https://simplecast.com Listen for REAL Welcome to Listen for REAL — a podcast where we expand our perspectives and connect more deeply through earthy conversation, curiosity, and soul-level revelations. I’m Jen Oliver — a woman shaped by a lifetime of privilege, inherited beliefs, and an echo chamber that once kept my limited worldview comfortably intact. That way of living (and viewing others) no longer works for me. It kept me performative, judgmental, and disconnected from the fullest expression of my truth — and distanced from other people. This podcast began as the antidote to that echo chamber. A space to lean into conversation with others whose world view, lived experience or belief system differed from my own. And now, in this new season, the show is evolving. We’re doubling down on the practice of truth-telling - I ask my guests to share a moment of truth or personal revelation that pushes past the more palatable things that we have been trained to say. Each episode brings unfiltered conversations, raw human honesty and courageous storytelling you can't get from scripted media. In addition, you will hear coaching, inner-work tools, and my own admissions to help us all step into a more honest, liberated, expansive way of being. There is no quicker way to pry open my mind than by telling me your truth —- Join the conversation. 2020-2024 Listen for REAL en Tue, 10 Mar 2026 07:05:00 +0000 Tue, 10 Mar 2026 07:05:12 +0000 https://listenforreal.com Listen for REAL https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/9fc5782d-55c7-45a3-bfe5-9cf26feb1329/4aa8a89c-bfda-4335-b3a1-35adaadb1dec/3000x3000/3.jpg?aid=rss_feed https://listenforreal.com episodic Welcome to Listen for REAL — a podcast where we expand our perspectives and connect more deeply through earthy conversation, curiosity, and soul-level revelations. I’m Jen Oliver — a woman shaped by a lifetime of privilege, inherited beliefs, and an echo chamber that once kept my limited worldview comfortably intact. That way of living (and viewing others) no longer works for me. It kept me performative, judgmental, and disconnected from the fullest expression of my truth — and distanced from other people. This podcast began as the antidote to that echo chamber. A space to lean into conversation with others whose world view, lived experience or belief system differed from my own. And now, in this new season, the show is evolving. We’re doubling down on the practice of truth-telling - I ask my guests to share a moment of truth or personal revelation that pushes past the more palatable things that we have been trained to say. Each episode brings unfiltered conversations, raw human honesty and courageous storytelling you can't get from scripted media. In addition, you will hear coaching, inner-work tools, and my own admissions to help us all step into a more honest, liberated, expansive way of being. There is no quicker way to pry open my mind than by telling me your truth —- Join the conversation. Jen Oliver false https://feeds.simplecast.com/cWV7ExzI #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #realjenoliver, #realconversations, #interviews, #femalepodcast Jen Oliver jennifer@beingREAL.me 42ba5e37-7ee0-4e2d-9711-717f19af1b5b The truth is…I left a “good” marriage with no villain and no logical explanation Episode overview

In this candid, tender conversation, Jen Oliver and Jen Aks discuss what it means to tell the truth and end a relationship—especially when it was seemingly “really good.” There was no villain and no tidy explanation that satisfies logic. Jen Aks shares the pivotal choice to leave her 20-year marriage, the internal cost of trusting her body when her mind demanded proof, and how truth-telling reshaped her relationships, parenting, identity, and purpose.

The conversation moves from truth as concept to truth as embodied practice: the difference between heart and gut, why the body “knows” first, and is a practical pathway to clarity, calm, and confident action.

What you’ll hear in this episode

  • The moment Jen Aks realized her body was whispering… then screaming (03:17–08:01)
  • Why it’s hard to leave when nothing is “wrong” and everything looks “perfect” from the outside (03:47–05:50)
  • The cost count: kids, guilt, family, finances, and society’s scripts (15:28–21:04)
  • A powerful reframe: not just what you’re “taking,” but what you’re giving through truth (21:10–22:26)
  • A relief valve for guilt: “This is their story now” + “hold people able” (23:38–26:58)
  • The difference between heart vs gut, and why words aren’t always required for truth (13:39–14:59; 10:04–11:41)
  • A practical tool: using hands/gesture to invite discomfort in, release it, and return to clarity (30:09–35:39)
  • “Yes, and…”—how doubt can coexist with knowing (43:14–43:42)
  • After the truth: shedding, spiritual awakening, and a deeper sense of mission (37:45–40:31; 49:54–50:43)

Key takeaways

  • Truth isn’t always logical. Sometimes there’s no checklist explanation—only a bodily knowing.
  • Your body may speak before your mind can translate. Physical signals (nausea, headaches, agitation, craving solitude) can be information.
  • Not having the words doesn’t invalidate the truth. “The feeling is enough.”
  • Truth has costs—and also gifts. Especially with kids: the reframe is “What am I modeling for them?” 
  • You don’t need to villainize someone to leave. A relationship can be loving and still complete.
  • Staying can be true, too. No shame—if you stay, the work is reclaiming yourself inside the choice.
  • Embodied practices create clarity. Calm isn’t the goal; calm is the path to clarity and confidence.
  • It’s never too late to tell the truth about how you handled the past. Repair and honesty can happen years later.

Memorable concepts & frameworks mentioned

  • Heart vs. gut: heart can be emotionally compelling; gut is a deeper “knowing” (13:39–14:59)
  • Power of gesture: hands + nervous system + emotion processing (27:41–35:39)
  • “Hold people able” from Susan Scott / Fierce Conversations (26:09–26:58) (also references Fierce Leadership)
  • Relationship truth + dignity, referencing relationship mediator Staci Bartley (09:02–10:04)
  • Jen Aks’ book and her TEDxFolsom talk (11:41–12:09)

About Jen Aks:

Jen Aks is a TEDx speaker, author, and leadership coach who helps people reconnect with their body's wisdom to unlock powerful, authentic leadership. On August 16, 2025, she delivered her TEDx talk Your Body's Hidden Intelligence: From Mindset to Bodyset, introducing a revolutionary concept that challenges decades of mindset-focused approaches. Her debut book Your Body is Speaking launched on September 30, 2025, and became a #1 bestseller in the self-help category. Jen guides leaders—from CEOs and executives to parents and educators—to lead with clarity and confidence by trusting their body's intelligence. Her areas of expertise include embodied leadership, somatic intelligence, helping people find their authentic voice and communicate it with authority.

Website: https://jenaks.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jen_aks/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jennferaks

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jen_aks

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenaks/

TicTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jen_aks

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Tue, 10 Mar 2026 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com Episode overview

In this candid, tender conversation, Jen Oliver and Jen Aks discuss what it means to tell the truth and end a relationship—especially when it was seemingly “really good.” There was no villain and no tidy explanation that satisfies logic. Jen Aks shares the pivotal choice to leave her 20-year marriage, the internal cost of trusting her body when her mind demanded proof, and how truth-telling reshaped her relationships, parenting, identity, and purpose.

The conversation moves from truth as concept to truth as embodied practice: the difference between heart and gut, why the body “knows” first, and is a practical pathway to clarity, calm, and confident action.

What you’ll hear in this episode

  • The moment Jen Aks realized her body was whispering… then screaming (03:17–08:01)
  • Why it’s hard to leave when nothing is “wrong” and everything looks “perfect” from the outside (03:47–05:50)
  • The cost count: kids, guilt, family, finances, and society’s scripts (15:28–21:04)
  • A powerful reframe: not just what you’re “taking,” but what you’re giving through truth (21:10–22:26)
  • A relief valve for guilt: “This is their story now” + “hold people able” (23:38–26:58)
  • The difference between heart vs gut, and why words aren’t always required for truth (13:39–14:59; 10:04–11:41)
  • A practical tool: using hands/gesture to invite discomfort in, release it, and return to clarity (30:09–35:39)
  • “Yes, and…”—how doubt can coexist with knowing (43:14–43:42)
  • After the truth: shedding, spiritual awakening, and a deeper sense of mission (37:45–40:31; 49:54–50:43)

Key takeaways

  • Truth isn’t always logical. Sometimes there’s no checklist explanation—only a bodily knowing.
  • Your body may speak before your mind can translate. Physical signals (nausea, headaches, agitation, craving solitude) can be information.
  • Not having the words doesn’t invalidate the truth. “The feeling is enough.”
  • Truth has costs—and also gifts. Especially with kids: the reframe is “What am I modeling for them?” 
  • You don’t need to villainize someone to leave. A relationship can be loving and still complete.
  • Staying can be true, too. No shame—if you stay, the work is reclaiming yourself inside the choice.
  • Embodied practices create clarity. Calm isn’t the goal; calm is the path to clarity and confidence.
  • It’s never too late to tell the truth about how you handled the past. Repair and honesty can happen years later.

Memorable concepts & frameworks mentioned

  • Heart vs. gut: heart can be emotionally compelling; gut is a deeper “knowing” (13:39–14:59)
  • Power of gesture: hands + nervous system + emotion processing (27:41–35:39)
  • “Hold people able” from Susan Scott / Fierce Conversations (26:09–26:58) (also references Fierce Leadership)
  • Relationship truth + dignity, referencing relationship mediator Staci Bartley (09:02–10:04)
  • Jen Aks’ book and her TEDxFolsom talk (11:41–12:09)

About Jen Aks:

Jen Aks is a TEDx speaker, author, and leadership coach who helps people reconnect with their body's wisdom to unlock powerful, authentic leadership. On August 16, 2025, she delivered her TEDx talk Your Body's Hidden Intelligence: From Mindset to Bodyset, introducing a revolutionary concept that challenges decades of mindset-focused approaches. Her debut book Your Body is Speaking launched on September 30, 2025, and became a #1 bestseller in the self-help category. Jen guides leaders—from CEOs and executives to parents and educators—to lead with clarity and confidence by trusting their body's intelligence. Her areas of expertise include embodied leadership, somatic intelligence, helping people find their authentic voice and communicate it with authority.

Website: https://jenaks.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jen_aks/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jennferaks

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jen_aks

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jenaks/

TicTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jen_aks

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> The truth is…I left a “good” marriage with no villain and no logical explanation Jen Oliver 00:56:29 Episode overview In this candid, tender conversation, Jen Oliver and Jen Aks discuss what it means to tell the truth and end a relationship—especially when it was seemingly “really good.” There was no villain and no tidy explanation that satisfies logic. Jen Aks shares the pivotal choice to leave her 20-year marriage, the internal cost of trusting her body when her mind demanded proof, and how truth-telling reshaped her relationships, parenting, identity, and purpose. The conversation moves from truth as concept to truth as embodied practice: the difference between heart and gut, why the body “knows” first, and is a practical pathway to clarity, calm, and confident action. Episode overview In this candid, tender conversation, Jen Oliver and Jen Aks discuss what it means to tell the truth and end a relationship—especially when it was seemingly “really good.” There was no villain and no tidy explanation that satisfies logic. Jen Aks shares the pivotal choice to leave her 20-year marriage, the internal cost of trusting her body when her mind demanded proof, and how truth-telling reshaped her relationships, parenting, identity, and purpose. The conversation moves from truth as concept to truth as embodied practice: the difference between heart and gut, why the body “knows” first, and is a practical pathway to clarity, calm, and confident action. false full 87 64bf7c28-d0f1-4cc5-91a3-283580f61968 If AI was driven by your soul - what answers would it give! I once believed -  ignorantly - that “guidance” according to our star signs & astrological charts was for softheaded people needing the power of suggestion to make decisions. This conversation with Rachel Loewenherz blew my echo chamber wide open. 

Rachel shares her journey from a traditional background, Ivy League education, and corporate career to embracing spirituality and astrology. Along the way she experienced tremendous losses and health challenges - which along with her expertise - also informed her creation of Star Path, an innovative AI tool designed to help individuals navigate their astrological insights and apply them to their lives. 

Our conversation gets into the practical applications of astrology in navigating relationships, personal growth, and even in business contexts. Rachel emphasizes the importance of using astrology as a tool for empowerment rather than a means of placing blame, highlighting the role of free will in shaping our lives. This conversation was as liberating for me as it was illuminating. 

Post recording note:

 I decided to try the Star Path app AFTER our episode was recorded; it is an indispensable tool. I’ve tested it on deeply private and personal matters in addition to business strategy and it is nothing short of accurate and instructive according to who I am at my core. 

Guest Bio:

Rachel Loewenherz is the founder of Star Path—an AI oracle powered by astrology. She’s a Yale-educated business strategist & tech marketer, former Chief of Staff, and 2-time CEO.

But that’s just on paper. Behind the scenes, she was losing pregnancies, healing from PTSD, and having a massive spiritual awakening. That’s when she found astrology.

Now she’s building Star Path - an AI that helps people remember who they are, and become who they came here to be.

Website: https://starpath.app/

Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2456509

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/starpathapp/

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Wed, 2 Jul 2025 00:16:31 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Rachel Loewenherz, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com I once believed -  ignorantly - that “guidance” according to our star signs & astrological charts was for softheaded people needing the power of suggestion to make decisions. This conversation with Rachel Loewenherz blew my echo chamber wide open. 

Rachel shares her journey from a traditional background, Ivy League education, and corporate career to embracing spirituality and astrology. Along the way she experienced tremendous losses and health challenges - which along with her expertise - also informed her creation of Star Path, an innovative AI tool designed to help individuals navigate their astrological insights and apply them to their lives. 

Our conversation gets into the practical applications of astrology in navigating relationships, personal growth, and even in business contexts. Rachel emphasizes the importance of using astrology as a tool for empowerment rather than a means of placing blame, highlighting the role of free will in shaping our lives. This conversation was as liberating for me as it was illuminating. 

Post recording note:

 I decided to try the Star Path app AFTER our episode was recorded; it is an indispensable tool. I’ve tested it on deeply private and personal matters in addition to business strategy and it is nothing short of accurate and instructive according to who I am at my core. 

Guest Bio:

Rachel Loewenherz is the founder of Star Path—an AI oracle powered by astrology. She’s a Yale-educated business strategist & tech marketer, former Chief of Staff, and 2-time CEO.

But that’s just on paper. Behind the scenes, she was losing pregnancies, healing from PTSD, and having a massive spiritual awakening. That’s when she found astrology.

Now she’s building Star Path - an AI that helps people remember who they are, and become who they came here to be.

Website: https://starpath.app/

Podcast: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2456509

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/starpathapp/

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> If AI was driven by your soul - what answers would it give! Rachel Loewenherz, Jen Oliver 01:15:28 I once believed - ignorantly - that “guidance” according to our star signs & astrological charts was for softheaded people needing the power of suggestion to make decisions. This conversation with Rachel Loewenherz blew my echo chamber wide open. Rachel shares her journey from a traditional background, Ivy League education, and corporate career to embracing spirituality and astrology. Along the way she experienced tremendous losses and health challenges - which along with her expertise - also informed her creation of Star Path, an innovative AI tool designed to help individuals navigate their astrological insights and apply them to their lives. Our conversation gets into the practical applications of astrology in navigating relationships, personal growth, and even in business contexts. Rachel emphasizes the importance of using astrology as a tool for empowerment rather than a means of placing blame, highlighting the role of free will in shaping our lives. This conversation was as liberating for me as it was illuminating. Post recording note: I decided to try the Star Path app AFTER our episode was recorded; it is an indispensable tool. I’ve tested it on deeply private and personal matters in addition to business strategy and it is nothing short of accurate and instructive according to who I am at my core. I once believed - ignorantly - that “guidance” according to our star signs & astrological charts was for softheaded people needing the power of suggestion to make decisions. This conversation with Rachel Loewenherz blew my echo chamber wide open. Rachel shares her journey from a traditional background, Ivy League education, and corporate career to embracing spirituality and astrology. Along the way she experienced tremendous losses and health challenges - which along with her expertise - also informed her creation of Star Path, an innovative AI tool designed to help individuals navigate their astrological insights and apply them to their lives. Our conversation gets into the practical applications of astrology in navigating relationships, personal growth, and even in business contexts. Rachel emphasizes the importance of using astrology as a tool for empowerment rather than a means of placing blame, highlighting the role of free will in shaping our lives. This conversation was as liberating for me as it was illuminating. Post recording note: I decided to try the Star Path app AFTER our episode was recorded; it is an indispensable tool. I’ve tested it on deeply private and personal matters in addition to business strategy and it is nothing short of accurate and instructive according to who I am at my core. ai, rachel loewenherz, trauma, spirituality, self-discovery, holistic healing, healing, family dynamics, relationships, astrology, compassion, jen oliver, personal growth, star path false full 86 5e7fc8f4-85d9-4c84-bc45-3abf2ad82d8f Online dating with no pics - just your values? I was always intrigued by the premise behind “Love Is Blind” - a reality show where singles try to find a match and fall in love -- without ever seeing each other face-to-face, as emotional connection attempts to conquer physical attraction. Full disclosure, I don’t watch TV so I haven’t seen an episode but still, the notion of moving beyond physical appearance and chemistry feels simultaneously intriguing and super risky.  

