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Besides… you can see her, can’t you?

That vision of the woman you’re on the brink of becoming?

She’s a trailblazer, digs into her intuition, guides people exactly where they want to go, AND gets exceptional sleep every single night!

Her magic is magnetic, and she does it all with ease, flow and BOLDNESS.

She is YOU!

Welcome to You’re Not the Boss of Me! I’m Beth Graves, and I’m your connector and community builder in chief. I built a multi-million-dollar business by putting 100 sticky notes on the wall, and now it’s your turn! 

We’re here for a ton of fun, doing business, and life your way! And my mission is to make you feel empowered, included, and supported in bringing YOUR vision to life!

So, give yourself permission to use the tools and strategies I’m offering you here and get ready to take your life and business to the next level. 
 
Forget about glass ceilings, we’re laying new foundations! You’re here to make money your way while knowing you can trust yourself and feel safe in your body.

It’s time to take radical personal responsibility, be inspired, take action, and stop being afraid. 

Yes, love! It’s all happening right here, right now, so grab your sticky notes and a pen- it’s time to ELEVATE!

Let’s connect: 
IG @heybethgraves 
FB facebook.com/bhgraves 
FB Group: Camp Elevate: thecampelevategroup.com 
Email: beth@bethholdengraves.com
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Besides… you can see her, can’t you?

That vision of the woman you’re on the brink of becoming?

She’s a trailblazer, digs into her intuition, guides people exactly where they want to go, AND gets exceptional sleep every single night!

Her magic is magnetic, and she does it all with ease, flow and BOLDNESS.

She is YOU!

Welcome to You’re Not the Boss of Me! I’m Beth Graves, and I’m your connector and community builder in chief. I built a multi-million-dollar business by putting 100 sticky notes on the wall, and now it’s your turn! 

We’re here for a ton of fun, doing business, and life your way! And my mission is to make you feel empowered, included, and supported in bringing YOUR vision to life!

So, give yourself permission to use the tools and strategies I’m offering you here and get ready to take your life and business to the next level. 
 
Forget about glass ceilings, we’re laying new foundations! You’re here to make money your way while knowing you can trust yourself and feel safe in your body.

It’s time to take radical personal responsibility, be inspired, take action, and stop being afraid. 

Yes, love! It’s all happening right here, right now, so grab your sticky notes and a pen- it’s time to ELEVATE!

Let’s connect: 
IG @heybethgraves 
FB facebook.com/bhgraves 
FB Group: Camp Elevate: thecampelevategroup.com 
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Learn to regulate your nervous system to activate your safety system and switch off the stress! Listen now!
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In this episode, I will share a very personal story of my father’s journey climbing his first mountain. I’ll talk about the time when he was offered a promotion at work and why he turned it down. I will also share a parable that will surely make you think about the mountains we climb in our lives and if our desires are really worth it.

Tune in and learn more!
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In this episode, I will share a very personal story of my father’s journey climbing his first mountain. I’ll talk about the time when he was offered a promotion at work and why he turned it down. I will also share a parable that will surely make you think about the mountains we climb in our lives and if our desires are really worth it.

Tune in and learn more!
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      <description><![CDATA[<p> </p><p>EPISODE NOTES</p><ul><li>All about what new chapters to write</li><li>Quitting New Year’s resolutions</li><li>The 4-Step Framework</li><li>How the 4-Step Framework works</li><li>G.R.O.W.T.H.</li><li>Habit Formation and mental strength</li><li>Say YES to be on my VIP list <a href="http://www.bethgraves.com/vip">www.bethgraves.com/vip</a></li><li>My FIRST EVER cohort of ABUNDANTLY (EVER AFTER) <a href="http://www.bethgraves.com/magic">www.bethgraves.com/magic</a></li></ul><p>Make space for the next version of you! Join the Six Figure Club <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/six-figure-club">NOW</a>!</p><p>LISTEN & SUBSCRIBE</p><p>You need a shift. You’re craving fun, working less and earning more, having the freedom to say YES to whatever you want, and uncovering what success means to you. Besides… you can see her, can’t you? That vision of the woman you’re on the brink of becoming? She’s a trailblazer, digs into her intuition, guides people exactly where they want to go, AND gets exceptional sleep every single night! Her magic is magnetic, and she does it all with ease, flow, and BOLDNESS. She is YOU! Welcome to You’re Not the Boss of Me! </p><p>I’m Beth Graves, and I’m your connector and community builder-in-chief. I built a multi-million-dollar business by putting 100 sticky notes on the wall, and now it’s your turn! We’re here for a ton of fun, doing business, and living your way! And my mission is to make you feel empowered, included, and supported in bringing YOUR vision to life! So, give yourself permission to use the tools and strategies I’m offering you here, and get ready to take your life and business to the next level.</p><p>Forget about glass ceilings, we’re laying new foundations! You’re here to make money your way while knowing you can trust yourself and feel safe in your body. It’s time to take radical personal responsibility, be inspired, take action, and stop being afraid. Yes, love! It’s all happening right here, right now, so grab your sticky notes and a pen- it’s time to ELEVATE! </p><p>Let’s connect:</p><p>IG | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/heybethgraves/">@heybethgraves</a></p><p>FB | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves"> facebook.com/bhgraves </a></p><p>Camp Elevate FB Group |  <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare">thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>Website | <a href="http://www.bethgraves.com">www.bethgraves.com</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 16 Jan 2023 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:title>Quit Your New Year’s Resolution, Use The 4-Step Framework Instead</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>Creating your new year’s resolution is easy, but staying committed to your goals is hard, especially if you don’t know where to start. Of course, we want to create a new chapter of our life in this new year, and we want to step up our game in our career, health, and lifestyle.

In this episode, I will discuss The 4-step Framework that will help you achieve your goals and stop procrastinating. I will also share what G.R.O.W.T.H. is and how it will help you with habit formation and mental strength.

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In this episode, I will discuss The 4-step Framework that will help you achieve your goals and stop procrastinating. I will also share what G.R.O.W.T.H. is and how it will help you with habit formation and mental strength.

Listen now and learn more!</itunes:subtitle>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 9 Jan 2023 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Life has tough times that make us feel bad yet what we all want is to feel better, it’s just that we don’t know how.</p><p>Join me as I share eight science-backed ways to boost positive emotions and make yourself better. This science-based way is what I learned from Mel Robbins, I just added my touch. When we feel better we are kinder, we have more productivity and higher vibration that attract more positivity in life. </p><p>Want to feel better? Here’s eight science-backed ways to feel better. Listen now! </p><p><strong>EPISODE NOTES</strong></p><ul><li>Random act of kindness</li><li>Listen to the sound of birds</li><li>Gratitude Journaling</li><li>Strategies over willpower</li><li>Keeping little to no serious mundane secrets from your significant other</li><li>Be kind to yourself</li><li>Check your body</li><li>Bring back good memories with smell</li><li><strong>Say YES to be on my VIP list </strong><a href="http://www.bethgraves.com/vip"><strong>www.bethgraves.com/vip</strong></a></li><li><strong>My FIRST EVER cohort of ABUNDANTLY (EVER AFTER) </strong><a href="http://www.bethgraves.com/magic"><strong>www.bethgraves.com/magic</strong></a></li></ul><p> </p><p><strong>RESOURCES MENTIONED:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/brand-new-research-8-simple-surprising-changes-that/id1646101002?i=1000591550635">Brand New Research: 8 Simple & Surprising Changes That Improve Your Life</a></li><li><a href="https://www.melrobbins.com/high5habit">The High 5 Habit</a></li></ul><p> </p><p>You need a shift. You’re craving fun, working less and earning more, freedom to say YES to whatever you want, and uncovering what success means to you. Besides… you can see her, can’t you? That vision of the woman you’re on the brink of becoming? She’s a trailblazer, digs into her intuition, guides people exactly where they want to go, AND gets exceptional sleep every single night! Her magic is magnetic, and she does it all with ease, flow and BOLDNESS. She is YOU! Welcome to You’re Not the Boss of Me! </p><p>I’m Beth Graves, and I’m your connector and community builder in chief. I built a multi-million-dollar business by putting 100 sticky notes on the wall, and now it’s your turn! We’re here for a ton of fun, doing business, and life your way! And my mission is to make you feel empowered, included, and supported in bringing YOUR vision to life! So, give yourself permission to use the tools and strategies I’m offering you here and get ready to take your life and business to the next level.</p><p>Forget about glass ceilings, we’re laying new foundations! You’re here to make money your way while knowing you can trust yourself and feel safe in your body. It’s time to take radical personal responsibility, be inspired, take action, and stop being afraid. Yes, love! It’s all happening right here, right now, so grab your sticky notes and a pen- it’s time to ELEVATE! </p><p><strong>Let’s connect:</strong></p><p>IG | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/heybethgraves/">@heybethgraves</a></p><p>FB | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves"> facebook.com/bhgraves </a></p><p>Camp Elevate FB Group |  <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare">thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>Website | <a href="http://www.bethgraves.com">www.bethgraves.com</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>There are days that we feel so energetic, excited, and at peace. Then a sudden wave of chaotic feelings and thoughts hijack our brain. And, the only solution we can think of is to take a break to get us back on track.  </p><p>In this episode, I'm going to share with you a technique I called Quantum Leap Technique. It's about creating a vision and how to make a commitment to the action that is associated with that vision. This technique helped me when I took a break from podcasting. It helped me to get back to my goal, vision, and action. </p><p>Additionally, I also share how to fight your Inner Mean Girl that keeps telling you, “It’s impossible”. </p><p>Listen now and learn this technique that fights back our inner mean girl!</p><p><strong>EPISODE NOTES</strong></p><ul><li>Taking a break from podcasting</li><li>Interrupting the thoughts that’s hijacking your entire vibration</li><li>How do we add  action aligned to our vision</li><li><strong>Say YES to be on my VIP list </strong><a href="http://www.bethgraves.com/vip"><strong>www.bethgraves.com/vip</strong></a></li><li><strong>My FIRST EVER cohort of ABUNDANTLY (EVER AFTER) </strong><a href="http://www.bethgraves.com/magic"><strong>www.bethgraves.com/magic</strong></a></li></ul><p> </p><p>You need a shift. You’re craving fun, working less and earning more, freedom to say YES to whatever you want, and uncovering what success means to you. Besides… you can see her, can’t you? That vision of the woman you’re on the brink of becoming? She’s a trailblazer, digs into her intuition, guides people exactly where they want to go, AND gets exceptional sleep every single night! Her magic is magnetic, and she does it all with ease, flow and BOLDNESS. She is YOU! Welcome to You’re Not the Boss of Me! </p><p>I’m Beth Graves, and I’m your connector and community builder in chief. I built a multi-million-dollar business by putting 100 sticky notes on the wall, and now it’s your turn! We’re here for a ton of fun, doing business, and life your way! And my mission is to make you feel empowered, included, and supported in bringing YOUR vision to life! So, give yourself permission to use the tools and strategies I’m offering you here and get ready to take your life and business to the next level.</p><p>Forget about glass ceilings, we’re laying new foundations! You’re here to make money your way while knowing you can trust yourself and feel safe in your body. It’s time to take radical personal responsibility, be inspired, take action, and stop being afraid. Yes, love! It’s all happening right here, right now, so grab your sticky notes and a pen- it’s time to ELEVATE! </p><p><strong>Let’s connect:</strong></p><p>IG | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/heybethgraves/">@heybethgraves</a></p><p>FB | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves"> facebook.com/bhgraves </a></p><p>Camp Elevate FB Group |  <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare">thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>Website |  <a href="http://www.bethgraves.com">www.bethgraves.com</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 2 Jan 2023 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are days that we feel so energetic, excited, and at peace. Then a sudden wave of chaotic feelings and thoughts hijack our brain. And, the only solution we can think of is to take a break to get us back on track.  </p><p>In this episode, I'm going to share with you a technique I called Quantum Leap Technique. It's about creating a vision and how to make a commitment to the action that is associated with that vision. This technique helped me when I took a break from podcasting. It helped me to get back to my goal, vision, and action. </p><p>Additionally, I also share how to fight your Inner Mean Girl that keeps telling you, “It’s impossible”. </p><p>Listen now and learn this technique that fights back our inner mean girl!</p><p><strong>EPISODE NOTES</strong></p><ul><li>Taking a break from podcasting</li><li>Interrupting the thoughts that’s hijacking your entire vibration</li><li>How do we add  action aligned to our vision</li><li><strong>Say YES to be on my VIP list </strong><a href="http://www.bethgraves.com/vip"><strong>www.bethgraves.com/vip</strong></a></li><li><strong>My FIRST EVER cohort of ABUNDANTLY (EVER AFTER) </strong><a href="http://www.bethgraves.com/magic"><strong>www.bethgraves.com/magic</strong></a></li></ul><p> </p><p>You need a shift. You’re craving fun, working less and earning more, freedom to say YES to whatever you want, and uncovering what success means to you. Besides… you can see her, can’t you? That vision of the woman you’re on the brink of becoming? She’s a trailblazer, digs into her intuition, guides people exactly where they want to go, AND gets exceptional sleep every single night! Her magic is magnetic, and she does it all with ease, flow and BOLDNESS. She is YOU! Welcome to You’re Not the Boss of Me! </p><p>I’m Beth Graves, and I’m your connector and community builder in chief. I built a multi-million-dollar business by putting 100 sticky notes on the wall, and now it’s your turn! We’re here for a ton of fun, doing business, and life your way! And my mission is to make you feel empowered, included, and supported in bringing YOUR vision to life! So, give yourself permission to use the tools and strategies I’m offering you here and get ready to take your life and business to the next level.</p><p>Forget about glass ceilings, we’re laying new foundations! You’re here to make money your way while knowing you can trust yourself and feel safe in your body. It’s time to take radical personal responsibility, be inspired, take action, and stop being afraid. Yes, love! It’s all happening right here, right now, so grab your sticky notes and a pen- it’s time to ELEVATE! </p><p><strong>Let’s connect:</strong></p><p>IG | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/heybethgraves/">@heybethgraves</a></p><p>FB | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves"> facebook.com/bhgraves </a></p><p>Camp Elevate FB Group |  <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare">thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>Website |  <a href="http://www.bethgraves.com">www.bethgraves.com</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Are you fully aware of your current state? Do you believe that awareness can open the door for us to manifest our wildest business dreams to have the best relationships, friendships, the connection?</p><p>Back then, whenever I go for a run, I always feel like I was in this high vibration. And after the run, all of that flow, that freedom, that space that eases that peace, would be gone.</p><p>However, by becoming aware of and noticing the events around me, I was able to return to the higher state.</p><p>It takes creating and committing to the habit of awareness to go back to a state of ease, peace, and love. When we start to notice, we have an opportunity to rewrite the plot twist and the chance for a new story.</p><p>And one best way to allow you to stay in a high state and access awareness is through meditation.</p><p>Take five minutes in the morning for meditation and breathwork. This is how you grow a connection to your body because you start to lean into noticing your thoughts and knowing that thoughts are optional.</p><p>When you're building a relationship with yourself, you are the one that has the answers and can truly tap into your higher power.</p><p>So choose peace. Choose connection. Choose yourself. And when you choose you, it's your energetic fitness. It starts with five minutes of breathing.</p><p>Listen to more on today's episode, as I will be sharing more tips on how to live in a higher vibrational zone through the habit of awareness.</p>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 6 Dec 2022 07:09:44 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you fully aware of your current state? Do you believe that awareness can open the door for us to manifest our wildest business dreams to have the best relationships, friendships, the connection?</p><p>Back then, whenever I go for a run, I always feel like I was in this high vibration. And after the run, all of that flow, that freedom, that space that eases that peace, would be gone.</p><p>However, by becoming aware of and noticing the events around me, I was able to return to the higher state.</p><p>It takes creating and committing to the habit of awareness to go back to a state of ease, peace, and love. When we start to notice, we have an opportunity to rewrite the plot twist and the chance for a new story.</p><p>And one best way to allow you to stay in a high state and access awareness is through meditation.</p><p>Take five minutes in the morning for meditation and breathwork. This is how you grow a connection to your body because you start to lean into noticing your thoughts and knowing that thoughts are optional.</p><p>When you're building a relationship with yourself, you are the one that has the answers and can truly tap into your higher power.</p><p>So choose peace. Choose connection. Choose yourself. And when you choose you, it's your energetic fitness. It starts with five minutes of breathing.</p><p>Listen to more on today's episode, as I will be sharing more tips on how to live in a higher vibrational zone through the habit of awareness.</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>It’s the Monday before Thanksgiving!</p><p>Are you already dreading some of the usual “traditions” and activities you commit to year in and year out?</p><p>What would the holiday season look like if you opted out of all the chaos and only did what felt truly aligned for you?</p><p>Even though it’s such a joyous time of year, it can push you into nervous system dysregulation because of all the adrenaline and excitement. But, I’m here to help you ease the holiday stress of creating a perfect holiday for your family and those you love.</p><p>Welcome to episode 171 of the You’re Not The Boss Of Me podcast! In this episode, I’m encouraging you to take a little pause by giving you 5 strategies that will create more love, joy, and connection for you.</p><p>Holiday stressors are real! And, when they creep up it can be difficult to see your way out of them. </p><p>I want you to think about how you want to FEEL during your holiday time,  not what NEEDS to be done, and how your job is to keep everyone happy.</p><p>When you’re intentional with your time and actions, those around you benefit from it as well.</p><p>And, you deserve to enjoy the holidays too! </p><p>Let’s elevate together!</p><p>Beth</p><p>Feeling inspired? Let’s connect and keep it going! This is where I love to hang out:</p><p>IG <a href="https://www.instagram.com/heybethgraves/">@heybethgraves</a></p><p>FB <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Beth Holden Graves | Facebook</a></p><p>FB Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves/">Camp Elevate | Facebook</a></p><p>Email: <a href="mailto:beth@bethholdengraves.com">beth@bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>Website: <a href="http://www.bethholdengraves.com">www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>Get on my email list!  <a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Join the waitlist for my coaching container, Abundantly Ever After! Click here:</p><p><a href="https://magic.bethholdengraves.com/abundantly-ever-after">https://magic.bethholdengraves.com/abundantly-ever-after</a></p><p> </p><p>This episode was produced by www.JulianaBarbati.com</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>How can a marriage not only survive but THRIVE after a cancer diagnosis, bankruptcy, and addiction?</p><p>What does it take to go through these challenges in marriage and come out the otherside with more connection, more vision, and more joy and intention in your relationship with your kids?</p><p>There are many factors that impact how people parent and the type of vision and commitment to marriage and leadership roles. </p><p>But, what if simply making time for each other around the dinner table was the first step? </p><p>Welcome to episode 170 of the You’re Not the Boss of Me podcast! In this episode, I had the honor of chatting with my dear friends Ryan and Blair Critch about the power of unity in the family! </p><p>They have been through the ups and downs of life and are stronger than ever! They truly embody what it takes to have a successful marriage.</p><p>We talk about their journal, <a href="http://www.seeyouatthetablejournal.com/">See You At The Table</a>, where they’re helping folks secure focused intentional time with family.</p><p> This journal practice emphasizes that quality time with family teaches children about the importance of scripture, gratitude, power of prayer, and setting intentions for the day. </p><p>This tool will forge unbreakable bonds in your family relationships!</p><p>Let’s get back to basics and become engaged and involved in each other's lives again!</p><p>Because we are #bettertogether!</p><p>Let’s elevate together!</p><p>Beth</p><p>Feeling inspired? Let’s connect and keep it going! This is where I love to hang out:</p><p>IG <a href="https://www.instagram.com/heybethgraves/">@heybethgraves</a></p><p>FB <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Beth Holden Graves | Facebook</a></p><p>FB Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves/">Camp Elevate | Facebook</a></p><p>Email: <a href="mailto:beth@bethholdengraves.com">beth@bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>Website: <a href="http://www.bethholdengraves.com">www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>Get on my email list!  <a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Join the waitlist for my coaching container, Abundantly Ever After! Click here:</p><p><a href="https://magic.bethholdengraves.com/abundantly-ever-after">https://magic.bethholdengraves.com/abundantly-ever-after</a></p><p>Can’t wait to connect with Ryan and Blair? Find them here:</p><p>Find the journal at <a href="http://www.seeyouatthetablejournal.com/">http://www.seeyouatthetablejournal.com</a></p><p>Find our free marriage movement community at <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/524617861396191">https://www.facebook.com/groups/524617861396191</a></p><p>Find more info  at <a href="http://www.marriagemovement.com/">http://www.marriagemovement.com</a></p><p>Instagram: @marriagemovement </p><p>Tik Tok @marriagemovement </p><p>Email: ryanblaircritch@gmail.com</p><p> </p><p>This episode was produced by www.JulianaBarbati.com</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Are you feeling stuck in your business?</p><p>Are you caught in a hamster wheel trying to decide which shiny new platform you should join, or how many reels you should make, and you’re not even sure if it’s creating success in your business?</p><p>Getting unstuck in your business doesn’t have to feel like a scavenger hunt through the forest and under the sea! </p><p>All you need is to commit to moving past the stuckness and start taking radical responsibility - and I’m giving you all the deets on how to do that!</p><p>Welcome to episode 169 of the You’re Not The Boss of Me Podcast! In this episode, I’m sharing the 5 reasons why you may feel it feels stuck in your business (and how to fix it)!</p><p>It’s already November, and I want you to stop looking left and right asking questions, and start to OWN your next move!</p><p>Personal development, and exploring new platforms to enhance your business is wonderful, but it's time to start focusing and spending time on the things that grow your business!</p><p>It's not easy to change habits—but the sooner you do, the sooner you can create the life you want!</p><p>Let’s elevate together!</p><p>Beth</p><p>Feeling inspired? Let’s connect and keep it going! This is where I love to hang out:</p><p>IG <a href="https://www.instagram.com/heybethgraves/">@heybethgraves</a></p><p>FB <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Beth Holden Graves | Facebook</a></p><p>FB Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves/">Camp Elevate | Facebook</a></p><p>Email: <a href="mailto:beth@bethholdengraves.com">beth@bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>Website: <a href="http://www.bethholdengraves.com">www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>Get on my email list!  <a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Join the waitlist for my coaching container, Abundantly Ever After! Click here:</p><p><a href="https://magic.bethholdengraves.com/abundantly-ever-after">https://magic.bethholdengraves.com/abundantly-ever-after</a></p><p> </p><p>This episode was produced by www.JulianaBarbati.com</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Do you find yourself thinking “Why do I give up so easily?”</p><p>Or, wondering how to stick to your goals when you really desire to make something happen in your life?</p><p>There are a lot of things in life that people quit on, and usually, it's because they're afraid to keep going. But I want to encourage you today to be the kind of person who doesn’t quit!</p><p>Welcome to episode 168 of the You’re Not the Boss of Me podcast! In this episode, I’m sharing my 6 foolproof strategies on how to achieve your goals and cross the finish line to success!</p><p>Also, I’m reminding you of how amazing you are, and that starting messy NOW is way better than waiting for everything to be perfect later.</p><p>When you begin to understand habit formation, and how to define what’s important to you- you’ll be quit-proof!</p><p>So let's put our focus and attention on not quitting and staying on track!</p><p>You’ve got this!</p><p>Let’s elevate together!</p><p>Beth</p><p>Feeling inspired? Let’s connect and keep it going! This is where I love to hang out:</p><p>IG <a href="https://www.instagram.com/heybethgraves/">@heybethgraves</a></p><p>FB <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Beth Holden Graves | Facebook</a></p><p>FB Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves/">Camp Elevate | Facebook</a></p><p>Email: <a href="mailto:beth@bethholdengraves.com">beth@bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>Website: <a href="http://www.bethholdengraves.com">www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>Get on my email list!  <a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Join the waitlist for my coaching container, Abundantly Ever After! Click here:</p><p><a href="https://magic.bethholdengraves.com/abundantly-ever-after">https://magic.bethholdengraves.com/abundantly-ever-after</a></p><p>Mentioned in this episode:</p><p>Instagram: </p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/fit4jessie/">@fit4jessie</a></p><p> </p><p>This episode was produced by www.JulianaBarbati.com</p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you find yourself thinking “Why do I give up so easily?”</p><p>Or, wondering how to stick to your goals when you really desire to make something happen in your life?</p><p>There are a lot of things in life that people quit on, and usually, it's because they're afraid to keep going. But I want to encourage you today to be the kind of person who doesn’t quit!</p><p>Welcome to episode 168 of the You’re Not the Boss of Me podcast! In this episode, I’m sharing my 6 foolproof strategies on how to achieve your goals and cross the finish line to success!</p><p>Also, I’m reminding you of how amazing you are, and that starting messy NOW is way better than waiting for everything to be perfect later.</p><p>When you begin to understand habit formation, and how to define what’s important to you- you’ll be quit-proof!</p><p>So let's put our focus and attention on not quitting and staying on track!</p><p>You’ve got this!</p><p>Let’s elevate together!</p><p>Beth</p><p>Feeling inspired? Let’s connect and keep it going! This is where I love to hang out:</p><p>IG <a href="https://www.instagram.com/heybethgraves/">@heybethgraves</a></p><p>FB <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Beth Holden Graves | Facebook</a></p><p>FB Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves/">Camp Elevate | Facebook</a></p><p>Email: <a href="mailto:beth@bethholdengraves.com">beth@bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>Website: <a href="http://www.bethholdengraves.com">www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>Get on my email list!  <a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Join the waitlist for my coaching container, Abundantly Ever After! Click here:</p><p><a href="https://magic.bethholdengraves.com/abundantly-ever-after">https://magic.bethholdengraves.com/abundantly-ever-after</a></p><p>Mentioned in this episode:</p><p>Instagram: </p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/fit4jessie/">@fit4jessie</a></p><p> </p><p>This episode was produced by www.JulianaBarbati.com</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Are you constantly thinking to yourself  "Can I really make this happen? Can I really do this?" </p><p>Do you believe that the success you’ve had in the past is purely conditional?</p><p>When you’re looking to overcome self-doubt, you need to dive into your radical self-belief and trust in what you’re building and its resolute success. </p><p>Welcome to episode 167 of the You’re Not the Boss of Me podcast! In this episode, I’m talking about the power of your thoughts and your subconscious mind in building success. </p><p>Also, I’m sharing the 3 step subconscious reprogramming process I use when the results I’m getting aren't aligned with my vision of success.</p><p>You will undoubtedly find yourself on many journeys where your belief system is tested. Having tools at the ready to push past it is key!</p><p>Do just one thing that will move you forward, and soon you will make your desires a reality!</p><p>Let’s elevate together!</p><p>Beth</p><p>Feeling inspired? Let’s connect and keep it going! This is where I love to hang out:</p><p>IG <a href="https://www.instagram.com/heybethgraves/">@heybethgraves</a></p><p>FB <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Beth Holden Graves | Facebook</a></p><p>FB Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves/">Camp Elevate | Facebook</a></p><p>Email: <a href="mailto:beth@bethholdengraves.com">beth@bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>Website: <a href="http://www.bethholdengraves.com">www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>Get on my email list!  <a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>I'm going to be doing a training on the subconscious resetting over in Camp Elevate this week! You can either catch it live, or you can catch it on the replay. Click here to join:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves/">Camp Elevate | Facebook</a></p><p>Join the waitlist for my coaching container, Abundantly Ever After! Click here:</p><p><a href="https://magic.bethholdengraves.com/abundantly-ever-after">https://magic.bethholdengraves.com/abundantly-ever-after</a></p><p> </p><p> </p><p> </p><p>Reach out to Cristina if you need help with your money! </p><p> </p><p>Email: cristina@cmtax.net</p><p> </p><p>Be sure to tell her that Beth sent you :)</p><p> </p><p>This episode was produced by www.JulianaBarbati.com</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>I AM.</p><p>Two of the most powerful words.</p><p>For what you put after them, shapes your reality.</p><p>I AM statements are used to created positive affirmations that many can say have helped to give them peace, confidence, and motivation!</p><p>So, what if you’re doing all the right things and saying all the right affirmations, yet you’re not seeming to attract the things you truly desire.</p><p>No, it doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong or that you have the wrong mindset. It doesn’t mean that you need to try harder or say your affirmations more often. In fact, there’s truly nothing wrong with YOU.</p><p>The problem is subconscious. Affirmations target the conscious level of your mind, but not the subconscious. If what you are trying to affirm is out of alignment with a deeply held negative belief, it brings about a sort of inner struggle. </p><p>And here’s why that is such a big deal:</p><p>We don’t attract what we WANT.</p><p>We attract what we THINK we DESERVE!</p><p>So, that deeply held negative belief buried and trapped in your subconscious could be the reason your affirmations do not seem to be working and why your inner peace feels “off.”</p><p>In this podcast, I will </p><ul><li>explain how we can get our subconscious to work with our affirmations</li><li>explain how to raise the level of what you truly believe you deserve</li><li>walk you through an exercise that will, in essence, work to help reprogram the subconscious part of the brain</li></ul><p>I can’t wait to share this exercise with you. It has taught me so much and has  allowed me to consistently work within my guiding light feelings. </p><p>Let’s get started!</p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I AM.</p><p>Two of the most powerful words.</p><p>For what you put after them, shapes your reality.</p><p>I AM statements are used to created positive affirmations that many can say have helped to give them peace, confidence, and motivation!</p><p>So, what if you’re doing all the right things and saying all the right affirmations, yet you’re not seeming to attract the things you truly desire.</p><p>No, it doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong or that you have the wrong mindset. It doesn’t mean that you need to try harder or say your affirmations more often. In fact, there’s truly nothing wrong with YOU.</p><p>The problem is subconscious. Affirmations target the conscious level of your mind, but not the subconscious. If what you are trying to affirm is out of alignment with a deeply held negative belief, it brings about a sort of inner struggle. </p><p>And here’s why that is such a big deal:</p><p>We don’t attract what we WANT.</p><p>We attract what we THINK we DESERVE!</p><p>So, that deeply held negative belief buried and trapped in your subconscious could be the reason your affirmations do not seem to be working and why your inner peace feels “off.”</p><p>In this podcast, I will </p><ul><li>explain how we can get our subconscious to work with our affirmations</li><li>explain how to raise the level of what you truly believe you deserve</li><li>walk you through an exercise that will, in essence, work to help reprogram the subconscious part of the brain</li></ul><p>I can’t wait to share this exercise with you. It has taught me so much and has  allowed me to consistently work within my guiding light feelings. </p><p>Let’s get started!</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Happy 4th of July to all of you!</p><p>For many of us, today is set aside for summertime fun with family and friends to honor and celebrate FREEDOM.</p><p>In that same spirit, today’s podcast will honor and celebrate FREEDOM. No, we’re not discussing 1776 or singing the lyrics from Hamilton (but that does sound fun!)</p><p>Today, I have PranaMama, Faryl Moore, on the podcast with me, and we will be discussing how she uses Pranic Healing techniques to remove blocks, traumas, negative energies, and thought forms that hold women back from achieving their purpose and intentions in the world. She specializes in elevating women using her intentional reframe, allowing her to successfully remove the blocks so her clients realize their potential.</p><p>Imagine that for a moment. </p><p>FREEDOM from whatever it is that continues to hold you back.</p><p>I think you will love Faryl's energy! <strong>In this podcast, you will feel her energy as she explains:</strong></p><ul><li><strong>Pranic Healing</strong></li><li><strong>The Chakra System</strong></li><li><strong>Energetic Blocks & Congestion</strong></li></ul><p>If you read any of this and think that it’s just too woo-woo for you, then it might be just what you need. If you’ve been trying to move forward in your business (or in life) but nothing you implement seems to work, please change the narrative and just listen with an open mind. </p><p>This podcast could be the first step in gaining your FREEDOM from the mind, body, and spiritual blocks that keep you stuck!</p><p>I can’t wait for you to meet Faryl!</p><p>Connect with Faryl here: </p><p>faryl@mooreenergyhealing.com</p><p>IG: @mooreenergyhealing</p><p>FB: @pranaMamaFarylMoore </p><p>mooreenergyhealing.com </p><p>Connect with Beth</p><p>IG: @heybethgraves </p><p>Get on the VIP List: bethholdengraves.com/VIP </p><p>Hang out at virtual camp: thecampelevategroup.com </p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>I almost didn’t record this podcast.</p><p>The “shitty committee” inside my head met and tried to convince me that my message wasn’t important and that it had all been said before.</p><p>Do you struggle with your own version of a shitty committee that discourages you, makes you feel self conscious, or causes you to doubt yourself?</p><p>If you do, then I want you to know that I recorded this podcast just for you.</p><p>I silenced the committee and changed my thinking. I reminded myself that even if I only reached one person who needed  this message, then my message IS IMPORTANT!</p><p>And I want to help you to learn to do the same. I want you to be able to tell the shitty committee to sit down and shut up! I want you to take your power back.</p><p>When we say judgemental and critical things to ourselves it lowers our vibration and makes us feel unworthy or as though we’re not enough.</p><p>It takes radical personal responsibility to NOTICE the negative thoughts creeping in, to INTERRUPT them, and then to CHANGE them altogether.</p><p>Over the next few podcasts, I’ll be sharing how to apply simple principles that will allow you to build upon your personal growth and expansion.</p><p><strong>In today’s podcast, I’ll share some specific strategies that will help you to:</strong></p><ul><li>take control of your thoughts, </li><li>be kinder to yourself, </li><li>and do the work you know you are here to do. </li></ul><p>I want you to remember that you are here to do powerful work in this world too, and I feel so incredibly grateful to be a part of your community.</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Today, I want you to think back to your time in middle school . . .</p><p>The hormones. The need to conform. The changes. The acne.</p><p>Those were some hard times for so many of us as our bodies completely took over and we had to learn to navigate the changes, the relationship, and, most importantly - ourselves.</p><p>In that same stream of thought, can you remember a time when you found out that someone said something negative about you? This person wasn’t someone you considered a friend, just someone you knew. How would that make you feel?</p><p>Upset? Angry? Defensive?</p><p>Because they are “rejecting” us without even knowing or understanding us.</p><p>Now imagine that that person was your very best friend. How would that change the narrative? All of those other emotions and reactions turn to . . .</p><p>Hurt.</p><p>You might still feel upset, angry, or defensive, but it comes from a place of hurt when we are “rejected” by people who are important to us, and whose opinions validate us in some way. </p><p>Now, we aren’t in middle school anymore, but sometimes we can still carry those feelings with us. And as we become adults, those feelings create fear within us. That fear sounds like:</p><p>What will people think?</p><p>And it is that fear and this exact question that holds people back in their social selling business!</p><p>But what if it didn’t have to be this way? What if there is a way to overcome this fear and to reach out to people with confidence? </p><p>There is! And that is exactly what today’s podcast is about. In today's podcast, you will learn:</p><p>1. A simple mindset hack to get you out of fear</p><p>2. How to apply this new way of thinking and move your business forward</p><p>3. How this approach can help you in your daily life</p><p>I hope you enjoy it!</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><br />Make this the summer of YOU . . .</p><p>Now, when I say this, I’m not talking about a summer of doing whatever you want at the expense of others, your business, or your health. Sometimes, “the summer of YOU” gets promoted as a selfish time of self indulgence with complete disregard of consequences.</p><p>And, while that might be fun in the moment, I can assure you, there are always consequences.</p><p>What I’m talking about when I say “the summer of YOU” is a time of <strong>making room for joy, peace, ease, and laughter. </strong>It’s about being intentional with your time to make the room and create the space for memories to be made – while still having the time to work your social selling business.</p><p>Can you really have it all? And what does “having it all” even really mean?</p><p>We’ll dive deeper into this in today’s podcast! And I’ll also provide some insight on taking your network marketing business mindset from grinding & sacrifice to growth & abundance.</p><p>Finding ease and flow in life and in a home-based business takes practice. So, please understand that it’s not something you can overhaul in one day or in one podcast. It’s also not something that can be forced. I don’t want you to get discouraged; I want you to be prepared.</p><p><strong>Here are three steps that will help you to get started</strong> and that will bring you back full circle when you find yourself anxious or stressed. I’ll explain each of these in more detail and give you examples in the podcast.</p><ol><li>Breathwork and clear the clutter, both in your physical and mental space</li><li>Create a vision or revisit that vision as a reminder of what you working toward</li><li>Braindump the disempowering statements that are causing doubt or pain, and replace them with new, positive thoughts as you reflect on your vision.</li></ol><p>Okay. I’m excited for you to listen today, so let’s get started!</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>What does it mean to truly build a brand? </p><p>I’ll be honest, when I first started my network marketing business, I thought that building a brand was about colors and fonts. I focused my time and energy on having a certain superficial look because that’s what I thought I was supposed to do at the time.</p><p>I didn’t realize that I WAS THE BRAND.</p><p>I didn’t realize that the products and company that I partnered with should compliment MY MESSAGE . . . not the other way around.</p><p>And that dragged me into a place of inauthenticity and way out of alignment.</p><p>If you’re feeling a little lost when it comes to building a brand that vibes with who you are and that delivers your message, then you are going to love today’s podcast interview with Jordan Duvall!!</p><p>She’s the CEO of Ignite Your Soul Brand & the go-to Brand Alchemist for female business owners ready to build an in-demand brand infused with meaning and magnetism.</p><p>She left a 20-year media and advertising career to pursue her passion of creating magnetic brands infused with personality for coaches, consultants and service-based business.</p><p>And get this!! Before she said goodbye to big-time agency life, Jordan had the honor of:</p><p>▶ Creating campaigns for movies & TV shows such as <i>The Lord of</i></p><p><i>the Rings</i> Trilogy, <i>Star Trek</i>, <i>Game of Thrones</i>… and many more.</p><p>▶ Working with private clients Eddie Murphy, Ben Stiller, Cards Against Humanity and Manifestation Babe.</p><p>▶ Art Directing photo shoots for celebrities such as Gwen Stefani, Christina Aguilera and Jennifer Lopez</p><p>She is truly a master at:</p><ul><li>Knowing how to make a powerful first impression with your brand that establishes your expertise.</li><li>Skyrocketing your sales with a magnetic visual strategy that stands out from the crowd.</li><li>How to create an authentic connection that inspires confidence in your soulmate clients to invest in working with you.</li></ul><p>My hope is that this interview will challenge & inspire you to dig deeper into how you want to show up in your business. Maintaining an image is draining, exhausting, and doesn’t allow for true connection - with your audience or with yourself. </p><p>But, waking up each day with a business that IGNITES YOUR SOUL, that creates inspired action, authenticity, and connection — it’s the opposite of draining. It’s empowering!</p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What does it mean to truly build a brand? </p><p>I’ll be honest, when I first started my network marketing business, I thought that building a brand was about colors and fonts. I focused my time and energy on having a certain superficial look because that’s what I thought I was supposed to do at the time.</p><p>I didn’t realize that I WAS THE BRAND.</p><p>I didn’t realize that the products and company that I partnered with should compliment MY MESSAGE . . . not the other way around.</p><p>And that dragged me into a place of inauthenticity and way out of alignment.</p><p>If you’re feeling a little lost when it comes to building a brand that vibes with who you are and that delivers your message, then you are going to love today’s podcast interview with Jordan Duvall!!</p><p>She’s the CEO of Ignite Your Soul Brand & the go-to Brand Alchemist for female business owners ready to build an in-demand brand infused with meaning and magnetism.</p><p>She left a 20-year media and advertising career to pursue her passion of creating magnetic brands infused with personality for coaches, consultants and service-based business.</p><p>And get this!! Before she said goodbye to big-time agency life, Jordan had the honor of:</p><p>▶ Creating campaigns for movies & TV shows such as <i>The Lord of</i></p><p><i>the Rings</i> Trilogy, <i>Star Trek</i>, <i>Game of Thrones</i>… and many more.</p><p>▶ Working with private clients Eddie Murphy, Ben Stiller, Cards Against Humanity and Manifestation Babe.</p><p>▶ Art Directing photo shoots for celebrities such as Gwen Stefani, Christina Aguilera and Jennifer Lopez</p><p>She is truly a master at:</p><ul><li>Knowing how to make a powerful first impression with your brand that establishes your expertise.</li><li>Skyrocketing your sales with a magnetic visual strategy that stands out from the crowd.</li><li>How to create an authentic connection that inspires confidence in your soulmate clients to invest in working with you.</li></ul><p>My hope is that this interview will challenge & inspire you to dig deeper into how you want to show up in your business. Maintaining an image is draining, exhausting, and doesn’t allow for true connection - with your audience or with yourself. </p><p>But, waking up each day with a business that IGNITES YOUR SOUL, that creates inspired action, authenticity, and connection — it’s the opposite of draining. It’s empowering!</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>The power of language is something that I've discussed with you on this podcast for a while now. But usually, we talk about affirmations, believing in yourself, and manifestation. All of those things are still so important, but today, I want to take the idea of the power of language in a bit of a new direction.</p><p>Is there power in the words we choose when we talk to ourselves, as we handle the ups and downs of social selling? If so, how do we use this to our advantage as work to help others?</p><p>In today's episode I will </p><ul><li>give you examples of how positive and negative self talk directly affect the outcome of business-related situations</li><li>explain how positive and negative self talk affects the energy that surrounds those outcomes</li><li>provide tips on how you can get clarity on the message(s) your social media content sends out into the world</li></ul><p>Get on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)</p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">Bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Want to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? </p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/Facebook">Bethholdengraves.com/Facebook</a></p><p>Join our amazing community (Resources, connection and FREE training)<a href="http://www.thecampelevategroup.com"> www.thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p> </p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>On today’s episode of You’re Not the Boss of Me, we will dive into the topic of financial literacy. If you’ve ever struggled with your relationship with money or your finances, I truly think this interview with financial coach, Diana Greshtchuk, will speak to you.</p><p>For me, this was a safe space for me to get vulnerable and real about my own issues and beliefs about money - and I hope that, as you listen, you will feel led to do the same.In this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How the stories you tell yourself about money affect your financial literacy</li><li>How to turn financial anxiety into financial abundance</li><li>How getting financially "naked" can transform your entire relationship with money</li></ul><p>Get on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)</p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">Bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Want to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? </p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/Facebook">Bethholdengraves.com/Facebook</a></p><p>Join our amazing community (Resources, connection and FREE training)<a href="http://www.thecampelevategroup.com"> www.thecampelevategroup.com</a></p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>On today’s episode of You’re Not the Boss of Me, we will dive into the topic of financial literacy. If you’ve ever struggled with your relationship with money or your finances, I truly think this interview with financial coach, Diana Greshtchuk, will speak to you.</p><p>For me, this was a safe space for me to get vulnerable and real about my own issues and beliefs about money - and I hope that, as you listen, you will feel led to do the same.In this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How the stories you tell yourself about money affect your financial literacy</li><li>How to turn financial anxiety into financial abundance</li><li>How getting financially "naked" can transform your entire relationship with money</li></ul><p>Get on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)</p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">Bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Want to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? </p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/Facebook">Bethholdengraves.com/Facebook</a></p><p>Join our amazing community (Resources, connection and FREE training)<a href="http://www.thecampelevategroup.com"> www.thecampelevategroup.com</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Hi friends!</p><p>Welcome back, and thank you for checking out Episode 143!</p><p>On today’s episode of You’re Not the Boss of Me, we are going to discuss closing scripts and how to not feel so shut off and pushy-pushy!  Oftentimes, we feel uncomfortable closing our sale because we've been taught or grew up thinking that asking for the sale was "bad".   Today, I'm here to uncover the truth about hesitancy and what to do INSTEAD of copy/pasting a traditional sales script!  We're gunna go at this with a whole new attitude!</p><p>I want you to take in today's episode to transform your belief in the product or service you sell and know how to truly reach out to your audience with your beautiful light and energy.  They will be attracted to your light, my friend!</p><p>In this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>How to believe in what you're selling so that it shows in your energy!</li><li>How not to take a "No" too personally.  Remember, their opinion has nothing to do with you!</li><li>How to take the word "just" out of our vocabulary.  "Just checking in..." "just grab a call" "wondering if you have just a few minutes"...let's talk about what to say instead and how it can work to make you SHINE in the final sale!</li></ul><p>Get on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)</p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">Bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Want to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? </p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/Facebook">Bethholdengraves.com/Facebook</a></p><p>Join our amazing community (Resources, connection and FREE training)<a href="http://www.thecampelevategroup.com"> www.thecampelevategroup.com</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 18 Apr 2022 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Hi friends!</p><p>Welcome back, and thank you for checking out Episode 142!</p><p>Today, you my friend, are in for a HUGE treat.  Have you ever really thought about what you REALLY desire?  I mean, have you thought about your perfect vision of success and what that means for you?  How good can it really get?   </p><p>Tracy Litt, the creator of mindshift and elevated programs like Mind Magic and Powerhouse, is here to dive in to the ways that our own minds define success.  Her take is both inspiring and intriguing and one like I've never heard before.  Think about this for a minute.  You get to choose how you feel. What?  Your mind and emotions and control of your reaction has everything to do with the way that you choose to perceive the situation.  Does that also include how we view success?  Check out todays episode to elevate your mind and emotions to the next level!</p><p>In this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Success and its true meaning.</li><li>Leadership and how to make it a safe place for connection.</li><li>Manifestation requires Action - Its not just dream it and see it anymore!</li></ul><p>Check out Tracy Litt at <a href="www.thelittfactor.com" target="_blank">www.thelittfactor.com</a></p><p>Sign up for the Elevate Experience here:   <a href="www.elevatewithtracy.com" target="_blank">elevatewithtracy.com</a></p><p>Get on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)</p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">Bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Want to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? </p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/Facebook">Bethholdengraves.com/Facebook</a></p><p>Join our amazing community (Resources, connection and FREE training)<a href="http://www.thecampelevategroup.com"> www.thecampelevategroup.com</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Apr 2022 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi friends!</p><p>Welcome back, and thank you for checking out Episode 142!</p><p>Today, you my friend, are in for a HUGE treat.  Have you ever really thought about what you REALLY desire?  I mean, have you thought about your perfect vision of success and what that means for you?  How good can it really get?   </p><p>Tracy Litt, the creator of mindshift and elevated programs like Mind Magic and Powerhouse, is here to dive in to the ways that our own minds define success.  Her take is both inspiring and intriguing and one like I've never heard before.  Think about this for a minute.  You get to choose how you feel. What?  Your mind and emotions and control of your reaction has everything to do with the way that you choose to perceive the situation.  Does that also include how we view success?  Check out todays episode to elevate your mind and emotions to the next level!</p><p>In this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Success and its true meaning.</li><li>Leadership and how to make it a safe place for connection.</li><li>Manifestation requires Action - Its not just dream it and see it anymore!</li></ul><p>Check out Tracy Litt at <a href="www.thelittfactor.com" target="_blank">www.thelittfactor.com</a></p><p>Sign up for the Elevate Experience here:   <a href="www.elevatewithtracy.com" target="_blank">elevatewithtracy.com</a></p><p>Get on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)</p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">Bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Want to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? </p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/Facebook">Bethholdengraves.com/Facebook</a></p><p>Join our amazing community (Resources, connection and FREE training)<a href="http://www.thecampelevategroup.com"> www.thecampelevategroup.com</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Hi friends!</p><p>Welcome back, and thank you for checking out Episode 141!</p><p>On today’s episode of You’re Not the Boss of Me, we are going to focus on expansion and receiving.  As business owners, its so easy to dwell on the tasks of our businesses, it causes stress and overwhelm and a state of being negative.  Why did they leave my team?  How am I going to get all of this done?  How do I attract new leads?  How do we become a high achiever and think bigger?  </p><p>Today, I really dig into being open to receiving.  I dig into being in a state of gratitude for what we are becoming and who we have become so far.  Nothing beautiful comes from a stressful state, so today, I walk you through some steps to be in a mindset of constant gratitude and grace.  We will talk about personal responsibility and talk about how we can have the business and life that we want, if we use gratitude, energy and control to guide our moves in business and in life.   I'll challenge you to see into the future and question if the situation you are in right now, benefits the woman (or man) that you see in the future.  This is a fun episode!  I can't wait for you expand your thoughts with me!</p><p>In this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Being the director of our own "movie".</li><li>Practicing gratitude and only receiving energy that produces action.</li><li>Believing that you are built for more and that negativity has no room in your mindset of receiving and expansion.</li></ul><p> </p><p>Get on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)</p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">Bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Want to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? </p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/Facebook">Bethholdengraves.com/Facebook</a></p><p>Join our amazing community (Resources, connection and FREE training)<a href="http://www.thecampelevategroup.com"> www.thecampelevategroup.com</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Hi friends!</p><p>Welcome back, and thank you for checking out Episode 140!</p><p>On today’s episode of You’re Not the Boss of Me, we are going to focus on expansion.  As business owners, its so easy to dwell on the "how" of our businesses.  How do we get a new business partner started?  How do we reach out to new leads?  How do we become a high achiever and think bigger?  How do we manage our business time, our family time and our self care?</p><p>Today, I really dig into thinking bigger.  Expanding our minds and the choices that we have to let go of old ideas and thoughts that hold us back.  We will talk about personal responsibility and talk about how we can have the business and life that we want, if we use confidence and positive energy to move us forward.  I'll challenge you to see into the future and make promises to yourself!  I can't wait for you expand your thoughts with me!</p><p>In this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Thinking positively, taking personal responsibility and expanding the ideas you have for business and life!</li><li>What keeps us stuck in a "how" mindset.</li><li>Growth and elevating yourself and the people around you to new levels.</li></ul><p> </p><p>Get on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)</p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">Bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Want to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? </p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/Facebook">Bethholdengraves.com/Facebook</a></p><p>Join our amazing community (Resources, connection and FREE training)<a href="http://www.thecampelevategroup.com"> www.thecampelevategroup.com</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 28 Mar 2022 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi friends!</p><p>Welcome back, and thank you for checking out Episode 140!</p><p>On today’s episode of You’re Not the Boss of Me, we are going to focus on expansion.  As business owners, its so easy to dwell on the "how" of our businesses.  How do we get a new business partner started?  How do we reach out to new leads?  How do we become a high achiever and think bigger?  How do we manage our business time, our family time and our self care?</p><p>Today, I really dig into thinking bigger.  Expanding our minds and the choices that we have to let go of old ideas and thoughts that hold us back.  We will talk about personal responsibility and talk about how we can have the business and life that we want, if we use confidence and positive energy to move us forward.  I'll challenge you to see into the future and make promises to yourself!  I can't wait for you expand your thoughts with me!</p><p>In this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>Thinking positively, taking personal responsibility and expanding the ideas you have for business and life!</li><li>What keeps us stuck in a "how" mindset.</li><li>Growth and elevating yourself and the people around you to new levels.</li></ul><p> </p><p>Get on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)</p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">Bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Want to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? </p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/Facebook">Bethholdengraves.com/Facebook</a></p><p>Join our amazing community (Resources, connection and FREE training)<a href="http://www.thecampelevategroup.com"> www.thecampelevategroup.com</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Hi Friend!</p><p>Hello and welcome to episode 139 of You’re Not the Boss of Me.  In this episode we are talking about availability. The thing about making yourself available 24/7 to your team, is that it doesn’t actually help anyone.  Boundaries are important in any business, and especially in the social selling world.  You need to protect your time and set the example for those below you as well.</p><p>Because what happens when you are available all of the time?  You burn out.  It’s unavoidable.  So how do you prevent it and what do you do if you are already in that situation? That’s what we are going to go over today.  And you will have answers.  And I can’t wait to help.</p><p>Things you will learn in this episode:</p><ul><li>How I struggled with boundaries myself</li><li>How I overcame my 24/7 mentality</li><li>How you can learn from my mistakes</li></ul><p>Get on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)</p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">Bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Want to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? </p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/Facebook">Bethholdengraves.com/Facebook</a></p><p>Join our amazing community (Resources, connection and FREE training)<a href="http://www.thecampelevategroup.com"> www.thecampelevategroup.com</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Mar 2022 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Friend!</p><p>Hello and welcome to episode 139 of You’re Not the Boss of Me.  In this episode we are talking about availability. The thing about making yourself available 24/7 to your team, is that it doesn’t actually help anyone.  Boundaries are important in any business, and especially in the social selling world.  You need to protect your time and set the example for those below you as well.</p><p>Because what happens when you are available all of the time?  You burn out.  It’s unavoidable.  So how do you prevent it and what do you do if you are already in that situation? That’s what we are going to go over today.  And you will have answers.  And I can’t wait to help.</p><p>Things you will learn in this episode:</p><ul><li>How I struggled with boundaries myself</li><li>How I overcame my 24/7 mentality</li><li>How you can learn from my mistakes</li></ul><p>Get on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)</p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">Bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Want to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? </p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/Facebook">Bethholdengraves.com/Facebook</a></p><p>Join our amazing community (Resources, connection and FREE training)<a href="http://www.thecampelevategroup.com"> www.thecampelevategroup.com</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Hi friends!</p><p> </p><p>On today’s episode of You’re Not the Boss of Me, we begin our journey people watching at the airport.  You can learn so much from observation.  Each observation leads to an emotion in a different part of you.  The key is - you are feeling it, and that’s okay.</p><p> </p><p>When you are digging deep for clarity within yourself, for you or your business, emotions are an important part of that clarity.  You need to feel to see yourself as you should be and what you should be doing.  So don’t discount the importance of taking a few minutes to truly feel your emotions.  </p><p> </p><p>In this episode we discuss:</p><ul><li>The importance of breathing</li><li>Finding that space within yourself to figure out what to do next</li><li>The importance of genuine, real connection</li></ul><p>Get on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)</p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">Bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Want to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? </p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/Facebook">Bethholdengraves.com/Facebook</a></p><p>Join our amazing community (Resources, connection and FREE training)<a href="http://www.thecampelevategroup.com"> www.thecampelevategroup.com</a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Hey Friends!</p><p>On today’s podcast we will be talking about how social media can make a difference in our everyday business.  It is easy to get lost in trends and post whatever content is trendy in the social selling world.  However - that’s usually one of the biggest mistakes people make.</p><p>Social media can be a tough area to figure out - but the reality is that it is really quite simple.  </p><p>You have to ask yourself - what are people getting out of following me?  What value am I providing?  These are hard questions, but very important ones. </p><p>On today’s episode you will learn:</p><ul><li>Why your content really matters</li><li>How you can still niche down and be a social seller</li><li>You don’t have to broadcast things immediately - wait until they can make an impact</li></ul><p>Get on my VIP email list (Weekly updates AND VIP FREE resources only for this list)</p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/VIP">Bethholdengraves.com/VIP</a></p><p>Want to generate leads daily (without being annoying) from Facebook groups? </p><p><a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/Facebook">Bethholdengraves.com/Facebook</a></p><p>Join our amazing community (Resources, connection and FREE training)<a href="http://www.thecampelevategroup.com"> www.thecampelevategroup.com</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 28 Feb 2022 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode we will be talking about your super power and the importance of protecting your audience.  If you read the email last week, you know what happened to me recently.  I have learned a lot and come to terms with what it means.  </p><p>But I want you to learn from my mistakes!  That is why we are talking about everything you can do to prevent the loss of your connections on social media and the absolute importance of an email list.  I can't wait to share this with you!</p><p> </p><p>In this episode you will learn</p><p>What I learned from my experience</p><p>The importance of making a solid email list</p><p>What to do if something like this ever happens to you</p><p> </p><p>I hope you enjoy this episode and be sure to tune in next week as well.  It’s time for your vision to take a starring role in your life and business and I can’t wait to take you on this journey.</p><p> </p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode we will be talking about your super power and the importance of protecting your audience.  If you read the email last week, you know what happened to me recently.  I have learned a lot and come to terms with what it means.  </p><p>But I want you to learn from my mistakes!  That is why we are talking about everything you can do to prevent the loss of your connections on social media and the absolute importance of an email list.  I can't wait to share this with you!</p><p> </p><p>In this episode you will learn</p><p>What I learned from my experience</p><p>The importance of making a solid email list</p><p>What to do if something like this ever happens to you</p><p> </p><p>I hope you enjoy this episode and be sure to tune in next week as well.  It’s time for your vision to take a starring role in your life and business and I can’t wait to take you on this journey.</p><p> </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Jan 2022 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode we will be talking about resolutions and how they relate to the vision you have of yourself.  The thing is - resolutions and the vision you have of yourself are not supposed to be revolutions.  You have to give yourself not only the space, but the grace to grow into your vision.</p><p> </p><p>Your vision is your future.  But you aren’t going to get there overnight.  It is something to work for - not jump off a cliff for.  When you push yourself to do things you can’t possibly maintain, you are more than likely going to fail.  And then you get frustrated.  So listen up - because you are going to learn how to avoid that!</p><p> </p><p>In this episode you will learn:</p><p>How to create routines that are vision-aligned</p><p>Why connection means everything</p><p>How our own fears can hold us hostage.</p><p> </p><p>I hope you enjoy this episode and be sure to tune in next week as well.  It’s time for your vision to take a starring role in your life and business and I can’t wait to take you on this journey.</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 3 Jan 2022 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today we are talking about your vision.  The big one.  The perfect one.  The one that makes you curl your toes up in happiness.  One that will hopefully motivate you today to go after your dreams - and go ALL IN.</p><p> </p><p>Being able to visualize what you want and your perfect day in your business is so important to your future.  Because if you can’t see it- how will you get there?  So today we are going to go over how to make that happen and get excited about your future.</p><p> </p><p>There are also a few announcements that you don’t want to miss!</p><p> </p><p><strong>Here’s what you will learn today:</strong></p><ul><li>Why you need to be able to visualize your future</li><li>How to shut down dis-empowering thoughts</li><li>Why gratitude is a gift</li><li>A big book announcement!</li></ul><p> </p><p>I hope today’s podcast will inspire you to dream big and start making plans to go after those dreams at a run.  How to figure out what is in your way and what you need to do to bypass the bad energy and say “2022 - here I come!”</p><h2>Learn More About The Content Discussed…</h2><p><a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/book">Get the book here! </a></p><p>Join the Camp Elevate private group: <a href="http://thecampelevategroup.com/">http://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>Subscribe to the podcast on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1475175551">Apple</a>, <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/2Eqbc03q8lxzIhxIdDAeCD?si=np-dlZPvQ3KmgRbpszpQ6w">Spotify</a>, <a href="https://www.google.com/podcasts?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5zaW1wbGVjYXN0LmNvbS9yRE1zajk1WQ%3D%3D">Google</a>, or your favorite app!</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>"Whenever a promo comes out, that's the trigger. Why am I triggered by promos?" If you have similar thoughts about triggers or trauma like I do, then this episode is for you. </p><p> </p><p>In this episode of You're Not The Boss Of Me, I'm interviewing Amanda Bolzau. Amanda is a Trauma-Informed Certified Professional Subconscious Mindset Coach, Mentor and Advocate working with women on the rise who want to Self-actualize, Grow, or just live a more Empowered life. She specializes in recovery from Intimate Partner Abuse, with an emphasis on Narcissistic, Sociopathic and Psychopathic relationships. Her methods focus on recovery of your soul through recovery of your mind, first. Amanda's expertise in trauma education and processing, neuroplasticity, metacognition, and various somatic and subconscious modalities helps you break apart your old conditioning so you can live a truly free life. Her work empowers you to peel away the layers of inauthentic versions of yourself in order to reclaim who you were always meant to be. She partners with you on your deeply personal journey to freedom, wherein you gain access to the most valuable lesson you'll ever learn... YOU have all the power... all of it... and you always have.</p><p><strong>What we cover in this episode: </strong></p><ul><li>We all have trauma, it's not a scarlet letter, it's part of our story. </li><li>How your past trauma from childhood can show up later in life and why it's important to work through your trauma to change your way of thinking. </li><li>Toxic goal setting, what is this? </li><li>The first steps to rewriting the script stepping into your future self vision. </li></ul><p>Join me in this week’s episode as I interview Amanda Bolzau to uncover the ways you can recover from trauma and step into success. </p><p> </p><h2>Learn More About The Content Discussed…</h2><p>Chat with Amanda: IG <a href="https://www.instagram.com/thewatchmecoach/" target="_blank">https://www.instagram.com/thewatchmecoach/</a></p><p>Join the Camp Elevate private group: <a href="http://thecampelevategroup.com/">http://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>Subscribe to the podcast on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1475175551">Apple</a>, <a href="https://open.spotify.com/show/2Eqbc03q8lxzIhxIdDAeCD?si=np-dlZPvQ3KmgRbpszpQ6w">Spotify</a>, <a href="https://www.google.com/podcasts?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5zaW1wbGVjYXN0LmNvbS9yRE1zajk1WQ%3D%3D">Google</a>, or your favorite app!</p><p> </p><p> </p>
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When you think about the boundaries for business, what are you letting in and not saying no to? 

Where can you say no in order to make space for the dreams you have? 

What are you consuming? 

If your goal is to learn how to set boundaries to help you reach success, then this episode for you.

Join me as I share my insights and personal experiences on how to set boundaries in your personal life and business in order to become the best version of yourself. 

Check out Noodles the pug to find out if today is a &quot;Bones Day&quot; or a &quot;No Bones Day&quot;:  https://www.tiktok.com/@jongraz</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>If you were to sit and have a conversation ten years from today, and she&apos;s saying &apos;I&apos;m so proud of you...&apos; what would she say that would make her proud of how you&apos;ve lived? 

When you think about the boundaries for business, what are you letting in and not saying no to? 

Where can you say no in order to make space for the dreams you have? 

What are you consuming? 

If your goal is to learn how to set boundaries to help you reach success, then this episode for you.

Join me as I share my insights and personal experiences on how to set boundaries in your personal life and business in order to become the best version of yourself. 

Check out Noodles the pug to find out if today is a &quot;Bones Day&quot; or a &quot;No Bones Day&quot;:  https://www.tiktok.com/@jongraz</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>120-The Blame Game</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Are you guilty of pointing fingers at someone when something goes wrong or when you feel threatened? </p><p>Do you put yourself in the distance whenever a problem arises instead of making up for your mistakes?</p><p>Do you dwell more on the past more than focusing on the present?</p><p>It is natural for us to feel defensive and tend to shift the blame towards others to make us feel better about ourselves - which is wrong. Playing the blame game doesn’t help you solve your problems. </p><p>So how can you get through it?</p><p>If your goal is to become personally responsible for the things that are your responsibility, then this episode for you.</p><p>Join me as I share my insights and personal experiences on how to overcome the blame game and to become a responsible adult. </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 8 Nov 2021 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you guilty of pointing fingers at someone when something goes wrong or when you feel threatened? </p><p>Do you put yourself in the distance whenever a problem arises instead of making up for your mistakes?</p><p>Do you dwell more on the past more than focusing on the present?</p><p>It is natural for us to feel defensive and tend to shift the blame towards others to make us feel better about ourselves - which is wrong. Playing the blame game doesn’t help you solve your problems. </p><p>So how can you get through it?</p><p>If your goal is to become personally responsible for the things that are your responsibility, then this episode for you.</p><p>Join me as I share my insights and personal experiences on how to overcome the blame game and to become a responsible adult. </p>
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      <itunes:summary>Are you the type of person who&apos;s fond of doing the blame game for the things that should be your responsibility? 

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      <description><![CDATA[<p>When you are blessed with intelligence, good education, and a bright future, what else would you want in life? Like any normal person, wouldn’t you choose to settle in the flow and rise up the corporate ladder as you ought? Life could have been simpler and less complicated. You could even end up as a world leader for all you know, right?  </p><p>That is what a typical person would look like, but Grace Van Cleave is not your typical woman.  </p><p>Her journey to the top began at the figurative pit. While she looked sophisticated in her great clothes, income, and career in America’s capital, she’s also buried in bills and debts. All she wanted was a way out.</p><p>And out she did!</p><p>You may feel shivers at the back of your neck just picturing the level of success and the figures of income Grace has attained today. But you can trust she also started at ground zero.</p><p>All she took with her is the knowledge and unwavering faith that if others could do it, so can she.</p><p>How often have you turned down an opportunity thinking that you’re already well-settled in life?  </p><p>When was the last time you let fear and worry take over your pursuit of success?</p><p>Have you discovered your own zone of excellence? How are you using it to push you towards the stairway to success?  </p><p>Join me in today’s podcast as I introduce one amazing woman who made that crucial step out of her promising corporate career in order to sell jewelry – and ended up becoming her own BOSS. What should we learn from her?</p><p> </p><p>Follow me:</p><p><a href="https://instagram.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">@bethholdengraves </a></p><p> </p><p>Connect with Grace:</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/gracevancleave/" target="_blank">@gracevancleave</a></p><p><a href="https://amazinggracestyling.com/" target="_blank">https://amazinggracestyling.com/</a></p><p> </p><p>Join us in camp elevate: </p><p><a href="http://www.thecampelevategroup.com/" target="_blank">Thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p> </p><p> </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 1 Nov 2021 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you are blessed with intelligence, good education, and a bright future, what else would you want in life? Like any normal person, wouldn’t you choose to settle in the flow and rise up the corporate ladder as you ought? Life could have been simpler and less complicated. You could even end up as a world leader for all you know, right?  </p><p>That is what a typical person would look like, but Grace Van Cleave is not your typical woman.  </p><p>Her journey to the top began at the figurative pit. While she looked sophisticated in her great clothes, income, and career in America’s capital, she’s also buried in bills and debts. All she wanted was a way out.</p><p>And out she did!</p><p>You may feel shivers at the back of your neck just picturing the level of success and the figures of income Grace has attained today. But you can trust she also started at ground zero.</p><p>All she took with her is the knowledge and unwavering faith that if others could do it, so can she.</p><p>How often have you turned down an opportunity thinking that you’re already well-settled in life?  </p><p>When was the last time you let fear and worry take over your pursuit of success?</p><p>Have you discovered your own zone of excellence? How are you using it to push you towards the stairway to success?  </p><p>Join me in today’s podcast as I introduce one amazing woman who made that crucial step out of her promising corporate career in order to sell jewelry – and ended up becoming her own BOSS. What should we learn from her?</p><p> </p><p>Follow me:</p><p><a href="https://instagram.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">@bethholdengraves </a></p><p> </p><p>Connect with Grace:</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/gracevancleave/" target="_blank">@gracevancleave</a></p><p><a href="https://amazinggracestyling.com/" target="_blank">https://amazinggracestyling.com/</a></p><p> </p><p>Join us in camp elevate: </p><p><a href="http://www.thecampelevategroup.com/" target="_blank">Thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p> </p><p> </p>
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Will it be ever worth it at all? 

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Will it be ever worth it at all? 

In today’s podcast episode, I will introduce you to one amazing woman who made that crucial step out of her promising corporate career in order to sell jewelry – and be her own BOSS. What should we learn from her?</itunes:subtitle>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Gratitude is something that we feel when we're faced with kindness and good things in general. But, what's really behind this emotion we call 'gratitude'?</p><p>In today's podcast, "The Brain Game and Gratitude", we'll be talking about RAS and how gratitude works in our brains.  </p><p>Join me and guest speaker Mel Robbins as we dive into the science of being thankful.  </p><p>Let's go! </p><p> </p><p>Follow me:</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/" target="_blank">@bethholdengraves  </a></p><p> </p><p>Join us in Camp Elevate:  </p><p><a href="https://www.thecampelevategroup.com/" target="_blank">Thecampelevategroup.com</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 25 Oct 2021 13:50:33 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Gratitude is something that we feel when we're faced with kindness and good things in general. But, what's really behind this emotion we call 'gratitude'?</p><p>In today's podcast, "The Brain Game and Gratitude", we'll be talking about RAS and how gratitude works in our brains.  </p><p>Join me and guest speaker Mel Robbins as we dive into the science of being thankful.  </p><p>Let's go! </p><p> </p><p>Follow me:</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/" target="_blank">@bethholdengraves  </a></p><p> </p><p>Join us in Camp Elevate:  </p><p><a href="https://www.thecampelevategroup.com/" target="_blank">Thecampelevategroup.com</a></p>
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Join me and guest speaker Mel Robbins as we dive into the science of being thankful. 
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Something really, really big happened last week, and it got me thinking about all of you, your precious family & personal memories, and your communication with your teams and customers.</p><p>But, first, I have to know: What did you do with your 7-hour gift when Facebook, Instagram, and Whatsapp went down last week?</p><p>Did you freak out because you had “so much to do”?</p><p>Or did you look at it like we used to look at snow days when we were kids?? </p><p>We spend so much of our time SO CONNECTED through all the different apps and platforms. Sometimes, when those connections aren’t available, like they weren’t last week, it’s hard for us to know what to do with ourselves.</p><p>But what happens if those apps and platforms disappear . . . for good?</p><p>Have you thought about that?</p><p>I mean, we do not own our social media content. </p><p>So, what happens to all your albums, pictures, videos, and memories if your favorite social media platform suddenly disappears?</p><p>When it comes to your business, how would you market, contact customers, or communicate with your team if you couldn’t use that social media platform?</p><p>Are you prepared for that?</p><p>In today’s podcast episode, I’m going to share some ways for you to protect your memories and to continue to grow & work your business outside of social media.</p><p>I’ll also be giving out the MOST GENEROUS Camp Award and tell you how you can get the #1 book for NWM that I co-authored FOR FREE!!</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Oct 2021 09:57:24 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Something really, really big happened last week, and it got me thinking about all of you, your precious family & personal memories, and your communication with your teams and customers.</p><p>But, first, I have to know: What did you do with your 7-hour gift when Facebook, Instagram, and Whatsapp went down last week?</p><p>Did you freak out because you had “so much to do”?</p><p>Or did you look at it like we used to look at snow days when we were kids?? </p><p>We spend so much of our time SO CONNECTED through all the different apps and platforms. Sometimes, when those connections aren’t available, like they weren’t last week, it’s hard for us to know what to do with ourselves.</p><p>But what happens if those apps and platforms disappear . . . for good?</p><p>Have you thought about that?</p><p>I mean, we do not own our social media content. </p><p>So, what happens to all your albums, pictures, videos, and memories if your favorite social media platform suddenly disappears?</p><p>When it comes to your business, how would you market, contact customers, or communicate with your team if you couldn’t use that social media platform?</p><p>Are you prepared for that?</p><p>In today’s podcast episode, I’m going to share some ways for you to protect your memories and to continue to grow & work your business outside of social media.</p><p>I’ll also be giving out the MOST GENEROUS Camp Award and tell you how you can get the #1 book for NWM that I co-authored FOR FREE!!</p>
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When it comes to your business, how would you market, contact customers, or communicate with your team if you couldn’t use that social media platform?

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      <description><![CDATA[<p>It’s a brand new month, and, with that, comes limitless possibilities! Whether your goals are related to your business, your personal development, your relationship with family, or your finances - it’s a clean slate.</p><p>It seems that we always begin the month with the mindset that our goals are attainable and that our intentions are our priorities…</p><p>But somewhere along the way, maybe even just a few days in, something starts to happen.</p><p>Old habits creep in.</p><p>Self-doubt and self-sabotage seep in.</p><p>The same cycle of procrastination, task avoidance, and excuses begins.</p><p>BUT NOT THIS MONTH!</p><p>This is the month that YOU GET TO DECIDE:</p><p>-Who you WANT to be!</p><p>-How you WANT to feel!</p><p>In today’s podcast, I’m going to give you a simple tip to shift your mindset to:</p><p>If it makes you feel like crap - GET RID OF IT!</p><p>But I’m going to take you further! I’ll teach you how to apply this mindset to social media and to your to-do list in an effort to declutter, edit, and remove the things that are blocking your ability to reach your goals and honor your intentions and priorities!</p><p>Additionally, we’re going to have a BRAND NEW CAMPER AWARD, where I will recognize a very special member of Camp Elevate. She is a wonderful teacher, in more ways than one. </p><p>Lastly, as we close, I’ll teach you a breathing technique that I have found very beneficial. While I’m not necessarily an expert, I know what has helped me to unravel the frenzy, focus, and shift, and it is my hope to help you to do the same.</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>The change in seasons is a great time for other changes and for shifting our perspective.</p><p>Being very transparent with you all, I am in the middle of a pretty big shift.</p><p>One that is allowing me to feel more aligned with my values and true self, as well as with the direction of my business -- and this podcast.</p><p>SO, I HAVE TO WARN YOU . . .</p><p>This podcast won’t feel or sound like the others I have shared. </p><p>Don’t get me wrong, I know that I’ve brought you valuable content that was authentic and that aligned with where I thought I was headed.</p><p>But that’s the beautiful thing about living life with an open mind and a heart that is wide open.</p><p>Things shift, and, as they do, sometimes you realize that, while what you were doing was GOOD, now it’s time to shift to something GREAT!</p><p>I’ll explain in more detail in today’s podcast.</p><p>As you listen to episode 115, I want you to think of yourself and this life you’re living as a MASTERPIECE...not a work in progress! </p><p>When painting the masterpiece that is your life, YOU ARE THE ARTIST. You are the one in control of the brush, the colors, the placement...it’s all up to you!</p><p>As you step back and admire this masterpiece, realize that that brush is still in your hand!</p><p>And I want to ask: Are you painting what YOU feel LED to paint, or are you painting your masterpiece as OTHERS EXPECT it to look?</p><p>This got me thinking about my own canvas, my own masterpiece. And I have a few other things that I’d like to share as my journey continues to shift.</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 27 Sep 2021 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The change in seasons is a great time for other changes and for shifting our perspective.</p><p>Being very transparent with you all, I am in the middle of a pretty big shift.</p><p>One that is allowing me to feel more aligned with my values and true self, as well as with the direction of my business -- and this podcast.</p><p>SO, I HAVE TO WARN YOU . . .</p><p>This podcast won’t feel or sound like the others I have shared. </p><p>Don’t get me wrong, I know that I’ve brought you valuable content that was authentic and that aligned with where I thought I was headed.</p><p>But that’s the beautiful thing about living life with an open mind and a heart that is wide open.</p><p>Things shift, and, as they do, sometimes you realize that, while what you were doing was GOOD, now it’s time to shift to something GREAT!</p><p>I’ll explain in more detail in today’s podcast.</p><p>As you listen to episode 115, I want you to think of yourself and this life you’re living as a MASTERPIECE...not a work in progress! </p><p>When painting the masterpiece that is your life, YOU ARE THE ARTIST. You are the one in control of the brush, the colors, the placement...it’s all up to you!</p><p>As you step back and admire this masterpiece, realize that that brush is still in your hand!</p><p>And I want to ask: Are you painting what YOU feel LED to paint, or are you painting your masterpiece as OTHERS EXPECT it to look?</p><p>This got me thinking about my own canvas, my own masterpiece. And I have a few other things that I’d like to share as my journey continues to shift.</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>September is flying by, and this week, we’ll officially usher in fall. I hope that this new season will bring you so much success in your business, whatever that success looks and feels like to YOU! </p><p>And I also want to extend a little challenge to all of you. </p><p>As we move forward and enter the last quarter of the year, social sellers are going to be working hard to hit their yearly goal, new products are going to be released, and new incentives will roll out.</p><p>When this happens, many social sellers feel a sense of urgency.</p><p>And you’ll notice a shift in their content.</p><p>It happens.</p><p>When content becomes spammy and doesn’t add value to the audience that sees it, it becomes noise. Most people scroll through the noise to get to the content that engages them. </p><p>Right? </p><p>I mean, we all do it.</p><p>That’s why we fast-forward through commercials! </p><p>We know we are being “sold,” and we want to get back to the show that has our interest and attention.</p><p><strong>In today’s podcast, I’m going to give you 3 questions that you can answer when creating content that will also create connection with your audience.</strong></p><p>And that connection is what stops their scroll, gets them to engage, and allows them to see you and/or your product as a solution to a problem they have…</p><p>Instead of as an advertisement.</p><p>What are the 3 questions that every social seller needs to know to create this connection?? Listen now!!</p><p><strong>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?</strong>  Head on over to Camp Elevate this week for our LIVE training on how to UP your content and connection to recruit the RIGHT people to your team. <a href="http://email.c.kajabimail.net/c/eJwdjktuxCAQRE9jNpEQdBswCxaTOCNlnQOM2qZjE_9GHmIrtw8TqTb1kV7FYEyMnUgBFGjltFfeWIVSS22w9f69gbZ5QwevVa16OdE3dWmhNMuVsxgD9I2FDr2r0VEDDuvaKGDwnqgYEHMYc74_KrxUcC06z1N-Uc_dtk2y35YSDfv2UxZw7Wm588wHZT5THjvO47DTwc9O8JN6izyng_ffW4oB0TqHFrUVe1jTNCVaI--PbUXw5e7w_7MwRA6fKfPLR1sBWqOd_gMK_kvt"><strong>Click here</strong></a> to join.</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 20 Sep 2021 10:02:13 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>September is flying by, and this week, we’ll officially usher in fall. I hope that this new season will bring you so much success in your business, whatever that success looks and feels like to YOU! </p><p>And I also want to extend a little challenge to all of you. </p><p>As we move forward and enter the last quarter of the year, social sellers are going to be working hard to hit their yearly goal, new products are going to be released, and new incentives will roll out.</p><p>When this happens, many social sellers feel a sense of urgency.</p><p>And you’ll notice a shift in their content.</p><p>It happens.</p><p>When content becomes spammy and doesn’t add value to the audience that sees it, it becomes noise. Most people scroll through the noise to get to the content that engages them. </p><p>Right? </p><p>I mean, we all do it.</p><p>That’s why we fast-forward through commercials! </p><p>We know we are being “sold,” and we want to get back to the show that has our interest and attention.</p><p><strong>In today’s podcast, I’m going to give you 3 questions that you can answer when creating content that will also create connection with your audience.</strong></p><p>And that connection is what stops their scroll, gets them to engage, and allows them to see you and/or your product as a solution to a problem they have…</p><p>Instead of as an advertisement.</p><p>What are the 3 questions that every social seller needs to know to create this connection?? Listen now!!</p><p><strong>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?</strong>  Head on over to Camp Elevate this week for our LIVE training on how to UP your content and connection to recruit the RIGHT people to your team. <a href="http://email.c.kajabimail.net/c/eJwdjktuxCAQRE9jNpEQdBswCxaTOCNlnQOM2qZjE_9GHmIrtw8TqTb1kV7FYEyMnUgBFGjltFfeWIVSS22w9f69gbZ5QwevVa16OdE3dWmhNMuVsxgD9I2FDr2r0VEDDuvaKGDwnqgYEHMYc74_KrxUcC06z1N-Uc_dtk2y35YSDfv2UxZw7Wm588wHZT5THjvO47DTwc9O8JN6izyng_ffW4oB0TqHFrUVe1jTNCVaI--PbUXw5e7w_7MwRA6fKfPLR1sBWqOd_gMK_kvt"><strong>Click here</strong></a> to join.</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>HEY GIRL!!</p><p>Raise your hand if you roll your eyes when you see those two words at the beginning of ANY  message these days!!</p><p>I see you!! And my hand is waaaay up too.</p><p>But truthfully, I am a recovering HEY GIRL message user.</p><p>Many of you might be as well.</p><p>I love this quote by Maya Angelou: “I did then what I knew to do. Now that I know better, I do better.”</p><p>It’s time to do better!! Don’t you agree??</p><p>Realizing that a “Hey girl! Blah blah blah. Buy-My-Stuff message is impersonal, inauthentic, and off-putting, I knew there had to be a better way.</p><p>I wanted to feel good about making new connections and about reaching out to them.</p><p><strong>If that’s what you are looking for too, then you will love today’s podcast where I will:</strong></p><ul><li>Share a few of the spammy reach out messages that I’ve received lately</li><li>Explain how I’ve chosen to “receive” and respond to those messages</li><li>And provide a few tips and insight on how you make your reach-out message “feel like you” again.</li></ul><p><strong>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?</strong>  Head on over to Camp Elevate this week for our LIVE training on how to UP your content and connection to recruit the RIGHT people to your team. <a href="http://email.c.kajabimail.net/c/eJwdjktuxCAQRE9jNpEQdBswCxaTOCNlnQOM2qZjE_9GHmIrtw8TqTb1kV7FYEyMnUgBFGjltFfeWIVSS22w9f69gbZ5QwevVa16OdE3dWmhNMuVsxgD9I2FDr2r0VEDDuvaKGDwnqgYEHMYc74_KrxUcC06z1N-Uc_dtk2y35YSDfv2UxZw7Wm588wHZT5THjvO47DTwc9O8JN6izyng_ffW4oB0TqHFrUVe1jTNCVaI--PbUXw5e7w_7MwRA6fKfPLR1sBWqOd_gMK_kvt"><strong>Click here</strong></a> to join.</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 13 Sep 2021 10:12:17 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>HEY GIRL!!</p><p>Raise your hand if you roll your eyes when you see those two words at the beginning of ANY  message these days!!</p><p>I see you!! And my hand is waaaay up too.</p><p>But truthfully, I am a recovering HEY GIRL message user.</p><p>Many of you might be as well.</p><p>I love this quote by Maya Angelou: “I did then what I knew to do. Now that I know better, I do better.”</p><p>It’s time to do better!! Don’t you agree??</p><p>Realizing that a “Hey girl! Blah blah blah. Buy-My-Stuff message is impersonal, inauthentic, and off-putting, I knew there had to be a better way.</p><p>I wanted to feel good about making new connections and about reaching out to them.</p><p><strong>If that’s what you are looking for too, then you will love today’s podcast where I will:</strong></p><ul><li>Share a few of the spammy reach out messages that I’ve received lately</li><li>Explain how I’ve chosen to “receive” and respond to those messages</li><li>And provide a few tips and insight on how you make your reach-out message “feel like you” again.</li></ul><p><strong>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?</strong>  Head on over to Camp Elevate this week for our LIVE training on how to UP your content and connection to recruit the RIGHT people to your team. <a href="http://email.c.kajabimail.net/c/eJwdjktuxCAQRE9jNpEQdBswCxaTOCNlnQOM2qZjE_9GHmIrtw8TqTb1kV7FYEyMnUgBFGjltFfeWIVSS22w9f69gbZ5QwevVa16OdE3dWmhNMuVsxgD9I2FDr2r0VEDDuvaKGDwnqgYEHMYc74_KrxUcC06z1N-Uc_dtk2y35YSDfv2UxZw7Wm588wHZT5THjvO47DTwc9O8JN6izyng_ffW4oB0TqHFrUVe1jTNCVaI--PbUXw5e7w_7MwRA6fKfPLR1sBWqOd_gMK_kvt"><strong>Click here</strong></a> to join.</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>This is the first official podcast of September, and it happens to fall on Labor Day, a holiday that recognizes hard work by giving most of us a day off.</p><p>But, for those who are in Network Marketing, is there ever really a day off?</p><p>It’s like there’s so much urgency at month-end, and that rolls right into the fresh start of the new month. There’s always a new promo, a new product, a new trip to earn...etc.</p><p>It can start to control your life and cause you to miss out on things that you once enjoyed. Things like the Labor Day cookout that you used to look forward to but that you’ve replaced with pushing your company’s promo. Things like your kid’s soccer tournament that you missed most of because you were looking at your phone, answering messages, and helping your team.</p><p>Where does “it” end?</p><p><strong>In today's podcast, I will share:</strong></p><ul><li>How to set boundaries,</li><li>How to shut down your business brain</li><li>How to end the day satisfied with what you’ve accomplished</li></ul><p> </p><p><strong>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?</strong>  Head on over to Camp Elevate this week for our LIVE training on how to UP your content and connection to recruit the RIGHT people to your team. <a href="http://email.c.kajabimail.net/c/eJwdjktuxCAQRE9jNpEQdBswCxaTOCNlnQOM2qZjE_9GHmIrtw8TqTb1kV7FYEyMnUgBFGjltFfeWIVSS22w9f69gbZ5QwevVa16OdE3dWmhNMuVsxgD9I2FDr2r0VEDDuvaKGDwnqgYEHMYc74_KrxUcC06z1N-Uc_dtk2y35YSDfv2UxZw7Wm588wHZT5THjvO47DTwc9O8JN6izyng_ffW4oB0TqHFrUVe1jTNCVaI--PbUXw5e7w_7MwRA6fKfPLR1sBWqOd_gMK_kvt"><strong>Click here</strong></a> to join.</p><p> </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 6 Sep 2021 10:32:59 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is the first official podcast of September, and it happens to fall on Labor Day, a holiday that recognizes hard work by giving most of us a day off.</p><p>But, for those who are in Network Marketing, is there ever really a day off?</p><p>It’s like there’s so much urgency at month-end, and that rolls right into the fresh start of the new month. There’s always a new promo, a new product, a new trip to earn...etc.</p><p>It can start to control your life and cause you to miss out on things that you once enjoyed. Things like the Labor Day cookout that you used to look forward to but that you’ve replaced with pushing your company’s promo. Things like your kid’s soccer tournament that you missed most of because you were looking at your phone, answering messages, and helping your team.</p><p>Where does “it” end?</p><p><strong>In today's podcast, I will share:</strong></p><ul><li>How to set boundaries,</li><li>How to shut down your business brain</li><li>How to end the day satisfied with what you’ve accomplished</li></ul><p> </p><p><strong>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?</strong>  Head on over to Camp Elevate this week for our LIVE training on how to UP your content and connection to recruit the RIGHT people to your team. <a href="http://email.c.kajabimail.net/c/eJwdjktuxCAQRE9jNpEQdBswCxaTOCNlnQOM2qZjE_9GHmIrtw8TqTb1kV7FYEyMnUgBFGjltFfeWIVSS22w9f69gbZ5QwevVa16OdE3dWmhNMuVsxgD9I2FDr2r0VEDDuvaKGDwnqgYEHMYc74_KrxUcC06z1N-Uc_dtk2y35YSDfv2UxZw7Wm588wHZT5THjvO47DTwc9O8JN6izyng_ffW4oB0TqHFrUVe1jTNCVaI--PbUXw5e7w_7MwRA6fKfPLR1sBWqOd_gMK_kvt"><strong>Click here</strong></a> to join.</p><p> </p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Welcome to another wonderful week! This week we are going to wrap up August and welcome September.</p><p>Yes, September!</p><p>Can you even believe it?</p><p>I know that many of you have children who have returned to school. This means carlines, after school events, and sports practices.</p><p>And because life can feel busier - it can also mean additional stress and pressure to get it all done in less time, right?</p><p><strong>In today’s podcast, I’m going to provide you with some simple tips and ways to organize your business so that you can work it on the go!</strong> I want you to see that you can take advantage of all the small pockets of time throughout your day so that you don’t have to miss a single thing -- or feel overwhelmed. And I will give you tips on:</p><ol><li>Utilizing FB Groups effectively in short bursts of time</li><li>How to effectively pre-plan for your posting to your Stories</li><li>Organizing & maintaining your master customer list</li><li>Using the Blitz Invite to connect with more people</li></ol><p>Listen and learn more!</p><p><strong>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?</strong>  Head on over to Camp Elevate this week for our LIVE training on how to UP your content and connection to recruit the RIGHT people to your team. <a href="http://email.c.kajabimail.net/c/eJwdjktuxCAQRE9jNpEQdBswCxaTOCNlnQOM2qZjE_9GHmIrtw8TqTb1kV7FYEyMnUgBFGjltFfeWIVSS22w9f69gbZ5QwevVa16OdE3dWmhNMuVsxgD9I2FDr2r0VEDDuvaKGDwnqgYEHMYc74_KrxUcC06z1N-Uc_dtk2y35YSDfv2UxZw7Wm588wHZT5THjvO47DTwc9O8JN6izyng_ffW4oB0TqHFrUVe1jTNCVaI--PbUXw5e7w_7MwRA6fKfPLR1sBWqOd_gMK_kvt"><strong>Click here</strong></a> to join.</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 23 Aug 2021 09:59:10 +0000</pubDate>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 16 Aug 2021 10:03:14 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>What comes to your mind when you hear the word “summer”?</p><p>Warm weather?</p><p>Family vacations?</p><p>Beach days or days by the pool?</p><p>Maybe watermelon, corn on the cob, or homemade ice cream?</p><p>But what about the summer slump?</p><p>You know, where business slows down and  earnings decrease...</p><p>And for many, where business just loses its luster.</p><p>If you are feeling the effects of a summertime slump in your business, you are not alone. Trust me!</p><p>In today’s podcast, I want to give you more insight into what causes the summertime slump, but I also want to give you some very specific ways to, get out of the slump and to  prevent it from happening again in the future.</p><p><strong>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?</strong>  Head on over to Camp Elevate this week for our LIVE training on how to UP your content and connection to recruit the RIGHT people to your team. <a href="http://email.c.kajabimail.net/c/eJwdjktuxCAQRE9jNpEQdBswCxaTOCNlnQOM2qZjE_9GHmIrtw8TqTb1kV7FYEyMnUgBFGjltFfeWIVSS22w9f69gbZ5QwevVa16OdE3dWmhNMuVsxgD9I2FDr2r0VEDDuvaKGDwnqgYEHMYc74_KrxUcC06z1N-Uc_dtk2y35YSDfv2UxZw7Wm588wHZT5THjvO47DTwc9O8JN6izyng_ffW4oB0TqHFrUVe1jTNCVaI--PbUXw5e7w_7MwRA6fKfPLR1sBWqOd_gMK_kvt"><strong>Click here</strong></a> to join.</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 9 Aug 2021 09:36:16 +0000</pubDate>
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-How to increase visibility using other people’s audience
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      <pubDate>Mon, 26 Jul 2021 09:17:25 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Do you brush your teeth every morning?</p><p>Okay, I know this seems like a strange question for me to ask, but it’s so relevant for success in your business!</p><p>Hear me out on this…</p><p>Why do we go through the hassle of brushing our teeth in the morning and in the evening? </p><p>Of course, no one likes bad breath, but we also brush our teeth daily because we have a future vision of keeping our teeth and gums healthy.</p><p>And it’s like that with your business. There are daily income-producing activities that we know we should do daily in order to create the vision you’ve set for your future self. These activities have to become as non-negotiable as brushing your teeth to develop the consistency needed for success!</p><p> </p><p><strong>Here are the A-B-C's of today's episode:</strong></p><p> </p><p><strong>The Abundance Shift</strong></p><p>Is what you are doing today going to serve your future self and help you to create the team you desire and to meet your goals?<br /> </p><p><strong>Building Blocks</strong></p><p>What are the routines and habits that need to be developed in order to allow your future self to meet the 5 and 10 year goals?<br /> </p><p><strong>Connection to Close</strong></p><p>Do your current friends, family, and business connections in your life support your vision?</p><p> </p><p>You have to determine what you want your future life to look like in the next year, 5 years from now, 10 years from now, and so on. Once you do this, I hope you’ll believe in your vision enough to create the daily habits and to cultivate the circle of support that will create the success and the life that you dream of!</p><p> </p><p><strong>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?</strong>  Head on over to Camp Elevate this week for our LIVE training on how to UP your content and connection to recruit the RIGHT people to your team. <a href="http://email.c.kajabimail.net/c/eJwdjktuxCAQRE9jNpEQdBswCxaTOCNlnQOM2qZjE_9GHmIrtw8TqTb1kV7FYEyMnUgBFGjltFfeWIVSS22w9f69gbZ5QwevVa16OdE3dWmhNMuVsxgD9I2FDr2r0VEDDuvaKGDwnqgYEHMYc74_KrxUcC06z1N-Uc_dtk2y35YSDfv2UxZw7Wm588wHZT5THjvO47DTwc9O8JN6izyng_ffW4oB0TqHFrUVe1jTNCVaI--PbUXw5e7w_7MwRA6fKfPLR1sBWqOd_gMK_kvt"><strong>Click here</strong></a> to join.</p><p> </p><p>Connect with me on Instagram!<a href="http://email.c.kajabimail.net/c/eJwdjrFuxCAQRL_GNJEQ7B5gCopLnEip8wEnDJvzxjaObHRW_j4k0hSjV8y8HIzJeRQcQIFWTnvljVUotdQGB-9fexj6F3Tw3F1UknP8iiOvkRdZqIopQB8hW62SUwou0JpLxif3aVXKHkksYar1--jw2sFby3mekstR432Pq0zb2thIdZq2JVNp8EFHQ4L-Tm6ZFn7Q_nPjHBCtc2hRW7GHwvPMsWTaj60g-GZ3_9dqi6KGD6709D50gNZop38BLqNF8w"> <strong>Click here + join the fun!</strong></a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 19 Jul 2021 09:11:25 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you brush your teeth every morning?</p><p>Okay, I know this seems like a strange question for me to ask, but it’s so relevant for success in your business!</p><p>Hear me out on this…</p><p>Why do we go through the hassle of brushing our teeth in the morning and in the evening? </p><p>Of course, no one likes bad breath, but we also brush our teeth daily because we have a future vision of keeping our teeth and gums healthy.</p><p>And it’s like that with your business. There are daily income-producing activities that we know we should do daily in order to create the vision you’ve set for your future self. These activities have to become as non-negotiable as brushing your teeth to develop the consistency needed for success!</p><p> </p><p><strong>Here are the A-B-C's of today's episode:</strong></p><p> </p><p><strong>The Abundance Shift</strong></p><p>Is what you are doing today going to serve your future self and help you to create the team you desire and to meet your goals?<br /> </p><p><strong>Building Blocks</strong></p><p>What are the routines and habits that need to be developed in order to allow your future self to meet the 5 and 10 year goals?<br /> </p><p><strong>Connection to Close</strong></p><p>Do your current friends, family, and business connections in your life support your vision?</p><p> </p><p>You have to determine what you want your future life to look like in the next year, 5 years from now, 10 years from now, and so on. Once you do this, I hope you’ll believe in your vision enough to create the daily habits and to cultivate the circle of support that will create the success and the life that you dream of!</p><p> </p><p><strong>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?</strong>  Head on over to Camp Elevate this week for our LIVE training on how to UP your content and connection to recruit the RIGHT people to your team. <a href="http://email.c.kajabimail.net/c/eJwdjktuxCAQRE9jNpEQdBswCxaTOCNlnQOM2qZjE_9GHmIrtw8TqTb1kV7FYEyMnUgBFGjltFfeWIVSS22w9f69gbZ5QwevVa16OdE3dWmhNMuVsxgD9I2FDr2r0VEDDuvaKGDwnqgYEHMYc74_KrxUcC06z1N-Uc_dtk2y35YSDfv2UxZw7Wm588wHZT5THjvO47DTwc9O8JN6izyng_ffW4oB0TqHFrUVe1jTNCVaI--PbUXw5e7w_7MwRA6fKfPLR1sBWqOd_gMK_kvt"><strong>Click here</strong></a> to join.</p><p> </p><p>Connect with me on Instagram!<a href="http://email.c.kajabimail.net/c/eJwdjrFuxCAQRL_GNJEQ7B5gCopLnEip8wEnDJvzxjaObHRW_j4k0hSjV8y8HIzJeRQcQIFWTnvljVUotdQGB-9fexj6F3Tw3F1UknP8iiOvkRdZqIopQB8hW62SUwou0JpLxif3aVXKHkksYar1--jw2sFby3mekstR432Pq0zb2thIdZq2JVNp8EFHQ4L-Tm6ZFn7Q_nPjHBCtc2hRW7GHwvPMsWTaj60g-GZ3_9dqi6KGD6709D50gNZop38BLqNF8w"> <strong>Click here + join the fun!</strong></a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 12 Jul 2021 09:56:28 +0000</pubDate>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 5 Jul 2021 08:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/103-the-a-b-cs-of-direct-sales-part-2-cLHf2D1h</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I will keep it short and sweet today in an effort to honor and respect your time...which is also, in a way, the focus of today’s podcast!</p><p> </p><p>As you listen today, you’ll take away the following:</p><p> </p><p>A - Abundance Shift </p><p>Breathe & move your body, especially if you are feeling a block when it comes to getting started or staying focused!! </p><p> </p><p>B - Building Block</p><p>Avoid the AWKWARD BLIND DATE!! I’m going to explain why throwing customers into 3-way chats without warning isn’t effective. </p><p> </p><p>3-way chats can provide the validation that your customer needs when used the right way. What I notice is that, in an effort to avoid feeling awkward and gaining their permission to add someone to the chat for their expertise...team members will just bring the “expert” in -- like setting them up on an awkward blind date that they don’t even know they are going on!!!</p><p> </p><p>What kind of impression does that make? And how does that make the customer feel about their relationship with you?</p><p> </p><p>C - Conversations</p><p>I’ll give you questions and verbiage to use when you want to include a customer on a 3-way chat -- focused on building connection and trust!!</p><p> </p><p>Of course, you can make these your own. They aren’t meant to be scripts -- just ideas on how you can introduce the idea of the 3-way chat or call -- naturally.</p><p> </p><p>I truly hope that the insight I share helps you to feel comfortable being boldly and authentically YOU!!  Don’t forget to leave a review -- if there’s something that you particularly like -- please let me know!! Those are the things I want to keep doing!</p><p> </p><p>Oh, and as you listen today, I ask about your song -- the one that gets you up and makes you MOVE!  Please, please, please share your song to your stories and tag me (and #nobosstalk)!! I think we could make a pretty awesome No Boss Talk playlist!! </p><p> </p><p>Listen for the details...</p><p> </p><p><strong>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?</strong>  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.</p><p> </p><p><strong>Hey - have you grabbed my 5 post plan?</strong>  Click <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/posting-plan">here</a> to sign up now.</p><p> </p><p><strong>Connect with me on social:</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Today's episode is the first one in a 4-part series, where I will provide you with the A-B-C's of growing your direct sales business. To honor your time, I’m going to keep each episode in this series to about 15 minutes.</p><p> </p><p>Listen in this week to discover how having courage when it comes to your network marketing business and the idea of abundance can put you on the path to feeling more determined and confident as you make business connections. We'll discuss cold messaging and whether it is a good strategy for your business growth and continued success -- and I'll explain connected messaging. You'll have a better idea of which approach, or combination of the two, feels best for you.</p><p> </p><p><strong>In today's episode, I will focus on the A-B-C’s of the direct selling business.</strong></p><p> </p><p><strong>A - ABUNDANCE SHIFT</strong></p><p>We'll look at COURAGE and what that looks and feels like to you.</p><p> </p><p><strong>B - BUILDING BLOCKS</strong></p><p>We'll discuss the difference between cold vs. connected messaging.</p><p> </p><p><strong>C - CONVERSATIONS & CONTENT</strong></p><p>I'll give you examples of connected messaging and how to make it happen!</p><p> </p><p><strong>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?</strong>  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.</p><p> </p><p><strong>Hey - have you grabbed my 5 post plan?</strong>  Click <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/posting-plan">here</a> to sign up now.</p><p> </p><p><strong>Connect with me on social:</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 28 Jun 2021 09:29:54 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/the-a-b-cs-of-direct-sales-part-1-Bb_HPJek</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today's episode is the first one in a 4-part series, where I will provide you with the A-B-C's of growing your direct sales business. To honor your time, I’m going to keep each episode in this series to about 15 minutes.</p><p> </p><p>Listen in this week to discover how having courage when it comes to your network marketing business and the idea of abundance can put you on the path to feeling more determined and confident as you make business connections. We'll discuss cold messaging and whether it is a good strategy for your business growth and continued success -- and I'll explain connected messaging. You'll have a better idea of which approach, or combination of the two, feels best for you.</p><p> </p><p><strong>In today's episode, I will focus on the A-B-C’s of the direct selling business.</strong></p><p> </p><p><strong>A - ABUNDANCE SHIFT</strong></p><p>We'll look at COURAGE and what that looks and feels like to you.</p><p> </p><p><strong>B - BUILDING BLOCKS</strong></p><p>We'll discuss the difference between cold vs. connected messaging.</p><p> </p><p><strong>C - CONVERSATIONS & CONTENT</strong></p><p>I'll give you examples of connected messaging and how to make it happen!</p><p> </p><p><strong>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?</strong>  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.</p><p> </p><p><strong>Hey - have you grabbed my 5 post plan?</strong>  Click <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/posting-plan">here</a> to sign up now.</p><p> </p><p><strong>Connect with me on social:</strong></p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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We&apos;ll discuss the difference in cold vs. connected messaging.
 
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I&apos;ll give you examples of connected messaging and how to make it happen!
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A - ABUNDANCE SHIFT
We&apos;ll look at COURAGE and what that looks and feels like to you.
 
B - BUILDING BLOCKS
We&apos;ll discuss the difference in cold vs. connected messaging.
 
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I&apos;ll give you examples of connected messaging and how to make it happen!
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Several years ago, I had a friend who was determined to start a business. She had the perfect products that she loved, and she was able to find the perfect location for her store. She had a storefront on a busy street where hundreds, if not thousands, of people, walked by every single day.</p><p> </p><p>Whenever someone walked into her store, she made the effort to smile and speak to them. Over time, there were customers who returned and customers who referred new people to her store. </p><p> </p><p>Business was good -- and it was growing.</p><p>My friend really loved it and was happy!</p><p>Of course, she wanted to keep the business growing, so she started to do some research online.</p><p> </p><p>She read blog posts, listened to podcasts, and researched several business coaches. As a result, she decided that she needed a website and blog -- because this would give her customers direct access to her business, and they could order online. </p><p> </p><p>Then, she decided to start a podcast where she could showcase her products and build community with people who would benefit most from them.</p><p> </p><p>Lastly, she hired a business coach who always provided her with tasks that she should do in order to grow her business. Every week, the coach would provide a list of activities that needed to be completed...and provided encouragement and motivation.</p><p> </p><p>And, YES!!! She was super motivated!!</p><p> </p><p>But, with everything that she was adding to her plate, she didn’t have the time to be in her store as much. The customers who looked forward to seeing her, were disappointed when they went into the store - and she wasn’t there. </p><p> </p><p>So, they stopped dropping in.</p><p>They stopped bringing friends.</p><p>They stopped referring others.</p><p>And business declined.</p><p> </p><p>Eventually, my friend started to get increasingly discouraged. She was doing all the things she was supposed to be doing…</p><p> </p><p>So why wasn’t her business growing??</p><p>And why wasn’t she happy anymore?</p><p>Well, it turns out that she had a bad case of Squirrel Syndrome.</p><p>Never heard of it?? I’ll explain more in today’s podcast...</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Jun 2021 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Several years ago, I had a friend who was determined to start a business. She had the perfect products that she loved, and she was able to find the perfect location for her store. She had a storefront on a busy street where hundreds, if not thousands, of people, walked by every single day.</p><p> </p><p>Whenever someone walked into her store, she made the effort to smile and speak to them. Over time, there were customers who returned and customers who referred new people to her store. </p><p> </p><p>Business was good -- and it was growing.</p><p>My friend really loved it and was happy!</p><p>Of course, she wanted to keep the business growing, so she started to do some research online.</p><p> </p><p>She read blog posts, listened to podcasts, and researched several business coaches. As a result, she decided that she needed a website and blog -- because this would give her customers direct access to her business, and they could order online. </p><p> </p><p>Then, she decided to start a podcast where she could showcase her products and build community with people who would benefit most from them.</p><p> </p><p>Lastly, she hired a business coach who always provided her with tasks that she should do in order to grow her business. Every week, the coach would provide a list of activities that needed to be completed...and provided encouragement and motivation.</p><p> </p><p>And, YES!!! She was super motivated!!</p><p> </p><p>But, with everything that she was adding to her plate, she didn’t have the time to be in her store as much. The customers who looked forward to seeing her, were disappointed when they went into the store - and she wasn’t there. </p><p> </p><p>So, they stopped dropping in.</p><p>They stopped bringing friends.</p><p>They stopped referring others.</p><p>And business declined.</p><p> </p><p>Eventually, my friend started to get increasingly discouraged. She was doing all the things she was supposed to be doing…</p><p> </p><p>So why wasn’t her business growing??</p><p>And why wasn’t she happy anymore?</p><p>Well, it turns out that she had a bad case of Squirrel Syndrome.</p><p>Never heard of it?? I’ll explain more in today’s podcast...</p>
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So why wasn’t her business growing??

And why wasn’t she happy anymore?

Well, it turns out that she had a bad case of Squirrel Syndrome.

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So why wasn’t her business growing??

And why wasn’t she happy anymore?

Well, it turns out that she had a bad case of Squirrel Syndrome.

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      <description><![CDATA[<p>This may sound like an Academy Award LONG acceptance speech but hang with me!</p><p> </p><p>100 episodes…. </p><p>Without missing a Monday. </p><p>We’ve been together since October of 2019. </p><p>And I am so grateful for every single one of you. </p><p> </p><p>You helped me to find my voice. </p><p>My REAL voice.  You’ve opened your hearts and included my voice as part of your walks, gym time, carpooling and most of all, you were an important  link to the world during our isolated time in 2020. </p><p> </p><p>I’ve stared at the microphone and worried that the REAL and RAW side of me might be too much. </p><p>Some days the words would flow. </p><p>And others I would toss 55 books on the floor looking for inspiration… </p><p>and then I would read a text or a journal entry and know just what to say. </p><p> </p><p>Openly I shared loud and clear where I stand on racism and social injustice, and I hope encouraged you that taking a stand is a part of your brand.</p><p> </p><p>If you have listened to one episode. Thank you! </p><p>If you have shared this podcast with a friend. Thank you! </p><p>If you have left a review. Thank you! </p><p>If you shared with me a big WIN in your business. Thank you! </p><p>If you have been a part of my team. Thank You!</p><p>If you’ve struggled and one of my guests or episodes spoke to you. Thank you. </p><p>If you’ve been a guest on my show. Thank You!</p><p>If we’ve met because of divine podcast intervention. Thank You! </p><p>If you’ve never listened to the podcast. Thank You! </p><p>(This means I’ve nailed my avatar) </p><p> </p><p>And most of all, THANK YOU for holding space in your world for our connection. I am just a girl… who couldn’t figure out why Happiness wasn’t found in hair extensions and decided to turn on that microphone. My hope is that you will find courage and creativity in the stories and conversations so that you can bring even more of your magic to the world. </p><p> </p><p>Thank you. Thank you.</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 14 Jun 2021 10:00:19 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Blair Critch)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/100-thank-you-thank-you-100-episodes-rLFSSDVI</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This may sound like an Academy Award LONG acceptance speech but hang with me!</p><p> </p><p>100 episodes…. </p><p>Without missing a Monday. </p><p>We’ve been together since October of 2019. </p><p>And I am so grateful for every single one of you. </p><p> </p><p>You helped me to find my voice. </p><p>My REAL voice.  You’ve opened your hearts and included my voice as part of your walks, gym time, carpooling and most of all, you were an important  link to the world during our isolated time in 2020. </p><p> </p><p>I’ve stared at the microphone and worried that the REAL and RAW side of me might be too much. </p><p>Some days the words would flow. </p><p>And others I would toss 55 books on the floor looking for inspiration… </p><p>and then I would read a text or a journal entry and know just what to say. </p><p> </p><p>Openly I shared loud and clear where I stand on racism and social injustice, and I hope encouraged you that taking a stand is a part of your brand.</p><p> </p><p>If you have listened to one episode. Thank you! </p><p>If you have shared this podcast with a friend. Thank you! </p><p>If you have left a review. Thank you! </p><p>If you shared with me a big WIN in your business. Thank you! </p><p>If you have been a part of my team. Thank You!</p><p>If you’ve struggled and one of my guests or episodes spoke to you. Thank you. </p><p>If you’ve been a guest on my show. Thank You!</p><p>If we’ve met because of divine podcast intervention. Thank You! </p><p>If you’ve never listened to the podcast. Thank You! </p><p>(This means I’ve nailed my avatar) </p><p> </p><p>And most of all, THANK YOU for holding space in your world for our connection. I am just a girl… who couldn’t figure out why Happiness wasn’t found in hair extensions and decided to turn on that microphone. My hope is that you will find courage and creativity in the stories and conversations so that you can bring even more of your magic to the world. </p><p> </p><p>Thank you. Thank you.</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 7 Jun 2021 10:02:40 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Big goals and bowls of ice cream.</p><p>What do they have in common?</p><p>Me.</p><p> </p><p>And maybe “ice cream” is getting in the way of your big goals too!</p><p> </p><p>So, as we were getting closer and closer to the inevitable hot weather and summer months here in Florida, I set some health & wellness goals and made some promises to myself. I’ve known that I was capable of getting into better shape and living healthier than I have been, so I just wanted to clean up my diet a little more and keep my promise (to myself) to workout daily.</p><p> </p><p>And, I have to admit, I’m rocking those goals! </p><p> </p><p>But I also notice that I’m not making the progress that I’d to make by now. My clothes are fitting the same, and I’m just not “seeing” the results I thought I’d see by now.</p><p> </p><p>I reflected on this the other night at about 2 am while scraping the last little bit of ice cream out of the container.</p><p> </p><p>And that’s when I realized…</p><p> </p><p>Even though I had the drive and the consistency, I was sabotaging my own chance at reaching my goals because I kept reaching for the late-night ice cream.</p><p> </p><p>I had started doing all the right things to create success…but it’s what I didn’t stop doing that was holding me back.</p><p> </p><p>It can be like that in business too. You can implement all the best systems, teach your team all the right things, and use all the latest sales strategies…but what’s the “2 am ice cream” in your business?? What is it that you’re doing to continues to set you back?</p><p> </p><p>Maybe it’s a story that you tell yourself. You know the ones, they live in our heads and remind us of why we’ll never succeed, why we aren’t worthy, or of all the things that could go wrong. Or maybe there’s a literal repeated action (or avoidance of action) that is part of your sabotage cycle.</p><p> </p><p>In today’s podcast, we’ll start to unpack some of this, and I’ll give you a method/strategy that you can implement to help you identify what’s holding you back and to make it STOP!</p><p> </p><p>Are you ready to put down the ice cream and step into success? </p><p>Then listen here:</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Ever want to shake things up a bit?</p><p>I mean, doing the same thing every day or even every week can start to feel boring, right?</p><p> </p><p>Well, if you are ready for something a little different, you’ll love today’s podcast -- because it was hijacked by two of the amazing leaders from my network marketing team!</p><p> </p><p>If you’ve ever wondered what it’s really like to work with me or what I’m like “behind the scenes,” then you will definitely appreciate the perspective and insight that Sarah Luce and Terri Kirrie share!</p><p> </p><p>Even though I love coming to you every week and sharing stories, tips, and strategies, I just love the energy, excitement, and vulnerability they brought to the set and are sharing with you!</p>
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      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Terri Kirrie, Sarah Luce)</author>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Remember your first crush? </p><p>Who doesn’t, right? There was something about the thrill of the chase and doing all the things that you thought would convince them to like you back.</p><p> </p><p>OMG - and then finding out they did like you back! It was like you’d convinced them to like you . . .</p><p>Maybe that’s where our sales experience really started!!</p><p> </p><p>But if you are using this strategy still today to grow your direct sales team (and well, in your romantic relationships) -- you might be feeling (a) let down and (b) overwhelmed.</p><p> </p><p>Since we are discussing your network marketing business, I’ll focus on that, though you may be able to relate it to your romantic relationships somehow.</p><p> </p><p>Look at it this way, if you have to convince someone to join your team by constantly catering to them, do they actually have buy-in when it comes to being successful and creating their own stream of income? </p><p> </p><p>Or, are they now dependent (and expectant) that you will handle everything for them? Now, they need to come to you for advice or permission as to how to handle every. Single. Situation.</p><p> </p><p>So, you feel let down that they either aren’t involved or aren’t successful on their own -- or you feel overwhelmed because you now feel a sense of personal responsibility to lead them & their team . . . as well as your own.</p><p>If this is you, if you are struggling with creating boundaries instead of codependent relationships with your team, ask yourself this question:</p><p> </p><p>Are you the CEO of your business, or are you principal??</p><p> </p><p>Are you the one who explains the policies & procedures and then trusts your team to set their personal goals, to figure out the best way to  do their work, and then supports them with team trainings & recognition?</p><p> </p><p>Or are you the one who provides all the “how-tos,” graphics, templates, and solutions so that they never have to figure things out on their own?</p><p> </p><p>How can you become the CEO and leave the principal gig behind? You’ll have to check out today’s podcast to find out!</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 24 May 2021 09:48:07 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Remember your first crush? </p><p>Who doesn’t, right? There was something about the thrill of the chase and doing all the things that you thought would convince them to like you back.</p><p> </p><p>OMG - and then finding out they did like you back! It was like you’d convinced them to like you . . .</p><p>Maybe that’s where our sales experience really started!!</p><p> </p><p>But if you are using this strategy still today to grow your direct sales team (and well, in your romantic relationships) -- you might be feeling (a) let down and (b) overwhelmed.</p><p> </p><p>Since we are discussing your network marketing business, I’ll focus on that, though you may be able to relate it to your romantic relationships somehow.</p><p> </p><p>Look at it this way, if you have to convince someone to join your team by constantly catering to them, do they actually have buy-in when it comes to being successful and creating their own stream of income? </p><p> </p><p>Or, are they now dependent (and expectant) that you will handle everything for them? Now, they need to come to you for advice or permission as to how to handle every. Single. Situation.</p><p> </p><p>So, you feel let down that they either aren’t involved or aren’t successful on their own -- or you feel overwhelmed because you now feel a sense of personal responsibility to lead them & their team . . . as well as your own.</p><p>If this is you, if you are struggling with creating boundaries instead of codependent relationships with your team, ask yourself this question:</p><p> </p><p>Are you the CEO of your business, or are you principal??</p><p> </p><p>Are you the one who explains the policies & procedures and then trusts your team to set their personal goals, to figure out the best way to  do their work, and then supports them with team trainings & recognition?</p><p> </p><p>Or are you the one who provides all the “how-tos,” graphics, templates, and solutions so that they never have to figure things out on their own?</p><p> </p><p>How can you become the CEO and leave the principal gig behind? You’ll have to check out today’s podcast to find out!</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever had one of those days? You know the ones, where you look around feeling like you’ve been go-go-go all day long, yet you’ve gotten nothing done?</p><p>Those. Are. The. Worst.</p><p>Am I right?</p><p>But, what if, instead of beating yourself up or feeling like a failure...what if you offered yourself some grace and focused on three things that really matter: </p><ul><li>How did I connect today?</li><li>What did I create today?</li><li>Did I feel joy?</li></ul><p>If you can answer those questions and determine that you did make a genuine connection, that you had the opportunity to work in your area of genius to create, and that you did, in fact, feel joy -- then, my friend, you were a total rockstar.</p><p>Maybe the laundry didn’t get folded.</p><p>Maybe the dishes are still in the sink.</p><p>Maybe you missed your workout.</p><p>But maybe you made time for that person on your team who recently lost a parent.</p><p>Maybe you created a social media post that helped someone else know that they are not alone.</p><p>And maybe you laughed, you know -- that real laugh -- when you stopped what you were doing to talk to your spouse or significant other. </p><p>Today, I’m going to talk about the things that Top Earners do to get to the top. But I want you to understand that it’s a process. While Income Producing Activities are so important, they are not the only important thing when it comes to success. If your only focus is your IPAs…</p><p>You. Will. Burn. Out.</p><p>So, schedule your power hour, commit to your list of Income Producing Activities, and schedule your Power Hour. (I will share tips and info on all of this in today’s podcast.)</p><p>But in addition, practice extending grace...to yourself. </p><p>Just listen, and I'll explain...</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 17 May 2021 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Leadership has so many layers to it, if you really stop to think about it. There isn’t just one right way to lead because different styles and strategies impact different people...well, differently.</p><p> </p><p>When I started my network marketing business with my current company, I had no idea just how amazing the opportunity I was being presented with was. I knew incredible things were about to happen, but, honestly, I never imagined that it would be THIS big!</p><p> </p><p>After reaching the TOP of the company (the first time), I felt so inspired to help others to do the same. I didn’t want to only help those I’d linked arms with inside my company though. I felt so strongly about the Network Marketing Industry, I  WANTED TO HELP EVERYONE! </p><p> </p><p>This desire is what brought my brand and coaching business to life.</p><p> </p><p>But, recently, there’s been a shift. Not in my desire to help others or in my belief in the industry -- but in my understanding of LEADERSHIP. I’ll explain more on today’s podcast.</p><p> </p><p>Change is coming, and I want YOU to be among the first to know, and I want you to hear it straight from ME. So, here it is . . . </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 10 May 2021 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Leadership has so many layers to it, if you really stop to think about it. There isn’t just one right way to lead because different styles and strategies impact different people...well, differently.</p><p> </p><p>When I started my network marketing business with my current company, I had no idea just how amazing the opportunity I was being presented with was. I knew incredible things were about to happen, but, honestly, I never imagined that it would be THIS big!</p><p> </p><p>After reaching the TOP of the company (the first time), I felt so inspired to help others to do the same. I didn’t want to only help those I’d linked arms with inside my company though. I felt so strongly about the Network Marketing Industry, I  WANTED TO HELP EVERYONE! </p><p> </p><p>This desire is what brought my brand and coaching business to life.</p><p> </p><p>But, recently, there’s been a shift. Not in my desire to help others or in my belief in the industry -- but in my understanding of LEADERSHIP. I’ll explain more on today’s podcast.</p><p> </p><p>Change is coming, and I want YOU to be among the first to know, and I want you to hear it straight from ME. So, here it is . . . </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 3 May 2021 09:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 26 Apr 2021 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There is one major thing missing from 99% of businesses. It’s so simple, but also so easy to overlook! </p><p>Today, you'll gain insight on:</p><ul><li>How to recognize and speak to your niche </li><li>Why it’s necessary to explain your business on social media</li><li>Why creating community is so important</li><li>Why transformation and results should be your focus</li><li>And… how you can make all of this happen!</li></ul><p>Have you joined Beth's inspiring & motivating FB Group <i>Camp Elevate</i>?  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join this amazing community of women who are just like you.  You'll gain access to weekly LIVE Coaching and FREE resources. </p><p>Want to win a Boss Hat?  Leave us a review and you will be entered to win!</p><p>Have you grabbed Beth's <i>10 Ways to Get More Sales NOW</i> Guide?  Click <a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/10ways">here</a> to grab it today!</p><p>Connect with Beth on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 19 Apr 2021 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 12 Apr 2021 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>If you’ve read Flip Flop CEO, you’ll recognize one of the hosts, Janine Finney. She’s been a friend for quite a few years and I LOVE what she’s doing with this podcast! Her partner Laura Evans is a powerhouse leader in the industry and has been on the corporate side and in the field. </p><p>Honestly, I don’t hear much negativity around the Network Marketing business model any longer but then again I no longer attract the negative conversations.  In this interview, we’ll be talking about how to educate vs. convince!</p><p>So, today we’ll be talking about</p><ul><li>Why it’s important to educate instead of convincing</li><li>Three ways you can help others see the light without starting a fight</li><li>Why people don’t need to be “proven wrong” </li><li>And… why it’s important to understand that you really don’t need everyone’s approval!</li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.  We have so many amazing things coming for you in 2021 - I can’t wait to share!</p><p>Want to win a You’re Not the Boss of Me Hoodie?  Leave us a review and you will be entered to win!</p><p>Have you grabbed my 10 Ways to Get More Sales NOW Guide?  Click <a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/10ways">here</a> to grab it today!</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>I’m so excited to share this episode with you - connecting is the most important thing that you can do to grow as a social seller.</p><p>So, today we’ll be talking about</p><ul><li>Why it’s so important to start connecting with your community</li><li>Strategies that you can use to connect</li><li>Creating content that connects </li><li>And… what you need to know to start creating this magnetic content.</li></ul><p>I’m honored to be part of Sherrell’s summit this week, Content that Connects:  Get the Secrets to Creating Magnetic Content That Connects You to Your Audience on March 18th at 1PM EST.  Grab your free ticket <a href="http://contentthatconnects.net/bethgraves">here.</a></p><p>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.  We have so many amazing things coming for you in 2021 - I can’t wait to share!</p><p>Want to win a You’re Not the Boss of Me Hoodie?  Leave us a review and you will be entered to win!</p><p>Have you grabbed my 10 Ways to Get More Sales NOW Guide?  Click <a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/10ways">here</a> to grab it today!</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 15 Mar 2021 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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Sherrell is an entrepreneur who left corporate for real estate and ultimately found her home in the Network Marketing world. She recognized that the tides needed to shift from selling online to connecting online which ultimately attracts your audience. 
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Slowing down, breathing, and getting in the right mindset to work in your business effectively are the single most important things that you can do.  It changes everything.  Your outlook, your mood, your energy, your productivity - and a whole lot more.</p><p>Join me as we dive into this very important topic!</p><p>So, today I’ll be covering:</p><ul><li>Why it’s important to slow down</li><li>The importance of taking time for self-care</li><li>Why mindset really does matter</li><li>And… why slowing down will help you grow your business</li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.  We have so many amazing things coming for you in 2021 - I can’t wait to share!</p><p>Want to win a You’re Not the Boss of Me Hoodie?  Leave us a review and you will be entered to win!</p><p>Have you grabbed my 10 Ways to Get More Sales NOW Guide?  Click <a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/10ways">here</a> to grab it today!</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 8 Mar 2021 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 1 Mar 2021 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It doesn’t have to be that way.  We’ll be talking all about how to ask for the sale in a comfortable way without feeling icky or spammy.  Selling is serving, and the quicker that mentality sinks in, the better!</p><p>So, today I’ll be covering:</p><ul><li>Sales - why it’s so important to ask</li><li>How to make selling easy and painless</li><li>What NOT to do when you’re asking for the sale</li><li>And… the importance of committing for 90 days<br /> </li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.  We have so many amazing things coming for you in 2021 - I can’t wait to share!</p><p>Want to win a You’re Not the Boss of Me Hoodie?  Leave us a review and you will be entered to win!</p><p>Have you grabbed my 10 Ways to Get More Sales NOW Guide?  Click <a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/10ways">here</a> to grab it today!</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>In fact, let’s go back to kindergarten.  Your teacher is waiting at the door, ready to show you where to put your coat, your lunch, and where your seat is.  Imagine if she yelled over to you when you came in to put things where you want and sit wherever you want?</p><p>Chaos.  Confusion.</p><p>So, today we’ll be chatting about:</p><ul><li>Simplicity - easy, clear sales strategies that work</li><li>Cutting out the strategies that lack clarity</li><li>Easy, duplicatable processes you can share with your team</li><li>And… as always, how none of this involves spamming!</li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.  We have so many amazing things coming for you in 2021 - I can’t wait to share!</p><p>Want to win a You’re Not the Boss of Me Hoodie?  Leave us a review and you will be entered to win!</p><p>Have you grabbed my 10 Ways to Get More Sales NOW Guide?  Click <a href="http://bethholdengraves.com/10ways">here</a> to grab it today!</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 22 Feb 2021 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Jan 2021 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 4 Jan 2021 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>There are just 10 moves - also known as the Power 10.  Now, while I can’t guarantee you anything - I will say that I know if you show up consistently putting these moves into action, you will make sales.</p><p>We could all use a better year, right?  More money, more… anything and everything that’s good.  So, grab a notebook and a pen and write this down!  2021 will be your year - say it with me and put your hands in the air.  You’ve got this!</p><p>Today we’ll go over:</p><ul><li>The 10 income-producing moves you need to be implementing</li><li>The importance of consistency</li><li>How you can do all this without sacrificing your identity, energy, evenings, and weekends!</li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.</p><p>Want to win a You’re Not the Boss of Me Hoodie?  Leave us a review and you will be entered to win!</p><p>Hey - have you grabbed my 5 post plan?  Click <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/posting-plan">here</a> to sign up now.</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Social media posting shouldn’t make you feel gross.  It’s an opportunity to stand out to your connections and your potential clients by being your authentic self.  </p><p>Anyone can do this.  There isn’t a special sauce or magic wand- but there is a formula to use to make it flow easier. Get ready- because I am going to break it all down for you in this episode.</p><p>You will learn:</p><ul><li>Why authentic connections make all the difference</li><li>How to make the sale feel easy and not forced</li><li>How to STAND OUT by simply being yourself</li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.</p><p>Want to win a You’re Not the Boss of Me Hoodie?  Leave us a review and you will be entered to win!</p><p>Hey - have you grabbed my 5 post plan?  Click <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/posting-plan">here</a> to sign up now.</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 7 Dec 2020 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Social media posting shouldn’t make you feel gross.  It’s an opportunity to stand out to your connections and your potential clients by being your authentic self.  </p><p>Anyone can do this.  There isn’t a special sauce or magic wand- but there is a formula to use to make it flow easier. Get ready- because I am going to break it all down for you in this episode.</p><p>You will learn:</p><ul><li>Why authentic connections make all the difference</li><li>How to make the sale feel easy and not forced</li><li>How to STAND OUT by simply being yourself</li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.</p><p>Want to win a You’re Not the Boss of Me Hoodie?  Leave us a review and you will be entered to win!</p><p>Hey - have you grabbed my 5 post plan?  Click <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/posting-plan">here</a> to sign up now.</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>For many, what comes to mind when thinking about the humans in the industry are women in pink feathered boas at a conference, makeup parties in a living room, or buying jewelry at a sip and shop. </p><p>That stereotype is changing - and I think we all know, that’s a GOOD thing because the more perspectives and different types of people that join us on our journey can only help us grow.</p><p>John and I will be chatting about:</p><ul><li>His personal tips and strategies in his business</li><li>Money tips</li><li>Men + networking marketing of course!</li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.</p><p>Want to win a You’re Not the Boss of Me Hoodie?  Leave us a review and you will be entered to win!</p><p>Hey - have you grabbed my 5 post plan?  Click <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/posting-plan">here</a> to sign up now.</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 30 Nov 2020 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For many, what comes to mind when thinking about the humans in the industry are women in pink feathered boas at a conference, makeup parties in a living room, or buying jewelry at a sip and shop. </p><p>That stereotype is changing - and I think we all know, that’s a GOOD thing because the more perspectives and different types of people that join us on our journey can only help us grow.</p><p>John and I will be chatting about:</p><ul><li>His personal tips and strategies in his business</li><li>Money tips</li><li>Men + networking marketing of course!</li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.</p><p>Want to win a You’re Not the Boss of Me Hoodie?  Leave us a review and you will be entered to win!</p><p>Hey - have you grabbed my 5 post plan?  Click <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/posting-plan">here</a> to sign up now.</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>That’s right!  Today we’re going to be talking about systems.  And yes, I know systems are boring.  But they are truly the foundation to not only your success but for your team as well.</p><p>The cheeseburger method doesn’t mean you send the same video to every single prospect - but it does mean having the resources in place to confidently take the next step with them.</p><p>So let’s dive in!  Today we will cover:</p><ul><li>What resources you should always have in place</li><li>How to get these systems set up</li><li>How to avoid coming across as robotic with these systems in place.</li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.</p><p>Hey - have you grabbed my 5 post plan?  Click <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/posting-plan">here</a> to sign up now.</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 23 Nov 2020 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That’s right!  Today we’re going to be talking about systems.  And yes, I know systems are boring.  But they are truly the foundation to not only your success but for your team as well.</p><p>The cheeseburger method doesn’t mean you send the same video to every single prospect - but it does mean having the resources in place to confidently take the next step with them.</p><p>So let’s dive in!  Today we will cover:</p><ul><li>What resources you should always have in place</li><li>How to get these systems set up</li><li>How to avoid coming across as robotic with these systems in place.</li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.</p><p>Hey - have you grabbed my 5 post plan?  Click <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/posting-plan">here</a> to sign up now.</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>I invited 10 of my friends to set up their Pop Up Shop in my home. Each of my extraordinary friends either was partnered with a direct sales/Network Marketing business or had a product of her own. </p><p>Instead of the traditional ordering- we did “make and take” fun packages. </p><p>Ten women and each of us invited at least 20 friends. </p><p>Want to learn the specifics?  You’ll have to listen in!  We’ll be covering:</p><ul><li>How to set up your pop up shop</li><li>How to set this up completely online </li><li>How to use this to bring in new leads</li></ul><p>Are you excited yet?  I know I am.  If you want to learn more, make sure you join us in Camp Elevate by clicking <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a>.  I’m going to be giving a step-by-step presentation this week!</p><p>Hey - have you grabbed my 5 post plan?  Click <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/posting-plan">here</a> to sign up now.</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I invited 10 of my friends to set up their Pop Up Shop in my home. Each of my extraordinary friends either was partnered with a direct sales/Network Marketing business or had a product of her own. </p><p>Instead of the traditional ordering- we did “make and take” fun packages. </p><p>Ten women and each of us invited at least 20 friends. </p><p>Want to learn the specifics?  You’ll have to listen in!  We’ll be covering:</p><ul><li>How to set up your pop up shop</li><li>How to set this up completely online </li><li>How to use this to bring in new leads</li></ul><p>Are you excited yet?  I know I am.  If you want to learn more, make sure you join us in Camp Elevate by clicking <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a>.  I’m going to be giving a step-by-step presentation this week!</p><p>Hey - have you grabbed my 5 post plan?  Click <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/posting-plan">here</a> to sign up now.</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>For my entire life, I was told that being who I am is wrong and that I needed to change.  That never really sat very well with me.  When I stumbled upon Jessica, I learned that I was doing it all wrong.  Jessica teaches us to be unapologetically who we are - and why it’s SO important that we embrace this.  </p><p>When we embrace being our unapologetic true selves, it opens the doors to all the things.  Happy life, happy relationships, and yep, you guessed it - more money and successful businesses!</p><p>So, let’s dive in.  Today we’re going to talk about:</p><ul><li>The importance of Myers-Briggs and finding out your personality type.  (Take Jessica’s quiz <a href="https://jessicabutts.com/front-seat-life-personality-assessment/">here</a>)</li><li>Using your personality type to guide your life</li><li>Why you shouldn’t do stuff you suck at (Discover your brilliance!)</li><li>Resources to help you be your unapologetic self!</li></ul><p>This is life-changing content my friend - tag me on Instagram and let me know how you can start being Unapologetically YOU!</p><p>Take Jessica’s free Core Values Exercise <a href="https://jessicabutts.com/corevalues/">here</a>. </p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Live-Your-Life-Front-Seat/dp/0989704955">Click here</a> to grab a copy of Jessica’s book, Life Your Life From the Front Seat.</p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dont-Stuff-You-Suck-Entrepreneurs/dp/0999288407/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=jessica+butts&qid=1604764909&s=books&sr=1-1">Click here</a> to grab a copy of Jessica’s book, Don’t Do Stuff You Suck At.</p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Be-Unapologetically-Who-You-Are/dp/0999288490/ref=sr_1_3?dchild=1&keywords=jessica+butts&qid=1604764118&s=books&sr=1-3">Click here</a> to grab a copy of Jessica’s journal, Be Unapologetically Who You Are.</p><p><a href="https://jessicabutts.com/fsl-15/">Click here</a> to check out Jessica’s <a href="https://jessicabutts.com/lu/">Live Unapologetically Course</a>!</p><p>Connect with Jessica on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/FrontSeatLife/">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/frontseatlife/">Instagram</a> | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/frontseatsquad">Front Seat Squad</a></p><p>Have you grabbed my 5 post plan?  Click <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/posting-plan">here</a> to sign up now.</p><p>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 9 Nov 2020 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For my entire life, I was told that being who I am is wrong and that I needed to change.  That never really sat very well with me.  When I stumbled upon Jessica, I learned that I was doing it all wrong.  Jessica teaches us to be unapologetically who we are - and why it’s SO important that we embrace this.  </p><p>When we embrace being our unapologetic true selves, it opens the doors to all the things.  Happy life, happy relationships, and yep, you guessed it - more money and successful businesses!</p><p>So, let’s dive in.  Today we’re going to talk about:</p><ul><li>The importance of Myers-Briggs and finding out your personality type.  (Take Jessica’s quiz <a href="https://jessicabutts.com/front-seat-life-personality-assessment/">here</a>)</li><li>Using your personality type to guide your life</li><li>Why you shouldn’t do stuff you suck at (Discover your brilliance!)</li><li>Resources to help you be your unapologetic self!</li></ul><p>This is life-changing content my friend - tag me on Instagram and let me know how you can start being Unapologetically YOU!</p><p>Take Jessica’s free Core Values Exercise <a href="https://jessicabutts.com/corevalues/">here</a>. </p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Live-Your-Life-Front-Seat/dp/0989704955">Click here</a> to grab a copy of Jessica’s book, Life Your Life From the Front Seat.</p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Dont-Stuff-You-Suck-Entrepreneurs/dp/0999288407/ref=sr_1_1?dchild=1&keywords=jessica+butts&qid=1604764909&s=books&sr=1-1">Click here</a> to grab a copy of Jessica’s book, Don’t Do Stuff You Suck At.</p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Be-Unapologetically-Who-You-Are/dp/0999288490/ref=sr_1_3?dchild=1&keywords=jessica+butts&qid=1604764118&s=books&sr=1-3">Click here</a> to grab a copy of Jessica’s journal, Be Unapologetically Who You Are.</p><p><a href="https://jessicabutts.com/fsl-15/">Click here</a> to check out Jessica’s <a href="https://jessicabutts.com/lu/">Live Unapologetically Course</a>!</p><p>Connect with Jessica on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/FrontSeatLife/">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/frontseatlife/">Instagram</a> | <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/frontseatsquad">Front Seat Squad</a></p><p>Have you grabbed my 5 post plan?  Click <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/posting-plan">here</a> to sign up now.</p><p>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <itunes:title>63-Live Your Life From the Front Seat With Jessica Butts</itunes:title>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Julie has cracked the code on YouTube and she’s sharing her discoveries with us today.  We both agree that your business is never “set to autopilot” but these strategies will help you with your day to day marketing in an incredible way.</p><p><strong>How would it feel to open your email and see the following:</strong></p><p>Congratulations!  You have a new customer order!</p><p>Congratulations!  You have a new customer order!</p><p>Congratulations!  You have a new Brand Partner!</p><p>Congratulations!  You have a new Brand Partner!</p><p>I’m guessing you’d feel pretty amazing.  Listen in today and start implementing these tactics in your business TODAY.  </p><p>The Six Figure Club opens on November 8th.  If you didn’t get a chance to check it out, you can still sneak in <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/6-figure-club">here</a>.  </p><p>Click <a href="https://nobosstalk.krtra.com/t/KYmXjuUwqWrK">here</a> to sign up for Julie’s FREE webinar.  Click <a href="https://nobosstalk.krtra.com/t/Um13wKr5uEoQ">here</a> to check out her YouTube course.</p><p>Have you grabbed my 5 post plan?  Click <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/posting-plan">here</a> to sign up now.</p><p>Have you joined us in Camp Elevate?  If not, click <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campelevatewithbethgraves">here</a> to join an amazing community of women just like you now.</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 2 Nov 2020 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>We’re going to go over the difference between:</p><ol><li>Spamela Pamela (I hope you aren’t her - but if you are, we will work on it in this episode!</li><li>Attraction Only Amanda</li><li>Just Right Jackie</li></ol><p>It’s my hope that you’re already a Just Right Jackie, but chances are you aren’t - after all if that were the case, we’d all be top earners and wouldn’t need to hear about sales secrets, right?</p><p>Jackie KNOWS that her community is looking for the solutions that she offers. She’s consistent. She’s confident and she’s ROCKING business and life.  Isn’t that what we all want?  Today I’ll share secrets on how you can get there, too.</p><p>My brand new program kicks off November 8th: </p><p>Ready for 10k months?</p><p>The Six Figure Club is an all-inclusive online business club for your network marketing/direct sales business.  Training, coaching, systems, resources, and tools and a community of mission-driven extraordinary women. </p><p>I’d love to welcome you to the Six Figure Club!  <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/six-figure-club">Click here</a> to learn more.</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 26 Oct 2020 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>With permission (but she has chosen to remain anonymous) I am sharing a text from a dear friend. </p><p>“I completely lost it last night. I found myself with my head buried in my pillow and feeling beyond frustrated and the tears wouldn’t stop.  Another rank advancement for someone who got started two years after me. I feel like I am doing all of the right things. Nobody wants it like me. I just don’t get it!”  </p><p>She was sure that the system was broken or that perhaps the universe was playing favorites…..I shared with her the cold hard truth - you’ll have to tune in to hear what that truth is!  Be sure to tag me on Instagram and let me know what it is - I have new Boss gear to give away this week!</p><p>Here’s what I want you to know: </p><p>You can have it all - but it takes work. </p><p>The Six Figure Club is an all-inclusive online business club for your network marketing/direct sales business.  Training, coaching, systems, resources, and tools and a community of mission-driven extraordinary women. </p><p>I’d love to welcome you to the Six Figure Club!  <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/six-figure-club">Click here</a> to learn more.</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 19 Oct 2020 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>With permission (but she has chosen to remain anonymous) I am sharing a text from a dear friend. </p><p>“I completely lost it last night. I found myself with my head buried in my pillow and feeling beyond frustrated and the tears wouldn’t stop.  Another rank advancement for someone who got started two years after me. I feel like I am doing all of the right things. Nobody wants it like me. I just don’t get it!”  </p><p>She was sure that the system was broken or that perhaps the universe was playing favorites…..I shared with her the cold hard truth - you’ll have to tune in to hear what that truth is!  Be sure to tag me on Instagram and let me know what it is - I have new Boss gear to give away this week!</p><p>Here’s what I want you to know: </p><p>You can have it all - but it takes work. </p><p>The Six Figure Club is an all-inclusive online business club for your network marketing/direct sales business.  Training, coaching, systems, resources, and tools and a community of mission-driven extraordinary women. </p><p>I’d love to welcome you to the Six Figure Club!  <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/six-figure-club">Click here</a> to learn more.</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>We will be covering all kinds of topics in this LIVE Q&A.  From the power of Facebook Lives, to content strategy, ideal clients, and more - make sure you grab your notebook and write down your ideas!</p><p>This episode will get you ready for my Monetize Your Message Masterclass that kicks off today in Camp Elevate at 12 PM EST!  We will cover:</p><ul><li>Your CEO Shift</li><li>Solidifying Your Niche</li><li>Getting your message out there</li><li>The Power Map Method™</li></ul><p>Here’s what I want you to know: </p><p>You CAN transform your business. </p><p>The Monetize Your Message Masterclass WILL give you some very specific tools that will help. </p><p>Ready to Monetize Your Message?  Sign up for my free 5 Day Masterclass <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/masterclass">here</a>!</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <itunes:summary>Have you thought, “Why do other people make this business so easy?”

And you are signing up for Masterclasses like mine to figure out WHAT in the heck is it that you are missing. I recorded this episode to give you a breakdown of what is going to happen in the upcoming masterclass.  
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Have you thought, “Maybe this isn’t for me?”</p><p>How about we SHIFT that to this: “I’ve got thousands of women to serve!”</p><p>This week’s episode relates your super fan following to a red carpet.</p><p>When you think about having a superfan following - you probably think that you need to have thousands… that’s not the case.  You need to be THE person that your fans know to go to for whatever it is that you are selling.  When they read your content, listen to your lives or see your stories they think, “She GETS me!”</p><p>When you really start to understand who your customer is- your business, impact, and mission will begin to grow. </p><p>In this episode you will learn:</p><ul><li>How to find your passion, and use that to find your niche</li><li>Why it matters that you love what you do</li><li>How to solidify and actually talk to your base</li><li>When to lean into your superfans once you have found them</li><li>Using your own superpower to make your business take off</li></ul><p>Want to know my superpower? Helping you to connect the dots. Guiding you to solidify your niche and showing you HOW your Network Marketing business, Direct Sales business can fall into place in a way that you’ve NEVER dreamed. </p><p>This week’s podcast will give you a nudge.</p><p>Ready to Monetize Your Message?  Sign up for my free 5 Day Masterclass <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/masterclass">here</a>!</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you thought, “Maybe this isn’t for me?”</p><p>How about we SHIFT that to this: “I’ve got thousands of women to serve!”</p><p>This week’s episode relates your super fan following to a red carpet.</p><p>When you think about having a superfan following - you probably think that you need to have thousands… that’s not the case.  You need to be THE person that your fans know to go to for whatever it is that you are selling.  When they read your content, listen to your lives or see your stories they think, “She GETS me!”</p><p>When you really start to understand who your customer is- your business, impact, and mission will begin to grow. </p><p>In this episode you will learn:</p><ul><li>How to find your passion, and use that to find your niche</li><li>Why it matters that you love what you do</li><li>How to solidify and actually talk to your base</li><li>When to lean into your superfans once you have found them</li><li>Using your own superpower to make your business take off</li></ul><p>Want to know my superpower? Helping you to connect the dots. Guiding you to solidify your niche and showing you HOW your Network Marketing business, Direct Sales business can fall into place in a way that you’ve NEVER dreamed. </p><p>This week’s podcast will give you a nudge.</p><p>Ready to Monetize Your Message?  Sign up for my free 5 Day Masterclass <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/masterclass">here</a>!</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Sep 2020 10:00:26 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Quitting.  The reality is, most people never see a business through to the success that it could be.  They give up.  And it isn't because they didn't have time to post every day.  The problem isn't with your vision, your consistency, or your effort.</p><p>The problem likely lies in your beliefs.  You know the ones - the little gremlin thoughts reminding you every day that you aren't good enough, that you'll never succeed, and who are you to even do this, anyway?</p><p>We all have them.  Mastering them is the key to success.  Let's talk about how you can do that.</p><p>On today's episode we'll cover:</p><p>- The importance of being coachable</p><p>- The steps you can take daily to manage those negative thoughts </p><p>- Shiny Squirrel Syndrome (yes, it's a real thing!)</p><p> </p><p>Have you joined us in Camp?  Click <a href="http://thecampelevategroup.com">here</a> to join now!</p><p>Ready to Recruit Your Dream Team?  Sign up for my free 5 Day Posting Plan <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10-ways">here</a>!</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 2020 10:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this podcast, Jessie breaks down all the details on how she got to where she is.  Her death-defying race car career, losing herself and her drive, and the moment in her basement when her entire life flipped around.  She got her mojo back- and she helps women find theirs. </p><p>We dive into the RUSH system, what it means, and how it is a complete lifestyle overhaul. </p><p>You will hear about her experience with network marketing and how she rose to the top 1% in sales… because she doesn’t sell like everyone else.  She does it better. </p><p>You will learn the importance of staying true to yourself, and your principles while building your network- as well as hear her thoughts on juggling her family life and her multiple successful businesses. </p><p>Listen and learn: </p><ul><li>The RUSH system and how it can change your life</li><li>How to look at challenges and, more importantly, how to apply those lessons to move forward.</li><li>Understanding the principles of true network marketing, and how to leverage those principles to help your business take off. </li></ul><p>Make sure you are taking notes- this episode will blow you away!</p><p>We did a PART 2 over on Jessie’s Podcast which is right <a href="https://www.jessieharrisbouton.com/podcast">here</a></p><p>Have you joined us in Camp?  Click <a href="http://thecampelevategroup.com">here</a> to join now!</p><p>Ready to Recruit Your Dream Team?  Sign up for my free 5 Day Posting Plan <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10-ways">here</a></p><p> </p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 2020 10:00:44 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today I’m thrilled to bring my friend - author and business owner Kimmy Brooke onto the show.  Kimmy has an inspirational story to tell - one that will hopefully motivate you today to go after your dreams - and go ALL IN.  </p><p>Many of us, when we start our networking marketing journey, just dip our toes in the pool - Kimmy knew that wouldn’t work for her if she wanted to achieve her dreams.  So she went all in.  And guess what?  Yep - it took 4 years, but Kimmy now has the business she’s always dreamed of.  </p><p>Here’s what you’ll learn today:</p><ul><li>Why most of us don’t have a big lightning crash moment telling us we’re on the right path</li><li>What if you STOPPED focusing on SALES and became solution-driven?</li><li>What if your business could feel completely and totally aligned with your mission?</li><li>What happened with Kimmy took the “no matter what” mindset in her business</li><li>There are women out there looking for YOUR solution</li></ul><p>I hope Kimmy’s story will inspire you - it inspires me!  Take some time to get really clear on where you’ll be in 2024.  Figure out what’s getting in your way and what you need to do to make it happen.  Then, most importantly - commit and go ALL IN.</p><p> </p><p>Have you joined us in Camp?  Click <a href="http://thecampelevategroup.com">here</a> to join now!</p><p>Ready to Recruit Your Dream Team?  Sign up for my free 5 Day Posting Plan <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10-ways">here</a>!</p><p>Connect with Kimmy:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/kimmybrookefanpage/">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/instakimmybrooke/">Instagram</a></p><p>Buy Kimmy’s book:</p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Kimmy-Brookes-Four-Career%C2%AE-Women-ebook/dp/B07VPRDBW6/ref=tmm_kin_swatch_0?_encoding=UTF8&qid=1598714940&sr=8-1">The Four Year Career</a> by Kimmy Brooke</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook </a>| <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>It’s officially been a year, my friends!  This podcast had been a dream of mine for a long time and I’m so proud of how far I’ve come.  It all happened because I made a decision.  I made a decision to stop doubting myself.  Because let me tell you, I was filled with it!</p><p>So today, we’ll be talking about doubt and why it’s the killer of so many dreams.  It’s all about getting rid of all of the BS garbage in your head and embracing the incredible power that we have to change, shift, and begin the climb.</p><p>Here’s what you’ll learn today:</p><ul><li>How you can learn from my struggle with doubt</li><li>Mindset shifts to push you forward</li><li>Why mastering mindset shifts to rid yourself of doubt is critical to success</li><li>What you can do today to work on your mindset</li><li>What possibilities open up when you master your mindset</li></ul><p>To celebrate the one year anniversary of this podcast, I’m giving away a $100 Amazon gift card to one lucky listener!  All you have to do is <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/youre-not-the-boss-of-me/id1475175551#see-all/reviews">leave a review</a> on iTunes and I’ll randomly pick a winner!  That’s it - good luck!</p><p>Have you joined us in Camp?  Click <a href="http://thecampelevategroup.com">here</a> to join now!</p><p>Ready to make more sales?  Sign up for my free 10 Ways to Get More Sales <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10-ways">guide</a> now!</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Creating a marketing plan can sound overwhelming - but it doesn’t have to be.  On today’s episode, I’m going to walk you through exactly how I create my weekly marketing plan.  If you’re consistent and follow this plan every week, you will be amazed by the results that you see.</p><p>You will be surprised to learn that this process is not all about posting testimonials and pictures of the product that you sell.  This process is all about connecting, bringing the prospects to you, and most of all - solving a problem for your ideal customer.  By solving this problem, you’ll create trust and a connection that will sell your product for you.</p><p>Are you ready?  Let’s dive in.  Today we’ll be talking about:</p><ul><li>Why it’s not necessary to send the “hey girl” DMs</li><li>How to create meaningful connections with your potential customers</li><li>How to bring the prospects directly to you</li><li>The step-by-step posting plan I use weekly</li><li>Most importantly - how to take the overwhelm out of content marketing!</li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp?  Click <a href="http://thecampelevategroup.com">here</a> to join now!</p><p>Ready to make more sales?  Sign up for my free 10 Ways to Get More Sales <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10-ways">guide</a> now!</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Aug 2020 10:00:36 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Creating a marketing plan can sound overwhelming - but it doesn’t have to be.  On today’s episode, I’m going to walk you through exactly how I create my weekly marketing plan.  If you’re consistent and follow this plan every week, you will be amazed by the results that you see.</p><p>You will be surprised to learn that this process is not all about posting testimonials and pictures of the product that you sell.  This process is all about connecting, bringing the prospects to you, and most of all - solving a problem for your ideal customer.  By solving this problem, you’ll create trust and a connection that will sell your product for you.</p><p>Are you ready?  Let’s dive in.  Today we’ll be talking about:</p><ul><li>Why it’s not necessary to send the “hey girl” DMs</li><li>How to create meaningful connections with your potential customers</li><li>How to bring the prospects directly to you</li><li>The step-by-step posting plan I use weekly</li><li>Most importantly - how to take the overwhelm out of content marketing!</li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp?  Click <a href="http://thecampelevategroup.com">here</a> to join now!</p><p>Ready to make more sales?  Sign up for my free 10 Ways to Get More Sales <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10-ways">guide</a> now!</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <itunes:summary>This episode shares just one of the posting strategies that I’ve tested and use often - I walk you through how to create content (Your posts) that will PULL your ideal “Emily” to your business. 
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>“Life is too short to worry about what people who exist in a free app in your phone think of you.”</p><p>Having a business is a LOT about mindset and handling goals as they come up.  Comparing yourself and your business to others in a negative way never ends well.  It’s a cycle of self-destructive behavior… but the good news is- it doesn’t have to be like that.  </p><p>There are always going to be obstacles - no matter what you do or where you go.  You are in charge of your own race.  Learning to be your own person, standing on your own two feet, and leaving the blame game far behind you- that’s how you get ahead. </p><p>Here are a few of the things you are going to learn this week:</p><ul><li>How to utilize self-care to better perform in your business</li><li>Have clear goals</li><li>Why educating yourself is so important</li><li>Have confidence in what you are doing</li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp?  Click <a href="http://thecampelevategroup.com">here</a> to join now!</p><p>Ready to make more sales?  Sign up for my free 10 Ways to Get More Sales <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10-ways">guide</a> now!</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 10 Aug 2020 10:00:32 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>“Life is too short to worry about what people who exist in a free app in your phone think of you.”</p><p>Having a business is a LOT about mindset and handling goals as they come up.  Comparing yourself and your business to others in a negative way never ends well.  It’s a cycle of self-destructive behavior… but the good news is- it doesn’t have to be like that.  </p><p>There are always going to be obstacles - no matter what you do or where you go.  You are in charge of your own race.  Learning to be your own person, standing on your own two feet, and leaving the blame game far behind you- that’s how you get ahead. </p><p>Here are a few of the things you are going to learn this week:</p><ul><li>How to utilize self-care to better perform in your business</li><li>Have clear goals</li><li>Why educating yourself is so important</li><li>Have confidence in what you are doing</li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp?  Click <a href="http://thecampelevategroup.com">here</a> to join now!</p><p>Ready to make more sales?  Sign up for my free 10 Ways to Get More Sales <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10-ways">guide</a> now!</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook</a> | <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>If there’s one thing that network marketers and online business owners can agree on, it’s that you need to grow your list of qualified people that want what you have.</p><p>Your list is the most important thing in your arsenal.  These are your people … your customers … your paycheck.  The question is - how do you fill your list with people that feel connected to you enough to consider buying from you?</p><p>There’s no better way to build your list than through social media - especially Facebook Groups. It’s important to go about it the right way - or you’re going to end up with an empty inbox and no one on your list.  </p><p>The way that you communicate matters - every detail.  When you get this system down, your list will grow.  On today’s episode, we’ll go over the exact method I use to get people on my list and figure out where you could be going wrong.  </p><p>Let’s build your list!</p><p>Here’s what we’ll cover:</p><ul><li>Why it’s important to keep spearfishing out of Facebook Groups</li><li>Why you need to be spending at least an hour a day connecting</li><li>How to have an authentic conversation</li><li>What groups you need to join that make sense for you</li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp?  Click <a href="http://thecampelevategroup.com">here</a> to join now!</p><p>Ready to start making more sales?  Grab my free guide, <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10-ways">10 Ways to Make More Sales</a>, and get started today!</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook </a>| <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 3 Aug 2020 10:00:12 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If there’s one thing that network marketers and online business owners can agree on, it’s that you need to grow your list of qualified people that want what you have.</p><p>Your list is the most important thing in your arsenal.  These are your people … your customers … your paycheck.  The question is - how do you fill your list with people that feel connected to you enough to consider buying from you?</p><p>There’s no better way to build your list than through social media - especially Facebook Groups. It’s important to go about it the right way - or you’re going to end up with an empty inbox and no one on your list.  </p><p>The way that you communicate matters - every detail.  When you get this system down, your list will grow.  On today’s episode, we’ll go over the exact method I use to get people on my list and figure out where you could be going wrong.  </p><p>Let’s build your list!</p><p>Here’s what we’ll cover:</p><ul><li>Why it’s important to keep spearfishing out of Facebook Groups</li><li>Why you need to be spending at least an hour a day connecting</li><li>How to have an authentic conversation</li><li>What groups you need to join that make sense for you</li></ul><p>Have you joined us in Camp?  Click <a href="http://thecampelevategroup.com">here</a> to join now!</p><p>Ready to start making more sales?  Grab my free guide, <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10-ways">10 Ways to Make More Sales</a>, and get started today!</p><p>Connect with me on social:</p><p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/bhgraves">Facebook </a>| <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">Instagram </a></p>
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      <itunes:title>49-Using Facebook to Build Your MLM</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>If there’s one thing that network marketers and online business owners can agree on, it’s that you need to grow your list of qualified people that want what you have.  Today I&apos;m going to show you how to build that list.
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>HERE’S WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:</strong></p><p>1. Sampling can open or re-open doors to conversations that may never have opened.</p><p>2. The success path for a sampling experience is the BIGGEST key to the success.</p><p>3. The sampling blitz Plan of Action is revealed.</p><p>4. How a community for your sampler can be your best recruiting tool.</p><p><strong>FEATURED ON THE SHOW:</strong></p><p>•  Follow me on FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">here</a><br />•  Come hang with me on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">@bethholdengraves</a><br />•  Join our FREE community <a href="http://thecampelevategroup.com/" target="_blank">here</a> for women like YOU wanting to ELEVATE their business (And ALL things)</p><p><strong>Grab my FREE guide 10 Ways to get More Sales FAST </strong><a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/tenways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/tenways</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 27 Jul 2020 07:22:17 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/48-the-sampling-success-plan-iyNOi9_6</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>HERE’S WHAT YOU WILL LEARN:</strong></p><p>1. Sampling can open or re-open doors to conversations that may never have opened.</p><p>2. The success path for a sampling experience is the BIGGEST key to the success.</p><p>3. The sampling blitz Plan of Action is revealed.</p><p>4. How a community for your sampler can be your best recruiting tool.</p><p><strong>FEATURED ON THE SHOW:</strong></p><p>•  Follow me on FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">here</a><br />•  Come hang with me on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">@bethholdengraves</a><br />•  Join our FREE community <a href="http://thecampelevategroup.com/" target="_blank">here</a> for women like YOU wanting to ELEVATE their business (And ALL things)</p><p><strong>Grab my FREE guide 10 Ways to get More Sales FAST </strong><a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/tenways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/tenways</a></p>
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      <itunes:summary>What can we learn from the samples offered at Costco? If we are given the option to try a product, we just may become a loyal customer. Sampling, when done with a success path and intention can lead to massive team growth.  When done incorrectly, it is like throwing money out the window.  

