about our spouse when we do not voice our expectations and our spouse falls short.</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Amber for giving us the idea for this episode. The four of us sit down to discuss ways that we have had to purge in our lives because we did not recognize the need to keep pruning. </p><p>John 15:1 - “<strong>I</strong> <strong>am</strong> <strong>the</strong> true <strong>vine</strong>, and My Father <strong>i</strong>s <strong>the</strong> <strong>vine</strong>dresser. Every branch <strong>i</strong>n Me that does not bear fruit, He takes away; and every <i>branch</i> that bears fruit, He prunes <strong>i</strong>t so that <strong>i</strong>t may bear more fruit."</p><p>Philippians 3:12 - 114 "Not that I have already obtained <i>it</i> or have already become perfect, but I press on so that I may lay hold of that for which also I was laid hold of by Christ Jesus. 13 Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of <i>it</i> yet; but one thing <i>I do</i>: forgetting what <i>lies</i> behind and reaching forward to what <i>lies</i> ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus."</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thank you Amber for giving us the idea for this episode. The four of us sit down to discuss ways that we have had to purge in our lives because we did not recognize the need to keep pruning. </p><p>John 15:1 - “<strong>I</strong> <strong>am</strong> <strong>the</strong> true <strong>vine</strong>, and My Father <strong>i</strong>s <strong>the</strong> <strong>vine</strong>dresser. Every branch <strong>i</strong>n Me that does not bear fruit, He takes away; and every <i>branch</i> that bears fruit, He prunes <strong>i</strong>t so that <strong>i</strong>t may bear more fruit."</p><p>Philippians 3:12 - 114 "Not that I have already obtained <i>it</i> or have already become perfect, but I press on so that I may lay hold of that for which also I was laid hold of by Christ Jesus. 13 Brethren, I do not regard myself as having laid hold of <i>it</i> yet; but one thing <i>I do</i>: forgetting what <i>lies</i> behind and reaching forward to what <i>lies</i> ahead, 14 I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus."</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>This week we talked about a lot of things, as usual. But here are the sources for some of the specific things we mentioned.</p><p>"The Bible Recap" with Tara-Leigh Cobble. Go to this link to learn more.<a href="https://www.thebiblerecap.com/"> The Bible Recap</a></p><p>"The Power to Change" by Craig Groeschel. Go to this link to learn more. <a href="https://www.craiggroeschel.com/books/the-power-to-change">The Power to Change</a></p><p>Learn more about the movie "The Forge" <a href="https://kendrickbrothers.com/the-forge-movie/">The Forge Movie</a></p><p>The Quote from CS Lewis.</p><p>From a letter to an American woman, 31.7.62</p><p>I have a notion that, apart from actual pain, men and women are quite diversely afflicted by illness.  To a woman one of the great evils about it is that she can't do things.  To a man (or anyway a man like me) the great consolation is the reflection "well, anyway, no-one can now demand that I should do anything." I have often had the fancy that one stage in purgatory might be a great big kitchen in which things are always going wrong - milk boiling over, crockery getting smashed, toast burning, animals stealing.  The women have to learn to sit still and mind their own business: the men have to learn to jump up and do something about it. When both sexes have mastered this exercise, they go on to the next.</p><p>A clarification written 03.09.62</p><p>[this] is simply my lifelong experience - that men are more likely to hand over to others what they ought to do themselves, and women more likely to do themselves what others wish they would leave alone.  Hence both sexes must be told "mind your own business" but in two different senses.</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week we talked about a lot of things, as usual. But here are the sources for some of the specific things we mentioned.</p><p>"The Bible Recap" with Tara-Leigh Cobble. Go to this link to learn more.<a href="https://www.thebiblerecap.com/"> The Bible Recap</a></p><p>"The Power to Change" by Craig Groeschel. Go to this link to learn more. <a href="https://www.craiggroeschel.com/books/the-power-to-change">The Power to Change</a></p><p>Learn more about the movie "The Forge" <a href="https://kendrickbrothers.com/the-forge-movie/">The Forge Movie</a></p><p>The Quote from CS Lewis.</p><p>From a letter to an American woman, 31.7.62</p><p>I have a notion that, apart from actual pain, men and women are quite diversely afflicted by illness.  To a woman one of the great evils about it is that she can't do things.  To a man (or anyway a man like me) the great consolation is the reflection "well, anyway, no-one can now demand that I should do anything." I have often had the fancy that one stage in purgatory might be a great big kitchen in which things are always going wrong - milk boiling over, crockery getting smashed, toast burning, animals stealing.  The women have to learn to sit still and mind their own business: the men have to learn to jump up and do something about it. When both sexes have mastered this exercise, they go on to the next.</p><p>A clarification written 03.09.62</p><p>[this] is simply my lifelong experience - that men are more likely to hand over to others what they ought to do themselves, and women more likely to do themselves what others wish they would leave alone.  Hence both sexes must be told "mind your own business" but in two different senses.</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[Where are you discontent? What is the remedy to discontentment? Join us as we talk about finding contentment in your marriage and in your life this Holiday season. We will also talk about where Christmas Romance movies are accurate and inaccurate when it comes to real life love stories. We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com

Or on Instagram at Marriage_Infiltered_Podcast

We hope to hear from you!

 

Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Book: Swipe Right by Levi Lusko</p><p>Giving 50/50 adapted from Brene Brown</p><p> </p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[WOW! Have we got a powerful interview for you! October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. We decided to sit down with D and Jen Johnson to hear their story about walking through the diagnosis of Breast Cancer. You don't want to miss this one! We learned so much more than just what their journey looked like. We learned about how to walk with someone you know who has been diagnosed. We learned about what to do and say and what not to do or say. 
Share this episode with everyone you know, married or not. We all need to know how to walk with someone who is hurting. We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com

Or on Instagram at Marriage_Infiltered_Podcast

We hope to hear from you!