Then @Drew Taylor Cohen caught my attention with a post detailing her experience when building her @Bumble profile strictly on words stating her chosen values. 

NO perfect selfies.

NO predictable prompts that yield, “I love to hike, travel, cook, walk my dogs and go wine tasting.” 

NO eggplant emojis. 

Just the personal values she attempts to live by. (Oh, and one picture of her at a distance to prevent being flagged as a bot). 

@Drew Taylor Cohen is an Impact Consultant and Values Coach, so we talked about how to identify our own chosen values and distinguish them from our beliefs and identities (something I rooted myself in historically). We also discuss the challenges of seeking validation from others while navigating personal choices and the need for self-awareness and the evolving nature of values as individuals grow and change.

What an awesome conversation especially as I consider something similar in my own dating journey. Anyone relate? Join the conversation…

Guest Bio:

Trained in holistic, neurodiverse and values-aligned coaching techniques, Drew helps singles and couples break old patterns and align their values to find lasting love.

Dedicated to finding love that felt soul-aligned and safe, she set out on a personal development journey that led her to discover her values and trust her needs and desires. What did she do next? She created a dating profile with no photos, just screenshots of her values and how she envisioned them being shared in an aligned partnership. And it worked! Her fiancé and her just celebrated four years of swiping right on the things that matter most.

Through 1:1 coaching, she now helps her clients rewrite their own values-aligned love story and clarify what truly matters in love. Her aligned love method is about prioritizing your non-negotiables and curating love that mirrors the truth of who you already are.

She also developed and leads the Live Authentically program. This workshop and accompanying workbook uses a proven framework that guides participants to explore who you are, discover your chosen values and pursue an aligned life.

When she’s not helping people align their relationships and life to their values, she’s supporting purpose-driven organizations as a freelance impact consultant. Drew leverages her expertise through operations, strategy and impact communications work.

Website: https://www.chosendirections.com/
Instagram: https://instagram.com/chosendirectionscoaching
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drew-taylor-cohen/

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 19 May 2025 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Drew Taylor Cohen, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com I was always intrigued by the premise behind “Love Is Blind” - a reality show where singles try to find a match and fall in love -- without ever seeing each other face-to-face, as emotional connection attempts to conquer physical attraction. Full disclosure, I don’t watch TV so I haven’t seen an episode but still, the notion of moving beyond physical appearance and chemistry feels simultaneously intriguing and super risky.  

Then @Drew Taylor Cohen caught my attention with a post detailing her experience when building her @Bumble profile strictly on words stating her chosen values. 

NO perfect selfies.

NO predictable prompts that yield, “I love to hike, travel, cook, walk my dogs and go wine tasting.” 

NO eggplant emojis. 

Just the personal values she attempts to live by. (Oh, and one picture of her at a distance to prevent being flagged as a bot). 

@Drew Taylor Cohen is an Impact Consultant and Values Coach, so we talked about how to identify our own chosen values and distinguish them from our beliefs and identities (something I rooted myself in historically). We also discuss the challenges of seeking validation from others while navigating personal choices and the need for self-awareness and the evolving nature of values as individuals grow and change.

What an awesome conversation especially as I consider something similar in my own dating journey. Anyone relate? Join the conversation…

Guest Bio:

Trained in holistic, neurodiverse and values-aligned coaching techniques, Drew helps singles and couples break old patterns and align their values to find lasting love.

Dedicated to finding love that felt soul-aligned and safe, she set out on a personal development journey that led her to discover her values and trust her needs and desires. What did she do next? She created a dating profile with no photos, just screenshots of her values and how she envisioned them being shared in an aligned partnership. And it worked! Her fiancé and her just celebrated four years of swiping right on the things that matter most.

Through 1:1 coaching, she now helps her clients rewrite their own values-aligned love story and clarify what truly matters in love. Her aligned love method is about prioritizing your non-negotiables and curating love that mirrors the truth of who you already are.

She also developed and leads the Live Authentically program. This workshop and accompanying workbook uses a proven framework that guides participants to explore who you are, discover your chosen values and pursue an aligned life.

When she’s not helping people align their relationships and life to their values, she’s supporting purpose-driven organizations as a freelance impact consultant. Drew leverages her expertise through operations, strategy and impact communications work.

Website: https://www.chosendirections.com/
Instagram: https://instagram.com/chosendirectionscoaching
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/drew-taylor-cohen/

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Online dating with no pics - just your values? Drew Taylor Cohen, Jen Oliver 01:07:45 I was always intrigued by the premise behind “Love Is Blind” - a reality show where singles try to find a match and fall in love -- without ever seeing each other face-to-face, as emotional connection attempts to conquer physical attraction. Full disclosure, I don’t watch TV so I haven’t seen an episode but still, the notion of moving beyond physical appearance and chemistry feels simultaneously intriguing and super risky. Then @Drew Taylor Cohen caught my attention with a post detailing her experience when building her @Bumble profile strictly on words stating her chosen values. NO perfect selfies. NO predictable prompts that yield, “I love to hike, travel, cook, walk my dogs and go wine tasting.” NO eggplant emojis. Just the personal values she attempts to live by. (Oh, and one picture of her at a distance to prevent being flagged as a bot). @Drew Taylor Cohen is an Impact Consultant and Values Coach, so we talked about how to identify our own chosen values and distinguish them from our beliefs and identities (something I rooted myself in historically). We also discuss the challenges of seeking validation from others while navigating personal choices and the need for self-awareness and the evolving nature of values as individuals grow and change. What an awesome conversation especially as I consider something similar in my own dating journey. Anyone relate? Join the conversation… I was always intrigued by the premise behind “Love Is Blind” - a reality show where singles try to find a match and fall in love -- without ever seeing each other face-to-face, as emotional connection attempts to conquer physical attraction. Full disclosure, I don’t watch TV so I haven’t seen an episode but still, the notion of moving beyond physical appearance and chemistry feels simultaneously intriguing and super risky. Then @Drew Taylor Cohen caught my attention with a post detailing her experience when building her @Bumble profile strictly on words stating her chosen values. NO perfect selfies. NO predictable prompts that yield, “I love to hike, travel, cook, walk my dogs and go wine tasting.” NO eggplant emojis. Just the personal values she attempts to live by. (Oh, and one picture of her at a distance to prevent being flagged as a bot). @Drew Taylor Cohen is an Impact Consultant and Values Coach, so we talked about how to identify our own chosen values and distinguish them from our beliefs and identities (something I rooted myself in historically). We also discuss the challenges of seeking validation from others while navigating personal choices and the need for self-awareness and the evolving nature of values as individuals grow and change. What an awesome conversation especially as I consider something similar in my own dating journey. Anyone relate? Join the conversation… values, clarity, self-discovery, intimacy, dating, values-based dating, self-development, communication, connection, relationships, dating apps, self-awareness, personal growth, community, coaching false full 85 da85c8fe-d3d6-4c63-acf6-55e003b74283 “Act like a man!” and Break the Glass Ceiling with Dr. Kasi Lacey My conversation with Dr. Kasi Lacey speaks to a common experience among many; a woman and leader confronting the glass ceiling in an organization.

Kasi was passed over more than once for positions she was eminently qualified for “because they were instructed to hire a man…” Her encounter with gender bias became an inflection point; she did a new thing and made the decision to walk in and “act like a man” and demand the job she had more than earned. Kasi deliberately mimicked the hubris and assertion of a man who once came to her office demanding a promotion of his own. It worked.

As a bi-racial woman who presents “white” - Dr. Lacey shares her experiences with racism as well as toxic leadership and hustle culture. We also discuss the complexities of a “fake it til you make it” mentality and the significance of listening to one's inner voice as a means of empowerment and self-trust. Join the conversation!

Guest Bio:

I’m Kasi—a, psychologist, confidence coach, bi-racial woman, mother, and former C-suite leader who left the structured world of higher education to pursue a bigger mission: helping women step into unshakable confidence and unapologetic leadership.

For years, I played by the rules—earning my Ph.D. at 26, climbing the leadership ranks, and breaking barriers in male-dominated spaces. I fought to get my seat at the table, only to realize my ladder was leaning against the wrong building. I had checked all the boxes of success, yet I still felt like I was playing small.

That no longer works for me.

I built my own business, H & L Legacy Consulting, to help high-achieving women overcome imposter syndrome, advocate for themselves, and lead with confidence. Whether it's navigating workplace challenges, negotiating salaries, or owning their worth, I believe that when women stop doubting themselves, they change industries, organizations, and lives—including their own.

Website: https://www.kasilacey.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drkasilacey/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drkasilacey

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-kasi-lacey-207815110/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drkasilacey

 

 

Oh, and fun fact? I once avoided public speaking at all costs—now I travel the country as a keynote speaker. Turns out, fear is just another challenge waiting to be conquered.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Mon, 28 Apr 2025 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (DR. Kaci Lacey, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com My conversation with Dr. Kasi Lacey speaks to a common experience among many; a woman and leader confronting the glass ceiling in an organization.

Kasi was passed over more than once for positions she was eminently qualified for “because they were instructed to hire a man…” Her encounter with gender bias became an inflection point; she did a new thing and made the decision to walk in and “act like a man” and demand the job she had more than earned. Kasi deliberately mimicked the hubris and assertion of a man who once came to her office demanding a promotion of his own. It worked.

As a bi-racial woman who presents “white” - Dr. Lacey shares her experiences with racism as well as toxic leadership and hustle culture. We also discuss the complexities of a “fake it til you make it” mentality and the significance of listening to one's inner voice as a means of empowerment and self-trust. Join the conversation!

Guest Bio:

I’m Kasi—a, psychologist, confidence coach, bi-racial woman, mother, and former C-suite leader who left the structured world of higher education to pursue a bigger mission: helping women step into unshakable confidence and unapologetic leadership.

For years, I played by the rules—earning my Ph.D. at 26, climbing the leadership ranks, and breaking barriers in male-dominated spaces. I fought to get my seat at the table, only to realize my ladder was leaning against the wrong building. I had checked all the boxes of success, yet I still felt like I was playing small.

That no longer works for me.

I built my own business, H & L Legacy Consulting, to help high-achieving women overcome imposter syndrome, advocate for themselves, and lead with confidence. Whether it's navigating workplace challenges, negotiating salaries, or owning their worth, I believe that when women stop doubting themselves, they change industries, organizations, and lives—including their own.

Website: https://www.kasilacey.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drkasilacey/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drkasilacey

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dr-kasi-lacey-207815110/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@drkasilacey

 

 

Oh, and fun fact? I once avoided public speaking at all costs—now I travel the country as a keynote speaker. Turns out, fear is just another challenge waiting to be conquered.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> “Act like a man!” and Break the Glass Ceiling with Dr. Kasi Lacey DR. Kaci Lacey, Jen Oliver 00:48:59 My conversation with Dr. Kasi Lacey speaks to a common experience among many; a woman and leader confronting the glass ceiling in an organization. Kasi was passed over more than once for positions she was eminently qualified for “because they were instructed to hire a man…” Her encounter with gender bias became an inflection point; she did a new thing and made the decision to walk in and “act like a man” and demand the job she had more than earned. Kasi deliberately mimicked the hubris and assertion of a man who once came to her office demanding a promotion of his own. It worked. As a bi-racial woman who presents “white” - Dr. Lacey shares her experiences with racism as well as toxic leadership and hustle culture. We also discuss the complexities of a “fake it til you make it” mentality and the significance of listening to one's inner voice as a means of empowerment and self-trust. Join the conversation! My conversation with Dr. Kasi Lacey speaks to a common experience among many; a woman and leader confronting the glass ceiling in an organization. Kasi was passed over more than once for positions she was eminently qualified for “because they were instructed to hire a man…” Her encounter with gender bias became an inflection point; she did a new thing and made the decision to walk in and “act like a man” and demand the job she had more than earned. Kasi deliberately mimicked the hubris and assertion of a man who once came to her office demanding a promotion of his own. It worked. As a bi-racial woman who presents “white” - Dr. Lacey shares her experiences with racism as well as toxic leadership and hustle culture. We also discuss the complexities of a “fake it til you make it” mentality and the significance of listening to one's inner voice as a means of empowerment and self-trust. Join the conversation! leadership, gender bias, empowerment, women in business, burnout, inner voice, coaching false full 84 7f04d4a6-a80b-4cd4-b196-b0f365abc3d8 Disordered eating and silencing yourself share a solution; listen to your body! In this conversation, Amber Abila and I discuss the challenges many of us face when it comes to listening to our bodies, setting boundaries, and giving voice to what’s true for us. Amber is a binge and overeating coach, while I coach people to speak with impact and clarity from their truest voice.

We both see huge overlap in our coaching practices and agree that listening to our body is crucial for understanding our needs and then getting them met - whether that is with moderate amounts of nourishing food or expressing our authentic Selves verbally.

It has taken me a long time to learn what it means to create safety in my body, to sit with my emotions and not eat or drink them away. Amber and I dig into matters of self-worth, the struggle against people-pleasing, and the reality of shame and its ability to trigger overeating, binge eating, staying silent or speaking non-truths. It’s all related…join the conversation.

Guest Bio:

Amber Abila helps women stop binge eating & overeating by rewiring their brains so they can feel normal and in control around ANY food.

Through coaching and psychology, she learned that there was nothing wrong with her and she just needed some simple brain tools to start making dramatic shifts in her eating habits and life.

She now walks others step by step through her process in her signature Confident Eater Program as well as in her podcast, in the top 3% worldwide, called “Become a Confident Eater.”

Website: https://www.theconfidenteater.org

Podcast: https://www.theconfidenteater.org/podcast

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theconfidenteater_/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/532434625387487

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@amberabila

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Tue, 22 Apr 2025 17:37:22 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Amber Abila, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com In this conversation, Amber Abila and I discuss the challenges many of us face when it comes to listening to our bodies, setting boundaries, and giving voice to what’s true for us. Amber is a binge and overeating coach, while I coach people to speak with impact and clarity from their truest voice.

We both see huge overlap in our coaching practices and agree that listening to our body is crucial for understanding our needs and then getting them met - whether that is with moderate amounts of nourishing food or expressing our authentic Selves verbally.

It has taken me a long time to learn what it means to create safety in my body, to sit with my emotions and not eat or drink them away. Amber and I dig into matters of self-worth, the struggle against people-pleasing, and the reality of shame and its ability to trigger overeating, binge eating, staying silent or speaking non-truths. It’s all related…join the conversation.

