Books for Men

#293 | How Savage and Noble is Bab Dionne’s Death in ‘The Savage, Noble Death of Babs Dionne’?—I Don’t Know, But Here’s Why I Liked It

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 13 Apr 2026 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti delves into Ron Currie’s 2025 crime novel, “The Savage Noble Death of Babs Dionne”. Vigliotti explores Currie’s literary background, the novel’s gripping plot about a crime family matriarch in Maine, and its themes of generational trauma, addiction, and family loyalty. He highlights the book’s raw, unbridled style, best-in-class dialogue, and complex characters, recommending the novel as a standout among new crime fiction.

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Newsletter Promo (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast, the featured book, and promotes the companion newsletter.
About Ron Currie & His Literary Evolution (01:16) - Background on author Ron Currie, his previous works, and his shift toward crime fiction.
Personal Connection & Book Overview (02:40) - Currie’s personal ties to the setting and a summary of the novel’s plot and main character.
Crime Genre Elements & Story Structure (03:55) - Discussion of the novel’s crime TV show feel, Aristotelian principles, and overall reading experience.
Narrative Style & Central Themes (05:07) - Analysis of the novel’s prologue, use of second person, and exploration of themes like trauma and addiction.
Character Complexity & Dialogue (06:29) - Examination of character paradoxes, family drama, and praise for Currie’s realistic dialogue.
Memorable Quotes & Episode Wrap-Up (07:55) - Sharing two key quotes from Babs, highlighting her worldview and the novel’s dialogue.
Closing Remarks & Contact Info (09:13) - Douglas encourages subscribing, shares contact details, and promotes his own book and the podcast newsletter.

#292 | Great Literary Quotes #3: Larry McMurtry on Courage, Fear, and Confidence

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 6 Apr 2026 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores a powerful quote from Larry McMurtry’s epic Western “Lonesome Dove” from episode #264, highlighting the importance of action over thinking and drawing connections to personal mantras and philosophical ideas about courage, fear, and confidence. More broadly, “Lonesome Dove” is a rare novel that focuses on male friendship and bonding, blending themes like adventure, loyalty, shame, guilt, loss, and love. Vigliotti calls it the “definitive novel” for every man—meaning, it’s a hands-down, must-read-before-you-die book.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #264 | On Why ‘Lonesome Dove’ is the Definitive Novel for Every Man—Timeless Themes of Adventure, Loss, Love, Loyalty, Sacrifice, Shame, Guilt, and Friendship!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Newsletter Reminder (00:09) - Host introduces the podcast, mentions the Great Literary Quotes series, and promotes the companion newsletter.
Why Lonesome Dove Matters (01:08) - Explains why "Lonesome Dove" is a top novel for men, focusing on its themes and male friendship.
Literature on Male Friendship (02:15) - Discusses the rarity of books centered on platonic male friendship and highlights "Lonesome Dove" for this reason.
Book Structure and Satisfying Ending (03:24) - Praises the novel’s gripping final pages and satisfying conclusion, setting up the featured quote.
Featured Quote and Its Meaning (04:36) - Shares and analyzes a quote about courage, decision-making, and the pitfalls of overthinking.
Experience vs. Overthinking (05:45) - Reflects on the value of action over thought, referencing Eastern philosophy and Aristotle’s view on courage.
Second Quote and Episode Wrap-Up (07:04) - Shares another quote from "Lonesome Dove," closes the episode, and provides contact and subscription information.

#291 | Can Percival Everett's Literary Thriller Retelling of 'Huck Finn' Alter Your Perspective on American History, Freedom, and Identity?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 30 Mar 2026 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses "James" by Percival Everett, a 2024 literary novel that retells "Adventures of Huckleberry Finn" from Jim’s perspective. Vigliotti explores Everett’s prolific career, the novel’s genre-blending style, and its powerful examination of racism, freedom, agency, and American identity, emphasizing the transformative power of fiction. He highlights how "James" offers a fresh, affecting take on a classic story, and praises its readability and perspective-shifting approach, encouraging listeners to read the book.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #227 | This Short Novel Will Change the Way You Look at the ‘World’!

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #269 | Is ‘The 25th Hour’ Better as a Novel or Movie? A Truly Great New York City Story and One-Two Combo of Book and Film—David Benioff & Spike Lee!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Newsletter Promo (00:09) - Douglas introduces "James" by Percival Everett, mentions its popularity, and plugs the podcast's companion newsletter.
About Percival Everett and His Work (01:11) - Overview of Everett’s prolific career, genre blending, social themes, and his novel "Erasure" adapted into "American Fiction."
Hollywood Adaptations and Staying on Track (02:38) - Discussion of book-to-film adaptations, particularly endings, and a segue back to discussing "James."
Summary of "James" and Its Perspective (03:43) - Explains "James" as a retelling of "Huckleberry Finn" from Jim’s perspective, highlighting its originality and focus on racism.
Retellings as a Literary Subgenre (04:58) - Explores the popularity and appeal of retellings, citing examples like "Demon Copperhead" and modern stage adaptations.
Impact of "James" on Understanding Racism (06:13) - Describes how "James" changed Douglas’s view on racism and the power of fiction to alter perspectives.
The Power of Narrative and Fiction (07:35) - Emphasizes the importance of narrative over facts, referencing his own book "Orbital" and the immersive quality of fiction.
Readability and Style of "James" (08:49) - Highlights the book’s easy, propulsive style, dialogue, and why it’s accessible despite its serious content.
Favorite Quote and Philosophical Reflection (09:44) - Shares a favorite quote from "James" about belief and truth, reflecting on its philosophical depth.
Closing Remarks and Contact Information (10:52) - Wraps up the episode, encourages subscribing, and provides ways to connect and learn more about the podcast.

#290 | Great Literary Quotes #2: Nora Ephron on Gratitude, Humor, and Dying

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 23 Mar 2026 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti revisits Nora Ephron’s “I Remember Nothing” from episode 162, focusing on her poignant final entry, “What I Will Miss”, written while she battled leukemia but not revealing it publicly. Vigliotti reflects on the power of appreciating life’s simple and often mundane moments, urging listeners not to lose sight of what truly matters amid daily chaos, and encouraging everyone to consider the little things they love doing daily—the things they would miss.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #162: I Remember Nothing | Nora Ephron!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Newsletter Reminder (00:09) - Host introduces the podcast, mentions the literary quote series, and reminds listeners about the companion newsletter.
Nora Ephron & Book Context (01:12) - Explains why Nora Ephron is featured, her illness, and the context of her book "I Remember Nothing."
Ephron’s Final Lists & Literary Legacy (03:39) - Describes Ephron’s final entries, her humor, and lists some of her notable works.
Reading "What I Will Miss" (04:59) - Host reads Ephron’s "What I Will Miss" list, highlighting its simplicity and humanity.
Reflection on Appreciating Life (06:15) - Host reflects on the importance of appreciating small things and not missing the point of life.=
Closing Thoughts & Podcast Info (07:41) - Ends with a favorite Ephron quote, podcast subscription reminder, and contact information.

#289 | Why Franz Kafka’s ‘The Metamorphosis’ Has Stood the Test of Time—Is It a Perfect Metaphor for the Human Condition?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 16 Mar 2026 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti reviews Franz Kafka’s classic novella "The Metamorphosis," a pillar in the literary canon, exploring its themes of alienation, existentialism, and transformation. Vigliotti discusses Kafka’s legacy, his broader influence on literature and writers, and the challenges of translating the work, but cites it as the perfect embodiment of the term “Kafkaesque.” He highlights the story’s universal relevance, its emotional impact, and its overwhelming metaphor for the human condition, which only seems to be more felt as you age.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #109: The Stranger | Albert Camus!

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #127: Sputnik Sweetheart | Haruki Murakami!

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #259 | Why Every Man Should Experience the Beauty of Haruki Murakami’s 1987 Coming of Age Novel ‘Norwegian Wood’ At Least Once!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Newsletter Promo (00:09) - Host introduces the podcast, mentions "The Metamorphosis," and promotes the companion newsletter.
Kafka’s Background & Influence (01:20) - Overview of Kafka’s life, works, posthumous publications, and his influence on literature and existentialism.
Kafkaesque & Literary Legacy (02:28) - Explains the meaning of "Kafkaesque," Kafka’s impact, and his influence on later writers and filmmakers.
Summary of "The Metamorphosis" (03:41) - Brief synopsis of the novella’s plot and its famous opening line.
Translation Challenges & Interpretations (04:46) - Discussion of translation differences, ambiguity in Gregor’s transformation, and the importance of tone and theme.
Universality & Emotional Impact (06:14) - Explores the universal themes, emotional resonance, and the necessity of life experience to fully appreciate the novella.
Metaphor for Human Experience (07:43) - Analyzes Gregor’s transformation as a metaphor for human change, aging, and the inevitability of life’s hardships.
Bleakness & Kafkaesque Nature (09:09) - Reflects on the story’s bleakness, lack of explanation, and its embodiment of the Kafkaesque.
Closing Remarks & Contact Info (10:35) - Encourages listeners to read the book, subscribe, and provides contact information and book promotion.
Final Thanks & Newsletter Reminder (11:35) - Thanks listeners and reminds them about the newsletter and website for more information.

#288 | Special Edition: The Hinge Experiment—What a Year on Hinge Revealed About Modern Dating

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 9 Mar 2026 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti shares “The Hinge Experiment,” a personal reflection Op-ed on his year using the dating app Hinge in New York City. He discusses the challenges of up-next culture and app-based dating, the disconnect between online profiles and real-life attraction, and his preference for presence over performance. The episode encourages authenticity in relationships, highlighting the importance of being seen for who you truly are, something Vigliotti calls "the highest form of love, rather than who someone wants you to be.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #278 | Special Edition: “One Plus One Doesn’t Equal Two” (+ Big Updates for 2026)!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Newsletter Promotion (00:09) - Douglas introduces the episode, explains the pop-up piece format, and promotes the podcast’s companion newsletter.
Why Share "The Hinge Experiment" (01:10) - He explains the Instagram origin of the piece, its popularity, and why it’s being shared on the podcast.
Personal Context & Instagram Stories (02:19) - Douglas discusses the personal nature of the piece, his usual privacy, and encourages following him on Instagram for more content.
The Hinge Experiment: One Year on Hinge (03:22) - Douglas shares his one-year experience using Hinge in New York City, including stats and general impressions.
Dating Apps vs. Real-Life Attraction (04:34) - He contrasts dating before and after apps, highlighting the disconnect between online profiles and real-life attraction.
Performance vs. Presence in Dating (05:46) - Douglas critiques the performative nature of dating apps and expresses his preference for authenticity and presence.
Conclusion & Podcast Promotion (06:51) - He wraps up the piece, thanks listeners, and encourages subscribing to the podcast.
Contact & Further Resources (08:06) - Douglas shares how to contact him, promotes his book, and provides information about the podcast and newsletter.

#287 | How David Szalay’s ‘Flesh’ Challenges Men to Confront Their Emotional Realities Before They Are Destroyed by Them

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 2 Mar 2026 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses “Flesh” by David Szalay, a Booker Prize-winning novel published in 2025. Vigliotti explores Szalay’s minimalistic, bleak, emotionally detached prose and the story of Istvan, a man shaped by adolescent trauma. He highlights the book’s themes of male alienation, stunted emotional development, class, and power, praising its unique style and usage of white space on the page. Vigliotti shares personal reflections and emphasizes the book's resonance with sad-but-true elements of the male experience.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #227 | This Short Novel Will Change the Way You Look at the ‘World’!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Podcast and Book (00:09) - Douglas introduces "Books for Men," the episode's focus on "Flesh" by David Szalay, and mentions the companion newsletter.
About the Author and Book's Background (01:13) - Douglas discusses David Szalay's previous works, the Booker Prize, and why "Flesh" stands out.
Thoughts on Literary Hype and Unique Style (02:12) - He reflects on book hype, what makes "Flesh" exceptional, and his admiration for its unique, stylized prose.
Summary of the Story and Main Character (03:19) - Douglas outlines the plot, Esteban's traumatic adolescence, and the book's bleak, minimalistic tone.
Discussion of Writing Style and Minimalism (04:32) - He analyzes Szalay's distinctive prose, use of space, and how minimalism shapes the reader's experience.
Examples of Prose and Emotional Impact (05:47) - Douglas shares specific examples from the book, highlighting the emotional weight and precision of the writing.
Themes: Alienation, Trauma, and Male Experience (07:03) - He explores the book's themes: male alienation, emotional development, and the long-term effects of trauma.
Broader Themes: Classism and Power (08:26) - Douglas discusses class, power, and how childhood experiences shape adult behavior, regardless of status.
Favorite Quote and Final Reflections (09:52) - He shares a favorite quote, summarizes the book's impact, and encourages listeners to read it.
Closing Remarks and Contact Information (10:55) - Douglas wraps up, promotes his own book, and provides ways to connect or learn more about the podcast.

#286 | Great Literary Quotes #1: Nami Mun on Grief, Love, and Regret

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 23 Feb 2026 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti introduces a new segment, "Great Literary Quotes," highlighting memorable passages from previously featured books. He spotlights “Miles from Nowhere” by Nami Mun, sharing a powerful excerpt and discussing its emotional depth and craftsmanship. The novel, about a homeless Korean teenager in 1980s New York, is praised for its raw honesty and literary quality. Douglas encourages listeners to revisit the book and check out the companion newsletter for more recommendations.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #95: Miles from Nowhere | Nami Mun!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction of New Segment: Great Literary Quotes (00:09) - Host introduces the new segment, explains its purpose, and mentions moving away from advice-based content.
Overview of "Miles from Nowhere" and Newsletter Promotion (01:15) - Host introduces the featured novel, "Miles from Nowhere," and promotes the podcast’s companion newsletter.
Summary and Personal Connection to the Novel (02:17) - Host summarizes the novel’s plot, shares personal admiration, and notes its significance as the podcast’s first featured book.
Craft and Execution in Transgressive Fiction (03:29) - Discussion on the importance of precise writing in transgressive fiction and the novel’s flawless execution.
Reading and Analysis of Selected Passage (04:41) - Host reads a chosen passage from the novel and analyzes its emotional depth, writing quality, and thematic paradox.
Thematic Reflection and Final Quote (06:08) - Host reflects on the passage’s themes, shares a final quote from the book, and encourages listeners to read it.
Closing Remarks and Contact Information (07:13) - Host wraps up the episode, provides ways to subscribe, connect, and learn more about the podcast and his work.
Final Thank You and Newsletter Reminder (08:12) - Host thanks listeners and reminds them about the newsletter and website for more information.

#285 | Is the Novella ‘Train Dreams’ Better than Its Movie Adaptation?—A Beautiful and Brutal Depiction of How Time Washes Away Everything

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 16 Feb 2026 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti launches the first 2026 edition of "Novel vs Movie" by comparing Denis Johnson’s novella "Train Dreams" with its 2025 film adaptation directed by Clint Bentley and starring Joel Edgerton. Vigliotti explores Johnson’s background, the story’s themes of grief, isolation, and progress, and contrasts the novella’s introspective bleakness with the film’s slightly warmer, more dignified approach. He encourages listeners to experience both versions but prefers one for one specific reason. Listen to find out.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #271 | What Can Raymond Carver Teach Us About Love—and Writing?!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode & Newsletter (00:09) - Host introduces the "Novel versus Movie" series, the novella and film, and promotes the podcast newsletter.
About Denis Johnson and His Works (01:30) - Background on Denis Johnson, his writing style, notable works, and why "Train Dreams" was chosen.
Movie Adaptation and Performances (02:27) - Discussion of the 2025 film adaptation, director Clint Bentley, Joel Edgerton’s performance, and cinematic style.
Plot Summary of "Train Dreams" (03:26) - Overview of the story’s setting, main character Robert Grenier, and the inciting tragedy.
Themes: Grief, Isolation, and Passage of Time (04:37) - Exploration of the novella’s and film’s themes: grief, isolation, progress, and the passage of time.
Symbolism and Title Significance (05:47) - Analysis of the train metaphor, Grenier’s relationship with nature, and the meaning behind the title "Train Dreams."
Book vs. Movie: Tone and Ending (07:03) - Comparison of the book’s and movie’s tone, differences in emotional impact, and the significance of the novella’s final line.
Personal Recommendation and Closing Thoughts (08:16) - Host’s personal preference for the novella, recommendation to read and watch both, and reflection on the story’s message.
Outro and Ways to Connect (09:44) - Encouragement to subscribe, connect via Instagram or website, and information about the host’s book and newsletter.

#284 | Sh*t I Tell My Friends #3: On the Difference Maker (a.k.a. Follow Your Interest)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 9 Feb 2026 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores the idea of following your interests instead of chasing passion, calling it the “difference maker.” He explains how interests are more accessible and sustainable, sharing insights from books and real-life examples like Wayne Gretzky. Vigliotti introduces the Interest Principle, arguing that genuine interest drives motivation, endurance, learning, and long-term success. He also discusses the importance of aligning interests with others and highlights how true investment in what you enjoy leads to growth.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #98: Skin in the Game | Nassim Nicholas Taleb!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode & Newsletter Reminder (00:09) - Host introduces the episode, explains the "Shit I Tell My Friends" series, and promotes the companion newsletter.
Interest vs. Passion (01:20) - Explains the difference between following interests and passions, emphasizing interests as simpler and more actionable.
Quote from "Perfection" and Job vs. Passion (02:25) - Shares a quote from Vincenzo Electronico’s "Perfection" about how passion changes when it becomes a job.
The Interest Principle and Motivation (03:43) - Introduces the "interest principle," discussing how personal choice increases motivation and investment.
Applying the Interest Principle (04:49) - Gives practical examples (writing, reading, singing) of leveraging interests to learn and excel.
Advice: Follow Your Interest (05:49) - Recommends following interests as a simple answer to the question, "What should I do?"
Wayne Gretzky Example and Innate Interest (05:49) - Shares Wayne Gretzky’s story to illustrate how innate interest drives greatness and persistence.
Innate Interest and Longevity (07:53) - Discusses how lasting longer in a field is often due to genuine interest, not just talent.
Willpower and the Power of Interest (08:50) - Explores the concept of will, suggesting interest is the key factor in willingness and motivation.
Aligning Interests and Skin in the Game (08:50) - Uses Nassim Taleb’s ideas to explain the importance of aligning interests for effective action and collaboration.
Misaligned Interests in Organizations (10:01) - Describes how misaligned interests and incentives can hinder organizational effectiveness.
The Value of "Wasting Time" on Interests (10:01) - Quotes Nassim Taleb on how time spent on genuine interests is actually a valuable investment.
Conclusion and Contact Information (11:08) - Wraps up the episode, encourages subscribing, and shares ways to connect with the host.

#283 | The Lie of ‘Perfection’—Vincenzo Latronico on the Inescapable Feeling of Discontent in a Social Media World

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 2 Feb 2026 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses “Perfection” by Vincenzo Latronico, a literary novel about a millennial couple navigating modern life as digital artists in Berlin. Vigliotti explores the book’s themes of technology, social media, and the persistent feeling of “not enough,” despite seemingly having it all. He highlights Latronico’s background as a translator, shares favorite quotes, reflects on the novel’s detached narrative style and the millennial experience of the world, and overall, praises the novel while highly recommending it.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #214 | What Makes 'The Great Gatsby' the Great American Novel?!

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #254 | Dorian Gray: The Original Influencer Who Sold His Soul for Likes—Is Oscar Wilde’s Classic Novel a Cautionary Tale for the Social Media Age?!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Podcast Purpose (00:09) - Host introduces the podcast, the book "Perfection," and mentions the companion newsletter.
About the Author: Vincenzo Latronico (01:06) - Background on the author, his translation work, and influence on his writing style.
Translation, Craft, and Literary Influences (02:11) - Discussion of translation as a craft, its impact on Latronico, and literary influences like Georges Perec.
Book Overview: Plot and Style (04:29) - Summary of the story, main characters Tom and Anna, and the book’s stylistic approach.
Narrative Tone and Example Passage (05:56) - Explanation of the book’s outside-looking-in narrative style, with a sample excerpt.
Themes: Contentment and the "Not Enough" Feeling (07:11) - Exploration of the book’s central theme: the struggle with contentment in modern, tech-driven life.
Technology, Social Media, and Millennial Experience (08:28) - How technology and social media shape the protagonists’ and millennials’ perceptions of satisfaction.
The Inescapable Influence of Social Media (09:55) - Reflection on the pervasive cultural impact of social media, regardless of personal use.
Final Excerpt and Closing Thoughts (11:04) - A favorite quote from the book, final thoughts, and encouragement to read the novel.
Outro and Ways to Connect (00:12:03) - Information on subscribing, connecting with the host, and links to his book and newsletter.

#282 | Sh*t I Tell My Friends #2: On What Matters (a.k.a. Do Something)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 26 Jan 2026 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti shares personal reflections on the theme "What Matters," urging listeners to prioritize action over endless thinking or talking. Drawing on quotes from Aristotle, Neil Gaiman, and Georges St-Pierre, he emphasizes that character is built through what we do, not what we say or think. Vigliotti encourages men to start working toward their desires, embrace mistakes, and overcome fear by taking action—reminding listeners that life’s story is written by our actions, not our thoughts, which is a good thing because we all have shitty thoughts. He concludes with a short mantra that has helped him with this in his life.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #250 | What Is a ‘Death’ Cookie?—Phil Stutz’s 3 Absolutes of Human Life and How to Create Real Magic in Your Life!

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #280 | Sh*t I Tell My Friends #1: On Advice (a.k.a. Stop Listening to Idiots)!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode & Newsletter Reminder (00:09) - Host introduces the episode, explains the "Shit I Tell My Friends" series, and reminds listeners about the companion newsletter.
Theme Introduction: What Matters (01:20) - Introduces the episode’s theme, shares Aristotle’s quote, and sets up the focus on action over talk.
The Power of Story and Belief (02:14) - Discusses how stories shape our lives and the importance of believing the right stories.
Character as a Byproduct of Action (03:19) - Explains Aristotle’s idea that character is defined by actions, not words or thoughts.
The Importance of Doing the Work (04:26) - Emphasizes starting small, taking action, and learning through doing rather than overthinking or seeking advice.
Learning Through Action (05:36) - Describes how doing the work teaches what matters, what advice is credible, and what actions are effective.
Three Absolutes of Human Life (06:36) - Shares Phil Stutz’s three absolutes: pain, uncertainty, and the need for constant work, focusing on the importance of work.
Courage, Fear, and Confidence (07:35) - Discusses courage as the balance between fear and confidence, referencing Aristotle and George Saint-Pierre.
The Mantra: “Be or Do, Don’t Think” (08:31) - Introduces a personal mantra to combat overthinking and encourage action over rumination.
Neil Gaiman’s Quote on Mistakes (00:09:00) - Shares Neil Gaiman’s quote about the value of making mistakes and the importance of doing something.
Closing & Call to Action (00:09:52) - Wraps up the episode, encourages subscribing, and provides information about the host and related resources.

#281 | What Is the Cost of Comfort?—Aldous Huxley’s ‘Brave New World’ on the Dangers of Endless Technological Progress

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 19 Jan 2026 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses Aldous Huxley’s classic novel “Brave New World”. He provides background on Huxley, summarizes the novel’s plot and dystopian themes, and reflects on its relevance to current trends and modern issues, like unending technological progress and its societal trade-offs. Vigliotti shares personal insights, where he thinks the book falls short, favorite quotes, and encourages listeners to consider the book’s questions about individuality, freedom, comfort, and stability, and to continue engaging with thought-provoking literature.

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #275 | What Does the Classic Literary Novel ‘Gulliver’s Travels’ Have in Common with Rock and Roll Legend Bruce Springsteen?!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Podcast Purpose (00:09) - Host introduces the podcast, its aim, and the featured book "Brave New World."
Newsletter Promotion (01:24) - Details about the companion newsletter and how to sign up.
About Aldous Huxley (01:40) - Background on Huxley, his career, and other notable works.
"Brave New World" and "Island" (02:26) - Context on "Brave New World" as a dystopia and "The Island" as its utopian counterpoint.
Plot Summary & World State (03:27) - Overview of the novel’s plot, world-building, and main characters.
Themes: Trade-offs of Progress (04:54) - Discussion of the novel’s central questions about technological progress and societal trade-offs.
Modern Relevance: Social Media & AI (06:06) - Parallels between the novel’s themes and current issues like social media and AI.
Political and Philosophical Reflections (07:18) - Exploration of progressivism vs. conservatism and deeper philosophical questions raised by the book.
Literary Critique & Thematic Power (08:35) - Host’s opinion on the novel’s writing quality versus its thematic impact.
Favorite Quotes & Closing (09:46) - Sharing favorite quotes from the book, final thoughts, and calls to action for listeners.
Final Thanks & Contact Info (10:46) - Thanking listeners, sharing contact information, and newsletter reminder.

#280 | Sh*t I Tell My Friends #1: On Advice (a.k.a. Stop Listening to Idiots)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 12 Jan 2026 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 In the inaugural episode of "Sh*t I Tell My Friends", Douglas Vigliotti introduces a candid advice format inspired by real conversations with friends, while tackling the very concept of “advice” itself. He discusses the pitfalls of generic advice, emphasizing the importance of understanding who’s giving guidance and why. Vigliotti shares personal insights, highlights the value of vulnerability, and encourages listeners to be discerning about advice, inviting them to reach out if/when needed. He also outlines the podcast’s future focus on fiction for 2026.

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #278 | Special Edition: “One Plus One Doesn’t Equal Two” (+ Big Updates for 2026)!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the new "Sh*t I Tell My Friends" advice series and outlines upcoming podcast changes for 2026.
Newsletter and Podcast Companion Info (01:39) - Details about the monthly companion newsletter, including episode summaries, book info, and how to sign up.
Purpose and Format of the Advice Column (03:02) - Douglas explains the intent behind the advice column, emphasizing honesty, vulnerability, and the experimental nature of the format.
Episode Length and Experimental Nature (04:09) - Notes on expected shorter episode lengths and the evolving, experimental approach to this new series.
Douglas’s Philosophy on Advice (05:07) - Douglas shares his view that most advice is just personal projection, not tailored to the recipient’s situation.
The Problem with Most Advice (06:21) - Explains why advice often fails, highlighting the lack of context and empathy from advice-givers.
The Need for Direction and Choosing Advisors (07:33) - Discusses society’s desire for direction, the risks of following the wrong people, and the importance of knowing your advisors.
Quotes on Advice and Friendship (08:35) - Shares relevant quotes from Don Draper and Solon about advice, friendship, and the value of private support.
Closing Remarks and Contact Information (09:49) - Wraps up the episode with reminders on how to subscribe, contact Douglas, and learn more about his book and the podcast.

#279 | ‘Motherless Brooklyn’, a Truly Inventive Crime Novel—and Why You Should Never Underestimate Anyone

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 5 Jan 2026 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti kicks off 2026 by spotlighting Jonathan Lethem’s crime novel "Motherless Brooklyn." Vigliotti explores Lethem’s genre-blending career and the book’s unique and inventive protagonist, Lionel Essrog, a private investigator with Tourette’s syndrome. He discusses the novel’s plot, themes of found family, mentorship, loyalty, reinvention, and embracing differences, sharing favorite quotes and personal reflections. The episode also highlights the importance of not underestimating people and judging them by appearances.

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #97: Lush Life | Richard Price!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Host introduces the podcast, episode, featured book, and companion newsletter.
About Jonathan Lethem (01:08) - Overview of Lethem’s career, genres, notable works, and writing style.
Lethem’s Career & Writing Risks (02:08) - Discussion on authors taking stylistic risks, financial realities, and Lethem’s teaching role.
Detective Story & Film Adaptation (03:15) - Introduction to "Motherless Brooklyn" as a detective story and its 2019 film adaptation.
Plot Overview & Main Character (04:09) - Summary of the book’s plot, protagonist Lionel Shrag, and unique elements like Tourette’s.
Themes & Character Analysis (05:12) - Exploration of themes: found family, mentorship, loyalty, difference, and reinvention.
Favorite Quotes & Their Meaning (08:37)- Host shares and analyzes favorite quotes, focusing on character relationships and underestimated qualities.
Closing Remarks & Contact Info (10:49) - Host wraps up, promotes his book, and shares ways to connect and subscribe.

#278 | Special Edition: “One Plus One Doesn’t Equal Two” (+ Big Updates for 2026)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 29 Dec 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 In this special year-end episode of "Books for Men," host Douglas Vigliotti shares his pop-up piece "One Plus One Doesn’t Equal Two" and reflects on embracing uncertainty and mystery in life. Vigliotti announces major updates for 2026: the podcast will focus exclusively on fiction, with a new "Advice for Men" series on alternate weeks. He discusses the unique value of fiction in an AI-driven world and encourages listeners to find meaning beyond facts. Or as Vigliotti calls it in the essay, “…life’s ultimate task and skill.”

