https://simplecast.com How to Be Him Podcast How To Be Him is a Christ-centered space where Garth and Za have honest conversations about faith, masculinity, doubt, lust, identity, and real life in our generation. If you’re ready to stop conforming and start being transformed—welcome to How To Be Him. 2026 K-LOVE, INC. en Tue, 16 Jun 2026 20:59:29 +0000 Tue, 16 Jun 2026 21:00:30 +0000 https://how-to-be-him-podcast.simplecast.com How to Be Him Podcast https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/7e00d886-65e2-4cf1-9409-f8c064b26f05/d23a5eca-b8be-4ef8-9132-8227d1c9a345/3000x3000/htbh_podcast_size.jpg?aid=rss_feed https://how-to-be-him-podcast.simplecast.com episodic How To Be Him is a Christ-centered space where Garth and Za have honest conversations about faith, masculinity, doubt, lust, identity, and real life in our generation. If you’re ready to stop conforming and start being transformed—welcome to How To Be Him. Garth Wheeler, Za Smith false https://feeds.simplecast.com/k2_Aoz7k man, masculinity, jesus, good source how to be him, him podcast, christian, za smith, men, doubt, garth wheeler, goodsource, zae, klove, good source, christian gen z, garth, za, identity, lust, christian men, klove gen z, how, howtobehim, gen z men, how to be him, zae smith, christianity, zay smith, christian comedy, him, gen z, k-love, how to be, zay, faith, k-love gen z Goodsource za@mygoodsource.com 9fc948d3-cc51-4ca0-a818-78833da07e3d Hookups, Dating, or Marriage? What Gen Z Men actually want- Gabe Conte Nobody's saying what they actually think — so we did. In this episode, Gabe Conte joins HTBH to talk about what Gen Z men are really looking for when it comes to relationships, sex, and commitment. Is marriage still the goal? Are hookups filling a void? And what does any of this have to do with faith? Unfiltered and real.

]]> Tue, 16 Jun 2026 20:59:29 +0000 za@mygoodsource.com (Goodsource) https://how-to-be-him-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/hookups-dating-or-marriage-what-gen-z-men-actually-want-gabe-conte-z_XHkd_6 Nobody's saying what they actually think — so we did. In this episode, Gabe Conte joins HTBH to talk about what Gen Z men are really looking for when it comes to relationships, sex, and commitment. Is marriage still the goal? Are hookups filling a void? And what does any of this have to do with faith? Unfiltered and real.

]]> Hookups, Dating, or Marriage? What Gen Z Men actually want- Gabe Conte Goodsource 00:50:12 Nobody's saying what they actually think — so we did. In this episode, Gabe Conte joins HTBH to talk about what Gen Z men are really looking for when it comes to relationships, sex, and commitment. Is marriage still the goal? Are hookups filling a void? And what does any of this have to do with faith? Unfiltered and real. Nobody's saying what they actually think — so we did. In this episode, Gabe Conte joins HTBH to talk about what Gen Z men are really looking for when it comes to relationships, sex, and commitment. Is marriage still the goal? Are hookups filling a void? And what does any of this have to do with faith? Unfiltered and real. garth wheeler, sexual temptation, gabe conte vine, zay smith, identity crisis gen z, gabe conte youtube, christianity, hookup culture, k-love, what men want, goodsource, klove gen z, klove, good source, gabe conte, gabe, christian, zae, marriage, gen z, k-love gen z, za, za smith, christian gen z, gen z women, zae smith, garth, dating, goodsource how to be him, young marriage, christian community, christian men, good source how to be him, gen z men false full 9 cfdaf5be-6598-4404-9113-6a431d814ffb This is what real community looks like We pulled up, brought the snacks, and let the conversation breathe. This episode is less interview, more real life — a roundtable with guests you recognize, who are actually trying to live out Godly community. No perfect answers. Just honest conversation about what it looks like when faith gets lived out in a living room with people you trust.