Guest Bio:

Amber Abila helps women stop binge eating & overeating by rewiring their brains so they can feel normal and in control around ANY food.

Through coaching and psychology, she learned that there was nothing wrong with her and she just needed some simple brain tools to start making dramatic shifts in her eating habits and life.

She now walks others step by step through her process in her signature Confident Eater Program as well as in her podcast, in the top 3% worldwide, called “Become a Confident Eater.”

Website: https://www.theconfidenteater.org

Podcast: https://www.theconfidenteater.org/podcast

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theconfidenteater_/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/532434625387487

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@amberabila

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Disordered eating and silencing yourself share a solution; listen to your body! Amber Abila, Jen Oliver 00:56:28 In this conversation, Amber Abila and I discuss the challenges many of us face when it comes to listening to our bodies, setting boundaries, and giving voice to what’s true for us. Amber is a binge and overeating coach, while I coach people to speak with impact and clarity from their truest voice. We both see huge overlap in our coaching practices and agree that listening to our body is crucial for understanding our needs and then getting them met - whether that is with moderate amounts of nourishing food or expressing our authentic Selves verbally. It has taken me a long time to learn what it means to create safety in my body, to sit with my emotions and not eat or drink them away. Amber and I dig into matters of self-worth, the struggle against people-pleasing, and the reality of shame and its ability to trigger overeating, binge eating, staying silent or speaking non-truths. It’s all related…join the conversation. In this conversation, Amber Abila and I discuss the challenges many of us face when it comes to listening to our bodies, setting boundaries, and giving voice to what’s true for us. Amber is a binge and overeating coach, while I coach people to speak with impact and clarity from their truest voice. We both see huge overlap in our coaching practices and agree that listening to our body is crucial for understanding our needs and then getting them met - whether that is with moderate amounts of nourishing food or expressing our authentic Selves verbally. It has taken me a long time to learn what it means to create safety in my body, to sit with my emotions and not eat or drink them away. Amber and I dig into matters of self-worth, the struggle against people-pleasing, and the reality of shame and its ability to trigger overeating, binge eating, staying silent or speaking non-truths. It’s all related…join the conversation. shame, self-care, women's empowerment, self-expression, emotional eating, communication, body awareness, voice, intuitive eating, boundaries, binge eating, personal growth, people pleasing, coaching false full 83 6efd2813-4f9f-474d-9290-62fbb8a3145f Coming home to yourself and the dismantling that requires I don’t often use the word “enlightening” but this conversation with Lara Waldman was just that. We explored our stories of spiritual awakening, the ways that we understand this elusive term called “manifestation,” and our unique journeys of self-discovery. This was a topic of conversation that I once would have labeled heretical and taboo because it didn’t align with my limited viewpoint or echo chamber. What a loss that would have been.

Lara shares her personal experiences to illustrate the interconnectedness of money, intimacy, and ancestral trauma. At one point, she says, “...for me, manifesting is mostly about releasing and letting go of everything that is NOT YOU, which is a lot of history, a lot of stories, a lot of programs, a lot of patterns…we're here to know ourselves often through the experience of lack, but that's not the truth of who we are…manifesting is connecting with who you are and what your soul wants to experience through physical reality. And that's not just the good stuff, right? We're here to have a full, rich experience of being alive as a human being on this planet. This is high level stuff.” 

Yes, yes it is “high level stuff” and totally worth the conversation. Join us.

 

Guest Bio:

Lara Waldman, a.k.a The Wealth Accelerator, is a manifestation expert, healer, podcast host and author of 'Money Manifestation Mastery'.

Lara helps driven business owners and entrepreneurs transform blocks to owning their value to manifest high cash months and create wealth in every area of their life.

She draws on over two decades of experience as a healer and spiritual coach to help transformational educators, business owners, leaders and professionals achieve financial success guided by the soul of their business and their wealthy inner wisdom.

Lara’s passion is helping the world’s leaders create authentic success by activating their creative power within. She’ll teach you the mindset, practices, and strategy you need to build the wealth and freedom you desire without the grind.

Originally from Vancouver, Canada, Lara lives in London, England, with her husband of 24 years and two daughters.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/larawaldmanofficial

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/abundanceactivator

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LaraWaldmanabundanceactivator

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/larawaldman

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 14 Apr 2025 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Lara Waldman, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com I don’t often use the word “enlightening” but this conversation with Lara Waldman was just that. We explored our stories of spiritual awakening, the ways that we understand this elusive term called “manifestation,” and our unique journeys of self-discovery. This was a topic of conversation that I once would have labeled heretical and taboo because it didn’t align with my limited viewpoint or echo chamber. What a loss that would have been.

Lara shares her personal experiences to illustrate the interconnectedness of money, intimacy, and ancestral trauma. At one point, she says, “...for me, manifesting is mostly about releasing and letting go of everything that is NOT YOU, which is a lot of history, a lot of stories, a lot of programs, a lot of patterns…we're here to know ourselves often through the experience of lack, but that's not the truth of who we are…manifesting is connecting with who you are and what your soul wants to experience through physical reality. And that's not just the good stuff, right? We're here to have a full, rich experience of being alive as a human being on this planet. This is high level stuff.” 

Yes, yes it is “high level stuff” and totally worth the conversation. Join us.

 

Guest Bio:

Lara Waldman, a.k.a The Wealth Accelerator, is a manifestation expert, healer, podcast host and author of 'Money Manifestation Mastery'.

Lara helps driven business owners and entrepreneurs transform blocks to owning their value to manifest high cash months and create wealth in every area of their life.

She draws on over two decades of experience as a healer and spiritual coach to help transformational educators, business owners, leaders and professionals achieve financial success guided by the soul of their business and their wealthy inner wisdom.

Lara’s passion is helping the world’s leaders create authentic success by activating their creative power within. She’ll teach you the mindset, practices, and strategy you need to build the wealth and freedom you desire without the grind.

Originally from Vancouver, Canada, Lara lives in London, England, with her husband of 24 years and two daughters.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/larawaldmanofficial

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/abundanceactivator

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LaraWaldmanabundanceactivator

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/larawaldman

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Coming home to yourself and the dismantling that requires Lara Waldman, Jen Oliver 00:56:36 I don’t often use the word “enlightening” but this conversation with Lara Waldman was just that. We explored our stories of spiritual awakening, the ways that we understand this elusive term called “manifestation,” and our unique journeys of self-discovery. This was a topic of conversation that I once would have labeled heretical and taboo because it didn’t align with my limited viewpoint or echo chamber. What a loss that would have been. Lara shares her personal experiences to illustrate the interconnectedness of money, intimacy, and ancestral trauma. At one point, she says, “...for me, manifesting is mostly about releasing and letting go of everything that is NOT YOU, which is a lot of history, a lot of stories, a lot of programs, a lot of patterns…we're here to know ourselves often through the experience of lack, but that's not the truth of who we are…manifesting is connecting with who you are and what your soul wants to experience through physical reality. And that's not just the good stuff, right? We're here to have a full, rich experience of being alive as a human being on this planet. This is high level stuff.” Yes, yes it is “high level stuff” and totally worth the conversation. Join us. I don’t often use the word “enlightening” but this conversation with Lara Waldman was just that. We explored our stories of spiritual awakening, the ways that we understand this elusive term called “manifestation,” and our unique journeys of self-discovery. This was a topic of conversation that I once would have labeled heretical and taboo because it didn’t align with my limited viewpoint or echo chamber. What a loss that would have been. Lara shares her personal experiences to illustrate the interconnectedness of money, intimacy, and ancestral trauma. At one point, she says, “...for me, manifesting is mostly about releasing and letting go of everything that is NOT YOU, which is a lot of history, a lot of stories, a lot of programs, a lot of patterns…we're here to know ourselves often through the experience of lack, but that's not the truth of who we are…manifesting is connecting with who you are and what your soul wants to experience through physical reality. And that's not just the good stuff, right? We're here to have a full, rich experience of being alive as a human being on this planet. This is high level stuff.” Yes, yes it is “high level stuff” and totally worth the conversation. Join us. energy, ancestral trauma, authenticity, emotional healing, spiritual awakening, self-discovery, intimacy, healing, relationships, consciousness, shadow work, self-priority, money, personal growth, manifestation false full 82 5e6150f4-fbf8-421f-a4e4-c26bad98d23f The “echo chamber” of the American military expands my own When echo chambers collide you get the best conversation! I sat down with Justin Cauthen, a man with 20 years of military service and five combat tours to his credit - not to mention leadership roles in situations and countries where hostility is often the norm. His story is powerful. And so is his heart.

We talked about things that matter deeply—PTSD, suicide, the ripple effect trauma has across professions, the toll military life takes on spouses and kids. Justin shared with such humility and vulnerability. One of the things he said that struck me most was this: trauma radiates. And it does—it moves through people, relationships, even whole communities. And this is experienced by many - not just those associated with the military. BUT, there is a flip side! Healing also has a ripple effect.

This conversation is also about “assuming noble intent”  - as Justin puts it -  lowering our defenses, asking the hard questions, and holding space for someone else's truth. And let me tell you, Justin showed up for this in a big way. We discussed the impact of military service on personal integrity and the importance of grace and understanding in supporting veterans during their transition to civilian life. 

I walked away changed. And I believe you will, too. Join the conversation…

Guest Bio:

With over two decades of service in the United States Army and healthcare, I am beginning the transition to the civilian workforce. This is NOT an easy transition for anyone who starts into a culture such as the military at the age of 17 or 18.

My military career began as a healthcare specialist overseeing the night shift EMT team, expanded into higher-level leadership, leadership instruction, senior advisory roles, and aeromedical evacuation management, and will end with my current senior position as the Executive Clinical Director of Evans Army Community Hospital.

With an extensive background in military healthcare and a focus on healthcare innovation and project management, my tenure at Evans Army Community Hospital has been marked by the advancement of medical facilities and services for a vast beneficiary community. At the helm of a 2,700-member team, we've fostered innovation and optimized resources in a dynamic healthcare environment.

I have had the honor of leading troops in the far east and southwest of Asia as well as other regions. I am a Flight Medic by trade, but have had the privilege as serving in a myriad of rolls. Most notably was an Advisor to the Ministries of Health for the Islamic Republic of Afghanistan as well as Logistics Command to the Afghan Army. It was here, in Kabul from 2020-2021 that I learned the importance of assuming intent and the importance of recognizing the nobility in each of us, that we are ALL doing the best we can; with what we have, from the experiences we have had and the resources life have given us.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justin.cauthen?igsh=dmZ6azJicXEwb3Jr&utm_source=qr

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/18fNhfrPuu/?mibextid=wwXIfr

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justin-cauthen?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_app

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 7 Apr 2025 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Justin Cauthen, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com When echo chambers collide you get the best conversation! I sat down with Justin Cauthen, a man with 20 years of military service and five combat tours to his credit - not to mention leadership roles in situations and countries where hostility is often the norm. His story is powerful. And so is his heart.

We talked about things that matter deeply—PTSD, suicide, the ripple effect trauma has across professions, the toll military life takes on spouses and kids. Justin shared with such humility and vulnerability. One of the things he said that struck me most was this: trauma radiates. And it does—it moves through people, relationships, even whole communities. And this is experienced by many - not just those associated with the military. BUT, there is a flip side! Healing also has a ripple effect.

This conversation is also about “assuming noble intent”  - as Justin puts it -  lowering our defenses, asking the hard questions, and holding space for someone else's truth. And let me tell you, Justin showed up for this in a big way. We discussed the impact of military service on personal integrity and the importance of grace and understanding in supporting veterans during their transition to civilian life. 

I walked away changed. And I believe you will, too. Join the conversation…

Guest Bio:

With over two decades of service in the United States Army and healthcare, I am beginning the transition to the civilian workforce. This is NOT an easy transition for anyone who starts into a culture such as the military at the age of 17 or 18.

My military career began as a healthcare specialist overseeing the night shift EMT team, expanded into higher-level leadership, leadership instruction, senior advisory roles, and aeromedical evacuation management, and will end with my current senior position as the Executive Clinical Director of Evans Army Community Hospital.

With an extensive background in military healthcare and a focus on healthcare innovation and project management, my tenure at Evans Army Community Hospital has been marked by the advancement of medical facilities and services for a vast beneficiary community. At the helm of a 2,700-member team, we've fostered innovation and optimized resources in a dynamic healthcare environment.

I have had the honor of leading troops in the far east and southwest of Asia as well as other regions. I am a Flight Medic by trade, but have had the privilege as serving in a myriad of rolls. Most notably was an Advisor to the Ministries of Health for the Islamic Republic of Afghanistan as well as Logistics Command to the Afghan Army. It was here, in Kabul from 2020-2021 that I learned the importance of assuming intent and the importance of recognizing the nobility in each of us, that we are ALL doing the best we can; with what we have, from the experiences we have had and the resources life have given us.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/justin.cauthen?igsh=dmZ6azJicXEwb3Jr&utm_source=qr

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/share/18fNhfrPuu/?mibextid=wwXIfr

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/justin-cauthen?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_app

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> The “echo chamber” of the American military expands my own Justin Cauthen, Jen Oliver 01:06:13 When echo chambers collide you get the best conversation! I sat down with Justin Cauthen, a man with 20 years of military service and five combat tours to his credit - not to mention leadership roles in situations and countries where hostility is often the norm. His story is powerful. And so is his heart. We talked about things that matter deeply—PTSD, suicide, the ripple effect trauma has across professions, the toll military life takes on spouses and kids. Justin shared with such humility and vulnerability. One of the things he said that struck me most was this: trauma radiates. And it does—it moves through people, relationships, even whole communities. And this is experienced by many - not just those associated with the military. BUT, there is a flip side! Healing also has a ripple effect. This conversation is also about “assuming noble intent” - as Justin puts it - lowering our defenses, asking the hard questions, and holding space for someone else's truth. And let me tell you, Justin showed up for this in a big way. We discussed the impact of military service on personal integrity and the importance of grace and understanding in supporting veterans during their transition to civilian life. I walked away changed. And I believe you will, too. Join the conversation… When echo chambers collide you get the best conversation! I sat down with Justin Cauthen, a man with 20 years of military service and five combat tours to his credit - not to mention leadership roles in situations and countries where hostility is often the norm. His story is powerful. And so is his heart. We talked about things that matter deeply—PTSD, suicide, the ripple effect trauma has across professions, the toll military life takes on spouses and kids. Justin shared with such humility and vulnerability. One of the things he said that struck me most was this: trauma radiates. And it does—it moves through people, relationships, even whole communities. And this is experienced by many - not just those associated with the military. BUT, there is a flip side! Healing also has a ripple effect. This conversation is also about “assuming noble intent” - as Justin puts it - lowering our defenses, asking the hard questions, and holding space for someone else's truth. And let me tell you, Justin showed up for this in a big way. We discussed the impact of military service on personal integrity and the importance of grace and understanding in supporting veterans during their transition to civilian life. I walked away changed. And I believe you will, too. Join the conversation… returning home, military culture, trauma, assume noble intent, veterans, military experience, echo chamber, ptsd, mental health false full 81 1c9628ba-8251-476f-a77a-eec3db7be8b8 We limit ourselves by the stories we believe Y’all, this episode with Bara Mann was one that I want you to be a part of.

We talked about belonging, identity, and the stories we tell ourselves—especially the ones that no longer serve us. Bara shared her childhood moments of trying to fit in - and I talked of what that looks like as an adult. I’ve been that chameleon too—fitting in everywhere, but not necessarily showing all of me.

This conversation was about breaking down the invisible walls we put up, and finding courage to speak from our truest place.

