https://simplecast.com The Dildorks Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating. © Kate Sloan & Billy Lore en Tue, 31 Mar 2026 18:26:20 +0000 Tue, 31 Mar 2026 18:26:32 +0000 https://thedildorks.com The Dildorks https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/ae8347ab-1577-4196-aba3-9ad7747ce380/9098fae9-4db4-4e70-8ecf-b472a68e4849/3000x3000/new-addison-logo-full-size.jpg?aid=rss_feed https://thedildorks.com episodic Sex nerds and best friends Billy (billylore.com) and Kate (katesloan.com) talk about all things sex, dating, and masturbating. Billy Lore, Kate Sloan true https://feeds.simplecast.com/mmEoxr51 sex, kink, dating, masturbation, sex toys, bdsm Billy Lore & Kate Sloan katesloanwriter@gmail.com 02c6df66-b1ec-4d19-9932-889d8054482c Hysterically Wrong We’re busting more sex toy myths this week, including the infamous medical origin story of the vibrator, orgasm guarantees, and a dearth of toys for dicks!
 

Vibrator Invention Myth | Hysteria (2011) | The Technology of Orgasm by Rachel Maines | Buzz by Hallie Lieberman | No Toys for Dicks? | Only for Single People | Orgasm Guarantees | Different Toys | “Anything’s a Dildo If You’re Brave Enough” | Funkit Toys NoFrilldos

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]]> Tue, 31 Mar 2026 18:26:20 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/hysterically-wrong-Bw8sktJs We’re busting more sex toy myths this week, including the infamous medical origin story of the vibrator, orgasm guarantees, and a dearth of toys for dicks!
 

Vibrator Invention Myth | Hysteria (2011) | The Technology of Orgasm by Rachel Maines | Buzz by Hallie Lieberman | No Toys for Dicks? | Only for Single People | Orgasm Guarantees | Different Toys | “Anything’s a Dildo If You’re Brave Enough” | Funkit Toys NoFrilldos

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]]> Hysterically Wrong Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:57:56 We’re busting more sex toy myths this week, including the infamous medical origin story of the vibrator, orgasm guarantees, and a dearth of toys for dicks! We’re busting more sex toy myths this week, including the infamous medical origin story of the vibrator, orgasm guarantees, and a dearth of toys for dicks! true full 475 9dfa8388-4c14-49d5-8a44-8ed409ed52bc The Vibes Are Off There are countless myths and misconceptions about sex toys, and this week we try to set the record straight on a few of them!
 

Vibrator Numbness | Vibe as Scapegoat | Rendered Obsolete | Shere Hite Book | The Hite Report | Bigger = Better? | Vibrations on the Nose | Stretched Out | Toy Cleaner

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]]> Thu, 26 Mar 2026 17:09:06 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/the-vibes-are-off-b3BnvynV There are countless myths and misconceptions about sex toys, and this week we try to set the record straight on a few of them!
 

Vibrator Numbness | Vibe as Scapegoat | Rendered Obsolete | Shere Hite Book | The Hite Report | Bigger = Better? | Vibrations on the Nose | Stretched Out | Toy Cleaner

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]]> The Vibes Are Off Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:48:25 There are countless myths and misconceptions about sex toys, and this week we try to set the record straight on a few of them! There are countless myths and misconceptions about sex toys, and this week we try to set the record straight on a few of them! true full 474 c836f10e-a0ad-4ef0-a38f-f794baf117d9 The Big Bang Is large penetration a goal worth aspiring to? This week we discuss our evolving feelings on fisting and other forms of XXL penetration!
 

Current Feelings | Can Anyone Be Fisted? | Journey vs. Destination | Fist vs. Fingers | Njoy Eleven | Vixen Gambler | Hand Weakness/Pain | Emotional Effects | Guts Rearranged | Penis Size | Unicorn Collaborators Hand Harness | Fist-Shaped Dildos | Vixen Randy | Epiphora’s Randy Diary | Sliquid Silk | J-Lube

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]]> Tue, 17 Mar 2026 19:28:28 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/the-big-bang-9WFdBsMG Is large penetration a goal worth aspiring to? This week we discuss our evolving feelings on fisting and other forms of XXL penetration!
 

Current Feelings | Can Anyone Be Fisted? | Journey vs. Destination | Fist vs. Fingers | Njoy Eleven | Vixen Gambler | Hand Weakness/Pain | Emotional Effects | Guts Rearranged | Penis Size | Unicorn Collaborators Hand Harness | Fist-Shaped Dildos | Vixen Randy | Epiphora’s Randy Diary | Sliquid Silk | J-Lube

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]]> The Big Bang Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:51:52 Is large penetration a goal worth aspiring to? This week we discuss our evolving feelings on fisting and other forms of XXL penetration! Is large penetration a goal worth aspiring to? This week we discuss our evolving feelings on fisting and other forms of XXL penetration! true full 473 3e86330f-70ec-465b-9868-39a6425a6015 You're In Good Hands There are always interesting new fetishes to discover! This week we’re discussing some unusual kinks we’ve heard about lately, from latex-sheathed blowjobs to cringe masturbation to being “friendzoned.”
 

“Chasing” Someone Unavailable | Hands | Condom’ed Blowjobs | Skyn Condoms | Flavored Lubes by Sliquid, Wicked, & LubeLife | Being Friendzoned | Cajoling a Boyfriend Into Sex | Denial Kink | Cringe | “Unattractive People” | Webbing Between Fingers | Fisting & Hand Pics

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]]> Tue, 10 Mar 2026 17:06:18 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/youre-in-good-hands-bFSJdxy6 There are always interesting new fetishes to discover! This week we’re discussing some unusual kinks we’ve heard about lately, from latex-sheathed blowjobs to cringe masturbation to being “friendzoned.”
 

“Chasing” Someone Unavailable | Hands | Condom’ed Blowjobs | Skyn Condoms | Flavored Lubes by Sliquid, Wicked, & LubeLife | Being Friendzoned | Cajoling a Boyfriend Into Sex | Denial Kink | Cringe | “Unattractive People” | Webbing Between Fingers | Fisting & Hand Pics

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]]> You're In Good Hands Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:49:56 There are always interesting new fetishes to discover! This week we’re discussing some unusual kinks we’ve heard about lately, from latex-sheathed blowjobs to cringe masturbation to being “friendzoned.” There are always interesting new fetishes to discover! This week we’re discussing some unusual kinks we’ve heard about lately, from latex-sheathed blowjobs to cringe masturbation to being “friendzoned.” true full 472 95906687-2630-4435-abbd-b833f2b4da4d Words of Jizzdom Giving advice can get tricky when you’re polyamorous (or just prone to messy romantic drama), so this week we’re offering more advice on giving advice!

No Sex on a Date | Will Not Advise | Criticism vs. Praise | Parenting Advice | Authority & Influence | Advising a Partner | Too Much Bias | Mad at a Metamour | People Who Don’t Take Advice | Sex & Kink Coaching

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]]> Tue, 3 Mar 2026 20:11:57 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/words-of-jizzdom-4sCISZrg Giving advice can get tricky when you’re polyamorous (or just prone to messy romantic drama), so this week we’re offering more advice on giving advice!

No Sex on a Date | Will Not Advise | Criticism vs. Praise | Parenting Advice | Authority & Influence | Advising a Partner | Too Much Bias | Mad at a Metamour | People Who Don’t Take Advice | Sex & Kink Coaching

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]]> Words of Jizzdom Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:51:07 Giving advice can get tricky when you’re polyamorous (or just prone to messy romantic drama), so this week we’re offering more advice on giving advice! Giving advice can get tricky when you’re polyamorous (or just prone to messy romantic drama), so this week we’re offering more advice on giving advice! true full 471 0ff9eb95-f7ab-417d-b532-02f20fdafbbb Penny For Your Thoughts? We love giving advice, so this week we’re advising you on advising – how and when to give helpful advice, the best ways to ask for it, and the common mistakes we’ve made in these areas.
 

Different Dataset | Context | Solicited | Vulnerability | Commands | Asking Questions | Mental State | Pointing Out Patterns | Asking for Advice | Phrasing the Ask | Emotional Validation | Empathy or Strategy? | How to Take Advice

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]]> Tue, 24 Feb 2026 21:17:58 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/penny-for-your-thoughts-JIYL4HPA We love giving advice, so this week we’re advising you on advising – how and when to give helpful advice, the best ways to ask for it, and the common mistakes we’ve made in these areas.
 

Different Dataset | Context | Solicited | Vulnerability | Commands | Asking Questions | Mental State | Pointing Out Patterns | Asking for Advice | Phrasing the Ask | Emotional Validation | Empathy or Strategy? | How to Take Advice

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]]> Penny For Your Thoughts? Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:44:38 We love giving advice, so this week we’re advising you on advising – how and when to give helpful advice, the best ways to ask for it, and the common mistakes we’ve made in these areas. We love giving advice, so this week we’re advising you on advising – how and when to give helpful advice, the best ways to ask for it, and the common mistakes we’ve made in these areas. true full 470 0df2bf59-a0b5-494c-99a5-17c7fd7488d5 How F*cking Romantic! Happy (belated) Valentine’s Day! This week we celebrated by answering listener questions about love and romance.
 

Crying on V-Day | Romance vs. Friendship | Curiosity & Merging | Codependency | “One True Love” | Dean Spade Essay | “Be Mine” | Polyamorous Valentine’s | Social Media | “The One That Got Away”

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]]> Tue, 17 Feb 2026 19:48:17 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/how-fcking-romantic-bgQg4M0C Happy (belated) Valentine’s Day! This week we celebrated by answering listener questions about love and romance.
 

Crying on V-Day | Romance vs. Friendship | Curiosity & Merging | Codependency | “One True Love” | Dean Spade Essay | “Be Mine” | Polyamorous Valentine’s | Social Media | “The One That Got Away”

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]]> How F*cking Romantic! Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:46:15 Happy (belated) Valentine’s Day! This week we celebrated by answering listener questions about love and romance. Happy (belated) Valentine’s Day! This week we celebrated by answering listener questions about love and romance. true full 469 53fd87ff-ad2d-444b-89a9-77dd084c6d8c Making an Impact We used to talk about spanking all the time, but is it still one of our favorite kinks? This week we discuss our current feelings on impact play!
 

Jump-Scared by Bruises | Spanking vs. Beating | Jillian Keenan Videos | Bastinado | Random Punching | Topping | Evolving Relationship | The Artist & the Pervert | Non-Consensual Spanking | Not a Punishment | Thuddy vs. Stingy | Chronic Pain | Implements | Wood vs. Leather | Weal & Breech | London Tanners Strap | Bookweight | Miss Rose Paddles | LilfoxToybox | Holo Leather | Purple Passion | Pickup Play | Emotional Risk | Intoxicants | Communication Tools

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]]> Tue, 10 Feb 2026 20:23:27 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/making-an-impact-w2fScIR9 We used to talk about spanking all the time, but is it still one of our favorite kinks? This week we discuss our current feelings on impact play!
 

Jump-Scared by Bruises | Spanking vs. Beating | Jillian Keenan Videos | Bastinado | Random Punching | Topping | Evolving Relationship | The Artist & the Pervert | Non-Consensual Spanking | Not a Punishment | Thuddy vs. Stingy | Chronic Pain | Implements | Wood vs. Leather | Weal & Breech | London Tanners Strap | Bookweight | Miss Rose Paddles | LilfoxToybox | Holo Leather | Purple Passion | Pickup Play | Emotional Risk | Intoxicants | Communication Tools

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]]> Making an Impact Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:50 We used to talk about spanking all the time, but is it still one of our favorite kinks? This week we discuss our current feelings on impact play! We used to talk about spanking all the time, but is it still one of our favorite kinks? This week we discuss our current feelings on impact play! true full 468 9e5a3aa1-971d-4d50-ba12-1296eac7b0c2 Flirt Alert! This week, we chat with dating coach/columnist (and former pickup artist) Harris O’Malley, a.k.a. Doctor NerdLove, whose work we’ve admired for a long time! He gave us some advice on flirting, dating, conversational skills, and more.

 

Pickup Artistry | Dark Night of the Soul | Fear of Rejection | What Even Is Flirting? | Bad at Flirting – Please Be Blunt | Neurodivergent Nerds | Rules vs. Vibes | Disarmingly Honest | Asking No Questions | The Question Game | Breaking the Touch Barrier | Sex(y) Conversations | Staying in the Moment | Improv Skills | Building Social Momentum | What If? (2013) | Sleeping with Other People (2015) | A Nice Indian Boy (2024) | Do As We Say, Not As They Did

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]]> Tue, 3 Feb 2026 20:21:41 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/flirt-alert-9Afh62AR This week, we chat with dating coach/columnist (and former pickup artist) Harris O’Malley, a.k.a. Doctor NerdLove, whose work we’ve admired for a long time! He gave us some advice on flirting, dating, conversational skills, and more.

 

Pickup Artistry | Dark Night of the Soul | Fear of Rejection | What Even Is Flirting? | Bad at Flirting – Please Be Blunt | Neurodivergent Nerds | Rules vs. Vibes | Disarmingly Honest | Asking No Questions | The Question Game | Breaking the Touch Barrier | Sex(y) Conversations | Staying in the Moment | Improv Skills | Building Social Momentum | What If? (2013) | Sleeping with Other People (2015) | A Nice Indian Boy (2024) | Do As We Say, Not As They Did

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]]> Flirt Alert! Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:02:18 This week, we chat with dating coach/columnist (and former pickup artist) Harris O’Malley, a.k.a. Doctor Nerdlove, whose work we’ve admired for a long time! He gave us some advice on flirting, dating, conversational skills, and more. This week, we chat with dating coach/columnist (and former pickup artist) Harris O’Malley, a.k.a. Doctor Nerdlove, whose work we’ve admired for a long time! He gave us some advice on flirting, dating, conversational skills, and more. true full 467 bd80c9be-6eb2-422f-a2e5-5c77da3dff05 Yearn, Baby, Yearn Romantic yearning can be deeply painful, but it’s also kinda hot and fun. This week we discuss our experiences with this unique emotion in contexts like long-distance relationships and unrequited love.

 

Is It Good? | General vs. Specific | Desire | Defining ‘Yearning’ | Emotional Sadomasochism | Long-Distance | Enjoying It | Creative Outlet | Incels | Heated Rivalry | Gendered Tropes | Men’s Emotions | Yandere | Taking Initiative | Neediness | Turning It Up or Down | Sexual Yearning | Receiving End

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]]> Tue, 27 Jan 2026 20:34:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/yearn-baby-yearn-TwqOsRzw Romantic yearning can be deeply painful, but it’s also kinda hot and fun. This week we discuss our experiences with this unique emotion in contexts like long-distance relationships and unrequited love.

 

Is It Good? | General vs. Specific | Desire | Defining ‘Yearning’ | Emotional Sadomasochism | Long-Distance | Enjoying It | Creative Outlet | Incels | Heated Rivalry | Gendered Tropes | Men’s Emotions | Yandere | Taking Initiative | Neediness | Turning It Up or Down | Sexual Yearning | Receiving End

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]]> Yearn, Baby, Yearn Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:43:38 Romantic yearning can be deeply painful, but it’s also kinda hot and fun. This week we discuss our experiences with this unique emotion in contexts like long-distance relationships and unrequited love. Romantic yearning can be deeply painful, but it’s also kinda hot and fun. This week we discuss our experiences with this unique emotion in contexts like long-distance relationships and unrequited love. true full 466 10c5ade0-6072-4a6e-91da-eaa3246402d4 New Queers' Resolutions This week, we discuss our favorite sexual fantasies of 2025, the sex & dating goals we set for ourselves last year, and our new goals for 2026.
 

Fantasies | Sex Robots | Work Sex | Forced to Be Bored | Safer Sex | Anonymous Sex | Femdom & Dorky Virgins | Toronto vs. New York | Double Penetration | Sex Nerd Workspace | Sex For Fun | Communicating Better | Socializing | Sex Therapy School | Queer Media Archiving | Good Gender Feelings | Questions on Dates | New Goals | Non-Sex Hobbies | PIV Orgasms | Love | The Internet | Beginner’s Mind

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]]> Tue, 20 Jan 2026 17:35:32 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/new-queers-resolutions-2PrXLyeh This week, we discuss our favorite sexual fantasies of 2025, the sex & dating goals we set for ourselves last year, and our new goals for 2026.
 

Fantasies | Sex Robots | Work Sex | Forced to Be Bored | Safer Sex | Anonymous Sex | Femdom & Dorky Virgins | Toronto vs. New York | Double Penetration | Sex Nerd Workspace | Sex For Fun | Communicating Better | Socializing | Sex Therapy School | Queer Media Archiving | Good Gender Feelings | Questions on Dates | New Goals | Non-Sex Hobbies | PIV Orgasms | Love | The Internet | Beginner’s Mind

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]]> New Queers' Resolutions Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:41 This week, we discuss our favorite sexual fantasies of 2025, the sex & dating goals we set for ourselves last year, and our new goals for 2026. This week, we discuss our favorite sexual fantasies of 2025, the sex & dating goals we set for ourselves last year, and our new goals for 2026. true full 465 589d29a2-c708-45ef-8c68-7f73910233d4 Take It From the Top Happy new year! This week we’re reflecting on the biggest changes in our sex & dating lives in 2025, the sex toys we loved most, and the weirdest sex we had all year.
 

Rest & Movies | Overall Changes | Hookups | Libido Troubles | Horny 4 Intimacy | Living Together | Low-Dose Naltrexone | Emotional Energy | Monogamous Crushes | New Things | BJ Buddy | Random Act of Muff Dive | Belly Stuff | Fingered in a Park | De-Escalation | Tail-Fucking | PIV & CBT | We-Vibe Tango X | Doc Johnson Mochi Stroker | Lovense Lush Mini | Magic Wand Waterproof | Lelo Switch | Pre-Breakup Sex | Best/Weirdest Sex

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]]> Tue, 13 Jan 2026 16:48:35 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/take-it-from-the-top-JTk0V8yp Happy new year! This week we’re reflecting on the biggest changes in our sex & dating lives in 2025, the sex toys we loved most, and the weirdest sex we had all year.
 

Rest & Movies | Overall Changes | Hookups | Libido Troubles | Horny 4 Intimacy | Living Together | Low-Dose Naltrexone | Emotional Energy | Monogamous Crushes | New Things | BJ Buddy | Random Act of Muff Dive | Belly Stuff | Fingered in a Park | De-Escalation | Tail-Fucking | PIV & CBT | We-Vibe Tango X | Doc Johnson Mochi Stroker | Lovense Lush Mini | Magic Wand Waterproof | Lelo Switch | Pre-Breakup Sex | Best/Weirdest Sex

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]]> Take It From the Top Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:51:36 Happy new year! This week we’re reflecting on the biggest changes in our sex & dating lives in 2025, the sex toys we loved most, and the weirdest sex we had all year. Happy new year! This week we’re reflecting on the biggest changes in our sex & dating lives in 2025, the sex toys we loved most, and the weirdest sex we had all year. true full 464 1ca6093c-6a47-4717-a409-220c460d6809 Gag Gift Happy holidays to those celebrating! We’re discussing objectification kink again this week, through a seasonal lens.
 

Holiday Stress | Giving People as Gifts | Sex Coupons & Cards | Re-Focusing | Manhandling | Bored & Ignored | Sexualizing vs. Objectifying | Previous Holiday Episodes (1, 2, 3)

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]]> Wed, 24 Dec 2025 17:50:59 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/gag-gift-r6ZtCG5V Happy holidays to those celebrating! We’re discussing objectification kink again this week, through a seasonal lens.
 

Holiday Stress | Giving People as Gifts | Sex Coupons & Cards | Re-Focusing | Manhandling | Bored & Ignored | Sexualizing vs. Objectifying | Previous Holiday Episodes (1, 2, 3)

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]]> Gag Gift Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:45:15 Happy holidays to those celebrating! We’re discussing objectification kink again this week, through a seasonal lens. Happy holidays to those celebrating! We’re discussing objectification kink again this week, through a seasonal lens. true full 463 e15cd3e5-d6f9-4375-8c07-0b97802601b1 An Object Lesson What does it mean to be ‘objectified’ in a kink scene, and how is that different from the other, less-hot ways one can be objectified? This week we’re discussing the nuances of this complex kink.
 

Nonconsensual Objectification | Marginalization & Trust | Just a Hole | Empathy | What’s Hot About It? | Quiet Mind | Authentic Desire | The New Topping Book | Favorite Object | Praise | Environment & Vibe | Distraction Play | Glory Holes | Objectifying Doms | 101 Kinky Things

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]]> Tue, 16 Dec 2025 18:34:29 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/an-object-lesson-opke184w What does it mean to be ‘objectified’ in a kink scene, and how is that different from the other, less-hot ways one can be objectified? This week we’re discussing the nuances of this complex kink.
 

Nonconsensual Objectification | Marginalization & Trust | Just a Hole | Empathy | What’s Hot About It? | Quiet Mind | Authentic Desire | The New Topping Book | Favorite Object | Praise | Environment & Vibe | Distraction Play | Glory Holes | Objectifying Doms | 101 Kinky Things

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]]> An Object Lesson Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:49 What does it mean to be ‘objectified’ in a kink scene, and how is that different from the other, less-hot ways one can be objectified? This week we’re discussing the nuances of this complex kink. What does it mean to be ‘objectified’ in a kink scene, and how is that different from the other, less-hot ways one can be objectified? This week we’re discussing the nuances of this complex kink. true full 462 60f9739e-bd05-4084-a37b-b16823b75fda Working Out the Kinks This week we dive deeper into kinky-on-vanilla relationships, discussing how to tell if someone might be vanilla, how to explore kink outside of a newly-opened relationship, and whether fantasy and porn can be good substitutes for IRL kink.
 

Language & CBT | How to Spot Vanillas | Kinky Flirting | In Love With a Vanilla Person | Opening the Relationship | Polyamorous Kinksters | Fantasy & Porn | Basic Skillset | SIMMER Negotiation Guide | “Maybe Later” | “Read This, Please!”

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]]> Tue, 9 Dec 2025 18:45:59 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/working-out-the-kinks-tLGIS47V This week we dive deeper into kinky-on-vanilla relationships, discussing how to tell if someone might be vanilla, how to explore kink outside of a newly-opened relationship, and whether fantasy and porn can be good substitutes for IRL kink.
 

Language & CBT | How to Spot Vanillas | Kinky Flirting | In Love With a Vanilla Person | Opening the Relationship | Polyamorous Kinksters | Fantasy & Porn | Basic Skillset | SIMMER Negotiation Guide | “Maybe Later” | “Read This, Please!”

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]]> Working Out the Kinks Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:48:01 This week we dive deeper into kinky-on-vanilla relationships, discussing how to tell if someone might be vanilla, how to explore kink outside of a newly-opened relationship, and whether fantasy and porn can be good substitutes for IRL kink. This week we dive deeper into kinky-on-vanilla relationships, discussing how to tell if someone might be vanilla, how to explore kink outside of a newly-opened relationship, and whether fantasy and porn can be good substitutes for IRL kink. true full 461 85931cd9-a983-4218-8f81-93f77e36f632 Vivaciously Vanilla Can a kinkster be truly satisfied dating a vanilla person, and vice-versa? This week we discuss bridging the gap between kinky and vanilla partners!
 

Dating Apps | Time & Place | Kinky Linguistic Cues | Defining “Vanilla” | Sexual Hobbyism | Our Experiences with Vanilla People | Willing vs. Want | Explaining Why | Rejecting Vanillas | Don’t Settle | Beginner-Friendly Resources | 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do | Why Are People Into That? | The New Topping Book + The New Bottoming Book

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]]> Tue, 2 Dec 2025 20:42:15 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/vivaciously-vanilla-d9nDko_r Can a kinkster be truly satisfied dating a vanilla person, and vice-versa? This week we discuss bridging the gap between kinky and vanilla partners!
 

Dating Apps | Time & Place | Kinky Linguistic Cues | Defining “Vanilla” | Sexual Hobbyism | Our Experiences with Vanilla People | Willing vs. Want | Explaining Why | Rejecting Vanillas | Don’t Settle | Beginner-Friendly Resources | 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do | Why Are People Into That? | The New Topping Book + The New Bottoming Book

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]]> Vivaciously Vanilla Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:48:46 Can a kinkster be truly satisfied dating a vanilla person, and vice-versa? This week we discuss bridging the gap between kinky and vanilla partners! Can a kinkster be truly satisfied dating a vanilla person, and vice-versa? This week we discuss bridging the gap between kinky and vanilla partners! true full 460 89a7627d-5db3-4796-b945-7a689bba400f Bewitched, Bruised, & Bewildered Can it be romantic to get spanked, stepped on, and bossed around? Absolutely! This week, Billy interviews Kate about how her submissiveness is deeply entangled with her romantic desires.
 

Depth & Vulnerability | Are They Linked? | Intrinsic Desire & Earnest Belief | Submissive Romantic Desire | You Are the One You’ve Been Waiting For | Being Seen | Masochism | Kinksters’ Communication | Self-Assuredness | Romantic Aesthetics | Falling Into Subspace | Admiration & Respect | Girl on the Net Post | Empty Praise | Romance Kink | Against Chill | Tricked Into Feelings | Incompatibility

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]]> Tue, 25 Nov 2025 17:51:54 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/bewitched-bruised-bewildered-arkmIwmp Can it be romantic to get spanked, stepped on, and bossed around? Absolutely! This week, Billy interviews Kate about how her submissiveness is deeply entangled with her romantic desires.
 

Depth & Vulnerability | Are They Linked? | Intrinsic Desire & Earnest Belief | Submissive Romantic Desire | You Are the One You’ve Been Waiting For | Being Seen | Masochism | Kinksters’ Communication | Self-Assuredness | Romantic Aesthetics | Falling Into Subspace | Admiration & Respect | Girl on the Net Post | Empty Praise | Romance Kink | Against Chill | Tricked Into Feelings | Incompatibility

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]]> Bewitched, Bruised, & Bewildered Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:47:13 Can it be romantic to get spanked, stepped on, and bossed around? Absolutely! This week, Billy interviews Kate about how her submissiveness is deeply entangled with her romantic desires. Can it be romantic to get spanked, stepped on, and bossed around? Absolutely! This week, Billy interviews Kate about how her submissiveness is deeply entangled with her romantic desires. true full 459 46211f0c-ae39-4259-b911-a7b961d54292 Sexy Eccentrics This week we’ve got a whole new batch of interesting fetishes from Reddit to discuss, from trees to heavy metal music to illusionists.

 

Making Them Work For It | Dendrophilia (Tree Sex) | Ecosexuality | Salon Capes | Sawed in Half | Organs | Elmer’s Glue | Paramedics | Heavy Metal | Moshing | Pool Table Cunnilingus | 101 Kinky Things Audiobook

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]]> Tue, 18 Nov 2025 17:43:45 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sexy-eccentrics-T0xzg0is This week we’ve got a whole new batch of interesting fetishes from Reddit to discuss, from trees to heavy metal music to illusionists.

 

Making Them Work For It | Dendrophilia (Tree Sex) | Ecosexuality | Salon Capes | Sawed in Half | Organs | Elmer’s Glue | Paramedics | Heavy Metal | Moshing | Pool Table Cunnilingus | 101 Kinky Things Audiobook

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]]> Sexy Eccentrics Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:45:23 This week we’ve got a whole new batch of interesting fetishes from Reddit to discuss, from trees to heavy metal music to illusionists. This week we’ve got a whole new batch of interesting fetishes from Reddit to discuss, from trees to heavy metal music to illusionists. true full 458 440d3d8b-8186-4747-8532-52e2968d1bad Full of Yourself What is self-confidence and why does it matter? This week, we’re unpacking what it means to feel confident, why it’s hot, and how to cultivate it.
 

Fake It Til You Make It | Contextual Confidence | Being Bad At Things | Perception vs. Feeling | Self-Deprecation | Self-Knowledge | Boundaries | What It Feels Like | Certainty | Competence | You Are Someone’s Favorite Flavor | Values | Why It's Hot | Emotional Labor | Submissives | Subby Flirting

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]]> Tue, 11 Nov 2025 19:29:13 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/full-of-yourself-w0MK4HEo What is self-confidence and why does it matter? This week, we’re unpacking what it means to feel confident, why it’s hot, and how to cultivate it.
 

Fake It Til You Make It | Contextual Confidence | Being Bad At Things | Perception vs. Feeling | Self-Deprecation | Self-Knowledge | Boundaries | What It Feels Like | Certainty | Competence | You Are Someone’s Favorite Flavor | Values | Why It's Hot | Emotional Labor | Submissives | Subby Flirting

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]]> Full of Yourself Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:32 What is self-confidence and why does it matter? This week, we’re unpacking what it means to feel confident, why it’s hot, and how to cultivate it. What is self-confidence and why does it matter? This week, we’re unpacking what it means to feel confident, why it’s hot, and how to cultivate it. true full 457 00347931-d9ba-40bf-a784-772cfb34ac5a Straight to the Point This week we continue our discussion of heterosexual culture, discussing straight wedding traditions, gender reveal parties, the kinkification of straight gender roles, and more.
 

Clear Communication | Power Imbalance | Come Together | Different Playbooks | Wedding Traditions | Happily Ever After | Gender Reveal Parties | Celebration | Kinkifying Straight Roles | Formative Fears | Unnegotiated Kink | Differing Desires | Straight Kinksters | Straight vs. Queer Flirting | Nonbinary Straight People

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]]> Tue, 4 Nov 2025 21:30:30 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/straight-to-the-point-TFbux2B_ This week we continue our discussion of heterosexual culture, discussing straight wedding traditions, gender reveal parties, the kinkification of straight gender roles, and more.
 

Clear Communication | Power Imbalance | Come Together | Different Playbooks | Wedding Traditions | Happily Ever After | Gender Reveal Parties | Celebration | Kinkifying Straight Roles | Formative Fears | Unnegotiated Kink | Differing Desires | Straight Kinksters | Straight vs. Queer Flirting | Nonbinary Straight People

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]]> Straight to the Point Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:52 This week we continue our discussion of heterosexual culture, discussing straight wedding traditions, gender reveal parties, the kinkification of straight gender roles, and more. This week we continue our discussion of heterosexual culture, discussing straight wedding traditions, gender reveal parties, the kinkification of straight gender roles, and more. true full 456 3dac1a05-fd01-4c88-bbd4-2f8ff0e0bb3d Set the Record Straight To celebrate Halloween, this week we’re discussing some of the scarier aspects of heterosexual culture!
 

Dating Straight People | Not Gay | The Tragedy of Heterosexuality | Does Straightness Exist? | Cultural Differences | Default Script | Anti-Pleasure Pressures | How to Do Nothing | Mono-Normativity | Media Models | Combativeness | “Hall Passes” | Opposite-Sex Friendships | Love, Inc. | Gendered Socialization | Dr. NerdLove | Lube

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]]> Tue, 28 Oct 2025 20:37:05 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/set-the-record-straight-9zkKFGVW To celebrate Halloween, this week we’re discussing some of the scarier aspects of heterosexual culture!
 

Dating Straight People | Not Gay | The Tragedy of Heterosexuality | Does Straightness Exist? | Cultural Differences | Default Script | Anti-Pleasure Pressures | How to Do Nothing | Mono-Normativity | Media Models | Combativeness | “Hall Passes” | Opposite-Sex Friendships | Love, Inc. | Gendered Socialization | Dr. NerdLove | Lube

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]]> Set the Record Straight Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:53:34 To celebrate Halloween, this week we’re discussing some of the scarier aspects of heterosexual culture! To celebrate Halloween, this week we’re discussing some of the scarier aspects of heterosexual culture! true full 455 e60f1ab4-f27f-409f-b780-f11a10021f77 We Good? Regularly-scheduled “check-in” conversations are one way to keep a relationship strong – so this week, we discuss our favorite ways of checking in, and how we manage anxiety that may come up around it.
 

As-Needed vs. Regularly Scheduled | Solutions vs. Breakups | “Ruining the Vibe” | Us vs. the Problem (The Monster Under the Bed) | Managing Anxiety & Avoidance | Check-In Card Deck | Positive Reinforcement | Defamiliarization | Not a Bad Sign | The “Why” | When Not to Check In | When to Take a Break | Good Questions | Sex & D/s | Upcoming Plans | Ask Me About… | Aftercare | How to Do Nothing

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]]> Tue, 21 Oct 2025 19:30:26 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/we-good-KZNZ5L_q Regularly-scheduled “check-in” conversations are one way to keep a relationship strong – so this week, we discuss our favorite ways of checking in, and how we manage anxiety that may come up around it.
 

As-Needed vs. Regularly Scheduled | Solutions vs. Breakups | “Ruining the Vibe” | Us vs. the Problem (The Monster Under the Bed) | Managing Anxiety & Avoidance | Check-In Card Deck | Positive Reinforcement | Defamiliarization | Not a Bad Sign | The “Why” | When Not to Check In | When to Take a Break | Good Questions | Sex & D/s | Upcoming Plans | Ask Me About… | Aftercare | How to Do Nothing

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]]> We Good? Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:06 Regularly-scheduled “check-in” conversations are one way to keep a relationship strong – so this week, we discuss our favorite ways of checking in, and how we manage anxiety that may come up around it. Regularly-scheduled “check-in” conversations are one way to keep a relationship strong – so this week, we discuss our favorite ways of checking in, and how we manage anxiety that may come up around it. true full 454 1161a44b-d014-48f3-a18a-2e1e1a0c0183 Gender & the City This week, Kate and mb interview the brilliant Tuck Woodstock, host of the Gender Reveal podcast and co-editor of the hilarious new anthology Sex Change and the City! We couldn’t help but wonder: Does Sex and the City ‘hold up’ for modern viewers, especially queer and trans ones?
 

Which Character Are You? | Which Character Is Trans? | Why SatC? | 2 Trans 2 Furious | Watching SatC Now | Queer & Trans Contributors | Grant & Mutual Aid Programs | Nonbinary Representation | Che Diaz & Rock Goldenblatt | Sub4Sub & Top4Top | Erotica | Advice on Publishing | mb’s Bus Tour | Straight People Zoos | STI Testing | ADHD Jazz Bassist | The Bisexual Episode | Tokenism | Book Tour | Non-Canon Ships | Sex Change and the City

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]]> Tue, 14 Oct 2025 19:04:52 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/gender-the-city-ctDUb5FV This week, Kate and mb interview the brilliant Tuck Woodstock, host of the Gender Reveal podcast and co-editor of the hilarious new anthology Sex Change and the City! We couldn’t help but wonder: Does Sex and the City ‘hold up’ for modern viewers, especially queer and trans ones?
 

Which Character Are You? | Which Character Is Trans? | Why SatC? | 2 Trans 2 Furious | Watching SatC Now | Queer & Trans Contributors | Grant & Mutual Aid Programs | Nonbinary Representation | Che Diaz & Rock Goldenblatt | Sub4Sub & Top4Top | Erotica | Advice on Publishing | mb’s Bus Tour | Straight People Zoos | STI Testing | ADHD Jazz Bassist | The Bisexual Episode | Tokenism | Book Tour | Non-Canon Ships | Sex Change and the City

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]]> Gender & the City Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:54:46 This week, Kate and mb interview the brilliant Tuck Woodstock, host of the Gender Reveal podcast and co-editor of the hilarious new anthology Sex Change and the City! We couldn’t help but wonder: Does Sex and the City ‘hold up’ for modern viewers, especially queer and trans ones? This week, Kate and mb interview the brilliant Tuck Woodstock, host of the Gender Reveal podcast and co-editor of the hilarious new anthology Sex Change and the City! We couldn’t help but wonder: Does Sex and the City ‘hold up’ for modern viewers, especially queer and trans ones? true full 453 5048e1d1-9a27-4d82-a52f-60ab9414fe1c Sweet Sweet Service How has our relationship to service kink changed as we’ve gotten older, done more therapy, and moved in with our partners? This week we discuss our currently thoughts and feelings on service.
 

Identity? | Feeling Useful & Impressive | Work & Resentment | Tradwives vs. Kinksters | Living Together | Cocktail Genders | Majordomo Duties | Praise & Acknowledgment | Dream Scenes

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]]> Tue, 7 Oct 2025 21:36:02 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sweet-sweet-service-_lYakEZP How has our relationship to service kink changed as we’ve gotten older, done more therapy, and moved in with our partners? This week we discuss our currently thoughts and feelings on service.
 

Identity? | Feeling Useful & Impressive | Work & Resentment | Tradwives vs. Kinksters | Living Together | Cocktail Genders | Majordomo Duties | Praise & Acknowledgment | Dream Scenes

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]]> Sweet Sweet Service Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:17 How has our relationship to service kink changed as we’ve gotten older, done more therapy, and moved in with our partners? This week we discuss our currently thoughts and feelings on service. How has our relationship to service kink changed as we’ve gotten older, done more therapy, and moved in with our partners? This week we discuss our currently thoughts and feelings on service. true full 452 c32efe60-f581-4bc3-879e-78d72546a874 Ass Is In Session People believe all kinds of nonsense about anal play, so this week we’re busting myths about butt stuff.

Makes You Gay | Homophobe Ick | (Un)Natural? | Masculinity | “Sides” | Pain & Numbing | Sphincters | Permanent Damage | Pregnancy | Loophole | Good Feminist | Tops Should Bottom | Always Up For It | Shit Happens

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]]> Tue, 30 Sep 2025 21:14:45 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/ass-is-in-session-CIPt5TGh People believe all kinds of nonsense about anal play, so this week we’re busting myths about butt stuff.

Makes You Gay | Homophobe Ick | (Un)Natural? | Masculinity | “Sides” | Pain & Numbing | Sphincters | Permanent Damage | Pregnancy | Loophole | Good Feminist | Tops Should Bottom | Always Up For It | Shit Happens

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]]> Ass Is In Session Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:00 People believe all kinds of nonsense about anal play, so this week we’re busting myths about butt stuff. People believe all kinds of nonsense about anal play, so this week we’re busting myths about butt stuff. true full 451 8c521fff-2dd2-4bca-bb40-9e6240e12e8b Get the Word Out Are some sexual labels more cringe than others? Do our public labels differ from our private ones? And what’s up with people who don’t think we should use labels at all? This week, we’re continuing to dive deep on sex & gender identity labels.

 

Tired & Old | “I Don’t Like Labels” | “Cringe” Identities | Gynosexual | Bicurious | Sapiosexual | Public vs. Private Identities | Letting Go of Labels | Labels vs. Diagnoses | Validation & Affirmation | Beyond Clothing | Walking Like John Wayne

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]]> Wed, 24 Sep 2025 18:25:53 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/get-the-word-out-ZRKrQ_HY Are some sexual labels more cringe than others? Do our public labels differ from our private ones? And what’s up with people who don’t think we should use labels at all? This week, we’re continuing to dive deep on sex & gender identity labels.

 

Tired & Old | “I Don’t Like Labels” | “Cringe” Identities | Gynosexual | Bicurious | Sapiosexual | Public vs. Private Identities | Letting Go of Labels | Labels vs. Diagnoses | Validation & Affirmation | Beyond Clothing | Walking Like John Wayne

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]]> Get the Word Out Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:49:55 Are some sexual labels more cringe than others? Do our public labels differ from our private ones? And what’s up with people who don’t think we should use labels at all? This week, we’re continuing to dive deep on sex & gender identity labels. Are some sexual labels more cringe than others? Do our public labels differ from our private ones? And what’s up with people who don’t think we should use labels at all? This week, we’re continuing to dive deep on sex & gender identity labels. true full 450 61e8b2cb-5e65-48da-9a4c-8026101118dc What It Says On the Tin When it comes to sex and gender, labels can be helpful and affirming, but they can also be limiting and divisive. This week, we discuss our own labels, and what we think they achieve for us.
 

The Purpose(s) of Labels | Identity Affirmation | Internal vs. External Benefits | Bisexual | Queer | Pansexual | Sexuality vs. Gender | Queer Femme | Trans F*g | Reclaiming Slurs | Outsider | Coming Out Many Times

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]]> Tue, 16 Sep 2025 16:23:14 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/what-it-says-on-the-tin-bltmxnpP When it comes to sex and gender, labels can be helpful and affirming, but they can also be limiting and divisive. This week, we discuss our own labels, and what we think they achieve for us.
 

The Purpose(s) of Labels | Identity Affirmation | Internal vs. External Benefits | Bisexual | Queer | Pansexual | Sexuality vs. Gender | Queer Femme | Trans F*g | Reclaiming Slurs | Outsider | Coming Out Many Times

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]]> What It Says On the Tin Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:45:13 When it comes to sex and gender, labels can be helpful and affirming, but they can also be limiting and divisive. This week, we discuss our own labels, and what we think they achieve for us. When it comes to sex and gender, labels can be helpful and affirming, but they can also be limiting and divisive. This week, we discuss our own labels, and what we think they achieve for us. true full 449 1716e14a-b745-4229-a987-247474d01345 Ace of Hearts Asexuality is a highly misunderstood identity, so this week we’re discussing what it means to be ace – and why Kate is newly identifying that way!

What is Asexuality? | Access to Information | Neurodivergence | Why Use the Label? | (Not) Being Into Bodies | Coming Out to Allo People | Aromanticism | Hard Feelings | Are Ace People Queer? | Choice vs. “Born This Way” | Ace by Angela Chen

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]]> Tue, 9 Sep 2025 17:12:57 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/ace-of-hearts-5a1Ru__x Asexuality is a highly misunderstood identity, so this week we’re discussing what it means to be ace – and why Kate is newly identifying that way!

What is Asexuality? | Access to Information | Neurodivergence | Why Use the Label? | (Not) Being Into Bodies | Coming Out to Allo People | Aromanticism | Hard Feelings | Are Ace People Queer? | Choice vs. “Born This Way” | Ace by Angela Chen

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]]> Ace of Hearts Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:10 Asexuality is a highly misunderstood identity, so this week we’re discussing what it means to be ace – and why Kate is newly identifying that way! Asexuality is a highly misunderstood identity, so this week we’re discussing what it means to be ace – and why Kate is newly identifying that way! true full 448 ebc6d2d3-b26b-4d5b-869e-a6435e867bf2 Carpe DM This week, we give more advice on play parties, including how to become a DM, how to approach a stranger for play, and how to take care of yourself emotionally during an event.
 

Flirting & Professionalism | Becoming a DM | When to Get a DM | Rookie Mistakes | Taking Notes | How to Approach People | Mood Management | Approaching Tops | Handling Overwhelm

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]]> Tue, 2 Sep 2025 20:14:47 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/carpe-dm-hgZ_qoMB This week, we give more advice on play parties, including how to become a DM, how to approach a stranger for play, and how to take care of yourself emotionally during an event.
 

Flirting & Professionalism | Becoming a DM | When to Get a DM | Rookie Mistakes | Taking Notes | How to Approach People | Mood Management | Approaching Tops | Handling Overwhelm

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]]> Carpe DM Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:53:24 This week, we give more advice on play parties, including how to become a DM, how to approach a stranger for play, and how to take care of yourself emotionally during an event. This week, we give more advice on play parties, including how to become a DM, how to approach a stranger for play, and how to take care of yourself emotionally during an event. true full 447 df19b45e-6088-4922-9bdc-95790eb6566d Bedding Crashers Party time! This week, we discuss etiquette and preparation for attending a play party, whether it’s sex-focused, kink-focused, or both.
 

Sex as a Hobby | Beginners | Verbal vs. Non-Verbal Communication | Spontaneity | Vulnerability | Compartmentalization | Expectations vs. Reality | Preparing | Setting Intentions | Spectating | What to Wear | Sex vs. Kink | Archetypes

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]]> Tue, 26 Aug 2025 18:48:23 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/bedding-crashers-5W28AbmG Party time! This week, we discuss etiquette and preparation for attending a play party, whether it’s sex-focused, kink-focused, or both.
 

Sex as a Hobby | Beginners | Verbal vs. Non-Verbal Communication | Spontaneity | Vulnerability | Compartmentalization | Expectations vs. Reality | Preparing | Setting Intentions | Spectating | What to Wear | Sex vs. Kink | Archetypes

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]]> Bedding Crashers Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:03 Party time! This week, we discuss etiquette and preparation for attending a play party, whether it’s sex-focused, kink-focused, or both. Party time! This week, we discuss etiquette and preparation for attending a play party, whether it’s sex-focused, kink-focused, or both. true full 446 0a6623df-5377-4ae0-8e1d-84f2f63a3642 Explosively Erotic We always love learning about interesting fetishes, and this week we’ve got a bunch of juicy ones to discuss, from bomb-shaped women to pig-shaped men.
 

Explodey Babes | Bi Confusion | Pig Transformation | Sperm Bank Muff Dive | Tongue Fetish | Ties & Ties | Theme Nights | Quitting Smoking

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]]> Tue, 19 Aug 2025 17:07:25 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/explosively-erotic-Ljr4DX4A We always love learning about interesting fetishes, and this week we’ve got a bunch of juicy ones to discuss, from bomb-shaped women to pig-shaped men.
 

Explodey Babes | Bi Confusion | Pig Transformation | Sperm Bank Muff Dive | Tongue Fetish | Ties & Ties | Theme Nights | Quitting Smoking

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]]> Explosively Erotic Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:50:12 We always love learning about interesting fetishes, and this week we’ve got a bunch of juicy ones to discuss, from bomb-shaped women to pig-shaped men. We always love learning about interesting fetishes, and this week we’ve got a bunch of juicy ones to discuss, from bomb-shaped women to pig-shaped men. true full 445 14aeb146-adfe-482e-9c87-2b097eb5726c Keep It Rolling Watching movies and TV shows with a partner can be surprisingly bonding and eye-opening! This week we discuss the ways our relationships have benefited from enjoying media with partners.
 

Talking During Movies | Inside Jokes | Disconnection vs. Intimacy | Conversation-Starters | Complexity & Nuance | Choosing Movies | The Birdcage | Content Notes vs. No Spoilers | Art vs. Escapism | The Room | Same Time, Next Year | Eyes Wide Shut | With Love and a Major Organ

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]]> Tue, 12 Aug 2025 18:08:50 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/keep-it-rolling-31kRWVC_ Watching movies and TV shows with a partner can be surprisingly bonding and eye-opening! This week we discuss the ways our relationships have benefited from enjoying media with partners.
 

Talking During Movies | Inside Jokes | Disconnection vs. Intimacy | Conversation-Starters | Complexity & Nuance | Choosing Movies | The Birdcage | Content Notes vs. No Spoilers | Art vs. Escapism | The Room | Same Time, Next Year | Eyes Wide Shut | With Love and a Major Organ

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]]> Keep It Rolling Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:46:23 Watching movies and TV shows with a partner can be surprisingly bonding and eye-opening! This week we discuss the ways our relationships have benefited from enjoying media with partners. Watching movies and TV shows with a partner can be surprisingly bonding and eye-opening! This week we discuss the ways our relationships have benefited from enjoying media with partners. true full 444 e03fc3fe-1262-4df7-aecd-c53e643d342f Was It Good For Me? This week we dig deeper into the subject of sexual selfishness, answering questions like: Can it be selfish to give pleasure? How can you satisfy a stone person? And is there really a top shortage?
 

Casual vs. Long-Term | Getting Tired & ‘Hard Mode’ | Owning Your Desires | Communication & Compliments | Willing vs. Into | Stone Reciprocity | Xan West on Stone Identity | Allow vs. Tolerate/Endure | Selfish Altruism | Top Shortage | Kate’s Moan Audios | Indirect Clit Stim Techniques

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]]> Tue, 5 Aug 2025 18:39:49 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/was-it-good-for-me-wZ6JAU4E This week we dig deeper into the subject of sexual selfishness, answering questions like: Can it be selfish to give pleasure? How can you satisfy a stone person? And is there really a top shortage?
 

Casual vs. Long-Term | Getting Tired & ‘Hard Mode’ | Owning Your Desires | Communication & Compliments | Willing vs. Into | Stone Reciprocity | Xan West on Stone Identity | Allow vs. Tolerate/Endure | Selfish Altruism | Top Shortage | Kate’s Moan Audios | Indirect Clit Stim Techniques

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]]> Was It Good For Me? Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:03 This week we dig deeper into the subject of sexual selfishness, answering questions like: Can it be selfish to give pleasure? How can you satisfy a stone person? And is there really a top shortage? This week we dig deeper into the subject of sexual selfishness, answering questions like: Can it be selfish to give pleasure? How can you satisfy a stone person? And is there really a top shortage? true full 443 c62d92ef-bbf2-4362-8498-f7ef84f4e9bc Sweetly Greedy What does it mean to be selfish in bed, and is it always necessarily a bad thing? This week we discuss our relationships to “selfishness” and receiving pleasure.

 

Bottoming vs. Being Selfish | Negative Connotations | Straights vs. Queers | Wide Range of Pleasures | “You Do Me, Then I Do You” | Switching | /r/RandomActsOfMuffDive | Bottoming Skills | Guilt & Shame | Pleasure Doms | Gendered Tropes | Tops’ Pleasure | Masking vs. Vulnerability

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]]> Tue, 29 Jul 2025 18:51:28 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sweetly-greedy-uPubRt8k What does it mean to be selfish in bed, and is it always necessarily a bad thing? This week we discuss our relationships to “selfishness” and receiving pleasure.

 

Bottoming vs. Being Selfish | Negative Connotations | Straights vs. Queers | Wide Range of Pleasures | “You Do Me, Then I Do You” | Switching | /r/RandomActsOfMuffDive | Bottoming Skills | Guilt & Shame | Pleasure Doms | Gendered Tropes | Tops’ Pleasure | Masking vs. Vulnerability

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]]> Sweetly Greedy Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:46:04 What does it mean to be selfish in bed, and is it always necessarily a bad thing? This week we discuss our relationships to “selfishness” and receiving pleasure. What does it mean to be selfish in bed, and is it always necessarily a bad thing? This week we discuss our relationships to “selfishness” and receiving pleasure. true full 442 af7b4da6-46ee-4e4a-bff8-b75d8d98fed5 Meet in the Middle Talking about sex is hard, which is why so many sex educators try to “meet people where they’re at,” a concept we unpack this week to help you have better conversations about sex.
 

Zero Tolerance vs. Harm Reduction | Don’t Be Elitist! | Avoiding Shame Triggers | Self-Disclosure | Jokey Approach | Questions & Assumptions | Assessing Knowledge Level | Self-Criticism

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]]> Tue, 22 Jul 2025 19:50:44 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/meet-in-the-middle-CIfoa_B_ Talking about sex is hard, which is why so many sex educators try to “meet people where they’re at,” a concept we unpack this week to help you have better conversations about sex.
 

Zero Tolerance vs. Harm Reduction | Don’t Be Elitist! | Avoiding Shame Triggers | Self-Disclosure | Jokey Approach | Questions & Assumptions | Assessing Knowledge Level | Self-Criticism

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]]> Meet in the Middle Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:03:18 Talking about sex is hard, which is why so many sex educators try to “meet people where they’re at,” a concept we unpack this week to help you have better conversations about sex. Talking about sex is hard, which is why so many sex educators try to “meet people where they’re at,” a concept we unpack this week to help you have better conversations about sex. true full 441 6be6d280-162a-4fa3-8de4-d4539ed42088 Lip Service This week, we celebrated International Kissing Day by answering listener questions about kissing!
 

“We Should Make Out” | Hormone Changes | Kissing Men | Consent-Asks | Feeling Overwhelmed | Toys & Practice | Sexual Stimulation

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]]> Tue, 8 Jul 2025 17:05:34 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/lip-service-C_0mSMTj This week, we celebrated International Kissing Day by answering listener questions about kissing!
 

“We Should Make Out” | Hormone Changes | Kissing Men | Consent-Asks | Feeling Overwhelmed | Toys & Practice | Sexual Stimulation

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]]> Lip Service Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:53:39 This week, we celebrated International Kissing Day by answering listener questions about kissing! This week, we celebrated International Kissing Day by answering listener questions about kissing! true full 440 1ff3b115-f9bf-4956-b02e-de2cf9db99d7 Home Sweet Homo This week, while Kate’s moving from Toronto to New York, Billy chats with his partner Dee Darkholme about THEIR recent move, and what it’s been like adjusting to living together with Dee’s other partner.
 

Living with 2 Partners | Opposite vs. Similar | Communication & Criticism | Sex Issues | Having People Over | Decoration Decisions | Complementary Strengths | Alone Time | Nice Things

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]]> Thu, 3 Jul 2025 18:40:12 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/home-sweet-homo-dA0JpUBA This week, while Kate’s moving from Toronto to New York, Billy chats with his partner Dee Darkholme about THEIR recent move, and what it’s been like adjusting to living together with Dee’s other partner.
 

Living with 2 Partners | Opposite vs. Similar | Communication & Criticism | Sex Issues | Having People Over | Decoration Decisions | Complementary Strengths | Alone Time | Nice Things

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]]> Home Sweet Homo Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:48:25 This week, while Kate’s moving from Toronto to New York, Billy chats with his partner Dee Darkholme about THEIR recent move, and what it’s been like adjusting to living together with Dee’s other partner. This week, while Kate’s moving from Toronto to New York, Billy chats with his partner Dee Darkholme about THEIR recent move, and what it’s been like adjusting to living together with Dee’s other partner. true full 439 eb6478dd-24f5-45dd-8251-f8fa0ff071e3 Emotional Blue Balls How do you get over a friend who doesn’t like you back? This week, we wade deeper into the topic of unrequited feelings within a friendship.
 

Crush Eras | “The Friendzone” | Straight vs. Queer Scripts | Gendered Narratives | Processing Unrequited Feelings | Re-Channelling Obsessions | Grieving

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]]> Tue, 24 Jun 2025 22:16:42 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/emotional-blue-balls-IAIkEwaP How do you get over a friend who doesn’t like you back? This week, we wade deeper into the topic of unrequited feelings within a friendship.
 

Crush Eras | “The Friendzone” | Straight vs. Queer Scripts | Gendered Narratives | Processing Unrequited Feelings | Re-Channelling Obsessions | Grieving

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]]> Emotional Blue Balls Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:43:50 How do you get over a friend who doesn’t like you back? This week, we wade deeper into the topic of unrequited feelings within a friendship. How do you get over a friend who doesn’t like you back? This week, we wade deeper into the topic of unrequited feelings within a friendship. true full 438 e2116728-fca0-4665-9d90-ee69e3abb6dd Probably Platonic? What happens when you catch feelings for your friend? This week, we discuss the tricky art of keeping a friendship afloat while attraction rocks the boat.
 

When Feelings Dissipate | Developing Feelings | When to Say Something | Changing the Label | Flirting vs. Being Direct | Flirting is Hot | Soft No vs. Hard No | When to Let It Go | Gender Imbalances | Should You Tell Them?

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]]> Tue, 17 Jun 2025 20:34:21 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/probably-platonic-45D2lcer What happens when you catch feelings for your friend? This week, we discuss the tricky art of keeping a friendship afloat while attraction rocks the boat.
 

When Feelings Dissipate | Developing Feelings | When to Say Something | Changing the Label | Flirting vs. Being Direct | Flirting is Hot | Soft No vs. Hard No | When to Let It Go | Gender Imbalances | Should You Tell Them?

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]]> Probably Platonic? Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:57:33 What happens when you catch feelings for your friend? This week, we discuss the tricky art of keeping a friendship afloat while attraction rocks the boat. What happens when you catch feelings for your friend? This week, we discuss the tricky art of keeping a friendship afloat while attraction rocks the boat. true full 437 a8f7edd7-3287-4828-b21a-90fd8dcac6c8 Copulationships Friendships with benefits are an important part of our sexual landscape, so this week we discuss how to navigate casual ongoing sexual partnerships with kindness and grace.
 

FWBs vs. Fuckbuddies | Demisexuality | Romantic Attraction | Safety & Trust | Familiarity & Practice | Sex is Fun | Intimacy & Connection | Finding a FWB | Asking a Friend | Labeling | “What Are You Looking For?” | “We Should Make Out” | Relationship Escalator | Managing Expectations

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]]> Tue, 10 Jun 2025 19:17:15 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/copulationships-BE16bHy7 Friendships with benefits are an important part of our sexual landscape, so this week we discuss how to navigate casual ongoing sexual partnerships with kindness and grace.
 

FWBs vs. Fuckbuddies | Demisexuality | Romantic Attraction | Safety & Trust | Familiarity & Practice | Sex is Fun | Intimacy & Connection | Finding a FWB | Asking a Friend | Labeling | “What Are You Looking For?” | “We Should Make Out” | Relationship Escalator | Managing Expectations

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]]> Copulationships Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:45:05 Friendships with benefits are an important part of our sexual landscape, so this week we discuss how to navigate casual ongoing sexual partnerships with kindness and grace. Friendships with benefits are an important part of our sexual landscape, so this week we discuss how to navigate casual ongoing sexual partnerships with kindness and grace. true full 436 4978c86c-7c77-4047-a8ff-32bad56fca61 Pleasure for the Better Sexual pleasure can be wonderful self-care, even during some low-libido times. This week we discuss our favorite methods of sexual self-care.
 

Happy Pride Month! | Not Jerking Off | Perfunctory Masturbation | Reducing Friction | Opportunities to Feel Sexy | Sexual Health | Setting & Enforcing Boundaries | Self-Knowledge | Focusing on Pleasure | Curiosity & Creativity | “Just Do It”?

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]]> Tue, 3 Jun 2025 21:13:10 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/pleasure-for-the-better-o0_Klf6S Sexual pleasure can be wonderful self-care, even during some low-libido times. This week we discuss our favorite methods of sexual self-care.
 

Happy Pride Month! | Not Jerking Off | Perfunctory Masturbation | Reducing Friction | Opportunities to Feel Sexy | Sexual Health | Setting & Enforcing Boundaries | Self-Knowledge | Focusing on Pleasure | Curiosity & Creativity | “Just Do It”?

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]]> Pleasure for the Better Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:41:43 Sexual pleasure can be wonderful self-care, even during some low-libido times. This week we discuss our favorite methods of sexual self-care. Sexual pleasure can be wonderful self-care, even during some low-libido times. This week we discuss our favorite methods of sexual self-care. true full 435 2f6c5a32-0b36-4b45-95a2-64044ee03440 Take the 'E' Train This week Kate chats with her wife mb about how HRT (hormone replacement therapy) can affect transfeminine people’s skin sensitivity, orgasm intensity, desire levels, and more!

Your Mileage May Vary | Softer Skin | Girl Smell | Erectile Changes | Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire | Maintaining Erectile Function | Context & a “Why” | Hormonal Cycle | Sensitivity | /r/GrowYourClit | Orgasms | Cum | Domming & Topping | Subbing & Bottoming | Aftercare | Penile Health Maintenance | Dancing | Trans Healthcare Access

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]]> Tue, 27 May 2025 22:15:33 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/take-the-e-train-jSnzjnbE This week Kate chats with her wife mb about how HRT (hormone replacement therapy) can affect transfeminine people’s skin sensitivity, orgasm intensity, desire levels, and more!

Your Mileage May Vary | Softer Skin | Girl Smell | Erectile Changes | Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire | Maintaining Erectile Function | Context & a “Why” | Hormonal Cycle | Sensitivity | /r/GrowYourClit | Orgasms | Cum | Domming & Topping | Subbing & Bottoming | Aftercare | Penile Health Maintenance | Dancing | Trans Healthcare Access

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]]> Take the 'E' Train Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:45:41 This week Kate chats with her wife mb about how HRT (hormone replacement therapy) can affect transfeminine people’s skin sensitivity, orgasm intensity, desire levels, and more! This week Kate chats with her wife mb about how HRT (hormone replacement therapy) can affect transfeminine people’s skin sensitivity, orgasm intensity, desire levels, and more! true full 434 b04edf9d-b080-4bf6-a5d9-1e5727aa3727 Do It Yourself Happy Masturbation Month to those who celebrate! This week we’re answering listener questions on jerkin’ it.

Want to Want It | Solo Pain Play | Masochism vs. Self-Harm | Fantasies Making a Comeback | Achievable Fantasies | Pets in the Room

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]]> Tue, 13 May 2025 16:00:56 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/do-it-yourself-kHVG2_Ju Happy Masturbation Month to those who celebrate! This week we’re answering listener questions on jerkin’ it.

Want to Want It | Solo Pain Play | Masochism vs. Self-Harm | Fantasies Making a Comeback | Achievable Fantasies | Pets in the Room

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]]> Do It Yourself Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:38:09 Happy Masturbation Month to those who celebrate! This week we’re answering listener questions on jerkin’ it. Happy Masturbation Month to those who celebrate! This week we’re answering listener questions on jerkin’ it. true full 433 c3effce4-6077-4593-85d8-43ea91196954 Let's All U-Haul Living with your polycule: bad idea, or best idea? This week we discuss the emotional and practical realities of Billy’s recent decision to move in with his partner and metamour!
 

Kitchen Table Polyamory | Combining Households | Chore Distribution | Building New Routines | Bedroom Privacy | Gross Little Gremlin | Largest Room | Fears | Chosen Family | Poly Stigma | Complementary Skillsets

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]]> Tue, 6 May 2025 16:40:53 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/lets-all-u-haul-hllChRYm Living with your polycule: bad idea, or best idea? This week we discuss the emotional and practical realities of Billy’s recent decision to move in with his partner and metamour!
 

Kitchen Table Polyamory | Combining Households | Chore Distribution | Building New Routines | Bedroom Privacy | Gross Little Gremlin | Largest Room | Fears | Chosen Family | Poly Stigma | Complementary Skillsets

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]]> Let's All U-Haul Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:40:14 Living with your polycule: bad idea, or best idea? This week we discuss the emotional and practical realities of Billy’s recent decision to move in with his partner and metamour! Living with your polycule: bad idea, or best idea? This week we discuss the emotional and practical realities of Billy’s recent decision to move in with his partner and metamour! true full 432 d97de1cf-2a96-481f-b8ae-2f9f1f2727e9 Leather Whenever This week, Kate chats with friend of the show Addison Finch about the ritual and reverence of bootblacking, and what we can learn about our current political moment from studying the history of kink.
 

CLAGS Lecture Series | Leather History | Can Straight People Be “Leather”? | Kink Awakening | History & Context | Kink Reading Group | Activism & Organizing | Bootblacking & Leather Care | Boot Worship Scenes | Longevity of Leather

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]]> Tue, 29 Apr 2025 18:20:47 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/leather-whenever-Yq67alTc This week, Kate chats with friend of the show Addison Finch about the ritual and reverence of bootblacking, and what we can learn about our current political moment from studying the history of kink.
 

CLAGS Lecture Series | Leather History | Can Straight People Be “Leather”? | Kink Awakening | History & Context | Kink Reading Group | Activism & Organizing | Bootblacking & Leather Care | Boot Worship Scenes | Longevity of Leather

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]]> Leather Whenever Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:42:40 This week, Kate chats with friend of the show Addison Finch about the ritual and reverence of bootblacking, and what we can learn about our current political moment from studying the history of kink. This week, Kate chats with friend of the show Addison Finch about the ritual and reverence of bootblacking, and what we can learn about our current political moment from studying the history of kink. true full 431 e932c3cb-d66f-4bae-941e-effde71a8ea2 Blaze of Gloryhole As is tradition, this week we celebrate 4/20 by getting intoxicated and answering silly hypothetical questions about sex.
 

Last Prisoner Project | Movie Quotes | Cooking Implements | Tantus Plunge | BJ Dildo | Condiments | Exes & Past Selves | Gifting Kinks | Inanimate Objects | Fireworks

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]]> Tue, 22 Apr 2025 02:09:29 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/blaze-of-gloryhole-eD0Ke5sX As is tradition, this week we celebrate 4/20 by getting intoxicated and answering silly hypothetical questions about sex.
 

Last Prisoner Project | Movie Quotes | Cooking Implements | Tantus Plunge | BJ Dildo | Condiments | Exes & Past Selves | Gifting Kinks | Inanimate Objects | Fireworks

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]]> Blaze of Gloryhole Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:03:36 As is tradition, this week we celebrate 4/20 by getting intoxicated and answering silly hypothetical questions about sex. As is tradition, this week we celebrate 4/20 by getting intoxicated and answering silly hypothetical questions about sex. true full 430 ddf412c5-827e-4dbe-94f8-5b88ec154da4 Who, What, Where, & When? Whether you prefer to plan dates or have them planned for you, a date’s location or activity can play a big role in how well it goes – so this week we discuss how to successfully plan early dates with a new person.
 

Whose Responsibility? | Providing Input | Dietary Restrictions | Go-To Locations | Civil Liberties | Pour Boy | Activity vs. Conversation | Movies & Museums | Too Loud | Poor Planning & Incompatibility | Free/Cheap Date Ideas | “Sexy” Dates | Kate’s Upcoming Musical Improv Shows

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]]> Tue, 15 Apr 2025 17:28:03 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/who-what-where-when-nvdFd9EX Whether you prefer to plan dates or have them planned for you, a date’s location or activity can play a big role in how well it goes – so this week we discuss how to successfully plan early dates with a new person.
 

Whose Responsibility? | Providing Input | Dietary Restrictions | Go-To Locations | Civil Liberties | Pour Boy | Activity vs. Conversation | Movies & Museums | Too Loud | Poor Planning & Incompatibility | Free/Cheap Date Ideas | “Sexy” Dates | Kate’s Upcoming Musical Improv Shows

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]]> Who, What, Where, & When? Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:55 Whether you prefer to plan dates or have them planned for you, a date’s location or activity can play a big role in how well it goes – so this week we discuss how to successfully plan early dates with a new person. Whether you prefer to plan dates or have them planned for you, a date’s location or activity can play a big role in how well it goes – so this week we discuss how to successfully plan early dates with a new person. true full 429 47c67cdb-0ea6-48d8-a2a7-16b1f1ce91de Put Your Best Tit Forward Lots of people like to incorporate multimedia into their sexting, so this week we discuss the benefits of sending voice memos and provocative pictures, among other things.
 

Eggplant Emoji | Shy Texters | Digital & Emotional Context | Parenting | Voice Notes | Phone Sex | Lewds & Nudes | Photography Tips

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]]> Tue, 8 Apr 2025 19:53:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/put-your-best-tit-forward-9mOeJkVE Lots of people like to incorporate multimedia into their sexting, so this week we discuss the benefits of sending voice memos and provocative pictures, among other things.
 

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]]> Put Your Best Tit Forward Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:02:46 Lots of people like to incorporate multimedia into their sexting, so this week we discuss the benefits of sending voice memos and provocative pictures, among other things. Lots of people like to incorporate multimedia into their sexting, so this week we discuss the benefits of sending voice memos and provocative pictures, among other things. true full 428 8c9c66fa-0ab4-45f3-a9b1-96fbd32f7977 Textual Healing This week we discuss some of our favorite things about sexting – like how it can build rapport, establish compatibility, and even increase your empathy.
 

Filling Time at Work | Why We Love Sexting | During Daily Life | Intent & Desire | Good Sexts = Good Sex? | What Makes It Good/Bad? | Talk About the Clit | “Yes, And”-ing | Word Preferences | Attunement | Suddenly Vanishing | “Don’t Know What to Say” | Self-Censoring Critic | Psychological Element | Multi-Threaded Conversations | Metacommunication | Words & Empathy

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]]> Tue, 25 Mar 2025 17:19:50 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/textual-healing-vwC8U7WY This week we discuss some of our favorite things about sexting – like how it can build rapport, establish compatibility, and even increase your empathy.
 

Filling Time at Work | Why We Love Sexting | During Daily Life | Intent & Desire | Good Sexts = Good Sex? | What Makes It Good/Bad? | Talk About the Clit | “Yes, And”-ing | Word Preferences | Attunement | Suddenly Vanishing | “Don’t Know What to Say” | Self-Censoring Critic | Psychological Element | Multi-Threaded Conversations | Metacommunication | Words & Empathy

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]]> Textual Healing Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:01:18 This week we discuss some of our favorite things about sexting – like how it can build rapport, establish compatibility, and even increase your empathy. This week we discuss some of our favorite things about sexting – like how it can build rapport, establish compatibility, and even increase your empathy. true full 427 60a00c3d-bd47-457e-b933-88eb100d3b45 Ask Me (Almost) Anything This week, we answer more questions about asking questions – including questions that can help you suss out somebody’s politics or kinks, negotiate safer sex protocols, and (maybe) call the whole thing off.
 

Personal Questions | Touchy Subjects | Political Alignment | STI Testing | Disclosing Kinkiness | Assessing Chemistry

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]]> Tue, 18 Mar 2025 18:13:37 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/ask-me-almost-anything-8_FznA6K This week, we answer more questions about asking questions – including questions that can help you suss out somebody’s politics or kinks, negotiate safer sex protocols, and (maybe) call the whole thing off.
 

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]]> Ask Me (Almost) Anything Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:39 This week, we answer more questions about asking questions – including questions that can help you suss out somebody’s politics or kinks, negotiate safer sex protocols, and (maybe) call the whole thing off. This week, we answer more questions about asking questions – including questions that can help you suss out somebody’s politics or kinks, negotiate safer sex protocols, and (maybe) call the whole thing off. true full 426 b6da6da9-1183-4a6f-a8c4-3d778084541d And How About You? Diving deeper into our recent discussion on how curiosity is sexy, this week we discuss the practice of asking questions on dates: why it matters, why it’s hot, and what kinds of questions we like to ask and be asked.
 

Why Ask Questions? | Demonstrating Interest | Assessing Compatibility | Conversational Labor | Building Connection | Carrying the Conversation | Different Conversational Styles | Easy Questions | Questions We’ve Loved

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]]> Tue, 11 Mar 2025 20:16:11 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/and-how-about-you-EZVZf2I2 Diving deeper into our recent discussion on how curiosity is sexy, this week we discuss the practice of asking questions on dates: why it matters, why it’s hot, and what kinds of questions we like to ask and be asked.
 

Why Ask Questions? | Demonstrating Interest | Assessing Compatibility | Conversational Labor | Building Connection | Carrying the Conversation | Different Conversational Styles | Easy Questions | Questions We’ve Loved

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]]> And How About You? Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:27 Diving deeper into our recent discussion on how curiosity is sexy, this week we discuss the practice of asking questions on dates: why it matters, why it’s hot, and what kinds of questions we like to ask and be asked. Diving deeper into our recent discussion on how curiosity is sexy, this week we discuss the practice of asking questions on dates: why it matters, why it’s hot, and what kinds of questions we like to ask and be asked. true full 425 eacf6131-0fd1-4f10-a2d4-0351fe52f1d7 Dating While Taken Polyamorous dating can be pretty different depending on whether you’re single versus in a long-term relationship already; this week we discuss our experiences of both kinds.
 

Primary vs. Anchor | Hierarchy | Scarcity vs. Abundance | Avoiding Codependency | Growth & Change | New Relationship Energy | Monogamous-Minded People | Dating Newbies | Bringing It Up | New People | Couples’ Privilege | Security | Humanizing Metamours

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]]> Tue, 4 Mar 2025 19:23:06 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/dating-while-taken-u_fCdIfG Polyamorous dating can be pretty different depending on whether you’re single versus in a long-term relationship already; this week we discuss our experiences of both kinds.
 

Primary vs. Anchor | Hierarchy | Scarcity vs. Abundance | Avoiding Codependency | Growth & Change | New Relationship Energy | Monogamous-Minded People | Dating Newbies | Bringing It Up | New People | Couples’ Privilege | Security | Humanizing Metamours

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]]> Dating While Taken Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:06 Polyamorous dating can be pretty different depending on whether you’re single versus in a long-term relationship already; this week we discuss our experiences of both kinds. Polyamorous dating can be pretty different depending on whether you’re single versus in a long-term relationship already; this week we discuss our experiences of both kinds. true full 424 2faf9320-1c5e-4399-8737-0ecf3f0307f8 Fetishes Are Fabulous This week we’re discussing some interesting and unusual fetishes we’ve stumbled across recently, from glossy magazines to nail-biting to haircutting.
 

Glossy Magazines | Eggs | Job Ethics | Squidly Co. (Discount Code DILDORKS20) | Non-Consensual Haircutting | Forced Masculinization | Nail-Biting | Context-Dependent Desires

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]]> Tue, 25 Feb 2025 21:42:49 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/fetishes-are-fabulous-FnH0bGYh This week we’re discussing some interesting and unusual fetishes we’ve stumbled across recently, from glossy magazines to nail-biting to haircutting.
 

Glossy Magazines | Eggs | Job Ethics | Squidly Co. (Discount Code DILDORKS20) | Non-Consensual Haircutting | Forced Masculinization | Nail-Biting | Context-Dependent Desires

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]]> Fetishes Are Fabulous Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:44 This week we’re discussing some interesting and unusual fetishes we’ve stumbled across recently, from glossy magazines to nail-biting to haircutting. This week we’re discussing some interesting and unusual fetishes we’ve stumbled across recently, from glossy magazines to nail-biting to haircutting. true full 423 716bfaa7-393e-4ee8-bdb6-1ae542b9b3ce Tell Me More This week we discuss two crucial qualities that can make you exponentially better in bed (and out of bed, too): curiosity and creativity.

Sexual Skills | Communication | Curiosity | Accepting Feedback | Limitations | Compassion & Empathy | Conflicts & Problem-Solving | Solo Curiosity | Curiosity is Attractive | Asking Questions & Listening | Long-Term Relationships | Brainstorming & Decision-Making | “Short Kings”

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]]> Tue, 18 Feb 2025 18:26:17 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/tell-me-more-K80aCXwR This week we discuss two crucial qualities that can make you exponentially better in bed (and out of bed, too): curiosity and creativity.

Sexual Skills | Communication | Curiosity | Accepting Feedback | Limitations | Compassion & Empathy | Conflicts & Problem-Solving | Solo Curiosity | Curiosity is Attractive | Asking Questions & Listening | Long-Term Relationships | Brainstorming & Decision-Making | “Short Kings”

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]]> Tell Me More Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:44 This week we discuss two crucial qualities that can make you exponentially better in bed (and out of bed, too): curiosity and creativity. This week we discuss two crucial qualities that can make you exponentially better in bed (and out of bed, too): curiosity and creativity. true full 422 97a9daf7-6099-4fff-93d7-87e3d4ce64eb Pleasure Under Pressure Pursuing pleasure isn’t always as easy as it may seem, so this week we’re discussing some common hurdles to pleasure and how to overcome them, among other things.
 

What is Pleasurable? | Resistance to Sensation | Underprepared for Pleasure | Hurdles | Daydreaming | Romanticizing Your Life | Posting About Pleasure | Nervous System Regulation | Mental Preparation | “How Can I Make This Fun?” | Workarounds for “Productivity” Anxieties | Idle Brain Time | Gender Euphoria | Public-Facing Persona | Suggestions

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]]> Tue, 11 Feb 2025 19:31:19 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/pleasure-under-pressure-w02acozS Pursuing pleasure isn’t always as easy as it may seem, so this week we’re discussing some common hurdles to pleasure and how to overcome them, among other things.
 

What is Pleasurable? | Resistance to Sensation | Underprepared for Pleasure | Hurdles | Daydreaming | Romanticizing Your Life | Posting About Pleasure | Nervous System Regulation | Mental Preparation | “How Can I Make This Fun?” | Workarounds for “Productivity” Anxieties | Idle Brain Time | Gender Euphoria | Public-Facing Persona | Suggestions

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]]> Pleasure Under Pressure Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:24 Pursuing pleasure isn’t always as easy as it may seem, so this week we’re discussing some common hurdles to pleasure and how to overcome them, among other things. Pursuing pleasure isn’t always as easy as it may seem, so this week we’re discussing some common hurdles to pleasure and how to overcome them, among other things. true full 421 5688b76e-d53a-4ce0-aabe-e282abfe8b2f Please Please Me When times get tough, pleasure becomes more important than ever. This week, we discuss our favorite ways of accessing pleasure, and the role it plays in our lives, both in and out of the bedroom.
 

Pleasure Activism | “A Rising Tide Lifts All Boats” | Taking the Leap | Beacon of Pleasure Permission | Our Favorite Pleasures | Cocktails & Rituals | Cleaning & Organizing | Learning & Improving | Savoring | Joy as Resistance | Pain & Masochism | Conversations | Chastity & Denial | Disordered Eating (42:00–46:50) | Alleviation of Discomfort | Trans Youth Healthcare Action

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]]> Tue, 4 Feb 2025 18:31:37 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/please-please-me-TadgFHfM When times get tough, pleasure becomes more important than ever. This week, we discuss our favorite ways of accessing pleasure, and the role it plays in our lives, both in and out of the bedroom.
 

Pleasure Activism | “A Rising Tide Lifts All Boats” | Taking the Leap | Beacon of Pleasure Permission | Our Favorite Pleasures | Cocktails & Rituals | Cleaning & Organizing | Learning & Improving | Savoring | Joy as Resistance | Pain & Masochism | Conversations | Chastity & Denial | Disordered Eating (42:00–46:50) | Alleviation of Discomfort | Trans Youth Healthcare Action

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]]> Please Please Me Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:04 When times get tough, pleasure becomes more important than ever. This week, we discuss our favorite ways of accessing pleasure, and the role it plays in our lives, both in and out of the bedroom. When times get tough, pleasure becomes more important than ever. This week, we discuss our favorite ways of accessing pleasure, and the role it plays in our lives, both in and out of the bedroom. true full 420 2670011e-0740-472d-af74-84112a4fd896 Flip the Script This week we’re continuing to discuss some of our favorite films about the LGBTQ+ experience – plus a few about non-monogamy and sex work, for good measure!
 

750GB of Trans Content | Obsession & Bigotry | Sylvia Scarlett | Call Me Kate | Katharine Hepburn | Angels in America | Spirituality for Queers | Fellow Travelers | The Apprentice | Lavender Marriage | Some Like It Hot | Tootsie | She’s the Man | Disclosure | Mulan | Cruising | Dog Day Afternoon | The Dog | Theodora Goes Wild | Design for Living | Two Girls and a Guy | Fire Island | The Leather Boys | The Telephone Book | The Heart Machine | Love and a Major Organ | Sanctuary

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]]> Tue, 28 Jan 2025 23:35:52 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/flip-the-script-zzQJ_MoA This week we’re continuing to discuss some of our favorite films about the LGBTQ+ experience – plus a few about non-monogamy and sex work, for good measure!
 

750GB of Trans Content | Obsession & Bigotry | Sylvia Scarlett | Call Me Kate | Katharine Hepburn | Angels in America | Spirituality for Queers | Fellow Travelers | The Apprentice | Lavender Marriage | Some Like It Hot | Tootsie | She’s the Man | Disclosure | Mulan | Cruising | Dog Day Afternoon | The Dog | Theodora Goes Wild | Design for Living | Two Girls and a Guy | Fire Island | The Leather Boys | The Telephone Book | The Heart Machine | Love and a Major Organ | Sanctuary

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]]> Flip the Script Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:59:38 This week we’re continuing to discuss some of our favorite films about the LGBTQ+ experience – plus a few about non-monogamy and sex work, for good measure! This week we’re continuing to discuss some of our favorite films about the LGBTQ+ experience – plus a few about non-monogamy and sex work, for good measure! true full 419 662204bf-e508-4d13-93a1-c5336c4113c5 Queens on the Silver Screen We needed a dose of queer resilience this week (maybe you do too!), so we’re talking about some of our favorite queer films and the evolution of LGBTQ+ cinema.
 

The News | Hope Throughout History | The Struggle | The Birdcage | The Celluloid Closet | Philadelphia | Straight Actors in Queer Roles | Making Love | Nathan & Robin on Oprah | Ben-Hur | Hays Code | Saturday Night | Coming Out & Outing People | The Children’s Hour | Shame & Self-Loathing | Framing Agnes | Cis vs. Trans Audiences | Before Stonewall | Forbidden Love | P.S. Burn This Letter Please | Kumu Hina | The Final Member | Scotty and the Secret History of Hollywood

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]]> Tue, 21 Jan 2025 21:26:59 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/queens-on-the-silver-screen-CgP2mFeq We needed a dose of queer resilience this week (maybe you do too!), so we’re talking about some of our favorite queer films and the evolution of LGBTQ+ cinema.
 

The News | Hope Throughout History | The Struggle | The Birdcage | The Celluloid Closet | Philadelphia | Straight Actors in Queer Roles | Making Love | Nathan & Robin on Oprah | Ben-Hur | Hays Code | Saturday Night | Coming Out & Outing People | The Children’s Hour | Shame & Self-Loathing | Framing Agnes | Cis vs. Trans Audiences | Before Stonewall | Forbidden Love | P.S. Burn This Letter Please | Kumu Hina | The Final Member | Scotty and the Secret History of Hollywood

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]]> Queens on the Silver Screen Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:53:12 We needed a dose of queer resilience this week (maybe you do too!), so we’re talking about some of our favorite queer films and the evolution of LGBTQ+ cinema. We needed a dose of queer resilience this week (maybe you do too!), so we’re talking about some of our favorite queer films and the evolution of LGBTQ+ cinema. true full 418 e4c55aac-6fb4-4a81-a908-b3212f9e2303 Tell Me What You Want, What You Really Really Want This week we get real vulnerable (and a li’l intoxicated) and tell you about some of our favorite new fantasies from 2024, the goals we set for our sex lives last year, and what we want to try in 2025.
 

Fantasies | Pleasure Inequality | Meta-Fantasies | Plausibility | Zero-Consequences Room | Severance | No Nut November | Skull-Fucking | Last Year’s Goals | New Goals | Paring Down | DP | Ask For What You Want | Sex for Pleasure, Not Money | Sex Therapy | Socializing | Good Gender Feelings | Archiving Media

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]]> Tue, 14 Jan 2025 19:01:16 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/tell-me-what-you-want-what-you-really-really-want-qsjzXORH This week we get real vulnerable (and a li’l intoxicated) and tell you about some of our favorite new fantasies from 2024, the goals we set for our sex lives last year, and what we want to try in 2025.
 

Fantasies | Pleasure Inequality | Meta-Fantasies | Plausibility | Zero-Consequences Room | Severance | No Nut November | Skull-Fucking | Last Year’s Goals | New Goals | Paring Down | DP | Ask For What You Want | Sex for Pleasure, Not Money | Sex Therapy | Socializing | Good Gender Feelings | Archiving Media

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]]> Tell Me What You Want, What You Really Really Want Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:11:31 This week we get real vulnerable (and a li’l intoxicated) and tell you about some of our favorite new fantasies from 2024, the goals we set for our sex lives last year, and what we want to try in 2025. This week we get real vulnerable (and a li’l intoxicated) and tell you about some of our favorite new fantasies from 2024, the goals we set for our sex lives last year, and what we want to try in 2025. true full 417 2e475fc8-c360-4bcb-85d8-db4f1b431f96 Long Story Short How did you grow and change in 2024 when it comes to sex and relationships? This week, we’re reflecting on our biggest (and kinkiest) shifts over the past year, plus discussing our current favorite sex toys.

 

Overall Shifts | Uneventful? | Openness to Long-Distance | Alone Time & Codependency | New Things | Rimming | Horny Genders | Cryo | Penis Pumps | Cages & Sleep Sex | VR Porn, Trance Triggers & Flat Cages | Mod Love Deluxe Thruster | Kate’s Favorite Toys of 2024 | Lovecore Night King | Myth

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]]> Tue, 7 Jan 2025 19:23:27 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/long-story-short-RlXm8mnp How did you grow and change in 2024 when it comes to sex and relationships? This week, we’re reflecting on our biggest (and kinkiest) shifts over the past year, plus discussing our current favorite sex toys.

 

Overall Shifts | Uneventful? | Openness to Long-Distance | Alone Time & Codependency | New Things | Rimming | Horny Genders | Cryo | Penis Pumps | Cages & Sleep Sex | VR Porn, Trance Triggers & Flat Cages | Mod Love Deluxe Thruster | Kate’s Favorite Toys of 2024 | Lovecore Night King | Myth

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]]> Long Story Short Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:08 How did you grow and change in 2024 when it comes to sex and relationships? This week, we’re reflecting on our biggest (and kinkiest) shifts over the past year, plus discussing our current favorite sex toys. How did you grow and change in 2024 when it comes to sex and relationships? This week, we’re reflecting on our biggest (and kinkiest) shifts over the past year, plus discussing our current favorite sex toys. true full 416 4ba0800e-d7b0-4cab-829e-7c3f30e34c79 Leave a Message At the Tone Vocal tone can have a big effect on kink scenes and everyday conversations alike, so this week we’re discussing our feelings on voices and dirty talk.

 

Dirty Talk & Humiliation | Voice Kink & Praise Kink | Long-Distance | Off-Camera vs. On | Speaking vs. Typing | Attraction | The Ick | Performativity | Billy’s Yes/No/Maybe List | Gender & Pitch | Dom & Sub Voices | Archetypes & Parts | Gender & Bottoming

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]]> Tue, 17 Dec 2024 18:25:03 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/leave-a-message-at-the-tone-gmuK7HCP Vocal tone can have a big effect on kink scenes and everyday conversations alike, so this week we’re discussing our feelings on voices and dirty talk.

 

Dirty Talk & Humiliation | Voice Kink & Praise Kink | Long-Distance | Off-Camera vs. On | Speaking vs. Typing | Attraction | The Ick | Performativity | Billy’s Yes/No/Maybe List | Gender & Pitch | Dom & Sub Voices | Archetypes & Parts | Gender & Bottoming

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]]> Leave a Message At the Tone Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:11 Vocal tone can have a big effect on kink scenes and everyday conversations alike, so this week we’re discussing our feelings on voices and dirty talk. Vocal tone can have a big effect on kink scenes and everyday conversations alike, so this week we’re discussing our feelings on voices and dirty talk. true full 415 88bf7f47-547d-4dbe-b85a-771ec4ec3ddc One Singular Sensation People are always coming up with new and interesting fetishes, and this week we discuss some unusual ones we’ve seen lately.

 

Current Definition | “Deviating” from the “Norm” | Taboo & Shame | Cream Pies & Facesitting | Bubble-Blowing | Sex Work Stigma | Mind-Reading | Sex Worker Fetish | Accelerator & Brakes

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]]> Tue, 10 Dec 2024 20:03:22 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/one-singular-sensation-_A_1AHg_ People are always coming up with new and interesting fetishes, and this week we discuss some unusual ones we’ve seen lately.

 

Current Definition | “Deviating” from the “Norm” | Taboo & Shame | Cream Pies & Facesitting | Bubble-Blowing | Sex Work Stigma | Mind-Reading | Sex Worker Fetish | Accelerator & Brakes

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]]> One Singular Sensation Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:35 People are always coming up with new and interesting fetishes, and this week we discuss some unusual ones we’ve seen lately. People are always coming up with new and interesting fetishes, and this week we discuss some unusual ones we’ve seen lately. true full 414 5aed3dc0-aaf2-422d-96f7-3eb25c197c9a Access Denied This week, a conversation about denial kink devolves into a wide-ranging discussion of gendered sex narratives, the kinky legacies of trauma, and the Big Nut.

 

Orgasms vs. Other Stuff | Enough to Make You Blush | (Lack of) Power | Motivation & Specialness | Big Shiny Stakes | Self-Worth & “Deservingness” | Family Influences | Working Toward a Reward | Healing | Topping | “Throw ‘Em a Bone” | “Men Only Want One Thing” | Hyperawareness | Begging | Solo Processing | Orgasm Intensity | Mindfulness & Meaning

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]]> Tue, 3 Dec 2024 22:49:55 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/access-denied-V_lSZAXW This week, a conversation about denial kink devolves into a wide-ranging discussion of gendered sex narratives, the kinky legacies of trauma, and the Big Nut.

 

Orgasms vs. Other Stuff | Enough to Make You Blush | (Lack of) Power | Motivation & Specialness | Big Shiny Stakes | Self-Worth & “Deservingness” | Family Influences | Working Toward a Reward | Healing | Topping | “Throw ‘Em a Bone” | “Men Only Want One Thing” | Hyperawareness | Begging | Solo Processing | Orgasm Intensity | Mindfulness & Meaning

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]]> Access Denied Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:10:59 This week, a conversation about denial kink devolves into a wide-ranging discussion of gendered sex narratives, the kinky legacies of trauma, and the Big Nut. This week, a conversation about denial kink devolves into a wide-ranging discussion of gendered sex narratives, the kinky legacies of trauma, and the Big Nut. true full 413 8d0bed5e-a924-4f4b-8868-7c72d2d2e46a Hello, Stranger What if celebrity crushes can be healthy, actually? This week, we discuss some of the benefits of parasocial relationships, for people on both sides of the slash.
 

Masculinity in the Sex Shop | Benefits for Crush-er | Emotional Energy | Low Investment | Is It New? | The Tragedy of Heterosexuality | Dead Famous | Stalkers | Benefits for Crush-ee | Motivation & Inspiration | Needing Reassurance | Fame & Self-Expression | Persona vs. Self | “Cool Guy” Masculinity | Domme Energy | Something More?

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]]> Tue, 26 Nov 2024 23:30:18 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/hello-stranger-77BEf2nR What if celebrity crushes can be healthy, actually? This week, we discuss some of the benefits of parasocial relationships, for people on both sides of the slash.
 

Masculinity in the Sex Shop | Benefits for Crush-er | Emotional Energy | Low Investment | Is It New? | The Tragedy of Heterosexuality | Dead Famous | Stalkers | Benefits for Crush-ee | Motivation & Inspiration | Needing Reassurance | Fame & Self-Expression | Persona vs. Self | “Cool Guy” Masculinity | Domme Energy | Something More?

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]]> Hello, Stranger Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:10 What if celebrity crushes can be healthy, actually? This week, we discuss some of the benefits of parasocial relationships, for people on both sides of the slash. What if celebrity crushes can be healthy, actually? This week, we discuss some of the benefits of parasocial relationships, for people on both sides of the slash. true full 412 6268a7e9-0113-4b13-924a-9c067686280b Nuttin' in Common This week Kate and her spouse mb discuss the politics and philosophy of No Nut November, and how it compares to chastity play.

 

NNN vs. Chastity Kink | Greater Purpose | Love & Affection | “Don’t Think About It” | Teasing | Sleep Hygiene | Insomnia | Working Out | Flagging | Unusual Turn-Ons | Concentration | Willpower & Inescapability | Political Spectrum | NNN’s Far-Right Roots | Locktober | Nut Hunters | Religion | Daily Task | Mandatory Semen Sample | Different Desires | Pussy-Free | Social Motivation | Friend As Keyholder

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]]> Tue, 19 Nov 2024 22:55:37 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/nuttin-in-common-uO7_54y3 This week Kate and her spouse mb discuss the politics and philosophy of No Nut November, and how it compares to chastity play.

 

NNN vs. Chastity Kink | Greater Purpose | Love & Affection | “Don’t Think About It” | Teasing | Sleep Hygiene | Insomnia | Working Out | Flagging | Unusual Turn-Ons | Concentration | Willpower & Inescapability | Political Spectrum | NNN’s Far-Right Roots | Locktober | Nut Hunters | Religion | Daily Task | Mandatory Semen Sample | Different Desires | Pussy-Free | Social Motivation | Friend As Keyholder

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]]> Nuttin' in Common Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:05 This week Kate and her spouse mb discuss the politics and philosophy of No Nut November, and how it compares to chastity play. This week Kate and her spouse mb discuss the politics and philosophy of No Nut November, and how it compares to chastity play. true full 411 0ee8974a-4f11-4074-b5be-df65c8eeeb40 You Don't Know Me, But... We’ve experienced parasocial relationships from both sides of the coin, so this week we’re discussing our experiences with this sometimes-nice, sometimes-yikes type of attraction.
 

That Fuckin’ Election, Man | People vs. Characters | “Mainstream” Pop Culture | Presumed Intimacy | Social Staircase | Is It A Problem? | Avoiding Vulnerability | Manic Pixie Fucktoy | Tech Adaptations | Crushworthy Traits

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]]> Tue, 12 Nov 2024 17:35:21 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/you-dont-know-me-but-02n4_0MC We’ve experienced parasocial relationships from both sides of the coin, so this week we’re discussing our experiences with this sometimes-nice, sometimes-yikes type of attraction.
 

That Fuckin’ Election, Man | People vs. Characters | “Mainstream” Pop Culture | Presumed Intimacy | Social Staircase | Is It A Problem? | Avoiding Vulnerability | Manic Pixie Fucktoy | Tech Adaptations | Crushworthy Traits

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]]> You Don't Know Me, But... Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:57:02 We’ve experienced parasocial relationships from both sides of the coin, so this week we’re discussing our experiences with this sometimes-nice, sometimes-yikes type of attraction. We’ve experienced parasocial relationships from both sides of the coin, so this week we’re discussing our experiences with this sometimes-nice, sometimes-yikes type of attraction. true full 410 66d81129-3df8-4737-9922-0a6502dd554e Phantasms & Fantasies Happy Halloween! This week we’re discussing our favorite fantasies outside the realm of realism.

 

Fantasies Changing Over Time | Impossibilities | Tropes & Genres | Hypnosis | Being Watched | Magic vs. Medicine | Mind-Reading | Fairies | Dragons | Love Potions | Settings & Mechanics

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]]> Tue, 29 Oct 2024 22:31:27 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/phantasms-fantasies-5etrUmWC Happy Halloween! This week we’re discussing our favorite fantasies outside the realm of realism.

 

Fantasies Changing Over Time | Impossibilities | Tropes & Genres | Hypnosis | Being Watched | Magic vs. Medicine | Mind-Reading | Fairies | Dragons | Love Potions | Settings & Mechanics

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]]> Phantasms & Fantasies Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:05 Happy Halloween! This week we’re discussing our favorite fantasies outside the realm of realism. Happy Halloween! This week we’re discussing our favorite fantasies outside the realm of realism. true full 409 b09ce2e6-18af-44f5-9bfd-7079e4c2e75e Wand-ering Down Memory Lane We’re taking the week off, so here’s the full, previously-unreleased conversation we had when Kate interviewed Billy for Making Magic in September of last year! We touched on the Magic Wand’s role in queer sex, trans sex, porn, kink, and our lives as a whole.
 

First Memories | Current Relationship to the Wand | Aesthetics | Porn | Conducting Vibrations | Dysphoria | Trans Sex | Queer Sex | “Best” Vibrator? | Tech Considerations | Kink | Safewords | Roleplay | Casual Hitachi’ing | Surgery Recovery

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]]> Tue, 22 Oct 2024 19:21:04 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/wand-ering-down-memory-lane-pTRBBQJ0 We’re taking the week off, so here’s the full, previously-unreleased conversation we had when Kate interviewed Billy for Making Magic in September of last year! We touched on the Magic Wand’s role in queer sex, trans sex, porn, kink, and our lives as a whole.
 

First Memories | Current Relationship to the Wand | Aesthetics | Porn | Conducting Vibrations | Dysphoria | Trans Sex | Queer Sex | “Best” Vibrator? | Tech Considerations | Kink | Safewords | Roleplay | Casual Hitachi’ing | Surgery Recovery

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]]> Wand-ering Down Memory Lane Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:49:14 We’re taking the week off, so here’s the full, previously-unreleased conversation we had when Kate interviewed Billy for Making Magic in September of last year! We touched on the Magic Wand’s role in queer sex, trans sex, porn, kink, and our lives as a whole. We’re taking the week off, so here’s the full, previously-unreleased conversation we had when Kate interviewed Billy for Making Magic in September of last year! We touched on the Magic Wand’s role in queer sex, trans sex, porn, kink, and our lives as a whole. true full 408 8eed0315-9dfd-412d-8364-6931a9363ba3 Are You Mad At Me? This week, we dig deeper into the fear of rejection, sharing some ways we cope with this fear in our own lives and discussing how cultural and hormonal factors can influence it.
 

Asking for Reassurance | Self-Soothing | What’s “Too Much”? | Incels | What Does Sex “Mean”? | Hormones | Confidence & Self-Awareness | Vote for Making Magic!

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]]> Tue, 15 Oct 2024 19:17:08 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/are-you-mad-at-me-nG_r_cRJ This week, we dig deeper into the fear of rejection, sharing some ways we cope with this fear in our own lives and discussing how cultural and hormonal factors can influence it.
 

Asking for Reassurance | Self-Soothing | What’s “Too Much”? | Incels | What Does Sex “Mean”? | Hormones | Confidence & Self-Awareness | Vote for Making Magic!

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]]> Are You Mad At Me? Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:17 This week, we dig deeper into the fear of rejection, sharing some ways we cope with this fear in our own lives and discussing how cultural and hormonal factors can influence it. This week, we dig deeper into the fear of rejection, sharing some ways we cope with this fear in our own lives and discussing how cultural and hormonal factors can influence it. true full 407 0e5999dd-0614-4f40-a67b-4786e13beaf8 The Brush-Off Blues Halloween is coming up, so we decided to talk about fear… of rejection!
 

Fear Fluctuations | Self-Soothing | Vulnerability Points | Pandemic Changes | Building Resiliency | What Are We Afraid Of? | Scarcity Mindset | “Hey, Fuck You!” | Rejecting vs. Rejected | “Beggars Can’t Be Choosers” | Guilt vs. Shame | Non-Monogamy | Rejection-Sensitive Dysphoria | Vote for Making Magic!

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]]> Tue, 8 Oct 2024 18:15:30 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/the-brush-off-blues-Q_b4EfLy Halloween is coming up, so we decided to talk about fear… of rejection!
 

Fear Fluctuations | Self-Soothing | Vulnerability Points | Pandemic Changes | Building Resiliency | What Are We Afraid Of? | Scarcity Mindset | “Hey, Fuck You!” | Rejecting vs. Rejected | “Beggars Can’t Be Choosers” | Guilt vs. Shame | Non-Monogamy | Rejection-Sensitive Dysphoria | Vote for Making Magic!

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]]> The Brush-Off Blues Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:01:28 true full 406 39520d17-d7de-43c4-80f0-abdf9ef1f29c We Heart Sadists! Sadists get a bad rap sometimes, so this week we’re discussing some of the things we love about them.
 

Stigma | Consent | Emotional Complexity | Intimacy & Vulnerability | Fantasy vs. Desire | Empathy & Understanding | Trust & Holding Space | Communication Tools | Joy Over Normalcy | Comedy vs. Psychodrama

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]]> Tue, 1 Oct 2024 21:48:03 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/we-heart-sadists-Cy2E1yAQ Sadists get a bad rap sometimes, so this week we’re discussing some of the things we love about them.
 

Stigma | Consent | Emotional Complexity | Intimacy & Vulnerability | Fantasy vs. Desire | Empathy & Understanding | Trust & Holding Space | Communication Tools | Joy Over Normalcy | Comedy vs. Psychodrama

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]]> We Heart Sadists! Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:37 Sadists get a bad rap sometimes, so this week we’re discussing some of the things we love about them. Sadists get a bad rap sometimes, so this week we’re discussing some of the things we love about them. true full 405 ac1740e0-3b7b-4f37-8468-b741879f10cc Eat Me, Drink Me This week Billy chats with his partner, Dee Darkholme, about their shared love of cannibalism kink.
 

Cannibalism Is Romantic | Obsession & Limerence | Butchering & Preparing | Silence of the Lambs | Primal Mauling | Vore & Tinies | Media | Cannibalism: A Perfectly Natural History

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]]> Tue, 24 Sep 2024 21:05:40 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/eat-me-drink-me-P5s3ApIC This week Billy chats with his partner, Dee Darkholme, about their shared love of cannibalism kink.
 

Cannibalism Is Romantic | Obsession & Limerence | Butchering & Preparing | Silence of the Lambs | Primal Mauling | Vore & Tinies | Media | Cannibalism: A Perfectly Natural History

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]]> Eat Me, Drink Me Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:02:01 This week Billy chats with his partner, Dee Darkholme, about their shared love of cannibalism kink. This week Billy chats with his partner, Dee Darkholme, about their shared love of cannibalism kink. true full 404 e63dbc3b-4cea-404b-b8af-cc05d7369da2 Gender Splendor Friend of the show Mx. Nillin Lore has a new book out called How Do I Sexy?: A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers, so this week we spoke with them about trans sexuality, furries, body modifications, and more!
 

How Do I Sexy? | ‘Own Voices’ Trans Art | I Saw the TV Glow | Beacons of Permission | Trans Joy | HRT | Don’t Have to Hate It to Change It | Good vs. Bad Doctors | Body Mods | Disturb the Comfortable | Furryism | Video Games

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]]> Tue, 17 Sep 2024 19:00:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/gender-splendor-nfAfvBwA Friend of the show Mx. Nillin Lore has a new book out called How Do I Sexy?: A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers, so this week we spoke with them about trans sexuality, furries, body modifications, and more!
 

How Do I Sexy? | ‘Own Voices’ Trans Art | I Saw the TV Glow | Beacons of Permission | Trans Joy | HRT | Don’t Have to Hate It to Change It | Good vs. Bad Doctors | Body Mods | Disturb the Comfortable | Furryism | Video Games

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]]> Gender Splendor Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:59:38 Friend of the show Mx. Nillin Lore has a new book out called How Do I Sexy?: A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers, so this week we spoke with them about trans sexuality, furries, body modifications, and more! Friend of the show Mx. Nillin Lore has a new book out called How Do I Sexy?: A Guide for Trans and Nonbinary Queers, so this week we spoke with them about trans sexuality, furries, body modifications, and more! true full 403 d56a54c8-9c51-4ac9-884a-15ad85df73ae Ready For Anything This week, we discuss how we’d prepare for a first date, a threesome, a first sex/kink conference, and a new crush, in honor of National Preparedness Month.
 

Why Prepare? | Managing Anxiety | Neurodivergence | First Dates | Conversation Topics | Sex on the First Date | Condoms & Vibrators | Threesomes | First Con | Oncoming NRE

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]]> Tue, 10 Sep 2024 18:45:25 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/ready-for-anything-ajMJPjYw This week, we discuss how we’d prepare for a first date, a threesome, a first sex/kink conference, and a new crush, in honor of National Preparedness Month.
 

Why Prepare? | Managing Anxiety | Neurodivergence | First Dates | Conversation Topics | Sex on the First Date | Condoms & Vibrators | Threesomes | First Con | Oncoming NRE

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]]> Ready For Anything Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:03:20 This week, we discuss how we’d prepare for a first date, a threesome, a first sex/kink conference, and a new crush, in honor of National Preparedness Month. This week, we discuss how we’d prepare for a first date, a threesome, a first sex/kink conference, and a new crush, in honor of National Preparedness Month. true full 402 386db3a5-37fc-4bf5-a1a5-ece87fd33205 Service with a Smile Can people-pleasers be into service kink? This week, we’re discussing our evolving relationships to providing and receiving service (sexual, domestic, and otherwise) within kink dynamics.
 

Trauma & the Past | Explicit Instructions & Praise | Defining Service | Intentionality | Anxiety & Neurodivergence | Misdirected Service | Turn-On vs. Love Language | Purpose & Meaning | Intimacy & Being Seen | Caretaking & Attachment | Receiving Service | Self-Service | Achievement | Cleaning | Praise Without Service

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]]> Tue, 3 Sep 2024 20:58:01 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/service-with-a-smile-z_ii__6S Can people-pleasers be into service kink? This week, we’re discussing our evolving relationships to providing and receiving service (sexual, domestic, and otherwise) within kink dynamics.
 

Trauma & the Past | Explicit Instructions & Praise | Defining Service | Intentionality | Anxiety & Neurodivergence | Misdirected Service | Turn-On vs. Love Language | Purpose & Meaning | Intimacy & Being Seen | Caretaking & Attachment | Receiving Service | Self-Service | Achievement | Cleaning | Praise Without Service

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]]> Service with a Smile Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:01:31 Can people-pleasers be into service kink? This week, we’re discussing our evolving relationships to providing and receiving service (sexual, domestic, and otherwise) within kink dynamics. Can people-pleasers be into service kink? This week, we’re discussing our evolving relationships to providing and receiving service (sexual, domestic, and otherwise) within kink dynamics. true full 401 d7485500-4a35-4737-abe0-39c7b4f4e8b3 The 400th One Can you believe we’ve done 400 episodes?! This week, we look back at some of our old “hot takes” and see whether we still agree with them.
 

Vulnerability | Categories | Friendship | Things We Hate | New Crush Energy | LGBT | Kate’s Favorite Episodes | Dating Vanilla People | Scheduling Sex | Growth

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]]> Tue, 27 Aug 2024 18:52:13 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/the-400th-one-nFw_uswP Can you believe we’ve done 400 episodes?! This week, we look back at some of our old “hot takes” and see whether we still agree with them.
 

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]]> The 400th One Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:07:23 Can you believe we’ve done 400 episodes?! This week, we look back at some of our old “hot takes” and see whether we still agree with them. Can you believe we’ve done 400 episodes?! This week, we look back at some of our old “hot takes” and see whether we still agree with them. true full 400 3cce961d-fc40-4599-8ffd-e012dd58b82a The Vore, The Merrier Vore is one of the most interesting and fantastical kinks out there, and this week we’re doing a deep-dive on it while continuing to discuss animated porn.

Devil’s Cookie | Vore | Horror | Genital Transformation | Cis Men Writing Women | Swallowing | Cock Vore | Death By Pussy | Gender Politics | Cute Aggression | Spit | Stigma & “Weirdness”

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]]> Tue, 20 Aug 2024 20:16:53 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/the-vore-the-merrier-5DyqRzuE Vore is one of the most interesting and fantastical kinks out there, and this week we’re doing a deep-dive on it while continuing to discuss animated porn.

Devil’s Cookie | Vore | Horror | Genital Transformation | Cis Men Writing Women | Swallowing | Cock Vore | Death By Pussy | Gender Politics | Cute Aggression | Spit | Stigma & “Weirdness”

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]]> The Vore, The Merrier Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:49:43 Vore is one of the most interesting and fantastical kinks out there, and this week we’re doing a deep-dive on it while continuing to discuss animated porn. Vore is one of the most interesting and fantastical kinks out there, and this week we’re doing a deep-dive on it while continuing to discuss animated porn. true full 399 4d763acc-a003-4a16-8427-811ec8c216bc A Flirtation with Animation Is animated porn as hot as “the real thing”? Sometimes it’s even hotter! This week we’re discussing what animated porn can do that live-action porn can’t, and the elements we most love to see in these clips.

 

Curating Porn | Why? | Wet Dreams | Authenticity vs. Acting | Neurodivergence | Cartoonishness | “Oopsie” Series | Campiness | Sexting with an A.I. | Stuffed | Stuffed 2 | Tentacles | Mime and Dash | Voice Actors

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]]> Wed, 14 Aug 2024 20:00:51 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/a-flirtation-with-animation-An_kP98U Is animated porn as hot as “the real thing”? Sometimes it’s even hotter! This week we’re discussing what animated porn can do that live-action porn can’t, and the elements we most love to see in these clips.

 

Curating Porn | Why? | Wet Dreams | Authenticity vs. Acting | Neurodivergence | Cartoonishness | “Oopsie” Series | Campiness | Sexting with an A.I. | Stuffed | Stuffed 2 | Tentacles | Mime and Dash | Voice Actors

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]]> A Flirtation with Animation Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:51:43 Is animated porn as hot as “the real thing”? Sometimes it’s even hotter! This week we’re discussing what animated porn can do that live-action porn can’t, and the elements we most love to see in these clips. Is animated porn as hot as “the real thing”? Sometimes it’s even hotter! This week we’re discussing what animated porn can do that live-action porn can’t, and the elements we most love to see in these clips. true full 398 88fdeb27-5565-4d05-beb6-01d03b28fc3a Ghost in the Machine Ghosting may not be the most mature way to end things with someone, but it does happen – so this week we’re discussing the ethics of ghosting, and offering our best advice for people on both sides of this practice.

