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    <description>Welcome to It&apos;s Hard -- a sober curious podcast + community that has authentic conversations allowing people to learn, grow and feel less alone as they reimagine their relationship with alcohol. Join me, Utah based Sober Twenty-Something, Paige Boner (yes, that is really my last name + yes the podcast name is 100% intentional), for authentic, raw, and fun conversations about something that a lot of us are navigating, our relationship with alcohol. The sober curious movement picked up after 2020 and now has become a nationwide phenomenon. People of all ages and backgrounds are actively choosing not to drink. However, the sober community is still mostly centered around those who struggle with alcoholism and addiction. There is room for more content regarding the active choice to stop drinking. With every episode, my mission is to showcase a world where it is normal to say no to a night out, wine with dinner, and a hangover Saturday morning. I hope you feel seen and understood through my show, to know you aren’t alone in the journey to reimagine your relationship with alcohol.  I am not an expert, just learning right alongside you and hoping to find community in the hard stuff. 
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      <pubDate>Mon, 29 May 2023 05:15:07 +0000</pubDate>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 22 May 2023 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you often google: "How to know if I should stop drinking?" or "Do I have a problem with alcohol?" and come up with the same unhelpful results? This episode is centered around encouraging you to ask yourself the questions that will help you come to the conclusion of how alcohol plays a role in your life and what you want that to look like moving forward. I am not giving professional advice on how to get sober, but rather helping you get curious and come to that decision on your own. </p><p><strong>SALT LAKE CITY EVENTS:</strong></p><p>June 8th at 6:30PM - Sober Meetup at Curiousity! Free event and just show up, no need to sign up anywhere. </p><p>July 5th at 6:30PM - Sober Meetup at Curiosity pt. 2! </p><p>If you are interested in more consistent sober events in SLC or MPLS please reach out to me on social media. </p><p> </p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your entire purchase of Three Spirits with code ITSHARD:<a href="https://threespiritdrinks.com" target="_blank">https://threespiritdrinks.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 15 May 2023 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>We Talk About:</strong></p><ul><li>What drinking was when she was young</li><li>When/why/how she drank for the first time</li><li>My Dad's struggle with alcohol + how it impacted her</li><li>My drinking habits</li><li>My decision to get sober + her thoughts on it</li></ul><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your entire purchase of Three Spirits with code ITSHARD:<a href="https://threespiritdrinks.com" target="_blank">https://threespiritdrinks.com</a></li></ul>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>How to accept your past with drinking. We all know we made mistakes, embarrassed ourselves, and failes miserably. How can we move forward and accept that part of our past? </p><p>Today I talk aboout:</p><ol><li>Remembering/Reflecting on what you did in your past. Who did it impact? Who might you have hurt? How and why?</li><li>Forgive YOURSELF</li><li>How to Apologize Properly</li><li>Decide to put your best foot forward</li><li>Show graditude towards those who stuck it out with you</li><li>Accept that part of your life and use it as fuel to move forward</li></ol><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your entire purchase of Three Spirits with code ITSHARD:<a href="https://threespiritdrinks.com" target="_blank">https://threespiritdrinks.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 8 May 2023 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Three Spirits, gruvi, kindlips, Bizzy Coffee)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/accepting-your-past-with-drinking-k89hbVnZ</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>How to accept your past with drinking. We all know we made mistakes, embarrassed ourselves, and failes miserably. How can we move forward and accept that part of our past? </p><p>Today I talk aboout:</p><ol><li>Remembering/Reflecting on what you did in your past. Who did it impact? Who might you have hurt? How and why?</li><li>Forgive YOURSELF</li><li>How to Apologize Properly</li><li>Decide to put your best foot forward</li><li>Show graditude towards those who stuck it out with you</li><li>Accept that part of your life and use it as fuel to move forward</li></ol><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your entire purchase of Three Spirits with code ITSHARD:<a href="https://threespiritdrinks.com" target="_blank">https://threespiritdrinks.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 1 May 2023 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (KindLips, Three Spirits, betterhelp, Gruvi)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/i-am-2-years-sober-U2o6VPJb</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your entire purchase of Three Spirits with code ITSHARD:<a href="https://threespiritdrinks.com" target="_blank">https://threespiritdrinks.com</a></li></ul>
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      <itunes:title>I am 2 Years Sober!!!!</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>KindLips, Three Spirits, betterhelp, Gruvi</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>00:32:19</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>I am 2 years sober! Here is why/how I got sober and what sobriety looks like for me after 2 years. </itunes:summary>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Emerson Hannon is an engineer turned full-time blogger/content creator based in Minneapolis, MN. She has been sober for over 6 years and she comes on the show to share her experience through choosing sobriety and enhancing her life through this choice. </p><p>What we talk about:</p><ul><li>Finding sobriety through trial and error</li><li>Bachelorette Parties</li><li>Blogger events</li><li>How sobriety impacts health and wellness </li><li>Fun things to do while sober</li><li>Getting sober 6 years ago</li><li>Negative connotation around sobriety</li><li>Living in a new place + meeting people while sober</li><li>Being surrounded by people who drink</li></ul><p><strong>Emerson Hannon Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://classycleanchic.com/2018/03/24/the-journey-begins/#more-3" target="_blank"><strong>https://classycleanchic.com/2018/03/24/the-journey-begins/#more-3</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/classycleanchic/" target="_blank"><strong>https://www.instagram.com/classycleanchic/</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://www.shopltk.com/explore/classycleanchic" target="_blank"><strong>https://www.shopltk.com/explore/classycleanchic</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://www.pinterest.com/Classycleanchic/" target="_blank"><strong>https://www.pinterest.com/Classycleanchic/</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSrM28fIv6rShA4ffa5Qa7Q?view_as=subscriber" target="_blank"><strong>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSrM28fIv6rShA4ffa5Qa7Q?view_as=subscriber</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@classycleanchic?lang=en" target="_blank"><strong>https://www.tiktok.com/@classycleanchic?lang=en</strong></a></li></ul><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your entire purchase of Three Spirits with code ITSHARD:<a href="https://threespiritdrinks.com" target="_blank">https://threespiritdrinks.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Apr 2023 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (emerson hannon, bizzy coffee, kind lips, Three Spirits, Gruvi)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/sobriety-when-alcohol-is-the-main-activity-with-emerson-hannon-classycleanchic-jYVg5S3c</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Emerson Hannon is an engineer turned full-time blogger/content creator based in Minneapolis, MN. She has been sober for over 6 years and she comes on the show to share her experience through choosing sobriety and enhancing her life through this choice. </p><p>What we talk about:</p><ul><li>Finding sobriety through trial and error</li><li>Bachelorette Parties</li><li>Blogger events</li><li>How sobriety impacts health and wellness </li><li>Fun things to do while sober</li><li>Getting sober 6 years ago</li><li>Negative connotation around sobriety</li><li>Living in a new place + meeting people while sober</li><li>Being surrounded by people who drink</li></ul><p><strong>Emerson Hannon Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://classycleanchic.com/2018/03/24/the-journey-begins/#more-3" target="_blank"><strong>https://classycleanchic.com/2018/03/24/the-journey-begins/#more-3</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/classycleanchic/" target="_blank"><strong>https://www.instagram.com/classycleanchic/</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://www.shopltk.com/explore/classycleanchic" target="_blank"><strong>https://www.shopltk.com/explore/classycleanchic</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://www.pinterest.com/Classycleanchic/" target="_blank"><strong>https://www.pinterest.com/Classycleanchic/</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSrM28fIv6rShA4ffa5Qa7Q?view_as=subscriber" target="_blank"><strong>https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSrM28fIv6rShA4ffa5Qa7Q?view_as=subscriber</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@classycleanchic?lang=en" target="_blank"><strong>https://www.tiktok.com/@classycleanchic?lang=en</strong></a></li></ul><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your entire purchase of Three Spirits with code ITSHARD:<a href="https://threespiritdrinks.com" target="_blank">https://threespiritdrinks.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 10 Apr 2023 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Three Spirits, Gruvi)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It's been nearly 2 years since my last drink, but I still crave the buzz of alcohol, getting drunk with friends, and the taste of a true IPA. In today's episode, I share what I do when I have those feelings. </p><p> </p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your entire purchase of Three Spirits with code ITSHARD:<a href="https://threespiritdrinks.com" target="_blank">https://threespiritdrinks.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 3 Apr 2023 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Gruvi, Kind Lips, Three Spirits, Bizzy Coffee)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What did you grow up believing you couldn't talk about? My friend Sandy and I are starting a new series where we chat openly about the stuff we were all taught to keep quiet growing up. Today we talk openly about alcoholism. </p><p>Catch Sandy and I every first Thursday of each month for this new series!</p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your entire purchase of Three Spirits with code ITSHARD:<a href="https://threespiritdrinks.com" target="_blank">https://threespiritdrinks.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 27 Mar 2023 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Gruvi, Three Spirits, kindlips, Bizzy Coffee)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Fiona Peterson joins the podcast today to share her story of choosing sobriety and becoming a new mom within the same year. Fiona understands her privlege of being able to CHOOSE sobriety. She got sober and found out she was pregnant just a few weeks later. Today, she shares her story of choosing sobriety while becoming a new mom and how it has impacted her life. </p><p> </p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your entire purchase of Three Spirits with code ITSHARD:<a href="https://threespiritdrinks.com" target="_blank">https://threespiritdrinks.com</a></li></ul>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Three Spirits, Bizzy Coffee, Kind Lips, Gruvi)</author>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 13 Mar 2023 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (bizzy Coffee, Three Spirits, Kind Lips, Gruvi)</author>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 27 Feb 2023 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Three Spirits, Kind Lips, Bizzy Coffee, Gruvi, Better Help)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Paige shares easy ways to tell people you are sober, sober curious, you aren't drinking or you don't drink. She also talks about the sad truth that people will bully you about it and full blown not support your decision. How do you overcome that, how do you set boundaries with those people?</p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your entire purchase of Three Spirits with code ITSHARD:<a href="https://threespiritdrinks.com" target="_blank">https://threespiritdrinks.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 20 Feb 2023 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Bizzy Coffee, Kind Lips, three spirits, Gruvi, betterhelp)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/being-a-sober-bride-07rL7fGY</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you serve alcohol? What do you do at your bachelorette? How does sobriety and being a bride work? Will your partner drink?</p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your entire purchase of Three Spirits with code ITSHARD:<a href="https://threespiritdrinks.com" target="_blank">https://threespiritdrinks.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2023 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (three spirits, gruvi, Kind Lips, Bizzy Coffee)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/re-release-im-one-year-sober-P2S_q_cM</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>EPISODE RE-RELEASE - This episode is from May 2022 when I was one year sober. </p><p><strong>TW</strong>: This episode contains mention of suicidal ideation + alcoholism.</p><p>I got sober one year ago today. In this episode, I talk about why I got sober and what the journey has looked like ever since. Sobirety has impacted my mental health in ways that I never would have imagined. What better way to kick off Mental Health Awareness Month than with my biggest mental health hack - sobriety!</p><p><strong>DISCLAIMER</strong>: You don't have to be sober or sober curious to enjoy/benefit from this episode!!! </p><p>It’s Hard Resources: </p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your entire purchase of Three Spirits with code ITSHARD:<a href="https://threespiritdrinks.com" target="_blank">https://threespiritdrinks.com</a></li></ul>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lets talk about sex! Disclaimer: my journey to overcoming my sexual trauma is still underway. Another disclaimer: I don't go into any unneccesary detail, this episode is focused on mindset, mental health, and overcoming trauma. </p><p>Sex while sober can be hard. Add trauma from past sexual experiences on top of that, it is a doozy. I am here to share my personal experience as I work through sexual trauma without alcohol. Buckle up baby!</p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 30 Jan 2023 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Bizzy Coffee, Kind Lips, Better Help, Gruvi)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/dry-january-is-overnow-what-hAv5EdrK</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dry January is coming to a close, and with that is the thought of "what does drinking look like now?". Are you going back to how it was before? Are you making small changes? Is sobriety in your future? I am here to talk you through alllllll these feelings you might have in these final days of an alcohol free month!</p><p> </p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 23 Jan 2023 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Gruvi, Kind Lips, Bizzy Coffee, Better Help)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The #1 question I get asked is "what do you do if your partner drinks??". I thought, who better to bring on than MY partner to talk openly about this dynamic. </p><p>What we talk about:</p><ul><li>His thoughts when I decided to get sober</li><li>Boundaries with alcohol</li><li>My insecurities when I got sober</li><li>What he wants as a partner</li><li>How to meet each other where we are at</li><li>Communication </li><li>Triggers</li></ul><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li></ul>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Chelsey is sharing the voice recording of her having a live mental breakdown in a foreign country. She talks about the honesty of feelings, contemplating checking yourself into a hospital, considering drinking again after more than a year of sobriety, and MORE. We listen to the whole recording, it is raw, vulnerable and so honest. </p><p><strong>Chelsey's Resources:</strong></p><p>BUY HER BOOK: <a href="https://i-like-you-minneapolis.myshopify.com/products/chelsey-larson-my-savage-truth?_pos=1&_sid=970d94efe&_ss=r" target="_blank">https://i-like-you-minneapolis.myshopify.com/products/chelsey-larson-my-savage-truth?_pos=1&_sid=970d94efe&_ss=r</a></p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li></ul>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (kind lips, Better Help)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chelsey is sharing the voice recording of her having a live mental breakdown in a foreign country. She talks about the honesty of feelings, contemplating checking yourself into a hospital, considering drinking again after more than a year of sobriety, and MORE. We listen to the whole recording, it is raw, vulnerable and so honest. </p><p><strong>Chelsey's Resources:</strong></p><p>BUY HER BOOK: <a href="https://i-like-you-minneapolis.myshopify.com/products/chelsey-larson-my-savage-truth?_pos=1&_sid=970d94efe&_ss=r" target="_blank">https://i-like-you-minneapolis.myshopify.com/products/chelsey-larson-my-savage-truth?_pos=1&_sid=970d94efe&_ss=r</a></p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Get 15% off your first Gruvi purchase with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://www.getgruvi.com" target="_blank">https://www.getgruvi.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2023 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Kind Lips, Better Help, Bizzy Coffee)</author>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 9 Jan 2023 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Kind Lips, Better Help, Bizzy Coffee)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One of the biggest fears I had when I decided to stop drinking at 22 years old was...am I not going to be fun anymore? In this episode I talk about how I am finding that my "fun factor" is up to ME! How fun we are is not determined by society's measure of fun but rather how we see ourselves and what we enjoy. </p><p>What I talk about in this episode:</p><ul><li>My fears going into sobriety</li><li>Will I be enough?</li><li>Will people still want to be my friend?</li><li>How do I make friends while sober?</li><li>How I shifted my mindset to knowing I am fun without alcohol</li><li>What is even considered "fun"?</li><li>I don't go out everytime I am invited </li><li>Answering the question: How do you handle when you get bored/annoyed around people who are drinking?</li></ul><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Dry January? Damp January? How can you experiment with life without alcohol?</p><p>What I Talk About:</p><ul><li>How 2022 shifted the sober curious movement</li><li>What is Dry January?</li><li>How to do Dry January with purpose and intention</li><li>What happens if you have a craving for alcohol? How can you shift it to damp january?</li><li>Sober Curious vs Sober vs Zero-Proof Forward vs Mindful Drinking</li><li>How important is alcohol to you? Can you go a week? Month? Without it?</li><li>What is next for It's Hard</li></ul><p> </p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 2 Jan 2023 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Better Help, Bizzy Coffee, Kind Lips)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dry January? Damp January? How can you experiment with life without alcohol?</p><p>What I Talk About:</p><ul><li>How 2022 shifted the sober curious movement</li><li>What is Dry January?</li><li>How to do Dry January with purpose and intention</li><li>What happens if you have a craving for alcohol? How can you shift it to damp january?</li><li>Sober Curious vs Sober vs Zero-Proof Forward vs Mindful Drinking</li><li>How important is alcohol to you? Can you go a week? Month? Without it?</li><li>What is next for It's Hard</li></ul><p> </p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>This episode is a perfect depiction of the entirety of this show. Relateable and all over the place. Thank you for listening for 100 episodes -- wtf???</p><p>Today we talk about:</p><ul><li>Random shit</li><li>Embarassing stories (ours and YOURS)</li><li>Insecurity of not being athletic </li><li>Being driven by childhood passions</li><li>Basic things that are hard</li></ul><p>Gruvi is doing a giveaway for my 100th episode! Go to @itshardpodcast on instagram to enter. </p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 12 Dec 2022 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (gruvi, Better Help, Kind Lips, Bizzy Coffee)</author>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>The New Year is coming up and if you are anything like me, you don't realllyyy stress about jumping into a new year. However, it is a good time to reflect, level set, and create a vision for the next year of your life. I deeply believe in doing everything with intention. If you want your life to be a certain way, you have the capacity to create the life you desire. You just have to do the WORK. In this episode, I talk about the power of vision planning (when you do it with intention), the challenges of new years resolutions, and I end with tips for sobriety during the holidays and how to be intentional with Dry January. Enjoy the 2nd to last pod of the year!</p><p> </p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 5 Dec 2022 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Kind Lips, Bizzy Coffee, Better Help)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The New Year is coming up and if you are anything like me, you don't realllyyy stress about jumping into a new year. However, it is a good time to reflect, level set, and create a vision for the next year of your life. I deeply believe in doing everything with intention. If you want your life to be a certain way, you have the capacity to create the life you desire. You just have to do the WORK. In this episode, I talk about the power of vision planning (when you do it with intention), the challenges of new years resolutions, and I end with tips for sobriety during the holidays and how to be intentional with Dry January. Enjoy the 2nd to last pod of the year!</p><p> </p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Holidays are HARD for most of us. They are also nostalgic, joyful, beautiful, and happy. They are everything all at once. Today Paige talks about the messiness of holidays and how you can make the most of this season by looking out for YOU!</p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 28 Nov 2022 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Better Help, Kind Lips, Bizzy Coffee)</author>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Lauren Cunningham shares her hard thing --- her struggle with chronic illness -- specifically the struggle to be properly diagnosed. Chronic Illness is still such a misunderstood illness and struggle. Most people go misdiagnosed or undiagnosed for years before recieving proper treatment. Hearing these stories allows you to be more aware of personal signs of chronic illness and to have more empathy and understanding for those who struggle. </p><p>Lauren does holistic health coaching, recipe development, and has her own podcast. Check out her website to learn more about how to connect with Lauren.</p><p><a href="https://laurencunningham.co" target="_blank">https://laurencunningham.co</a></p><p> </p><p> </p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2022 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Lauren Cunningham, Bizzy Coffee, Better Help, kindlips)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/chronic-illnessa-hard-but-necesary-conversation-LtgijuSq</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lauren Cunningham shares her hard thing --- her struggle with chronic illness -- specifically the struggle to be properly diagnosed. Chronic Illness is still such a misunderstood illness and struggle. Most people go misdiagnosed or undiagnosed for years before recieving proper treatment. Hearing these stories allows you to be more aware of personal signs of chronic illness and to have more empathy and understanding for those who struggle. </p><p>Lauren does holistic health coaching, recipe development, and has her own podcast. Check out her website to learn more about how to connect with Lauren.</p><p><a href="https://laurencunningham.co" target="_blank">https://laurencunningham.co</a></p><p> </p><p> </p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 14 Nov 2022 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/its-hard-is-3-how-the-heck-did-i-start-a-podcast-and-keep-it-going-W5gSTXgb</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 7 Nov 2022 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/how-do-i-get-over-heartbreak-4jaw_Qbz</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you been heartbroken? You aren't alone. I think majority of the world has felt heartbreak on some level. Emily and I sit down to chat about the truth and challenge of heartbreak and how someone can move on. </p><p> </p><p>We talk about:</p><ul><li>What you can learn from heartbreak</li><li>Being on your own</li><li>Knowing what you want</li><li>Moving on</li><li>Dating!!</li><li>Being independent in a relationship and outside of it</li><li>and MORE</li></ul><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <itunes:summary>Whether it has been 3 days, 3 weeks, 3 months or 3 years, heartbreak is HARD. Emily Johnson, friend and avid It&apos;s Hard listener joins the pod today to talk about the universal pain of HEARTBREAK. </itunes:summary>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>We talk about:</p><ul><li>Small wedding size</li><li>Spending time with guests</li><li>Feeling overwhelmed during the weekend</li><li>Feeling anxious and scared the weeks leading up</li><li>The best song we danced to</li><li>Not having a bridal party</li><li>How we met</li><li>Our vows</li><li>Favorite part of the day</li><li>What went WRONG -- yes, my dress ripped</li></ul><p><strong>Our Wedding Vendors:</strong></p><ul><li>Our  wedding planner: <a href="https://www.dewittplanning.com" target="_blank">https://www.dewittplanning.com</a></li><li>Our photographer: <a href="https://www.keeleyhays.com" target="_blank">https://www.keeleyhays.com</a></li><li>Venue: <a href="https://www.powdermountain.com/groups-weddings" target="_blank">https://www.powdermountain.com/groups-weddings</a></li><li>Catering: <a href="https://www.peddlerscatering.com" target="_blank">https://www.peddlerscatering.com</a></li></ul><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 31 Oct 2022 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (bizzy coffee, gruuvi, dewitt planning, kind lips, better help)</author>
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      <itunes:title>Our Wedding: Doing things your way? No bridal party? My dress ripped!  Answering all your Qs</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>Jack is on the pod today!! He is here to talk about OUR WEDDING! Finally we are talking all the details of our big day. What went wrong? What was the best song on our playlist? Why didn&apos;t we have a bridal party? Answering all of your questions! </itunes:summary>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Make My Mocktails is the BEST mocktail account, but that isn't all Tori Bertschy does. She has started the conversation around a Zero-Proof Forward Lifestyle. Tori talks about following your intuition and gut when it comes to drinking alcohol. In this podcast, we talk honestly about the sober community and how it is possible to live in the gray area and do things YOUR way. Sober curious is a buzz-word right now. We are here to talk about how to balance alcohol and become a mindful drinker instead of going in a direction that doesn't align with what you want. </p><p>We talk about:</p><ul><li>Being Zero-Proof Forward</li><li>Mindful drinking</li><li>How does the sober community fit into ZPF?</li><li>Choosing not to drink</li><li>Setting boundaries</li><li>Being around people who drink</li><li>It doesn't have to be one or the other</li><li>Making decisions based on how you feel</li><li>Avoiding restriction</li><li>Being sober curious</li><li>Non-alcoholic options at your wedding</li><li>The best NA options in Tori's opinion</li><li>.5 alcohol percentage?</li></ul><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="http://www.itshardpodcast.com">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com/">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul><p><strong>Make My Mocktails Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.makemymocktails.com/">https://www.makemymocktails.com</a></li><li><a href="https://www.instagram.com/makemymocktails/">https://www.instagram.com/makemymocktails/</a></li><li><a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@makemymocktails">https://www.tiktok.com/@makemymocktails</a></li><li><a href="https://www.pinterest.com/makemymocktails/">https://www.pinterest.com/makemymocktails/</a></li><li>Watch out for all the new exciting things Tori has coming SOON. She says a PRODUCT? I am sold.</li></ul>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Make My Mocktails, Tori Bertschy, Better Help, Bizzy Coffee, Kind Lips)</author>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Oct 2022 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Jesse Gosso, Better Help, Bizzy Coffee, Paige Boner, Kind Lips)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Listener, friend, and incredible person, Jessie Gosso, joins It's Hard to talk about FOMO. The Fear of Missing Out is something that many people struggle with. We often feel alone in it because we are scared to admit this type of fear. </p><p>Jessie shares her experience with FOMO and how it has impacted her relationship with herself and others. </p><p>What we talk about:</p><ul><li>What IS FOMO?</li><li>How does anxiety play a part?</li><li>How does FOMO impact our relationships?</li><li>Confrontation</li><li>What are we afraid of?</li><li>The power of listening to yourself</li></ul><p> </p><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082" target="_blank">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com" target="_blank">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 10 Oct 2022 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Kind Lips, betterhelp, Bizzy Coffee)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you participating in Sober October or looking to? Are you looking for a break from booze or a BREAKTHROUGH?</p><p>Either is totally fine, I am here to share different ways you could come out of this month with more intention and clarity on your relationship with alcohol. </p><p>Things I talk about:</p><ul><li>Sober October</li><li>Taking a break from alcohol</li><li>Becoming sober</li><li>Sobriety</li><li>Zero-Proof forward lifestyle</li><li>Reclaiming your relationship with booze</li><li>INTENTIONALITY!</li><li>Options for drinks this month and beyond!</li></ul><p><strong>It’s Hard Resources: </strong></p><ul><li><a href="www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1" target="_blank">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast?_t=8U6RZblQ79X&_r=1</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>Submit your hard thing -- be on the show! <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com/contact</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Get 15% off BIZZY Coffee: <a href="https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082" target="_blank">https://www.bizzycoffee.com/collections/shop-all?dt_id=110082</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com" target="_blank">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 3 Oct 2022 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Bizzy Coffee, Kind Lips, better help, Paige Boner, It&apos;s Hard Podcast)</author>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 23 May 2022 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (sather audio, kindlips, betterhelp, NAMI)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mental Health Awareness Month is the month of May. This year, I took a lot of action in ensuring that I made the most of MHAM. In this episode, I chat with you all about some amazing things that I have learned, reflected on, and now will start to implement after this past month. </p><p>Some things I talk about include:</p><ul><li>The NAMI walk in Utah.</li><li>Alternative resources for therapy.