We also explored the energy of our words—how our stories hold weight, shape our lives, and ripple into the world. Every time we speak from our truth, we add momentum to the life we want to live.

This episode is a loving invitation to question old stories and come home to yourself.

Grab a seat on the couch. Let’s keep going deeper. Together.

Guest Bio:

Bara Mann (she/they) is a speaker and transformational life coach who helps driven individuals create more joy and impact. Drawing from both her corporate engineering career and Positive Intelligence® coaching expertise, she guides clients beyond overthinking into confident action. Through her approach to mental fitness, clients learn to overcome their fear of failure and and take control of their inner thoughts to create meaningful relationships, thrive in their careers, and experience deep wellbeing with greater confidence and joy.

Website: https://baraco.org

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/baracobara/

Linkedin: https://www.instagram.com/baracobara

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 31 Mar 2025 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com Y’all, this episode with Bara Mann was one that I want you to be a part of.

We talked about belonging, identity, and the stories we tell ourselves—especially the ones that no longer serve us. Bara shared her childhood moments of trying to fit in - and I talked of what that looks like as an adult. I’ve been that chameleon too—fitting in everywhere, but not necessarily showing all of me.

This conversation was about breaking down the invisible walls we put up, and finding courage to speak from our truest place.

We also explored the energy of our words—how our stories hold weight, shape our lives, and ripple into the world. Every time we speak from our truth, we add momentum to the life we want to live.

This episode is a loving invitation to question old stories and come home to yourself.

Grab a seat on the couch. Let’s keep going deeper. Together.

Guest Bio:

Bara Mann (she/they) is a speaker and transformational life coach who helps driven individuals create more joy and impact. Drawing from both her corporate engineering career and Positive Intelligence® coaching expertise, she guides clients beyond overthinking into confident action. Through her approach to mental fitness, clients learn to overcome their fear of failure and and take control of their inner thoughts to create meaningful relationships, thrive in their careers, and experience deep wellbeing with greater confidence and joy.

Website: https://baraco.org

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/baracobara/

Linkedin: https://www.instagram.com/baracobara

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> We limit ourselves by the stories we believe Jen Oliver 00:47:59 Y’all, this episode with Bara Mann was one that I want you to be a part of. We talked about belonging, identity, and the stories we tell ourselves—especially the ones that no longer serve us. Bara shared her childhood moments of trying to fit in - and I talked of what that looks like as an adult. I’ve been that chameleon too—fitting in everywhere, but not necessarily showing all of me. This conversation was about breaking down the invisible walls we put up, and finding courage to speak from our truest place. We also explored the energy of our words—how our stories hold weight, shape our lives, and ripple into the world. Every time we speak from our truth, we add momentum to the life we want to live. This episode is a loving invitation to question old stories and come home to yourself. Grab a seat on the couch. Let’s keep going deeper. Together. Y’all, this episode with Bara Mann was one that I want you to be a part of. We talked about belonging, identity, and the stories we tell ourselves—especially the ones that no longer serve us. Bara shared her childhood moments of trying to fit in - and I talked of what that looks like as an adult. I’ve been that chameleon too—fitting in everywhere, but not necessarily showing all of me. This conversation was about breaking down the invisible walls we put up, and finding courage to speak from our truest place. We also explored the energy of our words—how our stories hold weight, shape our lives, and ripple into the world. Every time we speak from our truth, we add momentum to the life we want to live. This episode is a loving invitation to question old stories and come home to yourself. Grab a seat on the couch. Let’s keep going deeper. Together. false full 80 073a82ce-e60c-4ea5-853f-6cb66fc04791 “Horribly Lovely” - A conversation with Jon Kohrs Reading “Horribly Lovely” was exactly that…and, I could not stop turning the pages. My conversation with the author, Jon Kohrs, went deep as we talked about his “Horribly Lovely” journey. I will avoid spoilers, but this newly released book may cause you to reconsider many things. I confess to sitting in judgment of people and behaviors that Jon’s writing exposes; from addiction to marital infidelity, he opens the door wide open to us with each chapter. This conversation opened me up to a greater space of love, compassion, and understanding. 

Jon shares his personal experiences with shame and an insatiable quest for connection, providing insights into the challenges of being truly present for people we love and the impact of past traumas on current relationships. 

We also discuss the roots of addiction, the stigma surrounding suicidal ideation, and the importance of authenticity in sharing personal stories. The dialogue emphasizes the gray areas of right and wrong, the beauty in messiness, and the transformative journey of being human. Join our conversation…

Here is the link again to the website.  The alchemy quiz is at the top.  http://horriblylovely.com/

Guest Bio:

With an unconventional approach to writing, Jon is trying to break the norms of how we express ourselves authentically and idiosyncratically with the full originality of who we are as individuals. His writing is dreamlike, symbolic, and even poetic, uplifting the human spirit through the clarity and blunt punctuation of our experience living here together.  

His writing is an attempt to weave wisdom from his own unconventional journeys, with the Enneagram, shamanism, and Jungian alchemy, to explore the depth of human transformation. Jon is inspired to investigate how love works in this big bang universe of ours to empower others to bring their own real, honest, and uncomfortable love stories to the world.

Jon balances writing with consulting opportunities to transform companies, teams, and leaders that desire to work in whole new ways. He serves as a designer, coach, and teacher, helping employees grow through the process of transforming ideas into intrapreneurial ventures.

In both the literary and corporate worlds, he’s served as a creative bridge between the personal and transpersonal realms. He is inspired by the shocks that help us unlearn who we think we and the resilience that helps us relearn who we truly are.

Website: https://horriblylovely.fresheg.gs/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hatchedinlove

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Sun, 23 Feb 2025 23:57:55 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jon Kohrs, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com Reading “Horribly Lovely” was exactly that…and, I could not stop turning the pages. My conversation with the author, Jon Kohrs, went deep as we talked about his “Horribly Lovely” journey. I will avoid spoilers, but this newly released book may cause you to reconsider many things. I confess to sitting in judgment of people and behaviors that Jon’s writing exposes; from addiction to marital infidelity, he opens the door wide open to us with each chapter. This conversation opened me up to a greater space of love, compassion, and understanding. 

Jon shares his personal experiences with shame and an insatiable quest for connection, providing insights into the challenges of being truly present for people we love and the impact of past traumas on current relationships. 

We also discuss the roots of addiction, the stigma surrounding suicidal ideation, and the importance of authenticity in sharing personal stories. The dialogue emphasizes the gray areas of right and wrong, the beauty in messiness, and the transformative journey of being human. Join our conversation…

Here is the link again to the website.  The alchemy quiz is at the top.  http://horriblylovely.com/

Guest Bio:

With an unconventional approach to writing, Jon is trying to break the norms of how we express ourselves authentically and idiosyncratically with the full originality of who we are as individuals. His writing is dreamlike, symbolic, and even poetic, uplifting the human spirit through the clarity and blunt punctuation of our experience living here together.  

His writing is an attempt to weave wisdom from his own unconventional journeys, with the Enneagram, shamanism, and Jungian alchemy, to explore the depth of human transformation. Jon is inspired to investigate how love works in this big bang universe of ours to empower others to bring their own real, honest, and uncomfortable love stories to the world.

Jon balances writing with consulting opportunities to transform companies, teams, and leaders that desire to work in whole new ways. He serves as a designer, coach, and teacher, helping employees grow through the process of transforming ideas into intrapreneurial ventures.

In both the literary and corporate worlds, he’s served as a creative bridge between the personal and transpersonal realms. He is inspired by the shocks that help us unlearn who we think we and the resilience that helps us relearn who we truly are.

Website: https://horriblylovely.fresheg.gs/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/hatchedinlove

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> “Horribly Lovely” - A conversation with Jon Kohrs Jon Kohrs, Jen Oliver 01:14:18 Reading “Horribly Lovely” was exactly that…and, I could not stop turning the pages. My conversation with the author, Jon Kohrs, went deep as we talked about his “Horribly Lovely” journey. I will avoid spoilers, but this newly released book may cause you to reconsider many things. I confess to sitting in judgment of people and behaviors that Jon’s writing exposes; from addiction to marital infidelity, he opens the door wide open to us with each chapter. This conversation opened me up to a greater space of love, compassion, and understanding. Jon shares his personal experiences with shame and an insatiable quest for connection, providing insights into the challenges of being truly present for people we love and the impact of past traumas on current relationships. We also discuss the roots of addiction, the stigma surrounding suicidal ideation, and the importance of authenticity in sharing personal stories. The dialogue emphasizes the gray areas of right and wrong, the beauty in messiness, and the transformative journey of being human. Join our conversation… Reading “Horribly Lovely” was exactly that…and, I could not stop turning the pages. My conversation with the author, Jon Kohrs, went deep as we talked about his “Horribly Lovely” journey. I will avoid spoilers, but this newly released book may cause you to reconsider many things. I confess to sitting in judgment of people and behaviors that Jon’s writing exposes; from addiction to marital infidelity, he opens the door wide open to us with each chapter. This conversation opened me up to a greater space of love, compassion, and understanding. Jon shares his personal experiences with shame and an insatiable quest for connection, providing insights into the challenges of being truly present for people we love and the impact of past traumas on current relationships. We also discuss the roots of addiction, the stigma surrounding suicidal ideation, and the importance of authenticity in sharing personal stories. The dialogue emphasizes the gray areas of right and wrong, the beauty in messiness, and the transformative journey of being human. Join our conversation… #horriblylovely, #emotional healing, #shame, #addiction, #relationships false full 79 2f741b98-7e24-4d22-83eb-e56980959a57 Tackling One Fear Per Year Janice and I unpack our personal fears and the unique way she continues to overcome hers. I am someone who has historically craved certainty and safety - and as usual – my perspective shifts and so does our conversation! Our discussion pivoted into dating, love and our own relationships and divorces. We got into communication and breakups and the way fear can be both debilitating and liberating.

I met Janice when she became one of my  2024 TEDx speakers

 - her talk was different because it was about identifying emotional wounds, facing fears and overcoming them by doing some pretty unique things, one fear, per year.

 She also has a podcast of the same name. This episode is one more REAL conversation that helps normalize fear and our admissions around it. Join the conversation…

Guest Bio:

Janice Burt is an inspirational speaker, court certified Spanish interpreter, voiceover artist, yoga instructor, podcast host, actor, and author. She has spoken on the TEDx stage twice, with topics such as kicking the people-pleasing habit and walking through one fear per year. Her purpose in life is to share hope and encouragement with others through the power of words and messy action.

Website: https://www.janiceburt.com/

Podcast: https://onefearperyear.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spanish_janice/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/janice-burt-93553619/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JaniceBurt

Amazon: https://us.amazon.com/stores/Janice-Angela-Burt/author/B00MDFM28I?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 17 Feb 2025 08:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Janice Burt, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com Janice and I unpack our personal fears and the unique way she continues to overcome hers. I am someone who has historically craved certainty and safety - and as usual – my perspective shifts and so does our conversation! Our discussion pivoted into dating, love and our own relationships and divorces. We got into communication and breakups and the way fear can be both debilitating and liberating.

I met Janice when she became one of my  2024 TEDx speakers

 - her talk was different because it was about identifying emotional wounds, facing fears and overcoming them by doing some pretty unique things, one fear, per year.

 She also has a podcast of the same name. This episode is one more REAL conversation that helps normalize fear and our admissions around it. Join the conversation…

Guest Bio:

Janice Burt is an inspirational speaker, court certified Spanish interpreter, voiceover artist, yoga instructor, podcast host, actor, and author. She has spoken on the TEDx stage twice, with topics such as kicking the people-pleasing habit and walking through one fear per year. Her purpose in life is to share hope and encouragement with others through the power of words and messy action.

Website: https://www.janiceburt.com/

Podcast: https://onefearperyear.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/spanish_janice/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/janice-burt-93553619/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JaniceBurt

Amazon: https://us.amazon.com/stores/Janice-Angela-Burt/author/B00MDFM28I?ref=ap_rdr&isDramIntegrated=true&shoppingPortalEnabled=true

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Tackling One Fear Per Year Janice Burt, Jen Oliver 01:01:18 Janice and I unpack our personal fears and the unique way she continues to overcome hers. I am someone who has historically craved certainty and safety - and as usual – my perspective shifts and so does our conversation! Our discussion pivoted into dating, love and our own relationships and divorces. We got into communication and breakups and the way fear can be both debilitating and liberating. I met Janice when she became one of my 2024 TEDx speakers - her talk was different because it was about identifying emotional wounds, facing fears and overcoming them by doing some pretty unique things, one fear, per year. She also has a podcast of the same name. This episode is one more REAL conversation that helps normalize fear and our admissions around it. Join the conversation… Janice and I unpack our personal fears and the unique way she continues to overcome hers. I am someone who has historically craved certainty and safety - and as usual – my perspective shifts and so does our conversation! Our discussion pivoted into dating, love and our own relationships and divorces. We got into communication and breakups and the way fear can be both debilitating and liberating. I met Janice when she became one of my 2024 TEDx speakers - her talk was different because it was about identifying emotional wounds, facing fears and overcoming them by doing some pretty unique things, one fear, per year. She also has a podcast of the same name. This episode is one more REAL conversation that helps normalize fear and our admissions around it. Join the conversation… #fear #love #communication #growth #relationships #tedx false full 78 2b5b3a97-64b4-4ba4-a089-e59a819236d5 I received a love letter… One year ago, a Valentine’s Day love letter came my way and I recorded my thoughts about it. This week’s episode is a replay and is the perfect precursor to my next conversation in which I unpack all that has changed (or not) in the last year…Join me.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Mon, 3 Feb 2025 02:01:55 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com One year ago, a Valentine’s Day love letter came my way and I recorded my thoughts about it. This week’s episode is a replay and is the perfect precursor to my next conversation in which I unpack all that has changed (or not) in the last year…Join me.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> I received a love letter… Jen Oliver 00:15:06 One year ago, a Valentine’s Day love letter came my way and I recorded my thoughts about it. This week’s episode is a replay and is the perfect precursor to my next conversation in which I unpack all that has changed (or not) in the last year…Join me. One year ago, a Valentine’s Day love letter came my way and I recorded my thoughts about it. This week’s episode is a replay and is the perfect precursor to my next conversation in which I unpack all that has changed (or not) in the last year…Join me. false full 77 5ecc92c3-b3e8-4089-88b8-0e36e6e74d28 REAL stories witnessed in Israel, the West Bank and Gaza I am honored to be in conversation with Mark Patinkin, finalist for the Pulitzer Prize in international reporting, as he shares an array of human stories that help us to grasp the complexities of life and war in Israel, the West Bank and Gaza. Patinkin moves from armchair commentaries to analyst to storyteller and beautifully amplifies voices and perspectives that need to be heard. He goes into the homes of both Jews and Palestinians to bear witness to their experiences. Mark is one of few journalists allowed into Gaza and he takes readers and listeners like us with him. 

There is much to learn from this conversation and Mark’s book, the Holy Land at War  (and more importantly from those actually living within this ongoing struggle).

Guest Bio:

Mark Patinkin, longtime Providence Journal columnist, is the author of “The Holy Land at War: A Journey Through Israel, the West Bank and Gaza.” Over the decades, Mark has traveled abroad to write about the Lebanon civil war, the first Intifada, the collapse of European communism and now war in the Middle East. Mark was a Pulitzer Prize finalist for international reporting and has honorary degrees from Rhode Island College and Johnson and Wales University. Mark grew up in Chicago, graduated from Middlebury College and currently lives in Providence.

