It creates distance, tension, and silent disconnection.

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we explore what’s really happening underneath mismatched desire… and why it’s not about libido, but the dynamic between you.

They share the patterns most couples get stuck in… and what actually allows connection, safety, and attraction to return.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• Why desire mismatch is normal, and why most couples still struggle with it
• How wanting more often feels like rejection… and how that shapes your nervous system
• What’s happening for the partner who wants less, and why pressure creates shutdown
• Why the pursue-withdraw cycle quietly erodes connection and attraction
• Why communication alone doesn’t fix this and what’s actually missing
• How to shift the dynamic so desire can come back online naturally

Desire mismatch isn’t the problem.

It’s how you’re relating to it…

And when that shifts…connection deepens, pressure dissolves, and attraction can return

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming April, June, and July Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration/Clarity Call here 

👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

It builds quietly… over time.

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we explore how masculine and feminine energy imbalances create emotional distance, shutdown, and the loss of polarity in relationships.

They break down the subtle patterns that lead to disconnection… why she starts to close… why he pulls away… and what it actually takes to restore safety, respect, and attraction.

This isn’t about blame. It’s about understanding the dynamic… and learning how to shift it.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• Why disconnection isn’t random and how imbalance builds slowly beneath the surface
• What happens when she holds too much, and why it pulls her out of her feminine flow
• Why does he shut down and how criticism, pressure, and feeling “not enough” impact masculine energy
• How both partners unknowingly reinforce the cycle of over-functioning and withdrawal
• Why communication alone doesn’t fix this and what’s actually missing
• How to begin restoring polarity through safety, awareness, and conscious repair

Masculine and feminine imbalance doesn’t mean your relationship is broken.

It means something deeper is asking to be seen.

And when you meet it consciously…she softens, and he steps forward. Connection deepens and attraction begins to return 💫

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming April Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration/Clarity Call here 

👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

It’s quiet.

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we explore the relationship reckoning that happens when the distractions fade… the kids leave… the chaos settles… and you’re left facing each other again.

They break down the patterns couples fall into during these life transitions… and what it actually takes to reconnect, rebuild, and consciously choose each other again.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• What happens when the “quiet moment” occurs, where relationships are revealed, and why most couples aren’t prepared for it
• When parenting was the glue, and now there’s distance
• How fear-based relating and overcorrection create disconnection in the second or even third relationship
• Why does it feel so unsafe for both partners when only one has their foot in
• Why desire fades and how it’s directly linked to communication and emotional safety
• What intentional dating actually looks like 

This moment in your relationship…isn’t the end.

It’s the exposure.

The invitation to ask:

Do we still choose each other?

And if the answer is yes… There is so much that can be rebuilt.

Because when you lean in consciously…connection can return, respect can deepen, and desire can come back online 💫

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming April Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we explore how unspoken hurt, unmet needs, and emotional disconnection slowly collapse polarity… and what it actually takes to rebuild respect, safety, and desire.

They share personal insights and real patterns they see in couples navigating resentment… and how this work, when done consciously, can bring you back to each other in a deeper, more powerful way.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• How resentment quietly builds over time and why most couples don’t catch it until attraction is already gone
• Why respect is the foundation of polarity, and what happens when it starts to break down
• How the cycle of over-functioning and shutdown looks, and how both partners contribute (without realizing it)
• How unresolved mother and father wounds show up in your relationship dynamics
• What it actually takes to repair that goes beyond surface communication or “talking it out”

Resentment doesn’t mean the relationship is broken.

It means something deeper is asking to be seen, felt, and repaired.

And when you meet it consciously… respect can return, polarity can reignite, and attraction can come back online. 💫

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming April Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

(EARLY BIRD PROMO: $500 OFF IF YOU REGISTER NOW UNTIL MARCH 23) 

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

🎁As promised, here is the link to the Jade Egg Program. Sign up and start your journey now! 

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/jadeegg

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Say it nicer.
Use the right words.
Resolve the conflict.

But what if resolving conflict isn’t enough to reignite attraction?

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we explore the difference between communication that stabilizes a relationship… and communication that actually creates desire.

This conversation goes beyond conflict resolution and into polarity, vulnerability, masculine and feminine dynamics, and the kind of honesty that builds erotic tension instead of resentment.

If things feel stable but flat… this one will land.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why resolving conflict doesn’t automatically rebuild attraction
• What is the difference between solving problems and creating polarity
• How unspoken expectations quietly kill desire
• Why resentment blocks erotic energy and how to clear it safely
• What is the role of vulnerability in building tension instead of defensiveness
• Why both partners must have two feet in to rebuild desire

Communication can stop arguments.

But when done consciously…

It can also rebuild polarity, attraction, and erotic aliveness.

And that changes everything. 💫

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming April Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

(EARLY BIRD PROMO: $500 OFF IF YOU REGISTER NOW UNTIL MARCH 23) 

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

🎁As promised, here is the link to the Jade Egg Program. Sign up and start your journey now! 

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/jadeegg

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

It gave language to patterns.
It is named attachment styles.
It identified triggers.

But something still wasn’t changing.

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we share why insight alone didn’t create transformation in their relationship and what finally did.

This isn’t therapy-bashing.
It’s a deeper conversation about embodiment, nervous system safety, and why talking about intimacy isn’t the same as practicing it.

If you’ve done the work… and still feel stuck… this episode will land.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• What are the beliefs we carried about therapy, and why we assumed it was the only answer
• What therapy gave us
• Why awareness without embodiment rarely creates lasting relational change
• How a braced nervous system blocks intimacy, even when communication improves
• What is the difference between talking about sex and actually practicing intimacy
• What shifted everything: somatic work, breath, polarity, co-regulation, and embodied presence
• Why immersive experiences create capacity that weekly sessions often cannot

Therapy can open the door.

But transformation happens when the body feels safe enough to soften.

And when safety returns…connection becomes real. 💫

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming April Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

(EARLY BIRD PROMO: $500 OFF IF YOU REGISTER NOW UNTIL MARCH 23) 

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

New positions.
More spark.
More effort.
More performance.

But what if incredible sex isn’t created by trying harder…what if it emerges when pressure disappears?

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we unpack why performance kills desire, how nervous system safety unlocks erotic depth, and why the sex only became incredible once the pressure to make it incredible was gone.

This conversation moves beyond surface-level sex advice and into embodied intimacy, sacred touch, and layered orgasmic experience.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why trying to fix sex rarely works and how performance culture quietly sabotages intimacy
• How the conditioning that keeps us in our heads instead of our bodies during sex
• Why pressure shuts down desire, and safety reopens it
• What is the sequence that transforms sex
• What are the four levels of orgasm, and why do most couples never move beyond the first
• How sacred touch practices shift intimacy from mechanical to embodied
• Why incredible sex isn’t forced

When intimacy deepens long enough…

It’s no longer about fixing sex.

And that’s when the sex becomes incredible. 🔥

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming April Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

(EARLY BIRD PROMO: $500 OFF IF YOU REGISTER NOW UNTIL MARCH 23) 

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

But what they’re actually longing for isn’t more performance… It’s more presence.

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, Kim & Roberto unpack why fading desire is rarely about libido — and almost always about emotional safety, nervous system regulation, and depth of connection.

They explore the difference between mechanical sex and sacred intimacy, and why so many long-term couples are unknowingly pressing the gas and the brake at the same time.

