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      <description><![CDATA[<p>What if the measure of a good day wasn’t what you accomplished—but how you showed up?</p><p>In this Monday Muse, I explore what happens when showing up as your best self becomes the goal. Not perfection. Not productivity. Inner alignment. Emotional freedom. Integrity in how you lead, love, and relate.</p><p>This episode is a reflection on how to become the best version of yourself without self-criticism or striving—by paying attention to how you show up in everyday moments, repairing quickly when you miss the mark, and choosing presence over performance.</p><p>If you’re capable, driven, and still feel unsettled at the end of the day, this conversation may offer a quieter, more honest way forward.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 The Goal of Showing Up as Your Best Self</p><p>01:44 Emotional Freedom and Self-Reflection</p><p>03:45 The Importance of Intentionality</p><p>05:50 Contagious Positivity and Its Impact</p><p>07:51 Daily Goals and Self-Assessment</p><p> </p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Big decisions have a way of feeling heavier than they need to. Not because we don’t know what to do, but because we’ve been taught to believe there’s a right choice and a wrong one—and that everything rides on us getting it right.</p><p>In this Monday Muse, I talk about the pressure we put on ourselves when we’re deciding something that matters. The overthinking. The fear. The way we start polling everyone we know or building airtight pros-and-cons lists, hoping they’ll quiet the nervous system.</p><p>I share one mental shift that has made decision-making feel lighter and more honest for me—and for the people I work with. Let me be clear, there’s no “formula.” It’s bigger than that.  </p><p>If you’re at a crossroads—career, relationship, move, or next chapter—and feel stuck in your head, this episode is an invitation to let go of the idea that you can mess it all up.</p><p>Listen when you’re ready to stop carrying the weight of the outcome alone.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Effortless Decision Making</p><p>01:23 Understanding Our Decision-Making Process</p><p>02:51 The Role of Trust in Decision Making</p><p>04:31 Lessons from Past Decisions</p><p>06:16 Embracing the Journey of Life Decisions</p><p> </p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): </p><p><a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
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I share one mental shift that has made decision-making feel lighter and more honest for me—and for the people I work with. Let me be clear, there’s no “formula.” It’s bigger than that.  

If you’re at a crossroads—career, relationship, move, or next chapter—and feel stuck in your head, this episode is an invitation to let go of the idea that you can mess it all up.

Listen when you’re ready to stop carrying the weight of the outcome alone.
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If you’re at a crossroads—career, relationship, move, or next chapter—and feel stuck in your head, this episode is an invitation to let go of the idea that you can mess it all up.

Listen when you’re ready to stop carrying the weight of the outcome alone.
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>From the outside, you’re doing everything right.<br />You’re capable, respected, and trusted to lead.</p><p>And yet, you monitor yourself, replay moments, and wonder how you landed where you did.  It’s subtle, constant, and draining.</p><p>In this episode, I talk about how to stop being self conscious without shutting yourself down or pretending you don’t care. We look at why self-consciousness shows up most often in people who have influence, how to tell the difference between healthy awareness and unnecessary self-scrutiny, and what helps you step back into presence when your inner spotlight gets too bright.</p><p>This isn’t about confidence hacks or positive thinking.<br />It’s about loosening the grip of an old internal pattern so you can lead, relate, and live with more ease.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt confident and exposed at the same time, this conversation will land.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Self-Consciousness</p><p>00:42 Understanding Types of Self-Consciousness</p><p>02:18 Steps to Combat Self-Consciousness</p><p>03:49 Embracing Discomfort and Moving Forward</p><p>05:09 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p> </p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): </p><p><a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 19 Jan 2026 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>From the outside, you’re doing everything right.<br />You’re capable, respected, and trusted to lead.</p><p>And yet, you monitor yourself, replay moments, and wonder how you landed where you did.  It’s subtle, constant, and draining.</p><p>In this episode, I talk about how to stop being self conscious without shutting yourself down or pretending you don’t care. We look at why self-consciousness shows up most often in people who have influence, how to tell the difference between healthy awareness and unnecessary self-scrutiny, and what helps you step back into presence when your inner spotlight gets too bright.</p><p>This isn’t about confidence hacks or positive thinking.<br />It’s about loosening the grip of an old internal pattern so you can lead, relate, and live with more ease.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt confident and exposed at the same time, this conversation will land.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Self-Consciousness</p><p>00:42 Understanding Types of Self-Consciousness</p><p>02:18 Steps to Combat Self-Consciousness</p><p>03:49 Embracing Discomfort and Moving Forward</p><p>05:09 Conclusion and Call to Action</p><p> </p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): </p><p><a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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This isn’t about confidence hacks or positive thinking.
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If you’ve ever felt confident and exposed at the same time, this conversation will land.
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This isn’t about confidence hacks or positive thinking.
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If you’ve ever felt confident and exposed at the same time, this conversation will land.
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Most of us live with a quiet assumption that something about us needs to be fixed. We scan for flaws, try to tone ourselves down, or work harder to feel worthy. </p><p>During a 14-day water fast, I had a moment of clarity that didn’t come from effort or insight, but from stillness.</p><p>This episode isn’t about fasting or self-improvement. It’s about the relief that comes when you stop fighting who you are and let your system settle into what’s true.</p><p>If you’ve achieved a lot and still feel restless, self-doubting, or subtly off, this conversation may put language to something you’ve been carrying for a long time.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 The Journey of Self-Acceptance</p><p>06:37 Embracing Individuality and Relationships</p><p> </p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): </p><p><a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 12 Jan 2026 06:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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This episode isn’t about fasting or self-improvement. It’s about the relief that comes when you stop fighting who you are and let your system settle into what’s true.

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This episode isn’t about fasting or self-improvement. It’s about the relief that comes when you stop fighting who you are and let your system settle into what’s true.

If you’ve achieved a lot and still feel restless, self-doubting, or subtly off, this conversation may put language to something you’ve been carrying for a long time.
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Why do smart, capable people find ourselves overthinking, getting defensive, or stuck in the same communication patterns at work and at home?</p><p>In this episode, I sit down with leadership coach and communication strategist Amy Wong to explore what’s really happening beneath conflict, power struggles, and the need to be right. Together, we unpack how unconscious focus and nervous system hijacking quietly derail connection, why accountability is actually the gateway to freedom (not self-blame), and how a simple shift in attention can restore clarity, alignment, and trust.</p><p>This conversation is for leaders, partners, and humans who are tired of knowing better—but still reacting anyway—and who are ready for a more grounded, sane way to lead and relate.</p><p>Amy Wong is an award-winning author and leadership expert who helps organizations harness the power of human connection to unlock breakthrough performance and create winning teams. Drawing from her unique background in mathematics and transpersonal psychology and two decades in Silicon Valley, she has developed methodologies that create thriving cultures at organizations like LinkedIn, Salesforce, and Meta. Amy currently teaches communication and leadership courses at Stanford University Continuing Education and is the award-winning author of "Living on Purpose.” Amy shows how trust, alignment, and exceptional communication create the conditions for individual fulfillment and organizational success.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Introduction and Connection</p><p>02:05 Amy's Journey: From Mathematician to Intuition Advocate</p><p>04:16 The Catalyst of Motherhood: Awakening to True Self</p><p>10:48 Spotlight Shift: Focusing on Service Over Self</p><p>18:14 Bridging Divides: Constructive Communication in Teams</p><p>27:29 The Neuroscience of Validation and Conflict</p><p>29:45 Practices for Reestablishing Harmony in Relationships</p><p>31:09 Shifting Focus: From Self to Collective Desires</p><p>34:35 The Power of Self-Awareness and Emotional Agency</p><p>37:37 Radical Accountability: Taking Charge of Your Feelings</p><p>40:50 Understanding Others: The Key to Compassion and Forgiveness</p><p>42:13 The Interconnectedness of Personal and Professional Growth</p><p>44:14 Finding Common Ground in a Divided World</p><p> </p><p>Guest Resources:</p><p>https://www.linkedin.com/in/amyelizawong/ </p><p>https://www.instagram.com/amyelizawong/ </p><p>https://amyelizawong.com/ </p><p> </p><p>Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /> </p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 8 Jan 2026 06:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>We’ve been taught that effort equals worth.<br />That staying busy means we’re doing life right.</p><p>During a 14-day water fast, something unexpected happened. I created from calm instead of pressure — and the result was better, faster, and far more joyful than anything I’ve ever forced.</p><p>In this episode, I share a simple but profound lesson about high achiever burnout, why overworking yourself doesn’t lead to fulfillment, and what becomes possible when you stop proving and start listening.</p><p>If you’re successful on paper but quietly exhausted, this conversation is for you.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 The Myth of Constant Productivity</p><p>02:38 Creating from a Place of Flow</p><p>04:58 The Joy of Writing Without Pressure</p><p>07:22 Finding Flow in Everyday Challenges</p><p> </p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): </p><p><a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 5 Jan 2026 06:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We’ve been taught that effort equals worth.<br />That staying busy means we’re doing life right.</p><p>During a 14-day water fast, something unexpected happened. I created from calm instead of pressure — and the result was better, faster, and far more joyful than anything I’ve ever forced.</p><p>In this episode, I share a simple but profound lesson about high achiever burnout, why overworking yourself doesn’t lead to fulfillment, and what becomes possible when you stop proving and start listening.</p><p>If you’re successful on paper but quietly exhausted, this conversation is for you.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 The Myth of Constant Productivity</p><p>02:38 Creating from a Place of Flow</p><p>04:58 The Joy of Writing Without Pressure</p><p>07:22 Finding Flow in Everyday Challenges</p><p> </p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): </p><p><a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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In this episode, I share a simple but profound lesson about high achiever burnout, why overworking yourself doesn’t lead to fulfillment, and what becomes possible when you stop proving and start listening.

If you’re successful on paper but quietly exhausted, this conversation is for you.
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 That staying busy means we’re doing life right.

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In this episode, I share a simple but profound lesson about high achiever burnout, why overworking yourself doesn’t lead to fulfillment, and what becomes possible when you stop proving and start listening.

If you’re successful on paper but quietly exhausted, this conversation is for you.
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      <title>Monday Muse #45 - Self Sabotage: Why It Happens Even When You Know Better</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Self sabotage isn’t about willpower or discipline.<br />It’s the quiet, almost automatic way we get in our own way — usually without realizing it.</p><p>In this Monday Muse, I share a moment from a 14-day water fast that made a familiar pattern suddenly impossible to ignore. Not because it was dramatic, but because it was subtle and completely ordinary.</p><p>This episode is an exploration of awareness — how unconscious habits run beneath insight, good intentions, and even a lot of self-knowledge. When things finally slow down, we can see what’s actually happening, and that changes everything.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt like you’re repeating patterns you <i>know better than</i>, this one’s for you.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 The Inner World and Outer Reality</p><p>00:46 Self-Sabotage Unveiled</p><p>01:41 The Journey of Fasting and Reflection</p><p>06:27 Awareness of Self-Sabotage</p><p>09:16 Taking Responsibility for Our Lives</p><p> </p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): </p><p><a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 29 Dec 2025 06:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Self sabotage isn’t about willpower or discipline.<br />It’s the quiet, almost automatic way we get in our own way — usually without realizing it.</p><p>In this Monday Muse, I share a moment from a 14-day water fast that made a familiar pattern suddenly impossible to ignore. Not because it was dramatic, but because it was subtle and completely ordinary.</p><p>This episode is an exploration of awareness — how unconscious habits run beneath insight, good intentions, and even a lot of self-knowledge. When things finally slow down, we can see what’s actually happening, and that changes everything.</p><p>If you’ve ever felt like you’re repeating patterns you <i>know better than</i>, this one’s for you.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 The Inner World and Outer Reality</p><p>00:46 Self-Sabotage Unveiled</p><p>01:41 The Journey of Fasting and Reflection</p><p>06:27 Awareness of Self-Sabotage</p><p>09:16 Taking Responsibility for Our Lives</p><p> </p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): </p><p><a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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This episode is an exploration of awareness — how unconscious habits run beneath insight, good intentions, and even a lot of self-knowledge. When things finally slow down, we can see what’s actually happening, and that changes everything.

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This episode is an exploration of awareness — how unconscious habits run beneath insight, good intentions, and even a lot of self-knowledge. When things finally slow down, we can see what’s actually happening, and that changes everything.

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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Most of us don’t realize how identified we are with the voice in our heads — until we start paying attention.</p><p>In this episode of <i>The Intuition Incubator</i>, I sit down with Rob Schmidt and Stuart Goodnick, longtime Fourth Way practitioners and co-founders of the Tai-Yu Meditation Center, to talk about what it actually means to wake up from automatic living. We explore self-observation, presence, and the subtle ways the mind keeps us reacting instead of choosing.</p><p>This conversation moves into how projection shapes our relationships, why real listening is rare, and how conversation itself can become a spiritual practice. Rob and Stuart share decades of lived experience from the Fourth Way tradition of Gurdjieff, offering insight into intuition, executive presence, and what becomes possible when we stop believing every thought we have.</p><p>Rob Schmidt and Stuart Goodnick are spiritual teachers with Tayu Meditation Center, co-hosts of The Mystical Positivist podcast, and co-founders of Many Rivers Books & Tea. Tayu Meditation Center, based in Sebastopol, CA, was founded in 1976 by Robert Daniel Ennis. Grounded in the Fourth Way tradition of G.I. Gurdjieff, Tayu practice emphasises conversation be it within ourselves, with others, and between spiritual traditions.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Tai-Yu Meditation and Co-Meditation</p><p>06:17 Understanding the Fourth Way Tradition</p><p>11:48 The Challenge of Self-Observation and Self-Remembering</p><p>16:44 The Role of Conscious Suffering in Personal Growth</p><p>22:00 Identifications and Their Impact on Relationships</p><p>33:37 The Purpose of Self-Observation</p><p>39:19 Identifications and Their Impact</p><p>41:11 The Practice of Co-Meditation</p><p>43:58 Presence in Communication</p><p>48:37 Intuition and Its Development</p><p>52:03 Finding Meaning in Life</p><p>58:09 You Are Not Your Thoughts</p><p> </p><p>Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>On day 19 of an extended water fast, I explore how letting go of proving and listening to intuition reveals what I truly wanted.</p><p>This Monday Muse reflects on what’s behind the goals we set and how extended fasting for clarity and spirituality created space to see the difference between ego and intuition. I share insights on personal transformation, nervous system regulation, mindfulness, self-inquiry, and awakening consciousness.</p><p>This episode is for anyone questioning their goals, success, or motivation, and wanting to live and lead with more presence, inner clarity, and meaning.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 The Journey of Self-Discovery</p><p>01:07 Defining True Goals and Desires</p><p>03:01 The Importance of Courage and Clarity</p><p>05:15 Releasing Judgments to Find Authenticity</p><p> </p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 22 Dec 2025 06:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>abby@abbyhavermann.com (Abby Havermann)</author>
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This episode is for anyone questioning their goals, success, or motivation, and wanting to live and lead with more presence, inner clarity, and meaning.
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      <title>Monday Muse #43 - Stop Telling Yourself Stories: What Fasting Revealed About My Story of “Hangry.”</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>What if fasting created more control over your stress, your mood, and the noise in your mind? In this Monday Muse, I share what a 14-day water fast taught me about irritation, overthinking, intuition, and the mental stories we follow without question.</p><p>By removing food, I saw how much of my reactivity came from my mind—not my hunger. A hangry moment in my own household showed me just how much power we give to habit, fear, and old beliefs. This episode explores what happens when you stop reacting automatically, trust yourself more deeply, and meet your day without believing every thought that appears.</p><p>If you’re navigating stress, impatience, or the constant hum of overthinking, this conversation offers a quieter, wiser way forward.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Understanding the Mind's Influence on Stress</p><p>02:31 The Experience of Fasting and Self-Reflection</p><p>04:47 Trusting the Process and Letting Go of Control</p><p> </p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 15 Dec 2025 06:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What if fasting created more control over your stress, your mood, and the noise in your mind? In this Monday Muse, I share what a 14-day water fast taught me about irritation, overthinking, intuition, and the mental stories we follow without question.</p><p>By removing food, I saw how much of my reactivity came from my mind—not my hunger. A hangry moment in my own household showed me just how much power we give to habit, fear, and old beliefs. This episode explores what happens when you stop reacting automatically, trust yourself more deeply, and meet your day without believing every thought that appears.</p><p>If you’re navigating stress, impatience, or the constant hum of overthinking, this conversation offers a quieter, wiser way forward.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Understanding the Mind's Influence on Stress</p><p>02:31 The Experience of Fasting and Self-Reflection</p><p>04:47 Trusting the Process and Letting Go of Control</p><p> </p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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By removing food, I saw how much of my reactivity came from my mind—not my hunger. A hangry moment in my own household showed me just how much power we give to habit, fear, and old beliefs. This episode explores what happens when you stop reacting automatically, trust yourself more deeply, and meet your day without believing every thought that appears.

If you’re navigating stress, impatience, or the constant hum of overthinking, this conversation offers a quieter, wiser way forward.
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If you’re navigating stress, impatience, or the constant hum of overthinking, this conversation offers a quieter, wiser way forward.
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      <title>#60 Dr. Jeremy Goldberg - Rewrite Your Story: Intuition, Shame &amp; Coming Back After Rock Bottom</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever felt like your life is following a script you didn’t write? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jeremy Goldberg—writer, coach, TEDx speaker, and founder of Long Distance Love Bombs—to talk about the moment your heart changes its mind and the courage it takes to follow it.</p><p>Jeremy shares how he walked away from a successful career as a behavior change scientist on the Great Barrier Reef to become a poet and help people rewrite the stories that keep them stuck. We dive into intuition, identity shifts, healing shame, and what it means to climb out of the holes our minds make.</p><p>If you’ve ever hit rock bottom, questioned who you are, or whispered “there has to be more,” this conversation is your reminder that you’re allowed to choose a different ending.</p><p>_____</p><p>Dr. Jeremy Goldberg is a compassion-cultivating, day-making change agent, an empathy-collecting, anti-quitting word wizard, and a ferocious never-giver upper. A connoisseur and collector of fine silver linings, his mission is to make kindness cool and compassion commonplace, and to make the world better than it was yesterday.</p><p>He worked internationally for governments and universities for a decade, wrote a PhD about how brains influence actions, gave a TEDx talk called <i>“What if kindness was cool?”</i>, hosted retreats on four continents, and wrote <i>It’ll Be Okay, And You Will Be Too.</i></p><p>An American-Australian word dork living in Canada, he is an ordained minister, author, podcast host, spoken word poet, and giver of keynotes.</p><p>He works as a life coach, but is more of a dream doula, helping people confront the stories they hide behind while reminding them of their inherent agency.</p><p>His podcast is in the top 1% globally, with more than 600,000 downloads and over 220 episodes.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Dr. Jeremy Goldberg</p><p>01:45 From Marine Biology to Life Coaching</p><p>05:18 The Heart Whisper: Following Intuition</p><p>09:55 Letting Go of Identity and Embracing Change</p><p>15:51 The Role of Intuition in Decision Making</p><p>20:29 Navigating the Tension Between Intuition and Fear</p><p>27:23 The Journey from Rock Bottom to Resilience</p><p>35:15 Transforming Pain into Growth</p><p>39:38 The Connection Between Shame and Healing</p><p>41:00 Transforming Shame into Healing</p><p>45:45 The Lies of Shame and Radical Honesty</p><p>50:25 The Power of Writing in Self-Discovery</p><p>55:49 Challenging Limiting Beliefs</p><p>01:00:09 Embracing Wholeness Over Happiness</p><p>01:10:15 The Journey of Self-Acceptance and Growth</p><p><br />Guest Resources:</p><p>Website – <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.longdistancelovebombs.com&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=779885da04aaed91b32354b41c8152f7d5d57afd7c7e1b919dd855007694da0f">https://www.longdistancelovebombs.com</a><br />Substack - <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Flongdistancelovebombs.substack.com%2F&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=258b57612fe13ba979282ef6bd3163ab47f890a316f2cf852a7ab3397d4c4221">https://longdistancelovebombs.substack.com/</a><br />YouTube - <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fc%2FDrJeremyGoldberg&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=c68fb07e8b836e0e0ac45fab6768ecf6f89aeebbe2adf334ac0bf07f4de33322">https://www.youtube.com/c/DrJeremyGoldberg</a><br />Facebook – <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FLongDistanceLoveBombs&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=0fe23f8680db3365cf6b87102331525fa040237a9e5fc1718c055c05681b30fb">https://www.facebook.com/LongDistanceLoveBombs</a><br />Book – <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fshopcatalog.com%2Fproduct%2Fitll-be-okay-and-you-will-be-too%2F&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=79bbd178ca229c415f9e76d993503978d381fcb9b3e52b5726d911f84373205f">https://shopcatalog.com/product/itll-be-okay-and-you-will-be-too/</a><br />Instagram – <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Flongdistancelovebombs&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=afc18fd0cd361a9e0087c9fc830a15e7f0b1e208ee3e9a31216bb8e4ca4b608c">https://www.instagram.com/longdistancelovebombs</a><br />TEDx talk – <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D5mklMPHGLjo&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=a2f165dddc12efeadb108aafc04c8d778a095fcabd3c72738469090c8e6e8e9b">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5mklMPHGLjo</a><br />Podcast - <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fanchor.fm%2Flongdistancelovebombs&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=aa72d72b1345c2e1a3a8a43f5f63e85788a859e15899fe02ce109153734ccd91">https://anchor.fm/longdistancelovebombs</a></p><p> </p><p>Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 11 Dec 2025 06:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever felt like your life is following a script you didn’t write? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jeremy Goldberg—writer, coach, TEDx speaker, and founder of Long Distance Love Bombs—to talk about the moment your heart changes its mind and the courage it takes to follow it.</p><p>Jeremy shares how he walked away from a successful career as a behavior change scientist on the Great Barrier Reef to become a poet and help people rewrite the stories that keep them stuck. We dive into intuition, identity shifts, healing shame, and what it means to climb out of the holes our minds make.</p><p>If you’ve ever hit rock bottom, questioned who you are, or whispered “there has to be more,” this conversation is your reminder that you’re allowed to choose a different ending.</p><p>_____</p><p>Dr. Jeremy Goldberg is a compassion-cultivating, day-making change agent, an empathy-collecting, anti-quitting word wizard, and a ferocious never-giver upper. A connoisseur and collector of fine silver linings, his mission is to make kindness cool and compassion commonplace, and to make the world better than it was yesterday.</p><p>He worked internationally for governments and universities for a decade, wrote a PhD about how brains influence actions, gave a TEDx talk called <i>“What if kindness was cool?”</i>, hosted retreats on four continents, and wrote <i>It’ll Be Okay, And You Will Be Too.</i></p><p>An American-Australian word dork living in Canada, he is an ordained minister, author, podcast host, spoken word poet, and giver of keynotes.</p><p>He works as a life coach, but is more of a dream doula, helping people confront the stories they hide behind while reminding them of their inherent agency.</p><p>His podcast is in the top 1% globally, with more than 600,000 downloads and over 220 episodes.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Dr. Jeremy Goldberg</p><p>01:45 From Marine Biology to Life Coaching</p><p>05:18 The Heart Whisper: Following Intuition</p><p>09:55 Letting Go of Identity and Embracing Change</p><p>15:51 The Role of Intuition in Decision Making</p><p>20:29 Navigating the Tension Between Intuition and Fear</p><p>27:23 The Journey from Rock Bottom to Resilience</p><p>35:15 Transforming Pain into Growth</p><p>39:38 The Connection Between Shame and Healing</p><p>41:00 Transforming Shame into Healing</p><p>45:45 The Lies of Shame and Radical Honesty</p><p>50:25 The Power of Writing in Self-Discovery</p><p>55:49 Challenging Limiting Beliefs</p><p>01:00:09 Embracing Wholeness Over Happiness</p><p>01:10:15 The Journey of Self-Acceptance and Growth</p><p><br />Guest Resources:</p><p>Website – <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.longdistancelovebombs.com&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=779885da04aaed91b32354b41c8152f7d5d57afd7c7e1b919dd855007694da0f">https://www.longdistancelovebombs.com</a><br />Substack - <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Flongdistancelovebombs.substack.com%2F&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=258b57612fe13ba979282ef6bd3163ab47f890a316f2cf852a7ab3397d4c4221">https://longdistancelovebombs.substack.com/</a><br />YouTube - <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fc%2FDrJeremyGoldberg&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=c68fb07e8b836e0e0ac45fab6768ecf6f89aeebbe2adf334ac0bf07f4de33322">https://www.youtube.com/c/DrJeremyGoldberg</a><br />Facebook – <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2FLongDistanceLoveBombs&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=0fe23f8680db3365cf6b87102331525fa040237a9e5fc1718c055c05681b30fb">https://www.facebook.com/LongDistanceLoveBombs</a><br />Book – <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fshopcatalog.com%2Fproduct%2Fitll-be-okay-and-you-will-be-too%2F&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=79bbd178ca229c415f9e76d993503978d381fcb9b3e52b5726d911f84373205f">https://shopcatalog.com/product/itll-be-okay-and-you-will-be-too/</a><br />Instagram – <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Flongdistancelovebombs&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=afc18fd0cd361a9e0087c9fc830a15e7f0b1e208ee3e9a31216bb8e4ca4b608c">https://www.instagram.com/longdistancelovebombs</a><br />TEDx talk – <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3D5mklMPHGLjo&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=a2f165dddc12efeadb108aafc04c8d778a095fcabd3c72738469090c8e6e8e9b">https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5mklMPHGLjo</a><br />Podcast - <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fanchor.fm%2Flongdistancelovebombs&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=aa72d72b1345c2e1a3a8a43f5f63e85788a859e15899fe02ce109153734ccd91">https://anchor.fm/longdistancelovebombs</a></p><p> </p><p>Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>#60 Dr. Jeremy Goldberg - Rewrite Your Story: Intuition, Shame &amp; Coming Back After Rock Bottom</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>Have you ever felt like your life is following a script you didn’t write? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jeremy Goldberg—writer, coach, TEDx speaker, and founder of Long Distance Love Bombs—to talk about the moment your heart changes its mind and the courage it takes to follow it.

Jeremy shares how he walked away from a successful career as a behavior change scientist on the Great Barrier Reef to become a poet and help people rewrite the stories that keep them stuck. We dive into intuition, identity shifts, healing shame, and what it means to climb out of the holes our minds make.

If you’ve ever hit rock bottom, questioned who you are, or whispered “there has to be more,” this conversation is your reminder that you’re allowed to choose a different ending.
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      <itunes:subtitle>Have you ever felt like your life is following a script you didn’t write? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Jeremy Goldberg—writer, coach, TEDx speaker, and founder of Long Distance Love Bombs—to talk about the moment your heart changes its mind and the courage it takes to follow it.

Jeremy shares how he walked away from a successful career as a behavior change scientist on the Great Barrier Reef to become a poet and help people rewrite the stories that keep them stuck. We dive into intuition, identity shifts, healing shame, and what it means to climb out of the holes our minds make.

If you’ve ever hit rock bottom, questioned who you are, or whispered “there has to be more,” this conversation is your reminder that you’re allowed to choose a different ending.
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      <title>Monday Muse #42 - What Happens When You Let Go of Who You Think You Are?</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>What happens when a high-achiever stops eating, working, and proving her worth for 14 days? During my water fast, I met the version of myself that exists underneath achievement, productivity, and gold stars — and she surprised me. </p><p>This episode explores:<br />• Why high achievers can look awake but secretly be asleep at the wheel<br />• How self-worth becomes a stock market we track all day long<br />• The moment the mind loses its grip and wonder returns<br />• What happens when we stop doing long enough to simply be</p><p>If you’ve ever wondered whether you are enough without a single accomplishment to show for it… welcome home. Let’s walk through this one together.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Exploring Self-Identity and Worth</p><p>07:28 The Journey of Letting Go</p><p>12:04 Proving Our Value in Modern Life</p><p> </p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 8 Dec 2025 06:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>abby@abbyhavermann.com (Abby Havermann)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What happens when a high-achiever stops eating, working, and proving her worth for 14 days? During my water fast, I met the version of myself that exists underneath achievement, productivity, and gold stars — and she surprised me. </p><p>This episode explores:<br />• Why high achievers can look awake but secretly be asleep at the wheel<br />• How self-worth becomes a stock market we track all day long<br />• The moment the mind loses its grip and wonder returns<br />• What happens when we stop doing long enough to simply be</p><p>If you’ve ever wondered whether you are enough without a single accomplishment to show for it… welcome home. Let’s walk through this one together.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Exploring Self-Identity and Worth</p><p>07:28 The Journey of Letting Go</p><p>12:04 Proving Our Value in Modern Life</p><p> </p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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This episode explores:
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 • How self-worth becomes a stock market we track all day long
 • The moment the mind loses its grip and wonder returns
 • What happens when we stop doing long enough to simply be

If you’ve ever wondered whether you are enough without a single accomplishment to show for it… welcome home. Let’s walk through this one together.
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 • How self-worth becomes a stock market we track all day long
 • The moment the mind loses its grip and wonder returns
 • What happens when we stop doing long enough to simply be

