Bad Marriage 4 Life Podcast

We Called Off the Wedding (Temporarily). This Is Why

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Sun, 22 Jun 2025 23:00:00 +0000

In the kickoff episode of Season 2 of Bad Marriage 4 Life, hosts Jenny and Vic delve into the tumultuous year that delayed their return to the podcast. Newly married, they reflect on their engagement, wedding planning, and the considerable personal hardships they faced, including their daughter's battle with addiction and a close friend's cancer diagnosis. The couple also recounts the chaos and lessons learned from their engagement party, setting the stage for a candid and heartfelt season ahead.

00:00 Welcome to Season Two!

00:53 The Engagement Journey

01:20 Wedding Planning Woes

03:24 Family Struggles and Support

13:17 The Engagement Party

18:19 The Engagement Party Dilemma

18:41 The Cost of Attendance

19:06 Gift Expectations and Etiquette

21:33 The Speech Controversy

24:51 Post-Party Reflections

33:19 Lessons Learned and Moving Forward

34:20 What's Next

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Who Started It? The Never-Ending Mystery of Couple Fights (We Both Lose!)

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Jenny Boom Boom, Vic Davis) — Thu, 4 Apr 2024 07:00:00 +0000

Jenny and Vic, who have been together for over 20 years and share five children, openly discuss a recent loud argument they had, reflecting on the recurring nature of their fights despite the longevity of their relationship. They consider their progress in handling disputes, including the use of a therapist-recommended 'password' to take breaks during heated moments, which they admit to forgetting in the heat of the moment. The discussion delves into the impact of their arguments on their children, the importance of setting a good example, and the emotional aftermath of such disputes. Vic and Jenny also touch on insecurities and fears of separation, while humorously navigating through their differences and shared moments. The conversations highlight the complexities of long-term relationships, the challenge of communication, and the ongoing effort to improve and understand each other better, all within the tapestry of family life and love. 00:00 The Aftermath of a Heated Argument 00:15 Reflecting on Relationship Dynamics and Arguments 01:40 The Impact of Arguments on Children 02:35 The Struggle with Communication and Resolution 08:02 Revisiting the Argument: Who Started It? 09:08 Post-Argument Actions and Reassurances 09:52 Dealing with Trust and Infidelity Concerns 12:10 Maturity and Moving Forward 12:53 Opening Up About Personal Struggles 13:02 The Aftermath of a Heated Argument 13:51 Finding Humor in Neighborly Observations 14:59 The Reality of Couple Fights and Communication 15:54 A Public Argument and Its Consequences 20:24 Reflecting on Respect and Communication in Relationships 23:04 The Importance of Shielding Children from Arguments 24:25 Understanding Emotional Needs and Communication in Relationships----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Depression, Debt & The Weight of Expectations

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Jenny Boom Boom, Vic Davis) — Thu, 28 Mar 2024 07:00:00 +0000

Jenny and Vic discuss their spontaneous intimate moments, Jenny's depression despite life's successes, and the challenges of balancing career pressures with family life. They delve into the disparities in handling emotional support within their relationship, with Vic providing unwavering support despite Jenny's admission of likely failing to reciprocate in difficult times. They also touch upon the struggle with financial pressures, particularly student loans, and the existential crisis of aging without feeling accomplished. The conversation shifts towards the importance of finding happiness within, despite external stresses, with Vic highlighting his gratitude for life given his rough upbringing. They conclude with plans for overcoming Jenny's depression, including walks and a surprise trip Vic has been wanting, underlining the continuous effort to find joy and satisfaction in their long-standing relationship. 00:00 Welcome to Bad Marriage for Life 00:14 A Spontaneous Encounter 01:02 Navigating Depression and Support in a Relationship 04:04 The Struggle with Financial Dreams and Realities 06:23 Reflecting on Success, Family, and the Desire for Wealth 08:55 Facing the Reality of Aging and Seeking Happiness 16:40 Finding Joy in the Small Things and Planning for the Future 20:08 Closing Thoughts and Future Plans----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Couples Therapy: Navigating Financial Differences & Compromises in Marriage

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Jenny Boom Boom, Vic Davis) — Thu, 7 Mar 2024 08:00:00 +0000

Jenny and Vic discuss the challenges and insights from their ongoing couples therapy sessions. Vic surprises Jenny in therapy by expressing concern over Jenny's handling of a situation with one of their children, leading to a broader discussion on accommodation and financial planning within their relationship. Jenny questions how much she should compromise for the relationship's success, especially regarding financial decisions and their impact on personal happiness. They delve into their differing attitudes towards money, with Vic prioritizing financial stability over luxurious spending due to his financially strained upbringing. The episode highlights their journey to understand each other's perspectives better, the importance of budgeting for a healthy relationship, and the challenges of balancing personal desires with joint financial responsibilities. The conversation also ventures into topics like marriage, compromising for happiness, and the peculiarities of planning vacations and dealing with the psychological aspects of spending. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Start 00:17 Discussing Therapy and Relationship Dynamics 01:38 Financial Responsibilities and Relationship Compromises 03:44 Planning a Family Trip and Financial Disagreements 06:17 Exploring Personal Spending Habits and Financial Management 08:39 Contemplating Relationship Compromises and Financial Independence 11:46 Reflecting on Personal Desires and Relationship Expectations 14:38 Discussing Marriage and Financial Expectations 16:07 Gratitude for What We Have 16:33 Growing Up Without a Male Role Model 17:22 Building a Family and a Comfortable Life 18:03 Counting Blessings and Future Plans 18:35 Love for Work and Compromises 19:13 Living Life to the Fullest 20:22 Financial Stress and Desire for More Experiences 23:52 Polyamory and Compromises in Marriage 27:39 Bad Marriage for Life Podcast and Giveaway----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Fear of Abandonment