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #233 | Morning, Boys. How’s the Water?—The Life-Changing Importance of David Foster Wallace’s 2005 Commencement Speech ‘This Is Water’!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Special Edition Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the episode, explains its special format, and reminds listeners about the monthly companion newsletter.
Year-End Reflections and the Importance of Checkpoints (01:19) - Douglas reflects on the significance of the New Year as a time to reset and recalibrate, especially for adults.
Big Podcast Updates for 2026: Fiction Focus (02:16) - Announcement that the podcast will focus exclusively on fiction books in 2026, with rare exceptions for creative nonfiction.
Why Fiction Matters in the Age of AI (03:38) - Douglas discusses the unique value of fiction versus nonfiction, especially as AI makes information more accessible.
Advice for Men Series Announcement (04:45) - Introduction of a new series, "Advice for Men," to be featured on alternate weeks in 2026.
Episode Structure for 2026 (05:50) - Explanation of the new alternating format: one week fiction, the next week advice for men.
Pop-Up Piece Introduction: “One Plus One Doesn't Equal Two” (05:50) - Douglas introduces and contextualizes his pop-up piece, inspired by a visit to the Met and a Jackson Pollock painting.
Reading of "One Plus One Doesn't Equal Two" (07:06) - Douglas reads his reflective essay on uncertainty, art, knowledge, and the metaphorical nature of life.
Reflections on the Piece and Closing Thoughts (09:45) - Douglas connects the piece to the episode’s themes, thanks listeners, and encourages subscribing and connecting.
Contact Information and Final Reminders (10:50) - Douglas shares how to reach him via Instagram or his website, and reminds listeners about the newsletter.

#277 | Arduous, Repetitive, Digressive, and Insanely Long—But Why Should You Read ‘Infinite Jest’ by David Foster Wallace?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 22 Dec 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti offers an in-depth review of David Foster Wallace’s novel "Infinite Jest,” discussing the book’s complex structure, disparate narratives, and major themes of addiction, isolation, entertainment, and societal critique. Vigliotti shares his personal experience tackling its challenging length, prose, and style, and highlights the novel’s enduring relevance for today, noting that perseverance in reading it might be central to its core message. He admits it was probably the most difficult book he’s ever read, but encourages men to give it a go if they feel compelled to do so.

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #233 | Morning, Boys. How’s the Water?—The Life-Changing Importance of David Foster Wallace’s 2005 Commencement Speech ‘This Is Water’!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast, Infinite Jest, and promotes the companion newsletter.
About David Foster Wallace (01:19) - Brief background on the author, his influence, and previous podcast episode featuring him.
Plot Overview & Narrative Structure (02:18) - Summary of Infinite Jest’s three main narratives and how they interconnect.
Themes & Societal Critique (03:36) - Discussion of the book’s themes: addiction, entertainment, isolation, and societal commentary.
Genre & Authorial Intent (04:58) - Exploration of the book’s tone, genre, and Wallace’s unconventional approach to storytelling.
Challenges of Reading Infinite Jest (06:12 - Description of the book’s length, density, endnotes, and the difficulty of reading it.
Personal Reading Experience (07:26) - Douglas shares his struggle reading the book and why he persisted.
Style & Structure Reflection (08:50) - Analysis of how the book’s style mirrors the human mind and supports its themes.
Quotes & Final Thoughts (10:01) - Douglas shares key quotes from the book and reflects on their meaning.
Outro & Podcast/Book Promotion (11:06) - Closing remarks, ways to connect, and promotion of Douglas’s own book and the podcast newsletter.

#276 | Should the Life of an Artist Impact What You Think of Their Art?—Woody Allen’s Memoir Shines Light on This

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 15 Dec 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses Woody Allen’s memoir, “Apropos of Nothing,” exploring Allen’s prolific filmmaking career, signature style, and comedic influences, while also addressing the controversies and allegations that have shaped public perception of Allen. Vigliotti emphasizes the importance of separating art from the artist and highlights the memoir’s humor, creative insights, and behind-the-scenes stories. He shares memorable quotes from the book and encourages listeners to connect with him on Instagram for further literary inspiration.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #156: Once Upon a Time in Hollywood | Quentin Tarantino!

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #215 | We’re All Actors, No?—17 David Mamet Quotes That Will Make You Question Your ‘Role’ in Life!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Overview of the podcast, focus on memoirs, and introduction to "Apropos of Nothing" by Woody Allen.
Woody Allen’s Career and Notable Works (01:07) - Discussion of Woody Allen’s filmography, writing career, and signature style in filmmaking.
Collaborators and Personal Relationships (02:09) - Mentions frequent collaborators, ex-wife Mia Farrow, and the complexity of Allen’s personal life.
Woody Allen’s Style and Appeal (03:08) - Analysis of Allen’s minimalistic, dialogue-driven style and why the host is a fan.
Controversies and Public Perception (04:22) - Addresses sexual abuse allegations, investigations, and the impact of public opinion on Allen’s legacy.
Separating Art from the Artist (05:35) - Host’s perspective on judging art independently from the artist’s personal life and controversies.
Book Content and Themes (05:35) - Summary of memoir’s content: Allen’s early life, influences, fame, creative process, and behind-the-scenes stories.
Favorite Quotes and Woody Allen’s Humor (06:43) - Shares humorous and insightful quotes from the memoir, illustrating Allen’s wit and advice to creatives.
Creative Vision and Individual Style (08:56) - Discussion on the importance of individual vision in creative work, using Allen and other directors as examples.
Final Quote and Episode Wrap-Up (10:07) - Ends with a quote about "Annie Hall," episode summary, and reminders about subscribing and connecting with the host.

#275 | What Does the Classic Literary Novel ‘Gulliver’s Travels’ Have in Common with Rock and Roll Legend Bruce Springsteen?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 8 Dec 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores Jonathan Swift’s classic "Gulliver’s Travels." He discusses Swift’s background, his mastery of satire, and the novel’s four-part structure, highlighting its sharp social and political commentary. Vigliotti explains how the book’s original, serious themes are often misunderstood as mere children’s fantasy today. He encourages listeners to tackle the challenging prose for its rewarding insights and connects the novel’s enduring relevance to modern society.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #273 | Is ‘Get Shorty’ Better as a Novel or Movie?—Elmore Leonard’s Crime Satire on Hollywood, Filmmaking, and (Con) Artistry!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast, its mission, and the featured book, "Gulliver's Travels" by Jonathan Swift.
About Jonathan Swift (01:17) - Background on Swift, his era, his satirical style, and other notable works.
Overview of "Gulliver's Travels" (02:13) - Summary of the novel’s structure, main character, and its satirical nature.
Part One: Lilliput (03:23) - Discussion of Gulliver’s visit to Lilliput, the land of little people, and its metaphorical meaning.
Part Two: Brobdingnag (04:45) - Gulliver’s journey to the land of giants, exploring the theme of perspective and individual insignificance.
Part Three: Laputa (05:40) - Gulliver’s visit to Laputa, a floating city of intellectuals, satirizing impractical knowledge and scientific reasoning.
Part Four: The Houyhnhnms (06:09) - Gulliver’s final journey to the land of rational horses and the critique of pure rationality.
Modern Relevance and Personal Reflection (07:40) - Douglas reflects on the book’s relevance today and his own thoughts on reason versus passion.
Misinterpretation as a Children’s Story (08:59) - Explains how "Gulliver’s Travels" is often mistaken for a children’s story and compares it to "Born in the USA."
Clarifying the Book’s True Nature (10:07) - Emphasizes the book’s deeper meaning and the importance of understanding its true message.
Final Thoughts and Quote (10:50) - Encourages readers to tackle the book, shares a quote, and wraps up the discussion.
Outro and Contact Information (11:13) - Reminders to subscribe, connect on Instagram or the website, and information about Douglas’s new book.

#274 | Juilliard Dropout to Jazz Legend: What Miles Davis Teaches Men (and Women) About Tenacity, Creativity, and Life

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 1 Dec 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti reviews “Miles”, the autobiography of jazz legend Miles Davis. Vigliotti explores Davis’s life, musical legacy, and influence on jazz, highlighting key albums like “Birth of the Cool” and “Kind of Blue”, and sharing seven insightful quotes from Davis. He also briefly discusses the biopic “Miles Ahead”, what makes it different, and why he recommends it as a companion watch. As always, the episode aims to inspire men to read and foster conversations about great books.

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #108: Life | Keith Richards!

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #249 | How All Men Can Relate to the Journey of Identity and Growth in ‘We the Animals’!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Newsletter Promo (00:09) - Host introduces the podcast, the book "Miles," and promotes the companion newsletter.
Miles Davis: Background and Influence (01:13) - Overview of Miles Davis’s career, personality, collaborations, and impact on jazz.
Famous Albums and Artistic Longevity (02:23) - Discussion of "Birth of the Cool," "Kind of Blue," and "Bitches Brew," highlighting Davis’s evolving artistry.
Spontaneity and Artistic Process (03:33) - Reflection on spontaneity, over-editing, and emotional resonance in art, with a Picasso quote.
Biopic "Miles Ahead" Mention (04:47) - Brief review of the "Miles Ahead" biopic starring Don Cheadle and its creative approach.
Book Overview and Hardships (05:59) - Description of the autobiography’s style, co-author, and coverage of Davis’s struggles and opinions.
7 Miles Davis Quotes and Creative Lessons (06:58) - Host shares and explains seven favorite Miles Davis quotes, relating them to creativity and life.
Closing Remarks and Promotions (10:31) - Host wraps up, promotes his book, social media, and encourages newsletter sign-up.

#273 | Is ‘Get Shorty’ Better as a Novel or Movie?—Elmore Leonard’s Crime Satire on Hollywood, Filmmaking, and (Con) Artistry

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 24 Nov 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti compares Elmore Leonard’s novel “Get Shorty” with its film adaptation directed by Barry Sonnenfeld and written by Scott Frank for another edition of “Novel vs Movie”. Vigliotti shares background information on the author, director, and screenwriter and explores differences in tone, themes, and characterization, highlighting Leonard’s gritty crime writing versus the movie’s comedic gloss. He discusses the satirical take on Hollywood, what it means for our lives, the art of dialogue, and why he prefers one version over the other.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #119: LaBrava | Elmore Leonard!

🗣️ Another episode mentioned in this episode #162: I Remember Nothing | Nora Ephron!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Episode Overview (00:09) – Host introduces the "Movie Verse Novel" edition, focusing on "Get Shorty" and its film adaptation.
About the Author: Elmore Leonard (01:26) - Background on Elmore Leonard, his writing style, notable works, and influence on crime fiction.
About the Screenwriter & Director (02:28) - Discussion of Scott Frank (screenwriter) and Barry Sonnenfeld (director), including their other works and connection to "Get Shorty."
Story Summary & Themes (03:29) - Summary of "Get Shorty" plot, main character, and exploration of Hollywood, storytelling, and fabrication.
Satire, Fabrication, and Hollywood (04:34) - Analysis of the book and film’s satirical take on Hollywood, celebrity, and the theme of fabrication.
Differences Between Novel and Film (05:46) - Comparison of tone, style, and thematic focus between the novel and the movie adaptation.
Dialogue & Writing Style (08:20) - Examination of Elmore Leonard’s dialogue style, differences in dialogue between book and film, and thoughts on quotable lines.
Conclusion & Final Thoughts (09:26) - Host shares a favorite line, invites listener engagement, and provides information about his book and newsletter.

#272 | Is It Possible to Have a Meaningful Conversation About a Book You Haven’t Read?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 17 Nov 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into Pierre Bayard’s book "How to Talk About Books You Haven’t Read." Vigliotti explores Bayard’s key ideas, such as the importance of understanding a book’s cultural context over having read it, and discusses concepts like one’s “inner library” and how it mingles with the collective discussion of a book or someone else’s inner library. He shares personal reflections, critiques the book’s approach, and encourages honest, open literary conversations, even if they haven’t read every book discussed on the podcast.

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #246 | What Is the Core Tension in Leo Tolstoy’s Classic Russian Novel ‘Anna Karenina’?—and Why It Matters Today for Modern Men!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Book Announcement (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast, the featured book, and mentions the companion newsletter.
About Pierre Bayard & Literary Criticism (01:14) - Background on the author, his other works, and an overview of literary criticism.
Purpose of the Podcast & Book Relevance (02:23) - Douglas explains the podcast’s intent and why this book is especially relevant for listeners.
The Problem: Too Many Books, Not Enough Time (03:40) - Discussion of the central issue: more books exist than anyone can read, and how to converse about unread books.
Book’s Structure & Key Frameworks (04:48) - Overview of Bayard’s approach, including the four categories of book familiarity.
Forgetting Books & The Three Libraries (05:57) - Exploration of memory, forgetting books, and Bayard’s concept of the three libraries.
The Three Books: Inner, Screen, and Phantom (07:14) - Explanation of the three types of books in conversation and their implications.
Practicality & Cultural Pressure (08:52) - Reflection on the practical use of Bayard’s ideas and the value of admitting you haven’t read a book.
Yes-And Attitude & Critique of Not Reading (10:12) - Encouragement to engage in conversation, critique of the book’s stance on not reading, and thoughts on audiobooks.
Favorite Quote & Book’s Impact (11:19) - Douglas shares his favorite quote from the book and discusses its significance.
Closing Remarks & Promotions (12:30) - Final thoughts, how to connect with Douglas, and promotion of his own book and the podcast newsletter.

#271 | What Can Raymond Carver Teach Us About Love—and Writing?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 10 Nov 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses Raymond Carver’s acclaimed short story collection, “What We Talk About When We Talk About Love”. Vigliotti explores Carver’s literary legacy, the collection’s minimalist style, and its nuanced portrayal of love’s complexities. He reflects on the editing process behind the book, shares personal insights on writing and relationships, and draws parallels to other works. Vigliotti invites listeners, men and women alike, to connect with him for further literary inspiration.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #224 | ‘Reasons to Live’—Why What Isn’t There Is Just as Important as What Is!

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #230 | Is ’No Country for Old Men’ a Better Novel or Movie? Cormac McCarthy’s Masterpiece vs. The Coen Brothers Oscar-Winning Adaptation!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Newsletter Reminder (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast, the featured book, and promotes the companion newsletter.
About Raymond Carver & Dirty Realism (00:01:24) - Background on Carver, his literary style, influence, and significance in American literature.
Carver’s Impact on Writing Style (00:02:46) - Douglas discusses how Carver influenced his own writing and the importance of minimalism.
Overview of the Collection & Themes of Love (00:03:58) - Summary of the short story collection and its exploration of the complexities and contradictions of love.
Personal Reflections & Related Works (00:05:22) - Douglas shares personal thoughts on love, references his own essay, and connects Carver’s work to other media.
Craft, Editing, and “Beginners” (00:06:33) - Discussion of the editing process, the “Beginners” manuscript, and the importance of writer-editor collaboration.
The Value of Editing & Literary Craft (00:07:50) - Emphasis on the significance of editing, the creative process, and inspiration for writers.
Quotes from the Collection (00:09:10) - Douglas reads and reflects on key quotes from Carver’s work about the nature of love.
Closing Remarks & Contact Information (00:10:16) - Douglas wraps up, promotes his book, shares contact info, and reminds listeners about the newsletter.

#270 | What Makes Phil Mickelson One of Golf's Most Complex Figures?—The Only Golfer Who Can Make a 40-Foot Putt and a Meltdown Look Good!

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 3 Nov 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti reviews “Phil” by Alan Shipnuck, an unauthorized biography of golfer Phil Mickelson. Vigliotti explores Mickelson’s career, personality, controversies—especially his involvement with LIV Golf—and the book’s blend of fact and interpretation. He discusses the author’s background, shares personal anecdotes, and reflects on themes of talent, risk, and resilience, highlighting Mickelson’s complex character, his rivalry with Tiger Woods, and the broader lessons his story offers about confidence and dedication.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #154: Shoe Dog | Phil Knight!

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Newsletter Reminder (00:09) - Host introduces the podcast, the book Phil, and reminds listeners about the monthly newsletter.
About the Author: Alan Shipnuck (01:12) - Background on Shipnuck’s career, his golf writing, and context for the book’s “unauthorized” subtitle.
Book Overview & Biographies as a Genre (02:17) - Explains the book’s focus on Phil Mickelson’s life, career, and the nature of biographies as journalistic works.
Phil Mickelson, LIV Golf, and Controversy (03:27) - Discusses the book’s coverage of Mickelson’s involvement with LIV Golf, Saudi Arabia, and the resulting scandals.
Phil’s Personality, Talent, and Maverick Mentality (04:37) - Covers Mickelson’s gambling, golfing ability, and the host’s personal connection to the book.
Phil vs. Tiger Woods: Rivalry and Respect (05:53) - Explores the rivalry between Phil and Tiger, their mutual respect, and differences in their careers.
Phil’s Paradoxes and Career Highlights (07:02) - Describes Mickelson’s complex personality, major wins, and infamous losses, including the 2006 Winged Foot meltdown.
Talent, Pressure, and Life Lessons (08:08) - Reflects on how talent shapes perspective, using Phil’s skills as a metaphor for broader life lessons.
Phil’s Competitive Edge: Personal Story (10:37) - Host shares a personal anecdote about witnessing Mickelson’s dedication at a tournament late in his career.
Conclusion & Listener Engagement (12:56) - Wraps up with a final quote, encourages subscribing, and shares ways to connect with the host and learn more.

#269 | Is ‘The 25th Hour’ Better as a Novel or Movie? A Truly Great New York City Story and One-Two Combo of Book and Film—David Benioff & Spike Lee

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 27 Oct 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti compares David Benioff’s novel "The 25th Hour" with its film adaptation directed by Spike Lee for another edition of “Novel vs Movie”. He explores the story of Monty Brogan, a drug dealer facing his last day of freedom, and discusses themes of regret, nostalgia, relationships, and the consequences of choices. Vigliotti highlights differences between the book’s pre-9/11 setting and the film’s post-9/11 New York, praising both versions but favoring one for a broader perspective and emotional depth. In any case, he highly recommends both the novel and the film.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #167: City of Thieves | David Benioff!

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Episode Overview (00:09) - Host introduces the "Novel vs. Movie" theme, outlines the episode's focus on "25th Hour," and mentions the newsletter.
About David Benioff & His Works (01:24) - Background on author David Benioff, his novels, and his role in "Game of Thrones."
Movie Adaptation & Cast (02:26) - Discussion of the film adaptation, its cast, and standout performances, especially Tony Siragusa.
Spike Lee’s Filmography & New York Crime Novels (03:27) - Mentions Spike Lee’s notable films and other New York City crime novels.
Plot Summary & Main Character (04:31) - Overview of "25th Hour" plot, focusing on Monty Brogan’s last day before prison.
Themes & Book vs. Movie Differences (05:43) - Explores themes of regret, nostalgia, and the major difference: the film’s post-9/11 setting.
Iconic Mirror Scene & Cinematic Achievements (07:00) - Highlights the film’s famous mirror monologue and its cinematic impact.
Character Focus & Tonal Comparison (08:04) - Compares the novel’s interiority with the film’s broader character focus and discusses the tone.
Endings & Personal Preference (09:19) - Contrasts the book’s open ending with the film’s directness; host shares preference for the film.
Favorite Book Quote & Closing Thoughts (10:24) - Shares a favorite quote from the novel, offers final thoughts, and encourages reading and watching both versions.
Outro & Listener Engagement (11:25) - Thanks listeners, promotes the host’s new book, and provides ways to connect and sign up for the newsletter.

#268 | ‘Ghosts of Hiroshima’ Brings History to Life via First-Hand Accounts of the Atomic Bomb—A Call for Empathy and Understanding for All Men (and Women)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 20 Oct 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses “Ghosts of Hiroshima” by Charles Pellegrino, a nonfiction book blending science, history, and personal stories about the 1945 atomic bombings of Hiroshima and Nagasaki. Vigliotti highlights the book’s vivid eyewitness accounts from multiple angles of history, its exploration of the human impact of nuclear war, and why he recommends reading this book. He also shares some about the author and concludes the episode, encouraging listeners to connect with him and subscribe to help spread the impact of Books for Men.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #201 | What Can a ‘Year of Magical Thinking’ Do for You?—Joan Didion on Overcoming Adversity, Grief, and Loss!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction and Newsletter (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast, its mission, and mentions the companion newsletter for listeners.
Book Introduction and Author Background (01:15) - Introduction to Ghosts of Hiroshima, background on Charles Pellegrino, and his connection to James Cameron.
Personal Connection and Book Context (02:25) - Douglas shares his visit to Hiroshima and explains the book’s relevance and importance.
Book Structure and Key Stories (03:45) - Overview of the book’s narrative style, historical context, and key personal stories from Hiroshima and Nagasaki.
Eyewitness Accounts and Symbolism (05:12) - Highlights survivor stories, the Sasaki children, and the symbolism of the paper crane.
Themes and Impact of Personal Stories (06:23) - Discussion of the book’s emotional impact, the power of firsthand accounts, and the necessity of empathy.
Reflections on Change and Quotes (07:32) - Douglas reflects on sudden change, shares a Joan Didion quote, and discusses the speed of devastation.
Notable Quotes from the Book (08:44) - Shares memorable quotes from Einstein, Peter Lax, and a survivor, emphasizing the unpredictability of history and importance of love.
Closing Remarks and Recommendations (09:59) - Encourages reading the book, mentions the upcoming James Cameron film, and provides contact information.
Podcast and Book Promotion (11:00) - Promotes his own book, Aristotle for Novelists, and reminds listeners about the podcast newsletter.

#267 | Sylvia Plath’s Classic Novel 'The Bell Jar' Does What ONLY Literature Can Do—Yes, Shots Fired!

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 13 Oct 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores Sylvia Plath’s novel "The Bell Jar,” discussing the book’s publication history, Plath’s life, the novel’s semi-autobiographical nature, and its themes of mental illness, depression, identity, and societal pressures on women. Vigliotti highlights the powerful metaphor of “The Bell Jar”, shares personal reflections and meaningful quotes, and recommends related literature on mental health. The episode encourages empathy and understanding of our inner lives, emphasizing the importance of kindness.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #222 | Does 'The Catcher in the Rye' Still Speak to Modern Youth? Maybe More Than Ever!

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #193 | From Despair to Hope: One Man's Journey to Mental Health, and Reducing Stigma of Depression in Men!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Podcast and Newsletter (00:09) - Douglas introduces "Books for Men," this episode’s book, and mentions the monthly companion newsletter.
About Sylvia Plath and Publication History (01:26) - Background on Sylvia Plath, her poetry, the novel’s publication timeline, and thoughts on posthumous awards.
Plath’s Life, Mental Illness, and The Bell Jar’s Release (02:49) - Plath’s struggles with mental illness, her death, and the semi-autobiographical nature and publication journey of The Bell Jar.
Plot Overview and Main Themes (04:06) - Summary of Esther Greenwood’s story, her depression, and the novel’s exploration of identity, societal pressure, and mental illness.
Autofiction and the Real/Fiction Interplay (05:16) - Discussion of autofiction, the blurred lines between Plath’s life and fiction, and the book’s thematic resonance.
The Bell Jar Metaphor and Literary Impact (06:26) - Explanation of the bell jar metaphor, the novel’s emotional truth, and literature’s unique ability to convey interior life.
Empathy, Mental Illness, and Related Recommendations (07:46) - Reflection on empathy, the importance of understanding others’ struggles, and a recommendation of "Darkness Visible" by William Styron.
Quotes from The Bell Jar and Life Choices (08:56) - Douglas shares and discusses two impactful quotes from The Bell Jar about depression and the difficulty of making life choices.
Closing Remarks and Contact Information (10:12) - Encouragement to subscribe, contact details, mention of Douglas’s new book, and a final thank you to listeners.
Podcast Information and Newsletter Reminder (11:14) - Final reminder about the podcast’s website and the monthly newsletter.

#266 | Hands Down, the Cheesiest Self-Help Book I’ve Ever Shared on the Podcast—So Why Am I Sharing It?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 6 Oct 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti spotlights Darren Hardy’s “The Compound Effect”, a self-help book about the transformative power of small, consistent choices over time. Vigliotti discusses Hardy’s background, the book’s core message of personal agency, and shares how the concept of compounding influenced his own life. He encourages listeners to embrace daily actions for meaningful change, regardless of traditional definitions of success, and to embrace the powerful concept of compounding despite the books wrapping.

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🗣️ If you enjoyed this episode, then you might like this one: #250 | What Is a ‘Death’ Cookie?—Phil Stutz’s 3 Absolutes of Human Life and How to Create Real Magic in Your Life!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Podcast and Newsletter (00:09) - Douglas introduces "Books for Men," this episode’s book, and mentions the monthly companion newsletter.
About Darren Hardy and His Background (01:21) - Overview of Darren Hardy’s career, his books, and his role as publisher of Success magazine.
Why Share "The Compound Effect"? (02:25) - Douglas explains his reasons for featuring this self-help book and introduces the concept of compounding.
The Power of Compounding Explained (03:40) - Discussion of compounding, its impact on life and skills, and how both good and bad choices compound.
Redefining Success and Personal Agency (05:08) - Douglas shares his views on success, referencing Bob Dylan, and emphasizes the book’s focus on agency and choices.
Responsibility and Control in Life (06:17) - Reflection on personal responsibility, free will, and controlling attitude and actions despite life’s unfairness.
Personal Story: How the Book Changed Douglas’s Life (07:39) - Douglas recounts how reading "The Compound Effect" influenced his creative journey and life direction.
Final Thoughts and Podcast Outro (10:20) - Douglas encourages subscribing, shares contact info, promotes his new book, and reminds listeners about the newsletter.

#265 | Is ‘Glengarry Glen Ross’ Better on the Stage or Screen?—David Mamet’s Pulitzer Prize-Winning Masterpiece on Greed, Morality, and What We Do to Each Other to Get Ahead

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 29 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 In this slight tweak on “Novel vs Movie,” Douglas Vigliotti explores David Mamet’s “Glengarry Glen Ross”, comparing its original play, the 1992 film adaptation, and the written script. Vigliotti discusses the story’s themes of greed, morality, and self-interest, emphasizing the unique power of Mamet’s dialogue and the story’s lean nature. Spoiler alert: he argues that reading the script offers the purest experience of the work. Vigliotti also reflects on the importance of separating art from the artist’s personal views.

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🗣️ Listen to episode #215 | We’re All Actors, No?—17 David Mamet Quotes That Will Make You Question Your ‘Role’ in Life!

🗣️ Listen to episode #230 | Is ’No Country for Old Men’ a Better Novel or Movie? Cormac McCarthy’s Masterpiece vs. The Coen Brothers Oscar-Winning Adaptation!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Host introduces the podcast, its mission, and the focus on "Glengarry Glen Ross" as play vs. movie.
Newsletter Reminder (01:20) - Brief mention of the companion newsletter and how listeners can subscribe for episode summaries and recommendations.
David Mamet’s Influence and Artistic Separation (01:50) - Host discusses Mamet’s impact, his works, and the importance of separating art from the artist’s personal life.
Background on "Glengarry Glen Ross" (03:30) - Overview of the play’s history, its Pulitzer win, and recent Broadway adaptation that inspired this episode.
Movie Adaptation and Cast (04:11) - Details about the 1992 film adaptation, its star-studded cast, and the addition of Alec Baldwin’s character.
Plot Summary and Themes (04:50) - Summary of the story, its focus on real estate salesmen, and exploration of greed, morality, and self-interest.
Iconic Movie Scenes and Quotes (06:44) - Discussion of memorable lines from the film, especially Alec Baldwin’s speech, and their cultural impact.
Play vs. Movie: Structure and Dialogue (08:02) - Comparison of the play’s lean structure and dialogue with the movie, emphasizing the power of Mamet’s writing.
Why Reading the Script is Best (09:15) - Host argues that reading the script is the purest way to experience the story, focusing on Mamet’s words.
Favorite Quotes and Final Reflections (09:50) - Host shares favorite quotes from the script and reflects on their meaning and personal impact.
Closing Remarks and Contact Info (10:43) - Host wraps up, encourages subscribing, shares contact info, and promotes his new book and the podcast newsletter.

#264 | On Why ‘Lonesome Dove’ Is the Definitive Novel for Every Man—Timeless Themes of Adventure, Loss, Love, Loyalty, Sacrifice, Shame, Guilt, and Friendship

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 22 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti offers an in-depth yet concise review of Larry McMurtry’s “Lonesome Dove,” discussing the novel’s plot, major themes of leaving home for a dream, sacrifice, loss, adventure, aging, and friendship, and explains why it stands as a must-read Western classic. Vigliotti compares the book to its mini-series adaptation, shares favorite quotes, and highlights McMurtry’s literary legacy. He encourages listeners to read the novel, even if it will take you a month or two, or three—it’ll be worth it!

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🗣️ Listen to episode #136: The Son | Philipp Meyer!

🗣️ Listen to episode #230 | Is ’No Country for Old Men’ a Better Novel or Movie? Cormac McCarthy’s Masterpiece vs. The Coen Brothers Oscar-Winning Adaptation!

🗣️ Listen to episode #223 | What’s Your Origin Story? In This Book, Successful Writers, Novelists, and Musicians Share Theirs!

🗣️ Listen to episode #262 | What Makes Stephen King’s Horror Classic “Carrie” Instantly Relatable for All of Us?!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Book Selection (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast, shares his August read, and explains why Lonesome Dove is featured.
Newsletter & Author Background (01:18) - Mentions the companion newsletter, gives background on Larry McMurtry, and references other Western authors.
Other Westerns & Mini-Series Comparison (02:22) - Discusses previous Westerns covered, the Pulitzer Prize, Stephen King's praise, and critiques the 1990s mini-series adaptation.
Plot Overview & Main Characters (03:27) - Summarizes the novel’s plot, introduces Woodrow Call and Augustus McCrae, and outlines their journey.
Themes: Adventure, Sacrifice, and Existential Questions (04:49) - Explores deeper themes: leaving home, trade-offs, existential questions, and the protagonists’ motivations.
Character Dynamics & Emotional Depth (06:03) - Analyzes the contrasting personalities of Gus and Call, their relationship, and the emotional impact of the story.
Book’s Emotional Climax & Satisfying Conclusion (07:27) - Highlights the emotional weight of the final chapters and the payoff for readers.
Favorite Quotes & Literary Reflections (08:34) - Shares memorable quotes, discusses their significance, and reflects on the novel’s emotional resonance.
Final Thoughts & Listener Engagement (10:56) - Recommends the book, thanks listeners, and provides information on connecting, subscribing, and his new book.