If you’ve ever wondered whether you are enough without a single accomplishment to show for it… welcome home. Let’s walk through this one together.
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>I went 14 days with no food, no work, no screens—just stillness. In this episode, I share why I chose an extended water fast, what it revealed about fear, healing, and my own unconscious patterns, and how stepping away from every coping mechanism opened a deeper clarity. If you're curious about fasting, emotional healing, or waking up from “sophisticated sleepwalking™,” this one is for you.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Fasting Journey</p><p>02:47 Health and Spiritual Benefits of Fasting</p><p>05:31 Facing Fears and Embracing Change</p><p>09:41 Sophisticated Sleepwalking and Self-Discovery</p><p> </p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 1 Dec 2025 06:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I went 14 days with no food, no work, no screens—just stillness. In this episode, I share why I chose an extended water fast, what it revealed about fear, healing, and my own unconscious patterns, and how stepping away from every coping mechanism opened a deeper clarity. If you're curious about fasting, emotional healing, or waking up from “sophisticated sleepwalking™,” this one is for you.</p><p> </p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Fasting Journey</p><p>02:47 Health and Spiritual Benefits of Fasting</p><p>05:31 Facing Fears and Embracing Change</p><p>09:41 Sophisticated Sleepwalking and Self-Discovery</p><p> </p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>#59 Ian Bowen - Paralyzed from the Chest Down to Marathon Runner: The Power of a “Watch Me” Mindset</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>At 32, Ian Bowen woke up from spinal cord surgery paralyzed from the chest down and was told he’d never run again. Thirteen years later, he ran a marathon.</p><p>In this episode, Ian shares his spinal cord injury recovery story, the “watch me” mindset that carried him, and his RINSE framework for resilience, journaling, and intuition. If you’ve ever been told “you can’t,” this will remind you that you’re far more powerful than you think.</p><p>In 2009, Ian Bowen‘s life took a dramatic turn when he was diagnosed with neurosarcoidosis. A rare disease that left him needing spinal cord surgery that caused him to be paralyzed from the chest down. </p><p>At just 32, with two young children and a promising career, doctors told Ian he would never run again. But instead of accepting defeat, Ian chose to defy medical expectations through sheer willpower, determination, and what he calls Positive Persistence. </p><p>His rehabilitation journey was grueling, requiring him to relearn basic tasks like sitting up and standing. With every small victory, Ian's mindset strengthened, leading him to create the RINSE Methodology: Remember, Imagine, Notice, Shift and Expect-  a framework he now uses to inspire others to overcome seemingly insurmountable odds.</p><p>In 2022,Ian achieved what doctors thought impossible—he ran his first of two marathons, a testament to the power of mindset.  </p><p>Ian's story is not just about survival; it's about thriving despite the odds. His experiences offer hope and inspiration to anyone facing obstacles, proving that with the right mindset, anything is possible.</p><p><br />As the founder of “Positive Persistence” it has become Ian’s mission to teach others how to overcome adversity, rise beyond their challenges, comeback from setbacks and achieve the unthinkable by realizing their potential and developing a Watch Me Mindset.</p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 The Journey of Resilience</p><p>03:10 Defying Limitations and Embracing a New Identity</p><p>06:03 The Power of Mindset in Overcoming Adversity</p><p>08:58 Finding Strength in Past Experiences</p><p>11:44 The Role of Support and Accountability</p><p>14:28 Navigating Grief and Acceptance</p><p>17:14 Daily Practices for Inner Strength</p><p>23:46 Navigating Grief and Acceptance</p><p>27:23 The Power of Acceptance and Moving Forward</p><p>30:30 Mindset and Decision-Making in Recovery</p><p>33:43 Finding Gratitude Amidst Adversity</p><p>36:49 Physical Activity as a Pathway to Emotional Clarity</p><p>39:15 The RENTS Methodology for Personal Growth</p><p>45:59 Building Resilience Through Adversity</p><p>47:54 Harnessing Intuition from Past Experiences</p><p>Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Nov 2025 05:30:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>At 32, Ian Bowen woke up from spinal cord surgery paralyzed from the chest down and was told he’d never run again. Thirteen years later, he ran a marathon.</p><p>In this episode, Ian shares his spinal cord injury recovery story, the “watch me” mindset that carried him, and his RINSE framework for resilience, journaling, and intuition. If you’ve ever been told “you can’t,” this will remind you that you’re far more powerful than you think.</p><p>In 2009, Ian Bowen‘s life took a dramatic turn when he was diagnosed with neurosarcoidosis. A rare disease that left him needing spinal cord surgery that caused him to be paralyzed from the chest down. </p><p>At just 32, with two young children and a promising career, doctors told Ian he would never run again. But instead of accepting defeat, Ian chose to defy medical expectations through sheer willpower, determination, and what he calls Positive Persistence. </p><p>His rehabilitation journey was grueling, requiring him to relearn basic tasks like sitting up and standing. With every small victory, Ian's mindset strengthened, leading him to create the RINSE Methodology: Remember, Imagine, Notice, Shift and Expect-  a framework he now uses to inspire others to overcome seemingly insurmountable odds.</p><p>In 2022,Ian achieved what doctors thought impossible—he ran his first of two marathons, a testament to the power of mindset.  </p><p>Ian's story is not just about survival; it's about thriving despite the odds. His experiences offer hope and inspiration to anyone facing obstacles, proving that with the right mindset, anything is possible.</p><p><br />As the founder of “Positive Persistence” it has become Ian’s mission to teach others how to overcome adversity, rise beyond their challenges, comeback from setbacks and achieve the unthinkable by realizing their potential and developing a Watch Me Mindset.</p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00:00 The Journey of Resilience</p><p>03:10 Defying Limitations and Embracing a New Identity</p><p>06:03 The Power of Mindset in Overcoming Adversity</p><p>08:58 Finding Strength in Past Experiences</p><p>11:44 The Role of Support and Accountability</p><p>14:28 Navigating Grief and Acceptance</p><p>17:14 Daily Practices for Inner Strength</p><p>23:46 Navigating Grief and Acceptance</p><p>27:23 The Power of Acceptance and Moving Forward</p><p>30:30 Mindset and Decision-Making in Recovery</p><p>33:43 Finding Gratitude Amidst Adversity</p><p>36:49 Physical Activity as a Pathway to Emotional Clarity</p><p>39:15 The RENTS Methodology for Personal Growth</p><p>45:59 Building Resilience Through Adversity</p><p>47:54 Harnessing Intuition from Past Experiences</p><p>Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>#58 Radhika Dutt - Why KPIs Fail: Radhika Dutt on Product Vision, Innovation, AI, and Conscious Leadership</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>MIT engineer and <em>Radical Product Thinking</em> author <strong>Radhika Dutt</strong> joins me to unpack why goal-chasing, KPIs, and efficiency culture are breaking our creativity, intuition, and leadership. We talk about product vision, innovation, AI’s impact on humanity, burnout, and how curiosity and reflection create better teams, better products, and a more meaningful life.</p><p><br />Radhika Dutt is the author of Radical Product Thinking: The New Mindset for Innovating Smarter which has been translated into Chinese and Japanese. The methodology she introduced in her first book is now used in over 40 countries. She is an entrepreneur, speaker, and product leader who has participated in five acquisitions, two of which were companies that she founded. She is currently Advisor on Product Thinking to the Monetary Authority of Singapore (Singapore’s central bank and financial regulator), and does consulting and training for organizations ranging from high-tech startups to multinationals on building radical products that create a fundamental change. Radhika has built products in a wide range of industries including broadcast, media and entertainment, telecom, advertising technology, government, consumer apps, robotics, and even wine. She graduated from MIT with an SB and M.Eng in Electrical Engineering, and speaks nine languages.</p><p><br /></p><p>Radhika is now working on her second book – it’s about why goals and targets backfire and what actually works.</p><p><br />Chapters:<br />00:00 Introduction to Engineering and Entrepreneurship</p><p>03:40 The Challenges of Founder Mode</p><p>06:31 The Importance of Vision Statements</p><p>09:19 Radical Product Thinking and Authenticity</p><p>11:47 Balancing Personal Vision and Survival</p><p>13:44 The Toxic Drive of Being the Best</p><p>16:22 Soul Surplus vs. Soul Debt</p><p>19:10 Curiosity in Problem Solving</p><p>28:59 Curiosity-Driven Problem Solving</p><p>33:38 The Shift from Evaluation to Development</p><p>38:35 Intuition vs. Intellect in Leadership</p><p>44:04 The Dangers of AI and Commoditization of Labor</p><p>47:12 Human Connection in a Tech-Driven World</p><p>55:08 Reflection as a Tool for Change</p><p>Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 13 Nov 2025 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>MIT engineer and <em>Radical Product Thinking</em> author <strong>Radhika Dutt</strong> joins me to unpack why goal-chasing, KPIs, and efficiency culture are breaking our creativity, intuition, and leadership. We talk about product vision, innovation, AI’s impact on humanity, burnout, and how curiosity and reflection create better teams, better products, and a more meaningful life.</p><p><br />Radhika Dutt is the author of Radical Product Thinking: The New Mindset for Innovating Smarter which has been translated into Chinese and Japanese. The methodology she introduced in her first book is now used in over 40 countries. She is an entrepreneur, speaker, and product leader who has participated in five acquisitions, two of which were companies that she founded. She is currently Advisor on Product Thinking to the Monetary Authority of Singapore (Singapore’s central bank and financial regulator), and does consulting and training for organizations ranging from high-tech startups to multinationals on building radical products that create a fundamental change. Radhika has built products in a wide range of industries including broadcast, media and entertainment, telecom, advertising technology, government, consumer apps, robotics, and even wine. She graduated from MIT with an SB and M.Eng in Electrical Engineering, and speaks nine languages.</p><p><br /></p><p>Radhika is now working on her second book – it’s about why goals and targets backfire and what actually works.</p><p><br />Chapters:<br />00:00 Introduction to Engineering and Entrepreneurship</p><p>03:40 The Challenges of Founder Mode</p><p>06:31 The Importance of Vision Statements</p><p>09:19 Radical Product Thinking and Authenticity</p><p>11:47 Balancing Personal Vision and Survival</p><p>13:44 The Toxic Drive of Being the Best</p><p>16:22 Soul Surplus vs. Soul Debt</p><p>19:10 Curiosity in Problem Solving</p><p>28:59 Curiosity-Driven Problem Solving</p><p>33:38 The Shift from Evaluation to Development</p><p>38:35 Intuition vs. Intellect in Leadership</p><p>44:04 The Dangers of AI and Commoditization of Labor</p><p>47:12 Human Connection in a Tech-Driven World</p><p>55:08 Reflection as a Tool for Change</p><p>Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>#58 Radhika Dutt - Why KPIs Fail: Radhika Dutt on Product Vision, Innovation, AI, and Conscious Leadership</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>MIT engineer and Radical Product Thinking author Radhika Dutt joins me to unpack why goal-chasing, KPIs, and efficiency culture are breaking our creativity, intuition, and leadership. We talk about product vision, innovation, AI’s impact on humanity, burnout, and how curiosity and reflection create better teams, better products, and a more meaningful life.Radhika Dutt is the author of Radical Product Thinking: The New Mindset for Innovating Smarter which has been translated into Chinese and Japanese. The methodology she introduced in her first book is now used in over 40 countries. She is an entrepreneur, speaker, and product leader who has participated in five acquisitions, two of which were companies that she founded. She is currently Advisor on Product Thinking to the Monetary Authority of Singapore (Singapore’s central bank and financial regulator), and does consulting and training for organizations ranging from high-tech startups to multinationals on building radical products that create a fundamental change. Radhika has built products in a wide range of industries including broadcast, media and entertainment, telecom, advertising technology, government, consumer apps, robotics, and even wine. She graduated from MIT with an SB and M.Eng in Electrical Engineering, and speaks nine languages.Radhika is now working on her second book – it’s about why goals and targets backfire and what actually works.Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Engineering and Entrepreneurship03:40 The Challenges of Founder Mode06:31 The Importance of Vision Statements09:19 Radical Product Thinking and Authenticity11:47 Balancing Personal Vision and Survival13:44 The Toxic Drive of Being the Best16:22 Soul Surplus vs. Soul Debt19:10 Curiosity in Problem Solving28:59 Curiosity-Driven Problem Solving33:38 The Shift from Evaluation to Development38:35 Intuition vs. Intellect in Leadership44:04 The Dangers of AI and Commoditization of Labor47:12 Human Connection in a Tech-Driven World55:08 Reflection as a Tool for ChangeFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>MIT engineer and Radical Product Thinking author Radhika Dutt joins me to unpack why goal-chasing, KPIs, and efficiency culture are breaking our creativity, intuition, and leadership. We talk about product vision, innovation, AI’s impact on humanity, burnout, and how curiosity and reflection create better teams, better products, and a more meaningful life.Radhika Dutt is the author of Radical Product Thinking: The New Mindset for Innovating Smarter which has been translated into Chinese and Japanese. The methodology she introduced in her first book is now used in over 40 countries. She is an entrepreneur, speaker, and product leader who has participated in five acquisitions, two of which were companies that she founded. She is currently Advisor on Product Thinking to the Monetary Authority of Singapore (Singapore’s central bank and financial regulator), and does consulting and training for organizations ranging from high-tech startups to multinationals on building radical products that create a fundamental change. Radhika has built products in a wide range of industries including broadcast, media and entertainment, telecom, advertising technology, government, consumer apps, robotics, and even wine. She graduated from MIT with an SB and M.Eng in Electrical Engineering, and speaks nine languages.Radhika is now working on her second book – it’s about why goals and targets backfire and what actually works.Chapters:00:00 Introduction to Engineering and Entrepreneurship03:40 The Challenges of Founder Mode06:31 The Importance of Vision Statements09:19 Radical Product Thinking and Authenticity11:47 Balancing Personal Vision and Survival13:44 The Toxic Drive of Being the Best16:22 Soul Surplus vs. Soul Debt19:10 Curiosity in Problem Solving28:59 Curiosity-Driven Problem Solving33:38 The Shift from Evaluation to Development38:35 Intuition vs. Intellect in Leadership44:04 The Dangers of AI and Commoditization of Labor47:12 Human Connection in a Tech-Driven World55:08 Reflection as a Tool for ChangeFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>#57 Traver Boehm - Men, Women And The Space Between: Safety, Reverence, And The Work That Actually Heals</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Traver Boehm is the author of the books Today I Rise, Man Uncivilized and 28 Days In Darkness. He’s a two-time TEDx speaker, men’s coach, and the founder of the Uncivilized Men’s Movement. He’s helped men all over the world to become Uncivilized as they wake up to the power of their hearts, the brilliance of their bodies, and the wisdom of their souls so they can blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them.</p><p>Most recently, Traver completed an extraordinary 49-day dark retreat and released his latest book chronicling his first such journey, 28 Days In Darkness.</p><p><br />He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men, and the suffering caused by men, by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity.</p><p>In this powerful conversation, <strong>Traver Boehm</strong>, founder of <strong>Man Uncivilized</strong> and author of <em>28 Days in Darkness</em>, joins me to explore the crisis and rebirth of modern masculinity. We talk about <strong>shadow work, men’s mental health, trauma healing, emotional intelligence, nervous-system regulation, and the midlife search for purpose</strong>.</p><p>Traver shares what he learned from spending <strong>49 days in total darkness</strong>—and why the greatest challenge a man can face isn’t an Ironman race or a business empire, but the courage to meet himself. Together, we unpack the confusion between men and women in the post-MeToo era, the cost of numbing through achievement, and how reconnecting to <strong>feeling, presence, and authenticity</strong> brings life back into full color.</p><p>If you’ve ever wondered why success feels empty, why relationships feel like war zones, or why modern men feel lost, this episode is your invitation to return home to yourself.</p><p>Chapters: <br />00:00 The State of Masculinity and Femininity<br />07:07 The Impact of COVID and Social Movements<br />13:03 Navigating Relationships in a Changing World<br />18:51 Understanding Male Desire and Safety<br />24:33 The Role of Men in Modern Society<br />29:48 Lessons on Safety and Vulnerability<br />32:38 Understanding Sexual Needs and Desires<br />37:03 The Impact of Masculinity on Relationships<br />41:15 The Call to Action for Men<br />46:35 The Importance of Being Known<br />53:06 Facing Fear and Embracing Darkness<br />56:59 Reliving Trauma: The Somatic Experience<br />58:09 The Dark Retreat: Confronting Inner Demons<br />01:02:50 The Power of Darkness: Insights and Resilience<br />01:08:20 The Journey Within: Discovering the Soul<br />01:14:00 The Illusion of Significance: Embracing Insignificance<br />01:18:13 Man Uncivilized: Building Community and Connection</p><p>Guest Resources:<br />https://www.manuncivilized.com/press<br />Instagram - traverboehm<br />Youtube - <a href="https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCAoPi5PeZKBcBb07yqdeOwQ"> @TraverBoehm </a> <br />The UNcivilized Podcast - https://www.manuncivilized.com/blog/</p><p>Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 16 Oct 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Traver Boehm is the author of the books Today I Rise, Man Uncivilized and 28 Days In Darkness. He’s a two-time TEDx speaker, men’s coach, and the founder of the Uncivilized Men’s Movement. He’s helped men all over the world to become Uncivilized as they wake up to the power of their hearts, the brilliance of their bodies, and the wisdom of their souls so they can blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them.</p><p>Most recently, Traver completed an extraordinary 49-day dark retreat and released his latest book chronicling his first such journey, 28 Days In Darkness.</p><p><br />He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men, and the suffering caused by men, by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity.</p><p>In this powerful conversation, <strong>Traver Boehm</strong>, founder of <strong>Man Uncivilized</strong> and author of <em>28 Days in Darkness</em>, joins me to explore the crisis and rebirth of modern masculinity. We talk about <strong>shadow work, men’s mental health, trauma healing, emotional intelligence, nervous-system regulation, and the midlife search for purpose</strong>.</p><p>Traver shares what he learned from spending <strong>49 days in total darkness</strong>—and why the greatest challenge a man can face isn’t an Ironman race or a business empire, but the courage to meet himself. Together, we unpack the confusion between men and women in the post-MeToo era, the cost of numbing through achievement, and how reconnecting to <strong>feeling, presence, and authenticity</strong> brings life back into full color.</p><p>If you’ve ever wondered why success feels empty, why relationships feel like war zones, or why modern men feel lost, this episode is your invitation to return home to yourself.</p><p>Chapters: <br />00:00 The State of Masculinity and Femininity<br />07:07 The Impact of COVID and Social Movements<br />13:03 Navigating Relationships in a Changing World<br />18:51 Understanding Male Desire and Safety<br />24:33 The Role of Men in Modern Society<br />29:48 Lessons on Safety and Vulnerability<br />32:38 Understanding Sexual Needs and Desires<br />37:03 The Impact of Masculinity on Relationships<br />41:15 The Call to Action for Men<br />46:35 The Importance of Being Known<br />53:06 Facing Fear and Embracing Darkness<br />56:59 Reliving Trauma: The Somatic Experience<br />58:09 The Dark Retreat: Confronting Inner Demons<br />01:02:50 The Power of Darkness: Insights and Resilience<br />01:08:20 The Journey Within: Discovering the Soul<br />01:14:00 The Illusion of Significance: Embracing Insignificance<br />01:18:13 Man Uncivilized: Building Community and Connection</p><p>Guest Resources:<br />https://www.manuncivilized.com/press<br />Instagram - traverboehm<br />Youtube - <a href="https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCAoPi5PeZKBcBb07yqdeOwQ"> @TraverBoehm </a> <br />The UNcivilized Podcast - https://www.manuncivilized.com/blog/</p><p>Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>#57 Traver Boehm - Men, Women And The Space Between: Safety, Reverence, And The Work That Actually Heals</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>Abby Havermann</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Traver Boehm is the author of the books Today I Rise, Man Uncivilized and 28 Days In Darkness. He’s a two-time TEDx speaker, men’s coach, and the founder of the Uncivilized Men’s Movement. He’s helped men all over the world to become Uncivilized as they wake up to the power of their hearts, the brilliance of their bodies, and the wisdom of their souls so they can blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them.Most recently, Traver completed an extraordinary 49-day dark retreat and released his latest book chronicling his first such journey, 28 Days In Darkness.He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men, and the suffering caused by men, by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity.In this powerful conversation, Traver Boehm, founder of Man Uncivilized and author of 28 Days in Darkness, joins me to explore the crisis and rebirth of modern masculinity. We talk about shadow work, men’s mental health, trauma healing, emotional intelligence, nervous-system regulation, and the midlife search for purpose.Traver shares what he learned from spending 49 days in total darkness—and why the greatest challenge a man can face isn’t an Ironman race or a business empire, but the courage to meet himself. Together, we unpack the confusion between men and women in the post-MeToo era, the cost of numbing through achievement, and how reconnecting to feeling, presence, and authenticity brings life back into full color.If you’ve ever wondered why success feels empty, why relationships feel like war zones, or why modern men feel lost, this episode is your invitation to return home to yourself.Chapters: 00:00 The State of Masculinity and Femininity07:07 The Impact of COVID and Social Movements13:03 Navigating Relationships in a Changing World18:51 Understanding Male Desire and Safety24:33 The Role of Men in Modern Society29:48 Lessons on Safety and Vulnerability32:38 Understanding Sexual Needs and Desires37:03 The Impact of Masculinity on Relationships41:15 The Call to Action for Men46:35 The Importance of Being Known53:06 Facing Fear and Embracing Darkness56:59 Reliving Trauma: The Somatic Experience58:09 The Dark Retreat: Confronting Inner Demons01:02:50 The Power of Darkness: Insights and Resilience01:08:20 The Journey Within: Discovering the Soul01:14:00 The Illusion of Significance: Embracing Insignificance01:18:13 Man Uncivilized: Building Community and ConnectionGuest Resources:https://www.manuncivilized.com/pressInstagram - traverboehmYoutube -  @TraverBoehm  The UNcivilized Podcast - https://www.manuncivilized.com/blog/Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Traver Boehm is the author of the books Today I Rise, Man Uncivilized and 28 Days In Darkness. He’s a two-time TEDx speaker, men’s coach, and the founder of the Uncivilized Men’s Movement. He’s helped men all over the world to become Uncivilized as they wake up to the power of their hearts, the brilliance of their bodies, and the wisdom of their souls so they can blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them.Most recently, Traver completed an extraordinary 49-day dark retreat and released his latest book chronicling his first such journey, 28 Days In Darkness.He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men, and the suffering caused by men, by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity.In this powerful conversation, Traver Boehm, founder of Man Uncivilized and author of 28 Days in Darkness, joins me to explore the crisis and rebirth of modern masculinity. We talk about shadow work, men’s mental health, trauma healing, emotional intelligence, nervous-system regulation, and the midlife search for purpose.Traver shares what he learned from spending 49 days in total darkness—and why the greatest challenge a man can face isn’t an Ironman race or a business empire, but the courage to meet himself. Together, we unpack the confusion between men and women in the post-MeToo era, the cost of numbing through achievement, and how reconnecting to feeling, presence, and authenticity brings life back into full color.If you’ve ever wondered why success feels empty, why relationships feel like war zones, or why modern men feel lost, this episode is your invitation to return home to yourself.Chapters: 00:00 The State of Masculinity and Femininity07:07 The Impact of COVID and Social Movements13:03 Navigating Relationships in a Changing World18:51 Understanding Male Desire and Safety24:33 The Role of Men in Modern Society29:48 Lessons on Safety and Vulnerability32:38 Understanding Sexual Needs and Desires37:03 The Impact of Masculinity on Relationships41:15 The Call to Action for Men46:35 The Importance of Being Known53:06 Facing Fear and Embracing Darkness56:59 Reliving Trauma: The Somatic Experience58:09 The Dark Retreat: Confronting Inner Demons01:02:50 The Power of Darkness: Insights and Resilience01:08:20 The Journey Within: Discovering the Soul01:14:00 The Illusion of Significance: Embracing Insignificance01:18:13 Man Uncivilized: Building Community and ConnectionGuest Resources:https://www.manuncivilized.com/pressInstagram - traverboehmYoutube -  @TraverBoehm  The UNcivilized Podcast - https://www.manuncivilized.com/blog/Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>#56 Dr. Katie Deming - Why Intuition Matters in Cancer Care: An Integrative Oncologist’s Journey</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Katie Deming, MD, is an integrative oncologist, inventor, and TEDx speaker who is redefining cancer prevention, treatment, and healing. After two decades as a radiation oncologist and healthcare leader, Katie shifted to a holistic practice that helps clients detoxify and nourish their physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual bodies in order to activate their innate ability to heal. Her passion for bridging the power of science with holistic health has led clients to remarkable outcomes, including tumor shrinkage, remission of advanced cancers, and avoidance of invasive treatments.</p><p>Dr. Katie's practice is centered on prolonged, supervised water fasting with metabolically appropriate refeeding protocols. She leads group fasting programs designed to foster community support, metabolic healing, and profound emotional and spiritual transformation.<br /> <br />In this episode, I sit down with <strong>Dr. Katie Deming</strong>, a former radiation oncologist who walked away from a long medical career after a <em>shared death experience</em> reshaped her understanding of illness, intuition, and the purpose of life. She now helps people heal holistically—emotionally, physically, and spiritually—through integrative oncology and prolonged water fasting.</p><p>We talk about what <em>true healing</em> really means, how emotions like unworthiness and self-betrayal manifest in the body, and why so many people nearing the end of life regret not living authentically. Dr. Deming shares powerful stories of clients who’ve experienced radical remission and inner transformation by turning inward, slowing down, and reconnecting with their intuition.</p><p>This conversation dives into the intersection of science and spirit, Western medicine and emotional truth. Whether you’ve faced illness yourself or are simply curious about the mind-body connection, this episode will open your eyes to a new understanding of healing, authenticity, and the intelligence within your own body.</p><p>Chapters: <br />00:00 The Journey from Oncology to Integrative Healing</p><p>05:53 Lessons from the Dying: Living Authentically</p><p>10:38 Intuition and Cancer: A Radical Shift in Perspective</p><p>15:05 Healing vs. Eradication: Understanding Illness as a Message</p><p>19:36 The Role of Emotions in Cancer and Healing</p><p>24:22 Reconnecting with Humanity in Medicine</p><p>28:31 The Disconnect Between Doctors and Intuition</p><p>30:48 Compassion for Medical Professionals</p><p>33:20 The Flaws in the Medical System</p><p>35:17 The Challenge of Acceptance</p><p>37:19 The Crisis of Awareness</p><p>39:23 The Role of Fasting in Healing</p><p>47:11 Spiritual Awakening Through Fasting</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 2 Oct 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Katie Deming, MD, is an integrative oncologist, inventor, and TEDx speaker who is redefining cancer prevention, treatment, and healing. After two decades as a radiation oncologist and healthcare leader, Katie shifted to a holistic practice that helps clients detoxify and nourish their physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual bodies in order to activate their innate ability to heal. Her passion for bridging the power of science with holistic health has led clients to remarkable outcomes, including tumor shrinkage, remission of advanced cancers, and avoidance of invasive treatments.</p><p>Dr. Katie's practice is centered on prolonged, supervised water fasting with metabolically appropriate refeeding protocols. She leads group fasting programs designed to foster community support, metabolic healing, and profound emotional and spiritual transformation.<br /> <br />In this episode, I sit down with <strong>Dr. Katie Deming</strong>, a former radiation oncologist who walked away from a long medical career after a <em>shared death experience</em> reshaped her understanding of illness, intuition, and the purpose of life. She now helps people heal holistically—emotionally, physically, and spiritually—through integrative oncology and prolonged water fasting.</p><p>We talk about what <em>true healing</em> really means, how emotions like unworthiness and self-betrayal manifest in the body, and why so many people nearing the end of life regret not living authentically. Dr. Deming shares powerful stories of clients who’ve experienced radical remission and inner transformation by turning inward, slowing down, and reconnecting with their intuition.</p><p>This conversation dives into the intersection of science and spirit, Western medicine and emotional truth. Whether you’ve faced illness yourself or are simply curious about the mind-body connection, this episode will open your eyes to a new understanding of healing, authenticity, and the intelligence within your own body.</p><p>Chapters: <br />00:00 The Journey from Oncology to Integrative Healing</p><p>05:53 Lessons from the Dying: Living Authentically</p><p>10:38 Intuition and Cancer: A Radical Shift in Perspective</p><p>15:05 Healing vs. Eradication: Understanding Illness as a Message</p><p>19:36 The Role of Emotions in Cancer and Healing</p><p>24:22 Reconnecting with Humanity in Medicine</p><p>28:31 The Disconnect Between Doctors and Intuition</p><p>30:48 Compassion for Medical Professionals</p><p>33:20 The Flaws in the Medical System</p><p>35:17 The Challenge of Acceptance</p><p>37:19 The Crisis of Awareness</p><p>39:23 The Role of Fasting in Healing</p><p>47:11 Spiritual Awakening Through Fasting</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>#56 Dr. Katie Deming - Why Intuition Matters in Cancer Care: An Integrative Oncologist’s Journey</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:subtitle>Katie Deming, MD, is an integrative oncologist, inventor, and TEDx speaker who is redefining cancer prevention, treatment, and healing. After two decades as a radiation oncologist and healthcare leader, Katie shifted to a holistic practice that helps clients detoxify and nourish their physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual bodies in order to activate their innate ability to heal. Her passion for bridging the power of science with holistic health has led clients to remarkable outcomes, including tumor shrinkage, remission of advanced cancers, and avoidance of invasive treatments.Dr. Katie&apos;s practice is centered on prolonged, supervised water fasting with metabolically appropriate refeeding protocols. She leads group fasting programs designed to foster community support, metabolic healing, and profound emotional and spiritual transformation. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Katie Deming, a former radiation oncologist who walked away from a long medical career after a shared death experience reshaped her understanding of illness, intuition, and the purpose of life. She now helps people heal holistically—emotionally, physically, and spiritually—through integrative oncology and prolonged water fasting.We talk about what true healing really means, how emotions like unworthiness and self-betrayal manifest in the body, and why so many people nearing the end of life regret not living authentically. Dr. Deming shares powerful stories of clients who’ve experienced radical remission and inner transformation by turning inward, slowing down, and reconnecting with their intuition.This conversation dives into the intersection of science and spirit, Western medicine and emotional truth. Whether you’ve faced illness yourself or are simply curious about the mind-body connection, this episode will open your eyes to a new understanding of healing, authenticity, and the intelligence within your own body.Chapters: 00:00 The Journey from Oncology to Integrative Healing05:53 Lessons from the Dying: Living Authentically10:38 Intuition and Cancer: A Radical Shift in Perspective15:05 Healing vs. Eradication: Understanding Illness as a Message19:36 The Role of Emotions in Cancer and Healing24:22 Reconnecting with Humanity in Medicine28:31 The Disconnect Between Doctors and Intuition30:48 Compassion for Medical Professionals33:20 The Flaws in the Medical System35:17 The Challenge of Acceptance37:19 The Crisis of Awareness39:23 The Role of Fasting in Healing47:11 Spiritual Awakening Through FastingFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>#55 Jamie Sarche - Death, Grief, and the Power of Honest Conversations</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Jamie Sarche’s calling is helping people be less afraid of death. By arranging for families to provide their loved ones with a planned and funded funeral or memorial service, she creates a path for bereavement, long before it's needed. And by facing their mortality, her clients can live better, more meaningful lives.</p><p>As a seasoned speaker, Jamie brings deep experience in death care to a broad range of audiences around the country, sharing insights and approaches on how to have those difficult conversations and how to address sensitive issues. Extending well beyond death and dying, Jamie’s message resonates across industries and individuals, bridging my passion to demystify death while enlightening communicators on overcoming challenging conversations.</p><p>Most of us don’t want to talk about death. We stuff our grief down, we skip the rituals, and we pretend “time heals all wounds.” My guest, Jamie Sarche, believes the opposite: that facing death and grief is what actually helps us live more fully.</p><p><br />In this conversation, Jamie and I dive into how to grieve in real life (not the tidy version we see in movies), the role of funeral planning as a gift to your family, and why traditions like sitting Shiva, green burial, or even just sitting with someone in pain matter so deeply. We also talk about death anxiety, what happens when we avoid grief, and how avoiding those conversations keeps us disconnected from our intuition and each other.</p><p>This episode is raw, authentic, and—strangely—life-affirming. If you’ve ever wondered what to say to someone who’s grieving, how to talk about death with your kids, or how to honor loss without numbing, this one’s for you.</p><p>Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: </p><p><br /></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 18 Sep 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Jamie Sarche’s calling is helping people be less afraid of death. By arranging for families to provide their loved ones with a planned and funded funeral or memorial service, she creates a path for bereavement, long before it's needed. And by facing their mortality, her clients can live better, more meaningful lives.</p><p>As a seasoned speaker, Jamie brings deep experience in death care to a broad range of audiences around the country, sharing insights and approaches on how to have those difficult conversations and how to address sensitive issues. Extending well beyond death and dying, Jamie’s message resonates across industries and individuals, bridging my passion to demystify death while enlightening communicators on overcoming challenging conversations.</p><p>Most of us don’t want to talk about death. We stuff our grief down, we skip the rituals, and we pretend “time heals all wounds.” My guest, Jamie Sarche, believes the opposite: that facing death and grief is what actually helps us live more fully.</p><p><br />In this conversation, Jamie and I dive into how to grieve in real life (not the tidy version we see in movies), the role of funeral planning as a gift to your family, and why traditions like sitting Shiva, green burial, or even just sitting with someone in pain matter so deeply. We also talk about death anxiety, what happens when we avoid grief, and how avoiding those conversations keeps us disconnected from our intuition and each other.</p><p>This episode is raw, authentic, and—strangely—life-affirming. If you’ve ever wondered what to say to someone who’s grieving, how to talk about death with your kids, or how to honor loss without numbing, this one’s for you.</p><p>Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: </p><p><br /></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>#55 Jamie Sarche - Death, Grief, and the Power of Honest Conversations</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>Jamie Sarche’s calling is helping people be less afraid of death. By arranging for families to provide their loved ones with a planned and funded funeral or memorial service, she creates a path for bereavement, long before it&apos;s needed. And by facing their mortality, her clients can live better, more meaningful lives.As a seasoned speaker, Jamie brings deep experience in death care to a broad range of audiences around the country, sharing insights and approaches on how to have those difficult conversations and how to address sensitive issues. Extending well beyond death and dying, Jamie’s message resonates across industries and individuals, bridging my passion to demystify death while enlightening communicators on overcoming challenging conversations.Most of us don’t want to talk about death. We stuff our grief down, we skip the rituals, and we pretend “time heals all wounds.” My guest, Jamie Sarche, believes the opposite: that facing death and grief is what actually helps us live more fully.In this conversation, Jamie and I dive into how to grieve in real life (not the tidy version we see in movies), the role of funeral planning as a gift to your family, and why traditions like sitting Shiva, green burial, or even just sitting with someone in pain matter so deeply. We also talk about death anxiety, what happens when we avoid grief, and how avoiding those conversations keeps us disconnected from our intuition and each other.This episode is raw, authentic, and—strangely—life-affirming. If you’ve ever wondered what to say to someone who’s grieving, how to talk about death with your kids, or how to honor loss without numbing, this one’s for you.Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: 👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Jamie Sarche’s calling is helping people be less afraid of death. By arranging for families to provide their loved ones with a planned and funded funeral or memorial service, she creates a path for bereavement, long before it&apos;s needed. And by facing their mortality, her clients can live better, more meaningful lives.As a seasoned speaker, Jamie brings deep experience in death care to a broad range of audiences around the country, sharing insights and approaches on how to have those difficult conversations and how to address sensitive issues. Extending well beyond death and dying, Jamie’s message resonates across industries and individuals, bridging my passion to demystify death while enlightening communicators on overcoming challenging conversations.Most of us don’t want to talk about death. We stuff our grief down, we skip the rituals, and we pretend “time heals all wounds.” My guest, Jamie Sarche, believes the opposite: that facing death and grief is what actually helps us live more fully.In this conversation, Jamie and I dive into how to grieve in real life (not the tidy version we see in movies), the role of funeral planning as a gift to your family, and why traditions like sitting Shiva, green burial, or even just sitting with someone in pain matter so deeply. We also talk about death anxiety, what happens when we avoid grief, and how avoiding those conversations keeps us disconnected from our intuition and each other.This episode is raw, authentic, and—strangely—life-affirming. If you’ve ever wondered what to say to someone who’s grieving, how to talk about death with your kids, or how to honor loss without numbing, this one’s for you.Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: 👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>Monday Muse #40 - Trust Your Gut: The Secret to Aligned Decision Making</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Decision making can be exhausting when it’s fueled by overthinking, endless pros and cons, or the fear of making the wrong choice. In this Monday Muse, I share how to move beyond decision paralysis by tapping into your intuition and making choices from a deeper, more authentic place.</p><p><br />I talk about the difference between ego-driven decisions and intuitive ones, how to check in with your body instead of just your mind, and why aligned decision making creates confidence, clarity, and authentic leadership. I also share the story of leaving my family business—a terrifying but transformative choice that didn’t make sense on paper but changed everything.</p><p><br />If you’re ready to stop second guessing yourself and start trusting your inner knowing, this episode will show you how.</p><p>Chapters:<br />00:00 Transforming Decision-Making: A New Approach</p><p>04:54 Getting Clear On What You Want</p><p>06:51 The Role of the Body in Decision-Making</p><p>08:08 Practicality in Decision Making</p><p>08:50 Balancing Practical Factors with Inner Knowing</p><p>11:09 Taking Responsibility for Outcomes</p><p>12:33 Making Decisions from Authentic Power</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking </p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 15 Sep 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Decision making can be exhausting when it’s fueled by overthinking, endless pros and cons, or the fear of making the wrong choice. In this Monday Muse, I share how to move beyond decision paralysis by tapping into your intuition and making choices from a deeper, more authentic place.</p><p><br />I talk about the difference between ego-driven decisions and intuitive ones, how to check in with your body instead of just your mind, and why aligned decision making creates confidence, clarity, and authentic leadership. I also share the story of leaving my family business—a terrifying but transformative choice that didn’t make sense on paper but changed everything.</p><p><br />If you’re ready to stop second guessing yourself and start trusting your inner knowing, this episode will show you how.</p><p>Chapters:<br />00:00 Transforming Decision-Making: A New Approach</p><p>04:54 Getting Clear On What You Want</p><p>06:51 The Role of the Body in Decision-Making</p><p>08:08 Practicality in Decision Making</p><p>08:50 Balancing Practical Factors with Inner Knowing</p><p>11:09 Taking Responsibility for Outcomes</p><p>12:33 Making Decisions from Authentic Power</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking </p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:subtitle>Decision making can be exhausting when it’s fueled by overthinking, endless pros and cons, or the fear of making the wrong choice. In this Monday Muse, I share how to move beyond decision paralysis by tapping into your intuition and making choices from a deeper, more authentic place.I talk about the difference between ego-driven decisions and intuitive ones, how to check in with your body instead of just your mind, and why aligned decision making creates confidence, clarity, and authentic leadership. I also share the story of leaving my family business—a terrifying but transformative choice that didn’t make sense on paper but changed everything.If you’re ready to stop second guessing yourself and start trusting your inner knowing, this episode will show you how.Chapters:00:00 Transforming Decision-Making: A New Approach04:54 Getting Clear On What You Want06:51 The Role of the Body in Decision-Making08:08 Practicality in Decision Making08:50 Balancing Practical Factors with Inner Knowing11:09 Taking Responsibility for Outcomes12:33 Making Decisions from Authentic PowerFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking 👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>Monday Muse #39- The Leadership Lie: Why Performing Keeps You Stuck</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Authentic leadership isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about vulnerability, emotional intelligence, and the courage to be real. For decades we’ve been taught that good leaders are unshakable, but that lie keeps us exhausted, disconnected, and stuck in performance mode.</p><p>In this episode of the Monday Muse, I share why pretending confidence drains your energy, how ego-driven decisions create burnout, and why radical self honesty is the foundation of genuine leadership. You’ll learn how to shift from performing to living awake—building trust, resilience, and deeper connection with yourself and those around you.</p><p>If you’re tired of performing strength and ready to lead with authenticity, this conversation is your reminder that the leaders people want to follow are the ones who show up as human first.</p><p>Chapters: <br />00:00 The Lie That Keeps Us Stuck</p><p>07:43 The Cost of Performance</p><p>15:57 Awakening to Authenticity</p><p>21:05 Surrendering to the Process</p><p><br />HIRE ME TO SPEAK:</p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br /></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</a></p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 8 Sep 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:title>Monday Muse #39- The Leadership Lie: Why Performing Keeps You Stuck</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>Authentic leadership isn’t about having all the answers—it’s about vulnerability, emotional intelligence, and the courage to be real. For decades we’ve been taught that good leaders are unshakable, but that lie keeps us exhausted, disconnected, and stuck in performance mode.In this episode of the Monday Muse, I share why pretending confidence drains your energy, how ego-driven decisions create burnout, and why radical self honesty is the foundation of genuine leadership. You’ll learn how to shift from performing to living awake—building trust, resilience, and deeper connection with yourself and those around you.If you’re tired of performing strength and ready to lead with authenticity, this conversation is your reminder that the leaders people want to follow are the ones who show up as human first.Chapters: 00:00 The Lie That Keeps Us Stuck07:43 The Cost of Performance15:57 Awakening to Authenticity21:05 Surrendering to the ProcessHIRE ME TO SPEAK:👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group with a keynote speech or training: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</itunes:summary>