 

Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>What exactly does it look like to hear from God? When we remove distractions and pay attention we can hear what God is telling us and what He is asking us to. When we respond in obedience, we cannot limit the ways God wants to use us and bless us.</p><p>We will finish this discussion with powerful stories about encounters with God. We talk about the spiritual realm and what that looks like. </p><p>As always, we recognize our lack of theological training. We just read God's word and do our best to apply it to our marriages. Most importantly, we are open to hearing from God and what He is calling us to.</p><p>Share this podcast, like, follow, subscribe, rate or whatever your platform will allow you to do. </p><p>email us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Follow us on instagram @marriageunfilteredpodcast</p><p>Prov. 16:3, Prov. 16:9</p>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What impact do Anxiety and Depression have on a marriage? We hope you will enjoy our interview with the Saville's this week.</p><p>Scripture: Lamentations 3:19-25</p><p>Books:</p><p><i>Try Softer  </i>by Aundi Kobler</p><p><i>Healing Anxiety and Depression </i>by Daniel G. Amen, M.D.</p><p>Podcasts:</p><p>"Therapy and Theology"</p><p>Please reach out if you would like to further this discussion or have questions. <a href="marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com">marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</a></p><p>Follow us on Instagram marriage_unfiltered_podcast</p>
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Please be advised that this conversation includes discussion that includes Mental health issues as well as suicide ideation. </itunes:summary>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>In this week's episode, we talk about our recent experience with fasting, cold plunges, and supporting those who are doing those dumb things. </p><p>We need to care for ourselves completely. This means first our spirit, our walk with the Lord. Then mental and physical health must come alongside so we can honor God with our mind and our body as well.</p><p>Verses:</p><p>About training for Godliness: 1 Timothy 4:8</p><p>About Fixing our Minds on what is Good: Philippians 4:8</p><p>Email us: marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Instagram: Marriage_<i>Unfiltered </i>_Podcast</p><p>Go visit our friends to check out some really cool apparel and equipment that proclaim the truths from God's Word. <a href="https://gowildoak.com">https://gowildoak.com</a></p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>In case the Carters and The Fields didn't get vulnerable enough last week, we dig deeper into the fears we are experiencing. This week we bring a lot of Truth and Scripture into the discussion about what God has done Historically through people in their fear and what He can do in you when you are afraid. Are you living life in a way that you can risk everything because you fully trust God?</p><p>Scripture from this episode. 1 Samuel 17</p><p>Psalms 37:23-24</p><p>Proverbs 6:9</p><p>Other resources we mention:</p><p><a href="https://ref.thepourover.org/44a9ed80/">The Pour Over</a> a simple, true news source with some Biblical encouragement for how to handle the news. Click the title to see</p><p>Facing Giants by Malcom Gladwell</p><p><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/1FaUQdBGBMY1NkEbmsVGGM?si=9d8c18031a5449ce">Made For This</a> the Jenny Allen Podcast about Fear and Risk</p><p> </p>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 9 Feb 2023 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In case the Carters and The Fields didn't get vulnerable enough last week, we dig deeper into the fears we are experiencing. This week we bring a lot of Truth and Scripture into the discussion about what God has done Historically through people in their fear and what He can do in you when you are afraid. Are you living life in a way that you can risk everything because you fully trust God?</p><p>Scripture from this episode. 1 Samuel 17</p><p>Psalms 37:23-24</p><p>Proverbs 6:9</p><p>Other resources we mention:</p><p><a href="https://ref.thepourover.org/44a9ed80/">The Pour Over</a> a simple, true news source with some Biblical encouragement for how to handle the news. Click the title to see</p><p>Facing Giants by Malcom Gladwell</p><p><a href="https://open.spotify.com/episode/1FaUQdBGBMY1NkEbmsVGGM?si=9d8c18031a5449ce">Made For This</a> the Jenny Allen Podcast about Fear and Risk</p><p> </p>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>The fourth week of Advent focuses on "Love". The ultimate display of Love is celebrated this time of year. We discuss the importance of God showing His love for us by sending His Son. 1 John 4:9, John 3:16, Ephesians 1:4-6, Galatians 4:5-7, Zephaniah 3:14-17</p><p>Lest we keep it too serious, we get a little nuts with some Christmas Music and Holiday Movie Scenes. You will soon want to forget Jeff and Lisa's attempt at reenacting their favorite Holiday scene from a movie.</p><p>We love hearing from our listeners. You can email us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com </p><p>Check out Kenedi's rendition of what we do when we record and follow us on Instagram @Marriage_Unfiltered_Podcast</p><p> </p><p>This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship.</p>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Does "fake it till you make it" really work? What a debate we had on this one. What does that mean and can it change you? What it does "apple stapling" mean? You can't just replace the rotten apples and expect a healthy tree. All this and more as we challenge each other and especially Jeff. </p><p>"Apple Stapling" comes from "Marriage" a book by Paul David Tripp</p><p>This concept is actually found in scripture. Luke 6:43-45</p><p>email us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>or follow us on Instagram Marriage Unfiltered Podcast</p><p> </p><p>This podcast does not necessarily reflect the views and opinions of Stonegate Fellowship</p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Does "fake it till you make it" really work? What a debate we had on this one. What does that mean and can it change you? What it does "apple stapling" mean? You can't just replace the rotten apples and expect a healthy tree. All this and more as we challenge each other and especially Jeff. </p><p>"Apple Stapling" comes from "Marriage" a book by Paul David Tripp</p><p>This concept is actually found in scripture. Luke 6:43-45</p><p>email us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>or follow us on Instagram Marriage Unfiltered Podcast</p><p> </p><p>This podcast does not necessarily reflect the views and opinions of Stonegate Fellowship</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>If you haven&apos;t listened to episode 8 &quot;Unfiltered Motives pt1&quot;, you will want to do that before listening to this episode.
This week, we pick up where we left off in our discussion about motives. What are your motives for your actions or for change? We talk about what it looks like to make real, lasting change. </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>If you haven&apos;t listened to episode 8 &quot;Unfiltered Motives pt1&quot;, you will want to do that before listening to this episode.
This week, we pick up where we left off in our discussion about motives. What are your motives for your actions or for change? We talk about what it looks like to make real, lasting change. </itunes:subtitle>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 20 Oct 2022 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This felt a little like a venting session about how difficult parenting can be, but turns out we have a lot to learn from the challenges our kids face too. We have to experience the refining process to really learn and change. If our motives are to just make some surface change or behavior modification, lasting change doesn't really occur.</p><p>What happens when we just try to do things on our own or our way? Sometimes God allows us to face a challenge to get us to slow down and rely on Him.</p><p>"Worshiping the Creation over the Creator" - <i>New Morning Mercies</i> - Paul Tripp</p><p>Follow us on Instagram Marriage Unfiltered Podcast</p><p>email us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered does not necessarily reflect the views and opinions of Stonegate Fellowship</p>