This conversation invites you to look beneath the surface and ask a more honest question:
Do I want more sex… or do I want to feel deeply met?

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why couples often think they want more sex — when what they’re actually craving is emotional intimacy
• How stress, survival mode, and emotional disconnection quietly shut down desire
• What is the difference between mechanical sex and sacred intimacy rooted in presence
• What are the four levels of orgasm, and why do most couples never move beyond the first
• How emotional safety, transparency, and vulnerability reopen the body.
• Why intimacy is cultivated through practice, not pressure or performance.

Sex doesn’t disappear because you’re broken.

It fades when safety fades.

And when couples learn how to restore emotional connection… desire often returns naturally.

The intimacy you’ve been missing was never about sex.

It was about depth.

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming April Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

(EARLY BIRD PROMO: $500 OFF IF YOU REGISTER NOW UNTIL MARCH 23) 

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we explore why so many couples feel numb, restless, or disconnected even when love is still present. They unpack how emotional and erotic hunger often gets misinterpreted as boredom, and why mid-life and long-term partnership amplify the call for depth, presence, and truth.

This conversation invites couples to slow down before making big decisions… and to listen more closely to what the body and heart are actually asking for.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why boredom is often a sign of emotional numbness or erotic hunger, not a sign that love is gone
• How routine, autopilot, and lack of presence quietly drain aliveness from long-term relationships
• Why midlife makes the longing for depth louder and why this isn’t a crisis, but an invitation
• What is the difference between feeling done and feeling numb
• What people are actually craving beneath the restlessness 
• How emotional safety and presence reignite desire more powerfully than novelty or performance
• Why depth, not distraction, is what brings intimacy back online

You’re not bored because something is wrong.
You’re bored because something deeper wants to be lived.

And when couples are willing to listen…relationships don’t end. They evolve.

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February and April Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we explore why midlife is often when real intimacy finally becomes possible. Not because everything feels easy… but because pretending, performing, and avoiding truth no longer satisfies.

They speak to the restlessness, desire for more, and emotional honesty that arise in this season and how couples can either grow apart or consciously meet each other in a deeper, more alive way.

This conversation reframes mid-life not as a breakdown… but as the beginning of a more truthful, connected relationship.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why midlife isn’t a crisis, but a wake-up call that something deeper wants to be lived
• How many couples realize they’ve outgrown the version of love they were taught
• Why surface-level intimacy and habitual connection stop nourishing us in mid-life
• How desire and sexuality often deepen with age, when truth and emotional safety come online
• Why midlife brings buried wounds, unmet needs, and unspoken desires to the surface
• How resistance shows up when growth is near and why resistance isn’t failure
• Why midlife love is no longer about habit, but about conscious choice and daily recommitment

Midlife isn’t asking you to blow everything up.
It’s inviting you to stop living on autopilot… and start choosing each other with honesty, presence, and depth.

That’s often where the relationship actually begins.

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February and April Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

👉 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

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TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we unpack why real relationship change doesn’t come from trying harder and what actually creates a lasting reset.

This conversation invites couples to move beneath behaviour, habits, and willpower… and into nervous system awareness, embodied truth, and sustainable connection.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why most New Year resolutions are rooted in shame, judgment, and pressure, and why they collapse so quickly
• How ignoring the nervous system sabotages behaviour change, even when intentions are sincere
• Why real transformation begins below the surface, not at the level of habits or communication scripts
• The difference between trying harder and building capacity, and why capacity is what relationships actually need
• How tantra supports embodied presence instead of self-improvement and why this creates lasting intimacy
• Why does one person choosing to go deeper often create safety for the other to follow

You don’t need a new version of yourself this year.
You need more capacity to stay present, regulated, and connected when life gets real.

That’s the reset relationships actually need.

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February and April Group Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we share a raw, real-life moment where everything felt destabilized and how tantra became the bridge that brought them back together instead of pulling them apart.

This conversation isn’t theoretical.
It’s lived.
It’s embodied.
And it reveals why this work actually creates lasting change, not by preventing hard moments, but by teaching couples how to return to connection when those moments arrive.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why tantra isn’t about staying calm or spiritual… but about learning how to come back when you’re activated or overwhelmed
• How shock and stress land differently in each partner’s nervous system, and why understanding this prevents blame and disconnection
• What most couples do when life falls apart… and how presence, breath, and containment change the outcome completely
• Why repair doesn’t have to be polite or pretty, and how honesty without harm creates real safety
• How delayed trauma shows up days or weeks later, and what allows it to complete instead of getting stuck in the body
• Why tantra builds capacity for real life, not control over it, and how this deepens trust, intimacy, and erotic connection
• What it actually means to choose each other again and again… even when everything feels uncertain

Tantra works not because life gets easier… But because you learn how to stay connected when it doesn’t. And that’s the bridge back to each other.

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we offer a powerful reframe: desire doesn’t die. It goes offline when the body is overwhelmed.

They explore how chronic stress, survival mode, and hormonal shifts shut down pleasure… and how safety, slowing down, and emotional repair bring intimacy back online in ways that feel nourishing instead of forced.

This episode is for anyone who wants to stop blaming themselves or their partner and start understanding what their body is actually asking for.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why stress is one of the biggest desire killers and how survival mode overrides pleasure, connection, and libido
• How chronic nervous system activation makes intimacy feel like effort instead of rest
• Why does desire not disappear
• How hormonal shifts in midlife alter the rules of intimacy, inviting presence over performance
• Why touch without agenda and connection without pressure are often what reignite desire
• How unspoken resentment and lack of repair quietly shut down erotic aliveness

Desire isn’t broken.
Your body is protecting you. And when safety returns, pleasure remembers how to rise again.

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples, we unpack why certain fights keep resurfacing in long-term relationships even when the topic changes and what’s actually required to interrupt the cycle.

They explore how nervous system activation, unmet needs, and missed repair keep couples looping… and how grounding, curiosity, and conscious repair can finally create safety, understanding, and real intimacy.

This episode is for couples who are tired of circling the same conflict and ready for a different way forward.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why repeating the same fight isn’t about the issue at hand… but about an unmet emotional need underneath it
• What happens in your nervous system when you’re triggered, and why logic disappears the moment conflict escalates
• How avoidance, shutdown, and makeup sex delay repair instead of resolving what’s actually happening
• What is the emotional and relational cost of unresolved conflict, and why does resentment build when repair is skipped
• Why grounding must come before communication, and what helps you return to your adult self during conflict
• How curiosity dissolves blame and opens the door to understanding, safety, and reconnection
• Why repair may be the most important love language couples were never taught

You don’t keep having the same fight because you’re broken.
You keep having it because something inside you is asking to be seen, met, and healed, and when that happens, intimacy can finally deepen.

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back for Couples), we invite you into a simple, powerful end-of-year ritual designed to help you slow down, feel, and consciously close one chapter before opening another.

This isn’t about resolutions or fixing anything.
It’s about reflection, compassion, emotional honesty, and intentionally choosing how you want to move forward, individually and as a couple.

This episode is a gentle invitation to reconnect, soften, and reignite your bond as you step into the new year together.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why rushing into the new year without reflection keeps couples stuck carrying unprocessed emotions forward.
• How conscious reflection helps you honour who you’ve become without judgment, blame, or self-criticism.
• What is the importance of celebration, and why does acknowledging what you've survived and grown through fuel intimacy and aliveness
• How to release old patterns, resentments, and beliefs with compassion rather than force.
• Why focusing on how you want to feel creates a deeper connection than setting rigid goals or resolutions.
• How turning reflection into a ritual strengthens devotion, safety, and emotional intimacy in long-term relationships.