Website: https://markpatinkin.com

X / Twitter link: https://x.com/markpatinkin

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/swaglessdad/

Facebook link: https://www.facebook.com/mark.patinkin.9

Youtube link: https://www.youtube.com/@MarkPatinkin-b5o

Linkedin link: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-patinkin-07263126/

Amazon link: https://a.co/d/gqPjWqO

Wikipedia link: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Patinkin

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Mon, 20 Jan 2025 08:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Mark Patinkin, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com I am honored to be in conversation with Mark Patinkin, finalist for the Pulitzer Prize in international reporting, as he shares an array of human stories that help us to grasp the complexities of life and war in Israel, the West Bank and Gaza. Patinkin moves from armchair commentaries to analyst to storyteller and beautifully amplifies voices and perspectives that need to be heard. He goes into the homes of both Jews and Palestinians to bear witness to their experiences. Mark is one of few journalists allowed into Gaza and he takes readers and listeners like us with him. 

There is much to learn from this conversation and Mark’s book, the Holy Land at War  (and more importantly from those actually living within this ongoing struggle).

Guest Bio:

Mark Patinkin, longtime Providence Journal columnist, is the author of “The Holy Land at War: A Journey Through Israel, the West Bank and Gaza.” Over the decades, Mark has traveled abroad to write about the Lebanon civil war, the first Intifada, the collapse of European communism and now war in the Middle East. Mark was a Pulitzer Prize finalist for international reporting and has honorary degrees from Rhode Island College and Johnson and Wales University. Mark grew up in Chicago, graduated from Middlebury College and currently lives in Providence.

Website: https://markpatinkin.com

X / Twitter link: https://x.com/markpatinkin

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/swaglessdad/

Facebook link: https://www.facebook.com/mark.patinkin.9

Youtube link: https://www.youtube.com/@MarkPatinkin-b5o

Linkedin link: https://www.linkedin.com/in/mark-patinkin-07263126/

Amazon link: https://a.co/d/gqPjWqO

Wikipedia link: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Patinkin

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> REAL stories witnessed in Israel, the West Bank and Gaza Mark Patinkin, Jen Oliver 01:07:31 I am honored to be in conversation with Mark Patinkin, finalist for the Pulitzer Prize in international reporting, as he shares an array of human stories that help us to grasp the complexities of life and war in Israel, the West Bank and Gaza. Patinkin moves from armchair commentaries to analyst to storyteller and beautifully amplifies voices and perspectives that need to be heard. He goes into the homes of both Jews and Palestinians to bear witness to their experiences. Mark is one of few journalists allowed into Gaza and he takes readers and listeners like us with him. There is much to learn from this conversation and Mark’s book, the Holy Land at War (and more importantly from those actually living within this ongoing struggle). I am honored to be in conversation with Mark Patinkin, finalist for the Pulitzer Prize in international reporting, as he shares an array of human stories that help us to grasp the complexities of life and war in Israel, the West Bank and Gaza. Patinkin moves from armchair commentaries to analyst to storyteller and beautifully amplifies voices and perspectives that need to be heard. He goes into the homes of both Jews and Palestinians to bear witness to their experiences. Mark is one of few journalists allowed into Gaza and he takes readers and listeners like us with him. There is much to learn from this conversation and Mark’s book, the Holy Land at War (and more importantly from those actually living within this ongoing struggle). hope, holy land, human stories, personal stories, conflict, israel, gaza, empathy, resilience, witnessing, lived experiences, israeli-palestinian conflict, mark patinkin, peace, education, sacred sites, journalism, jerusalem, coexistence, palestine false full 76 b7020e1e-d507-4b2f-8d87-9398593f29a2 REAL talk on romance and the barrier to better love with Anna K. Morris My limited view on love and relationships has been blown wide open again. Anna K. Morris is on the “couch” with me and we talk super candidly about true love and knowledge of self in our romantic partnerships. This is NOT the rom-com, cultural ideal, religiously formed, or social media driven version of “love and romance.” We talk about the REAL, exciting, painful, ego-challenging and even non-conventional approaches to a strong relationship - one built upon healthy autonomy as an individual FIRST - which can lend to a greater level of intimacy with others. 

Anna talks openly about her life with Derek which lacks the co-dependent dance that I brought to my own relationships in the past. We both dive into our personal experiences with heartbreak, deep intimacy, and the importance of listening to one's body for clues on both. We continually come back to the significance of integrity in relationships and the necessity of being whole as a precursor to seeking love from others.. Join us. 

Our Guest:

Anna K. Morris is a passionate entrepreneur, wife and mother of 2 little boys and 2 rescue dogs. She’s a life coach and podcast host specializing in women achieving their big dreams while doing less and having more faith. She is co-founder of Happy Karma Homes with her husband, Derek, building and renovating beautiful homes in central Texas. You can also find her selling brownie truffles with her mother, Carla, from Yaya’s Kitchen 75, a business she coached her mother to start at 75 years old.

Website: https://www.annakmorris.com/

Podcast: https://www.annakmorris.com/podcasts/have-it-all

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annakmorris_/profilecard/?igsh=OGgxNG13ZTdjdG40

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/anna.kauppila.morris

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Sat, 11 Jan 2025 02:36:15 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com My limited view on love and relationships has been blown wide open again. Anna K. Morris is on the “couch” with me and we talk super candidly about true love and knowledge of self in our romantic partnerships. This is NOT the rom-com, cultural ideal, religiously formed, or social media driven version of “love and romance.” We talk about the REAL, exciting, painful, ego-challenging and even non-conventional approaches to a strong relationship - one built upon healthy autonomy as an individual FIRST - which can lend to a greater level of intimacy with others. 

Anna talks openly about her life with Derek which lacks the co-dependent dance that I brought to my own relationships in the past. We both dive into our personal experiences with heartbreak, deep intimacy, and the importance of listening to one's body for clues on both. We continually come back to the significance of integrity in relationships and the necessity of being whole as a precursor to seeking love from others.. Join us. 

Our Guest:

Anna K. Morris is a passionate entrepreneur, wife and mother of 2 little boys and 2 rescue dogs. She’s a life coach and podcast host specializing in women achieving their big dreams while doing less and having more faith. She is co-founder of Happy Karma Homes with her husband, Derek, building and renovating beautiful homes in central Texas. You can also find her selling brownie truffles with her mother, Carla, from Yaya’s Kitchen 75, a business she coached her mother to start at 75 years old.

Website: https://www.annakmorris.com/

Podcast: https://www.annakmorris.com/podcasts/have-it-all

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/annakmorris_/profilecard/?igsh=OGgxNG13ZTdjdG40

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/anna.kauppila.morris

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> REAL talk on romance and the barrier to better love with Anna K. Morris Jen Oliver 01:16:57 My limited view on love and relationships has been blown wide open again. Anna K. Morris is on the “couch” with me and we talk super candidly about true love and knowledge of self in our romantic partnerships. This is NOT the rom-com, cultural ideal, religiously formed, or social media driven version of “love and romance.” We talk about the REAL, exciting, painful, ego-challenging and even non-conventional approaches to a strong relationship - one built upon healthy autonomy as an individual FIRST - which can lend to a greater level of intimacy with others. Anna talks openly about her life with Derek which lacks the co-dependent dance that I brought to my own relationships in the past. We both dive into our personal experiences with heartbreak, deep intimacy, and the importance of listening to one's body for clues on both. We continually come back to the significance of integrity in relationships and the necessity of being whole as a precursor to seeking love from others.. Join us. My limited view on love and relationships has been blown wide open again. Anna K. Morris is on the “couch” with me and we talk super candidly about true love and knowledge of self in our romantic partnerships. This is NOT the rom-com, cultural ideal, religiously formed, or social media driven version of “love and romance.” We talk about the REAL, exciting, painful, ego-challenging and even non-conventional approaches to a strong relationship - one built upon healthy autonomy as an individual FIRST - which can lend to a greater level of intimacy with others. Anna talks openly about her life with Derek which lacks the co-dependent dance that I brought to my own relationships in the past. We both dive into our personal experiences with heartbreak, deep intimacy, and the importance of listening to one's body for clues on both. We continually come back to the significance of integrity in relationships and the necessity of being whole as a precursor to seeking love from others.. Join us. false full 75 a831e28e-b83a-48ca-9c32-b2321f3bda5b When expressing ourselves is a matter of life and death My friend and guest, Kelley Sewell, says her voice felt small in her younger years –yet when she wrote, she found solace and empowerment in the act of writing—her pen becoming a powerful tool to express what couldn’t always be spoken. Join me in an intimate conversation with Kelley, a skilled book editor and writer, as we unpack the journey of discovering our true voice through writing, speaking and other creative outlets - along with the liberation that comes when we break free from constraints that keep us silent.

It’s not just about putting words on a page, but about engaging in self-discovery and healing. We delve into the profound role writing plays in facilitating tough conversations, particularly around sensitive issues like domestic violence (a topic we cover in our second segment). By sharing our personal experiences, we want to inspire essential dialogues with others, using written words as both personal medicine and a bridge to connect, support, and advocate for change.

Our conversation also sheds light on speaking intentionally in critical situations, drawing from Kelley’s poignant story about her sister-in-law Corinne, who showed great bravery when she spoke up for herself. Through Corrine’s tragic story, we emphasize the necessity of trusting our deepest intuition and advocating for those who cannot speak for themselves.

This week’s episode is dedicated to a beautiful soul, Corinne Wiedel Sewell. Though her life was cut devastatingly short -  her voice and legacy continues in the hope that YOU find your voice, in its truest form.

NOTE TO OUR LISTENERS: We want you safe and well-cared for. The second segment of this episode speaks to sensitive matters of homicide and suicide. If you need help or resourcing, we encourage you to contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at  800.799.SAFE (7233) or https://www.thehotline.org/. You are loved.

Our Guest Bio:

Kelley Sewell is an author, writing coach and hybrid book publisher. She helps others get their stories out into the world and into the hands of those who need them most.

Website: https://www.kelleysewell.com

Instagram link: https://instagram.com/kelleythewriter

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 23 Dec 2024 08:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Kelley Sewell, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com My friend and guest, Kelley Sewell, says her voice felt small in her younger years –yet when she wrote, she found solace and empowerment in the act of writing—her pen becoming a powerful tool to express what couldn’t always be spoken. Join me in an intimate conversation with Kelley, a skilled book editor and writer, as we unpack the journey of discovering our true voice through writing, speaking and other creative outlets - along with the liberation that comes when we break free from constraints that keep us silent.

It’s not just about putting words on a page, but about engaging in self-discovery and healing. We delve into the profound role writing plays in facilitating tough conversations, particularly around sensitive issues like domestic violence (a topic we cover in our second segment). By sharing our personal experiences, we want to inspire essential dialogues with others, using written words as both personal medicine and a bridge to connect, support, and advocate for change.

Our conversation also sheds light on speaking intentionally in critical situations, drawing from Kelley’s poignant story about her sister-in-law Corinne, who showed great bravery when she spoke up for herself. Through Corrine’s tragic story, we emphasize the necessity of trusting our deepest intuition and advocating for those who cannot speak for themselves.

This week’s episode is dedicated to a beautiful soul, Corinne Wiedel Sewell. Though her life was cut devastatingly short -  her voice and legacy continues in the hope that YOU find your voice, in its truest form.

NOTE TO OUR LISTENERS: We want you safe and well-cared for. The second segment of this episode speaks to sensitive matters of homicide and suicide. If you need help or resourcing, we encourage you to contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at  800.799.SAFE (7233) or https://www.thehotline.org/. You are loved.

Our Guest Bio:

Kelley Sewell is an author, writing coach and hybrid book publisher. She helps others get their stories out into the world and into the hands of those who need them most.

Website: https://www.kelleysewell.com

Instagram link: https://instagram.com/kelleythewriter

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> When expressing ourselves is a matter of life and death Kelley Sewell, Jen Oliver 00:59:12 My friend and guest, Kelley Sewell, says her voice felt small in her younger years –yet when she wrote, she found solace and empowerment in the act of writing—her pen becoming a powerful tool to express what couldn’t always be spoken. Join me in an intimate conversation with Kelley, a skilled book editor and writer, as we unpack the journey of discovering our true voice through writing, speaking and other creative outlets - along with the liberation that comes when we break free from constraints that keep us silent. It’s not just about putting words on a page, but about engaging in self-discovery and healing. We delve into the profound role writing plays in facilitating tough conversations, particularly around sensitive issues like domestic violence (a topic we cover in our second segment). By sharing our personal experiences, we want to inspire essential dialogues with others, using written words as both personal medicine and a bridge to connect, support, and advocate for change. Our conversation also sheds light on speaking intentionally in critical situations, drawing from Kelley’s poignant story about her sister-in-law Corinne, who showed great bravery when she spoke up for herself. Through Corrine’s tragic story, we emphasize the necessity of trusting our deepest intuition and advocating for those who cannot speak for themselves. This week’s episode is dedicated to a beautiful soul, Corinne Wiedel Sewell. Though her life was cut devastatingly short - her voice and legacy continues in the hope that YOU find your voice, in its truest form. NOTE TO OUR LISTENERS: We want you safe and well-cared for. The second segment of this episode speaks to sensitive matters of homicide and suicide. If you need help or resourcing, we encourage you to contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800.799.SAFE (7233) or https://www.thehotline.org/. You are loved. My friend and guest, Kelley Sewell, says her voice felt small in her younger years –yet when she wrote, she found solace and empowerment in the act of writing—her pen becoming a powerful tool to express what couldn’t always be spoken. Join me in an intimate conversation with Kelley, a skilled book editor and writer, as we unpack the journey of discovering our true voice through writing, speaking and other creative outlets - along with the liberation that comes when we break free from constraints that keep us silent. It’s not just about putting words on a page, but about engaging in self-discovery and healing. We delve into the profound role writing plays in facilitating tough conversations, particularly around sensitive issues like domestic violence (a topic we cover in our second segment). By sharing our personal experiences, we want to inspire essential dialogues with others, using written words as both personal medicine and a bridge to connect, support, and advocate for change. Our conversation also sheds light on speaking intentionally in critical situations, drawing from Kelley’s poignant story about her sister-in-law Corinne, who showed great bravery when she spoke up for herself. Through Corrine’s tragic story, we emphasize the necessity of trusting our deepest intuition and advocating for those who cannot speak for themselves. This week’s episode is dedicated to a beautiful soul, Corinne Wiedel Sewell. Though her life was cut devastatingly short - her voice and legacy continues in the hope that YOU find your voice, in its truest form. NOTE TO OUR LISTENERS: We want you safe and well-cared for. The second segment of this episode speaks to sensitive matters of homicide and suicide. If you need help or resourcing, we encourage you to contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800.799.SAFE (7233) or https://www.thehotline.org/. You are loved. false full 74 331b5d39-0859-4bb0-8dfb-01d62ab06acc Boudoir photography & liberating women…from a man’s lens I loved my conversation with Brad Walsh, a boudoir photographer and male ally in the women’s empowerment space. Brad has a quality about him that makes a potentially sensitive topic totally accessible - we delve right into the art and beauty we’ve uniquely experienced when clothing is removed. 

This chat transcends lingerie, eroticism and taking pictures purely to create turn-on in another person (although many may pursue this art form for that reason). Not even close. 

Brad describes the way in which a woman emerges new, more whole, and enthralled with her own beauty after a photography session PLUS we explore the psychological safety needed to make that possible when we hold space for others.

Join us for this conversation and have your perspective expanded with regard to the dignity, vulnerability, and strength that this artform offers. 

Resources referenced in this episode:

WomanSpeak™ where women learn the art and soul of public speaking Where Women Learn the Art & Sol of Public Speaking.