#263 | How Can a Book on Acting Help You Live a More Fulfilling Life?—Stanislavski’s ‘An Actor Prepares’ Will Show You

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 15 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into “An Actor Prepares” by Constantin Stanislavski, discussing Stanislavski’s lasting influence on acting, especially method acting, and explains why the book is valuable for actors, writers, and anyone interested in personal growth. Vigliotti highlights key concepts like emotional memory and authenticity, sharing how acting principles can enrich everyday life. He also offers memorable quotes from the book and encourages listeners to embrace metaphor as a means of viewing the world.

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #215 | We're All Actors, No?—17 David Mamet Quotes that Will Make You Question Your 'Role' in Life!

🗣️ Or this episode #246 | What is the Core Tension in Leo Tolstoy's Classic Russian Novel 'Anna Karenina'?—and Why It Matters Today for Modern Men!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast, the featured book, and mentions the companion newsletter.
About Stanislavski and His Influence (01:23) - Background on Stanislavski, his legacy, and his impact on acting and Hollywood.
Stanislavski’s System and Book Structure (02:43) - Explains the book’s semi-fictional format, key acting concepts, and its foundational role.
Criticism and Alternative Perspectives (04:04) - Mentions criticism of Stanislavski’s system, especially David Mamet’s opposing views.
Why This Book Matters Beyond Acting (05:24) - Discusses the book’s relevance for writers, creatives, and personal development.
Key Quotes and Life Applications (06:50) - Shares favorite quotes from the book and their broader life implications.
Closing Remarks and Listener Engagement (09:34) - Encourages newsletter sign-up, subscribing, and ways to connect with Douglas.
Final Thanks and Additional Resources (10:31) - Thanks listeners, shares links, and promotes further information about the podcast.

#262 | What Makes Stephen King’s Horror Classic 'Carrie' Instantly Relatable for All of Us?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 8 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores the horror genre for the first time by discussing Stephen King’s debut novel, “Carrie”. Vigliotti provides background on King’s prolific career, examines the novel’s themes of adolescent cruelty, isolation, and the struggle for power, and shares personal reflections on its emotional impact. He highlights memorable quotes and encourages listeners to revisit literary classics, especially this one, because it not only birthed a literary sensation but also helped mainstream an entire genre.

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to episode #222 | Does 'The Catcher in the Rye' Still Speak to Modern Youth? Maybe More Than Ever!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode and Newsletter (00:09) - Host introduces the podcast, this episode’s focus on horror, and mentions the companion newsletter.
Stephen King’s Background and Career (01:21) - Overview of Stephen King’s prolific writing, genre versatility, and cultural impact.
“On Writing”, and Choosing "Carrie" (02:40) - Mentions King’s memoir "On Writing," and explains why "Carrie" was chosen for this episode.
Summary of "Carrie" and its Themes (04:01) - Describes the plot of "Carrie," its protagonist, and central themes of adolescent cruelty and telekinesis.
Personal Reflections on Growing Up and Fitting In (05:30) - Host reflects on the universal struggles of adolescence and the story’s emotional resonance.
Power Dynamics and Relatability of "Carrie" (06:53) - Explores the theme of power for the powerless and the personal connection readers may feel.
Horror Genre and Cultural Impact (07:53) - Comments on the horror genre’s popularity, oversaturation, and "Carrie’s" role in mainstreaming horror.
Favorite Quotes and Their Meanings (08:24) - Shares and analyzes two favorite quotes from "Carrie," discussing their deeper significance.
Closing Remarks and Listener Engagement (09:38) - Wraps up the episode, encourages subscribing, and provides contact information and book promotion.
Final Thank You and Newsletter Reminder (10:50) - Thanks listeners and reminds them about the newsletter and where to find more information.

#261 | Why Did Benjamin Franklin Sit Naked Outside? The Surprising 'Daily Rituals' and Habits of History’s Most Famous Artists, Scientists, and Thinkers

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 1 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores Mason Currey’s “Daily Rituals: How Artists Work”. He discusses Currey’s background, the book’s structure—161 short profiles of creative routines—and its diverse cast of famous artists, writers, and thinkers. Vigliotti highlights the importance of ritual for creatives, the individuality of creative processes, and his fascination with artists’ lives—making this episode a thoughtful guide to creativity and productivity habits.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, check out episode #143: Page Fright | Harry Bruce!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction and Newsletter Reminder (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast, the book "Daily Rituals," and mentions the companion newsletter.
About Mason Currey and His Works (01:15) - Overview of Mason Currey, his books, and his Substack; brief personal thoughts on the author.
Book Overview: Daily Rituals (02:22) - Description of the book’s structure, content, and the types of creative people featured.
Examples of Creative Rituals (03:41) - Discussion of specific rituals and habits from the book, both common and unusual.
Famous Figures Featured (04:59) - List of notable artists, writers, and creatives included in the book.
Reason 1: Importance of Ritual (05:30) - Exploration of why rituals matter for creative work, with supporting quotes.
Reason 2: Embracing Uniqueness (07:29) - Emphasis on the diversity of creative processes and the value of individual approaches.
Reason 3: Fascination with the Creative Process (08:32) - Personal fascination with creative routines and the appeal of behind-the-scenes insights.
Closing Thoughts and Contact Info (09:48) - Encouragement to subscribe, contact details, mention of Douglas’s new book, and newsletter reminder.

#260 | Special Edition: What Is a Birthday, Anyway?—And the Societal Pressure to Feel 'Not Enough"

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 25 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 In this Special Edition episode of the "Books for Men” podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti shares his pop-up essay, “What is a Birthday Anyway?” Reflecting on his 39th birthday, he explores the meaning of birthdays, aging, ego, and societal pressure to feel “not enough.” Douglas encourages listeners to celebrate life itself, embrace self-acceptance, and reminds them to keep reading—and living—fully.

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🗣️ If you liked this episode, check out episode #252 | From the Vault: Morning After #7 - A Letter to Love!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Special Edition Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the special edition, explains the concept of "pop up essays," and the inspiration behind this episode.
Newsletter Plug and Podcast Anniversary (01:37) - Brief reminder about the companion newsletter and mention of the podcast’s third anniversary and recent featured authors.
Reading the Pop-Up Essay: "What is a Birthday Anyway?" (02:48) - Douglas reads his essay reflecting on birthdays, aging, ego, and shifting perspectives on life and self-worth.
Societal Pressures and the Meaning of Birthdays (03:54) - Discussion on societal constructs, feeling "not enough," nostalgia, and how ego shapes our birthday experiences.
A New Paradigm: Celebrating Life (05:04) - Proposes a mindset shift to appreciate birthdays as a celebration of life, quoting Hemingway, and embracing being enough.
Closing Remarks and Ways to Connect (06:17) - Douglas shares how to connect with him, plugs his new book, and thanks listeners, with reminders about the newsletter and website.

#259 | Why Every Man Should Experience the Beauty of Haruki Murakami’s 1987 Coming of Age Novel ‘Norwegian Wood’ At Least Once

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 18 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into Haruki Murakami’s acclaimed coming-of-age novel Norwegian Wood. Vigliotti offers a compelling introduction to the book, unpacking its atmospheric exploration of love, loss, mental illness, and the complexities of memory. He highlights Murakami’s life, literary legacy, and signature style, sharing thought-provoking quotes (spoiler-free) and examining why the novel resonates so strongly with readers—especially men navigating their own journeys of self-discovery. The episode encourages men to embrace reading great literature as a tool for personal growth and exploration.

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🗣️ Listen to episode #127: Sputnik Sweetheart | Haruki Murakami!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Newsletter Reminder (00:09) - Host introduces the podcast, book of the week, and companion newsletter for listeners.
About Haruki Murakami (01:15) - Background on Murakami, his career, writing style, and recommended memoirs.
Murakami’s Literary Style & Previous Episode (02:23) - Discussion of Murakami’s writing styles, previous episode on Sputnik Sweetheart, and recurring themes.
Introduction to Norwegian Wood (03:38) - Overview of Norwegian Wood, its significance, and connection to the Beatles song.
Plot and Main Characters (04:49) - Summary of the main characters, their relationships, and the novel’s central conflicts.
Themes and Lessons (06:13) - Exploration of the book’s themes: hope, grief, memory, and the value of life’s lessons.
Favorite Quote #1 – Individuality in Reading (07:32) - First favorite quote about reading widely and thinking independently.
Favorite Quote #2 – Memory and Presence (07:32) - Second favorite quote on the importance of being remembered and the value of shared moments.
Favorite Quote #3 – Seizing Happiness (08:50) - Third favorite quote about taking chances for happiness and living without regret.
Closing & Contact Information (10:07) - Host thanks listeners, promotes his book, shares contact info, and encourages newsletter sign-up.

#258 | Fear and Loathing in 2025: Why Does Hunter S Thompson’s Scathing Account of American Politics Still Matter Today?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 11 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores Hunter S. Thompson’s "Fear and Loathing on the Campaign Trail ‘72," spotlighting Thompson’s groundbreaking gonzo journalism and his own admiration for the author. Vigliotti unpacks the book’s sharp, scathing critique of American politics, its timeless relevance, and Thompson’s uncanny ability to get at the truth, along with his growing disillusionment with the political system. He urges listeners to reconsider the realities of power and democracy, offers related reading suggestions, and invites the audience to connect and subscribe.

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

🗣️ Listen to episode #116: Hell's Angels | Hunter S Thompson!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas Vigliotti introduces the podcast, the featured book, and the episode’s focus on Hunter S. Thompson.
Newsletter and Podcast Updates (01:21) - Details about the companion newsletter, episode summaries, and how to sign up for updates.
Personal Connection to Hunter S. Thompson (02:31) - Douglas shares his admiration for Thompson and the author’s influence on his writing journey.
Hunter S. Thompson’s Style and Previous Podcast Episode (03:50) - Discussion of Thompson’s gonzo journalism, his persona, and reference to a previous episode about him.
Background on "Fear and Loathing on the Campaign Trail, 1972" (03:50) - Overview of the book’s origin, its coverage of the 1972 election, and Thompson’s unique perspective.
Themes and Impact of the Book (05:23) - Exploration of the book’s themes: disillusionment with politics, democracy, and the American people.
Hunter S. Thompson’s Honesty and Political Critique (07:01) - Analysis of Thompson’s brutal honesty, critique of political systems, and relevance to today’s politics.
Comparison to "The Power Broker" and Understanding Politics (08:14) - Recommendation of "The Power Broker" and reflection on the meaning of politics in everyday life.
Quotes from the Book and Contemporary Parallels (08:14) - Sharing two significant quotes from Thompson, drawing parallels between 1972 and recent elections.
Closing Remarks and Listener Engagement (11:02) - Douglas encourages listeners to subscribe, connect via Instagram or website, and mentions his new book.
Final Reminders and Thank You (11:59) - Information on where to find more about the podcast and newsletter, and a thank you to listeners.

#257 | What Is the Timeless Lesson in Hemingway’s Pulitzer and Nobel Prize Winning Novella, ‘The Old Man and the Sea’?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 4 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses Ernest Hemingway’s classic novella, “The Old Man and the Sea”. He explores Hemingway’s life, literary influence, and the novella’s enduring themes of perseverance, luck, and the human condition. Vigliotti shares favorite quotes and reflects on the importance of process over outcome, encouraging listeners to embrace resilience, engage with great literature, and to never lose the capacity for entertaining metaphor as a means of learning and seeing the world.

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

🗣️ Listen to episode #117: The Sun Also Rises | Ernest Hemingway!

🗣️ Listen to episode #123: The Thief | Fuminori Nakamura!

🗣️ Listen to episode #127: Sputnik Sweetheart | Haruki Murakami!

🗣️ Listen to episode #216 | Fuminori Nakamura: Subtle, Dark, Complex—Maybe the Most Underrated Author in America!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Newsletter Promo (00:09) - Host introduces the episode, the book, and promotes the companion newsletter.
About Hemingway & His Legacy (01:18) - Discussion of Hemingway’s impact, his life, and his dualities as a writer and person.
Hemingway’s Struggles & Duality (02:24) - Explores Hemingway’s personal struggles, mental health, and the paradox of greatness and trouble.
Book Summary & Main Themes (03:44) - Overview of "The Old Man and the Sea," its plot, and major themes like luck, perseverance, and man versus nature.
Craft, Criticism, and Metaphor (06:08) - Analysis of the book’s literary style, critical reception, and the importance of metaphor.
Process vs. Outcome (07:16) - Reflection on the theme of focusing on process over results, with personal insights.
Favorite Quotes & Their Meanings (07:56) - Host shares and interprets favorite quotes from the novella, relating them to broader life lessons.
Closing, Contact, and Book Promo (09:41) - Wrap-up, how to support or contact the host, and promotion of the host’s own book and newsletter.

#256 | Special Edition: Happy 3rd Anniversary, Books for Men—Some Fun Stats and Favorites From the Past 3 Years!

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 28 Jul 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 In this Special Edition episode of the "Books for Men” podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti celebrates the podcast’s third anniversary and reflects on the show’s journey since August 2022, sharing gratitude for listeners and highlighting key milestones. He reviews three years of episode types, favorite books, and standout episodes, inviting listeners to reach out with collaboration opportunities and sharing fun listener statistics that now reach over 40 countries. It’s a celebration of consistency, community, and the ongoing mission to inspire more men to read.

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

🗣️ Listen to episode #227 | This Short Novel Will Change the Way You Look at the 'World'!

🗣️ Listen to episode #250 | Phil Stutz's Three Absolutes of Life: Unlocking Personal Growth with 'True and False' Magic!

🗣️ Listen to episode #247 | Special Edition: How I Curate 'Books for Men' and What I Read More Broadly!

🗣️ Listen to episode #214 | What Makes 'The Great Gatsby' the Great American Novel?!

🗣️ Listen to episode #222 | Does 'The Catcher in the Rye' Still Speak to Modern Youth? Maybe More Than Ever!

🗣️ Listen to episode #218 | Aristotle for Novelists (Part 1)—Principles #1, #2, #3, & #4!

🗣️ Listen to episode #123: The Thief | Fuminori Nakamura!

🗣️ Listen to episode #160: Chronicles | Bob Dylan!

🗣️ Listen to episode #161: Ham on Rye | Charles Bukowski!

🗣️ Listen to episode #162: I Remember Nothing| Nora Ephron!

🗣️ Listen to episode #163: Lolita | Vladimir Nabokov!

🗣️ Listen to episode #95: Miles from Nowhere | Nami Mun!

🗣️ Listen to episode #116: Hell's Angels | Hunter S Thompson!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Anniversary Reflection (00:09) - Douglas celebrates the third anniversary, thanks listeners, and mentions the companion newsletter.
Call for Collaborations & Episode Length Promise (01:25) - Douglas invites collaboration ideas and promises to keep future episodes under ten minutes.
Podcast Statistics & Consistency (02:41) - Shares podcast start date, never missing a Monday, and top ten listener countries.
Book & Episode Statistics (04:00) - Breakdown of fiction, nonfiction, special editions, "bad advice," "from the vault," and novel-versus-movie episodes.
Favorite Books & Episodes: 2025 (06:30) - Highlights "Orbital" (Jan 6, 2025) and "True in False Magic" (June 16, 2025), plus a special edition on curation.
Favorite Books & Episodes: 2024 (07:52) - Recommends "The Great Gatsby" (Oct 7, 2024), "The Catcher in the Rye" (Dec 2, 2024), and "Aristotle for Novelists" series.
Favorite Books & Episodes: 2023 (07:52) - Mentions "The Thief" (Jan 23, 2023) and strong October 2023 episodes, including works by Dylan, Bukowski, Ephron, and Nabokov.
Favorite Books & Episodes: 2022 (07:52) - Recalls first episode "Miles from Nowhere" (Aug 1, 2022) and most-listened episode "Hell’s Angels" by Hunter S. Thompson.
Listener Call to Action & Contact Info (10:00) - Asks listeners to subscribe/rate, and shares contact details and newsletter sign-up info.

#255 | Another Celebrity Memoir? I Know, But It’s Al Pacino—The Godfather, Scarface, Scent of a Woman, Heat—Al Pacino!

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 21 Jul 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti examines Al Pacino’s 2024 memoir "Sonny Boy." Douglas discusses Pacino’s life, career, and the personal insights revealed in the book, emphasizing the difference between the artist and the man. He highlights themes of loneliness, artistic struggle, and vulnerability, sharing memorable quotes and reflections from Pacino on life, acting, and his iconic career. Douglas also encourages men to embrace reading and offers a thoughtful look at Pacino’s journey and the universal challenges faced by artists and men alike.

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

🗣️ Listen to episode #141: The Godfather | Mario Puzo!

🗣️ Listen to episode #131: Heat 2 | Michael Mann & Meg Gardiner!

🗣️ Listen to episode #215 | We're All Actors No?—17 David Mamet Quotes That Will Make You Question Your 'Role' in Life!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Book Plug (00:09) - Douglas introduces the episode, mentions "Sonny Boy" by Al Pacino, and plugs his own book "Aristotle for Novelists."
Al Pacino’s Career Overview (01:16) - Overview of Al Pacino’s film and stage career, highlighting his major roles and Oscar history.
Artist vs. The Man (02:31) - Discussion on the difference between Al Pacino’s public persona and his real personality.
Celebrity Memoir Caveats (03:52) - Douglas discusses the nature of celebrity memoirs and the importance of reading them with a critical eye.
Godfather & Movie Anecdotes (05:07) - Stories from "The Godfather" and other films, including behind-the-scenes details and Pacino’s casting.
Heat & Character Insights (06:06) - Insights into Pacino’s character in "Heat," including cut scenes and character motivations.
Personal Struggles & Loneliness (07:25) - Pacino’s personal struggles with loneliness, anxiety, and feeling like an outsider, as revealed in the memoir.
Artist’s Duality & Takeaways (09:51) - Reflection on the difference between Pacino’s characters and his real self, emphasizing the theme of artist vs. art.
Favorite Quotes & Themes (11:09) - Douglas shares and discusses his favorite quotes from the memoir, focusing on solitude, reading, intuition, and artistic delusion.
Aging & Life’s Shrinking Options (13:55) - Pacino’s reflections on aging, dwindling opportunities, and the universal experience of life narrowing with time.
Closing & Podcast Information (15:04) - Douglas wraps up, encourages subscribing, shares contact info, and provides links for further engagement.

#254 | Dorian Gray: The Original Influencer Who Sold His Soul for Likes—Is Oscar Wilde’s Classic Novel a Cautionary Tale for the Social Media Age?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 14 Jul 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores Oscar Wilde’s classic novel "The Picture of Dorian Gray." He discusses Wilde’s life, literary significance, and the novel’s themes of vanity, morality, and the tension between public and private selves. Vigliotti highlights the book’s symbolism and memorable quotes, drawing parallels to modern social media culture and aiming to inspire men to read and reflect on classic literature and its enduring relevance.

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

🗣️ Listen to episode #238 | Go Behind the Scenes with Picasso, Hemingway, and Early 20th Century Paris in Gertrude Stein's Unusual Autobiography From Her Partner's Eyes!

🗣️ Listen to episode #251 | Why Hattie Williams' Debut Novel Is Proof Men Should Read More Women's Fiction!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Book Promotion (00:00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast, mentions "The Picture of Dorian Gray," and promotes his own book "Aristotle for Novelists."
Oscar Wilde’s Background (00:01:19) - Overview of Oscar Wilde’s life, literary significance, legal troubles, and his legacy.
Summary of "The Picture of Dorian Gray" (00:03:18) - Brief plot summary, main characters, and central themes of the novel.
Themes & Symbolism (00:04:27) - Discussion of the novel’s symbolism, especially the portrait and its relevance to modern life and social media.
Oscar Wilde’s Prose & Style (00:05:55) - Analysis of Wilde’s aphoristic, witty, and philosophical writing style.
Favorite Quotes & Paradoxes (00:07:19) - Sharing and reflecting on notable quotes from the novel, focusing on paradox and duality.
More Memorable Quotes (00:08:26) - Additional punchy, humorous, and philosophical lines from the book.
Quotes on Love, Uncertainty, and Mystery (00:11:08) - Quotes about love, uncertainty, and the allure of mystery, with personal reflections.
Final Thoughts & Broadway Adaptation (00:12:49) - Closing thoughts on the book, mention of the Broadway adaptation, and encouragement to subscribe.
Contact & Podcast Information (00:13:54) - Information on how to contact Douglas, learn about his book, and sign up for the podcast newsletter.

#253 | In Honor of Brian Wilson: 5 Quotes on the Power of Songs, Sharing, and Intuition from the Musical Genius Behind the Beach Boys—My First Concert Ever!

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 7 Jul 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti pays tribute to the late Brian Wilson by discussing his memoir, "I Am Brian Wilson." Douglas explores Wilson’s influence as a musician, reflects on his struggles with mental health, and highlights memorable quotes from the book. He shares personal stories about the Beach Boys’ impact on his life, emphasizing the transformative power of songs, love, sharing, and intuition, and underscoring the enduring legacy of Brian Wilson and the significance of music more broadly.

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

🗣️ Listen to episode #108: Life | Keith Richards!

🗣️ Listen to episode #122: Scenes from My Life | Michael K. Williams!

🗣️ Listen to episode #160: Chronicles | Bob Dylan!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction & Book Announcement (00:09) - Douglas introduces the episode, mentions his new book, and outlines the focus on Brian Wilson’s memoir.
Honoring Brian Wilson & The Beach Boys (01:15) - Tribute to Brian Wilson, his recent passing, and his legacy with The Beach Boys.
Brian Wilson’s Musical Impact & Pet Sounds (02:49) - Discussion of Wilson’s influence, Pet Sounds, and the creative rivalry with The Beatles.
About the Memoir & Wilson’s Life (04:08) - Overview of the memoir’s content, Wilson’s struggles, and the collaborative writing process.
Mental Health & Personal Struggles (05:27) - Exploration of Wilson’s mental health challenges and his relationship with psychologist Eugene Landy.
Book’s Tone & Transition to Quotes (06:46) - Comment on the memoir’s tone and transition to sharing favorite quotes.
Quote 1: The Power of Songs (07:49) - Reflection on how songs can shape personal growth and perspective.
Quote 2: Good Vibrations & Musical Connection (09:24) - The spiritual impact of “Good Vibrations” and the meticulous effort behind its production.
Quote 3: Sharing and Karma (09:24) - The importance of giving, service, and karmic reciprocity.
Quote 4: The Power of Love (10:45) - How love makes life easier and its significance, especially for men.
Quote 5: Intuition and Feeling (12:05) - Trusting intuition and bodily responses over rationalization.
Bonus Quote: Bob Dylan on Brian Wilson (13:18) - Bob Dylan’s praise for Brian Wilson’s unique sound and recording genius.
Closing & Listener Engagement (13:18) - Encouragement to subscribe, connect, and learn more about the podcast and Douglas’s work.

#252 | From the Vault: Morning After #7 – A Letter to Love—Personal Growth, Change, and the Impact of Literature on Love

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 30 Jun 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 In this special 'From the Vault' episode, Douglas Vigliotti invites you on a journey of personal growth and personal change through his reflective essay, 'A Letter to Love.' This unique episode explores the impact of literature on love, as Douglas pens a heartfelt letter to love itself—questioning how stories shape our understanding of this powerful emotion. As Douglas revisits this piece amidst significant personal changes and growth in his own life, he reveals the oversized role that stories and literature play in how we experience love. If you're interested in how personal change intersects with the stories we tell ourselves—and the influence of books and media on our perceptions of love—this episode is for you. (Original pub date: 2/14/20)

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

📖 Read the original article: Morning After #7 - A Letter to Love!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction and Book Promotion (00:09) - Douglas introduces the episode, mentions his "Morning After" column, and promotes his book "Aristotle for Novelists."
Life Changes and Alcohol Reflection (01:12) - Douglas discusses relocating to Manhattan and reflects on his three-year abstinence from alcohol and possible reintroduction.
The Role of Alcohol and Personal Growth (02:27) - He explores the trade-offs of abstaining from alcohol, the importance of balance, and societal trends toward sobriety.
Origins of the "Morning After" Column (03:39) - Douglas explains the inspiration behind his "Morning After" column and how his views on alcohol and creativity have evolved.
Revisiting Old Writings and the Power of Stories (05:06) - He shares his discomfort with rereading old work, but notes some pieces still resonate, especially regarding the impact of stories.
Love, Literature, and Podcast Themes (06:30) - Douglas connects recent podcast themes—love, loss, relationships—to the upcoming reading of "A Letter to Love."
Reading: "A Letter to Love" (07:49) - He reads his reflective piece, questioning the true nature of love versus its portrayal in stories and media.
Closing Remarks and Listener Engagement (09:07) - Douglas wraps up, encourages subscribing, shares contact info, and promotes his book and newsletter.

#251 | Why Hattie Williams Debut Novel ‘Bitter Sweet’ Is Proof Men Should Read More Women’s Fiction

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 23 Jun 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into Hattie Williams’ debut novel, "Bitter Sweet," ahead of its July 2025 release. Douglas unpacks the story of Charlie, a young book publicist at a London publishing house entangled with a famous, much older, married novelist, and the complexities of her emotional journey. He highlights the novel’s themes of grief, loss, desire, power asymmetry, and the addictive nature of love and forbidden fruit, praising Williams’ intimate and vulnerable writing style and encouraging male listeners to sprinkle in more women’s fiction for one very specific reason.

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

📖 Read Hattie's Substack on Complicated Men!

🗣️ If you liked this episode, listen to this one: #178: Big Swiss | Jen Beagin!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode and Book Announcement (00:09) - Host introduces the podcast, announces "Bitter Sweet" by Hattie Williams, and mentions his own book.
About the Author: Hattie Williams (01:12) - Background on Hattie Williams, her artistic journey, and connection to the host.
Context of "Difficult Men" and Book’s Male Lead (02:33) - Comparison of Hattie's writing on complicated men to the book’s male character, Richard Aveling.
Book Overview and Main Characters (03:42) - Summary of the plot, protagonist Charlie, and the relationship with Richard Aveling.
Charlie's Emotional Journey and Addiction Analogy (04:59) - Exploration of Charlie’s emotional struggles and the addictive nature of her relationship.
Takeaways: Opening Scene and Writing Style (06:01) - Host discusses the novel’s cinematic opening and praises Hattie’s intimate, vulnerable prose.
Value of Women’s Fiction for Male Readers (07:14) - Reflection on the importance of men reading women’s fiction to understand different perspectives.
Complexity of Emotions and Power Dynamics (08:28) - Discussion of Charlie’s conflicted feelings, performance in relationships, and power asymmetry.
Relatability and Human Nature (09:49) - Host shares a favorite quote, relating to universal human experiences and the allure of the forbidden.
Desire, Comfort, and Central Conflict (11:00) - Analysis of the novel’s central theme: the tension between risk/desire and comfort/safety.
Bittersweet Aesthetic and Episode Wrap-Up (12:19) - Reflection on the meaning of "bittersweet" and closing remarks, including how to connect with the host.

#250 | Phil Stutz’s Three Absolutes of Human Life: Unlocking Personal Growth with ‘True and False Magic'

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 16 Jun 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Discover the keys to personal growth in this episode as Douglas Vigliotti unpacks Phil Stutz’s transformative book, 'True and False Magic.' Dive deep into Stutz’s core philosophy—embracing pain, uncertainty, and constant work, known as the three absolutes of human life—and learn how these principles can help you create real magic in your own life. Douglas shares powerful, actionable insights from the book, explores the role of faith and belief, and explains why choosing creativity over competition leads to a more meaningful and authentic existence. Whether you’re seeking lasting change or practical self-help strategies, this episode will inspire you to face discomfort, embrace uncertainty, and commit to ongoing personal growth.

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🎧 Listen to Douglas Vigliotti's other podcast: Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well.

🗣️ Listen to episode #165: Tom Collins | Douglas Vigliotti!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction and Book Promotion (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast, promotes his new book, and sets up the episode’s focus.
About Phil Stutz and His Work (01:13) - Background on Phil Stutz, his career, previous books, and his unconventional approach to therapy.
Overview of "True and False Magic" (02:22) - Description of the book’s style, co-author, and introduction to Stutz’s three absolutes: pain, uncertainty, constant work.
Stutz’s Core Philosophy and Creativity (03:34) - Explains Stutz’s philosophy on action, creativity, belief, and the importance of creating something from nothing.
Faith, Belief, and Spirituality (05:00) - Discussion on the necessity of belief in something beyond oneself and the role of spirituality in Stutz’s approach.
Facing Avoidance: Fear and Laziness (06:26) - Explores avoidance, its roots in fear and laziness, and the concept of “eating the death cookie.”
Proactive Therapy and Taking Action (07:40) - Contrasts Stutz’s proactive therapy with traditional psychotherapy, emphasizing motion and directness.
Universe One vs. Universe Two (09:25) - Introduces Stutz’s concepts of universe one (competition) and universe two (creation), and their implications.
The Need for Constant Work (10:37) - Discusses the illusion of comfort, the necessity of ongoing effort, and the infinite nature of meaningful work.
Pain and Self-Deception (12:02) - Addresses the inevitability of pain, self-deception, and the importance of building tolerance for discomfort.
Uncertainty and the Power of Faith (13:27) - Explores uncertainty, the limits of logic, and the value of choosing faith over doubt.
Conclusion and Listener Reminders (14:48) - Wraps up the episode, encourages feedback, and provides information on how to connect and learn more.