This end-of-year ritual isn’t about doing more…
It’s about being more present with what already is — and choosing each other with intention as you step into what’s next.

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back for Couples) , Kim & Roberto break down the fairytale myth of effortless love and reveal what actually makes relationships thrive: repair, truth, emotional presence, and the willingness to grow together.

They share how old stories, early conditioning, and unconscious patterns shape adult relationships… and how choosing each other through the uncomfortable moments creates deeper safety, connection, and desire.

This episode is a powerful reminder that the couples who thrive aren’t the ones who avoid rupture — they’re the ones who repair with intention and love.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why the belief that love should be effortless sets couples up for disappointment and disconnection
• How childhood stories, family patterns, and early relationships quietly shape what we expect from love as adults
• Why growth triggers old wounds and how those unconscious patterns show up inside long-term relationships.
• How repair is an erotic superpower and why it strengthens connection far more than avoiding conflict ever could
• How choosing each other again and again creates long-term love that feels grounded, safe, intimate, and wildly fulfilling

Love isn’t effortless… It’s chosen. And when you choose each other with intention, your relationship becomes the most powerful place for healing and awakening.

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back for Couples), we bring a grounded, compassionate truth: trauma doesn’t mean you’re damaged. It means you’re human. It means your nervous system adapted to survive.

They share vulnerable stories, body-based insights, and the patterns they see inside couples' work. From the shutdowns, the reactions, the fears, and why these aren’t personality flaws but protective strategies that were never witnessed or supported.

This episode is an invitation into self-compassion, emotional truth, and the kind of partnership that makes healing possible.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why most people misunderstand trauma and assume it only applies to the “big stuff,” missing the emotional paper cuts that shape adult intimacy
• How your nervous system creates protective patterns and why shutdown, defensiveness, or reactivity are intelligent survival responses
• How trauma shows up most clearly in relationships through conflict, avoidance, disconnection, and fear of vulnerability
• Why integration and not erasing the past, create emotional safety, embodiment, and deeper intimacy
• What happens when you finally feel safe enough for your trauma patterns to reveal themselves in partnership
• How conscious couples support each other’s healing through presence, curiosity, grounding, and truth

Trauma doesn’t make you damaged… it makes you human — and when held with love, it becomes the pathway to deeper connection.

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

We share vulnerable stories, body-based wisdom, and the exact practices that help women and men release shame, reconnect to their bodies, and rebuild erotic confidence that feels grounded, empowered, and deeply alive.

This episode is for anyone who wants their pleasure back… and is ready for a more soulful, embodied sexual connection.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why desire doesn’t fade with age… it deepens when shame and conditioning begin to fall away
• How early sexual messaging shapes your adult sexual confidence and why reclaiming it requires truth, safety, and nervous system repair
• For women: How slowing down, softening, embodiment, and inner permission awaken your erotic fire
• For men: How performance pressure, shame, and fear of failure block pleasure… and how presence reconnects them to their masculine erotic energy
• Why erotic energy after 40 is more powerful, intuitive, and grounded than anything you experienced in your twenties
• How to rebuild erotic confidence inside long-term relationships through truth, touch, safety, and conscious intimacy practices

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of Reignite: Love, Sex & Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples), we explore why old hurts resurface, why the same arguments repeat, and how conscious repair brings your relationship into deeper emotional and erotic intimacy.

They share vulnerable stories, body-based wisdom, and the exact practices that help couples rebuild trust, stay grounded, and reconnect even when the nervous system wants to shut down or push away.

This conversation will support anyone ready to stop avoiding conflict and start healing what’s underneath it.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode

• Why do old hurts linger until they’re witnessed, and why does your body repeat the same patterns in relationships
• What actually happens in your nervous system during conflict, and why small triggers create big reactions
• How avoidance builds resentment… and why repair, not time, is what truly softens wounds
• For women: Why being heard, not fixed, restores safety and opens the body to deeper intimacy
• For men: How fear of failure, rejection, and shutdown shapes the way they respond in conflict
• How softening, grounding, and truth turn conflict into connection
• What are simple, daily practices that help couples repair faster and reconnect more deeply than ever

Conflict isn’t a sign something’s wrong… It’s a sign that something deeper is ready to be healed, witnessed, and transformed into love.

✨ Save your spot for our upcoming February Couples Retreat: A sacred, guided experience for five couples ready to reconnect, heal, and reignite. Reserve your retreat spot here:

👉 https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

💫 If you have questions or want to talk before booking, you can schedule an Exploration Call here 

 https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

🌙 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of the Reignite Love, Sex, and Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as: "Get Your Sexy Back for Couples Podcast"), we explore how touch, truth, presence, and nervous-system attunement create the kind of intimacy that makes sex feel deeper, safer, and more satisfying.

They share the real stories, patterns, and practices that help couples rebuild closeness even when things feel distant, awkward, or shut down. And how devotion (not performance) is what keeps desire alive.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• Why intimacy begins long before sex
• How simple acts of presence create more erot!c charge than you think
• What is the power of touch as communication, and why can a single hand on the hip shift everything
• How to express needs without activating defensiveness (and why invitations work better than criticism)
• What happens to men when intimacy fades
• Why pleasure evolves with age,  and how deeper intimacy, slowness, and presence unlock more satisfying sex than you ever had in your twenties.

Intimacy isn’t something you “fix” in the bedroom. It’s something you build in every moment you choose truth, touch, presence, and devotion.

That’s where erot!c connection comes alive… and where your relationship begins to rise.

Our Group Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration.

Here’s what you can expect at our retreats:

• A safe, intimate container where every couple chooses growth
• Practices that help you witness and be witnessed without judgment
• Opportunities to see yourself through the lens of others’ experiences
• Time to integrate and connect privately with your partner

This kind of reflection is priceless.

It’s not about being like anyone else… It’s about finally seeing yourself clearly and choosing the way forward with your partner.

How many times have you pulled away instead of leaning in? How long do you want that pattern to run your relationship?

We’re keeping this retreat small - just 5 couples - so you get the intimacy and support you deserve. Rooms (GeoDomes or cottages) are chosen first-come, first-served.

👉 Say yes to seeing yourself more clearly… reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

👉 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of Reignite Love, Sex, and Truth for Conscious Couples (formerly known as Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples), we explore how stability and spark work together to create a relationship that feels safe, alive, playful, and deeply connected.

They share personal stories and practical wisdom from their own journey and the couples they support inside Phoenix Rising Retreats.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• Why long-term love often drifts into “roommate mode”
• How stability without passion quietly erodes intimacy
• How erotic polarity reignites desire  
• Why passion fades (it’s not age or compatibility) and how to rebuild it through play, presence, and nervous-system safety
• For women: How pleasure, radiance, and aliveness return when you stop over-functioning and start feeling again
• For men: Why presence and not performance is the most powerful sexual energy you can bring to your relationship.
• What are the simple, daily practices to restore both passion and partnership even in the busiest seasons of life

Passion doesn’t die with time... it dies when we stop feeding the fire.
Partnership doesn’t have to feel boring...it becomes magnetic when both partners choose to stay awake in love.

Our Group Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration.