 

Defining “Ghosting” | Expectations of Availability | How to Not Ghost | Meta-Communication | When Is It OK? | Emotional Self-Care | Asking What’s Up | Coming Back & Apologizing

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]]> Tue, 6 Aug 2024 19:00:47 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/ghost-in-the-machine-gVKhj2FX Ghosting may not be the most mature way to end things with someone, but it does happen – so this week we’re discussing the ethics of ghosting, and offering our best advice for people on both sides of this practice.

 

Defining “Ghosting” | Expectations of Availability | How to Not Ghost | Meta-Communication | When Is It OK? | Emotional Self-Care | Asking What’s Up | Coming Back & Apologizing

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]]> Ghost in the Machine Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:14:28 Ghosting may not be the most mature way to end things with someone, but it does happen – so this week we’re discussing the ethics of ghosting, and offering our best advice for people on both sides of this practice. Ghosting may not be the most mature way to end things with someone, but it does happen – so this week we’re discussing the ethics of ghosting, and offering our best advice for people on both sides of this practice. true full 397 cb18b5f7-f5af-4cfd-8a92-62c4909351bb Pretty Little Head Intelligence play, such as bimbofication, is an edgy-yet-intriguing kink for many people – so this week we’re discussing our own feelings about it, and about intelligence in general.

 

Identity & Value | Perception | Ableist Language | Humiliation | Vulnerability | Smart Tops | Multiple Intelligences | Smartness vs. Hotness | Confidence | Infantilization | How to Do It | Fragrance | Music | Loose & Free

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]]> Tue, 30 Jul 2024 18:40:59 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/pretty-little-head-MVOcjmi4 Intelligence play, such as bimbofication, is an edgy-yet-intriguing kink for many people – so this week we’re discussing our own feelings about it, and about intelligence in general.

 

Identity & Value | Perception | Ableist Language | Humiliation | Vulnerability | Smart Tops | Multiple Intelligences | Smartness vs. Hotness | Confidence | Infantilization | How to Do It | Fragrance | Music | Loose & Free

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]]> Pretty Little Head Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:53:45 Intelligence play, such as bimbofication, is an edgy-yet-intriguing kink for many people – so this week we’re discussing our own feelings about it, and about intelligence in general. Intelligence play, such as bimbofication, is an edgy-yet-intriguing kink for many people – so this week we’re discussing our own feelings about it, and about intelligence in general. true full 396 e76e1475-ec4b-49f9-a767-f791a87074fd Tongue-in-Cheek This week we’re diving deeper into our discussion of kissing, covering common issues people have with making out, like finding tongues gross or not knowing what to say between kisses.
 

Tongue | Closed-Mouth Kissing | Dirty Talk | LDRs | Setting Boundaries | Date Kate Survey

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]]> Tue, 23 Jul 2024 11:56:39 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/tongue-in-cheek-LcEpmAtH This week we’re diving deeper into our discussion of kissing, covering common issues people have with making out, like finding tongues gross or not knowing what to say between kisses.
 

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]]> Tongue-in-Cheek Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:07:15 This week we’re diving deeper into our discussion of kissing, covering common issues people have with making out, like finding tongues gross or not knowing what to say between kisses. This week we’re diving deeper into our discussion of kissing, covering common issues people have with making out, like finding tongues gross or not knowing what to say between kisses. true full 395 b1419f21-7362-4869-b5d6-760fc4939cd7 Lip-Lock Talk Kissing is hot, and can tell you a lot about a person. This week we’re answering listener questions about making out.
 

Evolving Opinions | Kissing vs. Sex | Kissing vs. Making Out | Duration | Sexual Chemistry/Compatibility | The Most Important Skill | Setting a Precedent | Communication & Consent | Memorable (Not-)Kisses | Intoxicants

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]]> Tue, 16 Jul 2024 19:01:10 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/lip-lock-talk-wkMZZaDR Kissing is hot, and can tell you a lot about a person. This week we’re answering listener questions about making out.
 

Evolving Opinions | Kissing vs. Sex | Kissing vs. Making Out | Duration | Sexual Chemistry/Compatibility | The Most Important Skill | Setting a Precedent | Communication & Consent | Memorable (Not-)Kisses | Intoxicants

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]]> Lip-Lock Talk Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:41 Kissing is hot, and can tell you a lot about a person. This week we’re answering listener questions about making out. Kissing is hot, and can tell you a lot about a person. This week we’re answering listener questions about making out. true full 394 90701a80-6ac4-43d6-95cc-f4f470e0f623 Shock, Horror! We're continuing our discussion on emotional sadomasochism this week, covering hypnosis, negotiation, mid-scene troubleshooting, and how to subvert harmful experiences into hot scenes.

 

Intimacy & Vulnerability | Intentional Emotional Extremes | Trauma & Triggers | Negotiation & Scene-Planning | Reassurance | Transphobia & Misogyny | 24/7 Emotional S&M | Attractiveness | Hypnosis

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]]> Tue, 9 Jul 2024 21:57:39 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/shock-horror-SjZuFdRt We're continuing our discussion on emotional sadomasochism this week, covering hypnosis, negotiation, mid-scene troubleshooting, and how to subvert harmful experiences into hot scenes.

 

Intimacy & Vulnerability | Intentional Emotional Extremes | Trauma & Triggers | Negotiation & Scene-Planning | Reassurance | Transphobia & Misogyny | 24/7 Emotional S&M | Attractiveness | Hypnosis

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]]> Shock, Horror! Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:40 We're continuing our discussion on emotional sadomasochism this week, covering hypnosis, negotiation, mid-scene troubleshooting, and how to subvert harmful experiences into hot scenes. We're continuing our discussion on emotional sadomasochism this week, covering hypnosis, negotiation, mid-scene troubleshooting, and how to subvert harmful experiences into hot scenes. true full 393 3a1744d7-6cc0-4d99-b848-514b738c445a When Hard Feelings Make You Hard Sadomasochism isn’t just physical – many kinksters play with pain and discomfort in the emotional and psychological realms, too. This week we’re discussing the art of emotional S&M!
 

What is Emotional S&M? | Enough to Make You Blush | Emotional vs. Psychological | Hot Ones | Hurts So Good | Grown-Up Playtime | Healing | Winning | Topping | Communication Tools | Channeling Bad Impulses | Abuse | Generating Ideas

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]]> Tue, 2 Jul 2024 16:37:43 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/when-hard-feelings-make-you-hard-ZGx_iISd Sadomasochism isn’t just physical – many kinksters play with pain and discomfort in the emotional and psychological realms, too. This week we’re discussing the art of emotional S&M!
 

What is Emotional S&M? | Enough to Make You Blush | Emotional vs. Psychological | Hot Ones | Hurts So Good | Grown-Up Playtime | Healing | Winning | Topping | Communication Tools | Channeling Bad Impulses | Abuse | Generating Ideas

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]]> When Hard Feelings Make You Hard Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:52 Sadomasochism isn’t just physical – many kinksters play with pain and discomfort in the emotional and psychological realms, too. This week we’re discussing the art of emotional S&M! Sadomasochism isn’t just physical – many kinksters play with pain and discomfort in the emotional and psychological realms, too. This week we’re discussing the art of emotional S&M! true full 392 82c393ee-6d5d-487f-99fb-3bd334945fe5 At First Blush Why are first times so hot? This week we’re interrogating our feelings on first times, both real and roleplayed.
 

What is a “First Time”? | First Times Fetish | Surprised & Overwhelmed | Special & Notable | First Date Roleplays | Finding Authenticity | Virginity Loss Roleplay | Confidence & Experience | Tops vs. Bottoms | /r/RandomActsOfMuffDive | Ethics of Sex with Virgins | Innocence vs. Corruption | Virginity | Sex with New People | How to Be a Good First Fuck

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]]> Tue, 25 Jun 2024 20:04:33 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/at-first-blush-o1fFpUYO Why are first times so hot? This week we’re interrogating our feelings on first times, both real and roleplayed.
 

What is a “First Time”? | First Times Fetish | Surprised & Overwhelmed | Special & Notable | First Date Roleplays | Finding Authenticity | Virginity Loss Roleplay | Confidence & Experience | Tops vs. Bottoms | /r/RandomActsOfMuffDive | Ethics of Sex with Virgins | Innocence vs. Corruption | Virginity | Sex with New People | How to Be a Good First Fuck

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]]> At First Blush Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:03:27 Why are first times so hot? This week we’re interrogating our feelings on first times, both real and roleplayed. Why are first times so hot? This week we’re interrogating our feelings on first times, both real and roleplayed. true full 391 a4d4d4e3-9452-4fbb-abb7-298323780be0 You Asked, We Rambled We’re answering listener questions this week about rimming, condoms, masturbation, fetishes, and more!
 

Rimming | Sick People | Textured Condoms | Lifestyles Tuxedo Condoms | One Pleasure Plus | Masturbation Shame | Our Fears | Advice We Don’t Follow

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]]> Tue, 18 Jun 2024 20:15:04 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/you-asked-we-rambled-rYsfIgwp We’re answering listener questions this week about rimming, condoms, masturbation, fetishes, and more!
 

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]]> You Asked, We Rambled Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:08:14 We’re answering listener questions this week about rimming, condoms, masturbation, fetishes, and more! We’re answering listener questions this week about rimming, condoms, masturbation, fetishes, and more! true full 390 706765ee-ef6d-49c9-8449-46147e3ddef3 Sure, Why Not? This week Billy talks with his partner Dee Darkholme about some of the unusual kinks and dynamics that have emerged in their relationship.
 

Feet | Future Relationships | Intimacy & Demisexuality | Need vs. Occasional Want | Curiosity & Non-Judgment | Feet, Again | Piss | Squirting | Testosterone | Bringing Up New Kinks

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]]> Tue, 11 Jun 2024 20:55:25 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sure-why-not-9zJ9APpO This week Billy talks with his partner Dee Darkholme about some of the unusual kinks and dynamics that have emerged in their relationship.
 

Feet | Future Relationships | Intimacy & Demisexuality | Need vs. Occasional Want | Curiosity & Non-Judgment | Feet, Again | Piss | Squirting | Testosterone | Bringing Up New Kinks

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]]> Sure, Why Not? Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:54:20 This week Billy talks with his partner Dee Darkholme about some of the unusual kinks and dynamics that have emerged in their relationship. This week Billy talks with his partner Dee Darkholme about some of the unusual kinks and dynamics that have emerged in their relationship. true full 389 730a2a44-cd4f-4ffc-b61f-6b6865946a73 Giving Good Hole This week we’re chatting with the brilliant author and podcaster Tina Horn about her new book, Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink!
 

Fisting | Circlusion | Citing Sources | CNC | Bad Tweets | Footnotes | Connoisseurs | Glasses Fetish | Sex & the City | Bimbos | Gender

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]]> Tue, 4 Jun 2024 20:16:37 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/giving-good-hole-1y_Kk8gq This week we’re chatting with the brilliant author and podcaster Tina Horn about her new book, Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink!
 

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]]> Giving Good Hole Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:04:24 This week we’re chatting with the brilliant author and podcaster Tina Horn about her new book, Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink! This week we’re chatting with the brilliant author and podcaster Tina Horn about her new book, Why Are People Into That?: A Cultural Investigation of Kink! true full 388 2e997d11-9510-4619-8fc8-dd4ad1c5be30 What Makes the Magic Wand So Magic? Here's the first episode of Kate's podcast miniseries on the Magic Wand, Making Magic!

The Magic Wand is a cult-favorite sex toy, beloved by vibrator connoisseurs around the world – but is it worthy of the hype? In this episode, we seek to answer that question, by examining the Wand’s reputation, first-time users’ reactions when they try it, and how it can help us close the orgasm gap.

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  • Good Vibrations staff sexologist & Antique Vibrator Museum curator Dr. Carol Queen (she/they)
  • Sex toy historian & author Hallie Lieberman (she/her)
  • Sex educator & host/creator of the Sex Ed With DB podcast Danielle Bezalel (she/her)
  • Software designer & developer (& Kate’s spouse) mb bischoff (they/them)
  • Author, sex therapist, & psychology professor Dr. Laurie Mintz (she/her)

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]]> Thu, 30 May 2024 17:56:55 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/what-makes-the-magic-wand-so-magic-JMQ4uAwW Here's the first episode of Kate's podcast miniseries on the Magic Wand, Making Magic!

The Magic Wand is a cult-favorite sex toy, beloved by vibrator connoisseurs around the world – but is it worthy of the hype? In this episode, we seek to answer that question, by examining the Wand’s reputation, first-time users’ reactions when they try it, and how it can help us close the orgasm gap.

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  • Good Vibrations staff sexologist & Antique Vibrator Museum curator Dr. Carol Queen (she/they)
  • Sex toy historian & author Hallie Lieberman (she/her)
  • Sex educator & host/creator of the Sex Ed With DB podcast Danielle Bezalel (she/her)
  • Software designer & developer (& Kate’s spouse) mb bischoff (they/them)
  • Author, sex therapist, & psychology professor Dr. Laurie Mintz (she/her)

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]]> What Makes the Magic Wand So Magic? Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:25:32 Here's the first episode of Kate's podcast miniseries on the Magic Wand, Making Magic! Here's the first episode of Kate's podcast miniseries on the Magic Wand, Making Magic! true full 387 0985d824-93a4-445a-aafa-d851cda19527 Just Like Magic Kate’s about to launch a project she’s been working on for a year, a podcast miniseries about the Magic Wand called Making Magic: How the Magic Wand Became the World’s Most Famous Vibrator. This week, we talk about the series and how it all happened!
 

Why? | Feature Story | Magic Wand Tattoo | Book vs. Podcast | Sex-Positive Feminism | Interviews | Hitachi | Interview Wishlist | Magic Wand Menorah | Art & Tattoos | Style/Format Inspiration | New Discoveries | Changes in Opinion | Other Toys | Favorite Episode | Takeaways

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]]> Tue, 21 May 2024 19:37:06 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/just-like-magic-p_RVKNOf Kate’s about to launch a project she’s been working on for a year, a podcast miniseries about the Magic Wand called Making Magic: How the Magic Wand Became the World’s Most Famous Vibrator. This week, we talk about the series and how it all happened!
 

Why? | Feature Story | Magic Wand Tattoo | Book vs. Podcast | Sex-Positive Feminism | Interviews | Hitachi | Interview Wishlist | Magic Wand Menorah | Art & Tattoos | Style/Format Inspiration | New Discoveries | Changes in Opinion | Other Toys | Favorite Episode | Takeaways

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]]> Just Like Magic Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:53:53 Kate’s about to launch a project she’s been working on for a year, a podcast miniseries about the Magic Wand called Making Magic: How the Magic Wand Became the World’s Most Famous Vibrator. This week, we talk about the series and how it all happened! Kate’s about to launch a project she’s been working on for a year, a podcast miniseries about the Magic Wand called Making Magic: How the Magic Wand Became the World’s Most Famous Vibrator. This week, we talk about the series and how it all happened! true full 386 8a03e434-176d-455d-aa07-9b11acf5fda7 Switching Things Up Changes in your kinky power dynamic can be scary and destabilizing, but they can also be exciting, healing, and necessary. This week, we discuss shifts in power we’ve experienced within our own relationships, and how we navigate them.

 

Are We Switches? | Empathy & POV | Learning to Dominate | Receiving Caretaking | Somatics & Self-Esteem | Not Having All the Answers | Switching Within Relationships | Motivations | Kinky Flirting | What Do You Want? | People-Pleasing & Boundaries | Deciding to Change | Making Changes

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]]> Tue, 14 May 2024 20:52:51 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/switching-things-up-qWKfqL3G Changes in your kinky power dynamic can be scary and destabilizing, but they can also be exciting, healing, and necessary. This week, we discuss shifts in power we’ve experienced within our own relationships, and how we navigate them.

 

Are We Switches? | Empathy & POV | Learning to Dominate | Receiving Caretaking | Somatics & Self-Esteem | Not Having All the Answers | Switching Within Relationships | Motivations | Kinky Flirting | What Do You Want? | People-Pleasing & Boundaries | Deciding to Change | Making Changes

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]]> Switching Things Up Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:54:12 Changes in your kinky power dynamic can be scary and destabilizing, but they can also be exciting, healing, and necessary. This week, we discuss shifts in power we’ve experienced within our own relationships, and how we navigate them. Changes in your kinky power dynamic can be scary and destabilizing, but they can also be exciting, healing, and necessary. This week, we discuss shifts in power we’ve experienced within our own relationships, and how we navigate them. true full 385 d2978e96-9d37-4315-9c4b-a9927432bf7f Skilful Self-Love Happy Masturbation Month! We’re celebrating by answering listener questions about jerking off.
 

Cum Socks, Cum Box | Pruney Fingers | Jerking Off to Oneself | Perspective in Fantasy | Stroker Newbie Tips | Fleshlight Quickshot | Tenga Egg | Porn Addiction | Masturbating Before Bed | Unexpected Additions | Museum of Sex Event

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]]> Tue, 7 May 2024 19:18:16 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/skilful-self-love-Sdi2dA7d Happy Masturbation Month! We’re celebrating by answering listener questions about jerking off.
 

Cum Socks, Cum Box | Pruney Fingers | Jerking Off to Oneself | Perspective in Fantasy | Stroker Newbie Tips | Fleshlight Quickshot | Tenga Egg | Porn Addiction | Masturbating Before Bed | Unexpected Additions | Museum of Sex Event

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]]> Skilful Self-Love Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:59:11 Happy Masturbation Month! We’re celebrating by answering listener questions about jerking off. Happy Masturbation Month! We’re celebrating by answering listener questions about jerking off. true full 384 56ab6e83-227e-4da9-9fe8-870ab7d022bb Immerse Me, Queen What do sex, kink, Michelin-star restaurants, Disney World, and Dungeons & Dragons have in common? This week we’re talking about the concept of immersiveness, and what we can learn about sex and kink from studying immersive experiences.

 

“What is Sex Like?” | Flow State | Internal vs. External Factors | Social Anxiety | Sleep No More | Attention | Moments | Hospitality | Disney | Ambiance & Headspace | D&D

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]]> Tue, 30 Apr 2024 18:16:31 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/immerse-me-queen-6UOOuv8B What do sex, kink, Michelin-star restaurants, Disney World, and Dungeons & Dragons have in common? This week we’re talking about the concept of immersiveness, and what we can learn about sex and kink from studying immersive experiences.

 

“What is Sex Like?” | Flow State | Internal vs. External Factors | Social Anxiety | Sleep No More | Attention | Moments | Hospitality | Disney | Ambiance & Headspace | D&D

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]]> Immerse Me, Queen Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:46:11 What do sex, kink, Michelin-star restaurants, Disney World, and Dungeons & Dragons have in common? This week we’re talking about the concept of immersiveness, and what we can learn about sex and kink from studying immersive experiences. What do sex, kink, Michelin-star restaurants, Disney World, and Dungeons & Dragons have in common? This week we’re talking about the concept of immersiveness, and what we can learn about sex and kink from studying immersive experiences. true full 383 7184ef1d-6fff-4d4f-9193-e158aa3da93d Hard-Won Wisdom What’s the best lesson you’ve ever learned about sex, dating, or masturbating? This week we’re celebrating Kate’s birthday by distilling some key pieces of wisdom we’ve learned on several of our favorite topics.
 

Birthdays | First Dates | Masturbation | New Relationship Energy | Long-Term Relationships | Friendship | No Sleep | Fantasy | Re-Watching | Sadomasochism | Orgasms | Jealousy in Non-Monogamy | Codependency | Flirting | Metacommunication

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]]> Tue, 23 Apr 2024 20:11:27 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/hard-won-wisdom-d_vzD9Sr What’s the best lesson you’ve ever learned about sex, dating, or masturbating? This week we’re celebrating Kate’s birthday by distilling some key pieces of wisdom we’ve learned on several of our favorite topics.
 

Birthdays | First Dates | Masturbation | New Relationship Energy | Long-Term Relationships | Friendship | No Sleep | Fantasy | Re-Watching | Sadomasochism | Orgasms | Jealousy in Non-Monogamy | Codependency | Flirting | Metacommunication

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]]> Hard-Won Wisdom Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:04:17 What’s the best lesson you’ve ever learned about sex, dating, or masturbating? This week we’re celebrating Kate’s birthday by distilling some key pieces of wisdom we’ve learned on several of our favorite topics. What’s the best lesson you’ve ever learned about sex, dating, or masturbating? This week we’re celebrating Kate’s birthday by distilling some key pieces of wisdom we’ve learned on several of our favorite topics. true full 382 fd894a57-66e4-43be-9264-fd85566ea0d1 Come Fly With Me Traveling with a partner can be magical, or it can be stressful as hell. This week, we’re discussing the pitfalls and best practices of taking trips with someone you’re dating.
 

Hotel Sex | Different Version of Yourself | Compatibility Test | Travel & Polyamory | How Soon? | Stress & Arguments | Time Apart | Early Trips | Overstimulation vs. Calm | Conferences & Camp

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]]> Tue, 16 Apr 2024 20:56:16 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/come-fly-with-me-0JqUw_cs Traveling with a partner can be magical, or it can be stressful as hell. This week, we’re discussing the pitfalls and best practices of taking trips with someone you’re dating.
 

Hotel Sex | Different Version of Yourself | Compatibility Test | Travel & Polyamory | How Soon? | Stress & Arguments | Time Apart | Early Trips | Overstimulation vs. Calm | Conferences & Camp

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]]> Come Fly With Me Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:47:46 Traveling with a partner can be magical, or it can be stressful as hell. This week, we’re discussing the pitfalls and best practices of taking trips with someone you’re dating. Traveling with a partner can be magical, or it can be stressful as hell. This week, we’re discussing the pitfalls and best practices of taking trips with someone you’re dating. true full 381 33a03e90-6db7-48d0-9571-a04bdb5f65a6 Standard Practice What does it mean to have “high standards” or to be “too picky” in the realms of dating and sex? This week we’re talking about standards, boundaries, “leagues,” dealbreakers, and more.

 

Male Attention | Horrors of Singledom | Self-Judgment | Gender Differences | “Leagues” | Rejection | Insecurities | Chemistry | Wanting vs. Being Wanted | Monogamy vs. Polyamory | Friend of a Friend Matchmaking | Bad Standards | What ARE “Standards”? | Attractions Changing | Good Standards | Setting Standards | Preference vs. Fetishization

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]]> Wed, 10 Apr 2024 21:13:11 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/standard-practice-1qJqSX0X What does it mean to have “high standards” or to be “too picky” in the realms of dating and sex? This week we’re talking about standards, boundaries, “leagues,” dealbreakers, and more.

 

Male Attention | Horrors of Singledom | Self-Judgment | Gender Differences | “Leagues” | Rejection | Insecurities | Chemistry | Wanting vs. Being Wanted | Monogamy vs. Polyamory | Friend of a Friend Matchmaking | Bad Standards | What ARE “Standards”? | Attractions Changing | Good Standards | Setting Standards | Preference vs. Fetishization

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]]> Standard Practice Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:10:30 What does it mean to have “high standards” or to be “too picky” in the realms of dating and sex? This week we’re talking about standards, boundaries, “leagues,” dealbreakers, and more. What does it mean to have “high standards” or to be “too picky” in the realms of dating and sex? This week we’re talking about standards, boundaries, “leagues,” dealbreakers, and more. true full 380 521c119e-a386-43f4-af9e-dbf736e30b65 A Huge Turn-On There are a ton of ways that size differences can be eroticized, from age play to giantess porn to vore fantasies. This week, we share our thoughts and feelings on various forms of size kink.
 

Littleness vs. Age Play | Vore | Eating & Swallowing | Cannibalism (7:52–11:40) | Giantesses | Tinies | Toy Story | Human Size Variations | Kissing | Height Preferences | Gender | CNC | How to Emphasize Size

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]]> Tue, 2 Apr 2024 21:51:39 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/a-huge-turn-on-_S6RdawV There are a ton of ways that size differences can be eroticized, from age play to giantess porn to vore fantasies. This week, we share our thoughts and feelings on various forms of size kink.
 

Littleness vs. Age Play | Vore | Eating & Swallowing | Cannibalism (7:52–11:40) | Giantesses | Tinies | Toy Story | Human Size Variations | Kissing | Height Preferences | Gender | CNC | How to Emphasize Size

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]]> A Huge Turn-On Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:22 There are a ton of ways that size differences can be eroticized, from age play to giantess porn to vore fantasies. This week, we share our thoughts and feelings on various forms of size kink. There are a ton of ways that size differences can be eroticized, from age play to giantess porn to vore fantasies. This week, we share our thoughts and feelings on various forms of size kink. true full 379 57e4a43a-657b-40b0-91ad-e226e7afcc15 Art Smarts This week we’re joined by Addison Finch, the artist who created our new logo! We talk with him about how the art came together, plus his work as a tattoo artist.

 

Dildo Nerds | New Logo | Listened to Every Episode | Fifty Shades | Favorite Part | Separate Personas | Piercing | Tattooing | Alt Culture | Traditions vs. Colonialism | Flash Art | Kinky Tattooing

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]]> Tue, 26 Mar 2024 18:09:41 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/art-smarts-H1Wy4JUv This week we’re joined by Addison Finch, the artist who created our new logo! We talk with him about how the art came together, plus his work as a tattoo artist.

 

Dildo Nerds | New Logo | Listened to Every Episode | Fifty Shades | Favorite Part | Separate Personas | Piercing | Tattooing | Alt Culture | Traditions vs. Colonialism | Flash Art | Kinky Tattooing

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]]> Art Smarts Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:13:56 This week we’re joined by Addison Finch, the artist who created our new logo! We talk with him about how the art came together, plus his work as a tattoo artist. This week we’re joined by Addison Finch, the artist who created our new logo! We talk with him about how the art came together, plus his work as a tattoo artist. true full 378 6aaef5b0-0c30-45dc-9892-23d1a5347297 That Escalated Quickly Definition | Deciding to Get Married | Hierarchical vs. Non-Hierarchical | Polysecure by Jessica Fern | Escalator Without Hierarchy | Polywise by Jessica Fern | Differing Compatibilities | Friendships vs. Romance | Dean Spade Essay | Building Your Own Escalator | Professional & Creative Partnerships | Social Media | Collars | Money

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]]> Tue, 19 Mar 2024 17:42:39 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/that-escalated-quickly-h3rYB7iA Definition | Deciding to Get Married | Hierarchical vs. Non-Hierarchical | Polysecure by Jessica Fern | Escalator Without Hierarchy | Polywise by Jessica Fern | Differing Compatibilities | Friendships vs. Romance | Dean Spade Essay | Building Your Own Escalator | Professional & Creative Partnerships | Social Media | Collars | Money

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]]> That Escalated Quickly Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:04:08 Love doesn’t always lead to cohabitation, marriage, or kids, contrary to cultural norms – and that's fine! This week we had a giggly discussion about the “relationship escalator.” Love doesn’t always lead to cohabitation, marriage, or kids, contrary to cultural norms – and that's fine! This week we had a giggly discussion about the “relationship escalator.” true full 377 ea0f37ea-2c04-46a0-8001-0352f52927b7 Messy Masculinity Is porn addiction real? Is the NoFap community just a bunch of chastity fetishists? Are men okay? This week Kate chats with Kris Taylor, an academic from New Zealand who has studied porn addiction discourse and the NoFap movement, about all of the above and more.
 

Origin Story | Masculinity | New or Old? | NoFap Research | Homoeroticism in NoFap | Women on NoFap | Giving Pleasure | Eroticizing Self-Denial | Dust Breeding | Barriers & Tension | Sexual Fantasy | Male Pleasure | Flure App | Porn Dependency | “No Porn” Rule | Fantastical Fantasies | Vibrators | A Cyborg Manifesto | Solitary Sex | Making Sex | Female Orgasm | Queer & Trans People | Future Research Directions

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]]> Tue, 12 Mar 2024 20:01:39 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/messy-masculinity-e6XlZSeN Is porn addiction real? Is the NoFap community just a bunch of chastity fetishists? Are men okay? This week Kate chats with Kris Taylor, an academic from New Zealand who has studied porn addiction discourse and the NoFap movement, about all of the above and more.
 

Origin Story | Masculinity | New or Old? | NoFap Research | Homoeroticism in NoFap | Women on NoFap | Giving Pleasure | Eroticizing Self-Denial | Dust Breeding | Barriers & Tension | Sexual Fantasy | Male Pleasure | Flure App | Porn Dependency | “No Porn” Rule | Fantastical Fantasies | Vibrators | A Cyborg Manifesto | Solitary Sex | Making Sex | Female Orgasm | Queer & Trans People | Future Research Directions

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]]> Messy Masculinity Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:18:39 Is porn addiction real? Is the NoFap community just a bunch of chastity fetishists? Are men okay? This week Kate chats with Kris Taylor, an academic from New Zealand who has studied porn addiction discourse and the NoFap movement, about all of the above and more. Is porn addiction real? Is the NoFap community just a bunch of chastity fetishists? Are men okay? This week Kate chats with Kris Taylor, an academic from New Zealand who has studied porn addiction discourse and the NoFap movement, about all of the above and more. true full 376 d1eed46b-fef8-4ce3-9e9f-ea34ace415ad Commit to the Bit Humor is a big component of our sex and kink, but it’s not always appropriate during scenes. This week we talk about how and when to deploy humor to improve your flirting, domming, or subbing.

 

Vibrators Dying | Improv Crushes | Take an Improv Class | The Excitement of Humor | Collaboration | Repetition | Tension & Release | Too Much Laughing? | Read the Room | Nothosaur Toys | Breath Play | Nerves & Anxiety | Aftercare | On the Same Page | Making a Top Laugh | Humiliation Play | Funny Kink Scenes | Commit to the Bit

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]]> Wed, 6 Mar 2024 20:35:22 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Kate Sloan, Billy Lore) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/commit-to-the-bit-oQQKqEUu Humor is a big component of our sex and kink, but it’s not always appropriate during scenes. This week we talk about how and when to deploy humor to improve your flirting, domming, or subbing.

 

Vibrators Dying | Improv Crushes | Take an Improv Class | The Excitement of Humor | Collaboration | Repetition | Tension & Release | Too Much Laughing? | Read the Room | Nothosaur Toys | Breath Play | Nerves & Anxiety | Aftercare | On the Same Page | Making a Top Laugh | Humiliation Play | Funny Kink Scenes | Commit to the Bit

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]]> Commit to the Bit Kate Sloan, Billy Lore 01:11:53 Humor is a big component of our sex and kink, but it’s not always appropriate during scenes. This week we talk about how and when to deploy humor to improve your flirting, domming, or subbing. Humor is a big component of our sex and kink, but it’s not always appropriate during scenes. This week we talk about how and when to deploy humor to improve your flirting, domming, or subbing. true full 375 6447e8e6-ec31-45ba-9faf-c2c11f589b2a Porn Scorn Watching porn while in a relationship can be more contentious than watching it while single; this week, we theorize on why that is, and answer listener questions about watching porn with partners.
 

Is OnlyFans Cheating? | Economics | Insecurities & Anxieties | What Porn is For | Extreme Tastes | Watching Porn During Oral | Nothosaur Toys | Sharing Passwords | Porn Stars’ Appearance | Queer Porn with Straight Partners

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]]> Tue, 27 Feb 2024 21:02:02 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/porn-scorn-joaco0hl Watching porn while in a relationship can be more contentious than watching it while single; this week, we theorize on why that is, and answer listener questions about watching porn with partners.
 

Is OnlyFans Cheating? | Economics | Insecurities & Anxieties | What Porn is For | Extreme Tastes | Watching Porn During Oral | Nothosaur Toys | Sharing Passwords | Porn Stars’ Appearance | Queer Porn with Straight Partners

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]]> Porn Scorn Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:00:42 Watching porn while in a relationship can be more contentious than watching it while single; this week, we theorize on why that is, and answer listener questions about watching porn with partners. Watching porn while in a relationship can be more contentious than watching it while single; this week, we theorize on why that is, and answer listener questions about watching porn with partners. true full 374 660fe90c-fe3c-4879-8c12-e5221e038d24 Romantic Antics With Valentine’s Day having just passed, this week we tried to figure out what “romance” actually is.

 

Consistency | Autism & Aromanticism | Love, Inc. | Romantic Attraction | Friendship | New Relationship Energy | Media Love | Nothosaur Toys | What’s Romantic To You? | Reciprocity | Examples of Romance | Surprise | Spontaneous Kisses | Thinking of You | Vulnerability | Sex Games | Remembering Preferences

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]]> Tue, 20 Feb 2024 21:25:04 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/romantic-antics-fCgBAxy3 With Valentine’s Day having just passed, this week we tried to figure out what “romance” actually is.

 

Consistency | Autism & Aromanticism | Love, Inc. | Romantic Attraction | Friendship | New Relationship Energy | Media Love | Nothosaur Toys | What’s Romantic To You? | Reciprocity | Examples of Romance | Surprise | Spontaneous Kisses | Thinking of You | Vulnerability | Sex Games | Remembering Preferences

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]]> Romantic Antics Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:57:28 With Valentine’s Day having just passed, this week we tried to figure out what “romance” actually is. With Valentine’s Day having just passed, this week we tried to figure out what “romance” actually is. true full 373 d54eb87f-10c2-4185-9cc3-9a6c1a4cf299 Buzzkill What happens when a sex toy reviewer quits using vibrators? This week Kate and her spouse mb discuss her recent break from using vibes, the reasons for it, and the results of the experiment.

 

Why? | Vibrator Habituation | Research Questions | Sensitivity | Orgasm Threshold | Orgasm Intensity | Tools | Quitting? | Slowing Down | Sex Ed | How Long It Takes | Manual Stimulation | Hand Weakness | Mental Aspect | Flure | Readjusting | Withdrawal | Polyamory Clause | Natural/Intimate | Alcohol | Internal Spots | Libido & Satisfaction | New Techniques | Mood | Big Nut

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]]> Tue, 13 Feb 2024 21:54:49 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/buzzkill-_YGYoXy0 What happens when a sex toy reviewer quits using vibrators? This week Kate and her spouse mb discuss her recent break from using vibes, the reasons for it, and the results of the experiment.

 

Why? | Vibrator Habituation | Research Questions | Sensitivity | Orgasm Threshold | Orgasm Intensity | Tools | Quitting? | Slowing Down | Sex Ed | How Long It Takes | Manual Stimulation | Hand Weakness | Mental Aspect | Flure | Readjusting | Withdrawal | Polyamory Clause | Natural/Intimate | Alcohol | Internal Spots | Libido & Satisfaction | New Techniques | Mood | Big Nut

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]]> Buzzkill Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:19 What happens when a sex toy reviewer quits using vibrators? This week Kate and her spouse mb discuss her recent break from using vibes, the reasons for it, and the results of the experiment. What happens when a sex toy reviewer quits using vibrators? This week Kate and her spouse mb discuss her recent break from using vibes, the reasons for it, and the results of the experiment. true full 372 0278dab8-744c-416f-998f-5b43f1a30df6 Good Vibes Only We’re answering listener questions on sex toys this week – and sharing some of our snarky takes about certain sex toy brands.

 

Meeting People Where They’re At | Butt Plugs for Long-Term Wear | Njoy Pure Plug | Fun Factory Bootie | Lube for Silicone Anal Toys | Sliquid Silk | Sliquid Sassy | Sutil Rich | Sliquid Organics Gel | Should I Buy More Toys? | Magic Wand Rechargeable | Njoy Pure Wand | VixSkin Toys | Best Orgasms | VixSkin Outlaw | Eroscillator | Fucking Sculptures Double Trouble | Pressure-Wave Toys | Lelo Sila | Womanizer Premium 2 | Satisfyer Pro 2 | Toys for AMAB People | Lovense Edge 2 | Trans Affirming Wear | Ana Valens Article | Fun Factory Manta | Hot Octopuss Pulse | Micropenis Dildo | Uberrime Dildo Tip | Toy Cleaner | DivaWash | Songs About Sex Toys | Rachel Lark Song | “Bad Sex” Song | Lelo | Dick Tux | Owning a Sex Shop

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]]> Tue, 6 Feb 2024 19:00:38 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/good-vibes-only-Ts5gwgKM We’re answering listener questions on sex toys this week – and sharing some of our snarky takes about certain sex toy brands.

 

Meeting People Where They’re At | Butt Plugs for Long-Term Wear | Njoy Pure Plug | Fun Factory Bootie | Lube for Silicone Anal Toys | Sliquid Silk | Sliquid Sassy | Sutil Rich | Sliquid Organics Gel | Should I Buy More Toys? | Magic Wand Rechargeable | Njoy Pure Wand | VixSkin Toys | Best Orgasms | VixSkin Outlaw | Eroscillator | Fucking Sculptures Double Trouble | Pressure-Wave Toys | Lelo Sila | Womanizer Premium 2 | Satisfyer Pro 2 | Toys for AMAB People | Lovense Edge 2 | Trans Affirming Wear | Ana Valens Article | Fun Factory Manta | Hot Octopuss Pulse | Micropenis Dildo | Uberrime Dildo Tip | Toy Cleaner | DivaWash | Songs About Sex Toys | Rachel Lark Song | “Bad Sex” Song | Lelo | Dick Tux | Owning a Sex Shop

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]]> Good Vibes Only Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:37 We’re answering listener questions on sex toys this week – and sharing some of our snarky takes about certain sex toy brands. We’re answering listener questions on sex toys this week – and sharing some of our snarky takes about certain sex toy brands. true full 371 97813cd8-7533-48f3-a3ad-afbf71cc09d9 Sealed With a Piss Watersports is a wet, wild, and wonderful kink! This week, we’re discussing piss play: what we find hot about it (and what we don’t), how we’ve incorporated it into scenes, and how to do it safely and with minimal mess.
 

Why Is It Hot? | Comparison to Scat | Taboo | Intimate | Messy | Pissing on Command | STPs | Peeing Inside Someone | Bladder Control | Not Fresh From the Tap | Piss Cocktails | Roleplays | In the Bedroom | Age Play | Hydration

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]]> Tue, 30 Jan 2024 19:36:11 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sealed-with-a-piss-EkzRZG40 Watersports is a wet, wild, and wonderful kink! This week, we’re discussing piss play: what we find hot about it (and what we don’t), how we’ve incorporated it into scenes, and how to do it safely and with minimal mess.
 

Why Is It Hot? | Comparison to Scat | Taboo | Intimate | Messy | Pissing on Command | STPs | Peeing Inside Someone | Bladder Control | Not Fresh From the Tap | Piss Cocktails | Roleplays | In the Bedroom | Age Play | Hydration

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]]> Sealed With a Piss Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:09:51 Watersports is a wet, wild, and wonderful kink! This week, we’re discussing piss play: what we find hot about it (and what we don’t), how we’ve incorporated it into scenes, and how to do it safely and with minimal mess. Watersports is a wet, wild, and wonderful kink! This week, we’re discussing piss play: what we find hot about it (and what we don’t), how we’ve incorporated it into scenes, and how to do it safely and with minimal mess. true full 370 d1f46a47-baa9-445e-ac50-cd21709abbcc Goals for Our Holes Take a peek inside our brains: this week we’re recounting our favorite sexual fantasies from 2023, and setting some sex goals for the coming year.
 

New Fantasies | Extortion/Blackmail | Alley Sex | Wet Dreams | Coworkers | Cuckolding | Quora Threads | Last Year’s Goals | Hump! Film Festival | New Goals

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]]> Tue, 23 Jan 2024 20:37:25 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/goals-for-our-holes-d9gg3V5m Take a peek inside our brains: this week we’re recounting our favorite sexual fantasies from 2023, and setting some sex goals for the coming year.
 

New Fantasies | Extortion/Blackmail | Alley Sex | Wet Dreams | Coworkers | Cuckolding | Quora Threads | Last Year’s Goals | Hump! Film Festival | New Goals

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]]> Goals for Our Holes Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:08:43 Take a peek inside our brains: this week we’re recounting our favorite sexual fantasies from 2023, and setting some sex goals for the coming year. Take a peek inside our brains: this week we’re recounting our favorite sexual fantasies from 2023, and setting some sex goals for the coming year. true full 369 d8d5c7b8-c48d-4a73-a695-ee488e71dcc0 Toy Talk Ready to get incredibly nerdy about sex toys? This week we’re discussing the toys we loved most in 2023, as well as recapping the best sex we had in the past year!

 

Standard Glass S-Curve | Magic Wand Rechargeable | Njoy Pure Wand | VixSkin Outlaw | RealCock | Tantus Uncut | Magic Wand Mini | Magic Wand Micro | Fun Factory Vim | Hole Punch Fluke | Uberrime Suavis | Lovense Toys | Miss Rose Paddles | LilFoxToyBox Lego Paddle | Twilight Meadow Creations Raido | Uberrime Fingo | Best Sex | Cage Sex | Chastity | SpareParts Deuce Harness | RodeoH Harness | Kate’s Bandcamp | Meet Billy | Vote For Us in the AVN Fan Awards!

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]]> Tue, 16 Jan 2024 22:00:23 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/toy-talk-w_bUWp3y Ready to get incredibly nerdy about sex toys? This week we’re discussing the toys we loved most in 2023, as well as recapping the best sex we had in the past year!

 

Standard Glass S-Curve | Magic Wand Rechargeable | Njoy Pure Wand | VixSkin Outlaw | RealCock | Tantus Uncut | Magic Wand Mini | Magic Wand Micro | Fun Factory Vim | Hole Punch Fluke | Uberrime Suavis | Lovense Toys | Miss Rose Paddles | LilFoxToyBox Lego Paddle | Twilight Meadow Creations Raido | Uberrime Fingo | Best Sex | Cage Sex | Chastity | SpareParts Deuce Harness | RodeoH Harness | Kate’s Bandcamp | Meet Billy | Vote For Us in the AVN Fan Awards!

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]]> Toy Talk Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:29 Ready to get incredibly nerdy about sex toys? This week we’re discussing the toys we loved most in 2023, as well as recapping the best sex we had in the past year! Ready to get incredibly nerdy about sex toys? This week we’re discussing the toys we loved most in 2023, as well as recapping the best sex we had in the past year! true full 368 080821f4-c8a9-408a-9714-ba7c4eda7b3e Raunchy Retrospective Happy new year! This week we’re discussing some of the big changes we experienced in our sex, kink, and dating lives this past year.
 

How Was 2023? | Sex & Kink Changes | Flure App | New Things We Tried

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]]> Tue, 9 Jan 2024 21:55:43 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/raunchy-retrospective-o1IvEC_M Happy new year! This week we’re discussing some of the big changes we experienced in our sex, kink, and dating lives this past year.
 

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]]> Raunchy Retrospective Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:08:02 Happy new year! This week we’re discussing some of the big changes we experienced in our sex, kink, and dating lives this past year. Happy new year! This week we’re discussing some of the big changes we experienced in our sex, kink, and dating lives this past year. true full 367 19baaa50-a6f2-4ed4-af08-f9ec595aba46 Jizz the Season Happy holidays, friends! This week we’re answering listener questions about navigating sex, kink, and relationships around the holidays.
 

Holiday Complaints | Seasonal Roleplays | Hometown Hookup | Long-Distance Relationships | Voice Memos | Pressure-y Grandparent | Polyam Sadness | Holiday Proposals | Gifts We’d Like

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]]> Tue, 19 Dec 2023 22:33:23 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/jizz-the-season-WOdOFhxK Happy holidays, friends! This week we’re answering listener questions about navigating sex, kink, and relationships around the holidays.
 

Holiday Complaints | Seasonal Roleplays | Hometown Hookup | Long-Distance Relationships | Voice Memos | Pressure-y Grandparent | Polyam Sadness | Holiday Proposals | Gifts We’d Like

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]]> Jizz the Season Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:36 Happy holidays, friends! This week we’re answering listener questions about navigating sex, kink, and relationships around the holidays. Happy holidays, friends! This week we’re answering listener questions about navigating sex, kink, and relationships around the holidays. true full 366 bb3992bc-c775-4897-8642-18e99dca435f Feeling Things Out It can be tricky to determine your sex/kink compatibility with someone you’ve just started flirting with, so this week we’re offering advice on just that.

 

Favorite Pokémon | Sex Journalist Mode | When & How | Flirting Style | Red Flags | Text vs. In Person | Flexibility | Sex Talk Without Sexting | Questions to Ask | Giving Head | Sex Professionals

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]]> Tue, 12 Dec 2023 21:30:13 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/feeling-things-out-6HxKPkTy It can be tricky to determine your sex/kink compatibility with someone you’ve just started flirting with, so this week we’re offering advice on just that.

 

Favorite Pokémon | Sex Journalist Mode | When & How | Flirting Style | Red Flags | Text vs. In Person | Flexibility | Sex Talk Without Sexting | Questions to Ask | Giving Head | Sex Professionals

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]]> Feeling Things Out Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:59:21 It can be tricky to determine your sex/kink compatibility with someone you’ve just started flirting with, so this week we’re offering advice on just that. It can be tricky to determine your sex/kink compatibility with someone you’ve just started flirting with, so this week we’re offering advice on just that. true full 365 0b295938-2c54-4453-8b25-acafc34b02f8 Sage Advice This week Kate chats with Sage Monroe, a phone sex operator and consultant, about the ups and downs of the phone sex business.
 

Getting Into It | Professional vs. Not | Boundaries & Limits | Self-Care | Financial Domination | Hypnokink | Adult Phone Actress | Authenticity vs. Performativity | Emotional Support | Connections with Clients | Taking Notes | Disability Accommodations | Dating Another Operator | Equipment | Multi-Tasking | Continued Popularity | Personal Sex Life | Power Dynamics | Submissive Operators | “Not Real Sex Work” | Perceptiveness | Keeping It Fresh | Consulting | Suitable Traits

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]]> Tue, 5 Dec 2023 21:16:07 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sage-advice-fmog_ghV This week Kate chats with Sage Monroe, a phone sex operator and consultant, about the ups and downs of the phone sex business.
 

Getting Into It | Professional vs. Not | Boundaries & Limits | Self-Care | Financial Domination | Hypnokink | Adult Phone Actress | Authenticity vs. Performativity | Emotional Support | Connections with Clients | Taking Notes | Disability Accommodations | Dating Another Operator | Equipment | Multi-Tasking | Continued Popularity | Personal Sex Life | Power Dynamics | Submissive Operators | “Not Real Sex Work” | Perceptiveness | Keeping It Fresh | Consulting | Suitable Traits

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]]> Sage Advice Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:49:38 This week Kate chats with Sage Monroe, a phone sex operator and consultant, about the ups and downs of the phone sex business. This week Kate chats with Sage Monroe, a phone sex operator and consultant, about the ups and downs of the phone sex business. true full 364 829cd081-435e-4b23-9bff-c2ed29b08b01 No WHAT November?! Since the month is almost done, this week we’re examining the practice of No Nut November and the community around it.

 

Unfortunate Origins | Masturbation & Porn Addiction | Intentions | The Rules | Edging | Partners’ Reactions | New Desires | Risk Factors | Funkit Chess Set | The Big Nut | Kate’s Premature Ejaculation Song

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]]> Tue, 28 Nov 2023 21:16:24 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/no-what-november-6g7kVsv6 Since the month is almost done, this week we’re examining the practice of No Nut November and the community around it.

 

Unfortunate Origins | Masturbation & Porn Addiction | Intentions | The Rules | Edging | Partners’ Reactions | New Desires | Risk Factors | Funkit Chess Set | The Big Nut | Kate’s Premature Ejaculation Song

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]]> No WHAT November?! Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:59:19 Since the month is almost done, this week we’re examining the practice of No Nut November and the community around it. Since the month is almost done, this week we’re examining the practice of No Nut November and the community around it. true full 363 e8ce534e-03a0-46df-8067-b91466262e9c Lackluster Libido If your libido’s low right now, you’re not alone. This week we’re talking about periods of diminished sexual desire and what we like to do about them.

 

Montreal Trip | Out of Practice | Predictable? | Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski | Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire | Confidence & Competence | Novelty | Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel | Independence | Feeling Bad About It | Non-Monogamy | Different Drives | Meta-Communication | Accepting a Rejection | Reassuring a Partner | Reinvigorating Your Libido | Toys

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]]> Tue, 21 Nov 2023 22:18:56 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/lackluster-libido-9bsx8bwW If your libido’s low right now, you’re not alone. This week we’re talking about periods of diminished sexual desire and what we like to do about them.

 

Montreal Trip | Out of Practice | Predictable? | Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski | Responsive vs. Spontaneous Desire | Confidence & Competence | Novelty | Mating in Captivity by Esther Perel | Independence | Feeling Bad About It | Non-Monogamy | Different Drives | Meta-Communication | Accepting a Rejection | Reassuring a Partner | Reinvigorating Your Libido | Toys

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]]> Lackluster Libido Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:05:51 If your libido’s low right now, you’re not alone. This week we’re talking about periods of diminished sexual desire and what we like to do about them. If your libido’s low right now, you’re not alone. This week we’re talking about periods of diminished sexual desire and what we like to do about them. true full 362 403e481f-68d6-41de-8f48-124540a364de Gimme That Big Hard Lock Ever heard of Locktober, the month-long chastity challenge? Kate’s spouse mb recently did it (with Kate as keyholder) and in this episode, the two of them discuss the experience and give advice for potential Locktober newbies.

 

What is Locktober? | Pandemic Popularity | NoFap & Porn Addiction | Committing To It | Benefits of Longer Lockups | Teasing | Begging | Deviceless Chastity | Finding a Keyholder | Keyholder Motivations | Physical & Psychological Effects | Sexual Touch & Orgasms | Lovense Edge, Gush, & Max | Trust | Coming Without Permission | Locktober Community | Polyamory | Power Circuits by Raven Kaldera | No Nut November | Wet Dreams | Advice for First-Timers | Kink3D Cobra Cage | Irritation & Infections | Benefits | Journaling | Distractibility | Gender | mb’s Hypnovember Tweets

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]]> Thu, 16 Nov 2023 05:23:28 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/gimme-that-big-hard-lock-ZS1T0ZbJ Ever heard of Locktober, the month-long chastity challenge? Kate’s spouse mb recently did it (with Kate as keyholder) and in this episode, the two of them discuss the experience and give advice for potential Locktober newbies.

 

What is Locktober? | Pandemic Popularity | NoFap & Porn Addiction | Committing To It | Benefits of Longer Lockups | Teasing | Begging | Deviceless Chastity | Finding a Keyholder | Keyholder Motivations | Physical & Psychological Effects | Sexual Touch & Orgasms | Lovense Edge, Gush, & Max | Trust | Coming Without Permission | Locktober Community | Polyamory | Power Circuits by Raven Kaldera | No Nut November | Wet Dreams | Advice for First-Timers | Kink3D Cobra Cage | Irritation & Infections | Benefits | Journaling | Distractibility | Gender | mb’s Hypnovember Tweets

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]]> Gimme That Big Hard Lock Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:50:54 Ever heard of Locktober, the month-long chastity challenge? Kate’s spouse mb recently did it (with Kate as keyholder) and in this episode, the two of them discuss the experience and give advice for potential Locktober newbies. Ever heard of Locktober, the month-long chastity challenge? Kate’s spouse mb recently did it (with Kate as keyholder) and in this episode, the two of them discuss the experience and give advice for potential Locktober newbies. true full 361 1bf2a7f8-d87a-4679-8e6d-eac08dc1739d Dick or Treat Happy Halloween! This week we’re addressing some seasonal sexy inquiries, about fear play, haunted houses, Chewbacca masks, and more.

 

Turned On By A Costume | Haunted Houses | Mask Safety | Fetish Dreams | Horny 4 Horror | Rickety Bridge Study | Slut-Shaming | Cringey Bloops

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]]> Tue, 31 Oct 2023 19:38:25 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/dick-or-treat-dbM9vDyw Happy Halloween! This week we’re addressing some seasonal sexy inquiries, about fear play, haunted houses, Chewbacca masks, and more.

 

Turned On By A Costume | Haunted Houses | Mask Safety | Fetish Dreams | Horny 4 Horror | Rickety Bridge Study | Slut-Shaming | Cringey Bloops

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]]> Dick or Treat Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:49 Happy Halloween! This week we’re addressing some seasonal sexy inquiries, about fear play, haunted houses, Chewbacca masks, and more. Happy Halloween! This week we’re addressing some seasonal sexy inquiries, about fear play, haunted houses, Chewbacca masks, and more. true full 360 55462250-d533-4203-86a1-73775cf2313c Hot Off the Press This week we’re answering listener questions on erotica and fanfiction!

 

Pearl Necklace Bondage | Finding Kinky & Trans Authors | Heckin’ Lewd | Nerve Endings | Re-Reading | Is Fanfic Just Better? | Influences on Desire | Consent & Safer Sex | Ella Dawson Essay | Content Notes | Moaning & Dirty Talk

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]]> Wed, 25 Oct 2023 18:34:10 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/hot-off-the-press-yyYSRfmd This week we’re answering listener questions on erotica and fanfiction!

 

Pearl Necklace Bondage | Finding Kinky & Trans Authors | Heckin’ Lewd | Nerve Endings | Re-Reading | Is Fanfic Just Better? | Influences on Desire | Consent & Safer Sex | Ella Dawson Essay | Content Notes | Moaning & Dirty Talk

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]]> Hot Off the Press Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:01:23 This week we’re answering listener questions on erotica and fanfiction! This week we’re answering listener questions on erotica and fanfiction! true full 359 3f94a40a-5acb-490d-92c9-7a10680a0ff5 Wet Ink This week we’re discussing our current relationships to erotica and fanfiction, since Kate just had a story published in Rachel Kramer Bussel’s new erotica anthology Sexy Strangers!
 

Erotica vs. Real Life | Erotica vs. Porn | Non-Erotic Fanfic | (Not) Getting Paid | Fix-It Fics | Finding Stories | Picking Kinks for Characters | Hypno Stories | Dirty Talk & Sexting | Flirting | Psychological Turn-Ons | Fantastical & Supernatural | Omegaverse | Pet Peeves

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]]> Tue, 17 Oct 2023 17:09:15 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/wet-ink-4OXkChip This week we’re discussing our current relationships to erotica and fanfiction, since Kate just had a story published in Rachel Kramer Bussel’s new erotica anthology Sexy Strangers!
 

Erotica vs. Real Life | Erotica vs. Porn | Non-Erotic Fanfic | (Not) Getting Paid | Fix-It Fics | Finding Stories | Picking Kinks for Characters | Hypno Stories | Dirty Talk & Sexting | Flirting | Psychological Turn-Ons | Fantastical & Supernatural | Omegaverse | Pet Peeves

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]]> Wet Ink Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:06:03 This week we’re discussing our current relationships to erotica and fanfiction, since Kate just had a story published in Rachel Kramer Bussel’s new erotica anthology Sexy Strangers! This week we’re discussing our current relationships to erotica and fanfiction, since Kate just had a story published in Rachel Kramer Bussel’s new erotica anthology Sexy Strangers! true full 358 07491d66-f012-46ec-be75-266522a4a8c4 Open Impropriety We’re back to talk about polyamory boundary violations some more this week.
 

Cuckolding | Whose Responsibility Is It? | Downstairs DJ’s No Nut November Coin | Kink Rituals | Resentment | Partner Pursues Your Crushes | Fantasizing

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]]> Tue, 10 Oct 2023 21:12:42 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/open-impropriety-z3pZvHQg We’re back to talk about polyamory boundary violations some more this week.
 

Cuckolding | Whose Responsibility Is It? | Downstairs DJ’s No Nut November Coin | Kink Rituals | Resentment | Partner Pursues Your Crushes | Fantasizing

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]]> Open Impropriety Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:54 We’re back to talk about polyamory boundary violations some more this week. We’re back to talk about polyamory boundary violations some more this week. true full 357 a90f9fee-3630-459f-b943-9e87b8e15e68 Over the Line It can be tough to recover when someone violates a relationship agreement in polyamory, but there are ways to prevent this from happening, or to repair after it does. This week we’re talking about boundary oversteps in non-monogamy.

 

Can Polyamorous People Cheat? | Implicit/Assumed Boundaries | Disclosure vs. Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell | Kitchen Table Poly vs. Birthday Party Poly | Scheduling | When to Set Boundaries | Trauma-Informed Polyamory | Whose Responsibility Are Your Feelings? | A Monogamy Interlude | Metamour Resentments

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]]> Tue, 3 Oct 2023 17:42:27 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/over-the-line-Xs4r7FF1 It can be tough to recover when someone violates a relationship agreement in polyamory, but there are ways to prevent this from happening, or to repair after it does. This week we’re talking about boundary oversteps in non-monogamy.

 

Can Polyamorous People Cheat? | Implicit/Assumed Boundaries | Disclosure vs. Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell | Kitchen Table Poly vs. Birthday Party Poly | Scheduling | When to Set Boundaries | Trauma-Informed Polyamory | Whose Responsibility Are Your Feelings? | A Monogamy Interlude | Metamour Resentments

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]]> Over the Line Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:02:35 It can be tough to recover when someone violates a relationship agreement in polyamory, but there are ways to prevent this from happening, or to repair after it does. This week we’re talking about boundary oversteps in non-monogamy. It can be tough to recover when someone violates a relationship agreement in polyamory, but there are ways to prevent this from happening, or to repair after it does. This week we’re talking about boundary oversteps in non-monogamy. true full 356 475f7057-bcf9-4bf7-b0ac-c88143d0279a Fascinating Fetishes This week we’re discussing some unique fetishes that have been posted about on the /r/Sex subreddit recently, including belly buttons, Speedos, and freckles.
 

The Evolution of Fetish Discourse | Screenprinted T-Shirts | Objects & Clothing Items | Speedos | Disinterest | Belly Buttons | Body Markings

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]]> Tue, 26 Sep 2023 19:29:34 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/fascinating-fetishes-rgnRzh6C This week we’re discussing some unique fetishes that have been posted about on the /r/Sex subreddit recently, including belly buttons, Speedos, and freckles.
 

The Evolution of Fetish Discourse | Screenprinted T-Shirts | Objects & Clothing Items | Speedos | Disinterest | Belly Buttons | Body Markings

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]]> Fascinating Fetishes Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:04:44 This week we’re discussing some unique fetishes that have been posted about on the /r/Sex subreddit recently, including belly buttons, Speedos, and freckles. This week we’re discussing some unique fetishes that have been posted about on the /r/Sex subreddit recently, including belly buttons, Speedos, and freckles. true full 355 5d667f0a-5605-458a-9b99-c3e8ca88ba3a Come to Your Senses Limiting one or more senses can have a big effect on how you experience sex and kink. This week we’re talking about sensory deprivation play!

 

Using Blindfolds | Nidra Deep Rest Eye Mask | Anxiety | Blocking Out Light | Fear Play & Surprises | Phone Sex | Sleep Hygiene | Visual Overstimulation | Immersiveness | Facial Expressions | Newbie Tops | Hearing | Hypno Audio Files | Affirmation Noises | Pain Play | Wax & Rope | ADHD | Touch Deprivation | Taste & Smell

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]]> Tue, 19 Sep 2023 20:41:48 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/come-to-your-senses-oP0Y3fqA Limiting one or more senses can have a big effect on how you experience sex and kink. This week we’re talking about sensory deprivation play!

 

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]]> Come to Your Senses Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:57:41 Limiting one or more senses can have a big effect on how you experience sex and kink. This week we’re talking about sensory deprivation play! Limiting one or more senses can have a big effect on how you experience sex and kink. This week we’re talking about sensory deprivation play! true full 354 ca95b804-7d83-414f-875a-f0e49f404a02 I've Scene Enough There’s a lot of debate right now about sex scenes in movies and TV, so this week we’re discussing whether sex scenes are necessary, what makes a great one (or a terrible one), and which ones are our favorites.
 

Content Warnings | Are They “Necessary”? | Sex vs. Violence | Fifty Shades of Grey | Real vs. Moral | Our Favorites | Porn vs. Movies/TV | Safety & Trust | Intimacy Coordinators | Consent On Set

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]]> Tue, 12 Sep 2023 17:38:23 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/ive-scene-enough-g7t_2NqA There’s a lot of debate right now about sex scenes in movies and TV, so this week we’re discussing whether sex scenes are necessary, what makes a great one (or a terrible one), and which ones are our favorites.
 

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]]> I've Scene Enough Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:04:40 There’s a lot of debate right now about sex scenes in movies and TV, so this week we’re discussing whether sex scenes are necessary, what makes a great one (or a terrible one), and which ones are our favorites. There’s a lot of debate right now about sex scenes in movies and TV, so this week we’re discussing whether sex scenes are necessary, what makes a great one (or a terrible one), and which ones are our favorites. true full 353 93eab6e6-97bf-4777-a4a8-3eba95937893 Professional Show-Offs Being an online creator can feel quite exhibitionistic at times, and not always in a sexy way. This week we’re discussing the ups and downs of being very visible online.

 

Not Doin’ Too Good | Personas | Social Media Woes | Infinite Possibilities | Online Boundaries | Prioritizing the Personal | Urgency | Morality & Art | Creative Burnout & Sustainability

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]]> Tue, 5 Sep 2023 21:45:22 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/professional-show-offs-LH9nFTMl Being an online creator can feel quite exhibitionistic at times, and not always in a sexy way. This week we’re discussing the ups and downs of being very visible online.

 

Not Doin’ Too Good | Personas | Social Media Woes | Infinite Possibilities | Online Boundaries | Prioritizing the Personal | Urgency | Morality & Art | Creative Burnout & Sustainability

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]]> Professional Show-Offs Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:47 Being an online creator can feel quite exhibitionistic at times, and not always in a sexy way. This week we’re discussing the ups and downs of being very visible online. Being an online creator can feel quite exhibitionistic at times, and not always in a sexy way. This week we’re discussing the ups and downs of being very visible online. true full 352 25b7cf5c-49d3-41ef-92b9-f994a4f532ae Smooth Move This week we’re discussing “sex moves” that have been propagated by the internet, like the shocker, the rusty trombone, and the knee trick.
 

Are “Moves” Helpful? | Licking the Alphabet | “Come Hither” Motion | Shocker | Shallowing | The Cone | Knee Trick | Kivin Method | Reacharound | Rusty Trombone | Doorframe Lean

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]]> Tue, 29 Aug 2023 18:25:28 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/smooth-move-73XfeTkE This week we’re discussing “sex moves” that have been propagated by the internet, like the shocker, the rusty trombone, and the knee trick.
 

Are “Moves” Helpful? | Licking the Alphabet | “Come Hither” Motion | Shocker | Shallowing | The Cone | Knee Trick | Kivin Method | Reacharound | Rusty Trombone | Doorframe Lean

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]]> Smooth Move Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:03:27 This week we’re discussing “sex moves” that have been propagated by the internet, like the shocker, the rusty trombone, and the knee trick. This week we’re discussing “sex moves” that have been propagated by the internet, like the shocker, the rusty trombone, and the knee trick. true full 351 879c365b-430e-45a7-a4d4-b7155c081811 Deal or No Deal? This week we’re parsing the differences between limits, boundaries, and dealbreakers – and explaining some of our own rules in each category.
 

Definitions | Boundaries vs. Rules | Hard vs. Soft Limits | Dealbreakers | Changes | Relevant vs. Irrelevant Limits | “Bad” Boundaries | Coercion | “Genital Preferences” | Questioning Boundaries | Communicating Limits | Telling Them

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]]> Tue, 22 Aug 2023 19:05:21 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/deal-or-no-deal-ciFk6krd This week we’re parsing the differences between limits, boundaries, and dealbreakers – and explaining some of our own rules in each category.
 

Definitions | Boundaries vs. Rules | Hard vs. Soft Limits | Dealbreakers | Changes | Relevant vs. Irrelevant Limits | “Bad” Boundaries | Coercion | “Genital Preferences” | Questioning Boundaries | Communicating Limits | Telling Them

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]]> Deal or No Deal? Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:08:49 This week we’re parsing the differences between limits, boundaries, and dealbreakers – and explaining some of our own rules in each category. This week we’re parsing the differences between limits, boundaries, and dealbreakers – and explaining some of our own rules in each category. true full 350 2fd4ac01-f11c-40d3-98ca-c6413e108c32 Seeing Red We’re discussing safewords again this week, including how to know when to safeword, how to safeword if you tend to go non-verbal during scenes, and how doms and tops can safeword too.
 

Going Nonverbal | People-Pleasing | When Safewording is the Point | Mollena’s Story | Are Safewords Enough? | Post-Scene Conversations | Should I Safeword? | Doms & Tops Safewording

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]]> Tue, 15 Aug 2023 16:40:13 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/seeing-red-xDEJsQxQ We’re discussing safewords again this week, including how to know when to safeword, how to safeword if you tend to go non-verbal during scenes, and how doms and tops can safeword too.
 

Going Nonverbal | People-Pleasing | When Safewording is the Point | Mollena’s Story | Are Safewords Enough? | Post-Scene Conversations | Should I Safeword? | Doms & Tops Safewording

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]]> Seeing Red Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:53:56 We’re discussing safewords again this week, including how to know when to safeword, how to safeword if you tend to go non-verbal during scenes, and how doms and tops can safeword too. We’re discussing safewords again this week, including how to know when to safeword, how to safeword if you tend to go non-verbal during scenes, and how doms and tops can safeword too. true full 349 75f1b6fb-0a05-4b26-b4fc-f898777cae47 Just Say the Word Safewords are an important tool for many kinksters, so this week we’re discussing what safewords are, when they’re useful, and some tips on how to use them well.
 

Consensual Non-Consent | What is a Safeword? | Stoplight System | Custom Colors | Beige & Green | Playing Without a Safeword | Genuine Distress Method | “Misusing” Safewords | “Ruining the Fun” | What Happens Next?

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]]> Tue, 8 Aug 2023 16:24:43 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/just-say-the-word-7UgSzf_w Safewords are an important tool for many kinksters, so this week we’re discussing what safewords are, when they’re useful, and some tips on how to use them well.
 

Consensual Non-Consent | What is a Safeword? | Stoplight System | Custom Colors | Beige & Green | Playing Without a Safeword | Genuine Distress Method | “Misusing” Safewords | “Ruining the Fun” | What Happens Next?

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]]> Just Say the Word Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:00:20 Safewords are an important tool for many kinksters, so this week we’re discussing what safewords are, when they’re useful, and some tips on how to use them well. Safewords are an important tool for many kinksters, so this week we’re discussing what safewords are, when they’re useful, and some tips on how to use them well. true full 348 29b1e4c8-b709-4543-92ed-72b70bf35578 Selectively Social Sure, we’re pretty sexual people, but are we social? This week we’re discussing our current thoughts on, and strategies for, socializing while the pandemic is still ongoing.
 

Things We Like | Spending Time Alone | Higher Standards | Keeping Conversations Going | Our Struggles | Flirting | How to Reach Out | Real-Time vs. Asynchronous | People Who Aren’t Online

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]]> Tue, 1 Aug 2023 19:58:43 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/selectively-social-5eUUi0Qr Sure, we’re pretty sexual people, but are we social? This week we’re discussing our current thoughts on, and strategies for, socializing while the pandemic is still ongoing.
 

Things We Like | Spending Time Alone | Higher Standards | Keeping Conversations Going | Our Struggles | Flirting | How to Reach Out | Real-Time vs. Asynchronous | People Who Aren’t Online

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]]> Selectively Social Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:06 Sure, we’re pretty sexual people, but are we social? This week we’re discussing our current thoughts on, and strategies for, socializing while the pandemic is still ongoing. Sure, we’re pretty sexual people, but are we social? This week we’re discussing our current thoughts on, and strategies for, socializing while the pandemic is still ongoing. true full 347 89a03382-fd1e-477f-a61c-cc663dc04088 Sperminology This week we’re discussing some more new-ish additions to the sex/kink lexicon, some of which we like and some of which we find baffling.
 

Prejac | Infinity Baby | /r/prejac | Breeding, Breedable, Breeders | Situationship | Hit, Smash | Sniper Position

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]]> Tue, 25 Jul 2023 20:17:05 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sperminology-rfr5BBg_ This week we’re discussing some more new-ish additions to the sex/kink lexicon, some of which we like and some of which we find baffling.
 

Prejac | Infinity Baby | /r/prejac | Breeding, Breedable, Breeders | Situationship | Hit, Smash | Sniper Position

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]]> Sperminology Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:51:01 This week we’re discussing some more new-ish additions to the sex/kink lexicon, some of which we like and some of which we find baffling. This week we’re discussing some more new-ish additions to the sex/kink lexicon, some of which we like and some of which we find baffling. true full 346 60b28370-4ffc-42da-8fbf-f01598c8484b Play on Words This week, your two millennial cohosts debate and discuss the definitions of various sex/kink terms popularized by Gen Z.
 

Feeling Old | Gooning | Simping | Gentle Femdom | Gatekeeping “Kinky” | Pleasure Dom | Girlcock, Boypussy, Etc. | Ghost Penis & Phantom Limbs

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]]> Tue, 18 Jul 2023 18:09:34 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/play-on-words-kerHVSoN This week, your two millennial cohosts debate and discuss the definitions of various sex/kink terms popularized by Gen Z.
 

Feeling Old | Gooning | Simping | Gentle Femdom | Gatekeeping “Kinky” | Pleasure Dom | Girlcock, Boypussy, Etc. | Ghost Penis & Phantom Limbs

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]]> Play on Words Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:08:10 This week, your two millennial cohosts debate and discuss the definitions of various sex/kink terms popularized by Gen Z. This week, your two millennial cohosts debate and discuss the definitions of various sex/kink terms popularized by Gen Z. true full 345 abbefa3e-7056-48a7-954f-995df008bf73 Intimate Brutality Billy just got back from kink camp (Dark Odyssey Fusion) as well as TES Fest, and this week he tells us about what it was like to do both of those kink events back-to-back.
 

Justin McElroy on Gender Reveal | Operations Team | Comparing the Two Events | Space vs. Crowds | Bad Weather | Goals | Emotions | “I’m Working!” | Scenes | Lego Paddle | Communication Skills

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]]> Tue, 11 Jul 2023 18:53:02 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/intimate-brutality-ki9O3wKt Billy just got back from kink camp (Dark Odyssey Fusion) as well as TES Fest, and this week he tells us about what it was like to do both of those kink events back-to-back.
 

Justin McElroy on Gender Reveal | Operations Team | Comparing the Two Events | Space vs. Crowds | Bad Weather | Goals | Emotions | “I’m Working!” | Scenes | Lego Paddle | Communication Skills

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]]> Intimate Brutality Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:00 Billy just got back from kink camp (Dark Odyssey Fusion) as well as TES Fest, and this week he tells us about what it was like to do both of those kink events back-to-back. Billy just got back from kink camp (Dark Odyssey Fusion) as well as TES Fest, and this week he tells us about what it was like to do both of those kink events back-to-back. true full 344 0d1be072-c39e-49d4-8090-89b7303ff1db Cis & Tell In light of Elon Musk recently declaring “cis” to be a slur on Twitter (it’s not), this week Kate is interviewed by her spouse mb about what it means to be cis and how her gender presentation has shifted over time.
 

Cis Isn’t a Slur | Queer Femme Cis Woman | Getting Misgendered | My New Gender Workbook | Boyish Presentation | Cis-Het Male Gaze | Black Leather Chucks | Gender Census | Queer as a Gender | Permanent vs. Malleable | Childhood Clues | Pronouns | Girl Roman Roy | Roman Feminization Fanfic | Medical Treatments & Procedures | GrowYourClit | Internal Family Systems | Gamer Boys | Sex & Kink

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]]> Tue, 4 Jul 2023 19:51:04 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/cis-tell-u6UKy5uz In light of Elon Musk recently declaring “cis” to be a slur on Twitter (it’s not), this week Kate is interviewed by her spouse mb about what it means to be cis and how her gender presentation has shifted over time.
 

Cis Isn’t a Slur | Queer Femme Cis Woman | Getting Misgendered | My New Gender Workbook | Boyish Presentation | Cis-Het Male Gaze | Black Leather Chucks | Gender Census | Queer as a Gender | Permanent vs. Malleable | Childhood Clues | Pronouns | Girl Roman Roy | Roman Feminization Fanfic | Medical Treatments & Procedures | GrowYourClit | Internal Family Systems | Gamer Boys | Sex & Kink

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]]> Cis & Tell Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:03:51 In light of Elon Musk recently declaring “cis” to be a slur on Twitter (it’s not), this week Kate is interviewed by her spouse mb about what it means to be cis and how her gender presentation has shifted over time. In light of Elon Musk recently declaring “cis” to be a slur on Twitter (it’s not), this week Kate is interviewed by her spouse mb about what it means to be cis and how her gender presentation has shifted over time. true full 343 21095828-b738-4422-81ab-0520b75dfef6 Break the Bank This week Kate chats with pro financial dominatrix and kinky comedian Lane Kwederis about findom and her one-woman show, Sex Job!
 

Findom Beginnings | Improv & Theatre | Educating Clients | What Findom Involves | Financial Limitations | What’s Hot About It? | “Mesmerize” | Balancing Professional Identities | Fantasy vs. Reality | Shadow Side | Personal Growth | “Did I Do That For Money?”

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]]> Tue, 27 Jun 2023 17:09:40 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/break-the-bank-YstADCMb This week Kate chats with pro financial dominatrix and kinky comedian Lane Kwederis about findom and her one-woman show, Sex Job!
 

Findom Beginnings | Improv & Theatre | Educating Clients | What Findom Involves | Financial Limitations | What’s Hot About It? | “Mesmerize” | Balancing Professional Identities | Fantasy vs. Reality | Shadow Side | Personal Growth | “Did I Do That For Money?”

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]]> Break the Bank Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:33 This week Kate chats with pro financial dominatrix and kinky comedian Lane Kwederis about findom and her one-woman show, Sex Job! This week Kate chats with pro financial dominatrix and kinky comedian Lane Kwederis about findom and her one-woman show, Sex Job! true full 342 556926c4-5e1a-44cd-9750-2a94a9de3d9a Tears for Queers Crying can be hot, challenging, painful, cathartic, pleasurable, or all of the above. This week we’re talking about our current relationship to crying, in and out of scenes.
 

Crying Daily | Surprise | Making Yourself Cry | A Good Feeling | Fetishizing It | Seeing Others Cry | Gender & Hormones | Childhood Experiences | Looking in the Mirror | Emotions for Emotions’ Sake | Aftercare | Crying on the Phone

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]]> Tue, 20 Jun 2023 19:44:18 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/tears-for-queers-J9E9h4q9 Crying can be hot, challenging, painful, cathartic, pleasurable, or all of the above. This week we’re talking about our current relationship to crying, in and out of scenes.
 

Crying Daily | Surprise | Making Yourself Cry | A Good Feeling | Fetishizing It | Seeing Others Cry | Gender & Hormones | Childhood Experiences | Looking in the Mirror | Emotions for Emotions’ Sake | Aftercare | Crying on the Phone

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]]> Tears for Queers Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:02 Crying can be hot, challenging, painful, cathartic, pleasurable, or all of the above. This week we’re talking about our current relationship to crying, in and out of scenes. Crying can be hot, challenging, painful, cathartic, pleasurable, or all of the above. This week we’re talking about our current relationship to crying, in and out of scenes. true full 341 d4b68b7a-f6fe-423b-936d-c9782f3dcf9a Brat Chat Continuing our discussion of brats, “bad” subs, and “good” subs, this week we talk about how rebellion, humor, and colorful language can be worked into D/s scenes, among other things.
 

“Is That an Order?” | Responses to “Make Me” | Bratty Doms | Humor & Laughter | Fun with Language | Finding Non-Bratty Subs | Punishment Concerns | Disrespectful Honorifics

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]]> Tue, 13 Jun 2023 16:31:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/brat-chat-1qrRe9Ni Continuing our discussion of brats, “bad” subs, and “good” subs, this week we talk about how rebellion, humor, and colorful language can be worked into D/s scenes, among other things.
 

“Is That an Order?” | Responses to “Make Me” | Bratty Doms | Humor & Laughter | Fun with Language | Finding Non-Bratty Subs | Punishment Concerns | Disrespectful Honorifics

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]]> Brat Chat Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:43 Continuing our discussion of brats, “bad” subs, and “good” subs, this week we talk about how rebellion, humor, and colorful language can be worked into D/s scenes, among other things. Continuing our discussion of brats, “bad” subs, and “good” subs, this week we talk about how rebellion, humor, and colorful language can be worked into D/s scenes, among other things. true full 340 f5f592a7-b611-4ce3-8cff-b5edc1bb1a29 Bad to the Bone Some submissives like to be “good,” some like to be “bad,” some like to be “bratty,” and some prefer a combination or like to mix things up. This week we discuss the motivations and manifestations of these various orientations to submission.
 

Good vs. Bad vs. Bratty | Psychological Motivations | Emotional Masochism & Humiliation | Childhood Experiences | What Do We Prefer? | “Disrespectful” Brats | Safewords & Check-Ins | Conflict | Beginner Brat Tips

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]]> Tue, 6 Jun 2023 20:04:18 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/bad-to-the-bone-3o3T8gen Some submissives like to be “good,” some like to be “bad,” some like to be “bratty,” and some prefer a combination or like to mix things up. This week we discuss the motivations and manifestations of these various orientations to submission.
 

Good vs. Bad vs. Bratty | Psychological Motivations | Emotional Masochism & Humiliation | Childhood Experiences | What Do We Prefer? | “Disrespectful” Brats | Safewords & Check-Ins | Conflict | Beginner Brat Tips

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]]> Bad to the Bone Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:57:13 Some submissives like to be “good,” some like to be “bad,” some like to be “bratty,” and some prefer a combination or like to mix things up. This week we discuss the motivations and manifestations of these various orientations to submission. Some submissives like to be “good,” some like to be “bad,” some like to be “bratty,” and some prefer a combination or like to mix things up. This week we discuss the motivations and manifestations of these various orientations to submission. true full 339 885f2ce9-bef6-4662-8fd5-274e08b9faaf Gremlin Container This week Billy is interviewed by his boyfriend Dee Darkholme about “free use” kink, a type of consensual non-consent… while planning a free use scene they’re gonna do after the recording!
 

Definition | What’s Hot About It? | Hedonism | Negotiation | Activities

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]]> Tue, 30 May 2023 20:13:33 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/gremlin-container-rHxq1K14 This week Billy is interviewed by his boyfriend Dee Darkholme about “free use” kink, a type of consensual non-consent… while planning a free use scene they’re gonna do after the recording!
 

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]]> Gremlin Container Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:18 This week Billy is interviewed by his boyfriend Dee Darkholme about “free use” kink, a type of consensual non-consent… while planning a free use scene they’re gonna do after the recording! This week Billy is interviewed by his boyfriend Dee Darkholme about “free use” kink, a type of consensual non-consent… while planning a free use scene they’re gonna do after the recording! true full 338 f65bd989-67d6-4387-bad1-f0ef1b4384ea State of the Masturbation Nation Happy Masturbation Month! This week we’re talking about our ever-evolving relationships to masturbation and how it all relates to self-love, self-compassion, and living a good life.
 

Our Solo-Sex History | Truly Solo Masturbation | Neurochemical Effects | Goal-Oriented | A “Waste of Time”? | Flirty Sexy Energy | Time Off to Recharge | Doing Stuff for Content | “Assisted” Masturbation

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]]> Tue, 23 May 2023 21:25:46 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/state-of-the-masturbation-nation-m78naOqA Happy Masturbation Month! This week we’re talking about our ever-evolving relationships to masturbation and how it all relates to self-love, self-compassion, and living a good life.
 

Our Solo-Sex History | Truly Solo Masturbation | Neurochemical Effects | Goal-Oriented | A “Waste of Time”? | Flirty Sexy Energy | Time Off to Recharge | Doing Stuff for Content | “Assisted” Masturbation

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]]> State of the Masturbation Nation Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:06:37 Happy Masturbation Month! This week we’re talking about our ever-evolving relationships to masturbation and how it all relates to self-love, self-compassion, and living a good life. Happy Masturbation Month! This week we’re talking about our ever-evolving relationships to masturbation and how it all relates to self-love, self-compassion, and living a good life. true full 337 546e92f0-b7b4-473f-b4ba-71d2ed425429 Mommy Dearest This week we’re (belatedly) celebrating Mother’s Day by talking about mommy kink – plus a decent amount of daddy kink thrown in for good measure.
 

Succession Fanfiction | Humiliation & Meanness | Nurturing & Caretaking | Pro Dom(me)s | Mommy Issues | Popularization & Destigmatization | Incest Roleplay & Dark Ageplay (19:47–24:28) | Feelings & Vibes | Decisiveness | 24/7 vs. Not | Genderlessness | Are We Into It? | Campiness | Abuse | Freud

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]]> Tue, 16 May 2023 19:45:48 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/mommy-dearest-k8TO5bk_ This week we’re (belatedly) celebrating Mother’s Day by talking about mommy kink – plus a decent amount of daddy kink thrown in for good measure.
 

Succession Fanfiction | Humiliation & Meanness | Nurturing & Caretaking | Pro Dom(me)s | Mommy Issues | Popularization & Destigmatization | Incest Roleplay & Dark Ageplay (19:47–24:28) | Feelings & Vibes | Decisiveness | 24/7 vs. Not | Genderlessness | Are We Into It? | Campiness | Abuse | Freud

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]]> Mommy Dearest Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:17 This week we’re (belatedly) celebrating Mother’s Day by talking about mommy kink – plus a decent amount of daddy kink thrown in for good measure. This week we’re (belatedly) celebrating Mother’s Day by talking about mommy kink – plus a decent amount of daddy kink thrown in for good measure. true full 336 258676ef-27f4-4f9a-99c5-917d02c7e5e2 Sublime Submission We’re so excited this week to be chatting with Mollena Lee Williams-Haas, a kink educator, podcaster, author, and performer. We got into a fascinating discussion about how kink can help you reconnect with your body, deepen your intimacy, push your boundaries and heal from your trauma.
 

Kink Doula | Reconnecting with the Body | Group Sex | Sustaining 24/7 Dynamics | Being the Bad Guy | Aftercare | Slavery (29:00–31:15) | Panda & HypnoStory’s Hypnokink 101 Class | Pushback from the Community | Having Nuanced Conversations | Where Do Kinks Come From? | Star Trek | Race Play & Racism (48:38–52:38) | Kink as Play | The Prime Directive | Having “No Limits”

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]]> Tue, 9 May 2023 19:44:16 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sublime-submission-z_8qZL5Y We’re so excited this week to be chatting with Mollena Lee Williams-Haas, a kink educator, podcaster, author, and performer. We got into a fascinating discussion about how kink can help you reconnect with your body, deepen your intimacy, push your boundaries and heal from your trauma.
 

Kink Doula | Reconnecting with the Body | Group Sex | Sustaining 24/7 Dynamics | Being the Bad Guy | Aftercare | Slavery (29:00–31:15) | Panda & HypnoStory’s Hypnokink 101 Class | Pushback from the Community | Having Nuanced Conversations | Where Do Kinks Come From? | Star Trek | Race Play & Racism (48:38–52:38) | Kink as Play | The Prime Directive | Having “No Limits”

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]]> Sublime Submission Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:04:15 We’re so excited this week to be chatting with Mollena Lee Williams-Haas, a kink educator, podcaster, author, and performer. We got into a fascinating discussion about how kink can help you reconnect with your body, deepen your intimacy, push your boundaries and heal from your trauma. We’re so excited this week to be chatting with Mollena Lee Williams-Haas, a kink educator, podcaster, author, and performer. We got into a fascinating discussion about how kink can help you reconnect with your body, deepen your intimacy, push your boundaries and heal from your trauma. true full 335 92e85c10-cb35-47b2-ab82-2501ace5828c Going Under This week Kate has a nerdy chat with Sleepingirl, an author, podcaster, and long-time hypnokinkster who has created numerous erotic hypnosis resources, including LearnHypnokink.com.
 

Early Days of Hypno Fetishism | LearnHypnokink.com | Subject Skills | Milton Erickson & Utilization | Pacing & Leading | Consent in Trance | HypnoStory & Panda’s 101 Class | Meeting Other Fetishists | Long-Distance Play | Space & Silence | Creativity | Flow State | Mindfulness, Meditation & Magic | Quakerism | Six Days Asleep

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]]> Tue, 25 Apr 2023 18:41:50 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/going-under-GvLyVjLE This week Kate has a nerdy chat with Sleepingirl, an author, podcaster, and long-time hypnokinkster who has created numerous erotic hypnosis resources, including LearnHypnokink.com.
 

Early Days of Hypno Fetishism | LearnHypnokink.com | Subject Skills | Milton Erickson & Utilization | Pacing & Leading | Consent in Trance | HypnoStory & Panda’s 101 Class | Meeting Other Fetishists | Long-Distance Play | Space & Silence | Creativity | Flow State | Mindfulness, Meditation & Magic | Quakerism | Six Days Asleep

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]]> Going Under Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:07 This week Kate has a nerdy chat with Sleepingirl, an author, podcaster, and long-time hypnokinkster who has created numerous erotic hypnosis resources, including LearnHypnokink.com. This week Kate has a nerdy chat with Sleepingirl, an author, podcaster, and long-time hypnokinkster who has created numerous erotic hypnosis resources, including LearnHypnokink.com. true full 334 36c7d359-75f0-4e52-ac01-fbec629d90f1 Your Ass is Grass It’s that time again: this week we’re celebrating 4/20 by getting blazed and answering “highpothetical” questions about sex and kink! Tune in for a jam-packed, silly discussion of questions like “Would you want to be able to read your partner’s mind during sex?” and “What one kink implement would you take on a desert island?”
 

Last Prisoner Project | Cannabis Amnesty | Destigmatizing a Kink | One Type of Orgasm | Museum/Theme Park | HypnoStory & Panda’s Hypnokink 101 Class | Speedrunners | Fanfiction | Guided Masturbation | Mind-Reading | Desert Island Implement | Scene From Fiction | Our Future Selves

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]]> Tue, 18 Apr 2023 20:10:48 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/your-ass-is-grass-sucnXnA_ It’s that time again: this week we’re celebrating 4/20 by getting blazed and answering “highpothetical” questions about sex and kink! Tune in for a jam-packed, silly discussion of questions like “Would you want to be able to read your partner’s mind during sex?” and “What one kink implement would you take on a desert island?”
 

Last Prisoner Project | Cannabis Amnesty | Destigmatizing a Kink | One Type of Orgasm | Museum/Theme Park | HypnoStory & Panda’s Hypnokink 101 Class | Speedrunners | Fanfiction | Guided Masturbation | Mind-Reading | Desert Island Implement | Scene From Fiction | Our Future Selves

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]]> Your Ass is Grass Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:12:37 It’s that time again: this week we’re celebrating 4/20 by getting blazed and answering “highpothetical” questions about sex and kink! Tune in for a jam-packed, silly discussion of questions like “Would you want to be able to read your partner’s mind during sex?” and “What one kink implement would you take on a desert island?” It’s that time again: this week we’re celebrating 4/20 by getting blazed and answering “highpothetical” questions about sex and kink! Tune in for a jam-packed, silly discussion of questions like “Would you want to be able to read your partner’s mind during sex?” and “What one kink implement would you take on a desert island?” true full 333 fc758f3c-df7c-47ec-abc3-0160f01211e3 Facials, Furries, & Fingering This week we’re answering random sex advice questions, like: Is it hotter to wear a suit, or sweatpants? How can you enjoy sex when you’re trying not to come? And does jerking off to Lola Bunny make you a furry?
 

Facials | Fingering | Trying Not to Come | Dressed Up vs. Dressed Down | Lesbian Dating Men | Furries

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]]> Tue, 11 Apr 2023 19:43:47 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/facials-furries-fingering-yIteNKQw This week we’re answering random sex advice questions, like: Is it hotter to wear a suit, or sweatpants? How can you enjoy sex when you’re trying not to come? And does jerking off to Lola Bunny make you a furry?
 

Facials | Fingering | Trying Not to Come | Dressed Up vs. Dressed Down | Lesbian Dating Men | Furries

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]]> Facials, Furries, & Fingering Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:04:16 This week we’re answering random sex advice questions, like: Is it hotter to wear a suit, or sweatpants? How can you enjoy sex when you’re trying not to come? And does jerking off to Lola Bunny make you a furry? This week we’re answering random sex advice questions, like: Is it hotter to wear a suit, or sweatpants? How can you enjoy sex when you’re trying not to come? And does jerking off to Lola Bunny make you a furry? true full 332 c07cedd3-40e3-4ba8-b35b-c542a4afb2f7 Horny Story Lore This week Billy is joined by his partner, Dee Darkholme, for a nerdy discussion of kinky roleplay: how characters get developed, which characters and tropes come up most often in their relationship, and how to make roles feel natural and authentic.
 

Nerdery | Roleplayer Radar | Cringe & Campiness | Kink vs. Sex | Taboo | ADHD Benefits | Aliens | Age Play | Robots | How Roles Evolve | Fantasizing During Sex | Developing Lore | Authenticity | Motivations | Connection | Date Nights | Our Previous Roleplay Episode

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]]> Tue, 4 Apr 2023 18:47:58 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/horny-story-lore-pNLZRzg2 This week Billy is joined by his partner, Dee Darkholme, for a nerdy discussion of kinky roleplay: how characters get developed, which characters and tropes come up most often in their relationship, and how to make roles feel natural and authentic.
 

Nerdery | Roleplayer Radar | Cringe & Campiness | Kink vs. Sex | Taboo | ADHD Benefits | Aliens | Age Play | Robots | How Roles Evolve | Fantasizing During Sex | Developing Lore | Authenticity | Motivations | Connection | Date Nights | Our Previous Roleplay Episode

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]]> Horny Story Lore Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:07:41 This week Billy is joined by his partner, Dee Darkholme, for a nerdy discussion of kinky roleplay: how characters get developed, which characters and tropes come up most often in their relationship, and how to make roles feel natural and authentic. This week Billy is joined by his partner, Dee Darkholme, for a nerdy discussion of kinky roleplay: how characters get developed, which characters and tropes come up most often in their relationship, and how to make roles feel natural and authentic. true full 331 ab56b3c6-7321-47e7-938c-517ca4933183 Constructive Cliticism We’ve both reviewed a LOT of sex toys, so this week we’re talking about the intricacies of sex toy reviewing: what makes a good review, how we test toys, and how readers can find reviewers whose opinions they trust.
 

How We Got Into It | Sexy Video Reviews | Testing Process | Hey Epiphora | Bad Toys | Choosing Toys | Annoying Misconceptions | “Soft Skills” | Review Format | SEO-ification | Good vs. Bad Reviews | Reviewers’ Preferences | Number of Sessions | Testing Sessions | Brands’ Reactions | Finding Ethical Reviewers | Art vs. Sales

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]]> Tue, 28 Mar 2023 14:03:46 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/constructive-cliticism-027F8veX We’ve both reviewed a LOT of sex toys, so this week we’re talking about the intricacies of sex toy reviewing: what makes a good review, how we test toys, and how readers can find reviewers whose opinions they trust.
 

How We Got Into It | Sexy Video Reviews | Testing Process | Hey Epiphora | Bad Toys | Choosing Toys | Annoying Misconceptions | “Soft Skills” | Review Format | SEO-ification | Good vs. Bad Reviews | Reviewers’ Preferences | Number of Sessions | Testing Sessions | Brands’ Reactions | Finding Ethical Reviewers | Art vs. Sales

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]]> Constructive Cliticism Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:01:54 We’ve both reviewed a LOT of sex toys, so this week we’re talking about the intricacies of sex toy reviewing: what makes a good review, how we test toys, and how readers can find reviewers whose opinions they trust. We’ve both reviewed a LOT of sex toys, so this week we’re talking about the intricacies of sex toy reviewing: what makes a good review, how we test toys, and how readers can find reviewers whose opinions they trust. true full 330 12f9f537-0d6a-4f84-aae5-07587dd50e70 Living on the Edge Edging and denial go together very well, and this week we’re talking about both: why they can be fun, why they can be annoying and difficult, and how to do them well as a top and as a bottom.
 

Eroticizing Celibacy | Bottoming vs. Topping | Punishments & “Failure” | Ruined Orgasms | Velvet Veronica | Self-Control vs. Collaboration | Edging vs. Gooning | Altered States | Disinhibition & Vulnerability | Long-Distance | Asynchrony | Long-Term Denial | Intensity | Getting Annoyed & Giving Up | Endorphins | How to Improve

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]]> Tue, 21 Mar 2023 20:42:15 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/living-on-the-edge-tlcnqxkf Edging and denial go together very well, and this week we’re talking about both: why they can be fun, why they can be annoying and difficult, and how to do them well as a top and as a bottom.
 

Eroticizing Celibacy | Bottoming vs. Topping | Punishments & “Failure” | Ruined Orgasms | Velvet Veronica | Self-Control vs. Collaboration | Edging vs. Gooning | Altered States | Disinhibition & Vulnerability | Long-Distance | Asynchrony | Long-Term Denial | Intensity | Getting Annoyed & Giving Up | Endorphins | How to Improve

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]]> Living on the Edge Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:02 Edging and denial go together very well, and this week we’re talking about both: why they can be fun, why they can be annoying and difficult, and how to do them well as a top and as a bottom. Edging and denial go together very well, and this week we’re talking about both: why they can be fun, why they can be annoying and difficult, and how to do them well as a top and as a bottom. true full 329 f9dde53c-b83a-4bce-b18a-06c91cccab23 Mental Help Depression can put a strain on relationships, but it doesn’t have to! This week we’re talking to our friend JoEllen Notte, an author and mental health advocate, about her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends & Family.

 

“Are You Mad At Me?!” | How It Came to Be | Interview Process | Pandemic Changes | Check On Your Friends | Choosing Kindness | “Not My Place” | “Just Do It” | Overlap with ADHD | Interview Self-Care | Bringing Food | Postponing Difficult Conversations | Ring Theory | Taking Breaks

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]]> Tue, 14 Mar 2023 19:11:59 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/mental-help-VvaU_p6P Depression can put a strain on relationships, but it doesn’t have to! This week we’re talking to our friend JoEllen Notte, an author and mental health advocate, about her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends & Family.

 

“Are You Mad At Me?!” | How It Came to Be | Interview Process | Pandemic Changes | Check On Your Friends | Choosing Kindness | “Not My Place” | “Just Do It” | Overlap with ADHD | Interview Self-Care | Bringing Food | Postponing Difficult Conversations | Ring Theory | Taking Breaks

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]]> Mental Help Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:04:12 Depression can put a strain on relationships, but it doesn’t have to! This week we’re talking to our friend JoEllen Notte, an author and mental health advocate, about her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends & Family. Depression can put a strain on relationships, but it doesn’t have to! This week we’re talking to our friend JoEllen Notte, an author and mental health advocate, about her new book In It Together: Navigating Depression with Partners, Friends & Family. true full 328 b3b09a86-e98b-4c8a-a65a-a6060bc27986 Thanks, I Hate It Sometimes. paradoxically, it’s fun to suffer! This week we’re talking about suffering in a kink context: why we (sometimes) like it, how to do it safely, and how it differs from plain ol’ sadomasochism.
 

Drug Shortages | Pain as Pleasure | Is Suffering Sexual? | Sex as Aftercare | Pain vs. Suffering | Emotional Suffering | Justifiably Having a Bad Time | Sensory Nightmares | Gender Conditioning | Soft Limits vs. Hard Limits | Safewords | Consensual Non-Consent | Tips for Tops | Fear & Sadism

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]]> Tue, 7 Mar 2023 16:08:17 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/thanks-i-hate-it-b4y_q36K Sometimes. paradoxically, it’s fun to suffer! This week we’re talking about suffering in a kink context: why we (sometimes) like it, how to do it safely, and how it differs from plain ol’ sadomasochism.
 

Drug Shortages | Pain as Pleasure | Is Suffering Sexual? | Sex as Aftercare | Pain vs. Suffering | Emotional Suffering | Justifiably Having a Bad Time | Sensory Nightmares | Gender Conditioning | Soft Limits vs. Hard Limits | Safewords | Consensual Non-Consent | Tips for Tops | Fear & Sadism

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]]> Thanks, I Hate It Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:54:21 Sometimes. paradoxically, it’s fun to suffer! This week we’re talking about suffering in a kink context: why we (sometimes) like it, how to do it safely, and how it differs from plain ol’ sadomasochism. Sometimes. paradoxically, it’s fun to suffer! This week we’re talking about suffering in a kink context: why we (sometimes) like it, how to do it safely, and how it differs from plain ol’ sadomasochism. true full 327 13443cb9-1012-4af8-a47b-9436d8e55b88 Not Now, Honey It can be embarrassing (or hot! or both!) to come at the “wrong” time. This week we’re talking about inopportunely-timed orgasms, why they can be sexy as hell, and how to navigate any shame or awkwardness they might trigger.
 

Orgasm Control | Ruined Orgasms | Hormone Changes | Tampon in Science Class | Bathroom Sex | Premature Ejaculation Kink | “Try Not to Come” | Coming Untouched | Post-Orgasm Exhaustion | Coming While Giving Head | Wet Dreams | Nipple Orgasms | Vulnerability

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]]> Tue, 28 Feb 2023 17:50:18 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/not-now-honey-LBC9UGoX It can be embarrassing (or hot! or both!) to come at the “wrong” time. This week we’re talking about inopportunely-timed orgasms, why they can be sexy as hell, and how to navigate any shame or awkwardness they might trigger.
 

Orgasm Control | Ruined Orgasms | Hormone Changes | Tampon in Science Class | Bathroom Sex | Premature Ejaculation Kink | “Try Not to Come” | Coming Untouched | Post-Orgasm Exhaustion | Coming While Giving Head | Wet Dreams | Nipple Orgasms | Vulnerability

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]]> Not Now, Honey Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:27 It can be embarrassing (or hot! or both!) to come at the “wrong” time. This week we’re talking about inopportunely-timed orgasms, why they can be sexy as hell, and how to navigate any shame or awkwardness they might trigger. It can be embarrassing (or hot! or both!) to come at the “wrong” time. This week we’re talking about inopportunely-timed orgasms, why they can be sexy as hell, and how to navigate any shame or awkwardness they might trigger. true full 326 79efafab-6eae-475c-8aeb-d6884d90ce7d Role Me Over Roleplay is a big part of both our sex/kink lives, but what does it actually mean to play a role? This week we’re diving into the intricacies of playing a character in scenes.

 

Full-Time Daddy-Domming | Trivialization of Roleplay | Performance & Acting | Archetypes & Stock Characters | “What Would They Do?” | Character Creation | Humiliation & Bullying | Robots & Aliens | Lore | Character Exercises | Plot Progression | Headspaces | Breaking Character

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]]> Tue, 21 Feb 2023 21:35:54 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/role-me-over-Uutuwe8S Roleplay is a big part of both our sex/kink lives, but what does it actually mean to play a role? This week we’re diving into the intricacies of playing a character in scenes.

 

Full-Time Daddy-Domming | Trivialization of Roleplay | Performance & Acting | Archetypes & Stock Characters | “What Would They Do?” | Character Creation | Humiliation & Bullying | Robots & Aliens | Lore | Character Exercises | Plot Progression | Headspaces | Breaking Character

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]]> Role Me Over Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:06:53 Roleplay is a big part of both our sex/kink lives, but what does it actually mean to play a role? This week we’re diving into the intricacies of playing a character in scenes. Roleplay is a big part of both our sex/kink lives, but what does it actually mean to play a role? This week we’re diving into the intricacies of playing a character in scenes. true full 325 c25e8b01-e3d6-4f7e-9a5d-bbe012d9be3f Roses Are Red, Etc. Happy Valentine’s Day to all who celebrate! This week we’re discussing the pros and cons of this “Hallmark holiday” and answering listener questions about Valentine’s celebrations.
 

Sex Toy Retail | How We Celebrate | Romance Aesthetic | What’s the Point? | Why the Hate? | Celebrating Solo | Judgment | Misogyny | Gendered Narratives | Anniversaries | Obligation | Mismatched Enthusiasm | Friendships | Jerkmate.com | Year-Round Romance | Everybody Loves Raymond | Early Dating | Kate’s Worst Valentine’s Day Ever

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]]> Tue, 14 Feb 2023 18:45:03 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/roses-are-red-etc-qZ4qAtYF Happy Valentine’s Day to all who celebrate! This week we’re discussing the pros and cons of this “Hallmark holiday” and answering listener questions about Valentine’s celebrations.
 

Sex Toy Retail | How We Celebrate | Romance Aesthetic | What’s the Point? | Why the Hate? | Celebrating Solo | Judgment | Misogyny | Gendered Narratives | Anniversaries | Obligation | Mismatched Enthusiasm | Friendships | Jerkmate.com | Year-Round Romance | Everybody Loves Raymond | Early Dating | Kate’s Worst Valentine’s Day Ever

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]]> Roses Are Red, Etc. Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:00:09 Happy Valentine’s Day to all who celebrate! This week we’re discussing the pros and cons of this “Hallmark holiday” and answering listener questions about Valentine’s celebrations. Happy Valentine’s Day to all who celebrate! This week we’re discussing the pros and cons of this “Hallmark holiday” and answering listener questions about Valentine’s celebrations. true full 324 ec930ee4-a514-45fe-babe-baf0bf487e28 Sanitize Me Daddy Even though we both make sex media, we’ve both felt pressured to “sanitize” what we do from time to time. This week we discuss professionalism, personas, posting nudes on main, and other aspects of this balancing act.

 

“Professionalism” | Different Places & Voices | Getting Exxxplicit | Sexy vs. Educational | Developing a Voice | Hurts So Good | Boundary-Crossing | Exhibitionistic Thrill | Posting Nudes | Jerkmate.com | Sex Work Persona | Flirting Problems | SESTA/FOSTA | Payment Processor Issues

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]]> Tue, 7 Feb 2023 20:37:12 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sanitize-me-daddy-J65XPw0W Even though we both make sex media, we’ve both felt pressured to “sanitize” what we do from time to time. This week we discuss professionalism, personas, posting nudes on main, and other aspects of this balancing act.

 

“Professionalism” | Different Places & Voices | Getting Exxxplicit | Sexy vs. Educational | Developing a Voice | Hurts So Good | Boundary-Crossing | Exhibitionistic Thrill | Posting Nudes | Jerkmate.com | Sex Work Persona | Flirting Problems | SESTA/FOSTA | Payment Processor Issues

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]]> Sanitize Me Daddy Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:03:15 Even though we both make sex media, we’ve both felt pressured to “sanitize” what we do from time to time. This week we discuss professionalism, personas, posting nudes on main, and other aspects of this balancing act. Even though we both make sex media, we’ve both felt pressured to “sanitize” what we do from time to time. This week we discuss professionalism, personas, posting nudes on main, and other aspects of this balancing act. true full 323 88678997-e848-4c03-ad61-ff2943970675 Hate 2 Date Why are dating apps so bad?! This week, we discuss some of our issues with dating apps and (maybe) some ways to work around these problems.
 

Fake Profiles | Dopamine Hit | Gamification & Capitalism | Everyone Seems Boring | Specific vs. General | Flirty vs. Explicit | Twitter | Jerkmate.com | Holding a Conversation | Munches | Grindr Dick Pics | Consent Paradigms | Pushing Boundaries

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]]> Tue, 31 Jan 2023 21:37:56 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/hate-2-date-Jm5TJCV2 Why are dating apps so bad?! This week, we discuss some of our issues with dating apps and (maybe) some ways to work around these problems.
 

Fake Profiles | Dopamine Hit | Gamification & Capitalism | Everyone Seems Boring | Specific vs. General | Flirty vs. Explicit | Twitter | Jerkmate.com | Holding a Conversation | Munches | Grindr Dick Pics | Consent Paradigms | Pushing Boundaries

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]]> Hate 2 Date Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:06:15 Why are dating apps so bad?! This week, we discuss some of our issues with dating apps and (maybe) some ways to work around these problems. Why are dating apps so bad?! This week, we discuss some of our issues with dating apps and (maybe) some ways to work around these problems. true full 322 7c723c44-873b-4b62-abe6-1c804deb4d03 Yeet Those Teets Billy’s partner Dee Darkholme just got top surgery, so this week, the two of them discuss the process of deciding to get it, what the actual procedure was like, and how recovery has been.
 

The Basics | Pre-Surgical Process | How to Decide / Being Non-Binary | Porn & Monetization | No Nipples | Doctors’ Assumptions | Binder vs. No Binder | Recovery Difficulties | Drains | Looking Forward | Clothes | Rope

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]]> Tue, 24 Jan 2023 20:01:40 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/yeet-those-teets-TpakUqcL Billy’s partner Dee Darkholme just got top surgery, so this week, the two of them discuss the process of deciding to get it, what the actual procedure was like, and how recovery has been.
 

The Basics | Pre-Surgical Process | How to Decide / Being Non-Binary | Porn & Monetization | No Nipples | Doctors’ Assumptions | Binder vs. No Binder | Recovery Difficulties | Drains | Looking Forward | Clothes | Rope

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]]> Yeet Those Teets Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:43 Billy’s partner Dee Darkholme just got top surgery, so this week, the two of them discuss the process of deciding to get it, what the actual procedure was like, and how recovery has been. Billy’s partner Dee Darkholme just got top surgery, so this week, the two of them discuss the process of deciding to get it, what the actual procedure was like, and how recovery has been. true full 321 724492cb-bb45-4ae7-967d-b114d8d8ab2c Anal Ambitions We both want to do more butt stuff this year, so in this episode we discuss our experiences with anal play, our reasons for wanting more of it, and our tips for doing it well.


 

Pure Plugs | Our Butts’ Histories | Rimming | Why? | Enjoyable Experiences | Roleplays | CNC (27:08–30:14) | Hygiene Anxieties | Enemas | How It “Should” Feel | Anal Training Regimen | The Brainwashing Book

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]]> Tue, 17 Jan 2023 21:46:13 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/anal-ambitions-SXgSKZV8 We both want to do more butt stuff this year, so in this episode we discuss our experiences with anal play, our reasons for wanting more of it, and our tips for doing it well.


 

Pure Plugs | Our Butts’ Histories | Rimming | Why? | Enjoyable Experiences | Roleplays | CNC (27:08–30:14) | Hygiene Anxieties | Enemas | How It “Should” Feel | Anal Training Regimen | The Brainwashing Book

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]]> Anal Ambitions Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:34 We both want to do more butt stuff this year, so in this episode we discuss our experiences with anal play, our reasons for wanting more of it, and our tips for doing it well. We both want to do more butt stuff this year, so in this episode we discuss our experiences with anal play, our reasons for wanting more of it, and our tips for doing it well. true full 320 7343d544-dd31-4aef-8c3a-7f46f8b2928f What's Next in Sex? What did we accomplish sexually in 2022, and what are our sex & kink goals for 2023? This week we’re discussing all that, plus our best sex sessions of the year.


 

“Amateur” Porn | Best Sex | A Good Dick | Strap-On Sex | Coming from Oral | Ambulance Sex | Last Year’s Goals | New Goals | Anal

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]]> Tue, 10 Jan 2023 20:36:47 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/whats-next-in-sex-Ok_c_oYK What did we accomplish sexually in 2022, and what are our sex & kink goals for 2023? This week we’re discussing all that, plus our best sex sessions of the year.


 

“Amateur” Porn | Best Sex | A Good Dick | Strap-On Sex | Coming from Oral | Ambulance Sex | Last Year’s Goals | New Goals | Anal

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]]> What's Next in Sex? Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:01:36 What did we accomplish sexually in 2022, and what are our sex & kink goals for 2023? This week we’re discussing all that, plus our best sex sessions of the year. What did we accomplish sexually in 2022, and what are our sex & kink goals for 2023? This week we’re discussing all that, plus our best sex sessions of the year. true full 319 4cf2a918-c475-4082-b67b-2889daade831 A Hole New Year Happy new year! This week we’re reflecting on our sex/kink/dating lives in 2022: new things we tried, new toys we enjoyed, new fantasies we couldn’t stop thinking about, etc.