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Thu, 29 Feb 2024 08:00:00 +0000

In the 31st episode of 'Bad Marriage 4 Life', the co-hosts, Vic and Jenny discuss the theme of the fear of abandonment and its impact on their relationship. Jenny opens up about her personal fear of being alone and how it has played into her decision-making process in relationships and influenced how she deals with friendships. Vic shares his differing perspective on being alone. They reflect on their past experiences and why they decided to stay together after turbulent times, attributing their ultimate decision, in part, to their fear of being alone. They also touch on their upcoming marriage and the societal misconceptions and expectations that come with it. 00:00 Introduction and Role Reversal 00:26 Discussing Fear of Abandonment 01:57 Reflections on Past Relationships 03:16 Confronting Past Mistakes and Fears 07:48 Understanding Each Other's Perspectives 10:21 The Impact of Past Decisions on Present Relationships 12:23 Learning from Therapy and Personal Growth 14:47 Regrets and Reflections on Parenthood 15:42 Looking Forward: Engagement and Future Plans 21:36 Dealing with Assumptions and Judgements 21:59 The Annoyance of Unwanted Commentary 22:22 The Misconceptions of Late Marriage 23:22 The Journey of a Long-Term Relationship 24:03 The Misunderstandings of a Large Family 25:21 The Misinterpretation of Honesty in Marriage 26:11 The Importance of Timing in Relationships 26:52 The Etiquette of Responding to Engagement News 30:18 The Unwanted Advances in a Couples Resort 31:54 Closing Remarks and Upcoming Contest Announcement----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Unveiling the Dark Side of Alcohol in Relationships

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Thu, 22 Feb 2024 08:00:00 +0000

Jenny and Vic delve into the detrimental effects of alcohol on relationships, drawing from their own experiences. They open up about recent arguments exacerbated by heavy drinking and discuss Jenny's symbolic act of removing her wedding ring during rough patches. Both hosts reflect on how excessive alcohol consumption has led to verbal abuse, health issues, and strained social interactions. Vic shares personal anecdotes highlighting the negative consequences of drinking, including violence and weight gain. Despite the challenges, Jenny commits to six days of sobriety in an effort to improve their relationship. The episode also touches on the difficulties of serious conversations amidst alcohol use, the truth serum effect, and the unpleasant experiences of drunk sex. Reflecting on their past drinking habits, the hosts acknowledge the need for change and express hope for a healthier future together. 00:00 Introduction and Hosts' Banter 00:10 The Issue of Yelling and Arguments 00:36 The Symbolism of the Missing Ring 00:51 The Night Out and Drinking Habits 02:38 The Aftermath and Verbal Abuse 02:58 Family History of Alcoholism 03:17 The Consequences of Drinking 04:06 The Drinking Process and Its Effects 04:35 The Double Standards in Jokes 09:47 The Issue of Addiction 10:38 The Impact of Drinking on Relationship 12:48 The Struggle with Serious Conversations 14:44 Committing to Sobriety 15:11 Reflecting on Drinking Habits 16:24 The Struggles of Drinking and Calculating Tips 16:48 Pledging to Stay Sober for Six Days 16:58 The Consequences of Drinking: Violence and Weight Gain 17:14 Recalling Past Drinking Experiences 17:44 Body Positivity and Self-Love 18:11 The Worries of Blackouts 18:34 The Aftermath of a Night Out 18:53 The Truth Serum Effect of Alcohol 22:19 The Ugly Side of Drunk Sex 24:12 A Birthday Night to Forget 28:15 Closing Remarks and Future Plans----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Parenting and Therapy

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Thu, 8 Feb 2024 08:00:00 +0000

In episode 29 of 'Bad Marriage 4 Life,' hosts Jenny and Vic offer engaging insights into their family life and discuss their ongoing journey through couples therapy. They introduce each of their children: youngest son Max who is navigating teenage life and gaming addictions, Sasha who is pursuing a modeling career in New York City, Summer - an environmental science graduate considering law school, Olivia who has overcome addiction and is making strides in her recovery, and Tom with whom Vic is currently estranged but hopes to reconnect. Jenny and Vic express their hope that through therapy, they can become better parents with improved communication skills. The episode also hints at the launch of the 'Bad Marriage for Life Mix Tape Volume two' on Valentine's Day. 00:01 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:07 Discussing Our Children 01:46 Concerns About Screen Addiction 04:24 Updates on Our Children's Lives 09:36 The Impact of Therapy on Our Lives 13:53 Promoting Our YouTube Channel and Mixtape----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Our Biggest Relationship Struggles

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Jenny Boom Boom, Vic Davis) — Thu, 1 Feb 2024 08:00:00 +0000

Jenny and Vic go deep into their marital matters. They start discussing their recent tensions, focusing on Vic's delay in addressing household chores, specifically the situation of their cable bill. Their conversation covers the complexities and frustrations of changing cable packages, as well as Vic's approach to problem-solving, which aggravates Jenny. This leads to a general discussion on how men and women handle household issues differently. They also focus on their sex lives, the challenges they face in maintaining intimacy, and the changes their sex life has gone through over time. Rather than just highlighting their differences, they also toss around potential solutions and ways to improve their relationship. 00:00 Introduction and Episode Start 00:42 The Cable Bill Dilemma 01:59 The Unfulfilled Promises 02:07 The Art of Imitation 02:50 The Cable App Conundrum 05:13 The Importance of Downtime 05:56 The Meeting Culture 06:21 The Decline of Intimacy 08:17 The Joy of Dry Humping 08:33 The Dream of a Homeless Shelter 10:41 The Need for Better Communication 13:30 Conclusion and Episode End----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Retirement, Lifestyle Choices, and Growing Old Together