Here’s what you can expect at our retreats:

• A safe, intimate container where every couple chooses growth
• Practices that help you witness and be witnessed without judgment
• Opportunities to see yourself through the lens of others’ experiences
• Time to integrate and connect privately with your partner

This kind of reflection is priceless.

It’s not about being like anyone else… It’s about finally seeing yourself clearly and choosing the way forward with your partner.

How many times have you pulled away instead of leaning in? How long do you want that pattern to run your relationship?

We’re keeping this retreat small - just 5 couples - so you get the intimacy and support you deserve. Rooms (GeoDomes or cottages) are chosen first-come, first-served.

👉 Say yes to seeing yourself more clearly… reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

👉 Sign up for our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to Infuse Tantra into your Relationship here:

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of the Reignite Love, Sex, and Truth for Conscious Couples (formally known as: Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples) , we dive into the truth about the conversations most couples avoid and how those silences slowly create distance, resentment, and disconnection in love, sex, and everyday intimacy.

They share personal stories and practical tools to help you find your voice again  and learn how to bring truth, presence, and safety back into your relationship.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• Why silence feels safer than truth and how it slowly kills intimacy in long-term relationships
• How cultural conditioning teaches us to avoid conflict and why that conditioning keeps us from real connection
• What are the three foundations of conscious communication and how to rebuild them together
• For women: how reclaiming your voice through body-led truth opens a deeper level of intimacy and desire
• For men: why presence and not fixing is the most powerful way to create safety and connection
• How to start the hard conversations without blowing things up and how vulnerability becomes the path to reconnection

The truth doesn’t destroy love — it deepens it.
When you speak what’s real, connection returns.

Our Group Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration.

Here’s what you can expect in our retreats:

• A lakeside sanctuary with space to slow down and breathe again
• Daily practices that build intimacy, presence, and passion
• Support from us in an intimate, like-minded group
• Nourishing meals, cozy fires, and private moments together with no distractions
• The chance to take everything you’re learning back into your bedroom…and feel the difference

If you’ve been waiting for the right time, this is it.

Come and see how much more is possible for your relationship.

Only 5 couples. First-come, first-served for your room selection (GeoDomes or cottage rooms).

👉 Say YES to more...reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats
👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this or a private retreat is the right fit https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

👉 Sign - up to our newsletter to get up to date on everything we have coming and get your free resource of: 5 Simple Ways to infuse Tantra into your Relationship here

https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/tantra

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we get real about what sacred sex actually looks like in long-term love... the raw, embodied, everyday version that deepens intimacy long after the honeymoon phase fades.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• Why Tantra isn’t something you do — it’s a way of being
• How presence, breath, and awareness change everything in intimacy
• What sacred sexuality looks like in real life beyond the fantasy
• How to bring it into the small moments of daily connection
• How Tantra becomes a living practice, one that transforms your sex life, your communication, and your relationship as a whole
• For women: How reclaiming your erotic aliveness starts with safety, breath, and letting go of performance
• For men: Why true masculine power is about presence, not performance. How to hold space for depth, emotion, and pleasure

Sacred sex isn’t something to chase.
It’s something you learn to live, breath by breath, touch by touch, and truth by truth.

If you’re ready to experience what this feels like in your own relationship, we’d love to explore that with you.

OUR NEXT GROUP RETREAT IS FEBRUARY 12 - 15 AND REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN!

How long has it been since sex felt playful, safe, and free?
You don’t have to wait.

Here’s what you can expect:

• Practices that help you reconnect to your erotic aliveness
• A safe, non-judgmental space where nothing is “too much”
• Permission to explore intimacy in your own timing and your own way
• Private moments where you can bring everything you’re learning into your sex life

This is about more than better sex… It’s about remembering how alive your love can feel.

We’re keeping this retreat small - just 5 couples - so you’ll want to register early to get your choice of room (GeoDomes or cottage).

👉 Say yes to intimacy without shame - reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

She’s craving more. More depth, more presence, and more intimacy. He thinks everything’s fine.

That space in between? That’s the pleasure gap.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we open a real, raw conversation about how to close the gap: emotionally, energetically, and sexually, so you can rediscover a connection that actually feels alive.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• What the “pleasure gap” actually is and why it’s not just about sex, but about emotional and nervous-system disconnection
• Why do so many women lose their desire, and how can safety, presence, and effective communication reignite it
• What is the truth about men and misunderstanding
• What is the importance of having the courage to speak what’s unsaid, and how can honesty rebuild trust and intimacy fast
• What are simple, powerful ways couples can reconnect, even after years of disconnection or resentment

The pleasure gap isn’t something to fix; it’s something to feel through, together.
When safety and presence return, desire naturally rises again.

Our Group Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration.

Here’s what you can expect:
• A lakeside sanctuary with space to slow down and breathe again
• Daily practices that build intimacy, presence, and passion
• Support from us in an intimate, like-minded group
• Nourishing meals, cozy fires, and private moments together with no distractions
• The chance to take everything you’re learning back into your bedroom…and feel the difference

If you’ve been waiting for the right time, this is it.

Come and see how much more is possible for your relationship.

Only 5 couples. First-come, first-served for your room selection (GeoDomes or cottage rooms).

👉 Reserve your retreat spot here: https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit: https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we open an honest conversation about what really happens when bodies, hormones, and desires begin to shift and how to navigate those changes together with compassion, curiosity, and connection.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• Why your body isn’t broken but evolving
• How slowing down transforms intimacy from performance-based sex to presence, touch, and connection that actually feels nourishing
• What is the role of shame and silence in disconnecting couples and how naming what’s real helps desire return
• How redefining intimacy beyond “orgasm goals” discovering devotion, play, and energy that ripple through every part of your relationship
• Why midlife isn’t a crisis but it’s a rising
• How to reclaim sensuality and emotional safety in this new chapter

Your body is wiser now. Your love can be deeper, softer, and more passionate than ever ... if you slow down and let it lead

SPOTS ARE NOW OPEN FOR OUR FEBRUARY 12 - 15 GROUP COUPLES RETREAT AT PHOENIX RISING

Here’s what you can expect:
• Guided practices to help you meet your triggers with compassion
• Tools to rewire old patterns and stay grounded in the moment
• A supportive, non-judgmental environment where healing happens naturally
• Private time together to integrate and reconnect after each session

👉 Say yes to breaking old patterns - reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

P.S. We still have a lot of other dates open, you can check out our website to reserve spots. 

About us: 
Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share the truth about what real couples retreats are like and why they’re nothing like the movie.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• Why Hollywood’s version of couples retreats creates more fear than healing, and how that misconception stops couples from getting real help.
• What is the truth about tantra and what it actually is (and isn’t)
• What is the importance of consent
• Why waiting until your relationship is “on the rocks” makes healing harder and how coming sooner can transform everything.
• What real retreats feel like ...how depth, laughter, sensuality, and play in a space where transformation happens through safety, not shame, looks like

You don’t have to wait for a crisis to reconnect. Real retreats aren’t about breaking you down...they’re about helping you remember the truth of who you are, together.

REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOW FOR OUR FEBRUARY 12-15 GROUP COUPLES RETREAT AT PHOENIX RISING.

Here’s what you can expect:
• Daily practices to help you reconnect beyond the day-to-day
• Space to set down stress and rediscover each other as lovers
• Guidance from us and the support of a like-minded group
• Private moments where intimacy can naturally rekindle

We keep this retreat intentionally small. It is just 5 couples, so there’s space for genuine connection.