#249 | How All Men Can Relate to the Journey of Identity and Growth in ‘We the Animals’

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 9 Jun 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores "We the Animals" by Justin Torres, a coming-of-age novel that tackles the intricate themes of family, identity, and personal growth. Douglas sheds light on the author’s background and the book's narrative, which follows a young protagonist as he navigates complex family dynamics and his emerging sexuality. With a focus on the book's emotional depth and minimalist storytelling, Douglas shares his reflections, inviting listeners to join the conversation and embrace the subtle richness of literary fiction.

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🗣️ Listen to episode #244: 'Reasons to Live'—Why What Isn't There Is Just as Important as What Is!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to "We the Animals" (00:09) - Douglas introduces the book "We the Animals" and its themes of family and identity.
Author Background (01:17) - Discussion on Justin Torres, his writing career, and his connection to the book.
Book's Adaptation (02:31) - Mention of the indie film adaptation of "We the Animals" released in 2017.
Themes of the Story (03:36) - Exploration of the book's themes of family life, childhood longing, and the protagonist's coming out.
Complexity of Emotion (05:00) - Insight into the emotional complexities in the story, compared to works by Amy Hempel.
Growth is Painful (06:13) - Discussion on the protagonist's painful journey of growth and self-discovery.
Meaning of the Title (08:51) - Analysis of the title "We the Animals" and its symbolic significance in the narrative.
Closing Remarks (10:24) - Douglas encourages listeners to subscribe, rate the podcast, and connect with him.

#248 | We’re All a Bit Irrational—12 Reasons Why from Daniel Kahneman’s Groundbreaking Book ‘Thinking, Fast and Slow'

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 2 Jun 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti delves into Daniel Kahneman's influential nonfiction book, "Thinking, Fast and Slow." Vigliotti outlines Kahneman's background and his pioneering work in behavioral economics, including his Nobel Prize-winning prospect theory. The episode explores key concepts from the book, such as the two systems of thinking—fast, intuitive System 1 and slow, deliberate System 2—and various cognitive biases and heuristics that shape human decision-making. Tune in to learn why you think the way you do.

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🗣️ Listen to episode #148: From the Vault | A Chat with Annie Duke (Part 1)!

🗣️ Listen to episode #149: From the Vault | A Chat with Annie Duke (Part 2)!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Podcast (00:09) - Overview of the podcast's purpose and introduction to the book "Thinking, Fast and Slow."
Author Introduction (01:12) - Discussion of Daniel Kahneman's background and his significant contributions to behavioral economics.
Kahneman's Achievements (02:16) - Highlighting Kahneman's Nobel Prize and Presidential Medal of Freedom awards.
Overview of the Book (03:27) - Explaining the main concepts of "Thinking, Fast and Slow" and its two systems of thinking.
Strengths and Weaknesses of Thinking (04:51) -0 Exploration of how the two thinking systems shape decision-making and judgments.
Heuristics, Biases, and Effects (05:48) - Introduction to the twelve heuristics, biases, and effects discussed in the book.
Focusing Illusion (06:16) - Description of the cognitive bias of overestimating the importance of single factors in happiness.
WYSIATI (06:16) - Explanation of the "what you see is all there is" concept and its implications.
Loss Aversion (07:24) - Discussion on the pain of losing versus the pleasure of gaining.
Endowment Effect (07:24) - Explaining the tendency to overvalue owned items.
Diminishing Sensitivity (07:24) - Impact of gains and losses diminishing as sizes increase.
Reference Dependence (08:52) - Need for references in decision-making based on current state versus absolute.
Probability Weighting (08:52) - Overvaluing rare events while underestimating common ones.
Sunk Cost Fallacy (09:51) - Tendency to continue investing in losing propositions due to prior commitments.
Anchoring Bias (10:17) - Overvaluing the first piece of information received in decision-making.
Confirmation Bias (10:17) - Tendency to seek information that confirms existing beliefs.
Framing Effect (10:17) - How the presentation of choices influences decisions.
Overconfidence Bias (11:23) - Tendency to overestimate personal abilities and knowledge.
Hindsight Bias (11:23) - Belief that outcomes were predictable after they have occurred.
Closing Thoughts and Quotes (12:34) - Final reflections on Kahneman's insights and the importance of storytelling in persuasion.
Podcast Engagement (13:40) - Encouragement to subscribe, rate the podcast, and provide feedback.

#247 | Special Edition: How I Curate 'Books for Men' and What I Read More Broadly

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 26 May 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 In this Special Edition episode, Douglas Vigliotti unveils his book selection and curation process, sharing insights into his reading habits, the methodology behind his recommendations, and the importance of a "consumption diet" for mental health. Douglas outlines three pillars for curating his reading list, shares his reading statistics from the last five years and current "to be read" list, and encourages listener feedback and suggestions for future Special Edition episodes.

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🗣️ Listen to episode #182: Special Edition | Part 2: 10 Reasons to Read (Fiction)!

🗣️ Listen to episode #202: Special Edition: Audiobooks vs Books (Or, 7 Reasons Why Listening is Not Reading)!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the special edition episode about his book selection and curation process.
Encouragement for Listener Engagement (00:40) - He invites listeners to share questions and suggestions for improving the podcast.
Promotion of New Book (01:26) - Douglas discusses his new book, "Aristotle for Novelists," and its relevance to storytelling.
Importance of Curation (02:35) - He emphasizes the significance of being intentional about what one consumes in literature and media.
Reading Deficit Concept (02:35) - Douglas explains the idea of a perpetual reading deficit and its implications for readers.
Consumption Diet (02:35) - He introduces the concept of a "consumption diet," stressing the importance of quality input.
Intimacy of Reading (03:47) - Douglas highlights the unique intimacy of reading compared to other media forms.
Methodology Behind Recommendations (05:03) - He asserts that he only recommends books he has read in their entirety.
Curating Reading Choices (06:10) - Douglas outlines his three pillars for curating reading material: interest, adjacency, and relationships.
Interest as a Pillar of Curation (06:10) - He discusses how personal interests guide his reading choices.
Adjacent Interests (08:30) - Douglas explains how books related to his interests help expand his knowledge and understanding.
Relationships in Book Selection (09:52) - He talks about the importance of trusting recommendations from others and authors.
Statistics on Reading Habits (12:05) - Douglas shares his reading statistics for 2023 and previous years, including books read and DNFs.
Current To Be Read List (15:16) - He concludes with details about his current "to be read" list and its significance.
Closing Remarks (16:27) - Douglas encourages listener feedback and promotes his new book and social media.

#246 | What Is the Core Tension in Leo Tolstoy’s Classic Russian Novel ‘Anna Karenina’?—and Why It Matters Today for Modern Men

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 19 May 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives deep into Leo Tolstoy's timeless masterpiece, "Anna Karenina." Discover why Tolstoy stands as a giant in Russian literature as Douglas unpacks the novel's rich themes, from the fiery pursuit of passion to the comforting embrace of duty. Journey through the contrasting tales of Anna's tumultuous affair and Konstantin Levin's search for joy in family life. Douglas offers insightful reflections on the novel's complex characters and sprawling narrative style, hopefully inspiring men to explore the world of classic literature.

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🗣️ Listen to episode #141: The Godfather | Mario Puzo!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to "Anna Karenina" (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast episode and discusses the classic novel "Anna Karenina" by Leo Tolstoy.
About the Author (01:13) - An overview of Leo Tolstoy's life and literary contributions, emphasizing his influence and notable works.
Setting and Narrative Structure (02:20) - Discussion about the novel's setting in Russia and its narrative told from multiple character perspectives.
Iconic Opening Line (03:29) - Exploration of the famous opening line of "Anna Karenina" and its thematic significance regarding family dynamics.
Character Arcs: Anna and Levin (04:49) - Analysis of the two main character arcs, contrasting Anna's tragic story with Levin's comedic journey.
Tolstoy's Architectural Pride (06:01) - Tolstoy's reflections on the internal cohesion of "Anna Karenina" and the structure of the narrative.
Takeaway: Passion vs. Duty (07:22) - Discussion on the novel's message about the consequences of following passion versus the importance of duty.
Narrative Style: Omniscient Perspective (08:33) - Examination of Tolstoy's omniscient narrative style and its impact on character development and reader experience.
Character Complexity and Themes (09:46) - Insight into the unlikability of characters and the deeper themes of morality, relationships, and societal expectations.
Cohesion in Style and Theme (11:03) - Reflection on how the narrative style enhances the themes and messages Tolstoy conveys in the novel.
Length and Approachability of Epics (12:18) - Discussion on the pros and cons of lengthy novels and their accessibility to modern readers.
Conclusion and Encouragement (13:25) - Douglas concludes the episode, encouraging listeners to read "Anna Karenina" and engage with classic literature.

#245 | Are You a ‘True Believer’? Eric Hoffer’s Provocative Take on the Nature of Mass Movements—Extremism, Fanaticism, and Collective Unity

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 12 May 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores Eric Hoffer's thought-provoking nonfiction book, "The True Believer." Uncover the secrets of extremism, fanaticism, and mass movements as Douglas unravels Hoffer's life and aphoristic writing style, showcasing the book's timeless relevance and lasting influence on political thought. Discover Hoffer's intriguing insights on hope, the power of collective unity, the role of individual responsibility, and the value of a common enemy in driving mass movements.

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Podcast (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast and the book "The True Believer" by Eric Hoffer.
Background on Eric Hoffer (01:08) - Discussion on Hoffer's life, his journey as a longshoreman, and his writing career.
Overview of "The True Believer" (02:09) - Exploration of the book's themes on extremism, fanaticism, and mass movements.
Thesis of the Book (03:40) - Hoffer's argument that all mass movements share similarities despite their differences.
Controversy and Reception (05:08) - Discussion on the varied reactions to Hoffer's ideas and the book's influence in political circles.
Historical Context (06:21) - How the book relates to historical events like WWII and revolutions.
Takeaways on Hoffer's Writing Style (07:27) - Analysis of Hoffer's aphoristic and provocative writing style.
Importance of Understanding Mass Movements (08:37) - The relevance of Hoffer's insights to contemporary political dynamics.
Key Quotes from Hoffer (09:58) - Sharing impactful quotes that illustrate Hoffer's ideas on hope and mass movements.
The Role of Hatred in Mass Movements (11:20) - Discussion on Hoffer's assertion that hatred is essential for unifying mass movements.
Collective Unity vs. Individual Independence (12:36) - Exploration of Hoffer's views on loyalty within mass movements.
Conclusion and Final Thoughts (13:48) - Douglas wraps up the episode, encouraging listener engagement and promoting his new book.

#244 | Coming-of-Age Mixed with Gritty Crime Fiction—Yes, Please—And Why Foreign Novels Can Be a Breath of Fresh Air

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 5 May 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into the gripping world of Nicolas Ferraro's foreign crime novel, "My Favorite Scar." Originally published in 2021 and making its English debut in 2024, the story follows Ambar, a young girl entangled in a life of crime with her father, as she navigates trauma and personal growth. Vigliotti praises Ferraro's lean style and emphasis on the emotional journey of his protagonist, and he shares why foreign fiction can be a refreshing contrast to American fiction.

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🗣️ Listen to episode #123: The Thief | Fuminori Nakamura!

🗣️ Listen to episode #216: Fuminori Nakamura: Subtle, Dark, Complex—Maybe the Most Underrated Author in America!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast and the foreign crime novel "My Favorite Scar" by Nicolas Ferraro.
Author Background (01:13) - Discussion about Nicolas Ferraro, his literary background, and his connection to crime fiction.
Plot Overview (02:16) - Summary of the novel's plot focusing on Amber's life of crime and her father's quest for revenge.
Themes of Coming of Age (03:32) - Exploration of the coming-of-age theme and its significance in Amber's journey.
Questions of Identity and Truth (04:45) - Key questions Amber faces about her past and the cost of discovering the truth.
Thematic Depth of Trauma (06:20) - Discussion on how trauma influences personal growth and the narrative's deeper themes.
Appreciation for Foreign Crime Fiction (07:27) - Douglas shares his love for foreign crime fiction and its refreshing absence of political bias.
Literary Style and Minimalism (08:42) - Insights on the minimalistic style of foreign crime fiction compared to American counterparts.
Comparison to Other Works (10:06) - Comparison of "My Favorite Scar" to "She Ride Shotgun," emphasizing its literary focus.
Conclusion and Call to Action (11:26) - Douglas wraps up the episode, encouraging listeners to read the book and engage with the podcast.

#243 | Special Edition: 10 Random Quotes That Will Inspire You to Create Boldly

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 28 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 In this Special Edition episode, Douglas Vigliotti shares "10 Random Quotes That Will Inspire You to Create Boldly” from influential artists and writers like Leonard Bernstein, Francis Ford Coppola, and Jerry Seinfeld. Vigliotti discusses their relevance to the creative process and emphasizes embracing creativity, persistence, and authenticity. The episode aims to inspire listeners to pursue their creative passions boldly.

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🗣️ Listen to episode #183: Owning Up | George Pelecanos!

🗣️ Listen to episode #134: Is This Anything? | Jerry Seinfeld!

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to Special Edition (00:09) - Douglas introduces a special edition episode featuring ten quotes to inspire creativity.
New Book Announcement (00:40) - He mentions his new book, "Aristotle for Novelists," and invites listeners to visit the website.
Note-Taking Habit (01:19) - Douglas shares his habit of taking notes and collecting quotes from various media.
Quote 1: Steve Guttenberg (02:33) - Guttenberg discusses the ruthless nature of show business through a humorous anecdote.
Quote 2: Francis Ford Coppola (03:54) - Coppola emphasizes that not everyone will appreciate bold creativity, paired with Rubin's insights.
Quote 3: Rick Rubin (04:56) - Rubin highlights how initial dislike can lead to appreciation for groundbreaking work.
Quote 4: Leonard Bernstein (06:35) - Bernstein states that art provokes questions rather than providing answers, emphasizing artistic tension.
Quote 5: Willem Dafoe (07:55) - Dafoe remarks that the work itself is what sustains an artist, not financial rewards.
Quote 6: George Pelecanos (09:13) - Pelecanos critiques audience demands, using pornography as a metaphor for storytelling constraints.
Quote 7: David Geffen (10:42) - Geffen reflects on self-invention and the importance of dreaming big in personal reinvention.
Quote 8: Derek Sivers (11:16) - Sivers asserts that mastery is earned through hard work, unaffected by wealth or privilege.
Quote 9: Tom Wolfe (12:04) - Wolfe suggests that receiving hate is an indicator of pushing artistic boundaries.
Quote 10: Jerry Seinfeld (12:54) - Seinfeld shares advice on embracing failure in creative endeavors to maintain authenticity.
Bonus Quote: David Chase (13:09) - Chase discusses the persistence needed in the creative process before achieving success.
Conclusion and Call to Action (14:17) - Douglas wraps up the episode, encouraging subscriptions and sharing thoughts on the podcast.

#242 | ‘Letters of Note’—This Blog Turned Book Will Be One of the Coolest Additions to Your Bookshelf or Library

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 21 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti delves into the nonfiction anthology "Letters of Note: Correspondence Deserving of a Wider Audience," compiled by Sean Usher. Vigliotti highlights the anthology's significance, featuring letters from writers, artists, and historical figures like Hunter S. Thompson, Ernest Hemingway, Albert Einstein, and Queen Elizabeth. He shares his connection to the book and discusses some of his favorite quotes and passages, underscoring the value of personal letters in providing historical context.

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Book (00:09) - Douglas introduces the nonfiction anthology "Letters of Note" and its significance.
About the Compiler (01:15) - Discussion about Sean Usher, the compiler of the anthology, and his blog's popularity.
Personal Connection to the Book (02:34) - Douglas shares his reasons for picking up the book, highlighting letters from Hunter S. Thompson and Hemingway.
Genre of the Anthology (03:40) - Exploration of the anthology genre and the value of firsthand accounts in understanding history.
Notable Letters in the Book (04:57) - Overview of various interesting letters included in the anthology, featuring famous figures.
Sharing Passages and Quotes (07:09) - Douglas begins sharing impactful quotes from the letters, starting with Hunter S. Thompson.
Hemingway's Advice to Fitzgerald (08:09) - Discussion of Hemingway's letter and his thoughts on authenticity in writing.
Bukowski on Censorship (09:20) - Insight into Bukowski's views on censorship and the importance of confronting reality.
Flannery O'Connor on Fiction (10:33) - Flannery O'Connor's perspective on the interpretation of fiction and its emotional impact.
Kurt Vonnegut on Free Ideas (11:43) - Vonnegut's quote emphasizing the importance of allowing diverse ideas to circulate in society.
Steinbeck's Letter to His Son (12:50) - Steinbeck's heartfelt advice about young love and the importance of patience.
Rainer Maria Rilke's Writing Advice (12:50) - Rilke's encouragement to delve deep into one's motivations for writing.
Ronald Reagan's Marriage Advice (14:22) - Reagan's reflections on the challenges of maintaining love and attraction in a long-term relationship.
Conclusion and Call to Action (15:28) - Douglas wraps up the episode, encouraging listeners to subscribe and engage with the podcast.

#241 | What Makes 'The God of the Woods' a Must-Read Literary Mystery?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 14 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores Liz Moore's crime novel, "The God of the Woods." Vigliotti provides an overview of the book's plot, which centers on the mysterious disappearance of a young girl at a summer camp and her little brother, who disappeared years earlier. He delves into the novel’s themes of trauma, loss, entitlement, wealth, power, and family secrets, but most importantly, praises Moore's craftsmanship, highlighting her clear prose and effective use of brevity, dual timelines, and point of view.

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast and shares details about the crime fiction book "The God of the Woods."
Promotion of Personal Book (01:18) - He discusses his own book, "Aristotle for Novelists," aimed at writers and storytellers.
Author Background (02:24) - Douglas provides insights into Liz Moore's writing career and her transition from literary to crime fiction.
Plot Overview of "The God of the Woods" (03:34) - He summarizes the book's plot about a missing girl and its dual timeline structure.
Themes of the Book (04:45) - Douglas discusses the themes of trauma, family secrets, and the value of nature in the narrative.
Craftsmanship in Writing (05:56) - He highlights Liz Moore's writing style, emphasizing clarity and technical skill.
Technical Aspects of the Novel (07:13) - Douglas admires the book's structure, including multiple points of view and short scenes.
Protagonist and Central Thread (09:36) - He identifies Barbara van La as the central protagonist and discusses her significance in the story.
Meaning of the Title (10:44) - Douglas reflects on how the title "The God of the Woods" gains deeper meaning throughout the book.
Conclusion and Call to Action (11:59) - He wraps up the episode, encouraging listeners to subscribe and share their thoughts.

#240 | Pleasure to Pain: The Dark Side of Dopamine and How to Improve Your Mental Health—Break Free from Bad Habits with This 8-Step Process

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 7 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses "Dopamine Nation: Finding Balance in the Age of Indulgence" by Dr. Anna Lembke, unraveling the intricate ties between dopamine addiction, mental health, and its outsized influence on our daily lives. Vigliotti breaks down Lembke's innovative "DOPAMINE" strategy for achieving balance, beating addiction, and breaking bad habits. He shares his own journey as a recovering self-described pleasure junkie, offering tons of insights for navigating a 24/7 connected world brimming with distractions and indulgences.

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Book (00:09) - Douglas introduces the book "Dopamine Nation" and its significance in understanding addiction.
Douglas's New Book (01:23) - He briefly discusses his book "Aristotle for Novelists" and its relevance to storytelling.
About Anna Lembke (02:23) - Douglas shares background information on the author, Anna Lembke, and her previous work.
Importance of the Book (03:25) - He emphasizes the book's importance for achieving better mental health in modern society.
Personal Reflection on Addiction (04:33) - Douglas reflects on his own struggles with pleasure and the concept of false idols.
Dopamine Addiction in Society (06:06) - He discusses how modern life is filled with dopamine stimuli and its societal implications.
Insights from Anna Lembke (07:17) - Douglas shares anecdotes from Lemke's life that illustrate her experiences with addiction.
The DOPAMINE Strategy (08:27) - He outlines the acronym "DOPAMINE" as a strategy for achieving balance and understanding addiction.
Data Collection (09:45) - The first step in the DOPAMINE strategy emphasizes gathering information about one's addiction.
Setting Objectives (09:45) - Douglas explains the importance of defining goals related to abstinence or moderation.
Identifying Problems (09:45) - He discusses exploring challenges associated with addictive behaviors.
The Importance of Abstinence (09:45) - The role of abstinence in resetting the brain's dopamine levels is highlighted.
Mindfulness Practice (11:01) - Douglas stresses the need for mindfulness in recognizing triggers and cravings.
Gaining Insight (11:01) - He discusses addressing underlying issues that contribute to addictive behaviors.
Next Steps in Recovery (12:29) - Douglas emphasizes the importance of planning for coping mechanisms and relapse strategies.
Experimentation in Recovery (12:29) - He talks about testing different strategies for moderation and viewing setbacks positively.
Conclusion and Disclaimer (13:37) - Douglas wraps up the episode, reminding listeners to seek medical help for addiction.

#239 | Is ‘American Psycho’ a Better Novel or Movie? Don’t Miss the Point of This Edgy Bret Easton Ellis Satire, or Christian Bale’s Brilliant Patrick Bateman!

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 31 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti delves into Bret Easton Ellis's novel "American Psycho" and its film adaptation by Mary Harron for another edition of “Novel vs Movie”. He discusses the book's themes, controversies, and the challenges of translating its provocative narrative to the screen. Vigliotti emphasizes the importance of understanding satire and metaphor, particularly in relation to the character Patrick Bateman. The episode aims to inspire men to read, appreciate the deeper layers of literature and film, and answer the question: which is better the movie or the novel?

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to "American Psycho" (00:09) - Douglas introduces the episode's focus on "American Psycho" and its film adaptation.
Douglas's New Book Announcement (01:07) - He shares details about his book "Aristotle for Novelists" and its relevance to storytelling.
Bret Easton Ellis's Background (02:14) - Discussion of Ellis's rise to fame and his controversial novel "Less Than Zero."
Controversy Surrounding "American Psycho" (03:27) - Exploration of the novel's controversial themes and the film adaptation's reception.
Plot Overview of "American Psycho" (04:25) - Douglas summarizes the story and its central question regarding Patrick Bateman's reality.
Artistic Controversy and Adaptation (05:40) - Discussion on the artistic differences between the book and its adaptation by Mary Harron.
Themes of Satire and Metaphor (08:12) - Douglas emphasizes the importance of understanding satire in "American Psycho."
Critique of Literal Interpretations (09:52) - He warns against taking the story literally, highlighting the metaphorical nature of great art.
Art's Reflection on Society (10:56) - Discussion on how "American Psycho" addresses capitalism and its effects on society.
Preference for Film Over Novel (11:58) - Douglas reveals his preference for the movie adaptation over the novel.
Favorite Quote from the Book (13:06) - He shares a memorable quote that encapsulates the core question of the novel.
Closing Remarks and Call to Action (14:14) - Douglas encourages listeners to subscribe, rate the podcast, and engage with him online.

#238 | Go Behind the Scenes with Picasso, Hemingway, and Early 20th Century Paris in Gertrude Stein’s Unusual Autobiography from Her Partner's Eyes

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 24 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses Gertrude Stein's "The Autobiography of Alice B. Toklas,” highlighting Stein's life, her literary contributions, and the vibrant artistic community of early 20th-century Paris. Vigliotti delves into the book's unique perspective, written from Toklas's viewpoint, and its structure covering pre-war, wartime, and post-war periods. He reflects on Stein's relationship with Toklas, the book's self-referential nature, and its engaging, almost tabloid-like quality on the lives of great artists and writers like Picasso, Matisse, Hemingway, and more.

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast and the featured book, "The Autobiography of Alice B. Toklas."
Promotion of Douglas's Book (01:07) - He briefly discusses his book, "Aristotle for Novelists," and its relevance to storytelling.
About Gertrude Stein (01:50) - Douglas shares insights about Gertrude Stein and her literary contributions.
Stein's Influence and Salon (02:17) - Discussion of Stein's role as a tastemaker in early 20th-century Paris and her legendary salon gatherings.
Alice B. Toklas's Role (04:47) - Exploration of Toklas's life with Stein and her significant influence in the autobiography.
Structure of the Autobiography (07:03) - Douglas outlines the three parts of the autobiography: pre-war, wartime, and post-war.
Art and Picasso's Portrait (08:03) - He describes the iconic portrait of Stein by Picasso and the story behind it.
Takeaway on Stein's Writing Style (10:08) - Douglas reflects on the egotistical nature of Stein's writing and its self-referential qualities.
Tabloid-like Quality of the Book (11:23) - He discusses the engaging, gossip-like tone of the autobiography that appeals to readers.
Nuggets of Wisdom for Creatives (12:28) - Douglas highlights valuable advice for artists within the book, emphasizing appreciation over criticism.
Closing Remarks (13:44) - He thanks listeners, encourages subscriptions, and reminds them of his book and podcast resources.

#237 | Why ‘Last Exit to Brooklyn’ Might Be the Most Unflinching Portrait (Ever) of Lower-Class Life in Literature

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 17 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti delves into Hubert Selby Jr.'s "Last Exit to Brooklyn," a transgressive novel from 1964, discussing the book's raw portrayal of 1950s lower-class Brooklyn, its controversial themes of drug use, sexual abuse, homophobia, prostitution, and domestic violence. Vigliotti also shares his big takeaways, reflecting on Brooklyn's transformation, Selby's unique prose style, and the novel's impact on various artists. The episode underscores the power of storytelling, art more broadly, and the enduring relevance of Selby's work.

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas welcomes listeners and introduces the book "Last Exit to Brooklyn" by Hubert Selby Jr.
Overview of Hubert Selby Jr. (01:11) - Discussion about Selby's background, notable works, and his influence on literature and film.
Themes of "Last Exit to Brooklyn" (02:18) - Exploration of the book's portrayal of 1950s lower-class Brooklyn and its thematic depth.
Transgressive Fiction Elements (03:17) - Analysis of the book's graphic content and its necessity for storytelling.
Setting: Brooklyn's Transformation (05:56) - Reflection on Brooklyn's changes over 75 years and the broader concept of change.
Prose Style of Selby (07:02) - Discussion of Selby’s unconventional grammar and slang, enhancing the story's authenticity.
Artistic Impact of the Book (08:14) - The book's role in pushing artistic boundaries and inspiring future creators.
Closing Thoughts and Quote (09:21) - Douglas shares a thought-provoking quote from Selby and encourages listener engagement.

#236 | ‘Poor Charlie’s Almanack’: Life Advice Actually Worth Listening To—7 Charlie Munger Quotes and More!

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 10 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses the witty enlightening book "Poor Charlie's Almanack" by Charles T. Munger, who some consider the modern-day equivalent of Benjamin Franklin. Vigliotti highlights Munger's role as Vice Chairman of Berkshire Hathaway, his close relationship with Warren Buffett, and many of Munger's philosophies, such as inversion thinking, worldly wisdom, and the Lollapalooza effect. He shares seven notable quotes from Munger, emphasizing key ideas to help you be a more expansive thinker and a better decision-maker.

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas Vigliotti welcomes listeners and introduces "Poor Charlie's Almanac" by Charles T. Munger.
Overview of Charles T. Munger (01:18) - Discussion of Munger's life, achievements, and his role at Berkshire Hathaway.
Buffett's Foreword and Munger's Rebuttal (02:35) - Exploration of the mutual respect between Buffett and Munger through their writings.
Content of the Book (04:54) - Description of the book's structure, featuring Munger's speeches and insights.
Core Philosophies of Munger (05:55) - Introduction to Munger's pragmatism and rational thinking as central themes.
Worldly Wisdom and the Lollapalooza Effect (07:07) - Munger's concepts of broad knowledge and the impact of multiple indicators on decision-making.
Investment Evaluation Principles (08:28) - Munger's advice on assessing risk and cultivating a mindset for lifelong learning.
Simplicity and Clarity in Thought (09:39) - Munger's emphasis on the importance of simple, actionable insights over complex ideas.
Quote 1: Inversion Thinking (09:39) - Munger's advice on avoiding pitfalls by understanding what not to do.
Quote 2: Complexity of Solutions (11:08) - The danger of overconfidence in solutions without considering potential harm.
Quote 3: Patience and Decisiveness (12:32) - The balance between waiting for the right moment and taking decisive action.
Quote 4: Delivering Value (13:39) - Encouragement to create products or services that one would personally value.
Quote 5: Ideology and Critical Thinking (14:00) - Munger's warning against the pitfalls of rigid ideological thinking.
Quote 6: Compound Interest (14:59) - The significance of patience in compounding knowledge and investments.
Quote 7: Appeal to Interests (16:07) - Munger's insight on persuasion and the importance of understanding incentives.
Conclusion and Call to Action (17:02) - Vigliotti encourages listener engagement and promotes his own book.

#235 | What Can John Fante’s ‘Ask the Dust’ Teach Us About Love, Loss, and Life’s Purpose?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 3 Mar 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into the timeless allure of John Fante's 1939 classic, "Ask the Dust." He unpacks the novel's profound themes of loss, love, poverty, and the pursuit of life’s meaning, highlighting its semi-autobiographical nature, and its lasting impact on the literary cult hero Charles Bukowski and iconic screenwriter Robert Towne. Vigliotti also offers insights into Fante's career, Depression-era Los Angeles, the prose, book title, publishing history, and its lovable protagonist, the struggling writer, Arturo Bandini.