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      <itunes:summary>What motivates your decisions? We spend a lot of time talking about parenting and wanting our kids to learn lessons naturally, but it merges into a great conversation about the value of us learning those things too. We got into such a great conversation, we lost track of time. We cut this one into 2 episodes and leave you with a cliff hanger.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>What motivates your decisions? We spend a lot of time talking about parenting and wanting our kids to learn lessons naturally, but it merges into a great conversation about the value of us learning those things too. We got into such a great conversation, we lost track of time. We cut this one into 2 episodes and leave you with a cliff hanger.</itunes:subtitle>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>We are clearly not theologians. Listen in as we debate what Jesus did and didn't do out of anger, what type of anger is okay and when is anger a sin. We also debate how some types of worship can make us uncomfortable and the negatives about social media. Please let us know if you have comments about this debate. Instagram at  marriage_unfiltered_podcast. email at marriage unfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Scriptures referenced: </p><p>"If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that."Luke 6:32-33, "</p><p>In your anger do not sin." Ephesians. 4:26</p><p>The views and opinions on this show may not reflect those of Stonegate Fellowship</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Oct 2022 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are clearly not theologians. Listen in as we debate what Jesus did and didn't do out of anger, what type of anger is okay and when is anger a sin. We also debate how some types of worship can make us uncomfortable and the negatives about social media. Please let us know if you have comments about this debate. Instagram at  marriage_unfiltered_podcast. email at marriage unfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Scriptures referenced: </p><p>"If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners love those who love them. And if you do good to those who are good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners do that."Luke 6:32-33, "</p><p>In your anger do not sin." Ephesians. 4:26</p><p>The views and opinions on this show may not reflect those of Stonegate Fellowship</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>Is anger a sin? This week, we meant to talk about something completely different, but our icebreaker conversation sent us down a rabbit hole about anger, worship, and social media. Hang on to your hats with all of these left turns.</itunes:summary>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Join us on Instagram @ marriage_<i>unfiltered_</i>Podcast</p><p>Email us: marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Episodes we revisit</p><p>S1 Ep.1 Who we are and Why Unfiltered</p><p>S1 Ep. 9&10 Unfiltered Love Languages & Unfiltered Digger Deep Into Love Languages</p><p>S1 Ep. 12 Unfiltered Love and Respect</p><p>S1 Ep. 14 Unfiltered Forgiveness</p><p>S1 Ep. 24 Unfiltered Selfless Love</p><p>S1 Ep. 25 Unfiltered Accountablity</p><p>S1 Ep. 27 Unfiltered Battle</p><p>Scripture Ref. The Sower and The Soil Matthew 13:1-9</p><p>The views and opinions on the Marriage Unfiltered Podcast do not necessarily reflect those of Stonegate Fellowship</p><p> </p><p> </p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 6 Oct 2022 17:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Eric and Teresa Villanueva have been married 22 years, but they almost called it 3 years ago. Their story of hope and restoration is one that will inspire any marriage that feels like there is no hope.</p><p>Eric joined us before on the "bro-cast" aka "Unfiltered Warrior" episode 22</p><p>Books mentioned on this episode: "Wild at Heart" by John Eldredge, "Captivating" by Stasi and John Eldredge, "The Power of a Praying Wife" and "Power of a Praying Husband" by Stormie OMartian</p><p>The verse Alissa was trying to think of is Hebrews 11:6 “<strong>It is impossible to please God without faith.</strong> Anyone who wants to come to him must believe that God exists and that he rewards those who sincerely seek him. . . ”</p><p>Follow us on Instagram Marriage_Unfiltered_Podcast </p><p>Email us at Marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com Share your story</p><p> </p><p>This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship Church</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 29 Sep 2022 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eric and Teresa Villanueva have been married 22 years, but they almost called it 3 years ago. Their story of hope and restoration is one that will inspire any marriage that feels like there is no hope.</p><p>Eric joined us before on the "bro-cast" aka "Unfiltered Warrior" episode 22</p><p>Books mentioned on this episode: "Wild at Heart" by John Eldredge, "Captivating" by Stasi and John Eldredge, "The Power of a Praying Wife" and "Power of a Praying Husband" by Stormie OMartian</p><p>The verse Alissa was trying to think of is Hebrews 11:6 “<strong>It is impossible to please God without faith.</strong> Anyone who wants to come to him must believe that God exists and that he rewards those who sincerely seek him. . . ”</p><p>Follow us on Instagram Marriage_Unfiltered_Podcast </p><p>Email us at Marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com Share your story</p><p> </p><p>This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship Church</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Why do we turn to control? Listen this week as Lisa and Alissa break down where the desire to turn to control comes from. Then where they have learned to go when they are being controlled by the lie of control.</p><p>"Fallen Eve" is taken from the book "Captivating" by Stasi Elderedge</p><p>"The Cost of Control" by Sharon Hodde Miller</p><p>The Marriage Unfiltered Postcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship church.</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why do we turn to control? Listen this week as Lisa and Alissa break down where the desire to turn to control comes from. Then where they have learned to go when they are being controlled by the lie of control.</p><p>"Fallen Eve" is taken from the book "Captivating" by Stasi Elderedge</p><p>"The Cost of Control" by Sharon Hodde Miller</p><p>The Marriage Unfiltered Postcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship church.</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>In our last episode, you hear all about the impact of broken trust in the Carter Marriage. This week, the Fields open up about knowing the real truth and how that helped them survive broken trust in their relationship. </p><p>Here are some scriptures that you can look up on the topic of Truth and Trust:</p><p>The Belt of Truth as a part of the Armor of God: Ephesians 6:13-20</p><p>Trusting God: Proverbs 3:5, Philippians 4:6-7, Romans 8:28, Luke 6:10, Psalms 27:14, 56:3-4, 118:8, Matthew 6:33-34, Hebrews 11:1, Isaiah 12:2, 26:4, 40:10, 40:31, Exodus 14:14, Hebrews 13:6</p><p>Being Honest: Proverbs 6:17, 12:17-22, 21:6, Luke 6:31, Psalms 15:2, 52:3, Ephesians 4:25, 1 John 3:18</p><p>Follow us on Instagram at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/marriage_unfiltered_podcast/">Marriage_Unfiltered<i> </i>_Podcast</a></p><p>Email us at <a href="Marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com">Marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</a></p><p>The Marriage Unfiltered Podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland Texas</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 15 Sep 2022 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In our last episode, you hear all about the impact of broken trust in the Carter Marriage. This week, the Fields open up about knowing the real truth and how that helped them survive broken trust in their relationship. </p><p>Here are some scriptures that you can look up on the topic of Truth and Trust:</p><p>The Belt of Truth as a part of the Armor of God: Ephesians 6:13-20</p><p>Trusting God: Proverbs 3:5, Philippians 4:6-7, Romans 8:28, Luke 6:10, Psalms 27:14, 56:3-4, 118:8, Matthew 6:33-34, Hebrews 11:1, Isaiah 12:2, 26:4, 40:10, 40:31, Exodus 14:14, Hebrews 13:6</p><p>Being Honest: Proverbs 6:17, 12:17-22, 21:6, Luke 6:31, Psalms 15:2, 52:3, Ephesians 4:25, 1 John 3:18</p><p>Follow us on Instagram at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/marriage_unfiltered_podcast/">Marriage_Unfiltered<i> </i>_Podcast</a></p><p>Email us at <a href="Marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com">Marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</a></p><p>The Marriage Unfiltered Podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland Texas</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>email us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>follow us at Marriage_Unfiltered_Podcast on Instagram</p><p>Thank you to Paul Tripp Ministries for this list of what Love is according to what Christ asks of us. We hope you will be challenged and inspired.</p><p>1. Love is being willing to have your life complicated by the needs and struggles of your husband or wife without impatience or anger.</p><p>2. Love is actively fighting the temptation to be critical and judgmental toward your spouse, while looking for ways to encourage and praise.</p><p>3. Love is the daily commitment to resist the needless moments of conflict that come from pointing out and responding to minor offenses.</p><p>4. Love is being lovingly honest and humbly approachable in times of misunderstanding, and being more committed to unity and love than you are to winning, accusing, or being right.</p><p>5. Love is a daily commitment to admit your sin, weakness, and failure and to resist the temptation to offer an excuse or shift the blame.