👉 Say yes to becoming lovers again and reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and or if you feel like a private couples retreat is more for you and your partner
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

P.S. If this date does not work for you, you can check out the other dates on our website so you can be a part of our retreats that will give you the same chance to reignite what’s been waiting underneath.

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we open up about how to recognize when your nervous systems are running the show and how to repair and reconnect when it happens.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

• What is the real reason behind recurring fights, and why it’s rarely about what you think
• How the nervous system drives reactivity, defensiveness, and shutdown in moments of conflict
• What is the hidden cost of unresolved arguments, and how do  they quietly erode intimacy and trust
• How does the shift from blame to curiosity look like, and how does that one change transform conflict into connection
• What are the practical tools for regulation and repair so you can anchor yourself and your partner in safety
• Why retreats work when nothing else has and how new environments accelerate healing and intimacy

If you’re ready to stop fighting the same fight and start feeling safe, seen, and connected again, this episode is your roadmap back to love.

REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOW FOR OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP COUPLE RETREAT AT PHOENIX RISING.

Here’s what you’ll experience:

• Sacred intimacy rituals that blend healing and pleasure
• Practices that make sex less about performance and more about play
• Space to take everything back into your room… and let it get hot in your own way
• The safety of a group container where shame dissolves and passion expands

This isn’t about adding “spice.” It’s about remembering how good it feels to choose each other… body, heart, and soul.

Only 5 couples. Rooms are filling first-come, first-served (GeoDomes or cottage).

👉 Say yes to passion that lasts - reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we unpack why pleasure and play aren’t indulgences and why they’re the medicine your relationship needs to thrive.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

✨ Why pleasure is not a luxury and how it’s foundational for intimacy, vitality, and connection

✨ How play keeps polarity alive and brings back curiosity, teasing, and magnetism

✨ How erotic energy goes beyond the bedroom and how it fuels joy, presence, and aliveness in everyday life

✨ What are the practical ways to choose pleasure daily, from small rituals to intentional touch

✨ Why retreats provide the fastest “erotic reset” and how stepping out of autopilot into new practices that reignite passion

If your relationship feels flat or overly serious, this episode is your invitation to reclaim play, pleasure, and erotic aliveness together.

OUR NEXT GROUP RETREAT IS NOVEMBER 20–24 AND REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN!

Here’s what you can expect:
🌹 Practices that help you reconnect to your erotic aliveness
🌹 A safe, non-judgmental space where nothing is “too much”
🌹 Permission to explore intimacy in your own timing and your own way
🌹 Private moments where you can bring everything you’re learning into your sex life

👉 Say yes to your erotic aliveness and reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book an Exploration Call to feel into whether this is your next yes
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

PS: November is filling. February is open. But the spark you crave? That starts the moment you say yes.

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why the “roommate phase” happens, what it really costs, and how to shift back into passion, play, and deep intimacy.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

• How couples silently slip into the roommate phase without even realising it
• What are the subtle and obvious signs you’re stuck in comfortable-but-disconnected energy
• What is the hidden emotional toll of staying in roommate mode, and why does it impact more than your sex life
• How to break the cycle with daily practices that reawaken play and polarity
• Why retreats create the reset you can’t get in your everyday environment

If you’ve been feeling the ache of disconnection, it doesn’t mean you’re broken. It’s an invitation to reset, to choose love again, and to step into deeper intimacy.

REGISTRATION IS OPEN NOW FOR OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP RETREAT AT PHOENIX RISING.

Here’s what you’ll experience:
• Sacred intimacy rituals that blend healing and pleasure
• Practices that make sex less about performance and more about play
• Space to take everything back into your room… and let it get hot in your own way
• The safety of a group container where shame dissolves and passion expands

👉 Say yes to passion that lasts and reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why emotional safety is the foundation of intimacy and how it creates the conditions for passion, polarity, and lasting connection.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

• What emotional safety really means and why “not fighting” isn’t enough
• How polarity and turn-on are fuelled by safety in both masculine and feminine energy
• What is the hidden cost of ignoring safety, and how does it erode intimacy over time
• What are some simple, daily practices that build safety, trust, and connection
• Why safety is the foundation of better sex and not just more sex.

If you’re craving sex that feels alive, nourishing, and deeply connected, this episode is your reminder: it all starts with safety.

OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP RETREAT IS A FULL TANTRA EXPERIENCE AND REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN

Here’s what you’ll experience:
• Practices that bring your body into safety so pleasure can expand
• Tools to rewire old patterns of shame, disconnection, or performance
• Sacred intimacy rituals that turn sex into something nourishing and electric
• Private time to take everything you’ve learned into your own bed

👉 Say yes to your aliveness and reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this feels right for you
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

Because when safety is present, passion naturally follows.

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 
Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share how to reframe desire mismatch from a source of conflict into an opportunity for deeper connection, presence, and intimacy.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

• Why mismatched desires don’t mean your relationship is broken and how to see them as an invitation.
• Why honouring the cycles reduces shame.
• How stress or safety influences your ability to feel aroused.
• What is the hidden emotional toll of rejection and pressure when a desire mismatch goes unspoken
• Why intimacy takes practice and the simple daily rituals that reconnect you outside and inside the bedroom.

Desire mismatch isn’t the end. It can be the doorway into more truth, more trust, and more erotic aliveness.

Our Group Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration.

Here’s what you can expect November 20–24:
• A lakeside sanctuary with space to slow down and breathe again
• Daily practices that build intimacy, presence, and passion
• Support from us in an intimate, like-minded group
• Nourishing meals, cozy fires, and private moments together with no distractions
• The chance to take everything you’re learning back into your bedroom…and feel the difference

If you’ve been waiting for the right time, this is it.

Come and see how much more is possible for your relationship.

Only 5 couples. First-come, first-served for your room selection (GeoDomes or cottage rooms).

👉 Reserve your retreat spot here: https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/bookgroupretreat
👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit. https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

Because your love story deserves more than survival. It deserves to thrive.

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

We’re here to call bullsh!t on that story.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why intimacy can actually deepen with age and how to reignite the spark in your relationship, no matter where you are on the journey.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

• Busting the myth that passion naturally fades in long-term relationships.
• The hidden cost of avoiding intimacy and how it impacts your whole life.
• Why midlife and menopause aren’t endings, but portals to deeper erotic energy and aliveness.
• The five kinds of intimacy that matter and are beyond just sex.
• Why retreats create breakthroughs that vacations or date nights never could.

If you’ve been feeling like it’s “too late” to get the passion back… this episode is your reminder that intimacy is waiting for you.

💫 Book your complimentary Exploration Call to explore whether a Phoenix Rising Retreat — private or group — is the right next step for you and your partner.

Because your relationship deserves more than survival. It deserves to thrive.

ABOUT US:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why we said yes to flying across the world for a couples mastermind and retreat — and what it gave us as partners, lovers, and leaders.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

• Why we signed up for a six-month mastermind and retreat, even with resistance.
• Why even leaders need to surrender and be held and how it changed our intimacy.
• How emotional release practices create deep safety and intimacy in partnership.
• What is the erotic charge of polarity — and how containment and surrender can lead to full-body orgasms (yes, fully clothed).
• Why you don’t have to wait until crisis to invest in your relationship.

If you’ve been craving more intimacy, trust, and desire in your relationship, this episode is your sign.