The story I read in segment two was taken from:

Finding Your Own North Star by Martha Beck


About our Guest:

Brad Walsh, first and foremost is a father to two beautiful girls aged 23 and 25, a husband to an amazingly inspiring woman, a photographer, a published #1 International Best-Selling Author, an International Speaker and a podcast host/producer and a Story Doula who found himself wanting to inspire others during the pandemic. He birthed the idea of EMPOWEROGRAPHY, a Top 2% Globally Rated Podcast, a platform that highlights strong, inspirational, dynamic women who share their stories of success, triumph, resiliency and transformation. He had no idea that what started as a simple concept would take on a life of its own. He is excited to share this platform with you and continue to EMPOWER, ELEVATE and EDUCATE by amplifying the voices of women all over the world. He is so excited to share this platform with you and continue to EMPOWER, ELEVATE and EDUCATE by amplifying the voices of women all over the world. So please join me in spreading the word about this mission/collective/movement I am creating to help provide a platform for women to help empower and inspire other women out there in the world.

Website: https://www.empowerographypodcast.com

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/empowerography/id1471709447

X / Twitter link: https://x.com/Empowerography1

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/empowerographypodcast/

Facebook link: https://www.facebook.com/brad.walsh.56/

Youtube link: https://www.youtube.com/@Empowerography

Linkedin link: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bradwalsh70/

Pinterest link: https://www.pinterest.ca/walshy70/

Tiktok link: https://www.tiktok.com/@walshy70

 

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Mon, 2 Dec 2024 08:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com I loved my conversation with Brad Walsh, a boudoir photographer and male ally in the women’s empowerment space. Brad has a quality about him that makes a potentially sensitive topic totally accessible - we delve right into the art and beauty we’ve uniquely experienced when clothing is removed. 

This chat transcends lingerie, eroticism and taking pictures purely to create turn-on in another person (although many may pursue this art form for that reason). Not even close. 

Brad describes the way in which a woman emerges new, more whole, and enthralled with her own beauty after a photography session PLUS we explore the psychological safety needed to make that possible when we hold space for others.

Join us for this conversation and have your perspective expanded with regard to the dignity, vulnerability, and strength that this artform offers. 

Resources referenced in this episode:

WomanSpeak™ where women learn the art and soul of public speaking Where Women Learn the Art & Sol of Public Speaking.

The story I read in segment two was taken from:

Finding Your Own North Star by Martha Beck


About our Guest:

Brad Walsh, first and foremost is a father to two beautiful girls aged 23 and 25, a husband to an amazingly inspiring woman, a photographer, a published #1 International Best-Selling Author, an International Speaker and a podcast host/producer and a Story Doula who found himself wanting to inspire others during the pandemic. He birthed the idea of EMPOWEROGRAPHY, a Top 2% Globally Rated Podcast, a platform that highlights strong, inspirational, dynamic women who share their stories of success, triumph, resiliency and transformation. He had no idea that what started as a simple concept would take on a life of its own. He is excited to share this platform with you and continue to EMPOWER, ELEVATE and EDUCATE by amplifying the voices of women all over the world. He is so excited to share this platform with you and continue to EMPOWER, ELEVATE and EDUCATE by amplifying the voices of women all over the world. So please join me in spreading the word about this mission/collective/movement I am creating to help provide a platform for women to help empower and inspire other women out there in the world.

Website: https://www.empowerographypodcast.com

Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/empowerography/id1471709447

X / Twitter link: https://x.com/Empowerography1

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/empowerographypodcast/

Facebook link: https://www.facebook.com/brad.walsh.56/

Youtube link: https://www.youtube.com/@Empowerography

Linkedin link: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bradwalsh70/

Pinterest link: https://www.pinterest.ca/walshy70/

Tiktok link: https://www.tiktok.com/@walshy70

 

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Boudoir photography & liberating women…from a man’s lens Jen Oliver 00:57:47 I loved my conversation with Brad Walsh, a boudoir photographer and male ally in the women’s empowerment space. Brad has a quality about him that makes a potentially sensitive topic totally accessible - we delve right into the art and beauty we’ve uniquely experienced when clothing is removed. This chat transcends lingerie, eroticism and taking pictures purely to create turn-on in another person (although many may pursue this art form for that reason). Not even close. Brad describes the way in which a woman emerges new, more whole, and enthralled with her own beauty after a photography session PLUS we explore the psychological safety needed to make that possible when we hold space for others. Join us for this conversation and have your perspective expanded with regard to the dignity, vulnerability, and strength that this artform offers. I loved my conversation with Brad Walsh, a boudoir photographer and male ally in the women’s empowerment space. Brad has a quality about him that makes a potentially sensitive topic totally accessible - we delve right into the art and beauty we’ve uniquely experienced when clothing is removed. This chat transcends lingerie, eroticism and taking pictures purely to create turn-on in another person (although many may pursue this art form for that reason). Not even close. Brad describes the way in which a woman emerges new, more whole, and enthralled with her own beauty after a photography session PLUS we explore the psychological safety needed to make that possible when we hold space for others. Join us for this conversation and have your perspective expanded with regard to the dignity, vulnerability, and strength that this artform offers. false full 73 c592ba90-c0a5-40d1-9cee-9da035acb891 From Amish to Empowered; one voice liberates others I am “on the couch” in conversation with Saloma Fisher who lived until age 32 in a conservative Amish community; we covered stuff that shocked me right out of my own misconceptions. Yes, there are the typical things many are aware of…no cars, modern conveniences, outside influences, music, or TV. BUT, the drinking, partying and “bed courting” that begins for some Amish youth around age 16? Lesser known.

Saloma and I also talk about what being ex-communicated from your family and community feels like along with how she started over as a single parent with an 8th grade education and no knowledge of how to pay bills, take a job, and so on.

Saloma loves deeply and is a woman of incredible faith despite being told she was going to “hell” in a community where you can only hope to be good enough through your works to merit heaven.

She helps me understand the coexistence of being oppressed and living fearfully in a prescribed role AND feeling safe and secure in a loving community and faith practice. While she does not speak for every person who identifies as Amish - her experience is illuminating and provides incredible hope to any person who dreams for bigger things and is determined to have a sense of control in their own life.

Saloma Fisher BIO: I was born and raised in NW Pennsylvania in an Amish culture. I am the proud mom of 6 kids, 5 girls and 1 boy, and a grandma to 2 precious grandchildren with a 3rd on the way! I am an entrepreneur and a visionary at heart and founded Cup of Hope Ministries - a nonprofit organization that helps teen and single moms locally. I am also in the process of opening Cup of Hope Cafe - a small coffee shop and bakery where 10% of the profits flow into our nonprofit to benefit moms directly.

I love all things coffee, friends and community. And most of all, Jesus, the one who  set me free from bondage and has given me a love for others.


Facebook: https//facebook.com/cupofhopeministry 

Website:  www.cupofhopeministry.com

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 25 Nov 2024 08:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Saloma Fisher, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com I am “on the couch” in conversation with Saloma Fisher who lived until age 32 in a conservative Amish community; we covered stuff that shocked me right out of my own misconceptions. Yes, there are the typical things many are aware of…no cars, modern conveniences, outside influences, music, or TV. BUT, the drinking, partying and “bed courting” that begins for some Amish youth around age 16? Lesser known.

Saloma and I also talk about what being ex-communicated from your family and community feels like along with how she started over as a single parent with an 8th grade education and no knowledge of how to pay bills, take a job, and so on.

Saloma loves deeply and is a woman of incredible faith despite being told she was going to “hell” in a community where you can only hope to be good enough through your works to merit heaven.

She helps me understand the coexistence of being oppressed and living fearfully in a prescribed role AND feeling safe and secure in a loving community and faith practice. While she does not speak for every person who identifies as Amish - her experience is illuminating and provides incredible hope to any person who dreams for bigger things and is determined to have a sense of control in their own life.

Saloma Fisher BIO: I was born and raised in NW Pennsylvania in an Amish culture. I am the proud mom of 6 kids, 5 girls and 1 boy, and a grandma to 2 precious grandchildren with a 3rd on the way! I am an entrepreneur and a visionary at heart and founded Cup of Hope Ministries - a nonprofit organization that helps teen and single moms locally. I am also in the process of opening Cup of Hope Cafe - a small coffee shop and bakery where 10% of the profits flow into our nonprofit to benefit moms directly.

I love all things coffee, friends and community. And most of all, Jesus, the one who  set me free from bondage and has given me a love for others.


Facebook: https//facebook.com/cupofhopeministry 

Website:  www.cupofhopeministry.com

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> From Amish to Empowered; one voice liberates others Saloma Fisher, Jen Oliver 01:03:36 I am “on the couch” in conversation with Saloma Fisher who lived until age 32 in a conservative Amish community; we covered stuff that shocked me right out of my own misconceptions. Yes, there are the typical things many are aware of…no cars, modern conveniences, outside influences, music, or TV. BUT, the drinking, partying and “bed courting” that begins for some Amish youth around age 16? Lesser known. Saloma and I also talk about what being ex-communicated from your family and community feels like along with how she started over as a single parent with an 8th grade education and no knowledge of how to pay bills, take a job, and so on. Saloma loves deeply and is a woman of incredible faith despite being told she was going to “hell” in a community where you can only hope to be good enough through your works to merit heaven. She helps me understand the coexistence of being oppressed and living fearfully in a prescribed role AND feeling safe and secure in a loving community and faith practice. While she does not speak for every person who identifies as Amish - her experience is illuminating and provides incredible hope to any person who dreams for bigger things and is determined to have a sense of control in their own life. I am “on the couch” in conversation with Saloma Fisher who lived until age 32 in a conservative Amish community; we covered stuff that shocked me right out of my own misconceptions. Yes, there are the typical things many are aware of…no cars, modern conveniences, outside influences, music, or TV. BUT, the drinking, partying and “bed courting” that begins for some Amish youth around age 16? Lesser known. Saloma and I also talk about what being ex-communicated from your family and community feels like along with how she started over as a single parent with an 8th grade education and no knowledge of how to pay bills, take a job, and so on. Saloma loves deeply and is a woman of incredible faith despite being told she was going to “hell” in a community where you can only hope to be good enough through your works to merit heaven. She helps me understand the coexistence of being oppressed and living fearfully in a prescribed role AND feeling safe and secure in a loving community and faith practice. While she does not speak for every person who identifies as Amish - her experience is illuminating and provides incredible hope to any person who dreams for bigger things and is determined to have a sense of control in their own life. false full 72 332e104a-10d3-4087-ac74-b961074cc203 A different kind of matching platform: connecting sexual assault survivors We got passionate and informed in this episode.I had the honor of hosting @TracyDeTomasi, CEO of Callisto, a survivor-founded nonprofit that has been able to create an encrypted platform allowing sexual assault survivors to find others harmed by the same perpetrator, without requiring them to report or come forward publicly. With a match in the Callisto Vault system, survivors receive free and confidential legal options counseling. This is a win-win-win and yet – with all of the money and resources in the world - Callisto is at risk of closing their doors. How can this be?

We dive into a very REAL conversation about what’s at stake. Activist, educator and Jeffrey Epstein survivor, Jess Michaels, underscores the fact that surviving sexual assault is difficult on many levels - but it is made a bit easier when you aren’t alone in it; Callisto is a force for healing in that sense.

The three of us converse boldly about the REAL good being done and the voices and financial backing needed to continue that important work. Join me, Jess, Tracy and the team as we imagine a world in which survivors of sexual violence are supported and empowered to find healing and justice on their own terms. We hope you will join in this important  conversation…

Resources mentioned in this episode:

TED Talk: The reporting system that sexual assault survivors want | Jessica Ladd

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=orumugzJpt0

Previous season episodes with guest, Jess Michaels:

Surviving Epstein; Normalizing Our Response to Sexual Assault - part 1

https://www.listenforreal.com/surviving-epstein-normalizing-our-response-to-sexual-assault-part-1/

Surviving Epstein; Normalizing Our Response to Sexual Assault - part 2

https://www.listenforreal.com/surviving-epstein-normalizing-our-response-to-sexual-assault-part-2/

Our Guests:

Tracy DeTomasi

Tracy has held leadership positions over the past 20 years, across the nonprofit sector, where she developed and implemented trauma-informed programming and curricula. She was instrumental in changing domestic violence laws in the US and has worked on projects globally with The Commonwealth of Nations, Ecuador, Australia, The United Kingdom, South Africa, and Ghana. Previously, Tracy was the Co-Founder of Good People Collective, the Interim Executive Director at NO MORE, and the VP of Domestic Violence Services at the YWCA.

As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Tracy has extensive experience working in the field of gender-based violence, giving her a deep understanding of the ecosystem of survivors, offenders, and allies. She has consulted with organizations to develop tech-based tools, such as an app that educates users about violence against women, a smartphone device for sexual violence prevention safety, and virtual reality trainings to address Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion, and Anti-Sexual Harassment.

Website: https://www.projectcallisto.org/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/callisto/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/callistoorg

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/callisto-tech-to-combat-sexual-assault/
 

Jess Michaels is a dance industry professional with 30 years experience as a performer, educator, and entrepreneur.

She is also a 1991 survivor of sexual assault by Jeffrey Epstein and childhood sexual abuse. 

Shockingly, her healing journey began December 14, 2012, after she and her hometown of Newtown CT were devastated by the mass shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School. Jess not only witnessed the impact of mass tragedy all around her but also experienced the full force of her past trauma catching up to her.  

In 2015, Jess found immense purpose and hope when she joined Dylan’s Wings of Change, a foundation dedicated to Dylan Hockley, one of the first-grade victims in the mass shooting. She helped develop the Wingman program for dance studios, sports, and schools and her work as a speaker & educator on empathy, inclusion, and community-building began. 

It was there in Newtown, teaching dance classes and working alongside brave parents who lost their children, Jess began to connect the value of shame-free, community-based early trauma intervention to the needs of sexual assault survivors.

The 2019 arrest of Epstein motivated her to finally confront her past. Breaking her #MeToo silence, she channeled her own healing journey into action.

Today, she's the founder and driving force behind 3Joannes SAFR—a groundbreaking Sexual Assault First Aid Certification Course and SA First Aid Kit (mobile app). Through her work, Jess equips communities with the tools to minimize the devastating long-term effects of sexual violence.

Her ultimate goal? To ensure no one else loses decades shackled by the ghosts of unprocessed trauma, as she did.

Website: https://www.jessmichaelsspeaks.com

Instagram: https://instagram.com/jessmichaelsspeaks

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessmichaelsspeaks?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_app

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Tue, 8 Oct 2024 03:00:23 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com We got passionate and informed in this episode.I had the honor of hosting @TracyDeTomasi, CEO of Callisto, a survivor-founded nonprofit that has been able to create an encrypted platform allowing sexual assault survivors to find others harmed by the same perpetrator, without requiring them to report or come forward publicly. With a match in the Callisto Vault system, survivors receive free and confidential legal options counseling. This is a win-win-win and yet – with all of the money and resources in the world - Callisto is at risk of closing their doors. How can this be?

We dive into a very REAL conversation about what’s at stake. Activist, educator and Jeffrey Epstein survivor, Jess Michaels, underscores the fact that surviving sexual assault is difficult on many levels - but it is made a bit easier when you aren’t alone in it; Callisto is a force for healing in that sense.