</p><p>6. Love means being willing, when confronted by your spouse, to examine your heart rather than rising to your defense or shifting the focus.</p><p>7. Love is a daily commitment to grow in love so that the love you offer to your husband or wife is increasingly selfless, mature, and patient.</p><p>8. Love is being unwilling to do what is wrong when you have been wronged but to look for concrete and specific ways to overcome evil with good.</p><p>9. Love is being a good student of your spouse, looking for his physical, emotional, and spiritual needs so that in some way you can remove the burden, support him as he carries it, or encourage him along the way.</p><p>10. Love means being willing to invest the time necessary to discuss, examine, and understand the problems that you face as a couple, staying on task until the problem is removed or you have agreed upon a strategy of response.</p><p>11. Love is always being willing to ask for forgiveness and always being committed to grant forgiveness when it is requested.</p><p>12. Love is recognizing the high value of trust in a marriage and being faithful to your promises and true to your word.</p><p>13. Love is speaking kindly and gently, even in moments of disagreement, refusing to attack your spouse’s character or assault his or her intelligence.</p><p>14. Love is being unwilling to flatter, lie, manipulate, or deceive in any way in order to co-opt your spouse into giving you what you want or doing something your way. (continued on next page)</p><p>15. Love is being unwilling to ask your spouse to be the source of your identity, meaning and purpose, or inner sense of well-being, while refusing to be the source of his or hers.</p><p>16. Love is the willingness to have less free time, less sleep, and a busier schedule in order to be faithful to what God has called you to be and to do as a husband or a wife.</p><p>17. Love is a commitment to say no to selfish instincts and to do everything that is within your ability to promote real unity, functional understanding, and active love in your marriage.</p><p>18. Love is staying faithful to your commitment to treat your spouse with appreciation, respect, and grace, even in moments when he or she doesn’t seem to deserve it or is unwilling to reciprocate.</p><p>19. Love is the willingness to make regular and costly sacrifices for the sake of your marriage without asking anything in return or using your sacrifices to place your spouse in your debt.</p><p>20. Love is being unwilling to make any personal decision or choice that would harm your marriage, hurt your husband or wife, or weaken the bond of trust between you.</p><p>21. Love is refusing to be self-focused or demanding but instead looking for specific ways to serve, support, and encourage, even when you are busy or tired.</p><p>22. Love is daily admitting to yourself, your spouse, and God that you are not able to love this way without God’s protecting, providing, forgiving, rescuing, and delivering grace.</p><p>The Marriage Unfiltered Podcast does not necessarily reflect the views and opinions of Stonegate Fellowship in Midland TX</p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>email us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>follow us at Marriage_Unfiltered_Podcast on Instagram</p><p>Thank you to Paul Tripp Ministries for this list of what Love is according to what Christ asks of us. We hope you will be challenged and inspired.</p><p>1. Love is being willing to have your life complicated by the needs and struggles of your husband or wife without impatience or anger.</p><p>2. Love is actively fighting the temptation to be critical and judgmental toward your spouse, while looking for ways to encourage and praise.</p><p>3. Love is the daily commitment to resist the needless moments of conflict that come from pointing out and responding to minor offenses.</p><p>4. Love is being lovingly honest and humbly approachable in times of misunderstanding, and being more committed to unity and love than you are to winning, accusing, or being right.</p><p>5. Love is a daily commitment to admit your sin, weakness, and failure and to resist the temptation to offer an excuse or shift the blame.</p><p>6. Love means being willing, when confronted by your spouse, to examine your heart rather than rising to your defense or shifting the focus.</p><p>7. Love is a daily commitment to grow in love so that the love you offer to your husband or wife is increasingly selfless, mature, and patient.</p><p>8. Love is being unwilling to do what is wrong when you have been wronged but to look for concrete and specific ways to overcome evil with good.</p><p>9. Love is being a good student of your spouse, looking for his physical, emotional, and spiritual needs so that in some way you can remove the burden, support him as he carries it, or encourage him along the way.</p><p>10. Love means being willing to invest the time necessary to discuss, examine, and understand the problems that you face as a couple, staying on task until the problem is removed or you have agreed upon a strategy of response.</p><p>11. Love is always being willing to ask for forgiveness and always being committed to grant forgiveness when it is requested.</p><p>12. Love is recognizing the high value of trust in a marriage and being faithful to your promises and true to your word.</p><p>13. Love is speaking kindly and gently, even in moments of disagreement, refusing to attack your spouse’s character or assault his or her intelligence.</p><p>14. Love is being unwilling to flatter, lie, manipulate, or deceive in any way in order to co-opt your spouse into giving you what you want or doing something your way. (continued on next page)</p><p>15. Love is being unwilling to ask your spouse to be the source of your identity, meaning and purpose, or inner sense of well-being, while refusing to be the source of his or hers.</p><p>16. Love is the willingness to have less free time, less sleep, and a busier schedule in order to be faithful to what God has called you to be and to do as a husband or a wife.</p><p>17. Love is a commitment to say no to selfish instincts and to do everything that is within your ability to promote real unity, functional understanding, and active love in your marriage.</p><p>18. Love is staying faithful to your commitment to treat your spouse with appreciation, respect, and grace, even in moments when he or she doesn’t seem to deserve it or is unwilling to reciprocate.</p><p>19. Love is the willingness to make regular and costly sacrifices for the sake of your marriage without asking anything in return or using your sacrifices to place your spouse in your debt.</p><p>20. Love is being unwilling to make any personal decision or choice that would harm your marriage, hurt your husband or wife, or weaken the bond of trust between you.</p><p>21. Love is refusing to be self-focused or demanding but instead looking for specific ways to serve, support, and encourage, even when you are busy or tired.</p><p>22. Love is daily admitting to yourself, your spouse, and God that you are not able to love this way without God’s protecting, providing, forgiving, rescuing, and delivering grace.</p><p>The Marriage Unfiltered Podcast does not necessarily reflect the views and opinions of Stonegate Fellowship in Midland TX</p>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We reconfigured our mic setup, so bare with us as we try to have a conversation without hitting the mounts. We talk about what we have been up to this summer and what we are planning for the fall.</p><p>Kenedi's Cakes can be seen on instagram at kks_<i>bakery</i>_</p><p>Other names we drop and products, shows or places we mention:</p><p>Kalahari Resort</p><p>Tour de France</p><p>Hiit4fit</p><p>HotWorx</p><p>Orange Theory</p><p>Orange Leaf</p><p>Survivor</p><p>Amazing Race</p><p>Big Brother</p><p>Netflix</p><p>The Chosen</p><p>Peeky Blinders</p><p>Virgin River</p><p>Dream Home Makeover</p><p>Fear Factor</p><p>Jacobe Kendrick</p><p>Patrick Payton</p><p>Ariel Learm</p><p>Go to our Instagram page for all the hashtags and lots of photos.</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>We don't really have resources for this episodes. Much of it, we just pulled it out of nowhere...big surprise. LOL! </p><p>We are taking the summer off. (we are not sure what that means), but take this time to re-listen to some you missed or some of your favorites. </p><p>Email or DM us with your story about the silly fights you have had, the redemption in your marriage, the things you have learned in marriage or the things you have learned from our podcast. We want to share these.</p><p>Email or DM us with your questions or topics you would like covered.\</p><p><a href="marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com">marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/marriage_unfiltered_podcast/">https://www.instagram.com/marriage_unfiltered_podcast/</a></p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We don't really have resources for this episodes. Much of it, we just pulled it out of nowhere...big surprise. LOL! </p><p>We are taking the summer off. (we are not sure what that means), but take this time to re-listen to some you missed or some of your favorites. </p><p>Email or DM us with your story about the silly fights you have had, the redemption in your marriage, the things you have learned in marriage or the things you have learned from our podcast. We want to share these.