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Jenny Boom Boom, Vic Davis) — Thu, 25 Jan 2024 08:00:00 +0000

Bad Marriage 4 Life - S2, E27: Retirement, Lifestyle Choices, and Growing Old Together In this episode of 'Bad Marriage 4Life', couple Jenny and Vic discuss their daily lives, including their dog's issues and their reactions to them. They also discuss Vic's sickness and Jenny's efforts to comfort him, which leads them to consider their roles as caretakers for each other. They express concerns about getting older and being reliant on each other in their old age, with Vic suggesting they hire a live-in nurse instead. They bring up their different life experiences and how they've shaped their perspectives. Jenny speaks about speaking at a high school and educating teenagers about career choices and college, emphasizing the importance of doing something you love. They reflect on the reality of people retiring after spending their whole lives working, leading Jenny to express her desire to have fun in their old age. Vic agrees, suggesting a traveling lifestyle. Finally, they touch upon their future plans of retiring and joke about who will take care of who. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome 00:19 The Challenges of Pet Ownership 03:08 The Struggles of Dealing with Illness 05:31 Reflections on Caregiving and Relationships 10:54 Planning for the Future and Retirement 16:20 The Importance of Enjoying Life 29:30 Conclusion and Farewell----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Therapy, Tequila & Timeouts: Bad Marriage 4 Life is BACK!

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Thu, 18 Jan 2024 08:00:00 +0000

Jenny and Vic return for Season 2 of the Bad Marriage 4 Life podcast. They discuss their holiday season break, revealing that they spent most of it fighting but found a therapist to help them. The therapist provided techniques to handle their arguments effectively, including a secret word or phrase that signals a break for an hour. The conversation takes a humorous turn as they discuss Jenny's drinking habits and the therapist's comments on it. They also share a funny incident during Jenny's birthday weekend where Vic falls asleep in various public places due to excessive drinking. Despite the challenges, they express gratitude for the therapist's guidance and the positive impact it has had on their relationship. The episode concludes with an announcement of Season 2 exploring various relationships, including interviews with other couples and individuals. 00:00 Introduction and Welcome Back 00:21 Finding a Therapist and Learning to Fight Effectively 00:45 The Struggles of Continuous Arguments 01:10 The Lighter Side: Cartoon Comparisons and Age Discussions 01:45 The Importance of Therapy and Techniques Learned 04:37 Addressing Drinking Habits and Its Impact 07:25 The Birthday Weekend Getaway 14:11 The Casino Night: A Tale of Overindulgence 20:48 Reflections and Looking Forward to Season 2----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Holiday Battles, Financial Strains & Engagement Expectations

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Thu, 23 Nov 2023 05:00:00 +0000

Bad Marriage 4 Life: Episode 25 - Holiday Battles, Financial Strains & Engagement Expectations In this episode of 'Bad Marriage 4 Life', hosts Jenny and Vic dive into their struggles and disagreements around the holiday season. They discuss their unique perspectives on spending, holiday experiences, familial stress, and the frequent confrontations these issues incite. The couple also discuss their treacherous holiday season fights and how their engagement has affected their relationship dynamics. Additionally, Vic goes into a deeper discussion about his newly dropped mixtape. 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Overview 00:21 Discussing Relationship Struggles During Holidays 01:33 The Thanksgiving Cooking Drama 05:45 The Christmas Gift Dilemma 06:26 Reflecting on Childhood Christmas Experiences 09:17 Expectations and Realities of Gift Giving 13:11 Holiday Fights and Money Matters 13:42 Balancing Wants and Needs 14:01 The Importance of Experiences 15:03 The Value of Time Together 16:58 The Struggles of Engagement 18:08 The Reality of Arguments 18:51 The Power of Communication 23:04 The Impact of Past Experiences 25:40 The Future of Their Relationship 26:47 Closing Remarks and Announcements----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Oral Sex, Bedroom Tactics, and Breaking Up

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Jenny Boom Boom, Vic Davis) — Thu, 16 Nov 2023 08:00:00 +0000

Episode 24 - Bad Marriage 4 Life

In this episode of Bad Marriage 4 Life, hosts Jenny and Vic discuss a candid conversation Jenny had with some women at a bar. They share their thoughts on oral sex, their own experiences, and how they navigate their relationship.

00:01 Introduction

00:10 A Conversational Revelation

01:14 The Club Story

01:45 Jenny's Confession

03:07 Vic's Perspective

04:10 The Greater Good

05:07 Jenny's Insecurities

11:25 Accepting Each Other

13:17 A Loving Conclusion

14:26 Closing Remarks

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Navigating Sickness, Possessiveness, and Personal Growth in our Relationship

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Jenny Boom Boom, Vic Davis) — Thu, 9 Nov 2023 08:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Jenny and Vic engage in a candid conversation about various aspects of their relationship. They start by discussing how they handle sickness differently, with Jenny being productive even when ill and Vic taking a more dramatic approach to being unwell. This leads to a humorous discussion about Vic's attachment to his mother's old blanket and Jenny's inability to comprehend the sentimental value it holds for him.