</li><li>Mental health resources</li><li>Finding a therapist</li><li>Parents struggling with their kids mental health</li><li>Social media </li><li>Medicine </li><li>Feeling content in life </li><li>Monthly Mental Health Check-Ins -- DM or email me if you are interested in joining</li></ul><p>Resources from NAMI walk:</p><ul><li><a href="https://afsp.org" target="_blank">https://afsp.org </a></li><li><a href="https://cookcenterforhumanconnection.org" target="_blank">https://cookcenterforhumanconnection.org</a></li><li><a href="https://mentalhealthyfit.org" target="_blank">https://mentalhealthyfit.org</a></li><li><a href="https://www.janssen.com" target="_blank">https://www.janssen.com</a></li></ul><p><strong>SUPPORT NAMI THIS MONTH (and beyond) BY DONATING TO MY WALK WITH NAMI-UTAH: </strong><a href="https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726" target="_blank">https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=3817</a></p><p>It’s Hard Resources: </p><ul><li><a href="www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Donate to NAMI: <a href="https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726" target="_blank">https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com" target="_blank">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 16 May 2022 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mental health looks different for everyone. Jack and I sit down to talk about his experience with mental health and how it has shown up for him over the years. He gets vulnerable about struggles with anxiety, feeling stuck, depression, drinking and more. However, he also shares his outlook on life and how his upbringing positively impacted his relationship with his mental health.</p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Voices in your head</li><li>Anxiety</li><li>Feeling stuck</li><li>Expressing emotions</li><li>Homeschooling</li><li>Family</li></ul><p><strong>SUPPORT NAMI THIS MONTH (and beyond) BY DONATING TO MY WALK WITH NAMI-UTAH: </strong><a href="https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726" target="_blank">https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=3817</a></p><p>It’s Hard Resources: </p><ul><li><a href="www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Sign-Up and/or Donate to my NAMI Walk: <a href="https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726" target="_blank">https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com" target="_blank">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>TW</strong>: This episode contains mention of anorexia, body dysmorphia, binging, and disordered eating. </p><p>I was diagnosed with generalized anorexia and body dysmorphia at the age of 17. In this episode, I share everything that led up to my diagnosis and everything that has happened through my recovery. </p><p><strong>SUPPORT NAMI THIS MONTH (and beyond) BY DONATING TO MY WALK WITH NAMI-UTAH: </strong><a href="https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726" target="_blank">https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=3817</a></p><p>It’s Hard Resources: </p><ul><li><a href="www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Sign-Up and/or Donate to my NAMI Walk: <a href="https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726" target="_blank">https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com" target="_blank">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 9 May 2022 12:39:23 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (kind lips, nami, better help, sather audio)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/my-experience-with-disordered-eating-body-dysmorphia-dkxGnSLA</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>TW</strong>: This episode contains mention of anorexia, body dysmorphia, binging, and disordered eating. </p><p>I was diagnosed with generalized anorexia and body dysmorphia at the age of 17. In this episode, I share everything that led up to my diagnosis and everything that has happened through my recovery. </p><p><strong>SUPPORT NAMI THIS MONTH (and beyond) BY DONATING TO MY WALK WITH NAMI-UTAH: </strong><a href="https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726" target="_blank">https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=3817</a></p><p>It’s Hard Resources: </p><ul><li><a href="www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Sign-Up and/or Donate to my NAMI Walk: <a href="https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726" target="_blank">https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com" target="_blank">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>TW</strong>: This episode contains mention of suicidal ideation + alcoholism.</p><p>I got sober one year ago today. In this episode, I talk about why I got sober and what the journey has looked like ever since. Sobirety has impacted my mental health in ways that I never would have imagined. What better way to kick off Mental Health Awareness Month than with my biggest mental health hack - sobriety!</p><p><strong>DISCLAIMER</strong>: You don't have to be sober or sober curious to enjoy/benefit from this episode!!! </p><p><strong>SUPPORT NAMI THIS MONTH (and beyond) BY DONATING TO MY WALK WITH NAMI-UTAH: </strong><a href="https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726" target="_blank">https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=3817</a></p><p>It’s Hard Resources: </p><ul><li><a href="www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Sign-Up and/or Donate to my NAMI Walk: <a href="https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726" target="_blank">https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com" target="_blank">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul><p> </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 2 May 2022 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (paige boner, sather audio, itshard, better help, kind lips)</author>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>"Every single day that you wake up, you are setting a new record for yourself." - Mark Dowdle</p><p>Paige and Mark sit down to catch up and talk about what the past two years have brought up for them. This episode will leave you thinking, feeling, and with tangible truths to apply to your own life. </p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Ego</li><li>Telling people you love them</li><li>Releasing baggage</li><li>Enoughness</li><li>Supporting people</li><li>Journaling</li><li>Believing in oneself</li><li>Authenticity</li><li>Serving others</li><li>Heartbreak</li><li>Breakups</li><li>The in between</li></ul><p>Christina's Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/markdowdle22/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/markdowdle22/</a></li></ul><p>It’s Hard Resources: </p><ul><li><a href="www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Mental health check: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167</a></li><li>Sign-Up and/or Donate to my NAMI Walk: <a href="https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726" target="_blank">https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com" target="_blank">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul><p> </p>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>"Every single day that you wake up, you are setting a new record for yourself." - Mark Dowdle</p><p>Paige and Mark sit down to catch up and talk about what the past two years have brought up for them. This episode will leave you thinking, feeling, and with tangible truths to apply to your own life. </p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Ego</li><li>Telling people you love them</li><li>Releasing baggage</li><li>Enoughness</li><li>Supporting people</li><li>Journaling</li><li>Believing in oneself</li><li>Authenticity</li><li>Serving others</li><li>Heartbreak</li><li>Breakups</li><li>The in between</li></ul><p>Christina's Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/markdowdle22/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/markdowdle22/</a></li></ul><p>It’s Hard Resources: </p><ul><li><a href="www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Mental health check: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167</a></li><li>Sign-Up and/or Donate to my NAMI Walk: <a href="https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726" target="_blank">https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com" target="_blank">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul><p> </p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>TRIGGER WARNING: In this episode, we talk about suicidal ideation. </p><p>Paige and Christina have a real conversation about the various ways that mental illness can defeat us. Christina lives with bipolar disorder and genralized anxiety, her mission is to spread awareness around mental illness and normalize the conversation in hopes to end the stigma. She also got sober in 2020 and shares her journey to recovery. Listen along for an honest, raw, and relateable conversation about hard things in life. We make the hard things easier! </p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Sobriety</li><li>Anxiety</li><li>Bipolar Disorder</li><li>Social Media</li><li>Addiction</li><li>Suicidal Ideation</li><li>Partnerships and Mental Health</li></ul><p>Christina's Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ckimbrough1/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/ckimbrough1/</a></li><li>Podcast: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/girlhealpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/girlhealpodcast/</a></li></ul><p>It’s Hard Resources: </p><ul><li><a href="www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Mental health check: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167</a></li><li>Sign-Up and/or Donate to my NAMI Walk: <a href="https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726" target="_blank">https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com" target="_blank">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul><p> </p><p> </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 18 Apr 2022 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (christina kimbrough, girl heal podcast, paige boner, sather audio, its hard podcast)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/lets-get-real-about-suicidal-ideation-addiction-with-christina-kimbrough-UUJnlHDY</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>TRIGGER WARNING: In this episode, we talk about suicidal ideation. </p><p>Paige and Christina have a real conversation about the various ways that mental illness can defeat us. Christina lives with bipolar disorder and genralized anxiety, her mission is to spread awareness around mental illness and normalize the conversation in hopes to end the stigma. She also got sober in 2020 and shares her journey to recovery. Listen along for an honest, raw, and relateable conversation about hard things in life. We make the hard things easier! </p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Sobriety</li><li>Anxiety</li><li>Bipolar Disorder</li><li>Social Media</li><li>Addiction</li><li>Suicidal Ideation</li><li>Partnerships and Mental Health</li></ul><p>Christina's Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ckimbrough1/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/ckimbrough1/</a></li><li>Podcast: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/girlhealpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/girlhealpodcast/</a></li></ul><p>It’s Hard Resources: </p><ul><li><a href="www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Mental health check: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167</a></li><li>Sign-Up and/or Donate to my NAMI Walk: <a href="https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726" target="_blank">https://www.namiwalks.org/index.cfm?fuseaction=donorDrive.participant&participantID=381726</a></li><li>Get 10% off Kindlips Chapstick with code ITSHARD: <a href="https://kindlips.com" target="_blank">https://kindlips.com</a></li></ul><p> </p><p> </p>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>EPISODE NOTES:  </p><ul><li>How parents struggle with the hardships of kids growing up, moving on, and moving away </li><li>The comfort we feel when we are missed, how this makes us accomplished and proud in many ways </li><li>The differences we face with our relationship versus the relationship our parents have and the people in our lives have. </li><li>How mothers and parents struggle at every stage of their child’s life to navigate life, watching your child face hardships and how this affects parents mentally </li></ul><p>We also talk about:</p><ul><li>Moving away</li><li>Distance </li><li>Confidence </li><li>Missing someone </li><li>Experiences </li><li>Meeting in the middle </li><li>Hardships </li><li>Parents </li><li>Motherhood</li><li>Children</li><li>Grandchildren </li><li>Navigating life</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources: </p><ul><li>https://www.itshardpodcast.com </li><li>SIGN-UP HERE FOR THE MONTHLY MENTAL HEALTH CHECK-IN: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/238727429167">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/238727429167</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li> Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</li><li> Now find us on Twitter! https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</li><li> Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li> Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Join our Community on Facebook: It's Hard Community</li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li> It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Mental health check: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 4 Apr 2022 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Jack Holmgren, Paige Boner, Sather Audio)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Paige and Jack go over the following:</p><ul><li>Leaving can be good, when you feel a need to leave. However moving and leaving won’t make your problems disappear. As humans we need to have that at the forefront of our minds</li><li>Moving can be very isolating and hard causing you to have mental health struggles still, mental health is not dependent on a specific place. Vacations, kids, moving, things, will not cure our mental health issues.</li><li>Starting over and resetting is beneficial, but not running away from things</li><li>Having a support system will result in a great growing and learning experience</li></ul><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Work life balance</li><li>Moving</li><li>Mental health</li><li>Starting over</li><li>Support system</li><li>Growing</li><li>Intentions and Expectations</li></ul><p>It’s Hard Resources: </p><ul><li><a href="www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>SIGN-UP HERE FOR THE MONTHLY MENTAL HEALTH CHECK-IN: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/238727429167">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/238727429167</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</li><li>Now find us on Twitter! https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Join our Community on Facebook: It's Hard Community</li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Mental health check: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167</a></li></ul><p> </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2022 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Paige and Jack discuss the following:</p><ul><li>What is effective communication in a relationship? And how can we understand different communication styles within a relationship?</li><li>You are responsible for your own happiness, not your partner</li><li>We must be willing to meet in the middle within a relationship, without this a relationship may not suffice</li><li>Communication is the most important aspect of a healthy relationship because it allows each partner to discuss what they need within the relationship.</li></ul><p>It’s Hard resources: </p><ul><li><a href="www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>SIGN-UP HERE FOR THE MONTHLY MENTAL HEALTH CHECK-IN: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/238727429167">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/238727429167</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</li><li>Now find us on Twitter! https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Join our Community on Facebook: It's Hard Community</li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Mental health check: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167</a></li></ul>
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      <description><![CDATA[<ul><li>While cohabiting, healthy relationships require alone time, finding your own space and own niche allows for a healthier stronger relationship</li><li>Finding what you like least and setting expectations in a new home together </li><li>Cohabiting is difficult but not impossible, setting boundaries and talking openingly allow for a healthier relationship </li><li>Something that you enjoy doing doesn’t need to be shared with a partner. </li></ul><p>It’s Hard resources: </p><ul><li> <a href="www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>SIGN-UP HERE FOR THE MONTHLY MENTAL HEALTH CHECK-IN: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/238727429167">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/238727429167</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li> Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</li><li> Now find us on Twitter! https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</li><li> Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li> Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Join our Community on Facebook: It's Hard Community</li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li> It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Mental health check: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Feb 2022 12:56:18 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (sather audio, paige boner, its hard)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<ul><li>While cohabiting, healthy relationships require alone time, finding your own space and own niche allows for a healthier stronger relationship</li><li>Finding what you like least and setting expectations in a new home together </li><li>Cohabiting is difficult but not impossible, setting boundaries and talking openingly allow for a healthier relationship </li><li>Something that you enjoy doing doesn’t need to be shared with a partner. </li></ul><p>It’s Hard resources: </p><ul><li> <a href="www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>SIGN-UP HERE FOR THE MONTHLY MENTAL HEALTH CHECK-IN: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/238727429167">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/238727429167</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li> Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</li><li> Now find us on Twitter! https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</li><li> Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=</a></li><li> Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Join our Community on Facebook: It's Hard Community</li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li> It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li>Mental health check: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/monthly-mental-health-check-in-tickets-238727429167</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 14 Feb 2022 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (sather audio, paige boner, its hard podcast)</author>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 31 Jan 2022 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Michele Finneran, Dr. Michele Finneran, Sather Audio, Paige Boner)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Michele discusses the following:</p><ol><li>A lot of children struggle finding mental health help because their guardians do not believe in these services. How can we help these children in these situations?</li><li>Assessing to see what is needed from you as a listener or helper in certain situations, and how to approach the situation.</li><li>Improving and becoming the best version of ourselves even with the negativity that is surrounding us in the world. What are you gracious and appreciative for?</li><li>Distancing from our familial ties is harder than ever with the economy we are in, making mental health a bigger and harder issue in many teens and young adults lives.</li></ol><p>Dr. Michele Finneran's resources: </p><ul><li>Website: <a href="https://www.drmichelefinneran.com/">https://www.drmichelefinneran.com/</a></li><li>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/dr.finneran">https://www.facebook.com/dr.finneran</a></li><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dr.finneran/channel/">https://www.instagram.com/dr.finneran/channel/</a></li><li>Pinterst: <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/veccandassociates/_created/">https://www.pinterest.com/veccandassociates/_created/</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>SIGN-UP HERE FOR THE MONTHLY MENTAL HEALTH CHECK-IN: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/238727429167">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/238727429167</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Join our Community on Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/271925938186958/">It's Hard Community</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li></ul>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Josh Neumann launched KIND LIPS in 2017 with an intention to offer a quality lip balm with a deeper intention. </p><ol><li> What is the deeper meaning of kindness? What is my intention when expressing kindness?</li><li>What does it look like to follow a dream that makes an impact rather than following the money?</li><li>The power of giving back, how do you implement it into your business plan from the start?</li><li>Starting a business and the signs that show themselves through the process. </li></ol><p>Josh's Resources:</p><ul><li>Website: <a href="https://kindlips.com">https://kindlips.com</a></li><li>Instagram: @kindlips</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>SIGN-UP HERE FOR THE MONTHLY MENTAL HEALTH CHECK-IN: <a href="https://www.eventbrite.com/e/238727429167">https://www.eventbrite.com/e/238727429167</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Join our Community on Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/271925938186958/">It's Hard Community</a></li><li>Email us at: hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li></ul>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (brooklyn&apos;s bites, its hard podcast, paige boner, brooke nickelatti)</author>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner, It&apos;s Hard Podcast, Sather Audio)</author>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Think Unbroken, Michael Unbroken, Michael Anthony, it&apos;s hard podcast, paige boner)</author>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Emmy Marie is a certified trauma-informed life coach who strives to create content that makes understanding trauma and healing more accessible and achievable. She hopes to help as many people as possible reject toxic shame, grow to love and accept themselves, and create joyful lives and relationships post trauma. </p><p>In this episode, Emmy dives into her experience with trauma and how it led her to where she is now. At age 15, she entered an abusive relationship. She had a skewed idea of “what love is” due to this, and it reduced her from being her happiest, healthiest self. After three years, she was finally able to get out. She began to experience PTSD and started going to therapy, which started her healing journey and journey towards learning and educating others about trauma. </p><p>Emmy defines trauma as, “something in the past that overwhelmed your nervous system to the point that you were not able to reconcile what happened and feel safe”. There are multiple types of trauma, and it depends on each person and their reaction to a situation. She also explains the healing process and how there is no linear process towards it, as well as how to move into a new relationship post-trauma and post-healing. </p><p>We also talk about… </p><ul><li>Relationships</li><li>Safety</li><li>Types of trauma<ul><li>Abuse</li><li>Neglect</li><li>Bullying</li><li>Homophobia</li><li>Sexism</li><li>Racism</li></ul></li><li>Types of abuse<ul><li>Physical</li><li>Emotional</li><li>Financial</li><li>Religious</li><li>Sexual</li></ul></li><li>Love-bonding</li><li>Manipulation</li><li>Self-blame</li><li>Responsibility</li><li>Leaving abusive relationships </li><li>Healing</li><li>Trust</li></ul><p>Emmy’s Resources: </p><ul><li>Website: Emmymarie.com and</li><li>IG, TikTok, Pinterest: @bloomingwithemmy</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></li><li><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 20 Dec 2021 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Emmy Marie, It&apos;s Hard Podcast, Paige Boner, Sather Audio)</author>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Paige sits down with psychologist Dr. Elnur Gajiev to strives to give the people around him a sense of meaning within their lives. Mental health has always been a factor in his life and he hopes to empower those around him through his experiences. </p><p>As a child, Elnur and his family immigrated to the United States. This large change really impacted the way Dr. Elnur lived his life. He encountered many challenges as he moved from place to place and changed the way he lived his daily life. Many things came to light later in life as he realized all the challenges he went through. From moving across the world, experiencing a culture shock, adapting to a new area, and the many other things he and his family faced, completely changed the trajectory of his life. He did not have the resources and help to work through his mental health journey, but this allowed him to become an advocate for this journey for others. He has done this by working with children to empower them and help them work through the many things they may be feeling. </p><p>Life encompasses many different things. From reflection, wisdom, community, family, differences and much more. Within our lives, we form many relationships--some lasting longer than others--however we should be grateful for each and every one because life has many chapters. We all evolve, move on, move out, and transform into the people we meant to be. Our lives all have meaning, sometimes harder to find than other times. Mental health is important in each and every life, when we improve ourselves we then improve our mental health. Nobody is alone, we all have a community around us. </p><p>We also talk about… </p><ul><li>Adaptability </li><li>Immigration</li><li>Culture shock</li><li>Transformations</li><li>Relationships </li><li>Consistency</li><li>Comfortability </li><li>Wisdom </li><li>Expectations</li><li>Rights of Passage</li><li>Community </li><li>Bounded life</li><li>Moving</li><li>Differences </li><li>Gratitude </li></ul><p>Dr Elnur’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: @PoetryInPsychology </li><li>Website: <a href="http://www.dr-el.com/">www.Dr-El.com</a></li><li>Learn more about Pace at Pace.Group</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></li><li><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 13 Dec 2021 16:17:05 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Elnur Gajiev, Paige Boner, Sather Audio)</author>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>The episode begins with a question about Paige's decision to commit to sobriety. Paige is sober because of the trauma and anxiety that drinking brought to her. While for her it is something that she needed to do and it has helped her mental wellbeing, sobriety is something that many people around us do not understand; some will even try to persuade you into breaking that sobriety. This goes into the next point of self sabotaging, we have conditioned ourselves from a young age of believing we have specific limits on us as human beings. This makes us believe we cannot do certain things or achieve things that are a bit more difficult. You can achieve whatever you put your mind towards and work towards, nothing is in your way but yourself. </p><p>Our mental health is important in many ways, if we are not on track and doing well ourselves it is difficult and even sometimes impossible to help those around us. Just as we rely on those around us, they also rely on us. We have to surround ourselves with people who are willing to help us and watch us thrive. Having a support system is very important to our mental health. </p><p>The last topic of this episode is Paige and Jack's engagement. When committing to each other they decided not to go a traditional route, but go in a route that fit them best. Everyone is different and having one traditional approach is not for everyone. Both Paige and Jack asked each other's parents, and decided to both ask each other to commit to each for an eternity. This commitment was a special moment for them and they will be able to remember it and live through it for forever. Relationships are all different and are meant to be that way! </p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Sobriety</li><li>Sober curious</li><li>Trauma</li><li>Anxiety</li><li>Support system</li><li>Self sabotaging</li><li>Boundaries</li><li>Mental wellbeing</li><li>Therapy</li><li>Time apart</li><li>Relationship</li><li>Growing</li><li>Future</li><li>Regrets</li><li>Engagement</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"><strong>https://www.itshardpodcast.com</strong></a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"><strong>https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</strong></a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"><strong>https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</strong></a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"><strong>https://www.itshardpodcast.com</strong></a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast"><strong>https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</strong></a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast"><strong>https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</strong></a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1"><strong>https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</strong></a></li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/"><strong>https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</strong></a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/"><strong>https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/"><strong>https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/"><strong>https://www.hearts4henry.org</strong></a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 6 Dec 2021 14:56:09 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner, Sather Audio, Jack Holmgren)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/you-are-in-charge-of-your-happiness-with-jack-holmgren-WWa4MvN3</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The episode begins with a question about Paige's decision to commit to sobriety. Paige is sober because of the trauma and anxiety that drinking brought to her. While for her it is something that she needed to do and it has helped her mental wellbeing, sobriety is something that many people around us do not understand; some will even try to persuade you into breaking that sobriety. This goes into the next point of self sabotaging, we have conditioned ourselves from a young age of believing we have specific limits on us as human beings. This makes us believe we cannot do certain things or achieve things that are a bit more difficult. You can achieve whatever you put your mind towards and work towards, nothing is in your way but yourself. </p><p>Our mental health is important in many ways, if we are not on track and doing well ourselves it is difficult and even sometimes impossible to help those around us. Just as we rely on those around us, they also rely on us. We have to surround ourselves with people who are willing to help us and watch us thrive. Having a support system is very important to our mental health. </p><p>The last topic of this episode is Paige and Jack's engagement. When committing to each other they decided not to go a traditional route, but go in a route that fit them best. Everyone is different and having one traditional approach is not for everyone. Both Paige and Jack asked each other's parents, and decided to both ask each other to commit to each for an eternity. This commitment was a special moment for them and they will be able to remember it and live through it for forever. Relationships are all different and are meant to be that way! </p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Sobriety</li><li>Sober curious</li><li>Trauma</li><li>Anxiety</li><li>Support system</li><li>Self sabotaging</li><li>Boundaries</li><li>Mental wellbeing</li><li>Therapy</li><li>Time apart</li><li>Relationship</li><li>Growing</li><li>Future</li><li>Regrets</li><li>Engagement</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"><strong>https://www.itshardpodcast.com</strong></a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"><strong>https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</strong></a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"><strong>https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</strong></a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"><strong>https://www.itshardpodcast.com</strong></a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast"><strong>https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</strong></a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast"><strong>https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</strong></a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1"><strong>https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</strong></a></li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/"><strong>https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</strong></a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/"><strong>https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/"><strong>https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</strong></a></li><li><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/"><strong>https://www.hearts4henry.org</strong></a></li></ul>