</p><p>Email or DM us with your questions or topics you would like covered.\</p><p><a href="marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com">marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</a></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/marriage_unfiltered_podcast/">https://www.instagram.com/marriage_unfiltered_podcast/</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>God has equipped us to battle against the evil in this world. He has given us an armor, which includes the sword of the Spirit. This is God's Word. We used our "sword" this week by using all of the following scriptures:</p><p>Ezekiel 28:12-19, Revelations 12:7-12, Revelations 12:4, 1 Peter 5:8, Daniel 10, Job, Ephesians 6:10-13, James 1:5, Matthew 6:5, James 1:2 </p><p>Here is a prayer you can use to start each day putting on the Armor of God:</p><p>PRAYING THE ARMOR OF GOD: Ephesians 6: 13-18 Thank you, Father, for this armor you have given me. I pray for the desire to stand against the darkness and fight today.</p><p>BELT OF TRUTH: The belt of truth is the base that all other pieces connect to and are strengthened by. This belt is my integrity, my foundation, my center of gravity and my guide that holds my faith and everything else. Because I choose to live in His truth, no matter what the enemy throws at me, I can stand firm in Christ. Today I fight the lies against my body, my character and my desires.</p><p>BREASTPLATE OF RIGHTEOUSNESS: Now that I have my belt of truth buc kled firmly around my waist, in humility, I attach the breastplate of righteousness. This means that I choose to have righteous thoughts, words, and actions. This protects my heart against the enemy’s arrows of temptation. I choose today to believe your truth instead of my feelings. My heart determines the course of my life, so please protect it today. (Prov 4:23)</p><p>SHOES OF THE GOSPEL OF PEACE: I step into the shoes of the gospel of peace. I realize this peace is found through you alone, so I thank you and walk boldly today, knowing you are with me. I choose to be vulnerable and share the great works you have done in my life everywhere I go. Even when things are tough, I can have a peace that surpasses all understanding. (Phil 4:7)</p><p>HELMET OF SALVATION: I am secure by the covering of salvation. This is a free, precious gift from you! I am sealed and deemed holy by the blood of Jesus. So today, I put on my helmet of salvation and I reject the lies that wage war against my min d. I will fix my thoughts on what is true, honorable, right, pure, lovely and admirable. In Jesus’ name, I silence all voices speaking to me except the voice of Jesus. Please protect my mind f rom the things that have no place being there. (Phil 4:8)</p><p>SHIELD OF FAITH: I am powerless without you, Lord, but I can do everything through you. By your spirit, I lift up my shield of faith. With you, I am capable of extinguishing all the flaming arrows of evil. Your word says you will equip me to do your will so I’m going to step out in faith and obey. Today I fight against th e constant assault of hurt, betrayal, abandonment and discouragement. (Hebrews 13:21) </p><p>SWORD OF THE SPIRIT: I protect myself with the other pieces, but with the sword of the spirit, God’s word, I fight. The Word of God is my off ense, and it is sharper than any two-edged sword. It penetrates soul and spirit. By the power of my Father, I am able! I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Today I choose to believe The Word over the world. I trust in you, Lord; I say, YOU are my God. (Phil 4:13) (Psalm 31:14) God is my commander in chief who has provided me with His heavenly weapons of war. So, I stand armed and ready, knowing the battle is not against flesh and blood but against the rulers and powers and authorities in this dark world, and the spiritual forces in the heavenly realms. (Eph 6:12) Father, your word says, “Do not be dismayed or discouraged, for the battle is notmine, but Yours!” (2 Chronicles 20:15) Every day, I will suit up an d put on the armor ofGod, and then let YOU fight for me.</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 12 May 2022 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>God has equipped us to battle against the evil in this world. He has given us an armor, which includes the sword of the Spirit. This is God's Word. We used our "sword" this week by using all of the following scriptures:</p><p>Ezekiel 28:12-19, Revelations 12:7-12, Revelations 12:4, 1 Peter 5:8, Daniel 10, Job, Ephesians 6:10-13, James 1:5, Matthew 6:5, James 1:2 </p><p>Here is a prayer you can use to start each day putting on the Armor of God:</p><p>PRAYING THE ARMOR OF GOD: Ephesians 6: 13-18 Thank you, Father, for this armor you have given me. I pray for the desire to stand against the darkness and fight today.</p><p>BELT OF TRUTH: The belt of truth is the base that all other pieces connect to and are strengthened by. This belt is my integrity, my foundation, my center of gravity and my guide that holds my faith and everything else. Because I choose to live in His truth, no matter what the enemy throws at me, I can stand firm in Christ. Today I fight the lies against my body, my character and my desires.</p><p>BREASTPLATE OF RIGHTEOUSNESS: Now that I have my belt of truth buc kled firmly around my waist, in humility, I attach the breastplate of righteousness. This means that I choose to have righteous thoughts, words, and actions. This protects my heart against the enemy’s arrows of temptation. I choose today to believe your truth instead of my feelings. My heart determines the course of my life, so please protect it today. (Prov 4:23)</p><p>SHOES OF THE GOSPEL OF PEACE: I step into the shoes of the gospel of peace. I realize this peace is found through you alone, so I thank you and walk boldly today, knowing you are with me. I choose to be vulnerable and share the great works you have done in my life everywhere I go. Even when things are tough, I can have a peace that surpasses all understanding. (Phil 4:7)</p><p>HELMET OF SALVATION: I am secure by the covering of salvation. This is a free, precious gift from you! I am sealed and deemed holy by the blood of Jesus. So today, I put on my helmet of salvation and I reject the lies that wage war against my min d. I will fix my thoughts on what is true, honorable, right, pure, lovely and admirable. In Jesus’ name, I silence all voices speaking to me except the voice of Jesus. Please protect my mind f rom the things that have no place being there. (Phil 4:8)</p><p>SHIELD OF FAITH: I am powerless without you, Lord, but I can do everything through you. By your spirit, I lift up my shield of faith. With you, I am capable of extinguishing all the flaming arrows of evil. Your word says you will equip me to do your will so I’m going to step out in faith and obey. Today I fight against th e constant assault of hurt, betrayal, abandonment and discouragement. (Hebrews 13:21) </p><p>SWORD OF THE SPIRIT: I protect myself with the other pieces, but with the sword of the spirit, God’s word, I fight. The Word of God is my off ense, and it is sharper than any two-edged sword. It penetrates soul and spirit. By the power of my Father, I am able! I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. Today I choose to believe The Word over the world. I trust in you, Lord; I say, YOU are my God. (Phil 4:13) (Psalm 31:14) God is my commander in chief who has provided me with His heavenly weapons of war. So, I stand armed and ready, knowing the battle is not against flesh and blood but against the rulers and powers and authorities in this dark world, and the spiritual forces in the heavenly realms. (Eph 6:12) Father, your word says, “Do not be dismayed or discouraged, for the battle is notmine, but Yours!” (2 Chronicles 20:15) Every day, I will suit up an d put on the armor ofGod, and then let YOU fight for me.</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>All the wrong songs: We looked and found the actual songs we were trying to sing.</p><p>Money..."its a gas"  Money by Pink Floyd played on Dave Ramsey </p><p>Sunny by Bonnie M</p><p>Blinded by the light..."Revved up like a deuce" Blinded by the light by <a href="https://www.google.com/search?client=safari&rls=en&sxsrf=ALiCzsbXxq0-0pZPd0poQL7bEcZhx7icZA:1651703254358&q=Manfred+Mann%27s+Earth+Band&stick=H4sIAAAAAAAAAONgVuLSz9U3MMwuNC80W8Qq6ZuYl1aUmqIApPPUixVcE4tKMhScEvNSACI0LhkqAAAA&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjA-P-N8sb3AhUQlWoFHZX0CFwQMXoECBEQAw">Manfred Mann's Earth Band</a></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://wildatheart.org/podcast/)?page=1">John Eldredge Podcast</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/PaulDavidTripp/search?query=debt">Paul David Tripp Get out of Debt</a></p><p>Statistics from <a href="http://www.renolon.com">Renolon.com</a></p><p>Scripture:</p><p>Ephesians 4:28, Luke 14:25, Malachi 3:10, Matthew 6:26-34, Matthew 25:23</p><p>Additional resources we didn't get to: </p><p><a href="https://themoneycouple.com">The Money Couple</a></p><p><a href="https://www.ramseysolutions.com">Dave Ramsey</a></p><p> </p><p>This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship</p><p> </p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 5 May 2022 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>All the wrong songs: We looked and found the actual songs we were trying to sing.