🔥 Reignite the flame. It starts with a single step. Because your relationship deserves more than survival. It deserves to thrive.
💫 Book your complimentary Exploration Call today to explore whether a Phoenix Rising Retreat — private or group — is right for you.

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share how presence, polarity, and sacred intimacy can bring back desire—without starting from scratch.

What you’ll hear in this episode:

• Why your spark isn’t gone and it’s buried under stress, routine, and disconnection.
• How to bring presence into your day and stop performing for love.
• Desire doesn’t die, and it suffocates. Learn how to create space for erotic energy to rise.
• The everyday acts of service and devotion that rebuild intimacy (it’s not about grand gestures).
• How to shift from feeling like roommates to reawakening passion together.

If you’re longing to feel more alive, connected, and deeply desired again… this episode is your invitation.
 

🌹 Ready to reignite your spark?

💫 Book an Exploration Call to explore joining us at a Phoenix Rising Retreat.

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

What you’ll hear in this episode:

• Why the feminine opens most when she feels safe, seen, and fully held
• How to lean into your core essence without falling into gender stereotypes
• How to spot when trauma patterns are pulling you out of polarity and what to do about it
• What are the little daily acts that build trust and deepen attraction
• How we weave these practices into private couples retreats at Phoenix Rising

If you’re craving more trust, more passion, and more magnetic attraction in your relationship…

💫 Book an Exploration Call to explore attending a Phoenix Rising Retreat, where we’ll co-create your journey into deeper intimacy. https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call 

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we debunk the biggest myths surrounding Tantra and explore how it can become a living, embodied practice that fosters presence, trust, and sacred connection.

💫 What you’ll hear in this episode:

• Why Tantra isn’t just about sex and what it actually is

• How to drop performance and embody presence in your relationship

• What sacred sexuality feels like when it’s rooted in truth

• How to bring Tantra into your daily life (not just the bedroom)

• Why healing childhood wounding is essential for deeper intimacy

If you’re longing to move beyond performance and into real connection, this conversation is your next step.

💫 Book an exploration with us to explore joining us at Phoenix Rising Retreats: https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

What you’ll hear in this episode:

• What makes a private retreat different from group work
• How to set powerful intentions and boundaries before your retreat begins
• How sacred sexuality sessions are shaped around your pace and nervous system
• Why having no group pressure helps you go deeper, faster
• What the land, the rituals, and the privacy create together

💫 Ready to explore a private retreat for yourself? Book an exploration with us here: https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

About Us:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

💫 What you’ll hear in this episode:

• Why emotional safety is the foundation for feminine surrender
• What grounded masculine leadership looks and feels like
• How to lead with presence instead of pressure and why it changes everything
• How to stop micromanaging and start trusting polarity
• How Phoenix Rising Retreats help couples reconnect and build a sacred union

💫 If you’re craving more safety, more turn-on, and more sacred connection in your relationship, book an exploration with us here: https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-calll

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 
 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 
 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

✨ Here’s what we cover:

• The shift from “I wish he would…” to “Here’s what I desire.”
• Why men often shut down in the face of information overload—and how to invite with embodiment instead.
• What happens when we respect his pace, instead of forcing a timeline
• How the feminine can lead with love without taking on the full emotional load.
• Why retreats remove pressure and open up space for presence, healing, and connection.
• Private vs. group retreats: navigating resistance, overwhelm, and finding the right fit.
   

💫 If you’re ready to feel truly seen, met, and connected with your partner, book an exploration with us here: https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

And you’re not broken for that.

In this episode, Pleasure Is a Practice: Why Good Sex Doesn’t Just Happen, we pull back the curtain on our own sexual evolution, what we used to believe was “good sex” (think: drunk, performative, porn-scripted), and how it’s now become something radically different.

Some other things we tackled are…

• Slowing down until the nervous system says yes
• Listening to the body instead of chasing orgasm
• Honouring the grief, rage, or tenderness that arises mid-pleasure
• Giving and receiving pussy or cock massage without pressure
• Expanding intimacy through energy, breath, and presence

This isn’t about fixing you.  You already know your body is sacred. This is about creating the kind of space where that sacredness gets to be witnessed, met, and fully felt…together.

Another thing, if you would like to learn more about Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising Retreats and/or Private Coaching, book a complimentary Exploratory Call with Kim here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call.  Something you might like is that when you book your free call before July 31, 2025, to learn more, you will receive $1000 off a retreat of your choice in 2025!  

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.
Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

 In this episode, we dive into a raw and honest conversation about..

• Why do most couples wait too long before going on a retreat
• How can you shift from crisis mode to a proactive, pleasure-focused connection
• How important is it to know the 5 different types of intimacy
• What are the retreat myths that are just not true

And so much more! 

If you would like to learn more about Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising Retreats and/or Private Coaching, book a complimentary Exploratory Call with Kim here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

Plus, when you book your free call before July 31, 2025, to learn more, you will receive $1000 off a retreat of your choice in 2025!  

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.
 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...
 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Not the performative, porn-scripted kind. And not the kind you give just to “get it over with.” We’re talking about the ones that are offered from genuine turn-on, deep connection, and sovereign choice.

In this week’s episode, we open up about a very real part of our journey- how something that used to feel like a chore (for Kim) became a space of embodied pleasure, sacred play, and deep trust between us.

And it’s not just about blowjobs. It’s about what happens when you remove pressure, drop the old stories, and let truth and turn-on take the lead.

Quick summary into this week's episode: 

• The difference between performing and feeling
• How porn culture and shame hijack connection
• Why sacred sex has nothing to do with technique and everything to do with safety
• How feedback can be foreplay
• And why your body will always tell the truth (if you’re willing to listen)

And many more!

If you’re someone who’s already been on this path…

Who’s done the workshops, studied the teachings, and experienced sacred sex in its fullness…

But you know there’s another layer waiting to be unlocked…

We’d love to invite you deeper.

Our private couples retreats are for the ones who are ready for the next level of turn-on, tenderness, and truth. It’s one-on-one work with us at our lakeside sanctuary in Ontario—a space designed for sacred re-patterning, embodied pleasure, and soul-deep partnership.

💫 And as a thank-you to our listeners, if you book a call with us before July 31st, and schedule your retreat by October 31st, 2025, you’ll receive $1000 off.

👉 Book your private retreat exploration call here: https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call 

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

 In this episode, we share…

• What desire truly means to us now as a couple who’s done the healing, unlearning, and re-embodying
• How our ideas of desire have changed over the years
• What are the little things or practices that we do that make the other feel desired, and how do we desire each other in a lasting or more meaningful way

And so much more! 

If you would like to learn more about Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising Retreats and/or Private Coaching, book a complimentary Exploratory Call with Kim here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

Plus, when you book your free call before July 31, 2025, to learn more, you will receive $1000 off a retreat of your choice in 2025!  

About us: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Because when you create a space of safety and presence, you not only open the door to better communication… you unlock the full potential of love, joy, and sexy connection in your relationship.

In this week’s episode, we explored…

• How many of us (yes, both women and men) have been conditioned to hold back our truth in relationships? 
• Why it feels so scary to be truly vulnerable — and why learning to do it can transform your connection. 
• What are real-life stories, practical tools, and a powerful “Fears, Desires & Loves” practice to help couples break down walls and build trust? 

And so much more! 

If you would like to learn more about Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising Retreats and/or Private Coaching, book a complimentary Exploratory Call with Kim here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

Plus, when you book your free call before July 1st, 2025, to learn more, you will receive $1000 off a retreat of your choice in 2025!  