The top earner on my personal team started with a sample. Her saying YES, created massive momentum and that momentum is what gave me the belief in what ONE person saying YES can do for a business. 

What is the way that you can create a massive wave of momentum? A team sampling blitz and a success path for your prospects. In this episode, I walk you through these exact steps.
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      <itunes:subtitle>What can we learn from the samples offered at Costco? If we are given the option to try a product, we just may become a loyal customer. Sampling, when done with a success path and intention can lead to massive team growth.  When done incorrectly, it is like throwing money out the window.  

The top earner on my personal team started with a sample. Her saying YES, created massive momentum and that momentum is what gave me the belief in what ONE person saying YES can do for a business. 

What is the way that you can create a massive wave of momentum? A team sampling blitz and a success path for your prospects. In this episode, I walk you through these exact steps.
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>1. It’s about committing to the plan, the goal or the journey and not turning back.</p><p>2. Comparison will ROB you from your dreams- Find what you want to accomplish and figure out a plan achieve that result</p><p>3. Analysis paralysis can stop you from creating what you crave!</p><p>4. Happy 20th Birthday to Mackenzie Graves (Mom pitch!)</p><p> </p><p>Grab my FREE guide 10 Ways to get More Sales FAST <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/tenways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/tenways</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>FEATURED ON THE SHOW:</strong></p><p>•  Follow me on FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">here</a><br />•  Come hang with me on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">@bethholdengraves</a><br />•  Join our FREE community <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074" target="_blank">here</a> for women like YOU wanting to ELEVATE their business (And ALL things)</p><p> </p><p><strong>DOWNLOAD THE TRANSCRIPTION HERE:</strong><br /><a href="">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/episode47-transcription</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DID IT AIR...</strong><br />July 20, 2020</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 20 Jul 2020 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/47-the-mackenzie-method-to-achieving-your-big-goals-HMInV82T</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>1. It’s about committing to the plan, the goal or the journey and not turning back.</p><p>2. Comparison will ROB you from your dreams- Find what you want to accomplish and figure out a plan achieve that result</p><p>3. Analysis paralysis can stop you from creating what you crave!</p><p>4. Happy 20th Birthday to Mackenzie Graves (Mom pitch!)</p><p> </p><p>Grab my FREE guide 10 Ways to get More Sales FAST <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/tenways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/tenways</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>FEATURED ON THE SHOW:</strong></p><p>•  Follow me on FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">here</a><br />•  Come hang with me on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">@bethholdengraves</a><br />•  Join our FREE community <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074" target="_blank">here</a> for women like YOU wanting to ELEVATE their business (And ALL things)</p><p> </p><p><strong>DOWNLOAD THE TRANSCRIPTION HERE:</strong><br /><a href="">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/episode47-transcription</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DID IT AIR...</strong><br />July 20, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:title>47-The Mackenzie Method to Achieving Your BIG GOALS</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>Hey Bosses,

How can you compare bringing home a new baby (I did that 20 years ago from today’s episode) to starting a new Network Marketing business? In this episode, I indulge my momma heart as dedicate this episode to sharing the lessons learned from my daughter’s tenacity to how we build a business.

The day this episode airs, Mackenzie turns 20 years old. As I reflect on how she has navigating challenges and goals for her whole life it occurred to me: All we need to know about building a business we can learn from a 4 year old determined to swim 25 yards.

Somehow along the way, we lose site of how minimize the distractions, the doubts and most of all- BELIEF.  What if building a business of your dreams could happen if you let go of the clutter that’s been created from years of stories we’ve told ourselves?
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      <itunes:subtitle>Hey Bosses,

How can you compare bringing home a new baby (I did that 20 years ago from today’s episode) to starting a new Network Marketing business? In this episode, I indulge my momma heart as dedicate this episode to sharing the lessons learned from my daughter’s tenacity to how we build a business.

The day this episode airs, Mackenzie turns 20 years old. As I reflect on how she has navigating challenges and goals for her whole life it occurred to me: All we need to know about building a business we can learn from a 4 year old determined to swim 25 yards.

Somehow along the way, we lose site of how minimize the distractions, the doubts and most of all- BELIEF.  What if building a business of your dreams could happen if you let go of the clutter that’s been created from years of stories we’ve told ourselves?
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      <title>46-The Social Media Formula by Marie Forleo (With a Network Marketing Twist)</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:</strong></p><p>•   The MAP in 60 Seconds (This is a new feature on the show!) I give you one tip from the Millionaire Action Plan for Network Marketers and this week it is how to organize your new contacts on your list</p><p>•   How to NEVER feel awkward and “fake” on Social Media but show up as YOU (And connect like a queen)</p><p>•   The Five categories to post that will keep your content calendar full (And you won’t be staring at your phone with that “What do I post today face!”</p><p>Grab my FREE guide 10 Ways to get More Sales FAST <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/tenways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/tenways</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>FEATURED ON THE SHOW:</strong></p><p>•  Follow me on FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">here</a></p><p>•  Come hang with me on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">@bethholdengraves</a></p><p>•  Join our FREE community <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074" target="_blank">here</a> for women like YOU wanting to ELEVATE their business (And ALL things)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong><br />July 13, 2020</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 13 Jul 2020 09:40:12 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>WHAT YOU’LL LEARN IN THIS EPISODE:</strong></p><p>•   The MAP in 60 Seconds (This is a new feature on the show!) I give you one tip from the Millionaire Action Plan for Network Marketers and this week it is how to organize your new contacts on your list</p><p>•   How to NEVER feel awkward and “fake” on Social Media but show up as YOU (And connect like a queen)</p><p>•   The Five categories to post that will keep your content calendar full (And you won’t be staring at your phone with that “What do I post today face!”</p><p>Grab my FREE guide 10 Ways to get More Sales FAST <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/tenways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/tenways</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>FEATURED ON THE SHOW:</strong></p><p>•  Follow me on FB: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">here</a></p><p>•  Come hang with me on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">@bethholdengraves</a></p><p>•  Join our FREE community <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074" target="_blank">here</a> for women like YOU wanting to ELEVATE their business (And ALL things)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong><br />July 13, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:title>46-The Social Media Formula by Marie Forleo (With a Network Marketing Twist)</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>Beth Holden Graves</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>00:25:16</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Gone are the days of the before and after non-stop posts or the perfect filtered &quot;look at me&quot; social media posts. Don&apos;t get me wrong, there are MANY who are still at it and many are successful. Here&apos;s what I want for YOU. I want YOU to be connecting authentically and showing up in a way that doesn&apos;t feel like &quot;baiting&quot; for a lead or someone stole your phone. Here&apos;s the deal: When you share content in a way that SERVES you will have people happy to support you when you ask for them to buy your product or share your service. 

In this episode, I am going to share a strategy I learned from Marie Forleo to open the flood gate to ideas to post on your social channels. The KEY is to always ask yourself this question: 

If my new friend from my Keto Recipe group where to stumble on my FB profile, would she find it inviting, entertaining and would she want to engage and share? Would she know my personality, or would she just see a filtered version of me? Remember: Content that serves sells. 

Join me today as I outline for you FIVE categories of social media that will help you to connect, serve and ultimately GROW your business (And connect with cool people!) 

I&apos;m outlining a strategy that I learned from Marie Forleo, who is one of the first online entrepreneurs to introduce the concept of CONTENT that serves and connects. (I give you a little Network Marketing Spin!)

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      <itunes:subtitle>Gone are the days of the before and after non-stop posts or the perfect filtered &quot;look at me&quot; social media posts. Don&apos;t get me wrong, there are MANY who are still at it and many are successful. Here&apos;s what I want for YOU. I want YOU to be connecting authentically and showing up in a way that doesn&apos;t feel like &quot;baiting&quot; for a lead or someone stole your phone. Here&apos;s the deal: When you share content in a way that SERVES you will have people happy to support you when you ask for them to buy your product or share your service. 

In this episode, I am going to share a strategy I learned from Marie Forleo to open the flood gate to ideas to post on your social channels. The KEY is to always ask yourself this question: 

If my new friend from my Keto Recipe group where to stumble on my FB profile, would she find it inviting, entertaining and would she want to engage and share? Would she know my personality, or would she just see a filtered version of me? Remember: Content that serves sells. 

Join me today as I outline for you FIVE categories of social media that will help you to connect, serve and ultimately GROW your business (And connect with cool people!) 

I&apos;m outlining a strategy that I learned from Marie Forleo, who is one of the first online entrepreneurs to introduce the concept of CONTENT that serves and connects. (I give you a little Network Marketing Spin!)

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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• The Map Membership: <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/map-interest">https://www.themapmembership.com </a></p><p>•  Podcast School With Jody Colvard: <a href="http://podcastschool.com/" target="_blank">https://podcastschool.com</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>•  And I don't know if I've shared this story, but Jody, who does, she's like the creative podcast production. She helps podcasters like me share their story and their message. She's an incredible coach. And I'll put her link in the show notes. If you're looking to start a podcast or what to talk about, even your first steps and you can contact her. (3:52)</p><p>•  So there's a lot of space for you to have excuses or have ways that you think, well, I'm not quite perfectly branded yet. And I want to break down this wall to tell you that I don't know anyone that's made over a million dollars in the network marketing space who started to take mastermind courses on how to build their business and had a perfectly done YouTube channel before they started making money most get all the way to the top. (6:09)</p><p>•  If you think that having the perfect link tree and having the perfect live video and having the perfect cover photo and the perfect Instagram feed is what's holding you back. That is wrong. Now we can always improve our social media presence. We can always work on our Instagram stories and our Facebook stories to have more conversations. But most people that built didn't learn that first. (7:47)</p><p>• Do you consider yourself an open minded person when it comes to business? Okay. And now don't you dare feel bad that you are asking someone to buy something from you, because I want you to do this. And we talk about this all the time. Why do you do what you do? And how does it improve people's lives? And if it improves people's lives, my goodness, you are going to have conversations. Then we go back up to, if they say no, well, I'm not worried about what people are thinking because my business is my responsibility, right? (10:53)</p><p>•  When we are in a connection phase and I relate our business to, I was excused, either dieting or dating, right? So if you wanted to, if you were thinking, I am going to find the man of my dreams this year, and you we're entering into a, let's say, you went to an art show and a book signing and a concert, and you just sat in the back of the room and thought, I'm looking pretty hot. Someone's going to come and talk to me, maybe not, You know, and that's your social media posts, maybe you're the most fabulous person in the room, but guess what? Nobody's coming over. (14:50)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>July 06, 2020</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 6 Jul 2020 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/45-millionaire-action-plan-that-does-not-have-you-sacrificing-your-soul-qM6N_A8x</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• The Map Membership: <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/map-interest">https://www.themapmembership.com </a></p><p>•  Podcast School With Jody Colvard: <a href="http://podcastschool.com/" target="_blank">https://podcastschool.com</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>•  And I don't know if I've shared this story, but Jody, who does, she's like the creative podcast production. She helps podcasters like me share their story and their message. She's an incredible coach. And I'll put her link in the show notes. If you're looking to start a podcast or what to talk about, even your first steps and you can contact her. (3:52)</p><p>•  So there's a lot of space for you to have excuses or have ways that you think, well, I'm not quite perfectly branded yet. And I want to break down this wall to tell you that I don't know anyone that's made over a million dollars in the network marketing space who started to take mastermind courses on how to build their business and had a perfectly done YouTube channel before they started making money most get all the way to the top. (6:09)</p><p>•  If you think that having the perfect link tree and having the perfect live video and having the perfect cover photo and the perfect Instagram feed is what's holding you back. That is wrong. Now we can always improve our social media presence. We can always work on our Instagram stories and our Facebook stories to have more conversations. But most people that built didn't learn that first. (7:47)</p><p>• Do you consider yourself an open minded person when it comes to business? Okay. And now don't you dare feel bad that you are asking someone to buy something from you, because I want you to do this. And we talk about this all the time. Why do you do what you do? And how does it improve people's lives? And if it improves people's lives, my goodness, you are going to have conversations. Then we go back up to, if they say no, well, I'm not worried about what people are thinking because my business is my responsibility, right? (10:53)</p><p>•  When we are in a connection phase and I relate our business to, I was excused, either dieting or dating, right? So if you wanted to, if you were thinking, I am going to find the man of my dreams this year, and you we're entering into a, let's say, you went to an art show and a book signing and a concert, and you just sat in the back of the room and thought, I'm looking pretty hot. Someone's going to come and talk to me, maybe not, You know, and that's your social media posts, maybe you're the most fabulous person in the room, but guess what? Nobody's coming over. (14:50)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>July 06, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:title>45-Millionaire Action Plan That Does Not Have You Sacrificing Your Soul</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>Beth Holden Graves</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>00:31:48</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Welcome back to episode number 45. We are moving in on one year of the podcast and there is going to be a BIG celebration. I don&apos;t know what I&apos;m doing yet, I just announce these things and then we come up with a plan. I wish we could all get together, that would be such a dream. But that&apos;s not happening, we will have a celebration, but it will happen in Camp Elevate where all of our podcast friends hang out. I am just really, really excited for this episode today because it&apos;s just me and some thoughts that I have had this week. It started happening that I got connected with three of the company millionaires about Instagram stories, and women that have been sideline sisters of mine for six years with our company.  We all got in the magazine together, but I never really knew them personally. 

Then we happened to connect about an Instagram story app; story swag, which I am loving by the way, and I&apos;ll share a few tips with you about how I got a few orders from my stories this week. But I started to have conversations with them about daily action. And I know I talk about it endlessly, over and over again. 

And as I celebrate one year of this podcast, I want to relate the podcast to getting started with your network marketing business. And I&apos;m going to connect the dots about how to give you that daily action plan, that millionaire action plan that does not have you sacrificing your freedoms, passions, personal integrity or your soul. 
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      <itunes:subtitle>Welcome back to episode number 45. We are moving in on one year of the podcast and there is going to be a BIG celebration. I don&apos;t know what I&apos;m doing yet, I just announce these things and then we come up with a plan. I wish we could all get together, that would be such a dream. But that&apos;s not happening, we will have a celebration, but it will happen in Camp Elevate where all of our podcast friends hang out. I am just really, really excited for this episode today because it&apos;s just me and some thoughts that I have had this week. It started happening that I got connected with three of the company millionaires about Instagram stories, and women that have been sideline sisters of mine for six years with our company.  We all got in the magazine together, but I never really knew them personally. 

Then we happened to connect about an Instagram story app; story swag, which I am loving by the way, and I&apos;ll share a few tips with you about how I got a few orders from my stories this week. But I started to have conversations with them about daily action. And I know I talk about it endlessly, over and over again. 

And as I celebrate one year of this podcast, I want to relate the podcast to getting started with your network marketing business. And I&apos;m going to connect the dots about how to give you that daily action plan, that millionaire action plan that does not have you sacrificing your freedoms, passions, personal integrity or your soul. 
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      <title>44-Find Your Purpose and Prosper in All Things</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• The Map Membership: <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/map-interest">https://www.themapmembership.com </a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• When I think about the evolution of even the last six to eight months, it’s like a total 180, coming from being an administrator for over 11 years, and loving what I did, but the joy was gone. I’m like, okay, God, what am I supposed to be doing? I know I was made for more. I’ll never stop educating, because that’s just who I am. (3:15)</p><p>• You promised me a plan, to have hope and a future. I’m no longer an administrator, so what am I supposed to do now? That’s where it kind of started for me. And then, what we’ve learned in the group, what you shared in the community of women from different backgrounds, just elevated my life and also helped me to kind of fine tune where my navigation of my life, my roadmap was to go. (5:33)</p><p>• Either I’m going to believe it, or I’m not, there’s no gray in between. So when I jumped, was I afraid? Was I a little scared? Absolutely. But I know what I heard. I was driving home from Houston and I heard God said, leave your job. This is March. This is not even at the end of the school year. I put in my resignation at spring break. (6:52)</p><p>• I had to silence the noise. And in the midst of our time, right now in our world there’s a lot going on. That goes through our thoughts in what we watch, what we see, I had to silence it because if I’m truly going to step up to what I believe my faith is, I have to hear from God. I have to hear what am I supposed to be doing in the midst of all of this. And because of, you know, everybody’s on social media, more people were at home, especially educators. I wanted to start with the space that, hey, when you come over to this group, you’re going to scroll and see nothing but positivity, encouragement. (9:47)</p><p>• So how do you work through that? Without feeling like this is the piece of you’re feeling aligned, you don’t feel like, Oh, I caught you because you were in my life, and now I’m over here selling you some vitamins or some essential oils. How do you make those connections? That all of a sudden you’re like, okay, now here’s what we’re doing. How do you connect the dots as a sales woman? (14:56)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>June 29, 2020</p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• The Map Membership: <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/map-interest">https://www.themapmembership.com </a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• When I think about the evolution of even the last six to eight months, it’s like a total 180, coming from being an administrator for over 11 years, and loving what I did, but the joy was gone. I’m like, okay, God, what am I supposed to be doing? I know I was made for more. I’ll never stop educating, because that’s just who I am. (3:15)</p><p>• You promised me a plan, to have hope and a future. I’m no longer an administrator, so what am I supposed to do now? That’s where it kind of started for me. And then, what we’ve learned in the group, what you shared in the community of women from different backgrounds, just elevated my life and also helped me to kind of fine tune where my navigation of my life, my roadmap was to go. (5:33)</p><p>• Either I’m going to believe it, or I’m not, there’s no gray in between. So when I jumped, was I afraid? Was I a little scared? Absolutely. But I know what I heard. I was driving home from Houston and I heard God said, leave your job. This is March. This is not even at the end of the school year. I put in my resignation at spring break. (6:52)</p><p>• I had to silence the noise. And in the midst of our time, right now in our world there’s a lot going on. That goes through our thoughts in what we watch, what we see, I had to silence it because if I’m truly going to step up to what I believe my faith is, I have to hear from God. I have to hear what am I supposed to be doing in the midst of all of this. And because of, you know, everybody’s on social media, more people were at home, especially educators. I wanted to start with the space that, hey, when you come over to this group, you’re going to scroll and see nothing but positivity, encouragement. (9:47)</p><p>• So how do you work through that? Without feeling like this is the piece of you’re feeling aligned, you don’t feel like, Oh, I caught you because you were in my life, and now I’m over here selling you some vitamins or some essential oils. How do you make those connections? That all of a sudden you’re like, okay, now here’s what we’re doing. How do you connect the dots as a sales woman? (14:56)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>June 29, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:title>44-Find Your Purpose and Prosper in All Things</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>Beth Holden Graves</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Welcome back to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. This episode. I&apos;m so excited to be interviewing my dear friend Jennifer Bell. Jennifer has an incredible story about how when she started chasing her purpose, everything shifted for her, she was a school administrator, a principal, had spent her life in education, and suddenly she felt that she needed to have the courage to make a shift. And in this episode, we are going to dive into how chasing your purpose will help you to make more money, feel aligned and be coming from a place of joy and gratitude.

Jennifer Bell grew up in Houston, Texas and graduated from Texas Christian University with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Elementary Education and a Minor in Music. She has been married to her college sweetheart for 31 years. They have three adult children. During Jeff’s military service as a United States Air Force officer, the family experienced and lived in Belgium, Germany, Turkey, Oklahoma, California, and Texas.

Jennifer taught primary grades for over 20+ years. She received her master’s degree in Education Administration &amp; Curriculum Supervision from The University of Oklahoma and went on to complete her Principal’s Certification through Midwestern State University in Wichita Falls, Texas. She completed her educational career as an assistant high school principal and elementary school principal for three years and six years respectively.

Jennifer currently lives in Wichita Falls, Texas. She is an entrepreneur promoting health and wellness to educate and encourage the faith community to …” prosper in all things and be in health just as your soul prospers.” 3 John 2 NKJV.

So, let&apos;s get started. Here we go with Jennifer Bell:
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      <itunes:subtitle>Welcome back to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. This episode. I&apos;m so excited to be interviewing my dear friend Jennifer Bell. Jennifer has an incredible story about how when she started chasing her purpose, everything shifted for her, she was a school administrator, a principal, had spent her life in education, and suddenly she felt that she needed to have the courage to make a shift. And in this episode, we are going to dive into how chasing your purpose will help you to make more money, feel aligned and be coming from a place of joy and gratitude.

Jennifer Bell grew up in Houston, Texas and graduated from Texas Christian University with a Bachelor of Science Degree in Elementary Education and a Minor in Music. She has been married to her college sweetheart for 31 years. They have three adult children. During Jeff’s military service as a United States Air Force officer, the family experienced and lived in Belgium, Germany, Turkey, Oklahoma, California, and Texas.

Jennifer taught primary grades for over 20+ years. She received her master’s degree in Education Administration &amp; Curriculum Supervision from The University of Oklahoma and went on to complete her Principal’s Certification through Midwestern State University in Wichita Falls, Texas. She completed her educational career as an assistant high school principal and elementary school principal for three years and six years respectively.

Jennifer currently lives in Wichita Falls, Texas. She is an entrepreneur promoting health and wellness to educate and encourage the faith community to …” prosper in all things and be in health just as your soul prospers.” 3 John 2 NKJV.

So, let&apos;s get started. Here we go with Jennifer Bell:
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• The Map Membership: <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/map-interest">https://www.themapmembership.com </a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• So when you’re online dating, you don’t think every conversation is going to lead to a date…your intention, when you’re online dating is to find somebody that you’re going to have connection with, and you’re looking for a partner, or you’re looking for maybe a husband, maybe a wife, whatever, so every connection doesn’t lead to…we’re gonna go on a date. So you don’t go into the online dating profile and say, well, is it going to be tacos or chicken? (7:08)</p><p>• There’s this energy around your recruiting and it’s pretty magical. Do you want to share that secret, or is it super secret? No, I’m happy to share all the secrets, honestly, because the reason why I love to share this is because I have been there, I’ve been in the struggles, I’ve been in the trenches, I have experienced that lack of self-confidence, and that’s why I need the new tools in my tool belt and the energy that Beth is talking about is truly everything. (10:12)</p><p>• I always tell people when I’m training people, and sort of like what you say too, is your profile is your prime real estate, you want to be showing up there professionally, you want to have a nice profile picture of your face not for your dog, your face, smiling professional. This is where we want to be a network marketing, we want to give this profession a good name because it is incredible, it is an incredible industry. (15:13)</p><p>• I’m not promising success, but I am confident in what we have, and that’s the other piece too, that shifted for me in this business. Before I was like bagging anyone with a pulse to join my team, and that shift of abundance… And it’s all coming to me, and I’m doing the right thing serving my audience, I’m not in the business of convincing people to join, I want people that are motivated to join, and then I know that I can show them the way. (18:37)</p><p>• I’m not going to give up on you. That’s what I’m saying, even I follow up with you. I come from the heart, I’m not giving up on you. I know you want this, I know you’re thinking about it, and so my follow up looks like a combination of messenger, how is it going? Checking on you as a human to make sure you’re doing okay, because a lot of my follow-ups are Moms, they’re doing all the things and we’re home, some of us are in quarantine, it’s a little bit crazy, we’re about to pull out our hair, but also there is like, I get the fear. (21:52)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>June 22, 2020</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 22 Jun 2020 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• The Map Membership: <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/map-interest">https://www.themapmembership.com </a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• So when you’re online dating, you don’t think every conversation is going to lead to a date…your intention, when you’re online dating is to find somebody that you’re going to have connection with, and you’re looking for a partner, or you’re looking for maybe a husband, maybe a wife, whatever, so every connection doesn’t lead to…we’re gonna go on a date. So you don’t go into the online dating profile and say, well, is it going to be tacos or chicken? (7:08)</p><p>• There’s this energy around your recruiting and it’s pretty magical. Do you want to share that secret, or is it super secret? No, I’m happy to share all the secrets, honestly, because the reason why I love to share this is because I have been there, I’ve been in the struggles, I’ve been in the trenches, I have experienced that lack of self-confidence, and that’s why I need the new tools in my tool belt and the energy that Beth is talking about is truly everything. (10:12)</p><p>• I always tell people when I’m training people, and sort of like what you say too, is your profile is your prime real estate, you want to be showing up there professionally, you want to have a nice profile picture of your face not for your dog, your face, smiling professional. This is where we want to be a network marketing, we want to give this profession a good name because it is incredible, it is an incredible industry. (15:13)</p><p>• I’m not promising success, but I am confident in what we have, and that’s the other piece too, that shifted for me in this business. Before I was like bagging anyone with a pulse to join my team, and that shift of abundance… And it’s all coming to me, and I’m doing the right thing serving my audience, I’m not in the business of convincing people to join, I want people that are motivated to join, and then I know that I can show them the way. (18:37)</p><p>• I’m not going to give up on you. That’s what I’m saying, even I follow up with you. I come from the heart, I’m not giving up on you. I know you want this, I know you’re thinking about it, and so my follow up looks like a combination of messenger, how is it going? Checking on you as a human to make sure you’re doing okay, because a lot of my follow-ups are Moms, they’re doing all the things and we’re home, some of us are in quarantine, it’s a little bit crazy, we’re about to pull out our hair, but also there is like, I get the fear. (21:52)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>June 22, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:title>43-Comparing Recruiting, Social Media and Dating...Shhh, It&apos;s Top Secret!</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>One of the biggest questions that I get from our listeners is about recruiting. And so often I hear the words just nobody wants to do this with me, they think it&apos;s a game, it&apos;s a pyramid scheme. So much of that is the energy of belief around thinking those are the thoughts of your prospects. When you have a shift in your energy and look at what is the value, what are the incredible things that happen when someone has success with their network marketing business, that is how you become a Master recruiter. And I wanted to crawl inside the head, and I allow you to be with me as we do this, with one of the top recruiters that I know, her name is Krystan Samaniego. Krystan is my guest this week, and the really cool thing that you will hear in her voice is how she is so confident at what it is that she has to offer. It&apos;s like this, if you knew where the very best key lime pie was to be found in Key West, would you tell your friends going to Key West…Yes. Oh my gosh. It&apos;s right across from the Key Lime bike tour.

If you haven&apos;t been on a bike tour, you should go. That&apos;s my friend, Christopher Ellis. And, you will be blown away. It is the best. There is no hesitation in that because I truly believe that&apos;s the best key lime pie.

So what happens, when we start talking about our business, or we start talking about taking a look at what it looks like to build with, let&apos;s say your vitamin business, your hair care business, your essential oil business, is, you start to think, Oh my gosh, what are they going to think of me, I don&apos;t know what to say. And the energy is off.

So it&apos;s about confidence, it&apos;s about connection, it&apos;s about listening, and it&apos;s about really practicing and getting really good at it, because you believe that this is a good alternative for someone that is looking to build a side gig, or someone like me that was looking to build a business that was going to leave a legacy for my family. But I wanted to have a different model, I didn&apos;t want to have to manage all the tech and manufacture my own products, and I love people. What a great model. 

My guest Krystan Samaniego, is the creator of MORE to Motherhood, speaker, business coach and CEO of the Launch Your Six Figure Side Hustle BluePrint. She is also a busy mom of 3 and resides in Palm Beach, Florida with her husband, Regan.

So when we listen to Kristen today, you are going to hear how she has conversations, and I always say she’s like a little Jack Russell, she just grabs that tennis ball and will not let it go, but she does it in a way that&apos;s authentic and organic and I know that you&apos;re going to love this interview. So... Are you ready?
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      <itunes:subtitle>One of the biggest questions that I get from our listeners is about recruiting. And so often I hear the words just nobody wants to do this with me, they think it&apos;s a game, it&apos;s a pyramid scheme. So much of that is the energy of belief around thinking those are the thoughts of your prospects. When you have a shift in your energy and look at what is the value, what are the incredible things that happen when someone has success with their network marketing business, that is how you become a Master recruiter. And I wanted to crawl inside the head, and I allow you to be with me as we do this, with one of the top recruiters that I know, her name is Krystan Samaniego. Krystan is my guest this week, and the really cool thing that you will hear in her voice is how she is so confident at what it is that she has to offer. It&apos;s like this, if you knew where the very best key lime pie was to be found in Key West, would you tell your friends going to Key West…Yes. Oh my gosh. It&apos;s right across from the Key Lime bike tour.

If you haven&apos;t been on a bike tour, you should go. That&apos;s my friend, Christopher Ellis. And, you will be blown away. It is the best. There is no hesitation in that because I truly believe that&apos;s the best key lime pie.

So what happens, when we start talking about our business, or we start talking about taking a look at what it looks like to build with, let&apos;s say your vitamin business, your hair care business, your essential oil business, is, you start to think, Oh my gosh, what are they going to think of me, I don&apos;t know what to say. And the energy is off.

So it&apos;s about confidence, it&apos;s about connection, it&apos;s about listening, and it&apos;s about really practicing and getting really good at it, because you believe that this is a good alternative for someone that is looking to build a side gig, or someone like me that was looking to build a business that was going to leave a legacy for my family. But I wanted to have a different model, I didn&apos;t want to have to manage all the tech and manufacture my own products, and I love people. What a great model. 

My guest Krystan Samaniego, is the creator of MORE to Motherhood, speaker, business coach and CEO of the Launch Your Six Figure Side Hustle BluePrint. She is also a busy mom of 3 and resides in Palm Beach, Florida with her husband, Regan.

So when we listen to Kristen today, you are going to hear how she has conversations, and I always say she’s like a little Jack Russell, she just grabs that tennis ball and will not let it go, but she does it in a way that&apos;s authentic and organic and I know that you&apos;re going to love this interview. So... Are you ready?
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• The Map Membership: <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/map-interest">https://www.themapmembership.com </a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• They’re looking for, how do I work with someone that can help me with my authentic voice? How do I learn more about social media? How do I learn more about how to have productivity and organization in my business? How do I shift my mindset? What’s all this manifestation, meditation and abundance? How does that fit into your business. I said, I want everybody to hang out one community, I want to be able to bring the experts in, work in my area of expertise, which is a daily action plan, and also authentic branding and marketing and visibility, and growing into a growth mindset. (5:49)</p><p>• We had community, we had a plan, so I thought. Well, that’s why that was successful, even though four years ago, three years ago, whenever it was that I decided I was going to run this marathon, even though I had an app and I had bought an online course, and I did all the things, I didn’t have the community, I didn’t have a mentor that I could actually talk to. I didn’t want to have a membership group where I wasn’t talking to the members, and that’s why we’re going to have the life coaching circles. (8:59)</p><p>• A long time ago it was content, Social media content, what do I post, just a picture of me with my product, but kind of being mysterious, maybe laying it out, and then a couple of quotes, what do I post? And all of that can make sense, but I want you to think about, we had Danelle Delgado on here two weeks ago, and she does a Friday Night Live, and every single Friday night, she shows up for that live and she helps entrepreneurs with; how they set their goals, overcoming obstacles, and she brings fire every Friday night. We know we can count on her, and she’s been doing this, I think, for two to three years and her audience has grown to thousands. (12:55)</p><p>• So I want you to think about what is your consistent piece of content, and I would suggest, if you are not doing it, that it’s a Facebook Live. If you hate being live, you can also do a blog post, but I would say a Facebook live around this. I want you to think about what is your magazine cover, what is your go-to? (15:10)</p><p>• When she goes live and she might say, Listen, I wanted to be home. So that’s why I looked at a home-based business network marketing opportunity, which allows me to actually set goals with my sons, we actually work through a, if we hit this bonus, this is what we’re going to do. And she can even bring that as a part of who she is, but it’s not just like sharing a resource every now and then, it’s part of her branding. It’s part of who she is, it’s part of, maybe she’ll write a book, maybe she has a Facebook group, but it doesn’t mean that she’s taking her eye off of building the income from our network marketing business, it just makes her, literally, seriously fired up. She’s excited to share, she’s excited to connect and think about how her network will grow, but it’s consistency of the content and really, really dialing in with that message.(19:41)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>June 08, 2020</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 15 Jun 2020 08:35:15 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• The Map Membership: <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/map-interest">https://www.themapmembership.com </a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• They’re looking for, how do I work with someone that can help me with my authentic voice? How do I learn more about social media? How do I learn more about how to have productivity and organization in my business? How do I shift my mindset? What’s all this manifestation, meditation and abundance? How does that fit into your business. I said, I want everybody to hang out one community, I want to be able to bring the experts in, work in my area of expertise, which is a daily action plan, and also authentic branding and marketing and visibility, and growing into a growth mindset. (5:49)</p><p>• We had community, we had a plan, so I thought. Well, that’s why that was successful, even though four years ago, three years ago, whenever it was that I decided I was going to run this marathon, even though I had an app and I had bought an online course, and I did all the things, I didn’t have the community, I didn’t have a mentor that I could actually talk to. I didn’t want to have a membership group where I wasn’t talking to the members, and that’s why we’re going to have the life coaching circles. (8:59)</p><p>• A long time ago it was content, Social media content, what do I post, just a picture of me with my product, but kind of being mysterious, maybe laying it out, and then a couple of quotes, what do I post? And all of that can make sense, but I want you to think about, we had Danelle Delgado on here two weeks ago, and she does a Friday Night Live, and every single Friday night, she shows up for that live and she helps entrepreneurs with; how they set their goals, overcoming obstacles, and she brings fire every Friday night. We know we can count on her, and she’s been doing this, I think, for two to three years and her audience has grown to thousands. (12:55)</p><p>• So I want you to think about what is your consistent piece of content, and I would suggest, if you are not doing it, that it’s a Facebook Live. If you hate being live, you can also do a blog post, but I would say a Facebook live around this. I want you to think about what is your magazine cover, what is your go-to? (15:10)</p><p>• When she goes live and she might say, Listen, I wanted to be home. So that’s why I looked at a home-based business network marketing opportunity, which allows me to actually set goals with my sons, we actually work through a, if we hit this bonus, this is what we’re going to do. And she can even bring that as a part of who she is, but it’s not just like sharing a resource every now and then, it’s part of her branding. It’s part of who she is, it’s part of, maybe she’ll write a book, maybe she has a Facebook group, but it doesn’t mean that she’s taking her eye off of building the income from our network marketing business, it just makes her, literally, seriously fired up. She’s excited to share, she’s excited to connect and think about how her network will grow, but it’s consistency of the content and really, really dialing in with that message.(19:41)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>June 08, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:summary>Welcome back! I’m Beth, if we haven’t met yet, because I have some new listeners, which is super exciting. I really, truly believe that the network marketing business model is the most misunderstood business model of any of them out there, because, take a look at this, I had no social media experience, I had a couple hundred friends on Facebook, I had always been connecting my whole life, always been connecting, because I love talking to people. I love giving people ideas, I love having people around, so I had a lot of connections, but I didn’t really know how to sell.

And I realized that selling is sharing the stories of success, sharing the stories of success with your product, sharing the stories of success with your opportunity. But the story I wanted to tell was that after the age of 45, I wanted to say I have earned over a million dollars, and now it’s multiple seven figures. Using the network marketing model, you can absolutely, positively build a sustainable, respectful business, the right way. If you have a product that you know serves your audience, if you have a business model that you know is ethical.

If you’re annoyed at a network marketer over showing up in your inbox, show some love and grace. Send them my way, say, ‘Hey, my friend Beth has the map membership, where she’s going to teach you to show up with your authentic branding, how to ask good questions, how to actually work through the sales process without spamming your entire list of copy and paste.

And I’m going to talk about that today. And the one thing though that they said was, Well, if they come to my inbox solving a problem that I have, that’s cool, but don’t just show up and say, Hey, I’ve gotten you diet pills, and you don’t even know if you’re on a diet or, Hey, I’ve got this business opportunity. So, there’s a fine line between having conversations because we are wanting to build our business and showing up in someone’s inbox uninvited, it’s kind of like if the front screen door is open and you walk right in and you’re in the kitchen, that person hasn’t invited you to come in. There is truth to the idea that you have to have a couple, or a lot of conversations first, but let’s talk about how to have those conversations in a way that people actually put up their hands for what you have and what you do.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Welcome back! I’m Beth, if we haven’t met yet, because I have some new listeners, which is super exciting. I really, truly believe that the network marketing business model is the most misunderstood business model of any of them out there, because, take a look at this, I had no social media experience, I had a couple hundred friends on Facebook, I had always been connecting my whole life, always been connecting, because I love talking to people. I love giving people ideas, I love having people around, so I had a lot of connections, but I didn’t really know how to sell.

And I realized that selling is sharing the stories of success, sharing the stories of success with your product, sharing the stories of success with your opportunity. But the story I wanted to tell was that after the age of 45, I wanted to say I have earned over a million dollars, and now it’s multiple seven figures. Using the network marketing model, you can absolutely, positively build a sustainable, respectful business, the right way. If you have a product that you know serves your audience, if you have a business model that you know is ethical.

If you’re annoyed at a network marketer over showing up in your inbox, show some love and grace. Send them my way, say, ‘Hey, my friend Beth has the map membership, where she’s going to teach you to show up with your authentic branding, how to ask good questions, how to actually work through the sales process without spamming your entire list of copy and paste.

And I’m going to talk about that today. And the one thing though that they said was, Well, if they come to my inbox solving a problem that I have, that’s cool, but don’t just show up and say, Hey, I’ve gotten you diet pills, and you don’t even know if you’re on a diet or, Hey, I’ve got this business opportunity. So, there’s a fine line between having conversations because we are wanting to build our business and showing up in someone’s inbox uninvited, it’s kind of like if the front screen door is open and you walk right in and you’re in the kitchen, that person hasn’t invited you to come in. There is truth to the idea that you have to have a couple, or a lot of conversations first, but let’s talk about how to have those conversations in a way that people actually put up their hands for what you have and what you do.</itunes:subtitle>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• The Map Membership: <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/map-interest">https://www.themapmembership.com </a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• And I had to go into more of that mission and vision that I have of, why I want to build this out, so that it can be a valuable resource and community for those that are using the network marketing model. And, want to now more than ever how to build their business with authenticity, and where they stand, and what their message is. Knowing that you don't have to just please everybody and not stand for what you believe, and you can still build a business. (6:25)</p><p>• I thought about stopping and just taking the week off. And then the more that I realized that I can't make an impact if I'm not making more money, and not impacting more people, and the truth. And then I was receiving some beautiful messages, and you know who you are. Showing up in my inbox, and helping me and guiding me, and serving me. Telling me that together, we will rise. (8:03)</p><p>• I'm so painfully sorry for the wound that is continually being opened up for you this weekend, this week, the week before. But I want you to know from the bottom of my heart, you are welcome in this community, you are wanted in this community, your voice is wanted in this community, your stories are wanted in this community. And if I screw up, which I probably will, I want you to tell me, I'm open to hearing how I can do better. (10:49)</p><p>• Where do we start? Those are the books that we will be listing for you. We have a resource over in Camp, Elevate. Follow Black Activist Rachel Rogers, Rachel Cargle and her project, The Great Unlearning, Brittany Packnett Cunningham, Desiree Adaway, Erica Heinz, just to name a few. And like she said, you might feel defensive, you might feel uncomfortable, but we need to be quiet, and we need to be listening. And I want to end with this; it's so important to take that time to not be defensive and not over-talk but listen, and be part of the change. (11:50)</p><p>• I really want to talk about what's on my mind and Jody shared with me a really cool thing, and she said; What we have to remember is that we're a collective mindset, energetically we are all interconnected and what affects others affects us, so be mindful and be more aware of the present moment. (13:06)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>June 08, 2020</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 8 Jun 2020 07:33:30 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• The Map Membership: <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/map-interest">https://www.themapmembership.com </a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• And I had to go into more of that mission and vision that I have of, why I want to build this out, so that it can be a valuable resource and community for those that are using the network marketing model. And, want to now more than ever how to build their business with authenticity, and where they stand, and what their message is. Knowing that you don't have to just please everybody and not stand for what you believe, and you can still build a business. (6:25)</p><p>• I thought about stopping and just taking the week off. And then the more that I realized that I can't make an impact if I'm not making more money, and not impacting more people, and the truth. And then I was receiving some beautiful messages, and you know who you are. Showing up in my inbox, and helping me and guiding me, and serving me. Telling me that together, we will rise. (8:03)</p><p>• I'm so painfully sorry for the wound that is continually being opened up for you this weekend, this week, the week before. But I want you to know from the bottom of my heart, you are welcome in this community, you are wanted in this community, your voice is wanted in this community, your stories are wanted in this community. And if I screw up, which I probably will, I want you to tell me, I'm open to hearing how I can do better. (10:49)</p><p>• Where do we start? Those are the books that we will be listing for you. We have a resource over in Camp, Elevate. Follow Black Activist Rachel Rogers, Rachel Cargle and her project, The Great Unlearning, Brittany Packnett Cunningham, Desiree Adaway, Erica Heinz, just to name a few. And like she said, you might feel defensive, you might feel uncomfortable, but we need to be quiet, and we need to be listening. And I want to end with this; it's so important to take that time to not be defensive and not over-talk but listen, and be part of the change. (11:50)</p><p>• I really want to talk about what's on my mind and Jody shared with me a really cool thing, and she said; What we have to remember is that we're a collective mindset, energetically we are all interconnected and what affects others affects us, so be mindful and be more aware of the present moment. (13:06)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>June 08, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:author>Beth Holden Graves</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Welcome back! In this episode, I want to just start by talking for a moment. We&apos;re in a moment of history that&apos;s horrific. The memory of George Floyd and how he was murdered, and how this is not the time for leaders and podcasters to be silent.

And as I begin, this I saw this posted on Mally Roncal’s Instagram, and it says If you&apos;re not sure how to respond, listen. If you&apos;re not sure what to read, research. If you&apos;re not sure what you do, donate. Not sure becomes not my problem. It is not enough to be not sure when racism is still taking lives.
And so that&apos;s my commitment. I&apos;m going to listen to the Black activist, Rachel Cargle and Rachel Rogers, and many more. I&apos;m going to give you resources over in Camp Elevate, I&apos;m going to continue to read and research and I’m going to donate. Because I stand before you and I tell you that Black Lives Matter and I have to check my privilege and I have to teach my children, when you see racism speak up.

So with that, I want to move into a very quick episode and to talk about how do you continue with passion and powerfully build your business when you&apos;ve got something so, so, so heavy, and so important. and so critical as what is happening in the world today.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Welcome back! In this episode, I want to just start by talking for a moment. We&apos;re in a moment of history that&apos;s horrific. The memory of George Floyd and how he was murdered, and how this is not the time for leaders and podcasters to be silent.

And as I begin, this I saw this posted on Mally Roncal’s Instagram, and it says If you&apos;re not sure how to respond, listen. If you&apos;re not sure what to read, research. If you&apos;re not sure what you do, donate. Not sure becomes not my problem. It is not enough to be not sure when racism is still taking lives.
And so that&apos;s my commitment. I&apos;m going to listen to the Black activist, Rachel Cargle and Rachel Rogers, and many more. I&apos;m going to give you resources over in Camp Elevate, I&apos;m going to continue to read and research and I’m going to donate. Because I stand before you and I tell you that Black Lives Matter and I have to check my privilege and I have to teach my children, when you see racism speak up.

So with that, I want to move into a very quick episode and to talk about how do you continue with passion and powerfully build your business when you&apos;ve got something so, so, so heavy, and so important. and so critical as what is happening in the world today.</itunes:subtitle>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• The Map Membership: <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/map-interest">https://www.themapmembership.com </a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>•  It's the conversation about the business that many people are stuck. And I have people on my team, I have women that I coach, that have massive, massive customer bases and that's where it stops. (2:56)</p><p>•  Make that decision and put it in an affirmation, when you have negative energy around the idea that you're going to ask your friend Sara, or your new Facebook connection to take a look at what you have, we have negativity around it. Your vibration gets low. (5:26)</p><p>•  When you raise the vibration and when you act, even as if it's happening, the message isn't like, "Hey I haven't talked to you in a while. How is everything going for you, how are you holding up? And then I'm like, "Oh this is coming from a weird place, right? (10:53)</p><p>•  I'm going to have a conversation, I always start with people that already love the product. I always say, go to your customer list first, and this is how I would do it, is just to say, 'hey Cathy, I would love to chat with you when you have 10-15 minutes'. (15:22)</p><p>•  How do you get better at these conversations? How do you get better at that 12-minute quick presentation? About what it's all about? Finding the benefits of your company will. Are those all part of your millionaire action plan? (23:59)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>June 01, 2020</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 1 Jun 2020 10:01:19 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/40-build-your-dream-team-QwjEh6GG</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• The Map Membership: <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/map-interest">https://www.themapmembership.com </a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>•  It's the conversation about the business that many people are stuck. And I have people on my team, I have women that I coach, that have massive, massive customer bases and that's where it stops. (2:56)</p><p>•  Make that decision and put it in an affirmation, when you have negative energy around the idea that you're going to ask your friend Sara, or your new Facebook connection to take a look at what you have, we have negativity around it. Your vibration gets low. (5:26)</p><p>•  When you raise the vibration and when you act, even as if it's happening, the message isn't like, "Hey I haven't talked to you in a while. How is everything going for you, how are you holding up? And then I'm like, "Oh this is coming from a weird place, right? (10:53)</p><p>•  I'm going to have a conversation, I always start with people that already love the product. I always say, go to your customer list first, and this is how I would do it, is just to say, 'hey Cathy, I would love to chat with you when you have 10-15 minutes'. (15:22)</p><p>•  How do you get better at these conversations? How do you get better at that 12-minute quick presentation? About what it's all about? Finding the benefits of your company will. Are those all part of your millionaire action plan? (23:59)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>June 01, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:author>Beth Holden Graves</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Hello and welcome back to episode number 40! I am excited today because we are still talking about the millionaire action plan, the map of how to build your network marketing business. Last week we had to... Now, if you listened, you know it’s pure FIRE! We talked with the Millionaire Maker, Danelle Delgado (that was my previous episode, number 39).

Over the past four episodes, we&apos;ve been talking about the millionaire action plan, the map. Because we are so close to launching the map membership group where we get to all hang out and you get to have this podcast and all of the good stuff, plus the coaching on what to do daily in your network marketing business.

Now let’s get into today’s episode, I call this ‘the THREE things to do if you want to build your dream team’.

Enjoy!
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      <itunes:subtitle>Hello and welcome back to episode number 40! I am excited today because we are still talking about the millionaire action plan, the map of how to build your network marketing business. Last week we had to... Now, if you listened, you know it’s pure FIRE! We talked with the Millionaire Maker, Danelle Delgado (that was my previous episode, number 39).

Over the past four episodes, we&apos;ve been talking about the millionaire action plan, the map. Because we are so close to launching the map membership group where we get to all hang out and you get to have this podcast and all of the good stuff, plus the coaching on what to do daily in your network marketing business.

Now let’s get into today’s episode, I call this ‘the THREE things to do if you want to build your dream team’.

Enjoy!
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• The Map Membership: <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/map-interest">https://www.themapmembership.com </a></p><p>• Danelle Delgado's Website: <a href="https://danelledelgado.com" target="_blank">https://danelledelgado.com</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>•  If they've got the mindset fixed, what they have to move into is usually training on money, so if people are trying to earn money and they're not studying money, which means they have no idea what to do with it. (5:33)</p><p>•  If you know your value, and you know what's out there, you're going to go target people with conversations. If you're studying sales and you're studying marketing, studying advertising, you're going to go target people who you could help get the results the fastest who already know that they need your product and your service as opposed to try and to span the world and just get attention. (6:46)</p><p>•  Some of you are interested in making money right now. Fantastic, the world is on lock down, and you have to be able to pivot. So if that's you, I'd love to help you make that transition. (14:46)</p><p>•  I think everything I do is so systematic, which is funny because I was never a detail person, I had to become one. But everything has to be a system. (20:36)</p><p>•  We've gone through how you win on repeat, this literally is a millionaire action plan for you, for a network marketer. So we're going to invite you to another training that is in an Elevate and it's free at theCampElevateGroup.com. (23:25)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>May 25, 2020</p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• The Map Membership: <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/map-interest">https://www.themapmembership.com </a></p><p>• Danelle Delgado's Website: <a href="https://danelledelgado.com" target="_blank">https://danelledelgado.com</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>•  If they've got the mindset fixed, what they have to move into is usually training on money, so if people are trying to earn money and they're not studying money, which means they have no idea what to do with it. (5:33)</p><p>•  If you know your value, and you know what's out there, you're going to go target people with conversations. If you're studying sales and you're studying marketing, studying advertising, you're going to go target people who you could help get the results the fastest who already know that they need your product and your service as opposed to try and to span the world and just get attention. (6:46)</p><p>•  Some of you are interested in making money right now. Fantastic, the world is on lock down, and you have to be able to pivot. So if that's you, I'd love to help you make that transition. (14:46)</p><p>•  I think everything I do is so systematic, which is funny because I was never a detail person, I had to become one. But everything has to be a system. (20:36)</p><p>•  We've gone through how you win on repeat, this literally is a millionaire action plan for you, for a network marketer. So we're going to invite you to another training that is in an Elevate and it's free at theCampElevateGroup.com. (23:25)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>May 25, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:title>39-Action Plan to Generate More Money With Danelle Delgado</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>Hey there, welcome back to episode number 39! I am so excited that my all-time favorite people is here with us today. Danelle Delgado &quot;the millionaire maker”, will be diving into an exact plan of how she would build out her network marketing business, if she was launching a business today.

Danelle is a mentor and a coach, she coaches entrepreneurs to win on repeat. You can catch her on Friday Night Lives over on Danelle Delgado, and on this podcast coming right up. 

Before we get started, I would like to invite you to get on the list for themapmembership.com. It&apos;s the network marketing place to be, to build out your Millionaire Action Plan, to have coaching with me, and to have all of the tools in one place. We are launching it officially June 15th, but the pre-launch starts June 1st. Get on the list, you are not going to believe what we are doing for our VIP circle.

And now, here we go with Danelle Delgado:</itunes:summary>
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Danelle is a mentor and a coach, she coaches entrepreneurs to win on repeat. You can catch her on Friday Night Lives over on Danelle Delgado, and on this podcast coming right up. 

Before we get started, I would like to invite you to get on the list for themapmembership.com. It&apos;s the network marketing place to be, to build out your Millionaire Action Plan, to have coaching with me, and to have all of the tools in one place. We are launching it officially June 15th, but the pre-launch starts June 1st. Get on the list, you are not going to believe what we are doing for our VIP circle.

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      <pubDate>Mon, 18 May 2020 10:04:05 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/38-manifest-your-network-marketing-success-q1rCca6p</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• The Map Membership: <a href="https://bhg.mykajabi.com/map-interest">https://www.themapmembership.com </a></p><p>• Kristi Dear's Website: <a href="https://themapmembership.com/" target="_blank">https://kristidear.com</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• I feel like it's important to have a relationship with your customers, with your team. I want to make sure that I'm checking in with my customers and seeing how the products are going, see if they have questions, letting them know about the new products that are coming out, or that are out on the market. And then doing the same with my team, checking in with them, asking them how their day is going. (4:23)</p><p>• If you want to be successful you've got to hold the vision of where you're going, and what's possible for you. And you've got to get excited, and you've got to step into that story, and you've just got a share, because really it's about sharing, it's about sharing an amazing opportunity and amazing products, and that's what you're doing. So stop getting in your own way, show up and have faith. (6:10)</p><p>• Just taking the physical action part, which is reaching out, sharing following up with people, networking, connecting. And putting those two together, I think just really allowed me to take off. (9:44)</p><p>• And when we think about abundance and we think about learning from each other, who has been in your world, someone that's outside of your company? It doesn't have to be someone in the network marketing space. (17:51)</p><p>• A lot of times, just even taking a deep breath and just saying a little prayer. I'm just asking for guidance that the right words to come to me, and through me, and just reminding myself. One of my friends always told me, you can't say the wrong thing to the right person. (20:14)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>May 18, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:summary>Welcome back, my friends to Episode Number 38! A divine download, and the decision to act as if she had already reached the top of the company and had already become a million-dollar earner with her company, has led Kristi Dear to massive success. Not only in the network marketing space, but she&apos;s also an international success and mindset coach and speaker, and she supports her clients and her team to GO BIG and capitalize on their greatest strengths, building confidence so that they create solid strategies for success.

You are going to love this episode! She is pretty famous. I got her bio and I was thinking, &quot;Oh my gosh, she’s like Oprah”.

She&apos;s been featured in the Huffington Post. Good Day Dallas, Good Morning Texas, CBS 11, Channel 5 and the Dallas Morning News. You are going to see why. She has an energy around her success and helping to mentor women to shift their mindset overcome obstacles.

Kristi’s motto is: God doesn’t play favorites, so if you see someone with the success you desire, get excited, get really excited, because that’s just God’s way of showing you what’s possible!

So here we go, I&apos;m excited for you to hear me interview Kristi Dear.
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      <itunes:subtitle>Welcome back, my friends to Episode Number 38! A divine download, and the decision to act as if she had already reached the top of the company and had already become a million-dollar earner with her company, has led Kristi Dear to massive success. Not only in the network marketing space, but she&apos;s also an international success and mindset coach and speaker, and she supports her clients and her team to GO BIG and capitalize on their greatest strengths, building confidence so that they create solid strategies for success.

You are going to love this episode! She is pretty famous. I got her bio and I was thinking, &quot;Oh my gosh, she’s like Oprah”.

She&apos;s been featured in the Huffington Post. Good Day Dallas, Good Morning Texas, CBS 11, Channel 5 and the Dallas Morning News. You are going to see why. She has an energy around her success and helping to mentor women to shift their mindset overcome obstacles.

Kristi’s motto is: God doesn’t play favorites, so if you see someone with the success you desire, get excited, get really excited, because that’s just God’s way of showing you what’s possible!

So here we go, I&apos;m excited for you to hear me interview Kristi Dear.
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      <pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2020 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• The Map Membership: <a href="https://themapmembership.com" target="_blank">https://themapmembership.com</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>•   We've got daily action that we want to track the things that we do daily, that we know "build a business, and then we also have a focus of the bigger piece which is, where are we going weekly. (1:34)</p><p>•   No one is telling you how you have to build a business, but the basics of building your network marketing business are always the same, always the same. (2:51)</p><p>•   It allows you to actually see exactly where all of the pieces are to your business at a glance, so that you can work your business block effectively. And also, I believe that energy and affirmations around visualizing, seeing, walking to the space, and just taking action. (5:20)</p><p>•   I'm going to help you. I have something really exciting to announce to help you with your sticky notes, and I want you to think about that, It's not just a cold reach out, I'm throwing sticky notes on the wall. (8:04)</p><p>•   You might say, "Well how do you do it with thousands of people really?" Let's talk, do you really have more than, if you do 10 a day? Most people reach out to three to five in a day, good quality conversations. You can move it to your Google sheet, but this is showing me my active people in my funnel. (18:38)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>May 11, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:title>37-The Sticky Note Sales Solution for Network Marketers</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>Beth Holden Graves</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Welcome back to episode number 37. This might be one of my favorite episodes, because I get to talk about something that is near and dear to my heart; it is my 100 Sticky Note Challenge, and how I used the sticky notes on a wall to help me to reach a huge goal in record time. So, stay with me I will explain it all. 

This is also part of the millionaire action plan that we talked about last week with packing your suitcase.
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      <itunes:subtitle>Welcome back to episode number 37. This might be one of my favorite episodes, because I get to talk about something that is near and dear to my heart; it is my 100 Sticky Note Challenge, and how I used the sticky notes on a wall to help me to reach a huge goal in record time. So, stay with me I will explain it all. 

This is also part of the millionaire action plan that we talked about last week with packing your suitcase.
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      <title>36-Packing Your Suitcase for Your Life Journey</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• Money YOUR Way: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/money" target="_blank">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/money</a></p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• So as you build out your suitcase, you get to decide what goes inside, where will you store all of your tools? How will you use them? And how will you show up?   (4:21)</p><p>• You have to be so mindful of your words. And I literally will find myself, hundreds of times a day, going to words that are not creating the destination. So I want to make sure that you have the suitcase. You have the tools, and most of the time, we're talking about the Focus Framework, how to build your business. How do you put the abundance shift in your life?  (8:56)</p><p>•  I have the most exciting announcement, that's coming. That is going to give you access to the tools and also to the mindset shifts without having to invest in a very high level mastermind, because right now I don't do coaching unless it's in a high level mastermind, or the stuff that comes out in camp, but we have a need, we have a need because people are saying, "I want to know where are the tools for my suitcase?How do I work on this abundant mindset destination? Knowing where I'm going to be, and knowing that it's going to be the most magical place and having those thoughts consistently working? (12:05)</p><p>•  So if you're saying, Well, I'm having affirmations around it. I know the destination, I've got the tools, but if you keep saying things like, I don't have the time, I'm too busy, it's too overwhelming for me, I don't know what to do. That is what's going to happen. So I'm going to encourage you, when you start to feel that overwhelm, you know the destination. If you're even doing three affirmations a day around what it is that you want to manifest and to have happen. Your thoughts, the universe hears that as well. (16:36)</p><p>•  I will shift that thought to a different thought. I'll choose again. So I have a different feeling instead of overwhelm, and insecurity. I have a different feeling to get a better result. So write down the circumstance that's black and white, no feeling behind it, and then you get the better results. (19:59)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>May 04, 2020</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 4 May 2020 08:02:49 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/36-packing-your-suitcase-for-your-life-journey-F_Gyjcw6</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• Money YOUR Way: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/money" target="_blank">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/money</a></p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• So as you build out your suitcase, you get to decide what goes inside, where will you store all of your tools? How will you use them? And how will you show up?   (4:21)</p><p>• You have to be so mindful of your words. And I literally will find myself, hundreds of times a day, going to words that are not creating the destination. So I want to make sure that you have the suitcase. You have the tools, and most of the time, we're talking about the Focus Framework, how to build your business. How do you put the abundance shift in your life?  (8:56)</p><p>•  I have the most exciting announcement, that's coming. That is going to give you access to the tools and also to the mindset shifts without having to invest in a very high level mastermind, because right now I don't do coaching unless it's in a high level mastermind, or the stuff that comes out in camp, but we have a need, we have a need because people are saying, "I want to know where are the tools for my suitcase?How do I work on this abundant mindset destination? Knowing where I'm going to be, and knowing that it's going to be the most magical place and having those thoughts consistently working? (12:05)</p><p>•  So if you're saying, Well, I'm having affirmations around it. I know the destination, I've got the tools, but if you keep saying things like, I don't have the time, I'm too busy, it's too overwhelming for me, I don't know what to do. That is what's going to happen. So I'm going to encourage you, when you start to feel that overwhelm, you know the destination. If you're even doing three affirmations a day around what it is that you want to manifest and to have happen. Your thoughts, the universe hears that as well. (16:36)</p><p>•  I will shift that thought to a different thought. I'll choose again. So I have a different feeling instead of overwhelm, and insecurity. I have a different feeling to get a better result. So write down the circumstance that's black and white, no feeling behind it, and then you get the better results. (19:59)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>May 04, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:title>36-Packing Your Suitcase for Your Life Journey</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>Beth Holden Graves</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Welcome back to episode number 36. I&apos;m really excited because we&apos;re going on a trip together. If you&apos;re listening to this live…We&apos;re still not traveling because we are in the stay-at-home mode. Some places have started to re-open parks, but we&apos;re still not packing to go on a vacation. And this past few week, I was supposed to be in Amsterdam and in Texas.

So, in this episode we are going at a trip, but the suitcase is very unique. 

Stay with me because I have a feeling you&apos;re going to like where we&apos;re headed.
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So, in this episode we are going at a trip, but the suitcase is very unique. 

Stay with me because I have a feeling you&apos;re going to like where we&apos;re headed.
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• Money YOUR Way: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/money" target="_blank">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/money</a></p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• Now, we'll talk about the focus framework, but I think that this is super important that I hear most all the time, "I love that you tell us that you actually screw up".  (7:28)</p><p>•  I told the group, "You do not sell hamburgers at a vegan body building competition that are made out of beef he... So if you're barking up the wrong tree, you're not going to have many sales. (11:16)</p><p>•  But if you dial it in, and your gap, your niche, your little piece, is so specific, you are going to have more sales and you're going to have more fun, and you're going to be talking to the people that you can solve a problem. (16:08)</p><p>•  I also will be connecting with them on their social media commenting getting engaged, like we're at a party together, and asking questions, complementing, but all of this is with the intention of how will I serve. (21:17)</p><p>•  I need to continue to show up consistently and speak to you and speak your language. And so I'm constantly wanting for you, and this is your call to action, let me know in my inbox; what's on your mind, what are the things that are holding you back from your business? Where are you winning? Stop into my inbox on Facebook, over an Instagram at BethHoldenGraves and say, hello. (29:57)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>April 27, 2020</p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• Money YOUR Way: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/money" target="_blank">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/money</a></p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• Now, we'll talk about the focus framework, but I think that this is super important that I hear most all the time, "I love that you tell us that you actually screw up".  (7:28)</p><p>•  I told the group, "You do not sell hamburgers at a vegan body building competition that are made out of beef he... So if you're barking up the wrong tree, you're not going to have many sales. (11:16)</p><p>•  But if you dial it in, and your gap, your niche, your little piece, is so specific, you are going to have more sales and you're going to have more fun, and you're going to be talking to the people that you can solve a problem. (16:08)</p><p>•  I also will be connecting with them on their social media commenting getting engaged, like we're at a party together, and asking questions, complementing, but all of this is with the intention of how will I serve. (21:17)</p><p>•  I need to continue to show up consistently and speak to you and speak your language. And so I'm constantly wanting for you, and this is your call to action, let me know in my inbox; what's on your mind, what are the things that are holding you back from your business? Where are you winning? Stop into my inbox on Facebook, over an Instagram at BethHoldenGraves and say, hello. (29:57)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>April 27, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:title>35-Avoid Barking Up the Wrong Tree</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>Beth Holden Graves</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Welcome back to episode number 35. I&apos;m super excited about this week&apos;s episode. Are you ready? Let&apos;s get this episode started.

Before I sat down to record this episode, I hopped on the Peloton. I&apos;m a new Peloton rider, ThrivingBeth, if we&apos;re not connected I want to hi-five you. 

And something that Dennis said as I was finishing the ride was, cross the line. We&apos;re gonna talk about crossing the line and then we&apos;re going to move into the focus framework, and the challenge that we&apos;re completing in Camp Elevate. And I really wanted to walk through what my focus framework each week for my business for both businesses, the coaching business and for the network marketing business. And this works for anything that you&apos;re doing that you need sales donations for non-profits.

I will be sharing with you, how to cross that line, the focus framework and how to connect your marketing and featured event to your avatar (You can&apos;t sell a hamburger at a Vegan bodybuilding competition). I am going to teach you to avoid barking up the wrong tree. 
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      <itunes:subtitle>Welcome back to episode number 35. I&apos;m super excited about this week&apos;s episode. Are you ready? Let&apos;s get this episode started.

Before I sat down to record this episode, I hopped on the Peloton. I&apos;m a new Peloton rider, ThrivingBeth, if we&apos;re not connected I want to hi-five you. 

And something that Dennis said as I was finishing the ride was, cross the line. We&apos;re gonna talk about crossing the line and then we&apos;re going to move into the focus framework, and the challenge that we&apos;re completing in Camp Elevate. And I really wanted to walk through what my focus framework each week for my business for both businesses, the coaching business and for the network marketing business. And this works for anything that you&apos;re doing that you need sales donations for non-profits.

I will be sharing with you, how to cross that line, the focus framework and how to connect your marketing and featured event to your avatar (You can&apos;t sell a hamburger at a Vegan bodybuilding competition). I am going to teach you to avoid barking up the wrong tree. 
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      <title>34-The PACE of your PACK</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• 10 Ways: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p>• Blair’s website: <a href="https://www.blaircritch.com">https://www.blaircritch.com</a></p><p>• Marriage Movement:  <a href="https://www.marriagemovement.com/">https://www.marriagemovement.com</a></p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• And so that’s my biggest encouragement to all of you is, it’s good to constantly learn what’s new out there but merging together with what works for you and for your team. For the people who are having success in our team, I have to be honest and say it’s not any of those things, it’s that their purpose is greater than the dollar sign. (05:44)</p><p>• To be totally honest, the biggest part is you got to have excitement first, you’ve go to be excited. Make sure that you’re passionate about the product or the service, or the opportunity that you’re representing. (12:20)</p><p>• She didn’t have anything to gain from me, she knew that her business wasn’t a match for me, but she’d always just send suggestions like, “Hey I saw this, I thought of you, you’d be really good at this”. Or, “How are your kids doing?” And that genuine connection just kind of kept us in each other’s lives. And I want you guys to think about that and then I also want you to think about…She watched us personally have an evolution as a family. (19:49)</p><p>• And she and I have been very consistent with our personal business, sometimes more than others. And now, we’ve realized going on six years in the business, how important that our personal space, for connection, creating content, having conversations and giving an invite is the most important part of your Marriage Movement business, is the most important part of your network marketing business. (26:55)</p><p>• We talked last week about focus blocks and Blair’s strength is structure, she thrives on structure. And when I say that, I used to think being spontaneous was this gift that I could think off the seat of my pants. It’s a good thing, but it also is an excuse for not putting the structure in my day. (30:33)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>April 20, 2020</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 20 Apr 2020 09:02:11 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/34-the-pace-of-your-pack-gWEOp7tT</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• 10 Ways: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p>• Blair’s website: <a href="https://www.blaircritch.com">https://www.blaircritch.com</a></p><p>• Marriage Movement:  <a href="https://www.marriagemovement.com/">https://www.marriagemovement.com</a></p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• And so that’s my biggest encouragement to all of you is, it’s good to constantly learn what’s new out there but merging together with what works for you and for your team. For the people who are having success in our team, I have to be honest and say it’s not any of those things, it’s that their purpose is greater than the dollar sign. (05:44)</p><p>• To be totally honest, the biggest part is you got to have excitement first, you’ve go to be excited. Make sure that you’re passionate about the product or the service, or the opportunity that you’re representing. (12:20)</p><p>• She didn’t have anything to gain from me, she knew that her business wasn’t a match for me, but she’d always just send suggestions like, “Hey I saw this, I thought of you, you’d be really good at this”. Or, “How are your kids doing?” And that genuine connection just kind of kept us in each other’s lives. And I want you guys to think about that and then I also want you to think about…She watched us personally have an evolution as a family. (19:49)</p><p>• And she and I have been very consistent with our personal business, sometimes more than others. And now, we’ve realized going on six years in the business, how important that our personal space, for connection, creating content, having conversations and giving an invite is the most important part of your Marriage Movement business, is the most important part of your network marketing business. (26:55)</p><p>• We talked last week about focus blocks and Blair’s strength is structure, she thrives on structure. And when I say that, I used to think being spontaneous was this gift that I could think off the seat of my pants. It’s a good thing, but it also is an excuse for not putting the structure in my day. (30:33)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>April 20, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:title>34-The PACE of your PACK</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>Beth Holden Graves</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Hey bosses. Welcome back to episode number 34, I am really excited to be with you today because I&apos;m sharing with you one of my greatest friends and business partners. We have traveled to Greece, San Francisco, Cabo, Vegas, New Orleans, Texas. Oh, my goodness, South Carolina, North Carolina, Detroit, and we have been to so many places together. We have had so much fun, and we have really become the Ying and the Yang to one another. 

Blair Critch is super detailed. Our strengths play off of one another and it&apos;s been really awesome to have someone that gets you, you know that friend that just gets the vision and encourages you to dream bigger. That is Blair, and I know that you&apos;re going to learn a ton from her about your business, and about life. She and her husband, Ryan, are the founders in creators of the Marriage Movement, and their idea is that couples can be better together, they offer free challenges and it&apos;s especially good for entrepreneurs. 

The coolest thing about Blair is that she has a way of asking questions that always pushes you to stop and think, ‘okay, what if I looked at it from this point of view’. I hope that you have a friend like Blair in your life, and I know that you&apos;re going to take away a ton from this interview.
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      <itunes:subtitle>Hey bosses. Welcome back to episode number 34, I am really excited to be with you today because I&apos;m sharing with you one of my greatest friends and business partners. We have traveled to Greece, San Francisco, Cabo, Vegas, New Orleans, Texas. Oh, my goodness, South Carolina, North Carolina, Detroit, and we have been to so many places together. We have had so much fun, and we have really become the Ying and the Yang to one another. 

Blair Critch is super detailed. Our strengths play off of one another and it&apos;s been really awesome to have someone that gets you, you know that friend that just gets the vision and encourages you to dream bigger. That is Blair, and I know that you&apos;re going to learn a ton from her about your business, and about life. She and her husband, Ryan, are the founders in creators of the Marriage Movement, and their idea is that couples can be better together, they offer free challenges and it&apos;s especially good for entrepreneurs. 

The coolest thing about Blair is that she has a way of asking questions that always pushes you to stop and think, ‘okay, what if I looked at it from this point of view’. I hope that you have a friend like Blair in your life, and I know that you&apos;re going to take away a ton from this interview.
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      <title>33-Just Press Play</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• 10 Ways: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• How does stress and overwhelm show up? And for us right now, it’s showing up in all kinds of weird ways. For me, sometimes it’s late night Netflix not being able to sleep, a few chocolate chip cookies, feeling like crap, staying up too late. And I started to think about all of the places…and I want to walk you through overwhelm, I want to read you one thing and I’m going to give you a solution. (03:54)</p><p>• I got very specific where I wanted the coaching program to be, where I wanted the network marketing business, to be very specific on what I wanted with my health with my sleep, where I wanted to spend this time while my daughter was at home and not being in my office locked in 17 hours a day, or getting up early in the morning because I had forgotten to do something. (7:24)</p><p>• Those are the rituals and routines that I know that needs to happen for me to be at my highest energy, at my best health and I write those things down. So I want to get on the Peloton, I wanna have my meditation time in the morning, and in the evening I want to read, I want to move, I want to journal, all of the things that you know you’re at your best. (11:13)</p><p>• I will do all of the things around the house and have that family time in the morning and then I might say, Okay from 10 until 2:30, I am going to have a work time because I’ve got two things scheduled in there, and then I put in that block what is happening for work. (16:01)</p><p>• Even if you’re somebody that’s full of energy and take supplements that makes you feel amazing and your body says every day, at 2 o’clock, I’m gonna get on that couch and I’m gonna watch some Oprah, then put it in your block and say, This is what I’m doing, but I feel really good. (24:46)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>April 13, 2020</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 13 Apr 2020 10:02:40 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/33-just-press-play-jYRgYalh</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• 10 Ways: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• How does stress and overwhelm show up? And for us right now, it’s showing up in all kinds of weird ways. For me, sometimes it’s late night Netflix not being able to sleep, a few chocolate chip cookies, feeling like crap, staying up too late. And I started to think about all of the places…and I want to walk you through overwhelm, I want to read you one thing and I’m going to give you a solution. (03:54)</p><p>• I got very specific where I wanted the coaching program to be, where I wanted the network marketing business, to be very specific on what I wanted with my health with my sleep, where I wanted to spend this time while my daughter was at home and not being in my office locked in 17 hours a day, or getting up early in the morning because I had forgotten to do something. (7:24)</p><p>• Those are the rituals and routines that I know that needs to happen for me to be at my highest energy, at my best health and I write those things down. So I want to get on the Peloton, I wanna have my meditation time in the morning, and in the evening I want to read, I want to move, I want to journal, all of the things that you know you’re at your best. (11:13)</p><p>• I will do all of the things around the house and have that family time in the morning and then I might say, Okay from 10 until 2:30, I am going to have a work time because I’ve got two things scheduled in there, and then I put in that block what is happening for work. (16:01)</p><p>• Even if you’re somebody that’s full of energy and take supplements that makes you feel amazing and your body says every day, at 2 o’clock, I’m gonna get on that couch and I’m gonna watch some Oprah, then put it in your block and say, This is what I’m doing, but I feel really good. (24:46)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>April 13, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:summary>Welcome back to You’re Not the Boss of Me, I’m your host Beth Holden Graves and this is episode number 33. This episode is called Just Press Play and I&apos;m so grateful for all of you hanging with me for the last thirty-three weeks, 33 episodes.
With all that is happening in the world, I thought, &quot;How can I serve, and if I don&apos;t show up I might miss out on helping one person, or I might miss out on someone that&apos;s waiting for the podcast to drop”, and that is a humbling feeling. So, thank you for listening today as I start with stress and how during being stressed and overwhelmed, we can all still show up.
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      <itunes:subtitle>Welcome back to You’re Not the Boss of Me, I’m your host Beth Holden Graves and this is episode number 33. This episode is called Just Press Play and I&apos;m so grateful for all of you hanging with me for the last thirty-three weeks, 33 episodes.
With all that is happening in the world, I thought, &quot;How can I serve, and if I don&apos;t show up I might miss out on helping one person, or I might miss out on someone that&apos;s waiting for the podcast to drop”, and that is a humbling feeling. So, thank you for listening today as I start with stress and how during being stressed and overwhelmed, we can all still show up.
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• 10 Ways: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p>•  Sarah's Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sarelizcole">https://www.instagram.com/sarelizcole</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>•    So one of the pieces that you're passionate about, is providing value, providing a heart-centered look and you've taken the kind of spam advertising pitching off of the plate and you've brought in a way that when I watch your social media, when I see the way that you launch new people into your team when you're sharing that with me, what was the shift that you made that got you away?  (07:56)</p><p>•   And having that peace of mind as a back up plan, and socially I show up every day, consistently, you have to... And really, I don't overthink it. (12:40)</p><p>•   So if somebody today is thinking, "Okay I wanna write this book", what would be some questions you would have for them? You've dialed in who you are, who's coming to your page, what would be some questions you would have them write down or a strategy to say, "Okay I wanna do what Sarah did with my social media, with my recruiting". Give me some ways that you would train them. (18:21)</p><p>•   I love that. And you always talk about scarcity versus abundant mindset, and that is so huge. And one of the things about consistency and having that abundant mindset, is when someone shows up only every once in a while.  (21:57)</p><p>•    Here's what I'm doing and here's why, and this is how our family wins, this is how the women that I help win, and this is what the world needs for me to show up. (27:29)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>April 06, 2020</p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• 10 Ways: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p>•  Sarah's Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/sarelizcole">https://www.instagram.com/sarelizcole</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>•    So one of the pieces that you're passionate about, is providing value, providing a heart-centered look and you've taken the kind of spam advertising pitching off of the plate and you've brought in a way that when I watch your social media, when I see the way that you launch new people into your team when you're sharing that with me, what was the shift that you made that got you away?  (07:56)</p><p>•   And having that peace of mind as a back up plan, and socially I show up every day, consistently, you have to... And really, I don't overthink it. (12:40)</p><p>•   So if somebody today is thinking, "Okay I wanna write this book", what would be some questions you would have for them? You've dialed in who you are, who's coming to your page, what would be some questions you would have them write down or a strategy to say, "Okay I wanna do what Sarah did with my social media, with my recruiting". Give me some ways that you would train them. (18:21)</p><p>•   I love that. And you always talk about scarcity versus abundant mindset, and that is so huge. And one of the things about consistency and having that abundant mindset, is when someone shows up only every once in a while.  (21:57)</p><p>•    Here's what I'm doing and here's why, and this is how our family wins, this is how the women that I help win, and this is what the world needs for me to show up. (27:29)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>April 06, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:title>32-Sarah Cole - Success Stories</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>Beth Holden Graves</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>00:30:34</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Welcome back to episode number 32 of You’re Not the Boss of Me. I’m back and today I’m really, really excited to share with you one of the most brilliant women that I know and can call a friend, her name is Sarah Cole and she is a six-figure earner, busy mom and nurse anesthetist.

Hardships in her life lead her down a path to “pivot” and find even more fulfillment in and out of the operating room. Right now, Sarah is working on the front line as a CRNA, and she took time away from her family and from her job at the hospital to chat with us about why the network marketing model, what has helped her to have success, and bringing light to these secrets of success. Bringing wisdom and light to those that are thinking of building online with which business model. And today Sarah shares some great insight, and I can’t wait for you to hear her story.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Welcome back to episode number 32 of You’re Not the Boss of Me. I’m back and today I’m really, really excited to share with you one of the most brilliant women that I know and can call a friend, her name is Sarah Cole and she is a six-figure earner, busy mom and nurse anesthetist.

Hardships in her life lead her down a path to “pivot” and find even more fulfillment in and out of the operating room. Right now, Sarah is working on the front line as a CRNA, and she took time away from her family and from her job at the hospital to chat with us about why the network marketing model, what has helped her to have success, and bringing light to these secrets of success. Bringing wisdom and light to those that are thinking of building online with which business model. And today Sarah shares some great insight, and I can’t wait for you to hear her story.</itunes:subtitle>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED...</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• 10 Ways: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p>•  Fallon Zoe's Website: <a href="https://ladytribe.com" target="_blank"><strong>https://ladytribe.com</strong></a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>•    Somebody had invited me to do a live video challenge, and I decided like why not, it was a free video challenge. Why not, "I'm gonna test out this whole video thing. And that's how I got started, and as I was doing live video and learning how to do all of that, I was learning myself. Of how to use Facebook and I was just sharing what I was learning along the way and it really developed and turned into its whole this whole entity which is now Lady Tribe. (06:50)</p><p>•   I would say one of the most common mistakes, I was really just thinking This earlier, is one of the most common mistakes that I see, specifically for network marketing industry is people start doing live video and things like that, and as they're learning how to use social media as they're learning how to run their network marketing business, they think that they have to do network marketing.  (08:57)</p><p>•   It's creating good content that attracts the ideal person, and then learning how to actively network out on Facebook. There's two point. I think 26 billion was the last number that I heard. 26 billion users on Facebook.  (10:56)</p><p>•   And what happens is we're attracting other business owners probably other network marketers based off of where we're hanging out, we're hanging out in coaching groups, we're hanging out in entrepreneur groups and a lot of those people in those other groups are other network marketers. (13:16)</p><p>•    So how does someone go from keeping everything to themselves and just having this abundance? Some people are for you, and some people are not, and that's cool. (19:53)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR...</strong></p><p>March 30, 2020</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 30 Mar 2020 09:47:51 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/31-organic-facebook-growth-05dgNTtY</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED...</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• 10 Ways: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p>•  Fallon Zoe's Website: <a href="https://ladytribe.com" target="_blank"><strong>https://ladytribe.com</strong></a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>•    Somebody had invited me to do a live video challenge, and I decided like why not, it was a free video challenge. Why not, "I'm gonna test out this whole video thing. And that's how I got started, and as I was doing live video and learning how to do all of that, I was learning myself. Of how to use Facebook and I was just sharing what I was learning along the way and it really developed and turned into its whole this whole entity which is now Lady Tribe. (06:50)</p><p>•   I would say one of the most common mistakes, I was really just thinking This earlier, is one of the most common mistakes that I see, specifically for network marketing industry is people start doing live video and things like that, and as they're learning how to use social media as they're learning how to run their network marketing business, they think that they have to do network marketing.  (08:57)</p><p>•   It's creating good content that attracts the ideal person, and then learning how to actively network out on Facebook. There's two point. I think 26 billion was the last number that I heard. 26 billion users on Facebook.  (10:56)</p><p>•   And what happens is we're attracting other business owners probably other network marketers based off of where we're hanging out, we're hanging out in coaching groups, we're hanging out in entrepreneur groups and a lot of those people in those other groups are other network marketers. (13:16)</p><p>•    So how does someone go from keeping everything to themselves and just having this abundance? Some people are for you, and some people are not, and that's cool. (19:53)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR...</strong></p><p>March 30, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:title>31-Organic Facebook Growth</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>Beth Holden Graves</itunes:author>
      <itunes:duration>00:41:47</itunes:duration>
      <itunes:summary>Hey there, bosses. Welcome back to episode number 31. This week, I wanted to bring to you someone who you could say, I could do that right now, I&apos;m getting started. And this will help me to serve, and also help me to grow my business. So, Fallon Zoe comes to us today with her Facebook strategy for organic reach and growing your traffic, your following on social media, without paid ads. So, one of the biggest things that I hear from many of you is, I love my business, I love what I do. I want to share it; I love my products, but I just don&apos;t know how to have the people that need me showing up. And now more than ever, if you&apos;re listening to this in real time, we&apos;re in the middle of a quarantine, a pandemic. We have a health crisis. And it&apos;s uncertain, and we&apos;re not sure what to say, what to do, are we insensitive? How do we serve and ask if we know that we have a solution, but we&apos;re not sure what to say because we&apos;re uncomfortable? 

You have a solution and we also have so many people that need to take a look at your business model. So, if you&apos;re authentic and you&apos;re showing up, I want you to be you, bravely. I want you to know that now is the time to let that one person, the person in your life, that your text, your phone call, your decision to invite, to take a look could be what truly shifts their life in their time of need. I want to give you that encouragement. 

So here we go, Fallon Zoe: A High School dropout and single mother at 17, Fallon Zoe has learned that your limitations can create your inspirations. Building a business on Facebook she became frustrated with paid advertising and decided to find another way. After building a following of over 30,000 women, she was interviewed by Facebook about her Organic Growth for her brand LadyTribe. She has beta tested many other programs for Facebook and recently selected as 1 of only 20 Video Creators to launch the Facebook Stars program.

By Publishing over 3,000 videos in only 3yrs, Fallon has established herself as an Organic Growth Specialist.
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      <itunes:subtitle>Hey there, bosses. Welcome back to episode number 31. This week, I wanted to bring to you someone who you could say, I could do that right now, I&apos;m getting started. And this will help me to serve, and also help me to grow my business. So, Fallon Zoe comes to us today with her Facebook strategy for organic reach and growing your traffic, your following on social media, without paid ads. So, one of the biggest things that I hear from many of you is, I love my business, I love what I do. I want to share it; I love my products, but I just don&apos;t know how to have the people that need me showing up. And now more than ever, if you&apos;re listening to this in real time, we&apos;re in the middle of a quarantine, a pandemic. We have a health crisis. And it&apos;s uncertain, and we&apos;re not sure what to say, what to do, are we insensitive? How do we serve and ask if we know that we have a solution, but we&apos;re not sure what to say because we&apos;re uncomfortable? 

You have a solution and we also have so many people that need to take a look at your business model. So, if you&apos;re authentic and you&apos;re showing up, I want you to be you, bravely. I want you to know that now is the time to let that one person, the person in your life, that your text, your phone call, your decision to invite, to take a look could be what truly shifts their life in their time of need. I want to give you that encouragement. 

So here we go, Fallon Zoe: A High School dropout and single mother at 17, Fallon Zoe has learned that your limitations can create your inspirations. Building a business on Facebook she became frustrated with paid advertising and decided to find another way. After building a following of over 30,000 women, she was interviewed by Facebook about her Organic Growth for her brand LadyTribe. She has beta tested many other programs for Facebook and recently selected as 1 of only 20 Video Creators to launch the Facebook Stars program.

By Publishing over 3,000 videos in only 3yrs, Fallon has established herself as an Organic Growth Specialist.
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED...</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• 10 Ways: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p>•  Todd Falcone’s website: <a href="https://toddfalcone.com">https://toddfalcone.com</a></p><p>•  Todd Falcone’s 12-Week Training: <a href="https://toddfalcone.com/team" target="_blank">https://toddfalcone.com/team</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>•    Talk about the different, what you feel is the difference between connection, personal connection and what we're seeing online and how someone listening that is stuck with their network marketing business or isn't seeing the growth. (02:52)</p><p>•   When I look at the way that was intuitive for me to build was I need to have a conversation. I need to have a connection and I want anyone that's a part of the community to be with me for the long haul. (05:43)</p><p>•   Here's the thing, once you believe and you know that, and the truth shall set you free, right?  (09:22)</p><p>•   Now I'm not saying we don't encourage people to do more and help push them away along and help them to develop a higher level of belief and maybe a deeper understanding of what they can do. (14:52)</p><p>•     What is your biggest moment that you still think and it gives you chills to think about when you were working in the industry? (17:48)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR...</strong></p><p>March 23, 2020</p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 23 Mar 2020 10:02:42 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/30-warrior-or-worrier-knfnS9ZN</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED...</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• 10 Ways: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p>•  Todd Falcone’s website: <a href="https://toddfalcone.com">https://toddfalcone.com</a></p><p>•  Todd Falcone’s 12-Week Training: <a href="https://toddfalcone.com/team" target="_blank">https://toddfalcone.com/team</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>•    Talk about the different, what you feel is the difference between connection, personal connection and what we're seeing online and how someone listening that is stuck with their network marketing business or isn't seeing the growth. (02:52)</p><p>•   When I look at the way that was intuitive for me to build was I need to have a conversation. I need to have a connection and I want anyone that's a part of the community to be with me for the long haul. (05:43)</p><p>•   Here's the thing, once you believe and you know that, and the truth shall set you free, right?  (09:22)</p><p>•   Now I'm not saying we don't encourage people to do more and help push them away along and help them to develop a higher level of belief and maybe a deeper understanding of what they can do. (14:52)</p><p>•     What is your biggest moment that you still think and it gives you chills to think about when you were working in the industry? (17:48)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR...</strong></p><p>March 23, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:title>30-Warrior or Worrier?</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>Beth Holden Graves</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Hey bosses, welcome back. This episode feels a whole lot different than last week when I was recording. We&apos;ve got big stuff going on and it feels very uncertain. And before we go into this episode with my guest today, I want to take a moment to tell you that it&apos;s okay to just feel uncertain, and it&apos;s okay to just take a moment. And as we talk in the network marketing space you build online, this is your time to show people your business opportunity and all of those things, but I want to bring you back to this, it&apos;s about connection right now. It&apos;s about who can we serve. It&apos;s about who needs us to reach out to them and have a FaceTime because they&apos;re isolated without family. I hope you&apos;re listening to this in the future and you&apos;re thinking, what is she talking about? 

So, this episode will be airing with all of the quarantines and the self-isolation and dealing with the COVID-19 health pandemic. And you guys know that I&apos;m all about building a business and strategy and you&apos;re getting it. You’re going to get that on this episode, with my guest Todd Falcone, sharing with us about how to have the conversations, and how to show up in your business. Many of you know Todd as the Fearless Networker. He&apos;s written many, many books. He has a book called the Fearless Networker. He&apos;s been in the industry and now he coaches, with over 25 years in the profession. He talks about what are the revenue making activities and what does it take? What kind of work does it take to make the income that you desire? He teaches the fundamentals of success in network marketing; this is a powerful episode. I&apos;d love for you to stick around and listen as I interview Todd Falcone.
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      <itunes:subtitle>Hey bosses, welcome back. This episode feels a whole lot different than last week when I was recording. We&apos;ve got big stuff going on and it feels very uncertain. And before we go into this episode with my guest today, I want to take a moment to tell you that it&apos;s okay to just feel uncertain, and it&apos;s okay to just take a moment. And as we talk in the network marketing space you build online, this is your time to show people your business opportunity and all of those things, but I want to bring you back to this, it&apos;s about connection right now. It&apos;s about who can we serve. It&apos;s about who needs us to reach out to them and have a FaceTime because they&apos;re isolated without family. I hope you&apos;re listening to this in the future and you&apos;re thinking, what is she talking about? 

So, this episode will be airing with all of the quarantines and the self-isolation and dealing with the COVID-19 health pandemic. And you guys know that I&apos;m all about building a business and strategy and you&apos;re getting it. You’re going to get that on this episode, with my guest Todd Falcone, sharing with us about how to have the conversations, and how to show up in your business. Many of you know Todd as the Fearless Networker. He&apos;s written many, many books. He has a book called the Fearless Networker. He&apos;s been in the industry and now he coaches, with over 25 years in the profession. He talks about what are the revenue making activities and what does it take? What kind of work does it take to make the income that you desire? He teaches the fundamentals of success in network marketing; this is a powerful episode. I&apos;d love for you to stick around and listen as I interview Todd Falcone.
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Amy McNally helps women achieve their income goals without sacrificing their sanity or self care. She utilizes her background in marriage and family therapy along with her experience of building a successful coaching and network marketing business. She has created a unique process which includes guiding her clients through emotional freedom technique also known as tapping to release negative thoughts, emotions and subconscious programming that keeps them from making the money they desire. Her clients often call her their “business therapist”!</p><p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED...</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com/">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com/">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• 10 Ways: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p>• Amy's Community: <a href="http://bit.ly/coachamymcnally">http://bit.ly/coachamymcnally</a> - Click to join her community and gain access to free training videos on tapping, mindset, and business strategy.</p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>•   I think one of my absolute favorite things is helping female entrepreneurs specifically really increase their income, and I take a very, very different approach than a lot of coaches. (02:53)</p><p>•   The massive objections or obstacles that I have had myself and building my business, but that I see all the time and women that are listening to this podcast or w we speak specifically to network marketers, but we do have a lot of entrepreneurs, but basically it's sales, right? (04:46)</p><p>•   I had heard about tapping and I was expecting it to be like this huge process. And when we did our session together, I got the video afterward and I could literally, I do it and I do it every single day. And since starting with the tapping, I've watched all of the blocks that I was experiencing start to be not come up for me as often. (07:11)</p><p>•   Their money mindset is really, really skewed. It needs a lot of work. I would say the second thing is honestly the belief in confidence. (11:25)</p><p>•    So if we're just focusing on the customer aspect that's going to be selling products, I would really ask them, what are the top three things that you have gained as a result of taking these products or using these products? (20:43)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR...</strong></p><p>March 16, 2020</p>
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      <itunes:summary>Welcome back bosses. This is episode number 28, and in this episode, we are going to unlock the big mystery. Are you ready? How to regain momentum in your network marketing business - Re-launch, Re-Ignite Your Business. This was the number one thing when I did a poll the people wanted to hear about, and so I&apos;m going to give you five ways to relaunch, to regain momentum, and to start to feel excited again about what it is that you&apos;re doing. 

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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED...</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• 10 Ways: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• Words are the most powerful thing that you have while you're thinking about the idea of recruiting and sharing. (02:22)</p><p>• I want you to throw away those words that aren't working for you. This is a little thing that I want to share with you is that sound vibration travels through water four times faster than it goes through open air. Considering that your body is 70% water, you'll understand how quickly the vibration from negative words actually resonates with your cells. (04:15)</p><p>• So before I do those reach outs and before I have conversations and before I start talking to people about being a business partner, the very first thing I do is make sure that I have my belief in line, make sure that I have my vibration high, make sure that I have that vision. (07:33)</p><p>• If you're going to recruit, you have to have a list being who is it out there that you have on your list, on your phone, on your social media, in your community. (12:57)</p><p>• There's a lot of different ways that we can get connected with people in different challenges, but this, every single week I have specific action toward an event. (17:25)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR...</strong></p><p>March 02, 2020</p><p><strong>EPISODE TRANSCRIPT...</strong></p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves, and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Everybody I talk to is negative. Nobody's working for my team. I don't know how so and so recruited. She must have had it. Big warm market. My family is laughing at me. I can't recruit. I don't know what I'm doing. I don't know what to say. I'm getting crickets. Nobody's open to this opportunity. Stop and pause. Did you hear all that negativity in my voice? Did you hear all of that? Disbelief and what I was sharing. Did your vibration just kind of drop to the floor? Words are the most powerful thing that you have while you're thinking about the idea of recruiting and sharing. So, we're going to start there. I am going to tell you exactly some shifts that you need to make and then I'm going to end with a strategy that I have used over and over and over again to recruit over a thousand people into the network marketing business that I'm in and to help others to do the same. <br /><br />And you don't have to be an influencer, you don't have to have a podcast. You can be, as I was, I share this all the time. A regular everyday person. I had an AOL account; I had a couple of hundred friends on Facebook. I didn't understand the online space, but I was willing to present. I was willing ask the question. So hearing from somebody that's like on a podcast, Oh, all these accolades, I want you to go back with me to 2014 I want you to go back to the person that said, okay, I'm going to trust this business model. I'm going to trust that this is the way that I can break the glass ceiling that I had if I was going to head back to work, to be a teacher. And so first of all, I had to have that belief. So, let's talk about all that negativity. <br /><br /> </p><p>You heard my voice; I hear it all the time. And if you're a leader or maybe it comes out of your mouth, I can tell you that the person that's saying those things, people are feeling that vibration. People are feeling that negativity. So of course, they're not answering you. Of course, they don't want to talk to you about the business. You don't even believe that it works yourself. So, the first thing I want to tell you is let's shift those words. All right? So, when you hear recruit and grow rich, I want you to have affirmations around your business. I want you to throw away those words that aren't working for you. This is a little thing that I want to share with you is that sound vibration travels through water four times faster than it goes through open air. Considering that your body is 70% water, you'll understand how quickly the vibration from negative words actually resonates with your cells. <br /><br />You guys, it's science, right? I love that little science. So, I read this in an article. I think it's a Goop article, but it was like so incredible to think about the power of the words that we're using. And as I was doing this recruit and grow rich content, I started to think, yes, I can give you all kinds of strategies, but if we don't start with the vibration being high, if we don't start with having affirmations and vision and a positive mindset around the success of our ability to recruit and bring people into the business, and also the belief that that person will have success as a business partner with you, then yeah, might as well hang it up. So, let's start there. And if you haven't listened to my episodes or you're not over in Camp Elevate, it takes a lot of work, you guys to keep that vibration high. <br /><br />It takes working on the mindset daily. Having those affirmations around your business, having affirmations. I have them all over the place because the words create my reality. So, if I'm constantly saying, Oh, gosh, nobody's answering my messages. Nobody wants to do the business. I don't even know why I bother. Guess what's going to happen? Nothing. So, I want you to shift your words. I want you to get rid of those. Throw away words that say, nobody's going to join me. Everybody's crickets. Nobody wants to do this. I want you to create affirmations around how many people or waiting for your message, how many people were like I was in 2014 who is desperate, desperate for a change, desperate for a business that could help us to pay off the debt. And do you think Blair Critch on the day that she sent me a message was like, Oh, this is never going to work. <br /><br />She's never going to answer me. Uh, I don't know why I bother. I don't what to say. Is this spam? Oh, my goodness. No. She had total belief that she was sharing something with me that could change my life. I felt it. And she was just getting started. She borrowed the belief from our other friend that was already having success and she believed in the industry and her words were simple. Her words, we're so simple that I was curious, and I was interested, and I was excited, and it never crossed my mind that she didn't believe it would work. So, if she had sent like, I don't know, Beth, I don't know about this thing, but I actually like the products, but you know, I don't really know. It could be one of those things, but let's just take a look at, and I'm not so sure. <br /><br />No, she was like, listen, I'm all in. This company looks to be incredible and I'm having the best experience with these products. I want you to be a partner with me in this. Let's do this. It could be a great adventure with something like that. I was like, Oh, okay. So, I'm not telling you those are the exact words, but Blair's energy and her vibration and her belief was there. And so, I'm going to say to you, I want you to start with how do you view your business? Do you have gratitude around it? Do you have those five reasons that we talked about? Wait, this is the most insanely amazing thing for someone to become a partner with you. So before I do those reach outs and before I have conversations and before I start talking to people about being a business partner, the very first thing I do is make sure that I have my belief in line, make sure that I have my vibration high, make sure that I have that vision. <br /><br />I mean I visualize people saying yes to me. I visualize people having success. I visualize their life changing and so that vibration, it's high. It's like you have that friend. I know you do. I have that friend and she's like, come on, we're headed out. We're going to it to be so much fun. My friend's name is Heather and she's like, where to play? Ping pong. It's going to be a blast. Everybody's there instead of like, Oh, my gosh, like let's get dressed. It's so cold outside. Let's not go. I'm going to read you a quote. It's Gary John Bishop. Yeah. Has the book an F yourself, and this quote says, retrain your brain one word at a time. We can determine our emotions by steering our thoughts. We can shape those thoughts by being conscious and diligent about our words and the kind of language we engage in. <br /><br />So if you're engaging in any negativity around your business, around your conversations, around what is happening, that's the first step. So, switch it. Figure out a way to have those affirmations. Have a vision for what you're doing with the company. If you need help with this, join me over in camp elevate. We talk about it all of the time, or send me a DM and say, I don't even know what you're talking about so that I can guide you to a training on it. Okay? There's many penny podcasts. If you go back and listen about those routines, now let's talk about a recruiting roadmap. There are 10,000 people out there telling you 10 ways that you could make six to seven figures in your business if you follow this exact action plan. So, my friend Daniel Pope is a brilliant marketer. Brilliant. He's brilliant. And I said to him, everybody out there like I'm doing a challenge coming up and I'll tell you how to get on that challenge list. <br /><br /><br /> </p><p>I'm doing a challenge March 14th it's absolutely free and I'm going to give you five days of, I don't even know if it's called a recruiting roadmap because that sounds so like everybody has one. But my challenge is making money your way and it's feeling aligned with how you recruit. You're recruiting plan an actual way that you're going to create an event to share your opportunity. But we're also going to go way into the mindset. So today I'm going to give you a strategy. You're going to walk away with something that you can do today that you feel excited about, aligned with, and have a conversation with somebody that is your Beth from 2014 we're going to talk about that. But I want to talk about what Daniel Pope said and Hey, Hey Daniel, if you're listening, and I said to him, it's like Daniel, everybody out there is sharing a roadmap, a bootcamp. <br /><br />Everybody's saying, here's the way to earn six and seven figures. If you follow this exact social media blueprint or you follow this exact plan, and he said, Beth, it's like chicken pot pie and I want you to think of your business-like chicken pot pie. If you go to all recipes and you look up chicken pot pie, there's like but 272 that you're going to come across and there's different pictures and there's different ways that you can make the chicken pot pie the way that you recruit. It might have the exact same steps as me, but your recipe will always be different because your ingredients, everything that's making up your chicken pot pie. Is this making sense to you? When Daniel said it, it sounded way more brilliant. I'm going to have to interview him on the podcast about this. But when he said that to me and I was talking about this challenge I'm putting together and I said, I want it to be different. <br /><br />I want my listeners of the podcast and my followers that want a really good free training. I want them to come in and I want them to really feel confident, aligned, excited, not feel that icky and be excited to reach out to someone and say, okay, Hey, take a look at this. Here's what I want to show you. It's like show and tell in kindergarten. And he said, Beth, yeah, of course a lot of people like the buzzword’s you guys recruit and grow rich recruiting roadmap, the six and seven figure way to recruit hundreds and three to five new customers a day. Right? And he said that the way that it's delivered, the way that it's received, the spices that you put in yours, everybody has a little bit of a different shift. So that's what I'm sharing with you today is my recipe for chicken pot pie. <br /><br />But I want you to remember that there are certain elements of recruiting that have to happen along the way. I think for you to have success, and the very first one is that mindset. Is that okay? The mindset, the affirmations around, I am going to have a conversation with someone, and they are going to be blown away by what I'm sharing with them. I cannot wait to hear the difference. Oh my gosh, this week is going to be such a successful week. I cannot wait to connect with so many women that are ready and looking for a way for financial freedom, without having to sit in their cubicle. I can't wait to connect and share this incredible, incredible opportunity to hear the difference. Oh my gosh. I feel like tomorrow my inbox is going to be flooded with women that are asking me about how they can make an extra $200 to $500 a month, diversify their income and do it online and be a part of an amazing community. <br /><br />I can't wait. So, when I put that out there, did you guys feel the difference between why are there crickets in my inbox? Right? So that belief, so we obviously have to have a list. Everybody has to have a list. If you're going to recruit, you have to have a list being who is it out there that you have on your list, on your phone, on your social media, in your community. I don't care where it is that would be aligned with building a business with you that's looking for what you have. So, first of all, you've got to determine where is that list coming from? No, I hope that if you follow me at all, you know that I am consistently saying five, four, three, two, one, add two to your list today. Where does your Emily, that's my avatar. Where does she hang out? <br /><br />So, first of all, what is the pain, the frustration, the benefit of recruiting to your opportunity, going to give to someone. Do you know that that is first you cannot recruit? If you do not know that answer, what do you solve? Why would someone want to join you in the business? Well, for me, I absolutely positively wanted no glass ceiling. I wanted unlimited income potential. I want it to be able to have a flexible place to work. I wanted a first to market product. I wanted mentoring and leadership that was top, top, top in the industry. I had all these, these things. What are the things that you have? What are the things that you offer? What are the benefits of your opportunity? Because it is a crowded market out there. So, I want you to know what are the benefits of your opportunity, and just know that you don't have to explain it all to your prospect, but you've got to be able to know these things. <br /><br />Because if you were explaining to me why I should go to this new restaurant, because they have the very best cauliflower tacos, you are excited. I don't need to know what ingredients are in the cauliflower tacos cause I'm not a foodie, but I love cauliflower tacos and I am like, and they have skinny margaritas. I am so there. What night are we going Jessie? Think about that. So when you have decided that you have something that people are going to be waiting for you, they're like waiting for you to reach out and we know what paid and frustration we solve, then it's time to take some action. And I know that we have all kinds of things that say, Oh, never reach out. If you put the best content out there, they're going to come to you. Well, we can be strategic in our content and we can be strategic in that strategy. <br /><br />And we can put a lot of things in our stories that connect all of the dots. And very often when we're consistent and connecting those dots, we do have people that say, what is it that you do? But if you want to go to seven figures, I've got news for you. You cannot passively sit back and wait. Even if you have the best opt in and lead magnet and you've got people that are showing up every day saying, I want what she has. You still have to have a conversation. You still have to have an invite. So, let's back up a little bit. We've got that list. We've grown that list. We're connecting with people. Let's say that I have, I've connected with people in my Peloton group and I'm not saying go into these groups and recruit. I'm saying these are friends that you've connected with. <br /><br />I'm going to give you an example of a new connection. And how that works is I'm really learning about intermittent fasting for my health. Of course, weight loss is a great benefit, but for my health, I've read about regenerating cells when you go without food and I'm learning. So, I'm in some intermittent fasting groups and I'm genuinely sharing information. I'm genuinely cheering for people. I'm genuinely sharing because it's a group that I'm interested in. So I made a few connections with people that were giving me advice and I shot them a friend request adding two to my list and went over, you know, did some commenting and posting over on their wall to get to know them as you would a new friend, just like you meeting a new friend in real life. So now we've got, you know, we've added to the list, right? <br /><br />So you're thinking about, okay, I'm putting all this great social media out. I've got these curiosity posts, I've, I've got things in my stories and my new friends aren't asking me. This is what they said works in attraction marketing, right? If you put it out there, people will show up in your inbox. I am all about curiosity. I am all about sharing with people genuine content that aligns, but I am also about, you've got to take some action. If you don't take some action and you just wish that people show up, you will have a very, very slow build, a very slow build. So every single week, this is one of the big strategies that I used in still use in recruiting and every single week I create some sort of an event that I'm going to invite to that's going to inform and the purpose of this event is to get information about my specific opportunity. <br /><br />There's a lot of different ways that we can get connected with people in different challenges, but this, every single week I have specific action toward an event. Do you hear that specific action toward an event? I've done all the affirmations, I've done all the visualization, I know exactly what it is that we have. I've got groups that I can add to that are corporate wide or team wide. But if you are going to recruit, and I don't know if you guys heard my vending machine analogy, I might've shared it last week and I heard this in… who shared this. Somebody that was in Rob's group shared that network marketing is like having a vending machine and having a lot of them, right? You can like sell one big house as a realtor and make a really great commission, but once that house is sold, you've got to find another house to sell with the network marketing model and the distribution model, it's like owning different Coke machines and they're all over the place. <br /><br />So I might have 5,000 Coke machines and although I made a bigger commission on selling one big house, having these Coke machines, which would be represent the business builders, your business partners, your promoters, your distributors, means that you have touched the market in all of the different places. And so, my goal when I visualize that, visualize it and people, and I have a U S actually a world map and I visualize people that are joining me in all different places to build a global team. Then I have to get to work. So, I've done all the posting, you know, I've got all the interaction going on, I've got things in my stories. I'm educating on what a great business model. I even have a robot that was cleaning floors at Walmart and I'm talking about why we have to look to build in the online space. But if I want to build, and I'm saying I, if you want to build and you want to build quickly, you have got to actually reach out to people and ask and you don't have to be like, Hey would you be open? <br /><br />And if that doesn't feel right to you. But through my connection, through the interactions that I'm having and listening to my friends all over the place, so when I make new connections and new friends, I am making sure that at least at least once a day I am asking someone to take a look and I know that sounds scary and I know that you might want to shut down this podcast and say, I thought she was all about building an aligned business. I am you guys. I would never have had people like Jen or people like John or people like Jody or Nancy or Julie if I hadn't had the guts to just say, John, I'd love for you to take a look. I've got this event. It's 15 minutes long and I would love for you to just hop on in, listen, see if you've got questions, see if you're aligned with it. <br /><br />Okay? It's going to give you the information about why our company, why the network marketing model and why it might apply to you. Would you hop on in and I know that you're like, okay, what did she just say? What did she just say? That was my conversation with John, so John was a customer and I had gotten to know John and I knew that he had a goal of buying their first house or not their first house, but buying a house, getting out of a rental situation, paying off some debt, and that's also knowing your customer funnel. You can, your best people are waiting in your customer space. Did John feel like was like invading him? Was he like, Oh my gosh, I can't believe she asked me about the business opportunity? No. If I would've been like, Oh, I had to reach out to John. <br /><br />I don't know. He's going to think I'm spammy and weird. You know he is an attorney. No, I was like, everybody needs to diversify their income. The network marketing model is insanely brilliant, and you would be awesome at this. John, will you take a look? Do you hear the difference? Even that first invitation wasn't as good as that second one. Will you take a look and I have an incredible event going on? See I always have something to invite them to, to give them information. I find that if I'm inviting them to come in and take a look, and usually what I do, and this is my strategy is I'm Facebook, you can't go live and maybe you can with [inaudible] one stream live, but I haven't had success with it inside of an event. So, I put together a pop up group meeting, a pop-up group that I call an event. <br /><br />This is where I'm going to be adding people for my short-term event, so once a week. So, if my event takes place on Wednesday at nine o'clock and that's what, what's going to happen, I am going to say Wednesday at nine can you be their life? And this is the key you guys is I know we talk about automation, but it's the personalization. Once they say yes to the invite. So if my goal is to have at least at least if you're going for six and seven figures, you've made all these connections, at least five conversations a week, I am going to have to invite like 10 and when I send that invite for somebody to take a look, it feels really, really good because I know the benefit if they are going to receive, but I am not out there recruiting other network marketers let are like posting about their thing and being weird after a friend request the vision, the alignment, all of that that we come across. <br /><br />You will know when it's the right time and you will also have, if you use all of my strategies of great social media branding, giving out valuable, valuable content week after week after week, then you will have people asking you, you will have many people asking you and then you also have this event. So, once a week I get together. If you have leaders, you can do it with leaders, you can create your own. And I literally put together a quick event that takes place inside of a Facebook group and it's literally a 10 to 12-minute thing. And so, people's attention span I think is about six minutes. So inside of my event that I've invited John to, I have partnered with two or three or four other people that have different stories in the industry and we go live in this event on Wednesday nights. <br /><br />Now if somebody can't make it live, then we use one stream live and we drop it in. But we alternate. So, this week this is what we did, and it really, really worked. And I actually recruited three people from this actual method and I you're like, Oh, I thought this was something new. Imagine the consistency of every single week. So inside of the group I had five different people sharing and we talked about the big benefits of our personal company and the big benefits of the industry. And then the personal story behind we had and almost empty nest mom, a corporate America guy that has that. His son's in college. That was John. And we had two moms, Kristin and Sarah, yeah. That are working full time, making six figures while working this business part-time. And then we had Claire, who actually has come back to the company after she had made $1 million with our company, went out and found that she didn't find the right fit and recently had come back. <br /><br />And that was a powerful story. The purpose of this podcast isn't to tell you how great we're doing, but it's to give you a specific example. So, what was happening, and this is where the duplication comes in, is if your entire team has a blitz, okay, hear me out here about an invite, then everybody's into action. So, I know to build a multiple seven figure business, I not only need to recruit, but my team needs to recruit. So, I've got the affirmations, I've got the visualization, I've got the event set, and I help my team with the verbiage of how to invite to the event. So, I will say, let's pick a number. All right, and I want you to personally pick this number. And remember last week when we talked about atomic habits, we talked about writing something down and the time and the place that it will happen. <br /><br />You have a 91% greater chance that it will happen, so let's apply that atomic habit to what we're doing with our teams. If you have a team of three, great. If you have a team of 45 great. If you have a team of 4,000 great, this still works, and this may not be a new strategy for you. This may be something you've heard, but are you consistently doing this every single week? Are you consistently showing up every single week to follow these steps? This is how you become a master recruiter. You consistently show up on social media with the right marketing, with the right content, you consistently pour value. You consistently make those connections. You consistently do all of those things that we talk about for great marketing, but this is the bread and butter. This is the way that you actually pull those people that you've been pulling, right? <br /><br />Pulling and saying, Hey, we've got this event this week. I know you've been curious, or I know we've chatted about this in the past. You make a decision; you write it down this week I will invite five people into our business builder promoter distributor opportunity event on Wednesday at 9:00 PM. I will invite them during a blitz on Monday at noon. I will follow up with them again on Monday at six and I will send a reminder for the event at eight 30 on Wednesday. Does that sound like a lot of work? It is, but it's a lot of work to keep working at your job because you're not making a multiple six or seven figure income because you didn't do the due for the recruiting, so I'm just going to be honest. There's a lot of people out there that are saying, Oh, you just posted. People come and you have this…<br /><br /><br />It's really great. If you talk to any person that's made seven figures in the industry, I'm going to tell you they had a consistent plan for how to show the business and I find that if you show the business in a very systematic, very shark oriented, detailed way that most people will fall off. They want to hear the stories, they want to hear the benefits, and the next step after that is if somebody is, has that shark personality and wants those details, the next step after that is to go do that. So, here's your strategy for the week. I mean we've talked about for this, and like I said, this is helped our team to recruit thousands. This has helped me to consistently recruit week after week after week after week. I set that intention with my affirmations, with my visualization. I write down what it is that I'm going to do. <br /><br />I make that promise to myself, like we said with Atomic Habits. Then I schedule a Zoom. This is the important piece. I schedule a zoom with my team and if you don't have a team schedule with some sidelines or invite your one person on your team, I have to set up the event, the events easy to set up, and I could talk about this all over in camp if you're in the group, but the event gets set up, we plan it, we set up the group, we I'll talk about what the content will be and we say it's five minutes each. So, the whole event itself could be a total of 20 minutes. If you have four people sharing, the first-person welcomes talks about the benefits of, you know I might talk about the benefit of diversifying income, right? Residual income and I might say a few things about the personal comp plan and then I'm going to share my personal story and what made me decide and then I'm going to say, hold on. <br /><br />Coming up next, I'm a, I'm a sign off from this live and I do it this way on purpose. I don't go into a Zoom where we're all sharing because it gets too long. I want to have snippets. So, five minutes, five minutes, five minutes, and this is just one strategy. There's many the five minutes, five minutes, five minutes, and you can automate those videos. But I really, really know that the live touch during that life. Okay, so we've got, we're talking about setting it up. I'm going to go back to the Monday. So, Monday at six o'clock, let's say every week on Monday. And this is consistency of showing up for your team. If you have layered leadership, you guys, I'm not always running this Zoom, but I'm always doing my inviting. So, you get on and you say, okay, let's all make a commitment. How many are you inviting? <br /><br />Let's invite tonight. What verbiage would sound great? Okay, great. Let's give it a go. And while we're on the zoom, we're braver together, right? Remember, girls don't go to the bathroom. Like when you're in high school, you bring somebody with you because you're braver together. All right, so we've done that Zoom. Here's the thing is if you can get one or two people into action or a hundred or 200 people into action and they're doing the invites, you have got momentum on your team. The reason why people stop and they're not growing is because they're not having conversations and they're not having conversations because they don't know what to say and they don't know what to say because nobody's giving them a cool event to invite their friends to. Like if I had to call my friend Sarah and I wanted her to play tennis, but I didn't know where we were playing tennis or when or what the date was. <br /><br />And I was just like, Hey, tennis. But if I knew I had a invitational that had food and mimosas and it was going to be a competition and it was going to have our favorite pro rubber, I'd do like, it's on the seventh we're going to meet at 10 it's going to be awesome. Are you in, can I count on you? Yes. So different. So, when you get your teams on board with a little blitz each week to invite to the event, more people have action. And if you do it on a Zoom and you have different ideas and you're sharing verbiage and you're all like being super brave and you're making a commitment, right? People are in action. An action creates results. And start that zoom with the visualization. Start that zoom with some positive affirmations. Show your team how to show up in a positive way and say, you know what, you guys, somebody is waiting for your message tonight and I can't wait to find out who someone's life is going to change because you're introducing them to your business. <br /><br />I can't wait. Yeah, people excited and together squash that negativity. So, notice how this is now duplicatable. So, we're inviting to that Wednesday event. They say, yes. Awesome. So as soon as someone says yes, they've put up their hand and then the conversation starts like, Hey, I'm curious, like what do you do now for work? Have you ever done another online affiliate network marketing business, getting the details, staying in touch? Because if someone says they're showing up, that's a hot lead for the week, right? Even if they don't answer, then I'll do a reminder. So, if I've promised myself to reach out to 10 people and have conversations and one person says she's showing up, that's awesome. Two is even better. Three home rent, right? So, what happens, this is the differences. A lot of people have events, a lot of people have zooms. The consistency of how you respond to that invitation is key. <br /><br />And like I said, this is the difference between making sometimes money like grocery money and making life changing money is how you handle that live event. So, let's say that I've invited Sarah and she said, yes. Hey Sarah, it's we're getting ready to get started. I'll see you over in the event and I will actually tag you as well. So, during the event, I'm very active. So if it's me that's going live, I'm asking someone to tag if I'm live, I'm asking somebody else to tag the people below and to say like, Hey, Beth is life at this life and your team is on and you're like creating energy and you're making comments and you're tagging and people are seeing the excitement. All right, so the live event happens. The next is find out if they were on live, reach out and say, Hey, what did you think? <br /><br />The replays will be up in the group. They're going to stay up in the group for 24 hours. Can you watch those tomorrow? Cause I'd love to have a conversation with you after you have watched the videos. If they've watched them, tell me what, what are your thoughts? And then ask for the close. Just say, is there any more information that I can provide for you? Tell me what's on your mind. Isn't this incredible? And pause. Three-way chats can come up once they've had the exposure. Then you've got to see if they need any more information, any more education, any more validation before they're ready to make a decision. So, you've had them look and then the follow-up is, Oh, my gosh, wasn't John's video? Incredible. I just love him. What are your thoughts? What are your thoughts? And quickly then I love to say, you know what? <br /><br />Usually I will say, I've got a special tonight for my own personal special for new promoters. Here's how this is going to work and I'm getting started tomorrow with an incredible group to be running for these bonuses. Can I count on you? Conversations, connections, get some validation. So, what just happened here is we created a vision. We created our vibration. We creative positivity around this idea that people need what we have. People are looking to diversify income. There is a robot cleaning the freakin’ floors in Walmart. You guys, people need to know about the network marketing industry. We also have an agreement that we can't just post and pray even if it's incredible content. Even if I've written a book, even if I'm in my stories and even if I'm being interviewed in 15 Facebook groups, I still have to, if I want to go next level, I don't know many people, they may say it, but I'm telling you guys, many people that don't recruit without having an intentional ask and when you're putting out value and when you're showing up as an extraordinary human and your putting out that vibration, nobody is going to roll their eyes and say, why? <br /><br />How dare she asked me what if Oprah asked me to join a network marketing business? What if it wasn't for me? Would I be like, Oh, Oprah, you're terrible. I can't believe you asked me that. I'd be like, wow, Oprah, she's so cool. Cut all this stuff. She does look at all that like love her Super Soul Sunday. That was such a compliment. Thanks Oprah. Like think about that. Think about that. So, then we talked about having an actual event where we're giving the information that is a new opportunity, live event inside of a Facebook group. We talked about having a blitz with your team, where you start with giving them belief, giving them vision and sharing ideas. We talked about the atomic habit of writing down, how many on this day, when, how writing it down, making that commitment. And then we went ahead and talked about what happens during that launch. <br /><br />So, during that I keep it a launch. You guys, what happens during that event? Cause we also do live launch events for launching new distributors and promoters. And we'll talk about that. Maybe we'll talk about that next week. So, this was a mouthful, but I want you to imagine this. I want you to close your eyes for a second. If you're not driving, I want you to imagine every single week having the opportunity to have an invite to show someone what you know, to show someone a way that they can create options for their family. Do you see that person? Do you see that dad? Do you see that mom working two jobs? Do you see the stress at night? They are tossing and turning and thinking about debt. Do you see somebody that's lonely? Do you see somebody that absolutely positively is missing community? It's personal development. <br /><br />They need a circle that perhaps gratitude and new practices of journaling could save a marriage. Perhaps paying off debt could save someone from so much stress that they become ill. what if you have the answer for that person that can't sleep tonight? What if you do? You may miss. You may ask the wrong person. Let's not really the wrong person. You may ask somebody that's not ready, but I ask you this. If you create a system of duplication, if you create an event, do it. Do it for one week. What if he showed up every week? What if you spent this whole activity that we're talking about you guys between the blitz? Even if you run the blitz and you're in the event, it's literally one hour of your time, one hour of your time each week in the most important activity asking, you've got asked for what you want. <br /><br />You have marketing, you have visibility, you have ways that people are attracted to you. You're pulling them to you. You're connecting. But the difference between even a six figure and a seven-figure earner is asking for what you want. Pick up the phone invite, but when you have a blitz event, you teach your team to do the same thing and when you have a live event, they get to see the passion. They get to see the team rallying together. They get to see the excitement. Our event last night you guys, people were excited. They saw the love, they felt like, Hey, I want to take a look at this. I can tell you because I was able to look at the numbers of the people that participated in the event. I was able to look at how many people came into the business and then the fun begins. <br /><br />So, I asked you this, are you willing to take the time each week to grow that business? Are you willing to spend time in the absolute best income producing activity? If the answer is yes, I encourage you to give it a go. Give it a shot. We're going to be talking about this and many other ways to have a recruiting roadmap. I'm going to do a free challenge. It's going to take place on March 14th I don't know that I even have the signup ready yet, so what I want you to do, if you want to get into this free challenge and actually work through this and there's a few other details that are really important that I didn't share with you that I need to be live, go ahead and send me a DM on Instagram or Facebook messenger. Next week I'll have the funnel setup where you can actually get on the list for it, but since we're talking about a recruiting challenge and roadmap, we're going to work through this. <br /><br />So, I am going to give you in that free challenge, I'm actually going to give you different options that are like this and then a super-secret about how to actually close more. I closed 100% of people with this when I did a recruiting blitz just three months ago and I'm going to share that inside of this challenge that we're starting on March 14th I think the date is all right, so give that over into Camp Elevate because I will be announcing it there as well. That's probably just as easy, thecampelevategroup.com thank you so much for being with us today and this has been a long one but super, super important and I want to stop this podcast or end this podcast with fishing in the dark with a review fishing in the dark. If this is you, you get yourself a free boss at, send me a message over on Facebook messenger, Instagram DM. <br /><br />I love this podcast. Beth gives so many nuggets of wisdom. I am listening intently and have started to put things into action. I have chosen a fresh start and we'll be implementing gratitude in January of 2020. So, I know that you've been doing it now for a few months. Fishing in the dark. I am so happy to join so many women who are on this journey with me. Here's to 2020 may you all be blessed and grateful of what, thank you, fishing in the dark and I can't wait to know who you are in real life. I love when I try to guess, so that's all I have for you today and I want to say to you, be you briefly, if this sounded a little bit off, if you're like, yeah, but she talks about this aligned business, you guys, this is aligned. If your vision and your mission is truly to impact women and help them to build a business that nobody can be the boss of them, there is no better way than network marketing and somebody had to reach out to me. <br /><br />Somebody had to send me that text, somebody had to give me that invite and I encourage you to do the same because in your hands, if you're building a network marketing, you have an incredible gift to offer to someone today. That's all. I'll see you all next week. Thanks so much for being with me today. Screenshot, send this into your Instagram stories. I'm going to also do some boss hats for people that do that as well. So, I've got a lot of Boss hats, Mandy, because I think we're going to have a lot of people sharing this out in Instagram. I'll catch you guys all next week, or I'll see you over in Camp Elevate.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So, leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I will enter you to win the 'You're Not the Boss of Me' swag. So, make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/27-recruit-and-grow-rich-dJvI3gK0</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED...</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• 10 Ways: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• Words are the most powerful thing that you have while you're thinking about the idea of recruiting and sharing. (02:22)</p><p>• I want you to throw away those words that aren't working for you. This is a little thing that I want to share with you is that sound vibration travels through water four times faster than it goes through open air. Considering that your body is 70% water, you'll understand how quickly the vibration from negative words actually resonates with your cells. (04:15)</p><p>• So before I do those reach outs and before I have conversations and before I start talking to people about being a business partner, the very first thing I do is make sure that I have my belief in line, make sure that I have my vibration high, make sure that I have that vision. (07:33)</p><p>• If you're going to recruit, you have to have a list being who is it out there that you have on your list, on your phone, on your social media, in your community. (12:57)</p><p>• There's a lot of different ways that we can get connected with people in different challenges, but this, every single week I have specific action toward an event. (17:25)</p><p> </p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR...</strong></p><p>March 02, 2020</p><p><strong>EPISODE TRANSCRIPT...</strong></p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves, and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Everybody I talk to is negative. Nobody's working for my team. I don't know how so and so recruited. She must have had it. Big warm market. My family is laughing at me. I can't recruit. I don't know what I'm doing. I don't know what to say. I'm getting crickets. Nobody's open to this opportunity. Stop and pause. Did you hear all that negativity in my voice? Did you hear all of that? Disbelief and what I was sharing. Did your vibration just kind of drop to the floor? Words are the most powerful thing that you have while you're thinking about the idea of recruiting and sharing. So, we're going to start there. I am going to tell you exactly some shifts that you need to make and then I'm going to end with a strategy that I have used over and over and over again to recruit over a thousand people into the network marketing business that I'm in and to help others to do the same. <br /><br />And you don't have to be an influencer, you don't have to have a podcast. You can be, as I was, I share this all the time. A regular everyday person. I had an AOL account; I had a couple of hundred friends on Facebook. I didn't understand the online space, but I was willing to present. I was willing ask the question. So hearing from somebody that's like on a podcast, Oh, all these accolades, I want you to go back with me to 2014 I want you to go back to the person that said, okay, I'm going to trust this business model. I'm going to trust that this is the way that I can break the glass ceiling that I had if I was going to head back to work, to be a teacher. And so first of all, I had to have that belief. So, let's talk about all that negativity. <br /><br /> </p><p>You heard my voice; I hear it all the time. And if you're a leader or maybe it comes out of your mouth, I can tell you that the person that's saying those things, people are feeling that vibration. People are feeling that negativity. So of course, they're not answering you. Of course, they don't want to talk to you about the business. You don't even believe that it works yourself. So, the first thing I want to tell you is let's shift those words. All right? So, when you hear recruit and grow rich, I want you to have affirmations around your business. I want you to throw away those words that aren't working for you. This is a little thing that I want to share with you is that sound vibration travels through water four times faster than it goes through open air. Considering that your body is 70% water, you'll understand how quickly the vibration from negative words actually resonates with your cells. <br /><br />You guys, it's science, right? I love that little science. So, I read this in an article. I think it's a Goop article, but it was like so incredible to think about the power of the words that we're using. And as I was doing this recruit and grow rich content, I started to think, yes, I can give you all kinds of strategies, but if we don't start with the vibration being high, if we don't start with having affirmations and vision and a positive mindset around the success of our ability to recruit and bring people into the business, and also the belief that that person will have success as a business partner with you, then yeah, might as well hang it up. So, let's start there. And if you haven't listened to my episodes or you're not over in Camp Elevate, it takes a lot of work, you guys to keep that vibration high. <br /><br />It takes working on the mindset daily. Having those affirmations around your business, having affirmations. I have them all over the place because the words create my reality. So, if I'm constantly saying, Oh, gosh, nobody's answering my messages. Nobody wants to do the business. I don't even know why I bother. Guess what's going to happen? Nothing. So, I want you to shift your words. I want you to get rid of those. Throw away words that say, nobody's going to join me. Everybody's crickets. Nobody wants to do this. I want you to create affirmations around how many people or waiting for your message, how many people were like I was in 2014 who is desperate, desperate for a change, desperate for a business that could help us to pay off the debt. And do you think Blair Critch on the day that she sent me a message was like, Oh, this is never going to work. <br /><br />She's never going to answer me. Uh, I don't know why I bother. I don't what to say. Is this spam? Oh, my goodness. No. She had total belief that she was sharing something with me that could change my life. I felt it. And she was just getting started. She borrowed the belief from our other friend that was already having success and she believed in the industry and her words were simple. Her words, we're so simple that I was curious, and I was interested, and I was excited, and it never crossed my mind that she didn't believe it would work. So, if she had sent like, I don't know, Beth, I don't know about this thing, but I actually like the products, but you know, I don't really know. It could be one of those things, but let's just take a look at, and I'm not so sure. <br /><br />No, she was like, listen, I'm all in. This company looks to be incredible and I'm having the best experience with these products. I want you to be a partner with me in this. Let's do this. It could be a great adventure with something like that. I was like, Oh, okay. So, I'm not telling you those are the exact words, but Blair's energy and her vibration and her belief was there. And so, I'm going to say to you, I want you to start with how do you view your business? Do you have gratitude around it? Do you have those five reasons that we talked about? Wait, this is the most insanely amazing thing for someone to become a partner with you. So before I do those reach outs and before I have conversations and before I start talking to people about being a business partner, the very first thing I do is make sure that I have my belief in line, make sure that I have my vibration high, make sure that I have that vision. <br /><br />I mean I visualize people saying yes to me. I visualize people having success. I visualize their life changing and so that vibration, it's high. It's like you have that friend. I know you do. I have that friend and she's like, come on, we're headed out. We're going to it to be so much fun. My friend's name is Heather and she's like, where to play? Ping pong. It's going to be a blast. Everybody's there instead of like, Oh, my gosh, like let's get dressed. It's so cold outside. Let's not go. I'm going to read you a quote. It's Gary John Bishop. Yeah. Has the book an F yourself, and this quote says, retrain your brain one word at a time. We can determine our emotions by steering our thoughts. We can shape those thoughts by being conscious and diligent about our words and the kind of language we engage in. <br /><br />So if you're engaging in any negativity around your business, around your conversations, around what is happening, that's the first step. So, switch it. Figure out a way to have those affirmations. Have a vision for what you're doing with the company. If you need help with this, join me over in camp elevate. We talk about it all of the time, or send me a DM and say, I don't even know what you're talking about so that I can guide you to a training on it. Okay? There's many penny podcasts. If you go back and listen about those routines, now let's talk about a recruiting roadmap. There are 10,000 people out there telling you 10 ways that you could make six to seven figures in your business if you follow this exact action plan. So, my friend Daniel Pope is a brilliant marketer. Brilliant. He's brilliant. And I said to him, everybody out there like I'm doing a challenge coming up and I'll tell you how to get on that challenge list. <br /><br /><br /> </p><p>I'm doing a challenge March 14th it's absolutely free and I'm going to give you five days of, I don't even know if it's called a recruiting roadmap because that sounds so like everybody has one. But my challenge is making money your way and it's feeling aligned with how you recruit. You're recruiting plan an actual way that you're going to create an event to share your opportunity. But we're also going to go way into the mindset. So today I'm going to give you a strategy. You're going to walk away with something that you can do today that you feel excited about, aligned with, and have a conversation with somebody that is your Beth from 2014 we're going to talk about that. But I want to talk about what Daniel Pope said and Hey, Hey Daniel, if you're listening, and I said to him, it's like Daniel, everybody out there is sharing a roadmap, a bootcamp. <br /><br />Everybody's saying, here's the way to earn six and seven figures. If you follow this exact social media blueprint or you follow this exact plan, and he said, Beth, it's like chicken pot pie and I want you to think of your business-like chicken pot pie. If you go to all recipes and you look up chicken pot pie, there's like but 272 that you're going to come across and there's different pictures and there's different ways that you can make the chicken pot pie the way that you recruit. It might have the exact same steps as me, but your recipe will always be different because your ingredients, everything that's making up your chicken pot pie. Is this making sense to you? When Daniel said it, it sounded way more brilliant. I'm going to have to interview him on the podcast about this. But when he said that to me and I was talking about this challenge I'm putting together and I said, I want it to be different. <br /><br />I want my listeners of the podcast and my followers that want a really good free training. I want them to come in and I want them to really feel confident, aligned, excited, not feel that icky and be excited to reach out to someone and say, okay, Hey, take a look at this. Here's what I want to show you. It's like show and tell in kindergarten. And he said, Beth, yeah, of course a lot of people like the buzzword’s you guys recruit and grow rich recruiting roadmap, the six and seven figure way to recruit hundreds and three to five new customers a day. Right? And he said that the way that it's delivered, the way that it's received, the spices that you put in yours, everybody has a little bit of a different shift. So that's what I'm sharing with you today is my recipe for chicken pot pie. <br /><br />But I want you to remember that there are certain elements of recruiting that have to happen along the way. I think for you to have success, and the very first one is that mindset. Is that okay? The mindset, the affirmations around, I am going to have a conversation with someone, and they are going to be blown away by what I'm sharing with them. I cannot wait to hear the difference. Oh my gosh, this week is going to be such a successful week. I cannot wait to connect with so many women that are ready and looking for a way for financial freedom, without having to sit in their cubicle. I can't wait to connect and share this incredible, incredible opportunity to hear the difference. Oh my gosh. I feel like tomorrow my inbox is going to be flooded with women that are asking me about how they can make an extra $200 to $500 a month, diversify their income and do it online and be a part of an amazing community. <br /><br />I can't wait. So, when I put that out there, did you guys feel the difference between why are there crickets in my inbox? Right? So that belief, so we obviously have to have a list. Everybody has to have a list. If you're going to recruit, you have to have a list being who is it out there that you have on your list, on your phone, on your social media, in your community. I don't care where it is that would be aligned with building a business with you that's looking for what you have. So, first of all, you've got to determine where is that list coming from? No, I hope that if you follow me at all, you know that I am consistently saying five, four, three, two, one, add two to your list today. Where does your Emily, that's my avatar. Where does she hang out? <br /><br />So, first of all, what is the pain, the frustration, the benefit of recruiting to your opportunity, going to give to someone. Do you know that that is first you cannot recruit? If you do not know that answer, what do you solve? Why would someone want to join you in the business? Well, for me, I absolutely positively wanted no glass ceiling. I wanted unlimited income potential. I want it to be able to have a flexible place to work. I wanted a first to market product. I wanted mentoring and leadership that was top, top, top in the industry. I had all these, these things. What are the things that you have? What are the things that you offer? What are the benefits of your opportunity? Because it is a crowded market out there. So, I want you to know what are the benefits of your opportunity, and just know that you don't have to explain it all to your prospect, but you've got to be able to know these things. <br /><br />Because if you were explaining to me why I should go to this new restaurant, because they have the very best cauliflower tacos, you are excited. I don't need to know what ingredients are in the cauliflower tacos cause I'm not a foodie, but I love cauliflower tacos and I am like, and they have skinny margaritas. I am so there. What night are we going Jessie? Think about that. So when you have decided that you have something that people are going to be waiting for you, they're like waiting for you to reach out and we know what paid and frustration we solve, then it's time to take some action. And I know that we have all kinds of things that say, Oh, never reach out. If you put the best content out there, they're going to come to you. Well, we can be strategic in our content and we can be strategic in that strategy. <br /><br />And we can put a lot of things in our stories that connect all of the dots. And very often when we're consistent and connecting those dots, we do have people that say, what is it that you do? But if you want to go to seven figures, I've got news for you. You cannot passively sit back and wait. Even if you have the best opt in and lead magnet and you've got people that are showing up every day saying, I want what she has. You still have to have a conversation. You still have to have an invite. So, let's back up a little bit. We've got that list. We've grown that list. We're connecting with people. Let's say that I have, I've connected with people in my Peloton group and I'm not saying go into these groups and recruit. I'm saying these are friends that you've connected with. <br /><br />I'm going to give you an example of a new connection. And how that works is I'm really learning about intermittent fasting for my health. Of course, weight loss is a great benefit, but for my health, I've read about regenerating cells when you go without food and I'm learning. So, I'm in some intermittent fasting groups and I'm genuinely sharing information. I'm genuinely cheering for people. I'm genuinely sharing because it's a group that I'm interested in. So I made a few connections with people that were giving me advice and I shot them a friend request adding two to my list and went over, you know, did some commenting and posting over on their wall to get to know them as you would a new friend, just like you meeting a new friend in real life. So now we've got, you know, we've added to the list, right? <br /><br />So you're thinking about, okay, I'm putting all this great social media out. I've got these curiosity posts, I've, I've got things in my stories and my new friends aren't asking me. This is what they said works in attraction marketing, right? If you put it out there, people will show up in your inbox. I am all about curiosity. I am all about sharing with people genuine content that aligns, but I am also about, you've got to take some action. If you don't take some action and you just wish that people show up, you will have a very, very slow build, a very slow build. So every single week, this is one of the big strategies that I used in still use in recruiting and every single week I create some sort of an event that I'm going to invite to that's going to inform and the purpose of this event is to get information about my specific opportunity. <br /><br />There's a lot of different ways that we can get connected with people in different challenges, but this, every single week I have specific action toward an event. Do you hear that specific action toward an event? I've done all the affirmations, I've done all the visualization, I know exactly what it is that we have. I've got groups that I can add to that are corporate wide or team wide. But if you are going to recruit, and I don't know if you guys heard my vending machine analogy, I might've shared it last week and I heard this in… who shared this. Somebody that was in Rob's group shared that network marketing is like having a vending machine and having a lot of them, right? You can like sell one big house as a realtor and make a really great commission, but once that house is sold, you've got to find another house to sell with the network marketing model and the distribution model, it's like owning different Coke machines and they're all over the place. <br /><br />So I might have 5,000 Coke machines and although I made a bigger commission on selling one big house, having these Coke machines, which would be represent the business builders, your business partners, your promoters, your distributors, means that you have touched the market in all of the different places. And so, my goal when I visualize that, visualize it and people, and I have a U S actually a world map and I visualize people that are joining me in all different places to build a global team. Then I have to get to work. So, I've done all the posting, you know, I've got all the interaction going on, I've got things in my stories. I'm educating on what a great business model. I even have a robot that was cleaning floors at Walmart and I'm talking about why we have to look to build in the online space. But if I want to build, and I'm saying I, if you want to build and you want to build quickly, you have got to actually reach out to people and ask and you don't have to be like, Hey would you be open? <br /><br />And if that doesn't feel right to you. But through my connection, through the interactions that I'm having and listening to my friends all over the place, so when I make new connections and new friends, I am making sure that at least at least once a day I am asking someone to take a look and I know that sounds scary and I know that you might want to shut down this podcast and say, I thought she was all about building an aligned business. I am you guys. I would never have had people like Jen or people like John or people like Jody or Nancy or Julie if I hadn't had the guts to just say, John, I'd love for you to take a look. I've got this event. It's 15 minutes long and I would love for you to just hop on in, listen, see if you've got questions, see if you're aligned with it. <br /><br />Okay? It's going to give you the information about why our company, why the network marketing model and why it might apply to you. Would you hop on in and I know that you're like, okay, what did she just say? What did she just say? That was my conversation with John, so John was a customer and I had gotten to know John and I knew that he had a goal of buying their first house or not their first house, but buying a house, getting out of a rental situation, paying off some debt, and that's also knowing your customer funnel. You can, your best people are waiting in your customer space. Did John feel like was like invading him? Was he like, Oh my gosh, I can't believe she asked me about the business opportunity? No. If I would've been like, Oh, I had to reach out to John. <br /><br />I don't know. He's going to think I'm spammy and weird. You know he is an attorney. No, I was like, everybody needs to diversify their income. The network marketing model is insanely brilliant, and you would be awesome at this. John, will you take a look? Do you hear the difference? Even that first invitation wasn't as good as that second one. Will you take a look and I have an incredible event going on? See I always have something to invite them to, to give them information. I find that if I'm inviting them to come in and take a look, and usually what I do, and this is my strategy is I'm Facebook, you can't go live and maybe you can with [inaudible] one stream live, but I haven't had success with it inside of an event. So, I put together a pop up group meeting, a pop-up group that I call an event. <br /><br />This is where I'm going to be adding people for my short-term event, so once a week. So, if my event takes place on Wednesday at nine o'clock and that's what, what's going to happen, I am going to say Wednesday at nine can you be their life? And this is the key you guys is I know we talk about automation, but it's the personalization. Once they say yes to the invite. So if my goal is to have at least at least if you're going for six and seven figures, you've made all these connections, at least five conversations a week, I am going to have to invite like 10 and when I send that invite for somebody to take a look, it feels really, really good because I know the benefit if they are going to receive, but I am not out there recruiting other network marketers let are like posting about their thing and being weird after a friend request the vision, the alignment, all of that that we come across. <br /><br />You will know when it's the right time and you will also have, if you use all of my strategies of great social media branding, giving out valuable, valuable content week after week after week, then you will have people asking you, you will have many people asking you and then you also have this event. So, once a week I get together. If you have leaders, you can do it with leaders, you can create your own. And I literally put together a quick event that takes place inside of a Facebook group and it's literally a 10 to 12-minute thing. And so, people's attention span I think is about six minutes. So inside of my event that I've invited John to, I have partnered with two or three or four other people that have different stories in the industry and we go live in this event on Wednesday nights. <br /><br />Now if somebody can't make it live, then we use one stream live and we drop it in. But we alternate. So, this week this is what we did, and it really, really worked. And I actually recruited three people from this actual method and I you're like, Oh, I thought this was something new. Imagine the consistency of every single week. So inside of the group I had five different people sharing and we talked about the big benefits of our personal company and the big benefits of the industry. And then the personal story behind we had and almost empty nest mom, a corporate America guy that has that. His son's in college. That was John. And we had two moms, Kristin and Sarah, yeah. That are working full time, making six figures while working this business part-time. And then we had Claire, who actually has come back to the company after she had made $1 million with our company, went out and found that she didn't find the right fit and recently had come back. <br /><br />And that was a powerful story. The purpose of this podcast isn't to tell you how great we're doing, but it's to give you a specific example. So, what was happening, and this is where the duplication comes in, is if your entire team has a blitz, okay, hear me out here about an invite, then everybody's into action. So, I know to build a multiple seven figure business, I not only need to recruit, but my team needs to recruit. So, I've got the affirmations, I've got the visualization, I've got the event set, and I help my team with the verbiage of how to invite to the event. So, I will say, let's pick a number. All right, and I want you to personally pick this number. And remember last week when we talked about atomic habits, we talked about writing something down and the time and the place that it will happen. <br /><br />You have a 91% greater chance that it will happen, so let's apply that atomic habit to what we're doing with our teams. If you have a team of three, great. If you have a team of 45 great. If you have a team of 4,000 great, this still works, and this may not be a new strategy for you. This may be something you've heard, but are you consistently doing this every single week? Are you consistently showing up every single week to follow these steps? This is how you become a master recruiter. You consistently show up on social media with the right marketing, with the right content, you consistently pour value. You consistently make those connections. You consistently do all of those things that we talk about for great marketing, but this is the bread and butter. This is the way that you actually pull those people that you've been pulling, right? <br /><br />Pulling and saying, Hey, we've got this event this week. I know you've been curious, or I know we've chatted about this in the past. You make a decision; you write it down this week I will invite five people into our business builder promoter distributor opportunity event on Wednesday at 9:00 PM. I will invite them during a blitz on Monday at noon. I will follow up with them again on Monday at six and I will send a reminder for the event at eight 30 on Wednesday. Does that sound like a lot of work? It is, but it's a lot of work to keep working at your job because you're not making a multiple six or seven figure income because you didn't do the due for the recruiting, so I'm just going to be honest. There's a lot of people out there that are saying, Oh, you just posted. People come and you have this…<br /><br /><br />It's really great. If you talk to any person that's made seven figures in the industry, I'm going to tell you they had a consistent plan for how to show the business and I find that if you show the business in a very systematic, very shark oriented, detailed way that most people will fall off. They want to hear the stories, they want to hear the benefits, and the next step after that is if somebody is, has that shark personality and wants those details, the next step after that is to go do that. So, here's your strategy for the week. I mean we've talked about for this, and like I said, this is helped our team to recruit thousands. This has helped me to consistently recruit week after week after week after week. I set that intention with my affirmations, with my visualization. I write down what it is that I'm going to do. <br /><br />I make that promise to myself, like we said with Atomic Habits. Then I schedule a Zoom. This is the important piece. I schedule a zoom with my team and if you don't have a team schedule with some sidelines or invite your one person on your team, I have to set up the event, the events easy to set up, and I could talk about this all over in camp if you're in the group, but the event gets set up, we plan it, we set up the group, we I'll talk about what the content will be and we say it's five minutes each. So, the whole event itself could be a total of 20 minutes. If you have four people sharing, the first-person welcomes talks about the benefits of, you know I might talk about the benefit of diversifying income, right? Residual income and I might say a few things about the personal comp plan and then I'm going to share my personal story and what made me decide and then I'm going to say, hold on. <br /><br />Coming up next, I'm a, I'm a sign off from this live and I do it this way on purpose. I don't go into a Zoom where we're all sharing because it gets too long. I want to have snippets. So, five minutes, five minutes, five minutes, and this is just one strategy. There's many the five minutes, five minutes, five minutes, and you can automate those videos. But I really, really know that the live touch during that life. Okay, so we've got, we're talking about setting it up. I'm going to go back to the Monday. So, Monday at six o'clock, let's say every week on Monday. And this is consistency of showing up for your team. If you have layered leadership, you guys, I'm not always running this Zoom, but I'm always doing my inviting. So, you get on and you say, okay, let's all make a commitment. How many are you inviting? <br /><br />Let's invite tonight. What verbiage would sound great? Okay, great. Let's give it a go. And while we're on the zoom, we're braver together, right? Remember, girls don't go to the bathroom. Like when you're in high school, you bring somebody with you because you're braver together. All right, so we've done that Zoom. Here's the thing is if you can get one or two people into action or a hundred or 200 people into action and they're doing the invites, you have got momentum on your team. The reason why people stop and they're not growing is because they're not having conversations and they're not having conversations because they don't know what to say and they don't know what to say because nobody's giving them a cool event to invite their friends to. Like if I had to call my friend Sarah and I wanted her to play tennis, but I didn't know where we were playing tennis or when or what the date was. <br /><br />And I was just like, Hey, tennis. But if I knew I had a invitational that had food and mimosas and it was going to be a competition and it was going to have our favorite pro rubber, I'd do like, it's on the seventh we're going to meet at 10 it's going to be awesome. Are you in, can I count on you? Yes. So different. So, when you get your teams on board with a little blitz each week to invite to the event, more people have action. And if you do it on a Zoom and you have different ideas and you're sharing verbiage and you're all like being super brave and you're making a commitment, right? People are in action. An action creates results. And start that zoom with the visualization. Start that zoom with some positive affirmations. Show your team how to show up in a positive way and say, you know what, you guys, somebody is waiting for your message tonight and I can't wait to find out who someone's life is going to change because you're introducing them to your business. <br /><br />I can't wait. Yeah, people excited and together squash that negativity. So, notice how this is now duplicatable. So, we're inviting to that Wednesday event. They say, yes. Awesome. So as soon as someone says yes, they've put up their hand and then the conversation starts like, Hey, I'm curious, like what do you do now for work? Have you ever done another online affiliate network marketing business, getting the details, staying in touch? Because if someone says they're showing up, that's a hot lead for the week, right? Even if they don't answer, then I'll do a reminder. So, if I've promised myself to reach out to 10 people and have conversations and one person says she's showing up, that's awesome. Two is even better. Three home rent, right? So, what happens, this is the differences. A lot of people have events, a lot of people have zooms. The consistency of how you respond to that invitation is key. <br /><br />And like I said, this is the difference between making sometimes money like grocery money and making life changing money is how you handle that live event. So, let's say that I've invited Sarah and she said, yes. Hey Sarah, it's we're getting ready to get started. I'll see you over in the event and I will actually tag you as well. So, during the event, I'm very active. So if it's me that's going live, I'm asking someone to tag if I'm live, I'm asking somebody else to tag the people below and to say like, Hey, Beth is life at this life and your team is on and you're like creating energy and you're making comments and you're tagging and people are seeing the excitement. All right, so the live event happens. The next is find out if they were on live, reach out and say, Hey, what did you think? <br /><br />The replays will be up in the group. They're going to stay up in the group for 24 hours. Can you watch those tomorrow? Cause I'd love to have a conversation with you after you have watched the videos. If they've watched them, tell me what, what are your thoughts? And then ask for the close. Just say, is there any more information that I can provide for you? Tell me what's on your mind. Isn't this incredible? And pause. Three-way chats can come up once they've had the exposure. Then you've got to see if they need any more information, any more education, any more validation before they're ready to make a decision. So, you've had them look and then the follow-up is, Oh, my gosh, wasn't John's video? Incredible. I just love him. What are your thoughts? What are your thoughts? And quickly then I love to say, you know what? <br /><br />Usually I will say, I've got a special tonight for my own personal special for new promoters. Here's how this is going to work and I'm getting started tomorrow with an incredible group to be running for these bonuses. Can I count on you? Conversations, connections, get some validation. So, what just happened here is we created a vision. We created our vibration. We creative positivity around this idea that people need what we have. People are looking to diversify income. There is a robot cleaning the freakin’ floors in Walmart. You guys, people need to know about the network marketing industry. We also have an agreement that we can't just post and pray even if it's incredible content. Even if I've written a book, even if I'm in my stories and even if I'm being interviewed in 15 Facebook groups, I still have to, if I want to go next level, I don't know many people, they may say it, but I'm telling you guys, many people that don't recruit without having an intentional ask and when you're putting out value and when you're showing up as an extraordinary human and your putting out that vibration, nobody is going to roll their eyes and say, why? <br /><br />How dare she asked me what if Oprah asked me to join a network marketing business? What if it wasn't for me? Would I be like, Oh, Oprah, you're terrible. I can't believe you asked me that. I'd be like, wow, Oprah, she's so cool. Cut all this stuff. She does look at all that like love her Super Soul Sunday. That was such a compliment. Thanks Oprah. Like think about that. Think about that. So, then we talked about having an actual event where we're giving the information that is a new opportunity, live event inside of a Facebook group. We talked about having a blitz with your team, where you start with giving them belief, giving them vision and sharing ideas. We talked about the atomic habit of writing down, how many on this day, when, how writing it down, making that commitment. And then we went ahead and talked about what happens during that launch. <br /><br />So, during that I keep it a launch. You guys, what happens during that event? Cause we also do live launch events for launching new distributors and promoters. And we'll talk about that. Maybe we'll talk about that next week. So, this was a mouthful, but I want you to imagine this. I want you to close your eyes for a second. If you're not driving, I want you to imagine every single week having the opportunity to have an invite to show someone what you know, to show someone a way that they can create options for their family. Do you see that person? Do you see that dad? Do you see that mom working two jobs? Do you see the stress at night? They are tossing and turning and thinking about debt. Do you see somebody that's lonely? Do you see somebody that absolutely positively is missing community? It's personal development. <br /><br />They need a circle that perhaps gratitude and new practices of journaling could save a marriage. Perhaps paying off debt could save someone from so much stress that they become ill. what if you have the answer for that person that can't sleep tonight? What if you do? You may miss. You may ask the wrong person. Let's not really the wrong person. You may ask somebody that's not ready, but I ask you this. If you create a system of duplication, if you create an event, do it. Do it for one week. What if he showed up every week? What if you spent this whole activity that we're talking about you guys between the blitz? Even if you run the blitz and you're in the event, it's literally one hour of your time, one hour of your time each week in the most important activity asking, you've got asked for what you want. <br /><br />You have marketing, you have visibility, you have ways that people are attracted to you. You're pulling them to you. You're connecting. But the difference between even a six figure and a seven-figure earner is asking for what you want. Pick up the phone invite, but when you have a blitz event, you teach your team to do the same thing and when you have a live event, they get to see the passion. They get to see the team rallying together. They get to see the excitement. Our event last night you guys, people were excited. They saw the love, they felt like, Hey, I want to take a look at this. I can tell you because I was able to look at the numbers of the people that participated in the event. I was able to look at how many people came into the business and then the fun begins. <br /><br />So, I asked you this, are you willing to take the time each week to grow that business? Are you willing to spend time in the absolute best income producing activity? If the answer is yes, I encourage you to give it a go. Give it a shot. We're going to be talking about this and many other ways to have a recruiting roadmap. I'm going to do a free challenge. It's going to take place on March 14th I don't know that I even have the signup ready yet, so what I want you to do, if you want to get into this free challenge and actually work through this and there's a few other details that are really important that I didn't share with you that I need to be live, go ahead and send me a DM on Instagram or Facebook messenger. Next week I'll have the funnel setup where you can actually get on the list for it, but since we're talking about a recruiting challenge and roadmap, we're going to work through this. <br /><br />So, I am going to give you in that free challenge, I'm actually going to give you different options that are like this and then a super-secret about how to actually close more. I closed 100% of people with this when I did a recruiting blitz just three months ago and I'm going to share that inside of this challenge that we're starting on March 14th I think the date is all right, so give that over into Camp Elevate because I will be announcing it there as well. That's probably just as easy, thecampelevategroup.com thank you so much for being with us today and this has been a long one but super, super important and I want to stop this podcast or end this podcast with fishing in the dark with a review fishing in the dark. If this is you, you get yourself a free boss at, send me a message over on Facebook messenger, Instagram DM. <br /><br />I love this podcast. Beth gives so many nuggets of wisdom. I am listening intently and have started to put things into action. I have chosen a fresh start and we'll be implementing gratitude in January of 2020. So, I know that you've been doing it now for a few months. Fishing in the dark. I am so happy to join so many women who are on this journey with me. Here's to 2020 may you all be blessed and grateful of what, thank you, fishing in the dark and I can't wait to know who you are in real life. I love when I try to guess, so that's all I have for you today and I want to say to you, be you briefly, if this sounded a little bit off, if you're like, yeah, but she talks about this aligned business, you guys, this is aligned. If your vision and your mission is truly to impact women and help them to build a business that nobody can be the boss of them, there is no better way than network marketing and somebody had to reach out to me. <br /><br />Somebody had to send me that text, somebody had to give me that invite and I encourage you to do the same because in your hands, if you're building a network marketing, you have an incredible gift to offer to someone today. That's all. I'll see you all next week. Thanks so much for being with me today. Screenshot, send this into your Instagram stories. I'm going to also do some boss hats for people that do that as well. So, I've got a lot of Boss hats, Mandy, because I think we're going to have a lot of people sharing this out in Instagram. I'll catch you guys all next week, or I'll see you over in Camp Elevate.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So, leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I will enter you to win the 'You're Not the Boss of Me' swag. So, make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <itunes:summary>Hey bosses, welcome back. What did you think of a title? Recruit and Grow Rich? A little Napoleon Hill for you. Most of you have read, Think and Grow Rich. If you haven&apos;t, add that to your reading list and absolutely add it to audible. It&apos;s something that you should read and listen to. I love Napoleon Hill. I also love the book Three Feet from Gold, if you&apos;ve read that as well. In this episode today, it is a good one, it is all about pulling back the curtain on recruiting. And if you&apos;re listening to this and you&apos;re not a network marketer, this is going to help you in your sales process as well. But in the network marketing space, many times we use the word recruit. We ask somebody if they&apos;re open to taking a look at the business model. So, when we think about what happens in the network marketing space, it&apos;s awesome. 