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to "Ask the Dust" (00:09) - Douglas introduces the classic novel "Ask the Dust" by John Fante, published in 1939.
Douglas's New Book Announcement (01:10) - He shares information about his book "Aristotle for Novelists," focused on storytelling principles.
Author Overview (01:30) - Douglas discusses John Fante's background and his significance in literature, particularly the Bandini Quartet.
Influence of Charles Bukowski (02:13) - He explains how Bukowski was influenced by Fante and helped revive interest in "Ask the Dust."
Publishing History (03:19) - The challenges faced by the book's initial publisher and the eventual boost from Bukowski's efforts.
Plot Summary (04:28) - Douglas summarizes the plot, focusing on protagonist Arturo Bandini's struggles and themes of love and meaning.
Character Analysis (05:51) - He discusses Bandini's character and the narrative style, emphasizing the first-person perspective.
Semi-Autobiographical Nature (07:12) - Douglas explores how Bandini serves as Fante's alter ego, paralleling Bukowski's character Henry Chinaski.
Prose Style Discussion (08:19) - He analyzes Fante's unique prose style, blending conversational and literary elements effectively.
Bittersweet Ending Insights (09:46) - Douglas highlights the novel's bittersweet ending, raising existential questions about love and meaning.
Conclusion and Call to Action (11:22) - He thanks listeners, encouraging them to subscribe and provide feedback on the podcast.

#234 | Is ’One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest’ a Better Novel or Movie? Ken Kesey vs. Milos Forman, Randle McMurphy vs. Nurse Ratched, and More!

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 24 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores the differences between Ken Kesey's "One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest" and its film adaptation by Milos Forman, as part of the "Novel vs Movie" series. Vigliotti discusses Kesey's influence on the counterculture of the 60s and the novel's themes of institutionalization, individualism, and social conformity. He highlights the unique narrative perspective of Chief Bromden in the book, adding a layer of thematic depth, and the film's uncanny performances of Jack Nicholson and Louise Fletcher, adding a layer of drama. Find out which he prefers and why!

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Overview of the podcast series and introduction to "One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest."
Background on Ken Kesey (01:17) - Discussion of Kesey's influence, his works, and connection to the counterculture movement.
Kesey's Acid Tests and CIA Involvement (02:24) - Insight into Kesey's infamous acid tests and his unwitting participation in MKUltra experiments.
Cinematic Success of the Film (03:43) - Highlighting the film's critical acclaim and awards compared to the novel's success.
Story Overview of the Novel (04:53) - Summary of the central conflict between McMurphy and Nurse Ratched in the mental institution.
Themes Explored in the Novel (06:20) - Discussion of major themes such as institutionalization, individualism, and social conformity.
Differences Between Book and Movie (07:33) - Exploration of narrative perspective differences, focusing on Chief Bromden's role in the novel.
Narrative Perspective and Its Impact (08:56) - The significance of Chief Bromden's narration and its metaphorical implications on societal issues.
Character Portrayal Differences (10:27) - Comparison of McMurphy's character in the book versus Jack Nicholson's portrayal in the film.
Machine Theme in the Book (12:50) - Discussion on how the novel better conveys the theme of the oppressive system compared to the movie.
Final Thoughts on Book vs. Movie (13:54) - Vigliotti's concluding preference for the novel over the film due to its depth and narrative layers.
Closing Remarks and Call to Action (15:01) - Encouragement for listeners to subscribe, connect on social media, and check out Vigliotti's new book.

#233 | Morning, Boys. How’s the Water?—The Life-Changing Importance of David Foster Wallace’s 2005 Commencement Speech ‘This Is Water’

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 17 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores David Foster Wallace's non-fiction work "This Is Water," originally a 2005 commencement speech at Kenyon College. Vigliotti delves into Wallace's life, his literary impact, and the speech's key themes: awareness, compassion, and the power of choice, underscoring the importance of recognizing the "totally obvious" aspects of life, being open-minded, and consciously deciding what holds meaning. In short, what does 'learning how to think' really mean? This episode is sure to leave a lasting impact.

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Intro to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas Vigliotti introduces the podcast and the book "This Is Water" by David Foster Wallace.
Author Background (01:17) - Discussion of David Foster Wallace's life, his major works, and his influence as a writer.
Commencement Speech Context (02:28) - Overview of Wallace's commencement speech at Kenyon College that inspired "This Is Water."
Key Themes of the Book (03:41) - Vigliotti explains the book's focus on awareness, compassion, and conscious living.
Takeaway One: Disregard for the Obvious (05:14) - Wallace emphasizes the importance of recognizing the obvious truths in our daily lives.
Takeaway Two: Be Less Sure of Yourself (08:58) - Discussion on the dangers of dogmatism and the need for open-mindedness.
Takeaway Three: Choosing Meaning (10:02) - Wallace encourages listeners to consciously decide what holds meaning in their lives.
Conclusion and Call to Action (12:53) - Vigliotti wraps up the episode, encouraging subscriptions and feedback for the podcast.

#232 | From the Vault: A Chat with Bob Roth, CEO of the David Lynch Foundation, on the Power of Transcendental Meditation

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 10 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 In this episode of "From the Vault", host Douglas Vigliotti reshares a conversation from his previous podcast “It’s Not What It Seems" with Bob Roth, CEO of the David Lynch Foundation and a seasoned meditation teacher. They delve into the transformative power of Transcendental Meditation (TM), discussing its benefits for personal growth and well-being, highlighting the physiological and psychological benefits of TM, providing practical advice for integrating it into daily life, and the importance of authenticity and interconnectedness in personal development. (Original air date: 3/10/19)

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*** BOB ROTH LINKS: The David Lynch Foundation, Strength in Stillness (his book), and Transcendental Meditation ***

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the episode and discusses its relevance following David Lynch's passing and Bob Roth's work.
Bob Roth's Background (01:22) - Bob Roth's credentials as a meditation teacher and his influence on celebrities are highlighted.
Personal TM Journey (02:35) - Douglas shares his evolving experience with Transcendental Meditation and his goals for 2025.
Topics of Discussion (03:52) - An overview of the key topics to be discussed, including TM's benefits and differences from other meditation types.
Douglas's New Book (04:58) - Douglas mentions his new book "Aristotle for Novelists" and encourages listeners to connect.
Conversation with Bob Roth (05:12) - Bob expresses gratitude for the opportunity to discuss meditation and its benefits.
Bob's Meditation Experience (05:47) - Bob discusses the accessibility and benefits of his book about Transcendental Meditation.
Bob's Early Life and TM Introduction (06:27) - Bob shares his background and how he became interested in meditation during a stressful time.
Founding the David Lynch Foundation (12:37) - Bob explains the motivation behind starting the foundation to bring TM to at-risk youth.
Challenges in Starting the Foundation (14:11) - Bob discusses initial challenges in learning to run a non-profit organization.
Funding and Awareness of TM (16:39) - The need to educate donors about the benefits of TM for mental health and trauma.
Insurance Companies and TM (17:22) - Bob comments on the challenges of getting insurance companies to fund preventive measures like TM.
Importance of Mental Health (19:13) - Discussion on the significance of addressing mental health issues through TM.
Consciousness-Based Education (21:24) - Bob explains the concept of consciousness-based education and its transformative effects on students.
The physiological effects of TM (23:02) - Discusses how TM provides profound rest, lowering cortisol levels significantly compared to sleep.
TM's impact on veterans (23:32) - Highlights a study showing TM's effectiveness for veterans with PTSD, outperforming standard treatments.
Benefits in education (24:42) - Explores how TM reduces teacher burnout and improves student outcomes like graduation rates and test scores.
Understanding meditation (25:10) - Introduces the concept of meditation, differentiating between various techniques and their purposes.
Types of meditation (25:47) - Describes three basic types of meditation: focused attention, open monitoring, and self-transcending.
Focused attention meditation (28:05) - Defines focused attention meditation, emphasizing the importance of clearing the mind of disruptive thoughts.
Open monitoring meditation (26:43) - Explains open monitoring meditation, which encourages observing thoughts without attachment.
Self-transcending meditation (28:57) - Discusses transcendental meditation's unique approach, allowing the mind to settle into deeper states of consciousness.
TM's simplicity and effectiveness (32:21) - Explains how TM can yield similar benefits for beginners and experienced practitioners alike.
The benefits of TM over time (33:30) - Discusses the cumulative benefits of TM practice, highlighting its long-term positive effects.
Attractiveness of TM for busy individuals (33:58) - Explores why busy people, like celebrities, find TM appealing for maintaining focus and creativity.
TM's energizing effects (39:44) - Emphasizes the importance of morning TM sessions for sustaining energy and resilience throughout the day.
TM and coffee consumption (42:51) - Advises against drinking coffee before meditation, suggesting it be consumed afterward for better results.
Food and TM (43:27) - Recommends avoiding large meals before meditation, as digestion can hinder the practice.
Alcohol and TM (43:56) - Discusses the relationship between alcohol and meditation, advocating for mindful consumption after meditating.
Comparing TM and napping (45:33) - Explains that TM provides deeper rest than napping, highlighting its superior benefits for relaxation.
The Benefits of TM Over Power Napping (46:33) - Discusses how TM reduces stress and makes power napping unnecessary.
The Importance of Meditation Depth (47:17) - Explores the value of all meditation forms, emphasizing that every practice is beneficial.
Connecting with Bob Roth (48:12) - Bob shares how to learn more about TM and connect with him.
Bob Dylan's Influence (49:33) - Bob Roth mentions Bob Dylan as a significant influence on his work.
Advice on Authenticity (50:18) - Bob Roth reflects on the importance of aligning words with actions.
A Life Motto (50:33) - Shares a Sanskrit proverb emphasizing that the world is our family.
Impactful Reading (50:59) - Bob highlights "Science of Being and Art of Living" by Maharishi as influential.
Final Thoughts on Life (51:13) - Discusses the deeper happiness within everyone that can be accessed through TM.
Meditation Beyond Religion (53:03) - Clarifies that TM is not a religion but a physiological practice for well-being.

#231 | In Honor of David Lynch: 9 Quotes from ‘Catching the Big Fish’ on Creativity, Consciousness, and Meditation

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 3 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 In the wake of David Lynch’s recent passing, Douglas Vigliotti delves into the iconic filmmaker’s nonfiction book "Catching the Big Fish,” sharing nine standout quotes on creativity, meditation, and consciousness. He reflects on Lynch's legendary career, highlighting films like "Eraserhead," "Blue Velvet," "Mulholland Drive," and the TV series and movie, "Twin Peaks,” emphasizing the visionary artist's unique perspective, creative process, and love of transcendental meditation.

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas introduces the episode and the book "Catching the Big Fish" by David Lynch.
David Lynch's Background (01:13) - Discussion of Lynch's iconic films and his impact on cinema, including "Eraserhead" and "Twin Peaks."
Lynch's Artistic Vision (02:28) - Exploration of Lynch’s unique storytelling style and its experimental elements.
Documentary Recommendation (03:54) - Vigliotti recommends "The Art Life," a documentary that delves into Lynch's creative process.
Other Works by Lynch (04:52) - Mention of Lynch's memoirs and their significance in understanding his artistic journey.
Themes of the Book (05:54) - Overview of the book's focus on meditation, creativity, and consciousness.
Transcendental Meditation (04:52) - Discussion on Lynch's advocacy for transcendental meditation and its benefits.
Creative Struggles (05:54) - Story of Lynch's challenges while creating "Eraserhead" and his feelings of inadequacy.
Philosophy of Creation (06:59) - The importance of staying true to one’s vision in creative endeavors, regardless of audience reception.
Quote One: Ideas Are Like Fish (07:16) - Lynch emphasizes the need to dive deeper for greater creative insights.
Quote Two: The Art Life (08:08) - Discussion on the sacrifices creatives make for their art.
Quote Three: Audience Perception (09:25) - Exploration of how audience interpretations differ from creator intentions.
Quote Four: The World Is As You Are (10:37) - Reflection on personal perspectives shaping individual experiences of art.
Quote Five: Audience Consideration (11:55) - Lynch's belief in prioritizing personal vision over audience expectations.
Quote Six: The Essence of Meditation (12:08) - Meditation as a means to discover one’s true self and creative identity.
Quote Seven: Living with Failure (13:08) - The importance of pursuing one’s beliefs despite the risk of failure.
Quote Eight: Therapy and Creativity (14:22) - Lynch's perspective on therapy's potential impacts on creativity.
Quote Nine: Embracing Ideas (15:25) - Advice on recognizing and valuing creative ideas while discerning between good and bad ones.
Conclusion and Call to Action (16:22) - Vigliotti encourages listeners to explore Lynch's work and subscribe to the podcast.

#230 | Is ’No Country for Old Men’ a Better Novel or Movie? Cormac McCarthy’s Masterpiece vs. The Coen Brothers Oscar-Winning Adaptation

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 27 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti introduces the new segment "Novel vs. Movie," focusing on the violent world of Cormac McCarthy's "No Country for Old Men" and its faithful film adaptation by the Coen brothers. Vigliotti discusses the strengths and differences between the novel and movie, highlighting the depth of the book, particularly through Sheriff Ed Tom Bell's monologues, and the bone-chilling antagonist, Anton Chigurh who Javier Bardem powerfully brings to life on the screen. Find out which version Vigliotti prefers and why and weigh in yourself!

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to "Novel or Film" (00:09) - Douglas introduces the new podcast segment discussing adaptations of beloved books.
Focus on "No Country for Old Men" (01:22) - Discussion of Cormac McCarthy's novel and its film adaptation by the Coen brothers.
Quote Reflection: Anton Chigurh (01:22) - Vigliotti shares a significant quote from the villain that offers an optimistic perspective on bad luck.
Cormac McCarthy's Background (03:42) - Brief overview of McCarthy's status as a prominent American novelist.
Coen Brothers' Adaptation (03:42) - Discussion on the Coen brothers' successful adaptation and its critical acclaim.
Narrative Techniques in the Novel (06:12) - Comparison of the novel's monologues with the film's storytelling approach.
Visual Medium vs. Literature (07:37) - Exploration of how novels can provide deeper character perspectives than films.
Preference for the Novel (08:47) - Vigliotti expresses his preference for the novel, calling it a perfect work.
Character Distinction in the Novel (09:57) - Highlighting the distinct characters and McCarthy's unique writing style.
Antagonist Analysis: Anton Chigurh (09:57) - Discussion of Chigurh's role as the embodiment of violence and evil in the story.
Theme of Tragedy (11:08) - Exploration of the tragic elements and themes revealed through the characters' journeys.
Ending Comparison: Novel vs. Film (12:45) - Vigliotti contrasts the endings of the novel and film, emphasizing the novel's depth.
Conclusion and Feedback Invitation (13:57) - Wrap-up of the episode and invitation for listener feedback on the adaptation.

#229 | When I Think of a ‘Thriller’ Novel This Is What I Think Of

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 20 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses the thriller novel "Tell No One” by Harlan Coben, where a doctor's world is upended by an email hinting that his murdered wife of eight years ago may still be alive. Vigliotti unpacks the suspenseful narrative, praises Coben's accessible and conversational writing style, and challenges common misconceptions about the thriller genre and genre fiction in general. Tune in to learn more about this gripping novel!

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to "Tell No One" (00:09) - Overview of the thriller novel "Tell No One" by Harlan Coben and its significance.
Book Format Differences (01:20) - Discussion on how hardcover and paperback formats affect reader perception and book attractiveness.
Promotion of New Book (02:30) - Introduction of Douglas Vigliotti's new book "Aristotle for Novelists" and related assessment tool.
Harlan Coben's Background (03:38) - Insights into Harlan Coben's success and his adaptation of novels into TV shows.
Coben's Writing Philosophy (04:50) - Coben's humorous take on reading order in his series and authors' common insecurities.
Plot Overview of "Tell No One" (06:01) - Summary of the novel's premise involving a doctor and an email from his presumed dead wife.
Characteristics of a Thriller (07:17) - Exploration of what defines a thriller and its engaging elements in Coben's work.
Writing Style Analysis (08:23) - Discussion on Coben's minimalistic and conversational prose style that enhances readability.
Misconceptions About Genre Writing (09:31) - Addressing the belief that genre books are easier to write compared to literary works.
Jason Isbell's Insight on Songwriting (10:45) - Comparison of songwriting and storytelling, emphasizing the unique skills required for each.
Coben's Writing Process (11:52) - Coben's straightforward approach to writing, focusing on productivity and output.
Closing Remarks (12:51) - Encouragement to subscribe, connect, and learn more about the podcast and Vigliotti's work.

#228 | Meth and Mayhem: How Rampant Drug Usage Influenced Hitler, Nazi Germany, and World War II

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 13 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores "Blitzed: Drugs in the Third Reich” by Norman Ohler, a history book that reads like a novel and offers a unique and fresh perspective on World War II. Discover the hidden role of cocaine, opiates, and methamphetamines in Nazi Germany and on the German military strategy, blitzkrieg, propelling the Wehrmacht’s early successes of the war. Vigliotti also shares intriguing insights into Hitler's personal drug use and its outsized influence on world history.

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to the Episode (00:09) - Douglas welcomes listeners and introduces the book "Blitzed" by Norman Ohler.
Author Background (01:15) - Discussion on Norman Ohler's works and his focus on Nazi Germany's history.
Overview of "Blitzed" (02:19) - Summary of the book's subtitle and its exploration of drug use in the Third Reich.
Drug Use in the Wehrmacht (03:29) - Insight into how methamphetamines fueled early German military successes in World War II.
Hitler's Narcissism and Drug Use (06:29) - Examination of Hitler's public persona versus his private drug use and addiction.
The Decision to Administer Drugs (09:10) - Details on Hitler's personal physician's choice to use drugs to maintain Hitler’s health.
Takeaways from the Book (10:31) - Douglas shares insights on the unique perspective provided by "Blitzed" on WWII.
Closing Remarks (11:38) - Encouragement to subscribe and connect, along with a reminder about his own book.

#227 | This Short Novel Will Change the Way You Look At the 'World'

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 6 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti takes you on a journey through Samantha Harvey's 2023 novel "Orbital," a thought-provoking piece of literary fiction and a love letter to Earth. Discover how Harvey's meditative prose beautifully captures the essence of human achievement and our cosmic connection, all from the unique vantage point of space. Vigliotti also shares key insights and quotes from the book, emphasizing the major themes of creation, unity, time, perception, triviality, and overall the nature of life.

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💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction to "Orbital" (00:09) - Douglas introduces the podcast and the book "Orbital" by Samantha Harvey.
Douglas's New Book Announcement (01:23) - He shares information about his book, "Aristotle for Novelists," and a related resource.
Author Background (02:30) - Discussion of Samantha Harvey's background and her literary achievements.
Themes of "Orbital" (03:43) - Exploration of the book's themes, particularly reflections on life and human achievement.
Feeling Small in Space (05:16) - Douglas emphasizes the meditative experience of reading about astronauts observing Earth.
Quotes on Life's Triviality (06:33) - He shares a profound quote from the book about life's significance and insignificance.
Love Letter to Earth (07:56) - Douglas reflects on how the novel changed his perspective on Earth and life.
Power of Storytelling (09:13) - He discusses the importance of storytelling in conveying complex ideas and emotions.
Strength in Brevity (09:53) - Commentary on the book's short length as a strength, enhancing its impact.
Comparison to "2001: A Space Odyssey" (10:23) - Douglas draws parallels between the book and the iconic film regarding artistic representation of space.
Experience and Connection (11:50) - Insights on the importance of shared experiences among astronauts and their families.
Final Powerful Excerpt (12:57)- Douglas reads a significant quote about Michael Collins and the nature of existence.
Closing Remarks (14:27) - He encourages listeners to subscribe and connect for more information about the podcast and his work.

#226 | 12 Great Quotes from 2024 + What to Expect in 2025

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 30 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 In this year-end episode, Douglas Vigliotti reflects on 12 notable quotes from various books throughout 2024, sharing one for each month. He announces changes to the podcast, including a new segment called "Movie or Novel?" Vigliotti discusses the nature of adaptations and emphasizes the importance of reading. The episode serves as a wrap-up for the year, offering inspiration and insights for listeners as they look forward to 2025!

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🖋 The Ernest Hemingway Quote: “Drive to the border of California, throw your book over the fence. When they throw the money back over the fence, collect the money and drive home.”

💥 TOPICS COVERED IN THE EPISODE:

Introduction and Year-End Reflection (00:09) - Douglas wishes happy holidays and reflects on the year’s support.
New Book Announcement (01:13) - Discussion of "Aristotle for Novelists" and its accompanying resources.
Expectations for 2025 (02:13) - Plans for the podcast and changes, including the absence of recap episodes.
Introduction of "Movie or Novel" Segment (03:27) - New format where Douglas compares books and their movie adaptations.
Discussion on Adaptations (04:51) - Exploration of the relationship between novels and their film adaptations.
Quotes from 2024 - January (07:11) - Quote from "American Tabloid" about the manipulation of facts.
February Quote (08:26) - Quote from "The Order of Time" emphasizing events over static objects.
March Quote (09:34) - Quote from "Owning Up" discussing the reliability of memories and history.
April Quote (10:49) - Quote from "Bird by Bird" encouraging action without overthinking.
May Quote (11:43) - Quote from "Darkness Visible" highlighting the importance of hope.
June Quote (12:21) - Quote from "Leonardo da Vinci" on the value of open-mindedness.
July Quote (13:56) - Quote from "The Year of Magical Thinking" about life’s sudden changes.
August Quote (12:21) - Quote from "The Dhammapada" focusing on the mind's impact on life.
September Quote (13:56) - Quote from "The Book of Five Rings" discussing fluidity versus fixation.
October Quote (15:03) - Quote from "True and False" about self-perception and judgment.
November Quote (15:43) - Quote from "Aristotle for Novelists" on the complexity of storytelling.
December Quote (16:09) - Quote from "The Catcher in the Rye" emphasizing the importance of actions.
Closing Remarks (17:16) - Douglas thanks listeners and encourages support for the podcast.

#225 | Tragedy or Comedy? The Life and Legacy of the Beloved Comedian Chris Farley

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 23 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses the emotional and powerful biography "The Chris Farley Show" by Tom Farley Jr and Tanner Colby, providing insights into the tragic life of the celebrated comedian and actor Chris Farley. The book explores the contradictions and complexities of Farley's persona, from his immense talent and popularity to his deep-seated insecurities and addiction struggles. This episode is a poignant exploration of the masks we all wear and the importance of vulnerability in overcoming one's weaknesses.

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#224 | ‘Reasons to Live’—Why What Isn’t There Is Just as Important as What Is

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 16 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores the powerful short story collection “Reasons to Live” by Amy Hempel, highlighting her masterful use of minimalism as a shining example of what is possible by using “less” to magnify human emotion and complexity. Her lean yet evocative prose challenges readers to uncover a deeper meaning within her stories, emphasizing what isn’t there over what is, and ultimately leaving readers to ponder what they would do when what keeps them safe and secure vanishes before their eyes.

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#223 | What’s Your Origin Story? In This Book, Successful Writers, Novelists, and Musicians Share Theirs!

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 9 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses the fun book “Write About Now” by Jonathan Small. It is a captivating collection of interview excerpts from the author’s hit podcast that reveals how successful writers overcame obstacles to launch their creative careers. Discover the universal themes that link the winding paths of literary success. If you're a writer, creative, or simply fascinated by the journeys of storytellers, this episode is a must-listen for a peek at the birth of celebrated careers.

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#222 | Does ‘The Catcher in the Rye’ Still Speak to Modern Youth? Maybe More than Ever.

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 2 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into the classic coming-of-age novel “The Catcher in the Rye” by J.D. Salinger, exploring the iconic character of Holden Caulfield and the timeless themes of phoniness, loneliness, and the desire for human connection. Discover how this 1951 literary masterpiece has captivated readers for generations and left an indelible mark on pop culture. Whether you're a longtime fan or discovering the book for the first time, this episode offers insightful analysis to help you see or revisit this poignant story in a brand new light.

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#221 | Aristotle for Novelists (Part 4 of 4)—Principles #13, #14, and the 15th Principle

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 25 Nov 2024 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 In part four, Douglas Vigliotti closes out the series by outlining the final three Principles #13, #14, and the 15th Principle from his new book, "Aristotle for Novelists: 14 Timeless Principles on the Art of Story,” an adaptation of the timeless principles from Aristotle’s esteemed “Poetics” to be used by novelists. Discover the tried-and-true principles used since antiquity to craft stories for the screen and stage—the same stories you stream and watch today!

Principle #13: Novels should contain true characters.
Principle #14: Novels can be criticized for impossibility, irrationality, contradiction, harmfulness, and artistic standards.
The 15th Principle: Novelists must write, read, and have courage.

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#220 | Aristotle for Novelists (Part 3 of 4)—Principles #9, #10, #11, and #12

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 18 Nov 2024 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 In part three, Douglas Vigliotti continues the four-part series by overviewing Principles #9, #10, #11, and #12 from his new book, "Aristotle for Novelists: 14 Timeless Principles on the Art of Story,” an adaptation of the timeless principles from Aristotle’s esteemed “Poetics” to be used by novelists. Discover the tried-and-true principles used since antiquity to craft stories for the screen and stage—the same stories you stream and watch today!

Principle #9: Novels should be logical.
Principle #10: Novels should be believable.
Principle #11: Novels should be cohesive.
Principle #12: Novels should be clear but not ordinary.

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#219 | Aristotle for Novelists (Part 2 of 4)—Principles #5, #6, #7, and #8

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 11 Nov 2024 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 In part two, Douglas Vigliotti provides an overview of Principles #5, #6, #7, and #8 from his new book, "Aristotle for Novelists: 14 Timeless Principles on the Art of Story,” an adaptation of the timeless principles from Aristotle’s esteemed “Poetics” to be used by novelists. Discover the tried-and-true principles used since antiquity to craft stories for the screen and stage—the same stories you stream and watch today!

Principle #5: Novels have a complication and resolution.
Principle #6: Novels are told through imitation of action.
Principle #7: Novels consist of plot, character, reasoning, speech, music, and spectacle.
Principle #8: Novels should contain reversals and recognitions.

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#218 | Aristotle for Novelists (Part 1 of 4)—Principles #1, #2, #3, and #4

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 4 Nov 2024 11:00:00 +0000

🎙 In part one, Douglas Vigliotti discusses the first four principles from his new book, "Aristotle for Novelists: 14 Timeless Principles on the Art of Story,” an adaptation of the timeless principles from Aristotle’s esteemed “Poetics” to be used by novelists. Discover the tried-and-true principles used since antiquity to craft stories for the screen and stage—the same stories you stream and watch today. Get a sneak peek at Principles #1, #2, #3, and #4.

Principle #1: Novels can be tragedy or comedy.
Principle #2: Novels should be consistent.
Principle #3: Novels have a beginning, middle, and end.
Principle #4: Novels have an appropriate length.

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#217 | October 2024 Recap: A Literary Classic, How to ‘Act’, and Japanese Noir

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 28 Oct 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti recaps the month of October 2024, discussing the classic literary novel "The Great Gatsby" by F. Scott Fitzgerald, the pragmatic acting guide "True and False: Heresy and Common Sense for the Actor" by David Mamet, and the literary noir novel "The Rope Artist" by Fuminori Nakamura. With quick summaries, insights, and key quotes from the episodes, this recap is a great starter episode for new listeners and readers seeking inspiration. Good books await!

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#216 | Fuminori Nakamura: Subtle, Dark, Complex—Maybe the Most Underrated Author in America

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 21 Oct 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores “The Rope Artist” by Fuminori Nakamura, an acclaimed Japanese author whose noir-tinged literary fiction delves into the dark underbelly of the human psyche. Vigliotti delves into the author's lack of appeal in the United States, distinctive minimalistic style, and powerful usage of metaphor—in this case, ropes, tethering people to their pasts and struggles. Nakamura combines the rarity of transgressive with passive, creating an entire mood on the page.

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#215 | We’re All Actors, No?—17 David Mamet Quotes That Will Make You Question Your ‘Role’ in Life

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 14 Oct 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into the pragmatic acting guide “True and False: Heresy and Common Sense for the Actor” by David Mamet, sharing 17 essential quotes and how this reference book holds profound implications for anyone seeking to live more authentically. Discover how Mamet's unorthodox and hard-edged wisdom can transform the way you approach your role in the world. Tap into your inner actor with insights into the true nature of performance, both on stage and in life, with powerful lessons on honesty, courage, and the pitfalls of success.

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#214 | What Makes 'The Great Gatsby' the Great American Novel?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 7 Oct 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses the acclaimed classic “The Great Gatsby” by F. Scott Fitzgerald, a story of the enigmatic Jay Gatsby and his pursuit of the elusive Daisy Buchanan and the American Dream. Tracing the complexities of social class, wealth, and the very essence of the American spirit, this literary masterpiece remains a timeless testament to the allure and fragility of the human condition—a cautionary tale about the power of the stories we tell ourselves and believe.

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#213 | September 2024 Recap: Novel to Film Adaptations, Ancient Japanese Literature, and a Memoir on the Meaning of Life

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 30 Sep 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti recaps the month of September 2024, discussing the emotional crime novel "Mystic River" by Dennis Lehane, the philosophical work "The Book of Five Rings" by Miyamoto Musashi, the novel and film adaptation of "Fight Club" by Chuck Palahniuk, and the memoir "When Breath Becomes Air" by Paul Kalanithi. With quick summaries, insights, and key quotes from the episodes, this recap is a great starter episode for new listeners and readers seeking inspiration. Good books await!