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      <title>#54 Alexa Brascetta - The Power of Intuition in Money and Life</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Alexa Brascetta is a CFP® with more than 22 years of experience in the financial services world. As the founder of Aligned Wealth Strategies, she is on a mission to help people align their core values with their money goals and bring the values of partnership, honesty, education, fun, and empathy into her work. A graduate of Texas Woman’s University with a degree in finance, Alexa has obtained her CLU® (Chartered Life Underwriter designation) and her CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ designation.</p><p>Alexa is a Colorado native, married to a first responder and is raising two daughters. She is a lifelong learner and an avid reader, and despite living in Colorado, the beach is her happy place. </p><p>Grief, financial anxiety, and perfectionism don’t just happen in the background—they are the quiet engine driving our lives—unless we wake up. In this episode, I talk with Alexa Brascetta, CFP® and founder of Aligned Wealth Strategies, about how loss shaped her path, what it means to listen to the quiet tug of intuition, and why success without alignment still feels empty. We dive into post-traumatic growth, the shame cycle, and the pressure on breadwinning moms to hold it all together, even when it’s breaking them inside. </p><p><br /></p><p>This is a raw, honest look at how grief can shake you awake, how financial planning becomes powerful when it’s values-based, and how letting go of perfectionism creates the kind of clarity and peace we’re really after.</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 4 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Alexa Brascetta is a CFP® with more than 22 years of experience in the financial services world. As the founder of Aligned Wealth Strategies, she is on a mission to help people align their core values with their money goals and bring the values of partnership, honesty, education, fun, and empathy into her work. A graduate of Texas Woman’s University with a degree in finance, Alexa has obtained her CLU® (Chartered Life Underwriter designation) and her CERTIFIED FINANCIAL PLANNER™ designation.</p><p>Alexa is a Colorado native, married to a first responder and is raising two daughters. She is a lifelong learner and an avid reader, and despite living in Colorado, the beach is her happy place. </p><p>Grief, financial anxiety, and perfectionism don’t just happen in the background—they are the quiet engine driving our lives—unless we wake up. In this episode, I talk with Alexa Brascetta, CFP® and founder of Aligned Wealth Strategies, about how loss shaped her path, what it means to listen to the quiet tug of intuition, and why success without alignment still feels empty. We dive into post-traumatic growth, the shame cycle, and the pressure on breadwinning moms to hold it all together, even when it’s breaking them inside. </p><p><br /></p><p>This is a raw, honest look at how grief can shake you awake, how financial planning becomes powerful when it’s values-based, and how letting go of perfectionism creates the kind of clarity and peace we’re really after.</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>#53 Amy Budden - The Hidden Power of Belief and How Your Mind Can Heal Your Body</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Amy Budden, known as the “loving neurohacker” where heart and mind combine, and creator of The Magic Nap™, empowers clients to reshape their minds for success. From Hollywood actors to Fortune 500 CEOs, and even royalty, she has guided thousands of  individuals to script their own narratives using visualization, hypnosis, and embedded frequency to hardwire desired outcomes. Amy's expertise lies in scientifically validated methodologies that unlock the latent potential of the brain and heart coherence, enabling individuals to rewrite limiting beliefs, activate health and healing and forge new pathways to joy, love, abundance. This signature technique facilitates a profound and effortless meditative state to recalibrate emotional equilibrium and health that are solidly rooted in the mind/body.</p><p>In this episode, we dive into how guided meditation, hypnosis, and brainwave training can rewire the mind for healing, stress relief, and intuition.</p><p>Amy shares the story of her daughter’s miraculous recovery, how the power of belief and subconscious reprogramming can transform health, and why heart coherence meditation is one of the most effective tools for resilience. We talk hypnotherapy for anxiety, fertility, and cancer care, plus the science behind Joe Dispenza meditations, brainwave states, and neuroplasticity.</p><p>If you’ve ever wondered how to move from stress and fear into trust, love, and effortless healing — this conversation is for you.</p><p>**Disclaimer: Do not listen to the full episode while driving as there is a meditation in the middle of it. Be in a safe place while listening!</p><p>Find Amy’s app HERE: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/connect-the-mind/id6578415871</p><p>Yearly Discount: WELCOME25OFFYR</p><p>Monthly Discount: WELCOME25OFFMON</p><p><br /></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br />👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries<br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 21 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Amy Budden, known as the “loving neurohacker” where heart and mind combine, and creator of The Magic Nap™, empowers clients to reshape their minds for success. From Hollywood actors to Fortune 500 CEOs, and even royalty, she has guided thousands of  individuals to script their own narratives using visualization, hypnosis, and embedded frequency to hardwire desired outcomes. Amy's expertise lies in scientifically validated methodologies that unlock the latent potential of the brain and heart coherence, enabling individuals to rewrite limiting beliefs, activate health and healing and forge new pathways to joy, love, abundance. This signature technique facilitates a profound and effortless meditative state to recalibrate emotional equilibrium and health that are solidly rooted in the mind/body.</p><p>In this episode, we dive into how guided meditation, hypnosis, and brainwave training can rewire the mind for healing, stress relief, and intuition.</p><p>Amy shares the story of her daughter’s miraculous recovery, how the power of belief and subconscious reprogramming can transform health, and why heart coherence meditation is one of the most effective tools for resilience. We talk hypnotherapy for anxiety, fertility, and cancer care, plus the science behind Joe Dispenza meditations, brainwave states, and neuroplasticity.</p><p>If you’ve ever wondered how to move from stress and fear into trust, love, and effortless healing — this conversation is for you.</p><p>**Disclaimer: Do not listen to the full episode while driving as there is a meditation in the middle of it. Be in a safe place while listening!</p><p>Find Amy’s app HERE: https://apps.apple.com/us/app/connect-the-mind/id6578415871</p><p>Yearly Discount: WELCOME25OFFYR</p><p>Monthly Discount: WELCOME25OFFMON</p><p><br /></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br />👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries<br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>#53 Amy Budden - The Hidden Power of Belief and How Your Mind Can Heal Your Body</itunes:title>
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      <title>Monday Muse #38 - Why &apos;Morality Divides&apos; Keeps You Stuck: Healing Hate and Finding Conscience</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Why ‘Morality Divides’ Keeps You Stuck: Healing Hate & Finding Conscience. Our judgments—especially the righteous ones—keep us divided, drained, and disconnected from peace. I share the story of a podcast pitch that stopped me in my tracks, not because the writing wasn’t brilliant (it was), but because its final line revealed just how easily certainty turns into separation.</p><p><br />This isn’t about politics or taking sides. It’s about something deeper: how hate—no matter how justified we think it is—remains hate. And when we fight hate with more hate, we become the very thing we despise. In this episode, I explore the difference between morality (which divides) and conscience (which unites), why our nervous systems push us toward judgment, and how leaders like Michael Singer and Gabor Maté model another way.</p><p>At its core, this episode is about the choice each of us has: to keep fueling division, or to practice the harder, humbler path of presence, compassion, and conscience—even in the face of pain and injustice.</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking </p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 18 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Why ‘Morality Divides’ Keeps You Stuck: Healing Hate & Finding Conscience. Our judgments—especially the righteous ones—keep us divided, drained, and disconnected from peace. I share the story of a podcast pitch that stopped me in my tracks, not because the writing wasn’t brilliant (it was), but because its final line revealed just how easily certainty turns into separation.</p><p><br />This isn’t about politics or taking sides. It’s about something deeper: how hate—no matter how justified we think it is—remains hate. And when we fight hate with more hate, we become the very thing we despise. In this episode, I explore the difference between morality (which divides) and conscience (which unites), why our nervous systems push us toward judgment, and how leaders like Michael Singer and Gabor Maté model another way.</p><p>At its core, this episode is about the choice each of us has: to keep fueling division, or to practice the harder, humbler path of presence, compassion, and conscience—even in the face of pain and injustice.</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking </p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>Why ‘Morality Divides’ Keeps You Stuck: Healing Hate &amp; Finding Conscience. Our judgments—especially the righteous ones—keep us divided, drained, and disconnected from peace. I share the story of a podcast pitch that stopped me in my tracks, not because the writing wasn’t brilliant (it was), but because its final line revealed just how easily certainty turns into separation.This isn’t about politics or taking sides. It’s about something deeper: how hate—no matter how justified we think it is—remains hate. And when we fight hate with more hate, we become the very thing we despise. In this episode, I explore the difference between morality (which divides) and conscience (which unites), why our nervous systems push us toward judgment, and how leaders like Michael Singer and Gabor Maté model another way.At its core, this episode is about the choice each of us has: to keep fueling division, or to practice the harder, humbler path of presence, compassion, and conscience—even in the face of pain and injustice.Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking 👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Why ‘Morality Divides’ Keeps You Stuck: Healing Hate &amp; Finding Conscience. Our judgments—especially the righteous ones—keep us divided, drained, and disconnected from peace. I share the story of a podcast pitch that stopped me in my tracks, not because the writing wasn’t brilliant (it was), but because its final line revealed just how easily certainty turns into separation.This isn’t about politics or taking sides. It’s about something deeper: how hate—no matter how justified we think it is—remains hate. And when we fight hate with more hate, we become the very thing we despise. In this episode, I explore the difference between morality (which divides) and conscience (which unites), why our nervous systems push us toward judgment, and how leaders like Michael Singer and Gabor Maté model another way.At its core, this episode is about the choice each of us has: to keep fueling division, or to practice the harder, humbler path of presence, compassion, and conscience—even in the face of pain and injustice.Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking 👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>Monday Muse #37 - How to Stop Energy Leaks and Reclaim Your Mental Clarity</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>The reason you’re exhausted may be hidden emotional energy drains. These sneaky mental vampires too—micro decision fatigue, emotional labor burnout, and perfectionism—are why you’re burnt out, even on easy days. The apps running in the background of your mind are bleeding you of focus, clarity, and drive. In this episode, I’ll show you how to spot these invisible drains, stop overthinking, and reclaim your life force so you can put your energy where it actually matters.</p><p>I also created a little quiz for you to determine where you may be leaking energy, and some mindset shifts to help refuel your tank. <br /> <br />You can find the Energy Audit HERE: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/energyaudit</p><p><br />Chapters:<br />00:00 Understanding Exhaustion: The Real Causes<br />01:30 The Three Hidden Energy Leaks<br />04:58 Strategies to Plug Energy Leaks</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The reason you’re exhausted may be hidden emotional energy drains. These sneaky mental vampires too—micro decision fatigue, emotional labor burnout, and perfectionism—are why you’re burnt out, even on easy days. The apps running in the background of your mind are bleeding you of focus, clarity, and drive. In this episode, I’ll show you how to spot these invisible drains, stop overthinking, and reclaim your life force so you can put your energy where it actually matters.</p><p>I also created a little quiz for you to determine where you may be leaking energy, and some mindset shifts to help refuel your tank. <br /> <br />You can find the Energy Audit HERE: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/energyaudit</p><p><br />Chapters:<br />00:00 Understanding Exhaustion: The Real Causes<br />01:30 The Three Hidden Energy Leaks<br />04:58 Strategies to Plug Energy Leaks</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>Monday Muse #37 - How to Stop Energy Leaks and Reclaim Your Mental Clarity</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>The reason you’re exhausted may be hidden emotional energy drains. These sneaky mental vampires too—micro decision fatigue, emotional labor burnout, and perfectionism—are why you’re burnt out, even on easy days. The apps running in the background of your mind are bleeding you of focus, clarity, and drive. In this episode, I’ll show you how to spot these invisible drains, stop overthinking, and reclaim your life force so you can put your energy where it actually matters.I also created a little quiz for you to determine where you may be leaking energy, and some mindset shifts to help refuel your tank.  You can find the Energy Audit HERE: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/energyauditChapters:00:00 Understanding Exhaustion: The Real Causes01:30 The Three Hidden Energy Leaks04:58 Strategies to Plug Energy LeaksFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</itunes:summary>
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      <title>#52 Nick Musica - Animal Communication and Spiritual Awakening: What Your Pet is Really Telling You</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Nick is a plant medicine enthusiast, psychic animal communicator, & intuition coach. He had his first psychic and psychedelic experiences in his early 20s. It took nearly 25 years for those kinds of experiences to resurface again. In fact, much of his adult life was what most people would consider “normal”. That changed when Nick started exploring consciousness with plant medicine & a spiritual teacher. A connection opened that continued to grow and evolve. He went to a psychic medium who told him he would communicate with animals, and it would be easy. After a few false starts, she was right. </p><p><br />Animal communication, intuition, and emotional mirroring—this conversation with Nick goes deep. We explore how animals reflect our inner world, how plant medicine helped awaken his psychic abilities, and why intention is everything when it comes to connection. We also dive into the impact of technology and AI on human intuition and the importance of reconnecting with ourselves in a noisy world. If you're curious about what your pet might be trying to tell you—or how to trust your own inner voice again—you’ll want to hear this.</p><p>Chapters: <br />00:00 Introduction to Animal Communication<br />02:28 Nick's Journey into Plant Medicine<br />05:24 Experiencing Consciousness and Integration<br />08:07 The Awakening of Intuitive Abilities<br />10:57 Connecting with Animals: The First Experiences<br />14:17 The Process of Animal Communication<br />16:56 Understanding Animal Behavior and Communication<br />19:27 Mirroring Behavior in Pets<br />22:23 Case Studies: Insights from Animal Readings<br />25:29 Trusting Intuition in Animal Communication<br />28:21 The Spectrum of Animal Consciousness<br />31:09 The Role of Personality and Higher Self<br />34:11 Conclusion: A New Perspective on Pets<br />38:11 Awakening Consciousness<br />40:19 The Power of Thoughts<br />43:17 Intuition and Self-Discovery<br />46:13 Navigating Challenges in Communication<br />48:52 The Role of Technology in Our Lives<br />54:21 Trusting Inner Guidance</p><p>Nick's Resources:<br />https://mycatschooledme.com/<br />https://instagram.com/mycatschooledme</p><p>Schedule a reading with Nick and use code "Abby" at checkout for 15% off your purchase!</p><p><br /></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 7 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>abby@abbyhavermann.com (Abby Havermann)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nick is a plant medicine enthusiast, psychic animal communicator, & intuition coach. He had his first psychic and psychedelic experiences in his early 20s. It took nearly 25 years for those kinds of experiences to resurface again. In fact, much of his adult life was what most people would consider “normal”. That changed when Nick started exploring consciousness with plant medicine & a spiritual teacher. A connection opened that continued to grow and evolve. He went to a psychic medium who told him he would communicate with animals, and it would be easy. After a few false starts, she was right. </p><p><br />Animal communication, intuition, and emotional mirroring—this conversation with Nick goes deep. We explore how animals reflect our inner world, how plant medicine helped awaken his psychic abilities, and why intention is everything when it comes to connection. We also dive into the impact of technology and AI on human intuition and the importance of reconnecting with ourselves in a noisy world. If you're curious about what your pet might be trying to tell you—or how to trust your own inner voice again—you’ll want to hear this.</p><p>Chapters: <br />00:00 Introduction to Animal Communication<br />02:28 Nick's Journey into Plant Medicine<br />05:24 Experiencing Consciousness and Integration<br />08:07 The Awakening of Intuitive Abilities<br />10:57 Connecting with Animals: The First Experiences<br />14:17 The Process of Animal Communication<br />16:56 Understanding Animal Behavior and Communication<br />19:27 Mirroring Behavior in Pets<br />22:23 Case Studies: Insights from Animal Readings<br />25:29 Trusting Intuition in Animal Communication<br />28:21 The Spectrum of Animal Consciousness<br />31:09 The Role of Personality and Higher Self<br />34:11 Conclusion: A New Perspective on Pets<br />38:11 Awakening Consciousness<br />40:19 The Power of Thoughts<br />43:17 Intuition and Self-Discovery<br />46:13 Navigating Challenges in Communication<br />48:52 The Role of Technology in Our Lives<br />54:21 Trusting Inner Guidance</p><p>Nick's Resources:<br />https://mycatschooledme.com/<br />https://instagram.com/mycatschooledme</p><p>Schedule a reading with Nick and use code "Abby" at checkout for 15% off your purchase!</p><p><br /></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>#52 Nick Musica - Animal Communication and Spiritual Awakening: What Your Pet is Really Telling You</itunes:title>
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      <title>Monday Muse #36 - The Hidden Burnout of High Performance: Why Self Improvement Isn&apos;t Working</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>If you're on a self-improvement journey but still battling burnout, self-doubt, or a restless mindset, this episode is for you. We’re talking growth mindset, inner peace, and nervous system regulation—not as strategies to master, but as invitations to stop performing and start listening.</p><p>You’ll hear why high performance often comes at the cost of presence, how our desire to fix ourselves actually delays healing, and how to tell when your soul is leading vs. your fear. I’ll also walk you through three powerful shifts to break the cycle of overachieving and drop into soul-led leadership.</p><p>Chapters:<br />00:00 The Struggle of Growth-Minded Leaders<br />01:01 Unpacking the Hidden Traps in Personal Growth<br />05:22 Shifting from Overachievement to Inner Knowing</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>Saboteur Assessment: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/get-your-saboteur-assessment</p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 4 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>abby@abbyhavermann.com (Abby Havermann)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If you're on a self-improvement journey but still battling burnout, self-doubt, or a restless mindset, this episode is for you. We’re talking growth mindset, inner peace, and nervous system regulation—not as strategies to master, but as invitations to stop performing and start listening.</p><p>You’ll hear why high performance often comes at the cost of presence, how our desire to fix ourselves actually delays healing, and how to tell when your soul is leading vs. your fear. I’ll also walk you through three powerful shifts to break the cycle of overachieving and drop into soul-led leadership.</p><p>Chapters:<br />00:00 The Struggle of Growth-Minded Leaders<br />01:01 Unpacking the Hidden Traps in Personal Growth<br />05:22 Shifting from Overachievement to Inner Knowing</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>Saboteur Assessment: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/get-your-saboteur-assessment</p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>Monday Muse #36 - The Hidden Burnout of High Performance: Why Self Improvement Isn&apos;t Working</itunes:title>
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      <title>Monday Muse #35 - From Self Sabotage To Authentic Power: Rewire Your Stress Response</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Learn how survival mode hijacks your clarity, creativity, and confidence—and how to shift into aligned, soul-led action.</p><p>In this episode, I unpack how your nervous system quietly runs the show behind the scenes—kicking up fear, shrinking your voice, and calling the shots on everything from boundaries to big moves. I’ll show you how to spot the signs, calm the system, and start making decisions from your Soul Signal instead of your survival brain.</p><p>00:00 Understanding the Nervous System's Role in Success<br />02:33 The Impact of Childhood Experiences on Adult Behavior<br />05:34 Accessing Your Authentic Power<br />08:25 Practical Strategies for Managing Your Nervous System</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>Saboteur Assessment: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/get-your-saboteur-assessment</p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 28 Jul 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <pubDate>Thu, 24 Jul 2025 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Learn how self- betrayal shows up in your decision making, energy, and team and workplace dynamics. How it can also impact your creativity, innovation and your vision for your legacy. </p><p>Indecision, people-pleasing, self-doubt, and impostor syndrome are costing your business and relationships more than you realize. This video shares the innovation, culture, energy tax, and more that you pay for self-betrayal. I'll share tips and a self-assessment to help you identify where you're out of alignment with your values, purpose, and inner truth. </p><p>Chatpers:<br />00:00 Understanding Self-Betrayal and Its Costs<br />05:19 Calculating the Cost of Self-Betrayal<br />09:47 Transforming Through Authentic Leadership</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>#SelfBetrayal #AuthenticLeadership #PersonalGrowth #IntuitionIncubator #AbbyHavermann #EmotionalIntelligence #InnerWisdom #LegacyWork #LeadershipDevelopment #EnergyAlignment #CreativeLeadership #ConsciousBusiness</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Jul 2025 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Feeling empty despite achieving goals? I explore why outer success doesn't always equal self fulfillment. Learn to reconnect with your higher self and discover the path to true inner peace. It's time to prioritize mindfulness and embark on a journey of self exploration.</p><p>🔑 Learn how to identify the signs of living on autopilot<br />💡 Discover what your <em>Soul ID</em> is—and why it matters<br />✨ Explore how to shift from external validation to inner alignment<br />📖 Hear personal stories that reveal what it really means to wake up to your life</p><p>Whether you’re feeling stuck, burnt out, or just disconnected, this episode offers soul-level insight for those ready to live with intention, purpose, and authenticity</p><p>00:00 The Illusion of Outer Success<br />03:03 Understanding Sophisticated Sleepwalking<br />05:48 Reconnecting with Your Soul ID<br />09:12 The Power of Presence and Authenticity</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br />​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries<br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
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      <title>#50 Rollin McCraty, Executive Director of HeartMath On the Science of Boosting Intuition and Emotional Intelligence</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Rollin McCraty, Ph.D., is Director of Research of the HeartMath Research Center at the HeartMath Institute. As a psycho-physiologist, Dr. McCraty’s research interests include the physiology of emotion, heart-brain communication, and the global interconnectivity between people and the earth’s energetic systems. Findings from this research have been applied to the development of tools and technology to optimize individual and organizational health, intuition, performance, and quality of life. Dr. McCraty has acted as Principal Investigator in numerous studies examining the effects of emotions on heart–brain interactions and on autonomic, cardiovascular, hormonal, and immune system function, and outcome studies to determine the benefits of positive emotion-focused interventions and heart rhythm coherence feedback in diverse organizational, educational, and various clinical populations. He has been featured in a number of documentary films such as I am, The Truth, The Power of the Heart, Solar Revolution, The Way of Miracles, Cosmic Sentience, The 1-Field, Sacred Journey of the Heart, Rescued Hearts, and The Living Matrix, among many others.<strong><br /></strong><br />In this episode, Dr. Rollin McCraty, Director of Research at <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@HeartMathInstitute">‪@HeartMathInstitute</a>,‬ joins to explore the fascinating science of the heart-brain connection and heart-brain coherence. Learn about the mind body connection, how heart focus affects our emotions, and how it all connects to the Earth's energy. Discover the quick coherence technique to regulate the autonomic nervous system.</p><p>Together, we dive into:<br /> 🔹 The role of emotional intelligence in consciousness<br /> 🔹 How self-judgment blocks intuition<br /> 🔹 The Global Coherence Initiative and humanity's energetic connection to Earth<br /> 🔹 Practical HeartMath tools for achieving coherence<br /> 🔹 The real, measurable impact of our emotional states on the world around us</p><p>If you've ever wondered how to live more connected, conscious, and intuitively aligned—this episode is for you.</p><p>✨ Full of science-backed insights, personal stories, and practical guidance, this conversation bridges the gap between research and lived experience.</p><p><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LleYT3bVQag">00:00</a> Introduction to HeartMath and Dr. McCraty<br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LleYT3bVQag&t=162s">02:42</a> Personal Journey and Career Path<br /><a 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Intuition<br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LleYT3bVQag&t=1736s">28:56</a> Understanding Heart Coherence<br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LleYT3bVQag&t=1829s">30:29</a> The Role of Self-Judgment and Shame<br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LleYT3bVQag&t=1991s">33:11</a> The Impact of Judgment and Comparison<br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LleYT3bVQag&t=2173s">36:13</a> The Shift in Collective Consciousness<br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LleYT3bVQag&t=2345s">39:05</a> Love as a Transformative Force<br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LleYT3bVQag&t=2575s">42:55</a> Upgrading the Mind's Operating System<br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LleYT3bVQag&t=2882s">48:02</a> Harnessing Heart Coherence<br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LleYT3bVQag&t=3093s">51:33</a> The Magnetic Field of the Heart<br /><a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LleYT3bVQag&t=3294s">54:54</a> Feeding the Field: 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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rollin McCraty, Ph.D., is Director of Research of the HeartMath Research Center at the HeartMath Institute. As a psycho-physiologist, Dr. McCraty’s research interests include the physiology of emotion, heart-brain communication, and the global interconnectivity between people and the earth’s energetic systems. Findings from this research have been applied to the development of tools and technology to optimize individual and organizational health, intuition, performance, and quality of life. Dr. McCraty has acted as Principal Investigator in numerous studies examining the effects of emotions on heart–brain interactions and on autonomic, cardiovascular, hormonal, and immune system function, and outcome studies to determine the benefits of positive emotion-focused interventions and heart rhythm coherence feedback in diverse organizational, educational, and various clinical populations. He has been featured in a number of documentary films such as I am, The Truth, The Power of the Heart, Solar Revolution, The Way of Miracles, Cosmic Sentience, The 1-Field, Sacred Journey of the Heart, Rescued Hearts, and The Living Matrix, among many others.<strong><br /></strong><br />In this episode, Dr. Rollin McCraty, Director of Research at <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@HeartMathInstitute">‪@HeartMathInstitute</a>,‬ joins to explore the fascinating science of the heart-brain connection and heart-brain coherence. Learn about the mind body connection, how heart focus affects our emotions, and how it all connects to the Earth's energy. 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      <itunes:title>#50 Rollin McCraty, Executive Director of HeartMath On the Science of Boosting Intuition and Emotional Intelligence</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>Rollin McCraty, Ph.D., is Director of Research of the HeartMath Research Center at the HeartMath Institute. As a psycho-physiologist, Dr. McCraty’s research interests include the physiology of emotion, heart-brain communication, and the global interconnectivity between people and the earth’s energetic systems. Findings from this research have been applied to the development of tools and technology to optimize individual and organizational health, intuition, performance, and quality of life. Dr. McCraty has acted as Principal Investigator in numerous studies examining the effects of emotions on heart–brain interactions and on autonomic, cardiovascular, hormonal, and immune system function, and outcome studies to determine the benefits of positive emotion-focused interventions and heart rhythm coherence feedback in diverse organizational, educational, and various clinical populations. He has been featured in a number of documentary films such as I am, The Truth, The Power of the Heart, Solar Revolution, The Way of Miracles, Cosmic Sentience, The 1-Field, Sacred Journey of the Heart, Rescued Hearts, and The Living Matrix, among many others.In this episode, Dr. Rollin McCraty, Director of Research at ‪@HeartMathInstitute,‬ joins to explore the fascinating science of the heart-brain connection and heart-brain coherence. Learn about the mind body connection, how heart focus affects our emotions, and how it all connects to the Earth&apos;s energy. Discover the quick coherence technique to regulate the autonomic nervous system.Together, we dive into: 🔹 The role of emotional intelligence in consciousness 🔹 How self-judgment blocks intuition 🔹 The Global Coherence Initiative and humanity&apos;s energetic connection to Earth 🔹 Practical HeartMath tools for achieving coherence 🔹 The real, measurable impact of our emotional states on the world around usIf you&apos;ve ever wondered how to live more connected, conscious, and intuitively aligned—this episode is for you.✨ Full of science-backed insights, personal stories, and practical guidance, this conversation bridges the gap between research and lived experience.00:00 Introduction to HeartMath and Dr. McCraty02:42 Personal Journey and Career Path05:22 The Science of Heart-Brain Communication07:54 Intuition and Higher Consciousness10:47 Research on Non-Local Intuition13:23 The Role of the Heart in Intuition16:10 Emotional Systems and Human Behavior18:54 The Shift in Human Consciousness24:48 The Power of Surrendering the Mind25:22 Intuition and the Heart&apos;s Connection26:35 The Journey of Following Intuition28:56 Understanding Heart Coherence30:29 The Role of Self-Judgment and Shame33:11 The Impact of Judgment and Comparison36:13 The Shift in Collective Consciousness39:05 Love as a Transformative Force42:55 Upgrading the Mind&apos;s Operating System48:02 Harnessing Heart Coherence51:33 The Magnetic Field of the Heart54:54 Feeding the Field: Emotional Impact58:18 Global Coherence Initiative01:02:31 Resonance and Connection01:06:58 The Power of Love and CompassionGuest Resources:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rollinmccraty/Rollin&apos;s Books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B01HQLI2R8Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-s...👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#HeartMath #Intuition #HeartCoherence #GlobalConsciousness #EmotionalIntelligence #SpiritualGrowth #AbbyHavermann #RollinMcCraty #IntuitionIncubator</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Rollin McCraty, Ph.D., is Director of Research of the HeartMath Research Center at the HeartMath Institute. As a psycho-physiologist, Dr. McCraty’s research interests include the physiology of emotion, heart-brain communication, and the global interconnectivity between people and the earth’s energetic systems. Findings from this research have been applied to the development of tools and technology to optimize individual and organizational health, intuition, performance, and quality of life. Dr. McCraty has acted as Principal Investigator in numerous studies examining the effects of emotions on heart–brain interactions and on autonomic, cardiovascular, hormonal, and immune system function, and outcome studies to determine the benefits of positive emotion-focused interventions and heart rhythm coherence feedback in diverse organizational, educational, and various clinical populations. He has been featured in a number of documentary films such as I am, The Truth, The Power of the Heart, Solar Revolution, The Way of Miracles, Cosmic Sentience, The 1-Field, Sacred Journey of the Heart, Rescued Hearts, and The Living Matrix, among many others.In this episode, Dr. Rollin McCraty, Director of Research at ‪@HeartMathInstitute,‬ joins to explore the fascinating science of the heart-brain connection and heart-brain coherence. Learn about the mind body connection, how heart focus affects our emotions, and how it all connects to the Earth&apos;s energy. Discover the quick coherence technique to regulate the autonomic nervous system.Together, we dive into: 🔹 The role of emotional intelligence in consciousness 🔹 How self-judgment blocks intuition 🔹 The Global Coherence Initiative and humanity&apos;s energetic connection to Earth 🔹 Practical HeartMath tools for achieving coherence 🔹 The real, measurable impact of our emotional states on the world around usIf you&apos;ve ever wondered how to live more connected, conscious, and intuitively aligned—this episode is for you.✨ Full of science-backed insights, personal stories, and practical guidance, this conversation bridges the gap between research and lived experience.00:00 Introduction to HeartMath and Dr. McCraty02:42 Personal Journey and Career Path05:22 The Science of Heart-Brain Communication07:54 Intuition and Higher Consciousness10:47 Research on Non-Local Intuition13:23 The Role of the Heart in Intuition16:10 Emotional Systems and Human Behavior18:54 The Shift in Human Consciousness24:48 The Power of Surrendering the Mind25:22 Intuition and the Heart&apos;s Connection26:35 The Journey of Following Intuition28:56 Understanding Heart Coherence30:29 The Role of Self-Judgment and Shame33:11 The Impact of Judgment and Comparison36:13 The Shift in Collective Consciousness39:05 Love as a Transformative Force42:55 Upgrading the Mind&apos;s Operating System48:02 Harnessing Heart Coherence51:33 The Magnetic Field of the Heart54:54 Feeding the Field: Emotional Impact58:18 Global Coherence Initiative01:02:31 Resonance and Connection01:06:58 The Power of Love and CompassionGuest Resources:LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rollinmccraty/Rollin&apos;s Books: https://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B01HQLI2R8Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-s...👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#HeartMath #Intuition #HeartCoherence #GlobalConsciousness #EmotionalIntelligence #SpiritualGrowth #AbbyHavermann #RollinMcCraty #IntuitionIncubator</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>#49 Eric Tarlin From The Band Couch On Intuition, Passion, And The Creative Process</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Eric Tarlin is a singer, songwriter, multi-instrumentalist, and producer from Framingham, MA. He graduated from Harvard University, where he studied music and psychology as a member of the Berklee College of Music Dual Degree program.</p><p>Eric is a songwriter, producer, and a touring saxophonist with pop band Couch. He’s also garnered numerous accolades for his vocal arrangements as a member of the Harvard Opportunes and the Hyannis Sound, a professional a cappella group on Cape Cod. Eric also directs a rock choir in Brookline, MA, and works as a music producer and audio engineer for other musical artists.</p><p><br />What if your inner voice was the key to unlocking your greatest creative breakthroughs? Join us for an inspiring conversation with <a href="https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC1dfJH0uqHavNCef3nC8HbQ"> @erictarlin8320 </a>, talented musician and member of the rising band <a href="https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCYOcJ00IMsyv_h9SFtA9EJg"> @couchtheband </a>, as he opens up about his musical journey and the deep role intuition plays in his creative process. Discover how following passion and trusting your instincts can shape an artistic career and fuel authentic expression.</p><p>In this episode, Eric shares:<br /> ✅ The evolution of his band and musical style<br /> ✅ Challenges in songwriting, production, and live performance<br /> ✅ How being present in the moment transforms creativity<br /> ✅ Life-changing lessons about trust, timing, and saying “yes”</p><p>Whether you're a musician, creative, or simply curious about the artistry behind music, this episode offers valuable insights on harnessing intuition and staying true to your path.</p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/erictarlin?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=NWU1czM4ZnlmZ3Az">https://www.instagram.com/erictarlin?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=NWU1czM4ZnlmZ3Az</a></p><p>Tiktok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@erictarlin?_t=ZP-8xcu7hsSeJ4&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@erictarlin?_t=ZP-8xcu7hsSeJ4&_r=1</a></p><p>Couch Headline Tour: https://www.couchtheband.com/tickets</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Eric Tarlin<br />02:14 The Journey to Music<br />07:59 The Role of Intuition in Music<br />13:04 The Impact of Video Games on Creativity<br />17:14 Collaboration and Intuition in Couch<br />21:00 The Evolution of Songwriting<br />25:04 Creative Flow and Frustration<br />28:40 Intuition vs. Collaboration in Music<br />32:55 Touring and Audience Engagement<br />35:26 The Journey Begins: Early Performances and Connections<br />37:07 Navigating Emotions on Stage: The Power of Music<br />43:01 The Creative Process: Knowing When a Song is Finished<br />46:11 Collaboration vs. Solo Work: The Balance of Intuition<br />49:15 The Role of a Music Producer: From Concept to Completion<br />51:05 Intuition in Life Decisions: Beyond Music<br />01:00:05 Life Lessons: Embracing Uncertainty and Following Passion</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br />#MusicJourney #SongwritingProcess #CreativeFlow #MusicProduction #LivePerformance #MusicianLife #ArtistInterview #MusicInspiration #BandLife #FollowYourPassion #TrustYourInstincts #CreativeProcess #BePresent #ArtisticJourney #InnerVoice #PassionProject #MindfulCreativity #PodcastEpisode #MusicPodcast #CreativeMindset #InspirationDaily #Storytelling #Intuition</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Eric Tarlin is a singer, songwriter, multi-instrumentalist, and producer from Framingham, MA. He graduated from Harvard University, where he studied music and psychology as a member of the Berklee College of Music Dual Degree program.</p><p>Eric is a songwriter, producer, and a touring saxophonist with pop band Couch. He’s also garnered numerous accolades for his vocal arrangements as a member of the Harvard Opportunes and the Hyannis Sound, a professional a cappella group on Cape Cod. Eric also directs a rock choir in Brookline, MA, and works as a music producer and audio engineer for other musical artists.</p><p><br />What if your inner voice was the key to unlocking your greatest creative breakthroughs? Join us for an inspiring conversation with <a href="https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UC1dfJH0uqHavNCef3nC8HbQ"> @erictarlin8320 </a>, talented musician and member of the rising band <a href="https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCYOcJ00IMsyv_h9SFtA9EJg"> @couchtheband </a>, as he opens up about his musical journey and the deep role intuition plays in his creative process. Discover how following passion and trusting your instincts can shape an artistic career and fuel authentic expression.</p><p>In this episode, Eric shares:<br /> ✅ The evolution of his band and musical style<br /> ✅ Challenges in songwriting, production, and live performance<br /> ✅ How being present in the moment transforms creativity<br /> ✅ Life-changing lessons about trust, timing, and saying “yes”</p><p>Whether you're a musician, creative, or simply curious about the artistry behind music, this episode offers valuable insights on harnessing intuition and staying true to your path.</p><p>Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/erictarlin?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=NWU1czM4ZnlmZ3Az">https://www.instagram.com/erictarlin?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet&igsh=NWU1czM4ZnlmZ3Az</a></p><p>Tiktok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@erictarlin?_t=ZP-8xcu7hsSeJ4&_r=1">https://www.tiktok.com/@erictarlin?_t=ZP-8xcu7hsSeJ4&_r=1</a></p><p>Couch Headline Tour: https://www.couchtheband.com/tickets</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Eric Tarlin<br />02:14 The Journey to Music<br />07:59 The Role of Intuition in Music<br />13:04 The Impact of Video Games on Creativity<br />17:14 Collaboration and Intuition in Couch<br />21:00 The Evolution of Songwriting<br />25:04 Creative Flow and Frustration<br />28:40 Intuition vs. Collaboration in Music<br />32:55 Touring and Audience Engagement<br />35:26 The Journey Begins: Early Performances and Connections<br />37:07 Navigating Emotions on Stage: The Power of Music<br />43:01 The Creative Process: Knowing When a Song is Finished<br />46:11 Collaboration vs. Solo Work: The Balance of Intuition<br />49:15 The Role of a Music Producer: From Concept to Completion<br />51:05 Intuition in Life Decisions: Beyond Music<br />01:00:05 Life Lessons: Embracing Uncertainty and Following Passion</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br />#MusicJourney #SongwritingProcess #CreativeFlow #MusicProduction #LivePerformance #MusicianLife #ArtistInterview #MusicInspiration #BandLife #FollowYourPassion #TrustYourInstincts #CreativeProcess #BePresent #ArtisticJourney #InnerVoice #PassionProject #MindfulCreativity #PodcastEpisode #MusicPodcast #CreativeMindset #InspirationDaily #Storytelling #Intuition</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>In this Monday Muse I dive deep into the hidden role guilt plays in holding us back from personal growth and self-awareness. If you’ve ever felt stuck, weighed down by guilt, or unable to move forward, this conversation will help you shift your mindset and break the cycle.</p><p>You’ll discover:<br />✅ Why guilt is often a mental trap, not a moral compass<br />✅ How guilt keeps us from true responsibility and healing<br />✅ The addictive nature of guilt and how to release it<br />✅ Steps to reclaim your inner power and focus on what really matters</p><p>Whether you're on a healing journey, exploring inner work, or just tired of carrying the emotional weight, this episode will leave you feeling empowered and more in control of your thoughts.</p><p>00:00 Understanding Self-Awareness and Obstacles<br />00:23 The Mind's Role in Resilience<br />02:19 The Guilt Trap: How It Holds Us Back<br />05:00 Recognizing the Cycle of Guilt<br />07:32 Breaking Free from Guilt's Grip<br />10:15 Embracing Humanity and Moving Forward</p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 30 Jun 2025 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this Monday Muse I dive deep into the hidden role guilt plays in holding us back from personal growth and self-awareness. If you’ve ever felt stuck, weighed down by guilt, or unable to move forward, this conversation will help you shift your mindset and break the cycle.</p><p>You’ll discover:<br />✅ Why guilt is often a mental trap, not a moral compass<br />✅ How guilt keeps us from true responsibility and healing<br />✅ The addictive nature of guilt and how to release it<br />✅ Steps to reclaim your inner power and focus on what really matters</p><p>Whether you're on a healing journey, exploring inner work, or just tired of carrying the emotional weight, this episode will leave you feeling empowered and more in control of your thoughts.</p><p>00:00 Understanding Self-Awareness and Obstacles<br />00:23 The Mind's Role in Resilience<br />02:19 The Guilt Trap: How It Holds Us Back<br />05:00 Recognizing the Cycle of Guilt<br />07:32 Breaking Free from Guilt's Grip<br />10:15 Embracing Humanity and Moving Forward</p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>In this Monday Muse I dive deep into the hidden role guilt plays in holding us back from personal growth and self-awareness. If you’ve ever felt stuck, weighed down by guilt, or unable to move forward, this conversation will help you shift your mindset and break the cycle.You’ll discover:✅ Why guilt is often a mental trap, not a moral compass✅ How guilt keeps us from true responsibility and healing✅ The addictive nature of guilt and how to release it✅ Steps to reclaim your inner power and focus on what really mattersWhether you&apos;re on a healing journey, exploring inner work, or just tired of carrying the emotional weight, this episode will leave you feeling empowered and more in control of your thoughts.00:00 Understanding Self-Awareness and Obstacles00:23 The Mind&apos;s Role in Resilience02:19 The Guilt Trap: How It Holds Us Back05:00 Recognizing the Cycle of Guilt07:32 Breaking Free from Guilt&apos;s Grip10:15 Embracing Humanity and Moving Forward​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speakingFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann</itunes:summary>
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      <title>#48 Dr Aumatma Simmons On What Your Body&apos;s Been Trying To Tell You About Fertility Wellness</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Aumatma is a double board-certified Naturopathic Endocrinologist, in practice for close to 20 years. Dr. Aumatma founded the Holistic Fertility Institute to support badass power couples (C-Suite execs, Entrepreneurs, and multi-passionate people) to create the family of their dreams. Dr Aumatma also trains doctors who want to specialize in holistic fertility. She is the best-selling author of "Fertility Secrets: What Your Doctor Didn't Tell You About Baby-Making.” </p><p><br />Discover how fertility, intuition, and ancestral healing are deeply connected in this powerful conversation with renowned holistic fertility expert <a href="https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCMP77MuyfkTSvN-6X8kopCA"> @HolisticFertilityDoctor</a> . In this episode, Dr. Aumatma shares her profound shift from conventional medicine to an integrative, soul-centered approach to fertility and well-being.</p><p>✨ Learn how a year of silence transformed her perspective<br /> 🌀 Explore how ancestral trauma impacts fertility and health<br /> 🧠 Tap into your inner wisdom and intuitive healing<br /> 🧴 Get practical detox and wellness tips for a fertile body and life<br /> 💼 Hear how to lead a fertile business aligned with your truth</p><p>Whether you're on a fertility journey, building a conscious business, or deepening your self-awareness, this episode offers inspiration, guidance, and grounded wisdom.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Dr. Aumatma Shah-Simmons<br />01:26 Dr. Aumatma's Journey: From Expectations to Intuition<br />10:20 The Year of Silence: A Transformative Experience<br />20:55 Navigating Personal Challenges: A Mother's Cancer Journey<br />25:26 The Shift to Fertility: Understanding Health and Prevention<br />30:48 Understanding Fertility and Cancer Risk<br />34:06 Detoxing from Toxins: A Path to Health<br />47:24 Creating a Fertile Life and Business<br />51:11 Listening to Your Body: The Emotional Connection<br />56:06 Listening to Intuition Before Marriage<br />01:00:01 The Journey to Self-Discovery and Divorce<br />01:02:22 Exploring Fertility and Intuition<br />01:06:47 Ancestral Trauma and Healing<br />01:11:53 The Power of Intuition in Healing<br />01:15:05 Empowering Yourself Through Intuition</p><p><strong>Guest Resources |</strong></p>Instagram: @holisticfertilitydoctor<br />Facebook: Facebook.com/DrAumatmaND<br />Youtube: <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fc%2FHolisticFertilityExpert&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=bb0b3947327b3ea50c1f578d0ac1141d94554eed94e17264b8deff9d8a072f82">https://www.youtube.com/c/HolisticFertilityExpert</a><br />TT: @holisticfertilitydoctor<br />LinkedIn: <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.linkedin.com%2Fin%2Faushah%2F&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=fdab5b7db41f232beab7fe2b76316f00f394732ebf117c58c89c990ba988333c">https://www.linkedin.com/in/aushah/</a><br />Website: <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fholisticfertilityinstitute.com%2F&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=143632b8cdb286aa2e585c07f1c10f8522375be3036f11b9105f52cf86c6cdcb">https://holisticfertilityinstitute.com/</a><p><br /></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br /><strong>#FertilityHealth #HolisticHealing #DrAumatma #AncestralHealing #IntuitiveLiving #WomenWellness #FertilityJourney #DetoxTips #MindBodyConnection #FunctionalMedicine #ReproductiveHealth #YearOfSilence #HealFromWithin #WombWisdom #ConsciousLiving</strong></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 25 Jun 2025 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Aumatma is a double board-certified Naturopathic Endocrinologist, in practice for close to 20 years. Dr. Aumatma founded the Holistic Fertility Institute to support badass power couples (C-Suite execs, Entrepreneurs, and multi-passionate people) to create the family of their dreams. Dr Aumatma also trains doctors who want to specialize in holistic fertility. She is the best-selling author of "Fertility Secrets: What Your Doctor Didn't Tell You About Baby-Making.” </p><p><br />Discover how fertility, intuition, and ancestral healing are deeply connected in this powerful conversation with renowned holistic fertility expert <a href="https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCMP77MuyfkTSvN-6X8kopCA"> @HolisticFertilityDoctor</a> . In this episode, Dr. Aumatma shares her profound shift from conventional medicine to an integrative, soul-centered approach to fertility and well-being.</p><p>✨ Learn how a year of silence transformed her perspective<br /> 🌀 Explore how ancestral trauma impacts fertility and health<br /> 🧠 Tap into your inner wisdom and intuitive healing<br /> 🧴 Get practical detox and wellness tips for a fertile body and life<br /> 💼 Hear how to lead a fertile business aligned with your truth</p><p>Whether you're on a fertility journey, building a conscious business, or deepening your self-awareness, this episode offers inspiration, guidance, and grounded wisdom.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Dr. Aumatma Shah-Simmons<br />01:26 Dr. Aumatma's Journey: From Expectations to Intuition<br />10:20 The Year of Silence: A Transformative Experience<br />20:55 Navigating Personal Challenges: A Mother's Cancer Journey<br />25:26 The Shift to Fertility: Understanding Health and Prevention<br />30:48 Understanding Fertility and Cancer Risk<br />34:06 Detoxing from Toxins: A Path to Health<br />47:24 Creating a Fertile Life and Business<br />51:11 Listening to Your Body: The Emotional Connection<br />56:06 Listening to Intuition Before Marriage<br />01:00:01 The Journey to Self-Discovery and Divorce<br />01:02:22 Exploring Fertility and Intuition<br />01:06:47 Ancestral Trauma and Healing<br />01:11:53 The Power of Intuition in Healing<br />01:15:05 Empowering Yourself Through Intuition</p><p><strong>Guest Resources |</strong></p>Instagram: @holisticfertilitydoctor<br />Facebook: Facebook.com/DrAumatmaND<br />Youtube: <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fc%2FHolisticFertilityExpert&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=bb0b3947327b3ea50c1f578d0ac1141d94554eed94e17264b8deff9d8a072f82">https://www.youtube.com/c/HolisticFertilityExpert</a><br />TT: @holisticfertilitydoctor<br />LinkedIn: <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.linkedin.com%2Fin%2Faushah%2F&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=fdab5b7db41f232beab7fe2b76316f00f394732ebf117c58c89c990ba988333c">https://www.linkedin.com/in/aushah/</a><br />Website: <a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fholisticfertilityinstitute.com%2F&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=143632b8cdb286aa2e585c07f1c10f8522375be3036f11b9105f52cf86c6cdcb">https://holisticfertilityinstitute.com/</a><p><br /></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br /><strong>#FertilityHealth #HolisticHealing #DrAumatma #AncestralHealing #IntuitiveLiving #WomenWellness #FertilityJourney #DetoxTips #MindBodyConnection #FunctionalMedicine #ReproductiveHealth #YearOfSilence #HealFromWithin #WombWisdom #ConsciousLiving</strong></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>Dr. Aumatma is a double board-certified Naturopathic Endocrinologist, in practice for close to 20 years. Dr. Aumatma founded the Holistic Fertility Institute to support badass power couples (C-Suite execs, Entrepreneurs, and multi-passionate people) to create the family of their dreams. Dr Aumatma also trains doctors who want to specialize in holistic fertility. She is the best-selling author of &quot;Fertility Secrets: What Your Doctor Didn&apos;t Tell You About Baby-Making.” Discover how fertility, intuition, and ancestral healing are deeply connected in this powerful conversation with renowned holistic fertility expert  @HolisticFertilityDoctor . In this episode, Dr. Aumatma shares her profound shift from conventional medicine to an integrative, soul-centered approach to fertility and well-being.✨ Learn how a year of silence transformed her perspective 🌀 Explore how ancestral trauma impacts fertility and health 🧠 Tap into your inner wisdom and intuitive healing 🧴 Get practical detox and wellness tips for a fertile body and life 💼 Hear how to lead a fertile business aligned with your truthWhether you&apos;re on a fertility journey, building a conscious business, or deepening your self-awareness, this episode offers inspiration, guidance, and grounded wisdom.00:00 Introduction to Dr. Aumatma Shah-Simmons01:26 Dr. Aumatma&apos;s Journey: From Expectations to Intuition10:20 The Year of Silence: A Transformative Experience20:55 Navigating Personal Challenges: A Mother&apos;s Cancer Journey25:26 The Shift to Fertility: Understanding Health and Prevention30:48 Understanding Fertility and Cancer Risk34:06 Detoxing from Toxins: A Path to Health47:24 Creating a Fertile Life and Business51:11 Listening to Your Body: The Emotional Connection56:06 Listening to Intuition Before Marriage01:00:01 The Journey to Self-Discovery and Divorce01:02:22 Exploring Fertility and Intuition01:06:47 Ancestral Trauma and Healing01:11:53 The Power of Intuition in Healing01:15:05 Empowering Yourself Through IntuitionGuest Resources |Instagram: @holisticfertilitydoctorFacebook: Facebook.com/DrAumatmaNDYoutube: https://www.youtube.com/c/HolisticFertilityExpertTT: @holisticfertilitydoctorLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aushah/Website: https://holisticfertilityinstitute.com/Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#FertilityHealth #HolisticHealing #DrAumatma #AncestralHealing #IntuitiveLiving #WomenWellness #FertilityJourney #DetoxTips #MindBodyConnection #FunctionalMedicine #ReproductiveHealth #YearOfSilence #HealFromWithin #WombWisdom #ConsciousLiving</itunes:summary>