You are able to start a business with a website that you did not have to pay to build or maintain. You get to have someone else deliver your products normally. You&apos;re not running around town. I hope not. That was so like, kind of 1994, where you&apos;re running around town delivering the products. So, you literally have someone manufacture your product, making sure that all of the safety standards are there. You have someone that&apos;s collecting the money. That&apos;s right. If you have your own business, you have someone that&apos;s paying your payroll, right? They pay your team, and you get to do the incredible thing of sharing your passion and getting the people that need your product, your need, your business opportunity connected. It sounds so easy, right? Deep breath. How many times have you said, how come I can&apos;t possibly find people that want to do this business with me? We will talk about this and more on today’s episode. Ready?
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      <itunes:subtitle>Hey bosses, welcome back. What did you think of a title? Recruit and Grow Rich? A little Napoleon Hill for you. Most of you have read, Think and Grow Rich. If you haven&apos;t, add that to your reading list and absolutely add it to audible. It&apos;s something that you should read and listen to. I love Napoleon Hill. I also love the book Three Feet from Gold, if you&apos;ve read that as well. In this episode today, it is a good one, it is all about pulling back the curtain on recruiting. And if you&apos;re listening to this and you&apos;re not a network marketer, this is going to help you in your sales process as well. But in the network marketing space, many times we use the word recruit. We ask somebody if they&apos;re open to taking a look at the business model. So, when we think about what happens in the network marketing space, it&apos;s awesome. 

You are able to start a business with a website that you did not have to pay to build or maintain. You get to have someone else deliver your products normally. You&apos;re not running around town. I hope not. That was so like, kind of 1994, where you&apos;re running around town delivering the products. So, you literally have someone manufacture your product, making sure that all of the safety standards are there. You have someone that&apos;s collecting the money. That&apos;s right. If you have your own business, you have someone that&apos;s paying your payroll, right? They pay your team, and you get to do the incredible thing of sharing your passion and getting the people that need your product, your need, your business opportunity connected. It sounds so easy, right? Deep breath. How many times have you said, how come I can&apos;t possibly find people that want to do this business with me? We will talk about this and more on today’s episode. Ready?
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED...</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• 10 Ways: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• It's just that you've got to stay consistent with it and adjust your sales as you go. But realize that if we show up on Monday but not on Tuesday and maybe next week on Friday and then we let self-doubt, we let crazy words of not being worthy or this isn't, this never works out for me. (05:12)</p><p>• They call this implementation intention and write down, and even say it, that during the next week I will partake at least 20 minutes in vigorous exercise on this day at this time in this place. (06:41)</p><p>• So how can we implement this Atomic Habit by James Clear, when he talks about that into our business? Well, it's easy. So my daily method of operation, I wanted to keep it super simple. (08:55)</p><p>• You can make a commitment to that, to showing up for just your meditation, for showing up for just your thought downloads, everything that you want to shift can have this plan. (11:29)</p><p>• How are you meeting two new people every single day? And by meeting them adding to my list, I always like to attempt to get them over on social media because then I can get to know their world, see how I can serve, see how I can help? (17:16)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR...</strong></p><p>February 24, 2020</p><p><strong>EPISODE TRANSCRIPT...</strong></p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves, and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Welcome back bosses. It is episode number 26 of Your Not the Boss of Me. Today, I am streaming on Facebook as I'm doing the audio, so it will feel a little bit differently. And I want to just thank you for hopping on with me every Monday. And, all of the messages that have been coming through for me that you've been telling me are you in my head, which means that we're hitting it on the nose with what we're doing here with this podcast. And that is my goal is to take my experience, take the interviews, get those out to you so that you can build a business your way. And my philosophy is that we do not have to be in the hustle and grind every single day. We need to have systems, we need to have rituals, routines that allow us to not only build businesses that make lots of money, but also to be living that life, to be engaged, to be present. </p><p>And today's episode is going to be a shift in, first of all, that you need to make in your life. And when I discovered this, and you may already do this because, this book has been out for a long time, Atomic Habits. I'm going to show it to the people that are live with me, by James Clear. And this episode is going to take one shift in your habits and I'm going to show you how to apply it to your daily method of operations, so that you have something every single day that is income producing in your business. Because so much of the time we are scrolling, we are looking, we're doing one strategy. Then the next we're inconsistent. We're not showing up. And I want to give a little bit of an example of that. But before we do, I want to read this week's review. </p><p>And those of you that are new to the podcast, when I read every review, I send a boss hat. Well, this person already has a boss hat. So, her gift this week for sharing this review, and the five-star review is from Stephanie Britt. I'm going to send her a copy of Atomic Habits, if she doesn't have it. So, Stephanie, I have your address and I know where you live. I know it's snowing there today, so I won't be showing up at your door in North Carolina. And Stephanie says this, ‘somehow this lady is able to get right inside my head. I've gained confidence on how I manage my business, and clarity on where to focus my time and efforts, and no longer spin my wheels gaining no momentum or results. The shift in my mindset has positively impacted my income and business. Absolutely. But my relationships with family, friends, and my team have grown in ways I had only imagined. A must subscribe’. </p><p>Thank you, Stephanie. That means the world to me. And here's the thing is when Stephanie says that she's got clarity on where to focus her time and her efforts, we're going to talk today about a daily method of operation that Stephanie had been using for a year. But what had to shift for her was the energy and the and really her vision of where she wanted to be in her life. And that came from really committing to thought downloads, getting out that notebook. And, having that thought download, I used to say journaling and Stephanie said, call it a thought, a thought download because journaling might sound intimidating, but so much comes out when we're starting to think about what vision we have, where we want to be going, what drives us, what frustrates us, and doing that. And if that a thought download. So, today's episode I want to share with you something that James Clear shares and Atomic Habits, and this is fascinating to me. </p><p>And then I'm going to bridge it to how you can use this to grow your network marketing business, your online business, your coaching business. It really works for anything, whether you are, who is that? What did SpongeBob have? They had a pineapple under the sea. And I always think about those, what were those, those crab patties that they had and they had little gummy ones for kids. And I think about that. Every business has to have certain ingredients. That's what I call my CEO framework. But most importantly, if you talk to 10 people that have made over $1 million in the network marketing industry, there is one key ingredient and that is they have a list that continuously grows and they have a consistent daily method of operation, a daily intentional plan, however you want it to look. So, I'm sure that most of you have downloaded, have opted in, have asked and have printed out many different plans, but then it feels like you're swirling. </p><p>Can you agree with this? I know that I had done that a million times and I always like to relate business building to something that most women can relate to, and that is the consistency of showing up in maybe a workout plan that everything works. It's just that you've got to stay consistent with it and adjust your sales as you go. But realize that if we show up on Monday but not on Tuesday and maybe next week on Friday and then we let self-doubt, we let crazy words of not being worthy or this isn't, this never works out for me. We've got to raise our energy and vibration by sticking to that morning plan, the affirmations, the dream boards, the thought downloads and surrounding yourself with positive people that make an impact. Listening to things like this that are going to say, yes, you can do this. </p><p>So, this study that James Clear talks about an Atomic Habits. It had three groups, okay? And they were being asked to do 20 minutes of vigorous exercise at least once a week. So, the first group, the control group was just asked to write it down. How often do you exercise? Write it down. This is your goal. We want you to do the vigorous exercise at least 20 minutes one time a week. The second group called the motivation group was given a list of materials to read about why vigorous exercise was good for their cardiac output, input health. And they were also given a presentation. So, think about a podcast being on a zoom for your team and hearing that motivation. And the third group was given the same presentation, but they were asked to formulate a plan, an intentional plan. They call this implementation intention and write down, and even say it, that during the next week I will partake at least 20 minutes in vigorous exercise on this day at this time in this place. </p><p>So, think about this. The first group was just asked to log it. The second group was given more information, a motivational fire 'em up. The third group was giving the motivational fire up, but they actually did an implementation intention. And the results are fascinating. Okay? The results are that groups went into basically had the same results. So even showing up and, and hearing a motivational podcast or being on a Facebook live, or being on a zoom with your team, or going into that meeting. 35 to 48% committed to that one time per week during this controlled period in the group that did the implementation intention when they planned, when, where, how wrote it down. And I would even go as far to say it out loud and have affirmations around it. Visualize yourself doing it. Their results. 91% my friends. What does that tell you about how we're living our lives and how we're showing up for the people that we love, how we're showing up for our business and how we are doing the things that we know will move our business and our health and our relationships forward. </p><p>So, let's think about this. How do you intend to implement a particular habit that you know these habits will grow, your business will grow, your relationships will grow you into the person that you want to be. So, if you write down the time, the location and the place you set the intention, you read it, you see it, you have it in your affirmations, you are going to have results that are 91% versus the 35 to 48% of people that just leave it by chance. So, it works for flu shots, colonoscopies, sleep, voter turnout. They even did studies for voter turnout of saying to people, tell us the route that you will take. Tell us the day, tell us the time. So how can we implement this atomic habit by James clear, when he talks about that into our business? Well, it's easy. So, my daily method of operation, I wanted to keep it super simple. </p><p>Shared this with my team. I've shared this over and over again. We're doing it over in profit her way and next week we're going to really dial in on it again on the basics on the foundation and Camp Elevate. That's my free group. If you are not in Camp Elevate, thecampelevategroup.com. I'll also put in the show notes for you to hop on in. And the five, four, three, two one. I'll also have a download over in that group for you. And I've got a special gift today that's just getting ready that I think that you will love. So, stay tuned till the end. So, five, four, three, two, one is the daily action. That is the daily action that I want to go back to how those vigorous once a week exercises made the plan. So, if you were to say that during the next week, daily, Monday through Friday or whatever days, I mean seriously, if you just show up one day, your business will grow two days more. </p><p>Three days, even more, four days if you want to have, we talk about the different kinds of money we want to make. I will partake in the five, four, three, two, one at 7:00 AM on Monday, Wednesday and Friday at my desk after I have my, you know, my morning yoga routine. You're just literally writing that down. Do it for date night and see what happens. You know, my husband and I have been saying, Oh, yeah, we need a date night. We need a date night and then something always gets in the way. But if we do this that during the next month on Fridays, we will plan our date, we will leave at seven, and you write down what will happen, and you set that intention. Listen, our lives are drastically going to shift, and you know, I want you to think back to the times that you've had success. It was because you probably had made a commitment, maybe an accountability partner, but you had a plan that you implemented and people, the results are here. </p><p>The results are in front of you that this actually works. But what we do it right. You'll probably do it today and it lasts for seven days, 14 days. I'm going to ask that we say, how about we give this five, four, three, two, one or whatever your daily method of operation is and do it and watch your business grow and realize that it's a balance, right? We've got to have the right energy, vibration mindset. That's a commitment. You can make a commitment to that, to showing up for just your meditation, for showing up for just your thought downloads, everything that you want to shift can have this plan. So, the plan that I came up with, I use sticky notes to track my leads, and that's a whole nother podcast of the hundred sticky notes on the wall. It's one of the things that every time I meet someone, they're like a hundred sticky notes, changed my life, and then I said, okay, I want to have a daily method of operation. </p><p>That's how I look at my lead list. So, I'm going to walk you through how I do things and how you do it. Maybe a little bit different, and I call mine the daily intentional plan because it feels better. I'm a little bit like daily method of operation. I don't know. It sounded like we were going to manufacture something that wasn't exciting, but a daily intentional plan is how I intend to have my day go out in front of me. And we're just talking about a sales process, a sales funnel for, for personal activity right now, not for connections with team, not for what I do for my mindset, but this is literally how to get more eyes on what you do. All right, so first of all, you guys feel this and last week the CEO shift of always having marketing and visibility and showing up. </p><p>That's what this is. This is my visibility. I'm showing up to share what I do, right? Marketing visibility. How are you showing up? So, the first thing is five, four, three, two one is five reach-outs a day. So, could you say that during the next week on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, I will reach out to five people at 12:15 during my lunch break, while I'm sitting in my car using my phone, I'm at, we already said the time. If you say I'm doing it at 12:15, that's when I'm going out to my car to have these reach-outs because you will not grow your business unless you have conversations. Now there's all ways to have conversations to make connections. There are all different kinds of strategies that you can have. Some people use a very cold reach out. Some people will connect and say, Hey, I've been thinking about you, a referral method, however, it is that you reach out and have a conversation, commit to five, five, reach out today and write it down. </p><p>The next thing is that I, and when I do my reach-outs, I'm usually inviting to take a look at something. So, look and see what your teams have. Is there an event? Is there a video? I just recorded a video with my friend Hailey who she wanted to hear my story because she said I'm in. I think people will be inspired that when you started, you did not have a podcast or an online presence. You guys know I had an AOL account, 133 Facebook friends, so she wanted to have that be my story. So, now that's in a group. Now my reach-outs today will be around that invite, that event, or Facebook live. So, I will do my five reach outs on this day. So, I'm just giving you some ideas of reach out so it's easier in my mind to make a connection to say, Hey, I'd love for you to take a look. </p><p>Can I invite you over to watch this Facebook live that I just did, that is recorded and it talks about my story and why I would love for you to take a look at it. So, reach out is in the invite and there's all different strategies and ways that we do those. A lot of my podcasts talk about that, but it doesn't you guys, when I first started in network marketing and I was having the most massive growth, I did not think about strategy. All I thought about is I need to make a connection. I need to have a conversation. This friend of mine needs to know what it is that I'm doing and I want her to come along with me and I don't even remember what I said, but I can tell you that we had massive growth because I said, on this day I will show up. </p><p>I will do the work. I will ask these questions and here is my list of five reach outs for follow-ups. People need a follow up. People need you to tap them on the head. Hey, just following up with you, just want to see if you, if you want to take a look or sharing something new with them or whatever. That follow up system looks like. People need you to reach back out to have that follow up. Also taking a look at who's newly starting on your product, who's newly watching that Facebook live that you invited them to follow ups are important. Five reach-outs four follow-ups, three is social media. I've shifted this a bit because it's showing up on social media for your marketing and visibility in three different ways. So, I love to show up in groups. I love to show up and give value and connect and groups to make new friends to grow my list. </p><p>I love to show up in my stories to share what are, what are the things that I think will motivate, inspire to share the success stories, to share information about the industry, to share the podcast out, but showing up in the stories every single day. And that for me, I had to do, I had to absolutely have an implementation intention on stories. And so, and I'm still working at that. I need to say during this next week, I will show up in my stories three times a day with X, Y, and Z. I will do this at this time from this place or it never will happen because we just, you know, we blow things off, right? Not that we are intending to blow things off. We just don't, we just don't do it. So, three social media and some of you do social media very differently. </p><p>I am telling you that showing up and being you and being authentic and not trying to bait and not say like, just show up and be, you. Share what you do, share who you are. Share people, share books and make connections. Right? And then too, I always, every day if your lead list, we're in salespeople, we are in the business of meeting new people. How are you meeting two new people every single day? And by meeting them adding to my list, I always like to attempt to get them over on social media because then I can get to know their world, see how I can serve, see how I can help. Sell more. Right? So, adding to your list a day and that's just not like going out and spamming a group. That's two connections. And yesterday the two people that I added to my list were two people that I met while I was out, doing something other than my business. </p><p>And we just connected. I was like, Oh, that's so interesting. Are you on Instagram or Facebook? Let's connect over there. So, adding to your list every day is so important. And if you are not doing activity that creates list growth, then that's the piece that you need to say, I need to learn more about this. I mean, you could, if you ride a Peloton, not that you're going to ever go into a group and spam someone, but you're making new connections and you're adding to your friend list and you never know where that might go. Right? You never know. Asking for referrals is adding to your list. And then the one, the one thing is three-way validation, three-way connection, some sort of validation every single day. So, many times. So today, like I said, I did that video. If I have a new person that wants to take a look at the product, I could do a three-way connection on a three way messenger chat. </p><p>I could also do the validation of adding to a customer group and saying, Hey, this video or really speak to you. I think it will answer your questions and I will tell you that as much as we build automated online businesses, the people that are growing the fastest are doing three-way connection chats are connecting and I do this all the time like, Hey, Oh you want to know about intermittent fasting? I'm new at it. It's something I'm starting. Let me introduce you to my friend Kristin. She has been doing this for much longer than me. Like she can give you all the information now. Am I gaining anything? Like that's not a three-way validation for my business. But that's an example. It's super easy and simple because it's just a connection. So, five reach outs, follow ups, three social media visibility, marketing ways that you're out there sharing. </p><p>And there's, as we know, social media is a whole world of how we're showing up to give value when we share products and there's so much that we can study there, but just get started. Don't hold back. Find somebody that's showing up the way you want to show up and start inspiring and share a transformation story or share something about your product up in your stories. Get people seeing that you're amazing and awesome and you're giving great value. And then they're like, huh, what's she all about? Oh my gosh, she's talking about gut health. Oh, she's talking about travel. That's cool. Like how your social media is like walking into a cocktail party. They can't just look at you and know everything about you, but the more that you talk an interesting intrigue and then the connections will happen. So, three social media, adding two to your list every single day. </p><p>And then one way that you're giving validation to somebody that is, that is ready to take the next step. I like to call that the one close a day, right? One piece of validation a day. And I even go as far with that last one too to say validation for service because the more that you can give and send thank you's and have gratitude every single day, the more that the more people will come your way. So, on that last one, if you're like, Oh, I don't have anybody that's ready for a three-way chat for my business, then go out and share something or give validation and gratitude for someone. That to me is just the connection, one connection. How can you connect the world and make it a better place? So, let's sum this up and we'll wrap up this podcast episode, which is 26, I don't know if I said that yet. </p><p>I can't wait to get to 100, we need to have like a podcast party. Maybe I'll have a podcast ‘You're Not the Boss of Me’ dinner. And we'll have like a really cool dinner that people can come to and we'll have some great speakers. And number 100, somebody remind me that. I promise that. I think that would be really fun. So, remember we talked about James Clear and Atomic Habits, and we talked about a plan that has an implementation intention that there is research to show that results happen. When you say the time during the next week, be specific, the time I will partake at least what are you doing in what? Give the time. Give the place, write it down. Say it out loud, tell another person and then document your results. And what if you did something, one small thing, if that five four, three, two, one is too much for you and you're not going to stick to that every single day, then do one, one, one, and one, one, reach out, one follow up. </p><p>Do something on social media. It makes them add one to your list. One piece of gratitude, whatever those pieces are that you know, grow your business. But I will encourage you this. You've got to ask on that list. If you want your business to grow, you've got to ask. People will not guess by your stories. People will not guests by an incredible post that you want them to either take a look at being a business partner with you, hire you to be a coach or buy your products because you know what your products will do for people, right? You know what the business partnership will do for people. And I want to share one more thing with you and this is a little bit off topic, but this was so brilliant, and this is from my friend Rob Sperry. So, I'm going to get over, he sent it to me and Voxer, and I want to get over to his message and I said to Rob, what is it? </p><p>And I'm going to end this episode with this, because many times when we're doing our reach out, someone will say, Oh it's network marketing. I'm not sure. And so, I said to Rob and I encourage you to ask people why they chose network marketing and have a journal about this and keep like have it written down. And Rob said, when I said, why network marketing? And he says, because it is the most moral form of compensation that exists. It doesn't discriminate. It doesn't your age, background, race, or gender. You get paid based on your results and you keep getting paid based on the value you provide to the marketplace. Now, if that's not the most brilliant thing you've ever heard in your life, I don't know what it is. So I want you to think about that when you're doing, your reach-outs, and when you're doing your social media and when you're showing up, you will continue to get paid based on the value you provide. </p><p>And it is the most moral form of compensation. It doesn't care if you start a business at 47 with 333 friends on Facebook or 133. It doesn't matter if have a PhD or a GED. But what matters is, is that you make an intention. You make the intention that you look at the research that shows you can have all kinds of goals, but unless you're ready to create a habit around that goal and then make the intention and make it happen, you will not get the results that you desire. How's that sound? So, I want to thank you all for being with me today on the 26th episode of Your Not the Boss of Me. I have a special present for you. It will be available Monday. So, if I'm commenting on Facebook, you can put that below that you wanted and it's BethHoldenGraves.com/10ways, and this is a guide. </p><p>It's a free guide that is going to show you how to make connections on social media to grow your list in an authentic and genuine way that feels aligned and right with you. I want to encourage you to pick up that 10 Ways Guide, BethHoldenGraves.com/10 ways, it will be in the show notes. I also want to encourage you to, to reach out to someone that you know is wanting to build the business and ask them, say, Hey, listen to this podcast. I'm going to share it with you. And of course, shameless plug. Please leave a review. Please download. It means the world to me. And what I want to ask you is to get an accountability partner and say, Hey, let's do this together. Let's write down, let's listen to this podcast. Let's write down the implementation intention. I encourage you to get the book Atomic Habits, listen to it on audible, have the book. Mine is marked up. I love James Clear. I love everything about Atomic Habits. Tiny changes will give you remarkable results. So, with that, I'll catch you all next week and thanks for being a part of, You're Not the Boss of Me.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So, leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I will enter you to win the 'You're Not the Boss of Me' swag. So, make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED...</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• 10 Ways: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• It's just that you've got to stay consistent with it and adjust your sales as you go. But realize that if we show up on Monday but not on Tuesday and maybe next week on Friday and then we let self-doubt, we let crazy words of not being worthy or this isn't, this never works out for me. (05:12)</p><p>• They call this implementation intention and write down, and even say it, that during the next week I will partake at least 20 minutes in vigorous exercise on this day at this time in this place. (06:41)</p><p>• So how can we implement this Atomic Habit by James Clear, when he talks about that into our business? Well, it's easy. So my daily method of operation, I wanted to keep it super simple. (08:55)</p><p>• You can make a commitment to that, to showing up for just your meditation, for showing up for just your thought downloads, everything that you want to shift can have this plan. (11:29)</p><p>• How are you meeting two new people every single day? And by meeting them adding to my list, I always like to attempt to get them over on social media because then I can get to know their world, see how I can serve, see how I can help? (17:16)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR...</strong></p><p>February 24, 2020</p><p><strong>EPISODE TRANSCRIPT...</strong></p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves, and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Welcome back bosses. It is episode number 26 of Your Not the Boss of Me. Today, I am streaming on Facebook as I'm doing the audio, so it will feel a little bit differently. And I want to just thank you for hopping on with me every Monday. And, all of the messages that have been coming through for me that you've been telling me are you in my head, which means that we're hitting it on the nose with what we're doing here with this podcast. And that is my goal is to take my experience, take the interviews, get those out to you so that you can build a business your way. And my philosophy is that we do not have to be in the hustle and grind every single day. We need to have systems, we need to have rituals, routines that allow us to not only build businesses that make lots of money, but also to be living that life, to be engaged, to be present. </p><p>And today's episode is going to be a shift in, first of all, that you need to make in your life. And when I discovered this, and you may already do this because, this book has been out for a long time, Atomic Habits. I'm going to show it to the people that are live with me, by James Clear. And this episode is going to take one shift in your habits and I'm going to show you how to apply it to your daily method of operations, so that you have something every single day that is income producing in your business. Because so much of the time we are scrolling, we are looking, we're doing one strategy. Then the next we're inconsistent. We're not showing up. And I want to give a little bit of an example of that. But before we do, I want to read this week's review. </p><p>And those of you that are new to the podcast, when I read every review, I send a boss hat. Well, this person already has a boss hat. So, her gift this week for sharing this review, and the five-star review is from Stephanie Britt. I'm going to send her a copy of Atomic Habits, if she doesn't have it. So, Stephanie, I have your address and I know where you live. I know it's snowing there today, so I won't be showing up at your door in North Carolina. And Stephanie says this, ‘somehow this lady is able to get right inside my head. I've gained confidence on how I manage my business, and clarity on where to focus my time and efforts, and no longer spin my wheels gaining no momentum or results. The shift in my mindset has positively impacted my income and business. Absolutely. But my relationships with family, friends, and my team have grown in ways I had only imagined. A must subscribe’. </p><p>Thank you, Stephanie. That means the world to me. And here's the thing is when Stephanie says that she's got clarity on where to focus her time and her efforts, we're going to talk today about a daily method of operation that Stephanie had been using for a year. But what had to shift for her was the energy and the and really her vision of where she wanted to be in her life. And that came from really committing to thought downloads, getting out that notebook. And, having that thought download, I used to say journaling and Stephanie said, call it a thought, a thought download because journaling might sound intimidating, but so much comes out when we're starting to think about what vision we have, where we want to be going, what drives us, what frustrates us, and doing that. And if that a thought download. So, today's episode I want to share with you something that James Clear shares and Atomic Habits, and this is fascinating to me. </p><p>And then I'm going to bridge it to how you can use this to grow your network marketing business, your online business, your coaching business. It really works for anything, whether you are, who is that? What did SpongeBob have? They had a pineapple under the sea. And I always think about those, what were those, those crab patties that they had and they had little gummy ones for kids. And I think about that. Every business has to have certain ingredients. That's what I call my CEO framework. But most importantly, if you talk to 10 people that have made over $1 million in the network marketing industry, there is one key ingredient and that is they have a list that continuously grows and they have a consistent daily method of operation, a daily intentional plan, however you want it to look. So, I'm sure that most of you have downloaded, have opted in, have asked and have printed out many different plans, but then it feels like you're swirling. </p><p>Can you agree with this? I know that I had done that a million times and I always like to relate business building to something that most women can relate to, and that is the consistency of showing up in maybe a workout plan that everything works. It's just that you've got to stay consistent with it and adjust your sales as you go. But realize that if we show up on Monday but not on Tuesday and maybe next week on Friday and then we let self-doubt, we let crazy words of not being worthy or this isn't, this never works out for me. We've got to raise our energy and vibration by sticking to that morning plan, the affirmations, the dream boards, the thought downloads and surrounding yourself with positive people that make an impact. Listening to things like this that are going to say, yes, you can do this. </p><p>So, this study that James Clear talks about an Atomic Habits. It had three groups, okay? And they were being asked to do 20 minutes of vigorous exercise at least once a week. So, the first group, the control group was just asked to write it down. How often do you exercise? Write it down. This is your goal. We want you to do the vigorous exercise at least 20 minutes one time a week. The second group called the motivation group was given a list of materials to read about why vigorous exercise was good for their cardiac output, input health. And they were also given a presentation. So, think about a podcast being on a zoom for your team and hearing that motivation. And the third group was given the same presentation, but they were asked to formulate a plan, an intentional plan. They call this implementation intention and write down, and even say it, that during the next week I will partake at least 20 minutes in vigorous exercise on this day at this time in this place. </p><p>So, think about this. The first group was just asked to log it. The second group was given more information, a motivational fire 'em up. The third group was giving the motivational fire up, but they actually did an implementation intention. And the results are fascinating. Okay? The results are that groups went into basically had the same results. So even showing up and, and hearing a motivational podcast or being on a Facebook live, or being on a zoom with your team, or going into that meeting. 35 to 48% committed to that one time per week during this controlled period in the group that did the implementation intention when they planned, when, where, how wrote it down. And I would even go as far to say it out loud and have affirmations around it. Visualize yourself doing it. Their results. 91% my friends. What does that tell you about how we're living our lives and how we're showing up for the people that we love, how we're showing up for our business and how we are doing the things that we know will move our business and our health and our relationships forward. </p><p>So, let's think about this. How do you intend to implement a particular habit that you know these habits will grow, your business will grow, your relationships will grow you into the person that you want to be. So, if you write down the time, the location and the place you set the intention, you read it, you see it, you have it in your affirmations, you are going to have results that are 91% versus the 35 to 48% of people that just leave it by chance. So, it works for flu shots, colonoscopies, sleep, voter turnout. They even did studies for voter turnout of saying to people, tell us the route that you will take. Tell us the day, tell us the time. So how can we implement this atomic habit by James clear, when he talks about that into our business? Well, it's easy. So, my daily method of operation, I wanted to keep it super simple. </p><p>Shared this with my team. I've shared this over and over again. We're doing it over in profit her way and next week we're going to really dial in on it again on the basics on the foundation and Camp Elevate. That's my free group. If you are not in Camp Elevate, thecampelevategroup.com. I'll also put in the show notes for you to hop on in. And the five, four, three, two one. I'll also have a download over in that group for you. And I've got a special gift today that's just getting ready that I think that you will love. So, stay tuned till the end. So, five, four, three, two, one is the daily action. That is the daily action that I want to go back to how those vigorous once a week exercises made the plan. So, if you were to say that during the next week, daily, Monday through Friday or whatever days, I mean seriously, if you just show up one day, your business will grow two days more. </p><p>Three days, even more, four days if you want to have, we talk about the different kinds of money we want to make. I will partake in the five, four, three, two, one at 7:00 AM on Monday, Wednesday and Friday at my desk after I have my, you know, my morning yoga routine. You're just literally writing that down. Do it for date night and see what happens. You know, my husband and I have been saying, Oh, yeah, we need a date night. We need a date night and then something always gets in the way. But if we do this that during the next month on Fridays, we will plan our date, we will leave at seven, and you write down what will happen, and you set that intention. Listen, our lives are drastically going to shift, and you know, I want you to think back to the times that you've had success. It was because you probably had made a commitment, maybe an accountability partner, but you had a plan that you implemented and people, the results are here. </p><p>The results are in front of you that this actually works. But what we do it right. You'll probably do it today and it lasts for seven days, 14 days. I'm going to ask that we say, how about we give this five, four, three, two, one or whatever your daily method of operation is and do it and watch your business grow and realize that it's a balance, right? We've got to have the right energy, vibration mindset. That's a commitment. You can make a commitment to that, to showing up for just your meditation, for showing up for just your thought downloads, everything that you want to shift can have this plan. So, the plan that I came up with, I use sticky notes to track my leads, and that's a whole nother podcast of the hundred sticky notes on the wall. It's one of the things that every time I meet someone, they're like a hundred sticky notes, changed my life, and then I said, okay, I want to have a daily method of operation. </p><p>That's how I look at my lead list. So, I'm going to walk you through how I do things and how you do it. Maybe a little bit different, and I call mine the daily intentional plan because it feels better. I'm a little bit like daily method of operation. I don't know. It sounded like we were going to manufacture something that wasn't exciting, but a daily intentional plan is how I intend to have my day go out in front of me. And we're just talking about a sales process, a sales funnel for, for personal activity right now, not for connections with team, not for what I do for my mindset, but this is literally how to get more eyes on what you do. All right, so first of all, you guys feel this and last week the CEO shift of always having marketing and visibility and showing up. </p><p>That's what this is. This is my visibility. I'm showing up to share what I do, right? Marketing visibility. How are you showing up? So, the first thing is five, four, three, two one is five reach-outs a day. So, could you say that during the next week on Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, I will reach out to five people at 12:15 during my lunch break, while I'm sitting in my car using my phone, I'm at, we already said the time. If you say I'm doing it at 12:15, that's when I'm going out to my car to have these reach-outs because you will not grow your business unless you have conversations. Now there's all ways to have conversations to make connections. There are all different kinds of strategies that you can have. Some people use a very cold reach out. Some people will connect and say, Hey, I've been thinking about you, a referral method, however, it is that you reach out and have a conversation, commit to five, five, reach out today and write it down. </p><p>The next thing is that I, and when I do my reach-outs, I'm usually inviting to take a look at something. So, look and see what your teams have. Is there an event? Is there a video? I just recorded a video with my friend Hailey who she wanted to hear my story because she said I'm in. I think people will be inspired that when you started, you did not have a podcast or an online presence. You guys know I had an AOL account, 133 Facebook friends, so she wanted to have that be my story. So, now that's in a group. Now my reach-outs today will be around that invite, that event, or Facebook live. So, I will do my five reach outs on this day. So, I'm just giving you some ideas of reach out so it's easier in my mind to make a connection to say, Hey, I'd love for you to take a look. </p><p>Can I invite you over to watch this Facebook live that I just did, that is recorded and it talks about my story and why I would love for you to take a look at it. So, reach out is in the invite and there's all different strategies and ways that we do those. A lot of my podcasts talk about that, but it doesn't you guys, when I first started in network marketing and I was having the most massive growth, I did not think about strategy. All I thought about is I need to make a connection. I need to have a conversation. This friend of mine needs to know what it is that I'm doing and I want her to come along with me and I don't even remember what I said, but I can tell you that we had massive growth because I said, on this day I will show up. </p><p>I will do the work. I will ask these questions and here is my list of five reach outs for follow-ups. People need a follow up. People need you to tap them on the head. Hey, just following up with you, just want to see if you, if you want to take a look or sharing something new with them or whatever. That follow up system looks like. People need you to reach back out to have that follow up. Also taking a look at who's newly starting on your product, who's newly watching that Facebook live that you invited them to follow ups are important. Five reach-outs four follow-ups, three is social media. I've shifted this a bit because it's showing up on social media for your marketing and visibility in three different ways. So, I love to show up in groups. I love to show up and give value and connect and groups to make new friends to grow my list. </p><p>I love to show up in my stories to share what are, what are the things that I think will motivate, inspire to share the success stories, to share information about the industry, to share the podcast out, but showing up in the stories every single day. And that for me, I had to do, I had to absolutely have an implementation intention on stories. And so, and I'm still working at that. I need to say during this next week, I will show up in my stories three times a day with X, Y, and Z. I will do this at this time from this place or it never will happen because we just, you know, we blow things off, right? Not that we are intending to blow things off. We just don't, we just don't do it. So, three social media and some of you do social media very differently. </p><p>I am telling you that showing up and being you and being authentic and not trying to bait and not say like, just show up and be, you. Share what you do, share who you are. Share people, share books and make connections. Right? And then too, I always, every day if your lead list, we're in salespeople, we are in the business of meeting new people. How are you meeting two new people every single day? And by meeting them adding to my list, I always like to attempt to get them over on social media because then I can get to know their world, see how I can serve, see how I can help. Sell more. Right? So, adding to your list a day and that's just not like going out and spamming a group. That's two connections. And yesterday the two people that I added to my list were two people that I met while I was out, doing something other than my business. </p><p>And we just connected. I was like, Oh, that's so interesting. Are you on Instagram or Facebook? Let's connect over there. So, adding to your list every day is so important. And if you are not doing activity that creates list growth, then that's the piece that you need to say, I need to learn more about this. I mean, you could, if you ride a Peloton, not that you're going to ever go into a group and spam someone, but you're making new connections and you're adding to your friend list and you never know where that might go. Right? You never know. Asking for referrals is adding to your list. And then the one, the one thing is three-way validation, three-way connection, some sort of validation every single day. So, many times. So today, like I said, I did that video. If I have a new person that wants to take a look at the product, I could do a three-way connection on a three way messenger chat. </p><p>I could also do the validation of adding to a customer group and saying, Hey, this video or really speak to you. I think it will answer your questions and I will tell you that as much as we build automated online businesses, the people that are growing the fastest are doing three-way connection chats are connecting and I do this all the time like, Hey, Oh you want to know about intermittent fasting? I'm new at it. It's something I'm starting. Let me introduce you to my friend Kristin. She has been doing this for much longer than me. Like she can give you all the information now. Am I gaining anything? Like that's not a three-way validation for my business. But that's an example. It's super easy and simple because it's just a connection. So, five reach outs, follow ups, three social media visibility, marketing ways that you're out there sharing. </p><p>And there's, as we know, social media is a whole world of how we're showing up to give value when we share products and there's so much that we can study there, but just get started. Don't hold back. Find somebody that's showing up the way you want to show up and start inspiring and share a transformation story or share something about your product up in your stories. Get people seeing that you're amazing and awesome and you're giving great value. And then they're like, huh, what's she all about? Oh my gosh, she's talking about gut health. Oh, she's talking about travel. That's cool. Like how your social media is like walking into a cocktail party. They can't just look at you and know everything about you, but the more that you talk an interesting intrigue and then the connections will happen. So, three social media, adding two to your list every single day. </p><p>And then one way that you're giving validation to somebody that is, that is ready to take the next step. I like to call that the one close a day, right? One piece of validation a day. And I even go as far with that last one too to say validation for service because the more that you can give and send thank you's and have gratitude every single day, the more that the more people will come your way. So, on that last one, if you're like, Oh, I don't have anybody that's ready for a three-way chat for my business, then go out and share something or give validation and gratitude for someone. That to me is just the connection, one connection. How can you connect the world and make it a better place? So, let's sum this up and we'll wrap up this podcast episode, which is 26, I don't know if I said that yet. </p><p>I can't wait to get to 100, we need to have like a podcast party. Maybe I'll have a podcast ‘You're Not the Boss of Me’ dinner. And we'll have like a really cool dinner that people can come to and we'll have some great speakers. And number 100, somebody remind me that. I promise that. I think that would be really fun. So, remember we talked about James Clear and Atomic Habits, and we talked about a plan that has an implementation intention that there is research to show that results happen. When you say the time during the next week, be specific, the time I will partake at least what are you doing in what? Give the time. Give the place, write it down. Say it out loud, tell another person and then document your results. And what if you did something, one small thing, if that five four, three, two, one is too much for you and you're not going to stick to that every single day, then do one, one, one, and one, one, reach out, one follow up. </p><p>Do something on social media. It makes them add one to your list. One piece of gratitude, whatever those pieces are that you know, grow your business. But I will encourage you this. You've got to ask on that list. If you want your business to grow, you've got to ask. People will not guess by your stories. People will not guests by an incredible post that you want them to either take a look at being a business partner with you, hire you to be a coach or buy your products because you know what your products will do for people, right? You know what the business partnership will do for people. And I want to share one more thing with you and this is a little bit off topic, but this was so brilliant, and this is from my friend Rob Sperry. So, I'm going to get over, he sent it to me and Voxer, and I want to get over to his message and I said to Rob, what is it? </p><p>And I'm going to end this episode with this, because many times when we're doing our reach out, someone will say, Oh it's network marketing. I'm not sure. And so, I said to Rob and I encourage you to ask people why they chose network marketing and have a journal about this and keep like have it written down. And Rob said, when I said, why network marketing? And he says, because it is the most moral form of compensation that exists. It doesn't discriminate. It doesn't your age, background, race, or gender. You get paid based on your results and you keep getting paid based on the value you provide to the marketplace. Now, if that's not the most brilliant thing you've ever heard in your life, I don't know what it is. So I want you to think about that when you're doing, your reach-outs, and when you're doing your social media and when you're showing up, you will continue to get paid based on the value you provide. </p><p>And it is the most moral form of compensation. It doesn't care if you start a business at 47 with 333 friends on Facebook or 133. It doesn't matter if have a PhD or a GED. But what matters is, is that you make an intention. You make the intention that you look at the research that shows you can have all kinds of goals, but unless you're ready to create a habit around that goal and then make the intention and make it happen, you will not get the results that you desire. How's that sound? So, I want to thank you all for being with me today on the 26th episode of Your Not the Boss of Me. I have a special present for you. It will be available Monday. So, if I'm commenting on Facebook, you can put that below that you wanted and it's BethHoldenGraves.com/10ways, and this is a guide. </p><p>It's a free guide that is going to show you how to make connections on social media to grow your list in an authentic and genuine way that feels aligned and right with you. I want to encourage you to pick up that 10 Ways Guide, BethHoldenGraves.com/10 ways, it will be in the show notes. I also want to encourage you to, to reach out to someone that you know is wanting to build the business and ask them, say, Hey, listen to this podcast. I'm going to share it with you. And of course, shameless plug. Please leave a review. Please download. It means the world to me. And what I want to ask you is to get an accountability partner and say, Hey, let's do this together. Let's write down, let's listen to this podcast. Let's write down the implementation intention. I encourage you to get the book Atomic Habits, listen to it on audible, have the book. Mine is marked up. I love James Clear. I love everything about Atomic Habits. Tiny changes will give you remarkable results. So, with that, I'll catch you all next week and thanks for being a part of, You're Not the Boss of Me.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So, leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I will enter you to win the 'You're Not the Boss of Me' swag. So, make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED...</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• Ray Higdon Interview:<br /><a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/rank-maker">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/rank-maker</a></p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• Number one is standing on your own two feet and standing up and believing in what you are doing and how we can become confident and that's going to help you to recruit more people. (02:08)</p><p>• The universe was telling me like you have so many people to help and this is going to be the way, this is the business model that will be the way, because I'm very creative. But that creativity sometimes gets me not crossing the red line. (05:31)</p><p>• And I don't even want to call it a pitch because people can feel a pitch from a million miles away. But when someone talks to me, I am so, so, so sure that I need to share this message, that I need to help. (08:15)</p><p>• You've got to do the work and then you've got to keep doing the work of, why you're grateful, why this is working, why you're doing this. To be in it for the long term by the little things, the details. (11:48)</p><p>• You want to be connected with the people that have the same vision that you have. (16:55)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR...</strong></p><p>February 17, 2020</p><p><strong>EPISODE TRANSCRIPT...</strong></p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves, and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Hey bosses, welcome back to episode number 25, this is Beth. If we haven't met yet, thank you for just pressing play, putting me in your ear buds. My friend Jessica calls them Q-tips. She's like, my kid has Q-tips in his ears, and I literally thought he had Q-tips hanging out of his ears, but she was talking about him wearing his EarPods, what the heck? My kids are probably like mom, get with it. So anyway, you have chosen to listen to this podcast today for a reason and there are so many ways that we find them. I have had divine intervention of what I call the podcast scroll that literally shifted my entire way of showing up in my business because of one podcast. So, I do not take that lightly and I want to thank you. Thank you. Thank you for being with me today.</p><p>So, I'm going to do a little introduction because I have so many new listeners. I just want to thank you for the downloads, for the reviews, for the people that are out there wearing their boss hats, for all of the campers over in Camp Elevate because this is really truly become a movement of supporting our sisterhood, of standing up and saying that it is okay to choose to build a business that feels aligned, that feels authentic, that doesn't require hustle and grind and it's okay to make more money doing it this way. And so today I want to talk with you about becoming the CEO and innovation versus duplication. Two really big words. I feel like those need to be vocabulary words. Did your kids ever do Wordly Wise? I remember Wordly Wise just to be like, why are everything like that? I can understand anything in a context.</p><p>And that's probably why I tell so many stories. So like reading, you know, reading, learning with content clues. Well we're teaching reading for you teachers out there. So, I always like to give an example when I'm sharing with you a new idea or something that's not really a new idea that's just resurfaced. So today the big thing I'm going to teach you today or share with you and encourage you to lean into are two things. Number one is standing on your own two feet and standing up and believing in what you are doing and how we can become confident and that's going to help you to recruit more people. And I don't even like the word recruit. You're looking for people as the CEO that are going to share with you the same vision and are going to be a part of something that you're creating.</p><p>So, I want to encourage you today, and I use the word recruit because honestly, it's a marketing word. So, I have a challenge that's coming up. It's going to be a free challenge. I think we are opening that up the second week of March and we'll make sure that you get on a list for that. It's going to be five days, and it's about recruiting. It's about how to get more people to say yes to what it is you have to offer. And I have some very unique ways that I do this, but I kept saying, I don't want to use the word recruit in the copy, but that's what we look for, right? So, recruit, I want you to think about this. I guess it's okay, but it's what we use in the industry. But I want you to think about this and this is the shift.</p><p>This is your CEO shift. I want you to consider that you didn't just join this little thing, meaning stop hiding behind the curtain and stop having this conversation with, Oh, if you really understood, it's not like that. There’s people that really make money that does not sound like you have stepped into your power. So today if you're going to make the CEO shift, remember we’re talking about CEO shift in innovation versus duplication, and I believe that a team needs tools and techniques and strategies to duplicate, but I'm going to encourage you have one innovative piece of your business and we'll talk about that. But number one, the very first thing that you need to do is step into why you are going to say, I am proud and excited to show you my courageous journey because the network marketing model is the way that I will.</p><p>So, I want you to think today, and your homework is this, and if you send them to me over in a DM in Instagram, send them to me on Facebook messenger. Mandy has an email that we use now that's a support email, but I want to know what makes you unique, the five things. Because as you're having a conversation and as you are, do you ever like find yourself holding back? Like I should really be having a conversation with her, with this person. She's my exact energy. She's the exact person that I want to build something with, and I feel an energy. I feel this nudge that this conversation needs to happen. Has that ever happened to you? Have you ever thought that? And then you're like, Oh, what do I say? And then you fumble all over your words and you sound like the crazy lady in the cereal aisle.</p><p>That's trying to get you to like sell her thing, and it's really not pyramid and it's really this. It's because you haven't leaned into your truth. So, what I'm going to encourage you to do is to take some time and take out your business journal, take out your journal, look at why is this the best model for you? Is it the innovative website that you didn't have to build? I mean, I'm stumbling right now because I don't want to give you my five, because I don't want those to be your five. So, your assignment this week is to journal like why this business, why this company, why this product, why this model? Go back and listen to my podcast with Ray Higdon. I'll put it in the show notes, and he talks about why the network marketing model is the best model. And for me stepping into that, I don't know what happened in 2014 that that day I really think it was divine intervention.</p><p>The universe was telling me like you have so many people to help and this is going to be the way, this is the business model that will be the way, because I'm very creative. But that creativity sometimes gets me not crossing the red line. And we'll talk about crossing the red line, it means finishing what I start, staying the course, and I have stayed the course. And the reason why is because I have a simple business model that is accessible to the everyday person. That right away you can begin set up shop, make some money and build a community around a value, an emission. And also, then teach sales tools that are easy for people to follow and easy for people to stay consistent and having the foundation in place. So, I want you to come up with, and the big reason is because you may be fumbling on those words, you may not know why you're here.</p><p>You may not know, what is the value of your company? What makes you innovative and different? And it's not a sales pitch, it's what it is to you. So, if I said, I'm going to bring you on this podcast, Kathy, and I'm going to ask you when I say to somebody, why did you choose those shoes? Why do you love to run in those shoes if you're a runner, why do you like Brooks versus Adidas or Nike? Oh, well it has this feature and this feature, and it supports this. I had plantar fasciitis, so I needed this instep. You can talk about why or maybe you just love the bright colored pink or maybe your foot is wide, so we know why we choose certain things. Why did you choose this? Why did you choose the school that your kids attend? Why did you choose your house?</p><p>What were those features in it? What was important to you when you were choosing your apartment, your house, where you live, your car? We know all of those things, but what was important to you when you chose your spouse? When you chose your partner? What was the value that you wanted in that person? Do you know those things? Because that is when you start to really, really lean into this power of your communication, of your marketing message and your visibility, which is going to be step two of this podcast. So, I want you to take some time and start with something that you know, start with your spouse. Start with maybe the house that you chose, why did you choose a vacation and start to pay attention and notice those things in your decision making. And then you can be a little bit more discriminatory on how you make a decision.</p><p>And so, you're not just saying yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, that's a side note. But why did you choose the network marketing model, specifically your business? And keep it brief and simple and know it and say it in the car and pretend like you're being interviewed by Oprah. Pretend like you're on this podcast. And I say to you, Mandy, why did you choose that? Like what made you make that decision and then practice it and start with the five bullet points. And I don't even want to call it a pitch because people can feel a pitch from a million miles away. But when someone talks to me, I am so, so, so sure that I need to share this message that I need to help. That woman that was looking for her voice, that was feeling lost, that was feeling stressed out, what was keeping her up at night.</p><p>And so, I don't just be like, Oh, my gosh, this is so amazing. It's awesome. We have all these things. Yeah, this person did this and this person did this and Oh my gosh, and she lost 32 pounds and blah, blah blah. I want you to know and I want you to be clear, so I want you to journal it and I can't give you those answers because only you can do it yourself. We're going to do some work on that over in Camp Elevate. If you're not in the group, thecampelevategroup.com, it's free. We have so many, so many amazing, amazing thousands of women in there, and some really awesome men, who are showing up for each other. And I do a lot of training in there. So, we're going to talk about that. I want you to journal that and I want you to really lean into it.</p><p>And as you lean into this, with all of your choices, with all of your decisions, if you look at what is the quality in my spouse that I love so much, and sometimes those good qualities that you chose become the annoying qualities, and like, so one of the things I love about Don is, I love that he takes care of all the little details and he pays attention to those things. He doesn't let things slip through the cracks. And when I wasn't in gratitude and when I wasn't focused on all of the things, in the rich life that we got to lead together, that started to annoy me. Oh my gosh, here he goes again. Did you remember your driver's license? Did you remember your passport? Did you remember this? And I started to become annoyed by those little things when that was truly the big quality that I wanted and prayed for and thought about and journaled about.</p><p>In the perfect partner for my life. So, I want you to do that for your business. Is this making sense to you guys? So, when you become clear on that, the next piece I'm going to talk to you about in the CEO framework, step into your power. So, before we go to the next point, I literally want you to visualize that you're in a room and it's dark and you're looking for the light and everything's kind of out of place. There's books and there's things on the floor and shoes that need to be put away. And how does that feel? It feels confusing, right? It feels like I can't get started until I clean this up. And then I want you to step into this room. I want you to step through the door and I want you to visualize how it feels to be in this clean and open space.</p><p>However, that looks for you. For me, it's stepping into this room that has like a rich, a rich rug that is deep jewel toned. It has meditation corner; it has a clean desk that has like some very beautiful pens and books. And it's just inviting. I've got my microphone there and I walk into that space. That's what I've done with my office, is walked into a space and created a space where I could create. So, I want you to think about that in your business. Does your business feel like that cluttered office where you don't know what to do next? When you get clear on what you do and why you're doing it and how you're going to share with those five bullet points and you journal about it and you really, really lean into it. You guys, you have to do the work.</p><p>I can't tell you the five. You've got to do the work and then you've got to keep doing the work of why you're grateful, why this is working, why you're doing this, to be in it for the long term by the little things, the details. Remember when I talked about Don, why those little things are not going to create disruption in what your daily plan is. So, I want to encourage you and invite you today to walk in, stand up, take a step from hiding behind the curtain in your cluttered room. Really not knowing why you made this choice because you're listening to this podcast because you want to make a shift. You can use this strategy any single time that you need to make a shift. It's going into being clear on what are those amazing, awesome things that had me make this choice and step into it and step into it with clarity so that when you have that conversation, when you're at the running store buying those running shoes and you just have this intuition and I need to like open my mouth and connect with is human and instead of going out and buying a $27 script that's going to allow you to connect and have conversations and recruit and grow your team like crazy.</p><p>We've all done it, that you literally, we'll have the words the connection because you are so clear on it. So clear. I want you to think about this. I want you to think about the last perfect vacation that you took, and if you had one, and if you haven't, put that on your vision board, and how the sheets felt and what was the service like and what, what did the sand feel like and if, if that woman at the running store when you're buying your running shoes set asked you about going to maybe your places, Punta Cana, and you start to explain it, you have all these ways. She's like, Oh, I'm totally in. Do you have that for your business? Do you have those words? Do you have that? It's because you need to step away from the clutter, clear it out with your journaling, with getting clear on your messaging and don't think, I want Beth to give me her five because my five are totally different and the way that you can do this is to do some journaling prompts.</p><p>You go back to where you were and where you want to be going or what you wanted less of in your life and what you wanted more of. Whenever I'm looking at, am I going to go in the right directions? I'll say, what do I want to do less of? What do I want to do more of and does that fit my more of what looks like love? What brings me joy and how will I feel? And this is another one that I learned this from my coach, Susan Hyatt, when she talks about not shaming, and this is about food, but how will this feel in an hour? And so, like even when I don't have that conversation, how would that feel in an hour? So, I need to do it now, but I want you to get very, very clear. So, I promised you step two would be how to take this message and then use this in your CEO framework of how you build out your business plan of being innovative with your marketing and your visibility.</p><p>And that sometimes is social media. Sometimes it might be meeting with a group of almost empty nest moms at a high school. But the next podcast we are going to be talking how we take this work that you're doing. And then we put that into showing up consistently for marketing and visibility and for people to hear your message and find you, which is a huge, huge piece, but I am going to save that. I'm going to actually record that next episode right now while it's on my mind, and you'll have that episode next Monday. So, this week your homework is, this is I want you to think about and journal and really lean into, are you hiding behind a curtain? Are you kind of like in the shadows, not really talking about what you do or are you truly stepping into your power, stepping into finding your voice and committing to that?</p><p>Are you visualizing? Are you journaling and do you know those five things? Three things, five things, right? Then if I were to say to you, Mandy, what is it? You would be able to say boom, boom, boom, and boom and practice a little bit like why did you choose that shaker cup? And I do this with my brain all the time. Why did you choose that shaker cup? Why do you like that white tee shirt? Why did you choose your spouse? Why do you choose those sheets for your bed? You can always come up with those five things and when you find yourself getting caught up in drama and somebody else's swirling tornado of emotions or boundary issues to start to really lean into, does this feel like love? Does this bring me joy? How will this feel in an hour? And when you know, like I know what my five, I know for my business why I chose my business.</p><p>I know why I chose to work with women in a mastermind, but I also know what are my five agreements with myself and that they have to fall into place in all of, and we'll talk about all those things on the podcast, but today its business. It is. Why did you choose the network marketing model? Your specific business or if you're a realtor, why did you choose to work with Keller Williams? Why did you choose to do this? Why is it the best choice? Because what you're doing is not going out and recruiting and finding just anybody that says yes and puts up their hand. You want to be connected with the people that have the same vision that you have, and you cannot attract. You cannot have that conversation unless you are very, very clear. So, when I get messages from you and thank you, thank you for sending me those messages that say, I think you were in my head.</p><p>I think that today you read my mind on this podcast and I think, okay because I churn all about it. I journal about what I went through, I journal about what are the things that when people say to me, I'm struggling here, how can I work through this? I want you to be so clear on why you made that choice. Step into the CEO role. Imagine that you are in, you are you guys, you didn't just join a company and you're like, Hey, I'm Joe Schmo and I'm the such and such oil person. You are Joe Schmoe, who is the CEO of this business that is using the network marketing model to help men and women build their business. You are excited because the product that you are like, think about the product that you get to put into people's hands will give you these results. Do you have clarity?</p><p>And that is my question. Go on out there and get your clarity. Pull out that journal. It will come to you. And if you're stuck, go for a run. Put on some Beyoncé, go at your most creative time when you are feeling clear and do this work and I promise you that you will get such clarity on your message, such clarity on your mission. Then when you are trying on those running shoes and you feel this like I am going to have this conversation and you have the conversation and you ask a few questions and she says, well why did you choose, you know, why did you choose what you're doing? You can literally say with passion, with clarity that the energy and the vibration is there. And she may or may not say, Oh Hey yeah, like let me take a look. But you know that you have done your work and then you make a connection on social media.</p><p>Because she might not say yes right away. You stay connected, you stay in the same space because at some point she may say, gosh, I remember hearing Beth to say that while she was trying on the running shoes, she had such vision like she's so excited about this and I'm really tired of this nine to five or I really need to get some therapy for my son's speech and maybe that's something that I'll take a look at. But you showed up and you had passion and you have vision and you have clarity. So, let's go out and do that today because there is someone waiting for your message. There is somebody that is just sitting there thinking, I can't pay my bills, or I feel disconnected. I feel alone. I didn't know what I needed on that day in 2014 August 6th, I didn't know that I desperately needed to, to have a shift go from selfish to serving.</p><p>I didn't know what I could contribute financially to our family to change the entire legacy. I didn't know, but it was the authenticity and the excitement around Blair's message that allowed me to enter into this space. And then I became clear on another mission, which was to help serve all of you who are looking to build a business and have that financial freedom and have that clarity around who you truly want to be and show up to be in this world. So, thank you. Thank you. Thank you for being with me today. As always, I am so grateful for our time together and if you want to connect more, shoot me a message about your five things. Come on over to the Camp Elevate Group, and next week we will go into, once you have this message, how you show up with it to start having people really, really curious about what it is that you do and how you can really make an impact by getting this out into the world.</p><p>See y'all next week.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So, leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I will enter you to win the 'You're Not the Boss of Me' swag. So, make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED...</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• Ray Higdon Interview:<br /><a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/rank-maker">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/rank-maker</a></p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• Number one is standing on your own two feet and standing up and believing in what you are doing and how we can become confident and that's going to help you to recruit more people. (02:08)</p><p>• The universe was telling me like you have so many people to help and this is going to be the way, this is the business model that will be the way, because I'm very creative. But that creativity sometimes gets me not crossing the red line. (05:31)</p><p>• And I don't even want to call it a pitch because people can feel a pitch from a million miles away. But when someone talks to me, I am so, so, so sure that I need to share this message, that I need to help. (08:15)</p><p>• You've got to do the work and then you've got to keep doing the work of, why you're grateful, why this is working, why you're doing this. To be in it for the long term by the little things, the details. (11:48)</p><p>• You want to be connected with the people that have the same vision that you have. (16:55)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR...</strong></p><p>February 17, 2020</p><p><strong>EPISODE TRANSCRIPT...</strong></p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves, and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Hey bosses, welcome back to episode number 25, this is Beth. If we haven't met yet, thank you for just pressing play, putting me in your ear buds. My friend Jessica calls them Q-tips. She's like, my kid has Q-tips in his ears, and I literally thought he had Q-tips hanging out of his ears, but she was talking about him wearing his EarPods, what the heck? My kids are probably like mom, get with it. So anyway, you have chosen to listen to this podcast today for a reason and there are so many ways that we find them. I have had divine intervention of what I call the podcast scroll that literally shifted my entire way of showing up in my business because of one podcast. So, I do not take that lightly and I want to thank you. Thank you. Thank you for being with me today.</p><p>So, I'm going to do a little introduction because I have so many new listeners. I just want to thank you for the downloads, for the reviews, for the people that are out there wearing their boss hats, for all of the campers over in Camp Elevate because this is really truly become a movement of supporting our sisterhood, of standing up and saying that it is okay to choose to build a business that feels aligned, that feels authentic, that doesn't require hustle and grind and it's okay to make more money doing it this way. And so today I want to talk with you about becoming the CEO and innovation versus duplication. Two really big words. I feel like those need to be vocabulary words. Did your kids ever do Wordly Wise? I remember Wordly Wise just to be like, why are everything like that? I can understand anything in a context.</p><p>And that's probably why I tell so many stories. So like reading, you know, reading, learning with content clues. Well we're teaching reading for you teachers out there. So, I always like to give an example when I'm sharing with you a new idea or something that's not really a new idea that's just resurfaced. So today the big thing I'm going to teach you today or share with you and encourage you to lean into are two things. Number one is standing on your own two feet and standing up and believing in what you are doing and how we can become confident and that's going to help you to recruit more people. And I don't even like the word recruit. You're looking for people as the CEO that are going to share with you the same vision and are going to be a part of something that you're creating.</p><p>So, I want to encourage you today, and I use the word recruit because honestly, it's a marketing word. So, I have a challenge that's coming up. It's going to be a free challenge. I think we are opening that up the second week of March and we'll make sure that you get on a list for that. It's going to be five days, and it's about recruiting. It's about how to get more people to say yes to what it is you have to offer. And I have some very unique ways that I do this, but I kept saying, I don't want to use the word recruit in the copy, but that's what we look for, right? So, recruit, I want you to think about this. I guess it's okay, but it's what we use in the industry. But I want you to think about this and this is the shift.</p><p>This is your CEO shift. I want you to consider that you didn't just join this little thing, meaning stop hiding behind the curtain and stop having this conversation with, Oh, if you really understood, it's not like that. There’s people that really make money that does not sound like you have stepped into your power. So today if you're going to make the CEO shift, remember we’re talking about CEO shift in innovation versus duplication, and I believe that a team needs tools and techniques and strategies to duplicate, but I'm going to encourage you have one innovative piece of your business and we'll talk about that. But number one, the very first thing that you need to do is step into why you are going to say, I am proud and excited to show you my courageous journey because the network marketing model is the way that I will.</p><p>So, I want you to think today, and your homework is this, and if you send them to me over in a DM in Instagram, send them to me on Facebook messenger. Mandy has an email that we use now that's a support email, but I want to know what makes you unique, the five things. Because as you're having a conversation and as you are, do you ever like find yourself holding back? Like I should really be having a conversation with her, with this person. She's my exact energy. She's the exact person that I want to build something with, and I feel an energy. I feel this nudge that this conversation needs to happen. Has that ever happened to you? Have you ever thought that? And then you're like, Oh, what do I say? And then you fumble all over your words and you sound like the crazy lady in the cereal aisle.</p><p>That's trying to get you to like sell her thing, and it's really not pyramid and it's really this. It's because you haven't leaned into your truth. So, what I'm going to encourage you to do is to take some time and take out your business journal, take out your journal, look at why is this the best model for you? Is it the innovative website that you didn't have to build? I mean, I'm stumbling right now because I don't want to give you my five, because I don't want those to be your five. So, your assignment this week is to journal like why this business, why this company, why this product, why this model? Go back and listen to my podcast with Ray Higdon. I'll put it in the show notes, and he talks about why the network marketing model is the best model. And for me stepping into that, I don't know what happened in 2014 that that day I really think it was divine intervention.</p><p>The universe was telling me like you have so many people to help and this is going to be the way, this is the business model that will be the way, because I'm very creative. But that creativity sometimes gets me not crossing the red line. And we'll talk about crossing the red line, it means finishing what I start, staying the course, and I have stayed the course. And the reason why is because I have a simple business model that is accessible to the everyday person. That right away you can begin set up shop, make some money and build a community around a value, an emission. And also, then teach sales tools that are easy for people to follow and easy for people to stay consistent and having the foundation in place. So, I want you to come up with, and the big reason is because you may be fumbling on those words, you may not know why you're here.</p><p>You may not know, what is the value of your company? What makes you innovative and different? And it's not a sales pitch, it's what it is to you. So, if I said, I'm going to bring you on this podcast, Kathy, and I'm going to ask you when I say to somebody, why did you choose those shoes? Why do you love to run in those shoes if you're a runner, why do you like Brooks versus Adidas or Nike? Oh, well it has this feature and this feature, and it supports this. I had plantar fasciitis, so I needed this instep. You can talk about why or maybe you just love the bright colored pink or maybe your foot is wide, so we know why we choose certain things. Why did you choose this? Why did you choose the school that your kids attend? Why did you choose your house?</p><p>What were those features in it? What was important to you when you were choosing your apartment, your house, where you live, your car? We know all of those things, but what was important to you when you chose your spouse? When you chose your partner? What was the value that you wanted in that person? Do you know those things? Because that is when you start to really, really lean into this power of your communication, of your marketing message and your visibility, which is going to be step two of this podcast. So, I want you to take some time and start with something that you know, start with your spouse. Start with maybe the house that you chose, why did you choose a vacation and start to pay attention and notice those things in your decision making. And then you can be a little bit more discriminatory on how you make a decision.</p><p>And so, you're not just saying yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, that's a side note. But why did you choose the network marketing model, specifically your business? And keep it brief and simple and know it and say it in the car and pretend like you're being interviewed by Oprah. Pretend like you're on this podcast. And I say to you, Mandy, why did you choose that? Like what made you make that decision and then practice it and start with the five bullet points. And I don't even want to call it a pitch because people can feel a pitch from a million miles away. But when someone talks to me, I am so, so, so sure that I need to share this message that I need to help. That woman that was looking for her voice, that was feeling lost, that was feeling stressed out, what was keeping her up at night.</p><p>And so, I don't just be like, Oh, my gosh, this is so amazing. It's awesome. We have all these things. Yeah, this person did this and this person did this and Oh my gosh, and she lost 32 pounds and blah, blah blah. I want you to know and I want you to be clear, so I want you to journal it and I can't give you those answers because only you can do it yourself. We're going to do some work on that over in Camp Elevate. If you're not in the group, thecampelevategroup.com, it's free. We have so many, so many amazing, amazing thousands of women in there, and some really awesome men, who are showing up for each other. And I do a lot of training in there. So, we're going to talk about that. I want you to journal that and I want you to really lean into it.</p><p>And as you lean into this, with all of your choices, with all of your decisions, if you look at what is the quality in my spouse that I love so much, and sometimes those good qualities that you chose become the annoying qualities, and like, so one of the things I love about Don is, I love that he takes care of all the little details and he pays attention to those things. He doesn't let things slip through the cracks. And when I wasn't in gratitude and when I wasn't focused on all of the things, in the rich life that we got to lead together, that started to annoy me. Oh my gosh, here he goes again. Did you remember your driver's license? Did you remember your passport? Did you remember this? And I started to become annoyed by those little things when that was truly the big quality that I wanted and prayed for and thought about and journaled about.</p><p>In the perfect partner for my life. So, I want you to do that for your business. Is this making sense to you guys? So, when you become clear on that, the next piece I'm going to talk to you about in the CEO framework, step into your power. So, before we go to the next point, I literally want you to visualize that you're in a room and it's dark and you're looking for the light and everything's kind of out of place. There's books and there's things on the floor and shoes that need to be put away. And how does that feel? It feels confusing, right? It feels like I can't get started until I clean this up. And then I want you to step into this room. I want you to step through the door and I want you to visualize how it feels to be in this clean and open space.</p><p>However, that looks for you. For me, it's stepping into this room that has like a rich, a rich rug that is deep jewel toned. It has meditation corner; it has a clean desk that has like some very beautiful pens and books. And it's just inviting. I've got my microphone there and I walk into that space. That's what I've done with my office, is walked into a space and created a space where I could create. So, I want you to think about that in your business. Does your business feel like that cluttered office where you don't know what to do next? When you get clear on what you do and why you're doing it and how you're going to share with those five bullet points and you journal about it and you really, really lean into it. You guys, you have to do the work.</p><p>I can't tell you the five. You've got to do the work and then you've got to keep doing the work of why you're grateful, why this is working, why you're doing this, to be in it for the long term by the little things, the details. Remember when I talked about Don, why those little things are not going to create disruption in what your daily plan is. So, I want to encourage you and invite you today to walk in, stand up, take a step from hiding behind the curtain in your cluttered room. Really not knowing why you made this choice because you're listening to this podcast because you want to make a shift. You can use this strategy any single time that you need to make a shift. It's going into being clear on what are those amazing, awesome things that had me make this choice and step into it and step into it with clarity so that when you have that conversation, when you're at the running store buying those running shoes and you just have this intuition and I need to like open my mouth and connect with is human and instead of going out and buying a $27 script that's going to allow you to connect and have conversations and recruit and grow your team like crazy.</p><p>We've all done it, that you literally, we'll have the words the connection because you are so clear on it. So clear. I want you to think about this. I want you to think about the last perfect vacation that you took, and if you had one, and if you haven't, put that on your vision board, and how the sheets felt and what was the service like and what, what did the sand feel like and if, if that woman at the running store when you're buying your running shoes set asked you about going to maybe your places, Punta Cana, and you start to explain it, you have all these ways. She's like, Oh, I'm totally in. Do you have that for your business? Do you have those words? Do you have that? It's because you need to step away from the clutter, clear it out with your journaling, with getting clear on your messaging and don't think, I want Beth to give me her five because my five are totally different and the way that you can do this is to do some journaling prompts.</p><p>You go back to where you were and where you want to be going or what you wanted less of in your life and what you wanted more of. Whenever I'm looking at, am I going to go in the right directions? I'll say, what do I want to do less of? What do I want to do more of and does that fit my more of what looks like love? What brings me joy and how will I feel? And this is another one that I learned this from my coach, Susan Hyatt, when she talks about not shaming, and this is about food, but how will this feel in an hour? And so, like even when I don't have that conversation, how would that feel in an hour? So, I need to do it now, but I want you to get very, very clear. So, I promised you step two would be how to take this message and then use this in your CEO framework of how you build out your business plan of being innovative with your marketing and your visibility.</p><p>And that sometimes is social media. Sometimes it might be meeting with a group of almost empty nest moms at a high school. But the next podcast we are going to be talking how we take this work that you're doing. And then we put that into showing up consistently for marketing and visibility and for people to hear your message and find you, which is a huge, huge piece, but I am going to save that. I'm going to actually record that next episode right now while it's on my mind, and you'll have that episode next Monday. So, this week your homework is, this is I want you to think about and journal and really lean into, are you hiding behind a curtain? Are you kind of like in the shadows, not really talking about what you do or are you truly stepping into your power, stepping into finding your voice and committing to that?</p><p>Are you visualizing? Are you journaling and do you know those five things? Three things, five things, right? Then if I were to say to you, Mandy, what is it? You would be able to say boom, boom, boom, and boom and practice a little bit like why did you choose that shaker cup? And I do this with my brain all the time. Why did you choose that shaker cup? Why do you like that white tee shirt? Why did you choose your spouse? Why do you choose those sheets for your bed? You can always come up with those five things and when you find yourself getting caught up in drama and somebody else's swirling tornado of emotions or boundary issues to start to really lean into, does this feel like love? Does this bring me joy? How will this feel in an hour? And when you know, like I know what my five, I know for my business why I chose my business.</p><p>I know why I chose to work with women in a mastermind, but I also know what are my five agreements with myself and that they have to fall into place in all of, and we'll talk about all those things on the podcast, but today its business. It is. Why did you choose the network marketing model? Your specific business or if you're a realtor, why did you choose to work with Keller Williams? Why did you choose to do this? Why is it the best choice? Because what you're doing is not going out and recruiting and finding just anybody that says yes and puts up their hand. You want to be connected with the people that have the same vision that you have, and you cannot attract. You cannot have that conversation unless you are very, very clear. So, when I get messages from you and thank you, thank you for sending me those messages that say, I think you were in my head.</p><p>I think that today you read my mind on this podcast and I think, okay because I churn all about it. I journal about what I went through, I journal about what are the things that when people say to me, I'm struggling here, how can I work through this? I want you to be so clear on why you made that choice. Step into the CEO role. Imagine that you are in, you are you guys, you didn't just join a company and you're like, Hey, I'm Joe Schmo and I'm the such and such oil person. You are Joe Schmoe, who is the CEO of this business that is using the network marketing model to help men and women build their business. You are excited because the product that you are like, think about the product that you get to put into people's hands will give you these results. Do you have clarity?</p><p>And that is my question. Go on out there and get your clarity. Pull out that journal. It will come to you. And if you're stuck, go for a run. Put on some Beyoncé, go at your most creative time when you are feeling clear and do this work and I promise you that you will get such clarity on your message, such clarity on your mission. Then when you are trying on those running shoes and you feel this like I am going to have this conversation and you have the conversation and you ask a few questions and she says, well why did you choose, you know, why did you choose what you're doing? You can literally say with passion, with clarity that the energy and the vibration is there. And she may or may not say, Oh Hey yeah, like let me take a look. But you know that you have done your work and then you make a connection on social media.</p><p>Because she might not say yes right away. You stay connected, you stay in the same space because at some point she may say, gosh, I remember hearing Beth to say that while she was trying on the running shoes, she had such vision like she's so excited about this and I'm really tired of this nine to five or I really need to get some therapy for my son's speech and maybe that's something that I'll take a look at. But you showed up and you had passion and you have vision and you have clarity. So, let's go out and do that today because there is someone waiting for your message. There is somebody that is just sitting there thinking, I can't pay my bills, or I feel disconnected. I feel alone. I didn't know what I needed on that day in 2014 August 6th, I didn't know that I desperately needed to, to have a shift go from selfish to serving.</p><p>I didn't know what I could contribute financially to our family to change the entire legacy. I didn't know, but it was the authenticity and the excitement around Blair's message that allowed me to enter into this space. And then I became clear on another mission, which was to help serve all of you who are looking to build a business and have that financial freedom and have that clarity around who you truly want to be and show up to be in this world. So, thank you. Thank you. Thank you for being with me today. As always, I am so grateful for our time together and if you want to connect more, shoot me a message about your five things. Come on over to the Camp Elevate Group, and next week we will go into, once you have this message, how you show up with it to start having people really, really curious about what it is that you do and how you can really make an impact by getting this out into the world.</p><p>See y'all next week.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So, leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I will enter you to win the 'You're Not the Boss of Me' swag. So, make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED...</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• Today's Link: <a href="https://bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p>• Top Summit: <a href="https://www.thetopsummit.com">https://www.thetopsummit.com</a></p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• It's important that we inject a level of spirituality and teach people how to craft or spiritual tools. And then secondly, what are we going to do for our attendees after the event? Because I feel it's those next 72 hours, upwards of 90 days where people return to an environment and they begin to allow this filling and an experience to dissipate.(05:50)</p><p>• Because one thing I've learned in my years, which is now 15, 16 years as an entrepreneur, is that you can trick people with the conscious mind, but the subconscious is very consistent, right? And so when you begin to listen to people very carefully and see consistencies, you begin to realize that that's the subconscious allowing the character to maintain what you've seen over a certain period of time. (09:53)</p><p>• We want to make sure that we provide our attendees the highest vibration in the room because they're going to receive that, right? We're all sensitive people. We're all spiritual people. So we connect to people's energies, we connect to people's spirits. And so when someone is at their highest vibration, we receive it. It deepens, you know, our experience and therefore we drive the seed deeper to be able to take root and that person over time. (11:06)</p><p>• Let's do a little coaching for Amanda after she's heard all the speakers, what would you tell her over the next 90 days to be doing with her business? (16:55)</p><p>• We have certainty in some areas of our life, and that certainty and others, is because there's a level of competency and confidence even if it's on autopilot.(26:29)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR...</strong></p><p>February 10, 2020</p><p><strong>EPISODE TRANSCRIPT...</strong></p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves, and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Hey bosses, welcome back to episode number 24, you are in for a treat. In this episode I have the opportunity to talk one on one, and you get to listen in with one of my new friends, Reggie flowers. He is the co-founder and the mastermind with his partners behind the Top Summit, which was an event that just happened in Naples, Florida. I was able and privileged and blessed to be a speaker on their stage and I wanted Reggie to come and have a conversation with us about his big takeaways about the event. We also go into some pretty deep stuff about how to build your business, how to create a spiritual connection to building your business. And I just know that you are going to realize that Reggie is truly anointed, and I can't wait for you to hear this interview so stay with me.  </p><p>But first I want to share with you one of the most incredible reviews that I've received, that says ‘10 stars please’.  So, I love to read the reviews as we begin the podcast because this allows us to give away some swag and it's like my happy time. So, stay with me because this one is super special to me. It's from JRO4981 and she says that she looks forward to Monday's podcast. ‘Actually, can you make it five days a week?’ I have been thinking about an extra episode every week, so I think I'm going to have that start maybe next week. She goes on to say ‘I absolutely love the inspiration, thoughtfulness, moving and grooving podcast so much did I dearly miss it Tuesday through Friday? See, I've been going through some hard and troubling times in the last year and this podcast has gotten me moving again. And not only that, it has helped me with my mindset and your caring, loving, genuine ways along with great marketing information. I recommend this podcast to all friends that are in direct sales. It's a must listen to weekly and it starts Mondays off in the right direction. Keep up the amazing job, Beth, and I can't wait until the next podcast, which seems like the weeks fly by and Monday is here before we know it and I find myself longing for more.’ JRO, thank you from the bottom of my heart. I truly, truly am blessed too. Have so many of you taking the time to share, review, share the podcast and I am truly grateful. So, let's get this episode started.  </p><p>Here we go with Reggie flowers. Well, welcome back you guys. I'm so excited! Most of you know that I have just returned from the Top Summit where I was able to talk with Katie Harbison about unicorns. But most importantly to be a part of what I feel is such a unique situation, event community that I haven't seen ever before. And today my guest, who is a huge part in making this happen, is Reggie flowers. And Reggie, what is your official title with the top summit?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>I am the co-founder and president.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Co-founder and president. I'm just going to say the cool co-founder and president. How's that sound? Some people may be listening. We have mostly a network marketing audience, and maybe, I don't know how they wouldn't have known about the Top Summit. We already had Ray and we had Rob on the podcast to talk about it. We were sharing out the live stream, but just in case someone doesn't know about the Top Summit, can you give us a little cliff note version of what it's all about and its mission?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>Absolutely. And thank you for having me on here, Beth. I definitely don't take this for granted and you opening it up to your listeners right now and us sharing some thoughts and insights. So, for those of you who are learning for the very first time about Top Summit, you know the journey really began as a passion project with my two partners. These two young ladies actually are, you know, have done extremely well in the industry and professional network marketing and they saw a gap. And that gap for them at that time was really like, how do we create an environment, any event that gives the attendees a unique experience, right? So we know there's many different trains that we can go to get great training from great speakers, you know, great thought leaders, but how do we create an experience that's beyond the experience you have from the information you've received?  </p><p>And so, it began there. And so, they sought me out to some of our prior relationships and engagements that they knew. I had a background as a professional network marketer for 11 years. I started when I was 19 years old and stepped away, you know, in my late twenties at the beginning, consulting for network marketing, both public and privately on network marketing companies. And so, when they came to me with the idea, well actually wasn't even an idea. They had already hired Rachel Hollis and they had Ray Higdon on board and Jessica Higdon and Rob and Frazier. So, I was really blown away with the level of commitments that were part of this, you know, opportunity. And I simply said, you know, I really have just two requests, that if you can honor these requests, I think we could work together on this project. And I said, number one, I felt like we all know business as a spiritual game.  </p><p>So, it's important that we inject a level of spirituality and teach people how to craft or spiritual tools. And then secondly, what are we going to do for our attendees after the event? Because I feel it's those next 72 hours, upwards of 90 days where people return to an environment and they begin to allow this filling and an experience to dissipate. So, I say we can keep people connected long enough to have the experience and the belief that they can move, forge ahead in their business and we can really make a lasting impact. And so, with that level of focus and commitment was the rebirth, I guess, if you will, at the Top Summit. And we launched our first event headlining Rachel Hollis, Hollis was in the building. You know, in August and then we just had Top Summit 2020 and you know, the mission is really to provide a marketplace where entrepreneurs can come and get a deep dive, you know, network marketing professionals from experts where they leave with a customized feeling, a deeper experience or exactly how to enhance their ability to recruit and ability to promote, you know, the brand themselves and social media, social media strategies from the absolute best, how to run a business like a business, how to be tax efficient.  </p><p>So, we wanted to be this marketplace where we keep it very niche where you know, at our next event, Beth, we're only going to allow 300 tickets and then the rest will be online. So the people who are present, they're going to have that deep dive experience where we're going to really love on our attendees, we're going to really support our attendees and we're going to help them cultivate and take their businesses to the next level.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love the connection and that was the piece feel. First of all, thank you for putting this idea into action. So many people talk, and they don't do. And this event, the locations are both places, and I grew up going to Mackinaw Island from Michigan, and then I also raised my kids at the Naples Beach Club. None of us really knew each other before the Top Summit and we sat up and talked with them. I mean, Natasha Hazlett sat with us. We had Trey from Beknown who talked about marketing. Kimberly Olson was there, gosh, Jessica Green came up to talk and she, you know, she's a top earner in network marketing. We had Natasha Robertson who had been on stage, Mom to Millionaire, and then brand-new people that were just starting in the industry. One of my friends, Bridget was sitting, and she looked at me, Oh, Rob came up, Frazier came up, you came up and she said, this is unbelievable.  </p><p>There is never a time that I ever thought I would have access to build a relationship with this type of level of person in the industry. And so, for me, that just felt so different than the events where you're kind of cattle. It's a cattle drive, in a cattle drive out. Oh, Danelle came up to Danelle Delgado. I mean it was just, yeah, so cool. And everybody just was having conversations, was interested in each other's businesses, in the growth, in families, in all of the pieces, not just like build, build, build the business. So, whatever you did, did you choose speakers that said, yes, I'm open to being a part of this entire community. You have no prima donna’s I can tell you that.  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>Absolutely. You know, we are very centered around trusting our spiritual connection and as well as our intuition on directing our path. And so often there'll be just confirmation, like a book you just read or a word you heard on YouTube. It's like, what, how Hal Elrod, you know, one of our advisors read his book and that book changed her life forever because it changed the way she handled her morning. So, she felt like he was highly recommended because he also impacted her organization. And so, when we bring on speakers that we've identify who are not just experts, but we feel like also quality people. Because one thing I've learned in my years, which is now 15 years, 16 years as an entrepreneur, is that you can trick people with the conscious mind, but the subconscious is very consistent, right? And so, when you begin to listen to people very carefully and see consistencies, you begin to realize that that's the subconscious allowing the character to maintain what you've seen over a certain period of time.  </p><p>And so, when we feel like people resonate with those certain qualities, when we get on the phone with them, I often ask, you know, what is the word for you in this particular year or phrase or feeling? Because most of them have hours they’ve mastered at a very deep domain level. A level of knowledge is capacity, but their skills and ability, and that's great, but sometimes those things become mundane, right? Because you're doing them over and over, they're mastered. And then there's the thing that you have a higher vibration on that are inspiring you for the year. That encouraging for you for the year equipping you for the year. So I often try to pull that out of the speakers and when I have the opportunity for them to have those moments, then they realized that what they should be talking about has nothing to do with their mastery, but what their mastery has allowed them to create.  </p><p>And so, we want to make sure that we provide our attendees the highest vibration in the room because they're going to receive that, right? We're all sensitive people. We're all spiritual people. So, we connect to people's energies, we connect to people's spirits. And so, when someone is at their highest vibration, we receive it. It deepens, you know, our experience and therefore we drive the seed deeper to be able to take root and that person over time. And that's really our objective. So, we're very, we scrutinize at a level that's not just what's on paper on the internet, but what's in the spirit of the person. You know, how they conducted themselves. And that's continues to allow us to really protect the environment. And if we ever allow someone in that disrupts that, then they won't be able to return no matter how great they are.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Well, I love, I love that. I truly believe in that vibration and how you bring that to every single day in your business. Now it makes sense to me because I literally can be in someone's presence and I'm super sensitive to that. Reggie, I can absorb, I have to like really put on a guard and I felt like many events that I have attended, I walk away and I'm tired and I'm depleted and I feel discouraged. Not because the content wasn't good, but because you walk out exhausted. Now I'm understanding what you've created with a level of energy and the vibration because I left feeling so excited. I was fueled. I am fueled and also that I sat next to Tim Ferret and that was another like talking about working on marriages and every single person was about connection, not competition. And although this is the big piece in a lot of people listening who have watched the live stream and we're going to give you a chance, is the live stream still available, Reggie?  </p><p>If people want to purchase that, okay, we'll give you guys a special link for the live stream, it's lifetime access. And even though there were some different philosophies about building, everybody was respectful of the idea that there are a lot of different ways to build your network marketing business. But really when you take it all apart, when you say, what did Cheri Tree talk about? What did Ray talk about? What did Frazier talk about? What did Beth and Katie talk about? Natasha, Danelle? It came down to a desire to want to make an impact, to create change for families, for legacy, wealth and generations to change the story. That is what it came down to. And that's what I walked away with was this energy about we are here to help shift the family's futures, people's futures. And that was the energy around every single person. So, although back in the day when you were doing network marketing, there were no Instagram stories, right?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>No Facebook stories, no Instagram stories, none of that.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>And we also had Chris talk about building community within his team. I want to encourage as you watch the live stream, and I'm talking as though all of you have watched the live stream cause if you haven't, that's like the best training that you could get yourself all year is to think about what Reggie said about the energy, the vibration, and think what is my bigger mission? What is it that I'm here to do? And then that doesn't have you questioning the message that you're sending. Right? It has you knowing that I have an obligation, a responsibility to share what it is that I'm doing to help somebody to create a legacy. And that was the overall, it was like if we had to think of a theme of all the speakers, wouldn't you say that's how it kind of rounded out to be?</p><p>Reggie:</p><p>Absolutely. You know, it's dedicating and crafting a purpose driven life. I mean, there's no question from 0 to 10 million a year. Network marketing is the best way and creating a lifestyle and you know, developing not only other people but yourself in the process and just really rising up and overcoming and becoming triumphant both, you know, psychologically, you know, emotionally, financially, spiritually. This is the industry that has garnered so much of even my people like myself that even if we've moved into a different direction for a season is still the foundation of my purpose. And so, I'll always be grateful for what the industry has done for myself, my family, the people allow me to impact. And so I think our speakers recognize that it's a purpose driven life, that the things that they're doing, server purpose and there's value being added, you know, to not just the people that in their immediate circles, but those that are catching them indirectly. And people wear that with a level of responsibility, integrity, ethics, you know, and we're just grateful that we get to be a small piece of the industry helping serve or greater cause.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>I want to jump into something, because before people catch the live stream and shift over to you as someone that's right here. Most of what I hear back from my podcast listeners is I've walked away with something that I am committed to doing over the next 90 days to build my business. That will create that shift and that change that will help me to see that it's more purpose driven. And so, if after hearing all the speakers, your experience, all the work that you've done in the network marketing industry, and you've also obviously built some phenomenal businesses, I'm going to use Amanda for example. Amanda was there and she sat in the front row and she was there for every single speaker and we sat and talked in the lobby and she said, okay, I've got all of my notes and now it's time to get back to work. It's time to rebuild. So what would you coach if you were coaching Amanda, and I know she's going to be listening, if you are coaching Amanda after she's already built, but went a little bit backwards when some things personally went off track? Let's do a little coaching for Amanda after she's heard all the speakers, what would you tell her over the next 90 days to be doing with her business?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>That's a great question. And so if Amanda was with us right now and she gathered all her notes and you know, she's feeling inspired and she's in the moment right now, the first thing I would want her to do is to see if we can produce a result. Right now, let's go ahead and make a phone call. Let's set up a meeting, let's acquire a customer, let's create a result. Because whenever we take knowledge and turn it into action and from action to a result and that result then at the reevaluate it is a positive result. Then we'd be, we're beginning to create a behavior and a pattern. And when we're human beings, you know we are driven based on patterns and pattern recognition is something that I pay very close attention to. So, when I watched those who were, when I was early on the industry that were six figure earners, multiple, six, seven, multiple seven, I watched the behavior.  </p><p>And so, I will encourage Amanda for us to produce a result. Then I would say, listen, this is a business we need to create a plan that's related to the action, the analytics of watching your results, right? And then how are we going to evaluate those results? So we had to remind Amanda that we're still a student, even though we may be proficient, we've had success whenever we're going to graduate to a new level, to a new level of momentum, new level income, new level of influence over your team, we need to establish a plan so that we can keep ourselves accountable, right? And then create some metrics in that plan. So, we would lay out a 90 day plan for Amanda to say, okay, here's where we're at today. Here's where we want to go, and then let's establish some reasons. Or as we've always stated, some why's that really anchor you down.  </p><p>And one of the things I think has to happen is sometimes when we're helping someone establish a Why. We all have a Why that means something to us, our family, our finances, our community. But sometimes we, in order for us to get that boost of momentum, we need some immediate wise that are more short term to long term because sometime when you're long term, we're okay with the graduation process to get there. But when you're immediate, then there's a whole level of focus and a level of energy to follows that focus. So sometimes we just establish like what are some short-term goals monetarily, what are some short-term goals? You know, that would be recreational familywise that are immediately right now. So, if this, if I'm following that result, we cannot integrate per Y and establish our purpose within that moment of creating a result collectively together, right?  </p><p>We're supporting her in that process. We're making sure that she saw what she did correctly and kind of refining what she may have done wrong, but we had a result. And so now with the plan along with the execution, how are we going to keep her accountable to that plan? Then it's a cause to create action. And so, the immediate thing is obviously getting in front of people. So, Amanda, what is your week going to look like this week? We need to take action, we need to be consistent, and if she has the right reasons Why, that are inspiring her and anchoring her to her plan,  so Amanda is going to be on the treadmill of success, moving forward into the next 90 days.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love that. And I also, one of the big things that in listening to how Elrod with Miracle Morning is, I was challenged to Miracle Morning when I worked with a mentor. Oh gosh, four years ago and I haven't missed a morning. I've modified it for me. And it's that habits that are habits over time create the results. So, we all set, you know, we have the skill, I'm going to be here, here and here. But it's like you said, it's the 90 days land of creating those habits over and over that get the results. But unless you have, for me my big results is my big Why of how I can impact and constantly looking and seeing and being. One of the things that really, really sticks out to me when I have been talking to you about your kingdompreneur about the work that you do, is you speak about becoming, so if the goal like this is in, I love Atomic Habits with James Clear and he talks about the goal is not to read a book.  </p><p>The goal is to become a reader. The goal is not to run a marathon. The goal is to become a runner, to become a leader. So, when I talk with you, I think of that as what you embody because you're all about becoming, not just taking the action and doing social media, but becoming visible, becoming purpose driven. So, can you talk about the shift, because I hear this so often with people, well, I'm not good at sales, I'm not good at that. And so, there's such a difference in the vibration and energy. I don't, this is like going a little bit like all over, but I know you're following me, Reggie. The vibration and energy that comes because of how we speak that we don't become. So, the big difference I saw in the Natasha's onstage and the Danelle's and listening to Tim and Becky Ferret, is that they have become the leader. They have become purpose driven. They're not just out doing, like I talk about a five, four, three, two, one you're becoming, so how does somebody shift from, I'm not good at this, this kind of negative spiral to becoming.  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>Absolutely. So when you think about becoming first, you have to understand that there is no end is every evolving. It's infinite. It continues to go. So when I'm becoming, whether it's becoming my greatest version of myself becoming the greatest leader that can become the greatest recruiter, the greatest selves, you know, the greatest marketer I can become that we realize that we're going to take on and learn new traits. And so, to become or to become me, we have to be willing to unleash our mind. You know, there's a saying that I tell people when you're trying to figure me out and they're trying to figure out like what box to put me in in terms of personality traits or business motto or whatever I'm doing. And just trying to, you know, people are always shy, categorized, and I'll often say that I can be whatever I need to be when I need to be.  </p><p>And what that means is that I've unleashed my mind at a level where I can become what I need to become, what I need to do it. So, it started early on as a childhood when I saw gymnastics and I said, I want to do that. So, I did that, and we did it well, karate, hockey, football. And so, all those things I look at today and it was the become me. And so, in the industry when people are working to enter that becoming, what's also important is the unbecoming. That's when people miss, like, what do I need to unpack? What do I need to release in my limiting belief system? I eliminate philosophies about myself so that I can reframe it and replace it with new philosophies, which is what we know, how we know it and how we've obtained that information. And then when we apply it, those are the actions.  </p><p>And then how we feel about it is our attitude. So, when you're becoming, you first have to start with the unbecoming. You have to embrace and accept what it is that you've eliminated yourself. So just like when somebody says I'm not good, like that communication in itself is eliminating communication. I am now good. Versus how do I get better? That is the becoming, how do I become better at sales? How do I get better at marketing? How do I get better at recruiting, promoting the events, right? How do I get better at three-way calls or Zoom calls? So, when we're becoming, we stepped into a student like attitude and we begin to reframe our communication. We begin to reframe, you know, the way we see ourselves while we're on this journey of becoming our best version. So, the becoming for any individual and shifting, making that shift is first starting with the decision.  </p><p>So often we enter in everything with a preference, meaning I'll try it, I'll consider it, I'll give it a test. And I would always tell my leaders, sometimes I'm like, do you try to put on your pants in the morning or do you just do it right? Do you try to, you know, drive your car or did you do it? Like, why would we have certainty in some areas of our life and that certainty and others is because there's a level of competency and confidence even if it's on autopilot. So, the becoming means that I'm going to make the conscious effort to make a decision to equip myself with new inputs, which means change in my environment. And what does that really mean? Well, look, I'm not telling you to pick up, you know, and leave your home and your community. What do I am telling you that maybe you reduced from five TVs down to one and you go from less entertainment to more education and the education extend from the internet, from audio books, books, where you're now going to focus on an area and here become a profession that we're marketers where you want to energize yourself.  </p><p>Who should I be becoming a better leader, right? A better influencer, sales, understanding how to create distribution, right? That's the become, in order to become, I have to make a decision to ally myself with the information and then I create an environment, my home where when I look around my house or my apartment or my RV, whatever you're living in, it does not matter, but when you look around it, you see where you're going. You see a beautiful home that you're going to all in one day. You see a vacation that you're going to take your family on. You see a organization that you've always wanted to support because you have these things printed in there all around your house and you're subconsciously training your mind that this is who I am and this is who I am becoming because I'm putting in the work to do it, but it has to start with a decision and that decision going to be driven on your desire of your desires, not great enough, then you're not going to do what's necessary to become and then the becoming never becomes.  </p><p>It just becomes something that you thought about. So, you unbecome. Then you become, and last but certainly not least, you really have to make the decision to increase your needs, which is directly related to your standards. So, if you elevate your standards, which you expect of yourself, would you expect of your life? Would you expect of others? Would you expect that relationships, the love that you have for yourself, if you elevate your standards, then you directly have to elevate your needs to support your new standards? And that is what I believe is part of the process of becoming.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love it. And so, one of the main things that I hear in all of this is we have to like that decision that Reggie talks about so many times, like when I started teaching way back, I didn't try. I didn't, I didn't say, well maybe I'll see if this works out. This year I became a teacher. I started to create the environment for the students to have success. And so many network marketers are just kind of dabbling. They haven't made that decision and the difference. And now that like all of this is coming together because one of the things that I'll tell you, a Danelle Delgado did a great post about how to be at an event, show up early, stay late, ask questions, talk not about yourself that asks so many questions. I would walk around and say to somebody, what's the biggest shift that you felt when you said this is my industry? This is how I will change my family's legacy.  </p><p>This is how I will impact thousands and that decision. I talked to Jamie, this was such a cool conversation, and Jamie was a multiple seven figure earner who was there attending, and she was, somebody said, how did you hit the top rank of your company in 42 days? And she said it just wasn't an option not to do it. We made a decision and I knew that I had 42 days and I was getting myself in front of as many people as possible via Zoom because she's in Canada. She said that she got all of her family onboard for those 42 days and she broke records in the industry because of a decision that she made to be all in. So, I want to encourage like, let's do this, we're going to give you guys some homework and then Reggie add to it. I had to unbecome a lot of things when I started my run and network marketing, I had to unbecome a nighttime TV watcher.  </p><p>I had to let go of circles or friends that talked about gossip, people that didn't support me, people that weren't spiritually aligned with me. And I had to become this new version, this new vision of myself. But in order to do that, I had to know what that looks like. So why did it encourage you to take out a piece of paper and describe what you want to be? Who do you want to become the leader that you see yourself to be? Because so many times we just kind of sit around and go through the motions. So how do you want to serve? Who do you want to impact? What kind of conversations do you want to have? Clean up your office space for goodness sakes, you've got a declutter, you've got to be efficient, have a beautiful space where you work and start to decide that this business is it about creating and becoming an impacting. So, what would you say to someone? I know that Reggie, you are with your spiritual gift. A lot of that is self-reflection and journaling and praying and your devotions and the time that you spend. If you were to give a journaling assignment in terms of becoming and making a decision to make this happen, Amanda left that Top Summit. She heard all these incredible speakers. She's inspired, she's motivated. What is your journal assignment for her?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>My journal assignment for Amanda would be you had to take inventory with your associations. Currently, I so often feel that when people leave this type of environment and return to a, I don't want to use, we'll use subpar as a lack of a better term, but reinsurance, you know the associations or relationship because you a member, words have power. And so, if we're around people that are speaking over us that are not encouraging, that are not uplifting, that are not elevating us, then those words are actually taking root in some shape and form or fashion in our life. So, I would say, Amanda, we need to take inventory to figure out who needs to be in what I call the S O S the season of separation, where I need to separate for a season. And we don't know how long a season may be. So, don't put a timeframe on it.  </p><p>And if they're truly your friends are, they truly love you, they will be there for you when you return. But I remember the moment that I began to separate just because of where my focus was, my attention, my intent, right? And it caused a natural separation. But so often people want to satisfy both the people that are anchoring them down in Iran direction and the people that are helping them have a common future. So, the people you have a common pass with, you had to be okay with that season of separation. You had to be okay with being selfish for a season. There is a difference between being self-centered versus selfish. A self-centered person means that their thoughts and actions and behaviors are all centered around self. A selfish person says that I had to take care of myself in his moment, but that doesn't mean that all my thoughts has centered around me and so therefore I had to be selfish enough, love myself enough to serve my family, my community.  </p><p>You know my team. You know the company that I'm building, the legacy that I'm building. You have to be selfish enough until you break through the wall and you exponentially grow. Then you have the right to begin to consider other options, but the person you became in the process is now strong enough to endure any unnecessary words on. What will happen is that when you're spiritually led, you're not going to want to be around those words anymore. Or people will feel your presence in a way where they become conscious of how they communicate to you because you leveled up, you've ascended right before their very eyes and now you become the miraculous way before them. And so most people will follow and others you will repel them. But you have to live your purpose. And that's why if you're not clear on your vision then you will have uncertainty. And when you have uncertainty then you will allow these people who add no value to your life to sit around your life and weigh you down because confused people do what? Nothing.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Awesome. We are going to wrap this up right now and we talked about Top Summit. We kind of switched over to clearing out the mental clutter, making a 90-day plan with Reggie. So much good stuff. I know that you all would probably like to know how you can get more of Reggie, hear more of his leadership. So, Reggie, where do people find you in the social media world?  </p><p>So that's a great question. Right now where you could go is to my public page, which is Reggie Flowers on Facebook or @ourflowers23 and there you'll notice that there's a group tied to that page, click on that and ask to be added because they'll have access to what's going to be my latest creation, which I'm really excited about, which is the self-mastery and business accelerator course that I'm launching shortly. And there'll be able to get on the waiting list for that. Well, we're going to take people through the five laws of transformation, success and fulfillment. And when we take people through challenges, my journey, but their journey to get to that place of fulfillment because I truly believe that we get in this industry to make money. And then once we get through the growth and the understanding to a place where we actually can create it and do it on demand, where does the actual strategy and skill sets have been established? But we all have learned that the money will sustain our fulfillment. And so, the significance in our lives comes from our ability to elevate others. And so, I want to continue to help people get to that place where they're now in a position to sow into others and elevate others in there. Now money's just a consequence and you'll never be limited with it at all. So, head over to Facebook, Reggie Flowers or @ourflowers23, connect there, message me, and then we'll make sure we point you in the right direction.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love it, I love it. And that just like gave me chills when you said, you know that we start for money and then like the money does not sustain that mission. You are so right. And it has to be about something so much more. And I love that you're going to be teaching that with the five laws of transformation. I can't wait to hear more about that. And in terms of Top Summit, do you have dates for next year?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>Yes. So we are going to be March and please don't hold me to this cause I don't have it in front of me, but March, 2021 the 27th I believe to the 31st our dates and so we'll make sure that when you send us out to your subscriber list that that data data's correct. March 27th or the 31st is what I believe I heard last. We bounced between two dates and we were just locking it in later on today, so yes, but March, knowing that we're going to be back in Naples, Florida at the Naples hotel and golf resort, Naples beach hotel and golf resort. We will be back here next year.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love it. And they had the best mango fish tacos right by the pool. Did you have those?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>I did not.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh my gosh. Next year we're having lunch together. I think we should plan a lunch for the people that are listening to the podcast with Reggie and Beth. What do you think?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>I would absolutely love it.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love it. All right Reggie, thanks for being on you guys. We're going to give you below all of the details. We'll give you the link so that you can purchase the live stream. I purchased it myself even though I was at the event and speaking at the event because I want to go over and over and over what the speakers said and be able to just really put that into my daily method of operation into my spiritual growth. So much good stuff. So, Reggie, thanks for being on and I know it will you promise to come back as a guest and talk about the five laws of transformation.  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>I would be honored to be on Beth, you have been so incredible. I'm so glad we met in person; I know we've talked several times via Zoom. And just your energy, and you all want you all to know, make sure you really support her podcast because this is truly not only an exceptional entrepreneur, but this is truly a sincerely a woman, a real faith. And I'm going to let you in on just a little story real quick before we go. But the moment that Beth and Katie were getting ready to go on stage, she walked up to the steps and immediately pivots and turns around and says, will you pray for us? And for her to have that level of comfort and that, that spiritual intuition tells her that this is a praying man. This is someone that I can count on to immediately do that.  </p><p>That is something that has been honed, conditioned, and then exercise. So, this is who you are listening to and there's someone that's been very near and dear to my heart and she will always say, she would say, you want to be under the spout. The blessings are coming out. And so, if you're listening to her voice, you are under a spout that has been blessed and those blessings are now shielding over you. So, listen, listen, listen, tune in. Tune in because she's only going to be led to bring on people that are going to pour into you appropriately.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh, my goodness. Thank you Reggie for that. That was just beautiful. And honestly at that moment I just, I turned and said, I looked at Katie, the energy around us was let's just stop. Let's just stop and be grateful and take this moment and ask for the perfect words as we go up on that stage. Because I know that my only mission was that one person could be impacted by what we said that one person's life could completely change and shift because of hearing Katie's story or hearing my story or hearing what we had to say. We had a lot of humor in it. I'm going to actually have Katie on next week and we're going to do a podcast version of the unicorn. But thank you Reggie. That was really kind and I, and I truly believe when I started this podcast that I was called to speak about this journey and to do it in a different way, to do it in a way that isn't all about hustle and grind, but it's all about how can you live a life that makes an impact?  </p><p>How can you have time for years, family and that drop all of the glass balls while building and, and to have the right purpose driven mission because so many people are out there saying hustle, grind, go, go, go, go. And at the end of the day, I love what you said, and we'll end with this. That money will not sustain you. It will not fulfill you. It is about so much more. So, my goal is to help someone save their marriage. My goal is to help someone be a better parent. My goal is to help someone to pay off their debt so they're not tossing and turning at night and bringing people like you, Reggie, the time, the expertise, people pay you thousands and thousands of dollars for one on one coaching for a 45 minute session with you. And we just got it for free y'all. So, thanks for tuning in today. Last words, Reggie, I know I'm going to catch you totally off guard. Share a quote that drives you every single day. It can be a verse, a quote, what is, what is it that gets you up?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>Actually, a prayer that I say every day and it's been an intentional prayer for business. And I, and I say it very simply in this, you know, ‘I asked that favor goes before me every day and prospers my way. That people go out of their way to bless me and don't even know why.’ Those of you who are listening, you want that favor. You want people to bend to their air, to you, but they go out of their way to bless you. They go out of their way to support you. You will become that person through that prayer and through that process where people just align themselves with you and it just feels so unfair, but you realize it's not you has because you're aligned spiritually and that God is overlooking and helping you and serving you because of the work that you're doing here in his kingdom.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh my gosh, I love that. We will also put Reggie's words that prayer in the show notes so that you can grab that and, and you've got to ask you guys, I want you to wake up tomorrow morning and ask for favor. Ask or a blessing in your business because it just isn't going to find its way to you. You've got to open that up, ask and you will receive. So, we will catch you guys all next week. This is going to be one of the best, most downloaded episodes. I just know because of the power behind Reggie's words. So I'll catch you guys all next week when we have Katie Harbison and we will be talking about how to recruit the perfect unicorn  </p><p>And that's a wrap with Reggie. I want to leave you with this. I want to ask you to send me a question over on Instagram. Go over in my DMS. Ask me a question because in the next episode we are going to start with ask me anything about building your network marketing business or maybe you just want to know some cool thing and I will get the answer for you because someone once told me I'm the master connector of all people. If I can't find someone, if I can't do it myself, I will find someone who can. So, send me an appropriate question. It can be a little inappropriate, but send me a question over in the Instagram DM and I'm going to start answering a few of those questions right here because those of you that know me know this, I do not cover things up.  </p><p>I let you know exactly what's going on and I'm the one that tells you the truth, so send me a message, ask me anything I'm hoping to launch next week if I get some questions. Thanks so much for being with me today. I've got a free gift for you. It's brand new, hot off the presses and you can find it at BethHoldenGraves.com/10ways. This gift is my little guide that's going to show you how to get people into your inbox asking you what the heck do you do? Wouldn't that be awesome to get two or three people a day asking you to share with them what you do? Grab that guide. I know that if you start to put these things into place that I talk about in my guide that you will make it happen. And as always, join us over in thecampelevategroup.com. This week we are talking about visibility on social media. If you're catching this in real time, if not, we have so much great stuff going on. Catch you all next week. Talk soon.  </p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So, leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I will enter you to win the 'You're Not the Boss of Me' swag. So, make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. 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      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED...</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com">https://thecampelevategroup.com</a></p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>• Today's Link: <a href="https://bethholdengraves.com/10ways">https://bethholdengraves.com/10ways</a></p><p>• Top Summit: <a href="https://www.thetopsummit.com">https://www.thetopsummit.com</a></p><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• It's important that we inject a level of spirituality and teach people how to craft or spiritual tools. And then secondly, what are we going to do for our attendees after the event? Because I feel it's those next 72 hours, upwards of 90 days where people return to an environment and they begin to allow this filling and an experience to dissipate.(05:50)</p><p>• Because one thing I've learned in my years, which is now 15, 16 years as an entrepreneur, is that you can trick people with the conscious mind, but the subconscious is very consistent, right? And so when you begin to listen to people very carefully and see consistencies, you begin to realize that that's the subconscious allowing the character to maintain what you've seen over a certain period of time. (09:53)</p><p>• We want to make sure that we provide our attendees the highest vibration in the room because they're going to receive that, right? We're all sensitive people. We're all spiritual people. So we connect to people's energies, we connect to people's spirits. And so when someone is at their highest vibration, we receive it. It deepens, you know, our experience and therefore we drive the seed deeper to be able to take root and that person over time. (11:06)</p><p>• Let's do a little coaching for Amanda after she's heard all the speakers, what would you tell her over the next 90 days to be doing with her business? (16:55)</p><p>• We have certainty in some areas of our life, and that certainty and others, is because there's a level of competency and confidence even if it's on autopilot.(26:29)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR...</strong></p><p>February 10, 2020</p><p><strong>EPISODE TRANSCRIPT...</strong></p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves, and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Hey bosses, welcome back to episode number 24, you are in for a treat. In this episode I have the opportunity to talk one on one, and you get to listen in with one of my new friends, Reggie flowers. He is the co-founder and the mastermind with his partners behind the Top Summit, which was an event that just happened in Naples, Florida. I was able and privileged and blessed to be a speaker on their stage and I wanted Reggie to come and have a conversation with us about his big takeaways about the event. We also go into some pretty deep stuff about how to build your business, how to create a spiritual connection to building your business. And I just know that you are going to realize that Reggie is truly anointed, and I can't wait for you to hear this interview so stay with me.  </p><p>But first I want to share with you one of the most incredible reviews that I've received, that says ‘10 stars please’.  So, I love to read the reviews as we begin the podcast because this allows us to give away some swag and it's like my happy time. So, stay with me because this one is super special to me. It's from JRO4981 and she says that she looks forward to Monday's podcast. ‘Actually, can you make it five days a week?’ I have been thinking about an extra episode every week, so I think I'm going to have that start maybe next week. She goes on to say ‘I absolutely love the inspiration, thoughtfulness, moving and grooving podcast so much did I dearly miss it Tuesday through Friday? See, I've been going through some hard and troubling times in the last year and this podcast has gotten me moving again. And not only that, it has helped me with my mindset and your caring, loving, genuine ways along with great marketing information. I recommend this podcast to all friends that are in direct sales. It's a must listen to weekly and it starts Mondays off in the right direction. Keep up the amazing job, Beth, and I can't wait until the next podcast, which seems like the weeks fly by and Monday is here before we know it and I find myself longing for more.’ JRO, thank you from the bottom of my heart. I truly, truly am blessed too. Have so many of you taking the time to share, review, share the podcast and I am truly grateful. So, let's get this episode started.  </p><p>Here we go with Reggie flowers. Well, welcome back you guys. I'm so excited! Most of you know that I have just returned from the Top Summit where I was able to talk with Katie Harbison about unicorns. But most importantly to be a part of what I feel is such a unique situation, event community that I haven't seen ever before. And today my guest, who is a huge part in making this happen, is Reggie flowers. And Reggie, what is your official title with the top summit?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>I am the co-founder and president.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Co-founder and president. I'm just going to say the cool co-founder and president. How's that sound? Some people may be listening. We have mostly a network marketing audience, and maybe, I don't know how they wouldn't have known about the Top Summit. We already had Ray and we had Rob on the podcast to talk about it. We were sharing out the live stream, but just in case someone doesn't know about the Top Summit, can you give us a little cliff note version of what it's all about and its mission?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>Absolutely. And thank you for having me on here, Beth. I definitely don't take this for granted and you opening it up to your listeners right now and us sharing some thoughts and insights. So, for those of you who are learning for the very first time about Top Summit, you know the journey really began as a passion project with my two partners. These two young ladies actually are, you know, have done extremely well in the industry and professional network marketing and they saw a gap. And that gap for them at that time was really like, how do we create an environment, any event that gives the attendees a unique experience, right? So we know there's many different trains that we can go to get great training from great speakers, you know, great thought leaders, but how do we create an experience that's beyond the experience you have from the information you've received?  </p><p>And so, it began there. And so, they sought me out to some of our prior relationships and engagements that they knew. I had a background as a professional network marketer for 11 years. I started when I was 19 years old and stepped away, you know, in my late twenties at the beginning, consulting for network marketing, both public and privately on network marketing companies. And so, when they came to me with the idea, well actually wasn't even an idea. They had already hired Rachel Hollis and they had Ray Higdon on board and Jessica Higdon and Rob and Frazier. So, I was really blown away with the level of commitments that were part of this, you know, opportunity. And I simply said, you know, I really have just two requests, that if you can honor these requests, I think we could work together on this project. And I said, number one, I felt like we all know business as a spiritual game.  </p><p>So, it's important that we inject a level of spirituality and teach people how to craft or spiritual tools. And then secondly, what are we going to do for our attendees after the event? Because I feel it's those next 72 hours, upwards of 90 days where people return to an environment and they begin to allow this filling and an experience to dissipate. So, I say we can keep people connected long enough to have the experience and the belief that they can move, forge ahead in their business and we can really make a lasting impact. And so, with that level of focus and commitment was the rebirth, I guess, if you will, at the Top Summit. And we launched our first event headlining Rachel Hollis, Hollis was in the building. You know, in August and then we just had Top Summit 2020 and you know, the mission is really to provide a marketplace where entrepreneurs can come and get a deep dive, you know, network marketing professionals from experts where they leave with a customized feeling, a deeper experience or exactly how to enhance their ability to recruit and ability to promote, you know, the brand themselves and social media, social media strategies from the absolute best, how to run a business like a business, how to be tax efficient.  </p><p>So, we wanted to be this marketplace where we keep it very niche where you know, at our next event, Beth, we're only going to allow 300 tickets and then the rest will be online. So the people who are present, they're going to have that deep dive experience where we're going to really love on our attendees, we're going to really support our attendees and we're going to help them cultivate and take their businesses to the next level.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love the connection and that was the piece feel. First of all, thank you for putting this idea into action. So many people talk, and they don't do. And this event, the locations are both places, and I grew up going to Mackinaw Island from Michigan, and then I also raised my kids at the Naples Beach Club. None of us really knew each other before the Top Summit and we sat up and talked with them. I mean, Natasha Hazlett sat with us. We had Trey from Beknown who talked about marketing. Kimberly Olson was there, gosh, Jessica Green came up to talk and she, you know, she's a top earner in network marketing. We had Natasha Robertson who had been on stage, Mom to Millionaire, and then brand-new people that were just starting in the industry. One of my friends, Bridget was sitting, and she looked at me, Oh, Rob came up, Frazier came up, you came up and she said, this is unbelievable.  </p><p>There is never a time that I ever thought I would have access to build a relationship with this type of level of person in the industry. And so, for me, that just felt so different than the events where you're kind of cattle. It's a cattle drive, in a cattle drive out. Oh, Danelle came up to Danelle Delgado. I mean it was just, yeah, so cool. And everybody just was having conversations, was interested in each other's businesses, in the growth, in families, in all of the pieces, not just like build, build, build the business. So, whatever you did, did you choose speakers that said, yes, I'm open to being a part of this entire community. You have no prima donna’s I can tell you that.  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>Absolutely. You know, we are very centered around trusting our spiritual connection and as well as our intuition on directing our path. And so often there'll be just confirmation, like a book you just read or a word you heard on YouTube. It's like, what, how Hal Elrod, you know, one of our advisors read his book and that book changed her life forever because it changed the way she handled her morning. So, she felt like he was highly recommended because he also impacted her organization. And so, when we bring on speakers that we've identify who are not just experts, but we feel like also quality people. Because one thing I've learned in my years, which is now 15 years, 16 years as an entrepreneur, is that you can trick people with the conscious mind, but the subconscious is very consistent, right? And so, when you begin to listen to people very carefully and see consistencies, you begin to realize that that's the subconscious allowing the character to maintain what you've seen over a certain period of time.  </p><p>And so, when we feel like people resonate with those certain qualities, when we get on the phone with them, I often ask, you know, what is the word for you in this particular year or phrase or feeling? Because most of them have hours they’ve mastered at a very deep domain level. A level of knowledge is capacity, but their skills and ability, and that's great, but sometimes those things become mundane, right? Because you're doing them over and over, they're mastered. And then there's the thing that you have a higher vibration on that are inspiring you for the year. That encouraging for you for the year equipping you for the year. So I often try to pull that out of the speakers and when I have the opportunity for them to have those moments, then they realized that what they should be talking about has nothing to do with their mastery, but what their mastery has allowed them to create.  </p><p>And so, we want to make sure that we provide our attendees the highest vibration in the room because they're going to receive that, right? We're all sensitive people. We're all spiritual people. So, we connect to people's energies, we connect to people's spirits. And so, when someone is at their highest vibration, we receive it. It deepens, you know, our experience and therefore we drive the seed deeper to be able to take root and that person over time. And that's really our objective. So, we're very, we scrutinize at a level that's not just what's on paper on the internet, but what's in the spirit of the person. You know, how they conducted themselves. And that's continues to allow us to really protect the environment. And if we ever allow someone in that disrupts that, then they won't be able to return no matter how great they are.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Well, I love, I love that. I truly believe in that vibration and how you bring that to every single day in your business. Now it makes sense to me because I literally can be in someone's presence and I'm super sensitive to that. Reggie, I can absorb, I have to like really put on a guard and I felt like many events that I have attended, I walk away and I'm tired and I'm depleted and I feel discouraged. Not because the content wasn't good, but because you walk out exhausted. Now I'm understanding what you've created with a level of energy and the vibration because I left feeling so excited. I was fueled. I am fueled and also that I sat next to Tim Ferret and that was another like talking about working on marriages and every single person was about connection, not competition. And although this is the big piece in a lot of people listening who have watched the live stream and we're going to give you a chance, is the live stream still available, Reggie?  </p><p>If people want to purchase that, okay, we'll give you guys a special link for the live stream, it's lifetime access. And even though there were some different philosophies about building, everybody was respectful of the idea that there are a lot of different ways to build your network marketing business. But really when you take it all apart, when you say, what did Cheri Tree talk about? What did Ray talk about? What did Frazier talk about? What did Beth and Katie talk about? Natasha, Danelle? It came down to a desire to want to make an impact, to create change for families, for legacy, wealth and generations to change the story. That is what it came down to. And that's what I walked away with was this energy about we are here to help shift the family's futures, people's futures. And that was the energy around every single person. So, although back in the day when you were doing network marketing, there were no Instagram stories, right?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>No Facebook stories, no Instagram stories, none of that.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>And we also had Chris talk about building community within his team. I want to encourage as you watch the live stream, and I'm talking as though all of you have watched the live stream cause if you haven't, that's like the best training that you could get yourself all year is to think about what Reggie said about the energy, the vibration, and think what is my bigger mission? What is it that I'm here to do? And then that doesn't have you questioning the message that you're sending. Right? It has you knowing that I have an obligation, a responsibility to share what it is that I'm doing to help somebody to create a legacy. And that was the overall, it was like if we had to think of a theme of all the speakers, wouldn't you say that's how it kind of rounded out to be?</p><p>Reggie:</p><p>Absolutely. You know, it's dedicating and crafting a purpose driven life. I mean, there's no question from 0 to 10 million a year. Network marketing is the best way and creating a lifestyle and you know, developing not only other people but yourself in the process and just really rising up and overcoming and becoming triumphant both, you know, psychologically, you know, emotionally, financially, spiritually. This is the industry that has garnered so much of even my people like myself that even if we've moved into a different direction for a season is still the foundation of my purpose. And so, I'll always be grateful for what the industry has done for myself, my family, the people allow me to impact. And so I think our speakers recognize that it's a purpose driven life, that the things that they're doing, server purpose and there's value being added, you know, to not just the people that in their immediate circles, but those that are catching them indirectly. And people wear that with a level of responsibility, integrity, ethics, you know, and we're just grateful that we get to be a small piece of the industry helping serve or greater cause.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>I want to jump into something, because before people catch the live stream and shift over to you as someone that's right here. Most of what I hear back from my podcast listeners is I've walked away with something that I am committed to doing over the next 90 days to build my business. That will create that shift and that change that will help me to see that it's more purpose driven. And so, if after hearing all the speakers, your experience, all the work that you've done in the network marketing industry, and you've also obviously built some phenomenal businesses, I'm going to use Amanda for example. Amanda was there and she sat in the front row and she was there for every single speaker and we sat and talked in the lobby and she said, okay, I've got all of my notes and now it's time to get back to work. It's time to rebuild. So what would you coach if you were coaching Amanda, and I know she's going to be listening, if you are coaching Amanda after she's already built, but went a little bit backwards when some things personally went off track? Let's do a little coaching for Amanda after she's heard all the speakers, what would you tell her over the next 90 days to be doing with her business?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>That's a great question. And so if Amanda was with us right now and she gathered all her notes and you know, she's feeling inspired and she's in the moment right now, the first thing I would want her to do is to see if we can produce a result. Right now, let's go ahead and make a phone call. Let's set up a meeting, let's acquire a customer, let's create a result. Because whenever we take knowledge and turn it into action and from action to a result and that result then at the reevaluate it is a positive result. Then we'd be, we're beginning to create a behavior and a pattern. And when we're human beings, you know we are driven based on patterns and pattern recognition is something that I pay very close attention to. So, when I watched those who were, when I was early on the industry that were six figure earners, multiple, six, seven, multiple seven, I watched the behavior.  </p><p>And so, I will encourage Amanda for us to produce a result. Then I would say, listen, this is a business we need to create a plan that's related to the action, the analytics of watching your results, right? And then how are we going to evaluate those results? So we had to remind Amanda that we're still a student, even though we may be proficient, we've had success whenever we're going to graduate to a new level, to a new level of momentum, new level income, new level of influence over your team, we need to establish a plan so that we can keep ourselves accountable, right? And then create some metrics in that plan. So, we would lay out a 90 day plan for Amanda to say, okay, here's where we're at today. Here's where we want to go, and then let's establish some reasons. Or as we've always stated, some why's that really anchor you down.  </p><p>And one of the things I think has to happen is sometimes when we're helping someone establish a Why. We all have a Why that means something to us, our family, our finances, our community. But sometimes we, in order for us to get that boost of momentum, we need some immediate wise that are more short term to long term because sometime when you're long term, we're okay with the graduation process to get there. But when you're immediate, then there's a whole level of focus and a level of energy to follows that focus. So sometimes we just establish like what are some short-term goals monetarily, what are some short-term goals? You know, that would be recreational familywise that are immediately right now. So, if this, if I'm following that result, we cannot integrate per Y and establish our purpose within that moment of creating a result collectively together, right?  </p><p>We're supporting her in that process. We're making sure that she saw what she did correctly and kind of refining what she may have done wrong, but we had a result. And so now with the plan along with the execution, how are we going to keep her accountable to that plan? Then it's a cause to create action. And so, the immediate thing is obviously getting in front of people. So, Amanda, what is your week going to look like this week? We need to take action, we need to be consistent, and if she has the right reasons Why, that are inspiring her and anchoring her to her plan,  so Amanda is going to be on the treadmill of success, moving forward into the next 90 days.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love that. And I also, one of the big things that in listening to how Elrod with Miracle Morning is, I was challenged to Miracle Morning when I worked with a mentor. Oh gosh, four years ago and I haven't missed a morning. I've modified it for me. And it's that habits that are habits over time create the results. So, we all set, you know, we have the skill, I'm going to be here, here and here. But it's like you said, it's the 90 days land of creating those habits over and over that get the results. But unless you have, for me my big results is my big Why of how I can impact and constantly looking and seeing and being. One of the things that really, really sticks out to me when I have been talking to you about your kingdompreneur about the work that you do, is you speak about becoming, so if the goal like this is in, I love Atomic Habits with James Clear and he talks about the goal is not to read a book.  </p><p>The goal is to become a reader. The goal is not to run a marathon. The goal is to become a runner, to become a leader. So, when I talk with you, I think of that as what you embody because you're all about becoming, not just taking the action and doing social media, but becoming visible, becoming purpose driven. So, can you talk about the shift, because I hear this so often with people, well, I'm not good at sales, I'm not good at that. And so, there's such a difference in the vibration and energy. I don't, this is like going a little bit like all over, but I know you're following me, Reggie. The vibration and energy that comes because of how we speak that we don't become. So, the big difference I saw in the Natasha's onstage and the Danelle's and listening to Tim and Becky Ferret, is that they have become the leader. They have become purpose driven. They're not just out doing, like I talk about a five, four, three, two, one you're becoming, so how does somebody shift from, I'm not good at this, this kind of negative spiral to becoming.  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>Absolutely. So when you think about becoming first, you have to understand that there is no end is every evolving. It's infinite. It continues to go. So when I'm becoming, whether it's becoming my greatest version of myself becoming the greatest leader that can become the greatest recruiter, the greatest selves, you know, the greatest marketer I can become that we realize that we're going to take on and learn new traits. And so, to become or to become me, we have to be willing to unleash our mind. You know, there's a saying that I tell people when you're trying to figure me out and they're trying to figure out like what box to put me in in terms of personality traits or business motto or whatever I'm doing. And just trying to, you know, people are always shy, categorized, and I'll often say that I can be whatever I need to be when I need to be.  </p><p>And what that means is that I've unleashed my mind at a level where I can become what I need to become, what I need to do it. So, it started early on as a childhood when I saw gymnastics and I said, I want to do that. So, I did that, and we did it well, karate, hockey, football. And so, all those things I look at today and it was the become me. And so, in the industry when people are working to enter that becoming, what's also important is the unbecoming. That's when people miss, like, what do I need to unpack? What do I need to release in my limiting belief system? I eliminate philosophies about myself so that I can reframe it and replace it with new philosophies, which is what we know, how we know it and how we've obtained that information. And then when we apply it, those are the actions.  </p><p>And then how we feel about it is our attitude. So, when you're becoming, you first have to start with the unbecoming. You have to embrace and accept what it is that you've eliminated yourself. So just like when somebody says I'm not good, like that communication in itself is eliminating communication. I am now good. Versus how do I get better? That is the becoming, how do I become better at sales? How do I get better at marketing? How do I get better at recruiting, promoting the events, right? How do I get better at three-way calls or Zoom calls? So, when we're becoming, we stepped into a student like attitude and we begin to reframe our communication. We begin to reframe, you know, the way we see ourselves while we're on this journey of becoming our best version. So, the becoming for any individual and shifting, making that shift is first starting with the decision.  </p><p>So often we enter in everything with a preference, meaning I'll try it, I'll consider it, I'll give it a test. And I would always tell my leaders, sometimes I'm like, do you try to put on your pants in the morning or do you just do it right? Do you try to, you know, drive your car or did you do it? Like, why would we have certainty in some areas of our life and that certainty and others is because there's a level of competency and confidence even if it's on autopilot. So, the becoming means that I'm going to make the conscious effort to make a decision to equip myself with new inputs, which means change in my environment. And what does that really mean? Well, look, I'm not telling you to pick up, you know, and leave your home and your community. What do I am telling you that maybe you reduced from five TVs down to one and you go from less entertainment to more education and the education extend from the internet, from audio books, books, where you're now going to focus on an area and here become a profession that we're marketers where you want to energize yourself.  </p><p>Who should I be becoming a better leader, right? A better influencer, sales, understanding how to create distribution, right? That's the become, in order to become, I have to make a decision to ally myself with the information and then I create an environment, my home where when I look around my house or my apartment or my RV, whatever you're living in, it does not matter, but when you look around it, you see where you're going. You see a beautiful home that you're going to all in one day. You see a vacation that you're going to take your family on. You see a organization that you've always wanted to support because you have these things printed in there all around your house and you're subconsciously training your mind that this is who I am and this is who I am becoming because I'm putting in the work to do it, but it has to start with a decision and that decision going to be driven on your desire of your desires, not great enough, then you're not going to do what's necessary to become and then the becoming never becomes.  </p><p>It just becomes something that you thought about. So, you unbecome. Then you become, and last but certainly not least, you really have to make the decision to increase your needs, which is directly related to your standards. So, if you elevate your standards, which you expect of yourself, would you expect of your life? Would you expect of others? Would you expect that relationships, the love that you have for yourself, if you elevate your standards, then you directly have to elevate your needs to support your new standards? And that is what I believe is part of the process of becoming.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love it. And so, one of the main things that I hear in all of this is we have to like that decision that Reggie talks about so many times, like when I started teaching way back, I didn't try. I didn't, I didn't say, well maybe I'll see if this works out. This year I became a teacher. I started to create the environment for the students to have success. And so many network marketers are just kind of dabbling. They haven't made that decision and the difference. And now that like all of this is coming together because one of the things that I'll tell you, a Danelle Delgado did a great post about how to be at an event, show up early, stay late, ask questions, talk not about yourself that asks so many questions. I would walk around and say to somebody, what's the biggest shift that you felt when you said this is my industry? This is how I will change my family's legacy.  </p><p>This is how I will impact thousands and that decision. I talked to Jamie, this was such a cool conversation, and Jamie was a multiple seven figure earner who was there attending, and she was, somebody said, how did you hit the top rank of your company in 42 days? And she said it just wasn't an option not to do it. We made a decision and I knew that I had 42 days and I was getting myself in front of as many people as possible via Zoom because she's in Canada. She said that she got all of her family onboard for those 42 days and she broke records in the industry because of a decision that she made to be all in. So, I want to encourage like, let's do this, we're going to give you guys some homework and then Reggie add to it. I had to unbecome a lot of things when I started my run and network marketing, I had to unbecome a nighttime TV watcher.  </p><p>I had to let go of circles or friends that talked about gossip, people that didn't support me, people that weren't spiritually aligned with me. And I had to become this new version, this new vision of myself. But in order to do that, I had to know what that looks like. So why did it encourage you to take out a piece of paper and describe what you want to be? Who do you want to become the leader that you see yourself to be? Because so many times we just kind of sit around and go through the motions. So how do you want to serve? Who do you want to impact? What kind of conversations do you want to have? Clean up your office space for goodness sakes, you've got a declutter, you've got to be efficient, have a beautiful space where you work and start to decide that this business is it about creating and becoming an impacting. So, what would you say to someone? I know that Reggie, you are with your spiritual gift. A lot of that is self-reflection and journaling and praying and your devotions and the time that you spend. If you were to give a journaling assignment in terms of becoming and making a decision to make this happen, Amanda left that Top Summit. She heard all these incredible speakers. She's inspired, she's motivated. What is your journal assignment for her?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>My journal assignment for Amanda would be you had to take inventory with your associations. Currently, I so often feel that when people leave this type of environment and return to a, I don't want to use, we'll use subpar as a lack of a better term, but reinsurance, you know the associations or relationship because you a member, words have power. And so, if we're around people that are speaking over us that are not encouraging, that are not uplifting, that are not elevating us, then those words are actually taking root in some shape and form or fashion in our life. So, I would say, Amanda, we need to take inventory to figure out who needs to be in what I call the S O S the season of separation, where I need to separate for a season. And we don't know how long a season may be. So, don't put a timeframe on it.  </p><p>And if they're truly your friends are, they truly love you, they will be there for you when you return. But I remember the moment that I began to separate just because of where my focus was, my attention, my intent, right? And it caused a natural separation. But so often people want to satisfy both the people that are anchoring them down in Iran direction and the people that are helping them have a common future. So, the people you have a common pass with, you had to be okay with that season of separation. You had to be okay with being selfish for a season. There is a difference between being self-centered versus selfish. A self-centered person means that their thoughts and actions and behaviors are all centered around self. A selfish person says that I had to take care of myself in his moment, but that doesn't mean that all my thoughts has centered around me and so therefore I had to be selfish enough, love myself enough to serve my family, my community.  </p><p>You know my team. You know the company that I'm building, the legacy that I'm building. You have to be selfish enough until you break through the wall and you exponentially grow. Then you have the right to begin to consider other options, but the person you became in the process is now strong enough to endure any unnecessary words on. What will happen is that when you're spiritually led, you're not going to want to be around those words anymore. Or people will feel your presence in a way where they become conscious of how they communicate to you because you leveled up, you've ascended right before their very eyes and now you become the miraculous way before them. And so most people will follow and others you will repel them. But you have to live your purpose. And that's why if you're not clear on your vision then you will have uncertainty. And when you have uncertainty then you will allow these people who add no value to your life to sit around your life and weigh you down because confused people do what? Nothing.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Awesome. We are going to wrap this up right now and we talked about Top Summit. We kind of switched over to clearing out the mental clutter, making a 90-day plan with Reggie. So much good stuff. I know that you all would probably like to know how you can get more of Reggie, hear more of his leadership. So, Reggie, where do people find you in the social media world?  </p><p>So that's a great question. Right now where you could go is to my public page, which is Reggie Flowers on Facebook or @ourflowers23 and there you'll notice that there's a group tied to that page, click on that and ask to be added because they'll have access to what's going to be my latest creation, which I'm really excited about, which is the self-mastery and business accelerator course that I'm launching shortly. And there'll be able to get on the waiting list for that. Well, we're going to take people through the five laws of transformation, success and fulfillment. And when we take people through challenges, my journey, but their journey to get to that place of fulfillment because I truly believe that we get in this industry to make money. And then once we get through the growth and the understanding to a place where we actually can create it and do it on demand, where does the actual strategy and skill sets have been established? But we all have learned that the money will sustain our fulfillment. And so, the significance in our lives comes from our ability to elevate others. And so, I want to continue to help people get to that place where they're now in a position to sow into others and elevate others in there. Now money's just a consequence and you'll never be limited with it at all. So, head over to Facebook, Reggie Flowers or @ourflowers23, connect there, message me, and then we'll make sure we point you in the right direction.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love it, I love it. And that just like gave me chills when you said, you know that we start for money and then like the money does not sustain that mission. You are so right. And it has to be about something so much more. And I love that you're going to be teaching that with the five laws of transformation. I can't wait to hear more about that. And in terms of Top Summit, do you have dates for next year?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>Yes. So we are going to be March and please don't hold me to this cause I don't have it in front of me, but March, 2021 the 27th I believe to the 31st our dates and so we'll make sure that when you send us out to your subscriber list that that data data's correct. March 27th or the 31st is what I believe I heard last. We bounced between two dates and we were just locking it in later on today, so yes, but March, knowing that we're going to be back in Naples, Florida at the Naples hotel and golf resort, Naples beach hotel and golf resort. We will be back here next year.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love it. And they had the best mango fish tacos right by the pool. Did you have those?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>I did not.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh my gosh. Next year we're having lunch together. I think we should plan a lunch for the people that are listening to the podcast with Reggie and Beth. What do you think?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>I would absolutely love it.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love it. All right Reggie, thanks for being on you guys. We're going to give you below all of the details. We'll give you the link so that you can purchase the live stream. I purchased it myself even though I was at the event and speaking at the event because I want to go over and over and over what the speakers said and be able to just really put that into my daily method of operation into my spiritual growth. So much good stuff. So, Reggie, thanks for being on and I know it will you promise to come back as a guest and talk about the five laws of transformation.  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>I would be honored to be on Beth, you have been so incredible. I'm so glad we met in person; I know we've talked several times via Zoom. And just your energy, and you all want you all to know, make sure you really support her podcast because this is truly not only an exceptional entrepreneur, but this is truly a sincerely a woman, a real faith. And I'm going to let you in on just a little story real quick before we go. But the moment that Beth and Katie were getting ready to go on stage, she walked up to the steps and immediately pivots and turns around and says, will you pray for us? And for her to have that level of comfort and that, that spiritual intuition tells her that this is a praying man. This is someone that I can count on to immediately do that.  </p><p>That is something that has been honed, conditioned, and then exercise. So, this is who you are listening to and there's someone that's been very near and dear to my heart and she will always say, she would say, you want to be under the spout. The blessings are coming out. And so, if you're listening to her voice, you are under a spout that has been blessed and those blessings are now shielding over you. So, listen, listen, listen, tune in. Tune in because she's only going to be led to bring on people that are going to pour into you appropriately.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh, my goodness. Thank you Reggie for that. That was just beautiful. And honestly at that moment I just, I turned and said, I looked at Katie, the energy around us was let's just stop. Let's just stop and be grateful and take this moment and ask for the perfect words as we go up on that stage. Because I know that my only mission was that one person could be impacted by what we said that one person's life could completely change and shift because of hearing Katie's story or hearing my story or hearing what we had to say. We had a lot of humor in it. I'm going to actually have Katie on next week and we're going to do a podcast version of the unicorn. But thank you Reggie. That was really kind and I, and I truly believe when I started this podcast that I was called to speak about this journey and to do it in a different way, to do it in a way that isn't all about hustle and grind, but it's all about how can you live a life that makes an impact?  </p><p>How can you have time for years, family and that drop all of the glass balls while building and, and to have the right purpose driven mission because so many people are out there saying hustle, grind, go, go, go, go. And at the end of the day, I love what you said, and we'll end with this. That money will not sustain you. It will not fulfill you. It is about so much more. So, my goal is to help someone save their marriage. My goal is to help someone be a better parent. My goal is to help someone to pay off their debt so they're not tossing and turning at night and bringing people like you, Reggie, the time, the expertise, people pay you thousands and thousands of dollars for one on one coaching for a 45 minute session with you. And we just got it for free y'all. So, thanks for tuning in today. Last words, Reggie, I know I'm going to catch you totally off guard. Share a quote that drives you every single day. It can be a verse, a quote, what is, what is it that gets you up?  </p><p>Reggie:</p><p>Actually, a prayer that I say every day and it's been an intentional prayer for business. And I, and I say it very simply in this, you know, ‘I asked that favor goes before me every day and prospers my way. That people go out of their way to bless me and don't even know why.’ Those of you who are listening, you want that favor. You want people to bend to their air, to you, but they go out of their way to bless you. They go out of their way to support you. You will become that person through that prayer and through that process where people just align themselves with you and it just feels so unfair, but you realize it's not you has because you're aligned spiritually and that God is overlooking and helping you and serving you because of the work that you're doing here in his kingdom.  </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh my gosh, I love that. We will also put Reggie's words that prayer in the show notes so that you can grab that and, and you've got to ask you guys, I want you to wake up tomorrow morning and ask for favor. Ask or a blessing in your business because it just isn't going to find its way to you. You've got to open that up, ask and you will receive. So, we will catch you guys all next week. This is going to be one of the best, most downloaded episodes. I just know because of the power behind Reggie's words. So I'll catch you guys all next week when we have Katie Harbison and we will be talking about how to recruit the perfect unicorn  </p><p>And that's a wrap with Reggie. I want to leave you with this. I want to ask you to send me a question over on Instagram. Go over in my DMS. Ask me a question because in the next episode we are going to start with ask me anything about building your network marketing business or maybe you just want to know some cool thing and I will get the answer for you because someone once told me I'm the master connector of all people. If I can't find someone, if I can't do it myself, I will find someone who can. So, send me an appropriate question. It can be a little inappropriate, but send me a question over in the Instagram DM and I'm going to start answering a few of those questions right here because those of you that know me know this, I do not cover things up.  </p><p>I let you know exactly what's going on and I'm the one that tells you the truth, so send me a message, ask me anything I'm hoping to launch next week if I get some questions. Thanks so much for being with me today. I've got a free gift for you. It's brand new, hot off the presses and you can find it at BethHoldenGraves.com/10ways. This gift is my little guide that's going to show you how to get people into your inbox asking you what the heck do you do? Wouldn't that be awesome to get two or three people a day asking you to share with them what you do? Grab that guide. I know that if you start to put these things into place that I talk about in my guide that you will make it happen. And as always, join us over in thecampelevategroup.com. This week we are talking about visibility on social media. If you're catching this in real time, if not, we have so much great stuff going on. Catch you all next week. Talk soon.  </p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So, leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I will enter you to win the 'You're Not the Boss of Me' swag. So, make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p> </p><ul><li>No Boss Talk:<a href="https://nobosstalk.com" target="_blank">https://nobosstalk.com</a></li><li>Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074" target="_blank">here</a></li><li>Beth’s Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth’s website:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profitherway">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></li><li>Today's Link: <a href="https://bethholdengraves.com/10">https://bethholdengraves.com/10</a></li><li>Top Summit: <a href="https://www.thetopsummit.com/">https://www.thetopsummit.com</a><br /> </li></ul><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• We are going to be working on creating a challenge around your products so that it doesn't feel like you're just spam Ola, Pamela in your inbox that is coming up in the next few weeks. (04:09)</p><p>• So knowing what your customer's pain and frustration is, and then also getting to know your customer a bit. First of all, I set my customer, my newest people who are ordering to see first on social media because I want to have that personal connection on Facebook or on Instagram. And I literally have it in my focus blocks that I am going and visiting their social media. (10:38)</p><p>• On the very next day I'm going to send a personal video that says what's in the box. And I literally have a video that I've made that shows somebody opening their box with their product. (13:10)</p><p>• I want her experience to be like mine was when I bought my Cadillac. Knowing that I've got someone on my side, someone that's always looking out for me, someone that's reaching out to me at least once a month about my experience with my vehicle. (15:16)</p><p>• I want you to make sure that you stay in communication and that your client or customer has the exact way that they know how to pause, how to delete or how to change their order because nothing is more annoying and nothing gets a customer running for the Hills. (16:51)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>February 03, 2020</p><p><strong>EPISODE TRANSCRIPT...</strong></p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves, and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p> </p><p>Welcome back bosses, this is episode number 23 and today I am going to talk to you about something that might seem a little bit boring but so important as you build your business. So, before we get started, I want to share with you this week's review. The reviews allow me to just like look at it and say, Oh, my gosh, you hear me! And I always send out a free boss hat to anyone that has their review read on the podcast. So, if your name is weenie 369 and you left the exceptional review, please go on over to Instagram DM or Facebook messenger and let me know that this is you. So, weenie369 says, “Thank you for this podcast going into a new year and decade. For the last few years I've been listening to so many voices that the overwhelm and insanity has kept me stuck in a big mud hole and not moving forward. <br /><br />I'd be honored, excited to be a part of Profit HER Way going into 2020 and looking forward to aligning my personal and professional life to a new level. Thanks again Beth”. So if you are like what the heck is Profit HER Way with that review, that is my signature masterclass that literally takes you from beginning to end on building your business, getting rid of the overwhelm and getting clear and having clarity and having your own authentic business plan that allows you to show up as you when big, make more money and have time for your family. If you want to take a look at that program, go to bethholdengraves.com/profit or just send me a DM and say, hey I want the details, because we are going to be opening a new section of that in February. So, get on the list. <br /><br />Let's get this episode started and talk about today's topic, which is how to use the nurture sequence for your customers to stay happy, to stay referring to you and perhaps even think about, what is this business all about? All right, so here is the missing piece. We spent so much time on how we're marketing on social media, building challenges that bring people in and then having that conversation about, Hey, is this product for you? So, I'm going to give you an example because this is not my area. So, I'm going to use essential oils. So perhaps you've built out a challenge too. Get eyes on your product and you invite many of your friends and their friends into a challenge about using essential oils. How to get rid of the toxins in your household with this challenge. See, I love to get eyes on what we do with visibility. <br /><br />That's a whole other podcast we're going to have next week. But in this challenge, perhaps you give five ways to clean it up and you're using the different essential oils to help with how you're going to clean it up in the bathroom. Maybe how you're going to clean it up in the kitchen, how you're going to get rid of those toxins. And at the end of the challenge, you've got a bunch of people that are saying, yes, I want information. I want to clean up my house. You've given me all of that information and the evidence and the testimonials that makes me want to put up my hand and say yes. Now if you're thinking I want to know more about that challenge, don't worry. We are going to be working on creating a challenge around your products so that it doesn't feel like you're just Spamola Pamela in your inbox. That is coming up in the next few weeks. <br /><br />In fact, keep your eyes on Camp Elevate the Facebook group, because we're going to be doing a lot of that in there. In the show notes. You can see how to get in. So my brain always says, how did we creatively become more visible so that that audience, that exact person that is looking for our solution puts up their hand and you don't feel like you're doing a mindless, endless Facebook scroll with people. You know, like that essential oil challenge is not going to make sense for my husband because he doesn't care. He doesn't even know about the toxins in the house and he's so far off he would need to, you know, learn how to be better on the tennis court with the use of X, Y, and Z. He might pay attention. I'm not sure. You know, men are always evolving, we hope. Right? <br /><br />All right. So, what happens after you have that conversation? Meaning you've created this challenge, you've created this idea that we can clean up your homes with these essential oils and I'm in your challenge and I'm like, okay, I am no longer going to use that comet in my shower of gross. I wouldn't do that. Haven't done that for years. I'm no longer going to use that comet; my shower and I want to order your things. So, this is where I find when I do audits and I look for what my friend Stacey calls the hidden profits. She's a new friend from Susan's mastermind and she uses that term in her coaching program. So, I borrowed that from Stacy and when I look at what people are doing in their network marketing business and I'm looking at where are you losing money and where are you not seeing growth? <br /><br />When I ask, once you have a customer placed an order, tell me what happens next and friends, I want you to think about this. I want you to be really honest because when I was growing quickly, I was really, and I still am growing quickly. I say it like I'm not doing it now, but when I had the first starts to my business when a lot of people were wanting to know, what are you doing? What are you doing? Because I was still in my very warm market and I was sharing some very powerful stories. So when people started to put up their hand, put up their hand, put up their hand, I was thinking, okay, you've ordered next, next, next, next, and I would do some follow up, but I didn't have a system in place that really, really allowed me to give that customer the perfect experience. <br /><br />Meaning they are just like raving to me about their friends. They are excited about their product arriving. They cannot wait to share their testimonial and they are ready to learn more about what's next in their customer experience. I had two experiences with purchasing a car in this really, really made it this stick out to me. I have earned a car in our car bonus program since 2014 and the very first person that helped me to get the car that fit the category that our company uses. His name is David Dill, and David made that experience exceptional. He went above and beyond. He showed up at my house with the paperwork. He followed up. He, I always checked in with me each and every week in the beginning and gave me new techniques and tips and said, I saw this article, and have you looked at this feature in your Cadillac? <br /><br />Then when it was time for service, he helped me with that and that experience, he made it easy. He allowed me to see the new options and features of the new automobiles coming up, and I always have gone back to David. Well, this time around I decided I wanted a different model. I've driven the same car for a long time, and I went to a new dealership. I'm not even going to say the name of the dealership, and I had an awful experience because first of all, I needed to know, tell me exactly what's going to happen. I always want to know what's next. And I ended up sitting there for three and a half hours and there was always something, Oh, and this is the price that, by the way, by the way, by the way. So, I felt really, let's be honest, you told me that it was going to be this and now you're adding this and adding this and adding this. <br /><br /><br />And I felt, I just did not even feel they were hearing me, and I went ahead and leased the car. I never heard from my salesperson again. Never have not heard from him to this day, he's a young guy. I really purchased the car because I knew because I wanted it. And I honestly didn't have the guts to walk away when the experience was not going as I had planned. And that's me just, that's me being a people pleaser and I'm a recovering people pleaser. So, I'm going to send him some feedback today because, you know, I feel like I'm the probably the age of his mom and I feel that this is going to really shift for him because there was no customer experience and I'm going to send that to him today. I actually have his phone number; I'm going to text him and just ask him if he's open for some feedback on my sales experience with him. <br /><br />So, the difference between David and my young car person and that entire dealership was okay, my experience. So as you think about your customers, I'm going to walk you through what my customer experiences and I want you to think, how are you making sure that you're keeping track of where your customers are, their story, why they ordered your product. So I have a, I use a notebook, I use a three ring binder, and anytime I'm having a conversation with someone, and I know some people will use Asana and Trello, they'll use their phones and I find that I do keep track of my follow-up on Asana, but it needs to be right in front of me. And I have a three-ring binder and I just have all the names of people. So, I'm going to use an example and I'm going to use my friend Tiffany. And Tiffany, I knew wanted to have a customer experience because, and she told me what her pain and frustration was. <br /><br />What was she was she was trying to solve? It's a nutritional supplement. And I kept track of that. So, knowing what your customer's pain and frustration is and then also getting to know your customer a bit. I always set, so first of all, I set my customer, my newest people who are ordering to see first on social media because I want to have that personal connection on Facebook or on Instagram. And I literally have it in my focus blocks that I am going and visiting their social media. I become, you know, I'm commenting, I'm asking questions because I want them to have a great experience with me and I also want to like to know them at a different level. Then you just ordered by product. Now imagine if my, my new car guy, what if you know, he follows me on Instagram? What if he had reached out and said, wow, that is so cool that your son does this. <br /><br />Or congratulations on that speaking engagement. I would have a personal relationship and granted he probably sold 50 cars, but that would go a long way because we just got a second vehicle and we went right back to David Dell. Not even really, I mean I don't know if that was my husband's first choice, but because we knew that he would make this experience so much better and easier. So, let's talk about that customer experience from beginning to end. So, the day that I have a customer that orders, I work through 14 straight days of interaction and I literally use a sticky note to do this. I have my whiteboard and I have my calendar, so I just had a customer order, her name was Caroline. So, day one that Caroline orders, I have a conversation like what has you curious, what are your goals with your health and wellness and let's talk about what you need to have in your order. <br /><br />Now the next day while she's waiting for her order, I am going to touch base with her again and I am going to send her one of my favorite videos that we have that what makes our product different. And so, she's continuing to get information because a lot of times with buyer's remorse or like, Ooh, I'm not sure should I have done it. And I think that the success of a product, yes your product can have all these benefits but somebody has to make a decision that they are ready to go, that they are going to love the experience and love what is happening with their order. So then the next day, so I send that video, I ask a few questions and it's on my calendar like reach out to Caroline, she just placed your order on day three I'm going to track her order and I'm also going to send her like a quick thing that she can check out that's over in our customer group so that she again is being educated and I am going to let her know like here's when you can expect your order. <br /><br />I'm going to be staying with you. So, when you open your box, you know exactly what's inside and then and the next day, cause it's usually like three to four days before the order is placed. On the very next day I'm going to send a personal video that says what's in the box. And I literally have a video that I've made that shows somebody opening their box with their product. Now, most people order the same three products with us, but I might make a really great short video that is like, Hey Caroline, okay, these are the products that you ordered and when your backs arrives, this is what's going to happen and here's what's next. So, I'm going to send her the what's in the box video. I'm going to get her engaging in the customer group and then when I know that her product is going to arrive on her doorstep, I don't care if you have 50 orders, a hundred orders or two orders, you know a hundred might be overwhelming and then you could get some help with this. <br /><br />But I always want to have a personal connection. I know this is a texting world, but if she's open, I want to say Carolina, are you available for 10 minutes so that we can walk through getting started with your product tomorrow? Because I want Caroline to get started as soon as her product arrives on her doorstep. So, I'm working through those first days as her product is on the way. I've already put a thank you note in the mail with a small little plus line gift the day that she orders. And that's pretty normal. I would think most people put a thank you card in the mail to their customers. If you don't, you need to do that monthly for every single customer. Okay. And I also want you to think about what are the ways that you're communicating with that friend, that new client, that new customer right after that order is placed? <br /><br />Or are you getting the order placed and just kind of throwing them into a random customer group and thinking they'll find the information. I want you to journal about what is your goal, what is the experience that you want your client, your customer to walk away? Will you go above and beyond? So, I also go beyond by sending then information about what Caroline's health and wellness goals. For health and wellness goals are too, get more lean. I am going to find articles and resources and I have even created some of my own with recipes that might be interesting to her and I just am having a conversation because I want her experience to be like mine was when I bought my Cadillac. Knowing that I've got someone on my side, someone that's always looking out for me, someone that's reaching out to me at least once a month about my experience with my vehicle. <br /><br />So, the other piece of customer and client relationship is you're through that. Those first few days they've started on their experience, you're checking in, you're checking in, you're checking in without being annoying and, and I always say like, I want to support you the best way that I can, but I certainly don't want to annoy you and be in your inbox all the time. So, I want to say I will, you know, I periodically will check in with some updates on information. I'll ask you for feedback and then when it's time for that person to reorder, I am going to make sure that before that reorder date, no matter what that it is on my calendar, we have auto ship that goes fifth, 15th and 25th. And you guys, people feel icky about auto ship. That is one of the biggest icky pieces of the network marketing industry is, Oh, I have to be on that auto ship. <br /><br />And, one of the big pieces of choosing my company was choosing a company that allowed you to delete or pause the auto ship at any time and you didn't have to stay on the product. You could do it one time, delete or pause. That was huge for me because I don't ever like to be tricked. So I want you to make sure that you stay in communication and that your client or customer has the exact way that they know how to pause, how to delete or how to change their order because nothing is more annoying and nothing gets a customer running for the hills. Then if product ships that they're not ready for, that they don't expect and suddenly that bill comes through, it is your responsibility as the CEO of your business, not your companies to reach out. I have this with Kipp, she always reaches out, she's with Rodan and Fields and she always reaches out and says, okay, your lash boost, your order is coming up. <br /><br />Do you need to adjust? Do you need this, this time? It never fails that I hear from Kipp and she lets me know like what is coming up with my order and all of those things. So, I want to encourage you today to think about in journal about what you want your personal customer experience to look like. That you are the CEO of your business. That you are the one that gets to decide from the time that that person raises their hand until the time that that product arrives in the entire experience with you. It's up to you. Will you be a Neiman Marcus, or will you be Amazon, where like many times you wouldn't even hear from that vendor because ordering on Amazon, sometimes you do. But I want you to think about how does that look? What do you want that experience to feel like? <br /><br />Do you want to be the best resource that that customer has and do you want that person when they think, wow, Oh my gosh, I love working with Beth, she's fun, she's engaged with my, she knows what's going on with my family. She remembers my birthday and that experience is so great that I want to refer all of my friends. And I also think about this, when you, when your best resource, your best people that are looking to build a business with you are the ones that are having the best experience with your products. And so, if I were to say, you know what Caroline, I know that you have a passion for health and wellness, or you have a passion for your story with this product. The conversation is natural, but if you've not shown up and you've not provided an excellent client experience and you've kind of just said, Oh they ordered, I don't want to check in with them. <br /><br />I don't want to lose my volume. And they get an order they don't want. They don't know how to use the product. They haven't had an exceptional experience with you. How will that look when you, I want to have sustainable long-term income from reorders. When you're asking for referrals and you as a businessperson, I want you to have pride in your personal client experience. So with this, I have got a free offer for you today that is going to give you some ways that you can let your customers know what you are doing by using some social media strategies. So if you want to have people showing up in your inbox saying, what is it that you do so you can begin your customer experience, I've created this little guide for you that will walk you right through it. So, head on over to bethholdengraves,com/10 and pick that up today. <br /><br />So, friends, thank you so much for being with me. As always, send me a screenshot. Let me know that you hear me. Let me know your questions and head on over to Camp Elevate where we do some very specific, get into the trenches, work on things like creating the perfect customer experience. I will be at Top Summit when you are listening to this if it is live, so go on over to catch the live stream@thetopsummit.com so many awesome speakers. I am on stage on Monday and I can't wait to meet so many of you live at this event. You have a great week and let me know what you took away from creating your customer experience, and remember you are the CEO you get to build your business your way and leave those that you touch in the social media world in real life, feeling just a little bit better than when they first met you. <br /><br />Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So, leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I will enter you to win the 'You're Not the Boss of Me' swag. So, make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p> </p><ul><li>No Boss Talk:<a href="https://nobosstalk.com" target="_blank">https://nobosstalk.com</a></li><li>Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074" target="_blank">here</a></li><li>Beth’s Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth’s website:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profitherway">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></li><li>Today's Link: <a href="https://bethholdengraves.com/10">https://bethholdengraves.com/10</a></li><li>Top Summit: <a href="https://www.thetopsummit.com/">https://www.thetopsummit.com</a><br /> </li></ul><p><strong>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</strong></p><p>• We are going to be working on creating a challenge around your products so that it doesn't feel like you're just spam Ola, Pamela in your inbox that is coming up in the next few weeks. (04:09)</p><p>• So knowing what your customer's pain and frustration is, and then also getting to know your customer a bit. First of all, I set my customer, my newest people who are ordering to see first on social media because I want to have that personal connection on Facebook or on Instagram. And I literally have it in my focus blocks that I am going and visiting their social media. (10:38)</p><p>• On the very next day I'm going to send a personal video that says what's in the box. And I literally have a video that I've made that shows somebody opening their box with their product. (13:10)</p><p>• I want her experience to be like mine was when I bought my Cadillac. Knowing that I've got someone on my side, someone that's always looking out for me, someone that's reaching out to me at least once a month about my experience with my vehicle. (15:16)</p><p>• I want you to make sure that you stay in communication and that your client or customer has the exact way that they know how to pause, how to delete or how to change their order because nothing is more annoying and nothing gets a customer running for the Hills. (16:51)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>February 03, 2020</p><p><strong>EPISODE TRANSCRIPT...</strong></p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves, and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p> </p><p>Welcome back bosses, this is episode number 23 and today I am going to talk to you about something that might seem a little bit boring but so important as you build your business. So, before we get started, I want to share with you this week's review. The reviews allow me to just like look at it and say, Oh, my gosh, you hear me! And I always send out a free boss hat to anyone that has their review read on the podcast. So, if your name is weenie 369 and you left the exceptional review, please go on over to Instagram DM or Facebook messenger and let me know that this is you. So, weenie369 says, “Thank you for this podcast going into a new year and decade. For the last few years I've been listening to so many voices that the overwhelm and insanity has kept me stuck in a big mud hole and not moving forward. <br /><br />I'd be honored, excited to be a part of Profit HER Way going into 2020 and looking forward to aligning my personal and professional life to a new level. Thanks again Beth”. So if you are like what the heck is Profit HER Way with that review, that is my signature masterclass that literally takes you from beginning to end on building your business, getting rid of the overwhelm and getting clear and having clarity and having your own authentic business plan that allows you to show up as you when big, make more money and have time for your family. If you want to take a look at that program, go to bethholdengraves.com/profit or just send me a DM and say, hey I want the details, because we are going to be opening a new section of that in February. So, get on the list. <br /><br />Let's get this episode started and talk about today's topic, which is how to use the nurture sequence for your customers to stay happy, to stay referring to you and perhaps even think about, what is this business all about? All right, so here is the missing piece. We spent so much time on how we're marketing on social media, building challenges that bring people in and then having that conversation about, Hey, is this product for you? So, I'm going to give you an example because this is not my area. So, I'm going to use essential oils. So perhaps you've built out a challenge too. Get eyes on your product and you invite many of your friends and their friends into a challenge about using essential oils. How to get rid of the toxins in your household with this challenge. See, I love to get eyes on what we do with visibility. <br /><br />That's a whole other podcast we're going to have next week. But in this challenge, perhaps you give five ways to clean it up and you're using the different essential oils to help with how you're going to clean it up in the bathroom. Maybe how you're going to clean it up in the kitchen, how you're going to get rid of those toxins. And at the end of the challenge, you've got a bunch of people that are saying, yes, I want information. I want to clean up my house. You've given me all of that information and the evidence and the testimonials that makes me want to put up my hand and say yes. Now if you're thinking I want to know more about that challenge, don't worry. We are going to be working on creating a challenge around your products so that it doesn't feel like you're just Spamola Pamela in your inbox. That is coming up in the next few weeks. <br /><br />In fact, keep your eyes on Camp Elevate the Facebook group, because we're going to be doing a lot of that in there. In the show notes. You can see how to get in. So my brain always says, how did we creatively become more visible so that that audience, that exact person that is looking for our solution puts up their hand and you don't feel like you're doing a mindless, endless Facebook scroll with people. You know, like that essential oil challenge is not going to make sense for my husband because he doesn't care. He doesn't even know about the toxins in the house and he's so far off he would need to, you know, learn how to be better on the tennis court with the use of X, Y, and Z. He might pay attention. I'm not sure. You know, men are always evolving, we hope. Right? <br /><br />All right. So, what happens after you have that conversation? Meaning you've created this challenge, you've created this idea that we can clean up your homes with these essential oils and I'm in your challenge and I'm like, okay, I am no longer going to use that comet in my shower of gross. I wouldn't do that. Haven't done that for years. I'm no longer going to use that comet; my shower and I want to order your things. So, this is where I find when I do audits and I look for what my friend Stacey calls the hidden profits. She's a new friend from Susan's mastermind and she uses that term in her coaching program. So, I borrowed that from Stacy and when I look at what people are doing in their network marketing business and I'm looking at where are you losing money and where are you not seeing growth? <br /><br />When I ask, once you have a customer placed an order, tell me what happens next and friends, I want you to think about this. I want you to be really honest because when I was growing quickly, I was really, and I still am growing quickly. I say it like I'm not doing it now, but when I had the first starts to my business when a lot of people were wanting to know, what are you doing? What are you doing? Because I was still in my very warm market and I was sharing some very powerful stories. So when people started to put up their hand, put up their hand, put up their hand, I was thinking, okay, you've ordered next, next, next, next, and I would do some follow up, but I didn't have a system in place that really, really allowed me to give that customer the perfect experience. <br /><br />Meaning they are just like raving to me about their friends. They are excited about their product arriving. They cannot wait to share their testimonial and they are ready to learn more about what's next in their customer experience. I had two experiences with purchasing a car in this really, really made it this stick out to me. I have earned a car in our car bonus program since 2014 and the very first person that helped me to get the car that fit the category that our company uses. His name is David Dill, and David made that experience exceptional. He went above and beyond. He showed up at my house with the paperwork. He followed up. He, I always checked in with me each and every week in the beginning and gave me new techniques and tips and said, I saw this article, and have you looked at this feature in your Cadillac? <br /><br />Then when it was time for service, he helped me with that and that experience, he made it easy. He allowed me to see the new options and features of the new automobiles coming up, and I always have gone back to David. Well, this time around I decided I wanted a different model. I've driven the same car for a long time, and I went to a new dealership. I'm not even going to say the name of the dealership, and I had an awful experience because first of all, I needed to know, tell me exactly what's going to happen. I always want to know what's next. And I ended up sitting there for three and a half hours and there was always something, Oh, and this is the price that, by the way, by the way, by the way. So, I felt really, let's be honest, you told me that it was going to be this and now you're adding this and adding this and adding this. <br /><br /><br />And I felt, I just did not even feel they were hearing me, and I went ahead and leased the car. I never heard from my salesperson again. Never have not heard from him to this day, he's a young guy. I really purchased the car because I knew because I wanted it. And I honestly didn't have the guts to walk away when the experience was not going as I had planned. And that's me just, that's me being a people pleaser and I'm a recovering people pleaser. So, I'm going to send him some feedback today because, you know, I feel like I'm the probably the age of his mom and I feel that this is going to really shift for him because there was no customer experience and I'm going to send that to him today. I actually have his phone number; I'm going to text him and just ask him if he's open for some feedback on my sales experience with him. <br /><br />So, the difference between David and my young car person and that entire dealership was okay, my experience. So as you think about your customers, I'm going to walk you through what my customer experiences and I want you to think, how are you making sure that you're keeping track of where your customers are, their story, why they ordered your product. So I have a, I use a notebook, I use a three ring binder, and anytime I'm having a conversation with someone, and I know some people will use Asana and Trello, they'll use their phones and I find that I do keep track of my follow-up on Asana, but it needs to be right in front of me. And I have a three-ring binder and I just have all the names of people. So, I'm going to use an example and I'm going to use my friend Tiffany. And Tiffany, I knew wanted to have a customer experience because, and she told me what her pain and frustration was. <br /><br />What was she was she was trying to solve? It's a nutritional supplement. And I kept track of that. So, knowing what your customer's pain and frustration is and then also getting to know your customer a bit. I always set, so first of all, I set my customer, my newest people who are ordering to see first on social media because I want to have that personal connection on Facebook or on Instagram. And I literally have it in my focus blocks that I am going and visiting their social media. I become, you know, I'm commenting, I'm asking questions because I want them to have a great experience with me and I also want to like to know them at a different level. Then you just ordered by product. Now imagine if my, my new car guy, what if you know, he follows me on Instagram? What if he had reached out and said, wow, that is so cool that your son does this. <br /><br />Or congratulations on that speaking engagement. I would have a personal relationship and granted he probably sold 50 cars, but that would go a long way because we just got a second vehicle and we went right back to David Dell. Not even really, I mean I don't know if that was my husband's first choice, but because we knew that he would make this experience so much better and easier. So, let's talk about that customer experience from beginning to end. So, the day that I have a customer that orders, I work through 14 straight days of interaction and I literally use a sticky note to do this. I have my whiteboard and I have my calendar, so I just had a customer order, her name was Caroline. So, day one that Caroline orders, I have a conversation like what has you curious, what are your goals with your health and wellness and let's talk about what you need to have in your order. <br /><br />Now the next day while she's waiting for her order, I am going to touch base with her again and I am going to send her one of my favorite videos that we have that what makes our product different. And so, she's continuing to get information because a lot of times with buyer's remorse or like, Ooh, I'm not sure should I have done it. And I think that the success of a product, yes your product can have all these benefits but somebody has to make a decision that they are ready to go, that they are going to love the experience and love what is happening with their order. So then the next day, so I send that video, I ask a few questions and it's on my calendar like reach out to Caroline, she just placed your order on day three I'm going to track her order and I'm also going to send her like a quick thing that she can check out that's over in our customer group so that she again is being educated and I am going to let her know like here's when you can expect your order. <br /><br />I'm going to be staying with you. So, when you open your box, you know exactly what's inside and then and the next day, cause it's usually like three to four days before the order is placed. On the very next day I'm going to send a personal video that says what's in the box. And I literally have a video that I've made that shows somebody opening their box with their product. Now, most people order the same three products with us, but I might make a really great short video that is like, Hey Caroline, okay, these are the products that you ordered and when your backs arrives, this is what's going to happen and here's what's next. So, I'm going to send her the what's in the box video. I'm going to get her engaging in the customer group and then when I know that her product is going to arrive on her doorstep, I don't care if you have 50 orders, a hundred orders or two orders, you know a hundred might be overwhelming and then you could get some help with this. <br /><br />But I always want to have a personal connection. I know this is a texting world, but if she's open, I want to say Carolina, are you available for 10 minutes so that we can walk through getting started with your product tomorrow? Because I want Caroline to get started as soon as her product arrives on her doorstep. So, I'm working through those first days as her product is on the way. I've already put a thank you note in the mail with a small little plus line gift the day that she orders. And that's pretty normal. I would think most people put a thank you card in the mail to their customers. If you don't, you need to do that monthly for every single customer. Okay. And I also want you to think about what are the ways that you're communicating with that friend, that new client, that new customer right after that order is placed? <br /><br />Or are you getting the order placed and just kind of throwing them into a random customer group and thinking they'll find the information. I want you to journal about what is your goal, what is the experience that you want your client, your customer to walk away? Will you go above and beyond? So, I also go beyond by sending then information about what Caroline's health and wellness goals. For health and wellness goals are too, get more lean. I am going to find articles and resources and I have even created some of my own with recipes that might be interesting to her and I just am having a conversation because I want her experience to be like mine was when I bought my Cadillac. Knowing that I've got someone on my side, someone that's always looking out for me, someone that's reaching out to me at least once a month about my experience with my vehicle. <br /><br />So, the other piece of customer and client relationship is you're through that. Those first few days they've started on their experience, you're checking in, you're checking in, you're checking in without being annoying and, and I always say like, I want to support you the best way that I can, but I certainly don't want to annoy you and be in your inbox all the time. So, I want to say I will, you know, I periodically will check in with some updates on information. I'll ask you for feedback and then when it's time for that person to reorder, I am going to make sure that before that reorder date, no matter what that it is on my calendar, we have auto ship that goes fifth, 15th and 25th. And you guys, people feel icky about auto ship. That is one of the biggest icky pieces of the network marketing industry is, Oh, I have to be on that auto ship. <br /><br />And, one of the big pieces of choosing my company was choosing a company that allowed you to delete or pause the auto ship at any time and you didn't have to stay on the product. You could do it one time, delete or pause. That was huge for me because I don't ever like to be tricked. So I want you to make sure that you stay in communication and that your client or customer has the exact way that they know how to pause, how to delete or how to change their order because nothing is more annoying and nothing gets a customer running for the hills. Then if product ships that they're not ready for, that they don't expect and suddenly that bill comes through, it is your responsibility as the CEO of your business, not your companies to reach out. I have this with Kipp, she always reaches out, she's with Rodan and Fields and she always reaches out and says, okay, your lash boost, your order is coming up. <br /><br />Do you need to adjust? Do you need this, this time? It never fails that I hear from Kipp and she lets me know like what is coming up with my order and all of those things. So, I want to encourage you today to think about in journal about what you want your personal customer experience to look like. That you are the CEO of your business. That you are the one that gets to decide from the time that that person raises their hand until the time that that product arrives in the entire experience with you. It's up to you. Will you be a Neiman Marcus, or will you be Amazon, where like many times you wouldn't even hear from that vendor because ordering on Amazon, sometimes you do. But I want you to think about how does that look? What do you want that experience to feel like? <br /><br />Do you want to be the best resource that that customer has and do you want that person when they think, wow, Oh my gosh, I love working with Beth, she's fun, she's engaged with my, she knows what's going on with my family. She remembers my birthday and that experience is so great that I want to refer all of my friends. And I also think about this, when you, when your best resource, your best people that are looking to build a business with you are the ones that are having the best experience with your products. And so, if I were to say, you know what Caroline, I know that you have a passion for health and wellness, or you have a passion for your story with this product. The conversation is natural, but if you've not shown up and you've not provided an excellent client experience and you've kind of just said, Oh they ordered, I don't want to check in with them. <br /><br />I don't want to lose my volume. And they get an order they don't want. They don't know how to use the product. They haven't had an exceptional experience with you. How will that look when you, I want to have sustainable long-term income from reorders. When you're asking for referrals and you as a businessperson, I want you to have pride in your personal client experience. So with this, I have got a free offer for you today that is going to give you some ways that you can let your customers know what you are doing by using some social media strategies. So if you want to have people showing up in your inbox saying, what is it that you do so you can begin your customer experience, I've created this little guide for you that will walk you right through it. So, head on over to bethholdengraves,com/10 and pick that up today. <br /><br />So, friends, thank you so much for being with me. As always, send me a screenshot. Let me know that you hear me. Let me know your questions and head on over to Camp Elevate where we do some very specific, get into the trenches, work on things like creating the perfect customer experience. I will be at Top Summit when you are listening to this if it is live, so go on over to catch the live stream@thetopsummit.com so many awesome speakers. I am on stage on Monday and I can't wait to meet so many of you live at this event. You have a great week and let me know what you took away from creating your customer experience, and remember you are the CEO you get to build your business your way and leave those that you touch in the social media world in real life, feeling just a little bit better than when they first met you. <br /><br />Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So, leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I will enter you to win the 'You're Not the Boss of Me' swag. So, make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: https://nobosstalk.com</p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: https://thecampelevategroup.com</p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: https://Instagram.com/bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: https://www.bethholdengraves.com</p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</p><p><strong>Keynotes discussed:</strong></p><p>• I've done a lot of consulting, but to build out a mastermind and to work in that beta group, right now I'm realizing, oh my goodness, how much I love how much I love a community of women that are driven and we've got one man in the community and he's awesome. (04:28)</p><p>• If you don't have focus, we're not building the legacy wealth that's going to allow the freedom for the family. (8:26)</p><p>• I am choosing to change my thoughts, images, and behaviors to respond differently and produce better outcomes. (10:52)</p><p>• Now I want you to think about your last 10 sales, or your last 10 distributors who joined you, or the last 10 times someone on your team because of your help and your guidance made money. (13:36)</p><p>• We've got our left, we've got our right, we look, does this make me money? Does this bring me joy? Does this bring me love? Does this feel like love? Does this feel like connection? All right. And so now we know what needs to go into our focus bubbles. If we go back to how we have made our goals for the year, I always coach people to have a personal goal. So, we have health, spiritual, business, and family. (18:10)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>January 27, 2020</p><p><strong>EPISODE TRANSCRIPT...</strong></p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.<br /><br />This episode seriously has come from my heart. I'm literally feeling this energy, this love, this abundance around this podcast. I know that sounds corny, but I have received some of the most meaningful messages from all of you thanking me for my words. And I think it comes from me just being real and saying, you guys, listen, if you're buying a $37 course that says never prospect again, unlimited leads coming your way, and then you spend hours on a webinar and learning and creating and trying to recreate this thing, and you're still not making money, and then you hop over to another technique, and you hop to another technique, and you're going from place to place and you're literally pulling your hair out. We can create a plan for you and that is what this podcast is all about. It is about creating a Profit Your Way, making money your way, creating legacy wealth while not giving up the time with your family, the time with your friends. For me, the time on the tennis court.</p><p>But making money, especially in a sales business and network marketing in an online coaching space, it does require focus, it does require work, it does require time spent. But we are going to talk today and like I said, this podcast is coming from everything you're asking me to tell you from your DMS, and I'm so thankful for getting the messages. I'm so thankful for the reviews and the review that I'm about to read. You literally shifted my entire focus from one thing that I was teaching in my mastermind Profit Her Way, to shifting gears and building this foundation. Again, because we get caught up in let's create the challenge that we invite people to, and then we can connect with them and we can do X, Y, and Z. We do need strategies to build our business. <br /><br />We need ways to get traffic eyes on us. We do it by being authentic and we do it by having a plan and we put those plans into place, and we work the plan. But it doesn't mean that we have to be hustle, grind, never ever leaving our phone on airplane mode. And like I always say, be where your feet are. And do you want your kids, your husband, your next door to remember you as holding your phone, not holding your hand. So how can we create space for our business and for joy? We're going to talk about that today. And this technique I'm going to show you today is a modified Pomodoro. I didn't invent the Pomodoro. We're going to talk about what that is and how you can determine if the time you're spending is actually creating a business. Build a way to make you money. <br /><br />Or if it's just spending time, time away from like, Hey, get on the floor and build Legos with that grandchild. Get off the phone and do your income producing activities in a block. So, I want to read this review. If I never record another episode again, which I promise you I love recording episodes, I'm even thinking about going to twice a week with this podcast, one alone and one interview. Let me know what you think of that because I love, love, love, love, love this conversation. I look forward to it every single day. This is when I'm driving in my front seat, when I'm feeling so, so powerful and driven, is when I'm sitting here and having this conversation with all of you, because my mission is to tell you the real truth, to tell you that it's not always easy, and to help you to not make the same mistakes that I made on my build, and to be vulnerable on my journey. <br /><br />So far as I'm growing a new coaching business as well, like the coaching side, I've always done one on one coaching with people. I've done a lot of consulting, but to build out a mastermind and to work in that beta group, right now I'm realizing, Oh my goodness, how much I love, how much I love a community of women that are driven, and we've got one man in the community and he's awesome. Hey Ryan. All right, so this review, like I said, I don't even have a name. It's a bunch of consonants of the person that wrote it. D, J D X, D, D, D, J, D, H, D. X. I. F. F, N, F. D. if this is you, I need a message. I have a gift for you because this gift, my friend means everything to me, and this is what she says, and sanity delivery, and I want you to listen to these words; Listen and Regain Your Sanity. <br /><br />I just listened to the second episode. I do still shine my sink. Go listen to that episode If you want to know what shining your sink is. I am definitely type A and often think the answer to pretty much everything is work harder. I have been recently frustrated by speeches that encouraged me to miss my kid's track meets in the name of committing, and requests to watch, and or participate, and what seems like more webinars in a week than I have hours in a week, that delivers the sanity check. Thanks for reminding me that life is beautiful. I don't have to live anyone else's grind. I want to repeat that life is beautiful and I don't have to live anyone else's grind. Thanks for supporting people doing it their own real way and encouraging them to reclaim some honest joy, rather than promoting fake positive as the solution. Like, I don't know if I was tone deaf there but, that review, if you wanted to ask me what this is all about, and I recently did a big scary thing and hired a marketing company to work with me. <br /><br />I'm always honest, I'm going to talk about the marketing team, then go back to that podcast. But they asked me really like, who do you speak to? Who are the people that you are serving, and I am just sending that review because that is my mission is to teach you techniques and strategies, rituals, and routines to shift our mindsets so that we are not just hustling and grinding, attempting to get eyes on what we're doing, in hopes that someone will say yes. That we're authentic in our message, that we're authentic and our mission, but we're having brave and courageous conversations, because in order to build a business, especially in network marketing, you have got to make a decision right now to have those conversations. Then I want to start with sharing something with you, and we're going to talk about some techniques that can allow you the sanity in your business to use this time blocking way. <br /><br />And the first thing that I want to share with you is an affirmation. And this comes from…grabbing the book right now. I was going to pause it and edit, but I'm like, you know what? We're just like on our own, two friends sitting here. So, the book is across the table. All right. So, I love Success Affirmations by Jack Canfield. Success Principles is one of my all-time favorite Go To books. It's like the Bible of building a business, and this is taking a hundred percent responsibility for your future. So when we get to decide how we build our businesses, what zooms and webinars and things that we show up to do, we get to decide what fits for us, what fits for the team and the culture and community that we're building, and what fits for our family. So, I want to ask you to take a hundred percent responsibility for your future, not just for your business, but for how you are going to set the tone and build your day. <br /><br />Because a lot of people, and I've done it, say I am not going to hustle and grind. And so, I kind of like did my own thing and built my business like, Oh, maybe I'll send a message or two and guess what? If you don't have focus, we're not building the legacy wealth that's going to allow the freedom for the family. So, it's like, okay, what is she talking about? She's telling me to have joy. She's telling me not to be chained to my phone, but she is saying we've got to have some focused action. So, we're going to talk about, I want you to visualize this. I want you to visualize just a piece of paper, a long piece, a big, let's make it a poster board. And I want you to put squares on that poster board. In fact, if you have a whiteboard, let's do it on the whiteboard. <br /><br />I'm going to provide a freebie for camp elevate, and I'll share with you guys where you can find it. But you can make this yourself. And I want you to think of your time in big squares. Okay? So, taking personal responsibility for how you spend your time. That is the key. So, you get to make a choice every single day. How you are going to spend your time and why. Some people that work three jobs are building massive million-dollar businesses because they're choosing how to spend their time, and they're choosing where to focus. And they usually have extreme focus on money making activities. So, we're not wasting time on things that don't make us money. Right? It makes sense. So, I want to read you this affirmation. You guys know that if you've listened to this podcast for more than 10 seconds, that our thoughts determine our path, that I am all about re framing, rephrasing, because if you say I'm busy, I have too much to do, guess what? <br /><br />That subconscious conscious brain says, yeah, Oh, you're too busy, you're too busy. So, I want you to affirm that you are going to make space with joy for your business and that everything will flow smoothly for you. This a hundred percent responsibility affirmation really spoke to me because it's, it talks about how we're going to be improving our life and taking responsibility. I'm going to read it to you and I'll also have it in the show notes and like I said, it's in Jack Canfield's affirmation book, 52 weeks for living a passionate and purposeful life; I am easily improving my life, moving with ease from where I am now to where I want to be. I am competently creating better circumstances and expanding opportunity for myself. Responding with intelligence to events as they occur. I am choosing to change my thoughts, images, and behaviors to respond differently and produce better outcomes. <br /><br />So, when we take a hundred percent responsibility, we're going to remember that we have total control over the thoughts that we think, the images that we visualize and then the actions that we take. So, I want you to think about your calendar and think about your day visualizing how that looks. And it's a 24-hour plan in my book because sleep is so important, the time that we get to spend with our family, wrapping up the day, the morning hours that you can truly set the tone for your entire day. If you just say yes to waking up in the morning and getting those thoughts and getting the energy where it needs to be with some meditation, some devotion, affirmations, that piece is so important. So, we're going to talk about that when we talk about these squares that I had you draw. So, as we go forward, what I want to talk about first is you have a choice every single day. <br /><br />All right? So, we do get told like, hop on this, do this, miss the track meet so you can do more of these things that will encourage your business to grow. So first we have to make a clarification of what are the things that we need to do in a day that grow our business and make us money. So, we did this exercise and Profit Her Way this week and I had everybody write down, and I want you to keep this for a week. Anytime that you say that you're working, anytime that you say, I'm working in my business right now, you're up in your office and we're going to talk about having a beautiful office space, a beautiful corner where you can work, that's coming up in another episode because it's so important. But you're in your space and you're working, and I want you to write down what is that business activity. <br /><br />Are you on a zoom learning? Are you scrolling Facebook? Are you inside a Facebook groups connecting? Are you picking up the phone and calling someone, or are you planning an event? Like what are the things that you're doing? Are you doing a Facebook live? Write those down and I would track that for seven days. So, it's a piece of paper folded in half vertically. Remember spelling words? Do you remember doing a pretest and a post test on your notebook paper folded in half like a hot dog bun? My teacher side is coming out, and then of course one of the smart aleck kids would be like gobble, gobble and eating the paper. That is why I left teaching. I love children but I love this more, and so I'm think about your paper as the hot dog bun. Fold it in half. The one side we're going to put, these are the activities that I'm doing for my business. <br /><br />You are going to be surprised and I want you to keep this with you and any time you say this is a business building activity, write it down. Are you on a team zoom? Are you on a three-way chat? Like what are the activities in a day? Now I want you to think about your last 10 sales or your last 10 distributors who joined you, or the last 10 times someone on your team, because of your help and your guidance made money. I like to put that on as well because many times we bring in a new distributor, promoter business partner, and you help them to make money because you help to plan a launch event, or you're involved in a three way chat. So, on the right side of the paper are all of the things that you got a sale. How did you get a sale? <br /><br />How did you get someone to upgrade and partner with you in business? And how did you help somebody to, you know, maybe help you with a rank, meaning they brought in some volume. Write those things down. And if you haven't had sales for a while, you may have to go back and think about when you had the most success. So, what we have is a list on the left and a list on the right. Now what I want you to do is draw a line from the left to the right. I want you to draw a line from what business activity happened so that you made money. We make money by selling our products. We make money by team commissions, and we also make money when we bring in new distributors, right? When they succeed. My company, we don't get bonuses when someone earns a bonus. But when you bring in a new business builder, then you have more commissions because they're building a team. <br /><br />So, however that looks, whatever makes you money. And if you don't know how you make money in your business, we need to take a look at that. Call someone that understands the business more than you, get to your support and say, how do we make money? I know how I make money. So, what are the things that connect? Now, I don't want you to say, Oh, I don't make money on my mindset work in the morning. So, I'm going to stop that. I want you to look at what puts you in the right space, the right energy, what has to happen so that you are physically and mentally like on top of the world. Those things count. So, don't be Beth. When I was building my business and stopped running and stopped going to the gym, because I was carrying around my ball and chain phone all the time, constantly taking calls, having conversations, not have any boundaries or limits, have those boundaries. <br /><br />So, when you realize a lot of what I do in the day does not build my business, decide does this bring me joy? Does it feel like love anything on the left? Does it bring me joy? Does it bring me love? Does it feel like connection? So, my random Facebook scrolling and checking out like, has anybody done this? You see a friend from like 1995 and you're like, Oh, there's my friend John Jacob Jingle Heimer Schmidt. Oh, it looks like John Jacob Jingle Heimer Schmidt married Molly Ringwald. Oh my gosh. Look at what they looked like. And you start to scroll back. Finally, you're looking at when they had a baby like 20 years ago and Oh, where'd their kid go to college? Does that feel like maybe it feels like love and joy? Does it feel like love, joy connection? Or does it make you money? So, I want you to also make a list on the left of all the things that you do in a day. <br /><br />All the things like, what are your business? And then maybe I went for a run, I walked the dogs, I had dinner with my son, like keep track of activities. And then what brings you joy, love and connection. So, when we have this list, we can directly say, this activity brings me, like listening to this podcast. Does this bring you love, joy, connection? We want to have personal development. And maybe you're doing this when you're out for a run, maybe you're out walking the dogs. Hey there Prince. How are you? I love walking dogs with you guys. If you're walking your dog, let's have a new thing. If you're listening to the podcast while walking your dog, I get to have a picture of your dog. And I want you to tag You're Not the Boss of Me, and me on Instagram or Facebook, because that just makes me so happy. <br /><br />All right, so we've got our list, and I want you to know that this is personal responsibility. When we say I'm going to take personal responsibility, we've got to take personal responsibility for our time and what we're doing. And this is a time audit. Okay? So, we've got our left, we've got our right, we look, does this make me money? Does this bring me joy? Does this bring me love? Does this feel like love? Does this feel like connection? All right. And so now, we know what needs to go into our focus bubbles. So, if we go back to how we have made our goals for the year, I always coach people to have a personal goal. So, I do mind health, spiritual business. So, we have health, spiritual, business, and family. Okay? But those are where my focus bubbles go. And I have a goal in each area with three actions. <br /><br />Some people do three and three. So, let's look at our health. So, if our health goal is be a healthy, lean, confident version of myself, what are the three things that have to happen to be healthy and lean? And we write those down. And this is not a goal setting episode. There are so many ways to set goals. But I share the Pomodoro blocks, like so now we're going from the list. Are you guys following me? I hope it's not too confusing. I'll do a live on this as well because it is so good, and this has helped me so much. So, what are those activities that make you money? That's what needs to go in that block. So, on the calendar every day, and I'm asking you at the end of your day to review your calendar, to fill in your blocks. I want you to look at your business. <br /><br />I want you to look at your spiritual. That means your devotions, your meditation. I kind of call it spiritual brain, but you're doing for your brain. Do you enjoy a podcast? Awesome. And I'm sharing a podcast tip with you guys that Emily. Emily, my good friend and I worked on for her car drive affirmation practice, because she leaves so early for work. That's a side note. But I want you to have these bubbles. So, the Pomodoro technique is literally knowing that we can focus on one thing for a short spurt of time. You can Google it, but Pomodoro is setting a timer for 25 minutes and doing the one thing for 25 minutes that keeps you on task and it keeps you rolling. So, I'll say, okay, I'm going to do 25 minutes of moneymaking connections. I am literally asking my list of people that have shown an interest or that are on my mind that I know might need my product or my service. </p><p>I'm literally doing that for 25 minutes. Maybe you'd get great leads from your Instagram story. Maybe you do an Instagram story with a poll and you have people asking to join your challenge. Like these are all different things that we'll be talking about. So, if I did a healthy recipe challenge this week and I did a poll and people said, Oh, my gosh, yes, I would love it and I'm super transparent. I said to them, okay cool. You are going to see some of the most amazing recipes. We have some cooking demonstrations, we're going to have Crock-Pot and Air Fryer, and I asked the person coming in, what's your favorite way to cook healthy or are you just starting? Because I want them to contribute. But I also say to them, and this is important, and this is off topic, but this is important. If you're putting somebody in a challenge and it is your product group that you're sharing product. <br /><br />I will say, just so you know, I'm with a health and wellness company and inside of this group we will be talking about the supplements. I want to let you know that I know that you would love them. There's no obligation to buy. You can still win the prizes. I want you in this group, but I don't want you to feel like I'm sneaking up on you with it. I want to be really clear on that, and people so appreciate that. Like if I got added to a group that was going to show me how to have a neck that looked like I was 25 years old, because that's the first place a woman ages. And my friend said I'm going to give like 17 days of tools for how to fix your neck. And then she said, I want to let you know we are going to be selling some products. <br /><br />You don't have to buy them and we're going to give you techniques that you can do with just, I'm making this up. Just things that are already in your kitchen cabinet. Like maybe we're going to do like coconut oil, and I don't know, I'm making it up, but you get the picture. So, what are the moneymaking activities? I went off on a tangent, but I hope you like my tangents because I like to be transparent. If you're building an authentic business, you are not sneaking up on somebody and saying, Oh you're in my challenge by the way. Like I always say, listen, I do sell health and wellness supplements, but I also provide great value because I want families living healthier with ease of no more fast food and fixing their digestive health. Like whatever your thing is, essential oils, supplements, travel, whatever it is, you're transparent. <br /><br />You're like, we're going to share some great deals with you. You don't have to take it, but there's so much value I'd love to have you in. So, when you know what those moneymaking activities are, the Pomodoro is taking each of those blocks and focusing 25 minutes. So, if you want to build a business, you take personal responsibility because you can put everything into a 25-minute block. The good news about your businesses is you have total control over the thoughts. You think about time. So, if you're saying I don't have time, I don't ever have time, I don't have anybody to reach out to, I don't have time, I don't have time, I don't have time. You are taking your thoughts and creating a reality. So, you need to say, I will handle my schedule with ease and flow and have plenty of space. <br /><br />I like to say space, not time. And I have plenty of space for my money-making activities that will go to build my legacy wealth that will go to build my business, to help me to hit big goals. Making money is cool. Making money is okay and you deserve to have lots of money. Money allows an impact. Money allows options. Money allows so many things to come into your life. So be open. Okay, so you have the control about the thoughts you think you also have control over the images you visualize. Now visualize yourself doing that 25-minute block. You're seeing it on your calendar. You're setting the timer on your phone and your organized in your business space. That says during my 25-minute block, I know that making me money, I did the work. So, what makes me money is this, and I'm willing to do that for 25 minutes. <br /><br />So I like to work backwards and say, okay, what do I need to have in place for the 25 minutes so that I can do my money making activities so I can do my thought and devotion and brain work, I call it my spirituality work that keeps my energy where it should be or my health block, what needs to be in place. So, I want you to work backwards on this and this is the organization and decluttering of your business. So, remember I said you have control over the thoughts you think so I am ready. My calendar will be ready. My space will be ready. I have plenty of time and I have the support that I need. So, you may have to ask for support. If you want to fit all of this in and still have time for your joy and your freedom and your fun. <br /><br />You decide the days you get to work. Maybe you just work Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, maybe you decide to work Monday, Wednesday, Friday, Sunday. You've got to have control over that calendar so that you're not reactive. So, you're proactive. So, you have the control over the thoughts, you think the images you visualize about how this is all going to work out for you. And drum roll please. The actions you take. So, I want you to start your day with conviction and intention. You have a choice. Will I get swallowed up and not being prepared for the day and getting up late and all of the chaos or will I get up and start my day with conviction and intention? Set a 25-minute bubble for that. Okay? So, things don't just happen to you, you're creating it or you're allowing it. You have a choice, my friend. So, the choice we're talking about today is, will I put a 25-minute bubble on my calendar for health, for spirituality, for my personal and family goals, for my moneymaking goals. <br /><br />So, you get to decide those bubbles. So I'm going to encourage you today to do one thing to take one task is create the conviction and intention to your morning where you are setting it up for the day, where you are doing your, I put that block in, it's 25 minutes in the morning. My journaling, my gratitude. Oh, and I learned this at our retreat and I'm going to give credit. I'm thinking, what is your…Oh Pamela. Pamela. Yes. Pamela taught us this at the retreat. I knew it. I'm visualizing her with this beautiful journal, and she said she does her requests and her gratitude. So, she will journal her requests and she will journal her gratitude. And I'm actually going to ask her to get on the podcast and explain that. So, we'll go back to that piece. So I've been journaling my requests and I've also been journaling my gratitude and then I do and all out just journal time after I do my meditation and after I do my affirmations and after I do my prayers for guidance for the day and also might be prayers of gratitude. <br /><br />So, then I look at my calendar. I get things and that is the first 25-minute block. So, then you may be going to work, you may be taking kids to school, but sometime during the day I want you to do a money-making block. Okay? The rest we can talk about, you know how to fit in the gym, that personal block, if you're looking for connection with your kids, this business building block is going to help you with that connection. So maybe that is we're going to play monopoly on Friday nights together. I'm going to take each child on their own personal date with me together. Whatever that is, create a block for it in your calendar. Like mine with my son is 25 minutes before bed. Like that's what we're going to do is spend one on one time together during that time. <br /><br />So, I want to explain the moneymaking block, what happens. So really for me, moneymaking is having conversations and making an offer or an invite to take a look. And if you're authentic in it and you've built connection and on social media, you're showing up as your authentic self. Those conversations are okay. So for 25 minutes, set that timer, but in order to be ready to do that, and we're going to talk about this on the next episode, but in order to be ready to do the 25 minute money-making block, you have to have the activities that make you money. So that's the first exercise that we did, but we also need to have our list ready. We need to know who are the people that have responded to our stories are the people that, like just yesterday, I was at tennis, I brought a sample with me of one of our products. <br /><br />I had a conversation with her about how I could help her. I got her information and that's a follow up. I also work referrals. Those make me money. I reach out to people and I say, how can I help you? How can I serve you? How can I share your business? And let me ask you a favor as well. I'm looking for X, Y, and Z moneymaking activities. You might also be setting up a launch event for a business partner of yours, where you're going to help them with a launch event on social media. There's all these different tools and you guys have the tools, but in that 25 minute block, I'm going to save for seven days, 25 minutes of your health, 25 minutes of your personal, 25 minutes of your spiritual growth, and that's mindset, growth, spiritual growth, energy, all of those things that takes a lot of work. <br /><br />You guys, especially for my squirrely brain, and then I want you to put in your block for business. Now, if you can only do 10 of each, do 10 of each. If you can only in one block a day, what will it be? Well, you have control of your calendar. Get up early, put those blocks in. You might do 10 minutes in the carpool line, and if you're organized and you know your money-making activities, and you've got your list with you, or you've got your business to go, guess what? You can do it. I mean, you can have that business block. All right. This episode, it has to end now. I'm so sorry to see you go, and I hope this was helpful for you today, and I know it might feel a little bit all over the place. So, this is what I'm going to do for you. <br /><br />My business page on Facebook is called Beth Holden Graves and I want you to go over and like that business page. And you're listening to this podcast on Monday, so if you're listening to it and it's a replay, I'll also put this video over on YouTube on my channel, and it's going to be called ‘Focus Blocking for Making Money and Finding More Joy’. So, there will always be a place for you to find it. If you can't find it, just reach out to me and say, Hey, I need that video. But on Wednesday, if you're listening to this on Monday, on Wednesday, I am going to go live, and I'm going to actually have a Zoom and do a training on this exact podcast. So, let’s get started on that. Join me over on bethholdengraves.com, be sure you like that page. And also, we'll be doing some very specific training on it in Camp Elevate, thecampelevate group.com. Join us there. Thank you so much for being on today, and also the review that like made my heart just almost want to bust out of my body. <br /><br />I'm so happy with finding the women out there that are joining together the sisterhood for this podcast. All of you who are listening, all of you who are at camp, all of you who are a Profit Her Way, and all of you that might be watching from afar, you can sit with us. We are going to build businesses together. We are going to create legacy wealth for you, and I am here to tell you each week that you already have the answers. You already have the power within you. You can do this. It's just taking the chance, taking the opportunity, creating the space and the intention to make Profit Her Way. All right, so thanks for joining us, and as always, Instagram at Beth Holden Graves, send me a little screenshot of this podcast. Send me a picture of your dog if you're out walking your dog and ask me any questions. I'm always here to serve and to help. Thanks for joining us. Leave a review. You might just have it next week and we are also going to be sending out boss hats again, so be looking for the boss hat. We're going to have a boss hat contest also on Facebook. I'm Beth Holden Graves, you'll find it there. Go on over there. We're going to have a boss hat giveaway. We're going to have the Wednesday live, where I'm going to train more on this, and I'll catch you guys all next week. Thanks for tuning in. <br /><br />Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So, leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I will enter you to win the 'You're Not the Boss of Me' swag. So, make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</strong></p><p>• No Boss Talk: https://nobosstalk.com</p><p>• Monday Morning Routine: https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</p><p>• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: https://thecampelevategroup.com</p><p>• Beth’s Instagram: https://Instagram.com/bethholdengraves</p><p>• Beth’s website: https://www.bethholdengraves.com</p><p>• Profit HER Way Course: https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</p><p><strong>Keynotes discussed:</strong></p><p>• I've done a lot of consulting, but to build out a mastermind and to work in that beta group, right now I'm realizing, oh my goodness, how much I love how much I love a community of women that are driven and we've got one man in the community and he's awesome. (04:28)</p><p>• If you don't have focus, we're not building the legacy wealth that's going to allow the freedom for the family. (8:26)</p><p>• I am choosing to change my thoughts, images, and behaviors to respond differently and produce better outcomes. (10:52)</p><p>• Now I want you to think about your last 10 sales, or your last 10 distributors who joined you, or the last 10 times someone on your team because of your help and your guidance made money. (13:36)</p><p>• We've got our left, we've got our right, we look, does this make me money? Does this bring me joy? Does this bring me love? Does this feel like love? Does this feel like connection? All right. And so now we know what needs to go into our focus bubbles. If we go back to how we have made our goals for the year, I always coach people to have a personal goal. So, we have health, spiritual, business, and family. (18:10)</p><p><strong>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</strong></p><p>January 27, 2020</p><p><strong>EPISODE TRANSCRIPT...</strong></p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.<br /><br />This episode seriously has come from my heart. I'm literally feeling this energy, this love, this abundance around this podcast. I know that sounds corny, but I have received some of the most meaningful messages from all of you thanking me for my words. And I think it comes from me just being real and saying, you guys, listen, if you're buying a $37 course that says never prospect again, unlimited leads coming your way, and then you spend hours on a webinar and learning and creating and trying to recreate this thing, and you're still not making money, and then you hop over to another technique, and you hop to another technique, and you're going from place to place and you're literally pulling your hair out. We can create a plan for you and that is what this podcast is all about. It is about creating a Profit Your Way, making money your way, creating legacy wealth while not giving up the time with your family, the time with your friends. For me, the time on the tennis court.</p><p>But making money, especially in a sales business and network marketing in an online coaching space, it does require focus, it does require work, it does require time spent. But we are going to talk today and like I said, this podcast is coming from everything you're asking me to tell you from your DMS, and I'm so thankful for getting the messages. I'm so thankful for the reviews and the review that I'm about to read. You literally shifted my entire focus from one thing that I was teaching in my mastermind Profit Her Way, to shifting gears and building this foundation. Again, because we get caught up in let's create the challenge that we invite people to, and then we can connect with them and we can do X, Y, and Z. We do need strategies to build our business. <br /><br />We need ways to get traffic eyes on us. We do it by being authentic and we do it by having a plan and we put those plans into place, and we work the plan. But it doesn't mean that we have to be hustle, grind, never ever leaving our phone on airplane mode. And like I always say, be where your feet are. And do you want your kids, your husband, your next door to remember you as holding your phone, not holding your hand. So how can we create space for our business and for joy? We're going to talk about that today. And this technique I'm going to show you today is a modified Pomodoro. I didn't invent the Pomodoro. We're going to talk about what that is and how you can determine if the time you're spending is actually creating a business. Build a way to make you money. <br /><br />Or if it's just spending time, time away from like, Hey, get on the floor and build Legos with that grandchild. Get off the phone and do your income producing activities in a block. So, I want to read this review. If I never record another episode again, which I promise you I love recording episodes, I'm even thinking about going to twice a week with this podcast, one alone and one interview. Let me know what you think of that because I love, love, love, love, love this conversation. I look forward to it every single day. This is when I'm driving in my front seat, when I'm feeling so, so powerful and driven, is when I'm sitting here and having this conversation with all of you, because my mission is to tell you the real truth, to tell you that it's not always easy, and to help you to not make the same mistakes that I made on my build, and to be vulnerable on my journey. <br /><br />So far as I'm growing a new coaching business as well, like the coaching side, I've always done one on one coaching with people. I've done a lot of consulting, but to build out a mastermind and to work in that beta group, right now I'm realizing, Oh my goodness, how much I love, how much I love a community of women that are driven, and we've got one man in the community and he's awesome. Hey Ryan. All right, so this review, like I said, I don't even have a name. It's a bunch of consonants of the person that wrote it. D, J D X, D, D, D, J, D, H, D. X. I. F. F, N, F. D. if this is you, I need a message. I have a gift for you because this gift, my friend means everything to me, and this is what she says, and sanity delivery, and I want you to listen to these words; Listen and Regain Your Sanity. <br /><br />I just listened to the second episode. I do still shine my sink. Go listen to that episode If you want to know what shining your sink is. I am definitely type A and often think the answer to pretty much everything is work harder. I have been recently frustrated by speeches that encouraged me to miss my kid's track meets in the name of committing, and requests to watch, and or participate, and what seems like more webinars in a week than I have hours in a week, that delivers the sanity check. Thanks for reminding me that life is beautiful. I don't have to live anyone else's grind. I want to repeat that life is beautiful and I don't have to live anyone else's grind. Thanks for supporting people doing it their own real way and encouraging them to reclaim some honest joy, rather than promoting fake positive as the solution. Like, I don't know if I was tone deaf there but, that review, if you wanted to ask me what this is all about, and I recently did a big scary thing and hired a marketing company to work with me. <br /><br />I'm always honest, I'm going to talk about the marketing team, then go back to that podcast. But they asked me really like, who do you speak to? Who are the people that you are serving, and I am just sending that review because that is my mission is to teach you techniques and strategies, rituals, and routines to shift our mindsets so that we are not just hustling and grinding, attempting to get eyes on what we're doing, in hopes that someone will say yes. That we're authentic in our message, that we're authentic and our mission, but we're having brave and courageous conversations, because in order to build a business, especially in network marketing, you have got to make a decision right now to have those conversations. Then I want to start with sharing something with you, and we're going to talk about some techniques that can allow you the sanity in your business to use this time blocking way. <br /><br />And the first thing that I want to share with you is an affirmation. And this comes from…grabbing the book right now. I was going to pause it and edit, but I'm like, you know what? We're just like on our own, two friends sitting here. So, the book is across the table. All right. So, I love Success Affirmations by Jack Canfield. Success Principles is one of my all-time favorite Go To books. It's like the Bible of building a business, and this is taking a hundred percent responsibility for your future. So when we get to decide how we build our businesses, what zooms and webinars and things that we show up to do, we get to decide what fits for us, what fits for the team and the culture and community that we're building, and what fits for our family. So, I want to ask you to take a hundred percent responsibility for your future, not just for your business, but for how you are going to set the tone and build your day. <br /><br />Because a lot of people, and I've done it, say I am not going to hustle and grind. And so, I kind of like did my own thing and built my business like, Oh, maybe I'll send a message or two and guess what? If you don't have focus, we're not building the legacy wealth that's going to allow the freedom for the family. So, it's like, okay, what is she talking about? She's telling me to have joy. She's telling me not to be chained to my phone, but she is saying we've got to have some focused action. So, we're going to talk about, I want you to visualize this. I want you to visualize just a piece of paper, a long piece, a big, let's make it a poster board. And I want you to put squares on that poster board. In fact, if you have a whiteboard, let's do it on the whiteboard. <br /><br />I'm going to provide a freebie for camp elevate, and I'll share with you guys where you can find it. But you can make this yourself. And I want you to think of your time in big squares. Okay? So, taking personal responsibility for how you spend your time. That is the key. So, you get to make a choice every single day. How you are going to spend your time and why. Some people that work three jobs are building massive million-dollar businesses because they're choosing how to spend their time, and they're choosing where to focus. And they usually have extreme focus on money making activities. So, we're not wasting time on things that don't make us money. Right? It makes sense. So, I want to read you this affirmation. You guys know that if you've listened to this podcast for more than 10 seconds, that our thoughts determine our path, that I am all about re framing, rephrasing, because if you say I'm busy, I have too much to do, guess what? <br /><br />That subconscious conscious brain says, yeah, Oh, you're too busy, you're too busy. So, I want you to affirm that you are going to make space with joy for your business and that everything will flow smoothly for you. This a hundred percent responsibility affirmation really spoke to me because it's, it talks about how we're going to be improving our life and taking responsibility. I'm going to read it to you and I'll also have it in the show notes and like I said, it's in Jack Canfield's affirmation book, 52 weeks for living a passionate and purposeful life; I am easily improving my life, moving with ease from where I am now to where I want to be. I am competently creating better circumstances and expanding opportunity for myself. Responding with intelligence to events as they occur. I am choosing to change my thoughts, images, and behaviors to respond differently and produce better outcomes. <br /><br />So, when we take a hundred percent responsibility, we're going to remember that we have total control over the thoughts that we think, the images that we visualize and then the actions that we take. So, I want you to think about your calendar and think about your day visualizing how that looks. And it's a 24-hour plan in my book because sleep is so important, the time that we get to spend with our family, wrapping up the day, the morning hours that you can truly set the tone for your entire day. If you just say yes to waking up in the morning and getting those thoughts and getting the energy where it needs to be with some meditation, some devotion, affirmations, that piece is so important. So, we're going to talk about that when we talk about these squares that I had you draw. So, as we go forward, what I want to talk about first is you have a choice every single day. <br /><br />All right? So, we do get told like, hop on this, do this, miss the track meet so you can do more of these things that will encourage your business to grow. So first we have to make a clarification of what are the things that we need to do in a day that grow our business and make us money. So, we did this exercise and Profit Her Way this week and I had everybody write down, and I want you to keep this for a week. Anytime that you say that you're working, anytime that you say, I'm working in my business right now, you're up in your office and we're going to talk about having a beautiful office space, a beautiful corner where you can work, that's coming up in another episode because it's so important. But you're in your space and you're working, and I want you to write down what is that business activity. <br /><br />Are you on a zoom learning? Are you scrolling Facebook? Are you inside a Facebook groups connecting? Are you picking up the phone and calling someone, or are you planning an event? Like what are the things that you're doing? Are you doing a Facebook live? Write those down and I would track that for seven days. So, it's a piece of paper folded in half vertically. Remember spelling words? Do you remember doing a pretest and a post test on your notebook paper folded in half like a hot dog bun? My teacher side is coming out, and then of course one of the smart aleck kids would be like gobble, gobble and eating the paper. That is why I left teaching. I love children but I love this more, and so I'm think about your paper as the hot dog bun. Fold it in half. The one side we're going to put, these are the activities that I'm doing for my business. <br /><br />You are going to be surprised and I want you to keep this with you and any time you say this is a business building activity, write it down. Are you on a team zoom? Are you on a three-way chat? Like what are the activities in a day? Now I want you to think about your last 10 sales or your last 10 distributors who joined you, or the last 10 times someone on your team, because of your help and your guidance made money. I like to put that on as well because many times we bring in a new distributor, promoter business partner, and you help them to make money because you help to plan a launch event, or you're involved in a three way chat. So, on the right side of the paper are all of the things that you got a sale. How did you get a sale? <br /><br />How did you get someone to upgrade and partner with you in business? And how did you help somebody to, you know, maybe help you with a rank, meaning they brought in some volume. Write those things down. And if you haven't had sales for a while, you may have to go back and think about when you had the most success. So, what we have is a list on the left and a list on the right. Now what I want you to do is draw a line from the left to the right. I want you to draw a line from what business activity happened so that you made money. We make money by selling our products. We make money by team commissions, and we also make money when we bring in new distributors, right? When they succeed. My company, we don't get bonuses when someone earns a bonus. But when you bring in a new business builder, then you have more commissions because they're building a team. <br /><br />So, however that looks, whatever makes you money. And if you don't know how you make money in your business, we need to take a look at that. Call someone that understands the business more than you, get to your support and say, how do we make money? I know how I make money. So, what are the things that connect? Now, I don't want you to say, Oh, I don't make money on my mindset work in the morning. So, I'm going to stop that. I want you to look at what puts you in the right space, the right energy, what has to happen so that you are physically and mentally like on top of the world. Those things count. So, don't be Beth. When I was building my business and stopped running and stopped going to the gym, because I was carrying around my ball and chain phone all the time, constantly taking calls, having conversations, not have any boundaries or limits, have those boundaries. <br /><br />So, when you realize a lot of what I do in the day does not build my business, decide does this bring me joy? Does it feel like love anything on the left? Does it bring me joy? Does it bring me love? Does it feel like connection? So, my random Facebook scrolling and checking out like, has anybody done this? You see a friend from like 1995 and you're like, Oh, there's my friend John Jacob Jingle Heimer Schmidt. Oh, it looks like John Jacob Jingle Heimer Schmidt married Molly Ringwald. Oh my gosh. Look at what they looked like. And you start to scroll back. Finally, you're looking at when they had a baby like 20 years ago and Oh, where'd their kid go to college? Does that feel like maybe it feels like love and joy? Does it feel like love, joy connection? Or does it make you money? So, I want you to also make a list on the left of all the things that you do in a day. <br /><br />All the things like, what are your business? And then maybe I went for a run, I walked the dogs, I had dinner with my son, like keep track of activities. And then what brings you joy, love and connection. So, when we have this list, we can directly say, this activity brings me, like listening to this podcast. Does this bring you love, joy, connection? We want to have personal development. And maybe you're doing this when you're out for a run, maybe you're out walking the dogs. Hey there Prince. How are you? I love walking dogs with you guys. If you're walking your dog, let's have a new thing. If you're listening to the podcast while walking your dog, I get to have a picture of your dog. And I want you to tag You're Not the Boss of Me, and me on Instagram or Facebook, because that just makes me so happy. <br /><br />All right, so we've got our list, and I want you to know that this is personal responsibility. When we say I'm going to take personal responsibility, we've got to take personal responsibility for our time and what we're doing. And this is a time audit. Okay? So, we've got our left, we've got our right, we look, does this make me money? Does this bring me joy? Does this bring me love? Does this feel like love? Does this feel like connection? All right. And so now, we know what needs to go into our focus bubbles. So, if we go back to how we have made our goals for the year, I always coach people to have a personal goal. So, I do mind health, spiritual business. So, we have health, spiritual, business, and family. Okay? But those are where my focus bubbles go. And I have a goal in each area with three actions. <br /><br />Some people do three and three. So, let's look at our health. So, if our health goal is be a healthy, lean, confident version of myself, what are the three things that have to happen to be healthy and lean? And we write those down. And this is not a goal setting episode. There are so many ways to set goals. But I share the Pomodoro blocks, like so now we're going from the list. Are you guys following me? I hope it's not too confusing. I'll do a live on this as well because it is so good, and this has helped me so much. So, what are those activities that make you money? That's what needs to go in that block. So, on the calendar every day, and I'm asking you at the end of your day to review your calendar, to fill in your blocks. I want you to look at your business. <br /><br />I want you to look at your spiritual. That means your devotions, your meditation. I kind of call it spiritual brain, but you're doing for your brain. Do you enjoy a podcast? Awesome. And I'm sharing a podcast tip with you guys that Emily. Emily, my good friend and I worked on for her car drive affirmation practice, because she leaves so early for work. That's a side note. But I want you to have these bubbles. So, the Pomodoro technique is literally knowing that we can focus on one thing for a short spurt of time. You can Google it, but Pomodoro is setting a timer for 25 minutes and doing the one thing for 25 minutes that keeps you on task and it keeps you rolling. So, I'll say, okay, I'm going to do 25 minutes of moneymaking connections. I am literally asking my list of people that have shown an interest or that are on my mind that I know might need my product or my service. </p><p>I'm literally doing that for 25 minutes. Maybe you'd get great leads from your Instagram story. Maybe you do an Instagram story with a poll and you have people asking to join your challenge. Like these are all different things that we'll be talking about. So, if I did a healthy recipe challenge this week and I did a poll and people said, Oh, my gosh, yes, I would love it and I'm super transparent. I said to them, okay cool. You are going to see some of the most amazing recipes. We have some cooking demonstrations, we're going to have Crock-Pot and Air Fryer, and I asked the person coming in, what's your favorite way to cook healthy or are you just starting? Because I want them to contribute. But I also say to them, and this is important, and this is off topic, but this is important. If you're putting somebody in a challenge and it is your product group that you're sharing product. <br /><br />I will say, just so you know, I'm with a health and wellness company and inside of this group we will be talking about the supplements. I want to let you know that I know that you would love them. There's no obligation to buy. You can still win the prizes. I want you in this group, but I don't want you to feel like I'm sneaking up on you with it. I want to be really clear on that, and people so appreciate that. Like if I got added to a group that was going to show me how to have a neck that looked like I was 25 years old, because that's the first place a woman ages. And my friend said I'm going to give like 17 days of tools for how to fix your neck. And then she said, I want to let you know we are going to be selling some products. <br /><br />You don't have to buy them and we're going to give you techniques that you can do with just, I'm making this up. Just things that are already in your kitchen cabinet. Like maybe we're going to do like coconut oil, and I don't know, I'm making it up, but you get the picture. So, what are the moneymaking activities? I went off on a tangent, but I hope you like my tangents because I like to be transparent. If you're building an authentic business, you are not sneaking up on somebody and saying, Oh you're in my challenge by the way. Like I always say, listen, I do sell health and wellness supplements, but I also provide great value because I want families living healthier with ease of no more fast food and fixing their digestive health. Like whatever your thing is, essential oils, supplements, travel, whatever it is, you're transparent. <br /><br />You're like, we're going to share some great deals with you. You don't have to take it, but there's so much value I'd love to have you in. So, when you know what those moneymaking activities are, the Pomodoro is taking each of those blocks and focusing 25 minutes. So, if you want to build a business, you take personal responsibility because you can put everything into a 25-minute block. The good news about your businesses is you have total control over the thoughts. You think about time. So, if you're saying I don't have time, I don't ever have time, I don't have anybody to reach out to, I don't have time, I don't have time, I don't have time. You are taking your thoughts and creating a reality. So, you need to say, I will handle my schedule with ease and flow and have plenty of space. <br /><br />I like to say space, not time. And I have plenty of space for my money-making activities that will go to build my legacy wealth that will go to build my business, to help me to hit big goals. Making money is cool. Making money is okay and you deserve to have lots of money. Money allows an impact. Money allows options. Money allows so many things to come into your life. So be open. Okay, so you have the control about the thoughts you think you also have control over the images you visualize. Now visualize yourself doing that 25-minute block. You're seeing it on your calendar. You're setting the timer on your phone and your organized in your business space. That says during my 25-minute block, I know that making me money, I did the work. So, what makes me money is this, and I'm willing to do that for 25 minutes. <br /><br />So I like to work backwards and say, okay, what do I need to have in place for the 25 minutes so that I can do my money making activities so I can do my thought and devotion and brain work, I call it my spirituality work that keeps my energy where it should be or my health block, what needs to be in place. So, I want you to work backwards on this and this is the organization and decluttering of your business. So, remember I said you have control over the thoughts you think so I am ready. My calendar will be ready. My space will be ready. I have plenty of time and I have the support that I need. So, you may have to ask for support. If you want to fit all of this in and still have time for your joy and your freedom and your fun. <br /><br />You decide the days you get to work. Maybe you just work Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, maybe you decide to work Monday, Wednesday, Friday, Sunday. You've got to have control over that calendar so that you're not reactive. So, you're proactive. So, you have the control over the thoughts, you think the images you visualize about how this is all going to work out for you. And drum roll please. The actions you take. So, I want you to start your day with conviction and intention. You have a choice. Will I get swallowed up and not being prepared for the day and getting up late and all of the chaos or will I get up and start my day with conviction and intention? Set a 25-minute bubble for that. Okay? So, things don't just happen to you, you're creating it or you're allowing it. You have a choice, my friend. So, the choice we're talking about today is, will I put a 25-minute bubble on my calendar for health, for spirituality, for my personal and family goals, for my moneymaking goals. <br /><br />So, you get to decide those bubbles. So I'm going to encourage you today to do one thing to take one task is create the conviction and intention to your morning where you are setting it up for the day, where you are doing your, I put that block in, it's 25 minutes in the morning. My journaling, my gratitude. Oh, and I learned this at our retreat and I'm going to give credit. I'm thinking, what is your…Oh Pamela. Pamela. Yes. Pamela taught us this at the retreat. I knew it. I'm visualizing her with this beautiful journal, and she said she does her requests and her gratitude. So, she will journal her requests and she will journal her gratitude. And I'm actually going to ask her to get on the podcast and explain that. So, we'll go back to that piece. So I've been journaling my requests and I've also been journaling my gratitude and then I do and all out just journal time after I do my meditation and after I do my affirmations and after I do my prayers for guidance for the day and also might be prayers of gratitude. <br /><br />So, then I look at my calendar. I get things and that is the first 25-minute block. So, then you may be going to work, you may be taking kids to school, but sometime during the day I want you to do a money-making block. Okay? The rest we can talk about, you know how to fit in the gym, that personal block, if you're looking for connection with your kids, this business building block is going to help you with that connection. So maybe that is we're going to play monopoly on Friday nights together. I'm going to take each child on their own personal date with me together. Whatever that is, create a block for it in your calendar. Like mine with my son is 25 minutes before bed. Like that's what we're going to do is spend one on one time together during that time. <br /><br />So, I want to explain the moneymaking block, what happens. So really for me, moneymaking is having conversations and making an offer or an invite to take a look. And if you're authentic in it and you've built connection and on social media, you're showing up as your authentic self. Those conversations are okay. So for 25 minutes, set that timer, but in order to be ready to do that, and we're going to talk about this on the next episode, but in order to be ready to do the 25 minute money-making block, you have to have the activities that make you money. So that's the first exercise that we did, but we also need to have our list ready. We need to know who are the people that have responded to our stories are the people that, like just yesterday, I was at tennis, I brought a sample with me of one of our products. <br /><br />I had a conversation with her about how I could help her. I got her information and that's a follow up. I also work referrals. Those make me money. I reach out to people and I say, how can I help you? How can I serve you? How can I share your business? And let me ask you a favor as well. I'm looking for X, Y, and Z moneymaking activities. You might also be setting up a launch event for a business partner of yours, where you're going to help them with a launch event on social media. There's all these different tools and you guys have the tools, but in that 25 minute block, I'm going to save for seven days, 25 minutes of your health, 25 minutes of your personal, 25 minutes of your spiritual growth, and that's mindset, growth, spiritual growth, energy, all of those things that takes a lot of work. <br /><br />You guys, especially for my squirrely brain, and then I want you to put in your block for business. Now, if you can only do 10 of each, do 10 of each. If you can only in one block a day, what will it be? Well, you have control of your calendar. Get up early, put those blocks in. You might do 10 minutes in the carpool line, and if you're organized and you know your money-making activities, and you've got your list with you, or you've got your business to go, guess what? You can do it. I mean, you can have that business block. All right. This episode, it has to end now. I'm so sorry to see you go, and I hope this was helpful for you today, and I know it might feel a little bit all over the place. So, this is what I'm going to do for you. <br /><br />My business page on Facebook is called Beth Holden Graves and I want you to go over and like that business page. And you're listening to this podcast on Monday, so if you're listening to it and it's a replay, I'll also put this video over on YouTube on my channel, and it's going to be called ‘Focus Blocking for Making Money and Finding More Joy’. So, there will always be a place for you to find it. If you can't find it, just reach out to me and say, Hey, I need that video. But on Wednesday, if you're listening to this on Monday, on Wednesday, I am going to go live, and I'm going to actually have a Zoom and do a training on this exact podcast. So, let’s get started on that. Join me over on bethholdengraves.com, be sure you like that page. And also, we'll be doing some very specific training on it in Camp Elevate, thecampelevate group.com. Join us there. Thank you so much for being on today, and also the review that like made my heart just almost want to bust out of my body. <br /><br />I'm so happy with finding the women out there that are joining together the sisterhood for this podcast. All of you who are listening, all of you who are at camp, all of you who are a Profit Her Way, and all of you that might be watching from afar, you can sit with us. We are going to build businesses together. We are going to create legacy wealth for you, and I am here to tell you each week that you already have the answers. You already have the power within you. You can do this. It's just taking the chance, taking the opportunity, creating the space and the intention to make Profit Her Way. All right, so thanks for joining us, and as always, Instagram at Beth Holden Graves, send me a little screenshot of this podcast. Send me a picture of your dog if you're out walking your dog and ask me any questions. I'm always here to serve and to help. Thanks for joining us. Leave a review. You might just have it next week and we are also going to be sending out boss hats again, so be looking for the boss hat. We're going to have a boss hat contest also on Facebook. I'm Beth Holden Graves, you'll find it there. Go on over there. We're going to have a boss hat giveaway. We're going to have the Wednesday live, where I'm going to train more on this, and I'll catch you guys all next week. Thanks for tuning in. <br /><br />Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So, leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I will enter you to win the 'You're Not the Boss of Me' swag. So, make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p>
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I never once felt like I could connect with people. It's like it almost stole my superpower because I was so good at selling when I could connect with people. (07:16)</li><li>If you decide that you want this to be a moneymaking venture, you can, you know, turn it into a business where you can quit your day job, retire your spouse, travel the world, retire, whatever the case. (12:34)</li><li>She did a $300,000 launch her first month and unstoppable because she leveraged her existing Facebook group that she had never really understood how to get maximum value out of. (15:22)</li><li>The way that you create that is when you deliver compelling content that really meets people where they are and serves them in a really high level. (16:52)</li><li>And this is the big piece that sets you apart besides just personable, valuable content that works by the connection is the accountability piece is, I have someone in my inbox saying, Hey, Beth let's chat. (20:39)</li></ul><p><strong>When Did It Air...</strong></p><p>January 20, 2020</p><p><strong>Episode Transcript...</strong></p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Hey bosses and welcome back. Another episode that I'm saying, oh my goodness, pinch me, how did I get this opportunity? I guess it happened because I visualized, manifested and just decided I will have Kelly Roach on the show. And it is happening! I'm excited for you to dive into this episode. A little bit about Kelly is, she is known as the Business Catalyst helping elite business owners become game changers in their field, achieving million-dollar breakthroughs in business. She has helped me to have my own personal breakthrough and you'll hear about that in this episode.</p><p>She is a former fortune 500 executive and she transitioned from her big, big job in fortune 500 to working with online strategies for entrepreneurs. I am so grateful that she made this transition so that she could be accessible to all of us with her live launch strategies. She's been featured in every major publication on every major news station and now on You're Not the Boss of Me podcast. She has her own podcast too, which is called Unstoppable Success Radio. I listened to it without fail every single time when an episode drops. I cannot wait for you to hear what Kelly has to say. And trust me, you will want to hear about how the live launch method can help you grow your online or network marketing business. So, are you ready, bosses? Here we go.</p><p>All right, everyone welcome. And you can't even imagine how excited I am to have like my girl crush idle with me. It's like when she said yes, I felt like, Oh my gosh. So, Kelly Roach, welcome.</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Thank you so much for having me. I'm excited to be here.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>So, I found you when I was scrolling Facebook one day and I saw this perky video about how we could use live video, to sell without being weird, spammy, all of those things. And I was so curious because most of our listeners are network marketers who are looking to be more authentic and genuine. And I know with your live launch programs, you work with a ton of us. I'm wondering, coaching clients. So can you talk about what comes to mind when, let's go back to when you decided that the webinar or, and we do a lot of that even in network marketing was old school and how you discovered life being the way to create better community, create better connections and have more sales.</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Yeah, definitely. Well, you know, if I dial it back to where all of my original business success came from, I was literally going door to door business to business, working for a fortune 500 company doing sales. I literally would come in the office; I would pound the phones for four hours straight. Like literally didn't even put the phone down. It would rest on my shoulder in between calls until I got a headset. And, and then in the afternoon I would go out every day to 20 to 30 businesses. So, this was like hardcore, you know, sell it. Right? And, but what was really, really cool about it was Beth, when I could connect, you know, face to face, eyeball to eyeball, belly to belly with someone. I made the sale, you know? And then when I started my own business in 2012, I'm like, okay, cool.</p><p>Like social media is awesome. It's this amazing like interface and platform and all of that. But what I started noticing was happening was like all of these layers and layers of technology and barriers and things to manage were coming in, but I was new to the online space. So, as I grew my business, I was listening to the people that were teaching how to build business online. I was still taking the principles that I knew, but I was like, okay, how do I apply this to social media? How do I apply this to the online world? And so, I'm layering in all the tech and the funnels and the emails and the webinars and the prerecorded videos and the list goes on and it's just exhausting, and it just never really resonated for me. It never felt good. I never felt like I could show up.</p><p>Like right now I feel like I can like look you in the eyes, I can have a real conversation, we can connect with one another. I never once felt like I could connect with people. It's like it almost stole my superpower because I was so good at selling when I could connect with people. And then I felt like when I got into the online world, I had so many barriers between me and people that I lost my superpower. And so finally one day I was just like, screw this. I remember, you know, the girls are still on my team now that were with me and I was like, we're getting rid of it all. I'm like, I'm not doing any of that anymore. I'm like, it's ridiculous. It doesn't work. It's not working. You know, we worked so hard. So, I said, let's just try, like us and the camera.</p><p>Like let's just try like removing all of these obstacles and barriers and try to focus on connecting once again with people. And low and behold, the second that we made that change, our business started to grow and grow and grow exponentially because now all of my competitors are doing prerecorded videos and prerecorded videos and edited, you know, stuff with, you know, all this fake like, you know, you know what you see online. It's like all fabricated stories of the fairies and unicorns, right? And glitter and dust and then here I am, just this person that's teaching and sharing real stuff and people are getting value from it. And it just exploded. And then I was like, okay, this is too good not to teach. And that's how I started teaching the live launch method. It was really out of necessity because we were failing not out of like something so great that was working so well, but it's now really revolutionizing the way that people do business online. It's really cool.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>So, I'll share with our listeners because I've shared with you that I felt really called once. And I'm saying this to network marketers, that I see too many people attempting to coach before they've, what I think is the before you've made $1 million. So, I just thought, okay, I want to share what I've learned. That is not all of the magic tricks. Like I kept seeing like build your business with automation. Never get on the phone again. And I'm thinking we're changing people's lives. We've taken what we've learned from you, in terms of our network marketing team. We're now doing laser coaching sessions, so they get to work with a Million-dollar earner. We are, and we'll talk a little bit at the end. Kelly just challenged me to create a live launch. So, stay tuned for how we can share the business opportunity with more people using what we call the live launch.</p><p>So, some of you are thinking, what is live launch? And I want to give a little background of, I had invested so much money into thinking about how I could build out coaching programs and always got caught up in the tech, could not figure out how to put the Facebook pixel for an ad. And then it was overwhelming. I thought, screw it. I make plenty of money in network marketing, but my message, the amount of women that I can impact and help now is incredible, because that's my mission. So, I took a leap into live launch and literally just started sharing the tools and techniques, built a group and have women that I'm already working with in a program, and paid back my investment within 48 hours, which was insane. It's insane. It's crazy. So, we know it's magical and if you're wondering what is live launch? I want to connect those pieces to what we're doing in network marketing.</p><p>So, I'm going to give Kelly a hot seat right now because I've been in the hot seat. So, let's, let's just role play this. If I was going to, let's say I'm in the travel business, which I'm not, and people could make money with me either booking travel or setting up travel agents to work with them. Okay? And normally they'd hop on a webinar and I'd share all the slides, which took me all day to put together. I missed picking my daughter up from school because I'm putting together the slides and literally it felt like my drunk uncle was driving me around. But I've decided I'm going to do this, the live launch. Wait, we're like creating something right here on, on the spot. And so, what comes to mind if someone's listening and says, okay, I want to use Facebook Live to share what we're doing with this travel business. So how would live launch work for that?</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Yeah, definitely. Oh my gosh, I'm getting so excited. So, if it were me, the way that I would design the live launch would be like I would have part one of the content be you know, how to get your luxury travel paid for. Right? And never spend a dime while staying in the best resorts around the world. Right? So, it would be like you would teach them, the first thing that people want to do is they want to travel more, and they don't want to spend their life savings on it, right? So, you have to meet people where they are. Right? And then it might be like the second piece of content might be how I went from, you know, getting my travel paid for to getting paid to travel. Right? And then the third set might be how I went from getting my travel paid for to quitting my day job and being able to retire my spouse based on my travel, you know, my side travel business and then in might be how I can help you launch your own travel business, even in the pockets of your spare time, so that you can first get your travel paid for.</p><p>And then if you decide that you want this to be a moneymaking venture, you can, you know, turn it into a business where you can quit your day job, retire your spouse, travel the world, retire, whatever the case. But really what it is, is you start off by meeting people where they are and giving them the content that they really crave. Everybody wants to travel more. Everybody wants to get their travel paid for. How can someone do that? Right? They can get into a network marketing couple company that offers travel, right? Buy and do it. Start taking the trips themselves, get the trips paid for, invite other people to do it. How do you do that? You share content. When you travel, you show the beautiful pictures, you show the video, you do live streams from there talking about, I cannot believe it, but this is me working right now, right?</p><p>This is me working, I'm, you know, on the beach and you know, blah blah blah. I think it's just what we have to remember is that everybody in this day and age wants to feel connected. That is why we're on social media 24/7. But the problem is that, and scientific research shows this, although people are more connected than ever, they feel more disconnected than ever, right? But when you come live and when you teach and you add value for people and you show up in perfectly, that's a really important part. Like I let my dog in with me, I let my five-year-old daughter and with me, you know, like showing up in perfect is a huge piece of your human connection. That's going to get people really excited to buy into your brand because it gets them to open up to you to say, Oh, you know what? Beth is like human, like she's cool. You know, she's someone I want to get to know, right? She's not just this, you know, talking head on a white screen, you know, green screen behind her that's trying to present as you know, this, that and the other. So, I don't know if that answers kind of what you were looking.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Yeah. Oh my gosh. My brain like is triggering and I'm thinking, okay, so that, that was just one topic. So when you think about the pillars of what I've noticed in Unstoppable Entrepreneurs, and even in the free group is, this is where people stay in network marketing businesses is, you talked about community and connection. So, a lot of us out there have these groups where people are hanging out learning products and we're missing the boat. It's sell, sell, sell, special, special, special, buy my stuff, join my team. And it's turning people away. What would your suggestion be for people that have existing groups using some of these awesome live launch tools?</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Oh my gosh. So great. And this is so huge because I just did an interview with Michelle Bosh. She's in our program. She did a $300,000 launch her first month and Unstoppable because she leveraged her existing Facebook group that she had never really understood how to get maximum value out of. So, there's probably listeners right here right now that could be doing the same thing that just don't know. Like, you know, how do I take these pieces and make it work? I think exactly what you just described though; Beth is exactly what's been happening in the coaching space to be honest. I feel like, you know, there's so much selling and so much marketing that people forgot that we're here to serve.</p><p>So what I say is first of all, if you have a Facebook group, start doing a weekly live show, right? You know, obviously Beth works with me, so you know, I'm such a believer in this, but start doing a weekly live show where you're not selling anything. You're not asking for anything. You are focused on giving. You are showing up to serve. You are showing up to add value for the people in your group. You're setting the tone as the leader and the group of what your values are, what kind of leader you are and that people should come hang out in your group and spend time there because no one wants to hang out in a group where all they feel like they're getting promos and specials and sales and buy more, and you know, do this and do that. Like people want to feel like there's something in it for them, right?</p><p>There's a reason to come spend time here and as you said, Beth, they want community, real community, not just being in the group because it just so happened that someone's prospecting you to join their downline or you know they're in the group because you know, maybe at some point they've expressed an interest in a product. They actually want to feel a real sense of community. And the way that you create that is when you deliver compelling content that really meets people where they are and serves them in a really high level. What will happen is people start commenting on your chat and they start engaging with one another. They start getting to know other members of the group and now all of a sudden you have this dead group that you feel like you're pulling along on your shoulders to try and get people to engage to people.</p><p>Looking forward to your weekly live show, building relationships with one another, posting of their own volition in the group because there's like a dialogue going. I always say it's like playing catch, right? That's like you don't want it. No one wants to play catch with themselves. They want to play catch with someone else and if they feel like it's just a one sided, they're being hammered with offers and specials and sales and do this, and there is no reciprocity. You know they aren't going to invest. Whereas if you build that reciprocity and build it and build it, this is why you see me constantly. Every day I'm doing either a podcast video or podcast, a video, some piece of free content. I'm going in someone else's group. I'm going on someone else's show because you to build a brand, which you guys are not as network marketers, it's really, really important that you're building a personal brand. When someone thinks of you, you don't want them to think of the name of your company. You want them to think of you as a person and as a leader and how you're leading people that have the same philosophy and values that are in alignment with the company that you represent. Does that make sense?</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh absolutely. And that is, you know, it's going on six years since being in the industry. And I feel such a shift, that it is people are joining because it's, it's not necessarily, yes, people love the products, but there's a million products we could all love. But the thing that I think is so interesting is that you're given a distribution channel, right? So, if you looked at live launch as a way to create more interest, more excitement around your opportunity or product, the winning pieces, you don't have to build the website. You don't have to collect the money. You don't have to distribute the product. So, all you have to do is show up. And we did. We did this in a let's get physical challenge. You would had been so proud, like the proud coach. Because we did the exact pillars that you teach in your free content. Like you literally could watch and what is, there's one going on this, you know, timestamped now, but isn't there a way to get that content now?</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Yeah, I mean anybody who wants to get in the tribe, the next one we're doing and just a couple of weeks. I mean, we do it every couple of weeks. So, you know, anybody that wants to go through that free journey and then they can come to you to help them customize that content. Right? How does this work in network marketing? Right?</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Right. So, it's the tribe of Unstoppables, and Kelly and I just chatted before we started is, I'm already shifting. I have the 25 women that are going through the Profit Her Way program. Now we are going to live launch every single one of them, test it, see it for either opportunity, because I have a big travel group in there, so we just literally just wrote up the travel. We have a lot of health and wellness and so I'm so excited. Because my brain, I've started since working with you, every time someone is talking, I'll think, oh they should live launch that. Oh, they should…</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>It's so funny, because now I get phone calls and texts and pictures and messages from people like every day saying like I just told this person they need a live launch. Look for them. I just told this person I need to live lunch because everyone's just realizing like Holy crap, we've been doing it the hard way. Like the tools are there for all of us. You know what I mean?</p><p>Beth:</p><p>The tools are there and what I love is, I watched it the first round. This is, you might not know this. I watched it the first round and then didn't jump in to really digging in and learning. And then finally it was, and this is the big piece that sets you apart besides just personable, valuable content that works by the connection, is the accountability piece, is I have someone in my inbox saying, Hey, Beth let's chat. How's it going with your live launch? Let's do this. Not just a cheerleader. I mean she cheers for me every day, but accountability, and that is a big piece that is missing and the network marketing space. So, where did you come up with this idea, that Oh, people will sign up and pay for my program and they're going to be assigned an accountability coach?</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Yeah, I mean we want the Unstoppable Entrepreneur to be the best business incubator on the planet. Like I literally wake up every morning and I asked myself, how do I make this the Harvard of online business money-making? You know, I think everybody deserves to be able to have the freedom to, you know, put their family first and be financially free. And I've experienced the opposite. And then I've experienced where I am now and all I want to do so badly in my life is just bring people across that finish line, you know? So, what we realized is that it's not just about education, it's not just about information. It's not just about coaching, right? It's a coaching program. It's not just about coaching. It's also about the fact that life happens, right? We all have a lot on our plates. We all have families and other obligations.</p><p>Some people work a full-time job and they're building a business. Some people are running two companies, right? You can be caring for a sick parent. You have kids at home, whatever it is. And so, we realized that if we weren't dedicated to being in your face and in your inbox saying, Hey Beth, I haven't heard from you in a week and a half, are you okay? What's going on? You know, your live launch is coming up, you know, let's make sure things are okay. Let's get you on a hot seat. It's been a while. Whatever it is. We want to make sure that that commitment on our side is as high as we expect the commitment on your side to be. And I feel like that's a lot of what's lacking in the online world. And so instead of complaining about it, we're trying to be the change that we feel will be the catalyst and making a bigger difference for people.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love it. And that was huge for me, was even doing it before the first of the year, which is exciting because now we're going to take that even further and help these women too. And one man, it's Profit Her Way. But I had to say Profit Her/His Way. We had to vote him on the Island, and he made it. So, when you think about how your life looks now, because I am all about preaching that we have to block time in our calendar for joy, for self-care, for time with our kids. Because I didn't do that in the beginning. I was literally burning the candle from both ends missing really, really, really big events. And one day I read something that said, you want your husband, your kids to remember you as holding your phone or holding their hand? So, I preach be wherever your feet are, your multimillion-dollar entrepreneur who is so, so everybody knows Kelly Roach. But the thing that I love most about you, you do not have the hustle grind mentality. So, can you talk a little bit about that shift?</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Yeah, definitely. I mean I think coming from fortune 500 I've already experienced that burnout. I always say I feel like I lived a whole life in my twenties before I moved over, because I had such a high level of responsibility that I learned so much so quickly, and I feel like that really informed my decisions and my path when I started in the entrepreneurial world. And I joke all the time because people will be like, Oh my gosh, Kelly, you worked so hard all the time. Do you ever take a break? Do you ever take a vacation? I'm like, yes. I take seven vacations a year with my family. I take off on Fridays in the summer I'm at the pool. I feel like the difference between me and every other online entrepreneur is I don't pretend to take a vacation so that I can have a photo op and be working so that I can show that I took a vacation.</p><p>When I go on vacation, I'm not on my phone, my phone is off. It is locked in the safe for the week. I am present, I am with my family. And I think that's so important, right? You have to have that downtime. You know, I go out to dinner with my family at night and I'll leave my phone at home on purpose, because I know I run two companies. If the phone is with me, there's someone that needs me, but if it's not with me it will be there, you know, when I get back. So, I think just being really intentional, we have one vessel, one body. I woke up at five this morning, I did not want to work out and I was down there doing my little workout video, you know, getting ready for the day because I knew I'm going to be going hard and going straight through for you know, 10, 15 hours.</p><p>But it's those really conscious decisions about, you know, what do you want your life to look like? And I know for me, I want to make sure that when Madison is like graduating high school, going into college, getting married, like I want to be in great physical form. I want to be in really good energy. I want to be in a healthy mental state. And so, I'm thinking 15 years, Madison’s five, just for everybody. You know, I'm thinking five and 15 years down the road, and I'm making my decisions today based on the person that I want to be when that time comes. And I think it's really important that as entrepreneurs we're thinking that way because it will take everything from you, entrepreneurship and building a business, because you care so deeply, because it is your passion. It will take everything that you give. So, unless you learn to set real hard boundaries for yourself and have a high level of discipline around that, you will always succumb to that. So, it's a learning that I think we all go through. But I think it's one of the most important things that you can learn as an entrepreneur, because your energy is everything, right? And you can't fake energy. Like you can try to show up in a certain way. People see right through it.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>It's that whole vibration they sense the energy. So, I always like to end the podcast with one question and you guys, I gave her no pregame session here. So, everything like, learning that travel piece hot seat is, and this is the piece that is a big mystery for many. And I know that you work so hard and you help us so much, with not only the strategies, the tools, but also what really has to happen between desire, belief and commitment. So, many of the people invest in your program and you will see some do $100,000 launch and some just not take that action. It's just always something. They have the desire. At one point they had the belief, what separates the people that in network marketing, I see it too. I'm all in. I'm all in. And there are some that do and some that don't. What is your belief about that?</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Yeah. And it's so tough. I mean, we could do a whole show on this, but I'll give you a couple things. You know, number one, it's total ownership, right? You either believe that everything is happening to you or you believe that everything's happening for you. Amen. And that is it. Period. End of story. I mean, I am in an of the belief that we are wholly and completely responsible for everything that is or isn't in our lives. And the actions that we take every single day are the outcomes that we create, right? And I think when you have that mindset, you couldn't possibly not get up in the morning. And do the work because everything is possible, but also everything is, is up for grabs. Like you, you can't expect it if you aren't working. Right? So, I think that that ownership piece is huge.</p><p>But I think the second piece is people that are called to something bigger than themselves, right? Because I think that it's enough to drive short term behaviors when you want to, you know, get the next payday, you want to get the next client, you want to, you know, pay your mortgage for the month. Like that's one thing, right? And, there is a hierarchy of needs. Like we all start down at the bottom of the hierarchy. But to show up consistently every single day, you have to be fighting for something bigger than yourself. Whether it's your family, whether it's your legacy, whether it's the people that you want to impact, the causes that you care about, you know, whatever it is, there has to be something bigger than you that you're working towards and fighting for. And that way on the days when you don't feel like showing up and the days where you don't feel good or you don't want to get on camera or whatever it is, you have something that's like, now you got to keep going, right?</p><p>There's something you're doing it for. So, you know, it's always so cliché because people always say you have to find your why, and like I hate that advice because I feel like it gets twisted and manipulated a lot. But at the end of the day, you do need to know that why? Like my family is my everything, right? Like I make every decision with family first. And so, like when I got up this morning and I was thinking about working out, I wasn't thinking about myself. I was thinking about how am I going to feel after working for 10 hours when Madison gets home from school today and what person am I going to be? And I know I'm going to be a better, happier version of myself if I work out this morning. Right? So, it's like something bigger than you even in the little thing.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love that. I love that. And it wasn't until that I pushed the beyond, that the money piece, the financial freedom and knowing what foundation I wanted to build, and what my bigger mission and larger mission and we'll, we're going to add yours in the show notes so people can read about the work that you're doing. That's way beyond how much, you know, being a multimillion-dollar entrepreneur. We'll add that for people to see. And also, one more time, because you have so much free content that network marketers can apply to, and we're going to rewrite it for you guys. Don't worry. It's coming. We're going to rewrite how you can look at your recruiting, how you can look at your product sales using the live launch method. I've just decided, I'm like looking at my blank whiteboard. It's going there. And so, explain again how to find you, how to find the unstoppable entrepreneurs. Well, it's the tribe of Unstoppables that is the free group, right?</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Definitely. So, yeah, I mean, you guys can just go onto Facebook and search Tribal Unstoppables, we usually run the free workshop like once every six weeks. My recommendation for everyone listening is come through our next round and then immediately go to Beth and be like, help me make this work for network marketing. Right? And I think if you bring those two things together, and I know with what Beth has up her sleeve, she's going to be changing the face of how you guys launch. So, I'm very excited to see where that goes and where you arrive. But yeah, of course we would welcome anyone into the tribe. And you know, I'm excited, I think there's a massive opportunity for, you know, I always say, I know we're wrapping up, but I just want to make one comment before we wrap. I always say that if kids, as soon as they became a working age, were educated about the opportunity of network marketing, we'd have no homeless people. We'd not have no jobless people, we'd have no one that is graduating college with hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt. The opportunity in network marketing is unbelievable. And kudos to all of you guys that are listening to the show. They're taking that and bringing it out into the world because it really can change so many lives and makes such a huge difference for people.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love, I love that. And I always say too, it's the best training to become an entrepreneur because you get to learn about building community culture, marketing lives, money, though the energy…we have so many topics. We're going to have to have a part two.</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>I know…We'll have to set that up.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>So as soon as we get the live launch, I've got three that I think that we can get that ready to go. I'm going to check back with you because we could do some really fun things together on helping network marketers with that live launch method. So, I'm excited. Thank you, Kelly, for being on today.</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Thank you so much for having me.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Well that's a wrap and thank you so much for being with us today! Is Kelly not the most extraordinary human? I love hearing her speak. I wish I could just stay with her all day and climb inside of that brilliant brain of hers. So what we talked about today in the live launch method; using it to grow your network marketing business. This is one of our big pieces, our big modules and Profit Her Way, which is teaching you to build a business you love, that doesn't steal all of your time and joy, but gives you your own marketing, your own profit plan. This is my six month mastermind and doors are open. If you want more information, please go to <a href="https://bethholdengraves.com/profit" target="_blank">bethholdengraves.com/profit</a>. Thanks so much for being with us today, and as always be you bravely.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging with me today on the podcast and remember, you can create what you crave. If you're looking for a supportive sisterhood, I would love to see you over in our free Facebook group. As most of you know, I love camp. It's part of, 'You're Not the Boss of Me' because when we're building this thing, we're doing this thing. We need a supportive sisterhood and I also crave more fun and more connection. Join us at camp over in the Facebook world, <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com" target="_blank">thecampelevategroup.com</a> or just click on the link above and we will see you around our campfire and help you to create what you crave.</p><p> </p><p> </p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Learn More About The Content Discussed...</strong></p><ul><li>No Boss Talk:<a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></li><li>Kelly Roach’s Website:<a href="https://kellyroachcoaching.com">https://kellyroachcoaching.com</a></li><li>Kelly Roach on Facebook:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/kellyroachinternational">https://www.facebook.com/kellyroachinternational</a></li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">here</a></li><li>Beth’s Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth’s website:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></li></ul><p><strong>Keynotes discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>Now I feel like I can like look you in the eyes, I can have a real conversation, we can connect with one another. I never once felt like I could connect with people. It's like it almost stole my superpower because I was so good at selling when I could connect with people. (07:16)</li><li>If you decide that you want this to be a moneymaking venture, you can, you know, turn it into a business where you can quit your day job, retire your spouse, travel the world, retire, whatever the case. (12:34)</li><li>She did a $300,000 launch her first month and unstoppable because she leveraged her existing Facebook group that she had never really understood how to get maximum value out of. (15:22)</li><li>The way that you create that is when you deliver compelling content that really meets people where they are and serves them in a really high level. (16:52)</li><li>And this is the big piece that sets you apart besides just personable, valuable content that works by the connection is the accountability piece is, I have someone in my inbox saying, Hey, Beth let's chat. (20:39)</li></ul><p><strong>When Did It Air...</strong></p><p>January 20, 2020</p><p><strong>Episode Transcript...</strong></p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Hey bosses and welcome back. Another episode that I'm saying, oh my goodness, pinch me, how did I get this opportunity? I guess it happened because I visualized, manifested and just decided I will have Kelly Roach on the show. And it is happening! I'm excited for you to dive into this episode. A little bit about Kelly is, she is known as the Business Catalyst helping elite business owners become game changers in their field, achieving million-dollar breakthroughs in business. She has helped me to have my own personal breakthrough and you'll hear about that in this episode.</p><p>She is a former fortune 500 executive and she transitioned from her big, big job in fortune 500 to working with online strategies for entrepreneurs. I am so grateful that she made this transition so that she could be accessible to all of us with her live launch strategies. She's been featured in every major publication on every major news station and now on You're Not the Boss of Me podcast. She has her own podcast too, which is called Unstoppable Success Radio. I listened to it without fail every single time when an episode drops. I cannot wait for you to hear what Kelly has to say. And trust me, you will want to hear about how the live launch method can help you grow your online or network marketing business. So, are you ready, bosses? Here we go.</p><p>All right, everyone welcome. And you can't even imagine how excited I am to have like my girl crush idle with me. It's like when she said yes, I felt like, Oh my gosh. So, Kelly Roach, welcome.</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Thank you so much for having me. I'm excited to be here.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>So, I found you when I was scrolling Facebook one day and I saw this perky video about how we could use live video, to sell without being weird, spammy, all of those things. And I was so curious because most of our listeners are network marketers who are looking to be more authentic and genuine. And I know with your live launch programs, you work with a ton of us. I'm wondering, coaching clients. So can you talk about what comes to mind when, let's go back to when you decided that the webinar or, and we do a lot of that even in network marketing was old school and how you discovered life being the way to create better community, create better connections and have more sales.</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Yeah, definitely. Well, you know, if I dial it back to where all of my original business success came from, I was literally going door to door business to business, working for a fortune 500 company doing sales. I literally would come in the office; I would pound the phones for four hours straight. Like literally didn't even put the phone down. It would rest on my shoulder in between calls until I got a headset. And, and then in the afternoon I would go out every day to 20 to 30 businesses. So, this was like hardcore, you know, sell it. Right? And, but what was really, really cool about it was Beth, when I could connect, you know, face to face, eyeball to eyeball, belly to belly with someone. I made the sale, you know? And then when I started my own business in 2012, I'm like, okay, cool.</p><p>Like social media is awesome. It's this amazing like interface and platform and all of that. But what I started noticing was happening was like all of these layers and layers of technology and barriers and things to manage were coming in, but I was new to the online space. So, as I grew my business, I was listening to the people that were teaching how to build business online. I was still taking the principles that I knew, but I was like, okay, how do I apply this to social media? How do I apply this to the online world? And so, I'm layering in all the tech and the funnels and the emails and the webinars and the prerecorded videos and the list goes on and it's just exhausting, and it just never really resonated for me. It never felt good. I never felt like I could show up.</p><p>Like right now I feel like I can like look you in the eyes, I can have a real conversation, we can connect with one another. I never once felt like I could connect with people. It's like it almost stole my superpower because I was so good at selling when I could connect with people. And then I felt like when I got into the online world, I had so many barriers between me and people that I lost my superpower. And so finally one day I was just like, screw this. I remember, you know, the girls are still on my team now that were with me and I was like, we're getting rid of it all. I'm like, I'm not doing any of that anymore. I'm like, it's ridiculous. It doesn't work. It's not working. You know, we worked so hard. So, I said, let's just try, like us and the camera.</p><p>Like let's just try like removing all of these obstacles and barriers and try to focus on connecting once again with people. And low and behold, the second that we made that change, our business started to grow and grow and grow exponentially because now all of my competitors are doing prerecorded videos and prerecorded videos and edited, you know, stuff with, you know, all this fake like, you know, you know what you see online. It's like all fabricated stories of the fairies and unicorns, right? And glitter and dust and then here I am, just this person that's teaching and sharing real stuff and people are getting value from it. And it just exploded. And then I was like, okay, this is too good not to teach. And that's how I started teaching the live launch method. It was really out of necessity because we were failing not out of like something so great that was working so well, but it's now really revolutionizing the way that people do business online. It's really cool.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>So, I'll share with our listeners because I've shared with you that I felt really called once. And I'm saying this to network marketers, that I see too many people attempting to coach before they've, what I think is the before you've made $1 million. So, I just thought, okay, I want to share what I've learned. That is not all of the magic tricks. Like I kept seeing like build your business with automation. Never get on the phone again. And I'm thinking we're changing people's lives. We've taken what we've learned from you, in terms of our network marketing team. We're now doing laser coaching sessions, so they get to work with a Million-dollar earner. We are, and we'll talk a little bit at the end. Kelly just challenged me to create a live launch. So, stay tuned for how we can share the business opportunity with more people using what we call the live launch.</p><p>So, some of you are thinking, what is live launch? And I want to give a little background of, I had invested so much money into thinking about how I could build out coaching programs and always got caught up in the tech, could not figure out how to put the Facebook pixel for an ad. And then it was overwhelming. I thought, screw it. I make plenty of money in network marketing, but my message, the amount of women that I can impact and help now is incredible, because that's my mission. So, I took a leap into live launch and literally just started sharing the tools and techniques, built a group and have women that I'm already working with in a program, and paid back my investment within 48 hours, which was insane. It's insane. It's crazy. So, we know it's magical and if you're wondering what is live launch? I want to connect those pieces to what we're doing in network marketing.</p><p>So, I'm going to give Kelly a hot seat right now because I've been in the hot seat. So, let's, let's just role play this. If I was going to, let's say I'm in the travel business, which I'm not, and people could make money with me either booking travel or setting up travel agents to work with them. Okay? And normally they'd hop on a webinar and I'd share all the slides, which took me all day to put together. I missed picking my daughter up from school because I'm putting together the slides and literally it felt like my drunk uncle was driving me around. But I've decided I'm going to do this, the live launch. Wait, we're like creating something right here on, on the spot. And so, what comes to mind if someone's listening and says, okay, I want to use Facebook Live to share what we're doing with this travel business. So how would live launch work for that?</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Yeah, definitely. Oh my gosh, I'm getting so excited. So, if it were me, the way that I would design the live launch would be like I would have part one of the content be you know, how to get your luxury travel paid for. Right? And never spend a dime while staying in the best resorts around the world. Right? So, it would be like you would teach them, the first thing that people want to do is they want to travel more, and they don't want to spend their life savings on it, right? So, you have to meet people where they are. Right? And then it might be like the second piece of content might be how I went from, you know, getting my travel paid for to getting paid to travel. Right? And then the third set might be how I went from getting my travel paid for to quitting my day job and being able to retire my spouse based on my travel, you know, my side travel business and then in might be how I can help you launch your own travel business, even in the pockets of your spare time, so that you can first get your travel paid for.</p><p>And then if you decide that you want this to be a moneymaking venture, you can, you know, turn it into a business where you can quit your day job, retire your spouse, travel the world, retire, whatever the case. But really what it is, is you start off by meeting people where they are and giving them the content that they really crave. Everybody wants to travel more. Everybody wants to get their travel paid for. How can someone do that? Right? They can get into a network marketing couple company that offers travel, right? Buy and do it. Start taking the trips themselves, get the trips paid for, invite other people to do it. How do you do that? You share content. When you travel, you show the beautiful pictures, you show the video, you do live streams from there talking about, I cannot believe it, but this is me working right now, right?</p><p>This is me working, I'm, you know, on the beach and you know, blah blah blah. I think it's just what we have to remember is that everybody in this day and age wants to feel connected. That is why we're on social media 24/7. But the problem is that, and scientific research shows this, although people are more connected than ever, they feel more disconnected than ever, right? But when you come live and when you teach and you add value for people and you show up in perfectly, that's a really important part. Like I let my dog in with me, I let my five-year-old daughter and with me, you know, like showing up in perfect is a huge piece of your human connection. That's going to get people really excited to buy into your brand because it gets them to open up to you to say, Oh, you know what? Beth is like human, like she's cool. You know, she's someone I want to get to know, right? She's not just this, you know, talking head on a white screen, you know, green screen behind her that's trying to present as you know, this, that and the other. So, I don't know if that answers kind of what you were looking.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Yeah. Oh my gosh. My brain like is triggering and I'm thinking, okay, so that, that was just one topic. So when you think about the pillars of what I've noticed in Unstoppable Entrepreneurs, and even in the free group is, this is where people stay in network marketing businesses is, you talked about community and connection. So, a lot of us out there have these groups where people are hanging out learning products and we're missing the boat. It's sell, sell, sell, special, special, special, buy my stuff, join my team. And it's turning people away. What would your suggestion be for people that have existing groups using some of these awesome live launch tools?</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Oh my gosh. So great. And this is so huge because I just did an interview with Michelle Bosh. She's in our program. She did a $300,000 launch her first month and Unstoppable because she leveraged her existing Facebook group that she had never really understood how to get maximum value out of. So, there's probably listeners right here right now that could be doing the same thing that just don't know. Like, you know, how do I take these pieces and make it work? I think exactly what you just described though; Beth is exactly what's been happening in the coaching space to be honest. I feel like, you know, there's so much selling and so much marketing that people forgot that we're here to serve.</p><p>So what I say is first of all, if you have a Facebook group, start doing a weekly live show, right? You know, obviously Beth works with me, so you know, I'm such a believer in this, but start doing a weekly live show where you're not selling anything. You're not asking for anything. You are focused on giving. You are showing up to serve. You are showing up to add value for the people in your group. You're setting the tone as the leader and the group of what your values are, what kind of leader you are and that people should come hang out in your group and spend time there because no one wants to hang out in a group where all they feel like they're getting promos and specials and sales and buy more, and you know, do this and do that. Like people want to feel like there's something in it for them, right?</p><p>There's a reason to come spend time here and as you said, Beth, they want community, real community, not just being in the group because it just so happened that someone's prospecting you to join their downline or you know they're in the group because you know, maybe at some point they've expressed an interest in a product. They actually want to feel a real sense of community. And the way that you create that is when you deliver compelling content that really meets people where they are and serves them in a really high level. What will happen is people start commenting on your chat and they start engaging with one another. They start getting to know other members of the group and now all of a sudden you have this dead group that you feel like you're pulling along on your shoulders to try and get people to engage to people.</p><p>Looking forward to your weekly live show, building relationships with one another, posting of their own volition in the group because there's like a dialogue going. I always say it's like playing catch, right? That's like you don't want it. No one wants to play catch with themselves. They want to play catch with someone else and if they feel like it's just a one sided, they're being hammered with offers and specials and sales and do this, and there is no reciprocity. You know they aren't going to invest. Whereas if you build that reciprocity and build it and build it, this is why you see me constantly. Every day I'm doing either a podcast video or podcast, a video, some piece of free content. I'm going in someone else's group. I'm going on someone else's show because you to build a brand, which you guys are not as network marketers, it's really, really important that you're building a personal brand. When someone thinks of you, you don't want them to think of the name of your company. You want them to think of you as a person and as a leader and how you're leading people that have the same philosophy and values that are in alignment with the company that you represent. Does that make sense?</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh absolutely. And that is, you know, it's going on six years since being in the industry. And I feel such a shift, that it is people are joining because it's, it's not necessarily, yes, people love the products, but there's a million products we could all love. But the thing that I think is so interesting is that you're given a distribution channel, right? So, if you looked at live launch as a way to create more interest, more excitement around your opportunity or product, the winning pieces, you don't have to build the website. You don't have to collect the money. You don't have to distribute the product. So, all you have to do is show up. And we did. We did this in a let's get physical challenge. You would had been so proud, like the proud coach. Because we did the exact pillars that you teach in your free content. Like you literally could watch and what is, there's one going on this, you know, timestamped now, but isn't there a way to get that content now?</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Yeah, I mean anybody who wants to get in the tribe, the next one we're doing and just a couple of weeks. I mean, we do it every couple of weeks. So, you know, anybody that wants to go through that free journey and then they can come to you to help them customize that content. Right? How does this work in network marketing? Right?</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Right. So, it's the tribe of Unstoppables, and Kelly and I just chatted before we started is, I'm already shifting. I have the 25 women that are going through the Profit Her Way program. Now we are going to live launch every single one of them, test it, see it for either opportunity, because I have a big travel group in there, so we just literally just wrote up the travel. We have a lot of health and wellness and so I'm so excited. Because my brain, I've started since working with you, every time someone is talking, I'll think, oh they should live launch that. Oh, they should…</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>It's so funny, because now I get phone calls and texts and pictures and messages from people like every day saying like I just told this person they need a live launch. Look for them. I just told this person I need to live lunch because everyone's just realizing like Holy crap, we've been doing it the hard way. Like the tools are there for all of us. You know what I mean?</p><p>Beth:</p><p>The tools are there and what I love is, I watched it the first round. This is, you might not know this. I watched it the first round and then didn't jump in to really digging in and learning. And then finally it was, and this is the big piece that sets you apart besides just personable, valuable content that works by the connection, is the accountability piece, is I have someone in my inbox saying, Hey, Beth let's chat. How's it going with your live launch? Let's do this. Not just a cheerleader. I mean she cheers for me every day, but accountability, and that is a big piece that is missing and the network marketing space. So, where did you come up with this idea, that Oh, people will sign up and pay for my program and they're going to be assigned an accountability coach?</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Yeah, I mean we want the Unstoppable Entrepreneur to be the best business incubator on the planet. Like I literally wake up every morning and I asked myself, how do I make this the Harvard of online business money-making? You know, I think everybody deserves to be able to have the freedom to, you know, put their family first and be financially free. And I've experienced the opposite. And then I've experienced where I am now and all I want to do so badly in my life is just bring people across that finish line, you know? So, what we realized is that it's not just about education, it's not just about information. It's not just about coaching, right? It's a coaching program. It's not just about coaching. It's also about the fact that life happens, right? We all have a lot on our plates. We all have families and other obligations.</p><p>Some people work a full-time job and they're building a business. Some people are running two companies, right? You can be caring for a sick parent. You have kids at home, whatever it is. And so, we realized that if we weren't dedicated to being in your face and in your inbox saying, Hey Beth, I haven't heard from you in a week and a half, are you okay? What's going on? You know, your live launch is coming up, you know, let's make sure things are okay. Let's get you on a hot seat. It's been a while. Whatever it is. We want to make sure that that commitment on our side is as high as we expect the commitment on your side to be. And I feel like that's a lot of what's lacking in the online world. And so instead of complaining about it, we're trying to be the change that we feel will be the catalyst and making a bigger difference for people.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love it. And that was huge for me, was even doing it before the first of the year, which is exciting because now we're going to take that even further and help these women too. And one man, it's Profit Her Way. But I had to say Profit Her/His Way. We had to vote him on the Island, and he made it. So, when you think about how your life looks now, because I am all about preaching that we have to block time in our calendar for joy, for self-care, for time with our kids. Because I didn't do that in the beginning. I was literally burning the candle from both ends missing really, really, really big events. And one day I read something that said, you want your husband, your kids to remember you as holding your phone or holding their hand? So, I preach be wherever your feet are, your multimillion-dollar entrepreneur who is so, so everybody knows Kelly Roach. But the thing that I love most about you, you do not have the hustle grind mentality. So, can you talk a little bit about that shift?</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Yeah, definitely. I mean I think coming from fortune 500 I've already experienced that burnout. I always say I feel like I lived a whole life in my twenties before I moved over, because I had such a high level of responsibility that I learned so much so quickly, and I feel like that really informed my decisions and my path when I started in the entrepreneurial world. And I joke all the time because people will be like, Oh my gosh, Kelly, you worked so hard all the time. Do you ever take a break? Do you ever take a vacation? I'm like, yes. I take seven vacations a year with my family. I take off on Fridays in the summer I'm at the pool. I feel like the difference between me and every other online entrepreneur is I don't pretend to take a vacation so that I can have a photo op and be working so that I can show that I took a vacation.</p><p>When I go on vacation, I'm not on my phone, my phone is off. It is locked in the safe for the week. I am present, I am with my family. And I think that's so important, right? You have to have that downtime. You know, I go out to dinner with my family at night and I'll leave my phone at home on purpose, because I know I run two companies. If the phone is with me, there's someone that needs me, but if it's not with me it will be there, you know, when I get back. So, I think just being really intentional, we have one vessel, one body. I woke up at five this morning, I did not want to work out and I was down there doing my little workout video, you know, getting ready for the day because I knew I'm going to be going hard and going straight through for you know, 10, 15 hours.</p><p>But it's those really conscious decisions about, you know, what do you want your life to look like? And I know for me, I want to make sure that when Madison is like graduating high school, going into college, getting married, like I want to be in great physical form. I want to be in really good energy. I want to be in a healthy mental state. And so, I'm thinking 15 years, Madison’s five, just for everybody. You know, I'm thinking five and 15 years down the road, and I'm making my decisions today based on the person that I want to be when that time comes. And I think it's really important that as entrepreneurs we're thinking that way because it will take everything from you, entrepreneurship and building a business, because you care so deeply, because it is your passion. It will take everything that you give. So, unless you learn to set real hard boundaries for yourself and have a high level of discipline around that, you will always succumb to that. So, it's a learning that I think we all go through. But I think it's one of the most important things that you can learn as an entrepreneur, because your energy is everything, right? And you can't fake energy. Like you can try to show up in a certain way. People see right through it.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>It's that whole vibration they sense the energy. So, I always like to end the podcast with one question and you guys, I gave her no pregame session here. So, everything like, learning that travel piece hot seat is, and this is the piece that is a big mystery for many. And I know that you work so hard and you help us so much, with not only the strategies, the tools, but also what really has to happen between desire, belief and commitment. So, many of the people invest in your program and you will see some do $100,000 launch and some just not take that action. It's just always something. They have the desire. At one point they had the belief, what separates the people that in network marketing, I see it too. I'm all in. I'm all in. And there are some that do and some that don't. What is your belief about that?</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Yeah. And it's so tough. I mean, we could do a whole show on this, but I'll give you a couple things. You know, number one, it's total ownership, right? You either believe that everything is happening to you or you believe that everything's happening for you. Amen. And that is it. Period. End of story. I mean, I am in an of the belief that we are wholly and completely responsible for everything that is or isn't in our lives. And the actions that we take every single day are the outcomes that we create, right? And I think when you have that mindset, you couldn't possibly not get up in the morning. And do the work because everything is possible, but also everything is, is up for grabs. Like you, you can't expect it if you aren't working. Right? So, I think that that ownership piece is huge.</p><p>But I think the second piece is people that are called to something bigger than themselves, right? Because I think that it's enough to drive short term behaviors when you want to, you know, get the next payday, you want to get the next client, you want to, you know, pay your mortgage for the month. Like that's one thing, right? And, there is a hierarchy of needs. Like we all start down at the bottom of the hierarchy. But to show up consistently every single day, you have to be fighting for something bigger than yourself. Whether it's your family, whether it's your legacy, whether it's the people that you want to impact, the causes that you care about, you know, whatever it is, there has to be something bigger than you that you're working towards and fighting for. And that way on the days when you don't feel like showing up and the days where you don't feel good or you don't want to get on camera or whatever it is, you have something that's like, now you got to keep going, right?</p><p>There's something you're doing it for. So, you know, it's always so cliché because people always say you have to find your why, and like I hate that advice because I feel like it gets twisted and manipulated a lot. But at the end of the day, you do need to know that why? Like my family is my everything, right? Like I make every decision with family first. And so, like when I got up this morning and I was thinking about working out, I wasn't thinking about myself. I was thinking about how am I going to feel after working for 10 hours when Madison gets home from school today and what person am I going to be? And I know I'm going to be a better, happier version of myself if I work out this morning. Right? So, it's like something bigger than you even in the little thing.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love that. I love that. And it wasn't until that I pushed the beyond, that the money piece, the financial freedom and knowing what foundation I wanted to build, and what my bigger mission and larger mission and we'll, we're going to add yours in the show notes so people can read about the work that you're doing. That's way beyond how much, you know, being a multimillion-dollar entrepreneur. We'll add that for people to see. And also, one more time, because you have so much free content that network marketers can apply to, and we're going to rewrite it for you guys. Don't worry. It's coming. We're going to rewrite how you can look at your recruiting, how you can look at your product sales using the live launch method. I've just decided, I'm like looking at my blank whiteboard. It's going there. And so, explain again how to find you, how to find the unstoppable entrepreneurs. Well, it's the tribe of Unstoppables that is the free group, right?</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Definitely. So, yeah, I mean, you guys can just go onto Facebook and search Tribal Unstoppables, we usually run the free workshop like once every six weeks. My recommendation for everyone listening is come through our next round and then immediately go to Beth and be like, help me make this work for network marketing. Right? And I think if you bring those two things together, and I know with what Beth has up her sleeve, she's going to be changing the face of how you guys launch. So, I'm very excited to see where that goes and where you arrive. But yeah, of course we would welcome anyone into the tribe. And you know, I'm excited, I think there's a massive opportunity for, you know, I always say, I know we're wrapping up, but I just want to make one comment before we wrap. I always say that if kids, as soon as they became a working age, were educated about the opportunity of network marketing, we'd have no homeless people. We'd not have no jobless people, we'd have no one that is graduating college with hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt. The opportunity in network marketing is unbelievable. And kudos to all of you guys that are listening to the show. They're taking that and bringing it out into the world because it really can change so many lives and makes such a huge difference for people.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love, I love that. And I always say too, it's the best training to become an entrepreneur because you get to learn about building community culture, marketing lives, money, though the energy…we have so many topics. We're going to have to have a part two.</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>I know…We'll have to set that up.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>So as soon as we get the live launch, I've got three that I think that we can get that ready to go. I'm going to check back with you because we could do some really fun things together on helping network marketers with that live launch method. So, I'm excited. Thank you, Kelly, for being on today.</p><p>Kelly:</p><p>Thank you so much for having me.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Well that's a wrap and thank you so much for being with us today! Is Kelly not the most extraordinary human? I love hearing her speak. I wish I could just stay with her all day and climb inside of that brilliant brain of hers. So what we talked about today in the live launch method; using it to grow your network marketing business. This is one of our big pieces, our big modules and Profit Her Way, which is teaching you to build a business you love, that doesn't steal all of your time and joy, but gives you your own marketing, your own profit plan. This is my six month mastermind and doors are open. If you want more information, please go to <a href="https://bethholdengraves.com/profit" target="_blank">bethholdengraves.com/profit</a>. Thanks so much for being with us today, and as always be you bravely.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging with me today on the podcast and remember, you can create what you crave. If you're looking for a supportive sisterhood, I would love to see you over in our free Facebook group. As most of you know, I love camp. It's part of, 'You're Not the Boss of Me' because when we're building this thing, we're doing this thing. We need a supportive sisterhood and I also crave more fun and more connection. Join us at camp over in the Facebook world, <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com" target="_blank">thecampelevategroup.com</a> or just click on the link above and we will see you around our campfire and help you to create what you crave.</p><p> </p><p> </p>
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      <itunes:summary>Hey bosses and welcome back. Another episode that I&apos;m saying, oh my goodness, pinch me, how did I get this opportunity? I guess it happened because I visualized, manifested and just decided I will have Kelly Roach on the show. And it is happening! I&apos;m excited for you to dive into this episode. A little bit about Kelly is, she is known as the Business Catalyst helping elite business owners become game changers in their field, achieving million-dollar breakthroughs in business. She has helped me to have my own personal breakthrough and you&apos;ll hear about that in this episode. 

