https://simplecast.com The New Masculine A place where masculine-identifying people come together in community to disrupt outdated models of masculinity; and together, construct new models for our way forward as men. 2019 Travis Stock, Travis Stock Coaching, The New Masculine en Mon, 6 Apr 2026 11:00:00 +0000 Mon, 6 Apr 2026 11:00:12 +0000 https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com The New Masculine https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/5a1472e1-21e8-4cf4-8e74-f4d9bd572e39/248f7481-7d78-4070-9b59-3a760db58ef3/3000x3000/pink-gorilla-2.jpg?aid=rss_feed https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com episodic A place where masculine-identifying people come together in community to disrupt outdated models of masculinity; and together, construct new models for our way forward as men. Travis Stock false https://feeds.simplecast.com/p07GoCoo coach, male, community, masculine, feminine, masculinity, mental health, inclusion, men, life coach, spirituality, self help, lgbtq, personal development, queer Travis Stock travisstock03@gmail.com dfcb4bf6-ebe7-45a2-9b6e-2f605b0d1a22 Why Macho Culture Is a Disorder — And How Men Can Finally Heal | Roberto Schiraldi Find Roberto's book and learn more at robertoschiraldi.com. 

 

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]]> Why Macho Culture Is a Disorder — And How Men Can Finally Heal | Roberto Schiraldi Travis Stock, Roberto Schiraldi 00:56:44 Most men were never taught how to be gentle with themselves — and according to trauma therapist Roberto Schiraldi, that's not a personal failure. It's a cultural disorder with a name. Roberto Schiraldi is a licensed professional counselor, trauma therapist, and racial justice advocate with over 40 years of experience. His book, Post-Traumatic Macho Disorder: The Way Home, unpacks how the cultural conditioning of macho masculinity dehumanizes men and undermines our collective wellbeing — and offers a path forward. In this conversation, Travis and Roberto explore what "Post-Traumatic Macho Disorder" actually means and why fear is at the core of macho culture, how growing up with violence, people-pleasing, and shame shaped Roberto's early life, the moment he called a private detective to have himself killed and what changed everything, his 35-year love story with Eileen and what her death taught him about love, why every man Roberto works with struggles with one thing — being gentle with themselves, what parents can give young boys that most never received, why healing masculinity is additive not subtractive, and the first step Roberto recommends for any man ready to do this work. Most men were never taught how to be gentle with themselves — and according to trauma therapist Roberto Schiraldi, that's not a personal failure. It's a cultural disorder with a name. Roberto Schiraldi is a licensed professional counselor, trauma therapist, and racial justice advocate with over 40 years of experience. His book, Post-Traumatic Macho Disorder: The Way Home, unpacks how the cultural conditioning of macho masculinity dehumanizes men and undermines our collective wellbeing — and offers a path forward. In this conversation, Travis and Roberto explore what "Post-Traumatic Macho Disorder" actually means and why fear is at the core of macho culture, how growing up with violence, people-pleasing, and shame shaped Roberto's early life, the moment he called a private detective to have himself killed and what changed everything, his 35-year love story with Eileen and what her death taught him about love, why every man Roberto works with struggles with one thing — being gentle with themselves, what parents can give young boys that most never received, why healing masculinity is additive not subtractive, and the first step Roberto recommends for any man ready to do this work. lakota, suicidal ideation, fatherhood, unconditional love, masculinity, travis stock, indigenous wisdom, self-love, inner child, macho culture, the new masculine, men's therapy, childhood trauma, men's healing, vulnerability, men's retreat, men's groups, men's work, trauma therapy, emotional intelligence, addiction recovery, masculine identity, conscious masculinity, roberto schiraldi, pipe ceremony, parenting boys, grief and loss, post-traumatic stress, self-compassion, fear, men's mental health, post-traumatic macho disorder, toxic masculinity, men and emotions, intimacy, trauma recovery, men and crying, racial justice, shame false full 99 8c68a5d0-54ca-4217-869b-f5bc09d285bd Under the Current: A Story About Men Breaking Generational Silence - Jared Siler Learn more about Jared’s work: https://www.jaredsilerauthor.com/

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]]> Under the Current: A Story About Men Breaking Generational Silence - Jared Siler Jared Siler, Travis Stock 01:00:52 How does a man break generational silence without losing himself? In this episode of The New Masculine, I sit down with psychologist and author Jared Siler for a powerful conversation about masculinity, vulnerability, ambition, emotional inheritance, and the pressure many men feel to perform strength rather than live it. Jared’s debut novel, Under the Current, follows a high-achieving AI executive who appears to have it all—until the pressure to succeed collides with inherited emotional silence. Through story and lived experience, we explore what happens when men begin to question the identities they were handed. In this conversation, we discuss: • Growing up with steady but emotionally reserved male role models • Why vulnerability creates belonging—even when men resist it • The pressure to perform masculinity in Western culture • Therapy, healing, and the myth of “fixing” yourself • Breaking generational cycles without rejecting your lineage • Why growth doesn’t mean becoming someone else How does a man break generational silence without losing himself? In this episode of The New Masculine, I sit down with psychologist and author Jared Siler for a powerful conversation about masculinity, vulnerability, ambition, emotional inheritance, and the pressure many men feel to perform strength rather than live it. Jared’s debut novel, Under the Current, follows a high-achieving AI executive who appears to have it all—until the pressure to succeed collides with inherited emotional silence. Through story and lived experience, we explore what happens when men begin to question the identities they were handed. In this conversation, we discuss: • Growing up with steady but emotionally reserved male role models • Why vulnerability creates belonging—even when men resist it • The pressure to perform masculinity in Western culture • Therapy, healing, and the myth of “fixing” yourself • Breaking generational cycles without rejecting your lineage • Why growth doesn’t mean becoming someone else modern masculinity, high achieving men, therapy for men, breaking generational cycles, men and therapy, masculinity and purpose, masculinity podcast, identity shift in men, men’s inner work, male identity, father wounds, vulnerability in men, healing generational trauma, accountability in men, performance pressure in men, redefining success for men, masculinity and mental health, men and vulnerability, men’s mental health, redefining masculinity, men and emotional growth, men and ego, men’s personal growth, men’s self development, ego and legacy, men and leadership, emotional intelligence for men, purpose driven men, legacy and masculinity, healthy masculinity false full 98 00eabd55-0ec6-461e-97b4-c76a8aed8529 Initiation, Mastery, and Becoming the Man You Were Never Welcomed Into — Marc Azoulay 👉 Learn more about Marc Azoulay’s work:
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]]> Mon, 2 Feb 2026 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Marc Azoulay) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/initiation-mastery-and-becoming-the-man-you-were-never-welcomed-into-marc-azoulay-wb3aolem-JtLC2ITJ 👉 Learn more about Marc Azoulay’s work:
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]]> Initiation, Mastery, and Becoming the Man You Were Never Welcomed Into — Marc Azoulay Travis Stock, Marc Azoulay 01:04:37 What happens when a boy knows early on that he doesn’t fit the dominant model of masculinity—and no one shows him another way? In this episode of The New Masculine, I’m joined by writer, teacher, and facilitator Marc Azoulay for a wide-ranging and deeply honest conversation about masculinity, initiation, mastery, addiction, fatherhood, and the cost of growing up without a clear path into manhood. Marc shares his experience of growing up Jewish, nerdy, and outside the “warrior” masculine ideal—and how the absence of healthy initiation led him to dangerous forms of self-initiation through drugs, risk, and near-fatal consequences. Together, we explore how men are made, not born—and what discipline, mentorship, and belonging actually look like when stripped of outdated stereotypes. We also talk about masculinity as a practice of mastery, the grief of going through transformation without being received by community, and the challenge—and necessity—of holding multiple truths at once in a polarized world. Marc reflects on fatherhood, presence, and what it means to choose relationship over relentless productivity. This conversation is for men who have felt out of place, uninitiated, or quietly asking: There has to be another way. What happens when a boy knows early on that he doesn’t fit the dominant model of masculinity—and no one shows him another way? In this episode of The New Masculine, I’m joined by writer, teacher, and facilitator Marc Azoulay for a wide-ranging and deeply honest conversation about masculinity, initiation, mastery, addiction, fatherhood, and the cost of growing up without a clear path into manhood. Marc shares his experience of growing up Jewish, nerdy, and outside the “warrior” masculine ideal—and how the absence of healthy initiation led him to dangerous forms of self-initiation through drugs, risk, and near-fatal consequences. Together, we explore how men are made, not born—and what discipline, mentorship, and belonging actually look like when stripped of outdated stereotypes. We also talk about masculinity as a practice of mastery, the grief of going through transformation without being received by community, and the challenge—and necessity—of holding multiple truths at once in a polarized world. Marc reflects on fatherhood, presence, and what it means to choose relationship over relentless productivity. This conversation is for men who have felt out of place, uninitiated, or quietly asking: There has to be another way. modern masculinity, becoming a man, travis stock, masculinity podcast, marc azoulay, masculinity and addiction, men and mentorship, men’s podcast, masculine identity, male loneliness, masculine development, redefining masculinity, men’s personal growth, men and belonging, men’s healing, male initiation, fatherhood and masculinity, healthy masculinity, masculinity and mastery, mens work false full 97 a804d0a5-906e-4ad0-9656-c0dc50a854c4 What Horses Teach Men About Presence, Doubt, and Midlife | Tik Maynard Connect with Tim Maynard: https://www.copperlineequestrian.com

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]]> What Horses Teach Men About Presence, Doubt, and Midlife | Tik Maynard Tik Maynard, Travis Stock 01:05:35 What happens when performance stops working—and presence becomes the path forward? In this episode of The New Masculine, Travis Stock is joined by world-class horseman and author Tik Maynard for a thoughtful conversation about masculinity, midlife, doubt, and what horses can teach us about how we relate—to ourselves and others. Drawing from his book Starting in the Middle, Tik reflects on competition, perfectionism, ethical tension, and the courage it takes to listen to your inner voice when external validation falls away. Together, Travis and Tik explore how false certainty shows up in modern masculinity, why authenticity can be a powerful form of leadership, and how presence—not performance—creates real connection. This episode is for men navigating growth, uncertainty, leadership, and the quiet reckoning that often comes at midlife. What happens when performance stops working—and presence becomes the path forward? In this episode of The New Masculine, Travis Stock is joined by world-class horseman and author Tik Maynard for a thoughtful conversation about masculinity, midlife, doubt, and what horses can teach us about how we relate—to ourselves and others. Drawing from his book Starting in the Middle, Tik reflects on competition, perfectionism, ethical tension, and the courage it takes to listen to your inner voice when external validation falls away. Together, Travis and Tik explore how false certainty shows up in modern masculinity, why authenticity can be a powerful form of leadership, and how presence—not performance—creates real connection. This episode is for men navigating growth, uncertainty, leadership, and the quiet reckoning that often comes at midlife. modern masculinity, personal development, authenticity, horses and healing, comfort zone, masculinity, men’s inner work, self trust, midlife transition, empathy in leadership, embodiment, doubt, emotional intelligence, equine wisdom, courage, men’s growth, men’s leadership, learning zone, presence false full 96 a26a5a6e-a8d4-4775-8b5c-4da9c833c6f7 Healing the Masculine Through Consciousness Work & Psychedelics with Michael Tierno Connect with Michael:
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]]> Mon, 1 Dec 2025 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Michael Tierno, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/healing-the-masculine-through-consciousness-work-psychedelics-with-michael-tierno-I8BrCurr Connect with Michael:
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]]> Healing the Masculine Through Consciousness Work & Psychedelics with Michael Tierno Michael Tierno, Travis Stock 01:07:21 What happens when a lifelong skeptic, shaped by strict Catholic schooling and a career rooted in scientific thinking, steps into the world of expanded states of consciousness? In this episode, transformational guide Michael Tierno shares his unexpected path from rationalist to seeker, and how psychedelic experiences—particularly ayahuasca—opened him to a deeper sense of compassion, connection, and emotional integrity. Together, we explore how expanded states can support men in softening old defenses, interrupting long-held patterns, and reconnecting with parts of themselves they’ve been taught to push away. Michael also speaks to his work with Men of Integrity, a community and retreat experience designed to help men reclaim responsibility, vulnerability, and purpose within a supportive brotherhood. We get into: • How psychedelic journeys can shift men’s emotional landscapes • The importance of safe containers, skilled guides, and integration • Why vulnerability among men still feels dangerous—and how to change that • The relationship between spirituality, science, and meaning-making • What real transformation looks like inside men’s communities Whether you’re curious about psychedelics, men’s work, or the ways compassion and connection can reshape a man’s life, this conversation offers a grounded and thoughtful entry point. What happens when a lifelong skeptic, shaped by strict Catholic schooling and a career rooted in scientific thinking, steps into the world of expanded states of consciousness? In this episode, transformational guide Michael Tierno shares his unexpected path from rationalist to seeker, and how psychedelic experiences—particularly ayahuasca—opened him to a deeper sense of compassion, connection, and emotional integrity. Together, we explore how expanded states can support men in softening old defenses, interrupting long-held patterns, and reconnecting with parts of themselves they’ve been taught to push away. Michael also speaks to his work with Men of Integrity, a community and retreat experience designed to help men reclaim responsibility, vulnerability, and purpose within a supportive brotherhood. We get into: • How psychedelic journeys can shift men’s emotional landscapes • The importance of safe containers, skilled guides, and integration • Why vulnerability among men still feels dangerous—and how to change that • The relationship between spirituality, science, and meaning-making • What real transformation looks like inside men’s communities Whether you’re curious about psychedelics, men’s work, or the ways compassion and connection can reshape a man’s life, this conversation offers a grounded and thoughtful entry point. modern masculinity, emotional healing, men’s development, consciousness, plant medicine, spiritual growth, vulnerability, trauma healing, masculine identity, men’s mental health, personal transformation, men’s work, ayahuasca, integration, psychedelic healing false full 95 657b0f11-61a4-4a6c-8b83-af5193b833bb Resilience, Reinvention, and the Power Within — with Wayne Forrest Learn more about Wayne’s work: wayneforrest.com


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]]> Mon, 3 Nov 2025 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Wayne Forrest, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/resilience-reinvention-and-the-power-within-with-wayne-forrest-3kfoqf62 Learn more about Wayne’s work: wayneforrest.com


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]]> Resilience, Reinvention, and the Power Within — with Wayne Forrest Wayne Forrest, Travis Stock 00:58:45 What does it mean to live with resilience in a world full of chaos and uncertainty? In this episode of The New Masculine, Travis Stock talks with Wayne Forrest, a motivational speaker, certified coach, and TEDx presenter from New Zealand whose recovery after a life-changing rugby accident redefines strength and masculinity. Wayne shares how his paralysis became a catalyst for discovering deeper truths about being human — that we are all creation, abundance, and unconditional love. Together, Travis and Wayne explore how men can move from power over others to power with others — standing beside the feminine, embracing vulnerability, and creating from within rather than reacting to chaos. If you’ve ever questioned what it means to be “enough,” or how to find your footing when life changes everything, this conversation offers powerful wisdom and grounded hope. What does it mean to live with resilience in a world full of chaos and uncertainty? In this episode of The New Masculine, Travis Stock talks with Wayne Forrest, a motivational speaker, certified coach, and TEDx presenter from New Zealand whose recovery after a life-changing rugby accident redefines strength and masculinity. Wayne shares how his paralysis became a catalyst for discovering deeper truths about being human — that we are all creation, abundance, and unconditional love. Together, Travis and Wayne explore how men can move from power over others to power with others — standing beside the feminine, embracing vulnerability, and creating from within rather than reacting to chaos. If you’ve ever questioned what it means to be “enough,” or how to find your footing when life changes everything, this conversation offers powerful wisdom and grounded hope. modern masculinity, overcoming adversity, travis stock, the new masculine, vulnerability, redefining strength, reinvention, resilience, motivational speaker, personal transformation, men's mental health, emotional intelligence for men, power within, wayne forrest false full 94 8cc08240-8cde-4bde-90f6-bbe77828a149 Rethinking Divorce, Fatherhood & Masculinity | Chris Stuart Learn more about Chris Stuart and his work at Divorce Team of Memphis and Divorce Resolution Group: https://divorcetom.com

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]]> Rethinking Divorce, Fatherhood & Masculinity | Chris Stuart Chris Stuart, Travis Stock 01:04:57 Divorce is never easy. It can shake your sense of identity, your relationships, and even your belief in yourself. In this episode of The New Masculine, Travis sits down with Chris Stuart — certified divorce coach, father, and entrepreneur — to talk about his own difficult divorce and the work he now does to guide others through this life-changing transition. We explore: - How divorce impacts men differently and why it’s often left unspoken - Chris’s journey from heartbreak to helping others as a divorce coach - Parenting sons and daughters with presence, communication, and resilience - The role of competition in men’s lives — and how to redefine it in healthier ways - Why believing in yourself is the most important step in moving forward Chris shares not just the pain of his experience, but also the hope and clarity he’s found on the other side. Whether you’ve faced divorce, know someone who has, or simply want to better understand men at this crossroads, this conversation is full of insights about masculinity, fatherhood, and recovery. Divorce is never easy. It can shake your sense of identity, your relationships, and even your belief in yourself. In this episode of The New Masculine, Travis sits down with Chris Stuart — certified divorce coach, father, and entrepreneur — to talk about his own difficult divorce and the work he now does to guide others through this life-changing transition. We explore: - How divorce impacts men differently and why it’s often left unspoken - Chris’s journey from heartbreak to helping others as a divorce coach - Parenting sons and daughters with presence, communication, and resilience - The role of competition in men’s lives — and how to redefine it in healthier ways - Why believing in yourself is the most important step in moving forward Chris shares not just the pain of his experience, but also the hope and clarity he’s found on the other side. Whether you’ve faced divorce, know someone who has, or simply want to better understand men at this crossroads, this conversation is full of insights about masculinity, fatherhood, and recovery. fatherhood, divorce coaching, masculinity, healing after divorce, personal growth, parenting, co-parenting, feminine, men’s mental health, divorce recovery, self-belief, relationships, masculine false full 93 c0f78770-d17c-4ccc-8170-b27cb0144251 Facing Shame, Addiction, and Emotions as Men with Pete Armstrong To learn more about Pete: 

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]]> Mon, 1 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Pete Armstrong, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/facing-shame-addiction-and-emotions-as-men-with-pete-armstrong-TmsCgL5W To learn more about Pete: 

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]]> Facing Shame, Addiction, and Emotions as Men with Pete Armstrong Pete Armstrong, Travis Stock 01:05:46 Pete Armstrong’s story is one of shame, struggle, and ultimately, healing. Growing up in a home where anger and criticism shaped his sense of self, Pete often felt like he didn’t belong. Coping through alcohol, addiction, and relationships, he faced anxiety and depression until therapy opened the door to deeper healing. In this episode of The New Masculine, Pete shares how fatherhood shaped his journey, how he learned to empathize with himself, and why emotional awareness is essential for men. Today, as a trauma-informed coach, Pete uses his experience to help others navigate healing and growth. A conversation about shame, belonging, resilience, and the importance of men reclaiming their emotional lives. Pete Armstrong’s story is one of shame, struggle, and ultimately, healing. Growing up in a home where anger and criticism shaped his sense of self, Pete often felt like he didn’t belong. Coping through alcohol, addiction, and relationships, he faced anxiety and depression until therapy opened the door to deeper healing. In this episode of The New Masculine, Pete shares how fatherhood shaped his journey, how he learned to empathize with himself, and why emotional awareness is essential for men. Today, as a trauma-informed coach, Pete uses his experience to help others navigate healing and growth. A conversation about shame, belonging, resilience, and the importance of men reclaiming their emotional lives. emotional awareness for men, trauma informed coaching, travis stock, the new masculine, anxiety and depression, childhood trauma recovery, self empathy, addiction recovery, trauma healing, personal growth for men, men and shame, pete armstrong, men supporting men, men's mental health, pornography addiction recovery, men and belonging, fatherhood and healing, masculinity and vulnerability, trauma and healing false full 92 4be771c6-3ac2-4a14-94fa-a9a1b964358d Hope, Horses, and Healing: How Animals Guided Steve Roe's Men’s Retreat Experience Ready to experience this kind of growth for yourself?

Join us at The New Masculine’s 2025 Men’s Gathering — a powerful weekend of connection, Equine-Assisted Coaching, and men supporting men on the path of conscious masculinity.

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]]> Hope, Horses, and Healing: How Animals Guided Steve Roe's Men’s Retreat Experience Steve Roe, Travis Stock 00:39:12 In this episode of The New Masculine, Travis sits down with Steve, a participant in the 2024 Men’s Gathering, to explore the healing power of animals, community, and vulnerability. Steve shares how his therapy dog, Hope, and later, an experience with horses through Equine-Assisted Coaching, supported his emotional growth and helped him navigate challenges at work and in life. Together, they discuss what it means to be a man in today’s ever-changing world, how men can support each other through fear and uncertainty, and why leadership grounded in empathy and humility matters more than ever. From learning through failure to finding reassurance in community, Steve offers a heartfelt perspective on growth, caution, and courage. 🟢 Topics include: Healing with therapy animals and horses The challenge of modern masculinity Men’s retreats and emotional safety Servant leadership and conscious growth Why community matters on the inner journey In this episode of The New Masculine, Travis sits down with Steve, a participant in the 2024 Men’s Gathering, to explore the healing power of animals, community, and vulnerability. Steve shares how his therapy dog, Hope, and later, an experience with horses through Equine-Assisted Coaching, supported his emotional growth and helped him navigate challenges at work and in life. Together, they discuss what it means to be a man in today’s ever-changing world, how men can support each other through fear and uncertainty, and why leadership grounded in empathy and humility matters more than ever. From learning through failure to finding reassurance in community, Steve offers a heartfelt perspective on growth, caution, and courage. 🟢 Topics include: Healing with therapy animals and horses The challenge of modern masculinity Men’s retreats and emotional safety Servant leadership and conscious growth Why community matters on the inner journey personal development, mens retreat, emotional healing, men's community, masculinity, travis stock, servant leadership, growth through failure, the new masculine, equus coaching, vulnerability, personal growth, emotional intelligence, conscious masculinity, men helping men, healing for men, men's mental health, equine-assisted coaching, equine assisted learning, self help, therapy animals, mens work false full 91 0ab102af-589c-4ba1-8b5a-8a58d039853b Men Supporting Men: Scott Pearse's Experience with Horses and Personal Growth If you’re interested in your own journey of conscious masculinity and emotional growth, join us for The New Masculine’s 2025 Men’s Gathering:
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]]> Men Supporting Men: Scott Pearse's Experience with Horses and Personal Growth Scott Pearse, Travis Stock 00:35:54 In this episode of our ongoing series, Travis reconnects with Scott Pearse, who participated in The New Masculine’s 2024 Men’s Retreat and shares his powerful journey with Equus Coaching and men’s personal growth. Scott opens up about his experience of vulnerability, emotional healing, and transformation through working with horses and connecting with other men in a supportive men’s community. We explore important topics such as: * How men support each other in creating emotional safety and trust * Horses as intuitive mirrors reflecting our inner emotional state * The horse’s unique ability to sense when we’re out of alignment (incongruence) * How working with horses helped Scott improve communication and relationships at work * Scott’s initial hesitation about attending a men’s retreat and the positive impact it had on his life * The power of doing personal growth and healing work within a men’s community In this episode of our ongoing series, Travis reconnects with Scott Pearse, who participated in The New Masculine’s 2024 Men’s Retreat and shares his powerful journey with Equus Coaching and men’s personal growth. Scott opens up about his experience of vulnerability, emotional healing, and transformation through working with horses and connecting with other men in a supportive men’s community. We explore important topics such as: * How men support each other in creating emotional safety and trust * Horses as intuitive mirrors reflecting our inner emotional state * The horse’s unique ability to sense when we’re out of alignment (incongruence) * How working with horses helped Scott improve communication and relationships at work * Scott’s initial hesitation about attending a men’s retreat and the positive impact it had on his life * The power of doing personal growth and healing work within a men’s community trust, alignment, men's group, masculinity, travis stock, equus coach, equine facilitated learning, transformational men's retreat, the new masculine, equus coaching, men's personal growth, vulnerability in men, vulnerability, belonging, personal growth, men's retreat, equus, men, mens community, equus coaching retreat, horse coaching, conscious masculinity, leadership development, horses, equine coaching, feminine, healing with horses, community, men's mental health, congruent, emotional safety, equine assisted learning, mentoring, masculine false full 90 d3ffc20e-0f23-49d8-a07e-79d545c624c2 Craig Temple - Men's Retreat Participant Equus Coaching Opportunities:

Create Thriving Relationships - June 21, 2025 - Seattle, WA

https://equuscoach.com/create-thriving-relationships/

 

The New Masculine's 2nd Men's Gathering - September 20-21, 2025 - Portland, OR (Save the dates- more details to come)

 

To connect with Travis:

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IG: @travers03

 

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]]> Mon, 2 Jun 2025 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Craig Temple, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/craig-temple-mens-retreat-participant-PicDje0x Equus Coaching Opportunities:

Create Thriving Relationships - June 21, 2025 - Seattle, WA

https://equuscoach.com/create-thriving-relationships/

 

The New Masculine's 2nd Men's Gathering - September 20-21, 2025 - Portland, OR (Save the dates- more details to come)

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

 

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]]> Craig Temple - Men's Retreat Participant Craig Temple, Travis Stock 00:57:09 This episode continues a series where Travis reconnects with some of the men he's coached utilizing the Equus Coaching experience. Returning guest, Craig Temple (Ep. 4), was a participant in The New Masculine's first Men's Retreat in 2024. He's here to share what it was like to attend his first men's group. Topics discussed include: - What drew him to this men's retreat. - The barriers many men experience to personal development work. - The different (and sometimes distorted) ideas about men's work. - How horses teach empathy. - Shared vulnerability - The power of witnessing each other. - What a man can learn from the feedback of a horse. - Why he thinks men should sign up for the next one. This episode continues a series where Travis reconnects with some of the men he's coached utilizing the Equus Coaching experience. Returning guest, Craig Temple (Ep. 4), was a participant in The New Masculine's first Men's Retreat in 2024. He's here to share what it was like to attend his first men's group. Topics discussed include: - What drew him to this men's retreat. - The barriers many men experience to personal development work. - The different (and sometimes distorted) ideas about men's work. - How horses teach empathy. - Shared vulnerability - The power of witnessing each other. - What a man can learn from the feedback of a horse. - Why he thinks men should sign up for the next one. personal development, mens group, coach, herd, masculinity, equine facilitated learning, equus coaching, vulnerability, belonging, empathy, men, witness, feedback, horses, feminine, coaching, community, man, masculine, self-help, mens work false full 89 11a7e334-d081-439f-89df-80261add7e2b Doug Wubben- Father, Spiritual Being, Backpacker To connect with Doug:

https://www.dougwubbencoaching.com

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

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]]> Mon, 5 May 2025 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Doug Wubben, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/doug-wubben-father-spiritual-being-backpacker-0JdKkA7q To connect with Doug:

https://www.dougwubbencoaching.com

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IG: @travers03

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]]> Doug Wubben- Father, Spiritual Being, Backpacker Doug Wubben, Travis Stock 01:13:49 This episode kicks off a series where Travis reconnects with some of the men he's coached utilizing the Equus Coaching experience. Doug Wubben was a participant in a professional development retreat back in November 2023, and he's here to unpack the profound experience he had with the horses. Topics discussed include: - Childhood bullying - How men size each other up - The council of men in every man's head - Seeking humanity even in conflict - Cultural norms and their impact on psychological safety - The freeze response - The many different responses to confronting the unknown This episode kicks off a series where Travis reconnects with some of the men he's coached utilizing the Equus Coaching experience. Doug Wubben was a participant in a professional development retreat back in November 2023, and he's here to unpack the profound experience he had with the horses. Topics discussed include: - Childhood bullying - How men size each other up - The council of men in every man's head - Seeking humanity even in conflict - Cultural norms and their impact on psychological safety - The freeze response - The many different responses to confronting the unknown personal development, unknown, equine, masculinity, equine facilitated learning, equus coaching, male, wellness, feminine, coaching, psychological safety, freeze, freeze response, bullying, man, horse, masculine, mental health, self help, healthy masculinity, mens work false full 88 5ce9d861-b939-4553-822b-417dcfd261d0 Juan Espinoza- Father, Son, Leader To connect with Juan, and get a copy of his book:

https://juanespinoza.me/

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https://www.travisstock.com 

IG: @travers03

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]]> Mon, 7 Apr 2025 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Juan Espinoza, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/juan-espinoza-father-son-leader-jOFF1uBF To connect with Juan, and get a copy of his book:

https://juanespinoza.me/

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https://www.travisstock.com 

IG: @travers03

Support The New Masculine: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Juan Espinoza- Father, Son, Leader Juan Espinoza, Travis Stock 01:02:47 On this episode, Travis talks with motivational speaker, resilience advocate, and author of Unbroken: Turning Pain into Purpose, Juan Espinoza. Through his book, Juan hopes to help others develop more resilience and transform the pains of life into a sense of purpose that fuels your way forward. Topics discussed include: - Transforming one's pain into a sense of purpose. - The lesson he learned about family: Family is about actions, not blood. - How his Hispanic culture shaped his masculinity. - His deployments to Afghanistan and how he's dealt with combat trauma. - Where he failed as a father and husband. - Resilience On this episode, Travis talks with motivational speaker, resilience advocate, and author of Unbroken: Turning Pain into Purpose, Juan Espinoza. Through his book, Juan hopes to help others develop more resilience and transform the pains of life into a sense of purpose that fuels your way forward. Topics discussed include: - Transforming one's pain into a sense of purpose. - The lesson he learned about family: Family is about actions, not blood. - How his Hispanic culture shaped his masculinity. - His deployments to Afghanistan and how he's dealt with combat trauma. - Where he failed as a father and husband. - Resilience personal development, fatherhood, pain, infidelity, life lessons, male, culture, purpose, combat, hispanic, ptsd, feminine, resilience, accountability, challenges, author, war, transformation, masculine, self help, family, mexican, veteran, mens work false full 87 2641a49b-8574-4b6e-a393-a7ba000d6acc David Jurasek- Father, Mentor, Brother To connect with David:

https://www.powerfulandloving.com

IG: @powerfulandloving

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

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]]> Mon, 3 Mar 2025 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (David Jurasek, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/david-jurasek-father-mentor-brother-7RvVlwrZ To connect with David:

https://www.powerfulandloving.com

IG: @powerfulandloving

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Support the mission of The New Masculine: 