The conversation takes a turn as they explore Jenny's possessiveness and jealousy when Vic spends time with his friends or recalls past experiences that don't involve her. They both reflect on their individual tendencies and the impact it has on their relationship. Vic encourages Jenny to embrace personal growth and meditate to find balance.

The episode ends with a lighthearted discussion about their caregiving styles when one of them is sick, highlighting their differences yet reaffirming their love for each other.

**Key Takeaways:**

1. Jenny and Vic have contrasting reactions to sickness, with Jenny staying productive and Vic taking a more dramatic approach.

2. Vic has a strong attachment to his mother's old blanket, which Jenny finds hard to understand.

3. Jenny admits to possessiveness and jealousy, which affects her reactions when Vic spends time with friends or recalls past experiences.

4. Vic encourages Jenny to explore personal growth through meditation and mindfulness.

5. They express their love for each other despite their unique quirks and differences in caregiving styles.

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From Casual to Committed: The Evolution of Jenny and Vic's Relationship

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Thu, 26 Oct 2023 07:00:00 +0000

Jenny and Vic discuss their relationship history and the various stages and challenges they've faced. Jenny starts by reminiscing about when they first got engaged and shares a hurtful comment she received from a friend. As the conversation unfolds, the two reveal the evolution of their love and commitment over the years. Jenny feels that in the early stages of their relationship, she loved Vic more intensely than he loved her. She recounts instances where she felt Vic wasn't fully committed, like him bringing another woman to an award ceremony or keeping condoms despite their committed relationship. Vic, on the other hand, discusses the lifestyle adjustments he had to make when getting into a relationship with Jenny, who already had three kids. Vic also highlights how he was influenced by his environment where many couples lived together for years without getting married. This impacted his view on commitment, but over time, he understood the importance of marriage and grew towards that idea. The two also discuss the societal pressures and judgment they felt over the years due to not being officially married. Jenny particularly felt embarrassed at weddings when people would ask when they're getting married. She's relieved now, as they are engaged and looking forward to their wedding, feeling a fresh start after navigating through their challenges. The overarching theme of the podcast is that every relationship is unique, and what works for one couple might not work for another. The episode emphasizes the importance of communication, understanding, and navigating relationship challenges together.----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Finance & Heart: Navigating Love and Money

Thu, 19 Oct 2023 07:00:00 +0000

In this "Bad Marriage 4 Life" podcast episode, Jenny and Vic discuss the importance of handling finances in a relationship with their guest, licensed marriage and family therapist Rebecca Betancourt. They touch upon various aspects of financial management in a partnership and how it can impact a relationship. Some key points from the discussion include: 1. The significance of finances in relationships: Rebecca highlights that finances are a common source of conflict among couples and are often the number one topic discussed in her therapy sessions. 2. Different approaches to managing finances: Couples have varying preferences when it comes to combining or separating their finances. Some choose to have separate bank accounts, while others prefer joint accounts or a combination of both. 3. The evolution of financial dynamics: Rebecca emphasizes that financial decisions can change over time as couples mature and face different life stages, such as raising children and planning for the future. 4. Building wealth together: Jenny and Vic express their desire to have started building wealth together earlier in their relationship. Rebecca agrees that it's crucial for couples to discuss their financial goals and work towards building transgenerational wealth. 5. Common financial mistakes: Rebecca discusses how couples often make mistakes in managing their finances. She suggests that communication is essential to avoid misunderstandings and conflicts. 6. Balancing spending and saving: Jenny and Vic talk about their approach to budgeting and how they balance spending on entertainment and saving for the future. Rebecca emphasizes the importance of effective budgeting and setting aside money for date nights. 7. The role of therapy in addressing financial issues: Rebecca explains that couples therapy can help individuals explore their deep-seated beliefs and behaviors related to money and understand how their past experiences shape their financial perspectives. 8. Communication and compromise: Vic and Jenny stress the importance of open communication and compromise in dealing with financial matters, especially when raising children. 9. Date nights and spending time together: The importance of setting aside time for date nights to strengthen the emotional connection and maintain a healthy relationship is discussed. 10. Developmental stages in relationships: Rebecca points out that age and developmental stages can affect how couples handle financial decisions and conflicts. Understanding each other's growth and willingness to adapt is crucial. The podcast episode provides valuable insights into managing finances within a relationship and emphasizes the importance of communication, understanding, and compromise to maintain a healthy and happy partnership.----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

How to Improve Communication and Intimacy in Relationships w/ Sex Coach Jennifer Melville

Thu, 12 Oct 2023 07:00:00 +0000

In the conversation between Jenny, Vic, and their guest, Jennifer Melville, a sex coach, several topics related to sex, relationships, and intimacy were discussed: 1. **Sex Drive and Desire**: They talked about the difference between a responsive sex drive (arousal comes before desire) and a spontaneous sex drive (desire comes before arousal). Understanding your sex drive can help improve communication and intimacy in a relationship. 2. **Variety and Routine**: The conversation touched on the importance of variety in a sexual relationship and avoiding falling into monotonous routines. They shared personal experiences and discussed how to keep things exciting and engaging. 3. **Use of Sex Toys**: They mentioned that sex toys can add variety and excitement to a sexual relationship. It was emphasized that there's no one-size-fits-all approach, and it's about finding what works best for you and your partner. 4. **Communication**: Open and honest communication between partners is crucial. They discussed the significance of discussing your desires, likes, and dislikes, which can lead to a healthier sexual relationship. 5. **Mental Load**: The mental load that many women, especially mothers, carry was addressed as a common obstacle to sex drive. The stress of everyday responsibilities can interfere with one's ability to relax and enjoy intimacy. 6. **Body Image and Self-Esteem**: The conversation also delved into how body image and self-esteem can affect one's confidence and comfort during sex. They discussed the importance of self-acceptance and not setting unrealistic standards based on external influences. 7. **Overcoming Expectations**: The guests emphasized that partners often care less about perceived imperfections than individuals think. It was stressed that confidence and self-acceptance play a crucial role in one's ability to enjoy and engage in intimate activities. Overall, the conversation offered insights into improving sexual relationships by fostering open communication, exploring desires, and finding what works best for individual couples while embracing self-acceptance.----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Faking Orgasms