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She is a former fortune 500 executive and she transitioned from her big, big job in fortune 500 to working with online strategies for entrepreneurs. I am so grateful that she made this transition so that she could be accessible to all of us with her live launch strategies. She&apos;s been featured in every major publication on every major news station and now on You&apos;re Not the Boss of Me podcast. She has her own podcast too, which is called Unstoppable Success Radio. I listened to it without fail every single time when an episode drops. I cannot wait for you to hear what Kelly has to say. And trust me, you will want to hear about how the live launch method can help you grow your online or network marketing business. So, are you ready, bosses? Here we go. 

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Kelly Roach is known as THE BUSINESS CATALYST, helping elite business owners become game changers in their field and achieve million dollar +  breakthroughs in their business.
 
As a former Fortune 500 executive who built and led record-breaking teams in 17 locations around the US,  Kelly&apos;s programs and consulting encompass billion dollar corporate strategies combined with the speed and agility of the most powerful online strategies of today.
 
Kelly is a featured expert on ABC, NBC, Fox, the CW and in some of the world&apos;s leading publications such as Inc. and Forbes where she shares the principles of her best-selling books and host of top 100 Marketing and Management podcast, Unstoppable Success Radio.

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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Learn more about the content discussed...</strong></p><ul><li>No Boss Talk:<a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></li><li>Tim Farrant’s Website: <a href="https://networkmarketinghusband.com/">https://networkmarketinghusband.com</a></li><li>Tim Farrant’s Book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Shes-Selling-What-Skeptical-Supporting-ebook/dp/B07Q3SNNYS">https://www.amazon.com/Shes-Selling-What</a></li><li>Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">here</a></li><li>Beth’s Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth’s website:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profitherway">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></li></ul><p><strong>Keynotes discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>I was really my wife's obstacle for the first few months that she was doing this business. I did not make it easy for her and I've apologized to her for that. And yet she persevere through and she crushed it and she's doing great. (05:01)</li><li>Getting the husband to understand that compensation plan by someone who's been successful and can answer their questions. (10:01)</li><li>When we don't include the spouse in that, we're kind of setting ourselves up for more obstacles than we need to or even for failure. (12:57)</li><li>And so you are going to put in a lot of work early on to build the business and then ultimately as you stick with it and you don't quit, you know, you keep going. Then ultimately the income far exceeds the hours that you're putting in. (17:06)</li><li>I tell a lot of women when I have opportunities like this, to have these conversations that if your husband or partner believes or thinks that you're going to quit, they're not going to get on board. (20:39)</li></ul><p><strong>When Did It Air...</strong><br />January 06, 2020</p><p><strong>Episode Transcript...</strong></p><p>Beth:<br />Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Hey bosses and welcome back. It is episode number 20 is that so exciting? It is for me. I hope you're as excited as I am. And this week in honor of episode 20 we are doing a giveaway, and this is all you need to do to get boss swag in the mail from us. It's Mandy, my boss that mails it out. So, what you're going to do is leave a rating and review. If you've already left a rating and review, share this on your Facebook or in your Instagram stories and just send me a DM over on Instagram or over on Facebook messenger or sent to our email that's listed in the show notes and just say, I shared it. Let us know how and when. And we will send you our brand-new boss swag that you are going to love. So, I want to read to you from Bridget a review for this week and she says, thank you for this podcast.</p><p>Beth:<br />I love the energy Beth brings. Every time I listen to her, it seems to be spot on. Always the message I'm needing to hear. And that leaves me anxiously waiting for the next one. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you, Bridget, for this review and I am hoping that this episode is exactly what you need to hear today. So, without further ado, let me tell you what we're doing on episode number 20 it's a privilege for me to have Tim Farrant with us today. He is the author of, She’s Selling What? a skeptical husband's guide to supporting his network marketing wife. So, he will talk to us about how to have those conversations with your spouse, his story about helping and watching and supporting his wife's Epic rise in network marketing and his own journey from shock and skepticism to understanding and support. And you are going to love the actual ideas and spot on things that he's going to help you to do.</p><p>Beth:<br />That not only will help your spouse and your family to understand your network marketing journey, but to have a better marriage overall. So here we go with Tim. I can't wait for you to hear his story. Hey everyone. I am so excited today because, well, the last time Tim and I were together, we had like a cosmic disruption in our interview. And as you heard in the intro, Tim is the author of, She's Selling What, and I'm so excited for you to not only hear about how this book and this movement came about, but also most of my listeners, I have a few, a few guys out there. And women, and I hear so often, I'm not sure how to talk to my husband. I didn't really tell him I was doing this thing. And Tim is here to give you guys all of the behind the scenes, how to make sure that it's a partnership to get your spouse on board and also to create something together, not just as you know, you up in your office, your husband downstairs feeling annoyed, irritated and agitated because I've been there. So, Tim, welcome.</p><p>Tim:<br />Thank you. Thank you. Thank you so much for having me. I'm excited to be here.</p><p>Beth:<br />All right, so we know that your wife has had a meteoric rise in the industry. So, can you take us back at the end? Not the end, but it's like the beginning of the next phase. You have this amazing resource, this book you're speaking at Top Summit. I get to see you there. Yay! And you're all over the place as the network marketing husband, so take us back. You haven't always been the network marketing husband. Give us a little background of how all of this came to be and a little bit about you.</p><p>Tim:<br />No, that's great. In fact, I would have probably been the anti-network marketing husband when my wife started, which is, you know, where so much of this passion comes from now. So, I remember sitting at the table, like I remember the restaurant we were at, and the table when my wife looked across and I love my wife, I love her to death. We have a great marriage. She looked across the table and she was like, okay, I think I want to do this business. And I literally, it's one of the reasons why I named the book. She's selling what? Cause I literally looked at her and I was like, you want to do what? Like come on. At the time she had another business that she was successful in. And I was just like, seriously, you're going to do this? And to be honest, Beth, it was because I carried with me a bunch of the skepticism, like a U haul truck full of skepticism and all of that with me that a lot of other husbands have and spouses and partners have about the network marketing industry.</p><p>Tim:<br />And so I was really my wife's obstacle for the first few months that she was doing this business. I did not make it easy for her and I've apologized to her for that. And yet she persevered through and she crushed it and she's doing great. But what we have found is that there's so many spouses that the truth is they end up giving up because their husbands are significant obstacles instead of really being fuel on their fire in their business. And so, my passion is not only for people that have been in business for a while, but especially for newer people to get the spouse on board as soon as possible. And if you can, it will fuel not only your business, but align yourself in marriage in a way that could be really incredible. So anyway, that's my heart and passion.</p><p>Beth:<br />Okay. So, I'm visualizing the you haul truck and all of the skepticism. And I hear so often, and I, you know, I deal with it all the time myself now, I have such unshakable belief in the mission and what I do and the people that I'm helping, people will say, well, it's easy for you. Well, so some people will say, well, it's easy for Becky. It's easy for Beth and Tim because they've built these ginormous teams and networks. But it's every single day staying, staying like you're a pastor. So, I always say it's staying in the word, staying in the stories, staying with what we see, amazing things happening. I just had somebody send me a silly article, I think, I don't even know. It was in a popular little online magazine about why the network marketing industry is ruining women. And, and again, the skepticism. So, tell me about this is you had a U haul truck full of skepticism.</p><p>So did my husband, my husband Don, he was supportive, but he was like, Oh yeah, okay. He thought it was me, this little thing, right? And all he said was, Oh, like do you have to pay a monthly fee and how much do you have to order and how long are you going to stick with this? And I was fueled because I, the name of this podcast is, You're Not the Boss of Me. And so as being the youngest of three, I was always trying to prove that I should be the first pick for kickball I could win at tetherball. So, I, I was going to win. They're going to win, but not everyone has that tenacity. I think it was kind of, I think my two older sisters for that, because you know that was my birthright is, I'm going to show you. So, tell me the skepticism is there.</p><p>Let's walk. Let's, let's just get right down to it. You're listening today, your spouses and on board. You can also use these strategies if it's a parent, if it's a best friend. If you, and I know that you and Becky work with her new distributors when they signed on, so let's call our person Sarah. Sarah's just signed up. She has an incredible experience with the product. She wants to see if she can make a go of it and she doesn't even want to tell her husband that she bought some product to get started. So, walk us through what you would, how you would counsel a new person to bring their spouse, their husband, their boyfriend onboard, and what does that look like?</p><p>Tim:<br />Yeah, that's really a, it's a good question. One of the things that we do, and even if you don't have no a husband who's supportive with you right now, but you have a team of people, we always engage the husband or partner of the person before they start the business. So if they've already bought some product and they're already ready to go for it, like one of the worst things that you can do is hide it from your husband because if you try and hide it out of the gate, then how does that ultimately end? Right? Like ultimately they're going to figure it out and then when they figure it out, if they already have skepticism, then you saying that, I know I was hiding this from you, but like that's not going to build more trust with them. That's only going to erode it more.</p><p>So right out of the gate we sit with spouses and we ask them for what their questions are like, let's get it all out there, let's have the conversation. And so, trying to address those concerns right out of the gate is really, really important. Or I would say to the people listening to this, like if you don't feel confident doing that yet with your team as you bring people on it with someone in your upline, right? Someone who's been successful and say, Hey, would you engage my husband as well? And having a conversation. And what we do first that is incredible is we always help the spouse, the husband, the partner, understand the compensation plan. It's so important because until they understand that they have no idea how to talk about the business because we have been trained since we were like 16 years old to trade hours for dollars, which you know, Beth isn't the way this business works?</p><p>And so getting the husband to understand that compensation plan by someone who's been successful and can answer their questions ultimately, then that even gets more of them on board and they can answer questions and then they begin. I've seen, many times or the husband starts looking at the wife and going, is this what you want to do? Like, why don't we try and go for this rank? Or when, what's your goal to try and get to that? And you start to see them be engaged when they start to get how the business works also.</p><p>Beth:<br />Absolutely. And one of the pieces that when one of my upline, is also Blair Critch, and they also have a passion for marriage, and she had brought to my attention in the beginning, she said every Sunday night have a family meeting. So, I would sit down and write in understanding the comp plan and the goals. That is so huge. And when we talked the first time before we were interrupted by the thunderstorm and wifi, you had said to me that piece of the comp plan and since we started that when someone new comes aboard, I always say to them, listen, let's schedule a zoom with your husband in the next four days so that we can talk about this first bonus. We'll look at the comp plan, he can ask me questions and I also have had my husband have some personal phone calls without the spouse there because he'll say, let me, you know, let me give them a quick call.</p><p>And it's really, I've heard back from the people that have engaged with us to say the whole process has reunited them in a way in their marriage, like the beginning, because you're working toward a common goal, you're communicating your sharing. I will say to Don, I will say, here's my goal this month. Here's what I need to do. And I give him permission to push me a bit because you know I do that when I'm, when I'm on a fitness journey right now I'm, I want a Peloton and I could go out and buy one. But I said, okay, this is what I'm going to do. I'm going to run to the red line every day, give it, and we have the goal because we want to redo the garage. So, it's like the network marketing piece. So, the communication of the goal and having that. Now do you bring your kids into, to part of the celebrating of when you reached certain ranks or milestones, do they come into play as well?</p><p>Tim:<br />Yeah, absolutely they do. And I want to say this to everyone just to summarize what you're saying to Beth because it's so good. We don't like this truth sometimes, but the truth is no other person will impact your success more than your spouse, positively or negatively outside of you. Right? There's no other person that's going to impact your success more than your spouse, whether positive or negative. And so, and that's true for both sides of it. And so, when we don't include the spouse in that, we're kind of setting ourselves up for more obstacles than we need to or even for failure at sometimes. And so, I love the fact that you're getting husbands involved in and having those conversations. It really, really is a huge part. But with the kids, absolutely. So, we do little milestone things with our kids. We have a 13-year-old and a 10-year-old.</p><p>And so, you know, we do everything with them from vision boards to they know, you know, mom's going for a particular rank this month or a particular goal. So, we're all going to sacrifice. And then, you know, when we get to the end of it, we've done like mini shopping sprees with them or when it's been really big. We've taken a trip together and it's fun because when your kids know that, especially if they're younger, if your kids know that, they're like pushing my wife, you know their mom also, where they're like, mom, how's it going with the goal? And you want some accountability and your goals, get your spouse and kids involved. They will hold you accountable, you know, if there's kind of a carrot or prize on the other side for sure.</p><p>Beth:<br />Oh absolutely. For sure. They love that piece. I have an almost empty nest and so when I started in network marketing, I had one in junior high and one in high school. Donnie was in junior high and McKenzie was in high school and we did that. We looked at, okay, and this is what I'm working toward. And I was really clear too, we talk a lot on this podcast, him about not dropping the glass balls, your spiritual life, your family life, your health goals, because all of those pieces have to be a part of your success with your business. And so having the communication with your spouse of like, Hey, this week, and I told I have a retreat this coming weekend and it's been planned and we talked about is this a good time, is this, how does this work with our son's schedule? How does this work with your schedule and feeling as though it's a team effort and the goals and they are all a part of the whole family piece.</p><p>So I want to back up because something just came to me. I was looking at my notes before I got on of frustrations that I've heard from women that are starting in the business of helping that spouse to unpack that U Hall of skepticism. So, I always like to let people know like here are the reasons why the network marketing industry is good for women, especially women who want flexibility and freedom to perhaps be at home with their kids to not have that glass ceiling. What I saw when I first got started is I didn't have to figure out a distribution channel or build out a technology platform or hire a marketing team or HR, the zillion things that our family business had us doing because building a traditional business requires all of those things and all I had to do was talk to people, share the love of the product, share the company, build community and culture. Those were the pieces. It was like, I could start making money from day one. What are some of the ways that you help spouses to understand when they have that skepticism? Oh, nobody makes money in these businesses. Oh yeah, blah blah blah. What are, what are your go to points?</p><p>Tim:<br />Yeah, yeah absolutely. Because it's a huge issue. I mean some guys come into it and they think their wives should make like thousands of dollars the first month or if not it's a scam of some kind. You know? And I think one part is definitely understanding the compensation plan so that they have that as a framework for their, just their knowledge and understanding of how it all works. So that's a big one. But also, like you got to explain to your spouse and help them understand that building a business like they can't expect year 10 results on a month one business. Like it's not going to happen. And so, you are going to put in a lot of work early on to build the business and then ultimately as you stick with it and you don't quit, you know, you keep going. Then ultimately the income far exceeds the hours that you're putting in.</p><p>But it's real work, like it's hard. And so, having that conversation early on for them to understand this is going to be difficult. So, I always encourage women that are coming into the business and starting their business to look at their husband and just literally look in the eyes and say, would you support me for six months? Would you please support me in this for six months? I'm not asking you for like the rest of your life, but for six months because it's going to take time and it's going to take hard work and I'm not going to make a bunch of money early on. But that's the way a business works. And obviously the lower investment, right? Like you said, not the complication and the lower investment to get a business is what makes network marketing such an incredible opportunity for so many people. So, is that, does that answer the question, Beth?</p><p>Beth:<br />Yep. And I love, I love that piece of it. If I went to my husband and said, listen, I want to go back to school and become a physician's assistant. That's what my sister did when she was 35 years old. So, did she make money right out of the box? No, she invested. I mean, you're going to make money right away in network marketing. You can start earning while you learn. But I like to say that. So, we always hear, Oh, she became a six-figure earner. She became this, she became that. And so, people think it's immediate success like you said. And so, I always say, what would happen if you invested five years? You said one, and I would say if I told you that showing up consistently, and maybe we did people, I always say, how much time do you have to invest?</p><p>Well, okay, so a teacher that's making $1,000 a week or $1,500 become much time. Is she investing and preparing her lesson plans? How much time do you invest in preparing your sermons and working with your youth groups and helping everything in the church? So, I always say that the time commitment will reflect the income. And also, there's a piece of it too that we have to look at. People don't get lucky that some people walk in and have a larger network. Like Becky walked in and she had a blog following, right? She had people that were, that were curious and interested in what she was doing. She still had to have conversations, but someone that might have just started on social media or just started marketing will have a different path.</p><p>So I'm always saying keep your blinders on, believe it can be you ask for spiritual guidance, always right? As for, I always say in my prayers in the morning, I take action with faith and clarity. Who will I serve today? And then having the spouse on board, the family on board, and being exceptionally coachable. These are like all pieces. So when you see someone that comes in into your space and wants to have you, we're going to talk about one last thing and wants to have you talk to their spouse and they're excited, they've got belief, they're ready to go, they've got the desire, and then it doesn't go as planned. The success isn't immediate. How do you then revisit, do you revisit that conversation? Because the last piece is commitment to go until no matter what. So, can you talk a little bit about commitment as a family, what you've seen with some of the couples that you've worked with?</p><p>Tim:<br />Yeah. In fact, I also, I tell a lot of women when I have opportunities like this, to have these conversations that if your husband or partner believes or thinks that you're going to quit, they're not going to get on board. And if you're just objective about it, can you blame them? Right. Like if you, if the tables were returned and they wanted to start something, but they were always, you know, complaining or they weren't putting in the work or they weren't setting the goals or they just were super negative or whatever it is, you would look and say, are you about to quit this? You know, and so your mindset on even the person building the business to say, I'm not going to quit. I'm going to keep building this. I'm going to keep going. Builds faith in your husband, builds faith in your kids.</p><p>And when that's there, of course they're more likely to get around it and to keep going. And when you are struggling, reach out to, again, someone in the upline or someone on your team to have the conversation with you and your spouse. So, to sit together with both of you again and say, okay, so you set some goals and they weren't there. Well let's revisit it. Like you said that, is it the time you're putting in, you know, did you have too high of expectations of how much time you could put in or do you need to readjust some things? You can put some more time in, you know, what are those income producing activities? Are you doing them or are you not doing them? And having that honest conversation with the both of them together helps again, just realign, re-establish a baseline, and then setting new goals together and then helping them run towards that for a season. So, the struggle happens when those conversations happen in a silo and the spouses aren't talking with each other because that's not going to build more alignment and trust with them.</p><p>Beth:<br />And this is a big piece too, is not bringing the negativity and that using the second, then we open ourselves up for the complaining, the negativity, the doubt, and using your spouses as kind of the punching bag for that. Then they're like, well, this isn't making you happy. So, making sure that positive mindset, let's jump to you dealt with this personally. You started to see it in Becky's business. You started to see that there was really a need to educate, to inform, to support the spouses. So, you jumped into a book project, talk about the book, how can people get their hands on it and share a little more about that journey. I love it. I've read it, I've shared it. It's in my, when I send out a new person, joins my team personally, they get a package from me and that is always inside of there. It's kind of like the fab fit and fun box. That's one of my pieces inside of their welcome box. So, share a little bit more about your book and where people can get their hands on that. And you know that was a huge project for you.</p><p>Tim:<br />Yeah, it was a huge project and now we're having this conversation. We're seeing how marriages were being hurt, women were giving up. And so, I couldn't understand why nobody else was addressing or talking about this or getting resources. And so, after several months of like me personally wrestling and like fighting with God, because I felt a calling to write this book, you know, and I didn't want to, and I got enough going on in my life. Like all of that, I ended up, you know, writing this book. And I mean literally thousands of people and thousands of husbands that have gotten their hands on it, you know, weekly. Now I'm getting messages from people whose marriages are being helped and businesses are growing because of it. And it's just been a humbling, humbling journey and we'll see where this all goes. But my heart and passion for it is to see women build more successful businesses and see their marriages and families thrive in the process. So, you can get the book anywhere you can get on Amazon or Barnes & Noble or anywhere you want as well as I record it on audible. And so that was a big part cause a lot of husbands don't read. And so, guys are engaging it and it's just been received really, really well. And I'm humbled to be a part of it.</p><p>Beth:<br />Well, I thank you so much for that resource for thousands and thousands of spouses that just needed to hear and have it in their audible when they're walking the dogs when they're at the gym and also for that push to create conversations and to create a way to bring the whole family on board. So, it's huge in my business as a shift to help spouses. It's also brought to light that when someone comes aboard, we don't have that in our onboarding process. That question, and I've added it. Tell me about your family. Tell me about the support. What, what does support look like for you? So, I like to leave everyone with a good question. And that question I always would say to say each week is how does support look? And being able to ask to ask your spouse to say, listen, this is what support looks like for me and what you need from me.</p><p>Like have that open level of conversation instead of being reactive, be proactive. I know that when life feels aligned for my family, it's when I'm in a proactive state, when I've really, really blocked my calendar. When I'm not running from here and they're trying to be on the phone, having a conversation with my spouse, checking messages. I always say this, Tim, be wherever your feet are, if you're with your spouse, be with your spouse, not with your team on your phone. If you're with your kids, be with your kids and block that time and there will not be resentment if you are so mindful of that time being spent and go to the date night, keep your phone in your purse, your team will survive, right? So, I want to end with three ways. I'm just throwing this out at you. Three ways that you can tell people to keep their marriage alive and vibrant while building a successful network marketing business.</p><p>Tim:<br />Oh, you're asking me three ways. Three ways. I thought you were…I was waiting for you to give the magical three ways Beth. Three ways. Okay. Three ways to keep your marriage alive while you're, okay, so you said this, but one is definitely a regular date night, right? Regular date night, family night. You got to do it. You got to carve out the time. Like you just said, your team will survive, and your spouse won't resent you. So that's number one. Number two, you have to include your spouse. We've talked a lot about that in this, but the spouse, can I talk about this a ton in the book? Like the spouse can't just sit on the sidelines and just observe from afar your business, they got to have a couple of small contributions. You got to share the wins with them. Ultimately, you want for your wins to become his wins as well as you go through this.</p><p>So there's got to be some, some contribution on their part. And then, let's see, what's a third one? Oh, this is so good. Okay. You've got to treat your spouse. You got to be the spouse that you want your spouse to be. So just kind of an overall, as you're building this business, flip the script and say, you know, how would I want my spouse to react when this is going on? Or if, or if I was building a business and things weren't going like maybe you had even hoped, like how would I hope my spouse would respond and then respond that way or what would I hope they would do if the tables were turned and then act that way with them as you're going through this process, because it's a journey and building a business is hard. Anybody that's going to tell you that building any type of business is easy is lying to you.</p><p>Beth:<br />Amen to that. It's hard and I love it. You want to be, that's huge for sure. Marriage, longevity. I'm going on 25 years of being married. I love those pieces and yes, it is hard and be the spouse you want to be. And here's one that I'm going to add to it, because I didn't do this in the beginning and this just came to mind is, you know, you get teams on the West coast, she get teams in London and I would go up to my office at night and I would, you know, work and he would go to bed without me. And so I'm going to add that there may be one night a week that you're working on a different time zone, but 99% of the time, shut down, create a boundary around your time together and, and go to bed at the same time.</p><p>Like have that ritual of whatever that because that's where you start to feel that disconnection. And so that's been a big piece in terms of being the spouse that I wanted to have was how would I have felt if he was working all night, didn't come downstairs and check on me. And they hear you in your office, you're on zooms, you're laughing. You know? So that shifted a year ago and I felt this complete reconnection. And so, I appreciate that so much. Be the spouse that you want to be. So, Tim, any closing thoughts you have for our podcast listeners today?</p><p>Tim:<br />No, I think this has been great. I just want to encourage everybody, and I know you do this Beth, and it's been part of your journey as well, but if you make it to the end and you've been super successful in your business, but you turn around and your marriage and family is in a destructive place, you haven't won and you haven't been successful. A definition of success, somebody shared with me years ago, success is when the people closest to you respect you the most. And so yes, you need to build a business. Yes, you need to work on it, but you really can do it in a way that you see your marriage and your families thrive in the process. And so, I guess maybe that's the closing thought.</p><p>Beth:<br />That is a perfect closing thought. Thank you so much Tim, for being with us today and grab his book, Amazon and Barnes & Noble. There's still time for you guys to get tickets to the Top Summit. It's in February, it's in Naples. Go to the topsummit.com you'll be able to hear Tim and Becky speak onstage on this very topic. I'll also be speaking on another topic, but it's a whole lot of fun. I don't even want to give a sneak peek, but it has to do with finding your spouse, but we're relating it to how you find the perfect recruit network marketing, so it's going to be a whole lot of fun. And Tim, thank you and I will see you in February and real life.</p><p>Tim:<br />Absolutely.</p><p>Beth:<br />All right, cool. Hey, you guys, check out the podcast next week because it is going to be something you don't want to miss. I have another exceptional guest who is also an author and we will catch you guys all next Monday.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging with me today on the podcast and remember, you can create what you crave. If you're looking for a supportive sisterhood, I would love to see you over in our free Facebook group. As most of you know, I love camp. It's part of, 'You're Not the Boss of Me' because when we're building this thing, we're doing this thing. We need a supportive sisterhood and I also crave more fun and more connection. Join us at camp over in the Facebook world, <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com" target="_blank">thecampelevategroup.com</a> or just click on the link above and we will see you around our campfire and help you to create what you crave.</p>
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      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/20-shes-selling-what-getting-your-spouse-on-board-with-your-business-pH2UB6vC</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Learn more about the content discussed...</strong></p><ul><li>No Boss Talk:<a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></li><li>Tim Farrant’s Website: <a href="https://networkmarketinghusband.com/">https://networkmarketinghusband.com</a></li><li>Tim Farrant’s Book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Shes-Selling-What-Skeptical-Supporting-ebook/dp/B07Q3SNNYS">https://www.amazon.com/Shes-Selling-What</a></li><li>Monday Morning Routine: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/routine</a></li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">here</a></li><li>Beth’s Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth’s website:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profitherway">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></li></ul><p><strong>Keynotes discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>I was really my wife's obstacle for the first few months that she was doing this business. I did not make it easy for her and I've apologized to her for that. And yet she persevere through and she crushed it and she's doing great. (05:01)</li><li>Getting the husband to understand that compensation plan by someone who's been successful and can answer their questions. (10:01)</li><li>When we don't include the spouse in that, we're kind of setting ourselves up for more obstacles than we need to or even for failure. (12:57)</li><li>And so you are going to put in a lot of work early on to build the business and then ultimately as you stick with it and you don't quit, you know, you keep going. Then ultimately the income far exceeds the hours that you're putting in. (17:06)</li><li>I tell a lot of women when I have opportunities like this, to have these conversations that if your husband or partner believes or thinks that you're going to quit, they're not going to get on board. (20:39)</li></ul><p><strong>When Did It Air...</strong><br />January 06, 2020</p><p><strong>Episode Transcript...</strong></p><p>Beth:<br />Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Hey bosses and welcome back. It is episode number 20 is that so exciting? It is for me. I hope you're as excited as I am. And this week in honor of episode 20 we are doing a giveaway, and this is all you need to do to get boss swag in the mail from us. It's Mandy, my boss that mails it out. So, what you're going to do is leave a rating and review. If you've already left a rating and review, share this on your Facebook or in your Instagram stories and just send me a DM over on Instagram or over on Facebook messenger or sent to our email that's listed in the show notes and just say, I shared it. Let us know how and when. And we will send you our brand-new boss swag that you are going to love. So, I want to read to you from Bridget a review for this week and she says, thank you for this podcast.</p><p>Beth:<br />I love the energy Beth brings. Every time I listen to her, it seems to be spot on. Always the message I'm needing to hear. And that leaves me anxiously waiting for the next one. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you, Bridget, for this review and I am hoping that this episode is exactly what you need to hear today. So, without further ado, let me tell you what we're doing on episode number 20 it's a privilege for me to have Tim Farrant with us today. He is the author of, She’s Selling What? a skeptical husband's guide to supporting his network marketing wife. So, he will talk to us about how to have those conversations with your spouse, his story about helping and watching and supporting his wife's Epic rise in network marketing and his own journey from shock and skepticism to understanding and support. And you are going to love the actual ideas and spot on things that he's going to help you to do.</p><p>Beth:<br />That not only will help your spouse and your family to understand your network marketing journey, but to have a better marriage overall. So here we go with Tim. I can't wait for you to hear his story. Hey everyone. I am so excited today because, well, the last time Tim and I were together, we had like a cosmic disruption in our interview. And as you heard in the intro, Tim is the author of, She's Selling What, and I'm so excited for you to not only hear about how this book and this movement came about, but also most of my listeners, I have a few, a few guys out there. And women, and I hear so often, I'm not sure how to talk to my husband. I didn't really tell him I was doing this thing. And Tim is here to give you guys all of the behind the scenes, how to make sure that it's a partnership to get your spouse on board and also to create something together, not just as you know, you up in your office, your husband downstairs feeling annoyed, irritated and agitated because I've been there. So, Tim, welcome.</p><p>Tim:<br />Thank you. Thank you. Thank you so much for having me. I'm excited to be here.</p><p>Beth:<br />All right, so we know that your wife has had a meteoric rise in the industry. So, can you take us back at the end? Not the end, but it's like the beginning of the next phase. You have this amazing resource, this book you're speaking at Top Summit. I get to see you there. Yay! And you're all over the place as the network marketing husband, so take us back. You haven't always been the network marketing husband. Give us a little background of how all of this came to be and a little bit about you.</p><p>Tim:<br />No, that's great. In fact, I would have probably been the anti-network marketing husband when my wife started, which is, you know, where so much of this passion comes from now. So, I remember sitting at the table, like I remember the restaurant we were at, and the table when my wife looked across and I love my wife, I love her to death. We have a great marriage. She looked across the table and she was like, okay, I think I want to do this business. And I literally, it's one of the reasons why I named the book. She's selling what? Cause I literally looked at her and I was like, you want to do what? Like come on. At the time she had another business that she was successful in. And I was just like, seriously, you're going to do this? And to be honest, Beth, it was because I carried with me a bunch of the skepticism, like a U haul truck full of skepticism and all of that with me that a lot of other husbands have and spouses and partners have about the network marketing industry.</p><p>Tim:<br />And so I was really my wife's obstacle for the first few months that she was doing this business. I did not make it easy for her and I've apologized to her for that. And yet she persevered through and she crushed it and she's doing great. But what we have found is that there's so many spouses that the truth is they end up giving up because their husbands are significant obstacles instead of really being fuel on their fire in their business. And so, my passion is not only for people that have been in business for a while, but especially for newer people to get the spouse on board as soon as possible. And if you can, it will fuel not only your business, but align yourself in marriage in a way that could be really incredible. So anyway, that's my heart and passion.</p><p>Beth:<br />Okay. So, I'm visualizing the you haul truck and all of the skepticism. And I hear so often, and I, you know, I deal with it all the time myself now, I have such unshakable belief in the mission and what I do and the people that I'm helping, people will say, well, it's easy for you. Well, so some people will say, well, it's easy for Becky. It's easy for Beth and Tim because they've built these ginormous teams and networks. But it's every single day staying, staying like you're a pastor. So, I always say it's staying in the word, staying in the stories, staying with what we see, amazing things happening. I just had somebody send me a silly article, I think, I don't even know. It was in a popular little online magazine about why the network marketing industry is ruining women. And, and again, the skepticism. So, tell me about this is you had a U haul truck full of skepticism.</p><p>So did my husband, my husband Don, he was supportive, but he was like, Oh yeah, okay. He thought it was me, this little thing, right? And all he said was, Oh, like do you have to pay a monthly fee and how much do you have to order and how long are you going to stick with this? And I was fueled because I, the name of this podcast is, You're Not the Boss of Me. And so as being the youngest of three, I was always trying to prove that I should be the first pick for kickball I could win at tetherball. So, I, I was going to win. They're going to win, but not everyone has that tenacity. I think it was kind of, I think my two older sisters for that, because you know that was my birthright is, I'm going to show you. So, tell me the skepticism is there.</p><p>Let's walk. Let's, let's just get right down to it. You're listening today, your spouses and on board. You can also use these strategies if it's a parent, if it's a best friend. If you, and I know that you and Becky work with her new distributors when they signed on, so let's call our person Sarah. Sarah's just signed up. She has an incredible experience with the product. She wants to see if she can make a go of it and she doesn't even want to tell her husband that she bought some product to get started. So, walk us through what you would, how you would counsel a new person to bring their spouse, their husband, their boyfriend onboard, and what does that look like?</p><p>Tim:<br />Yeah, that's really a, it's a good question. One of the things that we do, and even if you don't have no a husband who's supportive with you right now, but you have a team of people, we always engage the husband or partner of the person before they start the business. So if they've already bought some product and they're already ready to go for it, like one of the worst things that you can do is hide it from your husband because if you try and hide it out of the gate, then how does that ultimately end? Right? Like ultimately they're going to figure it out and then when they figure it out, if they already have skepticism, then you saying that, I know I was hiding this from you, but like that's not going to build more trust with them. That's only going to erode it more.</p><p>So right out of the gate we sit with spouses and we ask them for what their questions are like, let's get it all out there, let's have the conversation. And so, trying to address those concerns right out of the gate is really, really important. Or I would say to the people listening to this, like if you don't feel confident doing that yet with your team as you bring people on it with someone in your upline, right? Someone who's been successful and say, Hey, would you engage my husband as well? And having a conversation. And what we do first that is incredible is we always help the spouse, the husband, the partner, understand the compensation plan. It's so important because until they understand that they have no idea how to talk about the business because we have been trained since we were like 16 years old to trade hours for dollars, which you know, Beth isn't the way this business works?</p><p>And so getting the husband to understand that compensation plan by someone who's been successful and can answer their questions ultimately, then that even gets more of them on board and they can answer questions and then they begin. I've seen, many times or the husband starts looking at the wife and going, is this what you want to do? Like, why don't we try and go for this rank? Or when, what's your goal to try and get to that? And you start to see them be engaged when they start to get how the business works also.</p><p>Beth:<br />Absolutely. And one of the pieces that when one of my upline, is also Blair Critch, and they also have a passion for marriage, and she had brought to my attention in the beginning, she said every Sunday night have a family meeting. So, I would sit down and write in understanding the comp plan and the goals. That is so huge. And when we talked the first time before we were interrupted by the thunderstorm and wifi, you had said to me that piece of the comp plan and since we started that when someone new comes aboard, I always say to them, listen, let's schedule a zoom with your husband in the next four days so that we can talk about this first bonus. We'll look at the comp plan, he can ask me questions and I also have had my husband have some personal phone calls without the spouse there because he'll say, let me, you know, let me give them a quick call.</p><p>And it's really, I've heard back from the people that have engaged with us to say the whole process has reunited them in a way in their marriage, like the beginning, because you're working toward a common goal, you're communicating your sharing. I will say to Don, I will say, here's my goal this month. Here's what I need to do. And I give him permission to push me a bit because you know I do that when I'm, when I'm on a fitness journey right now I'm, I want a Peloton and I could go out and buy one. But I said, okay, this is what I'm going to do. I'm going to run to the red line every day, give it, and we have the goal because we want to redo the garage. So, it's like the network marketing piece. So, the communication of the goal and having that. Now do you bring your kids into, to part of the celebrating of when you reached certain ranks or milestones, do they come into play as well?</p><p>Tim:<br />Yeah, absolutely they do. And I want to say this to everyone just to summarize what you're saying to Beth because it's so good. We don't like this truth sometimes, but the truth is no other person will impact your success more than your spouse, positively or negatively outside of you. Right? There's no other person that's going to impact your success more than your spouse, whether positive or negative. And so, and that's true for both sides of it. And so, when we don't include the spouse in that, we're kind of setting ourselves up for more obstacles than we need to or even for failure at sometimes. And so, I love the fact that you're getting husbands involved in and having those conversations. It really, really is a huge part. But with the kids, absolutely. So, we do little milestone things with our kids. We have a 13-year-old and a 10-year-old.</p><p>And so, you know, we do everything with them from vision boards to they know, you know, mom's going for a particular rank this month or a particular goal. So, we're all going to sacrifice. And then, you know, when we get to the end of it, we've done like mini shopping sprees with them or when it's been really big. We've taken a trip together and it's fun because when your kids know that, especially if they're younger, if your kids know that, they're like pushing my wife, you know their mom also, where they're like, mom, how's it going with the goal? And you want some accountability and your goals, get your spouse and kids involved. They will hold you accountable, you know, if there's kind of a carrot or prize on the other side for sure.</p><p>Beth:<br />Oh absolutely. For sure. They love that piece. I have an almost empty nest and so when I started in network marketing, I had one in junior high and one in high school. Donnie was in junior high and McKenzie was in high school and we did that. We looked at, okay, and this is what I'm working toward. And I was really clear too, we talk a lot on this podcast, him about not dropping the glass balls, your spiritual life, your family life, your health goals, because all of those pieces have to be a part of your success with your business. And so having the communication with your spouse of like, Hey, this week, and I told I have a retreat this coming weekend and it's been planned and we talked about is this a good time, is this, how does this work with our son's schedule? How does this work with your schedule and feeling as though it's a team effort and the goals and they are all a part of the whole family piece.</p><p>So I want to back up because something just came to me. I was looking at my notes before I got on of frustrations that I've heard from women that are starting in the business of helping that spouse to unpack that U Hall of skepticism. So, I always like to let people know like here are the reasons why the network marketing industry is good for women, especially women who want flexibility and freedom to perhaps be at home with their kids to not have that glass ceiling. What I saw when I first got started is I didn't have to figure out a distribution channel or build out a technology platform or hire a marketing team or HR, the zillion things that our family business had us doing because building a traditional business requires all of those things and all I had to do was talk to people, share the love of the product, share the company, build community and culture. Those were the pieces. It was like, I could start making money from day one. What are some of the ways that you help spouses to understand when they have that skepticism? Oh, nobody makes money in these businesses. Oh yeah, blah blah blah. What are, what are your go to points?</p><p>Tim:<br />Yeah, yeah absolutely. Because it's a huge issue. I mean some guys come into it and they think their wives should make like thousands of dollars the first month or if not it's a scam of some kind. You know? And I think one part is definitely understanding the compensation plan so that they have that as a framework for their, just their knowledge and understanding of how it all works. So that's a big one. But also, like you got to explain to your spouse and help them understand that building a business like they can't expect year 10 results on a month one business. Like it's not going to happen. And so, you are going to put in a lot of work early on to build the business and then ultimately as you stick with it and you don't quit, you know, you keep going. Then ultimately the income far exceeds the hours that you're putting in.</p><p>But it's real work, like it's hard. And so, having that conversation early on for them to understand this is going to be difficult. So, I always encourage women that are coming into the business and starting their business to look at their husband and just literally look in the eyes and say, would you support me for six months? Would you please support me in this for six months? I'm not asking you for like the rest of your life, but for six months because it's going to take time and it's going to take hard work and I'm not going to make a bunch of money early on. But that's the way a business works. And obviously the lower investment, right? Like you said, not the complication and the lower investment to get a business is what makes network marketing such an incredible opportunity for so many people. So, is that, does that answer the question, Beth?</p><p>Beth:<br />Yep. And I love, I love that piece of it. If I went to my husband and said, listen, I want to go back to school and become a physician's assistant. That's what my sister did when she was 35 years old. So, did she make money right out of the box? No, she invested. I mean, you're going to make money right away in network marketing. You can start earning while you learn. But I like to say that. So, we always hear, Oh, she became a six-figure earner. She became this, she became that. And so, people think it's immediate success like you said. And so, I always say, what would happen if you invested five years? You said one, and I would say if I told you that showing up consistently, and maybe we did people, I always say, how much time do you have to invest?</p><p>Well, okay, so a teacher that's making $1,000 a week or $1,500 become much time. Is she investing and preparing her lesson plans? How much time do you invest in preparing your sermons and working with your youth groups and helping everything in the church? So, I always say that the time commitment will reflect the income. And also, there's a piece of it too that we have to look at. People don't get lucky that some people walk in and have a larger network. Like Becky walked in and she had a blog following, right? She had people that were, that were curious and interested in what she was doing. She still had to have conversations, but someone that might have just started on social media or just started marketing will have a different path.</p><p>So I'm always saying keep your blinders on, believe it can be you ask for spiritual guidance, always right? As for, I always say in my prayers in the morning, I take action with faith and clarity. Who will I serve today? And then having the spouse on board, the family on board, and being exceptionally coachable. These are like all pieces. So when you see someone that comes in into your space and wants to have you, we're going to talk about one last thing and wants to have you talk to their spouse and they're excited, they've got belief, they're ready to go, they've got the desire, and then it doesn't go as planned. The success isn't immediate. How do you then revisit, do you revisit that conversation? Because the last piece is commitment to go until no matter what. So, can you talk a little bit about commitment as a family, what you've seen with some of the couples that you've worked with?</p><p>Tim:<br />Yeah. In fact, I also, I tell a lot of women when I have opportunities like this, to have these conversations that if your husband or partner believes or thinks that you're going to quit, they're not going to get on board. And if you're just objective about it, can you blame them? Right. Like if you, if the tables were returned and they wanted to start something, but they were always, you know, complaining or they weren't putting in the work or they weren't setting the goals or they just were super negative or whatever it is, you would look and say, are you about to quit this? You know, and so your mindset on even the person building the business to say, I'm not going to quit. I'm going to keep building this. I'm going to keep going. Builds faith in your husband, builds faith in your kids.</p><p>And when that's there, of course they're more likely to get around it and to keep going. And when you are struggling, reach out to, again, someone in the upline or someone on your team to have the conversation with you and your spouse. So, to sit together with both of you again and say, okay, so you set some goals and they weren't there. Well let's revisit it. Like you said that, is it the time you're putting in, you know, did you have too high of expectations of how much time you could put in or do you need to readjust some things? You can put some more time in, you know, what are those income producing activities? Are you doing them or are you not doing them? And having that honest conversation with the both of them together helps again, just realign, re-establish a baseline, and then setting new goals together and then helping them run towards that for a season. So, the struggle happens when those conversations happen in a silo and the spouses aren't talking with each other because that's not going to build more alignment and trust with them.</p><p>Beth:<br />And this is a big piece too, is not bringing the negativity and that using the second, then we open ourselves up for the complaining, the negativity, the doubt, and using your spouses as kind of the punching bag for that. Then they're like, well, this isn't making you happy. So, making sure that positive mindset, let's jump to you dealt with this personally. You started to see it in Becky's business. You started to see that there was really a need to educate, to inform, to support the spouses. So, you jumped into a book project, talk about the book, how can people get their hands on it and share a little more about that journey. I love it. I've read it, I've shared it. It's in my, when I send out a new person, joins my team personally, they get a package from me and that is always inside of there. It's kind of like the fab fit and fun box. That's one of my pieces inside of their welcome box. So, share a little bit more about your book and where people can get their hands on that. And you know that was a huge project for you.</p><p>Tim:<br />Yeah, it was a huge project and now we're having this conversation. We're seeing how marriages were being hurt, women were giving up. And so, I couldn't understand why nobody else was addressing or talking about this or getting resources. And so, after several months of like me personally wrestling and like fighting with God, because I felt a calling to write this book, you know, and I didn't want to, and I got enough going on in my life. Like all of that, I ended up, you know, writing this book. And I mean literally thousands of people and thousands of husbands that have gotten their hands on it, you know, weekly. Now I'm getting messages from people whose marriages are being helped and businesses are growing because of it. And it's just been a humbling, humbling journey and we'll see where this all goes. But my heart and passion for it is to see women build more successful businesses and see their marriages and families thrive in the process. So, you can get the book anywhere you can get on Amazon or Barnes & Noble or anywhere you want as well as I record it on audible. And so that was a big part cause a lot of husbands don't read. And so, guys are engaging it and it's just been received really, really well. And I'm humbled to be a part of it.</p><p>Beth:<br />Well, I thank you so much for that resource for thousands and thousands of spouses that just needed to hear and have it in their audible when they're walking the dogs when they're at the gym and also for that push to create conversations and to create a way to bring the whole family on board. So, it's huge in my business as a shift to help spouses. It's also brought to light that when someone comes aboard, we don't have that in our onboarding process. That question, and I've added it. Tell me about your family. Tell me about the support. What, what does support look like for you? So, I like to leave everyone with a good question. And that question I always would say to say each week is how does support look? And being able to ask to ask your spouse to say, listen, this is what support looks like for me and what you need from me.</p><p>Like have that open level of conversation instead of being reactive, be proactive. I know that when life feels aligned for my family, it's when I'm in a proactive state, when I've really, really blocked my calendar. When I'm not running from here and they're trying to be on the phone, having a conversation with my spouse, checking messages. I always say this, Tim, be wherever your feet are, if you're with your spouse, be with your spouse, not with your team on your phone. If you're with your kids, be with your kids and block that time and there will not be resentment if you are so mindful of that time being spent and go to the date night, keep your phone in your purse, your team will survive, right? So, I want to end with three ways. I'm just throwing this out at you. Three ways that you can tell people to keep their marriage alive and vibrant while building a successful network marketing business.</p><p>Tim:<br />Oh, you're asking me three ways. Three ways. I thought you were…I was waiting for you to give the magical three ways Beth. Three ways. Okay. Three ways to keep your marriage alive while you're, okay, so you said this, but one is definitely a regular date night, right? Regular date night, family night. You got to do it. You got to carve out the time. Like you just said, your team will survive, and your spouse won't resent you. So that's number one. Number two, you have to include your spouse. We've talked a lot about that in this, but the spouse, can I talk about this a ton in the book? Like the spouse can't just sit on the sidelines and just observe from afar your business, they got to have a couple of small contributions. You got to share the wins with them. Ultimately, you want for your wins to become his wins as well as you go through this.</p><p>So there's got to be some, some contribution on their part. And then, let's see, what's a third one? Oh, this is so good. Okay. You've got to treat your spouse. You got to be the spouse that you want your spouse to be. So just kind of an overall, as you're building this business, flip the script and say, you know, how would I want my spouse to react when this is going on? Or if, or if I was building a business and things weren't going like maybe you had even hoped, like how would I hope my spouse would respond and then respond that way or what would I hope they would do if the tables were turned and then act that way with them as you're going through this process, because it's a journey and building a business is hard. Anybody that's going to tell you that building any type of business is easy is lying to you.</p><p>Beth:<br />Amen to that. It's hard and I love it. You want to be, that's huge for sure. Marriage, longevity. I'm going on 25 years of being married. I love those pieces and yes, it is hard and be the spouse you want to be. And here's one that I'm going to add to it, because I didn't do this in the beginning and this just came to mind is, you know, you get teams on the West coast, she get teams in London and I would go up to my office at night and I would, you know, work and he would go to bed without me. And so I'm going to add that there may be one night a week that you're working on a different time zone, but 99% of the time, shut down, create a boundary around your time together and, and go to bed at the same time.</p><p>Like have that ritual of whatever that because that's where you start to feel that disconnection. And so that's been a big piece in terms of being the spouse that I wanted to have was how would I have felt if he was working all night, didn't come downstairs and check on me. And they hear you in your office, you're on zooms, you're laughing. You know? So that shifted a year ago and I felt this complete reconnection. And so, I appreciate that so much. Be the spouse that you want to be. So, Tim, any closing thoughts you have for our podcast listeners today?</p><p>Tim:<br />No, I think this has been great. I just want to encourage everybody, and I know you do this Beth, and it's been part of your journey as well, but if you make it to the end and you've been super successful in your business, but you turn around and your marriage and family is in a destructive place, you haven't won and you haven't been successful. A definition of success, somebody shared with me years ago, success is when the people closest to you respect you the most. And so yes, you need to build a business. Yes, you need to work on it, but you really can do it in a way that you see your marriage and your families thrive in the process. And so, I guess maybe that's the closing thought.</p><p>Beth:<br />That is a perfect closing thought. Thank you so much Tim, for being with us today and grab his book, Amazon and Barnes & Noble. There's still time for you guys to get tickets to the Top Summit. It's in February, it's in Naples. Go to the topsummit.com you'll be able to hear Tim and Becky speak onstage on this very topic. I'll also be speaking on another topic, but it's a whole lot of fun. I don't even want to give a sneak peek, but it has to do with finding your spouse, but we're relating it to how you find the perfect recruit network marketing, so it's going to be a whole lot of fun. And Tim, thank you and I will see you in February and real life.</p><p>Tim:<br />Absolutely.</p><p>Beth:<br />All right, cool. Hey, you guys, check out the podcast next week because it is going to be something you don't want to miss. I have another exceptional guest who is also an author and we will catch you guys all next Monday.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging with me today on the podcast and remember, you can create what you crave. If you're looking for a supportive sisterhood, I would love to see you over in our free Facebook group. As most of you know, I love camp. It's part of, 'You're Not the Boss of Me' because when we're building this thing, we're doing this thing. We need a supportive sisterhood and I also crave more fun and more connection. Join us at camp over in the Facebook world, <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com" target="_blank">thecampelevategroup.com</a> or just click on the link above and we will see you around our campfire and help you to create what you crave.</p>
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(01:31)</li><li>I'm tired of saying I'm shy. Yes, you're shy, but don't say that to yourself. Like shy is just another word for insecure.(07:21)</li><li>Then all of a sudden introvert Michelle who went from being shy to being bold is like we've got a system and it's working. So how did that look?(10:52)</li><li>All I learned is change your story, make it super inspirational and then at the end give them two options.(13:14)</li><li>I want to talk about owning your awesome, and that when someone owns their story, and someone has confidence, and it takes time.(16:10)</li></ul><p><strong>When Did It Air...</strong><br />January 06, 2020</p><p><strong>Episode Transcript...</strong></p><p>Beth:<br />Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Hello. Hello and welcome to episode number 19. And Happy New Year, If you're listening to this in real time. So today I am so excited because I have been stalking Michelle Cunningham. She is my guest and you are going to love her Own Your Awesome. And you will walk away, literally fired up like pulling your car over to the side of the road and getting started taking action after this podcast. So let me tell you a little bit about Michelle and then we'll bring her on. She teaches network marketers around the world to successfully build their business through Facebook parties, home parties, and using the power of video. So after you see this wonder woman on YouTube, you are going to see the power and the impact. She's called the queen of video branding for direct sellers and teaches you to Own Your Awesome to have a massive impact for success. She's been involved in the industry for 16 years. She's earned a six figure income consistently and led a network marketing team to over eight figures in sales, hosting home parties and Facebook parties. So she's playful. She's on YouTube. She's so much fun. She's made an impact with thousands and thousands and thousands of network marketers. And so here she is. Let's talk to Michelle Cunningham.</p><p>So, Hey everyone. I am so excited because I have been stalking. She's my new best friend. She doesn't know it yet. I sent her like a half a heart necklace. Her name is Michelle Cunningham and I literally have been watching her for months and months and months, obsessing over her content, her energy, her YouTube channel. And so, you know, I asked for everything so I thought, I'm just going to ask Michelle, she's super famous if she would hop on this podcast to help us hear more about how she's built her business in direct sales and thousands of others with her quirky, honest, but deliberate presence on YouTube and on social media, and just being an awesome pink princess. So hello Michelle!</p><p>Michelle:<br />Hi. That was quite the introduction.</p><p>Beth:<br />Well you didn't know like I always like to admit that I'm stalking someone because it's just weird if you don't, right?</p><p>Michelle:<br />Yeah, well I stalk people too so I totally get it.</p><p>Beth:<br />I know I just, I study, I love to study success and so I know that we have some people that may not have been introduced to you yet and now they are. And I'm super excited because after meeting you and talking with you, and we're going to give you guys this offer at the end, is I'm going to do the YouTube thing this year, and I have like seriously dark videos that are sharing my sticky note challenge and you've inspired me. So can you give us a little bit of history? I know that for those of you that, you know I said it on the intro, but give us the real version. How did you get started? When did you start realizing that the video presence was really a thing to build the business? So give us the scoop. Who are you? What do you do? Yeah, all that jazz.</p><p>Michelle<br />All right, well I'll give you the quick background because I feel like a background is really important. I grew up incredibly poor. My mom was a single mom so I came from very little. I had two brothers and myself and everything I've ever had for in life I've had to pay for on my own. And so I grew up always wanting to be like the kids who just had like Pantene shampoo and fresh apples. So just to put it in perspective, like where I live now and what my life is like is not what I grew up as. And so I'm very thankful for life, the journey. But I'm also, it's what drove me. It was realizing like, I don't want to have a moldy basement and like snakes in my basement and have a house, I'm embarrassed by. I want to have more and so...</p><p>I went to college, paid my way through college, and then entered direct sales into my life. I got my first job as a pharmaceutical sales rep and then I landed at an event, and it was a direct sales event. My coworker's wife invited me and I'm there in this hotel room, the holiday Inn, and there's a lady in the room claiming to make six figures. Another one's a millionaire, another one's driving a free car. And I'm like, dude, this is either a fantastic opportunity or this is a scam. So I went home and I told my mom at 23 years old, and she goes, Oh yeah, honey, a hundred percent scam. Do not get involved. I was not doing it. And then a week later I remembered that I was 23 and at 23 you don't listen to your mom. So I signed up anyway. And that was 16 years ago, 17 years ago.</p><p>And so when I joined, there was no text message. There was no Facebook. And so they said, how you're going to build your business, honey, 23 year old, you're going to go up to strangers in parking lots, and like, Oh, that's horrifying. People doing that. Like I'm an introvert, I don't like to bother you. I don't like to be in people's way. It's just who I am. I want everyone to like me. That's just my personality, right? So the idea of approaching a stranger and having them yell at me was like my worst nightmare. And so I, for the next six years, did not tell anyone. I was involved in network marketing like for six years. But in that six years I studied it. I looked up ideas, I ordered my full inventory, I was ready to go, but I did nothing for six years. I think I held like a party or two.</p><p>Beth:<br />Wait, wait, wait, wait. I gotta repeat that. You guys six years of studying. And so many people are like, Oh, I just, I mean I was that person, Michelle, that I bought every kit, signed up for a billion things and didn't study, didn't do a thing until, you know, when I launched the current business that I'm in. But I didn't know it was six years. What made you keep holding on?</p><p>Michelle:<br />Yeah, it's just a fantastic part of the story. And it always, when I'm sharing in front of an audience, they're like, you gave me hope. Because I've been, you know, 5 years, I haven't started. I'm like, Oh you're fine, you're actually ahead of me. So for six years I loved the dream of it, but I was too shy and too nervous to approach people, you know? And I was like, but I loved it. But I was like, but I can't. And so it was self talk, this negative self talk that I had, that I don't want to bother people. I don't want to, you know. And, in that six years I tried, it's not like I did nothing. It's like I'd study an idea and then I call my recruiter. I'm like, maybe let's do your mall thing. You said we could do a scavenger hunt.</p><p>Then we'd go do the mall thing. And so we'd go up to people and I actually met a lady who said, Oh my gosh, your sell for that company? I would love to host a party with you. And I'm like, really? Okay. But I got home and I was too nervous to call her. Talk about, this is not going to work. And I called her the day before the party to confirm because I was nervous. But she was like, I never heard from you. What would make you think I am going to host a party with you? And I was like, you're right. Okay, bye. So little like mouse Michelle. One day I made a decision at 29 I was fed up enough with my corporate job and I think that's when you see someone make a big change where I was like, you know what, I'm tired of being a mouse.</p><p>I'm tired of saying I'm shy. Yes, you're shy, but don't say that to yourself. Like shy is just another word for insecure. There's all of these things. I was telling myself they were not serving me and I thought, you know what? What makes me different from that girl over there that's wildly confident? She just acts confident. Why don't I just start doing that? Why don't I just like stop caring and let's just like do this? Because I just made that very conscious decision. And it was January, 2009 yeah, 2009, and I went online and I found someone that worked for the company that I had signed up with. She was not my recruiter, but they have a we'll help you no matter what thing. So she, when I met her, what was amazing about this lady is, she changed my life forever because when I met her, she's 4ft 11in, tiny. She wears short, spiky hair. She doesn't wear a ton of makeup. She's not loud. She's not bold. She's not crazy. She suffers from social anxiety disorder. She fainted at her first home party.</p><p>Yes, And over three weeks. Yeah. You're like, that doesn't sound like a good mentor. But see, she earned over $3 million in her career and was driving the top level car. And I was like, Oh, okay, so you're a little broken. I'm a little broken. If you can do this, maybe I could do this. And so it was in meeting her, then I met someone that wasn't perfect. Sometimes you meet people in this industry and they're perfect and they talk perfect and they smile and perfect and you're like, that's scary and weird. So she was normal. And so she taught me her system. She said, if you don't want to call people then just text people, you know, just do whatever it's going to work for you. Just find a way. And I was like, wait, I can do that. And so I actually started texting people, in that first month I made $1,000 not knowing what I was doing.</p><p>Six months later, I made over $5,000, built a team of 50. A few months after that I had earned a car. That month I earned another free insurance, and then earned another car a few months later. And then four years later I learned a system that taught me how to recruit like crazy. And I taught that to my team and we went from a hundred people on my team to over a thousand and it changed my life forever. We became an eight figure sales team. My team did over eight figures in sales and just crazy, crazy. But it's just crazy to think that for that long I struggled, but it was just one day to saying, you know what? I'm fed up enough. We're just going to like make this work. Yeah. So that was the beginning.</p><p>Beth:<br />Well, and okay, a couple of things that I love is, you notice that she wasn't perfect and I think that that just like made my face light up. Even though we're on a podcast, you can't see it, because that's what I think that vulnerability of you on video is. You're the real deal in showing up and saying, we may not be perfect. And I say that all the time, is like I built my business with sticky notes because I couldn't figure out how to use the Excel spreadsheet, and I've got like, my drunk uncle was driving me around when I was trying to use systems. And you also said find what works for you but have some way that you are booking, like in your case, booking the parties, booking the shows, booking the online events. So you said something to that. I know everyone was like yeah, pulling over to the side of the road, getting out their notes on their phone. You said you developed a system that worked for your team. Do you want to talk a little bit about that? Because that's a Renegade. You are in a company that had been around forever, like the beginning of time. Everyone knew that person that had earned that car in town and then all of a sudden introvert Michelle who went from being shy to being bold is like we've got a system and it's working. So how did that look? Can you share a little bit of what that time looked like? And what you guys all did?</p><p>Michelle:<br />Absolutely. So that fourth year I had been sitting at a team of about a hundred. I was pretty consistently making about $5,000 a month and I heard a speaker that year that said, or at an event. And the one thing that I took away, she said, Hey guys, I believe that while you're on this earth you should make as much money as humanly possible. And I was like, wait, where's she gonna go with this? I don't know if that, you know, the the poor girl in me. It was like, I don't want to, I don't know if I want to hear this...because I believe that you should live completely debt free. And I was like, okay, I can get on board with that. And then I also believe you should have tons of savings for your future. I said okay, I like that you said. And I then believe you should live below your means.</p><p>I do. I like to shop at target and resale shop. And you should give back frequently, generously, and anonymously. And that last line of frequently, generously and anonymously, I said to myself, Michelle, you need to step up your game. You could be helping so many more people right now. You have enough to provide for you and your family. How many more humans could you help if you decide to step up your game because the fact that you got to where you are, what if we did that same amount of crazy work like over and over and over again. And I thought, Hmm, I need it. I need to find something. And it was like a God thing. I was on Facebook that night and this cute little blonde appeared on my screen and it was a Facebook ad and she was just pretty, I just clicked on her and I said, let me see what she's all about, cute little blonde thing. And it was Sarah Robbins from Rodan and Fields, the number one seller for Rodan and Fields, and she's making like $1 million a month. I mean, it's just like something, or million dollars. I don't, it's something so insane that you're like, okay, let me learn from you a little human. So I clicked on that.</p><p>Beth:<br />I love, Love you to learn from you little human. I love it.</p><p>Michelle:<br />Yes literally, because she was just a little thumbnail is what I mean. She was a little person on my screen. I clicked on the little human and I ordered her book, which is How to Rock Your Network Marketing Business.</p><p>Beth:<br />That was my first book! I bought too! Oh my gosh, this is crazy. Yeah, that's it. It's tattered and it's highlighted and every, yes, yes, yes. Okay, keep going. I love it.</p><p>Michelle:<br />So I read the book and all I learned, you don't have to go read the book, I'll just tell you what it is. All I learned is change your story, make it super inspirational and then at the end give them two options. You can join my team today, if you decide not to do that, you can take home products. Those were two things I was missing. I was missing the inspirational story. I had a ho hum story. It was kind of inspirational but not really. So I changed my story to be like, I was the number one person in all of my company. I Owned My Awesome. So I made it like I was in a play with this amazing story and I'm glad to share it if you wanna hear how I roll it out. But yeah, that story. And then at the end I said option one, join my team.</p><p>Oh, and that's the best deal of all. And then if you decide not to do that, you can take home products. And I usually was just selling product, product, product. And then after I would invite them to meet for coffee after they liked the product. This whole long three week process, which sort of was effective, but I was like, wait, if I could sign people up on the spot. And so I rolled this out for the first time in March, 2000 and gosh, I don't remember what year. But it was, I don't know, six years ago. And I roll this out and my first appointment, I had a lady over to my house, tried the product, I did my arrogance story at the beginning and it was, it was like arrogant, but I was doing what I was reading in the book and I had practiced it all day. And at the end she goes, okay. And I give her options. She goes, okay, so here's what I've decided. I'd like to join your team and I'd like to buy the whole skin care system.</p><p>And I was like, ah, what the heck just happened? I'm like, that's not definitely supposed to happen. I'm like, you do want it? Yeah. And in my head I'm like, just Michelle, write it up, sign her up, sell her the thing, just do it. So I do. And she goes home inspired, which is what was different. She went home inspired and she told her husband about this inspirational woman that lived a few towns over that was on fire. It was, you know, changing your life. And the next day she called, my husband wants me to get the whole package. He wants me to get started now, because he was inspired. I had never had someone do that before. And it was in that moment that I believe like God was knocking on my head like Michelle, do more of that be loud, because by you being loud and you being proud, you can impact people's lives, you can change their financial situation.</p><p>And so I had to stop being introverted Michelle and say, okay, I need to be awesome because by me being awesome, I can impact lives. And so the next lady came over that day with her husband and at the end her husband goes, yeah, you should just sign up. And so she joined my team that month. Following that system, I recruited 22 reps personally and my team followed the same system and they recruited another 20. So in one month we brought in 42 new reps to my team, of like a hundred, that's sitting at a hundred for four years. And I was like, that was awesome. Let's do that again. And so we did, we did it again, did it again. And that year I earned the top level car. We had five people become the top 1% of the company. I mean everything changed, right? I went to London that year. I mean just everything, massive movement because of a tiny little shift Owning Our Awesome lead with the opportunity to default to the products. It was such a simple idea. Yet it made such an impact.</p><p>Beth:<br />I was like, I have chills because so many times that I want to talk about Owning Your Awesome. And that when someone owns their story, and someone has confidence, and it takes time. Those of you that are listening today and you're thinking, but I haven't had the success yet. I don't have that voice that Michelle has or that Beth has. You can be that person, and there's visualization, and seeing yourself on that stage, and there's creating that story that allows you to Own Your Awesome. So I think you might be able to walk us through, if someone wants to walk away from this podcast and Own They're Awesome, and they're being coached by you. what would you tell them?</p><p>Michelle:<br />I would say to them, and I said this in my group the other day. I said, guys, what is the most you've ever sold at one party or in one day? What is the dollar amount? One girl wrote $1600 and another girl wrote $300 another girl wrote $800, and I said, do you have any idea that the average person out there, that an extra $200 a month would dramatically change their financial situation? Like do you have any idea? And the fact that you can host the party or you can be in front of humans and then two hours of your time you can make $200? That is mind blowing to most humans. That is literally mind blowing. And so if you have a story like that, like in the chat when I shared this, girls were like, Oh yeah, I made $800 in two hours. I'm like, you should be at the every appointment. Yeah, like hanging from the roof, swinging on a Tarzan rope saying, guys, I'm a big deal!</p><p>I made $800 dollars, I made $400 in two hours. Whatever it is, that is such a huge story. And so putting that dollar amount into your story can make such a huge impact and can really inspire someone. So I always tell people, throw a dollar amount in there. What did you do in a two hour time span or in a day time span, one week I made this money, whatever it is, put your marketing hat on. And you know, as women, we're taught to not be arrogant, but I would say, no, no, this is Owning Your Awesome, and this is going to change lives. So put that away, the arrogance part of it and just Own Your Awesome and share those stories.</p><p>Beth:<br />And I just had this vision, because I've talked Michelle into being at real life camp. We're going to have a Tarzan rope and we are going to do an Own Your Awesome activity. We're swinging from the rope. I mean I think we should have one in our offices. I love it. Okay. So we're at this point of your business, you're teaching women to own their stories, to lead with the business, to really be real about what's happening in the direct selling network marketing industry. And that was what I needed to know for me to finally say yes and go all in what was possible and why not me? So you've got this team and you're rolling and a lot of what you were doing because of your business was a party plan business. And then you transitioned to a lot of online coaching, training and parties.</p><p>Can you talk about that transition for those people that might not have the opportunity? And I always, I want to preface this, you guys, you always have the opportunity to be in a person's living room. And I know that we see a lot of things that say, build online. Never leave your house, never talk to your neighbor. But I will always tell you to earn multiple seven figures. I was willing, I wanted to be connecting with that neighbor because I know that in person and online sharing what Michelle just shared, swinging from the Tarzan rope, changing lives is in person. It's online, it's everywhere. If you are passionate, right Michelle?</p><p>Michelle:<br />It's 100%, and I built so much in my business in person, you know, then I did transition. I did a lot online. I had a lot of success online. But I, most of my clients, all that reorder from, it's all mostly in person. Yes I do get people that find me on YouTube and stuff like that. But it started, and I yes, I 100% agree with you in person. So great. And it's so good for introverts like me to be in front of people because if I'm not in front of people, I find for me it's like a muscle, I can get just quiet and not really want to be around people. And so for me, I kind of force myself to be in front of people to learn human interaction. Because I just sometimes, I just want to be home. I just want to do my thing. So getting out and challenging yourself will make you a more confident person. That's what I found and it brought me success.</p><p>Beth:<br />Well and I say to people, if I told you that your income would double, triple, that you would impact your family's life, be able to impact the lives of others because you were willing to go to that event, to go and meet with that one person. I remember early in my career, we had had a tough summer and I was tired and I was supposed to get on an airplane and go to Vegas and there was a team growing there and I made it. I think that was when I saw a rising leader, I would get on an airplane and go and meet that person in person, meet their friends, help with the event. It was an investment I was willing to make and I almost canceled this event. I thought, Ugh, I don't really want to fly that. And then my husband said, they are responsible for the money that you're making, your personal actions are, but this team is waiting for you.</p><p>And I have to say, Michelle, I heard a story at that event from one of the promoters on my team and I journaled about it. And it was how the product had helped her overcome grief. And she shared with me how much she wanted to tell me that in person. And I literally said, I will never miss the opportunity to be in front of people. And it has been what drives me. So let's fast forward, because we're now quite a few years later and now you're this YouTube sensation. You've got this following that is like crazy cult like. You needed to get your systems into the hands of many. You are called to do that. So how did it go from your team to worldwide people just finding you and saying, Michelle, give me what you've got. How did you make that transition and how does your business look today?</p><p>Michelle:<br />So, it's such a great question because it wasn't ever my intention. I believe that God had a hand in this. Like there's no other good explanation and you know, depending on what your beliefs are, the universe whatever. But literally, six years ago, as an introvert, I said I'm going to start a YouTube channel. Why? Because at that time I was a little bored with my business. So you know how you have a month where you're like, I just feel bored. What can I do in my spare time? I was bored. My son was like three, so I wasn't exhausted and I think it was pregnant, like I'm going to start a little YouTube channel. Or maybe it was right before I started to get pregnant with the next one. And so I have a little, you know, I had downtime, and I don't like downtime.</p><p>I don't like to watch movies. I get bored, I like to work. And so I'll start a YouTube channel, I'll just make a video. And initially I was like, I don't know what I'll make it about. Maybe I'll make it about organizing. And they made a few videos. That channel still exists. It has 900 followers. I made eight videos about organizing. It's the stupidest videos ever because I don't like organizing, not like I have a very organized office, but my house, you know it's not. So it was funny though, I was making that channel and it stressed me out cause I had to clean before I filmed, and then I was like this isn't my jam. And then one day I was like, but I really like to talk about network marketing and direct sales. Why don't I just do that?</p><p>Until I started to put out what I was doing. I was just sharing my tips and I could not believe it, but people were like messaging me at 3:00 AM in the morning, and my inbox saying, Michelle, your video just totally changed my life. It changed my business. I love you forever. Oh my gosh, you're so amazing. Do you have more stuff? And I was like, I'll make more videos, I'll make some more. And I just literally for six years, I just kept putting out new videos. I tried to aim for once a week putting out a video, and that was my goal, and I didn't always hit it. I mean, you know, it was sometimes two weeks or three weeks, but I just tried to put out content. Okay. I did not think anything else beyond that. Never thought it would ever turn into else. Well, crazy.</p><p>But I got a call from a company, they said, Hey Michelle, we found you on YouTube. Can you come and train our sales force or a brand new startup network marketing company? I was like, Whoa, that's awesome. And I was like, sure. And they're like, how much is your fee? I said to my husband, how much? He's like, just say something outrageous. I'm like, well, I wouldn't go there for, I'll say $2,500.00. He's like, yeah, just say that. I said that. And they said, sure. And I was like, Oh, my word, this is awesome. Right? So, say that, go and speak to the company. And a few weeks before I go, they said, Michelle, do you have any training materials? We'd like to purchase your training materials? And I was like, purchase, like I just do free training.</p><p>What's this purchase stuff? Okay, yeah, I'll make a CD. So I literally went into my son's bedroom. I don't know why, that's where I recorded it. I just remember it must have been quiet in there. But I recorded my first training. It was how to generate leads and then I recorded another one, how to host a home party, how to recruit like crazy, all my secrets on three CDs and I had some artwork made and I got a thousand of them printed. And those have gone on to sell. I think 7,000 of the lead generation have been sold, you know, just crazy numbers. But it all started with that little thing and I was like, Oh, I could sell something. That's interesting. And so then, this January I decided to start running Facebook ads. I was like, maybe these could help more people.</p><p>So I started to run Facebook ads and then we started to sell like a really lot of them and I was like, well maybe I could make a course. So this new business of mine just kind of started this year where it was like half CDs, but maybe I'll do some courses. So you know, I host Facebook live parties. My first one I ever hosted, we recruited 20 people in 45 minutes and we sold over $20,000 as a team. And everyone was asking me how I did that. I said, I'll make a little course about it called Mastering the LIVES. I made this course and put it out there. And I realized at that moment that when that course launched, I realized that God had said to me, Michelle, your calls are your next level, like I know that I gave you the success in network marketing but now you are called to something bigger.</p><p>And I like pushed back for 10 months. I did. I said, you know what? No, I'm just, I'll just keep doing both. And I was doing both and trying to manage team and then building courses and, and it was a lot, but I just was like, no, I would go into the top of network marketing. That's what I'm doing. And he's like, but you don't understand. I've given you like literally seven times the income than this other thing. What are you doing? And so I had to honor that and say, you know what? I think you're right. I think I love training people. I love making videos. I love changing lives. I just want to do that. And I have literally like, that's all I want to do. And I made the very difficult decision to leave a team of a thousand reps, eight figures, sales team.</p><p>Like, I mean, people are like, have you lost your mind? I'm like, well no. I mean it sounds silly that you would leave something this big, but I grew something that was infinitely bigger that required less of my energy. That 100% filled my cup. Yeah. And brought me 100% joy. And I live a life now that I'm like, this is my dream. I'm with my kids all the time. I make videos, I change lives and I absolutely love it and I never thought any of that would happen. But I will tell you, I have, I talked about this with Beth and she'll reveal, but I've got something coming out that reveals how I use video, and not knowing, I just did it to be nice. But that video changed my life forever, and my financial situation forever. And I now am so passionate about showing other people the power of video. You just put out free content, you help people and you accidentally make a following. It was all an accident, but it was a pretty awesome accident that happened to me and I want to show people how to accidentally do what I've done because it's awesome.</p><p>Beth: <br />I love it. And so when I look back at give back frequently, generously, and anonymously, you are not, you know, God's knocking on your head saying, look, we need to impact more people so that we can make this, not just you giving back in big ways, but teaching others to give back in big ways. The other thing I love Michelle is, you went to the top, you learned to lead, you learned what the frustration was of your people. So that, as a mentor and a coach, like you waited to coach until you had basically done it all and said, okay, I'm called to do more to impact more. And you did show up in my feed on a Facebook ad and I saw the pink office of yours. And I was like, who is this? Who is this? She's so darn cute. Who is this little person? I need to learn from her! Who is this little human? And there's so many ways that our lives run parallel. And so I'm really, really excited. Two, I'm diving in to your video launch course. We're going to put in the show notes, and what is it called again? What's the specific name of it?</p><p>Michelle:<br />It's called video creator classroom. Yes. And there's also a Facebook group.</p><p>Beth:<br />So I'm all in because one of the things entrepreneurial add that I have is, Oh, I'll start a YouTube channel. Oh, I'll do this. Oh, I'll do that. So I'm saying it here, because then people will hold me to it. That my commitment is to go all in with podcast content and YouTube content. So I'm all in, I can't wait to get started on the content and I'm following directions. I'm not doing it my way. I'm going to learn from the best. And I hope those of you listening, I can understand that free content. I have people even with my YouTube channel that will grow this year, but I made a tiny little video before we even knew how to turn our phones or have ring lights. And that one video has so many views. And I've recruited many people who have reached out to me to say, Hey, could I join your team? And I was like, what? Like out of the blue, right? You get these messages. So imagine that content that we find. So it's free, right? It's free to be on YouTube.</p><p>Michelle:<br />It's free. I had a girl, and I forgot to share this, she found me online and joined my team and added over 700 people to my downline. 700 people. And so yeah, those were the things as it was making the channel, I was like, wait, this is awesome. So you know that was happening. I was like, I can't believe this is happening. So the blessings that came from the videos, I mean there's no way my team would have grown to the size it did without her and without a few hundred people in it found me online.</p><p>Beth:<br />So this power of YouTube brings you high quality leads. and the lesson I'm taking away is do it before you feel ready. Going into your son's room, making that CD back in the CD days and saying yes before you had a perfect presentation. And then that shift that was like, you know what, I need to impact more people and I need to get out of my comfort zone and build a life for my family and for the legacy. I love those pieces. So we're going to close with one question and those of you that want to join us in this course, it is going to be Epic. I'm telling you. And we're going to give you a link below that you can get in because it's pretty new, right Michelle? This is like the first group, brand new.</p><p>Michelle:<br />Yep. So we had our pilot group go through it, and it is so great. It's just fantastic and people are just loving it and life changing things happening. So exciting. So, so yes, now the pilot groups run through it. It's ready to launch. So it's gonna launch in the next few weeks here. We're just getting all the emails ready and everything. But yeah, it's going to be fantastic.</p><p>Beth:<br />I love it. And where else? Tell them how to find you on YouTube. Find you on Instagram, Facebook, all the good things. Where do we find you? And then I have one big question to close with, so don't get nervous.</p><p>Michelle:<br />Okay, got it. So @directsalesmichelle is me on YouTube and on Instagram. And MichelleCunningham.com is my website. I just got my full name. I was so excited.</p><p>Beth:<br />That's really exciting. Did you wait a long time for your name or did you have to negotiate it? Okay.</p><p>Michelle:<br />Someone owned it. There was a girl that was a stripper that owned it to be totally honest, and I know, and then I called Wix a few weeks ago and they're like, ma'am, your name is available. I'm like, no, a stripper owns it. He goes, no, no, it's available. And I'm like, what do you mean? He's like, yeah, I have it for $600 or $700. I'm like, well, I kind of want that. I'm like, you think I can get a deal? And anyway, the stripper didn't give me a deal, but yeah, it doesn't matter. I got my name now.</p><p>Beth:<br />So a stripper owned your YouTube chat, I mean your website.</p><p>Michelle:<br />Yeah. Oh yeah. So I own Michelle Cunningham online, and then now I have Michelle Cunningham, but I haven't transferred everything over. But Michelle Cunningham redirects you to Michelle Cunningham online.</p><p>Beth:<br />I love it. I love it. Okay, here is your question. For people listening today that are ready, that need to take an action there where you were during those years of sitting around thinking, yeah, one day, maybe I'll do it. Still doing what they're not loving that they're doing. What are three things that after they finish their workout because we're in their ears or we're in the car. Three things that you can tell them to do today that will lead them to do that success that you are speaking of. Getting to the top of the company, doing all the things, having the freedom?</p><p>Michelle:<br />So three things. Number one, I would set a schedule, my life dramatically changed and I said, you know what, I'm going to hold appointments Friday at 6:00PM, 8:00PM and Saturday at 10, 12 and 2. I set a schedule and that was it. Those are the little windows that I worked, but that made such a huge impact. I got so much done in the Friday, Saturday that I worked my business. I booked appointments all during the week, but I knew on Friday and Saturday that's when I got dressed, got out of the house, did my thing. So that's number one. Set a schedule and make it. I used to do Tuesday afternoon, Friday mornings, Sunday, Thursday. And my family is like, are you going to be home today? Like no one knew anything. So when they finally knew every Friday, mommy's busy, every Saturday, mommy's busy.</p><p>There was so much harmony that brought to our family. Number two, I would say positive affirmations all day long. I think as women we just are always overthinking things. So I think fill your cup with things that motivate you. I like to watch crazy people online. Gary Van Der Chuck, he swears a lot, but I do like his message. And so finding people online that have a powerful message. The Tony Robbins of the world, the Sarah Robbins, the really motivational people out there. Follow those people and absorb what they say. And my last tip would be run your own race. Run your own race. Don't look left or right. I think that when you think about what other people are doing and you're worried about what they're doing, it doesn't matter. They're on their own train track. You're on your own train track and your train track is moving. Your train is moving on your track at the rate it's supposed to move and you can make it move faster.</p><p>But it doesn't matter what people do to the left or right of you. And that includes the people on your team. One person cannot dictate your success. Other people's trains have taken a break and they're having a snack somewhere. That's just fine. You keep your train moving. And so I always stayed in a very happy state because I personally worked my business and I didn't look left or right. I'm so disconnected to the world like, you know what's going on in the world. I don't watch the news, I don't watch other people and I just do my thing because I'm out here just Owning My Awesome. And I recommend the same for you because you can't really think when you don't know anything. It's great.</p><p>Beth:<br />Okay, the name of this podcast episode will be, Own Your Awesome with Michelle Cunningham. I have notes covering my desk. Michelle. This connection is so amazing because I know that, I already decided we're friends forever. Okay?</p><p>Michelle:<br />Done. When am I getting my necklace? I want to get the hat. It's actually really funny. That would actually be really fun. I totally feel the same connection to you. So like I want you to know, it's not like you're the weird friend that just likes me. I feel the same way. I also, I'm feeling like, my new best friend. I totally love her. So we're still on the same page and you're such a rock star, and you're so amazing in all that you do. And I just commend you and I am really, I've got to learn about podcasting from you because I want to start one and I've been dragging my feet a little, so it'll be good.</p><p>Beth:<br />I'll teach you podcasting. It's been such a great connection and so I want to challenge you guys to...I'm just, I'm going to go over, set a schedule positive affirmations and run your own race and just get started. Michelle is a perfect example. Before she was ready, before she had a plan, before she had the perfect pink office. But you guys are gonna be so jealous of the pink office and just do it. Get yourself started and ready and put out the free content and Own Your Awesome. Thank you Michelle. And we'll catch you guys all next week on You're Not the Boss of Me.</p><p>Oh my goodness. How awesome. How awesome was Michelle today you guys? So let me just ask you to do this for me. Let's get some Instagram love today. So please screenshot this and tag us both @bethholdengrades and @directsalesmichelle and let us know that you loved this episode today. Also, there is still time. This is so exciting that ProfitHER Way is launching this month. We have so much to do and preparing your profit plan, helping you to make money your way. So go ahead and go over to <a href="https://bethholdengraves.com/profit" target="_blank">bethholdengraves.com/profit</a> if you are ready to be a part of a powerful mastermind and getting your plan in place for 2020. And as always, I'll see you over at Camp Elevate.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging with me today on the podcast and remember, you can create what you crave. If you're looking for a supportive sisterhood, I would love to see you over in our free Facebook group. As most of you know, I love camp. It's part of, 'You're Not the Boss of Me' because when we're building this thing, we're doing this thing. We need a supportive sisterhood and I also crave more fun and more connection. Join us at camp over in the Facebook world, <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com" target="_blank">thecampelevategroup.com</a> or just click on the link above and we will see you around our campfire and help you to create what you crave.</p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Learn More About The Content Discussed...</strong></p><ul><li>No Boss Talk:<a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></li><li>Michelle Cunningham Website:<a href="https://michellecunninghamOnline.com">https://MichelleCunninghamOnline.com</a></li><li>Michelle’s Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/directsalesmichelle">@directsalesmichelle</a></li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">here</a></li><li>Beth’s Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth’s website:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></li></ul><p><strong>Keynotes discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>She's earned a six figure income consistently and led a network marketing team to over eight figures in sales, hosting home parties and Facebook parties. (01:31)</li><li>I'm tired of saying I'm shy. Yes, you're shy, but don't say that to yourself. Like shy is just another word for insecure.(07:21)</li><li>Then all of a sudden introvert Michelle who went from being shy to being bold is like we've got a system and it's working. So how did that look?(10:52)</li><li>All I learned is change your story, make it super inspirational and then at the end give them two options.(13:14)</li><li>I want to talk about owning your awesome, and that when someone owns their story, and someone has confidence, and it takes time.(16:10)</li></ul><p><strong>When Did It Air...</strong><br />January 06, 2020</p><p><strong>Episode Transcript...</strong></p><p>Beth:<br />Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Hello. Hello and welcome to episode number 19. And Happy New Year, If you're listening to this in real time. So today I am so excited because I have been stalking Michelle Cunningham. She is my guest and you are going to love her Own Your Awesome. And you will walk away, literally fired up like pulling your car over to the side of the road and getting started taking action after this podcast. So let me tell you a little bit about Michelle and then we'll bring her on. She teaches network marketers around the world to successfully build their business through Facebook parties, home parties, and using the power of video. So after you see this wonder woman on YouTube, you are going to see the power and the impact. She's called the queen of video branding for direct sellers and teaches you to Own Your Awesome to have a massive impact for success. She's been involved in the industry for 16 years. She's earned a six figure income consistently and led a network marketing team to over eight figures in sales, hosting home parties and Facebook parties. So she's playful. She's on YouTube. She's so much fun. She's made an impact with thousands and thousands and thousands of network marketers. And so here she is. Let's talk to Michelle Cunningham.</p><p>So, Hey everyone. I am so excited because I have been stalking. She's my new best friend. She doesn't know it yet. I sent her like a half a heart necklace. Her name is Michelle Cunningham and I literally have been watching her for months and months and months, obsessing over her content, her energy, her YouTube channel. And so, you know, I asked for everything so I thought, I'm just going to ask Michelle, she's super famous if she would hop on this podcast to help us hear more about how she's built her business in direct sales and thousands of others with her quirky, honest, but deliberate presence on YouTube and on social media, and just being an awesome pink princess. So hello Michelle!</p><p>Michelle:<br />Hi. That was quite the introduction.</p><p>Beth:<br />Well you didn't know like I always like to admit that I'm stalking someone because it's just weird if you don't, right?</p><p>Michelle:<br />Yeah, well I stalk people too so I totally get it.</p><p>Beth:<br />I know I just, I study, I love to study success and so I know that we have some people that may not have been introduced to you yet and now they are. And I'm super excited because after meeting you and talking with you, and we're going to give you guys this offer at the end, is I'm going to do the YouTube thing this year, and I have like seriously dark videos that are sharing my sticky note challenge and you've inspired me. So can you give us a little bit of history? I know that for those of you that, you know I said it on the intro, but give us the real version. How did you get started? When did you start realizing that the video presence was really a thing to build the business? So give us the scoop. Who are you? What do you do? Yeah, all that jazz.</p><p>Michelle<br />All right, well I'll give you the quick background because I feel like a background is really important. I grew up incredibly poor. My mom was a single mom so I came from very little. I had two brothers and myself and everything I've ever had for in life I've had to pay for on my own. And so I grew up always wanting to be like the kids who just had like Pantene shampoo and fresh apples. So just to put it in perspective, like where I live now and what my life is like is not what I grew up as. And so I'm very thankful for life, the journey. But I'm also, it's what drove me. It was realizing like, I don't want to have a moldy basement and like snakes in my basement and have a house, I'm embarrassed by. I want to have more and so...</p><p>I went to college, paid my way through college, and then entered direct sales into my life. I got my first job as a pharmaceutical sales rep and then I landed at an event, and it was a direct sales event. My coworker's wife invited me and I'm there in this hotel room, the holiday Inn, and there's a lady in the room claiming to make six figures. Another one's a millionaire, another one's driving a free car. And I'm like, dude, this is either a fantastic opportunity or this is a scam. So I went home and I told my mom at 23 years old, and she goes, Oh yeah, honey, a hundred percent scam. Do not get involved. I was not doing it. And then a week later I remembered that I was 23 and at 23 you don't listen to your mom. So I signed up anyway. And that was 16 years ago, 17 years ago.</p><p>And so when I joined, there was no text message. There was no Facebook. And so they said, how you're going to build your business, honey, 23 year old, you're going to go up to strangers in parking lots, and like, Oh, that's horrifying. People doing that. Like I'm an introvert, I don't like to bother you. I don't like to be in people's way. It's just who I am. I want everyone to like me. That's just my personality, right? So the idea of approaching a stranger and having them yell at me was like my worst nightmare. And so I, for the next six years, did not tell anyone. I was involved in network marketing like for six years. But in that six years I studied it. I looked up ideas, I ordered my full inventory, I was ready to go, but I did nothing for six years. I think I held like a party or two.</p><p>Beth:<br />Wait, wait, wait, wait. I gotta repeat that. You guys six years of studying. And so many people are like, Oh, I just, I mean I was that person, Michelle, that I bought every kit, signed up for a billion things and didn't study, didn't do a thing until, you know, when I launched the current business that I'm in. But I didn't know it was six years. What made you keep holding on?</p><p>Michelle:<br />Yeah, it's just a fantastic part of the story. And it always, when I'm sharing in front of an audience, they're like, you gave me hope. Because I've been, you know, 5 years, I haven't started. I'm like, Oh you're fine, you're actually ahead of me. So for six years I loved the dream of it, but I was too shy and too nervous to approach people, you know? And I was like, but I loved it. But I was like, but I can't. And so it was self talk, this negative self talk that I had, that I don't want to bother people. I don't want to, you know. And, in that six years I tried, it's not like I did nothing. It's like I'd study an idea and then I call my recruiter. I'm like, maybe let's do your mall thing. You said we could do a scavenger hunt.</p><p>Then we'd go do the mall thing. And so we'd go up to people and I actually met a lady who said, Oh my gosh, your sell for that company? I would love to host a party with you. And I'm like, really? Okay. But I got home and I was too nervous to call her. Talk about, this is not going to work. And I called her the day before the party to confirm because I was nervous. But she was like, I never heard from you. What would make you think I am going to host a party with you? And I was like, you're right. Okay, bye. So little like mouse Michelle. One day I made a decision at 29 I was fed up enough with my corporate job and I think that's when you see someone make a big change where I was like, you know what, I'm tired of being a mouse.</p><p>I'm tired of saying I'm shy. Yes, you're shy, but don't say that to yourself. Like shy is just another word for insecure. There's all of these things. I was telling myself they were not serving me and I thought, you know what? What makes me different from that girl over there that's wildly confident? She just acts confident. Why don't I just start doing that? Why don't I just like stop caring and let's just like do this? Because I just made that very conscious decision. And it was January, 2009 yeah, 2009, and I went online and I found someone that worked for the company that I had signed up with. She was not my recruiter, but they have a we'll help you no matter what thing. So she, when I met her, what was amazing about this lady is, she changed my life forever because when I met her, she's 4ft 11in, tiny. She wears short, spiky hair. She doesn't wear a ton of makeup. She's not loud. She's not bold. She's not crazy. She suffers from social anxiety disorder. She fainted at her first home party.</p><p>Yes, And over three weeks. Yeah. You're like, that doesn't sound like a good mentor. But see, she earned over $3 million in her career and was driving the top level car. And I was like, Oh, okay, so you're a little broken. I'm a little broken. If you can do this, maybe I could do this. And so it was in meeting her, then I met someone that wasn't perfect. Sometimes you meet people in this industry and they're perfect and they talk perfect and they smile and perfect and you're like, that's scary and weird. So she was normal. And so she taught me her system. She said, if you don't want to call people then just text people, you know, just do whatever it's going to work for you. Just find a way. And I was like, wait, I can do that. And so I actually started texting people, in that first month I made $1,000 not knowing what I was doing.</p><p>Six months later, I made over $5,000, built a team of 50. A few months after that I had earned a car. That month I earned another free insurance, and then earned another car a few months later. And then four years later I learned a system that taught me how to recruit like crazy. And I taught that to my team and we went from a hundred people on my team to over a thousand and it changed my life forever. We became an eight figure sales team. My team did over eight figures in sales and just crazy, crazy. But it's just crazy to think that for that long I struggled, but it was just one day to saying, you know what? I'm fed up enough. We're just going to like make this work. Yeah. So that was the beginning.</p><p>Beth:<br />Well, and okay, a couple of things that I love is, you notice that she wasn't perfect and I think that that just like made my face light up. Even though we're on a podcast, you can't see it, because that's what I think that vulnerability of you on video is. You're the real deal in showing up and saying, we may not be perfect. And I say that all the time, is like I built my business with sticky notes because I couldn't figure out how to use the Excel spreadsheet, and I've got like, my drunk uncle was driving me around when I was trying to use systems. And you also said find what works for you but have some way that you are booking, like in your case, booking the parties, booking the shows, booking the online events. So you said something to that. I know everyone was like yeah, pulling over to the side of the road, getting out their notes on their phone. You said you developed a system that worked for your team. Do you want to talk a little bit about that? Because that's a Renegade. You are in a company that had been around forever, like the beginning of time. Everyone knew that person that had earned that car in town and then all of a sudden introvert Michelle who went from being shy to being bold is like we've got a system and it's working. So how did that look? Can you share a little bit of what that time looked like? And what you guys all did?</p><p>Michelle:<br />Absolutely. So that fourth year I had been sitting at a team of about a hundred. I was pretty consistently making about $5,000 a month and I heard a speaker that year that said, or at an event. And the one thing that I took away, she said, Hey guys, I believe that while you're on this earth you should make as much money as humanly possible. And I was like, wait, where's she gonna go with this? I don't know if that, you know, the the poor girl in me. It was like, I don't want to, I don't know if I want to hear this...because I believe that you should live completely debt free. And I was like, okay, I can get on board with that. And then I also believe you should have tons of savings for your future. I said okay, I like that you said. And I then believe you should live below your means.</p><p>I do. I like to shop at target and resale shop. And you should give back frequently, generously, and anonymously. And that last line of frequently, generously and anonymously, I said to myself, Michelle, you need to step up your game. You could be helping so many more people right now. You have enough to provide for you and your family. How many more humans could you help if you decide to step up your game because the fact that you got to where you are, what if we did that same amount of crazy work like over and over and over again. And I thought, Hmm, I need it. I need to find something. And it was like a God thing. I was on Facebook that night and this cute little blonde appeared on my screen and it was a Facebook ad and she was just pretty, I just clicked on her and I said, let me see what she's all about, cute little blonde thing. And it was Sarah Robbins from Rodan and Fields, the number one seller for Rodan and Fields, and she's making like $1 million a month. I mean, it's just like something, or million dollars. I don't, it's something so insane that you're like, okay, let me learn from you a little human. So I clicked on that.</p><p>Beth:<br />I love, Love you to learn from you little human. I love it.</p><p>Michelle:<br />Yes literally, because she was just a little thumbnail is what I mean. She was a little person on my screen. I clicked on the little human and I ordered her book, which is How to Rock Your Network Marketing Business.</p><p>Beth:<br />That was my first book! I bought too! Oh my gosh, this is crazy. Yeah, that's it. It's tattered and it's highlighted and every, yes, yes, yes. Okay, keep going. I love it.</p><p>Michelle:<br />So I read the book and all I learned, you don't have to go read the book, I'll just tell you what it is. All I learned is change your story, make it super inspirational and then at the end give them two options. You can join my team today, if you decide not to do that, you can take home products. Those were two things I was missing. I was missing the inspirational story. I had a ho hum story. It was kind of inspirational but not really. So I changed my story to be like, I was the number one person in all of my company. I Owned My Awesome. So I made it like I was in a play with this amazing story and I'm glad to share it if you wanna hear how I roll it out. But yeah, that story. And then at the end I said option one, join my team.</p><p>Oh, and that's the best deal of all. And then if you decide not to do that, you can take home products. And I usually was just selling product, product, product. And then after I would invite them to meet for coffee after they liked the product. This whole long three week process, which sort of was effective, but I was like, wait, if I could sign people up on the spot. And so I rolled this out for the first time in March, 2000 and gosh, I don't remember what year. But it was, I don't know, six years ago. And I roll this out and my first appointment, I had a lady over to my house, tried the product, I did my arrogance story at the beginning and it was, it was like arrogant, but I was doing what I was reading in the book and I had practiced it all day. And at the end she goes, okay. And I give her options. She goes, okay, so here's what I've decided. I'd like to join your team and I'd like to buy the whole skin care system.</p><p>And I was like, ah, what the heck just happened? I'm like, that's not definitely supposed to happen. I'm like, you do want it? Yeah. And in my head I'm like, just Michelle, write it up, sign her up, sell her the thing, just do it. So I do. And she goes home inspired, which is what was different. She went home inspired and she told her husband about this inspirational woman that lived a few towns over that was on fire. It was, you know, changing your life. And the next day she called, my husband wants me to get the whole package. He wants me to get started now, because he was inspired. I had never had someone do that before. And it was in that moment that I believe like God was knocking on my head like Michelle, do more of that be loud, because by you being loud and you being proud, you can impact people's lives, you can change their financial situation.</p><p>And so I had to stop being introverted Michelle and say, okay, I need to be awesome because by me being awesome, I can impact lives. And so the next lady came over that day with her husband and at the end her husband goes, yeah, you should just sign up. And so she joined my team that month. Following that system, I recruited 22 reps personally and my team followed the same system and they recruited another 20. So in one month we brought in 42 new reps to my team, of like a hundred, that's sitting at a hundred for four years. And I was like, that was awesome. Let's do that again. And so we did, we did it again, did it again. And that year I earned the top level car. We had five people become the top 1% of the company. I mean everything changed, right? I went to London that year. I mean just everything, massive movement because of a tiny little shift Owning Our Awesome lead with the opportunity to default to the products. It was such a simple idea. Yet it made such an impact.</p><p>Beth:<br />I was like, I have chills because so many times that I want to talk about Owning Your Awesome. And that when someone owns their story, and someone has confidence, and it takes time. Those of you that are listening today and you're thinking, but I haven't had the success yet. I don't have that voice that Michelle has or that Beth has. You can be that person, and there's visualization, and seeing yourself on that stage, and there's creating that story that allows you to Own Your Awesome. So I think you might be able to walk us through, if someone wants to walk away from this podcast and Own They're Awesome, and they're being coached by you. what would you tell them?</p><p>Michelle:<br />I would say to them, and I said this in my group the other day. I said, guys, what is the most you've ever sold at one party or in one day? What is the dollar amount? One girl wrote $1600 and another girl wrote $300 another girl wrote $800, and I said, do you have any idea that the average person out there, that an extra $200 a month would dramatically change their financial situation? Like do you have any idea? And the fact that you can host the party or you can be in front of humans and then two hours of your time you can make $200? That is mind blowing to most humans. That is literally mind blowing. And so if you have a story like that, like in the chat when I shared this, girls were like, Oh yeah, I made $800 in two hours. I'm like, you should be at the every appointment. Yeah, like hanging from the roof, swinging on a Tarzan rope saying, guys, I'm a big deal!</p><p>I made $800 dollars, I made $400 in two hours. Whatever it is, that is such a huge story. And so putting that dollar amount into your story can make such a huge impact and can really inspire someone. So I always tell people, throw a dollar amount in there. What did you do in a two hour time span or in a day time span, one week I made this money, whatever it is, put your marketing hat on. And you know, as women, we're taught to not be arrogant, but I would say, no, no, this is Owning Your Awesome, and this is going to change lives. So put that away, the arrogance part of it and just Own Your Awesome and share those stories.</p><p>Beth:<br />And I just had this vision, because I've talked Michelle into being at real life camp. We're going to have a Tarzan rope and we are going to do an Own Your Awesome activity. We're swinging from the rope. I mean I think we should have one in our offices. I love it. Okay. So we're at this point of your business, you're teaching women to own their stories, to lead with the business, to really be real about what's happening in the direct selling network marketing industry. And that was what I needed to know for me to finally say yes and go all in what was possible and why not me? So you've got this team and you're rolling and a lot of what you were doing because of your business was a party plan business. And then you transitioned to a lot of online coaching, training and parties.</p><p>Can you talk about that transition for those people that might not have the opportunity? And I always, I want to preface this, you guys, you always have the opportunity to be in a person's living room. And I know that we see a lot of things that say, build online. Never leave your house, never talk to your neighbor. But I will always tell you to earn multiple seven figures. I was willing, I wanted to be connecting with that neighbor because I know that in person and online sharing what Michelle just shared, swinging from the Tarzan rope, changing lives is in person. It's online, it's everywhere. If you are passionate, right Michelle?</p><p>Michelle:<br />It's 100%, and I built so much in my business in person, you know, then I did transition. I did a lot online. I had a lot of success online. But I, most of my clients, all that reorder from, it's all mostly in person. Yes I do get people that find me on YouTube and stuff like that. But it started, and I yes, I 100% agree with you in person. So great. And it's so good for introverts like me to be in front of people because if I'm not in front of people, I find for me it's like a muscle, I can get just quiet and not really want to be around people. And so for me, I kind of force myself to be in front of people to learn human interaction. Because I just sometimes, I just want to be home. I just want to do my thing. So getting out and challenging yourself will make you a more confident person. That's what I found and it brought me success.</p><p>Beth:<br />Well and I say to people, if I told you that your income would double, triple, that you would impact your family's life, be able to impact the lives of others because you were willing to go to that event, to go and meet with that one person. I remember early in my career, we had had a tough summer and I was tired and I was supposed to get on an airplane and go to Vegas and there was a team growing there and I made it. I think that was when I saw a rising leader, I would get on an airplane and go and meet that person in person, meet their friends, help with the event. It was an investment I was willing to make and I almost canceled this event. I thought, Ugh, I don't really want to fly that. And then my husband said, they are responsible for the money that you're making, your personal actions are, but this team is waiting for you.</p><p>And I have to say, Michelle, I heard a story at that event from one of the promoters on my team and I journaled about it. And it was how the product had helped her overcome grief. And she shared with me how much she wanted to tell me that in person. And I literally said, I will never miss the opportunity to be in front of people. And it has been what drives me. So let's fast forward, because we're now quite a few years later and now you're this YouTube sensation. You've got this following that is like crazy cult like. You needed to get your systems into the hands of many. You are called to do that. So how did it go from your team to worldwide people just finding you and saying, Michelle, give me what you've got. How did you make that transition and how does your business look today?</p><p>Michelle:<br />So, it's such a great question because it wasn't ever my intention. I believe that God had a hand in this. Like there's no other good explanation and you know, depending on what your beliefs are, the universe whatever. But literally, six years ago, as an introvert, I said I'm going to start a YouTube channel. Why? Because at that time I was a little bored with my business. So you know how you have a month where you're like, I just feel bored. What can I do in my spare time? I was bored. My son was like three, so I wasn't exhausted and I think it was pregnant, like I'm going to start a little YouTube channel. Or maybe it was right before I started to get pregnant with the next one. And so I have a little, you know, I had downtime, and I don't like downtime.</p><p>I don't like to watch movies. I get bored, I like to work. And so I'll start a YouTube channel, I'll just make a video. And initially I was like, I don't know what I'll make it about. Maybe I'll make it about organizing. And they made a few videos. That channel still exists. It has 900 followers. I made eight videos about organizing. It's the stupidest videos ever because I don't like organizing, not like I have a very organized office, but my house, you know it's not. So it was funny though, I was making that channel and it stressed me out cause I had to clean before I filmed, and then I was like this isn't my jam. And then one day I was like, but I really like to talk about network marketing and direct sales. Why don't I just do that?</p><p>Until I started to put out what I was doing. I was just sharing my tips and I could not believe it, but people were like messaging me at 3:00 AM in the morning, and my inbox saying, Michelle, your video just totally changed my life. It changed my business. I love you forever. Oh my gosh, you're so amazing. Do you have more stuff? And I was like, I'll make more videos, I'll make some more. And I just literally for six years, I just kept putting out new videos. I tried to aim for once a week putting out a video, and that was my goal, and I didn't always hit it. I mean, you know, it was sometimes two weeks or three weeks, but I just tried to put out content. Okay. I did not think anything else beyond that. Never thought it would ever turn into else. Well, crazy.</p><p>But I got a call from a company, they said, Hey Michelle, we found you on YouTube. Can you come and train our sales force or a brand new startup network marketing company? I was like, Whoa, that's awesome. And I was like, sure. And they're like, how much is your fee? I said to my husband, how much? He's like, just say something outrageous. I'm like, well, I wouldn't go there for, I'll say $2,500.00. He's like, yeah, just say that. I said that. And they said, sure. And I was like, Oh, my word, this is awesome. Right? So, say that, go and speak to the company. And a few weeks before I go, they said, Michelle, do you have any training materials? We'd like to purchase your training materials? And I was like, purchase, like I just do free training.</p><p>What's this purchase stuff? Okay, yeah, I'll make a CD. So I literally went into my son's bedroom. I don't know why, that's where I recorded it. I just remember it must have been quiet in there. But I recorded my first training. It was how to generate leads and then I recorded another one, how to host a home party, how to recruit like crazy, all my secrets on three CDs and I had some artwork made and I got a thousand of them printed. And those have gone on to sell. I think 7,000 of the lead generation have been sold, you know, just crazy numbers. But it all started with that little thing and I was like, Oh, I could sell something. That's interesting. And so then, this January I decided to start running Facebook ads. I was like, maybe these could help more people.</p><p>So I started to run Facebook ads and then we started to sell like a really lot of them and I was like, well maybe I could make a course. So this new business of mine just kind of started this year where it was like half CDs, but maybe I'll do some courses. So you know, I host Facebook live parties. My first one I ever hosted, we recruited 20 people in 45 minutes and we sold over $20,000 as a team. And everyone was asking me how I did that. I said, I'll make a little course about it called Mastering the LIVES. I made this course and put it out there. And I realized at that moment that when that course launched, I realized that God had said to me, Michelle, your calls are your next level, like I know that I gave you the success in network marketing but now you are called to something bigger.</p><p>And I like pushed back for 10 months. I did. I said, you know what? No, I'm just, I'll just keep doing both. And I was doing both and trying to manage team and then building courses and, and it was a lot, but I just was like, no, I would go into the top of network marketing. That's what I'm doing. And he's like, but you don't understand. I've given you like literally seven times the income than this other thing. What are you doing? And so I had to honor that and say, you know what? I think you're right. I think I love training people. I love making videos. I love changing lives. I just want to do that. And I have literally like, that's all I want to do. And I made the very difficult decision to leave a team of a thousand reps, eight figures, sales team.</p><p>Like, I mean, people are like, have you lost your mind? I'm like, well no. I mean it sounds silly that you would leave something this big, but I grew something that was infinitely bigger that required less of my energy. That 100% filled my cup. Yeah. And brought me 100% joy. And I live a life now that I'm like, this is my dream. I'm with my kids all the time. I make videos, I change lives and I absolutely love it and I never thought any of that would happen. But I will tell you, I have, I talked about this with Beth and she'll reveal, but I've got something coming out that reveals how I use video, and not knowing, I just did it to be nice. But that video changed my life forever, and my financial situation forever. And I now am so passionate about showing other people the power of video. You just put out free content, you help people and you accidentally make a following. It was all an accident, but it was a pretty awesome accident that happened to me and I want to show people how to accidentally do what I've done because it's awesome.</p><p>Beth: <br />I love it. And so when I look back at give back frequently, generously, and anonymously, you are not, you know, God's knocking on your head saying, look, we need to impact more people so that we can make this, not just you giving back in big ways, but teaching others to give back in big ways. The other thing I love Michelle is, you went to the top, you learned to lead, you learned what the frustration was of your people. So that, as a mentor and a coach, like you waited to coach until you had basically done it all and said, okay, I'm called to do more to impact more. And you did show up in my feed on a Facebook ad and I saw the pink office of yours. And I was like, who is this? Who is this? She's so darn cute. Who is this little person? I need to learn from her! Who is this little human? And there's so many ways that our lives run parallel. And so I'm really, really excited. Two, I'm diving in to your video launch course. We're going to put in the show notes, and what is it called again? What's the specific name of it?</p><p>Michelle:<br />It's called video creator classroom. Yes. And there's also a Facebook group.</p><p>Beth:<br />So I'm all in because one of the things entrepreneurial add that I have is, Oh, I'll start a YouTube channel. Oh, I'll do this. Oh, I'll do that. So I'm saying it here, because then people will hold me to it. That my commitment is to go all in with podcast content and YouTube content. So I'm all in, I can't wait to get started on the content and I'm following directions. I'm not doing it my way. I'm going to learn from the best. And I hope those of you listening, I can understand that free content. I have people even with my YouTube channel that will grow this year, but I made a tiny little video before we even knew how to turn our phones or have ring lights. And that one video has so many views. And I've recruited many people who have reached out to me to say, Hey, could I join your team? And I was like, what? Like out of the blue, right? You get these messages. So imagine that content that we find. So it's free, right? It's free to be on YouTube.</p><p>Michelle:<br />It's free. I had a girl, and I forgot to share this, she found me online and joined my team and added over 700 people to my downline. 700 people. And so yeah, those were the things as it was making the channel, I was like, wait, this is awesome. So you know that was happening. I was like, I can't believe this is happening. So the blessings that came from the videos, I mean there's no way my team would have grown to the size it did without her and without a few hundred people in it found me online.</p><p>Beth:<br />So this power of YouTube brings you high quality leads. and the lesson I'm taking away is do it before you feel ready. Going into your son's room, making that CD back in the CD days and saying yes before you had a perfect presentation. And then that shift that was like, you know what, I need to impact more people and I need to get out of my comfort zone and build a life for my family and for the legacy. I love those pieces. So we're going to close with one question and those of you that want to join us in this course, it is going to be Epic. I'm telling you. And we're going to give you a link below that you can get in because it's pretty new, right Michelle? This is like the first group, brand new.</p><p>Michelle:<br />Yep. So we had our pilot group go through it, and it is so great. It's just fantastic and people are just loving it and life changing things happening. So exciting. So, so yes, now the pilot groups run through it. It's ready to launch. So it's gonna launch in the next few weeks here. We're just getting all the emails ready and everything. But yeah, it's going to be fantastic.</p><p>Beth:<br />I love it. And where else? Tell them how to find you on YouTube. Find you on Instagram, Facebook, all the good things. Where do we find you? And then I have one big question to close with, so don't get nervous.</p><p>Michelle:<br />Okay, got it. So @directsalesmichelle is me on YouTube and on Instagram. And MichelleCunningham.com is my website. I just got my full name. I was so excited.</p><p>Beth:<br />That's really exciting. Did you wait a long time for your name or did you have to negotiate it? Okay.</p><p>Michelle:<br />Someone owned it. There was a girl that was a stripper that owned it to be totally honest, and I know, and then I called Wix a few weeks ago and they're like, ma'am, your name is available. I'm like, no, a stripper owns it. He goes, no, no, it's available. And I'm like, what do you mean? He's like, yeah, I have it for $600 or $700. I'm like, well, I kind of want that. I'm like, you think I can get a deal? And anyway, the stripper didn't give me a deal, but yeah, it doesn't matter. I got my name now.</p><p>Beth:<br />So a stripper owned your YouTube chat, I mean your website.</p><p>Michelle:<br />Yeah. Oh yeah. So I own Michelle Cunningham online, and then now I have Michelle Cunningham, but I haven't transferred everything over. But Michelle Cunningham redirects you to Michelle Cunningham online.</p><p>Beth:<br />I love it. I love it. Okay, here is your question. For people listening today that are ready, that need to take an action there where you were during those years of sitting around thinking, yeah, one day, maybe I'll do it. Still doing what they're not loving that they're doing. What are three things that after they finish their workout because we're in their ears or we're in the car. Three things that you can tell them to do today that will lead them to do that success that you are speaking of. Getting to the top of the company, doing all the things, having the freedom?</p><p>Michelle:<br />So three things. Number one, I would set a schedule, my life dramatically changed and I said, you know what, I'm going to hold appointments Friday at 6:00PM, 8:00PM and Saturday at 10, 12 and 2. I set a schedule and that was it. Those are the little windows that I worked, but that made such a huge impact. I got so much done in the Friday, Saturday that I worked my business. I booked appointments all during the week, but I knew on Friday and Saturday that's when I got dressed, got out of the house, did my thing. So that's number one. Set a schedule and make it. I used to do Tuesday afternoon, Friday mornings, Sunday, Thursday. And my family is like, are you going to be home today? Like no one knew anything. So when they finally knew every Friday, mommy's busy, every Saturday, mommy's busy.</p><p>There was so much harmony that brought to our family. Number two, I would say positive affirmations all day long. I think as women we just are always overthinking things. So I think fill your cup with things that motivate you. I like to watch crazy people online. Gary Van Der Chuck, he swears a lot, but I do like his message. And so finding people online that have a powerful message. The Tony Robbins of the world, the Sarah Robbins, the really motivational people out there. Follow those people and absorb what they say. And my last tip would be run your own race. Run your own race. Don't look left or right. I think that when you think about what other people are doing and you're worried about what they're doing, it doesn't matter. They're on their own train track. You're on your own train track and your train track is moving. Your train is moving on your track at the rate it's supposed to move and you can make it move faster.</p><p>But it doesn't matter what people do to the left or right of you. And that includes the people on your team. One person cannot dictate your success. Other people's trains have taken a break and they're having a snack somewhere. That's just fine. You keep your train moving. And so I always stayed in a very happy state because I personally worked my business and I didn't look left or right. I'm so disconnected to the world like, you know what's going on in the world. I don't watch the news, I don't watch other people and I just do my thing because I'm out here just Owning My Awesome. And I recommend the same for you because you can't really think when you don't know anything. It's great.</p><p>Beth:<br />Okay, the name of this podcast episode will be, Own Your Awesome with Michelle Cunningham. I have notes covering my desk. Michelle. This connection is so amazing because I know that, I already decided we're friends forever. Okay?</p><p>Michelle:<br />Done. When am I getting my necklace? I want to get the hat. It's actually really funny. That would actually be really fun. I totally feel the same connection to you. So like I want you to know, it's not like you're the weird friend that just likes me. I feel the same way. I also, I'm feeling like, my new best friend. I totally love her. So we're still on the same page and you're such a rock star, and you're so amazing in all that you do. And I just commend you and I am really, I've got to learn about podcasting from you because I want to start one and I've been dragging my feet a little, so it'll be good.</p><p>Beth:<br />I'll teach you podcasting. It's been such a great connection and so I want to challenge you guys to...I'm just, I'm going to go over, set a schedule positive affirmations and run your own race and just get started. Michelle is a perfect example. Before she was ready, before she had a plan, before she had the perfect pink office. But you guys are gonna be so jealous of the pink office and just do it. Get yourself started and ready and put out the free content and Own Your Awesome. Thank you Michelle. And we'll catch you guys all next week on You're Not the Boss of Me.</p><p>Oh my goodness. How awesome. How awesome was Michelle today you guys? So let me just ask you to do this for me. Let's get some Instagram love today. So please screenshot this and tag us both @bethholdengrades and @directsalesmichelle and let us know that you loved this episode today. Also, there is still time. This is so exciting that ProfitHER Way is launching this month. We have so much to do and preparing your profit plan, helping you to make money your way. So go ahead and go over to <a href="https://bethholdengraves.com/profit" target="_blank">bethholdengraves.com/profit</a> if you are ready to be a part of a powerful mastermind and getting your plan in place for 2020. And as always, I'll see you over at Camp Elevate.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging with me today on the podcast and remember, you can create what you crave. If you're looking for a supportive sisterhood, I would love to see you over in our free Facebook group. As most of you know, I love camp. It's part of, 'You're Not the Boss of Me' because when we're building this thing, we're doing this thing. We need a supportive sisterhood and I also crave more fun and more connection. Join us at camp over in the Facebook world, <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com" target="_blank">thecampelevategroup.com</a> or just click on the link above and we will see you around our campfire and help you to create what you crave.</p>
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(04:39)</li><li>What are the things that need to happen for you to live an aligned life with joy, purpose, and freedom.(08:06)</li><li>Seeing all of the good things, not being annoyed with the bad things and using breath work and all of those pieces. (12:39)</li><li>There's so many different ways to do it, but don't get caught up in finding the perfect way to manifest in the perfect way to ask the universe and the perfect way to do the morning routine.(14:44)</li><li>But what I want you to know about all of that is after the visualization and after knowing the destination and after deciding how I was going to get there and how you're going to get there takes imperfect action. (19:42)</li></ul><p><strong>When Did It Air...</strong><br />December 30, 2019</p><p><strong>Episode Transcript:</strong></p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Hey friend and happy New Year! If you are regular listeners, thank you, because you're listening to this on Monday when we drop it at 6:00 AM, and if it's March, April, June, July, this is still going to be an exceptional podcast for you because I'm going to clear the clutter of manifesting goal setting, passion planners, love attraction, manifesting journals, whatever kind of system, goal setting, how we do it, how we shouldn't do it. That is cluttering your brain. You're going to clear it up today and give you a specific plan to move your business and your life goals forward. So let's get started. Before we do that, I'm going to read to you one of my favorite reviews that came in from DJ-Blaine and she said, I knew of you but not a whole lot. When I saw your name on Rob Sperry's podcast and was like, I have to check this out. That led me here and I have listened to all of the episodes.</p><p>I am blown away and truly inspired. So much of the content has spoken to me and lit or re-lit the fire in my heart. I know I want more out of life and I have been feeling a little lost lately. Your podcast came at the right time. Thank you for sharing your heart and journey. So DJ Blaine, thank you so much and I know exactly how you feel because I have been here and I hope you're with us over in Camp Elevate and please let me know who you are in real life so that we can connect over on Facebook messenger or in the Instagram DMS. And I so appreciate the downloads, the reviews, the shares. This podcast was on my bucket list for 2019 and I have to tell you that it took almost six months for me to finally launch. And I was just chatting with my friend Kristina before recording and she's getting ready to launch her podcast.</p><p>And she said, I just keep talking into the microphone and it doesn't sound like me. And so I want to tell you all in 2020 just be you boo, on social media, in your business. How you plan, how you set your goals, how you want to show up, be you okay. And I sign my emails Be You Bravely, because I think so much of the time we are so worried about what other people will think about us, how it's supposed to look, how we're supposed to post. Are we supposed to take that picture of our toes and say, working from my home office, how do you want to show up? How do you want to share your business? And that's what this podcast is about today. So let's get started. As we leave behind 2019 it's everywhere. Every podcast, the posts, the planners that are coming into your Facebook ads and your Instagram ad feeds, how to set goals, how to not set goals, how to manifest.</p><p>There is so much information that sometimes I think we just stop and it's the same way with building your business. Everybody's saying, okay, say your company, don't say your company, have a group, don't have a group. Send this message. Don't send the message. Be in high vibration. Don't send messages on days you're in a low vibrational state. If it's not with a three way messenger chat or a three way call, it's wrong. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Have you ever felt like all of these things, imagine the conversation bubble over your head. Have you ever felt like there was so much noise? You don't even know what to do? So 2019 this is what I'm asking you and I'm going to do it as well to leave behind, leave behind the noise and the chaos, the comparison. I wonder if I should journal this. What should I say?</p><p>What should I do? And just be you. What feels good for you? Okay, so let's talk about that. We spend so much time with the number one, the number one block that happens is we have failure to launch or start. So as we look at setting goals, for example, in 2019 we're saying journal about what happened, journal about what, well, journal about what didn't go well. Make a list of the things that made you so proud and make a list of the things that you want to not repeat. Okay? So you might be in Facebook groups like mine, you might be in 17 different groups. And I notice I'll see people that are commenting all over the place. They're doing a challenge in one group, a challenge in the next group. And I used to be that person. I used to think I've got to hold on to all of the information I've got to be doing what Ray Higdon says, what Rob Sperry says, what Tanya Eliza says, and Oh, over here we have another influencer and they're all so good, right?</p><p>Everybody has. There's podcasts that I just, every time I listen and I'm like an oversharer, ask the women in my group, I'm like, Hey, now we're listening to this podcast and check this out. That's great to be excited, but as you move forward in 2020 I want to ask you to decide what works for you and give yourself at least a quarter to stick with it. Find one mentor, find one podcast. Sure listen, I listen to all different varieties of podcasts. But if you're really, really into learning Instagram strategy and stories and then you jump over and you're like, okay, now I'm going to learn to use Facebook groups to grow my business, and tomorrow I'm going to do this. Ask add tag message thing and then you're jumping back over to Instagram. But you're not following up with anything, then you're probably not seeing the growth.</p><p>And I relate this to every single time, like this is totally me and if you can relate, I'll see a friend, you guys, let's talk health for a second. We know what it takes to get fit and to be healthy and I always have on my affirmations, I'm a size six, healthy, lean athlete. Okay, I know what it takes to be a size six, healthy lean athlete. I absolutely positively know, but it never, never, never fails that. I see a friend who's having great weight loss success and she's looking super lean and I'll be like, what are you doing? Who's your trainer? What program? Send it my way. Send it my way, send it my way. Guess what? That's what happens in business. You know what to do and the same thing with the forever search. You guys right in front of me, I have seven calendars because I'm obsessed with planners. My law of attraction is one of them.</p><p>My business coach, Susan Hyatt has an incredible planner this year. That's the one I'm sticking with because when I have a coach I'm going to use what she says to use. I'm going to when I decide, all right, this is the person that I'm working with this year. So that's what I'm going to do, is to follow through and that's such great advice. So she was a planner. I mean, we could do it on a piece of notebook paper, right? Choose a way that you're going to put the rocks into your planner. That's first and foremost. What are the rocks? What are the things that need to happen for you to live an aligned life with joy, purpose, and freedom. So make sure you know your rocks. It doesn't matter what planner you use, it doesn't matter if you're specific on your manifesting. I'm sorry. All the people out there that will say, I need this and more.</p><p>You are your first rock, so take care of that rock. All right. Now what has to happen for your business? There are so many different mentors and ideas, but every single thing, most of you listening, our network marketers, so I started to talk about the destination and I got a little squirrelly, so we've got to know where we're going. All right? With all of these things, let's plan quarterly goals. I like to do things in 90 day spurts because we can get carried away and we can also get carried away with a zillion things that we're going to take care of. It's like trying to clean up clutter first we start in the pantry and then all of a sudden we've got things left out in the garage. And this is, this is me, I'm very visual, very intuitive. I'm not very list driven, so I'm going to work on that this year.</p><p>But let's talk about the destination for each of these places. So we've got the calendar, we know our rocks, and now I'm going to ask you to choose three different goals. One goal in each area. Now you may have a different way to do this, but humor me on this one. What would be one health and wellness goal? One goal for your wellbeing, and write that down. Where do you want to be? What's possible for you in the next 90 days? And then I want you to below it, say what are three actions that I can agree to take at least five days a week that will get me to that one goal. Now, same thing for business. So you may say, I want to make a multiple six figure income in 2020 and that's awesome, but let's break that down. And if you're a network marketer and you're thinking, what will that take, what are the pieces of your business that have to be there for you to make that income for you to hit that rank for you to have?</p><p>I have a lot of coaches that, listen, that's a lot easier because if you have a program that's a six month program that costs $2,500 you know how many people need to be enrolled into your program. Maybe you run some Facebook ads, it gets a little bit more complicated because you've got more expenses. But really take some time to say, if this is my goal, what are the things that I think, and if you need to ask somebody that's more experienced than you be the squeaky wheel, ask, like what does it take to get to this level? What does it take? So that business goal, and then I want you to have your personal goal. So that would be, I have three different clients right now that have said to me, without me even saying personal, that one of their big areas of focus in working with me and my Profit Her Way program is to have a better, closer, more connected relationship with their husband.</p><p>All right, so that was a huge goal for me in 2019 and I had three action steps that I took a day for that to happen. And many of you have heard about, the dog walks like the dog walks phone free twice a day, 60 minutes you guys. It was miraculous. It was like we are dating again. Also visualizing. So bringing in my woo side, visualizing and having gratitude around that human being. Okay> And seeing all of the good things, not being annoyed with the bad things and using breath work and all of those pieces. We talk about a lot of that in the podcast, so whether you're in a passion planner or the law of attraction, or I'm looking at my newest journal, which is called, what is this thing called? Let me see the name of it. It was super expensive. It's got power sheets.</p><p>I don't even know what it's called. It was. It's got some great goal setting sheets, but there are so many things on Pinterest about setting goals that you can just go and grab for free. But here's the deal. You've got to know the destination and then you've got to know the steps that you're willing to take to get there or the steps that you are committing to take and don't let yourself down. That's the piece, is we say I'm going to lose 35 pounds in 2020, and I'm going to help my family to financial freedom. So break it down. What do we need to do in those first 90 days? What can we wake up to do and what will it take in our routines and rituals to get to that place? So that is the answer. That's the answer to all of your goal setting issue is many of you will do visualization exercises and I highly recommend good visualization of once you know those goals, breathing in, breathing out, seeing it, see where you are at the end of those 90 days.</p><p>See how it feels. What will it sound like? Like when you're having, when you're on that stage getting that rank award or what will it feel like when you open up your commission report and there is an amount of money that is, that is just what you've manifested and what you visualized happening. When you ask for these things, you can always ask for and more or and beyond. There's all different ways. I mean many of you study Gabby Bernstein, many of you study lots of different people that are in that. There's that awesome podcast, the Manifestation Bade, so there's so many different ways to do it, but don't get caught up in finding the perfect way to manifest in the perfect way to ask the universe, and the perfect way to do the morning routine. Let's break it down and then we're going to cut this off is you deserve everything that you desire in 2020. Say that I deserve and I am open and I am creating everything I desire in 2020. I truly believe that the subconscious and conscious mind, if you continue to say there's too much information, I'm too overwhelmed.</p><p>This doesn't work. All of those pieces are what you've got to be sure that you're speaking in a positive vibe. I'm on the way, I'm ready to create. I'm ready to hit that destination. If you say things like, I don't know what I want, I don't know what to do. It's clouding. Those blocks are clouding your clarity, so believe that it's possible. That's the first thing is no matter what calendar you use, no matter what goal you set, do you believe that it's possible? If I didn't believe that being a size six lean athlete for my health and my wellness, and honestly because I'm vain and I wanna look good and I feel better and I'm more confident. If I didn't believe it was possible, then I would sabotage those results. So believe that it's possible. The other block that people become people, clients, friends, me, one of the reasons why I didn't launch a coaching program until 2019. And let me tell you how excited I am for Profit Her Way, and how excited I am for our real life camp event that's going to come up.</p><p>So stay tuned, we'll get you on that list. But it's because I was overwhelmed with what it would take. And the other thing is what will people think? So getting in the way of the perfect goal setting plan of the perfect desire of the perfect, you know, we talk about yes, visualize, yes, I want you to know your end game. And yes, I want you to have your affirmations written. And we've talked about morning routines and we've talked about all of these things, the goals, the three steps that it takes. Having accountability, not getting distracted with all of the 17, 18 19,000 different ways to do it. But if you believe that it's not possible, that is a huge block. Do you believe it's possible? The other thing that gets in my way, it gets in everybody's way. It was one of the big reasons why I didn't launch that coaching program because it was a little bit out of the ordinary to have a coaching program along with leading a large team and keeping it totally separate from one from the other by coaching program is completely on the outside of my network marketing business.</p><p>And also, you know, it's a big responsibility to have people want to be mentored and actually pay money to do that. And I am one of the biggest advocates I have spent, at least since I started my business in this, this number might shock you. I've spent over a hundred thousand dollars in my own personal development and coaching and I'm not advocating you can't do it without, it was just, I love to learn. I love to be mentored. I love accountability. So there's many people that do it without, but that is a big piece of who I am is always growing and learning. So are you worried about what people will think about what you desire? Do you believe it's possible and you have to work on that belief over and over and over again. The other thing is, are you overwhelmed with what it will take?</p><p>And a big block that I find is your brain wants to focus because we're still like prehistoric, and I'm not a brain research guru, but I've done enough personal development and reading to know that our brain is conditioned. Think about what's going to go wrong. Is the Lion going to sneak up and eat me? Are we going to run out of food? We no longer have those issues. So we have to recondition our brain to get clear on what is going to go right and be a little more clear on not, I want to have unlimited money, but what does that mean? What does rich sound like to you? Does that mean freedom? Does it mean I'm having options for your family? Does it mean unlimited travel and getting clear on those options? So what we want to be looking at as we go in to 2020 are those three goals, the three action steps and how we're using our brain conditioning to make sure that we visualize it, that we work on the affirmations and that we put the big rocks on our calendar and that we do...drum roll please, The action that it takes.</p><p>So I am a true believer in manifestation. I have manifested a lot of things. I manifested the man that I'm married to. I manifested the marriage that I have, the house that I live in, the business that I have, and even the coach that I'm working with and the program that I'm building. But what I want you to know about all of that is after the visualization and after knowing the destination and after deciding how I was going to get there and how you're going to get there takes imperfect action. We might not always do it perfectly, but being an action, getting out of overwhelm. I have people that are still shopping for their calendar. They're still asking which one should I use? So stop the scroll and get into action and put that rock on your calendar when you know what your personal goals are, your health goals, your relationship goals, your business goals, when you know what those are, how will you get there?</p><p>And I'm going to give you a little bonus to the end of this episode because I wanted to be, make sure I'm right at 25 minutes. So I had a question today that came into my inbox from one of my good friends. His name is Jason Stewart and he's always, always learning. He's always absorbing, he's always asking questions and he said to me, if you could tell me one thing that you, you would have done differently on your way to the top rank of the company on your way to becoming an industry millionaire, what would that be? And I thought, okay, I'm going to pause for a minute. And then he also asks, what's your daily method of operation? And many of you over in Camp Elevate know that I just gave everybody a free daily intentional planning sheet. So I'm going to give that a little plug right now.</p><p>And then I'm gonna go into what I would have done differently and it has all to do with what we're talking about on this episode. So the daily intentional plan is basically my daily plan for how high I have grown my entire business. So I have a download for you and it's free. It's at <a href="https://bethholdinggraves.com/plan">Bethholdinggraves.com/plan</a> and you're going to get this, you're, you'd be like, wait, I don't know how to fill this out because it doesn't give you instructions. I'm going to work on a blog post that has the instructions on it, but I have a video where I actually, it's a Zoom and we did a campfire over in Camp Elevate. So if you want to know what my actual daily intentional plan, it's a calendar sheet that you actually put it next to your hour by hour. You can grab that and then get over in the Camp Elevate Group, let me know, like send me a DM that says, Hey, tag me in the training.</p><p>I'm going to put this training all together so you can actually get it. But for now, trust me. You want to know what that daily intentional plan is because I see you guys, I just keep it so simple and I'm going to tell you right now that on that we talk about the rocks. We talk about the five four, three, two one that I have used to build my business. We talked about that on the episode with Rob Sperry and that will be your books, your happy new year gift and I'm going to be doing another training on the daily intentional plan in camp elevate and it is all free and you guys summer camp for women. We are having so much fun. The sisterhood in that group is insane. I have had last week if you go over to the Camp Elevate Instagram page you can see that we highlight a camper every weekend.</p><p>They talk about camp and it's a dream of mine. You guys, I have waited to go back to summer camp because that has been my favorite place on earth. Shout out to Black River Farm and Ranch and all my BR girlfriends. If you had a summer camp, I want to hear about it. And then Instagram and I dreamed of a summer camp for business. And for the answer to the question that Jason had, what would you have done differently? I worked really, really, really, really hard and I worked in a focused way when I knew what my goal was and I knew what I wanted to create and I was very specific about it. But I would have been a whole lot better about the self care, health, personal goal, portion. And so what I would have done is to have put into my calendar those hours that were unplugged with my son, with my daughter at the gym, and taking better care of the glass balls.</p><p>And if you haven't heard the glass ball episode, that's one of my very first ones. And I think that's what I would have done differently. I mean, I, when he said that, and then he also asked me what I would have continued to do. And staying in motion is always so important. So when I talked about choose one mentor, choose one way, one of the things that happened along the way, I got off track by thinking I needed to do something exceptional. Like Oh Hey if I build this, so I'll give you an example. I felt like guilty as charged to thinking that there was a way to build it without the five four, three, two one personal connection, personal conversations and personally helping people to hit their goals when they get rolling. And one of the biggest pieces that I can brag about is the community and the culture.</p><p>We have it over in Camp Elevate and we also have it with my personal network marketing team, and it's because I'm super hands on. And I kept thinking, because I would remember this episode is about finding the planner, finding the system that works. I'd be like where I'd see all this like be automated, never talked to your family and friends get 78,000 leads with one opt in. So I thought Oh maybe I should learn some systems to help some people on my team. And that would be cool to wake up in the morning with an inbox full of people. And really what happens is I became distracted by thinking that there was another way instead of just getting better at what was already working. And so what was already working was providing value on social media, having a ton of connection, creating community and engagement inside of challenge groups around our product or around the business model and just shutting my mouth and listening to people and asking questions and then asking.</p><p>And that five, four, three, two, one, you know, five conversations that see if someone's open but not just like, Hey girl type of messages. Really, really connecting in a way that sees if this is a good fit for them. So five and then four, follow up, staying with your customers, staying with the people that are interested, following up, providing value, providing more information. Three social media posts a day. Three things in my stories that are constantly engaging, interacting, engaging and interacting with other people, pulling people toward me because the right people will come your way if the pole is there. Remember <i>Digital Persuasion</i> with Erin King? She does incredible tradings on this, on Instagram. And I would encourage you to follow her and get her book <i>Digital Persuasion</i>. It's great for marketing. And then adding two to the list today. Remember that is the two and consistently making two new connections a day of social media in real life.</p><p>Getting two people added. Because our job, if we're in sales, if we're networking, is to add people into our circle, invite them in. So I'm like this podcast level, this podcast is invited people into my life, into my training, which is growing Camp Elevate, right? And then some people are like, Hey, I really want to take it to the next level and work with a private coach, or I need a supportive sisterhood or I just need somebody to listen to. That's a little kooky, that's willing. I think some of my charm is that I'm kind of willing to say what other people aren't willing to say. I don't know. It's kind of always been my charm. So get rid of the overwhelm in 2020 and there's so much good stuff. There's so many good mentors. There's so many good guides, but instead of being in 27 different groups doing 27 different things, following 27 different people, choose one voice to listen to.</p><p>I'd be honored if you decided, Hey, I'm going to get over to Camp Elevate, but there's so many different ways to build your business but be focused on the activity and the actions on the mindset, on what I call like the brain discipline to get away from. I'm so overwhelmed, I've run out of people to talk to. Nobody wants what I have. I don't think anybody hits the top rank of that company anymore. If I only had the upline support, you guys cut it out. It is available to you in 2020 you get to make the decision. You get to put the rocks on your calendar. The important things you get to decide how you are going to show up. How are you going to show up for yourself? Nobody is standing there. And I always say this like when we talk about the health and wellness goals, nobody is standing there like spoon feeding me chocolate chip cookie dough ice cream.</p><p>That's my choice. Nobody is standing there giving you overwhelm or not doing your business. That's your choice. It is available to you, it is available for you to have a business that's calm, that's cool, that's flowing, have that declaration and we're going to be working this week and if it's not January, we're always working on writing declarations for our business and for our life. And I want you to think about what do you declare to be possible in 2020 and that's the one thing that I'll ask of you and I'll share a couple of declarations here. I was actually listening to another podcast and I always like to give credit where credit is due. And this one was from project me with Tiffany and she was talking about declarations and one of the declarations that she stated and she talks about, go over and listen to the podcast, it's awesome.</p><p>And she talks about having cards using a color that feels powerful to you. And this is the, I know I just said don't follow a million people, but I wanted to share the declarations and I feel so strongly about not, you know, making something that's somebody else's my own. And so I did want to shout her out and what she said was, decide what you declare instead of a resolution. So we're going to end 2019 with just, first of all, I'll share the declarations as I close this out, but I want to say how incredibly grateful and honored and blessed I feel that you are listening, whether you're at the gym, whether you're in your car, whether you're just out walking the dogs, you have made a choice out of thousands and thousands of podcasts and thought leaders and guides and people that just decide to start a podcast.</p><p>You've made a choice to listen and to be a part of this community with all of us. And I feel like, honestly, I'm all teary. Those of you that know me know I cry at the drop of a hat and I hope to know you personally. That is my goal in 2020 is I am a person hugger and I just visualize sitting around a campfire with you, having my friend Leslie and Diane, they don't even know it yet, but I'm manifesting them. Singing some Dixie chicks, maybe some John Denver, and for us to do this work together because I want nothing more than for all of you listening to have what you desire to have what you deserve. As we all just expand our big accounts, expand our joy and expand our impact. So my wish for you is everything you desire in 2020 and I promise you this, I will bring to you my best and I will get you the best of everyone.</p><p>So these are some of the declarations I want to close out that, over with <i>Project Me with Tiffany</i> that she shared. That's a great podcast and I'm going to do this tonight. I'm going to write down my declarations and she said, "I declare that everything I deeply desire and to serve is going to come to me with ease, joy, and clarity". Another one that she shared was "I declare that all of the amazing abundance and goodness of the world will shower upon me every day in 2020." So make your declaration, make it yours. I'm working on mine. They get pretty with the power color, a color that just makes you feel that your vibration, that your energy is high. I want you to know that everything you desire is yours, and then share a picture of that with the overs at camp. Share it in the DMS, and as always, thank you so much for being with me today.</p><p>I cannot wait for 2020 because we have so many incredible and awesome things that we are going to accomplish together. Here's just a quick reminder before you head on your way. The Profit HER Way mastermind enrollment is open! I want to make sure you get on that list so you do not miss the bonuses that are coming to those that have signed up for the first week launch. So head on over to <a href="https://bethholdengraves.com/profit">BethHoldenGraves.com/Profit</a> and get yourself scheduled for a call with me. But make sure you reach out to me in the DMS and let me know that you're interested and you want more information, so that we make sure that you are in and ready to go because working together with a coach, with accountability, with an actual system and method for building Profit HER Way is going to help you accelerate and go even faster in 2020.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging with me today on the podcast and remember, you can create what you crave. If you're looking for a supportive sisterhood, I would love to see you over in our free Facebook group. As most of you know, I love camp. It's part of, 'You're Not the Boss of Me' because when we're building this thing, we're doing this thing. We need a supportive sisterhood and I also crave more fun and more connection. Join us at camp over in the Facebook world, <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com" target="_blank">thecampelevategroup.com</a> or just click on the link above and we will see you around our campfire and help you to create what you crave.</p>
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      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/18-the-perfect-plan-this-might-surprise-you-QshyGdsV</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Learn More About The Content Discussed...</strong></p><ul><li>No Boss Talk:<a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></li><li>Instagram: <a href="https://instagram.com/">https://instagram.com</a></li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">here</a></li><li>Beth’s Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth’s website:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></li></ul><p><strong>Keynotes discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>We spend so much time with the number one, the number one block that happens is we have failure to launch or start. (04:39)</li><li>What are the things that need to happen for you to live an aligned life with joy, purpose, and freedom.(08:06)</li><li>Seeing all of the good things, not being annoyed with the bad things and using breath work and all of those pieces. (12:39)</li><li>There's so many different ways to do it, but don't get caught up in finding the perfect way to manifest in the perfect way to ask the universe and the perfect way to do the morning routine.(14:44)</li><li>But what I want you to know about all of that is after the visualization and after knowing the destination and after deciding how I was going to get there and how you're going to get there takes imperfect action. (19:42)</li></ul><p><strong>When Did It Air...</strong><br />December 30, 2019</p><p><strong>Episode Transcript:</strong></p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Hey friend and happy New Year! If you are regular listeners, thank you, because you're listening to this on Monday when we drop it at 6:00 AM, and if it's March, April, June, July, this is still going to be an exceptional podcast for you because I'm going to clear the clutter of manifesting goal setting, passion planners, love attraction, manifesting journals, whatever kind of system, goal setting, how we do it, how we shouldn't do it. That is cluttering your brain. You're going to clear it up today and give you a specific plan to move your business and your life goals forward. So let's get started. Before we do that, I'm going to read to you one of my favorite reviews that came in from DJ-Blaine and she said, I knew of you but not a whole lot. When I saw your name on Rob Sperry's podcast and was like, I have to check this out. That led me here and I have listened to all of the episodes.</p><p>I am blown away and truly inspired. So much of the content has spoken to me and lit or re-lit the fire in my heart. I know I want more out of life and I have been feeling a little lost lately. Your podcast came at the right time. Thank you for sharing your heart and journey. So DJ Blaine, thank you so much and I know exactly how you feel because I have been here and I hope you're with us over in Camp Elevate and please let me know who you are in real life so that we can connect over on Facebook messenger or in the Instagram DMS. And I so appreciate the downloads, the reviews, the shares. This podcast was on my bucket list for 2019 and I have to tell you that it took almost six months for me to finally launch. And I was just chatting with my friend Kristina before recording and she's getting ready to launch her podcast.</p><p>And she said, I just keep talking into the microphone and it doesn't sound like me. And so I want to tell you all in 2020 just be you boo, on social media, in your business. How you plan, how you set your goals, how you want to show up, be you okay. And I sign my emails Be You Bravely, because I think so much of the time we are so worried about what other people will think about us, how it's supposed to look, how we're supposed to post. Are we supposed to take that picture of our toes and say, working from my home office, how do you want to show up? How do you want to share your business? And that's what this podcast is about today. So let's get started. As we leave behind 2019 it's everywhere. Every podcast, the posts, the planners that are coming into your Facebook ads and your Instagram ad feeds, how to set goals, how to not set goals, how to manifest.</p><p>There is so much information that sometimes I think we just stop and it's the same way with building your business. Everybody's saying, okay, say your company, don't say your company, have a group, don't have a group. Send this message. Don't send the message. Be in high vibration. Don't send messages on days you're in a low vibrational state. If it's not with a three way messenger chat or a three way call, it's wrong. Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. Have you ever felt like all of these things, imagine the conversation bubble over your head. Have you ever felt like there was so much noise? You don't even know what to do? So 2019 this is what I'm asking you and I'm going to do it as well to leave behind, leave behind the noise and the chaos, the comparison. I wonder if I should journal this. What should I say?</p><p>What should I do? And just be you. What feels good for you? Okay, so let's talk about that. We spend so much time with the number one, the number one block that happens is we have failure to launch or start. So as we look at setting goals, for example, in 2019 we're saying journal about what happened, journal about what, well, journal about what didn't go well. Make a list of the things that made you so proud and make a list of the things that you want to not repeat. Okay? So you might be in Facebook groups like mine, you might be in 17 different groups. And I notice I'll see people that are commenting all over the place. They're doing a challenge in one group, a challenge in the next group. And I used to be that person. I used to think I've got to hold on to all of the information I've got to be doing what Ray Higdon says, what Rob Sperry says, what Tanya Eliza says, and Oh, over here we have another influencer and they're all so good, right?</p><p>Everybody has. There's podcasts that I just, every time I listen and I'm like an oversharer, ask the women in my group, I'm like, Hey, now we're listening to this podcast and check this out. That's great to be excited, but as you move forward in 2020 I want to ask you to decide what works for you and give yourself at least a quarter to stick with it. Find one mentor, find one podcast. Sure listen, I listen to all different varieties of podcasts. But if you're really, really into learning Instagram strategy and stories and then you jump over and you're like, okay, now I'm going to learn to use Facebook groups to grow my business, and tomorrow I'm going to do this. Ask add tag message thing and then you're jumping back over to Instagram. But you're not following up with anything, then you're probably not seeing the growth.</p><p>And I relate this to every single time, like this is totally me and if you can relate, I'll see a friend, you guys, let's talk health for a second. We know what it takes to get fit and to be healthy and I always have on my affirmations, I'm a size six, healthy, lean athlete. Okay, I know what it takes to be a size six, healthy lean athlete. I absolutely positively know, but it never, never, never fails that. I see a friend who's having great weight loss success and she's looking super lean and I'll be like, what are you doing? Who's your trainer? What program? Send it my way. Send it my way, send it my way. Guess what? That's what happens in business. You know what to do and the same thing with the forever search. You guys right in front of me, I have seven calendars because I'm obsessed with planners. My law of attraction is one of them.</p><p>My business coach, Susan Hyatt has an incredible planner this year. That's the one I'm sticking with because when I have a coach I'm going to use what she says to use. I'm going to when I decide, all right, this is the person that I'm working with this year. So that's what I'm going to do, is to follow through and that's such great advice. So she was a planner. I mean, we could do it on a piece of notebook paper, right? Choose a way that you're going to put the rocks into your planner. That's first and foremost. What are the rocks? What are the things that need to happen for you to live an aligned life with joy, purpose, and freedom. So make sure you know your rocks. It doesn't matter what planner you use, it doesn't matter if you're specific on your manifesting. I'm sorry. All the people out there that will say, I need this and more.</p><p>You are your first rock, so take care of that rock. All right. Now what has to happen for your business? There are so many different mentors and ideas, but every single thing, most of you listening, our network marketers, so I started to talk about the destination and I got a little squirrelly, so we've got to know where we're going. All right? With all of these things, let's plan quarterly goals. I like to do things in 90 day spurts because we can get carried away and we can also get carried away with a zillion things that we're going to take care of. It's like trying to clean up clutter first we start in the pantry and then all of a sudden we've got things left out in the garage. And this is, this is me, I'm very visual, very intuitive. I'm not very list driven, so I'm going to work on that this year.</p><p>But let's talk about the destination for each of these places. So we've got the calendar, we know our rocks, and now I'm going to ask you to choose three different goals. One goal in each area. Now you may have a different way to do this, but humor me on this one. What would be one health and wellness goal? One goal for your wellbeing, and write that down. Where do you want to be? What's possible for you in the next 90 days? And then I want you to below it, say what are three actions that I can agree to take at least five days a week that will get me to that one goal. Now, same thing for business. So you may say, I want to make a multiple six figure income in 2020 and that's awesome, but let's break that down. And if you're a network marketer and you're thinking, what will that take, what are the pieces of your business that have to be there for you to make that income for you to hit that rank for you to have?</p><p>I have a lot of coaches that, listen, that's a lot easier because if you have a program that's a six month program that costs $2,500 you know how many people need to be enrolled into your program. Maybe you run some Facebook ads, it gets a little bit more complicated because you've got more expenses. But really take some time to say, if this is my goal, what are the things that I think, and if you need to ask somebody that's more experienced than you be the squeaky wheel, ask, like what does it take to get to this level? What does it take? So that business goal, and then I want you to have your personal goal. So that would be, I have three different clients right now that have said to me, without me even saying personal, that one of their big areas of focus in working with me and my Profit Her Way program is to have a better, closer, more connected relationship with their husband.</p><p>All right, so that was a huge goal for me in 2019 and I had three action steps that I took a day for that to happen. And many of you have heard about, the dog walks like the dog walks phone free twice a day, 60 minutes you guys. It was miraculous. It was like we are dating again. Also visualizing. So bringing in my woo side, visualizing and having gratitude around that human being. Okay> And seeing all of the good things, not being annoyed with the bad things and using breath work and all of those pieces. We talk about a lot of that in the podcast, so whether you're in a passion planner or the law of attraction, or I'm looking at my newest journal, which is called, what is this thing called? Let me see the name of it. It was super expensive. It's got power sheets.</p><p>I don't even know what it's called. It was. It's got some great goal setting sheets, but there are so many things on Pinterest about setting goals that you can just go and grab for free. But here's the deal. You've got to know the destination and then you've got to know the steps that you're willing to take to get there or the steps that you are committing to take and don't let yourself down. That's the piece, is we say I'm going to lose 35 pounds in 2020, and I'm going to help my family to financial freedom. So break it down. What do we need to do in those first 90 days? What can we wake up to do and what will it take in our routines and rituals to get to that place? So that is the answer. That's the answer to all of your goal setting issue is many of you will do visualization exercises and I highly recommend good visualization of once you know those goals, breathing in, breathing out, seeing it, see where you are at the end of those 90 days.</p><p>See how it feels. What will it sound like? Like when you're having, when you're on that stage getting that rank award or what will it feel like when you open up your commission report and there is an amount of money that is, that is just what you've manifested and what you visualized happening. When you ask for these things, you can always ask for and more or and beyond. There's all different ways. I mean many of you study Gabby Bernstein, many of you study lots of different people that are in that. There's that awesome podcast, the Manifestation Bade, so there's so many different ways to do it, but don't get caught up in finding the perfect way to manifest in the perfect way to ask the universe, and the perfect way to do the morning routine. Let's break it down and then we're going to cut this off is you deserve everything that you desire in 2020. Say that I deserve and I am open and I am creating everything I desire in 2020. I truly believe that the subconscious and conscious mind, if you continue to say there's too much information, I'm too overwhelmed.</p><p>This doesn't work. All of those pieces are what you've got to be sure that you're speaking in a positive vibe. I'm on the way, I'm ready to create. I'm ready to hit that destination. If you say things like, I don't know what I want, I don't know what to do. It's clouding. Those blocks are clouding your clarity, so believe that it's possible. That's the first thing is no matter what calendar you use, no matter what goal you set, do you believe that it's possible? If I didn't believe that being a size six lean athlete for my health and my wellness, and honestly because I'm vain and I wanna look good and I feel better and I'm more confident. If I didn't believe it was possible, then I would sabotage those results. So believe that it's possible. The other block that people become people, clients, friends, me, one of the reasons why I didn't launch a coaching program until 2019. And let me tell you how excited I am for Profit Her Way, and how excited I am for our real life camp event that's going to come up.</p><p>So stay tuned, we'll get you on that list. But it's because I was overwhelmed with what it would take. And the other thing is what will people think? So getting in the way of the perfect goal setting plan of the perfect desire of the perfect, you know, we talk about yes, visualize, yes, I want you to know your end game. And yes, I want you to have your affirmations written. And we've talked about morning routines and we've talked about all of these things, the goals, the three steps that it takes. Having accountability, not getting distracted with all of the 17, 18 19,000 different ways to do it. But if you believe that it's not possible, that is a huge block. Do you believe it's possible? The other thing that gets in my way, it gets in everybody's way. It was one of the big reasons why I didn't launch that coaching program because it was a little bit out of the ordinary to have a coaching program along with leading a large team and keeping it totally separate from one from the other by coaching program is completely on the outside of my network marketing business.</p><p>And also, you know, it's a big responsibility to have people want to be mentored and actually pay money to do that. And I am one of the biggest advocates I have spent, at least since I started my business in this, this number might shock you. I've spent over a hundred thousand dollars in my own personal development and coaching and I'm not advocating you can't do it without, it was just, I love to learn. I love to be mentored. I love accountability. So there's many people that do it without, but that is a big piece of who I am is always growing and learning. So are you worried about what people will think about what you desire? Do you believe it's possible and you have to work on that belief over and over and over again. The other thing is, are you overwhelmed with what it will take?</p><p>And a big block that I find is your brain wants to focus because we're still like prehistoric, and I'm not a brain research guru, but I've done enough personal development and reading to know that our brain is conditioned. Think about what's going to go wrong. Is the Lion going to sneak up and eat me? Are we going to run out of food? We no longer have those issues. So we have to recondition our brain to get clear on what is going to go right and be a little more clear on not, I want to have unlimited money, but what does that mean? What does rich sound like to you? Does that mean freedom? Does it mean I'm having options for your family? Does it mean unlimited travel and getting clear on those options? So what we want to be looking at as we go in to 2020 are those three goals, the three action steps and how we're using our brain conditioning to make sure that we visualize it, that we work on the affirmations and that we put the big rocks on our calendar and that we do...drum roll please, The action that it takes.</p><p>So I am a true believer in manifestation. I have manifested a lot of things. I manifested the man that I'm married to. I manifested the marriage that I have, the house that I live in, the business that I have, and even the coach that I'm working with and the program that I'm building. But what I want you to know about all of that is after the visualization and after knowing the destination and after deciding how I was going to get there and how you're going to get there takes imperfect action. We might not always do it perfectly, but being an action, getting out of overwhelm. I have people that are still shopping for their calendar. They're still asking which one should I use? So stop the scroll and get into action and put that rock on your calendar when you know what your personal goals are, your health goals, your relationship goals, your business goals, when you know what those are, how will you get there?</p><p>And I'm going to give you a little bonus to the end of this episode because I wanted to be, make sure I'm right at 25 minutes. So I had a question today that came into my inbox from one of my good friends. His name is Jason Stewart and he's always, always learning. He's always absorbing, he's always asking questions and he said to me, if you could tell me one thing that you, you would have done differently on your way to the top rank of the company on your way to becoming an industry millionaire, what would that be? And I thought, okay, I'm going to pause for a minute. And then he also asks, what's your daily method of operation? And many of you over in Camp Elevate know that I just gave everybody a free daily intentional planning sheet. So I'm going to give that a little plug right now.</p><p>And then I'm gonna go into what I would have done differently and it has all to do with what we're talking about on this episode. So the daily intentional plan is basically my daily plan for how high I have grown my entire business. So I have a download for you and it's free. It's at <a href="https://bethholdinggraves.com/plan">Bethholdinggraves.com/plan</a> and you're going to get this, you're, you'd be like, wait, I don't know how to fill this out because it doesn't give you instructions. I'm going to work on a blog post that has the instructions on it, but I have a video where I actually, it's a Zoom and we did a campfire over in Camp Elevate. So if you want to know what my actual daily intentional plan, it's a calendar sheet that you actually put it next to your hour by hour. You can grab that and then get over in the Camp Elevate Group, let me know, like send me a DM that says, Hey, tag me in the training.</p><p>I'm going to put this training all together so you can actually get it. But for now, trust me. You want to know what that daily intentional plan is because I see you guys, I just keep it so simple and I'm going to tell you right now that on that we talk about the rocks. We talk about the five four, three, two one that I have used to build my business. We talked about that on the episode with Rob Sperry and that will be your books, your happy new year gift and I'm going to be doing another training on the daily intentional plan in camp elevate and it is all free and you guys summer camp for women. We are having so much fun. The sisterhood in that group is insane. I have had last week if you go over to the Camp Elevate Instagram page you can see that we highlight a camper every weekend.</p><p>They talk about camp and it's a dream of mine. You guys, I have waited to go back to summer camp because that has been my favorite place on earth. Shout out to Black River Farm and Ranch and all my BR girlfriends. If you had a summer camp, I want to hear about it. And then Instagram and I dreamed of a summer camp for business. And for the answer to the question that Jason had, what would you have done differently? I worked really, really, really, really hard and I worked in a focused way when I knew what my goal was and I knew what I wanted to create and I was very specific about it. But I would have been a whole lot better about the self care, health, personal goal, portion. And so what I would have done is to have put into my calendar those hours that were unplugged with my son, with my daughter at the gym, and taking better care of the glass balls.</p><p>And if you haven't heard the glass ball episode, that's one of my very first ones. And I think that's what I would have done differently. I mean, I, when he said that, and then he also asked me what I would have continued to do. And staying in motion is always so important. So when I talked about choose one mentor, choose one way, one of the things that happened along the way, I got off track by thinking I needed to do something exceptional. Like Oh Hey if I build this, so I'll give you an example. I felt like guilty as charged to thinking that there was a way to build it without the five four, three, two one personal connection, personal conversations and personally helping people to hit their goals when they get rolling. And one of the biggest pieces that I can brag about is the community and the culture.</p><p>We have it over in Camp Elevate and we also have it with my personal network marketing team, and it's because I'm super hands on. And I kept thinking, because I would remember this episode is about finding the planner, finding the system that works. I'd be like where I'd see all this like be automated, never talked to your family and friends get 78,000 leads with one opt in. So I thought Oh maybe I should learn some systems to help some people on my team. And that would be cool to wake up in the morning with an inbox full of people. And really what happens is I became distracted by thinking that there was another way instead of just getting better at what was already working. And so what was already working was providing value on social media, having a ton of connection, creating community and engagement inside of challenge groups around our product or around the business model and just shutting my mouth and listening to people and asking questions and then asking.</p><p>And that five, four, three, two, one, you know, five conversations that see if someone's open but not just like, Hey girl type of messages. Really, really connecting in a way that sees if this is a good fit for them. So five and then four, follow up, staying with your customers, staying with the people that are interested, following up, providing value, providing more information. Three social media posts a day. Three things in my stories that are constantly engaging, interacting, engaging and interacting with other people, pulling people toward me because the right people will come your way if the pole is there. Remember <i>Digital Persuasion</i> with Erin King? She does incredible tradings on this, on Instagram. And I would encourage you to follow her and get her book <i>Digital Persuasion</i>. It's great for marketing. And then adding two to the list today. Remember that is the two and consistently making two new connections a day of social media in real life.</p><p>Getting two people added. Because our job, if we're in sales, if we're networking, is to add people into our circle, invite them in. So I'm like this podcast level, this podcast is invited people into my life, into my training, which is growing Camp Elevate, right? And then some people are like, Hey, I really want to take it to the next level and work with a private coach, or I need a supportive sisterhood or I just need somebody to listen to. That's a little kooky, that's willing. I think some of my charm is that I'm kind of willing to say what other people aren't willing to say. I don't know. It's kind of always been my charm. So get rid of the overwhelm in 2020 and there's so much good stuff. There's so many good mentors. There's so many good guides, but instead of being in 27 different groups doing 27 different things, following 27 different people, choose one voice to listen to.</p><p>I'd be honored if you decided, Hey, I'm going to get over to Camp Elevate, but there's so many different ways to build your business but be focused on the activity and the actions on the mindset, on what I call like the brain discipline to get away from. I'm so overwhelmed, I've run out of people to talk to. Nobody wants what I have. I don't think anybody hits the top rank of that company anymore. If I only had the upline support, you guys cut it out. It is available to you in 2020 you get to make the decision. You get to put the rocks on your calendar. The important things you get to decide how you are going to show up. How are you going to show up for yourself? Nobody is standing there. And I always say this like when we talk about the health and wellness goals, nobody is standing there like spoon feeding me chocolate chip cookie dough ice cream.</p><p>That's my choice. Nobody is standing there giving you overwhelm or not doing your business. That's your choice. It is available to you, it is available for you to have a business that's calm, that's cool, that's flowing, have that declaration and we're going to be working this week and if it's not January, we're always working on writing declarations for our business and for our life. And I want you to think about what do you declare to be possible in 2020 and that's the one thing that I'll ask of you and I'll share a couple of declarations here. I was actually listening to another podcast and I always like to give credit where credit is due. And this one was from project me with Tiffany and she was talking about declarations and one of the declarations that she stated and she talks about, go over and listen to the podcast, it's awesome.</p><p>And she talks about having cards using a color that feels powerful to you. And this is the, I know I just said don't follow a million people, but I wanted to share the declarations and I feel so strongly about not, you know, making something that's somebody else's my own. And so I did want to shout her out and what she said was, decide what you declare instead of a resolution. So we're going to end 2019 with just, first of all, I'll share the declarations as I close this out, but I want to say how incredibly grateful and honored and blessed I feel that you are listening, whether you're at the gym, whether you're in your car, whether you're just out walking the dogs, you have made a choice out of thousands and thousands of podcasts and thought leaders and guides and people that just decide to start a podcast.</p><p>You've made a choice to listen and to be a part of this community with all of us. And I feel like, honestly, I'm all teary. Those of you that know me know I cry at the drop of a hat and I hope to know you personally. That is my goal in 2020 is I am a person hugger and I just visualize sitting around a campfire with you, having my friend Leslie and Diane, they don't even know it yet, but I'm manifesting them. Singing some Dixie chicks, maybe some John Denver, and for us to do this work together because I want nothing more than for all of you listening to have what you desire to have what you deserve. As we all just expand our big accounts, expand our joy and expand our impact. So my wish for you is everything you desire in 2020 and I promise you this, I will bring to you my best and I will get you the best of everyone.</p><p>So these are some of the declarations I want to close out that, over with <i>Project Me with Tiffany</i> that she shared. That's a great podcast and I'm going to do this tonight. I'm going to write down my declarations and she said, "I declare that everything I deeply desire and to serve is going to come to me with ease, joy, and clarity". Another one that she shared was "I declare that all of the amazing abundance and goodness of the world will shower upon me every day in 2020." So make your declaration, make it yours. I'm working on mine. They get pretty with the power color, a color that just makes you feel that your vibration, that your energy is high. I want you to know that everything you desire is yours, and then share a picture of that with the overs at camp. Share it in the DMS, and as always, thank you so much for being with me today.</p><p>I cannot wait for 2020 because we have so many incredible and awesome things that we are going to accomplish together. Here's just a quick reminder before you head on your way. The Profit HER Way mastermind enrollment is open! I want to make sure you get on that list so you do not miss the bonuses that are coming to those that have signed up for the first week launch. So head on over to <a href="https://bethholdengraves.com/profit">BethHoldenGraves.com/Profit</a> and get yourself scheduled for a call with me. But make sure you reach out to me in the DMS and let me know that you're interested and you want more information, so that we make sure that you are in and ready to go because working together with a coach, with accountability, with an actual system and method for building Profit HER Way is going to help you accelerate and go even faster in 2020.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging with me today on the podcast and remember, you can create what you crave. If you're looking for a supportive sisterhood, I would love to see you over in our free Facebook group. As most of you know, I love camp. It's part of, 'You're Not the Boss of Me' because when we're building this thing, we're doing this thing. We need a supportive sisterhood and I also crave more fun and more connection. Join us at camp over in the Facebook world, <a href="https://thecampelevategroup.com" target="_blank">thecampelevategroup.com</a> or just click on the link above and we will see you around our campfire and help you to create what you crave.</p>