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]]> David Jurasek- Father, Mentor, Brother David Jurasek, Travis Stock 01:09:14 On this episode, Travis talks with coach and therapist David Jurasek. David specializes in working with men whose relationships are struggling and at a breaking point. A primary focus of his work is to help men unpack their shame and find a more right relationship with themselves. He is also the founder of Powerful and Loving - a community of good men becoming powerful leaders who cultivate thriving relationships. Topics Discussed: - His immigrant story and his family seeking asylum in Canada - The impact of unprocessed grief - Unpacking shame - The gap between intention and impact - His experience as a bisexual man - Relationships at a critical juncture - Why men need each other On this episode, Travis talks with coach and therapist David Jurasek. David specializes in working with men whose relationships are struggling and at a breaking point. A primary focus of his work is to help men unpack their shame and find a more right relationship with themselves. He is also the founder of Powerful and Loving - a community of good men becoming powerful leaders who cultivate thriving relationships. Topics Discussed: - His immigrant story and his family seeking asylum in Canada - The impact of unprocessed grief - Unpacking shame - The gap between intention and impact - His experience as a bisexual man - Relationships at a critical juncture - Why men need each other personal development, bisexual, asylum, immigrant, masculinity, grief, queer, male, men, immigration, feminine, lgbtq, relationships, gay, masculine, self help, shame, mens work false full 86 2990e9f3-a9f6-4600-a735-59dc58865ac0 Soleiman Bolour - Leader, Directive, Presence To connect with Soleiman: 

https://soleimanb.com

Email: info@soleimanb.com

IG: @soleimanbolour

To connect with Travis

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

To support the mission of The New Masculine: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 3 Feb 2025 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Soleiman Bolour, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/soleiman-bolour-leader-directive-presence-4qDoE8CI To connect with Soleiman: 

https://soleimanb.com

Email: info@soleimanb.com

IG: @soleimanbolour

To connect with Travis

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

To support the mission of The New Masculine: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Soleiman Bolour - Leader, Directive, Presence Soleiman Bolour, Travis Stock 01:05:44 On this episode, Travis talks with men's transformational coach, Soleiman Bolour, about guiding men toward more emotional intelligence, purposeful living, and a deeper understanding of their own needs. With over two decades of experience integrating many healing modalities, Soleiman recommends the importance of men being in community rather seeking personal growth in isolation. Topics discussed include: - The 4 uncles who modeled different elements of masculinity (family, community, work, and spirituality) - The limits of a money-based mindset - Coming to terms with his bisexual identity - How self-rejection gets projected onto the outer world - The skills of emotional intelligence - How queer identities influence men's work - How to live a life with purpose On this episode, Travis talks with men's transformational coach, Soleiman Bolour, about guiding men toward more emotional intelligence, purposeful living, and a deeper understanding of their own needs. With over two decades of experience integrating many healing modalities, Soleiman recommends the importance of men being in community rather seeking personal growth in isolation. Topics discussed include: - The 4 uncles who modeled different elements of masculinity (family, community, work, and spirituality) - The limits of a money-based mindset - Coming to terms with his bisexual identity - How self-rejection gets projected onto the outer world - The skills of emotional intelligence - How queer identities influence men's work - How to live a life with purpose personal development, bisexual, self rejection, identity, masculinity, queer, male, belonging, self acceptance, men, men's work, emotional intelligence, purpose, feminine, coaching, community, gay, transformation, masculine, self help, macho false full 85 d7c114ff-3552-4a12-91f0-7e13cf74e5b6 Dominick Shattuck - Researcher, Husband, Father To connect with Dominick: 

LinkedIn: Dominick Shattuck, PhD

Johns Hopkins: Bloomberg School of Public Health

Male Engagement Task Force

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 6 Jan 2025 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Dominick Shattuck, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/dominick-shattuck-researcher-husband-father-rRn2VSql To connect with Dominick: 

LinkedIn: Dominick Shattuck, PhD

Johns Hopkins: Bloomberg School of Public Health

Male Engagement Task Force

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/thenewmasculine

]]> Dominick Shattuck - Researcher, Husband, Father Dominick Shattuck, Travis Stock 01:12:40 On this episode, Travis talks with community psychologist, Dominick Shattuck, PhD, whose work focuses on global public health topics including reproductive health, COVID-19, masculinities and men’s health. Together, they discuss and encourage men to take a more active role in family planning and reproductive health. His expertise is needed now more than ever as women's reproductive healthcare options are being limited (even removed in some cases) post the US Supreme Court's Dobbs decision. Topics discussed include: - Growing beyond the struggles of your parents. - The uncles who helped shape his own masculinity. - Seeking inroads into relationships. - The lessons from his time doing HIV prevention and family planning work in Africa. - How the current approach to reproductive health puts most of the burden on women AND limits men's engagement in intimate conversations. - Men's role in family planning and reproductive health. - Men's birth control options. On this episode, Travis talks with community psychologist, Dominick Shattuck, PhD, whose work focuses on global public health topics including reproductive health, COVID-19, masculinities and men’s health. Together, they discuss and encourage men to take a more active role in family planning and reproductive health. His expertise is needed now more than ever as women's reproductive healthcare options are being limited (even removed in some cases) post the US Supreme Court's Dobbs decision. Topics discussed include: - Growing beyond the struggles of your parents. - The uncles who helped shape his own masculinity. - Seeking inroads into relationships. - The lessons from his time doing HIV prevention and family planning work in Africa. - How the current approach to reproductive health puts most of the burden on women AND limits men's engagement in intimate conversations. - Men's role in family planning and reproductive health. - Men's birth control options. personal development, public health, family planning, masculinity, reproductive health, abortion, women's rights, men's work, contraception, male intimacy, birth control, hiv prevention, feminine, dobbs decision, male friendship, women's reproductive health, lgbtq, gay, hiv, masculinities, research, vasectomy, masculine, self help false full 84 ccbb38ea-2428-4b41-89d3-a5d5d358439e Keith Edwards- Father, Husband, White Man To connect with Keith Edwards:

https://keithedwards.com/

Email: keith@keithewards.com

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/c/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Mon, 2 Dec 2024 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Keith Edwards, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/keith-edwards-father-husband-white-man-Xd9OIb6g To connect with Keith Edwards:

https://keithedwards.com/

Email: keith@keithewards.com

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/c/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Keith Edwards- Father, Husband, White Man Keith Edwards, Travis Stock 00:58:40 On this episode, Travis talks with educator, leader, and scholar, Keith Edwards, whose work focuses on authentic masculinity, sexual violence prevention, allyship and equity, learning beyond the classroom, and leadership and coaching. In his new book Unmasking: Toward Authentic Masculinity, he illuminates the 3 phases of men's identity development: masking, unmasking, and becoming. He also offers strategies to engage the men in our lives with more empathy and compassion, while using accountability and encouragement to help them become the men they aspire to be. Topics discussed: - Masking and unmasking - How authenticity isn't always appropriate. - What to do if we notice that we are out of integrity. - Seeing privilege and/or oppression as about the way the world is organized rather than about the individual. - The difference between healthy masculinity and authentic masculinity. On this episode, Travis talks with educator, leader, and scholar, Keith Edwards, whose work focuses on authentic masculinity, sexual violence prevention, allyship and equity, learning beyond the classroom, and leadership and coaching. In his new book Unmasking: Toward Authentic Masculinity, he illuminates the 3 phases of men's identity development: masking, unmasking, and becoming. He also offers strategies to engage the men in our lives with more empathy and compassion, while using accountability and encouragement to help them become the men they aspire to be. Topics discussed: - Masking and unmasking - How authenticity isn't always appropriate. - What to do if we notice that we are out of integrity. - Seeing privilege and/or oppression as about the way the world is organized rather than about the individual. - The difference between healthy masculinity and authentic masculinity. personal development, men's coach, identity, masculinity, authentic, male, oppression, identity development, men, men's work, study, unmasking, feminine, authentic masculinity, toxic masculinity, man, research, masking, masculine, self help, healthy masculinity, privilege, advocacy false full 83 c7d7d9d5-e752-4a2c-9e91-adb37926a0c8 Jacob Clancy Parks- Entrepreneur, Father, Lover To Connect with Jacob:

https://jacobclancy.com


To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

LinkedIn: Travis Stock

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 4 Nov 2024 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Jacob Clancy Parks, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/jacob-clancy-parks-entrepreneur-father-lover-gBjeqCSX To Connect with Jacob:

https://jacobclancy.com


To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

LinkedIn: Travis Stock

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/thenewmasculine

]]> Jacob Clancy Parks- Entrepreneur, Father, Lover Jacob Clancy Parks, Travis Stock 01:00:19 On this episode, Travis talks with comedy entrepreneur, Jacob Clancy Parks. As someone who is in deep transition, retiring from the law firm he founded, navigating a divorce, and exploring what's next, Jacob's life is in that "in between" space where a lot of unknown exists. While the liminal spaces of life can make most of us really uncomfortable - verging on total fear - there are gifts that can only come from stepping into the unknown. Topics discussed: - Navigating change as a child. - Being with the transitional phases of life. - His journey of staring a law firm and retiring early from it. - His time in the Exodus (ex-gay) Movement. - Leaning into excellence as a coping mechanism. - Humor that is a mask vs. humor that is freeing. - Being a conduit for life-enhancing change. On this episode, Travis talks with comedy entrepreneur, Jacob Clancy Parks. As someone who is in deep transition, retiring from the law firm he founded, navigating a divorce, and exploring what's next, Jacob's life is in that "in between" space where a lot of unknown exists. While the liminal spaces of life can make most of us really uncomfortable - verging on total fear - there are gifts that can only come from stepping into the unknown. Topics discussed: - Navigating change as a child. - Being with the transitional phases of life. - His journey of staring a law firm and retiring early from it. - His time in the Exodus (ex-gay) Movement. - Leaning into excellence as a coping mechanism. - Humor that is a mask vs. humor that is freeing. - Being a conduit for life-enhancing change. personal development, masculinity, queer, humor, male, gay man, self acceptance, men, change, life coach, transition, ex-gay, feminine, coaching, pray the gay away, comedy, lgbtq, exodus movement, gay, man, masculine, mens work false full 82 a7d3c4b1-3fa1-4570-9423-8356258aeead Marc Fussell- Leader, Parent, Entrepreneur, Friend To connect with Marc:

https://www.take2minutes.org/

LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/marcfussell

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Support The New Masculine: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 7 Oct 2024 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Marc Fussell) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/marc-fussell-AIJwMIHi To connect with Marc:

https://www.take2minutes.org/

LinkedIn: http://linkedin.com/in/marcfussell

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Support The New Masculine: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Marc Fussell- Leader, Parent, Entrepreneur, Friend Marc Fussell 00:59:24 On this episode, Travis talks with creator and founder of Take 2 Minutes, Marc Fussell. Inspired by his own actions supporting his son through a challenging time, Marc created this non-profit organization and platform to enhance mental wellbeing through positive psychology and technology. His belief is that mental health practices are even effective when we break them down into small, doable chunks that take as little as 2 minutes of our day. Topics discussed include: - Managing emotions in a media world that uses emotions to draw more attention. - Allowing mistakes as a parent. - Finding agreement in conflict. - Parenting through your child's mental health challenges. - Helping your kids build resilience. - Positive Psychology (the benefits of and dispelling rumors about it). - Priming your brain for positivity. - Exercises for managing anxiety. On this episode, Travis talks with creator and founder of Take 2 Minutes, Marc Fussell. Inspired by his own actions supporting his son through a challenging time, Marc created this non-profit organization and platform to enhance mental wellbeing through positive psychology and technology. His belief is that mental health practices are even effective when we break them down into small, doable chunks that take as little as 2 minutes of our day. Topics discussed include: - Managing emotions in a media world that uses emotions to draw more attention. - Allowing mistakes as a parent. - Finding agreement in conflict. - Parenting through your child's mental health challenges. - Helping your kids build resilience. - Positive Psychology (the benefits of and dispelling rumors about it). - Priming your brain for positivity. - Exercises for managing anxiety. personal development, positive psychology, fatherhood, masculinity, depression, male, parenting, men, men's work, technology, father, spiritual bypass, life coach, non-profit, feminine, resilience, emotions, anxiety, navigating conflict, spirituality, masculine, mental health, self-help false full 81 39ed8dc5-cab3-44d0-ad68-6269eed87bbd Matthew Sloane- Husband, Father, Artist, Author To connect with Matthew and find out when you can get the book:  https://matthewsloane.com/hiding-inside-a-man/

Find more of his work at: The Fatherhood Dojo

IG: @matthew_sloane_author

 

To connect with Travis: https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Tue, 3 Sep 2024 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Matthew Sloane, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/matthew-sloane-husband-father-artist-author-469ZIkHQ To connect with Matthew and find out when you can get the book:  https://matthewsloane.com/hiding-inside-a-man/

Find more of his work at: The Fatherhood Dojo

IG: @matthew_sloane_author

 

To connect with Travis: https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Matthew Sloane- Husband, Father, Artist, Author Matthew Sloane, Travis Stock 01:05:56 On this episode, Travis talks with artist and author, Matthew Sloane about his new book, Hiding Inside a Man: Finding Strength in Self Compassion (available for pre-order on Kickstarter September 13, 2024). Through words and illustrations about his own journey, Matthew suggests that self-compassion is the first step in having a more heartfelt approach to being with yourself. Topics discussed include: - The challenges of being under-socialized as a child. - How parenting made him confront his own inner work. - Repair work as a parent. - Finding safe expressions of "fight" energy and honoring the full cycle of anger. - Self-compassion. - What good facilitation looks like in a men's group. - Emotional Freedom Techniques On this episode, Travis talks with artist and author, Matthew Sloane about his new book, Hiding Inside a Man: Finding Strength in Self Compassion (available for pre-order on Kickstarter September 13, 2024). Through words and illustrations about his own journey, Matthew suggests that self-compassion is the first step in having a more heartfelt approach to being with yourself. Topics discussed include: - The challenges of being under-socialized as a child. - How parenting made him confront his own inner work. - Repair work as a parent. - Finding safe expressions of "fight" energy and honoring the full cycle of anger. - Self-compassion. - What good facilitation looks like in a men's group. - Emotional Freedom Techniques personal development, self-forgiveness, fatherhood, life coaching, men's group, anger, shadow work, queer, fight or flight, parenting, emotional freedom techniques, compassionate masculinity, artist, men's work, facilitation, feminine, self-compassion, lgbtq, compassion, gay, rage, author, growth, masculine, self help false full 80 332fb7c9-88e4-4568-aca0-95595d80c190 Eric FitzMedrud Ph.D. - Father, Psychologist, Lover Sign up for The New Masculine's premier In-Person Men's Retreat: https://www.travisstock.com/store/p1/mensretreat.html

To connect with Eric: 

https://www.drericfitz.com

IG: @drericfitz

LinkedIn: Eric FitzMedrud (Madrud) Ph.D.


To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

To support the mission of The New Masculine: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 5 Aug 2024 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Eric FitzMedrud, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/eric-fitzmedrud-phd-father-psychologist-lover-xp_SaD5X Sign up for The New Masculine's premier In-Person Men's Retreat: https://www.travisstock.com/store/p1/mensretreat.html

To connect with Eric: 

https://www.drericfitz.com

IG: @drericfitz

LinkedIn: Eric FitzMedrud (Madrud) Ph.D.


To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

To support the mission of The New Masculine: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Eric FitzMedrud Ph.D. - Father, Psychologist, Lover Eric FitzMedrud, Travis Stock 01:05:51 On this episode, Travis talks with individual and couples therapist, Eric FitzMedrud Ph.D. He's the author of a book titled, The Better Man: A Guide to Consent, Stronger Relationships, and Hotter Sex, where he empowers men to embrace their sexuality, manage their emotions, and understand concepts like consent and entitlement. One of the most important values Eric imbues into his work is the desire to remove shame from the self-reflective process that allows men to improve the way they relate to others. He does this by acknowledging his own missteps and failures as a man, while also sharing new approaches men can incorporate into their relationships. Topics discussed include: - His own journey toward acceptance of his bisexual identity. - The importance of diverse voices in men's work. - The traumatic fear we must confront when expanding our notions of manhood. - Consent mistakes and learning to correct these mistakes. - Consent in long-term relationships. -Challenges to masculinity that show up in sexuality. -Romantic and sexual myths taught by our culture. On this episode, Travis talks with individual and couples therapist, Eric FitzMedrud Ph.D. He's the author of a book titled, The Better Man: A Guide to Consent, Stronger Relationships, and Hotter Sex, where he empowers men to embrace their sexuality, manage their emotions, and understand concepts like consent and entitlement. One of the most important values Eric imbues into his work is the desire to remove shame from the self-reflective process that allows men to improve the way they relate to others. He does this by acknowledging his own missteps and failures as a man, while also sharing new approaches men can incorporate into their relationships. Topics discussed include: - His own journey toward acceptance of his bisexual identity. - The importance of diverse voices in men's work. - The traumatic fear we must confront when expanding our notions of manhood. - Consent mistakes and learning to correct these mistakes. - Consent in long-term relationships. -Challenges to masculinity that show up in sexuality. -Romantic and sexual myths taught by our culture. personal development, bisexual, authenticity, psychology, masculinity, therapy, men's therapist, wellbeing, equus coach, sexual consent, queer, male, me too, gender, men, consent, psychotherapy, life coach, balance, manhood, authentic self, feminine, sexuality, lgbtq, relationships, gay, spirituality, masculine, mental health, self help, sex, mens work false full 79 289a686c-64f0-4f5b-9cc8-585afb347b2e Danny Roberts- Gay Man, Parent, Nature Lover To learn more about History UnErased: 

https://unerased.org

To connect with Danny: 

IG: @jdannyroberts

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Support the mission of The New Masculine

https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

 

]]> Mon, 1 Jul 2024 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Danny Roberts, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/danny-roberts-gay-man-parent-nature-lover-GttJ089f To learn more about History UnErased: 

https://unerased.org

To connect with Danny: 

IG: @jdannyroberts

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Support the mission of The New Masculine

https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

 

]]> Danny Roberts- Gay Man, Parent, Nature Lover Danny Roberts, Travis Stock 01:02:35 On this episode, Travis talks with cast member of The Real World: New Orleans (2000) Danny Roberts. Danny shares what it was like coming out on national television, being the poster child for the gay community, and being in a relationship that exposed the world to the impacts of the US military's policy at the time - Don't Ask Don't Tell. Beyond the "accidental" advocacy his presence and storyline on the show had for the LGBTQ Community, he has now fully embraced the role of advocate through his work at History UnErased, a non-profit focused on ensuring LGBTQ history isn’t erased from K-12 school curriculums. Listen in as Travis and Danny discuss: - Growing up in the evangelical South. - Defense mechanisms - How the show shaped the trajectory of his life. - The challenges of missing out on normal developmental stages. - Navigating the projections of others. - Why teaching LGBTQ history is so important. - His take on why kids shouldn't be shielded from conversations about LGBTQ people. On this episode, Travis talks with cast member of The Real World: New Orleans (2000) Danny Roberts. Danny shares what it was like coming out on national television, being the poster child for the gay community, and being in a relationship that exposed the world to the impacts of the US military's policy at the time - Don't Ask Don't Tell. Beyond the "accidental" advocacy his presence and storyline on the show had for the LGBTQ Community, he has now fully embraced the role of advocate through his work at History UnErased, a non-profit focused on ensuring LGBTQ history isn’t erased from K-12 school curriculums. Listen in as Travis and Danny discuss: - Growing up in the evangelical South. - Defense mechanisms - How the show shaped the trajectory of his life. - The challenges of missing out on normal developmental stages. - Navigating the projections of others. - Why teaching LGBTQ history is so important. - His take on why kids shouldn't be shielded from conversations about LGBTQ people. personal development, masculinity, reality television, the real world, people pleasing, evangelical, femininity, men, men's work, southern culture, military, history unerased, history, non-profit, feminine, coaching, projections, curriculum, new orleans, lgbtq, defense mechanisms, gay, man, don't ask don't tell, masculine, self help, ojectification, shame, advocacy false full 78 84fc853d-1d51-4254-b267-376d72da50ce Steve Dinga- Spiritual Being, Mentor, Gay Man To connect with Steve:

http://spirittoplay.com

Get the book: Living The Spirit to Play

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 3 Jun 2024 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Steve Dinga, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/steve-dinga-spiritual-being-mentor-gay-man-0RYIcgNG To connect with Steve:

http://spirittoplay.com

Get the book: Living The Spirit to Play

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Steve Dinga- Spiritual Being, Mentor, Gay Man Steve Dinga, Travis Stock 00:55:16 On this episode, Travis talks with certified motivation and mindset coach, Steve Dinga. Through a lifetime of navigating his own life-challenges, sobriety, and self-acceptance, Steve has landed in a place where he advocates for finding peace with life on life's terms. In his new book, Living the Spirit to Play, he offers men a 10-step process to becoming more aware of the present moment and clear the path for a more positive mindset that creates freedom from self-limiting beliefs. Other topics discussed include: - The difference between self-reliance and isolation. - His friendship with alcohol and journey to sobriety. - His long journey to overcoming fear and coming out. - The traumatic experience that pushed him out of the corporate world. - Working on your mindset before seeking an external solution to a challenge. - What to do when authenticity sacrifices physical safety. On this episode, Travis talks with certified motivation and mindset coach, Steve Dinga. Through a lifetime of navigating his own life-challenges, sobriety, and self-acceptance, Steve has landed in a place where he advocates for finding peace with life on life's terms. In his new book, Living the Spirit to Play, he offers men a 10-step process to becoming more aware of the present moment and clear the path for a more positive mindset that creates freedom from self-limiting beliefs. Other topics discussed include: - The difference between self-reliance and isolation. - His friendship with alcohol and journey to sobriety. - His long journey to overcoming fear and coming out. - The traumatic experience that pushed him out of the corporate world. - Working on your mindset before seeking an external solution to a challenge. - What to do when authenticity sacrifices physical safety. personal development, authenticity, spirit, coming out, peace, alcohol, isolation, homosexual, overcoming fear, male, play, motivation, gay man, men, men's work, mindset, life coach, self-reliance, feminine, fear, lgbtq, gay, alcoholic, man, sobriety, spirituality, author, masculine, self-help false full 77 07165f32-7041-414b-a389-fbfe7efbab7a Charles Sue-Wah-Sing - Man of Color, Coach, Facilitator, Mentor To Connect with Charles: 

https://www.suewahsing.com

IG: @charles.sue.wah.sing

LinkedIn

To join his community: 

For Men of Color

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon 

]]> Mon, 6 May 2024 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Charles Sue-Wah-Sing, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/charles-sue-wah-sing-man-of-color-coach-facilitator-mentor-nmyFLpXu To Connect with Charles: 

https://www.suewahsing.com

IG: @charles.sue.wah.sing

LinkedIn

To join his community: 

For Men of Color

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon 

]]> Charles Sue-Wah-Sing - Man of Color, Coach, Facilitator, Mentor Charles Sue-Wah-Sing, Travis Stock 01:08:59 On this episode, Travis talks with executive and life coach, Charles Sue-Wah-Sing. Charles is the founder For Men of Color - a peer coaching program for men of Black, Brown, mixed race, or of African, Caribbean or Asian ancestry. This community was created understanding the importance of being in spaces where others look like you and/or have shared lived experiences. In doing so, Charles seeks to create safety for each participants whole-self and to remove the internal debate many men feel about what is safe and not safe to talk about with others. Topics discussed include: - Life lessons he learned as an immigrant and as a man of color. - Growing up in a multi-generational home. - The poverties of our culture (beyond financial). - The difference between acceptance and neutrality. - His coaching community: For Men of Color. - The importance of community. - Identity as a doorway to deeper work. - Expanding our capacity for love. On this episode, Travis talks with executive and life coach, Charles Sue-Wah-Sing. Charles is the founder For Men of Color - a peer coaching program for men of Black, Brown, mixed race, or of African, Caribbean or Asian ancestry. This community was created understanding the importance of being in spaces where others look like you and/or have shared lived experiences. In doing so, Charles seeks to create safety for each participants whole-self and to remove the internal debate many men feel about what is safe and not safe to talk about with others. Topics discussed include: - Life lessons he learned as an immigrant and as a man of color. - Growing up in a multi-generational home. - The poverties of our culture (beyond financial). - The difference between acceptance and neutrality. - His coaching community: For Men of Color. - The importance of community. - Identity as a doorway to deeper work. - Expanding our capacity for love. personal development, immigrant, identity, isolation, men of color, executive coach, male, men, men's work, loneliness, mixed-race, life coach, race, feminine, coaching, community, personal transformation, transformation, masculine, mental health, leadership, man of color, society, self-help false full 76 da3f765a-f946-423d-84d2-643e44e91cd5 Michael O'Brien- Husband, Dad, Listener To Connect with Michael O'Brien and download the App: 

https://www.michaelobrienshift.com

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 1 Apr 2024 14:55:39 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Michael O'Brien, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/michael-obrien-husband-dad-listener-Z1b2Ot_2 To Connect with Michael O'Brien and download the App: 

https://www.michaelobrienshift.com

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Michael O'Brien- Husband, Dad, Listener Michael O'Brien, Travis Stock 01:07:32 On this episode, Travis talks with executive and mindfulness coach, Michael O'Brien. Due to a life-threatening accident on his bicycle, Michael learned that it wasn't just his body that needed to heal. It was also his mind. This transformative journey touched all aspects of his life and redefined his mindset, actions, and purpose. Michael is also the creator of the Pause Breathe Reflect app which supports the user with mindfulness, meditation, and gratitude. Topics discussed include: following a life-script that isn't really yours, living a life that looks like success even when it doesn't feel so, his near life-ending accident, why he calls the day of his accident his "last bad day", seeing life as neutral, exploring our own inconsistencies, the importance of pausing, breathing, and reflecting on how we want to navigate forward, and like-hearted people. On this episode, Travis talks with executive and mindfulness coach, Michael O'Brien. Due to a life-threatening accident on his bicycle, Michael learned that it wasn't just his body that needed to heal. It was also his mind. This transformative journey touched all aspects of his life and redefined his mindset, actions, and purpose. Michael is also the creator of the Pause Breathe Reflect app which supports the user with mindfulness, meditation, and gratitude. Topics discussed include: following a life-script that isn't really yours, living a life that looks like success even when it doesn't feel so, his near life-ending accident, why he calls the day of his accident his "last bad day", seeing life as neutral, exploring our own inconsistencies, the importance of pausing, breathing, and reflecting on how we want to navigate forward, and like-hearted people. personal development, masculinity, near death experience, mindfulness, breathe, femininity, men, men's work, accident, feminine, coaching, kintsugi, meaning making, spirituality, masculine, self help, breath, meditation false full 75 bca01b17-1255-4b1c-a122-38091551ebf3 Jake Fishbein- Man, Brother, Friend To connect with Jake: https://www.jakefishbein.com