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      <title>Monday Muse #31 - Why Fighting Your Bad Parts Makes Them Stronger</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>What if your most undesirable traits held the key to your brilliance?</p><p>In this week’s Monday Muse, we delve into the powerful practice of embracing and transforming the “unwanted” parts of ourselves. Instead of resisting or denying them, Abby shares how honoring and integrating these inner parts can unlock deep self-awareness, personal power, and authentic success—both in life and business.</p><p>🔍 Learn how your personality parts serve vital roles, and how working with them—rather than against them—leads to greater resilience, confidence, and clarity.</p><p>🎯 This episode is for anyone on a journey of personal development, emotional mastery, or leadership growth.</p><p>00:00 Unlocking Your Brilliance<br />00:45 Transforming Self-Criticism into Strengths<br />03:45 Honoring and Feeding Your Parts<br />06:06 Working with Your Parts, Not Against Them<br />06:57 Understanding the Deeper Psychology Behind Parts</p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>Saboteur Assessment: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/get-your-saboteur-assessment</p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>#SelfAwareness #ShadowWork #InnerHealing #PersonalDevelopment #EmotionalIntelligence #MondayMuse #AbbyHavermann #LeadershipDevelopment #MindsetShift #AuthenticSuccess #Transformation #InnerWork #ConsciousLeadership #LifeCoaching #SpiritualGrowth</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2025 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What if your most undesirable traits held the key to your brilliance?</p><p>In this week’s Monday Muse, we delve into the powerful practice of embracing and transforming the “unwanted” parts of ourselves. Instead of resisting or denying them, Abby shares how honoring and integrating these inner parts can unlock deep self-awareness, personal power, and authentic success—both in life and business.</p><p>🔍 Learn how your personality parts serve vital roles, and how working with them—rather than against them—leads to greater resilience, confidence, and clarity.</p><p>🎯 This episode is for anyone on a journey of personal development, emotional mastery, or leadership growth.</p><p>00:00 Unlocking Your Brilliance<br />00:45 Transforming Self-Criticism into Strengths<br />03:45 Honoring and Feeding Your Parts<br />06:06 Working with Your Parts, Not Against Them<br />06:57 Understanding the Deeper Psychology Behind Parts</p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>Saboteur Assessment: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/get-your-saboteur-assessment</p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>#SelfAwareness #ShadowWork #InnerHealing #PersonalDevelopment #EmotionalIntelligence #MondayMuse #AbbyHavermann #LeadershipDevelopment #MindsetShift #AuthenticSuccess #Transformation #InnerWork #ConsciousLeadership #LifeCoaching #SpiritualGrowth</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>Monday Muse #31 - Why Fighting Your Bad Parts Makes Them Stronger</itunes:title>
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      <title>#47 Bruce Cryer - From Broadway to Biology: The Art of Inner Alignment</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Bruce Cryer</strong> is an author, executive, and former broadway performer known for his work in stress management, resilience, and personal development. He is a co-founder and former CEO of the <strong>HeartMath Institute</strong>, a research organization focused on the link between the heart and brain.</p><p>In this illuminating episode of <em>Intuition Incubator</em>, I sit down with <strong>Bruce Cryer </strong>to explore the deep connection between emotional intelligence, resilience, and living a heart-centered life.</p><p>Bruce shares his powerful personal journey, from overcoming life-threatening health challenges to developing science-backed techniques for emotional balance and intuitive clarity. This conversation dives into the role of <strong>heart coherence</strong>, <strong>perception</strong>, and <strong>social connection</strong> in fostering well-being amidst uncertainty.</p><p><br />Key topics include:</p><ul><li>The science and soul of the <strong>HeartMath</strong> method</li><li>The importance of <strong>intuition</strong> in navigating life’s complexities</li><li>How <strong>self-forgiveness</strong> and <strong>acceptance</strong> drive personal transformation</li><li>The power of <strong>mindfulness</strong>, <strong>love</strong>, and daily rejuvenation practices</li><li>The concept of the <strong>Renaissance Human</strong>—a life of creativity, growth, and purpose</li><li>Introduction to the <strong>Vibrato Method</strong>, Bruce’s unique tool for emotional energy management</li></ul><p>Whether you're a creative, a healer, a leader, or a lifelong learner, this episode offers inspiring insights and practical tools to help you reconnect with your heart, elevate your energy, and thrive in uncertain times.</p><p><strong>Chapters |<br /></strong>00:00 Introduction to Bruce Cryer and His Journey</p><p>02:34 From Showbiz to HeartMath: A Transformative Journey</p><p>06:01 Understanding HeartMath: Techniques and Science</p><p>10:43 The Impact of HeartMath on Health and Resilience</p><p>14:48 Facing Personal Health Challenges: A Journey of Healing</p><p>20:28 Navigating Uncertainty in Life and Work</p><p>24:59 The Role of HeartMath in Stress Management</p><p>32:05 The Fish in the Hudson River: Perception of Environment</p><p>33:33 The Importance of Social Connection</p><p>35:54 Mindfulness and Heart Coherence</p><p>38:28 Intuition and Inner Peace</p><p>41:52 Navigating Life's Challenges</p><p>44:43 Self-Forgiveness and Acceptance</p><p>48:10 Growth Through Imperfection</p><p>51:47 The Renaissance Human: Embracing Creativity</p><p>59:37 The Emergence of the Renaissance Human</p><p>01:01:25 Creativity and Lifelong Learning</p><p>01:03:40 The Importance of Letting Go</p><p>01:05:31 Generating Waves of Love</p><p>01:08:50 The Vibrato Method: Mastering Waves</p><p>01:12:38 Practical Tools for Daily Rejuvenation</p><p>01:16:52 The Power of Love in Difficult Times</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Guest Resources |<br /></strong><a href="https://brucecryer.com/">https://brucecryer.com/</a></p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/brucecryer/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/brucecryer/</a></p><p>Book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Chaos-Coherence-Power-Change-Performance/dp/1879052466/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Xi07CB9aHx_fvyEDivAQ8l3-DCcE9aSBGZERCwBLzW3kEnCD6q7-eHgZKMn9RMnpd6_sK-N7M5f6xgCdxHBNmrobYNUWC4s_iAmqj6LoXnEn5PqRFfm-kjQjTypUhvRrvQWB5El-i_2Sm3ZV_24EHj9cMy1uK0YHJgLpgBqIs2WcTVR9aUcT8zQUfqYUFUtLN8-x3DKxikzOqYUWrEbpmHEKgPG7vytnpbVL6KyfHH0.52-ZjS-_H3DPV6iZvTUhvtloKQj1Q1FxziwDq2zbk_Y&dib_tag=se&qid=1747240096&refinements=p_27%3ABruce+Cryer&s=books&sr=1-1">From Chaos to Coherence (The Power to Change Performance)</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br /></p><p>#EmotionalIntelligence #HeartMath #BruceCryer #Intuition #Resilience #RenaissanceHuman #Mindfulness #HeartCoherence #HealingJourney #Creativity #VibratoMethod #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalHealing #Wellbeing #IntuitionIncubator</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 18 Jun 2025 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Bruce Cryer</strong> is an author, executive, and former broadway performer known for his work in stress management, resilience, and personal development. He is a co-founder and former CEO of the <strong>HeartMath Institute</strong>, a research organization focused on the link between the heart and brain.</p><p>In this illuminating episode of <em>Intuition Incubator</em>, I sit down with <strong>Bruce Cryer </strong>to explore the deep connection between emotional intelligence, resilience, and living a heart-centered life.</p><p>Bruce shares his powerful personal journey, from overcoming life-threatening health challenges to developing science-backed techniques for emotional balance and intuitive clarity. This conversation dives into the role of <strong>heart coherence</strong>, <strong>perception</strong>, and <strong>social connection</strong> in fostering well-being amidst uncertainty.</p><p><br />Key topics include:</p><ul><li>The science and soul of the <strong>HeartMath</strong> method</li><li>The importance of <strong>intuition</strong> in navigating life’s complexities</li><li>How <strong>self-forgiveness</strong> and <strong>acceptance</strong> drive personal transformation</li><li>The power of <strong>mindfulness</strong>, <strong>love</strong>, and daily rejuvenation practices</li><li>The concept of the <strong>Renaissance Human</strong>—a life of creativity, growth, and purpose</li><li>Introduction to the <strong>Vibrato Method</strong>, Bruce’s unique tool for emotional energy management</li></ul><p>Whether you're a creative, a healer, a leader, or a lifelong learner, this episode offers inspiring insights and practical tools to help you reconnect with your heart, elevate your energy, and thrive in uncertain times.</p><p><strong>Chapters |<br /></strong>00:00 Introduction to Bruce Cryer and His Journey</p><p>02:34 From Showbiz to HeartMath: A Transformative Journey</p><p>06:01 Understanding HeartMath: Techniques and Science</p><p>10:43 The Impact of HeartMath on Health and Resilience</p><p>14:48 Facing Personal Health Challenges: A Journey of Healing</p><p>20:28 Navigating Uncertainty in Life and Work</p><p>24:59 The Role of HeartMath in Stress Management</p><p>32:05 The Fish in the Hudson River: Perception of Environment</p><p>33:33 The Importance of Social Connection</p><p>35:54 Mindfulness and Heart Coherence</p><p>38:28 Intuition and Inner Peace</p><p>41:52 Navigating Life's Challenges</p><p>44:43 Self-Forgiveness and Acceptance</p><p>48:10 Growth Through Imperfection</p><p>51:47 The Renaissance Human: Embracing Creativity</p><p>59:37 The Emergence of the Renaissance Human</p><p>01:01:25 Creativity and Lifelong Learning</p><p>01:03:40 The Importance of Letting Go</p><p>01:05:31 Generating Waves of Love</p><p>01:08:50 The Vibrato Method: Mastering Waves</p><p>01:12:38 Practical Tools for Daily Rejuvenation</p><p>01:16:52 The Power of Love in Difficult Times</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Guest Resources |<br /></strong><a href="https://brucecryer.com/">https://brucecryer.com/</a></p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/brucecryer/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/brucecryer/</a></p><p>Book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Chaos-Coherence-Power-Change-Performance/dp/1879052466/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.Xi07CB9aHx_fvyEDivAQ8l3-DCcE9aSBGZERCwBLzW3kEnCD6q7-eHgZKMn9RMnpd6_sK-N7M5f6xgCdxHBNmrobYNUWC4s_iAmqj6LoXnEn5PqRFfm-kjQjTypUhvRrvQWB5El-i_2Sm3ZV_24EHj9cMy1uK0YHJgLpgBqIs2WcTVR9aUcT8zQUfqYUFUtLN8-x3DKxikzOqYUWrEbpmHEKgPG7vytnpbVL6KyfHH0.52-ZjS-_H3DPV6iZvTUhvtloKQj1Q1FxziwDq2zbk_Y&dib_tag=se&qid=1747240096&refinements=p_27%3ABruce+Cryer&s=books&sr=1-1">From Chaos to Coherence (The Power to Change Performance)</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br /></p><p>#EmotionalIntelligence #HeartMath #BruceCryer #Intuition #Resilience #RenaissanceHuman #Mindfulness #HeartCoherence #HealingJourney #Creativity #VibratoMethod #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalHealing #Wellbeing #IntuitionIncubator</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>#47 Bruce Cryer - From Broadway to Biology: The Art of Inner Alignment</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>Bruce Cryer is an author, executive, and former broadway performer known for his work in stress management, resilience, and personal development. He is a co-founder and former CEO of the HeartMath Institute, a research organization focused on the link between the heart and brain.In this illuminating episode of Intuition Incubator, I sit down with Bruce Cryer to explore the deep connection between emotional intelligence, resilience, and living a heart-centered life.Bruce shares his powerful personal journey, from overcoming life-threatening health challenges to developing science-backed techniques for emotional balance and intuitive clarity. This conversation dives into the role of heart coherence, perception, and social connection in fostering well-being amidst uncertainty.Key topics include:The science and soul of the HeartMath methodThe importance of intuition in navigating life’s complexitiesHow self-forgiveness and acceptance drive personal transformationThe power of mindfulness, love, and daily rejuvenation practicesThe concept of the Renaissance Human—a life of creativity, growth, and purposeIntroduction to the Vibrato Method, Bruce’s unique tool for emotional energy managementWhether you&apos;re a creative, a healer, a leader, or a lifelong learner, this episode offers inspiring insights and practical tools to help you reconnect with your heart, elevate your energy, and thrive in uncertain times.Chapters |00:00 Introduction to Bruce Cryer and His Journey02:34 From Showbiz to HeartMath: A Transformative Journey06:01 Understanding HeartMath: Techniques and Science10:43 The Impact of HeartMath on Health and Resilience14:48 Facing Personal Health Challenges: A Journey of Healing20:28 Navigating Uncertainty in Life and Work24:59 The Role of HeartMath in Stress Management32:05 The Fish in the Hudson River: Perception of Environment33:33 The Importance of Social Connection35:54 Mindfulness and Heart Coherence38:28 Intuition and Inner Peace41:52 Navigating Life&apos;s Challenges44:43 Self-Forgiveness and Acceptance48:10 Growth Through Imperfection51:47 The Renaissance Human: Embracing Creativity59:37 The Emergence of the Renaissance Human01:01:25 Creativity and Lifelong Learning01:03:40 The Importance of Letting Go01:05:31 Generating Waves of Love01:08:50 The Vibrato Method: Mastering Waves01:12:38 Practical Tools for Daily Rejuvenation01:16:52 The Power of Love in Difficult TimesGuest Resources |https://brucecryer.com/https://www.linkedin.com/in/brucecryer/Book: From Chaos to Coherence (The Power to Change Performance)Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#EmotionalIntelligence #HeartMath #BruceCryer #Intuition #Resilience #RenaissanceHuman #Mindfulness #HeartCoherence #HealingJourney #Creativity #VibratoMethod #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalHealing #Wellbeing #IntuitionIncubator</itunes:summary>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Burnout, ambition, and the myth of productivity—let’s talk about it. In this episode of The Intuition Incubator, I unpack why so many high-achieving souls are secretly exhausted, what urgency is really costing us, and how to reclaim your energy without sacrificing your success.</p><p>This isn’t your typical “take a bubble bath and call it self-care” pep talk. We’re going deeper—into the rhythms of creativity, the biology of burnout, and how to stop running on fumes. If you’re chasing goals but feel strangely empty, you’re not alone—and you’re not broken.</p><p>Inside:<br />✨ Why busyness ≠ success<br />✨ The trap of urgency and overdoing<br />✨ How to work with your energy, not against it<br />✨ What rest actually looks like for driven humans<br />✨ How to shift from burnout to sustainable brilliance</p><p>Let’s stop confusing depletion with dedication. This one’s a reset button for your nervous system and your ambition.</p><p>00:00 Redefining Success and Burnout<br />01:21 The Urgency Addiction<br />04:59 Understanding Energy as Currency<br />07:31 Aligning Actions with Purpose<br />10:17 Rhythm and Recovery for Sustainable Success<br />10:44 The Long Game: Sustainability Over Speed</p><p>​Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /></p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br />#burnout #productivity #energymanagement #success #ambition #worklifebalance #sustainabledrive #personalgrowth #mentalhealth #selfcare</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 16 Jun 2025 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Burnout, ambition, and the myth of productivity—let’s talk about it. In this episode of The Intuition Incubator, I unpack why so many high-achieving souls are secretly exhausted, what urgency is really costing us, and how to reclaim your energy without sacrificing your success.</p><p>This isn’t your typical “take a bubble bath and call it self-care” pep talk. We’re going deeper—into the rhythms of creativity, the biology of burnout, and how to stop running on fumes. If you’re chasing goals but feel strangely empty, you’re not alone—and you’re not broken.</p><p>Inside:<br />✨ Why busyness ≠ success<br />✨ The trap of urgency and overdoing<br />✨ How to work with your energy, not against it<br />✨ What rest actually looks like for driven humans<br />✨ How to shift from burnout to sustainable brilliance</p><p>Let’s stop confusing depletion with dedication. This one’s a reset button for your nervous system and your ambition.</p><p>00:00 Redefining Success and Burnout<br />01:21 The Urgency Addiction<br />04:59 Understanding Energy as Currency<br />07:31 Aligning Actions with Purpose<br />10:17 Rhythm and Recovery for Sustainable Success<br />10:44 The Long Game: Sustainability Over Speed</p><p>​Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br /></p><p>HIRE ME TO SPEAK: <a href="https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking">https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</a></p><p><br />#burnout #productivity #energymanagement #success #ambition #worklifebalance #sustainabledrive #personalgrowth #mentalhealth #selfcare</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:subtitle>Burnout, ambition, and the myth of productivity—let’s talk about it. In this episode of The Intuition Incubator, I unpack why so many high-achieving souls are secretly exhausted, what urgency is really costing us, and how to reclaim your energy without sacrificing your success.This isn’t your typical “take a bubble bath and call it self-care” pep talk. We’re going deeper—into the rhythms of creativity, the biology of burnout, and how to stop running on fumes. If you’re chasing goals but feel strangely empty, you’re not alone—and you’re not broken.Inside:✨ Why busyness ≠ success✨ The trap of urgency and overdoing✨ How to work with your energy, not against it✨ What rest actually looks like for driven humans✨ How to shift from burnout to sustainable brillianceLet’s stop confusing depletion with dedication. This one’s a reset button for your nervous system and your ambition.00:00 Redefining Success and Burnout01:21 The Urgency Addiction04:59 Understanding Energy as Currency07:31 Aligning Actions with Purpose10:17 Rhythm and Recovery for Sustainable Success10:44 The Long Game: Sustainability Over Speed​Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann​​👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundariesHIRE ME TO SPEAK: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#burnout #productivity #energymanagement #success #ambition #worklifebalance #sustainabledrive #personalgrowth #mentalhealth #selfcare</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>#46 Mel Abraham - Bestselling Author, Entrepreneur, And CPA-Turned Conscious Creator On Living Your Legacy</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Mel Abraham, a seasoned CPA turned entrepreneurial innovator and money mentor, is the mind behind the USA Today bestseller, <strong><em>Building Your Money Machine: How To Get Your Money To Work Harder For You Than You Did For It!</em></strong>. As the founder of <strong>The Money Blueprint™</strong>, <strong>The Legacy Factor™</strong>, the host of the  <strong>Building Your Money Machine Show</strong>, Mel has dedicated his career to empowering individuals and entrepreneurs to transform their financial destinies and craft lives of choice, not chance.</p><p><br /></p><p>The inception of Mel’s groundbreaking principles was profoundly personal as they were born out being a single full-time dad and not wanting to compromise that relationship in the name of success. The power of these principles became even more evident when he was faced with a life-threatening health diagnosis which forced him to confront his mortality and the fragility of life. This pivotal moment, coupled with the economic turmoil of the pandemic, galvanized him to distill his financial wisdom into strategies accessible to all. His books and teachings offer not just hope but real tools for building lasting wealth and impact.</p><p><br /></p><p>Recognized globally as an Affluence Mentor™ and the "thought leader to thought leaders," Mel has been called “<strong><em>one of the most powerful financial and legacy speakers of our time</em></strong>” and advises some of the world’s foremost experts in business and personal development. His insights are sought after on top media platforms and podcasts, where he discusses achieving financial freedom, affluence, and creating businesses that leave a legacy.</p><p>https://melabraham.com/</p><p>In this episode, <a href="https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCC9GZQdD2OVZ_jrqgxKhuCQ"> @MelAbraham </a>shares powerful insights on redefining success, cultivating intuition, and building a life that feels as good as it looks.</p><p>We talk about:<br />- Breaking free from comparison culture<br />- Why micro wins are the secret to momentum<br />- How to bounce back from adversity (including Mel’s Ponzi scheme experience)<br />- The shift from leaving a legacy to living one<br />- The role of intuition in business and personal growth</p><p>This is your permission to tune out the noise, trust your knowing, and build a legacy of meaning—not just money.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Mel Abraham<br />01:19 From Finance to Thought Leadership<br />04:23 The Challenge of Perception and Comparison<br />10:09 Celebrating Micro-Successes<br />14:25 Defining Personal Success<br />17:46 The Importance of Intuition<br />20:11 Finding Your Purpose<br />24:56 The Journey to Service<br />30:15 The Light Within Us<br />33:50 Lessons from Fatherhood<br />39:06 Building a Money Machine<br />39:33 The Currency of Moments vs. Money<br />43:47 Lessons from a Ponzi Scheme<br />52:02 The Power of Intuition<br />01:06:27 Building Your Money Machine<br />01:10:11 Living a Legacy</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p> #TheIntuitionIncubator #MelAbraham #LegacyLiving #IntuitiveLeadership #PurposeOverPerfection #RedefineSuccess</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 11 Jun 2025 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mel Abraham, a seasoned CPA turned entrepreneurial innovator and money mentor, is the mind behind the USA Today bestseller, <strong><em>Building Your Money Machine: How To Get Your Money To Work Harder For You Than You Did For It!</em></strong>. As the founder of <strong>The Money Blueprint™</strong>, <strong>The Legacy Factor™</strong>, the host of the  <strong>Building Your Money Machine Show</strong>, Mel has dedicated his career to empowering individuals and entrepreneurs to transform their financial destinies and craft lives of choice, not chance.</p><p><br /></p><p>The inception of Mel’s groundbreaking principles was profoundly personal as they were born out being a single full-time dad and not wanting to compromise that relationship in the name of success. The power of these principles became even more evident when he was faced with a life-threatening health diagnosis which forced him to confront his mortality and the fragility of life. This pivotal moment, coupled with the economic turmoil of the pandemic, galvanized him to distill his financial wisdom into strategies accessible to all. His books and teachings offer not just hope but real tools for building lasting wealth and impact.</p><p><br /></p><p>Recognized globally as an Affluence Mentor™ and the "thought leader to thought leaders," Mel has been called “<strong><em>one of the most powerful financial and legacy speakers of our time</em></strong>” and advises some of the world’s foremost experts in business and personal development. His insights are sought after on top media platforms and podcasts, where he discusses achieving financial freedom, affluence, and creating businesses that leave a legacy.</p><p>https://melabraham.com/</p><p>In this episode, <a href="https://studio.youtube.com/channel/UCC9GZQdD2OVZ_jrqgxKhuCQ"> @MelAbraham </a>shares powerful insights on redefining success, cultivating intuition, and building a life that feels as good as it looks.</p><p>We talk about:<br />- Breaking free from comparison culture<br />- Why micro wins are the secret to momentum<br />- How to bounce back from adversity (including Mel’s Ponzi scheme experience)<br />- The shift from leaving a legacy to living one<br />- The role of intuition in business and personal growth</p><p>This is your permission to tune out the noise, trust your knowing, and build a legacy of meaning—not just money.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Mel Abraham<br />01:19 From Finance to Thought Leadership<br />04:23 The Challenge of Perception and Comparison<br />10:09 Celebrating Micro-Successes<br />14:25 Defining Personal Success<br />17:46 The Importance of Intuition<br />20:11 Finding Your Purpose<br />24:56 The Journey to Service<br />30:15 The Light Within Us<br />33:50 Lessons from Fatherhood<br />39:06 Building a Money Machine<br />39:33 The Currency of Moments vs. Money<br />43:47 Lessons from a Ponzi Scheme<br />52:02 The Power of Intuition<br />01:06:27 Building Your Money Machine<br />01:10:11 Living a Legacy</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p> #TheIntuitionIncubator #MelAbraham #LegacyLiving #IntuitiveLeadership #PurposeOverPerfection #RedefineSuccess</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>#46 Mel Abraham - Bestselling Author, Entrepreneur, And CPA-Turned Conscious Creator On Living Your Legacy</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>Mel Abraham, a seasoned CPA turned entrepreneurial innovator and money mentor, is the mind behind the USA Today bestseller, Building Your Money Machine: How To Get Your Money To Work Harder For You Than You Did For It!. As the founder of The Money Blueprint™, The Legacy Factor™, the host of the  Building Your Money Machine Show, Mel has dedicated his career to empowering individuals and entrepreneurs to transform their financial destinies and craft lives of choice, not chance.The inception of Mel’s groundbreaking principles was profoundly personal as they were born out being a single full-time dad and not wanting to compromise that relationship in the name of success. The power of these principles became even more evident when he was faced with a life-threatening health diagnosis which forced him to confront his mortality and the fragility of life. This pivotal moment, coupled with the economic turmoil of the pandemic, galvanized him to distill his financial wisdom into strategies accessible to all. His books and teachings offer not just hope but real tools for building lasting wealth and impact.Recognized globally as an Affluence Mentor™ and the &quot;thought leader to thought leaders,&quot; Mel has been called “one of the most powerful financial and legacy speakers of our time” and advises some of the world’s foremost experts in business and personal development. His insights are sought after on top media platforms and podcasts, where he discusses achieving financial freedom, affluence, and creating businesses that leave a legacy.https://melabraham.com/In this episode,  @MelAbraham shares powerful insights on redefining success, cultivating intuition, and building a life that feels as good as it looks.We talk about:- Breaking free from comparison culture- Why micro wins are the secret to momentum- How to bounce back from adversity (including Mel’s Ponzi scheme experience)- The shift from leaving a legacy to living one- The role of intuition in business and personal growthThis is your permission to tune out the noise, trust your knowing, and build a legacy of meaning—not just money.00:00 Introduction to Mel Abraham01:19 From Finance to Thought Leadership04:23 The Challenge of Perception and Comparison10:09 Celebrating Micro-Successes14:25 Defining Personal Success17:46 The Importance of Intuition20:11 Finding Your Purpose24:56 The Journey to Service30:15 The Light Within Us33:50 Lessons from Fatherhood39:06 Building a Money Machine39:33 The Currency of Moments vs. Money43:47 Lessons from a Ponzi Scheme52:02 The Power of Intuition01:06:27 Building Your Money Machine01:10:11 Living a LegacyFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking #TheIntuitionIncubator #MelAbraham #LegacyLiving #IntuitiveLeadership #PurposeOverPerfection #RedefineSuccess</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Mel Abraham, a seasoned CPA turned entrepreneurial innovator and money mentor, is the mind behind the USA Today bestseller, Building Your Money Machine: How To Get Your Money To Work Harder For You Than You Did For It!. As the founder of The Money Blueprint™, The Legacy Factor™, the host of the  Building Your Money Machine Show, Mel has dedicated his career to empowering individuals and entrepreneurs to transform their financial destinies and craft lives of choice, not chance.The inception of Mel’s groundbreaking principles was profoundly personal as they were born out being a single full-time dad and not wanting to compromise that relationship in the name of success. The power of these principles became even more evident when he was faced with a life-threatening health diagnosis which forced him to confront his mortality and the fragility of life. This pivotal moment, coupled with the economic turmoil of the pandemic, galvanized him to distill his financial wisdom into strategies accessible to all. His books and teachings offer not just hope but real tools for building lasting wealth and impact.Recognized globally as an Affluence Mentor™ and the &quot;thought leader to thought leaders,&quot; Mel has been called “one of the most powerful financial and legacy speakers of our time” and advises some of the world’s foremost experts in business and personal development. His insights are sought after on top media platforms and podcasts, where he discusses achieving financial freedom, affluence, and creating businesses that leave a legacy.https://melabraham.com/In this episode,  @MelAbraham shares powerful insights on redefining success, cultivating intuition, and building a life that feels as good as it looks.We talk about:- Breaking free from comparison culture- Why micro wins are the secret to momentum- How to bounce back from adversity (including Mel’s Ponzi scheme experience)- The shift from leaving a legacy to living one- The role of intuition in business and personal growthThis is your permission to tune out the noise, trust your knowing, and build a legacy of meaning—not just money.00:00 Introduction to Mel Abraham01:19 From Finance to Thought Leadership04:23 The Challenge of Perception and Comparison10:09 Celebrating Micro-Successes14:25 Defining Personal Success17:46 The Importance of Intuition20:11 Finding Your Purpose24:56 The Journey to Service30:15 The Light Within Us33:50 Lessons from Fatherhood39:06 Building a Money Machine39:33 The Currency of Moments vs. Money43:47 Lessons from a Ponzi Scheme52:02 The Power of Intuition01:06:27 Building Your Money Machine01:10:11 Living a LegacyFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking #TheIntuitionIncubator #MelAbraham #LegacyLiving #IntuitiveLeadership #PurposeOverPerfection #RedefineSuccess</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>#45 Adam Brawer - From Staged To Saged: Real Estate, Reality TV &amp; Real Growth</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I sit down with Adam Brawer—a real estate agent who blends luxury listings with storytelling, spirituality, and self-work. Adam shares how his background in the entertainment industry shaped his approach to real estate, why he credits <strong>Dr. Joe Dispenza meditations</strong> with fueling his success, and how <strong>breathwork, gratitude, and plant medicine</strong> transformed both his mindset and relationships.</p><p>We talk about the evolution of masculine and feminine energy in today’s culture, the lasting impact of the #MeToo movement, and what it means to run a business that’s deeply aligned with intuition and purpose.</p><p>Adam’s story is a powerful reminder that <strong>success doesn’t require hustle—it requires self-belief</strong>.</p><p><strong>Chapters |</strong><br />00:00 Introduction to Adam Brower and His Unique Approach to Real Estate</p><p>02:34 Reality TV and the Real Estate Industry</p><p>05:11 Adam's Journey from Film to Real Estate</p><p>08:04 The Impact of the Me Too Movement on the Film Industry</p><p>10:54 Exploring Masculine and Feminine Energy in Today's Society</p><p>23:22 The Double Standard of Reverence</p><p>25:22 Navigating Modern Relationships</p><p>26:38 Crisis and Transformation in Paris</p><p>30:27 Pivoting to Real Estate</p><p>33:23 Intuition and Success</p><p>41:01 Spiritual Practices in Business</p><p>49:52 The Journey of Self-Discovery</p><p>52:00 The Unexpected Journey to Manifestation</p><p>53:47 Exploring Plant Medicine and Its Impact</p><p>01:04:09 The Role of Intention in Personal Growth</p><p>01:08:38 Building a Successful Business Through Self-Work</p><p>01:15:31 The Power of Self-Belief</p><p><br /><strong>Guest Resources |</strong><br />https://adambrawerestates.com/<br />FOR SALE - https://motu-fara.adambrawerestates.com/ </p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast</p><p><br /></p><p>#RealEstateSuccess #SpiritualRealEstate #DrJoeDispenza #Breathwork #MasculineAndFeminine #PlantMedicine #AyahuascaHealing #SelfBelief #Manifestation #DailyRituals #ModernMasculinity #ConsciousBusiness #IntuitiveLeadership</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 4 Jun 2025 04:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I sit down with Adam Brawer—a real estate agent who blends luxury listings with storytelling, spirituality, and self-work. Adam shares how his background in the entertainment industry shaped his approach to real estate, why he credits <strong>Dr. Joe Dispenza meditations</strong> with fueling his success, and how <strong>breathwork, gratitude, and plant medicine</strong> transformed both his mindset and relationships.</p><p>We talk about the evolution of masculine and feminine energy in today’s culture, the lasting impact of the #MeToo movement, and what it means to run a business that’s deeply aligned with intuition and purpose.</p><p>Adam’s story is a powerful reminder that <strong>success doesn’t require hustle—it requires self-belief</strong>.</p><p><strong>Chapters |</strong><br />00:00 Introduction to Adam Brower and His Unique Approach to Real Estate</p><p>02:34 Reality TV and the Real Estate Industry</p><p>05:11 Adam's Journey from Film to Real Estate</p><p>08:04 The Impact of the Me Too Movement on the Film Industry</p><p>10:54 Exploring Masculine and Feminine Energy in Today's Society</p><p>23:22 The Double Standard of Reverence</p><p>25:22 Navigating Modern Relationships</p><p>26:38 Crisis and Transformation in Paris</p><p>30:27 Pivoting to Real Estate</p><p>33:23 Intuition and Success</p><p>41:01 Spiritual Practices in Business</p><p>49:52 The Journey of Self-Discovery</p><p>52:00 The Unexpected Journey to Manifestation</p><p>53:47 Exploring Plant Medicine and Its Impact</p><p>01:04:09 The Role of Intention in Personal Growth</p><p>01:08:38 Building a Successful Business Through Self-Work</p><p>01:15:31 The Power of Self-Belief</p><p><br /><strong>Guest Resources |</strong><br />https://adambrawerestates.com/<br />FOR SALE - https://motu-fara.adambrawerestates.com/ </p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast</p><p><br /></p><p>#RealEstateSuccess #SpiritualRealEstate #DrJoeDispenza #Breathwork #MasculineAndFeminine #PlantMedicine #AyahuascaHealing #SelfBelief #Manifestation #DailyRituals #ModernMasculinity #ConsciousBusiness #IntuitiveLeadership</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>#45 Adam Brawer - From Staged To Saged: Real Estate, Reality TV &amp; Real Growth</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>In this episode, I sit down with Adam Brawer—a real estate agent who blends luxury listings with storytelling, spirituality, and self-work. Adam shares how his background in the entertainment industry shaped his approach to real estate, why he credits Dr. Joe Dispenza meditations with fueling his success, and how breathwork, gratitude, and plant medicine transformed both his mindset and relationships.We talk about the evolution of masculine and feminine energy in today’s culture, the lasting impact of the #MeToo movement, and what it means to run a business that’s deeply aligned with intuition and purpose.Adam’s story is a powerful reminder that success doesn’t require hustle—it requires self-belief.Chapters |00:00 Introduction to Adam Brower and His Unique Approach to Real Estate02:34 Reality TV and the Real Estate Industry05:11 Adam&apos;s Journey from Film to Real Estate08:04 The Impact of the Me Too Movement on the Film Industry10:54 Exploring Masculine and Feminine Energy in Today&apos;s Society23:22 The Double Standard of Reverence25:22 Navigating Modern Relationships26:38 Crisis and Transformation in Paris30:27 Pivoting to Real Estate33:23 Intuition and Success41:01 Spiritual Practices in Business49:52 The Journey of Self-Discovery52:00 The Unexpected Journey to Manifestation53:47 Exploring Plant Medicine and Its Impact01:04:09 The Role of Intention in Personal Growth01:08:38 Building a Successful Business Through Self-Work01:15:31 The Power of Self-BeliefGuest Resources |https://adambrawerestates.com/FOR SALE - https://motu-fara.adambrawerestates.com/ Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast#RealEstateSuccess #SpiritualRealEstate #DrJoeDispenza #Breathwork #MasculineAndFeminine #PlantMedicine #AyahuascaHealing #SelfBelief #Manifestation #DailyRituals #ModernMasculinity #ConsciousBusiness #IntuitiveLeadership</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>In this episode, I sit down with Adam Brawer—a real estate agent who blends luxury listings with storytelling, spirituality, and self-work. Adam shares how his background in the entertainment industry shaped his approach to real estate, why he credits Dr. Joe Dispenza meditations with fueling his success, and how breathwork, gratitude, and plant medicine transformed both his mindset and relationships.We talk about the evolution of masculine and feminine energy in today’s culture, the lasting impact of the #MeToo movement, and what it means to run a business that’s deeply aligned with intuition and purpose.Adam’s story is a powerful reminder that success doesn’t require hustle—it requires self-belief.Chapters |00:00 Introduction to Adam Brower and His Unique Approach to Real Estate02:34 Reality TV and the Real Estate Industry05:11 Adam&apos;s Journey from Film to Real Estate08:04 The Impact of the Me Too Movement on the Film Industry10:54 Exploring Masculine and Feminine Energy in Today&apos;s Society23:22 The Double Standard of Reverence25:22 Navigating Modern Relationships26:38 Crisis and Transformation in Paris30:27 Pivoting to Real Estate33:23 Intuition and Success41:01 Spiritual Practices in Business49:52 The Journey of Self-Discovery52:00 The Unexpected Journey to Manifestation53:47 Exploring Plant Medicine and Its Impact01:04:09 The Role of Intention in Personal Growth01:08:38 Building a Successful Business Through Self-Work01:15:31 The Power of Self-BeliefGuest Resources |https://adambrawerestates.com/FOR SALE - https://motu-fara.adambrawerestates.com/ Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast#RealEstateSuccess #SpiritualRealEstate #DrJoeDispenza #Breathwork #MasculineAndFeminine #PlantMedicine #AyahuascaHealing #SelfBelief #Manifestation #DailyRituals #ModernMasculinity #ConsciousBusiness #IntuitiveLeadership</itunes:subtitle>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Struggling with imposter syndrome despite your success? You’re not alone. In this Monday Muse, I unpack the real reasons smart, capable, high-performing people secretly feel like frauds—no matter how many wins they rack up.</p><p>We’ll explore:<br />🔹 The tension between your public image and your true self<br />🔹 How a dysregulated nervous system creates feelings of self-doubt<br />🔹 Why intellect can drown out intuition<br />🔹 The habit of outsourcing self-worth to validation and achievement</p><p>Plus, I’ll offer practical tools to shift from fear to authenticity, so you can lead, live, and love from who you really are—not who the world told you to be.</p><p>👉 Hit play if you're ready to stop performing and start being.</p><p>00:00 Understanding Imposter Syndrome<br />02:14 The Role of Performance vs. Authenticity<br />04:23 Nervous System and Safety<br />07:24 Intuition vs. Intellect<br />09:41 Owning Your Worth<br />12:05 Aligning with Inner Authority</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br />HIRE ME TO SPEAK: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br />#ImposterSyndrome #HighAchievers #Authenticity #NervousSystem #Intuition #PersonalDevelopment #Confidence #SelfWorth #EmotionalWellness #Overthinking #Shirzad Chamine</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Struggling with imposter syndrome despite your success? You’re not alone. In this Monday Muse, I unpack the real reasons smart, capable, high-performing people secretly feel like frauds—no matter how many wins they rack up.</p><p>We’ll explore:<br />🔹 The tension between your public image and your true self<br />🔹 How a dysregulated nervous system creates feelings of self-doubt<br />🔹 Why intellect can drown out intuition<br />🔹 The habit of outsourcing self-worth to validation and achievement</p><p>Plus, I’ll offer practical tools to shift from fear to authenticity, so you can lead, live, and love from who you really are—not who the world told you to be.</p><p>👉 Hit play if you're ready to stop performing and start being.</p><p>00:00 Understanding Imposter Syndrome<br />02:14 The Role of Performance vs. Authenticity<br />04:23 Nervous System and Safety<br />07:24 Intuition vs. Intellect<br />09:41 Owning Your Worth<br />12:05 Aligning with Inner Authority</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br />HIRE ME TO SPEAK: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br />#ImposterSyndrome #HighAchievers #Authenticity #NervousSystem #Intuition #PersonalDevelopment #Confidence #SelfWorth #EmotionalWellness #Overthinking #Shirzad Chamine</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>Struggling with imposter syndrome despite your success? You’re not alone. In this Monday Muse, I unpack the real reasons smart, capable, high-performing people secretly feel like frauds—no matter how many wins they rack up.We’ll explore:🔹 The tension between your public image and your true self🔹 How a dysregulated nervous system creates feelings of self-doubt🔹 Why intellect can drown out intuition🔹 The habit of outsourcing self-worth to validation and achievementPlus, I’ll offer practical tools to shift from fear to authenticity, so you can lead, live, and love from who you really are—not who the world told you to be.👉 Hit play if you&apos;re ready to stop performing and start being.00:00 Understanding Imposter Syndrome02:14 The Role of Performance vs. Authenticity04:23 Nervous System and Safety07:24 Intuition vs. Intellect09:41 Owning Your Worth12:05 Aligning with Inner AuthorityFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundariesHIRE ME TO SPEAK: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#ImposterSyndrome #HighAchievers #Authenticity #NervousSystem #Intuition #PersonalDevelopment #Confidence #SelfWorth #EmotionalWellness #Overthinking #Shirzad Chamine</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Struggling with imposter syndrome despite your success? You’re not alone. In this Monday Muse, I unpack the real reasons smart, capable, high-performing people secretly feel like frauds—no matter how many wins they rack up.We’ll explore:🔹 The tension between your public image and your true self🔹 How a dysregulated nervous system creates feelings of self-doubt🔹 Why intellect can drown out intuition🔹 The habit of outsourcing self-worth to validation and achievementPlus, I’ll offer practical tools to shift from fear to authenticity, so you can lead, live, and love from who you really are—not who the world told you to be.👉 Hit play if you&apos;re ready to stop performing and start being.00:00 Understanding Imposter Syndrome02:14 The Role of Performance vs. Authenticity04:23 Nervous System and Safety07:24 Intuition vs. Intellect09:41 Owning Your Worth12:05 Aligning with Inner AuthorityFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundariesHIRE ME TO SPEAK: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#ImposterSyndrome #HighAchievers #Authenticity #NervousSystem #Intuition #PersonalDevelopment #Confidence #SelfWorth #EmotionalWellness #Overthinking #Shirzad Chamine</itunes:subtitle>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Ever wonder what it would be like to live in harmony with the earth, not just occasionally escape to it?</p><p><br />In this episode of <em>The Intuition Incubator</em>, I sit down with two extraordinary guides and healers I met in Peru—keepers of ancient wisdom who walk the line between this world and the sacred. Together, we explore the heart of Inca philosophy: a worldview rooted in reciprocity, reverence for nature, and deep awareness.</p><p>We talk about:<br /> 🌿 How the Incas saw duality—not as a battle between good and evil—but as balance<br /> 🌀 The power of questioning what you’ve been taught to believe<br /> 🌄 What Incan architecture reveals about the soul of a civilization<br /> ✨ And why reclaiming feminine and masculine balance is key to healing today’s world</p><p>This conversation is a reminder that the answers we seek are often encoded in the earth beneath our feet—and in the language of the soul we’ve forgotten how to speak.</p><p>🎧 Listen in and reawaken something ancient within you.</p><p><strong>Chapters | </strong></p><p><br /></p><p>00:00 Exploring Inca Wisdom and Intuition</p><p>04:09 The Inca Worldview and Nature's Respect</p><p>09:21 Spirituality and the Concept of God in Inca Culture</p><p>12:30 Language and Communication in Inca Society</p><p>16:57 The Power of Words and Consciousness</p><p>20:09 Personal Journeys: Healing and Spiritual Awakening</p><p>26:43 Understanding the Non-Physical Realm</p><p>30:20 The Nature of Good and Evil in Inca Beliefs</p><p>33:48 The Impact of Personal Actions on Society</p><p>36:29 Understanding Good and Bad: A Cultural Perspective</p><p>38:14 Exploring Different Truths: Veritas, Ateleia, and Emuna</p><p>40:15 The Connection Between Self and Nature</p><p>43:37 Cultural Perspectives on Community and Individualism</p><p>46:18 The Role of Ancient Wisdom in Modern Society</p><p>49:17 The Journey to Love: Awareness, Forgiveness, and Gratitude</p><p>54:01 Living in the Present: The Nature of Existence</p><p>01:01:21 Inca Architecture and Nature's Influence</p><p>01:03:57 Engineering Marvels of the Incas</p><p>01:06:30 Theories on Inca Construction Techniques</p><p>01:09:49 Cultural Myths and Legends of the Incas</p><p>01:14:54 Energy, Masculine and Feminine Principles</p><p>01:21:31 The Balance of Masculine and Feminine Energy</p><p>01:26:27 Belief in Oneself and Questioning Reality</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br /></p><p>#IncaWisdom #SacredBalance #AwakenedLeadership #IntuitionIncubator #DivineFeminine #DivineMasculine #NatureAsTeacher #AncientFuture #SpiritualLeadership #AndeanCosmology</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 28 May 2025 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ever wonder what it would be like to live in harmony with the earth, not just occasionally escape to it?</p><p><br />In this episode of <em>The Intuition Incubator</em>, I sit down with two extraordinary guides and healers I met in Peru—keepers of ancient wisdom who walk the line between this world and the sacred. Together, we explore the heart of Inca philosophy: a worldview rooted in reciprocity, reverence for nature, and deep awareness.