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Thu, 5 Oct 2023 07:00:00 +0000

Jenny and Vic discuss the topic of faking orgasms. They reference a recent study that reported 46 percent of women and 38 percent of men have admitted to faking orgasms. They share personal anecdotes and experiences related to faking orgasms, including instances driven by discomfort or a desire to end sexual encounters quickly. They also touch on the importance of communication in sexual relationships and how it can lead to a more satisfying and fulfilling experience. The hosts encourage open dialogue and express the need for partners to prioritize each other's pleasure. ----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Navigating Differences In A Relationship

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Thu, 28 Sep 2023 07:00:00 +0000

Jenny and Vic delve deep into the dynamics of relationships, drawing from their personal experiences and observations. Starting with the learning curve of raising children, they talk about the lessons they've learned over time and the inevitable regret of parenting mistakes. While discussing Young Jeezy and Jeannie Mai divorce, they touched on the significance of having supportive friends around you, emphasizing the importance of surrounding oneself with positive energies and individuals who genuinely support the union. The conversation takes a religious turn as Jenny, an Episcopalian, and Vic, with his diverse religious background, discuss their different beliefs and how they've reconciled them within their household. A lighthearted debate ensues on the race of Santa Claus, showcasing their ability to navigate potentially contentious subjects with humor and respect for each other's perspectives. Closing with the topic of when to consider divorce, they touch upon the cues that might suggest a relationship has run its course and the essence of staying connected as a couple. Through the podcast, they underscore the importance of enjoying each other's company and being in sync, even amidst disagreements.----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

When To Cut Your Kids Off Financially

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Thu, 21 Sep 2023 07:00:00 +0000

When to cut your kids off financially - **Highlights:** - **Discussion starts with Jenny's daughter's 20th birthday.** - The daughter's tea party idea inspired by TikTok. - Jenny's daughter signed up for a flower arranging class in Brooklyn costing $175. - Despite already spending on the class, there were more expenses for her birthday party. - Jenny reflects on simpler birthdays during her own upbringing and expresses the desire to have set such a standard for her own kids. - **Vic shares his experience growing up.** - He recalls birthdays consisting of a single toy and a homemade cake. - Emphasizes the importance of taking pride in maintaining one's living environment. - **Jenny's experiences growing up.** - Shares her struggles of moving out at 18, becoming a young mother, and managing her responsibilities. - **Children's responsibilities in the household.** - The couple feels their children don't fully appreciate the expenses and benefits of living at home rent-free. - Jenny and Vic discuss the value of teaching their kids the reality of adulthood. - **A comical story about their air conditioner breaking during a heatwave.** - Daughter's quick decision to leave home for the night as it's too hot, highlighting her independent nature. - **Jenny reflects on the need for financial independence as they age.** - The couple wants to ensure they're well-off in their older years and not reliant on their kids. ----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Choosing Love | Lessons in Family and Relationships with Bad Marriage 4 Life

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Victor Davis & Jenny Munro) — Thu, 14 Sep 2023 07:00:00 +0000

In the 16th episode of "Bad Marriage for Life", the conversation kicked off with some technical difficulties and light banter between the two hosts about using their podcast voices. The main topics of discussion revolved around: - Their dynamics and struggles as a couple, including disagreements about exercising together. - Jenny's wish for the couple to be more physically active together, which she believes would increase their sexual attraction to each other. - Vic's love for bike riding and swimming, and Jenny's preference for walking. - Their disagreements about how they spend their Sundays, especially during the football season. - Dealing with family: The hosts discuss the challenges and pains of dealing with family members, especially when those family members are not supportive or are toxic. They address the concept of "choosing" one's family and discuss listener comments about the topic. - Wedding planning woes: The duo touch upon the stresses and joys of wedding planning. They compare their wedding party sizes, with Jenny having a much larger bridal party than Vic's groom party. - The episode wraps up with them introducing a new motto for their podcast: "It's not just a podcast, it's a movement." They encourage open and honest discussions about relationships of all kinds. Throughout the episode, the dynamic between Jenny and Vic is a mix of playful banter, sincere discussions, and occasional disagreements, painting a relatable picture of a couple navigating their relationship.----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

The Future of Our Relationship: Our Goals and Dreams

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Jenny Boom Boom, Vic Davis) — Thu, 7 Sep 2023 07:00:00 +0000

In episode 15 of the "Bad Marriage for Life" podcast, hosts Jenny and Vic discuss their long-standing relationship and their upcoming plans for marriage. They've been together for 22 years and are in the midst of planning a wedding, though Jenny expresses some nervousness about the process. Vic, on the other hand, is not nervous but is focused on planning things out correctly. They delve into important conversations about finances, which they hadn't discussed thoroughly before, and share their goals, including improving their financial stability, taking dance lessons, and going on a healthy cooking class together. They also playfully discuss the idea of a threesome and having nights away from each other with someone else. Throughout the episode, they reflect on the ups and downs of their relationship and the goals they have set for their future together.----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

