https://simplecast.com Just two married millennials who decided we would do life differently. Join us as we give questionable advice to our listeners and discuss love, relationships, and our monogamish adventures. Get wild. Stay wild. xoxo, Jay & Che' #jaymetche #monogamish #polylife #millenialmarried #SIPandDIP #dipandstay 2022 @jaymetche en Wed, 28 Sep 2022 22:49:14 +0000 Wed, 28 Sep 2022 22:49:25 +0000 https://f-ing-on-the-first-night-the-origin-story.simplecast.com https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/199a971d-aa5b-493e-a07e-659fb178ef96/3354121f-b189-4098-a430-165c4b70301a/3000x3000/dsc09544-pp-websize.jpg?aid=rss_feed https://f-ing-on-the-first-night-the-origin-story.simplecast.com episodic Just two married millennials who decided we would do life differently. Join us as we give questionable advice to our listeners and discuss love, relationships, and our monogamish adventures. Get wild. Stay wild. xoxo, Jay & Che' #jaymetche #monogamish #polylife #millenialmarried #SIPandDIP #dipandstay @jaymetche yes https://feeds.simplecast.com/tOTOIV3x advice, blacklove, sex, comedy, polyamory, raw, real, relationship, taboo, unpopular opinions @jaymetche admin@jaymetche.com 66960bf6-c964-4983-9fec-67faa6b8569a Wed, 28 Sep 2022 22:49:14 +0000 admin@jaymetche.com (#CheJax, #jaymetche, #JayJax) https://f-ing-on-the-first-night-the-origin-story.simplecast.com/episodes/are-relationships-necessary-JpHpd8RR Are Relationships Necessary? #CheJax, #jaymetche, #JayJax 00:44:56 Are relationships necessary? Jay and Che take an introspective look at relationship dynamics. Your auntie and her “friend” been going strong for the last 10 years… how? Why? Come kick it with us to find out. #fwb #jaymetche #DYNAMICS #millenialmarried Are relationships necessary? Jay and Che take an introspective look at relationship dynamics. Your auntie and her “friend” been going strong for the last 10 years… how? Why? Come kick it with us to find out. #fwb #jaymetche #DYNAMICS #millenialmarried sex, black love, love, fwb, monogamish, relationships yes full 14 cc689e3f-3239-43ee-9d4c-450e1e0aec7b Wed, 21 Sep 2022 12:00:00 +0000 admin@jaymetche.com (#JayJax, #jaymetche, #chejax) https://f-ing-on-the-first-night-the-origin-story.simplecast.com/episodes/dfmu-SNVyj5QV DFMU #JayJax, #jaymetche, #chejax 00:42:58 We are back! This week we are discussing pet peeves using…. One of Jay’s own! We are figuring out live on air, how to fight fair and how to approach relationship qualms with your partners. #dontchewinmyear #stillloveyou #jaymetche #millenialmarried We are back! This week we are discussing pet peeves using…. One of Jay’s own! We are figuring out live on air, how to fight fair and how to approach relationship qualms with your partners. #dontchewinmyear #stillloveyou #jaymetche #millenialmarried sex, black love, love, relationship, monogamish, jaymetche yes full 13 be39544f-c072-45b9-bb76-41137b8198a8 Wed, 7 Sep 2022 18:00:00 +0000 admin@jaymetche.com (#CheJax, #jaymetche, #JayJax) https://f-ing-on-the-first-night-the-origin-story.simplecast.com/episodes/cuffing-season-7tpeaq4_ CUFFING SEASON #CheJax, #jaymetche, #JayJax 00:42:14 Winter is coming... You know what that means, CUFFING SEASON! Journey with us discuss the ever important progressions of cuffing season. What is it, why do we fall victim to it, and how do we make it to the coveted championship?! If you knew better, you'd do better! But you don't so.... you won't! We hope you have your brackets ready! #jaymetche #millenialmarried #cuffingseason Winter is coming... You know what that means, CUFFING SEASON! Journey with us discuss the ever important progressions of cuffing