 

Biggest Differences | New Things | Cum | Phased Out | Sex Toys | Fantasies | American Horror Story | Dee’s Top Surgery Fundraiser

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]]> Tue, 3 Jan 2023 18:35:44 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/a-hole-new-year-KvyzaIZ_ Happy new year! This week we’re reflecting on our sex/kink/dating lives in 2022: new things we tried, new toys we enjoyed, new fantasies we couldn’t stop thinking about, etc.

 

Biggest Differences | New Things | Cum | Phased Out | Sex Toys | Fantasies | American Horror Story | Dee’s Top Surgery Fundraiser

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]]> A Hole New Year Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:50:38 Happy new year! This week we’re reflecting on our sex/kink/dating lives in 2022: new things we tried, new toys we enjoyed, new fantasies we couldn’t stop thinking about, etc. Happy new year! This week we’re reflecting on our sex/kink/dating lives in 2022: new things we tried, new toys we enjoyed, new fantasies we couldn’t stop thinking about, etc. true full 318 b90884df-7de4-4df3-9467-300c23ff35ce Come Here Often? This week we had a wide-ranging discussion about “picking people up,” pickup artists, social skills, the ethics of seduction, building confidence, and more.
 

Solo Bar Dates | “If Books Could Kill” Episode | Social Rules | Control & Manipulation | Motivations | Dr. Nerdlove | Negging | Picking Up vs. Cruising | Meeting People in Bars | Lower the Stakes | The Offline Dating Method | Initiating Conversations | Helping People | Gathering Momentum | Continuing the Conversation | Ending the Conversation | Pickup Lines | Consensual Seduction

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]]> Tue, 6 Dec 2022 21:52:50 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/come-here-often-0oygEJDh This week we had a wide-ranging discussion about “picking people up,” pickup artists, social skills, the ethics of seduction, building confidence, and more.
 

Solo Bar Dates | “If Books Could Kill” Episode | Social Rules | Control & Manipulation | Motivations | Dr. Nerdlove | Negging | Picking Up vs. Cruising | Meeting People in Bars | Lower the Stakes | The Offline Dating Method | Initiating Conversations | Helping People | Gathering Momentum | Continuing the Conversation | Ending the Conversation | Pickup Lines | Consensual Seduction

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]]> Come Here Often? Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:06:33 This week we had a wide-ranging discussion about “picking people up,” pickup artists, social skills, the ethics of seduction, building confidence, and more. This week we had a wide-ranging discussion about “picking people up,” pickup artists, social skills, the ethics of seduction, building confidence, and more. true full 317 5df40d9f-e4da-4fa8-ad35-de3430161126 Shop Til You Top How do you find kink implements that are both practical and pretty? This week we’re sharing our best tips for kink toy shopping, as well as sex toy storage.
 

Impulsive Purchases | Mass-Produced vs. Indie | Fetishist Media | Sex Shops vs. Kink Shops | Vetting | Online vs. In-Person | Deciding on a Toy | Aesthetics vs. Function | Pervertibles | Sex Toy Storage | Charging Cables | Epiphora’s Toy Closet | Decorative Displays | Discretion | Dee’s Top Surgery Fundraiser

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]]> Tue, 29 Nov 2022 23:04:40 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/shop-til-you-top-YHI9gIze How do you find kink implements that are both practical and pretty? This week we’re sharing our best tips for kink toy shopping, as well as sex toy storage.
 

Impulsive Purchases | Mass-Produced vs. Indie | Fetishist Media | Sex Shops vs. Kink Shops | Vetting | Online vs. In-Person | Deciding on a Toy | Aesthetics vs. Function | Pervertibles | Sex Toy Storage | Charging Cables | Epiphora’s Toy Closet | Decorative Displays | Discretion | Dee’s Top Surgery Fundraiser

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]]> Shop Til You Top Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:27 How do you find kink implements that are both practical and pretty? This week we’re sharing our best tips for kink toy shopping, as well as sex toy storage. How do you find kink implements that are both practical and pretty? This week we’re sharing our best tips for kink toy shopping, as well as sex toy storage. true full 316 9179fcff-085a-451b-ac56-7940464a0066 Buysexual This week we offer our best advice on shopping for sex toys, interspersed with some anecdotes about our wacky days working in sex toy retail.
 

In-Person vs. Online | JoEllen Notte’s Superhero Sex Shop Tour | Suspiciously Low Prices | What to Know First | Deciding Whether to Buy | Versatility | Couples’ Toys | We-Vibe | Beginners’ Toys | Tenga Eggs | Turbo Glider | Orchid G | Dildos | Vibration Quality | Budget to Spark Joy | Unique Toys | Never Worth It

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]]> Tue, 22 Nov 2022 21:10:21 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/buysexual-YBdmiZyO This week we offer our best advice on shopping for sex toys, interspersed with some anecdotes about our wacky days working in sex toy retail.
 

In-Person vs. Online | JoEllen Notte’s Superhero Sex Shop Tour | Suspiciously Low Prices | What to Know First | Deciding Whether to Buy | Versatility | Couples’ Toys | We-Vibe | Beginners’ Toys | Tenga Eggs | Turbo Glider | Orchid G | Dildos | Vibration Quality | Budget to Spark Joy | Unique Toys | Never Worth It

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]]> Buysexual Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:07:56 This week we offer our best advice on shopping for sex toys, interspersed with some anecdotes about our wacky days working in sex toy retail. This week we offer our best advice on shopping for sex toys, interspersed with some anecdotes about our wacky days working in sex toy retail. true full 315 717a9a1d-de8d-4278-83a7-fa99257a4290 A Stroke of Genius Is it safe to use a banana, an electric toothbrush, or a wooden spoon as a sex toy? This week, we’re discussing makeshift and homemade “sex toys”!
 

Why? | Defining Dildos | Our Experiences | Risk Factors | Funkit Toys NoFrilldo | Turbo Glider | Body Massagers | Fruits & Veggies | Risk Assessment | Electric Toothbrush | Clothespins | Hairbrushes | Spanking University Hairbrushes Video | Ice Insertables | Candle | Rope | Ginger | MacGyvered Fleshlights

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]]> Tue, 15 Nov 2022 20:45:15 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/a-stroke-of-genius-v1BOj0jC Is it safe to use a banana, an electric toothbrush, or a wooden spoon as a sex toy? This week, we’re discussing makeshift and homemade “sex toys”!
 

Why? | Defining Dildos | Our Experiences | Risk Factors | Funkit Toys NoFrilldo | Turbo Glider | Body Massagers | Fruits & Veggies | Risk Assessment | Electric Toothbrush | Clothespins | Hairbrushes | Spanking University Hairbrushes Video | Ice Insertables | Candle | Rope | Ginger | MacGyvered Fleshlights

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]]> A Stroke of Genius Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:59:57 Is it safe to use a banana, an electric toothbrush, or a wooden spoon as a sex toy? This week, we’re discussing makeshift and homemade “sex toys”! Is it safe to use a banana, an electric toothbrush, or a wooden spoon as a sex toy? This week, we’re discussing makeshift and homemade “sex toys”! true full 314 17191a29-bbcb-4728-a757-9559cdc6c322 Get Revved Up Not everyone gets horny in the same way or at the same pace! This week we’re discussing the difference between responsive desire and spontaneous desire, and how to be respectful of your partner’s desire style even if it differs from yours.

 

Come As You Are | Responsive vs. Spontaneous | Consent | Sexually Relevant Data | Gender Differences | Different Desire Styles | Revving Up Responsives | Responsive4Responsive | Brakes & Accelerator | Kink vs. Sex

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]]> Tue, 8 Nov 2022 21:18:12 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/get-revved-up-tUUqSjbT Not everyone gets horny in the same way or at the same pace! This week we’re discussing the difference between responsive desire and spontaneous desire, and how to be respectful of your partner’s desire style even if it differs from yours.

 

Come As You Are | Responsive vs. Spontaneous | Consent | Sexually Relevant Data | Gender Differences | Different Desire Styles | Revving Up Responsives | Responsive4Responsive | Brakes & Accelerator | Kink vs. Sex

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]]> Get Revved Up Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:38 Not everyone gets horny in the same way or at the same pace! This week we’re discussing the difference between responsive desire and spontaneous desire, and how to be respectful of your partner’s desire style even if it differs from yours. Not everyone gets horny in the same way or at the same pace! This week we’re discussing the difference between responsive desire and spontaneous desire, and how to be respectful of your partner’s desire style even if it differs from yours. true full 313 30c801b7-cd2f-4cfd-a736-5a5278240916 Tough Talks Navigating conflict is one of the trickiest parts of being in a relationship, so this week we’re discussing our best tools and techniques for having hard conversations with loved ones.
 

Noticing the Need | Initiating a Conversation | Now’s Not the Time | Anger | Internal Family Systems | Taking a Break | Structure | Endings | Lingering Feelings

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]]> Tue, 1 Nov 2022 18:37:11 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/tough-talks-s4j4LC_S Navigating conflict is one of the trickiest parts of being in a relationship, so this week we’re discussing our best tools and techniques for having hard conversations with loved ones.
 

Noticing the Need | Initiating a Conversation | Now’s Not the Time | Anger | Internal Family Systems | Taking a Break | Structure | Endings | Lingering Feelings

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]]> Tough Talks Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:03:23 Navigating conflict is one of the trickiest parts of being in a relationship, so this week we’re discussing our best tools and techniques for having hard conversations with loved ones. Navigating conflict is one of the trickiest parts of being in a relationship, so this week we’re discussing our best tools and techniques for having hard conversations with loved ones. true full 312 d69824cd-f5fe-422c-b15f-e70cc8897d2b Cheater-o-Meter This week we’re discussing more behaviors that might be cheating, or might not be – like keeping your ex’s nudes, neglecting to use condoms, or crushing on a friend.
 

Talk About It | Ex’s Stuff | Ex’s Nudes | Secret Crush | Emotional Connection | Sexting & Phone Sex | Intent vs. Impact | Threesome | Check-In After Bedtime | Safer Sex Protocols | Intoxication | Responding

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]]> Tue, 25 Oct 2022 20:24:23 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/cheater-o-meter-xPqyAHIx This week we’re discussing more behaviors that might be cheating, or might not be – like keeping your ex’s nudes, neglecting to use condoms, or crushing on a friend.
 

Talk About It | Ex’s Stuff | Ex’s Nudes | Secret Crush | Emotional Connection | Sexting & Phone Sex | Intent vs. Impact | Threesome | Check-In After Bedtime | Safer Sex Protocols | Intoxication | Responding

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]]> Cheater-o-Meter Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:34 This week we’re discussing more behaviors that might be cheating, or might not be – like keeping your ex’s nudes, neglecting to use condoms, or crushing on a friend. This week we’re discussing more behaviors that might be cheating, or might not be – like keeping your ex’s nudes, neglecting to use condoms, or crushing on a friend. true full 311 3284b5a8-e14e-4538-862f-dbcef8e3fe45 Trick or Cheat There’s a lot of confusion over what constitutes cheating on someone, so this week we’re discussing what we think cheating is, and what it definitely isn’t.
 

Not Monkeypox | Define “Cheating” | Masturbation | Sleeping in the Same Bed | Porn & OnlyFans | Camming & Nudes | Curdled Ink Podcast | Jerking Off Together | Flirting with Friends | Fantasizing | Custom Videos

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]]> Tue, 18 Oct 2022 20:46:01 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/trick-or-cheat-dIrNxhRF There’s a lot of confusion over what constitutes cheating on someone, so this week we’re discussing what we think cheating is, and what it definitely isn’t.
 

Not Monkeypox | Define “Cheating” | Masturbation | Sleeping in the Same Bed | Porn & OnlyFans | Camming & Nudes | Curdled Ink Podcast | Jerking Off Together | Flirting with Friends | Fantasizing | Custom Videos

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]]> Trick or Cheat Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:02:18 There’s a lot of confusion over what constitutes cheating on someone, so this week we’re discussing what we think cheating is, and what it definitely isn’t. There’s a lot of confusion over what constitutes cheating on someone, so this week we’re discussing what we think cheating is, and what it definitely isn’t. true full 310 639fcb5b-0e93-465a-a6c5-e136929da703 Bonus Boners We’re releasing this bonus episode, originally recorded for our $12+ Patreon supporters, on our main feed this week because Billy is out sick. Enjoy our discussion about exhibitionism, hypnosis, rough body play, and more!
 

Hyprov | Exhibitionistic Beating | SELF+Jimmyjane | Vibrating Finger Massager | Nude Beach | Public Nudity | Rough Body Play | Gun Dildo | RealCock

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]]> Tue, 11 Oct 2022 21:59:09 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/bonus-boners-n23fUTSl We’re releasing this bonus episode, originally recorded for our $12+ Patreon supporters, on our main feed this week because Billy is out sick. Enjoy our discussion about exhibitionism, hypnosis, rough body play, and more!
 

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]]> Bonus Boners Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:54:54 We’re releasing this bonus episode, originally recorded for our $12+ Patreon supporters, on our main feed this week because Billy is out sick. Enjoy our discussion about exhibitionism, hypnosis, rough body play, and more! We’re releasing this bonus episode, originally recorded for our $12+ Patreon supporters, on our main feed this week because Billy is out sick. Enjoy our discussion about exhibitionism, hypnosis, rough body play, and more! true full 309 fa14a0a1-870a-4872-be1f-8398efc456df Eat, Spray, Love What the hell is squirting, anyway? This week we discuss our experiences with squirting, our theories on the controversies that surround it, and our favorite toys and techniques for making it happen.
 

Hello, Billy! | Is It Pee? | Where Is It From? | UTIs | Is It Orgasmic? | G-Spot Orgasm | SELF+Jimmyjane Vibrating Slimline Massager | Jimmyjane | How to Squirt | Njoy Pure Wand | Fingers vs. Toys | Squirting on Dicks | Motion of the Ocean | Movie Magic | Full Bladder | Squirting During Oral | Hole Punch Fluke | KR Curve | Njoy Eleven | Chin Play

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]]> Wed, 5 Oct 2022 17:37:25 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/eat-spray-love-bG_kV7Tr What the hell is squirting, anyway? This week we discuss our experiences with squirting, our theories on the controversies that surround it, and our favorite toys and techniques for making it happen.
 

Hello, Billy! | Is It Pee? | Where Is It From? | UTIs | Is It Orgasmic? | G-Spot Orgasm | SELF+Jimmyjane Vibrating Slimline Massager | Jimmyjane | How to Squirt | Njoy Pure Wand | Fingers vs. Toys | Squirting on Dicks | Motion of the Ocean | Movie Magic | Full Bladder | Squirting During Oral | Hole Punch Fluke | KR Curve | Njoy Eleven | Chin Play

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]]> Eat, Spray, Love Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:09:21 What the hell is squirting, anyway? This week we discuss our experiences with squirting, our theories on the controversies that surround it, and our favorite toys and techniques for making it happen. What the hell is squirting, anyway? This week we discuss our experiences with squirting, our theories on the controversies that surround it, and our favorite toys and techniques for making it happen. true full 308 b71cf0b5-3c37-40f8-bd1d-d44d2ebbfa06 Live and Let Bi We’re busting more bisexuality myths this week, like: Are bi people more likely to want to have a threesome? What’s the difference between bi and pan? And do bi femmes exist?
 

Threesomes | Trans Inclusivity | Self-Definition | Bisexual vs. Pansexual | Stigma & -Phobias | “Straight-Passing Privilege” | Bi Femmes | SELF + Jimmyjane Vibrating C-Ring | Jimmyjane | Assumed to Be Bi | STIs | “Picking a Side” | Sitting in Chairs

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]]> Tue, 27 Sep 2022 18:31:11 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/live-and-let-bi-WbYFLWlH We’re busting more bisexuality myths this week, like: Are bi people more likely to want to have a threesome? What’s the difference between bi and pan? And do bi femmes exist?
 

Threesomes | Trans Inclusivity | Self-Definition | Bisexual vs. Pansexual | Stigma & -Phobias | “Straight-Passing Privilege” | Bi Femmes | SELF + Jimmyjane Vibrating C-Ring | Jimmyjane | Assumed to Be Bi | STIs | “Picking a Side” | Sitting in Chairs

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]]> Live and Let Bi Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:57:36 We’re busting more bisexuality myths this week, like: Are bi people more likely to want to have a threesome? What’s the difference between bi and pan? And do bi femmes exist? We’re busting more bisexuality myths this week, like: Are bi people more likely to want to have a threesome? What’s the difference between bi and pan? And do bi femmes exist? true full 307 6ca51d51-96c6-4847-bdc8-b35408936d22 I Don't Bi It Since it’s Bisexuality Day on Friday, this week we thought we’d bust some common myths and misconceptions about bisexuality and bi people.
 

100% Bisexual | Does Monosexuality Exist? | Comp Het | Blurred Lines | “Straight” by Hanne Blank | Behavior vs. Orientation | Identical Attractions | “It’s a Phase” | Gatekeeping | “I Kissed a Girl” | “Just Date Women” | Wider Dating Pool | Men | Promiscuity & Cheating | “Greedy” | Slut-Shaming | Gender Differences in Biphobia | Left for Someone Else

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]]> Tue, 20 Sep 2022 19:49:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/i-dont-bi-it-bDDiHriO Since it’s Bisexuality Day on Friday, this week we thought we’d bust some common myths and misconceptions about bisexuality and bi people.
 

100% Bisexual | Does Monosexuality Exist? | Comp Het | Blurred Lines | “Straight” by Hanne Blank | Behavior vs. Orientation | Identical Attractions | “It’s a Phase” | Gatekeeping | “I Kissed a Girl” | “Just Date Women” | Wider Dating Pool | Men | Promiscuity & Cheating | “Greedy” | Slut-Shaming | Gender Differences in Biphobia | Left for Someone Else

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]]> I Don't Bi It Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:02:50 Since it’s Bisexuality Day on Friday, this week we thought we’d bust some common myths and misconceptions about bisexuality and bi people. Since it’s Bisexuality Day on Friday, this week we thought we’d bust some common myths and misconceptions about bisexuality and bi people. true full 306 c7919925-8621-4929-b381-e394f3e2b8df Pervs Have Feelings Too Lately we’re both unenthused about doing kink with people we don’t have an emotional connection with, so this week we’re discussing the role of connectedness and intimacy in kink and sex.

 

Camp Struggles | Demisexuality & Demiromanticism | What is Connection? | Fast Food Kink | Affirmation | Being on the Same Page | Authenticity & Honesty | Being Honored | Honey Play Box | Seduction | Crying | Romantic vs. Platonic | Edge Play | Getting Triggered | Roleplay

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]]> Tue, 13 Sep 2022 19:28:38 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/pervs-have-feelings-too-7b19rwTQ Lately we’re both unenthused about doing kink with people we don’t have an emotional connection with, so this week we’re discussing the role of connectedness and intimacy in kink and sex.

 

Camp Struggles | Demisexuality & Demiromanticism | What is Connection? | Fast Food Kink | Affirmation | Being on the Same Page | Authenticity & Honesty | Being Honored | Honey Play Box | Seduction | Crying | Romantic vs. Platonic | Edge Play | Getting Triggered | Roleplay

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]]> Pervs Have Feelings Too Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:05:30 Lately we’re both unenthused about doing kink with people we don’t have an emotional connection with, so this week we’re discussing the role of connectedness and intimacy in kink and sex. Lately we’re both unenthused about doing kink with people we don’t have an emotional connection with, so this week we’re discussing the role of connectedness and intimacy in kink and sex. true full 305 9cc7ceeb-b7f0-4183-ac4e-3c9ab7e5c3b1 Natural Kinklinations How do our kinky tendencies affect other areas of our lives? This week Kate and her spouse mb discuss how dominance, submissiveness, toppiness and bottominess can manifest in not-directly-kinky situations.
 

“Daddy” Song | Dominant Tendencies | Submissive Tendencies | Advice & Guidance | Dark Side | Dating Vanillas | Making Better Decisions | A Doll’s House | Historical Lack of Knowledge | “Tradwife” Movement | Topping Tendencies | Stand-Up Comedians | Bartenders | TikTok Wood Chopper | Magicians | Vanilla(-Ish) Tops | Kinky Flirting | Switching | Cocktail-Domming | Balance | Bottom Guilt | Bottom Skills | Positive Reinforcement

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]]> Tue, 6 Sep 2022 19:55:41 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/natural-kinklinations-fZGXhG_v How do our kinky tendencies affect other areas of our lives? This week Kate and her spouse mb discuss how dominance, submissiveness, toppiness and bottominess can manifest in not-directly-kinky situations.
 

“Daddy” Song | Dominant Tendencies | Submissive Tendencies | Advice & Guidance | Dark Side | Dating Vanillas | Making Better Decisions | A Doll’s House | Historical Lack of Knowledge | “Tradwife” Movement | Topping Tendencies | Stand-Up Comedians | Bartenders | TikTok Wood Chopper | Magicians | Vanilla(-Ish) Tops | Kinky Flirting | Switching | Cocktail-Domming | Balance | Bottom Guilt | Bottom Skills | Positive Reinforcement

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]]> Natural Kinklinations Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:01:38 How do our kinky tendencies affect other areas of our lives? This week Kate and her spouse mb discuss how dominance, submissiveness, toppiness and bottominess can manifest in not-directly-kinky situations. How do our kinky tendencies affect other areas of our lives? This week Kate and her spouse mb discuss how dominance, submissiveness, toppiness and bottominess can manifest in not-directly-kinky situations. true full 304 2980652b-2c9b-47c8-b447-26c1eba261dc Screwing the Whole Crew This week we revisit the topic of group sex: threesomes, foursomes, and orgies. We discuss how our mindsets about group sex have changed over the pandemic, and offer some tips on initiating and negotiating.
 

How to Find Someone | Unicorn-Hunting | Healthy vs. Unhealthy Motivations | Predicting Success | Experienced People vs. Newbies | Vetting | Self-Reflection | Negotiation | Feeling Included | Communication During

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]]> Tue, 30 Aug 2022 21:51:44 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/screwing-the-whole-crew-_GBt3hJa This week we revisit the topic of group sex: threesomes, foursomes, and orgies. We discuss how our mindsets about group sex have changed over the pandemic, and offer some tips on initiating and negotiating.
 

How to Find Someone | Unicorn-Hunting | Healthy vs. Unhealthy Motivations | Predicting Success | Experienced People vs. Newbies | Vetting | Self-Reflection | Negotiation | Feeling Included | Communication During

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]]> Screwing the Whole Crew Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:05 This week we revisit the topic of group sex: threesomes, foursomes, and orgies. We discuss how our mindsets about group sex have changed over the pandemic, and offer some tips on initiating and negotiating. This week we revisit the topic of group sex: threesomes, foursomes, and orgies. We discuss how our mindsets about group sex have changed over the pandemic, and offer some tips on initiating and negotiating. true full 303 4ad2e604-f4b7-417e-ab62-2c992cf1ffed Quirky Creations We’ve both tried a lot of sex toys, and this week we’re talking about some of the weirdest ones we’ve ever encountered, from the Lelo dick tuxedo to the butt plug-shaped shoes.
 

What is “Weird”? | Teddy Love | Lunabelle’s Teddy Love Review | Wake-Up Vibe | Lelo Tux | Lifestyles Tuxedo Condoms | Plug of War | Funkit Chess | Hole Punch Evolver | Trump Butt Plug | Ainsley-T | Tongue Cupcake

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]]> Tue, 23 Aug 2022 20:04:50 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/quirky-creations-GhruJ3pV We’ve both tried a lot of sex toys, and this week we’re talking about some of the weirdest ones we’ve ever encountered, from the Lelo dick tuxedo to the butt plug-shaped shoes.
 

What is “Weird”? | Teddy Love | Lunabelle’s Teddy Love Review | Wake-Up Vibe | Lelo Tux | Lifestyles Tuxedo Condoms | Plug of War | Funkit Chess | Hole Punch Evolver | Trump Butt Plug | Ainsley-T | Tongue Cupcake

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]]> Quirky Creations Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:50 We’ve both tried a lot of sex toys, and this week we’re talking about some of the weirdest ones we’ve ever encountered, from the Lelo dick tuxedo to the butt plug-shaped shoes. We’ve both tried a lot of sex toys, and this week we’re talking about some of the weirdest ones we’ve ever encountered, from the Lelo dick tuxedo to the butt plug-shaped shoes. true full 302 fd67ed71-abcd-4afc-9b6e-4c8dcad9cb90 Strap Chat We both love strap-on sex, and this week we’re discussing our fave harnesses and dildos and our top tips for giving good strap.

 

Our Strap Experiences | Strap-On vs. Handheld Dildo | Strap-On vs. Dick | Pleasure for Tops | Strapless Strap=Ons | We-Vibe | Sili Saddle | Tenga Eggs | Practicing Alone First | “Pegging” | Harnesses | Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit | Tantus O-Rings | Beginner Strap-On Recommendations | SpareParts Joque | Aslan Leather Jaguar | SpareParts Deuce | RodeoH | Dildos | Godemiche Ambit | VixSkin Goodfella | Proprioception | Stamina Exercises | Positions | Liberator Jaz |

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]]> Tue, 16 Aug 2022 18:25:14 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/strap-chat-MKXN76uS We both love strap-on sex, and this week we’re discussing our fave harnesses and dildos and our top tips for giving good strap.

 

Our Strap Experiences | Strap-On vs. Handheld Dildo | Strap-On vs. Dick | Pleasure for Tops | Strapless Strap=Ons | We-Vibe | Sili Saddle | Tenga Eggs | Practicing Alone First | “Pegging” | Harnesses | Tantus Bend Over Beginner Kit | Tantus O-Rings | Beginner Strap-On Recommendations | SpareParts Joque | Aslan Leather Jaguar | SpareParts Deuce | RodeoH | Dildos | Godemiche Ambit | VixSkin Goodfella | Proprioception | Stamina Exercises | Positions | Liberator Jaz |

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]]> Strap Chat Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:05:13 We both love strap-on sex, and this week we’re discussing our fave harnesses and dildos and our top tips for giving good strap. We both love strap-on sex, and this week we’re discussing our fave harnesses and dildos and our top tips for giving good strap. true full 301 cf06ab02-436c-4b85-95f4-588d71bdb1fa We've Done This 300 Times This week we’re celebrating our 300th episode by talking about our “top 3” choices in a bunch of different categories!
 

Pain Implements | Dirty Talk Lines | Fan Encounters | Fantasy Threesomes | Senses to Play With | Vibrators | Places to Do Kinky Things | Other Podcasts | Ways to Flirt | Surprising Kinks

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]]> Tue, 9 Aug 2022 23:04:08 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/weve-done-this-300-times-ak4qxCy8 This week we’re celebrating our 300th episode by talking about our “top 3” choices in a bunch of different categories!
 

Pain Implements | Dirty Talk Lines | Fan Encounters | Fantasy Threesomes | Senses to Play With | Vibrators | Places to Do Kinky Things | Other Podcasts | Ways to Flirt | Surprising Kinks

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]]> We've Done This 300 Times Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:09:58 This week we’re celebrating our 300th episode by talking about our “top 3” choices in a bunch of different categories! This week we’re celebrating our 300th episode by talking about our “top 3” choices in a bunch of different categories! true full 300 3367f97c-1d1c-4ddc-9e35-d7c45f7fa905 Keeping Our Privates Private Privacy can be a tricky subject to navigate in sexual relationships, so this week we’re answering listener questions on the fine line between privacy and secrecy when it comes to sex and dating.
 

Our Boundaries | Phone Access | Sharing Porn Info | Non-Monogamy Disclosure | Telling Children | Trauma Disclosure | Noisy Roommate | Hickeys

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]]> Tue, 2 Aug 2022 19:08:50 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/keeping-our-privates-private-hI_7VBwX Privacy can be a tricky subject to navigate in sexual relationships, so this week we’re answering listener questions on the fine line between privacy and secrecy when it comes to sex and dating.
 

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]]> Keeping Our Privates Private Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:00:20 Privacy can be a tricky subject to navigate in sexual relationships, so this week we’re answering listener questions on the fine line between privacy and secrecy when it comes to sex and dating. Privacy can be a tricky subject to navigate in sexual relationships, so this week we’re answering listener questions on the fine line between privacy and secrecy when it comes to sex and dating. true full 299 b863e7d8-41b6-481e-857c-0d609dc5d639 Femmes 4Ever Femmes are somehow both erased and revered in the queer community. This week we’re discussing Kate’s femme identity: what it means, how she arrived at that label, and the joys and difficulties of being femme.

Transmasc Fem(me)ness | Cis Woman vs. Femme | Femme vs. Feminine | Clothes & Makeup | Tattoos | Tomboy Side | Male Gaze | Straights Dressing Queer | Butch/Femme Dynamics | Butch is a Noun | Gaydar | Femme Invisibility | Gatekeeping | Pronouns | Asking About Pronouns | Femmephobia


 

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]]> Tue, 19 Jul 2022 16:57:50 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/femmes-4ever-i9HzgIz1 Femmes are somehow both erased and revered in the queer community. This week we’re discussing Kate’s femme identity: what it means, how she arrived at that label, and the joys and difficulties of being femme.

Transmasc Fem(me)ness | Cis Woman vs. Femme | Femme vs. Feminine | Clothes & Makeup | Tattoos | Tomboy Side | Male Gaze | Straights Dressing Queer | Butch/Femme Dynamics | Butch is a Noun | Gaydar | Femme Invisibility | Gatekeeping | Pronouns | Asking About Pronouns | Femmephobia


 

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]]> Femmes 4Ever Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:54:42 Femmes are somehow both erased and revered in the queer community. This week we’re discussing Kate’s femme identity: what it means, how she arrived at that label, and the joys and difficulties of being femme. Femmes are somehow both erased and revered in the queer community. This week we’re discussing Kate’s femme identity: what it means, how she arrived at that label, and the joys and difficulties of being femme. true full 298 41ea5ea2-efdd-4e3b-b257-07f126b6d848 Illicit Ingenuity This week we set out to have a discussion of creativity in kink, and it turned into a meandering discussion of that, Bex’s adventures at kink camp, our traumas, roleplay, boundaries and more.

Bex’s Health | Classes as Aftercare | Suffering | Edge Play | Kink & Trauma | Screening Therapists | Turning Point | Seeking Sadists | Creativity Through Constraints | Flirty Roleplay | Non-Sexual Enjoyment | Knowing Your Boundaries | Palette of Permission | Nipple Stuff | Being Known | Clit Trust | Learning | Cum Cocktails |


 

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]]> Tue, 12 Jul 2022 18:22:30 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/illicit-ingenuity-LTVNX2Yh This week we set out to have a discussion of creativity in kink, and it turned into a meandering discussion of that, Bex’s adventures at kink camp, our traumas, roleplay, boundaries and more.

Bex’s Health | Classes as Aftercare | Suffering | Edge Play | Kink & Trauma | Screening Therapists | Turning Point | Seeking Sadists | Creativity Through Constraints | Flirty Roleplay | Non-Sexual Enjoyment | Knowing Your Boundaries | Palette of Permission | Nipple Stuff | Being Known | Clit Trust | Learning | Cum Cocktails |


 

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]]> Illicit Ingenuity Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:01:13 This week we set out to have a discussion of creativity in kink, and it turned into a meandering discussion of that, Bex’s adventures at kink camp, our traumas, roleplay, boundaries and more. This week we set out to have a discussion of creativity in kink, and it turned into a meandering discussion of that, Bex’s adventures at kink camp, our traumas, roleplay, boundaries and more. true full 297 3e851898-f3de-4b02-84a0-1268d6ecab74 Robot Revelry This week Kate’s spouse Matthew Bischoff returns for a discussion of kinky apps, sex machines, electrostimulation and other fun sex tech.

 

Notes App | Dominance Technology | Sex Menu | Protocol Apps | Obedience | Streaks | Sex Toy Spreadsheet in Notion | OSSM | Fucking Machines | 3D-Printing Sex Toys | Heckin’ Lewd | Nanobots & Nerve Pathways | Electrostimulation | Self-Hosted Options | Buttplug.io Intiface | Video Game Haptics | Edge-o-Matic 3000 | VR Sex | Phone Sex | Scent & Taste

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]]> Tue, 5 Jul 2022 20:54:54 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/robot-revelry-BjOYBMYX This week Kate’s spouse Matthew Bischoff returns for a discussion of kinky apps, sex machines, electrostimulation and other fun sex tech.

 

Notes App | Dominance Technology | Sex Menu | Protocol Apps | Obedience | Streaks | Sex Toy Spreadsheet in Notion | OSSM | Fucking Machines | 3D-Printing Sex Toys | Heckin’ Lewd | Nanobots & Nerve Pathways | Electrostimulation | Self-Hosted Options | Buttplug.io Intiface | Video Game Haptics | Edge-o-Matic 3000 | VR Sex | Phone Sex | Scent & Taste

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]]> Robot Revelry Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:45:40 This week Kate’s spouse Matthew Bischoff returns for a discussion of kinky apps, sex machines, electrostimulation and other fun sex tech. This week Kate’s spouse Matthew Bischoff returns for a discussion of kinky apps, sex machines, electrostimulation and other fun sex tech. true full 296 d64817a8-224d-4e74-a7bd-30e7b5dd74e2 The Future is Cumming Could sex apps, high-tech vibrators and sex robots ever replace sex with actual humans? This week Kate is joined by her spouse Matthew Bischoff, a technologist, app developer and cohost of the Absolutely Crushed podcast, for a discussion of sex tech.
 

Sex Apps | Online Censorship | Hypnokink | Bluetooth Sex Toys | We-Vibe | Mozilla Privacy Audit | Cellmate Chastity Cage | Best Companies | Ana Valens on Dominatrix Simulator | Buttplug.io | Custom Coding | Music Vibes | Most Powerful | VR & AR | Educational Tools | Sex Robots

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]]> Wed, 29 Jun 2022 19:08:37 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/the-future-is-horny-sPxgbg0t Could sex apps, high-tech vibrators and sex robots ever replace sex with actual humans? This week Kate is joined by her spouse Matthew Bischoff, a technologist, app developer and cohost of the Absolutely Crushed podcast, for a discussion of sex tech.
 

Sex Apps | Online Censorship | Hypnokink | Bluetooth Sex Toys | We-Vibe | Mozilla Privacy Audit | Cellmate Chastity Cage | Best Companies | Ana Valens on Dominatrix Simulator | Buttplug.io | Custom Coding | Music Vibes | Most Powerful | VR & AR | Educational Tools | Sex Robots

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]]> The Future is Cumming Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:35 Could sex apps, high-tech vibrators and sex robots ever replace sex with actual humans? This week Kate is joined by her spouse Matthew Bischoff, a technologist, app developer and cohost of the Absolutely Crushed podcast, for a discussion of sex tech. Could sex apps, high-tech vibrators and sex robots ever replace sex with actual humans? This week Kate is joined by her spouse Matthew Bischoff, a technologist, app developer and cohost of the Absolutely Crushed podcast, for a discussion of sex tech. true full 295 a731da82-e08d-4f38-aebf-bb341b5586b1 Games, Toys & Bi Guys This week we’re joined by our friend Brent Black (a.k.a. Brentalfloss), who’s currently working on a sequel to his hilarious party game Use Your Words. We chat about games, being a public figure who’s out as bisexual, weird sex toys for penises, and more.
 

Use Your Words 2 | Diverse Writers Team | Coming Out As Bi | “Bi Enough” | Representation | Straight Lines | DMs | Nobra Twincharger | Slubb | Arcwave Ion | Urethral Sounding | Penis Vibes | Swan Wand | Balldo | Old Toys with New Partners | Avoidant Attachment

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]]> Tue, 21 Jun 2022 18:52:17 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/games-toys-bi-guys-CrpDlAII This week we’re joined by our friend Brent Black (a.k.a. Brentalfloss), who’s currently working on a sequel to his hilarious party game Use Your Words. We chat about games, being a public figure who’s out as bisexual, weird sex toys for penises, and more.
 

Use Your Words 2 | Diverse Writers Team | Coming Out As Bi | “Bi Enough” | Representation | Straight Lines | DMs | Nobra Twincharger | Slubb | Arcwave Ion | Urethral Sounding | Penis Vibes | Swan Wand | Balldo | Old Toys with New Partners | Avoidant Attachment

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]]> Games, Toys & Bi Guys Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:59:08 This week we’re joined by our friend Brent Black (a.k.a. Brentalfloss), who’s currently working on a sequel to his hilarious party game Use Your Words. We chat about games, being a public figure who’s out as bisexual, weird sex toys for penises, and more. This week we’re joined by our friend Brent Black (a.k.a. Brentalfloss), who’s currently working on a sequel to his hilarious party game Use Your Words. We chat about games, being a public figure who’s out as bisexual, weird sex toys for penises, and more. true full 294 40c93415-50da-46b0-a890-fc947a52a44c Beyond Your Wildest Dreams This week we discuss sex dreams, romantic dreams, wet dreams, and other ways that crushes and carnality show up when you’re dreaming!
 

Getting Mad | Sex Dream About a Friend | Dream As Excuse | Social Media Dreams | Romantic Dreams About Exes | Getting Over Dreams | Dreams About Women | Inducing a Sex Dream | Hypnosis | Wet Dreams | Angry Partner | Freud

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]]> Tue, 14 Jun 2022 18:23:33 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/beyond-your-wildest-dreams-Yre8y0NY This week we discuss sex dreams, romantic dreams, wet dreams, and other ways that crushes and carnality show up when you’re dreaming!
 

Getting Mad | Sex Dream About a Friend | Dream As Excuse | Social Media Dreams | Romantic Dreams About Exes | Getting Over Dreams | Dreams About Women | Inducing a Sex Dream | Hypnosis | Wet Dreams | Angry Partner | Freud

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]]> Beyond Your Wildest Dreams Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:54:00 This week we discuss sex dreams, romantic dreams, wet dreams, and other ways that crushes and carnality show up when you’re dreaming! This week we discuss sex dreams, romantic dreams, wet dreams, and other ways that crushes and carnality show up when you’re dreaming! true full 293 275939d4-906a-4c44-83b1-368f9f97d73c Utterly Entranced It’s been a while since we talked about erotic hypnosis, so this week Bex interviews Kate about how hypno is manifesting in her relationship and kink life currently.
 

Mystery | Dollification | Long-Distance Realism | Slipping Into It | Submission | Aptitudes | Subject Skills | Trance vs. Subspace | Waking Yourself Up | Depth & Metaphor | Altering Perceptions | Pre-Talk | Topping | In-Scene Feedback | Real vs. Hypnotic Sensations | Non-Sexual Stuff | Hypno Goals

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]]> Tue, 7 Jun 2022 20:15:15 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/utterly-entranced-G28WtXIJ It’s been a while since we talked about erotic hypnosis, so this week Bex interviews Kate about how hypno is manifesting in her relationship and kink life currently.
 

Mystery | Dollification | Long-Distance Realism | Slipping Into It | Submission | Aptitudes | Subject Skills | Trance vs. Subspace | Waking Yourself Up | Depth & Metaphor | Altering Perceptions | Pre-Talk | Topping | In-Scene Feedback | Real vs. Hypnotic Sensations | Non-Sexual Stuff | Hypno Goals

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]]> Utterly Entranced Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:51:54 It’s been a while since we talked about erotic hypnosis, so this week Bex interviews Kate about how hypno is manifesting in her relationship and kink life currently. It’s been a while since we talked about erotic hypnosis, so this week Bex interviews Kate about how hypno is manifesting in her relationship and kink life currently. true full 292 fccae2e8-fec2-4c55-87b2-5c68032d2183 The Hair Down There People have a lot of feelings about body hair, so this week we thought we’d discuss pubes, armpit hair and leg hair: our feelings about them, our removal tips, and how we incorporate them (or don’t) into our sex lives.
 

Current Feelings | Sensitivity | Gender Norms | Waxing | Partners’ Preference | Armpit Hair | History of Shaving | Enjoying the Process | Tweezing | At-Home Waxing | Pubes in Mouth | Ethics of Preferences | Paying For It | Making It Hot | Shaving Cream

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]]> Tue, 31 May 2022 23:18:35 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/the-hair-down-there-g2HZWvuo People have a lot of feelings about body hair, so this week we thought we’d discuss pubes, armpit hair and leg hair: our feelings about them, our removal tips, and how we incorporate them (or don’t) into our sex lives.
 

Current Feelings | Sensitivity | Gender Norms | Waxing | Partners’ Preference | Armpit Hair | History of Shaving | Enjoying the Process | Tweezing | At-Home Waxing | Pubes in Mouth | Ethics of Preferences | Paying For It | Making It Hot | Shaving Cream

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]]> The Hair Down There Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:18 People have a lot of feelings about body hair, so this week we thought we’d discuss pubes, armpit hair and leg hair: our feelings about them, our removal tips, and how we incorporate them (or don’t) into our sex lives. People have a lot of feelings about body hair, so this week we thought we’d discuss pubes, armpit hair and leg hair: our feelings about them, our removal tips, and how we incorporate them (or don’t) into our sex lives. true full 291 7a910378-ac06-4b48-8b1e-75d8eb3b08ce Tickle the Ivories This week Bex interviews Kate about her other creative outlet besides writing about sex: writing songs (including songs about sex!). We discuss the songwriting process and how it relates to kink, porn, and sex education, as well as what it’s like to write and perform vulnerable songs about one’s own sexuality.
 

History | Pop Performers | Songwriting Process | Changes in Process | Choosing Subjects | Spring Awakening | Simmering | Tinder Swindler | Genre & Tone | Skill-Building | Happiness | Songs About Sex | Nuance | A Song A Week Challenge | Favorites | Political Songs | Future Ideas | Sex Doll

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]]> Tue, 24 May 2022 22:22:12 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/tickle-the-ivories-m1vYJbXH This week Bex interviews Kate about her other creative outlet besides writing about sex: writing songs (including songs about sex!). We discuss the songwriting process and how it relates to kink, porn, and sex education, as well as what it’s like to write and perform vulnerable songs about one’s own sexuality.
 

History | Pop Performers | Songwriting Process | Changes in Process | Choosing Subjects | Spring Awakening | Simmering | Tinder Swindler | Genre & Tone | Skill-Building | Happiness | Songs About Sex | Nuance | A Song A Week Challenge | Favorites | Political Songs | Future Ideas | Sex Doll

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]]> Tickle the Ivories Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:33 This week Bex interviews Kate about her other creative outlet besides writing about sex: writing songs (including songs about sex!). We discuss the songwriting process and how it relates to kink, porn, and sex education, as well as what it’s like to write and perform vulnerable songs about one’s own sexuality. This week Bex interviews Kate about her other creative outlet besides writing about sex: writing songs (including songs about sex!). We discuss the songwriting process and how it relates to kink, porn, and sex education, as well as what it’s like to write and perform vulnerable songs about one’s own sexuality. true full 290 5c788ac3-7db0-4ab7-9bef-296ffc0a054a Boy Juice Bex’s partner Ashe recently celebrated 6 months on testosterone, and Bex has been on it for 5 years – so this week the two of them sat down to chat about their experiences on T.
 

Previous T Episode | Method of Delivery | Ritual & Service | Body Hair | Deciding to Start | Impostor Syndrome | Body Modification | Surprising Effects | Voice Changes | Stumbling Upon Progress | Bottom Growth | Arousal & Orgasm | Cleaning | Refractory Period | Arousal Non-Concordance

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]]> Tue, 17 May 2022 22:03:52 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/boy-juice-zB_6heO9 Bex’s partner Ashe recently celebrated 6 months on testosterone, and Bex has been on it for 5 years – so this week the two of them sat down to chat about their experiences on T.
 

Previous T Episode | Method of Delivery | Ritual & Service | Body Hair | Deciding to Start | Impostor Syndrome | Body Modification | Surprising Effects | Voice Changes | Stumbling Upon Progress | Bottom Growth | Arousal & Orgasm | Cleaning | Refractory Period | Arousal Non-Concordance

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]]> Boy Juice Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:48:51 Bex’s partner Ashe recently celebrated 6 months on testosterone, and Bex has been on it for 5 years – so this week the two of them sat down to chat about their experiences on T. Bex’s partner Ashe recently celebrated 6 months on testosterone, and Bex has been on it for 5 years – so this week the two of them sat down to chat about their experiences on T. true full 289 2c65fb17-621a-4085-8cb5-acf3ee7a1764 If You Want Something Done Right... We’re talking about masturbation again this week! Tune in to hear us answer listener questions about solo sex.
 

Donate to Your Local Abortion Fund | Sex Strikes | Keeping It Interesting | Being Watched | Masturbation is Better | Public Places | Touching Your Own Clit | Curious Partner | Age-Appropriate Education | Household Upgrades

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]]> Tue, 10 May 2022 23:09:02 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/if-you-want-something-done-right-Ryp2nBFZ We’re talking about masturbation again this week! Tune in to hear us answer listener questions about solo sex.
 

Donate to Your Local Abortion Fund | Sex Strikes | Keeping It Interesting | Being Watched | Masturbation is Better | Public Places | Touching Your Own Clit | Curious Partner | Age-Appropriate Education | Household Upgrades

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]]> If You Want Something Done Right... Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:50:22 We’re talking about masturbation again this week! Tune in to hear us answer listener questions about solo sex. We’re talking about masturbation again this week! Tune in to hear us answer listener questions about solo sex. true full 288 fe70a0c2-30a2-40a0-a514-97dbcb5392c2 Wank You Very Much Happy Masturbation Month! This week we’re answering complex questions from listeners about the logistics and ethics of masturbation.

 

Grumpy About Masturbating | Exploratory Approach | Lube on Dicks | Is It Cheating? | Insecurities | Pics of Exes | Telling Them | Condoms | Daily Challenge

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]]> Tue, 3 May 2022 17:43:37 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/wank-you-very-much-mWKdOt1f Happy Masturbation Month! This week we’re answering complex questions from listeners about the logistics and ethics of masturbation.

 

Grumpy About Masturbating | Exploratory Approach | Lube on Dicks | Is It Cheating? | Insecurities | Pics of Exes | Telling Them | Condoms | Daily Challenge

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]]> Wank You Very Much Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:42 Happy Masturbation Month! This week we’re answering complex questions from listeners about the logistics and ethics of masturbation. Happy Masturbation Month! This week we’re answering complex questions from listeners about the logistics and ethics of masturbation. true full 287 7e46eb10-d661-410b-82b4-e1f1f453928e Money Honey Ever enjoyed spending money on someone, or being spoiled by someone? This week we’re discussing financial domination: why it’s hot, how to do it (with or without actual cash), and what kinks it pairs well with.

 

Why Is It Hot? | Tangibility | Humiliation & Ripoffs | Guilt | Keeping Up Appearances | Professionals vs. Amateurs | Boundaries | Budgeting | Cuckolding | Ideal Items | Bimboification | Freedom & Relaxation | Findom on the Cheap | Negotiation

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]]> Tue, 26 Apr 2022 20:29:26 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/money-honey-BUt6o0H9 Ever enjoyed spending money on someone, or being spoiled by someone? This week we’re discussing financial domination: why it’s hot, how to do it (with or without actual cash), and what kinks it pairs well with.

 

Why Is It Hot? | Tangibility | Humiliation & Ripoffs | Guilt | Keeping Up Appearances | Professionals vs. Amateurs | Boundaries | Budgeting | Cuckolding | Ideal Items | Bimboification | Freedom & Relaxation | Findom on the Cheap | Negotiation

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]]> Money Honey Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:25 Ever enjoyed spending money on someone, or being spoiled by someone? This week we’re discussing financial domination: why it’s hot, how to do it (with or without actual cash), and what kinks it pairs well with. Ever enjoyed spending money on someone, or being spoiled by someone? This week we’re discussing financial domination: why it’s hot, how to do it (with or without actual cash), and what kinks it pairs well with. true full 286 b6bc010b-8cce-4a26-a9d4-f0d2577b3ace Smokes 'n' Jokes A very happy 4/20 to all who celebrate! Once again this year, we’re celebrating by doing “Highpotheticals,” i.e. getting high and answering your weirdest, wildest hypothetical questions about sex and dating.

 

It’s Tradition! | Last Prisoner Project | Strains | Cis Men’s Feelings | Sex Work Budget | Orgasms on Command | Sexiest Pokémon | Any Location | Number of Fingers | Universal Kink | Crush List | Mainstream Celebrities | Small Orifices

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]]> Tue, 19 Apr 2022 17:12:40 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/smokes-n-jokes-UcQJSw4q A very happy 4/20 to all who celebrate! Once again this year, we’re celebrating by doing “Highpotheticals,” i.e. getting high and answering your weirdest, wildest hypothetical questions about sex and dating.

 

It’s Tradition! | Last Prisoner Project | Strains | Cis Men’s Feelings | Sex Work Budget | Orgasms on Command | Sexiest Pokémon | Any Location | Number of Fingers | Universal Kink | Crush List | Mainstream Celebrities | Small Orifices

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]]> Smokes 'n' Jokes Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:00:32 A very happy 4/20 to all who celebrate! Once again this year, we’re celebrating by doing “Highpotheticals,” i.e. getting high and answering your weirdest, wildest hypothetical questions about sex and dating. A very happy 4/20 to all who celebrate! Once again this year, we’re celebrating by doing “Highpotheticals,” i.e. getting high and answering your weirdest, wildest hypothetical questions about sex and dating. true full 285 d9cba8c5-37fd-423e-8e1b-d51d38ee2c81 Hitting the Right Notes This week, we’re so excited to be talking to sex-positive singer/songwriter Rachel Lark, who we’ve both adored for many years! We chat about her new rock musical, the vulnerability of writing explicit songs, getting over sexual shame, and more.
 

Coming Soon: A New Rock Musical | Internal Family Systems | Arousal vs. Patriarchy | Pleasure vs. Ethics | Shame | Sex-Positive Family | Vulnerability | Specificity vs. Relatability | Musical Influences | Kink | Consent | Vibrator Manuals

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]]> Tue, 12 Apr 2022 19:46:47 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/hitting-the-right-notes-byRuc8PF This week, we’re so excited to be talking to sex-positive singer/songwriter Rachel Lark, who we’ve both adored for many years! We chat about her new rock musical, the vulnerability of writing explicit songs, getting over sexual shame, and more.
 

Coming Soon: A New Rock Musical | Internal Family Systems | Arousal vs. Patriarchy | Pleasure vs. Ethics | Shame | Sex-Positive Family | Vulnerability | Specificity vs. Relatability | Musical Influences | Kink | Consent | Vibrator Manuals

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]]> Hitting the Right Notes Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:53:40 This week, we’re so excited to be talking to sex-positive singer/songwriter Rachel Lark, who we’ve both adored for many years! We chat about her new rock musical, the vulnerability of writing explicit songs, getting over sexual shame, and more. This week, we’re so excited to be talking to sex-positive singer/songwriter Rachel Lark, who we’ve both adored for many years! We chat about her new rock musical, the vulnerability of writing explicit songs, getting over sexual shame, and more. true full 284 b15f317d-d777-4096-80ed-4596a1cc02ab Life of the Party This week we’re diving deeper into the topic of sex parties: how to break the ice, handle conflicts, communicate what you are and aren’t up for, and more.

 

Surprise Orgy | Overcoming Awkwardness | Soothing Anxiety | Games | Establishing Rules | Consent | Making Introductions | Dealing with Harassers | Communicating Boundaries | Attendance Restrictions | Hal Dente Drag | Differentiating Your Event

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]]> Tue, 5 Apr 2022 18:32:06 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/life-of-the-party-DKEJ4UV4 This week we’re diving deeper into the topic of sex parties: how to break the ice, handle conflicts, communicate what you are and aren’t up for, and more.

 

Surprise Orgy | Overcoming Awkwardness | Soothing Anxiety | Games | Establishing Rules | Consent | Making Introductions | Dealing with Harassers | Communicating Boundaries | Attendance Restrictions | Hal Dente Drag | Differentiating Your Event

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]]> Life of the Party Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:57:04 This week we’re diving deeper into the topic of sex parties: how to break the ice, handle conflicts, communicate what you are and aren’t up for, and more. This week we’re diving deeper into the topic of sex parties: how to break the ice, handle conflicts, communicate what you are and aren’t up for, and more. true full 283 c70a0bbf-d651-49e3-9d57-69fcb8abacd8 It's My Party & I'll Squirt If I Want To Throwing a great play party is a surprisingly complex task. This week we’re discussing the ins and outs (so to speak) of planning a fantastic sex party.
 

Social Anxiety | How to Find Parties | Inclusivity | Number of Attendees | Host’s Responsibilities | Designated Roles | Beducated | Location | Music | Food | Intoxicants | Should the Host Play? | Themes

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]]> Tue, 29 Mar 2022 18:58:16 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/its-my-party-ill-squirt-if-i-want-to-8ciirEy2 Throwing a great play party is a surprisingly complex task. This week we’re discussing the ins and outs (so to speak) of planning a fantastic sex party.
 

Social Anxiety | How to Find Parties | Inclusivity | Number of Attendees | Host’s Responsibilities | Designated Roles | Beducated | Location | Music | Food | Intoxicants | Should the Host Play? | Themes

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]]> It's My Party & I'll Squirt If I Want To Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:59:29 Throwing a great play party is a surprisingly complex task. This week we’re discussing the ins and outs (so to speak) of planning a fantastic sex party. Throwing a great play party is a surprisingly complex task. This week we’re discussing the ins and outs (so to speak) of planning a fantastic sex party. true full 282 f8bca463-e780-4c00-9846-79ae491a641e Moral Oral & More Sexual ethics is always an interesting subject, so this week we’re weighing in on ethical dilemmas, like sex with a coworker, faking orgasms, and having a sexual history with your therapist.
 

Coworker Sex | Faking Enthusiasm | Beducated | Friend/Therapist | Lying About Orgasms | Lying About Pleasure

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]]> Tue, 22 Mar 2022 17:18:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/moral-oral-more-zswN3nzT Sexual ethics is always an interesting subject, so this week we’re weighing in on ethical dilemmas, like sex with a coworker, faking orgasms, and having a sexual history with your therapist.
 

Coworker Sex | Faking Enthusiasm | Beducated | Friend/Therapist | Lying About Orgasms | Lying About Pleasure

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]]> Moral Oral & More Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:48 Sexual ethics is always an interesting subject, so this week we’re weighing in on ethical dilemmas, like sex with a coworker, faking orgasms, and having a sexual history with your therapist. Sexual ethics is always an interesting subject, so this week we’re weighing in on ethical dilemmas, like sex with a coworker, faking orgasms, and having a sexual history with your therapist. true full 281 50afd540-4afc-43e6-a12e-8dbcabb06190 Ravenous Reverence What does it mean to “worship” someone sexually? This week we’re discussing how body worship makes us feel (while giving or receiving), the various ways we like to do it, and even its spiritual implications.

 

What Makes It Worship? | Devotion & Love | Sensate Focus | Clit Worship | Foot Worship | Roleplay | Beducated | Self-Esteem & Body Image | Love Languages | Use the Right Words | Long-Distance Worship | Worshipping Submissives | The Sublime

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]]> Tue, 15 Mar 2022 14:39:56 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/ravenous-reverence-6zkIbOjR What does it mean to “worship” someone sexually? This week we’re discussing how body worship makes us feel (while giving or receiving), the various ways we like to do it, and even its spiritual implications.

 

What Makes It Worship? | Devotion & Love | Sensate Focus | Clit Worship | Foot Worship | Roleplay | Beducated | Self-Esteem & Body Image | Love Languages | Use the Right Words | Long-Distance Worship | Worshipping Submissives | The Sublime

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]]> Ravenous Reverence Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:51:26 What does it mean to “worship” someone sexually? This week we’re discussing how body worship makes us feel (while giving or receiving), the various ways we like to do it, and even its spiritual implications. What does it mean to “worship” someone sexually? This week we’re discussing how body worship makes us feel (while giving or receiving), the various ways we like to do it, and even its spiritual implications. true full 280 1ffcc4e8-b9b3-4c5d-b7ea-56716aaef074 Professor Pervert, Esq. The names and titles we use in bed (or in the dungeon) can really affect how we feel about our partners and ourselves. This week we’re discussing kinky honorifics: the ones we use, the ones we don’t use, and the advice we have for other kinksters who are horny for honorifics.
 

What Are Honorifics? | Affectionate Nicknames | Daddy | Princess, Etc. | Pet | Daddy, Again | Honorific Exclusivity | Queering “Daddy” | Non-Monogamy | Equivalents to “Daddy” | Finding Titles | Yes/No/Maybe List | Non-Gendered Honorifics | Introducing New Ones | Premature Honorifics | M/s Language | Mollena Williams-Haas’ Risk Story

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]]> Tue, 8 Mar 2022 21:42:37 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/professor-pervert-esq-CwdXf7pY The names and titles we use in bed (or in the dungeon) can really affect how we feel about our partners and ourselves. This week we’re discussing kinky honorifics: the ones we use, the ones we don’t use, and the advice we have for other kinksters who are horny for honorifics.
 

What Are Honorifics? | Affectionate Nicknames | Daddy | Princess, Etc. | Pet | Daddy, Again | Honorific Exclusivity | Queering “Daddy” | Non-Monogamy | Equivalents to “Daddy” | Finding Titles | Yes/No/Maybe List | Non-Gendered Honorifics | Introducing New Ones | Premature Honorifics | M/s Language | Mollena Williams-Haas’ Risk Story

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]]> Professor Pervert, Esq. Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:30 The names and titles we use in bed (or in the dungeon) can really affect how we feel about our partners and ourselves. This week we’re discussing kinky honorifics: the ones we use, the ones we don’t use, and the advice we have for other kinksters who are horny for honorifics. The names and titles we use in bed (or in the dungeon) can really affect how we feel about our partners and ourselves. This week we’re discussing kinky honorifics: the ones we use, the ones we don’t use, and the advice we have for other kinksters who are horny for honorifics. true full 279 7e863a16-20ea-4d8d-ad9c-5fdf95896677 Doll Face We’re returning to the topic of objectification to answer listener questions about dirty talk, dysphoria, combining this kink with other ones, and more!

Degradation vs. Praise | Self-Esteem | Aftercare | Types of Objects | Dirty Talk | Our Fave Scenes | Fancy Shoes | Dysphoria | Chronic Pain | Race Play | Kink Pairings | Sissies vs. Bimbos | Impact

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]]> Wed, 2 Mar 2022 16:39:24 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/doll-face-yCOP0P1r We’re returning to the topic of objectification to answer listener questions about dirty talk, dysphoria, combining this kink with other ones, and more!

Degradation vs. Praise | Self-Esteem | Aftercare | Types of Objects | Dirty Talk | Our Fave Scenes | Fancy Shoes | Dysphoria | Chronic Pain | Race Play | Kink Pairings | Sissies vs. Bimbos | Impact

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]]> Doll Face Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:37 We’re returning to the topic of objectification to answer listener questions about dirty talk, dysphoria, combining this kink with other ones, and more! We’re returning to the topic of objectification to answer listener questions about dirty talk, dysphoria, combining this kink with other ones, and more! true full 278 562720f6-4146-475a-afee-8dbbb65b9794 Critical Hit This week we’re pleased to welcome back Kenton from Funkit Toys to discuss his latest project: the Random Encounters sex dice! Join us for a nerdy discussion of sex toy creation and the joys of sexual randomness.
 

Origin Story | NoFrilldo | Dildo Fundraisers | Sex Dice | Survey | Clear Imagery | Outdoor Sex | Rooms | Mouth & Hand Stuff | Random Number | Toys vs. Tools | Instructions & Consent | Kinky Expansion

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]]> Tue, 22 Feb 2022 23:04:20 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/critical-hit-FpZTiJVv This week we’re pleased to welcome back Kenton from Funkit Toys to discuss his latest project: the Random Encounters sex dice! Join us for a nerdy discussion of sex toy creation and the joys of sexual randomness.
 

Origin Story | NoFrilldo | Dildo Fundraisers | Sex Dice | Survey | Clear Imagery | Outdoor Sex | Rooms | Mouth & Hand Stuff | Random Number | Toys vs. Tools | Instructions & Consent | Kinky Expansion

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]]> Critical Hit Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:48:35 This week we’re pleased to welcome back Kenton from Funkit Toys to discuss his latest project: the Random Encounters sex dice! Join us for a nerdy discussion of sex toy creation and the joys of sexual randomness. This week we’re pleased to welcome back Kenton from Funkit Toys to discuss his latest project: the Random Encounters sex dice! Join us for a nerdy discussion of sex toy creation and the joys of sexual randomness. true full 277 a43d590d-ee23-4e3b-bf9d-ab86602aac26 O is for Object Objectification can be so so bad or so so good, depending on context and consent. This week we’re discussing how consensual, kinky objectification relates to – and differs from – more mainstream concepts of sexual objectification.

 

What is Objectification? | Feminist Arguments | Martha Nussbaum | Instrumentality | Denial of Autonomy | Inertness | Fungibility | Violability | Ownership | Denial of Subjectivity | Objectifying Doms & Tops | Alien Sex | “Pleasure-As-Byproduct” | Clinical Objectification

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]]> Tue, 15 Feb 2022 16:55:23 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/o-is-for-object-p8xMFWBQ Objectification can be so so bad or so so good, depending on context and consent. This week we’re discussing how consensual, kinky objectification relates to – and differs from – more mainstream concepts of sexual objectification.

 

What is Objectification? | Feminist Arguments | Martha Nussbaum | Instrumentality | Denial of Autonomy | Inertness | Fungibility | Violability | Ownership | Denial of Subjectivity | Objectifying Doms & Tops | Alien Sex | “Pleasure-As-Byproduct” | Clinical Objectification

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]]> O is for Object Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:00 Objectification can be so so bad or so so good, depending on context and consent. This week we’re discussing how consensual, kinky objectification relates to – and differs from – more mainstream concepts of sexual objectification. Objectification can be so so bad or so so good, depending on context and consent. This week we’re discussing how consensual, kinky objectification relates to – and differs from – more mainstream concepts of sexual objectification. true full 276 46298ed3-61a9-4a2e-82a8-10351ba90338 No Pain, No Gain This week we’re delighted to chat with Leigh Cowart, the author of one of our favorite recent books, Hurts So Good: The Science & Culture of Pain on Purpose! We discuss sexual and nonsexual masochism, some of the brain science behind pain, and the process of writing their incredible book.

 

Hurts So Good | Recording the Audiobook | The Origins of Masochism | Sexual vs. Nonsexual | Lightbulb Moment | Hot Peppers | Polar Plunge | Hot Ones | Being Witnessed | Hook Suspension | Physiological Predisposition | Learning to Like Pain | Arousal & Pain | Focus | Pain Processing Techniques | Psychedelics | Subspace | Emotional Pain | Post-Fifty Shades | Spanking with Our Books

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]]> Tue, 8 Feb 2022 21:33:05 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/no-pain-no-gain-UY0RsX_j This week we’re delighted to chat with Leigh Cowart, the author of one of our favorite recent books, Hurts So Good: The Science & Culture of Pain on Purpose! We discuss sexual and nonsexual masochism, some of the brain science behind pain, and the process of writing their incredible book.

 

Hurts So Good | Recording the Audiobook | The Origins of Masochism | Sexual vs. Nonsexual | Lightbulb Moment | Hot Peppers | Polar Plunge | Hot Ones | Being Witnessed | Hook Suspension | Physiological Predisposition | Learning to Like Pain | Arousal & Pain | Focus | Pain Processing Techniques | Psychedelics | Subspace | Emotional Pain | Post-Fifty Shades | Spanking with Our Books

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]]> No Pain, No Gain Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:09 This week we’re delighted to chat with Leigh Cowart, the author of one of our favorite recent books, Hurts So Good: The Science & Culture of Pain on Purpose! We discuss sexual and nonsexual masochism, some of the brain science behind pain, and the process of writing their incredible book. This week we’re delighted to chat with Leigh Cowart, the author of one of our favorite recent books, Hurts So Good: The Science & Culture of Pain on Purpose! We discuss sexual and nonsexual masochism, some of the brain science behind pain, and the process of writing their incredible book. true full 275 390d7c52-faec-4a51-a187-710d23853d14 Serves You Right This week we’re discussing the ways service kink manifests in our relationships currently, and what our biggest service-related fantasies are.

Teacher/Student Fantasies | Sexual Service | Day-to-Day Service | Initiating Service | Caregiver/Little | “Good Girl” Feeling | Dopamine Machine | Learning to Receive | Gratitude & Feedback | GSRM Coaching | Anticipatory Service | Good Service | Clarifying Questions | Remembering Details | Long-Distance | Housework | Oral Service

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]]> Wed, 2 Feb 2022 16:40:06 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/serves-you-right-dB5Cyvx6 This week we’re discussing the ways service kink manifests in our relationships currently, and what our biggest service-related fantasies are.

Teacher/Student Fantasies | Sexual Service | Day-to-Day Service | Initiating Service | Caregiver/Little | “Good Girl” Feeling | Dopamine Machine | Learning to Receive | Gratitude & Feedback | GSRM Coaching | Anticipatory Service | Good Service | Clarifying Questions | Remembering Details | Long-Distance | Housework | Oral Service

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]]> Serves You Right Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:54:32 This week we’re discussing the ways service kink manifests in our relationships currently, and what our biggest service-related fantasies are. This week we’re discussing the ways service kink manifests in our relationships currently, and what our biggest service-related fantasies are. true full 274 89261e94-d551-48b4-b0d4-6b3a75121b9d Peen Machines Sex toys for penises are seldom discussed, compared to their vulva-focused counterparts, so this week we’re shining a light on our favorite toys for dicks and how to use them!

 

Stigma | Sexual Economics | Coolness | Simple vs. Complex | First Toy | Tenga Egg | Fleshlight Quickshot | Fleshlight STU | Penis Vibrators | Fun Factory Manta | Hot Octopuss Pulse | Cobra Libre | Magic Wand Rechargeable | Stroker Wand Attachment | Vibe Technique | Orgasm Difficulties | Lovense Max 2 | Gender-Affirming Toys | Balldo | Exo | Cute Little Fuckers | Mobility Issues | Bump’n Joystick | The Handy | Lovense Gush | Fleshlight Mount | Encouraging a Partner

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]]> Tue, 25 Jan 2022 21:14:16 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/peen-machines-_G41GD1v Sex toys for penises are seldom discussed, compared to their vulva-focused counterparts, so this week we’re shining a light on our favorite toys for dicks and how to use them!

 

Stigma | Sexual Economics | Coolness | Simple vs. Complex | First Toy | Tenga Egg | Fleshlight Quickshot | Fleshlight STU | Penis Vibrators | Fun Factory Manta | Hot Octopuss Pulse | Cobra Libre | Magic Wand Rechargeable | Stroker Wand Attachment | Vibe Technique | Orgasm Difficulties | Lovense Max 2 | Gender-Affirming Toys | Balldo | Exo | Cute Little Fuckers | Mobility Issues | Bump’n Joystick | The Handy | Lovense Gush | Fleshlight Mount | Encouraging a Partner

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]]> Peen Machines Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:51:06 Sex toys for penises are seldom discussed, compared to their vulva-focused counterparts, so this week we’re shining a light on our favorite toys for dicks and how to use them! Sex toys for penises are seldom discussed, compared to their vulva-focused counterparts, so this week we’re shining a light on our favorite toys for dicks and how to use them! true full 273 4171b684-b672-40c8-aa25-483a45483106 Archetypes After Dark How can we use the idea of “archetypes” in our kink scenes? This week we’re discussing some of our favorite kinky archetypes and how we incorporate them into our play.
 

What Are Kinky Archetypes? | No Punishment | Benefits vs. Limitations | Media Influences | Fanfiction | Submissive Archetypes | Teacher/Student | Masochists | Attractive Archetypes | Honorifics | Headspace | Non-Gendered Archetypes | Cis White Dominant Men

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]]> Tue, 18 Jan 2022 20:11:58 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/archetypes-after-dark-irnlbTdh How can we use the idea of “archetypes” in our kink scenes? This week we’re discussing some of our favorite kinky archetypes and how we incorporate them into our play.
 

What Are Kinky Archetypes? | No Punishment | Benefits vs. Limitations | Media Influences | Fanfiction | Submissive Archetypes | Teacher/Student | Masochists | Attractive Archetypes | Honorifics | Headspace | Non-Gendered Archetypes | Cis White Dominant Men

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]]> Archetypes After Dark Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:06 How can we use the idea of “archetypes” in our kink scenes? This week we’re discussing some of our favorite kinky archetypes and how we incorporate them into our play. How can we use the idea of “archetypes” in our kink scenes? This week we’re discussing some of our favorite kinky archetypes and how we incorporate them into our play. true full 272 dff03e95-76f6-4ec1-9faf-edc507b786c7 Boozy Screws A lot of people combine sex with alcohol, but how can one do so in the safest and kindest way possible? This week we’re discussing the important intricacies of sex while tipsy.
 

Harm Reduction | Consent | Arousal & Sensitivity | Lowered Inhibitions | First Dates | Intentionality | Booze vs. Weed | Chaturbate Profile Templates | Non-Drinker | Hangover Advice | Advantages | Pre-Negotiation | Flirting at Bars | Invoking #MeToo | Semenology | Serving Drinks

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]]> Tue, 11 Jan 2022 18:02:13 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/boozy-screws-aHLOA2cG A lot of people combine sex with alcohol, but how can one do so in the safest and kindest way possible? This week we’re discussing the important intricacies of sex while tipsy.
 

Harm Reduction | Consent | Arousal & Sensitivity | Lowered Inhibitions | First Dates | Intentionality | Booze vs. Weed | Chaturbate Profile Templates | Non-Drinker | Hangover Advice | Advantages | Pre-Negotiation | Flirting at Bars | Invoking #MeToo | Semenology | Serving Drinks

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]]> Boozy Screws Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:07:46 A lot of people combine sex with alcohol, but how can one do so in the safest and kindest way possible? This week we’re discussing the important intricacies of sex while tipsy. A lot of people combine sex with alcohol, but how can one do so in the safest and kindest way possible? This week we’re discussing the important intricacies of sex while tipsy. true full 271 a4217e06-6a33-4092-bc12-c2d9f98bf051 Happy Nude Year Happy new year! This week we’re reflecting on our sex and kink adventures from 2021, and setting goals for 2022.
 

Our Holidays | This Year vs. Last Year | New Things | Things We Did Less Of | Toys & Products | Best Sex | Last Year’s Goals | Chaturbate Bio Design | Next Year’s Goals | Fantasies | Silliest Sex

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]]> Tue, 4 Jan 2022 21:55:11 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/happy-nude-year-5HRbd_5W Happy new year! This week we’re reflecting on our sex and kink adventures from 2021, and setting goals for 2022.
 

Our Holidays | This Year vs. Last Year | New Things | Things We Did Less Of | Toys & Products | Best Sex | Last Year’s Goals | Chaturbate Bio Design | Next Year’s Goals | Fantasies | Silliest Sex

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]]> Happy Nude Year Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:03:11 Happy new year! This week we’re reflecting on our sex and kink adventures from 2021, and setting goals for 2022. Happy new year! This week we’re reflecting on our sex and kink adventures from 2021, and setting goals for 2022. true full 270 abd392c8-24ae-4b34-938b-6e721817be02 Titillation & Explication Happy holidays! We’re finishing off the year by answering some questions about penis size, lesbian sex, sex work, and other sexy miscellany.

 

Scissoring | Dick Size Comparison | A-Spot Dicks | First Time with a SW | Chaturbate Profile Templates | Waiting for Marriage | Medical Issue | Medical Arousal

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]]> Tue, 21 Dec 2021 18:28:50 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/titillation-explication-0a5NUjR9 Happy holidays! We’re finishing off the year by answering some questions about penis size, lesbian sex, sex work, and other sexy miscellany.

 

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]]> Titillation & Explication Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:47:24 Happy holidays! We’re finishing off the year by answering some questions about penis size, lesbian sex, sex work, and other sexy miscellany. Happy holidays! We’re finishing off the year by answering some questions about penis size, lesbian sex, sex work, and other sexy miscellany. true full 269 93053154-e9b2-4d67-8ca2-85810bf3365b Let's Talk About Text, Baby We’re still pontificating about sexting! In this week’s episode, we share our thoughts on sending and receiving nudes, sexting in public, being a polite sexter, and more.

 

Re-Reading Sexts | Sexting Etiquette | Stepping Away | Parentheticals | Masturbating vs. Not | Photo Consent | Text-Friendly Kinks | Public Play | IRL Awkwardness | Taking Nudes | Asking for Compliments | Partner Doesn’t Like It | Voice vs. Text | Replying to Nudes

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]]> Tue, 14 Dec 2021 18:22:22 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/lets-talk-about-text-baby-qpHa4ugu We’re still pontificating about sexting! In this week’s episode, we share our thoughts on sending and receiving nudes, sexting in public, being a polite sexter, and more.

 

Re-Reading Sexts | Sexting Etiquette | Stepping Away | Parentheticals | Masturbating vs. Not | Photo Consent | Text-Friendly Kinks | Public Play | IRL Awkwardness | Taking Nudes | Asking for Compliments | Partner Doesn’t Like It | Voice vs. Text | Replying to Nudes

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]]> Let's Talk About Text, Baby Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:59:54 We’re still pontificating about sexting! In this week’s episode, we share our thoughts on sending and receiving nudes, sexting in public, being a polite sexter, and more. We’re still pontificating about sexting! In this week’s episode, we share our thoughts on sending and receiving nudes, sexting in public, being a polite sexter, and more. true full 268 6913cfac-f1c7-46a8-bebe-1d08cf1c8369 Textual Attraction Now more than ever, sexting is a key way many people are expressing their sexualities. This week, we share our current thoughts on, and approaches to, sexting!
 

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]]> Tue, 7 Dec 2021 23:12:53 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/textual-attraction-PuO41mey Now more than ever, sexting is a key way many people are expressing their sexualities. This week, we share our current thoughts on, and approaches to, sexting!
 

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]]> Textual Attraction Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:21 Now more than ever, sexting is a key way many people are expressing their sexualities. This week, we share our current thoughts on, and approaches to, sexting! Now more than ever, sexting is a key way many people are expressing their sexualities. This week, we share our current thoughts on, and approaches to, sexting! true full 267 af5d55f4-0b37-430a-9d1b-a04800f7ff8a What the Fig? If you know what figging is, then you know that this episode where we got figged during the recording is gonna be a wild one. If you don’t know what figging is… prepare to find out!
 

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]]> Tue, 30 Nov 2021 18:46:26 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/what-the-fig-D_CF_UFM If you know what figging is, then you know that this episode where we got figged during the recording is gonna be a wild one. If you don’t know what figging is… prepare to find out!
 

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]]> What the Fig? Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:34:41 If you know what figging is, then you know that this episode where we got figged during the recording is gonna be a wild one. If you don’t know what figging is… prepare to find out! If you know what figging is, then you know that this episode where we got figged during the recording is gonna be a wild one. If you don’t know what figging is… prepare to find out! true full 266 9dcce260-07ca-42b7-9895-5dc80114fd18 (Don't) Stop in the Name of Love This week, we’re answering more listener questions about consensual non-consent!
 

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]]> Tue, 23 Nov 2021 19:45:15 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/dont-stop-in-the-name-of-love-zTKpgtdK This week, we’re answering more listener questions about consensual non-consent!
 

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]]> (Don't) Stop in the Name of Love Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:57:29 This week, we’re answering more listener questions about consensual non-consent! This week, we’re answering more listener questions about consensual non-consent! true full 265 dc42d56b-30be-417c-b472-eff1f34cb20a When No Means Ohhh Consensual non-consent is a controversial kink, so this week we’re talking about how to do it in the safest, hottest, and kindest ways possible.
 

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]]> Tue, 16 Nov 2021 19:13:29 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/when-no-means-ohhh-uw4QmCsh Consensual non-consent is a controversial kink, so this week we’re talking about how to do it in the safest, hottest, and kindest ways possible.
 

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]]> When No Means Ohhh Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:02:22 Consensual non-consent is a controversial kink, so this week we’re talking about how to do it in the safest, hottest, and kindest ways possible. Consensual non-consent is a controversial kink, so this week we’re talking about how to do it in the safest, hottest, and kindest ways possible. true full 264 cc2cb363-2e8c-4731-b942-886b1671f381 Zonked Out This week we’re discussing sleepy sex: how to do it safely and consensually, why it’s kinky as heck, and what additions can make it even kinkier.

 

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]]> Tue, 9 Nov 2021 17:25:18 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/zonked-out-t_y_mm0k This week we’re discussing sleepy sex: how to do it safely and consensually, why it’s kinky as heck, and what additions can make it even kinkier.

 

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]]> Zonked Out Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:50:12 This week we’re discussing sleepy sex: how to do it safely and consensually, why it’s kinky as heck, and what additions can make it even kinkier. This week we’re discussing sleepy sex: how to do it safely and consensually, why it’s kinky as heck, and what additions can make it even kinkier. true full 263 47d1baa4-2f88-4a48-ad8f-9e16ce4464da Sexpress Yourself Many people wish they were better at dirty talk, so this week we’re discussing some of our favorite dirty-talk tips and tricks!
 

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]]> Tue, 2 Nov 2021 17:29:37 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sexpress-yourself-JJsy0Wbp Many people wish they were better at dirty talk, so this week we’re discussing some of our favorite dirty-talk tips and tricks!
 

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]]> Sexpress Yourself Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:57:39 Many people wish they were better at dirty talk, so this week we’re discussing some of our favorite dirty-talk tips and tricks! Many people wish they were better at dirty talk, so this week we’re discussing some of our favorite dirty-talk tips and tricks! true full 262 10d61a43-be79-43c1-be23-a519e53f67da Praise Craze Ever been turned on by receiving or giving praise? This week we’re discussing the ins and outs of praise kink!
 

Mean 4 Pay | What is Praise Kink? | Kink vs. Preference | The Power of Kink | Feedback for Tops | Praise vs. Service | Love Languages & Trauma | Brain Chemistry | Motivator & Reward | Calm & Connection | Praise as Humiliation | Types of Scenes | First Times | Solo Praise | Non-Gendered Praise | Non-Verbal Praise

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]]> Tue, 26 Oct 2021 17:51:31 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/praise-craze-PqVFs1HC Ever been turned on by receiving or giving praise? This week we’re discussing the ins and outs of praise kink!
 

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]]> Praise Craze Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:57:26 Ever been turned on by receiving or giving praise? This week we’re discussing the ins and outs of praise kink! Ever been turned on by receiving or giving praise? This week we’re discussing the ins and outs of praise kink! true full 261 4e49e52c-9a47-4578-a3d9-85a5ad478900 You Always Remember Your Fist Fisting is an oft-misunderstood sex act, so this week we’re discussing the mechanics and philosophy of this much-revered form of hand sex.
 

Misconceptions | Muscle Tone | Brain & Pain | Fisting Technique | Pain from Topping | G-Spot | Closing the Fist | Extra Stimulation | Numbing Lube | Discomfort | Does It Feel Good? | Crying | Toy Training | Intoxicants | Fist Size | Lube & Gloves | Arousal & Orgasm | Vaginal vs. Anal

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]]> Wed, 20 Oct 2021 16:25:38 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/you-always-remember-your-fist-OShyVPZI Fisting is an oft-misunderstood sex act, so this week we’re discussing the mechanics and philosophy of this much-revered form of hand sex.
 

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]]> You Always Remember Your Fist Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:53:34 Fisting is an oft-misunderstood sex act, so this week we’re discussing the mechanics and philosophy of this much-revered form of hand sex. Fisting is an oft-misunderstood sex act, so this week we’re discussing the mechanics and philosophy of this much-revered form of hand sex. true full 260 de1947bc-e4ea-47e8-8ca2-e9bc81c32fd6 Cum Conundrums This week we’re answering sex advice requests from Reddit about masturbation, threesomes, vaginas, hookup etiquette, and more!
 

Jerking Off After Sex | Didn’t Come | Partner Doesn’t Masturbate | Massage Boners | Vagina Disgust | Threesome Inequality | First-Date BJ

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]]> Tue, 12 Oct 2021 20:13:50 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/cum-conundrums-RmTb7pxI This week we’re answering sex advice requests from Reddit about masturbation, threesomes, vaginas, hookup etiquette, and more!
 

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]]> Cum Conundrums Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:51:23 This week we’re answering sex advice requests from Reddit about masturbation, threesomes, vaginas, hookup etiquette, and more! This week we’re answering sex advice requests from Reddit about masturbation, threesomes, vaginas, hookup etiquette, and more! true full 259 c0701f53-7af6-46be-91d6-032920161fab The Paddle is Mightier Kate’s debut book 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do is launching in one week, so this week Bex interviews her about the writing process, the philosophy of the book, and how she hopes readers will use it!
 

Long Title | Why? | Experience Level | Narrowing It Down | Extreme Stuff | Intoxication & Sleepy Sex | Research | Fetishwear | Fragrances | Illustrations | How to Use the Book | Pen Choice | Hardest Part | Research Sources | Writing Process | Launch Party | Blurbs & Acknowledgments

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]]> Tue, 5 Oct 2021 19:07:13 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/the-paddle-is-mightier-ha6YnaKj Kate’s debut book 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do is launching in one week, so this week Bex interviews her about the writing process, the philosophy of the book, and how she hopes readers will use it!
 

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]]> The Paddle is Mightier Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:51:06 Kate’s debut book 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do is launching in one week, so this week Bex interviews her about the writing process, the philosophy of the book, and how she hopes readers will use it! Kate’s debut book 101 Kinky Things Even You Can Do is launching in one week, so this week Bex interviews her about the writing process, the philosophy of the book, and how she hopes readers will use it! true full 258 df734eb1-d8bc-4aec-b68d-b4903b43f2ce Heckin' Horny This week we’re talking with Mx. Nillin, a sex blogger, educator, and erotica author, about their upcoming anthology of trans and non-binary erotica, Heckin’ Lewd!

 

Fanfiction | Heckin’ Lewd | Nillin’s Erotica Journey | Personal Experiences vs. Fiction | Blogging vs. Erotica | Own Voices | Trauma & Violence | Trans Representation | What is Trans Sex Like? | Aromanticism | Demisexuality | Sex Stress & Impotence | Strap-Ons & Balldo

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]]> Tue, 28 Sep 2021 20:54:03 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/heckin-horny-bGlHEVwr This week we’re talking with Mx. Nillin, a sex blogger, educator, and erotica author, about their upcoming anthology of trans and non-binary erotica, Heckin’ Lewd!

 

Fanfiction | Heckin’ Lewd | Nillin’s Erotica Journey | Personal Experiences vs. Fiction | Blogging vs. Erotica | Own Voices | Trauma & Violence | Trans Representation | What is Trans Sex Like? | Aromanticism | Demisexuality | Sex Stress & Impotence | Strap-Ons & Balldo

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]]> Heckin' Horny Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:50 This week we’re talking with Mx. Nillin, a sex blogger, educator, and erotica author, about their upcoming anthology of trans and non-binary erotica, Heckin’ Lewd! This week we’re talking with Mx. Nillin, a sex blogger, educator, and erotica author, about their upcoming anthology of trans and non-binary erotica, Heckin’ Lewd! true full 257 80859ce6-219b-4795-bb1b-ac6a9b78c63d Perverts in Tents Bex just got back from Dark Odyssey kink camp, so in this episode he regales us with kinky stories and offers advice for folks considering going in future!
 

Con Drop | What is Kink Camp? | Shyness & Anxiety | Interesting Outfits | The Hunt | Suspension Scene | Swing Sex | Birdcages & Sarcophagi | COVID Precautions | Socializing Again | What to Bring | Camping Newbies | Demographics

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]]> Tue, 21 Sep 2021 22:21:33 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/perverts-in-tents-HJQa1tro Bex just got back from Dark Odyssey kink camp, so in this episode he regales us with kinky stories and offers advice for folks considering going in future!
 

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]]> Perverts in Tents Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:48:06 Bex just got back from Dark Odyssey kink camp, so in this episode he regales us with kinky stories and offers advice for folks considering going in future! Bex just got back from Dark Odyssey kink camp, so in this episode he regales us with kinky stories and offers advice for folks considering going in future! true full 256 57fcaac1-aa70-4f77-9c42-3dbe6db29708 Rub-a-Dub-Dub Many people worry about their sexual hygiene and grooming, so this week we’re answering listener questions on these sensitive topics!
 

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]]> Tue, 14 Sep 2021 20:36:37 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/rub-a-dub-dub-bqZcWNHQ Many people worry about their sexual hygiene and grooming, so this week we’re answering listener questions on these sensitive topics!
 

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]]> Rub-a-Dub-Dub Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:14 Many people worry about their sexual hygiene and grooming, so this week we’re answering listener questions on these sensitive topics! Many people worry about their sexual hygiene and grooming, so this week we’re answering listener questions on these sensitive topics! true full 255 34bcf8c9-9488-4f7e-96e0-75dbcedae59c Tender Gender Lots of people have learned new things about their gender and identity during the pandemic, so this week we’re discussing how to re-enter the dating scene as a newly-out trans person.

 

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]]> Tue, 7 Sep 2021 19:39:52 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/tender-gender-VEvHG3KL Lots of people have learned new things about their gender and identity during the pandemic, so this week we’re discussing how to re-enter the dating scene as a newly-out trans person.

 

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]]> Tender Gender Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:47:53 Lots of people have learned new things about their gender and identity during the pandemic, so this week we’re discussing how to re-enter the dating scene as a newly-out trans person. Lots of people have learned new things about their gender and identity during the pandemic, so this week we’re discussing how to re-enter the dating scene as a newly-out trans person. true full 254 c0a72794-2ee9-4c07-b084-b9860f894342 OnlyBans With the recent news about OnlyFans fresh in our minds, this week we’re discussing sex work stigma, financial issues in the sex industry, and how to be a good customer to online sex workers.
 

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]]> OnlyBans Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:09 With the recent news about OnlyFans fresh in our minds, this week we’re discussing sex work stigma, financial issues in the sex industry, and how to be a good customer to online sex workers. With the recent news about OnlyFans fresh in our minds, this week we’re discussing sex work stigma, financial issues in the sex industry, and how to be a good customer to online sex workers. true full 253 b75f9949-daf1-41e4-b58d-b23369d02ebe What's in the Cards? This week we’re joined by sex blogger and tarot reader Wendy Phillips of The Wench Works. We chat about blogging, self-esteem, and the intersections of kink and spirituality – and Wendy gives us each a heartfelt tarot reading about self-love.
 

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]]> Tue, 24 Aug 2021 18:52:05 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/whats-in-the-cards-1lIU4N5C This week we’re joined by sex blogger and tarot reader Wendy Phillips of The Wench Works. We chat about blogging, self-esteem, and the intersections of kink and spirituality – and Wendy gives us each a heartfelt tarot reading about self-love.
 

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]]> What's in the Cards? Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:07 This week we’re joined by sex blogger and tarot reader Wendy Phillips of The Wench Works. We chat about blogging, self-esteem, and the intersections of kink and spirituality – and Wendy gives us each a heartfelt tarot reading about self-love. This week we’re joined by sex blogger and tarot reader Wendy Phillips of The Wench Works. We chat about blogging, self-esteem, and the intersections of kink and spirituality – and Wendy gives us each a heartfelt tarot reading about self-love. true full 252 418412d6-d80a-43a2-a745-adb639c58895 Bookish Hookups Our guest this week is the sex educator and author Allison Moon! Her wonderful new book, Getting It, inspired this deep-dive discussion of casual sex.
 

Getting It | Different Approach to Casual Sex | Gendered Assumptions | Communicating Desires | Modelling Behaviors | Is It Empowering? | Setting an Intention | Is Sex Inherently Good? | Platonic Touch | Hookup Apps | In-Person Attraction | Saying No | Enthusiastic Consent | Transactional Sex | On the Hook | AudioDesires.com | Slutty Empathy | Aftercare | Getting Laid on Recommendation

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]]> Tue, 10 Aug 2021 20:17:06 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/bookish-hookups-RhZfq8hq Our guest this week is the sex educator and author Allison Moon! Her wonderful new book, Getting It, inspired this deep-dive discussion of casual sex.
 

Getting It | Different Approach to Casual Sex | Gendered Assumptions | Communicating Desires | Modelling Behaviors | Is It Empowering? | Setting an Intention | Is Sex Inherently Good? | Platonic Touch | Hookup Apps | In-Person Attraction | Saying No | Enthusiastic Consent | Transactional Sex | On the Hook | AudioDesires.com | Slutty Empathy | Aftercare | Getting Laid on Recommendation

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]]> Bookish Hookups Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:59:38 Our guest this week is the sex educator and author Allison Moon! Her wonderful new book, Getting It, inspired this deep-dive discussion of casual sex. Our guest this week is the sex educator and author Allison Moon! Her wonderful new book, Getting It, inspired this deep-dive discussion of casual sex. true full 251 6a3a1d26-377b-4c92-bab2-f0da4b75eb99 Sex, Dating, & Celebrating We’re celebrating our 250th episode by doing something a little different this week: our partners, Ashe and Matt, put us in the hotseat to interview us about our show’s evolution, what we’ve learned these past 250 episodes, and more!
 

How It All Started | Lessons from Guests | Changes Since Episode 1 | Dream Guests | Behind the Scenes | More Kink Talk | Another Format | Fan Interactions | Best Thing About It | Future of the Show | Quitting the Show? | Influencing Our Relationships | Listener Questions | Keeping Sex Sexy

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]]> Tue, 3 Aug 2021 18:05:45 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sex-dating-celebrating-ZF61Brth We’re celebrating our 250th episode by doing something a little different this week: our partners, Ashe and Matt, put us in the hotseat to interview us about our show’s evolution, what we’ve learned these past 250 episodes, and more!
 

How It All Started | Lessons from Guests | Changes Since Episode 1 | Dream Guests | Behind the Scenes | More Kink Talk | Another Format | Fan Interactions | Best Thing About It | Future of the Show | Quitting the Show? | Influencing Our Relationships | Listener Questions | Keeping Sex Sexy

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]]> Sex, Dating, & Celebrating Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:12:51 We’re celebrating our 250th episode by doing something a little different this week: our partners, Ashe and Matt, put us in the hotseat to interview us about our show’s evolution, what we’ve learned these past 250 episodes, and more! We’re celebrating our 250th episode by doing something a little different this week: our partners, Ashe and Matt, put us in the hotseat to interview us about our show’s evolution, what we’ve learned these past 250 episodes, and more! true full 250 bda94f57-da3c-4b68-9afe-2401e500c96f Not Tonight, Honey Many people get nervous about sexually rejecting partners, or get sad when someone sexually rejects them. This week we’re giving advice on common sexual rejection scenarios!

 

Sex & Self-Identity | Period Sex | Responsive Desire | AudioDesires.com | Feeling Pouty | Kind Rejection

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]]> Tue, 27 Jul 2021 21:12:20 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/not-tonight-honey-6SUAMntg Many people get nervous about sexually rejecting partners, or get sad when someone sexually rejects them. This week we’re giving advice on common sexual rejection scenarios!

 

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]]> Not Tonight, Honey Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:33 Many people get nervous about sexually rejecting partners, or get sad when someone sexually rejects them. This week we’re giving advice on common sexual rejection scenarios! Many people get nervous about sexually rejecting partners, or get sad when someone sexually rejects them. This week we’re giving advice on common sexual rejection scenarios! true full 249 7abad1ec-c878-4e07-ae65-72d993dd5fe4 Thanks, But No Thanks Being rejected is hard, and rejecting someone might be even harder. This week we’re delving into the intricacies of romantic rejection!
 

Soft No’s vs. Hard No’s | Rejecting a Date Nicely | Getting Over Rejection | Media Depictions | Letting Someone Down | Childhood Rejection | Rejection-Sensitive Dysphoria | Comforting a Friend

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]]> Tue, 20 Jul 2021 18:57:20 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/thanks-but-no-thanks-7gmoFNW1 Being rejected is hard, and rejecting someone might be even harder. This week we’re delving into the intricacies of romantic rejection!
 

Soft No’s vs. Hard No’s | Rejecting a Date Nicely | Getting Over Rejection | Media Depictions | Letting Someone Down | Childhood Rejection | Rejection-Sensitive Dysphoria | Comforting a Friend

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]]> Thanks, But No Thanks Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:59:11 Being rejected is hard, and rejecting someone might be even harder. This week we’re delving into the intricacies of romantic rejection! Being rejected is hard, and rejecting someone might be even harder. This week we’re delving into the intricacies of romantic rejection! true full 248 8101d766-8c85-438b-8590-99a6ceebbe09 Meta-More Navigating polyamory can be difficult even in the best of times, so this week we’re answering listener questions about non-monogamy!
 

Polycule Crush | Converting a Newbie | Can I Kiss My Metamour? | What Type? | “Too Much Work” | Reopening Post-Pandemic

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]]> Tue, 13 Jul 2021 19:39:07 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/meta-more-9vmpruEE Navigating polyamory can be difficult even in the best of times, so this week we’re answering listener questions about non-monogamy!
 

Polycule Crush | Converting a Newbie | Can I Kiss My Metamour? | What Type? | “Too Much Work” | Reopening Post-Pandemic

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]]> Meta-More Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:43:23 Navigating polyamory can be difficult even in the best of times, so this week we’re answering listener questions about non-monogamy! Navigating polyamory can be difficult even in the best of times, so this week we’re answering listener questions about non-monogamy! true full 247 233936c4-ae8d-4ff7-9657-33d85e1c4050 Helping the Horny This week we’re answering questions from the /r/Sex forum on Reddit, on topics such as threesome etiquette, strap-on psychology, and the definition of infidelity!
 

WTF is Reddit? | Pegging | Sleeping with a Virgin | How Important is Sex? | Happy Ending Massage | Disparate Dick Sizes | About to Come | Squirting from Anal

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]]> Tue, 6 Jul 2021 19:35:46 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/helping-the-horny-NOQF_uUJ This week we’re answering questions from the /r/Sex forum on Reddit, on topics such as threesome etiquette, strap-on psychology, and the definition of infidelity!
 

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]]> Helping the Horny Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:17 This week we’re answering questions from the /r/Sex forum on Reddit, on topics such as threesome etiquette, strap-on psychology, and the definition of infidelity! This week we’re answering questions from the /r/Sex forum on Reddit, on topics such as threesome etiquette, strap-on psychology, and the definition of infidelity! true full 246 18be9470-c2c6-45b5-93eb-3ade48fd2389 It's All Relative Talking to your family about sex can be awkward, but we’re here to help! This week we answer your questions on navigating various sexuality-related situations in family dynamics.

 

Parents Don’t Like BF | Coming Out as a Sex Worker | Coming Out as Polyamorous | Queer Little Sister | Condoms for Little Sis | Sex Ed Additions | Kinky Uncle | Porn Star Sister | Bex’s Blowjob Class

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]]> Tue, 29 Jun 2021 18:07:57 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/its-all-relative-w2N6B4Et Talking to your family about sex can be awkward, but we’re here to help! This week we answer your questions on navigating various sexuality-related situations in family dynamics.

 

Parents Don’t Like BF | Coming Out as a Sex Worker | Coming Out as Polyamorous | Queer Little Sister | Condoms for Little Sis | Sex Ed Additions | Kinky Uncle | Porn Star Sister | Bex’s Blowjob Class

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]]> It's All Relative Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:27 Talking to your family about sex can be awkward, but we’re here to help! This week we answer your questions on navigating various sexuality-related situations in family dynamics. Talking to your family about sex can be awkward, but we’re here to help! This week we answer your questions on navigating various sexuality-related situations in family dynamics. true full 245 c972952d-161a-41a0-89da-81d31c4a49ff Sex Drive Nosedive Lots of folks are struggling with libido issues due to pandemic stress, so this week we thought we’d discuss ways to rekindle your libido when it’s waned.

Summoning Sex-Brain | When Does It Wane? | Responsive vs. Spontaneous | Motivation to Rekindle | How to Rekindle | Novelty & Flirting | Not Having Enough Sex | Partner’s Other Dates | Dysphoria | Newly on T | Bad Pain Days | Depression Meds

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]]> Tue, 22 Jun 2021 20:37:53 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sex-drive-nosedive-Fe9UH0hB Lots of folks are struggling with libido issues due to pandemic stress, so this week we thought we’d discuss ways to rekindle your libido when it’s waned.

Summoning Sex-Brain | When Does It Wane? | Responsive vs. Spontaneous | Motivation to Rekindle | How to Rekindle | Novelty & Flirting | Not Having Enough Sex | Partner’s Other Dates | Dysphoria | Newly on T | Bad Pain Days | Depression Meds

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]]> Sex Drive Nosedive Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:57:55 Lots of folks are struggling with libido issues due to pandemic stress, so this week we thought we’d discuss ways to rekindle your libido when it’s waned. Lots of folks are struggling with libido issues due to pandemic stress, so this week we thought we’d discuss ways to rekindle your libido when it’s waned. true full 244 84e17e1b-e545-4d1d-8ce7-d92024238450 Ex-Rated Whether your ex is now your best friend or your sworn enemy, it’s evident that relations with exes can be tricky… This week we advised listeners on their various ex dilemmas!

 

Party Full of Exes | Defining “Ex” | Staying Friends | How to Reconnect | Decoding Intentions | Sex with Exes | Worse Sex | Sex Toys | Go Away Please | Running Into Your Ex | Stop Bringing it Up | Writing About Exes

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]]> Wed, 16 Jun 2021 19:49:24 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/ex-rated-16m2bQoj Whether your ex is now your best friend or your sworn enemy, it’s evident that relations with exes can be tricky… This week we advised listeners on their various ex dilemmas!

 

Party Full of Exes | Defining “Ex” | Staying Friends | How to Reconnect | Decoding Intentions | Sex with Exes | Worse Sex | Sex Toys | Go Away Please | Running Into Your Ex | Stop Bringing it Up | Writing About Exes

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]]> Ex-Rated Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:06:53 Whether your ex is now your best friend or your sworn enemy, it’s evident that relations with exes can be tricky… This week we advised listeners on their various ex dilemmas! Whether your ex is now your best friend or your sworn enemy, it’s evident that relations with exes can be tricky… This week we advised listeners on their various ex dilemmas! true full 243 fb40f4b5-b350-4213-98e2-c9b6c972643d On the Other Hand... Hands and fingers and fists, oh my…! This week we’re talking about hand sex: how to do it, why some people are hesitant to do it, and what makes it feel so damn good.

 

Fisting on Camera | What’s Fun About It? | Uniqueness & Personality | Proper Technique | External Fingering | Anatomy | Ergonomics | Lube | Penis Tips | Balls | Hand Pleasure | Other Hand Stimulation | Hands Only | Fisting Anxiety

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]]> Tue, 8 Jun 2021 20:23:23 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/on-the-other-hand-ByjR5Z00 Hands and fingers and fists, oh my…! This week we’re talking about hand sex: how to do it, why some people are hesitant to do it, and what makes it feel so damn good.

 

Fisting on Camera | What’s Fun About It? | Uniqueness & Personality | Proper Technique | External Fingering | Anatomy | Ergonomics | Lube | Penis Tips | Balls | Hand Pleasure | Other Hand Stimulation | Hands Only | Fisting Anxiety

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]]> On the Other Hand... Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:00:59 Hands and fingers and fists, oh my…! This week we’re talking about hand sex: how to do it, why some people are hesitant to do it, and what makes it feel so damn good. Hands and fingers and fists, oh my…! This week we’re talking about hand sex: how to do it, why some people are hesitant to do it, and what makes it feel so damn good. true full 242 3b595c53-3a36-4297-9057-e16c3c75dcfd Coquettish Fetish We talk about kink a lot, but what about fetishes? This week, we’re discussing what it means to have a fetish, what to do if you’re sexually incompatible with a partner, and why hooking up with fetishists is super fun.
 

Kink vs. Fetish | Where Do They Come From? | Safety Pin Fetish | Media Influences | Playing with Fetishists | Incompatibility | Putting in the Effort | Watersports | Shame & Anger

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]]> Tue, 1 Jun 2021 18:25:32 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/coquettish-fetish-SrBPpruh We talk about kink a lot, but what about fetishes? This week, we’re discussing what it means to have a fetish, what to do if you’re sexually incompatible with a partner, and why hooking up with fetishists is super fun.
 

Kink vs. Fetish | Where Do They Come From? | Safety Pin Fetish | Media Influences | Playing with Fetishists | Incompatibility | Putting in the Effort | Watersports | Shame & Anger

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]]> Coquettish Fetish Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:57:03 We talk about kink a lot, but what about fetishes? This week, we’re discussing what it means to have a fetish, what to do if you’re sexually incompatible with a partner, and why hooking up with fetishists is super fun. We talk about kink a lot, but what about fetishes? This week, we’re discussing what it means to have a fetish, what to do if you’re sexually incompatible with a partner, and why hooking up with fetishists is super fun. true full 241 1d2b44eb-3b1c-4fb0-93e4-78fad6227d56 Casual Copulation This week, we discuss our ever-evolving feelings about casual sex, hookups, and one-night stands!

 

Anxiety & Awkwardness | The Good & The Bad | Scarcity vs. Abundance | Demisexuality & Hookups | Romance vs. Intimacy | Negotiating a Hookup | Mismatched Expectations | Hookup Activities | Making Porn | Trans Pickup Tips | Getting Kinky

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]]> Tue, 25 May 2021 19:40:45 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/casual-copulation-hVDDnKXT This week, we discuss our ever-evolving feelings about casual sex, hookups, and one-night stands!

 

Anxiety & Awkwardness | The Good & The Bad | Scarcity vs. Abundance | Demisexuality & Hookups | Romance vs. Intimacy | Negotiating a Hookup | Mismatched Expectations | Hookup Activities | Making Porn | Trans Pickup Tips | Getting Kinky

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]]> Casual Copulation Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:54:22 This week, we discuss our ever-evolving feelings about casual sex, hookups, and one-night stands! This week, we discuss our ever-evolving feelings about casual sex, hookups, and one-night stands! true full 240 f4ab69c6-f002-4ff8-95cb-66c1bd97a5a3 Cummunal Space This week we’re answering more listener questions about public sex, including sex in locations like fitting rooms, graveyards, and a moving car!
 

Beautiful Days | Not Into It | Visible Bruises | Fitting Room Sex | Cemetery Sex | Road Head | Backyard Porn | Single-Stall Bathroom | Packing Under Clothes | “A Femme’s Guide to Hard Packing” | Dream Locations | Sex on the Beach | Makeout Point

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]]> Tue, 18 May 2021 18:07:48 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/cummunal-space-_eQi__xU This week we’re answering more listener questions about public sex, including sex in locations like fitting rooms, graveyards, and a moving car!
 

Beautiful Days | Not Into It | Visible Bruises | Fitting Room Sex | Cemetery Sex | Road Head | Backyard Porn | Single-Stall Bathroom | Packing Under Clothes | “A Femme’s Guide to Hard Packing” | Dream Locations | Sex on the Beach | Makeout Point

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]]> Cummunal Space Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:45:38 This week we’re answering more listener questions about public sex, including sex in locations like fitting rooms, graveyards, and a moving car! This week we’re answering more listener questions about public sex, including sex in locations like fitting rooms, graveyards, and a moving car! true full 239 f003a3bd-07ec-40c9-82b7-1ce8735c0a89 Out in the Open With the weather warming up and vaccines being administered, we figured now would be a good time to talk about public sex, something we’ll be able to do again pretty soon!
 

Getting Caught | Car Sex | Consent Ethics | Shock Factor | Tips & Tricks | Making Public Porn | Sex Kit | Weirdest Places | Bathroom Sex | Objectum Sexuals | Getting Over Anxiety | Public-Friendly Kinks | Nosy Neighbor | Remote-Control Vibes | Chastity Cage | Unexpected Spectator

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]]> Tue, 11 May 2021 19:55:18 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/out-in-the-open-m4XFVp1T With the weather warming up and vaccines being administered, we figured now would be a good time to talk about public sex, something we’ll be able to do again pretty soon!
 

Getting Caught | Car Sex | Consent Ethics | Shock Factor | Tips & Tricks | Making Public Porn | Sex Kit | Weirdest Places | Bathroom Sex | Objectum Sexuals | Getting Over Anxiety | Public-Friendly Kinks | Nosy Neighbor | Remote-Control Vibes | Chastity Cage | Unexpected Spectator

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]]> Out in the Open Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:11 With the weather warming up and vaccines being administered, we figured now would be a good time to talk about public sex, something we’ll be able to do again pretty soon! With the weather warming up and vaccines being administered, we figured now would be a good time to talk about public sex, something we’ll be able to do again pretty soon! true full 238 81660503-d06a-4b99-8774-a5f6368cc900 Hurt Me Harder We’re revisiting the topic of masochism this week to discuss our current, ever-evolving relationships to pain, and our fave mental techniques for getting through intense masochistic scenes!
 

Hurts So Good | Relationship to Pain | Self-Care vs. Self-Harm | Hopelessness | Chronic Pain | Rhythmic vs. Random | Stingy vs. Thuddy | Distractions | Practice & Processing | Easy Mode vs. Hard Mode | What is a Masochist? | Inflicting or Receiving | CBT

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]]> Tue, 27 Apr 2021 18:19:15 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/hurt-me-harder-jN2xml5r We’re revisiting the topic of masochism this week to discuss our current, ever-evolving relationships to pain, and our fave mental techniques for getting through intense masochistic scenes!
 

Hurts So Good | Relationship to Pain | Self-Care vs. Self-Harm | Hopelessness | Chronic Pain | Rhythmic vs. Random | Stingy vs. Thuddy | Distractions | Practice & Processing | Easy Mode vs. Hard Mode | What is a Masochist? | Inflicting or Receiving | CBT

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]]> Hurt Me Harder Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:53:31 We’re revisiting the topic of masochism this week to discuss our current, ever-evolving relationships to pain, and our fave mental techniques for getting through intense masochistic scenes! We’re revisiting the topic of masochism this week to discuss our current, ever-evolving relationships to pain, and our fave mental techniques for getting through intense masochistic scenes! true full 237 978c6181-234c-4a21-94e7-abfd9cd67218 Oh High There Happy 4/20, y’all! One again this year, as is tradition, we’re getting high and asking each other silly sex questions. Enjoy!
 

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]]> Tue, 20 Apr 2021 18:04:36 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/oh-high-there-bpgFGvL_ Happy 4/20, y’all! One again this year, as is tradition, we’re getting high and asking each other silly sex questions. Enjoy!
 

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]]> Oh High There Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:17 Happy 4/20, y’all! One again this year, as is tradition, we’re getting high and asking each other silly sex questions. Enjoy! Happy 4/20, y’all! One again this year, as is tradition, we’re getting high and asking each other silly sex questions. Enjoy! true full 236 4170de49-b1bb-4ae7-8af3-5f67b29fbbc6 "Nope" is a Complete Sentence This week we’re continuing our discussion of limits in kink! Can limits be a fetish? Can limits be toxic? Can limits be gently and safely pushed?
 

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]]> Tue, 13 Apr 2021 19:10:13 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/nope-is-a-complete-sentence-TfrhTsvH This week we’re continuing our discussion of limits in kink! Can limits be a fetish? Can limits be toxic? Can limits be gently and safely pushed?
 

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]]> "Nope" is a Complete Sentence Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:48:48 This week we’re continuing our discussion of limits in kink! Can limits be a fetish? Can limits be toxic? Can limits be gently and safely pushed? This week we’re continuing our discussion of limits in kink! Can limits be a fetish? Can limits be toxic? Can limits be gently and safely pushed? true full 235 a5fdf910-a3a6-41d6-b562-865b2e6067fa The Limit Does Exist Your limits are valid! This week we’re talking about hard and soft limits in the realms of sex and kink: what they are, why they’re important, and how to set them clearly and kindly.