]]> Tue, 2 Jun 2026 18:41:18 +0000 za@mygoodsource.com (Landon Hurlbut, Bailey Jamieson, Dani Valentine) https://how-to-be-him-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/this-is-what-real-community-looks-like-ZmS3bm4C We pulled up, brought the snacks, and let the conversation breathe. This episode is less interview, more real life — a roundtable with guests you recognize, who are actually trying to live out Godly community. No perfect answers. Just honest conversation about what it looks like when faith gets lived out in a living room with people you trust.

]]> This is what real community looks like Landon Hurlbut, Bailey Jamieson, Dani Valentine 00:53:27 We pulled up, brought the snacks, and let the conversation breathe. This episode is less interview, more real life — a roundtable with guests you recognize, who are actually trying to live out Godly community. No perfect answers. Just honest conversation about what it looks like when faith gets lived out in a living room with people you trust. We pulled up, brought the snacks, and let the conversation breathe. This episode is less interview, more real life — a roundtable with guests you recognize, who are actually trying to live out Godly community. No perfect answers. Just honest conversation about what it looks like when faith gets lived out in a living room with people you trust. bailey jamieson, garth wheeler, howtobehim, landon, zay smith, identity crisis gen z, how to be, christian comedy, christianity, hodgepod, how, goodsource, klove gen z, klove, dani valentine, good source, christian, zae, zay, gen z, k-love gen z, za, za smith, christian gen z, landon hurlbut, zae smith, garth, danny, bailey, goodsource how to be him, community, danny valentine, dani, landon hulburt, how to be him podcast, how to be him, christian community, christian men, good source how to be him, gen z men false full 8 07072c71-8f83-41c6-92a1-72d46fa1e8d3 Ambitious or Obedient? Why Faith-Driven Men Have to Choose Garth and Za get honest about the pressure to always hustle, always achieve, and always prove themselves. From chasing success to struggling with self-worth, the boys unpack the tension between working hard for what you want and not letting achievement define who you are. A real conversation about ambition, identity, and the pressure men face today.

]]> Tue, 19 May 2026 05:00:00 +0000 za@mygoodsource.com (Goodsource) https://how-to-be-him-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/ambitious-or-obedient-why-faith-driven-men-have-to-choose-ANAi5o39 Garth and Za get honest about the pressure to always hustle, always achieve, and always prove themselves. From chasing success to struggling with self-worth, the boys unpack the tension between working hard for what you want and not letting achievement define who you are. A real conversation about ambition, identity, and the pressure men face today.

]]> Ambitious or Obedient? Why Faith-Driven Men Have to Choose Goodsource 00:39:43 You've got goals. Plans. A vision for your life. But what happens when God's call and your ambition don't line up? We get into the real tension between chasing what you want and submitting to what you're called to — and whether those two things can actually coexist for the modern Christian man. You've got goals. Plans. A vision for your life. But what happens when God's call and your ambition don't line up? We get into the real tension between chasing what you want and submitting to what you're called to — and whether those two things can actually coexist for the modern Christian man. garth wheeler, howtobehim, jesus, zay smith, identity crisis gen z, how to be, christian comedy, christianity, god, how, goodsource, klove gen z, pride christianity, klove, good source, him, christian, zay, gen z, k-love gen z, men, za, za smith, christian gen z, garth, goodsource how to be him, pride christian, how to be him podcast, how to be him, identity crisis, identity, christian men, him podcast, good source how to be him, gen z men false full 7 3b14527e-d247-43a6-bb14-2b251e784f36 God Humbled Me- Grant Troutt Pride is subtle — and it’s powerful. Grant, Garth, and Za, break down the difference between natural and toxic pride, reflecting on past battles and current struggles with surrendering control and trusting God. This episode points back to what matters most: understanding the gospel and letting it reshape everything.

]]> Tue, 5 May 2026 19:00:00 +0000 za@mygoodsource.com (Grant Troutt) https://how-to-be-him-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/god-humbled-me-grant-troutt-rrWZ3f7V Pride is subtle — and it’s powerful. Grant, Garth, and Za, break down the difference between natural and toxic pride, reflecting on past battles and current struggles with surrendering control and trusting God. This episode points back to what matters most: understanding the gospel and letting it reshape everything.