The Date Night from Hell

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Jenny Boom Boom, Vic Davis) — Thu, 31 Aug 2023 07:00:00 +0000

**Podcast Summary: Bad Marriage for Life - Episode 14** In this hilariously candid episode of "Bad Marriage for Life," hosts Jenny and Vic reflect on their relationship and its various ups and downs. Episode highlights include: 1. **Opening Banter**: Jenny and Vic marvel at their journey and recall feedback on their previous episodes. Vic humorously mentions the possibility of being ousted from family gatherings because of his revelations. 2. **Date Night**: Jenny shares a tale of a rare date night. With their son away and their 20-year-old daughter sent off to her boyfriend's, Jenny expected a romantic night. But a business-related argument dampened the mood. 3. **Miscommunication & Arguments**: The duo delves into their fights, expressing how they've evolved to manage conflicts better in front of their kids. They also humorously mention their way of covertly arguing via texts while sitting on the same couch. 4. **The Failed Romantic Night**: Despite their earlier spat, they decided to dine out at their favorite Chinese restaurant, where a potent Scorpion Bowl led to hilariously intoxicated escapades. Upon return, their plans for romance got derailed by a too-planned shower together and their dogs disrupting the ambiance. 5. **Reflecting on Past Lust**: They nostalgically remember the early days of their relationship when spontaneity ruled. The couple amusingly recalls adventurous outdoor escapades and the freedom of the pre-kids era. 6. **Future Plans**: They hint at another romantic getaway in October and joke about marking their calendars for potential intimate moments. 7. **Closing**: Jenny and Vic affirm their love and commitment, no matter the hurdles. They end with a blend of humor and promises of better romantic endeavors. Throughout the episode, the couple offers a candid, humorous, and sometimes raw look into the intricacies of long-term relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding, patience, and love.----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Breaking Up With Family Members

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Thu, 24 Aug 2023 07:00:00 +0000

In this intimate and raw discussion, Jenny and Vic dive deep into the complexities of family relationships. Jenny candidly shares her experience of breaking up with family members due to their constant mean-spirited behavior towards her. Growing up in a seemingly perfect family from the outside, she acknowledges the inner traumas she faced due to her alcoholic father and enabling mother. Vic, on the other hand, resonates with Jenny's sentiments. He talks about the struggle of keeping certain family members in one's life purely because of blood ties and how draining it can be. He points out how these same family members, who he tirelessly helps, often critique him afterward. He also mentions the issue of being a stepfather and how this has affected his relationship with Jenny's older kids. The duo discusses the challenges they face with their adult children, balancing support with discipline, and the thin line between helping and enabling. They touch upon how as parents, they're often haunted by past decisions, constantly questioning if they did enough or did right by their children. They advocate for setting boundaries, even with children, to ensure one's mental well-being. Overall, this episode serves as a reflection on familial relationships, the importance of respect, understanding, and setting healthy boundaries for one's peace of mind.----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

The Pursuit of Healthy Living

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Jenny Boom Boom, Vic Davis) — Thu, 17 Aug 2023 07:00:00 +0000

In Episode 12 of the podcast "Bad Marriage 4 Life," hosts Jenny and Vic discuss various aspects of their lives, including their habits, diet, drinking, and relationship dynamics. Jenny shares a story about being hungover from partying and indulging in unhealthy food choices. They reflect on their recent eating habits and the struggles they've faced in maintaining a balanced lifestyle. Jenny describes a recent argument they had, involving Vic making indulgent breakfasts, which led to a conversation about their health. They acknowledge that their habits have been influenced by generational patterns and lifestyle choices, discussing how their upbringing and societal factors have contributed to their eating behaviors. Vic discusses his experience with weight and how his family's history of alcoholism has impacted his relationship with drinking. Jenny expresses concerns about the effects of her drinking on her health and appearance. They both agree that they need to hold each other accountable for making healthier choices, especially in terms of their diets and drinking habits. The hosts touch on the significance of balance, the challenges of making healthier food choices, and the impact of condiments, particularly blue cheese, on their eating habits. They share humorous anecdotes and personal stories that highlight their struggles and aspirations for healthier living while maintaining a sense of camaraderie and understanding.----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Breaking Generational Chains: Love's Healing Journey

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Thu, 10 Aug 2023 07:00:00 +0000

This conversation captures a raw, emotional dialogue between Vic and Jenny, who both seem to be wrestling with generational trauma and the impact it's had on their own relationships. Here's a brief analysis of the conversation: **1. Generational Trauma:** Vic and Jenny both have a deep awareness of the generational trauma and pain they've experienced in their families. Vic's father was absent, which led him to seek out other role models, sometimes leading to harmful choices. Jenny grew up in a home with an abusive father and a mother who felt trapped in the relationship. **2. Resilience and Growth:** Despite the trauma they experienced, both Jenny and Vic seem resilient. Vic highlights the strength he found in community and other family members, even as he grapples with the abandonment by his father. Jenny, meanwhile, is determined to not fall into the trap her mother did, and works hard to provide and stand on her own. **3. The Importance of Open Conversation:** This dialogue underscores the value of open conversations in relationships. By discussing their pasts, Jenny and Vic can better understand their reactions to one another and work to break generational cycles of pain. **4. Forgiveness:** Vic's decision to forgive his father and even care for him in old age is both commendable and complex. While Jenny questions his motives, seeing it perhaps as seeking validation, Vic seems to view it more as a personal journey of releasing bitterness for his own wellbeing. **5. The Struggle of Parenthood:** The couple recognizes their mistakes in how they've interacted in front of their children and express a shared desire to not pass on the pain they've experienced. This illustrates their commitment to breaking the cycle. **6. Love as a Healing Mechanism:** Throughout the conversation, the love between Vic and Jenny is evident. Despite the struggles and turbulence in their relationship, their bond appears to be a powerful tool in healing from past traumas. The title "Bad Marriage for Life" hints at a mix of irony and reality. While the term "bad marriage" suggests ongoing problems, "for life" reflects a commitment to stick together and work through issues. It's a testament to the couple's determination to face their past, grow together, and hope for a better future.----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