The three of us converse boldly about the REAL good being done and the voices and financial backing needed to continue that important work. Join me, Jess, Tracy and the team as we imagine a world in which survivors of sexual violence are supported and empowered to find healing and justice on their own terms. We hope you will join in this important  conversation…

Resources mentioned in this episode:

TED Talk: The reporting system that sexual assault survivors want | Jessica Ladd

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=orumugzJpt0

Previous season episodes with guest, Jess Michaels:

Surviving Epstein; Normalizing Our Response to Sexual Assault - part 1

https://www.listenforreal.com/surviving-epstein-normalizing-our-response-to-sexual-assault-part-1/

Surviving Epstein; Normalizing Our Response to Sexual Assault - part 2

https://www.listenforreal.com/surviving-epstein-normalizing-our-response-to-sexual-assault-part-2/

Our Guests:

Tracy DeTomasi

Tracy has held leadership positions over the past 20 years, across the nonprofit sector, where she developed and implemented trauma-informed programming and curricula. She was instrumental in changing domestic violence laws in the US and has worked on projects globally with The Commonwealth of Nations, Ecuador, Australia, The United Kingdom, South Africa, and Ghana. Previously, Tracy was the Co-Founder of Good People Collective, the Interim Executive Director at NO MORE, and the VP of Domestic Violence Services at the YWCA.

As a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Tracy has extensive experience working in the field of gender-based violence, giving her a deep understanding of the ecosystem of survivors, offenders, and allies. She has consulted with organizations to develop tech-based tools, such as an app that educates users about violence against women, a smartphone device for sexual violence prevention safety, and virtual reality trainings to address Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion, and Anti-Sexual Harassment.

Website: https://www.projectcallisto.org/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/callisto/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/callistoorg

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/callisto-tech-to-combat-sexual-assault/
 

Jess Michaels is a dance industry professional with 30 years experience as a performer, educator, and entrepreneur.

She is also a 1991 survivor of sexual assault by Jeffrey Epstein and childhood sexual abuse. 

Shockingly, her healing journey began December 14, 2012, after she and her hometown of Newtown CT were devastated by the mass shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School. Jess not only witnessed the impact of mass tragedy all around her but also experienced the full force of her past trauma catching up to her.  

In 2015, Jess found immense purpose and hope when she joined Dylan’s Wings of Change, a foundation dedicated to Dylan Hockley, one of the first-grade victims in the mass shooting. She helped develop the Wingman program for dance studios, sports, and schools and her work as a speaker & educator on empathy, inclusion, and community-building began. 

It was there in Newtown, teaching dance classes and working alongside brave parents who lost their children, Jess began to connect the value of shame-free, community-based early trauma intervention to the needs of sexual assault survivors.

The 2019 arrest of Epstein motivated her to finally confront her past. Breaking her #MeToo silence, she channeled her own healing journey into action.

Today, she's the founder and driving force behind 3Joannes SAFR—a groundbreaking Sexual Assault First Aid Certification Course and SA First Aid Kit (mobile app). Through her work, Jess equips communities with the tools to minimize the devastating long-term effects of sexual violence.

Her ultimate goal? To ensure no one else loses decades shackled by the ghosts of unprocessed trauma, as she did.

Website: https://www.jessmichaelsspeaks.com

Instagram: https://instagram.com/jessmichaelsspeaks

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jessmichaelsspeaks?utm_source=share&utm_campaign=share_via&utm_content=profile&utm_medium=ios_app

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> A different kind of matching platform: connecting sexual assault survivors Jen Oliver 01:09:44 We got passionate and informed in this episode.I had the honor of hosting @TracyDeTomasi, CEO of Callisto, a survivor-founded nonprofit that has been able to create an encrypted platform allowing sexual assault survivors to find others harmed by the same perpetrator, without requiring them to report or come forward publicly. With a match in the Callisto Vault system, survivors receive free and confidential legal options counseling. This is a win-win-win and yet – with all of the money and resources in the world - Callisto is at risk of closing their doors. How can this be? We dive into a very REAL conversation about what’s at stake. Activist, educator and Jeffrey Epstein survivor, Jess Michaels, underscores the fact that surviving sexual assault is difficult on many levels - but it is made a bit easier when you aren’t alone in it; Callisto is a force for healing in that sense. The three of us converse boldly about the REAL good being done and the voices and financial backing needed to continue that important work. Join me, Jess, Tracy and the team as we imagine a world in which survivors of sexual violence are supported and empowered to find healing and justice on their own terms. We hope you will join in this important conversation… We got passionate and informed in this episode.I had the honor of hosting @TracyDeTomasi, CEO of Callisto, a survivor-founded nonprofit that has been able to create an encrypted platform allowing sexual assault survivors to find others harmed by the same perpetrator, without requiring them to report or come forward publicly. With a match in the Callisto Vault system, survivors receive free and confidential legal options counseling. This is a win-win-win and yet – with all of the money and resources in the world - Callisto is at risk of closing their doors. How can this be? We dive into a very REAL conversation about what’s at stake. Activist, educator and Jeffrey Epstein survivor, Jess Michaels, underscores the fact that surviving sexual assault is difficult on many levels - but it is made a bit easier when you aren’t alone in it; Callisto is a force for healing in that sense. The three of us converse boldly about the REAL good being done and the voices and financial backing needed to continue that important work. Join me, Jess, Tracy and the team as we imagine a world in which survivors of sexual violence are supported and empowered to find healing and justice on their own terms. We hope you will join in this important conversation… false full 71 b24ca422-c97d-45ac-a982-e17840cfec4e No box can contain her! (And no box ever should) Oh this conversation, EEEEEEK! Femily Howe joins me on the “couch” and we cover the best stuff - from unconventional relationships to gender equity at its creative and inclusive best in our corporate cultures.

Add in a killer discussion on feminism and the value of keeping our labels and then top the conversation off with Femily’s expanded definition of queer – and my echo chamber is blown-all-the-way-up.

And, if you don’t believe we talked about ALL of this and more in one episode, then you haven’t spent enough time on my couch:)

I hope you join us - it’s a cozy conversation we want you in on.

Resources and cool things  mentioned on this episode:

7 Pillars of Liberated Love by Halley Inez Miglietta

Find Your Unicorn Space by Eve Rodsky

Listen for REAL episode with Jill Osur and Lisa Orrell  -   Love stories without labels

About Our Guest:

FEMILY  (she/they)

As a Gender/Cultural Studies MA with a big firm management consulting background, Femily speaks at and advises tech and other male-majority sectors and teams, like law, finance, and engineering – on gender, equity, and building an ally culture across race and orientation as well.

From Silicon Valley's Watermark Conference for Women to South by Southwest (SXSW), Femily frequently speaks to companies, conferences, and women's events.

Femily is an expert media source for outlets including ABC, CBS, C-SPAN, NPR, Fast Company, and US News and World Report.

​In 2018, Femily started the Corporate Gender Program to address a growing demand for rigor in the field.

Website: https://www.femilyonthego.com/

Instagram link: https://instagram.com/femilyonthego?utm_medium=copy_link

Podcast link:  https://www.femilyonthego.com/ftl

Linkedin link: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emilymeghanmorrowhowe/

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Tue, 1 Oct 2024 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com Oh this conversation, EEEEEEK! Femily Howe joins me on the “couch” and we cover the best stuff - from unconventional relationships to gender equity at its creative and inclusive best in our corporate cultures.

Add in a killer discussion on feminism and the value of keeping our labels and then top the conversation off with Femily’s expanded definition of queer – and my echo chamber is blown-all-the-way-up.

And, if you don’t believe we talked about ALL of this and more in one episode, then you haven’t spent enough time on my couch:)

I hope you join us - it’s a cozy conversation we want you in on.

Resources and cool things  mentioned on this episode:

7 Pillars of Liberated Love by Halley Inez Miglietta

Find Your Unicorn Space by Eve Rodsky

Listen for REAL episode with Jill Osur and Lisa Orrell  -   Love stories without labels

About Our Guest:

FEMILY  (she/they)

As a Gender/Cultural Studies MA with a big firm management consulting background, Femily speaks at and advises tech and other male-majority sectors and teams, like law, finance, and engineering – on gender, equity, and building an ally culture across race and orientation as well.

From Silicon Valley's Watermark Conference for Women to South by Southwest (SXSW), Femily frequently speaks to companies, conferences, and women's events.

Femily is an expert media source for outlets including ABC, CBS, C-SPAN, NPR, Fast Company, and US News and World Report.

​In 2018, Femily started the Corporate Gender Program to address a growing demand for rigor in the field.

Website: https://www.femilyonthego.com/

Instagram link: https://instagram.com/femilyonthego?utm_medium=copy_link

Podcast link:  https://www.femilyonthego.com/ftl

Linkedin link: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emilymeghanmorrowhowe/

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> No box can contain her! (And no box ever should) Jen Oliver 01:10:27 Oh this conversation, EEEEEEK! Femily Howe joins me on the “couch” and we cover the best stuff - from unconventional relationships to gender equity at its creative and inclusive best in our corporate cultures. Add in a killer discussion on feminism and the value of keeping our labels and then top the conversation off with Femily’s expanded definition of queer – and my echo chamber is blown-all-the-way-up. And, if you don’t believe we talked about ALL of this and more in one episode, then you haven’t spent enough time on my couch:) I hope you join us - it’s a cozy conversation we want you in on. Resources and cool things mentioned on this episode: 7 Pillars of Liberated Love by Halley Inez Miglietta Find Your Unicorn Space by Eve Rodsky Listen for REAL episode with Jill Osur and Lisa Orrell - Love stories without labels Oh this conversation, EEEEEEK! Femily Howe joins me on the “couch” and we cover the best stuff - from unconventional relationships to gender equity at its creative and inclusive best in our corporate cultures. Add in a killer discussion on feminism and the value of keeping our labels and then top the conversation off with Femily’s expanded definition of queer – and my echo chamber is blown-all-the-way-up. And, if you don’t believe we talked about ALL of this and more in one episode, then you haven’t spent enough time on my couch:) I hope you join us - it’s a cozy conversation we want you in on. Resources and cool things mentioned on this episode: 7 Pillars of Liberated Love by Halley Inez Miglietta Find Your Unicorn Space by Eve Rodsky Listen for REAL episode with Jill Osur and Lisa Orrell - Love stories without labels false full 70 ff183855-c476-4c23-baa9-32941dbc3c83 This is a FREE Woman: Trauma Healed Through Movement This conversation was powerful and a testimony to what is possible! Jacia Kornwise shares parts of her compelling journey from victimhood to survivorship, illustrating the liberating tool of emotional and physical expression. Her energy, clarity, strength and ability to thrive inspires me…

Join us as we explore the deep-seated connection between trauma, movement, and healing. 

Her insights are enriched with personal stories, including her childhood adversities and the tragic loss of her brother, and her experience as the victim of a violent crime at age 26.

We cover the science behind how trauma impacts both the mind and body; discussing the concept of generational trauma and how unresolved issues can be passed down through genetic markers, affecting subsequent generations. 

Most importantly, Jacia and I recount our personal experiences with trauma, emphasizing the need to reconnect with our bodies to create new neural pathways for healing and freedom.

In this episode, we also explore the power of movement beyond just dance—from grounding tools and breathwork to mind-body awareness as Jacia shares tools from her comprehensive coaching programs.

Join the conversation.

RESOURCES mentioned on this episode:

The work of Dr. Bessel Van Der Kolk M.D. lhttps://www.besselvanderkolk.com/

Episode # 23 Listen for REAL entitled "Patriarchy Stress Disorder...seriously?!" with Dr. Valerie Rein www.listenforREAL.com/23 and the concept of epigenetics.

Join Jacia's six-month VIP and personalized Embodied Soul Coaching program. A cohort uniquely tailored to help you achieve your goals in the most powerful way. Over 30 years as the most effective way to transform. 

  • Fully Customized Coaching Journey.
  • Rise Up and Dance Program.
  • Create Your Own Mind-Body-Soul Blueprint.
  • Engage in Daily Movement Practices.
  • Weekly Individual Coaching Sessions.
  • Daily Content and Accountability.
  • Ongoing Support.

If you’re ready to transform your life and step fully into your potential, don’t hesitate—secure your spot now. Email jacia@jaciakornwise.com with the words NowCohort.

Guest Bio:

Jacia Kornwise is known as a Master in Moving your Mojo. With A master's in both counseling psychology and coaching and certified training in 5 rhythms dance,  breath work , and somatic techniques, she has been working with people for over three decades, moving out of stuckness, trauma and self-sabotage and inspiring them into joy, success, authenticity and freedom. As a survivor of multiple traumas and much grief, she leads the work with her heart and from the inside out. She is a TEDx and Keynote speaker, 3 x award-winning author of "The Love Ball Game - Embracing Yourself and Embodying Your Soul"

Website: https://jaciakornwise.com/

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/jaciakornwise/

Facebook link:  https://www.facebook.com/jaciakornwise

Linkedin link: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jacia-kornwise-14b2a513/

YouTube link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2LhNk8s56Pn1JZ0UGDqtNA

Amazon  link: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Ball-Game-Embracing-Embodying/dp/B0CP4RJ5RX

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 16 Sep 2024 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com This conversation was powerful and a testimony to what is possible! Jacia Kornwise shares parts of her compelling journey from victimhood to survivorship, illustrating the liberating tool of emotional and physical expression. Her energy, clarity, strength and ability to thrive inspires me…

Join us as we explore the deep-seated connection between trauma, movement, and healing. 

Her insights are enriched with personal stories, including her childhood adversities and the tragic loss of her brother, and her experience as the victim of a violent crime at age 26.

We cover the science behind how trauma impacts both the mind and body; discussing the concept of generational trauma and how unresolved issues can be passed down through genetic markers, affecting subsequent generations. 

Most importantly, Jacia and I recount our personal experiences with trauma, emphasizing the need to reconnect with our bodies to create new neural pathways for healing and freedom.

In this episode, we also explore the power of movement beyond just dance—from grounding tools and breathwork to mind-body awareness as Jacia shares tools from her comprehensive coaching programs.

Join the conversation.

RESOURCES mentioned on this episode:

The work of Dr. Bessel Van Der Kolk M.D. lhttps://www.besselvanderkolk.com/

Episode # 23 Listen for REAL entitled "Patriarchy Stress Disorder...seriously?!" with Dr. Valerie Rein www.listenforREAL.com/23 and the concept of epigenetics.

Join Jacia's six-month VIP and personalized Embodied Soul Coaching program. A cohort uniquely tailored to help you achieve your goals in the most powerful way. Over 30 years as the most effective way to transform. 

  • Fully Customized Coaching Journey.
  • Rise Up and Dance Program.
  • Create Your Own Mind-Body-Soul Blueprint.
  • Engage in Daily Movement Practices.
  • Weekly Individual Coaching Sessions.
  • Daily Content and Accountability.
  • Ongoing Support.

If you’re ready to transform your life and step fully into your potential, don’t hesitate—secure your spot now. Email jacia@jaciakornwise.com with the words NowCohort.