 

“No Limits” | Boundary-Setting | Hard vs. Soft Limits | Gagging & Breath Play | Journal-Reading | How to Know | Feeling Guilty | Imbalance | Hard Limit vs. Need | Setting New Limits | Not a Limit Anymore | Complicating Factors

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]]> Tue, 6 Apr 2021 19:36:44 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/the-limit-does-exist-JRX10yur Your limits are valid! This week we’re talking about hard and soft limits in the realms of sex and kink: what they are, why they’re important, and how to set them clearly and kindly.

 

“No Limits” | Boundary-Setting | Hard vs. Soft Limits | Gagging & Breath Play | Journal-Reading | How to Know | Feeling Guilty | Imbalance | Hard Limit vs. Need | Setting New Limits | Not a Limit Anymore | Complicating Factors

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]]> The Limit Does Exist Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:51:27 Your limits are valid! This week we’re talking about hard and soft limits in the realms of sex and kink: what they are, why they’re important, and how to set them clearly and kindly. Your limits are valid! This week we’re talking about hard and soft limits in the realms of sex and kink: what they are, why they’re important, and how to set them clearly and kindly. true full 234 5cbedae2-a427-455d-a0e5-6820aaf6030d What Cums Next? What will dating be like after COVID? This week, we’re discussing how (and whether) to re-enter the dating scene after the pandemic.
 

Tinder Plus | Single-Serving Friends | Twitter as Hallway | In Person vs. Texting | Pre-Pandemic Dating Life | Flirty Energy | Atrophied Social Skills | Gender Differences | Looking Forward | Casual vs. Serious | Higher Standards | Finding the Energy | Date Ideas

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]]> Tue, 30 Mar 2021 19:02:19 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/what-cums-next-b72kExY_ What will dating be like after COVID? This week, we’re discussing how (and whether) to re-enter the dating scene after the pandemic.
 

Tinder Plus | Single-Serving Friends | Twitter as Hallway | In Person vs. Texting | Pre-Pandemic Dating Life | Flirty Energy | Atrophied Social Skills | Gender Differences | Looking Forward | Casual vs. Serious | Higher Standards | Finding the Energy | Date Ideas

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]]> What Cums Next? Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:22 What will dating be like after COVID? This week, we’re discussing how (and whether) to re-enter the dating scene after the pandemic. What will dating be like after COVID? This week, we’re discussing how (and whether) to re-enter the dating scene after the pandemic. true full 233 3f2dcbc2-7b46-4476-b496-c45ea920c36a Hellooo, Nurse! This week we’re doing a deep dive on medical play! We talk about why we’re into it, what it can look like, and the various tropes and pitfalls associated with it.
 

Vaccinations | Definition | Mad Scientists | When In Rome | A Higher Purpose | “Female Hysteria” | Bored/Tired Doctors | Structure | Calming Follow-Through | Real-Life Experiences | No Props | Condescension | Doctor’s Arousal | Speculums | Hypnosis | Eroticizing Access Needs

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]]> Tue, 23 Mar 2021 19:00:23 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/hellooo-nurse-15fW4lDo This week we’re doing a deep dive on medical play! We talk about why we’re into it, what it can look like, and the various tropes and pitfalls associated with it.
 

Vaccinations | Definition | Mad Scientists | When In Rome | A Higher Purpose | “Female Hysteria” | Bored/Tired Doctors | Structure | Calming Follow-Through | Real-Life Experiences | No Props | Condescension | Doctor’s Arousal | Speculums | Hypnosis | Eroticizing Access Needs

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]]> Hellooo, Nurse! Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:51:25 This week we’re doing a deep dive on medical play! We talk about why we’re into it, what it can look like, and the various tropes and pitfalls associated with it. This week we’re doing a deep dive on medical play! We talk about why we’re into it, what it can look like, and the various tropes and pitfalls associated with it. true full 232 39c942d4-7d9d-4c5f-a03a-ce4a2cbe1d28 Aural Service This week Kate is chatting with the Bearded Scotsman, a creator of erotic audio and ASMR files. We discussed consent, chivalry, “Tumblr doms,” and much more!

 

Getting Into Erotic Audio | Reactions | Immersiveness & Helpfulness | Consent in Media | Tumblr Doms | Safety & Nurturing | Gender Dynamics | Inclusivity | Sexy Voice | Vikings & Victorians | Is Chivalry Dead? | Cringing | Self-Image | Scripted vs. Not | Dirty Talk | Putting In the Work

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]]> Tue, 16 Mar 2021 19:47:08 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/aural-service-tooe_woF This week Kate is chatting with the Bearded Scotsman, a creator of erotic audio and ASMR files. We discussed consent, chivalry, “Tumblr doms,” and much more!

 

Getting Into Erotic Audio | Reactions | Immersiveness & Helpfulness | Consent in Media | Tumblr Doms | Safety & Nurturing | Gender Dynamics | Inclusivity | Sexy Voice | Vikings & Victorians | Is Chivalry Dead? | Cringing | Self-Image | Scripted vs. Not | Dirty Talk | Putting In the Work

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]]> Aural Service Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:45:20 This week Kate is chatting with the Bearded Scotsman, a creator of erotic audio and ASMR files. We discussed consent, chivalry, “Tumblr doms,” and much more! This week Kate is chatting with the Bearded Scotsman, a creator of erotic audio and ASMR files. We discussed consent, chivalry, “Tumblr doms,” and much more! true full 231 7906b5c4-e556-4fc0-a554-3cedf80077ed Let's Get Meta Relationships between metamours can be tricky, so this week we’re discussing the do’s and don’ts of connecting with your partner’s partner!
 

Definition | Expectations vs. Reality | Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell | Triad Dynamics | Motorcycle Story | The First Meeting | Jealousy & Inadequacy | Sharing Personal Info | Dating a Partner’s Ex | Maintaining a Friendship | Re-Establishing Trust

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]]> Wed, 10 Mar 2021 17:15:51 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/lets-get-meta-O5nWOwJZ Relationships between metamours can be tricky, so this week we’re discussing the do’s and don’ts of connecting with your partner’s partner!
 

Definition | Expectations vs. Reality | Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell | Triad Dynamics | Motorcycle Story | The First Meeting | Jealousy & Inadequacy | Sharing Personal Info | Dating a Partner’s Ex | Maintaining a Friendship | Re-Establishing Trust

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]]> Let's Get Meta Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:54 Relationships between metamours can be tricky, so this week we’re discussing the do’s and don’ts of connecting with your partner’s partner! Relationships between metamours can be tricky, so this week we’re discussing the do’s and don’ts of connecting with your partner’s partner! true full 230 a5686dbb-197f-478e-b3ea-bb009ab7658d Off the Cock This week we’re answering more questions about the duration of sex: how to deal when it goes on too long, how to ask for a round two, and more!
 

Sad Cunnilingus | Meditative Headspace | Round Two | Help Them Finish | Kinkifying It | Overstimulation | Novelty Wearing Off | Reassurance | The Purpose of Sex

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]]> Tue, 2 Mar 2021 20:22:01 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/off-the-cock-ruH6fvML This week we’re answering more questions about the duration of sex: how to deal when it goes on too long, how to ask for a round two, and more!
 

Sad Cunnilingus | Meditative Headspace | Round Two | Help Them Finish | Kinkifying It | Overstimulation | Novelty Wearing Off | Reassurance | The Purpose of Sex

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]]> Off the Cock Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:50:23 This week we’re answering more questions about the duration of sex: how to deal when it goes on too long, how to ask for a round two, and more! This week we’re answering more questions about the duration of sex: how to deal when it goes on too long, how to ask for a round two, and more! true full 229 e2767d36-c8ae-4182-9d13-b431671defa4 The Long & Short of It A lot of people worry that the sex they have is “too short” or “too long,” so this week we’re answering some listener questions about the duration of sex!
 

Misconceptions | PIV vs. Sex | Making Accommodations | When Sex Begins | Quickies | Increasing Stamina | “Normal” Stamina | Time of Day | Wandering Mind

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]]> Tue, 23 Feb 2021 18:01:52 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/the-long-short-of-it-TFCUIs2k A lot of people worry that the sex they have is “too short” or “too long,” so this week we’re answering some listener questions about the duration of sex!
 

Misconceptions | PIV vs. Sex | Making Accommodations | When Sex Begins | Quickies | Increasing Stamina | “Normal” Stamina | Time of Day | Wandering Mind

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]]> The Long & Short of It Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:48:35 A lot of people worry that the sex they have is “too short” or “too long,” so this week we’re answering some listener questions about the duration of sex! A lot of people worry that the sex they have is “too short” or “too long,” so this week we’re answering some listener questions about the duration of sex! true full 228 e1dfb745-96a9-4b41-af5b-69fa3f4e4e77 The Moan, the Merrier This week, we’re discussing some of the intricacies of group sex – a type of encounter we’ll hopefully be able to have again someday, post-pandemic!
 

Friendship Threesomes | Orgies vs. Play Parties | Chickening Out | Transcendence | Fantasy vs. Reality | Anxiety vs. Relaxation | Zoom Orgies | Structure & Spotlight | Self-Judgment | Negotiating | Hosting a Party | Sensory Issues | Too Big? | Checking In | Consent | Pulling Out

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]]> Tue, 16 Feb 2021 19:54:49 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/the-moan-the-merrier-c1HxYKca This week, we’re discussing some of the intricacies of group sex – a type of encounter we’ll hopefully be able to have again someday, post-pandemic!
 

Friendship Threesomes | Orgies vs. Play Parties | Chickening Out | Transcendence | Fantasy vs. Reality | Anxiety vs. Relaxation | Zoom Orgies | Structure & Spotlight | Self-Judgment | Negotiating | Hosting a Party | Sensory Issues | Too Big? | Checking In | Consent | Pulling Out

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]]> The Moan, the Merrier Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:02:51 This week, we’re discussing some of the intricacies of group sex – a type of encounter we’ll hopefully be able to have again someday, post-pandemic! This week, we’re discussing some of the intricacies of group sex – a type of encounter we’ll hopefully be able to have again someday, post-pandemic! true full 227 4631a45c-f50f-48c0-9de1-684f8d1b709c Be Mine, Valentine Happy Valentine’s week! In this episode we answer some listener questions about celebrating Valentine’s Day.

 

Love is Art Kit | Clone-a-Willy | Long-Distance Celebrations | Polyamorous Planning | Does V-Day Matter? | Queerifying V-Day | V-Day Ideas For Kinksters | Bad Dates | Early Gifting | Fifth Wheel | Newly Out as Trans

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]]> Tue, 9 Feb 2021 17:01:12 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/be-mine-valentine-fb10lr5Z Happy Valentine’s week! In this episode we answer some listener questions about celebrating Valentine’s Day.

 

Love is Art Kit | Clone-a-Willy | Long-Distance Celebrations | Polyamorous Planning | Does V-Day Matter? | Queerifying V-Day | V-Day Ideas For Kinksters | Bad Dates | Early Gifting | Fifth Wheel | Newly Out as Trans

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]]> Be Mine, Valentine Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:47:19 Happy Valentine’s week! In this episode we answer some listener questions about celebrating Valentine’s Day. Happy Valentine’s week! In this episode we answer some listener questions about celebrating Valentine’s Day. true full 226 991db9eb-1a7f-4067-a0dc-20b83ca8d408 Slut for Kindness This week we’re talking to Eva Bloom – a sex educator, YouTuber, and author – about sexting, casual sex, desire during a pandemic, and more!

 

Benefits of Sexting | Sexting w/ Cis Men | Walking Out | Masters Thesis | Spicy Flirting | Communication Improvements | Initiating Sexting | Compassionate Casual Sex | Queering the Straight Hookup | Setting Expectations | Filtering Potential Partners | Slut for Kindness | A Compassionate Guide to Sexuality and COVID-19 | Self-Comparison | Dual-Control Model | Casual Kink | Compassionate Casual Sex Virtual Workshop | Sex & COVID-19 Virtual Workshop

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]]> Tue, 2 Feb 2021 20:06:30 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/slut-for-kindness-s163_orP This week we’re talking to Eva Bloom – a sex educator, YouTuber, and author – about sexting, casual sex, desire during a pandemic, and more!

 

Benefits of Sexting | Sexting w/ Cis Men | Walking Out | Masters Thesis | Spicy Flirting | Communication Improvements | Initiating Sexting | Compassionate Casual Sex | Queering the Straight Hookup | Setting Expectations | Filtering Potential Partners | Slut for Kindness | A Compassionate Guide to Sexuality and COVID-19 | Self-Comparison | Dual-Control Model | Casual Kink | Compassionate Casual Sex Virtual Workshop | Sex & COVID-19 Virtual Workshop

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]]> Slut for Kindness Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:35 This week we’re talking to Eva Bloom – a sex educator, YouTuber, and author – about sexting, casual sex, desire during a pandemic, and more! This week we’re talking to Eva Bloom – a sex educator, YouTuber, and author – about sexting, casual sex, desire during a pandemic, and more! true full 225 cb280ef3-f3e2-4f28-827f-ce302e1f16c1 Cumming of Age As we near the end of our twenties, we’re discussing how the aging process has affected our sexualities thus far, and how we envision our sex lives transforming far into the future!
 

Feeling Like an Adult | Dysphoria & Aging | Queer Temporality | Women Aging | Are All Hot People Good at Sex? | Human vs. Trophy | “The Best Years of Your Life” | Spirituality & Magic | Age Play | Reclaiming Juvenility | Orgasm Difficulties | Testosterone | “Work” Orgasms | Utilitarian vs. Performative Sex | Disability | Acrobatic Positions | Community Connections | Sensual Pleasures

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]]> Tue, 26 Jan 2021 19:10:21 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/cumming-of-age-CvW0G1AO As we near the end of our twenties, we’re discussing how the aging process has affected our sexualities thus far, and how we envision our sex lives transforming far into the future!
 

Feeling Like an Adult | Dysphoria & Aging | Queer Temporality | Women Aging | Are All Hot People Good at Sex? | Human vs. Trophy | “The Best Years of Your Life” | Spirituality & Magic | Age Play | Reclaiming Juvenility | Orgasm Difficulties | Testosterone | “Work” Orgasms | Utilitarian vs. Performative Sex | Disability | Acrobatic Positions | Community Connections | Sensual Pleasures

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]]> Cumming of Age Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:53:09 As we near the end of our twenties, we’re discussing how the aging process has affected our sexualities thus far, and how we envision our sex lives transforming far into the future! As we near the end of our twenties, we’re discussing how the aging process has affected our sexualities thus far, and how we envision our sex lives transforming far into the future! true full 224 047db6eb-64f9-47ba-862d-594cb9ff4909 Cuddle Buddies While our show is mostly about sex, it’s not the only type of intimacy that matters! This week we’re discussing how emotional and physical closeness play out in purely platonic friendships.
 

Pandemic Anxiety | National Hugging Day | Intimacy & Trust | Intimacy vs. Touch | Gender & Friendship | Parental Influences | Saying No | Managing Expectations | Establishing Intent | When Feelings Develop | Jealousy | Queerplatonic Relationships | Touch Aversion

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]]> Tue, 19 Jan 2021 18:13:59 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/cuddle-buddies-ZSYcWkZI While our show is mostly about sex, it’s not the only type of intimacy that matters! This week we’re discussing how emotional and physical closeness play out in purely platonic friendships.
 

Pandemic Anxiety | National Hugging Day | Intimacy & Trust | Intimacy vs. Touch | Gender & Friendship | Parental Influences | Saying No | Managing Expectations | Establishing Intent | When Feelings Develop | Jealousy | Queerplatonic Relationships | Touch Aversion

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]]> Cuddle Buddies Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:51:00 While our show is mostly about sex, it’s not the only type of intimacy that matters! This week we’re discussing how emotional and physical closeness play out in purely platonic friendships. While our show is mostly about sex, it’s not the only type of intimacy that matters! This week we’re discussing how emotional and physical closeness play out in purely platonic friendships. true full 223 57e64bb2-86c3-44f1-8d79-35c11ccd0255 Reunited & It Feels So Good What happens when your long-distance relationship isn’t long-distance anymore? This week we’re talking about the adjustments and changes that occur when this happens!
 

Long-Distance Marriage | Introversion | Magical Vacation Time | Excitement | Communication Shifts | Phone Sex & Sexting | Family & Friends | LDR Skills | It’s Gonna Be Weird | Readjustment

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]]> Tue, 12 Jan 2021 19:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/reunited-it-feels-so-good-fS6WJrlq What happens when your long-distance relationship isn’t long-distance anymore? This week we’re talking about the adjustments and changes that occur when this happens!
 

Long-Distance Marriage | Introversion | Magical Vacation Time | Excitement | Communication Shifts | Phone Sex & Sexting | Family & Friends | LDR Skills | It’s Gonna Be Weird | Readjustment

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]]> Reunited & It Feels So Good Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:44:43 What happens when your long-distance relationship isn’t long-distance anymore? This week we’re talking about the adjustments and changes that occur when this happens! What happens when your long-distance relationship isn’t long-distance anymore? This week we’re talking about the adjustments and changes that occur when this happens! true full 222 d81cdcb8-bb2e-4ca7-a531-ac56db4fe879 A Household Name Since many of us are stuck at home right now, this week we’re chatting about household service tasks in D/s dynamics!
 

Distance No More | Meal Planning | Does It Feel Kinky? | Dommy vs. Subby Service | Laundry | Executive Dysfunction | Gender Affirmation | (Dis)Ability | Hate Housework | Compliments & Rewards | Self-Efficacy | Task vs. Favor | “Slacking Off”

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]]> Tue, 5 Jan 2021 19:45:08 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/a-household-name-WQoFUHJO Since many of us are stuck at home right now, this week we’re chatting about household service tasks in D/s dynamics!
 

Distance No More | Meal Planning | Does It Feel Kinky? | Dommy vs. Subby Service | Laundry | Executive Dysfunction | Gender Affirmation | (Dis)Ability | Hate Housework | Compliments & Rewards | Self-Efficacy | Task vs. Favor | “Slacking Off”

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]]> A Household Name Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:46 Since many of us are stuck at home right now, this week we’re chatting about household service tasks in D/s dynamics! Since many of us are stuck at home right now, this week we’re chatting about household service tasks in D/s dynamics! true full 221 7984ef85-a869-463f-984e-06d433605035 Hindsight 2020 So long, 2020! This week, we’re reflecting on how this hellish year affected our sex lives, what salacious goals we did and didn’t achieve, and what we hope to do in 2021.

 

Holidays with Family | Pandemic Stress & Coping Mechanisms | Switching | Tickling | Rope Bondage | Chastity | Financial Domination | Cuckolding | Bratty Dominance | CBT | Blowjobs | Parties & Cons | Toys | Glitter Tops BDSM Gear | Best Sex | Last Year’s Goals | Next Year’s Goals | Chastity Photoshoot

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]]> Tue, 29 Dec 2020 18:16:23 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/hindsight-2020-zMQPljwI So long, 2020! This week, we’re reflecting on how this hellish year affected our sex lives, what salacious goals we did and didn’t achieve, and what we hope to do in 2021.

 

Holidays with Family | Pandemic Stress & Coping Mechanisms | Switching | Tickling | Rope Bondage | Chastity | Financial Domination | Cuckolding | Bratty Dominance | CBT | Blowjobs | Parties & Cons | Toys | Glitter Tops BDSM Gear | Best Sex | Last Year’s Goals | Next Year’s Goals | Chastity Photoshoot

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]]> Hindsight 2020 Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:03:36 So long, 2020! This week, we’re reflecting on how this hellish year affected our sex lives, what salacious goals we did and didn’t achieve, and what we hope to do in 2021. So long, 2020! This week, we’re reflecting on how this hellish year affected our sex lives, what salacious goals we did and didn’t achieve, and what we hope to do in 2021. true full 220 ff3d9cb3-3444-4790-baa8-8071ef6062a9 "O" So Good This week, we’re celebrating Global Orgasm Day by answering some of your questions about orgasms!

 

What Orgasms? | Global Orgasm Day | Strap-On Orgasms | Weaker w/ Partners | Sadness About PIV | Squirting vs. Orgasm | Cis Guy Squirting | Squirting Science | Sex Isn’t Over | Don’t Like Orgasms

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]]> Tue, 22 Dec 2020 17:53:33 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/o-so-good-8z4WIv5z This week, we’re celebrating Global Orgasm Day by answering some of your questions about orgasms!

 

What Orgasms? | Global Orgasm Day | Strap-On Orgasms | Weaker w/ Partners | Sadness About PIV | Squirting vs. Orgasm | Cis Guy Squirting | Squirting Science | Sex Isn’t Over | Don’t Like Orgasms

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]]> "O" So Good Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:47:28 This week, we’re celebrating Global Orgasm Day by answering some of your questions about orgasms! This week, we’re celebrating Global Orgasm Day by answering some of your questions about orgasms! true full 219 efd9af0b-7e63-47b1-a6e9-4d9aef81d2a5 Kinky Trinkets The gifting season is upon us! This week we’re discussing what makes a great sexy gift, whether you’re trying to spoil a partner, a friend, or your favorite online sex worker.

 

Gift-Related Panic | Love Languages | What Makes a Good Gift? | Usefulness vs. Frivolity | Surprise vs. Discussion | Dildo Size | Toxic Toys | Bottoms Buying for Tops | Sexy Gifts for Friends | Gifts for Online Sex Workers | Etsy Stores | Unicorn Collaborators | TwistedSyn | Lovecrafters Toys | SplitPeaches | SimplyElegantGlass | LVXSupply

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]]> Tue, 15 Dec 2020 19:07:32 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/kinky-trinkets-WEVk4UT4 The gifting season is upon us! This week we’re discussing what makes a great sexy gift, whether you’re trying to spoil a partner, a friend, or your favorite online sex worker.

 

Gift-Related Panic | Love Languages | What Makes a Good Gift? | Usefulness vs. Frivolity | Surprise vs. Discussion | Dildo Size | Toxic Toys | Bottoms Buying for Tops | Sexy Gifts for Friends | Gifts for Online Sex Workers | Etsy Stores | Unicorn Collaborators | TwistedSyn | Lovecrafters Toys | SplitPeaches | SimplyElegantGlass | LVXSupply

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]]> Kinky Trinkets Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:01:49 The gifting season is upon us! This week we’re discussing what makes a great sexy gift, whether you’re trying to spoil a partner, a friend, or your favorite online sex worker. The gifting season is upon us! This week we’re discussing what makes a great sexy gift, whether you’re trying to spoil a partner, a friend, or your favorite online sex worker. true full 218 76b4183b-c681-474d-987d-cfdfd235ceb6 Holy Matrimoany Kate got married last month, so this week we’re talking about the sexy and kinky dimensions of wedding traditions!
 

Wife Life | Wedding Dress Fetish | Bridezilla | White Dress? | Dress Code | “Something Old…” | First Look | Tossing the Bouquet/Garter | Wedding Night Sex | Njoy Eleven | Chastity | Nerves | Gender-Neutral Terms

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]]> Tue, 8 Dec 2020 17:26:13 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/holy-matrimoany-fwdSUU0i Kate got married last month, so this week we’re talking about the sexy and kinky dimensions of wedding traditions!
 

Wife Life | Wedding Dress Fetish | Bridezilla | White Dress? | Dress Code | “Something Old…” | First Look | Tossing the Bouquet/Garter | Wedding Night Sex | Njoy Eleven | Chastity | Nerves | Gender-Neutral Terms

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]]> Holy Matrimoany Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:00:13 Kate got married last month, so this week we’re talking about the sexy and kinky dimensions of wedding traditions! Kate got married last month, so this week we’re talking about the sexy and kinky dimensions of wedding traditions! true full 217 c7909890-b58c-4945-ba39-a019a35f0814 No More-gasms This week, Bex chats with his partner Ashe (of Rose Glass Photography) about the ways they play with chastity in their relationship!
 

Chastity vs. Orgasm Control | How They Got Into It | Fast Orgasms | Getting Into It | Devices | Butt Plugs | ADHD | Future Plans | Combinations | Non-Monogamy | Advice for Beginners

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]]> Tue, 1 Dec 2020 18:57:18 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/no-more-gasms-Qw0buqsf This week, Bex chats with his partner Ashe (of Rose Glass Photography) about the ways they play with chastity in their relationship!
 

Chastity vs. Orgasm Control | How They Got Into It | Fast Orgasms | Getting Into It | Devices | Butt Plugs | ADHD | Future Plans | Combinations | Non-Monogamy | Advice for Beginners

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]]> No More-gasms Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:59:17 This week, Bex chats with his partner Ashe (of Rose Glass Photography) about the ways they play with chastity in their relationship! This week, Bex chats with his partner Ashe (of Rose Glass Photography) about the ways they play with chastity in their relationship! true full 216 f38385a3-969a-4d38-9d32-3f6835ad94a9 Touch Me So Write This week we’re talking with Sinclair Sexsmith, writer, educator, and editor of the new book Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 5! We touch on consent in erotica, the evolving definition of “lesbian,” disability representation in erotic media, and more.
 

Alaska | Editing an Anthology | Fantasy vs. Reality | What is “Lesbian”? | Trans Representation | Mind Expansion | Pushback | Erotic But Not Sexual | Marketing & Messaging | Old Erotica Books | Underrepresented People | Disability & Chronic Pain | Generating Ideas

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]]> Tue, 17 Nov 2020 20:25:58 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/touch-me-so-write-WOp6yzhE This week we’re talking with Sinclair Sexsmith, writer, educator, and editor of the new book Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 5! We touch on consent in erotica, the evolving definition of “lesbian,” disability representation in erotic media, and more.
 

Alaska | Editing an Anthology | Fantasy vs. Reality | What is “Lesbian”? | Trans Representation | Mind Expansion | Pushback | Erotic But Not Sexual | Marketing & Messaging | Old Erotica Books | Underrepresented People | Disability & Chronic Pain | Generating Ideas

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]]> Touch Me So Write Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:50:28 This week we’re talking with Sinclair Sexsmith, writer, educator, and editor of the new book Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 5! We touch on consent in erotica, the evolving definition of “lesbian,” disability representation in erotic media, and more. This week we’re talking with Sinclair Sexsmith, writer, educator, and editor of the new book Best Lesbian Erotica of the Year, Volume 5! We touch on consent in erotica, the evolving definition of “lesbian,” disability representation in erotic media, and more. true full 215 14d31adf-1373-43fa-a89c-f0c7dcd2ef9e Singled Out Some people love being single, some hate it… Whatever your opinion may be, this week we’re discussing the single life!

 

Election News | Bad at Being Single | “Are You Single?” | Friendships | List of Priorities | Stigmatizing Singlehood | Gender Dynamics | Couples’ Privilege & Amatonormativity | Pestered by Family | Bear Bergman Column | Dealing with Loneliness | Self-Love | Recovering From Breakups | Change & Growth | Attention-Seeking | Texting Exes

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]]> Tue, 10 Nov 2020 18:37:12 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/singled-out-F_RsobfP Some people love being single, some hate it… Whatever your opinion may be, this week we’re discussing the single life!

 

Election News | Bad at Being Single | “Are You Single?” | Friendships | List of Priorities | Stigmatizing Singlehood | Gender Dynamics | Couples’ Privilege & Amatonormativity | Pestered by Family | Bear Bergman Column | Dealing with Loneliness | Self-Love | Recovering From Breakups | Change & Growth | Attention-Seeking | Texting Exes

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]]> Singled Out Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:04:05 Some people love being single, some hate it… Whatever your opinion may be, this week we’re discussing the single life! Some people love being single, some hate it… Whatever your opinion may be, this week we’re discussing the single life! true full 214 8cdf9734-dd82-48ca-8a0a-3ec4c53b1da3 Otherwise Engaged Kate got engaged recently (!!) so this week is a frank discussion of marriage proposals, engagement, and the various unconventional ways one can do these things!

 

Big News! | Necessary Conversations | Why? | It’s a Trap! | Who Proposes? | Ritual | Surprise vs. Not | Love, Inc. | Emotional Preparation | The Ring | Financial Domination | Subverting It | Polyamory | Commitment Ceremonies | Collar | Minister Daddy | Free Choice

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]]> Tue, 3 Nov 2020 17:29:16 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/otherwise-engaged-alAsxe9p Kate got engaged recently (!!) so this week is a frank discussion of marriage proposals, engagement, and the various unconventional ways one can do these things!

 

Big News! | Necessary Conversations | Why? | It’s a Trap! | Who Proposes? | Ritual | Surprise vs. Not | Love, Inc. | Emotional Preparation | The Ring | Financial Domination | Subverting It | Polyamory | Commitment Ceremonies | Collar | Minister Daddy | Free Choice

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]]> Otherwise Engaged Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:00:48 Kate got engaged recently (!!) so this week is a frank discussion of marriage proposals, engagement, and the various unconventional ways one can do these things! Kate got engaged recently (!!) so this week is a frank discussion of marriage proposals, engagement, and the various unconventional ways one can do these things! true full 213 b0c81d4a-7d2e-45a5-b66f-d38c077f74b2 Sensitive Matters Your sexual sensitivity can affect your enjoyment, self-esteem and more – so this week we’re discussing some of our best tricks for managing sensitivity-related issues!
 

Ideas During Sex | “Shoulds” | Compared to Average | Sensitivity vs. Orgasm | Pumps | Weed | Libido-Boosting Products | Antidepressants | #OrgasmQuest | Monster Under the Bed | Testosterone | Dialing It Back | Indirect Stimulation | Increasing Sensitivity | Fantasizing | Vibrators | Feeling Guilty | Arousal Gels | Sexualizing Desensitization

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]]> Tue, 27 Oct 2020 18:06:19 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sensitive-matters-io0mL9tM Your sexual sensitivity can affect your enjoyment, self-esteem and more – so this week we’re discussing some of our best tricks for managing sensitivity-related issues!
 

Ideas During Sex | “Shoulds” | Compared to Average | Sensitivity vs. Orgasm | Pumps | Weed | Libido-Boosting Products | Antidepressants | #OrgasmQuest | Monster Under the Bed | Testosterone | Dialing It Back | Indirect Stimulation | Increasing Sensitivity | Fantasizing | Vibrators | Feeling Guilty | Arousal Gels | Sexualizing Desensitization

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]]> Sensitive Matters Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:00 Your sexual sensitivity can affect your enjoyment, self-esteem and more – so this week we’re discussing some of our best tricks for managing sensitivity-related issues! Your sexual sensitivity can affect your enjoyment, self-esteem and more – so this week we’re discussing some of our best tricks for managing sensitivity-related issues! true full 212 25d9174d-6b9f-4b02-b282-105722466fd4 24/Heaven What does it mean to be in a 24/7 D/s dynamic, why is it hot, and why is it comforting? This week we're discussing round-the-clock power exchange!

 

Always Kinky | Horny All the Time?! | Intimacy & Interdependence | Organizing Principle | Self-Improvement | Moral Responsibility | Protocol | Conditioning | Risk Assessment | Off-Limits Areas | Blue Balls 4 Biden | Getting What You Want | Importance | When You’re Not Feelin’ It | Limited Bandwidth | Kink in Public

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]]> Tue, 20 Oct 2020 17:17:16 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/24-heaven-XS2ysLW4 What does it mean to be in a 24/7 D/s dynamic, why is it hot, and why is it comforting? This week we're discussing round-the-clock power exchange!

 

Always Kinky | Horny All the Time?! | Intimacy & Interdependence | Organizing Principle | Self-Improvement | Moral Responsibility | Protocol | Conditioning | Risk Assessment | Off-Limits Areas | Blue Balls 4 Biden | Getting What You Want | Importance | When You’re Not Feelin’ It | Limited Bandwidth | Kink in Public

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]]> 24/Heaven Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:39 What does it mean to be in a 24/7 D/s dynamic, why is it hot, and why is it comforting? This week we're discussing round-the-clock power exchange! What does it mean to be in a 24/7 D/s dynamic, why is it hot, and why is it comforting? This week we're discussing round-the-clock power exchange! true full 211 0fe5bcc7-3c9f-4870-937f-cae114622be9 Perv Parameters This week we’re addressing some of your questions about boundaries, especially as they pertain to sex, friendships, and non-monogamy!
 

Inappropriate Client | Episode Name | Nervous Partner | “Good-Natured Ribbing” | Anger | Intimacy Before Sex | Gone Horribly Wrong | Seeking Approval | Threesome Aftercare

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]]> Tue, 13 Oct 2020 17:47:12 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/perv-parameters-fDegSVHG This week we’re addressing some of your questions about boundaries, especially as they pertain to sex, friendships, and non-monogamy!
 

Inappropriate Client | Episode Name | Nervous Partner | “Good-Natured Ribbing” | Anger | Intimacy Before Sex | Gone Horribly Wrong | Seeking Approval | Threesome Aftercare

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]]> Perv Parameters Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:51:59 This week we’re addressing some of your questions about boundaries, especially as they pertain to sex, friendships, and non-monogamy! This week we’re addressing some of your questions about boundaries, especially as they pertain to sex, friendships, and non-monogamy! true full 210 f6076139-412a-40ac-916e-a9ac58cb5a95 The F*ck Stops Here Setting boundaries is hard, but important! This week we’re discussing the tricky business of drawing a line in the sand, with romantic partners and in general.
 

Yelling | COVID-Era Boundaries | Boundaries vs. Rules | Why They’re Useful | Ultimatums | Complications | Checking Back In | What Makes It Easier? | Sooner is Better | Bad Reactions | Being Nice | Bullshit

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]]> Tue, 6 Oct 2020 19:02:33 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/fck-stops-here-v7DHGbiZ Setting boundaries is hard, but important! This week we’re discussing the tricky business of drawing a line in the sand, with romantic partners and in general.
 

Yelling | COVID-Era Boundaries | Boundaries vs. Rules | Why They’re Useful | Ultimatums | Complications | Checking Back In | What Makes It Easier? | Sooner is Better | Bad Reactions | Being Nice | Bullshit

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]]> The F*ck Stops Here Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:46 Setting boundaries is hard, but important! This week we’re discussing the tricky business of drawing a line in the sand, with romantic partners and in general. Setting boundaries is hard, but important! This week we’re discussing the tricky business of drawing a line in the sand, with romantic partners and in general. true full 209 f73ed589-b0ff-474e-a74f-f1dd8ef8ecf1 Vet Your Bottom Dollar How do you figure out whether a potential kink partner is safe enough and a good enough match with you before you do anything with them? This week we’re discussing the fine art of vetting!

 

Casual Slapping | What Is Vetting? | Thresholds | Slut Referral Network | Consent Cues | “One of My People” | Social Capital | Direct vs. Indirect | Safewording | Storytelling | Pre-Emptive Domming | Framing Devices | Role-Modelling | Saying No | Making Excuses | Attachment Styles | Body Language | 2nd or 3rd Date | Disclosing Gender

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]]> Tue, 29 Sep 2020 22:17:40 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/vet-your-bottom-dollar-_L2qTd2A How do you figure out whether a potential kink partner is safe enough and a good enough match with you before you do anything with them? This week we’re discussing the fine art of vetting!

 

Casual Slapping | What Is Vetting? | Thresholds | Slut Referral Network | Consent Cues | “One of My People” | Social Capital | Direct vs. Indirect | Safewording | Storytelling | Pre-Emptive Domming | Framing Devices | Role-Modelling | Saying No | Making Excuses | Attachment Styles | Body Language | 2nd or 3rd Date | Disclosing Gender

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]]> Vet Your Bottom Dollar Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:06:16 How do you figure out whether a potential kink partner is safe enough and a good enough match with you before you do anything with them? This week we’re discussing the fine art of vetting! How do you figure out whether a potential kink partner is safe enough and a good enough match with you before you do anything with them? This week we’re discussing the fine art of vetting! true full 208 950d8c8e-cfbe-49e0-8526-4b1ce54636ad Anxious4Avoidant This week we’re talking with polyamory-experienced psychotherapist Jessica Fern about her excellent new book, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, & Consensual Nonmonogamy.
 

Filtering the Monogamy Out | Origin Story | Structure as Security | Take Responsibility For Your Feelings | Clementine Morrigan’s Trauma-Informed Polyamory | Self-Regulation & Auto-Regulation | Parts Work | Common Problems | Taking Breaks | Giving Up | Ideal Relationship Styles | Having Your Shit Figured Out | Empowerment & Healing | Dealing with Therapists

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]]> Tue, 22 Sep 2020 17:07:30 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/anxious4avoidant-k6DK_yS2 This week we’re talking with polyamory-experienced psychotherapist Jessica Fern about her excellent new book, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, & Consensual Nonmonogamy.
 

Filtering the Monogamy Out | Origin Story | Structure as Security | Take Responsibility For Your Feelings | Clementine Morrigan’s Trauma-Informed Polyamory | Self-Regulation & Auto-Regulation | Parts Work | Common Problems | Taking Breaks | Giving Up | Ideal Relationship Styles | Having Your Shit Figured Out | Empowerment & Healing | Dealing with Therapists

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]]> Anxious4Avoidant Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:49:02 This week we’re talking with polyamory-experienced psychotherapist Jessica Fern about her excellent new book, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, & Consensual Nonmonogamy. This week we’re talking with polyamory-experienced psychotherapist Jessica Fern about her excellent new book, Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, & Consensual Nonmonogamy. polyamory, open relationships, non-monogamy, attachment theory true full 207 b778691a-673f-4d39-907f-ffbaa2f97bad For Crying Out Loud Crying is good for the soul, but did you know it can also be good for the libido? This week we’re discussing the kinky appeal of crying: cathartic sadomasochism, dacryphilia, emotional sex, and more!
 

Other Catharses | Health Benefits | Masculinity & Vulnerability | That’s a Thing?! | Sadism & Emotional Topping | Emo Aesthetic | Ruining Something Beautiful | Sensual Pleasure | Feeling Cute | Good vs. Bad Crying | Sadness | Crying-Focused Scene | Bursting Into Tears | Runny Makeup | Unicorn Tears | Mezcal Negroni | Sixth Hour | Negotiation | Therapeutic vs. Therapy | Secrets | Tears in Sex | Medical Play | What to Do | Feeling Guilty | #BirthdayBruises

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]]> Tue, 15 Sep 2020 13:03:34 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/for-crying-out-loud-sCvXxOp8 Crying is good for the soul, but did you know it can also be good for the libido? This week we’re discussing the kinky appeal of crying: cathartic sadomasochism, dacryphilia, emotional sex, and more!
 

Other Catharses | Health Benefits | Masculinity & Vulnerability | That’s a Thing?! | Sadism & Emotional Topping | Emo Aesthetic | Ruining Something Beautiful | Sensual Pleasure | Feeling Cute | Good vs. Bad Crying | Sadness | Crying-Focused Scene | Bursting Into Tears | Runny Makeup | Unicorn Tears | Mezcal Negroni | Sixth Hour | Negotiation | Therapeutic vs. Therapy | Secrets | Tears in Sex | Medical Play | What to Do | Feeling Guilty | #BirthdayBruises

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]]> For Crying Out Loud Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:59:32 Crying is good for the soul, but did you know it can also be good for the libido? This week we’re discussing the kinky appeal of crying: cathartic sadomasochism, dacryphilia, emotional sex, and more! Crying is good for the soul, but did you know it can also be good for the libido? This week we’re discussing the kinky appeal of crying: cathartic sadomasochism, dacryphilia, emotional sex, and more! true full 206 f72ee86b-bb8b-462a-8ca9-7a92471fdd02 Key to My Heart This week Kate is joined by her partner Matt (they/them) to talk about their recent forays into chastity play!
 

Orgasm Control | Past Chastity Experiences | Cageless Experiments | CB 6000 & Other Devices | Boners | Coping Strategies | Sleeping | Handling the Horniness | Chastity Journal | D/s Dynamic | Keyholding 101 | Long-Distance | Devices vs. None | Emotional Effects | Duration Goals | Helping & Supporting | Financial Domination | Writing Assignments | Chastity for Vulvas | Fancy Steel & Neosteel | Gender Feelings | Decentralizing Dicks | Health & Safety | Playing Solo | Chastikey App | Advice for First-Timers | Twitter Thread

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]]> Tue, 8 Sep 2020 17:02:41 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/key-to-my-heart-DzfmhAC0 This week Kate is joined by her partner Matt (they/them) to talk about their recent forays into chastity play!
 

Orgasm Control | Past Chastity Experiences | Cageless Experiments | CB 6000 & Other Devices | Boners | Coping Strategies | Sleeping | Handling the Horniness | Chastity Journal | D/s Dynamic | Keyholding 101 | Long-Distance | Devices vs. None | Emotional Effects | Duration Goals | Helping & Supporting | Financial Domination | Writing Assignments | Chastity for Vulvas | Fancy Steel & Neosteel | Gender Feelings | Decentralizing Dicks | Health & Safety | Playing Solo | Chastikey App | Advice for First-Timers | Twitter Thread

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]]> Key to My Heart Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:06:54 This week Kate is joined by her partner Matt (they/them) to talk about their recent forays into chastity play! This week Kate is joined by her partner Matt (they/them) to talk about their recent forays into chastity play! bdsm, chastity, kink true full 205 013250d5-cf78-491d-b402-338c249695e6 Spaced Out We’re returning to the topics of subspace and topspace this week to answer some great questions from listeners about these phenomena!
 

Switch Drag | Star Trek | New Partner | How to Tell | Dissociation | Explaining to a Partner | Straight/Cis People | Serving While Spacey | Keeping Yourself Out | Assault Survivor | Safewording | Reassuring a Dom | Taking Care of a Sub | Crying Afterward

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]]> Tue, 1 Sep 2020 17:42:48 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/spaced-out-s2V_Es6_ We’re returning to the topics of subspace and topspace this week to answer some great questions from listeners about these phenomena!
 

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]]> Spaced Out Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:01:43 We’re returning to the topics of subspace and topspace this week to answer some great questions from listeners about these phenomena! We’re returning to the topics of subspace and topspace this week to answer some great questions from listeners about these phenomena! true full 204 13bf0ca0-0f95-40b0-8ca9-5d0cdc915baa Space Cadets Subspace and topspace are two highly sought-after types of experience in the kink world – but what are they, and how do you access them? This week we’re discussing kinky headspaces!
 

How Important Is It? | What Is It Like? | Topspace vs. Domspace | Surrender & Mastery | Spacey Interactions | Snapping Out of It | Aftercare | Continual Topspace | Hypnotic Triggers | Comedy Pacing | When It Hits You | Communication | Soothing Anxieties | Switching Within Scenes | Removing Distractions | Bondage

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]]> Tue, 25 Aug 2020 16:26:57 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/space-cadets-Ta6YDtPq Subspace and topspace are two highly sought-after types of experience in the kink world – but what are they, and how do you access them? This week we’re discussing kinky headspaces!
 

How Important Is It? | What Is It Like? | Topspace vs. Domspace | Surrender & Mastery | Spacey Interactions | Snapping Out of It | Aftercare | Continual Topspace | Hypnotic Triggers | Comedy Pacing | When It Hits You | Communication | Soothing Anxieties | Switching Within Scenes | Removing Distractions | Bondage

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]]> Space Cadets Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:47 Subspace and topspace are two highly sought-after types of experience in the kink world – but what are they, and how do you access them? This week we’re discussing kinky headspaces! Subspace and topspace are two highly sought-after types of experience in the kink world – but what are they, and how do you access them? This week we’re discussing kinky headspaces! true full 203 bef29d33-3911-494c-b2ac-f4584d1fa6e4 Twitillating This week we’re discussing the intersections of sexuality and social media with Katrin Tildenberg, Ph.D., and Emily van der Nagel, Ph.D., two researchers and lecturers who just released a fascinating new book called Sex & Social Media!

 

Sex & Social Media: the Book | Long-Distance Collaborations | Tumblr Ethnography | Tumblr Porn Ban | GoneWild Subreddit | What is Sex? | Future of Sex Online

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]]> Tue, 18 Aug 2020 22:46:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/twitillating-cRAh3Dl1 This week we’re discussing the intersections of sexuality and social media with Katrin Tildenberg, Ph.D., and Emily van der Nagel, Ph.D., two researchers and lecturers who just released a fascinating new book called Sex & Social Media!

 

Sex & Social Media: the Book | Long-Distance Collaborations | Tumblr Ethnography | Tumblr Porn Ban | GoneWild Subreddit | What is Sex? | Future of Sex Online

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]]> Twitillating Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:41 This week we’re discussing the intersections of sexuality and social media with Katrin Tildenberg, Ph.D., and Emily van der Nagel, Ph.D., two researchers and lecturers who just released a fascinating new book called Sex & Social Media! This week we’re discussing the intersections of sexuality and social media with Katrin Tildenberg, Ph.D., and Emily van der Nagel, Ph.D., two researchers and lecturers who just released a fascinating new book called Sex & Social Media! true full 202 93818f5a-8f0a-44a6-9a2b-13ae9ecba3e2 Charts 'n' Hearts This week we’re talking to Aryn, an astrologer, podcaster, and sex and relationship coach. They fill us in the answers to our crucial sexual astrology questions, such as: Which planets govern your kink identities? Are all Pisceans bottoms? Is Capricorn the daddy dom sign?

 

Queer Shorthand | Alternate Spirituality | Love & Sex Signs | Switches | Aries | Body Parts | Virgo | Capricorn as Daddy | Other Signs’ Best Qualities | A Chart’s Influence | Asking For Their Birth Time | Saturn Return | Queers vs. Straights | Chani Nicholas | Chris Brennan | Erotic Renaissance Podcast

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]]> Tue, 11 Aug 2020 21:26:09 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/charts-n-hearts-xXrpwm9M This week we’re talking to Aryn, an astrologer, podcaster, and sex and relationship coach. They fill us in the answers to our crucial sexual astrology questions, such as: Which planets govern your kink identities? Are all Pisceans bottoms? Is Capricorn the daddy dom sign?

 

Queer Shorthand | Alternate Spirituality | Love & Sex Signs | Switches | Aries | Body Parts | Virgo | Capricorn as Daddy | Other Signs’ Best Qualities | A Chart’s Influence | Asking For Their Birth Time | Saturn Return | Queers vs. Straights | Chani Nicholas | Chris Brennan | Erotic Renaissance Podcast

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]]> Charts 'n' Hearts Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:47:53 This week we’re talking to Aryn, an astrologer, podcaster, and sex and relationship coach. They fill us in the answers to our crucial sexual astrology questions, such as: Which planets govern your kink identities? Are all Pisceans bottoms? Is Capricorn the daddy dom sign? This week we’re talking to Aryn, an astrologer, podcaster, and sex and relationship coach. They fill us in the answers to our crucial sexual astrology questions, such as: Which planets govern your kink identities? Are all Pisceans bottoms? Is Capricorn the daddy dom sign? astrology, love, sex true full 201 da87b50d-94ef-481a-9b15-cdef6cd8072d The 200th One It’s our 200th episode! Join us as we discuss some other milestones in our lives – specifically our sex lives.

 

200!!! | Old Episodes | Sex Shop | Remote-Controlled Vibrators | Power Exchange | Fifty Shades of Kegel Balls | Wanting to Fuck Someone | Porn with Mom | Tasting Cum | First-Date Sex | “Pinch the Skin As Hard As You Can” | Sending Nudes | Strap-On Blowjobs | Oral Sex Party | Little Space & Alcohol | First Orgasm | Using Toys on Partners

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]]> Tue, 4 Aug 2020 20:31:43 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/the-200th-one-ugB3D9DB It’s our 200th episode! Join us as we discuss some other milestones in our lives – specifically our sex lives.

 

200!!! | Old Episodes | Sex Shop | Remote-Controlled Vibrators | Power Exchange | Fifty Shades of Kegel Balls | Wanting to Fuck Someone | Porn with Mom | Tasting Cum | First-Date Sex | “Pinch the Skin As Hard As You Can” | Sending Nudes | Strap-On Blowjobs | Oral Sex Party | Little Space & Alcohol | First Orgasm | Using Toys on Partners

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]]> The 200th One Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:00 It’s our 200th episode! Join us as we discuss some other milestones in our lives – specifically our sex lives. It’s our 200th episode! Join us as we discuss some other milestones in our lives – specifically our sex lives. true full 200 99d67043-d01e-4f8d-8442-1af259b77261 Putting the "D" in ADHD Conditions like ADHD can affect your whole life, including your sexuality and relationships, in really interesting ways! This week Kate interviews Bex about how his ADHD manifests and how he manages the difficulties that come with it.

 

Recognizing it | Definition | Doesn’t Everyone Have That? | Diagnosis | Make It Sparkly | Dating Another ADHDer | Sex & Kink | Impulsivity & Surprise | Gender & Testosterone | Hyperfocus | Distraction During Sex | Disclosing | Cheating | Planning Scenes | Supporting a Partner

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]]> Wed, 29 Jul 2020 16:50:56 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/putting-the-d-in-adhd-xQhxtMKS Conditions like ADHD can affect your whole life, including your sexuality and relationships, in really interesting ways! This week Kate interviews Bex about how his ADHD manifests and how he manages the difficulties that come with it.

 

Recognizing it | Definition | Doesn’t Everyone Have That? | Diagnosis | Make It Sparkly | Dating Another ADHDer | Sex & Kink | Impulsivity & Surprise | Gender & Testosterone | Hyperfocus | Distraction During Sex | Disclosing | Cheating | Planning Scenes | Supporting a Partner

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]]> Putting the "D" in ADHD Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:00:44 Conditions like ADHD can affect your whole life, including your sexuality and relationships, in really interesting ways! This week Kate interviews Bex about how his ADHD manifests and how he manages the difficulties that come with it. Conditions like ADHD can affect your whole life, including your sexuality and relationships, in really interesting ways! This week Kate interviews Bex about how his ADHD manifests and how he manages the difficulties that come with it. adhd true full 199 d434f316-51fb-4697-8851-28912ba36612 Achy Breaky Bod Chronic pain can make your sex life tricky, but it doesn't have to ruin it! This week Bex interviews Kate about her mysterious chronic pain disorder, how it manifests in her sex/kink, and what makes it easier to handle.

 

Pain History | BJ Interference | “Depression-Related Pain” | Disability Impostor Syndrome | Type of Pain | Impact on Sex Life | Intoxication | Hypnosis | Lucked Out | Caregiving | The Handy | Pillows | My Pain Diary | Liberator | Protocol | Topping | Sexy Accoutrements | Medications

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]]> Tue, 21 Jul 2020 16:18:56 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/achy-breaky-bod-xbYv8m45 Chronic pain can make your sex life tricky, but it doesn't have to ruin it! This week Bex interviews Kate about her mysterious chronic pain disorder, how it manifests in her sex/kink, and what makes it easier to handle.

 

Pain History | BJ Interference | “Depression-Related Pain” | Disability Impostor Syndrome | Type of Pain | Impact on Sex Life | Intoxication | Hypnosis | Lucked Out | Caregiving | The Handy | Pillows | My Pain Diary | Liberator | Protocol | Topping | Sexy Accoutrements | Medications

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]]> Achy Breaky Bod Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:54 Chronic pain can make your sex life tricky, but it doesn't have to ruin it! This week Bex interviews Kate about her mysterious chronic pain disorder, how it manifests in her sex/kink, and what makes it easier to handle. Chronic pain can make your sex life tricky, but it doesn't have to ruin it! This week Bex interviews Kate about her mysterious chronic pain disorder, how it manifests in her sex/kink, and what makes it easier to handle. chronic illness, chronic pain, disability true full 198 0cd70814-bb1a-4dce-b74b-f195890da66c Social Lubricant This week we’re answering your conversational queries! We explain how to deduce someone’s openness to chatting, ask questions people actually want to answer, navigate discussions when you’re low on spoons, and more.

 

Intoxication | Want to Talk? | Yes, And | No Response Required | How Are You? | 50 Non-Pandemic-Related Questions to Ask | Social Skills | Stressful Questions | The Same Conversation | “What’s Up?” | Weird Questions | Low Energy

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]]> Tue, 14 Jul 2020 17:42:32 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/social-lubricant-1a0sqWQk This week we’re answering your conversational queries! We explain how to deduce someone’s openness to chatting, ask questions people actually want to answer, navigate discussions when you’re low on spoons, and more.

 

Intoxication | Want to Talk? | Yes, And | No Response Required | How Are You? | 50 Non-Pandemic-Related Questions to Ask | Social Skills | Stressful Questions | The Same Conversation | “What’s Up?” | Weird Questions | Low Energy

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]]> Social Lubricant Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:36 This week we’re answering your conversational queries! We explain how to deduce someone’s openness to chatting, ask questions people actually want to answer, navigate discussions when you’re low on spoons, and more. This week we’re answering your conversational queries! We explain how to deduce someone’s openness to chatting, ask questions people actually want to answer, navigate discussions when you’re low on spoons, and more. true full 197 3d3c26a7-c598-4b6e-a1f2-10414153d537 Verbal Intercourse What does it mean to be good at conversation? We’re not claiming to be experts, but we have our preferences… This week, we’re discussing conversational skills: why they matter, how to develop them, and what to avoid.

 

ADHD & Neurodivergence | Why? | Pick-Up Artists | Monosyllabic Conversationalists | Follow-Up Questions | Displaying Knowledge | Answering Your Own Questions | Reading Emotions | Nonverbal Communication | Body Language | Offering Options | Enthusiasm | Digital Cues | Silence | Loveland Therapy Fund

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]]> Tue, 7 Jul 2020 18:36:30 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/verbal-intercourse-u7l_YSBu What does it mean to be good at conversation? We’re not claiming to be experts, but we have our preferences… This week, we’re discussing conversational skills: why they matter, how to develop them, and what to avoid.

 

ADHD & Neurodivergence | Why? | Pick-Up Artists | Monosyllabic Conversationalists | Follow-Up Questions | Displaying Knowledge | Answering Your Own Questions | Reading Emotions | Nonverbal Communication | Body Language | Offering Options | Enthusiasm | Digital Cues | Silence | Loveland Therapy Fund

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]]> Verbal Intercourse Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:00 What does it mean to be good at conversation? We’re not claiming to be experts, but we have our preferences… This week, we’re discussing conversational skills: why they matter, how to develop them, and what to avoid. What does it mean to be good at conversation? We’re not claiming to be experts, but we have our preferences… This week, we’re discussing conversational skills: why they matter, how to develop them, and what to avoid. true full 196 263537d4-569f-4949-acec-4e8bd5c6325a Fair Play Why do we sometimes call kink “play”? How does it relate to the games we played as children? This episode is a meandering philosophical discussion of the role of play in our lives – including our sex lives!


 

Collarbone Play | Ass Play | Re-Watching | Recess | Play vs. Consuming Media | Critical Thinking | Childhood Sexuality | Capitalism | Repetition | Learning | Empathy | Non-Playful Play | Play Pretend | Vulnerability | Childhood Games | Healthy vs. Unhealthy Outlets | Needing Play | Roleplay | Challenges | Erotic D&D | Trans Justice Funding Project | Survived & Punished

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]]> Tue, 30 Jun 2020 19:17:57 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/fair-play-qQGN1GAZ Why do we sometimes call kink “play”? How does it relate to the games we played as children? This episode is a meandering philosophical discussion of the role of play in our lives – including our sex lives!


 

Collarbone Play | Ass Play | Re-Watching | Recess | Play vs. Consuming Media | Critical Thinking | Childhood Sexuality | Capitalism | Repetition | Learning | Empathy | Non-Playful Play | Play Pretend | Vulnerability | Childhood Games | Healthy vs. Unhealthy Outlets | Needing Play | Roleplay | Challenges | Erotic D&D | Trans Justice Funding Project | Survived & Punished

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]]> Fair Play Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:08:47 Why do we sometimes call kink “play”? How does it relate to the games we played as children? This episode is a meandering philosophical discussion of the role of play in our lives – including our sex lives! Why do we sometimes call kink “play”? How does it relate to the games we played as children? This episode is a meandering philosophical discussion of the role of play in our lives – including our sex lives! true full 195 f9925827-acab-421d-b6b5-2bc8681f5134 Here Comes the Pride It’s a weird time to be celebrating Pride, to say the least… This week we’re talking about some ways you can access a little Pride magic even in these stressful times.

 

Rocky Horror | Unorthodox “Churches” | #CelebratePrideQuietly | Going to Protests | Critical Resistance | You’re Wrong About Stonewall | Making Gay History | Two Headed Girl | The Offline Dating Method | Disclosure | How to Survive a Plague | Paris is Burning | Pose | Sense8 | An Unkindness of Ghosts | These Thems | Crafts | C. Murphy | Queer History | Desire Brainstorming | Finding Community | Media Audit | New York Toy Collective | Funkit Toys | Wet For Her | Queer Porn | How Can We Celebrate? | Non-Binary Inclusivity | “Looking Straight” | Center for Black Equity | The Okra Project | Chosen Family Law Center

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]]> Tue, 23 Jun 2020 18:33:43 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/here-comes-the-pride-6A64tjfs It’s a weird time to be celebrating Pride, to say the least… This week we’re talking about some ways you can access a little Pride magic even in these stressful times.

 

Rocky Horror | Unorthodox “Churches” | #CelebratePrideQuietly | Going to Protests | Critical Resistance | You’re Wrong About Stonewall | Making Gay History | Two Headed Girl | The Offline Dating Method | Disclosure | How to Survive a Plague | Paris is Burning | Pose | Sense8 | An Unkindness of Ghosts | These Thems | Crafts | C. Murphy | Queer History | Desire Brainstorming | Finding Community | Media Audit | New York Toy Collective | Funkit Toys | Wet For Her | Queer Porn | How Can We Celebrate? | Non-Binary Inclusivity | “Looking Straight” | Center for Black Equity | The Okra Project | Chosen Family Law Center

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]]> Here Comes the Pride Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:57:52 It’s a weird time to be celebrating Pride, to say the least… This week we’re talking about some ways you can access a little Pride magic even in these stressful times. It’s a weird time to be celebrating Pride, to say the least… This week we’re talking about some ways you can access a little Pride magic even in these stressful times. lgbt, lgbtq, pride true full 194 d5ceeec2-1a1f-405d-a81c-68aef7d3c131 Nerves & Pervs Hope y’all are doing okay in this very stressful time. This week we’re discussing how high stress levels affect sex and dating, from dissociation to guilt to trauma triggers.
 

Time Management | Escapism vs. Information | Baths | De-Stressing Sex Toys | Solo Quickie | Illness Flare-Ups | Communicating While Triggered | Trauma-Informed Polyamory Workshop | When to Manage Stress? | Dissociation | Libido Guilt | Dating Apps | SexyDorkyQuarantine | Black Coalition for AIDS Prevention | National Center for Transgender Equality | Are Prisons Obsolete? | History Teaches Us to Resist

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]]> Tue, 16 Jun 2020 15:54:07 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/nerves-pervs-N7UGg9Ak Hope y’all are doing okay in this very stressful time. This week we’re discussing how high stress levels affect sex and dating, from dissociation to guilt to trauma triggers.
 

Time Management | Escapism vs. Information | Baths | De-Stressing Sex Toys | Solo Quickie | Illness Flare-Ups | Communicating While Triggered | Trauma-Informed Polyamory Workshop | When to Manage Stress? | Dissociation | Libido Guilt | Dating Apps | SexyDorkyQuarantine | Black Coalition for AIDS Prevention | National Center for Transgender Equality | Are Prisons Obsolete? | History Teaches Us to Resist

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]]> Nerves & Pervs Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:04:59 Hope y’all are doing okay in this very stressful time. This week we’re discussing how high stress levels affect sex and dating, from dissociation to guilt to trauma triggers. Hope y’all are doing okay in this very stressful time. This week we’re discussing how high stress levels affect sex and dating, from dissociation to guilt to trauma triggers. mental health, stress, trauma true full 193 e4a30687-3db0-4dd4-846a-610d6879e981 Adora-ble This week, we’re joined by self-made porn queen Gwen Adora to discuss how her online sex work business has changed in light of the pandemic – and how the online porn landscape is shifting more generally in these trying times.
 

Sex Worker Label | Roleplay Videos | Slinky Porn | Work Week | Productivity | Customer Trends | Be Nice to Sex Workers | Pandemic Porn | Crews & Creativity | Caroline Calloway | Racism & Classism | Value | Skillsets | Normalization | Ashe’s BLM Products

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]]> Tue, 9 Jun 2020 18:07:35 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/adora-ble-pe5iJWm9 This week, we’re joined by self-made porn queen Gwen Adora to discuss how her online sex work business has changed in light of the pandemic – and how the online porn landscape is shifting more generally in these trying times.
 

Sex Worker Label | Roleplay Videos | Slinky Porn | Work Week | Productivity | Customer Trends | Be Nice to Sex Workers | Pandemic Porn | Crews & Creativity | Caroline Calloway | Racism & Classism | Value | Skillsets | Normalization | Ashe’s BLM Products

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]]> Adora-ble Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:59:21 This week, we’re joined by self-made porn queen Gwen Adora to discuss how her online sex work business has changed in light of the pandemic – and how the online porn landscape is shifting more generally in these trying times. This week, we’re joined by self-made porn queen Gwen Adora to discuss how her online sex work business has changed in light of the pandemic – and how the online porn landscape is shifting more generally in these trying times. true full 192 8bf8d5f6-1144-4b72-bcaa-fdede78ac298 Stripping From Home This week we talked with sex educator, columnist, and stripper Andre Shakti about how she’s transitioned her sex work career onto the internet in the wake of COVID-19. Hopefully you’ll find this useful if you’re thinking about doing the same. Also: Black Lives Matter, ACAB, stay safe out there if you can, friends.
 

Pandemic Nudes | Pre-Pandemic Work Week | Government Assistance | Upkeep | Sanctuary Virtual Strip Club | Online Classes | Customer Etiquette | Patron’s Guide to Strip Clubs | Harm Reduction | Andre’s GoFundMe | Minnesota Freedom Fund | Brooklyn Bail Fund | North Star Health Collective | Black Lives Matter (US) | Black Lives Matter (Canada)

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]]> Tue, 2 Jun 2020 17:57:28 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/stripping-from-home-oxQ7fOUj This week we talked with sex educator, columnist, and stripper Andre Shakti about how she’s transitioned her sex work career onto the internet in the wake of COVID-19. Hopefully you’ll find this useful if you’re thinking about doing the same. Also: Black Lives Matter, ACAB, stay safe out there if you can, friends.
 

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]]> Stripping From Home Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:07:25 This week we talked with sex educator, columnist, and stripper Andre Shakti about how she’s transitioned her sex work career onto the internet in the wake of COVID-19. Hopefully you’ll find this useful if you’re thinking about doing the same. Also: Black Lives Matter, ACAB, stay safe out there if you can, friends. This week we talked with sex educator, columnist, and stripper Andre Shakti about how she’s transitioned her sex work career onto the internet in the wake of COVID-19. Hopefully you’ll find this useful if you’re thinking about doing the same. Also: Black Lives Matter, ACAB, stay safe out there if you can, friends. true full 191 3e01d15b-9c9a-4b98-afae-ce3dc0eb8753 The 5-Knuckle Shuffle Hope you’ve had a lovely Masturbation Month, despite the circumstances! This week we’re answering more listener questions about jerkin’ it.
 

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]]> Tue, 26 May 2020 17:40:10 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/the-5-knuckle-shuffle-HloGehER Hope you’ve had a lovely Masturbation Month, despite the circumstances! This week we’re answering more listener questions about jerkin’ it.
 

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]]> The 5-Knuckle Shuffle Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:59:34 Hope you’ve had a lovely Masturbation Month, despite the circumstances! This week we’re answering more listener questions about jerkin’ it. Hope you’ve had a lovely Masturbation Month, despite the circumstances! This week we’re answering more listener questions about jerkin’ it. true full 190 03b7dd8a-dac6-4c01-bbef-0d27e76d3ba8 Polyamory Plus Pandemic This week we had a great chat with authors and polyamory educators Kevin Patterson and Dr. Liz Powell about their 6-week online course, Unfuck Your Polyamory. We also got their advice on some of the polyamory pitfalls people are experiencing these days due to the coronavirus lockdown.

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]]> Tue, 19 May 2020 17:38:01 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/polyamory-plus-pandemic-duxz5pKY This week we had a great chat with authors and polyamory educators Kevin Patterson and Dr. Liz Powell about their 6-week online course, Unfuck Your Polyamory. We also got their advice on some of the polyamory pitfalls people are experiencing these days due to the coronavirus lockdown.

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]]> Polyamory Plus Pandemic Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:33 This week we had a great chat with authors and polyamory educators Kevin Patterson and Dr. Liz Powell about their 6-week online course, Unfuck Your Polyamory. We also got their advice on some of the polyamory pitfalls people are experiencing these days due to the coronavirus lockdown. This week we had a great chat with authors and polyamory educators Kevin Patterson and Dr. Liz Powell about their 6-week online course, Unfuck Your Polyamory. We also got their advice on some of the polyamory pitfalls people are experiencing these days due to the coronavirus lockdown. polyamory, non-monogamy, coronavirus true full 189 9cb85f69-804b-44ae-ad76-f7df0c4c11eb Maysturbation Happy Masturbation Month! To celebrate, we’re answering some of your most pressing questions about what some people euphemistically call self-lovin’.
 

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]]> Tue, 12 May 2020 16:15:20 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/maysturbation-VebEp7vZ Happy Masturbation Month! To celebrate, we’re answering some of your most pressing questions about what some people euphemistically call self-lovin’.
 

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]]> Maysturbation Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:42 Happy Masturbation Month! To celebrate, we’re answering some of your most pressing questions about what some people euphemistically call self-lovin’. Happy Masturbation Month! To celebrate, we’re answering some of your most pressing questions about what some people euphemistically call self-lovin’. sex toys, masturbation, vibrators true full 188 2b6a3ce9-edb3-49a3-b048-ab219f502d0e Smackrilege This week, we’re chatting with journalist, author, and theologian Tara Isabella Burton. Her forthcoming book Strange Rites is about how the “religiously unaffiliated” seek meaning and fulfilment through non-religious means – like sex, kink, and polyamory, to name but a few!
 

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]]> Tue, 5 May 2020 17:18:01 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/smackrilege-ggzmjqmb This week, we’re chatting with journalist, author, and theologian Tara Isabella Burton. Her forthcoming book Strange Rites is about how the “religiously unaffiliated” seek meaning and fulfilment through non-religious means – like sex, kink, and polyamory, to name but a few!
 

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]]> Smackrilege Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:39 This week, we’re chatting with journalist, author, and theologian Tara Isabella Burton. Her forthcoming book Strange Rites is about how the “religiously unaffiliated” seek meaning and fulfilment through non-religious means – like sex, kink, and polyamory, to name but a few! This week, we’re chatting with journalist, author, and theologian Tara Isabella Burton. Her forthcoming book Strange Rites is about how the “religiously unaffiliated” seek meaning and fulfilment through non-religious means – like sex, kink, and polyamory, to name but a few! consent, religion, ethics true full 187 24c6dab6-6985-457a-a5e2-2658f76a4558 Signed, Sealed, & Quivered This week we’re joined by erotic letter writer, tarot reader, and oral historian Jamie Beckenstein to discuss the joys of sexy snail mail!
 

Rail Mail | Personas | Why Snail Mail? | Touch | Exploring Fantasies | Space & Time | Tools | Handwriting | Language | Aftercare | Lessons Learned | Cis Men | Pricing | Trauma Survivors | Repeating Words | Dissociating | Sign-Offs

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]]> Tue, 28 Apr 2020 16:07:11 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/signed-sealed-quivered-jHN5prmG This week we’re joined by erotic letter writer, tarot reader, and oral historian Jamie Beckenstein to discuss the joys of sexy snail mail!
 

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]]> Signed, Sealed, & Quivered Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:16 This week we’re joined by erotic letter writer, tarot reader, and oral historian Jamie Beckenstein to discuss the joys of sexy snail mail! This week we’re joined by erotic letter writer, tarot reader, and oral historian Jamie Beckenstein to discuss the joys of sexy snail mail! writing, erotica, mail true full 186 0c6076fa-f305-420d-912d-14a7a9fbcc44 Riffin' and Spliffin' Happy 4/20! This week's episode is our annual Highpotheticals special, where we get high off our asses and answer sex questions sent in by listeners. Enjoy!
 

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]]> Tue, 21 Apr 2020 15:52:44 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/riffin-and-spliffin-JfnNrjq9 Happy 4/20! This week's episode is our annual Highpotheticals special, where we get high off our asses and answer sex questions sent in by listeners. Enjoy!
 

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]]> Riffin' and Spliffin' Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:49:11 Happy 4/20! This week's episode is our annual Highpotheticals special, where we get high off our asses and answer sex questions sent in by listeners. Enjoy! Happy 4/20! This week's episode is our annual Highpotheticals special, where we get high off our asses and answer sex questions sent in by listeners. Enjoy! true full 185 a8577c58-71f6-4582-b24e-3d1bcc64593e Queerantine We’re back answering more of your COVID questions! Tune in to hear our thoughts on maintaining relationship momentum during the crisis, balancing different libido levels, and Skype date etiquette, among other things.
 

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]]> Tue, 14 Apr 2020 16:20:01 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/queerantine-2OzGszbV We’re back answering more of your COVID questions! Tune in to hear our thoughts on maintaining relationship momentum during the crisis, balancing different libido levels, and Skype date etiquette, among other things.
 

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]]> Queerantine Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:53:24 We’re back answering more of your COVID questions! Tune in to hear our thoughts on maintaining relationship momentum during the crisis, balancing different libido levels, and Skype date etiquette, among other things. We’re back answering more of your COVID questions! Tune in to hear our thoughts on maintaining relationship momentum during the crisis, balancing different libido levels, and Skype date etiquette, among other things. covid-19, coronavirus true full 184 64dd4ec6-ec09-4dab-b6d3-c042842c1298 SexyDorkyQuarantine Want to liven up your self-isolation with some sex and/or kink? We’ve got more suggestions this week than you can shake a dick at!
 

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]]> Tue, 7 Apr 2020 18:45:29 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sexydorkyquarantine-T8aKHlLN Want to liven up your self-isolation with some sex and/or kink? We’ve got more suggestions this week than you can shake a dick at!
 

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]]> SexyDorkyQuarantine Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:00:25 Want to liven up your self-isolation with some sex and/or kink? We’ve got more suggestions this week than you can shake a dick at! Want to liven up your self-isolation with some sex and/or kink? We’ve got more suggestions this week than you can shake a dick at! self-isolation, social distancing true full 183 e9f45e51-eb02-41d3-b5cf-90ea91f8b82b Jokester Kinksters This week we’re joined by kink educator Carter Brûlée to discuss one thing the three of us have in common: being silly, playful, and giggly during sex and kink!

 

Fire & Dessert | Srs Bsns | Ruining the Mood | Kink As Play | Sneezing | Giggle Check | Suffering | Tickling | Topping | Roleplay | Advice For Partners | Negotiation & Check-Ins | Giggling | Implements | Beginner Tips | Humiliation | Distance

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]]> Tue, 31 Mar 2020 15:04:01 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/jokester-kinksters-_in32s1Y This week we’re joined by kink educator Carter Brûlée to discuss one thing the three of us have in common: being silly, playful, and giggly during sex and kink!

 

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]]> Jokester Kinksters Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:51:44 This week we’re joined by kink educator Carter Brûlée to discuss one thing the three of us have in common: being silly, playful, and giggly during sex and kink! This week we’re joined by kink educator Carter Brûlée to discuss one thing the three of us have in common: being silly, playful, and giggly during sex and kink! true full 182 67946985-8a10-4013-ae91-95f9a620176b Sexual Distancing Wow, what a week. This episode we’re answering questions about the thing that’s on everyone’s mind – COVID-19 – and how it intersects with sex and dating. Hope you find this helpful and comforting, friends!
 

NYC Health Brief | Sex Hygiene | Cancelling Dates | #PolyProblems | Metamour Boundaries | Touch-Starved | Hopelessness & Jealousy | “Clean Sex” | Breakups | Casual Love | Friends | Online Games

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]]> Tue, 24 Mar 2020 17:06:03 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sexual-distancing-jdSaFmjJ Wow, what a week. This episode we’re answering questions about the thing that’s on everyone’s mind – COVID-19 – and how it intersects with sex and dating. Hope you find this helpful and comforting, friends!
 

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]]> Sexual Distancing Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:24 Wow, what a week. This episode we’re answering questions about the thing that’s on everyone’s mind – COVID-19 – and how it intersects with sex and dating. Hope you find this helpful and comforting, friends! Wow, what a week. This episode we’re answering questions about the thing that’s on everyone’s mind – COVID-19 – and how it intersects with sex and dating. Hope you find this helpful and comforting, friends! covid-19, coronavirus true full 181 b1f64711-a008-4c41-aacd-f50f6ec5d9b3 Self-Serve Perv How do you do kinky stuff if you don’t have (or don’t want) someone to do them with? This week we’re talking about solo kink: why it’s fun, how to do it safely, and (of course) how it’s relevant to the current global pandemic.

 

#StayTheFuckHome | What Is Solo Kink? | AFemmeCock Post | Reasons | Masturbation Comparison | Pain & Self-Harm | Dangers | Negotiation | Headspace | Fantasizing | Toys & Products | Mirrors | Internet Integration | Edging | Chastity | D/s | Self-Compassion | Aftercare

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]]> Tue, 17 Mar 2020 19:36:41 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/self-serve-perv-7jq_owze How do you do kinky stuff if you don’t have (or don’t want) someone to do them with? This week we’re talking about solo kink: why it’s fun, how to do it safely, and (of course) how it’s relevant to the current global pandemic.

 

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]]> Self-Serve Perv Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:05:02 How do you do kinky stuff if you don’t have (or don’t want) someone to do them with? This week we’re talking about solo kink: why it’s fun, how to do it safely, and (of course) how it’s relevant to the current global pandemic. How do you do kinky stuff if you don’t have (or don’t want) someone to do them with? This week we’re talking about solo kink: why it’s fun, how to do it safely, and (of course) how it’s relevant to the current global pandemic. true full 180 03826e43-f7d0-46f7-b8f9-df7b60719e6f Deepening... Our Friendship Don’t listen to this episode while driving! This week Kate busted out her fledgling hypnosis skills and hypnotized Bex, after an extended scene negotiation. You’ll learn about communication, recreational hypnosis, and what Kate’s hypno top voice sounds like…!
 

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]]> Tue, 10 Mar 2020 23:56:09 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/deepening-our-friendship-jb8w_UsV Don’t listen to this episode while driving! This week Kate busted out her fledgling hypnosis skills and hypnotized Bex, after an extended scene negotiation. You’ll learn about communication, recreational hypnosis, and what Kate’s hypno top voice sounds like…!
 

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]]> Deepening... Our Friendship Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:20:58 Don’t listen to this episode while driving! This week Kate busted out her fledgling hypnosis skills and hypnotized Bex, after an extended scene negotiation. You’ll learn about communication, recreational hypnosis, and what Kate’s hypno top voice sounds like…! Don’t listen to this episode while driving! This week Kate busted out her fledgling hypnosis skills and hypnotized Bex, after an extended scene negotiation. You’ll learn about communication, recreational hypnosis, and what Kate’s hypno top voice sounds like…! bdsm, kink true full 179 137b9fa2-13c0-48ef-9dcf-94e00e90041a Depression Transgression This week, we’re chatting with writer and mental health advocate JoEllen Notte about her incredibly helpful soon-to-launch book on sex and depression, The Monster Under the Bed!
 

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]]> Tue, 3 Mar 2020 16:05:38 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/depression-transgression-Knh1AvAU This week, we’re chatting with writer and mental health advocate JoEllen Notte about her incredibly helpful soon-to-launch book on sex and depression, The Monster Under the Bed!
 

Crying | Double Taboo | Introverts at Conferences | Sex Educator BFFs | Research | The Book You Need | Us vs. the Problem | Unqualified | Horny Depression | Kink | Self-Harm? | Caretaking Guilt | Desirability | Waning Libido | Sex-Positivity | Lube | Wand Vibes | The “Normal” Way | Doctors | Medications | Scaring the Public | One Takeaway

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]]> Depression Transgression Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:54:45 This week, we’re chatting with writer and mental health advocate JoEllen Notte about her incredibly helpful soon-to-launch book on sex and depression, The Monster Under the Bed! This week, we’re chatting with writer and mental health advocate JoEllen Notte about her incredibly helpful soon-to-launch book on sex and depression, The Monster Under the Bed! true full 178 b5c5aa25-0871-4ada-a352-83cb84298c7f Arousing Carousing We’re talking about play parties again this week, and this time we’re focusing on what happens once you get to the party. Hear our best advice on approaching people, negotiating pickup play, saying “no” nicely, and more!
 

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]]> Tue, 25 Feb 2020 19:25:52 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/arousing-carousing-fXtz6F3O We’re talking about play parties again this week, and this time we’re focusing on what happens once you get to the party. Hear our best advice on approaching people, negotiating pickup play, saying “no” nicely, and more!
 

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]]> Arousing Carousing Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:53:49 We’re talking about play parties again this week, and this time we’re focusing on what happens once you get to the party. Hear our best advice on approaching people, negotiating pickup play, saying “no” nicely, and more! We’re talking about play parties again this week, and this time we’re focusing on what happens once you get to the party. Hear our best advice on approaching people, negotiating pickup play, saying “no” nicely, and more! bdsm, queer, lgbtq, kink, sex true full 177 6a670953-f090-4c48-8db3-7089831803bd Love in the Time of Collars This week Kate is joined by her partner Matt (they/them) to talk about collars: what they are, why people like them, and how to go about buying one, negotiating one, and wearing one!

 

What is a Collar? | Kate’s First Collar | Gifting Collars | L’Amour-Propre | Old Guard | Bringing It Up | Play Collars | Negotiating Rules | Flagging | Touching | Doms | Double Duty Cuff | Reactions in Public | Necklaces & Day Collars | Inappropriate Situations | Complimenting Strangers | Contextualizing | Buying One For Yourself | Radical Self-Love Totem | Old Collars | Ceremonies | Non-Monogamy | Breakups | Wear & Tear | Aslan Leather | Eternity Collars | Locks & Keys | Collarversary

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]]> Tue, 18 Feb 2020 20:04:06 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/love-in-the-time-of-collars-k7JP7I7f This week Kate is joined by her partner Matt (they/them) to talk about collars: what they are, why people like them, and how to go about buying one, negotiating one, and wearing one!

 

What is a Collar? | Kate’s First Collar | Gifting Collars | L’Amour-Propre | Old Guard | Bringing It Up | Play Collars | Negotiating Rules | Flagging | Touching | Doms | Double Duty Cuff | Reactions in Public | Necklaces & Day Collars | Inappropriate Situations | Complimenting Strangers | Contextualizing | Buying One For Yourself | Radical Self-Love Totem | Old Collars | Ceremonies | Non-Monogamy | Breakups | Wear & Tear | Aslan Leather | Eternity Collars | Locks & Keys | Collarversary

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]]> Love in the Time of Collars Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:48 This week Kate is joined by her partner Matt (they/them) to talk about collars: what they are, why people like them, and how to go about buying one, negotiating one, and wearing one! This week Kate is joined by her partner Matt (they/them) to talk about collars: what they are, why people like them, and how to go about buying one, negotiating one, and wearing one! bdsm, dating, collars, kink, relationships true full 176 262b573b-def3-4526-9cf7-a8e74e877b93 A Queer Lens This week we’re joined by Ashe, the photographer extraordinaire behind Rose Glass Photos, who also happens to be Bex’s partner! We discuss how photography interacts with gender expression, kink, personal branding, and more.

 

Butt Selfies | Marginalized Folks | Gender on Purpose | Perfection | Comfort vs. Awkwardness | Preparation | Shoot with Matt | Kinky Photographers | Giving Direction | Intoxication | Gendered Posing | Faces | Cameras | Social Media & Branding | Diversity | Sensitivity

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]]> Tue, 11 Feb 2020 19:16:45 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/a-queer-lens-9xeH3ogp This week we’re joined by Ashe, the photographer extraordinaire behind Rose Glass Photos, who also happens to be Bex’s partner! We discuss how photography interacts with gender expression, kink, personal branding, and more.

 

Butt Selfies | Marginalized Folks | Gender on Purpose | Perfection | Comfort vs. Awkwardness | Preparation | Shoot with Matt | Kinky Photographers | Giving Direction | Intoxication | Gendered Posing | Faces | Cameras | Social Media & Branding | Diversity | Sensitivity

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]]> A Queer Lens Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:06:12 This week we’re joined by Ashe, the photographer extraordinaire behind Rose Glass Photos, who also happens to be Bex’s partner! We discuss how photography interacts with gender expression, kink, personal branding, and more. This week we’re joined by Ashe, the photographer extraordinaire behind Rose Glass Photos, who also happens to be Bex’s partner! We discuss how photography interacts with gender expression, kink, personal branding, and more. lgbt, photography, gender, queer, lgbtq, kink true full 175 ecb50ee2-1c3d-450e-a9a1-b5a3084abe57 Fete-ish Play parties are so fun, but also confusing and scary at times! This week we’re demystifying the processes of finding play parties to attend, mentally preparing yourself to play, and putting together your party outfit.

 

Sex or No Sex? | Finding Parties | Vetting | Not Kinky? | Alone vs. With People | Mental Prep | Logistics | Dress Codes

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]]> Tue, 4 Feb 2020 18:42:09 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/fete-ish-rgAizpyj Play parties are so fun, but also confusing and scary at times! This week we’re demystifying the processes of finding play parties to attend, mentally preparing yourself to play, and putting together your party outfit.

 

Sex or No Sex? | Finding Parties | Vetting | Not Kinky? | Alone vs. With People | Mental Prep | Logistics | Dress Codes

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]]> Fete-ish Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:46:24 Play parties are so fun, but also confusing and scary at times! This week we’re demystifying the processes of finding play parties to attend, mentally preparing yourself to play, and putting together your party outfit. Play parties are so fun, but also confusing and scary at times! This week we’re demystifying the processes of finding play parties to attend, mentally preparing yourself to play, and putting together your party outfit. bdsm, dating, kink, sex true full 174 45dfc8ec-c4e0-4473-85e4-ad264aa8e86f Kinkquiries This week we’re answering some of your big kink questions, including how to keep things casual in a kinky friendship-with-benefits and what to do when a top safewords!
 

Pervy Purview | D/s FWB | Slut Protocols | Hobbies | IRL Fanfiction | Aftercare | Sub Drop | Giving Feedback | Tops Safewording

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]]> Tue, 28 Jan 2020 21:19:53 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/kinkquiries-l8m_R1Hp This week we’re answering some of your big kink questions, including how to keep things casual in a kinky friendship-with-benefits and what to do when a top safewords!
 

Pervy Purview | D/s FWB | Slut Protocols | Hobbies | IRL Fanfiction | Aftercare | Sub Drop | Giving Feedback | Tops Safewording

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]]> Kinkquiries Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:00:04 This week we’re answering some of your big kink questions, including how to keep things casual in a kinky friendship-with-benefits and what to do when a top safewords! This week we’re answering some of your big kink questions, including how to keep things casual in a kinky friendship-with-benefits and what to do when a top safewords! bdsm, dating, kink, sex true full 173 48405f79-b3a2-4d0f-8073-cd10e9cf75e3 You're Hot, Then You're Cold Let’s be cool and heat things up: this week we’re discussing temperature play!

Weather | Sensation Play | Easy vs. Advanced | Ice | Topping | Risks | Wax | Toys | Enemas | Lube & Oil | Emotions | Safewording

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]]> Tue, 21 Jan 2020 17:18:10 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/youre-hot-then-youre-cold-cr4OVAtZ Let’s be cool and heat things up: this week we’re discussing temperature play!

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]]> You're Hot, Then You're Cold Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:49:30 Let’s be cool and heat things up: this week we’re discussing temperature play! Let’s be cool and heat things up: this week we’re discussing temperature play! bdsm, kink, sex true full 172 0eb8bc78-0247-4033-bab4-315250a49cc1 Started From the Bottom What skills do bottoms develop that allow them to take more sensation, feel good about doing so, and make their tops happy? This week’s episode is all about bottoming skills, which are sometimes underacknowledged in the kink world.

 

iTunes Reviews | Switching | Subbing vs. Bottoming | Bottoming Skills Workshop | Underrecognized | Masochism | Subspace | What You Want | Negotiation | Providing Data | Building the Playground | Pain Processing | Safewording | Expressiveness | Feedback |

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]]> Wed, 15 Jan 2020 00:16:43 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/started-from-the-bottom-GLGX0Hwk What skills do bottoms develop that allow them to take more sensation, feel good about doing so, and make their tops happy? This week’s episode is all about bottoming skills, which are sometimes underacknowledged in the kink world.

 

iTunes Reviews | Switching | Subbing vs. Bottoming | Bottoming Skills Workshop | Underrecognized | Masochism | Subspace | What You Want | Negotiation | Providing Data | Building the Playground | Pain Processing | Safewording | Expressiveness | Feedback |

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]]> Started From the Bottom Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:11:31 What skills do bottoms develop that allow them to take more sensation, feel good about doing so, and make their tops happy? This week’s episode is all about bottoming skills, which are sometimes underacknowledged in the kink world. What skills do bottoms develop that allow them to take more sensation, feel good about doing so, and make their tops happy? This week’s episode is all about bottoming skills, which are sometimes underacknowledged in the kink world. bdsm, kink, sex true full 171 36d9065c-30f3-40ce-b980-ce22680f496e Vagic Tricks Vulvas and vaginas are great! This week we’re discussing our feelings about these widely venerated and vilified parts – both our own and other people’s.
 

Vulva Collector | Our Own Bits | Vag vs. Dick | Queer Impostor Syndrome | Transferrable Skills | Sucking Clits | “Switching” Genders | More Complicated | Visual Representation | Vag Smells | Tightness | Aesthetics | Semantics | Sex Ed | Stigma & Shame | Labia

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]]> Tue, 7 Jan 2020 18:18:37 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/vagic-tricks-NAOfJ0jI Vulvas and vaginas are great! This week we’re discussing our feelings about these widely venerated and vilified parts – both our own and other people’s.
 

Vulva Collector | Our Own Bits | Vag vs. Dick | Queer Impostor Syndrome | Transferrable Skills | Sucking Clits | “Switching” Genders | More Complicated | Visual Representation | Vag Smells | Tightness | Aesthetics | Semantics | Sex Ed | Stigma & Shame | Labia

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]]> Vagic Tricks Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:52:08 Vulvas and vaginas are great! This week we’re discussing our feelings about these widely venerated and vilified parts – both our own and other people’s. Vulvas and vaginas are great! This week we’re discussing our feelings about these widely venerated and vilified parts – both our own and other people’s. sexual health, lgbtq, sex true full 170 3387b8a2-cd38-43b1-be3a-c7af53aaf3e3 Twentybyeeeteen Happy New Year! This week we’re reviewing how our sex lives progressed in 2019, and looking forward to discuss our 2020 sex goals.

You’re Wrong About | Overall Trends | Sex Ed | Decentering Sex | Bad Sex | Keeping Track | Number of Partners | Locations | Best Sex | Roleplay | Phone Sex | Topping | Hypno-Topping | Sex Toys | Sex Media | Last Year’s Goals | Passion Projects | Apologies | Submitting | New Orgasms | Dicks

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]]> Tue, 31 Dec 2019 20:50:59 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/twentybyeeeteen-elhr0cv_ Happy New Year! This week we’re reviewing how our sex lives progressed in 2019, and looking forward to discuss our 2020 sex goals.

You’re Wrong About | Overall Trends | Sex Ed | Decentering Sex | Bad Sex | Keeping Track | Number of Partners | Locations | Best Sex | Roleplay | Phone Sex | Topping | Hypno-Topping | Sex Toys | Sex Media | Last Year’s Goals | Passion Projects | Apologies | Submitting | New Orgasms | Dicks

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]]> Twentybyeeeteen Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:05:46 Happy New Year! This week we’re reviewing how our sex lives progressed in 2019, and looking forward to discuss our 2020 sex goals. Happy New Year! This week we’re reviewing how our sex lives progressed in 2019, and looking forward to discuss our 2020 sex goals. dating, new year, kink, sex true full 169 e6a9ef64-9e90-4114-a645-84e75bfb70c2 Taboos 2: Electric Taboogaloo We’re back to chat more about taboo kinks! Hear us unpack incest porn, edgy ethnoreligious roleplays, forced feminization, and more.
 

Relativity | Legislation | Incest Porn | Context | Trauma | Fantasy vs. Reality | Spicing Things Up | Uncool | Beducated Female Orgasm Course | Race Play | Hate Crimes | Motivations | Forced Feminization | Limits | Bringing It Up

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]]> Wed, 18 Dec 2019 17:55:34 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/taboos-2-electric-taboogaloo-LpWa78RF We’re back to chat more about taboo kinks! Hear us unpack incest porn, edgy ethnoreligious roleplays, forced feminization, and more.
 

Relativity | Legislation | Incest Porn | Context | Trauma | Fantasy vs. Reality | Spicing Things Up | Uncool | Beducated Female Orgasm Course | Race Play | Hate Crimes | Motivations | Forced Feminization | Limits | Bringing It Up

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]]> Taboos 2: Electric Taboogaloo Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:09:05 We’re back to chat more about taboo kinks! Hear us unpack incest porn, edgy ethnoreligious roleplays, forced feminization, and more. We’re back to chat more about taboo kinks! Hear us unpack incest porn, edgy ethnoreligious roleplays, forced feminization, and more. bdsm, taboo, kink true full 168 3ab3748e-1a04-4e97-b7fb-5def2495f7c7 Hidden & Forbidden This week we’re talkin’ taboos! Hear us discuss some of our favorite taboo kinks, like intoxication, consensual non-consent, and sleepy sex. More to come next week!
 

Toybag Guide to Playing With Taboo | What Is Taboo? | Vanilla Taboos | Fantasy vs. Reality | Gateway Kinks | Blood | Jillian Keenan | Consensual Non-Consent | Aftercare Buddy | “Slave” | Triggers | Check-Ins | Intoxication | Beducated Female Orgasm Course | Negotiation | Poppers | Sleepy Sex | Forced Bi | Taking On the Oppressor | Identity vs. Behavior

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]]> Tue, 10 Dec 2019 17:39:44 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/hidden-forbidden-CeJgDR0e This week we’re talkin’ taboos! Hear us discuss some of our favorite taboo kinks, like intoxication, consensual non-consent, and sleepy sex. More to come next week!
 

Toybag Guide to Playing With Taboo | What Is Taboo? | Vanilla Taboos | Fantasy vs. Reality | Gateway Kinks | Blood | Jillian Keenan | Consensual Non-Consent | Aftercare Buddy | “Slave” | Triggers | Check-Ins | Intoxication | Beducated Female Orgasm Course | Negotiation | Poppers | Sleepy Sex | Forced Bi | Taking On the Oppressor | Identity vs. Behavior

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]]> Hidden & Forbidden Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:05:24 This week we’re talkin’ taboos! Hear us discuss some of our favorite taboo kinks, like intoxication, consensual non-consent, and sleepy sex. More to come next week! This week we’re talkin’ taboos! Hear us discuss some of our favorite taboo kinks, like intoxication, consensual non-consent, and sleepy sex. More to come next week! taboo true full 167 d023a049-a4c8-4157-95f9-260241a815f0 Shall We Trance? Almost everyone’s curious about hypnosis, so we’re back this week doing Hypno 101! Learn about how trance works, what it feels like, and what kinky stuff you can do with it.
 

Mind Play | Scripts | Pre-Talk | Negotiation | Speaking in Trance | Children | Surprises | Vetting Tops | Inductions | Relaxation | Fixation | Resisting | Confusion | Covert Hypnosis | Rapid Inductions | Coercion | Derren Brown | Are We There Yet? | Utilization | Fractionation | Triggers | Aftercare | Hypno Bondage | Love Dial | Indirect Suggestions | Phrasing | Arousal | Dials | Tools

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]]> Tue, 3 Dec 2019 19:14:43 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/shall-we-trance-hOFVrd_x Almost everyone’s curious about hypnosis, so we’re back this week doing Hypno 101! Learn about how trance works, what it feels like, and what kinky stuff you can do with it.
 

Mind Play | Scripts | Pre-Talk | Negotiation | Speaking in Trance | Children | Surprises | Vetting Tops | Inductions | Relaxation | Fixation | Resisting | Confusion | Covert Hypnosis | Rapid Inductions | Coercion | Derren Brown | Are We There Yet? | Utilization | Fractionation | Triggers | Aftercare | Hypno Bondage | Love Dial | Indirect Suggestions | Phrasing | Arousal | Dials | Tools

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]]> Shall We Trance? Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:16:11 Almost everyone’s curious about hypnosis, so we’re back this week doing Hypno 101! Learn about how trance works, what it feels like, and what kinky stuff you can do with it. Almost everyone’s curious about hypnosis, so we’re back this week doing Hypno 101! Learn about how trance works, what it feels like, and what kinky stuff you can do with it. bdsm, kink true full 166 9f2840e6-3455-462a-bdb7-1df62d0fd0ec Very, Very Sleepy We attended a hypnokink event together recently so this week we decided to chat about erotic hypnosis! Hear about our fantasies surrounding this kink, some scenes Kate has done, and some hypnosis misconceptions we love to debunk.
 

TES Hypnokink Group | Distractions | Validity | Tricks | Orgasm Countdown | Lazy Tops | Mindlessness | Perception vs. Reality | Metaphor | Relaxing | Risks | Two Hyp Chicks | The Brainwashing Book | Fantasies | Intelligence Play | Undoing | Service | Training | Nipples

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]]> Tue, 26 Nov 2019 16:36:13 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/very-very-sleepy-Gt3SyU8q We attended a hypnokink event together recently so this week we decided to chat about erotic hypnosis! Hear about our fantasies surrounding this kink, some scenes Kate has done, and some hypnosis misconceptions we love to debunk.
 

TES Hypnokink Group | Distractions | Validity | Tricks | Orgasm Countdown | Lazy Tops | Mindlessness | Perception vs. Reality | Metaphor | Relaxing | Risks | Two Hyp Chicks | The Brainwashing Book | Fantasies | Intelligence Play | Undoing | Service | Training | Nipples

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]]> Very, Very Sleepy Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:45:38 We attended a hypnokink event together recently so this week we decided to chat about erotic hypnosis! Hear about our fantasies surrounding this kink, some scenes Kate has done, and some hypnosis misconceptions we love to debunk. We attended a hypnokink event together recently so this week we decided to chat about erotic hypnosis! Hear about our fantasies surrounding this kink, some scenes Kate has done, and some hypnosis misconceptions we love to debunk. fetish, bdsm, hypnokink, kink, hypnosis true full 165 38b0cb79-8028-4ebf-adaa-5b950a855f10 Lady HD This week Bex sits down with Rachael Rose, a chronically ill and disabled sex educator, to talk about their shared diagnosis: ADHD! Find out how this condition intersects with sex, dating, creativity, and more.

Diagnosis | ADHD Brain | Getting Things Done | Homework | Brain Engagement | Watching Movies | Gender Bias | Restlessness | Gamification | Time Blindness | Reaching Out | Notifications | Relationships | How to ADHD | Motivation | Food | Deep Dives | Noisy Brain Workshop | Distraction | Sex Tips | Joy | NRE | Long-Distance | Looking Forward

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]]> Tue, 19 Nov 2019 19:45:29 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/lady-hd-DdWgiKef This week Bex sits down with Rachael Rose, a chronically ill and disabled sex educator, to talk about their shared diagnosis: ADHD! Find out how this condition intersects with sex, dating, creativity, and more.

Diagnosis | ADHD Brain | Getting Things Done | Homework | Brain Engagement | Watching Movies | Gender Bias | Restlessness | Gamification | Time Blindness | Reaching Out | Notifications | Relationships | How to ADHD | Motivation | Food | Deep Dives | Noisy Brain Workshop | Distraction | Sex Tips | Joy | NRE | Long-Distance | Looking Forward

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]]> Lady HD Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:14:02 This week Bex sits down with Rachael Rose, a chronically ill and disabled sex educator, to talk about their shared diagnosis: ADHD! Find out how this condition intersects with sex, dating, creativity, and more. This week Bex sits down with Rachael Rose, a chronically ill and disabled sex educator, to talk about their shared diagnosis: ADHD! Find out how this condition intersects with sex, dating, creativity, and more. mental health, dating, adhd, sex, relationships true full 164 d8c3a214-39f1-44a1-a683-8c216c4f53c6 Skype Hype This week we’re tackling the sex and kink elements of long-distance relationships! Tune in to hear our best Skype sex tips, how protocol works in LDRs, and whether we would have sex on an airplane.
 

Mile-High Club | Skype Sex | Feeling Silly | Flirting & Foreplay | “Real Sex” | Accessibility | Protocol | Sadomasochism | We-Vibe Sync | Aftercare | Protocol Changes | Shopping | Research Tasks | Collars | FaceTime Makeup | Travel Tips

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]]> Tue, 12 Nov 2019 19:56:44 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/skype-hype-PzidaJkt This week we’re tackling the sex and kink elements of long-distance relationships! Tune in to hear our best Skype sex tips, how protocol works in LDRs, and whether we would have sex on an airplane.
 

Mile-High Club | Skype Sex | Feeling Silly | Flirting & Foreplay | “Real Sex” | Accessibility | Protocol | Sadomasochism | We-Vibe Sync | Aftercare | Protocol Changes | Shopping | Research Tasks | Collars | FaceTime Makeup | Travel Tips

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]]> Skype Hype Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:06:42 This week we’re tackling the sex and kink elements of long-distance relationships! Tune in to hear our best Skype sex tips, how protocol works in LDRs, and whether we would have sex on an airplane. This week we’re tackling the sex and kink elements of long-distance relationships! Tune in to hear our best Skype sex tips, how protocol works in LDRs, and whether we would have sex on an airplane. long-distance relationships, bdsm, dating, kink, sex, relationships true full 163 4b0691fd-8cab-46d8-8e95-448ab644c9d3 Go the Distance We’ve both been in multiple long-distance relationships, so today we’re discussing the weird, wonderful, and sometimes wistful realities of LDRs!

What Counts? | Initial Opinions | Because Internet | Day-to-Day | Unreality | Chemistry | Communication Style | Touch | Dates | Finances | Endgame | Polyamory | Balance | Traits | Soulmates | Asking | Important Conversations | Time Management | Emotional Support | Watching & Reading

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]]> Tue, 5 Nov 2019 17:55:13 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/go-the-distance-YjlGe_Hh We’ve both been in multiple long-distance relationships, so today we’re discussing the weird, wonderful, and sometimes wistful realities of LDRs!

What Counts? | Initial Opinions | Because Internet | Day-to-Day | Unreality | Chemistry | Communication Style | Touch | Dates | Finances | Endgame | Polyamory | Balance | Traits | Soulmates | Asking | Important Conversations | Time Management | Emotional Support | Watching & Reading

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]]> Go the Distance Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:54 We’ve both been in multiple long-distance relationships, so today we’re discussing the weird, wonderful, and sometimes wistful realities of LDRs! We’ve both been in multiple long-distance relationships, so today we’re discussing the weird, wonderful, and sometimes wistful realities of LDRs! long-distance relationships, polyamory, dating, relationships true full 162 d26c8557-652c-46b8-bbc7-dae3a3dadc1d Doc Worship Bex is back from the hospital after his top surgery! This week he’s telling us the story of his experience (with some contributions from Kate, who was there too).

 

Current Status | Early Morning | Preparation | Money | Dad | Lip Ring | Anaesthesiologist | Sharpie | Joking/Coping | Misgendering | Peeing | Aromatherapy | Sex Break | Hot Nurse | Graham Crackers | Elevator | Pain | Marvel | Partners | Recovery

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]]> Tue, 29 Oct 2019 17:31:36 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/doc-worship-z3J4FYNr Bex is back from the hospital after his top surgery! This week he’s telling us the story of his experience (with some contributions from Kate, who was there too).

 

Current Status | Early Morning | Preparation | Money | Dad | Lip Ring | Anaesthesiologist | Sharpie | Joking/Coping | Misgendering | Peeing | Aromatherapy | Sex Break | Hot Nurse | Graham Crackers | Elevator | Pain | Marvel | Partners | Recovery

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]]> Doc Worship Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:53:49 Bex is back from the hospital after his top surgery! This week he’s telling us the story of his experience (with some contributions from Kate, who was there too). Bex is back from the hospital after his top surgery! This week he’s telling us the story of his experience (with some contributions from Kate, who was there too). top surgery, trans, surgery, lgbtq true full 161 3c429c65-ed7e-4c80-b9d4-4eeb3e0ad11b Attachment Not Found We sat down with therapist and educator Aida Manduley to discuss the psychological model known as attachment theory – how it works, why it matters, and (of course) how it relates to non-monogamy and kink!

 

What Is Attachment Theory? | Insecure | Secure | Anxious-Preoccupied | Dismissive-Avoidant | Fearful-Avoidant | Caveats | Childhood | Abuse | What to Work On | Distress Tolerance | Different Manifestations | Becoming Secure | Feelings | Silence | How to Say No | Emergencies | Non-Monogamy | Kink | Bragging | Reinforcement | Context

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]]> Tue, 22 Oct 2019 21:49:36 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/attachment-not-found-F7IWWiPm We sat down with therapist and educator Aida Manduley to discuss the psychological model known as attachment theory – how it works, why it matters, and (of course) how it relates to non-monogamy and kink!

 

What Is Attachment Theory? | Insecure | Secure | Anxious-Preoccupied | Dismissive-Avoidant | Fearful-Avoidant | Caveats | Childhood | Abuse | What to Work On | Distress Tolerance | Different Manifestations | Becoming Secure | Feelings | Silence | How to Say No | Emergencies | Non-Monogamy | Kink | Bragging | Reinforcement | Context

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]]> Attachment Not Found Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:08:57 We sat down with therapist and educator Aida Manduley to discuss the psychological model known as attachment theory – how it works, why it matters, and (of course) how it relates to non-monogamy and kink! We sat down with therapist and educator Aida Manduley to discuss the psychological model known as attachment theory – how it works, why it matters, and (of course) how it relates to non-monogamy and kink! true full 160 8eb226f3-4aff-40f5-86cb-2c598b3df65a Chesterday's News In preparation for Bex’s long-awaited top surgery, we had a conversation about his reasons for getting it, what he’s been doing to get ready for it, and what he thinks will happen during recovery and beyond.
 

Time Travel | Rude Questions | What Is It? | Deciding | Process | Risks | Fears | Pain | Recovery | Depression | Regrets | Saying Goodbye | Chest Hair | Looking Forward | Sex | Friends & Partners | Advice | Thirst Traps

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]]> Tue, 15 Oct 2019 17:20:44 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/chesterdays-news-4c8uMOJM In preparation for Bex’s long-awaited top surgery, we had a conversation about his reasons for getting it, what he’s been doing to get ready for it, and what he thinks will happen during recovery and beyond.
 

Time Travel | Rude Questions | What Is It? | Deciding | Process | Risks | Fears | Pain | Recovery | Depression | Regrets | Saying Goodbye | Chest Hair | Looking Forward | Sex | Friends & Partners | Advice | Thirst Traps

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]]> Chesterday's News Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:48:01 In preparation for Bex’s long-awaited top surgery, we had a conversation about his reasons for getting it, what he’s been doing to get ready for it, and what he thinks will happen during recovery and beyond. In preparation for Bex’s long-awaited top surgery, we had a conversation about his reasons for getting it, what he’s been doing to get ready for it, and what he thinks will happen during recovery and beyond. true full 159 57ff9906-3f0e-4821-830c-a4fb0af15afb Separation Anxiety This week rounds out our 3-part series on breakups! We’re addressing some awkward post-split situations, like reclaiming your possessions, saying goodbye to your ex’s family, and dealing with passive-aggressive tweetstorms.
 

Getting Back Your Stuff | Impulsive Breakups | Taking a Break | Close Quarters | New Dates | Harping On | Friends & Family | Subtweets

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]]> Tue, 8 Oct 2019 17:48:54 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/separation-anxiety-ha_k_Cmx This week rounds out our 3-part series on breakups! We’re addressing some awkward post-split situations, like reclaiming your possessions, saying goodbye to your ex’s family, and dealing with passive-aggressive tweetstorms.
 

Getting Back Your Stuff | Impulsive Breakups | Taking a Break | Close Quarters | New Dates | Harping On | Friends & Family | Subtweets

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]]> Separation Anxiety Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:50:49 This week rounds out our 3-part series on breakups! We’re addressing some awkward post-split situations, like reclaiming your possessions, saying goodbye to your ex’s family, and dealing with passive-aggressive tweetstorms. This week rounds out our 3-part series on breakups! We’re addressing some awkward post-split situations, like reclaiming your possessions, saying goodbye to your ex’s family, and dealing with passive-aggressive tweetstorms. breakups, dating, relationships true full 158 3809408e-004e-46e9-b7d7-7167c943935b Breakup Breakdown We had more to say about breakups, so here’s another episode about the ends of relationships!

Grammar/Gender Rebel | Rebounds | Staying Friends | Small Talk | Best Breakup | Pre-Negotiation | Friend Breakups | Poly Breakups | Supporting Partners | D/s Breakups

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]]> Tue, 1 Oct 2019 17:40:30 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/breakup-breakdown-jzt6Ndb7 We had more to say about breakups, so here’s another episode about the ends of relationships!

Grammar/Gender Rebel | Rebounds | Staying Friends | Small Talk | Best Breakup | Pre-Negotiation | Friend Breakups | Poly Breakups | Supporting Partners | D/s Breakups

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]]> Breakup Breakdown Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:03:17 We had more to say about breakups, so here’s another episode about the ends of relationships! We had more to say about breakups, so here’s another episode about the ends of relationships! breakups, dating, friendship, relationships true full 157 4814ea09-5060-4c77-8313-d5f8f21dc26a It's Not You, It's... How did it take us this long to do an episode about breakups? This week we’re discussing some of our worst splits, how we think they should be done, and what should happen afterward.

Which One Is Harder? | First Breakup | Text vs. In Person | Long-Distance | Teenage Bullshit | When Is It Time? | Downleveling | Clarity | Reasons | Safety | Location | Post-Breakup Conversations | Getting Better | Uncertainty | Grief | Time Heals All Wounds | Trauma | Attachment | Distraction vs. Processing | TV Marathons | Rorschach | Crying

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]]> Tue, 24 Sep 2019 20:38:13 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/its-not-you-its-ZshnS6aG How did it take us this long to do an episode about breakups? This week we’re discussing some of our worst splits, how we think they should be done, and what should happen afterward.

Which One Is Harder? | First Breakup | Text vs. In Person | Long-Distance | Teenage Bullshit | When Is It Time? | Downleveling | Clarity | Reasons | Safety | Location | Post-Breakup Conversations | Getting Better | Uncertainty | Grief | Time Heals All Wounds | Trauma | Attachment | Distraction vs. Processing | TV Marathons | Rorschach | Crying

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]]> It's Not You, It's... Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:07:59 How did it take us this long to do an episode about breakups? This week we’re discussing some of our worst splits, how we think they should be done, and what should happen afterward. How did it take us this long to do an episode about breakups? This week we’re discussing some of our worst splits, how we think they should be done, and what should happen afterward. breakups, romance, dating, love, relationships true full 156 2ae41fe3-3c2e-485e-9668-bc8b9aa48a05 Revolutionizing Romance This week we’re interviewing Dr. Liz Powell, psychologist, speaker, and author of our favorite book on non-monogamy, Building Open Relationships. We touch on polyamory struggles, love as a verb, and creating the relationships you want, among other things!
 