A Listener's Message Inspires Vic and Jenny to Reflect on Their Own Relationship

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Thu, 3 Aug 2023 07:00:00 +0000

On the 10th episode of the Bad Marriage 4 Life Podcast, Vic and Jenny, dive into a message they received from a listener. This person really appreciated the no-holds-barred chats on the show, especially when it came to talking about Vic's past mistakes from Episode 6 and how that affected their relationship. This hit close to home for the listener who's in a similar boat with their partner. In response, Vic and Jenny go back down memory lane, having a very real and candid talk about how crucial it is to really understand and communicate with each other when things get tough in a relationship. On a lighter note, Jenny tells a funny story about a situation she found herself in with another woman on her trip to the West Coast, which they cheekily refer to as a 'triss.' She talks about her concerns around potential health risks, and this brings them to a topic called 'digital sex,' a phrase they both find pretty funny. For everything Bad Marriage 4 Life visit https://linktr.ee/badmarriage4life----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

The Art of Disagreement - How to Talk About Difficult Things with Love and Respect

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Thu, 27 Jul 2023 07:00:00 +0000

In this conversation, Jenny and Vic discuss their personal routines and differences in how they approach work and rest. Vic likes to take a break sometimes, declaring himself a "rest day", which is something Jenny finds difficult as she feels guilty if she's not constantly doing something productive. Vic tries to explain that he gets a lot of work done on his laptop early in the morning, which leaves him free time during the day to relax. Jenny, however, finds it hard to see his perspective, as it does not align with her own work ethic and mindset. The discussion transitions to the topic of self-care and how they both manage their mental well-being. Vic mentions that he uses meditation to handle stress and anxiety, while Jenny prefers to do yoga for peace and stretching. The conversation takes a more intense turn when Jenny feels hurt by Vic's statement about preparing himself to deal with her "upsetness". She interprets this as a negative judgment on her personality, which Vic attempts to clarify as being about managing the challenges of life in general, and not specifically about her. Towards the end of the conversation, Jenny introduces a new topic: fitness. After watching a show where everyone appeared physically fit, she encourages Vic to improve his fitness routine. She proposes that they could work out together and she could act as his coach. The conversation provides a glimpse into their dynamics as a couple, where they negotiate their individual preferences, habits, and expectations. Despite occasional disagreements, there is a constant thread of humor and affection throughout their interaction.----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Unfiltered Confessions: Intimacy, Kids & Hilarious Struggles

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Jenny Boom Boom, Vic Davis) — Thu, 20 Jul 2023 07:00:00 +0000

In this episode, they discuss the challenges of maintaining intimacy in a long-term relationship while juggling busy schedules and parenting duties. From the struggles of finding time for sex to hilarious encounters with their children, nothing is off-limits in their candid conversation. Jenny reveals her friend's struggle with being "dick whipped" by a guy who is known for his exceptional bedroom skills. They share anecdotes of their own escapades, including the difficulties of finding privacy in a small house with curious kids and overenthusiastic dogs. The couple humorously reflects on the changes that occur in a relationship over time, from passionate explorations to comfortable routines. They discuss their personal quirks, including Jenny's excessive toilet paper usage and Vic's multitasking habits while on the toilet. Candid and unapologetic, they touch upon the topics of solo adult entertainment and the challenges of being intimate while sharing a bed. For everything Bad Marriage 4 Life visit https://linktr.ee/badmarriage4life----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

The Story of How We First Met

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Thu, 13 Jul 2023 07:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Jenny and Vic discuss their journey and how they met. They express their gratitude to their listeners and encourage feedback and engagement. Last week's emotionally charged episode revealed personal struggles, including infidelity, as the hosts prioritize honesty and transparency in each episode. They recap their initial meeting at a party in April 2001 . Jenny and Vic also touch on their past relationships, highlighting the toxic nature of Jenny's previous relationship. Vic expresses his support for Jenny and criticizes her ex's neglectful behavior as a father. Despite their racial differences, Jenny and Vic emphasize that their shared love for hip-hop music and cultural understanding brought them together. They address potential concerns about their interracial relationship, noting that there may have been initial reservations at first. The hosts conclude by sharing their intense physical connection and expressing gratitude for finding each other. For everything Bad Marriage 4 Life visit https://linktr.ee/badmarriage4life----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Surviving Infidelity & How to Deal with Conflict in Your Relationship