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      <itunes:summary>SOLO: This week, Paige sits down with her fiancé Jack to answer listeners questions about sobriety, friendships, mental wellbeing, their engagement, and more. </itunes:summary>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Liz Krueger is a social media influencer who shares her life to thousands on instagram. With sharing her life, Liz has realized she has had to be very open and vulnerable with her followers. This was not  something new to Liz, as she has always been an open and vulnerable person, but being vulnerable to thousands of people was a big jump. With online bullies and people being mean to her through the screen she wondered if being vulnerable was something she could continue to do, or if it was a mentally good place. She quickly realized that this was something she could not invite onto her page, she realized she too is human and not every human is perfect in any sense. Sharing her real and raw life is what she wanted to do instead of sharing a staged and fake life, and if she got hate while doing that, she did not care. </p><p>Liz further opened up about an instance that occurred to her at a wedding. At a friend's wedding, she opted to wear a bodycon dress that she felt comfortable in. As she was on the dance floor, a woman approached her and slapped her butt, saying that "she was asking for this to occur wearing an outfit like that". Liz did not see this as fun or a game at all, but instead felt as if she was assaulted by this woman. She later took to a radio station to share her story that  day at the wedding, however this did not go over well. As people were giving her threats, bullying her, calling her slurs, and much more; saying she was inviting this to happen by wearing a dress like that. Instead of attacking the woman's actions, they attacked her. This really rocked Liz’s world as people from across the world caught onto this story and attacked her, but she took control of this and did not let it affect her mental health. She says, just because people don’t agree with your feelings doesn’t mean your feelings aren’t real. As a result of this, Liz began a  kindness campaign that helped others who were bullied. She took control of the situation and made it into something that meant something. </p><p>We cannot always let big things bring us down, instead we have to take control of the situations that are put in front of us. Life can be difficult with the societal norms that are placed all around us and social media, however our mental health must always be a priority. Your struggle is no less than the person beside you, they are just struggling differently. </p><p>We also talk about… </p><ul><li>Mental health</li><li>Social media</li><li>Assault</li><li>Bullying</li><li>Societal norms</li><li>Therapy</li><li>Vulnerability</li><li>Kindness</li><li>Struggling</li><li>Environments</li><li>Energy</li></ul><p>Liz’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: @wearethekruegers</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Join our Community on Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/271925938186958/">It's Hard Community</a></li><li>Email us at, hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></li><li><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 29 Nov 2021 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Liz Krueger, Sather Audio, Paige Boner)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/being-yourself-how-truth-and-authenticity-impact-our-lives-with-liz-krueger-w5LQ_p3C</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Liz Krueger is a social media influencer who shares her life to thousands on instagram. With sharing her life, Liz has realized she has had to be very open and vulnerable with her followers. This was not  something new to Liz, as she has always been an open and vulnerable person, but being vulnerable to thousands of people was a big jump. With online bullies and people being mean to her through the screen she wondered if being vulnerable was something she could continue to do, or if it was a mentally good place. She quickly realized that this was something she could not invite onto her page, she realized she too is human and not every human is perfect in any sense. Sharing her real and raw life is what she wanted to do instead of sharing a staged and fake life, and if she got hate while doing that, she did not care. </p><p>Liz further opened up about an instance that occurred to her at a wedding. At a friend's wedding, she opted to wear a bodycon dress that she felt comfortable in. As she was on the dance floor, a woman approached her and slapped her butt, saying that "she was asking for this to occur wearing an outfit like that". Liz did not see this as fun or a game at all, but instead felt as if she was assaulted by this woman. She later took to a radio station to share her story that  day at the wedding, however this did not go over well. As people were giving her threats, bullying her, calling her slurs, and much more; saying she was inviting this to happen by wearing a dress like that. Instead of attacking the woman's actions, they attacked her. This really rocked Liz’s world as people from across the world caught onto this story and attacked her, but she took control of this and did not let it affect her mental health. She says, just because people don’t agree with your feelings doesn’t mean your feelings aren’t real. As a result of this, Liz began a  kindness campaign that helped others who were bullied. She took control of the situation and made it into something that meant something. </p><p>We cannot always let big things bring us down, instead we have to take control of the situations that are put in front of us. Life can be difficult with the societal norms that are placed all around us and social media, however our mental health must always be a priority. Your struggle is no less than the person beside you, they are just struggling differently. </p><p>We also talk about… </p><ul><li>Mental health</li><li>Social media</li><li>Assault</li><li>Bullying</li><li>Societal norms</li><li>Therapy</li><li>Vulnerability</li><li>Kindness</li><li>Struggling</li><li>Environments</li><li>Energy</li></ul><p>Liz’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: @wearethekruegers</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Join our Community on Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/271925938186958/">It's Hard Community</a></li><li>Email us at, hello@itshardpodcast.com</li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></li><li><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></li></ul>
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      <itunes:title>Being Yourself: How Truth and Authenticity Impact Our Lives with Liz Krueger</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>INTERVIEW: Paige sits down with Liz Krueger to discuss the real and raw struggles people face when placing their lives on the forefront of social media, being a stomping ground to bullying while being vulnerable to thousands. </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>INTERVIEW: Paige sits down with Liz Krueger to discuss the real and raw struggles people face when placing their lives on the forefront of social media, being a stomping ground to bullying while being vulnerable to thousands. </itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>Social Anxiety: From Socially Anxious to Socially Confident with Kyle Mitchell</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Kyle Mitchell, a public speaker, took control of his fears and struggles and turned it into something to help others around him. He realized he was not the only person who has or had social anxiety, which made him eager to help others. He began this by creating an Instagram page, and posted everyday, from tips of things he has learned to the things he has endured. This was one of the many baby steps Kyle has taken throughout his life to overcome this social anxiety. </p><p>Kyle begins this episode by talking about his mental health struggle through his social anxiety he faced. As a child he would have tough times trying to realize what was occurring, wondering what the problem was. Once he realized it was a real issue he was able to open up to adults in his life to navigate his way around his social anxiety and mental health. However, his metal health journey did not take a leap until college. In college, he knew it was time to take action for his mental health. He would slowly take baby steps in his journey, it started off as raising his hand once during class and the fear of doing that subsided overtime. He controlled his anxiety instead of allowing his anxiety to control him. All it takes is small steps to achieve the bigger picture. </p><p>Social anxiety is a mental health struggle many people struggle with, and many people do not realize others around them are struggling. Kyle continued hating parts of himself, such as being pale or the way he walks, these are things that are unchangeable and he realized that. He realized he had to stop hating his appearance and stop having self doubt in himself. He overcame social anxiety by realizing being himself is the best thing for his mental health. Now he travels to schools advocating to teens how to become socially confident in themselves and become their best selves. We must take care of ourselves in order to take care of those around us. </p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Social anxiety</li><li>Mental health</li><li>Anxiety</li><li>Challenges</li><li>Baby steps of uncomfortable things</li><li>Socially anxious → socially confident</li><li>Signs of social anxiety</li><li>Confidence</li><li>Social media's impact</li><li>Morning routine</li><li>Self care</li><li>Self affirmations</li><li>Self Love</li><li>Effort v. Result</li></ul><p>Kyle Mitchells Resources:</p><ul><li>Website: <a href="https://www.socialanxietykyle.com">https://www.socialanxietykyle.com</a></li><li>Email: <strong>kyle@socialanxietykyle.com</strong></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Join our Community on Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/271925938186958/">It's Hard Community</a></li><li>Email us at, <strong>hello@itshardpodcast.com</strong></li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></li><li><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 22 Nov 2021 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner, Kyle Mitchell, Sather Audio)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/social-anxiety-from-socially-anxious-to-socially-confident-with-kyle-mitchell-7kJ76Zb_</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kyle Mitchell, a public speaker, took control of his fears and struggles and turned it into something to help others around him. He realized he was not the only person who has or had social anxiety, which made him eager to help others. He began this by creating an Instagram page, and posted everyday, from tips of things he has learned to the things he has endured. This was one of the many baby steps Kyle has taken throughout his life to overcome this social anxiety. </p><p>Kyle begins this episode by talking about his mental health struggle through his social anxiety he faced. As a child he would have tough times trying to realize what was occurring, wondering what the problem was. Once he realized it was a real issue he was able to open up to adults in his life to navigate his way around his social anxiety and mental health. However, his metal health journey did not take a leap until college. In college, he knew it was time to take action for his mental health. He would slowly take baby steps in his journey, it started off as raising his hand once during class and the fear of doing that subsided overtime. He controlled his anxiety instead of allowing his anxiety to control him. All it takes is small steps to achieve the bigger picture. </p><p>Social anxiety is a mental health struggle many people struggle with, and many people do not realize others around them are struggling. Kyle continued hating parts of himself, such as being pale or the way he walks, these are things that are unchangeable and he realized that. He realized he had to stop hating his appearance and stop having self doubt in himself. He overcame social anxiety by realizing being himself is the best thing for his mental health. Now he travels to schools advocating to teens how to become socially confident in themselves and become their best selves. We must take care of ourselves in order to take care of those around us. </p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Social anxiety</li><li>Mental health</li><li>Anxiety</li><li>Challenges</li><li>Baby steps of uncomfortable things</li><li>Socially anxious → socially confident</li><li>Signs of social anxiety</li><li>Confidence</li><li>Social media's impact</li><li>Morning routine</li><li>Self care</li><li>Self affirmations</li><li>Self Love</li><li>Effort v. Result</li></ul><p>Kyle Mitchells Resources:</p><ul><li>Website: <a href="https://www.socialanxietykyle.com">https://www.socialanxietykyle.com</a></li><li>Email: <strong>kyle@socialanxietykyle.com</strong></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li><li>Get 10% Off your first month at BetterHelp:  <a href="https://betterhelp.com/itshard">https://betterhelp.com/itshard</a></li><li>Join our Community on Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/271925938186958/">It's Hard Community</a></li><li>Email us at, <strong>hello@itshardpodcast.com</strong></li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></li><li><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></li></ul>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Paige and Emily preface this episode with the overarching theme of mental health. Many people in our lives are struggling with mental health, and many people don’t have the support to help them navigate their way through it. </p><p>Emily had a tough time trying to diagnose these invisible illnesses she was encountering as a result of her struggle with mental health. As she discusses, mental health and physical health go hand in hand, and people do not need to suffer as a result of their mental health. She now realizes how parallel the two are, they are so interconnected. Emily’s healing journey included changing her diet such as cutting out dairy, many people did not understand her and why she was embarking on this journey. Another big topic within this episode is burnout. Emily describes how she was burning herself out, by overworking herself and proving her worth. She was continually overworking, this caused chronic pain, she then realized that there was a disconnect between her mind and body. Emily started her mind, body, darma when she realized this disconnect and realized she needed a change. People all over feel this burnout, many doctors try to make people change everything at once, whereas like Emily says our nervous system is in survival mode and changes make us more overwhelmed. To actually heal we need to change slowly or do “bite size self care”.</p><p>We must be able to open up to others around us and share our mental health struggles. Sharing and allowing ourselves to talk about our struggles allows us to figure out a way to help us and help others around us. Having a safe space to open up is very important. Emily did this by having an open story time at her workplace, they all were able to open up and talk about their struggles. This allows others to see that we are all going through something, and we can all help each other. We have to make a culture of inclusivity and support for more and more people to open up and share, knowing they are not alone. </p><p>We also talk about….</p><ul><li>Physical v mental health</li><li>chronic stress</li><li>Chronic illness</li><li>Healing</li><li>Struggles</li><li>Safe space</li><li>Inclusivity</li><li>Transparency</li><li>Creating communities</li><li>Mind, body, dharma</li><li>Identity cohesion</li><li>Flight, fight, freeze</li><li>Powerlessness</li><li>Card reading</li><li>Ripple effect</li><li>Challenges -> adventures</li></ul><p>Emily’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Website: <a href="https://www.mindbodydharma.com">https://www.mindbodydharma.com</a></li><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mindbodydharma">https://www.instagram.com/mindbodydharma</a></li><li>YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTZhHUEN7trDLTR6-VQMQMw">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTZhHUEN7trDLTR6-VQMQMw</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></li><li><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></li></ul>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 15 Nov 2021 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner, Sather Audio, Emily Schickli)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/with-emily-schickli-UkRYIFCQ</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Paige and Emily preface this episode with the overarching theme of mental health. Many people in our lives are struggling with mental health, and many people don’t have the support to help them navigate their way through it. </p><p>Emily had a tough time trying to diagnose these invisible illnesses she was encountering as a result of her struggle with mental health. As she discusses, mental health and physical health go hand in hand, and people do not need to suffer as a result of their mental health. She now realizes how parallel the two are, they are so interconnected. Emily’s healing journey included changing her diet such as cutting out dairy, many people did not understand her and why she was embarking on this journey. Another big topic within this episode is burnout. Emily describes how she was burning herself out, by overworking herself and proving her worth. She was continually overworking, this caused chronic pain, she then realized that there was a disconnect between her mind and body. Emily started her mind, body, darma when she realized this disconnect and realized she needed a change. People all over feel this burnout, many doctors try to make people change everything at once, whereas like Emily says our nervous system is in survival mode and changes make us more overwhelmed. To actually heal we need to change slowly or do “bite size self care”.</p><p>We must be able to open up to others around us and share our mental health struggles. Sharing and allowing ourselves to talk about our struggles allows us to figure out a way to help us and help others around us. Having a safe space to open up is very important. Emily did this by having an open story time at her workplace, they all were able to open up and talk about their struggles. This allows others to see that we are all going through something, and we can all help each other. We have to make a culture of inclusivity and support for more and more people to open up and share, knowing they are not alone. </p><p>We also talk about….</p><ul><li>Physical v mental health</li><li>chronic stress</li><li>Chronic illness</li><li>Healing</li><li>Struggles</li><li>Safe space</li><li>Inclusivity</li><li>Transparency</li><li>Creating communities</li><li>Mind, body, dharma</li><li>Identity cohesion</li><li>Flight, fight, freeze</li><li>Powerlessness</li><li>Card reading</li><li>Ripple effect</li><li>Challenges -> adventures</li></ul><p>Emily’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Website: <a href="https://www.mindbodydharma.com">https://www.mindbodydharma.com</a></li><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/mindbodydharma">https://www.instagram.com/mindbodydharma</a></li><li>YouTube: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTZhHUEN7trDLTR6-VQMQMw">https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCTZhHUEN7trDLTR6-VQMQMw</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li><li>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></li><li>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></li><li><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></li><li><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></li></ul>
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      <itunes:title>The Inextricable Connection of Mind + Body with Emily Schickli</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>Paige Boner, Sather Audio, Emily Schickli</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>INTERVIEW: Paige sits down with Emily Schickli to discuss mental health and the things Emily experienced in her younger years  to accept how far she has come now. </itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>INTERVIEW: Paige sits down with Emily Schickli to discuss mental health and the things Emily experienced in her younger years  to accept how far she has come now. </itunes:subtitle>
      <itunes:keywords>adventure, stress, ripple effect, healing, struggles, mental health, physical health, card reading, body, challenges, illness, power, mind, dharma</itunes:keywords>
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      <title>Thriving vs Surviving: The Impact of Societal Pressures on our Mental Health with Chrissy Kyles</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Chrissy Kyles knew she was overwhelmed and anxious; in a mindset of surviving life instead of thriving with life. Chrissy knew it was time for a change with trying to juggle a new normal. Therapy helped Chrissy juggling her life, navigating what emotions she is experiencing and understanding herself more deeply. Therapy is a very powerful source that showed Chrissy that what she was going through was normal, and it is okay to go through these things. </p><p>Chrissy found herself wanting to be a counselor because of those things she wasn’t getting as a child, to be able to give those mental health tips to kids. Being able to have deep conversations with the students is a way of coping with the things she didn't get as a child but also to show the students that they are not suffering alone. Everyone struggles with mental health in one form or another, giving access to children at a young age can give them more efficient help to navigate their mental health. </p><p>Another big topic talked about was checklists in life. We often find ourselves comparing ourselves to the people around us. Making deadlines of what we should be doing, such as having kids, getting married, going to college. Chrissy says that we feel an intense pressure to keep up with those around us, which shouldn’t be the case, we all have to work at our own pace and live life on our own time. Society pushes things when we all need time to grow, instead of being pressured. </p><p>Life throws so much at us. It is hard but we must realize it's hard to navigate our way through life and make our mental health a top priority. Within this episode Chrissy Kyles and Paige give a lot of advice on how we can be the best version of ourselves and how we can find our normal within an ever changing world. </p><p>We also talk about… </p><ul><li>Work - life juggle</li><li>Letting go of guilt</li><li>Mental Health</li><li>Navigating new things</li><li>Adjusting as needed</li><li>Thriving v. Surviving</li><li>Anxiety</li><li>Covid</li><li>Flight or Fight</li><li>Normal</li><li>Power of therapy</li><li>Depression</li><li>Deadlines in life</li><li>Pressure</li><li>Unrealistic timelines</li></ul><p>Chrissy Kyles Resources:</p><ul><li>Website: Blisswithchriss.com</li><li>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/blisswithchriss/"> https://www.instagram.com/blisswithchriss/</a></li><li>Apple Podcast:<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bliss-with-chriss/id1509607698"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bliss-with-chriss/id1509607698</a></li><li>Spotify Podcast: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/2poXZwkjkgvaQJilXIpG96">https://open.spotify.com/show/2poXZwkjkgvaQJilXIpG96</a></li><li>Amazon Music: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Bliss-with-Chriss/dp/B08JJRMXR9">https://www.amazon.com/Bliss-with-Chriss/dp/B08JJRMXR9 </a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 8 Nov 2021 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Sather Audio, Hearts 4 Henry, Paige Boner, Chrissy Kyles)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/thriving-vs-surviving-the-impact-of-societal-pressures-on-our-mental-health-with-chrissy-kyles-JsWOxSfM</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chrissy Kyles knew she was overwhelmed and anxious; in a mindset of surviving life instead of thriving with life. Chrissy knew it was time for a change with trying to juggle a new normal. Therapy helped Chrissy juggling her life, navigating what emotions she is experiencing and understanding herself more deeply. Therapy is a very powerful source that showed Chrissy that what she was going through was normal, and it is okay to go through these things. </p><p>Chrissy found herself wanting to be a counselor because of those things she wasn’t getting as a child, to be able to give those mental health tips to kids. Being able to have deep conversations with the students is a way of coping with the things she didn't get as a child but also to show the students that they are not suffering alone. Everyone struggles with mental health in one form or another, giving access to children at a young age can give them more efficient help to navigate their mental health. </p><p>Another big topic talked about was checklists in life. We often find ourselves comparing ourselves to the people around us. Making deadlines of what we should be doing, such as having kids, getting married, going to college. Chrissy says that we feel an intense pressure to keep up with those around us, which shouldn’t be the case, we all have to work at our own pace and live life on our own time. Society pushes things when we all need time to grow, instead of being pressured. </p><p>Life throws so much at us. It is hard but we must realize it's hard to navigate our way through life and make our mental health a top priority. Within this episode Chrissy Kyles and Paige give a lot of advice on how we can be the best version of ourselves and how we can find our normal within an ever changing world. </p><p>We also talk about… </p><ul><li>Work - life juggle</li><li>Letting go of guilt</li><li>Mental Health</li><li>Navigating new things</li><li>Adjusting as needed</li><li>Thriving v. Surviving</li><li>Anxiety</li><li>Covid</li><li>Flight or Fight</li><li>Normal</li><li>Power of therapy</li><li>Depression</li><li>Deadlines in life</li><li>Pressure</li><li>Unrealistic timelines</li></ul><p>Chrissy Kyles Resources:</p><ul><li>Website: Blisswithchriss.com</li><li>Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/blisswithchriss/"> https://www.instagram.com/blisswithchriss/</a></li><li>Apple Podcast:<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bliss-with-chriss/id1509607698"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bliss-with-chriss/id1509607698</a></li><li>Spotify Podcast: <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/2poXZwkjkgvaQJilXIpG96">https://open.spotify.com/show/2poXZwkjkgvaQJilXIpG96</a></li><li>Amazon Music: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Bliss-with-Chriss/dp/B08JJRMXR9">https://www.amazon.com/Bliss-with-Chriss/dp/B08JJRMXR9 </a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></p>
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      <itunes:title>Thriving vs Surviving: The Impact of Societal Pressures on our Mental Health with Chrissy Kyles</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>Sather Audio, Hearts 4 Henry, Paige Boner, Chrissy Kyles</itunes:author>
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      <title>Creating Yourself: Building the Foundation of Your Life with Paige Boner</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>This solo episode is focusing on the idea of finding yourself. Throughout every obstacle in our lives we are told by others what to do and what to be, but when we do this we lose ourselves. We have to put ourselves first to create who we are, someone who is independent and not dependent on those around us. Our mental health relies on what we do in our daily lives, Paige talks wildly on preferences. Preferences show us who we are and what we prefer, we need to allow our preferences to be above those around us. Our preferences matter to us and  to our mental health. Values are also very important within our lives, the things we value in life show us what we can put above other things to aid in our mental health wellness. </p><p>Becoming more self aware allows us to be able to become the best version of ourselves, we are meant to put ourselves first. Everyday as we embark on the journey of finding ourselves we grow. We must grow and build upon our lives, every step we take we are building up and upon our life this allows us to create our true selves. </p><p>“Creating Yourself” workbook is now released. This workbook was created by Paige Boner of It’s Hard Podcast, check it out to build your foundation and be able to understand yourself deeper!</p><p>We also talk about… </p><ul><li>Finding yourself</li><li>Create ourselves</li><li>Becoming oneself</li><li>Uncontrollable situations</li><li>Creating standards </li><li>Values</li><li>Experiences</li><li>Desires</li><li>Preferences</li><li>Building our lives</li><li>Our stories</li><li>Next steps</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></p>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This solo episode is focusing on the idea of finding yourself. Throughout every obstacle in our lives we are told by others what to do and what to be, but when we do this we lose ourselves. We have to put ourselves first to create who we are, someone who is independent and not dependent on those around us. Our mental health relies on what we do in our daily lives, Paige talks wildly on preferences. Preferences show us who we are and what we prefer, we need to allow our preferences to be above those around us. Our preferences matter to us and  to our mental health. Values are also very important within our lives, the things we value in life show us what we can put above other things to aid in our mental health wellness. </p><p>Becoming more self aware allows us to be able to become the best version of ourselves, we are meant to put ourselves first. Everyday as we embark on the journey of finding ourselves we grow. We must grow and build upon our lives, every step we take we are building up and upon our life this allows us to create our true selves. </p><p>“Creating Yourself” workbook is now released. This workbook was created by Paige Boner of It’s Hard Podcast, check it out to build your foundation and be able to understand yourself deeper!</p><p>We also talk about… </p><ul><li>Finding yourself</li><li>Create ourselves</li><li>Becoming oneself</li><li>Uncontrollable situations</li><li>Creating standards </li><li>Values</li><li>Experiences</li><li>Desires</li><li>Preferences</li><li>Building our lives</li><li>Our stories</li><li>Next steps</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></p>