About us:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode, we will share about…

• How our relationship evolved from early “can’t-believe-this-is-happening” moments to launching Phoenix Rising Retreats up on our lakeside sanctuary
• Transitioning from city life to being immersed in nature
• How Tantra, communication tools, and trusting our bodies helped us break down old walls, deepen intimacy, and build a foundation of compassion and presence

And so much more! 

If you would like to learn more about Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising Retreats and/or Private Coaching, book a complimentary Exploratory Call with Kim here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

Plus, when you book your free call before July 1st, 2025, to learn more, you will receive $1000 off a retreat of your choice in 2025!  

About us

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. 

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... 

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode, Danite and I go deep about...

• What happens when the life you built no longer fits the woman you’ve become?
• Could bliss be something you tune into, not chase after?
• Are you leading with your mind... or your body’s deep wisdom?
• Is your hustle really a trauma response?

And many more...

If you would like to learn more about Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising Retreats and/or Private Coaching book a complimentary Exploratory Call with Kim here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

If you would want to work with her in other ways, you can also check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️

Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/

Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/

About the guest ❤️

Dr. Danite Haller is a naturopathic doctor, Sex, Love & Relationship Guide, and the creator of Bliss & Tallow—a luxurious tallow-based body butter designed to awaken self-connection and pleasure. After 17 years in clinical practice, her own journey through burnout and feminine awakening led her to Tantra, embodiment, and sacred intimacy.

Today, she helps individuals and couples reclaim their sensual power and create deeply connected lives. She’s also the host of The Bliss Lab podcast, where she explores the art of living turned on—one juicy conversation at a time.

Get to know Dr. Danite Haller more through her socials...

Website – https://www.blissandtallow.com & https://www.drdanite.com  

Recieve 10% off Bliss & Tallow Body Butter using this code - Sexy10 

Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/blissandtallow

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Follow Kim below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats & https://www.tiktok.com/@getyoursexybackcoach

Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/  

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

You might be asking yourself as well, what it really takes to keep passion alive in long-term relationships—especially when life feels chaotic.

In this heart-to-heart conversation I have with sensual embodiment coach Jannine MacKinnon, we go deep about...

• What if the spark never left—what if you just stopped feeling it
• Is it possible to transform your relationship without your partner “doing the work” too
• How your relationship becomes the mirror for your deepest healing
• Why the real growth begins when you're inside the partnership, not outside of it

And many more...

If you would like to connect with Kim on an exploratory call for coaching and personalized private couples retreats, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

If you would want to work with her in other ways, you can also check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️

Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/

Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/

About the guest ❤️

Jannine MacKinnon is a Sexual Empowerment Coach, Speaker, and host of the Unapologetic with Jannine MacKinnon Podcast. As a certified Trauma-Informed Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach, she helps women and couples cultivate deeper connection and experience more expansive pleasure—inside and outside the bedroom. Through a powerful blend of inner child healing, breathwork, and sacred sexuality, Jannine guides her clients in building a foundation of love, safety, and belonging. From this grounded and empowered place, they can confidently explore their desires, embrace their sensuality, and reignite their inner spark.

Get to know Jannine more through her socials...

Podcast: https://janninemackinnon.com/podcast/

Website: https://janninemackinnon.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jannine.mackinnon/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/unapologetic.jannine/ 

Freebie from Jannine: https://janninemackinnon.com/honey-pot/ 

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Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/  

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this episode, Willeke and I converse about...

• What if your sensuality isn’t a luxury, but a lifeline?
• How have you been performing instead of embodying?
• What stories did you inherit about love, s*x, and self-trust?
• What if your sexuality is the very thing that leads you back to your truth?

And many more...

If you would like to connect with Kim on an exploratory call for coaching and personalized private couples retreats, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

If you would want to work with her in other ways, you can also check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️

Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/

Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/

About the guest ❤️

Willeke is a sex coach for single women. It's her mission to reconnect women to their innate feminine power, and to inspire them to choose for their unpolished truth, pleasure and desires. She was leading a successful life as a single woman working in IT for over 20 years, nevertheless, feeling sexless, drained, and very single. She longed for both a happy relationship and a blooming sex life, but neither of them seemed to be within her reach. Until she decided that she no longer wanted to wait for the right, and instead chose to discover her sexuality. She took a sex, love and relationship coaching certification, which completely transformed her life. 

She is now in a happy relationship of 5 years -  finally choosing her own pleasure and a sex coach for single women, helping other women to find their pleasure too.

Get to know Willeke more through her socials...

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/heartful_coaching/

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/wbaumgartner/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/baumpje/

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Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/  

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Now, in this episode, I will be sharing some updates on the following: 

• The Get Your Sexy Back podcast
• The launch of the Phoenix Rising Retreats
• Packages and other practices that I have for you all

For customized or personalized coaching and retreats, you can book an exploratory call with me here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

If you would also want to work with me in other ways, you can check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️

Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/

Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/

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About me ❤️

I am a certified trauma-informed, Intimacy, Relationship, & Tantra Teacher, Speaker, and Coach for women and couples. I am a bestselling author, a graduate of Layla Martin’s Institute of Integrated Tantric Sexuality, and founder of Get Your Sexy Back.

I specialize in Tantra, Sexuality and Relationship Transformation, giving you the tools to unleash your innate confidence and unlock profound new levels of self-love, pleasure, empowerment, and intimacy with yourself - and in your relationships! 

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Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/  

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Many of us—especially women—were raised to override our needs, abandon our bodies, and prioritize others in exchange for love. But what if real partnership doesn’t require overgiving? What if true intimacy begins the moment we come home to ourselves?

In this week’s episode, Lindsay and I talk about...

• How women are conditioned to over function in love—and how that might be blocking you from receiving the support you truly desire.
• How saying no, feeling your boundaries, and tuning into your body can shift everything about how you relate and connect.
• Reclaiming your expressive, intuitive self—the one that might’ve been dimmed or labeled as “witchy”—and how that energy is actually your greatest gift.
• How slowing down and clarifying what you actually want can help you build a relationship that feels safe, expansive, and beautifully mutual.

And many more! 

If you would like to connect with Kim on an exploratory call for coaching and retreats, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

Kim will be having an in-person couples retreat soon and if you want to get more information about it, you can sign up to be part of the information waitlist and be one of the first few people who will get more details on the retreat! 

Sign up here: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreats

If you would want to work with her in other ways, you can also check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️

Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/

Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/

About the guest ❤️

Lindsey teaches witchy women how to do less to receive more and be in True Partnership!

Get to know Lindsey more through her socials...

Website - https://www.wolfandmooncoaching.com 

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/wolfandmooncoaching/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lindsaygates.strawn

Product - https://wolf-and-moon-coaching.kit.com/products/moon-tassels

Kits - https://wolf-and-moon-coaching.kit.com/products/ritual-date-night 

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Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/  

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this week’s episode, Luce and I, talk about...

• Is midlife the beginning of the end—or the start of something incredible?
• Menopause: A crisis or a rebirth?
• Who says women over 50 can’t be magnetic?
• What if your body already has all the answers?

And many more! 

If you would like to connect with Kim on an exploratory call for coaching and retreats, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call

Kim will be having an in-person couples retreat soon and if you want to get more information about it, you can sign up to be part of the information waitlist and be one of the first few people who will get more details on the retreat! 