</p><p>We talk about:<br /> 🌿 How the Incas saw duality—not as a battle between good and evil—but as balance<br /> 🌀 The power of questioning what you’ve been taught to believe<br /> 🌄 What Incan architecture reveals about the soul of a civilization<br /> ✨ And why reclaiming feminine and masculine balance is key to healing today’s world</p><p>This conversation is a reminder that the answers we seek are often encoded in the earth beneath our feet—and in the language of the soul we’ve forgotten how to speak.</p><p>🎧 Listen in and reawaken something ancient within you.</p><p><strong>Chapters | </strong></p><p><br /></p><p>00:00 Exploring Inca Wisdom and Intuition</p><p>04:09 The Inca Worldview and Nature's Respect</p><p>09:21 Spirituality and the Concept of God in Inca Culture</p><p>12:30 Language and Communication in Inca Society</p><p>16:57 The Power of Words and Consciousness</p><p>20:09 Personal Journeys: Healing and Spiritual Awakening</p><p>26:43 Understanding the Non-Physical Realm</p><p>30:20 The Nature of Good and Evil in Inca Beliefs</p><p>33:48 The Impact of Personal Actions on Society</p><p>36:29 Understanding Good and Bad: A Cultural Perspective</p><p>38:14 Exploring Different Truths: Veritas, Ateleia, and Emuna</p><p>40:15 The Connection Between Self and Nature</p><p>43:37 Cultural Perspectives on Community and Individualism</p><p>46:18 The Role of Ancient Wisdom in Modern Society</p><p>49:17 The Journey to Love: Awareness, Forgiveness, and Gratitude</p><p>54:01 Living in the Present: The Nature of Existence</p><p>01:01:21 Inca Architecture and Nature's Influence</p><p>01:03:57 Engineering Marvels of the Incas</p><p>01:06:30 Theories on Inca Construction Techniques</p><p>01:09:49 Cultural Myths and Legends of the Incas</p><p>01:14:54 Energy, Masculine and Feminine Principles</p><p>01:21:31 The Balance of Masculine and Feminine Energy</p><p>01:26:27 Belief in Oneself and Questioning Reality</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br /></p><p>#IncaWisdom #SacredBalance #AwakenedLeadership #IntuitionIncubator #DivineFeminine #DivineMasculine #NatureAsTeacher #AncientFuture #SpiritualLeadership #AndeanCosmology</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>Ever wonder what it would be like to live in harmony with the earth, not just occasionally escape to it?In this episode of The Intuition Incubator, I sit down with two extraordinary guides and healers I met in Peru—keepers of ancient wisdom who walk the line between this world and the sacred. Together, we explore the heart of Inca philosophy: a worldview rooted in reciprocity, reverence for nature, and deep awareness.We talk about: 🌿 How the Incas saw duality—not as a battle between good and evil—but as balance 🌀 The power of questioning what you’ve been taught to believe 🌄 What Incan architecture reveals about the soul of a civilization ✨ And why reclaiming feminine and masculine balance is key to healing today’s worldThis conversation is a reminder that the answers we seek are often encoded in the earth beneath our feet—and in the language of the soul we’ve forgotten how to speak.🎧 Listen in and reawaken something ancient within you.Chapters | 00:00 Exploring Inca Wisdom and Intuition04:09 The Inca Worldview and Nature&apos;s Respect09:21 Spirituality and the Concept of God in Inca Culture12:30 Language and Communication in Inca Society16:57 The Power of Words and Consciousness20:09 Personal Journeys: Healing and Spiritual Awakening26:43 Understanding the Non-Physical Realm30:20 The Nature of Good and Evil in Inca Beliefs33:48 The Impact of Personal Actions on Society36:29 Understanding Good and Bad: A Cultural Perspective38:14 Exploring Different Truths: Veritas, Ateleia, and Emuna40:15 The Connection Between Self and Nature43:37 Cultural Perspectives on Community and Individualism46:18 The Role of Ancient Wisdom in Modern Society49:17 The Journey to Love: Awareness, Forgiveness, and Gratitude54:01 Living in the Present: The Nature of Existence01:01:21 Inca Architecture and Nature&apos;s Influence01:03:57 Engineering Marvels of the Incas01:06:30 Theories on Inca Construction Techniques01:09:49 Cultural Myths and Legends of the Incas01:14:54 Energy, Masculine and Feminine Principles01:21:31 The Balance of Masculine and Feminine Energy01:26:27 Belief in Oneself and Questioning RealityFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#IncaWisdom #SacredBalance #AwakenedLeadership #IntuitionIncubator #DivineFeminine #DivineMasculine #NatureAsTeacher #AncientFuture #SpiritualLeadership #AndeanCosmology</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Ever wonder what it would be like to live in harmony with the earth, not just occasionally escape to it?In this episode of The Intuition Incubator, I sit down with two extraordinary guides and healers I met in Peru—keepers of ancient wisdom who walk the line between this world and the sacred. Together, we explore the heart of Inca philosophy: a worldview rooted in reciprocity, reverence for nature, and deep awareness.We talk about: 🌿 How the Incas saw duality—not as a battle between good and evil—but as balance 🌀 The power of questioning what you’ve been taught to believe 🌄 What Incan architecture reveals about the soul of a civilization ✨ And why reclaiming feminine and masculine balance is key to healing today’s worldThis conversation is a reminder that the answers we seek are often encoded in the earth beneath our feet—and in the language of the soul we’ve forgotten how to speak.🎧 Listen in and reawaken something ancient within you.Chapters | 00:00 Exploring Inca Wisdom and Intuition04:09 The Inca Worldview and Nature&apos;s Respect09:21 Spirituality and the Concept of God in Inca Culture12:30 Language and Communication in Inca Society16:57 The Power of Words and Consciousness20:09 Personal Journeys: Healing and Spiritual Awakening26:43 Understanding the Non-Physical Realm30:20 The Nature of Good and Evil in Inca Beliefs33:48 The Impact of Personal Actions on Society36:29 Understanding Good and Bad: A Cultural Perspective38:14 Exploring Different Truths: Veritas, Ateleia, and Emuna40:15 The Connection Between Self and Nature43:37 Cultural Perspectives on Community and Individualism46:18 The Role of Ancient Wisdom in Modern Society49:17 The Journey to Love: Awareness, Forgiveness, and Gratitude54:01 Living in the Present: The Nature of Existence01:01:21 Inca Architecture and Nature&apos;s Influence01:03:57 Engineering Marvels of the Incas01:06:30 Theories on Inca Construction Techniques01:09:49 Cultural Myths and Legends of the Incas01:14:54 Energy, Masculine and Feminine Principles01:21:31 The Balance of Masculine and Feminine Energy01:26:27 Belief in Oneself and Questioning RealityFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#IncaWisdom #SacredBalance #AwakenedLeadership #IntuitionIncubator #DivineFeminine #DivineMasculine #NatureAsTeacher #AncientFuture #SpiritualLeadership #AndeanCosmology</itunes:subtitle>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Success without satisfaction? You’re not alone.</strong></p><p>In this <em>Monday Muse</em>, I dive into why <strong>external success</strong> often leaves us feeling disconnected and unfulfilled—even when we’ve “made it.” If you’ve ever thought, <em>“Why doesn’t this feel the way I thought it would?”</em>—this one’s for you.</p><p>We explore:</p><ul><li>The emptiness behind traditional success</li><li>How to define <strong>authentic success</strong> for yourself</li><li>The impact of unconscious <strong>motivation</strong> and people-pleasing</li><li>Why <strong>connection, purpose, and mindfulness</strong> matter more than hustle</li><li>How to align with your <strong>inner wisdom</strong> and feel truly fulfilled</li></ul><p>This episode is a reset button for high achievers who are ready to succeed on their own terms—without burnout, self-betrayal, or chasing approval.</p><p>🎧 Tune in and start redefining what real success feels like.</p><p><strong>Chapters|</strong></p><p>00:00 The Paradox of Success</p><p>00:37 Understanding the Unconscious Mind</p><p>01:49 Defining Your Own Success</p><p>04:07 Ego vs. Soul: The True Drivers of Success</p><p>06:26 Embodying Success: The Importance of Presence</p><p>08:15 The Mask of Success: Authenticity Matters</p><p>08:38 Reconnecting with Your Why</p><p>09:45 The Cost of Achievement: Connection vs. Loneliness</p><p>12:11 Embodying Success: Practical Steps</p><p><br />👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br />Saboteur Assessment: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/get-your-saboteur-assessment</p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>#SuccessWithoutBurnout #AuthenticSuccess #Mindfulness #SelfAwareness #PersonalGrowth #EmotionalWellbeing #Motivation #InnerWisdom #Fulfillment #ConsciousLeadership #RedefiningSuccess #Intuition #TrueSuccess #LifePurpose #OverachieverHealing</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Helané Wahbeh is the Director of Research at the Institute of Noetic Sciences (IONS) and an adjunct assistant professor at Oregon Health & Science University. She is a naturopathic physician who conducts research on consciousness, mind-body medicine, and extended human capacities, particularly channeling.</p><p>Ever wondered why your intuition feels fuzzy—or like it’s gone missing altogether? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Helané  Wahbeh, Director of Research at the Institute of Noetic Sciences, to explore what actually blocks intuition from a scientific perspective.</p><p>We dive into the concept of the <em>noetic signature</em>—your unique way of receiving inner wisdom—and how things like trauma, overthinking, and empathic overwhelm can cloud your intuitive clarity.</p><p>Dr. Wahbeh shares groundbreaking research on mindfulness, PTSD, and the science of channeling, making the mystical more practical (and measurable). If you’ve ever questioned your inner voice or wondered whether you're actually intuitive… this one’s for you.</p><p><strong>Chapters | </strong></p><p><br /></p><p>00:00 Exploring Inner Wisdom and Noetic Science</p><p>06:52 Understanding the Noetic Signature</p><p>14:06 The Science of Channeling and Its Challenges</p><p>22:37 Mindfulness and PTSD: Transforming Relationships with Symptoms</p><p>28:15 Channeling: A Spectrum of Experiences</p><p>34:24 The Commonality of Channeling Experiences</p><p>42:28 Understanding Empathy and Intuition</p><p>50:50 The Power of Belief in Channeling</p><p>53:52 Clearing Egoic Layers for Channeling</p><p>01:00:45 Recognizing Channeling Experiences</p><p>01:03:57 The Source of Channeling</p><p>01:06:43 Discernment in Channeling</p><p>01:11:59 Empowerment Through Self-Awareness</p><p>01:17:23 Introduction to Intuition and Support</p><p>01:17:23 Engagement and Community Building</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Guest Resources |</strong></p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Website: </strong><a href="https://noetic.org/"><strong>https://noetic.org/</strong></a></p><p><strong>Book: </strong><a href="https://noetic.org/science-of-channeling-book/"><strong>The Science of Channeling </strong></a><strong><br /></strong><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast</p><p><br />#intuition, #noeticsciences, #channeling, #mindfulness, #PTSD, #empath, #belief, #energy, #innerwisdom, #scientificinquiry</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
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      <itunes:summary>Dr. Helané Wahbeh is the Director of Research at the Institute of Noetic Sciences (IONS) and an adjunct assistant professor at Oregon Health &amp; Science University. She is a naturopathic physician who conducts research on consciousness, mind-body medicine, and extended human capacities, particularly channeling.Ever wondered why your intuition feels fuzzy—or like it’s gone missing altogether? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Helané  Wahbeh, Director of Research at the Institute of Noetic Sciences, to explore what actually blocks intuition from a scientific perspective.We dive into the concept of the noetic signature—your unique way of receiving inner wisdom—and how things like trauma, overthinking, and empathic overwhelm can cloud your intuitive clarity.Dr. Wahbeh shares groundbreaking research on mindfulness, PTSD, and the science of channeling, making the mystical more practical (and measurable). If you’ve ever questioned your inner voice or wondered whether you&apos;re actually intuitive… this one’s for you.Chapters | 00:00 Exploring Inner Wisdom and Noetic Science06:52 Understanding the Noetic Signature14:06 The Science of Channeling and Its Challenges22:37 Mindfulness and PTSD: Transforming Relationships with Symptoms28:15 Channeling: A Spectrum of Experiences34:24 The Commonality of Channeling Experiences42:28 Understanding Empathy and Intuition50:50 The Power of Belief in Channeling53:52 Clearing Egoic Layers for Channeling01:00:45 Recognizing Channeling Experiences01:03:57 The Source of Channeling01:06:43 Discernment in Channeling01:11:59 Empowerment Through Self-Awareness01:17:23 Introduction to Intuition and Support01:17:23 Engagement and Community BuildingGuest Resources |Website: https://noetic.org/Book: The Science of Channeling Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast#intuition, #noeticsciences, #channeling, #mindfulness, #PTSD, #empath, #belief, #energy, #innerwisdom, #scientificinquiry</itunes:summary>
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      <title>Monday Muse #27 How to Stop Overthinking and Come Back to Yourself</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Feel stuck in your head? Overthinking everything? You’re not broken—your mind’s just doing its job.<br /></strong><br /></p><p>In this episode of <em>The Intuition Incubator</em>, I break down the <strong>root causes of overthinking</strong> and why it feels so hard to stop the mental spiral. I explain how the brain’s fear-based wiring is designed to “solve” problems that don’t always exist—and how that leads to <strong>anxiety, analysis paralysis, and emotional burnout.<br /></strong><br /></p><p>You’ll learn:<br /> ✔️ Why your thoughts feel so real (but often aren’t)<br /> ✔️ How to stop identifying with every thought that crosses your mind<br /> ✔️ Tools to <strong>ground yourself in the body</strong> and reclaim peace<br /> ✔️ The secret to rewiring your attention and settling your nervous system</p><p>If you’re tired of feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like your brain won’t shut up—this is for you.</p><p><strong>Chapters <br /></strong>00:00 Understanding Overthinking</p><p>02:53 The Nature of the Mind</p><p>05:47 The Problems with Overthinking</p><p>11:58 Strategies to Combat Overthinking</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br />👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>#overthinking #howtostopoverthinking #anxietysupport #mindsetshift #mentalhealthtools #nervoussystemregulation #groundingtechniques #selfawareness #abigailhavermann #intuitionincubator #thoughtwork #innerpeace #mindfulnesspractice #emotionalresilience #selfregulation #innercalm #personaldevelopmentpodcast</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 19 May 2025 04:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Feel stuck in your head? Overthinking everything? You’re not broken—your mind’s just doing its job.<br /></strong><br /></p><p>In this episode of <em>The Intuition Incubator</em>, I break down the <strong>root causes of overthinking</strong> and why it feels so hard to stop the mental spiral. I explain how the brain’s fear-based wiring is designed to “solve” problems that don’t always exist—and how that leads to <strong>anxiety, analysis paralysis, and emotional burnout.<br /></strong><br /></p><p>You’ll learn:<br /> ✔️ Why your thoughts feel so real (but often aren’t)<br /> ✔️ How to stop identifying with every thought that crosses your mind<br /> ✔️ Tools to <strong>ground yourself in the body</strong> and reclaim peace<br /> ✔️ The secret to rewiring your attention and settling your nervous system</p><p>If you’re tired of feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or like your brain won’t shut up—this is for you.</p><p><strong>Chapters <br /></strong>00:00 Understanding Overthinking</p><p>02:53 The Nature of the Mind</p><p>05:47 The Problems with Overthinking</p><p>11:58 Strategies to Combat Overthinking</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br />👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>#overthinking #howtostopoverthinking #anxietysupport #mindsetshift #mentalhealthtools #nervoussystemregulation #groundingtechniques #selfawareness #abigailhavermann #intuitionincubator #thoughtwork #innerpeace #mindfulnesspractice #emotionalresilience #selfregulation #innercalm #personaldevelopmentpodcast</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Andy Dooley is a manifestation coach, spiritual teacher, emotional alignment expert, and author. He is the creator of The Manifestor's Cafe, an online platform for coaching and training in deliberate creation. Dooley's approach combines metaphysics, neuroscience, and humor to help people overcome limiting beliefs and achieve their dreams.<br /> <br />Struggling to manifest what you want—no matter how hard you try? It might not be your mindset... it could be your <em>emotions</em>.</p><p>In this inspiring episode of <em>The Intuition Incubator</em>, I sit down with Andy Dooley to explore how emotional energy, intuition, and vibrational frequency are the true forces behind manifestation success.</p><p>We dive into:</p><ul><li>The power of intuitive manifestation</li><li>Why positive emotion is more powerful than positive thinking</li><li>How to shift your vibration when you feel stuck or blocked</li><li>Why your emotional guidance system is your greatest superpower</li><li>How conscious creation ties into the collective awakening</li><li>Practical tools to raise your frequency and align with your desires</li></ul><p>Whether you're calling in love, money, purpose, or peace—this episode offers the law of attraction tools and mindset shifts to help you manifest from a place of authenticity and power.</p><p><strong>Chapters | <br /></strong><br /></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Manifestation and Intuition</p><p>03:12 The Power of Intuition in Manifestation</p><p>06:02 Emotions and Their Role in Manifestation</p><p>08:53 The Importance of Gratitude and State of Being</p><p>11:55 Bridging the Gap: Transition Stories</p><p>14:55 Focus: The Key to Manifestation</p><p>18:06 Navigating Beliefs and Internal Drama</p><p>20:49 Creating a Positive Energy Shift</p><p>24:10 The Ripple Effect of Collective Consciousness</p><p>32:06 Raising Collective Vibration Through Presence</p><p>34:04 Choosing Bliss Over Bitching</p><p>35:54 The Power of Focus and Alignment</p><p>41:58 Transforming Conditions Through Inner Change</p><p>45:30 Healing the World by Healing Ourselves</p><p>48:02 The Sacred Journey of Human Emotions</p><p>50:20 Manifesting Change and Taking Responsibility</p><p>53:13 Intuition as a Link to Higher Self</p><p>57:20 Embracing the Great Awakening</p><p><br /><strong>Guest Resources |<br /></strong><br /></p><p><a href="http://andydooley.com"><strong>andydooley.com</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.andydooley.com/fivemistakes">e<strong>Book: Five Mistakes Manifestors Make Trying to Manifest Success…And How to Fix Them!</strong></a><strong> </strong></p><p><a href="https://www.andydooley.com/manifestorscafe"><strong>Manifestor’s Cafe </strong></a><strong><br />Free Quiz </strong><a href="https://andydooleymanifest.scoreapp.com/"><strong>https://andydooleymanifest.scoreapp.com/</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://tut.com"><strong>tut.com</strong></a></p><p><br /></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>#Manifestation #LawOfAttraction #EmotionalAlignment #Intuition #AndyDooley #IntuitionIncubator #VibrationalFrequency #SpiritualGrowth #EnergyHealing #EmotionalHealing #ManifestationCoach #HowToManifest #RaiseYourVibration #MindsetShift #ConsciousLiving</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Andy Dooley is a manifestation coach, spiritual teacher, emotional alignment expert, and author. He is the creator of The Manifestor's Cafe, an online platform for coaching and training in deliberate creation. Dooley's approach combines metaphysics, neuroscience, and humor to help people overcome limiting beliefs and achieve their dreams.<br /> <br />Struggling to manifest what you want—no matter how hard you try? It might not be your mindset... it could be your <em>emotions</em>.</p><p>In this inspiring episode of <em>The Intuition Incubator</em>, I sit down with Andy Dooley to explore how emotional energy, intuition, and vibrational frequency are the true forces behind manifestation success.</p><p>We dive into:</p><ul><li>The power of intuitive manifestation</li><li>Why positive emotion is more powerful than positive thinking</li><li>How to shift your vibration when you feel stuck or blocked</li><li>Why your emotional guidance system is your greatest superpower</li><li>How conscious creation ties into the collective awakening</li><li>Practical tools to raise your frequency and align with your desires</li></ul><p>Whether you're calling in love, money, purpose, or peace—this episode offers the law of attraction tools and mindset shifts to help you manifest from a place of authenticity and power.</p><p><strong>Chapters | <br /></strong><br /></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Manifestation and Intuition</p><p>03:12 The Power of Intuition in Manifestation</p><p>06:02 Emotions and Their Role in Manifestation</p><p>08:53 The Importance of Gratitude and State of Being</p><p>11:55 Bridging the Gap: Transition Stories</p><p>14:55 Focus: The Key to Manifestation</p><p>18:06 Navigating Beliefs and Internal Drama</p><p>20:49 Creating a Positive Energy Shift</p><p>24:10 The Ripple Effect of Collective Consciousness</p><p>32:06 Raising Collective Vibration Through Presence</p><p>34:04 Choosing Bliss Over Bitching</p><p>35:54 The Power of Focus and Alignment</p><p>41:58 Transforming Conditions Through Inner Change</p><p>45:30 Healing the World by Healing Ourselves</p><p>48:02 The Sacred Journey of Human Emotions</p><p>50:20 Manifesting Change and Taking Responsibility</p><p>53:13 Intuition as a Link to Higher Self</p><p>57:20 Embracing the Great Awakening</p><p><br /><strong>Guest Resources |<br /></strong><br /></p><p><a href="http://andydooley.com"><strong>andydooley.com</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.andydooley.com/fivemistakes">e<strong>Book: Five Mistakes Manifestors Make Trying to Manifest Success…And How to Fix Them!</strong></a><strong> </strong></p><p><a href="https://www.andydooley.com/manifestorscafe"><strong>Manifestor’s Cafe </strong></a><strong><br />Free Quiz </strong><a href="https://andydooleymanifest.scoreapp.com/"><strong>https://andydooleymanifest.scoreapp.com/</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://tut.com"><strong>tut.com</strong></a></p><p><br /></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>#Manifestation #LawOfAttraction #EmotionalAlignment #Intuition #AndyDooley #IntuitionIncubator #VibrationalFrequency #SpiritualGrowth #EnergyHealing #EmotionalHealing #ManifestationCoach #HowToManifest #RaiseYourVibration #MindsetShift #ConsciousLiving</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Ever replayed a moment in your head and cringed? That comment you made... the thing you didn’t say… the way you showed up (or didn’t)? In this Monday Muse, we dive into the messy, very human habit of self-doubt and the sneaky ways our inner critic keeps us disconnected from who we <em>actually</em> are.</p><p>Through breath work, mindfulness, and some truth bombs, I explore how shame and comparison steal our energy—and how to get it back. You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of how to stop outsourcing your power, reconnect to your authenticity, and remember the you that’s always been there underneath the noise.</p><p>✨ <em>This one’s for anyone tired of being at war with themselves.<br /></em><br /></p><p>🎧 Listen in to reclaim your self-trust, self-worth, and sacred weirdness.</p><p><strong>Chapters</strong></p><p><br /></p><p>00:00 The Inner Critic: Understanding Self-Doubt</p><p>03:09 Forgetting Our Power: The Ego's Role</p><p>05:55 The Nature of Shame and Self-Identity</p><p>09:11 The Comparison Trap: Finding Authenticity</p><p>13:04 What does it mean to remember yourself?</p><p>15:17 Embracing Our Unique Journey</p><p>17:55 The Importance of Authentic Expression</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br />👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>#selfdoubt #innercritic #authenticity #mindfulness #selfawareness #breathwork #comparisontrap #emotionalhealing #intuition #nervoussystemregulation #rememberwhoyouare #shamehealing</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
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      <itunes:summary>Ever replayed a moment in your head and cringed? That comment you made... the thing you didn’t say… the way you showed up (or didn’t)? In this Monday Muse, we dive into the messy, very human habit of self-doubt and the sneaky ways our inner critic keeps us disconnected from who we actually are.Through breath work, mindfulness, and some truth bombs, I explore how shame and comparison steal our energy—and how to get it back. You’ll walk away with a deeper understanding of how to stop outsourcing your power, reconnect to your authenticity, and remember the you that’s always been there underneath the noise.✨ This one’s for anyone tired of being at war with themselves.🎧 Listen in to reclaim your self-trust, self-worth, and sacred weirdness.Chapters00:00 The Inner Critic: Understanding Self-Doubt03:09 Forgetting Our Power: The Ego&apos;s Role05:55 The Nature of Shame and Self-Identity09:11 The Comparison Trap: Finding Authenticity13:04 What does it mean to remember yourself?15:17 Embracing Our Unique Journey17:55 The Importance of Authentic ExpressionFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#selfdoubt #innercritic #authenticity #mindfulness #selfawareness #breathwork #comparisontrap #emotionalhealing #intuition #nervoussystemregulation #rememberwhoyouare #shamehealing</itunes:summary>
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      <title>#41 How My Son Turned Anxiety Into Abundance (Without Changing His Circumstances)</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, my son Wyatt shares his journey from teenage anxiety and self-doubt to emotional healing and inner peace through mindfulness and meditation. He opens up about the challenges of transitioning to college and how shifting his mindset helped him overcome the victim mentality and reclaim his power. Together, we explore how intuition, self-worth, and emotional regulation play a key role in navigating life’s ups and downs—especially for young adults and parents. If you're on a path of personal growth, battling anxiety, or looking for practical tools to shift your mindset, this conversation will leave you feeling inspired and empowered.</p><p>00:00 Navigating Teenage Turmoil</p><p>03:04 The Power of Internal Change</p><p>05:52 The Seed of Mindfulness</p><p>08:46 The Journey of Self-Discovery</p><p>11:44 Manifesting New Connections</p><p>14:54 Creating Your Reality</p><p>17:46 Understanding Victimhood</p><p>24:52 Transforming Victimhood into Empowerment</p><p>27:37 Understanding Worthiness and Self-Value</p><p>32:11 Intuition and Decision-Making</p><p>37:08 The Journey of Parenting and Self-Forgiveness</p><p>41:47 Balancing the Mystical and the Practical</p><p><br /><strong>Guest Resources:</strong></p><p>Wyatt’s email - wyatt.10@icloud.com</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br />#mentalhealth #anxiety #socialanxiety #parenting #personalgrowth #mindfulness #meditation #intuition #empowerment #teenageanxiety</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 7 May 2025 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, my son Wyatt shares his journey from teenage anxiety and self-doubt to emotional healing and inner peace through mindfulness and meditation. He opens up about the challenges of transitioning to college and how shifting his mindset helped him overcome the victim mentality and reclaim his power. Together, we explore how intuition, self-worth, and emotional regulation play a key role in navigating life’s ups and downs—especially for young adults and parents. If you're on a path of personal growth, battling anxiety, or looking for practical tools to shift your mindset, this conversation will leave you feeling inspired and empowered.</p><p>00:00 Navigating Teenage Turmoil</p><p>03:04 The Power of Internal Change</p><p>05:52 The Seed of Mindfulness</p><p>08:46 The Journey of Self-Discovery</p><p>11:44 Manifesting New Connections</p><p>14:54 Creating Your Reality</p><p>17:46 Understanding Victimhood</p><p>24:52 Transforming Victimhood into Empowerment</p><p>27:37 Understanding Worthiness and Self-Value</p><p>32:11 Intuition and Decision-Making</p><p>37:08 The Journey of Parenting and Self-Forgiveness</p><p>41:47 Balancing the Mystical and the Practical</p><p><br /><strong>Guest Resources:</strong></p><p>Wyatt’s email - wyatt.10@icloud.com</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br />#mentalhealth #anxiety #socialanxiety #parenting #personalgrowth #mindfulness #meditation #intuition #empowerment #teenageanxiety</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:subtitle>In this episode, my son Wyatt shares his journey from teenage anxiety and self-doubt to emotional healing and inner peace through mindfulness and meditation. He opens up about the challenges of transitioning to college and how shifting his mindset helped him overcome the victim mentality and reclaim his power. Together, we explore how intuition, self-worth, and emotional regulation play a key role in navigating life’s ups and downs—especially for young adults and parents. If you&apos;re on a path of personal growth, battling anxiety, or looking for practical tools to shift your mindset, this conversation will leave you feeling inspired and empowered.00:00 Navigating Teenage Turmoil03:04 The Power of Internal Change05:52 The Seed of Mindfulness08:46 The Journey of Self-Discovery11:44 Manifesting New Connections14:54 Creating Your Reality17:46 Understanding Victimhood24:52 Transforming Victimhood into Empowerment27:37 Understanding Worthiness and Self-Value32:11 Intuition and Decision-Making37:08 The Journey of Parenting and Self-Forgiveness41:47 Balancing the Mystical and the PracticalGuest Resources:Wyatt’s email - wyatt.10@icloud.comFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#mentalhealth #anxiety #socialanxiety #parenting #personalgrowth #mindfulness #meditation #intuition #empowerment #teenageanxiety</itunes:subtitle>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Ever feel <em>paranoid</em> that everyone’s watching you or judging your every move? In this episode, I  break down the root of that everyday <em>paranoia</em>—the self-consciousness that makes us believe we’re under a spotlight when really, most people are focused on themselves. I share personal stories and powerful insights on how to shift from fear and self-doubt to growth, self-acceptance, and modeling authentic courage—especially for our kids.</p><p>👉 If you struggle with overthinking, paranoia, or people-pleasing, this episode is for you.</p><p><strong>Chapters</strong></p><p><br /></p><p>00:00 The Paranoid Mindset: Feeling Watched</p><p>02:31 What If You Shifted Your Focus?</p><p>03:43 Here's how you ARE being watched</p><p>05:34 Change Doesn't Happen Overnight</p><p>08:55 Modeling Behavior: The Impact of Our Actions</p><p>13:04 Embracing Imperfection: The Journey of Self-Discovery</p><p><br /></p><p>#paranoia #paranoid #selfdoubt #selfconscious #growthmindset #parentingwisdom #authenticity</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 5 May 2025 07:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ever feel <em>paranoid</em> that everyone’s watching you or judging your every move? In this episode, I  break down the root of that everyday <em>paranoia</em>—the self-consciousness that makes us believe we’re under a spotlight when really, most people are focused on themselves. I share personal stories and powerful insights on how to shift from fear and self-doubt to growth, self-acceptance, and modeling authentic courage—especially for our kids.</p><p>👉 If you struggle with overthinking, paranoia, or people-pleasing, this episode is for you.</p><p><strong>Chapters</strong></p><p><br /></p><p>00:00 The Paranoid Mindset: Feeling Watched</p><p>02:31 What If You Shifted Your Focus?</p><p>03:43 Here's how you ARE being watched</p><p>05:34 Change Doesn't Happen Overnight</p><p>08:55 Modeling Behavior: The Impact of Our Actions</p><p>13:04 Embracing Imperfection: The Journey of Self-Discovery</p><p><br /></p><p>#paranoia #paranoid #selfdoubt #selfconscious #growthmindset #parentingwisdom #authenticity</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>Ever feel paranoid that everyone’s watching you or judging your every move? In this episode, I  break down the root of that everyday paranoia—the self-consciousness that makes us believe we’re under a spotlight when really, most people are focused on themselves. I share personal stories and powerful insights on how to shift from fear and self-doubt to growth, self-acceptance, and modeling authentic courage—especially for our kids.👉 If you struggle with overthinking, paranoia, or people-pleasing, this episode is for you.Chapters00:00 The Paranoid Mindset: Feeling Watched02:31 What If You Shifted Your Focus?03:43 Here&apos;s how you ARE being watched05:34 Change Doesn&apos;t Happen Overnight08:55 Modeling Behavior: The Impact of Our Actions13:04 Embracing Imperfection: The Journey of Self-Discovery#paranoia #paranoid #selfdoubt #selfconscious #growthmindset #parentingwisdom #authenticityFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Ever feel paranoid that everyone’s watching you or judging your every move? In this episode, I  break down the root of that everyday paranoia—the self-consciousness that makes us believe we’re under a spotlight when really, most people are focused on themselves. I share personal stories and powerful insights on how to shift from fear and self-doubt to growth, self-acceptance, and modeling authentic courage—especially for our kids.👉 If you struggle with overthinking, paranoia, or people-pleasing, this episode is for you.Chapters00:00 The Paranoid Mindset: Feeling Watched02:31 What If You Shifted Your Focus?03:43 Here&apos;s how you ARE being watched05:34 Change Doesn&apos;t Happen Overnight08:55 Modeling Behavior: The Impact of Our Actions13:04 Embracing Imperfection: The Journey of Self-Discovery#paranoia #paranoid #selfdoubt #selfconscious #growthmindset #parentingwisdom #authenticityFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>#40 Jo Ann Moore- At 80 She Saw Beyond Death and Started a New Life</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>What if your life didn’t start to bloom until 75? Jo Ann Moore—a radiant force of nature whose entire life transformed after her first psychedelic journey at age 75, spent decades suppressing her inner truth… until ayahuasca cracked her open and Bufo Alvarius blew the doors off her reality.</p><p>What followed? A complete awakening. A new love. A new life. And a fierce devotion to helping others remember who they are.</p><p>The content of this episode is for educational and informational purposes only. We are not promoting or encouraging the use of any illegal substances. The discussion reflects personal experiences and opinions, and is not intended as medical, therapeutic, or legal advice. Always consult with a qualified professional before making decisions regarding your health, safety, or participation in any ceremonial or plant medicine work. Use discretion and respect local laws and cultural traditions.</p><p>Jo Ann Moore shares her incredible journey of transformation that began at the age of 75 when she first tried psychedelics. Raised in a rigid religious environment, Jo Ann's life took a dramatic turn after experiencing ayahuasca and later Bufo Alvarius, leading her to profound spiritual awakenings, a new love, and a mission to help others. Through her story, she emphasizes the importance of inner exploration, healing trauma, and embracing life's possibilities at any age.</p><p><br /><strong>Chapters | </strong></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Joanne's Journey</p><p>03:25 Breaking Free from Rigid Beliefs</p><p>06:25 The Transformative Power of Psychedelics</p><p>09:19 Discovering Bufo Alvarius</p><p>12:13 Experiencing Spiritual Awakening</p><p>15:21 The Role of Ceremony in Healing</p><p>18:02 Unlocking Hidden Abilities</p><p>21:15 A New Love Story at 80</p><p>24:06 Finding Love Through Past Lives</p><p>32:24 Unexpected Connections: A Chance Encounter</p><p>38:09 Reinventing Life: Love and New Beginnings</p><p>40:20 Healing Through Bufo: A Journey of Transformation</p><p>48:10 Embracing Death: A New Perspective</p><p>54:13 The Power Within: Finding Your True Self</p><p><br /></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>#psychedelics #psychedelictherapy #intuition #mentalhealth #medication #medicine #health #spirituality #lovestory #love #transformation #mindfulness #healing #personalgrowth #emotionalhealing</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 30 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>abby@abbyhavermann.com (Abby Havermann)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What if your life didn’t start to bloom until 75? Jo Ann Moore—a radiant force of nature whose entire life transformed after her first psychedelic journey at age 75, spent decades suppressing her inner truth… until ayahuasca cracked her open and Bufo Alvarius blew the doors off her reality.</p><p>What followed? A complete awakening. A new love. A new life. And a fierce devotion to helping others remember who they are.</p><p>The content of this episode is for educational and informational purposes only. We are not promoting or encouraging the use of any illegal substances. The discussion reflects personal experiences and opinions, and is not intended as medical, therapeutic, or legal advice. Always consult with a qualified professional before making decisions regarding your health, safety, or participation in any ceremonial or plant medicine work. Use discretion and respect local laws and cultural traditions.</p><p>Jo Ann Moore shares her incredible journey of transformation that began at the age of 75 when she first tried psychedelics. Raised in a rigid religious environment, Jo Ann's life took a dramatic turn after experiencing ayahuasca and later Bufo Alvarius, leading her to profound spiritual awakenings, a new love, and a mission to help others. Through her story, she emphasizes the importance of inner exploration, healing trauma, and embracing life's possibilities at any age.</p><p><br /><strong>Chapters | </strong></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Joanne's Journey</p><p>03:25 Breaking Free from Rigid Beliefs</p><p>06:25 The Transformative Power of Psychedelics</p><p>09:19 Discovering Bufo Alvarius</p><p>12:13 Experiencing Spiritual Awakening</p><p>15:21 The Role of Ceremony in Healing</p><p>18:02 Unlocking Hidden Abilities</p><p>21:15 A New Love Story at 80</p><p>24:06 Finding Love Through Past Lives</p><p>32:24 Unexpected Connections: A Chance Encounter</p><p>38:09 Reinventing Life: Love and New Beginnings</p><p>40:20 Healing Through Bufo: A Journey of Transformation</p><p>48:10 Embracing Death: A New Perspective</p><p>54:13 The Power Within: Finding Your True Self</p><p><br /></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>#psychedelics #psychedelictherapy #intuition #mentalhealth #medication #medicine #health #spirituality #lovestory #love #transformation #mindfulness #healing #personalgrowth #emotionalhealing</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>What if your life didn’t start to bloom until 75? Jo Ann Moore—a radiant force of nature whose entire life transformed after her first psychedelic journey at age 75, spent decades suppressing her inner truth… until ayahuasca cracked her open and Bufo Alvarius blew the doors off her reality.What followed? A complete awakening. A new love. A new life. And a fierce devotion to helping others remember who they are.The content of this episode is for educational and informational purposes only. We are not promoting or encouraging the use of any illegal substances. The discussion reflects personal experiences and opinions, and is not intended as medical, therapeutic, or legal advice. Always consult with a qualified professional before making decisions regarding your health, safety, or participation in any ceremonial or plant medicine work. Use discretion and respect local laws and cultural traditions.Jo Ann Moore shares her incredible journey of transformation that began at the age of 75 when she first tried psychedelics. Raised in a rigid religious environment, Jo Ann&apos;s life took a dramatic turn after experiencing ayahuasca and later Bufo Alvarius, leading her to profound spiritual awakenings, a new love, and a mission to help others. Through her story, she emphasizes the importance of inner exploration, healing trauma, and embracing life&apos;s possibilities at any age.Chapters | 00:00 Introduction to Joanne&apos;s Journey03:25 Breaking Free from Rigid Beliefs06:25 The Transformative Power of Psychedelics09:19 Discovering Bufo Alvarius12:13 Experiencing Spiritual Awakening15:21 The Role of Ceremony in Healing18:02 Unlocking Hidden Abilities21:15 A New Love Story at 8024:06 Finding Love Through Past Lives32:24 Unexpected Connections: A Chance Encounter38:09 Reinventing Life: Love and New Beginnings40:20 Healing Through Bufo: A Journey of Transformation48:10 Embracing Death: A New Perspective54:13 The Power Within: Finding Your True SelfFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#psychedelics #psychedelictherapy #intuition #mentalhealth #medication #medicine #health #spirituality #lovestory #love #transformation #mindfulness #healing #personalgrowth #emotionalhealing</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>What if your life didn’t start to bloom until 75? Jo Ann Moore—a radiant force of nature whose entire life transformed after her first psychedelic journey at age 75, spent decades suppressing her inner truth… until ayahuasca cracked her open and Bufo Alvarius blew the doors off her reality.What followed? A complete awakening. A new love. A new life. And a fierce devotion to helping others remember who they are.The content of this episode is for educational and informational purposes only. We are not promoting or encouraging the use of any illegal substances. The discussion reflects personal experiences and opinions, and is not intended as medical, therapeutic, or legal advice. Always consult with a qualified professional before making decisions regarding your health, safety, or participation in any ceremonial or plant medicine work. Use discretion and respect local laws and cultural traditions.Jo Ann Moore shares her incredible journey of transformation that began at the age of 75 when she first tried psychedelics. Raised in a rigid religious environment, Jo Ann&apos;s life took a dramatic turn after experiencing ayahuasca and later Bufo Alvarius, leading her to profound spiritual awakenings, a new love, and a mission to help others. Through her story, she emphasizes the importance of inner exploration, healing trauma, and embracing life&apos;s possibilities at any age.Chapters | 00:00 Introduction to Joanne&apos;s Journey03:25 Breaking Free from Rigid Beliefs06:25 The Transformative Power of Psychedelics09:19 Discovering Bufo Alvarius12:13 Experiencing Spiritual Awakening15:21 The Role of Ceremony in Healing18:02 Unlocking Hidden Abilities21:15 A New Love Story at 8024:06 Finding Love Through Past Lives32:24 Unexpected Connections: A Chance Encounter38:09 Reinventing Life: Love and New Beginnings40:20 Healing Through Bufo: A Journey of Transformation48:10 Embracing Death: A New Perspective54:13 The Power Within: Finding Your True SelfFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#psychedelics #psychedelictherapy #intuition #mentalhealth #medication #medicine #health #spirituality #lovestory #love #transformation #mindfulness #healing #personalgrowth #emotionalhealing</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>Monday Muse #24 How to Say No Without Guilt, Resentment, or Self-Betrayal</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I’ll break down how unclear no’s and guilt-driven yes’s drain your energy, erode your relationships, and cause self-betrayal. You'll learn how to recognize when you're betraying yourself, how to set healthy boundaries with clarity and kindness, and how to make empowered choices that leave you feeling energized and connected — not exhausted and resentful.</p><p><br />Whether you struggle with people-pleasing, setting boundaries, or feeling guilty when you say no, this episode will give you practical tools to reclaim your energy and act in alignment with your true self.</p><p>00:00 The Consequences of Half-Hearted Decisions<br />02:23 The Importance of Integrity in Choices<br />05:41 Going All In: Embracing Your Decisions<br />08:19 Navigating Guilt and Resentment in Choices</p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br />👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>#settingboundaries #emotionalenergy #selfbetrayal  #resentment  #peoplepleasing #empowereddecisionmaking #energymanagement #intuitiveliving #healthycommunication #personalintegrity #guilt #resentment #relationships #healthy #energymanagementtips #tips</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 28 Apr 2025 10:56:57 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, I’ll break down how unclear no’s and guilt-driven yes’s drain your energy, erode your relationships, and cause self-betrayal. You'll learn how to recognize when you're betraying yourself, how to set healthy boundaries with clarity and kindness, and how to make empowered choices that leave you feeling energized and connected — not exhausted and resentful.</p><p><br />Whether you struggle with people-pleasing, setting boundaries, or feeling guilty when you say no, this episode will give you practical tools to reclaim your energy and act in alignment with your true self.</p><p>00:00 The Consequences of Half-Hearted Decisions<br />02:23 The Importance of Integrity in Choices<br />05:41 Going All In: Embracing Your Decisions<br />08:19 Navigating Guilt and Resentment in Choices</p><p>👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p><br />👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>#settingboundaries #emotionalenergy #selfbetrayal  #resentment  #peoplepleasing #empowereddecisionmaking #energymanagement #intuitiveliving #healthycommunication #personalintegrity #guilt #resentment #relationships #healthy #energymanagementtips #tips</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>In this episode, I’ll break down how unclear no’s and guilt-driven yes’s drain your energy, erode your relationships, and cause self-betrayal. You&apos;ll learn how to recognize when you&apos;re betraying yourself, how to set healthy boundaries with clarity and kindness, and how to make empowered choices that leave you feeling energized and connected — not exhausted and resentful.Whether you struggle with people-pleasing, setting boundaries, or feeling guilty when you say no, this episode will give you practical tools to reclaim your energy and act in alignment with your true self.00:00 The Consequences of Half-Hearted Decisions02:23 The Importance of Integrity in Choices05:41 Going All In: Embracing Your Decisions08:19 Navigating Guilt and Resentment in Choices👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speakingFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann#settingboundaries #emotionalenergy #selfbetrayal  #resentment  #peoplepleasing #empowereddecisionmaking #energymanagement #intuitiveliving #healthycommunication #personalintegrity #guilt #resentment #relationships #healthy #energymanagementtips #tips</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>In this episode, I’ll break down how unclear no’s and guilt-driven yes’s drain your energy, erode your relationships, and cause self-betrayal. You&apos;ll learn how to recognize when you&apos;re betraying yourself, how to set healthy boundaries with clarity and kindness, and how to make empowered choices that leave you feeling energized and connected — not exhausted and resentful.Whether you struggle with people-pleasing, setting boundaries, or feeling guilty when you say no, this episode will give you practical tools to reclaim your energy and act in alignment with your true self.00:00 The Consequences of Half-Hearted Decisions02:23 The Importance of Integrity in Choices05:41 Going All In: Embracing Your Decisions08:19 Navigating Guilt and Resentment in Choices👉 Get my free course: Stop Setting Boundaries (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speakingFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann#settingboundaries #emotionalenergy #selfbetrayal  #resentment  #peoplepleasing #empowereddecisionmaking #energymanagement #intuitiveliving #healthycommunication #personalintegrity #guilt #resentment #relationships #healthy #energymanagementtips #tips</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>#39 Dr. Nick Brüss - Psychedelics and Healing: A New Frontier in Therapy</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Nicholas Brüss is a psychotherapist and researcher specializing in psychedelic-assisted therapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS). He is known for blending mindfulness, compassion, and psychedelic medicine to treat trauma and other mental health conditions. </p><p>In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Nick Brüss to explore the deep, transformative potential of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy and psychedelic integration work. We talk about what it really means to connect with the younger parts of ourselves—the ones we’ve exiled, ignored, or tried to outgrow—and why healing doesn’t come from thinking our way out of pain, but from being present with it.</p><p>Nick shares powerful insights on how intellectualizing can block true healing, the role intuition plays in both therapy and psychedelic experiences, and what integration <em>actually</em> looks like after expanded states of consciousness. We also dive into the neuroscience behind parts work, how to recognize when you're blended with a part, and what happens when those exiled parts finally feel seen.</p><p><strong>Highlights include:</strong><br /> – The surprising role of intuition in clinical work<br /> – What “integration” means and why it’s non-negotiable after any breakthrough<br /> – Why over-intellectualizing your trauma might be your #1 block<br /> – How psychedelic therapy complements IFS for deeper transformation<br /> – Simple practices for identifying and unblending from younger parts<br /> – What true self-awareness <em>feels</em> like—not just what it looks like</p><p>This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt stuck in their head, disconnected from their body, or unsure how to turn an insight into lasting change.</p><p><br /></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Dr. Nick Brüss and His Work<br />02:53 Exploring Internal Family Systems Therapy<br />05:47 The Journey of Self-Discovery<br />09:01 Understanding Parts and Their Roles<br />12:03 Curiosity and Self-Exploration in Therapy<br />14:58 The Connection Between Parts and Intuition<br />17:59 Navigating Emotions and Parts in Relationships<br />20:59 Recognizing and Engaging with Younger Parts<br />24:05 The Role of Somatic Awareness in Therapy<br />26:32 Transitioning from Psychotherapy to Coaching<br />26:32 The Importance of Attention in Self-Discovery<br />29:10 Exploring Internal Family Systems Therapy<br />31:52 The Importance of Feeling Over Intellectualizing<br />34:47 Childhood Experiences and Their Impact<br />39:40 Avoidance and Numbing Mechanisms<br />43:33 Connecting with Our Inner Parts<br />46:49 Transforming Relationships Through Self-Awareness<br />51:59 Personal Growth and New Beginnings<br />56:06 The Power of Psychedelics in Healing<br />56:35 Integration: The Key to Lasting Change<br />57:50 Understanding the Process of Growth<br />58:54 The Journey of Self-Discovery<br />01:01:29 Navigating Patterns and Habits<br />01:05:25 The Role of Psychedelics in Therapy<br />01:07:10 Mechanisms of Psychedelics: How They Work<br />01:12:02 The Importance of Integration Post-Experience<br />01:13:25 FDA and the Future of Psychedelic Therapy<br />01:20:11 The Healing Potential of Psychedelics<br />01:23:04 Openness and Connection in Healing<br />01:24:14 The Practice of Freedom and Self-Connection</p><p><strong>Guest Resources |<br /></strong><br /></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/drnickbruss/?hl=en"><strong>@drnickbruss</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicholas-bruss/"><strong>https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicholas-bruss/</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://apracticeoffreedom.com/"><strong>apracticeoffreedom.com<br /></strong></a><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>#psychedelics #psychedelictherapy #intuition #mentalhealth #medication #therapy #medicine #health #internalfamilysystems #mindfulness #healing #personalgrowth #emotionalhealing #integration #ptsd</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>abby@abbyhavermann.com (Abby Havermann)</author>