season. What is it, why do we fall victim to it, and how do we make it to the coveted championship?! If you knew better, you'd do better! But you don't so.... you won't! We hope you have your brackets ready! #jaymetche #millenialmarried #cuffingseason cuffing season, sex, black love, monogamish, relationships yes full 12 2ed8297b-6878-4a5f-a2f9-21e2ed17a41c Wed, 24 Aug 2022 21:00:00 +0000 admin@jaymetche.com (#JayJax, #CheJax, #jaymetche) https://f-ing-on-the-first-night-the-origin-story.simplecast.com/episodes/smashing-after-the-homie-YT9FqvEq Smashing After The Homie!?!?!? #JayJax, #CheJax, #jaymetche 00:52:09 Take one down and past them around. We all know a #homiehopper, and they get a lot of smoke in the dating community. But is it socially acceptable to smash after the homies? How deep is your dating pool? How do you determine who's off limits? #dontblockyourblessings #KanyeandTheGame #KimKisaHomieHopper #jaymetche #monogamish #staywild Take one down and past them around. We all know a #homiehopper, and they get a lot of smoke in the dating community. But is it socially acceptable to smash after the homies? How deep is your dating pool? How do you determine who's off limits? #dontblockyourblessings #KanyeandTheGame #KimKisaHomieHopper #jaymetche #monogamish #staywild #dontblockyourblessings #kanyeandthegame #kimkisahomiehopper #jaymetche #monogamish #staywild yes full 11 840afbc0-9cfb-43c5-ae1d-0078b40b344d Wed, 17 Aug 2022 21:00:00 +0000 admin@jaymetche.com (#jaymetche, #JayJax, #CheJax) https://f-ing-on-the-first-night-the-origin-story.simplecast.com/episodes/medium-man-jOhenEAB Medium Man #jaymetche, #JayJax, #CheJax 00:54:25 Welcome to the 10th Episode! Have high expectations from your guy but receive medium results? This week we are discussing a man we all know and some women unfortunately love: the Medium Man. The Medium Man has been skating by your expectations and into your drawls... Let's talk about it. #jaymetche #mediumman #outlookisbleak #saynotoBS Welcome to the 10th Episode! Have high expectations from your guy but receive medium results? This week we are discussing a man we all know and some women unfortunately love: the Medium Man. The Medium Man has been skating by your expectations and into your drawls... Let's talk about it. #jaymetche #mediumman #outlookisbleak #saynotoBS blacklove, monogamish, relationships, jaymetche yes full 10 3e90a116-5c63-41f1-ac8f-e6904f9336c9 Thu, 11 Aug 2022 00:30:00 +0000 admin@jaymetche.com (#jaymetche, #CheJax, #JayJax) https://f-ing-on-the-first-night-the-origin-story.simplecast.com/episodes/boppers-rnwdRXUg Boppers #jaymetche, #CheJax, #JayJax 00:52:47 Join us as we discuss an ever present persona in a neighborhood near you… You know them and hood niggas love them: Boppers. Sit back as hilarity ensues navigating this topic, and if you don’t know one… it’s because it’s YOU. #jaymetche #boppers #forthe99and2000s #staywild Join us as we discuss an ever present persona in a neighborhood near you… You know them and hood niggas love them: Boppers. Sit back as hilarity ensues navigating this topic, and if you don’t know one… it’s because it’s YOU. #jaymetche #boppers #forthe99and2000s #staywild sex, black love, monogamish, relationships, boppers yes full 9 167ed654-4810-4820-abc8-ca0ef7673493 Thu, 4 Aug 2022 02:51:54 +0000 admin@jaymetche.com (#JayJax, #jaymetche, #chejax) https://f-ing-on-the-first-night-the-origin-story.simplecast.com/episodes/monogamish-dating-101-8vcahfPn Monogamish Dating 101 #JayJax, #jaymetche, #chejax 00:49:25 In todays episode, Jay and Che’ lay the foundation of why they chose to be #monogamish. What does it mean to them? Who’s