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#212 | The Limits of Science in Grasping the Human Condition—a Young Doctor on Facing His Own Mortality

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 23 Sep 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses the thought-provoking memoir “When Breath Becomes Air” by Paul Kalanithi, a neurosurgeon who powerfully explores the profound questions of meaning, purpose, and mortality that arise when the young doctor faces his own terminal illness. Through Kalanithi's deeply personal and eloquent writing, listeners are confronted with the existential challenges of what it means to be human in the face of life's fragility. This book is a poignant meditation on one of life's most challenging questions: what makes a life worth living?

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#211 | From Page to Screen: How ‘Fight Club’ Pushed the Boundaries of Storytelling and Why It Endures

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 16 Sep 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into the cult classic "Fight Club" by Chuck Palahniuk, a transgressive, minimalistic literary novel that inspired the now-iconic film of the same name. Discover how this story of an unnamed protagonist battling himself and societal norms became a defining work of 90s art and literature. Delve into the book's enduring themes of masculinity, mental health, loneliness, and disenchantment—all of which seem even more applicable today than when the book was originally published.

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#210 | Life Lessons from a Japanese Samurai Who Never Lost a Duel in over 60 Battles

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 9 Sep 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores the powerful wisdom of legendary samurai Miyamoto Musashi in “The Book of Five Rings," a philosophical work on combat strategy that offers profound insights applicable to life beyond the battlefield. Uncover Musashi's teachings on both the physical and mental aspects of swordsmanship and discover how his Zen-like approach to understanding one's opponents can unlock new levels of empathy in your life. Prepare to be inspired as this ancient Japanese text unveils timeless lessons on efficiency, adaptability, perspective, and the power of unlearning.

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#209 | Mystic River: Why This Dennis Lehane Classic Deserves a Spot on Your Reading List

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 2 Sep 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into the gritty, emotional world of “Mystic River” by Dennis Lehane, a Boston crime novel about friendship, loyalty, and trauma that seamlessly blends drama and mystery. Learn why the adaptation to film was so successful, and why Lehane's distinctive "crime with heart" style is a rarity in today's literary landscape. “Mystic River” is a masterclass in storytelling and a must-read for fans who enjoy thoughtful yet tragic crime fiction.

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#208 | August 2024 Recap: Stoicism, Buddhism, and a Literary Novel for the Ages

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 26 Aug 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti recaps the month of August 2024, discussing the Stoic classic "Meditations" by Marcus Aurelius, the literary novel "A Visit from the Goon Squad" by Jennifer Egan, and the foundational Buddhist text “The Dhammapada” translated by Eknath Easwaran. With quick summaries, insights, and key quotes from the episodes, this recap is a great starter for new listeners and readers seeking inspiration. Good books await!

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#207 | From Suffering to Serenity: What Is Buddhism, Really? Philosophy or Religion?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 19 Aug 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores the spiritual and philosophical work, "The Dhammapada," translated by Eknath Easwaran. He delves into the core teachings of Buddhism, including the Four Noble Truths and the Eightfold Path (aka The Dharma Wheel), offering insights into the myth of Siddhartha and the applicability of Buddhist principles for anyone. With thought-provoking quotes from Buddha, this episode provides a glimpse into the path of Dharma and the pursuit of wisdom and inner peace.

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#206 | Time’s a Goon, Right?—Jennifer Egan Explores Impermanence and the Passing of Time in Her 2011 Masterpiece

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 12 Aug 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses the Pulitzer Prize-winning novel "A Visit from the Goon Squad" by Jennifer Egan. Through 13 interconnected stories (mostly) centered around New York City and rock and roll, the book explores the themes of lost innocence, change, and impermanence. Vigliotti praises Egan's ability to weave together different voices, perspectives, and timelines, creating a compelling and emotionally resonant exploration of the passing of time.

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#205 | Exploring Stoicism: The 3 Pillars of Stoic Philosophy That Underpin Marcus Aurelius’ “Meditations”

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 5 Aug 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into the timeless wisdom of "Meditations” by Marcus Aurelius. With a focus on the core tenets of his philosophy and Stoicism, Vigliotti explores the principles of willing acceptance, unselfish action, and objective judgment in navigating life's challenges. Join him as he uncovers practical insights, philosophical gems, and key quotes that will inspire men to live with purpose and resilience.

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#204 | July 2024 Recap: Autofiction, Literary Fiction, a Bestselling Memoir, and the Case for Reading Books

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 29 Jul 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti recaps the month of July 2024, discussing the memoir "The Year of Magical Thinking" by Joan Didion, the novels "Be Brief and Tell Them Everything" by Brad Listi and “The Secret History” by Donna Tartt, and a special edition episode that delves into the debate of listening to audiobooks versus reading books. With quick summaries and key quotes from the episodes, this recap is a great starter for new listeners and readers seeking inspiration.

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#203 | The Secret History: Donna Tartt’s Gripping Debut Novel of Beauty, Deceit, and Tragedy

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 22 Jul 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti delves into the captivating world of "The Secret History" by Donna Tartt. He explores the book's mysterious and suspenseful narrative, masterful characterization, and pitch-perfect embodiment of a Greek tragedy. With insightful takeaways on the dangers of longing for elite status and the duality of beauty, this episode is a thought-provoking exploration of a literary masterpiece, challenging you to consider what your own fatal flaw might be.

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#202 | Special Edition: Audiobooks vs Books (Or, 7 Reasons Why Listening is Not Reading)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 15 Jul 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti delves into the modern debate of listening to audiobooks versus reading books. With seven compelling reasons why listening is not the same as reading, Vigliotti challenges listeners to consider the unique qualities and intimate experience that only reading books can provide. From novels to nonfiction, prepare to question your own reading habits and gain a deeper appreciation for the art of writing.

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#201 | What Can a 'Year of Magical Thinking' Do for You?—Joan Didion on Overcoming Adversity, Grief, and Loss

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 8 Jul 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti discusses the National Book Award-winning memoir “The Year of Magical Thinking” by Joan Didion. Drawing on Didion’s heartfelt story of losing her husband and daughter in the same year and her subtle yet piercing writing style, Vigliotti delves into themes of grief, loss, and the idea that stories we tell ourselves shape our perceptions, emotions, and lives, raising the importance of crafting positive narratives and embracing the complex nature of hope in the face of adversity.

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#200 | Autofiction: A Novel (Slash Memoir) on Being a Writer in a Social Media World—Parenting, Podcasting, and More

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 1 Jul 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into the book "Be Brief and Tell Them Everything" by Brad Listi. With a focus on brevity and honesty, Listi, host of the literary podcast Otherppl, explores the uncertainty of a creative life, parenting a child with disabilities, and the challenges of writers and artists living in a modern overexposed world. Join Vigliotti as he shares three key takeaways from this thought-provoking work of autofiction and some tips to help you navigate uncertainty in your life.

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#199 | June 2024 Recap: Big Month—a Pulitzer Prize Winner, Lessons From Da Vinci, and a Negotiation Expert Shares His Best Tips

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 24 Jun 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti recaps the month of June 2024, discussing the novel "Trust" by Hernan Diaz, which explores themes of wealth, power, and the distortion of truth, the biography "Leonardo da Vinci” by Walter Isaacson, highlighting 20 life lessons that can be learned from the iconic Renaissance artist, and lastly, an interview “From the Vault” of his previous podcast, with negotiation expert Herb Cohen, who shares his secrets to negotiate anything and become a better person in the process. This recap episode is a great starter for new listeners and book lovers who are short on time!

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#198 | From the Vault: ‘The World’s Best Negotiator’ Herb Cohen Reveals the Secrets to Negotiating Anything

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti, Herb Cohen) — Mon, 17 Jun 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti shares an interview “From the Vault” of his previous podcast “It’s Not What It Seems”, with negotiation expert Herb Cohen, who has advised US Presidents Jimmy Carter, Ronald Reagan, George H. Bush, and Bill Clinton. Cohen shares his insights and experiences negotiating everything from personal relationships to business deals, like mergers and acquisitions, to terrorist and hostage situations, like his instrumental involvement in resolving the Iranian hostage crisis of the 1970s. Listeners will learn his best strategies and tactics to negotiate anything effectively! (Original publish date: 9/16/18.)

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#197 | 20 Life Lessons From Leonardo da Vinci: A Complete Biography on the Iconic Renaissance Artist and Polymath

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 10 Jun 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti explores the biography “Leonardo da Vinci” by Walter Isaacson, delving into Leonardo’s art, theories, techniques, and 20 life lessons we can learn from the creative genius himself. From embracing curiosity and retaining a childlike sense of wonder to relying on experience and avoiding silos, Vigliotti shares the secrets behind Leonardo's artistic brilliance and most famous works like the “Mona Lisa”, “Vitruvian Man”, and “The Last Supper”. Join him in this inspirational episode and discover how to apply these timeless principles to your own life.

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#196 | What Lies Behind the Golden Gates of the Super-Rich?—an Exploration of the Pulitzer Prize-Winning Novel 'Trust'

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 3 Jun 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Douglas Vigliotti dives into the Pulitzer Prize-winning novel "Trust" by Hernan Diaz. With themes of wealth, marriage, and the distortion of truth, Vigliotti discusses the captivating exploration of power, influence, and the super-rich’s ability to bend reality, warp relationships, and shape history. Discover the intricate structure, unique style, and thought-provoking questions that make this novel one of Vigliotti’s favorite reads thus far in 2024 and a must-read for anyone seeking a deep literary experience.

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#195 | May 2024 Recap: Short Books, Big Impact—Identity, Mental Health, and Reading Like a Writer

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 27 May 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Host Douglas Vigliotti recaps the month of May 2024, discussing the nonfiction book "Darkness Visible: A Memoir of Madness" by William Styron, the novel "Sugar Street" by Jonathan Dee, and a special edition episode that features 5 key questions to help you read like a writer. With engaging quotes and insightful commentary, this recap episode is a great starter for new listeners and book enthusiasts seeking inspiration.

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#194 | Special Edition: The Art of Reading Like a Writer

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 20 May 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Host Douglas Vigliotti shares five key questions to help you read like a writer. From novels to memoirs, these story and writing questions will deepen your appreciation and understanding of any work fiction or nonfiction. Learn the difference between fans, critics, and writers, and discover the importance of story versus writing, a protagonist’s journey, narrative layers, point of view, tense, writing styles, and the all-important aspect of believability.

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#193 | From Despair to Hope: One Man's Journey to Mental Health, and Reducing Stigma of Depression in Men

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 13 May 2024 10:25:07 +0000

🎙 Host Douglas Vigliotti delves into the dark and powerful memoir "Darkness Visible: A Memoir of Madness" by William Styron. With raw honesty, Styron recounts his harrowing battle with major depression, shedding light on the often unseen and misunderstood nature of mental health issues. Through his gripping account, listeners gain a deeper understanding of the importance of addressing and supporting mental health awareness in ourselves and others.

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#192 | Escaping Identity: Is It Even Possible in Today's Society?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 6 May 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the sparse but scintillating novel "Sugar Street" by Jonathan Dee. As the unnamed protagonist settles in a new town, he grapples with the question of whether it is possible to truly lose one's identity in today's society. With thought-provoking insights and a focus on small stakes, this book explores themes of shame, guilt, identity, and the search for self.

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#191 | April 2024 Recap: Machiavelli, Writing Secrets, Crime Fiction, and How to Read More

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 29 Apr 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Host Douglas Vigliotti recaps the month of April 2024. He discusses the nonfiction books "The Prince" by Niccolo Machiavelli and "Bird by Bird" by Anne Lamott, as well as the novel "Every Man a Menace" by Patrick Hoffman. He also shares a special edition episode on how to read more, offering three strategies for building a reading habit. Overall, it was a diverse and engaging month of book discussions on the podcast.

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#190 | My Favorite Writing Book of All-time: Learn How to Write Truly and Overcome Perfectionism

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 22 Apr 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the inspiring yet practical writing reference book "Bird by Bird: Some Instructions on Writing and Life" by Anne Lamott, emphasizing the importance of taking small steps over time and placing truth at the center of one's work. Listeners will learn valuable writing techniques and philosophy to help them become better writers and overcome the challenges of perfectionism.

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#189 | Special Edition: How to Read More Using 3 Key Strategies

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 15 Apr 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Host Douglas Vigliotti shares his insights on how to read more and make it a habit using three key strategies. He emphasizes the importance of following your interests and only reading books that truly engage you. But with a subtle mindset shift and the three methods you’ll learn in this episode, you'll discover how easy it is to accumulate pages, build a reading habit, and explore the world of literature.

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#188 | Duplicity, Betrayal, and MDMA: Classic Noir and Crime Fiction Fans Will Love This Mystery Thriller

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 8 Apr 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Host Douglas Vigliotti dives into the edgy yet fun crime thriller "Every Man A Menace" by Patrick Hoffman. With his experience as a private investigator, Hoffman brings a realistic and unpretentious writing style to this modern take on classic noir and crime fiction, filled with shady characters, drug trafficking schemes, and a shocking ending. Join Douglas as he explores the juxtaposition of a happiness drug and the violence that underpins it.

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#187 | Unraveling Machiavelli: How to Be a Good Leader or How to Be Conniving, Cunning, and Ferocious?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 1 Apr 2024 10:00:00 +0000

🎙 Host Douglas Vigliotti dives into the enduring relevance of "The Prince" by Niccolò Machiavelli, a controversial Florentine Renaissance classic, and its complex nature as both satire and straightforward advice. Exploring the dark side of humanity and the unsavory aspects of power, influence, and persuasion, Vigliotti delves into what makes someone or something Machiavellian. Whether you agree or disagree with Machiavelli's philosophy, this episode will leave you pondering the intricate dynamics of leadership and human nature.

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March '24 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 25 Mar 2024 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti expresses gratitude to the listeners, asks for their support in spreading the word about the podcast, and recaps the episodes from March 2024. In the first episode, he focused on women reading more than men, with the host discussing the rise of women in the publishing industry and the data that supports this trend. Vigliotti also explores why this topic is not widely discussed, including fear of ostracization, a negative cultural narrative surrounding men, and not recognizing what you don’t see. He recommends listening to the Special Edition episodes for a deeper understanding of the topic—in the second one he tackles the 10 Reasons to Read (Fiction.) The final episode of the month featured Owning Up by George Pelecanos, a piece of fiction that tackles issues facing our nation’s history. Vigliotti concludes by providing information on connecting with him and accessing the monthly newsletter with these recap episodes.

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Owning Up | George Pelecanos

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 18 Mar 2024 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the work of author George Pelecanos, particularly his book Owning Up. Vigliotti praises the author’s unpretentious writing style, his focus on realism, and his ability to depict the impact of various societal issues from multiple perspectives. He also compares the work’s thematical elements to The Deuce, a TV Show that Pelecanos co-created with David Simon, which explores the passage of time and the evolution of communities. Owning Up consists of four vignettes that tackle issues such as racism, the criminal justice system, the interconnectedness of history, and near misses of life. Vigliotti concludes by sharing two quotes from the book highlighting the importance of truth and the power of written history.

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Special Edition | Part 2: 10 Reasons to Read (Fiction)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 11 Mar 2024 10:00:00 +0000

In this Special Edition episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the 10 reasons why men should read fiction. He acknowledges that the publishing industry and writers do not cater to male readers due to a lack of an economic incentive, leading to an ever-widening gap of men not reading fiction. Vigliotti introduces his value proposition theory on why most men prefer nonfiction, but insists the real value of fiction is unseen—similar to soft skills, the more important but less developed skills for many people. He believes reading fiction promotes empathy for people different from oneself, teaches how to be alone with one's thoughts, encourages critical thinking and individuality, and strengthens the imagination muscle. He also argues that the form (reading) allows for easier engagement with difficult ideas and differing opinions, something people should be doing more of, and promotes delayed gratification in a society that wires people for short-term thinking and attention, improving focus. Vigliotti concludes by urging listeners to share the episode and support the podcast's mission of inspiring more men to read.

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Special Edition | Part 1: Do Women Really Read More Than Men?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 4 Mar 2024 11:00:00 +0000

In this Special Edition episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti explores the question of whether women “really” read more than men. Vigliotti discusses the macro data and research that supports the idea that women are reading more than men, particularly in the fiction genre. He also delves into the reasons behind this trend, including but not limited to societal factors, nature versus nurture, and the rise of audiobooks. Vigliotti acknowledges the importance of diversity and inclusion in the publishing industry but raises concerns about a widening gender gap that could be unrepairable if the current trend continues. In part two, he plans to address why men are reading less, particularly fiction, and the top 10 reasons everyone should be reading fiction.

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February '24 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 26 Feb 2024 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti expresses gratitude to listeners for supporting the show and spreading the word about it. He mentions that he plans to bring back interviews later in the year and introduces the concept of "Special Edition” episodes that will focus on art, entertainment, and books. Vigliotti then provides a recap of the books featured in February 2024. The first nonfiction book discussed is The Order of Time by Carlo Rovelli, which simplifies the complex topic of time and offers philosophical musings. The second nonfiction book is Outlive by Peter Attia, which explores a proactive approach to healthcare and longevity. The one work of fiction for the month was Big Swiss by Jen Beagin, a quirky novel that delves into themes of trauma, sexuality, and accountability. Vigliotti reflects on the genre of women's fiction and its historical context. He concludes with a reminder to connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti, and provides information on how to access episode transcripts and the monthly newsletter.

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Outlive | Peter Attia, MD

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 19 Feb 2024 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book Outlive: The Science and Art of Longevity by Peter Attia, MD. Vigliotti explains that the book has gained tremendous popularity due to Attia's large following and widespread promotion, but in no way, does that lower the importance of the work itself. He describes Outlive as “required reading” for anybody serious about their health and well-being. Vigliotti clarifies that the book focuses on getting the most out of one's mind, body, and life—not becoming superhuman. He discusses Attia's philosophy of proactive healthcare, contrasting it with the reactive approach of traditional medicine, specifically in reducing the risk of the four horsemen: cardiovascular disease, cancer, neurodegenerative diseases, and metabolic disorders. Vigliotti highlights the uber-importance of exercise, sleep, and emotional and mental health in promoting longevity. He concludes by encouraging listeners to share the podcast, connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti, and visit the website for more information.

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Big Swiss | Jen Beagin

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 12 Feb 2024 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti introduces Big Swiss by Jen Beagin. He describes the book as a literary novel that falls under women's fiction, a genre that centers around female life experiences and is marketed toward female readers. Vigliotti believes the lack of a genre called “men’s fiction” is a market effect over time—as in, men don’t read fiction today. He suggests that if a genre existed using the same criteria as women’s fiction, it may encourage more men to read fiction. Vigliotti describes Big Swiss as odd, funny, and cult-like in its feel—citing that’s what he loves most about it. The story follows a disenchanted transcriptionist for a sex therapist who writes letters to her deceased mother and becomes involved with one of her employer's patients, a repressed Swiss woman who is much younger and married. The novel explores themes of trauma, sexuality, and accountability. Vigliotti also mentions the inclusion of many cultural touchpoints and a unique portrayal of a Boston accent. He encourages listeners to share the podcast and connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti or via BooksforMen.org.

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The Order of Time | Carlo Rovelli

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 5 Feb 2024 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book The Order of Time by Carlo Rovelli. Vigliotti, who admits to having failed a physics class in college, finds the book enjoyable and accessible even for those with little knowledge or interest in physics. He appreciates Rovelli's ability to simplify complex topics without oversimplifying them, making them understandable to a wider audience. Vigliotti is particularly drawn to the book's exploration of time, a subject that fascinates him personally. He praises Rovelli's writing style, which combines scientific and philosophical elements, and highlights some of the book's key insights, such as the concept of impermanence and the idea that the world is a collection of events rather than things. Vigliotti encourages listeners to read the book themselves and shares information on how to support the podcast.

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January '24 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 29 Jan 2024 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti expresses gratitude for the support of listeners and discusses the concept of Books for Men. Vigliotti explains that while the show is aimed at inspiring more men to read, it is not exclusive to men and women may also enjoy the featured books. He then provides a recap of the books featured in January 2024, which included a nonfiction book called Free Speech and Why It Matters by Andrew Doyle, and two works of fiction: American Tabloid by James Ellroy and Dead Girl Blues by Lawrence Block. Vigliotti briefly discusses the themes and messages of each book and shares some notable quotes. He concludes by inviting listeners to visit the website for more information and to sign up for the newsletter.

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Dead Girl Blues | Lawrence Block

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 22 Jan 2024 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book Dead Girl Blues by Lawrence Block. Vigliotti highlights the unconventional nature of the book and the fact that Block chose to self-publish it. He shares a quote from Block in which the author acknowledges that the book may not be commercially appealing and may put off some readers, but he believes it is one of the best things he has ever written. Vigliotti explains that the book starts with a graphic scene of rape and murder, which presents a challenge for readers to sympathize with the protagonist. He praises Block for taking on such a difficult subject matter and explores the challenges of writing a novel like this one. Vigliotti concludes by emphasizing he does not condone any acts of violence or sexual abuse against women, but he does support artists who tackle difficult subjects. Vigliotti encourages listeners to share the podcast and support the mission of inspiring more men to read.

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Free Speech and Why It Matters | Andrew Doyle

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 15 Jan 2024 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the importance of free speech and its role in society. He introduces the book Free Speech and Why It Matters by Andrew Doyle, which explores the current attack on free speech and the hypocrisy surrounding it. Vigliotti emphasizes that free speech is a foundational element of a free society and that no other liberty can exist without it. He discusses the tendency to label and dismiss people based on their opinions, which hinders understanding and prevents the evaluation of ideas on their own merit. Vigliotti also touches on the state of the arts, the impact of self-censorship, and the need for artists across sectors to maintain their freedom of expression. He concludes by urging listeners to participate in public discussion with kindness, respect, and understanding, even when they disagree with others.

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American Tabloid | James Ellroy

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 8 Jan 2024 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book American Tabloid by James Ellroy. He acknowledges that Ellroy's writing style can be challenging at times, but admires his ability to depict the world as he sees it without pandering to the reader. He believes that Ellroy accomplishes what he intends to do with his writing, even if readers may disagree with his language or style. American Tabloid explores the events leading up to the assassination of JFK, and Vigliotti expresses his belief that the government covered up the truth about the assassination. He discusses the book's theme of the undercurrent of power and dirty work that happens beneath the surface, and how the assassination of JFK was the first domino contributing to the American people's distrust of the government. Vigliotti praises Ellroy's ability to weave real-life characters and events into a fictional narrative, creating an entertaining read. He concludes by encouraging listeners to share the podcast and connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti, and provides information on how to access full transcripts and sign up for the newsletter on the website BooksforMen.org.

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December '23 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 25 Dec 2023 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti recaps the month of December 2023 and expresses his gratitude to listeners for their support throughout the year. He encourages them to rate, review, or subscribe to the podcast and to share it with family and friends during the holiday season. Vigliotti announces that there will be no new episode next week and that the episode summaries will now also be featured in the newsletter. He then provides a recap of the month’s books: Obvious in Hindsight by Bradley Tusk, a satire about a political tech consultant group's attempt to legalize flying cars; A Million Little Pieces by James Frey, a memoir/novel about the author's time in rehab; and The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle, a book about living in the present moment. Vigliotti concludes by wishing listeners a happy holiday season and new year, hints at upcoming plans for the podcast in 2024, and reminds listeners they can always connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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The Power of Now | Eckhart Tolle

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 18 Dec 2023 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle. He explains that while self-help is often dismissed, and for good reason in many cases, it is a genre that encompasses a wide range of topics and can still benefit personal growth. Vigliotti shares his own spiritual journey and how he finds solace in Eastern philosophical thought. He highlights three key concepts from The Power of Now: observing one's thoughts and emotions, detaching from time, and practicing radical acceptance. Vigliotti encourages listeners to give the book a chance to see if it resonates. He also reminds them to share the podcast with others, visit the website to sign up for the newsletter, and remember they could connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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Obvious in Hindsight | Bradley Tusk

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 11 Dec 2023 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses a new novel called Obvious in Hindsight by Bradley Tusk. The book follows the story of Lisa Lim, an underling of Nick Denevito, the owner of a political consultant group, as they try to legalize flying cars in three cities—New York, Austin, and LA. Vigliotti describes the book as reading like a piece of autofiction, a genre that blends elements of an author's autobiography with a fictional narrative, saying, “There is nobody better suited to write this story than Tusk.” He praises the book for its usage of multiple point-of-views, present-tense narration, satirical elements, and its ability to make readers question the industries and decisions that shape society. He also reminds listeners that Tusk owns an indie bookstore in NYC, P&T Knitwear, and shares a favorite quote from the book. Vigliotti encourages everyone to check out the book and support the podcast by sharing it with others, and reminding them they can always connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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A Million Little Pieces | James Frey

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 4 Dec 2023 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book A Million Little Pieces by James Frey. The book gained popularity due to an endorsement from Oprah Winfrey, but later faced controversy when it was revealed that a large portion of the story was fabricated. Vigliotti explores the questions raised by this controversy, including the relationship between books, movies, and truth. He also discusses the book's content, which focuses on Frey's six-week stint recovering from alcohol and crack addiction. Vigliotti reflects on the impact of the book and the debate over whether embellishment is necessary to convey the emotional and mental reality of addiction. He also raises questions about the blurred lines between reality and fiction in memoirs and novels. Vigliotti concludes by acknowledging the importance of support and professional help for those battling addiction and shares a quote from the book. He encourages listeners to share the podcast and connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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November '23 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 27 Nov 2023 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, Douglas Vigliotti recaps the month of November 2023, expresses gratitude to listeners for their support, and encourages them to spread the word about the podcast. He then proceeds to summarize the three books discussed in the previous month's episodes. The first book is Vigliotti's own novel, Tom Collins, which explores the theme of consumption versus creation. The second book is The Top Five Regrets of the Dying by Bronnie Ware, which delves into the regrets people have about life on their deathbeds. The third book is City of Thieves by David Benioff, a historical fiction novel set during the Nazi siege of Leningrad. The host shares his thoughts and favorite quotes from each book and encourages listeners to listen to the podcast episodes or read the books themselves. He concludes by providing information on accessing full transcripts and the monthly newsletters at BooksforMen.org and reminds listeners they can connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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City of Thieves | David Benioff

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 20 Nov 2023 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, Douglas Vigliotti discusses a novel called City of Thieves by David Benioff. Vigliotti describes the book as a historical fiction that doubles as a coming-of-age story about two young men’s quest to find a dozen eggs for a Russian colonel during the Nazi siege of Leningrad in World War II. He praises the novel for its unique, well-constructed story, cohesive and believable plot, and ability to evoke a sense of realism. Vigliotti also mentions that the book is relatively short, which he personally prefers, and highlights the strong characterization and humor in the story. He emphasizes that City of Thieves is a great example of a novel primarily for a male audience, a genre that he believes has fallen by the wayside in recent years. Vigliotti concludes by urging listeners to share the podcast and support the show, provides information on accessing full transcripts and the monthly newsletters at BooksforMen.org, and reminds listeners to connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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The Top Five Regrets of the Dying | Bronnie Ware

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 13 Nov 2023 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, Douglas Vigliotti discusses a book called The Top Five Regrets of the Dying by Bronnie Ware. The book is based on Ware's experiences as a former palliative care nurse and explores the top five regrets expressed by people on their deathbeds. Vigliotti highlights the importance of living a life true to oneself, not working too hard, expressing feelings, staying in touch with friends, and allowing oneself to be happier. He also mentions the influence of Eastern philosophy and the Law of Impermanence. The episode concludes with a call to support the podcast and connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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Tom Collins | Douglas Vigliotti

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 6 Nov 2023 10:37:42 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, Douglas Vigliotti discusses his novel, Tom Collins, which was released (almost exactly) two years ago. The book follows the story of a 30-year-old salesperson named Christian Ballantine who sleeps with an older woman, only to later discover that she is his new boss's wife. The book explores the theme of consumption versus creation and raises questions about what truly matters in life. Vigliotti reflects on his writing process and the challenges of releasing his work. He also mentions that the book is available as a free audiobook on the podcast, Slightly Crooked: Good Stories, Told Well. He emphasizes the importance of focusing on the craft of storytelling rather than external metrics and encourages listeners to share the podcast episode, visit the website for episode transcripts, and sign up for the monthly newsletter, as well as, connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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October '23 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 30 Oct 2023 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, Douglas Vigliotti expresses gratitude to listeners and encourages them to continue supporting the show. He also announced that interviews with other writers will be returning in 2024. Vigliotti then provides a summary of the books discussed in October 2023, including Chronicles by Bob Dylan, I Remember Nothing by Nora Ephron, Ham on Rye by Charles Bukowski, and Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov. He highlights the significance and themes of each book and encourages listeners to listen to the corresponding episodes for more in-depth discussions. Vigliotti concludes by reminding listeners to share the podcast, offering additional resources such as full transcripts and a monthly newsletter on the website, and reminding listeners they can connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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Lolita | Vladimir Nabokov

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 23 Oct 2023 09:13:22 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, Douglas Vigliotti discusses the (somewhat) controversial book Lolita by Vladimir Nabokov. Vigliotti acknowledges that the subject matter of the book, which involves an older man's obsession with a young girl, is disturbing and hard to read at times. However, he praises Nabokov's writing style, describing it as lyrical, beautiful, and unique. Vigliotti also explores the themes of persuasion, pedophilia, lust, taboos, and memory in the book. He encourages readers to engage with challenging and uncomfortable literature, emphasizing the importance of friction and the potential for growth and learning. Vigliotti concludes by inviting listeners to share the podcast to support the mission of inspiring more men to read and reminds listeners they can connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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I Remember Nothing | Nora Ephron

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 16 Oct 2023 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book I Remember Nothing by Nora Ephron. The book is a collection of essays and memoirs by Ephron, a prominent screenwriter known for movies like When Harry Met Sally and Sleepless in Seattle. Vigliotti praises Ephron's wit and sensibilities and describes the book as a meditation on life and death. He highlights the balance of lightness and heaviness in the essays, mentions some humorous and thought-provoking quotes from Ephron, and recommends a documentary about Ephron called Everything Is Copy. Vigliotti concludes by encouraging listeners to share the podcast to support the initiative of inspiring more men to read and reminds listeners they can connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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Ham on Rye | Charles Bukowski

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 9 Oct 2023 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book Ham on Rye by Charles Bukowski. Vigliotti acknowledges that Bukowski's work may be controversial and not for everyone, but he appreciates the honesty and truthfulness in his writing. Vigliotti also highlights Bukowski's career as a writer and his journey to success. He describes Ham on Rye as a semi-autobiographical novel that captures the protagonist's lonely childhood, adolescence, and discovery of women and alcohol during the Great Depression in Los Angeles. Vigliotti praises the simplicity and wit of Bukowski's prose and recommends reading the book. He ends the episode by sharing a quote from Bukowski about the importance of fully committing to one's endeavors, then encourages listeners to share the podcast, visit the website for more information and resources, and/or connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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Chronicles | Bob Dylan

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 2 Oct 2023 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book Chronicles: Volume One by Bob Dylan. Vigliotti highlights Dylan's influence on American music and his role as a cultural icon. He also mentions Dylan's unique writing style, his ability to blend fiction with reality, and his use of words in a captivating and thought-provoking way. Vigliotti recommends reading the book to gain insight into Dylan's journey and experiences as a musician but emphasizes the importance of timing and the cultural context in which Dylan rose to prominence. He also delves deeper into Dylan’s songwriting skills (more specifically.) Vigliotti concludes by encouraging listeners to share the podcast and rate it on various platforms and also mentions that full transcripts and a newsletter with book recommendations are available on the website BooksforMen.org.