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Honestly, because of time freedom and if you know me, I'm a big jolly fellow who likes to help people. (01:55)</li><li>It takes you getting out of your comfort zone and actually reaching out to people, and getting to know people, and asking people questions and telling people about yourself.(04:11)</li><li>I did not get to be an almost multiple seven figure earner by not having conversations with people.(06:04)</li><li>If you're listening and you're going into 2020 you're looking at your goals from 2019 and I want you to first of all, listeners, have some gratitude for what you have done. (10:14)</li><li>It helps them really stay energized and the comradery and it fills people's cups.(14:22)</li></ul><p><strong>When Did It Air...</strong><br />December 23, 2019</p><p><strong>Episode Transcript:</strong></p><p>Beth:<br />Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>All right, so I am so excited to have Santa Claus on the podcast today. I'm actually going to tell you who Santa is at the end, so stay with me and you'll be able to see the recording of this. Santa is at the North Pole in a full red suit, I'm not kidding you. And when you guys figure out who Santa is, actually I just got a text from Blair, I sent a screenshot of this...who is Santa? So you have to stage it, and some of you will recognize his voice. He's spoken on many stages, huge stages in the network marketing world. He is a multiple six figure earner, close to seven figures, and I'll tell you his story when we close this out. But for now, hello Santa! Oh cool. Oh my gosh. I mean you guys, what is the date that this is airing on?</p><p>Let me look Santa. Okay. It is December 23rd. Oh my gosh you guys...now behind me, you will have to go over to YouTube, and I'm going to have this all over Facebook. But behind me, Santa's has his house. He has beautiful trees and wreaths. Oh my goodness. This is like my favorite podcast. So it's December 23rd and Santa...Most of the people that listen to the podcast are network marketers, or they build online businesses. I know that this might come as a surprise, that you, Santa, are involved in the network marketing industry. So why did you choose network marketing alongside your other gig?</p><p>Santa<br />I am involved in network marketing and I absolutely love network marketing. I chose network marketing because, you know, I have a little bit of free time on my off season and I figured why not help people and make an income. So I put my elves to work and we started working in network marketing. Why did I choose it? Because honestly, because of time freedom and if you know me, I'm a big jolly fellow who likes to help people. I just love everybody and I want to help people. And this industry is one of the only industries in the world that you can help people better themselves, whether it be a product or a product and an opportunity.</p><p>Beth:<br />I totally agree. So Santa's, I know that you're also live up in the North pole. So obviously building a business that just requires Wi-Fi and connecting all over social media is huge for you. And one of the the topics of today's episode is how to continue to always grow your list. And since Santa has lists and you know Santa, I gotta say you're a little, you're a little judgmental, but I'm just going to put that out there. I know you've told me I was naughty. I'm like, how are you to decide? But we're not even going to get onto that topic now it's open for discussion. I want to make sure I get a new ring light this year because mine is like all over the place and I've got other things that I really want, a Peloton. Do you think you could work that out for me?</p><p>Santa<br />Yes, I think I can. You've been a very nice girl this year, so I definitely can work something out for you.</p><p>Beth:<br />Awesome. Okay, so Santa, I notice when, I'll tell you Santa's Hass, his real name over on Facebook. There's always new momentum and energy in your organization and that comes from having new conversations. And one of the biggest things, the biggest concerns that people will say to me as they get started, they get excited, they talk to their sister and their brother, they get to their warm market. They might even come out of the box and hit two ranks and then they're like, I don't have anybody else to talk to. There's so many different ways to grow the list. What are some of your best list building strategies of people that you know to have conversations with?</p><p>Santa<br />Well, for me, I'm open, right? So I'm stuck up here in the North pole. I have wifi, I have my social media platforms. Let's start with social media, right? Social media is a free platform that you can utilize to help build relationships and grow your network. It takes you getting out of your comfort zone and actually reaching out to people and getting to know people and asking people questions and telling people about yourself. In doing so, you build relationships and those relationships turn into people who want to either join you in your opportunity or take your product, depending on what it is, you know, they'll find the groove with you. But first things first is you have to be open to trying to connect with people and talk to people. And me being so far away from everybody up here in the North pole, it's easier for me to do it on social media.</p><p>But from time to time when I fly over to the grocery store, I also put my head up, look around and smile at people, introduce myself, talk to people, be polite. I can't tell people this enough. For me personally, I have a product that I absolutely love and believe it and I love sharing my experience because it's helped me. In the past four years, it's helped me so much be a better person, feel better. It's given me opportunities that I could only dream of. But I go to the grocery store for a gallon of milk and Mrs. Clause is like, where'd you go? You've been gone for two hours. Did you milk the cow? Like no, I was talking to people. You never know who you meet.</p><p>Beth:<br />Yeah. This is a little bit of a trend. And I feel like Santa, when people start to, and you're hearing from someone, you guys I know that you're like, yeah, right Santa. Well this Santa has built an incredible business by having conversations all the time. Connection, serving, and then I see these new ways like, and I'm always up on what's innovative and using Facebook stories to grow your lead list and all of those things. But I will for the rest of my life say it. I did not get to be an almost multiple seven figure earner by not having conversations with people that were right in front of my face. And people will say, don't bother your friends and family. Never have to send them a message again. Like, what do you have to say about people that have the belief that you don't have something that your friends and family need? Like that just blows my mind.</p><p>Santa<br />You know? I totally agree with you because here's the thing. If you're not going to help your friends and family first feel amazing, or whatever the product is that you're you have or the service. If you're not going to help your friends and family, why do it? Like for me, that's the first thing that I always go to is helping my friends and or family feel amazing. They're the first people you're going to talk to. That's what you would call your warm market because they know you, they love you, they trust you, and if you genuinely care and are really trying to benefit them and help them, it will come back to you and you will be benefited by it. It's a double win. You're helping them feel better or providing them a service that's going to make their life easier. And in return, you're building your relationship with them, getting closer to them and then not only that, you know you potentially are earning that you can turn around and help your family even more.</p><p>Beth:<br />Well, and one of the things that I watching you grow your business is that you have an all of the network marketers that I've ever seen, you have a team that has an, you guys, it's like Santa and his elves. It's like you have some of the best community and culture then I've ever seen. Like it is not just one person building a business and chatting online. Can you talk about how your team has built this community and this culture? I mean it's, I'm so envious, so envious in fact that I just like decided that I'm a part of it. I just said, Hey, they're having a pool party. Beth's on the way. Tell me how that grew?</p><p>Santa<br />You know, we have a very different dynamic than most teams and we're really blessed to have it. We're a big extended family is what we are and we treat each other as such. From upline to downline. It's not about rank. It's not about anything. It's about really serving and helping people like a family does. I want you guys to think about your brothers or sisters. You will do anything for them within moderation. Of course, you're not going to bury a body, God forbid, but you know what I'm saying?</p><p>Beth:<br />Well, you might, you might, but you know that's another podcast.</p><p>Santa<br />But no, seriously though, you would do anything for them. In creating a culture like that and getting people to really grow together and support each other and cheer each other on and just share moments with those people is very important to us. We're very big on events. Events is a huge thing for us. We plan a lot of events. We do a lot of events. I think the most events in one month that we did was 10 or 12, I don't remember the count. We have a team dinner, one of our leaders is hosting a team dinner today. I mean these are things that you know are important to us and we push. Well, I don't want to say push. We want people to do these events and be a good tight community. And to do that we lead by that way. We have an open door policy at our house.</p><p>Beth:<br />And here's the thing that people listening, because Santa, this is like, I love that our podcast is shifting. We're talking about growing a list, but how do people, this is when I watch, when I watch your team culture and I actually got introduced to you because we're sidelines. Your real identity is from Michigan and some of my team members, when you guys first came on, it was like, what the heck? Who are these people? They're growing so fast, welcomed with open arms, people from my team. And I kept hearing about this, this guy named Hass and I was like, I gotta know Hass, he's like Santa Claus. So this is what I want you to take away. If you're listening and you're going into 2020 you're looking at your goals from 2019 and I want you to first of all, listeners, have some gratitude for what you have done.</p><p>Don't listen to Haas and go, Oh my gosh, I suck. I have not had an event. I want you to think about what have you accomplished, who have you helped? And then here's the thing is, you might want to shift how you're doing things. We've gone to this whole idea and maybe events aren't for you. And you might be saying, well, I built this business so I didn't have to leave home. What if I told you that you would make, Haas, just off the top of your head from, and we're going to start calling you Haas. Even though he is Santa, he's in the full Santa suit. Your income has dramatically increased from here. He's taking it off, he's taken it off. Now take it off Santa, take it off. There we go. I mean, look at that. Now he's like, okay, so you're watching this and we're going to pull this live.</p><p>So some people will say, I don't have time to do those events, but when you look at retention of team members, and I like to say that if you have somebody that comes in and just as a thousand dollars of volume, but they know that they can show up at your pool party, they can show up at an event, they can show up at a retreat, they're welcomed with open arms. You guys have such incredible retention and is it worth it to be out of your house six nights a month, for probably quadrupling your income, that you had when you were working at Ford?</p><p>Santa<br />Yeah, I mean, here's the thing. It's crazy because people, you know, people are like, well, you only hang out with top leaders. No, it's not the case. I don't care where you're at. In our organization, I don't care what rank you're at, how much volume you bring in. If you're a part of this, then you're a part of our family. If you want to show up, you show up. If you don't, there's no pressure. It's not forceful. Everything that happens, we try to make happen naturally.</p><p>Beth:<br />So if you are talking to somebody that's listening and they're just starting or they might have, let's say $10,000 of volume in a small team, what would be your advice for them to start building a culture in a community like you have?</p><p>Santa<br />Have events, go to events even if you're not ready to have them. Go to an event near you, right? Watch, listen, learn. Then also bring guests to these events or and or start conversations with people anywhere, whether it's in public or at the grocery store or online. Go on and do it. I promise you this, I can guarantee you this because I'm speaking from experience. The minute you step outside of that comfort zone is the minute you start to notice differences in how you are living, things that are happening to you, successes, doors, opening, relationships built. It's crazy to me. I remember our first event, I didn't want to do it and everybody's like, no, you got to do an event. My uplines are like, no, you have to do it. Jessica said just do an event. It's an hour from them. They're like, we'll come. I'm like, okay, cool.</p><p>It was the worst snowstorm ever. One person showed up to our event, right? We call her the power of one. She's a rock star. She showed up to this event and sat in front of us like a deer in headlights. Jessica was talking, cause I didn't know much about the business. I was still very new. So a whole presentation went on and she listened and just took it in and took it in over the next few months. This woman absolutely crushed it and here's the funny thing is if I didn't do that one of that, that whole team wouldn't have started. You know what I'm saying? It was crazy because after the event we were like, Oh my God, it was an Epic fail. It was a disaster. We're never doing this again. But I ate those words very quickly. Now we do more events than you can imagine and it's been one of the best things we do, but not only for bringing people on and helping people, it's helped reinvigorate our teams, keeps them engaged.</p><p>It helps them really stay energized and the comradery and it fills people's cups. I mean, it's just crazy how a couple hours out of a day, a one night a week can change your momentum if you were to start planning these events. Even if you don't do it every week, do it every other week. That will help you grow your momentum. It'll help people fill their cups. He'll give people energy or make them feel invigorated. It will re energize their business, especially if they're on a lull or a standstill, these are all ways to do it. But I'm telling you, just get out and talk to people.</p><p>Beth:<br />And that's what you've done is, you've talked to people locally and I love, I feel like it's like the revival of why people loved the network marketing industry. In the beginning, it was building community and you guys don't just do it like, it's not a boring flip chart meeting. You guys bring your families. I mean it's like, it's a family affair, right?</p><p>Santa<br />Yes. It's my, our son. We have a three year old son. This was one of the reasons why network marketing has been such a blessing because of the time freedom and the ability to spend the time with our son. But we take our son to locals all the time. Don't ever make your why your excuse. So if your why is your children, don't make them their excuse for you not showing up, or make them the excuse that you can't be at an event or be on a call. They are the reason why you're doing what you're doing most of the time. And if that's the case, bring them, you're putting them in an environment that's safe. You're putting them in an environment with people that are loving, caring, and knowledgeable and are open to helping and they're learning those traits from you and making them better humans. I mean, for me, my son is a loving, caring kid that says, please thank you and you're welcome because he's heard it from all the people that we've surrounded him with and majority of them is our team in our family.</p><p>Beth:<br />And how about to listening to people that have the entrepreneurial mindset over and over again and being exposed to that?</p><p>Santa<br />You know, we, we had the privilege of meeting somebody, you know, Pitbull. The amazing entrepreneur producer, songwriter, singer. You know that his mom used to listen to Tony Robbins in the car every single day for the majority of his childhood as she took him to school? He credits that to make him is what made him who he is because he found out who Tony Robbins is. He was in that environment. He was listening to that motivational, entrepreneurial spirit. He absorbed it all. And I'll tell you right now, kids are sponges and if you put them in the right environment, the odds of them being successful is going to be through the roof.</p><p>Beth:<br />And they see the vision boards, right? They see, Oh my friends are coming over for vision board party, right? Well Santa has a different background right now, but they see the affirmations, they see the morning routines and they see us working. My son said to me and he's 15, so we've got, you know you get the opportunity. He said, how can I have, I love that you have the freedom to choose when you want to work. He said you work hard, but I want to create a career or a business around what I love, and we started talking about the different options. And one of the things, he's got this idea, he wants to make these wakeboarding sweatshirts, but I talked about overhead building a website, manufacturing delivery and he's like, Oh no wonder network marketing was such a good fit, because you didn't have to build your own website.</p><p>Like we just got to go, and you and I both are very much extroverted, like the ultimate camp counselors here, and just have conversations and take away all of the stuff that I call, it feels like your drunk uncle is driving. If you and I had to ship our product, build our website, and we get to do the thing of connecting, and that's what I'm hearing you say is whether you guys, you might be saying, okay, my team doesn't live locally. We'll start to build a team locally. You're missing out, and I'm going to say if you take one thing away from this podcast, from Haas and from me is, yes, you're going to have people all over the country. You're going to get on Zooms, you're going to meet up. We're going to share a place where you can meet both of us and where you can meet with your team by going to an event in February. But here's the thing, your local community is waiting for you, your next door neighbor, the person in line at Publix, is financially stressed, needs your product, needs your community. And if you're not Hass, and you're not looking up from your phone and you're not connecting, I guarantee you, you've helped someone put groceries in their car and had a conversation and invited them to an event, right?</p><p>Santa<br />You know it, 100%! I've actually, I carry product in me. So if somebody is interested, I don't squander an opportunity. I'm out there pounding pavement, talking to anybody and everybody, and I give them an opportunity to try our product and really benefit from it.</p><p>Beth:<br />And here's the thing, I'm gonna say this and this is bold. And because I love all the strategies that we're out there teaching, but the most successful network marketers, when you look at Haas, when you look at what I've done, when you look at the seven figure earners, they are having conversations. Our job is to network. Our job is to connect. Our job is to change lives. So if you're only changing lives, typing on your computer behind Facebook messenger, hiding in a Facebook group, you're going to have a very, maybe a nice business. But when you ask, I've asked people this, your biggest builder in your company, did you know that person before? No. No. How did you meet? How did you meet your biggest person, your biggest earner?</p><p>Santa<br />In-person, through somebody else. Because I opened a conversation, because I connected with that person and then met somebody through them, and being personable. Having conversations with people opens up the doors for you to meet people. I'm going to tell you right now, just because one person isn't the person you're looking for, I promise you that they could be a doorway for you to meet that one rock star that's going to blow your business out of the water. So every relationship is valuable, in my opinion, going out and meeting people and connecting with people in person. Look, we live in a society of computers and social media. The biggest successes and some of the most successful people in this business have, one of the reasons they're successful is because they've gone out, and physically in front of them, face to face, belly to belly, have talked to people, hug people, you know, shaking hands, whatever it may be out in public. I promise you if you do that, things are going to change. You're going to have a completely different dynamic. Not only that, you're appreciated more.</p><p>Beth:<br />Yes, yeah, of course. And so let's, in 2020 I'm going to encourage you, if you are looking to double, triple, 10 times your business, you are going to listen to Santa, to Haas, who says get yourself out the door. You're not going to feel like a encyclopedia salesman. You are going to make connections and go to that paddleboarding event. Go to the sledding Hill, have conversations, and like I mean carry your toolkit on you and you will drastically see your business change. The other piece that I wanted to talk about before we close out today is going to live training, in person events. And that's how Haas and I first met, at a leadership conference. I felt like we were already friends. But both Haas and I are going to be at an incredible event in Naples, Florida, called the Top Summit. Do you want to talk a little bit about that event? How about those people that are listening to this podcast? I didn't even run this by you. If you buy tickets for this event and you are going and you message us on Instagram, you can connect with Haas. I'll give you all his information over on Facebook. We will actually meet with you, and sit in a circle, and have a conversation and Hass will do a little training on how to have conversations in public. Only if you buy your tickets today, right? Haas, a free training with you at the Top Summit?</p><p>Santa<br />I will sit down and we'll have lunch, whatever it takes. Look before I get into the Top Summit, because it's an amazing event and I can talk about it all day. I promise because I went to the first one, but be genuine. Be you, care, you know? Be honest, not only with the person you're speaking to, be honest with yourself. These are things that you must, in my opinion, be truly honest with everything, and about everything, that you're trying to do when you meet somebody that's going to take you along the way. Now onto the Top Summit. I can't wait. I live in Michigan. You live in Florida, so you're very lucky. You know, You're already down there.</p><p>Beth:<br />I feel like I get to hang out with all my good friends. Like I have the best vacation ever. The Naples beach club. So here's the thing, when I saw that that's where it was, and then being asked to speak, what was like, what that was on my vision board. That's a dream come true. And my husband and I, before we had kids, his mom had a membership to the Naples beach club and we used to go over, and they have the best cheeseburgers, and I have so many great memories. We would just sit on the beach, read books. It was like the honeymoon phase actually. He's like, you're not going alone. So I was like, Oh, are you coming to the Top Summit? I'll meet you at the top honey. So tell us about the event. I know you were there last year. I didn't get to go to Mackinac Island last year, but I was watching the online streaming, having so FOMO, I'll never miss another top summit.</p><p>Santa:<br />I'll tell you right now, top seven, it was...oh look, I've been to a lot of events, it was very different in the dynamic of you were right there in front of everybody. The speakers were mingling with guests and people in the audience. I mean, not lost speaking outside of speaking, you were in the same hotel, so you were basically hanging out with these amazing top earners, trainers, leaders and teachers in around network marketing. But not only network marketing, traditional business as well. It was an awe inspiring. I was so motivated that I started doing...because I didn't speak at the Top Summit, not yet. Hopefully soon. It's on my vision board too. But, I will be there and I will help anybody. If you buy your ticket today, I will help anybody that comes up to me, and me and Beth will have kind of like...</p><p>Beth:<br />Let's have our own training. Yeah, we'll have a little mastermind for you. And if you go to the Top Summit website, which is https://thetopsummit.com, you'll see all the speakers. We've interviewed many, we've interviewed Ray Higdon, Rob Sperry, we have Frazier Bricks coming. Danelle Delgado. Who else is on that list? Like Cherry Tree, Courtney Epps for finance, Kimberly Olson. I mean we have so many and what someone said to me, it was Sarah Cole who had come to the first one, and she actually had just started with a new company when she came. Yeah, and left Top Summit and her business just exploded, and she said there was just something about the intimacy, like having Frazier walk up to you, having conversations, being able to ask these questions and then the connections. Some of my very best friends are with other companies, that I've met at masterminds or sidelines, and we just talk about things like this.</p><p>Like I was able to save you Haas. We stopped doing some in person events. Tell me what's happening. Tell me how they're working. Tell me what you did to get them going. Again, those are the conversations that if you're going to build this like a real business, not just a hobby that you need to have, and you need to be open and there and invest in going. I was a teacher, I had to go to years and years of school, years and years of ongoing development, staff development, and we just come into network marketing and we're like, Hey, let's do it. Let's just do it. That doesn't work.</p><p>Santa:<br />No, it doesn't work and I'll tell you right now, it's an investment in yourself. You're learning amazing qualities, amazing techniques, things to save from some of the top earners and leaders in the industry and trainers. My wife and I, we invest a lot of money and time in growing ourselves in self-development. I think it's one of the most important things. If you do want to become an amazingly successful network marketer, one of the first things you need to do is invest in and the events like the Top Summit are really going to be events that are going to help you become the best and really get to the top. I mean, Top Summit's motto is 'I'll see you at the top', and I promise you if you invest in yourself, purchase tickets to this and now mind you, I have no affiliation with the Top Summit.</p><p>I just absolutely love events like it, and it's the next big event that's coming up. I highly, highly recommend it. My wife and I will be there for sure. I know you'll be there. I'm super excited to see you in person. It's been way too long. But these are so critical and so important in investing in yourself. And if you take anything away from this podcast, other than you know, some of the tips that I offered or talked about from my experiences, I really recommend you take time to self develop and go to events like the Top Summit in Naples, Florida. Plus, look, I'm from Michigan. I woke up and it was nine degrees today.</p><p>Beth:<br />So I'm in Florida right now, complaining that it was like 75 and raining outside of my window today. So yes, we went from how to make a list. We went from going out and building in person and that transitioned us. Obviously I'm excited about Top Summit because I'm there, I'm speaking, and then I knew Haas was there and then suddenly it hit me. Hey, I want to get you guys there so that you can have conversations with them. Multiple six figure earner, top leaders like Haas who we'll take the time to sit with you and say, okay, I'm building online, but I want to bring that local community in as well. What are your suggestions? And even the genuine conversations that you have with people. That's the key. So I'm so excited Santa that you joined us today and I like cracked up when he showed up in full Santa's suit with like the the North pole and the backgrounds. If you're listening and you can't see this, you can go over, it'll be on YouTube, it'll be on social media.</p><p>Santa:<br />You took some pictures, right?</p><p>Beth:<br />I have pictures. I just put you up in the Instagram stories. Yeah, I've got it all.</p><p>Santa:<br />This is what makes this fun. Guys. You can do this from home wearing whatever you want. You know, today I chose a Santa suit because I wanted to play along and really make this fun for you guys. I appreciate you for having me. I appreciate all you listeners guys. Thank you so much for taking the time to listen to this podcast. I hope I have helped and added value. I am a servant soul. So if I do see you at the Top Summit, which I'm looking forward to, please don't hesitate to come up and just give me a hug and tell me you heard the podcast and you know Beth.</p><p>Beth:<br />Are you thinking, I want to maybe give a sneak peek? I heard a rumor there might be a podcast for you in 2020.</p><p>Santa:<br />Yes, my face turned extremely red right now, as red as my suit. My beautiful, amazing wife and I are in the midst of doing some recordings. We're going to launch our podcast in 2020. We're super excited about it. We just want to add some value. Talk about being a theme. Parents talk about being network marketers, talk about life in general and we hope you subscribe. I will give you a title, a name and I'll get with Beth on this and we'll do it. I'll hopefully be able to have her on one of our podcasts next year.</p><p>Beth:<br />Yeah, and I love your platform of showing how parents are raising a family in the network marketing world. I can't wait for that content. And also I like even the tip you gave today about listening in the car too, to Tony Robbins. My poor kid has heard, Think and Grow Rich so many times. But that's what you're going to get from the podcast, is how to parent, how to live the network marketing lifestyle, live the life of freedom with two awesome parents, Sydney and Haas. And so we're going to look forward to that podcast. We're going to wrap this up because I promised 30 minutes for all of you, Hass, thank you so much, and I'll see you at the top summit.</p><p>Santa:<br />Thank you. Thank you for having me.</p><p>Beth:<br />Thank you guys for listening. Yes, and I will see you at the top. I appreciate you.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today and ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. I’m hoping that you’ve found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes. Every single week I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I enter you to win the, ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’ swag, so make sure you leave it and we’ll reach out to you if you’re the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we’ll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/17-yes-virginia-santa-is-a-network-marketer-aRFOV0eb</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Learn More About The Content Discussed...</strong></p><ul><li>No Boss Talk:<a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></li><li>Top Summit: <a href="https://www.thetopsummit.com">https://www.thetopsummit.com</a></li><li>Instagram: <a href="https://instagram.com/">https://instagram.com</a></li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">here</a></li><li>Beth’s Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth’s website:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></li></ul><p><strong>Keynotes discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>Why did I choose Network Marketing? Honestly, because of time freedom and if you know me, I'm a big jolly fellow who likes to help people. (01:55)</li><li>It takes you getting out of your comfort zone and actually reaching out to people, and getting to know people, and asking people questions and telling people about yourself.(04:11)</li><li>I did not get to be an almost multiple seven figure earner by not having conversations with people.(06:04)</li><li>If you're listening and you're going into 2020 you're looking at your goals from 2019 and I want you to first of all, listeners, have some gratitude for what you have done. (10:14)</li><li>It helps them really stay energized and the comradery and it fills people's cups.(14:22)</li></ul><p><strong>When Did It Air...</strong><br />December 23, 2019</p><p><strong>Episode Transcript:</strong></p><p>Beth:<br />Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>All right, so I am so excited to have Santa Claus on the podcast today. I'm actually going to tell you who Santa is at the end, so stay with me and you'll be able to see the recording of this. Santa is at the North Pole in a full red suit, I'm not kidding you. And when you guys figure out who Santa is, actually I just got a text from Blair, I sent a screenshot of this...who is Santa? So you have to stage it, and some of you will recognize his voice. He's spoken on many stages, huge stages in the network marketing world. He is a multiple six figure earner, close to seven figures, and I'll tell you his story when we close this out. But for now, hello Santa! Oh cool. Oh my gosh. I mean you guys, what is the date that this is airing on?</p><p>Let me look Santa. Okay. It is December 23rd. Oh my gosh you guys...now behind me, you will have to go over to YouTube, and I'm going to have this all over Facebook. But behind me, Santa's has his house. He has beautiful trees and wreaths. Oh my goodness. This is like my favorite podcast. So it's December 23rd and Santa...Most of the people that listen to the podcast are network marketers, or they build online businesses. I know that this might come as a surprise, that you, Santa, are involved in the network marketing industry. So why did you choose network marketing alongside your other gig?</p><p>Santa<br />I am involved in network marketing and I absolutely love network marketing. I chose network marketing because, you know, I have a little bit of free time on my off season and I figured why not help people and make an income. So I put my elves to work and we started working in network marketing. Why did I choose it? Because honestly, because of time freedom and if you know me, I'm a big jolly fellow who likes to help people. I just love everybody and I want to help people. And this industry is one of the only industries in the world that you can help people better themselves, whether it be a product or a product and an opportunity.</p><p>Beth:<br />I totally agree. So Santa's, I know that you're also live up in the North pole. So obviously building a business that just requires Wi-Fi and connecting all over social media is huge for you. And one of the the topics of today's episode is how to continue to always grow your list. And since Santa has lists and you know Santa, I gotta say you're a little, you're a little judgmental, but I'm just going to put that out there. I know you've told me I was naughty. I'm like, how are you to decide? But we're not even going to get onto that topic now it's open for discussion. I want to make sure I get a new ring light this year because mine is like all over the place and I've got other things that I really want, a Peloton. Do you think you could work that out for me?</p><p>Santa<br />Yes, I think I can. You've been a very nice girl this year, so I definitely can work something out for you.</p><p>Beth:<br />Awesome. Okay, so Santa, I notice when, I'll tell you Santa's Hass, his real name over on Facebook. There's always new momentum and energy in your organization and that comes from having new conversations. And one of the biggest things, the biggest concerns that people will say to me as they get started, they get excited, they talk to their sister and their brother, they get to their warm market. They might even come out of the box and hit two ranks and then they're like, I don't have anybody else to talk to. There's so many different ways to grow the list. What are some of your best list building strategies of people that you know to have conversations with?</p><p>Santa<br />Well, for me, I'm open, right? So I'm stuck up here in the North pole. I have wifi, I have my social media platforms. Let's start with social media, right? Social media is a free platform that you can utilize to help build relationships and grow your network. It takes you getting out of your comfort zone and actually reaching out to people and getting to know people and asking people questions and telling people about yourself. In doing so, you build relationships and those relationships turn into people who want to either join you in your opportunity or take your product, depending on what it is, you know, they'll find the groove with you. But first things first is you have to be open to trying to connect with people and talk to people. And me being so far away from everybody up here in the North pole, it's easier for me to do it on social media.</p><p>But from time to time when I fly over to the grocery store, I also put my head up, look around and smile at people, introduce myself, talk to people, be polite. I can't tell people this enough. For me personally, I have a product that I absolutely love and believe it and I love sharing my experience because it's helped me. In the past four years, it's helped me so much be a better person, feel better. It's given me opportunities that I could only dream of. But I go to the grocery store for a gallon of milk and Mrs. Clause is like, where'd you go? You've been gone for two hours. Did you milk the cow? Like no, I was talking to people. You never know who you meet.</p><p>Beth:<br />Yeah. This is a little bit of a trend. And I feel like Santa, when people start to, and you're hearing from someone, you guys I know that you're like, yeah, right Santa. Well this Santa has built an incredible business by having conversations all the time. Connection, serving, and then I see these new ways like, and I'm always up on what's innovative and using Facebook stories to grow your lead list and all of those things. But I will for the rest of my life say it. I did not get to be an almost multiple seven figure earner by not having conversations with people that were right in front of my face. And people will say, don't bother your friends and family. Never have to send them a message again. Like, what do you have to say about people that have the belief that you don't have something that your friends and family need? Like that just blows my mind.</p><p>Santa<br />You know? I totally agree with you because here's the thing. If you're not going to help your friends and family first feel amazing, or whatever the product is that you're you have or the service. If you're not going to help your friends and family, why do it? Like for me, that's the first thing that I always go to is helping my friends and or family feel amazing. They're the first people you're going to talk to. That's what you would call your warm market because they know you, they love you, they trust you, and if you genuinely care and are really trying to benefit them and help them, it will come back to you and you will be benefited by it. It's a double win. You're helping them feel better or providing them a service that's going to make their life easier. And in return, you're building your relationship with them, getting closer to them and then not only that, you know you potentially are earning that you can turn around and help your family even more.</p><p>Beth:<br />Well, and one of the things that I watching you grow your business is that you have an all of the network marketers that I've ever seen, you have a team that has an, you guys, it's like Santa and his elves. It's like you have some of the best community and culture then I've ever seen. Like it is not just one person building a business and chatting online. Can you talk about how your team has built this community and this culture? I mean it's, I'm so envious, so envious in fact that I just like decided that I'm a part of it. I just said, Hey, they're having a pool party. Beth's on the way. Tell me how that grew?</p><p>Santa<br />You know, we have a very different dynamic than most teams and we're really blessed to have it. We're a big extended family is what we are and we treat each other as such. From upline to downline. It's not about rank. It's not about anything. It's about really serving and helping people like a family does. I want you guys to think about your brothers or sisters. You will do anything for them within moderation. Of course, you're not going to bury a body, God forbid, but you know what I'm saying?</p><p>Beth:<br />Well, you might, you might, but you know that's another podcast.</p><p>Santa<br />But no, seriously though, you would do anything for them. In creating a culture like that and getting people to really grow together and support each other and cheer each other on and just share moments with those people is very important to us. We're very big on events. Events is a huge thing for us. We plan a lot of events. We do a lot of events. I think the most events in one month that we did was 10 or 12, I don't remember the count. We have a team dinner, one of our leaders is hosting a team dinner today. I mean these are things that you know are important to us and we push. Well, I don't want to say push. We want people to do these events and be a good tight community. And to do that we lead by that way. We have an open door policy at our house.</p><p>Beth:<br />And here's the thing that people listening, because Santa, this is like, I love that our podcast is shifting. We're talking about growing a list, but how do people, this is when I watch, when I watch your team culture and I actually got introduced to you because we're sidelines. Your real identity is from Michigan and some of my team members, when you guys first came on, it was like, what the heck? Who are these people? They're growing so fast, welcomed with open arms, people from my team. And I kept hearing about this, this guy named Hass and I was like, I gotta know Hass, he's like Santa Claus. So this is what I want you to take away. If you're listening and you're going into 2020 you're looking at your goals from 2019 and I want you to first of all, listeners, have some gratitude for what you have done.</p><p>Don't listen to Haas and go, Oh my gosh, I suck. I have not had an event. I want you to think about what have you accomplished, who have you helped? And then here's the thing is, you might want to shift how you're doing things. We've gone to this whole idea and maybe events aren't for you. And you might be saying, well, I built this business so I didn't have to leave home. What if I told you that you would make, Haas, just off the top of your head from, and we're going to start calling you Haas. Even though he is Santa, he's in the full Santa suit. Your income has dramatically increased from here. He's taking it off, he's taken it off. Now take it off Santa, take it off. There we go. I mean, look at that. Now he's like, okay, so you're watching this and we're going to pull this live.</p><p>So some people will say, I don't have time to do those events, but when you look at retention of team members, and I like to say that if you have somebody that comes in and just as a thousand dollars of volume, but they know that they can show up at your pool party, they can show up at an event, they can show up at a retreat, they're welcomed with open arms. You guys have such incredible retention and is it worth it to be out of your house six nights a month, for probably quadrupling your income, that you had when you were working at Ford?</p><p>Santa<br />Yeah, I mean, here's the thing. It's crazy because people, you know, people are like, well, you only hang out with top leaders. No, it's not the case. I don't care where you're at. In our organization, I don't care what rank you're at, how much volume you bring in. If you're a part of this, then you're a part of our family. If you want to show up, you show up. If you don't, there's no pressure. It's not forceful. Everything that happens, we try to make happen naturally.</p><p>Beth:<br />So if you are talking to somebody that's listening and they're just starting or they might have, let's say $10,000 of volume in a small team, what would be your advice for them to start building a culture in a community like you have?</p><p>Santa<br />Have events, go to events even if you're not ready to have them. Go to an event near you, right? Watch, listen, learn. Then also bring guests to these events or and or start conversations with people anywhere, whether it's in public or at the grocery store or online. Go on and do it. I promise you this, I can guarantee you this because I'm speaking from experience. The minute you step outside of that comfort zone is the minute you start to notice differences in how you are living, things that are happening to you, successes, doors, opening, relationships built. It's crazy to me. I remember our first event, I didn't want to do it and everybody's like, no, you got to do an event. My uplines are like, no, you have to do it. Jessica said just do an event. It's an hour from them. They're like, we'll come. I'm like, okay, cool.</p><p>It was the worst snowstorm ever. One person showed up to our event, right? We call her the power of one. She's a rock star. She showed up to this event and sat in front of us like a deer in headlights. Jessica was talking, cause I didn't know much about the business. I was still very new. So a whole presentation went on and she listened and just took it in and took it in over the next few months. This woman absolutely crushed it and here's the funny thing is if I didn't do that one of that, that whole team wouldn't have started. You know what I'm saying? It was crazy because after the event we were like, Oh my God, it was an Epic fail. It was a disaster. We're never doing this again. But I ate those words very quickly. Now we do more events than you can imagine and it's been one of the best things we do, but not only for bringing people on and helping people, it's helped reinvigorate our teams, keeps them engaged.</p><p>It helps them really stay energized and the comradery and it fills people's cups. I mean, it's just crazy how a couple hours out of a day, a one night a week can change your momentum if you were to start planning these events. Even if you don't do it every week, do it every other week. That will help you grow your momentum. It'll help people fill their cups. He'll give people energy or make them feel invigorated. It will re energize their business, especially if they're on a lull or a standstill, these are all ways to do it. But I'm telling you, just get out and talk to people.</p><p>Beth:<br />And that's what you've done is, you've talked to people locally and I love, I feel like it's like the revival of why people loved the network marketing industry. In the beginning, it was building community and you guys don't just do it like, it's not a boring flip chart meeting. You guys bring your families. I mean it's like, it's a family affair, right?</p><p>Santa<br />Yes. It's my, our son. We have a three year old son. This was one of the reasons why network marketing has been such a blessing because of the time freedom and the ability to spend the time with our son. But we take our son to locals all the time. Don't ever make your why your excuse. So if your why is your children, don't make them their excuse for you not showing up, or make them the excuse that you can't be at an event or be on a call. They are the reason why you're doing what you're doing most of the time. And if that's the case, bring them, you're putting them in an environment that's safe. You're putting them in an environment with people that are loving, caring, and knowledgeable and are open to helping and they're learning those traits from you and making them better humans. I mean, for me, my son is a loving, caring kid that says, please thank you and you're welcome because he's heard it from all the people that we've surrounded him with and majority of them is our team in our family.</p><p>Beth:<br />And how about to listening to people that have the entrepreneurial mindset over and over again and being exposed to that?</p><p>Santa<br />You know, we, we had the privilege of meeting somebody, you know, Pitbull. The amazing entrepreneur producer, songwriter, singer. You know that his mom used to listen to Tony Robbins in the car every single day for the majority of his childhood as she took him to school? He credits that to make him is what made him who he is because he found out who Tony Robbins is. He was in that environment. He was listening to that motivational, entrepreneurial spirit. He absorbed it all. And I'll tell you right now, kids are sponges and if you put them in the right environment, the odds of them being successful is going to be through the roof.</p><p>Beth:<br />And they see the vision boards, right? They see, Oh my friends are coming over for vision board party, right? Well Santa has a different background right now, but they see the affirmations, they see the morning routines and they see us working. My son said to me and he's 15, so we've got, you know you get the opportunity. He said, how can I have, I love that you have the freedom to choose when you want to work. He said you work hard, but I want to create a career or a business around what I love, and we started talking about the different options. And one of the things, he's got this idea, he wants to make these wakeboarding sweatshirts, but I talked about overhead building a website, manufacturing delivery and he's like, Oh no wonder network marketing was such a good fit, because you didn't have to build your own website.</p><p>Like we just got to go, and you and I both are very much extroverted, like the ultimate camp counselors here, and just have conversations and take away all of the stuff that I call, it feels like your drunk uncle is driving. If you and I had to ship our product, build our website, and we get to do the thing of connecting, and that's what I'm hearing you say is whether you guys, you might be saying, okay, my team doesn't live locally. We'll start to build a team locally. You're missing out, and I'm going to say if you take one thing away from this podcast, from Haas and from me is, yes, you're going to have people all over the country. You're going to get on Zooms, you're going to meet up. We're going to share a place where you can meet both of us and where you can meet with your team by going to an event in February. But here's the thing, your local community is waiting for you, your next door neighbor, the person in line at Publix, is financially stressed, needs your product, needs your community. And if you're not Hass, and you're not looking up from your phone and you're not connecting, I guarantee you, you've helped someone put groceries in their car and had a conversation and invited them to an event, right?</p><p>Santa<br />You know it, 100%! I've actually, I carry product in me. So if somebody is interested, I don't squander an opportunity. I'm out there pounding pavement, talking to anybody and everybody, and I give them an opportunity to try our product and really benefit from it.</p><p>Beth:<br />And here's the thing, I'm gonna say this and this is bold. And because I love all the strategies that we're out there teaching, but the most successful network marketers, when you look at Haas, when you look at what I've done, when you look at the seven figure earners, they are having conversations. Our job is to network. Our job is to connect. Our job is to change lives. So if you're only changing lives, typing on your computer behind Facebook messenger, hiding in a Facebook group, you're going to have a very, maybe a nice business. But when you ask, I've asked people this, your biggest builder in your company, did you know that person before? No. No. How did you meet? How did you meet your biggest person, your biggest earner?</p><p>Santa<br />In-person, through somebody else. Because I opened a conversation, because I connected with that person and then met somebody through them, and being personable. Having conversations with people opens up the doors for you to meet people. I'm going to tell you right now, just because one person isn't the person you're looking for, I promise you that they could be a doorway for you to meet that one rock star that's going to blow your business out of the water. So every relationship is valuable, in my opinion, going out and meeting people and connecting with people in person. Look, we live in a society of computers and social media. The biggest successes and some of the most successful people in this business have, one of the reasons they're successful is because they've gone out, and physically in front of them, face to face, belly to belly, have talked to people, hug people, you know, shaking hands, whatever it may be out in public. I promise you if you do that, things are going to change. You're going to have a completely different dynamic. Not only that, you're appreciated more.</p><p>Beth:<br />Yes, yeah, of course. And so let's, in 2020 I'm going to encourage you, if you are looking to double, triple, 10 times your business, you are going to listen to Santa, to Haas, who says get yourself out the door. You're not going to feel like a encyclopedia salesman. You are going to make connections and go to that paddleboarding event. Go to the sledding Hill, have conversations, and like I mean carry your toolkit on you and you will drastically see your business change. The other piece that I wanted to talk about before we close out today is going to live training, in person events. And that's how Haas and I first met, at a leadership conference. I felt like we were already friends. But both Haas and I are going to be at an incredible event in Naples, Florida, called the Top Summit. Do you want to talk a little bit about that event? How about those people that are listening to this podcast? I didn't even run this by you. If you buy tickets for this event and you are going and you message us on Instagram, you can connect with Haas. I'll give you all his information over on Facebook. We will actually meet with you, and sit in a circle, and have a conversation and Hass will do a little training on how to have conversations in public. Only if you buy your tickets today, right? Haas, a free training with you at the Top Summit?</p><p>Santa<br />I will sit down and we'll have lunch, whatever it takes. Look before I get into the Top Summit, because it's an amazing event and I can talk about it all day. I promise because I went to the first one, but be genuine. Be you, care, you know? Be honest, not only with the person you're speaking to, be honest with yourself. These are things that you must, in my opinion, be truly honest with everything, and about everything, that you're trying to do when you meet somebody that's going to take you along the way. Now onto the Top Summit. I can't wait. I live in Michigan. You live in Florida, so you're very lucky. You know, You're already down there.</p><p>Beth:<br />I feel like I get to hang out with all my good friends. Like I have the best vacation ever. The Naples beach club. So here's the thing, when I saw that that's where it was, and then being asked to speak, what was like, what that was on my vision board. That's a dream come true. And my husband and I, before we had kids, his mom had a membership to the Naples beach club and we used to go over, and they have the best cheeseburgers, and I have so many great memories. We would just sit on the beach, read books. It was like the honeymoon phase actually. He's like, you're not going alone. So I was like, Oh, are you coming to the Top Summit? I'll meet you at the top honey. So tell us about the event. I know you were there last year. I didn't get to go to Mackinac Island last year, but I was watching the online streaming, having so FOMO, I'll never miss another top summit.</p><p>Santa:<br />I'll tell you right now, top seven, it was...oh look, I've been to a lot of events, it was very different in the dynamic of you were right there in front of everybody. The speakers were mingling with guests and people in the audience. I mean, not lost speaking outside of speaking, you were in the same hotel, so you were basically hanging out with these amazing top earners, trainers, leaders and teachers in around network marketing. But not only network marketing, traditional business as well. It was an awe inspiring. I was so motivated that I started doing...because I didn't speak at the Top Summit, not yet. Hopefully soon. It's on my vision board too. But, I will be there and I will help anybody. If you buy your ticket today, I will help anybody that comes up to me, and me and Beth will have kind of like...</p><p>Beth:<br />Let's have our own training. Yeah, we'll have a little mastermind for you. And if you go to the Top Summit website, which is https://thetopsummit.com, you'll see all the speakers. We've interviewed many, we've interviewed Ray Higdon, Rob Sperry, we have Frazier Bricks coming. Danelle Delgado. Who else is on that list? Like Cherry Tree, Courtney Epps for finance, Kimberly Olson. I mean we have so many and what someone said to me, it was Sarah Cole who had come to the first one, and she actually had just started with a new company when she came. Yeah, and left Top Summit and her business just exploded, and she said there was just something about the intimacy, like having Frazier walk up to you, having conversations, being able to ask these questions and then the connections. Some of my very best friends are with other companies, that I've met at masterminds or sidelines, and we just talk about things like this.</p><p>Like I was able to save you Haas. We stopped doing some in person events. Tell me what's happening. Tell me how they're working. Tell me what you did to get them going. Again, those are the conversations that if you're going to build this like a real business, not just a hobby that you need to have, and you need to be open and there and invest in going. I was a teacher, I had to go to years and years of school, years and years of ongoing development, staff development, and we just come into network marketing and we're like, Hey, let's do it. Let's just do it. That doesn't work.</p><p>Santa:<br />No, it doesn't work and I'll tell you right now, it's an investment in yourself. You're learning amazing qualities, amazing techniques, things to save from some of the top earners and leaders in the industry and trainers. My wife and I, we invest a lot of money and time in growing ourselves in self-development. I think it's one of the most important things. If you do want to become an amazingly successful network marketer, one of the first things you need to do is invest in and the events like the Top Summit are really going to be events that are going to help you become the best and really get to the top. I mean, Top Summit's motto is 'I'll see you at the top', and I promise you if you invest in yourself, purchase tickets to this and now mind you, I have no affiliation with the Top Summit.</p><p>I just absolutely love events like it, and it's the next big event that's coming up. I highly, highly recommend it. My wife and I will be there for sure. I know you'll be there. I'm super excited to see you in person. It's been way too long. But these are so critical and so important in investing in yourself. And if you take anything away from this podcast, other than you know, some of the tips that I offered or talked about from my experiences, I really recommend you take time to self develop and go to events like the Top Summit in Naples, Florida. Plus, look, I'm from Michigan. I woke up and it was nine degrees today.</p><p>Beth:<br />So I'm in Florida right now, complaining that it was like 75 and raining outside of my window today. So yes, we went from how to make a list. We went from going out and building in person and that transitioned us. Obviously I'm excited about Top Summit because I'm there, I'm speaking, and then I knew Haas was there and then suddenly it hit me. Hey, I want to get you guys there so that you can have conversations with them. Multiple six figure earner, top leaders like Haas who we'll take the time to sit with you and say, okay, I'm building online, but I want to bring that local community in as well. What are your suggestions? And even the genuine conversations that you have with people. That's the key. So I'm so excited Santa that you joined us today and I like cracked up when he showed up in full Santa's suit with like the the North pole and the backgrounds. If you're listening and you can't see this, you can go over, it'll be on YouTube, it'll be on social media.</p><p>Santa:<br />You took some pictures, right?</p><p>Beth:<br />I have pictures. I just put you up in the Instagram stories. Yeah, I've got it all.</p><p>Santa:<br />This is what makes this fun. Guys. You can do this from home wearing whatever you want. You know, today I chose a Santa suit because I wanted to play along and really make this fun for you guys. I appreciate you for having me. I appreciate all you listeners guys. Thank you so much for taking the time to listen to this podcast. I hope I have helped and added value. I am a servant soul. So if I do see you at the Top Summit, which I'm looking forward to, please don't hesitate to come up and just give me a hug and tell me you heard the podcast and you know Beth.</p><p>Beth:<br />Are you thinking, I want to maybe give a sneak peek? I heard a rumor there might be a podcast for you in 2020.</p><p>Santa:<br />Yes, my face turned extremely red right now, as red as my suit. My beautiful, amazing wife and I are in the midst of doing some recordings. We're going to launch our podcast in 2020. We're super excited about it. We just want to add some value. Talk about being a theme. Parents talk about being network marketers, talk about life in general and we hope you subscribe. I will give you a title, a name and I'll get with Beth on this and we'll do it. I'll hopefully be able to have her on one of our podcasts next year.</p><p>Beth:<br />Yeah, and I love your platform of showing how parents are raising a family in the network marketing world. I can't wait for that content. And also I like even the tip you gave today about listening in the car too, to Tony Robbins. My poor kid has heard, Think and Grow Rich so many times. But that's what you're going to get from the podcast, is how to parent, how to live the network marketing lifestyle, live the life of freedom with two awesome parents, Sydney and Haas. And so we're going to look forward to that podcast. We're going to wrap this up because I promised 30 minutes for all of you, Hass, thank you so much, and I'll see you at the top summit.</p><p>Santa:<br />Thank you. Thank you for having me.</p><p>Beth:<br />Thank you guys for listening. Yes, and I will see you at the top. I appreciate you.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today and ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. I’m hoping that you’ve found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes. Every single week I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I enter you to win the, ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’ swag, so make sure you leave it and we’ll reach out to you if you’re the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we’ll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Learn More About The Content Discussed...</strong></p><ul><li>No Boss Talk:<a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></li><li>Lori Bolen Website: <a href="https://www.ithoughtmind.com">https://www.ithoughtmind.com</a></li><li>Lori Bolen Instagram: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://instagram.com</a>/ithoughtmind</li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">here</a></li><li>Beth’s Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth’s website:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profitherway">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></li></ul><p><strong>Keynotes Discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>And every single time I tell someone what I do, the next thing is, is they ask me, so what does my vibration say about me? (05:35)</li><li>So to be wealthy isn’t necessarily believing, yes I can do it. It’s about making sure that you’re vibrationally aligned. (09:43)</li><li>Look at how many lives we’re going to change. When you’re looking at that, that sends an empowering broadcast message. (14:43)</li><li>What do the billionaires do as a morning ritual? So we talk about, certain people like Mark Walberg who gets up at 4:00 AM. So why does Mark Walberg get up at 4:00 AM? (22:15)</li><li>That’s the important thing when you’re working with vibration, is to get it to become automatic and readjust that vibe when you want to increase either your wealth or expand your business. (31:44)<br /> </li></ul><p><strong>When Did It Air...</strong></p><p>December 16, 2019</p><p> </p><h2>Episode Transcript...</h2><p>Beth:<br />Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Well, hello. Hello, my friends and welcome back to episode number 16. Can you believe it? Thank you so much, if you've been with me since the beginning. And what an incredible fun launch for 2019! I want to encourage you, if there's something on your list that you've been putting off, or that you've been thinking, ‘I don't know if I'm cut out for that, or, why would people want to sit and put the earbuds in, listen to me on their drive to work?’ Whatever that thing is, I encourage you to go for it. That was this podcast. It was a forever launch because I kept questioning the content, the tech, would people want to listen? Would people want to come aboard with me? And guess what? This has been the best way for me to connect with so many new friends every single week. I'm getting screenshots on Instagram messages on Facebook. Just letting me know that my words are helping you, or you're giving me feedback on what kind of guests you want, what kinds of content.</p><p>And I get to interview some of the most incredible thought leaders in the industry, and today is no exception. I am going to introduce you to a friend of mine, Lori Bolen, who's a vibrational intuitive trainer. If you're not sure what that is, you are going to know by the end. She's one of the most sought after in the United States, and all over the world. And what she does is, she's going to help you consciously create and manifest so that you can build the business of your dreams and live the life that you want to live. So, she started a global outreach company called iThought Mind last year. And what I love the most that you're going to hear her talk about today is, vibrationally what that is and how that helps you to create a life filled with possibilities. So, I'm telling you guys, this is good stuff.</p><p>But before we launch into the interview and my conversation with Lori, I want to read to you one of our reviews this week. And if you are KWN-Thriver, I want you to either send me an Instagram message and the DMS, hit me up over on Facebook because we want to send you a boss hat. We've got to know who you are and this review, and thank you for taking the time to download, to review and to share the love. And she or he says, ‘every week I look forward to my personal coaching with Beth and her friends. They are sitting in my car with me, coaching me on how to succeed in all areas of my life, not just my business. It's as if she knows what I need to hear. Keep up the amazing work. I am thankful for this podcast and can't wait for next week’. Oh my gosh. Thank you. And I love sitting in the car and being friends with you KWN-Thriver. It's as though I can read your mind, right? And, you said you're looking forward to next week. Well next week we have a podcast with none other than Santa Claus. I'm not kidding you, Santa’s coming live on the podcast and we're going to be talking about how Santa makes his list. So, look forward to that. I can't wait for you to hear from our guest today, Lori Bolen. So here we go.</p><p>All right, so I just had this awesome introduction that I'm introducing Lori, and some of you listening are thinking, okay, vibration. I know all about manifesting. I've made my vision board. I'm listening to all the YouTube videos, I'm on this entrepreneurial journey. I'm looking back at 2019 and none of it happened. So, Lori is going to debunk some of the mysteries that you have out there because all of a sudden, I think Lori, that 2018 brought about, everybody was manifesting and cutting out pictures and doing all the things. And they're like, wait, but I still don't have it. So, I want you to just give an introduction of your…let's pretend like we're meeting at a party and you tell me what you do, and I'm looking at you like, what? So, let's go. We're at Nikki beach and I run into you and we start having a conversation. How would you describe to me who you are and what you do?</p><p>Lori:<br />Okay, well first off, I would describe that I'm a vibrational and Intuitive trainer. So, the minute I introduce myself, if you don't know anything about that, you look at me and lean in and go, what is a vibrational intuitive trainer? Now clearly everybody knows intuition. What? Vibration? What is that? So, everybody that is on this planet, 7.7 billion people, we all have energy. We run off a conscious vibration. So, we're always gravitating towards something. So, what I do is I help people understand if what they're gravitating towards is actually aligned to what their goal is or what they want to create for their life. So that's really important and that's what I would be telling you. And every single time I tell someone what I do, the next thing is, is they ask me, so what does my vibration say about me? What am I actually creating in my life? And so, then here we go, kicking in with the intuition for a moment. And the next thing you know, the introduction of maybe a minute or two ends up being like a half hour. And I end up adding another friend to my global outreach. So that's a perfect way that I would explain what the heck I do.</p><p>Beth:<br />Okay. I love that. So, I think that this audience tells me all the time that they love when we make it super personal. So, let's talk as though we're talking to Kaylee today and Kaylee is, she's imaginary. So, we can't really tap into her vibration. But Kaylee is doing all the things. She's showing up to the Zooms, she's doing some reach-outs, she's reading the big leap and she's doing all of the things, but she's still not hitting her goals. And I equate it in a way to not having a routine with the gym. Okay. So, if I skip the gym or I don't do my intermittent fasting, and all of the things that I know work for me, to make my body feels healthy. When I feel the most confident, when I know that all my ducks are in a row, I feel that Kaylee might need a routine that helps her with her vibration and also with these goals. And then it starts to feel, even when I'm describing it to you, that feels chaotic. Oh my gosh, is she reading this book? Is she waking up early? Is she manifesting in the afternoon? So, if you have an entrepreneur, a network marketer, let's use, that at the beginning levels. How do you start to work with this person to get some of these practices and get it working in Kaylee's life?</p><p>Lori:<br />Okay. The first thing that I explained is that we're always broadcasting a vibration, and we're always receiving a vibration. So, most people talk about the law of attraction. And I always say the law of attraction is always working. So is your vibration. So, you're always broadcasting something. If she was broadcasting all this kind of chaos and all of a sudden you received that vibration, you would go, Oh, my gosh, wait a second here. What can we do about it? So, the first thing I would do when I work with somebody is to recognize what kind of vibration they are broadcasting. Is it aligning with the way that they view being a wealthy entrepreneur, their goal setting, all of that? Because sometimes someone could have the best strategy in the whole entire world and just be awesome with our strategy, but yet not become a wealthy entrepreneur or hit their goal.</p><p>And it simply is a level of looking at first, what vibration are they broadcasting? Now what does that mean? Your mind has a consciousness and then it has this subconscious. And in the subconscious we have all the familiarity. So, the longer you are familiar to your routine, the likelihood is it that vibration is going to always have that same outcome. So, if you think for a moment, let's say that you have a goal of increasing your lifestyle to $1 million, okay? And so now you've arrived to that million dollars and you want more. So, you have to up that vibration broadcasting to be able to have that happen. So, it's really important. Here's some simple tools and exercises that I tell people right away. Do you think a lot, are you stressing? Are you in this kind of negative mindset? Well then you automatically know what you're broadcasting.</p><p>So if you're out there, what do you think people are receiving from you when you're trying to, you know, expand your business? So that's the most important thing. Even though a lot of people will be kind, represent themselves nice, but they're broadcasting a vibration that says, no thanks. So that's why I talk about there are so many people that are entrepreneurs that are poor entrepreneurs, and they really want to be wealthy. So, to be wealthy isn't necessarily believing, yes, I can do it. It's about making sure that you're vibrationally aligned and you're broadcasting that and you're 100% certain of what that vibration is. So, let's say for example, you're a very, very kind and enthusiastic person, which I know you are Beth. So, I know you're broadcasting out there and you're receiving people that are coming to you that are like, wow, what's going on? I'm open to learning more.</p><p>So that's a really good vibrational signal. So that would be the first thing that I would be asking someone. Sit down and write down what are you representing? What are you broadcasting to people? Do you feel that way? Genuinely are your thoughts in that direction? For example, if you're selling something you don't believe in, what are you broadcasting? You're broadcasting people that aren't going to believe in that either. So that's the number one in everything that you're doing. Pay attention to your vibration. So, here's what happens when you're getting ready to let's say, upgrade your goal or expand your business. Simply because we're approaching 2020, so a lot of people are like, Hey, what's my business going to look like next year? When you take a look at that, you want to really think if you're putting limitations on your thoughts or you're letting your everyday life consume you in a way that's greater than your entrepreneurial business, then you're broadcasting more chaos than anything. Does that make sense?</p><p>Beth:<br />Yes. And so, because I have the opportunity to work with thousands of women in this network marketing space and in the coaching space, I'll receive messages all day long and something like, ‘I'm just getting crickets on my message’. And so immediately I think, well of course you're getting crickets cause you're projecting that, right? You're broadcasting that. And also, there's this other piece, because most of you listening are network marketing entrepreneurs, or you might be life coaches. I believe so firmly in the power of the network marketing model, in residual income, and that it was a business that was available and accessible to all, that I shared and people just would be like, ‘I got to know what you're doing’. Where I feel that so many people are out there are projecting, or putting out there, ‘Oh well it's this thing. It's not really, it's not really a pyramid, but it's kind of.’ Yeah. And so of course people aren't wanting to hear more about it. So how do we help people? And we all go down that path, whether it's at the gym, or in your marriage, or in your business, to get rid of this self-negative talk.</p><p>Lori:<br />Well, that's a good question. First off, you can focus on that, if you focus on it. So, think about the law of attraction. What you focus on, you'll attract more of. So, if you are like, ‘Oh, my gosh, the people I'm going to attract aren't going to really believe in what I'm doing’. Or like, ‘that's a pyramid thing. I don't want to deal with that’. Do you follow me? And instead, if you were broadcasting, ‘Hey, you could be an entrepreneur, not only be successful, but at a low cost even’. So that's something that, you know, if you're broadcasting, and like me, I'm very competitive, so I'm competitive with myself. So, it's always like I want to raise that goal, raise it more. Once I get to a level it's like, okay, I want to get to the next level. And so, if you don't put the pressure on your mind, so a lot of times people put pressure on that number, whatever that is, whether it's sales or that number inside their mind. And I don't think I can do this, but I really want to.</p><p>Well then, they're broadcasting a disbelief. So, what kind of people are they attracting? Because those people are receiving the signal. So, it's really important to pay attention, take the fear out of it, take the negativity out of it, because you have no room for it. So, it makes it easier to hit your goal and sell when you have that winning mindset that you're broadcasting nothing but winners, that they see what you're selling as, ‘Yes, I need that. Thank you. Yes, I want to be a part of that. I want to talk about it. I want to spread the word’. That's how the vibration becomes automatic. You got a broadcast automatic wealth, and this is what I talk about all the time. Automatic sales. You want automatic sales, you want automatic connections, you must be broadcasting that. So instead of looking at the vision board, put a board up that looks at, what am I broadcasting? And read that message before you have reachable moments, where you're like, ’Yes, I'm getting myself in my vibrational alignment till that's what I'm broadcasting’.</p><p>And then have that winning mentality. And then anyone, if you're an entrepreneur that has a team that you're dealing with, make sure they are understanding, what are we broadcasting as a team? Don't focus on the number and the level. Focus on the broadcasting of it. These were teachable moments as a team. Look at how many people we're going to connect to. Look at how many lives we're going to change. When you're looking at that, that sends an empowering broadcast message where you're like, ‘Yes, I want a part that, and I think that's what you did with Camp Elevate, right? Is you made it this beautiful space and once you broadcasted this wonderful space where people can care and share and say, ‘Hey, we're a part of the team.’ So, I think that's important. So that's what I would be telling anyone. Make sure you have that message and broadcast that out, and know when you receive it back, that's the most beautiful thing.</p><p>Beth:<br />Well, I always think about when I run into a friend who might have a new love in her life or in the beginning of that relationship, that people just, there's the sparkle and you're like, what are they doing? I need to be a part of that. So, I feel that way with, and I always talk about, when you're in a business for a long time that you have to continue to have those thoughts and yeah, have that energy around your business. Like the paydays, having the this moment of, I'm so grateful for this happening, and I'm falling in love over and over again with the mission. So, this is what happens to me a lot. So, I'm going to problem solve with you. Like you're coming in, we're doing a coaching session is I get people that have the belief, and they're right doing it.</p><p>So they're believing that they're manifesting, and they're looking at all of the things, and they're doing the work, that you've given them. Maybe they're in one of your business intuitive courses, but they're not actually having conversations with people. They think that if the universe aligns, that they're going to make sales and hit goals. So, a lot of people will say to me, ‘Oh gosh, it must've been so easy for you because you attract these leaders that are, I attract 10’s. I attract tens all day long. And I always have. But I know why. But then there's this, ‘Oh, I don't want to be in the hustle grind mentality and sending these icky messages, while you're projecting the icky messages. But sales and growth as an entrepreneur requires people to actually have conversations. So, I think people get caught in this, I'm going to be in my meditation and manifesting and align my vibration with only these people that are vibrationally qualified. Yet, they're not doing shit behind the scenes. So how do you combine Lori's world and the world of…because you are also a sales Ninja. You also hit big goals. So, I have a group of friends that are, they love this space. It's, you know, and I always say, go to yoga, hang out there, but you got to come home and do the work. So how does it mesh? How do we create a world that were vibrationally where we need to be? We've got the breathing exercises you give, we've got the things on the board, but then we are having conversations.</p><p>Lori:<br />Okay, well first off there is the law of action. So, think about what you're broadcasting right now. If you're broadcasting, ‘Yes I want to be this wealthy entrepreneur. I love what I'm doing.’ You want to do the action dance. You don't want to walk away from it. It's like when you meet someone that you're in love with and what happens, so much of the time is, like what you said, the sparkle, and then all of a sudden you're in the relationship for a while and you're like, what the heck happened to the sparkle? Familiarity came in, and I talk about this when it's in relationships, business, whatever you're doing in your life. It's not really about meditation and staying in that kind of mindset of a Zen state. Because when you are wanting to attract things in your life vibrationally, you want those actions. You want to attract and do that vibrational dance that I talk about.</p><p>So when you're in a relationship, you don't want to wait until that sparkle goes away. So imagine for a moment that if somebody was listening to this podcast and maybe they keep hitting the same level of goal and they can't get themselves out of this stuff because vibrationally what that means is that they've ran so much into familiarity that they can't even see, no matter how much they're broadcasting new words, their vibe is stagnant. So, they've got to raise the awareness. Raising the awareness let's take a different route. When was the last time you were in the car and you were on your way somewhere and all of a sudden there's road construction and you're like, ‘Oh my gosh, detour?’ Then you're taking this detour and you're looking around and you're like, ‘how did I not ever see this before?’ So, it's really important that if you are stuck in that level and you're like, ‘gosh, what do I do to get out?’ All right let's take a different approach. Let's take a different action. You can coach somebody all day long, but if they do not take a different action, this is how it is in relationships. If you continue to keep the same action and you keep going eventually, vibrationally, it's not going to be enough. You're not going to be passionate about it. You're going to rationalize and say, huh, well, at least I have this. I'm grateful for what I have. No, be grateful for what you are attracting and what's coming in for you. That's important.</p><p>Beth:<br />Oh, I love that. I love that. Okay. So, there's so much to get into these 30 minutes. I want to tell you guys that Lori's Facebook page is full of free content. She gives so much away and then we'll connect in the show notes how to connect with her because she's got all kinds of programs. You're like, I need to do this work and you all need to do this work. I need to do it. And that's how I connected with Lori was, I firmly believe if I'm going to go beyond, you might be listening saying, ‘Oh well, she did this, this and this. That's not enough. I have to stay in the work. It's like if you go to church and you're in that community and you detach from it and you're not staying in the word. So, we can do a follow-up, because I know that you guys, we tried to keep it 30 minutes because I think that's gym time. Most people put it in their ear buds for a commute so we can do a follow-up. But today I was on my app at the gym and Nick sent me a workout, and I can communicate with him, and I have my chat with my accountability friends, and I was like, I just killed it, and we're all cheering for each other. And those are the things that helped me to stay on track. So, if you are our trainer, a vibrational trainer, not a fitness trainer, and someone is pretty much brand new to this. They might have messed around with a couple of YouTube videos, maybe they cut out some pictures. Can you give us an assignment? A beginning workout, if we're new to this, that will help us in the first steps? .</p><p>All of this work is raising the vibration. And I want to say to you guys, as you listen, just get started. It's never perfect work. You're never going to understand it totally. I can look at what Lori's bio, which you heard, and I've done the work and you just get started before you even have an understanding. Don't go into research mode. I got to see if this is for me. Just do a little and then more and then more and then more. So, what's our workout? What's our assignment from you?</p><p>Lori:<br />Okay, well first off, I'm sure a lot of people that are listening to this podcast are used to listening to other people. What do the billionaires do as a morning ritual? So, we talk about, you know, certain people like Mark Walberg gets up at 4:00 AM. So why does Mark Walberg get up at 4:00 AM?) Because you know he wants to maximize his time. He knows that the first two hours in the morning is the best time for the conscious mind. And so, what that means is that you don't have a lot on your mind. So, what you're doing is, the workout is building the endorphins. So, you need that, but you also need that mental vibration. And I would say think about the T for a moment. So, the T meaning and vibration is your thoughts. So, if your thoughts are negative or you're already prophesizing your day, or strategizing, okay, ‘how am I going to get through the clutter?’ Then you've already broadcasted a signal that says today's going to be a chaotic day. So, you want to make sure that those thoughts are nice and broadcasting what you want that day to be. Then we have the E, the E is about the decision making in our environment, which means our internal environment.</p><p>So there's only so many decisions you can make in a day before you start to get overwhelmed. That's why someone like Mark Zuckerberg only wears a certain color or a certain outfit because he wants one less decision. So, he can focus on making sure that all the decisions he's making are towards his goal. So, if you've already over made the decision, so okay, you woke up, the thoughts are chaotic, your environment internally is like, ‘Oh my gosh,’ you're overwhelmed on the decisions. So now you're going to have an emotion that's going to broadcast frustration, perhaps disappointment maybe was set yourself already emotionally up for failure. And then that affects your attitude. Your attitude affects your actions. So, the wonder why most people think, ‘if I sit back in a meditation and manifest and I'm in the Zen mindset’. You get that? Well that's the kind of action. Don't want to take an action.</p><p>That's why they're not getting the outcome. Do you follow me with that? So, the thing that you want to be able to do, besides putting your broadcast message on your board, is to pay attention to your T. The moment that you wake up in the morning, make sure you're vibrationally aligned to that. If you have a situation where you have to make a lot of decisions in your business, time to get an assistant so they can make some of your decisions for you so you don't get overwhelmed. So that's the difference between starting to accelerate. And if you're really wanting to make $1 million are multimillionaire or anything like that, you've got to know that you only have a certain requirement. So, I want to encourage you to put on your board that T and stay focused on that. That would be the very first thing that I would do.</p><p>So if you are having something going on in your life that is emotionally affecting you in a negative way, you want to back away and not broadcast that into your entrepreneurial business because that's going to get setbacks for you. So, you want to be able to be for a set up in your situation. So, to be in that setup, you've got to number one; have your goal, make sure that you're following your daily T and put forth that wonderful action of that dance to be passionate about what you're doing. And yes, I tell people, sure, meditate. That's a way to fly it the mind. But that's not the way to elevate your business. That's a way to just quiet your mind. Does that make sense?</p><p>Beth:<br />Yes. And I couldn't help, as you were talking, thinking about the T of sending a 15-year-old son to school, because his first thought is Ugh. So it's a, you know, if you guys have teenagers, just see the contrast of, and when you think about the mornings that you wake up early, your thoughts, you start your day with those thoughts and everything seems to flow and fall into place. Start to pay attention to why that's happening. And then those other mornings when it may be chaos you've slept in, the backpacks are being thrown at each other, the dog is barking, the cat is, and then the vibration has gone, or is so low. So when we feel that chaos, when we feel like this is out of control and your husband's over here chewing on a peanut and you're ready to punch him in the face, and the kid is over here, you know, slumping around. How do we create the T? Because we all do it. Do you ever, I mean you're so trained in this, do you ever have those moments, that I am completely annoyed? I got to bring myself back and I know that you have some of your own methods that you use. So, for me right now, this is what I'm looking for. I'm looking for, I start to feel it slipping. The peanut chewing is annoying me. The dog is snoring in the corner and the kid is driving me crazy. And guess what's going to happen to everything for that day. What do we do when we feel the slip?</p><p>Lori:<br />Okay, first off, when all of that is happening, that's an indication that you've already used up all your decision power, because the minute you use up your decision power, your fight or flight, your stress responses are heightened. So even the most mild little sound, sounds like it's tremendously getting on your nerves. So when you're completely in that way, I tell people back away and start reading and relaxing and put some your earphones on or earbuds on, listen to something calming, start to relax to get that sensory of that nervous system calm and quiet. And the other thing I want to bring up too that I think is important. So if somebody's listening right now and you're broadcasting good stuff and your vibe, but you're receiving resistance back, I want to answer that because so much of the time when you're sending out good vibes and your broadcasting and you're like, yes, yes, yes. span></p><p>What the heck is going on? All these people I'm receiving are, gosh, they're negative, they're reactive. Or maybe you're putting forth those actions and like you said earlier, it's crooked. You're like, what the heck? I'm broadcasting. Where's my people? Come on. And so, what that means in receptive mode. So, if you're receiving a lot of negative people coming your way, you got that? What I encourage you to do at that point is, because your broadcasting message might be too high. So, hold on just a second and listen to me. So, a lot of times we put our broadcasting to a manifestation, perhaps an amount of money that you want. So, let's say right now someone listening is only making $100,000 a year and they want to get up to that million-dollar level. Okay? So you want to just, so if you're broadcast and you're like, ‘yes, yes, yes, I got this going, but what I'm receiving back is people that are negative’, that means you've got to spend time raising that vibration.</p><p>So you want to back away from that. Backing away from that is easy. So, I give a simple receptive exercise. So just like when that E, you're all that decision power and everything is getting you unnerved. Okay? So, when you're sending out the signal to go from a hundred to a million, the people's actions are different. You've just adjusted your actions to say, wow, my vibration is yes, I'm broadcasting $1 million. Okay? And so, in this situation, you want to be able to back away, have some reflection time. Reflection time means sit back and take a look at what people are you wanting to receive that aren't up to the standard of what you're broadcasting. So, they may be halfway to that point. You follow what I'm saying? So, what would the message be? You can't make the message the exact same. This is what happens if you're $100,000 a year and how you're sending out your message and you are now deciding you want to be that millionaire.</p><p>We've got to change the message. This is why Beth, I'm sure you can recognize this. You've expanded your toolbox of ways that you're reaching people and how you're doing different things. And so, as you're doing that, it's because you're recognizing, alright, what the people I need to receive has to understand my message. So, you have to change the message. Don't make it the same. So, sit back. If you're experiencing that, if nobody, nobody is addressing you and you're like crickets, then I want you to sit back and say,’ okay, how are they receiving my message?’ So, I may be broadcasting my vibe and my words may be like, Yes, these are million-dollar words, but how the people are receiving them may not feel that way to them. It may feel more like, who do you think you are? Like, why should I buy from you? So, it's important to look at that receptive mode. So, don't forget to do that. If you're having difficulty, sit back, relax, breathe, and what I call profiling, pull file, the people that you're wanting to reach and how they're receiving that message, then they'll automatically start reaching you without really having to do that hustle and grind. That's the important thing when you're working with vibration, is to get it to become automatic and readjust that vibe when you want to increase, either that wealth, or expand your business. So, I hope that makes sense. .</p><p>Beth:<br />Yeah, it does. And I'm taking crazy notes, because this is, you guys knowing that as you get information, as it comes in, hearing it over and over again, listening to the podcast, going and watching some of the lives, getting on Lori’s newsletter that you can find on her website. If you subscribe that talks about the T and consistently committing to this is every day. I would say to my husband this, it takes a lot of work because you know it's an investment of time, of money, it's a commitment of, I'm not going to live just in this space, in this ordinary space. And it's so beautiful. You start to really commit and do the work and you're honest with yourself of, am I really doing it? Like I know Lori. I know when I'm not up at 4:45 AM, the rest of the day. I know how that's going to go and I will not, I mean projecting this right here, but today everything's in place.</p><p>I know without question, I know it's happening for me, and my sales site today. I was at the gym this morning and I'm like, I love Dixie chicks. I try to stay away from anything that requires thought at the gym that I have to process. I'm listening to Dixie chicks and I'm smiling at people and some guy is like, what are you listening to? Because I just was a totally different vibration today. It was so high. And then of course my weights went up. The results are starting to come. So, I encourage you guys to do this work. I get really excited about it obviously. So, there's a lot of ways, and I always share this, and we share it in the show notes. There's a lot of ways that you can connect with Lori where she's giving you a lot. If you don't feel like, ‘Oh Hey, I need to check this out, from just stalking a Facebook page. But you work with people at all different levels. Describe how if someone wants to connect with you, work with you in a group forum, work with you privately. I know that we're looking forward to a podcast maybe down the road. So how can this audience get more of you?</p><p>Lori:<br />Okay, well, currently there are a couple of ways. One of the ways is as I teach people how to put intuition into your business, and that's important because 40% of CEOs currently right now in the world, no matter how much knowledge they have, they're using their intuition. And that intuition then leads you to, let me use, for example, you might be right now on social media doing the hustle, broadcasting that vibe and going, yes, yes, yes, I want to be that millionaire. And then you're not listening to the instinct. Because maybe that's not the time. Maybe you are so unaware that the people that you're actually aligning with and attracting aren't the ones that are going to take your business from zero to a million. And so, it's important to recognize intuition in that. So currently I have a program that's kicking off in 2020 putting the intuition back in your business.</p><p>And then if someone's reaching out to me on a one-on-one, which a lot of people do because they want things tailored, they want to recognize how much of my familiarity vibe, or I'd been stuck in this relationship for a long while. How do I get passion back into it? Or how do I resuscitate my poor entrepreneurial business into a wealthy one? So, this is things that I do in the custom tailor besides, you know, health and all of these things. So that's what I do. In a one-on-one. And also, you know, I do corporate things and, and different things like that. People are always reaching out to that. So, there's all sorts of ways. But I encourage people, if you're just listening to this podcast and going like, what the heck is this woman talking about? But man, it sounds so awesome. I want to learn more.</p><p>Check on my video library and on my personal page on Facebook because I give so many tools the right way to manifest using your conscious mind and how to expand your vibe. So, I encourage people, that's a way that they can reach out. I love to give people the tools because the law of vibration is always working. So, whether you're doing the work or not, it's happening. It's happening as you're listening to this podcast right now. So, if you don't like your current reality or it's not enough for you, then clearly, you're attracting more of that vibration. So, it's time to get a new vibe, increase the vibe, broadcast things differently. So that's what I would suggest.</p><p>Beth:<br />I think it's so cool that it's a possibility, right? That, because I again go back to a 15 year old boy who doesn't want to go to school today and he's like, you know, I talk to him about the T and I have these conversations, and I have friends that had kind of a different, you know, we didn't talk about this when I was growing up. My mom had very high vibration and a lot of that is carrying over into my life. People say you're so lucky. So, if your parents and your listening, all of these things apply to being an entrepreneur, to being a parent, to being a spouse. Even imagine…I just had my giant golden retriever walk up. Your dog’s even feel it. It's so exciting to me. I know you guys; I get all excited about these things that happen. What a gift, right? That this is out there. Okay. One last question that I have for you is, and this is always a surprise question, so are you ready?</p><p>Lori:<br />Yes. All right.</p><p>Beth:<br />Okay. So, of all the things that you could have in the world, money is not an option. Is not an issue. Everything that you know, you could find it under your Christmas tree, or it would arrive via Amazon prime. What would you want today on your doorstep?</p><p>Lori:<br />Oh, for myself. For yourself. Oh gosh, that's a tough one because I'm such a giver, and I like, not to sound, you know, pompous in any way. I actually live such an amazing life; I haven't wanted for anything for years. So, I spend most of my time giving back. So, the one thing that I would want on my doorstep from Amazon is all everything from Amazon so I could turn around and give it to everybody that actually needs it. And that would bring such a joy to me. Just the same way with the tools that I give to help people understand more about how their mind works in the vibration. Because the more you know about how you work, the more these things will happen to you because people say this. I mean, I can remember the first time I went to a car dealer and bought three brand new cars and gave them away.</p><p>I gave them away to people I didn't even know. And you know, I've bought several homes and gave those away. And you know, you give back when you arrive at a certain level. So, the thing under the Christmas tree that I would want is everything for everyone that at this moment is barely getting by in the world. So, it would give them enough resuscitation so that I could teach them how to increase their vibes so they could do the same thing and give back. I think that's the most important thing.</p><p>Beth:<br />That's wonderful. Sure, Amazon has delivery. I do love that. And so, okay, so let's start a chain on that. Because no matter what your financial situation is today, I want you to think about somebody in your life and you, you know, you have the intuition to know that even having some, having a gift card for whole foods would help their Christmas. And think of someone, whoever comes to your mind right now and use your intuition to say, I'm going to send this $20 book, or I'm going to send this Amazon gift card, because it's going to help with their Christmas, and don't sign your name. Just send it, let it arrive. Remember may day baskets back in the day? You'd leave a basket on somebody's doorstep. Just do that good deed today and go out and give something and you'll notice like it's like that whole thing when someone pays for your Starbucks. It feels so good. We do that all the time. We'll be like, let's pay for that today. So fun. Right?</p><p>Beth:</p><p>All right Lori. Well thank you.</p><p>Lori:<br />Thank you.</p><p>Beth:<br />Thank you! You are so welcome. You guys in the show notes, we are going to put all of the ways that you can connect with Lori. Grab her free videos on her page, look at the business intuitive, or the high vibe courses coming up, and of course we always end with Oliver walking up and he starts groaning into the microphone. Oh, and my podcasts are like, you're so professional. Until the dog starts growing. All right, Lori. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I'm going to stop this recording. And okay, you guys, if you're listening to this, I'm really serious about, I'm doing it right when we get off. Blessing somebody with a gift today that you are capable of giving, even if it's $10. And how good you're going to feel after you do that. And don't shout it out on social media that you did it. And, or do the hundred percent tip, and do it anonymously and we can raise this entire vibration of this crazy country that we live in. Right? All right. Talk to you guys all next Monday. Thanks for hopping on. And as always, go ahead and do a screenshot of this. Lori, are you on Instagram?</p><p>Lori:<br />I am on Instagram.</p><p>Beth:<br />Okay. And how can we find you on Instagram? Because I have them tag both of us so you can reshare it in your stories.</p><p>Lori:<br />Oh, you're asking me this? And the team that works with me does all of that. So, you put it in the show notes?</p><p>Beth:<br />I'll put it in the show notes, and I love this when she said she doesn't use right. The decision when we couldn't get the audio, she immediately, and I loved it, she was like, there's no room in my brain. I could see that. So, she called Lauren and Lauren solved the problem. It was so easy. So, we're going to put how to connect with Lori and Instagram. I'm at @Bethholdinggraves. Screenshot this, put it in your direct messages and up in your story so people will hear the podcast, and I'll connect with you that way. I'll catch you guys all next Monday.</p><p>I want to thank you for hanging out with us today on the podcast. As always, screenshot this shared over an Instagram. I will chat with you over in the DMS. And there's still time to chat with me about the Profit HER Way mastermind 2020 program that we are just getting started in May. I tell you that we have the most phenomenal group of women that are going to be masterminding and working together, starting in January. So, let's get you on that list. Let's see if it's a fit for you. One of my best, best and biggest pieces of advice from an entrepreneur was surround yourself with women that want to see you succeed, that are pushing you to go a little longer, to reach a little higher, and that's what we're doing over in the mastermind. So, you can get on that list to chat with me at BethHoldenGraves.com/Profit and as always, we are doing amazing things in our free Facebook group Camp Elevate. Find us in the show notes or just go to thecampelevategroup.com and join us. We are finishing up a book exchange this week and we have some really, really, really, really amazing free trainings on the way that will be happening before the New Year, as we look at crushing our goals in 2020 and looking at our year in review. So, I'll see you all next week. Santa will be with us. I can't wait.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today and ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. I’m hoping that you’ve found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes. Every single week I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I enter you to win the, ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’ swag, so make sure you leave it and we’ll reach out to you if you’re the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we’ll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Learn More About The Content Discussed...</strong></p><ul><li>No Boss Talk:<a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></li><li>Lori Bolen Website: <a href="https://www.ithoughtmind.com">https://www.ithoughtmind.com</a></li><li>Lori Bolen Instagram: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://instagram.com</a>/ithoughtmind</li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">here</a></li><li>Beth’s Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth’s website:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profitherway">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></li></ul><p><strong>Keynotes Discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>And every single time I tell someone what I do, the next thing is, is they ask me, so what does my vibration say about me? (05:35)</li><li>So to be wealthy isn’t necessarily believing, yes I can do it. It’s about making sure that you’re vibrationally aligned. (09:43)</li><li>Look at how many lives we’re going to change. When you’re looking at that, that sends an empowering broadcast message. (14:43)</li><li>What do the billionaires do as a morning ritual? So we talk about, certain people like Mark Walberg who gets up at 4:00 AM. So why does Mark Walberg get up at 4:00 AM? (22:15)</li><li>That’s the important thing when you’re working with vibration, is to get it to become automatic and readjust that vibe when you want to increase either your wealth or expand your business. (31:44)<br /> </li></ul><p><strong>When Did It Air...</strong></p><p>December 16, 2019</p><p> </p><h2>Episode Transcript...</h2><p>Beth:<br />Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Well, hello. Hello, my friends and welcome back to episode number 16. Can you believe it? Thank you so much, if you've been with me since the beginning. And what an incredible fun launch for 2019! I want to encourage you, if there's something on your list that you've been putting off, or that you've been thinking, ‘I don't know if I'm cut out for that, or, why would people want to sit and put the earbuds in, listen to me on their drive to work?’ Whatever that thing is, I encourage you to go for it. That was this podcast. It was a forever launch because I kept questioning the content, the tech, would people want to listen? Would people want to come aboard with me? And guess what? This has been the best way for me to connect with so many new friends every single week. I'm getting screenshots on Instagram messages on Facebook. Just letting me know that my words are helping you, or you're giving me feedback on what kind of guests you want, what kinds of content.</p><p>And I get to interview some of the most incredible thought leaders in the industry, and today is no exception. I am going to introduce you to a friend of mine, Lori Bolen, who's a vibrational intuitive trainer. If you're not sure what that is, you are going to know by the end. She's one of the most sought after in the United States, and all over the world. And what she does is, she's going to help you consciously create and manifest so that you can build the business of your dreams and live the life that you want to live. So, she started a global outreach company called iThought Mind last year. And what I love the most that you're going to hear her talk about today is, vibrationally what that is and how that helps you to create a life filled with possibilities. So, I'm telling you guys, this is good stuff.</p><p>But before we launch into the interview and my conversation with Lori, I want to read to you one of our reviews this week. And if you are KWN-Thriver, I want you to either send me an Instagram message and the DMS, hit me up over on Facebook because we want to send you a boss hat. We've got to know who you are and this review, and thank you for taking the time to download, to review and to share the love. And she or he says, ‘every week I look forward to my personal coaching with Beth and her friends. They are sitting in my car with me, coaching me on how to succeed in all areas of my life, not just my business. It's as if she knows what I need to hear. Keep up the amazing work. I am thankful for this podcast and can't wait for next week’. Oh my gosh. Thank you. And I love sitting in the car and being friends with you KWN-Thriver. It's as though I can read your mind, right? And, you said you're looking forward to next week. Well next week we have a podcast with none other than Santa Claus. I'm not kidding you, Santa’s coming live on the podcast and we're going to be talking about how Santa makes his list. So, look forward to that. I can't wait for you to hear from our guest today, Lori Bolen. So here we go.</p><p>All right, so I just had this awesome introduction that I'm introducing Lori, and some of you listening are thinking, okay, vibration. I know all about manifesting. I've made my vision board. I'm listening to all the YouTube videos, I'm on this entrepreneurial journey. I'm looking back at 2019 and none of it happened. So, Lori is going to debunk some of the mysteries that you have out there because all of a sudden, I think Lori, that 2018 brought about, everybody was manifesting and cutting out pictures and doing all the things. And they're like, wait, but I still don't have it. So, I want you to just give an introduction of your…let's pretend like we're meeting at a party and you tell me what you do, and I'm looking at you like, what? So, let's go. We're at Nikki beach and I run into you and we start having a conversation. How would you describe to me who you are and what you do?</p><p>Lori:<br />Okay, well first off, I would describe that I'm a vibrational and Intuitive trainer. So, the minute I introduce myself, if you don't know anything about that, you look at me and lean in and go, what is a vibrational intuitive trainer? Now clearly everybody knows intuition. What? Vibration? What is that? So, everybody that is on this planet, 7.7 billion people, we all have energy. We run off a conscious vibration. So, we're always gravitating towards something. So, what I do is I help people understand if what they're gravitating towards is actually aligned to what their goal is or what they want to create for their life. So that's really important and that's what I would be telling you. And every single time I tell someone what I do, the next thing is, is they ask me, so what does my vibration say about me? What am I actually creating in my life? And so, then here we go, kicking in with the intuition for a moment. And the next thing you know, the introduction of maybe a minute or two ends up being like a half hour. And I end up adding another friend to my global outreach. So that's a perfect way that I would explain what the heck I do.</p><p>Beth:<br />Okay. I love that. So, I think that this audience tells me all the time that they love when we make it super personal. So, let's talk as though we're talking to Kaylee today and Kaylee is, she's imaginary. So, we can't really tap into her vibration. But Kaylee is doing all the things. She's showing up to the Zooms, she's doing some reach-outs, she's reading the big leap and she's doing all of the things, but she's still not hitting her goals. And I equate it in a way to not having a routine with the gym. Okay. So, if I skip the gym or I don't do my intermittent fasting, and all of the things that I know work for me, to make my body feels healthy. When I feel the most confident, when I know that all my ducks are in a row, I feel that Kaylee might need a routine that helps her with her vibration and also with these goals. And then it starts to feel, even when I'm describing it to you, that feels chaotic. Oh my gosh, is she reading this book? Is she waking up early? Is she manifesting in the afternoon? So, if you have an entrepreneur, a network marketer, let's use, that at the beginning levels. How do you start to work with this person to get some of these practices and get it working in Kaylee's life?</p><p>Lori:<br />Okay. The first thing that I explained is that we're always broadcasting a vibration, and we're always receiving a vibration. So, most people talk about the law of attraction. And I always say the law of attraction is always working. So is your vibration. So, you're always broadcasting something. If she was broadcasting all this kind of chaos and all of a sudden you received that vibration, you would go, Oh, my gosh, wait a second here. What can we do about it? So, the first thing I would do when I work with somebody is to recognize what kind of vibration they are broadcasting. Is it aligning with the way that they view being a wealthy entrepreneur, their goal setting, all of that? Because sometimes someone could have the best strategy in the whole entire world and just be awesome with our strategy, but yet not become a wealthy entrepreneur or hit their goal.</p><p>And it simply is a level of looking at first, what vibration are they broadcasting? Now what does that mean? Your mind has a consciousness and then it has this subconscious. And in the subconscious we have all the familiarity. So, the longer you are familiar to your routine, the likelihood is it that vibration is going to always have that same outcome. So, if you think for a moment, let's say that you have a goal of increasing your lifestyle to $1 million, okay? And so now you've arrived to that million dollars and you want more. So, you have to up that vibration broadcasting to be able to have that happen. So, it's really important. Here's some simple tools and exercises that I tell people right away. Do you think a lot, are you stressing? Are you in this kind of negative mindset? Well then you automatically know what you're broadcasting.</p><p>So if you're out there, what do you think people are receiving from you when you're trying to, you know, expand your business? So that's the most important thing. Even though a lot of people will be kind, represent themselves nice, but they're broadcasting a vibration that says, no thanks. So that's why I talk about there are so many people that are entrepreneurs that are poor entrepreneurs, and they really want to be wealthy. So, to be wealthy isn't necessarily believing, yes, I can do it. It's about making sure that you're vibrationally aligned and you're broadcasting that and you're 100% certain of what that vibration is. So, let's say for example, you're a very, very kind and enthusiastic person, which I know you are Beth. So, I know you're broadcasting out there and you're receiving people that are coming to you that are like, wow, what's going on? I'm open to learning more.</p><p>So that's a really good vibrational signal. So that would be the first thing that I would be asking someone. Sit down and write down what are you representing? What are you broadcasting to people? Do you feel that way? Genuinely are your thoughts in that direction? For example, if you're selling something you don't believe in, what are you broadcasting? You're broadcasting people that aren't going to believe in that either. So that's the number one in everything that you're doing. Pay attention to your vibration. So, here's what happens when you're getting ready to let's say, upgrade your goal or expand your business. Simply because we're approaching 2020, so a lot of people are like, Hey, what's my business going to look like next year? When you take a look at that, you want to really think if you're putting limitations on your thoughts or you're letting your everyday life consume you in a way that's greater than your entrepreneurial business, then you're broadcasting more chaos than anything. Does that make sense?</p><p>Beth:<br />Yes. And so, because I have the opportunity to work with thousands of women in this network marketing space and in the coaching space, I'll receive messages all day long and something like, ‘I'm just getting crickets on my message’. And so immediately I think, well of course you're getting crickets cause you're projecting that, right? You're broadcasting that. And also, there's this other piece, because most of you listening are network marketing entrepreneurs, or you might be life coaches. I believe so firmly in the power of the network marketing model, in residual income, and that it was a business that was available and accessible to all, that I shared and people just would be like, ‘I got to know what you're doing’. Where I feel that so many people are out there are projecting, or putting out there, ‘Oh well it's this thing. It's not really, it's not really a pyramid, but it's kind of.’ Yeah. And so of course people aren't wanting to hear more about it. So how do we help people? And we all go down that path, whether it's at the gym, or in your marriage, or in your business, to get rid of this self-negative talk.</p><p>Lori:<br />Well, that's a good question. First off, you can focus on that, if you focus on it. So, think about the law of attraction. What you focus on, you'll attract more of. So, if you are like, ‘Oh, my gosh, the people I'm going to attract aren't going to really believe in what I'm doing’. Or like, ‘that's a pyramid thing. I don't want to deal with that’. Do you follow me? And instead, if you were broadcasting, ‘Hey, you could be an entrepreneur, not only be successful, but at a low cost even’. So that's something that, you know, if you're broadcasting, and like me, I'm very competitive, so I'm competitive with myself. So, it's always like I want to raise that goal, raise it more. Once I get to a level it's like, okay, I want to get to the next level. And so, if you don't put the pressure on your mind, so a lot of times people put pressure on that number, whatever that is, whether it's sales or that number inside their mind. And I don't think I can do this, but I really want to.</p><p>Well then, they're broadcasting a disbelief. So, what kind of people are they attracting? Because those people are receiving the signal. So, it's really important to pay attention, take the fear out of it, take the negativity out of it, because you have no room for it. So, it makes it easier to hit your goal and sell when you have that winning mindset that you're broadcasting nothing but winners, that they see what you're selling as, ‘Yes, I need that. Thank you. Yes, I want to be a part of that. I want to talk about it. I want to spread the word’. That's how the vibration becomes automatic. You got a broadcast automatic wealth, and this is what I talk about all the time. Automatic sales. You want automatic sales, you want automatic connections, you must be broadcasting that. So instead of looking at the vision board, put a board up that looks at, what am I broadcasting? And read that message before you have reachable moments, where you're like, ’Yes, I'm getting myself in my vibrational alignment till that's what I'm broadcasting’.</p><p>And then have that winning mentality. And then anyone, if you're an entrepreneur that has a team that you're dealing with, make sure they are understanding, what are we broadcasting as a team? Don't focus on the number and the level. Focus on the broadcasting of it. These were teachable moments as a team. Look at how many people we're going to connect to. Look at how many lives we're going to change. When you're looking at that, that sends an empowering broadcast message where you're like, ‘Yes, I want a part that, and I think that's what you did with Camp Elevate, right? Is you made it this beautiful space and once you broadcasted this wonderful space where people can care and share and say, ‘Hey, we're a part of the team.’ So, I think that's important. So that's what I would be telling anyone. Make sure you have that message and broadcast that out, and know when you receive it back, that's the most beautiful thing.</p><p>Beth:<br />Well, I always think about when I run into a friend who might have a new love in her life or in the beginning of that relationship, that people just, there's the sparkle and you're like, what are they doing? I need to be a part of that. So, I feel that way with, and I always talk about, when you're in a business for a long time that you have to continue to have those thoughts and yeah, have that energy around your business. Like the paydays, having the this moment of, I'm so grateful for this happening, and I'm falling in love over and over again with the mission. So, this is what happens to me a lot. So, I'm going to problem solve with you. Like you're coming in, we're doing a coaching session is I get people that have the belief, and they're right doing it.</p><p>So they're believing that they're manifesting, and they're looking at all of the things, and they're doing the work, that you've given them. Maybe they're in one of your business intuitive courses, but they're not actually having conversations with people. They think that if the universe aligns, that they're going to make sales and hit goals. So, a lot of people will say to me, ‘Oh gosh, it must've been so easy for you because you attract these leaders that are, I attract 10’s. I attract tens all day long. And I always have. But I know why. But then there's this, ‘Oh, I don't want to be in the hustle grind mentality and sending these icky messages, while you're projecting the icky messages. But sales and growth as an entrepreneur requires people to actually have conversations. So, I think people get caught in this, I'm going to be in my meditation and manifesting and align my vibration with only these people that are vibrationally qualified. Yet, they're not doing shit behind the scenes. So how do you combine Lori's world and the world of…because you are also a sales Ninja. You also hit big goals. So, I have a group of friends that are, they love this space. It's, you know, and I always say, go to yoga, hang out there, but you got to come home and do the work. So how does it mesh? How do we create a world that were vibrationally where we need to be? We've got the breathing exercises you give, we've got the things on the board, but then we are having conversations.</p><p>Lori:<br />Okay, well first off there is the law of action. So, think about what you're broadcasting right now. If you're broadcasting, ‘Yes I want to be this wealthy entrepreneur. I love what I'm doing.’ You want to do the action dance. You don't want to walk away from it. It's like when you meet someone that you're in love with and what happens, so much of the time is, like what you said, the sparkle, and then all of a sudden you're in the relationship for a while and you're like, what the heck happened to the sparkle? Familiarity came in, and I talk about this when it's in relationships, business, whatever you're doing in your life. It's not really about meditation and staying in that kind of mindset of a Zen state. Because when you are wanting to attract things in your life vibrationally, you want those actions. You want to attract and do that vibrational dance that I talk about.</p><p>So when you're in a relationship, you don't want to wait until that sparkle goes away. So imagine for a moment that if somebody was listening to this podcast and maybe they keep hitting the same level of goal and they can't get themselves out of this stuff because vibrationally what that means is that they've ran so much into familiarity that they can't even see, no matter how much they're broadcasting new words, their vibe is stagnant. So, they've got to raise the awareness. Raising the awareness let's take a different route. When was the last time you were in the car and you were on your way somewhere and all of a sudden there's road construction and you're like, ‘Oh my gosh, detour?’ Then you're taking this detour and you're looking around and you're like, ‘how did I not ever see this before?’ So, it's really important that if you are stuck in that level and you're like, ‘gosh, what do I do to get out?’ All right let's take a different approach. Let's take a different action. You can coach somebody all day long, but if they do not take a different action, this is how it is in relationships. If you continue to keep the same action and you keep going eventually, vibrationally, it's not going to be enough. You're not going to be passionate about it. You're going to rationalize and say, huh, well, at least I have this. I'm grateful for what I have. No, be grateful for what you are attracting and what's coming in for you. That's important.</p><p>Beth:<br />Oh, I love that. I love that. Okay. So, there's so much to get into these 30 minutes. I want to tell you guys that Lori's Facebook page is full of free content. She gives so much away and then we'll connect in the show notes how to connect with her because she's got all kinds of programs. You're like, I need to do this work and you all need to do this work. I need to do it. And that's how I connected with Lori was, I firmly believe if I'm going to go beyond, you might be listening saying, ‘Oh well, she did this, this and this. That's not enough. I have to stay in the work. It's like if you go to church and you're in that community and you detach from it and you're not staying in the word. So, we can do a follow-up, because I know that you guys, we tried to keep it 30 minutes because I think that's gym time. Most people put it in their ear buds for a commute so we can do a follow-up. But today I was on my app at the gym and Nick sent me a workout, and I can communicate with him, and I have my chat with my accountability friends, and I was like, I just killed it, and we're all cheering for each other. And those are the things that helped me to stay on track. So, if you are our trainer, a vibrational trainer, not a fitness trainer, and someone is pretty much brand new to this. They might have messed around with a couple of YouTube videos, maybe they cut out some pictures. Can you give us an assignment? A beginning workout, if we're new to this, that will help us in the first steps? .</p><p>All of this work is raising the vibration. And I want to say to you guys, as you listen, just get started. It's never perfect work. You're never going to understand it totally. I can look at what Lori's bio, which you heard, and I've done the work and you just get started before you even have an understanding. Don't go into research mode. I got to see if this is for me. Just do a little and then more and then more and then more. So, what's our workout? What's our assignment from you?</p><p>Lori:<br />Okay, well first off, I'm sure a lot of people that are listening to this podcast are used to listening to other people. What do the billionaires do as a morning ritual? So, we talk about, you know, certain people like Mark Walberg gets up at 4:00 AM. So why does Mark Walberg get up at 4:00 AM?) Because you know he wants to maximize his time. He knows that the first two hours in the morning is the best time for the conscious mind. And so, what that means is that you don't have a lot on your mind. So, what you're doing is, the workout is building the endorphins. So, you need that, but you also need that mental vibration. And I would say think about the T for a moment. So, the T meaning and vibration is your thoughts. So, if your thoughts are negative or you're already prophesizing your day, or strategizing, okay, ‘how am I going to get through the clutter?’ Then you've already broadcasted a signal that says today's going to be a chaotic day. So, you want to make sure that those thoughts are nice and broadcasting what you want that day to be. Then we have the E, the E is about the decision making in our environment, which means our internal environment.</p><p>So there's only so many decisions you can make in a day before you start to get overwhelmed. That's why someone like Mark Zuckerberg only wears a certain color or a certain outfit because he wants one less decision. So, he can focus on making sure that all the decisions he's making are towards his goal. So, if you've already over made the decision, so okay, you woke up, the thoughts are chaotic, your environment internally is like, ‘Oh my gosh,’ you're overwhelmed on the decisions. So now you're going to have an emotion that's going to broadcast frustration, perhaps disappointment maybe was set yourself already emotionally up for failure. And then that affects your attitude. Your attitude affects your actions. So, the wonder why most people think, ‘if I sit back in a meditation and manifest and I'm in the Zen mindset’. You get that? Well that's the kind of action. Don't want to take an action.</p><p>That's why they're not getting the outcome. Do you follow me with that? So, the thing that you want to be able to do, besides putting your broadcast message on your board, is to pay attention to your T. The moment that you wake up in the morning, make sure you're vibrationally aligned to that. If you have a situation where you have to make a lot of decisions in your business, time to get an assistant so they can make some of your decisions for you so you don't get overwhelmed. So that's the difference between starting to accelerate. And if you're really wanting to make $1 million are multimillionaire or anything like that, you've got to know that you only have a certain requirement. So, I want to encourage you to put on your board that T and stay focused on that. That would be the very first thing that I would do.</p><p>So if you are having something going on in your life that is emotionally affecting you in a negative way, you want to back away and not broadcast that into your entrepreneurial business because that's going to get setbacks for you. So, you want to be able to be for a set up in your situation. So, to be in that setup, you've got to number one; have your goal, make sure that you're following your daily T and put forth that wonderful action of that dance to be passionate about what you're doing. And yes, I tell people, sure, meditate. That's a way to fly it the mind. But that's not the way to elevate your business. That's a way to just quiet your mind. Does that make sense?</p><p>Beth:<br />Yes. And I couldn't help, as you were talking, thinking about the T of sending a 15-year-old son to school, because his first thought is Ugh. So it's a, you know, if you guys have teenagers, just see the contrast of, and when you think about the mornings that you wake up early, your thoughts, you start your day with those thoughts and everything seems to flow and fall into place. Start to pay attention to why that's happening. And then those other mornings when it may be chaos you've slept in, the backpacks are being thrown at each other, the dog is barking, the cat is, and then the vibration has gone, or is so low. So when we feel that chaos, when we feel like this is out of control and your husband's over here chewing on a peanut and you're ready to punch him in the face, and the kid is over here, you know, slumping around. How do we create the T? Because we all do it. Do you ever, I mean you're so trained in this, do you ever have those moments, that I am completely annoyed? I got to bring myself back and I know that you have some of your own methods that you use. So, for me right now, this is what I'm looking for. I'm looking for, I start to feel it slipping. The peanut chewing is annoying me. The dog is snoring in the corner and the kid is driving me crazy. And guess what's going to happen to everything for that day. What do we do when we feel the slip?</p><p>Lori:<br />Okay, first off, when all of that is happening, that's an indication that you've already used up all your decision power, because the minute you use up your decision power, your fight or flight, your stress responses are heightened. So even the most mild little sound, sounds like it's tremendously getting on your nerves. So when you're completely in that way, I tell people back away and start reading and relaxing and put some your earphones on or earbuds on, listen to something calming, start to relax to get that sensory of that nervous system calm and quiet. And the other thing I want to bring up too that I think is important. So if somebody's listening right now and you're broadcasting good stuff and your vibe, but you're receiving resistance back, I want to answer that because so much of the time when you're sending out good vibes and your broadcasting and you're like, yes, yes, yes. span></p><p>What the heck is going on? All these people I'm receiving are, gosh, they're negative, they're reactive. Or maybe you're putting forth those actions and like you said earlier, it's crooked. You're like, what the heck? I'm broadcasting. Where's my people? Come on. And so, what that means in receptive mode. So, if you're receiving a lot of negative people coming your way, you got that? What I encourage you to do at that point is, because your broadcasting message might be too high. So, hold on just a second and listen to me. So, a lot of times we put our broadcasting to a manifestation, perhaps an amount of money that you want. So, let's say right now someone listening is only making $100,000 a year and they want to get up to that million-dollar level. Okay? So you want to just, so if you're broadcast and you're like, ‘yes, yes, yes, I got this going, but what I'm receiving back is people that are negative’, that means you've got to spend time raising that vibration.</p><p>So you want to back away from that. Backing away from that is easy. So, I give a simple receptive exercise. So just like when that E, you're all that decision power and everything is getting you unnerved. Okay? So, when you're sending out the signal to go from a hundred to a million, the people's actions are different. You've just adjusted your actions to say, wow, my vibration is yes, I'm broadcasting $1 million. Okay? And so, in this situation, you want to be able to back away, have some reflection time. Reflection time means sit back and take a look at what people are you wanting to receive that aren't up to the standard of what you're broadcasting. So, they may be halfway to that point. You follow what I'm saying? So, what would the message be? You can't make the message the exact same. This is what happens if you're $100,000 a year and how you're sending out your message and you are now deciding you want to be that millionaire.</p><p>We've got to change the message. This is why Beth, I'm sure you can recognize this. You've expanded your toolbox of ways that you're reaching people and how you're doing different things. And so, as you're doing that, it's because you're recognizing, alright, what the people I need to receive has to understand my message. So, you have to change the message. Don't make it the same. So, sit back. If you're experiencing that, if nobody, nobody is addressing you and you're like crickets, then I want you to sit back and say,’ okay, how are they receiving my message?’ So, I may be broadcasting my vibe and my words may be like, Yes, these are million-dollar words, but how the people are receiving them may not feel that way to them. It may feel more like, who do you think you are? Like, why should I buy from you? So, it's important to look at that receptive mode. So, don't forget to do that. If you're having difficulty, sit back, relax, breathe, and what I call profiling, pull file, the people that you're wanting to reach and how they're receiving that message, then they'll automatically start reaching you without really having to do that hustle and grind. That's the important thing when you're working with vibration, is to get it to become automatic and readjust that vibe when you want to increase, either that wealth, or expand your business. So, I hope that makes sense. .</p><p>Beth:<br />Yeah, it does. And I'm taking crazy notes, because this is, you guys knowing that as you get information, as it comes in, hearing it over and over again, listening to the podcast, going and watching some of the lives, getting on Lori’s newsletter that you can find on her website. If you subscribe that talks about the T and consistently committing to this is every day. I would say to my husband this, it takes a lot of work because you know it's an investment of time, of money, it's a commitment of, I'm not going to live just in this space, in this ordinary space. And it's so beautiful. You start to really commit and do the work and you're honest with yourself of, am I really doing it? Like I know Lori. I know when I'm not up at 4:45 AM, the rest of the day. I know how that's going to go and I will not, I mean projecting this right here, but today everything's in place.</p><p>I know without question, I know it's happening for me, and my sales site today. I was at the gym this morning and I'm like, I love Dixie chicks. I try to stay away from anything that requires thought at the gym that I have to process. I'm listening to Dixie chicks and I'm smiling at people and some guy is like, what are you listening to? Because I just was a totally different vibration today. It was so high. And then of course my weights went up. The results are starting to come. So, I encourage you guys to do this work. I get really excited about it obviously. So, there's a lot of ways, and I always share this, and we share it in the show notes. There's a lot of ways that you can connect with Lori where she's giving you a lot. If you don't feel like, ‘Oh Hey, I need to check this out, from just stalking a Facebook page. But you work with people at all different levels. Describe how if someone wants to connect with you, work with you in a group forum, work with you privately. I know that we're looking forward to a podcast maybe down the road. So how can this audience get more of you?</p><p>Lori:<br />Okay, well, currently there are a couple of ways. One of the ways is as I teach people how to put intuition into your business, and that's important because 40% of CEOs currently right now in the world, no matter how much knowledge they have, they're using their intuition. And that intuition then leads you to, let me use, for example, you might be right now on social media doing the hustle, broadcasting that vibe and going, yes, yes, yes, I want to be that millionaire. And then you're not listening to the instinct. Because maybe that's not the time. Maybe you are so unaware that the people that you're actually aligning with and attracting aren't the ones that are going to take your business from zero to a million. And so, it's important to recognize intuition in that. So currently I have a program that's kicking off in 2020 putting the intuition back in your business.</p><p>And then if someone's reaching out to me on a one-on-one, which a lot of people do because they want things tailored, they want to recognize how much of my familiarity vibe, or I'd been stuck in this relationship for a long while. How do I get passion back into it? Or how do I resuscitate my poor entrepreneurial business into a wealthy one? So, this is things that I do in the custom tailor besides, you know, health and all of these things. So that's what I do. In a one-on-one. And also, you know, I do corporate things and, and different things like that. People are always reaching out to that. So, there's all sorts of ways. But I encourage people, if you're just listening to this podcast and going like, what the heck is this woman talking about? But man, it sounds so awesome. I want to learn more.</p><p>Check on my video library and on my personal page on Facebook because I give so many tools the right way to manifest using your conscious mind and how to expand your vibe. So, I encourage people, that's a way that they can reach out. I love to give people the tools because the law of vibration is always working. So, whether you're doing the work or not, it's happening. It's happening as you're listening to this podcast right now. So, if you don't like your current reality or it's not enough for you, then clearly, you're attracting more of that vibration. So, it's time to get a new vibe, increase the vibe, broadcast things differently. So that's what I would suggest.</p><p>Beth:<br />I think it's so cool that it's a possibility, right? That, because I again go back to a 15 year old boy who doesn't want to go to school today and he's like, you know, I talk to him about the T and I have these conversations, and I have friends that had kind of a different, you know, we didn't talk about this when I was growing up. My mom had very high vibration and a lot of that is carrying over into my life. People say you're so lucky. So, if your parents and your listening, all of these things apply to being an entrepreneur, to being a parent, to being a spouse. Even imagine…I just had my giant golden retriever walk up. Your dog’s even feel it. It's so exciting to me. I know you guys; I get all excited about these things that happen. What a gift, right? That this is out there. Okay. One last question that I have for you is, and this is always a surprise question, so are you ready?</p><p>Lori:<br />Yes. All right.</p><p>Beth:<br />Okay. So, of all the things that you could have in the world, money is not an option. Is not an issue. Everything that you know, you could find it under your Christmas tree, or it would arrive via Amazon prime. What would you want today on your doorstep?</p><p>Lori:<br />Oh, for myself. For yourself. Oh gosh, that's a tough one because I'm such a giver, and I like, not to sound, you know, pompous in any way. I actually live such an amazing life; I haven't wanted for anything for years. So, I spend most of my time giving back. So, the one thing that I would want on my doorstep from Amazon is all everything from Amazon so I could turn around and give it to everybody that actually needs it. And that would bring such a joy to me. Just the same way with the tools that I give to help people understand more about how their mind works in the vibration. Because the more you know about how you work, the more these things will happen to you because people say this. I mean, I can remember the first time I went to a car dealer and bought three brand new cars and gave them away.</p><p>I gave them away to people I didn't even know. And you know, I've bought several homes and gave those away. And you know, you give back when you arrive at a certain level. So, the thing under the Christmas tree that I would want is everything for everyone that at this moment is barely getting by in the world. So, it would give them enough resuscitation so that I could teach them how to increase their vibes so they could do the same thing and give back. I think that's the most important thing.</p><p>Beth:<br />That's wonderful. Sure, Amazon has delivery. I do love that. And so, okay, so let's start a chain on that. Because no matter what your financial situation is today, I want you to think about somebody in your life and you, you know, you have the intuition to know that even having some, having a gift card for whole foods would help their Christmas. And think of someone, whoever comes to your mind right now and use your intuition to say, I'm going to send this $20 book, or I'm going to send this Amazon gift card, because it's going to help with their Christmas, and don't sign your name. Just send it, let it arrive. Remember may day baskets back in the day? You'd leave a basket on somebody's doorstep. Just do that good deed today and go out and give something and you'll notice like it's like that whole thing when someone pays for your Starbucks. It feels so good. We do that all the time. We'll be like, let's pay for that today. So fun. Right?</p><p>Beth:</p><p>All right Lori. Well thank you.</p><p>Lori:<br />Thank you.</p><p>Beth:<br />Thank you! You are so welcome. You guys in the show notes, we are going to put all of the ways that you can connect with Lori. Grab her free videos on her page, look at the business intuitive, or the high vibe courses coming up, and of course we always end with Oliver walking up and he starts groaning into the microphone. Oh, and my podcasts are like, you're so professional. Until the dog starts growing. All right, Lori. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I'm going to stop this recording. And okay, you guys, if you're listening to this, I'm really serious about, I'm doing it right when we get off. Blessing somebody with a gift today that you are capable of giving, even if it's $10. And how good you're going to feel after you do that. And don't shout it out on social media that you did it. And, or do the hundred percent tip, and do it anonymously and we can raise this entire vibration of this crazy country that we live in. Right? All right. Talk to you guys all next Monday. Thanks for hopping on. And as always, go ahead and do a screenshot of this. Lori, are you on Instagram?</p><p>Lori:<br />I am on Instagram.</p><p>Beth:<br />Okay. And how can we find you on Instagram? Because I have them tag both of us so you can reshare it in your stories.</p><p>Lori:<br />Oh, you're asking me this? And the team that works with me does all of that. So, you put it in the show notes?</p><p>Beth:<br />I'll put it in the show notes, and I love this when she said she doesn't use right. The decision when we couldn't get the audio, she immediately, and I loved it, she was like, there's no room in my brain. I could see that. So, she called Lauren and Lauren solved the problem. It was so easy. So, we're going to put how to connect with Lori and Instagram. I'm at @Bethholdinggraves. Screenshot this, put it in your direct messages and up in your story so people will hear the podcast, and I'll connect with you that way. I'll catch you guys all next Monday.</p><p>I want to thank you for hanging out with us today on the podcast. As always, screenshot this shared over an Instagram. I will chat with you over in the DMS. And there's still time to chat with me about the Profit HER Way mastermind 2020 program that we are just getting started in May. I tell you that we have the most phenomenal group of women that are going to be masterminding and working together, starting in January. So, let's get you on that list. Let's see if it's a fit for you. One of my best, best and biggest pieces of advice from an entrepreneur was surround yourself with women that want to see you succeed, that are pushing you to go a little longer, to reach a little higher, and that's what we're doing over in the mastermind. So, you can get on that list to chat with me at BethHoldenGraves.com/Profit and as always, we are doing amazing things in our free Facebook group Camp Elevate. Find us in the show notes or just go to thecampelevategroup.com and join us. We are finishing up a book exchange this week and we have some really, really, really, really amazing free trainings on the way that will be happening before the New Year, as we look at crushing our goals in 2020 and looking at our year in review. So, I'll see you all next week. Santa will be with us. I can't wait.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today and ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. I’m hoping that you’ve found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes. Every single week I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I enter you to win the, ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’ swag, so make sure you leave it and we’ll reach out to you if you’re the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we’ll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Learn More About The Content Discussed...</strong></p><ul><li>No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">here</a></li><li>Beth's Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></li></ul><p><strong>Keynotes discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>I'm going to share with you, so a lot of ways that it's influenced my business. Just thinking something's not working, jumping from thing to thing, when actually right before us is our success. (03:02)</li><li>Let's not beat ourselves up for what didn't happen in 2019,and let's look with gratitude and with love with what did happen in 2019. (06:48)</li><li>He said to me once, and this really hit me, it's never enough, and that my friends is one of the most painful memories that I have. (14:21)</li><li>How do you keep that in your life and then decide if that's important to you? (19:11)</li><li>You are going to grow a five year plan. You are ultimately responsible for that success. (27:18)</li></ul><p><strong>When Did It Air...</strong></p><p>December 09, 2019</p><p><strong>Episode Transcript...</strong></p><p>Beth:<br />Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Hey, Hey, Hey and welcome back to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. You guys. We are just around the corner with this episode from Christmas, from the holiday season, the hustle and bustle of December, and also from the massive amounts of marketing that show you about the brand new weight loss program, the mastermind, the newest and greatest marketing techniques. So today I'm going to share with you, before we get to the end of this episode, some of my takeaways and some of the best advice that I've received from people that have made over $1 million in their online or network marketing business, about the shiny object syndrome, the persistence and sticking with something just long enough to have success. I know that you may have fallen prey, like many of you, I still go to the grocery store. I love grocery shopping. It's something that I love. I love to go in the produce section.</p><p>I'm not a great cook, many of you know that, and I love to go to the grocery store. So one of the pieces, when I look at my schedule and before the end of the year, we're going to be talking, make sure you tune in next week because this is our focus about your 24 hour plan. About your 12 month plan, choosing words and themes and all of those good things for how you can have a focus and an emphasis for the coming year in 2020, how we reflect on 2019. We're going to be doing a lot of that on the podcast over the next few weeks, but also over in camp elevate. So before we kick off the podcast today, if I haven't met you yet, my name is Beth Graves. I had this idea while standing at the gym, what if I started having this podcast because I love having conversations with women?</p><p>I love it. The interaction that comes from these conversations I've met over the last, I think we launched this podcast, I'm going to say six weeks ago. And I can't even tell you how grateful I am for you, our loyal listeners, for the shares. Because of your share, I've had women reach out to me and just tell me about a shift, a shift that they've had in their life. And so I'm going to have a little share contest with you all today if you're listening, and I would love for you to share this with someone that's on your mind, who comes to mind that you know who really wants to have success in their business, is tired of juggling, of having the sacrifice of, of not being totally present in their marriage with their children or they're missing out on the girls' night because they think they've got to hustle and grind, or they're just feeling an unsupportive circle. And let them know, I thought of you today and I want to send this your way. I want to share with you a review, because one of the things that, and this is where this podcast is going today, we're going to talk about the shiny object syndrome and picking up the women's world magazine at the counter, and how that influences your business.</p><p>And I'm going to share with you a lot of ways that it's influenced my business. Just thinking something's not working, jumping from thing to thing, when actually right before us is our success. And you have it right now, right before you, even if 2019 didn't have the numbers that you thought you would see in your business, or maybe it did, you have with you at this minute the answer to how things are going to shift for you in 2020. And sometimes it's just leaning into yourself, trusting yourself, putting on your blinders. But there are a couple of things that I'm going to point out that I hope can help you today. So a big, big piece of staying on the train for whatever you're doing, okay? We know and we hear it all the time. You're only as great as those five people that you surround yourself with.</p><p>So in today's episode, I want you to think about an area of your life in 2019 that may have not gone to what you expected. Was it? I'm going to be in the best shape of my life. Was it? I'm going to hit blah bidy, blah bidy rank, and make multiple six figures. Was it? I'm finally going to launch that coaching business, or maybe grow a Facebook community, or maybe you had thought I'm going to go out and provide service or tithe more, or maybe it was growing your marriage. As you reflect on 2019 I encourage you to not beat yourself up. I do this a lot in the fitness category, in my health category. To say, Oh gosh, look, it's so and so, look what she did in 2019. Well, honestly, I'm going to look at 2019 for my health and say I'm in the best health of my life.</p><p>Well, maybe not the best health of my life. I don't know. I can't compare. I don't have the metrics, but I'm going to say, what have I done for my health and I'm going to list those things. Had the mammogram, I've gone to my wellness visits, I've cut out for the most part, refined sugar. For the most part, I've cut out diet soda. I stayed with my nutritional supplement routine every single day and have a healthy gut. So instead as you look at 2019, and we're going to talk about shiny object syndrome and how we get off track, and we're going to do more of this next episode. And we're also doing a ton of this over at Camp Elevate, which is our free Facebook community, of taking a look at your business, what you're doing for pleasure, for the things that just give you joy, what you're doing with your family and each member of your family, the relationships, what we're doing for our health, and what we're doing for our spiritual and for like our, our brain and our spiritual, our how we raise our vibration and how we take care of that?</p><p>Just like we do our physical health. So when you look at those areas in 2019 instead of being like, Oh my gosh, I suck, totally suck. My business sucks. I didn't do anything right. It gave up. I can't even watch these people that are having success. No, no, no, not allowed. You are not allowed to beat yourself up. You need to say, how does love look? So let's just cut out all the crap of the goals that we didn't meet, because I do it to myself too. And just ask yourself this question. How does love look in this situation? You my friend, are listening to this podcast today, that means that you are engaged in making yourself better. That you thought, I'm gonna listen to this chick and I'm gonna see if today I can walk away with some ideas. So let's make a pact with ourselves.</p><p>Let's not beat ourselves up for what didn't happen in 2019, and let's look with gratitude and with love with what did happen in 2019. Because we don't know if we hadn't done maybe the three or four things, what could have happened, which may have be an outcome that was much less desired than the outcome that you have. So I want to share with you something, one of the biggest pieces of life, right, of success. Making sure that you are not engaging, that you're making a pact with yourself. So we know people give up too early. People don't do the 1%. We know those things. And we're going to talk about that. We're going to talk about how we quit before we're ready to have success. Because when we just process that, when we just think about it in a little bit different way, with a little bit different angle, you're going to start to notice, okay, this fits me.</p><p>So I want you to really today, think about who's in your circle. We hear it all the time. If you surround yourself with people that have a high vibration, that have high energy, I have friends that have higher vibration and are totally freaking amazing humans, but every time I'm with them I feel like I totally suck. So here's an example of something I used to do. You guys think about this, about times of your life. I have times of my life when I was fit enough to put on a bikini and walk across down the beach, and really have low percentage of body fat look great. I did the work okay? It did the work, this was years ago and I still didn't have the ability to love myself enough because I wasn't working on the other parts, which were the visualization, the self love, the breathing exercises, the ways that we stop negative self talk.</p><p>Can you guys relate to this? So one of the things that I would do, this is a little tiny thing, is I have a friend, and many of you may know her. If you're listening, and her name is Heather. I was a young mom and I met Heather and I would go to Heather's house and Heather always, it always smelled beautiful. She's got this beautiful ability to put a stack of books on a shelf and make it just look like, I don't know, that Martha Stewart had been to her house yesterday. If you want to follow her on Instagram, it's @HW Interiors. When Heather was looking at shifting, when their life was shifting, and her husband was in a career transition from polo, she decided to take what she loved and turn it into a career. And I'm going to share about that.</p><p>But the point of this part of the story is, whenever I was around Heather, I felt, and still do, I feel empowered. I feel a walk away. She's engaged, she looks at you. She's never uses negative words. She's not that bitching person that's like, did you see this? Did you see that? She just always has kind and nice and good things to say. And she always is. She's just has this beautiful spiritual foundation. And I always used to laugh and say I'm going to, I have to become friends with her, because I got to find something that's wrong. And I found that Heather, no matter what her circumstance, she never was out of gratitude for it. So when Heather was, when they were having a career transition in their family, as many of us have done, getting the tuition for school paid for, it was really, really important because one of the cool things about where our kids went to school was, if you have a parent that drives the bus, it was half tuition. And she said to me, I was just starting in Network Marketing and she didn't understand the vision that I had, and knowing what I could do with it because you know, she had watched me start a million businesses that basically were like two time wonders, right?</p><p>Because I quit too early. I didn't invest in the circle of people that would give me success. I didn't stay the plan. I didn't do the daily work and I didn't have the mindset to keep myself in check when I started to have doubts, but this time was different. She didn't know that. She was just like, Hey, you know what? Grab a bus position. Well, I run over gas tanks pulling campers, so there's like no way I could drive a bus. And most people that went from a pretty cushy life and then driving the bus for their kids would turn that into a like, Oh my gosh, can you believe I have to take my CDL? Can you believe I have to drive this bus? Can you believe this? Oh my gosh, this totally sucks. Nope, not Heather. She even drove the bus with grace, and with optimism.</p><p>She puts some essential oils on the seats on the cold Florida mornings. There might be a little blanket. She made her bus the best freaking bus in the world because every child that got on that bus, she said to me this, she said, I have the opportunity in 15 minutes, 20 minutes in 30 minutes to be that voice that helps them to go out and do great things. And how cool it that I have the opportunity to have half tuition. She's now a very, very successful interior designer. Her book is sold out. It is hard to even get a consult with her. And she had started that business back when she was doing the bus, but that was what she needed to do to get off the ground. She even does Network Marketing as a small piece of residual income each month, because she loves the product and she loves saying this.</p><p>Not everybody who has an interior design vision wants to start that big business. But I can suggest this product, I can suggest the business to people and support them in their entrepreneurial journey. So my point with Heather is this, I used to go to Heather's house and I would be like, Oh my gosh, it's amazing. She of course has this beautiful ability, beautiful ability to make the surrounding, and she also has like no clutter. She loves clean. And then I would walk back in my house, this is back when the kids were little and I would be a total witch. I would walk in and the laundry room, it would be a mess. There would be, we lived on a farm like you know, some dust on the floor. Not like we didn't have a, you know, a farm house. When I say there's dirt on the floor from the farm, we'd walk in and out. And I would walk in and I would be critical because, we were spending money on horses and going to horse shows, and living in an RV in the summers, and like really a beautiful, beautiful, beautiful life that we had grown around.</p><p>Something that we loved, and I was living out of gratitude at the time. I've had this conversation with my husband where I have apologized because I was so into that moment of, I'd walk in and let the little things get under my skin, like the laundry on the floor. Shifting that in 2020, and shifting that, what shifted in my life was not comparing to Heather's house, it was perfect, but taking notes and saying, how do I want my environment to be? How can I make small changes? So this happens. But walking in and saying, Oh my gosh, isn't it incredibly amazing that my husband threw in a load of laundry, just because he didn't do it the way I wanted him to do it, that the clean laundry was on the floor? Or isn't this an incredible and beautiful existence that I have on this farm?</p><p>And he said to me once, and this really hit me, it's never enough, and that my friends is one of the most painful memories that I have. I get teary eyed thinking of it because how in the world did I allow myself to finally get the things, things that most people are praying for? And you have those in your life right now. You do. I promise you you do. How did I allow myself to stop seeing the blessings of the small things? Because the little complaints, the little ways that we compare, the moments that you walk in and you snap, of course a lot of things can be going on of course, but when those thoughts become negative, your vibration, your energy, just being with you doesn't feel great. And how is that affecting the one that you've chosen to marry or your partner or your children?</p><p>So I ask you this, who's getting the best view and how are you showing up? So when I would surround myself with Heather, I looked and when I started to evolve I decided, and this is the thing, you can't just grab a book and say, and this is about consistency, but it's also again about the 1%, it's about being able to have a consistent way that when you find yourself going on that spiral, how do you get yourself back in check? How do you say stop? And I say that out loud. When I find myself having, I walk in my garage, you guys my garage in 2020 I'm putting it out there. It's going to be, there's going to be a workout area. It is going to feel like, and I'm telling you guys, Heather had, when I met her, her garage, I still see the vision she had...like this woman, I want you to go over there and follow her on Instagram.</p><p>I don't think she's listening to this podcast yet. So, Hey Heather! This podcast was not going to be a story of Heather, but it's turning into it and I'm loving it. So Heather had this tree in her garage, for you young moms, I've got to get Heather to put up a picture. I'll put up a picture on Facebook. She took spray styrofoam, it was up against the wall. And in Florida we don't have basements. So some people turn their garages into playrooms for their kids because they need that space. And that's what she had done. And anyway, sprays styrofoam and there were like silk little leaves and things that you could touch that would, that would make little noises. I mean, talk about comparisonitis. I'm this new mom in South Florida meeting new friends, and she's 10 years younger than me. So I was like, I had my babies a little bit later.</p><p>And because you know, that was my blessing, was I had all this time instead of looking at the journey of, there's a lot that happened for me to have, especially Donnie, that's another episode. But instead of thinking about that blessing. So you know, I'm like, here I am in South Florida, she's 29 I'm 39 I have this one year old baby and I'm, this is a side note you guys, you'll laugh. I went to a kickboxing class, I had just had a baby and I'm there with someone 10 years younger than me. And here we go, comparing ourselves to others. How about Hey, I met kickboxing and I have this, this great new friend. I'm not going to compare the fact that I'm wearing like five sports bras and I am completely like not perky kickboxing girl. So anyway, I digress. So when you are making this decision, it's the small things that are going to allow that vision to happen.</p><p>And we know how this works. So first of all, this story of Heather started with, surround yourself with people that uplift you and inspire you. But if you start to feel that every time I'm with them, I walk away and I can't stop myself from thinking I'm not enough. It's okay to either work on some mindset, work on some shifts, or during that season to maybe not spend time because it's not a healthy thing for you. Or, have that conversation. Like I could've said to Heather, every time I walk into my house X, Y, and Z. Well, you know what, Heather had routines and rituals in place that we're very structured about how that house was. She had invested in extra help. She does a thing where like she buys some, I'm sure, she buys something new, something goes out. And one time I said to her, and here's the thing Heather, I'm like overwhelmed with my closet and as a good friend would, she and Lisa came over in the beginning of their business.</p><p>They had extra days and yep, call in the troops so they knew how to organize and clean a closet, edit, make me get rid of the Gloria Vanderbilt jeans. And we laughed so hard. That is still one of my favorite days of those friend memories. So surround yourself with people, and if they have a super talent that you don't have and you're looking to make a shift, ask for help. All right, ask for help. How do you do that? How do you keep that in your life and then decide if that's important to you. Decide, I'm going to adopt a routine and ritual in my life and I'm going to stick with it for longer than two minutes. So most of us have the shiny object syndrome when it comes to a successful business idea. Even in Network Marketing business, an online business, we think, okay, I'm going to do all these things.</p><p>I'm going to launch this and then it's going to be amazing. And when I don't have success, I'm going to blame the actual diet or the actual business plan or the actual strategy. So how does this connect to what my house looked like and felt like when I would walk in? Well, I didn't know at that time. I didn't understand. I was always a pretty high vibe person and I always used running and exercise as a way to get my head in the right place. I understood the idea of needing to be on the tennis court, but I didn't have the full picture of how important it was for me to not have negative self talk, not be in a state of gratitude for longterm. How that affects a relationship and affected when I would say things like, in that moment of, nothing seems to ever satisfy you or make you happy, and that was a total reflection of me not doing the work consistently.</p><p>Yeah, and you look back and I think when was I the best? When I consistently practiced Yoga, when my friend Maryanne, you guys, if you're in Camp Elevate, you heard about Maryanne and the Lululemon's story. That was a really fun story. She got me going to Yoga and I didn't realize I did that for three and a half years before Yoga, it was just Vinyasa Yoga, was just taking off. But my mindset and my gratitude and all of those pieces were in place because I had that practice and I didn't know yet. I was evolving as an entrepreneur, evolving and what I like to call a, you know, a present mindful human. I didn't understand that, that practice, that consistency when I left it, because we came to Florida and I couldn't find a studio, and I didn't stick with it. I jumped into something new, I jumped over to CrossFit.</p><p>I didn't stick with it long enough. So finding those practices that you can commit to in 2020 that you say, I am not just a one time wonder. I watched this happen all the time in Network Marketing. Someone will come into a business and the leave, and for some people it's not a fit, but they'll leave and they'll say, well it didn't work. But the people that stay with a business over time, and maybe their race, or their their climb, or their focus. It wasn't like mine was, which I had massive amounts of action very early in my business because I really, really had vision for hitting that topper and give the company multiple six figures in the seven figure Mark. But what about those people that over five years consistently show up to the business and have two to three conversations a day and consistently show up once a week to learn more about how to grow their business?</p><p>But they make that commitment. They show up, they show up, they show up, they show up. How about this? Have any of you started a gratitude journal and then you do it for three or four days? You put it aside because you say, I'm still feeling like I'm in a negative spiral. It's not working. I listened to that podcast with Danelle, it's Networking. It's because you haven't gone far enough. You haven't created the habits and the rituals yet. I do it all the time. So how about those people that you run into and you see them and they've had this miraculous physical transformation and you've lost and gained? You know, like I'm saying you, because every time I say you it relates to me as well, the same 12 and a half pounds, or you're still at the same point, but you've tried 16 different things and you're sitting there and I'm going to talk about seeing, you know, I'm at the grocery store, I see the women's world magazine.</p><p>I still will buy a magazine. I'm still tempted. And the number one Keto tip for women that helped Tina lose 341 pounds without surgery. So do you go from saying, I'm going to give up eating sugar for 92 days, like sugary treats? I'm going to replace that with Greek yogurt and I'm going to perhaps stop eating after seven, and up my water and move my body 30 minutes and committing to that for let's say 222 days? Or I've done this. You go, Oh my gosh. Well, if Tina lost her 341 pounds, I'm gonna spend $2 and 25 cents for this magazine that literally I could Google everything in it, and I'm going to jump ship, I'm going to do this. And then we do it for a few days and we get, it doesn't work because it's too restrictive. So, off we go to something new. So let's do this for 2020 let's decide that we're going to commit.</p><p>All right, so just do the thing. Why does Weight Watchers work for some people? Why does Keto work for some people? Because those are the people that show up that decide that it's not just a two week plan. So being successful in business, most people will say it's a five year plan. Many of you have told me I started a podcast and they didn't have the downloads. Well, you didn't stay with it long enough. I'm not going to be, well, I can. Let's do it. Download today. Share this out. Remember we're having a share chain with this podcast. I have vision. I can have this podcast look like Rise, right? With Rachel Hollis. So, but it's a five year plan and then sticking to it, and I'm talking. So here are the things that need to happen is decide that you're persistent. I'm persistent, I stay with things.</p><p>But before we know what we have to stay with, you got to know what we want. What's the plan? So as you go into 2020 and as you look at 2019 for me, it's so clear when I am at a high level of connection with my husband, with my kids, with my friends, I'd have to work on that. I have to not complain when I walk in the door. I have to look and say, what a beautiful life we've built. You know what? I'm going to have my garage. I have this vision for it. It's never going to be perfect. But what a beautiful thing that I've got that I'm going to be able to put a Peloton in my garage. I'm not getting the Peloton until I have the garage ready. That's like my reward. So have a plan that says this could take time.</p><p>And that's okay because the journey is a beautiful piece. So every time you're taking a step, think about, gosh, I went for, you know, go for a run. How about if I had continued with that Yoga practice? I continued to say, you know what? I'm going to continue to do this Yoga practice to practice over time. I would now be in my Yoga mode for 19 years, and I think about, I wish I had, but then I'm like, okay, so how do I move forward with that? I want to have flexibility. I want to have that time. I love Shavasana. I love how I feel. I love the connection. So 2020 how does that look? It might not be seven days a week, an hour and a half in Yasa it might be, but if I want that instead of looking back with regret, I think about what could have happened if for 19 years I had continued that practice.</p><p>So we have to really take an assessment and look, and that comes through journaling and I'm telling you, it's about love. It's about grace. Because instead of saying, Oh, I suck. I didn't keep with that Yoga practice. I could be so flexible, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. I'm going to talk about, look at all of the things that when I didn't, my dog is snoring in the background. You guys, hello Yogi. Look at all of the things that I was able to do during that time. I made room for tennis in my life and the women that I've met in tennis, I've got to say, okay, I made room for a big, vibrant, healthy business. I made room for all of the things in the community of Camp Elevate, so that's just a sidetrack, so have a long term plan. Know that you are going to grow a five year plan.</p><p>You are ultimately responsible for that success. Yes, you can have people in your circle that allow you to have the accountability meeting, your friend Abra at Yoga, having the accountability. Maybe you're in a free Facebook group. Maybe you have a great leadership group. Maybe you decide to put a mastermind together, but ultimately, if I'm going to record this podcast, it's my responsibility. Jody, who's an amazing podcast coach, and I'm going to share all of her things out with you and how you can connect with her. If you want to have a podcast or even like, she's a business strategist around podcasts and teaching women to rise in their confidence. But what I want you to think about is this, is ultimately I'm up. It's five in the morning. This was supposed to be to Jody last night. I'm up recording because ultimately if I want to commit to five years of content in a podcast, I've got to get her the goods, but I have to have a team to do it because I know myself, in my strength finder, and we're going to do the Strength Finder assessment over in Camp Elevate with all of the details of putting this out.</p><p>It wouldn't happen. So I decided this is the team that's in place to help me with the podcast. How that would look in terms of financially, in terms of making sure the routines and rituals in place so that I produce the content because my five year plan is that my Profit Her Way program will continue. There's an alarm and you can tell it's morning cause you can hear the alarm going off and I'm just going to leave those things so that you can hear, Oh my goodness, it's still going up. That's okay. So that you can hear what happens in my house cause it's now time for people to start waking up there. The alarm is off. To have a podcast when you're at home and knowing I'm not going to be perfect. This is going to have great editing. You're gonna hear great things.</p><p>Yeah. So knowing that it is a five year plan, understanding that the ultimate success is up to me. But you have to have a team, right? You have to have a team celebrating the wins. Like last night I celebrated. We've had so many downloads and so many reviews. Can I ask again? Sometimes I feel like when I ask you to share, I'm like, share my podcast, share my thing, and then when I get the messages, please DM me. Please put this up in your stories that tell me that. That helped me make a shift in my business that that interview that you did helped me so much. That note makes me know that the community is looking for us. Okay, how do we handle those setbacks when we ourself dipping? What do you have in place for those setbacks? So for me, when Stephanie Brett doesn't hear from me for very long, because she's my community for my health and wellness with Bridgette, and when she doesn't hear from me, she'll say, what?</p><p>You know, let me know how I can help you. Because we were doing the same workouts at the gym from afar. We're also working on, you know, getting rid of some of the toxins and I have, you know, that I can show up vulnerably and not feel judged and always say, how does love feel? Those are the things that you need to have in your business. And your relationships in that support network, but knowing what do you do when you feel that, yep, that support network and also you guys having integrity in your business and in your life and how you approach things when you go by a no. Most of you have read the Four Agreements and when you lead your life with saying, I'm absolutely positively not going to be, I'm going into this negative spiral, into this judgmental spiral, for other people. And when you feel yourself doing that, pulling yourself out of it and having routines and rituals in place that keep you on track to have those successful dreams.</p><p>What happens is this, people look and say, Oh, I'm going to go over and maybe they'll say, I'm going to work with Beth in her mastermind this year. I'm going to make that investment this year and three or four things happen and you can't show up, or you try a few things, and I've done this, like I've worked with coaches, I've worked with mentors, I've worked with programs. If I, and I always think, if I would have consistently put out the content, Jody told me you guys, five years ago. I connected with Jody and she was helping me with a different way that I was putting out content and it didn't fit my vibe. It didn't fit what I wanted to do with building women up, and I love the camp environment, and events, and working in masterminds, and the way that I'm doing it now, and I love how I've built my Network Marketing business alongside of it. A lot of that comes from just making that decision.</p><p>And she had talked about podcasting and I was like, I didn't even know podcasting. I didn't research it. It wasn't a fit for me at the time. And I said to her last night, gosh, what if we had started this podcast five years ago? Because every time I have an episode, you guys, I make some incredible connections. Whether they're just new friends, new people, I'm inspiring new people that are saying, I want to work with you and your mastermind, or I want to come to Camp Elevate, or I want to take a look at working with you in Network Marketing, whatever it is. Or the other thing is I am a master connector. And so I know that when I connect people, so I've helped a lot of people start podcasts by connecting them to Jody. Not because it's something for me, but it's when I can connect someone, uplift, inspire, guess what happens?</p><p>All is good in the world. All is well in the world. All is beautiful in the world, because when somebody else is succeeding, when we raise someone else up and we celebrate another woman, we have done the trickle effect. So over in Camp Elevate, we're doing so much of this, and it's a free group. And Robyn Benson, I met her, because I decided while I was on a lifestyle getaway that I had earned, and I was going to the beach and I was doing a workout, and there I met Robin and we've been friends, and she's great. She's just a great camper over in Camp Elevate because of her energy. And I want to read to you today what she wrote about being Camp Elevate, and want to ask you to join us in that community, so that as we go through the end of the year, my focus in 2020 in that group are going to be the things that we talked about to do those celebrations, to find out what are the ways that things need to shift in your life so you can have gratitude, not let the little things bother you.</p><p>What are some of what we'll be doing? A lot of strategy for business and what feels right and aligned with your business. Because if it's not a strategy, like podcasting is so right for me for content, it feels right and aligned. I love it. But what I was doing before didn't feel aligned. I didn't like it. I was doing like trying to do some YouTube content around just teaching strategy and I'm totally not just a strategy chick and it didn't feel right. So I stopped. I mean if I would've continued, I would have grown a following and there are people that do that and I would have grown content, it would have grown my business. So we're going to do that in Camp Elevate. If you really, really, really want to dial it in and you really want to focus on that and you're like, I am ready for a mentor or a coach, I'm going to tell you to reach out to me, either DM me on Instagram or go to <a href="https://bethholdengraves.com/profit">BethHoldenGraves.com/profit</a>.</p><p>Because inside of my mastermind community we are going to like really, really, really put these things into place. So in Camp Elevate, this is what Robin said, and I just want to thank her because, you guys, if you're around me for 10 seconds, you know that I cry in 10 seconds. But I just had tears when she wrote this and she said; "While talking with a good friend today who was another woman entrepreneur, I realized how much my attitude about myself and my vibration has improved and elevated since coming to camp. Sometimes we don't realize how far we have come, when the progress is baby steps. Just like today's episode. Thank you Beth. And all of the amazing camp counselors who have shared wisdom and tips and also all of you campers providing the encouragement in this community. This is truly a special group of humans."</p><p>How amazing is that? And with that, I want to invite you to come on over. It's the <a href="https://CampElevateGroup.com">CampElevateGroup.com</a>. You'll go right into the Facebook group and, but let me know you're coming in, let me know, Hey, I want to come in. Because nobody likes to come to camp and not know where the cabin is, right? So we've got a lot of things planned for 2020 inside of the free group. The connections that I wanna make with you of some of the most awesome and amazing guides and people that will be on this podcast with me. We're going to do an in person summer camp. We've got the Profit Her Way mastermind. But most importantly, I want you to look at 2020 as your opportunity to find what feels aligned, to have gratitude, to have the highest energy and excitement vibration around what it is that you're doing, but most importantly finding what works for you and then sticking it out.</p><p>Like we can't jump from thing to thing and think that we're ever going to have success. So if cold messaging with with a script doesn't feel right for you, we know we need to build our business in a way that we have more conversations. Maybe you're going to create a wellness in person event that happens once a month where you bring women together. Maybe that's what your plan will be to meet and talk to new people. But we have to think about how does that feel? How does that look? How does it feel in your life? So just like my closet that needed to have a transformation, I had to call in my friends who are so good at editing, getting rid of clutter, folding things, all of those pieces. Yeah. Just like when I knew I needed some help in an area, in an area that wasn't my high vibe.</p><p>Big strength. That's what we do together in Camp Elevate. We connect, we inspire, we encourage, we show up. So show up for yourself and as you look at the areas of 2019 think about all of the pieces that happened on the journey along the way. Even if the ultimate goal that you had thought would happen, think about the journey and have gratitude for that journey. I thank you so much for being with me today. Next week we are going to really dive into some of those ways that we can reflect, and some of those ways that we can move forward with the theme for the year. Not just necessarily, I'm not like a, my personality type and my level of how I process isn't always like a black and white goal, but a theme, an area of how I want things to look in 2020, and we are going to do that together.</p><p>So with that I want to share with you. Yeah. Okay, a final quote that I think is really going to help you as you move forward. Well, it's not a quote, it's basically it's, I saw it on Instagram and it was on somebody's site. Her name is Mally Roncal, M. A. L L. Y. R. O. N. C. A. L. she has a great, I get inspired every time I go to her Instagram and it's kinda long, but I want to read it to you. "To protect my energy. It is okay to change my mind to protect my energy. It is okay to cancel an appointment to protect my energy. It is okay to take a day off to protect my energy. It is okay to not answer that call to protect my energy. It is okay to not share myself to protect my energy. It is okay to do nothing, to protect my energy. It is okay to be alone, to protect my energy. It is okay to sleep in, to protect my energy. It is okay to speak up to protect my energy. It is okay to move on to protect my energy. It is okay to let go, to protect my energy. It is okay to change." Amen.</p><p>So with that, you guys go out there and crush it today. Please share this out with someone. You think that you know that as you close, your eyes really needs to have you say, Hey, I got you. I got you, I got you, boo. All right, I'll chat with you guys all next Monday when the next episode drops, I'm looking to interview Santa Claus. So if you have a connection with him, let me know because I want to get him on the podcast.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today and ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. I’m hoping that you’ve found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes. Every single week I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I enter you to win the, ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’ swag, so make sure you leave it and we’ll reach out to you if you’re the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we’ll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/15-you-dont-really-need-that-shiny-object-R0rV71X5</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Learn More About The Content Discussed...</strong></p><ul><li>No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">here</a></li><li>Beth's Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></li></ul><p><strong>Keynotes discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>I'm going to share with you, so a lot of ways that it's influenced my business. Just thinking something's not working, jumping from thing to thing, when actually right before us is our success. (03:02)</li><li>Let's not beat ourselves up for what didn't happen in 2019,and let's look with gratitude and with love with what did happen in 2019. (06:48)</li><li>He said to me once, and this really hit me, it's never enough, and that my friends is one of the most painful memories that I have. (14:21)</li><li>How do you keep that in your life and then decide if that's important to you? (19:11)</li><li>You are going to grow a five year plan. You are ultimately responsible for that success. (27:18)</li></ul><p><strong>When Did It Air...</strong></p><p>December 09, 2019</p><p><strong>Episode Transcript...</strong></p><p>Beth:<br />Welcome to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p>Hey, Hey, Hey and welcome back to ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. You guys. We are just around the corner with this episode from Christmas, from the holiday season, the hustle and bustle of December, and also from the massive amounts of marketing that show you about the brand new weight loss program, the mastermind, the newest and greatest marketing techniques. So today I'm going to share with you, before we get to the end of this episode, some of my takeaways and some of the best advice that I've received from people that have made over $1 million in their online or network marketing business, about the shiny object syndrome, the persistence and sticking with something just long enough to have success. I know that you may have fallen prey, like many of you, I still go to the grocery store. I love grocery shopping. It's something that I love. I love to go in the produce section.</p><p>I'm not a great cook, many of you know that, and I love to go to the grocery store. So one of the pieces, when I look at my schedule and before the end of the year, we're going to be talking, make sure you tune in next week because this is our focus about your 24 hour plan. About your 12 month plan, choosing words and themes and all of those good things for how you can have a focus and an emphasis for the coming year in 2020, how we reflect on 2019. We're going to be doing a lot of that on the podcast over the next few weeks, but also over in camp elevate. So before we kick off the podcast today, if I haven't met you yet, my name is Beth Graves. I had this idea while standing at the gym, what if I started having this podcast because I love having conversations with women?</p><p>I love it. The interaction that comes from these conversations I've met over the last, I think we launched this podcast, I'm going to say six weeks ago. And I can't even tell you how grateful I am for you, our loyal listeners, for the shares. Because of your share, I've had women reach out to me and just tell me about a shift, a shift that they've had in their life. And so I'm going to have a little share contest with you all today if you're listening, and I would love for you to share this with someone that's on your mind, who comes to mind that you know who really wants to have success in their business, is tired of juggling, of having the sacrifice of, of not being totally present in their marriage with their children or they're missing out on the girls' night because they think they've got to hustle and grind, or they're just feeling an unsupportive circle. And let them know, I thought of you today and I want to send this your way. I want to share with you a review, because one of the things that, and this is where this podcast is going today, we're going to talk about the shiny object syndrome and picking up the women's world magazine at the counter, and how that influences your business.</p><p>And I'm going to share with you a lot of ways that it's influenced my business. Just thinking something's not working, jumping from thing to thing, when actually right before us is our success. And you have it right now, right before you, even if 2019 didn't have the numbers that you thought you would see in your business, or maybe it did, you have with you at this minute the answer to how things are going to shift for you in 2020. And sometimes it's just leaning into yourself, trusting yourself, putting on your blinders. But there are a couple of things that I'm going to point out that I hope can help you today. So a big, big piece of staying on the train for whatever you're doing, okay? We know and we hear it all the time. You're only as great as those five people that you surround yourself with.</p><p>So in today's episode, I want you to think about an area of your life in 2019 that may have not gone to what you expected. Was it? I'm going to be in the best shape of my life. Was it? I'm going to hit blah bidy, blah bidy rank, and make multiple six figures. Was it? I'm finally going to launch that coaching business, or maybe grow a Facebook community, or maybe you had thought I'm going to go out and provide service or tithe more, or maybe it was growing your marriage. As you reflect on 2019 I encourage you to not beat yourself up. I do this a lot in the fitness category, in my health category. To say, Oh gosh, look, it's so and so, look what she did in 2019. Well, honestly, I'm going to look at 2019 for my health and say I'm in the best health of my life.</p><p>Well, maybe not the best health of my life. I don't know. I can't compare. I don't have the metrics, but I'm going to say, what have I done for my health and I'm going to list those things. Had the mammogram, I've gone to my wellness visits, I've cut out for the most part, refined sugar. For the most part, I've cut out diet soda. I stayed with my nutritional supplement routine every single day and have a healthy gut. So instead as you look at 2019, and we're going to talk about shiny object syndrome and how we get off track, and we're going to do more of this next episode. And we're also doing a ton of this over at Camp Elevate, which is our free Facebook community, of taking a look at your business, what you're doing for pleasure, for the things that just give you joy, what you're doing with your family and each member of your family, the relationships, what we're doing for our health, and what we're doing for our spiritual and for like our, our brain and our spiritual, our how we raise our vibration and how we take care of that?</p><p>Just like we do our physical health. So when you look at those areas in 2019 instead of being like, Oh my gosh, I suck, totally suck. My business sucks. I didn't do anything right. It gave up. I can't even watch these people that are having success. No, no, no, not allowed. You are not allowed to beat yourself up. You need to say, how does love look? So let's just cut out all the crap of the goals that we didn't meet, because I do it to myself too. And just ask yourself this question. How does love look in this situation? You my friend, are listening to this podcast today, that means that you are engaged in making yourself better. That you thought, I'm gonna listen to this chick and I'm gonna see if today I can walk away with some ideas. So let's make a pact with ourselves.</p><p>Let's not beat ourselves up for what didn't happen in 2019, and let's look with gratitude and with love with what did happen in 2019. Because we don't know if we hadn't done maybe the three or four things, what could have happened, which may have be an outcome that was much less desired than the outcome that you have. So I want to share with you something, one of the biggest pieces of life, right, of success. Making sure that you are not engaging, that you're making a pact with yourself. So we know people give up too early. People don't do the 1%. We know those things. And we're going to talk about that. We're going to talk about how we quit before we're ready to have success. Because when we just process that, when we just think about it in a little bit different way, with a little bit different angle, you're going to start to notice, okay, this fits me.</p><p>So I want you to really today, think about who's in your circle. We hear it all the time. If you surround yourself with people that have a high vibration, that have high energy, I have friends that have higher vibration and are totally freaking amazing humans, but every time I'm with them I feel like I totally suck. So here's an example of something I used to do. You guys think about this, about times of your life. I have times of my life when I was fit enough to put on a bikini and walk across down the beach, and really have low percentage of body fat look great. I did the work okay? It did the work, this was years ago and I still didn't have the ability to love myself enough because I wasn't working on the other parts, which were the visualization, the self love, the breathing exercises, the ways that we stop negative self talk.</p><p>Can you guys relate to this? So one of the things that I would do, this is a little tiny thing, is I have a friend, and many of you may know her. If you're listening, and her name is Heather. I was a young mom and I met Heather and I would go to Heather's house and Heather always, it always smelled beautiful. She's got this beautiful ability to put a stack of books on a shelf and make it just look like, I don't know, that Martha Stewart had been to her house yesterday. If you want to follow her on Instagram, it's @HW Interiors. When Heather was looking at shifting, when their life was shifting, and her husband was in a career transition from polo, she decided to take what she loved and turn it into a career. And I'm going to share about that.</p><p>But the point of this part of the story is, whenever I was around Heather, I felt, and still do, I feel empowered. I feel a walk away. She's engaged, she looks at you. She's never uses negative words. She's not that bitching person that's like, did you see this? Did you see that? She just always has kind and nice and good things to say. And she always is. She's just has this beautiful spiritual foundation. And I always used to laugh and say I'm going to, I have to become friends with her, because I got to find something that's wrong. And I found that Heather, no matter what her circumstance, she never was out of gratitude for it. So when Heather was, when they were having a career transition in their family, as many of us have done, getting the tuition for school paid for, it was really, really important because one of the cool things about where our kids went to school was, if you have a parent that drives the bus, it was half tuition. And she said to me, I was just starting in Network Marketing and she didn't understand the vision that I had, and knowing what I could do with it because you know, she had watched me start a million businesses that basically were like two time wonders, right?</p><p>Because I quit too early. I didn't invest in the circle of people that would give me success. I didn't stay the plan. I didn't do the daily work and I didn't have the mindset to keep myself in check when I started to have doubts, but this time was different. She didn't know that. She was just like, Hey, you know what? Grab a bus position. Well, I run over gas tanks pulling campers, so there's like no way I could drive a bus. And most people that went from a pretty cushy life and then driving the bus for their kids would turn that into a like, Oh my gosh, can you believe I have to take my CDL? Can you believe I have to drive this bus? Can you believe this? Oh my gosh, this totally sucks. Nope, not Heather. She even drove the bus with grace, and with optimism.</p><p>She puts some essential oils on the seats on the cold Florida mornings. There might be a little blanket. She made her bus the best freaking bus in the world because every child that got on that bus, she said to me this, she said, I have the opportunity in 15 minutes, 20 minutes in 30 minutes to be that voice that helps them to go out and do great things. And how cool it that I have the opportunity to have half tuition. She's now a very, very successful interior designer. Her book is sold out. It is hard to even get a consult with her. And she had started that business back when she was doing the bus, but that was what she needed to do to get off the ground. She even does Network Marketing as a small piece of residual income each month, because she loves the product and she loves saying this.</p><p>Not everybody who has an interior design vision wants to start that big business. But I can suggest this product, I can suggest the business to people and support them in their entrepreneurial journey. So my point with Heather is this, I used to go to Heather's house and I would be like, Oh my gosh, it's amazing. She of course has this beautiful ability, beautiful ability to make the surrounding, and she also has like no clutter. She loves clean. And then I would walk back in my house, this is back when the kids were little and I would be a total witch. I would walk in and the laundry room, it would be a mess. There would be, we lived on a farm like you know, some dust on the floor. Not like we didn't have a, you know, a farm house. When I say there's dirt on the floor from the farm, we'd walk in and out. And I would walk in and I would be critical because, we were spending money on horses and going to horse shows, and living in an RV in the summers, and like really a beautiful, beautiful, beautiful life that we had grown around.</p><p>Something that we loved, and I was living out of gratitude at the time. I've had this conversation with my husband where I have apologized because I was so into that moment of, I'd walk in and let the little things get under my skin, like the laundry on the floor. Shifting that in 2020, and shifting that, what shifted in my life was not comparing to Heather's house, it was perfect, but taking notes and saying, how do I want my environment to be? How can I make small changes? So this happens. But walking in and saying, Oh my gosh, isn't it incredibly amazing that my husband threw in a load of laundry, just because he didn't do it the way I wanted him to do it, that the clean laundry was on the floor? Or isn't this an incredible and beautiful existence that I have on this farm?</p><p>And he said to me once, and this really hit me, it's never enough, and that my friends is one of the most painful memories that I have. I get teary eyed thinking of it because how in the world did I allow myself to finally get the things, things that most people are praying for? And you have those in your life right now. You do. I promise you you do. How did I allow myself to stop seeing the blessings of the small things? Because the little complaints, the little ways that we compare, the moments that you walk in and you snap, of course a lot of things can be going on of course, but when those thoughts become negative, your vibration, your energy, just being with you doesn't feel great. And how is that affecting the one that you've chosen to marry or your partner or your children?</p><p>So I ask you this, who's getting the best view and how are you showing up? So when I would surround myself with Heather, I looked and when I started to evolve I decided, and this is the thing, you can't just grab a book and say, and this is about consistency, but it's also again about the 1%, it's about being able to have a consistent way that when you find yourself going on that spiral, how do you get yourself back in check? How do you say stop? And I say that out loud. When I find myself having, I walk in my garage, you guys my garage in 2020 I'm putting it out there. It's going to be, there's going to be a workout area. It is going to feel like, and I'm telling you guys, Heather had, when I met her, her garage, I still see the vision she had...like this woman, I want you to go over there and follow her on Instagram.</p><p>I don't think she's listening to this podcast yet. So, Hey Heather! This podcast was not going to be a story of Heather, but it's turning into it and I'm loving it. So Heather had this tree in her garage, for you young moms, I've got to get Heather to put up a picture. I'll put up a picture on Facebook. She took spray styrofoam, it was up against the wall. And in Florida we don't have basements. So some people turn their garages into playrooms for their kids because they need that space. And that's what she had done. And anyway, sprays styrofoam and there were like silk little leaves and things that you could touch that would, that would make little noises. I mean, talk about comparisonitis. I'm this new mom in South Florida meeting new friends, and she's 10 years younger than me. So I was like, I had my babies a little bit later.</p><p>And because you know, that was my blessing, was I had all this time instead of looking at the journey of, there's a lot that happened for me to have, especially Donnie, that's another episode. But instead of thinking about that blessing. So you know, I'm like, here I am in South Florida, she's 29 I'm 39 I have this one year old baby and I'm, this is a side note you guys, you'll laugh. I went to a kickboxing class, I had just had a baby and I'm there with someone 10 years younger than me. And here we go, comparing ourselves to others. How about Hey, I met kickboxing and I have this, this great new friend. I'm not going to compare the fact that I'm wearing like five sports bras and I am completely like not perky kickboxing girl. So anyway, I digress. So when you are making this decision, it's the small things that are going to allow that vision to happen.</p><p>And we know how this works. So first of all, this story of Heather started with, surround yourself with people that uplift you and inspire you. But if you start to feel that every time I'm with them, I walk away and I can't stop myself from thinking I'm not enough. It's okay to either work on some mindset, work on some shifts, or during that season to maybe not spend time because it's not a healthy thing for you. Or, have that conversation. Like I could've said to Heather, every time I walk into my house X, Y, and Z. Well, you know what, Heather had routines and rituals in place that we're very structured about how that house was. She had invested in extra help. She does a thing where like she buys some, I'm sure, she buys something new, something goes out. And one time I said to her, and here's the thing Heather, I'm like overwhelmed with my closet and as a good friend would, she and Lisa came over in the beginning of their business.</p><p>They had extra days and yep, call in the troops so they knew how to organize and clean a closet, edit, make me get rid of the Gloria Vanderbilt jeans. And we laughed so hard. That is still one of my favorite days of those friend memories. So surround yourself with people, and if they have a super talent that you don't have and you're looking to make a shift, ask for help. All right, ask for help. How do you do that? How do you keep that in your life and then decide if that's important to you. Decide, I'm going to adopt a routine and ritual in my life and I'm going to stick with it for longer than two minutes. So most of us have the shiny object syndrome when it comes to a successful business idea. Even in Network Marketing business, an online business, we think, okay, I'm going to do all these things.</p><p>I'm going to launch this and then it's going to be amazing. And when I don't have success, I'm going to blame the actual diet or the actual business plan or the actual strategy. So how does this connect to what my house looked like and felt like when I would walk in? Well, I didn't know at that time. I didn't understand. I was always a pretty high vibe person and I always used running and exercise as a way to get my head in the right place. I understood the idea of needing to be on the tennis court, but I didn't have the full picture of how important it was for me to not have negative self talk, not be in a state of gratitude for longterm. How that affects a relationship and affected when I would say things like, in that moment of, nothing seems to ever satisfy you or make you happy, and that was a total reflection of me not doing the work consistently.</p><p>Yeah, and you look back and I think when was I the best? When I consistently practiced Yoga, when my friend Maryanne, you guys, if you're in Camp Elevate, you heard about Maryanne and the Lululemon's story. That was a really fun story. She got me going to Yoga and I didn't realize I did that for three and a half years before Yoga, it was just Vinyasa Yoga, was just taking off. But my mindset and my gratitude and all of those pieces were in place because I had that practice and I didn't know yet. I was evolving as an entrepreneur, evolving and what I like to call a, you know, a present mindful human. I didn't understand that, that practice, that consistency when I left it, because we came to Florida and I couldn't find a studio, and I didn't stick with it. I jumped into something new, I jumped over to CrossFit.</p><p>I didn't stick with it long enough. So finding those practices that you can commit to in 2020 that you say, I am not just a one time wonder. I watched this happen all the time in Network Marketing. Someone will come into a business and the leave, and for some people it's not a fit, but they'll leave and they'll say, well it didn't work. But the people that stay with a business over time, and maybe their race, or their their climb, or their focus. It wasn't like mine was, which I had massive amounts of action very early in my business because I really, really had vision for hitting that topper and give the company multiple six figures in the seven figure Mark. But what about those people that over five years consistently show up to the business and have two to three conversations a day and consistently show up once a week to learn more about how to grow their business?</p><p>But they make that commitment. They show up, they show up, they show up, they show up. How about this? Have any of you started a gratitude journal and then you do it for three or four days? You put it aside because you say, I'm still feeling like I'm in a negative spiral. It's not working. I listened to that podcast with Danelle, it's Networking. It's because you haven't gone far enough. You haven't created the habits and the rituals yet. I do it all the time. So how about those people that you run into and you see them and they've had this miraculous physical transformation and you've lost and gained? You know, like I'm saying you, because every time I say you it relates to me as well, the same 12 and a half pounds, or you're still at the same point, but you've tried 16 different things and you're sitting there and I'm going to talk about seeing, you know, I'm at the grocery store, I see the women's world magazine.</p><p>I still will buy a magazine. I'm still tempted. And the number one Keto tip for women that helped Tina lose 341 pounds without surgery. So do you go from saying, I'm going to give up eating sugar for 92 days, like sugary treats? I'm going to replace that with Greek yogurt and I'm going to perhaps stop eating after seven, and up my water and move my body 30 minutes and committing to that for let's say 222 days? Or I've done this. You go, Oh my gosh. Well, if Tina lost her 341 pounds, I'm gonna spend $2 and 25 cents for this magazine that literally I could Google everything in it, and I'm going to jump ship, I'm going to do this. And then we do it for a few days and we get, it doesn't work because it's too restrictive. So, off we go to something new. So let's do this for 2020 let's decide that we're going to commit.</p><p>All right, so just do the thing. Why does Weight Watchers work for some people? Why does Keto work for some people? Because those are the people that show up that decide that it's not just a two week plan. So being successful in business, most people will say it's a five year plan. Many of you have told me I started a podcast and they didn't have the downloads. Well, you didn't stay with it long enough. I'm not going to be, well, I can. Let's do it. Download today. Share this out. Remember we're having a share chain with this podcast. I have vision. I can have this podcast look like Rise, right? With Rachel Hollis. So, but it's a five year plan and then sticking to it, and I'm talking. So here are the things that need to happen is decide that you're persistent. I'm persistent, I stay with things.</p><p>But before we know what we have to stay with, you got to know what we want. What's the plan? So as you go into 2020 and as you look at 2019 for me, it's so clear when I am at a high level of connection with my husband, with my kids, with my friends, I'd have to work on that. I have to not complain when I walk in the door. I have to look and say, what a beautiful life we've built. You know what? I'm going to have my garage. I have this vision for it. It's never going to be perfect. But what a beautiful thing that I've got that I'm going to be able to put a Peloton in my garage. I'm not getting the Peloton until I have the garage ready. That's like my reward. So have a plan that says this could take time.</p><p>And that's okay because the journey is a beautiful piece. So every time you're taking a step, think about, gosh, I went for, you know, go for a run. How about if I had continued with that Yoga practice? I continued to say, you know what? I'm going to continue to do this Yoga practice to practice over time. I would now be in my Yoga mode for 19 years, and I think about, I wish I had, but then I'm like, okay, so how do I move forward with that? I want to have flexibility. I want to have that time. I love Shavasana. I love how I feel. I love the connection. So 2020 how does that look? It might not be seven days a week, an hour and a half in Yasa it might be, but if I want that instead of looking back with regret, I think about what could have happened if for 19 years I had continued that practice.</p><p>So we have to really take an assessment and look, and that comes through journaling and I'm telling you, it's about love. It's about grace. Because instead of saying, Oh, I suck. I didn't keep with that Yoga practice. I could be so flexible, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. I'm going to talk about, look at all of the things that when I didn't, my dog is snoring in the background. You guys, hello Yogi. Look at all of the things that I was able to do during that time. I made room for tennis in my life and the women that I've met in tennis, I've got to say, okay, I made room for a big, vibrant, healthy business. I made room for all of the things in the community of Camp Elevate, so that's just a sidetrack, so have a long term plan. Know that you are going to grow a five year plan.</p><p>You are ultimately responsible for that success. Yes, you can have people in your circle that allow you to have the accountability meeting, your friend Abra at Yoga, having the accountability. Maybe you're in a free Facebook group. Maybe you have a great leadership group. Maybe you decide to put a mastermind together, but ultimately, if I'm going to record this podcast, it's my responsibility. Jody, who's an amazing podcast coach, and I'm going to share all of her things out with you and how you can connect with her. If you want to have a podcast or even like, she's a business strategist around podcasts and teaching women to rise in their confidence. But what I want you to think about is this, is ultimately I'm up. It's five in the morning. This was supposed to be to Jody last night. I'm up recording because ultimately if I want to commit to five years of content in a podcast, I've got to get her the goods, but I have to have a team to do it because I know myself, in my strength finder, and we're going to do the Strength Finder assessment over in Camp Elevate with all of the details of putting this out.