      <link>https://www.abbyhavermann.com</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Nicholas Brüss is a psychotherapist and researcher specializing in psychedelic-assisted therapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS). He is known for blending mindfulness, compassion, and psychedelic medicine to treat trauma and other mental health conditions. </p><p>In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Nick Brüss to explore the deep, transformative potential of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy and psychedelic integration work. We talk about what it really means to connect with the younger parts of ourselves—the ones we’ve exiled, ignored, or tried to outgrow—and why healing doesn’t come from thinking our way out of pain, but from being present with it.</p><p>Nick shares powerful insights on how intellectualizing can block true healing, the role intuition plays in both therapy and psychedelic experiences, and what integration <em>actually</em> looks like after expanded states of consciousness. We also dive into the neuroscience behind parts work, how to recognize when you're blended with a part, and what happens when those exiled parts finally feel seen.</p><p><strong>Highlights include:</strong><br /> – The surprising role of intuition in clinical work<br /> – What “integration” means and why it’s non-negotiable after any breakthrough<br /> – Why over-intellectualizing your trauma might be your #1 block<br /> – How psychedelic therapy complements IFS for deeper transformation<br /> – Simple practices for identifying and unblending from younger parts<br /> – What true self-awareness <em>feels</em> like—not just what it looks like</p><p>This episode is for anyone who’s ever felt stuck in their head, disconnected from their body, or unsure how to turn an insight into lasting change.</p><p><br /></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Dr. Nick Brüss and His Work<br />02:53 Exploring Internal Family Systems Therapy<br />05:47 The Journey of Self-Discovery<br />09:01 Understanding Parts and Their Roles<br />12:03 Curiosity and Self-Exploration in Therapy<br />14:58 The Connection Between Parts and Intuition<br />17:59 Navigating Emotions and Parts in Relationships<br />20:59 Recognizing and Engaging with Younger Parts<br />24:05 The Role of Somatic Awareness in Therapy<br />26:32 Transitioning from Psychotherapy to Coaching<br />26:32 The Importance of Attention in Self-Discovery<br />29:10 Exploring Internal Family Systems Therapy<br />31:52 The Importance of Feeling Over Intellectualizing<br />34:47 Childhood Experiences and Their Impact<br />39:40 Avoidance and Numbing Mechanisms<br />43:33 Connecting with Our Inner Parts<br />46:49 Transforming Relationships Through Self-Awareness<br />51:59 Personal Growth and New Beginnings<br />56:06 The Power of Psychedelics in Healing<br />56:35 Integration: The Key to Lasting Change<br />57:50 Understanding the Process of Growth<br />58:54 The Journey of Self-Discovery<br />01:01:29 Navigating Patterns and Habits<br />01:05:25 The Role of Psychedelics in Therapy<br />01:07:10 Mechanisms of Psychedelics: How They Work<br />01:12:02 The Importance of Integration Post-Experience<br />01:13:25 FDA and the Future of Psychedelic Therapy<br />01:20:11 The Healing Potential of Psychedelics<br />01:23:04 Openness and Connection in Healing<br />01:24:14 The Practice of Freedom and Self-Connection</p><p><strong>Guest Resources |<br /></strong><br /></p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/drnickbruss/?hl=en"><strong>@drnickbruss</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicholas-bruss/"><strong>https://www.linkedin.com/in/nicholas-bruss/</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://apracticeoffreedom.com/"><strong>apracticeoffreedom.com<br /></strong></a><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>#psychedelics #psychedelictherapy #intuition #mentalhealth #medication #therapy #medicine #health #internalfamilysystems #mindfulness #healing #personalgrowth #emotionalhealing #integration #ptsd</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>#39 Dr. Nick Brüss - Psychedelics and Healing: A New Frontier in Therapy</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>Dr. Nicholas Brüss is a psychotherapist and researcher specializing in psychedelic-assisted therapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS). He is known for blending mindfulness, compassion, and psychedelic medicine to treat trauma and other mental health conditions. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Nick Brüss to explore the deep, transformative potential of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy and psychedelic integration work. We talk about what it really means to connect with the younger parts of ourselves—the ones we’ve exiled, ignored, or tried to outgrow—and why healing doesn’t come from thinking our way out of pain, but from being present with it.Nick shares powerful insights on how intellectualizing can block true healing, the role intuition plays in both therapy and psychedelic experiences, and what integration actually looks like after expanded states of consciousness. We also dive into the neuroscience behind parts work, how to recognize when you&apos;re blended with a part, and what happens when those exiled parts finally feel seen.Highlights include: – The surprising role of intuition in clinical work – What “integration” means and why it’s non-negotiable after any breakthrough – Why over-intellectualizing your trauma might be your #1 block – How psychedelic therapy complements IFS for deeper transformation – Simple practices for identifying and unblending from younger parts – What true self-awareness feels like—not just what it looks likeThis episode is for anyone who’s ever felt stuck in their head, disconnected from their body, or unsure how to turn an insight into lasting change.00:00 Introduction to Dr. Nick Brüss and His Work02:53 Exploring Internal Family Systems Therapy05:47 The Journey of Self-Discovery09:01 Understanding Parts and Their Roles12:03 Curiosity and Self-Exploration in Therapy14:58 The Connection Between Parts and Intuition17:59 Navigating Emotions and Parts in Relationships20:59 Recognizing and Engaging with Younger Parts24:05 The Role of Somatic Awareness in Therapy26:32 Transitioning from Psychotherapy to Coaching26:32 The Importance of Attention in Self-Discovery29:10 Exploring Internal Family Systems Therapy31:52 The Importance of Feeling Over Intellectualizing34:47 Childhood Experiences and Their Impact39:40 Avoidance and Numbing Mechanisms43:33 Connecting with Our Inner Parts46:49 Transforming Relationships Through Self-Awareness51:59 Personal Growth and New Beginnings56:06 The Power of Psychedelics in Healing56:35 Integration: The Key to Lasting Change57:50 Understanding the Process of Growth58:54 The Journey of Self-Discovery01:01:29 Navigating Patterns and Habits01:05:25 The Role of Psychedelics in Therapy01:07:10 Mechanisms of Psychedelics: How They Work01:12:02 The Importance of Integration Post-Experience01:13:25 FDA and the Future of Psychedelic Therapy01:20:11 The Healing Potential of Psychedelics01:23:04 Openness and Connection in Healing01:24:14 The Practice of Freedom and Self-ConnectionGuest Resources |@drnickbrusshttps://www.linkedin.com/in/nicholas-bruss/apracticeoffreedom.comFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#psychedelics #psychedelictherapy #intuition #mentalhealth #medication #therapy #medicine #health #internalfamilysystems #mindfulness #healing #personalgrowth #emotionalhealing #integration #ptsd</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Dr. Nicholas Brüss is a psychotherapist and researcher specializing in psychedelic-assisted therapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS). He is known for blending mindfulness, compassion, and psychedelic medicine to treat trauma and other mental health conditions. In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Nick Brüss to explore the deep, transformative potential of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy and psychedelic integration work. We talk about what it really means to connect with the younger parts of ourselves—the ones we’ve exiled, ignored, or tried to outgrow—and why healing doesn’t come from thinking our way out of pain, but from being present with it.Nick shares powerful insights on how intellectualizing can block true healing, the role intuition plays in both therapy and psychedelic experiences, and what integration actually looks like after expanded states of consciousness. We also dive into the neuroscience behind parts work, how to recognize when you&apos;re blended with a part, and what happens when those exiled parts finally feel seen.Highlights include: – The surprising role of intuition in clinical work – What “integration” means and why it’s non-negotiable after any breakthrough – Why over-intellectualizing your trauma might be your #1 block – How psychedelic therapy complements IFS for deeper transformation – Simple practices for identifying and unblending from younger parts – What true self-awareness feels like—not just what it looks likeThis episode is for anyone who’s ever felt stuck in their head, disconnected from their body, or unsure how to turn an insight into lasting change.00:00 Introduction to Dr. Nick Brüss and His Work02:53 Exploring Internal Family Systems Therapy05:47 The Journey of Self-Discovery09:01 Understanding Parts and Their Roles12:03 Curiosity and Self-Exploration in Therapy14:58 The Connection Between Parts and Intuition17:59 Navigating Emotions and Parts in Relationships20:59 Recognizing and Engaging with Younger Parts24:05 The Role of Somatic Awareness in Therapy26:32 Transitioning from Psychotherapy to Coaching26:32 The Importance of Attention in Self-Discovery29:10 Exploring Internal Family Systems Therapy31:52 The Importance of Feeling Over Intellectualizing34:47 Childhood Experiences and Their Impact39:40 Avoidance and Numbing Mechanisms43:33 Connecting with Our Inner Parts46:49 Transforming Relationships Through Self-Awareness51:59 Personal Growth and New Beginnings56:06 The Power of Psychedelics in Healing56:35 Integration: The Key to Lasting Change57:50 Understanding the Process of Growth58:54 The Journey of Self-Discovery01:01:29 Navigating Patterns and Habits01:05:25 The Role of Psychedelics in Therapy01:07:10 Mechanisms of Psychedelics: How They Work01:12:02 The Importance of Integration Post-Experience01:13:25 FDA and the Future of Psychedelic Therapy01:20:11 The Healing Potential of Psychedelics01:23:04 Openness and Connection in Healing01:24:14 The Practice of Freedom and Self-ConnectionGuest Resources |@drnickbrusshttps://www.linkedin.com/in/nicholas-bruss/apracticeoffreedom.comFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#psychedelics #psychedelictherapy #intuition #mentalhealth #medication #therapy #medicine #health #internalfamilysystems #mindfulness #healing #personalgrowth #emotionalhealing #integration #ptsd</itunes:subtitle>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Struggling to let go of guilt? In this episode of <em>Monday Muse</em>, I dive into the power of <strong>self-forgiveness</strong>—why it’s essential for your <strong>mental and physical health</strong>, how it affects your <strong>relationships</strong>, and why it has to come before forgiving others. If you're ready to stop carrying the weight of past mistakes and start moving forward with clarity, compassion, and confidence, this one's for you.</p><p>00:00 The Struggle of Self-Forgiveness</p><p>04:24 First Forgiveness, Then Gratitude, Then Love</p><p>05:49 Self-Forgiveness Is The Only Forgiveness Needed</p><p>14:05 Find Your Saboteurs with this free offer</p><p>14:34 Steps to Forgive Yourself</p><p><br />👉 **Get my free course:** *Stop Setting Boundaries* (under an hour!): <br />https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>#SelfForgiveness #EmotionalIntelligence #Healing #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Resilience #Forgiveness #MondayMuse</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 21 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Struggling to let go of guilt? In this episode of <em>Monday Muse</em>, I dive into the power of <strong>self-forgiveness</strong>—why it’s essential for your <strong>mental and physical health</strong>, how it affects your <strong>relationships</strong>, and why it has to come before forgiving others. If you're ready to stop carrying the weight of past mistakes and start moving forward with clarity, compassion, and confidence, this one's for you.</p><p>00:00 The Struggle of Self-Forgiveness</p><p>04:24 First Forgiveness, Then Gratitude, Then Love</p><p>05:49 Self-Forgiveness Is The Only Forgiveness Needed</p><p>14:05 Find Your Saboteurs with this free offer</p><p>14:34 Steps to Forgive Yourself</p><p><br />👉 **Get my free course:** *Stop Setting Boundaries* (under an hour!): <br />https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>#SelfForgiveness #EmotionalIntelligence #Healing #MentalHealth #PersonalGrowth #Resilience #Forgiveness #MondayMuse</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>#38 Joel Schafer - Breaking Free From Materialism</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Joel Schafer is a personal empowerment mentor and shamanic dreaming arts teacher. His work is primarily based on Toltec knowledge, the tradition that inspired the book <em>The Four Agreements</em>. He teaches techniques to reclaim energy and awareness through online courses, workshops, and one-on-one sessions.</p><p>Joel and I delve into the depths of Toltec shamanism, exploring its principles, practices, and the transformative power of dreams. Joel shares his personal journey into shamanism, the significance of recapitulation, and how understanding death can lead to a more meaningful life. They discuss the deceptions present in the world, the importance of intuition, and the necessity of self-love in personal empowerment. The dialogue emphasizes the interconnectedness of all experiences and the potential for growth through challenges.</p><p><strong>Chapters:</strong><br />00:00 Introduction to Toltec Shamanism</p><p>02:33 The Journey of a Shaman</p><p>05:03 Understanding the Dreaming Arts</p><p>07:29 The Nature of Consciousness and Death</p><p>10:11 Breaking Free from Materialism</p><p>12:35 The Mirror of Self-Reflection</p><p>15:14 Navigating Challenges and Triggers</p><p>17:37 The Two Minds: Natural vs. Foreign</p><p>20:04 Integrating Spirituality with Daily Life</p><p>22:40 Exploring the Lower Chakras</p><p>25:17 The Importance of Shadow Work</p><p>28:07 Understanding Impeccability vs. Discipline</p><p>29:46 The Epidemic of Self-Judgment</p><p>31:08 The Complexity of Self-Deception</p><p>32:04 Waking Up to Deceptions</p><p>34:12 The Nature of Reality and Control</p><p>35:51 The Role of Fear and Courage</p><p>39:05 Embracing Death as an Advisor</p><p>41:32 The Beauty and Terror of Existence</p><p>43:47 The Challenge of Transformation</p><p>47:11 Intuition and the Power of Feeling</p><p>50:11 The Journey of Self-Discovery</p><p><br /><strong>Guest Resources:</strong></p><a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fyoutube.com%2F%40sunwolf1111&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=18db9a1b19f2b7401199735fded168ba08493e872f4d27783f357378dd671a91">https://youtube.com/@sunwolf1111</a><br /><a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fjoel.schafer.56&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=f778573e9367d9826a4d2eb8fe042d983da121e1dfe7c38dd22459541caa49a2">https://www.facebook.com/joel.schafer.56</a><br /><a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fjoel.schafer&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=8510ade5ac8e828cf7c208882265fcc84c4eb36f499e5b975a345800ee094d19">https://www.instagram.com/joel.schafer</a><br /><a href="https://x.com/joelschafer2">https://x.com/joelschafer2</a><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>#Toltecshamanism #personalempowerment #dreaming #recapitulation #consciousness #self-love #spiritualgrowth #intuition #death #perception</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 16 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>How often do we think we’re being logical… when really, we’re just emotionally hijacked? Feeling exhausted and alone all the time isn't good for anyone's health.  Learn how to regulate your emotions and choose serenity first, in this episode of the Monday Muse.</p><p>You’ll learn:<br /> 🧠 Why emotional overload disrupts your ability to make wise decisions<br /> 🧘‍♀️ How <strong>serenity</strong> (not more control) is the secret to reclaiming your power<br /> 🔄 How emotional patterns mimic <strong>addiction</strong> and what to do about it<br /> 🫀 Why your <strong>relationships, health, and choices</strong> are all impacted by your emotional state<br /> 🧭 Simple, practical tools to shift into self-awareness and grow from your experiences</p><p>00:00 What to do when you’re emotionally hijacked<br />01:20 When I lost my mind step-parenting<br />02:57: We are addicted to our emotions<br />03:50:The slogan that will change your life<br />05:38: The Benefits of This Practice <br />07:26: An Exercise to Practice for Yourself</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉 **Get my free course:** *Stop Setting Boundaries* (under an hour!): <br />https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>#emotionalintelligence #emotionalregulation #serenity  #decisionmaking  #neuroscience #addiction #relationships #selfawareness #clarity #personalgrowth #serenitynow </p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 14 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Steven Twohig is an American coach, author, and speaker who focuses on personal transformation and business strategy. He is the founder of Mastering Change and a proponent of "shadow work". </p><p>In this episode of <em>The Intuition Incubator</em>, I sit down with <strong>Steven Twohig</strong>—a master of shadow-informed depth work—to explore why we keep living out the same patterns on repeat (ugh, right?). We unpack how <strong>childhood experiences</strong> and internal constructs quietly drive our choices, our relationships, and even how we see the world.</p><p>Steven brings a grounded, no-fluff approach to <strong>shadow work</strong>, sharing practical ways to meet the parts of ourselves we’ve been avoiding—and why doing so is the key to actual, lasting transformation. We talk <strong>needs, perceptions, healing, and the hard stuff</strong>, all with the goal of helping you reconnect with your intuition and live from the inside out. If you’ve ever felt stuck in a loop you can’t quite name, this one’s for you.</p><p><strong>Chapters | </strong></p><p>00:00 What you'll learn in this podcast</p><p>01:56 Stephen's Journey and the Concept of Sacred Fears</p><p>04:39 Are You Manifesting Your Own Struggles?</p><p>07:32 The Velocity of Change and Re-evaluation</p><p>11:05 Childhood Experiences and Ancestral Trauma</p><p>17:00 The Role of Relationships in Reinforcing Patterns</p><p>23:10 Turning Within: The Path to Change</p><p>29:45 Understanding Personal Responsibility in Relationships</p><p>34:29 Cognitive Loops and Shadow Work</p><p>42:45 The Four Rules of Shadow Work</p><p>48:39 The Nature of Shadow and Intuition</p><p>53:28 Embracing Our Creative Power</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Guest Resources |<br /></strong>Steve's Book - Turning Within: Reclaiming Your Soul From Shadow <br />https://www.amazon.com/Turning-Within-Reclaiming-Your-Shadow/dp/B0D4C6SPYK</p><p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/steventwohig/?hl=en"><strong>https://www.instagram.com/steventwohig/?hl=en</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/steventwohig/"><strong>https://www.linkedin.com/in/steventwohig/</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://masteringchange.com/"><strong>https://masteringchange.com/</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://www.evolvingmindproject.org/"><strong>https://www.evolvingmindproject.org/</strong></a><strong><br /></strong><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>#patterns #relationships #inner child #shadow work #personal growth #emotional healing #self-awareness #intuition #cognitive biases #depth work</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>#36 Shannon Cassidy - Unlocking the Power of Generosity in Leadership</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Shannon Cassidy is the founder and CEO of Bridge Between, Inc., a leadership development and coaching firm. The "bridge" is a metaphor for the gap she helps her clients cross between their current state and a desired future state.</p><p>In this episode, I chat with Shannon Cassidy, about how generosity can transform leadership and workplace culture—not in some fluffy way, but in real, practical, game-changing ways. What if generosity was your greatest leadership tool? </p><p>We dig into how being generous with your feedback, your presence, and your curiosity can create deeper connection and more effective teams. If you're ready to lead with heart and results, this conversation is your permission slip.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Generosity in Leadership<br />02:42 Shannon's Journey to Entrepreneurship<br />05:35 The Importance of Bridging Gaps<br />08:27 Understanding Strengths and Weaknesses<br />11:42 The Role of Generosity in Personal and Professional Growth<br />14:28 Exploring the Concept of Return on Generosity<br />17:29 Practical Applications of Generosity in Leadership<br />20:28 Feedback as a Generous Act<br />23:31 The Impact of Generosity on Workplace Culture<br />29:49 Navigating Career Transitions<br />31:40 The Power of Generosity<br />32:40 Mindfulness and Response<br />38:56 Grounding in Gratitude<br />44:31 Curiosity as a Tool for Connection</p><p>Guest Resources |<br />www.bridgebetween.com<br />https://www.youtube.com/@ShannonCassidybb</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>#generosity #leadership #generousleadership #coaching #workplaceculture #selfdiscovery #feedback #kindness #curiosity #gratitude #personalgrowth #returnongenerosity #intuitionincubator</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 9 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Shannon Cassidy is the founder and CEO of Bridge Between, Inc., a leadership development and coaching firm. The &quot;bridge&quot; is a metaphor for the gap she helps her clients cross between their current state and a desired future state.In this episode, I chat with Shannon Cassidy, about how generosity can transform leadership and workplace culture—not in some fluffy way, but in real, practical, game-changing ways. What if generosity was your greatest leadership tool? We dig into how being generous with your feedback, your presence, and your curiosity can create deeper connection and more effective teams. If you&apos;re ready to lead with heart and results, this conversation is your permission slip.00:00 Introduction to Generosity in Leadership02:42 Shannon&apos;s Journey to Entrepreneurship05:35 The Importance of Bridging Gaps08:27 Understanding Strengths and Weaknesses11:42 The Role of Generosity in Personal and Professional Growth14:28 Exploring the Concept of Return on Generosity17:29 Practical Applications of Generosity in Leadership20:28 Feedback as a Generous Act23:31 The Impact of Generosity on Workplace Culture29:49 Navigating Career Transitions31:40 The Power of Generosity32:40 Mindfulness and Response38:56 Grounding in Gratitude44:31 Curiosity as a Tool for ConnectionGuest Resources |www.bridgebetween.comhttps://www.youtube.com/@ShannonCassidybbFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#generosity #leadership #generousleadership #coaching #workplaceculture #selfdiscovery #feedback #kindness #curiosity #gratitude #personalgrowth #returnongenerosity #intuitionincubator</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Shannon Cassidy is the founder and CEO of Bridge Between, Inc., a leadership development and coaching firm. The &quot;bridge&quot; is a metaphor for the gap she helps her clients cross between their current state and a desired future state.In this episode, I chat with Shannon Cassidy, about how generosity can transform leadership and workplace culture—not in some fluffy way, but in real, practical, game-changing ways. What if generosity was your greatest leadership tool? We dig into how being generous with your feedback, your presence, and your curiosity can create deeper connection and more effective teams. If you&apos;re ready to lead with heart and results, this conversation is your permission slip.00:00 Introduction to Generosity in Leadership02:42 Shannon&apos;s Journey to Entrepreneurship05:35 The Importance of Bridging Gaps08:27 Understanding Strengths and Weaknesses11:42 The Role of Generosity in Personal and Professional Growth14:28 Exploring the Concept of Return on Generosity17:29 Practical Applications of Generosity in Leadership20:28 Feedback as a Generous Act23:31 The Impact of Generosity on Workplace Culture29:49 Navigating Career Transitions31:40 The Power of Generosity32:40 Mindfulness and Response38:56 Grounding in Gratitude44:31 Curiosity as a Tool for ConnectionGuest Resources |www.bridgebetween.comhttps://www.youtube.com/@ShannonCassidybbFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking#generosity #leadership #generousleadership #coaching #workplaceculture #selfdiscovery #feedback #kindness #curiosity #gratitude #personalgrowth #returnongenerosity #intuitionincubator</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>#35 Matthew Ellsworth - From Capitol Hill to Community Healing: The Real Work of Leadership</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Matthew Ellsworth </strong>is the Executive Director of the Association of Washington Public Hospital Districts. He’s worn a lot of hats — political advisor, campaign strategist, nonprofit board member, credit union leader — and yet, the thread that runs through it all is <em>curiosity</em>.</p><p>In this episode, we discuss what happens when your success stops feeling like success? When the title, the recognition, the open doors... no longer match what your inner knowing is whispering (or screaming)? We talk about what it really means to lead — especially from the second seat — and how hard it can be to pivot when you’ve invested years (or decades) in an identity that no longer fits.</p><p>We also get into:<br /> 💡 How to lead through intuition (not ego)<br /> ⚡ Why energy management is more powerful than time management<br /> 🌱 What stress, joy, and service have in common<br /> 🚪 And the myth of “loyalty” in the workplace</p><p><br />If you’ve ever been afraid to take the leap, question the path you’re on, or step into a new version of yourself — this one’s for you.</p><p>🧠✨ Because leadership isn’t just about what you do. It’s about who you are when no one’s watching.</p><p><strong>🔗 Resources & Links</strong><br /> 🔹 Learn more about Matthew: <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewgellsworth">www.linkedin.com/in/matthewgellsworth</a></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 4 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>Matthew Ellsworth </strong>is the Executive Director of the Association of Washington Public Hospital Districts. He’s worn a lot of hats — political advisor, campaign strategist, nonprofit board member, credit union leader — and yet, the thread that runs through it all is <em>curiosity</em>.</p><p>In this episode, we discuss what happens when your success stops feeling like success? When the title, the recognition, the open doors... no longer match what your inner knowing is whispering (or screaming)? We talk about what it really means to lead — especially from the second seat — and how hard it can be to pivot when you’ve invested years (or decades) in an identity that no longer fits.</p><p>We also get into:<br /> 💡 How to lead through intuition (not ego)<br /> ⚡ Why energy management is more powerful than time management<br /> 🌱 What stress, joy, and service have in common<br /> 🚪 And the myth of “loyalty” in the workplace</p><p><br />If you’ve ever been afraid to take the leap, question the path you’re on, or step into a new version of yourself — this one’s for you.</p><p>🧠✨ Because leadership isn’t just about what you do. It’s about who you are when no one’s watching.</p><p><strong>🔗 Resources & Links</strong><br /> 🔹 Learn more about Matthew: <a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/matthewgellsworth">www.linkedin.com/in/matthewgellsworth</a></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>Matthew Ellsworth is the Executive Director of the Association of Washington Public Hospital Districts. He’s worn a lot of hats — political advisor, campaign strategist, nonprofit board member, credit union leader — and yet, the thread that runs through it all is curiosity.In this episode, we discuss what happens when your success stops feeling like success? When the title, the recognition, the open doors... no longer match what your inner knowing is whispering (or screaming)? We talk about what it really means to lead — especially from the second seat — and how hard it can be to pivot when you’ve invested years (or decades) in an identity that no longer fits.We also get into: 💡 How to lead through intuition (not ego) ⚡ Why energy management is more powerful than time management 🌱 What stress, joy, and service have in common 🚪 And the myth of “loyalty” in the workplaceIf you’ve ever been afraid to take the leap, question the path you’re on, or step into a new version of yourself — this one’s for you.🧠✨ Because leadership isn’t just about what you do. It’s about who you are when no one’s watching.🔗 Resources &amp; Links 🔹 Learn more about Matthew: www.linkedin.com/in/matthewgellsworthFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:summary>
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      <title>#34 Bo Eason - Leadership &amp; Intuition: Stop Being a Fan. Start Playing the Game of Life</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Bo Eason is a former NFL safety who played for the Houston Oilers and had a brief stint with the San Francisco 49ers. After his NFL career, Eason became an actor, playwright, motivational speaker, and author. He wrote and performed a one-man play called "Runt of the Litter". He is also a leadership trainer to Fortune 500 companies.</p><p>In this episode, learn how an NFL star turned into a Broadway legend and mastered both worlds with authenticity and determination. Bo goes where few dare, discussing the importance of our predatory nature, the transformative power of storytelling, and the value (think $$) of trusting one's intuition. Bo provides practical tips for effective storytelling and encourages listeners to embrace their unique paths and struggles.</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>You'll hear:</strong></p><ul><li>Why we should embrace our predator tendencies rather than repel them</li><li>How being more of YOU is what the world needs</li><li>Why you should be paid well for your services</li><li>Tips on how to bring compelling storytelling in to grow your business</li></ul><p>How can you bring more of YOU to the world?</p><p><br /><strong>Chapters<br /></strong>00:00 Introduction to Bo Eason's Journey</p><p>01:39 The Player vs. Fan Mentality</p><p>04:13 Trusting Your Intuition</p><p>06:53 Authenticity in Storytelling</p><p>09:24 The Nature of Humans as Predators</p><p>12:11 Engaging with Instincts and Fear</p><p>21:44 Trust Your Animalistic Instinct</p><p>21:45 Bo Takes A Pulse on The Culture Every Day</p><p>23:33 Understanding Your Value</p><p>27:19 What Authenticity In Leadership Really Is</p><p>30:41 Overcoming Self-Doubt and Insecurity</p><p>33:16 How Bo Helps People Get Out of Their Own Way</p><p>43:30 Engaging Through Storytelling</p><p><strong>🔗 Resources & Links</strong><br /><a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.linkedin.com%2Fin%2Fboeasonofficial&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=5e6efd344ee27c0ddef203251e4e7190491b827799fbb7a4d74997186e5e72c6"><strong>https://www.linkedin.com/in/boeasonofficial</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fboeasonofficial%2F&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=e9bf28621a94e16643e20069617ed7386ec5a8f9b9afff75e05e763d3a609767"><strong>https://www.facebook.com/boeasonofficial/</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fboeason21%2F&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=f7c4213f6578ff489a738639c307d024cc7210f3a6949d4096a210dc6d8b8dfd"><strong>https://www.instagram.com/boeason21/</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fuser%2Fmrboeason&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=72e9f9598296fe3f728aa77edefef2f3fcd0d2155cd50435b0c35b93b22ceff3"><strong>https://www.youtube.com/user/mrboeason<br /></strong></a><a href="http://boeason.com/"><strong>http://BoEason.com</strong></a></p><p>Text GUIDE to number 323-310-5504 to get your free Story Guide</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking<strong><br /></strong><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
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      <author>abby@abbyhavermann.com (Abby Havermann)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bo Eason is a former NFL safety who played for the Houston Oilers and had a brief stint with the San Francisco 49ers. After his NFL career, Eason became an actor, playwright, motivational speaker, and author. He wrote and performed a one-man play called "Runt of the Litter". He is also a leadership trainer to Fortune 500 companies.</p><p>In this episode, learn how an NFL star turned into a Broadway legend and mastered both worlds with authenticity and determination. Bo goes where few dare, discussing the importance of our predatory nature, the transformative power of storytelling, and the value (think $$) of trusting one's intuition. Bo provides practical tips for effective storytelling and encourages listeners to embrace their unique paths and struggles.</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>You'll hear:</strong></p><ul><li>Why we should embrace our predator tendencies rather than repel them</li><li>How being more of YOU is what the world needs</li><li>Why you should be paid well for your services</li><li>Tips on how to bring compelling storytelling in to grow your business</li></ul><p>How can you bring more of YOU to the world?</p><p><br /><strong>Chapters<br /></strong>00:00 Introduction to Bo Eason's Journey</p><p>01:39 The Player vs. Fan Mentality</p><p>04:13 Trusting Your Intuition</p><p>06:53 Authenticity in Storytelling</p><p>09:24 The Nature of Humans as Predators</p><p>12:11 Engaging with Instincts and Fear</p><p>21:44 Trust Your Animalistic Instinct</p><p>21:45 Bo Takes A Pulse on The Culture Every Day</p><p>23:33 Understanding Your Value</p><p>27:19 What Authenticity In Leadership Really Is</p><p>30:41 Overcoming Self-Doubt and Insecurity</p><p>33:16 How Bo Helps People Get Out of Their Own Way</p><p>43:30 Engaging Through Storytelling</p><p><strong>🔗 Resources & Links</strong><br /><a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.linkedin.com%2Fin%2Fboeasonofficial&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=5e6efd344ee27c0ddef203251e4e7190491b827799fbb7a4d74997186e5e72c6"><strong>https://www.linkedin.com/in/boeasonofficial</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fboeasonofficial%2F&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=e9bf28621a94e16643e20069617ed7386ec5a8f9b9afff75e05e763d3a609767"><strong>https://www.facebook.com/boeasonofficial/</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.instagram.com%2Fboeason21%2F&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=f7c4213f6578ff489a738639c307d024cc7210f3a6949d4096a210dc6d8b8dfd"><strong>https://www.instagram.com/boeason21/</strong></a></p><p><a href="https://calendly.com/url?q=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fuser%2Fmrboeason&user_uuid=GFDFPMXZP3QSF2WU&stage=1&hmac=72e9f9598296fe3f728aa77edefef2f3fcd0d2155cd50435b0c35b93b22ceff3"><strong>https://www.youtube.com/user/mrboeason<br /></strong></a><a href="http://boeason.com/"><strong>http://BoEason.com</strong></a></p><p>Text GUIDE to number 323-310-5504 to get your free Story Guide</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking<strong><br /></strong><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>Bo Eason is a former NFL safety who played for the Houston Oilers and had a brief stint with the San Francisco 49ers. After his NFL career, Eason became an actor, playwright, motivational speaker, and author. He wrote and performed a one-man play called &quot;Runt of the Litter&quot;. He is also a leadership trainer to Fortune 500 companies.In this episode, learn how an NFL star turned into a Broadway legend and mastered both worlds with authenticity and determination. Bo goes where few dare, discussing the importance of our predatory nature, the transformative power of storytelling, and the value (think $$) of trusting one&apos;s intuition. Bo provides practical tips for effective storytelling and encourages listeners to embrace their unique paths and struggles.You&apos;ll hear:Why we should embrace our predator tendencies rather than repel themHow being more of YOU is what the world needsWhy you should be paid well for your servicesTips on how to bring compelling storytelling in to grow your businessHow can you bring more of YOU to the world?Chapters00:00 Introduction to Bo Eason&apos;s Journey01:39 The Player vs. Fan Mentality04:13 Trusting Your Intuition06:53 Authenticity in Storytelling09:24 The Nature of Humans as Predators12:11 Engaging with Instincts and Fear21:44 Trust Your Animalistic Instinct21:45 Bo Takes A Pulse on The Culture Every Day23:33 Understanding Your Value27:19 What Authenticity In Leadership Really Is30:41 Overcoming Self-Doubt and Insecurity33:16 How Bo Helps People Get Out of Their Own Way43:30 Engaging Through Storytelling🔗 Resources &amp; Linkshttps://www.linkedin.com/in/boeasonofficialhttps://www.facebook.com/boeasonofficial/https://www.instagram.com/boeason21/https://www.youtube.com/user/mrboeasonhttp://BoEason.comText GUIDE to number 323-310-5504 to get your free Story GuideFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:summary>
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      <title>#33 Dr. Hemal Patel - How Meditation Rewires Your Biology (According to Science)</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Hemal Patel is known for his scientific investigation into meditation and the mind-body connection, including research into the cellular and biological changes associated with deep meditative states. He is also the lead researcher for author and speaker Dr. Joe Dispenza.</p><p>What if meditation could rewire your brain, boost resilience, and even impact your physical health at the cellular level? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Hamel Patel, a leading expert in pharmacology and health research, to explore the science behind the mind-body connection and its role in wellness, healing, and transformation.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Dr. Hamel Patel and His Work<br />02:56 The Journey of Science and Spirituality<br />06:02 Exploring Mind-Body Connection in Health<br />08:59 The Impact of Meditation on Health<br />11:56 Researching Meditation During COVID-19<br />14:51 The Human Collectome and Its Insights<br />17:58 Discovering Proteins and Their Role in Health<br />20:50 The Broader Implications of Meditation Research<br />23:49 Innovative Approaches to Health and Healing<br />25:58 The Transformative Power of Intention<br />30:00 Belief vs. Intention in Healing<br />35:05 Mitochondria: The Energy Powerhouse<br />39:55 Intuition and Collective Consciousness<br />43:58 Harnessing Inner Resilience for Healing</p><p>Guest Resources |<br />@hemalpatelphd</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br />#meditation #brain #mindbodyconnection #health #spirituality #resilience #wellness #intention #energy #intuition #transformation</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Hemal Patel is known for his scientific investigation into meditation and the mind-body connection, including research into the cellular and biological changes associated with deep meditative states. He is also the lead researcher for author and speaker Dr. Joe Dispenza.</p><p>What if meditation could rewire your brain, boost resilience, and even impact your physical health at the cellular level? In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Hamel Patel, a leading expert in pharmacology and health research, to explore the science behind the mind-body connection and its role in wellness, healing, and transformation.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Dr. Hamel Patel and His Work<br />02:56 The Journey of Science and Spirituality<br />06:02 Exploring Mind-Body Connection in Health<br />08:59 The Impact of Meditation on Health<br />11:56 Researching Meditation During COVID-19<br />14:51 The Human Collectome and Its Insights<br />17:58 Discovering Proteins and Their Role in Health<br />20:50 The Broader Implications of Meditation Research<br />23:49 Innovative Approaches to Health and Healing<br />25:58 The Transformative Power of Intention<br />30:00 Belief vs. Intention in Healing<br />35:05 Mitochondria: The Energy Powerhouse<br />39:55 Intuition and Collective Consciousness<br />43:58 Harnessing Inner Resilience for Healing</p><p>Guest Resources |<br />@hemalpatelphd</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br />#meditation #brain #mindbodyconnection #health #spirituality #resilience #wellness #intention #energy #intuition #transformation</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>#32 Dr. Robert Melillo - The Hidden Genius in Your Child’s Brain (And Yours Too)</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Robert Melillo is a chiropractic neurologist, researcher, and author known for developing the "functional disconnection syndrome" theory and founding the Brain Balance Achievement Centers. He has written several books on the topic, including the bestseller <em>Disconnected Kids</em>. His methods have garnered both support from some families and criticism from others and some experts regarding the scientific evidence.</p><p>In this eye-opening conversation, Dr. Robert Melillo unpacks his decades of expertise in <strong>neuroscience</strong> and <strong>childhood disorders</strong>, diving deep into the complexities of <strong>ADHD, autism, and brain balance</strong>. He sheds light on how the <strong>right and left brain</strong> develop—and what happens when they don’t sync up as they should. We explore the often-overlooked power of <strong>parental intuition</strong>, the need for <strong>education reform</strong> that actually supports neurodivergent kids, and the role of <strong>emotional intelligence</strong> in helping children thrive. Dr. Melillo challenges conventional perspectives on <strong>ADHD and autism</strong>, urging us to see the brilliance in these children and embrace the potential of <strong>neuroplasticity</strong> to unlock their best selves. If you’ve ever questioned how we can do better for our kids, this conversation will shift the way you see the developing brain.</p><p>Chapters|</p><p>00:00 Introducing Dr. Melillo<br />01:43 Dr. Melillo's Intuitive Journey Into Treating Childhood Disorders<br />05:36 Normalizing Parent's Emotions About Their Child's Development<br />10:02 Where Emotions Live In Your Brain<br />17:37 Telepathy in Non-Speaking Autistic Children<br />22:26 Intuition , Emotions and Cognitive Skills<br />29:10 Celebrating Gifts While Addressing Deficits<br />31:09 Right Brain Gifts/Left Brain Struggles<br />36:29 Why Current Depression Treatments are Outdated.<br />39:50 The Left Brain's Echo Chamber And Our Culture's Obsession With It<br />52:22 Reforming Education for Brain Development<br />56:22 Introduction to Intuition and Support<br />56:22 Engagement and Community Building</p><p>Guest Resources |<br />https://www.facebook.com/DrRobertMelillo/<br />https://www.instagram.com/DrRobertMelillo/</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 26 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Robert Melillo is a chiropractic neurologist, researcher, and author known for developing the "functional disconnection syndrome" theory and founding the Brain Balance Achievement Centers. He has written several books on the topic, including the bestseller <em>Disconnected Kids</em>. His methods have garnered both support from some families and criticism from others and some experts regarding the scientific evidence.</p><p>In this eye-opening conversation, Dr. Robert Melillo unpacks his decades of expertise in <strong>neuroscience</strong> and <strong>childhood disorders</strong>, diving deep into the complexities of <strong>ADHD, autism, and brain balance</strong>. He sheds light on how the <strong>right and left brain</strong> develop—and what happens when they don’t sync up as they should. We explore the often-overlooked power of <strong>parental intuition</strong>, the need for <strong>education reform</strong> that actually supports neurodivergent kids, and the role of <strong>emotional intelligence</strong> in helping children thrive. Dr. Melillo challenges conventional perspectives on <strong>ADHD and autism</strong>, urging us to see the brilliance in these children and embrace the potential of <strong>neuroplasticity</strong> to unlock their best selves. If you’ve ever questioned how we can do better for our kids, this conversation will shift the way you see the developing brain.</p><p>Chapters|</p><p>00:00 Introducing Dr. Melillo<br />01:43 Dr. Melillo's Intuitive Journey Into Treating Childhood Disorders<br />05:36 Normalizing Parent's Emotions About Their Child's Development<br />10:02 Where Emotions Live In Your Brain<br />17:37 Telepathy in Non-Speaking Autistic Children<br />22:26 Intuition , Emotions and Cognitive Skills<br />29:10 Celebrating Gifts While Addressing Deficits<br />31:09 Right Brain Gifts/Left Brain Struggles<br />36:29 Why Current Depression Treatments are Outdated.<br />39:50 The Left Brain's Echo Chamber And Our Culture's Obsession With It<br />52:22 Reforming Education for Brain Development<br />56:22 Introduction to Intuition and Support<br />56:22 Engagement and Community Building</p><p>Guest Resources |<br />https://www.facebook.com/DrRobertMelillo/<br />https://www.instagram.com/DrRobertMelillo/</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>Monday Muse #21 - 4 Things to Stop Doing to Improve Your Relationships and Find Clarity</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Monday Muse I discuss how to stop giving away personal power in conversations and relationships. I will emphasize the importance of self-empowerment and recognizing self-sabotaging behaviors such as justifying, arguing, defending, and explaining oneself. By understanding these behaviors, individuals can foster healthier relationships and set appropriate boundaries, ultimately leading to personal growth and improved communication.</p><p>- Justifying your actions signals a need for approval.<br />- Arguing often leads to disempowerment and frustration.<br />- Defending yourself can open you up to judgment.<br />- Explaining yourself repeatedly can be counterproductive.<br />- Trusting yourself eliminates the need for validation.<br />- Healthy relationships stem from self-awareness and boundaries.<br />- Change in behavior can diffuse conflict.<br />- Personal growth leads to healthier connections.</p><p>👉 **Get my free course:** *Stop Setting Boundaries* (under an hour!): <br />https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>#reaction #power #silence #silenceispower #empowerment #communication #relationship #relationships #boundaries #personalgrowth #selfawareness #conflict #emotionalawareness #emotionalintelligence</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 24 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of the Monday Muse I discuss how to stop giving away personal power in conversations and relationships. I will emphasize the importance of self-empowerment and recognizing self-sabotaging behaviors such as justifying, arguing, defending, and explaining oneself. By understanding these behaviors, individuals can foster healthier relationships and set appropriate boundaries, ultimately leading to personal growth and improved communication.</p><p>- Justifying your actions signals a need for approval.<br />- Arguing often leads to disempowerment and frustration.<br />- Defending yourself can open you up to judgment.<br />- Explaining yourself repeatedly can be counterproductive.<br />- Trusting yourself eliminates the need for validation.<br />- Healthy relationships stem from self-awareness and boundaries.<br />- Change in behavior can diffuse conflict.<br />- Personal growth leads to healthier connections.</p><p>👉 **Get my free course:** *Stop Setting Boundaries* (under an hour!): <br />https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>#reaction #power #silence #silenceispower #empowerment #communication #relationship #relationships #boundaries #personalgrowth #selfawareness #conflict #emotionalawareness #emotionalintelligence</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>#31 Bonnie Divina Maa, RN - The Dark Night of The Soul: How to Remember Who You Are</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Bonnie Divina Maa, RN is a former critical care registered nurse, now a spiritual guide, multi-dimensional healer, and author. She spent over 15 years in critical care nursing, specializing in trauma and cardiac care before transitioning her career.</p><p>I sit down with Bonnie and explore the journey of spiritual awakening, trauma resolution, and the importance of remembering who we are. Bonnie shares her personal experiences of breakdown and breakthrough, her exploration of sacred medicines, and the balance between humanity and divinity. We discuss the roles we play in life, the significance of duality, and how perspective can transform our understanding of pain and healing. Ultimately, the conversation emphasizes the beauty of being human and the light within us all.</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Chapters | </strong></p><p><br /></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Healing Journeys</p><p>01:59 Breakdown to Breakthrough: Bonnie's Transformation</p><p>04:26 The Role of Intuition in Healing</p><p>06:42 Exploring Sacred Medicines and Spiritual Practices</p><p>09:10 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Travel</p><p>10:47 Understanding the Concept of Remembering Who You Are</p><p>12:36 Embodiment of Truth and Spiritual Identity</p><p>15:14 The Intersection of Humanity and Divinity</p><p>17:20 Experiencing Oneness and Ego Death</p><p>19:35 The Power of Knowing vs. Belief</p><p>22:15 The Continuous Journey of Remembering</p><p>26:58 Merging Human and Divine Experiences</p><p>29:43 The Journey of Ascension and Enlightenment</p><p>35:18 Understanding Roles in Duality</p><p>38:07 The Importance of Compassion and Growth</p><p>42:10 The Zoom Out Perspective on Life</p><p>46:57 The Purpose of Bonnie's Book</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Guest Resources |</strong></p><p><br /></p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Place-Beyond-Story-Spiritual-Adventure/dp/B0DN1H5G42/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3OQSGT137RL6F&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.sc2CrRt-6KW7zLt8KyxN2SjIjAeyyfCJLDZMJhJ-rsVCJ4B0jjaY-h-Jkms8Gf5i-bmz-hop2MBbV6OVeppYpnrxjkCiuSbMm439tPbcU4XajyPXubTO5p03wJ2bfRmbKbO78p8O1rzFj-RHGNDgT42zZlstv0M91xZLN-I3YP5yYRtNryYpbiXTyli5BZrxF-GNUT2ABqS7PixgTOwqplebJFjgb_xU70Hk_wTRTR0.alEAywusU6NPBRs_YTa06XvrthtJv0zHJbzKUhSEfbE&dib_tag=se&keywords=The+Place+Beyond+the+Story%3A+A+Spiritual+Adventure&qid=1742485504&sprefix=the+place+beyond+the+story+a+spiritual+adventure%2Caps%2C120&sr=8-1"><strong>My Memoir: The Place Beyond the Story: A Spiritual Adventure</strong></a><strong><br /></strong><br /></p>@bonniedivinamaa - IG<br />Bonnie Divina Maa - FB<br />Bonnie Divina Maa - Tik Tok<p><br /></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 21 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>abby@abbyhavermann.com (Abby Havermann)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Bonnie Divina Maa, RN is a former critical care registered nurse, now a spiritual guide, multi-dimensional healer, and author. She spent over 15 years in critical care nursing, specializing in trauma and cardiac care before transitioning her career.