]]> God Humbled Me- Grant Troutt Grant Troutt 00:45:19 Most of us say we want to be humble — but we don't actually want to be humbled. In this episode, we sit down with Grant Troutt and talk about why God doesn't wait for your permission to bring you low, what that process could actually look like, and why the humbling isn't punishment — it's preparation. If you've ever felt like things were falling apart right when they were supposed to come together, this one's for you. Most of us say we want to be humble — but we don't actually want to be humbled. In this episode, we sit down with Grant Troutt and talk about why God doesn't wait for your permission to bring you low, what that process could actually look like, and why the humbling isn't punishment — it's preparation. If you've ever felt like things were falling apart right when they were supposed to come together, this one's for you. grant troutt, garth wheeler, howtobehim, masculinity, zay smith, tonya prewitt, goodsource, klove gen z, man, pride christianity, klove, good source, sin of pride, him, zay, men, za, za smith, garth, pride, unite, goodsource how to be him, grant and maddie, pride christian, grant, how to be him podcast, how to be him, grant trout, maddie prewitt, christian men, him podcast, good source how to be him, gen z men false full 6 1090b49c-c3ed-4ebe-adc5-1ef3a3efe849 SHAME: God Isn’t Disgusted With You Garth and Za unpack the weight of shame and guilt, and how those struggles distort purpose when you’re searching for truth. There’s a difference between just carrying your past and actually living free with in who God says you are.

]]> Tue, 21 Apr 2026 14:58:59 +0000 za@mygoodsource.com (Goodsource) https://how-to-be-him-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/shame-god-isnt-disgusted-with-you-FWpVIiPM Garth and Za unpack the weight of shame and guilt, and how those struggles distort purpose when you’re searching for truth. There’s a difference between just carrying your past and actually living free with in who God says you are.

]]> SHAME: God Isn’t Disgusted With You Goodsource 00:32:50 How can you be forgiven for the things you’ve done? Why does the past haunt us so much? How can I not be afraid of what others will think of me because of my past? If you’re anything like us, you’ve had similar questions pop into your head, and if we can give you some advice, they’re lies. In this episode of HTBH, Za and Garth tackle the hard topic of shame, and how much of an effect it can have on our generation. If you stick around, you’ll walk away with a truth you may have never heard before that will help you combat the lies that flood into your mind. We’re excited to tackle this topic together How can you be forgiven for the things you’ve done? Why does the past haunt us so much? How can I not be afraid of what others will think of me because of my past? If you’re anything like us, you’ve had similar questions pop into your head, and if we can give you some advice, they’re lies. In this episode of HTBH, Za and Garth tackle the hard topic of shame, and how much of an effect it can have on our generation. If you stick around, you’ll walk away with a truth you may have never heard before that will help you combat the lies that flood into your mind. We’re excited to tackle this topic together garth wheeler, howtobehim, masculinity, how to be, k-love, how, klove gen z, klove, him, gen z, k-love gen z, shame gen z, za, za smith, christian gen z, garth, goodsource how to be him, how to be him podcast, how to be him, him podcast, good source how to be him, gen z men false full 5 aa081ccf-0912-4c24-9eac-0b5c8cc7da49 Culture’s Version Of Man Is BROKEN- Bailey Jamieson Manhood in 2026 is… confusing. So we talked about it. The boys dive into their own experiences navigating masculinity — the wins, the failures, the emotions, and the pressure. Centered around five biblical keys, this episode unpacks toxic masculinity, relationships, and what it actually means to step up as a Christian man.

]]> Tue, 7 Apr 2026 05:00:00 +0000 za@mygoodsource.com (Bailey Jamieson) https://how-to-be-him-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/cultures-version-of-man-is-broken-mADmovVk Manhood in 2026 is… confusing. So we talked about it. The boys dive into their own experiences navigating masculinity — the wins, the failures, the emotions, and the pressure. Centered around five biblical keys, this episode unpacks toxic masculinity, relationships, and what it actually means to step up as a Christian man.