</p><p>It wouldn't happen. So I decided this is the team that's in place to help me with the podcast. How that would look in terms of financially, in terms of making sure the routines and rituals in place so that I produce the content because my five year plan is that my Profit Her Way program will continue. There's an alarm and you can tell it's morning cause you can hear the alarm going off and I'm just going to leave those things so that you can hear, Oh my goodness, it's still going up. That's okay. So that you can hear what happens in my house cause it's now time for people to start waking up there. The alarm is off. To have a podcast when you're at home and knowing I'm not going to be perfect. This is going to have great editing. You're gonna hear great things.</p><p>Yeah. So knowing that it is a five year plan, understanding that the ultimate success is up to me. But you have to have a team, right? You have to have a team celebrating the wins. Like last night I celebrated. We've had so many downloads and so many reviews. Can I ask again? Sometimes I feel like when I ask you to share, I'm like, share my podcast, share my thing, and then when I get the messages, please DM me. Please put this up in your stories that tell me that. That helped me make a shift in my business that that interview that you did helped me so much. That note makes me know that the community is looking for us. Okay, how do we handle those setbacks when we ourself dipping? What do you have in place for those setbacks? So for me, when Stephanie Brett doesn't hear from me for very long, because she's my community for my health and wellness with Bridgette, and when she doesn't hear from me, she'll say, what?</p><p>You know, let me know how I can help you. Because we were doing the same workouts at the gym from afar. We're also working on, you know, getting rid of some of the toxins and I have, you know, that I can show up vulnerably and not feel judged and always say, how does love feel? Those are the things that you need to have in your business. And your relationships in that support network, but knowing what do you do when you feel that, yep, that support network and also you guys having integrity in your business and in your life and how you approach things when you go by a no. Most of you have read the Four Agreements and when you lead your life with saying, I'm absolutely positively not going to be, I'm going into this negative spiral, into this judgmental spiral, for other people. And when you feel yourself doing that, pulling yourself out of it and having routines and rituals in place that keep you on track to have those successful dreams.</p><p>What happens is this, people look and say, Oh, I'm going to go over and maybe they'll say, I'm going to work with Beth in her mastermind this year. I'm going to make that investment this year and three or four things happen and you can't show up, or you try a few things, and I've done this, like I've worked with coaches, I've worked with mentors, I've worked with programs. If I, and I always think, if I would have consistently put out the content, Jody told me you guys, five years ago. I connected with Jody and she was helping me with a different way that I was putting out content and it didn't fit my vibe. It didn't fit what I wanted to do with building women up, and I love the camp environment, and events, and working in masterminds, and the way that I'm doing it now, and I love how I've built my Network Marketing business alongside of it. A lot of that comes from just making that decision.</p><p>And she had talked about podcasting and I was like, I didn't even know podcasting. I didn't research it. It wasn't a fit for me at the time. And I said to her last night, gosh, what if we had started this podcast five years ago? Because every time I have an episode, you guys, I make some incredible connections. Whether they're just new friends, new people, I'm inspiring new people that are saying, I want to work with you and your mastermind, or I want to come to Camp Elevate, or I want to take a look at working with you in Network Marketing, whatever it is. Or the other thing is I am a master connector. And so I know that when I connect people, so I've helped a lot of people start podcasts by connecting them to Jody. Not because it's something for me, but it's when I can connect someone, uplift, inspire, guess what happens?</p><p>All is good in the world. All is well in the world. All is beautiful in the world, because when somebody else is succeeding, when we raise someone else up and we celebrate another woman, we have done the trickle effect. So over in Camp Elevate, we're doing so much of this, and it's a free group. And Robyn Benson, I met her, because I decided while I was on a lifestyle getaway that I had earned, and I was going to the beach and I was doing a workout, and there I met Robin and we've been friends, and she's great. She's just a great camper over in Camp Elevate because of her energy. And I want to read to you today what she wrote about being Camp Elevate, and want to ask you to join us in that community, so that as we go through the end of the year, my focus in 2020 in that group are going to be the things that we talked about to do those celebrations, to find out what are the ways that things need to shift in your life so you can have gratitude, not let the little things bother you.</p><p>What are some of what we'll be doing? A lot of strategy for business and what feels right and aligned with your business. Because if it's not a strategy, like podcasting is so right for me for content, it feels right and aligned. I love it. But what I was doing before didn't feel aligned. I didn't like it. I was doing like trying to do some YouTube content around just teaching strategy and I'm totally not just a strategy chick and it didn't feel right. So I stopped. I mean if I would've continued, I would have grown a following and there are people that do that and I would have grown content, it would have grown my business. So we're going to do that in Camp Elevate. If you really, really, really want to dial it in and you really want to focus on that and you're like, I am ready for a mentor or a coach, I'm going to tell you to reach out to me, either DM me on Instagram or go to <a href="https://bethholdengraves.com/profit">BethHoldenGraves.com/profit</a>.</p><p>Because inside of my mastermind community we are going to like really, really, really put these things into place. So in Camp Elevate, this is what Robin said, and I just want to thank her because, you guys, if you're around me for 10 seconds, you know that I cry in 10 seconds. But I just had tears when she wrote this and she said; "While talking with a good friend today who was another woman entrepreneur, I realized how much my attitude about myself and my vibration has improved and elevated since coming to camp. Sometimes we don't realize how far we have come, when the progress is baby steps. Just like today's episode. Thank you Beth. And all of the amazing camp counselors who have shared wisdom and tips and also all of you campers providing the encouragement in this community. This is truly a special group of humans."</p><p>How amazing is that? And with that, I want to invite you to come on over. It's the <a href="https://CampElevateGroup.com">CampElevateGroup.com</a>. You'll go right into the Facebook group and, but let me know you're coming in, let me know, Hey, I want to come in. Because nobody likes to come to camp and not know where the cabin is, right? So we've got a lot of things planned for 2020 inside of the free group. The connections that I wanna make with you of some of the most awesome and amazing guides and people that will be on this podcast with me. We're going to do an in person summer camp. We've got the Profit Her Way mastermind. But most importantly, I want you to look at 2020 as your opportunity to find what feels aligned, to have gratitude, to have the highest energy and excitement vibration around what it is that you're doing, but most importantly finding what works for you and then sticking it out.</p><p>Like we can't jump from thing to thing and think that we're ever going to have success. So if cold messaging with with a script doesn't feel right for you, we know we need to build our business in a way that we have more conversations. Maybe you're going to create a wellness in person event that happens once a month where you bring women together. Maybe that's what your plan will be to meet and talk to new people. But we have to think about how does that feel? How does that look? How does it feel in your life? So just like my closet that needed to have a transformation, I had to call in my friends who are so good at editing, getting rid of clutter, folding things, all of those pieces. Yeah. Just like when I knew I needed some help in an area, in an area that wasn't my high vibe.</p><p>Big strength. That's what we do together in Camp Elevate. We connect, we inspire, we encourage, we show up. So show up for yourself and as you look at the areas of 2019 think about all of the pieces that happened on the journey along the way. Even if the ultimate goal that you had thought would happen, think about the journey and have gratitude for that journey. I thank you so much for being with me today. Next week we are going to really dive into some of those ways that we can reflect, and some of those ways that we can move forward with the theme for the year. Not just necessarily, I'm not like a, my personality type and my level of how I process isn't always like a black and white goal, but a theme, an area of how I want things to look in 2020, and we are going to do that together.</p><p>So with that I want to share with you. Yeah. Okay, a final quote that I think is really going to help you as you move forward. Well, it's not a quote, it's basically it's, I saw it on Instagram and it was on somebody's site. Her name is Mally Roncal, M. A. L L. Y. R. O. N. C. A. L. she has a great, I get inspired every time I go to her Instagram and it's kinda long, but I want to read it to you. "To protect my energy. It is okay to change my mind to protect my energy. It is okay to cancel an appointment to protect my energy. It is okay to take a day off to protect my energy. It is okay to not answer that call to protect my energy. It is okay to not share myself to protect my energy. It is okay to do nothing, to protect my energy. It is okay to be alone, to protect my energy. It is okay to sleep in, to protect my energy. It is okay to speak up to protect my energy. It is okay to move on to protect my energy. It is okay to let go, to protect my energy. It is okay to change." Amen.</p><p>So with that, you guys go out there and crush it today. Please share this out with someone. You think that you know that as you close, your eyes really needs to have you say, Hey, I got you. I got you, I got you, boo. All right, I'll chat with you guys all next Monday when the next episode drops, I'm looking to interview Santa Claus. So if you have a connection with him, let me know because I want to get him on the podcast.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today and ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’. I’m hoping that you’ve found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes. Every single week I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I enter you to win the, ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’ swag, so make sure you leave it and we’ll reach out to you if you’re the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we’ll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</p><ul><li>I heard you on Shailene's podcast and you had such a great definition because I do have some entrepreneurs that are still like eh, network marketing. So when someone says why network marketing? What do you say about that? (04:12)</li><li>You know, there's a lot of training out there that is made by the influencer, but not made in a way that understands that only influencers would actually benefit from it. (06:55)</li><li>The reason that McDonald's worked so well is that the system was designed with the person with the lowest level of skills in mind. (13:17)</li><li>Spam is assuming the position of your prospect without evidence. (17:58)</li><li>Psycho-Cybernetics is basically a book of a whole bunch of stories of failures and how long they took so that you feel better, and you're like, maybe I'm not so bad. (26:53)</li></ul><p>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a><br />• Ray Higdon’s Website: <a href="https://higdongroup.com">https://higdongroup.com</a><br />• The Top Summit:<a href="https://www.thetopsummit.com">https://www.thetopsummit.com</a><br />• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: here<br />• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves<br />• Beth’s Website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a><br />• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>WHEN DOES IT AIR…<br />December 02, 2019</p><p>EPISODE TRANSCRIPT...</p><p>Beth</p><p>Welcome to 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I'm your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let's get started.</p><p>Hey there bosses, welcome back and today I get to interview Ray Higdon. I know most of you that are in our audience industry inside of network marketing, know him as a bestselling author, an in-demand speaker and a top social media influencer. I first was introduced to Ray when I caught him on a Facebook live, and you'll hear his consistency over his lives over time, and how he has built his coaching business inside of the network marketing industry. He has been on stages with Tony Robbins, Rachel Hollis, Les Brown, Brendon Burchard, Robert Kiyosaki, Bob Proctor, Gary Vaynerchuk, Grant Cardone, Magic Johnson and many more. I am excited to be sharing the stage at the same event with him at the Top Summit, which is coming in Naples in the first week of February. It is an event that you do not want to miss. So down below in the show notes you can grab tickets. <br /><br />They are $97 and you are going to hear from, you've already heard me interview Rob Sperry. We also have Frazier bricks on that stage and so many more speakers including Ray Higdon. So, enjoy today's episode. I'm excited because you are going to walk away with some very, very tangible ways that you can consistently show up and build your network marketing business. So, let's get this episode started with Ray Higdon. Before we get started and head on over to the episode, I would love to share with you when have our five-star ratings, and a review from my friend Bree loves fasting. So, thank you Bree for the love and for taking the time to write this review. We are going to reach out to you to send you a Boss hat because I happened to know who you are in social media and this is what Bree says about the podcast. <br /><br />She says, “Wow, I am so glad that I found this podcast at this point in my life. Timing is everything. If you haven't hit 40 still listen, your life is a reflection of your choices in programming. What do you want in life? This is a great resource to help you figure that way out. Thank you for your energy, Beth. I can't wait to see how your journey unfolds”. And thank you right back, Bree, because you are an amazing and extraordinary human. So, without further ado, let's get started with the episode with Ray Higdon.</p><p>I'm so excited today because my vision was created along the way from silently stocking watching people had gone before me that had shown me that this was the industry where I could create a life that I wanted to live every single day, making money, residual income, staying in action, working online and offline. And I found Ray Higdon, who's here today. You guys heard the introduction earlier and I've a network marketing audience. Ray, they know you. You're a legend. So, here's the deal. Ray has always been a message to me about consistency of connection. All right. So, one of my favorite books that I share with my team all the time is your social media book, Your Freakishly Effective Social Media. I'm over in Rank Makers and because of you, one of the most effective things we've done, I've got a team of about, Oh 12,000 now, is we started celebrating activity, not celebrating the rank and the stage and the blobity blob. So, talk to me a little bit about what point… well first of all, I want to just ask you that question. I heard you on Shailene's podcast and you had such a great definition because I do have some entrepreneurs that are still like eh, network marketing. So, when someone says why network marketing, what do you say about that?</p><p>Ray</p><p>Yeah, I mean for me, our definition is it's the lowest risk, lowest overhead way for the average ordinary person to start a business. And I think, I can say that because you know, I have had multiple businesses. I've had a real estate investment company; I bought a franchise and advertising franchise. And so, I know, and I have a lot of different kind of business owner friends as well and so I know what their P and L look like. I know what kind of risks they have. I know what kind of risks I've had in the past in other businesses and what risks I currently have our overhead for our team, and you know, our advertising and everything. I mean we're hundreds of thousands of dollars every single month. You just don't have that kind of risk and costs that you have to be subjected to in network marketing like you do in other businesses.</p><p>Beth</p><p>So, when you think of network marketing, and my story is I started in the industry at the age of 47, never building online, with a couple hundred Facebook friends. And I had this idea of social sharing that was just, I have got to talk to every single person that I know I can solve their problem. And so, I didn't have any crazy strategy. I didn't have an algorithm. I just knew that if I told stories that people would relate to that, but I had to go offline. Behind the scenes. And many people will say, well how did you have fast growth? And it occurred to me as I was, I journaled about you this morning because I journal gratitude and what you've given me personally, someone offer free, offer free. I received flowers on my birthday because I'm in one of your communities. So, talk about like that is, that's a huge piece, but can you talk about the difference? <br /><br />So many people as we were getting on, we talked about the pitch being, never talk to your family and friends again. Why wouldn't I talk to my neighbor about a solution for her having to work every day and not pick her kids up at the bus stop if that's her choice. Like that to me, there's such a disconnect right now from Bellevue. Someone that says have conversations in the coffee shop with the old way that we used to have the meeting inside of the RV. You know, I was a part of one of those with my parents. So, talk to me about where you see the marriage of the connection, the conversations with your everyday friends to this big online brand that people are building around. Never prospect again.</p><p>Ray</p><p>You know, there's a lot of training out there that is made by the influencer but not made in a way that understands that only influencers would actually benefit from it. It's positioned as a way that like, so, okay, what's the pain of the marketplace, which is a smart business thought, right? What's the pain in the marketplace? Oh, they don't like to prospect or do work. Okay, well I'll just say you don't have to. And so like at the end of the day there has to be a fulfillment of that and there has to be a, you know, you can't just say this, you know, this is a lettuce chopping knife and it's actually a block of wood, right? It's just like, this doesn't work at all. And so, you know, the listening to the marketplace of what they don't like is a good idea. <br /><br />You have the option if you're a trainer to say, okay, let me try to help solve that idea by helping them, making them think differently about it, or let me just appease them into something that's still not going to work for them and they're just going to be frustrated still. And so, I think, I don't know if it's increased. I mean I feel like it's been, you know, I've seen this kind of messaging, you know, for the last 10 years to be honest. But I don't know if it's increased or not, but it's just a non-realization that I can, like I'm an influencer and I can do certain things that will work for me and however the person, because we create all of our training with team no influence on in mind. So, I think about the person who friends and family aren't supportive of. Maybe they burned them out through bad pitches or whatever, but people that don't have a huge following that aren't getting many views on their videos. <br /><br />So, I know that if I can teach something that helps them, influencers could adapt if they wanted to. And use it or they're an influencer, they can use whatever, whatever it is that they like to do because you can kind of bend the rules. Becoming an influencer does allow you to bend some rules, but the one rule I wish they wouldn't bend is recognizing where people are because there's a vast amount of ignorance around that of what I do works. So, let me teach what I do. But for the majority of people it won't work <br />well.</p><p>Beth</p><p>And I think that speaks to me because I felt innovative in many ways of how I was having connections. I knew in my age range when I started that I had a large group of people that had gone through the retirement that we're viewing their next second act, or maybe it's the last act into their 50s and then I had a group that thought that that master's degree, that PhD was going to have that pension and all of a sudden we needed another way. And so, I had to become an educator about residual income. I gave many of your videos to people to watch about explaining what network marketing is all about. In fact, I sent your Shaylene interview to a friend of mine that has, I mean 40,000 PhDs and is still making $32,000 a year. And I said, listen to why I believe so much in this industry. <br /><br />So had someone said, no, you have to just post transformation pictures that wouldn't have worked. So, it's innovation along with right, those connections and those conversations. One of my favorite things about you though is that it's just not like throw a bunch of copy and paste, share the link into the inbox and see what happens. There's this system that you use, a sequence that we've all followed if you're over in Rank Makers, so talk about when someone's like, okay, right, I'm in. I'm going to commit a daily agreement to myself. I'm having seven conversations a day. I know when I was trying to get to the top of the company, hit certain goals, I was willing to do the work of a hundred a day, a hundred. I was 101 because, but for every day the agreement has always been, if I have three conversations a day, I'm moving forward. So how would those conversations, we've got a lot of people that are like, I want to do what Ray did in his network marketing space. How does that flow of conversation look? So, it's just not send the video, send the link, send this and you know, just spray and pray.</p><p>Ray<br /> </p><p>Yeah. So, for those of us old enough to remember, you know we used to open our mail over the trashcan, right? Because you got too much junk mail and I'll be honest, I'm back to that point now because I don't know, we order a lot of crap online. So, I mean we get like 15 of these catalogs every day. I'm like, oh my God, how many times is, you know, hamburger and Schleimer are going to hit me with some, there's so many of them. Anyway. That's how people view their inbox now when there's a link in there and, and so when, when I observe my inbox, so if I open my inbox and I don't know you and there's a Link in there, part of me is relieved because I don't have to read it now. <br /><br />It's like my junk mail. I'm just like tossing. I'm like, Oh, cool. Like just toss, toss, toss. If there's no link there, I'm like, Aw man, I've got to read it. Okay. All right. What are they saying here? And so, like it's no longer like, Oh, you know, I got AOL, I got mail. All right. Not like a great feeling or something. It's like, okay, what do I got here? What's going on? And so, we specifically talk a lot about cold market people that you do not know because there's always going to be more of them than you do. And if I equip you to talk to cold market strangers, people that you don't know, then you can go into any marketplace. You can go into any country; you can teach anybody. If I always assume that you have a hot market of people that's willing to pick you up at 2:00 AM of restraint on the, you know, on the street, then that applies to some, but not all. <br /><br />There are some people that if you said, Hey, who would you call if you were stranded on the street at 2:00 AM? Like they don't know. Because they may not have those kinds of close relationships for whatever reason. And you know, we're not going to be a therapist and solve them in one day. We don't know why, but that's the truth. And the truth is there are people, the internet with marketing because it's very low barrier entry, very low risk, very low overhead that may not have the greatest social situations. And so, what about them? And so, like we cater our stuff to help that person. But by doing that, and this is actually covered in the E myth by Michael Gerber, he says, you know, the reason that McDonald's worked so well is that that system was designed with the person with the lowest level of skills in mind. <br /><br />You do not have to be MIT graduate to run the fryer to make, to even manage the store. Because that's all, that's all a system, a rating system. There are systems for every single thing in that operation. That's why it's so successful. That's why it's very rare to even find out McDonald's that has closed down. However, you see this all over the place in other kinds of businesses because it was designed for the Rockstar and in mind, it was designed for the influencer and which is certainly a major advantage, but a very small percentage of people. So, when you reach out to people on social media that you do not know, it is different than a cocktail party. And so, you, we have such treasures like how to win friends and influence people, you know, things from Dale Carnegie, things from, you know, there's all kinds of them, right? <br /><br />And they were crafted in a time and place where you were only meeting people face to face. If you're at a cocktail party and you say, Hey, what is it that you do? That's fairly normal, right? You're there. They're fairly normal. You message someone across the pond or across the state or across the street that you don't know. It was beautiful. It's a little weird like why aren't we, why are you messaging me? And so, what we have just been bold enough to tell the truth about is when you message someone you don't know, they're thinking three things. Do I know you? What do you want and why me? Those are the three things. So, if you follow, and what some trainers have done very leisurely is they've just taken what is taught and how to win friends and influence people and just say that you just got to build the poor babies. <br /><br />You know, just go build rapport. And for most people that is like go build a small block engine, go solve a Rubik's cube. You know, it's very difficult. Build rapport with people you don't know on social media can be very difficult for people and for most not influencers, but for most. And so, we suggest that you actually give them what they want, and you get to the point sooner. Now, that doesn't mean hit him with a link because that's too soon. All right, slow down. But what we would suggest is if you're leading with, and there's obviously a million products, but if you're leading with opportunity, it might look like this. How do I solve those three questions that they have as quickly as possible and see if there's an openness to move to the next step? And so, what that might look like is I might reach out to someone and say, Hey, I know we don't know each other straightforward, just saying it's on your mind.</p><p>You're wondering, do I know this person? I've, I met them before. I know we don't know each other. I see that you're in Atlanta, Georgia. I'm looking to expand my business into Atlanta. Would you be open to taking a look at what we're doing to make extra money on social media? And if not, no big deal. Now if you send that message to a network marketer, regardless of their level of success, they're going to be like, dude, you're supposed to build, or pour spam in me, and ask yourself what exactly is spam and what exactly about that message offends them, right? What offends you there is that that would you, are you open to taking a look, and it's okay if you're not. Is that the offensive part or is it that we don't know each other that you were straight forward or is it that you're just in Atlanta?</p><p>Beth</p><p>Right.</p><p>Ray</p><p>And so there's nothing about that message to a, not a network marketer, that is offensive. And I've had from training this for quite a while. I've had one guy, he said, Oh, I've had people offended that weren't marketers. I'm like, okay, send me a screenshot. I'd love to see this. I want to see the everyday ordinary person that got this message and was mad. I'd love to see it. He couldn't produce it. And so, I've yet to actually see someone. Now if you sent it to a network marketer, they'll get all high up on their horse. Because here in network marketing, we support cannibalism. We like to eat. You like to make fun of, you know, I'm in a power position and this little network marketer is trying to prospect me and I'm big time. So let me, let me do a screenshot and make fun of him. <br /><br />And, and so it's, it's really strange to, do that sort of thing, to hate on someone who's trying. And again, if you use your brain not what you've been taught and you analyze that message, what is offensive about it? Again, is it that, are you open to taking a look? Or if you're not, it's okay. Like, which, which part of that? And so, spam. And I had to actually create this definition, you know, based on our observation of this phenomenon, when people hear this and they think, Ooh, that's too soon. I'd rather build rapport six months and then finally get to the point which nobody likes. Everyone hates that. And, and so spam is Assuming the Position of Your Prospect Without Evidence.</p><p>Beth</p><p>Oh, can you repeat that please?</p><p>Ray</p><p>So, spam is Assuming the Position of Your Prospect Without Evidence. So, if the guy walks up to the girl at the hotel bar and says, I got a room upstairs. Well, I'm not saying it'll never work, but you're kind of assuming some things it would be better if you said, Hey, are you here with anyone? Can I buy you a drink? And if not, it's okay. Right? Like that would be a more mathematically possible situation. And, so we're not assuming, we're not assuming anything. I'm saying, Hey, are you open to taking a look? And if not, no big deal. And so, it's just, and one is that duplicatable? Well, I mean, we've had entire teams completely transformed their organization by just saying, you know what? We're just going to do that. That seems a lot easier than a beautiful family you have on how long have you lived there? Right? Like all of those build rapport things that you would do offline, which makes sense. But online to a stranger kind of creates a weirdness. They're like, okay buddy, what is it that you want to get to the point. And so, a lot of people can duplicate that, they may not be able to duplicate building rapport. And it's something that is fast.</p><p>Beth</p><p>It's a lot faster to just ask the question and I'm not hell bent on getting it. Yes, I'm hell bent on asking them if they're open. Well, and when I look at, when I personally started building, it was a natural question of I didn't beat around the bush. As I met people, I would say, hey, I would love for you to take a look. I'm building in the Chicago area. I had to do that to my own sister, if not, no big deal. And I also then said, if it's not for you, who do you know? So one of the big pieces of that is, first of all, thank you, because I think I'm going on six years with my current company and a lot of, we do, we have a lot of comradery sidelines that have done both things of, Oh now we've made, you know, now we've hit, we've walked the stage, we've done the things, so let's do it differently than we actually built. And then we're like, wait a minute, that's not what we were doing when we were building. <br /><br />And Jennifer and I had this conversation and we started doing that exact plan and having a blitz on zoom, hop on, we're all into activity. And then having that opportunity if needed for the three-way validation, which is the video, which might be a chat, which might be inviting to a zoom. But whatever that piece is. So, another piece that you've said over and over, and when I feel like people have belief that that model works, their business model works, that people will make money. There's an energy behind the messaging. And that's why we bring in that third voice. If needed before we have belief, right? Or the video, or just the story of here's my friend was a blahbidy blahbidy blob. <br /><br />Ray<br />I'm a huge fan. I'm a huge fan of video because you can, I mean, you know, we have clients who have teams of 700,000 people and guess what? All 700,000 could use this same video at the same time. <br /><br />Beth<br />I agree. I love it. And if you don't have the video, you can make the video people like that's the key is having 40 people hear my story or hear the story of the company a day. What's your ideal length? What do you think people's attention span is for that video?</p><p><br />Ray</p><p>Yeah, you know, it's something that, a lot of people, a lot of people get tangled up on that. So, I mean I'll just say I've recruited hundreds. I recruited hundreds and hundreds of people because, you may have said in the intro, but I was the number one earner in a company. I'm not just a trainer that, you know, saying hey, I think this stuff works. And so, I recruited hundreds and hundreds of people believe it or not with a 60-minute video, which is probably longer than you want. But I've also recruited hundreds of people with a six-minute video. And those were two different companies because the company that I was the number one runner up, did end up merging into another company. So, it was a little bit different product. But what is more important than the length of a video or even the video, which sounds crazy, is your posture with the prospect. You know, the, the reason that I was able to recruit hundreds of people in the 60-minute video is because I was able to get hundreds of people to watch the video. And that takes posture. That takes, how are you communicating, how are you managing the energy and, and connecting, you know, to get them to move forward. And so, you know, is there an ideal length? I mean, if it can be under 20 minutes, I like that. But that wouldn't stop me if it wasn't.</p><p>Beth</p><p>So, when we talk posture and as a leader, I'm, I'm watching someone that I feel is not feeling it. The posture's not there. They're not getting the results. I'm sending those messages, Beth, I don't know what's going on. And I feel there's not posture. There are some days they just can't show up or they feel like they can't. What are some things that you're listening, and you're like, yeah, of course, Ray has posture. He was the number one income earner. Of course, Beth has posture. She's had success before that. We didn't have that to lean on. So, someone wanting to say, what's posture? How do I get it? Like you know that you feel it when you're around that person. When I see you at top summit, I know that I feel the energy around you in your videos. You've got posture. I mean, were you always this cool?</p><p>Ray</p><p>Yeah. So, when I mean, we define posture as the belief in what you have, regardless of external acceptance or approval. And so, I don't need someone to accept or approve or agree with what I'm doing, or my company or a product or my service for me to continue doing it. And I would say that's probably the number one killer of would be success stories is they come in and then they seek acceptance and grow that I do a good job that I did, I make the right choice guys. And so, they seek acceptance, approval agreement with the people around them, which they will not find as, it's weird to be an entrepreneur, period, let alone a network marketer. And so that's just, you know, complete lack of posture. So, what you’re talking about is in regard to like, you know, consistency is, some of that has to do with them being aware that not everyone has instant success. <br /><br />And this is another area where influencers mess this up badly. And you know, I remember I was at was at this event and this guy got up on stage and he said, I recruited the first 60 people I talked to and this is what I said. And so, everyone's like, Whoa, I just write this magic incantation. And here's the problem. If you recruited 60 of the first 60 people you talk to, it wasn't because of his skills, it’s because of his reputation and relationship with them. That just doesn't happen. And so, all these people are thinking, Oh, it's this script. So, they're going to go, and you know, say this script and get rejected and then think I'm just the idiot. I'm the problem. Because this script is tried and true. And so, making them aware of stories of people who didn't create success quickly. <br /><br />So, when I was, let's see, four years full time entrepreneur, that's when I hit foreclosure. That's when I got $1 million in debt. That's when I was dead broke, chased by collectors. That's when I went through a divorce, was sleeping on my buddy's couch. So that was four years full time, not part-time. That's where I landed. And so, I, when I started, when I got serious, I should say about my network marketing journey, I made hundreds of calls, maybe thousands, thousands of calls from a house that was in foreclosure. And that's where I was staying. And, and so people need to be aware of that. You know, one of our clients, Amy Murphy, 17 years in network marketing had only made $3,000 total. Now a million-dollar earner. See, people need to be aware of those stories. That's why as a leader and in Everett marketing, I hunt for those stories. <br /><br />I seek those stories. I know that it took Harrison for 27 years to get a main acting role, right? I know that, you know, Dyson went through a thousand different prototypes before he created the Dyson vacuum, right? And so, people need to be aware of that. So, they don't think they're weird. But what magnifies them thinking it's them is when it's only fast success stories that are shared. You know, like Joe it 10,000 is her smart way to go, Joe. You know, and they're like, Whoa. Right? So, it's more discouraging than encouraging. And so, they are sharing, and this is something I originally kind of understood the concept and a book I heard Dan Kennedy recommend, Psycho-Cybernetics. So, Psycho-Cybernetics is basically a book of a whole bunch of stories of failures and how long they took so that you feel better and you're like, maybe I'm not so bad. And you know, there's other stuff in it too. But that's true kind of the deal. And so how do we make more of our teammates aware that not everyone has instant success? Many people that they go through a lot of obstacles, but where they end up is still worth it.</p><p>Beth</p><p>So let me ask you this. Along your journey, obviously sleeping on the couch, $1 million in debt, you make the decision, I'm going to make these phone calls, I'm going to keep going, I'm going to persevere. So that mindset, that shift, that's a lot of personal development, a lot of work for you. So, talk about those pieces of your rituals, of your routines. Like you show up every day on Rank Makers. If the sun comes up, Ray Higdon is on Rank Makers. So that's such as, watching the consistency, the discipline, and even the listener, your reader. We’ve had every single guest that's been on, has been talking about how they want to learn. So, what are the rituals, the routines, even date night with your wife, so that you've created and designed this life, you made the decisions to grow your own business and to invest the time, the energy? What are, what's your ritual, your routine, your non negotiables for Ray Higdon every day?<br /><br />Ray</p><p>Yeah. And you know, and it's varied over the years. Right now, my non-negotiables are an hour of play time with my daughter, 200 pushups a day, run every day, go to the gym every day, do my Rank Maker video every day. Those are my nonnegotiable daily things, things that, you know, we do, like you said, you know, we do have date nights, like, you know, as far as you know, weekly and in that, you know, that sort of thing. And there's additional things in there. But as far as this day isn't, you know, isn't complete till it's are not complete till. But this day has to consist of those would be the things, is those things have to be done. And so, you know, I've done a video a day, at least one video a day, every day since July 15, 2009. So, it's over 10 years of doing a video a day. <br /><br />And you know, so for me, like we launched, you know, Rank Makers two and a half years ago, it actually wasn't a big deal to commit to a video a day. I was already doing it. So it wasn't, it wasn't like, oh man, I didn't do it. Like, no, I like it. The only difference between what I used to do prior to Rank Makers and now, is it's just much more in the dirt with them. It's much more in the street, you know, because I get to see much more than just a random, you know, video on social media, and you may or may not see the comments. I'm just more entrenched and people are more plugged in. And we have more accountability and tracking in that, that kind of thing. The hour, I'll be honest, the hour with my daughter, I have to schedule, I have to do that. You know, my childhood wasn't fantastic. I literally never had someone playing with me, a parent figure or anything like that. So, it's something that I had to force myself to put my phone away and dedicate to dolls or ponies, or whatever the hell work we're dealing with and spend that time with her.</p><p>Beth</p><p>Well, and what I'm hearing is intentional. And that's where that agreement, when you do that over in Rank Makers is it feels really good to have that daily agreement with myself that, okay, I'm agreeing this week. It's three conversations a day. It's, I'm going to give myself a break, but I'm agreeing I'm going to take that run. And when you put your head on the pillow at night, you're not like beating yourself up. Like, Oh, I suck. I didn't do it. What's wrong with me? You've done that.</p><p>And so, I know that. I know all the different ways that I can get the, you know Ray Higdon in my head, whether it's the books, Rank Makers, some of your higher-level coaching groups for six and seven figure earners. We're going to put all of that in the show notes. I also know I'm going to be able to see you and speak at the Top Summit in Naples, Florida, but how can someone just starting out, all the way to the six and seven figure earners, that want some extra support? How can they work with you?</p><p>Ray</p><p>Yeah, I mean I think I'll just give two steps here because I don't want to give too many. But one, you can check out my Facebook page and just watch some of the videos. We, you know are pretty consistent with videos on there every week, unless I'm traveling, I do a free coaching pride day, which is a good glimpse into how I show up inside of our other programs. And so, you could check all that out, you know, for free, facebook.com/rayhigdonpage. If you like what you see there, then you may want to check out Rank Makers, which we, you know, sometimes we open like one or two times a month and that's at RankMakers.com I would check those out first before you look at further things because we don't resonate with them. But yeah, we do have programs. You know, we have where I coached six and seven figure earners. We're hosting two companies here in the next 30 days that are coming to my house, and I'm working with executives and leadership, and was just in Cancun. A company pulled me out there for a leadership retreat to train their top guys, and girls, I should say. And so, yeah, that's some of the options there.</p><p>Beth</p><p>Thank you. And on one closing thought, if you had to give one piece of advice for someone that right now is saying, okay, 2019 I didn't quite manage to hit that rank goal, that that income goal 2020, it's happening. They're putting it all over their vision board, they're writing it in their affirmation journal. What is your one piece of advice for them?</p><p>Ray</p><p>One piece of advice.</p><p>Beth</p><p>I would say three. Great.</p><p>Ray</p><p>You said one. I would say create a daily routine that makes success inevitable. So, when I was growing my network marketing business, I went for 20 notes a day. I did self-development every day and I did a video every day. Those are the three things. That's it. Three things. And I know I've never in my career shared that with someone and they said, huh, that worked. That's shocking. Like they're all like, oh, that'll do it. And so that means that I had a daily routine that made success inevitable. Now I didn't know when. In fact, knowing this routine, I went to my girlfriend at the time, now my amazing wife, I told her that it would probably take me two years to get out of debt. And I didn't know that seven months later I'd be the number one earner in that company. <br /><br />And so, have a daily routine that you stick to because it's pointless to just have one, right? Have a daily routine that you stick to that makes success inevitable. If you look at what you do every day, no matter what, will that make success inevitable? And you know the answer, you know, if it's beat myself up for four hours, overthink things for three more hours, not prospect anyone and do a video every now and then, that does not make success inevitable. But I mean make it inevitable to where it is. It's got to happen. I mean, look what I'm doing. And so, you need to have that level of belief in your daily routine.</p><p>Beth</p><p>And I think have a daily routine that makes success inevitable in all areas of your life. If you're talking fitness, if you're talking your relationship with your kids. I love that. All right. Thank you so much for being on with us and we're going to put in the show notes, how to go over to Ray Higdon's Facebook page, how to get connected with him and if you're listening to this, we are also putting below how to grab your tickets to Top Summit over in Naples, Florida, which is Naples, one of my favorite places. Not a bad drive for you to get there though. Right?</p><p>Ray</p><p>All right. Right.</p><p>Beth</p><p>Thanks so much for being on with us today.</p><p>Ray</p><p>Thanks for having me.</p><p>Beth</p><p>Oh my goodness. What an incredible episode. I have walked away with pages full of notes. I know you have as well, and you can get access to more training with Ray, and you got to take a look at some of these other speakers that are going to be at the Top Summit. There is something magical about showing up for events and being in person and being in the space with people like Hal Elrod from Miracle Morning. Danelle Delgado, Ray Higdon, as we heard today. We have Natasha Haslett coming, Natasha Robertson, Katie Harvest, Jessica Green. I am speaking, there are so many people that I'm leaving out, Frazier Brooks, Rob Sperry. And you are going to hear from people that have truly been in the trenches building their network marketing business, as well as entrepreneurs and authors. So, I am going to give you a special link to get your tickets go to the <a href="http://www.thetopsummit.com/">http://www.thetopsummit.com</a>. <br /><br />I'm going to put that down in the show notes and I can't wait to see you at the Top Summit. Thanks so much for hanging out with me today at You're Not the Boss of Me. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes. Every single week I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say. And it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So, leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I enter you to win the You're Not the Boss of Me swag. So, make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</p><ul><li>I heard you on Shailene's podcast and you had such a great definition because I do have some entrepreneurs that are still like eh, network marketing. So when someone says why network marketing? What do you say about that? (04:12)</li><li>You know, there's a lot of training out there that is made by the influencer, but not made in a way that understands that only influencers would actually benefit from it. (06:55)</li><li>The reason that McDonald's worked so well is that the system was designed with the person with the lowest level of skills in mind. (13:17)</li><li>Spam is assuming the position of your prospect without evidence. (17:58)</li><li>Psycho-Cybernetics is basically a book of a whole bunch of stories of failures and how long they took so that you feel better, and you're like, maybe I'm not so bad. (26:53)</li></ul><p>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</p><p>• No Boss Talk: <a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a><br />• Ray Higdon’s Website: <a href="https://higdongroup.com">https://higdongroup.com</a><br />• The Top Summit:<a href="https://www.thetopsummit.com">https://www.thetopsummit.com</a><br />• The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: here<br />• Beth’s Instagram: @bethholdengraves<br />• Beth’s Website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a><br />• Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></p><p>WHEN DOES IT AIR…<br />December 02, 2019</p><p>EPISODE TRANSCRIPT...</p><p>Beth</p><p>Welcome to 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I'm your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let's get started.</p><p>Hey there bosses, welcome back and today I get to interview Ray Higdon. I know most of you that are in our audience industry inside of network marketing, know him as a bestselling author, an in-demand speaker and a top social media influencer. I first was introduced to Ray when I caught him on a Facebook live, and you'll hear his consistency over his lives over time, and how he has built his coaching business inside of the network marketing industry. He has been on stages with Tony Robbins, Rachel Hollis, Les Brown, Brendon Burchard, Robert Kiyosaki, Bob Proctor, Gary Vaynerchuk, Grant Cardone, Magic Johnson and many more. I am excited to be sharing the stage at the same event with him at the Top Summit, which is coming in Naples in the first week of February. It is an event that you do not want to miss. So down below in the show notes you can grab tickets. <br /><br />They are $97 and you are going to hear from, you've already heard me interview Rob Sperry. We also have Frazier bricks on that stage and so many more speakers including Ray Higdon. So, enjoy today's episode. I'm excited because you are going to walk away with some very, very tangible ways that you can consistently show up and build your network marketing business. So, let's get this episode started with Ray Higdon. Before we get started and head on over to the episode, I would love to share with you when have our five-star ratings, and a review from my friend Bree loves fasting. So, thank you Bree for the love and for taking the time to write this review. We are going to reach out to you to send you a Boss hat because I happened to know who you are in social media and this is what Bree says about the podcast. <br /><br />She says, “Wow, I am so glad that I found this podcast at this point in my life. Timing is everything. If you haven't hit 40 still listen, your life is a reflection of your choices in programming. What do you want in life? This is a great resource to help you figure that way out. Thank you for your energy, Beth. I can't wait to see how your journey unfolds”. And thank you right back, Bree, because you are an amazing and extraordinary human. So, without further ado, let's get started with the episode with Ray Higdon.</p><p>I'm so excited today because my vision was created along the way from silently stocking watching people had gone before me that had shown me that this was the industry where I could create a life that I wanted to live every single day, making money, residual income, staying in action, working online and offline. And I found Ray Higdon, who's here today. You guys heard the introduction earlier and I've a network marketing audience. Ray, they know you. You're a legend. So, here's the deal. Ray has always been a message to me about consistency of connection. All right. So, one of my favorite books that I share with my team all the time is your social media book, Your Freakishly Effective Social Media. I'm over in Rank Makers and because of you, one of the most effective things we've done, I've got a team of about, Oh 12,000 now, is we started celebrating activity, not celebrating the rank and the stage and the blobity blob. So, talk to me a little bit about what point… well first of all, I want to just ask you that question. I heard you on Shailene's podcast and you had such a great definition because I do have some entrepreneurs that are still like eh, network marketing. So, when someone says why network marketing, what do you say about that?</p><p>Ray</p><p>Yeah, I mean for me, our definition is it's the lowest risk, lowest overhead way for the average ordinary person to start a business. And I think, I can say that because you know, I have had multiple businesses. I've had a real estate investment company; I bought a franchise and advertising franchise. And so, I know, and I have a lot of different kind of business owner friends as well and so I know what their P and L look like. I know what kind of risks they have. I know what kind of risks I've had in the past in other businesses and what risks I currently have our overhead for our team, and you know, our advertising and everything. I mean we're hundreds of thousands of dollars every single month. You just don't have that kind of risk and costs that you have to be subjected to in network marketing like you do in other businesses.</p><p>Beth</p><p>So, when you think of network marketing, and my story is I started in the industry at the age of 47, never building online, with a couple hundred Facebook friends. And I had this idea of social sharing that was just, I have got to talk to every single person that I know I can solve their problem. And so, I didn't have any crazy strategy. I didn't have an algorithm. I just knew that if I told stories that people would relate to that, but I had to go offline. Behind the scenes. And many people will say, well how did you have fast growth? And it occurred to me as I was, I journaled about you this morning because I journal gratitude and what you've given me personally, someone offer free, offer free. I received flowers on my birthday because I'm in one of your communities. So, talk about like that is, that's a huge piece, but can you talk about the difference? <br /><br />So many people as we were getting on, we talked about the pitch being, never talk to your family and friends again. Why wouldn't I talk to my neighbor about a solution for her having to work every day and not pick her kids up at the bus stop if that's her choice. Like that to me, there's such a disconnect right now from Bellevue. Someone that says have conversations in the coffee shop with the old way that we used to have the meeting inside of the RV. You know, I was a part of one of those with my parents. So, talk to me about where you see the marriage of the connection, the conversations with your everyday friends to this big online brand that people are building around. Never prospect again.</p><p>Ray</p><p>You know, there's a lot of training out there that is made by the influencer but not made in a way that understands that only influencers would actually benefit from it. It's positioned as a way that like, so, okay, what's the pain of the marketplace, which is a smart business thought, right? What's the pain in the marketplace? Oh, they don't like to prospect or do work. Okay, well I'll just say you don't have to. And so like at the end of the day there has to be a fulfillment of that and there has to be a, you know, you can't just say this, you know, this is a lettuce chopping knife and it's actually a block of wood, right? It's just like, this doesn't work at all. And so, you know, the listening to the marketplace of what they don't like is a good idea. <br /><br />You have the option if you're a trainer to say, okay, let me try to help solve that idea by helping them, making them think differently about it, or let me just appease them into something that's still not going to work for them and they're just going to be frustrated still. And so, I think, I don't know if it's increased. I mean I feel like it's been, you know, I've seen this kind of messaging, you know, for the last 10 years to be honest. But I don't know if it's increased or not, but it's just a non-realization that I can, like I'm an influencer and I can do certain things that will work for me and however the person, because we create all of our training with team no influence on in mind. So, I think about the person who friends and family aren't supportive of. Maybe they burned them out through bad pitches or whatever, but people that don't have a huge following that aren't getting many views on their videos. <br /><br />So, I know that if I can teach something that helps them, influencers could adapt if they wanted to. And use it or they're an influencer, they can use whatever, whatever it is that they like to do because you can kind of bend the rules. Becoming an influencer does allow you to bend some rules, but the one rule I wish they wouldn't bend is recognizing where people are because there's a vast amount of ignorance around that of what I do works. So, let me teach what I do. But for the majority of people it won't work <br />well.</p><p>Beth</p><p>And I think that speaks to me because I felt innovative in many ways of how I was having connections. I knew in my age range when I started that I had a large group of people that had gone through the retirement that we're viewing their next second act, or maybe it's the last act into their 50s and then I had a group that thought that that master's degree, that PhD was going to have that pension and all of a sudden we needed another way. And so, I had to become an educator about residual income. I gave many of your videos to people to watch about explaining what network marketing is all about. In fact, I sent your Shaylene interview to a friend of mine that has, I mean 40,000 PhDs and is still making $32,000 a year. And I said, listen to why I believe so much in this industry. <br /><br />So had someone said, no, you have to just post transformation pictures that wouldn't have worked. So, it's innovation along with right, those connections and those conversations. One of my favorite things about you though is that it's just not like throw a bunch of copy and paste, share the link into the inbox and see what happens. There's this system that you use, a sequence that we've all followed if you're over in Rank Makers, so talk about when someone's like, okay, right, I'm in. I'm going to commit a daily agreement to myself. I'm having seven conversations a day. I know when I was trying to get to the top of the company, hit certain goals, I was willing to do the work of a hundred a day, a hundred. I was 101 because, but for every day the agreement has always been, if I have three conversations a day, I'm moving forward. So how would those conversations, we've got a lot of people that are like, I want to do what Ray did in his network marketing space. How does that flow of conversation look? So, it's just not send the video, send the link, send this and you know, just spray and pray.</p><p>Ray<br /> </p><p>Yeah. So, for those of us old enough to remember, you know we used to open our mail over the trashcan, right? Because you got too much junk mail and I'll be honest, I'm back to that point now because I don't know, we order a lot of crap online. So, I mean we get like 15 of these catalogs every day. I'm like, oh my God, how many times is, you know, hamburger and Schleimer are going to hit me with some, there's so many of them. Anyway. That's how people view their inbox now when there's a link in there and, and so when, when I observe my inbox, so if I open my inbox and I don't know you and there's a Link in there, part of me is relieved because I don't have to read it now. <br /><br />It's like my junk mail. I'm just like tossing. I'm like, Oh, cool. Like just toss, toss, toss. If there's no link there, I'm like, Aw man, I've got to read it. Okay. All right. What are they saying here? And so, like it's no longer like, Oh, you know, I got AOL, I got mail. All right. Not like a great feeling or something. It's like, okay, what do I got here? What's going on? And so, we specifically talk a lot about cold market people that you do not know because there's always going to be more of them than you do. And if I equip you to talk to cold market strangers, people that you don't know, then you can go into any marketplace. You can go into any country; you can teach anybody. If I always assume that you have a hot market of people that's willing to pick you up at 2:00 AM of restraint on the, you know, on the street, then that applies to some, but not all. <br /><br />There are some people that if you said, Hey, who would you call if you were stranded on the street at 2:00 AM? Like they don't know. Because they may not have those kinds of close relationships for whatever reason. And you know, we're not going to be a therapist and solve them in one day. We don't know why, but that's the truth. And the truth is there are people, the internet with marketing because it's very low barrier entry, very low risk, very low overhead that may not have the greatest social situations. And so, what about them? And so, like we cater our stuff to help that person. But by doing that, and this is actually covered in the E myth by Michael Gerber, he says, you know, the reason that McDonald's worked so well is that that system was designed with the person with the lowest level of skills in mind. <br /><br />You do not have to be MIT graduate to run the fryer to make, to even manage the store. Because that's all, that's all a system, a rating system. There are systems for every single thing in that operation. That's why it's so successful. That's why it's very rare to even find out McDonald's that has closed down. However, you see this all over the place in other kinds of businesses because it was designed for the Rockstar and in mind, it was designed for the influencer and which is certainly a major advantage, but a very small percentage of people. So, when you reach out to people on social media that you do not know, it is different than a cocktail party. And so, you, we have such treasures like how to win friends and influence people, you know, things from Dale Carnegie, things from, you know, there's all kinds of them, right? <br /><br />And they were crafted in a time and place where you were only meeting people face to face. If you're at a cocktail party and you say, Hey, what is it that you do? That's fairly normal, right? You're there. They're fairly normal. You message someone across the pond or across the state or across the street that you don't know. It was beautiful. It's a little weird like why aren't we, why are you messaging me? And so, what we have just been bold enough to tell the truth about is when you message someone you don't know, they're thinking three things. Do I know you? What do you want and why me? Those are the three things. So, if you follow, and what some trainers have done very leisurely is they've just taken what is taught and how to win friends and influence people and just say that you just got to build the poor babies. <br /><br />You know, just go build rapport. And for most people that is like go build a small block engine, go solve a Rubik's cube. You know, it's very difficult. Build rapport with people you don't know on social media can be very difficult for people and for most not influencers, but for most. And so, we suggest that you actually give them what they want, and you get to the point sooner. Now, that doesn't mean hit him with a link because that's too soon. All right, slow down. But what we would suggest is if you're leading with, and there's obviously a million products, but if you're leading with opportunity, it might look like this. How do I solve those three questions that they have as quickly as possible and see if there's an openness to move to the next step? And so, what that might look like is I might reach out to someone and say, Hey, I know we don't know each other straightforward, just saying it's on your mind.</p><p>You're wondering, do I know this person? I've, I met them before. I know we don't know each other. I see that you're in Atlanta, Georgia. I'm looking to expand my business into Atlanta. Would you be open to taking a look at what we're doing to make extra money on social media? And if not, no big deal. Now if you send that message to a network marketer, regardless of their level of success, they're going to be like, dude, you're supposed to build, or pour spam in me, and ask yourself what exactly is spam and what exactly about that message offends them, right? What offends you there is that that would you, are you open to taking a look, and it's okay if you're not. Is that the offensive part or is it that we don't know each other that you were straight forward or is it that you're just in Atlanta?</p><p>Beth</p><p>Right.</p><p>Ray</p><p>And so there's nothing about that message to a, not a network marketer, that is offensive. And I've had from training this for quite a while. I've had one guy, he said, Oh, I've had people offended that weren't marketers. I'm like, okay, send me a screenshot. I'd love to see this. I want to see the everyday ordinary person that got this message and was mad. I'd love to see it. He couldn't produce it. And so, I've yet to actually see someone. Now if you sent it to a network marketer, they'll get all high up on their horse. Because here in network marketing, we support cannibalism. We like to eat. You like to make fun of, you know, I'm in a power position and this little network marketer is trying to prospect me and I'm big time. So let me, let me do a screenshot and make fun of him. <br /><br />And, and so it's, it's really strange to, do that sort of thing, to hate on someone who's trying. And again, if you use your brain not what you've been taught and you analyze that message, what is offensive about it? Again, is it that, are you open to taking a look? Or if you're not, it's okay. Like, which, which part of that? And so, spam. And I had to actually create this definition, you know, based on our observation of this phenomenon, when people hear this and they think, Ooh, that's too soon. I'd rather build rapport six months and then finally get to the point which nobody likes. Everyone hates that. And, and so spam is Assuming the Position of Your Prospect Without Evidence.</p><p>Beth</p><p>Oh, can you repeat that please?</p><p>Ray</p><p>So, spam is Assuming the Position of Your Prospect Without Evidence. So, if the guy walks up to the girl at the hotel bar and says, I got a room upstairs. Well, I'm not saying it'll never work, but you're kind of assuming some things it would be better if you said, Hey, are you here with anyone? Can I buy you a drink? And if not, it's okay. Right? Like that would be a more mathematically possible situation. And, so we're not assuming, we're not assuming anything. I'm saying, Hey, are you open to taking a look? And if not, no big deal. And so, it's just, and one is that duplicatable? Well, I mean, we've had entire teams completely transformed their organization by just saying, you know what? We're just going to do that. That seems a lot easier than a beautiful family you have on how long have you lived there? Right? Like all of those build rapport things that you would do offline, which makes sense. But online to a stranger kind of creates a weirdness. They're like, okay buddy, what is it that you want to get to the point. And so, a lot of people can duplicate that, they may not be able to duplicate building rapport. And it's something that is fast.</p><p>Beth</p><p>It's a lot faster to just ask the question and I'm not hell bent on getting it. Yes, I'm hell bent on asking them if they're open. Well, and when I look at, when I personally started building, it was a natural question of I didn't beat around the bush. As I met people, I would say, hey, I would love for you to take a look. I'm building in the Chicago area. I had to do that to my own sister, if not, no big deal. And I also then said, if it's not for you, who do you know? So one of the big pieces of that is, first of all, thank you, because I think I'm going on six years with my current company and a lot of, we do, we have a lot of comradery sidelines that have done both things of, Oh now we've made, you know, now we've hit, we've walked the stage, we've done the things, so let's do it differently than we actually built. And then we're like, wait a minute, that's not what we were doing when we were building. <br /><br />And Jennifer and I had this conversation and we started doing that exact plan and having a blitz on zoom, hop on, we're all into activity. And then having that opportunity if needed for the three-way validation, which is the video, which might be a chat, which might be inviting to a zoom. But whatever that piece is. So, another piece that you've said over and over, and when I feel like people have belief that that model works, their business model works, that people will make money. There's an energy behind the messaging. And that's why we bring in that third voice. If needed before we have belief, right? Or the video, or just the story of here's my friend was a blahbidy blahbidy blob. <br /><br />Ray<br />I'm a huge fan. I'm a huge fan of video because you can, I mean, you know, we have clients who have teams of 700,000 people and guess what? All 700,000 could use this same video at the same time. <br /><br />Beth<br />I agree. I love it. And if you don't have the video, you can make the video people like that's the key is having 40 people hear my story or hear the story of the company a day. What's your ideal length? What do you think people's attention span is for that video?</p><p><br />Ray</p><p>Yeah, you know, it's something that, a lot of people, a lot of people get tangled up on that. So, I mean I'll just say I've recruited hundreds. I recruited hundreds and hundreds of people because, you may have said in the intro, but I was the number one earner in a company. I'm not just a trainer that, you know, saying hey, I think this stuff works. And so, I recruited hundreds and hundreds of people believe it or not with a 60-minute video, which is probably longer than you want. But I've also recruited hundreds of people with a six-minute video. And those were two different companies because the company that I was the number one runner up, did end up merging into another company. So, it was a little bit different product. But what is more important than the length of a video or even the video, which sounds crazy, is your posture with the prospect. You know, the, the reason that I was able to recruit hundreds of people in the 60-minute video is because I was able to get hundreds of people to watch the video. And that takes posture. That takes, how are you communicating, how are you managing the energy and, and connecting, you know, to get them to move forward. And so, you know, is there an ideal length? I mean, if it can be under 20 minutes, I like that. But that wouldn't stop me if it wasn't.</p><p>Beth</p><p>So, when we talk posture and as a leader, I'm, I'm watching someone that I feel is not feeling it. The posture's not there. They're not getting the results. I'm sending those messages, Beth, I don't know what's going on. And I feel there's not posture. There are some days they just can't show up or they feel like they can't. What are some things that you're listening, and you're like, yeah, of course, Ray has posture. He was the number one income earner. Of course, Beth has posture. She's had success before that. We didn't have that to lean on. So, someone wanting to say, what's posture? How do I get it? Like you know that you feel it when you're around that person. When I see you at top summit, I know that I feel the energy around you in your videos. You've got posture. I mean, were you always this cool?</p><p>Ray</p><p>Yeah. So, when I mean, we define posture as the belief in what you have, regardless of external acceptance or approval. And so, I don't need someone to accept or approve or agree with what I'm doing, or my company or a product or my service for me to continue doing it. And I would say that's probably the number one killer of would be success stories is they come in and then they seek acceptance and grow that I do a good job that I did, I make the right choice guys. And so, they seek acceptance, approval agreement with the people around them, which they will not find as, it's weird to be an entrepreneur, period, let alone a network marketer. And so that's just, you know, complete lack of posture. So, what you’re talking about is in regard to like, you know, consistency is, some of that has to do with them being aware that not everyone has instant success. <br /><br />And this is another area where influencers mess this up badly. And you know, I remember I was at was at this event and this guy got up on stage and he said, I recruited the first 60 people I talked to and this is what I said. And so, everyone's like, Whoa, I just write this magic incantation. And here's the problem. If you recruited 60 of the first 60 people you talk to, it wasn't because of his skills, it’s because of his reputation and relationship with them. That just doesn't happen. And so, all these people are thinking, Oh, it's this script. So, they're going to go, and you know, say this script and get rejected and then think I'm just the idiot. I'm the problem. Because this script is tried and true. And so, making them aware of stories of people who didn't create success quickly. <br /><br />So, when I was, let's see, four years full time entrepreneur, that's when I hit foreclosure. That's when I got $1 million in debt. That's when I was dead broke, chased by collectors. That's when I went through a divorce, was sleeping on my buddy's couch. So that was four years full time, not part-time. That's where I landed. And so, I, when I started, when I got serious, I should say about my network marketing journey, I made hundreds of calls, maybe thousands, thousands of calls from a house that was in foreclosure. And that's where I was staying. And, and so people need to be aware of that. You know, one of our clients, Amy Murphy, 17 years in network marketing had only made $3,000 total. Now a million-dollar earner. See, people need to be aware of those stories. That's why as a leader and in Everett marketing, I hunt for those stories. <br /><br />I seek those stories. I know that it took Harrison for 27 years to get a main acting role, right? I know that, you know, Dyson went through a thousand different prototypes before he created the Dyson vacuum, right? And so, people need to be aware of that. So, they don't think they're weird. But what magnifies them thinking it's them is when it's only fast success stories that are shared. You know, like Joe it 10,000 is her smart way to go, Joe. You know, and they're like, Whoa. Right? So, it's more discouraging than encouraging. And so, they are sharing, and this is something I originally kind of understood the concept and a book I heard Dan Kennedy recommend, Psycho-Cybernetics. So, Psycho-Cybernetics is basically a book of a whole bunch of stories of failures and how long they took so that you feel better and you're like, maybe I'm not so bad. And you know, there's other stuff in it too. But that's true kind of the deal. And so how do we make more of our teammates aware that not everyone has instant success? Many people that they go through a lot of obstacles, but where they end up is still worth it.</p><p>Beth</p><p>So let me ask you this. Along your journey, obviously sleeping on the couch, $1 million in debt, you make the decision, I'm going to make these phone calls, I'm going to keep going, I'm going to persevere. So that mindset, that shift, that's a lot of personal development, a lot of work for you. So, talk about those pieces of your rituals, of your routines. Like you show up every day on Rank Makers. If the sun comes up, Ray Higdon is on Rank Makers. So that's such as, watching the consistency, the discipline, and even the listener, your reader. We’ve had every single guest that's been on, has been talking about how they want to learn. So, what are the rituals, the routines, even date night with your wife, so that you've created and designed this life, you made the decisions to grow your own business and to invest the time, the energy? What are, what's your ritual, your routine, your non negotiables for Ray Higdon every day?<br /><br />Ray</p><p>Yeah. And you know, and it's varied over the years. Right now, my non-negotiables are an hour of play time with my daughter, 200 pushups a day, run every day, go to the gym every day, do my Rank Maker video every day. Those are my nonnegotiable daily things, things that, you know, we do, like you said, you know, we do have date nights, like, you know, as far as you know, weekly and in that, you know, that sort of thing. And there's additional things in there. But as far as this day isn't, you know, isn't complete till it's are not complete till. But this day has to consist of those would be the things, is those things have to be done. And so, you know, I've done a video a day, at least one video a day, every day since July 15, 2009. So, it's over 10 years of doing a video a day. <br /><br />And you know, so for me, like we launched, you know, Rank Makers two and a half years ago, it actually wasn't a big deal to commit to a video a day. I was already doing it. So it wasn't, it wasn't like, oh man, I didn't do it. Like, no, I like it. The only difference between what I used to do prior to Rank Makers and now, is it's just much more in the dirt with them. It's much more in the street, you know, because I get to see much more than just a random, you know, video on social media, and you may or may not see the comments. I'm just more entrenched and people are more plugged in. And we have more accountability and tracking in that, that kind of thing. The hour, I'll be honest, the hour with my daughter, I have to schedule, I have to do that. You know, my childhood wasn't fantastic. I literally never had someone playing with me, a parent figure or anything like that. So, it's something that I had to force myself to put my phone away and dedicate to dolls or ponies, or whatever the hell work we're dealing with and spend that time with her.</p><p>Beth</p><p>Well, and what I'm hearing is intentional. And that's where that agreement, when you do that over in Rank Makers is it feels really good to have that daily agreement with myself that, okay, I'm agreeing this week. It's three conversations a day. It's, I'm going to give myself a break, but I'm agreeing I'm going to take that run. And when you put your head on the pillow at night, you're not like beating yourself up. Like, Oh, I suck. I didn't do it. What's wrong with me? You've done that.</p><p>And so, I know that. I know all the different ways that I can get the, you know Ray Higdon in my head, whether it's the books, Rank Makers, some of your higher-level coaching groups for six and seven figure earners. We're going to put all of that in the show notes. I also know I'm going to be able to see you and speak at the Top Summit in Naples, Florida, but how can someone just starting out, all the way to the six and seven figure earners, that want some extra support? How can they work with you?</p><p>Ray</p><p>Yeah, I mean I think I'll just give two steps here because I don't want to give too many. But one, you can check out my Facebook page and just watch some of the videos. We, you know are pretty consistent with videos on there every week, unless I'm traveling, I do a free coaching pride day, which is a good glimpse into how I show up inside of our other programs. And so, you could check all that out, you know, for free, facebook.com/rayhigdonpage. If you like what you see there, then you may want to check out Rank Makers, which we, you know, sometimes we open like one or two times a month and that's at RankMakers.com I would check those out first before you look at further things because we don't resonate with them. But yeah, we do have programs. You know, we have where I coached six and seven figure earners. We're hosting two companies here in the next 30 days that are coming to my house, and I'm working with executives and leadership, and was just in Cancun. A company pulled me out there for a leadership retreat to train their top guys, and girls, I should say. And so, yeah, that's some of the options there.</p><p>Beth</p><p>Thank you. And on one closing thought, if you had to give one piece of advice for someone that right now is saying, okay, 2019 I didn't quite manage to hit that rank goal, that that income goal 2020, it's happening. They're putting it all over their vision board, they're writing it in their affirmation journal. What is your one piece of advice for them?</p><p>Ray</p><p>One piece of advice.</p><p>Beth</p><p>I would say three. Great.</p><p>Ray</p><p>You said one. I would say create a daily routine that makes success inevitable. So, when I was growing my network marketing business, I went for 20 notes a day. I did self-development every day and I did a video every day. Those are the three things. That's it. Three things. And I know I've never in my career shared that with someone and they said, huh, that worked. That's shocking. Like they're all like, oh, that'll do it. And so that means that I had a daily routine that made success inevitable. Now I didn't know when. In fact, knowing this routine, I went to my girlfriend at the time, now my amazing wife, I told her that it would probably take me two years to get out of debt. And I didn't know that seven months later I'd be the number one earner in that company. <br /><br />And so, have a daily routine that you stick to because it's pointless to just have one, right? Have a daily routine that you stick to that makes success inevitable. If you look at what you do every day, no matter what, will that make success inevitable? And you know the answer, you know, if it's beat myself up for four hours, overthink things for three more hours, not prospect anyone and do a video every now and then, that does not make success inevitable. But I mean make it inevitable to where it is. It's got to happen. I mean, look what I'm doing. And so, you need to have that level of belief in your daily routine.</p><p>Beth</p><p>And I think have a daily routine that makes success inevitable in all areas of your life. If you're talking fitness, if you're talking your relationship with your kids. I love that. All right. Thank you so much for being on with us and we're going to put in the show notes, how to go over to Ray Higdon's Facebook page, how to get connected with him and if you're listening to this, we are also putting below how to grab your tickets to Top Summit over in Naples, Florida, which is Naples, one of my favorite places. Not a bad drive for you to get there though. Right?</p><p>Ray</p><p>All right. Right.</p><p>Beth</p><p>Thanks so much for being on with us today.</p><p>Ray</p><p>Thanks for having me.</p><p>Beth</p><p>Oh my goodness. What an incredible episode. I have walked away with pages full of notes. I know you have as well, and you can get access to more training with Ray, and you got to take a look at some of these other speakers that are going to be at the Top Summit. There is something magical about showing up for events and being in person and being in the space with people like Hal Elrod from Miracle Morning. Danelle Delgado, Ray Higdon, as we heard today. We have Natasha Haslett coming, Natasha Robertson, Katie Harvest, Jessica Green. I am speaking, there are so many people that I'm leaving out, Frazier Brooks, Rob Sperry. And you are going to hear from people that have truly been in the trenches building their network marketing business, as well as entrepreneurs and authors. So, I am going to give you a special link to get your tickets go to the <a href="http://www.thetopsummit.com/">http://www.thetopsummit.com</a>. <br /><br />I'm going to put that down in the show notes and I can't wait to see you at the Top Summit. Thanks so much for hanging out with me today at You're Not the Boss of Me. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes. Every single week I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say. And it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So, leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I enter you to win the You're Not the Boss of Me swag. So, make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p>
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Featured on the INC. 5000 as one of America&apos;s Fastest Growing Companies, Ray uses his extreme passion, enthusiasm and humor to captivate audiences, inspire them and move them into action.  As the former #1 income earner in a Network Marketing company, Ray knows what it takes to get results, and in his wildly successful group Rank Makers, Ray teaches; The More You Give, The More You Get.
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Featured on the INC. 5000 as one of America&apos;s Fastest Growing Companies, Ray uses his extreme passion, enthusiasm and humor to captivate audiences, inspire them and move them into action.  As the former #1 income earner in a Network Marketing company, Ray knows what it takes to get results, and in his wildly successful group Rank Makers, Ray teaches; The More You Give, The More You Get.
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</p><ul><li>I'm doing all of the work around protecting my energy and being in the highest vibration by putting the routines and rituals into my day, the breathwork, the work in just sitting and being still in the environment. (04:47)</li><li>I asked the campers to journal and think about what it is that they loved about their product, about their service, about their business, and write it a love letter because that gets you back to the belief, back to why are they doing this. (06:37)</li><li>So, we talked about, I was her ideal client customer. She knew immediately that this was for me and that when you're very, very clear on who it is that you serve, and who it is that you need to be in conversation with, that needs what you have. (12:07)</li><li>I want to give you a strategy that makes you feel really good about what it is that you're doing. (14:24)</li><li>So at the end of the day, the Money YOUR Way bootcamp really showed us, and from the comments and the conversations that were going on, is it's more than just an action step. (18:48)</li></ul><p>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</p><ul><li>No Boss Talk:<a href="https://nobosstalk.com" target="_blank">https://nobosstalk.com</a></li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074" target="_blank">here</a></li><li>Beth’s Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth’s website:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profitherway">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></li></ul><p>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</p><p>November 25, 2019</p><p>EPISODE TRANSCRIPT…</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Hello my friends and welcome back to ‘You're Not the Boss of Me’. This episode is something that I am so excited to chat with you about today, to just share what we are doing and creating over in Camp Elevate, which is our free Facebook group. You can find how to join us down in the show notes, but it's the camp elevate group.com. But here's the deal. This week I ran a Money YOUR Way free bootcamp and a lot of people probably jumped on thinking I was going to give this strategy, and I was going to have you do 17,000 reach-outs, or I was going to show you how to use your Instagram stories to get new leads coming your way. And there are so many cool strategies out there, I share those, I love them. But the first thing that I think we miss out on, and I just actually got a Facebook voice memo, I thought it was a text, so I was going to read it to you, it's from, one of my new ProfitHer Way Mastermind clients.</p><p>I don't even like to say client, It's like friends, were already friends, and she stumbled upon me because of the podcast and is a legend in her industry and was just chatting with me on Facebook. I love to chat with you all on Facebook and Instagram. And she just said, “I'm succeeding, but everything else is falling aside and I'm just struggling with that. I listened to the glass ball episode”, and so what I told her was, I want you to shut down your computer and go watch a movie and hang out with no phone with your daughter and with your husband. And she was probably thinking, aren't you like a business coach or strategist or something? And this is, this is what you're telling me to do. But what's happened in, even in the five days we've worked together, and I'm going to actually tell you a little summary of what we did during this boot camp so that you can apply it to your business.</p><p>And this works in any business. Honestly. And I'm not telling you that I'm the guru of these things. I'm telling you that this is the work that I'm currently doing. And so, I'm sharing the work that I'm doing because it feels aligned and it's working for me. And it's when I look back at growing my business, when I've been in this space that I'm going to talk to you about, has been when I have felt the very best. Meaning I have felt the very best about my business, and really about everything. Because I always talk about this, that one thing is not a number 10, meaning a 10 in business and a four in yourself care, or a two with your relationships, with your friendships, with your marriages, with your partners. We've got to work on that big wheel of how do we keep it all in an energetically aligned space that feels right and feels good.</p><p>So I received this message and it was so awesome because she said, ”after I've started to do this work, I'm actually starting to think that maybe this Woo thing, this energy, this thing you keep talking about, might actually be working, because suddenly this week people are coming to me. They're asking me about what it is that I do, and I felt just so much different around my business”. So how does that happen? And like what am I talking about? Right? Because I have to say that once upon a time when I thought I knew more than everyone else in the world. Well, that's an exaggeration, but I don't think I was very coachable around this piece of it. I was very coachable around strategy. I wanted to hear like, what's working, what are the steps? But I never really followed that because when a mentor of mine said to me, well, when you followed those steps, when they say this, you say this, or you go over and comment 10 times and then you do X, Y, and Z, and then they're going to say, yes.</p><p>Did you really do it? And did it really work? And I talk about the times when my business has really scaled and grown is when I'm super aligned with my message. I'm doing all of the work around protecting of my energy and being in the highest vibration by putting the routines and rituals into my day, the breathwork. The work in just sitting and being still the environment. Right? So, what we did over in camp this week, it was really cool because I decided I would call it Make Money YOUR Way bootcamp and people are like, I'm coming in, I want to make some money. Like you're going to show me the money over here in this camp. Well first of all, what happens when a group of people come together with one common goal? You start to have an energy of the group. And our camp energy has always been uplifting and inspiring, cheering for each other, and it's just, it's just a beautiful community and it's because of the beautiful women that are in there.</p><p>And I'm really, really looking forward. I'll give it a little camp plug. We're choosing the dates now because I want all of you in summer camp. Like I miss summer camp. I want to hang out a real-life camp. So, I'm going to be sharing a little bit more of those details. Got a lot coming up in 2020; Real life summer camp, and I'm also launching the ProfitHer Way Mastermind, which the cart is open. The application process is open right now. If you go to BethHoldenGraves.com/Profit you can read all about what's going to happen in there. And I will share a little bit with you more about that after I talk about what we did in the Money YOUR Way bootcamp. So, a lot of new people joined in Camp Elevate this week. So, we had a lot of new energy and it started with the very first assignment. The very first challenge was for you to have gratitude.</p><p>And so, I want you to do this gratitude around your business, a happy gratitude box where you're writing things down. And my friend Susan Hyatt calls it, I think her happy basket. And people are like, what do you mean we're going to make money this way? Yes, because I asked you to journal, and I'm saying you because I hope you're over there in Camp Elevate. But I asked the campers to journal and think about what it is that they loved about their product, about their service, about their business, and write it a love letter because that gets you back to the belief, back to why are they doing this? Why am I waking up every day and building this business? And having that belief in that love, and that gratitude around the opportunity, and whether it's the success now or success that's coming. That was a huge piece.</p><p>And seriously, and I love keeping a business journal. I have written in every single page of my journal, what I've done on that day. And I'll even write like Facebook lives, or this or that, but I didn't do PDFs and printouts because I know how I feel when I'm like, Oh, I got to go print this out and then now what am I going to do with it? So, I want the habit and the routine and the ritual of this business journal. So, you can say, okay, I had a pretty rocking month. Like my numbers are great. I've made more money than I've ever made. That you can look back and you see, here's what I've been doing. I'll talk more about that journal as we go into more episodes, because I have, I don't have a specific formula, but I do put my gratitude in my journal.</p><p>I do put my, what did I learn today? My personal development, two or three sentences. I kind of do a little affirmation and energy statement around where I'm going with my business, and then the activity, the inspired action. So, I asked everyone to, ‘Hey, write yourself a love letter’. So that was a really cool thing, and people were using lots of markers and stickers and we had all of the love letters out. And when you're feeling like, wow, I need to talk to somebody about this, like your energy is high around it. So, when you're feeling, and you guys, this works for a marriage, it works for a child, it works for your dog. When you're feeling depleted of energy, then at that time, why don't you sit down and go into gratitude and write it? Write that person, write that thing, a love letter, right?</p><p>That's what gratitude does as well. When you stay in gratitude around things that, you start to have that belief and that energy, and it raises your vibration around it all. So that's what we did on the first day. And the second day, and there were little things, and I'm going to be offering the replay on this. It's going to actually come in an email sequence or series for people to actually go through this bootcamp. We're getting that ready. So, stay tuned for that. But the next day, what we talked about, let me go back. So, the first day we did talk about what's your big picture? Where do you see yourself in five years? And people have done that exercise a lot, but we talked about, I always like having a vivid imagination. We did the love letter and then we also talked about what kind of solutions, like as you're doing the love letter, what kind of solutions do you have around your product or your business, and why are you grateful for that?</p><p>So, there were some pieces into that love letter. So then the next day I went into, so think about this, my friend Maryanne, when I lived in Michigan, she introduced me to Lululemon and it was like before Lululemon was really mainstream in the U S, and she was from Canada and had this little shop in her home. It started now, it's an amazing boutique shop. She has incredible things. It's called Ziva, Mayer and Franklin, Michigan. You should go take a look. But Marianne was during that season of my life, she was my person, like we ran every morning together. She was there through the babies, just like a beautiful human, and what a beautiful human she was, because the day that she had some Lululemon, she was selling Lululemon in her shop and I had never heard of it. And this is when Lululemon was still allowing, I think, small yoga studios in boutiques to carry their line.</p><p>And I had never heard of Lululemon. I don't even think there were Lululemon stores in Michigan, or maybe even not in the U S. And she called me, and she was like, you've got to get over to my house. You have got to see what's in this box, it’s going to blow your mind. And if you have never loved a pair of workout pants, like I love Lululemon, you just have not lived. And I put them on. I think they were called the Groove, and I put them on, and I was like, Oh my gosh. I mean, your butt looks good, you feel good. They were amazing pants and still are. The only thing that I've tried. I like Athleta, but Lululemon is my go-to and yes, it is an indulgence, but wow, why would you wear something that falls down when you're like trying to do a squat or a downward facing dog?</p><p>But anyway, my point of Marianne is this, when she was reaching out to me, she didn't go into like the details of why this was this beautiful fabric, and it had this, and the seam was this, and it was manufactured here and there and everywhere, and across the square, like detail, detail, detail. She basically just knew without question that I was on my way and I was going to pull out my credit card or cash for the most I'd ever spent on a pair of workout pants in my life because she knew without question this was for me. So, we talked about that, that I was her ideal client customer. She knew immediately that this was for me and that when you're very, very clear on who it is that you serve, and who it is that you need to be in conversation with, that needs what you have. Then your messaging and the power behind what you do, and how you share the stories and the testimonials, or when you're talking to your friend or your new acquaintance.</p><p>So, I said, would that have been the same conversation if it was with my husband? She's saying, buy a pair of Lululemon workout pants. We'll, now he gets Lululemon because they make it for men and I put it in his closet, but Marianne went up, called him and said, Don, get over here. He's not her ideal person, right? So, this is what we did. Next is, we actually drew pictures, named our person and talked about these things. And when you're visualizing, and this is nothing new for you, marketers out there, avatar or whatever you want to call it, but I really wanted them to say, I have a friendship with your ideal person, or does she like to eat? What keeps her up at night and keeps her worried, or him or they, what is the last book that she read? Where does she want to go on vacation?</p><p>Where is her dream, dream? Dream destination for, if she could take her husband on another honeymoon, or where does she shop for her food? Does she go to Costco or whole foods or both? And what are her favorite kinds of shoes? What magazines, did I say all this? What's her favorite podcast? I hope it's, ‘You're Not the Boss of Me’. So, we talked about this person and we got very, very clear, and we named her, and we drew a picture, and we gave the details, because when you have the gratitude for the business and then you have the details of this person, of this woman, of this man, of whomever it is, your message gets aligned. Right? Then we also did another thing, because you know I can't just give strategy without activity, so I'm going to whip through some of these things and you'll have to catch the replay email. and I'll make sure that if you're on my list for the podcast, if you're subscribed and you've opted in to one of one of my email lists, I'll make sure that you get it. But another thing that we did was, we did the belief, we talked about who it was, but then I said, I want to give you a strategy that makes you feel really good about what it is that you're doing.</p><p>When you reach out, and this strategy that I love to use is, and it's genuine. If there's someone I want to talk to and share the details, and I think that hearing it might just open their eyes to what it is that I do. Like we talked about referrals and using referrals as a way to say to your friend, so I used an example of a friend of mine, who is a 10 like entrepreneur, someone who gets it, but had never looked at the Network Marketing thing. So, I said, you know, ‘Hey Sarah, can I borrow your brain for just a few minutes? Can you give me a time, I just need to borrow your brain? I want to get some feedback from you. I really, really respect your entrepreneurial journey and respect you professionally. Literally need just like 15 minutes of time.</p><p>So when you ask a referral for an idea of who do you know, you are also spreading that happy message of; look at what we have onto that referral that they might just say, ‘Hey, well that might make sense for me to take a look at. And I said, there's a lot of people on your chicken list that if you go referral, they might have a referral for you. But at the end of the conversation you could also say, ‘well wow, have you ever considered this’? Like hello residual income or whatever it is, working part time, making a full-time income, whatever that is that you're sharing, it might be for them. So, we talked about a strategy of using referrals because I want people that are working with me, I want you to be creating the energy and vibration and the space for the work to happen.</p><p>Having the gratitude around your business, but then taking some of this strategy and showing up and asking and talking and having conversations. And my big thing about scripts. Yes, some people are out there killing it with scripts, but I also think the people that are killing it with the scripts would kill it any other way. Meaning their energy is so high, their belief is so high. Their messaging is brief, it's spot on. But like we talked about in the beginning when I was talking about my friend, my new friend who said, I feel like people are just coming my way because she started to do the work. So, we also were doing, we did a breathing exercise, where at least six times during the day you lean your head back and did some breath work. I'll share a little bit more about that later on in another podcast, and we also did a little tapping exercise.</p><p>I'm new to tapping, but tapping on your forehead, that says I am here. Like when your focus starts to go breath and I am here. So that was one of the things that we did as well, was adding the breathing a little bit of the tapping, the I am here, and a lot of people are like, okay, I'll give this a go. And I had more people, more campers reach out to me about the breathwork and that I am here than anything else. So that was really, really cool. And then the rest of the week we worked on building on that foundation, staying in the gratitude, staying with the breath, staying with the stopping every, at least six to eight times and doing the breath work, using creative strategies that feel aligned with who we are to have those. And then we talked about what the personal customer funnel looked like.</p><p>How does it feel? The thing that is big is when you don't have clarity around how the messaging and how the flow of conversation goes, when it's just thrown out there, you know, blah blah blah, blah blah. Here's a video here. This, here's that. Oh my gosh, they want to order, what now? They have a question. What now? That confusion is not creating space for that new person to feel comfortable and aligned and ready to go with you. So that was a little bit about the Money YOUR Way boot camp, and we put it all together in the business journal. We kind of made it a full circle of how do you use this mindset work, the breath breathwork along with getting into activity? We made some lists of people that fit the ideal person. We talked about a lot of things over five days, as you can tell because I'm like trying to pack it in here on this podcast to get, because I like to keep these about 20-25 minutes.</p><p>So, at the end of the day, the Money YOUR Way boot camp, really, really showed us, and from the comments and the conversations, that were going on, it's more than just an action step. It’s more than just let me send 7,000 messages and see who bites. It's about really leaning into who do I serve, who can I help, how can I be of service? Having the work around holding space, the breath work and being in gratitude, your vibration. You guys, I keep saying that, but I'm super into feeling where I am in the day. It just comes up and then those messages are well received. It seems that people are coming to you and maybe you didn't even change that marketing strategy. You just changed your own way of being. Have you ever been around someone that's like super crazy and Oh my gosh, I'm crazy? I'm crazy. I'm crazy.</p><p>I'm crazy. And Awwwww - if feels so out of whack, like Oh my gosh, please let me just go over here in this corner. If you hear something, I'm recording at night and little Yogi snoring in the corner, so I didn't want to stop and edit. So, this is real life, dog snoring, me podcasting. We're like showing you the true colors here because normally I pull his rug out. So, I apologize for Yogi in advance, but most of you that see me live have heard me say, ‘Yogi, stop your snoring’. So, Yogi’s here snoring away. All right, so let me tell you about something. I'm really, really, really excited about what's happening for us. It’ really…after starting the podcast and working with my own team and also with private clients, it hit me that there was a need and I really felt not just a need but like a calling, so to speak.</p><p>Like I felt this energy around putting a group of women like we have over in Camp Elevate together and having a space for us to do this work. So. what I'm envisioning, and I know will happen because I know what content and what people were bringing together because I'm bringing in outside coaches along with what I'm doing. And I want you to imagine a business that is energetically aligned with your mission and your vision, right? A mindset that's unshakeable, a daily routine that doesn't have you glued to your inbox and the tools for you to grow and thrive with your business and life. So, all that stuff about how to effortlessly have leads coming your way and how to never talk to friends and family about your business and make a zillion dollars. And how to use Instagram to sign up 472 people in three minutes. I'm a little bit exaggerating there, but if you've known me for more than 10 minutes, you know that I'm about making some serious business moves, but also making a life.</p><p>Right? So. we're going to work on mindset. We're going to work on marketing strategies. We're going to work on rituals and routines. We're going to map it out. We're going to create the plan. We're going to have some accountability. We're going to read some beautiful things together. We are going to create a business. And if you're already a six-figure earner, then we're going to start to look at what's happening with your own network, with your team, and how can you help to keep them in that higher energy. And how do you keep yourself from being glued to your phone all the time but having massive success in your business and getting results. And how do you hang with this community of people that are here to uplift, inspire on days that you might not feel like it, helping you to raise it up and get into inspired action.</p><p>That is all about what aligns with you, with your message, what you share, who you actually want to be in business, not who someone else thinks that you should be. So. we're going to be doing this. It starts 2020 but we're open now for your application, because like I said before, this is a curated community of women who are doing the work together, so it's not just come on in. It is are you committed to doing the work? Are you committed to seeing if even if it doesn't feel like it's a natural thing for you? If this feels different, let's see how that rolls your business along. How you get the results we're going to like. It's not just all you know, fun and let's have some meditation woo time. We are going to have aligned, inspired and lots of action around what that two-month, three-month, four-month, six-month, and five-year goal will be, and it is going to be so incredibly, incredibly…</p><p>Gosh, what incredibly fun. I'm looking for this word because I'm so excited about this program, because I have been dreaming, planning and using these methods in these strategies for so many years. And finally, it's here. So, if you want to see if this is a fit for you, go on over to BethHoldenGraves.com./Profit. You can fill out the application, you can take a look at all that we're doing, and I cannot wait. If you have some questions for me, just pop them over in my Facebook inbox or over on Instagram and I'll be happy to set up a time to chat with you via zoom so we can talk about the program, see if it's a fit for you. All right you guys, so that was Money YOUR Way. I'm excited for ProfitHER Way. And I also want to just end with reading a couple of my favorite reviews from the week and I can't thank you guys enough for doing the subscribe, sending in the review.</p><p>That's what puts us up on Apple iTunes. That's what makes me happy. Makes me get on here. I mean it's, I thought it was so much later. It's only 10 30pm. I'm like, I'm doing this podcast. It's like one in the morning, it's only 10:30pm, at night. But when you're listening to this, I hope it's Monday morning at six or 7:00 AM when it first drops in. So, let's take a look at those reviews and then we will finish this up.</p><p>This review is from Bree Loves Fasting, and she says, wow, this is a five-star review. Thank you, Bree! And you guys have to check out Bree over an Instagram because she has a great feed and she says, <br />“Wow, I am so glad that I found this podcast at this point in my life. Timing is everything. If you haven't hit 40, still listen, your life is a reflection of your choices and programming. What do you want in life? This is a great resource to help you figure that out. Thank you for your energy, Beth. I can't wait to see how your journey unfolds.”</p><p>Well, thank you Brie, and I love seeing your journey as well, and I'm going to read one more. Oh, my goodness. This is from Joy is Vibrant. I love that name! And she says this, “This episode helped me realize that it is on my way. I need to believe on all levels that I deserve to be happy, have what I want, and be in all of the places I want to be. I do know what to do, and was for a while, but I stalled and cut out and shut down. Now I know I need to do the work and keep believing that I am worthy and deserving.</p><p>You are worthy and deserving Joy is Vibrant! And thank you for the five-star review! And I love when content, that was from the content that we had last week with Deserve Level Rising. When content really pushes people out there to say, ‘yes, yes, this is for me and I am going to do what it takes and I am back in action because I deserve it’, right? That vision has to be so strong. And revisit it, use your imagination, get into that quiet space.</p><p>And I'll end this episode with what we did in the last session of Money YOUR Way, is that I encouraged everyone to have in their routine that quiet space, whether it's meditation, devotion, or just sitting in a beautiful space in your brain for five minutes in the morning, and five minutes in the evening, to make sure that you always have that gratitude every single day. Your personal development read daily.</p><p>Write that down. And finally, for me, one of the most important things that I do every single day is I send a love letter, a love text. I send to somebody, gratitude and tell them why I'm so grateful for them. And what they have done for me, and that's something that I started to do. I heard it on a podcast. I think I'm on day 42 of it and it feels so good. So those are the little things that create big things that create big changes in your life. And I hope today you loved this episode. I love sharing with you and if you are over in that Money YOUR Way Camp Elevate challenge, I want to say thank you. Thank you for showing up. Thank you for your energy and thank you for being a part of this insanely amazing sisterhood and community. And if you're not there yet, I want to see you in Camp Elevate.</p><p>All right you guys, I'll see you next week. Thanks so much for listening. You go out there, and if you can dream it, and if you can feel it, and if you can journal about it, and imagine it, take that action, and just do it.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today and 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes. Every single week I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I enter you to win the, 'You're Not the Boss of Me' swag, so make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p><p> </p>
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      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>KEYNOTES DISCUSSED:</p><ul><li>I'm doing all of the work around protecting my energy and being in the highest vibration by putting the routines and rituals into my day, the breathwork, the work in just sitting and being still in the environment. (04:47)</li><li>I asked the campers to journal and think about what it is that they loved about their product, about their service, about their business, and write it a love letter because that gets you back to the belief, back to why are they doing this. (06:37)</li><li>So, we talked about, I was her ideal client customer. She knew immediately that this was for me and that when you're very, very clear on who it is that you serve, and who it is that you need to be in conversation with, that needs what you have. (12:07)</li><li>I want to give you a strategy that makes you feel really good about what it is that you're doing. (14:24)</li><li>So at the end of the day, the Money YOUR Way bootcamp really showed us, and from the comments and the conversations that were going on, is it's more than just an action step. (18:48)</li></ul><p>LEARN MORE ABOUT THE CONTENT DISCUSSED…</p><ul><li>No Boss Talk:<a href="https://nobosstalk.com" target="_blank">https://nobosstalk.com</a></li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074" target="_blank">here</a></li><li>Beth’s Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth’s website:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profitherway">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></li></ul><p>WHEN DOES IT AIR…</p><p>November 25, 2019</p><p>EPISODE TRANSCRIPT…</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Hello my friends and welcome back to ‘You're Not the Boss of Me’. This episode is something that I am so excited to chat with you about today, to just share what we are doing and creating over in Camp Elevate, which is our free Facebook group. You can find how to join us down in the show notes, but it's the camp elevate group.com. But here's the deal. This week I ran a Money YOUR Way free bootcamp and a lot of people probably jumped on thinking I was going to give this strategy, and I was going to have you do 17,000 reach-outs, or I was going to show you how to use your Instagram stories to get new leads coming your way. And there are so many cool strategies out there, I share those, I love them. But the first thing that I think we miss out on, and I just actually got a Facebook voice memo, I thought it was a text, so I was going to read it to you, it's from, one of my new ProfitHer Way Mastermind clients.</p><p>I don't even like to say client, It's like friends, were already friends, and she stumbled upon me because of the podcast and is a legend in her industry and was just chatting with me on Facebook. I love to chat with you all on Facebook and Instagram. And she just said, “I'm succeeding, but everything else is falling aside and I'm just struggling with that. I listened to the glass ball episode”, and so what I told her was, I want you to shut down your computer and go watch a movie and hang out with no phone with your daughter and with your husband. And she was probably thinking, aren't you like a business coach or strategist or something? And this is, this is what you're telling me to do. But what's happened in, even in the five days we've worked together, and I'm going to actually tell you a little summary of what we did during this boot camp so that you can apply it to your business.</p><p>And this works in any business. Honestly. And I'm not telling you that I'm the guru of these things. I'm telling you that this is the work that I'm currently doing. And so, I'm sharing the work that I'm doing because it feels aligned and it's working for me. And it's when I look back at growing my business, when I've been in this space that I'm going to talk to you about, has been when I have felt the very best. Meaning I have felt the very best about my business, and really about everything. Because I always talk about this, that one thing is not a number 10, meaning a 10 in business and a four in yourself care, or a two with your relationships, with your friendships, with your marriages, with your partners. We've got to work on that big wheel of how do we keep it all in an energetically aligned space that feels right and feels good.</p><p>So I received this message and it was so awesome because she said, ”after I've started to do this work, I'm actually starting to think that maybe this Woo thing, this energy, this thing you keep talking about, might actually be working, because suddenly this week people are coming to me. They're asking me about what it is that I do, and I felt just so much different around my business”. So how does that happen? And like what am I talking about? Right? Because I have to say that once upon a time when I thought I knew more than everyone else in the world. Well, that's an exaggeration, but I don't think I was very coachable around this piece of it. I was very coachable around strategy. I wanted to hear like, what's working, what are the steps? But I never really followed that because when a mentor of mine said to me, well, when you followed those steps, when they say this, you say this, or you go over and comment 10 times and then you do X, Y, and Z, and then they're going to say, yes.</p><p>Did you really do it? And did it really work? And I talk about the times when my business has really scaled and grown is when I'm super aligned with my message. I'm doing all of the work around protecting of my energy and being in the highest vibration by putting the routines and rituals into my day, the breathwork. The work in just sitting and being still the environment. Right? So, what we did over in camp this week, it was really cool because I decided I would call it Make Money YOUR Way bootcamp and people are like, I'm coming in, I want to make some money. Like you're going to show me the money over here in this camp. Well first of all, what happens when a group of people come together with one common goal? You start to have an energy of the group. And our camp energy has always been uplifting and inspiring, cheering for each other, and it's just, it's just a beautiful community and it's because of the beautiful women that are in there.</p><p>And I'm really, really looking forward. I'll give it a little camp plug. We're choosing the dates now because I want all of you in summer camp. Like I miss summer camp. I want to hang out a real-life camp. So, I'm going to be sharing a little bit more of those details. Got a lot coming up in 2020; Real life summer camp, and I'm also launching the ProfitHer Way Mastermind, which the cart is open. The application process is open right now. If you go to BethHoldenGraves.com/Profit you can read all about what's going to happen in there. And I will share a little bit with you more about that after I talk about what we did in the Money YOUR Way bootcamp. So, a lot of new people joined in Camp Elevate this week. So, we had a lot of new energy and it started with the very first assignment. The very first challenge was for you to have gratitude.</p><p>And so, I want you to do this gratitude around your business, a happy gratitude box where you're writing things down. And my friend Susan Hyatt calls it, I think her happy basket. And people are like, what do you mean we're going to make money this way? Yes, because I asked you to journal, and I'm saying you because I hope you're over there in Camp Elevate. But I asked the campers to journal and think about what it is that they loved about their product, about their service, about their business, and write it a love letter because that gets you back to the belief, back to why are they doing this? Why am I waking up every day and building this business? And having that belief in that love, and that gratitude around the opportunity, and whether it's the success now or success that's coming. That was a huge piece.</p><p>And seriously, and I love keeping a business journal. I have written in every single page of my journal, what I've done on that day. And I'll even write like Facebook lives, or this or that, but I didn't do PDFs and printouts because I know how I feel when I'm like, Oh, I got to go print this out and then now what am I going to do with it? So, I want the habit and the routine and the ritual of this business journal. So, you can say, okay, I had a pretty rocking month. Like my numbers are great. I've made more money than I've ever made. That you can look back and you see, here's what I've been doing. I'll talk more about that journal as we go into more episodes, because I have, I don't have a specific formula, but I do put my gratitude in my journal.</p><p>I do put my, what did I learn today? My personal development, two or three sentences. I kind of do a little affirmation and energy statement around where I'm going with my business, and then the activity, the inspired action. So, I asked everyone to, ‘Hey, write yourself a love letter’. So that was a really cool thing, and people were using lots of markers and stickers and we had all of the love letters out. And when you're feeling like, wow, I need to talk to somebody about this, like your energy is high around it. So, when you're feeling, and you guys, this works for a marriage, it works for a child, it works for your dog. When you're feeling depleted of energy, then at that time, why don't you sit down and go into gratitude and write it? Write that person, write that thing, a love letter, right?</p><p>That's what gratitude does as well. When you stay in gratitude around things that, you start to have that belief and that energy, and it raises your vibration around it all. So that's what we did on the first day. And the second day, and there were little things, and I'm going to be offering the replay on this. It's going to actually come in an email sequence or series for people to actually go through this bootcamp. We're getting that ready. So, stay tuned for that. But the next day, what we talked about, let me go back. So, the first day we did talk about what's your big picture? Where do you see yourself in five years? And people have done that exercise a lot, but we talked about, I always like having a vivid imagination. We did the love letter and then we also talked about what kind of solutions, like as you're doing the love letter, what kind of solutions do you have around your product or your business, and why are you grateful for that?</p><p>So, there were some pieces into that love letter. So then the next day I went into, so think about this, my friend Maryanne, when I lived in Michigan, she introduced me to Lululemon and it was like before Lululemon was really mainstream in the U S, and she was from Canada and had this little shop in her home. It started now, it's an amazing boutique shop. She has incredible things. It's called Ziva, Mayer and Franklin, Michigan. You should go take a look. But Marianne was during that season of my life, she was my person, like we ran every morning together. She was there through the babies, just like a beautiful human, and what a beautiful human she was, because the day that she had some Lululemon, she was selling Lululemon in her shop and I had never heard of it. And this is when Lululemon was still allowing, I think, small yoga studios in boutiques to carry their line.</p><p>And I had never heard of Lululemon. I don't even think there were Lululemon stores in Michigan, or maybe even not in the U S. And she called me, and she was like, you've got to get over to my house. You have got to see what's in this box, it’s going to blow your mind. And if you have never loved a pair of workout pants, like I love Lululemon, you just have not lived. And I put them on. I think they were called the Groove, and I put them on, and I was like, Oh my gosh. I mean, your butt looks good, you feel good. They were amazing pants and still are. The only thing that I've tried. I like Athleta, but Lululemon is my go-to and yes, it is an indulgence, but wow, why would you wear something that falls down when you're like trying to do a squat or a downward facing dog?</p><p>But anyway, my point of Marianne is this, when she was reaching out to me, she didn't go into like the details of why this was this beautiful fabric, and it had this, and the seam was this, and it was manufactured here and there and everywhere, and across the square, like detail, detail, detail. She basically just knew without question that I was on my way and I was going to pull out my credit card or cash for the most I'd ever spent on a pair of workout pants in my life because she knew without question this was for me. So, we talked about that, that I was her ideal client customer. She knew immediately that this was for me and that when you're very, very clear on who it is that you serve, and who it is that you need to be in conversation with, that needs what you have. Then your messaging and the power behind what you do, and how you share the stories and the testimonials, or when you're talking to your friend or your new acquaintance.</p><p>So, I said, would that have been the same conversation if it was with my husband? She's saying, buy a pair of Lululemon workout pants. We'll, now he gets Lululemon because they make it for men and I put it in his closet, but Marianne went up, called him and said, Don, get over here. He's not her ideal person, right? So, this is what we did. Next is, we actually drew pictures, named our person and talked about these things. And when you're visualizing, and this is nothing new for you, marketers out there, avatar or whatever you want to call it, but I really wanted them to say, I have a friendship with your ideal person, or does she like to eat? What keeps her up at night and keeps her worried, or him or they, what is the last book that she read? Where does she want to go on vacation?</p><p>Where is her dream, dream? Dream destination for, if she could take her husband on another honeymoon, or where does she shop for her food? Does she go to Costco or whole foods or both? And what are her favorite kinds of shoes? What magazines, did I say all this? What's her favorite podcast? I hope it's, ‘You're Not the Boss of Me’. So, we talked about this person and we got very, very clear, and we named her, and we drew a picture, and we gave the details, because when you have the gratitude for the business and then you have the details of this person, of this woman, of this man, of whomever it is, your message gets aligned. Right? Then we also did another thing, because you know I can't just give strategy without activity, so I'm going to whip through some of these things and you'll have to catch the replay email. and I'll make sure that if you're on my list for the podcast, if you're subscribed and you've opted in to one of one of my email lists, I'll make sure that you get it. But another thing that we did was, we did the belief, we talked about who it was, but then I said, I want to give you a strategy that makes you feel really good about what it is that you're doing.</p><p>When you reach out, and this strategy that I love to use is, and it's genuine. If there's someone I want to talk to and share the details, and I think that hearing it might just open their eyes to what it is that I do. Like we talked about referrals and using referrals as a way to say to your friend, so I used an example of a friend of mine, who is a 10 like entrepreneur, someone who gets it, but had never looked at the Network Marketing thing. So, I said, you know, ‘Hey Sarah, can I borrow your brain for just a few minutes? Can you give me a time, I just need to borrow your brain? I want to get some feedback from you. I really, really respect your entrepreneurial journey and respect you professionally. Literally need just like 15 minutes of time.</p><p>So when you ask a referral for an idea of who do you know, you are also spreading that happy message of; look at what we have onto that referral that they might just say, ‘Hey, well that might make sense for me to take a look at. And I said, there's a lot of people on your chicken list that if you go referral, they might have a referral for you. But at the end of the conversation you could also say, ‘well wow, have you ever considered this’? Like hello residual income or whatever it is, working part time, making a full-time income, whatever that is that you're sharing, it might be for them. So, we talked about a strategy of using referrals because I want people that are working with me, I want you to be creating the energy and vibration and the space for the work to happen.</p><p>Having the gratitude around your business, but then taking some of this strategy and showing up and asking and talking and having conversations. And my big thing about scripts. Yes, some people are out there killing it with scripts, but I also think the people that are killing it with the scripts would kill it any other way. Meaning their energy is so high, their belief is so high. Their messaging is brief, it's spot on. But like we talked about in the beginning when I was talking about my friend, my new friend who said, I feel like people are just coming my way because she started to do the work. So, we also were doing, we did a breathing exercise, where at least six times during the day you lean your head back and did some breath work. I'll share a little bit more about that later on in another podcast, and we also did a little tapping exercise.</p><p>I'm new to tapping, but tapping on your forehead, that says I am here. Like when your focus starts to go breath and I am here. So that was one of the things that we did as well, was adding the breathing a little bit of the tapping, the I am here, and a lot of people are like, okay, I'll give this a go. And I had more people, more campers reach out to me about the breathwork and that I am here than anything else. So that was really, really cool. And then the rest of the week we worked on building on that foundation, staying in the gratitude, staying with the breath, staying with the stopping every, at least six to eight times and doing the breath work, using creative strategies that feel aligned with who we are to have those. And then we talked about what the personal customer funnel looked like.</p><p>How does it feel? The thing that is big is when you don't have clarity around how the messaging and how the flow of conversation goes, when it's just thrown out there, you know, blah blah blah, blah blah. Here's a video here. This, here's that. Oh my gosh, they want to order, what now? They have a question. What now? That confusion is not creating space for that new person to feel comfortable and aligned and ready to go with you. So that was a little bit about the Money YOUR Way boot camp, and we put it all together in the business journal. We kind of made it a full circle of how do you use this mindset work, the breath breathwork along with getting into activity? We made some lists of people that fit the ideal person. We talked about a lot of things over five days, as you can tell because I'm like trying to pack it in here on this podcast to get, because I like to keep these about 20-25 minutes.</p><p>So, at the end of the day, the Money YOUR Way boot camp, really, really showed us, and from the comments and the conversations, that were going on, it's more than just an action step. It’s more than just let me send 7,000 messages and see who bites. It's about really leaning into who do I serve, who can I help, how can I be of service? Having the work around holding space, the breath work and being in gratitude, your vibration. You guys, I keep saying that, but I'm super into feeling where I am in the day. It just comes up and then those messages are well received. It seems that people are coming to you and maybe you didn't even change that marketing strategy. You just changed your own way of being. Have you ever been around someone that's like super crazy and Oh my gosh, I'm crazy? I'm crazy. I'm crazy.</p><p>I'm crazy. And Awwwww - if feels so out of whack, like Oh my gosh, please let me just go over here in this corner. If you hear something, I'm recording at night and little Yogi snoring in the corner, so I didn't want to stop and edit. So, this is real life, dog snoring, me podcasting. We're like showing you the true colors here because normally I pull his rug out. So, I apologize for Yogi in advance, but most of you that see me live have heard me say, ‘Yogi, stop your snoring’. So, Yogi’s here snoring away. All right, so let me tell you about something. I'm really, really, really excited about what's happening for us. It’ really…after starting the podcast and working with my own team and also with private clients, it hit me that there was a need and I really felt not just a need but like a calling, so to speak.</p><p>Like I felt this energy around putting a group of women like we have over in Camp Elevate together and having a space for us to do this work. So. what I'm envisioning, and I know will happen because I know what content and what people were bringing together because I'm bringing in outside coaches along with what I'm doing. And I want you to imagine a business that is energetically aligned with your mission and your vision, right? A mindset that's unshakeable, a daily routine that doesn't have you glued to your inbox and the tools for you to grow and thrive with your business and life. So, all that stuff about how to effortlessly have leads coming your way and how to never talk to friends and family about your business and make a zillion dollars. And how to use Instagram to sign up 472 people in three minutes. I'm a little bit exaggerating there, but if you've known me for more than 10 minutes, you know that I'm about making some serious business moves, but also making a life.</p><p>Right? So. we're going to work on mindset. We're going to work on marketing strategies. We're going to work on rituals and routines. We're going to map it out. We're going to create the plan. We're going to have some accountability. We're going to read some beautiful things together. We are going to create a business. And if you're already a six-figure earner, then we're going to start to look at what's happening with your own network, with your team, and how can you help to keep them in that higher energy. And how do you keep yourself from being glued to your phone all the time but having massive success in your business and getting results. And how do you hang with this community of people that are here to uplift, inspire on days that you might not feel like it, helping you to raise it up and get into inspired action.</p><p>That is all about what aligns with you, with your message, what you share, who you actually want to be in business, not who someone else thinks that you should be. So. we're going to be doing this. It starts 2020 but we're open now for your application, because like I said before, this is a curated community of women who are doing the work together, so it's not just come on in. It is are you committed to doing the work? Are you committed to seeing if even if it doesn't feel like it's a natural thing for you? If this feels different, let's see how that rolls your business along. How you get the results we're going to like. It's not just all you know, fun and let's have some meditation woo time. We are going to have aligned, inspired and lots of action around what that two-month, three-month, four-month, six-month, and five-year goal will be, and it is going to be so incredibly, incredibly…</p><p>Gosh, what incredibly fun. I'm looking for this word because I'm so excited about this program, because I have been dreaming, planning and using these methods in these strategies for so many years. And finally, it's here. So, if you want to see if this is a fit for you, go on over to BethHoldenGraves.com./Profit. You can fill out the application, you can take a look at all that we're doing, and I cannot wait. If you have some questions for me, just pop them over in my Facebook inbox or over on Instagram and I'll be happy to set up a time to chat with you via zoom so we can talk about the program, see if it's a fit for you. All right you guys, so that was Money YOUR Way. I'm excited for ProfitHER Way. And I also want to just end with reading a couple of my favorite reviews from the week and I can't thank you guys enough for doing the subscribe, sending in the review.</p><p>That's what puts us up on Apple iTunes. That's what makes me happy. Makes me get on here. I mean it's, I thought it was so much later. It's only 10 30pm. I'm like, I'm doing this podcast. It's like one in the morning, it's only 10:30pm, at night. But when you're listening to this, I hope it's Monday morning at six or 7:00 AM when it first drops in. So, let's take a look at those reviews and then we will finish this up.</p><p>This review is from Bree Loves Fasting, and she says, wow, this is a five-star review. Thank you, Bree! And you guys have to check out Bree over an Instagram because she has a great feed and she says, <br />“Wow, I am so glad that I found this podcast at this point in my life. Timing is everything. If you haven't hit 40, still listen, your life is a reflection of your choices and programming. What do you want in life? This is a great resource to help you figure that out. Thank you for your energy, Beth. I can't wait to see how your journey unfolds.”</p><p>Well, thank you Brie, and I love seeing your journey as well, and I'm going to read one more. Oh, my goodness. This is from Joy is Vibrant. I love that name! And she says this, “This episode helped me realize that it is on my way. I need to believe on all levels that I deserve to be happy, have what I want, and be in all of the places I want to be. I do know what to do, and was for a while, but I stalled and cut out and shut down. Now I know I need to do the work and keep believing that I am worthy and deserving.</p><p>You are worthy and deserving Joy is Vibrant! And thank you for the five-star review! And I love when content, that was from the content that we had last week with Deserve Level Rising. When content really pushes people out there to say, ‘yes, yes, this is for me and I am going to do what it takes and I am back in action because I deserve it’, right? That vision has to be so strong. And revisit it, use your imagination, get into that quiet space.</p><p>And I'll end this episode with what we did in the last session of Money YOUR Way, is that I encouraged everyone to have in their routine that quiet space, whether it's meditation, devotion, or just sitting in a beautiful space in your brain for five minutes in the morning, and five minutes in the evening, to make sure that you always have that gratitude every single day. Your personal development read daily.</p><p>Write that down. And finally, for me, one of the most important things that I do every single day is I send a love letter, a love text. I send to somebody, gratitude and tell them why I'm so grateful for them. And what they have done for me, and that's something that I started to do. I heard it on a podcast. I think I'm on day 42 of it and it feels so good. So those are the little things that create big things that create big changes in your life. And I hope today you loved this episode. I love sharing with you and if you are over in that Money YOUR Way Camp Elevate challenge, I want to say thank you. Thank you for showing up. Thank you for your energy and thank you for being a part of this insanely amazing sisterhood and community. And if you're not there yet, I want to see you in Camp Elevate.</p><p>All right you guys, I'll see you next week. Thanks so much for listening. You go out there, and if you can dream it, and if you can feel it, and if you can journal about it, and imagine it, take that action, and just do it.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today and 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes. Every single week I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I enter you to win the, 'You're Not the Boss of Me' swag, so make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p><p> </p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Today I am so excited to share with you, a very special interview, with the amazing Kristin Crockett. Once upon a time, Kristin Crockett was living the American Dream – she was making all the money, she was top in sales in her career. She had the beautiful house, she had the husband, she had a beautiful family. Yet she was overweight, she wasn't feeling fulfilled, she felt this missing piece in her life. I think this is something that many women can relate to.</p><p> </p><p>I had just turned 40, I had gained a bunch of weight, I had never had a weight issue before. I decided to cut my hair. After cutting my hair, my husband, who is desperate to figure out what was going on with me. He thought to himself, what can I do to help my miserable wife be happy? So, he's like, what do you need? That's what we all want, somebody to ask our needs. And I said, I need hair extensions. Like that was my answer to why I wasn't happy. So, I went out and spent $2,500 on hair extensions. I looked good for about three days, and then my friends had to do an intervention after a month. My hair extensions were not the way to make me happy, and it wasn't how I ultimately found that contentment on the next piece of my journey.</p><p> </p><p>Kristen shares with us how to create the mindset to gain the success that we truly deserve, and to raise the bar on what we believe we deserve. It worked for Kristin, she lost over 80lbs, gained the personal freedom of self-expression, and expanded her confidence and courage.</p><p> </p><p>Keynotes discussed:</p><p> </p><p>I had the kids, I had the husband, but there was just something missing and I couldn't put my finger on it. (04:45)</p><p>My unconscious mind had its own itinerary. So when you've got this, almost like these two worlds that come together, it shows up in reality as resistance and it, for me it was resistance to action.  (13:20)</p><p>So when you get your magic wand out, you get to take that and just kind of silence that inner critic, and that's what the magic wand does. And then be able to say, well, this is what I'd actually really want.  (21:24)</p><p>So that's what I, I just today, let's all do something courageous that feels uncomfortable, that we know we should be doing. (28:31)</p><p>These are all these ideas that come to me when I wake up in the morning, and I keep a journal next to my bed because anytime I have an idea or something, you know, floats into my brain, I write it down. (32:20)</p><p> </p><p>Learn More About The Content Discussed...</p><p> </p><p>No Boss Talk:https://nobosstalk.com</p><p>Kristin Crockett on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DeserveLevelCoach</p><p>Kristen’s New Website: https://www.courageousdestiny.com</p><p>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:here</p><p>Beth’s Instagram:@bethholdengraves</p><p>Beth’s website:https://www.bethholdengraves.com</p><p>Profit HER Way Course:https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</p><p>Be sure to leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts and share it with a friend that would get some value!</p><p>Beth's website: https://www.bethholdengraves.com</p><p>Camp Elevate: https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate</p><p> </p><p>Episode Transcript…</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I'm your host Beth Graves, and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let's get started.</p><p>Let's get started. Welcome back. I am so excited. I have an incredible guest on this episode. Her name is Kristen Crockett and I am going to do a little intro and first of all, I love to tell people, because a huge thing about my life is I seem to get these awesome connections with women and it's because I always ask questions. So, a friend of mine, Yvonne, who gave me permission, met Kristin and started working with her and Deserve Coaching and I started to notice the shift with Yvonne. Like something was different, and I'm like, what are you doing? Like you know when someone has a new boyfriend or a new haircut or they've got something, she had this glow and I'm like Yvonne, like what is going on? Are you having good sex? Like what's the story?</p><p>She introduced me to Kristen and yeah, so I am going to just read it. It's almost reading, but I'm looking at her bio because Kristen, when I first talked to her, she was interviewing me for a book she's writing, which she'll share, and she said she had it all, the American dream. She was making all the money. She was top in sales in her career. She had the beautiful house, she had the husband, she had a beautiful family, yet she was overweight. She wasn't feeling fulfilled. She felt this missing piece in her life. I know I can relate. Kristen doesn't know the story. I'm going to have Kristen continue to share what she did from that moment. But I think this, many women will relate to. I had just turned 40 and I had gained a bunch of weight. I had never had a weight issue and I also decided to cut my hair.</p><p>And I'm looking at Kristen cause we're live together. She's got this adorable haircut, it is sassy. I cut my hair. So, I had gained weight. I cut my hair and my husband who is desperate to figure out what can I do to help my miserable wife be happy? So, he's like, what do you need? What do you need? Like that's what we want someone to ask our needs. And I was like, yeah, I need hair extensions. That was my answer to why I wasn't happy. So, I went out and spent $2,500 on hair extensions. I looked good for about three days and then my friends had to do an intervention after a month. Like this is not a good thing for you. So anyway, hair extensions were not the way to raise my Deserve level and it wasn't how I ultimately found that on that next piece of the journey. So, Kristen, hearing that, I'm sure you get clients that were in my position all the time. Can you share your story, your journey, and how you ended up leaving that corporate high paying job to help women just like me?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>Absolutely. So, I love the hair extension story. I think it's a really great illustration about something outside of me is going to make me feel better. Right? It's something else. It’s kind of circumstantial. Something is going to make me feel better. And for me, that's really where my story started. So, I had the beautiful home and it was gorgeous, you know, 4,800 square feet, so the granite counters and the warming trays and that, this and the that. And I loved my house, but it's like I bought all of the things that people who are incredibly successful buy, and I put them in a house, and I was terribly unhappy and didn't know why. I have everything, I have everything that I've ever wanted. And yet, you know, I had the kids, I had the husband, but there was just something missing and I couldn't put my finger on it and I just kept gaining more and more weight. I was overweight my whole life. So, it wasn't like a matter of a period in life or right after I had my kids, I had put on 80 pounds, you know, I had actually carried 80 pounds upwards of 20 plus years. And when I met my coach, I was almost 40, so that turning point in my life where the triplets were old enough that they didn't quite need me as much. They were five. So, of course they did.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I just have to pause. Did you hear that ladies out there? Triplets? I hear, I was on my bed crying and I had independent kids that were not triplets. This woman gave birth to three at once. Just want to point that out.</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>It was funny because that moment, because what was happening was for so long everything was one, two, three, one, two, three, one, two, three. You know, it's like change the diapers, make the bottles, do this, do that. There was no time to go, ‘Oh, who am I?’ You know, what is this world about? Why was I born? There was nothing like that in my life, you know. It was just one, two, three. And if I wasn't doing one, two, three, I was going to work and I was working at a technology organization and I just go, go, go. It was like at that hamster on the hamster wheel, you know, that just keeps spinning around.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>When did you go? So, one thing that comes to me there, and this is like off topic, is - don't you wish as a mom that's surviving motherhood and I know there's resources out there. I wish I had known about journaling and known about meditation and getting my brain in the right and even just the Breathe App for goodness sake. Putting that in while I was breastfeeding could have changed a lot. So, maybe it's because we're in a more evolved space that I think all moms know about those things, but that's something I always think, okay, what can I do today to contribute to someone else's life? And I have three young moms I'm thinking about, I'm just going to buy them the Breathe App for a year and say use this. Yeah. Okay. So, you're in this hamster wheel and you made a shift. Like, how did you come across the Deserve Coaching? Like how did it come across your plate?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>So I did a lot of complaining in those days and I complained to a woman that I work with and she was one of these women who, you know, seemingly on the outside just had it all, you know, she was a pilot, she was amazing at sales, she was a yoga instructor. She, there was just no limit to this woman. And I love that about her. I had a lot of respect and she was also incidentally one of those people that doesn't allow you to complain to her without giving you something to do about it. And I'm so grateful for that today, because right. What I complained to her, she's like, I'm going to give you something to do. I want you to call my brother and my brother's a coach.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh my gosh. Yes. Awesome. That's what I'm going to start doing when people start complaining to me, I'm just giving them your number. There you go. Okay, so you started on, that's a scary move for someone. And I know that our listeners, one of the big reasons that I asked you to come out and we were talking about your book, I ended up turning it into my own private coaching session. We never really got to the book, but one of the things leading a large group of women, that when I had a huge compelling reason, when I started in sales and even though it wasn't always comfortable for me to make those calls, get on the zoom, have gatherings in my house because you know, your house is never ready. The compelling reason was so strong that I didn't stop to consider what do other people think? Why shouldn't I do this? But when people get comfortable, like you are very comfortable, you're making the money, right? So, you obviously, your compelling reason for making that call was you felt like "Bleep"!</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>Right? Yeah. I really felt powerless. I mean, now I know, I didn't even know what that meant at the time, you know? But I felt powerless. I had, there was nothing that was going to change my life. In fact, my first call with my coach was, well, here you go. And I complained to him for a half an hour about how, you know, everybody out at work was against me. And you know, there was no time to eat healthy. And I can't even manage to brush my hair half the time when I'm getting the kids in the car and getting them out to school, let alone try to make an egg or prepare something healthy for myself. Are you kidding me? And so, I just, I had no power. I no power to change my life. And that is when after he listened, I don't think I've ever had anybody just listened to me. Like I just, Oh, like, I'm like, wow. And then he goes, okay, Kristen. He goes, I want you to consider something. He goes, we get in life what our unconscious mind beliefs we deserve.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>And wait, say it again. Because with bells and whistles. Say it again. We get in life…</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>We get in life what our unconscious mind believes we deserve.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>All right. And I want to like, I want to stop here because he gave you that message and I know I spent a lot of years calling bullshit on people like you and saying, Oh really? Come on. You just have to get in the game. You have to work hard; you have to do the thing. Like, and I used to say that about people. I would get up at five in the morning and run. I was at the gym; I was probably on the obsessive side of fitness. And my sister would say to me, don't be so quick to judge because you haven't been in the shoes of someone that is. And I got into those shoes when I had let the health side go. So, I used to always say, well, if they wanted it, it's almost like telling someone with a mental illness to just be happy.</p><p>Right? And so, when someone's feeling like getting out of bed in the morning and putting on their running shoes, like they're not springing up at every step out of bed is like walking across glass because it's so painful to take that action. Some people might say, well, that's just lazy. You've just got to do it. You've just got to do it. When suddenly this door is opening and evolving in my head of, they can't figure out how to do it. How is the subconscious mind playing into that story? I love to give strategies and solutions. I've spoken on stages about, all you do is put a hundred sticky notes on a wall and you move 10 a day, and Yvonne, who introduced me to you, she's like, yes, I know I need to move 10 a day. But me as a coach was like, well, why aren't you moving the 10 a day?</p><p>Which made me realize there's a reason and that's that subconscious mind. So how does that, you obviously went through the coaching you learned about the Deserve level and how to raise the Deserve level, right? So, somebody listening is like, okay, I know all the things. I have, all the checklists. I have all the diets. I mean, how many of us have bought $70,000 worth of diets? We even know what we need to do to get our marriages back on track, but we just don't freaking do it. And did the bell go off in your head that day when he said that about your subconscious mind, and can you explain a little bit behind the science about that?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>I would be happy to. So, when he said that, and you got to remember I had complained to him, I was in my own head and he woke me up like it was like bam, I'm up. It was the way he said it and I knew I could trust him instantly when he said that because of the way he said it. So, a little bit behind the science of Deserve level, it's our unconscious 5 percent of the way that we think. So, our unconscious mind has its own, you know, it's handling our actions. You know, a lot of people say, Oh well I'm on autopilot. It's like if you wake up at 3:00 AM and your alarm clock goes off and you're used to waking up at 5:00 AM every day, it's like, have you ever heard the stories where people are like, Oh my gosh, I got totally ready for work.</p><p>I got in my car and the next thing I know, I realized I had three more hours. I could have slept. Well. The unconscious mind takes over, right? Going through all the motions, and that's what controlling most of our actions is. Our unconscious mind. So consciously, I could look at an exercise program and I could go, Oh, well I know all the tricks. I've been on weight Watchers for 20 years of my life. You know, I know how much to eat. I know portion control. I know how to weigh food. I know how to exercise. I had been an athlete, but my unconscious mind viewed me as the big girl, just mine viewed me as somebody without self-discipline. My unconscious mind viewed me as somebody who was going to break every single rule that anybody who was a diet practitioner would give me. My unconscious mind had its own itinerary. So, when you've got this, almost like these two worlds that come together, it shows up in reality as resistance and it, for me it was resistance to action. Does that make sense?</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Yeah, because I resist authority.</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>Yes.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I’ve resisted authority, but I was always…they don't really know I'm resisting them unless they're smart. Like you are well trained in it, so let's take that. I know that. So, if you are coaching someone, because I think that before people, like I know that listeners are thinking, Oh my gosh, she's inside of my brain. They did. They like crawled inside of my private sacred space where I hold all my secrets. I want to tell you if you're listening, that even if you, you look at somebody that has it all together, they're winning, they've got the car, the house, the marriage, the job at any level of success this comes to play in order to get to the next step, the next step or two. I think it is for me right now.</p><p>When I started in 2014 it was hard for me to say I'm not happy because I didn't want to disappoint those people. My husband was like, how can you not be happy? Look at what we have. Or even my daughter came to me and said, mom, what you posted about 2014, like it makes it sound like you are sleeping in bed all day. We were a family. We were having fun. And to not disappoint those people to say I needed something more from me. And so that piece of it, but also there's so many people and women, and I'm thinking of one in particular, that she needs something more for herself and I keep giving her an action plan to take the steps. There's a big financial chaotic piece going on right now around money and there's no action being taken to make the money that they need.</p><p>So, the missing ingredient to me is the total and complete Deserve level that she's experiencing. So, if you were to, and this is you guys get ready…because what would be the first step of someone if they're like, I'm not quite ready to do some coaching. I know we're going to give everyone resources. There's a lot of free things that you provide if people aren't just wanting to learn and there's a book coming out. But what are you going to tell? I'm going to call her Mary, what will you tell Mary today who is looking at the sticky notes, or the action plan, or the phone, and she's just not doing it and she knows that it's in her hands? But it's just this or me eating, you know, two years ago, I know I'm not supposed to be eating this mint chocolate chip ice cream out of the carton at night, but you know, screw my trainer Amy because I'll start tomorrow and then I'll fool her Friday because I won't eat carbs for three days and she'll never know about the ice cream, when like Amy didn't care about the ice cream. All Amy wanted to do was help me achieve these goals as a nutrition and diet coach. So, like that's a lot that I just threw at you. But that's all. That's all people sabotaging success and happiness because of the crap in our brains, right?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>So, first thing that I would do is, give her to this person who knows not to eat the chocolate chip ice cream or knows not to do these things, but is doing them anyway. I give them my listening, you know, because I can listen beyond just the surface so I can hear where somebody’s ego becomes engaged. And the reason why I can share it so well is because I spent so much of my life in that place, and I worked really, really, really, really rigorously to get out of it. And I worked on really untangling my own ball of yarn in my unconscious mind, you know, and really weaving it out one decision at a time, that created all of the stories and contexts in my brain.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>So, I love that one decision at a time. So how does the work begin? How does Mary or Belinda or Danielle whoever, want to start with that one decision at a time? And I'm a true believer in this. I told you that before, my solution is to hire a coach. But you can't hire a coach and like build out. Let's say you want to build out a funnel to bring leads your way, but you don't do the work and you don't connect with the customers. Same thing here, but one decision at a time to raise that Deserve level that, yeah. Okay, I deserve to have a healthy, hot body and feel good about myself when I get dressed in the morning. How does somebody start? Like what do you do to start that process?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>Well, what I did to start was, obviously I did hire a coach because I hired Ed, and then after three months of working with Ed, I tripled my sales and lost my thirst 30 pounds. I'm like, ‘Oh my gosh, I got to be a coach. This is amazing’. So that's how I started. But you know, to start something like that is, I think it's really to identify what you want. Most people can't even identify a target of what they want because their unconscious mind already makes an impossible, you know, an example of this. And when they go to identify what they want, looking and observing what's in their way, you know? So, if I were to have said right when I began my Deserve level wasn't even high enough to be able to say I want to lose 85 pounds, that would have been like insane to me. I mean, my first instinct and my first conversation with my coach was, you know what, if I could just get my blood pressure down and I could feel good and I could lose 20 pounds, that would be good enough for me. You know? So, it's almost like to be able to identify your good enough's, where are you settling? Where am I settling in my life because I'm too afraid to even identify what I actually want.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>So, what is an exercise to help someone to identify what they actually want?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>Well, one of the things I do on an introductory call, you know, or what I like to call a Deserve level strategy session is I have people create this, which is a magic wand and I want that…I was holding up my index fingers, I forgot, people won't be able to see what I'm doing on podcasts, but it's ...</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Here's...I'm going to throw this out there is, I have an actual wand, just so you know,</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>I do too!</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh my gosh. See, I knew we were like sisters from another Mister I bought a wand and I was like; I will wave that wand around. I used to do it when my kids were toddlers. I'd be like, okay, you are going to be exceptional humans today, that cooperate and play and get along, wave, wave, wave. And they used to think I was crazy but it kind of worked. Now I wave it on myself. So, okay, so you've got your magic wand.</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>So, your magic wand. What your magic wand does is, it helps you get rid of that inner critic. You know, the one that's going to be saying, because I'll never forget my coach saying to me, well, you know, you only want to lose 20 pounds, but that's it. You don't ever want to be on a beach. You don't ever want to, you know, you don't ever want to wear a, I don't know, a bikini or this or that. And I'm like, and I remember saying this as plain as day, I'm like, Oh, well sure I'd really want that, but that's fricking impossible. I'm a mom of triplets. Are you kidding me? I'm never going to have a body like that. This body has been stretched out to 300 plus pounds. You know, there is no way that that would ever happen. Just hear all those decisions. Those are all unconscious. So, even just that as the first step. So, when you get your magic wand out, you get to take that and just kind of silence that inner critic and that's what the magic wand does. And then be able to say, well, this is what I'd actually really want. And if somebody, I don't care what that thing is by the way, that you want because if you look out into the world, if somebody else has it, the only thing that's between you and somebody else is your decisions on what's possible for you.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh my gosh! You guys write that down. Like that is huge. Go back click, you know, 15 seconds back, play it in half time, I listened to my podcasts at two times the speed because I need to get all the information. That is huge. And I have personally, on my own personal journey of, I don't know why this time, I just said, well it's available to me. Suddenly after I started the business at 47, it's available to me. And I think back to when I was at my fittest. It wasn't a, well I can't, it was of course I can. And so at those moments I didn't have the doubts, but then, you know, when I turned 50 I found myself saying, Oh well I'm 50 now, so my weight, my goal weights can be 20 pounds more or I don't want to live my life.</p><p>I had all of the excuses or the interference, it's kind of like if you're playing catch and then you've got like a six-foot ten-inch-tall basketball player interfering with that ball and that flow. That's how my mind works is I always envision him, he's really tall and he keeps grabbing my damn balls. Like I'm trying to throw them, and he keeps interfering and knocking them out of my hands. I will visually, I don't even know if this is Deserve level coaching, but this is like, I call it my Beth coaching method, is I literally will stand up and I will punch him and I will say get the F out of my way. I am going forward and I have to then put on some Beyonce and dance it out. Like that's kind of.</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>Yes.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>So, my block, you know, is I'm working on a project now for creating a program for women and my vision and my dream is to bring women together and give them the resources and the connections.</p><p>That's how this podcast was born. And I kept stopping with the production of the podcast because I kept thinking, well, there's already another podcast like that, or no one will listen. And that was obviously no. I had to take the interference dude and punch him. It'd be like, get out of my way. Because even if I share this, share Kristen today, that one person out there, hears this message and it's like I'm going to go to your website, I'm going to go to a free group. And one move is made, like one decision you guys, whether it's a humanitarian effort, whether it's just somebody that is in an abusive situation, they need to leave. Or maybe it's your like Kristen or me, that we are feeling powerless and we're like, you know, it sounds like a book; I was made for more, but to be okay with that.</p><p>So, we gave you a glimpse of what's inside the Deserve level coaching and Kristen, I know that they can find you, connect with you. I want you to give us all of those details. We'll also put them in the show notes. But if today someone is driving to work or they're at the gym and they're listening to this and I know I've listened to podcasts and I've cried thinking that's where I am, and they're not quite ready to make the move to call you, or reach out to you, or to, they want to consume. What can you tell that woman today that's at the gym or she's driving in her car and life feels like it's just fallen apart? Like what's your message for her today? You were there, what do you wish someone had said to you before that? You know you had someone say call my brother and then, and we don't plan these questions and I do it on purpose. So, Kristen's probably like, Whoa, these are harder than I thought. It's not the typical what is Deserve level coaching. But you've got an audience. I want you to think of that one person she's driving, her tears are streaming down her face and she's like, crap, are they talking to me? What is your message for her today?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>My message for her today. How my brand was born, my brand is Courageous Destiny. Okay. So, if you break apart, courage…cou means from the heart and then rage. So, from the heart rage, destiny, that's really what it means. And for that person who's in their car crying and feeling powerless, the way to grab your power back is to do something. So even though it's uncomfortable and it would be terrifying, then I would say challenge yourself to call me anyway because those are things that I actually understand. So, I wouldn't actually go to them and go, Oh, don't call me. It's okay. Do what's easy. I would say do what you're most afraid of first, and that will give you the most power. So, I would say call me.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love it. Yeah. And do, do what you're most afraid of first. And sometimes those are conversations and sometimes that's like going to the networking event alone or going to Bunco in your neighborhood. Even walking inside of, I'll tell you a quick story. My daughter, a brave move for her was walking inside of cycling class. She had never done it. She was on a health journey and when she got to college, she walked inside of a soul cycle, which was scary because like, I don’t know what's that, there's a movie where she falls off the soul cycle, but, someone message me on Instagram the name of the movie please, but it's a scary place to walk into. There's a lot of like perfection, and do you know how to get on the bike and clip yourself in, and whatever, it was that day that she decided, I'm going to make that brave move and walk through those doors of soul cycle and not worry about if I have the right outfit or if I know how to clip into the bike or if I know how to sign in.</p><p>These are all things I've said to myself. She walked in and that one decision, but it's the compound effect of meeting a community of really amazing humans, changing the trajectory of what her focus would be in her life, and also feeling empowered by this body of hers that was able to, to move and grow and do all these things. And it was, and I remember she said when we were moving her in to her dorm, I'm going to go to soul cycle and like you are? It's so brave, but it's sometimes just one move, one call, one, one moment of courage that propels that forward. And I hope that when you take that moment of courage today, whatever it is, whether it's calling Kristen or walking into that fitness class or walking into church again, or calling your mom because you feel this disconnect, I hope you're met with love and not resistance.</p><p>And even if you aren't met with love, that's okay too, because it's your step, right? So that's what I, just today, let's all do something courageous that feels uncomfortable, that we know we should be doing. And it might even be like sending a sexy text to your husband, and don't think, Oh, he's going to think this is weird. Did you do it when you were dating? Do you want to have a date night? Do you want to take your son bowling? Or you know, like all these things that come to my mind or make a brave call in your sales. So, do something courageous, because I love that you're courageous. Destiny is that push, right? So, tell us, yeah, that push, push, jump. Okay. If someone could take a look inside of your planner, are you digital or paper?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>Digital.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Okay. If someone could take a look inside of your planner, what is one thing that you do every single day that they would see that you do, and that is just a non-negotiable for you?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>They would see that I have 15 minutes a day that I raised my Deserve level and I journal.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh, non-negotiable. I love it. All right. I love to peek inside people's journals and their days and their daily plan. And Kristen, if someone wants to consume more of this and you, and learn more, where do they find you? Connect with you. Give us the goods.</p><p>Perfect. So, I do moderate a group on Facebook called the Deserve Level Movement. So that would be an excellent place for somebody to join. And I'm always posting in there and posting Facebook lives. We have other Deserve level coaches and training that are posting in there. Clients of mine, people who know the work or just want to make a difference in the world are posting in there. So, find me there. And then also, if on Facebook, I'm also doing the lives, friend me, you know, reach out to me, you know, just reach out to me. I will have a website coming up, actually next week. It's being created, CourageousDestiny.com, and that is where you will find other videos and eventually have subscriptions and things like that. All to support people living their courageous destiny.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love it, and we'll put all those links in the show notes below. And are you also on Instagram?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>I am not on Instagram. That's actually something that's on my to-do.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Well, we'll do that together because, and I'll share it out, because our listeners love to screenshot the episodes. So, screenshot the episode, tag me, and then I will make sure that we get that over to Facebook because you can also put it in your Facebook stories that you've been on this podcast. And I'm going to encourage you. So, I'll put in the show notes below that, how you can connect with Kristen, how you can get a part of her free community when this airs, the website will be live. So, we'll also add that website, and I just want to say thank you. I have notes. I have learned so much today from your wisdom and from you sharing your experience, and I just can't wait to make more connections and do the work along with our community.</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>Beautiful, beautiful. It's really been an honor to come onto this show today and I do feel like we're like soul sisters or something, Beth, it's awesome.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I know. I'm actually thinking that, hilarious. I'm going to do this today. If you leave us a five-star review over on iTunes and you'll let me know. I love to see it on Instagram or Facebook. I'm going to mail one person that's listening a wand. My favorite magic wand. Because I have extras. You get a magic wand today. I keep extras. I actually, yeah, I have some swag. I think that maybe a wand is going to have to be in my camp swag store. I have a camp store. These are all ideas that come to me that I wake up in the morning and I keep a journal next to my bed, because anytime I have an idea or something, you know, floats into my brain, I'd write it down and my husband will be like, you write in your sleep? I'm like, yeah, that's how ideas are born. That right brain side.</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>That’s how it gets created. If you don’t write it down, It's not real.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I have like an overabundance of right-brain. Alright you guys, thanks so much for being with us today. As always, I appreciate all of you and I want you to have that moment of courage. Share it out on Facebook. Let us know what it is so we can celebrate with you and we will catch you on the next episode.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on ‘You're Not the Boss of Me’. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So, leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I enter you to win the, ‘You're Not the Boss of Me’ swag. So, make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p><p> </p>
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      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today I am so excited to share with you, a very special interview, with the amazing Kristin Crockett. Once upon a time, Kristin Crockett was living the American Dream – she was making all the money, she was top in sales in her career. She had the beautiful house, she had the husband, she had a beautiful family. Yet she was overweight, she wasn't feeling fulfilled, she felt this missing piece in her life. I think this is something that many women can relate to.</p><p> </p><p>I had just turned 40, I had gained a bunch of weight, I had never had a weight issue before. I decided to cut my hair. After cutting my hair, my husband, who is desperate to figure out what was going on with me. He thought to himself, what can I do to help my miserable wife be happy? So, he's like, what do you need? That's what we all want, somebody to ask our needs. And I said, I need hair extensions. Like that was my answer to why I wasn't happy. So, I went out and spent $2,500 on hair extensions. I looked good for about three days, and then my friends had to do an intervention after a month. My hair extensions were not the way to make me happy, and it wasn't how I ultimately found that contentment on the next piece of my journey.</p><p> </p><p>Kristen shares with us how to create the mindset to gain the success that we truly deserve, and to raise the bar on what we believe we deserve. It worked for Kristin, she lost over 80lbs, gained the personal freedom of self-expression, and expanded her confidence and courage.</p><p> </p><p>Keynotes discussed:</p><p> </p><p>I had the kids, I had the husband, but there was just something missing and I couldn't put my finger on it. (04:45)</p><p>My unconscious mind had its own itinerary. So when you've got this, almost like these two worlds that come together, it shows up in reality as resistance and it, for me it was resistance to action.  (13:20)</p><p>So when you get your magic wand out, you get to take that and just kind of silence that inner critic, and that's what the magic wand does. And then be able to say, well, this is what I'd actually really want.  (21:24)</p><p>So that's what I, I just today, let's all do something courageous that feels uncomfortable, that we know we should be doing. (28:31)</p><p>These are all these ideas that come to me when I wake up in the morning, and I keep a journal next to my bed because anytime I have an idea or something, you know, floats into my brain, I write it down. (32:20)</p><p> </p><p>Learn More About The Content Discussed...</p><p> </p><p>No Boss Talk:https://nobosstalk.com</p><p>Kristin Crockett on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DeserveLevelCoach</p><p>Kristen’s New Website: https://www.courageousdestiny.com</p><p>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:here</p><p>Beth’s Instagram:@bethholdengraves</p><p>Beth’s website:https://www.bethholdengraves.com</p><p>Profit HER Way Course:https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</p><p>Be sure to leave a rating and review on Apple Podcasts and share it with a friend that would get some value!</p><p>Beth's website: https://www.bethholdengraves.com</p><p>Camp Elevate: https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate</p><p> </p><p>Episode Transcript…</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I'm your host Beth Graves, and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let's get started.</p><p>Let's get started. Welcome back. I am so excited. I have an incredible guest on this episode. Her name is Kristen Crockett and I am going to do a little intro and first of all, I love to tell people, because a huge thing about my life is I seem to get these awesome connections with women and it's because I always ask questions. So, a friend of mine, Yvonne, who gave me permission, met Kristin and started working with her and Deserve Coaching and I started to notice the shift with Yvonne. Like something was different, and I'm like, what are you doing? Like you know when someone has a new boyfriend or a new haircut or they've got something, she had this glow and I'm like Yvonne, like what is going on? Are you having good sex? Like what's the story?</p><p>She introduced me to Kristen and yeah, so I am going to just read it. It's almost reading, but I'm looking at her bio because Kristen, when I first talked to her, she was interviewing me for a book she's writing, which she'll share, and she said she had it all, the American dream. She was making all the money. She was top in sales in her career. She had the beautiful house, she had the husband, she had a beautiful family, yet she was overweight. She wasn't feeling fulfilled. She felt this missing piece in her life. I know I can relate. Kristen doesn't know the story. I'm going to have Kristen continue to share what she did from that moment. But I think this, many women will relate to. I had just turned 40 and I had gained a bunch of weight. I had never had a weight issue and I also decided to cut my hair.</p><p>And I'm looking at Kristen cause we're live together. She's got this adorable haircut, it is sassy. I cut my hair. So, I had gained weight. I cut my hair and my husband who is desperate to figure out what can I do to help my miserable wife be happy? So, he's like, what do you need? What do you need? Like that's what we want someone to ask our needs. And I was like, yeah, I need hair extensions. That was my answer to why I wasn't happy. So, I went out and spent $2,500 on hair extensions. I looked good for about three days and then my friends had to do an intervention after a month. Like this is not a good thing for you. So anyway, hair extensions were not the way to raise my Deserve level and it wasn't how I ultimately found that on that next piece of the journey. So, Kristen, hearing that, I'm sure you get clients that were in my position all the time. Can you share your story, your journey, and how you ended up leaving that corporate high paying job to help women just like me?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>Absolutely. So, I love the hair extension story. I think it's a really great illustration about something outside of me is going to make me feel better. Right? It's something else. It’s kind of circumstantial. Something is going to make me feel better. And for me, that's really where my story started. So, I had the beautiful home and it was gorgeous, you know, 4,800 square feet, so the granite counters and the warming trays and that, this and the that. And I loved my house, but it's like I bought all of the things that people who are incredibly successful buy, and I put them in a house, and I was terribly unhappy and didn't know why. I have everything, I have everything that I've ever wanted. And yet, you know, I had the kids, I had the husband, but there was just something missing and I couldn't put my finger on it and I just kept gaining more and more weight. I was overweight my whole life. So, it wasn't like a matter of a period in life or right after I had my kids, I had put on 80 pounds, you know, I had actually carried 80 pounds upwards of 20 plus years. And when I met my coach, I was almost 40, so that turning point in my life where the triplets were old enough that they didn't quite need me as much. They were five. So, of course they did.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I just have to pause. Did you hear that ladies out there? Triplets? I hear, I was on my bed crying and I had independent kids that were not triplets. This woman gave birth to three at once. Just want to point that out.</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>It was funny because that moment, because what was happening was for so long everything was one, two, three, one, two, three, one, two, three. You know, it's like change the diapers, make the bottles, do this, do that. There was no time to go, ‘Oh, who am I?’ You know, what is this world about? Why was I born? There was nothing like that in my life, you know. It was just one, two, three. And if I wasn't doing one, two, three, I was going to work and I was working at a technology organization and I just go, go, go. It was like at that hamster on the hamster wheel, you know, that just keeps spinning around.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>When did you go? So, one thing that comes to me there, and this is like off topic, is - don't you wish as a mom that's surviving motherhood and I know there's resources out there. I wish I had known about journaling and known about meditation and getting my brain in the right and even just the Breathe App for goodness sake. Putting that in while I was breastfeeding could have changed a lot. So, maybe it's because we're in a more evolved space that I think all moms know about those things, but that's something I always think, okay, what can I do today to contribute to someone else's life? And I have three young moms I'm thinking about, I'm just going to buy them the Breathe App for a year and say use this. Yeah. Okay. So, you're in this hamster wheel and you made a shift. Like, how did you come across the Deserve Coaching? Like how did it come across your plate?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>So I did a lot of complaining in those days and I complained to a woman that I work with and she was one of these women who, you know, seemingly on the outside just had it all, you know, she was a pilot, she was amazing at sales, she was a yoga instructor. She, there was just no limit to this woman. And I love that about her. I had a lot of respect and she was also incidentally one of those people that doesn't allow you to complain to her without giving you something to do about it. And I'm so grateful for that today, because right. What I complained to her, she's like, I'm going to give you something to do. I want you to call my brother and my brother's a coach.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh my gosh. Yes. Awesome. That's what I'm going to start doing when people start complaining to me, I'm just giving them your number. There you go. Okay, so you started on, that's a scary move for someone. And I know that our listeners, one of the big reasons that I asked you to come out and we were talking about your book, I ended up turning it into my own private coaching session. We never really got to the book, but one of the things leading a large group of women, that when I had a huge compelling reason, when I started in sales and even though it wasn't always comfortable for me to make those calls, get on the zoom, have gatherings in my house because you know, your house is never ready. The compelling reason was so strong that I didn't stop to consider what do other people think? Why shouldn't I do this? But when people get comfortable, like you are very comfortable, you're making the money, right? So, you obviously, your compelling reason for making that call was you felt like "Bleep"!</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>Right? Yeah. I really felt powerless. I mean, now I know, I didn't even know what that meant at the time, you know? But I felt powerless. I had, there was nothing that was going to change my life. In fact, my first call with my coach was, well, here you go. And I complained to him for a half an hour about how, you know, everybody out at work was against me. And you know, there was no time to eat healthy. And I can't even manage to brush my hair half the time when I'm getting the kids in the car and getting them out to school, let alone try to make an egg or prepare something healthy for myself. Are you kidding me? And so, I just, I had no power. I no power to change my life. And that is when after he listened, I don't think I've ever had anybody just listened to me. Like I just, Oh, like, I'm like, wow. And then he goes, okay, Kristen. He goes, I want you to consider something. He goes, we get in life what our unconscious mind beliefs we deserve.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>And wait, say it again. Because with bells and whistles. Say it again. We get in life…</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>We get in life what our unconscious mind believes we deserve.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>All right. And I want to like, I want to stop here because he gave you that message and I know I spent a lot of years calling bullshit on people like you and saying, Oh really? Come on. You just have to get in the game. You have to work hard; you have to do the thing. Like, and I used to say that about people. I would get up at five in the morning and run. I was at the gym; I was probably on the obsessive side of fitness. And my sister would say to me, don't be so quick to judge because you haven't been in the shoes of someone that is. And I got into those shoes when I had let the health side go. So, I used to always say, well, if they wanted it, it's almost like telling someone with a mental illness to just be happy.</p><p>Right? And so, when someone's feeling like getting out of bed in the morning and putting on their running shoes, like they're not springing up at every step out of bed is like walking across glass because it's so painful to take that action. Some people might say, well, that's just lazy. You've just got to do it. You've just got to do it. When suddenly this door is opening and evolving in my head of, they can't figure out how to do it. How is the subconscious mind playing into that story? I love to give strategies and solutions. I've spoken on stages about, all you do is put a hundred sticky notes on a wall and you move 10 a day, and Yvonne, who introduced me to you, she's like, yes, I know I need to move 10 a day. But me as a coach was like, well, why aren't you moving the 10 a day?</p><p>Which made me realize there's a reason and that's that subconscious mind. So how does that, you obviously went through the coaching you learned about the Deserve level and how to raise the Deserve level, right? So, somebody listening is like, okay, I know all the things. I have, all the checklists. I have all the diets. I mean, how many of us have bought $70,000 worth of diets? We even know what we need to do to get our marriages back on track, but we just don't freaking do it. And did the bell go off in your head that day when he said that about your subconscious mind, and can you explain a little bit behind the science about that?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>I would be happy to. So, when he said that, and you got to remember I had complained to him, I was in my own head and he woke me up like it was like bam, I'm up. It was the way he said it and I knew I could trust him instantly when he said that because of the way he said it. So, a little bit behind the science of Deserve level, it's our unconscious 5 percent of the way that we think. So, our unconscious mind has its own, you know, it's handling our actions. You know, a lot of people say, Oh well I'm on autopilot. It's like if you wake up at 3:00 AM and your alarm clock goes off and you're used to waking up at 5:00 AM every day, it's like, have you ever heard the stories where people are like, Oh my gosh, I got totally ready for work.</p><p>I got in my car and the next thing I know, I realized I had three more hours. I could have slept. Well. The unconscious mind takes over, right? Going through all the motions, and that's what controlling most of our actions is. Our unconscious mind. So consciously, I could look at an exercise program and I could go, Oh, well I know all the tricks. I've been on weight Watchers for 20 years of my life. You know, I know how much to eat. I know portion control. I know how to weigh food. I know how to exercise. I had been an athlete, but my unconscious mind viewed me as the big girl, just mine viewed me as somebody without self-discipline. My unconscious mind viewed me as somebody who was going to break every single rule that anybody who was a diet practitioner would give me. My unconscious mind had its own itinerary. So, when you've got this, almost like these two worlds that come together, it shows up in reality as resistance and it, for me it was resistance to action. Does that make sense?</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Yeah, because I resist authority.</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>Yes.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I’ve resisted authority, but I was always…they don't really know I'm resisting them unless they're smart. Like you are well trained in it, so let's take that. I know that. So, if you are coaching someone, because I think that before people, like I know that listeners are thinking, Oh my gosh, she's inside of my brain. They did. They like crawled inside of my private sacred space where I hold all my secrets. I want to tell you if you're listening, that even if you, you look at somebody that has it all together, they're winning, they've got the car, the house, the marriage, the job at any level of success this comes to play in order to get to the next step, the next step or two. I think it is for me right now.</p><p>When I started in 2014 it was hard for me to say I'm not happy because I didn't want to disappoint those people. My husband was like, how can you not be happy? Look at what we have. Or even my daughter came to me and said, mom, what you posted about 2014, like it makes it sound like you are sleeping in bed all day. We were a family. We were having fun. And to not disappoint those people to say I needed something more from me. And so that piece of it, but also there's so many people and women, and I'm thinking of one in particular, that she needs something more for herself and I keep giving her an action plan to take the steps. There's a big financial chaotic piece going on right now around money and there's no action being taken to make the money that they need.</p><p>So, the missing ingredient to me is the total and complete Deserve level that she's experiencing. So, if you were to, and this is you guys get ready…because what would be the first step of someone if they're like, I'm not quite ready to do some coaching. I know we're going to give everyone resources. There's a lot of free things that you provide if people aren't just wanting to learn and there's a book coming out. But what are you going to tell? I'm going to call her Mary, what will you tell Mary today who is looking at the sticky notes, or the action plan, or the phone, and she's just not doing it and she knows that it's in her hands? But it's just this or me eating, you know, two years ago, I know I'm not supposed to be eating this mint chocolate chip ice cream out of the carton at night, but you know, screw my trainer Amy because I'll start tomorrow and then I'll fool her Friday because I won't eat carbs for three days and she'll never know about the ice cream, when like Amy didn't care about the ice cream. All Amy wanted to do was help me achieve these goals as a nutrition and diet coach. So, like that's a lot that I just threw at you. But that's all. That's all people sabotaging success and happiness because of the crap in our brains, right?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>So, first thing that I would do is, give her to this person who knows not to eat the chocolate chip ice cream or knows not to do these things, but is doing them anyway. I give them my listening, you know, because I can listen beyond just the surface so I can hear where somebody’s ego becomes engaged. And the reason why I can share it so well is because I spent so much of my life in that place, and I worked really, really, really, really rigorously to get out of it. And I worked on really untangling my own ball of yarn in my unconscious mind, you know, and really weaving it out one decision at a time, that created all of the stories and contexts in my brain.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>So, I love that one decision at a time. So how does the work begin? How does Mary or Belinda or Danielle whoever, want to start with that one decision at a time? And I'm a true believer in this. I told you that before, my solution is to hire a coach. But you can't hire a coach and like build out. Let's say you want to build out a funnel to bring leads your way, but you don't do the work and you don't connect with the customers. Same thing here, but one decision at a time to raise that Deserve level that, yeah. Okay, I deserve to have a healthy, hot body and feel good about myself when I get dressed in the morning. How does somebody start? Like what do you do to start that process?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>Well, what I did to start was, obviously I did hire a coach because I hired Ed, and then after three months of working with Ed, I tripled my sales and lost my thirst 30 pounds. I'm like, ‘Oh my gosh, I got to be a coach. This is amazing’. So that's how I started. But you know, to start something like that is, I think it's really to identify what you want. Most people can't even identify a target of what they want because their unconscious mind already makes an impossible, you know, an example of this. And when they go to identify what they want, looking and observing what's in their way, you know? So, if I were to have said right when I began my Deserve level wasn't even high enough to be able to say I want to lose 85 pounds, that would have been like insane to me. I mean, my first instinct and my first conversation with my coach was, you know what, if I could just get my blood pressure down and I could feel good and I could lose 20 pounds, that would be good enough for me. You know? So, it's almost like to be able to identify your good enough's, where are you settling? Where am I settling in my life because I'm too afraid to even identify what I actually want.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>So, what is an exercise to help someone to identify what they actually want?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>Well, one of the things I do on an introductory call, you know, or what I like to call a Deserve level strategy session is I have people create this, which is a magic wand and I want that…I was holding up my index fingers, I forgot, people won't be able to see what I'm doing on podcasts, but it's ...</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Here's...I'm going to throw this out there is, I have an actual wand, just so you know,</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>I do too!</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh my gosh. See, I knew we were like sisters from another Mister I bought a wand and I was like; I will wave that wand around. I used to do it when my kids were toddlers. I'd be like, okay, you are going to be exceptional humans today, that cooperate and play and get along, wave, wave, wave. And they used to think I was crazy but it kind of worked. Now I wave it on myself. So, okay, so you've got your magic wand.</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>So, your magic wand. What your magic wand does is, it helps you get rid of that inner critic. You know, the one that's going to be saying, because I'll never forget my coach saying to me, well, you know, you only want to lose 20 pounds, but that's it. You don't ever want to be on a beach. You don't ever want to, you know, you don't ever want to wear a, I don't know, a bikini or this or that. And I'm like, and I remember saying this as plain as day, I'm like, Oh, well sure I'd really want that, but that's fricking impossible. I'm a mom of triplets. Are you kidding me? I'm never going to have a body like that. This body has been stretched out to 300 plus pounds. You know, there is no way that that would ever happen. Just hear all those decisions. Those are all unconscious. So, even just that as the first step. So, when you get your magic wand out, you get to take that and just kind of silence that inner critic and that's what the magic wand does. And then be able to say, well, this is what I'd actually really want. And if somebody, I don't care what that thing is by the way, that you want because if you look out into the world, if somebody else has it, the only thing that's between you and somebody else is your decisions on what's possible for you.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh my gosh! You guys write that down. Like that is huge. Go back click, you know, 15 seconds back, play it in half time, I listened to my podcasts at two times the speed because I need to get all the information. That is huge. And I have personally, on my own personal journey of, I don't know why this time, I just said, well it's available to me. Suddenly after I started the business at 47, it's available to me. And I think back to when I was at my fittest. It wasn't a, well I can't, it was of course I can. And so at those moments I didn't have the doubts, but then, you know, when I turned 50 I found myself saying, Oh well I'm 50 now, so my weight, my goal weights can be 20 pounds more or I don't want to live my life.</p><p>I had all of the excuses or the interference, it's kind of like if you're playing catch and then you've got like a six-foot ten-inch-tall basketball player interfering with that ball and that flow. That's how my mind works is I always envision him, he's really tall and he keeps grabbing my damn balls. Like I'm trying to throw them, and he keeps interfering and knocking them out of my hands. I will visually, I don't even know if this is Deserve level coaching, but this is like, I call it my Beth coaching method, is I literally will stand up and I will punch him and I will say get the F out of my way. I am going forward and I have to then put on some Beyonce and dance it out. Like that's kind of.</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>Yes.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>So, my block, you know, is I'm working on a project now for creating a program for women and my vision and my dream is to bring women together and give them the resources and the connections.</p><p>That's how this podcast was born. And I kept stopping with the production of the podcast because I kept thinking, well, there's already another podcast like that, or no one will listen. And that was obviously no. I had to take the interference dude and punch him. It'd be like, get out of my way. Because even if I share this, share Kristen today, that one person out there, hears this message and it's like I'm going to go to your website, I'm going to go to a free group. And one move is made, like one decision you guys, whether it's a humanitarian effort, whether it's just somebody that is in an abusive situation, they need to leave. Or maybe it's your like Kristen or me, that we are feeling powerless and we're like, you know, it sounds like a book; I was made for more, but to be okay with that.</p><p>So, we gave you a glimpse of what's inside the Deserve level coaching and Kristen, I know that they can find you, connect with you. I want you to give us all of those details. We'll also put them in the show notes. But if today someone is driving to work or they're at the gym and they're listening to this and I know I've listened to podcasts and I've cried thinking that's where I am, and they're not quite ready to make the move to call you, or reach out to you, or to, they want to consume. What can you tell that woman today that's at the gym or she's driving in her car and life feels like it's just fallen apart? Like what's your message for her today? You were there, what do you wish someone had said to you before that? You know you had someone say call my brother and then, and we don't plan these questions and I do it on purpose. So, Kristen's probably like, Whoa, these are harder than I thought. It's not the typical what is Deserve level coaching. But you've got an audience. I want you to think of that one person she's driving, her tears are streaming down her face and she's like, crap, are they talking to me? What is your message for her today?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>My message for her today. How my brand was born, my brand is Courageous Destiny. Okay. So, if you break apart, courage…cou means from the heart and then rage. So, from the heart rage, destiny, that's really what it means. And for that person who's in their car crying and feeling powerless, the way to grab your power back is to do something. So even though it's uncomfortable and it would be terrifying, then I would say challenge yourself to call me anyway because those are things that I actually understand. So, I wouldn't actually go to them and go, Oh, don't call me. It's okay. Do what's easy. I would say do what you're most afraid of first, and that will give you the most power. So, I would say call me.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love it. Yeah. And do, do what you're most afraid of first. And sometimes those are conversations and sometimes that's like going to the networking event alone or going to Bunco in your neighborhood. Even walking inside of, I'll tell you a quick story. My daughter, a brave move for her was walking inside of cycling class. She had never done it. She was on a health journey and when she got to college, she walked inside of a soul cycle, which was scary because like, I don’t know what's that, there's a movie where she falls off the soul cycle, but, someone message me on Instagram the name of the movie please, but it's a scary place to walk into. There's a lot of like perfection, and do you know how to get on the bike and clip yourself in, and whatever, it was that day that she decided, I'm going to make that brave move and walk through those doors of soul cycle and not worry about if I have the right outfit or if I know how to clip into the bike or if I know how to sign in.</p><p>These are all things I've said to myself. She walked in and that one decision, but it's the compound effect of meeting a community of really amazing humans, changing the trajectory of what her focus would be in her life, and also feeling empowered by this body of hers that was able to, to move and grow and do all these things. And it was, and I remember she said when we were moving her in to her dorm, I'm going to go to soul cycle and like you are? It's so brave, but it's sometimes just one move, one call, one, one moment of courage that propels that forward. And I hope that when you take that moment of courage today, whatever it is, whether it's calling Kristen or walking into that fitness class or walking into church again, or calling your mom because you feel this disconnect, I hope you're met with love and not resistance.</p><p>And even if you aren't met with love, that's okay too, because it's your step, right? So that's what I, just today, let's all do something courageous that feels uncomfortable, that we know we should be doing. And it might even be like sending a sexy text to your husband, and don't think, Oh, he's going to think this is weird. Did you do it when you were dating? Do you want to have a date night? Do you want to take your son bowling? Or you know, like all these things that come to my mind or make a brave call in your sales. So, do something courageous, because I love that you're courageous. Destiny is that push, right? So, tell us, yeah, that push, push, jump. Okay. If someone could take a look inside of your planner, are you digital or paper?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>Digital.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Okay. If someone could take a look inside of your planner, what is one thing that you do every single day that they would see that you do, and that is just a non-negotiable for you?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>They would see that I have 15 minutes a day that I raised my Deserve level and I journal.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh, non-negotiable. I love it. All right. I love to peek inside people's journals and their days and their daily plan. And Kristen, if someone wants to consume more of this and you, and learn more, where do they find you? Connect with you. Give us the goods.</p><p>Perfect. So, I do moderate a group on Facebook called the Deserve Level Movement. So that would be an excellent place for somebody to join. And I'm always posting in there and posting Facebook lives. We have other Deserve level coaches and training that are posting in there. Clients of mine, people who know the work or just want to make a difference in the world are posting in there. So, find me there. And then also, if on Facebook, I'm also doing the lives, friend me, you know, reach out to me, you know, just reach out to me. I will have a website coming up, actually next week. It's being created, CourageousDestiny.com, and that is where you will find other videos and eventually have subscriptions and things like that. All to support people living their courageous destiny.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I love it, and we'll put all those links in the show notes below. And are you also on Instagram?</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>I am not on Instagram. That's actually something that's on my to-do.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>Well, we'll do that together because, and I'll share it out, because our listeners love to screenshot the episodes. So, screenshot the episode, tag me, and then I will make sure that we get that over to Facebook because you can also put it in your Facebook stories that you've been on this podcast. And I'm going to encourage you. So, I'll put in the show notes below that, how you can connect with Kristen, how you can get a part of her free community when this airs, the website will be live. So, we'll also add that website, and I just want to say thank you. I have notes. I have learned so much today from your wisdom and from you sharing your experience, and I just can't wait to make more connections and do the work along with our community.</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>Beautiful, beautiful. It's really been an honor to come onto this show today and I do feel like we're like soul sisters or something, Beth, it's awesome.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I know. I'm actually thinking that, hilarious. I'm going to do this today. If you leave us a five-star review over on iTunes and you'll let me know. I love to see it on Instagram or Facebook. I'm going to mail one person that's listening a wand. My favorite magic wand. Because I have extras. You get a magic wand today. I keep extras. I actually, yeah, I have some swag. I think that maybe a wand is going to have to be in my camp swag store. I have a camp store. These are all ideas that come to me that I wake up in the morning and I keep a journal next to my bed, because anytime I have an idea or something, you know, floats into my brain, I'd write it down and my husband will be like, you write in your sleep? I'm like, yeah, that's how ideas are born. That right brain side.</p><p>Kristen:</p><p>That’s how it gets created. If you don’t write it down, It's not real.</p><p>Beth:</p><p>I have like an overabundance of right-brain. Alright you guys, thanks so much for being with us today. As always, I appreciate all of you and I want you to have that moment of courage. Share it out on Facebook. Let us know what it is so we can celebrate with you and we will catch you on the next episode.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on ‘You're Not the Boss of Me’. I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five-star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So, leave me a five-star review, and when you do, I enter you to win the, ‘You're Not the Boss of Me’ swag. So, make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p><p> </p>
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I had just turned 40, I had gained a bunch of weight, I had never had a weight issue before. I decided to cut my hair. After cutting my hair, my husband, who is desperate to figure out what was going on with me. He thought to himself, what can I do to help my miserable wife be happy? So, he&apos;s like, what do you need? That&apos;s what we all want, somebody to ask our needs. And I said, I need hair extensions. Like that was my answer to why I wasn&apos;t happy. So, I went out and spent $2,500 on hair extensions. I looked good for about three days, and then my friends had to do an intervention after a month. My hair extensions were not the way to make me happy, and it wasn&apos;t how I ultimately found that contentment on the next piece of my journey.