</p><p>I sit down with Bonnie and explore the journey of spiritual awakening, trauma resolution, and the importance of remembering who we are. Bonnie shares her personal experiences of breakdown and breakthrough, her exploration of sacred medicines, and the balance between humanity and divinity. We discuss the roles we play in life, the significance of duality, and how perspective can transform our understanding of pain and healing. Ultimately, the conversation emphasizes the beauty of being human and the light within us all.</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Chapters | </strong></p><p><br /></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Healing Journeys</p><p>01:59 Breakdown to Breakthrough: Bonnie's Transformation</p><p>04:26 The Role of Intuition in Healing</p><p>06:42 Exploring Sacred Medicines and Spiritual Practices</p><p>09:10 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Travel</p><p>10:47 Understanding the Concept of Remembering Who You Are</p><p>12:36 Embodiment of Truth and Spiritual Identity</p><p>15:14 The Intersection of Humanity and Divinity</p><p>17:20 Experiencing Oneness and Ego Death</p><p>19:35 The Power of Knowing vs. Belief</p><p>22:15 The Continuous Journey of Remembering</p><p>26:58 Merging Human and Divine Experiences</p><p>29:43 The Journey of Ascension and Enlightenment</p><p>35:18 Understanding Roles in Duality</p><p>38:07 The Importance of Compassion and Growth</p><p>42:10 The Zoom Out Perspective on Life</p><p>46:57 The Purpose of Bonnie's Book</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Guest Resources |</strong></p><p><br /></p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Place-Beyond-Story-Spiritual-Adventure/dp/B0DN1H5G42/ref=sr_1_1?crid=3OQSGT137RL6F&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.sc2CrRt-6KW7zLt8KyxN2SjIjAeyyfCJLDZMJhJ-rsVCJ4B0jjaY-h-Jkms8Gf5i-bmz-hop2MBbV6OVeppYpnrxjkCiuSbMm439tPbcU4XajyPXubTO5p03wJ2bfRmbKbO78p8O1rzFj-RHGNDgT42zZlstv0M91xZLN-I3YP5yYRtNryYpbiXTyli5BZrxF-GNUT2ABqS7PixgTOwqplebJFjgb_xU70Hk_wTRTR0.alEAywusU6NPBRs_YTa06XvrthtJv0zHJbzKUhSEfbE&dib_tag=se&keywords=The+Place+Beyond+the+Story%3A+A+Spiritual+Adventure&qid=1742485504&sprefix=the+place+beyond+the+story+a+spiritual+adventure%2Caps%2C120&sr=8-1"><strong>My Memoir: The Place Beyond the Story: A Spiritual Adventure</strong></a><strong><br /></strong><br /></p>@bonniedivinamaa - IG<br />Bonnie Divina Maa - FB<br />Bonnie Divina Maa - Tik Tok<p><br /></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>Bonnie Divina Maa, RN is a former critical care registered nurse, now a spiritual guide, multi-dimensional healer, and author. She spent over 15 years in critical care nursing, specializing in trauma and cardiac care before transitioning her career.I sit down with Bonnie and explore the journey of spiritual awakening, trauma resolution, and the importance of remembering who we are. Bonnie shares her personal experiences of breakdown and breakthrough, her exploration of sacred medicines, and the balance between humanity and divinity. We discuss the roles we play in life, the significance of duality, and how perspective can transform our understanding of pain and healing. Ultimately, the conversation emphasizes the beauty of being human and the light within us all.Chapters | 00:00 Introduction to Healing Journeys01:59 Breakdown to Breakthrough: Bonnie&apos;s Transformation04:26 The Role of Intuition in Healing06:42 Exploring Sacred Medicines and Spiritual Practices09:10 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Travel10:47 Understanding the Concept of Remembering Who You Are12:36 Embodiment of Truth and Spiritual Identity15:14 The Intersection of Humanity and Divinity17:20 Experiencing Oneness and Ego Death19:35 The Power of Knowing vs. Belief22:15 The Continuous Journey of Remembering26:58 Merging Human and Divine Experiences29:43 The Journey of Ascension and Enlightenment35:18 Understanding Roles in Duality38:07 The Importance of Compassion and Growth42:10 The Zoom Out Perspective on Life46:57 The Purpose of Bonnie&apos;s BookGuest Resources |My Memoir: The Place Beyond the Story: A Spiritual Adventure@bonniedivinamaa - IGBonnie Divina Maa - FBBonnie Divina Maa - Tik TokFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Bonnie Divina Maa, RN is a former critical care registered nurse, now a spiritual guide, multi-dimensional healer, and author. She spent over 15 years in critical care nursing, specializing in trauma and cardiac care before transitioning her career.I sit down with Bonnie and explore the journey of spiritual awakening, trauma resolution, and the importance of remembering who we are. Bonnie shares her personal experiences of breakdown and breakthrough, her exploration of sacred medicines, and the balance between humanity and divinity. We discuss the roles we play in life, the significance of duality, and how perspective can transform our understanding of pain and healing. Ultimately, the conversation emphasizes the beauty of being human and the light within us all.Chapters | 00:00 Introduction to Healing Journeys01:59 Breakdown to Breakthrough: Bonnie&apos;s Transformation04:26 The Role of Intuition in Healing06:42 Exploring Sacred Medicines and Spiritual Practices09:10 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Travel10:47 Understanding the Concept of Remembering Who You Are12:36 Embodiment of Truth and Spiritual Identity15:14 The Intersection of Humanity and Divinity17:20 Experiencing Oneness and Ego Death19:35 The Power of Knowing vs. Belief22:15 The Continuous Journey of Remembering26:58 Merging Human and Divine Experiences29:43 The Journey of Ascension and Enlightenment35:18 Understanding Roles in Duality38:07 The Importance of Compassion and Growth42:10 The Zoom Out Perspective on Life46:57 The Purpose of Bonnie&apos;s BookGuest Resources |My Memoir: The Place Beyond the Story: A Spiritual Adventure@bonniedivinamaa - IGBonnie Divina Maa - FBBonnie Divina Maa - Tik TokFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>#30 Quazi Johir - Reprogram Your Mind: The Secret to Identity Shifting</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Quazi Johir is an entrepreneur and mindset coach known for his YouTube channel and podcasts focused on helping people achieve financial freedom and master their reality. He shares principles on entrepreneurship, personal growth, and "identity shifting" to help others reach their goals.</p><p>Quazi shares his personal journey from feeling isolated and bullied to discovering his authentic self and empowering others to do the same. The conversation delves into the concept of identity shifting, the impact of beliefs on self-perception, and the importance of focusing on who we are becoming rather than what we are doing. Quazi emphasizes the significance of meditation, the challenges of divisiveness in society, and the common mistakes people make in their manifestation journeys. The episode concludes with a powerful reminder to center our attention on our higher selves and the decisions we make from that place.</p><p><br /><strong>Chapters | </strong></p><p><br /></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Quazi Johir and His Journey</p><p>02:20 The Early Years: A Journey of Self-Discovery</p><p>14:27 Understanding Identity Shifting</p><p>20:41 Beliefs and Their Impact on Self-Perception</p><p>27:07 The Path of Self-Development and Awareness</p><p>30:12 Moving Towards Purpose vs. Moving Away from Fear</p><p>32:00 Shifting from Pain to Joy</p><p>34:15 Understanding Inner and Outer Discomfort</p><p>40:34 The Importance of Commitment in Manifestation</p><p>43:13 Faith vs. Belief in Personal Growth</p><p>46:00 Letting Go of Perfectionism</p><p>50:48 Meditation: The Path to Stillness</p><p>53:13 Navigating Divisiveness in a Fragmented World</p><p>56:36 Becoming Your Higher Self</p><p>57:21 Introduction to Intuition and Support</p><p>57:22 Engagement and Community Building</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Guest Resources |</strong></p><p>https://www.youtube.com/@QuaziJohir<br />https://go.realitycreator.com/cym-optin-set<br />https://realitycreator.com/<strong><br /></strong><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 19 Mar 2025 05:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>abby@abbyhavermann.com (Abby Havermann)</author>
      <link>https://www.abbyhavermann.com</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Quazi Johir is an entrepreneur and mindset coach known for his YouTube channel and podcasts focused on helping people achieve financial freedom and master their reality. He shares principles on entrepreneurship, personal growth, and "identity shifting" to help others reach their goals.</p><p>Quazi shares his personal journey from feeling isolated and bullied to discovering his authentic self and empowering others to do the same. The conversation delves into the concept of identity shifting, the impact of beliefs on self-perception, and the importance of focusing on who we are becoming rather than what we are doing. Quazi emphasizes the significance of meditation, the challenges of divisiveness in society, and the common mistakes people make in their manifestation journeys. The episode concludes with a powerful reminder to center our attention on our higher selves and the decisions we make from that place.</p><p><br /><strong>Chapters | </strong></p><p><br /></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Quazi Johir and His Journey</p><p>02:20 The Early Years: A Journey of Self-Discovery</p><p>14:27 Understanding Identity Shifting</p><p>20:41 Beliefs and Their Impact on Self-Perception</p><p>27:07 The Path of Self-Development and Awareness</p><p>30:12 Moving Towards Purpose vs. Moving Away from Fear</p><p>32:00 Shifting from Pain to Joy</p><p>34:15 Understanding Inner and Outer Discomfort</p><p>40:34 The Importance of Commitment in Manifestation</p><p>43:13 Faith vs. Belief in Personal Growth</p><p>46:00 Letting Go of Perfectionism</p><p>50:48 Meditation: The Path to Stillness</p><p>53:13 Navigating Divisiveness in a Fragmented World</p><p>56:36 Becoming Your Higher Self</p><p>57:21 Introduction to Intuition and Support</p><p>57:22 Engagement and Community Building</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Guest Resources |</strong></p><p>https://www.youtube.com/@QuaziJohir<br />https://go.realitycreator.com/cym-optin-set<br />https://realitycreator.com/<strong><br /></strong><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>#30 Quazi Johir - Reprogram Your Mind: The Secret to Identity Shifting</itunes:title>
      <itunes:author>Abby Havermann</itunes:author>
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      <itunes:summary>Quazi Johir is an entrepreneur and mindset coach known for his YouTube channel and podcasts focused on helping people achieve financial freedom and master their reality. He shares principles on entrepreneurship, personal growth, and &quot;identity shifting&quot; to help others reach their goals.Quazi shares his personal journey from feeling isolated and bullied to discovering his authentic self and empowering others to do the same. The conversation delves into the concept of identity shifting, the impact of beliefs on self-perception, and the importance of focusing on who we are becoming rather than what we are doing. Quazi emphasizes the significance of meditation, the challenges of divisiveness in society, and the common mistakes people make in their manifestation journeys. The episode concludes with a powerful reminder to center our attention on our higher selves and the decisions we make from that place.Chapters | 00:00 Introduction to Quazi Johir and His Journey02:20 The Early Years: A Journey of Self-Discovery14:27 Understanding Identity Shifting20:41 Beliefs and Their Impact on Self-Perception27:07 The Path of Self-Development and Awareness30:12 Moving Towards Purpose vs. Moving Away from Fear32:00 Shifting from Pain to Joy34:15 Understanding Inner and Outer Discomfort40:34 The Importance of Commitment in Manifestation43:13 Faith vs. Belief in Personal Growth46:00 Letting Go of Perfectionism50:48 Meditation: The Path to Stillness53:13 Navigating Divisiveness in a Fragmented World56:36 Becoming Your Higher Self57:21 Introduction to Intuition and Support57:22 Engagement and Community BuildingGuest Resources |https://www.youtube.com/@QuaziJohirhttps://go.realitycreator.com/cym-optin-sethttps://realitycreator.com/Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Quazi Johir is an entrepreneur and mindset coach known for his YouTube channel and podcasts focused on helping people achieve financial freedom and master their reality. He shares principles on entrepreneurship, personal growth, and &quot;identity shifting&quot; to help others reach their goals.Quazi shares his personal journey from feeling isolated and bullied to discovering his authentic self and empowering others to do the same. The conversation delves into the concept of identity shifting, the impact of beliefs on self-perception, and the importance of focusing on who we are becoming rather than what we are doing. Quazi emphasizes the significance of meditation, the challenges of divisiveness in society, and the common mistakes people make in their manifestation journeys. The episode concludes with a powerful reminder to center our attention on our higher selves and the decisions we make from that place.Chapters | 00:00 Introduction to Quazi Johir and His Journey02:20 The Early Years: A Journey of Self-Discovery14:27 Understanding Identity Shifting20:41 Beliefs and Their Impact on Self-Perception27:07 The Path of Self-Development and Awareness30:12 Moving Towards Purpose vs. Moving Away from Fear32:00 Shifting from Pain to Joy34:15 Understanding Inner and Outer Discomfort40:34 The Importance of Commitment in Manifestation43:13 Faith vs. Belief in Personal Growth46:00 Letting Go of Perfectionism50:48 Meditation: The Path to Stillness53:13 Navigating Divisiveness in a Fragmented World56:36 Becoming Your Higher Self57:21 Introduction to Intuition and Support57:22 Engagement and Community BuildingGuest Resources |https://www.youtube.com/@QuaziJohirhttps://go.realitycreator.com/cym-optin-sethttps://realitycreator.com/Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>Monday Muse #20 How to Avoid Gaslighting Yourself</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Do you ever feel shame after getting angry? Do you gaslight yourself into thinking you're the problem? (This is common in relationships with addicts). Or maybe you're told your anger is the issue and not the crazy behavior of another. In this episode, I break down the 5 dangers of the anger-shame cycle (how it erodes your self-trust and relationships) and 3 steps to avoid being gaslit by yourself or anyone else! </p><p>You’ll also learn:  <br />✅ Why emotional dysregulation blocks your intuition  <br />✅ The key question to ask yourself to shift out of anger or shame  </p><p>👉 **Get my free course:** *Stop Setting Boundaries* (under an hour!): <br />https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>00:00 - **My Personal Experience with the Anger-Shame Cycle**  <br />02:45 - **What is the Anger-Shame Cycle?**  <br />04:20 - **How Anger & Shame Disconnect You from Your True Self**  <br />06:55 - **The 5 Dangers of the Anger-Shame Cycle**  <br />12:30 - **Why This Keeps You Stuck & Unable to Trust Yourself**  <br />15:10 - **How to Stop Gaslighting Yourself & Find Clarity**  <br />18:45 - **The Key Question to Break Free**  <br />22:05 - **Final Tips for Shifting Out of Anger & Shame**  <br />24:00 - **Next Steps & Free Boundaries Course**  </p><p>#SelfTrust #EmotionalAwareness #Boundaries #AngerShameCycle #PersonalGrowth</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>abby@abbyhavermann.com (Abby Havermann)</author>
      <link>https://www.abbyhavermann.com</link>
      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Do you ever feel shame after getting angry? Do you gaslight yourself into thinking you're the problem? (This is common in relationships with addicts). Or maybe you're told your anger is the issue and not the crazy behavior of another. In this episode, I break down the 5 dangers of the anger-shame cycle (how it erodes your self-trust and relationships) and 3 steps to avoid being gaslit by yourself or anyone else! </p><p>You’ll also learn:  <br />✅ Why emotional dysregulation blocks your intuition  <br />✅ The key question to ask yourself to shift out of anger or shame  </p><p>👉 **Get my free course:** *Stop Setting Boundaries* (under an hour!): <br />https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>00:00 - **My Personal Experience with the Anger-Shame Cycle**  <br />02:45 - **What is the Anger-Shame Cycle?**  <br />04:20 - **How Anger & Shame Disconnect You from Your True Self**  <br />06:55 - **The 5 Dangers of the Anger-Shame Cycle**  <br />12:30 - **Why This Keeps You Stuck & Unable to Trust Yourself**  <br />15:10 - **How to Stop Gaslighting Yourself & Find Clarity**  <br />18:45 - **The Key Question to Break Free**  <br />22:05 - **Final Tips for Shifting Out of Anger & Shame**  <br />24:00 - **Next Steps & Free Boundaries Course**  </p><p>#SelfTrust #EmotionalAwareness #Boundaries #AngerShameCycle #PersonalGrowth</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>Monday Muse #20 How to Avoid Gaslighting Yourself</itunes:title>
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      <itunes:summary>Do you ever feel shame after getting angry? Do you gaslight yourself into thinking you&apos;re the problem? (This is common in relationships with addicts). Or maybe you&apos;re told your anger is the issue and not the crazy behavior of another. In this episode, I break down the 5 dangers of the anger-shame cycle (how it erodes your self-trust and relationships) and 3 steps to avoid being gaslit by yourself or anyone else! You’ll also learn:  ✅ Why emotional dysregulation blocks your intuition  ✅ The key question to ask yourself to shift out of anger or shame  👉 **Get my free course:** *Stop Setting Boundaries* (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries00:00 - **My Personal Experience with the Anger-Shame Cycle**  02:45 - **What is the Anger-Shame Cycle?**  04:20 - **How Anger &amp; Shame Disconnect You from Your True Self**  06:55 - **The 5 Dangers of the Anger-Shame Cycle**  12:30 - **Why This Keeps You Stuck &amp; Unable to Trust Yourself**  15:10 - **How to Stop Gaslighting Yourself &amp; Find Clarity**  18:45 - **The Key Question to Break Free**  22:05 - **Final Tips for Shifting Out of Anger &amp; Shame**  24:00 - **Next Steps &amp; Free Boundaries Course**  #SelfTrust #EmotionalAwareness #Boundaries #AngerShameCycle #PersonalGrowthFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Do you ever feel shame after getting angry? Do you gaslight yourself into thinking you&apos;re the problem? (This is common in relationships with addicts). Or maybe you&apos;re told your anger is the issue and not the crazy behavior of another. In this episode, I break down the 5 dangers of the anger-shame cycle (how it erodes your self-trust and relationships) and 3 steps to avoid being gaslit by yourself or anyone else! You’ll also learn:  ✅ Why emotional dysregulation blocks your intuition  ✅ The key question to ask yourself to shift out of anger or shame  👉 **Get my free course:** *Stop Setting Boundaries* (under an hour!): https://www.abbyhavermann.com/stop-setting-boundaries00:00 - **My Personal Experience with the Anger-Shame Cycle**  02:45 - **What is the Anger-Shame Cycle?**  04:20 - **How Anger &amp; Shame Disconnect You from Your True Self**  06:55 - **The 5 Dangers of the Anger-Shame Cycle**  12:30 - **Why This Keeps You Stuck &amp; Unable to Trust Yourself**  15:10 - **How to Stop Gaslighting Yourself &amp; Find Clarity**  18:45 - **The Key Question to Break Free**  22:05 - **Final Tips for Shifting Out of Anger &amp; Shame**  24:00 - **Next Steps &amp; Free Boundaries Course**  #SelfTrust #EmotionalAwareness #Boundaries #AngerShameCycle #PersonalGrowthFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>#29 Dr. Rich Melheim - The Future of Learning: Active &amp; Experiential</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Rich Melheim explores innovative approaches to education, focusing on the importance of active learning, the role of music and experience, and the need for empathy in a digital age. Dr. Rich shares insights from his own experiences and research, emphasizing the significance of understanding learning disabilities and creating engaging, experiential learning environments. In this episode we discuss the future of AI in education, the impact of family on learning, and strategies for fostering intuition and connection among students.</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Chapters | </strong></p><p><br /></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Rich Melheim and His Vision</p><p>00:51  The Concept of Active Learning and Movement</p><p>08:02 The Role of Music and Emotion in Learning</p><p>10:03  The Future of Learning and Technology</p><p>17:56  Creating Inclusive Learning Environments</p><p>25:34 The Importance of Human Connection</p><p>31:56  Strategies for Raising Empathetic Children</p><p>32:17  Understanding and Overcoming Stuckness</p><p>40:17  Defining Intuition and Its Impact</p><p>43:50 Creating Engaging Learning Environments</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Guest Resources |</strong></p><p><a href="http://www.richmelheim.com"><strong>www.richmelheim.com</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://www.richlearning.com"><strong>www.richlearning.com</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://www.richlearninginternational.org"><strong>www.richlearninginternational.org</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://www.faith5.org"><strong>www.faith5.org</strong></a><strong><br /></strong><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 14 Mar 2025 04:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Rich Melheim explores innovative approaches to education, focusing on the importance of active learning, the role of music and experience, and the need for empathy in a digital age. Dr. Rich shares insights from his own experiences and research, emphasizing the significance of understanding learning disabilities and creating engaging, experiential learning environments. In this episode we discuss the future of AI in education, the impact of family on learning, and strategies for fostering intuition and connection among students.</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Chapters | </strong></p><p><br /></p><p>00:00 Introduction to Rich Melheim and His Vision</p><p>00:51  The Concept of Active Learning and Movement</p><p>08:02 The Role of Music and Emotion in Learning</p><p>10:03  The Future of Learning and Technology</p><p>17:56  Creating Inclusive Learning Environments</p><p>25:34 The Importance of Human Connection</p><p>31:56  Strategies for Raising Empathetic Children</p><p>32:17  Understanding and Overcoming Stuckness</p><p>40:17  Defining Intuition and Its Impact</p><p>43:50 Creating Engaging Learning Environments</p><p><br /></p><p><strong>Guest Resources |</strong></p><p><a href="http://www.richmelheim.com"><strong>www.richmelheim.com</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://www.richlearning.com"><strong>www.richlearning.com</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://www.richlearninginternational.org"><strong>www.richlearninginternational.org</strong></a></p><p><a href="http://www.faith5.org"><strong>www.faith5.org</strong></a><strong><br /></strong><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:subtitle>Dr. Rich Melheim explores innovative approaches to education, focusing on the importance of active learning, the role of music and experience, and the need for empathy in a digital age. Dr. Rich shares insights from his own experiences and research, emphasizing the significance of understanding learning disabilities and creating engaging, experiential learning environments. In this episode we discuss the future of AI in education, the impact of family on learning, and strategies for fostering intuition and connection among students.Chapters | 00:00 Introduction to Rich Melheim and His Vision00:51  The Concept of Active Learning and Movement08:02 The Role of Music and Emotion in Learning10:03  The Future of Learning and Technology17:56  Creating Inclusive Learning Environments25:34 The Importance of Human Connection31:56  Strategies for Raising Empathetic Children32:17  Understanding and Overcoming Stuckness40:17  Defining Intuition and Its Impact43:50 Creating Engaging Learning EnvironmentsGuest Resources |www.richmelheim.comwww.richlearning.comwww.richlearninginternational.orgwww.faith5.orgFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>#28 Suzy Miller - Autistic Children Teaching Us to Listen</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Suzy Miller is the author of <em>Awesomism</em> and the founder of the Awesomism Practitioner Process. She is featured on <em>The Telepathy Tapes</em> to share her experiences and theories on the subject. Miller focuses on what she describes as the "deeper spiritual meaning behind autism," suggesting that some non-speaking autistic children are telepathic and possess valuable, hidden wisdom. She discusses working with these children and believes that focusing on "light-body integration" can aid communication.</p><p>In this episode Suzy shares her awakening experience with a child diagnosed with autism, revealing insights into the light body and the unique vibrational awareness of autistic individuals. Our discussion emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, authenticity, and the healing journey for both parents and children.</p><p>Chapters|</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Suzy Miller and Her Work<br />01:39 Suzy's Awakening Experience<br />10:54 Understanding Autism and Higher Consciousness<br />13:35 Conditioning and Its Impact on Children<br />18:05 The Role of Parents in Healing<br />30:01 Authenticity and Self-Compassion<br />40:45 The Rise of Higher Vibrational Souls<br />45:06 Shifting Perspectives on Autism and Society<br />48:46 Understanding the Impact of Vaccines<br />53:41 ADD, ADHD, and Attention in Different Dimensions</p><p>Guest Resources|<br />suzymiller.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Mar 2025 04:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>abby@abbyhavermann.com (Abby Havermann)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Suzy Miller is the author of <em>Awesomism</em> and the founder of the Awesomism Practitioner Process. She is featured on <em>The Telepathy Tapes</em> to share her experiences and theories on the subject. Miller focuses on what she describes as the "deeper spiritual meaning behind autism," suggesting that some non-speaking autistic children are telepathic and possess valuable, hidden wisdom. She discusses working with these children and believes that focusing on "light-body integration" can aid communication.</p><p>In this episode Suzy shares her awakening experience with a child diagnosed with autism, revealing insights into the light body and the unique vibrational awareness of autistic individuals. Our discussion emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, authenticity, and the healing journey for both parents and children.</p><p>Chapters|</p><p>00:00 Introduction to Suzy Miller and Her Work<br />01:39 Suzy's Awakening Experience<br />10:54 Understanding Autism and Higher Consciousness<br />13:35 Conditioning and Its Impact on Children<br />18:05 The Role of Parents in Healing<br />30:01 Authenticity and Self-Compassion<br />40:45 The Rise of Higher Vibrational Souls<br />45:06 Shifting Perspectives on Autism and Society<br />48:46 Understanding the Impact of Vaccines<br />53:41 ADD, ADHD, and Attention in Different Dimensions</p><p>Guest Resources|<br />suzymiller.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:subtitle>Suzy Miller is the author of Awesomism and the founder of the Awesomism Practitioner Process. She is featured on The Telepathy Tapes to share her experiences and theories on the subject. Miller focuses on what she describes as the &quot;deeper spiritual meaning behind autism,&quot; suggesting that some non-speaking autistic children are telepathic and possess valuable, hidden wisdom. She discusses working with these children and believes that focusing on &quot;light-body integration&quot; can aid communication.In this episode Suzy shares her awakening experience with a child diagnosed with autism, revealing insights into the light body and the unique vibrational awareness of autistic individuals. Our discussion emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, authenticity, and the healing journey for both parents and children.Chapters|00:00 Introduction to Suzy Miller and Her Work01:39 Suzy&apos;s Awakening Experience10:54 Understanding Autism and Higher Consciousness13:35 Conditioning and Its Impact on Children18:05 The Role of Parents in Healing30:01 Authenticity and Self-Compassion40:45 The Rise of Higher Vibrational Souls45:06 Shifting Perspectives on Autism and Society48:46 Understanding the Impact of Vaccines53:41 ADD, ADHD, and Attention in Different DimensionsGuest Resources|suzymiller.comFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>Monday Muse #19 How I Unmemorized Shame</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>I unmemorized shame using Dr. Joe Dispenza's book Breaking The Habit of Being Yourself. In this video, I share how to become your Future Self using everyday life to transform.</p><p>Blog I mentioned in the video:  https://www.abbyhavermann.com/blog/having-gratitude-for-what-i-dont-have</p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00.00 It took me a while to find my tribe<br />01:10 You can do this in your daily life<br />02:11: How I began to feel free by unmemorizing shame<br />03:35: Getting clear on who I wanted to be<br />05:00: Becoming really familiar with how the emotion feels<br />06:22: Not identifying with the sensations and thoughts<br />07:00: What I did in meditation<br />07:30: Talking to shame<br />08:15: Why you have to be in your day to day life to do this<br />11:00: Your next steps</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 10 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>abby@abbyhavermann.com (Abby Havermann)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I unmemorized shame using Dr. Joe Dispenza's book Breaking The Habit of Being Yourself. In this video, I share how to become your Future Self using everyday life to transform.</p><p>Blog I mentioned in the video:  https://www.abbyhavermann.com/blog/having-gratitude-for-what-i-dont-have</p><p>Chapters:</p><p>00.00 It took me a while to find my tribe<br />01:10 You can do this in your daily life<br />02:11: How I began to feel free by unmemorizing shame<br />03:35: Getting clear on who I wanted to be<br />05:00: Becoming really familiar with how the emotion feels<br />06:22: Not identifying with the sensations and thoughts<br />07:00: What I did in meditation<br />07:30: Talking to shame<br />08:15: Why you have to be in your day to day life to do this<br />11:00: Your next steps</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>#27 Emily Bouchard - The Truth About Vulnerability and Following Your Intuition</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Emily Bouchard is a family dynamics advisor, coach, speaker, and author who specializes in helping affluent and blended families navigate complex issues involving wealth and relationships. She is known for her work in the areas of blended family dynamics, family business succession, and estate planning.</p><p>Discover the truth about vulnerability, courage, risk, and intuition in this eye-opening video with Emily Bouchard.  Learn how embracing vulnerability can lead to deeper connections with others and personal growth.</p><p>Chapters | </p><p>00:00 Introduction to Intuition and Family Dynamics<br />02:53 Emily's Journey: From Therapy to Intuition<br />05:31 Navigating Blended Family Challenges<br />08:12 The Role of Intuition in Decision Making<br />10:50 Courage and Trust in Intuitive Choices<br />13:35 Learning from Regrets and Life Lessons<br />16:23 The Impact of Fear on Intuition<br />19:01 Horses as Teachers of Intuition and Connection<br />27:37 Physical Experiences and Neural Pathways<br />29:20 Belief, Behavior, and Becoming<br />31:11 The Power of Intuition and Presence<br />32:57 Coherence in Step Family Dynamics<br />36:23 The Importance of Presence in Family Meetings<br />39:21 Retreats: Healing Through Connection<br />46:07 Vulnerability and the Importance of Acknowledgment</p><p>Guest Resources |</p><p>blendedfamiliesflourishing.com<br />LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/emily-bouchard-5a9a049?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_app</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>#vulnerability #intuition #healing #family #risk #familydynamics #courage #presence #emotionalintelligence #familyconsulting #relationships #personalgrowth</p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 7 Mar 2025 06:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Emily Bouchard is a family dynamics advisor, coach, speaker, and author who specializes in helping affluent and blended families navigate complex issues involving wealth and relationships. She is known for her work in the areas of blended family dynamics, family business succession, and estate planning.</p><p>Discover the truth about vulnerability, courage, risk, and intuition in this eye-opening video with Emily Bouchard.  Learn how embracing vulnerability can lead to deeper connections with others and personal growth.</p><p>Chapters | </p><p>00:00 Introduction to Intuition and Family Dynamics<br />02:53 Emily's Journey: From Therapy to Intuition<br />05:31 Navigating Blended Family Challenges<br />08:12 The Role of Intuition in Decision Making<br />10:50 Courage and Trust in Intuitive Choices<br />13:35 Learning from Regrets and Life Lessons<br />16:23 The Impact of Fear on Intuition<br />19:01 Horses as Teachers of Intuition and Connection<br />27:37 Physical Experiences and Neural Pathways<br />29:20 Belief, Behavior, and Becoming<br />31:11 The Power of Intuition and Presence<br />32:57 Coherence in Step Family Dynamics<br />36:23 The Importance of Presence in Family Meetings<br />39:21 Retreats: Healing Through Connection<br />46:07 Vulnerability and the Importance of Acknowledgment</p><p>Guest Resources |</p><p>blendedfamiliesflourishing.com<br />LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/emily-bouchard-5a9a049?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_app</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>#vulnerability #intuition #healing #family #risk #familydynamics #courage #presence #emotionalintelligence #familyconsulting #relationships #personalgrowth</p><p><br /></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>Emily Bouchard is a family dynamics advisor, coach, speaker, and author who specializes in helping affluent and blended families navigate complex issues involving wealth and relationships. She is known for her work in the areas of blended family dynamics, family business succession, and estate planning.Discover the truth about vulnerability, courage, risk, and intuition in this eye-opening video with Emily Bouchard.  Learn how embracing vulnerability can lead to deeper connections with others and personal growth.Chapters | 00:00 Introduction to Intuition and Family Dynamics02:53 Emily&apos;s Journey: From Therapy to Intuition05:31 Navigating Blended Family Challenges08:12 The Role of Intuition in Decision Making10:50 Courage and Trust in Intuitive Choices13:35 Learning from Regrets and Life Lessons16:23 The Impact of Fear on Intuition19:01 Horses as Teachers of Intuition and Connection27:37 Physical Experiences and Neural Pathways29:20 Belief, Behavior, and Becoming31:11 The Power of Intuition and Presence32:57 Coherence in Step Family Dynamics36:23 The Importance of Presence in Family Meetings39:21 Retreats: Healing Through Connection46:07 Vulnerability and the Importance of AcknowledgmentGuest Resources |blendedfamiliesflourishing.comLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/emily-bouchard-5a9a049?utm_source=share&amp;utm_campaign=share_via&amp;utm_content=profile&amp;utm_medium=ios_appFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann#vulnerability #intuition #healing #family #risk #familydynamics #courage #presence #emotionalintelligence #familyconsulting #relationships #personalgrowth👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:summary>
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      <title>#26 Dr. Eben Alexander - Proof of Life After Death | Hope From the Other Side</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Eben Alexander is a former neurosurgeon and the author of the best-selling book <em>Proof of Heaven: A Neurosurgeon's Journey into the Afterlife</em>. The book details his near-death experience (NDE) during a week-long coma in 2008 and the profound effect it had on his perspective on consciousness, the brain, and the afterlife.</p><p>Can there be proof of life after death? Join me and neurosurgeon Dr. Eben Alexander as he shares his near-death experience and offers hope from the other side.</p><p>Time Stamps |<br />00:00 Introduction to Eben Alexander's Journey<br />05:19 The Science Behind Consciousness and NDEs<br />10:53 Understanding the Nature of Reality and Consciousness<br />16:21 Integrating Spiritual Insights into Daily Life<br />22:14 Exploring Past Lives and Reincarnation<br />37:42 Exploring Afterlife Communications and Quantum Consciousness<br />43:32 The Golden Rule and Life Reviews<br />52:32 Understanding Intuition and Synchronicity</p><p>Guest Resources |</p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Proof-Heaven-Neurosurgeons-Journey-Afterlife/dp/1451695195/ref=asc_df_1451695195?mcid=aeceaac58f053d30b9038a47c0a42f4c&hvocijid=7321549667248351980-1451695195-&hvexpln=73&tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=730434204848&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=7321549667248351980&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1025353&hvtargid=pla-2281435176658&psc=1">Proof of Heaven Book </a></p><p><br /></p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Living-Mindful-Universe-Neurosurgeons-Consciousness/dp/1635650658/ref=sr_1_1?crid=29D5GDJJA89M&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.leeLTVBDz4v6hGAtb5HzVeReY4VpjtVQ0S6_cs9VA4gQy-wuey0SJCu_WpMFl0bMmJwJ-UziGlC4FYvVgCgjHXj4CM7B9PUhP58-fcalk5VIJGmbnl2z4jCijaJf6weJweSrooVdXmGa5GzIFS-bZ-v46hR9o7LiLFk6g7pOrZRmepUZ27Bhe8h2ltSy_1N3WcpO-NVWVXIlDUOrptKNZSLixCnmIn03VrLFoqIy_Jw.pBH7Y5YYzainKoVXZpNgYRSybNe6pllDTvwOYop_kDU&dib_tag=se&keywords=living+in+a+mindful+universe&qid=1740768699&s=books&sprefix=living+in+a+mindful+universe%2Cstripbooks%2C103&sr=1-1">Living in a Mindful Universe Book </a></p><p><br /></p><p>Sacred Acoustics <a href="https://www.sacredacoustics.com/">https://www.sacredacoustics.com/</a></p><p><br /></p><p>University of Virginia Division of Perceptual Studies <a href="http://www.uvadops.org">www.uvadops.org</a></p><p><br /></p><p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Map-Heaven-Religion-Ordinary-Afterlife/dp/1476766401/ref=asc_df_1476766401?mcid=d6632f46fe063db8a177365b91f82268&hvocijid=11785855428230670302-1476766401-&hvexpln=73&tag=hyprod-20&linkCode=df0&hvadid=730434204848&hvpos=&hvnetw=g&hvrand=11785855428230670302&hvpone=&hvptwo=&hvqmt=&hvdev=c&hvdvcmdl=&hvlocint=&hvlocphy=1025353&hvtargid=pla-2281435176378&psc=1">Map of Heaven Book </a></p><p><br /></p><p>Bigelow Institute for Consciousness Studies <a href="https://www.bigelowinstitute.org/">https://www.bigelowinstitute.org/</a></p><p><br /></p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>#near-death experience #consciousness #spirituality #healing #intuition #science #ego #forgiveness #meditation #interconnectedness</p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
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      <pubDate>Fri, 28 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert Moore, who writes under the pseudonym Red Hawk, is an award-winning poet, author, and Professor Emeritus of English at the University of Arkansas at Monticello. His work explores themes of spirituality, nature, and self-observation.</p><p>Red Hawk is back with life-changing teachings on our egos, self-awareness, intentional suffering, and the slow, patient process of transformation. The author of Self Observation and Self Remembering shares insights on the human machine and accessing higher energies through self-observation.</p><p>This is one to listen to more than once—seriously, let it sink in. 🌊</p><p>⏳ Timestamps:<br />2:15 – The Ego Operates in the Dark<br />5:42 – Seeing Behavior as the First Step to Change<br />8:30 – Red Hawk’s Personal Turning Point: Divorce & Self-Observation<br />12:50 – Why Pain is the Greatest Motivator for Awakening<br />16:22 – Why Some People Never Choose to Look Inward<br />19:15 – Do We Have Multiple Lifetimes? The Soul’s Journey<br />22:35 – Jesus, Self-Observation, and Higher Awareness<br />25:58 – The Fourth Way: Work in the World vs. Spiritual Bypassing<br />30:10 – How Our Life is the Vehicle for Awakening<br />34:45 – Understanding Self Observation as a Practice<br />39:22 – The Many ‘I’s Within Us and How They Control Us<br />44:50 – Struggling with Ego: Voluntary Suffering as Transformation<br />48:30 – The Dance Between Forgetting and Remembering<br />53:40 – Identifying the Chronic Defense Mechanism<br />58:05 – Why Writing a Book (or Any Creative Act) is a Spiritual Battle<br />1:02:30 – Confusion, Contradiction & The Mind’s Control Over Attention<br />1:07:45 – Intuition vs. Inspiration: How Higher Centers Guide Us<br />1:12:00 – Awakening Conscience: The Real Master Within<br />1:16:25 – The Difference Between Organized Religion & True Spiritual Work<br />1:20:45 – Reading Self Observation: Why It’s Meant to Be Read Slowly<br />1:25:50 – What Red Hawk Wants You to Know: Live, Laugh, Love… & Observe</p><p>📖 Red Hawk’s Books:<br />Self-Remembering: The Path to Non-Judgmental Awareness<br />Self-Observation: The Awakening of Conscience</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>#SelfObservation #Intuition #SelfRemembering #SpiritualAwakening #RedHawk #ShadowWork #Consciousness #TheIntuitionIncubator #Gurdjieff #TheWork</p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>Robert Moore, who writes under the pseudonym Red Hawk, is an award-winning poet, author, and Professor Emeritus of English at the University of Arkansas at Monticello. His work explores themes of spirituality, nature, and self-observation.Red Hawk is back with life-changing teachings on our egos, self-awareness, intentional suffering, and the slow, patient process of transformation. The author of Self Observation and Self Remembering shares insights on the human machine and accessing higher energies through self-observation.This is one to listen to more than once—seriously, let it sink in. 🌊⏳ Timestamps:2:15 – The Ego Operates in the Dark5:42 – Seeing Behavior as the First Step to Change8:30 – Red Hawk’s Personal Turning Point: Divorce &amp; Self-Observation12:50 – Why Pain is the Greatest Motivator for Awakening16:22 – Why Some People Never Choose to Look Inward19:15 – Do We Have Multiple Lifetimes? The Soul’s Journey22:35 – Jesus, Self-Observation, and Higher Awareness25:58 – The Fourth Way: Work in the World vs. Spiritual Bypassing30:10 – How Our Life is the Vehicle for Awakening34:45 – Understanding Self Observation as a Practice39:22 – The Many ‘I’s Within Us and How They Control Us44:50 – Struggling with Ego: Voluntary Suffering as Transformation48:30 – The Dance Between Forgetting and Remembering53:40 – Identifying the Chronic Defense Mechanism58:05 – Why Writing a Book (or Any Creative Act) is a Spiritual Battle1:02:30 – Confusion, Contradiction &amp; The Mind’s Control Over Attention1:07:45 – Intuition vs. Inspiration: How Higher Centers Guide Us1:12:00 – Awakening Conscience: The Real Master Within1:16:25 – The Difference Between Organized Religion &amp; True Spiritual Work1:20:45 – Reading Self Observation: Why It’s Meant to Be Read Slowly1:25:50 – What Red Hawk Wants You to Know: Live, Laugh, Love… &amp; Observe📖 Red Hawk’s Books:Self-Remembering: The Path to Non-Judgmental AwarenessSelf-Observation: The Awakening of ConscienceFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann#SelfObservation #Intuition #SelfRemembering #SpiritualAwakening #RedHawk #ShadowWork #Consciousness #TheIntuitionIncubator #Gurdjieff #TheWork👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:summary>
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      <title>#24 Red Hawk - Part I: Mastering Self- A Transformative With Red Hawk</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Robert Moore who publishes under the pseudonym Red Hawk, a poet and retired Professor of English at the University of Arkansas at Monticello. He has won numerous poetry awards and is also the author of two books on spiritual practice.</p><p>What if the way you think isn’t really you? In this mind-expanding conversation, I sit down with Red Hawk, teacher of Gurdjieff's Work, author of twelve books including, Self-Observation: an owners manual and Self-Remembering: The Path to Non-Judgmental Awareness. We explore the hidden forces running your life and the tool necessary to break free.</p><p>🔹 Why do we stay stuck in the same patterns?<br />🔹 What is self-remembering, and how can it transform your life?<br />🔹 How can observing your mind without judgment create radical freedom?<br />🔹 What’s the #1 mistake people make in personal growth?</p><p>If you've ever felt like you're living on autopilot or wrestling with the same struggles over and over, this episode will give you a whole new perspective on awareness, self-mastery, and freedom.</p><p>Timestamps:</p><p>00:59 – Red Hawk’s Reluctant Role as a Teacher & His Mission<br />01:24 – What is Self-Remembering? The Foundation of the Work<br />02:03 – The Problem with Making Leaders into Gurus<br />03:00 – Why You Should Question Everything, Even This Conversation<br />03:53 – The Mammal Mind: Why We Follow the Herd<br />12:00 – The Chief Feature: Your Hidden Blind Spot That Runs Your Life<br />14:30 - How Fear Drives Your Personality Without You Knowing It<br />17:30 – Conscience vs. Morality—What’s the Difference?<br />23:00 – Remorse vs. Guilt—One is a Trap, the Other is Transformation<br />27:00 – Why We Follow the Herd Without Realizing It<br />33:00 – The Illusion of Thought: Why Thinking is a Terrible Master<br />36:30 – Memory as a Function of Thought & Why the Mind Can’t Love<br />42:00 – How to Break Free from the Illusion of Thought<br />45:00 – The Power of Self-Observation in Relationships<br />48:00 – What Real Love Looks Like: It’s Not a Feeling, It’s a Practice<br />50:00 – Boundaries, Self-Respect, and True Relationship Growth<br />53:30 – How Conscience Guides You to Make the Right Choices<br />57:00 – Present Attention as the Highest Form of Love<br />1:05:00 – Why Attraction is Not Love—And What To Do Instead</p><p>✨ Like this episode? Leave a review and share it with someone who needs to hear it!</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>📖 Red Hawk’s Books:<br />Self-Remembering: The Path to Non-Judgmental Awareness<br />Self-Observation: The Awakening of Conscience</p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 26 Feb 2025 12:19:42 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>abby@abbyhavermann.com (Abby Havermann)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Robert Moore who publishes under the pseudonym Red Hawk, a poet and retired Professor of English at the University of Arkansas at Monticello. He has won numerous poetry awards and is also the author of two books on spiritual practice.</p><p>What if the way you think isn’t really you? In this mind-expanding conversation, I sit down with Red Hawk, teacher of Gurdjieff's Work, author of twelve books including, Self-Observation: an owners manual and Self-Remembering: The Path to Non-Judgmental Awareness. We explore the hidden forces running your life and the tool necessary to break free.</p><p>🔹 Why do we stay stuck in the same patterns?<br />🔹 What is self-remembering, and how can it transform your life?<br />🔹 How can observing your mind without judgment create radical freedom?<br />🔹 What’s the #1 mistake people make in personal growth?</p><p>If you've ever felt like you're living on autopilot or wrestling with the same struggles over and over, this episode will give you a whole new perspective on awareness, self-mastery, and freedom.</p><p>Timestamps:</p><p>00:59 – Red Hawk’s Reluctant Role as a Teacher & His Mission<br />01:24 – What is Self-Remembering? The Foundation of the Work<br />02:03 – The Problem with Making Leaders into Gurus<br />03:00 – Why You Should Question Everything, Even This Conversation<br />03:53 – The Mammal Mind: Why We Follow the Herd<br />12:00 – The Chief Feature: Your Hidden Blind Spot That Runs Your Life<br />14:30 - How Fear Drives Your Personality Without You Knowing It<br />17:30 – Conscience vs. Morality—What’s the Difference?<br />23:00 – Remorse vs. Guilt—One is a Trap, the Other is Transformation<br />27:00 – Why We Follow the Herd Without Realizing It<br />33:00 – The Illusion of Thought: Why Thinking is a Terrible Master<br />36:30 – Memory as a Function of Thought & Why the Mind Can’t Love<br />42:00 – How to Break Free from the Illusion of Thought<br />45:00 – The Power of Self-Observation in Relationships<br />48:00 – What Real Love Looks Like: It’s Not a Feeling, It’s a Practice<br />50:00 – Boundaries, Self-Respect, and True Relationship Growth<br />53:30 – How Conscience Guides You to Make the Right Choices<br />57:00 – Present Attention as the Highest Form of Love<br />1:05:00 – Why Attraction is Not Love—And What To Do Instead</p><p>✨ Like this episode? Leave a review and share it with someone who needs to hear it!</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>📖 Red Hawk’s Books:<br />Self-Remembering: The Path to Non-Judgmental Awareness<br />Self-Observation: The Awakening of Conscience</p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:subtitle>Robert Moore who publishes under the pseudonym Red Hawk, a poet and retired Professor of English at the University of Arkansas at Monticello. He has won numerous poetry awards and is also the author of two books on spiritual practice.What if the way you think isn’t really you? In this mind-expanding conversation, I sit down with Red Hawk, teacher of Gurdjieff&apos;s Work, author of twelve books including, Self-Observation: an owners manual and Self-Remembering: The Path to Non-Judgmental Awareness. We explore the hidden forces running your life and the tool necessary to break free.🔹 Why do we stay stuck in the same patterns?🔹 What is self-remembering, and how can it transform your life?🔹 How can observing your mind without judgment create radical freedom?🔹 What’s the #1 mistake people make in personal growth?If you&apos;ve ever felt like you&apos;re living on autopilot or wrestling with the same struggles over and over, this episode will give you a whole new perspective on awareness, self-mastery, and freedom.Timestamps:00:59 – Red Hawk’s Reluctant Role as a Teacher &amp; His Mission01:24 – What is Self-Remembering? The Foundation of the Work02:03 – The Problem with Making Leaders into Gurus03:00 – Why You Should Question Everything, Even This Conversation03:53 – The Mammal Mind: Why We Follow the Herd12:00 – The Chief Feature: Your Hidden Blind Spot That Runs Your Life14:30 - How Fear Drives Your Personality Without You Knowing It17:30 – Conscience vs. Morality—What’s the Difference?23:00 – Remorse vs. Guilt—One is a Trap, the Other is Transformation27:00 – Why We Follow the Herd Without Realizing It33:00 – The Illusion of Thought: Why Thinking is a Terrible Master36:30 – Memory as a Function of Thought &amp; Why the Mind Can’t Love42:00 – How to Break Free from the Illusion of Thought45:00 – The Power of Self-Observation in Relationships48:00 – What Real Love Looks Like: It’s Not a Feeling, It’s a Practice50:00 – Boundaries, Self-Respect, and True Relationship Growth53:30 – How Conscience Guides You to Make the Right Choices57:00 – Present Attention as the Highest Form of Love1:05:00 – Why Attraction is Not Love—And What To Do Instead✨ Like this episode? Leave a review and share it with someone who needs to hear it!Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann📖 Red Hawk’s Books:Self-Remembering: The Path to Non-Judgmental AwarenessSelf-Observation: The Awakening of Conscience👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:subtitle>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Are you ever up all night, emotionally hijacked by irritating people and situations? Learn how to be unbothered and stop draining emotional energy. It turns out that setting boundaries makes you MORE annoyed, irritated, and exhausted. In this video, I explain a paradigm shift that will no joke, #changeyourlife. </p><p>CLICK HERE FOR A FREE COURSE to further explore how to be unbothered by the people and situations in your life: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/get-stop-setting-boundaries</p><p>THE BLOG POST on how freeing this was for me is: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/blog/having-gratitude-for-what-i-dont-have</p><p>00:00 Introduction – The Emotional Toll of Boundaries<br />0:30 Client Example: The Unhelpful Assistant   <br />02:35 Why Traditional Boundary-Setting Doesn't Work  <br />04:00 My biggest beef with setting boundaries<br />05:00 What the Problem is and what it isn't.  <br />06:10 The "Perfume" Paradigm Shift  <br />08:50 Three Key Tips for Navigating Boundaries  <br />09:05 Tip #1: Get Off Social Media  <br />09:22 Tip #2: Treat Your Inner Peace as an Emergency  <br />09:45 Tip #3: Keep Your Side of the Street Clean → **(Corrected to 10:20)**  <br />10:05 Tip 4: You Don’t Have All the Answers  <br />11:10 Final Thoughts – How This Paradigm Shift Changes Lives  </p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Aleya Dao is an alternative healer, spiritual guide, and sound healer known for her "Cups of Consciousness" meditations. Based in California, she has over 30 years of experience in energy healing and offers a range of services, including online courses, music, and private sessions.</p><p>Today, we dive into Aleya Dao's profound journey of spiritual growth and empathic release. Aleya shares her extraordinary enlightenment experience from 2001, which heightened her awareness and sensitivity, allowing her to connect with multiple dimensions and angelic beings. This pivotal moment serves as the foundation for a conversation that explores how these mystical experiences can transform our daily lives.</p><p><br />Key Highlights:<br />✨ Discover the art of empathic release and how connecting with guides and beings of love and light can enhance spiritual well-being.<br />✨ Learn about the significance of self-love and gratitude, and how recognizing your inner light can break cycles of self-criticism.<br />✨ Explore practical techniques for integrating spiritual practices into everyday routines and the potential of energy work and meditation.<br />✨ Get inspired to create a personal sacred space and harness the power of short meditative practices for lasting change.</p><p><br />Whether you're a seasoned spiritual practitioner or new to the concept of empathic release, this episode offers valuable insights and resources to guide your personal journey toward intuition and inner peace.</p><p><br />Connect with Aleya Dao at Her Website: https://www.aleyadao.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