]]> Culture’s Version Of Man Is BROKEN- Bailey Jamieson Bailey Jamieson 00:38:20 Why can it be so difficult to identify what a man is these days? On this episode of HTBH, Garth and Za sit down with Bailey Jamieson to discuss masculinity, economic anxieties, and the truth of what it actually means to be a biblical man. If you’re curious about biblical masculinity, or what goes on inside the head of young Gen Z guys, you won’t want to miss this episode of How To Be Him! Why can it be so difficult to identify what a man is these days? On this episode of HTBH, Garth and Za sit down with Bailey Jamieson to discuss masculinity, economic anxieties, and the truth of what it actually means to be a biblical man. If you’re curious about biblical masculinity, or what goes on inside the head of young Gen Z guys, you won’t want to miss this episode of How To Be Him! bailey jamieson, garth wheeler, howtobehim, identity crisis gen z, how to be, k-love, how, goodsource, klove gen z, klove, good source, him, gen z, k-love gen z, shame gen z, za, za smith, christian gen z, garth, bailey, goodsource how to be him, how to be him podcast, how to be him, him podcast, good source how to be him, gen z men false full 4 7b634f06-dd2c-49dc-94a1-8d92f5a5c1c5 Identity: It’s Not What You Think- Landon Hurlbut Landon and the boys talk through the identity crisis in Gen-Z, and the personal battles that come with searching for truth. There's a difference between existing and living with purpose. Everything starts with who God says you are. 

]]> Tue, 24 Mar 2026 05:00:00 +0000 za@mygoodsource.com (Goodsource) https://how-to-be-him-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/identity-its-not-what-you-think-landon-hurlbut-LRkJ6xAd Landon and the boys talk through the identity crisis in Gen-Z, and the personal battles that come with searching for truth. There's a difference between existing and living with purpose. Everything starts with who God says you are. 

]]> Identity: It’s Not What You Think- Landon Hurlbut Goodsource 00:38:43 Why are you here? What is your purpose here on Earth? Why should you continue to live the life you have? These are all questions that can go through the head of our generation, and they can be extremely intimidating. In this episode of HTBH, Landon Hurlbut makes his first appearance to talk about the identity crisis going on with Gen-Z. After watching this episode, you’ll walk away with a clear understanding of where you should be finding your identity, the purpose you have in life, and hopefully a new excitement for the future! Why are you here? What is your purpose here on Earth? Why should you continue to live the life you have? These are all questions that can go through the head of our generation, and they can be extremely intimidating. In this episode of HTBH, Landon Hurlbut makes his first appearance to talk about the identity crisis going on with Gen-Z. After watching this episode, you’ll walk away with a clear understanding of where you should be finding your identity, the purpose you have in life, and hopefully a new excitement for the future! garth wheeler, howtobehim, landon, identity crisis gen z, how to be, christian comedy, christianity, how, klove gen z, klove, him, christian, za, za smith, christian gen z, landon hurlbut, garth, goodsource how to be him, landon hulburt, how to be him podcast, how to be him, identity crisis, identity, christian men, him podcast, good source how to be him false full 3 6ae72ec6-2584-4afd-93b9-172e125b0d75 Battle Plan Against Porn- Dani Valentine The team talks about where culture is right now when it comes to pornography, how it’s affected their own lives, and the real, practical steps they take to fight it day to day. It’s wild how normal porn has become… so we talked about it.

]]> Tue, 10 Mar 2026 05:00:00 +0000 za@mygoodsource.com (Garth Wheeler, Za Smith, Dani Valentine) https://how-to-be-him-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/battle-plan-against-porn-dani-valentine-8Yj7Qe6J The team talks about where culture is right now when it comes to pornography, how it’s affected their own lives, and the real, practical steps they take to fight it day to day. It’s wild how normal porn has become… so we talked about it.