Building Open Relationships | Jealousy | Desire-Based Approach | Breaking Up | Downleveling | Hierarchy | Flexibility | Boundaries | Perfect Poly | Fucking Up | Monogamy Mindset Hangovers | Soulmates | Real Love | Transference

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]]> Tue, 17 Sep 2019 19:44:40 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/revolutionizing-romance-fspBz4Kw This week we’re interviewing Dr. Liz Powell, psychologist, speaker, and author of our favorite book on non-monogamy, Building Open Relationships. We touch on polyamory struggles, love as a verb, and creating the relationships you want, among other things!
 

Building Open Relationships | Jealousy | Desire-Based Approach | Breaking Up | Downleveling | Hierarchy | Flexibility | Boundaries | Perfect Poly | Fucking Up | Monogamy Mindset Hangovers | Soulmates | Real Love | Transference

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]]> Revolutionizing Romance Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:03:15 This week we’re interviewing Dr. Liz Powell, psychologist, speaker, and author of our favorite book on non-monogamy, Building Open Relationships. We touch on polyamory struggles, love as a verb, and creating the relationships you want, among other things! This week we’re interviewing Dr. Liz Powell, psychologist, speaker, and author of our favorite book on non-monogamy, Building Open Relationships. We touch on polyamory struggles, love as a verb, and creating the relationships you want, among other things! polyamory, dating, non-monogamy, relationships true full 155 bff8fdb2-0487-4e03-9a61-6c3bb141a3c2 Gaming the System Truth or dare? We DARE you to join us this week for a discussion of sex games: different types, ways to play them, and why they might be beneficial.

Travel Exhaustion | Why? | Mass Market Games | Excuses | Dulcinea Pitagora | Competition | Game Development | Strip Scrabble | Video Games | Roleplay | Reward vs. Punishment | Consent | Sex Dice | Truth or Dare | Intoxicants | Who Would You Fuck? | Gamification | Protocol | Habitica | Sticker Chart | Skill Equity | Group Sex | Making a Game | Dating Sims | OMGyes | Question Box

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]]> Wed, 11 Sep 2019 19:47:28 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/gaming-the-system-4dt3N1mP Truth or dare? We DARE you to join us this week for a discussion of sex games: different types, ways to play them, and why they might be beneficial.

Travel Exhaustion | Why? | Mass Market Games | Excuses | Dulcinea Pitagora | Competition | Game Development | Strip Scrabble | Video Games | Roleplay | Reward vs. Punishment | Consent | Sex Dice | Truth or Dare | Intoxicants | Who Would You Fuck? | Gamification | Protocol | Habitica | Sticker Chart | Skill Equity | Group Sex | Making a Game | Dating Sims | OMGyes | Question Box

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]]> Gaming the System Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:32 Truth or dare? We DARE you to join us this week for a discussion of sex games: different types, ways to play them, and why they might be beneficial. Truth or dare? We DARE you to join us this week for a discussion of sex games: different types, ways to play them, and why they might be beneficial. games, dating, flirting, sex true full 154 8738a267-9a5e-4bb3-bb91-b4c5bd614b47 A Song of Nerds & Queers This week Bex interviews his friend and roommate, sex educator and queer pirate Jo Goforth, about finding identity through fandom, positive representations of masculinity, and their new sex ed comic, among other things.

Coworker Chart | Union-Busting | Fandom | A Song of Ice and Fire | X-Men | Black Sails | Resonant Characters | Quicksilver | Cosplay | Musketeers | Jake Peralta | Positive Masculinity | Queer Representation | Queer Utopia | Trans Generations | Transphobia | Coming Out | Shifting Orientation | Introspection | Sex Talk Comic | Trans Sex Ed

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]]> Tue, 3 Sep 2019 18:00:30 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/a-song-of-nerds-queers-kHitPdTX This week Bex interviews his friend and roommate, sex educator and queer pirate Jo Goforth, about finding identity through fandom, positive representations of masculinity, and their new sex ed comic, among other things.

Coworker Chart | Union-Busting | Fandom | A Song of Ice and Fire | X-Men | Black Sails | Resonant Characters | Quicksilver | Cosplay | Musketeers | Jake Peralta | Positive Masculinity | Queer Representation | Queer Utopia | Trans Generations | Transphobia | Coming Out | Shifting Orientation | Introspection | Sex Talk Comic | Trans Sex Ed

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]]> A Song of Nerds & Queers Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:58:37 This week Bex interviews his friend and roommate, sex educator and queer pirate Jo Goforth, about finding identity through fandom, positive representations of masculinity, and their new sex ed comic, among other things. This week Bex interviews his friend and roommate, sex educator and queer pirate Jo Goforth, about finding identity through fandom, positive representations of masculinity, and their new sex ed comic, among other things. trans, gender, queer, fandom true full 153 4f9901a5-eee9-44d8-86a2-8701e2be36a0 Dating is Grating We’re back to smash more romantic myths this week! Hear our takes on unconditional love, jealousy, internet relationships, and more.

Femme Multitasking | Someone For Everyone | Commitment | Love Conquers All | Unconditional Love | Who’s the Man? | Center of Your Universe | Obsessed | Online Relationships | Jealousy | Political Views | Cheaters | Bodily Functions | Sharing a Bed | Dressing Up | Leagues

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]]> Tue, 27 Aug 2019 17:52:34 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/dating-is-grating-A1FCkb6S We’re back to smash more romantic myths this week! Hear our takes on unconditional love, jealousy, internet relationships, and more.

Femme Multitasking | Someone For Everyone | Commitment | Love Conquers All | Unconditional Love | Who’s the Man? | Center of Your Universe | Obsessed | Online Relationships | Jealousy | Political Views | Cheaters | Bodily Functions | Sharing a Bed | Dressing Up | Leagues

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]]> Dating is Grating Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:56 We’re back to smash more romantic myths this week! Hear our takes on unconditional love, jealousy, internet relationships, and more. We’re back to smash more romantic myths this week! Hear our takes on unconditional love, jealousy, internet relationships, and more. marriage, dating, relationships true full 152 9906c2b0-281f-4f16-a94c-5c7562f899f1 Happily Ever Laughter There’s so much bullshit discourse about dating and relationships out there, so this week we’re busting romantic myths! Hear us debate first-date protocols, compatibility adages, gender stereotypes, and more.

I Love You | 3rd Date | 3 Days | Hard to Get | Preserving the Mystery | Attachment Style | The First Move | Who Pays? | Mentioning Exes | Opposites Attract | Conflict | Love at First Sight | First Date | Self-Love | Happy Wife | Going to Bed Angry | Persistence | Bad Relationship Material | Virgins

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]]> Tue, 20 Aug 2019 19:47:13 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/happily-ever-laughter-7V8B2u4q There’s so much bullshit discourse about dating and relationships out there, so this week we’re busting romantic myths! Hear us debate first-date protocols, compatibility adages, gender stereotypes, and more.

I Love You | 3rd Date | 3 Days | Hard to Get | Preserving the Mystery | Attachment Style | The First Move | Who Pays? | Mentioning Exes | Opposites Attract | Conflict | Love at First Sight | First Date | Self-Love | Happy Wife | Going to Bed Angry | Persistence | Bad Relationship Material | Virgins

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]]> Happily Ever Laughter Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:02:24 There’s so much bullshit discourse about dating and relationships out there, so this week we’re busting romantic myths! Hear us debate first-date protocols, compatibility adages, gender stereotypes, and more. There’s so much bullshit discourse about dating and relationships out there, so this week we’re busting romantic myths! Hear us debate first-date protocols, compatibility adages, gender stereotypes, and more. gender, romance, dating, love, relationships true full 151 b221e152-9fa4-48bf-8998-c06916136d25 Protracted Attraction Kate recently came out as demisexual, so this week we’re discussing that identity: what does it mean, how does it manifest, and how does it relate to other concepts like sluttiness, responsive desire, and demiromanticism?

Definitions | Romantic vs. Sexual | Identities | Oppression & Invisibility | Sex Industry | Attraction or Lack Thereof | Demiromantic | External Factors | A New Development | Dating Apps | Mid-Day Dates | Casual Sex | Anticipation | Romantic Topping | Responsive Desire | Sluttiness | Sex Dreams | Submission | Asexual Outreach

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]]> Tue, 13 Aug 2019 20:38:15 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/protracted-attraction-R3d71Y6p Kate recently came out as demisexual, so this week we’re discussing that identity: what does it mean, how does it manifest, and how does it relate to other concepts like sluttiness, responsive desire, and demiromanticism?

Definitions | Romantic vs. Sexual | Identities | Oppression & Invisibility | Sex Industry | Attraction or Lack Thereof | Demiromantic | External Factors | A New Development | Dating Apps | Mid-Day Dates | Casual Sex | Anticipation | Romantic Topping | Responsive Desire | Sluttiness | Sex Dreams | Submission | Asexual Outreach

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]]> Protracted Attraction Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:53:18 Kate recently came out as demisexual, so this week we’re discussing that identity: what does it mean, how does it manifest, and how does it relate to other concepts like sluttiness, responsive desire, and demiromanticism? Kate recently came out as demisexual, so this week we’re discussing that identity: what does it mean, how does it manifest, and how does it relate to other concepts like sluttiness, responsive desire, and demiromanticism? asexuality, demisexuality, lgbtq true full 150 6eb0090e-dd58-408b-8c06-b31fded40262 Safety First Safer sex protocols don’t have to be boring or a mood-killer! Today we’re diving into our thoughts and feelings on condoms, dental dams, STI testing, and more.

TARDIS | STI Panels | Compromise | Gloves | Elevator Speech | Pushback | Contraception | Cum | Myths | Condom Skepticism | Internal Condoms | Condom Tricks | UTIs | Gloves | Fertility Tracking | Vasectomy | IUDs | Dental Dams | Fucking Trans Women | Safer Sex For Trans Bodies | Kissing

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]]> Tue, 6 Aug 2019 18:33:09 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/safety-first-_MGNY1sP Safer sex protocols don’t have to be boring or a mood-killer! Today we’re diving into our thoughts and feelings on condoms, dental dams, STI testing, and more.

TARDIS | STI Panels | Compromise | Gloves | Elevator Speech | Pushback | Contraception | Cum | Myths | Condom Skepticism | Internal Condoms | Condom Tricks | UTIs | Gloves | Fertility Tracking | Vasectomy | IUDs | Dental Dams | Fucking Trans Women | Safer Sex For Trans Bodies | Kissing

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]]> Safety First Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:56:20 Safer sex protocols don’t have to be boring or a mood-killer! Today we’re diving into our thoughts and feelings on condoms, dental dams, STI testing, and more. Safer sex protocols don’t have to be boring or a mood-killer! Today we’re diving into our thoughts and feelings on condoms, dental dams, STI testing, and more. sexual health, condoms, safer sex, communication true full 149 32fec3e5-9d22-4a59-8f7a-d1c490a08d66 The Nineteen-Filthies Step back in time with us and let’s discuss 1950s household dynamics! Hear us weigh in on why this style of D/s is hot, complicated, and even potentially empowering.

Paradigms of Power | Definition | Reclamation | Feminism & Choice | Modesty | Satisfaction | Mastery | Closeted Kinksters | House-Husband | Drag & Glamour | 24/7? | When You Don’t Live Together | M/s Language | Polyamory | Media Influences | Baby Steps | Clothes & Makeup Recs | Cultural Skills | Cocktails

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]]> Tue, 30 Jul 2019 18:15:54 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/the-nineteen-filthies-TtnrPyIN Step back in time with us and let’s discuss 1950s household dynamics! Hear us weigh in on why this style of D/s is hot, complicated, and even potentially empowering.

Paradigms of Power | Definition | Reclamation | Feminism & Choice | Modesty | Satisfaction | Mastery | Closeted Kinksters | House-Husband | Drag & Glamour | 24/7? | When You Don’t Live Together | M/s Language | Polyamory | Media Influences | Baby Steps | Clothes & Makeup Recs | Cultural Skills | Cocktails

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]]> The Nineteen-Filthies Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:55:19 Step back in time with us and let’s discuss 1950s household dynamics! Hear us weigh in on why this style of D/s is hot, complicated, and even potentially empowering. Step back in time with us and let’s discuss 1950s household dynamics! Hear us weigh in on why this style of D/s is hot, complicated, and even potentially empowering. dominance, submission, bdsm, 1950s, kink true full 148 78ee9838-e400-4255-98b7-432d658560c6 Interior Dickorator Home is where the heart is, and also (often) where the sex is! This week we’re discussing the ways home decor can interplay with your sex and dating life, from beds to lighting to lube dispensers.

Suction Cup Dildo | Easy Access | Lube | Condoms | Beds | Smart Home | Hospitality | Art | Air Conditioning | Partner Pics | Between Partners | Amenities We Like | Celebrity Pillows | Lube Dispenser | Nursery Dungeon | Rope Storage | Bex’s Fundraiser | For Hire: Audition | Question Box

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]]> Tue, 23 Jul 2019 18:05:35 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/interior-dickorator-I7qh9Ew3 Home is where the heart is, and also (often) where the sex is! This week we’re discussing the ways home decor can interplay with your sex and dating life, from beds to lighting to lube dispensers.

Suction Cup Dildo | Easy Access | Lube | Condoms | Beds | Smart Home | Hospitality | Art | Air Conditioning | Partner Pics | Between Partners | Amenities We Like | Celebrity Pillows | Lube Dispenser | Nursery Dungeon | Rope Storage | Bex’s Fundraiser | For Hire: Audition | Question Box

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]]> Interior Dickorator Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 00:59:23 Home is where the heart is, and also (often) where the sex is! This week we’re discussing the ways home decor can interplay with your sex and dating life, from beds to lighting to lube dispensers. Home is where the heart is, and also (often) where the sex is! This week we’re discussing the ways home decor can interplay with your sex and dating life, from beds to lighting to lube dispensers. decor, dating, home, sex true full 147 b099e555-085b-45a6-9b27-84dbeb48e719 Bawdy Language Ever noticed how sometimes you can say a lot without saying anything at all? This week we're discussing the delicate art of non-verbal communication – in flirting, sex, kink, and more!

Blushing | Skill Level | Reading Into It | Body Language | Proximity | Queer Intimacy | Cheating | Non-Verbal Consent | Pleasure | Overanalyzing | Cultural Influences | Saying No | Dysphoria | Screw Consent | False Negatives | Signs of Readiness | Kinky Invitations | Bex’s Fundraiser | Touchy-Feely? | What They Do | Crushy Voice | Subspace | Safewords | Practicing Expressiveness

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]]> Tue, 16 Jul 2019 19:25:03 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/bawdy-language-ImiQsn4M Ever noticed how sometimes you can say a lot without saying anything at all? This week we're discussing the delicate art of non-verbal communication – in flirting, sex, kink, and more!

Blushing | Skill Level | Reading Into It | Body Language | Proximity | Queer Intimacy | Cheating | Non-Verbal Consent | Pleasure | Overanalyzing | Cultural Influences | Saying No | Dysphoria | Screw Consent | False Negatives | Signs of Readiness | Kinky Invitations | Bex’s Fundraiser | Touchy-Feely? | What They Do | Crushy Voice | Subspace | Safewords | Practicing Expressiveness

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]]> Bawdy Language Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:09:13 Ever noticed how sometimes you can say a lot without saying anything at all? This week we're discussing the delicate art of non-verbal communication – in flirting, sex, kink, and more! Ever noticed how sometimes you can say a lot without saying anything at all? This week we're discussing the delicate art of non-verbal communication – in flirting, sex, kink, and more! body language, consent, flirting, sex, communication true full 146 ce523363-bb43-476c-bad0-172c3c97d26f TES Friends Forever Bex just got back from TES Fest, a thought-provoking kink conference in New Jersey. This week, he recaps what he learned there, and we discuss some kinky fantasies that the workshops brought up.

Hotel Privacy | DM Training | Blood Play | Raven Kaldera | Risk Assessment For Masters | Real Service | Head Pats | Knives & Scarification | Sadism | Interrogation | Facial Torture | Mind Games | Drug Play

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]]> Tue, 9 Jul 2019 19:33:03 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Billy Lore & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/tes-friends-forever-08F6ZN5A Bex just got back from TES Fest, a thought-provoking kink conference in New Jersey. This week, he recaps what he learned there, and we discuss some kinky fantasies that the workshops brought up.

Hotel Privacy | DM Training | Blood Play | Raven Kaldera | Risk Assessment For Masters | Real Service | Head Pats | Knives & Scarification | Sadism | Interrogation | Facial Torture | Mind Games | Drug Play

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]]> TES Friends Forever Billy Lore & Kate Sloan 01:00:06 Bex just got back from TES Fest, a thought-provoking kink conference in New Jersey. This week, he recaps what he learned there, and we discuss some kinky fantasies that the workshops brought up. Bex just got back from TES Fest, a thought-provoking kink conference in New Jersey. This week, he recaps what he learned there, and we discuss some kinky fantasies that the workshops brought up. bdsm, tes fest, kink true full 145 e256733f-4436-4dba-b43d-3be56ff24041 Get This Party Started Getting the ball rolling is hard sometimes, so this week we’re discussing the intricacies of initiating sex. What are the best and worst ways to do it – and what should you do if there’s an initiation imbalance in your relationship?

Do We Initiate? | Direct vs. Indirect | When Does Sex Start? | Pre-Initiation | “Hey, We Should Talk” | Butt-Rubbing | Personal Space | Allusions | Responsive Desire | Escalating Touch | Other Senses | Massage | Rushing | Foreplay vs. None | Arousal vs. Consent | Imbalance | Power | Rejection | Saying No | Gender Socialization | Submissives | Circumcision Status

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]]> Tue, 2 Jul 2019 17:43:57 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/get-this-party-started-ahz1gOkK Getting the ball rolling is hard sometimes, so this week we’re discussing the intricacies of initiating sex. What are the best and worst ways to do it – and what should you do if there’s an initiation imbalance in your relationship?

Do We Initiate? | Direct vs. Indirect | When Does Sex Start? | Pre-Initiation | “Hey, We Should Talk” | Butt-Rubbing | Personal Space | Allusions | Responsive Desire | Escalating Touch | Other Senses | Massage | Rushing | Foreplay vs. None | Arousal vs. Consent | Imbalance | Power | Rejection | Saying No | Gender Socialization | Submissives | Circumcision Status

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]]> Get This Party Started Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:53:24 Getting the ball rolling is hard sometimes, so this week we’re discussing the intricacies of initiating sex. What are the best and worst ways to do it – and what should you do if there’s an initiation imbalance in your relationship? Getting the ball rolling is hard sometimes, so this week we’re discussing the intricacies of initiating sex. What are the best and worst ways to do it – and what should you do if there’s an initiation imbalance in your relationship? rejection, sex, communication, relationships true full 144 9b15a966-c5bd-40c9-8114-f0a6bead8d18 Kinksters 4 Inksters We’re talking about body mods this week: tattoos, piercings, and how they interplay with our sex and dating lives. Tune in for tattoo advice, kinky feelings, and tales of piercings gone awry.

One vs. Multiple | Lay of the Land | Sexy Feelings | Nipple Piercings | Cravings | Ownership | Kink | Roleplay | Partner-Specific Mods | Meaning | Regrets | Deciding | Designs | Finding an Artist | Visibility | Tatcalling | Needle Play | Branding | Disclosure | Impact | Asking Permission | Kinky Meanings

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]]> Tue, 18 Jun 2019 13:52:33 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/kinksters-4-inksters-Ylc84kAa We’re talking about body mods this week: tattoos, piercings, and how they interplay with our sex and dating lives. Tune in for tattoo advice, kinky feelings, and tales of piercings gone awry.

One vs. Multiple | Lay of the Land | Sexy Feelings | Nipple Piercings | Cravings | Ownership | Kink | Roleplay | Partner-Specific Mods | Meaning | Regrets | Deciding | Designs | Finding an Artist | Visibility | Tatcalling | Needle Play | Branding | Disclosure | Impact | Asking Permission | Kinky Meanings

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]]> Kinksters 4 Inksters Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:57:07 We’re talking about body mods this week: tattoos, piercings, and how they interplay with our sex and dating lives. Tune in for tattoo advice, kinky feelings, and tales of piercings gone awry. We’re talking about body mods this week: tattoos, piercings, and how they interplay with our sex and dating lives. Tune in for tattoo advice, kinky feelings, and tales of piercings gone awry. body mods, piercings, tattoos true full 143 77859b24-8198-4457-a46a-e4163bac6722 Stride of Pride Happy Pride month! This week we’re discussing our favorite and least favorite things about Pride, from tutus and play parties to biphobia and cops.

NYPD | First Events | Outfits | Play Party | Gatekeeping | Cops | Grassroots vs. Corporations | Professionally Queer | Pride Sex | Creeps | Consent | Kink | Your First Pride | Bringing People | Naked Boys Reading | Queer Liberation March | Fake Male Assistant

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]]> Tue, 11 Jun 2019 16:01:32 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/stride-of-pride-YsMw4OIX Happy Pride month! This week we’re discussing our favorite and least favorite things about Pride, from tutus and play parties to biphobia and cops.

NYPD | First Events | Outfits | Play Party | Gatekeeping | Cops | Grassroots vs. Corporations | Professionally Queer | Pride Sex | Creeps | Consent | Kink | Your First Pride | Bringing People | Naked Boys Reading | Queer Liberation March | Fake Male Assistant

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]]> Stride of Pride Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:38 Happy Pride month! This week we’re discussing our favorite and least favorite things about Pride, from tutus and play parties to biphobia and cops. Happy Pride month! This week we’re discussing our favorite and least favorite things about Pride, from tutus and play parties to biphobia and cops. true full 142 673de7f2-a6bf-4073-9f93-5afc4c58c48c The Drive That Thrives Up, up, and away: this week we’re discussing our sex drives! What is the libido, what stokes it, what tempers it, and what can you do when yours doesn’t match your partner’s?

Where’d It Go? | What Is It? | Responsive Desire | NRE | High/Medium/Low | Never Enough | Sex Begets Sex | Sex Industry | Boosting Desire | “Just Do It” | Testosterone | Toning It Down | Mismatches | Environment | Antidepressants | Asexuals | Polyamory | Talking to Doctors | Kink Drive | Punch in the Gut

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]]> Tue, 4 Jun 2019 17:39:37 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/the-drive-that-thrives-bZ_X8C8K Up, up, and away: this week we’re discussing our sex drives! What is the libido, what stokes it, what tempers it, and what can you do when yours doesn’t match your partner’s?

Where’d It Go? | What Is It? | Responsive Desire | NRE | High/Medium/Low | Never Enough | Sex Begets Sex | Sex Industry | Boosting Desire | “Just Do It” | Testosterone | Toning It Down | Mismatches | Environment | Antidepressants | Asexuals | Polyamory | Talking to Doctors | Kink Drive | Punch in the Gut

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]]> The Drive That Thrives Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:50:43 Up, up, and away: this week we’re discussing our sex drives! What is the libido, what stokes it, what tempers it, and what can you do when yours doesn’t match your partner’s? Up, up, and away: this week we’re discussing our sex drives! What is the libido, what stokes it, what tempers it, and what can you do when yours doesn’t match your partner’s? libido, antidepressants, sex drive true full 141 a091c082-bd7a-445c-9f77-c98ea972622a I Only Have Eyes For You Do you see what I see? This week, we’re discussing the visual aspects of sex, and how the acts of looking and seeing (or not) play into our sexuality.

MakeLoveNotPorn | Attraction | Arousal | Nudes | FaceTime and Skype | Eyes Closed | Anxiety | Enthusiasm | Watching | Romantic Sex | “Look At Me” | Fear Play | Helen’s Toybox | Blindfolds | Onoir | Glasses | Men vs. Women | Cultural Bias | Lighting | Phone Sex | Sex Spreadsheet

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]]> Wed, 29 May 2019 16:32:29 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/i-only-have-eyes-for-you-j9OzFXNK Do you see what I see? This week, we’re discussing the visual aspects of sex, and how the acts of looking and seeing (or not) play into our sexuality.

MakeLoveNotPorn | Attraction | Arousal | Nudes | FaceTime and Skype | Eyes Closed | Anxiety | Enthusiasm | Watching | Romantic Sex | “Look At Me” | Fear Play | Helen’s Toybox | Blindfolds | Onoir | Glasses | Men vs. Women | Cultural Bias | Lighting | Phone Sex | Sex Spreadsheet

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]]> I Only Have Eyes For You Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:44:34 Do you see what I see? This week, we’re discussing the visual aspects of sex, and how the acts of looking and seeing (or not) play into our sexuality. Do you see what I see? This week, we’re discussing the visual aspects of sex, and how the acts of looking and seeing (or not) play into our sexuality. sexual fantasy, kink, sex, communication true full 140 548f4313-9582-4a38-b27c-34aa63f87030 Pheromoans Take a deep breath now: it’s time to discuss sex smells (and tastes)! We divulge our fave and least fave olfactory experiences during sex, our thoughts on our own smells and tastes, and more.
How Important? | Mismatches | Artificial vs. Natural | Hormones | Preparation | Tasting Yourself | No Deodorant | Favorite Spots | Perfume: The Story of a Murderer | Bad Smells | Fantastical Fetishes | Dry Mouth | New Merch

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]]> Tue, 21 May 2019 15:00:29 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/pheromoans-IYOkUDz8 Take a deep breath now: it’s time to discuss sex smells (and tastes)! We divulge our fave and least fave olfactory experiences during sex, our thoughts on our own smells and tastes, and more.
How Important? | Mismatches | Artificial vs. Natural | Hormones | Preparation | Tasting Yourself | No Deodorant | Favorite Spots | Perfume: The Story of a Murderer | Bad Smells | Fantastical Fetishes | Dry Mouth | New Merch

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]]> Pheromoans Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:37:01 Take a deep breath now: it’s time to discuss sex smells (and tastes)! We divulge our fave and least fave olfactory experiences during sex, our thoughts on our own smells and tastes, and more. Take a deep breath now: it’s time to discuss sex smells (and tastes)! We divulge our fave and least fave olfactory experiences during sex, our thoughts on our own smells and tastes, and more. scent, attraction true full 139 d66ea7b2-ea31-4367-bb91-87eb9538e00d Cumpetence This week we’re discussing what it means to be “good at sex” – physically, mentally, and otherwise.

Blowjob Skills | Good At Sex? | Bad Chemistry | Communication | Knowing What You Want | Rhythm | Uncool | Comfort | Enthusiasm | Bad At Sex? | “Did You Come?” | Too Much Pressure | How to Improve | Porn & Cosmo | Are We Good? | Generosity | Room For Improvement | Notifications | Endurance | Impostor Syndrome | Ableism | Sex Hacks | Not Vocal | Signals | Bottomy Subs

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]]> Tue, 14 May 2019 16:08:57 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/cumpetence-v3VQDiV5 This week we’re discussing what it means to be “good at sex” – physically, mentally, and otherwise.

Blowjob Skills | Good At Sex? | Bad Chemistry | Communication | Knowing What You Want | Rhythm | Uncool | Comfort | Enthusiasm | Bad At Sex? | “Did You Come?” | Too Much Pressure | How to Improve | Porn & Cosmo | Are We Good? | Generosity | Room For Improvement | Notifications | Endurance | Impostor Syndrome | Ableism | Sex Hacks | Not Vocal | Signals | Bottomy Subs

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]]> Cumpetence Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:54:24 This week we’re discussing what it means to be “good at sex” – physically, mentally, and otherwise. This week we’re discussing what it means to be “good at sex” – physically, mentally, and otherwise. sex, communication true full 138 40e90bb6-40a5-4c24-8296-74be589f7c32 Etiqueer You asked, we answered: in this episode, we discuss queer etiquette quandaries, from pronouns to flagging to threesomes.

Femme Flirting | Pronouns | Misgendering | Pre-Transition Photos | A Date? | Coming Out As Kinky | FWB Feelz | Workplace Flagging | Friend’s Ex | Fetishwear | Sex Party | Threesome

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]]> Tue, 7 May 2019 20:45:30 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/etiqueer-mqp6xPAf You asked, we answered: in this episode, we discuss queer etiquette quandaries, from pronouns to flagging to threesomes.

Femme Flirting | Pronouns | Misgendering | Pre-Transition Photos | A Date? | Coming Out As Kinky | FWB Feelz | Workplace Flagging | Friend’s Ex | Fetishwear | Sex Party | Threesome

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]]> Etiqueer Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:50:31 You asked, we answered: in this episode, we discuss queer etiquette quandaries, from pronouns to flagging to threesomes. You asked, we answered: in this episode, we discuss queer etiquette quandaries, from pronouns to flagging to threesomes. lgbt, trans, gender, queer, lgbtq true full 137 789cd397-6457-4f87-86af-d7176d8f4808 Sir-ious Business This week Kate invited her partner Matt onto the show for an interview about sadism, hypnokink, productivity domming, and other aspects of their relationship!

Dating a Podcaster | Topping For Catharsis | Sadism | Reassurance | Programmer Brain | Taking Notes | Sex Spreadsheet | Phone Sex | Hypnokink | Protocol | Productivity Domming | Sex Toys | Travel Sex | Sex Apps

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]]> Tue, 30 Apr 2019 22:09:37 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sir-ious-business-6c29SjWm This week Kate invited her partner Matt onto the show for an interview about sadism, hypnokink, productivity domming, and other aspects of their relationship!

Dating a Podcaster | Topping For Catharsis | Sadism | Reassurance | Programmer Brain | Taking Notes | Sex Spreadsheet | Phone Sex | Hypnokink | Protocol | Productivity Domming | Sex Toys | Travel Sex | Sex Apps

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]]> Sir-ious Business Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:58:15 This week Kate invited her partner Matt onto the show for an interview about sadism, hypnokink, productivity domming, and other aspects of their relationship! This week Kate invited her partner Matt onto the show for an interview about sadism, hypnokink, productivity domming, and other aspects of their relationship! long-distance relationships, dominance, phone sex, sadism true full 136 3c1b8c4a-2f5c-4810-b0ae-bd96406e4ce6 Sounding (No, Not That Kind) Warm up those vocal cords – this week we’re discussing sex noises! Hear us pontificate on our favorite and least favorite sounds, the best erotic audio mediums, and how we learned to let loose.

Dudes | Feedback | Porn Audio | Solo Sounds | Active Listening | Learning | Gender | Performativity | Guidance | Factors | New Noises | Voyeurism & Exhibitionism | Favorite Sounds | Body Noises | Distractions | Memories | Bad Sounds | How to Start | Erotic Audio | Phone Sex | I’m Deep Throat Podcast | Forced Silence | Sub Missives

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]]> Tue, 23 Apr 2019 16:47:01 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/sounding-no-not-that-kind-h1gH1K7H Warm up those vocal cords – this week we’re discussing sex noises! Hear us pontificate on our favorite and least favorite sounds, the best erotic audio mediums, and how we learned to let loose.

Dudes | Feedback | Porn Audio | Solo Sounds | Active Listening | Learning | Gender | Performativity | Guidance | Factors | New Noises | Voyeurism & Exhibitionism | Favorite Sounds | Body Noises | Distractions | Memories | Bad Sounds | How to Start | Erotic Audio | Phone Sex | I’m Deep Throat Podcast | Forced Silence | Sub Missives

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]]> Sounding (No, Not That Kind) Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:50:49 Warm up those vocal cords – this week we’re discussing sex noises! Hear us pontificate on our favorite and least favorite sounds, the best erotic audio mediums, and how we learned to let loose. Warm up those vocal cords – this week we’re discussing sex noises! Hear us pontificate on our favorite and least favorite sounds, the best erotic audio mediums, and how we learned to let loose. masturbation, sex true full 135 beba51eb-bc40-44ed-8c55-5401831a8bb7 Highpotheticals: The Redux Happy (early) 4/20, stoners! This week is our annual Highpotheticals episode: we’re gettin’ blazed and asking each other weird questions about sex, dating, and masturbating. Enjoy!

Smoking Fetish | 3 Questions | Sex Toy Brands | TV’s On | Toys Personified | Cartoon Orgy | Famous Band | No Vibrators | Fictional Universe | Time Machine | Face Mask | Dong/Schlong/Wang | Shower vs. Floor | Sploshing | Silence | Pokémon | Sex Robot

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]]> Wed, 17 Apr 2019 16:56:50 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/highpotheticals-the-redux-ViVc0zAA Happy (early) 4/20, stoners! This week is our annual Highpotheticals episode: we’re gettin’ blazed and asking each other weird questions about sex, dating, and masturbating. Enjoy!

Smoking Fetish | 3 Questions | Sex Toy Brands | TV’s On | Toys Personified | Cartoon Orgy | Famous Band | No Vibrators | Fictional Universe | Time Machine | Face Mask | Dong/Schlong/Wang | Shower vs. Floor | Sploshing | Silence | Pokémon | Sex Robot

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]]> Highpotheticals: The Redux Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:50:31 Happy (early) 4/20, stoners! This week is our annual Highpotheticals episode: we’re gettin’ blazed and asking each other weird questions about sex, dating, and masturbating. Enjoy! Happy (early) 4/20, stoners! This week is our annual Highpotheticals episode: we’re gettin’ blazed and asking each other weird questions about sex, dating, and masturbating. Enjoy! sex toys, 420, dating, sex true full 134 f80d44c7-7776-4812-89c0-f96d87ebbf0a Habitual Ritual This week we’re digging into the comfort and excitement we glean from rituals and protocols! Hear us explain why we love these kinky traditions.

Creatures of Habit | Listener Email | Protocol vs. Ritual | Pre-Date Rituals | Deciding Together | Too Many | Conference Protocol | To-Do List | Long-Distance | Airport | Day-to-Day | Service | Food | ‘50s Housewife | Daily Blowjob | Cleaning | Headspace Transition | Topping | Collars | Punishment | Public Play | Conflict | Check-Ins | Switches | Names | Personal Development

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]]> Tue, 9 Apr 2019 15:36:45 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/habitual-ritual-7HfDPd0Y This week we’re digging into the comfort and excitement we glean from rituals and protocols! Hear us explain why we love these kinky traditions.

Creatures of Habit | Listener Email | Protocol vs. Ritual | Pre-Date Rituals | Deciding Together | Too Many | Conference Protocol | To-Do List | Long-Distance | Airport | Day-to-Day | Service | Food | ‘50s Housewife | Daily Blowjob | Cleaning | Headspace Transition | Topping | Collars | Punishment | Public Play | Conflict | Check-Ins | Switches | Names | Personal Development

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]]> Habitual Ritual Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:52:39 This week we’re digging into the comfort and excitement we glean from rituals and protocols! Hear us explain why we love these kinky traditions. This week we’re digging into the comfort and excitement we glean from rituals and protocols! Hear us explain why we love these kinky traditions. ritual, protocol, tradition true full 133 7fb39fe5-e604-4807-a586-6eccf63fd38e Touch Much? We talk so much about sex that sometimes we forget to discuss non-sexual touch! In this episode, we’re getting into the fine points of cuddling, hugging, wrestling, foot rubs, and other types of not-explicitly-sexy touch.

Hug Rejection | Wrestling | Dates | Touch Starvation | Gender Dynamics | Touch Barrier | Aftercare | Cuddle Parties | Goal-Oriented | Foot Worship | Feet & Gender | Family | Professional Cuddling | Nuzzling | Massage

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]]> Tue, 2 Apr 2019 19:13:13 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/touch-much-QKGV3lCi We talk so much about sex that sometimes we forget to discuss non-sexual touch! In this episode, we’re getting into the fine points of cuddling, hugging, wrestling, foot rubs, and other types of not-explicitly-sexy touch.

Hug Rejection | Wrestling | Dates | Touch Starvation | Gender Dynamics | Touch Barrier | Aftercare | Cuddle Parties | Goal-Oriented | Foot Worship | Feet & Gender | Family | Professional Cuddling | Nuzzling | Massage

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]]> Touch Much? Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:45:19 We talk so much about sex that sometimes we forget to discuss non-sexual touch! In this episode, we’re getting into the fine points of cuddling, hugging, wrestling, foot rubs, and other types of not-explicitly-sexy touch. We talk so much about sex that sometimes we forget to discuss non-sexual touch! In this episode, we’re getting into the fine points of cuddling, hugging, wrestling, foot rubs, and other types of not-explicitly-sexy touch. cuddling, foot fetish, intimacy, touch true full 132 45f4809c-6917-4d1f-9569-2eea3c43f794 Nutbusters, Part 2 This week we’re busting more shitty sex-negative myths! Hear our hot takes on libido imbalances, biphobia, STI stigma, and more…

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]]> Wed, 27 Mar 2019 16:30:41 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/nutbusters-part-2-w6XkkGLO This week we’re busting more shitty sex-negative myths! Hear our hot takes on libido imbalances, biphobia, STI stigma, and more…

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]]> Nutbusters, Part 2 Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:51:03 This week we’re busting more shitty sex-negative myths! Hear our hot takes on libido imbalances, biphobia, STI stigma, and more… This week we’re busting more shitty sex-negative myths! Hear our hot takes on libido imbalances, biphobia, STI stigma, and more… queer, biphobia, bisexuality, sexually transmitted infections true full 131 27da8364-6665-4074-b04d-5cad4178751f Nutbusters, Part 1 It’s time for us to bust some sex-negative myths! Hear us take down the concepts of virginity, slutty loose vaginas, and immoral masturbation, among others.
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]]> Wed, 20 Mar 2019 16:27:56 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/nutbusters-part-1-Ly_BZ0h4 It’s time for us to bust some sex-negative myths! Hear us take down the concepts of virginity, slutty loose vaginas, and immoral masturbation, among others.
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]]> Nutbusters, Part 1 Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:39 It’s time for us to bust some sex-negative myths! Hear us take down the concepts of virginity, slutty loose vaginas, and immoral masturbation, among others. It’s time for us to bust some sex-negative myths! Hear us take down the concepts of virginity, slutty loose vaginas, and immoral masturbation, among others. marriage, sex-positive, virginity true full 130 132df145-ff2b-4ced-a8c1-8fe7136abefb BFFs in Love We’re already basically in love, but this week we decided to ask each other the 36 questions recommended by psychologist Arthur Aron for falling in love with a stranger. Romantic friendships for the win!

Dinner Date | Fame | Phone Anxiety | Perfect Day | Singing | Mind or Body | Secret Hunch | Commonalities | Gratitude | Childhood | Life Story | Quality or Ability | Crystal Ball | Ambitions | Accomplishments | Friendship | Memories | One Year | Love & Affection | Positive Characteristics | Family | Sharing | Must-Knows | Admiration | Embarrassing Moments | Crying | Jokes | Regrets | Fire | Death | Advice

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]]> Wed, 13 Mar 2019 19:04:59 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/bffs-in-love-DVspaTQA We’re already basically in love, but this week we decided to ask each other the 36 questions recommended by psychologist Arthur Aron for falling in love with a stranger. Romantic friendships for the win!

Dinner Date | Fame | Phone Anxiety | Perfect Day | Singing | Mind or Body | Secret Hunch | Commonalities | Gratitude | Childhood | Life Story | Quality or Ability | Crystal Ball | Ambitions | Accomplishments | Friendship | Memories | One Year | Love & Affection | Positive Characteristics | Family | Sharing | Must-Knows | Admiration | Embarrassing Moments | Crying | Jokes | Regrets | Fire | Death | Advice

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]]> BFFs in Love Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:59:00 We’re already basically in love, but this week we decided to ask each other the 36 questions recommended by psychologist Arthur Aron for falling in love with a stranger. Romantic friendships for the win! We’re already basically in love, but this week we decided to ask each other the 36 questions recommended by psychologist Arthur Aron for falling in love with a stranger. Romantic friendships for the win! romance, dating, friendship, psychology, love true full 129 ac53542a-4f44-4e42-af5a-355d0df3a6b8 Penetration and Beyond There's penetration, and then there's PENETRATION. This week we're discussing some of the more advanced ways you can stick stuff in your holes, like using huge toys or perhaps more than one!

Top of the Rock | Limits | Tipping Point | Double Trouble | Fisting Kink | Masochism | Fisting Workshop | Size Training | VixSkin Randy | “Progress” | Sliquid Silk | Sutil Rich | Tips & Tricks | Glass & Steel | Pain | Getting “Loose” | Dick Extenders | Size Queen | Communication | Double Penetration | Threesome Jokes | Dick Shape | How to DP | Fleshjack Dildos | Tantus Uncut | Two in One Hole | Muffing | Sounding

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]]> Tue, 5 Mar 2019 19:55:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/penetration-and-beyond-3db61af6 There's penetration, and then there's PENETRATION. This week we're discussing some of the more advanced ways you can stick stuff in your holes, like using huge toys or perhaps more than one!

Top of the Rock | Limits | Tipping Point | Double Trouble | Fisting Kink | Masochism | Fisting Workshop | Size Training | VixSkin Randy | “Progress” | Sliquid Silk | Sutil Rich | Tips & Tricks | Glass & Steel | Pain | Getting “Loose” | Dick Extenders | Size Queen | Communication | Double Penetration | Threesome Jokes | Dick Shape | How to DP | Fleshjack Dildos | Tantus Uncut | Two in One Hole | Muffing | Sounding

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]]> Penetration and Beyond Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:55:16 There's penetration, and then there's PENETRATION. This week we're discussing some of the more advanced ways you can stick stuff in your holes, like using huge toys or perhaps more than one! There's penetration, and then there's PENETRATION. This week we're discussing some of the more advanced ways you can stick stuff in your holes, like using huge toys or perhaps more than one! porn, dildos true full 128 3b3302d1-fb45-4c69-9535-ef45e9a342fe Episode 127: Full of Hot Air This week we’re discussing breath play, one of the most controversial categories of kink acts! Choking and smothering and facefucking, oh my…

Examples | Jay Wiseman’s Risk Assessment | RACK | Andre Shakti | Savage Love Column | Mouth-Covering | Solo Play | Boundary-Crossing | “Vanilla” Kink | Conditioning | Fear Play | Endurance | Intimacy | Facefucking | Alley | Topping | Sadistic Facesitting | Tickling | Laughter | Trampling | Orgasm | Smoking | Dominance | Water | Collar | Corset | Communication

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]]> Tue, 26 Feb 2019 18:21:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-127-full-of-hot-air-b56fd62b This week we’re discussing breath play, one of the most controversial categories of kink acts! Choking and smothering and facefucking, oh my…

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]]> Episode 127: Full of Hot Air Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:36:58 This week we’re discussing breath play, one of the most controversial categories of kink acts! Choking and smothering and facefucking, oh my… This week we’re discussing breath play, one of the most controversial categories of kink acts! Choking and smothering and facefucking, oh my… risk-aware consensual kink, breath play true full 127 bf839c90-f1d5-4ddc-be94-b1ba832ce0f0 Episode 126: Crush Rush Ah, crushes: bane of our existence, light of our lives. This week we're discussing how we handle crushes, both unrequited and perhaps-requited. And also Kate talks to herself for a few minutes in the middle because of a tech mishap.

Coworkers | First Crushes | Compatibility | Idealization | Fun | Unattainable | Traits | Unrequited | Motivation | Self-Improvement | Getting Over It | Dime | CBT | Compliments | B99 | Bipolar | Ruts | Leading Them On | Kink | LTRs | Mating in Captivity

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]]> Wed, 20 Feb 2019 18:13:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-126-crush-rush-235029bc Ah, crushes: bane of our existence, light of our lives. This week we're discussing how we handle crushes, both unrequited and perhaps-requited. And also Kate talks to herself for a few minutes in the middle because of a tech mishap.

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]]> Episode 126: Crush Rush Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:42:55 Ah, crushes: bane of our existence, light of our lives. This week we're discussing how we handle crushes, both unrequited and perhaps-requited. And also Kate talks to herself for a few minutes in the middle because of a tech mishap. Ah, crushes: bane of our existence, light of our lives. This week we're discussing how we handle crushes, both unrequited and perhaps-requited. And also Kate talks to herself for a few minutes in the middle because of a tech mishap. flirting, crush true full 126 2db0c4a0-d651-42fb-a536-6ebf2df16762 Episode 125: An Invaluable NREsource Feeling smitten and also kind of like your brain's gonna explode? Sounds like New Relationship Energy! This week, we're discussing the pleasures and perils of NRE.

Hypomania | Duration | Frequency | Obsessive Thoughts | Exhaustion | Annoying | Journaling | Listening | Non-Relationships | Altered State | Two At Once | Dopamine | Slow Start | Love | Casual Love | Jealousy | NRE-Killers | Dealbreakers | Demiromantic | Demisexual | Imbalance

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]]> Tue, 12 Feb 2019 19:02:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-125-an-invaluable-nresource-b4de0c61 Feeling smitten and also kind of like your brain's gonna explode? Sounds like New Relationship Energy! This week, we're discussing the pleasures and perils of NRE.

Hypomania | Duration | Frequency | Obsessive Thoughts | Exhaustion | Annoying | Journaling | Listening | Non-Relationships | Altered State | Two At Once | Dopamine | Slow Start | Love | Casual Love | Jealousy | NRE-Killers | Dealbreakers | Demiromantic | Demisexual | Imbalance

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]]> Episode 125: An Invaluable NREsource Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:48:23 Feeling smitten and also kind of like your brain's gonna explode? Sounds like New Relationship Energy! This week, we're discussing the pleasures and perils of NRE. Feeling smitten and also kind of like your brain's gonna explode? Sounds like New Relationship Energy! This week, we're discussing the pleasures and perils of NRE. dating, polyamory, relationships true full 125 4c9c7311-5622-4e2e-a36b-648b4d9b284c Episode 124: Bless This Depressed Mess Ready to get thoughtful and a bit heavy? This week we’re discussing our mental illnesses – depression, hypomania, anxiety, and more – and the ways they intersect with sex, kink, and dating.

Sex Drive | Bipolar Type 2 | Mania | Consent | Safe, Sane, & Consensual | Hypersexuality | Responsive Desire | Dysphoria | Thought Spirals | Performativity | Trust | Crying | Self-Harm | Hello Cruel World | Carly Boyce | Harm Reduction | Masturbation | Altered State | Check-Ins | Compatibility | Low-Pressure Intimacy | Depressed Doms | D/s

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]]> Wed, 6 Feb 2019 19:46:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-124-bless-this-depressed-mess-6203a109 Ready to get thoughtful and a bit heavy? This week we’re discussing our mental illnesses – depression, hypomania, anxiety, and more – and the ways they intersect with sex, kink, and dating.

Sex Drive | Bipolar Type 2 | Mania | Consent | Safe, Sane, & Consensual | Hypersexuality | Responsive Desire | Dysphoria | Thought Spirals | Performativity | Trust | Crying | Self-Harm | Hello Cruel World | Carly Boyce | Harm Reduction | Masturbation | Altered State | Check-Ins | Compatibility | Low-Pressure Intimacy | Depressed Doms | D/s

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]]> Episode 124: Bless This Depressed Mess Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:58 Ready to get thoughtful and a bit heavy? This week we’re discussing our mental illnesses – depression, hypomania, anxiety, and more – and the ways they intersect with sex, kink, and dating. Ready to get thoughtful and a bit heavy? This week we’re discussing our mental illnesses – depression, hypomania, anxiety, and more – and the ways they intersect with sex, kink, and dating. mental health, self-harm, depression true full 124 74D898B9-1760-4DEA-A840-8F7EDF6DF510 Episode 123: Cumpatibility What does it mean to be compatible with someone – for love, sex, friendship, or all of the above? This week we're discussing the concept of compatibility in all its many dimensions!

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]]> Wed, 30 Jan 2019 22:30:23 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-123-cumpatibility-60a38c82 What does it mean to be compatible with someone – for love, sex, friendship, or all of the above? This week we're discussing the concept of compatibility in all its many dimensions!

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]]> Episode 123: Cumpatibility Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:58:57 What does it mean to be compatible with someone – for love, sex, friendship, or all of the above? This week we're discussing the concept of compatibility in all its many dimensions! What does it mean to be compatible with someone – for love, sex, friendship, or all of the above? This week we're discussing the concept of compatibility in all its many dimensions! true full 123 B7304D26-0E41-4A13-98B3-85A290B5F224 Episode 122: Mind the Strap This week we're talkin' strap-on sex! Harnesses, dildos, technique, fantasies, pleasure, and more...

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]]> Wed, 23 Jan 2019 22:05:31 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-122-mind-the-strap-4af71835 This week we're talkin' strap-on sex! Harnesses, dildos, technique, fantasies, pleasure, and more...

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]]> Episode 122: Mind the Strap Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:43:20 This week we're talkin' strap-on sex! Harnesses, dildos, technique, fantasies, pleasure, and more... This week we're talkin' strap-on sex! Harnesses, dildos, technique, fantasies, pleasure, and more... true full 122 3EADD174-757C-45F8-93E7-08638DD8C493 Episode 121: Fantastical Your sexual fantasies are an incredibly intimate window into your soul, and that's the topic of this week's episode! Find out what we fantasize about, why, and how.

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]]> Wed, 16 Jan 2019 00:28:39 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-121-fantastical-ef837ce0 Your sexual fantasies are an incredibly intimate window into your soul, and that's the topic of this week's episode! Find out what we fantasize about, why, and how.

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]]> Episode 121: Fantastical Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:56:58 Your sexual fantasies are an incredibly intimate window into your soul, and that's the topic of this week's episode! Find out what we fantasize about, why, and how. Your sexual fantasies are an incredibly intimate window into your soul, and that's the topic of this week's episode! Find out what we fantasize about, why, and how. true full 121 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2019-01-08_dd120-2019.mp3 Episode 120: The Ill-dorks This episode is short and silly because we were both too sick to think! We discuss our best and worst sex of the past year, assess how we did on our 2018 sex goals, and set new ones for 2019.

Illdorks | Best Sex | Gender Euphoria | Sadists | Best Kink | Dry-Humping | Cocks | Just One More | Worst Sex | Challenging Assumptions | Sexual Identity | Pleasure | CBT | Relaxing Sex | Topping & Domming | Submission | Apologies | No Expectations | Hypno-Topping | Roleplay | Pickup Artists | Storytelling

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]]> Tue, 8 Jan 2019 22:35:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-120-the-ill-dorks-10ed1b08 This episode is short and silly because we were both too sick to think! We discuss our best and worst sex of the past year, assess how we did on our 2018 sex goals, and set new ones for 2019.

Illdorks | Best Sex | Gender Euphoria | Sadists | Best Kink | Dry-Humping | Cocks | Just One More | Worst Sex | Challenging Assumptions | Sexual Identity | Pleasure | CBT | Relaxing Sex | Topping & Domming | Submission | Apologies | No Expectations | Hypno-Topping | Roleplay | Pickup Artists | Storytelling

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]]> Episode 120: The Ill-dorks Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:40:32 This episode is short and silly because we were both too sick to think! We discuss our best and worst sex of the past year, assess how we did on our 2018 sex goals, and set new ones for 2019. Illdorks | Best Sex | Gender Euphoria | Sadists | Best Kink | Dry-Humping | Cocks | Just One More | Worst Sex | Challenging Assumptions | Sexual Identity | Pleasure | CBT | Relaxing Sex | Topping & Domming | Submission | Apologies | No Expectations | Hypno-Topping | Roleplay | Pickup Artists | Storytelling This episode is short and silly because we were both too sick to think! We discuss our best and worst sex of the past year, assess how we did on our 2018 sex goals, and set new ones for 2019. Illdorks | Best Sex | Gender Euphoria | Sadists | Best Kink | Dry-Humping | Cocks | Just One More | Worst Sex | Challenging Assumptions | Sexual Identity | Pleasure | CBT | Relaxing Sex | Topping & Domming | Submission | Apologies | No Expectations | Hypno-Topping | Roleplay | Pickup Artists | Storytelling pickup artists, new year, goals true full 120 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2019-01-02_dd119-yearinreview.mp3 Episode 119: Is That Piss or Champagne? What kind of year did you have, sex-wise? That’s the topic of this goofy, uncut (lolol) episode where we wrap up our 2018 and touch on what we’d like to try next.

No Second Takes | Gender | Phone Sex | Spreadsheet | Number of Partners | Dating??? | Locations | Hotel Sex | Rope Suspension | Sexperiments | Watersports | Kink Satisfaction | Bootblacking | Hypnosis | Kicking | Femdom | Being Stepped On | Wax Play | Tickling | E-Stim | Subspace | Roleplay | Flirting | Vixen Gambler | Uberrime Night King | Building Open Relationships | Love’s Not Color Blind | Mind Play | The Artist & the Pervert

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]]> Wed, 2 Jan 2019 22:44:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-119-is-that-piss-or-champagne-be7f10d1 What kind of year did you have, sex-wise? That’s the topic of this goofy, uncut (lolol) episode where we wrap up our 2018 and touch on what we’d like to try next.

No Second Takes | Gender | Phone Sex | Spreadsheet | Number of Partners | Dating??? | Locations | Hotel Sex | Rope Suspension | Sexperiments | Watersports | Kink Satisfaction | Bootblacking | Hypnosis | Kicking | Femdom | Being Stepped On | Wax Play | Tickling | E-Stim | Subspace | Roleplay | Flirting | Vixen Gambler | Uberrime Night King | Building Open Relationships | Love’s Not Color Blind | Mind Play | The Artist & the Pervert

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]]> Episode 119: Is That Piss or Champagne? Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:45:01 What kind of year did you have, sex-wise? That’s the topic of this goofy, uncut (lolol) episode where we wrap up our 2018 and touch on what we’d like to try next. No Second Takes | Gender | Phone Sex | Spreadsheet | Number of Partners | Dating??? | Locations | Hotel Sex | Rope Suspension | Sexperiments | Watersports | Kink Satisfaction | Bootblacking | Hypnosis | Kicking | Femdom | Being Stepped On | Wax Play | Tickling | E-Stim | Subspace | Roleplay | Flirting | Vixen Gambler | Uberrime Night King | Building Open Relationships | Love’s Not Color Blind | Mind Play | The Artist & the Pervert What kind of year did you have, sex-wise? That’s the topic of this goofy, uncut (lolol) episode where we wrap up our 2018 and touch on what we’d like to try next. No Second Takes | Gender | Phone Sex | Spreadsheet | Number of Partners | Dating??? | Locations | Hotel Sex | Rope Suspension | Sexperiments | Watersports | Kink Satisfaction | Bootblacking | Hypnosis | Kicking | Femdom | Being Stepped On | Wax Play | Tickling | E-Stim | Subspace | Roleplay | Flirting | Vixen Gambler | Uberrime Night King | Building Open Relationships | Love’s Not Color Blind | Mind Play | The Artist & the Pervert new year, relationships, subspace true full 119 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-12-19_dd118-kinks.mp3 Episode 118: Perv Emergence Once “Where do babies come from?” has been asked and answered, obviously the next question to tackle is: “Where do kinks come from?” This week, we’re theorizing on the origins of kinks!

Japanese Whiskey | Narnia | Kinks As Hobbies | Breaking Bones | Authority Figures | Trauma | Baking | Childhood | Samuel Hughes’ Kink Identity Development Theory | Perception vs. Identity | Born This Way? | Velvet | Winking | Conditioning | Cultivating Kinks | Getting Rid of Kinks | Giving Someone a Kink

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]]> Thu, 20 Dec 2018 01:37:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-118-perv-emergence-f9b226c2 Once “Where do babies come from?” has been asked and answered, obviously the next question to tackle is: “Where do kinks come from?” This week, we’re theorizing on the origins of kinks!

Japanese Whiskey | Narnia | Kinks As Hobbies | Breaking Bones | Authority Figures | Trauma | Baking | Childhood | Samuel Hughes’ Kink Identity Development Theory | Perception vs. Identity | Born This Way? | Velvet | Winking | Conditioning | Cultivating Kinks | Getting Rid of Kinks | Giving Someone a Kink

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]]> Episode 118: Perv Emergence Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:53 Once “Where do babies come from?” has been asked and answered, obviously the next question to tackle is: “Where do kinks come from?” This week, we’re theorizing on the origins of kinks! Japanese Whiskey | Narnia | Kinks As Hobbies | Breaking Bones | Authority Figures | Trauma | Baking | Childhood | [Samuel Hughes’ Kink Identity Development Theory](https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/standard-deviations/201805/growing-kinky-research-shows-how-kink-identity-is-formed) | Perception vs. Identity | Born This Way? | Velvet | Winking | Conditioning | Cultivating Kinks | Getting Rid of Kinks | Giving Someone a Kink Once “Where do babies come from?” has been asked and answered, obviously the next question to tackle is: “Where do kinks come from?” This week, we’re theorizing on the origins of kinks! Japanese Whiskey | Narnia | Kinks As Hobbies | Breaking Bones | Authority Figures | Trauma | Baking | Childhood | [Samuel Hughes’ Kink Identity Development Theory](https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/standard-deviations/201805/growing-kinky-research-shows-how-kink-identity-is-formed) | Perception vs. Identity | Born This Way? | Velvet | Winking | Conditioning | Cultivating Kinks | Getting Rid of Kinks | Giving Someone a Kink identity, bdsm, psychology true full 118 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-12-11_dd117-gifts.mp3 Episode 117: Gift Rifts As it’s holiday time, this week we’re discussing whether or not you should ever buy someone a sex toy, our fave and least fave toys we’ve received as gifts, and our top tips for getting through the holidays.

Christmas Music | Should You? | How to Know | Impact Toys | Favorites | Worst/Weirdest | Gifts for Anyone | JeJoue MiMi | Sex Nerds | Kinksters | RodeoH | Thanks, I Hate It | GenderCat | NYTC Carter | Holigays | Going Home | Buddy Up | Introversion | Walrus Piece | Trends Like These

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]]> Wed, 12 Dec 2018 02:05:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-117-gift-rifts-9a308a33 As it’s holiday time, this week we’re discussing whether or not you should ever buy someone a sex toy, our fave and least fave toys we’ve received as gifts, and our top tips for getting through the holidays.

Christmas Music | Should You? | How to Know | Impact Toys | Favorites | Worst/Weirdest | Gifts for Anyone | JeJoue MiMi | Sex Nerds | Kinksters | RodeoH | Thanks, I Hate It | GenderCat | NYTC Carter | Holigays | Going Home | Buddy Up | Introversion | Walrus Piece | Trends Like These

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]]> Episode 117: Gift Rifts Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:17 As it’s holiday time, this week we’re discussing whether or not you should ever buy someone a sex toy, our fave and least fave toys we’ve received as gifts, and our top tips for getting through the holidays. Christmas Music | Should You? | How to Know | Impact Toys | Favorites | Worst/Weirdest | Gifts for Anyone | [JeJoue MiMi](https://shevibe.com/je-joue-mimi-classic-waterproof-rechargeable-silicone-vibrator-black/#oid=1056_1_banner_1) | Sex Nerds | Kinksters | [RodeoH](https://shevibe.com/rodeoh-harness-black-and-gray.aspx#oid=1056_1_banner_1) | Thanks, I Hate It | [GenderCat](https://gendercat.com/collections/gendermender-packers-and-penis-prosthetics/products/build-a-prosthetic?fbclid=IwAR0jbz2RiASJDuM1beb8CqUkhrUbQdvLP_M_jWRS1LOnlcn4SOgb8_vZKFc) | [NYTC Carter](https://www.comeasyouare.com/products/new-york-toy-collective-carter?aff=girlyjuice) | [Holigays](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-66-holigays/) | Going Home | Buddy Up | Introversion | [Walrus Piece](https://thewalrus.ca/the-invisibility-of-asexuality/) | [Trends Like These](https://trendslikethese.libsyn.com/neil-degrasse-tyson-accused-of-assault-tumblrs-nsfw-crackdown-new-mueller-developments-6-fries-1-serving-oreos-on-turntables-and-in-buttcracks-rudy-giulianis-text-invaded-soulja-boy-releases-game-console-bad-bad-takes) As it’s holiday time, this week we’re discussing whether or not you should ever buy someone a sex toy, our fave and least fave toys we’ve received as gifts, and our top tips for getting through the holidays. Christmas Music | Should You? | How to Know | Impact Toys | Favorites | Worst/Weirdest | Gifts for Anyone | [JeJoue MiMi](https://shevibe.com/je-joue-mimi-classic-waterproof-rechargeable-silicone-vibrator-black/#oid=1056_1_banner_1) | Sex Nerds | Kinksters | [RodeoH](https://shevibe.com/rodeoh-harness-black-and-gray.aspx#oid=1056_1_banner_1) | Thanks, I Hate It | [GenderCat](https://gendercat.com/collections/gendermender-packers-and-penis-prosthetics/products/build-a-prosthetic?fbclid=IwAR0jbz2RiASJDuM1beb8CqUkhrUbQdvLP_M_jWRS1LOnlcn4SOgb8_vZKFc) | [NYTC Carter](https://www.comeasyouare.com/products/new-york-toy-collective-carter?aff=girlyjuice) | [Holigays](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-66-holigays/) | Going Home | Buddy Up | Introversion | [Walrus Piece](https://thewalrus.ca/the-invisibility-of-asexuality/) | [Trends Like These](https://trendslikethese.libsyn.com/neil-degrasse-tyson-accused-of-assault-tumblrs-nsfw-crackdown-new-mueller-developments-6-fries-1-serving-oreos-on-turntables-and-in-buttcracks-rudy-giulianis-text-invaded-soulja-boy-releases-game-console-bad-bad-takes) holidays, parties, gifts true full 117 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-12-04_dd116-objectification.mp3 Episode 116: Objectively Hot We have lots of feelings 'n' fantasies about objectification, whether the sexual kind or the kind where you literally take on the role of an object. This week we discuss this contentious kink!

Fucktoy | Sexual vs. Literal | Favorite Toy | Holding Still | Exhibitionism | Service | Human Furniture | Cum | Sex Doll | Humanity | Voyeur | Implements | Loving vs. Degrading | Enough to Make You Blush | Kneeling in Spirit | Outfits | Reclamation | Topping | Oral Servitude | Dicks | Baseball | Feminist | Dominants | Aftercare

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]]> Tue, 4 Dec 2018 19:23:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-116-objectively-hot-e540c20d We have lots of feelings 'n' fantasies about objectification, whether the sexual kind or the kind where you literally take on the role of an object. This week we discuss this contentious kink!

Fucktoy | Sexual vs. Literal | Favorite Toy | Holding Still | Exhibitionism | Service | Human Furniture | Cum | Sex Doll | Humanity | Voyeur | Implements | Loving vs. Degrading | Enough to Make You Blush | Kneeling in Spirit | Outfits | Reclamation | Topping | Oral Servitude | Dicks | Baseball | Feminist | Dominants | Aftercare

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]]> Episode 116: Objectively Hot Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:53:45 We have lots of feelings 'n' fantasies about objectification, whether the sexual kind or the kind where you literally take on the role of an object. This week we discuss this contentious kink! Fucktoy | Sexual vs. Literal | Favorite Toy | Holding Still | Exhibitionism | Service | Human Furniture | Cum | Sex Doll | Humanity | Voyeur | Implements | Loving vs. Degrading | [Enough to Make You Blush](https://www.amazon.com/Enough-Make-You-Blush-Humiliation/dp/0692534911) | [Kneeling in Spirit](https://www.amazon.com/Kneeling-Spirit-Raven-Kaldera/dp/0982879458) | Outfits | Reclamation | Topping | Oral Servitude | Dicks | Baseball | Feminist | Dominants | Aftercare We have lots of feelings 'n' fantasies about objectification, whether the sexual kind or the kind where you literally take on the role of an object. This week we discuss this contentious kink! Fucktoy | Sexual vs. Literal | Favorite Toy | Holding Still | Exhibitionism | Service | Human Furniture | Cum | Sex Doll | Humanity | Voyeur | Implements | Loving vs. Degrading | [Enough to Make You Blush](https://www.amazon.com/Enough-Make-You-Blush-Humiliation/dp/0692534911) | [Kneeling in Spirit](https://www.amazon.com/Kneeling-Spirit-Raven-Kaldera/dp/0982879458) | Outfits | Reclamation | Topping | Oral Servitude | Dicks | Baseball | Feminist | Dominants | Aftercare objectification, humiliation, consent true full 116 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-11-27_dd115-platonickink.mp3 Episode 115: BDSM BFFs While together in Toronto, we sat down for a discussion of platonic kink! Find out what it is, why we like it, and how to partake of it responsibly.

Reasons Why | Non-Sexual Enjoyment | Low Pressure | Context | Emotional Topping | Jealousy | Non-Monogamy | Impact | Arousal | Negotiation | Aftercare | Crying at a Party | Post-Breakup Comfort | Aftercare Dad | Rope Suspension | How to Ask | Service | Little Space | Sports

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]]> Tue, 27 Nov 2018 22:36:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-115-bdsm-bffs-6600a4f6 While together in Toronto, we sat down for a discussion of platonic kink! Find out what it is, why we like it, and how to partake of it responsibly.

Reasons Why | Non-Sexual Enjoyment | Low Pressure | Context | Emotional Topping | Jealousy | Non-Monogamy | Impact | Arousal | Negotiation | Aftercare | Crying at a Party | Post-Breakup Comfort | Aftercare Dad | Rope Suspension | How to Ask | Service | Little Space | Sports

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]]> Episode 115: BDSM BFFs Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:00 While together in Toronto, we sat down for a discussion of platonic kink! Find out what it is, why we like it, and how to partake of it responsibly. Reasons Why | Non-Sexual Enjoyment | Low Pressure | Context | Emotional Topping | Jealousy | Non-Monogamy | Impact | Arousal | Negotiation | Aftercare | Crying at a Party | Post-Breakup Comfort | Aftercare Dad | Rope Suspension | How to Ask | Service | Little Space | Sports While together in Toronto, we sat down for a discussion of platonic kink! Find out what it is, why we like it, and how to partake of it responsibly. Reasons Why | Non-Sexual Enjoyment | Low Pressure | Context | Emotional Topping | Jealousy | Non-Monogamy | Impact | Arousal | Negotiation | Aftercare | Crying at a Party | Post-Breakup Comfort | Aftercare Dad | Rope Suspension | How to Ask | Service | Little Space | Sports polyamory, spanking, friendship true full 115 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-11-20_dd114-fetishobjects.mp3 Episode 114: Boots, Etc. Get out your leather boots, straitjackets, and stethoscopes: it’s time to talk about fetish objects! This week, we discuss some of our fave sexualized possessions, and the role they play in our fantasies and sexcapades.

Leather Belt | Fetish vs. Kink | Talismans | Corset Fetish | “I Wish I Was…” | Boots | The Slave | Bootblacking | White T-Shirts | Suits | Sleeves Rolled Up | Pantyhose | Bible | Leather Care | Associations | Service | Underwear | Latex | Masks | Posture Collars | Heels

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]]> Tue, 20 Nov 2018 20:56:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-114-boots-etc-dfd051a5 Get out your leather boots, straitjackets, and stethoscopes: it’s time to talk about fetish objects! This week, we discuss some of our fave sexualized possessions, and the role they play in our fantasies and sexcapades.

Leather Belt | Fetish vs. Kink | Talismans | Corset Fetish | “I Wish I Was…” | Boots | The Slave | Bootblacking | White T-Shirts | Suits | Sleeves Rolled Up | Pantyhose | Bible | Leather Care | Associations | Service | Underwear | Latex | Masks | Posture Collars | Heels

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]]> Episode 114: Boots, Etc. Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:52:16 Get out your leather boots, straitjackets, and stethoscopes: it’s time to talk about fetish objects! This week, we discuss some of our fave sexualized possessions, and the role they play in our fantasies and sexcapades. Leather Belt | Fetish vs. Kink | Talismans | Corset Fetish | “I Wish I Was…” | Boots | [The Slave](http://lantoniou.com/the-slave-chapter-1/) | Bootblacking | White T-Shirts | Suits | Sleeves Rolled Up | Pantyhose | Bible | Leather Care | Associations | Service | Underwear | Latex | Masks | Posture Collars | Heels Get out your leather boots, straitjackets, and stethoscopes: it’s time to talk about fetish objects! This week, we discuss some of our fave sexualized possessions, and the role they play in our fantasies and sexcapades. Leather Belt | Fetish vs. Kink | Talismans | Corset Fetish | “I Wish I Was…” | Boots | [The Slave](http://lantoniou.com/the-slave-chapter-1/) | Bootblacking | White T-Shirts | Suits | Sleeves Rolled Up | Pantyhose | Bible | Leather Care | Associations | Service | Underwear | Latex | Masks | Posture Collars | Heels fetish, boots, leather true full 114 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-11-14_dd113-orgasmcontrol.mp3 Episode 113: Uncumtrollable Hold your horses: this week we’re talking about orgasm control! We discuss forced orgasms, chastity, abstinence, and various other facets of this fascinating kink.

Definition | Fanfiction | Consent | Asking Permission | Power | Signposts | Chastity | Sex vs. Kink | Pre-Sex Abstinence | Forced Orgasms | Beginner Tips | Mindfulness | Solo Play | Abstinence Movements | Conditioning | Quiet | Multiple Partners | Orgasm Difficulties | Funkit Toys IndieGogo | Dildorks Tote Bag

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]]> Wed, 14 Nov 2018 21:51:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-113-uncumtrollable-cc912272 Hold your horses: this week we’re talking about orgasm control! We discuss forced orgasms, chastity, abstinence, and various other facets of this fascinating kink.

Definition | Fanfiction | Consent | Asking Permission | Power | Signposts | Chastity | Sex vs. Kink | Pre-Sex Abstinence | Forced Orgasms | Beginner Tips | Mindfulness | Solo Play | Abstinence Movements | Conditioning | Quiet | Multiple Partners | Orgasm Difficulties | Funkit Toys IndieGogo | Dildorks Tote Bag

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]]> Episode 113: Uncumtrollable Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:48:40 Hold your horses: this week we’re talking about orgasm control! We discuss forced orgasms, chastity, abstinence, and various other facets of this fascinating kink. Definition | Fanfiction | Consent | Asking Permission | Power | Signposts | Chastity | Sex vs. Kink | Pre-Sex Abstinence | [Forced Orgasms](../../5-props-forced-orgasm-scene/) | Beginner Tips | Mindfulness | Solo Play | Abstinence Movements | Conditioning | Quiet | Multiple Partners | Orgasm Difficulties | [Funkit Toys IndieGogo](https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/nofrilldo-series-2-x-and-l/x/1002814) | [Dildorks Tote Bag](http://girly.click/dorktote) Hold your horses: this week we’re talking about orgasm control! We discuss forced orgasms, chastity, abstinence, and various other facets of this fascinating kink. Definition | Fanfiction | Consent | Asking Permission | Power | Signposts | Chastity | Sex vs. Kink | Pre-Sex Abstinence | [Forced Orgasms](../../5-props-forced-orgasm-scene/) | Beginner Tips | Mindfulness | Solo Play | Abstinence Movements | Conditioning | Quiet | Multiple Partners | Orgasm Difficulties | [Funkit Toys IndieGogo](https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/nofrilldo-series-2-x-and-l/x/1002814) | [Dildorks Tote Bag](http://girly.click/dorktote) orgasm, abstinence, chastity true full 113 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-11-06_dd112-voyeurism.mp3 Episode 112: Peepin' and Creepin' Take a peek inside our minds as we discuss voyeurism! Learn about ways we've explored this kink, why we find it hot, and what voyeuristic fantasies we hope to live out.

Porn | Watersports | Consent | Interest | Play Party | Introversion & Anxiety | Voyeurism for Beginners | Closet Photographer | Subtle Signals | Ghost Sex | Fake Sleep | Group Sex | Trust | Service Bottom | Sunglasses | Dark Odyssey | Sex Clubs | High Masturbation | Getting Caught | The Marketplace | Sex Doll | Teaching & Learning | Adding D/s | In Public | 2 Voyeurs

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]]> Tue, 6 Nov 2018 19:48:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-112-peepin-and-creepin-f7332a1b Take a peek inside our minds as we discuss voyeurism! Learn about ways we've explored this kink, why we find it hot, and what voyeuristic fantasies we hope to live out.

Porn | Watersports | Consent | Interest | Play Party | Introversion & Anxiety | Voyeurism for Beginners | Closet Photographer | Subtle Signals | Ghost Sex | Fake Sleep | Group Sex | Trust | Service Bottom | Sunglasses | Dark Odyssey | Sex Clubs | High Masturbation | Getting Caught | The Marketplace | Sex Doll | Teaching & Learning | Adding D/s | In Public | 2 Voyeurs

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]]> Episode 112: Peepin' and Creepin' Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:50:33 Take a peek inside our minds as we discuss voyeurism! Learn about ways we've explored this kink, why we find it hot, and what voyeuristic fantasies we hope to live out. Porn | Watersports | Consent | Interest | Play Party | Introversion & Anxiety | Voyeurism for Beginners | Closet Photographer | Subtle Signals | Ghost Sex | Fake Sleep | Group Sex | Trust | Service Bottom | Sunglasses | Dark Odyssey | Sex Clubs | High Masturbation | Getting Caught | The Marketplace | Sex Doll | Teaching & Learning | Adding D/s | In Public | 2 Voyeurs Take a peek inside our minds as we discuss voyeurism! Learn about ways we've explored this kink, why we find it hot, and what voyeuristic fantasies we hope to live out. Porn | Watersports | Consent | Interest | Play Party | Introversion & Anxiety | Voyeurism for Beginners | Closet Photographer | Subtle Signals | Ghost Sex | Fake Sleep | Group Sex | Trust | Service Bottom | Sunglasses | Dark Odyssey | Sex Clubs | High Masturbation | Getting Caught | The Marketplace | Sex Doll | Teaching & Learning | Adding D/s | In Public | 2 Voyeurs voyeurism, consent, bdsm true full 112 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-10-30_dd111-fear.mp3 Episode 111: Horny Yet Horrendous Happy Halloween! This week we’re discussing fear play: what it is, why we like it, and what kinds we want to try.

Scary Movies | Fear | Trust | Roleplay | Knives | Hook-Ups | Anxiety | Humiliation | Confrontation | Eye Contact | Njoy Eleven | Nipples | Body Mods | New Kinks | Intoxication | Aftercare | Predator/Prey | Vampires | Bullying | Naked Heart Festival

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]]> Tue, 30 Oct 2018 22:53:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-111-horny-yet-horrendous-7df74a1f Happy Halloween! This week we’re discussing fear play: what it is, why we like it, and what kinds we want to try.

Scary Movies | Fear | Trust | Roleplay | Knives | Hook-Ups | Anxiety | Humiliation | Confrontation | Eye Contact | Njoy Eleven | Nipples | Body Mods | New Kinks | Intoxication | Aftercare | Predator/Prey | Vampires | Bullying | Naked Heart Festival

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]]> Episode 111: Horny Yet Horrendous Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:09 Happy Halloween! This week we’re discussing fear play: what it is, why we like it, and what kinds we want to try. Scary Movies | Fear | Trust | Roleplay | Knives | Hook-Ups | Anxiety | Humiliation | Confrontation | Eye Contact | [Njoy Eleven](../../review-njoy-eleven/) | Nipples | Body Mods | New Kinks | Intoxication | Aftercare | Predator/Prey | Vampires | Bullying | [Naked Heart Festival](http://nakedheart.ca) Happy Halloween! This week we’re discussing fear play: what it is, why we like it, and what kinds we want to try. Scary Movies | Fear | Trust | Roleplay | Knives | Hook-Ups | Anxiety | Humiliation | Confrontation | Eye Contact | [Njoy Eleven](../../review-njoy-eleven/) | Nipples | Body Mods | New Kinks | Intoxication | Aftercare | Predator/Prey | Vampires | Bullying | [Naked Heart Festival](http://nakedheart.ca) fear, halloween, roleplay true full 111 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-10-23_dd110-dickwound.mp3 Episode 110: Man of a Million Kinks Friend of the show Dick Wound, of the Off the Cuffs and Being There podcasts, joins Kate this week for a goofy discussion of intense kinks ranging from knives to piss to sweat!

Dude From the Internet | Knife Play | Fear Play | Death | Off the Cuffs | Kink Origins | Balloon Fetish | Sweat & Smells | Food | YouTube | Vomiting | Watersports | “Basic Bitch” Kinks | Impact Play | Being There Podcast | Recording Setup | Why “Dick Wound”?

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]]> Tue, 23 Oct 2018 19:58:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-110-man-of-a-million-kinks-80f4225a Friend of the show Dick Wound, of the Off the Cuffs and Being There podcasts, joins Kate this week for a goofy discussion of intense kinks ranging from knives to piss to sweat!

Dude From the Internet | Knife Play | Fear Play | Death | Off the Cuffs | Kink Origins | Balloon Fetish | Sweat & Smells | Food | YouTube | Vomiting | Watersports | “Basic Bitch” Kinks | Impact Play | Being There Podcast | Recording Setup | Why “Dick Wound”?

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]]> Episode 110: Man of a Million Kinks Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:54:09 Friend of the show [Dick Wound](https://twitter.com/DickWound), of the [Off the Cuffs](https://linktr.ee/ocpkink) and [Being There](https://linktr.ee/beingtherepod) podcasts, joins Kate this week for a goofy discussion of intense kinks ranging from knives to piss to sweat! Dude From the Internet | Knife Play | Fear Play | Death | [Off the Cuffs](https://linktr.ee/ocpkink) | Kink Origins | Balloon Fetish | Sweat & Smells | Food | YouTube | Vomiting | Watersports | “Basic Bitch” Kinks | Impact Play | [Being There Podcast](https://linktr.ee/beingtherepod) | Recording Setup | Why “Dick Wound”? Friend of the show [Dick Wound](https://twitter.com/DickWound), of the [Off the Cuffs](https://linktr.ee/ocpkink) and [Being There](https://linktr.ee/beingtherepod) podcasts, joins Kate this week for a goofy discussion of intense kinks ranging from knives to piss to sweat! Dude From the Internet | Knife Play | Fear Play | Death | [Off the Cuffs](https://linktr.ee/ocpkink) | Kink Origins | Balloon Fetish | Sweat & Smells | Food | YouTube | Vomiting | Watersports | “Basic Bitch” Kinks | Impact Play | [Being There Podcast](https://linktr.ee/beingtherepod) | Recording Setup | Why “Dick Wound”? knife play, fetish, kink true full 110 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-10-16_dd109-polyfaq.mp3 Episode 109: LOLyamory This week we're bustin' some myths about our fave relationship style: polyamory! Hear us get sassy about hierarchy, infidelity, stigma, and more...

Hierarchical vs. Not | Solo Poly | Not Serious? | Sluts | Sex at Dawn | Cake | Failure | Break-Ups | Cheating | Whoever You Want | Synced Cycles | Ersties Podcast | Getting Permission | Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell | “I Could Never!” | Jealousy | Processing | Distraction | The 8-Armed Octopus of Jealousy | Comparisons | Orientation? | Building Open Relationships | Poly Role Models | Poly Land | I Am Poly and So Can You! | Love’s Not Color Blind

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]]> Tue, 16 Oct 2018 16:13:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-109-lolyamory-4a8c9033 This week we're bustin' some myths about our fave relationship style: polyamory! Hear us get sassy about hierarchy, infidelity, stigma, and more...

Hierarchical vs. Not | Solo Poly | Not Serious? | Sluts | Sex at Dawn | Cake | Failure | Break-Ups | Cheating | Whoever You Want | Synced Cycles | Ersties Podcast | Getting Permission | Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell | “I Could Never!” | Jealousy | Processing | Distraction | The 8-Armed Octopus of Jealousy | Comparisons | Orientation? | Building Open Relationships | Poly Role Models | Poly Land | I Am Poly and So Can You! | Love’s Not Color Blind

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]]> Episode 109: LOLyamory Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:51:00 This week we're bustin' some myths about our fave relationship style: polyamory! Hear us get sassy about hierarchy, infidelity, stigma, and more... Hierarchical vs. Not | Solo Poly | Not Serious? | Sluts | [Sex at Dawn](https://www.amazon.com/Sex-Dawn-Stray-Modern-Relationships/dp/1491512407) | [Cake](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/991314145344675840) | Failure | Break-Ups | Cheating | Whoever You Want | Synced Cycles | [Ersties Podcast](https://www.ersties-podcast.com/) | Getting Permission | Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell | “I Could Never!” | Jealousy | Processing | Distraction | [The 8-Armed Octopus of Jealousy](http://reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Battlingthe8ArmedOctopusofJealousyManual.pdf) | Comparisons | Orientation? | [Building Open Relationships](https://www.amazon.com/Building-Open-Relationships-swinging-polyamory/dp/0692151591/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1539706342&sr=8-1&keywords=building+open+relationships) | [Poly Role Models](http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com) | [Poly Land](http://poly.land) | [I Am Poly and So Can You!](http://iampoly.net) | [Love’s Not Color Blind](https://www.amazon.com/Loves-Color-Blind-Kevin-Patterson/dp/1944934464/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1539706387&sr=8-1&keywords=love%27s+not+color+blind) This week we're bustin' some myths about our fave relationship style: polyamory! Hear us get sassy about hierarchy, infidelity, stigma, and more... Hierarchical vs. Not | Solo Poly | Not Serious? | Sluts | [Sex at Dawn](https://www.amazon.com/Sex-Dawn-Stray-Modern-Relationships/dp/1491512407) | [Cake](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/991314145344675840) | Failure | Break-Ups | Cheating | Whoever You Want | Synced Cycles | [Ersties Podcast](https://www.ersties-podcast.com/) | Getting Permission | Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell | “I Could Never!” | Jealousy | Processing | Distraction | [The 8-Armed Octopus of Jealousy](http://reidaboutsex.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/05/Battlingthe8ArmedOctopusofJealousyManual.pdf) | Comparisons | Orientation? | [Building Open Relationships](https://www.amazon.com/Building-Open-Relationships-swinging-polyamory/dp/0692151591/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1539706342&sr=8-1&keywords=building+open+relationships) | [Poly Role Models](http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com) | [Poly Land](http://poly.land) | [I Am Poly and So Can You!](http://iampoly.net) | [Love’s Not Color Blind](https://www.amazon.com/Loves-Color-Blind-Kevin-Patterson/dp/1944934464/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1539706387&sr=8-1&keywords=love%27s+not+color+blind) non-monogamy, polyamory true full 109 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-10-09_dd108-roleplay.mp3 Episode 108: Role the Dice Got a flair for the dramatic? This week we're rolling out our thoughts on roleplay: why we like it, what kinds we like, and whether or not it’s a strictly sexual thing for us.

Psychology vs. Sensations | Cultural Narrative | Flirting | Bullying | High School | Taboo | Non-Sexual Kink | Riddle Club | Flow State | Homework | Hysteria | Con Non-Con | Massage | Outsmarting | A Month’s Worth of Phone Sex

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]]> Tue, 9 Oct 2018 20:42:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-108-role-the-dice-47754364 Got a flair for the dramatic? This week we're rolling out our thoughts on roleplay: why we like it, what kinds we like, and whether or not it’s a strictly sexual thing for us.

Psychology vs. Sensations | Cultural Narrative | Flirting | Bullying | High School | Taboo | Non-Sexual Kink | Riddle Club | Flow State | Homework | Hysteria | Con Non-Con | Massage | Outsmarting | A Month’s Worth of Phone Sex

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]]> Episode 108: Role the Dice Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:44:24 Got a flair for the dramatic? This week we're rolling out our thoughts on roleplay: why we like it, what kinds we like, and whether or not it’s a strictly sexual thing for us. Psychology vs. Sensations | Cultural Narrative | Flirting | Bullying | High School | Taboo | Non-Sexual Kink | Riddle Club | [Flow State](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flow_(psychology)) | Homework | [Hysteria](../../hysteria-hands-and-victorian-vibrators/) | Con Non-Con | Massage | Outsmarting | [A Month’s Worth of Phone Sex](../../a-months-worth-of-phone-sex/) Got a flair for the dramatic? This week we're rolling out our thoughts on roleplay: why we like it, what kinds we like, and whether or not it’s a strictly sexual thing for us. Psychology vs. Sensations | Cultural Narrative | Flirting | Bullying | High School | Taboo | Non-Sexual Kink | Riddle Club | [Flow State](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Flow_(psychology)) | Homework | [Hysteria](../../hysteria-hands-and-victorian-vibrators/) | Con Non-Con | Massage | Outsmarting | [A Month’s Worth of Phone Sex](../../a-months-worth-of-phone-sex/) roleplay, improv, kink true full 108 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-10-02_dd107-sexed.mp3 Episode 107: Yearn to Learn School is back in session, so we’re discussing sex ed! Find out what we learned about sex in school – and what we learned, um, elsewhere.

Skipping Health Class | Gender Segregation | Anatomy | Gender | Shame | Consent | Doug Ford | Emotional Maturity | Kink | The Clit | Books | Erotica & Fanfiction | Cybersex | Eavesdropping | Podcasts | Bear Bergman | Emily Nagoski | Allison Moon | Dr. Liz Powell | Andy Izenson | Aida Manduley | Mollena Williams-Haas | Sinclair Sexsmith | Caitlin K. Roberts | Sunny Megatron & Ken Melvoin-Berg | Takeaways | Uproxx List

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]]> Tue, 2 Oct 2018 18:50:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-107-yearn-to-learn-8fecd08a School is back in session, so we’re discussing sex ed! Find out what we learned about sex in school – and what we learned, um, elsewhere.

Skipping Health Class | Gender Segregation | Anatomy | Gender | Shame | Consent | Doug Ford | Emotional Maturity | Kink | The Clit | Books | Erotica & Fanfiction | Cybersex | Eavesdropping | Podcasts | Bear Bergman | Emily Nagoski | Allison Moon | Dr. Liz Powell | Andy Izenson | Aida Manduley | Mollena Williams-Haas | Sinclair Sexsmith | Caitlin K. Roberts | Sunny Megatron & Ken Melvoin-Berg | Takeaways | Uproxx List

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]]> Episode 107: Yearn to Learn Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:48:07 School is back in session, so we’re discussing sex ed! Find out what we learned about sex in school – and what we learned, um, elsewhere. Skipping Health Class | Gender Segregation | Anatomy | Gender | Shame | Consent | Doug Ford | Emotional Maturity | Kink | The Clit | Books | Erotica & Fanfiction | Cybersex | Eavesdropping | Podcasts | [Bear Bergman](http://www.sbearbergman.com/) | [Emily Nagoski](http://www.emilynagoski.com/) | [Allison Moon](http://girlsex101.com/) | [Dr. Liz Powell](https://sexpositivepsych.com) | [Andy Izenson](https://twitter.com/andyeyeballs) | [Aida Manduley](http://aidamanduley.com/) | [Mollena Williams-Haas](https://twitter.com/Mollena) | [Sinclair Sexsmith](http://www.mrsexsmith.com/) | [Caitlin K. Roberts](https://caitlinkroberts.com/) | [Sunny Megatron & Ken Melvoin-Berg](http://sunnymegatron.com/author/ken-melvoin-berg/) | Takeaways | [Uproxx List](https://uproxx.com/life/best-sex-podcasts-right-now/) School is back in session, so we’re discussing sex ed! Find out what we learned about sex in school – and what we learned, um, elsewhere. Skipping Health Class | Gender Segregation | Anatomy | Gender | Shame | Consent | Doug Ford | Emotional Maturity | Kink | The Clit | Books | Erotica & Fanfiction | Cybersex | Eavesdropping | Podcasts | [Bear Bergman](http://www.sbearbergman.com/) | [Emily Nagoski](http://www.emilynagoski.com/) | [Allison Moon](http://girlsex101.com/) | [Dr. Liz Powell](https://sexpositivepsych.com) | [Andy Izenson](https://twitter.com/andyeyeballs) | [Aida Manduley](http://aidamanduley.com/) | [Mollena Williams-Haas](https://twitter.com/Mollena) | [Sinclair Sexsmith](http://www.mrsexsmith.com/) | [Caitlin K. Roberts](https://caitlinkroberts.com/) | [Sunny Megatron & Ken Melvoin-Berg](http://sunnymegatron.com/author/ken-melvoin-berg/) | Takeaways | [Uproxx List](https://uproxx.com/life/best-sex-podcasts-right-now/) politics, sex ed, sexism true full 107 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-09-25_dd106-advice.mp3 Episode 106: Vice Advice You asked, we answered! This week, we address listener questions on topics ranging from awkward set-ups to platonic kink to dancing dilemmas. Hope this helps!

Unsolicited Advice | Vanilla Set-Ups | Dating While Kinky | Toy Storage | Hiding Toys | Toy Cleaning | Platonic Kink | Friends with Benefits | Polyamory Stigma | It’s Called Polyamory | Building Open Relationships | Poly Role Models | Dominant Anal Play | Grinding | Professor Crush

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]]> Tue, 25 Sep 2018 22:33:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-106-vice-advice-85c6d765 You asked, we answered! This week, we address listener questions on topics ranging from awkward set-ups to platonic kink to dancing dilemmas. Hope this helps!

Unsolicited Advice | Vanilla Set-Ups | Dating While Kinky | Toy Storage | Hiding Toys | Toy Cleaning | Platonic Kink | Friends with Benefits | Polyamory Stigma | It’s Called Polyamory | Building Open Relationships | Poly Role Models | Dominant Anal Play | Grinding | Professor Crush

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]]> Episode 106: Vice Advice Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:45:34 You asked, we answered! This week, we address listener questions on topics ranging from awkward set-ups to platonic kink to dancing dilemmas. Hope this helps! [Unsolicited Advice](../../unsolicited/) | Vanilla Set-Ups | Dating While Kinky | [Toy Storage](https://heyepiphora.com/2017/02/step-inside-my-sex-toy-closet/) | [Hiding Toys](http://ninjasexology.com/2014/07/31/stealth-sex-toys-stash-management/) | [Toy Cleaning](http://dangerouslilly.com/sex-toy-reviews/sex-toy-care-and-maintenance/) | Platonic Kink | Friends with Benefits | Polyamory Stigma | [It’s Called Polyamory](https://www.amazon.com/Its-Called-Polyamory-Nonmonogamous-Relationships/dp/1944934421/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1537914711&sr=8-1&keywords=it%27s+called+polyamory) | [Building Open Relationships](https://www.amazon.com/Building-Open-Relationships-swinging-polyamory/dp/0692151591/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1537914747&sr=8-1&keywords=liz+powell) | [Poly Role Models](http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/) | Dominant Anal Play | Grinding | Professor Crush You asked, we answered! This week, we address listener questions on topics ranging from awkward set-ups to platonic kink to dancing dilemmas. Hope this helps! [Unsolicited Advice](../../unsolicited/) | Vanilla Set-Ups | Dating While Kinky | [Toy Storage](https://heyepiphora.com/2017/02/step-inside-my-sex-toy-closet/) | [Hiding Toys](http://ninjasexology.com/2014/07/31/stealth-sex-toys-stash-management/) | [Toy Cleaning](http://dangerouslilly.com/sex-toy-reviews/sex-toy-care-and-maintenance/) | Platonic Kink | Friends with Benefits | Polyamory Stigma | [It’s Called Polyamory](https://www.amazon.com/Its-Called-Polyamory-Nonmonogamous-Relationships/dp/1944934421/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1537914711&sr=8-1&keywords=it%27s+called+polyamory) | [Building Open Relationships](https://www.amazon.com/Building-Open-Relationships-swinging-polyamory/dp/0692151591/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1537914747&sr=8-1&keywords=liz+powell) | [Poly Role Models](http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/) | Dominant Anal Play | Grinding | Professor Crush polyamory, bdsm, kink true full 106 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-09-18_dd105-impact.mp3 Episode 105: Slappreciation Impact play has left quite a mark on us! This week we discuss why we like pain, how beginners can get into spanking, and the answers to all your burning questions about hittin' and bein' hit.

Pain Slut | Thuddy vs. Stingy | Psychological Motivations | Topping | Floggers | Lexan Paddles | Sweet Spot | Weal & Breech | Pervertibles | Punishment Spankings | Safe Areas | Communication Tools | Bruises | Self-Spanking | Phone Sex | Workshops | Thin Walls | Chronic Pain | Testing Implements | Russian Bears | Face-Slapping | Vulva-Slapping | Kicking | What to Say | How to Take More Pain

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]]> Tue, 18 Sep 2018 21:28:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-105-slappreciation-4f84951b Impact play has left quite a mark on us! This week we discuss why we like pain, how beginners can get into spanking, and the answers to all your burning questions about hittin' and bein' hit.

Pain Slut | Thuddy vs. Stingy | Psychological Motivations | Topping | Floggers | Lexan Paddles | Sweet Spot | Weal & Breech | Pervertibles | Punishment Spankings | Safe Areas | Communication Tools | Bruises | Self-Spanking | Phone Sex | Workshops | Thin Walls | Chronic Pain | Testing Implements | Russian Bears | Face-Slapping | Vulva-Slapping | Kicking | What to Say | How to Take More Pain

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]]> Episode 105: Slappreciation Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:59:25 Impact play has left quite a mark on us! This week we discuss why we like pain, how beginners can get into spanking, and the answers to all your burning questions about hittin' and bein' hit. Pain Slut | Thuddy vs. Stingy | Psychological Motivations | Topping | Floggers | Lexan Paddles | [Sweet Spot](http://spankingart.org/wiki/Sweet_spot) | [Weal & Breech](https://wealandbreech.com/) | Pervertibles | Punishment Spankings | [Safe Areas](http://www.devianceanddesire.com/2014/12/bdsm-impact-play-safe-zones/) | Communication Tools | Bruises | [Self-Spanking](https://medium.com/the-establishment/spanking-is-essential-to-my-mental-health-63d1ce706de1) | [Phone Sex](../../intimate-intercourse-phone-sex-part-2/) | Workshops | Thin Walls | Chronic Pain | Testing Implements | [Russian Bears](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8nUiC5RrI_A) | [Face-Slapping](http://theartofsubmission.com/lesson/face-slapping-101/) | Vulva-Slapping | Kicking | What to Say | [How to Take More Pain](../../strategies-for-taking-more-pain/) Impact play has left quite a mark on us! This week we discuss why we like pain, how beginners can get into spanking, and the answers to all your burning questions about hittin' and bein' hit. Pain Slut | Thuddy vs. Stingy | Psychological Motivations | Topping | Floggers | Lexan Paddles | [Sweet Spot](http://spankingart.org/wiki/Sweet_spot) | [Weal & Breech](https://wealandbreech.com/) | Pervertibles | Punishment Spankings | [Safe Areas](http://www.devianceanddesire.com/2014/12/bdsm-impact-play-safe-zones/) | Communication Tools | Bruises | [Self-Spanking](https://medium.com/the-establishment/spanking-is-essential-to-my-mental-health-63d1ce706de1) | [Phone Sex](../../intimate-intercourse-phone-sex-part-2/) | Workshops | Thin Walls | Chronic Pain | Testing Implements | [Russian Bears](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8nUiC5RrI_A) | [Face-Slapping](http://theartofsubmission.com/lesson/face-slapping-101/) | Vulva-Slapping | Kicking | What to Say | [How to Take More Pain](../../strategies-for-taking-more-pain/) bdsm, impact play, spanking true full 105 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-09-12_dd104-sexting.mp3 Episode 104: Sextual Intercourse Sexting is a truly modern sex act. This week we discuss our favorite sext-initiation methods, secret screenshot-ogling, and most treasured emojis, among other sextual topics! No Limits | Access Need | Jumping the Gun | Consent | Casual vs. Dedicated | Screenshots | Selfies | Limitations | Words | Yes/No/Maybe List | Keeping It Fresh | Fantasy vs. Desire | No Babies | Violet Blue’s Book | Aftercare | Read Receipts | Sexting Prompts | Roleplay | Professional Sexting | Predictive Text | Emojis

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]]> Wed, 12 Sep 2018 19:47:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-104-sextual-intercourse-c18174e9 Sexting is a truly modern sex act. This week we discuss our favorite sext-initiation methods, secret screenshot-ogling, and most treasured emojis, among other sextual topics! No Limits | Access Need | Jumping the Gun | Consent | Casual vs. Dedicated | Screenshots | Selfies | Limitations | Words | Yes/No/Maybe List | Keeping It Fresh | Fantasy vs. Desire | No Babies | Violet Blue’s Book | Aftercare | Read Receipts | Sexting Prompts | Roleplay | Professional Sexting | Predictive Text | Emojis

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]]> Episode 104: Sextual Intercourse Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:55:54 Sexting is a truly modern sex act. This week we discuss our favorite sext-initiation methods, secret screenshot-ogling, and most treasured emojis, among other sextual topics! No Limits | Access Need | Jumping the Gun | Consent | Casual vs. Dedicated | Screenshots | Selfies | Limitations | Words | Yes/No/Maybe List | Keeping It Fresh | Fantasy vs. Desire | No Babies | Violet Blue’s Book | Aftercare | Read Receipts | Sexting Prompts | Roleplay | Professional Sexting | Predictive Text | Emojis Sexting is a truly modern sex act. This week we discuss our favorite sext-initiation methods, secret screenshot-ogling, and most treasured emojis, among other sextual topics! No Limits | Access Need | Jumping the Gun | Consent | Casual vs. Dedicated | Screenshots | Selfies | Limitations | Words | Yes/No/Maybe List | Keeping It Fresh | Fantasy vs. Desire | No Babies | Violet Blue’s Book | Aftercare | Read Receipts | Sexting Prompts | Roleplay | Professional Sexting | Predictive Text | Emojis technology, sexting, communication true full 104 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-09-04_dd103-butts.mp3 Episode 103: Nothing Butt the Truth This week we’re reflecting on butt stuff in all its delightful forms: anal sex, rimming, butt plugs, and more!

Girth Enthusiasm | Butt Barometer | Pain | Nausea | Physical vs. Psychological | Vulnerability | Beginner Tips | Asking For It | Mess & Prep | Topping | Njoy Toys | Tantus Uncut #1 | Condoms & Lube | What If You Don’t Like It? | Double Penetration | Rimming | Spanking | CockyBoys | Danny Wylde | Butt Plug Shoes

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]]> Tue, 4 Sep 2018 22:55:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-103-nothing-butt-the-truth-d0f02630 This week we’re reflecting on butt stuff in all its delightful forms: anal sex, rimming, butt plugs, and more!

Girth Enthusiasm | Butt Barometer | Pain | Nausea | Physical vs. Psychological | Vulnerability | Beginner Tips | Asking For It | Mess & Prep | Topping | Njoy Toys | Tantus Uncut #1 | Condoms & Lube | What If You Don’t Like It? | Double Penetration | Rimming | Spanking | CockyBoys | Danny Wylde | Butt Plug Shoes

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]]> Episode 103: Nothing Butt the Truth Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:46:59 This week we’re reflecting on butt stuff in all its delightful forms: anal sex, rimming, butt plugs, and more! Girth Enthusiasm | Butt Barometer | Pain | Nausea | Physical vs. Psychological | Vulnerability | Beginner Tips | Asking For It | Mess & Prep | Topping | [Njoy Toys](http://www.bextalkssex.com/pure-plug/) | [Tantus Uncut #1](http://www.bextalkssex.com/review-tantus-uncut-1-2/) | Condoms & Lube | What If You Don’t Like It? | Double Penetration | Rimming | Spanking | [CockyBoys](https://cockyboys.com/) | Danny Wylde | [Butt Plug Shoes](../../i-stuck-a-shoe-in-my-ass/) This week we’re reflecting on butt stuff in all its delightful forms: anal sex, rimming, butt plugs, and more! Girth Enthusiasm | Butt Barometer | Pain | Nausea | Physical vs. Psychological | Vulnerability | Beginner Tips | Asking For It | Mess & Prep | Topping | [Njoy Toys](http://www.bextalkssex.com/pure-plug/) | [Tantus Uncut #1](http://www.bextalkssex.com/review-tantus-uncut-1-2/) | Condoms & Lube | What If You Don’t Like It? | Double Penetration | Rimming | Spanking | [CockyBoys](https://cockyboys.com/) | Danny Wylde | [Butt Plug Shoes](../../i-stuck-a-shoe-in-my-ass/) sexual communication, anal sex, rimming true full 103 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-08-28_dd102-hands.mp3 Episode 102: Get Your Hand in the Game This week, we revisit one of our fave topics: hand sex! We describe how we’re feelin’ about fingers and fists these days, and then answer listener questions about hands-on pleasure. 

Hand Puns | Dysphoria | Morning Handjobs | Fisting | Vixen Randy | Sliquid Silk | The Butters | Assumptions | Surprise! | Skills to Practice | Positions | Infinity Gauntlet | Fleshlight Quickshot | Tenga Eggs | Foreskin | Long Nails | Hand Pain | Asking for Lube | Roleplay | Hysteria | “Taking Too Long” | Other Hand

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]]> Wed, 29 Aug 2018 00:56:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-102-get-your-hand-in-the-game-e42a1210 This week, we revisit one of our fave topics: hand sex! We describe how we’re feelin’ about fingers and fists these days, and then answer listener questions about hands-on pleasure. 

Hand Puns | Dysphoria | Morning Handjobs | Fisting | Vixen Randy | Sliquid Silk | The Butters | Assumptions | Surprise! | Skills to Practice | Positions | Infinity Gauntlet | Fleshlight Quickshot | Tenga Eggs | Foreskin | Long Nails | Hand Pain | Asking for Lube | Roleplay | Hysteria | “Taking Too Long” | Other Hand

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]]> Episode 102: Get Your Hand in the Game Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:00 This week, we revisit one of our fave topics: hand sex! We describe how we’re feelin’ about fingers and fists these days, and then answer listener questions about hands-on pleasure. Hand Puns | Dysphoria | Morning Handjobs | Fisting | [Vixen Randy](https://shevibe.com/randy-silicone-dildo-by-vixen-purple/#oid=1013_1) | [Sliquid Silk](https://shevibe.com/sliquid-naturals-silk-hybrid-personal-lubricant-8-5-fl-oz/#oid=1056_1) | [The Butters](../../review-butters-lubes/) | Assumptions | Surprise! | Skills to Practice | Positions | Infinity Gauntlet | [Fleshlight Quickshot](https://shevibe.com/fleshlight-quickshot-vantage-compact-masturbation-sleeve.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Tenga Eggs](https://shevibe.com/search.php?search_query.x=0&search_query.y=0&search_query=tenga+egg#oid=1013_1) | Foreskin | [Long Nails](https://crashpadseries.com/queer-porn/nailed-long-fake-nails-lesbian-porn-criticism-crap/) | Hand Pain | Asking for Lube | Roleplay | [Hysteria](../../hysteria-hands-and-victorian-vibrators/) | “Taking Too Long” | Other Hand This week, we revisit one of our fave topics: hand sex! We describe how we’re feelin’ about fingers and fists these days, and then answer listener questions about hands-on pleasure. Hand Puns | Dysphoria | Morning Handjobs | Fisting | [Vixen Randy](https://shevibe.com/randy-silicone-dildo-by-vixen-purple/#oid=1013_1) | [Sliquid Silk](https://shevibe.com/sliquid-naturals-silk-hybrid-personal-lubricant-8-5-fl-oz/#oid=1056_1) | [The Butters](../../review-butters-lubes/) | Assumptions | Surprise! | Skills to Practice | Positions | Infinity Gauntlet | [Fleshlight Quickshot](https://shevibe.com/fleshlight-quickshot-vantage-compact-masturbation-sleeve.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Tenga Eggs](https://shevibe.com/search.php?search_query.x=0&search_query.y=0&search_query=tenga+egg#oid=1013_1) | Foreskin | [Long Nails](https://crashpadseries.com/queer-porn/nailed-long-fake-nails-lesbian-porn-criticism-crap/) | Hand Pain | Asking for Lube | Roleplay | [Hysteria](../../hysteria-hands-and-victorian-vibrators/) | “Taking Too Long” | Other Hand sexual communication, fingering, fisting, hand sex true full 102 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-08-21_dd101-oral.mp3 Episode 101: Open Wide! It’s back to basics this week, with a discussion of oral sex! Find out how we feel about giving head, getting head, rimming, and other mouth-centered pleasures.

Blowjob-Friendly Lipsticks | Sex Ed Workshops | Dysphoria | Aslan Jaguar Harness | BJs As Aftercare | Dommy BJs | Hysterical Literature | Receiving | Threesome Fantasies | Eye Contact | Blowjob Porn | Rimming | Samantha Fraser | “You Only Live Once” | Surprise Rimming | Deepthroating | Heather Harmon | Criticism | Receiver Skills | Dirty Talk | Sliquid Swirl | Liberator Jaz | 8 Fellatio Fears

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]]> Tue, 21 Aug 2018 22:29:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-101-open-wide-17bb72ce It’s back to basics this week, with a discussion of oral sex! Find out how we feel about giving head, getting head, rimming, and other mouth-centered pleasures.

Blowjob-Friendly Lipsticks | Sex Ed Workshops | Dysphoria | Aslan Jaguar Harness | BJs As Aftercare | Dommy BJs | Hysterical Literature | Receiving | Threesome Fantasies | Eye Contact | Blowjob Porn | Rimming | Samantha Fraser | “You Only Live Once” | Surprise Rimming | Deepthroating | Heather Harmon | Criticism | Receiver Skills | Dirty Talk | Sliquid Swirl | Liberator Jaz | 8 Fellatio Fears

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]]> Episode 101: Open Wide! Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:55:28 It’s back to basics this week, with a discussion of oral sex! Find out how we feel about giving head, getting head, rimming, and other mouth-centered pleasures. [Blowjob-Friendly Lipsticks](../../blowjob-friendly-lipsticks-for-every-budget/) | [Sex Ed Workshops](http://www.bextalkssex.com/workshops/) | Dysphoria | [Aslan Jaguar Harness](../../harness-showdown-aslan-jaguar-vs-rodeoh-briefs/) | BJs As Aftercare | Dommy BJs | [Hysterical Literature](http://hystericalliterature.com/) | Receiving | Threesome Fantasies | Eye Contact | Blowjob Porn | Rimming | [Samantha Fraser](http://samanthafraser.com/) | [“You Only Live Once”](https://rachellark.bandcamp.com/track/you-only-live-once-the-asshole-song) | Surprise Rimming | Deepthroating | Heather Harmon | Criticism | Receiver Skills | Dirty Talk | [Sliquid Swirl](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/search?x=0&y=0&q=Sliquid+Swirl#oid=1017_1) | [Liberator Jaz](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/liberator-jaz-wedge#oid=1017_1) | [8 Fellatio Fears](../../8-fellatio-fears-and-how-to-conquer-them/) It’s back to basics this week, with a discussion of oral sex! Find out how we feel about giving head, getting head, rimming, and other mouth-centered pleasures. [Blowjob-Friendly Lipsticks](../../blowjob-friendly-lipsticks-for-every-budget/) | [Sex Ed Workshops](http://www.bextalkssex.com/workshops/) | Dysphoria | [Aslan Jaguar Harness](../../harness-showdown-aslan-jaguar-vs-rodeoh-briefs/) | BJs As Aftercare | Dommy BJs | [Hysterical Literature](http://hystericalliterature.com/) | Receiving | Threesome Fantasies | Eye Contact | Blowjob Porn | Rimming | [Samantha Fraser](http://samanthafraser.com/) | [“You Only Live Once”](https://rachellark.bandcamp.com/track/you-only-live-once-the-asshole-song) | Surprise Rimming | Deepthroating | Heather Harmon | Criticism | Receiver Skills | Dirty Talk | [Sliquid Swirl](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/search?x=0&y=0&q=Sliquid+Swirl#oid=1017_1) | [Liberator Jaz](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/liberator-jaz-wedge#oid=1017_1) | [8 Fellatio Fears](../../8-fellatio-fears-and-how-to-conquer-them/) communication, oral sex, blowjobs true full 101 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-08-14_dd100-100.mp3 Episode 100: Purity vs. Immaturity It's our 100th episode!! We celebrated by taking one of those weird 100-point purity tests to determine which one of us is sluttier. Any guesses?!