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September '23 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 25 Sep 2023 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti gives a quick rundown of the previous month's episodes. He expresses gratitude to listeners for their support and encourages them to rate, review, and share the podcast. Vigliotti also invites listeners to connect with him on his website or Instagram @douglasvigliotti for personalized book recommendations. He then provides a recap of the books featured in the previous month, starting with Born to Run by Bruce Springsteen, an autobiography that ranks among Vigliotti's top five rock memoirs. He mentions including numerous excerpts from the book in the upcoming newsletter. The next book discussed is Once Upon a Time in Hollywood by Quentin Tarantino, a novelization of the film that intertwines fictional and real events in 1969 Hollywood. Vigliotti praises the book for its entertainment value and its commentary on the film industry. The final book highlighted is The Killing Hills by Chris Offutt, a minimalist detective novel set in a small town in Kentucky. Vigliotti appreciates the author's lean writing style and recommends reading the book to experience it for oneself. He concludes by reminding listeners to visit the podcast's website for full transcripts and to sign up for the newsletter, which includes additional book recommendations and quotes.

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The Killing Hills | Chris Offutt

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 18 Sep 2023 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the novel The Killing Hills by Chris Offutt. He mentions that the book is often marketed as a thriller, but he believes it falls more into the mystery genre. Vigliotti praises Offutt's minimalist prose style and well-crafted plot. He describes the book as a detective PI-type mystery set in a small town in Kentucky, with elements of noir and a focus on the human element of the characters. Vigliotti also highlights the author's sensibilities and the subtlety of the chapter endings. He encourages listeners to share the podcast and connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti, and provides information on accessing full transcripts and signing up for the newsletter at BooksforMen.org.

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Born to Run | Bruce Springsteen

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 11 Sep 2023 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the rock memoir genre and highlights Born to Run by Bruce Springsteen as one of the best rock autobiographies he has read. He praises Springsteen's longevity and cultural relevance, noting that he continues to release new music and put on captivating live shows. Vigliotti shares his personal experience of seeing Springsteen live for the first time and describes the authenticity and earnestness that Springsteen brings to his performances. He also mentions some key themes and influences covered in the memoir, including Springsteen's childhood, his musical influences such as Elvis, The Beatles, and Bob Dylan, and his relationship with the E Street Band. Vigliotti concludes by recommending the book to anyone who appreciates storytelling and vulnerability and reminds listeners they can connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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Once Upon a Time in Hollywood | Quentin Tarantino

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 4 Sep 2023 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses Quentin Tarantino's novelization of his film Once Upon a Time in Hollywood. Vigliotti explains that Tarantino wrote the novel because he had so much material on the lead characters that he wanted to further explore and flesh out. He also mentions that the ending of the book is different from the film. Vigliotti discusses Tarantino's filmmaking style and his impact on the crime genre, as well as the influence of directors like Martin Scorsese (among many others) on Tarantino. He briefly summarizes the plot of Once Upon a Time in Hollywood, which combines two narratives in 1969: the story of an aging country western star dealing with the changing Hollywood industry, and the story of the Tate-LaBianca murders on Cielo Drive in the Hollywood Hills. Vigliotti praises Tarantino's conversational writing style and encourages listeners to share the episode and support the podcast. He also reminds the audience that he can be reached on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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August '23 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 28 Aug 2023 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti expresses gratitude to the listeners, recaps the month of August 2023, and emphasizes that the show is not exclusive to men, despite its title. He shares his experience of being in Croatia and how traveling reminds him not to judge people, places, and things based on appearances but to embrace curiosity and let people, places, and things surprise him. Vigliotti then provides a recap of the three books featured in the month's episodes: The Paradox of Choice by Barry Schwartz, Shoe Dog by Phil Knight, and Tomorrow and Tomorrow and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zine. He briefly discusses the themes and messages of each book and encourages listeners to listen to the corresponding episodes for more information. He concludes by mentioning the website BooksforMen.org, where listeners can find full transcripts of the episodes and sign up for the newsletter, and reminds listeners they can connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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Shoe Dog | Phil Knight

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 21 Aug 2023 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the memoir Shoe Dog by Phil Knight, the creator of Nike. The book covers the period from 1962 to 1980 and tells the story of how Knight turned a small idea into a multi-million-dollar company. Vigliotti praises the book for exemplifying the American Dream and discusses the strengths and weaknesses of the American ethos. He also addressed his initial hesitancy to read celebrity memoirs but ultimately found Shoe Dog to be well-written and compelling. The book is recommended for artists, creators, entrepreneurs, and anyone interested in the backstory of Nike. Vigliotti concludes by emphasizing the importance of finding the good in difficult situations, then encourages listeners to share the podcast to support the show, and reminds listeners they can connect with him on Instagram @douglasvigliotti.

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Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow | Gabrielle Zevin

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 14 Aug 2023 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book Tomorrow, and Tomorrow, and Tomorrow by Gabrielle Zevin. He praises the book for its effortless read and immersive storytelling. The book is a love story that follows the lives of Sam and Sadie over 30 years (but not the kind of love story you think it is.) It’s about friendship and partnership. Vigliotti highlights the clever use of second-person narration and the incorporation of different point-of-view techniques in the novel. He also mentions some of the book's witty and thought-provoking quotes, particularly those related to artistry and the creative process. Vigliotti emphasizes that the book will resonate with creatives, artists, and gamers. He concludes by encouraging listeners to share the podcast and support the mission of inspiring more men to read.

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The Paradox of Choice | Barry Schwartz

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 7 Aug 2023 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book The Paradox of Choice by Barry Schwartz. He explains that the book argues that while having more choices may seem like a good thing, it can actually be detrimental to our psychological and emotional well-being. The author contends that increased choice leads to increased paralysis and decreased satisfaction. Vigliotti also reflects on the idea that understanding humanity is best served through storytelling and artistic expression. He suggests that the rise of mental health issues may be linked to the overwhelming amount of choices in society, particularly as it relates to social media and increased exposure. Vigliotti concludes by recommending the book and encourages listeners to support the podcast by sharing it with a friend or family member.

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July '23 Recap (and Happy 1-Year Anniversary!)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 31 Jul 2023 10:13:17 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti expresses gratitude to listeners and highlights the one-year anniversary of the podcast. He shares the top three most downloaded episodes, which are all book episodes, mentioning he plans to focus on more book episodes moving forward. Vigliotti discusses the intimate nature of podcasting and the global reach it provides. He then provides a brief recap of the previous month's episodes, featuring two works of fiction, Bright Lights, Big City by Jay McInerney, and The Poet by Michael Connelly, and two episodes of “From the Vault” with Annie Duke, author of Thinking in Bets and Quit. Vigliotti recommends checking out the featured books and encourages listeners to visit the website for full transcripts and to sign up for the newsletter at BooksforMen.org.

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Bright Lights, Big City | Jay McInerney

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 24 Jul 2023 10:06:58 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features Bright Lights, Big City by Jay McInerney. A literary novel about a twenty-something writer who resorts to the hedonism of 1980's Manhattan—cocaine, nightclubs, etc—to cope with his hapless life. It's told using a second-person point of view, placing you in the shoes of the unnamed protagonist. Listen for more!

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From the Vault | A Chat With Annie Duke (Part 2)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 17 Jul 2023 09:50:07 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features an edition of "From the Vault." It’s the second great chat I had on my previous pod, It's Not What It Seems, with Annie Duke, author of Thinking in Bets, How to Decide, and most recently, Quit. Listen for more! (Original publish date: 10/14/18.)

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From the Vault | A Chat With Annie Duke (Part 1)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 10 Jul 2023 10:25:44 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features an edition of "From the Vault." It’s part one of a great chat I had on my previous pod, It's Not What It Seems, with Annie Duke, author of Thinking in Bets, How to Decide, and most recently, Quit. Listen for more! (Original publish date: 8/26/18.)

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The Poet | Michael Connelly

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 3 Jul 2023 10:44:39 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features The Poet by Michael Connelly. A crime novel about a small-time reporter trying to solve the murder of his homicide detective twin brother. It turns into a secret FBI hunt for a serial killer who always leaves a line or two from Edgar Allen Poe with each of his victims. It's dark and propulsive. Listen for more!

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June '23 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 26 Jun 2023 09:51:15 +0000

This episode of Books for Men is a short recap of all the episodes from June '23. There was (1) nonfiction book, (1) work of fiction, and (1) edition of From the Vault. I also share my current vision for the podcast. Listen for more!

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The Plot | Jean Hanff Korelitz

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 19 Jun 2023 10:07:32 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features The Plot by Jean Hanff Korelitz. A psychological thriller about a sputtering mid-list novelist who embarks on a wild goose chase to discover the truth behind a plot he stole from one of his deceased MFA students. It doubles as a satire on writing and the publishing world. Listen for more!

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From the Vault | Last Time, Don't F*ck It Up

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 12 Jun 2023 10:05:52 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features another edition of “From the Vault.” It's a short essay from an Instagram series I wrote called “Pop-up Writing.” The pieces lived for only 24 hours on my Instagram story. It was fun and unbridled. This one deserved an official home. I think you’ll agree. Listen for more! (Original pub date: July 11, 2021.)

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Page Fright | Harry Bruce

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 5 Jun 2023 10:26:16 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features Page Fright by Harry Bruce. A fun read about the fetishes and foibles of famous writers. The book will remind you of the many (often conflicting) ways writers write. Where to write? When to write? What tools to use? How fast to write? Alcohol? Good luck charms? And, that’s just the tip of the iceberg. Listen for more!

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May '23 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 29 May 2023 09:52:20 +0000

This episode of Books for Men is a short recap of all the episodes from May '23. There was (1) nonfiction book, (1) work of fiction, and (1) edition of From the Vault. I also share some big updates for BooksforMen.org, like full episode transcripts, new tabs, etc. Listen for more!

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The Godfather | Mario Puzo

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 22 May 2023 09:51:12 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features The Godfather by Mario Puzo. An epic novel about a 1940s Italian crime family spearheaded by Vito Corleone. It documents the succession of the family business to his son Michael. It's an examination of power, influence, honor, family, and “making it” as an immigrant. Listen for more!

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From the Vault | A Chat With Tyler Cowen

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 15 May 2023 09:45:09 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features an edition of “From the Vault”—a segment where I share an episode from my previous podcast, It's Not What It Seems. This is a great chat I had with Tyler Cowen, author of Stubborn Attachments, The Complacent Class, Talent, and many more. Listen for more! (Original publish date: 11/11/18.)

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How to Tell a Story | Aristotle

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 8 May 2023 10:01:29 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features How to Tell a Story by Aristotle. A new translation (by Philip Freeman) of Poetics—Aristotle’s classic surviving text on the art of storytelling. Maybe the most important work ever written on the subject matter. Quite simply, what makes one story better than another story? Listen for more!

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April '23 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 1 May 2023 10:37:04 +0000

This episode of Books for Men is a short recap of all the episodes from April '23. It was a full month—(2) book episodes, (1) Bad Advice episode, and (1) From the Vault episode. All super solid. Listen for more!

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From the Vault | An Urge Worth Fighting

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 24 Apr 2023 10:45:28 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features an edition of “From the Vault”—a new segment where I share an episode from my previous podcast, It's Not What It Seems. This is an audio article that rethinks competition and offers a subtle nuance that might help you. It's equal parts challenging and inspirational. Listen for more! (Original publish date: 11/15/18. Read it here.)

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The Son | Philipp Meyer

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 17 Apr 2023 09:03:04 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features The Son by Philipp Meyer. An epic historical fiction novel about the rise of a Texas oil dynasty that spans from 1836 to the 2010s. It's a story of power, family, self-discovery, and perhaps most importantly, the brutal past that birthed America. Listen for more!

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Bad Advice | Work on Your Weakness

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 10 Apr 2023 09:41:24 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features another edition of Bad Advice which speaks to a well-trodden (oft-given) piece of advice to "work on your weakness" or “improve in areas you’re not so great.” In general, I think (most of the time) the exact opposite is probably better advice. Ooh, dicey, but hear me out. Listen for more!

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Is This Anything? | Jerry Seinfeld

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 3 Apr 2023 10:24:43 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features Is This Anything? by Jerry Seinfeld. A book that comprises the comedian's best material (self-selected) over five decades—70s, 80s, 90s, 00s, and 10s. Pretty cool. It's a love letter to the lifelong commitment to process, craft, and comedy. Listen for more!

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March '23 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Fri, 31 Mar 2023 09:28:18 +0000

This episode of Books for Men is a short recap of all the episodes from March '23. It was a fun month—we shared some great books and added a brand new segment called "From the Vault." Listen for more!

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From the Vault | A Chat With Greg McKeown

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 27 Mar 2023 09:42:21 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features an edition of “From the Vault”—a new segment where I share an episode from my previous podcast, It's Not What It Seems. This is a great chat I had with Greg McKeown, author of Essentialism, a book featured on the pod earlier this month. So much gold here. Listen for more! (Original publish date: 10/7/18.)

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Heat 2 | Michael Mann & Meg Gardiner

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 20 Mar 2023 14:26:47 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features Heat 2 by Michael Mann & Meg Gardiner. A novel sequel to one of the greatest crime movies of all time. Pretty unique. I think it's safe to say that if you like the movie, you'll like the novel. It doesn't violate the film—it deepens it. Listen for more!

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Bad Advice | Shortcuts

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 13 Mar 2023 10:14:49 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features another edition of “Bad Advice”—a new segment where I debunk advice that (I think) is given far too often. This edition speaks to all those "shortcuts" people are hawking. Do you really need it to be easier and faster? Listen for more!

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Essentialism | Greg McKeown

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 6 Mar 2023 10:53:43 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less by Greg McKeown. A book about doing less but better. What are the truly essential things in your life? Do those. Remove the rest. Full stop. (Not easy, but doable.) Listen for more!

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February '23 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 27 Feb 2023 10:09:09 +0000

This episode of Books for Men is a short recap of all the books and authors we covered in February '23. It also shares a key update on The Books for Men Newsletter. Listen for more!

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Sputnik Sweetheart | Haruki Murakami

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 20 Feb 2023 10:36:54 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features Sputnik Sweetheart by Haruki Murakami. It's about an aspiring young female writer who falls for an older woman and then mysteriously goes missing on Greek Island while on vacation with her. Line for line, nobody hits harder than Murakami. Listen for more!

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Bad Advice | College

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 13 Feb 2023 14:02:54 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features another edition of “Bad Advice”—a new segment where I debunk advice that I think is given far too often. This edition speaks to the advice that "you must go to college." Should you, though? Listen for more!

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The Laws of Human Nature | Robert Greene

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 6 Feb 2023 10:41:25 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features The Laws of Human Nature by Robert Greene. An entertaining, engaging yet well-researched tome about our innate human tendencies, and what to do about them. This is a reread, for sure. Listen for more!

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January '23 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 30 Jan 2023 10:33:22 +0000

This episode of Books for Men is a short recap of all the books and authors we covered in January '23. It also shares a little theory (I believe) about creativity. Listen for more!

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The Thief | Fuminori Nakamura

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 23 Jan 2023 10:32:04 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features The Thief by Fuminori Nakamura. It's a novel about a skilled Japanese pickpocket who must answer for a job he did years prior. Can you escape fate? Or is it inevitable? The story is bleak, subtle, and outright chilling. Listen for more!

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Scenes from My Life | Michael K. Williams

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 16 Jan 2023 10:20:46 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features Scenes from My Life by Michael K. Williams with Jon Sternfeld. It's a memoir from the actor who played some of modern TV's greatest roles—Omar Little (The Wire), Chalky White (Boardwalk Empire), and Freddy Knight (The Night Of.) It's a tragic and touching portrait of an artist's life. Listen for more!

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Bad Advice | "All you have to do..."

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 9 Jan 2023 11:10:10 +0000

This episode of Books for Men introduces “Bad Advice”—a new segment where I debunk advice that I think is given far too often. This edition speaks to the foundation of crappy advice. Listen for more!

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December '22 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Sat, 31 Dec 2022 11:19:56 +0000

This episode of Books for Men is a short recap of all the books and authors we covered in December '22. It also shares a little about the power of influences (in one's life or art.) Listen for more!

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LaBrava | Elmore Leonard

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 26 Dec 2022 11:14:37 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features LaBrava by Elmore Leonard. A crime novel set in Miami about an ex-secret service agent slash photographer-extraordinaire who falls for the starlet he loved as a kid, meanwhile, she's mixed up in a shady scheme with a rent-a-cop and a Cuban gangster. It's Leonard, a master, at his best. Listen for more!

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Conversations with Tom Petty | Paul Zollo

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 19 Dec 2022 11:03:35 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features Conversations with Tom Petty by Paul Zollo. It's a biography that feels more like an autobiography because of the form—a series of unaltered discussions with one of the greatest and most prolific songwriters of all time. Listen for more!

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The Sun Also Rises | Ernest Hemingway

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 12 Dec 2022 11:40:19 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features The Sun Also Rises by Ernest Hemingway. A classic literary novel about an impotent ex-pat journalist living in Paris who falls for a promiscuous divorcee. More importantly, Hemingway's debut changed writing forever. Listen for more!

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Hell's Angels | Hunter S. Thompson

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 5 Dec 2022 10:54:52 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features Hell's Angels: A Strange and Terrible Saga by Hunter S. Thompson. A fearless account of the author's year riding with the legendary motorcycle gang during the height of their fame. It's unapologetic, unbridled, and unmistakably Hunter. Listen for more!

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November '22 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Wed, 30 Nov 2022 10:28:44 +0000

This episode of Books for Men is a short recap of all the books and authors we covered in November '22. It also shares a little more about why I do the podcast. Listen for more!

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The Postman Always Rings Twice | James M. Cain

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 28 Nov 2022 10:44:06 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features The Postman Always Rings Twice by James M. Cain. A classic noir novel about a young drifter who falls for the discontented wife of a diner owner, and the dilemma that ensues as they fight for each other and their lives. It was (basically) the springboard for an entire genre. Listen for more!

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Man's Search for Meaning | Viktor Frankl

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 21 Nov 2022 11:14:07 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features Man's Search for Meaning by Viktor Frankl. A memoir about an Austrian psychiatrist's experience surviving Nazi death camps, as well as, his psychotherapeutic approach to living a meaningful life. Listen for more!

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Queenpin | Megan Abbott

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 14 Nov 2022 10:56:25 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features Queenpin by Megan Abbott. A noir novel about a young woman learning the ropes from (the one and only) Gloria Denton, mob luminary and hustler extraordinaire. It's every bit as good as the classic noir that it emulates. Listen for more!

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The Dip | Seth Godin

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 7 Nov 2022 10:37:00 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features The Dip by Seth Godin. A big idea book that will teach you when to quit and when to stick (with something.) It's also my most recommended book of all time. Listen for more!

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October '22 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 31 Oct 2022 09:39:20 +0000

This episode of Books for Men is a short recap of all the books and authors we covered in October '22. It also shares a little more about the intent of the show. Listen for more!

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The Stranger | Albert Camus

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 24 Oct 2022 10:02:02 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features The Stranger by Albert Camus. A classic literary novel about an ordinary man thrust into the face of absurdity—familial death, murder, and imprisonment. Listen for more!

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Life | Keith Richards

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 17 Oct 2022 09:50:01 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features Life by Keith Richards. It's an autobiography that reads more like a one-on-one conversation with the legend himself. It's one of the most entertaining books that I've ever read. Listen for more!

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The Road | Cormac McCarthy

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 10 Oct 2022 11:02:38 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features The Road by Cormac McCarthy. A post-apocalyptic novel about a boy and his father trying to survive in what remains of a burned-down America. It's painfully good—subtle yet searing. Listen for more!

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Love Me Do! | Michael Braun

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 3 Oct 2022 10:23:58 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features Love Me Do!: The Beatles Progress by Michael Braun. A biography about a historic moment in cultural history—Beatlemania. It's a behind-the-scenes look at the Beatles during their first British tour, right before they set the world on fire. Listen for more!

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September '22 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Fri, 30 Sep 2022 10:25:34 +0000

This episode of Books for Men is a short recap of all the books and authors we covered in September '22. Listen for more!

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Freedom's Child | Jax Miller

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 26 Sep 2022 09:57:10 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features Freedom's Child by Jax Miller. A thriller novel about a mother living as a protected witness who comes out of hiding (twenty years later) to save the daughter she gave up two minutes after birth. It's not for the faint of heart. Listen for more!

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Why We Sleep | Matthew Walker, PhD

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 19 Sep 2022 10:14:34 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features Why We Sleep: Unlocking the Power of Sleep and Dreams by Matthew Walker, PhD. A book that provides a full exploration of the most valuable yet (often) most overlooked aspect of living a healthy life—sleep. Quite simply, this book will help you. Listen for more!

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Blacktop Wasteland | S.A. Cosby

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 12 Sep 2022 10:11:32 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features Blacktop Wasteland by S.A. Cosby. A thriller slash noir novel set in the Deep South about a reformed family man who gets pulled back into his old ways for one last heist. Just a superbly executed story, really. Listen for more!

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The Sopranos Sessions | Alan Sepinwall & Matt Zoller Seitz

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 5 Sep 2022 10:28:03 +0000

This episode of Books for Men features The Sopranos Sessions by Alan Sepinwall & Matt Zoller Seitz. A book that breaks down the greatest TV show of all-time—episode by episode. What? You don't agree? Oh, please. Listen for more!

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August '22 Recap

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Wed, 31 Aug 2022 10:33:48 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti provides a recap of the books featured in the first month of the show, August 2022. The month included three fiction books and two non-fiction books, covering a range of genres and topics. Vigliotti emphasizes the importance of "The Interest Principle," which encourages readers to pursue books that they are genuinely interested in. He also announces the upcoming release of The Books for Men Newsletter, which will feature a round-up of every episode with full book and author information, as well as quotes from each book. It will be available to subscribers on the website and aims to inspire more men to read. Vigliotti encourages listeners to share the podcast and the initiative with others.

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Night Prayers | Santiago Gamboa

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 29 Aug 2022 10:17:41 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book Night Prayers by Santiago Gamboa. The story spans from Bogota to Bangkok to Tokyo covering everything from drug trafficking to high-end escorting, following two siblings, Manuel and Juana, with Manuel searching for his missing sister. The book explores themes such as differing viewpoints, growing up in another country, and sticking up for one's beliefs. Vigliotti also mentions the inclusion of crime elements and resolution in the story, emphasizing the importance of considering the length of a book and adjusting expectations when reading literary fiction. He concludes by encouraging listeners to support the podcast and share it with others.

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Skin in the Game | Nassim Nicholas Taleb

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 22 Aug 2022 10:01:18 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the book Skin in the Game by Nassim Nicholas Taleb. He explains that the book falls into the genre of big idea books and discusses the two types of big idea books: those grounded in research and data, and those grounded in case studies and anecdotes. Vigliotti argues that a balance of both is important for a book to be entertaining and practical, then praises Taleb for his fearlessness in sharing his opinions and perspectives, describing Skin in the Game as a book that explores the concept that having a personal investment in a situation leads to a different perspective and behavior. Vigliotti also mentions other books in Taleb's "Incerto" series but recommends starting with Skin in the Game for its practical value. The episode concludes with a call to support the podcast and spread the initiative of inspiring more men to read.

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Lush Life | Richard Price

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 15 Aug 2022 10:08:06 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the novel Lush Life by Richard Price. Vigliotti describes it as a police procedural set in the lower East side of Manhattan but also emphasizes that it is more than just a crime novel. He praises the writing style of Price, noting that it moves at a rapid pace. Vigliotti also highlights the book's multi-perspective approach, which provides a comprehensive view of the murder and the socio-economic issues of inner-city life. He believes that this novel is one of the best he has ever read and encourages listeners to read it as well. He also delves into the importance of reading a variety of books, not just the latest and most popular ones. The episode concludes with a reminder to share the podcast with others and visit the website for more information.

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The Tiger | John Vaillant

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 8 Aug 2022 10:28:45 +0000

In this episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti discusses the non-fiction book The Tiger by John Vaillant. The book is a narrative non-fiction about a man investigating a murder that was caused by a killer tiger attack in the Primorye region of Russia. Vigliotti praises the book for its superb journalism and the extensive research done by the author, as well as its ability to provide suspense and entertainment. He highlights the interesting aspects of the book, such as learning about tigers and the history of the region. Vigliotti also mentions a chilling section in the book where a man recounts his experience of being attacked by a tiger. He concludes by encouraging listeners to continue supporting the podcast and visit the website for more information.

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Miles from Nowhere | Nami Mun

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 1 Aug 2022 10:40:08 +0000

In the first official episode of the Books for Men podcast, host Douglas Vigliotti introduces the purpose of the show, which is to inspire more men to read and bring together male readers. He discusses his decision to feature the novel Miles From Nowhere by Nami Mun as the first book on the podcast. Vigliotti acknowledges that the protagonist of the novel, a teenage Korean girl navigating the streets of New York City in the 1980s, may be challenging for male readers to relate to. However, he emphasizes that the point of reading is to step into the shoes of characters different from oneself and gain new perspectives. He describes Miles From Nowhere as a gritty, raw, and impactful novel that offers a snapshot of reality. Vigliotti addresses potential concerns about the book being incomplete and explains that the story is character-driven rather than plot-driven. Vigliotti also discusses the tactile nature of physical books and recommends reading Miles From Nowhere in paperback format. He praises the author, Nami Mun, for her sensibilities and lean, powerful prose. Vigliotti concludes by reminding listeners to subscribe to the podcast and share it with others who enjoy reading. As a bonus, he shares two passages from Miles From Nowhere that highlight the themes of hope and grief in the novel.

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Welcome to Books for Men

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 25 Jul 2022 13:42:56 +0000

In this trailer episode of the Books for Men podcast, Douglas Vigliotti introduces his new show and explains his passion for inspiring more men to read. He discusses how reading can provide insight into a person's interests and values, and expresses his sadness that many of his male friends do not read. Vigliotti emphasizes that his show is not a review show, but rather a platform to share books that he enjoys and believes others should read. He addresses concerns about the show being exclusionary or having a social agenda, stating that his only goal is to inspire more men to read. Vigliotti acknowledges that fewer men are reading fiction and expresses concern about the widening gap in male-to-female readership. He believes that reading builds empathy and a more well-rounded society. Vigliotti also highlights the importance of reading books for nuance and long-form thinking, as opposed to relying on articles or social media for information. He shares that the podcast will feature one book per week, with a short monologue about each book, and promises variation in genres and topics. Vigliotti encourages listeners to subscribe to the podcast or sign up for the Books for Men Newsletter to stay updated on book recommendations and potential author interviews. He concludes by inviting both men and women to support the show and join the cause of inspiring more men to read.

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Entry #50: When One Door Closes...

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Tue, 19 Jul 2022 13:41:29 +0000

Entry #50 announces a pivot in direction for the podcast. It will have a new name, branding, etc. This journal slash diary has been fun. It's not goodbye, just so long (for two weeks) until the transition to the new show is complete. You'll hear from me again in the first week of August!