actually monogamous? And how do they answer when questioned about their love style? Buckle in, it’s gonna be a #wildride! #monogamish #sugardaddy #lovewithoutlimits #thisaintslavery #saynotoownership In todays episode, Jay and Che’ lay the foundation of why they chose to be #monogamish. What does it mean to them? Who’s actually monogamous? And how do they answer when questioned about their love style? Buckle in, it’s gonna be a #wildride! #monogamish #sugardaddy #lovewithoutlimits #thisaintslavery #saynotoownership sex, sugar daddy, black love, monogamish, relationships yes full 8 3b49cee1-8ae0-4a96-acab-5bdc3c94ae73 Wed, 27 Jul 2022 23:05:00 +0000 admin@jaymetche.com (#CheJax, #JayJax, #jaymetche) https://f-ing-on-the-first-night-the-origin-story.simplecast.com/episodes/incels-and-shhh-zRNU4r_u Incels and Shhh #CheJax, #JayJax, #jaymetche 00:48:11 Its a VERY special day for Jay and Che! Grab a bottle of your best Aldi's wine while we talk about the incels among us. Have you seen them? Join us as we discuss how incels show up in the modern world! You never know, they may be closer to you than you think. #incelsanonymous #doyouknowwhattodayis #soggybiscuit #incelsanonymous #incelsandshit Check us out: www.jaymetche.com Its a VERY special day for Jay and Che! Grab a bottle of your best Aldi's wine while we talk about the incels among us. Have you seen them? Join us as we discuss how incels show up in the modern world! You never know, they may be closer to you than you think. #incelsanonymous #doyouknowwhattodayis #soggybiscuit #incelsanonymous #incelsandshit Check us out: www.jaymetche.com sex, black love, incels, monogamish, relationships yes full 7 3e19f1aa-9458-4805-bc25-b30299734733 Wed, 20 Jul 2022 21:00:00 +0000 admin@jaymetche.com (#JayJax, #CheJax, #jaymetche) https://f-ing-on-the-first-night-the-origin-story.simplecast.com/episodes/lets-talk-about-sex-recklessly-uq33kWDA Let's Talk about Sex (Recklessly) #JayJax, #CheJax, #jaymetche 00:37:18 In Part 2 of Let’s Talk about Sex series we are joined by our special guests X & O. We dive into our most memorable sexscapades and chaos ensues. Stay Wild! #sexisfun #sexisGLUE#girlstrip #gloryhole #getwild #staywild #jaymetche #monogamish In Part 2 of Let’s Talk about Sex series we are joined by our special guests X & O. We dive into our most memorable sexscapades and chaos ensues. Stay Wild! #sexisfun #sexisGLUE#girlstrip #gloryhole #getwild #staywild #jaymetche #monogamish sex, black love, love, monogamish, relationships yes full 6 adb29387-8303-4e79-a141-176d512ff090 Wed, 13 Jul 2022 20:45:00 +0000 admin@jaymetche.com (#jayjaxsr., #chejax, @jaymetche, #jaymetche) https://f-ing-on-the-first-night-the-origin-story.simplecast.com/episodes/lets-talk-about-sex-responsibly-_jHM2wh1 Let's Talk About Sex! (Responsibly) #jayjaxsr., #chejax, @jaymetche, #jaymetche 00:43:04 Let's do the NASTY! In this two part series, we are talking about how sex shows up in relationships and our favorite sexscapades. In this episode, Jay and Che' (pretty responsibly) explore sexual compatibility and the role it plays in relationships. Strap in (& maybe up) for a wild ride! SN: The TELFAR x EASTPAK drop winner announced on this episode! #sexisfun #sexisGLUE #sexwillbringmebacktoYOU #getwild #staywild #jaymetche #monogamish Let's do the NASTY! In this two part series, we are talking about how sex shows up in relationships and our favorite sexscapades. In this episode, Jay and Che' (pretty responsibly) explore sexual compatibility and the role it plays in relationships. Strap in (& maybe up) for a wild ride! SN: The TELFAR x EASTPAK drop winner announced on this episode! #sexisfun #sexisGLUE #sexwillbringmebacktoYOU #getwild #staywild #jaymetche #monogamish sex, black love, wild, monogamish, relationships yes full 5 cd16155f-2160-40a8-9907-4038d2ffa13f Wed, 6 Jul 2022 21:00:00 +0000 admin@jaymetche.com (#chejax, #JayJax, @jaymetche, #jaymetche) https://f-ing-on-the-first-night-the-origin-story.simplecast.com/episodes/toxic-shhh-DwowUUXw Toxic Shhh #chejax, #JayJax, @jaymetche, #jaymetche 00:47:18 Toxic sh* alert! Join us as we discuss the "Who is the dude?!" and toxic masculinity. Walk your talk! Don't be mad... But Kevin Samuels was kinda right.... #TRUEhotgirlSHIT #BRUH #jaymetche #monogamish Toxic sh* alert! Join us as we discuss the "Who is the dude?!" and toxic masculinity. Walk your talk! Don't be mad... But Kevin Samuels was kinda right.... #TRUEhotgirlSHIT #BRUH #jaymetche #monogamish sex, black, monogamish, relationships, married yes full 4 5c10da5b-c20f-4023-a472-2e696301508d Wed, 29 Jun 2022 21:30:00 +0000 admin@jaymetche.com (#JayJax, #jaymetche, #CheJax) https://f-ing-on-the-first-night-the-origin-story.simplecast.com/episodes/bc-vs-ac-mvTcRWvI Dating BC vs AC #JayJax, #jaymetche, #CheJax 00:52:01 In this episode Jay and Che discuss dating BC (Before Covid)versus AC (After Covid)! How did we even meet people before CO-vay, let alone the internet?! Bonnets and catfish and limp d*ck, oh my! Let's get wild. #jaymetche #monogamish #catfish #walkandtalk #sipanddip #getwild #staywild In this episode Jay and Che discuss dating BC (Before Covid)versus AC (After Covid)! How did we even meet people before CO-vay, let alone the internet?! Bonnets and catfish and limp d*ck, oh my! Let's get wild. #jaymetche #monogamish #catfish #walkandtalk #sipanddip #getwild #staywild sex, blacklove, love, covay, relationships, jaymetche yes full 3 9351cadf-97ec-4366-b23c-dda36f127919 Thu, 23 Jun 2022 00:00:00 +0000 admin@jaymetche.com (#JayJax, #CheJax, #jaymetche) https://f-ing-on-the-first-night-the-origin-story.simplecast.com/episodes/transparency-is-key-qcRQP9jF Transparency is key #JayJax, #CheJax, #jaymetche 00:51:39 In this episode, we explore the good (and not so good) sides of being transparent in relationships. Errbody want the truth until it's time to have it! As per usual, we give it to you straight, no chaser. Buckle in for laughs and learning! Because it's no fun, when the rabbit's got the gun. -Jay & Che' In this episode, we explore the good (and not so good) sides of being transparent in relationships. Errbody want the truth until it's time to have it! As per usual, we give it to you straight, no chaser. Buckle in for laughs and learning! Because it's no fun, when the rabbit's got the gun. -Jay & Che' love, relationships, transparency, married yes full 2 198a61c5-3723-4dee-a1b3-5d7eb4735b7d Wed, 15 Jun 2022 14:42:50 +0000 admin@jaymetche.com (#jaymetche, #jayjaxsr., #chejax) https://f-ing-on-the-first-night-the-origin-story.simplecast.com/episodes/fing-on-the-first-night-our-origin-story-eZPOjxsz F@$%ing on the first night (our origin story) #jaymetche, #jayjaxsr., #chejax 00:55:49 Sometimes you gotta loosen up those morals and open up those legs! This episode explores how what Jay intended to be a #SIPandDIP landed him a whole ass wife. Che' doesn't cook or clean but let us tell you....😂😂😂 #hotgirlshit #monogamish #SIPandDIP #LayItLow #SpreadItWide Sometimes you gotta loosen up those morals and open up those legs! This episode explores how what Jay intended to be a #SIPandDIP landed him a whole ass wife. Che' doesn't cook or clean but let us tell you....😂😂😂 #hotgirlshit #monogamish #SIPandDIP #LayItLow #SpreadItWide sex, advice, sipanddip, monogamish, relationships, jaymetche yes full 1