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<p><p>Hosted by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cocobucks" target="_blank">Colin Buckingham</a></p><p>Episode 1 Edited by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a></p><p>Episodes 2-6 Edited by &nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theothertracy/">Tracy Barnett</a></p><p>Theme Song by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/teejaynorton/" target="_blank">TJ Norton&nbsp;</a></p><p>Social Producer <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ears4hatsmgmt/" target="_blank">Morgan Peters</a></p><p>Thanks to <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aubreylturner/" target="_blank">Aubrey Turner</a></p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>Hosted by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cocobucks" target="_blank">Colin Buckingham</a></p><p>Episode 1 Edited by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a></p><p>Episodes 2-6 Edited by &nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theothertracy/">Tracy Barnett</a></p><p>Theme Song by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/teejaynorton/" target="_blank">TJ Norton&nbsp;</a></p><p>Social Producer <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ears4hatsmgmt/" target="_blank">Morgan Peters</a></p><p>Thanks to <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aubreylturner/" target="_blank">Aubrey Turner</a></p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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<p><p>Hosted by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cocobucks" target="_blank">Colin Buckingham</a></p><p>Episode 1 Edited by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a></p><p>Episodes 2-6 Edited by &nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theothertracy/">Tracy Barnett</a></p><p>Theme Song by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/teejaynorton/" target="_blank">TJ Norton&nbsp;</a></p><p>Social Producer <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ears4hatsmgmt/" target="_blank">Morgan Peters</a></p><p>Thanks to <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aubreylturner/" target="_blank">Aubrey Turner</a></p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>Hosted by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cocobucks" target="_blank">Colin Buckingham</a></p><p>Episode 1 Edited by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a></p><p>Episodes 2-6 Edited by &nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theothertracy/">Tracy Barnett</a></p><p>Theme Song by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/teejaynorton/" target="_blank">TJ Norton&nbsp;</a></p><p>Social Producer <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ears4hatsmgmt/" target="_blank">Morgan Peters</a></p><p>Thanks to <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aubreylturner/" target="_blank">Aubrey Turner</a></p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>This week, Colin and Laser answer YOUR questions regarding the relationship between testosterone and libido, the link between communication, consent and pleasure... and add in some truly awful puns for good measure! It's a very sexy episode over here on Not Real Men!<br /><br />Other topics include: Kurt Cobain, broccoli, bottom growth, safety words, stereotypes, Salt-N-Pepa, unlearning, nosy politicians, pronouns, drug-store contraceptives, and how to be supportive of your transitioning friend no matter where they are on their journey.<br /> </p><p>Not Real Men is a podcast about masculinity at the intersection of queerness, ability, comedy, and love. It is hosted by musician-comedian Laser Webber (the Doubleclicks) and writer-model-actor Colin Buckingham.  <br /> </p><p>Subscribe on your favorite podcatcher, and follow us on Instagram at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/notrealmenpod/" target="_blank">@notrealmenpod </a>to stay up to date on new episodes!<br /><br />Have questions that you'd like answered on the show? Submit a question<a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSehGvY2_AygSRShVcnuloQjXeWMt5M5d_nNuOgYknbnoKjwDw/viewform" target="_blank"> here!</a></p>
<p><p>Hosted by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cocobucks" target="_blank">Colin Buckingham</a></p><p>Episode 1 Edited by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a></p><p>Episodes 2-6 Edited by &nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theothertracy/">Tracy Barnett</a></p><p>Theme Song by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/teejaynorton/" target="_blank">TJ Norton&nbsp;</a></p><p>Social Producer <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ears4hatsmgmt/" target="_blank">Morgan Peters</a></p><p>Thanks to <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aubreylturner/" target="_blank">Aubrey Turner</a></p></p>]]></description>