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      <itunes:title>Creating Yourself: Building the Foundation of Your Life with Paige Boner</itunes:title>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Lynn Casaletto owns her own consulting company called, Core Growth. Core Growth helps individuals and teams realize their greatness. </p><p>Within the episode the term emotional intelligence is the forefront of much of the conversation. Emotional intelligence is understanding yourself and your emotions in the moment and not getting burnt out because your emotions are taking over, but instead you are taking over your emotions. Instead of becoming irrational and lashing out you can be able to better regulate your emotions and yourself. We become hijacked by our own emotions many times because we are not regulating our emotions. It is difficult sometimes to even realize and become self-aware that we are being hijacked by our emotions. </p><p>We all have to be able to slow down and look around us and be present with ourselves. It is oftentimes very difficult to slow your life down, however it is very important for your mental health. You have to do the things that matter the most within your lives, you don’t always have to be in a go, go, go state of mind. Other things are just as important, if not more important. </p><p>We can ask those around us to aid us in working on our own emotional intelligence. The people you surround yourself with, and the things you do will help you stabilize your emotions that you may not see you are having. We have to be open to the ability to learn who we are, the real and raw parts. </p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Emotional intelligence</li><li>Rest</li><li>Value</li><li>Greatness</li><li>Growth</li><li>Therapy</li><li>Emotions</li><li>Awareness</li><li>Recovery</li><li>Mental Health</li><li>Confidence</li><li>Force vs. Flow</li></ul><p>Lynn's Resources:</p><p>Website: <a href="https://www.coregrowthconsulting.com">https://www.coregrowthconsulting.com</a></p><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE: <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 25 Oct 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner, Lynn Casaletto, Sather Audio)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Lynn Casaletto owns her own consulting company called, Core Growth. Core Growth helps individuals and teams realize their greatness. </p><p>Within the episode the term emotional intelligence is the forefront of much of the conversation. Emotional intelligence is understanding yourself and your emotions in the moment and not getting burnt out because your emotions are taking over, but instead you are taking over your emotions. Instead of becoming irrational and lashing out you can be able to better regulate your emotions and yourself. We become hijacked by our own emotions many times because we are not regulating our emotions. It is difficult sometimes to even realize and become self-aware that we are being hijacked by our emotions. </p><p>We all have to be able to slow down and look around us and be present with ourselves. It is oftentimes very difficult to slow your life down, however it is very important for your mental health. You have to do the things that matter the most within your lives, you don’t always have to be in a go, go, go state of mind. Other things are just as important, if not more important. </p><p>We can ask those around us to aid us in working on our own emotional intelligence. The people you surround yourself with, and the things you do will help you stabilize your emotions that you may not see you are having. We have to be open to the ability to learn who we are, the real and raw parts. </p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Emotional intelligence</li><li>Rest</li><li>Value</li><li>Greatness</li><li>Growth</li><li>Therapy</li><li>Emotions</li><li>Awareness</li><li>Recovery</li><li>Mental Health</li><li>Confidence</li><li>Force vs. Flow</li></ul><p>Lynn's Resources:</p><p>Website: <a href="https://www.coregrowthconsulting.com">https://www.coregrowthconsulting.com</a></p><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE: <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></p>
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      <itunes:title>The Power of Self-Awareness + Emotional Intelligence with Lynn Casaletto</itunes:title>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Reid Bervik has a podcast centered around mental health called Recess. Within his podcast he details both his mental health struggle and opens up to the struggles millions are going through daily in fifteen minute short episodes. </p><p>Mental health is an all encompassing topic within so many people's lives, and Reid is not a stranger to mental health struggles. Through this episode we sit down and talk about this. Reid began his mental health journey at thirteen, he began to have huge amounts of seasonal depression, he felt alone in his struggle. But after ten years he started therapy and felt a huge sense of relief to understand that he was not alone in his struggles and that it was a REAL thing. Reid began to realize through his journey that he could help those around him as well. He outlines the many real things he has learned and experienced. As your own person you can and have the authority over yourself to make decisions that work for you. Asking for what you need and what you want, is extremely important for your mental health. Without attending to your needs and wants you can not healthy express your emotions.  </p><p>Every human has a story. Everybody goes through a series of events within their life that affects the outcome of their mental health. Many people go through trauma that affects them but you need to be able to be free to focus on your mental health journey. Your emotions are meant to be heard, not suppressed. It is sometimes difficult to understand why we matter and why we are here, but we all have a purpose and a reason. </p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Therapy</li><li>Depression</li><li>Seasonal Depression</li><li>Mental health</li><li>Emotional neglect</li><li>Physical neglect</li><li>Emotion</li><li>Emotion regulation</li></ul><p>Reids Resources: </p><ul><li>Follow him on Instagram at: <strong> @reidbervik</strong></li><li>Follow his Podcast on Instagram at: <strong>@recess.podcast</strong></li><li>Go listen to his podcast at: <a href="https://anchor.fm/reid-bervik">⁠Recess • A podcast on Anchor⁠⁦anchor.fm⁩</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 18 Oct 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/knowing-what-you-need-taking-ownership-of-your-mental-health-8Sc74UIj</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Reid Bervik has a podcast centered around mental health called Recess. Within his podcast he details both his mental health struggle and opens up to the struggles millions are going through daily in fifteen minute short episodes. </p><p>Mental health is an all encompassing topic within so many people's lives, and Reid is not a stranger to mental health struggles. Through this episode we sit down and talk about this. Reid began his mental health journey at thirteen, he began to have huge amounts of seasonal depression, he felt alone in his struggle. But after ten years he started therapy and felt a huge sense of relief to understand that he was not alone in his struggles and that it was a REAL thing. Reid began to realize through his journey that he could help those around him as well. He outlines the many real things he has learned and experienced. As your own person you can and have the authority over yourself to make decisions that work for you. Asking for what you need and what you want, is extremely important for your mental health. Without attending to your needs and wants you can not healthy express your emotions.  </p><p>Every human has a story. Everybody goes through a series of events within their life that affects the outcome of their mental health. Many people go through trauma that affects them but you need to be able to be free to focus on your mental health journey. Your emotions are meant to be heard, not suppressed. It is sometimes difficult to understand why we matter and why we are here, but we all have a purpose and a reason. </p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Therapy</li><li>Depression</li><li>Seasonal Depression</li><li>Mental health</li><li>Emotional neglect</li><li>Physical neglect</li><li>Emotion</li><li>Emotion regulation</li></ul><p>Reids Resources: </p><ul><li>Follow him on Instagram at: <strong> @reidbervik</strong></li><li>Follow his Podcast on Instagram at: <strong>@recess.podcast</strong></li><li>Go listen to his podcast at: <a href="https://anchor.fm/reid-bervik">⁠Recess • A podcast on Anchor⁠⁦anchor.fm⁩</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></p>
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      <itunes:title>Knowing What You Need: Taking Ownership of Your Mental Health with Reid Bervik</itunes:title>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>McKenna Grass is a fourteen year old mental health advocate who is raising awareness for mental health within her community. She is on a mission to make as many people as she can not feel alone, and change the stigma surrounding mental health.  </p><p>In this episode we discuss the idea of ‘it’s okay to not be okay’ and Mckenna’s journey surrounding mental health. Mental health is a big part of many people’s lives, especially McKenna’s as she details her story about her fathers mental health struggle and how it has impacted her, and even her own journey through mental health as a result. McKenna’s father committed suicide as a result of the tremendous struggle he endured with mental health. McKenna tried hard to get her old self back, when her mental health began to plummet. She now feels like her old self again, with the help of her therapist who works for her and helps her heal. Her and her family have grown together as a result of her fathers tragic death, and have realized that it is okay to have mental health struggles. </p><p>People have to open up and find those people surrounding them who can help them through their mental health journey. Being open and realizing that mental health is not shameful, is a step toward realizing mental health is just as important as any other health issue. Mental health is not something to feel ashamed about. You are enough, you are heard, and you deserve everything.</p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Mental health</li><li>Mental illness</li><li>Therapy </li><li>Trauma </li><li>Suicide </li><li>Alcoholism</li><li>Struggles</li><li>Change </li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Oct 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (McKenna Grass, Paige Boner, Sather Audio)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>McKenna Grass is a fourteen year old mental health advocate who is raising awareness for mental health within her community. She is on a mission to make as many people as she can not feel alone, and change the stigma surrounding mental health.  </p><p>In this episode we discuss the idea of ‘it’s okay to not be okay’ and Mckenna’s journey surrounding mental health. Mental health is a big part of many people’s lives, especially McKenna’s as she details her story about her fathers mental health struggle and how it has impacted her, and even her own journey through mental health as a result. McKenna’s father committed suicide as a result of the tremendous struggle he endured with mental health. McKenna tried hard to get her old self back, when her mental health began to plummet. She now feels like her old self again, with the help of her therapist who works for her and helps her heal. Her and her family have grown together as a result of her fathers tragic death, and have realized that it is okay to have mental health struggles. </p><p>People have to open up and find those people surrounding them who can help them through their mental health journey. Being open and realizing that mental health is not shameful, is a step toward realizing mental health is just as important as any other health issue. Mental health is not something to feel ashamed about. You are enough, you are heard, and you deserve everything.</p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Mental health</li><li>Mental illness</li><li>Therapy </li><li>Trauma </li><li>Suicide </li><li>Alcoholism</li><li>Struggles</li><li>Change </li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jack and I discuss our big move to Utah and the feelings we have been feeling throughout it all. Moving across the country is a big jump between trying to find your place and feeling like we are enough for each other. From the good days to the bad days, trying to adjust to all the different things that come about from a big move. We discuss how we want to be the best version of ourselves for each other throughout these new shifts within our lives. From job hunts, routines, and figuring out what makes you happy and how it impacts the people who are around you. Trying to make each other happy while also being the best versions of ourselves, it can be difficult however worth it. Through the adjustments we have had in moving we have been able to learn more about ourselves and each other. Moving is more than just moving, it is finding yourself, and changing. Change can be a great thing. </p><p>We also talk about… </p><ul><li>Change </li><li>Self improvement </li><li>New life shifts</li><li>Self discovery</li><li>Transitions</li><li>Insecurities </li><li>Impacts you have on the people around you</li><li>How things make you feel ex. Social media </li><li>Relying on each other</li><li>Anxiety </li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 4 Oct 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Sather Audio, Paige Boner, Hearst 4 Henry)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/you-are-enough-leaning-into-insecurity-uncertainty-uIDEysWw</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jack and I discuss our big move to Utah and the feelings we have been feeling throughout it all. Moving across the country is a big jump between trying to find your place and feeling like we are enough for each other. From the good days to the bad days, trying to adjust to all the different things that come about from a big move. We discuss how we want to be the best version of ourselves for each other throughout these new shifts within our lives. From job hunts, routines, and figuring out what makes you happy and how it impacts the people who are around you. Trying to make each other happy while also being the best versions of ourselves, it can be difficult however worth it. Through the adjustments we have had in moving we have been able to learn more about ourselves and each other. Moving is more than just moving, it is finding yourself, and changing. Change can be a great thing. </p><p>We also talk about… </p><ul><li>Change </li><li>Self improvement </li><li>New life shifts</li><li>Self discovery</li><li>Transitions</li><li>Insecurities </li><li>Impacts you have on the people around you</li><li>How things make you feel ex. Social media </li><li>Relying on each other</li><li>Anxiety </li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org/">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Nikki Sammet is the founder of Confident Coach Accelerator, Becoming Mama & Beyond, the What Nik Knows Podcast, and is a Transcendental Meditator and a yoga teacher… she does it all!</p><p>In this episode, Nikki opens up about her journey with ADHD, anxiety, depression, and how the fight to “not be different” caused her to lose hold of her identity. Nikki has struggled with her mental health since she was a very young age. At age 10, she was diagnosed with ADHD and she explains how being silenced about it impacted her socially, academically, and her self-esteem as a whole. Nikki emphasizes the importance of viewing these diagnoses as mental <i>health</i>, not mental <i>illness</i>. She encourages others to have the hard conversations about what they are going through is what makes you uniquely, YOU!</p><p>Nikki also discusses her Ph.D. research which revolves around how social media impacts millennial women. Social media, when used in an unhealthy manner, causes us the inability to distinguish what’s real and what is not. We associate what we view as the standard and get down on ourselves when we aren’t “meeting” the standard. Nikki stresses the importance of establishing and maintaining a healthy relationship with technology, whether that’s setting boundaries, following only people we want to follow, or putting it away at a designated time. She reminds us that “we need to start and end each day with ourselves”, not just the posts and stories we see. </p><p>We also talk about </p><ul><li>High functioning anxiety, ADHD & depression</li><li>Education</li><li>Boundaries</li><li>Identity</li><li>Motherhood</li><li>Meditation</li><li>How being different makes us unique</li><li>Grounding ourselves</li><li>Worthiness</li></ul><p>Dr. Nikki Sammet’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Personal Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dr_nikkiphd/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/dr_nikkiphd/</a></li><li>Website: <a href="https://drnikkisammet.com/ " target="_blank">https://drnikkisammet.com/ </a></li><li>Check out “What Nik Knows” on all podcast platforms!</li><li>Confident Coach Accelerator waitlist: <a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1zxYvJvgJ__k-rYxAAxITdcQjmtVBcavmKR02AN7Fwto/viewform?edit_requested=true" target="_blank">https://docs.google.com/forms</a></li><li>Becoming Mama & Beyond: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/becomingmamaandbeyond">https://www.facebook.com/groups/becomingmamaandbeyond</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com </a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 27 Sep 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner, Dr. Nikki Sammet, Hearts 4 Henry, Sather Audio)</author>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Mackenzie Fannin is a Pre-Med Student from Florida who shares her journey on the road to Med School. </p><p>In this episode, Paige sits down with Mackenzie who explains the highs and lows of her journey through med school. She discusses how to follow your dreams and become the person you aspire to be, especially as struggles of mental health surface. </p><p>Mackenzie opens up about her mental health struggles and the challenges she's faced throughout the entirety of her life as she navigates her way to becoming a doctor. She outlines the idea of following one's heart as being the most important thing to do with wherever you want to go within your life. Being who you want to be and doing what you want to do is not only best for you but also your mental health. Mental health is an important aspect of who you are and who you become, without allowing mental health to thrive you are not allowing your best self. Being yourself and working at your own pace is important as well, we cannot compare ourselves to the people around us. Everyone goes through life's phases at a different pace, which can be different than us. Going at different paces than the ones around us does not make it wrong, it just makes it more uniquely our own journey. Do what you love and don’t let anyone hinder that. </p><p>We also talk about… </p><ul><li>Mental health</li><li>Challenges of Med School</li><li>Mental and Physical ware being a doctor has on people</li><li>Following your dreams</li><li>Confidence</li><li>Applications and Resumes</li><li>How to follow your heart</li><li>Self Care</li><li>Comparing yourself</li></ul><p>Mackenzie Fannin’s resources:</p><ul><li>Mackenzies Personal Instagram: @mackenziefannin</li><li>Follow Mackenzie’s Pre-med journey on Instagram at: @mackstudiesmed</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 20 Sep 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Kenzie Fannin, Heartts 4 Henry, Paige Boner, Sather Audio, Mackenzie Fannin)</author>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Lindsey Simcik is the co-founder of Almost 30, a top 50 podcast, global brand, and community. </p><p>In this episode, Paige and Lindsey discuss mental health and how we can navigate our way through big changes within our lives. We all go through changes in our lives which often leave us wondering if they are worth going through, will they hurt the people around us, will it hurt us, and overall what this big change means for us. Lindsey tells us that if you have the intuition and feeling that you need to make this change, it is meant to be and you need to follow your heart. Your life is about making the right decision for you and for your mental health. Where we are is right where we are supposed to be in life.  </p><p>Mental health is the overarching theme within this episode, as Lindsey discusses her mental health journey and the things we can do to put mental health first. We have to listen to ourselves and our physical bodies to see what is needed for the betterment of ourselves. We have to allow ourselves to feel every feeling from sadness, mourning, happiness, excitement, and so much more to be at our highest level of expression. You have to be able to make the right decision for yourself and find your center in the midst of the craziness around you. They also talk about codependencies and how throughout our lives, we rely on other people for our own happiness. Through these big transitions, we decide to endeavor to slowly relinquish these co-dependencies, which allows us not to be so caught up in what other people think about us, but in what we think about ourselves.</p><p>Any path we choose to take in this life is the correct path for us, we are meant to be right here at this moment. </p><p>What we cover:</p><ul><li>People pleasing</li><li>Following your heart</li><li>Life transitions</li><li>Listening to your intuition</li><li>Asking for what you need</li><li>Codependent tendencies</li><li>Navigating relationships through transition</li><li>Moving across the country</li><li>Making decisions</li><li>Being self-responsible </li></ul><p>Lindsey Simcik's Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow Lindsey on Instagram at <strong>https://www.instagram.com/lindseysimcik/</strong></li><li>Follow Almost30 on Instagram at <strong>https://www.instagram.com/almost30podcast/?hl=en</strong></li><li>Almost30 WEBSITE:  <a href="http://www.almost30podcast.com/" target="_blank">www.almost30podcast.com</a></li><li>Visit Lindsey's personal website to learn more about her platform and connect with her,  <strong>https://www.lindseysimcik.co/podcast </strong></li><li>Listen to Almost30 Podcast if you don't already on Apple Podcasts!  <strong>https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/almost-30/id114818361</strong></li></ul><p> </p><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review, and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner, Hearts 4 Henry, Lindsey Simcik, Sather Audio)</author>
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      <itunes:summary>INTERVIEW: Paige sits down with Lindsey Simcik to discuss the stigma around mental health and how we can navigate our way through life transitions by following our heart and not conforming to the people around us.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>INTERVIEW: Paige sits down with Lindsey Simcik to discuss the stigma around mental health and how we can navigate our way through life transitions by following our heart and not conforming to the people around us.</itunes:subtitle>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>We are back! Season 3 is here! </p><p>I am kicking off season 3 with a solo episode. Every first Monday of the month I will be serving you a slice of solo chats. This is hopefully going to be an opportunity for you all to get to know me better and for me to share what is at the top of my mind in that moment. </p><p>Today, I chat about Jack + I's heart centered move across the country, making the "right" decisions, going against the grain, and my journey to becoming sober at 23. </p><p>What is covered in this episode:</p><ul><li>Moving across the country -- why we decided on Utah instead of Arizona</li><li>Transitions </li><li>Doing what feels right</li><li>Making decisions for YOU</li><li>Becoming sober at 23</li><li>Sobriety as a whole</li><li>Going against the grain </li><li>Learning + growing </li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast" target="_blank">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org" target="_blank">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 6 Sep 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (paige boner, its hard podcast, hearts 4 henry, satheraudio)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We are back! Season 3 is here! </p><p>I am kicking off season 3 with a solo episode. Every first Monday of the month I will be serving you a slice of solo chats. This is hopefully going to be an opportunity for you all to get to know me better and for me to share what is at the top of my mind in that moment. </p><p>Today, I chat about Jack + I's heart centered move across the country, making the "right" decisions, going against the grain, and my journey to becoming sober at 23. </p><p>What is covered in this episode:</p><ul><li>Moving across the country -- why we decided on Utah instead of Arizona</li><li>Transitions </li><li>Doing what feels right</li><li>Making decisions for YOU</li><li>Becoming sober at 23</li><li>Sobriety as a whole</li><li>Going against the grain </li><li>Learning + growing </li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast" target="_blank">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p><a href="https://www.hearts4henry.org" target="_blank">https://www.hearts4henry.org</a></p>
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      <itunes:title>Sobriety is Hard: My Journey to Becoming Sober</itunes:title>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Hi fam! Welcome to the season 2 FINALE. What a season it has been, 36 episodes later + I could not be more proud of my team and all they have accomplished. Most importantly, we are incredibly grateful for those of you who choose to listen to It's Hard. I feel like I am truly fulfilling my mission to help people feel less alone in what they are going through, the messages you send + the proof that you listen everyday is what keeps me going each week. </p><p>This episode was inspired by someone who messaged me and asked to speak on this topic. Honestly, it is a challenging thing for me to talk about and an incredibly vulnerable conversation. However, I know that many people struggle or have struggled with this and sharing stories is how we connect and get through the hard things in life. </p><p>Have you ever felt as though you lost yourself in a relationship? You and your partner break up and you feel lost + have no clue who you are anymore? You aren't alone. I jumped from relationship to relationship at a young age, I felt as though I knew who I was but in hindsight, I had no clue. This led to me having no idea what I wanted or deserved and allowing behaviors that ultimately caused an intense amount of anxiety + trauma. </p><p>In this episode, I share my story and how I pulled myself up after being at rock bottom post-breakup. I hope you know that you aren't alone, you deserve love + respect, and it is always okay to do what is best for YOU. </p><p>Thank you all for continuing to support It's Hard, I truly am forever grateful for all the love + support. I hope you continue to find this community to be a safe place that offers you love and belonging. We will be back on SEPTEMBER 6th for It's Hard SEASON 3! See you soon.</p><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast" target="_blank">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Sather Audio, Paige Boner, Hearts 4 Henry)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/losing-yourself-in-a-relationship-how-to-find-yourself-post-breakup-eRiTen6X</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi fam! Welcome to the season 2 FINALE. What a season it has been, 36 episodes later + I could not be more proud of my team and all they have accomplished. Most importantly, we are incredibly grateful for those of you who choose to listen to It's Hard. I feel like I am truly fulfilling my mission to help people feel less alone in what they are going through, the messages you send + the proof that you listen everyday is what keeps me going each week. </p><p>This episode was inspired by someone who messaged me and asked to speak on this topic. Honestly, it is a challenging thing for me to talk about and an incredibly vulnerable conversation. However, I know that many people struggle or have struggled with this and sharing stories is how we connect and get through the hard things in life. </p><p>Have you ever felt as though you lost yourself in a relationship? You and your partner break up and you feel lost + have no clue who you are anymore? You aren't alone. I jumped from relationship to relationship at a young age, I felt as though I knew who I was but in hindsight, I had no clue. This led to me having no idea what I wanted or deserved and allowing behaviors that ultimately caused an intense amount of anxiety + trauma. </p><p>In this episode, I share my story and how I pulled myself up after being at rock bottom post-breakup. I hope you know that you aren't alone, you deserve love + respect, and it is always okay to do what is best for YOU. </p><p>Thank you all for continuing to support It's Hard, I truly am forever grateful for all the love + support. I hope you continue to find this community to be a safe place that offers you love and belonging. We will be back on SEPTEMBER 6th for It's Hard SEASON 3! See you soon.</p><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Now find us on Twitter! <a href="https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast" target="_blank">https://twitter.com/itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <itunes:title>Losing Yourself in a Relationship: How to Find Yourself Post-Breakup</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>SOLO: Paige here! I sit down with my best friend, my Momma, to talk about my experience with losing myself in an unhealthy relationship and how I discovered who I was post-breakup. </itunes:summary>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jack puts Paige on the hot seat! They give the inside scoop of what's new in their life and what’s coming up, as well as opening up about vulnerable topics and experiences. The two give relationship advice and reflect on the different ways they process life changes. </p><p>Paige gets vulnerable about her eating disorder. She discusses the societal pressures in summer to look a certain way in a bikini, the guilt and shame that comes with slacking off workouts and skipping meals. Eating disorders are often an old pattern and a vicious cycle, and she shares the importance of having support from others to hold you accountable and ensure your health is where it needs to be. </p><p>They also talk about the next steps in their relationship following their move to Arizona, and the challenges and excitement that come with living together. New experiences, different geography, new community... how could it be better? While the excitement is a valid emotion, so are the others. Paige says, “Whenever you do something brave and outside of your comfort zone, it doesn’t come easy and natural... It is going to be hard. An adventure that will expose all the emotions... sadness, excitement, fear, and more.” Everyone processes their emotions differently, but every new adventure is one to be a light in the world and see it as an opportunity to grow.  </p><p>Finally, what’s the future of the podcast going to look like? To stay centered around mental health. Mental health is hard. Everyone has a story, and everyone’s story is important, has depth, and matters. The connection with other people’s stories is what reveals our humanness and that we are not alone! </p><p>We also talk about </p><ul><li>Eating disorders</li><li>Moving</li><li>Relationship advice</li><li>Life transitions</li><li>Societal pressures</li><li>Getting out of your comfort zone</li><li>Family sickness</li><li>Death</li><li>The future of the pod</li></ul><p>Jack’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: @jackholmgren</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2021 22:05:29 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Jack Holmgren, Hearts 4 Henry, Paige Boner, Sather Audio)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, Jack puts Paige on the hot seat! They give the inside scoop of what's new in their life and what’s coming up, as well as opening up about vulnerable topics and experiences. The two give relationship advice and reflect on the different ways they process life changes. </p><p>Paige gets vulnerable about her eating disorder. She discusses the societal pressures in summer to look a certain way in a bikini, the guilt and shame that comes with slacking off workouts and skipping meals. Eating disorders are often an old pattern and a vicious cycle, and she shares the importance of having support from others to hold you accountable and ensure your health is where it needs to be. </p><p>They also talk about the next steps in their relationship following their move to Arizona, and the challenges and excitement that come with living together. New experiences, different geography, new community... how could it be better? While the excitement is a valid emotion, so are the others. Paige says, “Whenever you do something brave and outside of your comfort zone, it doesn’t come easy and natural... It is going to be hard. An adventure that will expose all the emotions... sadness, excitement, fear, and more.” Everyone processes their emotions differently, but every new adventure is one to be a light in the world and see it as an opportunity to grow.  </p><p>Finally, what’s the future of the podcast going to look like? To stay centered around mental health. Mental health is hard. Everyone has a story, and everyone’s story is important, has depth, and matters. The connection with other people’s stories is what reveals our humanness and that we are not alone! </p><p>We also talk about </p><ul><li>Eating disorders</li><li>Moving</li><li>Relationship advice</li><li>Life transitions</li><li>Societal pressures</li><li>Getting out of your comfort zone</li><li>Family sickness</li><li>Death</li><li>The future of the pod</li></ul><p>Jack’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: @jackholmgren</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Jayna Davis was 15 years old when she first came out as a lesbian to those around her. However, her coming out journey never stops. Due to her femme-presenting nature, she is constantly challenged on her identity and has to correct others about her romantic preference. She opens up about what it’s like having to prove herself and her sexuality to others, battling comments like “you don’t look lesbian”, “I have girl friends, too” and “I could change your mind”. </p><p>She also discusses the shame aspect of going against what is “expected” from a woman who looks like her. Sexism, undermining, and harassment occur regularly and unfortunately probably always will. While we have come far in taking steps towards equality for the queer community, there is so much more work that needs to be done. Jayna emphasizes the importance of asking questions, getting informed, and enforcing change. This can be as simple as permitting queer friends to correct you if/when you make a mistake, allowing them the space to open up, and validating their experiences. </p><p>Jayna reminds us to own who you are with confidence; that “your dreams, desires, and identities are not defined by the way others see you. As you become more in touch with who you are and what you want in life, you might lose connections with people who don't understand. And that's okay. Don't let somebody else's biases steer you away from who you really are”.