LinkedIn: Jacob Fishbein

Join The Arena: https://www.thearenaseries.com

 

To Connect with Travis: https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 4 Mar 2024 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Jake Fishbein, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/jake-fishbein-man-brother-friend-SaKI4Ly7 To connect with Jake: https://www.jakefishbein.com

LinkedIn: Jacob Fishbein

Join The Arena: https://www.thearenaseries.com

 

To Connect with Travis: https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Jake Fishbein- Man, Brother, Friend Jake Fishbein, Travis Stock 01:05:28 On this episode, Travis talks with founder and facilitator of The Arena Men's Group based in New York City, Jake Fishbein. With over a decade of experience as an executive coach, Jake encourages men in The Arena to embrace authenticity, vulnerability, and purposeful contributions in both their personal and professional spheres. Topics discussed include: Jake coming into men's work without significant masculine wounds, what healthy masculinity conversations look like a different developmental stages, disrupting men's fear and avoidance of intimacy with other men, the importance of hugs, why contribution is a necessary element to men's work, how to be an honorable man, and his upcoming novel about men's work. On this episode, Travis talks with founder and facilitator of The Arena Men's Group based in New York City, Jake Fishbein. With over a decade of experience as an executive coach, Jake encourages men in The Arena to embrace authenticity, vulnerability, and purposeful contributions in both their personal and professional spheres. Topics discussed include: Jake coming into men's work without significant masculine wounds, what healthy masculinity conversations look like a different developmental stages, disrupting men's fear and avoidance of intimacy with other men, the importance of hugs, why contribution is a necessary element to men's work, how to be an honorable man, and his upcoming novel about men's work. personal development, authenticity, role models, men's group, masculinity, honorable, contribution, male, men, men's work, life coach, feminine, coaching, arena, intimacy, support, man, masculine, self help, shame, healthy masculinity false full 74 d20eaed9-bbd4-4e56-82e1-6c288a982597 Mark McBride-Wright- Parent, Gay Man, Husband To Connect with Mark and his work:

https://equalengineers.com

To get a copy of his book: The Safe Leader

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

 

]]> Mon, 5 Feb 2024 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Mark McBride-Wright, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/mark-mcbride-wright-parent-gay-man-husband-q9v7QUH_ To Connect with Mark and his work:

https://equalengineers.com

To get a copy of his book: The Safe Leader

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

 

]]> Mark McBride-Wright- Parent, Gay Man, Husband Mark McBride-Wright, Travis Stock 01:00:26 On this episode, Travis talks with a Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) specialist, Dr. Mark McBride-Wright. Mark is the founder of EqualEngineers, an organization dedicated to connecting diverse talent with inclusive employers. He is also the cofounder of InterEngineering, a professional network that connects and empowers LGBTQ+ engineers. Topics discussed include: The ups and downs of growing up during a cultural sea change around LGBTQ rights, the pendulum swings of culture and politics, his experiences as a gay dad, the bias in parenting education and support towards mothers, the role of engineering in creating inclusive spaces, his insights around DEI, and the importance of seeking perspectives other than our own. On this episode, Travis talks with a Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion (DEI) specialist, Dr. Mark McBride-Wright. Mark is the founder of EqualEngineers, an organization dedicated to connecting diverse talent with inclusive employers. He is also the cofounder of InterEngineering, a professional network that connects and empowers LGBTQ+ engineers. Topics discussed include: The ups and downs of growing up during a cultural sea change around LGBTQ rights, the pendulum swings of culture and politics, his experiences as a gay dad, the bias in parenting education and support towards mothers, the role of engineering in creating inclusive spaces, his insights around DEI, and the importance of seeking perspectives other than our own. personal development, allyship, gay men, fatherhood, uk, surrogacy, masculinity, diversy, inclusion, parenting, femininity, gender, men's work, ally, feminine, coaching, lgbtq, gay, engineering, dei, equity, masculine, self help, sex false full 73 8d5ef699-cdac-4d5b-9ef6-7d7f52c9f021 Ryan A Bush- Introvert, Practical Philosopher, Entrepreneur To get a copy of Ryan's book: 

https://designingthemind.org/becoming/

To find out more about his work and get some freebies: 

https://designingthemind.org/psychitecture/

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

To support the mission of The New Masculine: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 8 Jan 2024 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Ryan A Bush, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/ryan-a-bush-introvert-practical-philosopher-entrepreneur-V5EHLa9Y To get a copy of Ryan's book: 

https://designingthemind.org/becoming/

To find out more about his work and get some freebies: 

https://designingthemind.org/psychitecture/

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

To support the mission of The New Masculine: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Ryan A Bush- Introvert, Practical Philosopher, Entrepreneur Ryan A Bush, Travis Stock 01:02:57 On this episode, Travis talks with founder of Designing the Mind, Ryan A Bush, who is on a mission to provide wisdom education and push the boundaries of human potential beyond the ordinary. In his new book, Become Who You Are: A New Theory of Self-Esteem, Human Greatness, and the Opposite of Depression, Ryan argues that the pinnacle of human happiness isn't determined by the typical metrics of pleasure or pain, loss or gain. Instead, it's rooted in the admirability we find within our own actions. Together they discuss: an analytic/engineering approach to psychological growth, what we learn from life's detours, the importance of introspection, the embodiment of traits we admire in others, his path through a period of depression, his view of autism and other neuro-types, and the role of the ego. On this episode, Travis talks with founder of Designing the Mind, Ryan A Bush, who is on a mission to provide wisdom education and push the boundaries of human potential beyond the ordinary. In his new book, Become Who You Are: A New Theory of Self-Esteem, Human Greatness, and the Opposite of Depression, Ryan argues that the pinnacle of human happiness isn't determined by the typical metrics of pleasure or pain, loss or gain. Instead, it's rooted in the admirability we find within our own actions. Together they discuss: an analytic/engineering approach to psychological growth, what we learn from life's detours, the importance of introspection, the embodiment of traits we admire in others, his path through a period of depression, his view of autism and other neuro-types, and the role of the ego. personal development, self-esteem, admirability, philosophy, introspection, psychology, identity, traits, masculinity, ego, autism, wellbeing, becoming, depression, strengths, embodiment, virtue, mindfulness, admire, feminine, character, happiness, spirituality, author, masculine, psychitecture, self-help false full 72 0f524e94-5f31-47be-9c9f-96446ea4d574 David Peralta- Father, Husband, Healer To connect with David:

https://soulcenteredfounder.com/

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

To contribute to The New Masculine mission:  https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 4 Dec 2023 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (David Peralta, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/david-peralta-father-husband-healer-Kh4aJmtH To connect with David:

https://soulcenteredfounder.com/

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

To contribute to The New Masculine mission:  https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> David Peralta- Father, Husband, Healer David Peralta, Travis Stock 01:07:45 On this episode, Travis talks with Soul Centered Founder, David Peralta. David's own story is one like many other men -meeting all the external measurements and expectations of success but without feeling a sense of fulfillment. And his biggest lessons came through his own shortcomings as father and husband, fed by unprocessed childhood emotions, which made him realized he needed to find a new way. David now offers a unique coaching program for entrepreneurs where he combines the wisdom of Zen Buddhism, eastern spirituality, and Christianity with the world of business. And, his focus is helping others achieve their soul's highest purpose. Topics discussed include: What gets many men stuck in boyhood, recognizing the expectations that rule our lives, finding inner guidance, aligned action, soul centered work, what's below the anger, and how to navigate doubt. On this episode, Travis talks with Soul Centered Founder, David Peralta. David's own story is one like many other men -meeting all the external measurements and expectations of success but without feeling a sense of fulfillment. And his biggest lessons came through his own shortcomings as father and husband, fed by unprocessed childhood emotions, which made him realized he needed to find a new way. David now offers a unique coaching program for entrepreneurs where he combines the wisdom of Zen Buddhism, eastern spirituality, and Christianity with the world of business. And, his focus is helping others achieve their soul's highest purpose. Topics discussed include: What gets many men stuck in boyhood, recognizing the expectations that rule our lives, finding inner guidance, aligned action, soul centered work, what's below the anger, and how to navigate doubt. personal development, guidance, trauma, masculinity, business, hurt, anger, success, unprocessed emotions, soul centered, male, founder, vulnerability, men, divine, christianity, childhood, feminine, coaching, navigating doubt, emotions, buddhism, relationships, entrepreneur, spirituality, soul, masculine, self help, mens work false full 71 dd5aac22-1c20-4704-a4b6-ab489c3824a9 Luke Entrup- Father, Coach, Guide To Connect with Luke:

The Father Son Connection experience: https://www.fathersonconnection.com

Leadership coaching: https://evolution.team/

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Contribute to the mission via Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Wed, 8 Nov 2023 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Luke Entrup, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/luke-entrup-father-coach-guide-Rce1aaZ9 To Connect with Luke:

The Father Son Connection experience: https://www.fathersonconnection.com

Leadership coaching: https://evolution.team/

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Contribute to the mission via Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Luke Entrup- Father, Coach, Guide Luke Entrup, Travis Stock 01:06:53 On this episode, Travis talks with executive coach, strategic adviser, and teacher, Luke Entrup. Underlying all of Luke's work is the universal truth that, “You can only go as far in the world as you go deeply into your heart. No matter if you’re seeking personal, professional, or spiritual change, you will need your heart. All of it.” A big portion of that work focuses on supporting boys through the normal rites of passage between boyhood into adolescence by strengthening the father/son relationship. Topics discussed include: his first men's group experience, the two major rites of passage from boyhood into manhood, facing our shadow, the lessons of fatherhood, what he learned through divorce, the importance of community, and the role of the father. On this episode, Travis talks with executive coach, strategic adviser, and teacher, Luke Entrup. Underlying all of Luke's work is the universal truth that, “You can only go as far in the world as you go deeply into your heart. No matter if you’re seeking personal, professional, or spiritual change, you will need your heart. All of it.” A big portion of that work focuses on supporting boys through the normal rites of passage between boyhood into adolescence by strengthening the father/son relationship. Topics discussed include: his first men's group experience, the two major rites of passage from boyhood into manhood, facing our shadow, the lessons of fatherhood, what he learned through divorce, the importance of community, and the role of the father. personal development, boyhood, fatherhood, masculinity, emotional integrity, divorce, gay man, men, men's work, father, manhood, feminine, initiation, community, rights of passage, adolescence, gay, heart, masculine, strength, self help false full 70 a5be2bca-89c5-4cf0-9b99-a063b340fe8f Amir Khalighi- Leader, Father, Lover To connect with Amir:

https://embodiedmasculine.com

IG: @Khalighi

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Mon, 2 Oct 2023 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Amir Khalighi, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/amir-khalighi-leader-father-lover-3tyCau2t To connect with Amir:

https://embodiedmasculine.com

IG: @Khalighi

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Amir Khalighi- Leader, Father, Lover Amir Khalighi, Travis Stock 01:09:39 On this episode, Travis talks with founder of Embodied Masculine -- a global community and movement dedicated to training, supporting and empowering men to live purpose-driven lives -- Amir Khalighi. At the core of his work, Amir works to create initiated men through embodiment practices so they can take ownership of their responsibility to the world. He believes, "We are the men responsible and called upon to change the face of masculinity in our society. We are responsible for the leaders we put in power, for they only reflect our collective subconscious and values. We take responsibility for where we are as a society, who we are, what we've done, and where we go from here." Topics discussed include: the challenges of his childhood that led to growing up on the streets, the harm he did to himself and others throughout his young adulthood, recovery, the models of healthy masculinity that he found, masculine and feminine embodiment practices, addressing the unconsciousness in all of us - including the internalized misogyny we've all ingested, the reconciliation work required in men's work, and Travis's experience attending Amir's Embodied Masculine weekly circle. On this episode, Travis talks with founder of Embodied Masculine -- a global community and movement dedicated to training, supporting and empowering men to live purpose-driven lives -- Amir Khalighi. At the core of his work, Amir works to create initiated men through embodiment practices so they can take ownership of their responsibility to the world. He believes, "We are the men responsible and called upon to change the face of masculinity in our society. We are responsible for the leaders we put in power, for they only reflect our collective subconscious and values. We take responsibility for where we are as a society, who we are, what we've done, and where we go from here." Topics discussed include: the challenges of his childhood that led to growing up on the streets, the harm he did to himself and others throughout his young adulthood, recovery, the models of healthy masculinity that he found, masculine and feminine embodiment practices, addressing the unconsciousness in all of us - including the internalized misogyny we've all ingested, the reconciliation work required in men's work, and Travis's experience attending Amir's Embodied Masculine weekly circle. personal development, misogyny, social change, masculinity, reconciliation, consciousness, male, intiation, plant medicine, embodiment, men, men's work, life coach, recovery, feminine, community, lgbtq, evolution, practice, gay, sobriety, growth, masculine, self help, healthy masculinity, society false full 69 3c8b18b0-b347-4928-8d9d-5e653853fb89 Ed Center- Husband, Father, Entrepreneur To connect with Ed:

https://www.villagewellparenting.com

IG: @villagewellparenting

TikTok: @queerbrowndad

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 4 Sep 2023 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Ed Center, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/ed-center-husband-father-entrepreneur-xMSrlYrm To connect with Ed:

https://www.villagewellparenting.com

IG: @villagewellparenting

TikTok: @queerbrowndad

 

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https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Ed Center- Husband, Father, Entrepreneur Ed Center, Travis Stock 01:08:47 On this episode, Travis talks with parenting educator and coach, Ed Center. Ed is the founder of Village Well - a parenting platform and community hub that provides education and guidance on culturally grounded, positive parenting skills. Through this platform, he teaches parents and caregivers how to end intergenerational trauma and decolonize parenting by nurturing the parent-child relationship and being intentional about the ancestral wisdom utilized to raise kids in today's world. Topics discussed include: the effort required to perform cultural translations, the rules of boyhood that are clear to some but not all, evolving definitions of masculine leadership, different forms of social capital, the purpose of tension in relationships, the wisdom and wounds from our families of origin, the inner work required to be a good parenting, conscious parenting education, and calling in community to help raise children. On this episode, Travis talks with parenting educator and coach, Ed Center. Ed is the founder of Village Well - a parenting platform and community hub that provides education and guidance on culturally grounded, positive parenting skills. Through this platform, he teaches parents and caregivers how to end intergenerational trauma and decolonize parenting by nurturing the parent-child relationship and being intentional about the ancestral wisdom utilized to raise kids in today's world. Topics discussed include: the effort required to perform cultural translations, the rules of boyhood that are clear to some but not all, evolving definitions of masculine leadership, different forms of social capital, the purpose of tension in relationships, the wisdom and wounds from our families of origin, the inner work required to be a good parenting, conscious parenting education, and calling in community to help raise children. personal development, fatherhood, masculinity, healing, queer, intergenerational trauma, parenting education, male, multicultural adoption, vulnerability, parenting, men, father, communal parenting, life coach, conscious parenting, feminine, coaching, community, lgbtq, gay, man, systemic racism, masculine, leadership, shame, privilege, adoption, self-help false full 68 5a9892f3-0d0a-483b-90d2-31aa20065aa8 Ben Gilliam- Hunter, Entrepreneur, Gay Man Become a contributor- https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

 To connect with Ben:

https://www.bcgstrategies.com

Email: ben.gilliam@gmail.com

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

 

 

]]> Mon, 7 Aug 2023 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Ben Gilliam, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/ben-gilliam-hunter-entrepreneur-gay-man-ul3AZmlC Become a contributor- https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

 To connect with Ben:

https://www.bcgstrategies.com

Email: ben.gilliam@gmail.com

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

 

 

]]> Ben Gilliam- Hunter, Entrepreneur, Gay Man Ben Gilliam, Travis Stock 01:13:27 On this episode, Travis talks with fellow gay man and life coach, Ben Gilliam. Ben plays many roles in his life including managing principal and national market leader for a large corporate real estate company, 8 time gold medal winning powerlifter, Chair of the Board of Directors for the GLBT Historical Society Museum and Archives in San Francisco, and offering life and business coaching services to LGBTQ entrepreneurs and youth. And beyond his titles and accolades, he has turned a life with early hardships into a life of service and positive impact on others. Together we discuss the impact of his father's death during his early teen years and the traumatizing sexual abuse he experience by the therapist meant to help him work through his grief. From where he began to where he is now, this man is a true role model. Other topics discussed include: realizing that control is an illusion, getting over the fear of failing, navigating the high pressure and stakes of commercial real estate, being a gay male powerlifter, creating spaces for trans athletes, the important of allies, and the work he does to support LGBTQ youth. On this episode, Travis talks with fellow gay man and life coach, Ben Gilliam. Ben plays many roles in his life including managing principal and national market leader for a large corporate real estate company, 8 time gold medal winning powerlifter, Chair of the Board of Directors for the GLBT Historical Society Museum and Archives in San Francisco, and offering life and business coaching services to LGBTQ entrepreneurs and youth. And beyond his titles and accolades, he has turned a life with early hardships into a life of service and positive impact on others. Together we discuss the impact of his father's death during his early teen years and the traumatizing sexual abuse he experience by the therapist meant to help him work through his grief. From where he began to where he is now, this man is a true role model. Other topics discussed include: realizing that control is an illusion, getting over the fear of failing, navigating the high pressure and stakes of commercial real estate, being a gay male powerlifter, creating spaces for trans athletes, the important of allies, and the work he does to support LGBTQ youth. personal development, trans athletes, sexual abuse, trauma, gay men, survivor, masculinity, grief, loss, male, allies, gold medalist, men's work, life coach, mentorship, commercial real estate, youth, lgbtq, athlete, gay, man, entrepreneur, spirituality, self help, powerlifting false full 67 c9c51fc9-12e1-4077-b336-723c0e9eae7f Jeff Harry- Leader, Mentor, Brother To connect with Jeff:

https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/

@jeffharryplays

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 3 Jul 2023 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Jeff Harry, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/jeff-harry-leader-mentor-brother-KmtxKpDg To connect with Jeff:

https://www.rediscoveryourplay.com/

@jeffharryplays

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Jeff Harry- Leader, Mentor, Brother Jeff Harry, Travis Stock 00:58:02 On this episode, Travis talks with Jeff Harry - a motivational speaker who focuses on healing workplaces through positive psychology and play. The core belief he brings to his work is that we already have many of the answers we seek, and by simply unleashing our inner child, we can find our purpose and, in turn, help to create a better world. Topics discussed include: the power of play, how we isolate in our fears, the pressure of the provider role, the challenges of evaluating our worth based on numbers, play as doorway into intrinsic worth, the masculinity of Ted Lasso, and other masculine role models he has found in the world. On this episode, Travis talks with Jeff Harry - a motivational speaker who focuses on healing workplaces through positive psychology and play. The core belief he brings to his work is that we already have many of the answers we seek, and by simply unleashing our inner child, we can find our purpose and, in turn, help to create a better world. Topics discussed include: the power of play, how we isolate in our fears, the pressure of the provider role, the challenges of evaluating our worth based on numbers, play as doorway into intrinsic worth, the masculinity of Ted Lasso, and other masculine role models he has found in the world. personal development, masculinity, dismantling heirarchy, play, femininity, men's work, life coach, worth, workplace, healthy, feminine, man, ted lasso, spirituality, toxicity, masculine, leadership false full 66 1ba2d951-4cb6-4854-8cf6-9c89a34ae529 Anson Whitmer- Father, Mentor, Friend To get the App: https://www.getmental.com

IG: @thementalapp

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Mon, 5 Jun 2023 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Anson Whitmer, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/anson-whitmer-father-mentor-friend-guPcKZ7O To get the App: https://www.getmental.com

IG: @thementalapp

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Anson Whitmer- Father, Mentor, Friend Anson Whitmer, Travis Stock 01:06:10 On this episode, Travis talks with founder and CEO of a new app Mental, the first app designed from the ground up with men's mental health needs in mind. After his time as founding member of the Calm app, Anson recognized that the cultural conversation around mental health just isn't resonating with men. And now he's on a mission to address that. Topics discussed include: his own stories of loss/grief that propelled him into this work, how childhood teasing shapes our ideas about there world, rumination, the assumptions that are made around men's mental health, making mental health tools more accessible to men (and before they are in crisis), the benefits of cold water showers, and the ethics of AI (artificial intelligence)-based coaching. On this episode, Travis talks with founder and CEO of a new app Mental, the first app designed from the ground up with men's mental health needs in mind. After his time as founding member of the Calm app, Anson recognized that the cultural conversation around mental health just isn't resonating with men. And now he's on a mission to address that. Topics discussed include: his own stories of loss/grief that propelled him into this work, how childhood teasing shapes our ideas about there world, rumination, the assumptions that are made around men's mental health, making mental health tools more accessible to men (and before they are in crisis), the benefits of cold water showers, and the ethics of AI (artificial intelligence)-based coaching. personal development, ai, rumination, masculinity, grief, loss, depression, stress management, artificial intelligence, men, men's work, mental, stress, feminine, coaching, cold water, men's mental health, suicide, man, death, masculine, mental health, self help false full 65 efe9ddc1-3d37-41b1-b85a-d93dd2faad9e Christopher Lee Maher- Teacher, Healer, Artist To connect with Christopher:

https://truebodyintelligence.com/

Email: support@truebodyintelligence.com

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 1 May 2023 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Christopher Lee Maher, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/christopher-lee-maher-teacher-healer-artist-OwwTsQWj To connect with Christopher:

https://truebodyintelligence.com/

Email: support@truebodyintelligence.com

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Christopher Lee Maher- Teacher, Healer, Artist Christopher Lee Maher, Travis Stock 01:08:33 On this episode, Travis continues to explore insights from men who are current or past members of the United States military. Christopher Lee Maher is a former Navy Seal turned mental health expert who helps others identify and move through the "fight or flight" responses that prevent them from reaching their full potential. As a survivor or childhood trauma and someone who's been through some of the most rigorous forms of training as a Navy Seal, Christopher owns the gifts he brings to his work because he learned them within himself first. And now, he's on a mission to help others be free from a lifetime of unresolved stress. Topics discussed include the impact of a chaotic and traumatic childhood, toxic patterns carried from childhood into adulthood, how discipline/structure/order create simplicity in life, the lessons from his training as a Navy Seal, development of resilience, and resolving the past to benefit the present. On this episode, Travis continues to explore insights from men who are current or past members of the United States military. Christopher Lee Maher is a former Navy Seal turned mental health expert who helps others identify and move through the "fight or flight" responses that prevent them from reaching their full potential. As a survivor or childhood trauma and someone who's been through some of the most rigorous forms of training as a Navy Seal, Christopher owns the gifts he brings to his work because he learned them within himself first. And now, he's on a mission to help others be free from a lifetime of unresolved stress. Topics discussed include the impact of a chaotic and traumatic childhood, toxic patterns carried from childhood into adulthood, how discipline/structure/order create simplicity in life, the lessons from his training as a Navy Seal, development of resilience, and resolving the past to benefit the present. personal development, trauma, masculinity, discipline, fight or flight, mind body, childhood trauma, navy seal, vulnerability, femininity, men's work, stress, military, structure, manhood, feminine, order, chinese medicine, boarding school, masculine, self help, survival false full 64 9b4d0c1e-c64e-443a-a03d-535d3ddc05ba Zachary Gerdes, PhD - Father, Husband, Psychologist To connect with Zach and purchase a copy of the book:

http://www.zacharygerdes.org/

http://liftthemind.org/

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

To support the mission of The New Masculine:

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 3 Apr 2023 15:11:18 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Zachary Gerdes, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/zachary-gerdes-phd-father-husband-psychologist-Vz2c_bS1 To connect with Zach and purchase a copy of the book:

http://www.zacharygerdes.org/

http://liftthemind.org/

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

To support the mission of The New Masculine:

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Zachary Gerdes, PhD - Father, Husband, Psychologist Zachary Gerdes, Travis Stock 01:17:47 On this episode, Travis talks with United States Air Force captain and Director of Psychological Health and guest lecturer at Air University, Zachary Gerdes, PhD. Zach is also a practicing psychologists and authored the new book, Man Kind: Tools for Mental Health, Well-Being, and Modernizing Masculinity. In the book, he offers a positive approach, without shaming or relying on outdated stereotypes, to help improve mens' mental health. Topics discussed include: the myth of self-reliance, decision points that shape the trajectory of our lives, trauma's impact on the brain and nervous system, the limitations of a similarity bias, building insights into our emotions and reactions, and the difference between emotional stoicism and emotional regulation. On this episode, Travis talks with United States Air Force captain and Director of Psychological Health and guest lecturer at Air University, Zachary Gerdes, PhD. Zach is also a practicing psychologists and authored the new book, Man Kind: Tools for Mental Health, Well-Being, and Modernizing Masculinity. In the book, he offers a positive approach, without shaming or relying on outdated stereotypes, to help improve mens' mental health. Topics discussed include: the myth of self-reliance, decision points that shape the trajectory of our lives, trauma's impact on the brain and nervous system, the limitations of a similarity bias, building insights into our emotions and reactions, and the difference between emotional stoicism and emotional regulation. personal development, trauma, psychology, masculinity, stoicism, male, emotional regulation, warrior, men, military, life coach, similarity bias, manhood, self-reliance, feminine, emotions, captain, man, masculinities, author, masculine, air force, mental health, self-help false full 63 d70472fa-c35f-4f6d-82f1-4f50fe5ba30a Alex Wills, MD- Father, Brother, Lover To Connect with Alex:

https://radicalemotionalacceptance.com/

IG: @giveafckactually

Check out the episode Travis recorded on Alex's podcast:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-07-travis-stock-msw/id1664423790?i=1000601273480

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

To support the mission of The New Masculine: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 6 Mar 2023 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Alex Wills, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/alex-wills-md-father-brother-lover-54EFiP6q To Connect with Alex:

https://radicalemotionalacceptance.com/

IG: @giveafckactually

Check out the episode Travis recorded on Alex's podcast:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/episode-07-travis-stock-msw/id1664423790?i=1000601273480