Accountability | Who’s More Pure? | Dates | Dancing | Kissing | Positions | Birthday Hickeys | Strippers | Drinking | Drugs | Caressing & Fondling | Manipulation | Sauna-ing | Intercourse | Lube | Butt Stuff | Sex Workers | Masturbation | Exhibitionism | Crossdressing | Giveaway

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]]> Tue, 14 Aug 2018 22:31:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-100-purity-vs-immaturity-0c8fe86d It's our 100th episode!! We celebrated by taking one of those weird 100-point purity tests to determine which one of us is sluttier. Any guesses?!

Accountability | Who’s More Pure? | Dates | Dancing | Kissing | Positions | Birthday Hickeys | Strippers | Drinking | Drugs | Caressing & Fondling | Manipulation | Sauna-ing | Intercourse | Lube | Butt Stuff | Sex Workers | Masturbation | Exhibitionism | Crossdressing | Giveaway

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]]> Episode 100: Purity vs. Immaturity Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:08:48 It's our 100th episode!! We celebrated by taking one of those weird 100-point [purity tests](http://www.armory.com/tests/100.html) to determine which one of us is sluttier. Any guesses?! Accountability | Who’s More Pure? | Dates | Dancing | Kissing | Positions | Birthday Hickeys | Strippers | Drinking | Drugs | Caressing & Fondling | Manipulation | Sauna-ing | Intercourse | Lube | Butt Stuff | Sex Workers | Masturbation | Exhibitionism | Crossdressing | Giveaway It's our 100th episode!! We celebrated by taking one of those weird 100-point [purity tests](http://www.armory.com/tests/100.html) to determine which one of us is sluttier. Any guesses?! Accountability | Who’s More Pure? | Dates | Dancing | Kissing | Positions | Birthday Hickeys | Strippers | Drinking | Drugs | Caressing & Fondling | Manipulation | Sauna-ing | Intercourse | Lube | Butt Stuff | Sex Workers | Masturbation | Exhibitionism | Crossdressing | Giveaway group sex, promiscuity, purity true full 100 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-08-07_dd99-woodhull.mp3 Episode 99: Seducing Sex Scribes Here's our live show from the 2018 Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit! We discussed the fine art of romancing sex bloggers, from DM-slides to consent practices to sex toy reviewing.

Assumptions | To Flirt or Not to Flirt? | Flirty Fans | Mistakes | “Hi” | Consent Issues | Manic Sexy Dream Person | Negotiating What Gets Shared | Sex Toy Reviewing | Tinder Wingwomen | Peepshow Toys | The Butters | Coming Out as a Sex Blogger | Voices | Uncomfortable Questions | Unsafe Toys | Outlets in Tents | Different in Person

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]]> Tue, 7 Aug 2018 23:39:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-99-seducing-sex-scribes-d5311764 Here's our live show from the 2018 Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit! We discussed the fine art of romancing sex bloggers, from DM-slides to consent practices to sex toy reviewing.

Assumptions | To Flirt or Not to Flirt? | Flirty Fans | Mistakes | “Hi” | Consent Issues | Manic Sexy Dream Person | Negotiating What Gets Shared | Sex Toy Reviewing | Tinder Wingwomen | Peepshow Toys | The Butters | Coming Out as a Sex Blogger | Voices | Uncomfortable Questions | Unsafe Toys | Outlets in Tents | Different in Person

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]]> Episode 99: Seducing Sex Scribes Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:35 Here's our live show from the 2018 [Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit](http://sexualfreedomsummit.org)! We discussed the fine art of romancing sex bloggers, from DM-slides to consent practices to sex toy reviewing. Assumptions | To Flirt or Not to Flirt? | Flirty Fans | Mistakes | “Hi” | Consent Issues | Manic Sexy Dream Person | Negotiating What Gets Shared | Sex Toy Reviewing | Tinder Wingwomen | [Peepshow Toys](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/) | [The Butters](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/the-butters-original-all-natural-lube-moisturizer) | Coming Out as a Sex Blogger | Voices | Uncomfortable Questions | Unsafe Toys | Outlets in Tents | Different in Person Here's our live show from the 2018 [Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit](http://sexualfreedomsummit.org)! We discussed the fine art of romancing sex bloggers, from DM-slides to consent practices to sex toy reviewing. Assumptions | To Flirt or Not to Flirt? | Flirty Fans | Mistakes | “Hi” | Consent Issues | Manic Sexy Dream Person | Negotiating What Gets Shared | Sex Toy Reviewing | Tinder Wingwomen | [Peepshow Toys](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/) | [The Butters](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/the-butters-original-all-natural-lube-moisturizer) | Coming Out as a Sex Blogger | Voices | Uncomfortable Questions | Unsafe Toys | Outlets in Tents | Different in Person flirting, twitter, blogging true full 99 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-07-31_dd98-mascfem.mp3 Episode 98: Boxed In, Boxed Out Let’s talk gender, folks! This week we’re discussing masculinity, femininity, why they’re good, why they’re bad, and how we hope to see them change.

Crop Tops | Gender Roles | Chivalry | Public Kink | Masculinity | Non-Binary | Public Bathrooms | Bowties & Snapbacks | Pain & Power of Femininity | Brendon Urie | Jack Harkness | Flamboyant Men | Brooklyn Nine-Nine | Toxic Masculinity | Consent & Desire | Toxic Femininity | Internalized Misogyny | The Future of Gender | Split Peaches | Binders | Body Hair

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]]> Tue, 31 Jul 2018 20:08:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-98-boxed-in-boxed-out-e7a2b488 Let’s talk gender, folks! This week we’re discussing masculinity, femininity, why they’re good, why they’re bad, and how we hope to see them change.

Crop Tops | Gender Roles | Chivalry | Public Kink | Masculinity | Non-Binary | Public Bathrooms | Bowties & Snapbacks | Pain & Power of Femininity | Brendon Urie | Jack Harkness | Flamboyant Men | Brooklyn Nine-Nine | Toxic Masculinity | Consent & Desire | Toxic Femininity | Internalized Misogyny | The Future of Gender | Split Peaches | Binders | Body Hair

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]]> Episode 98: Boxed In, Boxed Out Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:36 Let’s talk gender, folks! This week we’re discussing masculinity, femininity, why they’re good, why they’re bad, and how we hope to see them change. Crop Tops | Gender Roles | [Chivalry](https://www.acast.com/yapit/yapitantrawbearbergman) | Public Kink | Masculinity | Non-Binary | [Public Bathrooms](https://www.refugerestrooms.org/about) | Bowties & Snapbacks | Pain & Power of Femininity | Brendon Urie | Jack Harkness | Flamboyant Men | Brooklyn Nine-Nine | Toxic Masculinity | Consent & Desire | Toxic Femininity | Internalized Misogyny | The Future of Gender | [Split Peaches](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/search?x=0&y=0&q=Split+Peaches#oid=1017_1) | Binders | Body Hair Let’s talk gender, folks! This week we’re discussing masculinity, femininity, why they’re good, why they’re bad, and how we hope to see them change. Crop Tops | Gender Roles | [Chivalry](https://www.acast.com/yapit/yapitantrawbearbergman) | Public Kink | Masculinity | Non-Binary | [Public Bathrooms](https://www.refugerestrooms.org/about) | Bowties & Snapbacks | Pain & Power of Femininity | Brendon Urie | Jack Harkness | Flamboyant Men | Brooklyn Nine-Nine | Toxic Masculinity | Consent & Desire | Toxic Femininity | Internalized Misogyny | The Future of Gender | [Split Peaches](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/search?x=0&y=0&q=Split+Peaches#oid=1017_1) | Binders | Body Hair femininity, gender, masculinity, feminism true full 98 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-07-24_dd97-groupsex.mp3 Episode 97: Look At Me, Everyone! This week we’re discussing the intersections between group sex, public sex, and exhibitionism! Find out how to navigate a play party, what constitutes an orgy, and what group-sex activities we hope to try someday. 

Dildo Expulsion | Tapping Out | Gangbangs | Orgy Threshold | MGS | Negotiation | Spin the Bottle | Anxieties | First Times | Goofiness | Play Party Etiquette | Scheduling | Getting Consent | Saying No | Fisting | Jerkception | Advice | Kink vs. Sex | Spanking Motivations | #GroupSexGoals | Risk of Getting Caught | DP | Teaching

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]]> Tue, 24 Jul 2018 23:16:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-97-look-at-me-everyone-6d4dcc58 This week we’re discussing the intersections between group sex, public sex, and exhibitionism! Find out how to navigate a play party, what constitutes an orgy, and what group-sex activities we hope to try someday. 

Dildo Expulsion | Tapping Out | Gangbangs | Orgy Threshold | MGS | Negotiation | Spin the Bottle | Anxieties | First Times | Goofiness | Play Party Etiquette | Scheduling | Getting Consent | Saying No | Fisting | Jerkception | Advice | Kink vs. Sex | Spanking Motivations | #GroupSexGoals | Risk of Getting Caught | DP | Teaching

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]]> Episode 97: Look At Me, Everyone! Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:55:34 This week we’re discussing the intersections between group sex, public sex, and exhibitionism! Find out how to navigate a play party, what constitutes an orgy, and what group-sex activities we hope to try someday. Dildo Expulsion | Tapping Out | Gangbangs | Orgy Threshold | MGS | Negotiation | Spin the Bottle | Anxieties | First Times | Goofiness | Play Party Etiquette | Scheduling | Getting Consent | Saying No | Fisting | Jerkception | Advice | Kink vs. Sex | Spanking Motivations | #GroupSexGoals | Risk of Getting Caught | DP | Teaching This week we’re discussing the intersections between group sex, public sex, and exhibitionism! Find out how to navigate a play party, what constitutes an orgy, and what group-sex activities we hope to try someday. Dildo Expulsion | Tapping Out | Gangbangs | Orgy Threshold | MGS | Negotiation | Spin the Bottle | Anxieties | First Times | Goofiness | Play Party Etiquette | Scheduling | Getting Consent | Saying No | Fisting | Jerkception | Advice | Kink vs. Sex | Spanking Motivations | #GroupSexGoals | Risk of Getting Caught | DP | Teaching consent, exhibitionism, group sex true full 97 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-07-17_dd96-marcia.mp3 Episode 96: Leaps & Boundaries We're joined this week by the lovely Marcia Baczynski, speaker, writer, coach, and sexual communication expert! We touched on consent, flirting, long-distance dominance, and much more.

Good Girl Recovery Program | Field Guide to Consent | Flirting | Topping Without Toys | Punctuation | Saying the Big Scary Thing | Sharing vs. Negotiation | Vibrator-Shaming | Operator’s Manual | NRE | Desires

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]]> Tue, 17 Jul 2018 22:44:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-96-leaps-boundaries-44b17d78 We're joined this week by the lovely Marcia Baczynski, speaker, writer, coach, and sexual communication expert! We touched on consent, flirting, long-distance dominance, and much more.

Good Girl Recovery Program | Field Guide to Consent | Flirting | Topping Without Toys | Punctuation | Saying the Big Scary Thing | Sharing vs. Negotiation | Vibrator-Shaming | Operator’s Manual | NRE | Desires

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]]> Episode 96: Leaps & Boundaries Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:51:56 We're joined this week by the lovely [Marcia Baczynski](https://www.askingforwhatyouwant.com/about/), speaker, writer, coach, and sexual communication expert! We touched on consent, flirting, long-distance dominance, and much more. [Good Girl Recovery Program](http://goodgirlrecovery.com/program) | [Field Guide to Consent](https://www.askingforwhatyouwant.com/consent/) | Flirting | Topping Without Toys | Punctuation | Saying the Big Scary Thing | Sharing vs. Negotiation | Vibrator-Shaming | Operator’s Manual | NRE | Desires We're joined this week by the lovely [Marcia Baczynski](https://www.askingforwhatyouwant.com/about/), speaker, writer, coach, and sexual communication expert! We touched on consent, flirting, long-distance dominance, and much more. [Good Girl Recovery Program](http://goodgirlrecovery.com/program) | [Field Guide to Consent](https://www.askingforwhatyouwant.com/consent/) | Flirting | Topping Without Toys | Punctuation | Saying the Big Scary Thing | Sharing vs. Negotiation | Vibrator-Shaming | Operator’s Manual | NRE | Desires flirting, consent, communication true full 96 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-07-10_dd95-underrated.mp3 Episode 95: Diamonds in the Rough Sex What sex acts do you consider underrated? This week, we’re rhapsodizing the unsung heroes of our sex lives: fingerbanging, the thigh grind, making out, and more!

What Counts As Underrated? | Eva from “What’s My Body Doing?” | Tinder | Making Out | The Thigh Grind | Thigh Harnesses | Knee-Dicks | Dry-Humping | Teasing & Sneaking | Roleplay | Hand Sex | Fisting | The Butters | Flaccid Dicks | Toys | Masturbating Together | Nipple Play | Dildo BJs

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]]> Tue, 10 Jul 2018 22:26:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-95-diamonds-in-the-rough-sex-63f7bcc3 What sex acts do you consider underrated? This week, we’re rhapsodizing the unsung heroes of our sex lives: fingerbanging, the thigh grind, making out, and more!

What Counts As Underrated? | Eva from “What’s My Body Doing?” | Tinder | Making Out | The Thigh Grind | Thigh Harnesses | Knee-Dicks | Dry-Humping | Teasing & Sneaking | Roleplay | Hand Sex | Fisting | The Butters | Flaccid Dicks | Toys | Masturbating Together | Nipple Play | Dildo BJs

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]]> Episode 95: Diamonds in the Rough Sex Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:53:23 What sex acts do you consider underrated? This week, we’re rhapsodizing the unsung heroes of our sex lives: fingerbanging, the thigh grind, making out, and more! What Counts As Underrated? | [Eva from “What’s My Body Doing?”](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9hKZakiKGis) | Tinder | Making Out | The Thigh Grind | Thigh Harnesses | Knee-Dicks | Dry-Humping | Teasing & Sneaking | Roleplay | Hand Sex | Fisting | [The Butters](../../review-butters-lubes/) | Flaccid Dicks | Toys | Masturbating Together | Nipple Play | Dildo BJs What sex acts do you consider underrated? This week, we’re rhapsodizing the unsung heroes of our sex lives: fingerbanging, the thigh grind, making out, and more! What Counts As Underrated? | [Eva from “What’s My Body Doing?”](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9hKZakiKGis) | Tinder | Making Out | The Thigh Grind | Thigh Harnesses | Knee-Dicks | Dry-Humping | Teasing & Sneaking | Roleplay | Hand Sex | Fisting | [The Butters](../../review-butters-lubes/) | Flaccid Dicks | Toys | Masturbating Together | Nipple Play | Dildo BJs foreplay, roleplay, kissing true full 95 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-07-03_dd94-celibacy.mp3 Episode 94: Dryspellibacy Sometimes your sex life is about the sex you’re NOT having… This week we’re discussing dry spells, celibacy, and other sexless situations!

Sexting & Phone Sex | Longest Dry Spell | Tinder, Etc. | Craving Sex | Date Activities | Sex Distress | Trans Stuff | Masturbation | What Helps? | Sqweel | Sex Education | Toy Reviewing | Deliberate Celibacy | Sexperiments | Introversion | Asexuality | Incels | How to Become More Attractive

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]]> Wed, 4 Jul 2018 00:04:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-94-dryspellibacy-d6c08c7f Sometimes your sex life is about the sex you’re NOT having… This week we’re discussing dry spells, celibacy, and other sexless situations!

Sexting & Phone Sex | Longest Dry Spell | Tinder, Etc. | Craving Sex | Date Activities | Sex Distress | Trans Stuff | Masturbation | What Helps? | Sqweel | Sex Education | Toy Reviewing | Deliberate Celibacy | Sexperiments | Introversion | Asexuality | Incels | How to Become More Attractive

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]]> Episode 94: Dryspellibacy Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:56:53 Sometimes your sex life is about the sex you’re NOT having… This week we’re discussing dry spells, celibacy, and other sexless situations! Sexting & Phone Sex | Longest Dry Spell | Tinder, Etc. | Craving Sex | Date Activities | Sex Distress | Trans Stuff | Masturbation | What Helps? | [Sqweel](https://shevibe.com/lovehoney-sqweel-2-oral-sex-simulator-white.aspx#oid=1013_1) | Sex Education | Toy Reviewing | Deliberate Celibacy | Sexperiments | Introversion | Asexuality | Incels | [How to Become More Attractive](../../10-easy-ways-to-make-yourself-more-attractive/) Sometimes your sex life is about the sex you’re NOT having… This week we’re discussing dry spells, celibacy, and other sexless situations! Sexting & Phone Sex | Longest Dry Spell | Tinder, Etc. | Craving Sex | Date Activities | Sex Distress | Trans Stuff | Masturbation | What Helps? | [Sqweel](https://shevibe.com/lovehoney-sqweel-2-oral-sex-simulator-white.aspx#oid=1013_1) | Sex Education | Toy Reviewing | Deliberate Celibacy | Sexperiments | Introversion | Asexuality | Incels | [How to Become More Attractive](../../10-easy-ways-to-make-yourself-more-attractive/) incels, asexuality, celibacy true full 94 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-06-26_dd93-sinclair.mp3 Episode 93: Protocol Me Maybe This week we’re picking the brain of writer and kink educator Sinclair Sexsmith! We touched on punishment, protocol, confidence, consent, and so much more.

Power | Protocol | Check-Ins | Punishment | Submissive Playground | Consequences | Fears | Debriefing | Palette of Permission | Confidence | Receiving | Learning | Wheel of Consent

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]]> Tue, 26 Jun 2018 21:31:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-93-protocol-me-maybe-a383dd1f This week we’re picking the brain of writer and kink educator Sinclair Sexsmith! We touched on punishment, protocol, confidence, consent, and so much more.

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]]> Episode 93: Protocol Me Maybe Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:51:35 This week we’re picking the brain of writer and kink educator [Sinclair Sexsmith](http://www.sugarbutch.net/about/)! We touched on punishment, protocol, confidence, consent, and so much more. Power | [Protocol](https://www.autostraddle.com/view-from-the-top-protocol-361782/) | Check-Ins | Punishment | [Submissive Playground](http://www.submissiveplayground.com/) | Consequences | Fears | Debriefing | [Palette of Permission](https://www.autostraddle.com/view-from-the-top-palette-of-permission-365929/) | Confidence | Receiving | Learning | [Wheel of Consent](https://bettymartin.org/videos/) This week we’re picking the brain of writer and kink educator [Sinclair Sexsmith](http://www.sugarbutch.net/about/)! We touched on punishment, protocol, confidence, consent, and so much more. Power | [Protocol](https://www.autostraddle.com/view-from-the-top-protocol-361782/) | Check-Ins | Punishment | [Submissive Playground](http://www.submissiveplayground.com/) | Consequences | Fears | Debriefing | [Palette of Permission](https://www.autostraddle.com/view-from-the-top-palette-of-permission-365929/) | Confidence | Receiving | Learning | [Wheel of Consent](https://bettymartin.org/videos/) dominance, submission, bdsm, confidence true full 93 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-06-19_dd92-comingout.mp3 Episode 92: Out, Out, and Away What does it mean to “come out” and why is it important to us? This week we’re telling our coming-out stories and discussing the intricacies of this rite of passage.

Definition | Co-Optation? | Being Out | Bi Erasure | Kink | Biphobia | Trans | Poly | Partners | Mental Illness | Tattoos | Regrets | Advice | Parental Support | Paving the Way | Irrelevance

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]]> Tue, 19 Jun 2018 22:55:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-92-out-out-and-away-7ef9ca0c What does it mean to “come out” and why is it important to us? This week we’re telling our coming-out stories and discussing the intricacies of this rite of passage.

Definition | Co-Optation? | Being Out | Bi Erasure | Kink | Biphobia | Trans | Poly | Partners | Mental Illness | Tattoos | Regrets | Advice | Parental Support | Paving the Way | Irrelevance

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]]> Episode 92: Out, Out, and Away Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:48:28 What does it mean to “come out” and why is it important to us? This week we’re telling our coming-out stories and discussing the intricacies of this rite of passage. Definition | Co-Optation? | Being Out | Bi Erasure | Kink | Biphobia | Trans | Poly | Partners | Mental Illness | Tattoos | Regrets | Advice | Parental Support | Paving the Way | Irrelevance What does it mean to “come out” and why is it important to us? This week we’re telling our coming-out stories and discussing the intricacies of this rite of passage. Definition | Co-Optation? | Being Out | Bi Erasure | Kink | Biphobia | Trans | Poly | Partners | Mental Illness | Tattoos | Regrets | Advice | Parental Support | Paving the Way | Irrelevance gay, trans, queer, lgbt true full 92 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-06-12_dd91-pups.mp3 Episode 91: The Puppisode This week, Bex is chatting with YouTuber and kink sexpert Pup Amp and educator and queer historian Pup Dane about their mutual interest: puppy play!

Getting Started | Basics | D/s Dynamics | Pup on Pup | Play & Silliness | Headspace | Gear | Bondage | Hypnosis | Chastity | Scent | Training | Treats | Bonding | Studies | Community | Pun Game | Compatibility | Collars | Breeds

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]]> Wed, 13 Jun 2018 02:31:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-91-the-puppisode-bbcd8f4d This week, Bex is chatting with YouTuber and kink sexpert Pup Amp and educator and queer historian Pup Dane about their mutual interest: puppy play!

Getting Started | Basics | D/s Dynamics | Pup on Pup | Play & Silliness | Headspace | Gear | Bondage | Hypnosis | Chastity | Scent | Training | Treats | Bonding | Studies | Community | Pun Game | Compatibility | Collars | Breeds

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]]> Episode 91: The Puppisode Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:59:05 This week, Bex is chatting with YouTuber and kink sexpert [Pup Amp](https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCokRyLsHxh-NykvT4uA6n2g) and educator and queer historian [Pup Dane](http://talkingdogproductions.ca/) about their mutual interest: puppy play! Getting Started | Basics | D/s Dynamics | Pup on Pup | Play & Silliness | Headspace | Gear | Bondage | Hypnosis | Chastity | Scent | Training | Treats | Bonding | Studies | Community | Pun Game | Compatibility | Collars | Breeds This week, Bex is chatting with YouTuber and kink sexpert [Pup Amp](https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCokRyLsHxh-NykvT4uA6n2g) and educator and queer historian [Pup Dane](http://talkingdogproductions.ca/) about their mutual interest: puppy play! Getting Started | Basics | D/s Dynamics | Pup on Pup | Play & Silliness | Headspace | Gear | Bondage | Hypnosis | Chastity | Scent | Training | Treats | Bonding | Studies | Community | Pun Game | Compatibility | Collars | Breeds roleplay, puppy play, kink true full 91 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-06-05_dd90-djpynchon.mp3 Episode 90: Forget to Remember This week Kate is joined by DJ Pynchon, blogger, author, and erotic hypnosis enthusiast, for a lively discussion about hypnotic amnesia, winking kink, and lots more!

Mind Play | Media Influences | Puns | Misconceptions | Negotiation | Hypnotic Amnesia | Consensual Non-Consent | Company Name | Ethics | Therapeutic? | Face-Slapping Induction | Inductions | Scene Structure | Aftercare | Fractionation | Self-Hypnosis | Going Blank | Winking Kink | Hypnowink | Hot Sauce | Kinky Trifles | MindQuake

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]]> Tue, 5 Jun 2018 18:56:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-90-forget-to-remember-23023106 This week Kate is joined by DJ Pynchon, blogger, author, and erotic hypnosis enthusiast, for a lively discussion about hypnotic amnesia, winking kink, and lots more!

Mind Play | Media Influences | Puns | Misconceptions | Negotiation | Hypnotic Amnesia | Consensual Non-Consent | Company Name | Ethics | Therapeutic? | Face-Slapping Induction | Inductions | Scene Structure | Aftercare | Fractionation | Self-Hypnosis | Going Blank | Winking Kink | Hypnowink | Hot Sauce | Kinky Trifles | MindQuake

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]]> Episode 90: Forget to Remember Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:14 This week Kate is joined by [DJ Pynchon](https://twitter.com/DJPynchon), blogger, author, and erotic hypnosis enthusiast, for a lively discussion about hypnotic amnesia, winking kink, and lots more! [Mind Play](https://www.amazon.com/Mind-Play-Guide-Erotic-Hypnosis/dp/1484841034) | Media Influences | Puns | Misconceptions | Negotiation | [Hypnotic Amnesia](https://www.amazon.com/Hypnotic-Amnesia-LeeAllure/dp/1517055369/) | Consensual Non-Consent | Company Name | Ethics | Therapeutic? | Face-Slapping Induction | Inductions | Scene Structure | Aftercare | Fractionation | Self-Hypnosis | Going Blank | [Winking Kink](../../do-i-have-a-wink-kink/) | [Hypnowink](../../hypnowink-time-got-tranced-accidentally/) | Hot Sauce | [Kinky Trifles](https://www.amazon.com/Kinky-Trifles-Erotic-Short-Stories-ebook/dp/B06XZ6ST77/) | [MindQuake](http://mindquake.org) This week Kate is joined by [DJ Pynchon](https://twitter.com/DJPynchon), blogger, author, and erotic hypnosis enthusiast, for a lively discussion about hypnotic amnesia, winking kink, and lots more! [Mind Play](https://www.amazon.com/Mind-Play-Guide-Erotic-Hypnosis/dp/1484841034) | Media Influences | Puns | Misconceptions | Negotiation | [Hypnotic Amnesia](https://www.amazon.com/Hypnotic-Amnesia-LeeAllure/dp/1517055369/) | Consensual Non-Consent | Company Name | Ethics | Therapeutic? | Face-Slapping Induction | Inductions | Scene Structure | Aftercare | Fractionation | Self-Hypnosis | Going Blank | [Winking Kink](../../do-i-have-a-wink-kink/) | [Hypnowink](../../hypnowink-time-got-tranced-accidentally/) | Hot Sauce | [Kinky Trifles](https://www.amazon.com/Kinky-Trifles-Erotic-Short-Stories-ebook/dp/B06XZ6ST77/) | [MindQuake](http://mindquake.org) amnesia, winking, hypnosis true full 90 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-05-29_dd89-testosterone.mp3 Episode 89: Puber-T Bex has been on testosterone for a whole year! This week, Kate interviews him about how his body, brain, and sexuality have changed over the past year.

Greedy | Deciding to Start | Self-Injecting | Coming Out | Mania | Genital Growth | Body Hair | Fat | Face Shape | Body Smells | Social Energy | Assertiveness | Anger | Voice | Orgasms | Attractions | Porn | Fantasies | Advice

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]]> Tue, 29 May 2018 21:06:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-89-puber-t-45a40fe4 Bex has been on testosterone for a whole year! This week, Kate interviews him about how his body, brain, and sexuality have changed over the past year.

Greedy | Deciding to Start | Self-Injecting | Coming Out | Mania | Genital Growth | Body Hair | Fat | Face Shape | Body Smells | Social Energy | Assertiveness | Anger | Voice | Orgasms | Attractions | Porn | Fantasies | Advice

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]]> Episode 89: Puber-T Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:48 Bex has been on testosterone for a whole year! This week, Kate interviews him about how his body, brain, and sexuality have changed over the past year. Greedy | [Deciding to Start](http://www.bextalkssex.com/changing-love-considering-hormones-youre-non-binary/) | Self-Injecting | Coming Out | Mania | Genital Growth | Body Hair | Fat | [Face Shape](http://www.bextalkssex.com/puberty-pupdate-physical-changes/) | Body Smells | Social Energy | Assertiveness | Anger | Voice | Orgasms | Attractions | Porn | Fantasies | Advice Bex has been on testosterone for a whole year! This week, Kate interviews him about how his body, brain, and sexuality have changed over the past year. Greedy | [Deciding to Start](http://www.bextalkssex.com/changing-love-considering-hormones-youre-non-binary/) | Self-Injecting | Coming Out | Mania | Genital Growth | Body Hair | Fat | [Face Shape](http://www.bextalkssex.com/puberty-pupdate-physical-changes/) | Body Smells | Social Energy | Assertiveness | Anger | Voice | Orgasms | Attractions | Porn | Fantasies | Advice gender, testosterone, transgender, hormones true full 89 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-05-23_dd88-alteredstates.mp3 Episode 88: Hazy 'n' Spacey This week, we're having a risk-aware discussion of sex and altered states: doin' sex and kink stuff while drunk, high, sleepy, and more. Find out how we navigate these complex states and the scenes we like to incorporate them into!

Consent Issues | Agency | Negotiation | High Sex vs. Drunk Sex | Trance | Consensual Non-Consent | Suggestibility | Pain | Masturbation | Harder Drugs | Sleepy Sex | Arousal Non-Concordance | Little Space

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]]> Wed, 23 May 2018 14:10:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-88-hazy-n-spacey-f88c9917 This week, we're having a risk-aware discussion of sex and altered states: doin' sex and kink stuff while drunk, high, sleepy, and more. Find out how we navigate these complex states and the scenes we like to incorporate them into!

Consent Issues | Agency | Negotiation | High Sex vs. Drunk Sex | Trance | Consensual Non-Consent | Suggestibility | Pain | Masturbation | Harder Drugs | Sleepy Sex | Arousal Non-Concordance | Little Space

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]]> Episode 88: Hazy 'n' Spacey Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:51:42 This week, we're having a risk-aware discussion of sex and altered states: doin' sex and kink stuff while drunk, high, sleepy, and more. Find out how we navigate these complex states and the scenes we like to incorporate them into! Consent Issues | Agency | Negotiation | [High Sex vs. Drunk Sex](https://www.ignitepleasureproducts.com/blog/marijuana-vs-alcohol-sex-study) | Trance | Consensual Non-Consent | Suggestibility | Pain | Masturbation | Harder Drugs | Sleepy Sex | [Arousal Non-Concordance](https://www.ted.com/talks/emily_nagoski_the_truth_about_unwanted_arousal) | Little Space This week, we're having a risk-aware discussion of sex and altered states: doin' sex and kink stuff while drunk, high, sleepy, and more. Find out how we navigate these complex states and the scenes we like to incorporate them into! Consent Issues | Agency | Negotiation | [High Sex vs. Drunk Sex](https://www.ignitepleasureproducts.com/blog/marijuana-vs-alcohol-sex-study) | Trance | Consensual Non-Consent | Suggestibility | Pain | Masturbation | Harder Drugs | Sleepy Sex | [Arousal Non-Concordance](https://www.ted.com/talks/emily_nagoski_the_truth_about_unwanted_arousal) | Little Space communication, drugs, consent, alcohol true full 88 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-05-15_dd87-communication.mp3 Episode 87: Say It Somehow This week, we answer the question: how do you communicate well, and with love? Find out our “love languages,” our best tips for giving good compliments, and why we hate unsolicited advice from Twitter strangers.

Communication Degree | Clarity | Empathy | Active Listening | Compliments | Love Languages | Problem-Solving | Texting | Strangers

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]]> Wed, 16 May 2018 01:13:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-87-say-it-somehow-a53de1bd This week, we answer the question: how do you communicate well, and with love? Find out our “love languages,” our best tips for giving good compliments, and why we hate unsolicited advice from Twitter strangers.

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]]> Episode 87: Say It Somehow Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:52:48 This week, we answer the question: how do you communicate well, and with love? Find out our “love languages,” our best tips for giving good compliments, and why we hate unsolicited advice from Twitter strangers. Communication Degree | Clarity | Empathy | Active Listening | Compliments | [Love Languages](http://www.5lovelanguages.com/) | Problem-Solving | Texting | Strangers This week, we answer the question: how do you communicate well, and with love? Find out our “love languages,” our best tips for giving good compliments, and why we hate unsolicited advice from Twitter strangers. Communication Degree | Clarity | Empathy | Active Listening | Compliments | [Love Languages](http://www.5lovelanguages.com/) | Problem-Solving | Texting | Strangers texting, twitter, love languages, communication true full 87 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-05-08_dd86-porno.mp3 Episode 86: Porn This Way Bex just launched his new porn store as Billy Lore, so this week we’re talking about making porn! What’s fun about doing cam shows? Which porn stars do we admire? How did we pick our porn names? Tune in to find out!

ManyVids Store | Porn Names | CherryStems | Hella Positive Pinup | Spit | PervCave Productions | Dip Films | Ciné Sinclaire | Apprehensions | Crash Pad Series | Bonus Hole Boys | QueerPorn.TV | Tina Horn | Beautiful Agony | Desirability | Exhibitionism | Cam Shows | Performativity | Cute Asshole | Jerking Off to Yourself | Dream Scene

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]]> Wed, 9 May 2018 02:33:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-86-porn-this-way-e46b7d30 Bex just launched his new porn store as Billy Lore, so this week we’re talking about making porn! What’s fun about doing cam shows? Which porn stars do we admire? How did we pick our porn names? Tune in to find out!

ManyVids Store | Porn Names | CherryStems | Hella Positive Pinup | Spit | PervCave Productions | Dip Films | Ciné Sinclaire | Apprehensions | Crash Pad Series | Bonus Hole Boys | QueerPorn.TV | Tina Horn | Beautiful Agony | Desirability | Exhibitionism | Cam Shows | Performativity | Cute Asshole | Jerking Off to Yourself | Dream Scene

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]]> Episode 86: Porn This Way Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:50:46 Bex just launched his new porn store as [Billy Lore](https://twitter.com/billylore), so this week we’re talking about making porn! What’s fun about doing cam shows? Which porn stars do we admire? How did we pick our porn names? Tune in to find out! [ManyVids Store](https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/1001489346/BillyLore/) | Porn Names | [CherryStems](http://www.cherrystems.com/) | [Hella Positive Pinup](https://www.hellapositivepinup.com/) | [Spit](http://spit.exposed/) | [PervCave Productions](https://twitter.com/pervcave) | [Dip Films](https://twitter.com/dipfilms) | [Ciné Sinclaire](http://www.cinesinclaire.com/) | Apprehensions | [Crash Pad Series](http://refer.ccbill.com/cgi-bin/clicks.cgi?CA=934717-0000&PA=2451239) | [Bonus Hole Boys](http://www.bonusholeboys.com/) | [QueerPorn.TV](http://queerporn.tv/wp/) | [Tina Horn](http://tinahorn.net/) | [Beautiful Agony](http://beautifulagony.com/public/main.php) | Desirability | Exhibitionism | Cam Shows | Performativity | Cute Asshole | Jerking Off to Yourself | Dream Scene Bex just launched his new porn store as [Billy Lore](https://twitter.com/billylore), so this week we’re talking about making porn! What’s fun about doing cam shows? Which porn stars do we admire? How did we pick our porn names? Tune in to find out! [ManyVids Store](https://www.manyvids.com/Profile/1001489346/BillyLore/) | Porn Names | [CherryStems](http://www.cherrystems.com/) | [Hella Positive Pinup](https://www.hellapositivepinup.com/) | [Spit](http://spit.exposed/) | [PervCave Productions](https://twitter.com/pervcave) | [Dip Films](https://twitter.com/dipfilms) | [Ciné Sinclaire](http://www.cinesinclaire.com/) | Apprehensions | [Crash Pad Series](http://refer.ccbill.com/cgi-bin/clicks.cgi?CA=934717-0000&PA=2451239) | [Bonus Hole Boys](http://www.bonusholeboys.com/) | [QueerPorn.TV](http://queerporn.tv/wp/) | [Tina Horn](http://tinahorn.net/) | [Beautiful Agony](http://beautifulagony.com/public/main.php) | Desirability | Exhibitionism | Cam Shows | Performativity | Cute Asshole | Jerking Off to Yourself | Dream Scene porn, sex work, camming true full 86 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-05-01_dd85-ageplay.mp3 Episode 85: Let's Get Little CONTENT NOTES for this episode: consensually roleplaying as a little girl, little boy, daddy, mommy, or siblings; incest roleplay and actual incest; child abuse; adult baby roleplay and diapers; teenage sex; consensual and nonconsensual bullying; nonconsensual spanking; student and teacher roleplays; coerced sex; prison; homophobia and homophobic slurs; drunk sex; high sex; rape fantasies

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Taboo | Incest | Bullying | Trauma | Spanking | Shame | Content Warnings | Nurturing | Corruption of Innocence | Puberty | Girl Bullies | Psychology | Break-Ups & Aftercare | Not My Ageplay | Regression | Other Littles | Mommy Doms | Events

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]]> Wed, 2 May 2018 03:09:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-85-lets-get-little-b5c7aacd CONTENT NOTES for this episode: consensually roleplaying as a little girl, little boy, daddy, mommy, or siblings; incest roleplay and actual incest; child abuse; adult baby roleplay and diapers; teenage sex; consensual and nonconsensual bullying; nonconsensual spanking; student and teacher roleplays; coerced sex; prison; homophobia and homophobic slurs; drunk sex; high sex; rape fantasies

This week we're discussing a complex and controversial kink: age play! Find out why we think it's hot, some of the ways it can be problematic, and what extra emotional safety measures we recommend for these types of dynamics.

Taboo | Incest | Bullying | Trauma | Spanking | Shame | Content Warnings | Nurturing | Corruption of Innocence | Puberty | Girl Bullies | Psychology | Break-Ups & Aftercare | Not My Ageplay | Regression | Other Littles | Mommy Doms | Events

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]]> Episode 85: Let's Get Little Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:51:35 CONTENT NOTES for this episode: consensually roleplaying as a little girl, little boy, daddy, mommy, or siblings; incest roleplay and actual incest; child abuse; adult baby roleplay and diapers; teenage sex; consensual and nonconsensual bullying; nonconsensual spanking; student and teacher roleplays; coerced sex; prison; homophobia and homophobic slurs; drunk sex; high sex; rape fantasies This week we're discussing a complex and controversial kink: age play! Find out why we think it's hot, some of the ways it can be problematic, and what extra emotional safety measures we recommend for these types of dynamics. Taboo | Incest | Bullying | Trauma | Spanking | Shame | Content Warnings | Nurturing | Corruption of Innocence | Puberty | Girl Bullies | Psychology | Break-Ups & Aftercare | Not My Ageplay | Regression | Other Littles | Mommy Doms | Events CONTENT NOTES for this episode: consensually roleplaying as a little girl, little boy, daddy, mommy, or siblings; incest roleplay and actual incest; child abuse; adult baby roleplay and diapers; teenage sex; consensual and nonconsensual bullying; nonconsensual spanking; student and teacher roleplays; coerced sex; prison; homophobia and homophobic slurs; drunk sex; high sex; rape fantasies This week we're discussing a complex and controversial kink: age play! Find out why we think it's hot, some of the ways it can be problematic, and what extra emotional safety measures we recommend for these types of dynamics. Taboo | Incest | Bullying | Trauma | Spanking | Shame | Content Warnings | Nurturing | Corruption of Innocence | Puberty | Girl Bullies | Psychology | Break-Ups & Aftercare | Not My Ageplay | Regression | Other Littles | Mommy Doms | Events taboo, roleplay, kink true full 85 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-04-24_dd84-420.mp3 Episode 84: Highpotheticals It's our traditional yearly 4/20 episode! Hear us get blazed and debate the merits of clone sex, impact toys as zombie murder weapons, and whether or not we'd fuck Buzz Lightyear, among other things.

Clones | Zombie Apocalypse | Sex Toys | Googly Eyes | New Kinks | Muffins | Parents & Porn | Aliens | Monsters, Inc. & Toy Story | Workshops | Ideal Porn Scene

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]]> Tue, 24 Apr 2018 21:11:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-84-highpotheticals-a8959384 It's our traditional yearly 4/20 episode! Hear us get blazed and debate the merits of clone sex, impact toys as zombie murder weapons, and whether or not we'd fuck Buzz Lightyear, among other things.

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]]> Episode 84: Highpotheticals Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:40:39 It's our traditional yearly 4/20 episode! Hear us get blazed and debate the merits of clone sex, impact toys as zombie murder weapons, and whether or not we'd fuck Buzz Lightyear, among other things. Clones | Zombie Apocalypse | Sex Toys | Googly Eyes | New Kinks | Muffins | Parents & Porn | Aliens | Monsters, Inc. & Toy Story | Workshops | Ideal Porn Scene It's our traditional yearly 4/20 episode! Hear us get blazed and debate the merits of clone sex, impact toys as zombie murder weapons, and whether or not we'd fuck Buzz Lightyear, among other things. Clones | Zombie Apocalypse | Sex Toys | Googly Eyes | New Kinks | Muffins | Parents & Porn | Aliens | Monsters, Inc. & Toy Story | Workshops | Ideal Porn Scene best friends, marijuana, kink true full 84 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-04-18_dd83-mxnillin.mp3 Episode 83: Ready For This Jelly This week we’re gigglin’ with sex blogger Mx Nillin about their ingenious blog series “Mx Nillin Fucks,” wherein they masturbate with various weird objects. This conversation was so fun!

Girl Cock | Mx Nillin Fucks | Apple Pie | Teddy Bear | Safety | Absurdity | Peanut Butter Sandwich | Pool Noodle | Lube | Jell-O | Hard Limits | Clone-a-Willy | Tom of Finland Dual Dicks | Future Ambitions | Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit

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]]> Wed, 18 Apr 2018 14:53:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-83-ready-for-this-jelly-ce0a9e5d This week we’re gigglin’ with sex blogger Mx Nillin about their ingenious blog series “Mx Nillin Fucks,” wherein they masturbate with various weird objects. This conversation was so fun!

Girl Cock | Mx Nillin Fucks | Apple Pie | Teddy Bear | Safety | Absurdity | Peanut Butter Sandwich | Pool Noodle | Lube | Jell-O | Hard Limits | Clone-a-Willy | Tom of Finland Dual Dicks | Future Ambitions | Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit

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]]> Episode 83: Ready For This Jelly Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:45:14 This week we’re gigglin’ with sex blogger [Mx Nillin](http://mxnillin.com/) about their ingenious blog series “[Mx Nillin Fucks](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks/),” wherein they masturbate with various weird objects. This conversation was so fun! Girl Cock | [Mx Nillin Fucks](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks/) | [Apple Pie](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks-apple-pie/) | [Teddy Bear](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks-a-teddy-bear/) | Safety | Absurdity | [Peanut Butter Sandwich](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks-peanut-butter-jelly/) | [Pool Noodle](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks-a-pool-noodle/) | Lube | [Jell-O](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks-jello/) | Hard Limits | [Clone-a-Willy](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks-themself-part-one/) | [Tom of Finland Dual Dicks](http://www.bextalkssex.com/review-tom-of-finland-dual-dicks/) | Future Ambitions | [Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit](https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/) This week we’re gigglin’ with sex blogger [Mx Nillin](http://mxnillin.com/) about their ingenious blog series “[Mx Nillin Fucks](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks/),” wherein they masturbate with various weird objects. This conversation was so fun! Girl Cock | [Mx Nillin Fucks](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks/) | [Apple Pie](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks-apple-pie/) | [Teddy Bear](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks-a-teddy-bear/) | Safety | Absurdity | [Peanut Butter Sandwich](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks-peanut-butter-jelly/) | [Pool Noodle](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks-a-pool-noodle/) | Lube | [Jell-O](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks-jello/) | Hard Limits | [Clone-a-Willy](http://mxnillin.com/mx-nillin-fucks-themself-part-one/) | [Tom of Finland Dual Dicks](http://www.bextalkssex.com/review-tom-of-finland-dual-dicks/) | Future Ambitions | [Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit](https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/) sex toys, sex ed, masturbation true full 83 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-04-10_dd82-dawnserra.mp3 Episode 82: Grown-Up Playtime This week we’re talking with Dawn Serra, sex educator, sex and relationship coach, and founder of the Explore More Summit! We chatted about parenting, play, self-acceptance, and more.

Explore More Summit | Watersports | Curiosity & Play | Barbara Carrellas | Sex-Positive Parenting | MakeLoveNotPorn.TV | Karen BK Chan | Sinclair Sexsmith | Coming Out | Self-Love & Diet Culture | Interviewing | Fun

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]]> Wed, 11 Apr 2018 02:08:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-82-grown-up-playtime-f64df53e This week we’re talking with Dawn Serra, sex educator, sex and relationship coach, and founder of the Explore More Summit! We chatted about parenting, play, self-acceptance, and more.

Explore More Summit | Watersports | Curiosity & Play | Barbara Carrellas | Sex-Positive Parenting | MakeLoveNotPorn.TV | Karen BK Chan | Sinclair Sexsmith | Coming Out | Self-Love & Diet Culture | Interviewing | Fun

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]]> Episode 82: Grown-Up Playtime Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:57:02 This week we’re talking with [Dawn Serra](https://www.dawnserra.com/), sex educator, sex and relationship coach, and founder of the [Explore More Summit](https://gumroad.com/a/678081651)! We chatted about parenting, play, self-acceptance, and more. [Explore More Summit](https://gumroad.com/a/678081651) | Watersports | Curiosity & Play | Barbara Carrellas | Sex-Positive Parenting | [MakeLoveNotPorn.TV](https://makelovenotporn.tv/) | Karen BK Chan | Sinclair Sexsmith | Coming Out | Self-Love & Diet Culture | Interviewing | Fun This week we’re talking with [Dawn Serra](https://www.dawnserra.com/), sex educator, sex and relationship coach, and founder of the [Explore More Summit](https://gumroad.com/a/678081651)! We chatted about parenting, play, self-acceptance, and more. [Explore More Summit](https://gumroad.com/a/678081651) | Watersports | Curiosity & Play | Barbara Carrellas | Sex-Positive Parenting | [MakeLoveNotPorn.TV](https://makelovenotporn.tv/) | Karen BK Chan | Sinclair Sexsmith | Coming Out | Self-Love & Diet Culture | Interviewing | Fun communication, parenting, play true full 82 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-04-03_dd81-sexedfaq2.mp3 Episode 81: More Paprika In part 2 of our sex educator FAQ, learn how to get good at dirty talk, how we got so confident talking about sex, and what the Dildorks TARDIS would look like, among other things.

American Idiot | Squirting | TARDIS | Dirty Talk | Yes/No/Maybe List | Sexting | Confidence Journey | Spicing Things Up | Normal | Sensate Focus BJ | Dark Odyssey | AltSex

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]]> Wed, 4 Apr 2018 01:12:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-81-more-paprika-ca4aa035 In part 2 of our sex educator FAQ, learn how to get good at dirty talk, how we got so confident talking about sex, and what the Dildorks TARDIS would look like, among other things.

American Idiot | Squirting | TARDIS | Dirty Talk | Yes/No/Maybe List | Sexting | Confidence Journey | Spicing Things Up | Normal | Sensate Focus BJ | Dark Odyssey | AltSex

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]]> Episode 81: More Paprika Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:39:48 In part 2 of our sex educator FAQ, learn how to get good at dirty talk, how we got so confident talking about sex, and what the Dildorks TARDIS would look like, among other things. American Idiot | Squirting | TARDIS | Dirty Talk | [Yes/No/Maybe List](http://www.bextalkssex.com/yes-no-maybe/) | [Sexting](http://www.powells.com/book/sexting-9781592337057?partnerid=44315&p_ti) | Confidence Journey | Spicing Things Up | Normal | [Sensate Focus BJ](https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a19635461/sensate-focus-masters-johnson-blow-job/) | [Dark Odyssey](http://darkodyssey.com/) | [AltSex](http://altsexnycconference.org/about/) In part 2 of our sex educator FAQ, learn how to get good at dirty talk, how we got so confident talking about sex, and what the Dildorks TARDIS would look like, among other things. American Idiot | Squirting | TARDIS | Dirty Talk | [Yes/No/Maybe List](http://www.bextalkssex.com/yes-no-maybe/) | [Sexting](http://www.powells.com/book/sexting-9781592337057?partnerid=44315&p_ti) | Confidence Journey | Spicing Things Up | Normal | [Sensate Focus BJ](https://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a19635461/sensate-focus-masters-johnson-blow-job/) | [Dark Odyssey](http://darkodyssey.com/) | [AltSex](http://altsexnycconference.org/about/) dirty talk, sex education, confidence true full 81 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-03-27_dd80-sexedfaq.mp3 Episode 80: FAQs of S-E-X This week we’re answering some sex-educator FAQs! Hear our Hot Takes on butt stuff, deepthroating, and dick size, among other things…

“Educate Me” | Convincing a Partner | Disclosures | The Best Sex Toy | Invasive Creeps | Butt Stuff | The Butters | Njoy Pfun | Fun Factory Bootie | Tantus Neo | Dick Size | BigDickProblems | How to Orgasm | Deepthroating | 4/20 Episode

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]]> Wed, 28 Mar 2018 01:39:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-80-faqs-of-s-e-x-70417e86 This week we’re answering some sex-educator FAQs! Hear our Hot Takes on butt stuff, deepthroating, and dick size, among other things…

“Educate Me” | Convincing a Partner | Disclosures | The Best Sex Toy | Invasive Creeps | Butt Stuff | The Butters | Njoy Pfun | Fun Factory Bootie | Tantus Neo | Dick Size | BigDickProblems | How to Orgasm | Deepthroating | 4/20 Episode

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]]> Episode 80: FAQs of S-E-X Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:55:00 This week we’re answering some sex-educator FAQs! Hear our Hot Takes on butt stuff, deepthroating, and dick size, among other things… “Educate Me” | Convincing a Partner | Disclosures | The Best Sex Toy | Invasive Creeps | Butt Stuff | The Butters | Njoy Pfun | Fun Factory Bootie | Tantus Neo | Dick Size | BigDickProblems | How to Orgasm | Deepthroating | 4/20 Episode This week we’re answering some sex-educator FAQs! Hear our Hot Takes on butt stuff, deepthroating, and dick size, among other things… “Educate Me” | Convincing a Partner | Disclosures | The Best Sex Toy | Invasive Creeps | Butt Stuff | The Butters | Njoy Pfun | Fun Factory Bootie | Tantus Neo | Dick Size | BigDickProblems | How to Orgasm | Deepthroating | 4/20 Episode sex toys, sex education true full 80 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-03-20_dd79-negotiation.mp3 Episode 79: Luv 2 Negoti8 Negotiation is a crucial kink skill, and this week we’re sharing our best tips! Find out our fave questions to ask, common negotiation pitfalls, and how to navigate awkward pre-scene discussions.

Vanilla Negotiation | Trans Folks | Negotiation Cheat Sheet | Mid-Scene | Contracts | Blame Someone | Options | Kink Voices | Limits | When Scenes Fail | Marks | Aftercare | Doms’ Needs | Fave Questions | Going Nonverbal | Pausing | NobEssence Seduction | Tantus Uncut #1 | “What Are You Into?” | Time Constraints | Dark Odyssey

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]]> Wed, 21 Mar 2018 02:21:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-79-luv-2-negoti8-aa7e37a4 Negotiation is a crucial kink skill, and this week we’re sharing our best tips! Find out our fave questions to ask, common negotiation pitfalls, and how to navigate awkward pre-scene discussions.

Vanilla Negotiation | Trans Folks | Negotiation Cheat Sheet | Mid-Scene | Contracts | Blame Someone | Options | Kink Voices | Limits | When Scenes Fail | Marks | Aftercare | Doms’ Needs | Fave Questions | Going Nonverbal | Pausing | NobEssence Seduction | Tantus Uncut #1 | “What Are You Into?” | Time Constraints | Dark Odyssey

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]]> Episode 79: Luv 2 Negoti8 Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:46:03 Negotiation is a crucial kink skill, and this week we’re sharing our best tips! Find out our fave questions to ask, common negotiation pitfalls, and how to navigate awkward pre-scene discussions. Vanilla Negotiation | Trans Folks | [Negotiation Cheat Sheet](http://www.robot-hugs.com/negotiation-resources/) | Mid-Scene | Contracts | Blame Someone | Options | Kink Voices | Limits | When Scenes Fail | Marks | Aftercare | Doms’ Needs | Fave Questions | Going Nonverbal | Pausing | [NobEssence Seduction](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/nobessence-seduction-sculptured-wood-dildo) | [Tantus Uncut #1](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/uncut-1-dual-density-o2-silicone-dildo-by-tantus) | “What Are You Into?” | Time Constraints | [Dark Odyssey](http://darkodyssey.com/) Negotiation is a crucial kink skill, and this week we’re sharing our best tips! Find out our fave questions to ask, common negotiation pitfalls, and how to navigate awkward pre-scene discussions. Vanilla Negotiation | Trans Folks | [Negotiation Cheat Sheet](http://www.robot-hugs.com/negotiation-resources/) | Mid-Scene | Contracts | Blame Someone | Options | Kink Voices | Limits | When Scenes Fail | Marks | Aftercare | Doms’ Needs | Fave Questions | Going Nonverbal | Pausing | [NobEssence Seduction](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/nobessence-seduction-sculptured-wood-dildo) | [Tantus Uncut #1](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/products/uncut-1-dual-density-o2-silicone-dildo-by-tantus) | “What Are You Into?” | Time Constraints | [Dark Odyssey](http://darkodyssey.com/) communication, bdsm, kink true full 79 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-03-13_dd78-money.mp3 Episode 78: Happy Spending This week we’re giving you our two cents about financial domination, cash fetishism, and sugar daddies! Find out why we’re into these kinks, how you can play with them, and how to navigate awkward money situations on dates.

Why Are People Into Cash? | Paying For Dates | Cheap Dates | Findom | Sugar Daddies | Bank Balance | Presents | Cash | Money Anxiety | Peepshow Toys | Cissplaining | Furniture | Con Sched | Phone Sex | Ace in the Hole

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]]> Tue, 13 Mar 2018 20:14:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-78-happy-spending-f0e14940 This week we’re giving you our two cents about financial domination, cash fetishism, and sugar daddies! Find out why we’re into these kinks, how you can play with them, and how to navigate awkward money situations on dates.

Why Are People Into Cash? | Paying For Dates | Cheap Dates | Findom | Sugar Daddies | Bank Balance | Presents | Cash | Money Anxiety | Peepshow Toys | Cissplaining | Furniture | Con Sched | Phone Sex | Ace in the Hole

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]]> Episode 78: Happy Spending Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:56 This week we’re giving you our two cents about financial domination, cash fetishism, and sugar daddies! Find out why we’re into these kinks, how you can play with them, and how to navigate awkward money situations on dates. [Why Are People Into Cash?](https://www.acast.com/yapit/51-loreleilee-cashpt1) | Paying For Dates | Cheap Dates | Findom | Sugar Daddies | Bank Balance | Presents | Cash | Money Anxiety | [Peepshow Toys](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/) | [Cissplaining](https://twitter.com/BexTalksSex/status/970414068317282306) | Furniture | Con Sched | Phone Sex | [Ace in the Hole](http://aceinthehole.co/) This week we’re giving you our two cents about financial domination, cash fetishism, and sugar daddies! Find out why we’re into these kinks, how you can play with them, and how to navigate awkward money situations on dates. [Why Are People Into Cash?](https://www.acast.com/yapit/51-loreleilee-cashpt1) | Paying For Dates | Cheap Dates | Findom | Sugar Daddies | Bank Balance | Presents | Cash | Money Anxiety | [Peepshow Toys](https://www.peepshowtoys.com/) | [Cissplaining](https://twitter.com/BexTalksSex/status/970414068317282306) | Furniture | Con Sched | Phone Sex | [Ace in the Hole](http://aceinthehole.co/) fetish, findom, money true full 78 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-03-06_dd77-playground.mp3 Episode 77: Con-persion We just got back from the Playground Conference in Toronto! Find out what we learned from the sessions we attended, what conference protocol is and why we like it, and what kinds of sex we had at the con!

Cum-Covered Clothes | Opening Plenary | Overwhelm | Kevin Patterson | Turning Fantasies Into Realities | Psychology of BDSM | Polyamory & Masculinity | Intersectional Dating | Blowjobs | Ask a Sadist | Live Show | Protocol | Marco Polo | Con Sex | Aftercare | Tote Bag

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]]> Wed, 7 Mar 2018 02:42:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-77-con-persion-16302fb0 We just got back from the Playground Conference in Toronto! Find out what we learned from the sessions we attended, what conference protocol is and why we like it, and what kinds of sex we had at the con!

Cum-Covered Clothes | Opening Plenary | Overwhelm | Kevin Patterson | Turning Fantasies Into Realities | Psychology of BDSM | Polyamory & Masculinity | Intersectional Dating | Blowjobs | Ask a Sadist | Live Show | Protocol | Marco Polo | Con Sex | Aftercare | Tote Bag

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]]> Episode 77: Con-persion Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:47:34 We just got back from the [Playground Conference](http://playgroundconf.com/) in Toronto! Find out what we learned from the sessions we attended, what conference protocol is and why we like it, and what kinds of sex we had at the con! Cum-Covered Clothes | [Opening Plenary](http://playgroundconf.com/sessions/living-out-loud/) | Overwhelm | [Kevin Patterson](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-73-polygoals/) | [Turning Fantasies Into Realities](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/967440994428846081) | [Psychology of BDSM](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/967466068078870528) | [Polyamory & Masculinity](https://www.facebook.com/polyrolemodels/videos/1600479536671937/) | [Intersectional Dating](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/967809680599801857) | [Blowjobs](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/967783735998500864) | [Ask a Sadist](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/967862175522988032) | [Live Show](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-76-just-plane-hot/) | [Protocol](http://www.bextalkssex.com/conferenceprotocol/) | [Marco Polo](https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=co.happybits.marcopolo&hl=en) | Con Sex | Aftercare | [Tote Bag](http://girly.click/dorktote) We just got back from the [Playground Conference](http://playgroundconf.com/) in Toronto! Find out what we learned from the sessions we attended, what conference protocol is and why we like it, and what kinds of sex we had at the con! Cum-Covered Clothes | [Opening Plenary](http://playgroundconf.com/sessions/living-out-loud/) | Overwhelm | [Kevin Patterson](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-73-polygoals/) | [Turning Fantasies Into Realities](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/967440994428846081) | [Psychology of BDSM](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/967466068078870528) | [Polyamory & Masculinity](https://www.facebook.com/polyrolemodels/videos/1600479536671937/) | [Intersectional Dating](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/967809680599801857) | [Blowjobs](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/967783735998500864) | [Ask a Sadist](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/967862175522988032) | [Live Show](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-76-just-plane-hot/) | [Protocol](http://www.bextalkssex.com/conferenceprotocol/) | [Marco Polo](https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=co.happybits.marcopolo&hl=en) | Con Sex | Aftercare | [Tote Bag](http://girly.click/dorktote) protocol, polyamory, playground conference true full 77 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-02-27_dd76-travel.mp3 Episode 76: Just Plane Hot Here’s the live show we recorded at the Playground Conference in Toronto! We talked about sex and travel: which toys are our suitcase must-haves, how we handle TSA snafus, why we love hotel sex so much, and more!

Hellish Bus Ride | Bag of Dicks | Travel Locks | We-Vibe Tango | Tenga SVR | Crave Vesper | TSA Tips | Njoy Eleven | Packers & Collars | Tindering on the Road | Sexpectations | Protocol | Hotel Sex | Sex Work Stigma | Anxiety | Fisting Day | Discreet Toys | TENS Unit

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]]> Tue, 27 Feb 2018 17:12:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-76-just-plane-hot-bf68aded Here’s the live show we recorded at the Playground Conference in Toronto! We talked about sex and travel: which toys are our suitcase must-haves, how we handle TSA snafus, why we love hotel sex so much, and more!

Hellish Bus Ride | Bag of Dicks | Travel Locks | We-Vibe Tango | Tenga SVR | Crave Vesper | TSA Tips | Njoy Eleven | Packers & Collars | Tindering on the Road | Sexpectations | Protocol | Hotel Sex | Sex Work Stigma | Anxiety | Fisting Day | Discreet Toys | TENS Unit

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]]> Episode 76: Just Plane Hot Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:48:40 Here’s the live show we recorded at the [Playground Conference](http://playgroundconf.com) in Toronto! We talked about sex and travel: which toys are our suitcase must-haves, how we handle TSA snafus, why we love hotel sex so much, and more! Hellish Bus Ride | Bag of Dicks | Travel Locks | [We-Vibe Tango](../../10-reasons-we-vibe-tango-favorite-clitoral-vibrator/) | [Tenga SVR](https://shevibe.com/tenga-smart-vibe-ring-silicone-rechargeable-vibrating-cock-ring-black.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Crave Vesper](https://shevibe.com/vesper-rechargeable-necklace-vibrator-24k-gold-plated-by-crave.aspx#oid=1056_1) | TSA Tips | [Njoy Eleven](../../review-njoy-eleven/) | Packers & Collars | Tindering on the Road | Sexpectations | Protocol | Hotel Sex | Sex Work Stigma | Anxiety | Fisting Day | Discreet Toys | TENS Unit Here’s the live show we recorded at the [Playground Conference](http://playgroundconf.com) in Toronto! We talked about sex and travel: which toys are our suitcase must-haves, how we handle TSA snafus, why we love hotel sex so much, and more! Hellish Bus Ride | Bag of Dicks | Travel Locks | [We-Vibe Tango](../../10-reasons-we-vibe-tango-favorite-clitoral-vibrator/) | [Tenga SVR](https://shevibe.com/tenga-smart-vibe-ring-silicone-rechargeable-vibrating-cock-ring-black.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Crave Vesper](https://shevibe.com/vesper-rechargeable-necklace-vibrator-24k-gold-plated-by-crave.aspx#oid=1056_1) | TSA Tips | [Njoy Eleven](../../review-njoy-eleven/) | Packers & Collars | Tindering on the Road | Sexpectations | Protocol | Hotel Sex | Sex Work Stigma | Anxiety | Fisting Day | Discreet Toys | TENS Unit travel, tsa, tinder true full 76 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-02-20_dd75-joanna.mp3 Episode 75: Screws Your Own Adventure This week Kate interviews porn legend Joanna Angel, of the Burning Angel Empire, about her new venture: a choose-your-own-adventure erotic novel, Night Shift! We talked masturbation, erotica ethics, tattoos, and more.

Authorly Ambitions | Porn Scripts | Book Feedback | Night Shift | Varied Voices | Trucker Culture | Masturbation | Consent | Rachel Kramer Bussel | Sex Vocabulary | Pegging | Tattoos | Doom’s Whiskey

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]]> Wed, 21 Feb 2018 00:35:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-75-screws-your-own-adventure-ccebe858 This week Kate interviews porn legend Joanna Angel, of the Burning Angel Empire, about her new venture: a choose-your-own-adventure erotic novel, Night Shift! We talked masturbation, erotica ethics, tattoos, and more.

Authorly Ambitions | Porn Scripts | Book Feedback | Night Shift | Varied Voices | Trucker Culture | Masturbation | Consent | Rachel Kramer Bussel | Sex Vocabulary | Pegging | Tattoos | Doom’s Whiskey

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]]> Episode 75: Screws Your Own Adventure Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:50:02 This week Kate interviews porn legend [Joanna Angel](https://www.joannaangel.com), of the [Burning Angel Empire](https://www.burningangel.com/en), about her new venture: a choose-your-own-adventure erotic novel, [Night Shift](https://www.amazon.com/Night-Shift-Choose-Your-Own-Erotic-Fantasy/dp/1627782885/)! We talked masturbation, erotica ethics, tattoos, and more. Authorly Ambitions | Porn Scripts | Book Feedback | [Night Shift](https://www.amazon.com/Night-Shift-Choose-Your-Own-Erotic-Fantasy/dp/1627782885/) | Varied Voices | Trucker Culture | Masturbation | Consent | [Rachel Kramer Bussel](http://rachelkramerbussel.com/) | Sex Vocabulary | Pegging | Tattoos | [Doom’s Whiskey](http://doomswhiskey.com/index.html) This week Kate interviews porn legend [Joanna Angel](https://www.joannaangel.com), of the [Burning Angel Empire](https://www.burningangel.com/en), about her new venture: a choose-your-own-adventure erotic novel, [Night Shift](https://www.amazon.com/Night-Shift-Choose-Your-Own-Erotic-Fantasy/dp/1627782885/)! We talked masturbation, erotica ethics, tattoos, and more. Authorly Ambitions | Porn Scripts | Book Feedback | [Night Shift](https://www.amazon.com/Night-Shift-Choose-Your-Own-Erotic-Fantasy/dp/1627782885/) | Varied Voices | Trucker Culture | Masturbation | Consent | [Rachel Kramer Bussel](http://rachelkramerbussel.com/) | Sex Vocabulary | Pegging | Tattoos | [Doom’s Whiskey](http://doomswhiskey.com/index.html) erotica, joanna angel, porn true full 75 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-02-15_dd74-overrated.mp3 Episode 74: Vibration Frustration Not all sex toys live up to their hype! This week we discussed some of the most overrated toys on the market, why they suck, and how they could be better.

#SexToyReviewerLyfe | Toy Hype | Stronic Eins | Rabbit Vibes | We-Vibe Nova | Magic Wand | TooTimid.com | Discreet Sex Toys | Pink BOB Lust Silicone Rechargeable Wand | Pink BOB 10-Function Silicone Anal Plug | Sybian | Cowgirl | Beginner Kink Toys | Couples’ Toys | We-Vibe Sync | VixSkin | Njoy

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]]> Thu, 15 Feb 2018 17:27:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-74-vibration-frustration-b4e3c89a Not all sex toys live up to their hype! This week we discussed some of the most overrated toys on the market, why they suck, and how they could be better.

#SexToyReviewerLyfe | Toy Hype | Stronic Eins | Rabbit Vibes | We-Vibe Nova | Magic Wand | TooTimid.com | Discreet Sex Toys | Pink BOB Lust Silicone Rechargeable Wand | Pink BOB 10-Function Silicone Anal Plug | Sybian | Cowgirl | Beginner Kink Toys | Couples’ Toys | We-Vibe Sync | VixSkin | Njoy

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]]> Episode 74: Vibration Frustration Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:54 Not all sex toys live up to their hype! This week we discussed some of the most overrated toys on the market, why they suck, and how they could be better. #SexToyReviewerLyfe | Toy Hype | [Stronic Eins](../../review-fun-factory-stronic-eins/) | Rabbit Vibes | [We-Vibe Nova](../../review-vibe-nova/) | [Magic Wand](../../review-magic-wand-rechargeable/) | [TooTimid.com](http://tootimid.com/) | Discreet Sex Toys | [Pink BOB Lust Silicone Rechargeable Wand](https://www.tootimid.com/Pink-BOB-Lust-Silicone-Rechargeable-Wand-8260.html) | [Pink BOB 10-Function Silicone Anal Plug](https://www.tootimid.com/Pink-BOB-10-Function-Silicone-Anal-Plug-8343.html) | Sybian | [Cowgirl](http://synergymag.com.au/the-cowgirl-museum-of-sex-partner-for-month-long-exhibit/) | Beginner Kink Toys | Couples’ Toys | We-Vibe Sync | [VixSkin](http://www.bextalkssex.com/vixskin-mustang-review/) | Njoy Not all sex toys live up to their hype! This week we discussed some of the most overrated toys on the market, why they suck, and how they could be better. #SexToyReviewerLyfe | Toy Hype | [Stronic Eins](../../review-fun-factory-stronic-eins/) | Rabbit Vibes | [We-Vibe Nova](../../review-vibe-nova/) | [Magic Wand](../../review-magic-wand-rechargeable/) | [TooTimid.com](http://tootimid.com/) | Discreet Sex Toys | [Pink BOB Lust Silicone Rechargeable Wand](https://www.tootimid.com/Pink-BOB-Lust-Silicone-Rechargeable-Wand-8260.html) | [Pink BOB 10-Function Silicone Anal Plug](https://www.tootimid.com/Pink-BOB-10-Function-Silicone-Anal-Plug-8343.html) | Sybian | [Cowgirl](http://synergymag.com.au/the-cowgirl-museum-of-sex-partner-for-month-long-exhibit/) | Beginner Kink Toys | Couples’ Toys | We-Vibe Sync | [VixSkin](http://www.bextalkssex.com/vixskin-mustang-review/) | Njoy sex toys, vibrator, dildo true full 74 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-02-07_dd73-kevin.mp3 Episode 73: PolyGoals This week we talked to Kevin Patterson from Poly Role Models, a blog about the diversity of experiences and identities in polyamorous communities. We touched on jealousy, compersion, poly screw-ups, and more!

Poly Role Models | Caribana Threesome | Cautionary Poly | Customer Service | Edu-Dating | Communication | Identities | Poly & Race | Love’s Not Color Blind | Thick Skin | Masculinity | Growth | Flirty Energy | Jealousy | Steven Universe | Compersion | Definitions | Playground Conference

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]]> Wed, 7 Feb 2018 19:54:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-73-polygoals-278ab101 This week we talked to Kevin Patterson from Poly Role Models, a blog about the diversity of experiences and identities in polyamorous communities. We touched on jealousy, compersion, poly screw-ups, and more!

Poly Role Models | Caribana Threesome | Cautionary Poly | Customer Service | Edu-Dating | Communication | Identities | Poly & Race | Love’s Not Color Blind | Thick Skin | Masculinity | Growth | Flirty Energy | Jealousy | Steven Universe | Compersion | Definitions | Playground Conference

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]]> Episode 73: PolyGoals Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:48:15 This week we talked to Kevin Patterson from [Poly Role Models](http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/), a blog about the diversity of experiences and identities in polyamorous communities. We touched on jealousy, compersion, poly screw-ups, and more! [Poly Role Models](http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/) | Caribana Threesome | [Cautionary Poly](http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/post/150786381352/cautionary-poly-kevin-patterson) | Customer Service | Edu-Dating | Communication | Identities | Poly & Race | [Love’s Not Color Blind](https://www.amazon.com/Loves-Not-Color-Blind-Representation/dp/1944934464) | Thick Skin | Masculinity | Growth | Flirty Energy | Jealousy | Steven Universe | Compersion | Definitions | [Playground Conference](http://www.playgroundconf.com) This week we talked to Kevin Patterson from [Poly Role Models](http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/), a blog about the diversity of experiences and identities in polyamorous communities. We touched on jealousy, compersion, poly screw-ups, and more! [Poly Role Models](http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/) | Caribana Threesome | [Cautionary Poly](http://polyrolemodels.tumblr.com/post/150786381352/cautionary-poly-kevin-patterson) | Customer Service | Edu-Dating | Communication | Identities | Poly & Race | [Love’s Not Color Blind](https://www.amazon.com/Loves-Not-Color-Blind-Representation/dp/1944934464) | Thick Skin | Masculinity | Growth | Flirty Energy | Jealousy | Steven Universe | Compersion | Definitions | [Playground Conference](http://www.playgroundconf.com) dating, relationships, non-monogamy, polyamory true full 73 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-01-30_dd72-vanilla.mp3 Episode 72: Vanilla With Sprinkles Relationships between kinksters and vanilla people aren’t inherently doomed! This week we discuss navigating these mixed-orientation connections: how to make compromises, assuage fears, and communicate clearly.

Kink Without Sex | Service | Vanillas vs. Kinksters | Tickling | Inner Monologues | Why Do You Like That? | How to Get a Vanilla Person to Spank You | Media Hints | 50 Shades of Kink | Playing Well With Others | Gateway Kink | Scat Story | Check-Ins | “Into Everything” | Crying | Creativity | Baby Doms

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]]> Tue, 30 Jan 2018 22:04:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-72-vanilla-with-sprinkles-b002b8e7 Relationships between kinksters and vanilla people aren’t inherently doomed! This week we discuss navigating these mixed-orientation connections: how to make compromises, assuage fears, and communicate clearly.

Kink Without Sex | Service | Vanillas vs. Kinksters | Tickling | Inner Monologues | Why Do You Like That? | How to Get a Vanilla Person to Spank You | Media Hints | 50 Shades of Kink | Playing Well With Others | Gateway Kink | Scat Story | Check-Ins | “Into Everything” | Crying | Creativity | Baby Doms

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]]> Episode 72: Vanilla With Sprinkles Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:44:04 Relationships between kinksters and vanilla people aren’t inherently doomed! This week we discuss navigating these mixed-orientation connections: how to make compromises, assuage fears, and communicate clearly. Kink Without Sex | Service | Vanillas vs. Kinksters | Tickling | Inner Monologues | Why Do You Like That? | [How to Get a Vanilla Person to Spank You](../../how-to-get-a-vanilla-person-to-spank-you-properly/) | Media Hints | [50 Shades of Kink](https://www.amazon.com/50-Shades-Kink-Introduction-BDSM/dp/1627780300/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1517349790&sr=8-1&keywords=50+shades+of+kink) | [Playing Well With Others](https://www.amazon.com/Playing-Well-Others-Discovering-Communities/dp/0937609587/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1517349804&sr=1-1&keywords=playing+well+with+others) | Gateway Kink | [Scat Story](http://risk-show.com/podcast/out-of-the-blue/) | Check-Ins | “Into Everything” | Crying | Creativity | Baby Doms Relationships between kinksters and vanilla people aren’t inherently doomed! This week we discuss navigating these mixed-orientation connections: how to make compromises, assuage fears, and communicate clearly. Kink Without Sex | Service | Vanillas vs. Kinksters | Tickling | Inner Monologues | Why Do You Like That? | [How to Get a Vanilla Person to Spank You](../../how-to-get-a-vanilla-person-to-spank-you-properly/) | Media Hints | [50 Shades of Kink](https://www.amazon.com/50-Shades-Kink-Introduction-BDSM/dp/1627780300/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1517349790&sr=8-1&keywords=50+shades+of+kink) | [Playing Well With Others](https://www.amazon.com/Playing-Well-Others-Discovering-Communities/dp/0937609587/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1517349804&sr=1-1&keywords=playing+well+with+others) | Gateway Kink | [Scat Story](http://risk-show.com/podcast/out-of-the-blue/) | Check-Ins | “Into Everything” | Crying | Creativity | Baby Doms relationships, bdsm, kink, communication true full 72 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-01-23_dd71-qa.mp3 Episode 71: Kinky Queeries This week we tackled some questions from listeners (and one from Kate). Hear us weigh in on cultivating a desire to masturbate, sex party etiquette, unpacking toxic masculinity, and more!

Reid Mihalko | Barista Crush | Masturbation Motivation | Repopulate Your Sexual Fantasies | Erogenous Zones | Erotica | Toxic Masculinity | Sex Science | Play Parties | Non-Monogamy

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]]> Tue, 23 Jan 2018 21:28:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-71-kinky-queeries-5a891e5a This week we tackled some questions from listeners (and one from Kate). Hear us weigh in on cultivating a desire to masturbate, sex party etiquette, unpacking toxic masculinity, and more!

Reid Mihalko | Barista Crush | Masturbation Motivation | Repopulate Your Sexual Fantasies | Erogenous Zones | Erotica | Toxic Masculinity | Sex Science | Play Parties | Non-Monogamy

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]]> Episode 71: Kinky Queeries Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:00:04 This week we tackled some questions from listeners (and one from Kate). Hear us weigh in on cultivating a desire to masturbate, sex party etiquette, unpacking toxic masculinity, and more! [Reid Mihalko](https://www.thedailybeast.com/porn-star-accuses-famed-sex-and-relationship-expert-reid-mihalko-of-sexual-misconduct) | Barista Crush | Masturbation Motivation | [Repopulate Your Sexual Fantasies](../../how-to-repopulate-your-sexual-fantasies/) | Erogenous Zones | Erotica | Toxic Masculinity | Sex Science | Play Parties | Non-Monogamy This week we tackled some questions from listeners (and one from Kate). Hear us weigh in on cultivating a desire to masturbate, sex party etiquette, unpacking toxic masculinity, and more! [Reid Mihalko](https://www.thedailybeast.com/porn-star-accuses-famed-sex-and-relationship-expert-reid-mihalko-of-sexual-misconduct) | Barista Crush | Masturbation Motivation | [Repopulate Your Sexual Fantasies](../../how-to-repopulate-your-sexual-fantasies/) | Erogenous Zones | Erotica | Toxic Masculinity | Sex Science | Play Parties | Non-Monogamy feminism, dating, erotica, flirting, masturbation true full 71 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-01-16_dd70-reid.mp3 Episode 70: Reid the Room (NOTE: We've opted to leave this episode up because we still think the info in it is valuable – but we have heard the recent accusations levelled against Reid, and we believe them. We'll discuss this in more detail next week.)

We were so excited to talk to one of our fave sex educators this week, Reid Mihalko! He’s a communication mega-nerd like us, so we discussed flirting, consent, body language, and more.

Sex Geek T-Shirts | Shame Literacy | Family Dynamics | Shame Party | Sluts vs. Musicians | Marvel Comics | Safer Sex Elevator Speech | Difficult Conversation Formula | Speed-Flirting | Embrace the Awkward | Power Disparities | Meta-Communication | Body Language | 50 Hot Ways to Ask For Consent | The Truth | Racism | Ruining the Moment | Dating Newbies | Wine Glass

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]]> Sat, 20 Jan 2018 18:36:41 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-70-reid-the-room-2859069d (NOTE: We've opted to leave this episode up because we still think the info in it is valuable – but we have heard the recent accusations levelled against Reid, and we believe them. We'll discuss this in more detail next week.)

We were so excited to talk to one of our fave sex educators this week, Reid Mihalko! He’s a communication mega-nerd like us, so we discussed flirting, consent, body language, and more.

Sex Geek T-Shirts | Shame Literacy | Family Dynamics | Shame Party | Sluts vs. Musicians | Marvel Comics | Safer Sex Elevator Speech | Difficult Conversation Formula | Speed-Flirting | Embrace the Awkward | Power Disparities | Meta-Communication | Body Language | 50 Hot Ways to Ask For Consent | The Truth | Racism | Ruining the Moment | Dating Newbies | Wine Glass

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]]> Episode 70: Reid the Room Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:13:23 (NOTE: We've opted to leave this episode up because we still think the info in it is valuable – but we have heard the [recent accusations levelled against Reid](https://www.thedailybeast.com/porn-star-accuses-famed-sex-and-relationship-expert-reid-mihalko-of-sexual-misconduct), and we believe them. We'll discuss this in more detail next week.) We were so excited to talk to one of our fave sex educators this week, [Reid Mihalko](http://reidaboutsex.com/)! He’s a communication mega-nerd like us, so we discussed flirting, consent, body language, and more. Sex Geek T-Shirts | Shame Literacy | Family Dynamics | Shame Party | Sluts vs. Musicians | Marvel Comics | Safer Sex Elevator Speech | Difficult Conversation Formula | Speed-Flirting | Embrace the Awkward | Power Disparities | Meta-Communication | Body Language | 50 Hot Ways to Ask For Consent | The Truth | Racism | Ruining the Moment | Dating Newbies | Wine Glass (NOTE: We've opted to leave this episode up because we still think the info in it is valuable – but we have heard the [recent accusations levelled against Reid](https://www.thedailybeast.com/porn-star-accuses-famed-sex-and-relationship-expert-reid-mihalko-of-sexual-misconduct), and we believe them. We'll discuss this in more detail next week.) We were so excited to talk to one of our fave sex educators this week, [Reid Mihalko](http://reidaboutsex.com/)! He’s a communication mega-nerd like us, so we discussed flirting, consent, body language, and more. Sex Geek T-Shirts | Shame Literacy | Family Dynamics | Shame Party | Sluts vs. Musicians | Marvel Comics | Safer Sex Elevator Speech | Difficult Conversation Formula | Speed-Flirting | Embrace the Awkward | Power Disparities | Meta-Communication | Body Language | 50 Hot Ways to Ask For Consent | The Truth | Racism | Ruining the Moment | Dating Newbies | Wine Glass consent, communication, flirting true full 70 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-01-09_dd69-69.mp3 Episode 69: Sixty-Whine For our 69th episode, we discussed the contentious sex act of 69ing! Find out why we usually don't like it, which factors make us like it better, and what other reciprocal sex acts we dig.

Sex Robots | 420 | Distraction | Twitter Poll | Romantic Sex | Power Exchange | Positions | Insecurities | Overwhelm | One-Sided | Kink Game | Reciprocality | Dominant Bottom | From Above | Fuck 69 | Choking

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]]> Tue, 9 Jan 2018 21:46:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-69-sixty-whine-7a22022b For our 69th episode, we discussed the contentious sex act of 69ing! Find out why we usually don't like it, which factors make us like it better, and what other reciprocal sex acts we dig.

Sex Robots | 420 | Distraction | Twitter Poll | Romantic Sex | Power Exchange | Positions | Insecurities | Overwhelm | One-Sided | Kink Game | Reciprocality | Dominant Bottom | From Above | Fuck 69 | Choking

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]]> Episode 69: Sixty-Whine Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:39:00 For our 69th episode, we discussed the contentious sex act of 69ing! Find out why we usually don't like it, which factors make us like it better, and what other reciprocal sex acts we dig. Sex Robots | 420 | Distraction | [Twitter Poll](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/948544690554593280) | Romantic Sex | Power Exchange | Positions | Insecurities | Overwhelm | One-Sided | Kink Game | Reciprocality | [Dominant Bottom](http://www.bextalkssex.com/dominant-dalliances/) | From Above | [Fuck 69](https://rachellark.bandcamp.com/track/fuck-69) | Choking For our 69th episode, we discussed the contentious sex act of 69ing! Find out why we usually don't like it, which factors make us like it better, and what other reciprocal sex acts we dig. Sex Robots | 420 | Distraction | [Twitter Poll](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/948544690554593280) | Romantic Sex | Power Exchange | Positions | Insecurities | Overwhelm | One-Sided | Kink Game | Reciprocality | [Dominant Bottom](http://www.bextalkssex.com/dominant-dalliances/) | From Above | [Fuck 69](https://rachellark.bandcamp.com/track/fuck-69) | Choking bdsm, sex positions, 69 true full 69 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2018-01-02_dd68-2018.mp3 Episode 68: Happy Screw Year Happy new year, babes! This week we took stock of how we did on our 2017 sex goals and set some new ones for 2018. Hear about dates we went on, good and bad decisions we made, and what kinks we want to explore this year.

First Orgasms | New Year’s Eve | Kink Events | Quality Over Quantity | Dates | Twitter | Fisting | Vulva Stuff | Porn | Teaching | Intentions | Hypnokink | Being Loaned Out | Bootblacking | CBT | Forced Orgasms | Sexy on Camera | Dom Side | Dissociation | Body-Shaming | Consistency | Comfort

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]]> Tue, 2 Jan 2018 22:43:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-68-happy-screw-year-8223f474 Happy new year, babes! This week we took stock of how we did on our 2017 sex goals and set some new ones for 2018. Hear about dates we went on, good and bad decisions we made, and what kinks we want to explore this year.

First Orgasms | New Year’s Eve | Kink Events | Quality Over Quantity | Dates | Twitter | Fisting | Vulva Stuff | Porn | Teaching | Intentions | Hypnokink | Being Loaned Out | Bootblacking | CBT | Forced Orgasms | Sexy on Camera | Dom Side | Dissociation | Body-Shaming | Consistency | Comfort

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]]> Episode 68: Happy Screw Year Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:56:49 Happy new year, babes! This week we took stock of how we did on our 2017 sex goals and set some new ones for 2018. Hear about dates we went on, good and bad decisions we made, and what kinks we want to explore this year. First Orgasms | New Year’s Eve | Kink Events | Quality Over Quantity | Dates | Twitter | Fisting | Vulva Stuff | Porn | Teaching | Intentions | Hypnokink | Being Loaned Out | Bootblacking | CBT | Forced Orgasms | Sexy on Camera | Dom Side | Dissociation | Body-Shaming | Consistency | Comfort Happy new year, babes! This week we took stock of how we did on our 2017 sex goals and set some new ones for 2018. Hear about dates we went on, good and bad decisions we made, and what kinks we want to explore this year. First Orgasms | New Year’s Eve | Kink Events | Quality Over Quantity | Dates | Twitter | Fisting | Vulva Stuff | Porn | Teaching | Intentions | Hypnokink | Being Loaned Out | Bootblacking | CBT | Forced Orgasms | Sexy on Camera | Dom Side | Dissociation | Body-Shaming | Consistency | Comfort anxiety, sex goals, online dating, new year true full 68 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-12-27_dd67-yearinreview.mp3 Episode 67: Twentysevenpeen Did your 2017 sizzle or fizzle? This week's our year in review: we discussed our best and worst sex of the year, our favorite locations in which we banged, and the new kinks we picked up along the way.

Sex Spreadsheet | Not Enough Sex | Permission to Come | Kink Katamari | Types of Pain | Locations | Group Sex at Camp | Partners | Romantic Kink | Bad Sex

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]]> Wed, 27 Dec 2017 19:32:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-67-twentysevenpeen-a455d56d Did your 2017 sizzle or fizzle? This week's our year in review: we discussed our best and worst sex of the year, our favorite locations in which we banged, and the new kinks we picked up along the way.

Sex Spreadsheet | Not Enough Sex | Permission to Come | Kink Katamari | Types of Pain | Locations | Group Sex at Camp | Partners | Romantic Kink | Bad Sex

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]]> Episode 67: Twentysevenpeen Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:55:48 Did your 2017 sizzle or fizzle? This week's our year in review: we discussed our best and worst sex of the year, our favorite locations in which we banged, and the new kinks we picked up along the way. Sex Spreadsheet | Not Enough Sex | Permission to Come | Kink Katamari | Types of Pain | Locations | Group Sex at Camp | Partners | Romantic Kink | Bad Sex Did your 2017 sizzle or fizzle? This week's our year in review: we discussed our best and worst sex of the year, our favorite locations in which we banged, and the new kinks we picked up along the way. Sex Spreadsheet | Not Enough Sex | Permission to Come | Kink Katamari | Types of Pain | Locations | Group Sex at Camp | Partners | Romantic Kink | Bad Sex bdsm, group sex, romance, new year true full 67 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-12-19_dd66-holidaze.mp3 Episode 66: Holigays Happy holidays, dorks! Here's an episode about navigating this festive season as a weirdo/queerdo. We discuss wintertime traditions, family snafus, and the importance of jerkin' it as the year "comes" to a close.

Festive Fucking | Christmas Music | Feast of the 7 Fishes | Holiday Kinks | Traditions | Baking | Birthday Blowjob | Stressturbation | Over-Gendering | Poly Quandaries | Self-Care | Field Reports | Liberal Bigots | Party Buddies | Baby It's Cold Outside | Wholesomeness | Service Sub | Switchiness | Playground Conference

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]]> Wed, 20 Dec 2017 02:22:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-66-holigays-3da41224 Happy holidays, dorks! Here's an episode about navigating this festive season as a weirdo/queerdo. We discuss wintertime traditions, family snafus, and the importance of jerkin' it as the year "comes" to a close.

Festive Fucking | Christmas Music | Feast of the 7 Fishes | Holiday Kinks | Traditions | Baking | Birthday Blowjob | Stressturbation | Over-Gendering | Poly Quandaries | Self-Care | Field Reports | Liberal Bigots | Party Buddies | Baby It's Cold Outside | Wholesomeness | Service Sub | Switchiness | Playground Conference

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]]> Episode 66: Holigays Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:47:18 Happy holidays, dorks! Here's an episode about navigating this festive season as a weirdo/queerdo. We discuss wintertime traditions, family snafus, and the importance of jerkin' it as the year "comes" to a close. Festive Fucking | Christmas Music | Feast of the 7 Fishes | Holiday Kinks | Traditions | Baking | Birthday Blowjob | Stressturbation | Over-Gendering | Poly Quandaries | Self-Care | Field Reports | Liberal Bigots | Party Buddies | Baby It's Cold Outside | Wholesomeness | Service Sub | Switchiness | [Playground Conference](http://playgroundconf.com) Happy holidays, dorks! Here's an episode about navigating this festive season as a weirdo/queerdo. We discuss wintertime traditions, family snafus, and the importance of jerkin' it as the year "comes" to a close. Festive Fucking | Christmas Music | Feast of the 7 Fishes | Holiday Kinks | Traditions | Baking | Birthday Blowjob | Stressturbation | Over-Gendering | Poly Quandaries | Self-Care | Field Reports | Liberal Bigots | Party Buddies | Baby It's Cold Outside | Wholesomeness | Service Sub | Switchiness | [Playground Conference](http://playgroundconf.com) true full 66 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-12-12_dd65-aspot.mp3 Episode 65: Fornix Rising We're bringing our A-spot A-game this week to talk about the little-known anterior fornix erogenous zone! Find out how we discovered this spot, how we like ours touched, and what toys work best for this task.

UTI | A Vs. G | Dr. Chee Ann's Study | Vixen Outlaw and Maverick | "Press Here For Orgasm" | Length Fantasies | Instructing Partners | Fingerbanging | Cervix | Orgasms | Overstimulation | Firm Vs. Squishy | Double Trouble | Snake Dick | Perfect Dick | The Dildork | Straight Men | Size Anxiety | Half-Asleep | Standard Glass S-Curve | Glamour Piece | 2nd Clit

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]]> Wed, 13 Dec 2017 05:14:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-65-fornix-rising-943f0f6f We're bringing our A-spot A-game this week to talk about the little-known anterior fornix erogenous zone! Find out how we discovered this spot, how we like ours touched, and what toys work best for this task.

UTI | A Vs. G | Dr. Chee Ann's Study | Vixen Outlaw and Maverick | "Press Here For Orgasm" | Length Fantasies | Instructing Partners | Fingerbanging | Cervix | Orgasms | Overstimulation | Firm Vs. Squishy | Double Trouble | Snake Dick | Perfect Dick | The Dildork | Straight Men | Size Anxiety | Half-Asleep | Standard Glass S-Curve | Glamour Piece | 2nd Clit

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]]> Episode 65: Fornix Rising Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:52:54 We're bringing our A-spot A-game this week to talk about the little-known anterior fornix erogenous zone! Find out how we discovered this spot, how we like ours touched, and what toys work best for this task. UTI | A Vs. G | Dr. Chee Ann's Study | Vixen Outlaw and Maverick | "Press Here For Orgasm" | Length Fantasies | Instructing Partners | Fingerbanging | Cervix | Orgasms | Overstimulation | Firm Vs. Squishy | Double Trouble | Snake Dick | Perfect Dick | The Dildork | Straight Men | Size Anxiety | Half-Asleep | Standard Glass S-Curve | Glamour Piece | 2nd Clit We're bringing our A-spot A-game this week to talk about the little-known anterior fornix erogenous zone! Find out how we discovered this spot, how we like ours touched, and what toys work best for this task. UTI | A Vs. G | Dr. Chee Ann's Study | Vixen Outlaw and Maverick | "Press Here For Orgasm" | Length Fantasies | Instructing Partners | Fingerbanging | Cervix | Orgasms | Overstimulation | Firm Vs. Squishy | Double Trouble | Snake Dick | Perfect Dick | The Dildork | Straight Men | Size Anxiety | Half-Asleep | Standard Glass S-Curve | Glamour Piece | 2nd Clit anterior fornix, vagina, anatomy true full 65 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-12-05_dd64-max.mp3 Episode 64: One Dildork, One Drummer Bex is sick this week so Kate is joined by her brother, Max Bornstein, drummer for garage rock band Goodbye Honolulu and co-founder/director of Toronto label Fried Records. We chatted about touring, dating fans, and our deeply embarrassing creative collaborations.

Radio Free Calamity | Goodbye Honolulu | Introversion | Sideboard | No Chill | Fox Martindale | Dating Fans | Gene Simmons | Approaching Band Crushes | Disagreements | Ass | Our Mom | Impressions | Snapchat Nudes | Stealing | Cavern Show | Missy Bauman | Sexy Music | Everybody Loves Raymond | Sex Myths | Fried Records | Inspirational Songstress

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]]> Wed, 6 Dec 2017 03:45:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-64-one-dildork-one-drummer-f61faa20 Bex is sick this week so Kate is joined by her brother, Max Bornstein, drummer for garage rock band Goodbye Honolulu and co-founder/director of Toronto label Fried Records. We chatted about touring, dating fans, and our deeply embarrassing creative collaborations.

Radio Free Calamity | Goodbye Honolulu | Introversion | Sideboard | No Chill | Fox Martindale | Dating Fans | Gene Simmons | Approaching Band Crushes | Disagreements | Ass | Our Mom | Impressions | Snapchat Nudes | Stealing | Cavern Show | Missy Bauman | Sexy Music | Everybody Loves Raymond | Sex Myths | Fried Records | Inspirational Songstress

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]]> Episode 64: One Dildork, One Drummer Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:57:52 Bex is sick this week so Kate is joined by her brother, [Max Bornstein](https://www.maxbornsteintunes.com/), drummer for garage rock band [Goodbye Honolulu](http://www.goodbyehonolulu.com/) and co-founder/director of Toronto label [Fried Records](https://friedrecords.bandcamp.com/). We chatted about touring, dating fans, and our deeply embarrassing creative collaborations. Radio Free Calamity | [Goodbye Honolulu](http://www.goodbyehonolulu.com/) | Introversion | [Sideboard](https://soundcloud.com/sideboard) | No Chill | [Fox Martindale](http://www.rookiemag.com/2014/05/theme-song-fox-anna-collins/) | Dating Fans | Gene Simmons | Approaching Band Crushes | Disagreements | Ass | [Our Mom](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-35-mother-to-a-brother/) | Impressions | Snapchat Nudes | Stealing | [Cavern Show](https://www.facebook.com/events/302444236907856/) | [Missy Bauman](../../interview-singersongwriter-missy-bauman-girlhood-motherhood-brave/) | [Sexy Music](http://katesloan.com/track/casual) | Everybody Loves Raymond | Sex Myths | [Fried Records](https://friedrecords.bandcamp.com/) | [Inspirational Songstress](https://inspirationalsongstress.weebly.com/this-months-inspirational-songstress/inspirational-songstres-4-kate-sloan) Bex is sick this week so Kate is joined by her brother, [Max Bornstein](https://www.maxbornsteintunes.com/), drummer for garage rock band [Goodbye Honolulu](http://www.goodbyehonolulu.com/) and co-founder/director of Toronto label [Fried Records](https://friedrecords.bandcamp.com/). We chatted about touring, dating fans, and our deeply embarrassing creative collaborations. Radio Free Calamity | [Goodbye Honolulu](http://www.goodbyehonolulu.com/) | Introversion | [Sideboard](https://soundcloud.com/sideboard) | No Chill | [Fox Martindale](http://www.rookiemag.com/2014/05/theme-song-fox-anna-collins/) | Dating Fans | Gene Simmons | Approaching Band Crushes | Disagreements | Ass | [Our Mom](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-35-mother-to-a-brother/) | Impressions | Snapchat Nudes | Stealing | [Cavern Show](https://www.facebook.com/events/302444236907856/) | [Missy Bauman](../../interview-singersongwriter-missy-bauman-girlhood-motherhood-brave/) | [Sexy Music](http://katesloan.com/track/casual) | Everybody Loves Raymond | Sex Myths | [Fried Records](https://friedrecords.bandcamp.com/) | [Inspirational Songstress](https://inspirationalsongstress.weebly.com/this-months-inspirational-songstress/inspirational-songstres-4-kate-sloan) goodbye honolulu, music, radio free calamity true full 64 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-11-28_dd63-fluids.mp3 Episode 63: Wet-à-Tête Things are about to get messy: this week we discussed sexual fluids! Find out our thoughts and feelings on cum, piss, blood, sweat, spit, and all manner of other lascivious liquids.

Earwax | Drinking Piss | Power | The Devil's Deal | Facial Etiquette | Creampies | Bad Date | Blood | Period Sex | Spit | Sweat | Body Smells | Pheromones | Vomit | Sweaty Sex | Boots | Natural Harvest

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]]> Wed, 29 Nov 2017 04:44:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-63-wet-a-tete-4381a810 Things are about to get messy: this week we discussed sexual fluids! Find out our thoughts and feelings on cum, piss, blood, sweat, spit, and all manner of other lascivious liquids.

Earwax | Drinking Piss | Power | The Devil's Deal | Facial Etiquette | Creampies | Bad Date | Blood | Period Sex | Spit | Sweat | Body Smells | Pheromones | Vomit | Sweaty Sex | Boots | Natural Harvest

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]]> Episode 63: Wet-à-Tête Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:44:12 Things are about to get messy: this week we discussed sexual fluids! Find out our thoughts and feelings on cum, piss, blood, sweat, spit, and all manner of other lascivious liquids. Earwax | Drinking [Piss](http://www.bextalkssex.com/twelve-things-learned-sfs17-wasnt-workshops/) | Power | [The Devil's Deal](https://twitter.com/BexTalksSex/status/922950094621761536) | Facial Etiquette | Creampies | Bad Date | Blood | Period Sex | Spit | Sweat | Body Smells | Pheromones | Vomit | Sweaty Sex | Boots | [Natural Harvest](https://www.amazon.com/Natural-Harvest-collection-semen-based-recipes/dp/1481227041) Things are about to get messy: this week we discussed sexual fluids! Find out our thoughts and feelings on cum, piss, blood, sweat, spit, and all manner of other lascivious liquids. Earwax | Drinking [Piss](http://www.bextalkssex.com/twelve-things-learned-sfs17-wasnt-workshops/) | Power | [The Devil's Deal](https://twitter.com/BexTalksSex/status/922950094621761536) | Facial Etiquette | Creampies | Bad Date | Blood | Period Sex | Spit | Sweat | Body Smells | Pheromones | Vomit | Sweaty Sex | Boots | [Natural Harvest](https://www.amazon.com/Natural-Harvest-collection-semen-based-recipes/dp/1481227041) sweat, watersports, health true full 63 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-11-22_dd62-thanks.mp3 Episode 62: Bratitude We were both in a real weird mood this week and it shows. Whoops. Enjoy this mess of an episode about gratitude, recent aggravations, and life as a Sex Person.

Pizza & Video Games | Spanking | Listener Appreciation | Sex Friends & Vanilla Friends | Thank You | Gift-Giving | Reaction Anxiety | Hobbies | Buck Angel | Misgendering | Phone Sex | Feedback | Morning-After Text | Dating Your Species | 50 Hot Ways to Ask For Consent | PizzASMR

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]]> Wed, 22 Nov 2017 15:40:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-62-bratitude-f0201e96 We were both in a real weird mood this week and it shows. Whoops. Enjoy this mess of an episode about gratitude, recent aggravations, and life as a Sex Person.

Pizza & Video Games | Spanking | Listener Appreciation | Sex Friends & Vanilla Friends | Thank You | Gift-Giving | Reaction Anxiety | Hobbies | Buck Angel | Misgendering | Phone Sex | Feedback | Morning-After Text | Dating Your Species | 50 Hot Ways to Ask For Consent | PizzASMR

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]]> Episode 62: Bratitude Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:10 We were both in a real weird mood this week and it shows. Whoops. Enjoy this mess of an episode about gratitude, recent aggravations, and life as a Sex Person. Pizza & Video Games | Spanking | Listener Appreciation | Sex Friends & Vanilla Friends | Thank You | Gift-Giving | Reaction Anxiety | Hobbies | [Buck Angel](https://twitter.com/BexTalksSex/status/930866673279782912) | [Misgendering](http://www.bextalkssex.com/really-hear-misgender/) | Phone Sex | Feedback | Morning-After Text | [Dating Your Species](http://reidaboutsex.com/are-you-dating-your-species/) | [50 Hot Ways to Ask For Consent](../../50-hot-ways-ask-consent/) | PizzASMR We were both in a real weird mood this week and it shows. Whoops. Enjoy this mess of an episode about gratitude, recent aggravations, and life as a Sex Person. Pizza & Video Games | Spanking | Listener Appreciation | Sex Friends & Vanilla Friends | Thank You | Gift-Giving | Reaction Anxiety | Hobbies | [Buck Angel](https://twitter.com/BexTalksSex/status/930866673279782912) | [Misgendering](http://www.bextalkssex.com/really-hear-misgender/) | Phone Sex | Feedback | Morning-After Text | [Dating Your Species](http://reidaboutsex.com/are-you-dating-your-species/) | [50 Hot Ways to Ask For Consent](../../50-hot-ways-ask-consent/) | PizzASMR gratitude, communication, trans true full 62 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-11-14_dd61-labels.mp3 Episode 61: Bi Bi Bi This week, a civil discussion of sexual labels devolves into a rant about bisexual erasure before your very ears! Find out what labels we do and don't use, how our identities have shifted over time, and what rage-inducing things people say and do to bisexuals.

Validity | SuicideGirls | Coming Out | Gender Shifts | Super Gay | Binary | "Not Queer Enough" | Self-Erasure | Boyf | Double Standard | The Power of Dick | FYI, Still Bi | Label-Free | Sapiosexuality | Kink Identities | Non-Monogamy | Carpet-Munching Bitch

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]]> Wed, 15 Nov 2017 04:43:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-61-bi-bi-bi-d4f2c324 This week, a civil discussion of sexual labels devolves into a rant about bisexual erasure before your very ears! Find out what labels we do and don't use, how our identities have shifted over time, and what rage-inducing things people say and do to bisexuals.

Validity | SuicideGirls | Coming Out | Gender Shifts | Super Gay | Binary | "Not Queer Enough" | Self-Erasure | Boyf | Double Standard | The Power of Dick | FYI, Still Bi | Label-Free | Sapiosexuality | Kink Identities | Non-Monogamy | Carpet-Munching Bitch

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]]> Episode 61: Bi Bi Bi Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:53:20 This week, a civil discussion of sexual labels devolves into a rant about bisexual erasure before your very ears! Find out what labels we do and don't use, how our identities have shifted over time, and what rage-inducing things people say and do to bisexuals. Validity | SuicideGirls | Coming Out | Gender Shifts | Super Gay | Binary | "Not Queer Enough" | Self-Erasure | Boyf | Double Standard | The Power of Dick | FYI, Still Bi | Label-Free | Sapiosexuality | Kink Identities | Non-Monogamy | Carpet-Munching Bitch This week, a civil discussion of sexual labels devolves into a rant about bisexual erasure before your very ears! Find out what labels we do and don't use, how our identities have shifted over time, and what rage-inducing things people say and do to bisexuals. Validity | SuicideGirls | Coming Out | Gender Shifts | Super Gay | Binary | "Not Queer Enough" | Self-Erasure | Boyf | Double Standard | The Power of Dick | FYI, Still Bi | Label-Free | Sapiosexuality | Kink Identities | Non-Monogamy | Carpet-Munching Bitch lgbt, bisexual, queer, lgbtq true full 61 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-11-07_dd60-princesskali.mp3 Episode 60: Blushing and Gushing Our guest this week is Princess Kali, author, former pro domme, and erotic humiliation expert! We chatted with her about the appeal of humiliation play, how to approach it thoughtfully, and why some people love being humiliated.

Organization | Enough to Make You Blush | Creativity | Emotional Language | Negotiation | Cultural Context | Scene-Starter Deck | Topping From the Bottom | Small Penis Humiliation | Body Image | Therapeutic Kink | Kink vs. Abuse | Tips for Doms | Aftercare | Collaboration | Kink Academy

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]]> Wed, 8 Nov 2017 02:46:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-60-blushing-and-gushing-24692ba6 Our guest this week is Princess Kali, author, former pro domme, and erotic humiliation expert! We chatted with her about the appeal of humiliation play, how to approach it thoughtfully, and why some people love being humiliated.

Organization | Enough to Make You Blush | Creativity | Emotional Language | Negotiation | Cultural Context | Scene-Starter Deck | Topping From the Bottom | Small Penis Humiliation | Body Image | Therapeutic Kink | Kink vs. Abuse | Tips for Doms | Aftercare | Collaboration | Kink Academy

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]]> Episode 60: Blushing and Gushing Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:52:27 Our guest this week is [Princess Kali](http://www.coachingbykali.com/), author, former pro domme, and erotic humiliation expert! We chatted with her about the appeal of humiliation play, how to approach it thoughtfully, and why some people love being humiliated. Organization | [Enough to Make You Blush](http://www.enoughtomakeyoublush.com/) | Creativity | Emotional Language | Negotiation | Cultural Context | [Scene-Starter Deck](http://www.enoughtomakeyoublush.com/scene-starter-deck/) | Topping From the Bottom | Small Penis Humiliation | Body Image | Therapeutic Kink | Kink vs. Abuse | Tips for Doms | Aftercare | Collaboration | [Kink Academy](http://www.kinkacademy.com/) Our guest this week is [Princess Kali](http://www.coachingbykali.com/), author, former pro domme, and erotic humiliation expert! We chatted with her about the appeal of humiliation play, how to approach it thoughtfully, and why some people love being humiliated. Organization | [Enough to Make You Blush](http://www.enoughtomakeyoublush.com/) | Creativity | Emotional Language | Negotiation | Cultural Context | [Scene-Starter Deck](http://www.enoughtomakeyoublush.com/scene-starter-deck/) | Topping From the Bottom | Small Penis Humiliation | Body Image | Therapeutic Kink | Kink vs. Abuse | Tips for Doms | Aftercare | Collaboration | [Kink Academy](http://www.kinkacademy.com/) bdsm, humiliation, kink true full 60 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-11-01_dd59-50sog.mp3 Episode 59: Fifty Shades of Garbage This year for Halloween, we watched the scariest thing we could think of: Fifty Shades of Grey! Get your hands on the unrated version and watch along with us – or just listen as we complain about the coerced consent, food thievery, and bad accents in this nightmare of a movie.

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]]> Wed, 1 Nov 2017 19:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-59-fifty-shades-of-garbage-0e540f25 This year for Halloween, we watched the scariest thing we could think of: Fifty Shades of Grey! Get your hands on the unrated version and watch along with us – or just listen as we complain about the coerced consent, food thievery, and bad accents in this nightmare of a movie.

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]]> Episode 59: Fifty Shades of Garbage Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:33:23 This year for Halloween, we watched the scariest thing we could think of: Fifty Shades of Grey! Get your hands on the unrated version and watch along with us – or just listen as we complain about the coerced consent, food thievery, and bad accents in this nightmare of a movie. (Sorry for those few minutes of silence around 46:00 where we had connection issues! Feel free to skip past 'em.) This year for Halloween, we watched the scariest thing we could think of: Fifty Shades of Grey! Get your hands on the unrated version and watch along with us – or just listen as we complain about the coerced consent, food thievery, and bad accents in this nightmare of a movie. (Sorry for those few minutes of silence around 46:00 where we had connection issues! Feel free to skip past 'em.) 50 shades of grey, kink, consent true full 59 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-10-24_dd58-fwb.mp3 Episode 58: Cumpanions Friends with benefits: a fantastic idea, often poorly executed! This week we're discussing FWBs: how to find one, how to keep one, why they're great, and ways these copulationships can go horribly wrong.

Solo Poly | Sexual vs. Romantic | Time & Trust | Easy Sex | Intimacy | Same Page | 10 Commandments of Successful FWBs | Comfort | Casual Love Letter | Ruining the Mood | How to Find a FWB | Negotiation | Attraction | Off the Cuffs Podcast | Informed Consent | Messy Endings | DM Slides | Condom BJs

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]]> Wed, 25 Oct 2017 02:10:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-58-cumpanions-c441dd3f Friends with benefits: a fantastic idea, often poorly executed! This week we're discussing FWBs: how to find one, how to keep one, why they're great, and ways these copulationships can go horribly wrong.