</p><p>We also talk about: </p><ul><li>Mental health</li><li>Social norms</li><li>Shame</li><li>Gender identity and expression</li><li>Validation </li><li>Family </li><li>How to support the LGBTQ+ community</li><li>Ignorance</li></ul><p>Jayna’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Find her music on Spotify, Apple Music, iTunes, Amazon Music, and wherever else you stream music @ Jayna Davis</li><li>Instagram, Facebook, and Tik Tok: @jaynadavismusic</li><li>Website: Jaynadavismusic.com </li><li>Stay tuned for an EP of all-original songs that will be released later this summer!</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Sather Audio, Paige Boner, Hearts 4 Henry, Jayna Davis)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jayna Davis was 15 years old when she first came out as a lesbian to those around her. However, her coming out journey never stops. Due to her femme-presenting nature, she is constantly challenged on her identity and has to correct others about her romantic preference. She opens up about what it’s like having to prove herself and her sexuality to others, battling comments like “you don’t look lesbian”, “I have girl friends, too” and “I could change your mind”. </p><p>She also discusses the shame aspect of going against what is “expected” from a woman who looks like her. Sexism, undermining, and harassment occur regularly and unfortunately probably always will. While we have come far in taking steps towards equality for the queer community, there is so much more work that needs to be done. Jayna emphasizes the importance of asking questions, getting informed, and enforcing change. This can be as simple as permitting queer friends to correct you if/when you make a mistake, allowing them the space to open up, and validating their experiences. </p><p>Jayna reminds us to own who you are with confidence; that “your dreams, desires, and identities are not defined by the way others see you. As you become more in touch with who you are and what you want in life, you might lose connections with people who don't understand. And that's okay. Don't let somebody else's biases steer you away from who you really are”.</p><p>We also talk about: </p><ul><li>Mental health</li><li>Social norms</li><li>Shame</li><li>Gender identity and expression</li><li>Validation </li><li>Family </li><li>How to support the LGBTQ+ community</li><li>Ignorance</li></ul><p>Jayna’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Find her music on Spotify, Apple Music, iTunes, Amazon Music, and wherever else you stream music @ Jayna Davis</li><li>Instagram, Facebook, and Tik Tok: @jaynadavismusic</li><li>Website: Jaynadavismusic.com </li><li>Stay tuned for an EP of all-original songs that will be released later this summer!</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Sam Led is a mindset and transformation coach, author of the book “Fear Less”, powerful speaker, and group facilitator. </p><p>In this episode, Paige and Sam discuss the stigma of mental health and the impact it has. Mental health is typically associated with illness, that something is wrong with you, or that you are “broken”. In reality, everyone has mental health and you are more than your ADHD, anxiety, depression, etc. We all feel differently, think differently, and face things differently. As soon as our society begins to normalize mental health and talk about it in a positive light, we will be better off. </p><p>They also discuss thought control and what to do with the negative thoughts that take over your mind in times of discomfort. Sam reminds us that pushing thoughts down and utilizing thought-stopping techniques is actually detrimental. Instead, he encourages us to remember that these bad thoughts <i>will</i> pass and your mind <i>will</i> settle. It’s okay to not be okay at that moment. But, by giving ourselves space and grace, prioritizing our mental health, and allowing ourselves to accept that we aren’t perfect beings - the easier it will be to recognize that you are exactly where you need to be.</p><p>We also talk about: </p><ul><li>Mental health</li><li>Thought processes</li><li>Stereotypes</li><li>Perfectionism</li><li>Addiction</li><li>Physical health</li><li>Treatment</li></ul><p>Sam’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Website: www.samledconsulting.com</li><li>IG: @samledconsulting</li><li>Facebook: @samledconsulting</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 5 Jul 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner, Sam Led, Sather Audio, Hearts 4 Henry)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/breaking-the-stigma-of-mental-disorders-seeing-mental-health-as-a-superpower-vzrbqBkQ</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sam Led is a mindset and transformation coach, author of the book “Fear Less”, powerful speaker, and group facilitator. </p><p>In this episode, Paige and Sam discuss the stigma of mental health and the impact it has. Mental health is typically associated with illness, that something is wrong with you, or that you are “broken”. In reality, everyone has mental health and you are more than your ADHD, anxiety, depression, etc. We all feel differently, think differently, and face things differently. As soon as our society begins to normalize mental health and talk about it in a positive light, we will be better off. </p><p>They also discuss thought control and what to do with the negative thoughts that take over your mind in times of discomfort. Sam reminds us that pushing thoughts down and utilizing thought-stopping techniques is actually detrimental. Instead, he encourages us to remember that these bad thoughts <i>will</i> pass and your mind <i>will</i> settle. It’s okay to not be okay at that moment. But, by giving ourselves space and grace, prioritizing our mental health, and allowing ourselves to accept that we aren’t perfect beings - the easier it will be to recognize that you are exactly where you need to be.</p><p>We also talk about: </p><ul><li>Mental health</li><li>Thought processes</li><li>Stereotypes</li><li>Perfectionism</li><li>Addiction</li><li>Physical health</li><li>Treatment</li></ul><p>Sam’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Website: www.samledconsulting.com</li><li>IG: @samledconsulting</li><li>Facebook: @samledconsulting</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner, Sather Audio, Jareed Gaines, Asia Watson, Hearts 4 Henry)</author>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>At age 13, Miki Speer lost her mother to cancer. Miki pushed this trauma down, claiming “I’m fine” out of fear of standing out when all she wanted to do was fit in. This unprocessed grief lasted a decade until finally, in college, she started experiencing its impact. She began crying at the drop of a hat and her relationships with friends, school, and sports faced negative repercussions. Miki went to a doctor, simply thinking she had a tear duct problem! Instead, she learned her “mystery crying” was years of pent up grief and trauma that hadn't had anywhere to go. She went to counseling and began working through her grief, which inspired the brand she has created today. Through her music, books, and shows, Miki Speer’s mission is to create impactful content that helps people process their grief and teach others how to help grievers.</p><p>In this episode, Miki explains what you can do to help yourself + others with their loss, explains the phases of grief, discusses “loss-privilege”, resilience, comparison, and more. Grief looks so different for everyone and it is important to remember these three things:</p><ol><li><i>Don’t bring it up in public. </i>While sympathy is greatly appreciated, no-one wants to be the one to stand out. This is especially true for kids, as they work so hard to fit in and be normal.</li><li><i>Remind the grieving person that their loss matters. </i>Their life is going to change, even when the world spins on as normal. Let them know that it is okay to take a step back and process things and it is okay to be sad. </li><li><i>Remember that grief is vulnerable. Opening up is hard; it is emotional, raw, and not something people will be comfortable talking about with everyone. Don’t expect someone to open up right away--just be a safe spot and be there in other aspects of their life. </i></li></ol><p>We all have unprocessed grief, whether that is a family death, the loss of significant experiences due to COVID-19, or a friend moving away. It is important to take pressure off of yourself because any loss deserves respect, time, and sympathy. Avoid comparison and don't dismiss grief just because it isn't as extreme as something else. Let yourself heal, no matter how large or small its impact was. </p><p>Grief is hard. We aren’t taught how to be resilient, it is something you train and strengthen as you go through life. Being a support for yourself and others through tough times is key... Miki is a force in teaching us how! </p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Types of losses: cancer, suicide, non-death related</li><li>The grief pit</li><li>Privilege </li><li>Comparison </li><li>Trust</li><li>Resilience</li><li>Vulnerability</li><li>How to process grief</li></ul><p>Miki’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Website: <a href="http://www.mikispeer.com/">www.mikispeer.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Hearts 4 Henry, Miki Speer, Sather Audio)</author>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>The Creating Ripples podcast was designed to create empowerment, inspiration, community, and provide guidance to elevate those around us. Alex Zauner believes in the power of showing up and sharing our experiences + knowledge with others to create ripples of impact around us. We have the opportunity to create ripples, both small and large, everyday. Whether it’s smiling at a stranger or complimenting someone on a new hairdo, these simple acts can change the course of their whole day and everyone else they come in contact with. With honest conversations, sharing stories, “aha” moments, and more, Creating Ripples Podcast does exactly as its title implies. </p><p>In this episode, Alex opens up about her sobriety journey after countless negative drinking experiences in college. Blacking out, causing trouble, fighting, getting bad grades, and making decisions she wouldn’t support if she was sober became her <i>normal</i>--something too many people can relate to. After waking up in a hospital and seeing how her drinking habits impact her relationships, she decided to make a change. She enrolled in an outpatient program and has been sober since September, 2014; her 24th birthday. </p><p>Alcohol is a forefront for social activities and we see it in our lives constantly in phrases like: “Let's go out for drinks!”, “Drinks after work?”, or, “It’s Friday, drink up for the weekend”. Drinking has become the status quo! People don’t react well to the word sober, nor alcoholic. However, sobriety--removing something that isn’t serving you anymore--should be normalized without the negative perception that follows. </p><p>Being sober has allowed Alex to be her best and truest self and show up for those around her. She is fun, trustworthy, reliable, supportive, kind, and <i>resilient. </i>She is creating ripples through her platform and reminds us that we <i>can</i> keep going, we are <i>wildly </i>capable of doing hard things, and there <i>is </i>a spot for you in whatever dream you are going after.</p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>College drinking culture</li><li>Blacking out</li><li>Status quos</li><li>Intention</li><li>Resilience</li><li>False narratives</li><li>Comparison</li><li>The “why” behind doing what you do</li></ul><p>Alex’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Creating Ripples Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/creatingripplespod/</li><li>Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexandrazauner/</li><li>Listen to Creating Ripples on Apple Podcasts and Spotify: .</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Creating Ripples podcast was designed to create empowerment, inspiration, community, and provide guidance to elevate those around us. Alex Zauner believes in the power of showing up and sharing our experiences + knowledge with others to create ripples of impact around us. We have the opportunity to create ripples, both small and large, everyday. Whether it’s smiling at a stranger or complimenting someone on a new hairdo, these simple acts can change the course of their whole day and everyone else they come in contact with. With honest conversations, sharing stories, “aha” moments, and more, Creating Ripples Podcast does exactly as its title implies. </p><p>In this episode, Alex opens up about her sobriety journey after countless negative drinking experiences in college. Blacking out, causing trouble, fighting, getting bad grades, and making decisions she wouldn’t support if she was sober became her <i>normal</i>--something too many people can relate to. After waking up in a hospital and seeing how her drinking habits impact her relationships, she decided to make a change. She enrolled in an outpatient program and has been sober since September, 2014; her 24th birthday. </p><p>Alcohol is a forefront for social activities and we see it in our lives constantly in phrases like: “Let's go out for drinks!”, “Drinks after work?”, or, “It’s Friday, drink up for the weekend”. Drinking has become the status quo! People don’t react well to the word sober, nor alcoholic. However, sobriety--removing something that isn’t serving you anymore--should be normalized without the negative perception that follows. </p><p>Being sober has allowed Alex to be her best and truest self and show up for those around her. She is fun, trustworthy, reliable, supportive, kind, and <i>resilient. </i>She is creating ripples through her platform and reminds us that we <i>can</i> keep going, we are <i>wildly </i>capable of doing hard things, and there <i>is </i>a spot for you in whatever dream you are going after.</p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>College drinking culture</li><li>Blacking out</li><li>Status quos</li><li>Intention</li><li>Resilience</li><li>False narratives</li><li>Comparison</li><li>The “why” behind doing what you do</li></ul><p>Alex’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Creating Ripples Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/creatingripplespod/</li><li>Personal Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexandrazauner/</li><li>Listen to Creating Ripples on Apple Podcasts and Spotify: .</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <itunes:title>Sobriety: The Journey, Challenges, and Fulfillment with Alex Zauner</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>Sather Audio, Alexandra Zauner, Hearts 4 Henry, Creating Ripples Podcast</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>INTERVIEW: Paige sits down with Alex Zauner, host of the Creating Ripples podcast, to discuss her journey to sobriety and the amazing capabilities each of us have. </itunes:summary>
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      <title>An Honest Conversation About Anxiety: Confidence, Boundaries + People Pleasing with Girls w/ Anxiety</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Girls w/ Anxiety (GWA) is a podcast about anxiety and mental health where laughter and light-heartedness is emphasized. It is co-hosted by Heike and Neg to share their stories and experiences with anxiety so people can feel less alone. They are building a community of friendship, encouragement, and care. They are here to be a friend and provide support for those going through similar things. </p><p>In this episode, Heike and Paige discuss all things anxiety: what anxiety looks like for them, the impact it has on their lives, and how they fight it. They also open up about the challenges of being a people pleaser and the importance of setting boundaries in order to give themselves the care they deserve.</p><p>Heike wants listeners to understand that you are not alone in your struggles and you must give yourself some grace and compassion. She reminds us that you are not weak for asking for help, quite the opposite, actually. </p><p><i>“I know anxiety is such a lonely and isolating feeling, but you're not alone. That when you're feeling overwhelmed, and anxious, and your thoughts start to spiral, to be gentle with yourself to have compassion. Of course, this is easier said than done, but if you can remember to step back, remove yourself from those thoughts and see that they are just thoughts, you can take back a bit of control. That if you're able to go to therapy and receive the tools to help navigate your anxiety it can be the biggest blessing. And that asking for help doesn't mean you're weak, it means you're so strong for putting yourself first”.</i></p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Empathy</li><li>Self-love</li><li>Control</li><li>Boundaries</li><li>Saying “no”</li><li>People pleasing</li><li>Divorce</li><li>Self-care</li></ul><p>GWA’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: @girlswaxnietypodcast</li><li>Website: <a href="http://girlswanxietypodcast.com/">girlswanxietypodcast.com</a></li><li>Podcast: Listen to Girls w/ Anxiety on Apple, Spotify, and on all podcast platforms.</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 7 Jun 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Hearts 4 Henry, Sather Audio, Girls w/ Anxiety)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/an-honest-conversation-about-anxiety-confidence-boundaries-people-pleasing-with-girls-w-anxiety-UxNo52RO</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Girls w/ Anxiety (GWA) is a podcast about anxiety and mental health where laughter and light-heartedness is emphasized. It is co-hosted by Heike and Neg to share their stories and experiences with anxiety so people can feel less alone. They are building a community of friendship, encouragement, and care. They are here to be a friend and provide support for those going through similar things. </p><p>In this episode, Heike and Paige discuss all things anxiety: what anxiety looks like for them, the impact it has on their lives, and how they fight it. They also open up about the challenges of being a people pleaser and the importance of setting boundaries in order to give themselves the care they deserve.</p><p>Heike wants listeners to understand that you are not alone in your struggles and you must give yourself some grace and compassion. She reminds us that you are not weak for asking for help, quite the opposite, actually. </p><p><i>“I know anxiety is such a lonely and isolating feeling, but you're not alone. That when you're feeling overwhelmed, and anxious, and your thoughts start to spiral, to be gentle with yourself to have compassion. Of course, this is easier said than done, but if you can remember to step back, remove yourself from those thoughts and see that they are just thoughts, you can take back a bit of control. That if you're able to go to therapy and receive the tools to help navigate your anxiety it can be the biggest blessing. And that asking for help doesn't mean you're weak, it means you're so strong for putting yourself first”.</i></p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Empathy</li><li>Self-love</li><li>Control</li><li>Boundaries</li><li>Saying “no”</li><li>People pleasing</li><li>Divorce</li><li>Self-care</li></ul><p>GWA’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: @girlswaxnietypodcast</li><li>Website: <a href="http://girlswanxietypodcast.com/">girlswanxietypodcast.com</a></li><li>Podcast: Listen to Girls w/ Anxiety on Apple, Spotify, and on all podcast platforms.</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <itunes:summary>INTERVIEW: Paige sits down with Heike Leming, co-host of Girls w/ Anxiety, to discuss the impact anxiety, setting boundaries, and saying “no” has on their lives. </itunes:summary>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Lauren Cook is a therapist, keynote speaker, career coach, and author who specializes in supporting people with their life transitions and the corresponding anxiety that often comes along with this. She is the creator of the Find Your Why, Know Your Way course, which helps millennials make efficient and effective life decisions with confidence. She is also an author of two books: Name Your Story: How to Talk Openly About Mental Health and The Sunny Side Up: Celebrating Happiness.  </p><p>In this episode, we discuss what phobias are and the impact they have. Phobias are fears that debilitate your life in such a way that you will try to get out of it at all costs, even if it has a negative outcome for you. This can be the phobia of public speaking, heights, needles, etc. For Dr. Cook, this phobia is emetophobia— the extreme fear of vomiting, seeing vomit or watching other people vomit. This causes her to face internal suffering and impacts the decisions she makes. While someone would be excited to go to a bachelorette party or 21st birthday party, Lauren would dread it due to a high chance of vomit. </p><p>Dr. Cook also talks about Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and hopes to break the stigma around it. OCD is more than just a fear of germs or a keen eye for organization, like most may think. It is excessive thoughts (obsessions) that lead to repetitive behaviors (compulsions) about anything the brain has internalized as bad or taboo. </p><p>She encourages being who you are, showing up for your life wholeheartedly, and provides resources to do so!: “My tagline is helping people live what they believe and love who they are. I'm all about helping people identify their values and live out those values with intention. I'm about embracing the discomfort and challenging ourselves to live meaningful, purposeful lives.” - Dr. Lauren Cook.</p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Life transitions</li><li>Shame</li><li>Therapy</li><li>Self-diagnosis</li><li>Decisions </li><li>Treatment</li><li>Exposure response prevention</li><li>Relationships</li></ul><p>Lauren’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dr.laurencook/">https://www.instagram.com/dr.laurencook/</a></li><li>Linked In: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlaurencook/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlaurencook/</a></li><li>Pinterest: <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/DrLaurenCook/">https://www.pinterest.com/DrLaurenCook/</a></li><li>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/DrLaurenCook/">https://www.facebook.com/DrLaurenCook/</a></li><li>Sign Up for the Waitlist for Find Your Why, Know Your Way Course: <a href="https://www.drlaurencook.com/know-your-why-find-your-way">https://www.drlaurencook.com/know-your-why-find-your-way</a></li><li>Freebie: The Top 10 Questions You Should Ask Yourself Before You Make a Life Change: <a href="https://dr-lauren-cook.ck.page/cff90ffa69">https://dr-lauren-cook.ck.page/cff90ffa69</a></li><li>The Sunny Side Up book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Sunny-Side-Up-Lauren-Cook/dp/1475981872/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=the+sunny+side+up+lauren+cook&qid=1600387758&sr=8-1">https://www.amazon.com/Sunny-Side-Up-Lauren-Cook/dp/1475981872/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=the+sunny+side+up+lauren+cook&qid=1600387758&sr=8-1</a></li><li>Name Your Story: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Name-Your-Story-Lauren-Cook/dp/1532018096/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=name+your+story+lauren+cook&qid=1600387801&sr=8-1">https://www.amazon.com/Name-Your-Story-Lauren-Cook/dp/1532018096/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=name+your+story+lauren+cook&qid=1600387801&sr=8-1</a></li><li>Amare Wellness products: <a href="https://www.amare.com/66081/en-us/shop-all">https://www.amare.com/66081/en-us/shop-all</a>=</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Hearts 4 Henry, Sather Audio, Dr. Lauren Cook)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Lauren Cook is a therapist, keynote speaker, career coach, and author who specializes in supporting people with their life transitions and the corresponding anxiety that often comes along with this. She is the creator of the Find Your Why, Know Your Way course, which helps millennials make efficient and effective life decisions with confidence. She is also an author of two books: Name Your Story: How to Talk Openly About Mental Health and The Sunny Side Up: Celebrating Happiness.  </p><p>In this episode, we discuss what phobias are and the impact they have. Phobias are fears that debilitate your life in such a way that you will try to get out of it at all costs, even if it has a negative outcome for you. This can be the phobia of public speaking, heights, needles, etc. For Dr. Cook, this phobia is emetophobia— the extreme fear of vomiting, seeing vomit or watching other people vomit. This causes her to face internal suffering and impacts the decisions she makes. While someone would be excited to go to a bachelorette party or 21st birthday party, Lauren would dread it due to a high chance of vomit. </p><p>Dr. Cook also talks about Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) and hopes to break the stigma around it. OCD is more than just a fear of germs or a keen eye for organization, like most may think. It is excessive thoughts (obsessions) that lead to repetitive behaviors (compulsions) about anything the brain has internalized as bad or taboo. </p><p>She encourages being who you are, showing up for your life wholeheartedly, and provides resources to do so!: “My tagline is helping people live what they believe and love who they are. I'm all about helping people identify their values and live out those values with intention. I'm about embracing the discomfort and challenging ourselves to live meaningful, purposeful lives.” - Dr. Lauren Cook.</p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Life transitions</li><li>Shame</li><li>Therapy</li><li>Self-diagnosis</li><li>Decisions </li><li>Treatment</li><li>Exposure response prevention</li><li>Relationships</li></ul><p>Lauren’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/dr.laurencook/">https://www.instagram.com/dr.laurencook/</a></li><li>Linked In: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlaurencook/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/drlaurencook/</a></li><li>Pinterest: <a href="https://www.pinterest.com/DrLaurenCook/">https://www.pinterest.com/DrLaurenCook/</a></li><li>Facebook: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/DrLaurenCook/">https://www.facebook.com/DrLaurenCook/</a></li><li>Sign Up for the Waitlist for Find Your Why, Know Your Way Course: <a href="https://www.drlaurencook.com/know-your-why-find-your-way">https://www.drlaurencook.com/know-your-why-find-your-way</a></li><li>Freebie: The Top 10 Questions You Should Ask Yourself Before You Make a Life Change: <a href="https://dr-lauren-cook.ck.page/cff90ffa69">https://dr-lauren-cook.ck.page/cff90ffa69</a></li><li>The Sunny Side Up book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Sunny-Side-Up-Lauren-Cook/dp/1475981872/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=the+sunny+side+up+lauren+cook&qid=1600387758&sr=8-1">https://www.amazon.com/Sunny-Side-Up-Lauren-Cook/dp/1475981872/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=the+sunny+side+up+lauren+cook&qid=1600387758&sr=8-1</a></li><li>Name Your Story: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Name-Your-Story-Lauren-Cook/dp/1532018096/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=name+your+story+lauren+cook&qid=1600387801&sr=8-1">https://www.amazon.com/Name-Your-Story-Lauren-Cook/dp/1532018096/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=name+your+story+lauren+cook&qid=1600387801&sr=8-1</a></li><li>Amare Wellness products: <a href="https://www.amare.com/66081/en-us/shop-all">https://www.amare.com/66081/en-us/shop-all</a>=</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! 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      <itunes:title>Phobias + OCD: Breaking The Stigma Around Mental Disorders with Dr. Lauren Cook</itunes:title>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Sarah is a certified hypnotherapist, oracle reader, and intuitive coach who is committed to a life of self-study and spiritual seeking. Through her work at Intuitive Empowerment, she helps uplift others, be a light for those along the way, and openly welcomes all. Her mission is to remind people of their power by claiming and living out the energy from her intuitive gifts for the sake of creating a life of peace, joy, creativity, and unconditional love.</p><p>In 2016, Sarah Leverett lost her fun-loving, passionate, best friend of a partner. In this episode, Sarah opens up about her experience with this loss and the repercussions that followed: confusion, despair, grief, and immediate suffering. While this loss was the biggest suffering of her life, knowing and loving him was also one of the greatest blessings. She stopped simply checking boxes and going through the motions of life, turned off auto-pilot, and really became aware of the present moment. Sarah became determined to figure out who she is as a person. She tapped into spirit and began taking charge of her mental, physical, and spiritual health. Even in her deepest suffering, she experienced gratitude. </p><p>Sarah reminds us of the importance of slowing down and remembering that “You are a Divine, intuitive being. You hold the power. You can not only survive grief, but thrive through grief”. </p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Spiritual seeking</li><li>Energetic boundaries </li><li>Meditation</li><li>Loss</li><li>Grief</li><li>Slowing down</li><li>Support systems</li></ul><p>Sarah’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/intuitive.empowerment/">@intuitive.empowerment</a></li><li>Website: <a href="http://intuitiveempowerment.square.site/">intuitiveempowerment.square.site</a> </li><li>Podcast: @litforthespirit</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Hearts 4 Henry, Sather Audio)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sarah is a certified hypnotherapist, oracle reader, and intuitive coach who is committed to a life of self-study and spiritual seeking. Through her work at Intuitive Empowerment, she helps uplift others, be a light for those along the way, and openly welcomes all. Her mission is to remind people of their power by claiming and living out the energy from her intuitive gifts for the sake of creating a life of peace, joy, creativity, and unconditional love.</p><p>In 2016, Sarah Leverett lost her fun-loving, passionate, best friend of a partner. In this episode, Sarah opens up about her experience with this loss and the repercussions that followed: confusion, despair, grief, and immediate suffering. While this loss was the biggest suffering of her life, knowing and loving him was also one of the greatest blessings. She stopped simply checking boxes and going through the motions of life, turned off auto-pilot, and really became aware of the present moment. Sarah became determined to figure out who she is as a person. She tapped into spirit and began taking charge of her mental, physical, and spiritual health. Even in her deepest suffering, she experienced gratitude. </p><p>Sarah reminds us of the importance of slowing down and remembering that “You are a Divine, intuitive being. You hold the power. You can not only survive grief, but thrive through grief”. </p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Spiritual seeking</li><li>Energetic boundaries </li><li>Meditation</li><li>Loss</li><li>Grief</li><li>Slowing down</li><li>Support systems</li></ul><p>Sarah’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/intuitive.empowerment/">@intuitive.empowerment</a></li><li>Website: <a href="http://intuitiveempowerment.square.site/">intuitiveempowerment.square.site</a> </li><li>Podcast: @litforthespirit</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>After growing up experiencing acts of racism, gaslighting, close mindedness, and even hearing “you’re what’s wrong with America'' from a so-called “friend”, Ericka Jones is not going to let discrimination win. She recognizes her responsibility to speak out, lead, and enforce change-- a  responsibility that we <i>all </i>have. This goes beyond just reposting an Instagram or not personally making rude comments. It is about being an ally by calling someone in or out when necessary. </p><p>“Calling in” means circling back to a hurtful or oppressive comment someone made in private, such as by shooting them an email or grabbing lunch to discuss what was said. “Calling out” means letting someone know their comment was hurtful in a public space, such as in a board meeting or company call. There can be learning opportunities and growth from both for the person who said it and those who heard it. </p><p>There are other options for fighting against discrimination or harassment that Ericka touches on. These are described as the 5 D’s, which are: </p><ul><li>Distract: derail the incident by interrupting it</li><li>Delegate:  asking for assistance, a resource, or for help from a third party</li><li>Document: take note of what is going on</li><li>Delay (check-in): offer a listening ear and provide emotional support</li><li>Direct: responding to harassment by naming what is happening or confronting the harasser</li></ul><p>Ericka’s work is based on her goal of connection and respect. She values “connection through difference and encouraging others to hear both sides. To disagree and know we can walk away with dignity and respect based on our differences”. She strives to promote love, kindness, inclusivity, and reminds us that the experiences we face are <i>valid.  </i></p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Comparative suffering</li><li>Irresponsible leadership</li><li>Minnesota’s culture</li><li>Selflessness</li><li>Vulnerability</li><li>Making change</li><li>Current heinous tragedies</li><li>Being single in your 40’s</li></ul><p>Ericka’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Personal Instagram: @Ericka.jones_</li><li>Meditation Community: @abi.learntomeditate</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Sather Audio, Hearts 4 Henry)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>After growing up experiencing acts of racism, gaslighting, close mindedness, and even hearing “you’re what’s wrong with America'' from a so-called “friend”, Ericka Jones is not going to let discrimination win. She recognizes her responsibility to speak out, lead, and enforce change-- a  responsibility that we <i>all </i>have. This goes beyond just reposting an Instagram or not personally making rude comments. It is about being an ally by calling someone in or out when necessary. </p><p>“Calling in” means circling back to a hurtful or oppressive comment someone made in private, such as by shooting them an email or grabbing lunch to discuss what was said. “Calling out” means letting someone know their comment was hurtful in a public space, such as in a board meeting or company call. There can be learning opportunities and growth from both for the person who said it and those who heard it. </p><p>There are other options for fighting against discrimination or harassment that Ericka touches on. These are described as the 5 D’s, which are: </p><ul><li>Distract: derail the incident by interrupting it</li><li>Delegate:  asking for assistance, a resource, or for help from a third party</li><li>Document: take note of what is going on</li><li>Delay (check-in): offer a listening ear and provide emotional support</li><li>Direct: responding to harassment by naming what is happening or confronting the harasser</li></ul><p>Ericka’s work is based on her goal of connection and respect. She values “connection through difference and encouraging others to hear both sides. To disagree and know we can walk away with dignity and respect based on our differences”. She strives to promote love, kindness, inclusivity, and reminds us that the experiences we face are <i>valid.  </i></p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Comparative suffering</li><li>Irresponsible leadership</li><li>Minnesota’s culture</li><li>Selflessness</li><li>Vulnerability</li><li>Making change</li><li>Current heinous tragedies</li><li>Being single in your 40’s</li></ul><p>Ericka’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Personal Instagram: @Ericka.jones_</li><li>Meditation Community: @abi.learntomeditate</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Do you remember what you were like as a child? Were you creative... curious… playful? Why do we lose this as we grow up? Kara Latta doesn’t think we have to. Kara is the founder of The Playful Warrior, whose mission is to reconnect adults back to their inherent creative nature and playful inner child. The goal is to encourage embracing all parts of ourselves: the dark parts, the playful parts, and the parts that make us unique. </p><p>So… what really <i>is</i> play? According to Kara, “play is a mindset. It doesn’t matter what specific activity you are doing, it’s about doing whatever gets you in that playful mindset to return to who we were as kids”. This could include sports, games, dancing and singing, painting, puzzles, and more. With these activities, it doesn’t matter if you are good at it or not, if you win or lose, or what the end result is. It’s all about the journey of having fun for the sake of having fun, not the outcome. Seeking and working towards releasing the inner child in us will bring success, adaptability, productivity, creativity, joy, enhanced focus, and better health! By incorporating play into a daily routine, our lives can be shaped into a life we love. </p><p>Kara also talks about…</p><ul><li>Validation</li><li>Creativity</li><li>Perfectionism</li><li>Self-Esteem</li><li>Forgiveness</li><li>Epilepsy</li></ul><p>Kara’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: <strong>@theplayfulwarrior</strong></li><li>Website: <a href="http://www.theplayfulwarrior.com/">www.theplayfulwarrior.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 10 May 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Hearts 4 Henry, Sather Audio)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you remember what you were like as a child? Were you creative... curious… playful? Why do we lose this as we grow up? Kara Latta doesn’t think we have to. Kara is the founder of The Playful Warrior, whose mission is to reconnect adults back to their inherent creative nature and playful inner child. The goal is to encourage embracing all parts of ourselves: the dark parts, the playful parts, and the parts that make us unique. </p><p>So… what really <i>is</i> play? According to Kara, “play is a mindset. It doesn’t matter what specific activity you are doing, it’s about doing whatever gets you in that playful mindset to return to who we were as kids”. This could include sports, games, dancing and singing, painting, puzzles, and more. With these activities, it doesn’t matter if you are good at it or not, if you win or lose, or what the end result is. It’s all about the journey of having fun for the sake of having fun, not the outcome. Seeking and working towards releasing the inner child in us will bring success, adaptability, productivity, creativity, joy, enhanced focus, and better health! By incorporating play into a daily routine, our lives can be shaped into a life we love. </p><p>Kara also talks about…</p><ul><li>Validation</li><li>Creativity</li><li>Perfectionism</li><li>Self-Esteem</li><li>Forgiveness</li><li>Epilepsy</li></ul><p>Kara’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: <strong>@theplayfulwarrior</strong></li><li>Website: <a href="http://www.theplayfulwarrior.com/">www.theplayfulwarrior.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>It's May which means... Happy Mental Health Awareness Month! Everyone has a mental health and taking steps to care for yourself is so important, both this month and every month! Whether that’s starting your day off with some meditation, grabbing a cup of coffee with a friend, taking some alone time to journal, the daily things you do can be HUGE! </p><p>We also have some exciting news… It’s Hard is growing! Within the next couple of months, we are hosting events such as mediation, workout classes, conversations about the hard things in life, weekly mental health check-ins with Antonio Sundquist, so much more. You will NOT want to miss this! To stay in the loop about these amazing opportunities coming up, send your email over to itshardpod@gmail.com or DM @itshardpodcast on Instagram. Come be a part of the It’s Hard community, we would love to have you!</p><p>In this episode, Paige answers all of the questions listeners sent in. From topics like finding yourself, post-grad life tips, acne, being present, and so much more, Paige doesn't hold back. She even opens up about her most embarrassing moment, which involves a large staircase and an even larger audience… but you’ll have to tune in to hear about that ;-)</p><p>Paige also talks about…</p><ul><li>Past trauma</li><li>Therapy and meditation</li><li>Post grad life</li><li>Career goals</li><li>Finding something that wakes you up</li><li>Acne</li><li>Change</li><li>Boundaries</li></ul><p>Paige’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: @paigeboner</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1" target="_blank">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 3 May 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Sather Audio, Hearts 4 Henry)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/solo-mental-health-awareness-month-q-a-AjtwOZpO</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It's May which means... Happy Mental Health Awareness Month! Everyone has a mental health and taking steps to care for yourself is so important, both this month and every month! Whether that’s starting your day off with some meditation, grabbing a cup of coffee with a friend, taking some alone time to journal, the daily things you do can be HUGE! </p><p>We also have some exciting news… It’s Hard is growing! Within the next couple of months, we are hosting events such as mediation, workout classes, conversations about the hard things in life, weekly mental health check-ins with Antonio Sundquist, so much more. You will NOT want to miss this! To stay in the loop about these amazing opportunities coming up, send your email over to itshardpod@gmail.com or DM @itshardpodcast on Instagram. Come be a part of the It’s Hard community, we would love to have you!</p><p>In this episode, Paige answers all of the questions listeners sent in. From topics like finding yourself, post-grad life tips, acne, being present, and so much more, Paige doesn't hold back. She even opens up about her most embarrassing moment, which involves a large staircase and an even larger audience… but you’ll have to tune in to hear about that ;-)</p><p>Paige also talks about…</p><ul><li>Past trauma</li><li>Therapy and meditation</li><li>Post grad life</li><li>Career goals</li><li>Finding something that wakes you up</li><li>Acne</li><li>Change</li><li>Boundaries</li></ul><p>Paige’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Instagram: @paigeboner</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Now find us on TikTok! <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast">https://www.tiktok.com/@itshardpodcast</a></li><li>Join me in It's Hard. You'll love it as much as I do. <a href="https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1" target="_blank">https://it-s-hard.mn.co/feed?autojoin=1</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Chelsea Glaser is a Brand Strategist and the co-founder of two companies; Launch It Girl and Fredi. </p><ul><li>Launch It Girl is a brand & web design shop, studio, and community whose mission is to get more women into business and to break down barriers to launching! </li><li>Fredi is a wellness brand offering an all-natural brain-boosting supplement called Focused by Fredi that helps you feel sharp, focused, collected, and energized all day long. </li></ul><p>In this episode, Chelsea talks about her struggle of saying “yes” to everything and how stretching herself thin across all aspects of her life led to disregarding her mental health. With two different companies, hobbies, passion projects, a social life, and whatever else life decides to dish out, she found herself asking, “am I cut out for this?”. </p><p>She opens up about the importance of trusting yourself and taking life as it comes, that “no matter how big your goals are, no matter how far away from achieving them you feel— every single thing is just one step at a time. You don't need to know how to do everything before you start, you only need to know how to do the next thing, and that will lead you to learning what you need to know for the thing after that, and so on. The path unfolds as you walk down it.” </p><p>Chelsea reminds us that happy people deal with hard things too, that it’s okay to say no, crying does not make you weak, and growth is not linear. We are all unique with our own personal struggles. By doing what feels right and giving ourselves more grace, we can create a life we are happy to live.</p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Anxiety</li><li>Under-evaluating oneself</li><li>Toxic positivity</li><li>Growth</li><li>Work and side hustles </li><li>Staying mentally healthy</li></ul><p>Chelsea’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Fredi Instagram: @wearefredi </li><li>Fredi TikTok: @wearefredi</li><li>Website: <a href="http://www.wearefredi.com/">www.wearefredi.com</a></li><li>Personal Instagram: @chelseaglaser</li><li>Personal TikTok: @chelseaglaser</li><li>Personal Website: <a href="http://www.chelseaglaser.com/">www.chelseaglaser.com</a></li><li>Launch It Girl Instagram: @launchitgirls</li><li>Launch It Girl Website: <a href="http://www.launchitgirl.com/">www.launchitgirl.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chelsea Glaser is a Brand Strategist and the co-founder of two companies; Launch It Girl and Fredi. </p><ul><li>Launch It Girl is a brand & web design shop, studio, and community whose mission is to get more women into business and to break down barriers to launching! </li><li>Fredi is a wellness brand offering an all-natural brain-boosting supplement called Focused by Fredi that helps you feel sharp, focused, collected, and energized all day long. </li></ul><p>In this episode, Chelsea talks about her struggle of saying “yes” to everything and how stretching herself thin across all aspects of her life led to disregarding her mental health. With two different companies, hobbies, passion projects, a social life, and whatever else life decides to dish out, she found herself asking, “am I cut out for this?”. </p><p>She opens up about the importance of trusting yourself and taking life as it comes, that “no matter how big your goals are, no matter how far away from achieving them you feel— every single thing is just one step at a time. You don't need to know how to do everything before you start, you only need to know how to do the next thing, and that will lead you to learning what you need to know for the thing after that, and so on. The path unfolds as you walk down it.” </p><p>Chelsea reminds us that happy people deal with hard things too, that it’s okay to say no, crying does not make you weak, and growth is not linear. We are all unique with our own personal struggles. By doing what feels right and giving ourselves more grace, we can create a life we are happy to live.</p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Anxiety</li><li>Under-evaluating oneself</li><li>Toxic positivity</li><li>Growth</li><li>Work and side hustles </li><li>Staying mentally healthy</li></ul><p>Chelsea’s Resources:</p><ul><li>Fredi Instagram: @wearefredi </li><li>Fredi TikTok: @wearefredi</li><li>Website: <a href="http://www.wearefredi.com/">www.wearefredi.com</a></li><li>Personal Instagram: @chelseaglaser</li><li>Personal TikTok: @chelseaglaser</li><li>Personal Website: <a href="http://www.chelseaglaser.com/">www.chelseaglaser.com</a></li><li>Launch It Girl Instagram: @launchitgirls</li><li>Launch It Girl Website: <a href="http://www.launchitgirl.com/">www.launchitgirl.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <itunes:title>Growth Isn’t Linear: The Process of Balance, Happiness + Success with Chelsea Glaser</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>INTERVIEW: Paige sits down with Chelsea Glaser, the co-founder of Launch It Girl &amp; the co-founder of Fredi, to discuss stretching yourself thin and the importance of taking life one step at a time.</itunes:summary>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Hearts 4 Henry, Sather Audio)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jack and I met by a chance encounter in Arizona after both of us were visiting friends for a New Years Eve party. We immediately hit it off; asking each other meaningful questions, holding great conversations, even picking each other for flip cup! ;-) The last year and a half hasn’t been easy... through long-distance, differing communication styles and love languages, mental health struggles, and hard conversations, Jack and I allow the listeners inside our relationship to hear how we face and overcome these challenges.</p><p>Relationships are hard! Especially through the tough times, it is so important to make each other feel valued, loved, and respected. This can be as simple as washing the dishes or making a cup of coffee! By working towards what you want, trusting one another, and allowing each other the space to learn, grow, and heal, it makes it worth it. After all, Jack and I are teammates in this little game called life.</p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>Communication</li><li>Intention</li><li>Love languages</li><li>Mental health</li><li>Past traumas</li><li>Being in control of your feelings</li><li>Patience</li><li>Trust</li></ul><p>Jack’s Resources:</p><p>Instagram: @jackholmgren</p><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Heteronormativity is the belief that heterosexuality is the preferred or normal mode of sexual orientation. For queer individuals, this creates a constant battle of homophobia, a non-stop coming out process to new people, having to correct others, or fear of rejection. Molly discusses her experiences with these struggles as a bisexual/pansexual individual and sheds light on the things people can do to be a good ally. </p><p>Being an ally is as simple as doing “little actionable things”. This could mean talking to a friend who is making off-handed comments, using correct pronouns, changing “boyfriend/girlfriend” to “partner”, and much more. Molly says---You can do little actionable things to advocate without going to every single protest, without doing every single thing all the time… just do one thing at a time.</p><p>Molly tackles life head-on. She is creative, raw, real, and loves to make connections with everyone she meets. Her story encourages being in control of your own life, giving yourself permission to feel all of the emotions, and being your authentic self, because really, “who the hell cares!?”</p><p>Molly and I also talk about…</p><ul><li>Loneliness</li><li>Guilt</li><li>Mental health</li><li>Sexual identity</li><li>Being an ally</li><li>Privilege</li><li>Self-love</li><li>Friendships</li></ul><p>Molly’s Resources:</p><p>Instagram: @mollyfrisch</p><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Hearts 4 Henry, Sather Audio)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/battling-heteronormativity-practicing-self-acceptance-_LCzGOEt</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Heteronormativity is the belief that heterosexuality is the preferred or normal mode of sexual orientation. For queer individuals, this creates a constant battle of homophobia, a non-stop coming out process to new people, having to correct others, or fear of rejection. Molly discusses her experiences with these struggles as a bisexual/pansexual individual and sheds light on the things people can do to be a good ally. </p><p>Being an ally is as simple as doing “little actionable things”. This could mean talking to a friend who is making off-handed comments, using correct pronouns, changing “boyfriend/girlfriend” to “partner”, and much more. Molly says---You can do little actionable things to advocate without going to every single protest, without doing every single thing all the time… just do one thing at a time.</p><p>Molly tackles life head-on. She is creative, raw, real, and loves to make connections with everyone she meets. Her story encourages being in control of your own life, giving yourself permission to feel all of the emotions, and being your authentic self, because really, “who the hell cares!?”</p><p>Molly and I also talk about…</p><ul><li>Loneliness</li><li>Guilt</li><li>Mental health</li><li>Sexual identity</li><li>Being an ally</li><li>Privilege</li><li>Self-love</li><li>Friendships</li></ul><p>Molly’s Resources:</p><p>Instagram: @mollyfrisch</p><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out<a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/"> https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts!<a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933"> https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE:<a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/"> https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Kelsey is the founder of Everme Coaching, a company dedicated to teaching how to lead creatively designed lives through inspirational storytelling, teaching and intuitive coaching. Kelsey offers resources and services that teach you how to create magic through the combination of intuition and action so that you can live your legacy with intention. </p><p>What is a creatively designed life? According to Kelsey---Simply put, a creatively designed life is a life in which you create your life by thinking outside of the box. You think in terms of what is best for you, not what is normal. I used to try and design my life around a traditional 9-5 job, mainstream values, the “shoulds” and failed miserably. I was creating a life on someone else’s turf.</p><p>A Creatively Designed Life is not a blueprint and it’s not a prescription. Even if I could give you a detailed outline of how I live my life, you couldn’t copy it and it wouldn’t be your Creatively Designed Life.</p><p>Also, it doesn’t matter  what you do in your Creatively Designed Life as long as you do it with intention, a sense of purpose and confidence in yourself. You can be anything you want in this life, you can even LOVE having a 9-5 job. I’m here to make sure that you have taken a step back and decided to LEAD your life versus FOLLOWING society’s definition of who you are supposed to be.</p><p>CREATIVELY: Actively creating, using your innate creativity to make the mural of your life a masterpiece</p><p>DESIGNED: As an extension of the Master Designer, you get to have a say in how this life expresses itself</p><p>LIFE: breathing in and out, joy, happiness, sadness, frustration, the full spectrum of human emotion</p><p>A Creatively Designed Life is also about filling your life and time with things you love and things you will be glad you did at the end of your life. I believe that if we are all leading Creatively Designed Lives we will see a world in which regrets are no longer present on death beds.</p><p>In this episode, Kelsey sheds light on the common struggles that prevent us from living out our purpose and fulfilling the life we truly want. She is inspiring, intelligent, and intuitive.</p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>What is a life coach? What do they do?</li><li>Purpose</li><li>Leadership</li><li>How to go against what you “should” do</li><li>Turning your mess into a message</li><li>Actions with intentions</li></ul><p>Kelsey's Resources:</p><p>Everme Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/evermecoaching/">https://www.instagram.com/evermecoaching/</a></p><p>Everme's Website: <a href="http://www.evermecoaching.com/">http://www.evermecoaching.com/</a></p><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE: <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (everme coaching, hearts for henry, paige boner, sather audio)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/leading-a-creatively-designed-life-living-with-purpose-with-kelsey-erickson-TyTWOL2k</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Kelsey is the founder of Everme Coaching, a company dedicated to teaching how to lead creatively designed lives through inspirational storytelling, teaching and intuitive coaching. Kelsey offers resources and services that teach you how to create magic through the combination of intuition and action so that you can live your legacy with intention. </p><p>What is a creatively designed life? According to Kelsey---Simply put, a creatively designed life is a life in which you create your life by thinking outside of the box. You think in terms of what is best for you, not what is normal. I used to try and design my life around a traditional 9-5 job, mainstream values, the “shoulds” and failed miserably. I was creating a life on someone else’s turf.</p><p>A Creatively Designed Life is not a blueprint and it’s not a prescription. Even if I could give you a detailed outline of how I live my life, you couldn’t copy it and it wouldn’t be your Creatively Designed Life.</p><p>Also, it doesn’t matter  what you do in your Creatively Designed Life as long as you do it with intention, a sense of purpose and confidence in yourself. You can be anything you want in this life, you can even LOVE having a 9-5 job. I’m here to make sure that you have taken a step back and decided to LEAD your life versus FOLLOWING society’s definition of who you are supposed to be.</p><p>CREATIVELY: Actively creating, using your innate creativity to make the mural of your life a masterpiece</p><p>DESIGNED: As an extension of the Master Designer, you get to have a say in how this life expresses itself</p><p>LIFE: breathing in and out, joy, happiness, sadness, frustration, the full spectrum of human emotion</p><p>A Creatively Designed Life is also about filling your life and time with things you love and things you will be glad you did at the end of your life. I believe that if we are all leading Creatively Designed Lives we will see a world in which regrets are no longer present on death beds.</p><p>In this episode, Kelsey sheds light on the common struggles that prevent us from living out our purpose and fulfilling the life we truly want. She is inspiring, intelligent, and intuitive.</p><p>We also talk about…</p><ul><li>What is a life coach? What do they do?</li><li>Purpose</li><li>Leadership</li><li>How to go against what you “should” do</li><li>Turning your mess into a message</li><li>Actions with intentions</li></ul><p>Kelsey's Resources:</p><p>Everme Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/evermecoaching/">https://www.instagram.com/evermecoaching/</a></p><p>Everme's Website: <a href="http://www.evermecoaching.com/">http://www.evermecoaching.com/</a></p><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE: <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com/">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="https://dashboard.simplecast.com/accounts/532314f6-e00f-4f4f-90e6-78e5eaa9fbdd/shows/d4cb266e-f848-401f-823c-4392f3321fbd/episodes/573d2d77-f100-4114-9870-4513dd0b36ff/">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p>
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      <itunes:title>Leading a Creatively Designed Life + Living with Purpose with Kelsey Erickson</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>INTERVIEW: Paige sits down with Kelsey Erickson, CPCC, to talk about leading a creatively designed life and living your purpose. </itunes:summary>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>What do you really know about trauma? Would you believe me if I told you that pretty much every human has trauma? Thats right, trauma doesn't only happen when you go to war or have a severe accident or loss. </p><p>Chelsey Larson shares how she discovered through therapy that she was having a "trauma response" and that she had PTSD. She was shocked because she was convinced that trauma was only something that people who had been to war experienced. Since discovering this about herself, she has learned a lot about trauma and PTSD. Through this research she learned about "big T" (war, car accident, assault, etc.) vs "little t" trauma which is much more common and includes a lot of emotional trauma and can be something as small as being pushed down or bullied on the playground and no one was there to help you. </p><p>Trauma can manifest in many ways: depression, anxiety, people pleasing, addiction, perfectionism, procrastination, etc. Chelsey learned that as a child, she learned to operate out of freeze (vs. fight or flight), which completely shut her off from her body. She made progress with her therapist, but it wasn't until she found somatic therapy that she felt connected to her body. </p><p>Her story is incredibly moving, impactful, and educational. We all need to be able to process our traumas and learn more about them in order to live our lives fully. </p><p>We also talk about...</p><ul><li>Sexual assault</li><li>Big T vs Little t</li><li>Trauma responses</li><li>Generational trauma</li><li>Being in your body</li><li>Somatic therapy</li><li>Drinking alcohol</li><li>Divorce</li><li>Masculine/Feminine Energy</li></ul><p>Chelsey's Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/c_lard/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/c_lard/</a></p><p>Quit Like a Woman by Holly Whitaker</p><p><a href="http://www.thecenterofmvmt.com/breathhouse/" target="_blank">http://www.thecenterofmvmt.com/breathhouse/</a></p><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE: <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 29 Mar 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (hearts 4 henry, fit for me by courtney, satheraudio)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/the-experience-of-trauma-how-our-bodies-respond-how-we-process-with-chelsey-larson-2qaXN_Fc</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What do you really know about trauma? Would you believe me if I told you that pretty much every human has trauma? Thats right, trauma doesn't only happen when you go to war or have a severe accident or loss. </p><p>Chelsey Larson shares how she discovered through therapy that she was having a "trauma response" and that she had PTSD. She was shocked because she was convinced that trauma was only something that people who had been to war experienced. Since discovering this about herself, she has learned a lot about trauma and PTSD. Through this research she learned about "big T" (war, car accident, assault, etc.) vs "little t" trauma which is much more common and includes a lot of emotional trauma and can be something as small as being pushed down or bullied on the playground and no one was there to help you. </p><p>Trauma can manifest in many ways: depression, anxiety, people pleasing, addiction, perfectionism, procrastination, etc. Chelsey learned that as a child, she learned to operate out of freeze (vs. fight or flight), which completely shut her off from her body. She made progress with her therapist, but it wasn't until she found somatic therapy that she felt connected to her body. </p><p>Her story is incredibly moving, impactful, and educational. We all need to be able to process our traumas and learn more about them in order to live our lives fully. </p><p>We also talk about...</p><ul><li>Sexual assault</li><li>Big T vs Little t</li><li>Trauma responses</li><li>Generational trauma</li><li>Being in your body</li><li>Somatic therapy</li><li>Drinking alcohol</li><li>Divorce</li><li>Masculine/Feminine Energy</li></ul><p>Chelsey's Resources:</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/c_lard/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/c_lard/</a></p><p>Quit Like a Woman by Holly Whitaker</p><p><a href="http://www.thecenterofmvmt.com/breathhouse/" target="_blank">http://www.thecenterofmvmt.com/breathhouse/</a></p><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE: <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p>