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      <itunes:summary>Richelle Fredson is a book publishing coach, consultant, and industry veteran who helps authors develop marketable book proposals and secure publishing deals. Known as the &quot;six-figure book deal coach,&quot; she has a long and successful career that gives her an insider&apos;s perspective on the publishing world.On today&apos;s show, we delve into the world of storytelling and publishing with the incredible Richelle Fredson, a seasoned book publishing coach and consultant. In this episode, we explore the delicate balance between intuition and skill that every creative must navigate.Highlights Include:🔹 Trusting Instincts in Storytelling: Discover how intuition can guide the creative process and turn personal stories into community-building tools.🔹 From Fear to Connection: Learn how embracing vulnerability can forge authentic relationships with readers and help authors find their true voice.🔹 Rejection as a Pathway to Success: Gain insights on viewing rejection not as a setback, but as a stepping stone toward aligning with the right opportunities.🔹 Empowering Authors: Richelle shares invaluable advice on transitioning from creator to communicator, aligning personal aspirations with audience needs.This conversation is a must-listen for anyone looking to trust their instincts and harness the power of vulnerability in their creative journey. Tune in to be inspired by Richelle&apos;s wisdom. Connect with Richelle Fredson at Her Website: https://richellefredson.comFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:summary>
      <itunes:subtitle>Richelle Fredson is a book publishing coach, consultant, and industry veteran who helps authors develop marketable book proposals and secure publishing deals. Known as the &quot;six-figure book deal coach,&quot; she has a long and successful career that gives her an insider&apos;s perspective on the publishing world.On today&apos;s show, we delve into the world of storytelling and publishing with the incredible Richelle Fredson, a seasoned book publishing coach and consultant. In this episode, we explore the delicate balance between intuition and skill that every creative must navigate.Highlights Include:🔹 Trusting Instincts in Storytelling: Discover how intuition can guide the creative process and turn personal stories into community-building tools.🔹 From Fear to Connection: Learn how embracing vulnerability can forge authentic relationships with readers and help authors find their true voice.🔹 Rejection as a Pathway to Success: Gain insights on viewing rejection not as a setback, but as a stepping stone toward aligning with the right opportunities.🔹 Empowering Authors: Richelle shares invaluable advice on transitioning from creator to communicator, aligning personal aspirations with audience needs.This conversation is a must-listen for anyone looking to trust their instincts and harness the power of vulnerability in their creative journey. Tune in to be inspired by Richelle&apos;s wisdom. Connect with Richelle Fredson at Her Website: https://richellefredson.comFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>Monday Muse #17 - The Trick To Stop Self-Abandonment and Live Your Purpose On The Daily</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>On today's Monday Muse, I share my emotional journey of seeking peace with my father during his illness, which led to a profound realization: the power of aligning with our authentic selves and embracing our "primary purpose." Inspired by a request from a listener, this episode is packed with practical insights and personal anecdotes to help you navigate life's challenges with purpose and empowerment. </p><p><br />I dive deep into the concept of "primary purpose," drawing inspiration from the Al-Anon program, and how it can serve as a moment-by-moment compass, guiding us through strained relationships and everyday decisions. Learn how staying true to your primary purpose can lead to a more authentic, self-aware existence.</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 17 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <title>#21 Steve Ramona - Servant Leadership &amp; Authenticity in Business</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Listen in as Steve Ramona, a master networker and host of the Doing Business with a Servant's Heart Podcast shares his unique philosophy on transforming business conversations into authentic connections. Discover how adopting a "servant's heart" can lead to unexpected opportunities and a sustainable, referral-driven business. </p><p><br />Highlights include:</p><ul><li>The significance of empathy and intuition in nurturing business relationships.</li><li>Practical strategies for reconnecting with our true selves and fostering a more empathetic workplace culture.</li><li>The importance of incremental improvement and practicing gratitude in all interactions.</li></ul><p>Let Steve's insights inspire you to apply these approaches in your own life, resulting in increased happiness and success, both personally and professionally.</p><p><br /></p><p>Connect with Steve Ramona at His Website: https://www.servinginbusinesspodcast.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 14 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Listen in as Steve Ramona, a master networker and host of the Doing Business with a Servant's Heart Podcast shares his unique philosophy on transforming business conversations into authentic connections. Discover how adopting a "servant's heart" can lead to unexpected opportunities and a sustainable, referral-driven business. </p><p><br />Highlights include:</p><ul><li>The significance of empathy and intuition in nurturing business relationships.</li><li>Practical strategies for reconnecting with our true selves and fostering a more empathetic workplace culture.</li><li>The importance of incremental improvement and practicing gratitude in all interactions.</li></ul><p>Let Steve's insights inspire you to apply these approaches in your own life, resulting in increased happiness and success, both personally and professionally.</p><p><br /></p><p>Connect with Steve Ramona at His Website: https://www.servinginbusinesspodcast.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:summary>Listen in as Steve Ramona, a master networker and host of the Doing Business with a Servant&apos;s Heart Podcast shares his unique philosophy on transforming business conversations into authentic connections. Discover how adopting a &quot;servant&apos;s heart&quot; can lead to unexpected opportunities and a sustainable, referral-driven business. Highlights include:The significance of empathy and intuition in nurturing business relationships.Practical strategies for reconnecting with our true selves and fostering a more empathetic workplace culture.The importance of incremental improvement and practicing gratitude in all interactions.Let Steve&apos;s insights inspire you to apply these approaches in your own life, resulting in increased happiness and success, both personally and professionally.Connect with Steve Ramona at His Website: https://www.servinginbusinesspodcast.comFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:summary>
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      <title>#20 Dr. Theresa Bullard - Science Meets Spirit: Unlocking Intuition</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Theresa Bullard is a physicist, author, speaker, and spiritual teacher known for bridging modern quantum physics with ancient esoteric and metaphysical traditions. She has a PhD in physics from the University of Washington and is a senior leader and teacher for the Modern Mystery School. </p><p>This episode is where modern-day science and ancient spiritual practices meet. Dr. Theresa Bullard skillfully weaves together formal scientific knowledge with mystical traditions, encouraging us to ponder the vast universe within and around us. Having personally taken one of Dr. Theresa's seminars (and followed her on Gaia), I can't encourage you to listen to this episode enough!</p><p>Key Highlights:</p><ul><li>Reflecting on the impact of Isaac Newton's discoveries and how quantum physics challenges traditional notions, urging us to embrace uncertainty and curiosity.</li><li>Dive into the transformative journey offered by the Quantum Learning Academy, focusing on aligning subconscious and conscious thoughts for personal growth.</li><li>Explore the power of intuition in making significant life decisions and the role of a "quantum mindset" in navigating rapid technological advancements.</li></ul><p>This is an episode you don't want to miss!</p><p><br />Connect with Dr. Theresa Bullard at Her Website: https://theresabullard.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann </a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 12 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Dr. Theresa Bullard is a physicist, author, speaker, and spiritual teacher known for bridging modern quantum physics with ancient esoteric and metaphysical traditions. She has a PhD in physics from the University of Washington and is a senior leader and teacher for the Modern Mystery School. This episode is where modern-day science and ancient spiritual practices meet. Dr. Theresa Bullard skillfully weaves together formal scientific knowledge with mystical traditions, encouraging us to ponder the vast universe within and around us. Having personally taken one of Dr. Theresa&apos;s seminars (and followed her on Gaia), I can&apos;t encourage you to listen to this episode enough!Key Highlights:Reflecting on the impact of Isaac Newton&apos;s discoveries and how quantum physics challenges traditional notions, urging us to embrace uncertainty and curiosity.Dive into the transformative journey offered by the Quantum Learning Academy, focusing on aligning subconscious and conscious thoughts for personal growth.Explore the power of intuition in making significant life decisions and the role of a &quot;quantum mindset&quot; in navigating rapid technological advancements.This is an episode you don&apos;t want to miss!Connect with Dr. Theresa Bullard at Her Website: https://theresabullard.comFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann 👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:summary>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Discover how to transform self-betrayal and emotional exhaustion into confidence and rejuvenation.</p><ul><li>Learn to recognize and break the subtle habits that drain your emotional reserves, such as replaying conversations, overworking, and saying yes when you mean no.</li><li>Embrace the power of releasing resentment and self-validation, fostering self-kindness and gentleness in every aspect of life.</li><li>Gain actionable strategies for managing your emotional energy and building resilience, leading to a more confident and energized life.</li></ul><p>Through personal stories and insights beyond traditional psychotherapy, this episode equips you with tools for lasting self-empowerment.</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 10 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Discover how to transform self-betrayal and emotional exhaustion into confidence and rejuvenation.</p><ul><li>Learn to recognize and break the subtle habits that drain your emotional reserves, such as replaying conversations, overworking, and saying yes when you mean no.</li><li>Embrace the power of releasing resentment and self-validation, fostering self-kindness and gentleness in every aspect of life.</li><li>Gain actionable strategies for managing your emotional energy and building resilience, leading to a more confident and energized life.</li></ul><p>Through personal stories and insights beyond traditional psychotherapy, this episode equips you with tools for lasting self-empowerment.</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Learn from the masters on my podcast, The Intuition Incubator: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/podcast</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>#18 Judy Hoberman - Empowering Professional Women: Intuition in Entrepreneurship</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Judy Hoberman is an author, international speaker, trainer, and executive coach specializing in empowering women in business. Her work focuses on the gender differences in sales and leadership and helps men and women collaborate more effectively.  From her beginnings with Fuller Brush to breaking barriers in the financial services sector, Judy's journey is a testament to the power of intuition and empowerment.</p><p><br /></p><p>In this episode, Judy shares her invaluable insights on:<br />🔍 Trusting your gut in decision-making.<br />💪 Overcoming challenges with inner strength.<br />👩‍💼 Navigating male-dominated environments.<br />🌟 Empowering women through intuitive leadership.</p><p><br /></p><p>Discover how intuition can guide you to success, the importance of reframing challenges, and practical strategies for confronting fear and feeling like an imposter. Whether you're seeking leadership empowerment or clarity in your personal journey, Judy's wisdom will leave you inspired and equipped to visualize success. </p><p><br />Connect with Judy Hoberman at Her Website: https://judyhoberman.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 5 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Judy Hoberman is an author, international speaker, trainer, and executive coach specializing in empowering women in business. Her work focuses on the gender differences in sales and leadership and helps men and women collaborate more effectively.  From her beginnings with Fuller Brush to breaking barriers in the financial services sector, Judy's journey is a testament to the power of intuition and empowerment.</p><p><br /></p><p>In this episode, Judy shares her invaluable insights on:<br />🔍 Trusting your gut in decision-making.<br />💪 Overcoming challenges with inner strength.<br />👩‍💼 Navigating male-dominated environments.<br />🌟 Empowering women through intuitive leadership.</p><p><br /></p><p>Discover how intuition can guide you to success, the importance of reframing challenges, and practical strategies for confronting fear and feeling like an imposter. Whether you're seeking leadership empowerment or clarity in your personal journey, Judy's wisdom will leave you inspired and equipped to visualize success. </p><p><br />Connect with Judy Hoberman at Her Website: https://judyhoberman.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Can't let go? In today's Monday Muse, we delve into the transformative art of releasing resentment and explore its profound impact on mental and physical health. </p><ul><li>Set personal intentions for well-being.</li><li>Ask: When have I been like that?  </li><li>Build positive neural pathways through forgiveness, and more.</li></ul><p><br /></p><p>Join us as we uncover how empathy and forgiveness can be potent tools for healing and breaking free from self-betrayal. This episode is packed with actionable insights that promise to foster empathy, understanding, and emotional liberation.</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 3 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can't let go? In today's Monday Muse, we delve into the transformative art of releasing resentment and explore its profound impact on mental and physical health. </p><ul><li>Set personal intentions for well-being.</li><li>Ask: When have I been like that?  </li><li>Build positive neural pathways through forgiveness, and more.</li></ul><p><br /></p><p>Join us as we uncover how empathy and forgiveness can be potent tools for healing and breaking free from self-betrayal. This episode is packed with actionable insights that promise to foster empathy, understanding, and emotional liberation.</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:subtitle>Can&apos;t let go? In today&apos;s Monday Muse, we delve into the transformative art of releasing resentment and explore its profound impact on mental and physical health. Set personal intentions for well-being.Ask: When have I been like that?  Build positive neural pathways through forgiveness, and more.Join us as we uncover how empathy and forgiveness can be potent tools for healing and breaking free from self-betrayal. This episode is packed with actionable insights that promise to foster empathy, understanding, and emotional liberation.Find me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:subtitle>
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      <title>#17 Anthony Trucks - Unleashing Personal Power with Former NFL Athlete</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Anthony Trucks is a motivational speaker, author, and coach who teaches about "Identity Shift," a process for personal growth and achieving potential. He is also a former NFL athlete, a competitor on <em>American Ninja Warrior</em>, and a former foster child who overcame a difficult past.</p><p>Join us for a conversation with the incredible Anthony Trucks. This episode is a deep dive into Anthony's transformative journey from foster care to the NFL and beyond, exploring the profound concept of "dark work" and the unseen efforts that fuel personal growth and success.</p><p><br /></p><p>In this inspiring conversation, Anthony Trucks shares his story of overcoming over 30 traumatic experiences, highlighting how these challenges have shaped his identity and intuition. By weaving together insights from neuroscience, psychology, and life lessons, Anthony redefines success and emphasizes the importance of perseverance and dedication.</p><p><br />Connect with Anthony Trucks at His Website: https://www.anthonytrucks.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p><br /></p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Fri, 24 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:summary>Anthony Trucks is a motivational speaker, author, and coach who teaches about &quot;Identity Shift,&quot; a process for personal growth and achieving potential. He is also a former NFL athlete, a competitor on American Ninja Warrior, and a former foster child who overcame a difficult past.Join us for a conversation with the incredible Anthony Trucks. This episode is a deep dive into Anthony&apos;s transformative journey from foster care to the NFL and beyond, exploring the profound concept of &quot;dark work&quot; and the unseen efforts that fuel personal growth and success.In this inspiring conversation, Anthony Trucks shares his story of overcoming over 30 traumatic experiences, highlighting how these challenges have shaped his identity and intuition. By weaving together insights from neuroscience, psychology, and life lessons, Anthony redefines success and emphasizes the importance of perseverance and dedication.Connect with Anthony Trucks at His Website: https://www.anthonytrucks.comFind me on YouTube @abbyhavermann👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</itunes:summary>
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      <title>#16 Lyn Wineman - Intuition in Leadership &amp; Transforming Business Culture</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Lyn Wineman is an award-winning brand strategist, entrepreneur, and the visionary founder of the advertising agency KidGlov. Known for focusing on purpose-driven marketing, she is also an author and podcast host, who has successfully merged personal authenticity with professional growth.</p><p><br /></p><p>In this episode, Lyn opens up about her transformation from conforming to corporate norms to embracing her true self. She shares how this shift not only reshaped her advertising agency, KidGlov, into a purpose-driven powerhouse but also inspired a broader cultural change within the business world.</p><p><br />Connect with Lyn Wineman at Her Website: https://kidglov.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 22 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:title>#16 Lyn Wineman - Intuition in Leadership &amp; Transforming Business Culture</itunes:title>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>If you do all the self-care stuff and are still exhausted, it's not your fault. Massages, meditation, and exercise alone won't rejuvenate you.</p><p>In this episode, I'll share four tips to maximize your wellness routine by sharing the harsh truths and examining how you approach your wellness activities. </p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Tue, 21 Jan 2025 19:57:01 +0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:title>Monday Muse #14: Tired of Overwhelm? 3 Tips To Maximize Your Health and Wellness Routine</itunes:title>
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      <title>#15 Mark Gober - An End to Upside Down Thinking: The Brain &amp; Consciousness</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Mark Gober is a former Silicon Valley business strategist and Princeton University graduate who became a prominent author and speaker on the topic of consciousness. He is best known for his award-winning book <em>An End to Upside Down Thinking</em> and his popular "Upside Down" book series.</p><p>Join us for a thought-provoking conversation with Mark in this episode. Mark shares his transformative journey from a traditional materialistic worldview to a broader recognition of consciousness beyond the brain. Together, Mark and I challenge long-held assumptions about reality and purpose, encouraging us to open our minds to new possibilities.</p><p>The conversation delves into the power of mindset and intuition in health and well-being, advocating for critical thinking about the foundations of our beliefs. This episode is a call to action for listeners to embark on a journey of self-discovery, unlocking the potential of their intuition to transform their lives and challenge the status quo.</p><p>Connect with Mark Gober at His Website: https://www.markgober.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>Tune in every week for a new episode of The Intuition Incubator. Subscribe on your favorite podcasting platform and never miss an episode!</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 15 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mark Gober is a former Silicon Valley business strategist and Princeton University graduate who became a prominent author and speaker on the topic of consciousness. He is best known for his award-winning book <em>An End to Upside Down Thinking</em> and his popular "Upside Down" book series.</p><p>Join us for a thought-provoking conversation with Mark in this episode. Mark shares his transformative journey from a traditional materialistic worldview to a broader recognition of consciousness beyond the brain. Together, Mark and I challenge long-held assumptions about reality and purpose, encouraging us to open our minds to new possibilities.</p><p>The conversation delves into the power of mindset and intuition in health and well-being, advocating for critical thinking about the foundations of our beliefs. This episode is a call to action for listeners to embark on a journey of self-discovery, unlocking the potential of their intuition to transform their lives and challenge the status quo.</p><p>Connect with Mark Gober at His Website: https://www.markgober.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><p>Tune in every week for a new episode of The Intuition Incubator. Subscribe on your favorite podcasting platform and never miss an episode!</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>We all know the feeling of chronic irritation in our daily lives, but what if there was a way to transform that annoyance into inner peace? In today's muse, we dive deep into a transformative process that promises emotional clarity and resilience without the need to change external circumstances.</p><p><br /></p><p>Join us as we explore a practical journey to master your inner world. Discover how to observe your irritation, hold negativity without immediate reaction, and shift focus from ego-driven thoughts. We'll also discuss the importance of long-term goals like inner peace and deeper connections, offering you a pathway to emotional freedom.</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 13 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
      <author>abby@abbyhavermann.com (Abby Havermann)</author>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We all know the feeling of chronic irritation in our daily lives, but what if there was a way to transform that annoyance into inner peace? In today's muse, we dive deep into a transformative process that promises emotional clarity and resilience without the need to change external circumstances.</p><p><br /></p><p>Join us as we explore a practical journey to master your inner world. Discover how to observe your irritation, hold negativity without immediate reaction, and shift focus from ego-driven thoughts. We'll also discuss the importance of long-term goals like inner peace and deeper connections, offering you a pathway to emotional freedom.</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>#14 Mike Murphy - An Epic Rise From Darkness to HOPEFUL Manifestation</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Mike Murphy is an author, entrepreneur, and philanthropist who founded Mountains of Hope, a holistic health and wellness retreat center located in Medellín, Colombia. The center specializes in transformative health retreats for the mind, body, and spirit.</p><p>Join us on an inspiring journey with Mike Murphy, as he shares his remarkable transformation from a troubled youth to a beacon of hope for others. In this episode, Mike reveals how he harnessed the power of the "creation frequency" approach—combining relaxation, meditation, and powerful intention setting—to overcome personal struggles and achieve success across various life areas, including finances, relationships, and career.</p><p>In an open and heartfelt conversation, Mike discusses the profound challenges of healing emotional wounds and embracing a heart-centered approach to life. He candidly shares his journey through grief after losing his wife, Margot, to cancer, which led to a spiritual awakening and a new understanding of life's impermanence.</p><p>Connect with Mike Murphy at His Website: https://mountainsofhope.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 8 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever felt paralyzed by the pursuit of perfection? Do you struggle with unrealistic expectations, control, procrastination, and harsh self-criticism? I didn't think I was a perfectionist because I had zero attention to detail, but it turns out I didn't understand what perfectionism meant. In this episode, I share my personal journey of discovering how deeply rooted fear can manifest as perfectionism and how it can impact every aspect of our lives. Oh, and it's also all about self-importance, too - not really what I wanted to find out, but alas, it's true. </p><p>Together, let's unravel the myth of perfection and find strength in our vulnerabilities. It's time to release the illusion of control and open ourselves to learning and growth. Celebrate the messy, imperfect journey of life with us.</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 6 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Have you ever felt paralyzed by the pursuit of perfection? Do you struggle with unrealistic expectations, control, procrastination, and harsh self-criticism? I didn't think I was a perfectionist because I had zero attention to detail, but it turns out I didn't understand what perfectionism meant. In this episode, I share my personal journey of discovering how deeply rooted fear can manifest as perfectionism and how it can impact every aspect of our lives. Oh, and it's also all about self-importance, too - not really what I wanted to find out, but alas, it's true. </p><p>Together, let's unravel the myth of perfection and find strength in our vulnerabilities. It's time to release the illusion of control and open ourselves to learning and growth. Celebrate the messy, imperfect journey of life with us.</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>#13 Dr. Chris Niebauer - No Self, No Problem: Quiet the Mind to Unleash Intuition</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Chris Niebauer is a cognitive neuropsychologist, author, and former professor known for his work connecting modern neuroscience with Eastern philosophy, particularly Buddhism. His central thesis is that the ego, or our sense of a permanent, unified "self," is an illusion created primarily by the left hemisphere of the brain.</p><p>In this episode, we explore the powerful role of the left brain in crafting our inner narratives and how these stories shape our perception of reality. Dr. Chris Niebauer offers profound insights into quieting the mind and embracing practices that enhance self-awareness, much like the journey of monks striving for stillness to access deeper wisdom.</p><p>Throughout our conversation, we challenge the notion of the self as a fixed entity and emphasize the power of intuition and inspiration that emerge in moments of presence. This episode offers practical ways to cultivate a peaceful, productive life by recognizing the dominance of ego-driven thoughts and embracing the simple act of being.</p><p>Connect with Dr. Chris Niebauer at His Website: https://chrisniebauerphd.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 2 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>In today's Monday Muse, we're diving deep into a topic that resonates with us all—rejection. We explore how the fear of hearing "no" can hold us back from pursuing opportunities and living a life aligned with our true passions. Inspired by my father's fearless approach to life, we discuss how embracing rejection can be a path to liberation and authenticity.</p><p>Whether you're struggling with the fear of looking foolish or simply want to live more boldly, this episode is packed with insights to invigorate your journey.</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 30 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <title>#12 Happy Ali - Author of The Intuition Bible, Tapping Into Your Inner Wisdom</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Happy Ali is an author, hypnotherapist, and spiritual life coach known for his work on intuition, manifestation, and personal empowerment. Based in Los Angeles, his teachings combine psychology and spirituality, influenced by a near-death experience in 1995 that he says caused a spiritual awakening.</p><p>Tune in for a conversation with Happy Ali, the visionary author of "The Intuition Bible," who guides us through the art of tapping into our inner wisdom. Explore the profound connection between intuition and purpose, and discover how to transform life's challenges into spiritual growth</p><p>Happy shares his personal journey of loss and growth, offering profound insights into life's energetic connections and the comfort found in dreams. Whether you're looking to enhance your intuition or seeking a path to personal development and inner peace, this episode is for you.</p><p>Connect with Happy Ali at His Website: https://www.happyinsights.net</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Thu, 26 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we dive into the art of letting go of the quest for perfection during the holiday season. Picture this: a friend walks into your less-than-perfect home and genuinely asks how you are, seeking a real connection. It's these unscripted moments that we cherish the most.</p><p><br /></p><p>Join us as we explore how to shift focus from immaculate settings to meaningful interactions. I'll share insights from a recent session where holiday hosting pressures met the power of being present. This muse will help you embrace the beautiful chaos of the holidays, finding joy amidst the imperfections. Whether it's a misplaced decoration or a dish gone awry, we've got tips to help you manage stress and create memorable moments.</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 23 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In this episode, we dive into the art of letting go of the quest for perfection during the holiday season. Picture this: a friend walks into your less-than-perfect home and genuinely asks how you are, seeking a real connection. It's these unscripted moments that we cherish the most.</p><p><br /></p><p>Join us as we explore how to shift focus from immaculate settings to meaningful interactions. I'll share insights from a recent session where holiday hosting pressures met the power of being present. This muse will help you embrace the beautiful chaos of the holidays, finding joy amidst the imperfections. Whether it's a misplaced decoration or a dish gone awry, we've got tips to help you manage stress and create memorable moments.</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <itunes:title>Monday Muse #10 : Best Holiday Tip #2</itunes:title>
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      <title>#11 Victoria Amador - Generational Healing Through Embracing Intuition</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Victoria Amador, a distinguished hypnotherapist and spiritual healer, joins The Intuition Incubator to share her incredible journey from battling a decade-long bone infection to embracing ancestral healing from the Dominican Republic. Victoria’s story is one of profound transformation, illustrating the impact of blending ancient wisdom with modern therapeutic techniques. Together, we explore how her personal experiences and cultural heritage led her to hypnotherapy, emphasizing the importance of addressing subconscious fears to uncover and trust one's intuition amidst societal and personal challenges.</p><p>Connect with Victoria Amador at Her Website: https://soulhealingtribe.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 18 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Victoria Amador, a distinguished hypnotherapist and spiritual healer, joins The Intuition Incubator to share her incredible journey from battling a decade-long bone infection to embracing ancestral healing from the Dominican Republic. Victoria’s story is one of profound transformation, illustrating the impact of blending ancient wisdom with modern therapeutic techniques. Together, we explore how her personal experiences and cultural heritage led her to hypnotherapy, emphasizing the importance of addressing subconscious fears to uncover and trust one's intuition amidst societal and personal challenges.</p><p>Connect with Victoria Amador at Her Website: https://soulhealingtribe.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>Monday Muse #9 Are You Being Honest with Yourself?</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Join us as we navigate the challenging yet rewarding path of embracing every facet of our personalities. Discover practical tools, like the Positive Intelligence Saboteur Assessment, to help unravel unconscious patterns and inspire growth. Through personal anecdotes and reflections, this muse aims to peel back the layers of self-perception and open up new avenues for understanding and change.</p><p><br />Growth is not a destination but an ongoing process. By facing the darker corners of our psyche, we can manifest the lives we truly desire.</p><p>Inspired by Gary Zukav's enlightening book, "The Seat of the Soul," we explore how our egos can sometimes trick us into self-justification, leading us away from authentic self-reflection. It's easy to take credit for our successes, but how often do we truly acknowledge our part in the challenges we face?</p><p><br />Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 16 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:title>Monday Muse #9 Are You Being Honest with Yourself?</itunes:title>
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      <title>#10 Jeff Benton &amp; Brett Weinroth - Leading High-Performing Teams Through Emotional Awareness &amp; Intuition</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Jeff Benton and Brett Weinroth are the co-founders of Paragon Performance Evolution, a coaching and consulting firm that helps high-level clients achieve peak performance and leadership through emotional intelligence and resilience training.</p><p>Caught in the whirlwind of high-pressure demands and personal traumas, Jeff Benton's transformation led him from the teachings of monks to the scientific insights of brain specialists. Together with Brett Weinroth, they share how these experiences shaped Paragon's mission to guide leaders toward impactful decision-making by connecting with their inner selves.</p><p><br /></p><p>In this episode, we peel back the layers of emotional intelligence and mindful leadership. From battling stress-induced health crises to the joys of mindfulness, discover how embracing practices like HeartMath can revolutionize communication and confidence.</p><p><br />Connect with Paragon Performance: https://performanceparagon.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 11 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <title>Monday Muse #8 I Fell Off An Emotional Cliff</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>We've all experienced those days when a single critical thought spirals into a storm of negativity and self-doubt. I found myself trapped in such a cycle, despite starting my day on a positive note. As I sought distractions from beach walks to documentaries, I realized the key to peace lies in observing our thoughts without labeling them as "good" or "bad."</p><p><br />Join me as I unravel how our interpretations often create unnecessary suffering and discover how shifting our mindset can liberate us from inner suffering. Whether you're wrestling with thoughts of judgment or seeking a fresh perspective, this conversation is for you. Listen, reflect, and let's embrace acceptance and observation together.</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 9 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 4 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 2 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 27 Nov 2024 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to a stress-free holiday season with a powerful lesson: the magic of a thrilling Plan B. Discover why crafting an alternative plan, equally as exciting or more so than your initial one, can transform your holiday experience. Whether your family gathering takes an unexpected turn or things don't go as planned, having a personal Plan B ensures your joy remains intact. Learn a practical strategy to navigate the voices of guilt and selfishness, encouraging you to prioritize self-care and embrace the freedom of choosing your own path to happiness this holiday season. </p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 25 Nov 2024 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Unlock the secret to a stress-free holiday season with a powerful lesson: the magic of a thrilling Plan B. Discover why crafting an alternative plan, equally as exciting or more so than your initial one, can transform your holiday experience. Whether your family gathering takes an unexpected turn or things don't go as planned, having a personal Plan B ensures your joy remains intact. Learn a practical strategy to navigate the voices of guilt and selfishness, encouraging you to prioritize self-care and embrace the freedom of choosing your own path to happiness this holiday season. </p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>#7 Dr. Sandra Solano - From Burnout to Balance: Journey of Inner Knowing</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Dr. Sandra Solano, a trailblazer in preventive medicine and public health, joins us to share her remarkable journey from burnout to holistic wellness. Originating from Bogota, Colombia, Sandra candidly recounts her skepticism about HeartMath techniques and how embracing these methods reawakened her joy and authenticity. As we discuss her shift from traditional healthcare approaches to integrative health, Sandra offers a blueprint for nurturing emotional well-being and tackling the imposter syndrome that plagues many professionals balancing a myriad of responsibilities.</p><p>Connect with Dr. Sandra Solano at Her Website: https://www.integro-restore.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 20 Nov 2024 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Your mind is more powerful than you are. How do you emerge from it's nonsense? It has to do with managing your attention. This episode shares the chaos that ensues when we get wrapped up in who we think we are- "I'm the kind of person who thinks this, feels that, is this way...." We dabble in step one of how to back away slowly from the crazy. Life is simpler when we learn to observe the mind rather than believe everything it says. </p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 18 Nov 2024 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your mind is more powerful than you are. How do you emerge from it's nonsense? It has to do with managing your attention. This episode shares the chaos that ensues when we get wrapped up in who we think we are- "I'm the kind of person who thinks this, feels that, is this way...." We dabble in step one of how to back away slowly from the crazy. Life is simpler when we learn to observe the mind rather than believe everything it says. </p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <title>#6 Alan Gompers - From Multimillionaire to Inmate: The Road to a Deeper Knowing</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Nationally recognized author and wellness expert Alan Gompers transformed a life story that began with the pursuit of power and wealth on Wall Street into an awakening behind bars. With an arrest leading to a 15-year to life sentence, Alan's journey took a profound turn as he explored meditation and became aware of his intuition, revealing insights into true freedom and inner peace. His experiences in a maximum security prison become the backdrop for a powerful story of self-discovery and enlightenment, illustrating the potential for true freedom and growth in the most unexpected places.</p><p>Connect with Alan Gompers at His Website: https://www.alangompers.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 13 Nov 2024 11:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nationally recognized author and wellness expert Alan Gompers transformed a life story that began with the pursuit of power and wealth on Wall Street into an awakening behind bars. With an arrest leading to a 15-year to life sentence, Alan's journey took a profound turn as he explored meditation and became aware of his intuition, revealing insights into true freedom and inner peace. His experiences in a maximum security prison become the backdrop for a powerful story of self-discovery and enlightenment, illustrating the potential for true freedom and growth in the most unexpected places.</p><p>Connect with Alan Gompers at His Website: https://www.alangompers.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 11 Nov 2024 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <title>#5 Craig Goldberg - Healing Harmony: Meditation &amp; Sound Vibration</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Craig Goldberg is a technologist, relaxation expert, and co-founder and president of inHarmony Interactive. He is also a Certified Vibroacoustic Therapy Practitioner and a patented inventor. Through inHarmony, he develops products that use sound and vibration technology to promote relaxation, reduce stress and anxiety, and improve overall well-being.</p><p>Craig Goldberg knows firsthand the chaos of a high-pressure lifestyle. Once entrenched in the relentless hustle of New York City's hospitality industry, he found himself confronting the consequences of stress and substance use. Craig's journey took a transformative turn when he discovered the healing power of sound and vibration, leading him to pioneer vibroacoustic therapy. Through our conversation, Craig shares how this innovative approach and how the founding of his company <a href="https://iaminharmony.com/abigail-havermann">inHarmony</a>, grounded in over four decades of research, has helped him and countless others navigate stress and improve overall health.</p><p>Use the Discount Code ACCESSHARMONY for 5% Off Your Order: https://iaminharmony.com/abigail-havermann</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 6 Nov 2024 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>What does it take to align with your most genuine version of yourself and attract authentic people and experiences in your life? In this episode, we bring light to how we're wired to be <em>in</em>authentic and how it impacts your life. </p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Mon, 4 Nov 2024 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <title>#4 Chris Newberry - From Corporate Life to Conscious Island Community: Journey of Intuition</title>
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      <pubDate>Wed, 30 Oct 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <itunes:title>#4 Chris Newberry - From Corporate Life to Conscious Island Community: Journey of Intuition</itunes:title>
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      <pubDate>Mon, 28 Oct 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <title>#3 Jorge Perez - The Shut the F*** Up Method: Unlocking Intuition for a Joyful Life</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Explore the profound effects of gratitude and mindfulness with Jorge Perez as he shares the GAF method—Gratitude, Affirmation, and Visualization. By tuning into the present and breaking free from the societal leanings toward negativity, Jorge offers practical insights for fostering a life filled with joy and resilience. We also delve into emotional autonomy, where the power of personal intentions and the ability to navigate life's hurdles become the cornerstone of personal development and fulfillment.</p><p>We reflect on Jorge's 20 years in the spotlight of Los Angeles, where celebrity culture meets intuition. Through engaging stories, Jorge demystifies the allure of Hollywood while spotlighting the importance of detaching from societal pressures to achieve a more authentic life. This conversation highlights the role of mindful communication, the journey to inner peace, and the art of navigating moral dilemmas. Engage with us for an episode rich in wisdom and transformative insights, perfectly suited for anyone seeking personal growth and a deeper connection with intuition.</p><p>Connect with Jorge Perez on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jorgeperezjr</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Oct 2024 12:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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      <title>#2 Noah Tetzner - Embracing Authenticity: Intuition and Identity</title>
      <description><![CDATA[<p>Growing up in a close-knit community in Green Bay, Wisconsin, Noah Tetzner felt a paradoxical sense of isolation despite being surrounded by a supportive environment. On this episode of The Intuition Incubator, we embark on a journey with Noah, a talented podcast producer who shares his story of carving out his own path beyond the constraints of his upbringing. With a homeschooling background that fostered his love for history and podcasting, Noah discovered the challenge of balancing familial expectations with his personal identity. By exploring these themes, we uncover the profound sense of loneliness that can accompany the pursuit of authenticity.</p><p>Connect with Noah Tetzner at His Website: http://profitwithpodcasting.com</p><p>Find me on YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@abbyhavermann">@abbyhavermann</a></p><p>👉🏽 Transform from Self-Sabotage to Success in Just Seven Steps: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/seven-steps-to-stop-self-sabotage</p><p>👉🏽 Inspire and transform your group by hiring me to speak: https://www.abbyhavermann.com/speaking</p><br/> <p>Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See <a href="https://pcm.adswizz.com">pcm.adswizz.com</a> for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.</p>]]></description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 16 Oct 2024 13:00:00 +0000</pubDate>
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