Solo Poly | Sexual vs. Romantic | Time & Trust | Easy Sex | Intimacy | Same Page | 10 Commandments of Successful FWBs | Comfort | Casual Love Letter | Ruining the Mood | How to Find a FWB | Negotiation | Attraction | Off the Cuffs Podcast | Informed Consent | Messy Endings | DM Slides | Condom BJs

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]]> Episode 58: Cumpanions Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:46:48 Friends with benefits: a fantastic idea, often poorly executed! This week we're discussing FWBs: how to find one, how to keep one, why they're great, and ways these copulationships can go horribly wrong. Solo Poly | Sexual vs. Romantic | Time & Trust | Easy Sex | Intimacy | Same Page | [10 Commandments of Successful FWBs](../../10-commandments-successful-friendships-benefits/) | Comfort | [Casual Love Letter](../../casual-love-letter-casual-lovers/) | [Ruining the Mood](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-30-what-mood-dude/) | How to Find a FWB | Negotiation | Attraction | [Off the Cuffs Podcast](https://linktr.ee/ocpkink) | Informed Consent | Messy Endings | DM Slides | [Condom BJs](http://www.bextalkssex.com/5-easy-ways-give-blowjob-condom/) Friends with benefits: a fantastic idea, often poorly executed! This week we're discussing FWBs: how to find one, how to keep one, why they're great, and ways these copulationships can go horribly wrong. Solo Poly | Sexual vs. Romantic | Time & Trust | Easy Sex | Intimacy | Same Page | [10 Commandments of Successful FWBs](../../10-commandments-successful-friendships-benefits/) | Comfort | [Casual Love Letter](../../casual-love-letter-casual-lovers/) | [Ruining the Mood](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-30-what-mood-dude/) | How to Find a FWB | Negotiation | Attraction | [Off the Cuffs Podcast](https://linktr.ee/ocpkink) | Informed Consent | Messy Endings | DM Slides | [Condom BJs](http://www.bextalkssex.com/5-easy-ways-give-blowjob-condom/) communication, dating, casual sex true full 58 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-10-17_dd57-dirtytalk.mp3 Episode 57: Word Pervs We're showing off our cunning linguistics this week and talking about dirty talk! Find out about Kate's passion for porn captions, Bex's boner for aloof doms, and our favorite and least favorite filthy words.

Yes/No/Maybe List | Diligent | Absentmindedly | Filthy | Power Exchange | Affirmation | Mental Stimulation | Porn Language | Bottom Guilt | Submissive Dirty Talk | Come For Daddy | Napoleon | Moist | Horny | Jizz | Boner | Sweetheart | Faggot | Pathetic | Fingerbanging | Pussy | Slave | Squirm

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]]> Wed, 18 Oct 2017 02:40:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-57-word-pervs-8ffadb69 We're showing off our cunning linguistics this week and talking about dirty talk! Find out about Kate's passion for porn captions, Bex's boner for aloof doms, and our favorite and least favorite filthy words.

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]]> Episode 57: Word Pervs Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:52:31 We're showing off our cunning linguistics this week and talking about dirty talk! Find out about Kate's passion for porn captions, Bex's boner for aloof doms, and our favorite and least favorite filthy words. [Yes/No/Maybe List](http://www.bextalkssex.com/yes-no-maybe/) | Diligent | Absentmindedly | Filthy | Power Exchange | Affirmation | Mental Stimulation | Porn Language | Bottom Guilt | Submissive Dirty Talk | Come For Daddy | Napoleon | Moist | Horny | Jizz | Boner | Sweetheart | Faggot | Pathetic | Fingerbanging | Pussy | Slave | Squirm We're showing off our cunning linguistics this week and talking about dirty talk! Find out about Kate's passion for porn captions, Bex's boner for aloof doms, and our favorite and least favorite filthy words. [Yes/No/Maybe List](http://www.bextalkssex.com/yes-no-maybe/) | Diligent | Absentmindedly | Filthy | Power Exchange | Affirmation | Mental Stimulation | Porn Language | Bottom Guilt | Submissive Dirty Talk | Come For Daddy | Napoleon | Moist | Horny | Jizz | Boner | Sweetheart | Faggot | Pathetic | Fingerbanging | Pussy | Slave | Squirm porn, roleplay, dirty talk true full 57 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-10-11_dd56-lynsey.mp3 Episode 56: Cliticism We were so excited this week to talk to Lynsey G, journalist, author, and porn critic! She chatted with us about how porn has changed, how amateur porn affects the industry, what kind of porn she likes best, and more!

Porn Critic | DVD Reviews | Improvements | Feminist Porn | Porn Awards | Amateur Porn | MakeLoveNotPorn.TV | "Watching Porn" | Sex Toy Reviewing | Plzur | Tom of Finland Dick | Chemistry | Tristan Taormino | Negotiation | Sex Ed | Porn Around the World | Mickey Mod

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]]> Wed, 11 Oct 2017 14:16:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-56-cliticism-2d3b5731 We were so excited this week to talk to Lynsey G, journalist, author, and porn critic! She chatted with us about how porn has changed, how amateur porn affects the industry, what kind of porn she likes best, and more!

Porn Critic | DVD Reviews | Improvements | Feminist Porn | Porn Awards | Amateur Porn | MakeLoveNotPorn.TV | "Watching Porn" | Sex Toy Reviewing | Plzur | Tom of Finland Dick | Chemistry | Tristan Taormino | Negotiation | Sex Ed | Porn Around the World | Mickey Mod

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]]> Episode 56: Cliticism Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:52:26 We were so excited this week to talk to [Lynsey G](http://lynseyg.com/), journalist, [author](http://lynseyg.com/watching-porn/), and porn critic! She chatted with us about how porn has changed, how amateur porn affects the industry, what kind of porn she likes best, and more! Porn Critic | DVD Reviews | Improvements | Feminist Porn | [Porn Awards](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-33-oh-no-porno-woes/) | Amateur Porn | [MakeLoveNotPorn.TV](https://makelovenotporn.tv/) | ["Watching Porn"](http://lynseyg.com/watching-porn/) | Sex Toy Reviewing | [Plzur](https://www.plzur.com/) | [Tom of Finland Dick](https://www.plzur.com/dildos/tom-of-finland-kake-silicone-cock-with-display?rq=finland) | Chemistry | Tristan Taormino | Negotiation | Sex Ed | [Porn Around the World](https://melmagazine.com/the-newest-porn-economy-is-in-nigeria-5890543fd561) | Mickey Mod We were so excited this week to talk to [Lynsey G](http://lynseyg.com/), journalist, [author](http://lynseyg.com/watching-porn/), and porn critic! She chatted with us about how porn has changed, how amateur porn affects the industry, what kind of porn she likes best, and more! Porn Critic | DVD Reviews | Improvements | Feminist Porn | [Porn Awards](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-33-oh-no-porno-woes/) | Amateur Porn | [MakeLoveNotPorn.TV](https://makelovenotporn.tv/) | ["Watching Porn"](http://lynseyg.com/watching-porn/) | Sex Toy Reviewing | [Plzur](https://www.plzur.com/) | [Tom of Finland Dick](https://www.plzur.com/dildos/tom-of-finland-kake-silicone-cock-with-display?rq=finland) | Chemistry | Tristan Taormino | Negotiation | Sex Ed | [Porn Around the World](https://melmagazine.com/the-newest-porn-economy-is-in-nigeria-5890543fd561) | Mickey Mod sex education, feminism, porn true full 56 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-10-03_dd55-firstdates.mp3 Episode 55: Flirts 'n' Firsts First dates: so fun, so scary, so rife with potential! This week, we discuss what makes a good first date, the best and worst ones we've been on, and whether sex after a first date is a good idea.

Spreadsheet | First First Dates | Family Names | Awkwardness | Asking | Date vs. Not | Best Dates | Activities | Conversation Starters | Passions | Sex | Flirting | Good Sex Predictors | Negotiation | Alley Makeouts

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]]> Wed, 4 Oct 2017 03:36:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-55-flirts-n-firsts-88bd1316 First dates: so fun, so scary, so rife with potential! This week, we discuss what makes a good first date, the best and worst ones we've been on, and whether sex after a first date is a good idea.

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]]> Episode 55: Flirts 'n' Firsts Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:27 First dates: so fun, so scary, so rife with potential! This week, we discuss what makes a good first date, the best and worst ones we've been on, and whether sex after a first date is a good idea. Spreadsheet | First First Dates | Family Names | Awkwardness | Asking | Date vs. Not | Best Dates | Activities | [Conversation Starters](http://www.bextalkssex.com/five-first-date-conversation-starters-nervous-nerds/) | Passions | Sex | Flirting | [Good Sex Predictors](http://redhotsuz.com/2017/10/01/know-hookup-good-sex/) | Negotiation | Alley Makeouts First dates: so fun, so scary, so rife with potential! This week, we discuss what makes a good first date, the best and worst ones we've been on, and whether sex after a first date is a good idea. Spreadsheet | First First Dates | Family Names | Awkwardness | Asking | Date vs. Not | Best Dates | Activities | [Conversation Starters](http://www.bextalkssex.com/five-first-date-conversation-starters-nervous-nerds/) | Passions | Sex | Flirting | [Good Sex Predictors](http://redhotsuz.com/2017/10/01/know-hookup-good-sex/) | Negotiation | Alley Makeouts tinder, okcupid, romance, dating true full 55 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-09-27_dd54-orgasms.mp3 Episode 54: Climaximal Orgasms! We love 'em. You probably do too. Hear all about our first orgasms, what gets us off now, and how testosterone is changing Bex's orgasms, among other climactic tidbits!

O: The Intimate History of the Orgasm | Firsts | JoEllen Notte | Partnered Sex | Testosterone | Grain of Rice | Tenga SVR | Multiples | Build-Ups | Urban Tantra | Edging | Denial | Blue Clit | Over the Edge | Spreadsheet | Different Types | Consistency | Hacks

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]]> Wed, 27 Sep 2017 13:25:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-54-climaximal-f9b04e18 Orgasms! We love 'em. You probably do too. Hear all about our first orgasms, what gets us off now, and how testosterone is changing Bex's orgasms, among other climactic tidbits!

O: The Intimate History of the Orgasm | Firsts | JoEllen Notte | Partnered Sex | Testosterone | Grain of Rice | Tenga SVR | Multiples | Build-Ups | Urban Tantra | Edging | Denial | Blue Clit | Over the Edge | Spreadsheet | Different Types | Consistency | Hacks

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]]> Episode 54: Climaximal Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:53:20 Orgasms! We love 'em. You probably do too. Hear all about our first orgasms, what gets us off now, and how testosterone is changing Bex's orgasms, among other climactic tidbits! [O: The Intimate History of the Orgasm](http://www.powells.com/partner/36737/biblio/9780802142160?p_ti) | Firsts | [JoEllen Notte](http://www.redheadbedhead.com/think-if-youre-not-sure-if-youve-had-an-orgasm-you-havent-shut-up/) | Partnered Sex | [Testosterone](http://www.bextalkssex.com/changing-love-considering-hormones-youre-non-binary/) | [Grain of Rice](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/909536298184175616) | [Tenga SVR](https://shevibe.com/tenga-smart-vibe-ring-silicone-rechargeable-vibrating-cock-ring-black.aspx#oid=1056_1) | Multiples | Build-Ups | [Urban Tantra](http://early2bedshop.com/urban-tantra.html?acc=a87ff679a2f3e71d9181a67b7542122c) | Edging | Denial | Blue Clit | Over the Edge | Spreadsheet | Different Types | Consistency | Hacks Orgasms! We love 'em. You probably do too. Hear all about our first orgasms, what gets us off now, and how testosterone is changing Bex's orgasms, among other climactic tidbits! [O: The Intimate History of the Orgasm](http://www.powells.com/partner/36737/biblio/9780802142160?p_ti) | Firsts | [JoEllen Notte](http://www.redheadbedhead.com/think-if-youre-not-sure-if-youve-had-an-orgasm-you-havent-shut-up/) | Partnered Sex | [Testosterone](http://www.bextalkssex.com/changing-love-considering-hormones-youre-non-binary/) | [Grain of Rice](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/909536298184175616) | [Tenga SVR](https://shevibe.com/tenga-smart-vibe-ring-silicone-rechargeable-vibrating-cock-ring-black.aspx#oid=1056_1) | Multiples | Build-Ups | [Urban Tantra](http://early2bedshop.com/urban-tantra.html?acc=a87ff679a2f3e71d9181a67b7542122c) | Edging | Denial | Blue Clit | Over the Edge | Spreadsheet | Different Types | Consistency | Hacks orgasm, physiology, masturbation, sex true full 54 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-09-20_dd53-exhibitionism.mp3 Episode 53: Bexhibitionism This week we sneezed and grumbled our way through a discussion of exhibitionism. Find out why we like showing off and why we don't – and why we occasionally fake our orgasms!

Consent | Validation | Fisting | Storytelling | Anxiety | Authenticity | Fake Orgasms | Noises | Laughter | Voyeurism | Threesome | Looking | Winks | Enthusiasm | Body Parts

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]]> Wed, 20 Sep 2017 18:18:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-53-bexhibitionism-6d1ce50f This week we sneezed and grumbled our way through a discussion of exhibitionism. Find out why we like showing off and why we don't – and why we occasionally fake our orgasms!

Consent | Validation | Fisting | Storytelling | Anxiety | Authenticity | Fake Orgasms | Noises | Laughter | Voyeurism | Threesome | Looking | Winks | Enthusiasm | Body Parts

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]]> Episode 53: Bexhibitionism Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:52:55 This week we sneezed and grumbled our way through a discussion of exhibitionism. Find out why we like showing off and why we don't – and why we occasionally fake our orgasms! Consent | Validation | Fisting | Storytelling | Anxiety | Authenticity | Fake Orgasms | Noises | Laughter | Voyeurism | [Threesome](../../my-first-threesome-was-a-smash-success/) | Looking | [Winks](../../do-i-have-a-wink-kink/) | Enthusiasm | Body Parts This week we sneezed and grumbled our way through a discussion of exhibitionism. Find out why we like showing off and why we don't – and why we occasionally fake our orgasms! Consent | Validation | Fisting | Storytelling | Anxiety | Authenticity | Fake Orgasms | Noises | Laughter | Voyeurism | [Threesome](../../my-first-threesome-was-a-smash-success/) | Looking | [Winks](../../do-i-have-a-wink-kink/) | Enthusiasm | Body Parts exhibitionism, anxiety, kink, voyeurism true full 53 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-09-13_dd52-sunnyken.mp3 Episode 52: Clowning Around This week we're joined by Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg, kink educators and fellow sex podcasters! We talked with them about humiliation, clowns, and much more. It's also our one-year podcastiversary, so we reflected on our fave memories from a year of Dildorks!

Sick Voices | #BirthdayBruises | Anniversaries | 4/20 | Cunnilingus | Our Brand | Nude Dicks | Online Dating | Bex-isms | Dream Guests | Dr. Nerdlove | Dirty Talk | American Sex Podcast | ROUGH BS | Dark Odyssey | Humiliation | Clowns | Play Theory | Fear | Negotiation | Aftercare | Editing | Impostor Syndrome | Best Friendz 4Ever

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]]> Wed, 13 Sep 2017 16:24:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-52-clowning-around-434c9963 This week we're joined by Sunny Megatron and Ken Melvoin-Berg, kink educators and fellow sex podcasters! We talked with them about humiliation, clowns, and much more. It's also our one-year podcastiversary, so we reflected on our fave memories from a year of Dildorks!

Sick Voices | #BirthdayBruises | Anniversaries | 4/20 | Cunnilingus | Our Brand | Nude Dicks | Online Dating | Bex-isms | Dream Guests | Dr. Nerdlove | Dirty Talk | American Sex Podcast | ROUGH BS | Dark Odyssey | Humiliation | Clowns | Play Theory | Fear | Negotiation | Aftercare | Editing | Impostor Syndrome | Best Friendz 4Ever

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]]> Episode 52: Clowning Around Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:16:05 This week we're joined by [Sunny Megatron](https://twitter.com/SunnyMegatron) and [Ken Melvoin-Berg](https://twitter.com/psychicken), kink educators and fellow sex podcasters! We talked with them about humiliation, clowns, and much more. It's also our one-year podcastiversary, so we reflected on our fave memories from a year of Dildorks! Sick Voices | [#BirthdayBruises](https://twitter.com/search?f=tweets&q=%23BirthdayBruises%20from%3Agirly_juice+OR+bextalkssex&src=typd) | Anniversaries | [4/20](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-31-merry-juana/) | Cunnilingus | Our Brand | Nude Dicks | Online Dating | Bex-isms | Dream Guests | [Dr. Nerdlove](http://www.doctornerdlove.com/) | Dirty Talk | [American Sex Podcast](https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/american-sex/id1269884261?mt=2) | [ROUGH BS](http://sunnymegatron.com/consent-sexual-boundaries-yesnomaybe/rough-bs/) | [Dark Odyssey](http://darkodyssey.com/) | Humiliation | Clowns | Play Theory | Fear | Negotiation | Aftercare | Editing | Impostor Syndrome | Best Friendz 4Ever Giveaway rules:-Open only to residents of the U.S. and Canada-Tag @TheDildorks in a tweet containing a favorite moment or quote from a Dildorks episode and a link to the episode-You can do this up to once a day until September 20th This week we're joined by [Sunny Megatron](https://twitter.com/SunnyMegatron) and [Ken Melvoin-Berg](https://twitter.com/psychicken), kink educators and fellow sex podcasters! We talked with them about humiliation, clowns, and much more. It's also our one-year podcastiversary, so we reflected on our fave memories from a year of Dildorks! Sick Voices | [#BirthdayBruises](https://twitter.com/search?f=tweets&q=%23BirthdayBruises%20from%3Agirly_juice+OR+bextalkssex&src=typd) | Anniversaries | [4/20](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-31-merry-juana/) | Cunnilingus | Our Brand | Nude Dicks | Online Dating | Bex-isms | Dream Guests | [Dr. Nerdlove](http://www.doctornerdlove.com/) | Dirty Talk | [American Sex Podcast](https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/american-sex/id1269884261?mt=2) | [ROUGH BS](http://sunnymegatron.com/consent-sexual-boundaries-yesnomaybe/rough-bs/) | [Dark Odyssey](http://darkodyssey.com/) | Humiliation | Clowns | Play Theory | Fear | Negotiation | Aftercare | Editing | Impostor Syndrome | Best Friendz 4Ever Giveaway rules:-Open only to residents of the U.S. and Canada-Tag @TheDildorks in a tweet containing a favorite moment or quote from a Dildorks episode and a link to the episode-You can do this up to once a day until September 20th humiliation, bdsm, clowns, kink true full 52 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-09-06_dd51-platonickink.mp3 Episode 51: A Little Help From My Friends Kink is an important aspect of our friendship, even though we don't have sex with each other. Find out what kind of kink stuff we do, how it helps us, and how to handle platonic kink in your own life.

Our Average | Definitions | Sexual vs. Romantic | Masturbation Coach | Platonic Sexting | Fetish vs. Kink | Skill-Building | Self-Care Domming | Daisy Ducati | Too Intense | Subspace | Noises | Benefits | Aftercare | Wiggly Eyebrows | Alley Hookup | BirthdayBruises | Bex's Wishlist | Erotic Massage

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]]> Wed, 6 Sep 2017 13:22:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-51-a-little-help-from-my-friends-b0cf9860 Kink is an important aspect of our friendship, even though we don't have sex with each other. Find out what kind of kink stuff we do, how it helps us, and how to handle platonic kink in your own life.

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]]> Episode 51: A Little Help From My Friends Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:45:38 Kink is an important aspect of our friendship, even though we don't have sex with each other. Find out what kind of kink stuff we do, how it helps us, and how to handle platonic kink in your own life. Our Average | Definitions | Sexual vs. Romantic | Masturbation Coach | Platonic Sexting | Fetish vs. Kink | Skill-Building | Self-Care Domming | Daisy Ducati | Too Intense | Subspace | Noises | Benefits | Aftercare | Wiggly Eyebrows | Alley Hookup | [BirthdayBruises](../../youre-invited-birthdaybruises-spanking-party/) | [Bex's Wishlist](https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2CCRWUWHIQ8ZK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_ep_ws_WqKJzb1JBX5TG) | [Erotic Massage](https://www.kinkly.com/how-a-four-handed-erotic-massage-helped-me-get-over-my-break-up/2/14911) Kink is an important aspect of our friendship, even though we don't have sex with each other. Find out what kind of kink stuff we do, how it helps us, and how to handle platonic kink in your own life. Our Average | Definitions | Sexual vs. Romantic | Masturbation Coach | Platonic Sexting | Fetish vs. Kink | Skill-Building | Self-Care Domming | Daisy Ducati | Too Intense | Subspace | Noises | Benefits | Aftercare | Wiggly Eyebrows | Alley Hookup | [BirthdayBruises](../../youre-invited-birthdaybruises-spanking-party/) | [Bex's Wishlist](https://www.amazon.com/registry/wishlist/2CCRWUWHIQ8ZK/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_ep_ws_WqKJzb1JBX5TG) | [Erotic Massage](https://www.kinkly.com/how-a-four-handed-erotic-massage-helped-me-get-over-my-break-up/2/14911) self-care, bdsm, mental health, kink true full 51 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-08-30_dd50-claire.mp3 Episode 50: Gorytelling We sat down with the delightful Claire AH, of Tell Me Something Good and Friend of a Friend Matchmaking, to talk about sexy storytelling, making matches, and life after her stroke.

Tell Me Something Good | Bawdy Storytelling | Bad Spanking | Story Ethics | Glad Day Bookshop | Braces | Confidence | Andrew Gurza | Stroke | Orgasm Changes | Fatigue | Natalie Rose | The Ultimate Guide to Sex & Disability | Rehab | Qualitative Data | Matchmaking | Queer Priorities | Physical Attraction | Ghosting | Sex City Radio | Content Notes

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]]> Wed, 30 Aug 2017 13:00:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-50-gorytelling-227621b0 We sat down with the delightful Claire AH, of Tell Me Something Good and Friend of a Friend Matchmaking, to talk about sexy storytelling, making matches, and life after her stroke.

Tell Me Something Good | Bawdy Storytelling | Bad Spanking | Story Ethics | Glad Day Bookshop | Braces | Confidence | Andrew Gurza | Stroke | Orgasm Changes | Fatigue | Natalie Rose | The Ultimate Guide to Sex & Disability | Rehab | Qualitative Data | Matchmaking | Queer Priorities | Physical Attraction | Ghosting | Sex City Radio | Content Notes

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]]> Episode 50: Gorytelling Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:02:21 We sat down with the delightful [Claire AH](https://claireah.com/), of [Tell Me Something Good](http://www.tmsgstories.com/) and [Friend of a Friend Matchmaking](http://www.friendofafriendmatchmaking.com/), to talk about sexy storytelling, making matches, and life after her stroke. [Tell Me Something Good](http://www.tmsgstories.com/) | [Bawdy Storytelling](https://bawdystorytelling.com/) | Bad Spanking | Story Ethics | [Glad Day Bookshop](https://www.gladdaybookshop.com/) | Braces | Confidence | [Andrew Gurza](http://www.andrewgurza.com/disability-after-dark/) | Stroke | Orgasm Changes | Fatigue | [Natalie Rose](https://www.facebook.com/pg/therosecentre/about/) | [The Ultimate Guide to Sex & Disability](https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/ultimate-guide-to-sex-and-disability-miriam-kaufman/1102331174) | Rehab | Qualitative Data | [Matchmaking](http://www.friendofafriendmatchmaking.com/) | Queer Priorities | Physical Attraction | Ghosting | [Sex City Radio](http://sexcityradio.com) | Content Notes We sat down with the delightful [Claire AH](https://claireah.com/), of [Tell Me Something Good](http://www.tmsgstories.com/) and [Friend of a Friend Matchmaking](http://www.friendofafriendmatchmaking.com/), to talk about sexy storytelling, making matches, and life after her stroke. [Tell Me Something Good](http://www.tmsgstories.com/) | [Bawdy Storytelling](https://bawdystorytelling.com/) | Bad Spanking | Story Ethics | [Glad Day Bookshop](https://www.gladdaybookshop.com/) | Braces | Confidence | [Andrew Gurza](http://www.andrewgurza.com/disability-after-dark/) | Stroke | Orgasm Changes | Fatigue | [Natalie Rose](https://www.facebook.com/pg/therosecentre/about/) | [The Ultimate Guide to Sex & Disability](https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/ultimate-guide-to-sex-and-disability-miriam-kaufman/1102331174) | Rehab | Qualitative Data | [Matchmaking](http://www.friendofafriendmatchmaking.com/) | Queer Priorities | Physical Attraction | Ghosting | [Sex City Radio](http://sexcityradio.com) | Content Notes storytelling, matchmaking, disability true full 50 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-08-23_dd49-dominance.mp3 Episode 49: The Dom Before the Storm We're both pretty subby, but we have some feelz about dominance. Find out the difference between topping and domming, what sex acts make us feel toppy, and what we enjoy about bossing people around.

Topping vs. Domming | Kink-sey Scale | Partner-Dependent | Vanilla Sex | Gender Differences | Suz | Toppy Fantasies | Facesitting | Empathy | Spanking | Fisting Lessons | Caretaking | Overstimulation | Beating the Stigma | Being the Bad Guy | Mental Health | Difficulties | Blindfold | Buddy Comedy | Aftercare | Debriefs | Switching | Performativity | Surprise | Bruise Pictures

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]]> Wed, 23 Aug 2017 18:36:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-49-the-dom-before-the-storm-be7cb8f7 We're both pretty subby, but we have some feelz about dominance. Find out the difference between topping and domming, what sex acts make us feel toppy, and what we enjoy about bossing people around.

Topping vs. Domming | Kink-sey Scale | Partner-Dependent | Vanilla Sex | Gender Differences | Suz | Toppy Fantasies | Facesitting | Empathy | Spanking | Fisting Lessons | Caretaking | Overstimulation | Beating the Stigma | Being the Bad Guy | Mental Health | Difficulties | Blindfold | Buddy Comedy | Aftercare | Debriefs | Switching | Performativity | Surprise | Bruise Pictures

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]]> Episode 49: The Dom Before the Storm Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:50:43 We're both pretty subby, but we have some feelz about dominance. Find out the difference between topping and domming, what sex acts make us feel toppy, and what we enjoy about bossing people around. Topping vs. Domming | Kink-sey Scale | Partner-Dependent | Vanilla Sex | Gender Differences | [Suz](http://redhotsuz.com) | Toppy Fantasies | Facesitting | Empathy | Spanking | Fisting Lessons | Caretaking | Overstimulation | [Beating the Stigma](../../beatingthestigma/) | Being the Bad Guy | Mental Health | Difficulties | Blindfold | Buddy Comedy | Aftercare | Debriefs | Switching | Performativity | Surprise | [Bruise Pictures](https://twitter.com/redhotsuz/status/761898790735323136) We're both pretty subby, but we have some feelz about dominance. Find out the difference between topping and domming, what sex acts make us feel toppy, and what we enjoy about bossing people around. Topping vs. Domming | Kink-sey Scale | Partner-Dependent | Vanilla Sex | Gender Differences | [Suz](http://redhotsuz.com) | Toppy Fantasies | Facesitting | Empathy | Spanking | Fisting Lessons | Caretaking | Overstimulation | [Beating the Stigma](../../beatingthestigma/) | Being the Bad Guy | Mental Health | Difficulties | Blindfold | Buddy Comedy | Aftercare | Debriefs | Switching | Performativity | Surprise | [Bruise Pictures](https://twitter.com/redhotsuz/status/761898790735323136) bdsm, dominance, kink true full 49 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-08-16_dd48-woodhullrecap.mp3 Episode 48: Wood-Hell Yeah We just went to the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit and had some Thoughts and Feelings! Hear about our favorite and least favorite sessions, the weird/cool sex stuff we got up to, and the new toys we got!

BLM, NAACP, and Beloved Community Charlottesville | Live Show | Whiteness | Femme As Fuck | Keep Giving a Fuck | The Height of Luxury | Body-Safe Toys | Shame & Perfectionism | Why Does He Do That? | Fisting | Spanking Party | Hotel Layout | Sleep | New Things | Doxy Die Cast | Pure Plug 2.0

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]]> Wed, 16 Aug 2017 19:32:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-48-wood-hell-yeah-12c44aaf We just went to the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit and had some Thoughts and Feelings! Hear about our favorite and least favorite sessions, the weird/cool sex stuff we got up to, and the new toys we got!

BLM, NAACP, and Beloved Community Charlottesville | Live Show | Whiteness | Femme As Fuck | Keep Giving a Fuck | The Height of Luxury | Body-Safe Toys | Shame & Perfectionism | Why Does He Do That? | Fisting | Spanking Party | Hotel Layout | Sleep | New Things | Doxy Die Cast | Pure Plug 2.0

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]]> Episode 48: Wood-Hell Yeah Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:46:39 We just went to the [Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit](https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/) and had some Thoughts and Feelings! Hear about our favorite and least favorite sessions, the weird/cool sex stuff we got up to, and the new toys we got! [BLM](https://www.paypal.me/blmcville), [NAACP](http://www.albemarle-cvillenaacp.org/), and [Beloved Community Charlottesville](http://belovedcommunitycville.com/) | [Live Show](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-47-yes-you-con/) | Whiteness | [Femme As Fuck](https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/workshop/femme-as-fuck-the-devaluation-of-femininity-within-the-feminist-movement/) | [Keep Giving a Fuck](https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/workshop/keep-giving-fuck-conversation-prioritizing-sex-trying-times/) | [The Height of Luxury](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K6OUkNg-lY8) | [Body-Safe Toys](https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/workshop/the-truth-about-body-safe-a-frank-evidence-based-discussion-of-what-body-safe-really-means/) | [Shame & Perfectionism](https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/workshop/shame-and-perfectionism-how-they-damage-community-and-impact-activism/) | [Why Does He Do That?](http://www.powells.com/book/why-does-he-do-that-inside-the-minds-of-angry-controlling-men-9780425191651?partnerid=44315&p_cv) | [Fisting](http://www.bextalkssex.com/twelve-things-learned-sfs17-wasnt-workshops/) | Spanking Party | Hotel Layout | Sleep | New Things | [Doxy Die Cast](https://shevibe.com/doxy-die-cast-extra-powerful-massage-wand-vibrator-red.aspx#oid=1013_1) | [Pure Plug 2.0](https://shevibe.com/njoy-pure-plug-2-0--stainless-steel-anal-massager.aspx#oid=1013_1) We just went to the [Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit](https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/) and had some Thoughts and Feelings! Hear about our favorite and least favorite sessions, the weird/cool sex stuff we got up to, and the new toys we got! [BLM](https://www.paypal.me/blmcville), [NAACP](http://www.albemarle-cvillenaacp.org/), and [Beloved Community Charlottesville](http://belovedcommunitycville.com/) | [Live Show](https://thedildorks.wordpress.com/portfolio/episode-47-yes-you-con/) | Whiteness | [Femme As Fuck](https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/workshop/femme-as-fuck-the-devaluation-of-femininity-within-the-feminist-movement/) | [Keep Giving a Fuck](https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/workshop/keep-giving-fuck-conversation-prioritizing-sex-trying-times/) | [The Height of Luxury](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K6OUkNg-lY8) | [Body-Safe Toys](https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/workshop/the-truth-about-body-safe-a-frank-evidence-based-discussion-of-what-body-safe-really-means/) | [Shame & Perfectionism](https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/workshop/shame-and-perfectionism-how-they-damage-community-and-impact-activism/) | [Why Does He Do That?](http://www.powells.com/book/why-does-he-do-that-inside-the-minds-of-angry-controlling-men-9780425191651?partnerid=44315&p_cv) | [Fisting](http://www.bextalkssex.com/twelve-things-learned-sfs17-wasnt-workshops/) | Spanking Party | Hotel Layout | Sleep | New Things | [Doxy Die Cast](https://shevibe.com/doxy-die-cast-extra-powerful-massage-wand-vibrator-red.aspx#oid=1013_1) | [Pure Plug 2.0](https://shevibe.com/njoy-pure-plug-2-0--stainless-steel-anal-massager.aspx#oid=1013_1) sex toys, sexual freedom, sex-positivity true full 48 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-08-08_dd47-woodhull.mp3 Episode 47: Yes You Con We recorded this episode live at the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit! Find out our best tips for attending conferences: how to meet people, learn things, and take good care of yourself!

Playground Conference | Sex Blogger Summer Camp | Approaching People | Twitter | Nina Hartley | Information Processing | Rest | Spreadsheets | Expectations | Self-Care | Jiz Lee | New York Toy Collective | Oral Loving | Collar | Regrets | Con Drop | Outreach | Advertising | Meeting Fans | Edutainment

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]]> Wed, 9 Aug 2017 01:53:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-47-yes-you-con-ab207552 We recorded this episode live at the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit! Find out our best tips for attending conferences: how to meet people, learn things, and take good care of yourself!

Playground Conference | Sex Blogger Summer Camp | Approaching People | Twitter | Nina Hartley | Information Processing | Rest | Spreadsheets | Expectations | Self-Care | Jiz Lee | New York Toy Collective | Oral Loving | Collar | Regrets | Con Drop | Outreach | Advertising | Meeting Fans | Edutainment

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]]> Episode 47: Yes You Con Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:53:28 We recorded this episode live at the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit! Find out our best tips for attending conferences: how to meet people, learn things, and take good care of yourself! [Playground Conference](http://playgroundconf.com/) | Sex Blogger Summer Camp | Approaching People | Twitter | [Nina Hartley](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/762111613314928640) | Information Processing | Rest | Spreadsheets | Expectations | Self-Care | Jiz Lee | [New York Toy Collective](https://shevibe.com/search.php?search_query.x=0&search_query.y=0&search_query=New+York+Toy+Collective#oid=1056_1) | Oral Loving | Collar | Regrets | [Con Drop](http://reidaboutsex.com/decompression-2/) | Outreach | Advertising | Meeting Fans | Edutainment We recorded this episode live at the Woodhull Sexual Freedom Summit! Find out our best tips for attending conferences: how to meet people, learn things, and take good care of yourself! [Playground Conference](http://playgroundconf.com/) | Sex Blogger Summer Camp | Approaching People | Twitter | [Nina Hartley](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/762111613314928640) | Information Processing | Rest | Spreadsheets | Expectations | Self-Care | Jiz Lee | [New York Toy Collective](https://shevibe.com/search.php?search_query.x=0&search_query.y=0&search_query=New+York+Toy+Collective#oid=1056_1) | Oral Loving | Collar | Regrets | [Con Drop](http://reidaboutsex.com/decompression-2/) | Outreach | Advertising | Meeting Fans | Edutainment social skills, conference, self-care true full 47 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-08-02_dd46-suz.mp3 Episode 46: Unicornographic This week we sat down with our friend Suz, a sex blogger, unicorn, and online-dating aficionado. She told us about her best and worst threesomes, gave some group-sex advice, and shared her Tinder secrets!

Threesome Math | Dick Video | Bloody Panties | Fi(r)st Time | Worst Time | Sex Movies | Power Dynamics | Best Time | Put Your Mouth On It | Boundaries | Unicorn Hunters | Football Team | Tinder Tips | Feminism | Neglected Unicorn | Group Flirting | Negotiation | Patreon Nudes

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]]> Wed, 2 Aug 2017 12:39:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-46-unicornographic-49ed1447 This week we sat down with our friend Suz, a sex blogger, unicorn, and online-dating aficionado. She told us about her best and worst threesomes, gave some group-sex advice, and shared her Tinder secrets!

Threesome Math | Dick Video | Bloody Panties | Fi(r)st Time | Worst Time | Sex Movies | Power Dynamics | Best Time | Put Your Mouth On It | Boundaries | Unicorn Hunters | Football Team | Tinder Tips | Feminism | Neglected Unicorn | Group Flirting | Negotiation | Patreon Nudes

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]]> Episode 46: Unicornographic Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:42:59 This week we sat down with our friend [Suz](http://redhotsuz.com), a sex blogger, unicorn, and online-dating aficionado. She told us about her best and worst threesomes, gave some group-sex advice, and shared her Tinder secrets! Threesome Math | Dick Video | Bloody Panties | [Fi(r)st Time](http://redhotsuz.com/2016/04/30/oasis-aqualounge/) | Worst Time | Sex Movies | Power Dynamics | Best Time | Put Your Mouth On It | Boundaries | Unicorn Hunters | Football Team | [Tinder Tips](http://redhotsuz.com/2017/03/30/tinder-profile-expectations/) | Feminism | Neglected Unicorn | Group Flirting | Negotiation | [Patreon Nudes](https://www.patreon.com/redhotsuz) This week we sat down with our friend [Suz](http://redhotsuz.com), a sex blogger, unicorn, and online-dating aficionado. She told us about her best and worst threesomes, gave some group-sex advice, and shared her Tinder secrets! Threesome Math | Dick Video | Bloody Panties | [Fi(r)st Time](http://redhotsuz.com/2016/04/30/oasis-aqualounge/) | Worst Time | Sex Movies | Power Dynamics | Best Time | Put Your Mouth On It | Boundaries | Unicorn Hunters | Football Team | [Tinder Tips](http://redhotsuz.com/2017/03/30/tinder-profile-expectations/) | Feminism | Neglected Unicorn | Group Flirting | Negotiation | [Patreon Nudes](https://www.patreon.com/redhotsuz) threesome, online dating, tinder true full 46 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-07-27_dd45-taylor.mp3 Episode 45: Taylor-Made This week we sat down with our friend Taylor J Mace, blogger, educator, and sex worker! They told us the nerdy strategies they use to plan group sex, some tips for attending sex parties, and thoughts on playful domination!

Anal Fisting | Intense Talkers | Hotel-Room Orgy | Spreadsheets | Privacy | Feelings | First Time | No Expectations | Going Solo | Condom Fairy | Playful Domination | Dom Stereotypes | Consent | Yes/No/Maybe List | Punishment

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]]> Wed, 26 Jul 2017 19:52:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-45-taylor-made-a2f78596 This week we sat down with our friend Taylor J Mace, blogger, educator, and sex worker! They told us the nerdy strategies they use to plan group sex, some tips for attending sex parties, and thoughts on playful domination!

Anal Fisting | Intense Talkers | Hotel-Room Orgy | Spreadsheets | Privacy | Feelings | First Time | No Expectations | Going Solo | Condom Fairy | Playful Domination | Dom Stereotypes | Consent | Yes/No/Maybe List | Punishment

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]]> Episode 45: Taylor-Made Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:51:06 This week we sat down with our friend [Taylor J Mace](http://www.feistyfoxfilms.com/), blogger, educator, and [sex worker](http://www.taylorjmace.com/)! They told us the nerdy strategies they use to plan group sex, some tips for attending sex parties, and thoughts on playful domination! Anal Fisting | Intense Talkers | Hotel-Room Orgy | Spreadsheets | Privacy | Feelings | First Time | No Expectations | Going Solo | Condom Fairy | Playful Domination | Dom Stereotypes | Consent | [Yes/No/Maybe List](http://www.bextalkssex.com/yes-no-maybe/) | Punishment This week we sat down with our friend [Taylor J Mace](http://www.feistyfoxfilms.com/), blogger, educator, and [sex worker](http://www.taylorjmace.com/)! They told us the nerdy strategies they use to plan group sex, some tips for attending sex parties, and thoughts on playful domination! Anal Fisting | Intense Talkers | Hotel-Room Orgy | Spreadsheets | Privacy | Feelings | First Time | No Expectations | Going Solo | Condom Fairy | Playful Domination | Dom Stereotypes | Consent | [Yes/No/Maybe List](http://www.bextalkssex.com/yes-no-maybe/) | Punishment bdsm, consent, kink, sex true full 45 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-07-18_dd44-edges.mp3 Episode 44: Edge-ucation This week we get wild and talk about edgeplay: kinks that kinda terrify us, but in a hot way. Find out what we find compelling about knives, piss, consensual non-consent, and a plethora of other pervy deliciousness.

Rekinkarnation | Taboos | Humiliation | Knives | Open Source Sex | Fantasy vs. Reality | Watersports | Service | Embarrassment | Enough to Make You Blush | Anxiety | Consensual Non-Consent | Rape vs. Ravishment | Ageplay | Feminist Partners | Shame | Facials | Chill Partners | "What Do You Want?" | Pegging | Forced Feminization | Cocksucker's Mirror

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]]> Wed, 19 Jul 2017 04:43:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-44-edge-ucation-3435f7b5 This week we get wild and talk about edgeplay: kinks that kinda terrify us, but in a hot way. Find out what we find compelling about knives, piss, consensual non-consent, and a plethora of other pervy deliciousness.

Rekinkarnation | Taboos | Humiliation | Knives | Open Source Sex | Fantasy vs. Reality | Watersports | Service | Embarrassment | Enough to Make You Blush | Anxiety | Consensual Non-Consent | Rape vs. Ravishment | Ageplay | Feminist Partners | Shame | Facials | Chill Partners | "What Do You Want?" | Pegging | Forced Feminization | Cocksucker's Mirror

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]]> Episode 44: Edge-ucation Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:54:39 This week we get wild and talk about edgeplay: kinks that kinda terrify us, but in a hot way. Find out what we find compelling about knives, piss, consensual non-consent, and a plethora of other pervy deliciousness. Rekinkarnation | Taboos | Humiliation | Knives | [Open Source Sex](http://www.tinynibbles.com/podcasts/open%20source%20sex%2004.mp3) | Fantasy vs. Reality | Watersports | Service | Embarrassment | [Enough to Make You Blush](http://www.enoughtomakeyoublush.com/store/) | Anxiety | Consensual Non-Consent | Rape vs. Ravishment | Ageplay | Feminist Partners | Shame | Facials | Chill Partners | "What Do You Want?" | Pegging | Forced Feminization | [Cocksucker's Mirror](../../review-stockroom-cocksuckers-mirror/) This week we get wild and talk about edgeplay: kinks that kinda terrify us, but in a hot way. Find out what we find compelling about knives, piss, consensual non-consent, and a plethora of other pervy deliciousness. Rekinkarnation | Taboos | Humiliation | Knives | [Open Source Sex](http://www.tinynibbles.com/podcasts/open%20source%20sex%2004.mp3) | Fantasy vs. Reality | Watersports | Service | Embarrassment | [Enough to Make You Blush](http://www.enoughtomakeyoublush.com/store/) | Anxiety | Consensual Non-Consent | Rape vs. Ravishment | Ageplay | Feminist Partners | Shame | Facials | Chill Partners | "What Do You Want?" | Pegging | Forced Feminization | [Cocksucker's Mirror](../../review-stockroom-cocksuckers-mirror/) bdsm, taboo, kink true full 44 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-07-11_dd43-dicks.mp3 Episode 43: Cockoisseurs Our passion for penises knows no bounds. In this episode, we discuss all things dick: our first schlong sightings, our current criteria for commendable cocks, and our favorite things to do with wangs. This one gets a little porny, folks!

BJ Cast | High Passion | All Dicks Are Good Dicks | Surprise! | Sementics | Dick vs. Cock | First Time | You Show Me Mine | Envy | Anxiety | Technique | Responsiveness | Dick Rating System | Mouths & Butts | VixSkin Mustang | Foreskin | Dicksperiments | Turtles | Clit Pump | Facefucking | Bex's Patreon | Yelling Into the Void

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]]> Wed, 12 Jul 2017 03:58:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-43-cockoisseurs-e9a98492 Our passion for penises knows no bounds. In this episode, we discuss all things dick: our first schlong sightings, our current criteria for commendable cocks, and our favorite things to do with wangs. This one gets a little porny, folks!

BJ Cast | High Passion | All Dicks Are Good Dicks | Surprise! | Sementics | Dick vs. Cock | First Time | You Show Me Mine | Envy | Anxiety | Technique | Responsiveness | Dick Rating System | Mouths & Butts | VixSkin Mustang | Foreskin | Dicksperiments | Turtles | Clit Pump | Facefucking | Bex's Patreon | Yelling Into the Void

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]]> Episode 43: Cockoisseurs Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:46:14 Our passion for penises knows no bounds. In this episode, we discuss all things dick: our first schlong sightings, our current criteria for commendable cocks, and our favorite things to do with wangs. This one gets a little porny, folks! BJ Cast | High Passion | All Dicks Are Good Dicks | Surprise! | Sementics | Dick vs. Cock | First Time | You Show Me Mine | Envy | Anxiety | Technique | Responsiveness | Dick Rating System | Mouths & Butts | VixSkin Mustang | Foreskin | Dicksperiments | Turtles | Clit Pump | Facefucking | Bex's Patreon | Yelling Into the Void Our passion for penises knows no bounds. In this episode, we discuss all things dick: our first schlong sightings, our current criteria for commendable cocks, and our favorite things to do with wangs. This one gets a little porny, folks! BJ Cast | High Passion | All Dicks Are Good Dicks | Surprise! | Sementics | Dick vs. Cock | First Time | You Show Me Mine | Envy | Anxiety | Technique | Responsiveness | Dick Rating System | Mouths & Butts | VixSkin Mustang | Foreskin | Dicksperiments | Turtles | Clit Pump | Facefucking | Bex's Patreon | Yelling Into the Void oral sex, penis, sex true full 43 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-07-04_dd42-poly.mp3 Episode 42: We're Poly, By Golly! Ah, the wonderful and complex world of non-monogamy! This week, we get nerdy about polyamory. Find out how we realized monogamy didn't work for us, which resources taught us about poly, and what the hell we do with all our feeeeelingz.

Polynormativity | Choosing Monogamy | Proto-Kate | Solo Poly | Monogamous Exes | Unnatural Rules | Labels | Freedom | Disclosure | Jealousy | Reid Mihalko | One-Penis Policy | Femme Competition | Orientation vs. Behavior | Dashboard Light | Feeling Feels | Distractions | Scheduling | Pressure | Communication | Life on the Swingset | Opening Up | More Than Two | Jealous Listener | Compersion

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]]> Wed, 5 Jul 2017 04:05:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-42-were-poly-by-golly-345b8d51 Ah, the wonderful and complex world of non-monogamy! This week, we get nerdy about polyamory. Find out how we realized monogamy didn't work for us, which resources taught us about poly, and what the hell we do with all our feeeeelingz.

Polynormativity | Choosing Monogamy | Proto-Kate | Solo Poly | Monogamous Exes | Unnatural Rules | Labels | Freedom | Disclosure | Jealousy | Reid Mihalko | One-Penis Policy | Femme Competition | Orientation vs. Behavior | Dashboard Light | Feeling Feels | Distractions | Scheduling | Pressure | Communication | Life on the Swingset | Opening Up | More Than Two | Jealous Listener | Compersion

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]]> Episode 42: We're Poly, By Golly! Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:59:28 Ah, the wonderful and complex world of non-monogamy! This week, we get nerdy about polyamory. Find out how we realized monogamy didn't work for us, which resources taught us about poly, and what the hell we do with all our feeeeelingz. Polynormativity | Choosing Monogamy | Proto-Kate | Solo Poly | Monogamous Exes | Unnatural Rules | Labels | Freedom | Disclosure | Jealousy | [Reid Mihalko](http://reidaboutsex.com/jealousy/) | One-Penis Policy | [Femme Competition](http://web.archive.org/web/20160203001319/https://clementinemorrigan.com/2015/05/19/the-cuteness-matrix-jealousy-polyamory-femininity/) | Orientation vs. Behavior | Dashboard Light | Feeling Feels | Distractions | Scheduling | Pressure | Communication | [Life on the Swingset](https://www.lifeontheswingset.com/category/podcast/swingset/) | [Opening Up](https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1499138400&sr=8-1&keywords=opening+up) | [More Than Two](https://www.amazon.com/More-Than-Two-Practical-Polyamory/dp/0991399706/ref=pd_sim_14_1?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=0991399706&pd_rd_r=TF6MP3T5HTV5JS9VTPJQ&pd_rd_w=e0Bwj&pd_rd_wg=6XitB&psc=1&refRID=TF6MP3T5HTV5JS9VTPJQ) | Jealous Listener | Compersion Ah, the wonderful and complex world of non-monogamy! This week, we get nerdy about polyamory. Find out how we realized monogamy didn't work for us, which resources taught us about poly, and what the hell we do with all our feeeeelingz. Polynormativity | Choosing Monogamy | Proto-Kate | Solo Poly | Monogamous Exes | Unnatural Rules | Labels | Freedom | Disclosure | Jealousy | [Reid Mihalko](http://reidaboutsex.com/jealousy/) | One-Penis Policy | [Femme Competition](http://web.archive.org/web/20160203001319/https://clementinemorrigan.com/2015/05/19/the-cuteness-matrix-jealousy-polyamory-femininity/) | Orientation vs. Behavior | Dashboard Light | Feeling Feels | Distractions | Scheduling | Pressure | Communication | [Life on the Swingset](https://www.lifeontheswingset.com/category/podcast/swingset/) | [Opening Up](https://www.amazon.com/Opening-Up-Creating-Sustaining-Relationships/dp/157344295X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1499138400&sr=8-1&keywords=opening+up) | [More Than Two](https://www.amazon.com/More-Than-Two-Practical-Polyamory/dp/0991399706/ref=pd_sim_14_1?_encoding=UTF8&pd_rd_i=0991399706&pd_rd_r=TF6MP3T5HTV5JS9VTPJQ&pd_rd_w=e0Bwj&pd_rd_wg=6XitB&psc=1&refRID=TF6MP3T5HTV5JS9VTPJQ) | Jealous Listener | Compersion polyamory, dating, non-monogamy true full 42 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-06-28_dd41-sexpositivity.mp3 Episode 41: Absolutely Positive What the heck is sex-positivity and why does it matter? This week, we discuss the sex-positive movement: its advantages, its criticisms, and how to live a sex-positive life.

Pride Glitter | Definitions | Safe vs. Risk-Aware | SwedenManatees | Sex is Fun | Sex Nerd Sandra | Vanilla-Shaming | Opposition | Kinks vs. Behaviors | Callouts | Beacon of Permission | Sex Shops | Sexual Attitude Reassessment | Asexual Erasure | Self-Shaming | Testosterone | Cake-Sitting | Live Recording at Woodhull

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]]> Wed, 28 Jun 2017 22:08:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-41-absolutely-positive-24701335 What the heck is sex-positivity and why does it matter? This week, we discuss the sex-positive movement: its advantages, its criticisms, and how to live a sex-positive life.

Pride Glitter | Definitions | Safe vs. Risk-Aware | SwedenManatees | Sex is Fun | Sex Nerd Sandra | Vanilla-Shaming | Opposition | Kinks vs. Behaviors | Callouts | Beacon of Permission | Sex Shops | Sexual Attitude Reassessment | Asexual Erasure | Self-Shaming | Testosterone | Cake-Sitting | Live Recording at Woodhull

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]]> Episode 41: Absolutely Positive Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:40:52 What the heck is sex-positivity and why does it matter? This week, we discuss the sex-positive movement: its advantages, its criticisms, and how to live a sex-positive life. Pride Glitter | Definitions | Safe vs. Risk-Aware | SwedenManatees | [Sex is Fun](http://sexisfun.net/) | [Sex Nerd Sandra](https://sexnerdsandra.com/) | Vanilla-Shaming | Opposition | Kinks vs. Behaviors | Callouts | Beacon of Permission | Sex Shops | Sexual Attitude Reassessment | Asexual Erasure | Self-Shaming | Testosterone | Cake-Sitting | [Live Recording at Woodhull](https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/workshop/join-dildorks-live-recording-summit/) What the heck is sex-positivity and why does it matter? This week, we discuss the sex-positive movement: its advantages, its criticisms, and how to live a sex-positive life. Pride Glitter | Definitions | Safe vs. Risk-Aware | SwedenManatees | [Sex is Fun](http://sexisfun.net/) | [Sex Nerd Sandra](https://sexnerdsandra.com/) | Vanilla-Shaming | Opposition | Kinks vs. Behaviors | Callouts | Beacon of Permission | Sex Shops | Sexual Attitude Reassessment | Asexual Erasure | Self-Shaming | Testosterone | Cake-Sitting | [Live Recording at Woodhull](https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/workshop/join-dildorks-live-recording-summit/) sex-positive, kink, sex true full 41 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-06-20_dd40-daddydoms.mp3 Episode 40: Daddy's Day Happy Father's Day! Let's talk about Daddy Doms. Find out how we realized we were into Daddies, how we deal with weird feelings around this taboo, and how we feel about people calling us Daddy!

Coffee Dom | Pup vs. Little | Nice Dominance | Lawyer Prof | Why Are People Into Ageplay? | The Big Little Podcast | Ageplay | Little Space | DD/lg and Pups vs. Poly | Incest?! | Vanilla Daddy | Daddy Feelz | Honorifics | Toppy Bex | Dad Costume | When Kink Isn't Fun | Sub Stereotypes | Gender-Bent Daddies | Rosa Diaz | Productivity Domming | Solo Kink | Daddy Issues | Bex's Dentist | Chameleon

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]]> Wed, 21 Jun 2017 01:14:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-40-daddys-day-0684ab69 Happy Father's Day! Let's talk about Daddy Doms. Find out how we realized we were into Daddies, how we deal with weird feelings around this taboo, and how we feel about people calling us Daddy!

Coffee Dom | Pup vs. Little | Nice Dominance | Lawyer Prof | Why Are People Into Ageplay? | The Big Little Podcast | Ageplay | Little Space | DD/lg and Pups vs. Poly | Incest?! | Vanilla Daddy | Daddy Feelz | Honorifics | Toppy Bex | Dad Costume | When Kink Isn't Fun | Sub Stereotypes | Gender-Bent Daddies | Rosa Diaz | Productivity Domming | Solo Kink | Daddy Issues | Bex's Dentist | Chameleon

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]]> Episode 40: Daddy's Day Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:51:36 Happy Father's Day! Let's talk about Daddy Doms. Find out how we realized we were into Daddies, how we deal with weird feelings around this taboo, and how we feel about people calling us Daddy! Coffee Dom | Pup vs. Little | Nice Dominance | Lawyer Prof | [Why Are People Into Ageplay?](https://www.acast.com/yapit/9-siouxsie-q-age-play) | [The Big Little Podcast](https://www.biglittlepodcast.com/) | Ageplay | Little Space | DD/lg and Pups vs. Poly | Incest?! | [Vanilla Daddy](../../youre-vanilla-im-not-love/) | Daddy Feelz | Honorifics | Toppy Bex | Dad Costume | When Kink Isn't Fun | Sub Stereotypes | Gender-Bent Daddies | [Rosa Diaz](../../nightstand-necessities-rosa-diaz/) | Productivity Domming | Solo Kink | Daddy Issues | Bex's Dentist | Chameleon Happy Father's Day! Let's talk about Daddy Doms. Find out how we realized we were into Daddies, how we deal with weird feelings around this taboo, and how we feel about people calling us Daddy! Coffee Dom | Pup vs. Little | Nice Dominance | Lawyer Prof | [Why Are People Into Ageplay?](https://www.acast.com/yapit/9-siouxsie-q-age-play) | [The Big Little Podcast](https://www.biglittlepodcast.com/) | Ageplay | Little Space | DD/lg and Pups vs. Poly | Incest?! | [Vanilla Daddy](../../youre-vanilla-im-not-love/) | Daddy Feelz | Honorifics | Toppy Bex | Dad Costume | When Kink Isn't Fun | Sub Stereotypes | Gender-Bent Daddies | [Rosa Diaz](../../nightstand-necessities-rosa-diaz/) | Productivity Domming | Solo Kink | Daddy Issues | Bex's Dentist | Chameleon ageplay, father's day, kink true full 40 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-06-14_dd39-andreshakti.mp3 Episode 39: Minotaur Metamours We were thrilled this week to chat with Andre Shakti, sex educator, sex worker, and sex journalist. She gave us advice on managing jealousy, meeting metamours, and getting fisted for the first time!

I Am Poly and So Can You | Vocabulary & Context | Therapists | Jealousy | Metamours | Femme Competition | Compersion | Humanization | Strap-On Workshop | Sex Down South | Fisting | Cathartic Crying | Black Dragon Nitrile Gloves | Sliquid Sassy | Inflatable Toys | Fist Dildos | Wonder Woman | Magic Wands

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]]> Wed, 14 Jun 2017 05:17:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-39-minotaur-metamours-7193e410 We were thrilled this week to chat with Andre Shakti, sex educator, sex worker, and sex journalist. She gave us advice on managing jealousy, meeting metamours, and getting fisted for the first time!

I Am Poly and So Can You | Vocabulary & Context | Therapists | Jealousy | Metamours | Femme Competition | Compersion | Humanization | Strap-On Workshop | Sex Down South | Fisting | Cathartic Crying | Black Dragon Nitrile Gloves | Sliquid Sassy | Inflatable Toys | Fist Dildos | Wonder Woman | Magic Wands

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]]> Episode 39: Minotaur Metamours Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:51:40 We were thrilled this week to chat with [Andre Shakti](http://andreshaktixxx.com/), sex educator, sex worker, and sex journalist. She gave us advice on managing jealousy, meeting metamours, and getting fisted for the first time! [I Am Poly and So Can You](https://www.iampoly.net/) | Vocabulary & Context | Therapists | Jealousy | Metamours | Femme Competition | Compersion | Humanization | [Strap-On Workshop](https://twitter.com/BexTalksSex/status/786718552661319680) | [Sex Down South](http://sexdownsouth.com/) | Fisting | Cathartic Crying | [Black Dragon Nitrile Gloves](http://www.comeasyouare.com/product/Black-Dragon-Nitrile-Gloves-Box/?affiliate=girlyjuice) | [Sliquid Sassy](http://www.shevibe.com/sliquid-naturals-sassy.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Inflatable Toys](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?find=inflatable#oid=1056_1) | Fist Dildos | Wonder Woman | [Magic Wands](http://www.shevibe.com/magic-wand-rechargeable-cordless-vibrator.aspx#oid=1013_1) We were thrilled this week to chat with [Andre Shakti](http://andreshaktixxx.com/), sex educator, sex worker, and sex journalist. She gave us advice on managing jealousy, meeting metamours, and getting fisted for the first time! [I Am Poly and So Can You](https://www.iampoly.net/) | Vocabulary & Context | Therapists | Jealousy | Metamours | Femme Competition | Compersion | Humanization | [Strap-On Workshop](https://twitter.com/BexTalksSex/status/786718552661319680) | [Sex Down South](http://sexdownsouth.com/) | Fisting | Cathartic Crying | [Black Dragon Nitrile Gloves](http://www.comeasyouare.com/product/Black-Dragon-Nitrile-Gloves-Box/?affiliate=girlyjuice) | [Sliquid Sassy](http://www.shevibe.com/sliquid-naturals-sassy.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Inflatable Toys](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?find=inflatable#oid=1056_1) | Fist Dildos | Wonder Woman | [Magic Wands](http://www.shevibe.com/magic-wand-rechargeable-cordless-vibrator.aspx#oid=1013_1) polyamory, fisting, dating true full 39 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-06-06_dd38-fanfiction.mp3 Episode 38: Fan-Friction Fanfiction is a wonderful exercise in imagination and perviness! Find out our favorite fic pairings, our thoughts on the ethics of real-person fic, and why we wanna make out with Gregory House and Jake Peralta.

Testosterone | Grindr | Rachel Kramer Bussel | Nerve Endings | Bones | Harry Potter | Brooklyn Nine-Nine | House, M.D. | Real-Person Fic | Cumbersmut | Stephanie Beatriz | Supernatural | #DildorksFic? | Good Fic | I'll Know My Name As It's Called Again | Enthusiastic Consent | Bad Euphemisms | If Stanley Tucci Were Your Boyfriend | Nightstand Necessities | Holtzmann | New Kinks | A Cure For Boredom | Fic

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]]> Wed, 7 Jun 2017 03:43:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-38-fan-friction-c06cad57 Fanfiction is a wonderful exercise in imagination and perviness! Find out our favorite fic pairings, our thoughts on the ethics of real-person fic, and why we wanna make out with Gregory House and Jake Peralta.

Testosterone | Grindr | Rachel Kramer Bussel | Nerve Endings | Bones | Harry Potter | Brooklyn Nine-Nine | House, M.D. | Real-Person Fic | Cumbersmut | Stephanie Beatriz | Supernatural | #DildorksFic? | Good Fic | I'll Know My Name As It's Called Again | Enthusiastic Consent | Bad Euphemisms | If Stanley Tucci Were Your Boyfriend | Nightstand Necessities | Holtzmann | New Kinks | A Cure For Boredom | Fic

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]]> Episode 38: Fan-Friction Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:43:26 Fanfiction is a wonderful exercise in imagination and perviness! Find out our favorite fic pairings, our thoughts on the ethics of real-person fic, and why we wanna make out with Gregory House and Jake Peralta. [Testosterone](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KlZbtQ6ffpc&t=210s) | Grindr | [Rachel Kramer Bussel](http://www.rachelkramerbussel.com/writing/books.php) | [Nerve Endings](http://www.instarbooks.com/books/nerve-endings.html) | Bones | Harry Potter | [Brooklyn Nine-Nine](http://archiveofourown.org/tags/Brooklyn%20Nine-Nine%20(TV)/works) | [House, M.D.](http://archiveofourown.org/works?utf8=%E2%9C%93&commit=Sort+and+Filter&work_search%5Bsort_column%5D=revised_at&work_search%5Brating_ids%5D%5B%5D=13&work_search%5Bother_tag_names%5D=&work_search%5Bquery%5D=&work_search%5Blanguage_id%5D=&work_search%5Bcomplete%5D=0&tag_id=House+M*d*D*d*) | [Real-Person Fic](http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/RealPersonFic) | [Cumbersmut](http://archiveofourown.org/works?utf8=%E2%9C%93&commit=Sort+and+Filter&work_search%5Bsort_column%5D=revised_at&work_search%5Brating_ids%5D%5B%5D=13&work_search%5Brelationship_ids%5D%5B%5D=865285&work_search%5Bother_tag_names%5D=&work_search%5Bquery%5D=&work_search%5Blanguage_id%5D=&work_search%5Bcomplete%5D=0&tag_id=Benedict+Cumberbatch) | [Stephanie Beatriz](http://archiveofourown.org/works/3991099) | [Supernatural](http://archiveofourown.org/works?utf8=%E2%9C%93&commit=Sort+and+Filter&work_search%5Bsort_column%5D=bookmarks_count&work_search%5Brating_ids%5D%5B%5D=13&work_search%5Bother_tag_names%5D=&work_search%5Bquery%5D=&work_search%5Blanguage_id%5D=&work_search%5Bcomplete%5D=0&tag_id=Supernatural) | #DildorksFic? | Good Fic | [I'll Know My Name As It's Called Again](http://archiveofourown.org/works/3444740) | [Enthusiastic Consent](../../interview-kasuchi-my-favorite-fanfiction-writer/) | Bad Euphemisms | [If Stanley Tucci Were Your Boyfriend](http://the-toast.net/2015/02/09/stanley-tucci-boyfriend/) | [Nightstand Necessities](../../tag/nightstand-necessities/) | Holtzmann | New Kinks | [A Cure For Boredom](http://archiveofourown.org/works/335385/chapters/542163) | [Fic](https://www.amazon.com/Fic-Fanfiction-Taking-Over-World/dp/1939529190) Fanfiction is a wonderful exercise in imagination and perviness! Find out our favorite fic pairings, our thoughts on the ethics of real-person fic, and why we wanna make out with Gregory House and Jake Peralta. [Testosterone](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KlZbtQ6ffpc&t=210s) | Grindr | [Rachel Kramer Bussel](http://www.rachelkramerbussel.com/writing/books.php) | [Nerve Endings](http://www.instarbooks.com/books/nerve-endings.html) | Bones | Harry Potter | [Brooklyn Nine-Nine](http://archiveofourown.org/tags/Brooklyn%20Nine-Nine%20(TV)/works) | [House, M.D.](http://archiveofourown.org/works?utf8=%E2%9C%93&commit=Sort+and+Filter&work_search%5Bsort_column%5D=revised_at&work_search%5Brating_ids%5D%5B%5D=13&work_search%5Bother_tag_names%5D=&work_search%5Bquery%5D=&work_search%5Blanguage_id%5D=&work_search%5Bcomplete%5D=0&tag_id=House+M*d*D*d*) | [Real-Person Fic](http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/RealPersonFic) | [Cumbersmut](http://archiveofourown.org/works?utf8=%E2%9C%93&commit=Sort+and+Filter&work_search%5Bsort_column%5D=revised_at&work_search%5Brating_ids%5D%5B%5D=13&work_search%5Brelationship_ids%5D%5B%5D=865285&work_search%5Bother_tag_names%5D=&work_search%5Bquery%5D=&work_search%5Blanguage_id%5D=&work_search%5Bcomplete%5D=0&tag_id=Benedict+Cumberbatch) | [Stephanie Beatriz](http://archiveofourown.org/works/3991099) | [Supernatural](http://archiveofourown.org/works?utf8=%E2%9C%93&commit=Sort+and+Filter&work_search%5Bsort_column%5D=bookmarks_count&work_search%5Brating_ids%5D%5B%5D=13&work_search%5Bother_tag_names%5D=&work_search%5Bquery%5D=&work_search%5Blanguage_id%5D=&work_search%5Bcomplete%5D=0&tag_id=Supernatural) | #DildorksFic? | Good Fic | [I'll Know My Name As It's Called Again](http://archiveofourown.org/works/3444740) | [Enthusiastic Consent](../../interview-kasuchi-my-favorite-fanfiction-writer/) | Bad Euphemisms | [If Stanley Tucci Were Your Boyfriend](http://the-toast.net/2015/02/09/stanley-tucci-boyfriend/) | [Nightstand Necessities](../../tag/nightstand-necessities/) | Holtzmann | New Kinks | [A Cure For Boredom](http://archiveofourown.org/works/335385/chapters/542163) | [Fic](https://www.amazon.com/Fic-Fanfiction-Taking-Over-World/dp/1939529190) erotica, fanfiction, kink true full 38 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-05-30_dd37-kissing.mp3 Episode 37: Kissin' Impossible Maaan, we really like making out. This week we're talkin' about kissing. Find out which Indiana Jones movie underscored Bex's first kiss, what improv has to do with kissing, and whether good cunnilinguists make good kissers.

Ziti Siren | Indiana Jones | Report Card | Spin the Bottle | Passion | The Thigh-Grind | Koala Nest | Contact Improv | Lip-Biting | Casual Kisses | Oral Sex | Bad Kissers | IKEA | PDA | Trapped Gazelle

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]]> Wed, 31 May 2017 01:02:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-37-kissin-impossible-94138dff Maaan, we really like making out. This week we're talkin' about kissing. Find out which Indiana Jones movie underscored Bex's first kiss, what improv has to do with kissing, and whether good cunnilinguists make good kissers.

Ziti Siren | Indiana Jones | Report Card | Spin the Bottle | Passion | The Thigh-Grind | Koala Nest | Contact Improv | Lip-Biting | Casual Kisses | Oral Sex | Bad Kissers | IKEA | PDA | Trapped Gazelle

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]]> Episode 37: Kissin' Impossible Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:39:25 Maaan, we really like making out. This week we're talkin' about kissing. Find out which Indiana Jones movie underscored Bex's first kiss, what improv has to do with kissing, and whether good cunnilinguists make good kissers. Ziti Siren | Indiana Jones | Report Card | Spin the Bottle | Passion | The Thigh-Grind | Koala Nest | Contact Improv | Lip-Biting | Casual Kisses | Oral Sex | Bad Kissers | IKEA | PDA | Trapped Gazelle Maaan, we really like making out. This week we're talkin' about kissing. Find out which Indiana Jones movie underscored Bex's first kiss, what improv has to do with kissing, and whether good cunnilinguists make good kissers. Ziti Siren | Indiana Jones | Report Card | Spin the Bottle | Passion | The Thigh-Grind | Koala Nest | Contact Improv | Lip-Biting | Casual Kisses | Oral Sex | Bad Kissers | IKEA | PDA | Trapped Gazelle relationships, kissing, sex true full 37 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-05-24_dd36-astrology.mp3 Episode 36: Star-Crossed Sex Nerds This week we're chatting with Stella, a sex-savvy, queer, kink-positive, badass astrologer. They taught us how our star charts inform our sex lives, relationships, and even our business partnership!

Skepticism | Sun, Moon, Rising | Antisocial Scorpio | Service | Spreadsheets | Poly Boundaries | Libra Logic | Flirting | Bossy Sub | Taurus & Virgo 4Ever | Luxurious Masturbation | Too Many Ideas | Transcendent Kink | Clit Instructions | Gender Essentialism | No Chill | Introspection | Dom Cat

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]]> Wed, 24 May 2017 19:22:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-36-star-crossed-sex-nerds-1fc76522 This week we're chatting with Stella, a sex-savvy, queer, kink-positive, badass astrologer. They taught us how our star charts inform our sex lives, relationships, and even our business partnership!

Skepticism | Sun, Moon, Rising | Antisocial Scorpio | Service | Spreadsheets | Poly Boundaries | Libra Logic | Flirting | Bossy Sub | Taurus & Virgo 4Ever | Luxurious Masturbation | Too Many Ideas | Transcendent Kink | Clit Instructions | Gender Essentialism | No Chill | Introspection | Dom Cat

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]]> Episode 36: Star-Crossed Sex Nerds Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:12:28 This week we're chatting with Stella, a sex-savvy, queer, kink-positive, badass astrologer. They taught us how our star charts inform our sex lives, relationships, and even our business partnership! Skepticism | Sun, Moon, Rising | Antisocial Scorpio | Service | Spreadsheets | Poly Boundaries | Libra Logic | Flirting | Bossy Sub | Taurus & Virgo 4Ever | Luxurious Masturbation | Too Many Ideas | [Transcendent Kink](http://girlyjuice.net/no-moment-is-unendurable-other-life-lessons-i-learned-from-getting-spanked/) | [Clit Instructions](http://girlyjuice.net/my-clit-is-a-diva/) | Gender Essentialism | No Chill | Introspection | Dom Cat This week we're chatting with Stella, a sex-savvy, queer, kink-positive, badass astrologer. They taught us how our star charts inform our sex lives, relationships, and even our business partnership! Skepticism | Sun, Moon, Rising | Antisocial Scorpio | Service | Spreadsheets | Poly Boundaries | Libra Logic | Flirting | Bossy Sub | Taurus & Virgo 4Ever | Luxurious Masturbation | Too Many Ideas | [Transcendent Kink](http://girlyjuice.net/no-moment-is-unendurable-other-life-lessons-i-learned-from-getting-spanked/) | [Clit Instructions](http://girlyjuice.net/my-clit-is-a-diva/) | Gender Essentialism | No Chill | Introspection | Dom Cat polyamory, astrology, kink, sex true full 36 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-05-16_dd35-mothersday.mp3 Episode 35: Mother to a Brother Happy belated Mother's Day, y'all! This week we're talking about how our childhoods and parents influenced our sexuality. And, bonus: Kate interviews her mom about masturbation, boys, and celebrities!

DD/lg | Fellati-eww | Pleasure | Books | TMI | Anatomy | Equality | Acceptance | Butts | Bath Faucet | Sex Therapist | Sexagenarian Superbabe | Feminist Hero | Boy-Thirsty | White Wine | Funny Weirdos | Goodbye Honolulu | Meeting the Parents | Break-Ups | Celebs | Kink Newb

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]]> Wed, 17 May 2017 05:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-35-mother-to-a-brother-c337c517 Happy belated Mother's Day, y'all! This week we're talking about how our childhoods and parents influenced our sexuality. And, bonus: Kate interviews her mom about masturbation, boys, and celebrities!

DD/lg | Fellati-eww | Pleasure | Books | TMI | Anatomy | Equality | Acceptance | Butts | Bath Faucet | Sex Therapist | Sexagenarian Superbabe | Feminist Hero | Boy-Thirsty | White Wine | Funny Weirdos | Goodbye Honolulu | Meeting the Parents | Break-Ups | Celebs | Kink Newb

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]]> Episode 35: Mother to a Brother Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:08:15 Happy belated Mother's Day, y'all! This week we're talking about how our childhoods and parents influenced our sexuality. And, bonus: Kate interviews her mom about masturbation, boys, and celebrities! [DD/lg](../../tag/DDlg/) | Fellati-eww | Pleasure | Books | TMI | Anatomy | Equality | Acceptance | Butts | Bath Faucet | Sex Therapist | Sexagenarian Superbabe | Feminist Hero | Boy-Thirsty | White Wine | Funny Weirdos | [Goodbye Honolulu](https://goodbyehonolulu.bandcamp.com/album/mother-to-a-brother-single) | Meeting the Parents | Break-Ups | Celebs | Kink Newb Happy belated Mother's Day, y'all! This week we're talking about how our childhoods and parents influenced our sexuality. And, bonus: Kate interviews her mom about masturbation, boys, and celebrities! [DD/lg](../../tag/DDlg/) | Fellati-eww | Pleasure | Books | TMI | Anatomy | Equality | Acceptance | Butts | Bath Faucet | Sex Therapist | Sexagenarian Superbabe | Feminist Hero | Boy-Thirsty | White Wine | Funny Weirdos | [Goodbye Honolulu](https://goodbyehonolulu.bandcamp.com/album/mother-to-a-brother-single) | Meeting the Parents | Break-Ups | Celebs | Kink Newb sex-positive, parenthood, mother's day true full 35 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-05-09_dd34-aftercare.mp3 Episode 34: Aftercare Laughtercare Aftercare is an oft-overlooked part of kink, but a super important one! This week we discuss why aftercare matters, how we like to do it, and what happens if we skip it (hint: bad stuff!).

Pajamas | Altered State | Distance | Poly Partners | Debriefing | Chocolate | #BirthdayBruises | Little Space | What Do You Need? | Kink Savasana | Dissociation | Casual Kink | Mike Tyson Mysteries | Tops/Doms | Potatoes | Crying | 7 West | Massage | Inopportune Subspace | Piercings | Zipline

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]]> Wed, 10 May 2017 05:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-34-aftercare-laughtercare-bc621ff2 Aftercare is an oft-overlooked part of kink, but a super important one! This week we discuss why aftercare matters, how we like to do it, and what happens if we skip it (hint: bad stuff!).

Pajamas | Altered State | Distance | Poly Partners | Debriefing | Chocolate | #BirthdayBruises | Little Space | What Do You Need? | Kink Savasana | Dissociation | Casual Kink | Mike Tyson Mysteries | Tops/Doms | Potatoes | Crying | 7 West | Massage | Inopportune Subspace | Piercings | Zipline

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]]> Episode 34: Aftercare Laughtercare Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:45:08 Aftercare is an oft-overlooked part of kink, but a super important one! This week we discuss why aftercare matters, how we like to do it, and what happens if we skip it (hint: bad stuff!). Pajamas | Altered State | Distance | Poly Partners | Debriefing | Chocolate | [#BirthdayBruises](http://www.bextalkssex.com/birthdaybruises-adventures-in-exhibitionistic-masochism/) | Little Space | [What Do You Need?](https://twitter.com/_writehanded_/status/852313988612333568) | Kink Savasana | Dissociation | Casual Kink | Mike Tyson Mysteries | Tops/Doms | Potatoes | Crying | [7 West](http://www.7westcafe.com/) | Massage | Inopportune Subspace | Piercings | Zipline Aftercare is an oft-overlooked part of kink, but a super important one! This week we discuss why aftercare matters, how we like to do it, and what happens if we skip it (hint: bad stuff!). Pajamas | Altered State | Distance | Poly Partners | Debriefing | Chocolate | [#BirthdayBruises](http://www.bextalkssex.com/birthdaybruises-adventures-in-exhibitionistic-masochism/) | Little Space | [What Do You Need?](https://twitter.com/_writehanded_/status/852313988612333568) | Kink Savasana | Dissociation | Casual Kink | Mike Tyson Mysteries | Tops/Doms | Potatoes | Crying | [7 West](http://www.7westcafe.com/) | Massage | Inopportune Subspace | Piercings | Zipline bdsm, mental health, kink true full 34 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-05-02_dd33-pornfest.mp3 Episode 33: Oh No! Porno Woes We went to the Toronto International Porn Festival and it really pissed us off, y'all. Here's our episode-long rant about the consent issues, organizational problems, and ethical snafus at the porn fest. Oh, and a few good things happened too, I guess.

Feminist Porn Awards | The Best Porn of the Last Decade | Trans Entities | Sexing the Transman 3 | Morgana Muses | Crash Pad Series | Rough Sex 2 | Best Slumber Party Ever | Liberté Sexuelle | Ciné Sinclaire | Disorganization | Spit | Gay Stuff | T-Slur | Non-Consent-y Jokes | Bloodplay | Lelo Hex Condoms

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]]> Tue, 2 May 2017 22:34:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-33-oh-no-porno-woes-16b1ccad We went to the Toronto International Porn Festival and it really pissed us off, y'all. Here's our episode-long rant about the consent issues, organizational problems, and ethical snafus at the porn fest. Oh, and a few good things happened too, I guess.

Feminist Porn Awards | The Best Porn of the Last Decade | Trans Entities | Sexing the Transman 3 | Morgana Muses | Crash Pad Series | Rough Sex 2 | Best Slumber Party Ever | Liberté Sexuelle | Ciné Sinclaire | Disorganization | Spit | Gay Stuff | T-Slur | Non-Consent-y Jokes | Bloodplay | Lelo Hex Condoms

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]]> Episode 33: Oh No! Porno Woes Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:06:04 We went to the [Toronto International Porn Festival](http://www.torontointernationalpornfestival.com/) and it really pissed us off, y'all. Here's our episode-long rant about the consent issues, organizational problems, and ethical snafus at the porn fest. Oh, and a few good things happened too, I guess. [Feminist Porn Awards](http://www.dailyxtra.com/canada/news-and-ideas/news/one-performer-boycotted-the-feminist-porn-awards-102663) | [The Best Porn of the Last Decade](http://www.torontointernationalpornfestival.com/event-schedule/the-best-porn-of-the-last-decadetoronto-international-porn-festival-review-32458208375/) | [Trans Entities](http://www.ttv-i.net/?p=1235) | [Sexing the Transman 3](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2RKbhs_76Lo) | [Morgana Muses](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ka8rKAHoUQk) | [Crash Pad Series](http://refer.ccbill.com/cgi-bin/clicks.cgi?CA=934717-0000&PA=2345917) | [Rough Sex 2](https://www.hotmovies.com/video/182140/Tristan-Taormino-s-Rough-Sex-2/) | [Best Slumber Party Ever](http://www.pinklabel.tv/on-demand/samuel-shanahoys-best-slumber-party-ever-feminist-porn-awards/) | [Liberté Sexuelle](https://www.welovegoodsex.com/liberte-sexuelle-in-the-mood-for-an-orgy-tonight/) | [Ciné Sinclaire](http://cinesinclaire.com) | Disorganization | [Spit](http://spit.exposed) | Gay Stuff | T-Slur | Non-Consent-y Jokes | Bloodplay | [Lelo Hex Condoms](http://loraxofsex.com/2016/09/pox-box-problem-lelo-hex/) We went to the [Toronto International Porn Festival](http://www.torontointernationalpornfestival.com/) and it really pissed us off, y'all. Here's our episode-long rant about the consent issues, organizational problems, and ethical snafus at the porn fest. Oh, and a few good things happened too, I guess. [Feminist Porn Awards](http://www.dailyxtra.com/canada/news-and-ideas/news/one-performer-boycotted-the-feminist-porn-awards-102663) | [The Best Porn of the Last Decade](http://www.torontointernationalpornfestival.com/event-schedule/the-best-porn-of-the-last-decadetoronto-international-porn-festival-review-32458208375/) | [Trans Entities](http://www.ttv-i.net/?p=1235) | [Sexing the Transman 3](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2RKbhs_76Lo) | [Morgana Muses](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ka8rKAHoUQk) | [Crash Pad Series](http://refer.ccbill.com/cgi-bin/clicks.cgi?CA=934717-0000&PA=2345917) | [Rough Sex 2](https://www.hotmovies.com/video/182140/Tristan-Taormino-s-Rough-Sex-2/) | [Best Slumber Party Ever](http://www.pinklabel.tv/on-demand/samuel-shanahoys-best-slumber-party-ever-feminist-porn-awards/) | [Liberté Sexuelle](https://www.welovegoodsex.com/liberte-sexuelle-in-the-mood-for-an-orgy-tonight/) | [Ciné Sinclaire](http://cinesinclaire.com) | Disorganization | [Spit](http://spit.exposed) | Gay Stuff | T-Slur | Non-Consent-y Jokes | Bloodplay | [Lelo Hex Condoms](http://loraxofsex.com/2016/09/pox-box-problem-lelo-hex/) consent, feminist porn, porn true full 33 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-04-26_dd-funkittoys.mp3 Episode 32: Toymaker, Toymaker, Make Me a Toy This week we’re talkin’ shop with Kenton, lead fucksmith at Funkit Toys! Find out how silicone toys are made, what’s in the works at Funkit, and what inappropriate question people always ask Kenton at cons.

Genderless Toys | Paddles | Customer Feedback | Ideas | Silicone | Signet | Dream Toys | Glass | Toymaker Brain | “Is That Your Dick?” | Tantus Plunge | Plagiarism | “Revolutionary” Toys | Versatile Implements | Bruises | Theme Songs

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]]> Wed, 26 Apr 2017 14:31:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-32-toymaker-toymaker-make-me-a-1673b3f7 This week we’re talkin’ shop with Kenton, lead fucksmith at Funkit Toys! Find out how silicone toys are made, what’s in the works at Funkit, and what inappropriate question people always ask Kenton at cons.

Genderless Toys | Paddles | Customer Feedback | Ideas | Silicone | Signet | Dream Toys | Glass | Toymaker Brain | “Is That Your Dick?” | Tantus Plunge | Plagiarism | “Revolutionary” Toys | Versatile Implements | Bruises | Theme Songs

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]]> Episode 32: Toymaker, Toymaker, Make Me a Toy Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:41:27 This week we’re talkin’ shop with [Kenton](https://twitter.com/funkittoys), lead fucksmith at [Funkit Toys](https://www.funkittoys.com/)! Find out how silicone toys are made, what’s in the works at Funkit, and what inappropriate question people always ask Kenton at cons. Genderless Toys | [Paddles](https://www.funkittoys.com/shop) | Customer Feedback | Ideas | Silicone | [Signet](https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/funkit-signet-hand-sex-plus#/) | Dream Toys | Glass | Toymaker Brain | “Is That Your Dick?” | [Tantus Plunge](http://girlyjuice.net/review-tantus-plunge/) | Plagiarism | “Revolutionary” Toys | Versatile Implements | [Bruises](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/823694912520683522) | Theme Songs This week we’re talkin’ shop with [Kenton](https://twitter.com/funkittoys), lead fucksmith at [Funkit Toys](https://www.funkittoys.com/)! Find out how silicone toys are made, what’s in the works at Funkit, and what inappropriate question people always ask Kenton at cons. Genderless Toys | [Paddles](https://www.funkittoys.com/shop) | Customer Feedback | Ideas | Silicone | [Signet](https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/funkit-signet-hand-sex-plus#/) | Dream Toys | Glass | Toymaker Brain | “Is That Your Dick?” | [Tantus Plunge](http://girlyjuice.net/review-tantus-plunge/) | Plagiarism | “Revolutionary” Toys | Versatile Implements | [Bruises](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/823694912520683522) | Theme Songs sex toys, silicone, spanking true full 32 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-04-19_dd-420.mp3 Episode 31: Merry 'Juana! This week is 4/20 so we decided to get high and ask each other goofy hypotheticals. How do you suck a 6-foot dick? What are our desert-island dildos? And which two Beatles would be the best threesome buddies?

Podcasting High | #DildorksLive | Magic of Editing | Dick-Sized Persons | Sex on Food | Grocery Store | Edible Toys | Cheese | Labia-Swappin' | Good Pups | Gender Constructs | Beatles | Subby Wolf | Podcast-Married | Musicals & Video Games | Cis Man-ception | Warrior's Burial | Lightning Round | Risky Dick Texts

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]]> Wed, 19 Apr 2017 10:28:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-31-merry-juana-04892aca This week is 4/20 so we decided to get high and ask each other goofy hypotheticals. How do you suck a 6-foot dick? What are our desert-island dildos? And which two Beatles would be the best threesome buddies?

Podcasting High | #DildorksLive | Magic of Editing | Dick-Sized Persons | Sex on Food | Grocery Store | Edible Toys | Cheese | Labia-Swappin' | Good Pups | Gender Constructs | Beatles | Subby Wolf | Podcast-Married | Musicals & Video Games | Cis Man-ception | Warrior's Burial | Lightning Round | Risky Dick Texts

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]]> Episode 31: Merry 'Juana! Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:56:30 This week is 4/20 so we decided to get high and ask each other goofy hypotheticals. How do you suck a 6-foot dick? What are our desert-island dildos? And which two Beatles would be the best threesome buddies? Podcasting High | [#DildorksLive](https://twitter.com/search?f=tweets&vertical=default&q=%23DildorksLive&src=tyah) | Magic of Editing | Dick-Sized Persons | Sex on Food | Grocery Store | Edible Toys | Cheese | Labia-Swappin' | Good Pups | Gender Constructs | Beatles | Subby Wolf | Podcast-Married | Musicals & Video Games | Cis Man-ception | Warrior's Burial | Lightning Round | Risky Dick Texts This week is 4/20 so we decided to get high and ask each other goofy hypotheticals. How do you suck a 6-foot dick? What are our desert-island dildos? And which two Beatles would be the best threesome buddies? Podcasting High | [#DildorksLive](https://twitter.com/search?f=tweets&vertical=default&q=%23DildorksLive&src=tyah) | Magic of Editing | Dick-Sized Persons | Sex on Food | Grocery Store | Edible Toys | Cheese | Labia-Swappin' | Good Pups | Gender Constructs | Beatles | Subby Wolf | Podcast-Married | Musicals & Video Games | Cis Man-ception | Warrior's Burial | Lightning Round | Risky Dick Texts 420, marijuana, drugs true full 31 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-04-11_dd30-ruiningthemood.mp3 Episode 30: What Mood, Dude? Why are people so terrified of "ruining the mood" during sex? This week, we investigate alleged mood-ruiners, like consent conversations, technique criticism, and laughter. Spoiler alert: if the mood is good, it's hard to ruin!

Silent Sex | Hard Conversations | Yes, And... | And Then What? | Laughing | Consent | Redirects | Princess | Safer Sex | Reid Mihalko's Elevator Speech | Escalation | Compliment Sandwich | Positive Feedback | Check-Ins | Bad Music | The "Gloopy" Story | Body-Shaming | Gender Weirdness | Take the Leap | Phone Calls | Pre-Negotiation | "Did I Say You Could Stop?" | Labels

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]]> Wed, 12 Apr 2017 05:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-30-what-mood-dude-fa8f30ce Why are people so terrified of "ruining the mood" during sex? This week, we investigate alleged mood-ruiners, like consent conversations, technique criticism, and laughter. Spoiler alert: if the mood is good, it's hard to ruin!

Silent Sex | Hard Conversations | Yes, And... | And Then What? | Laughing | Consent | Redirects | Princess | Safer Sex | Reid Mihalko's Elevator Speech | Escalation | Compliment Sandwich | Positive Feedback | Check-Ins | Bad Music | The "Gloopy" Story | Body-Shaming | Gender Weirdness | Take the Leap | Phone Calls | Pre-Negotiation | "Did I Say You Could Stop?" | Labels

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]]> Episode 30: What Mood, Dude? Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:07:20 Why are people so terrified of "ruining the mood" during sex? This week, we investigate alleged mood-ruiners, like consent conversations, technique criticism, and laughter. Spoiler alert: if the mood is good, it's hard to ruin! Silent Sex | Hard Conversations | Yes, And... | And Then What? | Laughing | Consent | Redirects | Princess | Safer Sex | [Reid Mihalko's Elevator Speech](http://reidaboutsex.com/safersexelevatorspeech/) | Escalation | Compliment Sandwich | Positive Feedback | Check-Ins | Bad Music | The "Gloopy" Story | Body-Shaming | Gender Weirdness | Take the Leap | Phone Calls | Pre-Negotiation | "Did I Say You Could Stop?" | Labels Why are people so terrified of "ruining the mood" during sex? This week, we investigate alleged mood-ruiners, like consent conversations, technique criticism, and laughter. Spoiler alert: if the mood is good, it's hard to ruin! Silent Sex | Hard Conversations | Yes, And... | And Then What? | Laughing | Consent | Redirects | Princess | Safer Sex | [Reid Mihalko's Elevator Speech](http://reidaboutsex.com/safersexelevatorspeech/) | Escalation | Compliment Sandwich | Positive Feedback | Check-Ins | Bad Music | The "Gloopy" Story | Body-Shaming | Gender Weirdness | Take the Leap | Phone Calls | Pre-Negotiation | "Did I Say You Could Stop?" | Labels consent, relationships, communication, sex true full 30 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-04-05_dd29-porn.mp3 Episode 29: A Veritable Pornucopia Porn makes great jerk-off fodder, but it's also so much more than that! This episode, find out why Bex doesn't really watch porn, why Kate's mom is a sex-positive superhero, and why we both get hard and wet for authenticity.

Consumption Styles | Porn vs. Fantasies | Gagging | Heather Harmon | Bushes & Butches | Kate's Mom | Audio | Authenticity | Dylan Ryan & Danny Wylde | Educational Porn | Feminist Porn | Toronto International Porn Festival | MindGeek | Bad Oral | Nina Hartley | James Darling | Uncut Dicks | Funkit Toys | Creative Kink | Agreeable Agony | KinkMachineWorks | Stockroom

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]]> Wed, 5 Apr 2017 05:52:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-29-a-veritable-pornucopia-3b56fd26 Porn makes great jerk-off fodder, but it's also so much more than that! This episode, find out why Bex doesn't really watch porn, why Kate's mom is a sex-positive superhero, and why we both get hard and wet for authenticity.

Consumption Styles | Porn vs. Fantasies | Gagging | Heather Harmon | Bushes & Butches | Kate's Mom | Audio | Authenticity | Dylan Ryan & Danny Wylde | Educational Porn | Feminist Porn | Toronto International Porn Festival | MindGeek | Bad Oral | Nina Hartley | James Darling | Uncut Dicks | Funkit Toys | Creative Kink | Agreeable Agony | KinkMachineWorks | Stockroom

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]]> Episode 29: A Veritable Pornucopia Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:00:22 Porn makes great jerk-off fodder, but it's also so much more than that! This episode, find out why Bex doesn't really watch porn, why Kate's mom is a sex-positive superhero, and why we both get hard and wet for authenticity. Consumption Styles | Porn vs. Fantasies | Gagging | [Heather Harmon](http://thoughtcatalog.com/hersh-bavnik/2013/12/the-legend-of-heather-i-deepthroat-an-incomplete-story-of-americas-greatest-porn-star/) | Bushes & Butches | Kate's Mom | Audio | Authenticity | [Dylan Ryan & Danny Wylde](https://heyepiphora.com/2011/12/5-reasons-you-need-to-buy-the-dylan-danny-scene-on-the-smitten-kitten/) | Educational Porn | Feminist Porn | [Toronto International Porn Festival](http://www.torontointernationalpornfestival.com/) | MindGeek | Bad Oral | [Nina Hartley](http://www.xcritic.com/review/32257/sunny-lane-seymore-butts-how-to-eat-pussy-like-a-champ/) | James Darling | Uncut Dicks | [Funkit Toys](https://www.funkittoys.com/) | [Creative Kink](https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/CreativeKink) | [Agreeable Agony](https://www.etsy.com/shop/AgreeableAgony) | [KinkMachineWorks](https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/KinkMachineWorks) | [Stockroom](http://www.stockroom.com/?ref=1148985) Porn makes great jerk-off fodder, but it's also so much more than that! This episode, find out why Bex doesn't really watch porn, why Kate's mom is a sex-positive superhero, and why we both get hard and wet for authenticity. Consumption Styles | Porn vs. Fantasies | Gagging | [Heather Harmon](http://thoughtcatalog.com/hersh-bavnik/2013/12/the-legend-of-heather-i-deepthroat-an-incomplete-story-of-americas-greatest-porn-star/) | Bushes & Butches | Kate's Mom | Audio | Authenticity | [Dylan Ryan & Danny Wylde](https://heyepiphora.com/2011/12/5-reasons-you-need-to-buy-the-dylan-danny-scene-on-the-smitten-kitten/) | Educational Porn | Feminist Porn | [Toronto International Porn Festival](http://www.torontointernationalpornfestival.com/) | MindGeek | Bad Oral | [Nina Hartley](http://www.xcritic.com/review/32257/sunny-lane-seymore-butts-how-to-eat-pussy-like-a-champ/) | James Darling | Uncut Dicks | [Funkit Toys](https://www.funkittoys.com/) | [Creative Kink](https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/CreativeKink) | [Agreeable Agony](https://www.etsy.com/shop/AgreeableAgony) | [KinkMachineWorks](https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/KinkMachineWorks) | [Stockroom](http://www.stockroom.com/?ref=1148985) feminist porn, porn, erotica true full 29 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-03-29_dd28-dirtylola.mp3 Episode 28: Picky Sluts Unite This week we're joined by smart, savvy sex educator Dirty Lola! We chat with her about ethical polyamory, what makes someone a slut, and why Bill Nye needs to host a sex ed show.

Sex Ed A Go Go | Bill Nye | Sharing Details | Unfollow Me | Poly Tips | Sluttiness | Sex Matters | Science Experiments | Online Dating | #SlutProblems | Non-Disclosure | Sex Geeks | Condom Tailor

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]]> Wed, 29 Mar 2017 14:48:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-28-picky-sluts-unite-9168ae88 This week we're joined by smart, savvy sex educator Dirty Lola! We chat with her about ethical polyamory, what makes someone a slut, and why Bill Nye needs to host a sex ed show.

Sex Ed A Go Go | Bill Nye | Sharing Details | Unfollow Me | Poly Tips | Sluttiness | Sex Matters | Science Experiments | Online Dating | #SlutProblems | Non-Disclosure | Sex Geeks | Condom Tailor

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]]> Episode 28: Picky Sluts Unite Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:45:59 This week we're joined by smart, savvy sex educator [Dirty Lola](http://dirtylola69.tumblr.com/)! We chat with her about ethical polyamory, what makes someone a slut, and why Bill Nye needs to host a sex ed show. [Sex Ed A Go Go](http://sexedagogo.com/) | Bill Nye | Sharing Details | [Unfollow Me](http://girlyjuice.net/why-you-should-never-follow-the-person-youre-dating-on-twitter/) | Poly Tips | Sluttiness | Sex Matters | Science Experiments | Online Dating | #SlutProblems | Non-Disclosure | Sex Geeks | Condom Tailor This week we're joined by smart, savvy sex educator [Dirty Lola](http://dirtylola69.tumblr.com/)! We chat with her about ethical polyamory, what makes someone a slut, and why Bill Nye needs to host a sex ed show. [Sex Ed A Go Go](http://sexedagogo.com/) | Bill Nye | Sharing Details | [Unfollow Me](http://girlyjuice.net/why-you-should-never-follow-the-person-youre-dating-on-twitter/) | Poly Tips | Sluttiness | Sex Matters | Science Experiments | Online Dating | #SlutProblems | Non-Disclosure | Sex Geeks | Condom Tailor sex education, promiscuity, polyamory true full 28 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-03-22_dd27-gspot.mp3 Episode 27: G Marks the Spot Today we discuss the much-debated G-spot! Why does Bex find big muscles hot? Why do Kate's partners not even know where her G-spot is? And how do we deal when we unexpectedly squirt all over everything?

Prehensile G-Spot | Is It a Thing? | Magic Button | Clit Stim | Squirting & Spurting | Pelvic vs. Pudendal Nerve | Emotional Bonding | A-Spot | Njoy Eleven | Pure Wand | NobEssence Seduction | Fling | Mustang | Maverick | Comet Wand | Hard & Fast | Muscles | Jimmyjane Form 4 | Liberator Throe | External G-Spot | Sexual Debuts

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]]> Wed, 22 Mar 2017 13:17:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-27-g-marks-the-spot-70ca9212 Today we discuss the much-debated G-spot! Why does Bex find big muscles hot? Why do Kate's partners not even know where her G-spot is? And how do we deal when we unexpectedly squirt all over everything?

Prehensile G-Spot | Is It a Thing? | Magic Button | Clit Stim | Squirting & Spurting | Pelvic vs. Pudendal Nerve | Emotional Bonding | A-Spot | Njoy Eleven | Pure Wand | NobEssence Seduction | Fling | Mustang | Maverick | Comet Wand | Hard & Fast | Muscles | Jimmyjane Form 4 | Liberator Throe | External G-Spot | Sexual Debuts

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]]> Episode 27: G Marks the Spot Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:58:30 Today we discuss the much-debated G-spot! Why does Bex find big muscles hot? Why do Kate's partners not even know where her G-spot is? And how do we deal when we unexpectedly squirt all over everything? Prehensile G-Spot | Is It a Thing? | Magic Button | Clit Stim | [Squirting](https://maisonneuve.org/article/2015/11/17/wee-dispute/) & Spurting | Pelvic vs. Pudendal Nerve | Emotional Bonding | [A-Spot](http://girlyjuice.net/lets-learn-about-the-a-spot/) | [Njoy Eleven](http://girlyjuice.net/review-njoy-eleven/) | [Pure Wand](http://www.bextalkssex.com/njoy-pure-wand-vs-jopen-comet-wand/) | [NobEssence Seduction](http://girlyjuice.net/review-nobessence-seduction/) | [Fling](http://www.bextalkssex.com/nobessence-fling-review/) | [Mustang](http://girlyjuice.net/my-love-affair-with-the-vixskin-mustang/) | [Maverick](http://www.bextalkssex.com/review-vixen-maverick/) | [Comet Wand](http://girlyjuice.net/review-jopen-key-comet-wand/) | Hard & Fast | Muscles | [Jimmyjane Form 4](http://www.shevibe.com/jimmyjane-form-4-waterproof-rechargeable-vibrator.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Liberator Throe](http://www.shevibe.com/fascinator-king-size-lush-throe-velvish-black-76-inches-x-80-inches.aspx#oid=1013_1) | [External G-Spot](http://girlyjuice.net/how-to-stimulate-your-g-spot-from-the-outside/) | Sexual Debuts Today we discuss the much-debated G-spot! Why does Bex find big muscles hot? Why do Kate's partners not even know where her G-spot is? And how do we deal when we unexpectedly squirt all over everything? Prehensile G-Spot | Is It a Thing? | Magic Button | Clit Stim | [Squirting](https://maisonneuve.org/article/2015/11/17/wee-dispute/) & Spurting | Pelvic vs. Pudendal Nerve | Emotional Bonding | [A-Spot](http://girlyjuice.net/lets-learn-about-the-a-spot/) | [Njoy Eleven](http://girlyjuice.net/review-njoy-eleven/) | [Pure Wand](http://www.bextalkssex.com/njoy-pure-wand-vs-jopen-comet-wand/) | [NobEssence Seduction](http://girlyjuice.net/review-nobessence-seduction/) | [Fling](http://www.bextalkssex.com/nobessence-fling-review/) | [Mustang](http://girlyjuice.net/my-love-affair-with-the-vixskin-mustang/) | [Maverick](http://www.bextalkssex.com/review-vixen-maverick/) | [Comet Wand](http://girlyjuice.net/review-jopen-key-comet-wand/) | Hard & Fast | Muscles | [Jimmyjane Form 4](http://www.shevibe.com/jimmyjane-form-4-waterproof-rechargeable-vibrator.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Liberator Throe](http://www.shevibe.com/fascinator-king-size-lush-throe-velvish-black-76-inches-x-80-inches.aspx#oid=1013_1) | [External G-Spot](http://girlyjuice.net/how-to-stimulate-your-g-spot-from-the-outside/) | Sexual Debuts g-spot, sex toys, vagina, ejaculation, squirting true full 27 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-03-15_dd26-enthusiasm.mp3 Episode 26: Enthusi-gasm! As per usual, we're enthusin' about enthusiasm! Find out the strangest sex compliment Bex ever received, what Kate's boobs have in common with Mario the plumber, and why tourism induces better sex.

French Fries | Picky Sluts | Blowjob Quests | Authenticity | Desirability | Passion | Before, During and After | Anxiety | Compliments | Out-of-Towners | "Thank You" | Overenthusiasm | Contact Improv | Asking | Cat Tongue | Patreon | Synonyms

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]]> Wed, 15 Mar 2017 16:24:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-26-enthusi-gasm-9f5cb829 As per usual, we're enthusin' about enthusiasm! Find out the strangest sex compliment Bex ever received, what Kate's boobs have in common with Mario the plumber, and why tourism induces better sex.

French Fries | Picky Sluts | Blowjob Quests | Authenticity | Desirability | Passion | Before, During and After | Anxiety | Compliments | Out-of-Towners | "Thank You" | Overenthusiasm | Contact Improv | Asking | Cat Tongue | Patreon | Synonyms

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]]> Episode 26: Enthusi-gasm! Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:56:28 As per usual, we're enthusin' about enthusiasm! Find out the strangest sex compliment Bex ever received, what Kate's boobs have in common with Mario the plumber, and why tourism induces better sex. French Fries | Picky Sluts | Blowjob Quests | Authenticity | Desirability | [Passion](http://girlyjuice.net/ask-these-3-questions-you-might-fall-in-love/) | Before, During and After | Anxiety | [Compliments](http://girlyjuice.net/how-to-give-a-killer-compliment/) | Out-of-Towners | "Thank You" | Overenthusiasm | Contact Improv | Asking | Cat Tongue | [Patreon](http://patreon.com/thedildorks) | Synonyms As per usual, we're enthusin' about enthusiasm! Find out the strangest sex compliment Bex ever received, what Kate's boobs have in common with Mario the plumber, and why tourism induces better sex. French Fries | Picky Sluts | Blowjob Quests | Authenticity | Desirability | [Passion](http://girlyjuice.net/ask-these-3-questions-you-might-fall-in-love/) | Before, During and After | Anxiety | [Compliments](http://girlyjuice.net/how-to-give-a-killer-compliment/) | Out-of-Towners | "Thank You" | Overenthusiasm | Contact Improv | Asking | Cat Tongue | [Patreon](http://patreon.com/thedildorks) | Synonyms dating, enthusiasm, relationships, sex true full 26 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-03-08_dd25-service.mp3 Episode 25: You Got Served Service isn't just unpaid labor; for us, it's a kink, too! In this episode, find out how cleaning can be hot, what craft beer has to do with kink, and whether semen is a good reward...

Helpful & Useful | Is It a Sex Thing, Tho? | Falling In Kink | Vanilla Confusion | Anxiety | Structure | Threesomes | What Should I Do? | The Marketplace | Sexual vs. Nonsexual Service | Remembering Preferences | Taking Pain | Giving Head | Kink-Negging | Cum | Verbal Praise | Surprise & Delight | Boundaries | Unreasonable Requests | Nerve Endings | Good Girl | Star Signs | Solo Masochism

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]]> Wed, 8 Mar 2017 12:41:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-25-you-got-served-0cab20fa Service isn't just unpaid labor; for us, it's a kink, too! In this episode, find out how cleaning can be hot, what craft beer has to do with kink, and whether semen is a good reward...

Helpful & Useful | Is It a Sex Thing, Tho? | Falling In Kink | Vanilla Confusion | Anxiety | Structure | Threesomes | What Should I Do? | The Marketplace | Sexual vs. Nonsexual Service | Remembering Preferences | Taking Pain | Giving Head | Kink-Negging | Cum | Verbal Praise | Surprise & Delight | Boundaries | Unreasonable Requests | Nerve Endings | Good Girl | Star Signs | Solo Masochism

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]]> Episode 25: You Got Served Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:55:46 Service isn't just unpaid labor; for us, it's a kink, too! In this episode, find out how cleaning can be hot, what craft beer has to do with kink, and whether semen is a good reward... Helpful & Useful | Is It a Sex Thing, Tho? | Falling In Kink | Vanilla Confusion | Anxiety | Structure | Threesomes | What Should I Do? | The Marketplace | Sexual vs. Nonsexual Service | Remembering Preferences | Taking Pain | Giving Head | Kink-Negging | Cum | Verbal Praise | Surprise & Delight | Boundaries | Unreasonable Requests | [Nerve Endings](http://www.instarbooks.com/books/nerve-endings.html) | [Good Girl](http://girlyjuice.net/im-a-good-girl/) | Star Signs | Solo Masochism Service isn't just unpaid labor; for us, it's a kink, too! In this episode, find out how cleaning can be hot, what craft beer has to do with kink, and whether semen is a good reward... Helpful & Useful | Is It a Sex Thing, Tho? | Falling In Kink | Vanilla Confusion | Anxiety | Structure | Threesomes | What Should I Do? | The Marketplace | Sexual vs. Nonsexual Service | Remembering Preferences | Taking Pain | Giving Head | Kink-Negging | Cum | Verbal Praise | Surprise & Delight | Boundaries | Unreasonable Requests | [Nerve Endings](http://www.instarbooks.com/books/nerve-endings.html) | [Good Girl](http://girlyjuice.net/im-a-good-girl/) | Star Signs | Solo Masochism service, bdsm, kink true full 25 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-02-28_dd24-useyournerds.mp3 Episode 24: Use Your Nerds This week we're joined by our buddy Brent "Brentalfloss" Black, game dev, YouTuber, and podcaster extraordinaire! We found out what sex jokes he had to cut from his forthcoming party game, which sex toys he hates, and what celebrity impressions he likes to do during sex.

Trends Like These | Sex Nerds | Pavlovian Arousal | Dildos | Jar of Horrors | Use Your Words | Censoring Jokes | Clit Humor | Punching Up | Taylor J. Mace | Impressions | SoloFlesh | Cobra Libre | Sex Enchantress | Shitty Games | Giggly Sex | Sister Christian | Sex Criminals | Sex-Nerd Homework | Fruit Bowl

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]]> Wed, 1 Mar 2017 06:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-24-use-your-nerds-7feaa09d This week we're joined by our buddy Brent "Brentalfloss" Black, game dev, YouTuber, and podcaster extraordinaire! We found out what sex jokes he had to cut from his forthcoming party game, which sex toys he hates, and what celebrity impressions he likes to do during sex.

Trends Like These | Sex Nerds | Pavlovian Arousal | Dildos | Jar of Horrors | Use Your Words | Censoring Jokes | Clit Humor | Punching Up | Taylor J. Mace | Impressions | SoloFlesh | Cobra Libre | Sex Enchantress | Shitty Games | Giggly Sex | Sister Christian | Sex Criminals | Sex-Nerd Homework | Fruit Bowl

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]]> Episode 24: Use Your Nerds Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:00:09 This week we're joined by our buddy [Brent "Brentalfloss" Black](https://twitter.com/brentalfloss), game dev, [YouTuber](http://youtube.com/user/brentalfloss), and podcaster extraordinaire! We found out what sex jokes he had to cut from his forthcoming party game, which sex toys he hates, and what celebrity impressions he likes to do during sex. [Trends Like These](http://trendslikethese.com/) | Sex Nerds | Pavlovian Arousal | Dildos | Jar of Horrors | [Use Your Words](http://useyourwords.lol/) | Censoring Jokes | Clit Humor | Punching Up | [Taylor J. Mace](http://www.feistyfoxfilms.com/) | Impressions | SoloFlesh | [Cobra Libre](http://www.shevibe.com/fun-factory-cobra-libre-ii-male-masturbator-black-and-red.aspx#oid=1013_1) | Sex Enchantress | Shitty Games | Giggly Sex | [Sister Christian](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z92bmlcmyq0) | Sex Criminals | Sex-Nerd Homework | Fruit Bowl This week we're joined by our buddy [Brent "Brentalfloss" Black](https://twitter.com/brentalfloss), game dev, [YouTuber](http://youtube.com/user/brentalfloss), and podcaster extraordinaire! We found out what sex jokes he had to cut from his forthcoming party game, which sex toys he hates, and what celebrity impressions he likes to do during sex. [Trends Like These](http://trendslikethese.com/) | Sex Nerds | Pavlovian Arousal | Dildos | Jar of Horrors | [Use Your Words](http://useyourwords.lol/) | Censoring Jokes | Clit Humor | Punching Up | [Taylor J. Mace](http://www.feistyfoxfilms.com/) | Impressions | SoloFlesh | [Cobra Libre](http://www.shevibe.com/fun-factory-cobra-libre-ii-male-masturbator-black-and-red.aspx#oid=1013_1) | Sex Enchantress | Shitty Games | Giggly Sex | [Sister Christian](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z92bmlcmyq0) | Sex Criminals | Sex-Nerd Homework | Fruit Bowl sex toys, brentalfloss, use your words true full 24 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-02-22_dd23-sextoyretail.mp3 Episode 23: Dildo-Slingers There's more to selling sex toys than you would think! This week, retail guru Bex shares their cock-hawkin' wisdom with retail noob Kate. Find out how we deal with creepy customers, what we wish our stores carried, and why coworker crushes are fantastic.