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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Today I am super excited to share a solo episode with you. You are going to walk away with one thing that you can do today, that I promise you is going to help you to not only profit in your business, but profit in your marriages, your parenting, and your friendships. I will be sharing a few insights that I have learned in business and my personal life, as well as a powerful message from the book ‘The Compound Effect’ by Darren Hardy. Life principles and skills that when you apply over time, you will live a better life, be a better parent, a better business owner, a better human, and be given the ability to make an impact in the world around you.</p><p><strong>Keynotes discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>These are the life principles and skills that when you apply over time, you live a better life, a better parent, a better business owner, a better human, and we make an impact. (04:35)</li><li>Try it for three days, seven days, eight days. But wouldn't it be cool to look back and say, I did that every single day. I don't even care what it is. Just one consistent action. (09:53)</li><li>So, I have to grow me and I'm working with someone that makes $250,000 a month so that I can learn the systems, routines, the rituals of that successful person. (15:50)</li><li>I just do it in a way that feels aligned with who I am because I truly believe that I can help. (19:55)</li><li>When you start to make these small changes, they compound, they snowball, they become so big, and then you become contagious. (22:17)</li></ul><p><strong>Learn More About The Content Discussed...</strong></p><ul><li>No Boss Talk:<a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></li><li>Darren Hardy’s Book: <a href="https://darrenhardy.com/the-compound-effect">https://darrenhardy.com/the-compound-effect</a></li><li>Episode With Glenn Lundy: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/rise-and-grind/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/rise-and-grind</a></li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">here</a></li><li>Beth’s Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth’s website:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profitherway">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profitherway</a></li></ul><p>Be sure to leave a rating and review on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1475175551">Apple Podcasts</a> and share it with a friend that would get some value!</p><p>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate</a></p><p><strong>Episode Transcript...</strong></p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I'm your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let's get started.</p><p>Hey, Hey friends! Welcome back! Super excited for a solo episode today. You are listening to 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. My name is Beth Graves and I am so grateful and thankful for all of your shout outs on my Instagram stories. DM me, I love it. And before we get started with today's episode, what you are going to walk away with, is one thing that you can do today, that I promise you is going to help you to not only profit in your business but profit in your marriages, and your parenting, or in your friendships. So stay with me because it's a short episode, but I've got the goods I'm bringing to you today. I first want to read one of our five star reviews. If I read your review, I will send you a Boss hat. I don't always know who it is because of the way the name shows up, so if anybody knows this review today, it's Pepsi, B Broyle, Pepsi, B Broyle.</p><p>He left this review. I love when a guy leaves a review because you're going to love what he has to say, like this dude is cool. So whoever you are, cool dude, let me know. DM me, send me an email, however you can reach out so I can get you your Boss hat. He says, even guys will love this. "Being a guy, I wasn't sure if Beth's podcast was for me. Episode one set the stage with empowering women to achieve their goals. With three young daughters and a talented wife", I love this guy already. "I'm always in full agreement with the encouragement, however, I wasn't sure if she was going to be able to talk to my heart's needs in the entrepreneurial world. Boy, I was wrong. Episode two, blew me away with how she seemed to be speaking right to me. Now I'm excited to hear how to balance life with family, while creating all that I crave".</p><p>My family is my why, and I'm eager to make sure they always come first before the next rank, our trip earned. I know Beth understands that priority and is ready to give advice from her vast experience. I'm all in Beth, I can't wait to listen to the rest of what you feel led to share". I have a feeling that this might be my friend Cliff Roy. Let me know Cliff, if it is you, because I know you have three young daughters and I know you have a powerful wife. So if it's you, I've got a Boss hat for you, or if it's someone else, let me know over on the DM. These reviews and downloads and screenshots of stories, they make all the difference in the world for our message. Getting out there with 'You're Not the Boss of Me', and empowering one another to go out and just do that one thing.</p><p>All right, so here we go. Today's episode. I didn't want to say the C word because I thought, oh, they're just going to be like, nope, not this podcast. Because I'm not preaching consistency. But yes I am. And I want to start with a little story about consistency and the compound effect over time. And if you have not added The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy to your audible lists, or to your nightstand, this is a book that I read each and every year, and it's also a book. I'll put a link in the show notes below. It's also a book that I love to listen to in the car while my 15 year old son Donny is driving with me, because these are the life principles and skills that when you apply over time, you live a better life, a better parent, a better business owner, a better human, and we make an impact.</p><p>So obviously we know what compounding interest is, right? So what Darren Hardy talks about is that the little decisions and choices that we make consistently can be huge for the long term. Okay, so we talk about quick fixes and we talk about how to hack formulas. We talk about quick weight loss and all of those things, and we know there's no magic bullet. We know there's no magic pill, there's no secret, there's just that long term consistency that wins, and that is truly how you are going to grow your business. And make sure that you don't drop those glass balls. And I want to give you an example of your teeth, okay? You brush your teeth every day, twice a day, two minutes. You go to the dentist every six months. If you only did the one thing of going to the dentist every six months, your teeth are going to fall out of your head.</p><p>The same thing with going to the gym, okay? I got up this morning guys. I'm like first day of the new year because my birthday was yesterday. I love my birthday. I love birthdays. I love hearing from people. I love getting flowers. I love getting gifts. I'm not one of those people that's like, Oh, I don't like the attention. I love my birthday. I was in such a high vibrational state yesterday. I literally manifested six messages from people that I'd been thinking, I want to hear from a person. Just like this, it was so cool. So cool when you get yourself into that. And that's going to be an episode; into that high vibrational state. However, it's the consistency over time that allows us to be at that higher level, and when we are there, when we are at that level of nobody can get in the way of my glittery, sparkly, happy existence today.</p><p>It's the work that we've done every day. So when I got up at 4:45, I went to the gym after showering. Did I look in the mirror and be like, wow, that gym trip certainly changed your life. You are showing results. No, it's gotta be, we know this. This is like baby stuff. We all know it. We've known it since we were 13, it's every single day what we do. But what happens is life gets busy, life gets challenging. Our brain gets in the way and we start telling ourselves these stupid stories and they stop us from growing in our business and in our life. Okay, so I want to talk to you about something that happened in my courting days with Don. You hear about love at first sight. You have this big moment. We were sitting at dinner, and he was literally the first guy I dated.</p><p>I had a failed first marriage. A lot of people don't know that, and I say that because, gosh, I learned a lot from the age of 23 to 28, I was kind of a spoiled rotten self obsessed person. I think we both were, there were no kids, so it's an easy split to the marriage. But I say that because we all have failures and I used to hide it. I used to be like, Oh, I don't want people to know that, but I'm proud of that because I'm proud of having that experience. That allowed me to go into a marriage with a different mindset with a new person. That's the compound effect, because first of all, just like business, I made the decision that I was going to do the work every single day to make sure that we stayed in that, with that love state, if that makes sense.</p><p>So while you're dating someone, it's the little things that make you say, this is my person. And one of the things that he used to do, and I need to remind him of this, I talked about this on our morning call. We have a morning motivation call every morning for our team. And I talked about one of the things that I loved, was every time I would come home, I was teaching at the time, and I would come into the house, we would spend some extended periods of time together and I would open the fridge. And this is, you know, before I stopped with this nasty habit of drinking soda every day, there would be a can of diet Coke with a York peppermint Patty right there on top of it. Just a little like, here you go. I was thinking about you while I was out today, and that made me smile every day.</p><p>Those little gestures. So you look at that in your business and you think about the Darren Hardy quote, which is "The accomplishment of any goal is the progressive accumulation or compound effect of small steps taken consistently over time". We know this to be true, yet we don't do it in certain areas of life. So I encourage you today to look at one tiny little thing that you could do every single day, from now until the end of 2020, like one thing for each area of your life. I want you to journal about it. I mean try it for three days, seven days, eight days. But wouldn't it be cool to look back and say? I did that every single day. I don't even care what it is. Just one consistent action. What about your health? What's one thing that you could do every single day that would move your health forward?</p><p>Not one big, and I'm so guilty of this, like I'm all in. I'm all in, I'm running the marathon, I'm doing it, I'm doing it. And, and then fizzle. But what if I had committed every single day to just walk, run, walk, run, walk, run for 20 minutes? And I did that for 20 years. That consistency over time is what adds to this magical life. The consistency. So what are we going to do for our foundation, for our personal development for that time? And I talk about it all the time. It's the sacred rituals, that water the garden we can't grow without. For me and for everyone, I believe it's meditation. Devotion. It's setting the intention, the prayers, the devotions, the meditation, every day. Can you consistently commit to 15 minutes a day of that? Or would it be journaling? What about seven straight days of gratitude?</p><p>What about if you did personal development, a podcast, 15 minutes, something every single day? But if you say, I'm going to do a podcast, I'm going to do gratitude, and do my meditation. I'm doing my super attractor journal with Gabby Bernstein. Oh, how I love my Gabby Bernstein supertracker journal. Just a side note. I'm obsessed. Go get the audible book, you guys. You know I love to get you, like all into the things I'm into, so we can chat about it together. What if you made one commitment that could shift your entire life? That morning routine will shift your entire life? You heard about it on the episode with Glenn Lundy. If you don't remember that episode, just go back. Actually I'll even put that down in the show notes below. So one decision, one decision for your health. Perhaps it's 15 minutes of walking every day. Perhaps it's 10 pushups.</p><p>Perhaps it's eating in one day more a week. There's this part in, I kind of embellish this part of the compound effect . Darren Hardy talks about this one dude comes home from work every day. His wife is, maybe she's working a online business and she been working all day and the kids are young and it's a little chaotic and frazzled and he comes in, he grabs a bag of Doritos from the closet. I'm embellishing a bit. I'm so sorry Darren Hardy. I'm kind of creating from a story you told in that book. But I have a very active imagination. And he grabs the bag of Doritos, that have 125 calories, and he grabs the Pepsi and he sits down on the couch and his wife is like looking at him, like you jerk. And the dogs haven't been walked and so they're running around and everything seems to be a cluster.</p><p>And then there's the guy that comes in, Joe. And Joe decides every day he's going to come in and kiss his wife, high five the kids and say, let's go on a walk. He doesn't grab the Doritos or the Pepsi, because the dude that's on the couch, we're going to call him Sam, he's just consumed like 400 icky, gross caloric garbage for his body. His wife is mad. There's chaos in the house. The dogs are running around, they're knocking things over and he's watching horrible TV that's filling his brain with icky things. On a side note. I do love a good binge of some good Netflix. Like I'm not anti that. I'm going to tell you that there are some, I'm going to share with you guys in the next episode, one of my favorite trashy HBO shows. It's not that trashy, but it's like good stuff, that when you want to have a binge, I want to share that with you.</p><p>So anyway, we've got the dude on the couch and things over the next three years go downhill. His wife gets annoyed, the kids are fighting, the house is getting torn apart and he's gaining weight and he's getting unhealthy because with stress, with the extra 500 calories a day of the soda and the chips, and his brain is being filled with icky stuff. So the other scenario is the walk ,just 15 minutes a day, the time together, maybe a nice moment of gratitude. The kids are out walking and riding their bikes. The dogs are being walked, and over time, guess what grows? Which family has a better environment? Which businesses are growing? Or the businesses growing in the house where there's chaos and ickiness and people screaming and yelling and the TV too loud? Or in the house where the rituals and routines are set up for productivity, for good energy.</p><p>Because when you sit down the next day to do the work and you're like, ah, that feels good. It feels good. So the compound effect, the consistency. So what if you made one healthy habit? What if you decided right now before the New Year starts? Before this, cause if you're listening to this episode live, it's launching in November. What if over Thanksgiving you decided I'm going to stick to this one healthy idea every single day? Maybe it's just drinking water. Maybe it's drinking an extra glass of water. Maybe it's a 15 minute walk. Maybe it's 10 pushups, 10 squats. Maybe it's just doing 10 jumping jacks. But it's moving. I encourage you to do the walk thing, that's really helped to change our lives. Okay, so what about in your foundation? What if every day you did something, like we said, the meditation, some personal development, the journaling, the gratitude. What if you committed to that one thing? And every day that was a piece of what you decided to do, and the consistency of those habits over time built you, built you, built you, into growing, because I can tell you that is what has changed my life because it grew.</p><p>As I listened to a podcast, I was able to find my personal mentor and coach. I'm always working on myself, and yes, on a side note, I always invest in working with a coach, always have a coach because I am an athlete. I am an Olympian at making money and helping you. So I have to grow me, and I'm working with someone that makes $250,000 a month so that I can learn the systems, routines, the rituals of that successful person. Okay, so we're going to talk about that at the end of the episode, how you can get into a high level coaching program to grow as well, if that's your choice. So let's talk about that one piece that has to happen in your business every single day, or that should happen in your business every single day. And that is showing up. Show the heck up for your business, and that is not a Facebook scroll, and that is not hop on a team Zoom and cheer for your friends.</p><p>Showing up in your business is showing up with what makes money. What makes money are conversations. So whether you sell essential oils, insurance policies, houses, vitamins, face cream, I mean there are a million things that people sell out there. How many conversations are you having every day that feel genuine and authentic, that are asking somebody or sharing with somebody a story or seeing if they're open? And I know I talk about not being a Spamala Pamela, not doing things that feel icky, but you could talk yourself into saying every conversation feels icky. Hello my friend. You have chosen sales to be the way that you make money. Whether you sell coaching or whether you sell vitamins or whether you are a therapist, you've got to let people know of your service or your product. And if you believe that you can help someone, you are going to have the conversation, right?</p><p>Yes, yes, yes, yes we are. So I'm going to ask you, I'm going to ask you this question. Do you show up consistently with content for your fans, for your friends, for the people that you're connecting with, that shows them who you are and what you do? Or are you like, Hey, this week I'm going to share this, and this week I'm going to share this, and the next weekend I'm going to talk about my neighbor being annoying. And that's cool if you're just on social media to socialize, but maybe you're on social media to show people about building businesses online, and streams of income ,and how all of these things happen. And you educate and you talk about it and you share stories of success. And then suddenly you're like, oh, and I'm opening a bakery in New Hampshire. And then you're not talking about the online business anymore. But you're talking about the bakery, you're going to attract people because you're in Facebook groups that love baking. Your online people, the people that build businesses online, or maybe it was like sustainable income online or how to build a following with your online business or whatever that is, they no longer find your content useful.</p><p>So now you've shifted to the bakery, which is fine, if that's your thing. But remember that you have, you want to make sure that you have vision around what you do so you can consistently show up. So the right people are getting information from you so that they're actually coming your way. And we talk a lot about that in my Facebook group. We talk a lot about that in my program, Profit, Her Way, about how you create your entire mission and vision around your product or your service. So it all fits together and makes sense. And actually people start to reach out to you and ask you more often. But even to this day you would think, Oh, she's done this and this and this and blah, blah blah. I still ask questions and have conversations with people to sell what I have.</p><p>I just do it in a way that feels aligned with who I am because I truly believe that I can help. So what if you had one conversation a day no matter what? There's some companies that want to give you a free account so you get a little free website for information, and that puts you on the list, right? That puts you on the VIP list. What if you got one email address a day for your email marketing list or for your free account list? Or however that works in your business. And you added 365 people a year that actually wanted to have information from you. And what if every day you had one conversation saying, Hey, I think I can help you with this. Well I know I can. And how would that feel? And with every day, you not only had that conversation, but you had been doing visualization and affirmations and filling your brain with positivity . And what I want to call optimism, from being and hearing the voices of people that are winning instead of filling your brain with negativity and violence and hate.</p><p>What if you made your Facebook feed a place where everything that you saw made you feel good and empowered and you never felt like, eh, I don't want to see that person stuff. What if you did that small compound effect? So I'm going to encourage you as we finish this episode to take out your journal. You know, I love that journal. You know, I do. And to really think about one area, I don't care if it's just a teeny, tiny little thing. One area, think about even finances. Someone said that intermittent fasting saved them over $365. Like they were spending a dollar on their egg McMuffin or something every day, $365 a year. Well, most people spend more money on their Starbucks. So thinking about how the compound effect works and even how it works with kindness, that one nice message sent today. What area of your life?</p><p>Your health, your family, your faith, your foundation. You know how you grow yourself and your business. I promise you this. When you start to make these small changes, they compound, they snowball, they become so big, and then you become contagious. What about if you shared every single day on your social media that one thing that you learned from Think and Grow Rich? What if you decided, I'm going to read the Bible every day? I'm going to read Gabrielle Bernstein every day or I'm going to read? I'm looking at my books that are sitting right here. I'm going to read, Think and Grow Rich ,two pages a day. And then I'm going to share that out on social media and talk about what Napoleon Hill says. The ripple effect of what happens is huge and then all of a sudden the pieces fall together. But there are those people and they're good people.</p><p>But I am here to tell you how to make money. I love making money and I love living a life that feels so aligned with who I am. So we've got to really push that compound effect into our business. And if people see you building some of the time, posting some of the time, being involved some of the time, but not all of the time, they're gonna think, eh, it's just like kind of a side gig. I want you to show up all of the time and it starts with changing one habit a day. So what habit will that be? I want you to send it to me over on a DM on Instagram. Please screenshot this, post it up on your stories on Facebook, on Instagram, and send to me in the DMS. The one habit, that one thing you're committing to, because sometimes when you say it, or if you're over in camp elevate, we're going to post this over.</p><p>That's our free Facebook group where we hang out the campelevategroup.com. Join us over on Facebook. If you can't find it, send me a DM. Either Nikki or I will answer you in the DM on how you get into that group, but I want you to think about that one habit and then if you want to go a step further, find an accountability partner that you just are like, I'm doing this every day and we're checking in with each other. Got it. All right. I hope that this has been a helpful episode for you. I love chatting with you. I love hearing from you. So like I said, make sure that you do this over on Instagram, over on Facebook, wherever you like to hang out. And I want to end this episode by sharing with you what I talked about earlier. And I talked earlier about how I have always, well not always, it was two years into the business that I made the decision that if I was to grow and learn and become and evolve, I was going to need to make a deposit, an investment into me.</p><p>And so I've worked with multiple coaches on, well the things that I needed at that time. And so I am currently launching a program called Profit Her Way, and it is a program that actually walks you through each of the areas of how you grow your business in a genuine, authentic way. I call it my sales system, because I want you to have the foundation, connecting the dots in a business that aligns with your magnetic marketing message with you. We work on all kinds of things. We work on productivity, we work on the money mindset, but most of all we create that map, that vision map, and then we get into action together, and we provide accountability, and we actually work together. I do a lot of one-on-one zooms and things in this program. We do an in-person event and it may not be for you, it may not be for you yet.</p><p>It is for someone that's looking to go from just a part time level with their business and move it to the six and seven figure mark. It's called Profit Her Way. It is application only, because the group stays small. bethholdengraves.com/profitherway. Go on over there. See what it's all about. Fill out the application, book a call with me. I would love to see if it's a fit for all of us, because I am determined to help you to have your own plan, your map, your profit plan and if that's not for you right now, we are doing it here on the podcast. We're doing it. I offer it for free over in the camp elevate group. And I just want to thank you so much., this community is growing each and every week beyond my wildest dreams. This has been one the very best decisions that I've made because I love connection. I love community and the 'You're Not the Boss of Me' podcast community is growing. And I'm meeting so many new people, and I just love it! And I love hearing your stories, so keep them coming. As always, remember you have the power to say 'You're Not the Boss of Me' in every area of your life. And it all starts with those daily decisions, those daily deposits of those consistent habits that you work on over time. I'll talk to you guys all next week. Thanks so much for tuning in with me today.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on 'You're Not the Boss of Me' . I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So leave me a five star review, and when you do, I will enter you to win the 'You're Not the Boss of Me' swag. So make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today I am super excited to share a solo episode with you. You are going to walk away with one thing that you can do today, that I promise you is going to help you to not only profit in your business, but profit in your marriages, your parenting, and your friendships. I will be sharing a few insights that I have learned in business and my personal life, as well as a powerful message from the book ‘The Compound Effect’ by Darren Hardy. Life principles and skills that when you apply over time, you will live a better life, be a better parent, a better business owner, a better human, and be given the ability to make an impact in the world around you.</p><p><strong>Keynotes discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>These are the life principles and skills that when you apply over time, you live a better life, a better parent, a better business owner, a better human, and we make an impact. (04:35)</li><li>Try it for three days, seven days, eight days. But wouldn't it be cool to look back and say, I did that every single day. I don't even care what it is. Just one consistent action. (09:53)</li><li>So, I have to grow me and I'm working with someone that makes $250,000 a month so that I can learn the systems, routines, the rituals of that successful person. (15:50)</li><li>I just do it in a way that feels aligned with who I am because I truly believe that I can help. (19:55)</li><li>When you start to make these small changes, they compound, they snowball, they become so big, and then you become contagious. (22:17)</li></ul><p><strong>Learn More About The Content Discussed...</strong></p><ul><li>No Boss Talk:<a href="https://nobosstalk.com">https://nobosstalk.com</a></li><li>Darren Hardy’s Book: <a href="https://darrenhardy.com/the-compound-effect">https://darrenhardy.com/the-compound-effect</a></li><li>Episode With Glenn Lundy: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/rise-and-grind/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/rise-and-grind</a></li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group:<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">here</a></li><li>Beth’s Instagram:<a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth’s website:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course:<a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profitherway">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profitherway</a></li></ul><p>Be sure to leave a rating and review on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1475175551">Apple Podcasts</a> and share it with a friend that would get some value!</p><p>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate</a></p><p><strong>Episode Transcript...</strong></p><p>Beth:</p><p>Welcome to 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I'm your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let's get started.</p><p>Hey, Hey friends! Welcome back! Super excited for a solo episode today. You are listening to 'You're Not the Boss of Me'. My name is Beth Graves and I am so grateful and thankful for all of your shout outs on my Instagram stories. DM me, I love it. And before we get started with today's episode, what you are going to walk away with, is one thing that you can do today, that I promise you is going to help you to not only profit in your business but profit in your marriages, and your parenting, or in your friendships. So stay with me because it's a short episode, but I've got the goods I'm bringing to you today. I first want to read one of our five star reviews. If I read your review, I will send you a Boss hat. I don't always know who it is because of the way the name shows up, so if anybody knows this review today, it's Pepsi, B Broyle, Pepsi, B Broyle.</p><p>He left this review. I love when a guy leaves a review because you're going to love what he has to say, like this dude is cool. So whoever you are, cool dude, let me know. DM me, send me an email, however you can reach out so I can get you your Boss hat. He says, even guys will love this. "Being a guy, I wasn't sure if Beth's podcast was for me. Episode one set the stage with empowering women to achieve their goals. With three young daughters and a talented wife", I love this guy already. "I'm always in full agreement with the encouragement, however, I wasn't sure if she was going to be able to talk to my heart's needs in the entrepreneurial world. Boy, I was wrong. Episode two, blew me away with how she seemed to be speaking right to me. Now I'm excited to hear how to balance life with family, while creating all that I crave".</p><p>My family is my why, and I'm eager to make sure they always come first before the next rank, our trip earned. I know Beth understands that priority and is ready to give advice from her vast experience. I'm all in Beth, I can't wait to listen to the rest of what you feel led to share". I have a feeling that this might be my friend Cliff Roy. Let me know Cliff, if it is you, because I know you have three young daughters and I know you have a powerful wife. So if it's you, I've got a Boss hat for you, or if it's someone else, let me know over on the DM. These reviews and downloads and screenshots of stories, they make all the difference in the world for our message. Getting out there with 'You're Not the Boss of Me', and empowering one another to go out and just do that one thing.</p><p>All right, so here we go. Today's episode. I didn't want to say the C word because I thought, oh, they're just going to be like, nope, not this podcast. Because I'm not preaching consistency. But yes I am. And I want to start with a little story about consistency and the compound effect over time. And if you have not added The Compound Effect by Darren Hardy to your audible lists, or to your nightstand, this is a book that I read each and every year, and it's also a book. I'll put a link in the show notes below. It's also a book that I love to listen to in the car while my 15 year old son Donny is driving with me, because these are the life principles and skills that when you apply over time, you live a better life, a better parent, a better business owner, a better human, and we make an impact.</p><p>So obviously we know what compounding interest is, right? So what Darren Hardy talks about is that the little decisions and choices that we make consistently can be huge for the long term. Okay, so we talk about quick fixes and we talk about how to hack formulas. We talk about quick weight loss and all of those things, and we know there's no magic bullet. We know there's no magic pill, there's no secret, there's just that long term consistency that wins, and that is truly how you are going to grow your business. And make sure that you don't drop those glass balls. And I want to give you an example of your teeth, okay? You brush your teeth every day, twice a day, two minutes. You go to the dentist every six months. If you only did the one thing of going to the dentist every six months, your teeth are going to fall out of your head.</p><p>The same thing with going to the gym, okay? I got up this morning guys. I'm like first day of the new year because my birthday was yesterday. I love my birthday. I love birthdays. I love hearing from people. I love getting flowers. I love getting gifts. I'm not one of those people that's like, Oh, I don't like the attention. I love my birthday. I was in such a high vibrational state yesterday. I literally manifested six messages from people that I'd been thinking, I want to hear from a person. Just like this, it was so cool. So cool when you get yourself into that. And that's going to be an episode; into that high vibrational state. However, it's the consistency over time that allows us to be at that higher level, and when we are there, when we are at that level of nobody can get in the way of my glittery, sparkly, happy existence today.</p><p>It's the work that we've done every day. So when I got up at 4:45, I went to the gym after showering. Did I look in the mirror and be like, wow, that gym trip certainly changed your life. You are showing results. No, it's gotta be, we know this. This is like baby stuff. We all know it. We've known it since we were 13, it's every single day what we do. But what happens is life gets busy, life gets challenging. Our brain gets in the way and we start telling ourselves these stupid stories and they stop us from growing in our business and in our life. Okay, so I want to talk to you about something that happened in my courting days with Don. You hear about love at first sight. You have this big moment. We were sitting at dinner, and he was literally the first guy I dated.</p><p>I had a failed first marriage. A lot of people don't know that, and I say that because, gosh, I learned a lot from the age of 23 to 28, I was kind of a spoiled rotten self obsessed person. I think we both were, there were no kids, so it's an easy split to the marriage. But I say that because we all have failures and I used to hide it. I used to be like, Oh, I don't want people to know that, but I'm proud of that because I'm proud of having that experience. That allowed me to go into a marriage with a different mindset with a new person. That's the compound effect, because first of all, just like business, I made the decision that I was going to do the work every single day to make sure that we stayed in that, with that love state, if that makes sense.</p><p>So while you're dating someone, it's the little things that make you say, this is my person. And one of the things that he used to do, and I need to remind him of this, I talked about this on our morning call. We have a morning motivation call every morning for our team. And I talked about one of the things that I loved, was every time I would come home, I was teaching at the time, and I would come into the house, we would spend some extended periods of time together and I would open the fridge. And this is, you know, before I stopped with this nasty habit of drinking soda every day, there would be a can of diet Coke with a York peppermint Patty right there on top of it. Just a little like, here you go. I was thinking about you while I was out today, and that made me smile every day.</p><p>Those little gestures. So you look at that in your business and you think about the Darren Hardy quote, which is "The accomplishment of any goal is the progressive accumulation or compound effect of small steps taken consistently over time". We know this to be true, yet we don't do it in certain areas of life. So I encourage you today to look at one tiny little thing that you could do every single day, from now until the end of 2020, like one thing for each area of your life. I want you to journal about it. I mean try it for three days, seven days, eight days. But wouldn't it be cool to look back and say? I did that every single day. I don't even care what it is. Just one consistent action. What about your health? What's one thing that you could do every single day that would move your health forward?</p><p>Not one big, and I'm so guilty of this, like I'm all in. I'm all in, I'm running the marathon, I'm doing it, I'm doing it. And, and then fizzle. But what if I had committed every single day to just walk, run, walk, run, walk, run for 20 minutes? And I did that for 20 years. That consistency over time is what adds to this magical life. The consistency. So what are we going to do for our foundation, for our personal development for that time? And I talk about it all the time. It's the sacred rituals, that water the garden we can't grow without. For me and for everyone, I believe it's meditation. Devotion. It's setting the intention, the prayers, the devotions, the meditation, every day. Can you consistently commit to 15 minutes a day of that? Or would it be journaling? What about seven straight days of gratitude?</p><p>What about if you did personal development, a podcast, 15 minutes, something every single day? But if you say, I'm going to do a podcast, I'm going to do gratitude, and do my meditation. I'm doing my super attractor journal with Gabby Bernstein. Oh, how I love my Gabby Bernstein supertracker journal. Just a side note. I'm obsessed. Go get the audible book, you guys. You know I love to get you, like all into the things I'm into, so we can chat about it together. What if you made one commitment that could shift your entire life? That morning routine will shift your entire life? You heard about it on the episode with Glenn Lundy. If you don't remember that episode, just go back. Actually I'll even put that down in the show notes below. So one decision, one decision for your health. Perhaps it's 15 minutes of walking every day. Perhaps it's 10 pushups.</p><p>Perhaps it's eating in one day more a week. There's this part in, I kind of embellish this part of the compound effect . Darren Hardy talks about this one dude comes home from work every day. His wife is, maybe she's working a online business and she been working all day and the kids are young and it's a little chaotic and frazzled and he comes in, he grabs a bag of Doritos from the closet. I'm embellishing a bit. I'm so sorry Darren Hardy. I'm kind of creating from a story you told in that book. But I have a very active imagination. And he grabs the bag of Doritos, that have 125 calories, and he grabs the Pepsi and he sits down on the couch and his wife is like looking at him, like you jerk. And the dogs haven't been walked and so they're running around and everything seems to be a cluster.</p><p>And then there's the guy that comes in, Joe. And Joe decides every day he's going to come in and kiss his wife, high five the kids and say, let's go on a walk. He doesn't grab the Doritos or the Pepsi, because the dude that's on the couch, we're going to call him Sam, he's just consumed like 400 icky, gross caloric garbage for his body. His wife is mad. There's chaos in the house. The dogs are running around, they're knocking things over and he's watching horrible TV that's filling his brain with icky things. On a side note. I do love a good binge of some good Netflix. Like I'm not anti that. I'm going to tell you that there are some, I'm going to share with you guys in the next episode, one of my favorite trashy HBO shows. It's not that trashy, but it's like good stuff, that when you want to have a binge, I want to share that with you.</p><p>So anyway, we've got the dude on the couch and things over the next three years go downhill. His wife gets annoyed, the kids are fighting, the house is getting torn apart and he's gaining weight and he's getting unhealthy because with stress, with the extra 500 calories a day of the soda and the chips, and his brain is being filled with icky stuff. So the other scenario is the walk ,just 15 minutes a day, the time together, maybe a nice moment of gratitude. The kids are out walking and riding their bikes. The dogs are being walked, and over time, guess what grows? Which family has a better environment? Which businesses are growing? Or the businesses growing in the house where there's chaos and ickiness and people screaming and yelling and the TV too loud? Or in the house where the rituals and routines are set up for productivity, for good energy.</p><p>Because when you sit down the next day to do the work and you're like, ah, that feels good. It feels good. So the compound effect, the consistency. So what if you made one healthy habit? What if you decided right now before the New Year starts? Before this, cause if you're listening to this episode live, it's launching in November. What if over Thanksgiving you decided I'm going to stick to this one healthy idea every single day? Maybe it's just drinking water. Maybe it's drinking an extra glass of water. Maybe it's a 15 minute walk. Maybe it's 10 pushups, 10 squats. Maybe it's just doing 10 jumping jacks. But it's moving. I encourage you to do the walk thing, that's really helped to change our lives. Okay, so what about in your foundation? What if every day you did something, like we said, the meditation, some personal development, the journaling, the gratitude. What if you committed to that one thing? And every day that was a piece of what you decided to do, and the consistency of those habits over time built you, built you, built you, into growing, because I can tell you that is what has changed my life because it grew.</p><p>As I listened to a podcast, I was able to find my personal mentor and coach. I'm always working on myself, and yes, on a side note, I always invest in working with a coach, always have a coach because I am an athlete. I am an Olympian at making money and helping you. So I have to grow me, and I'm working with someone that makes $250,000 a month so that I can learn the systems, routines, the rituals of that successful person. Okay, so we're going to talk about that at the end of the episode, how you can get into a high level coaching program to grow as well, if that's your choice. So let's talk about that one piece that has to happen in your business every single day, or that should happen in your business every single day. And that is showing up. Show the heck up for your business, and that is not a Facebook scroll, and that is not hop on a team Zoom and cheer for your friends.</p><p>Showing up in your business is showing up with what makes money. What makes money are conversations. So whether you sell essential oils, insurance policies, houses, vitamins, face cream, I mean there are a million things that people sell out there. How many conversations are you having every day that feel genuine and authentic, that are asking somebody or sharing with somebody a story or seeing if they're open? And I know I talk about not being a Spamala Pamela, not doing things that feel icky, but you could talk yourself into saying every conversation feels icky. Hello my friend. You have chosen sales to be the way that you make money. Whether you sell coaching or whether you sell vitamins or whether you are a therapist, you've got to let people know of your service or your product. And if you believe that you can help someone, you are going to have the conversation, right?</p><p>Yes, yes, yes, yes we are. So I'm going to ask you, I'm going to ask you this question. Do you show up consistently with content for your fans, for your friends, for the people that you're connecting with, that shows them who you are and what you do? Or are you like, Hey, this week I'm going to share this, and this week I'm going to share this, and the next weekend I'm going to talk about my neighbor being annoying. And that's cool if you're just on social media to socialize, but maybe you're on social media to show people about building businesses online, and streams of income ,and how all of these things happen. And you educate and you talk about it and you share stories of success. And then suddenly you're like, oh, and I'm opening a bakery in New Hampshire. And then you're not talking about the online business anymore. But you're talking about the bakery, you're going to attract people because you're in Facebook groups that love baking. Your online people, the people that build businesses online, or maybe it was like sustainable income online or how to build a following with your online business or whatever that is, they no longer find your content useful.</p><p>So now you've shifted to the bakery, which is fine, if that's your thing. But remember that you have, you want to make sure that you have vision around what you do so you can consistently show up. So the right people are getting information from you so that they're actually coming your way. And we talk a lot about that in my Facebook group. We talk a lot about that in my program, Profit, Her Way, about how you create your entire mission and vision around your product or your service. So it all fits together and makes sense. And actually people start to reach out to you and ask you more often. But even to this day you would think, Oh, she's done this and this and this and blah, blah blah. I still ask questions and have conversations with people to sell what I have.</p><p>I just do it in a way that feels aligned with who I am because I truly believe that I can help. So what if you had one conversation a day no matter what? There's some companies that want to give you a free account so you get a little free website for information, and that puts you on the list, right? That puts you on the VIP list. What if you got one email address a day for your email marketing list or for your free account list? Or however that works in your business. And you added 365 people a year that actually wanted to have information from you. And what if every day you had one conversation saying, Hey, I think I can help you with this. Well I know I can. And how would that feel? And with every day, you not only had that conversation, but you had been doing visualization and affirmations and filling your brain with positivity . And what I want to call optimism, from being and hearing the voices of people that are winning instead of filling your brain with negativity and violence and hate.</p><p>What if you made your Facebook feed a place where everything that you saw made you feel good and empowered and you never felt like, eh, I don't want to see that person stuff. What if you did that small compound effect? So I'm going to encourage you as we finish this episode to take out your journal. You know, I love that journal. You know, I do. And to really think about one area, I don't care if it's just a teeny, tiny little thing. One area, think about even finances. Someone said that intermittent fasting saved them over $365. Like they were spending a dollar on their egg McMuffin or something every day, $365 a year. Well, most people spend more money on their Starbucks. So thinking about how the compound effect works and even how it works with kindness, that one nice message sent today. What area of your life?</p><p>Your health, your family, your faith, your foundation. You know how you grow yourself and your business. I promise you this. When you start to make these small changes, they compound, they snowball, they become so big, and then you become contagious. What about if you shared every single day on your social media that one thing that you learned from Think and Grow Rich? What if you decided, I'm going to read the Bible every day? I'm going to read Gabrielle Bernstein every day or I'm going to read? I'm looking at my books that are sitting right here. I'm going to read, Think and Grow Rich ,two pages a day. And then I'm going to share that out on social media and talk about what Napoleon Hill says. The ripple effect of what happens is huge and then all of a sudden the pieces fall together. But there are those people and they're good people.</p><p>But I am here to tell you how to make money. I love making money and I love living a life that feels so aligned with who I am. So we've got to really push that compound effect into our business. And if people see you building some of the time, posting some of the time, being involved some of the time, but not all of the time, they're gonna think, eh, it's just like kind of a side gig. I want you to show up all of the time and it starts with changing one habit a day. So what habit will that be? I want you to send it to me over on a DM on Instagram. Please screenshot this, post it up on your stories on Facebook, on Instagram, and send to me in the DMS. The one habit, that one thing you're committing to, because sometimes when you say it, or if you're over in camp elevate, we're going to post this over.</p><p>That's our free Facebook group where we hang out the campelevategroup.com. Join us over on Facebook. If you can't find it, send me a DM. Either Nikki or I will answer you in the DM on how you get into that group, but I want you to think about that one habit and then if you want to go a step further, find an accountability partner that you just are like, I'm doing this every day and we're checking in with each other. Got it. All right. I hope that this has been a helpful episode for you. I love chatting with you. I love hearing from you. So like I said, make sure that you do this over on Instagram, over on Facebook, wherever you like to hang out. And I want to end this episode by sharing with you what I talked about earlier. And I talked earlier about how I have always, well not always, it was two years into the business that I made the decision that if I was to grow and learn and become and evolve, I was going to need to make a deposit, an investment into me.</p><p>And so I've worked with multiple coaches on, well the things that I needed at that time. And so I am currently launching a program called Profit Her Way, and it is a program that actually walks you through each of the areas of how you grow your business in a genuine, authentic way. I call it my sales system, because I want you to have the foundation, connecting the dots in a business that aligns with your magnetic marketing message with you. We work on all kinds of things. We work on productivity, we work on the money mindset, but most of all we create that map, that vision map, and then we get into action together, and we provide accountability, and we actually work together. I do a lot of one-on-one zooms and things in this program. We do an in-person event and it may not be for you, it may not be for you yet.</p><p>It is for someone that's looking to go from just a part time level with their business and move it to the six and seven figure mark. It's called Profit Her Way. It is application only, because the group stays small. bethholdengraves.com/profitherway. Go on over there. See what it's all about. Fill out the application, book a call with me. I would love to see if it's a fit for all of us, because I am determined to help you to have your own plan, your map, your profit plan and if that's not for you right now, we are doing it here on the podcast. We're doing it. I offer it for free over in the camp elevate group. And I just want to thank you so much., this community is growing each and every week beyond my wildest dreams. This has been one the very best decisions that I've made because I love connection. I love community and the 'You're Not the Boss of Me' podcast community is growing. And I'm meeting so many new people, and I just love it! And I love hearing your stories, so keep them coming. As always, remember you have the power to say 'You're Not the Boss of Me' in every area of your life. And it all starts with those daily decisions, those daily deposits of those consistent habits that you work on over time. I'll talk to you guys all next week. Thanks so much for tuning in with me today.</p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today on 'You're Not the Boss of Me' . I'm hoping that you've found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leaving me a five star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more, to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So leave me a five star review, and when you do, I will enter you to win the 'You're Not the Boss of Me' swag. So make sure you leave it and we'll reach out to you if you're the winner. Thanks so much for hanging with me today and we'll chat with you soon.</p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I’m talking to Rob Sperry, author of the book, ‘The Game of Networking’ and voted as the Top Network Marketing Business Coach in 2017. We're going to talk about why network marketing. On this episode we discuss why it's so important for you to show up consistently with your message, why it's important to have integrity, and we're going to have you walk away with some very, very, very clear steps, if you're wanting to grow in the next 30 days.</p><p> </p><p><strong>Keynotes discussed:</strong></p><p> </p><ul><li>This is a big tip. I went back and I looked at not just my post but my ‘likes’ and I an assessment. (06:45)</li><li>My ability to learn went through the roof because now there was even a more compelling reason. (08:17)</li><li>You have certain routines in your day that gave you that perseverance, that strength. (08:56)</li><li>I started focusing more on the income producing activities. (11:50)</li><li>I think the biggest mistake is, people misinterpret duplication and they confuse principles and techniques. (22:40)</li></ul><p> </p><p><strong>Learn More About The Content Discussed...</strong></p><p> </p><ul><li>Rob Sperry: <a href="http://robsperry.com" target="_blank">http://robsperry.com</a></li><li>Rob’s Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/network-marketing-breakthroughs-with-rob-sperry/id1479053637" target="_blank">Network Marketing Breakthrough</a></li><li>The Top Summit <a href="https://thetopsummitx2.ticketspice.com/the-top-summit-x2?r=BETH4625" target="_blank">The Top Summit Event</a></li><li>The Game of Network Marketing: <a href="http://thegameofnetworking.com" target="_blank">http://thegameofnetworking.com</a></li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074" target="_blank">here</a></li><li>Beth's Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></li></ul><p> </p><p>Be sure to leave a rating and review on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1475175551">Apple Podcasts</a> and share it with a friend that would get some value!</p><p>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>Episode Transcript...</strong></p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>We’re going to talk about why network marketing, why it’s so important for you to show up consistently with your message, why it’s important to have integrity, and we’re going to have you walk away with some very, very, very clear steps, if you’re wanting to grow in the next 30 days.</p><p> </p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not The Boss Of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p> </p><p>Hey everyone. Welcome back episode number 10 we are in double digits and today I have one of my favorite humans on earth, a mentor, he has been a friend. I have the ever so famous Rob Sperry with me today. Hello Rob.</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>I am so mad at you. I just got back from Maui and I’m wearing a coat right now indoors because I’m freezing, because it’s snowing in Utah, and you’re just bragging about how you’re in the Florida weather. So I know, I know I got to come around. I’m going to come around, but we’re going to have some fun, and yes, I don’t even know when we first started chatting. I just remember opening up chat and I have like five awesome voice messages from this gal named Beth who’s absolutely crushing it, and now has become one of my closest friends in network marketing. We’ve talked about anything and everything and I’m sure that’s what we’re going to do today and have a lot of fun.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>So I want to talk to you about, I was going to do this formal intro with Rob and I think what my mind always goes to is, how does someone start doing what Rob is doing? And so let’s back up. We’re going to talk about why network marketing, why it’s so important for you to show up consistently with your message, why it’s important to have integrity and we’re going to have you walk away with some very, very, very clear steps if you’re wanting to grow in the next 30 days. That’s what we’re going to talk about today. Rob, remind me of that list. That was just off the top of my head. So I became intrigued. All of you listening know that my entry into saying ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’ was finding Network Marketing, realizing that if I did a few things, a lot of things every single day, made more connections, gave people the opportunity to take a look at what it was I was doing.</p><p> </p><p>And I developed a team that had community along with my leadership, I was going to be able to replace my first goal, which was only to replace what I would be making as a teacher. And so I started hounding free content and I kept coming across this dude in his car doing these Facebook lives and I was, I kinda did the back research. He’d made millions of dollars in Network Marketing. He’s now a mentor, I didn’t even know that they existed when I first started. So Rob, share about your journey and then I want to share a little bit about how I missed that mastermind. And you kept sending me pictures of yourself, like and with my friends. I have this FOMO, I want to talk about some of the things that Rob does, but I, obsessively consumed his free content and I didn’t just consume, I consumed and took action and shared, because it’s free. He still does a ton for free, but talk about that. You started showing up in your car on Facebook live and now you’re a published author, a bestselling author, you run a mastermind. He was speaking all over stages. You can’t even really get a time with you and it started with you and your car.</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>It started with the car and always starts before that, right? I mean, I’ve been in the profession of Network Marketing, or industry. Is it profession or industry? I’d still go back and forth on that. I don’t know.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>It’s a, and yeah, let’s call it, let’s find a name for it and then start that. If you guys, if you’re listening and you have the, do you think it’s a profession or an industry? Screenshot this, find us on Instagram and we’ll have a conversation with you about what that word’s going to be because we’ll just start a thing, that’s how things get started.</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>We’ll create it. So prior to Network Marketing, I was a tennis guy. I played, and that’s where Beth and I get to have fun tennis conversations. She loves tennis, I love tennis. But I played semi professional tennis. I was playing college tennis as well. And then after that I ran a tennis club for four years. Met a lot of very successful people, transitioned to the Network Marketing profession. Thought it was the last thing I would ever do. I thought I was the worst style or personality because I got called into the tennis club for being so bad at selling tennis memberships. I increased revenue threefold because I was a networker. But as far as selling memberships, I didn’t want to convince anyone, as either they saw it or they didn’t. So I thought it was against my style, Personality.</p><p> </p><p>Long story short, I got involved. I became the number one recruiter out of a million distributors. And it’s not because I was anything special. I had great mentors, I was crazy coachable and I outworked everybody. So that was the short version on and on and on. Different things. A lot of highs, a lot of successes. Way more failures though. Way more learning lessons. Way more is this thing gonna happen. Like I thought, right, going back and forth, all the good stuff. But then yeah, I transitioned into coaching and Beth, most people don’t know this, this was not a goal of mine. I made fun of coaches. They said, if you can’t build, coach. So be careful of who you make fun of. I’m like, yeah, these are the people that can’t build. That’s why they’re absolutely coaching. So I just started doing Facebook lives more so cause I felt like I had made really good money, but I was bad.</p><p> </p><p>I was a bad public speaker for the amount that I had made. I was not very good at all. I was not very comfortable. I didn’t feel like I was myself. So I just said, this is a great way for me to get better at speaking at communicating and providing value for my teams to be able to consistently watch. So I slowly started doing it. And then I sold my position and got completely out of building and Network Marketing, and all these companies say, Hey, can you do a little coaching for our team? Can you do consulting? So I’m like, okay, so then I started committing to doing three plus videos every single week, and I’m just doing random places, right? And she said, I do it in my car a lot of times because you know, the kids were really, really loud or I was at random places.</p><p> </p><p>I’m like, yeah, just do it in the car, do it in my office, do it wherever I’m at. And I go back and I look at some of those and they had, I mean this is after Beth, I built a business in 40 plus countries. And I tell all of this to give you hope of, we all have our weaknesses. I had on some of my Facebook lives, three comments.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh my gosh</p><p> </p><p>I had built a business in 40 countries. You would’ve thought that those people would’ve just been nice and give me courtesy likes and comments right Beth?. You would of.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>I would’ve, I would’ve given you some emojis. Thumbs up, right?</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>I mean something. That’s what I would’ve thought of. But guess what I found is after I started doing them, I got a little bit better. I got better at telling stories. I got better at communicating the information. I found, you know, where you can have your pauses and where you have your energy. Right? I got better. I started building an audience. As I started doing them consistently, I just started learning. I started self-assessing. This is a big tip. I went back and I looked at not just my post but my lives and I looked at the last 30 and I did an assessment on the three that people liked the most topics and the topics that I didn’t get much engagement. It wasn’t a different version of me. They were all me. What did my audience resonate with? And so I would do a self audit. And as I started doing that audit, it helped me just to keep getting better and better and better and better. And so I just put a ton of free content. You know, we hear all the time, it’s what you put out into the world.</p><p> </p><p>It’s the value provided. It comes back full circle. I think sometimes we hear that we roll our eyes, but honestly if you study the greats and you look at how much free value they put out, right? And content. And how it does come back background. I was estimating that I had done, before I sold my first course, it was something like 300 plus, either lives or videos. I mean that’s an insane amount. I’m not telling you that you have to do that, I’m just giving perspective on it. So that’s a lot, now when I go back and think about it. But it helped me so much, not just for building my brand and audience but also for me becoming obsessive on freaking out. Cause I didn’t know what I was going to talk about next. So I started deliberately listening more, and reading books.</p><p> </p><p>I was already reading and listening to a ton of books, but now I had more of a purpose, right? And it started paying attention more to all trainings in advance, and other Facebook lives. So my ability to learn went through the roof because now there was even a more compelling reason because I was freaking out. I was thinking, Oh no, I’m supposed to do another live or video tomorrow. The next thing, I have no idea. If people have heard me so much, what am I going to say? How am I going to say something different? What am I going to do? So it’s been quite the journey. And the more I learned, the more I learn. I’ve got a ton more to learn.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Well that mindset of, I mean many people with three comments would have quit. But you have, because I’ve learned from you, you have certain routines in your day that gave you that perseverance, that strength. So what I love on this podcast is I always ask my guests, what are the things that you do daily that allow you to have that perseverance, to have that strong mind, to have the discipline to keep going when it doesn’t feel like we want to keep going?</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>Yeah. So everything begins and ends with purpose. If the purpose and vision isn’t big enough, you’ll just quit. So if you’re going to the gym and you’re like, yeah, I’m gonna, I’m going to get shredded or I’m going to have that great body for this vacation. If the purpose is big enough, you’ll keep going. But if it’s like, yeah, I just want to go cause it would be nice because I’m supposed to, you’ll quit. So it always starts with that purpose and the reason why you’re doing something. And then after that, I’ve got a whole success formula. But in short for me, I’m a firm believer of show me your minimums and I’ll show you your future. And I believe that willpower is a muscle that needs to be exercised that can help you out with everything. And I know when I say I’m going to do something, I’m going to do it because it’s a muscle that I continually exercise.</p><p> </p><p>So for me, yes, I haven't missed a week working out in the last decade, an entire week, and I travel a lot, I've been to 15 plus countries in the last 18 months. I never miss date night when I'm in town, and do something with my kids every single week when I'm in town. I have missed some sort of spiritual reading like the Bible, only one time in the last 11 years. I haven't missed reading personal development, even one day in 10 years, I haven't missed not one day in 10 plus years. Now it's 11 years. But for me, those are small things. But those things helped me to practice that discipline and willpower. And they also helped to give myself confidence. Look, if you say you're going to wake up at 6:00 AM and you never wake up 6:00 AM, you just took out a withdrawal of trust in yourself. So I'm constantly looking for small victories.</p><p> </p><p>I'm constantly looking to create minimum goals, cause I know we all have those B Habs, they carry audacious goals where it comes from the book of degree. Well there's huge goals. We're dreamers. That's great. You still should have this, but what are the minimum goals than non-negotiables that you're gonna set yourself up, right. For success. And so I'm constantly doing that and that's all I did in my business, when I went through the times where you know this, I made less than $400 in my fifth month in network marketing and I didn't know if I was supposed to laugh at that check or just cry when I saw the check because I had quit my job. So I was working 80 hours a week in network marketing and I made that little and I'm just thinking, what have I gotten myself into? Then I started focusing more and more on what are the income producing activities.</p><p> </p><p>How do I stay in those? How do I focus on just doing my best? If I need to go back and get a job, I can, but don’t be grudged network marketing because network marketing for most people when you start, it’s actually dessert. Dinner is your job. And eventually maybe you’re making enough that you can make that choice depending on what your goals are and how things happen. So I wasn’t going to be grudged dessert because I quit way too soon in my job and I just started focusing on gratitude and income producing activities and things got better and better and better. Trust me though, I still had those huge doubts, downtimes, right? Where we all go through those plateaus. But, it was a learning lesson. It was definitely was a process. And last thing I’ll say, Beth, I know you would say the same thing is I’ll take tough over good any day. Tough can handle a bad day, bad week, bad month, bad quarter, good without toughness, has bad day, bad week, bad month, bad quarter, and their egos just can’t handle it. So they create all the excuses on why this isn’t going to work and they panic in the moment. So it’s important that you have long term vision balanced with short term urgency. Did you hear that? Long term vision, short time vision, short term urgency.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>So I want to piggyback on that because I find that, and I know that you see this too, that we have so much that we hear about mindset and affirmations and set those big audacious goals and people aren’t producing because they’re not involved with income producing activities. So for someone that’s in marketing, we have people listening, mostly network marketers because they’re going to see our names, but many that are building online businesses are like, I have humans that aren’t even in marketing, but it’s consistency of those income producing activities. If you are going to say to someone, if you were starting in a network marketing business today, what would be your income producing activities, your non negotiables. I’m doing these every single day.</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>Working in this business is talking to brand new people. If you aren’t talking to brand new people, you weren’t working in this business. Too many people make the plan for the plan or the plan and they come back to Beth. They’re like Beth. I watched six Facebook lives today. I watched two zoom trainings. I did two hours of personal development and bests, like, that’s incredible. How many people do you talk to? Well, my friend Julie, I dropped the hint that these products are so good. So it was an indirect approach and there’s this other friend named Joe who I’m thinking about reaching out to. So yeah, I’m, you know, I’m all over this. I’m crushing it in too many times. We’re working in our minds because we’re used to trading time for money and in a job you work X amount, you get paid X amount.</p><p> </p><p>And so people come in and they want to find a way to fill up their time where they’re busy and they’re working because that’s their association from most of their lives. And this business compensates you based on what you do. And for those of you that have online businesses that are listening, that are entrepreneurs, it’s the same exact same thing for network marketing or non-network marketing, right? You figure out what those income producing activities are. So working in this business is talking to people. That’s number one. Number two would be doing some sort of third party validation. Whether that’s messenger chat, you know that you create, whether it’s a three way call a zoom, even if it’s an offline meeting, they just need to hear another voice. I’ve found that people that don’t have success almost always it’s, they aren’t talking to enough new people in.</p><p> </p><p>They aren’t doing enough third party validations. It’s one or the other or both. That’s it. Now the rest of the stuff can go along with it. It can be, you know, you gotta add to your lead list. You talking with team members. But again, too many of us get caught up where we’re reaching out to our team members because, and I’ll make fun of myself because this was me when I started because I was the super supportive applied. And so it’s, Hey Becky, how can I help you? I’m here for you. Anything you need girl. Now if I said that as a guy, anything you need girls, she’d slap me. But anything you need, I’m here for you. I got you. I got your back, right. I’m here for you. Oh, let me send you another YouTube video to watch. Here’s another Facebook live. Ooh, did you study the comp plan?</p><p> </p><p>Ok, most of you have systems inside of your companies that work in this business talking to people, they’re putting in front of new people, still love on them. I’m not telling you to abandon them at all, but the best way to lead them is to lead by example. You can tell them every single day how much momentum you’re in and how excited you are, but as Ralph Waldo Emerson says, what you do speak so loudly, I cannot hear what you say. Speed of the leader, speed of the pack, and it’s absolutely true. So you’ve got to get back to that and then I would track it. How many new people did you actually talk to? How many third party validations did you actually do? I would have an accountability partner buddy that you’re reaching out to and you’re just texting every night and what you did or didn’t do in a positive way.</p><p> </p><p>You can say, today I got my butt kicked, or today didn't do anything, but tomorrow I plan on reaching out to three brand new people, X, Y, Z as you go and fill that out. But it's really just getting people focused. And I think about this, Beth, all the podcasts, right? Your podcast, my podcast, Facebook live trainings, free content, team trainings, everything, conventions...all of that is there for what? To build, belief, to give you enough vision and confidence in the companies, the products and profession/industries/whatever else new you all create for Beth and I to call it, right? And all of that is just to get you to reach out to new people. Think about it, look how simple and crazy that is. That's what it's for. Right? So that's what my response would be. And most people, they don't even track their numbers, which is crazy.</p><p> </p><p>You’re running a real business, right? Where right. All business, they don’t track it crazy.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Well and I just spoke to a leader that I respect greatly and even me at this level. I said to her, okay, she just hit this incredible bonus and I said, well, tell me what are you doing? I was, of course it’s like for me, what diet? How did you lose that weight? How did you build that? And she just said, do you want to know what I did? I reached out to 201 people a day to see if they were open to watching a video about what it is that I did and she said, I went back to the basics and I know that some people are saying, well that feels spammy, but if you’re putting out valuable content that is pulling people toward you, I was not warmed up.</p><p> </p><p>I was not given like, Hey girl, what’s going on? I see your son’s killing it on the ice and hockey. I was sent a text from my friend flare that said, I want you to take a look at this opportunity and at this product the product is working for me. I have studied, I want you on board. When can we talk? That was how I was recruited in. I had third party validation from four people that day and I was challenged to get my first customer in using the tools. I had never put the product in my body. I was using the tools, being honest, saying, Hey, I’m getting started with this. I’m on a health journey and let me introduce you to my friend Elise. Let me introduce you to my friend Sheila, and it is so basic because even, and I’m a little old school meets new school, I love content.</p><p> </p><p>I love the pull method, but at the end of the day, if you want someone to sit with you at lunch, you’ve got to ask my husband. Finally, this is a great story. I love this because we won’t go into are two truths and a lie. You guys, if you have never gone to a mastermind with Rob Sperry, literally I laughed until my stomach hurt and I walked away with so much value. We’re going to give you how to get those pieces, but I went to Utah, I missed Mexico. We’re not even going how I had such FOMO and the friendships still. I still get texts from Cynthia almost every week. The check-ins, the accountability, the laughter, and then the value that we had. So I’m putting that, that’s just another tangent to go on. But if you were to, this is my husband, he wanted to go out with me and he kept being kind of elusive.</p><p> </p><p>He’d be like, Hey, let’s grab some dinner. And we were all riding horses in the same barn. We had this competitive show circuit. It’s like tennis. It’s like anything. And I would invite like five people to come cause you know me Rob, I don’t do anything alone. And I’d invite five people to come. And finally after he paid for like six barn dinners, I’m like, Hey, John’s paying for everybody for dinner. Let’s go. I was in my twenties I mean I didn’t really process that much. And finally he called me, he said, listen, I want to go out with you alone. Will you go to lunch with me tomorrow at the moose preserve? And I was like, Oh yes, that’s a yes. He finally didn’t beat around the Bush. And that’s the piece of it. Let’s talk about this because this is on everybody’s mind. We have a lot of people out there.</p><p> </p><p>We care about attraction marketing. We don’t tell people what we do. We pull them toward us with comments and I do all of that. But on the backside I am straight forward. Here’s what I do, what problem am I solving for them? And I get right to the point. And that’s sometimes not a popular way to do it. It’s worked for me and I won’t change that because success leaves clues. What are your feelings when you have someone that’s, Oh no, I would never like I feel that maybe prospecting is a dirty word for some people.</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p> </p><p>So it’s interesting. This has been a really big insight for me. I think the way you just phrased it was perfect in the sense that anyone that tells you that you have to message someone right away. And that’s the only way to do it is wrong. Anyone that tells you that you have to wait is wrong. So they’re both wrong and they’re both right. But where people are wrong is when they think that it’s a one size fits all. You’ll talk to a lot of leaders that say, if I would have been approached directly right away, first message, I would have never said yes. You talked to other leaders, right? Where if I would not have been approached directly, I would have said no. So now people are trying to figure out what, and the biggest I think mistake is, is people misinterpret duplication and they confuse principles and techniques.</p><p> </p><p>So now they start teaching techniques like their set principles of everyone has to do with this way and they take the duplication to the extreme, where now they’re trying to turn everybody into robots and they stifle their creativity and their authenticity. And so what I tell people is to be the bold version of themselves. Now I know that the bold, authentic version of yourself, I know that can be an overused cliche statement, but let me tell you what I mean by that. Do what’s gonna make you feel the most comfortable but still both. And what do I mean by that? If you’re someone Beth, that’s where you’ve had success, where maybe if she knows you, it’s always going to be the first message. Maybe if she doesn’t know you, it’s going to be the first conversation and not first message. Right. I’m giving you examples.</p><p> </p><p>If that to her is that bold version of her. That’s what she should do. If you’re someone that says, Oh, I would never do that. Great, and then maybe it’s your second or third conversation. All I’ll say is this. If you don’t know someone and you’re just sending them a link, you’re spamming them. And if you’re feeling like you need to have five or six conversations, I personally believe you’re, you’re overdoing it. So it’s always somewhere in the middle is the principal. And of course it sounds really nice and cute to say, well, let’s approach them how they want to be approached. How do you know you don’t? So it doesn’t work. It sounds good, but it doesn’t work. So approach people on how you would want to be approached.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Wait, that’s golden. Say it again.</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p> </p><p>Approach people on how you would want to be approached. That’s how you’re going to feel that that’s how you’re going to be able to be more bold. Because if you’re someone that doesn’t want approach someone until the second or third conversation and your leaders are telling you have to approach in the first message, you’re, you’re not going to feel like authentic version of you. And if it’s the opposite of you’re someone that says, Hey, I want to get straight to the point, am I applying, is telling me and my leaders are telling me that I have to wait until a third conversation. You’re getting, you’re going to be like, this just doesn’t feel right. So that’s, that’s what I suggest.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Well, and, and we can go into all of the different styles of people that you’re talking to. We did a lot of that training at your mastermind of really understanding, if I was an animal, I wouldn’t be a shark. You know, what is Beth like to do? She likes to have fun. She wants to be at the mastermind, but I also have a little bit of that shark in me, but I don’t care about the details. Tell me what to do and I’ll do it and there’s just, we were talking about tennis before we got on. I played today with a woman that has a total untraditional style. She switches hands, she LOBs the ball, she hits these angles where Rob would never play tennis that way because he’s going to drill this top spin forehand to the deep in the corner. So you pop the ball up and you can win the next point coming in.</p><p> </p><p>I’m just guessing that’s your style, but it’s the same with network marketing, but at the end of the day, are you winning? What are your results? Do you need to train to get better? Yes. I always say learn and earn on the same day, listen to a training over in Tgon nation and then go put it to work and it’s not always going to feel like perfect the first time, but also be intuitive. Ask more questions. Right? I get messages all the time, like 15 sentences a link and I wish they would have started with, Hey, I noticed that you’re in network marketing. Can I share something with you? Are you open to a new product or just like a conversation before a copy and paste. And I always turn around and the other thing is, is I don’t want people to get pissed off at network marketers. So many people are like, Oh, not those people.</p><p> </p><p>I just look at it as not being educated. So I always turn back around and say, I lead a team of 11,000 I’ve become really good at this. Can I give you some advice? Because I love this industry and I want you to have success. And thinking about that now, that human that just sent me that message, if she’s looking for some coaching, if Rob was giving her that advice, I’m sure you get pitched all the time and you have kindness and compassion and you’re there to serve and help. They’re going to turn to you when they need something. It’s, it’s just, it’s the law of reciprocation. It’s being a good human. And, and I also think that if your mindset is, Oh, should I send the message? Oh, should I not? If you are confident and you have belief in what you’re doing and what you’re sending of what you’re sharing, it’s genuine.</p><p> </p><p>Like when you asked me to come to the mastermind, you had such confidence and what you could do, the guests you were bringing, the community that I would meet, you weren’t like, Oh, should I ask her? Should I worry if that’s too much money for her to spend? You told me what was going to happen at the mastermind. You were excited. You couldn’t wait to share the guests and to share the list of other speakers. And that’s what I think happens is we worry so much. It’s like if you have belief, just be you, right?</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>I think a lot of it though for people with exactly what you’re saying is the fact that the fact that they make commissions on other PayPal, which sounds so crazy and weird, they struggle because they feel like even though they know they’re givers, they are worried about the perception of coming off as takers. Oh, well you just want me because of this. So I think that’s a big thing for people is trying to figure out how they can convey that they’re givers and truly feel like that. Because yeah, I mean, how many time we’re selling everything. There’s a great movie coming out and you’re selling go see it. Or even if you haven’t seen it or you’re selling after you saw it or a great restaurant and you’re helping out and you’re actually selling on people to go buy things all the time on things that you absolutely love. If you got the, the new iPhone and you love it, you’re selling people by telling them how incredible the photos are and it’s so worth it, but you make nothing off of it.</p><p> </p><p>So you’re a true giver. You’re okay making these big huge corporations money. But then when it comes to helping you achieve your dreams as well as your teams achieve your dreams, we, we just felt like, ah, I can’t do that. I can’t do that. Which is just crazy to me and I understand it cause I Island through it as well. Right? So it just takes time to overcome those limiting beliefs and truly understand and realize what you have and also get at communicating. And guess what? Some will understand someone, no matter how good you get at communicating, and that’s part of your role is if you want to stop playing small and you want to start to achieving even more of your dreams, you got to get over what other people think. That is one of the hardest things for everybody is just to get over what others think.</p><p> </p><p>The fear of judgment is the mother of all fears. Think about it. If you’re an entrepreneur, network marketer, list all your fears, fear, success, feeling, fear, failure, fear of inadequacy, fear of public speaking, fear of rejection. List them all. Now remove the fear of judgment and none of those exists. Think about that. That’s the mother of all fears. So everyone’s just being more descriptive on their specific fear of judgment, but that’s really what they’re talking about. So you’ve got to understand that and hit that head on and say, you know what? There’s Darren Hardy says, the greatest determining factor of who shows up at your burial is the weather. Why do we have so much fear of judgment? They’re going to judge you no matter what. They’re going to judge you because you’re too skinny. They’re going to judge you cause you’re too fat. They’re going to judge you because you never work out.</p><p> </p><p>They’re going to judge you because you work out too much. They’re going to judge you because you’re super ultra successful. They’re going to judge you because you’re not. They’re going to judge you because you do too many Facebook lives. People are going to judge you no matter what. So don’t let them dictate your future and stop playing small because God didn’t put you on this earth to play small. Didn’t say, Oh well I’m going to send Beth down to this earth and she’s just going to be a below average human being. Sounds pretty funny, right? Thinking that way, but that’s how we act. Many of us.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>So, have good news because you can head over to Rob’s podcast and we’re going to continue this conversation and we’re going to talk about how you can connect with Rob. I want to end with this and then the conversation continues cause there’s a back to back podcast recording because we knew you wanted more of us. I mean come on. This is like the, I don't know, what’s your favorite talk show? You don’t watch TV back in the day. Did your parents watch like a talk show or a Johnny Carson?</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>Everything on all the news. They can tell you everything that’s going on in the world. That’s where I get my updates. I just ask him on Sundays every other week. I know what’s going on in the world in 20 minutes.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>My mom does the same thing. Okay. If you had to share one book right now that’s on your mind besides your own cause, we’re going to and I want you to tell us how we can grab your book and you have all different ways to connect. I want a shout out to that. If you want to meet Rob and me, we’re both sharing a stage at the top summit in Naples, Florida in February. We’ll put a link below for you to grab tickets for that event. But what is the one book right now? Someone’s like, okay, I need to overcome this judgment, this fear, I need to make this happen. What book would you think should be in their ear buds? In their hands? The Bible, but the, the next piece of it?</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>Yeah, if we’re talking fears, there’s different ones. I think probably the best person that’s talking about it in her way, which I love, is Brene Brown and she talks a lot about vulnerability. There’s dare to lead. There’s braving the wilderness. I mean, she’s got five or six really good books and she’ll talk about the power in vulnerability and no one’s ever become great without the vulnerability and the necessary tasks that come along with it. So I love that. I can’t remember which one, but one of the books they recorded is actually her speaking life for the audience. I loved that because you got to hear it a little bit more of a sense of humor and different things. And so that would be a really, really good book. You got it right there right now.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>And I didn’t tag you as like a Brene Brown fan, because I consume, I love, I love, love, love her. Now Rob Sperry, how can people tell us there’s a million ways you offer a ton for free. How do people connect with you? How do they get some trading from you and get into your world? Besides me, who was like scroll, scroll, scroll stock. Like and you just showed up in my Facebook feed one day and that was because your consistency of showing up and, and then I asked you, I now know what it was. I asked you a tennis question about something to do with tennis. I wanted to find some common ground. I should’ve just said, Hey Rob, I think you’re super cool. And I just wanted to indirect approach with to me, yes, I was talking to a celebrity. Oh that’s how we get connected with you. And we’ll add all of that down in the show notes.</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>Oh, I’ll go, well first off you guys gotta continue on with the podcast. So go follow me on network marketing for breakthroughs with Rob Sperry, whichever podcast you prefer the most, you can search it as you know it’s really, really easy to find. It’s it’s everywhere and that’s the first thing. So you can consume a ton of free content, lots and lots of in depth trainings as well as interviews first place. The next place is if you follow me either on social media, I’m consistent there. Or if you go to RobSperry.com and is he going to RobSperry.com there’s things like a free ebook help you on never running out of leads and recruiting. So that’ll pop up there that you’d be able to do to see. I’ve got free info graphics to help you out with social media and building your business that I give out there.</p><p> </p><p>I’ve got courses in there. And then the last one would just be, I won’t talk about the mastermind cause the mastermind we’ve talked about and you’ll see it on RobSperry.com I have both the six and seven figure earner mastermind, which we ended up with 26 at the one in Maui, just this last week top earners, which was incredible. And then I have a six figure breakthrough. So if you haven’t made six figures yet and you want the blueprint for that, we don’t do fluff from these masterminds. These, it’s not me talking at you, it’s answering your question, strategizing with all you in sharing my strategies on how you can go to tgonnation.com and that’s my ongoing monthly subscription, only $27 a month. And that’s where you’ll get motivational Monday. There’s 60 plus trainings from six and seven figure earners you get access to, you get social media tips, lots and lots of good stuff.</p><p> </p><p>So those are all the places that you can go and hopefully learn. Find one thing right? You can take and implement and learn in your business. I’m excited just to continue this podcast with you Beth. Honored and privileged to be on with you. Because sometimes you’re on with people you don’t really know at all, right? It’s a lot easier for us sometimes like a little awkward, especially for an introvert like me who’s, who’s found a way to be extroverted in certain situations. But Oh, last thing I gotta give props to Beth. Remember how we talked about in the last mastermind on creating a sweatshirt with sunglasses?</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh yes. Because Rob is an introvert and he travels with a hood up, sunglasses on probably your headphones.</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>I gave those out there and I started out the training there as this is the most important training of the entire mastermind. So people are really like, Oh my goodness, this is going to be serious. So this is for all of you. The most important part of the podcast is what I gave out to all these top earners. You said the top eight introvert hacks to avoid talking to the person next to you on the plane. These are the top eight max. We’ll go through fast. Number one, headphones on. Do not make the mistake of putting your headphones on late. If you wait to put your headphones on after the introvert. Next you sits down. You are a great risk of having a conversation. Where are you are from and you may be forced to fake laugh. This has been known to cause introvert nightmares for about three weeks. That’s tip number one. I mean this is, this is some new stuff. Number two, Huddy time. Put that hoodie on ASAP. Do you meal feel like a complete weirdo, which is exactly the point. Number three sunglasses. This may be a little extreme, but we all know that sometimes we have to go above and beyond to solidify our position. What are you willing to do to have introvert success? This is my insurance policy. Strategy number four, do not make eye contact with the person next to you. If an extrovert makes eye contact with you, it is all over. The battle is lost and you will need to learn from this awful failure. Number five, wear a surgical mask. Yes, this may be the craziest to them all, but really is a win when you avoid germs and people. Number six, window seats are proven to create 32.3465 63% less conversations. Number seven, wear an eye mask. And number eight, this is the kicker, this is the last one. Fake it. You got to fake it. A percent of the time. It works every time. And then I finished with this. Be aware of extroverts telling you how much talking to new people or talking to people on airplanes. It’s helped their business. It’s a trap to convert you to the other side. So I mean this is, I mean this is some in debt, you know, it took me some time to create this. So that’s what I will finish with for everybody. Just to make sure that you know that you introverts, I got your back, you extroverts. Now you know all our secret sauce tips on how to convert us.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Yeah. And I’m the one on the airplane that’s making eye contact with you. No. Where do you live, Rob?</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>I know. That’s why I had to create all these tips that I can.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Yeah, now I know. Now I know. All right, so we’re going to end this podcast. We’re heading on over to where Rob, say it again. Maybe your podcast <strong>marketing breakthroughs with Rob Sperry</strong>. Yes, so meet us over there. Yeah, and as always, both of us would love a five star review. Let us know, leave it for us over on iTunes that shows us that you’re loving the content. It keeps us going and keeps us up in the ratings so that you can find us like I did at Rob with a Facebook scroll, which completely transformed my business. Not only the numbers, but also the energy and gratitude that I had going forward. So we’ll catch you guys over on Rob’s podcast. Thanks, Rob. We’ll see y’all soon.</p><p> </p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today and You’re Not the Boss of Me. I’m hoping that you’ve found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leading me a five star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So leave me a five star review, and when you do, I enter you to win the, you’re not the boss of me swag, so make sure you leave it and we’ll reach out to you if you’re the winner. Thanks so much for hanging in with me today and we’ll chat with you soon.</p><p> </p><p> </p>
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      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Rob Sperry, Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In today’s episode, I’m talking to Rob Sperry, author of the book, ‘The Game of Networking’ and voted as the Top Network Marketing Business Coach in 2017. We're going to talk about why network marketing. On this episode we discuss why it's so important for you to show up consistently with your message, why it's important to have integrity, and we're going to have you walk away with some very, very, very clear steps, if you're wanting to grow in the next 30 days.</p><p> </p><p><strong>Keynotes discussed:</strong></p><p> </p><ul><li>This is a big tip. I went back and I looked at not just my post but my ‘likes’ and I an assessment. (06:45)</li><li>My ability to learn went through the roof because now there was even a more compelling reason. (08:17)</li><li>You have certain routines in your day that gave you that perseverance, that strength. (08:56)</li><li>I started focusing more on the income producing activities. (11:50)</li><li>I think the biggest mistake is, people misinterpret duplication and they confuse principles and techniques. (22:40)</li></ul><p> </p><p><strong>Learn More About The Content Discussed...</strong></p><p> </p><ul><li>Rob Sperry: <a href="http://robsperry.com" target="_blank">http://robsperry.com</a></li><li>Rob’s Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/network-marketing-breakthroughs-with-rob-sperry/id1479053637" target="_blank">Network Marketing Breakthrough</a></li><li>The Top Summit <a href="https://thetopsummitx2.ticketspice.com/the-top-summit-x2?r=BETH4625" target="_blank">The Top Summit Event</a></li><li>The Game of Network Marketing: <a href="http://thegameofnetworking.com" target="_blank">http://thegameofnetworking.com</a></li><li>The Camp Elevate Facebook Group: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074" target="_blank">here</a></li><li>Beth's Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves" target="_blank">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></li><li>Profit HER Way Course: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/profit</a></li></ul><p> </p><p>Be sure to leave a rating and review on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1475175551">Apple Podcasts</a> and share it with a friend that would get some value!</p><p>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com</a></p><p>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate</a></p><p> </p><p><strong>Episode Transcript...</strong></p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>We’re going to talk about why network marketing, why it’s so important for you to show up consistently with your message, why it’s important to have integrity, and we’re going to have you walk away with some very, very, very clear steps, if you’re wanting to grow in the next 30 days.</p><p> </p><p>Welcome to ‘You’re Not The Boss Of Me’. If you are determined to break glass ceilings and build it your way, this show is for you. I’m your host Beth Graves and I am obsessed with helping you to not just dream it, but make the plan, connect the dots and create what you crave. Are you ready? Let’s get started.</p><p> </p><p>Hey everyone. Welcome back episode number 10 we are in double digits and today I have one of my favorite humans on earth, a mentor, he has been a friend. I have the ever so famous Rob Sperry with me today. Hello Rob.</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>I am so mad at you. I just got back from Maui and I’m wearing a coat right now indoors because I’m freezing, because it’s snowing in Utah, and you’re just bragging about how you’re in the Florida weather. So I know, I know I got to come around. I’m going to come around, but we’re going to have some fun, and yes, I don’t even know when we first started chatting. I just remember opening up chat and I have like five awesome voice messages from this gal named Beth who’s absolutely crushing it, and now has become one of my closest friends in network marketing. We’ve talked about anything and everything and I’m sure that’s what we’re going to do today and have a lot of fun.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>So I want to talk to you about, I was going to do this formal intro with Rob and I think what my mind always goes to is, how does someone start doing what Rob is doing? And so let’s back up. We’re going to talk about why network marketing, why it’s so important for you to show up consistently with your message, why it’s important to have integrity and we’re going to have you walk away with some very, very, very clear steps if you’re wanting to grow in the next 30 days. That’s what we’re going to talk about today. Rob, remind me of that list. That was just off the top of my head. So I became intrigued. All of you listening know that my entry into saying ‘You’re Not the Boss of Me’ was finding Network Marketing, realizing that if I did a few things, a lot of things every single day, made more connections, gave people the opportunity to take a look at what it was I was doing.</p><p> </p><p>And I developed a team that had community along with my leadership, I was going to be able to replace my first goal, which was only to replace what I would be making as a teacher. And so I started hounding free content and I kept coming across this dude in his car doing these Facebook lives and I was, I kinda did the back research. He’d made millions of dollars in Network Marketing. He’s now a mentor, I didn’t even know that they existed when I first started. So Rob, share about your journey and then I want to share a little bit about how I missed that mastermind. And you kept sending me pictures of yourself, like and with my friends. I have this FOMO, I want to talk about some of the things that Rob does, but I, obsessively consumed his free content and I didn’t just consume, I consumed and took action and shared, because it’s free. He still does a ton for free, but talk about that. You started showing up in your car on Facebook live and now you’re a published author, a bestselling author, you run a mastermind. He was speaking all over stages. You can’t even really get a time with you and it started with you and your car.</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>It started with the car and always starts before that, right? I mean, I’ve been in the profession of Network Marketing, or industry. Is it profession or industry? I’d still go back and forth on that. I don’t know.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>It’s a, and yeah, let’s call it, let’s find a name for it and then start that. If you guys, if you’re listening and you have the, do you think it’s a profession or an industry? Screenshot this, find us on Instagram and we’ll have a conversation with you about what that word’s going to be because we’ll just start a thing, that’s how things get started.</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>We’ll create it. So prior to Network Marketing, I was a tennis guy. I played, and that’s where Beth and I get to have fun tennis conversations. She loves tennis, I love tennis. But I played semi professional tennis. I was playing college tennis as well. And then after that I ran a tennis club for four years. Met a lot of very successful people, transitioned to the Network Marketing profession. Thought it was the last thing I would ever do. I thought I was the worst style or personality because I got called into the tennis club for being so bad at selling tennis memberships. I increased revenue threefold because I was a networker. But as far as selling memberships, I didn’t want to convince anyone, as either they saw it or they didn’t. So I thought it was against my style, Personality.</p><p> </p><p>Long story short, I got involved. I became the number one recruiter out of a million distributors. And it’s not because I was anything special. I had great mentors, I was crazy coachable and I outworked everybody. So that was the short version on and on and on. Different things. A lot of highs, a lot of successes. Way more failures though. Way more learning lessons. Way more is this thing gonna happen. Like I thought, right, going back and forth, all the good stuff. But then yeah, I transitioned into coaching and Beth, most people don’t know this, this was not a goal of mine. I made fun of coaches. They said, if you can’t build, coach. So be careful of who you make fun of. I’m like, yeah, these are the people that can’t build. That’s why they’re absolutely coaching. So I just started doing Facebook lives more so cause I felt like I had made really good money, but I was bad.</p><p> </p><p>I was a bad public speaker for the amount that I had made. I was not very good at all. I was not very comfortable. I didn’t feel like I was myself. So I just said, this is a great way for me to get better at speaking at communicating and providing value for my teams to be able to consistently watch. So I slowly started doing it. And then I sold my position and got completely out of building and Network Marketing, and all these companies say, Hey, can you do a little coaching for our team? Can you do consulting? So I’m like, okay, so then I started committing to doing three plus videos every single week, and I’m just doing random places, right? And she said, I do it in my car a lot of times because you know, the kids were really, really loud or I was at random places.</p><p> </p><p>I’m like, yeah, just do it in the car, do it in my office, do it wherever I’m at. And I go back and I look at some of those and they had, I mean this is after Beth, I built a business in 40 plus countries. And I tell all of this to give you hope of, we all have our weaknesses. I had on some of my Facebook lives, three comments.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh my gosh</p><p> </p><p>I had built a business in 40 countries. You would’ve thought that those people would’ve just been nice and give me courtesy likes and comments right Beth?. You would of.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>I would’ve, I would’ve given you some emojis. Thumbs up, right?</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>I mean something. That’s what I would’ve thought of. But guess what I found is after I started doing them, I got a little bit better. I got better at telling stories. I got better at communicating the information. I found, you know, where you can have your pauses and where you have your energy. Right? I got better. I started building an audience. As I started doing them consistently, I just started learning. I started self-assessing. This is a big tip. I went back and I looked at not just my post but my lives and I looked at the last 30 and I did an assessment on the three that people liked the most topics and the topics that I didn’t get much engagement. It wasn’t a different version of me. They were all me. What did my audience resonate with? And so I would do a self audit. And as I started doing that audit, it helped me just to keep getting better and better and better and better. And so I just put a ton of free content. You know, we hear all the time, it’s what you put out into the world.</p><p> </p><p>It’s the value provided. It comes back full circle. I think sometimes we hear that we roll our eyes, but honestly if you study the greats and you look at how much free value they put out, right? And content. And how it does come back background. I was estimating that I had done, before I sold my first course, it was something like 300 plus, either lives or videos. I mean that’s an insane amount. I’m not telling you that you have to do that, I’m just giving perspective on it. So that’s a lot, now when I go back and think about it. But it helped me so much, not just for building my brand and audience but also for me becoming obsessive on freaking out. Cause I didn’t know what I was going to talk about next. So I started deliberately listening more, and reading books.</p><p> </p><p>I was already reading and listening to a ton of books, but now I had more of a purpose, right? And it started paying attention more to all trainings in advance, and other Facebook lives. So my ability to learn went through the roof because now there was even a more compelling reason because I was freaking out. I was thinking, Oh no, I’m supposed to do another live or video tomorrow. The next thing, I have no idea. If people have heard me so much, what am I going to say? How am I going to say something different? What am I going to do? So it’s been quite the journey. And the more I learned, the more I learn. I’ve got a ton more to learn.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Well that mindset of, I mean many people with three comments would have quit. But you have, because I’ve learned from you, you have certain routines in your day that gave you that perseverance, that strength. So what I love on this podcast is I always ask my guests, what are the things that you do daily that allow you to have that perseverance, to have that strong mind, to have the discipline to keep going when it doesn’t feel like we want to keep going?</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>Yeah. So everything begins and ends with purpose. If the purpose and vision isn’t big enough, you’ll just quit. So if you’re going to the gym and you’re like, yeah, I’m gonna, I’m going to get shredded or I’m going to have that great body for this vacation. If the purpose is big enough, you’ll keep going. But if it’s like, yeah, I just want to go cause it would be nice because I’m supposed to, you’ll quit. So it always starts with that purpose and the reason why you’re doing something. And then after that, I’ve got a whole success formula. But in short for me, I’m a firm believer of show me your minimums and I’ll show you your future. And I believe that willpower is a muscle that needs to be exercised that can help you out with everything. And I know when I say I’m going to do something, I’m going to do it because it’s a muscle that I continually exercise.</p><p> </p><p>So for me, yes, I haven't missed a week working out in the last decade, an entire week, and I travel a lot, I've been to 15 plus countries in the last 18 months. I never miss date night when I'm in town, and do something with my kids every single week when I'm in town. I have missed some sort of spiritual reading like the Bible, only one time in the last 11 years. I haven't missed reading personal development, even one day in 10 years, I haven't missed not one day in 10 plus years. Now it's 11 years. But for me, those are small things. But those things helped me to practice that discipline and willpower. And they also helped to give myself confidence. Look, if you say you're going to wake up at 6:00 AM and you never wake up 6:00 AM, you just took out a withdrawal of trust in yourself. So I'm constantly looking for small victories.</p><p> </p><p>I'm constantly looking to create minimum goals, cause I know we all have those B Habs, they carry audacious goals where it comes from the book of degree. Well there's huge goals. We're dreamers. That's great. You still should have this, but what are the minimum goals than non-negotiables that you're gonna set yourself up, right. For success. And so I'm constantly doing that and that's all I did in my business, when I went through the times where you know this, I made less than $400 in my fifth month in network marketing and I didn't know if I was supposed to laugh at that check or just cry when I saw the check because I had quit my job. So I was working 80 hours a week in network marketing and I made that little and I'm just thinking, what have I gotten myself into? Then I started focusing more and more on what are the income producing activities.</p><p> </p><p>How do I stay in those? How do I focus on just doing my best? If I need to go back and get a job, I can, but don’t be grudged network marketing because network marketing for most people when you start, it’s actually dessert. Dinner is your job. And eventually maybe you’re making enough that you can make that choice depending on what your goals are and how things happen. So I wasn’t going to be grudged dessert because I quit way too soon in my job and I just started focusing on gratitude and income producing activities and things got better and better and better. Trust me though, I still had those huge doubts, downtimes, right? Where we all go through those plateaus. But, it was a learning lesson. It was definitely was a process. And last thing I’ll say, Beth, I know you would say the same thing is I’ll take tough over good any day. Tough can handle a bad day, bad week, bad month, bad quarter, good without toughness, has bad day, bad week, bad month, bad quarter, and their egos just can’t handle it. So they create all the excuses on why this isn’t going to work and they panic in the moment. So it’s important that you have long term vision balanced with short term urgency. Did you hear that? Long term vision, short time vision, short term urgency.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>So I want to piggyback on that because I find that, and I know that you see this too, that we have so much that we hear about mindset and affirmations and set those big audacious goals and people aren’t producing because they’re not involved with income producing activities. So for someone that’s in marketing, we have people listening, mostly network marketers because they’re going to see our names, but many that are building online businesses are like, I have humans that aren’t even in marketing, but it’s consistency of those income producing activities. If you are going to say to someone, if you were starting in a network marketing business today, what would be your income producing activities, your non negotiables. I’m doing these every single day.</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>Working in this business is talking to brand new people. If you aren’t talking to brand new people, you weren’t working in this business. Too many people make the plan for the plan or the plan and they come back to Beth. They’re like Beth. I watched six Facebook lives today. I watched two zoom trainings. I did two hours of personal development and bests, like, that’s incredible. How many people do you talk to? Well, my friend Julie, I dropped the hint that these products are so good. So it was an indirect approach and there’s this other friend named Joe who I’m thinking about reaching out to. So yeah, I’m, you know, I’m all over this. I’m crushing it in too many times. We’re working in our minds because we’re used to trading time for money and in a job you work X amount, you get paid X amount.</p><p> </p><p>And so people come in and they want to find a way to fill up their time where they’re busy and they’re working because that’s their association from most of their lives. And this business compensates you based on what you do. And for those of you that have online businesses that are listening, that are entrepreneurs, it’s the same exact same thing for network marketing or non-network marketing, right? You figure out what those income producing activities are. So working in this business is talking to people. That’s number one. Number two would be doing some sort of third party validation. Whether that’s messenger chat, you know that you create, whether it’s a three way call a zoom, even if it’s an offline meeting, they just need to hear another voice. I’ve found that people that don’t have success almost always it’s, they aren’t talking to enough new people in.</p><p> </p><p>They aren’t doing enough third party validations. It’s one or the other or both. That’s it. Now the rest of the stuff can go along with it. It can be, you know, you gotta add to your lead list. You talking with team members. But again, too many of us get caught up where we’re reaching out to our team members because, and I’ll make fun of myself because this was me when I started because I was the super supportive applied. And so it’s, Hey Becky, how can I help you? I’m here for you. Anything you need girl. Now if I said that as a guy, anything you need girls, she’d slap me. But anything you need, I’m here for you. I got you. I got your back, right. I’m here for you. Oh, let me send you another YouTube video to watch. Here’s another Facebook live. Ooh, did you study the comp plan?</p><p> </p><p>Ok, most of you have systems inside of your companies that work in this business talking to people, they’re putting in front of new people, still love on them. I’m not telling you to abandon them at all, but the best way to lead them is to lead by example. You can tell them every single day how much momentum you’re in and how excited you are, but as Ralph Waldo Emerson says, what you do speak so loudly, I cannot hear what you say. Speed of the leader, speed of the pack, and it’s absolutely true. So you’ve got to get back to that and then I would track it. How many new people did you actually talk to? How many third party validations did you actually do? I would have an accountability partner buddy that you’re reaching out to and you’re just texting every night and what you did or didn’t do in a positive way.</p><p> </p><p>You can say, today I got my butt kicked, or today didn't do anything, but tomorrow I plan on reaching out to three brand new people, X, Y, Z as you go and fill that out. But it's really just getting people focused. And I think about this, Beth, all the podcasts, right? Your podcast, my podcast, Facebook live trainings, free content, team trainings, everything, conventions...all of that is there for what? To build, belief, to give you enough vision and confidence in the companies, the products and profession/industries/whatever else new you all create for Beth and I to call it, right? And all of that is just to get you to reach out to new people. Think about it, look how simple and crazy that is. That's what it's for. Right? So that's what my response would be. And most people, they don't even track their numbers, which is crazy.</p><p> </p><p>You’re running a real business, right? Where right. All business, they don’t track it crazy.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Well and I just spoke to a leader that I respect greatly and even me at this level. I said to her, okay, she just hit this incredible bonus and I said, well, tell me what are you doing? I was, of course it’s like for me, what diet? How did you lose that weight? How did you build that? And she just said, do you want to know what I did? I reached out to 201 people a day to see if they were open to watching a video about what it is that I did and she said, I went back to the basics and I know that some people are saying, well that feels spammy, but if you’re putting out valuable content that is pulling people toward you, I was not warmed up.</p><p> </p><p>I was not given like, Hey girl, what’s going on? I see your son’s killing it on the ice and hockey. I was sent a text from my friend flare that said, I want you to take a look at this opportunity and at this product the product is working for me. I have studied, I want you on board. When can we talk? That was how I was recruited in. I had third party validation from four people that day and I was challenged to get my first customer in using the tools. I had never put the product in my body. I was using the tools, being honest, saying, Hey, I’m getting started with this. I’m on a health journey and let me introduce you to my friend Elise. Let me introduce you to my friend Sheila, and it is so basic because even, and I’m a little old school meets new school, I love content.</p><p> </p><p>I love the pull method, but at the end of the day, if you want someone to sit with you at lunch, you’ve got to ask my husband. Finally, this is a great story. I love this because we won’t go into are two truths and a lie. You guys, if you have never gone to a mastermind with Rob Sperry, literally I laughed until my stomach hurt and I walked away with so much value. We’re going to give you how to get those pieces, but I went to Utah, I missed Mexico. We’re not even going how I had such FOMO and the friendships still. I still get texts from Cynthia almost every week. The check-ins, the accountability, the laughter, and then the value that we had. So I’m putting that, that’s just another tangent to go on. But if you were to, this is my husband, he wanted to go out with me and he kept being kind of elusive.</p><p> </p><p>He’d be like, Hey, let’s grab some dinner. And we were all riding horses in the same barn. We had this competitive show circuit. It’s like tennis. It’s like anything. And I would invite like five people to come cause you know me Rob, I don’t do anything alone. And I’d invite five people to come. And finally after he paid for like six barn dinners, I’m like, Hey, John’s paying for everybody for dinner. Let’s go. I was in my twenties I mean I didn’t really process that much. And finally he called me, he said, listen, I want to go out with you alone. Will you go to lunch with me tomorrow at the moose preserve? And I was like, Oh yes, that’s a yes. He finally didn’t beat around the Bush. And that’s the piece of it. Let’s talk about this because this is on everybody’s mind. We have a lot of people out there.</p><p> </p><p>We care about attraction marketing. We don’t tell people what we do. We pull them toward us with comments and I do all of that. But on the backside I am straight forward. Here’s what I do, what problem am I solving for them? And I get right to the point. And that’s sometimes not a popular way to do it. It’s worked for me and I won’t change that because success leaves clues. What are your feelings when you have someone that’s, Oh no, I would never like I feel that maybe prospecting is a dirty word for some people.</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p> </p><p>So it’s interesting. This has been a really big insight for me. I think the way you just phrased it was perfect in the sense that anyone that tells you that you have to message someone right away. And that’s the only way to do it is wrong. Anyone that tells you that you have to wait is wrong. So they’re both wrong and they’re both right. But where people are wrong is when they think that it’s a one size fits all. You’ll talk to a lot of leaders that say, if I would have been approached directly right away, first message, I would have never said yes. You talked to other leaders, right? Where if I would not have been approached directly, I would have said no. So now people are trying to figure out what, and the biggest I think mistake is, is people misinterpret duplication and they confuse principles and techniques.</p><p> </p><p>So now they start teaching techniques like their set principles of everyone has to do with this way and they take the duplication to the extreme, where now they’re trying to turn everybody into robots and they stifle their creativity and their authenticity. And so what I tell people is to be the bold version of themselves. Now I know that the bold, authentic version of yourself, I know that can be an overused cliche statement, but let me tell you what I mean by that. Do what’s gonna make you feel the most comfortable but still both. And what do I mean by that? If you’re someone Beth, that’s where you’ve had success, where maybe if she knows you, it’s always going to be the first message. Maybe if she doesn’t know you, it’s going to be the first conversation and not first message. Right. I’m giving you examples.</p><p> </p><p>If that to her is that bold version of her. That’s what she should do. If you’re someone that says, Oh, I would never do that. Great, and then maybe it’s your second or third conversation. All I’ll say is this. If you don’t know someone and you’re just sending them a link, you’re spamming them. And if you’re feeling like you need to have five or six conversations, I personally believe you’re, you’re overdoing it. So it’s always somewhere in the middle is the principal. And of course it sounds really nice and cute to say, well, let’s approach them how they want to be approached. How do you know you don’t? So it doesn’t work. It sounds good, but it doesn’t work. So approach people on how you would want to be approached.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Wait, that’s golden. Say it again.</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p> </p><p>Approach people on how you would want to be approached. That’s how you’re going to feel that that’s how you’re going to be able to be more bold. Because if you’re someone that doesn’t want approach someone until the second or third conversation and your leaders are telling you have to approach in the first message, you’re, you’re not going to feel like authentic version of you. And if it’s the opposite of you’re someone that says, Hey, I want to get straight to the point, am I applying, is telling me and my leaders are telling me that I have to wait until a third conversation. You’re getting, you’re going to be like, this just doesn’t feel right. So that’s, that’s what I suggest.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Well, and, and we can go into all of the different styles of people that you’re talking to. We did a lot of that training at your mastermind of really understanding, if I was an animal, I wouldn’t be a shark. You know, what is Beth like to do? She likes to have fun. She wants to be at the mastermind, but I also have a little bit of that shark in me, but I don’t care about the details. Tell me what to do and I’ll do it and there’s just, we were talking about tennis before we got on. I played today with a woman that has a total untraditional style. She switches hands, she LOBs the ball, she hits these angles where Rob would never play tennis that way because he’s going to drill this top spin forehand to the deep in the corner. So you pop the ball up and you can win the next point coming in.</p><p> </p><p>I’m just guessing that’s your style, but it’s the same with network marketing, but at the end of the day, are you winning? What are your results? Do you need to train to get better? Yes. I always say learn and earn on the same day, listen to a training over in Tgon nation and then go put it to work and it’s not always going to feel like perfect the first time, but also be intuitive. Ask more questions. Right? I get messages all the time, like 15 sentences a link and I wish they would have started with, Hey, I noticed that you’re in network marketing. Can I share something with you? Are you open to a new product or just like a conversation before a copy and paste. And I always turn around and the other thing is, is I don’t want people to get pissed off at network marketers. So many people are like, Oh, not those people.</p><p> </p><p>I just look at it as not being educated. So I always turn back around and say, I lead a team of 11,000 I’ve become really good at this. Can I give you some advice? Because I love this industry and I want you to have success. And thinking about that now, that human that just sent me that message, if she’s looking for some coaching, if Rob was giving her that advice, I’m sure you get pitched all the time and you have kindness and compassion and you’re there to serve and help. They’re going to turn to you when they need something. It’s, it’s just, it’s the law of reciprocation. It’s being a good human. And, and I also think that if your mindset is, Oh, should I send the message? Oh, should I not? If you are confident and you have belief in what you’re doing and what you’re sending of what you’re sharing, it’s genuine.</p><p> </p><p>Like when you asked me to come to the mastermind, you had such confidence and what you could do, the guests you were bringing, the community that I would meet, you weren’t like, Oh, should I ask her? Should I worry if that’s too much money for her to spend? You told me what was going to happen at the mastermind. You were excited. You couldn’t wait to share the guests and to share the list of other speakers. And that’s what I think happens is we worry so much. It’s like if you have belief, just be you, right?</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>I think a lot of it though for people with exactly what you’re saying is the fact that the fact that they make commissions on other PayPal, which sounds so crazy and weird, they struggle because they feel like even though they know they’re givers, they are worried about the perception of coming off as takers. Oh, well you just want me because of this. So I think that’s a big thing for people is trying to figure out how they can convey that they’re givers and truly feel like that. Because yeah, I mean, how many time we’re selling everything. There’s a great movie coming out and you’re selling go see it. Or even if you haven’t seen it or you’re selling after you saw it or a great restaurant and you’re helping out and you’re actually selling on people to go buy things all the time on things that you absolutely love. If you got the, the new iPhone and you love it, you’re selling people by telling them how incredible the photos are and it’s so worth it, but you make nothing off of it.</p><p> </p><p>So you’re a true giver. You’re okay making these big huge corporations money. But then when it comes to helping you achieve your dreams as well as your teams achieve your dreams, we, we just felt like, ah, I can’t do that. I can’t do that. Which is just crazy to me and I understand it cause I Island through it as well. Right? So it just takes time to overcome those limiting beliefs and truly understand and realize what you have and also get at communicating. And guess what? Some will understand someone, no matter how good you get at communicating, and that’s part of your role is if you want to stop playing small and you want to start to achieving even more of your dreams, you got to get over what other people think. That is one of the hardest things for everybody is just to get over what others think.</p><p> </p><p>The fear of judgment is the mother of all fears. Think about it. If you’re an entrepreneur, network marketer, list all your fears, fear, success, feeling, fear, failure, fear of inadequacy, fear of public speaking, fear of rejection. List them all. Now remove the fear of judgment and none of those exists. Think about that. That’s the mother of all fears. So everyone’s just being more descriptive on their specific fear of judgment, but that’s really what they’re talking about. So you’ve got to understand that and hit that head on and say, you know what? There’s Darren Hardy says, the greatest determining factor of who shows up at your burial is the weather. Why do we have so much fear of judgment? They’re going to judge you no matter what. They’re going to judge you because you’re too skinny. They’re going to judge you cause you’re too fat. They’re going to judge you because you never work out.</p><p> </p><p>They’re going to judge you because you work out too much. They’re going to judge you because you’re super ultra successful. They’re going to judge you because you’re not. They’re going to judge you because you do too many Facebook lives. People are going to judge you no matter what. So don’t let them dictate your future and stop playing small because God didn’t put you on this earth to play small. Didn’t say, Oh well I’m going to send Beth down to this earth and she’s just going to be a below average human being. Sounds pretty funny, right? Thinking that way, but that’s how we act. Many of us.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>So, have good news because you can head over to Rob’s podcast and we’re going to continue this conversation and we’re going to talk about how you can connect with Rob. I want to end with this and then the conversation continues cause there’s a back to back podcast recording because we knew you wanted more of us. I mean come on. This is like the, I don't know, what’s your favorite talk show? You don’t watch TV back in the day. Did your parents watch like a talk show or a Johnny Carson?</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>Everything on all the news. They can tell you everything that’s going on in the world. That’s where I get my updates. I just ask him on Sundays every other week. I know what’s going on in the world in 20 minutes.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>My mom does the same thing. Okay. If you had to share one book right now that’s on your mind besides your own cause, we’re going to and I want you to tell us how we can grab your book and you have all different ways to connect. I want a shout out to that. If you want to meet Rob and me, we’re both sharing a stage at the top summit in Naples, Florida in February. We’ll put a link below for you to grab tickets for that event. But what is the one book right now? Someone’s like, okay, I need to overcome this judgment, this fear, I need to make this happen. What book would you think should be in their ear buds? In their hands? The Bible, but the, the next piece of it?</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>Yeah, if we’re talking fears, there’s different ones. I think probably the best person that’s talking about it in her way, which I love, is Brene Brown and she talks a lot about vulnerability. There’s dare to lead. There’s braving the wilderness. I mean, she’s got five or six really good books and she’ll talk about the power in vulnerability and no one’s ever become great without the vulnerability and the necessary tasks that come along with it. So I love that. I can’t remember which one, but one of the books they recorded is actually her speaking life for the audience. I loved that because you got to hear it a little bit more of a sense of humor and different things. And so that would be a really, really good book. You got it right there right now.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>And I didn’t tag you as like a Brene Brown fan, because I consume, I love, I love, love, love her. Now Rob Sperry, how can people tell us there’s a million ways you offer a ton for free. How do people connect with you? How do they get some trading from you and get into your world? Besides me, who was like scroll, scroll, scroll stock. Like and you just showed up in my Facebook feed one day and that was because your consistency of showing up and, and then I asked you, I now know what it was. I asked you a tennis question about something to do with tennis. I wanted to find some common ground. I should’ve just said, Hey Rob, I think you’re super cool. And I just wanted to indirect approach with to me, yes, I was talking to a celebrity. Oh that’s how we get connected with you. And we’ll add all of that down in the show notes.</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>Oh, I’ll go, well first off you guys gotta continue on with the podcast. So go follow me on network marketing for breakthroughs with Rob Sperry, whichever podcast you prefer the most, you can search it as you know it’s really, really easy to find. It’s it’s everywhere and that’s the first thing. So you can consume a ton of free content, lots and lots of in depth trainings as well as interviews first place. The next place is if you follow me either on social media, I’m consistent there. Or if you go to RobSperry.com and is he going to RobSperry.com there’s things like a free ebook help you on never running out of leads and recruiting. So that’ll pop up there that you’d be able to do to see. I’ve got free info graphics to help you out with social media and building your business that I give out there.</p><p> </p><p>I’ve got courses in there. And then the last one would just be, I won’t talk about the mastermind cause the mastermind we’ve talked about and you’ll see it on RobSperry.com I have both the six and seven figure earner mastermind, which we ended up with 26 at the one in Maui, just this last week top earners, which was incredible. And then I have a six figure breakthrough. So if you haven’t made six figures yet and you want the blueprint for that, we don’t do fluff from these masterminds. These, it’s not me talking at you, it’s answering your question, strategizing with all you in sharing my strategies on how you can go to tgonnation.com and that’s my ongoing monthly subscription, only $27 a month. And that’s where you’ll get motivational Monday. There’s 60 plus trainings from six and seven figure earners you get access to, you get social media tips, lots and lots of good stuff.</p><p> </p><p>So those are all the places that you can go and hopefully learn. Find one thing right? You can take and implement and learn in your business. I’m excited just to continue this podcast with you Beth. Honored and privileged to be on with you. Because sometimes you’re on with people you don’t really know at all, right? It’s a lot easier for us sometimes like a little awkward, especially for an introvert like me who’s, who’s found a way to be extroverted in certain situations. But Oh, last thing I gotta give props to Beth. Remember how we talked about in the last mastermind on creating a sweatshirt with sunglasses?</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Oh yes. Because Rob is an introvert and he travels with a hood up, sunglasses on probably your headphones.</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>I gave those out there and I started out the training there as this is the most important training of the entire mastermind. So people are really like, Oh my goodness, this is going to be serious. So this is for all of you. The most important part of the podcast is what I gave out to all these top earners. You said the top eight introvert hacks to avoid talking to the person next to you on the plane. These are the top eight max. We’ll go through fast. Number one, headphones on. Do not make the mistake of putting your headphones on late. If you wait to put your headphones on after the introvert. Next you sits down. You are a great risk of having a conversation. Where are you are from and you may be forced to fake laugh. This has been known to cause introvert nightmares for about three weeks. That’s tip number one. I mean this is, this is some new stuff. Number two, Huddy time. Put that hoodie on ASAP. Do you meal feel like a complete weirdo, which is exactly the point. Number three sunglasses. This may be a little extreme, but we all know that sometimes we have to go above and beyond to solidify our position. What are you willing to do to have introvert success? This is my insurance policy. Strategy number four, do not make eye contact with the person next to you. If an extrovert makes eye contact with you, it is all over. The battle is lost and you will need to learn from this awful failure. Number five, wear a surgical mask. Yes, this may be the craziest to them all, but really is a win when you avoid germs and people. Number six, window seats are proven to create 32.3465 63% less conversations. Number seven, wear an eye mask. And number eight, this is the kicker, this is the last one. Fake it. You got to fake it. A percent of the time. It works every time. And then I finished with this. Be aware of extroverts telling you how much talking to new people or talking to people on airplanes. It’s helped their business. It’s a trap to convert you to the other side. So I mean this is, I mean this is some in debt, you know, it took me some time to create this. So that’s what I will finish with for everybody. Just to make sure that you know that you introverts, I got your back, you extroverts. Now you know all our secret sauce tips on how to convert us.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Yeah. And I’m the one on the airplane that’s making eye contact with you. No. Where do you live, Rob?</p><p> </p><p>Rob:</p><p>I know. That’s why I had to create all these tips that I can.</p><p> </p><p>Beth:</p><p>Yeah, now I know. Now I know. All right, so we’re going to end this podcast. We’re heading on over to where Rob, say it again. Maybe your podcast <strong>marketing breakthroughs with Rob Sperry</strong>. Yes, so meet us over there. Yeah, and as always, both of us would love a five star review. Let us know, leave it for us over on iTunes that shows us that you’re loving the content. It keeps us going and keeps us up in the ratings so that you can find us like I did at Rob with a Facebook scroll, which completely transformed my business. Not only the numbers, but also the energy and gratitude that I had going forward. So we’ll catch you guys over on Rob’s podcast. Thanks, Rob. We’ll see y’all soon.</p><p> </p><p>Thanks so much for hanging out with me today and You’re Not the Boss of Me. I’m hoping that you’ve found one thing that you will do today that will allow you to move forward to that big, audacious goal. And I have a favor to ask of you, and that is leading me a five star review over in iTunes every single week. I read your reviews. I love hearing what you have to say, and it allows me to bring you more to get more people to interview that are doing the thing, breaking the glass ceilings, creating what they crave, and helping you with your game plan. So leave me a five star review, and when you do, I enter you to win the, you’re not the boss of me swag, so make sure you leave it and we’ll reach out to you if you’re the winner. Thanks so much for hanging in with me today and we’ll chat with you soon.</p><p> </p><p> </p>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we’ll be discussing the very first principles of “building your business your way” and the many different techniques we can use to make it grow without sacrificing all the other areas in our lives. We’ll be also talking about residual income and how to make it part of our vision so we won’t have to invest all of our time and energy in selling one thing over and over.</p><p>One of the most important things to consider while building our businesses is to create something, a product or service, so significantly good that it’ll keep us in the game, making a reasonable amount of money for as long as we want to. </p><p>Tune in and find all the tools we need to make our mindsets flow with our action plans.</p><p><strong>Keynotes discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>Nice girls can be in Network Marketing too (01:21)</li><li>The basics of residual income: how can you diversify your incomes? (04:19)</li><li>Building your business your way and the automation of services (05:17)</li><li>The principle of duplication in growing businesses (07:19)</li><li>Show people how can they build their business the right way (10:38)</li></ul><p><strong>Additional Resources:</strong></p><ul><li>The Flip Flop CEO Book: <a href="https://theflipflopceo.com/">https://theflipflopceo.com/</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">The Camp Elevate Facebook Group</a></li><li>Beth's Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/</a></li><li>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/</a></li></ul><p>--</p><p>Be sure to leave a rating and review on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1475175551">Apple Podcasts</a> and share it with a friend that would get some value!</p><p>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/</a></p><p>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/</a></p>
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One of the most important things to consider while building our businesses is to create something, a product or service, so significantly good that it’ll keep us in the game, making a reasonable amount of money for as long as we want to. 