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      <itunes:title>The Experience of Trauma: How our Bodies Respond + How we Process with Chelsey Larson</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>INTERVIEW: Paige sits down with Chelsey Larson to talk vulnerably about the experience of trauma. </itunes:summary>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever been emotionally broken open? How about being emotionally broken open and then getting on a plane to Paris with an empty seat next to you because your partner and you planned the trip together but you couldn't get a refund. Talk about facing your wounds head on. </p><p>Cooper Hanson joins Paige to get vulnerable about his experience with heartbreak, growth, shame, depression + anxiety, and more. Through beautiful storytelling, Cooper takes us through his heartbreak that resulted in a solo trip around Europe that was meant for him and his ex partner. Throughout this trip, he met incredible people, faced fear head on, and grew immensly. </p><p>Today, Cooper runs his own copy writing and digital marketing business. He recently completed my BEAUTIFUL website-- go check it out -- <a href="itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">itshardpodcast.com</a> ! He is also about to become married to his wonderful fiancé, Miranda. Above all, he is the most kindred, warm, and itentional soul. There is immense graditude for this vulnerability and kindness through this conversation. </p><p>We also talk about...</p><ul><li>Shame</li><li>Guilt</li><li>Fear</li><li>Heartbreak</li><li>Identity</li><li>Life changes</li><li>Choosing negativity</li><li>Mental health</li><li>Therapy</li><li>Embracing the mess</li></ul><p>Cooper's Resources:</p><p><a href="http://www.concinnitywriting.com/" target="_blank">www.concinnitywriting.com</a></p><p><a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/cooper-hanson" target="_blank">www.linkedin.com/in/cooper-hanson</a></p><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE: <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 22 Mar 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (cooper hanson, hearts 4 henry, Satheraudio, Fit for Me by Courtney)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/being-broken-open-embracing-the-mess-with-cooper-hanson-mprExlE9</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever been emotionally broken open? How about being emotionally broken open and then getting on a plane to Paris with an empty seat next to you because your partner and you planned the trip together but you couldn't get a refund. Talk about facing your wounds head on. </p><p>Cooper Hanson joins Paige to get vulnerable about his experience with heartbreak, growth, shame, depression + anxiety, and more. Through beautiful storytelling, Cooper takes us through his heartbreak that resulted in a solo trip around Europe that was meant for him and his ex partner. Throughout this trip, he met incredible people, faced fear head on, and grew immensly. </p><p>Today, Cooper runs his own copy writing and digital marketing business. He recently completed my BEAUTIFUL website-- go check it out -- <a href="itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">itshardpodcast.com</a> ! He is also about to become married to his wonderful fiancé, Miranda. Above all, he is the most kindred, warm, and itentional soul. There is immense graditude for this vulnerability and kindness through this conversation. </p><p>We also talk about...</p><ul><li>Shame</li><li>Guilt</li><li>Fear</li><li>Heartbreak</li><li>Identity</li><li>Life changes</li><li>Choosing negativity</li><li>Mental health</li><li>Therapy</li><li>Embracing the mess</li></ul><p>Cooper's Resources:</p><p><a href="http://www.concinnitywriting.com/" target="_blank">www.concinnitywriting.com</a></p><p><a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/cooper-hanson" target="_blank">www.linkedin.com/in/cooper-hanson</a></p><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE: <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Molly Britt opens up about her journey to sobriety as a twenty-something. Molly discovered she had a negative relationship with alcohol when she realized that her relationships and what she valued was being negatively impacted by her drinking habits. Through therapy and recalling her relationship with alcohol, she was diagnosed with a mild substance disorder and in May of 2020 she decided to stop drinking alcohol.</p><p>Molly is not anti-alcohol, she believes that if people can handle alcohol, they should be able to consume it. However, she wants to just explore all concepts that come up when you start taking a deeper look at your relationship with alcohol and how it affects your life - both positive and negative. She also wants to start normalizing sobriety and take away the stereotypical image of someone who decides to get sober (like a 40 year old male in a mid life crisis that was waking up and couldn't make it through the day without alcohol). </p><p>Through this conversation we talk openly about drinking culture, societal pressures, and being sober curious. College culture creates this idealogy that we need to get drunk to have fun and if we don't, we aren't fun. This pressure happens post-college and in many aspects of our lives.</p><p>Molly's vulnerability is opening up the conversation and normalizing sobriety at all ages. She wants people to know that they aren't alone and your journey is based on your happiness. </p><p>We also talk about...</p><ul><li>Positive and negative relationships with alochol</li><li>Drinking culture</li><li>Societal pressures</li><li>Approaching social situations when sober</li><li>Prohibition </li><li>Blacking out</li><li>Sober curious</li></ul><p>Molly Britt's Resources:</p><ul><li>The Sober Twenty Something on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thesobertwentysomething/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/thesobertwentysomething/</a></li><li><a href="https://sobertwentysomethi.wixsite.com/sobertwentysomething" target="_blank">https://sobertwentysomethi.wixsite.com/sobertwentysomething</a></li><li>Quit Like a Woman by Holly Whitaker </li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE: <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2021 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (The Sober Twenty-something, Fit for me by Courtney, Satheraudio, Hearts for Henry)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/being-a-sober-twenty-something-with-molly-britt-ZN9kvNQA</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Molly Britt opens up about her journey to sobriety as a twenty-something. Molly discovered she had a negative relationship with alcohol when she realized that her relationships and what she valued was being negatively impacted by her drinking habits. Through therapy and recalling her relationship with alcohol, she was diagnosed with a mild substance disorder and in May of 2020 she decided to stop drinking alcohol.</p><p>Molly is not anti-alcohol, she believes that if people can handle alcohol, they should be able to consume it. However, she wants to just explore all concepts that come up when you start taking a deeper look at your relationship with alcohol and how it affects your life - both positive and negative. She also wants to start normalizing sobriety and take away the stereotypical image of someone who decides to get sober (like a 40 year old male in a mid life crisis that was waking up and couldn't make it through the day without alcohol). </p><p>Through this conversation we talk openly about drinking culture, societal pressures, and being sober curious. College culture creates this idealogy that we need to get drunk to have fun and if we don't, we aren't fun. This pressure happens post-college and in many aspects of our lives.</p><p>Molly's vulnerability is opening up the conversation and normalizing sobriety at all ages. She wants people to know that they aren't alone and your journey is based on your happiness. </p><p>We also talk about...</p><ul><li>Positive and negative relationships with alochol</li><li>Drinking culture</li><li>Societal pressures</li><li>Approaching social situations when sober</li><li>Prohibition </li><li>Blacking out</li><li>Sober curious</li></ul><p>Molly Britt's Resources:</p><ul><li>The Sober Twenty Something on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thesobertwentysomething/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/thesobertwentysomething/</a></li><li><a href="https://sobertwentysomethi.wixsite.com/sobertwentysomething" target="_blank">https://sobertwentysomethi.wixsite.com/sobertwentysomething</a></li><li>Quit Like a Woman by Holly Whitaker </li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE: <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p>
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      <itunes:title>Being a Sober Twenty-Something with Molly Britt</itunes:title>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Brenna Guinan is a Mental Health Counselor and host of the Real FCKN Talk Podcast. Paige and Brenna sit down to talk about mental health + therapy. </p><p>Real FCKN Talk is a podcast dedicated to breaking down the walls of everyone's "perfect life". Brenna recognizes that we all have our shit and that is ok. The podcast normalizes the discussion around mental health in a relateable and fun way. </p><p>In this episode, we talk about everything from becoming a therapist, the stigmas around mental health, to spirituality and being a witch. Brenna's passion for mental health and helping people while being incredibly relateable brings an incredible realness to the world of therapy. </p><p>We also talk about...</p><ul><li>The Stigmas around Therapy</li><li>Mental Health</li><li>Your gifts</li><li>Anxiety + Depression</li><li>Physical Representations of Mental Health</li><li>Shadow Work</li><li>Medication</li><li>Combining Eastern and Western Medicine</li><li>Sprituality</li><li>Affordable Therapy</li></ul><p>Brenna Guinan's Resources:</p><ul><li>Real FCKN Talk on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/real.fckn.talk/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/real.fckn.talk/</a></li><li>Listen to Real FCKN Talk at:</li><li><a href="https://www.rftpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.rftpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE: <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 8 Mar 2021 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Hearts for Henry, Real FCKN Talk, Satheraudio, Fit for me by Courtney)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/lets-talk-about-fckn-therapy-with-brenna-guinan-B8WB_cX0</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Brenna Guinan is a Mental Health Counselor and host of the Real FCKN Talk Podcast. Paige and Brenna sit down to talk about mental health + therapy. </p><p>Real FCKN Talk is a podcast dedicated to breaking down the walls of everyone's "perfect life". Brenna recognizes that we all have our shit and that is ok. The podcast normalizes the discussion around mental health in a relateable and fun way. </p><p>In this episode, we talk about everything from becoming a therapist, the stigmas around mental health, to spirituality and being a witch. Brenna's passion for mental health and helping people while being incredibly relateable brings an incredible realness to the world of therapy. </p><p>We also talk about...</p><ul><li>The Stigmas around Therapy</li><li>Mental Health</li><li>Your gifts</li><li>Anxiety + Depression</li><li>Physical Representations of Mental Health</li><li>Shadow Work</li><li>Medication</li><li>Combining Eastern and Western Medicine</li><li>Sprituality</li><li>Affordable Therapy</li></ul><p>Brenna Guinan's Resources:</p><ul><li>Real FCKN Talk on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/real.fckn.talk/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/real.fckn.talk/</a></li><li>Listen to Real FCKN Talk at:</li><li><a href="https://www.rftpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.rftpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>NEW WEBSITE: <a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p>
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      <title>Mental Health is Universal with Antonio Sundquist</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Antonio Sundquist was adopted from Paraguay and is the co-founder of Activ, host of The Human Capital Podcast and is the local mental health guy here in MPLS. </p><p>Antonio aims to lead by example, advocate for mental health, and embody what it means to be a critical thinker in modern society. His work in the mental health space is something that he believes to be his service to society. With ease, he articulates the process of our minds and why anxiety, depression, and other mental health experiences are not meant to be shameful or scary. </p><p>Antonio and I have a deep dive conversation around mental health in regards to anxiety, depression, triggers, mindfulness, education, and more. We talk about the truth around lack of education about our minds and how this has impacted our society. </p><p>We also talk about...</p><ul><li>Mental health</li><li>Anxiety</li><li>Depression</li><li>Triggers</li><li>Panic attacks</li><li>The universality of mental health</li><li>Mental health and men</li><li>Education</li><li>Mindset/mindfulness</li><li>Mental empowerment</li></ul><p>Antonio and I are going to start having monthly mental health chats, stay tuned for more info on that to come!</p><p>Antonio's Resources:</p><ul><li>Antonio on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/antoniosundquist/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/antoniosundquist/</a></li><li>The Human Capital Podcast on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thehumancapitalpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/thehumancapitalpodcast/</a></li><li>Listen to the Human Capital Podcast at: <a href="https://thehumancapitalpodcast.podlink.to/008" target="_blank">https://thehumancapitalpodcast.podlink.to/008</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 1 Mar 2021 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (It&apos;s Hard Podcast, Antonio Sundquist, Fit for me by Courtney, The Human Capital Podcast, Sather Audio, Hearts for Henry)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/mental-health-is-universal-with-antonio-sundquist-hmp9g7bt-mNJZpe_z</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Antonio Sundquist was adopted from Paraguay and is the co-founder of Activ, host of The Human Capital Podcast and is the local mental health guy here in MPLS. </p><p>Antonio aims to lead by example, advocate for mental health, and embody what it means to be a critical thinker in modern society. His work in the mental health space is something that he believes to be his service to society. With ease, he articulates the process of our minds and why anxiety, depression, and other mental health experiences are not meant to be shameful or scary. </p><p>Antonio and I have a deep dive conversation around mental health in regards to anxiety, depression, triggers, mindfulness, education, and more. We talk about the truth around lack of education about our minds and how this has impacted our society. </p><p>We also talk about...</p><ul><li>Mental health</li><li>Anxiety</li><li>Depression</li><li>Triggers</li><li>Panic attacks</li><li>The universality of mental health</li><li>Mental health and men</li><li>Education</li><li>Mindset/mindfulness</li><li>Mental empowerment</li></ul><p>Antonio and I are going to start having monthly mental health chats, stay tuned for more info on that to come!</p><p>Antonio's Resources:</p><ul><li>Antonio on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/antoniosundquist/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/antoniosundquist/</a></li><li>The Human Capital Podcast on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thehumancapitalpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/thehumancapitalpodcast/</a></li><li>Listen to the Human Capital Podcast at: <a href="https://thehumancapitalpodcast.podlink.to/008" target="_blank">https://thehumancapitalpodcast.podlink.to/008</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="https://www.itshardpodcast.com" target="_blank">https://www.itshardpodcast.com</a></li><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p>
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      <title>Leadership and Building Confidence with Darren Fisher</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Darren Fisher is here to get us pumped up and give us tangible ways to build confidence and become leaders in our everyday life. In this episode, we talk about appreciating both success and failure, leadership, the importance of confidence, black history, and much more.</p><p>Darren is an incredibly inspiring and generous soul. He has been a natural leader since he can remember, and now it has become his lifes work to develop others as they work to become great leaders as well. His story is one of resilience, hard work, dedication, and faith. He appreciates failure and encourages others to try and fail rather than never try at all. </p><p>"Failure is only a negative if you don’t have time to recover from it, but if you’re breathing, you have time."</p><p>In honor of Black History Month, Darren shares his history with us. His family of natural born leaders, but there was a stark difference in opportunity that was available to him versus his great grandfather who was a slave. Darren and his family have had to work so hard to get to where they are today, I can't wait to see how far they will go and how much of an impact they will continue to make. </p><p>Darren + I talk about:</p><ul><li>Leadership in many different forms</li><li>Success </li><li>Failure</li><li>Building confidence</li><li>Our academic system</li><li>Entreprenuership</li><li>Family</li><li>Vision</li><li>Effort and dedication</li><li>Rest and recovery</li><li>How to pursue greatness </li><li>Objective right principle</li><li>Black history </li></ul><p>and more...</p><p>IT'S HARD LISTENERS-- WE ARE TAKING A LIBERATE CLASS TOGETHER! On February 27th at 10AM, we are taking "Get Present" and It's Hard listeners are invited to join at a special discounted rate. This is a great opportunity to try something and ultimately better your mental fitness! Sign up using this link: <a href="https://www.liberatestudio.com/its-hard-class" target="_blank">https://www.liberatestudio.com/its-hard-class </a>and use the code:<strong> ITSHARD</strong> for $11 off the class "Get Present" at 10AM.</p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p><p>Darren's Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="Spearity.com" target="_blank">Spearity.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a><br /> </p><p> </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2021 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/leadership-and-building-confidence-with-darren-fisher-qJoLp8Bo</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Darren Fisher is here to get us pumped up and give us tangible ways to build confidence and become leaders in our everyday life. In this episode, we talk about appreciating both success and failure, leadership, the importance of confidence, black history, and much more.</p><p>Darren is an incredibly inspiring and generous soul. He has been a natural leader since he can remember, and now it has become his lifes work to develop others as they work to become great leaders as well. His story is one of resilience, hard work, dedication, and faith. He appreciates failure and encourages others to try and fail rather than never try at all. </p><p>"Failure is only a negative if you don’t have time to recover from it, but if you’re breathing, you have time."</p><p>In honor of Black History Month, Darren shares his history with us. His family of natural born leaders, but there was a stark difference in opportunity that was available to him versus his great grandfather who was a slave. Darren and his family have had to work so hard to get to where they are today, I can't wait to see how far they will go and how much of an impact they will continue to make. </p><p>Darren + I talk about:</p><ul><li>Leadership in many different forms</li><li>Success </li><li>Failure</li><li>Building confidence</li><li>Our academic system</li><li>Entreprenuership</li><li>Family</li><li>Vision</li><li>Effort and dedication</li><li>Rest and recovery</li><li>How to pursue greatness </li><li>Objective right principle</li><li>Black history </li></ul><p>and more...</p><p>IT'S HARD LISTENERS-- WE ARE TAKING A LIBERATE CLASS TOGETHER! On February 27th at 10AM, we are taking "Get Present" and It's Hard listeners are invited to join at a special discounted rate. This is a great opportunity to try something and ultimately better your mental fitness! Sign up using this link: <a href="https://www.liberatestudio.com/its-hard-class" target="_blank">https://www.liberatestudio.com/its-hard-class </a>and use the code:<strong> ITSHARD</strong> for $11 off the class "Get Present" at 10AM.</p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p><p>Darren's Resources:</p><ul><li><a href="Spearity.com" target="_blank">Spearity.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a><br /> </p><p> </p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Mental fitness is just as, if not more, important than physical fitness. We spend hours in the gym, at yoga studios, crossfit, soulcycle exercising our bodies...what about our minds?</p><p>Liv Bowser is passionate about our mental health and wellbeing, so she created Liberate, the first ever mental fitness studio. At Liberate, you can choose from several different class titles based on what you need that day. Throughout the duration of the 60 minute class, you will exercise your mind by setting an intention, moving through light yoga, journaling, conversation, and meditation. </p><p>Mental fitness, a term that Liberate uses, is a practice where you are exercising your mind and practicing concrete skills that ultimately better your mental well being. </p><p>Liv found her own mental well being to fall to the back burner in comparison to her physical health when she experienced feelings of anxiety. When going through big life transitions, she felt a strong sense of lonliness which sparked the first idea behind Liberate, to create space for people to connect.  </p><p>Mental health was something that Liv was able to ignore for a while, until she could not withstand anxious moments as they came into her mind and she realized that she needed to make a change. Meditation and yoga became a big part of her life and ultimately Liberate studio was born. </p><p>Today, Liberate hosts virtual classes with the hope to eventually have an in-person studio. Their mission is to mainstream mental health and bring human beings together on the journey to become our best selves. They have amazing teachers who are dedicated to creating a space for people to feel less alone and talk openly about mental health.</p><p>IT'S HARD LISTENERS-- WE ARE TAKING A LIBERATE CLASS TOGETHER! On February 27th at 10AM, we are taking "Get Present" and It's Hard listeners are invited to join at a special discounted rate. This is a great opportunity to try something and ultimately better your mental fitness! Sign up using this link: <a href="https://www.liberatestudio.com/its-hard-class" target="_blank">https://www.liberatestudio.com/its-hard-class </a>and use the code:<strong> ITSHARD</strong> for $11 off the class "Get Present" at 10AM.</p><p>Liv + I talk about:</p><ul><li>Mental fitness vs physical fitness</li><li>Anxiety and anxious thoughts</li><li>The desire to "fix" mental illness</li><li>Lonliness</li><li>Connection</li><li>Mental health</li><li>Meditation</li><li>Community</li><li>Solo trips</li><li>Knowing yourself</li><li>Impact</li><li>Naming your anxiety</li><li>"Comparison is the thief of joy"</li><li>Media consumption</li></ul><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p><p>Liv's Resources:</p><ul><li>Liberate Studio on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/liberatestudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/liberatestudio/</a></li><li>Sign-up for a class today at <a href="https://www.liberatestudio.com" target="_blank">https://www.liberatestudio.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 15 Feb 2021 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Olivia Bowser, Fit for Me by Courtney, Liberate Studio, Sather Audio, Hearts for Henry)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/mental-fitness-and-becoming-your-best-self-with-liv-bowser-oj_Sycei</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mental fitness is just as, if not more, important than physical fitness. We spend hours in the gym, at yoga studios, crossfit, soulcycle exercising our bodies...what about our minds?</p><p>Liv Bowser is passionate about our mental health and wellbeing, so she created Liberate, the first ever mental fitness studio. At Liberate, you can choose from several different class titles based on what you need that day. Throughout the duration of the 60 minute class, you will exercise your mind by setting an intention, moving through light yoga, journaling, conversation, and meditation. </p><p>Mental fitness, a term that Liberate uses, is a practice where you are exercising your mind and practicing concrete skills that ultimately better your mental well being. </p><p>Liv found her own mental well being to fall to the back burner in comparison to her physical health when she experienced feelings of anxiety. When going through big life transitions, she felt a strong sense of lonliness which sparked the first idea behind Liberate, to create space for people to connect.  </p><p>Mental health was something that Liv was able to ignore for a while, until she could not withstand anxious moments as they came into her mind and she realized that she needed to make a change. Meditation and yoga became a big part of her life and ultimately Liberate studio was born. </p><p>Today, Liberate hosts virtual classes with the hope to eventually have an in-person studio. Their mission is to mainstream mental health and bring human beings together on the journey to become our best selves. They have amazing teachers who are dedicated to creating a space for people to feel less alone and talk openly about mental health.</p><p>IT'S HARD LISTENERS-- WE ARE TAKING A LIBERATE CLASS TOGETHER! On February 27th at 10AM, we are taking "Get Present" and It's Hard listeners are invited to join at a special discounted rate. This is a great opportunity to try something and ultimately better your mental fitness! Sign up using this link: <a href="https://www.liberatestudio.com/its-hard-class" target="_blank">https://www.liberatestudio.com/its-hard-class </a>and use the code:<strong> ITSHARD</strong> for $11 off the class "Get Present" at 10AM.</p><p>Liv + I talk about:</p><ul><li>Mental fitness vs physical fitness</li><li>Anxiety and anxious thoughts</li><li>The desire to "fix" mental illness</li><li>Lonliness</li><li>Connection</li><li>Mental health</li><li>Meditation</li><li>Community</li><li>Solo trips</li><li>Knowing yourself</li><li>Impact</li><li>Naming your anxiety</li><li>"Comparison is the thief of joy"</li><li>Media consumption</li></ul><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p><p>Liv's Resources:</p><ul><li>Liberate Studio on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/liberatestudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/liberatestudio/</a></li><li>Sign-up for a class today at <a href="https://www.liberatestudio.com" target="_blank">https://www.liberatestudio.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Ike Wynter is an eco-sustainable wood artist who makes art out of reclaimed wood and aims to convey his delusional optimism to his audience in order to be a light and help them face challenges in their life. </p><p>He uses his art as an avenue to speak his thoughts into the world and be a source of positivity for people following his journey. He comes from a family of entrepreneurs and was encouraged to live his life the way he wanted, he shares his thoughts on the expectations that are put on people and why we should choose our own paths. </p><p>Ike's perspective on life is inspiring, encouraging, and full of love. Our conversation is filled with many great nuggets, here are some other things we touch on:</p><ul><li>Optimism</li><li>Toxic masculinity</li><li>Mental health</li><li>Perspective</li><li>Entrepreneurship</li><li>Simple day-to-day interactions</li><li>Energy</li><li>Recognizing differences</li><li>Standing up for what you believe in</li><li>The power that you have to impact others</li><li>The ripple effect</li><li>Checking up on your people</li><li>Your gifts </li><li>Kindness</li></ul><p>and more...</p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p><p>Ike's Resources:</p><ul><li>Ike on Instagram:<a href="" target="_blank"> https://www.instagram.com/ike_wynter/</a></li><li>Ike's Etsy: <a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/WynterWoodsCo?ref=search_shop_redirect" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/WynterWoodsCo?ref=search_shop_redirect</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Merchandise available on: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/itshardpodcast</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 8 Feb 2021 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Fit for Me by Courtney, hearts 4 henry, Sather Audio, Ike Wynter)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/optimism-and-impacting-those-around-you-with-ike-wynter-fChKK_cn</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ike Wynter is an eco-sustainable wood artist who makes art out of reclaimed wood and aims to convey his delusional optimism to his audience in order to be a light and help them face challenges in their life. </p><p>He uses his art as an avenue to speak his thoughts into the world and be a source of positivity for people following his journey. He comes from a family of entrepreneurs and was encouraged to live his life the way he wanted, he shares his thoughts on the expectations that are put on people and why we should choose our own paths. </p><p>Ike's perspective on life is inspiring, encouraging, and full of love. Our conversation is filled with many great nuggets, here are some other things we touch on:</p><ul><li>Optimism</li><li>Toxic masculinity</li><li>Mental health</li><li>Perspective</li><li>Entrepreneurship</li><li>Simple day-to-day interactions</li><li>Energy</li><li>Recognizing differences</li><li>Standing up for what you believe in</li><li>The power that you have to impact others</li><li>The ripple effect</li><li>Checking up on your people</li><li>Your gifts </li><li>Kindness</li></ul><p>and more...</p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p><p>Ike's Resources:</p><ul><li>Ike on Instagram:<a href="" target="_blank"> https://www.instagram.com/ike_wynter/</a></li><li>Ike's Etsy: <a href="https://www.etsy.com/shop/WynterWoodsCo?ref=search_shop_redirect" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/WynterWoodsCo?ref=search_shop_redirect</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li><li>Merchandise available on: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/itshardpodcast</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>This is a candid conversation with Julia Yanchek as she opens up about her struggles with depression and anxiety, frequent change, bullying, and more. Her vulnerability shines through as she shares experiences that many people can relate to. </p><p>Julia is an advocate for change, by embracing it, we lead to true self awareness and acceptance. Change, the unknown, and judgement have been the catalyst she needed to find out who she truly is, and what she needs and desires. </p><p>In this episode, we talk about:</p><ul><li>Depression</li><li>Anxiety</li><li>Bullying</li><li>Moving </li><li>Post-grad life</li><li>Soulcycle </li><li>Change</li><li>The unknown</li><li>Self-acceptance</li></ul><p>and more...</p><p>Hearts 4 Henry: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/hearts_4_henry/</a></p><p><a href="" target="_blank">https://www.etsy.com/shop/Hearts4Henry?ref=l2-about-shopname</a></p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p><p>Julia's Resources:</p><ul><li>Julia on Instagram: <a href="" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/juliayanchek/</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li></ul><p>PODCASTERS! Ashley Sondergaard and I are hosting a Podcaster Mastermind Happy Hour in February - Follow this link for more info and to RSVP!</p><p><a href="https://www.ashleysondergaard.com/event-details/podcaster-happy-hour-mastermind " target="_blank">https://www.ashleysondergaard.com/event-details/podcaster-happy-hour-mastermind </a></p><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 1 Feb 2021 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Sather Audio, julia yanchek, hlhs, hearts 4 henry, Fit for Me by Courtney)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/embracing-change-and-BpbI9ZH5</link>
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      <itunes:title>Resilience, Depression + Anxiety, and Embracing Change with Julia Yanchek</itunes:title>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Falen is from Southern Indiana and has been in radio since 2002. She has been the is the co-host of the Dave Ryan in the morning show for 9 years. She is married to Jake and has a step-son and 15 month old baby, Olive. </p><p>Falen has a podcast, Heartbroken, where real people share real stories of heartbreak. It is mainly relationship based, however, they cover topics around death of a partner, parents, still birth, etc. </p><p>In this episode, we have an honest conversation around vulnerability as a person in the public eye, the two sides of social media, the universaility of heartbreak, and much more. </p><p>Falen has been vulnerable since before it was cool, her image and career is built on her ability to connect with people through her voice and authenticity. While this has led to success, it has also come with challenges. She recieves negative comments on social media, struggles with people disliking her, went through her own heartbreak publicly, and now is contemplating the future of her podcast, Heartbroken. </p><p>Falen wants to help people feel less alone, be real and authentic, and pursue things that are creative, help people, and that she has pure passion for. Her journey is relateable and inspiring. </p><p>In this episode, we talk about: </p><ul><li>Vulnerability</li><li>The upsides and downsides of social media</li><li>Recieving negative comments </li><li>The struggle of people not liking you</li><li>Heartbreak</li><li>Mental circling</li><li>Heartbreak</li><li>Toxic relationships </li><li>Podcasting</li><li>Pursuing what you are passionate about</li></ul><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p><p>Falen's Resources:</p><ul><li>Falen on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/falenkdwb/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/falenkdwb/</a></li><li>Heartbroken on Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heartbroken-with-falen/id1414922125" target="_blank">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heartbroken-with-falen/id1414922125</a></li><li>Falen's Blog <a href="https://kdwb.iheart.com/featured/falen/" target="_blank">https://kdwb.iheart.com/featured/falen/</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li></ul><p>PODCASTERS! Ashley Sondergaard and I are hosting a Podcaster Mastermind Happy Hour in February - Follow this link for more info and to RSVP!</p><p><a href="https://www.ashleysondergaard.com/event-details/podcaster-happy-hour-mastermind " target="_blank">https://www.ashleysondergaard.com/event-details/podcaster-happy-hour-mastermind </a></p><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 25 Jan 2021 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (KDWB, Falen, satheraudio, Heartbroken Podcast)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/vulnerability-social-media-and-heartbreak-with-falen-Mm3aBP5F</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Falen is from Southern Indiana and has been in radio since 2002. She has been the is the co-host of the Dave Ryan in the morning show for 9 years. She is married to Jake and has a step-son and 15 month old baby, Olive. </p><p>Falen has a podcast, Heartbroken, where real people share real stories of heartbreak. It is mainly relationship based, however, they cover topics around death of a partner, parents, still birth, etc. </p><p>In this episode, we have an honest conversation around vulnerability as a person in the public eye, the two sides of social media, the universaility of heartbreak, and much more. </p><p>Falen has been vulnerable since before it was cool, her image and career is built on her ability to connect with people through her voice and authenticity. While this has led to success, it has also come with challenges. She recieves negative comments on social media, struggles with people disliking her, went through her own heartbreak publicly, and now is contemplating the future of her podcast, Heartbroken. </p><p>Falen wants to help people feel less alone, be real and authentic, and pursue things that are creative, help people, and that she has pure passion for. Her journey is relateable and inspiring. </p><p>In this episode, we talk about: </p><ul><li>Vulnerability</li><li>The upsides and downsides of social media</li><li>Recieving negative comments </li><li>The struggle of people not liking you</li><li>Heartbreak</li><li>Mental circling</li><li>Heartbreak</li><li>Toxic relationships </li><li>Podcasting</li><li>Pursuing what you are passionate about</li></ul><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p><p>Falen's Resources:</p><ul><li>Falen on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/falenkdwb/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/falenkdwb/</a></li><li>Heartbroken on Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heartbroken-with-falen/id1414922125" target="_blank">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/heartbroken-with-falen/id1414922125</a></li><li>Falen's Blog <a href="https://kdwb.iheart.com/featured/falen/" target="_blank">https://kdwb.iheart.com/featured/falen/</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li></ul><p>PODCASTERS! Ashley Sondergaard and I are hosting a Podcaster Mastermind Happy Hour in February - Follow this link for more info and to RSVP!</p><p><a href="https://www.ashleysondergaard.com/event-details/podcaster-happy-hour-mastermind " target="_blank">https://www.ashleysondergaard.com/event-details/podcaster-happy-hour-mastermind </a></p><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p>