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Thu, 6 Jul 2023 07:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Bad Marriage 4 Life podcast , Jenny and Vic answer questions from listeners about their relationship. They discuss what they would change about each other, what they love about each other, and how they have dealt with Vic's past infidelity. What would they change about each other? Jenny would like Vic to be more healthy and physically fit, to stop smoking, and to be wealthier. Vic would like Jenny to be less anxious, to have a more positive attitude when she comes home from work, and to be less complicated when it comes to watching TV shows and movies. What do they love about each other? Jenny loves that Vic is a great dad, that he always has her back, and that he goes down on her. Vic loves that Jenny is a great friend to her friends, that she is genuine, and that she makes a delicious catfish. How have they dealt with Vic's past infidelity? Jenny and Vic have worked hard to rebuild their trust and their relationship. They have been honest with each other about their feelings, and they have committed to working through their problems together. What advice do they have for other couples? Jenny and Vic offer the following advice to other couples: -Be honest with each other. -Communicate openly and effectively. -Be willing to work through your problems together. -Don't give up on your relationship. Listen to the full episode to hear more from Jenny and Vic about their relationship. For everything Bad Marriage 4 Life visit https://linktr.ee/badmarriage4life----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Navigating Relationship Challenges: Wedding Planning, Communication, and Therapy

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Jenny Boom Boom, Vic Davis) — Thu, 29 Jun 2023 07:00:00 +0000

Jenny and Vic quickly dive into an important topic: pushing back their wedding to 2025. The couple discusses the reasons behind this decision, and the various challenges they've been facing as a family. Acknowledging their past conflicts and explosive arguments, Jenny and Vic express their commitment to growth and improvement. They talk about the importance of seeking therapy to learn healthier ways of communicating and resolving conflicts. Despite their challenges, they appreciate the support of their viewers and their willingness to be honest about the ups and downs of their relationship. For everything Bad Marriage 4 Life visit https://linktr.ee/badmarriage4life----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

When Tragedy Strikes, Should You Postpone Your Wedding?

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Jenny Boom Boom, Vic Davis) — Thu, 22 Jun 2023 07:00:00 +0000

Jenny and Vic are a couple who have been together for 20 years and are finally getting married. However, their plans have been put on hold due to a series of personal tragedies. Jenny's mother has been diagnosed with breast cancer, and their daughter is struggling with substance use. The couple is now facing the difficult decision of whether to push back their wedding or go ahead with it as planned. For everything Bad Marriage 4 Life visit https://linktr.ee/badmarriage4life----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

The Challenges of Planning a Wedding

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Vic Davis, Jenny Boom Boom) — Thu, 15 Jun 2023 07:00:00 +0000

Jenny and Vic are a couple who have been together for 21 years and are planning to get married in the spring of 2024. However, they are feeling stressed and overwhelmed by the planning process, and they are considering pushing back the wedding. In this episode, Jenny and Vic discuss the challenges they are facing, including: -Their children are in chaos. -Jenny's mother is running out of money and may need to move in with them. -One of Jenny's best friends has been diagnosed with breast cancer. -People are giving them unsolicited advice about their wedding plans. Despite all of these challenges, Jenny and Vic are determined to get married. They believe that their love for each other is strong enough to overcome any obstacle. For everything Bad Marriage 4 Life visit https://linktr.ee/badmarriage4life----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

Jenny and Vic Talk Desires, Empowerment, and Their Enduring Relationship

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Jenny Boom Boom, Vic Davis) — Thu, 8 Jun 2023 07:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Bad Marriage 4 Life podcast, hosts Jenny and Vic dive into a candid conversation about their personal desires and the empowerment of women in business. From discussing their celebrity crushes to sharing experiences at a recent women's conference, Jenny and Vic explore various topics with their signature humor and honesty. For everything Bad Marriage 4 Life visit https://linktr.ee/badmarriage4life The episode kicks off with Jenny and Vic jokingly discussing their fantasies about sleeping with famous women, like Apollonia from Purple Rain and Halle Berry. They playfully debate the effects of being intimate with these celebrities, adding a touch of curiosity and intrigue to the conversation. Shifting gears, the hosts recount their experiences at a women's conference where Jenny delivered a speech promoting female empowerment in business. Vic playfully teases Jenny, suggesting that she encouraged women to rise up and challenge men in various aspects of life. Jenny clarifies her intention was to foster unity and support among women, highlighting the importance of female friendships and success. The conversation takes an amusing turn as Jenny shares her admiration for a woman she met at the conference. Jenny finds herself drawn to this woman's beauty and magnetic personality, sparking a lighthearted discussion about polyamory and the dynamics of their own relationship. While Vic humorously interjects, teasing Jenny about potential jealousy and his own physical appearance, the hosts emphasize the deep love and attraction they share for each other. They candidly discuss the realities of being comfortable and vulnerable in a long-term relationship, including the occasional need for clothing reminders and playfully addressing each other's body quirks. Join Jenny and Vic in this engaging and humorous episode of Bad Marriage 4 Life as they explore desires, female empowerment, and the beauty of their own enduring relationship. ----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life

The Long Wait For The Perfect, Imperfect Marriage Proposal

badmarriage4lifepodcast@gmail.com (Jenny Boom Boom, Vic Davis) — Thu, 1 Jun 2023 07:00:00 +0000

Vic finally proposes to Jenny after 21 years...does it go according to plan? Jenny and Vic share their candid and unfiltered journey through their unconventional relationship and more in this first episode of the Bad Marriage 4 Life podcast. For everything Bad Marriage 4 Life visit https://linktr.ee/badmarriage4life----Across the Web---- 🎙Recovery Matters Podcast (Apple Music): https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bad-marriage-4-life-podcast/id1689904711 🎙RecoveryMatters Podcast (Spotify): https://open.spotify.com/show/6MHOb0t4gv6SOFsQ0OC06c?si=a4b5fec56e0b42e0 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@badmarriage4life 🗣Recovery Matters Podcast Instagram https://www.instagram.com/badmarriage4life