Sign up here: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreats

If you would want to work with her in other ways, you can also check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️

Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/

Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/

About the guest ❤️

Meet Luce, your guide to unlocking the wild, untamed power of midlife. A trailblazing coach in Somatic Liberation & Erotic Sovereignty for Midlife Women, Luce is here to disrupt the narrative and help women claim their fullest expression. 

Her own menopause journey ignited a fierce transformation, opening a portal to deep wisdom, raw empowerment, and divine awakening. Now, she’s on a mission to show women how menopause isn’t an ending—it’s a superpower.

Blending a decade-spanning career in design, social innovation, and academia with her mastery as a trauma-informed somatic educator, Luce brings a soulful mix of compassion, courage, and shamanic insight to the table. She’s not just here to guide you—she’s here to awaken the goddess within. Tune in for deep wisdom, electric empowerment, and a dose of unapologetic feminine magic.

Get to know Luce more through her socials...

Website - https://www.immergence.co/ & https://themidlifetemple.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/immergence.co & https://www.instagram.com/themidlifetemple

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/immergence.co

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Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/  

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this week’s episode, Alicia and I, talk about...

• Recognizing the disconnect
• The cost of avoidance
• The power of awareness
• Stepping into your truth

And many more! 

If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power-now

Kim will be having an in-person couples retreat soon and if you want to get more information about it, you can sign up to be part of the information waitlist and be one of the first few people who will get more details on the retreat! 

Sign up here: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreats

If you would want to work with her in other ways, you can also check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️

Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/

Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/

About the guest ❤️

Alicia Robertson is a certified life coach, author, and keynote speaker specializing in empowering women through life's challenges and transformations. As the founder of Lemonade Life, she merges her expertise in mindfulness, positive psychology, and neuroscience to guide women in navigating significant life changes, such as divorce, with resilience and grace. Alicia's mission is to break the negative stigma surrounding divorce, empowering families to thrive through their experiences and fostering positive change on a global scale, one family at a time.

With a strong following of over 30,000 women, Alicia is a best-selling author, captivating keynote speaker, and influential social media authority. Her popular blog and newsletter, "The Squeeze," provide valuable insights and strategies for personal and professional growth. Alicia's work has been featured on Family Talk Radio, Celine TV, Toronto Sun, Women on Top, and Thrive Global, solidifying her position as a trusted voice in the field.

Get to know Alicia more through her socials...

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/lemonadelifecoach/ 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/thelemonadelifecoach/?locale=et_EE

LinkedIn -  https://www.linkedin.com/in/alicia-robertson-17ba5a210/?originalSubdomain=ca

Email - connect@lemonadelife.ca

Website - lemonadelife.ca 

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Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/  

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

When we disconnect, whether due to trauma, societal pressures, or daily stress, we override the signals that guide us toward pleasure, safety, and alignment. This disconnection often manifests as chronic pain, anxiety, digestive issues, or even numbness.

Healing doesn’t come from pushing harder—it comes from allowing space, feeling into the moment, and recognizing that slowing down is actually the fastest way to true transformation.

In this week’s episode, Angela and I, talk about...

• Is your body trying to tell you something?
• Why do so many of us feel disconnected?
• What if the key to healing isn’t doing more, but doing less?
• Could slowing down actually get you where you want to go—faster?

And many more! 

If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power-now

Kim will be having an in-person couples retreat soon and if you want to get more information about it, you can sign up to be part of the information waitlist and be one of the first few people who will get more details on the retreat! 

Sign up here: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreats

If you would want to work with her in other ways, you can also check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️

Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/

Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/

About the guest ❤️

Angela Rivero is a Somatic Practitioner specializing in trauma resolution, embodied spirituality, female sexuality, nervous system regulation, and chronic body symptom recovery. She is also the co-creator of The Pleasure Deck—a tool created to help women redefine pleasure, deepen connection, and build self-trust.

After years of struggling with autoimmune issues, Angela discovered the profound impact of listening to her body and understanding its signals. This journey led her to immerse herself in modalities like Somatic Experiencing®, embodiment practices, and sensual movement—allowing her to guide women beyond survival mode into deeper vitality and well-being.

Angela’s work isn’t about forcing change—it’s about attunement, presence, and honoring the body’s wisdom. Whether through 1:1 sessions, women’s circles, or her podcast Everyday Intimacy, she creates spaces where women can reconnect with themselves, unravel old patterns, and step into a life of freedom and self-trust.

She currently offers both virtual and in-person sessions in North County San Diego.

Get to know Angela more through her socials...

Website - https://www.somashift.org/ 

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/somashiftwithangela/ 

Amazon - https://a.co/d/gVKczYa 

Podcast - https://open.spotify.com/show/5ODkjDWUBmosAMXD21fLdK?si=AePoV21vSAe1fzKK7zQgrg 

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Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/  

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

In this week’s episode, Kate and I, talk about...

• Why traditional advice on communication doesn’t always work in the face of grief and how to find a new way forward
• Can partners grieve differently without drifting apart?
• Has trying to conceive taken the passion out of your relationship?
• Do men really think about intimacy the same way women do?

And many more! 

If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power-now

Kim will be having an in-person couples retreat soon and if you want to get more information about it, you can sign up to be part of the information waitlist and be one of the first few people who will get more details on the retreat! 

Sign up here: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreats

If you would want to work with her in other ways, you can also check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️

Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/

Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/

About the guest ❤️

Kate Carson is a love, sex, and relationship coach who specializes in grief integration after baby loss.  She lost her daughter, Laurel, to abortion after a devastating prenatal diagnosis in the third trimester of her pregnancy. 

Get to know Kate more through her socials...

Website - https://www.nightbloomcoaching.com & https://www.nightbloomcoaching.net

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/nightbloomcoaching/

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/katecsays

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Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   

Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/  

ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/phoenixrisingretreats_

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Do you ever feel like you’re always giving but not receiving the same in return? Many women get stuck in the cycle of saying “yes” to avoid conflict, but standing in your truth doesn’t mean being unkind—it means being true to yourself. If you’re constantly running on empty, it might be time to take a closer look at where your energy is going.

In this week’s episode, Alexa and I, talk about...

• Can you still be kind without letting people walk all over you?
• What if life could feel lighter, more fulfilling, and even a little fun?
• Why does it feel like you’re constantly running on empty?
• Do you ever feel like you’re always giving but not getting the same in return?

And many more! 

If you would like to connect with Kim on a complimentary discovery call and see how you can work with her, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/unleash-your-unapologetic-power-now

Kim will be having an in-person couples retreat soon and if you want to get more information about it, you can sign up to be part of the information waitlist and be one of the first few people who will get more details on the retreat! 

Sign up here: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreats

If you would want to work with her in other ways, you can also check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️

• Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/
• Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/

About the guest ❤️

Alexa Lynn is a trauma-informed sex, love, and relationship coach specializing in conscious dating and femme empowerment. Rooted in self-love and pleasure, she helps women and folks to date consciously, attract authentic partnerships and live a fully-turned on life.

Through a desire-based coaching approach, Alexa will take you on an inner journey to uncover what your heart truly wants (and what’s in the way), move through blocks, and bring your desires to life with clarity and confidence in the real world. 

Alexa helps you to fully embody your worthiness and magnetic energy to prepare you for the love you seek by using holistic tools such as visualization, meditation, breathwork, self-pleasure, and movement—and draws from somatic practices and ancient wisdom and teachings.

Get to know Alexa more through her socials...

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alexalynncoaching/ 

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ABOUT US: 

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo! 

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