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

To support the mission of The New Masculine: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Alex Wills, MD- Father, Brother, Lover Alex Wills, Travis Stock 01:05:55 On this episode, Travis talks with psychiatrist, therapist, and author of the new book Give A F*ck Actually: Reclaim Yourself with the 5 Steps of Radical Emotional Acceptance, Alex Wills, MD. In the book, he offers a counterargument to the wildly successful book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, by encouraging us all to pay attention to the emotional data that surfaces throughout our lives. From there, we can harness the wisdom within our emotions to help us move forward. Topics discussed include: Radical Emotional Acceptance (REA), exposing self to difference as a method of growth, questioning our socialization around gender norms, allowing the strengths of the masculine to be human strengths (not just for men), the ways we are taught emotional suppression, shield emotions and root emotions, and the limitations of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and other psychotherapy tools. On this episode, Travis talks with psychiatrist, therapist, and author of the new book Give A F*ck Actually: Reclaim Yourself with the 5 Steps of Radical Emotional Acceptance, Alex Wills, MD. In the book, he offers a counterargument to the wildly successful book, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck, by encouraging us all to pay attention to the emotional data that surfaces throughout our lives. From there, we can harness the wisdom within our emotions to help us move forward. Topics discussed include: Radical Emotional Acceptance (REA), exposing self to difference as a method of growth, questioning our socialization around gender norms, allowing the strengths of the masculine to be human strengths (not just for men), the ways we are taught emotional suppression, shield emotions and root emotions, and the limitations of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and other psychotherapy tools. personal development, radical emotional acceptance, masculinity, therapy, hyper masculine, male, men, loneliness, psychiatrist, safe space, life coach, manhood, feminine, gender norms, emotional suppression, emotions, cognitive behavioral therapy, intimacy, masculinities, masculine, self help, gender socialization, mens work false full 62 a8f14b5f-21eb-400d-abc1-64984a393502 James Barnes- Father, Husband, Mentor To connect with James:

https://www.thetranscoach.com

IG: @thetranscoach

LinkedIn: James Barnes

Email: thetranscoach@gmail.com

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

]]> Mon, 6 Feb 2023 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (James Barnes, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/james-barnes-father-husband-mentor-ay4LdDP0 To connect with James:

https://www.thetranscoach.com

IG: @thetranscoach

LinkedIn: James Barnes

Email: thetranscoach@gmail.com

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

]]> James Barnes- Father, Husband, Mentor James Barnes, Travis Stock 01:07:06 On this episode, Travis talks with corporate trainer, coach, and keynote speaker James Barnes. While he works with people regardless of identity, he specializes in supporting transgender individuals in finding themselves and coping with transitioning in today’s society, while also working within organizations to create safe work and learning environments for LGBTQ+ folks. Through his social media platform, @thetranscoach, he encourages us all to develop more empathy by learning from those who are different from us. Topics discussed include: defining one's own masculinity, controlling what you can control, cultivating spaces for men to engage in empathetic ways, the ways the world treats him differently post transition, the societal rules for men and women, and his core value that two truths can be held at once. On this episode, Travis talks with corporate trainer, coach, and keynote speaker James Barnes. While he works with people regardless of identity, he specializes in supporting transgender individuals in finding themselves and coping with transitioning in today’s society, while also working within organizations to create safe work and learning environments for LGBTQ+ folks. Through his social media platform, @thetranscoach, he encourages us all to develop more empathy by learning from those who are different from us. Topics discussed include: defining one's own masculinity, controlling what you can control, cultivating spaces for men to engage in empathetic ways, the ways the world treats him differently post transition, the societal rules for men and women, and his core value that two truths can be held at once. personal development, coach, masculinity, male, trans man, empathy, transgender, men, men's work, father, trans, life coach, transition, feminine, societal rules, social media, control, husband, man, mentor, masculine, self help, privilege false full 61 d0d299bb-540d-4356-963f-44ed1799d194 Cary Alan Johnson- Son, Queer Man, Black To connect with Cary:

https://www.caryalanjohnson.com/

IG: @johnsondesirelines

Facebook: Cary Alan Johnson

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 9 Jan 2023 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Cary Alan Johnson, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/cary-alan-johnson-son-queer-man-black-HnALEtWk To connect with Cary:

https://www.caryalanjohnson.com/

IG: @johnsondesirelines

Facebook: Cary Alan Johnson

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Cary Alan Johnson- Son, Queer Man, Black Cary Alan Johnson, Travis Stock 01:23:14 On this episode, Travis talks with the author, activist, public health and HIV specialist, and Africanist Cary Alan Johnson. In his new novel, Desire Lines, Cary shares a journey through gay New York in the 1980s—the sex, the drugs, and the trauma of AIDS—from the fresh perspective of a young Black man coming of age. While this is a fictional story, the lines are often blurred between the narrator of the story and Cary himself. His hope is for the book to humanize a generation of men who were often seen as less human in the eyes of many. Topics discussed include: Reprocessing trauma, cultural trauma, his work in Africa, being black and gay during the AIDS crisis, how estrangement effects a person's development, gay men's relationships to masculinity, sexual shame, and desire lines. On this episode, Travis talks with the author, activist, public health and HIV specialist, and Africanist Cary Alan Johnson. In his new novel, Desire Lines, Cary shares a journey through gay New York in the 1980s—the sex, the drugs, and the trauma of AIDS—from the fresh perspective of a young Black man coming of age. While this is a fictional story, the lines are often blurred between the narrator of the story and Cary himself. His hope is for the book to humanize a generation of men who were often seen as less human in the eyes of many. Topics discussed include: Reprocessing trauma, cultural trauma, his work in Africa, being black and gay during the AIDS crisis, how estrangement effects a person's development, gay men's relationships to masculinity, sexual shame, and desire lines. personal development, trauma, public health, gay men, black, masculinity, queer, wholeness, sexual shame, estrangement, men, desire lines, life coach, desire, feminine, coaching, novel, lgbtq, gay, hiv, african, aids, masculinities, author, human, self help, shame false full 60 5ec530f5-5643-48a6-b7ce-86bd2f72e58d Mac Scotty McGregor- Trans Man, Queer, Teacher To connect with Mac Scotty McGregor:

https://www.positivemasculinitynow.org/

Get the book: Positive Masculinity Now

IG: @positivemasculinitynow

Facebook: Positive Masculinity Now

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 5 Dec 2022 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Mac Scotty McGregor, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/mac-scotty-mcgregor-trans-man-queer-teacher-tpHn349o To connect with Mac Scotty McGregor:

https://www.positivemasculinitynow.org/

Get the book: Positive Masculinity Now

IG: @positivemasculinitynow

Facebook: Positive Masculinity Now

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mac Scotty McGregor- Trans Man, Queer, Teacher Mac Scotty McGregor, Travis Stock 01:11:27 On this episode, Travis talks with transgender activist, educator, and founder of the Seattle-based nonprofit, Positive Masculinity, Mac Scotty MacGregor. In his work, Mac provides gender and LGBTQIA diversity training for corporations, colleges, and groups around the world as well as hosts private groups and workshops for heart-led masculine people. He also recently released the accompanying book to his men’s work, Positive Masculinity Now: A Heart Led Guide Toward a Conscious, Emotionally Intelligent, & Inclusive Masculinity. Topics discussed include: gender socialization, how the world treats you based on your perceived gender, queer masculinities, how nurturing can be a masculine role, creating more depth in masculine friendships, the challenges of a binary system, agility over rigidity, Trans athletes, and the work of his nonprofit Positive Masculinity. On this episode, Travis talks with transgender activist, educator, and founder of the Seattle-based nonprofit, Positive Masculinity, Mac Scotty MacGregor. In his work, Mac provides gender and LGBTQIA diversity training for corporations, colleges, and groups around the world as well as hosts private groups and workshops for heart-led masculine people. He also recently released the accompanying book to his men’s work, Positive Masculinity Now: A Heart Led Guide Toward a Conscious, Emotionally Intelligent, & Inclusive Masculinity. Topics discussed include: gender socialization, how the world treats you based on your perceived gender, queer masculinities, how nurturing can be a masculine role, creating more depth in masculine friendships, the challenges of a binary system, agility over rigidity, Trans athletes, and the work of his nonprofit Positive Masculinity. personal development, trans athletes, binary systems, role models, rigidity, traditional masculinity, masculinity, male friendships, queer, karate, male, inclusion, transgender, gender, men, men's work, trans, life coach, conscious masculinity, trans masculine, emotional agility, feminine, inclusive, athlete, agility, emotional literacy, masculinities, masculine, self help, nurturing, socialization, gender socialization false full 59 332df762-fd8f-4617-81f1-69f5d8afbb53 Christopher Reigeluth, Ph.D. Father, Husband, Outdoorsperson, Psychologist To connect with Chris: 

http://chrisreigeluth.com

IG: @chris_reigeluth

To get purchase a copy of the book:

http://chrisreigeluth.com/publications/

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 7 Nov 2022 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Christopher Reigeluth, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/christopher-reigeluth-phd-father-husband-outdoorsperson-psychologist-_KHTOUua To connect with Chris: 

http://chrisreigeluth.com

IG: @chris_reigeluth

To get purchase a copy of the book:

http://chrisreigeluth.com/publications/

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Christopher Reigeluth, Ph.D. Father, Husband, Outdoorsperson, Psychologist Christopher Reigeluth, Travis Stock 01:13:26 On this episode, Travis talks with clinical psychologist and expert on boys and men's mental health, gender socialization, and adolescent masculinities, Christopher Reigeluth, Ph.D. In his new book, The Masculinity Workbook for Teens: Discover What Being a Guy Means to You, Chris seeks to help teen boys be curious about what they’ve learned about being a man and recognize that conforming to masculine gender norms is a choice, not a requirement. From there, he helps the reader create their own definition of masculinity – one that’s on their own terms and true to them. Together, Chris and Travis discuss what it means to question gender, societal limitations and how to self-create, inviting boys and men into conversations around gender, honing our ability to hold multiple truths at once, the vulnerability of silliness, and how to encourage buy-in from adolescent boys. On this episode, Travis talks with clinical psychologist and expert on boys and men's mental health, gender socialization, and adolescent masculinities, Christopher Reigeluth, Ph.D. In his new book, The Masculinity Workbook for Teens: Discover What Being a Guy Means to You, Chris seeks to help teen boys be curious about what they’ve learned about being a man and recognize that conforming to masculine gender norms is a choice, not a requirement. From there, he helps the reader create their own definition of masculinity – one that’s on their own terms and true to them. Together, Chris and Travis discuss what it means to question gender, societal limitations and how to self-create, inviting boys and men into conversations around gender, honing our ability to hold multiple truths at once, the vulnerability of silliness, and how to encourage buy-in from adolescent boys. personal development, adolescent, clinical, psychology, development, masculinity, therapy, positive masculinity, teens, psychologist, vulnerability, parenting, self creation, gender, men's work, boys, feminine, coaching, masculinities, author, research, masculine, socialization, self-help false full 58 1a964386-00e9-4598-934d-73332b17067f William Elder, Ph.D. - Gay Man, Psychologist, Lover To connect with William Elder:

https://www.sugarvalleytherapy.com

Email: william.elder@utah.edu


To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 3 Oct 2022 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (William Elder, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/william-elder-phd-gay-man-psychologist-lover-SgmnFxMl To connect with William Elder:

https://www.sugarvalleytherapy.com

Email: william.elder@utah.edu


To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> William Elder, Ph.D. - Gay Man, Psychologist, Lover William Elder, Travis Stock 01:11:59 On this episode, Travis talks with clinical psychologist, researcher, and adjunct professor at the University of Texas School of Medicine at San Antonio, William Elder, Ph.D. Will specializes in trauma work with men, specifically with those who are navigating the effects of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). Together they discuss what it's like to be gay mental health providers focused on men and masculinity and the importance of quality therapeutic relationships for men who have experienced trauma. Other topics discussed include: what our communities (specifically religious communities) teach us about who we need to be, his seeking journey that led him into reparative therapy, balancing professional identities with the wholeness of our humanity, the cross over between masculine norms and dissociation, therapeutic relationships with men, and the power within non-traditional gender identities. On this episode, Travis talks with clinical psychologist, researcher, and adjunct professor at the University of Texas School of Medicine at San Antonio, William Elder, Ph.D. Will specializes in trauma work with men, specifically with those who are navigating the effects of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD). Together they discuss what it's like to be gay mental health providers focused on men and masculinity and the importance of quality therapeutic relationships for men who have experienced trauma. Other topics discussed include: what our communities (specifically religious communities) teach us about who we need to be, his seeking journey that led him into reparative therapy, balancing professional identities with the wholeness of our humanity, the cross over between masculine norms and dissociation, therapeutic relationships with men, and the power within non-traditional gender identities. personal development, authenticity, trauma, gender identity, psychology, mormon, therapeutic relationships, reparative therapy, masculinity, therapy, healing, dissociation, queer, lds, psychologist, vulnerability, gender, men's work, life coach, ptsd, feminine, gender norms, coaching, bravery, religion, courage, lgbtq, gay, transformation, masculine, avoidance false full 57 0206a724-2a32-41a7-ba14-162a4f74f1a1 Ray Arata- Father, Leader, Friend, Activist To connect with Ray Arata:

https://www.rayarata.com

https://bettermanconference.com

Purchase the book and get a free virtual ticket to the Better Man Conference 2022 (November 2022)

Email: ray@bettermanconference.com

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

 

 

 

]]> Mon, 5 Sep 2022 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Ray Arata, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/ray-arata-father-leader-friend-activist-LbbHKDGf To connect with Ray Arata:

https://www.rayarata.com

https://bettermanconference.com

Purchase the book and get a free virtual ticket to the Better Man Conference 2022 (November 2022)

Email: ray@bettermanconference.com

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

 

 

 

]]> Ray Arata- Father, Leader, Friend, Activist Ray Arata, Travis Stock 01:09:43 On this episode, Travis talks with founder of the Better Man Conference and author of the new book, Showing Up: How Men Can Become Effective Allies in the Workplace, Ray Arata. In his book, he helps male leaders (and their organizations) explore heart-centered leadership, healthy masculinity, and what it takes to be a true ally in the workplace. Along with his extensive work with men through the ManKind Project and his own coaching business, he's a true heavy hitter in the world of men's work. Topics discussed include: His own wakeup call around his masculinity, the importance of asking questions you don't know the answer to, allyship, the practice of decentering self, pain as a motivator, power differentials in the workplace, the 5 stages of men in most corporations, the importance of repair work, and his work through the Better Man Conference. On this episode, Travis talks with founder of the Better Man Conference and author of the new book, Showing Up: How Men Can Become Effective Allies in the Workplace, Ray Arata. In his book, he helps male leaders (and their organizations) explore heart-centered leadership, healthy masculinity, and what it takes to be a true ally in the workplace. Along with his extensive work with men through the ManKind Project and his own coaching business, he's a true heavy hitter in the world of men's work. Topics discussed include: His own wakeup call around his masculinity, the importance of asking questions you don't know the answer to, allyship, the practice of decentering self, pain as a motivator, power differentials in the workplace, the 5 stages of men in most corporations, the importance of repair work, and his work through the Better Man Conference. personal development, allyship, leaders, diversity, masculinity, queer, male, inclusion, heart-centered, gay man, power differentials, men, men's work, leader, repair work, life coach, ally, power, well-intentioned, humanizing, activism, feminine, coaching, de&i, decenter, corporations, inclusive leadership, lgbtq, better man, equity, masculine, self help false full 56 6e21d55c-e57e-4e95-81fd-b0a71ae929a0 Tyler Boyle- Artist, Gay Man, Single Man See Tyler's artwork here and further connect:

Artist Portfolio

Website: https://www.tylercboyle.com

IG: @monsieurboyle

To connect with Travis:

Website: https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

 

]]> Mon, 1 Aug 2022 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Tyler Boyle, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/tyler-boyle-artist-gay-man-single-man-C8zPOHtU See Tyler's artwork here and further connect:

Artist Portfolio

Website: https://www.tylercboyle.com

IG: @monsieurboyle

To connect with Travis:

Website: https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

 

]]> Tyler Boyle- Artist, Gay Man, Single Man Tyler Boyle, Travis Stock 01:09:45 On this episode, Travis talks with spirit artist, entertainer, and professional hype-guy, Tyler Boyle. In his visual art, Tyler explores how masculinity affects self-esteem, self-image, relationships, perceptions, and how our societal norms enforce the mask of masculinity. His process is meditative and intuitive, pulling from the subconscious all that his inner-self is working through. Together, Travis and Tyler reflect on how the childhood coping strategy of being hyperaware of masculinity, in self and in others, has shaped their views of manhood. Topics discussed include: exploring masculinity through a feminine approach, masculinity as a mask/a shield/a sword, doing the work to become a balanced person, dating psychology, new models for relationships, and body movement as a way to understand the limits placed on us by masculinity. On this episode, Travis talks with spirit artist, entertainer, and professional hype-guy, Tyler Boyle. In his visual art, Tyler explores how masculinity affects self-esteem, self-image, relationships, perceptions, and how our societal norms enforce the mask of masculinity. His process is meditative and intuitive, pulling from the subconscious all that his inner-self is working through. Together, Travis and Tyler reflect on how the childhood coping strategy of being hyperaware of masculinity, in self and in others, has shaped their views of manhood. Topics discussed include: exploring masculinity through a feminine approach, masculinity as a mask/a shield/a sword, doing the work to become a balanced person, dating psychology, new models for relationships, and body movement as a way to understand the limits placed on us by masculinity. personal development, self-esteem, gay men, masculinity, shield, sword, queer, subconscious, artist, men's work, emasculate, life coach, spirit art, balance, self image, art, feminine, dance, dating psychology, lgbtq, intiution, gay, masculine, mask, self help, meditation false full 55 5021e893-b064-44d0-bc40-312e058a2939 Pellegrino Riccardi- Father, Hunter, Provider To connect with Pellegrino: 

Drowning Quietly: Memoir of a Man's Shortcomings

https://www.pellegrino-riccardi.com

email: pellegrino@pellegrino.no

LinkedIn: Pellegrino Riccardi

IG: @pellegrino_riccardi


To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 11 Jul 2022 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Pellegrino Riccardi, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/pellegrino-riccardi-father-hunter-provider-nCePOy6F To connect with Pellegrino: 

Drowning Quietly: Memoir of a Man's Shortcomings

https://www.pellegrino-riccardi.com

email: pellegrino@pellegrino.no

LinkedIn: Pellegrino Riccardi

IG: @pellegrino_riccardi


To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Pellegrino Riccardi- Father, Hunter, Provider Pellegrino Riccardi, Travis Stock 01:11:48 On this episode, Travis talks with author of the book, Drowning Quietly: Memoir of a Man's Shortcomings, Pellegrino Riccardi. Pellegrino's life took a dramatic turn after what he described as an unforgivable mistake regarding the safety of one of his children. That experience put him on a path of self-discovery and redefining his manhood which involved seeing himself through the eyes of the most important women in his life. He lays out this journey in his new book and is here to share his insights. Topics discussed include: The redefining power of recognizing one's own shortcomings, cultural differences in how we apply masculine norms, learning to express complex emotions, offering as a father what was missing in one's own childhood, how infertility impacts a man's masculinity, and the power of unapologetic feedback within safe relationships. On this episode, Travis talks with author of the book, Drowning Quietly: Memoir of a Man's Shortcomings, Pellegrino Riccardi. Pellegrino's life took a dramatic turn after what he described as an unforgivable mistake regarding the safety of one of his children. That experience put him on a path of self-discovery and redefining his manhood which involved seeing himself through the eyes of the most important women in his life. He lays out this journey in his new book and is here to share his insights. Topics discussed include: The redefining power of recognizing one's own shortcomings, cultural differences in how we apply masculine norms, learning to express complex emotions, offering as a father what was missing in one's own childhood, how infertility impacts a man's masculinity, and the power of unapologetic feedback within safe relationships. personal development, fatherhood, child of immigrant, masculinity, therapy, anger, complex emotions, parenting, incompetent, cultural differences, men's work, failures, shortcomings, feelings, life coach, manhood, ivf, feedback, feminine, coaching, infertility, emotions, toxic masculinity, author, masculine, self help, leadership, macho false full 54 ac4e498f-d1c6-47af-aabf-73fa2f9dde5f Tony Daloisio Ph.D.- Person, Leader, Husband To connect with Tony Daloisio, Ph.D.:

https://thejourneymanlife.com/

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 6 Jun 2022 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Tony Daloisio, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/tony-daloisio-phd-person-leader-husband-_tzVKU_w To connect with Tony Daloisio, Ph.D.:

https://thejourneymanlife.com/

 

To Connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Tony Daloisio Ph.D.- Person, Leader, Husband Tony Daloisio, Travis Stock 01:11:42 On this episode, Travis talks with organizational psychologist, researcher, coach, and expert in leadership development, Tony Daloisio, Ph.D. And while his professional credits are important, Tony brings with him a deep level of vulnerability as he shares his story of childhood trauma and his path toward healing those early attachment wounds. He offers that story as the foundation of his new book, The Journeyman Life: The Not So Perfect Path to a Life Well Lived. In the book, he invites men to the doorstep of change and offers a path through to a better relationship with self and others. Topics discussed include: Attachment patterns - relational imprints and blueprints from childhood, highly sensitive men, anger, emotional acuity, getting ahead of our activation, meditation, and adult stages of development. On this episode, Travis talks with organizational psychologist, researcher, coach, and expert in leadership development, Tony Daloisio, Ph.D. And while his professional credits are important, Tony brings with him a deep level of vulnerability as he shares his story of childhood trauma and his path toward healing those early attachment wounds. He offers that story as the foundation of his new book, The Journeyman Life: The Not So Perfect Path to a Life Well Lived. In the book, he invites men to the doorstep of change and offers a path through to a better relationship with self and others. Topics discussed include: Attachment patterns - relational imprints and blueprints from childhood, highly sensitive men, anger, emotional acuity, getting ahead of our activation, meditation, and adult stages of development. personal development, trauma, attachment theory, organizational psychology, psychology, attachment, adult stages of development, therapy, anger, social learning, attachment wounds, male, emotional acuity, childhood trauma, vulnerability, men's work, change, highly sensitive men, life coach, feminine, journeyman, mental illness, relational imprints, life, transformation, masculine, self help, meditation false full 53 add07864-a692-4236-9da2-f3f3ee441984 Maddox- Leader, Mentor, Gay Man To connect with Maddox:

The Authentic Gay Man Podcast- check out Episode 6 to hear our conversation!

Facebook: The Authentic Gay Man

IG: @theauthenticgayman


To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 2 May 2022 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Coach Maddox, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/maddox-leader-mentor-gay-man-Kk5Hj2U6 To connect with Maddox:

The Authentic Gay Man Podcast- check out Episode 6 to hear our conversation!

Facebook: The Authentic Gay Man

IG: @theauthenticgayman


To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Maddox- Leader, Mentor, Gay Man Coach Maddox, Travis Stock 01:11:06 On this episode, Travis talks with an expert on the topic of authenticity. Maddox is a personal power coach and host of The Authentic Gay Man podcast, where he encourages gay men to dive deep, get vulnerable, and have honest and raw conversations with each other. As you can see, the missions of these two hosts are quite aligned -- Check out Episode 6 of The Authentic Gay Man to hear him interview Travis! Topics discussed include: authenticity, having access to both our masculine and feminine energies, masculinity in the gay community, belonging, inner child work, the ways we each "hustle" for our value, new models for safe community, and the power of gay/straight male friendships and relationships. On this episode, Travis talks with an expert on the topic of authenticity. Maddox is a personal power coach and host of The Authentic Gay Man podcast, where he encourages gay men to dive deep, get vulnerable, and have honest and raw conversations with each other. As you can see, the missions of these two hosts are quite aligned -- Check out Episode 6 of The Authentic Gay Man to hear him interview Travis! Topics discussed include: authenticity, having access to both our masculine and feminine energies, masculinity in the gay community, belonging, inner child work, the ways we each "hustle" for our value, new models for safe community, and the power of gay/straight male friendships and relationships. personal development, value, authenticity, energy, gay masculinity, life coaching, masculinity, authentic, therapy, the new masculine, health masculinity, belonging, gay man, men's work, feminine, coaching, inner child work, community, lgbtq, gay, man, spirituality, masculine, self help false full 52 20f64201-7cc8-4221-a278-2433216e022a Weston Karnes- Son, Person, Husband To connect with Weston Karnes:

https://www.letsgetrealbro.com

IG: @lgrbro

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 4 Apr 2022 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Weston Karnes, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/weston-karnes-son-person-husband-q2FPc71B To connect with Weston Karnes:

https://www.letsgetrealbro.com

IG: @lgrbro

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Weston Karnes- Son, Person, Husband Weston Karnes, Travis Stock 01:23:48 On this episode, Travis talks with Weston Karnes, creator of the new card-based, inquiry game called Let's Get Real, Bro. He shares his own story of leaving his corporate career to dive into this more purposeful and soul driven work. He now invites other men into deeper exploration, introspection, and laughter through "a connection based card game that stokes meaningful connections by getting real. Connect over your hopes, dreams, and also your shit.” Not only is this game a great entry point for getting real, but Weston has partnered with Betterhelp to offer a free month of therapy for everyone who purchases a deck. Topics discussed include: the needs of an introverted man, how men can nurture their relationships, being aware of the needs of our loved ones, how competition impacts our connections, the importance of embodiment work, and the game itself. And, tune in for a bonus experience as Travis and Weston get real with each other by playing a few rounds of the game! On this episode, Travis talks with Weston Karnes, creator of the new card-based, inquiry game called Let's Get Real, Bro. He shares his own story of leaving his corporate career to dive into this more purposeful and soul driven work. He now invites other men into deeper exploration, introspection, and laughter through "a connection based card game that stokes meaningful connections by getting real. Connect over your hopes, dreams, and also your shit.” Not only is this game a great entry point for getting real, but Weston has partnered with Betterhelp to offer a free month of therapy for everyone who purchases a deck. Topics discussed include: the needs of an introverted man, how men can nurture their relationships, being aware of the needs of our loved ones, how competition impacts our connections, the importance of embodiment work, and the game itself. And, tune in for a bonus experience as Travis and Weston get real with each other by playing a few rounds of the game! personal development, authenticity, introspection, masculinity, exploration, therapy, introverted men, game, male, laughter, perspective, competition, nurture, men, men's work, card game, connection, safe space, life coach, feminine, husband, relationships, masculine true full 51 c120caff-2a23-4733-ad72-6a2637fba9cf Josh Saterman - Human, Connector, Partner To connect with Josh Saterman: https://www.satermanconnect.com

For more on Arrive. Drive. Thrive: https://www.satermanconnect.com/arrivedrivethrive/

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Contribute to the mission: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 7 Mar 2022 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Josh Saterman, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/josh-saterman-human-connector-partner-VJEtSUcA To connect with Josh Saterman: https://www.satermanconnect.com

For more on Arrive. Drive. Thrive: https://www.satermanconnect.com/arrivedrivethrive/

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Contribute to the mission: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Josh Saterman - Human, Connector, Partner Josh Saterman, Travis Stock 01:06:20 On this episode, Travis talks about models of leadership that align with The New Masculine with leadership expert, Josh Saterman. Josh is the Founder, CEO, and managing partner of Saterman Connect - a consulting firm that partners with organizations to navigate their journey, grow leaders, and evolve cultures. He and his team offer Executive Coaching, Professional 1-on-1 Coaching, Diversity and Inclusion and Leadership Development. In the book he coauthored, Arrive. Drive. Thrive: For Aspiring, Emerging, and Growing Leaders, he lays out the 6 values that inform his own leadership and the services offered by Saterman Connect. Topics discussed include: leadership, passion vs. stoicism, being "all in", what we can learn from our female counterparts/feminine leadership, being a man on your own terms, the 3 questions he always asks as a leader, and how leaders can foster fulfillment rather than just engagement. On this episode, Travis talks about models of leadership that align with The New Masculine with leadership expert, Josh Saterman. Josh is the Founder, CEO, and managing partner of Saterman Connect - a consulting firm that partners with organizations to navigate their journey, grow leaders, and evolve cultures. He and his team offer Executive Coaching, Professional 1-on-1 Coaching, Diversity and Inclusion and Leadership Development. In the book he coauthored, Arrive. Drive. Thrive: For Aspiring, Emerging, and Growing Leaders, he lays out the 6 values that inform his own leadership and the services offered by Saterman Connect. Topics discussed include: leadership, passion vs. stoicism, being "all in", what we can learn from our female counterparts/feminine leadership, being a man on your own terms, the 3 questions he always asks as a leader, and how leaders can foster fulfillment rather than just engagement. personal development, authenticity, coach, masculinity, success, recognition, safety, prepare, queer, passion, motivation, vulnerability, fulfillment, engagement, all in, life coach, growth mindset, confidence, balance, reward, feedback, soft skills, feminine, values based leadership, courage, lgbtq, gay, masculinities, author, presence, masculine, human, self help, leadership, conscientiousness false full 50 82138d99-f52e-4ee5-b72c-b5fe4ec37ea1 Saed D. Hill, Ph.D. - Connector, Son, Mentor To contribute to the mission of The New Masculine:

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

To find out more about the Task Force on Boys in Schools:

https://www.division51.net/taskforce-on-boys-in-school

 

To connect with Saed:

IG: @papercutrhymesphd

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/saed.hill

LinkedIn: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/saed-d-hill-phd/

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

]]> Mon, 7 Feb 2022 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Saed D. Hill) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/saed-d-hill-phd-connector-son-mentor-1n6K_bkR To contribute to the mission of The New Masculine:

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

To find out more about the Task Force on Boys in Schools:

https://www.division51.net/taskforce-on-boys-in-school

 

To connect with Saed:

IG: @papercutrhymesphd

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/saed.hill

LinkedIn: LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/saed-d-hill-phd/

 

To connect with Travis:

https://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

]]> Saed D. Hill, Ph.D. - Connector, Son, Mentor Travis Stock, Saed D. Hill 01:18:45 This episode is Part 3 in a series on how we educate boys in our school systems where Travis talks to members of the Task Force on Boys in School, a special interest group out of Division 51 of the American Psychological Association (APA). The mission of the task force is to offer information and resources which seek to empower educators to cultivate learning environments that enable boys to embody their full humanity, question restrictive norms of masculinity for themselves, and experience schools as places that support their creativity, individuality and growth. On this episode, Travis talks with counseling psychologist, Saed D. Hill, Ph.D. who is developing a fact sheet on the impact of distance learning on boys that will be offered by the task force in the future. On top of this work, he is also the Assistant Director of Prevention and Masculine Engagement at the Center for Awareness, Response & Education at Northwestern University. Topics discussed include: growing up in the US as a child of immigrants, masculinity as a performance, the invisible curriculums taught in school, joy as a vulnerable emotion, providing different options for and permission around masculinities, and having developmentally appropriate conversations with boys about their masculinity. This episode is Part 3 in a series on how we educate boys in our school systems where Travis talks to members of the Task Force on Boys in School, a special interest group out of Division 51 of the American Psychological Association (APA). The mission of the task force is to offer information and resources which seek to empower educators to cultivate learning environments that enable boys to embody their full humanity, question restrictive norms of masculinity for themselves, and experience schools as places that support their creativity, individuality and growth. On this episode, Travis talks with counseling psychologist, Saed D. Hill, Ph.D. who is developing a fact sheet on the impact of distance learning on boys that will be offered by the task force in the future. On top of this work, he is also the Assistant Director of Prevention and Masculine Engagement at the Center for Awareness, Response & Education at Northwestern University. Topics discussed include: growing up in the US as a child of immigrants, masculinity as a performance, the invisible curriculums taught in school, joy as a vulnerable emotion, providing different options for and permission around masculinities, and having developmentally appropriate conversations with boys about their masculinity. personal development, apa, men and masculinities, queer, education, male, division 51, vulnerability, american psychological association, men, men's work, performance, life coach, feminism, shared power, power, feminine, task force, joy, anxiety, lgbtq, gay, indo-caribbean, school systems, mentor, collective liberation, masculinities, masculine, self help, drag, permission false full 49 b520cea4-7662-4810-b6f4-56d9216cca29 Matt Englar-Carlson Ph.D. - Father, Scholar, Athlete To find out more about the Task Force on Boys in School:

https://www.division51.net/taskforce-on-boys-in-school

To find out more about Matt's work:

 http://boysandmencenter.fullerton.edu

To find out more about Brighton Grammar (a boys school recommended by Matt): 

https://www.brightongrammar.vic.edu.au

 

To connect with Travis:

travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Mon, 3 Jan 2022 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Matt Englar-Carlson, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/matt-englar-carlson-phd-father-scholar-athlete-_XQL2nQh To find out more about the Task Force on Boys in School:

https://www.division51.net/taskforce-on-boys-in-school

To find out more about Matt's work:

 http://boysandmencenter.fullerton.edu

To find out more about Brighton Grammar (a boys school recommended by Matt): 

https://www.brightongrammar.vic.edu.au

 

To connect with Travis:

travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Matt Englar-Carlson Ph.D. - Father, Scholar, Athlete Matt Englar-Carlson, Travis Stock 01:24:20 This episode is Part 2 in a series on how we educate boys in our school systems where Travis talks to members of The Task Force on Boys in School, a special interest group out of Division 51 of the American Psychological Association (APA). The mission of the task force is to offer information and resources which seek to empower educators to cultivate learning environments that enable boys to embody their full humanity, question restrictive norms of masculinity for themselves, and experience schools as places that support their creativity, individuality, and growth. On this episode, Travis talks with mental health professional, professor at Cal State Fullerton, and one of the core authors of the APA Guidelines on Psychological Practice with Boys and Men, Matt Englar-Carlson, Ph.D. Matt's career path involves 25 years of study on men, masculinities, and gender, and he collaborated on work that introduced the world to the term and concept of Positive Masculinity. Topics discussed include why it's an exciting time to be a man, being raised with feminist ideals, the task of children to sort through many, often contradictory, adult beliefs systems, men in caregiving roles, positive/healthy masculinity, how adaptivity and flexibility are healthy for men, and what the data points to regarding best ways our education system can support boys. This episode is Part 2 in a series on how we educate boys in our school systems where Travis talks to members of The Task Force on Boys in School, a special interest group out of Division 51 of the American Psychological Association (APA). The mission of the task force is to offer information and resources which seek to empower educators to cultivate learning environments that enable boys to embody their full humanity, question restrictive norms of masculinity for themselves, and experience schools as places that support their creativity, individuality, and growth. On this episode, Travis talks with mental health professional, professor at Cal State Fullerton, and one of the core authors of the APA Guidelines on Psychological Practice with Boys and Men, Matt Englar-Carlson, Ph.D. Matt's career path involves 25 years of study on men, masculinities, and gender, and he collaborated on work that introduced the world to the term and concept of Positive Masculinity. Topics discussed include why it's an exciting time to be a man, being raised with feminist ideals, the task of children to sort through many, often contradictory, adult beliefs systems, men in caregiving roles, positive/healthy masculinity, how adaptivity and flexibility are healthy for men, and what the data points to regarding best ways our education system can support boys. personal development, learning environments, masculinity, therapy, apa, positive masculinity, individuality, queer, education, male, american psychological society, school, teach, adaptability, femininity, gender, men, help, life coach, feminism, caregiving, counseling, restrictive norms, boys, feminine, task force, teachers, flexibility, sexuality, creativity, intimacy, lgbtq, support, full humanity, gay, masculinities, research, growth, masculine, self help, healthy masculinity, mens work false full 48 32d99d9b-1821-422e-8a9c-a80f09507d80 Benterah Morton, Ph.D. - Father, Brother, Husband To find out more about The Task Force on Boys in School:

https://www.division51.net/taskforce-on-boys-in-school

To connect with Benterah:

Twitter: @drbenterah

Email: morton@southalabama.edu

 

To connect with Travis:

travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 13 Dec 2021 11:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Benterah Morton, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/benterah-morton-phd-father-brother-husband-zKBsPIVk To find out more about The Task Force on Boys in School:

https://www.division51.net/taskforce-on-boys-in-school

To connect with Benterah:

Twitter: @drbenterah

Email: morton@southalabama.edu

 

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travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Benterah Morton, Ph.D. - Father, Brother, Husband Benterah Morton, Travis Stock 01:10:38 On this episode, Travis talks with educator and member of The Task Force on Boys in School, a special interest group out of Division 51 of the American Psychological Association, Benterah Morton, Ph.D. This episode is the first in a three part series on how we educate boys in our school systems. The mission of the task force is to offer information and resources which seek to empower educators to cultivate learning environments that enable boys to embody their full humanity, question restrictive norms of masculinity for themselves, and experience schools as places that support their creativity, individuality, and growth. Benterah's voice, as a former science teacher, assistant principal, campus principal and now assistant professor, offers a vital perspective on the role of educators in meeting the needs of diverse populations. Topics discussed included: diverse perspectives, the limitations of the provider archetype, intimacy, communication, creating a less hostile world, and how our education system can support boys embodying their full humanity. On this episode, Travis talks with educator and member of The Task Force on Boys in School, a special interest group out of Division 51 of the American Psychological Association, Benterah Morton, Ph.D. This episode is the first in a three part series on how we educate boys in our school systems. The mission of the task force is to offer information and resources which seek to empower educators to cultivate learning environments that enable boys to embody their full humanity, question restrictive norms of masculinity for themselves, and experience schools as places that support their creativity, individuality, and growth. Benterah's voice, as a former science teacher, assistant principal, campus principal and now assistant professor, offers a vital perspective on the role of educators in meeting the needs of diverse populations. Topics discussed included: diverse perspectives, the limitations of the provider archetype, intimacy, communication, creating a less hostile world, and how our education system can support boys embodying their full humanity. personal development, authenticity, educator, diversity, masculinity, learning envirment, education, diverse perspectives, division 51, american psychological association, men, communication, life coach, professor, boys, feminine, task force, intimacy, masculinities, masculine, self help false full 47 955d683e-4a5d-4ac7-a970-875168f0de3f Thomas Jordan, Ph.D.- Father, Son, Brother, Husband To connect with Thomas:

Dr. Thomas Jordan

Clinical Psychologist/Psychoanalyst

574 West End Avenue, #64

New York, New York 10024

212.875.0154

drtmjordan@gmail.com

https://lovelifelearningcenter.com  

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 8 Nov 2021 12:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Thomas Jordan, Dr. Thomas Jordan, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/thomas-jordan-phd-father-son-brother-husband-VxqEBpct To connect with Thomas:

Dr. Thomas Jordan

Clinical Psychologist/Psychoanalyst

574 West End Avenue, #64

New York, New York 10024

212.875.0154

drtmjordan@gmail.com

https://lovelifelearningcenter.com  

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Thomas Jordan, Ph.D.- Father, Son, Brother, Husband Thomas Jordan, Dr. Thomas Jordan, Travis Stock 01:17:44 On this episode, Travis talks with clinical psychologist, interpersonal psychoanalyst, author, professor, and love life researcher, Thomas Jordan, Ph.D. In his new book, Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life, Thomas helps us all explore our psychological love lives -- or what we've learned about love relationships over time. Not only does he help us get more conscious about the blueprint we bring into our love relationships, but he also helps us understand the unlearning process that can help us take control of our love lives. Topics discussed include: becoming conscious of the stories and behaviors we bring into our relationships, the power of journaling for internal work, non-sexual intimacy, "after effects" of relationships, how to disrupt repeated relational patterns that no longer serve you, and why feelings matter. On this episode, Travis talks with clinical psychologist, interpersonal psychoanalyst, author, professor, and love life researcher, Thomas Jordan, Ph.D. In his new book, Learn to Love: Guide to Healing Your Disappointing Love Life, Thomas helps us all explore our psychological love lives -- or what we've learned about love relationships over time. Not only does he help us get more conscious about the blueprint we bring into our love relationships, but he also helps us understand the unlearning process that can help us take control of our love lives. Topics discussed include: becoming conscious of the stories and behaviors we bring into our relationships, the power of journaling for internal work, non-sexual intimacy, "after effects" of relationships, how to disrupt repeated relational patterns that no longer serve you, and why feelings matter. personal development, psychology, masculinity, therapy, rejection, healing, men, men's work, challenge, stories, non-sexual intimacy, feelings, life coach, psychoanalyst, unhealthy relationships, psychological love life, feminine, anticipatory pain, love life, love, intimacy, relational patterns, disappointment, author, masculine, self help, beliefs, disrupting false full 46 29f976f1-0471-473f-bfc9-ee9dad0e497e Justin Long- Artist, Entrepreneur, Husband To connect with Justin Long:

jboydlong.com

 

To connect with Travis:

IG: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 25 Oct 2021 15:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Justin B. Long, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/justin-long-artist-entrepreneur-husband-19RsUYmO To connect with Justin Long:

jboydlong.com

 

To connect with Travis:

IG: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Justin Long- Artist, Entrepreneur, Husband Justin B. Long, Travis Stock 01:16:43 On this episode, Travis talks with author and entrepreneur, Justin B. Long. Justin's history includes significant childhood abuse which deeply and negatively impacted his view of self. The consequences of the trauma he experienced and the negative self-image he carried included addictions, anger issues, and broken relationships. But Justin, with the help of a skilled therapist, put in the work to heal from the adverse childhood experiences and has created a completely different trajectory for his life. In his new book, The Righteous Rage of a Ten Year Old Boy: A Journey of Self Discovery, he shares his battle toward emotional health and the benefits of the therapeutic relationship. Together, Travis and Justin discuss the consequences of a shame based view of self, childhood trauma, sobriety, the importance of a good therapist, EMDR, and what it takes to create long lasting change in one's life. On this episode, Travis talks with author and entrepreneur, Justin B. Long. Justin's history includes significant childhood abuse which deeply and negatively impacted his view of self. The consequences of the trauma he experienced and the negative self-image he carried included addictions, anger issues, and broken relationships. But Justin, with the help of a skilled therapist, put in the work to heal from the adverse childhood experiences and has created a completely different trajectory for his life. In his new book, The Righteous Rage of a Ten Year Old Boy: A Journey of Self Discovery, he shares his battle toward emotional health and the benefits of the therapeutic relationship. Together, Travis and Justin discuss the consequences of a shame based view of self, childhood trauma, sobriety, the importance of a good therapist, EMDR, and what it takes to create long lasting change in one's life. personal development, trauma, therapy, victim, adverse childhood experiences, healing, physical abuse, respect, male, insecure, childhood trauma, aa, men, artist, men's work, father, life coach, balance, reinvention, emotional abuse, feminine, coaching, father wound, self-doubt, sobriety, self-conscious, spirituality, author, transformation, masculine, emdr, self help, shame false full 45 7e410e9b-5b28-4dc9-9785-867a142f858d Chris Marhefka- Son, Leader, Husband To connect with Chris Marhefka:

Workshops, coaching, and retreats:

https://www.chrismarhefka.com

Training Camp for the Soul

IG: @ChrisMarkefka

@trainingcampforthesoul

Podcast: Fully Expressed

 

To Connect with Travis:

travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Become a contributor:

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 23 Aug 2021 15:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Chris Marhefka, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/chris-marhefka-son-leader-husband-jgtcLOK9 To connect with Chris Marhefka:

Workshops, coaching, and retreats:

https://www.chrismarhefka.com

Training Camp for the Soul

IG: @ChrisMarkefka

@trainingcampforthesoul

Podcast: Fully Expressed

 

To Connect with Travis:

travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Become a contributor:

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Chris Marhefka- Son, Leader, Husband Chris Marhefka, Travis Stock 01:19:20 On this episode, Travis talks with CEO and Facilitator of Training Camp for the Soul and Founder of Embodied Man Community and Retreats, Chris Marhefka. Chris's history includes many years of personal development work that barely scratched the surface. He is one of those men who finds himself naturally successful at embodying many of cultural ideals around masculinity. But, that didn't give him a pass on the challenges of life. It wasn't until he saw his pattern of engaging in performance and achievement based living, and the limitations of that style, that he began to do his deeper, inner work. He now offers personal development retreats for people of all genders, and feels especially called to giving other men permission to do their deeper, inner work too. Topics discussed include: building a life resume, the consequences of achievement based living, inner child work, taking off the mask to look at shame and fear, psychological safety, and what steps are often skipped in certain self-help modalities. On this episode, Travis talks with CEO and Facilitator of Training Camp for the Soul and Founder of Embodied Man Community and Retreats, Chris Marhefka. Chris's history includes many years of personal development work that barely scratched the surface. He is one of those men who finds himself naturally successful at embodying many of cultural ideals around masculinity. But, that didn't give him a pass on the challenges of life. It wasn't until he saw his pattern of engaging in performance and achievement based living, and the limitations of that style, that he began to do his deeper, inner work. He now offers personal development retreats for people of all genders, and feels especially called to giving other men permission to do their deeper, inner work too. Topics discussed include: building a life resume, the consequences of achievement based living, inner child work, taking off the mask to look at shame and fear, psychological safety, and what steps are often skipped in certain self-help modalities. personal development, authenticity, doing, masculinity, hold space, male, suppressed emotions, hypermasculine, vulnerability, men, performance, being, achievement, feminine, fear, psychological safety, inner child work, emotions, support, control, man, soul, masculine, self help, shame false full 44 0ae3e94e-afef-4074-8bb3-0160e12e4af4 Isaac Cotec- Spiritual Being, Mentor, Creative Entrepreneur To connect with Isaac Cotec:

Website: https://www.herorise.us/

To get your own copy of the HeroRise Masculine Archetype Deck: https://www.herorise.us/archetype-deck/

IG: @herorise.us

To connect with Travis Stock:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Become a contributor @ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 9 Aug 2021 15:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Isaac Cotec, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/isaac-cotec-spiritual-being-mentor-creative-entrepreneur-BUXsesc_ To connect with Isaac Cotec:

Website: https://www.herorise.us/

To get your own copy of the HeroRise Masculine Archetype Deck: https://www.herorise.us/archetype-deck/

IG: @herorise.us

To connect with Travis Stock:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Become a contributor @ Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Isaac Cotec- Spiritual Being, Mentor, Creative Entrepreneur Isaac Cotec, Travis Stock 01:10:38 On this episode, Travis talks with creative entrepreneur and scholar of the subconscious, Isaac Cotec. Through his platform, HeroRise, Isaac seeks to help us all redefine masculinity and its purpose in our modern world. His most recent creative project is the HeroRise Masculine Archetype Deck, which invites us to explore 5 major archetypes of the masculine --Wizard, Warrior, Father, Lover, Sovereign. This 47-card deck takes us on a deep dive into the major themes, sub-archetypes, and shadow aspects of each of the archetypes. Through this conversation, Travis and Isaac, explore the power of this form of symbolism to deepen our understanding of self and our own unique relationship to masculinity. Topics discussed include: archetypes as a tool of personal development, spiritual vs. socialized connections to masculinity, the role of the masculine in our relationships, the Jungian perspective, the most present archetypes in our current world, and the ways we can work with out-of-balance archetypes -- individually and culturally. On this episode, Travis talks with creative entrepreneur and scholar of the subconscious, Isaac Cotec. Through his platform, HeroRise, Isaac seeks to help us all redefine masculinity and its purpose in our modern world. His most recent creative project is the HeroRise Masculine Archetype Deck, which invites us to explore 5 major archetypes of the masculine --Wizard, Warrior, Father, Lover, Sovereign. This 47-card deck takes us on a deep dive into the major themes, sub-archetypes, and shadow aspects of each of the archetypes. Through this conversation, Travis and Isaac, explore the power of this form of symbolism to deepen our understanding of self and our own unique relationship to masculinity. Topics discussed include: archetypes as a tool of personal development, spiritual vs. socialized connections to masculinity, the role of the masculine in our relationships, the Jungian perspective, the most present archetypes in our current world, and the ways we can work with out-of-balance archetypes -- individually and culturally. personal development, king, identity, lover, masculinity, symbolism, socialized, male, empathy, femininity, gender, warrior, subconscious, men, archetypes, culture, father, spiritual, carl jung, wizard, balance, eneregy, feminine, jungian, lgbtq, gender expression, compassion, gay, sovereign, masculine, self help, magician false full 43 0e009656-8587-4262-88e5-312e8111a64e Kevin Davidson- Son, Brother, Leader To connect with Kevin Davidson:

Website: https://www.mindful-masculinity.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KevinDavidsonMM

Instagram: https://instagram.com/kevindavidsonmm/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChikDAs_wv3TxUqH8QT3iSg

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-davidson-b5993444/

Download the Free “Get Back in the Game” guide, which provides 3 simple tips to take ownership of your masculinity to feel more complete

https:// www.mindful-masculinity.com/GetBackintheGame/Registration

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 26 Jul 2021 15:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Kevin Davidson) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/kevin-davidson-son-brother-leader-cC6nFwyC To connect with Kevin Davidson:

Website: https://www.mindful-masculinity.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KevinDavidsonMM

Instagram: https://instagram.com/kevindavidsonmm/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UChikDAs_wv3TxUqH8QT3iSg

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kevin-davidson-b5993444/

Download the Free “Get Back in the Game” guide, which provides 3 simple tips to take ownership of your masculinity to feel more complete

https:// www.mindful-masculinity.com/GetBackintheGame/Registration

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Kevin Davidson- Son, Brother, Leader Travis Stock, Kevin Davidson 01:10:04 On this episode, Travis talks with international coach and owner of Mindful Masculinity, Kevin Davidson. The mission of this organization is to offer education, support, and togetherness for men, particularly those unable to have children. Kevin shares his own personal experiences of being a childless man -- previously filled with anxiety, let down, isolation, and suffering health -- in the hopes of helping other men redefined their masculinity and feel more complete. Topics discussed include infertility, the effects of people-pleasing, how ethnicity impacts masculinity, vulnerability over competitiveness, the importance of men sharing their silent burdens, and owning one's feelings. On this episode, Travis talks with international coach and owner of Mindful Masculinity, Kevin Davidson. The mission of this organization is to offer education, support, and togetherness for men, particularly those unable to have children. Kevin shares his own personal experiences of being a childless man -- previously filled with anxiety, let down, isolation, and suffering health -- in the hopes of helping other men redefined their masculinity and feel more complete. Topics discussed include infertility, the effects of people-pleasing, how ethnicity impacts masculinity, vulnerability over competitiveness, the importance of men sharing their silent burdens, and owning one's feelings. personal development, fatherhood, coach, ethnicity, masculinity, grief, anger, fathering, vulnerability, people pleasing, culture, feelings, feminine, mindful, indian, psychological safety, infertility, english, silent burdens, lgbtq, competitiveness, support, gay, childless men, masculine, self help false full 42 6953bab3-35ec-4ff6-97da-e197afdd5c26 Brad Watson- Father, Friend, Husband If you are a man who has experienced sexual abuse, or know someone who has, and are looking for resources, here are some options to begin with:

https://1in6.org/

https://www.rainn.org

 

To connect with Brad Watson:

Website: https://www.bradwatson.com

Book: Prey: The Secret that Almost Killed Me

IG: @criiikey

Facebook: Brad Watson

 

To Connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

]]> Mon, 12 Jul 2021 15:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Brad Watson) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/brad-watson-father-friend-husband-_27w8RD0 If you are a man who has experienced sexual abuse, or know someone who has, and are looking for resources, here are some options to begin with:

https://1in6.org/

https://www.rainn.org

 

To connect with Brad Watson:

Website: https://www.bradwatson.com

Book: Prey: The Secret that Almost Killed Me

IG: @criiikey

Facebook: Brad Watson

 

To Connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

]]> Brad Watson- Father, Friend, Husband Travis Stock, Brad Watson 01:14:38 On this episode, Travis talks with Brad Watson, author of the new book, Prey: The Secret That Almost Killed Me. This conversation is one of those, as Brad refers to it, "sweaty palms" conversations which cause many of us deep discomfort to even acknowledge. Brad was the victim of childhood sexual abuse for several years at the hands of a trusted neighbor. And further traumatizing was the inability, due to his upbringing and fear about what it meant about his masculinity, to tell anyone what he was going through. Now he's sharing his story, including the depths of his journey, in the hopes of normalizing these conversations and freeing other men to get the help they need. Topics discussed include "cowboy up" culture, childhood sexual abuse, destructive coping strategies (including substance abuse, cutting, suicide attempts, and more), the importance of curiosity when navigating trauma, his sobriety, and the lessons from these experiences that he brings into his current life. This is a big topic we are addressing. But, I hope you will sit with this man as he brings us into a vitally important piece of our conversations on masculinity. On this episode, Travis talks with Brad Watson, author of the new book, Prey: The Secret That Almost Killed Me. This conversation is one of those, as Brad refers to it, "sweaty palms" conversations which cause many of us deep discomfort to even acknowledge. Brad was the victim of childhood sexual abuse for several years at the hands of a trusted neighbor. And further traumatizing was the inability, due to his upbringing and fear about what it meant about his masculinity, to tell anyone what he was going through. Now he's sharing his story, including the depths of his journey, in the hopes of normalizing these conversations and freeing other men to get the help they need. Topics discussed include "cowboy up" culture, childhood sexual abuse, destructive coping strategies (including substance abuse, cutting, suicide attempts, and more), the importance of curiosity when navigating trauma, his sobriety, and the lessons from these experiences that he brings into his current life. This is a big topic we are addressing. But, I hope you will sit with this man as he brings us into a vitally important piece of our conversations on masculinity. personal development, sexual abuse, trauma, drug use, therapy, healing, childhood sexual abuse, vulnerability, parenting, cutting, cowboy up, feminine, secrets, destructive coping mechanisms, anxiety, prey, lgbtq, coping, gay, suicide, alcoholic, sobriety, author, masculine, self help false full 41 f232bf02-63b1-4a73-82ee-328338393bb2 Nic Tovey- Father, Leader, Lover To connect with Nic Tovey:

Website: http://www.nictovey.com

Facebook: Nic Tovey

IG: @nictovey

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 28 Jun 2021 15:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Nic Tovey) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/nic-tovey-father-leader-lover-lo2U9KqK To connect with Nic Tovey:

Website: http://www.nictovey.com

Facebook: Nic Tovey

IG: @nictovey

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Nic Tovey- Father, Leader, Lover Travis Stock, Nic Tovey 01:16:51 On this episode, Travis talks with author of the new book, The [R]evolutionary Man: The Modern Man's Guide to Life, Love, and Enlightenment, Nic Tovey. Nic is a counselor, coach, and teacher who found his way through a brush with death and the darkness of trauma; and now, dedicates himself to the evolution of manhood. In his book, he vulnerably shares his own journey, including the darkest of days, in hopes of guiding men into wholeness and more sustainable ways of being. His mission is to support individuals and men's groups through a progressive and integrated framework, called the Pillar of Potency. Topics discussed include the need to belong, rights of passage, the importance of purpose, trauma and mental health, and the importance of embodiment. On this episode, Travis talks with author of the new book, The [R]evolutionary Man: The Modern Man's Guide to Life, Love, and Enlightenment, Nic Tovey. Nic is a counselor, coach, and teacher who found his way through a brush with death and the darkness of trauma; and now, dedicates himself to the evolution of manhood. In his book, he vulnerably shares his own journey, including the darkest of days, in hopes of guiding men into wholeness and more sustainable ways of being. His mission is to support individuals and men's groups through a progressive and integrated framework, called the Pillar of Potency. Topics discussed include the need to belong, rights of passage, the importance of purpose, trauma and mental health, and the importance of embodiment. personal development, trauma, sustainable, enlightenment, therapy, depression, wholeness, male, embodiment, gender, men, men's work, potency, military, purpose, life coach, manhood, ptsd, counselor, revolution, feminine, rights of passage, lgbtq, evolution, gay, intuitive, death, author, masculine, mental health, self help, teacher false full 40 6966ad3b-66a6-4bac-9cf1-85cc29e0bba2 Don'Angelo Bivens- Son, Human, Gay, Black To Connect with Don'Angelo Bivens:

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/donangelo/

Upcoming website: donangelo.com

Email: dangelo.bivens@gmail.com

 

To Connect with Travis:

IG: @travers03

Website: http://www.travisstock.com/

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Mon, 7 Jun 2021 15:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Don'Angelo Bivens) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/donangelo-bivens-son-human-gay-black-mUgi3POm To Connect with Don'Angelo Bivens:

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/donangelo/

Upcoming website: donangelo.com

Email: dangelo.bivens@gmail.com

 

To Connect with Travis:

IG: @travers03

Website: http://www.travisstock.com/

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Don'Angelo Bivens- Son, Human, Gay, Black Travis Stock, Don'Angelo Bivens 01:07:16 On this episode, Travis talks to industrial and organizational psychologist, Don'Angelo Bivens, about all things leadership. Don'Angelo is also a certified executive coach, speaker, writer, and leadership facilitator whose life work is all about creating better humans -- equating to better leaders. On top of his professional experience, he shares his personal journey of learning to love and accept himself for all the things he is, and all the things he is not. Topics discussed include challenging our assumptions/expectations, growing up Black and gay, the journey to self-love, emotional intelligence, and leadership development programming for Black and Brown men. On this episode, Travis talks to industrial and organizational psychologist, Don'Angelo Bivens, about all things leadership. Don'Angelo is also a certified executive coach, speaker, writer, and leadership facilitator whose life work is all about creating better humans -- equating to better leaders. On top of his professional experience, he shares his personal journey of learning to love and accept himself for all the things he is, and all the things he is not. Topics discussed include challenging our assumptions/expectations, growing up Black and gay, the journey to self-love, emotional intelligence, and leadership development programming for Black and Brown men. personal development, leaders, executive, black, self leaderships, black and brown, assumptions, black leader, emotional intelligence, self love, leadership development, african american, expectations, perspective taking, coaching, curiosity, leaderships, accountability, lgbtq, gay, author, self help true full 39 95c6a52f-68b1-44fe-ac36-ad406e053dc7 Sean Harvey- Queer Man, Spiritual Leader, Masculinity Guide, Systems Change Expert To connect with Sean Harvey:

Website: symponiainstitute.com

LinkedIn: Sean Harvey

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 17 May 2021 15:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Sean Harvey) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/sean-harvey-queer-man-spiritual-leader-masculinity-guide-systems-change-expert-WwJC2TCm To connect with Sean Harvey:

Website: symponiainstitute.com

LinkedIn: Sean Harvey

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Sean Harvey- Queer Man, Spiritual Leader, Masculinity Guide, Systems Change Expert Travis Stock, Sean Harvey 01:22:50 On this episode, Travis talks with Sean Harvey, MSOD, MSed who is the Chief Compassion Officer and Founder of the Symponia Institute which is dedicated to developing the next generation of compassion-centered bridge builders, facilitators, leaders, and change makers. From his work centered around healing and transforming masculinities to the project he's about to launch which seeks to bring compassionate masculinity to some of the most hypermasculine spaces -- police departments, federal law enforcement agencies, and military security forces -- this man is doing some BIG work in the world. Topics discussed include coping with not feeling "man enough", healing the previously fraught relationship with his father, the next frontier of men's work, compassionate masculinity, and the healing approach he brings to all of his work. On this episode, Travis talks with Sean Harvey, MSOD, MSed who is the Chief Compassion Officer and Founder of the Symponia Institute which is dedicated to developing the next generation of compassion-centered bridge builders, facilitators, leaders, and change makers. From his work centered around healing and transforming masculinities to the project he's about to launch which seeks to bring compassionate masculinity to some of the most hypermasculine spaces -- police departments, federal law enforcement agencies, and military security forces -- this man is doing some BIG work in the world. Topics discussed include coping with not feeling "man enough", healing the previously fraught relationship with his father, the next frontier of men's work, compassionate masculinity, and the healing approach he brings to all of his work. personal development, police reform, doing vs being, divine masculine, leaders, masculinity, healthy masculine, minister, healing, queer, male, founder, hypermasculine, facilitators, compassionate masculinity, gender, men, men's work, father, life coach, balance, man enough, bridge builders, feminine, change makers, toxic masculinity, lgbtq, compassion, federal law enforcement, gay, divine feminine, transformation, masculine, self help false full 38 ca72f5be-903f-49f6-8b5a-acd5a625c210 Dominic Longo- Leader, Gay Man, Italian-American To connect with Dominic:

Website: https://www.flourishinggays.com

Facebook: Flourishing Gays

IG: @flourishinggays

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/flourishinggays/

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 3 May 2021 15:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Dominic Longo) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/dominic-longo-leader-gay-man-italian-american-w2sl2ndX To connect with Dominic:

Website: https://www.flourishinggays.com

Facebook: Flourishing Gays

IG: @flourishinggays

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/flourishinggays/

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Dominic Longo- Leader, Gay Man, Italian-American Travis Stock, Dominic Longo 01:10:38 On this episode, Travis talks with executive coach, facilitator of transformation, and leadership development expert, Dominic Longo. Dominic is the founder and and managing director of Flourishing Gays which offers executive coaching and leadership development from the LGBTQ+ perspective. He invites us into recognizing that queer flourishing benefits all people, regardless of gender or sexuality. Topics discussed include how spending formative years in Egypt shaped his ideas of masculinity, queer superpowers, adult stages of development, the expansive nature of perspective-taking, and the cultural shadow work we are navigating in the US. On this episode, Travis talks with executive coach, facilitator of transformation, and leadership development expert, Dominic Longo. Dominic is the founder and and managing director of Flourishing Gays which offers executive coaching and leadership development from the LGBTQ+ perspective. He invites us into recognizing that queer flourishing benefits all people, regardless of gender or sexuality. Topics discussed include how spending formative years in Egypt shaped his ideas of masculinity, queer superpowers, adult stages of development, the expansive nature of perspective-taking, and the cultural shadow work we are navigating in the US. personal development, executive coaching, developmental stages, masculinity, adult stages of development, shadow work, superpowers, queer, egypt, flourishing, gender, life coach, expanding, leadership development, feminine, coaching, curiosity, community, sexuality, intimacy, lgbtq, adult development, gay, masculine, self help, permission false full 37 3cab46c9-a240-4369-b2f2-4e97cadc241b Carson Tueller - Leader, Queer Man, Disabled To connect with Carson Tueller:

Website: https://www.carsontueller.com

IG: @carson_tueller

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 19 Apr 2021 15:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Carson Tueller) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/carson-tueller-leader-queer-man-disabled-VjL4BpDN To connect with Carson Tueller:

Website: https://www.carsontueller.com

IG: @carson_tueller

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Carson Tueller - Leader, Queer Man, Disabled Travis Stock, Carson Tueller 00:58:03 On this episode, Travis explores the intersection between masculinity and ableism with the help of coach, professional speaker, and disability and DEI consultant, Carson Tueller. While many previous episodes have focused on unpacking and shifting behaviors informed by misogyny, racism, and homophobia, Carson brings a new layer which requires our attention -- deconstructing ableism. Topics discussed include the importance of self-identification, the impact of being raised in the Mormon church as a queer person, how his disability impacted his relationship to masculinity, female leaders, and the Disability Justice Movement. On this episode, Travis explores the intersection between masculinity and ableism with the help of coach, professional speaker, and disability and DEI consultant, Carson Tueller. While many previous episodes have focused on unpacking and shifting behaviors informed by misogyny, racism, and homophobia, Carson brings a new layer which requires our attention -- deconstructing ableism. Topics discussed include the importance of self-identification, the impact of being raised in the Mormon church as a queer person, how his disability impacted his relationship to masculinity, female leaders, and the Disability Justice Movement. personal development, disability, gender identity, racism, misogyny, mormon, masculinity, queer, ableism, male, lds, equitable, gender, men, disability justice, men's work, life coach, feminine, homophobia, non-binary, social media, hierarchy, lgbtq, gay, dei, masculine, self help, bodies true full 36 de169bf0-3cb8-4602-a4c9-95b3140c70b0 Chris Wilson - Spiritual Being, Brother, Athlete To connect with Chris Wilson:

Website: https://www.unshakableman.com

IG: @Theunshakableman

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 5 Apr 2021 15:03:57 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Chris Wilson, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/chris-wilson-spiritual-being-brother-athlete-63qrfdoC To connect with Chris Wilson:

Website: https://www.unshakableman.com

IG: @Theunshakableman

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com/

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Chris Wilson - Spiritual Being, Brother, Athlete Chris Wilson, Travis Stock 00:58:01 On this episode, Travis talks with Chris Wilson, founder of The Unshakeable Man Studio which offers breathwork sessions, drop in men's work, and emotional awareness trainings to help men life more open-hearted and fulfilling lives. Chris shares his own story of recognizing how unsustainable versions of manhood that focus on being tough and powering through were in his life. He now describes his mission as "slowing men down and creating spaces where men can take safe risks of vulnerability together in community to connect, heal and grow into open-hearted leaders.” Topics discussed include experiences of life being personal curriculum for growth, the hard way vs the open way, spiritual psychology, and the power of breath work and getting into the body. On this episode, Travis talks with Chris Wilson, founder of The Unshakeable Man Studio which offers breathwork sessions, drop in men's work, and emotional awareness trainings to help men life more open-hearted and fulfilling lives. Chris shares his own story of recognizing how unsustainable versions of manhood that focus on being tough and powering through were in his life. He now describes his mission as "slowing men down and creating spaces where men can take safe risks of vulnerability together in community to connect, heal and grow into open-hearted leaders.” Topics discussed include experiences of life being personal curriculum for growth, the hard way vs the open way, spiritual psychology, and the power of breath work and getting into the body. personal development, breathwork, masculinity, spiritual psychology, emotional awareness, panic attacks, male, men, men's work, brother, open way, brotherhood, feminine, emotions, anxiety, lgbtq, athlete, gay, hard way, man, spirituality, masculine, boundaries, self help, breath false full 35 f8016f7c-b795-414e-899d-163a9742bbe1 Ken Mossman- Father, Spiritual Being, Artist To connect with Ken Mossman:

Website: https://www.cirrusleadership.com/

Podcast: Mojo for the Modern Man

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ken-mossman-3649b5/

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 22 Mar 2021 15:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Ken Mossman, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/ken-mossman-father-spiritual-being-artist-oZ3eWCjm To connect with Ken Mossman:

Website: https://www.cirrusleadership.com/

Podcast: Mojo for the Modern Man

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ken-mossman-3649b5/

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com

IG: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Ken Mossman- Father, Spiritual Being, Artist Ken Mossman, Travis Stock 01:07:35 On this episode, Travis talks with an elder in the men's coaching world. Ken Mossman is an executive and personal coach, who's been working with men for 18 years, helping his clients enhance their presence, focus, and leadership by developing their capacity to respond creatively to whatever is present in the moment. His primary focus when supporting men is helping develop and master their relationship to their emotions. Topics discussed include reconnecting with parts of ourselves we've previously shut down, rage as a spiritual experience and constructive force, getting out of our heads and into our bodies, and what we need to get better at as men. On this episode, Travis talks with an elder in the men's coaching world. Ken Mossman is an executive and personal coach, who's been working with men for 18 years, helping his clients enhance their presence, focus, and leadership by developing their capacity to respond creatively to whatever is present in the moment. His primary focus when supporting men is helping develop and master their relationship to their emotions. Topics discussed include reconnecting with parts of ourselves we've previously shut down, rage as a spiritual experience and constructive force, getting out of our heads and into our bodies, and what we need to get better at as men. personal development, men's coach, fatherhood, comfort zone, masculinity, shadow work, safety, queer, wholeness, male, inclusion, shadow, artist, men's work, life coach, feminine, curiosity, emotions, questions, lgbtq, listen, reconnecting, gay, rage, spirituality, binaries, masculine, self help false full 34 b776db81-19ec-4365-a23c-d4c364348922 Dr. Ed Adams- Creator, Mentor, More Fully Human To Connect with Dr. Ed Adams:

Book: Reinventing Masculinity: The Liberating Power of Compassion and Connection

Website: https://www.dredadams.net

Men Mentoring Men (M3): https://www.menmentoringmen.org

 

To Connect with Travis:

IG: @travers03

Website: http://www.travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Become a Contributor: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Mon, 8 Mar 2021 16:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Ed Adams, Dr. Ed Adams) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/dr-ed-adams-creator-mentor-more-fully-human-XPIO4YDU To Connect with Dr. Ed Adams:

Book: Reinventing Masculinity: The Liberating Power of Compassion and Connection

Website: https://www.dredadams.net

Men Mentoring Men (M3): https://www.menmentoringmen.org

 

To Connect with Travis:

IG: @travers03

Website: http://www.travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Become a Contributor: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Dr. Ed Adams- Creator, Mentor, More Fully Human Travis Stock, Ed Adams, Dr. Ed Adams 01:09:54 On this episode, Travis talks with Dr. Ed Adams, author of the new book Reinventing Masculinity: The Liberating Power of Compassion and Connection (co-authored with Ed Frauenheim). In the book, Ed seeks to support men in moving away from "cramped, outdated, and increasingly dangerous versions of masculinity" into more liberating forms that lead to "bigger, fuller, more imaginative lives". Topics discussed included the benefits of integrating more feminine aspects (e.g. artistic expression) into our lives, masculinity's intersection with the corporate world, what compassion truly asks of us, the non-profit he started called Men Mentoring Men (M3), and the 5 C's (Curiosity, Courage, Compassion, Connection, and Commitment) of liberating masculinity. On this episode, Travis talks with Dr. Ed Adams, author of the new book Reinventing Masculinity: The Liberating Power of Compassion and Connection (co-authored with Ed Frauenheim). In the book, Ed seeks to support men in moving away from "cramped, outdated, and increasingly dangerous versions of masculinity" into more liberating forms that lead to "bigger, fuller, more imaginative lives". Topics discussed included the benefits of integrating more feminine aspects (e.g. artistic expression) into our lives, masculinity's intersection with the corporate world, what compassion truly asks of us, the non-profit he started called Men Mentoring Men (M3), and the 5 C's (Curiosity, Courage, Compassion, Connection, and Commitment) of liberating masculinity. personal development, corporate, liberating, traditional masculinity, confined masculinity, psychotherapy with men, masculinity, artistic expression, therapy, safe, men of color, safety, queer, male, empathy, men, heterosexual, psychotherapy, connection, life coach, balance, liberating masculinity, commitment, non-profit, art, ptsd, feminine, confined, coaching, curiosity, courage, self compassion, compassion, gay, collaboration, man, gbtq, mentoring, self help, shame false full 33 09f60b77-5191-4e65-8cb7-4ae6f759d802 Christopher Veal- Father, Friend, Mentor/Teacher To Connect with Christopher Veal:

Podcast: The Vulnerable Man

Website: https://daditudecoach.com/

Upcoming Coaching Website: https://echelon-left.com

Email: Christopher@daditudecoach.com

Tedx Talk: Deeper Connection, Better World

Co-Active Training Institute

 

To Connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com

Instagram: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 22 Feb 2021 16:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Christopher Veal) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/christopher-veal-father-friend-mentor-teacher-vqTamPpb To Connect with Christopher Veal:

Podcast: The Vulnerable Man

Website: https://daditudecoach.com/

Upcoming Coaching Website: https://echelon-left.com

Email: Christopher@daditudecoach.com

Tedx Talk: Deeper Connection, Better World

Co-Active Training Institute

 

To Connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com

Instagram: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Christopher Veal- Father, Friend, Mentor/Teacher Travis Stock, Christopher Veal 01:03:59 This is a special collaboration episode where The New Masculine meets The Vulnerable Man! On this episode, Travis talks with host of The Vulnerable Man podcast, Christopher Veal. Christopher is an executive and leadership coach and is a faculty member of Co-Active Training Institute which focuses on leadership and life coach trainings. He is "also an advocate for engaged fatherhood as well as expanding the way men define and access vulnerability, particularly in their connections with other men." Topics discussed included the effectiveness of different leadership styles, Christopher's time in the Marine Corps and how it shaped his definitions of masculinity and leadership, paternity leave, and men in caregiving roles. This is a special collaboration episode where The New Masculine meets The Vulnerable Man! On this episode, Travis talks with host of The Vulnerable Man podcast, Christopher Veal. Christopher is an executive and leadership coach and is a faculty member of Co-Active Training Institute which focuses on leadership and life coach trainings. He is "also an advocate for engaged fatherhood as well as expanding the way men define and access vulnerability, particularly in their connections with other men." Topics discussed included the effectiveness of different leadership styles, Christopher's time in the Marine Corps and how it shaped his definitions of masculinity and leadership, paternity leave, and men in caregiving roles. personal development, leadership training, fatherhood, coach, marine corps, masculinity, executive coach, vulnerability, male intimacy, life coach, caregiving, listening, leadership development, feminine, emotions, authority, masculine, self help, paternity leave, host, engaged fatherhood false full 32 a879bab2-41c5-46bd-8b3d-3fcefa75892e Steve Disselhorst- Father, Author, Entrepreneur To connect with Steve Disselhorst:

Website: https://www.stevedisselhorst.com

Book: https://www.stevedisselhorst.com/book

Instagram: @steve.disselhorst

LinkedIn: Steve Disselhorst

Twitter: https://twitter.com/stevedisselhors?lang=enF

Find a Men's group: https://evryman.com


To Connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com

Instagram: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 8 Feb 2021 16:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Steve Disselhorst, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/steve-disselhorst-father-author-entrepreneur-1T5hhapk To connect with Steve Disselhorst:

Website: https://www.stevedisselhorst.com

Book: https://www.stevedisselhorst.com/book

Instagram: @steve.disselhorst

LinkedIn: Steve Disselhorst

Twitter: https://twitter.com/stevedisselhors?lang=enF

Find a Men's group: https://evryman.com


To Connect with Travis:

Website: http://www.travisstock.com

Instagram: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Steve Disselhorst- Father, Author, Entrepreneur Steve Disselhorst, Travis Stock 01:10:12 On this episode, Travis talks with author, leadership coach, and diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) specialist, Steve Disselhorst. In his new book, Determined to be Dad: Journey of Faith, Resilience, and Love, he "offers his journey as a tribute to his desire for familial connection, overcoming self-imposed handicaps, and facing the harsh realities of two men trying to create a family.” As a gay father, Steve's path to fatherhood was anything but direct, and involved personal work to come to term with his identity - and the impact of that identity on the family he long envisioned. Together they discuss topics including paths to fatherhood for GBTQ men, developing different models of fatherhood than ones experienced as a child, men in the caretaking role, how a prostate cancer diagnosis impacts a man's masculinity, and the DEI perspective on men's work. On this episode, Travis talks with author, leadership coach, and diversity, equity, and inclusion (DEI) specialist, Steve Disselhorst. In his new book, Determined to be Dad: Journey of Faith, Resilience, and Love, he "offers his journey as a tribute to his desire for familial connection, overcoming self-imposed handicaps, and facing the harsh realities of two men trying to create a family.” As a gay father, Steve's path to fatherhood was anything but direct, and involved personal work to come to term with his identity - and the impact of that identity on the family he long envisioned. Together they discuss topics including paths to fatherhood for GBTQ men, developing different models of fatherhood than ones experienced as a child, men in the caretaking role, how a prostate cancer diagnosis impacts a man's masculinity, and the DEI perspective on men's work. personal development, foster parent, fatherhood, diversity, surrogacy, masculinity, interview, caretaking, leadership coach, queer, dad, inclusion, private adoption, prostate cancer, men, men's work, father, queer parents, feminine, resilience, women, foster child, lgbtq, gay, book, spirituality, author, dei, equity, masculine, self help, adoption false full 31 9e0bb4a6-1aeb-49d2-8f1b-5b905cd78478 Sam Gibbs Morris- Leader, Human, Lover To connect with Sam:

Instagram: @samgibbsmorris 

LinkedIn: Sam Morris

Website:  https://theunbreakablemanproject.com

 

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Email: @travisstock03@gmail.com

Website: travisstock.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 25 Jan 2021 16:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Sam Gibbs Morris, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/sam-gibbs-morris-leader-human-lover-MpqzIBGa To connect with Sam:

Instagram: @samgibbsmorris 

LinkedIn: Sam Morris

Website:  https://theunbreakablemanproject.com

 

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Email: @travisstock03@gmail.com

Website: travisstock.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Sam Gibbs Morris- Leader, Human, Lover Sam Gibbs Morris, Travis Stock 01:13:08 On this episode, Travis talks with fellow men's coach, Sam Gibbs Morris. Sam first shares his story of struggles with mental health, initiated by a childhood of physical health issues, and the addiction that was a part of coping with these struggles. Through lots of personal work, he developed a true sense of self-love and freed himself of the cycle and consequences of addiction. Now, Sam seeks to help other men free themselves from the mentalities that keep them stuck and prevent them from living their best lives. His new project, the Conscious Warrior Brotherhood, is anchored in the following mantra for men: “Be a warrior but don’t be at war.” Listen in as these two coaches discuss the power of beginner's mind, sobriety, self-love, plant medicine, and the healing power of male intimacy. On this episode, Travis talks with fellow men's coach, Sam Gibbs Morris. Sam first shares his story of struggles with mental health, initiated by a childhood of physical health issues, and the addiction that was a part of coping with these struggles. Through lots of personal work, he developed a true sense of self-love and freed himself of the cycle and consequences of addiction. Now, Sam seeks to help other men free themselves from the mentalities that keep them stuck and prevent them from living their best lives. His new project, the Conscious Warrior Brotherhood, is anchored in the following mantra for men: “Be a warrior but don’t be at war.” Listen in as these two coaches discuss the power of beginner's mind, sobriety, self-love, plant medicine, and the healing power of male intimacy. personal development, trauma, coach, self-love, depression, queer, social anxiety, plant medicine, vulnerability, free, beginner's mind, warrior, men's work, male intimacy, life coach, addiction, brotherhood, feminine, anxiety, intimacy, lgbtq, coping, law of attraction, gay, alcoholic, sobriety, childhood wounds, spirituality, masculine, mental health false full 30 cf89db4f-0b2f-4e2a-b61a-9980ec61157c John Beede- Outdoorsman, Spiritual Being, Mentor John's Book:

The Warrior Challenge: 8 Quest for Boys to Grow Up with Kindness, Courage, and Grit

To connect with John:

Website: https://www.johnbeede.com

Instagram and other social media: @johnbeede

 

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: http://www.travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 21 Dec 2020 16:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, John Beede) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/john-beede-outdoorsman-spiritual-being-mentor-xMlSIy4J John's Book:

The Warrior Challenge: 8 Quest for Boys to Grow Up with Kindness, Courage, and Grit

To connect with John:

Website: https://www.johnbeede.com

Instagram and other social media: @johnbeede

 

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: http://www.travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> John Beede- Outdoorsman, Spiritual Being, Mentor Travis Stock, John Beede 01:16:42 On this episode, Travis and his guest, John Beede, continue to explore how we raise boys that are aligned with the values of The New Masculine. In his new book, The Warrior Challenge: 8 Quest for Boys to Grow Up with Kindness, Courage, and Grit, John seeks to teach young men the strengths of compassion, resilience, values, healthy boundaries, and quality friendships. He shares the lessons he's learned from his adventures in mountaineering and world travels, and even the traumas he has faced along the journey. Topics discussed include re-integration of the feminine, mental health (PTSD), the generational traumas of manhood, asking for and receiving feedback, and how we can direct the energy in young men in a positive direction. On this episode, Travis and his guest, John Beede, continue to explore how we raise boys that are aligned with the values of The New Masculine. In his new book, The Warrior Challenge: 8 Quest for Boys to Grow Up with Kindness, Courage, and Grit, John seeks to teach young men the strengths of compassion, resilience, values, healthy boundaries, and quality friendships. He shares the lessons he's learned from his adventures in mountaineering and world travels, and even the traumas he has faced along the journey. Topics discussed include re-integration of the feminine, mental health (PTSD), the generational traumas of manhood, asking for and receiving feedback, and how we can direct the energy in young men in a positive direction. personal development, trauma, niceness, friendships, mountaineering, therapy, values, outdoors, teens, outdoorsman, generational trauma, warrior, men, numbing, challenge, mount everest, ptsd, feedback, boys, feminine, coaching, resilience, courage, youth, kindness, grit, young men, compassion, mentor, cultural appropriation, spirituality, masculine, mental health, boundaries, self help, archetype false full 29 8b3f0194-1f20-464a-875e-c69cb5e351fb Jonathan Cristall- Father, Leader, Husband To connect with Jonathan and find out more about the book:

https://www.wtdtt.com/

 

To Connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: http://www.travisstock.com/

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Mon, 7 Dec 2020 16:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Jonathan Cristall, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/jonathan-cristall-father-leader-husband-f6IIvseY To connect with Jonathan and find out more about the book:

https://www.wtdtt.com/

 

To Connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: http://www.travisstock.com/

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Jonathan Cristall- Father, Leader, Husband Jonathan Cristall, Travis Stock 01:19:43 On this episode, Travis talks with the author, Los Angeles prosecutor, and youth safety advisor, Jonathan Cristall. His new book, What They Don’t Teach Teens: Life Safety Skills for Teens and the Adults Who Care About Them, is a guidebook for the complexities of being a teenager in the 21st Century. Topics discussed include parenting of teens (especially what to know when parenting teen boys), rights when interacting with police, sexual consent, and how to stay safe online. On this episode, Travis talks with the author, Los Angeles prosecutor, and youth safety advisor, Jonathan Cristall. His new book, What They Don’t Teach Teens: Life Safety Skills for Teens and the Adults Who Care About Them, is a guidebook for the complexities of being a teenager in the 21st Century. Topics discussed include parenting of teens (especially what to know when parenting teen boys), rights when interacting with police, sexual consent, and how to stay safe online. personal development, rights, alcohol, objectification, life skills, masculinity, teenager, rape prevention, safety, sexual consent, teens, vulnerability, de-escalation, crimes, parents, parenting, men, digital safety, conflict, teen boys, affirmative consent, life coach, false accusations, boys, feminine, racial disparities, prosecutor, police interactions, sexual assault, author, troubled youth, masculine, self help, victim-survivor false full 28 597d4a58-0b57-4cbf-9057-6631e80d9eef Bobby Bakshi- Father, Provider, Husband To connect with Bobby-

Email: bobbybnow@gmail.com

To find out more about The ManKind Project:

New Warrior Training Adventure

Finding a men's group

Gateway weekends for men who identify as GBTQ+

 

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Website: www.travisstock.com

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 9 Nov 2020 16:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Bobby Bakshi) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/bobby-bakshi-father-provider-husband-pGln3tAX To connect with Bobby-

Email: bobbybnow@gmail.com

To find out more about The ManKind Project:

New Warrior Training Adventure

Finding a men's group

Gateway weekends for men who identify as GBTQ+

 

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Website: www.travisstock.com

Patreon https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Bobby Bakshi- Father, Provider, Husband Travis Stock, Bobby Bakshi 01:12:26 On this episode, Travis talks with Bobby Bakshi, who is a leader within an organization called the ManKind Project (MKP)- an organization that’s mission is to create a safer world by growing “better” men. One of Bobby's biggest contributions is cofounding MKP's first groups tailored to Pan Asian and Middle Eastern men. On a personal level, he identifies as a father, as a provider, and as a husband. Topics discussed include how culture shapes our definitions of masculinity, shadow work, spiritual bypassing, anti-racism, and the importance of purpose and belonging for men. On this episode, Travis talks with Bobby Bakshi, who is a leader within an organization called the ManKind Project (MKP)- an organization that’s mission is to create a safer world by growing “better” men. One of Bobby's biggest contributions is cofounding MKP's first groups tailored to Pan Asian and Middle Eastern men. On a personal level, he identifies as a father, as a provider, and as a husband. Topics discussed include how culture shapes our definitions of masculinity, shadow work, spiritual bypassing, anti-racism, and the importance of purpose and belonging for men. personal development, authenticity, anger, shadow work, safety, shadow, belonging, men's groups, men, culture, antiracism, father, spiritual bypass, purpose, life coach, provider, power, feminine, mankind project, wounded child, repressed anger, husband, multicultural, transformation, masculine, self help, healthy masculinity false full 27 ce356b57-b999-4e17-b8a7-6567a6135f39 Nathan Sarea- Experiencer, Leader, Spiritual Being To connect with Nathan:

www.nathansarea.com

Email: nathansarea@gmail.com

Men's Sheds:

https://menssheds.org.uk

US Contingency: https://usmenssheds.org

And look for #shedicine on social media

 

To connect with Travis:

IG: @travers03

http://www.travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 26 Oct 2020 15:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Nathan Sarea, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/nathan-sarea-experiencer-leader-spiritual-being-s13rw5ws To connect with Nathan:

www.nathansarea.com

Email: nathansarea@gmail.com

Men's Sheds:

https://menssheds.org.uk

US Contingency: https://usmenssheds.org

And look for #shedicine on social media

 

To connect with Travis:

IG: @travers03

http://www.travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Nathan Sarea- Experiencer, Leader, Spiritual Being Nathan Sarea, Travis Stock 01:17:16 On this episode, Travis connects with Nathan Sarea who is the Director for Denbigh Men's Sheds in Wales and the Chairman of the Board for the UK Men's Sheds Association. Men's Sheds is a global organization that gathers men together in shared activity to support men's mental health and combat loneliness and isolation. Nathan is here to share more about this organization and to help expand its reach in the United States. Travis and Nathan also discuss men's mental health, the global male suicide epidemic, healing from childhood abuse and trauma, the power of the subconscious, and creating men's groups centered around inclusion and safety. On this episode, Travis connects with Nathan Sarea who is the Director for Denbigh Men's Sheds in Wales and the Chairman of the Board for the UK Men's Sheds Association. Men's Sheds is a global organization that gathers men together in shared activity to support men's mental health and combat loneliness and isolation. Nathan is here to share more about this organization and to help expand its reach in the United States. Travis and Nathan also discuss men's mental health, the global male suicide epidemic, healing from childhood abuse and trauma, the power of the subconscious, and creating men's groups centered around inclusion and safety. personal development, men's sheds, kinesthetic learners, trauma, survivor, role models, coach, men's group, c-ptsd, masculinity, complex ptsd, queer, social group, male, subconscious, life coach, child abuse, feminine, psychological safety, men's mental health, lgbtq, inclusive, gay, suicide, man, masculine, mental health, self help, kinesthetic false full 26 0fb9d3b4-4f9a-447a-ae15-04ef56eb88a9 Andrew Smiler Ph.D. - Father, Provider, Friend To connect with Andrew:

To watch Andrew's Tedx Talk, "What does it mean to be 'man enough?'"- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WRM8I_yn1QU&feature=youtu.be

Website: https://andrewsmiler.com

Books: Is Masculinity Toxic? A Primer for the 21st Century, Dating and Sex: A Guide for the 20th Century Teen Boy, and The Masculine Self

 

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

 

 

]]> Mon, 12 Oct 2020 15:00:00 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Andrew Smiler) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/andrew-smiler-father-provider-friend-2XC5qikT To connect with Andrew:

To watch Andrew's Tedx Talk, "What does it mean to be 'man enough?'"- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WRM8I_yn1QU&feature=youtu.be

Website: https://andrewsmiler.com

Books: Is Masculinity Toxic? A Primer for the 21st Century, Dating and Sex: A Guide for the 20th Century Teen Boy, and The Masculine Self

 

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

 

 

]]> Andrew Smiler Ph.D. - Father, Provider, Friend Travis Stock, Andrew Smiler 01:22:13 On this episode, Travis talks with therapist and author of the book Is Masculinity Toxic: A Primer for the 21st Century, Andrew Smiler, Ph.D. Andrew has authored 3 books focused on men and masculinity, is the past president of the Society for the Psychological Study of Men and Masculinities, and has provided years of direct, therapeutic practice with men and adolescent boys. In this book, he seeks to evaluate modern masculinity’s capacity for good against its potential for destruction, to review evolving definitions of masculinity, and to reveal societal pressures put on men. He most especially adds to the conversations on The New Masculine by laying out a timeline of distinct cultural shifts in the US and the influence they've had on our ideals of masculinity. And with that historical knowledge, he helps Travis explore the changes that are possible, and arguably necessary, for men in our current times. On this episode, Travis talks with therapist and author of the book Is Masculinity Toxic: A Primer for the 21st Century, Andrew Smiler, Ph.D. Andrew has authored 3 books focused on men and masculinity, is the past president of the Society for the Psychological Study of Men and Masculinities, and has provided years of direct, therapeutic practice with men and adolescent boys. In this book, he seeks to evaluate modern masculinity’s capacity for good against its potential for destruction, to review evolving definitions of masculinity, and to reveal societal pressures put on men. He most especially adds to the conversations on The New Masculine by laying out a timeline of distinct cultural shifts in the US and the influence they've had on our ideals of masculinity. And with that historical knowledge, he helps Travis explore the changes that are possible, and arguably necessary, for men in our current times. personal development, coach, masculinity, therapy, queer, male, men, lgbt, toxi masculinity, study, life coach, boys, gay, adolescent boys, spirituality, author, research, masculine, self help false full 25 91933a37-7859-4b55-be2e-3addd262bc7b Bill Attride- Astrologer, Seer, Transformer To connect with Bill:

Search Bill Attride on all platforms.