Tune in and find all the tools we need to make our mindsets flow with our action plans.</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>In this episode, we’ll be discussing the very first principles of “building your business your way” and the many different techniques we can use to make it grow without sacrificing all the other areas in our lives. We’ll be also talking about residual income and how to make it part of our vision so we won’t have to invest all of our time and energy in selling one thing over and over.

One of the most important things to consider while building our businesses is to create something, a product or service, so significantly good that it’ll keep us in the game, making a reasonable amount of money for as long as we want to. 

Tune in and find all the tools we need to make our mindsets flow with our action plans.</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>07: Stefanie Gass - Mompreneur Mastermind</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>When you decide to take a step back from the hustle and grind, there are a lot of things to consider, that’s why I brought Stefanie to talk with me today because she has helped a lot of people to find their message, create successful businesses and to work on a content strategy that works for you and not the other way around.</p><p>In this episode, we are going to learn a very valuable lesson about self-worth and overachievement, so tune in because this journey is about to begin.</p><p><strong>Key Points Discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>Stefanie’s journey to entrepreneurship: how did it all begin? (4:40)</li><li>False Achievements and overachievement: recognizing your self-worth beyond validation (08:36)</li><li>Redefining worth in your own terms and restoring balance in your life (11:57)</li><li>A day in the life: how does an entrepreneurial life look from the inside? (17:20)</li><li>How to start working on a super effective content strategy? (22:52)</li><li>Finding your ideal platform: how to get your content out? (30:10)</li></ul><p><strong>Additional Resources:</strong></p><ul><li>The Mompreneur Mastermind Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mompreneur-mastermind-show-mindset-social-media-marketing/id1437868374?mt=2">bit.ly/themompreneurmastermindshow</a></li><li>Stefanie’s Website: <a href="https://www.stefaniegass.com/">stefaniegass.com</a></li><li>Stefanie’s Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/stefaniegass/">@stefaniegass</a></li><li>Beth and Stefanie’s online course: <a href="https://www.stefaniegass.com/bethgraves.html">https://www.stefaniegass.com/bethgraves</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">The Camp Elevate Facebook Group</a></li><li>Beth's Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/</a></li><li>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/</a></li></ul><p>--</p><p>Be sure to leave a rating and review on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1475175551">Apple Podcasts</a> and share it with a friend that would get some value!</p><p>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/</a></p><p>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 16 Oct 2019 10:00:27 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Stefanie Gass, Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/07-stefanie-gass-mompreneur-mastermind-gLD_30m8</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When you decide to take a step back from the hustle and grind, there are a lot of things to consider, that’s why I brought Stefanie to talk with me today because she has helped a lot of people to find their message, create successful businesses and to work on a content strategy that works for you and not the other way around.</p><p>In this episode, we are going to learn a very valuable lesson about self-worth and overachievement, so tune in because this journey is about to begin.</p><p><strong>Key Points Discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>Stefanie’s journey to entrepreneurship: how did it all begin? (4:40)</li><li>False Achievements and overachievement: recognizing your self-worth beyond validation (08:36)</li><li>Redefining worth in your own terms and restoring balance in your life (11:57)</li><li>A day in the life: how does an entrepreneurial life look from the inside? (17:20)</li><li>How to start working on a super effective content strategy? (22:52)</li><li>Finding your ideal platform: how to get your content out? (30:10)</li></ul><p><strong>Additional Resources:</strong></p><ul><li>The Mompreneur Mastermind Podcast: <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/mompreneur-mastermind-show-mindset-social-media-marketing/id1437868374?mt=2">bit.ly/themompreneurmastermindshow</a></li><li>Stefanie’s Website: <a href="https://www.stefaniegass.com/">stefaniegass.com</a></li><li>Stefanie’s Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/stefaniegass/">@stefaniegass</a></li><li>Beth and Stefanie’s online course: <a href="https://www.stefaniegass.com/bethgraves.html">https://www.stefaniegass.com/bethgraves</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">The Camp Elevate Facebook Group</a></li><li>Beth's Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/</a></li><li>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/</a></li></ul><p>--</p><p>Be sure to leave a rating and review on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1475175551">Apple Podcasts</a> and share it with a friend that would get some value!</p><p>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/</a></p><p>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/</a></p>
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      <itunes:title>07: Stefanie Gass - Mompreneur Mastermind</itunes:title>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Everyone has that woman that they look up to, I have mine and I’m sure you have yours too, well, everything starts with envisioning that successful woman and realize that she is not that different and that you can also accomplish everything you want if you are willing to work for it.</p><p>Today, we are going to study a handful of success stories, we are going to decode the patterns and you are going to take all that knowledge to start writing your own story.</p><p><strong>Key Points Discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>Courage: the first step to develop the resilience you need to hit success (03:53)</li><li>The belief in your ability to navigate obstacles when they come. (05:00)</li><li>Set your boundaries and start choosing the relationships that strengthen you. (06:44)</li><li>The essentials of finding a sense of purpose and mission (08:43)</li><li>Accepting failure as part of the journey and the willingness to take the risk (10:15)</li><li>Taking full responsibility for your failure and your success (16:00)</li></ul><p><strong>Additional Resources:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://valorieburton.com/product/successful-women-think-differently-2/">Successful women think differently Book</a></li><li><a href="https://gabbybernstein.com/superattractorbook/">Super Attractor Book</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">The Camp Elevate Facebook Group</a></li><li>Beth's Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/</a></li><li>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/</a></li></ul><p>--</p><p>Be sure to leave a rating and review on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1475175551">Apple Podcasts</a> and share it with a friend that would get some value!</p><p>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/</a></p><p>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 14 Oct 2019 10:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/06-how-to-be-a-successful-badass-woman-7dN0ryPR</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Everyone has that woman that they look up to, I have mine and I’m sure you have yours too, well, everything starts with envisioning that successful woman and realize that she is not that different and that you can also accomplish everything you want if you are willing to work for it.</p><p>Today, we are going to study a handful of success stories, we are going to decode the patterns and you are going to take all that knowledge to start writing your own story.</p><p><strong>Key Points Discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>Courage: the first step to develop the resilience you need to hit success (03:53)</li><li>The belief in your ability to navigate obstacles when they come. (05:00)</li><li>Set your boundaries and start choosing the relationships that strengthen you. (06:44)</li><li>The essentials of finding a sense of purpose and mission (08:43)</li><li>Accepting failure as part of the journey and the willingness to take the risk (10:15)</li><li>Taking full responsibility for your failure and your success (16:00)</li></ul><p><strong>Additional Resources:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://valorieburton.com/product/successful-women-think-differently-2/">Successful women think differently Book</a></li><li><a href="https://gabbybernstein.com/superattractorbook/">Super Attractor Book</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">The Camp Elevate Facebook Group</a></li><li>Beth's Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/</a></li><li>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/</a></li></ul><p>--</p><p>Be sure to leave a rating and review on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1475175551">Apple Podcasts</a> and share it with a friend that would get some value!</p><p>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/</a></p><p>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/</a></p>
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      <itunes:title>06: How To Be A Successful BADASS Woman!</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>Beth Holden Graves</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>In this episode, I’m going to share with you some of the principles and characteristics that successful women have in common, so you can start applying them into your life and ultimately help you develop the habits, routines and resilience you need to set those goals and pursue them until the end. Are you ready?</itunes:summary>
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      <title>05: Danelle Delgado - The Millionaire Maker</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we are talking about the real work behind achieving those goals, about the importance of gratitude, learning and sacrifice. This is going to be one amazing experience where you will learn how to get yourself in motion and start making an impact on others  </p><p>Tune in and take the opportunity to learn all these amazing lessons by one of the top business mentors in the country </p><p> </p><p><strong>Key points discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>Danelle’s thorough talent scouting and the reason why she chose Beth  (03:26)</li><li>From the worst human in sales ever to life-changing author (10:00)</li><li>The gratitude, growth goals routine and how to start working on it (15:32)</li><li>The importance of being aligned with your goals, finding your true north (22:51)</li><li>Take the gratitude, growth and goals challenge today (27:48)</li><li>Simplify your process, how to narrow down your goals? (30:51)</li></ul><p> </p><p><strong>Additional Resources:</strong></p><ul><li>Danelle’s website: <a href="https://danelledelgado.com/">https://danelledelgado.com/</a></li><li>Danelle’s book “I Choose Joy”: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Choose-Joy-Gratitude-Practice-Transform/dp/0692850198">https://www.amazon.com/Choose-Joy-Gratitude-Practice-Transform/dp/0692850198</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">The Camp Elevate Facebook Group</a></li><li>Beth's Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/</a></li><li>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/</a></li></ul><p>--</p><p>Be sure to leave a rating and review on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1475175551">Apple Podcasts</a> and share it with a friend that would get some value!</p><p>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/</a></p><p>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/</a></p>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 10 Oct 2019 10:00:11 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Danelle Delgado, Beth Holden Graves)</author>
      <link>https://the-camp-millionaire-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/04-danelle-delgado-the-millionaire-maker-MHdcN3cI</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we are talking about the real work behind achieving those goals, about the importance of gratitude, learning and sacrifice. This is going to be one amazing experience where you will learn how to get yourself in motion and start making an impact on others  </p><p>Tune in and take the opportunity to learn all these amazing lessons by one of the top business mentors in the country </p><p> </p><p><strong>Key points discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>Danelle’s thorough talent scouting and the reason why she chose Beth  (03:26)</li><li>From the worst human in sales ever to life-changing author (10:00)</li><li>The gratitude, growth goals routine and how to start working on it (15:32)</li><li>The importance of being aligned with your goals, finding your true north (22:51)</li><li>Take the gratitude, growth and goals challenge today (27:48)</li><li>Simplify your process, how to narrow down your goals? (30:51)</li></ul><p> </p><p><strong>Additional Resources:</strong></p><ul><li>Danelle’s website: <a href="https://danelledelgado.com/">https://danelledelgado.com/</a></li><li>Danelle’s book “I Choose Joy”: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Choose-Joy-Gratitude-Practice-Transform/dp/0692850198">https://www.amazon.com/Choose-Joy-Gratitude-Practice-Transform/dp/0692850198</a></li><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">The Camp Elevate Facebook Group</a></li><li>Beth's Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/</a></li><li>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/</a></li></ul><p>--</p><p>Be sure to leave a rating and review on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1475175551">Apple Podcasts</a> and share it with a friend that would get some value!</p><p>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/</a></p><p>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/</a></p>
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      <itunes:title>05: Danelle Delgado - The Millionaire Maker</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>In today’s episode, I’m talking to Danelle Delgado, author of the book &quot;I Choose Joy&quot; and one of my biggest inspirations. Danelle is going to teach us how to build a super-powerful routine to transform our lives and commit to our goals.</itunes:summary>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I’m about to share with you a guide on how to build your own community for whatever your purpose is, because if one thing is certain in this entrepreneurial life is that, you need to start connecting with others, so stick around and let’s find out how to do it together.</p><p>It doesn’t matter in what point of your life you hear this, it is always hard to reach out for others and open up to strangers. But, if you're looking for that magic shift or that supporting energy that makes you feel empowered to create something bigger than yourself, you are going to need a community that provides you not just support, but also other important things like feedback, courage, empathy and so much more.</p><p>Find out what happens when women start showing up for each other when you finally start feeling part of your own sisterhood and make that, part of your business plan.</p><p><strong>Key points discussed:</strong></p><ul><li>Finding your lost sisterhood, how to start connecting with other women (03:04)</li><li>Getting rid of the mean girl society, leaving toxic people behind (04:19)</li><li>Step 1: What is the very first move in finding your cycle? (7:04)</li><li>Step 2: Keeping committed to your community (7:28)</li><li>The camp elevate facebook group experience (12:45)</li><li>Start your own in-person mastermind group (17:54)</li></ul><p><strong>Additional Resources:</strong></p><ul><li><a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/campmillionare/?source_id=1660447650899074">The Camp Elevate Facebook Group</a></li><li>Beth's Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/bethholdengraves/">@bethholdengraves</a></li><li>Beth's website: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/</a></li><li>Camp Elevate: <a href="https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/">https://www.bethholdengraves.com/camp-elevate/</a></li></ul><p>--</p><p>Be sure to leave a rating and review on <a href="https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/id1475175551">Apple Podcasts</a> and share it with a friend that would get some value!</p>
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      <pubDate>Tue, 8 Oct 2019 10:00:06 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>beth@bethholdengraves.com (Beth Holden Graves)</author>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 7 Oct 2019 10:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
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