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      <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This week, Colin and Laser answer YOUR questions regarding the relationship between testosterone and libido, the link between communication, consent and pleasure... and add in some truly awful puns for good measure! It's a very sexy episode over here on Not Real Men!<br /><br />Other topics include: Kurt Cobain, broccoli, bottom growth, safety words, stereotypes, Salt-N-Pepa, unlearning, nosy politicians, pronouns, drug-store contraceptives, and how to be supportive of your transitioning friend no matter where they are on their journey.<br /> </p><p>Not Real Men is a podcast about masculinity at the intersection of queerness, ability, comedy, and love. It is hosted by musician-comedian Laser Webber (the Doubleclicks) and writer-model-actor Colin Buckingham.  <br /> </p><p>Subscribe on your favorite podcatcher, and follow us on Instagram at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/notrealmenpod/" target="_blank">@notrealmenpod </a>to stay up to date on new episodes!<br /><br />Have questions that you'd like answered on the show? Submit a question<a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSehGvY2_AygSRShVcnuloQjXeWMt5M5d_nNuOgYknbnoKjwDw/viewform" target="_blank"> here!</a></p>
<p><p>Hosted by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cocobucks" target="_blank">Colin Buckingham</a></p><p>Episode 1 Edited by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a></p><p>Episodes 2-6 Edited by &nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theothertracy/">Tracy Barnett</a></p><p>Theme Song by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/teejaynorton/" target="_blank">TJ Norton&nbsp;</a></p><p>Social Producer <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ears4hatsmgmt/" target="_blank">Morgan Peters</a></p><p>Thanks to <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aubreylturner/" target="_blank">Aubrey Turner</a></p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>We're joined this episode by bestselling author, podcaster and voice actor <a href="https://www.instagram.com/travismcelroy/" target="_blank">Travis McElroy</a>! #travnation <br />Together we dig deep into the overlap between neurodivergence and masculine traits, self-expression when men's fashion is so often "blah", and the real difference between men and women's restrooms. <br /><br />Other topics of note this episode include: Sigma males, silly ties, picking fights, fetch-quests, peacocks, empathy,  fitting in, helpful lesbians, and the Muppet Christmas Carol (trust us).<br /><br />Not Real Men is a podcast about masculinity at the intersection of queerness, ability, comedy, and love. It is hosted by musician-comedian Laser Webber (the Doubleclicks) and writer-model-actor Colin Buckingham. <br /><br />Subscribe on your favorite podcatcher, and follow us on Instagram at <a href="https://www.instagram.com/notrealmenpod/" target="_blank">@notrealmenpod </a>to stay up to date on new episodes!<br /><br />Have questions that you'd like answered on the show? Submit a question<a href="https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSehGvY2_AygSRShVcnuloQjXeWMt5M5d_nNuOgYknbnoKjwDw/viewform" target="_blank"> here!</a><br /> </p>
<p><p>Hosted by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cocobucks" target="_blank">Colin Buckingham</a></p><p>Episode 1 Edited by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a></p><p>Episodes 2-6 Edited by &nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theothertracy/">Tracy Barnett</a></p><p>Theme Song by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/teejaynorton/" target="_blank">TJ Norton&nbsp;</a></p><p>Social Producer <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ears4hatsmgmt/" target="_blank">Morgan Peters</a></p><p>Thanks to <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aubreylturner/" target="_blank">Aubrey Turner</a></p></p>]]></description>
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<p><p>Hosted by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cocobucks" target="_blank">Colin Buckingham</a></p><p>Episode 1 Edited by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a></p><p>Episodes 2-6 Edited by &nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theothertracy/">Tracy Barnett</a></p><p>Theme Song by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/teejaynorton/" target="_blank">TJ Norton&nbsp;</a></p><p>Social Producer <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ears4hatsmgmt/" target="_blank">Morgan Peters</a></p><p>Thanks to <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aubreylturner/" target="_blank">Aubrey Turner</a></p></p>]]></content:encoded>
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<p><p>Hosted by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a> and <a href="https://www.instagram.com/cocobucks" target="_blank">Colin Buckingham</a></p><p>Episode 1 Edited by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/lasertheboy" target="_blank">Laser Webber</a></p><p>Episodes 2-6 Edited by &nbsp;<a href="https://www.instagram.com/theothertracy/">Tracy Barnett</a></p><p>Theme Song by <a href="https://www.instagram.com/teejaynorton/" target="_blank">TJ Norton&nbsp;</a></p><p>Social Producer <a href="https://www.instagram.com/ears4hatsmgmt/" target="_blank">Morgan Peters</a></p><p>Thanks to <a href="https://www.instagram.com/aubreylturner/" target="_blank">Aubrey Turner</a></p></p>]]></description>
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