Email: billattride@gmail.com

Bill's radio show:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/astrologer-bill-attride-radio-show/id1525943058

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

To contribute on Patreon:

patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Mon, 28 Sep 2020 15:00:03 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Bill Attride, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/bill-attride-astrologer-seer-transformer-BO_Sl5xT To connect with Bill:

Search Bill Attride on all platforms.

Email: billattride@gmail.com

Bill's radio show:

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/astrologer-bill-attride-radio-show/id1525943058

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

To contribute on Patreon:

patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

]]> Bill Attride- Astrologer, Seer, Transformer Bill Attride, Travis Stock 01:15:42 On this episode, Travis talks with Astrologer Bill Attride, who in a reading from 2015, helped to point Travis in the direction of work around masculinity. Bill identifies as an astrologer, as a seer, and as a transformer. He offers to The New Masculine a uniquely perspective that blends metaphysical and psychological insights with the language of astrology to help us better understand the wildly changing landscape around masculinity and patriarchal systems. Bill helps Travis explore the current astrological phase which is marked by an overdevelopment of ego and the separate, individualized self. Together they discuss the environmental, psychological, economic, and political consequences of this imbalance. He finished the episode by offering his interpretation of the new, astrological phase we are entering- one that he hopes will move us beyond the egoic self and restore balance to our world. On this episode, Travis talks with Astrologer Bill Attride, who in a reading from 2015, helped to point Travis in the direction of work around masculinity. Bill identifies as an astrologer, as a seer, and as a transformer. He offers to The New Masculine a uniquely perspective that blends metaphysical and psychological insights with the language of astrology to help us better understand the wildly changing landscape around masculinity and patriarchal systems. Bill helps Travis explore the current astrological phase which is marked by an overdevelopment of ego and the separate, individualized self. Together they discuss the environmental, psychological, economic, and political consequences of this imbalance. He finished the episode by offering his interpretation of the new, astrological phase we are entering- one that he hopes will move us beyond the egoic self and restore balance to our world. personal development, individual, insights, psychology, political, astrology, masculinity, ego, reactivity, astrologer, queer, seer, psychological, metaphysics, lgbt, life coach, feminism, balance, history, egalitarian, aquarius, transformer, collective, feminine, age of aquarius, metaphysical, gay, masculine, self help, patriarchal systems, enviroment false full 24 9d72f2ad-363e-42d1-ae4b-d598cfcc1ea5 Michael Addis- Author, Social Scientist, Father To connect with Michael Addis:

Email: maddis@clarku.edu

Books: 

The Psychology of Men in Context

Invisible Men: Men’s Inner Lives and the Consequences of Silence

 

To Connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

 

]]> Mon, 14 Sep 2020 15:00:17 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Michael Addis, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/michael-addis-author-social-scientist-father-p8rpxQAe To connect with Michael Addis:

Email: maddis@clarku.edu

Books: 

The Psychology of Men in Context

Invisible Men: Men’s Inner Lives and the Consequences of Silence

 

To Connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Patreon: patreon.com/thenewmasculine

 

 

]]> Michael Addis- Author, Social Scientist, Father Michael Addis, Travis Stock 01:11:29 On this episode, Travis speaks with Michael E. Addis, PhD, who coauthored (with Ethan Hoffman) the new book The Psychology of Men in Context. As the back cover states, this book "is a valuable introduction to the history, current scholarship, and social implications of the psychological study of men and masculinity." Michael's major focus is men's mental health and the consequences of not having the tools, nor the space, to communicate our emotions as men. He provides a broader viewpoint for our conversations on The New Masculine by spelling out the 5 different perspectives, as well as the political landscape in which they exist, that are often used to study and explain masculinity. Further, he helps Travis explore the concept of privilege and what blocks many men from recognizing their privilege. On this episode, Travis speaks with Michael E. Addis, PhD, who coauthored (with Ethan Hoffman) the new book The Psychology of Men in Context. As the back cover states, this book "is a valuable introduction to the history, current scholarship, and social implications of the psychological study of men and masculinity." Michael's major focus is men's mental health and the consequences of not having the tools, nor the space, to communicate our emotions as men. He provides a broader viewpoint for our conversations on The New Masculine by spelling out the 5 different perspectives, as well as the political landscape in which they exist, that are often used to study and explain masculinity. Further, he helps Travis explore the concept of privilege and what blocks many men from recognizing their privilege. personal development, psychology, masculinity, social learning, depression, agency, queer, gender studies, social implications, stigma, men, life coach, feminism, social construction, feminine, textbook, nature v nurture, men's mental health, emotions, lgbtq, gay, social science, author, research, intersectionality, masculine, mental health, self help, barriers, privilege false full 23 024bae5c-a80f-4467-8002-9f54ee0a4489 Nick Cho- Father, Korean American, Entrepreneur To Connect with Nick Cho:

Twitter: Nick Cho

Website: nickcho.com

Tiktok: @yourkoreandad

 

To Connect with Travis:

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 31 Aug 2020 15:00:42 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Nick Cho, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/nick-cho-father-korean-american-entrepreneur-oa1T0vWD To Connect with Nick Cho:

Twitter: Nick Cho

Website: nickcho.com

Tiktok: @yourkoreandad

 

To Connect with Travis:

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Nick Cho- Father, Korean American, Entrepreneur Nick Cho, Travis Stock 01:18:19 On this episode, Travis talks with Nick Cho, entrepreneur and TikTok personality -@yourkoreandad, who uses his social media platform to model his values around masculinity and fatherhood. In one 30 second video directed at LGBTQ children, Nick demonstrates a level of empathy, caring, and inclusivity that I want to encourage other men to use as a model. We discuss topics like his personal hero, Mr. Rogers, the importance of empathy, subversive masculinity, heterosupremacy, and the unexpected way his point-of view has connected with viewers. His keen perspective on masculinity's role in many of the current social justice challenges we face today makes for a great addition to The New Masculine. On this episode, Travis talks with Nick Cho, entrepreneur and TikTok personality -@yourkoreandad, who uses his social media platform to model his values around masculinity and fatherhood. In one 30 second video directed at LGBTQ children, Nick demonstrates a level of empathy, caring, and inclusivity that I want to encourage other men to use as a model. We discuss topics like his personal hero, Mr. Rogers, the importance of empathy, subversive masculinity, heterosupremacy, and the unexpected way his point-of view has connected with viewers. His keen perspective on masculinity's role in many of the current social justice challenges we face today makes for a great addition to The New Masculine. personal development, immigrant, coach, inclusivity, queer, social justice, subversive, empathy, nurture, men, lgbt, life coach, feminine, social media, nature, mr. rogers, tiktok, gay, man, entrepreneur, masculine, self help, racial justice false full 22 a14314f8-e185-4993-ab01-87ae6988f742 Adrian Shanker- Queer Man & Activist To Connect with Adrian:

adrianshanker.com

bradburysullivancenter.org

To order a copy of this book:

pmpress.org/bodiesandbarriers

 

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

 

 

]]> Mon, 17 Aug 2020 15:00:09 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Adrian Shanker, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/adrian-shanker-queer-man-activist-HVWrvGJi To Connect with Adrian:

adrianshanker.com

bradburysullivancenter.org

To order a copy of this book:

pmpress.org/bodiesandbarriers

 

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

 

 

]]> Adrian Shanker- Queer Man & Activist Adrian Shanker, Travis Stock 01:09:00 On this episode, Travis talks to Adrian Shanker, founder and executive director of the Bradbury-Sullivan LGBT Community Center in Allentown, Pennsylvania. Adrian is here to talk about the new book Bodies and Barriers: Queer Activists on Health, for which he is the editor and a contributing author. Through his own story and the stories of his fellow authors, he emphasizes the challenges that LGBT people face as they navigate systems that, at best do not speak to the realities of their lives, and at worst devalue and shame them. This book is a first of its kind, being a collection of essays written by LGBT healthcare consumers to help inform and improve healthcare practices toward more equity. On this episode, Travis talks to Adrian Shanker, founder and executive director of the Bradbury-Sullivan LGBT Community Center in Allentown, Pennsylvania. Adrian is here to talk about the new book Bodies and Barriers: Queer Activists on Health, for which he is the editor and a contributing author. Through his own story and the stories of his fellow authors, he emphasizes the challenges that LGBT people face as they navigate systems that, at best do not speak to the realities of their lives, and at worst devalue and shame them. This book is a first of its kind, being a collection of essays written by LGBT healthcare consumers to help inform and improve healthcare practices toward more equity. personal development, activist, sexual health care, queer, male, healthcare, lgbt, life coach, consumers, bodies and barriers, activism, feminine, patriarchy, gay, man, author, equity, masculine, mental health, editor, self help, patriarchal systems, shame false full 21 de40ff02-e357-4e19-91e6-43ef780f7a6b Jett Adore- Teacher, Social Activist, Performance Artist Support Travis and The New Masculine on Patreon. Go to patreon.com/thenewmasculine to contribute!

 

To connect with Jett: Find him by search Jett Adore on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter.

 

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Website: travisstock.com

Patreon: patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Mon, 3 Aug 2020 15:00:12 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Jett Adore) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/jett-adore-teacher-social-activist-performance-artist-VQoEVYpP Support Travis and The New Masculine on Patreon. Go to patreon.com/thenewmasculine to contribute!

 

To connect with Jett: Find him by search Jett Adore on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter.

 

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Website: travisstock.com

Patreon: patreon.com/thenewmasculine

]]> Jett Adore- Teacher, Social Activist, Performance Artist Travis Stock, Jett Adore 01:10:17 On this episode, Travis talks with performance artist, Jett Adore, who uses male burlesque to twist around current ideals of masculinity. Jett identifies as a teacher, as a social activist, and as a performance artist. Through his art, Jett invites you to consider your definitions of masculinity while modeling more expanded and inclusive definitions. In our conversation, he shares the belief that masculinity, when idealized and pushed to heightened levels, actually becomes a limitation and takes from our power as men. He asks us to think about how many of our gifts are left unclaimed because they do not lead to the appearance masculinity. Lastly, Jett stresses that masculinity does not belong to men. He believes, if there are qualities we truly value within masculinity then those should be available to all people regardless of gender. On this episode, Travis talks with performance artist, Jett Adore, who uses male burlesque to twist around current ideals of masculinity. Jett identifies as a teacher, as a social activist, and as a performance artist. Through his art, Jett invites you to consider your definitions of masculinity while modeling more expanded and inclusive definitions. In our conversation, he shares the belief that masculinity, when idealized and pushed to heightened levels, actually becomes a limitation and takes from our power as men. He asks us to think about how many of our gifts are left unclaimed because they do not lead to the appearance masculinity. Lastly, Jett stresses that masculinity does not belong to men. He believes, if there are qualities we truly value within masculinity then those should be available to all people regardless of gender. personal development, boylesque, performance art, coach, masculinity, male, ideals, femininity, men, lgbt, trans, life coach, burlesque, art, feminine, social activist, lgbtq, idealization, gay, spirituality, masculine, self help, teacher false full 20 8e85baec-a0cc-41ed-97eb-39dfcb7fa238 Meridian Mayer- Brother, Lover, Husband To connect with Meridian:

meridianmayer@gmail.com (personal and personal training business)

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Website: travisstock.com

To support Travis, this podcast, and organizations recommended by Meridian: patreon.com/thenewmasculine

Organizations recommended by Meridian:

Justice for Breonna Taylor - https://www.gofundme.com/f/9v4q2-justice-for-breonna-taylor

Elijah McClain Memorial Fund - https://www.gofundme.com/f/elijah-mcclain

I Run with Maud - https://www.gofundme.com/f/i-run-with-maud

The Okra Project - https://www.theokraproject.com/

Lavender Rights Project - https://www.lavenderrightsproject.org/

Trans Women of Color Collective - https://www.twocc.us/

]]> Mon, 20 Jul 2020 15:00:13 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Meridian Mayer) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/meridian-mayer-brother-lover-husband-TrAo_Zj9 To connect with Meridian:

meridianmayer@gmail.com (personal and personal training business)

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Website: travisstock.com

To support Travis, this podcast, and organizations recommended by Meridian: patreon.com/thenewmasculine

Organizations recommended by Meridian:

Justice for Breonna Taylor - https://www.gofundme.com/f/9v4q2-justice-for-breonna-taylor

Elijah McClain Memorial Fund - https://www.gofundme.com/f/elijah-mcclain

I Run with Maud - https://www.gofundme.com/f/i-run-with-maud

The Okra Project - https://www.theokraproject.com/

Lavender Rights Project - https://www.lavenderrightsproject.org/

Trans Women of Color Collective - https://www.twocc.us/

]]> Meridian Mayer- Brother, Lover, Husband Travis Stock, Meridian Mayer 00:56:29 On this episode, Travis explores the impact masculinity has on the intersections of each of our most important identities as men. Meridian Mayer identifies as a brother, as a lover, and as husband. For context, Meridian is a black man, adopted and socialized by a white family, who has also been on a transformational journey with his own gender identity. The complexity and diversity of his life experiences allow Meridian more freedom to intentionally choose the type of man he wants to be rather than operate on outdated models. Embedded in the stories he shares are opportunities for each of us to release the judgments that our culture teaches us and expand in the direction of more wholeness. He shares his process of finding balance at the center of each of his identities, made only more important to him at a time of acute conversations and systemic change around race and racism in the US. Finally, he helps Travis highlight that there are certain values moving forward in The New Masculine that are non-negotiable- two of them being: Black Lives Matter and Black Trans Lives Matter. On this episode, Travis explores the impact masculinity has on the intersections of each of our most important identities as men. Meridian Mayer identifies as a brother, as a lover, and as husband. For context, Meridian is a black man, adopted and socialized by a white family, who has also been on a transformational journey with his own gender identity. The complexity and diversity of his life experiences allow Meridian more freedom to intentionally choose the type of man he wants to be rather than operate on outdated models. Embedded in the stories he shares are opportunities for each of us to release the judgments that our culture teaches us and expand in the direction of more wholeness. He shares his process of finding balance at the center of each of his identities, made only more important to him at a time of acute conversations and systemic change around race and racism in the US. Finally, he helps Travis highlight that there are certain values moving forward in The New Masculine that are non-negotiable- two of them being: Black Lives Matter and Black Trans Lives Matter. personal development, self-care, identity affirmation, gender identity, racism, coach, diversity, affirmation, black, lover, masculinity, therapy, values, wholeness, vulnerability, gender, lgbt, black trans lives matter, help, brother, trans, life coach, race, black lives matter, feminine, emotions, lgbtq, representation, gay, spirituality, intersectionality, masculine, adoption, self-help false full 19 7ffe4579-291c-4127-b6da-6f73bd242ae1 Eli Zucker- Gay Man, Social Worker and Community Organizer, Friend To connect with Eli:

Men's Accountability program -seattleagainstslavery.org

Email: eli@seattleagainstslavery.org

 

To connect with Travis

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

]]> Mon, 6 Jul 2020 15:00:01 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Eli Zucker, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/eli-zucker-gay-man-social-worker-and-community-organizer-friend-zozEaoEL To connect with Eli:

Men's Accountability program -seattleagainstslavery.org

Email: eli@seattleagainstslavery.org

 

To connect with Travis

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

]]> Eli Zucker- Gay Man, Social Worker and Community Organizer, Friend Eli Zucker, Travis Stock 01:06:49 On this episode, Travis continues to explore the relationship between masculinity and violence with fellow social worker, Eli Zucker. Eli identities as a gay man, as a social worker and community organizer, and as a friend. He is the Director of Men's Accountability at Seattle Against Slavery and leads groups focused on ending sexual exploitation, repairing harm from gender-based violence, and empowering men to become allies in the fight against sex trafficking. He believes the mission of his work is to talk about more expansive masculinity with men who have actively avoided confronting harmful aspects of their masculinity throughout their life. Eli And Travis explore topics such as performative masculinity, accountability, and what is left behind in the attempt to align with normative masculine ideals. An important aspect of this conversation is the emphasis on not only ceasing behaviors that cause harm but also the importance of actively participating in repair work where harm has been done. Eli wraps up the episode by sharing a powerful call to action for men so make sure to listen to the end. On this episode, Travis continues to explore the relationship between masculinity and violence with fellow social worker, Eli Zucker. Eli identities as a gay man, as a social worker and community organizer, and as a friend. He is the Director of Men's Accountability at Seattle Against Slavery and leads groups focused on ending sexual exploitation, repairing harm from gender-based violence, and empowering men to become allies in the fight against sex trafficking. He believes the mission of his work is to talk about more expansive masculinity with men who have actively avoided confronting harmful aspects of their masculinity throughout their life. Eli And Travis explore topics such as performative masculinity, accountability, and what is left behind in the attempt to align with normative masculine ideals. An important aspect of this conversation is the emphasis on not only ceasing behaviors that cause harm but also the importance of actively participating in repair work where harm has been done. Eli wraps up the episode by sharing a powerful call to action for men so make sure to listen to the end. personal development, sexual exploitation, survivor, performative masculinity, masculinity, victim, gender-based violence, social work, femininity, sex trafficking, violence, lgbt, repair, expansive masculinity, life coach, ally, preventative, accountability, harm, community organizing, lgbtq, gay, punitive, self help false full 18 a16a4f83-4622-4235-add2-66453deddf53 Dr. Ronald F. Levant- Father and Grandfather, Husband, Psychology Professor To learn more about Ronald's books: thetoughstandard.com

For more on Ronald's research: drronaldlevant.com


To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

]]> Mon, 22 Jun 2020 15:00:07 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Ronald F. Levant) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/dr-ronald-f-levant-father-and-grandfather-husband-psychology-professor-IjqAeAtz To learn more about Ronald's books: thetoughstandard.com

For more on Ronald's research: drronaldlevant.com


To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

]]> Dr. Ronald F. Levant- Father and Grandfather, Husband, Psychology Professor Travis Stock, Ronald F. Levant 01:16:52 On this episode, Travis is thrilled to welcome Dr. Ronald F. Levant to the New Masculine. Ronald is Professor Emeritus of Psychology at The University of Akron; Past President of the American Psychological Association (APA) and APA Division 51; and two-term Editor of APA Division 51's quarterly journal, Psychology of Men & Masculinities. He is widely considered one of the key people responsible for creating the new field of the psychology of men and masculinities. He identifies as a father and grandfather, as a husband, and as a psychology professor. Along with his coauthor Shana Pryor, Ronald's new book The Tough Standard: The Hard Truths about Masculinity and Violence explores the question “How do we explain this complicated, fraught – and often misleading – connection between men and violence?” This conversation comes at a pivotal time in our world that demands change in the way that power is held- especially by men. Through Ronald's vast field and research based knowledge, The New Masculine expands beyond the stories of individual men into a collective imperative on how we meet this moment. On this episode, Travis is thrilled to welcome Dr. Ronald F. Levant to the New Masculine. Ronald is Professor Emeritus of Psychology at The University of Akron; Past President of the American Psychological Association (APA) and APA Division 51; and two-term Editor of APA Division 51's quarterly journal, Psychology of Men & Masculinities. He is widely considered one of the key people responsible for creating the new field of the psychology of men and masculinities. He identifies as a father and grandfather, as a husband, and as a psychology professor. Along with his coauthor Shana Pryor, Ronald's new book The Tough Standard: The Hard Truths about Masculinity and Violence explores the question “How do we explain this complicated, fraught – and often misleading – connection between men and violence?” This conversation comes at a pivotal time in our world that demands change in the way that power is held- especially by men. Through Ronald's vast field and research based knowledge, The New Masculine expands beyond the stories of individual men into a collective imperative on how we meet this moment. psychology, coach, diversity, masculinity, therapy, apa, depression, queer, gender neutral parenting, male, alexithymia, empathy, american psychological association, parenting, the tough standard, gender, men, violence, father, life coach, power, race, sexuality, lgbtq, gay, author, research false full 17 fd8a886b-65e3-43c4-a67a-a139972938f4 Gizmo Pickleball (pt. 2)- Race and Racism To connect with Gizmo:

Facebook: Jay Hall and GIZMO Pickleball

Instagram: @gizmo_pickleball

Website: gizmopickleball.com

Email: gizmopickleball@gmail.com

Song referenced: My Vote Don't Count- YelloPain

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

]]> Mon, 8 Jun 2020 15:00:08 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Gizmo Pickleball) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/gizmo-pickleball-pt-2-Z95_Mtgw To connect with Gizmo:

Facebook: Jay Hall and GIZMO Pickleball

Instagram: @gizmo_pickleball

Website: gizmopickleball.com

Email: gizmopickleball@gmail.com

Song referenced: My Vote Don't Count- YelloPain

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

]]> Gizmo Pickleball (pt. 2)- Race and Racism Travis Stock, Gizmo Pickleball 01:14:16 On this episode, Travis brings back guest Gizmo Pickleball to discuss issues of race and racism in America. While acts of racism are more acutely in our awareness due to the murder of George Floyd, Ahmaud Arbery, and Breonna Taylor, so many more (some more subtle and others just as overt) happen without our awareness every day. Through sharing his own experiences of racism and a system that is stacked against black and brown people, Gizmo helps us see more of the realities people like him face. Together the men explore the concept of integrity and Gizmo points to actions that must be aligned for true integrity to exist. Travis recognized that he missed opportunities to explore this important element of Gizmo's life in their previous episode and sees this continued conversation as an opportunity to learn, step back into the integrity, and become a better ally. On this episode, Travis brings back guest Gizmo Pickleball to discuss issues of race and racism in America. While acts of racism are more acutely in our awareness due to the murder of George Floyd, Ahmaud Arbery, and Breonna Taylor, so many more (some more subtle and others just as overt) happen without our awareness every day. Through sharing his own experiences of racism and a system that is stacked against black and brown people, Gizmo helps us see more of the realities people like him face. Together the men explore the concept of integrity and Gizmo points to actions that must be aligned for true integrity to exist. Travis recognized that he missed opportunities to explore this important element of Gizmo's life in their previous episode and sees this continued conversation as an opportunity to learn, step back into the integrity, and become a better ally. racism, fatherhood, black, masculinity, white privilege, anti-racism, integrity, african american, race, black lives matter, bipoc, voting, masculine, protest, privilege false full 16 36929bb4-4bfc-462c-98dd-4eda599c15f0 Nathaniel Amos- Son, Lover, Friend To connect with Nathaniel:

Email: nathaniel.amos@gmail.com

Instagram: @mrnhawthorne1085

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

InstagramL: @travers03

]]> Mon, 25 May 2020 15:00:13 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Nathaniel Amos) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/nathaniel-amos-son-lover-friend-HFFu5jz8 To connect with Nathaniel:

Email: nathaniel.amos@gmail.com

Instagram: @mrnhawthorne1085

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

InstagramL: @travers03

]]> Nathaniel Amos- Son, Lover, Friend Travis Stock, Nathaniel Amos 01:17:45 On this episode, Travis talks with fellow social worker and mental health provider, Nathaniel Amos. Nathaniel identifies as a son, as a lover, and as a friend. He firmly believes that we as men can no longer rely on the women in our lives to do our emotional labor for us. In his work as a psychotherapist, he helps men develop the emotional literacy that is rarely taught to men in our culture. Nathaniel further helps Travis explore what is often a confusing intersection for gay men between their own masculinity and the common wounds gay men experience at the hands of outdated masculinity. Together, they share the importance of doing internal work to integrate these wounding experiences so that queer male communities do not replicate the challenges of traditional masculinity that this conversation seeks to disrupt. On this episode, Travis talks with fellow social worker and mental health provider, Nathaniel Amos. Nathaniel identifies as a son, as a lover, and as a friend. He firmly believes that we as men can no longer rely on the women in our lives to do our emotional labor for us. In his work as a psychotherapist, he helps men develop the emotional literacy that is rarely taught to men in our culture. Nathaniel further helps Travis explore what is often a confusing intersection for gay men between their own masculinity and the common wounds gay men experience at the hands of outdated masculinity. Together, they share the importance of doing internal work to integrate these wounding experiences so that queer male communities do not replicate the challenges of traditional masculinity that this conversation seeks to disrupt. personal development, divine masculine, masculinity, therapy, social work, queer, emotion, vulnerability, lgbt, psychotherapy, life coach, feminine, toxic masculinity, therapist, emotional labor, gay, masculine, self help, privilege false full 15 ad492250-da6a-4344-80ea-b2a57354daf9 Travis Stock- Gay Man, Mentor, Spiritual Being Make sure to check out Episode 13 to hear part 1 of The Travii talking on the podcast. 

To connect with Travis Mears:

LinkedIn: \tmears

Email: travis@imperative.com

 

To connect with Travis Stock:

Instagram: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Website: travisstock.com

]]> Mon, 11 May 2020 15:00:16 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Mears, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/travis-stock-gay-man-mentor-spiritual-being-G3OzaBWF Make sure to check out Episode 13 to hear part 1 of The Travii talking on the podcast. 