Organizing Seeds | Late For The Interview | Emotional Labor | Self-Care | MiMi Soft | Form 2 | Sensuelle Joie | Tango | We-Vibe Sync | Magic Wand | Money | Turbo Glider | Iroha Mini | Porous Toys | Rechargeables | Gimmicks | Creeps & Boundaries | Fuze Dildos | Tantus Uncut | Sliquid | Lube Spills | Seedy Gay Sex Shops | Coworker Crushes

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]]> Wed, 22 Feb 2017 06:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-23-dildo-slingers-acc3aa0f There's more to selling sex toys than you would think! This week, retail guru Bex shares their cock-hawkin' wisdom with retail noob Kate. Find out how we deal with creepy customers, what we wish our stores carried, and why coworker crushes are fantastic.

Organizing Seeds | Late For The Interview | Emotional Labor | Self-Care | MiMi Soft | Form 2 | Sensuelle Joie | Tango | We-Vibe Sync | Magic Wand | Money | Turbo Glider | Iroha Mini | Porous Toys | Rechargeables | Gimmicks | Creeps & Boundaries | Fuze Dildos | Tantus Uncut | Sliquid | Lube Spills | Seedy Gay Sex Shops | Coworker Crushes

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]]> Episode 23: Dildo-Slingers Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:13:14 There's more to selling sex toys than you would think! This week, retail guru Bex shares their cock-hawkin' wisdom with retail noob Kate. Find out how we deal with creepy customers, what we wish our stores carried, and why coworker crushes are fantastic. Organizing Seeds | Late For The Interview | Emotional Labor | Self-Care | [MiMi Soft](http://www.shevibe.com/je-joue-mimi-soft-waterproof-rechargeable-silicone-vibrator.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Form 2](http://www.shevibe.com/jimmyjane-form-2-waterproof-rechargeable-vibrator.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Sensuelle Joie](http://early2bedshop.com/sensuelle-point.html?acc=a87ff679a2f3e71d9181a67b7542122c) | [Tango](http://www.shevibe.com/we-vibe-tango-waterproof-discreet-vibrator-blue.aspx#oid=1013_1) | [We-Vibe Sync](http://www.shevibe.com/we-vibe-sync-remote-and-app-controlled-couples-vibrator-aqua.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Magic Wand](http://www.shevibe.com/magic-wand-rechargeable-cordless-vibrator.aspx#oid=1013_1) | Money | [Turbo Glider](http://www.shevibe.com/turbo-glider-vibrator-by-calexotics-blueberry-bliss.aspx#oid=1013_1) | [Iroha Mini](http://www.shevibe.com/iroha-mini-vibrator-ume-anzu-rose-and-pink.aspx#oid=1056_1) | Porous Toys | Rechargeables | Gimmicks | Creeps & Boundaries | [Fuze Dildos](https://www.spotofdelight.com/collections/fuze-happy-valley) | [Tantus Uncut](https://www.spotofdelight.com/products/uncut-o2) | [Sliquid](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?find=sliquid&log=false&manufacturer=253#oid=1013_1) | Lube Spills | Seedy Gay Sex Shops | Coworker Crushes There's more to selling sex toys than you would think! This week, retail guru Bex shares their cock-hawkin' wisdom with retail noob Kate. Find out how we deal with creepy customers, what we wish our stores carried, and why coworker crushes are fantastic. Organizing Seeds | Late For The Interview | Emotional Labor | Self-Care | [MiMi Soft](http://www.shevibe.com/je-joue-mimi-soft-waterproof-rechargeable-silicone-vibrator.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Form 2](http://www.shevibe.com/jimmyjane-form-2-waterproof-rechargeable-vibrator.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Sensuelle Joie](http://early2bedshop.com/sensuelle-point.html?acc=a87ff679a2f3e71d9181a67b7542122c) | [Tango](http://www.shevibe.com/we-vibe-tango-waterproof-discreet-vibrator-blue.aspx#oid=1013_1) | [We-Vibe Sync](http://www.shevibe.com/we-vibe-sync-remote-and-app-controlled-couples-vibrator-aqua.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Magic Wand](http://www.shevibe.com/magic-wand-rechargeable-cordless-vibrator.aspx#oid=1013_1) | Money | [Turbo Glider](http://www.shevibe.com/turbo-glider-vibrator-by-calexotics-blueberry-bliss.aspx#oid=1013_1) | [Iroha Mini](http://www.shevibe.com/iroha-mini-vibrator-ume-anzu-rose-and-pink.aspx#oid=1056_1) | Porous Toys | Rechargeables | Gimmicks | Creeps & Boundaries | [Fuze Dildos](https://www.spotofdelight.com/collections/fuze-happy-valley) | [Tantus Uncut](https://www.spotofdelight.com/products/uncut-o2) | [Sliquid](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?find=sliquid&log=false&manufacturer=253#oid=1013_1) | Lube Spills | Seedy Gay Sex Shops | Coworker Crushes sex toys, retail, vibrators true full 23 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-02-13_dd22-romance.mp3 Episode 22: Romancipation Flowers and chocolate are so played out, but does Valentine's Day still have any value? In this episode, we ruminate on romance. Find out what Bex's fourth-grade suitor bought them, why Kate just doesn't "get" romantic sex, and how menstrual cramps made us both ponder romance.

Robo-Bex | Valentine's Day | Dog People vs. Cat People | Platonic Romance | Comfort & Consistency | Grand Gestures | Perseverance | Romantic Attraction | Making Love | Kisses | Menstrual Woes | Flowers | Cowboy Boots | Pokémon | Pure Plug 2.0 | Aslan Minx Harness | Fifty Shades | Romantic Confessions | Thoughtful Gifts

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]]> Wed, 15 Feb 2017 06:05:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-22-romancipation-1204b471 Flowers and chocolate are so played out, but does Valentine's Day still have any value? In this episode, we ruminate on romance. Find out what Bex's fourth-grade suitor bought them, why Kate just doesn't "get" romantic sex, and how menstrual cramps made us both ponder romance.

Robo-Bex | Valentine's Day | Dog People vs. Cat People | Platonic Romance | Comfort & Consistency | Grand Gestures | Perseverance | Romantic Attraction | Making Love | Kisses | Menstrual Woes | Flowers | Cowboy Boots | Pokémon | Pure Plug 2.0 | Aslan Minx Harness | Fifty Shades | Romantic Confessions | Thoughtful Gifts

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]]> Episode 22: Romancipation Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:49:25 Flowers and chocolate are so played out, but does Valentine's Day still have any value? In this episode, we ruminate on romance. Find out what Bex's fourth-grade suitor bought them, why Kate just doesn't "get" romantic sex, and how menstrual cramps made us both ponder romance. Robo-Bex | Valentine's Day | [Dog People vs. Cat People](http://reidaboutsex.com/date-your-species/) | Platonic Romance | Comfort & Consistency | Grand Gestures | Perseverance | Romantic Attraction | Making Love | Kisses | Menstrual Woes | Flowers | Cowboy Boots | Pokémon | [Pure Plug 2.0](https://www.spotofdelight.com/products/njoy-pure-plug-2-0) | [Aslan Minx Harness](https://www.spotofdelight.com/search?q=Aslan+Minx) | Fifty Shades | Romantic Confessions | Thoughtful Gifts Flowers and chocolate are so played out, but does Valentine's Day still have any value? In this episode, we ruminate on romance. Find out what Bex's fourth-grade suitor bought them, why Kate just doesn't "get" romantic sex, and how menstrual cramps made us both ponder romance. Robo-Bex | Valentine's Day | [Dog People vs. Cat People](http://reidaboutsex.com/date-your-species/) | Platonic Romance | Comfort & Consistency | Grand Gestures | Perseverance | Romantic Attraction | Making Love | Kisses | Menstrual Woes | Flowers | Cowboy Boots | Pokémon | [Pure Plug 2.0](https://www.spotofdelight.com/products/njoy-pure-plug-2-0) | [Aslan Minx Harness](https://www.spotofdelight.com/search?q=Aslan+Minx) | Fifty Shades | Romantic Confessions | Thoughtful Gifts romance, dating, love, valentine's day true full 22 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-02-07_dd21-attraction.mp3 Episode 21: Attraction Abstraction Human attractions are mysterious phenomena! In this episode, we unpack what draws us to people and what repulses us. Why is Kate doomed to date game devs forever? How does Bex weigh good dick against bad politics? And why do our feelings on dweeby blazers differ so drastically?!

Pillow Forts | High Sexts | Physical vs. Mental | Improv Crushes | Sartorial Appropriateness | Tinder Bros | Beauty Standards | Game Devs | Bad Politics | Bad Spellers | The Meaning of Monogamy | Spot of Delight | Inappropriate Crushes | Fantasy-Ruiners | Unexpected Feelings

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]]> Wed, 8 Feb 2017 06:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-21-attraction-abstraction-034e3ffa Human attractions are mysterious phenomena! In this episode, we unpack what draws us to people and what repulses us. Why is Kate doomed to date game devs forever? How does Bex weigh good dick against bad politics? And why do our feelings on dweeby blazers differ so drastically?!

Pillow Forts | High Sexts | Physical vs. Mental | Improv Crushes | Sartorial Appropriateness | Tinder Bros | Beauty Standards | Game Devs | Bad Politics | Bad Spellers | The Meaning of Monogamy | Spot of Delight | Inappropriate Crushes | Fantasy-Ruiners | Unexpected Feelings

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]]> Episode 21: Attraction Abstraction Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:53:39 Human attractions are mysterious phenomena! In this episode, we unpack what draws us to people and what repulses us. Why is Kate doomed to date game devs forever? How does Bex weigh good dick against bad politics? And why do our feelings on dweeby blazers differ so drastically?! Pillow Forts | High Sexts | Physical vs. Mental | Improv Crushes | Sartorial Appropriateness | Tinder Bros | Beauty Standards | Game Devs | Bad Politics | Bad Spellers | The Meaning of Monogamy | [Spot of Delight](https://www.spotofdelight.com/) | Inappropriate Crushes | Fantasy-Ruiners | Unexpected Feelings Human attractions are mysterious phenomena! In this episode, we unpack what draws us to people and what repulses us. Why is Kate doomed to date game devs forever? How does Bex weigh good dick against bad politics? And why do our feelings on dweeby blazers differ so drastically?! Pillow Forts | High Sexts | Physical vs. Mental | Improv Crushes | Sartorial Appropriateness | Tinder Bros | Beauty Standards | Game Devs | Bad Politics | Bad Spellers | The Meaning of Monogamy | [Spot of Delight](https://www.spotofdelight.com/) | Inappropriate Crushes | Fantasy-Ruiners | Unexpected Feelings dating, attraction, love true full 21 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-01-31_dd20-humor.mp3 Episode 20: Funnyboners Humor is one of the most popular traits people look for in a partner, and in this week's episode, we talk a little bit about why. Find out if we think laughing during sex kills the mood, why Starbucks will always make Bex think of failed cunnilingus, and what exactly is a dom-edian?

Attraction to Humor | Humor & Intelligence | Talk Flirty to Me | Humor Masking Vulnerability | Improv | My Brother, My Brother and Me | Flavors of Funny | Laughing During Sex | BAMF Threesome | Coach Bex | Giggly Kink | Dom-edian | Mark Hamill Joker | Contagious Laughter

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]]> Wed, 1 Feb 2017 06:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-20-funnyboners-bc325eae Humor is one of the most popular traits people look for in a partner, and in this week's episode, we talk a little bit about why. Find out if we think laughing during sex kills the mood, why Starbucks will always make Bex think of failed cunnilingus, and what exactly is a dom-edian?

Attraction to Humor | Humor & Intelligence | Talk Flirty to Me | Humor Masking Vulnerability | Improv | My Brother, My Brother and Me | Flavors of Funny | Laughing During Sex | BAMF Threesome | Coach Bex | Giggly Kink | Dom-edian | Mark Hamill Joker | Contagious Laughter

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]]> Episode 20: Funnyboners Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:38:38 Humor is one of the most popular traits people look for in a partner, and in this week's episode, we talk a little bit about why. Find out if we think laughing during sex kills the mood, why Starbucks will always make Bex think of failed cunnilingus, and what exactly is a dom-edian? Attraction to Humor | Humor & Intelligence | [Talk Flirty to Me](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2017/01/talk-flirty-to-me/) | Humor Masking Vulnerability | Improv | [My Brother, My Brother and Me](http://www.maximumfun.org/shows/my-brother-my-brother-and-me) | Flavors of Funny | Laughing During Sex | [BAMF Threesome](../../when-sex-nerds-plan-a-threesome/) | [Coach Bex](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/817444641381486594) | Giggly Kink | Dom-edian | [Mark Hamill Joker](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FK332cDUh8U) | Contagious Laughter Humor is one of the most popular traits people look for in a partner, and in this week's episode, we talk a little bit about why. Find out if we think laughing during sex kills the mood, why Starbucks will always make Bex think of failed cunnilingus, and what exactly is a dom-edian? Attraction to Humor | Humor & Intelligence | [Talk Flirty to Me](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2017/01/talk-flirty-to-me/) | Humor Masking Vulnerability | Improv | [My Brother, My Brother and Me](http://www.maximumfun.org/shows/my-brother-my-brother-and-me) | Flavors of Funny | Laughing During Sex | [BAMF Threesome](../../when-sex-nerds-plan-a-threesome/) | [Coach Bex](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/817444641381486594) | Giggly Kink | Dom-edian | [Mark Hamill Joker](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FK332cDUh8U) | Contagious Laughter comedy, humor, sex true full 20 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-01-25_dd20-cooperbeckett.mp3 Episode 19: Living Loudly Online This week we're joined by Cooper S. Beckett – author, podcaster, relationship coach, and swinger! The three of us chatted about being publicly sexy online, navigating consent with the people we write about, and the various personas we juggle.

Swinging Resources | Sharing Experiences | Crista Anne | Breaking the Social Contract | Anxiety & Depression | Sex Is Fun | Kissing Kidder | Pseudonyms | Shyness | Sex Is Political | Writing About Partners | Wear It Like Armor | Intimacy Imbalances | Personal Evolution | Women's March

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]]> Wed, 25 Jan 2017 06:50:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-19-living-loudly-online-efde5061 This week we're joined by Cooper S. Beckett – author, podcaster, relationship coach, and swinger! The three of us chatted about being publicly sexy online, navigating consent with the people we write about, and the various personas we juggle.

Swinging Resources | Sharing Experiences | Crista Anne | Breaking the Social Contract | Anxiety & Depression | Sex Is Fun | Kissing Kidder | Pseudonyms | Shyness | Sex Is Political | Writing About Partners | Wear It Like Armor | Intimacy Imbalances | Personal Evolution | Women's March

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]]> Episode 19: Living Loudly Online Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:48:48 This week we're joined by [Cooper S. Beckett](http://coopersbeckett.com/) – [author](http://coopersbeckett.com/books/), [podcaster](http://swingset.fm/), [relationship coach](http://coopersbeckett.com/coaching/), and swinger! The three of us chatted about being publicly sexy online, navigating consent with the people we write about, and the various personas we juggle. Swinging Resources | Sharing Experiences | [Crista Anne](http://www.cristaanne.com/) | Breaking the Social Contract | Anxiety & Depression | [Sex Is Fun](http://sexisfun.net/) | [Kissing Kidder](http://girlyjuice.net/i-met-my-sex-positive-hero-and-we-kissed/) | Pseudonyms | Shyness | Sex Is Political | Writing About Partners | [Wear It Like Armor](https://twitter.com/BexTalksSex/status/822256685406453760) | Intimacy Imbalances | Personal Evolution | Women's March This week we're joined by [Cooper S. Beckett](http://coopersbeckett.com/) – [author](http://coopersbeckett.com/books/), [podcaster](http://swingset.fm/), [relationship coach](http://coopersbeckett.com/coaching/), and swinger! The three of us chatted about being publicly sexy online, navigating consent with the people we write about, and the various personas we juggle. Swinging Resources | Sharing Experiences | [Crista Anne](http://www.cristaanne.com/) | Breaking the Social Contract | Anxiety & Depression | [Sex Is Fun](http://sexisfun.net/) | [Kissing Kidder](http://girlyjuice.net/i-met-my-sex-positive-hero-and-we-kissed/) | Pseudonyms | Shyness | Sex Is Political | Writing About Partners | [Wear It Like Armor](https://twitter.com/BexTalksSex/status/822256685406453760) | Intimacy Imbalances | Personal Evolution | Women's March politics, non-monogamy, sexual freedom true full 19 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-01-17_dd18-sextoymarketing.mp3 Episode 18: Orgasms 'n' Outrage Ever wonder which sex toy marketing trends we want to light on fire and banish to hell? In this episode we rant about the toy-marketing tropes that really rustle our jimmies. Find out which companies we hate, which ones we admire, and why a penis tuxedo provoked the ire of sex toy reviewers worldwide.

Sex Toy Retail | JeJoue MiMi Soft | Gendered Lube | Big Manly Dildos | Dehumanizing Language | Fleshlights | Butch Fun | Womanizer | Lelo Pino | Hot Octopuss Pulse | Grungy, Sleazy Sex | "Better Than The Real Thing" | Topco's "Fucked" Line | Problematic Kinks | Infomercial Products | Racial Fetishization | Dick Tux | Sensual Tux Man | Lifestyles Tuxedo Condoms | Orgasm Guarantees | Satisfyer | Pure Wand | "Innovation" | Lelo Condoms | Little Chroma | Funkit Toys | PicoBong Transformer

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]]> Wed, 18 Jan 2017 06:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-18-orgasms-n-outrage-d023afc7 Ever wonder which sex toy marketing trends we want to light on fire and banish to hell? In this episode we rant about the toy-marketing tropes that really rustle our jimmies. Find out which companies we hate, which ones we admire, and why a penis tuxedo provoked the ire of sex toy reviewers worldwide.

Sex Toy Retail | JeJoue MiMi Soft | Gendered Lube | Big Manly Dildos | Dehumanizing Language | Fleshlights | Butch Fun | Womanizer | Lelo Pino | Hot Octopuss Pulse | Grungy, Sleazy Sex | "Better Than The Real Thing" | Topco's "Fucked" Line | Problematic Kinks | Infomercial Products | Racial Fetishization | Dick Tux | Sensual Tux Man | Lifestyles Tuxedo Condoms | Orgasm Guarantees | Satisfyer | Pure Wand | "Innovation" | Lelo Condoms | Little Chroma | Funkit Toys | PicoBong Transformer

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]]> Episode 18: Orgasms 'n' Outrage Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:08:03 Ever wonder which sex toy marketing trends we want to light on fire and banish to hell? In this episode we rant about the toy-marketing tropes that really rustle our jimmies. Find out which companies we hate, which ones we admire, and why a penis tuxedo provoked the ire of sex toy reviewers worldwide. Sex Toy Retail | [JeJoue MiMi Soft](http://www.shevibe.com/je-joue-mimi-soft-waterproof-rechargeable-silicone-vibrator.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Gendered Lube](../../review-pink-gun-oil-lubes/) | [Big Manly Dildos](../../tag/fleshjack/) | Dehumanizing Language | [Fleshlights](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?find=fleshlight#oid=1056_1) | Butch Fun | [Womanizer](../../review-womanizer/) | [Lelo Pino](http://www.shevibe.com/lelo-pino-vibrating-couples-cock-ring-black.aspx#oid=1013_1) | [Hot Octopuss Pulse](http://www.shevibe.com/pulse-iii-solo-oscillating-male-masturbator-by-hot-octopuss.aspx#oid=1056_1) | Grungy, Sleazy Sex | "Better Than The Real Thing" | [Topco's "Fucked" Line](http://www.heyepiphora.com/2010/07/um-no-topcos-fucked-line/) | Problematic Kinks | [Infomercial Products](https://twitter.com/VanguardVivian/status/821393231283941378) | Racial Fetishization | [Dick Tux](http://www.theplaidzebra.com/this-sex-toy-company-wants-to-sell-you-a-tuxedo-for-your-penis/) | [Sensual Tux Man](https://bubblesandheels.files.wordpress.com/2016/03/screen-shot-2016-03-16-at-8-09-40-pm.png) | [Lifestyles Tuxedo Condoms](http://www.pntra.com/t/Qz9JSkNEP0NGREtCSj9JSkNE?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.condomania.com%2Flifestyles-tuxedo-condoms.html%3Ffee%3D7%26fep%3D450) | Orgasm Guarantees | [Satisfyer](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?find=satisfyer#oid=1013_1) | [Pure Wand](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2014/11/njoy-pure-wand-vs-jopen-comet-wand/) | "Innovation" | [Lelo Condoms](http://formidablefemme.com/2016/06/16/im-a-survivor-and-i-will-never-support-lelo-again/) | [Little Chroma](../../review-jimmyjane-little-chroma/) | [Funkit Toys](http://www.funkittoys.com/) | [PicoBong Transformer](http://www.shevibe.com/picobong-transformer-multi-use-waterproof-silicone-vibrator-yellow.aspx#oid=1056_1) Ever wonder which sex toy marketing trends we want to light on fire and banish to hell? In this episode we rant about the toy-marketing tropes that really rustle our jimmies. Find out which companies we hate, which ones we admire, and why a penis tuxedo provoked the ire of sex toy reviewers worldwide. Sex Toy Retail | [JeJoue MiMi Soft](http://www.shevibe.com/je-joue-mimi-soft-waterproof-rechargeable-silicone-vibrator.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Gendered Lube](../../review-pink-gun-oil-lubes/) | [Big Manly Dildos](../../tag/fleshjack/) | Dehumanizing Language | [Fleshlights](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?find=fleshlight#oid=1056_1) | Butch Fun | [Womanizer](../../review-womanizer/) | [Lelo Pino](http://www.shevibe.com/lelo-pino-vibrating-couples-cock-ring-black.aspx#oid=1013_1) | [Hot Octopuss Pulse](http://www.shevibe.com/pulse-iii-solo-oscillating-male-masturbator-by-hot-octopuss.aspx#oid=1056_1) | Grungy, Sleazy Sex | "Better Than The Real Thing" | [Topco's "Fucked" Line](http://www.heyepiphora.com/2010/07/um-no-topcos-fucked-line/) | Problematic Kinks | [Infomercial Products](https://twitter.com/VanguardVivian/status/821393231283941378) | Racial Fetishization | [Dick Tux](http://www.theplaidzebra.com/this-sex-toy-company-wants-to-sell-you-a-tuxedo-for-your-penis/) | [Sensual Tux Man](https://bubblesandheels.files.wordpress.com/2016/03/screen-shot-2016-03-16-at-8-09-40-pm.png) | [Lifestyles Tuxedo Condoms](http://www.pntra.com/t/Qz9JSkNEP0NGREtCSj9JSkNE?url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.condomania.com%2Flifestyles-tuxedo-condoms.html%3Ffee%3D7%26fep%3D450) | Orgasm Guarantees | [Satisfyer](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?find=satisfyer#oid=1013_1) | [Pure Wand](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2014/11/njoy-pure-wand-vs-jopen-comet-wand/) | "Innovation" | [Lelo Condoms](http://formidablefemme.com/2016/06/16/im-a-survivor-and-i-will-never-support-lelo-again/) | [Little Chroma](../../review-jimmyjane-little-chroma/) | [Funkit Toys](http://www.funkittoys.com/) | [PicoBong Transformer](http://www.shevibe.com/picobong-transformer-multi-use-waterproof-silicone-vibrator-yellow.aspx#oid=1056_1) sex toys, gender, marketing true full 18 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-01-10_dd17-socialmedia.mp3 Episode 17: Whisper Tweet Nothings Our hearts are all a-twitter over the fine art of social media flirting! In this episode, we share tips for communicating interest in timeline posts and tweet-sized chunks. Find out why Bex loves giving flirting advice, how Kate met her fave FWB on Twitter, and why tweet-liking is our favorite secret flirt code.

Pungle Cruise | Flirting Mind Palace | Courtesy Swipes | Dr. Nerdlove | Facebook Flirting | Strategic Tweet-Faving | Sliding Into DMs | Creeping Selfies | Adding Value | Read the Room | Conversation Skills | Red October | Cognitive-Behavioral Strategies | Creepy vs. Direct | "Is This a Good Time to Flirt With You?" | Self-Deprecating Humor | Flirt Fetishist | Oversexualization | Uber Eats Driver | Yes, That's the Joke | Subtweeting | "Utterly Smokingly Hot" | Pigtail Patterns | Puppies!!!

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]]> Wed, 11 Jan 2017 06:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-17-whisper-tweet-nothings-a5abf3b4 Our hearts are all a-twitter over the fine art of social media flirting! In this episode, we share tips for communicating interest in timeline posts and tweet-sized chunks. Find out why Bex loves giving flirting advice, how Kate met her fave FWB on Twitter, and why tweet-liking is our favorite secret flirt code.

Pungle Cruise | Flirting Mind Palace | Courtesy Swipes | Dr. Nerdlove | Facebook Flirting | Strategic Tweet-Faving | Sliding Into DMs | Creeping Selfies | Adding Value | Read the Room | Conversation Skills | Red October | Cognitive-Behavioral Strategies | Creepy vs. Direct | "Is This a Good Time to Flirt With You?" | Self-Deprecating Humor | Flirt Fetishist | Oversexualization | Uber Eats Driver | Yes, That's the Joke | Subtweeting | "Utterly Smokingly Hot" | Pigtail Patterns | Puppies!!!

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]]> Episode 17: Whisper Tweet Nothings Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:54:51 Our hearts are all a-twitter over the fine art of social media flirting! In this episode, we share tips for communicating interest in timeline posts and tweet-sized chunks. Find out why Bex loves giving flirting advice, how Kate met her fave FWB on Twitter, and why tweet-liking is our favorite secret flirt code. Pungle Cruise | Flirting Mind Palace | Courtesy Swipes | [Dr. Nerdlove](http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2011/07/pick-girls-facebook/) | Facebook Flirting | Strategic Tweet-Faving | Sliding Into DMs | Creeping Selfies | Adding Value | Read the Room | Conversation Skills | Red October | Cognitive-Behavioral Strategies | Creepy vs. Direct | ["Is This a Good Time to Flirt With You?"](http://www.sugarbutch.net/2015/09/sub-flirting/) | Self-Deprecating Humor | Flirt Fetishist | Oversexualization | Uber Eats Driver | [Yes, That's the Joke](https://twitter.com/YesThatsTheJoke) | [Subtweeting](https://gizmodo.com/subtweeting-is-good-1785177179) | "Utterly Smokingly Hot" | Pigtail Patterns | Puppies!!! Our hearts are all a-twitter over the fine art of social media flirting! In this episode, we share tips for communicating interest in timeline posts and tweet-sized chunks. Find out why Bex loves giving flirting advice, how Kate met her fave FWB on Twitter, and why tweet-liking is our favorite secret flirt code. Pungle Cruise | Flirting Mind Palace | Courtesy Swipes | [Dr. Nerdlove](http://www.doctornerdlove.com/2011/07/pick-girls-facebook/) | Facebook Flirting | Strategic Tweet-Faving | Sliding Into DMs | Creeping Selfies | Adding Value | Read the Room | Conversation Skills | Red October | Cognitive-Behavioral Strategies | Creepy vs. Direct | ["Is This a Good Time to Flirt With You?"](http://www.sugarbutch.net/2015/09/sub-flirting/) | Self-Deprecating Humor | Flirt Fetishist | Oversexualization | Uber Eats Driver | [Yes, That's the Joke](https://twitter.com/YesThatsTheJoke) | [Subtweeting](https://gizmodo.com/subtweeting-is-good-1785177179) | "Utterly Smokingly Hot" | Pigtail Patterns | Puppies!!! twitter, flirting, dating, facebook true full 17 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2017-01-03_dd16-masturbation.mp3 Episode 16: Jerking Hard, or Hardly Jerking? How did we come so far (and so many times!) without talking about masturbation?! In this episode we wax poetic about whackin' off. Find out how we fumbled our way to our first orgasms, what we fantasize about mid-wank, and what Mr. Incredible has in common with a Hitachi Magic Wand.

Jerking Off | Elbow Sex | God's Plan | Religious Fisting | How Many Fingers? | Homejerk | Puberty Book | Extra-Long Baths | There's That Hole! | Hot Dog Bun | Glass Dildo | Mustang, Maverick & Uncut | A-Spot | Tantus Tsunami | The Incredibles | Time Crunch | Shopping While Hungry | Being Walked In On | Sex Playlists | Eroscillator | Interruptions | Masturbation Vs. Partnered Sex | Non-Linear Fantasies | Double Trouble | Exhibitionism | Liberator Throe | Sexting | Sex Shops

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]]> Wed, 4 Jan 2017 06:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-16-jerking-hard-or-hardly-11f57e72 How did we come so far (and so many times!) without talking about masturbation?! In this episode we wax poetic about whackin' off. Find out how we fumbled our way to our first orgasms, what we fantasize about mid-wank, and what Mr. Incredible has in common with a Hitachi Magic Wand.

Jerking Off | Elbow Sex | God's Plan | Religious Fisting | How Many Fingers? | Homejerk | Puberty Book | Extra-Long Baths | There's That Hole! | Hot Dog Bun | Glass Dildo | Mustang, Maverick & Uncut | A-Spot | Tantus Tsunami | The Incredibles | Time Crunch | Shopping While Hungry | Being Walked In On | Sex Playlists | Eroscillator | Interruptions | Masturbation Vs. Partnered Sex | Non-Linear Fantasies | Double Trouble | Exhibitionism | Liberator Throe | Sexting | Sex Shops

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]]> Episode 16: Jerking Hard, or Hardly Jerking? Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:04:09 How did we come so far (and so many times!) without talking about masturbation?! In this episode we wax poetic about whackin' off. Find out how we fumbled our way to our first orgasms, what we fantasize about mid-wank, and what Mr. Incredible has in common with a Hitachi Magic Wand. Jerking Off | Elbow Sex | God's Plan | [Religious Fisting](http://sexinchrist.com/fist.html) | How Many Fingers? | Homejerk | [Puberty Book](http://www.powells.com/book/its-a-girl-thing-how-to-stay-healthy-safe-and-in-charge-9780679943259?partnerid=44315&p_bt) | Extra-Long Baths | There's That Hole! | Hot Dog Bun | Glass Dildo | [Mustang](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2014/10/vixskin-mustang-review/), [Maverick](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2016/11/review-vixen-maverick/) & [Uncut](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2015/09/review-tantus-uncut-1-2/) | [A-Spot](../../lets-learn-about-the-a-spot/) | [Tantus Tsunami](../../review-tantus-tsunami) | The Incredibles | Time Crunch | Shopping While Hungry | Being Walked In On | [Sex Playlists](https://open.spotify.com/user/sloanyk/playlist/1L8otLuhUhrsYGqk0yQVea) | [Eroscillator](../../review-eroscillator-top-deluxe/) | Interruptions | Masturbation Vs. Partnered Sex | Non-Linear Fantasies | [Double Trouble](../../a-year-with-the-double-trouble/) | Exhibitionism | [Liberator Throe](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?find=throe#oid=1056_1) | Sexting | Sex Shops How did we come so far (and so many times!) without talking about masturbation?! In this episode we wax poetic about whackin' off. Find out how we fumbled our way to our first orgasms, what we fantasize about mid-wank, and what Mr. Incredible has in common with a Hitachi Magic Wand. Jerking Off | Elbow Sex | God's Plan | [Religious Fisting](http://sexinchrist.com/fist.html) | How Many Fingers? | Homejerk | [Puberty Book](http://www.powells.com/book/its-a-girl-thing-how-to-stay-healthy-safe-and-in-charge-9780679943259?partnerid=44315&p_bt) | Extra-Long Baths | There's That Hole! | Hot Dog Bun | Glass Dildo | [Mustang](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2014/10/vixskin-mustang-review/), [Maverick](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2016/11/review-vixen-maverick/) & [Uncut](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2015/09/review-tantus-uncut-1-2/) | [A-Spot](../../lets-learn-about-the-a-spot/) | [Tantus Tsunami](../../review-tantus-tsunami) | The Incredibles | Time Crunch | Shopping While Hungry | Being Walked In On | [Sex Playlists](https://open.spotify.com/user/sloanyk/playlist/1L8otLuhUhrsYGqk0yQVea) | [Eroscillator](../../review-eroscillator-top-deluxe/) | Interruptions | Masturbation Vs. Partnered Sex | Non-Linear Fantasies | [Double Trouble](../../a-year-with-the-double-trouble/) | Exhibitionism | [Liberator Throe](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?find=throe#oid=1056_1) | Sexting | Sex Shops sex toys, masturbation, sex true full 16 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2016-12-27_dd15-2017goalz.mp3 Episode 15: Auld Wang Syne 2017 is looming and we're doing our best to stay cocktimistic. In this episode, we discuss our sex goals for the coming year, and how we plan to achieve them. Find out why Kate is stepping back from dating for a while, what Bex hopes to have done to them in front of an audience, and why we both need to stick our faces in some vulvas real soon.

Comics as Spanking Implements | Sunstone | Promiscuity and Empathy | Cockadile Hunter | Bipolar II | Love Addiction | Social Anxiety | Magic Wand | Pangea | Submit | Cakehole | Katamari Damacy | One-Night Stands | Kate McKinnon | Queerness | Fisting | Age (It's More Than a Number) | VULVAS | MakeLoveNotPorn | Flogging | Public D/s | Suspension | Profesh Goalz | Woodhull | AltSex Conference |  MySpace | Kissing

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]]> Wed, 28 Dec 2016 06:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-15-auld-wang-syne-525e3aea 2017 is looming and we're doing our best to stay cocktimistic. In this episode, we discuss our sex goals for the coming year, and how we plan to achieve them. Find out why Kate is stepping back from dating for a while, what Bex hopes to have done to them in front of an audience, and why we both need to stick our faces in some vulvas real soon.

Comics as Spanking Implements | Sunstone | Promiscuity and Empathy | Cockadile Hunter | Bipolar II | Love Addiction | Social Anxiety | Magic Wand | Pangea | Submit | Cakehole | Katamari Damacy | One-Night Stands | Kate McKinnon | Queerness | Fisting | Age (It's More Than a Number) | VULVAS | MakeLoveNotPorn | Flogging | Public D/s | Suspension | Profesh Goalz | Woodhull | AltSex Conference |  MySpace | Kissing

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]]> Episode 15: Auld Wang Syne Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:07:22 2017 is looming and we're doing our best to stay cocktimistic. In this episode, we discuss our sex goals for the coming year, and how we plan to achieve them. Find out why Kate is stepping back from dating for a while, what Bex hopes to have done to them in front of an audience, and why we both need to stick our faces in some vulvas real soon. Comics as Spanking Implements | Sunstone | Promiscuity and Empathy | Cockadile Hunter | [Bipolar II](../../im-an-obsessive-intense-weirdo/) | Love Addiction | Social Anxiety | [Magic Wand](http://www.shevibe.com/magic-wand-rechargeable-cordless-vibrator.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Pangea](https://www.facebook.com/events/710104985809826/) | [Submit](http://submitparty.com/Submit.html) | [Cakehole](http://cakeholeevents.weebly.com/) | [Katamari Damacy](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PVVW41iAu5A) | One-Night Stands | [Kate McKinnon](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_h3lWjLBpjo) | Queerness | Fisting | Age (It's More Than a Number) | VULVAS | [MakeLoveNotPorn](https://makelovenotporn.tv/) | Flogging | Public D/s | Suspension | Profesh Goalz | [Woodhull](https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/) | [AltSex Conference](http://altsexnycconference.org/) | [MySpace](https://myspace.com/) | Kissing 2017 is looming and we're doing our best to stay cocktimistic. In this episode, we discuss our sex goals for the coming year, and how we plan to achieve them. Find out why Kate is stepping back from dating for a while, what Bex hopes to have done to them in front of an audience, and why we both need to stick our faces in some vulvas real soon. Comics as Spanking Implements | Sunstone | Promiscuity and Empathy | Cockadile Hunter | [Bipolar II](../../im-an-obsessive-intense-weirdo/) | Love Addiction | Social Anxiety | [Magic Wand](http://www.shevibe.com/magic-wand-rechargeable-cordless-vibrator.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Pangea](https://www.facebook.com/events/710104985809826/) | [Submit](http://submitparty.com/Submit.html) | [Cakehole](http://cakeholeevents.weebly.com/) | [Katamari Damacy](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PVVW41iAu5A) | One-Night Stands | [Kate McKinnon](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_h3lWjLBpjo) | Queerness | Fisting | Age (It's More Than a Number) | VULVAS | [MakeLoveNotPorn](https://makelovenotporn.tv/) | Flogging | Public D/s | Suspension | Profesh Goalz | [Woodhull](https://www.sexualfreedomsummit.org/) | [AltSex Conference](http://altsexnycconference.org/) | [MySpace](https://myspace.com/) | Kissing goals, dating, 2017, sex true full 15 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2016-12-21_dd14-yearinreview.mp3 Episode 14: Twentydicksteen Kate and Bex bring us a 2016 round-up the only way they know how: by talking about all the times they got fucked the way 2016 fucked us all. Hear their most vital sex stats, including how many people they fucked, where they boned them, and how often they came. Find out what sex act Kate only realized she was into this year and hear about how Bex realized they were a pup. They discuss the parts of their life that cockblocked them the most this year and even brainstorm what a Dildorks drinking game might look like!

Sex Spreadsheet | Defining Sex | Sex Stats | One-Night Stands | Locations | Threesomes | BJ Epiphany | Butt Virginity | Skype Sex | Alleyway Makeouts | Surprise Doms | BJs | New Kinks | Puppy Play | Pup Erotica | Terrible BJs | Orgasm Report Cards | Robotic Sex | Sex Standing Up | Sixty-Nine |  #IUDiary | Skyla | Dildorks Drinking Game

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]]> Wed, 21 Dec 2016 14:30:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-14-twentydicksteen-9f4ad31f Kate and Bex bring us a 2016 round-up the only way they know how: by talking about all the times they got fucked the way 2016 fucked us all. Hear their most vital sex stats, including how many people they fucked, where they boned them, and how often they came. Find out what sex act Kate only realized she was into this year and hear about how Bex realized they were a pup. They discuss the parts of their life that cockblocked them the most this year and even brainstorm what a Dildorks drinking game might look like!

Sex Spreadsheet | Defining Sex | Sex Stats | One-Night Stands | Locations | Threesomes | BJ Epiphany | Butt Virginity | Skype Sex | Alleyway Makeouts | Surprise Doms | BJs | New Kinks | Puppy Play | Pup Erotica | Terrible BJs | Orgasm Report Cards | Robotic Sex | Sex Standing Up | Sixty-Nine |  #IUDiary | Skyla | Dildorks Drinking Game

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]]> Episode 14: Twentydicksteen Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:16:20 Kate and Bex bring us a 2016 round-up the only way they know how: by talking about all the times they got fucked the way 2016 fucked us all. Hear their most vital sex stats, including how many people they fucked, where they boned them, and how often they came. Find out what sex act Kate only realized she was into this year and hear about how Bex realized they were a pup. They discuss the parts of their life that cockblocked them the most this year and even brainstorm what a Dildorks drinking game might look like! Sex Spreadsheet | Defining Sex | Sex Stats | One-Night Stands | Locations | [Threesomes](http://girlyjuice.net/when-sex-nerds-plan-a-threesome/) | BJ Epiphany | [Butt Virginity](http://girlyjuice.net/how-to-have-anal-sex-for-the-first-time-if-you-are-me/) | Skype Sex | Alleyway Makeouts | Surprise Doms | BJs | New Kinks | [Puppy Play](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2016/08/pup/) | Pup Erotica | Terrible BJs | Orgasm Report Cards | Robotic Sex | Sex Standing Up | Sixty-Nine | [#IUDiary](https://twitter.com/search?f=tweets&vertical=default&q=%23IUDiary&src=typd&lang=en) | Skyla | Dildorks Drinking Game Kate and Bex bring us a 2016 round-up the only way they know how: by talking about all the times they got fucked the way 2016 fucked us all. Hear their most vital sex stats, including how many people they fucked, where they boned them, and how often they came. Find out what sex act Kate only realized she was into this year and hear about how Bex realized they were a pup. They discuss the parts of their life that cockblocked them the most this year and even brainstorm what a Dildorks drinking game might look like! Sex Spreadsheet | Defining Sex | Sex Stats | One-Night Stands | Locations | [Threesomes](http://girlyjuice.net/when-sex-nerds-plan-a-threesome/) | BJ Epiphany | [Butt Virginity](http://girlyjuice.net/how-to-have-anal-sex-for-the-first-time-if-you-are-me/) | Skype Sex | Alleyway Makeouts | Surprise Doms | BJs | New Kinks | [Puppy Play](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2016/08/pup/) | Pup Erotica | Terrible BJs | Orgasm Report Cards | Robotic Sex | Sex Standing Up | Sixty-Nine | [#IUDiary](https://twitter.com/search?f=tweets&vertical=default&q=%23IUDiary&src=typd&lang=en) | Skyla | Dildorks Drinking Game 2016, year in review, sex true full 14 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2016-12-13_dd13-onlinedating.mp3 Episode 13: Swipe Right For Disappointment OkCupid and Tinder are garbage fires, but occasionally you can find a diamond in the trash heap. In this episode, we give you the low-down on online dating: our favorite sites, our successful and not-so-successful dates, and our best tips for better matches. Plus, find out how Bex managed to have a threesome on a first date, and why Kate's one-night stand from Minneapolis sent her an apology a month later.

Tinder vs. OkCupid | South Park | Show, Don't Tell | Compatibility Percentages | The End of Tinder | You Should Message Me If... | Conversation Starters | Obscure References | Kink Hints | Manic Pixie Dream Bean | Sex-Nerd Chats | Fizzling Out | An Excess of Cis Dudes | First-Date Threesome | Long-Term Ex | Unfeminist Ex | The Uber of Sex | "Makeouts, Etc." | Proofread Your Shit | Tutu to the Symphony | First-Message Formula | Pet Names | Commonalities | Tinder Guys With Tigers | Swipe Right For Dogs | Group Shots | Ace Ventura | Queer Apps | Social Media As Motivation

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]]> Wed, 14 Dec 2016 06:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-13-swipe-right-for-1f591162 OkCupid and Tinder are garbage fires, but occasionally you can find a diamond in the trash heap. In this episode, we give you the low-down on online dating: our favorite sites, our successful and not-so-successful dates, and our best tips for better matches. Plus, find out how Bex managed to have a threesome on a first date, and why Kate's one-night stand from Minneapolis sent her an apology a month later.

Tinder vs. OkCupid | South Park | Show, Don't Tell | Compatibility Percentages | The End of Tinder | You Should Message Me If... | Conversation Starters | Obscure References | Kink Hints | Manic Pixie Dream Bean | Sex-Nerd Chats | Fizzling Out | An Excess of Cis Dudes | First-Date Threesome | Long-Term Ex | Unfeminist Ex | The Uber of Sex | "Makeouts, Etc." | Proofread Your Shit | Tutu to the Symphony | First-Message Formula | Pet Names | Commonalities | Tinder Guys With Tigers | Swipe Right For Dogs | Group Shots | Ace Ventura | Queer Apps | Social Media As Motivation

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]]> Episode 13: Swipe Right For Disappointment Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:14:25 OkCupid and Tinder are garbage fires, but occasionally you can find a diamond in the trash heap. In this episode, we give you the low-down on online dating: our favorite sites, our successful and not-so-successful dates, and our best tips for better matches. Plus, find out how Bex managed to have a threesome on a first date, and why Kate's one-night stand from Minneapolis sent her an apology a month later. Tinder vs. OkCupid | South Park | Show, Don't Tell | Compatibility Percentages | The End of Tinder | You Should Message Me If... | Conversation Starters | Obscure References | Kink Hints | Manic Pixie Dream Bean | Sex-Nerd Chats | Fizzling Out | An Excess of Cis Dudes | First-Date Threesome | Long-Term Ex | [Unfeminist Ex](http://www.theestablishment.co/2016/07/11/the-dangers-of-dating-faux-feminist-men/) | The Uber of Sex | "Makeouts, Etc." | Proofread Your Shit | Tutu to the Symphony | [First-Message Formula](../../the-anatomy-of-a-good-tinder-message/) | Pet Names | Commonalities | [Tinder Guys With Tigers](http://tinderguyswithtigers.tumblr.com/) | Swipe Right For Dogs | Group Shots | Ace Ventura | Queer Apps | Social Media As Motivation OkCupid and Tinder are garbage fires, but occasionally you can find a diamond in the trash heap. In this episode, we give you the low-down on online dating: our favorite sites, our successful and not-so-successful dates, and our best tips for better matches. Plus, find out how Bex managed to have a threesome on a first date, and why Kate's one-night stand from Minneapolis sent her an apology a month later. Tinder vs. OkCupid | South Park | Show, Don't Tell | Compatibility Percentages | The End of Tinder | You Should Message Me If... | Conversation Starters | Obscure References | Kink Hints | Manic Pixie Dream Bean | Sex-Nerd Chats | Fizzling Out | An Excess of Cis Dudes | First-Date Threesome | Long-Term Ex | [Unfeminist Ex](http://www.theestablishment.co/2016/07/11/the-dangers-of-dating-faux-feminist-men/) | The Uber of Sex | "Makeouts, Etc." | Proofread Your Shit | Tutu to the Symphony | [First-Message Formula](../../the-anatomy-of-a-good-tinder-message/) | Pet Names | Commonalities | [Tinder Guys With Tigers](http://tinderguyswithtigers.tumblr.com/) | Swipe Right For Dogs | Group Shots | Ace Ventura | Queer Apps | Social Media As Motivation dating, online dating, okcupid, tinder true full 13 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2016-12-06_dd12-spanking.mp3 Episode 12: Spank You Very Much It's time for us to talk smack about smackin'! Let us regale you with tales of Bex's birthday spanking party, Kate's mid-bang spanking lesson, and the saddest paddlin' either of us has ever participated in. We also tell you our favorite toys to hit people and get hit with! (Content note: this episode contains a minute-long discussion of self-harm at the 37:30 mark, and mentions bruises throughout.)

Early Morning Podcasting | Rainbow Bagels | #BirthdayBruises | Teaching Vanilla Boyz to Spank | 1-10 Scale | Suz | Face-Sitting | Platonic Spanking | Tantus Pelt | Good-Dick Garbage-Human | Punishment vs. Reward vs. Service | Tinder Tops | Gateway Kink | "That Girl on NCIS" | Ducky Doolittle | Sadists | Subspace | Kinkmergency | Enthusiasm | Mental Health | The Saddest Spanking Party | Bruises on a Bus Ride | Jillian Keenan | Bruises | Spit Scene: Good Girl | Pervertables | Sex with Shakespeare | Bible Paddle | Lolita | Book of Erotic Fantasy | Stay Paddle | Leather and Lattes | Stone Crop | Taylor J Mace | Kink Machine Works

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]]> Wed, 7 Dec 2016 06:02:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-12-spank-you-very-much-7732e943 It's time for us to talk smack about smackin'! Let us regale you with tales of Bex's birthday spanking party, Kate's mid-bang spanking lesson, and the saddest paddlin' either of us has ever participated in. We also tell you our favorite toys to hit people and get hit with! (Content note: this episode contains a minute-long discussion of self-harm at the 37:30 mark, and mentions bruises throughout.)

Early Morning Podcasting | Rainbow Bagels | #BirthdayBruises | Teaching Vanilla Boyz to Spank | 1-10 Scale | Suz | Face-Sitting | Platonic Spanking | Tantus Pelt | Good-Dick Garbage-Human | Punishment vs. Reward vs. Service | Tinder Tops | Gateway Kink | "That Girl on NCIS" | Ducky Doolittle | Sadists | Subspace | Kinkmergency | Enthusiasm | Mental Health | The Saddest Spanking Party | Bruises on a Bus Ride | Jillian Keenan | Bruises | Spit Scene: Good Girl | Pervertables | Sex with Shakespeare | Bible Paddle | Lolita | Book of Erotic Fantasy | Stay Paddle | Leather and Lattes | Stone Crop | Taylor J Mace | Kink Machine Works

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]]> Episode 12: Spank You Very Much Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:22:08 It's time for us to talk smack about smackin'! Let us regale you with tales of Bex's birthday spanking party, Kate's mid-bang spanking lesson, and the saddest paddlin' either of us has ever participated in. We also tell you our favorite toys to hit people and get hit with! (Content note: this episode contains a minute-long discussion of self-harm at the 37:30 mark, and mentions bruises throughout.) Early Morning Podcasting | Rainbow Bagels | [#BirthdayBruises](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2016/09/birthdaybruises-adventures-in-exhibitionistic-masochism/) | Teaching Vanilla Boyz to Spank | 1-10 Scale | [Suz](http://redhotsuz.com/) | Face-Sitting | Platonic Spanking | [Tantus Pelt](https://www.tantusinc.com/products/pelt) | Good-Dick Garbage-Human | Punishment vs. Reward vs. Service | Tinder Tops | Gateway Kink | ["That Girl on NCIS"](http://ncis.wikia.com/wiki/Abigail_Sciuto) | [Ducky Doolittle](http://www.duckydoolittle.com/) | Sadists | Subspace | [Kinkmergency](../../help-its-a-kinkmergency-make-your-own-self-aftercare-kit/) | Enthusiasm | [Mental Health](http://www.theestablishment.co/2016/10/12/how-spanking-helps-my-mental-health/) | The Saddest Spanking Party | [Bruises on a Bus Ride](https://twitter.com/BexTalksSex/status/778074588198543361) | [Jillian Keenan](http://www.jilliannyc.com/) | Bruises | [Spit Scene: Good Girl](https://spit.exposed/video/good-girl-dane-joe-zella-tree/) | Pervertables | [Sex with Shakespeare](https://www.amazon.com/Sex-Shakespeare-Heres-Much-Pain/dp/0062378716/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1481084347&sr=8-1&keywords=sex+with+shakespeare) | [Bible Paddle](https://www.etsy.com/listing/268441099/bible-paddle) | [Lolita](https://www.amazon.com/Lolita-Vladimir-NABOKOV/dp/B00AR5395G/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1481084202&sr=1-3&keywords=lolita+hardcover) | [Book of Erotic Fantasy](https://www.amazon.com/Book-Erotic-Fantasy-Gwendolyn-Kestrel/dp/1588463990) | [Stay Paddle](http://shop.oxballs.com/STAY-Aluminum-Silicone-Ball-Buster-and-Paddle-OXBALLS-OX-1224.htm) | [Leather and Lattes](https://www.twincitiesleather.com/) | Stone Crop | [Taylor J Mace](http://www.feistyfoxfilms.com/) | [Kink Machine Works](https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/KinkMachineWorks?ref=l2-shopheader-name) It's time for us to talk smack about smackin'! Let us regale you with tales of Bex's birthday spanking party, Kate's mid-bang spanking lesson, and the saddest paddlin' either of us has ever participated in. We also tell you our favorite toys to hit people and get hit with! (Content note: this episode contains a minute-long discussion of self-harm at the 37:30 mark, and mentions bruises throughout.) Early Morning Podcasting | Rainbow Bagels | [#BirthdayBruises](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2016/09/birthdaybruises-adventures-in-exhibitionistic-masochism/) | Teaching Vanilla Boyz to Spank | 1-10 Scale | [Suz](http://redhotsuz.com/) | Face-Sitting | Platonic Spanking | [Tantus Pelt](https://www.tantusinc.com/products/pelt) | Good-Dick Garbage-Human | Punishment vs. Reward vs. Service | Tinder Tops | Gateway Kink | ["That Girl on NCIS"](http://ncis.wikia.com/wiki/Abigail_Sciuto) | [Ducky Doolittle](http://www.duckydoolittle.com/) | Sadists | Subspace | [Kinkmergency](../../help-its-a-kinkmergency-make-your-own-self-aftercare-kit/) | Enthusiasm | [Mental Health](http://www.theestablishment.co/2016/10/12/how-spanking-helps-my-mental-health/) | The Saddest Spanking Party | [Bruises on a Bus Ride](https://twitter.com/BexTalksSex/status/778074588198543361) | [Jillian Keenan](http://www.jilliannyc.com/) | Bruises | [Spit Scene: Good Girl](https://spit.exposed/video/good-girl-dane-joe-zella-tree/) | Pervertables | [Sex with Shakespeare](https://www.amazon.com/Sex-Shakespeare-Heres-Much-Pain/dp/0062378716/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1481084347&sr=8-1&keywords=sex+with+shakespeare) | [Bible Paddle](https://www.etsy.com/listing/268441099/bible-paddle) | [Lolita](https://www.amazon.com/Lolita-Vladimir-NABOKOV/dp/B00AR5395G/ref=sr_1_3?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1481084202&sr=1-3&keywords=lolita+hardcover) | [Book of Erotic Fantasy](https://www.amazon.com/Book-Erotic-Fantasy-Gwendolyn-Kestrel/dp/1588463990) | [Stay Paddle](http://shop.oxballs.com/STAY-Aluminum-Silicone-Ball-Buster-and-Paddle-OXBALLS-OX-1224.htm) | [Leather and Lattes](https://www.twincitiesleather.com/) | Stone Crop | [Taylor J Mace](http://www.feistyfoxfilms.com/) | [Kink Machine Works](https://www.etsy.com/ca/shop/KinkMachineWorks?ref=l2-shopheader-name) true full 12 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2016-11-30_dd11-noodz.mp3 Episode 11: Selfies & Dick Pics & Nudes, Oh My! Sexting isn't all hot commands and flowery prose: there's a visual element too! This week we pontificate on sexy selfies. What makes for an exceptional nude? Why are dick videos superior to dick pics? And why did we once snap a boob selfie together on a rainy highway in Wisconsin? Tune in for the naked truth!

Trust & Vulnerability | Smiles | Disembodied Torsos | Strap-On & Wink | Selfie Sticks | Butt Selfie Tips | Selfie Yoga | Signature Poses | MySpace Angles | Suz's Butt | Artificial Cleavage | Renaissance Painting Nudes | Boner Through Underwear | Jeans Unbuttoned | "Cute Boys" Folder | Critique My Dick Pic | Hand For Scale | Dick Videos | Consent | Slow-Mo J.O. | Inanimate Sexy Pictures | The Boss Fight of Nudes | Reacting to Nudes | Slut-Shaming | Dicks in Blankets | "I Found a Fork!" | Snapchat | Pornkémon

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]]> Wed, 30 Nov 2016 06:00:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-11-selfies-dick-pics-nudes-oh-my-14de0125 Sexting isn't all hot commands and flowery prose: there's a visual element too! This week we pontificate on sexy selfies. What makes for an exceptional nude? Why are dick videos superior to dick pics? And why did we once snap a boob selfie together on a rainy highway in Wisconsin? Tune in for the naked truth!

Trust & Vulnerability | Smiles | Disembodied Torsos | Strap-On & Wink | Selfie Sticks | Butt Selfie Tips | Selfie Yoga | Signature Poses | MySpace Angles | Suz's Butt | Artificial Cleavage | Renaissance Painting Nudes | Boner Through Underwear | Jeans Unbuttoned | "Cute Boys" Folder | Critique My Dick Pic | Hand For Scale | Dick Videos | Consent | Slow-Mo J.O. | Inanimate Sexy Pictures | The Boss Fight of Nudes | Reacting to Nudes | Slut-Shaming | Dicks in Blankets | "I Found a Fork!" | Snapchat | Pornkémon

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]]> Episode 11: Selfies & Dick Pics & Nudes, Oh My! Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:02:47 Sexting isn't all hot commands and flowery prose: there's a visual element too! This week we pontificate on sexy selfies. What makes for an exceptional nude? Why are dick videos superior to dick pics? And why did we once snap a boob selfie together on a rainy highway in Wisconsin? Tune in for the naked truth! Trust & Vulnerability | Smiles | Disembodied Torsos | [Strap-On & Wink](https://twitter.com/girly_juice/status/711709651671326720) | [Selfie Sticks](http://rover.ebay.com/rover/1/711-53200-19255-0/1?icep_ff3=9&pub=5575130133&toolid=10001&campid=5337712641&customid=&icep_uq=selfie+stick&icep_sellerId=&icep_ex_kw=&icep_sortBy=12&icep_catId=&icep_minPrice=&icep_maxPrice=&ipn=psmain&icep_vectorid=229466&kwid=902099&mtid=824&kw=lg) | Butt Selfie Tips | Selfie Yoga | [Signature Poses](https://twitter.com/redhotsuz/status/792515985433567232) | [MySpace Angles](http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/myspace-angles) | [Suz's Butt](https://twitter.com/redhotsuz/status/787532404428771328) | Artificial Cleavage | Renaissance Painting Nudes | Boner Through Underwear | Jeans Unbuttoned | "Cute Boys" Folder | [Critique My Dick Pic](http://critiquemydickpic.tumblr.com/) | Hand For Scale | [Dick Videos](http://nymag.com/thecut/2016/01/unlikely-appeal-of-the-dick-video.html) | Consent | Slow-Mo J.O. | Inanimate Sexy Pictures | The Boss Fight of Nudes | Reacting to Nudes | Slut-Shaming | Dicks in Blankets | ["I Found a Fork!"](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/778061878379642880) | Snapchat | Pornkémon Sexting isn't all hot commands and flowery prose: there's a visual element too! This week we pontificate on sexy selfies. What makes for an exceptional nude? Why are dick videos superior to dick pics? And why did we once snap a boob selfie together on a rainy highway in Wisconsin? Tune in for the naked truth! Trust & Vulnerability | Smiles | Disembodied Torsos | [Strap-On & Wink](https://twitter.com/girly_juice/status/711709651671326720) | [Selfie Sticks](http://rover.ebay.com/rover/1/711-53200-19255-0/1?icep_ff3=9&pub=5575130133&toolid=10001&campid=5337712641&customid=&icep_uq=selfie+stick&icep_sellerId=&icep_ex_kw=&icep_sortBy=12&icep_catId=&icep_minPrice=&icep_maxPrice=&ipn=psmain&icep_vectorid=229466&kwid=902099&mtid=824&kw=lg) | Butt Selfie Tips | Selfie Yoga | [Signature Poses](https://twitter.com/redhotsuz/status/792515985433567232) | [MySpace Angles](http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/myspace-angles) | [Suz's Butt](https://twitter.com/redhotsuz/status/787532404428771328) | Artificial Cleavage | Renaissance Painting Nudes | Boner Through Underwear | Jeans Unbuttoned | "Cute Boys" Folder | [Critique My Dick Pic](http://critiquemydickpic.tumblr.com/) | Hand For Scale | [Dick Videos](http://nymag.com/thecut/2016/01/unlikely-appeal-of-the-dick-video.html) | Consent | Slow-Mo J.O. | Inanimate Sexy Pictures | The Boss Fight of Nudes | Reacting to Nudes | Slut-Shaming | Dicks in Blankets | ["I Found a Fork!"](https://twitter.com/Girly_Juice/status/778061878379642880) | Snapchat | Pornkémon selfies, snapchat, sexting, nudes true full 11 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2016-11-22_dd10-sexting.mp3 Episode 10: Peach Emoji Eggplant Emoji Water Droplets This week we get into the nuts and bolts of sextual communication! We discuss our sexting origins, the sext etiquette we wish everyone would follow, and the best and worst sexts we've ever received. We also weigh in on controversial issues like emojis, autocorrect mistakes, and the benefits of read receipts.

Furcadia | Runescape | Princess | Strongman Finger | Social Intelligence | Yes, And... | Sexting as Negotiation | Sexting and Anxiety | A-Spot | Getting Your Partner's Cheat Codes | Etiquette | Read Receipts | Initiating Sexting | Stone Crop | Proofreading Sexts | Word Choices | Emojis | Is That An Order? | Threesome Dreams | Smuggling a Potato

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]]> Wed, 23 Nov 2016 06:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-10-peach-emoji-eggplant-emoji-4f0b3cc8 This week we get into the nuts and bolts of sextual communication! We discuss our sexting origins, the sext etiquette we wish everyone would follow, and the best and worst sexts we've ever received. We also weigh in on controversial issues like emojis, autocorrect mistakes, and the benefits of read receipts.

Furcadia | Runescape | Princess | Strongman Finger | Social Intelligence | Yes, And... | Sexting as Negotiation | Sexting and Anxiety | A-Spot | Getting Your Partner's Cheat Codes | Etiquette | Read Receipts | Initiating Sexting | Stone Crop | Proofreading Sexts | Word Choices | Emojis | Is That An Order? | Threesome Dreams | Smuggling a Potato

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]]> Episode 10: Peach Emoji Eggplant Emoji Water Droplets Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:01:00 This week we get into the nuts and bolts of sextual communication! We discuss our sexting origins, the sext etiquette we wish everyone would follow, and the best and worst sexts we've ever received. We also weigh in on controversial issues like emojis, autocorrect mistakes, and the benefits of read receipts. Furcadia | Runescape | Princess | [Strongman Finger](https://thedildorks.files.wordpress.com/2016/11/strongman-finger.png) | Social Intelligence | Yes, And... | Sexting as Negotiation | Sexting and Anxiety | [A-Spot](../../lets-learn-about-the-a-spot/) | Getting Your Partner's Cheat Codes | Etiquette | Read Receipts | Initiating Sexting | Stone Crop | Proofreading Sexts | Word Choices | Emojis | Is That An Order? | Threesome Dreams | Smuggling a Potato This week we get into the nuts and bolts of sextual communication! We discuss our sexting origins, the sext etiquette we wish everyone would follow, and the best and worst sexts we've ever received. We also weigh in on controversial issues like emojis, autocorrect mistakes, and the benefits of read receipts. Furcadia | Runescape | Princess | [Strongman Finger](https://thedildorks.files.wordpress.com/2016/11/strongman-finger.png) | Social Intelligence | Yes, And... | Sexting as Negotiation | Sexting and Anxiety | [A-Spot](../../lets-learn-about-the-a-spot/) | Getting Your Partner's Cheat Codes | Etiquette | Read Receipts | Initiating Sexting | Stone Crop | Proofreading Sexts | Word Choices | Emojis | Is That An Order? | Threesome Dreams | Smuggling a Potato texting, communication, sexting true full 10 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2016-11-15_dd9-buttstuff.mp3 Episode 9: EnthusiASStic What what, in the butt?! Bex and Kate talk about that not-so-taboo-anymore taboo, butt stuff. We regale you with first-time anal sex tales, debate the merits of planned anal versus the spontaneous approach, and enthuse about butts ad nauseum (duh). We also rep our favorite anal toys, lubes, and ways of integrating kink into butt stuff. And, surprise: we both wore butt plugs throughout the recording of this episode!

Asshole Politicians | Diving Into Butts | Pure Plugs | Sex Toy Semantics | Marijuana Changes Lives | G-Spot Comparisons | Mr. Universe | #DPursuit | "Naughty" & Taboo | Anal on the First Date | Vibe Pairings | Enemas | Oreos & Coffee | Pain & Pleasure | Planned vs. Spontaneous | Post-Sex Eats | Doin' Stuff to Other People's Butts | Super Gay | Sex-Nerd Brain | Tantus Uncuts and Ryder | Cam Shows | Lelo Bob | Fuze Plugs | Best Friend Butt Plugs | Uberlube & Sliquid | The Buttsex Cowboy | Small-Town Lube Shopping | Tinder Dudes | "Njoy Your Day!" | Thigh Tattoos | Butt Counterpoint

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]]> Wed, 16 Nov 2016 06:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-9-enthusiasstic-367a4102 What what, in the butt?! Bex and Kate talk about that not-so-taboo-anymore taboo, butt stuff. We regale you with first-time anal sex tales, debate the merits of planned anal versus the spontaneous approach, and enthuse about butts ad nauseum (duh). We also rep our favorite anal toys, lubes, and ways of integrating kink into butt stuff. And, surprise: we both wore butt plugs throughout the recording of this episode!

Asshole Politicians | Diving Into Butts | Pure Plugs | Sex Toy Semantics | Marijuana Changes Lives | G-Spot Comparisons | Mr. Universe | #DPursuit | "Naughty" & Taboo | Anal on the First Date | Vibe Pairings | Enemas | Oreos & Coffee | Pain & Pleasure | Planned vs. Spontaneous | Post-Sex Eats | Doin' Stuff to Other People's Butts | Super Gay | Sex-Nerd Brain | Tantus Uncuts and Ryder | Cam Shows | Lelo Bob | Fuze Plugs | Best Friend Butt Plugs | Uberlube & Sliquid | The Buttsex Cowboy | Small-Town Lube Shopping | Tinder Dudes | "Njoy Your Day!" | Thigh Tattoos | Butt Counterpoint

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]]> Episode 9: EnthusiASStic Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:06:40 What what, in the butt?! Bex and Kate talk about that not-so-taboo-anymore taboo, butt stuff. We regale you with first-time anal sex tales, debate the merits of planned anal versus the spontaneous approach, and enthuse about butts ad nauseum (duh). We also rep our favorite anal toys, lubes, and ways of integrating kink into butt stuff. And, surprise: we both wore butt plugs throughout the recording of this episode! Asshole Politicians | Diving Into Butts | [Pure Plugs](http://girlyjuice.net/review-njoy-pure-plug-medium/) | Sex Toy Semantics | Marijuana Changes Lives | G-Spot Comparisons | [Mr. Universe](https://www.tantusinc.com/products/mr-universe?rfsn=9529.6d15) | [#DPursuit](https://twitter.com/search?f=tweets&vertical=default&q=%23DPursuit&src=typd) | "Naughty" & Taboo | Anal on the First Date | Vibe Pairings | [Enemas](http://girlyjuice.net/review-california-exotics-ultra-douche/) | Oreos & Coffee | Pain & Pleasure | Planned vs. Spontaneous | Post-Sex Eats | Doin' Stuff to Other People's Butts | Super Gay | Sex-Nerd Brain | [Tantus Uncuts](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2015/09/review-tantus-uncut-1-2/) and [Ryder](http://girlyjuice.net/review-tantus-ryder/) | Cam Shows | [Lelo Bob](http://www.shevibe.com/lelo-bob-gentlemans-pleasure-object.aspx#oid=1013_1) | [Fuze Plugs](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?find=fuze+plug#oid=1013_1) | Best Friend Butt Plugs | [Uberlube](http://www.shevibe.com/uberlube-luxury-silicone-lubricant-100-ml-for-style-sport-and-sex.aspx#oid=1056_1) & [Sliquid](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?find=sliquid#oid=1013_1) | The Buttsex Cowboy | Small-Town Lube Shopping | Tinder Dudes | "Njoy Your Day!" | [Thigh Tattoos](http://girlyjuice.net/behold-my-new-thigh-tattoos/) | Butt Counterpoint What what, in the butt?! Bex and Kate talk about that not-so-taboo-anymore taboo, butt stuff. We regale you with first-time anal sex tales, debate the merits of planned anal versus the spontaneous approach, and enthuse about butts ad nauseum (duh). We also rep our favorite anal toys, lubes, and ways of integrating kink into butt stuff. And, surprise: we both wore butt plugs throughout the recording of this episode! Asshole Politicians | Diving Into Butts | [Pure Plugs](http://girlyjuice.net/review-njoy-pure-plug-medium/) | Sex Toy Semantics | Marijuana Changes Lives | G-Spot Comparisons | [Mr. Universe](https://www.tantusinc.com/products/mr-universe?rfsn=9529.6d15) | [#DPursuit](https://twitter.com/search?f=tweets&vertical=default&q=%23DPursuit&src=typd) | "Naughty" & Taboo | Anal on the First Date | Vibe Pairings | [Enemas](http://girlyjuice.net/review-california-exotics-ultra-douche/) | Oreos & Coffee | Pain & Pleasure | Planned vs. Spontaneous | Post-Sex Eats | Doin' Stuff to Other People's Butts | Super Gay | Sex-Nerd Brain | [Tantus Uncuts](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2015/09/review-tantus-uncut-1-2/) and [Ryder](http://girlyjuice.net/review-tantus-ryder/) | Cam Shows | [Lelo Bob](http://www.shevibe.com/lelo-bob-gentlemans-pleasure-object.aspx#oid=1013_1) | [Fuze Plugs](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?find=fuze+plug#oid=1013_1) | Best Friend Butt Plugs | [Uberlube](http://www.shevibe.com/uberlube-luxury-silicone-lubricant-100-ml-for-style-sport-and-sex.aspx#oid=1056_1) & [Sliquid](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?find=sliquid#oid=1013_1) | The Buttsex Cowboy | Small-Town Lube Shopping | Tinder Dudes | "Njoy Your Day!" | [Thigh Tattoos](http://girlyjuice.net/behold-my-new-thigh-tattoos/) | Butt Counterpoint sex toys, anal sex, butts, sex true full 9 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2016-11-09_dd8-piv.mp3 Episode 8: The Notorious PIV Is PIV really a thing anymore? Kate asked that very question in a recent article, and now she and Bex explore that idea even further. They discuss  their first times, their best times, and the times it's disappointed them. They also tackle the big questions: Does size matter? And what do you do when dicks just don't stay hard???

First Times | Simultaneous Orgasms | High Fives | Positions | Harry Potter | Standing Up Sex | Orgasm Faces | Dirty Talk | A-Spot Dicks | Mindfulness | Dick Size | Mustang | Maverick | Boner Problems | Threesomes | Vibrators During Sex | Tango | Hitachi | Connection | Goal-Oriented Sex | Condoms

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]]> Wed, 9 Nov 2016 13:44:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-8-the-notorious-piv-48a6fd3d Is PIV really a thing anymore? Kate asked that very question in a recent article, and now she and Bex explore that idea even further. They discuss  their first times, their best times, and the times it's disappointed them. They also tackle the big questions: Does size matter? And what do you do when dicks just don't stay hard???

First Times | Simultaneous Orgasms | High Fives | Positions | Harry Potter | Standing Up Sex | Orgasm Faces | Dirty Talk | A-Spot Dicks | Mindfulness | Dick Size | Mustang | Maverick | Boner Problems | Threesomes | Vibrators During Sex | Tango | Hitachi | Connection | Goal-Oriented Sex | Condoms

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]]> Episode 8: The Notorious PIV Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:04:55 Is PIV really a thing anymore? Kate asked that very question in a recent article, and now she and Bex explore that idea even further. They discuss their first times, their best times, and the times it's disappointed them. They also tackle the big questions: Does size matter? And what do you do when dicks just don't stay hard??? First Times | Simultaneous Orgasms | High Fives | Positions | Harry Potter | Standing Up Sex | Orgasm Faces | Dirty Talk | [A-Spot](http://girlyjuice.net/lets-learn-about-the-a-spot/) Dicks | Mindfulness | Dick Size | [Mustang](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2014/10/vixskin-mustang-review/) | [Maverick](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2016/11/review-vixen-maverick/) | Boner Problems | [Threesomes](http://girlyjuice.net/when-sex-nerds-plan-a-threesome/) | Vibrators During Sex | [Tango](http://girlyjuice.net/review-we-vibe-tango/) | [Hitachi](http://girlyjuice.net/review-magic-wand-rechargeable/) | Connection | Goal-Oriented Sex | Condoms Is PIV really a thing anymore? Kate asked that very question in a recent article, and now she and Bex explore that idea even further. They discuss their first times, their best times, and the times it's disappointed them. They also tackle the big questions: Does size matter? And what do you do when dicks just don't stay hard??? First Times | Simultaneous Orgasms | High Fives | Positions | Harry Potter | Standing Up Sex | Orgasm Faces | Dirty Talk | [A-Spot](http://girlyjuice.net/lets-learn-about-the-a-spot/) Dicks | Mindfulness | Dick Size | [Mustang](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2014/10/vixskin-mustang-review/) | [Maverick](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2016/11/review-vixen-maverick/) | Boner Problems | [Threesomes](http://girlyjuice.net/when-sex-nerds-plan-a-threesome/) | Vibrators During Sex | [Tango](http://girlyjuice.net/review-we-vibe-tango/) | [Hitachi](http://girlyjuice.net/review-magic-wand-rechargeable/) | Connection | Goal-Oriented Sex | Condoms sex toys, sexual communication, sex, intercourse true full 8 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2016-11-02_dd7-handsex.mp3 Episode 7: Can You Handle This? Handjobs aren't just for high schoolers! In this episode Bex and Kate discuss all the reasons they love hand sex, some of their favorite hand sex stories, and their hand sex fantasies. Find out all the places they've been fingered (and want to be), why, once again, Kate has clit opinions while Bex cares very deeply about their G-spot, and the reasons they both so desperately want to be fisted.

Eye Contact | Public Hand Sex | B99 Fan Fiction | Magic Wand Rechargable | Musician's Fingers | Kate's Clit is a Diva | A-Spot | Internal Clit | Dirty Talk | Orgasm Control | Wrestling the Little Monster | Good Girl | Fisting | Microflex Gloves | Sliquid Soul | Southern Butter | Good For Her | Pjur Lube | Uberlube | Funkit Signet | We-Vibe Tango | Crave Bullet | Hello Touch | Rainbow Paddles | Reid Mihalko | Tristan Taormino | Escalator Model | Sex Down South

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]]> Wed, 2 Nov 2016 05:37:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-7-can-you-handle-this-c8e3a0e8 Handjobs aren't just for high schoolers! In this episode Bex and Kate discuss all the reasons they love hand sex, some of their favorite hand sex stories, and their hand sex fantasies. Find out all the places they've been fingered (and want to be), why, once again, Kate has clit opinions while Bex cares very deeply about their G-spot, and the reasons they both so desperately want to be fisted.

Eye Contact | Public Hand Sex | B99 Fan Fiction | Magic Wand Rechargable | Musician's Fingers | Kate's Clit is a Diva | A-Spot | Internal Clit | Dirty Talk | Orgasm Control | Wrestling the Little Monster | Good Girl | Fisting | Microflex Gloves | Sliquid Soul | Southern Butter | Good For Her | Pjur Lube | Uberlube | Funkit Signet | We-Vibe Tango | Crave Bullet | Hello Touch | Rainbow Paddles | Reid Mihalko | Tristan Taormino | Escalator Model | Sex Down South

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]]> Episode 7: Can You Handle This? Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:01:42 Handjobs aren't just for high schoolers! In this episode Bex and Kate discuss all the reasons they love hand sex, some of their favorite hand sex stories, and their hand sex fantasies. Find out all the places they've been fingered (and want to be), why, once again, Kate has clit opinions while Bex cares very deeply about their G-spot, and the reasons they both so desperately want to be fisted. Eye Contact | Public Hand Sex | [B99 Fan Fiction](http://archiveofourown.org/works/3429272/chapters/7557989) | [Magic Wand Rechargable](http://www.shevibe.com/magic-wand-rechargeable-cordless-vibrator.aspx#oid=1013_1) | Musician's Fingers | [Kate's Clit is a Diva](http://girlyjuice.net/my-clit-is-a-diva/) | [A-Spot](http://girlyjuice.net/lets-learn-about-the-a-spot/) | [Internal Clit](http://www.museumofsex.com/the-internal-clitoris/) | Dirty Talk | Orgasm Control | Wrestling the Little Monster | Good Girl | Fisting | [Microflex Gloves](https://www.amazon.com/Microflex-MFXMK296L-MidKnight-Powder-Free-Examination/dp/B001AQRVZU/ref=sr_1_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1478060424&sr=8-1&keywords=midnight+microflex+gloves) | [Sliquid Soul](http://www.shevibe.com/sliquid-soul-moisturizing-personal-lubricant-2-oz.aspx#oid=1013_1) | [Southern Butter](https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/products/southern-butter-variety-pack) | [Good For Her](http://www.goodforher.com/) | [Pjur Lube](http://www.shevibe.com/pjur-basic-silicone-personal-glide-lubricant.aspx#oid=1013_1) | [Uberlube](http://www.shevibe.com/uberlube-luxury-silicone-lubricant-100-ml-for-style-sport-and-sex.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Funkit Signet](https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/funkit-signet-hand-sex-plus#/) | [We-Vibe Tango](http://www.shevibe.com/we-vibe-tango-waterproof-discreet-vibrator-blue.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Crave Bullet](http://www.babeland.com/Crave-Bullet/d/4680) | [Hello Touch](http://www.shevibe.com/hello-touch-wearable-fingertip-vibrator-by-jimmyjane.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Rainbow Paddles](http://www.funkittoys.com/gallery?lightbox=dataItem-itx1hxve) | [Reid Mihalko](http://reidaboutsex.com/) | [Tristan Taormino](http://puckerup.com/) | Escalator Model | [Sex Down South](http://sexdownsouth.com/) Handjobs aren't just for high schoolers! In this episode Bex and Kate discuss all the reasons they love hand sex, some of their favorite hand sex stories, and their hand sex fantasies. Find out all the places they've been fingered (and want to be), why, once again, Kate has clit opinions while Bex cares very deeply about their G-spot, and the reasons they both so desperately want to be fisted. Eye Contact | Public Hand Sex | [B99 Fan Fiction](http://archiveofourown.org/works/3429272/chapters/7557989) | [Magic Wand Rechargable](http://www.shevibe.com/magic-wand-rechargeable-cordless-vibrator.aspx#oid=1013_1) | Musician's Fingers | [Kate's Clit is a Diva](http://girlyjuice.net/my-clit-is-a-diva/) | [A-Spot](http://girlyjuice.net/lets-learn-about-the-a-spot/) | [Internal Clit](http://www.museumofsex.com/the-internal-clitoris/) | Dirty Talk | Orgasm Control | Wrestling the Little Monster | Good Girl | Fisting | [Microflex Gloves](https://www.amazon.com/Microflex-MFXMK296L-MidKnight-Powder-Free-Examination/dp/B001AQRVZU/ref=sr_1_1_a_it?ie=UTF8&qid=1478060424&sr=8-1&keywords=midnight+microflex+gloves) | [Sliquid Soul](http://www.shevibe.com/sliquid-soul-moisturizing-personal-lubricant-2-oz.aspx#oid=1013_1) | [Southern Butter](https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/products/southern-butter-variety-pack) | [Good For Her](http://www.goodforher.com/) | [Pjur Lube](http://www.shevibe.com/pjur-basic-silicone-personal-glide-lubricant.aspx#oid=1013_1) | [Uberlube](http://www.shevibe.com/uberlube-luxury-silicone-lubricant-100-ml-for-style-sport-and-sex.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Funkit Signet](https://www.indiegogo.com/projects/funkit-signet-hand-sex-plus#/) | [We-Vibe Tango](http://www.shevibe.com/we-vibe-tango-waterproof-discreet-vibrator-blue.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Crave Bullet](http://www.babeland.com/Crave-Bullet/d/4680) | [Hello Touch](http://www.shevibe.com/hello-touch-wearable-fingertip-vibrator-by-jimmyjane.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Rainbow Paddles](http://www.funkittoys.com/gallery?lightbox=dataItem-itx1hxve) | [Reid Mihalko](http://reidaboutsex.com/) | [Tristan Taormino](http://puckerup.com/) | Escalator Model | [Sex Down South](http://sexdownsouth.com/) sexual health, communication, sex true full 7 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2016-10-25_dd6-cunnilingus.mp3 Episode 6: Funnilingus As the companion to the popular BJ episode, Bex and Kate sit down to discuss something they're considerably less excited about: cunnilingus. They each tell the story of the first time they ever received oral sex, and how their opinions have changed on it over time. They also discuss their anxieties around both giving and receiving, and what people can do to make cunnilingus really enjoyable for them.

#DildoHoliday | Playground Conference | Taylor | Cunnilingus Preferences | Good Dick Garbage Human | "Treat My Clit Like A Dick" | Shame | Anxiety | Periods | Sex Lab | Fingering | Queer Imposter Syndrome | House | American Horror Story | The OC | Liz | Dominant Cunnilingus | Sex Down South | WOCSHN | Andre Shakti | Positions | Sinclair Sexsmith | Fire Play | Orpheus Black | Dr. Ruthie | Lovingly Objectified | Pay Me Hat

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]]> Wed, 26 Oct 2016 05:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-6-funnilingus-ab008742 As the companion to the popular BJ episode, Bex and Kate sit down to discuss something they're considerably less excited about: cunnilingus. They each tell the story of the first time they ever received oral sex, and how their opinions have changed on it over time. They also discuss their anxieties around both giving and receiving, and what people can do to make cunnilingus really enjoyable for them.

#DildoHoliday | Playground Conference | Taylor | Cunnilingus Preferences | Good Dick Garbage Human | "Treat My Clit Like A Dick" | Shame | Anxiety | Periods | Sex Lab | Fingering | Queer Imposter Syndrome | House | American Horror Story | The OC | Liz | Dominant Cunnilingus | Sex Down South | WOCSHN | Andre Shakti | Positions | Sinclair Sexsmith | Fire Play | Orpheus Black | Dr. Ruthie | Lovingly Objectified | Pay Me Hat

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]]> Episode 6: Funnilingus Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:02:35 As the companion to the popular BJ episode, Bex and Kate sit down to discuss something they're considerably less excited about: cunnilingus. They each tell the story of the first time they ever received oral sex, and how their opinions have changed on it over time. They also discuss their anxieties around both giving and receiving, and what people can do to make cunnilingus really enjoyable for them. #DildoHoliday | Playground Conference | Taylor | Cunnilingus Preferences | Good Dick Garbage Human | "Treat My Clit Like A Dick" | Shame | Anxiety | Periods | Sex Lab | Fingering | Queer Imposter Syndrome | House | American Horror Story | The OC | Liz | Dominant Cunnilingus | Sex Down South | WOCSHN | Andre Shakti | Positions | Sinclair Sexsmith | Fire Play | Orpheus Black | Dr. Ruthie | Lovingly Objectified | Pay Me Hat As the companion to the popular BJ episode, Bex and Kate sit down to discuss something they're considerably less excited about: cunnilingus. They each tell the story of the first time they ever received oral sex, and how their opinions have changed on it over time. They also discuss their anxieties around both giving and receiving, and what people can do to make cunnilingus really enjoyable for them. #DildoHoliday | Playground Conference | Taylor | Cunnilingus Preferences | Good Dick Garbage Human | "Treat My Clit Like A Dick" | Shame | Anxiety | Periods | Sex Lab | Fingering | Queer Imposter Syndrome | House | American Horror Story | The OC | Liz | Dominant Cunnilingus | Sex Down South | WOCSHN | Andre Shakti | Positions | Sinclair Sexsmith | Fire Play | Orpheus Black | Dr. Ruthie | Lovingly Objectified | Pay Me Hat oral sex, sexual health, cunnilingus, sex true full 6 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2016-10-18_dildorks5-bjs.mp3 Episode 5: The Blowjob One! This is it! FINALLY! The episode we've you've been waiting for! Kate and Bex get a tiny bit intoxicated and geek out about their all time favorite subject: Blowjobs! We finally explain why we love them so much, talk about our favorite tips and tricks, and get very, very giggly. Find out why Kate was once told she gives "the cashmere of BJs," listen to Bex talk about the kind of dick that makes them make terrible decisions, and finally learn what it means to have a "good BJ dick."

 

 

Inebriation | Boners | BJ Origins | Penis Anxiety | Good BJ Dicks | Threesomes | Tantus Uncut | Vixskin Mustang | Vixen Leo | Getting Emotional About Dicks | BJ Porn | Gagging | BJ Mindfulness | Service BJs | Praise | Strap-On BJs | Socratic Method | Being a Good BJ Receiver | Noise | Giving Direction | What Do I Do With My Hands? | Accepting Pleasure | Communication |  Channel-Surfing Method | The Worm | The Cashmere of BJs | Enthusiasm | Entitlement | Feminist Guilt | This Dick is Going to Ruin My Life… | Semen Recipe Book | BJ Painting

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]]> Wed, 19 Oct 2016 05:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-5-the-blowjob-one-81887eee This is it! FINALLY! The episode we've you've been waiting for! Kate and Bex get a tiny bit intoxicated and geek out about their all time favorite subject: Blowjobs! We finally explain why we love them so much, talk about our favorite tips and tricks, and get very, very giggly. Find out why Kate was once told she gives "the cashmere of BJs," listen to Bex talk about the kind of dick that makes them make terrible decisions, and finally learn what it means to have a "good BJ dick."

 

 

Inebriation | Boners | BJ Origins | Penis Anxiety | Good BJ Dicks | Threesomes | Tantus Uncut | Vixskin Mustang | Vixen Leo | Getting Emotional About Dicks | BJ Porn | Gagging | BJ Mindfulness | Service BJs | Praise | Strap-On BJs | Socratic Method | Being a Good BJ Receiver | Noise | Giving Direction | What Do I Do With My Hands? | Accepting Pleasure | Communication |  Channel-Surfing Method | The Worm | The Cashmere of BJs | Enthusiasm | Entitlement | Feminist Guilt | This Dick is Going to Ruin My Life… | Semen Recipe Book | BJ Painting

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]]> Episode 5: The Blowjob One! Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:11:24 This is it! FINALLY! The episode we've you've been waiting for! Kate and Bex get a tiny bit intoxicated and geek out about their all time favorite subject: Blowjobs! We finally explain why we love them so much, talk about our favorite tips and tricks, and get very, very giggly. Find out why Kate was once told she gives "the cashmere of BJs," listen to Bex talk about the kind of dick that makes them make terrible decisions, and finally learn what it means to have a "good BJ dick." Inebriation | Boners | BJ Origins | [Penis Anxiety](http://girlyjuice.net/a-tale-of-three-blowjobs-getting-over-penis-terror-continued/) | [Good BJ Dicks](http://girlyjuice.net/a-dick-worth-sucking/) | [Threesomes](http://girlyjuice.net/when-sex-nerds-plan-a-threesome/) | [Tantus Uncut](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?find=tantus+uncut%2c#oid=1056_1) | [Vixskin Mustang](http://www.shevibe.com/vixskin-mustang-silicone-dildo-by-vixen.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Vixen Leo](http://www.shevibe.com/leo-silicone-dildo-by-vixen.aspx#oid=1013_1) | Getting Emotional About Dicks | [BJ Porn](http://girlyjuice.net/5-mouthwatering-blowjob-scenes/) | Gagging | [BJ Mindfulness](http://girlyjuice.net/meditation-mindfulness-my-mouth/) | Service BJs | Praise | Strap-On BJs | [Socratic Method](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Socratic_method) | Being a Good BJ Receiver | Noise | Giving Direction | What Do I Do With My Hands? | Accepting Pleasure | Communication | Channel-Surfing Method | [The Worm](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HvLgfR7-QN4) | The Cashmere of BJs | Enthusiasm | Entitlement | Feminist Guilt | This Dick is Going to Ruin My Life… | [Semen Recipe Book](https://www.amazon.com/Semenology-Bartenders-Paul-Fotie-Photenhauer/dp/1482605228/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1476751741&sr=8-2&keywords=semen+cookbook) | [BJ Painting](https://twitter.com/BexTalksSex/status/724638499916255232) This is it! FINALLY! The episode we've you've been waiting for! Kate and Bex get a tiny bit intoxicated and geek out about their all time favorite subject: Blowjobs! We finally explain why we love them so much, talk about our favorite tips and tricks, and get very, very giggly. Find out why Kate was once told she gives "the cashmere of BJs," listen to Bex talk about the kind of dick that makes them make terrible decisions, and finally learn what it means to have a "good BJ dick." Inebriation | Boners | BJ Origins | [Penis Anxiety](http://girlyjuice.net/a-tale-of-three-blowjobs-getting-over-penis-terror-continued/) | [Good BJ Dicks](http://girlyjuice.net/a-dick-worth-sucking/) | [Threesomes](http://girlyjuice.net/when-sex-nerds-plan-a-threesome/) | [Tantus Uncut](http://www.shevibe.com/search.aspx?find=tantus+uncut%2c#oid=1056_1) | [Vixskin Mustang](http://www.shevibe.com/vixskin-mustang-silicone-dildo-by-vixen.aspx#oid=1056_1) | [Vixen Leo](http://www.shevibe.com/leo-silicone-dildo-by-vixen.aspx#oid=1013_1) | Getting Emotional About Dicks | [BJ Porn](http://girlyjuice.net/5-mouthwatering-blowjob-scenes/) | Gagging | [BJ Mindfulness](http://girlyjuice.net/meditation-mindfulness-my-mouth/) | Service BJs | Praise | Strap-On BJs | [Socratic Method](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Socratic_method) | Being a Good BJ Receiver | Noise | Giving Direction | What Do I Do With My Hands? | Accepting Pleasure | Communication | Channel-Surfing Method | [The Worm](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HvLgfR7-QN4) | The Cashmere of BJs | Enthusiasm | Entitlement | Feminist Guilt | This Dick is Going to Ruin My Life… | [Semen Recipe Book](https://www.amazon.com/Semenology-Bartenders-Paul-Fotie-Photenhauer/dp/1482605228/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1476751741&sr=8-2&keywords=semen+cookbook) | [BJ Painting](https://twitter.com/BexTalksSex/status/724638499916255232) oral sex, blowjob, kink, sex true full 5 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2016-10-12_dildorks4-gender.mp3 Episode 4: Gender? I Hardly Know 'er In this episode your hostfemme and hostbean discuss our gender identities and what they mean to us. We discuss Bex's gender feels, Kate's femmeness, and the way cis men impact the way we present.

Segue? So gay! | Sexting | Gender Feels | Pronouns | Bean | Femmes | Skirts and Dresses | Patriarchal Bullshit | Hot Pink Lipstick | Pop Punk Skater Boi | Soft Butch Dykes | Faggy Gay Boys | Cleavagey Shirts | Aggressively Gendering People | Batman Dress | Thrift Store Prom Dresses | Mental Health | CisHet Dudes | Good Girl | Not No… | Girly Girl | Body Hair | Archer | Blue Eyeshadow

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]]> Wed, 12 Oct 2016 11:34:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-4-gender-i-hardly-know-er-644e4bdf In this episode your hostfemme and hostbean discuss our gender identities and what they mean to us. We discuss Bex's gender feels, Kate's femmeness, and the way cis men impact the way we present.

Segue? So gay! | Sexting | Gender Feels | Pronouns | Bean | Femmes | Skirts and Dresses | Patriarchal Bullshit | Hot Pink Lipstick | Pop Punk Skater Boi | Soft Butch Dykes | Faggy Gay Boys | Cleavagey Shirts | Aggressively Gendering People | Batman Dress | Thrift Store Prom Dresses | Mental Health | CisHet Dudes | Good Girl | Not No… | Girly Girl | Body Hair | Archer | Blue Eyeshadow

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]]> Episode 4: Gender? I Hardly Know 'er Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:45:41 In this episode your hostfemme and hostbean discuss our gender identities and what they mean to us. We discuss Bex's gender feels, Kate's femmeness, and the way cis men impact the way we present. Segue? So gay! | Sexting | Gender Feels | Pronouns | Bean | Femmes | Skirts and Dresses | Patriarchal Bullshit | Hot Pink Lipstick | Pop Punk Skater Boi | Soft Butch Dykes | Faggy Gay Boys | Cleavagey Shirts | Aggressively Gendering People | Batman Dress | Thrift Store Prom Dresses | Mental Health | CisHet Dudes | [Good Girl](http://girlyjuice.net/im-a-good-girl/) | Not No… | [Girly Girl](http://katesloan.com/track/girly-girl) | Body Hair | [Archer](https://newyorktoycollective.com/product/archer/) | Blue Eyeshadow In this episode your hostfemme and hostbean discuss our gender identities and what they mean to us. We discuss Bex's gender feels, Kate's femmeness, and the way cis men impact the way we present. Segue? So gay! | Sexting | Gender Feels | Pronouns | Bean | Femmes | Skirts and Dresses | Patriarchal Bullshit | Hot Pink Lipstick | Pop Punk Skater Boi | Soft Butch Dykes | Faggy Gay Boys | Cleavagey Shirts | Aggressively Gendering People | Batman Dress | Thrift Store Prom Dresses | Mental Health | CisHet Dudes | [Good Girl](http://girlyjuice.net/im-a-good-girl/) | Not No… | [Girly Girl](http://katesloan.com/track/girly-girl) | Body Hair | [Archer](https://newyorktoycollective.com/product/archer/) | Blue Eyeshadow genderqueer, lgbt, gender, femme, sex true full 4 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2016-10-04_dildorks-3-kink.mp3 Episode 3: Feeling Kinky?! This week the Dildorks delve into one of their all time favorite topics- Kink! We talk about our kink identities, fetishes, and some of the things we really want to try. We think back on how our kinks manifested in childhood and what it looked like when we realized we were kinky. Then we wrap things up with a discussion on blowjobs and our memories of Bex's epic birthday party.

Submission | Bratting | Pup | Service | Pillow Princess | DD/lg | Daddy | Good Girl | Teacher's Pet | Little One | Veruca Salt | Dane Joe | Pet Names | Humiliation | Being Called a Slut | Kinky Beginnings | Power Exchange | Developing New Kinks | Kinky BJs | Suit kinks | Spanking | Restraint | Impact | OxBalls Paddle | Lexan Paddle | Grappling | Anal Sex | Fisting | Skype Fist Bumps | Suspension | Fire Play | Zoomline | Managing Anxiety with Kink | Productivity Doms | #BirthdayBruises | Exhibitionism | Kink Flirting

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]]> Wed, 5 Oct 2016 05:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-3-feeling-kinky-8ac36816 This week the Dildorks delve into one of their all time favorite topics- Kink! We talk about our kink identities, fetishes, and some of the things we really want to try. We think back on how our kinks manifested in childhood and what it looked like when we realized we were kinky. Then we wrap things up with a discussion on blowjobs and our memories of Bex's epic birthday party.

Submission | Bratting | Pup | Service | Pillow Princess | DD/lg | Daddy | Good Girl | Teacher's Pet | Little One | Veruca Salt | Dane Joe | Pet Names | Humiliation | Being Called a Slut | Kinky Beginnings | Power Exchange | Developing New Kinks | Kinky BJs | Suit kinks | Spanking | Restraint | Impact | OxBalls Paddle | Lexan Paddle | Grappling | Anal Sex | Fisting | Skype Fist Bumps | Suspension | Fire Play | Zoomline | Managing Anxiety with Kink | Productivity Doms | #BirthdayBruises | Exhibitionism | Kink Flirting

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]]> Episode 3: Feeling Kinky?! Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:59:23 This week the Dildorks delve into one of their all time favorite topics- Kink! We talk about our kink identities, fetishes, and some of the things we really want to try. We think back on how our kinks manifested in childhood and what it looked like when we realized we were kinky. Then we wrap things up with a discussion on blowjobs and our memories of Bex's epic birthday party. Submission | Bratting | [Pup](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2016/08/pup/) | Service | Pillow Princess | DD/lg | Daddy | [Good Girl](http://girlyjuice.net/im-a-good-girl/) | Teacher's Pet | Little One | [Veruca Salt](http://roalddahl.wikia.com/wiki/Veruca_Salt) | [Dane Joe](https://twitter.com/XDaneJoeX) | Pet Names | Humiliation | Being Called a Slut | Kinky Beginnings | Power Exchange | Developing New Kinks | Kinky BJs | Suit kinks | Spanking | Restraint | Impact | [OxBalls Paddle](http://shop.oxballs.com/STAY-Aluminum-Silicone-Ball-Buster-and-Paddle-OXBALLS-OX-1224.htm) | [Lexan Paddle](https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/269077065/38-lexan-spanking-paddle-large?ref=shop_home_active_3) | Grappling | [Anal Sex](http://girlyjuice.net/how-to-have-anal-sex-for-the-first-time-if-you-are-me/) | Fisting | Skype Fist Bumps | Suspension | Fire Play | [Zoomline](http://vegasexperience.com/slotzilla-zip-line/) | Managing Anxiety with Kink | Productivity Doms | [#BirthdayBruises](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2016/09/birthdaybruises-adventures-in-exhibitionistic-masochism/) | Exhibitionism | Kink Flirting This week the Dildorks delve into one of their all time favorite topics- Kink! We talk about our kink identities, fetishes, and some of the things we really want to try. We think back on how our kinks manifested in childhood and what it looked like when we realized we were kinky. Then we wrap things up with a discussion on blowjobs and our memories of Bex's epic birthday party. Submission | Bratting | [Pup](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2016/08/pup/) | Service | Pillow Princess | DD/lg | Daddy | [Good Girl](http://girlyjuice.net/im-a-good-girl/) | Teacher's Pet | Little One | [Veruca Salt](http://roalddahl.wikia.com/wiki/Veruca_Salt) | [Dane Joe](https://twitter.com/XDaneJoeX) | Pet Names | Humiliation | Being Called a Slut | Kinky Beginnings | Power Exchange | Developing New Kinks | Kinky BJs | Suit kinks | Spanking | Restraint | Impact | [OxBalls Paddle](http://shop.oxballs.com/STAY-Aluminum-Silicone-Ball-Buster-and-Paddle-OXBALLS-OX-1224.htm) | [Lexan Paddle](https://www.etsy.com/ca/listing/269077065/38-lexan-spanking-paddle-large?ref=shop_home_active_3) | Grappling | [Anal Sex](http://girlyjuice.net/how-to-have-anal-sex-for-the-first-time-if-you-are-me/) | Fisting | Skype Fist Bumps | Suspension | Fire Play | [Zoomline](http://vegasexperience.com/slotzilla-zip-line/) | Managing Anxiety with Kink | Productivity Doms | [#BirthdayBruises](http://www.bextalkssex.com/2016/09/birthdaybruises-adventures-in-exhibitionistic-masochism/) | Exhibitionism | Kink Flirting spanking, bdsm, fetish, kink, sex true full 3 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2016-09-28_dildorks2-sextoysfaq.mp3 Episode 2: Sex Toys FAQ As sex toy reviewers, we get asked the same questions over and over... In this episode we discuss our desert-island toys, weirdest toys, and the first toys we ever used. We also get real sassy about the stereotypes of using toys with partners, and our two least favorite luxury companies.

Good for Her | Rubber Ducky Vibe | The Softies | Icicles No. 1 | Prehensile G-spots | Working Up to Fisting | Desert Island Sex Toys | Magic Wand Rechargeable | Njoy Eleven | Fucking Sculptures Double Trouble | Oasis | Porn Shoots | A-spot | Lexan Paddle | Unicorn Collaborators | Artemisia Femmecock | Vixen Maverick | Vixen Randy | Tantus Uncuts | Fuze Foreman | NYTC Ellis | NYTC Packers | L'Amorouse Prisms | Leather and Lattes | Stone Crops | Sadist Attraction Devices | Problematic Bad Dragon | Pokemoan | Magic Banana | Butt Plug Shoes | Courtesy Hitachis | JimmyJane | [Intro 2] [Form 4] | Lelo [Hex] [Scented Sex Toys] [Dick Tux] | Pevertables | Machete Spankings | Sex with Shakespeare | Vixskin [Goodfella] [Outlaw]

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]]> Wed, 28 Sep 2016 06:01:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-2-sex-toys-faq-7316cde1 As sex toy reviewers, we get asked the same questions over and over... In this episode we discuss our desert-island toys, weirdest toys, and the first toys we ever used. We also get real sassy about the stereotypes of using toys with partners, and our two least favorite luxury companies.

Good for Her | Rubber Ducky Vibe | The Softies | Icicles No. 1 | Prehensile G-spots | Working Up to Fisting | Desert Island Sex Toys | Magic Wand Rechargeable | Njoy Eleven | Fucking Sculptures Double Trouble | Oasis | Porn Shoots | A-spot | Lexan Paddle | Unicorn Collaborators | Artemisia Femmecock | Vixen Maverick | Vixen Randy | Tantus Uncuts | Fuze Foreman | NYTC Ellis | NYTC Packers | L'Amorouse Prisms | Leather and Lattes | Stone Crops | Sadist Attraction Devices | Problematic Bad Dragon | Pokemoan | Magic Banana | Butt Plug Shoes | Courtesy Hitachis | JimmyJane | [Intro 2] [Form 4] | Lelo [Hex] [Scented Sex Toys] [Dick Tux] | Pevertables | Machete Spankings | Sex with Shakespeare | Vixskin [Goodfella] [Outlaw]

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]]> Episode 2: Sex Toys FAQ Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 01:01:33 As sex toy reviewers, we get asked the same questions over and over... In this episode we discuss our desert-island toys, weirdest toys, and the first toys we ever used. We also get real sassy about the stereotypes of using toys with partners, and our two least favorite luxury companies. Good for Her | Rubber Ducky Vibe | The Softies | Icicles No. 1 | Prehensile G-spots | Working Up to Fisting | Desert Island Sex Toys | Magic Wand Rechargeable | Njoy Eleven | Fucking Sculptures Double Trouble | Oasis | Porn Shoots | A-spot | Lexan Paddle | Unicorn Collaborators | Artemisia Femmecock | Vixen Maverick | Vixen Randy | Tantus Uncuts | Fuze Foreman | NYTC Ellis | NYTC Packers | L'Amorouse Prisms | Leather and Lattes | Stone Crops | Sadist Attraction Devices | Problematic Bad Dragon | Pokemoan | Magic Banana | Butt Plug Shoes | Courtesy Hitachis | JimmyJane | [Intro 2] [Form 4] | Lelo [Hex] [Scented Sex Toys] [Dick Tux] | Pevertables | Machete Spankings | Sex with Shakespeare | Vixskin [Goodfella] [Outlaw] As sex toy reviewers, we get asked the same questions over and over... In this episode we discuss our desert-island toys, weirdest toys, and the first toys we ever used. We also get real sassy about the stereotypes of using toys with partners, and our two least favorite luxury companies. Good for Her | Rubber Ducky Vibe | The Softies | Icicles No. 1 | Prehensile G-spots | Working Up to Fisting | Desert Island Sex Toys | Magic Wand Rechargeable | Njoy Eleven | Fucking Sculptures Double Trouble | Oasis | Porn Shoots | A-spot | Lexan Paddle | Unicorn Collaborators | Artemisia Femmecock | Vixen Maverick | Vixen Randy | Tantus Uncuts | Fuze Foreman | NYTC Ellis | NYTC Packers | L'Amorouse Prisms | Leather and Lattes | Stone Crops | Sadist Attraction Devices | Problematic Bad Dragon | Pokemoan | Magic Banana | Butt Plug Shoes | Courtesy Hitachis | JimmyJane | [Intro 2] [Form 4] | Lelo [Hex] [Scented Sex Toys] [Dick Tux] | Pevertables | Machete Spankings | Sex with Shakespeare | Vixskin [Goodfella] [Outlaw] sex toys, dildo, vibrator, spanking, kink, sex true full 2 http://girlyjuice.net/dildorks/PodcastGenerator-master/?name=2016-09-20_dd01_mixdown.mp3 Episode 1: Who the Dork Are You? In our inaugural episode, we discuss our sex superhero origin stories, our first memories of each other, and the weekend that cemented our friendship. We get real gross when we talk about why this friendship is different from any other we’ve had and what it means to be #BrainTwins. We also introduce our first segment, Fuck This/Fuck Yea, where we discuss things we’ve loved and things we’ve hated that week.

Sweden Manatees, Sex is Fun, Hey Epiphora, Dangerous Lilly, DildoHoliday,Playground Conference, Emergency Threesomes, TMSG Podcast with Bex’s Story, #ThingsIdOnlyTellYou, Slut accomplishments, Hogwarts Houses, Smitten Kitten Tank, People who are bad at poly, Sex Parties, Sexual Tension

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]]> Tue, 20 Sep 2016 20:00:00 +0000 katesloanwriter@gmail.com (Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan) https://thedildorks.com/episodes/episode-1-who-the-dork-are-you-7cb3ded4 In our inaugural episode, we discuss our sex superhero origin stories, our first memories of each other, and the weekend that cemented our friendship. We get real gross when we talk about why this friendship is different from any other we’ve had and what it means to be #BrainTwins. We also introduce our first segment, Fuck This/Fuck Yea, where we discuss things we’ve loved and things we’ve hated that week.

Sweden Manatees, Sex is Fun, Hey Epiphora, Dangerous Lilly, DildoHoliday,Playground Conference, Emergency Threesomes, TMSG Podcast with Bex’s Story, #ThingsIdOnlyTellYou, Slut accomplishments, Hogwarts Houses, Smitten Kitten Tank, People who are bad at poly, Sex Parties, Sexual Tension

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]]> Episode 1: Who the Dork Are You? Bex Caputo & Kate Sloan 00:39:33 In our inaugural episode, we discuss our sex superhero origin stories, our first memories of each other, and the weekend that cemented our friendship. We get real gross when we talk about why this friendship is different from any other we’ve had and what it means to be #BrainTwins. We also introduce our first segment, Fuck This/Fuck Yea, where we discuss things we’ve loved and things we’ve hated that week. Sweden Manatees, [Sex is Fun](http://www.sexisfun.net/), [Hey Epiphora](http://www.heyepiphora.com/), [Dangerous Lilly](http://dangerouslilly.com/), [DildoHoliday](https://storify.com/Epiphora/dildoholiday-summer-2015),[Playground Conference](http://playgroundconf.com/), Emergency Threesomes, [TMSG Podcast with Bex’s Story](http://www.tmsgstories.com/podcast/episode-22-2nd-anniversary-live-show-pt-ii), #ThingsIdOnlyTellYou, Slut accomplishments, Hogwarts Houses, [Smitten Kitten Tank](https://twitter.com/BexTalksSex/status/771725953299017728), People who are bad at poly, Sex Parties, Sexual Tension In our inaugural episode, we discuss our sex superhero origin stories, our first memories of each other, and the weekend that cemented our friendship. We get real gross when we talk about why this friendship is different from any other we’ve had and what it means to be #BrainTwins. We also introduce our first segment, Fuck This/Fuck Yea, where we discuss things we’ve loved and things we’ve hated that week. Sweden Manatees, [Sex is Fun](http://www.sexisfun.net/), [Hey Epiphora](http://www.heyepiphora.com/), [Dangerous Lilly](http://dangerouslilly.com/), [DildoHoliday](https://storify.com/Epiphora/dildoholiday-summer-2015),[Playground Conference](http://playgroundconf.com/), Emergency Threesomes, [TMSG Podcast with Bex’s Story](http://www.tmsgstories.com/podcast/episode-22-2nd-anniversary-live-show-pt-ii), #ThingsIdOnlyTellYou, Slut accomplishments, Hogwarts Houses, [Smitten Kitten Tank](https://twitter.com/BexTalksSex/status/771725953299017728), People who are bad at poly, Sex Parties, Sexual Tension blogging, sex toys, polyamory, queer, kink, slut, sex true full 1