</p><p>Money..."its a gas"  Money by Pink Floyd played on Dave Ramsey </p><p>Sunny by Bonnie M</p><p>Blinded by the light..."Revved up like a deuce" Blinded by the light by <a href="https://www.google.com/search?client=safari&rls=en&sxsrf=ALiCzsbXxq0-0pZPd0poQL7bEcZhx7icZA:1651703254358&q=Manfred+Mann%27s+Earth+Band&stick=H4sIAAAAAAAAAONgVuLSz9U3MMwuNC80W8Qq6ZuYl1aUmqIApPPUixVcE4tKMhScEvNSACI0LhkqAAAA&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjA-P-N8sb3AhUQlWoFHZX0CFwQMXoECBEQAw">Manfred Mann's Earth Band</a></p><p>Resources:</p><p><a href="https://wildatheart.org/podcast/)?page=1">John Eldredge Podcast</a></p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/c/PaulDavidTripp/search?query=debt">Paul David Tripp Get out of Debt</a></p><p>Statistics from <a href="http://www.renolon.com">Renolon.com</a></p><p>Scripture:</p><p>Ephesians 4:28, Luke 14:25, Malachi 3:10, Matthew 6:26-34, Matthew 25:23</p><p>Additional resources we didn't get to: </p><p><a href="https://themoneycouple.com">The Money Couple</a></p><p><a href="https://www.ramseysolutions.com">Dave Ramsey</a></p><p> </p><p>This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship</p><p> </p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/s?k=the+good+girls+guide+to+great+sex&crid=1RBGC3UOFKDB8&sprefix=The+good+girls%2Caps%2C109&ref=nb_sb_ss_ts-doa-p_1_14">The Good Girls Guide to Great Sex by Sheila Wray Gregoire</a></p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Good-Guys-Guide-Great-Sex-ebook/dp/B0982ZPFMD/ref=sr_1_2_sspa?crid=1RBGC3UOFKDB8&keywords=the+good+girls+guide+to+great+sex&qid=1651085922&sprefix=The+good+girls%2Caps%2C109&sr=8-2-spons&psc=1&spLa=ZW5jcnlwdGVkUXVhbGlmaWVyPUFKVTY0WklTOE5MRkgmZW5jcnlwdGVkSWQ9QTA0MzExMzczRDkxQVVMQ1A0WDlWJmVuY3J5cHRlZEFkSWQ9QTAwMTIxNThNNjFaWVIyUFVEV0cmd2lkZ2V0TmFtZT1zcF9hdGYmYWN0aW9uPWNsaWNrUmVkaXJlY3QmZG9Ob3RMb2dDbGljaz10cnVl">The Good Guys Guide to Great Sex by</a> <a href="https://www.amazon.com/s/ref=dp_byline_sr_ebooks_2?ie=UTF8&field-author=Keith++Ronald+Gregoire&text=Keith++Ronald+Gregoire&sort=relevancerank&search-alias=digital-text">Keith Ronald Gregoire and Sheila Wray Gregoire</a></p><p> </p><p> </p><p>This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2022 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>This week, we will get really raw about the little decisions that make our marriage rich and worth fighting for. We will also talk about the decisions that slowly deteriorate and eat away at our marriage.</p><p>Books: </p><p>Marriage by Paul David Tripp</p><p>Love Like That by Les Perrott</p><p>Love and War by John and Stasi Eldredge.</p><p>What Did You Expect by Paul David Tripp</p><p>What decisions can you be in charge of today?</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>This podcast is not endorsed by Stonegate Fellowship Church</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week, we will get really raw about the little decisions that make our marriage rich and worth fighting for. We will also talk about the decisions that slowly deteriorate and eat away at our marriage.</p><p>Books: </p><p>Marriage by Paul David Tripp</p><p>Love Like That by Les Perrott</p><p>Love and War by John and Stasi Eldredge.</p><p>What Did You Expect by Paul David Tripp</p><p>What decisions can you be in charge of today?</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>This podcast is not endorsed by Stonegate Fellowship Church</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>We will dig into why Divorce is so painful. We will also talk about the way it has been talked about and handled among Christ followers. Can you get a divorce and still go to Heaven? Can you be remarried and still be used to further God's Kingdom. We take a stab at using scripture to answer these questions.</p><p>We also talk about when you SHOULD at least separate. And, when you have no control over your spouse's decision to break the covenant of your marriage and divorce is presented to you. </p><p>What is the difference between Covenant and Contract? Why does this matter?</p><p>What does it look like to have open doors of escape in your marriage and how do you close those doors?</p><p>5 reasons the Enemy wants your marriage to fail: <a href=" buildyourmarriage.org"> buildyourmarriage.org</a></p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week we address some questions from a listener. We suggest some resources such as Love and War, Wild at Heart, and Epic all written by John Eldredge and Stasi Eldredge. </p><p>Also, listen to Lisa guest appear on Enneagram and Marriage Podcast. She shares about Love language <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/enneagram-and-marriage/id1493137938?i=1000539607142">here</a></p><p>Listen to her interview about Forgiveness <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/enneagram-and-marriage/id1493137938?i=1000555424485">here</a></p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>   If you think your secret use of pornography isn't hurting anyone as long as nobody knows, you are dead wrong! If you want to talk to someone about healing and walking out of the abuse or addiction to pornography, contact us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com. Or message us on Instagram at Marriage Unfiltered Podcast</p><p>  We did some research...well, Alissa did because Lisa was getting grossed out. Here is what she found relating to the optic nerve and make genitals. There is no nerve directly from eyes to penis. The thalamus is a subdivision of the brain that relays sensory impulses to other parts of the body. So, the thalamus receives input from the retina, which is relayed to the brain via the optic nerve. </p><p>You can view the addiction cycle here. <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/eq9rekzdtmqkvp8/Slides%20for%20sexual%20intamacy-06.jpg?dl=0">Addiction Cycle</a></p><p> </p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>   If you think your secret use of pornography isn't hurting anyone as long as nobody knows, you are dead wrong! If you want to talk to someone about healing and walking out of the abuse or addiction to pornography, contact us at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com. Or message us on Instagram at Marriage Unfiltered Podcast</p><p>  We did some research...well, Alissa did because Lisa was getting grossed out. Here is what she found relating to the optic nerve and make genitals. There is no nerve directly from eyes to penis. The thalamus is a subdivision of the brain that relays sensory impulses to other parts of the body. So, the thalamus receives input from the retina, which is relayed to the brain via the optic nerve. </p><p>You can view the addiction cycle here. <a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/eq9rekzdtmqkvp8/Slides%20for%20sexual%20intamacy-06.jpg?dl=0">Addiction Cycle</a></p><p> </p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Take some note everyone. Learn about romancing your spouse, but more than that, learn about removing the pressure for your spouse to romance you!</p><p> </p>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 17 Feb 2022 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Take some note everyone. Learn about romancing your spouse, but more than that, learn about removing the pressure for your spouse to romance you!</p><p> </p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Matthew 18:21-22</strong></p><p><i>Then Peter approached him and asked, “Lord, how many times must I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? As many as seven times?” “I tell you, not as many as seven,” Jesus replied, “but seventy times seven.”</i></p><p><i>"</i>To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.</p><p><a href="https://www.brainyquote.com/authors/lewis-b-smedes-quotes">Lewis B. Smedes</a></p><p><strong>Forgiveness is:</strong></p><p>Giving up the right to get even</p><p>Acceptance</p><p>Forbearing</p><p><strong>Forgiveness is not:</strong></p><p>Letting someone off the hook. </p><p>Restoration of trust…trust is re-earned and re-built over time.</p><p>Automatic reconciliation.</p><p>Forgetting the offense.</p><p>A feeling…we can’t wait till we feel like it.</p><p>A response to an apology. We forgive because we have been forgiven. You may never get an apology.</p><p> </p><p>-This podcast is not a production of Stonegate Fellowship and may or may not reflect the opinions of Stonegate Fellowship.</p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Matthew 18:21-22</strong></p><p><i>Then Peter approached him and asked, “Lord, how many times must I forgive my brother or sister who sins against me? As many as seven times?” “I tell you, not as many as seven,” Jesus replied, “but seventy times seven.”</i></p><p><i>"</i>To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.</p><p><a href="https://www.brainyquote.com/authors/lewis-b-smedes-quotes">Lewis B. Smedes</a></p><p><strong>Forgiveness is:</strong></p><p>Giving up the right to get even</p><p>Acceptance</p><p>Forbearing</p><p><strong>Forgiveness is not:</strong></p><p>Letting someone off the hook. </p><p>Restoration of trust…trust is re-earned and re-built over time.