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      <title>Self-Discovery and Manifestation with Ashley Sondergaard</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Ashley Sondergaard is the founder of Ashley Sondergaard Yoga and host of Yoga Magic Podcast. She is passionate about self-discovery and self-care for everyone. In this episode, we talk about the process of discovering your true self, leaning into your gifts, taking care of yourself in a way that works for YOU and following your path without worrying about the "shoulds". </p><p>Ashley is such a warm, inspiring, and intelligent change maker. She cares deeply about encouraging others to find their true self and discover their best self-care ritual. This conversation flowed into many different directions, we covered various topics around self-discovery and awareness. </p><p><i>"Ashley Sondergaard is a yoga teacher, an entrepreneur and host of the Yoga Magic podcast. For 8 years, she has studied yoga, meditation, astrology and mindfulness practices that prioritize self-care and self-discovery. After having her two girls, Ashley discovered the hard way that taking care of yourself first is the only way to take care of others. Today, she supports her students & clients in up leveling their everyday routines into magical self-care rituals." </i></p><p>In this episode, we talk about: </p><ul><li>Accepting your path</li><li>Listening to yourself</li><li>Manifestation</li><li>Shadow work </li><li>Societal Pressures</li><li>Mindfulness</li><li>Contentment </li><li>Making decisions for yourself</li><li>Astrology as a mirror</li><li>Self-Care </li><li>Triggers</li></ul><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p><p>Ashley's Resources:</p><ul><li>Ashley Sondergaard on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ashleysondergaard.yoga/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/ashleysondergaard.yoga/</a></li><li>Yoga Magic Podcast on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/yogamagicpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/yogamagicpodcast/</a></li><li>Yoga Magic Podcast on Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yoga-magic/id1489885189">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yoga-magic/id1489885189</a></li><li>To find Ashley's events, classes, and more...visit her website: <a href="https://www.ashleysondergaard.com/instagram" target="_blank">https://www.ashleysondergaard.com/instagram</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Join the mailing list for emails with episode announcements, sneak peaks into the upcoming week, and other fun updates! Here is the form to join: <a href="https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6" target="_blank">https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li></ul><p>PODCASTERS! Ashley and I are hosting a Podcaster Mastermind Happy Hour in February - Follow this link for more info and to RSVP!</p><p><a href="https://www.ashleysondergaard.com/event-details/podcaster-happy-hour-mastermind " target="_blank">https://www.ashleysondergaard.com/event-details/podcaster-happy-hour-mastermind </a></p><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 18 Jan 2021 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Fit for Me by Courtney, Courtney Leivermann, Yoga Magic Podcast, Ashley Sondergaard)</author>
      <link>https://itshard.simplecast.com/episodes/self-discovery-and-manifestation-with-ashley-sondergaard-TDVNfvs1</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ashley Sondergaard is the founder of Ashley Sondergaard Yoga and host of Yoga Magic Podcast. She is passionate about self-discovery and self-care for everyone. In this episode, we talk about the process of discovering your true self, leaning into your gifts, taking care of yourself in a way that works for YOU and following your path without worrying about the "shoulds". </p><p>Ashley is such a warm, inspiring, and intelligent change maker. She cares deeply about encouraging others to find their true self and discover their best self-care ritual. This conversation flowed into many different directions, we covered various topics around self-discovery and awareness. </p><p><i>"Ashley Sondergaard is a yoga teacher, an entrepreneur and host of the Yoga Magic podcast. For 8 years, she has studied yoga, meditation, astrology and mindfulness practices that prioritize self-care and self-discovery. After having her two girls, Ashley discovered the hard way that taking care of yourself first is the only way to take care of others. Today, she supports her students & clients in up leveling their everyday routines into magical self-care rituals." </i></p><p>In this episode, we talk about: </p><ul><li>Accepting your path</li><li>Listening to yourself</li><li>Manifestation</li><li>Shadow work </li><li>Societal Pressures</li><li>Mindfulness</li><li>Contentment </li><li>Making decisions for yourself</li><li>Astrology as a mirror</li><li>Self-Care </li><li>Triggers</li></ul><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p><p>Ashley's Resources:</p><ul><li>Ashley Sondergaard on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ashleysondergaard.yoga/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/ashleysondergaard.yoga/</a></li><li>Yoga Magic Podcast on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/yogamagicpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/yogamagicpodcast/</a></li><li>Yoga Magic Podcast on Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yoga-magic/id1489885189">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/yoga-magic/id1489885189</a></li><li>To find Ashley's events, classes, and more...visit her website: <a href="https://www.ashleysondergaard.com/instagram" target="_blank">https://www.ashleysondergaard.com/instagram</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Join the mailing list for emails with episode announcements, sneak peaks into the upcoming week, and other fun updates! Here is the form to join: <a href="https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6" target="_blank">https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li></ul><p>PODCASTERS! Ashley and I are hosting a Podcaster Mastermind Happy Hour in February - Follow this link for more info and to RSVP!</p><p><a href="https://www.ashleysondergaard.com/event-details/podcaster-happy-hour-mastermind " target="_blank">https://www.ashleysondergaard.com/event-details/podcaster-happy-hour-mastermind </a></p><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>This episode is raw and vulnerable. Eating disorders, body dysmorphia, and body image are not talked about enough in our society. In this episode, both Hannah Studee and Paige open up about their personal experiences with anorexia, bulimia, body dysmorphia, body shaming, comparison, and more.</p><p>Hannah Studee has been a gymnast since age 3, she has always been passionate about the body--why does it move a certain way, how does it operate, why do we do exercises the way we do? She also grew up incredibly passionate about art, water sports, longboarding, and fitness. Today, she has her own makeup business, Beauty by Studee. She is also a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist and Certified Personal Trainer as she also runs her fitness business, Body by Studee. </p><p>Hannah was in 7th grade when she experienced her first bout of an eating disorder. She had been criticized for the appearance of her body by coaches and dance teachers and eventually it became too much, so she started restricting and over exercsising. </p><p>For years, Hannah has struggled with orthorexia, anorexia, bulimia, and  body dysmorphia. This past year, Hannah came to the realization that she needed help, she needed to take back the control and learn how to love herself and her body.</p><p>Hannah wants to make a difference by raising awareness for eating disorders in the fitness industry and beyond. She wants to open up about her struggles for the sake of her clients and others who possibly have been in or currently are struggling with the same thing. </p><p>Eating Disorders are a mental illness. They take control of people's lives and consume their every thought. We need to have more conversations around the commonality of these disorders and how we can help one another through them. One of the hardest things to do is to admit that you need help. If you want to talk futher, reach out to Hannah or myself. Listed below are Eating Disorder Treatment Centers in MPLS, if you live elsewhere, google "eating disorder treatment near me". </p><ul><li>Melrose Center - Where Hannah is seeking treatment.</li><li>The Emily Program - Were I recieved treatment</li></ul><p>Hannah's Resources:</p><ul><li>Body by Studee on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bodybystudee/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/bodybystudee/</a></li><li>Beauty by Studee on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/beautybystudee/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/beautybystudee/</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Join the mailing list for emails with episode announcements, sneak peaks into the upcoming week, and other fun updates! Here is the form to join: <a href="https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6" target="_blank">https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6</a></li><li>Subscribe, rate, and review on Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933" target="_blank">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933 </a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p> </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2021 12:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This episode is raw and vulnerable. Eating disorders, body dysmorphia, and body image are not talked about enough in our society. In this episode, both Hannah Studee and Paige open up about their personal experiences with anorexia, bulimia, body dysmorphia, body shaming, comparison, and more.</p><p>Hannah Studee has been a gymnast since age 3, she has always been passionate about the body--why does it move a certain way, how does it operate, why do we do exercises the way we do? She also grew up incredibly passionate about art, water sports, longboarding, and fitness. Today, she has her own makeup business, Beauty by Studee. She is also a Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist and Certified Personal Trainer as she also runs her fitness business, Body by Studee. </p><p>Hannah was in 7th grade when she experienced her first bout of an eating disorder. She had been criticized for the appearance of her body by coaches and dance teachers and eventually it became too much, so she started restricting and over exercsising. </p><p>For years, Hannah has struggled with orthorexia, anorexia, bulimia, and  body dysmorphia. This past year, Hannah came to the realization that she needed help, she needed to take back the control and learn how to love herself and her body.</p><p>Hannah wants to make a difference by raising awareness for eating disorders in the fitness industry and beyond. She wants to open up about her struggles for the sake of her clients and others who possibly have been in or currently are struggling with the same thing. </p><p>Eating Disorders are a mental illness. They take control of people's lives and consume their every thought. We need to have more conversations around the commonality of these disorders and how we can help one another through them. One of the hardest things to do is to admit that you need help. If you want to talk futher, reach out to Hannah or myself. Listed below are Eating Disorder Treatment Centers in MPLS, if you live elsewhere, google "eating disorder treatment near me". </p><ul><li>Melrose Center - Where Hannah is seeking treatment.</li><li>The Emily Program - Were I recieved treatment</li></ul><p>Hannah's Resources:</p><ul><li>Body by Studee on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bodybystudee/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/bodybystudee/</a></li><li>Beauty by Studee on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/beautybystudee/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/beautybystudee/</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Join the mailing list for emails with episode announcements, sneak peaks into the upcoming week, and other fun updates! Here is the form to join: <a href="https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6" target="_blank">https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6</a></li><li>Subscribe, rate, and review on Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933" target="_blank">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933 </a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p> </p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Courtney Leivermann is the founder of Fit for Me by Courtney app and community. On her app & website, she shares Mat Pilates, Barre, and Yoga inspired workouts that are efficient and effective, low impact, and are meant to leave you feeling good. Courtney also has a Fit for Me Community that she mostly communicates with on Instagram (her profile is linked below), where she shares real food, mindfulness tips, some fashion/lifestyle, and uplifting quotes.</p><p>Courtney is such kind, warm, and inspiring spirit and the insights that she shares on the ability we have to move our bodies in a way that feels good to us personally is so valuable. She also opens up about the challenges behind being an entrpreneur and how she worked through the obstacles that she came across.</p><p>She also has her own podcast as well! Listen to her show anywhere where you listen to podcasts. </p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is an important part of how I stay mentally healthy. I do Courtney's workouts every morning and it truly helps me feel refreshed and ready to take on the day. It also has helped me reach the health goals that I aim for, both physically and mentally.</p><p>I am excited to announce Courtney and I's partnership for the first time on this episode. She is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p><p>Courtney's Resources:</p><ul><li>Fit for Me by Courtney on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fitformebycourtney/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/fitformebycourtney/</a></li><li><a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a></li><li>FFM Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fit-for-me-by-courtney/id1463611691" target="_blank">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fit-for-me-by-courtney/id1463611691</a></li><li>You can find her app in the App Store--Fit for Me by Courtney</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Join the mailing list for a weekly email with episode announcements, sneak peaks into the upcoming week, and other fun updates! Here is the form to join: <a href="https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6" target="_blank">https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 4 Jan 2021 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Courtney Leivermann, Fit for Me by Courtney)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Courtney Leivermann is the founder of Fit for Me by Courtney app and community. On her app & website, she shares Mat Pilates, Barre, and Yoga inspired workouts that are efficient and effective, low impact, and are meant to leave you feeling good. Courtney also has a Fit for Me Community that she mostly communicates with on Instagram (her profile is linked below), where she shares real food, mindfulness tips, some fashion/lifestyle, and uplifting quotes.</p><p>Courtney is such kind, warm, and inspiring spirit and the insights that she shares on the ability we have to move our bodies in a way that feels good to us personally is so valuable. She also opens up about the challenges behind being an entrpreneur and how she worked through the obstacles that she came across.</p><p>She also has her own podcast as well! Listen to her show anywhere where you listen to podcasts. </p><p>Fit for Me by Courtney is an important part of how I stay mentally healthy. I do Courtney's workouts every morning and it truly helps me feel refreshed and ready to take on the day. It also has helped me reach the health goals that I aim for, both physically and mentally.</p><p>I am excited to announce Courtney and I's partnership for the first time on this episode. She is offering my listeners 25% off your first month and a free two week trial when you use the code <strong>ITSHARD25</strong> on her website, <a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a>and then you can download the app. </p><p>Courtney's Resources:</p><ul><li>Fit for Me by Courtney on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/fitformebycourtney/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/fitformebycourtney/</a></li><li><a href="https://fitformebycourtney.com" target="_blank">https://fitformebycourtney.com  </a></li><li>FFM Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fit-for-me-by-courtney/id1463611691" target="_blank">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/fit-for-me-by-courtney/id1463611691</a></li><li>You can find her app in the App Store--Fit for Me by Courtney</li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! I share updates on the episodes, chats about mental health and other parts of my life--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Join the mailing list for a weekly email with episode announcements, sneak peaks into the upcoming week, and other fun updates! Here is the form to join: <a href="https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6" target="_blank">https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6</a></li><li>Rate, Review and Subscribe on Apple Podcasts! <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 28 Dec 2020 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Paige Boner)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The Unplug for the Holidays Challenge is going on right now--check out @itshardpodcast on Instagram for more information. This episode is a reflection on the challenge thus far, what this past year has brought, and looking forward into 2021.</p><p>Paige talks about:</p><p>-Spending Holidays unplugged</p><p>-Clarity and boundaries around social media</p><p>-Holidays are hard for some people</p><p>-The 12/21 portal</p><p>-Spirituality</p><p>-Self-doubt</p><p>-What she plans to release and attract going into 2021</p><p>-Mental Health awareness </p><p>-Choosing a "word of the year"</p><p>-Appreciating and growing from this past year</p><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! This week we are kicking off  the Unplug for the Holidays Challenge--go check it out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Join the mailing list for a weekly email with episode announcements, sneak peaks into the upcoming week, and other fun updates! Here is the form to join: <a href="https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6" target="_blank">https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6</a></li><li>Subscribe, rate, and review on Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933" target="_blank">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933 </a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p> </p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Teen pregnancy and becoming a young mom is hard, Josie knows this first hand. However, her mindset and perspective around her journey is so beautiful. She wants to open up about her story in hopes that it will help others who became pregnant at a young age. </p><p>She has struggled with closing doors on her past, re-imagining her future, shifting her life sooner than expected, and more. She also has discovered beautiful things about herself, spent more intentional time with family, and matured faster than she ever imagined.</p><p>Josie is here to discuss the stigmas around being a teen mom and that it is hard, but you can be lifted by the love and support of those around you and your personal mindset. </p><p>Josie wants to help others and be an outlet for people on a similar journey as her, please reach out if you have questions or need support. </p><p>Josie's Resources:</p><ul><li>Josie's personal Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/josiescherek/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/josiescherek/</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! This week we are kicking off  the Unplug for the Holidays Challenge--go check it out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Join the mailing list for a weekly email with episode announcements, sneak peaks into the upcoming week, and other fun updates! Here is the form to join: <a href="https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6" target="_blank">https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6</a></li><li>Subscribe, rate, and review on Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933" target="_blank">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933 </a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p> </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Dec 2020 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>hello@itshardpodcast.com (Josie Scherek)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Teen pregnancy and becoming a young mom is hard, Josie knows this first hand. However, her mindset and perspective around her journey is so beautiful. She wants to open up about her story in hopes that it will help others who became pregnant at a young age. </p><p>She has struggled with closing doors on her past, re-imagining her future, shifting her life sooner than expected, and more. She also has discovered beautiful things about herself, spent more intentional time with family, and matured faster than she ever imagined.</p><p>Josie is here to discuss the stigmas around being a teen mom and that it is hard, but you can be lifted by the love and support of those around you and your personal mindset. </p><p>Josie wants to help others and be an outlet for people on a similar journey as her, please reach out if you have questions or need support. </p><p>Josie's Resources:</p><ul><li>Josie's personal Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/josiescherek/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/josiescherek/</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! This week we are kicking off  the Unplug for the Holidays Challenge--go check it out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Join the mailing list for a weekly email with episode announcements, sneak peaks into the upcoming week, and other fun updates! Here is the form to join: <a href="https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6" target="_blank">https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6</a></li><li>Subscribe, rate, and review on Apple Podcasts: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933" target="_blank">https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/its-hard/id1487375933 </a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p><p> </p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Josh Parks is the founder of GhostFit Apparel, a fitness clothing brand with a mission to help individuals overcome daily obstacles. They partner with mental health organizations to help individuals learn how to mitigate mental health issues. </p><p>Josh is passionate about fitness and helping others. In this episode, he opens up about his experience with severe anxiety and how it impacted his life. Fitness was something that helped him mitigate anxiety, but he also discusses the power of mindset and growth. </p><p>Josh is inspiring, vulnerable, kind, and incredibly generous. He is passionate about giving back to the community and organizations that are close to his heart. He started "Kids Eat First" at the beginning of the pandemic, the mission was to help kids who rely on a meal at school to recieve a meal for free. They are bringing it back but on a larger scale in January, check out Josh's social media pages for more info! </p><p>Josh's Resources:</p><ul><li>Josh's personal Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/joshuamichaelparks/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/joshuamichaelparks/</a></li><li>GhostFit Apparel on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ghostfitclothing/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/ghostfitclothing/</a></li><li><a href="https://ghostfitapparel.com" target="_blank">https://ghostfitapparel.com</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard Resources:</p><ul><li>Follow It's Hard on Instagram if you don't already! This week we are introducing the Unplug for the Holidays Challenge--go check out <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/ </a></li><li>Join the mailing list for a weekly email with episode announcements, sneak peaks into the upcoming week, and other fun updates! Here is the form to join: <a href="https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6" target="_blank">https://forms.gle/5w9uyMQGkUAoUn9r6</a></li></ul><p>It's Hard is edited by Sather Audio <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/</a></p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Katie Sir, the First Date Expert, "First Date Expert" is a beautiful movement of empowering young adults, especially men, to pursue healthy relationships by starting on the right foot. For Katie, it's a way of educating the people she loves with holistic information with social and dating skill development. </p><p>Katie aims to "look out for the good guys". Her target market is the "goodhearted guys" that feel like they are constantly being friendzoned or the nice guy finishing last. She believes that they are incredible humans that just need a little guidance for how to make situations work FOR them, without needing them to turn into a tool. All of her content is universal, so women and even non-single people will find value because it's simply just about human connection and interpersonal skills. </p><p>In this episode, we cover all things dating. We talk about basic tips for entering the dating world, how to make your online dating profile perfect for you, why coffee dates are cancelled, how to date in a pandemic and much much more. We also answer your burning questions that you sent in! </p><p>Dating is HARD, Katie makes it a little bit easier. To connect with Katie and join her community you can:</p><p>Follow her on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/katie_sir/">@katie_sir </a>and visit her website <a href="http://www.katiesir.com/" target="_blank">www.katiesir.com</a></p><p>Her book, "Become a First Date Expert" is OUT NOW! Visit her website to learn more. </p><p>Audio/Theme song done by: Andy Bjerk of Sather Audio. Follow him <a href="https://www.instagram.com/satheraudio/">@satheraudio </a>on Instagram and email him at satheraudio@gmail.com for all of your sound needs!</p><p>Are you a part of the It's Hard community yet? Join us! Follow along on Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/itshardpodcast/" target="_blank">@itshardpodcast</a> where I share more information on episodes, spark conversations around mental health, and share my daily life! </p><p>If you want to join the weekly email list, fill out this form! <a href="https://forms.gle/yJeXtsjEZjErqjg69" target="_blank">https://forms.gle/yJeXtsjEZjErqjg69</a></p><p> </p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p> I felt pain, guilt, sadness, and anger after learning about the murder of George Floyd. I realized that I am ignorant and uneducated in the face of systemic racism in the United States. I knew I needed to educate myself, help in anyway I could, and have conversations about this issue. This podcast is a vulnerable self-reflection that I hope people can relate to and learn something from. I am not here to teach or preach. I am imperfect and I am learning, but I will not quit showing up. Please, if I misunderstood, mispoke, or need to be corrected on anything, reach out to me. I am learning and am prepared to make mistakes. However, I am willing to learn. This is HARD, but together we can fight for change. </p><p> </p><p>Resources:</p><p>Sign petitions @ https://www.change.org</p><p>Petitions that need to be signed: Justice for George Floyd, Justice for Breonna Taylor, Justice for Willie Simmons, Justice for Ahmaud Arbery, Repeal 50-a: a law that deems police and correctional officer files "confidential", Hands Up Act: punish police for shooting unarmed citizens, Ban Rubber Bullets.</p><p>https://brenebrown.com/podcast/brene-with-ibram-x-kendi-on-how-to-be-an-antiracist/</p><p>FOLLOW:</p><p>@reclaimtheblock</p><p>@ethelsclub</p><p>@colorofchange</p><p>@theconsciouskid</p><p>@privtoprog</p><p>@naacp</p><p>@civilrightsorg</p><p>@showingupforracialjustice</p><p>@blklivesmatter</p><p>@unitedwedream</p><p>@mvmnt4blklives</p><p>Books:</p><p>White Fragility by Robin Diangelo</p><p>A Good Time for the Truth: Racism in Minnesota</p><p>How to Be an Antiracist by Ibram X Kendi</p><p> </p><p> </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2020 02:30:47 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p> I felt pain, guilt, sadness, and anger after learning about the murder of George Floyd. I realized that I am ignorant and uneducated in the face of systemic racism in the United States. I knew I needed to educate myself, help in anyway I could, and have conversations about this issue. This podcast is a vulnerable self-reflection that I hope people can relate to and learn something from. I am not here to teach or preach. I am imperfect and I am learning, but I will not quit showing up. Please, if I misunderstood, mispoke, or need to be corrected on anything, reach out to me. I am learning and am prepared to make mistakes. However, I am willing to learn. This is HARD, but together we can fight for change. </p><p> </p><p>Resources:</p><p>Sign petitions @ https://www.change.org</p><p>Petitions that need to be signed: Justice for George Floyd, Justice for Breonna Taylor, Justice for Willie Simmons, Justice for Ahmaud Arbery, Repeal 50-a: a law that deems police and correctional officer files "confidential", Hands Up Act: punish police for shooting unarmed citizens, Ban Rubber Bullets.</p><p>https://brenebrown.com/podcast/brene-with-ibram-x-kendi-on-how-to-be-an-antiracist/</p><p>FOLLOW:</p><p>@reclaimtheblock</p><p>@ethelsclub</p><p>@colorofchange</p><p>@theconsciouskid</p><p>@privtoprog</p><p>@naacp</p><p>@civilrightsorg</p><p>@showingupforracialjustice</p><p>@blklivesmatter</p><p>@unitedwedream</p><p>@mvmnt4blklives</p><p>Books:</p><p>White Fragility by Robin Diangelo</p><p>A Good Time for the Truth: Racism in Minnesota</p><p>How to Be an Antiracist by Ibram X Kendi</p><p> </p><p> </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 27 Jan 2020 06:00:03 +0000</pubDate>
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