To connect with Travis Mears:

LinkedIn: \tmears

Email: travis@imperative.com

 

To connect with Travis Stock:

Instagram: @travers03

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Website: travisstock.com

]]> Travis Stock- Gay Man, Mentor, Spiritual Being Travis Mears, Travis Stock 01:20:05 On this episode, Travis Mears takes over The New Masculine and turns the tables on host Travis Stock. That's right...its my turn in the hot seat! During this conversation, I share stories from my journey that now fuel my passion for this topic and that led to the creation of this podcast. Some important themes the Travii discuss are otherized identity creation, internal vs. external validation, and the barriers to entry for men in spirituality and personal development. And while the response to this podcast has been overwhelmingly positive, keep listening as I respond to the naysayers out there in the world of social media. And finally, we look forward and explore what's next for The New Masculine! On this episode, Travis Mears takes over The New Masculine and turns the tables on host Travis Stock. That's right...its my turn in the hot seat! During this conversation, I share stories from my journey that now fuel my passion for this topic and that led to the creation of this podcast. Some important themes the Travii discuss are otherized identity creation, internal vs. external validation, and the barriers to entry for men in spirituality and personal development. And while the response to this podcast has been overwhelmingly positive, keep listening as I respond to the naysayers out there in the world of social media. And finally, we look forward and explore what's next for The New Masculine! personal development, identity, values, the new masculine, queer, internal validation, men, creation, feedback, disrupt, feminine, lgbtq, gay, man, mentor, spirituality, transformation, masculine, self help, shame false full 14 e1600c22-93fd-4c37-ae16-17a63d2a8485 Travis Mears-Spiritual Being, Gay Man, Athlete, Partner To connect with Travis Mears:

Crossfit in Seattle, WA: emeraldcitycrossfit.com

LinkedIn: \tmears

email: travis@imperative.com

 

To connect with Travis Stock:
Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

 

]]> Mon, 27 Apr 2020 15:00:03 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Mears, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/travis-mears-spiritual-being-gay-man-athlete-partner-5JBIi9rS To connect with Travis Mears:

Crossfit in Seattle, WA: emeraldcitycrossfit.com

LinkedIn: \tmears

email: travis@imperative.com

 

To connect with Travis Stock:
Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

 

]]> Travis Mears-Spiritual Being, Gay Man, Athlete, Partner Travis Mears, Travis Stock 01:17:56 On this episode, Travis invites a deeper personal element to the podcast by welcoming his partner Travis Mears. Yes...the double Travis (aka the Travii) is correct! Travis Mears identifies as a spiritual being, as a gay man, as an athlete, and as a partner. Due to his background in higher education, Travis uses the lens of student development theory to help us understand what is actually needed for masculinity to evolve beyond certain outdated models. He beautifully shares his journey through unconscious patterns he once held (involving superiority, shame, and perfectionism) to the more conscious, supportive, and balanced man he is today. A big theme throughout their conversation is the rigid concept of right and wrong that often shuts down a person's growth and development. Together, the Travii share the perspective that challenging men to be better is an important step. And, the next step is to increase the level of support and celebration that follow this challenge to greatly increase the chances of success. On this episode, Travis invites a deeper personal element to the podcast by welcoming his partner Travis Mears. Yes...the double Travis (aka the Travii) is correct! Travis Mears identifies as a spiritual being, as a gay man, as an athlete, and as a partner. Due to his background in higher education, Travis uses the lens of student development theory to help us understand what is actually needed for masculinity to evolve beyond certain outdated models. He beautifully shares his journey through unconscious patterns he once held (involving superiority, shame, and perfectionism) to the more conscious, supportive, and balanced man he is today. A big theme throughout their conversation is the rigid concept of right and wrong that often shuts down a person's growth and development. Together, the Travii share the perspective that challenging men to be better is an important step. And, the next step is to increase the level of support and celebration that follow this challenge to greatly increase the chances of success. personal development, defining self, coach, queer, weight issues, higher education, vulnerability, challenge, student development theory, unconscious patterns, perfectionism, right and wrong, feminine, lgbtq, support, athlete, defense mechanisms, gay, spirituality, hunting, masculine, self help, leadership, crossfit, shame false full 13 80dded56-7a3a-4d05-b71e-e91ea4d7bce0 Gizmo Pickleball- Father, Introvert, Mentor To connect with Gizmo: 

Facebook: Jay Hall and GIZMO Pickleball

Instagram: @gizmo_pickleball

Website: gizmopickleball.com

Email: gizmopickleball@gmail.com

 

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

]]> Mon, 13 Apr 2020 15:00:11 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Gizmo Pickleball, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/gizmo-pickleball-father-introvert-mentor-uik72FW_ To connect with Gizmo: 

Facebook: Jay Hall and GIZMO Pickleball

Instagram: @gizmo_pickleball

Website: gizmopickleball.com

Email: gizmopickleball@gmail.com

 

To connect with Travis:

Instagram: @travers03

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

]]> Gizmo Pickleball- Father, Introvert, Mentor Gizmo Pickleball, Travis Stock 01:02:00 On this episode, Travis talks with professional pickleball player, Gizmo Pickleball. Gizmo describes himself as a father, as an introvert, and as a mentor. The power of his story exists in his demonstration of New Masculine traits even though he never really had a prominent masculine influence in his own life. Gizmo helps Travis discuss the impacts of socioeconomic status on norms, mental health struggles that many men face, and shares what he has done to break free from the socialized pattern of abandoning self to fit in. His past includes challenging life lessons and yet he finds purpose in what he calls "pouring into others". Listen to him share his story of transformation as he turns his focus toward mentorship and service to others, especially children and youth. On this episode, Travis talks with professional pickleball player, Gizmo Pickleball. Gizmo describes himself as a father, as an introvert, and as a mentor. The power of his story exists in his demonstration of New Masculine traits even though he never really had a prominent masculine influence in his own life. Gizmo helps Travis discuss the impacts of socioeconomic status on norms, mental health struggles that many men face, and shares what he has done to break free from the socialized pattern of abandoning self to fit in. His past includes challenging life lessons and yet he finds purpose in what he calls "pouring into others". Listen to him share his story of transformation as he turns his focus toward mentorship and service to others, especially children and youth. personal development, life challenges, depression, introvert, pickleball, father, life coach, ptsd, mentorship, feminine, fitting in, personal transformation, anxiety, inspiration, transformation, masculine, mental health, single-parent, self-help false full 12 61aebf67-ef85-42d9-87a0-306941c1a680 Ryan Allen- Spiritual Being, Human, Gay Man To connect with Ryan:

Website: ryanallen.co

Liften Men Program: https://www.ryanallen.co/digital-program

Instagram: @ryan.m.allen

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Instagram: @travers03

]]> Mon, 30 Mar 2020 15:00:07 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Ryan Allen, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/ryan-allen-spiritual-being-human-gay-man-n7r_Au7g To connect with Ryan:

Website: ryanallen.co

Liften Men Program: https://www.ryanallen.co/digital-program

Instagram: @ryan.m.allen

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Instagram: @travers03

]]> Ryan Allen- Spiritual Being, Human, Gay Man Ryan Allen, Travis Stock 01:28:06 On this episode, Travis talks with a fellow coach who supports gay men in finding their gifts which are often hidden under the pain and shame embedded in our lives. Ryan Allen identifies as a spiritual being, as a human, and as a gay man. Because we are all navigating a wildly different world right now due to COVID-19, Travis and Ryan discuss the individual, social, and cultural impacts that are felt as we navigate the many waves of unknown. There is so much to learn about masculinity as we see our world changing rapidly. They further deepen the conversation of new masculinity by helping to divorce power and scarcity models from our ideals of masculinity. Through his own personal story, Ryan shares the importance of awareness and deconstruction of the strict and intense, inner dialogue that that is often created by internalized shame. Last, he helps to convey that it is safe to be an open-hearted man in this world and helps to empower us all to step into that. On this episode, Travis talks with a fellow coach who supports gay men in finding their gifts which are often hidden under the pain and shame embedded in our lives. Ryan Allen identifies as a spiritual being, as a human, and as a gay man. Because we are all navigating a wildly different world right now due to COVID-19, Travis and Ryan discuss the individual, social, and cultural impacts that are felt as we navigate the many waves of unknown. There is so much to learn about masculinity as we see our world changing rapidly. They further deepen the conversation of new masculinity by helping to divorce power and scarcity models from our ideals of masculinity. Through his own personal story, Ryan shares the importance of awareness and deconstruction of the strict and intense, inner dialogue that that is often created by internalized shame. Last, he helps to convey that it is safe to be an open-hearted man in this world and helps to empower us all to step into that. trust, self-forgiveness, coronavirus, covid-19, healing, vulnerability, reciprocity, interdependence, power, open-hearted, scarcity, lgbtq, gay, spirituality, self help, shame false full 11 02dcd123-4bcb-4572-97b2-d52d7cc8848a Joe Longo- Spiritual Being, Human, Creative To listen to Travis on the Inspired Creativity Podcast: https://www.inspirecreatemanifest.com/inspired-creativity-podcast/65-travis-stock

To connect with Joe: 

Website: inspirecreatemanifest.com

Instagram: @inspirecreatemanifest

Find his podcast on all podcast platforms: Inspired Creativity

]]> Mon, 16 Mar 2020 15:00:09 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Joe Longo, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/joe-longo-spiritual-being-human-creative-r5PSOKsF To listen to Travis on the Inspired Creativity Podcast: https://www.inspirecreatemanifest.com/inspired-creativity-podcast/65-travis-stock

To connect with Joe: 

Website: inspirecreatemanifest.com

Instagram: @inspirecreatemanifest

Find his podcast on all podcast platforms: Inspired Creativity

]]> Joe Longo- Spiritual Being, Human, Creative Joe Longo, Travis Stock 01:00:33 On this episode, Travis talks with Kundalini Yoga instructor, photographer, and life coach Joe Longo. Joe identifies as a spiritual being, a human, and as a creative and is passionate about working with other men on their transformational journeys. He shares how the practice of Kundalini yoga serves as a constant connection in his life to the divine feminine. That connection, in turn, transformed his relationship to his masculine energy and has created a kind, loving, and caring man out of him. He further helps to settle the fears of other men about connecting to the feminine by simply redefining it as the internal source of creativity. And finally, Joe and Travis explore the barriers to entry that exist for men who might benefit from receiving support in the areas of self-help/coaching/therapy/etc. Joe hosts the Inspired Creativity Podcast and Travis was a featured guest in January 2020...so check out their episode on his podcast! On this episode, Travis talks with Kundalini Yoga instructor, photographer, and life coach Joe Longo. Joe identifies as a spiritual being, a human, and as a creative and is passionate about working with other men on their transformational journeys. He shares how the practice of Kundalini yoga serves as a constant connection in his life to the divine feminine. That connection, in turn, transformed his relationship to his masculine energy and has created a kind, loving, and caring man out of him. He further helps to settle the fears of other men about connecting to the feminine by simply redefining it as the internal source of creativity. And finally, Joe and Travis explore the barriers to entry that exist for men who might benefit from receiving support in the areas of self-help/coaching/therapy/etc. Joe hosts the Inspired Creativity Podcast and Travis was a featured guest in January 2020...so check out their episode on his podcast! personal development, divine masculine, coach, life coach, balance, feminine, divine feminine, transformation, masculine false full 10 7ecb02aa-d119-4534-b9cf-15c94c90ab74 Ian Jin Yap- Spiritual Being, Artist, Student To connect with Ian Jin Yap-

Instagram- @ianjinyap

Facebook- Search "Pause & Play"

 

To connect with Travis-

Instagram: @travers03

Facebook- Travis Stock

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Website: travisstock.com

 

]]> Mon, 2 Mar 2020 16:00:01 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Ian Jin Yap, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/ian-jin-yap-spiritual-being-artist-student-i820sXMy To connect with Ian Jin Yap-

Instagram- @ianjinyap

Facebook- Search "Pause & Play"

 

To connect with Travis-

Instagram: @travers03

Facebook- Travis Stock

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Website: travisstock.com

 

]]> Ian Jin Yap- Spiritual Being, Artist, Student Ian Jin Yap, Travis Stock 00:58:38 On this episode, Travis asks Ian Jin Yap to help explore the ways that culture impacts masculinity. Jin identifies as a spiritual being, an artist, and as a student. Growing up in Malaysia has had a major influence on the way he relates to masculinity. Jin shares the challenges of growing up as an artistic boy, the worthlessness he felt being unable to live up to the traditional masculine ideals of his culture, and the spiritual recovery process that supported his healing. He further helps to point out the problems associated with behavior modification in an attempt to fit the narrow lanes of masculinity. Jin's story is powerful, challenging, and inspirational; and, he uses that story to help others return to peace, happiness, and into alignment with their own soul. On this episode, Travis asks Ian Jin Yap to help explore the ways that culture impacts masculinity. Jin identifies as a spiritual being, an artist, and as a student. Growing up in Malaysia has had a major influence on the way he relates to masculinity. Jin shares the challenges of growing up as an artistic boy, the worthlessness he felt being unable to live up to the traditional masculine ideals of his culture, and the spiritual recovery process that supported his healing. He further helps to point out the problems associated with behavior modification in an attempt to fit the narrow lanes of masculinity. Jin's story is powerful, challenging, and inspirational; and, he uses that story to help others return to peace, happiness, and into alignment with their own soul. personal development, masculinity, ego, course in miracles, artist, culture, spiritual recovery, forgiveness, heal, malaysia, feminine, lgbtq, transformation, masculine, self help, shame false full 9 44e6d378-4cfa-43e2-b0ba-bf32218e2561 Frank Schwartz- Father, Human, Husband To find a peer-led workout for men near you: f3nation.com

To connect directly with Frank: Frank@g3l.com

 

To connect with Travis:

www.travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@aol.com

Instagram: @travers03

]]> Mon, 17 Feb 2020 16:00:06 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Frank Schwartz) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/frank-schwartz-father-human-husband-Ymm9qcp6 To find a peer-led workout for men near you: f3nation.com

To connect directly with Frank: Frank@g3l.com

 

To connect with Travis:

www.travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@aol.com

Instagram: @travers03

]]> Frank Schwartz- Father, Human, Husband Travis Stock, Frank Schwartz 01:12:53 On this episode, Travis talks to another man doing his part to encourage the transformation of masculinity through vulnerability. Frank Schwartz identifies as a father, a human, and as a husband. His own story is one of transformation...in his case through faith. He shares how his values around manhood have transformed from anger, aggression, and dominance to submission and surrender. His story of moving from a deep-seated fear of self to a man who supports others in their transformation is an important one to hear. Frank helps Travis dissect the limitations of coping/protective strategies, new models of leadership, and the difference between tolerance and acceptance. He also shares the beliefs and stories he has collected from being a part of an peer-led workout organization (F3) that helps men transform their lives through vulnerability in community. On this episode, Travis talks to another man doing his part to encourage the transformation of masculinity through vulnerability. Frank Schwartz identifies as a father, a human, and as a husband. His own story is one of transformation...in his case through faith. He shares how his values around manhood have transformed from anger, aggression, and dominance to submission and surrender. His story of moving from a deep-seated fear of self to a man who supports others in their transformation is an important one to hear. Frank helps Travis dissect the limitations of coping/protective strategies, new models of leadership, and the difference between tolerance and acceptance. He also shares the beliefs and stories he has collected from being a part of an peer-led workout organization (F3) that helps men transform their lives through vulnerability in community. personal development, parent, christian, anger, faith, vulnerability, lgbt, life coach, workout, surrender, feminine, exercise, community, acceptance, spirituality, transformation, masculine, leadership, tolerance false full 8 cb409d04-0e77-4741-bfd7-0dcc5f8e9424 Cameron Miller- Two Spirit, Non-Binary Person, Guide To connect with Cameron:

Instagram: @camerons.travels

Facebook: Cameron Miller

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Instagram:@travers03

]]> Mon, 3 Feb 2020 16:00:03 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Cameron Miller) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/cameron-miller-oyZYri_U To connect with Cameron:

Instagram: @camerons.travels

Facebook: Cameron Miller

 

To connect with Travis:

Website: travisstock.com

Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

Instagram:@travers03

]]> Cameron Miller- Two Spirit, Non-Binary Person, Guide Travis Stock, Cameron Miller 00:59:48 On this episode, Travis welcomes in another layer of The New Masculine conversations with Cameron Miller. Cameron identifies as Two Spirit, a term that originates from North American indigenous cultures to describe someone who is gender variant, or accessing both masculine and feminine traits. Voices like Cameron's are so vital when discussing what is and is not working about masculinity because of the complexity of their relationship to this topic. Cameron is the embodiment of a soul finding balance between the masculine and feminine energies within them...which is a fundamental quality of The New Masculine. Cameron shares their stories of overcompensation around gender performance, the challenges to finding true-self that were created by sexual abuse trauma, and living in a culture that often rejects and diminishes the feminine. But they don't stop there. They also share how finding safe community and radical self-acceptance has been their path to integration, healing, and transformation. And from that place, they offer to hold space for others in search of healing. On this episode, Travis welcomes in another layer of The New Masculine conversations with Cameron Miller. Cameron identifies as Two Spirit, a term that originates from North American indigenous cultures to describe someone who is gender variant, or accessing both masculine and feminine traits. Voices like Cameron's are so vital when discussing what is and is not working about masculinity because of the complexity of their relationship to this topic. Cameron is the embodiment of a soul finding balance between the masculine and feminine energies within them...which is a fundamental quality of The New Masculine. Cameron shares their stories of overcompensation around gender performance, the challenges to finding true-self that were created by sexual abuse trauma, and living in a culture that often rejects and diminishes the feminine. But they don't stop there. They also share how finding safe community and radical self-acceptance has been their path to integration, healing, and transformation. And from that place, they offer to hold space for others in search of healing. personal development, trauma, gender nonconforming, coach, female, diversity, indigenous wisdom, healing, queer, male, equality, gender variant, vulnerability, two spirit, gender, warrior, military, life coach, balance, feminine, non-binary, self-acceptance, community, lgbtq, integration, gay, transformation, masculine, family patterns, self-help false full 7 5c0e46b1-ed61-49ec-8436-022a458799eb Gil Bar-Sela- Queer Man, Compassionate Listening Facilitator To connect with Gil: 

Website: gilbarsela.com

Instagram: @gilbarsela.coaching

 

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]]> Mon, 20 Jan 2020 16:00:07 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Gil Bar-Sela, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/gil-bar-sela-queer-man-compassionate-listening-facilitator-njCIdsSm To connect with Gil: 

Website: gilbarsela.com

Instagram: @gilbarsela.coaching

 

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]]> Gil Bar-Sela- Queer Man, Compassionate Listening Facilitator Gil Bar-Sela, Travis Stock 01:08:10 On this episode, Travis invites fellow coach and friend Gil Bar-Sela to share his perspectives on masculinity. Travis and Gil have been having conversations like the ones held on The New Masculine podcast since the beginning of their friendship and are so excited to invite others into that space. Gil identifies as a queer man and connects to his version of healing work as a Compassionate Listening Facilitator. He shares his personal experiences of growing up in a militarized culture (Israel), being a combatant in war, and his now alignment with healing and transformational work. He offers important insight into how our identities are shaped by trauma, the realities of generational trauma, and the core wounds of self-hatred and disconnection that he sees in many of the people with whom he works. While Gil is honest about the current crises of masculinity, his invitation to deep listening (both internal and external) is a must hear as we transform and explore new ways forward. On this episode, Travis invites fellow coach and friend Gil Bar-Sela to share his perspectives on masculinity. Travis and Gil have been having conversations like the ones held on The New Masculine podcast since the beginning of their friendship and are so excited to invite others into that space. Gil identifies as a queer man and connects to his version of healing work as a Compassionate Listening Facilitator. He shares his personal experiences of growing up in a militarized culture (Israel), being a combatant in war, and his now alignment with healing and transformational work. He offers important insight into how our identities are shaped by trauma, the realities of generational trauma, and the core wounds of self-hatred and disconnection that he sees in many of the people with whom he works. While Gil is honest about the current crises of masculinity, his invitation to deep listening (both internal and external) is a must hear as we transform and explore new ways forward. trauma, masculinity, self-love, new masculine, healing, queer, disconnection, me too, generational trauma, gender, lgbt, crisis, military, somatic, life coach, feminine, coaching, deep listening, lgbtq, corporate leadership, gay, war, transformation, shame, compassionate listening, self-hatred false full 6 f032bdc3-6d19-4307-aac1-84aaac165400 Marc Evans- Father, Entrepreneur, Husband To connect with Marc Evans- find him on Facebook.

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]]> Mon, 6 Jan 2020 16:00:23 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Marc Evans, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/marc-evans-father-entrepreneur-husband-WtvWGtKl To connect with Marc Evans- find him on Facebook.

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]]> Marc Evans- Father, Entrepreneur, Husband Marc Evans, Travis Stock 01:14:59 On this episode, Travis reconnects with a man he met several years ago at a men's self-development workshop. Marc Evans describes himself as a father, an entrepreneur, and a husband. Marc shares the challenges he bumps against in the business world as a man who leads in a cooperative way rather than in the cutthroat style that can often be idealized. He also adds a new texture to the conversation as he shares his experiences of traversing masculinity, not only in himself, but also in raising his son. Marc offers an important perspective as he navigates the delicacies of raising a teenage boy in a culture where many dominant conversations are about power (i.e. privilege, race, consent, LGBTQ, etc.). For all the parents of boys, this conversation is a must listen! On this episode, Travis reconnects with a man he met several years ago at a men's self-development workshop. Marc Evans describes himself as a father, an entrepreneur, and a husband. Marc shares the challenges he bumps against in the business world as a man who leads in a cooperative way rather than in the cutthroat style that can often be idealized. He also adds a new texture to the conversation as he shares his experiences of traversing masculinity, not only in himself, but also in raising his son. Marc offers an important perspective as he navigates the delicacies of raising a teenage boy in a culture where many dominant conversations are about power (i.e. privilege, race, consent, LGBTQ, etc.). For all the parents of boys, this conversation is a must listen! masculinity, business, self-discovery, parenting, men, consent, father, self-development, life coach, power, feminine, husband, entrepreneur, spirituality, teenage, masculine, leadership, privilege false full 5 ae805c7c-4b13-4013-aa5f-f786c0aadad2 Craig Temple - Writer, Cishetcetera Man, Son of Menarche To connect with Craig Temple find him on Facebook, on his Facebook group Sons of Menarche, or on Twitter.

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]]> Mon, 9 Dec 2019 16:00:05 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Craig Temple, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/craig-temple-writer-cishetcetera-man-son-of-menarche-s0k9LWOF To connect with Craig Temple find him on Facebook, on his Facebook group Sons of Menarche, or on Twitter.

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]]> Craig Temple - Writer, Cishetcetera Man, Son of Menarche Craig Temple, Travis Stock 01:11:25 On this episode, Travis explores new layers of The New Masculine in conversation with Craig Temple. Craig describes himself as a writer, a cishetcetera man (listen in for his description), and a son of menarche. In many ways, Craig represents all of the gender/race/sexuality markers of privilege; and yet, deeply seeks to see beyond what these unchosen identities have taught him. He shares his stories of growing up raised by a single mother, the impact the #MeToo movement had on him in regards to his relationship to masculinity, and points to the emotional power of emojis in written language. Craig also helps Travis explore the challenges of "woke" culture and the balance between calling out bad behavior vs. valuing the person in front of you. On this episode, Travis explores new layers of The New Masculine in conversation with Craig Temple. Craig describes himself as a writer, a cishetcetera man (listen in for his description), and a son of menarche. In many ways, Craig represents all of the gender/race/sexuality markers of privilege; and yet, deeply seeks to see beyond what these unchosen identities have taught him. He shares his stories of growing up raised by a single mother, the impact the #MeToo movement had on him in regards to his relationship to masculinity, and points to the emotional power of emojis in written language. Craig also helps Travis explore the challenges of "woke" culture and the balance between calling out bad behavior vs. valuing the person in front of you. personal development, behavior, single parent, cisgender, woke culture, props, queer, #metoo, gender, lgbt, heterosexual, writer, race, feminine, writing, kindness, sexuality, masculine, self help, shame, privilege false full 4 94b3f769-af63-4e6e-b899-593f948ba7ae Taylor Briggs - Queer, Trans Man, Brother To connect with Taylor find him on Facebook and his instagram @t_briggs24

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]]> Mon, 25 Nov 2019 16:00:30 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Travis Stock, Taylor Briggs) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/taylor-briggs-queer-trans-man-brother-l4k9uhKD To connect with Taylor find him on Facebook and his instagram @t_briggs24

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]]> Taylor Briggs - Queer, Trans Man, Brother Travis Stock, Taylor Briggs 01:05:52 On this episode, Travis explores the New Masculine through the lens of another member of the LGBTQ community, Taylor Briggs. Taylor describes himself as queer, as a trans man, and as a brother. He expresses the freedom he has always felt in masculinity and the deepening of that freedom through his queerness. He also shares ways of modeling New Masculine traits to others and how doing so has given him hope for future generations of men. On this episode, Travis explores the New Masculine through the lens of another member of the LGBTQ community, Taylor Briggs. Taylor describes himself as queer, as a trans man, and as a brother. He expresses the freedom he has always felt in masculinity and the deepening of that freedom through his queerness. He also shares ways of modeling New Masculine traits to others and how doing so has given him hope for future generations of men. personal development, trauma, gender identity, new masculine, queer, male, vulnerability, privelege, brother, trans, life coach, feminine, lgbtq, gender expression, gay, man, masculine, self help false full 3 d5e50760-5012-4bec-a58a-f310a7f1f1dc Alec Mckee - Leader, Artist, Lover To connect with Alec find him on Facebook and his instagram @alexander.mckee.photo

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]]> Mon, 11 Nov 2019 16:00:21 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Alec Mckee, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/alec-mckee-leader-artist-lover-DsHvY5QM To connect with Alec find him on Facebook and his instagram @alexander.mckee.photo

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Email: travisstock03@gmail.com

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]]> Alec Mckee - Leader, Artist, Lover Alec Mckee, Travis Stock 01:01:00 On this episode, Travis deepens the exploration of The New Masculine with friend and former coaching client, Alec Mckee. Alec describes himself as a leader, an artist, and a lover. He shares his experiences of navigating the masculine ideals of our culture in his early 20s, stresses the need to untangle dominance and aggression from masculinity, and points out the danger in using the phrase "man up" on each other. On this episode, Travis deepens the exploration of The New Masculine with friend and former coaching client, Alec Mckee. Alec describes himself as a leader, an artist, and a lover. He shares his experiences of navigating the masculine ideals of our culture in his early 20s, stresses the need to untangle dominance and aggression from masculinity, and points out the danger in using the phrase "man up" on each other. personal development, insecurities, life coaching, hookup culture, new masculine, music, vulnerability, man up, art, photography, feminine, coaching, college, masculine, self help, leadership, teacher false full 2 79927212-1db5-4e19-8fd0-8f9b14318d4a Michael Trotta -Father, Mentor/Teacher/Initiator, and Fly Fisherman To connect with Michael Trotta visit sagefirementoring.com.

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]]> Mon, 28 Oct 2019 14:44:19 +0000 travisstock03@gmail.com (Michael Trotta, Travis Stock) https://the-new-masculine.simplecast.com/episodes/michael-trotta-father-mentor-teacher-initiator-and-fly-fisherman-3JMnrU7Z To connect with Michael Trotta visit sagefirementoring.com.

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]]> Michael Trotta -Father, Mentor/Teacher/Initiator, and Fly Fisherman Michael Trotta, Travis Stock 00:54:05 On the premier episode, Travis begins the exploration of the New Masculine with self-identified father, mentor/teacher/initiator, and fly fisherman Michael Trotta of Sagefire Mentoring. Michael shares his earliest initiations into masculinity through the death of his father in childhood, conscious and unconscious models of masculinity, and his most impactful lessons from his role as teacher and mentor of boys. On the premier episode, Travis begins the exploration of the New Masculine with self-identified father, mentor/teacher/initiator, and fly fisherman Michael Trotta of Sagefire Mentoring. Michael shares his earliest initiations into masculinity through the death of his father in childhood, conscious and unconscious models of masculinity, and his most impactful lessons from his role as teacher and mentor of boys. original medicine, empathy, curiosity, initiation, nature, mentoring false full 1