</p><p>Automatic reconciliation.</p><p>Forgetting the offense.</p><p>A feeling…we can’t wait till we feel like it.</p><p>A response to an apology. We forgive because we have been forgiven. You may never get an apology.</p><p> </p><p>-This podcast is not a production of Stonegate Fellowship and may or may not reflect the opinions of Stonegate Fellowship.</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 27 Jan 2022 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>We have a lot of notes in case you missed anything.</p><p>Who Satan was: Ezekiel 28:12-15</p><p>Book: <i>Radient </i>-Priscilla Shirer <a href="https://www.bhpublishinggroup.com/products/radiant-3/">Buy Here</a></p><p>Spoken word video: <i>New Name - Hannah Wong of Hosanna Poetry </i><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w6uFqfzZ3KE">Watch Here</a></p><p>Scripture references with truth about who we are:</p><p>Ephesians 1:3</p><p>1 Thes. 5:23</p><p>Eph. 1:4-7</p><p>1 Peter 2:9</p><p>Ps. 91:4</p><p>Phil. 4:19</p><p>Is. 43:1-4</p><p>Matt. 18:10</p><p>John 15:15</p><p>Eph. 2:10</p><p>2 Cor. 5:17</p><p>1 Thes. 1:4</p><p>1 Cor. 6:19</p><p>Acts 1:8</p><p>Gal. 3:26</p><p>Rom. 5:8</p><p>John 8:36</p><p><strong>Praying the Armor of God</strong></p><p>Ephesians 6: 13-18</p><p>Thank you, Father, for this armor you have given me. I pray for the desire to stand against</p><p>the darkness and fight today.</p><p><strong>Belt of Truth</strong></p><p>The belt of truth is the base that all other pieces connect to and are strengthened by. This</p><p>belt is my integrity, my foundation, my center of gravity and my guide that holds my faith</p><p>and everything else. Because I choose to live in His truth, no matter what the enemy</p><p>throws at me, I can stand firm in Christ. Today I fight the lies against my body, my</p><p>character and my desires.</p><p><strong>Breastplate of Righteousness</strong></p><p>Now that I have my belt of truth buckled firmly around my waist, in humility, I attach the</p><p>breastplate of righteousness. This means that I choose to have righteous thoughts, words,</p><p>and actions. This protects my heart against the enemy’s arrows of temptation. I choose</p><p>today to believe your truth instead of my feelings. My heart determines the course of my</p><p>life, so please protect it today. (Prov 4:23)</p><p><strong>Shoes of the Gospel of Peace</strong></p><p>I step into the shoes of the gospel of peace. I realize this peace is found through you alone,</p><p>so I thank you and walk boldly today, knowing you are with me. I choose to be</p><p>vulnerable and share the great works you have done in my life everywhere I go. Even</p><p>when things are tough, I can have a peace that surpasses all understanding. (Phil 4:7)</p><p><strong>Helmet of Salvation</strong></p><p>I am secure by the covering of salvation. This is a free, precious gift from you! I am sealed</p><p>and deemed holy by the blood of Jesus. So today, I put on my helmet of salvation and I</p><p>reject the lies that wage war against my mind. I will fix my thoughts on what is true,</p><p>honorable, right, pure, lovely and admirable. In Jesus’ name, I silence all voices speaking</p><p>to me except the voice of Jesus. Please protect my mind from the things that have no</p><p>place being there. (Phil 4:8)</p><p><strong>Shield of Faith</strong></p><p>I am powerless without you, Lord, but I can do everything through you. By your spirit, I</p><p>lift up my shield of faith. With you, I am capable of extinguishing all the flaming arrows of</p><p>evil. Your word says you will equip me to do your will so I’m going to step out in faith and</p><p>obey. Today I fight against the constant assault of hurt, betrayal, abandonment and</p><p>discouragement. (Hebrews 13:21)</p><p><strong>Sword of the Spirit</strong></p><p>I protect myself with the other pieces, but with the sword of the spirit, God’s word, I fight.</p><p>The Word of God is my offense, and it is sharper than any two-edged sword. It penetrates</p><p>soul and spirit. By the power of my Father, I am able! I can do all things through Christ</p><p>who strengthens me. Today I choose to believe The Word over the world. I trust in you,</p><p>Lord; I say, YOU are my God. (Phil 4:13) (Psalm 31:14)</p><p>God is my commander in chief who has provided me with His heavenly weapons of war.</p><p>So, I stand armed and ready, knowing the battle is not against flesh and blood but</p><p>against the rulers and powers and authorities in this dark world, and the spiritual forces in</p><p>the heavenly realms. (Eph 6:12)</p><p>Father, your word says, “Do not be dismayed or discouraged, for the battle is not yours,</p><p>but God’s!” (2 Chronicles 20:15) Every day, I will suit up and put on the armor of God, and</p><p>then let YOU fight for me.</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
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      <author>marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com (Lisa Carter, Alissa Field, Bryan Field, Jeff Carter, Lexy Gladson, Hosanna Wong, Priscilla Shirer, Mandy Demerson)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We have a lot of notes in case you missed anything.</p><p>Who Satan was: Ezekiel 28:12-15</p><p>Book: <i>Radient </i>-Priscilla Shirer <a href="https://www.bhpublishinggroup.com/products/radiant-3/">Buy Here</a></p><p>Spoken word video: <i>New Name - Hannah Wong of Hosanna Poetry </i><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w6uFqfzZ3KE">Watch Here</a></p><p>Scripture references with truth about who we are:</p><p>Ephesians 1:3</p><p>1 Thes. 5:23</p><p>Eph. 1:4-7</p><p>1 Peter 2:9</p><p>Ps. 91:4</p><p>Phil. 4:19</p><p>Is. 43:1-4</p><p>Matt. 18:10</p><p>John 15:15</p><p>Eph. 2:10</p><p>2 Cor. 5:17</p><p>1 Thes. 1:4</p><p>1 Cor. 6:19</p><p>Acts 1:8</p><p>Gal. 3:26</p><p>Rom. 5:8</p><p>John 8:36</p><p><strong>Praying the Armor of God</strong></p><p>Ephesians 6: 13-18</p><p>Thank you, Father, for this armor you have given me. I pray for the desire to stand against</p><p>the darkness and fight today.</p><p><strong>Belt of Truth</strong></p><p>The belt of truth is the base that all other pieces connect to and are strengthened by. This</p><p>belt is my integrity, my foundation, my center of gravity and my guide that holds my faith</p><p>and everything else. Because I choose to live in His truth, no matter what the enemy</p><p>throws at me, I can stand firm in Christ. Today I fight the lies against my body, my</p><p>character and my desires.</p><p><strong>Breastplate of Righteousness</strong></p><p>Now that I have my belt of truth buckled firmly around my waist, in humility, I attach the</p><p>breastplate of righteousness. This means that I choose to have righteous thoughts, words,</p><p>and actions. This protects my heart against the enemy’s arrows of temptation. I choose</p><p>today to believe your truth instead of my feelings. My heart determines the course of my</p><p>life, so please protect it today. (Prov 4:23)</p><p><strong>Shoes of the Gospel of Peace</strong></p><p>I step into the shoes of the gospel of peace. I realize this peace is found through you alone,</p><p>so I thank you and walk boldly today, knowing you are with me. I choose to be</p><p>vulnerable and share the great works you have done in my life everywhere I go. Even</p><p>when things are tough, I can have a peace that surpasses all understanding. (Phil 4:7)</p><p><strong>Helmet of Salvation</strong></p><p>I am secure by the covering of salvation. This is a free, precious gift from you! I am sealed</p><p>and deemed holy by the blood of Jesus. So today, I put on my helmet of salvation and I</p><p>reject the lies that wage war against my mind. I will fix my thoughts on what is true,</p><p>honorable, right, pure, lovely and admirable. In Jesus’ name, I silence all voices speaking</p><p>to me except the voice of Jesus. Please protect my mind from the things that have no</p><p>place being there. (Phil 4:8)</p><p><strong>Shield of Faith</strong></p><p>I am powerless without you, Lord, but I can do everything through you. By your spirit, I</p><p>lift up my shield of faith. With you, I am capable of extinguishing all the flaming arrows of</p><p>evil. Your word says you will equip me to do your will so I’m going to step out in faith and</p><p>obey. Today I fight against the constant assault of hurt, betrayal, abandonment and</p><p>discouragement. (Hebrews 13:21)</p><p><strong>Sword of the Spirit</strong></p><p>I protect myself with the other pieces, but with the sword of the spirit, God’s word, I fight.</p><p>The Word of God is my offense, and it is sharper than any two-edged sword. It penetrates</p><p>soul and spirit. By the power of my Father, I am able! I can do all things through Christ</p><p>who strengthens me. Today I choose to believe The Word over the world. I trust in you,</p><p>Lord; I say, YOU are my God. (Phil 4:13) (Psalm 31:14)</p><p>God is my commander in chief who has provided me with His heavenly weapons of war.</p><p>So, I stand armed and ready, knowing the battle is not against flesh and blood but</p><p>against the rulers and powers and authorities in this dark world, and the spiritual forces in</p><p>the heavenly realms. (Eph 6:12)</p><p>Father, your word says, “Do not be dismayed or discouraged, for the battle is not yours,</p><p>but God’s!” (2 Chronicles 20:15) Every day, I will suit up and put on the armor of God, and</p><p>then let YOU fight for me.