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Entry #49: 4 Things I Just Watched

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Tue, 12 Jul 2022 10:02:49 +0000

Entry #49 shares four things I watched over the last week—The Revenant, Seven, No Country for Old Men, and What's in a Name? Of course, it documents some of my thoughts on each. Artists mentioned in the entry include Leonardo DiCaprio, Alejandro Innaritu, Javier Bardem, Tommy Lee Jones, Cormac McCarthy, George Carlin, Lenny Bruce, and Dave Chapelle.

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Entry #48: How to Learn (Anything)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Wed, 6 Jul 2022 13:55:22 +0000

Entry #48 answers a listener's question and documents my process of learning how to write better stories. If you zoom out, then you can use the approach to learn anything. It's all backboned by what I like to call "The Interest Principle."

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Entry #47: Transition is okay, right?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Sun, 3 Jul 2022 12:50:46 +0000

Entry #47 builds off the previous entry and shares the current "state of me." A state of transition, really. What's next? I don't know, but I'm okay with that. In the meantime, I'll sell medical devices and work on being a better writer and storyteller.

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Entry #46: Things I've Tested (Since 2016)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Tue, 28 Jun 2022 11:55:01 +0000

Entry #46 was fun to do. It builds off the previous entry and documents many of the things I've tested and trialed since 2016. All leading me to now, of course. Maybe in the next entry, I'll share more about what now looks like and (potentially) what the future holds for me.

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Entry #45: Do you do this today? (You should.)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Fri, 24 Jun 2022 10:38:49 +0000

Entry #45 builds off the last entry and documents an important life tactic—testing. I share something that I'm currently testing in my life. In general, I'm a big advocate for implementing testing (or trialing) periods in your life. The benefits are endless, really.

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Entry #44: Quit, Pivot, Switch It Up

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Wed, 15 Jun 2022 10:10:56 +0000

Entry #44 documents how I've been recently reminded about the importance of pivoting ... and quitting. Sometimes, most times, actually, it's necessary. It also shares one of my favorite books The Dip by Seth Godin.

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Entry #43: What I'd Tell Your Kids

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Sat, 11 Jun 2022 10:30:50 +0000

Entry #43 documents two pieces of advice that I'd give your kids (if they asked for it.) Sadly, I learned both of these things the hard way. The entry also mentions NextGen, an NYC-based group that I've been working with for the last four years; doing mentoring for its members.

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Entry #42: Why You're Stuck

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Wed, 8 Jun 2022 12:46:58 +0000

Entry #42 documents a piece of advice that I recently gave to a friend (who has been a bit stuck in his life.) It's something I often think about so I thought it was worth sharing with you. Take a listen. Let me know what you think.

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Entry #41: What about supplements?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Sat, 4 Jun 2022 12:24:11 +0000

Entry #41 answers a listener's question and shares the supplements I currently take in 2022. It couples well with entry #37 where I documented some of my larger health changes. It's important to remember that a supplement is just that, a supplement. They're intended to supplement your diet, workout, and/or lifestyle (not replace it.)

*Disclaimer: I am not a physician or doctor, so please consult with your healthcare provider before using anything I mention in the entry. This is just meant to be documentation of the supplements that I take and that work for me (right now.)

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Entry #40: Learning from Kanye West

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Tue, 31 May 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Entry #40 doubles down on the previous entry and provides a concrete example from the life of Kanye West. Other creators mentioned in this entry are Andy Warhol, Amy Winehouse, Val Kilmer, and Soleil Moon Frye. (Her documentary is called "Kid 90." It escaped me during the recording!)

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Entry #39: Are setbacks really a bad thing?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Thu, 26 May 2022 11:33:25 +0000

Entry #39 documents my thoughts on setbacks, and shares a better way to look at them in one's life. This entry also mentions an article I wrote back in 2019 titled The Accident: Reflections, Lessons, and Details. (If you'd like to read it, click the link.)

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Entry #38: Strength or weakness?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Sun, 22 May 2022 15:40:20 +0000

Entry #38 documents how I am currently thinking about strengths and weaknesses. Spoiler: I think we should just dispense with that labeling altogether. Find out why in the entry.

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Entry #37: Should you make these changes, too?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Thu, 19 May 2022 11:53:56 +0000

Entry #37 documents a couple of changes that I've made for 2022. These adjustments have provided me with increased clarity, more energy, and just a new day-to-day outlook. So I'm excited to share them with you and (even more so) continue to double down on them in my life.

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Entry #36: Is it worth it?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Sun, 15 May 2022 14:57:00 +0000

Entry #36 documents my thoughts on a bunch of stuff I consumed this week. Not by intention, but the entry seems to get at an essential question ... Is "it" worth it? Artists mentioned include Ariel Posen, Ryan Adams, Paul Thomas Anderson, and Stephen King. Oh, and my column and Spotify playlist Lyrics I Love—go check that out if you like good music!

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Entry #35: Where's the payoff?!

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Fri, 6 May 2022 17:33:09 +0000

Entry #35 shares two things I watched recently that didn't land as well as they could have—The Batman and Tokyo Vice. Each for a different reason, though. Take a listen. Maybe you disagree.

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Entry #34: Three Books I Just Read

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Thu, 5 May 2022 10:38:04 +0000

Entry #34 shares three books I just finished reading—two novels and an essay book. The books are authored by Fuminori Nakamura, Patrick Hoffman, and David Mamet. It also shares a great Mamet insight for storytellers. Oh, and I almost forgot it mentions an article I wrote back in 2019 titled A Modern-Day Dating Problem. (Lol, I know.)

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Entry #33: Why are some people so magnetic?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Sun, 1 May 2022 13:03:40 +0000

Entry #33 documents the very strange phenomenon of magnetic people. It starts the discussion around energy transfer between two people and/or within a group of people. Abstract? A bit, but it feels too real to ignore.

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Entry #32: It's All About the Angle

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Fri, 22 Apr 2022 12:05:17 +0000

Entry #32 documents the difference between "subject matter" and "angle of attack." If you don't have a great subject, then create one. After that, it's all about the angle at which you attack the subject. That's what makes artists (and everyone) unique. Some people can see the angle and some people can't, lol. There are two creators mentioned in this entry—Michelle Obama and Todd Snider.

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Entry #31: Don't Think Like This

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 18 Apr 2022 15:01:07 +0000

Entry #31 documents three types of thinking that I try to avoid. I don't always succeed, but I try. I guess that means I think you should try to avoid them, too.

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Entry #30: Most Important Entry Yet

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Wed, 13 Apr 2022 11:56:06 +0000

Entry #30 pivots out of the reflections countdown and explains why. It also shares probably one of the strongest forces that move through my life today. And it's a sentiment that I want to pass along. Maybe you already feel the same way. I hope so.

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Entry #29: Reflection No. 7

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Thu, 7 Apr 2022 10:33:51 +0000

Entry #29 shares reflection number seven from my Paris-to-Barcelona trip. How short is too short to visit an international city alone? And, fear not because we are amazingly adaptable as a species.

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Entry #28: Reflection No. 8

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Tue, 5 Apr 2022 20:18:44 +0000

Entry #28 shares reflection number eight from my Paris-to-Barcelona trip. It's about the power of walking a city. Oh, and the observation that Paris and Barcelona are totally different cities. Maybe you agree. Take a listen.

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Entry #27: Reflection No. 9

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Sun, 3 Apr 2022 17:55:15 +0000

Entry #27 shares reflection number nine from my Paris-to-Barcelona trip. It's really about having to step back and/or slow down to make sense of things. Maybe you agree. Take a listen.

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Entry #26: Reflection No. 10

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Fri, 1 Apr 2022 13:49:30 +0000

Entry #26 starts counting down ten reflections I have about my Paris-to-Barcelona trip. I call this one "discomfort as a rule." Maybe you agree. Take a listen.

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Entry #25: Jale!

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Fri, 25 Mar 2022 09:27:31 +0000

Entry #25 comes to you from Barcelona where I've been sightseeing the last two days. Some people and places mentioned in the episode are Renfe-SNCF high-speed train, Flamenco Palau Dalmases (hence the entry title), Museu Picasso, El Born, Moco Museum, Park Guell, La Sagrada Familia, Las Ramblas, Pablo Picasso, Jean-Michel Basquiat, Andy Warhol, and Banksy. Oh right, and I talk about US Covid protocol for traveling. (Sorry, it's on my mind!)

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Entry #24: Nothing Beats It

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Tue, 22 Mar 2022 08:38:49 +0000

Entry #24 documents some of my Paris explorations. You can also hear me butcher French, lol. Some places and people mentioned are Musee L'Orangerie, Louvre, Shakespeare & Company, Closerie des Lilas, Monet, Cezanne, Renoir, Matisse, Picasso, Ernest Hemingway, Scott Fitzgerald, Julius Cesar, and Jim Morrison. As much as I included, I missed a lot in this recap, but it doesn't matter. In the end, no matter where I am, nothing beats the simplicity of early morning...nothing.

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Entry #23: Like a Movie

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Sun, 20 Mar 2022 08:44:47 +0000

Entry #23 is sent from Paris with love. It feels like a movie set. Oh, and excuse the poor audio quality. I kinda like it, though. I don't know, don't ask, just listen! (Boost up the volume, lol.)

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Entry #22: The Escape-Reality Spectrum

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Fri, 18 Mar 2022 20:07:07 +0000

Entry #22 documents an interesting way to look at movies, shows, and books. Some art allows you to escape life, while other art brings you closer to it. In fact, I think most art is designed to do one or another. So, which do you prefer?

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Entry #21: What is self-editing?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Wed, 16 Mar 2022 21:06:05 +0000

Entry #21 builds off entry #20 and briefly covers how I like to self-edit. I was moving fast, so I didn't cover everything. C'mon, gimme a break! Just consider this a good starter to what I feel is important to self-editing. If you're a writer, it's a skill you def need—eventually.

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Entry #20: What about grammer? (Wink, wink)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Tue, 15 Mar 2022 10:53:22 +0000

Entry #20 answers a listener question about writing—what about grammar? In short, it matters. But probably not as much as you think it does. You need enough to prove you're not an idiot, but not so much that it prevents your voice (see entry #16) from getting on the page. (Oh, and I was kinda hoping "grammatist" wasn't a word. It is—damn it.)

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Entry #19: Things I'm Bad At

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Sat, 12 Mar 2022 15:41:11 +0000

Entry #19 documents three things that I'm currently pretty bad at. In some ways, these things probably hinder me. Actually, at times, I know they do—aargh!

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Entry #18: Like a Chef

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Wed, 9 Mar 2022 10:36:16 +0000

Entry #18 reminds you that anything documented on It's Not What It Seems is not meant to be advice. It's just my current thoughts, quirks, and ways of doing things. For other creators, your own taste will reign supreme. Just like a chef.

This entry also mentions an idea known as "The Taste Gap" by Ira Glass.

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Entry #17: Writing vs. Storytelling

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 7 Mar 2022 13:23:17 +0000

Entry #17 documents a way I like to think about books—genre, literary, memoir, or whatever really. For writers, this is just a simple strategy to evaluate stories on a bit of a deeper level. (Use at your own risk, lol.)

As mentioned in the entry, here is the link to my Lyrics I Love column and the ongoing Spotify playlist.

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Entry #16: What is voice?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Sat, 5 Mar 2022 12:48:58 +0000

Entry #16 documents the two main components of that infamous thing known as "writer's voice." Daunting? Maybe, but the hard part isn't finding it. The hard part is listening to it. Other people mentioned in this entry include Chuck Klosterman and Tyler Cowen (who was a guest on this podcast back in 2019—great episode btw, go check it out.)

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Entry #15: A Writer's Dilemma

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Fri, 4 Mar 2022 11:22:57 +0000

Entry #15 shares a small dilemma that writers face when they're crafting something. Or at least I do, and I'd imagine most creators across most artistic disciplines face the same challenge. It really comes down to one question—how clear should I actually make this thing?

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Entry #14: Hearts Out to Ukraine

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Sun, 27 Feb 2022 12:42:30 +0000

Entry #14 takes a timeout to send thoughts and prayers to all the Ukrainian people as they fight for their freedom. Like many of us, this evolving and extremely sad situation has been on my mind a lot over the past week.

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Entry #13: What about the kids?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Thu, 24 Feb 2022 11:51:34 +0000

Entry #13 pivots to share what I feel is our biggest problem (as a society) as we move forward. Not democrats or republicans. Not crypto or China, or your jerk neighbor. I will get back to more creative-centric topics but this is deeply embedded into how I think about the world so it was worth documenting.

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Entry #12: Dispelling a Myth

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Sun, 20 Feb 2022 15:51:59 +0000

Entry #12 addresses a common myth about creative work—speed hinders quality. Does it? Some artists mentioned in the entry are Miles Davis, Shakespeare, and Stephen King.

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Entry #11: On That Note

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Thu, 17 Feb 2022 21:31:20 +0000

Entry #11 reconsiders the closing line from Entry #10. Are all great writers actually rewriters? Or, is there a case for not rewriting? Some artists that are mentioned in this entry are Hunter Thompson, Charles Bukowski, Ernest Hemingway, and Neil Young.

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Entry #10: Tip for Writers

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Mon, 14 Feb 2022 11:45:48 +0000

Entry #10 shares a quick tip for my fellow writers, which is more just a reminder. But a worthy one! It uses the book Page Fright by Harry Bruce as the jumping-off point. (Fun book and highly recommend it.)

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Entry #9: Impressive? (Maybe)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Sat, 12 Feb 2022 13:19:26 +0000

Entry #9 introduces a theory that I call "the impressiveness differential." Eek. Some might find it sad, others inspiring, nonetheless, I'll own it. I also share a little about one of my creative heroes Tom Petty. I'm surprised it took me this long. I did forget to mention the most impressive thing about him—consistency over time. Oh well. I hope you enjoy this one.

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Entry #8: Something I Do

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Thu, 10 Feb 2022 14:20:18 +0000

Entry #8 shares something I've been writing and curating for over two years now. If you like good music, then my column Lyrics I Love and Spotify playlist (that accompanies it) are made for you.

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Entry #7: Should I quit drinking?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Tue, 8 Feb 2022 13:46:07 +0000

Entry #7 raises a question that I've been thinking a lot about lately. In a way, as evident by my annual dry January, it's been looming for much longer than I probably convey in this entry. With that being said, I'm sure this topic will be a repeat visitor as I continue to hash out my thoughts on how, why, and when I consume alcohol.

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Entry #6: Intention is Everything

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Fri, 4 Feb 2022 09:03:36 +0000

Entry #6 documents another one of my core beliefs (both personally and creatively.) It also shares a couple of quotes from the great playwright, David Mamet. I will probably revisit this idea in the future because I have more to add and I could say it a little better. With that said, I think you'll get my intention—wink, wink.

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Entry #5: Less is More

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Tue, 1 Feb 2022 12:19:26 +0000

Entry #5 introduces one of my core beliefs (both personally and creatively.) More importantly, I share why I believe it's so important.

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Entry #4: Similar or different?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Sat, 29 Jan 2022 20:56:00 +0000

Entry #4 piggybacks off the previous entry and offers an alternative question to ask when evaluating creative work—whether it be your own or someone else's. It also shares a great quote from the legendary filmmaker, Brian De Palma.

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Entry #3: What are reviews?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Fri, 28 Jan 2022 11:25:02 +0000

Entry #3 sheds light on what I think reviews (and opinions) actually are opposed to what we traditionally think of them as. Will you agree? Maybe. Take a listen, find out.

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Entry #2: Why

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Tue, 25 Jan 2022 20:51:45 +0000

Entry #2 answers a listener question—why are you doing the audio-diary format? (Great question.)

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Entry #1: Welcome Back

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Douglas Vigliotti) — Sun, 23 Jan 2022 14:00:37 +0000

Entry #1 is the trailer for the new version of It's Not What It Seems. It briefly covers what you can expect moving forward with the podcast—an unpolished examination of life, art, and creativity in 2-3 minute audio entries.

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#44 - All Things Come to an End

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 25 Aug 2019 09:00:00 +0000

This will be the final episode of It’s Not What It Seems. Thank you so much for listening and your ongoing support. It was a ton of fun and an honor to do the show. As the great Dr. Seuss once said, “Don’t cry because it’s over, smile because it happened.”

As for me, I will just be placing a larger focus on my writing––adding two new columns to the blog, working on some longform projects, and doing some collaboration work. Plus, I’m working on a new book. So I truly hope this isn’t the end for you and I. The easiest way to stay in touch and see all the new stuff that’s coming is to join my reading list at DVReadingList.com.

#43 - David JP Fisher: How to Not Suck at Networking

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 18 Aug 2019 08:30:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have a down to earth conversation with David JP Fisher. D. Fish is the author of Networking in the 21st Century on LinkedIn. *See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/43-davidjpfisher

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#42 - Book of the Month: Range (July '19)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 28 Jul 2019 08:30:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, my brother Darron and I discuss July 2019’s book of the month, Range by David Epstein. *See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/42-range

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#41 - Loretta Breuning: On Taming Your Anxiety

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 14 Jul 2019 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have a great conversation with Loretta Breuning. Loretta is the author of Tame Your Anxiety: Rewiring Your Brain for Happiness. *See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/41-lorettabreuning

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#40 - Book of the Month: Stumbling on Happiness (Jun '19)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 30 Jun 2019 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, my brother Darron and I discuss June 2019’s book of the month, Stumbling on Happiness by Daniel Gilbert. *See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/40-botmhappiness

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#39 - John Crowley: A Conversation About Selling

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 16 Jun 2019 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have a great conversation with John Crowley. John is the author of Knuckle Dragging Sales: A Primitive Process to Make More Money.

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#38 - Douglas Vigliotti: Interview on The Gap (Part II)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 9 Jun 2019 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, my brother Darron interviews me about my new book, The Gap: The Little Space Between What You Know and Don’t Know. This is part two of a two-part interview. Listen to Part I of this interview: https://douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/30-douglasvigliotti *See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/38-douglasvigliotti **Join my private reading list at douglasvigliotti.com/readinglist

#37 - Book of the Month: Just Kids (May '19)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 26 May 2019 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, my brother Darron and I discuss May 2019’s book of the month, Just Kids by Patti Smith. *See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/37-justkids

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#36 - Daniel Pink: On Why Timing Is Everything

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 19 May 2019 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an interesting conversation with Daniel Pink. Dan is the author of When: The Scientific Secrets of Perfect Timing.

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#35 - Why I Do What I Do

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 12 May 2019 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I share an audio article titled, Why I Do What I Do: A Manifesto. I wrote this article to help you understand my sole intention behind why I write my books and articles (and do this show.) You can follow it word for word at douglasvigliotti.com/blog/whyIdowhatIdo. *See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/35-whyIdowhatIdo**Join my private reading list at douglasvigliotti.com/readinglist

#34 - Book of the Month: The Case Against Education (April '19)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 28 Apr 2019 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, my brother Darron and I discuss April 2019’s book of the month, The Case Against Education: Why the Education System Is a Waste of Time and Money by Bryan Caplan. *See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/34-thecaseagainsteducation

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#33 - don Jose Ruiz: On Living Better Through Storytelling

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 21 Apr 2019 09:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an inspirational conversation with don Jose Ruiz. Jose is the author of The Wisdom of the Shamans: What the Ancient Masters Can Teach Us about Love and Life. *See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/33-donjoseruiz

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#32 - The Problem With Star Wars

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 14 Apr 2019 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I share an audio articled titled, The Problem With Star Wars. I wrote this article to help you learn how to detach from your ideas, beliefs, and opinions in the moment. You can follow it word for word at https://douglasvigliotti.com/blog/the-problem-with-starwars. *See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/32-problemwithstarwars

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#31 - Book of the Month: Barking Up the Wrong Tree (Mar '19)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 31 Mar 2019 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, my brother Darron and I discuss March 2019’s book of the month, Barking Up the Wrong Tree: The Surprising Science Behind Why Everything You Know About Success Is (Mostly) Wrong by Eric Barker. *See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/31-barkingupthewrongtree

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#30 - Douglas Vigliotti: Interview on The Gap (Part I)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 24 Mar 2019 10:00:00 +0000

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#29 - One Bad Habit You Can't Run From

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 17 Mar 2019 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I share an audio article titled, One Bad Habit You Can’t Run From. I wrote this article to help you confront and conquer a bad habit that affects almost everyone, almost all the time. You can follow it word for word at douglasvigliotti.com/blog/one-bad-habit-you-cant-run-from.

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#28 - Bob Roth: The Power of Transcendental Meditation

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 10 Mar 2019 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have a really important conversation with Bob Roth. Bob is the author of Strength in Stillness: The Power of Transcendental Meditation.

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#27 - Book of the Month: Factfulness (Feb '19)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 24 Feb 2019 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, my brother Darron and I discuss February 2019’s book of the month, Factfulness: 10 Reasons We’re Wrong About the World–and Why Things Are Better Than You Think by Hans Rosling, Ola Rosling, & Anna Rosling Ronnlund.

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#26 - An Urge Worth Fighting

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 17 Feb 2019 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I share an audio article titled, An Urge Worth Fighting. I wrote this article to help you think differently competition. There’s a subtle nuance that is likely affecting your life. You can follow it word for word at douglasvigliotti.com/blog/urgeworthfighting.

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#25 - Chip Conley: The Case for Rewiring Not Retiring

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 10 Feb 2019 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have a fun conversation with Chip Conley. Chip is the author of Wisdom @ Work: The Making of a Modern Elder.

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#24 - Book of the Month: 21 Lessons for the 21st Century (Jan ‘19)

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 27 Jan 2019 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, my brother Darron and I discuss January 2019’s book of the month, 21 Lessons for the 21st Century by Yuval Noah Harari.

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#23 - Jay Acunzo: Why Context Matters More Than Anything

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 20 Jan 2019 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an entertaining conversation with Jay Acunzo. Jay is the author of Break the Wheel: Question Best Practices, Hone Your Intuition and Do Your Best Work.

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#22 - Walt Disney, Apple, and Nintendo Are All Liars

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 13 Jan 2019 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I share an audio article titled, Walt Disney, Apple, and Nintendo Are All Liars. I wrote this article to help you think differently about our noisy world. You can follow it word for word at douglasvigliotti.com/blog/lemming-myth.

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#21 - Rapid Fire Recap of 2018

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 23 Dec 2018 11:00:00 +0000

In this special episode of It’s Not What It Seems, I wrap up 2018 with a highlight reel of this year’s guests. Specifically, I’m sharing the rapid-fire section at the end of each episode where guests answer the same three or four questions.

One piece of advice they wish they’d never hear again
One quote or motto they live their lives by
One book that’s impacted their thinking
One thing they want to tell the world “It’s Not What It Seems”

These questions brought so much gold. I think you’ll find some inspiration to take with you into 2019.

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Steve Sims (4:50)
Loretta Breuning (6:57)
Annie Duke (9:15)
Mark Goulston (13:21)
Herb Cohen (16:40)
Ryan Serhant (19:18)
Greg Mckeown (21:40)
Annie Duke (23:11)
Don Miguel Ruiz Jr. (29:25)
Bradley Tusk (32:57)
Tyler Cowen (38:19)
Jay Baer (43:23)
Martin Gurri (47:20)
Joe Sweeney (50:26)
Seth Godin (53:28)

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/21-rapidfirerecap2018

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#20 - Seth Godin: This Isn’t Marketing, It’s So Much More

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 16 Dec 2018 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an enlightening conversation with the one and only, Seth Godin. Seth is the author of This is Marketing: You Can't Be Seen Until You Learn to See.

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#19 - Joe Sweeney: On Improving Education and Making Better Decisions

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 9 Dec 2018 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an educational conversation with Joe Sweeney. Joe is the Executive Director of How I Decide, the foundation dedicated to bringing decision skills and critical thinking to youth education.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/19-joesweeney

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#18 - Martin Gurri: How New Media Has Changed Public Opinion

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 2 Dec 2018 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an interesting conversation with Martin Gurri. Martin is the author ofThe Revolt of The Public and the Crisis of Authority in the New Millennium.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/18-martingurri

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#17 - The Hope Model

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 25 Nov 2018 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I share an audio article titled, The Hope Model. I wrote this article to show you a 3-step process that could change your life. You can follow it word for word at douglasvigliotti.com/blog/the-hope-model.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/17-thehopemodel

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#16 - Jay Baer: A Better Way to Get People Talking About You

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 18 Nov 2018 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an awesome conversation with Jay Baer. Jay is the author of Talk Triggers: The Complete Guide to Creating Customers with Word of Mouth.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/16-jaybaer

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#15 - Tyler Cowen: On How to Improve Society and Change the World

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 11 Nov 2018 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an eye-opening conversation with Tyler Cowen. Tyler is the author of Stubborn Attachments: A Vision for a Society of Free, Prosperous, and Responsible Individuals.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/15-tylercowen

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#14 - Bradley Tusk: The Truth About Politics and Politicians

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 4 Nov 2018 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an entertaining conversation with Bradley Tusk. Bradley is the author ofThe Fixer: My Adventures Saving Startups from Death by Politics.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/14-bradleytusk

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#13 - 5 Ways to Embrace the Unknown

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 28 Oct 2018 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I share an audio article titled, 5 Ways to Embrace the Unknown. I wrote this article to help you handle uncertainty in your life. You can follow it word for word at douglasvigliotti.com/blog/5-ways-to-embrace-the-unknown.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/13-embracetheunknown

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#12 - don Miguel Ruiz Jr: An Ancient Philosophy for Modern Times

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 21 Oct 2018 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have a spiritual conversation with don Miguel Ruiz Jr. Miguel is the author of don Miguel Ruiz’s Little Book of Wisdom: The Essential Teachings.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/12-donmiguelruizjr

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#11 - Annie Duke: On Making Decisions Under Pressure & Battling Stereotypes

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 14 Oct 2018 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have a wide-ranging conversation with my first repeat guest, Annie Duke. Annie and I had so much fun during our first conversation (Episode #4) we decided to do it all over again.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/11-annieduke

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#10 - Greg Mckeown: How to Discover Who You're Meant to Be

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 7 Oct 2018 10:00:00 +0000

In today’s episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an essential conversation with Greg Mckeown. Greg is the author of Essentialism: The Disciplined Pursuit of Less.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/10-gregmckeown

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#9 - 12 Breadcrumbs That Might Help You Find Your Way

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 30 Sep 2018 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I share an audio article titled, 12 Breadcrumbs That Might Help You Find Your Way. I wrote this article to show you twelve things I do every single day. You can follow it word for word at douglasvigliotti.com/blog/12-breadcrumbs-find-your-way.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/12-breadcrumbs

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#8 - Ryan Serhant: Sales Secrets of a Real Estate Mogul

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 23 Sep 2018 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have an entertaining conversation with Ryan Serhant. Ryan is the author of Sell It Like Serhant: How to Sell More, Earn More, and Become the Ultimate Sales Machine.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/8-ryanserhant

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#7 - Herb Cohen: The World's Best Negotiator

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 16 Sep 2018 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have a great conversation with Herb Cohen. Herb is the author of You Can Negotiate Anything!

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/7-herbcohen

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#6 - Mark Goulston: Dealing with the Impossible People in Your Life

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 9 Sep 2018 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It's Not What It Seems podcast, I have a compassionate conversation with Mark Goulston, MD. Mark is the author of Talking to Crazy: How to Deal with the Irrational and Impossible People in Your Life.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/6-markgoulston

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#5 - The Most Important Question You're NOT Asking

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 2 Sep 2018 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I share an audio article titled, The Most Important Question You're NOT Asking. I wrote this article to unveil the key question that's going to help you sell more of whatever you're selling. You can follow it word for word at douglasvigliotti.com/blog/the-most-important-question-youre-not-asking.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/5-questionyourenotasking

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#4 - Annie Duke: Life Lessons, Poker Stories, & Decision Strategies

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 26 Aug 2018 13:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have a fun conversation with Annie Duke. Annie is the author of Thinking in Bets: Making Smarter Decisions When You Don’t Have All the Facts.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/4-annieduke

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#3 - Loretta Breuning: Rewiring Your Brain for Happiness

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Sun, 19 Aug 2018 13:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have a joyful conversation with Loretta Graziano Breuning, Ph.D. Loretta is the author of Habits of a Happy Brain: Retrain Your Brain to Boost Your Serotonin, Dopamine, Oxytocin, and Endorphin Levels.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/3-lorettabreuning

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#2 - Steve Sims: The Modern Day Wizard of Oz

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Tue, 14 Aug 2018 13:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I have a down-to-earth conversation with Steve Sims. Steve is the author of Bluefishing: The Art of Making Things Happen.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/2-stevesims

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#1 - The Outcome Fallacy

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Mon, 13 Aug 2018 13:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the, It’s Not What It Seems podcast, I share an audio article titled, The Outcome Fallacy. I wrote this article to help you think differently about the outcomes in your life. You can follow it word for word at douglasvigliotti.com/blog/theoutcomefallacy.

*See show notes at douglasvigliotti.com/podcast/1-theoutcomefallacy

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Trailer: What is It's Not What It Seems?

doug.vigliotti@gmail.com (Doug Vigliotti) — Mon, 6 Aug 2018 19:44:45 +0000

Introducing the new podcast from bestselling author and sales strategist Doug Vigliotti. It will inspire you to be more open-minded. In this show, you'll hear discussions with creatives, professionals, and entrepreneurs about their work, ideas, and processes. You'll also get monthly audio-articles to maybe, possibly, hopefully, help you think differently. Think audiobook, but significantly shorter. And anything else that could help you be more open-minded.

If you have any questions about the podcast, please visit us at http://douglasvigliotti.com/podcast

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