]]> Battle Plan Against Porn- Dani Valentine Garth Wheeler, Za Smith, Dani Valentine 00:38:56 Garth, Za, and special guest Dani Valentine talk about the battle a lot of people fight but almost nobody admits — porn. With the added perspective of a woman who’s struggled with it too, this episode mixes real stories, real laughs, and real biblical truth on how to keep fighting. Episode two sets the tone for what How To Be Him is all about. Garth, Za, and special guest Dani Valentine talk about the battle a lot of people fight but almost nobody admits — porn. With the added perspective of a woman who’s struggled with it too, this episode mixes real stories, real laughs, and real biblical truth on how to keep fighting. Episode two sets the tone for what How To Be Him is all about. garth wheeler, howtobehim, masculinity, sexual temptation, pornography addiction, sin and repentance, porn addiction, k-love, how, goodsource, dani valentine, good source, him, christian, addiction recovery, k-love gen z, men, self control, za, freedom from porn, overcoming temptation, za smith, christian gen z, discipline, garth, danny, goodsource how to be him, battle plan against porn, danny valentine, lust struggle, accountability, dani, purity, how to be him podcast, how to be him, christian men, him podcast, faith and struggle, good source how to be him, gen z men false full 2 145b8bc1-9a54-437b-bc55-4711372dd2dc How To Be Him - Pilot What happens when two guys with totally different upbringings decide to create something rooted in truth? In this pilot episode, Garth and Za unpack who they are, what shaped them, and how “How To Be Him” was born. Culture says being “him” means one thing. The Bible says being like “Him” means another. Come along the journey of discovering truth.

]]> Tue, 24 Feb 2026 06:00:00 +0000 za@mygoodsource.com (Goodsource) https://how-to-be-him-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/how-to-be-him-pilot-4fcPrTkM What happens when two guys with totally different upbringings decide to create something rooted in truth? In this pilot episode, Garth and Za unpack who they are, what shaped them, and how “How To Be Him” was born. Culture says being “him” means one thing. The Bible says being like “Him” means another. Come along the journey of discovering truth.

]]> How To Be Him - Pilot Goodsource 00:25:05 Garth and Za officially say hello to the world — and to every fellow "Himothy" out there — sharing personal stories, asking the questions that matter, and laying the foundation for what this show is all about. If you’ve been looking for real conversation, real growth, and real brothers pursuing Jesus together, this isn’t just an intro — it’s an invitation. Garth and Za officially say hello to the world — and to every fellow "Himothy" out there — sharing personal stories, asking the questions that matter, and laying the foundation for what this show is all about. If you’ve been looking for real conversation, real growth, and real brothers pursuing Jesus together, this isn’t just an intro — it’s an invitation. garth wheeler, howtobehim, jesus, how to be, k-love, how, goodsource, klove gen z, good source, him, zae, gen z, k-love gen z, men, za smith, christian gen z, zae smith, garth, goodsource how to be him, how to be him podcast, how to be him, identity, christian men, him podcast, good source how to be him, gen z men false full 1 60fcec1e-1710-42a1-ac7f-b606f8d8e85d How To Be Him - Trailer "How To Be Him" hosts, Garth and Za share the vision and goal behind the podcast. No perfection, or pretending. Just two guys trying become more like Jesus Christ. 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howtobehimpodcast/?hl=en

]]> Sun, 22 Feb 2026 01:00:00 +0000 za@mygoodsource.com (Garth Wheeler, Za Smith, Goodsource) https://how-to-be-him-podcast.simplecast.com/episodes/how-to-be-him-trailer-n1QswZ_q "How To Be Him" hosts, Garth and Za share the vision and goal behind the podcast. No perfection, or pretending. Just two guys trying become more like Jesus Christ. 

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/howtobehimpodcast/?hl=en

]]> How To Be Him - Trailer Garth Wheeler, Za Smith, Goodsource 00:01:56 How To Be Him is a Christ-centered space where Garth and Za have honest conversations about faith, masculinity, doubt, lust, identity, and real life in our generation. If you’re ready to stop conforming and start being transformed—welcome to How To Be Him. How To Be Him is a Christ-centered space where Garth and Za have honest conversations about faith, masculinity, doubt, lust, identity, and real life in our generation. If you’re ready to stop conforming and start being transformed—welcome to How To Be Him. garth wheeler, howtobehim, masculinity, k-love, how, goodsource, good source, him, christian, k-love gen z, men, za, za smith, christian gen z, garth, goodsource how to be him, how to be him podcast, how to be him, christian men, him podcast, good source how to be him, gen z men false trailer