</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>In this special episode, Lisa and Alissa get deep into the lies we are being told and often believe. We hope you will listen, take notes, and share this episode as we unfold some important tools for defeating these lies. We want to give a special thank you to those of you who replied to our surveys about the lies you are trying to fight. We also want to thank those of you who have encouraged us to record this episode. Thank you Lexy Gladson, who believes in us and has encouraged us to dig deeper here.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>In this special episode, Lisa and Alissa get deep into the lies we are being told and often believe. We hope you will listen, take notes, and share this episode as we unfold some important tools for defeating these lies. We want to give a special thank you to those of you who replied to our surveys about the lies you are trying to fight. We also want to thank those of you who have encouraged us to record this episode. Thank you Lexy Gladson, who believes in us and has encouraged us to dig deeper here.</itunes:subtitle>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>We have a few resources for you this week, so you can look into this topic further. Click on the links below so you don't end up as confused as we are.</p><p><a href="https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language">5 Love Languages Test</a></p><p><a href="https://www.5lovelanguages.com/store/the-5-love-languages">5 Love Languages Book</a></p><p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-deeper-dive-into-love-languages-and-the-enneagram/id1493137938?i=1000539607142">Lisa Discusses 5 Love Languages and the Enneagram on the Enneagram and Marriage Podcast</a></p><p>We would love to hear all about what you have learned and still need to learn about. Email us <a href="marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com">HERE</a></p><p>Follow Us on Instagram Here</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Jan 2022 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com (Jeff and Lisa Carter, Bryan and Alissa Field)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We have a few resources for you this week, so you can look into this topic further. Click on the links below so you don't end up as confused as we are.</p><p><a href="https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language">5 Love Languages Test</a></p><p><a href="https://www.5lovelanguages.com/store/the-5-love-languages">5 Love Languages Book</a></p><p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-deeper-dive-into-love-languages-and-the-enneagram/id1493137938?i=1000539607142">Lisa Discusses 5 Love Languages and the Enneagram on the Enneagram and Marriage Podcast</a></p><p>We would love to hear all about what you have learned and still need to learn about. Email us <a href="marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com">HERE</a></p><p>Follow Us on Instagram Here</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>We decided to revisit love languages. After looking into this topic further, we realized that a second episode would help us all understand even more about this valuable tool. We will use the book &quot;5 Love Languages&quot; to read more tips and tricks for each love language. </itunes:summary>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>We have a few resources for you this week, so you can look into this topic further. Click on the links below so you don't end up as confused as we are.</p><p><a href="https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language">5 Love Languages Test</a></p><p><a href="https://www.5lovelanguages.com/store/the-5-love-languages">5 Love Languages Book</a></p><p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-deeper-dive-into-love-languages-and-the-enneagram/id1493137938?i=1000539607142">Lisa Discusses 5 Love Languages and the Enneagram on the Enneagram and Marriage Podcast</a></p><p>We would love to hear all about what you have learned and still need to learn about. Email us <a href="marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com">HERE</a></p><p>Follow Us on Instagram <a>Here</a></p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 6 Jan 2022 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com (Jeff and Lisa Carter, Bryan and Alissa Field)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We have a few resources for you this week, so you can look into this topic further. Click on the links below so you don't end up as confused as we are.</p><p><a href="https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language">5 Love Languages Test</a></p><p><a href="https://www.5lovelanguages.com/store/the-5-love-languages">5 Love Languages Book</a></p><p><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/a-deeper-dive-into-love-languages-and-the-enneagram/id1493137938?i=1000539607142">Lisa Discusses 5 Love Languages and the Enneagram on the Enneagram and Marriage Podcast</a></p><p>We would love to hear all about what you have learned and still need to learn about. Email us <a href="marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com">HERE</a></p><p>Follow Us on Instagram <a>Here</a></p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>Unfiltered Love Languages</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>Did you know that you speak and understand love in different languages. What a game changer to discover that your spouse isnt necessarily failing at loving you. Maybe they just show their love differently. This week the Carters and The Fields discuss Love Languages and all of the confusion in their own marriages when it comes to speaking and understanding different languages. </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Did you know that you speak and understand love in different languages. What a game changer to discover that your spouse isnt necessarily failing at loving you. Maybe they just show their love differently. This week the Carters and The Fields discuss Love Languages and all of the confusion in their own marriages when it comes to speaking and understanding different languages. </itunes:subtitle>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>What special memories do you have from celebrating the New Year in the past? </p><p>Do you stay up until midnight or are you a party pooper? </p><p>What have you seen God do over the past year? </p><p>What are you looking forward to in 2022?</p><p>How can you step into the new year with hope and excitement for what is to come?</p><p>Please subscribe, share, and rate us. Also, we hope you will contact us via Email marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com or Instagram Marriage Unfiltered Podcast. Let us know how we are doing. Ask us a question. Give us suggestions for topics. Thank you for listening so far. We are so excited to see what God has in 2022 for the Marriage Unfiltered vision.</p><p> </p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 30 Dec 2021 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com (Jeff and Lisa Carter, Bryan and Alissa Field)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What special memories do you have from celebrating the New Year in the past? </p><p>Do you stay up until midnight or are you a party pooper? </p><p>What have you seen God do over the past year? </p><p>What are you looking forward to in 2022?</p><p>How can you step into the new year with hope and excitement for what is to come?</p><p>Please subscribe, share, and rate us. Also, we hope you will contact us via Email marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com or Instagram Marriage Unfiltered Podcast. Let us know how we are doing. Ask us a question. Give us suggestions for topics. Thank you for listening so far. We are so excited to see what God has in 2022 for the Marriage Unfiltered vision.</p><p> </p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>We had hoped to hear more from you, but we hope you enjoy our vulnerable conversation about our favorite and least favorite things about Christmas. Maybe next year we can share your stories.</p><p><a href="https://open.spotify.com/track/59d79IC1QUCiWiEPb2bdLp?si=08bf750e6e2a465b">Carrie Underwood Drummer Boy Song</a></p><p><a href="https://open.spotify.com/playlist/39iiETvoYcRsRg4jVIJMkT?si=52822b29233341b1">Alissa's Christmas Playlist</a></p><p>The views and opinions of the Marriage Unfiltered Podcast may or may not necessarily reflect those of Stonegate Fellowship or the Marriage ministry at Stonegate Fellowship.</p>
<p><p>We can be reached at marriageunfiltered@yahoo.com</p><p>Or on Instagram at Marriage_<i>Infiltered</i>_Podcast</p><p>We hope to hear from you!</p><p>&nbsp;</p><p>Marriage Unfiltered is an independent podcast hosted by The Carters and the Fields. This podcast is not affiliated with Stonegate Fellowship in Midland, TX</p></p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 23 Dec 2021 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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