Guest Bio:

Jacia Kornwise is known as a Master in Moving your Mojo. With A master's in both counseling psychology and coaching and certified training in 5 rhythms dance,  breath work , and somatic techniques, she has been working with people for over three decades, moving out of stuckness, trauma and self-sabotage and inspiring them into joy, success, authenticity and freedom. As a survivor of multiple traumas and much grief, she leads the work with her heart and from the inside out. She is a TEDx and Keynote speaker, 3 x award-winning author of "The Love Ball Game - Embracing Yourself and Embodying Your Soul"

Website: https://jaciakornwise.com/

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/jaciakornwise/

Facebook link:  https://www.facebook.com/jaciakornwise

Linkedin link: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jacia-kornwise-14b2a513/

YouTube link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC2LhNk8s56Pn1JZ0UGDqtNA

Amazon  link: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Ball-Game-Embracing-Embodying/dp/B0CP4RJ5RX

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> This is a FREE Woman: Trauma Healed Through Movement Jen Oliver 00:50:24 This conversation was powerful and a testimony to what is possible! Jacia Kornwise shares parts of her compelling journey from victimhood to survivorship, illustrating the liberating tool of emotional and physical expression. Her energy, clarity, strength and ability to thrive inspires me… Join us as we explore the deep-seated connection between trauma, movement, and healing. Her insights are enriched with personal stories, including her childhood adversities and the tragic loss of her brother, and her experience as the victim of a violent crime at age 26. We cover the science behind how trauma impacts both the mind and body; discussing the concept of generational trauma and how unresolved issues can be passed down through genetic markers, affecting subsequent generations. Most importantly, Jacia and I recount our personal experiences with trauma, emphasizing the need to reconnect with our bodies to create new neural pathways for healing and freedom. In this episode, we also explore the power of movement beyond just dance—from grounding tools and breathwork to mind-body awareness as Jacia shares tools from her comprehensive coaching programs. Join the conversation. RESOURCES mentioned on this episode: The work of Dr. Bessel Van Der Kolk M.D. lhttps://www.besselvanderkolk.com/ Episode # 23 Listen for REAL entitled "Patriarchy Stress Disorder...seriously?!" with Dr. Valerie Rein www.listenforREAL.com/23 and the concept of epigenetics. This conversation was powerful and a testimony to what is possible! Jacia Kornwise shares parts of her compelling journey from victimhood to survivorship, illustrating the liberating tool of emotional and physical expression. Her energy, clarity, strength and ability to thrive inspires me… Join us as we explore the deep-seated connection between trauma, movement, and healing. Her insights are enriched with personal stories, including her childhood adversities and the tragic loss of her brother, and her experience as the victim of a violent crime at age 26. We cover the science behind how trauma impacts both the mind and body; discussing the concept of generational trauma and how unresolved issues can be passed down through genetic markers, affecting subsequent generations. Most importantly, Jacia and I recount our personal experiences with trauma, emphasizing the need to reconnect with our bodies to create new neural pathways for healing and freedom. In this episode, we also explore the power of movement beyond just dance—from grounding tools and breathwork to mind-body awareness as Jacia shares tools from her comprehensive coaching programs. Join the conversation. RESOURCES mentioned on this episode: The work of Dr. Bessel Van Der Kolk M.D. lhttps://www.besselvanderkolk.com/ Episode # 23 Listen for REAL entitled "Patriarchy Stress Disorder...seriously?!" with Dr. Valerie Rein www.listenforREAL.com/23 and the concept of epigenetics. false full 69 d64655f8-304b-47d1-b28e-fec33e23a0a4 Mom turned activist; how we right a wrong I  spoke with Lisa Howard because I recall making assumptions about “activists” in previous years, especially as it relates to climate change. Full disclosure, I KNEW NOTHING about the state of our planet or the climate and simply parroted what I would hear conservative pundits assert. .

 

SO now, I have conversations like these to learn, expand my perspective, and shift where necessary. This conversation applies to anyone who sees a problem and actively works to make the situation better for themselves and others. May we all adopt this title!  

 

Talking to Lisa was lovely because it helped me understand the heart behind many activists - regardless of their cause. The term “activist” gets a bad rap in some settings, but regardless of the cause - I have a newfound admiration for those who commit time, talent, and energy and take risks for something they believe in  - and I count myself among them.

Our Guest:

Lisa Howard is the co-leader of the Sacramento-Roseville chapter of Citizens’ Climate Lobby (CCL), a state coordinator for CCL, and a member of the Sacramento chapter of Al Gore's Climate Reality Project.

 

Lisa’s focus is on inspiring others to believe that one person can make a difference, motivating people to take action on the climate crisis, and giving folks the tools they need to get started. She has a black belt in taekwondo, a degree in journalism, and a day job as a webmaster for a charter school. Her two kids are the reason she got involved in climate activism and the reason she continues to fight for a better future.

Website: https://www.sacramentoccl.org/

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/cclsacramento/

Facebook link:  https://www.facebook.com/CCLsacramento

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 12 Aug 2024 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Lisa Howard, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com I  spoke with Lisa Howard because I recall making assumptions about “activists” in previous years, especially as it relates to climate change. Full disclosure, I KNEW NOTHING about the state of our planet or the climate and simply parroted what I would hear conservative pundits assert. .

 

SO now, I have conversations like these to learn, expand my perspective, and shift where necessary. This conversation applies to anyone who sees a problem and actively works to make the situation better for themselves and others. May we all adopt this title!  

 

Talking to Lisa was lovely because it helped me understand the heart behind many activists - regardless of their cause. The term “activist” gets a bad rap in some settings, but regardless of the cause - I have a newfound admiration for those who commit time, talent, and energy and take risks for something they believe in  - and I count myself among them.

Our Guest:

Lisa Howard is the co-leader of the Sacramento-Roseville chapter of Citizens’ Climate Lobby (CCL), a state coordinator for CCL, and a member of the Sacramento chapter of Al Gore's Climate Reality Project.

 

Lisa’s focus is on inspiring others to believe that one person can make a difference, motivating people to take action on the climate crisis, and giving folks the tools they need to get started. She has a black belt in taekwondo, a degree in journalism, and a day job as a webmaster for a charter school. Her two kids are the reason she got involved in climate activism and the reason she continues to fight for a better future.

Website: https://www.sacramentoccl.org/

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/cclsacramento/

Facebook link:  https://www.facebook.com/CCLsacramento

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mom turned activist; how we right a wrong Lisa Howard, Jen Oliver 01:07:42 I spoke with Lisa Howard because I recall making assumptions about “activists” in previous years, especially as it relates to climate change. Full disclosure, I KNEW NOTHING about the state of our planet or the climate and simply parroted what I would hear conservative pundits assert. . SO now, I have conversations like these to learn, expand my perspective, and shift where necessary. This conversation applies to anyone who sees a problem and actively works to make the situation better for themselves and others. May we all adopt this title! Talking to Lisa was lovely because it helped me understand the heart behind many activists - regardless of their cause. The term “activist” gets a bad rap in some settings, but regardless of the cause - I have a newfound admiration for those who commit time, talent, and energy and take risks for something they believe in - and I count myself among them. I spoke with Lisa Howard because I recall making assumptions about “activists” in previous years, especially as it relates to climate change. Full disclosure, I KNEW NOTHING about the state of our planet or the climate and simply parroted what I would hear conservative pundits assert. . SO now, I have conversations like these to learn, expand my perspective, and shift where necessary. This conversation applies to anyone who sees a problem and actively works to make the situation better for themselves and others. May we all adopt this title! Talking to Lisa was lovely because it helped me understand the heart behind many activists - regardless of their cause. The term “activist” gets a bad rap in some settings, but regardless of the cause - I have a newfound admiration for those who commit time, talent, and energy and take risks for something they believe in - and I count myself among them. false full 68 15326a34-cd16-4531-9879-c7ed76069a4b Love stories without labels I am upping the ante on REAL conversations as I sit down with my close friends, Jill Osur and Lisa Orrell.  Jill and Lisa's not-so-random meeting led to a partnership that's as dynamic as it is loving. Their relationship teaches and challenges me and our open-hearted talks underscore the power of honest friendships - the kind in which we can show up authentically while paving the way to a more equitable world.

We unpack my once narrow, and sadly, homophobic perspective and how it has expanded in large part due to conversations with LGBTQ+ friends and loved ones. This conversation offers further proof that our lived experience and personal story can change minds when we share our truest selves with others. I also love our discussion on the gift of Gen Z - the next wave of  humans who are pretty perplexed by older generations’ use of societal labels and our tendency toward categorizing human souls.

 

Guests Bios:

Jill's Bio:

A former UC Berkeley softball player, Jill Osur still draws on her athletic background to hone her leadership style and overcome obstacles. Deeply moved to elevate women and inspire meaningful change, her values have guided her career—first as a savvy political fundraiser, then in marketing with Special Olympics Northern California & Nevada, and now, as an entrepreneur. Jill has helped launch numerous consumer product companies and ventures focused on “doing well by doing good.” Previously the co-founder and director of California-based winery group, and in the wine industry since 2014, Jill founded a digital winery, Teneral Cellars, in 2020. Teneral Cellars is driven by Jill’s belief that wine can be a conduit for change; a force for gender equity and social justice within the wine industry and our culture at large.  Teneral Cellars was named “Hot Brands of 2022” by Wine Business Monthly.

Jill is a captivating public speaker who helps female executives and entrepreneurs learn how to strengthen their leadership by tapping into the “head, heart, and gut.” As said by one attendee, Jill “puts a firecracker in the room” with her energizing, moving presence. A champion of female power, Jill coaches audiences and clients to embrace their brilliance, leverage full capacity thinking, and show up in alignment with their authentic selves. She recently took the stage with her 2024 TEDxFolsom talk entitled, "How Impactful Leaders Use Three Brains"

Jill is a member of the Governor’s Entrepreneurship and Economic Mobility Taskforce, Women Presidents’ Organization, 2023 Tory Burch Foundation Fellow, was a founding board member of the John F. Kennedy University Institute for Entrepreneurial Leadership, and is a current advisory board member for Enterprising Women, Women Business Collaborative, and board member of Hilinski’s Hope Foundation, which provides integrative mental wellness programs for student athletes.

Awards
• 2023 Honoree, 100 Women to KNOW in America
• 2023 Winner, NAWBO Sacramento OWL Awards – Woman Innovator
• 2022 Winner, Leadership California’s Legacy of Leadership - Corporate Leader Award
• 2022 Winner, of the Athletes’ Voices “Turn Up The Mic” Award for Excellence in Collaboration presented by ESPN
• 2022 Winner, Stevie Awards For Women in Business - Gold Medal - Best Female Entrepreneur – Consumer Products –10 or Less Employees, Silver Medal - Social Change Maker of the Year – Women and Bronze Medal - Women Helping Women - Social Change 3.
• 2021 Winner, Women Presidents’ Organization: Adrienne Hall Award for Breaking Down Barriers

Website: https://www.teneralcellars.com

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/jillosur/

Facebook link: https://www.facebook.com/teneralcellars

Linkedin link: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jillosur/

 

Lisa's Bio:

Lisa Orrell, CPC, is known globally as “The Chief of Change”, and she was recently named to the 2024 “World’s Top 30 Leadership Speakers & Experts” list published by the international research organization, Global Gurus.

As a renowned expert, she’s passionate about empowering, educating, and inspiring all members of today’s workforce to be exceptional Leaders…often through the unique lens of Personal Branding and a focus on Mental Health.

But her charter isn’t just about helping them make positive changes within themselves! It’s also about making a positive impact on workplace culture…because when you have more effective Leaders, you have happier employees.

Lisa has been booked for Keynotes and Training Programs by countless well-known organizations, such as: Pfizer, Salesforce, Wyndham Worldwide Resorts, eBay, Wells Fargo, Johnson & Johnson, Pepsi, PayPal, USC, Blue Cross/BlueShield, Paul Mitchell, State University of New York, SHRM, and the National Diversity Council.
 

Lisa was even hired by the Government of Brunei to be the Keynote Speaker (IN Brunei) at their first-ever Women in Leadership Conference!

In addition to being a Speaker, Trainer, and Award-winning Author, Lisa is also a Certified Leadership & Success Coach who works with individuals and employee groups. She received her certification through an intensive one-year training program accredited by the International Coach Federation.

Her four popular business books on Amazon include: “Your Employee Brand is in Your Hands”; “Millennials into Leadership”; “Millennials Incorporated”; and “Boomers into Business”. Each of Lisa’s books are filled with useful tactics, tips, and strategies, so they are often ordered in bulk by organizations for their Learning & Development Programs.

And, based on her expertise and notoriety, Lisa has been interviewed by, or written articles for, many media outlets and research firms, including (partial list): ABC, NPR, NBC, MSNBC, CBS, The NY Times, Wall Street Journal, USA Today, U.S. News & World Report, Human Resource Executive, Diversity Business, Essence, HR.com, Monster.com, Recruiter.com, CollegeRecruiter.com, and CareerBuilder.com.

Website: https://www.theorrellgroup.com

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/thelisaorrell/

Facebook link: https://www.facebook.com/lisa.orrell

Linkedin link: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisaorrell/
 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 29 Jul 2024 15:59:01 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com I am upping the ante on REAL conversations as I sit down with my close friends, Jill Osur and Lisa Orrell.  Jill and Lisa's not-so-random meeting led to a partnership that's as dynamic as it is loving. Their relationship teaches and challenges me and our open-hearted talks underscore the power of honest friendships - the kind in which we can show up authentically while paving the way to a more equitable world.

We unpack my once narrow, and sadly, homophobic perspective and how it has expanded in large part due to conversations with LGBTQ+ friends and loved ones. This conversation offers further proof that our lived experience and personal story can change minds when we share our truest selves with others. I also love our discussion on the gift of Gen Z - the next wave of  humans who are pretty perplexed by older generations’ use of societal labels and our tendency toward categorizing human souls.

 

Guests Bios:

Jill's Bio:

A former UC Berkeley softball player, Jill Osur still draws on her athletic background to hone her leadership style and overcome obstacles. Deeply moved to elevate women and inspire meaningful change, her values have guided her career—first as a savvy political fundraiser, then in marketing with Special Olympics Northern California & Nevada, and now, as an entrepreneur. Jill has helped launch numerous consumer product companies and ventures focused on “doing well by doing good.” Previously the co-founder and director of California-based winery group, and in the wine industry since 2014, Jill founded a digital winery, Teneral Cellars, in 2020. Teneral Cellars is driven by Jill’s belief that wine can be a conduit for change; a force for gender equity and social justice within the wine industry and our culture at large.  Teneral Cellars was named “Hot Brands of 2022” by Wine Business Monthly.

Jill is a captivating public speaker who helps female executives and entrepreneurs learn how to strengthen their leadership by tapping into the “head, heart, and gut.” As said by one attendee, Jill “puts a firecracker in the room” with her energizing, moving presence. A champion of female power, Jill coaches audiences and clients to embrace their brilliance, leverage full capacity thinking, and show up in alignment with their authentic selves. She recently took the stage with her 2024 TEDxFolsom talk entitled, "How Impactful Leaders Use Three Brains"

Jill is a member of the Governor’s Entrepreneurship and Economic Mobility Taskforce, Women Presidents’ Organization, 2023 Tory Burch Foundation Fellow, was a founding board member of the John F. Kennedy University Institute for Entrepreneurial Leadership, and is a current advisory board member for Enterprising Women, Women Business Collaborative, and board member of Hilinski’s Hope Foundation, which provides integrative mental wellness programs for student athletes.

Awards
• 2023 Honoree, 100 Women to KNOW in America
• 2023 Winner, NAWBO Sacramento OWL Awards – Woman Innovator
• 2022 Winner, Leadership California’s Legacy of Leadership - Corporate Leader Award
• 2022 Winner, of the Athletes’ Voices “Turn Up The Mic” Award for Excellence in Collaboration presented by ESPN
• 2022 Winner, Stevie Awards For Women in Business - Gold Medal - Best Female Entrepreneur – Consumer Products –10 or Less Employees, Silver Medal - Social Change Maker of the Year – Women and Bronze Medal - Women Helping Women - Social Change 3.
• 2021 Winner, Women Presidents’ Organization: Adrienne Hall Award for Breaking Down Barriers

Website: https://www.teneralcellars.com

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/jillosur/

Facebook link: https://www.facebook.com/teneralcellars

Linkedin link: https://www.linkedin.com/in/jillosur/

 

Lisa's Bio:

Lisa Orrell, CPC, is known globally as “The Chief of Change”, and she was recently named to the 2024 “World’s Top 30 Leadership Speakers & Experts” list published by the international research organization, Global Gurus.

As a renowned expert, she’s passionate about empowering, educating, and inspiring all members of today’s workforce to be exceptional Leaders…often through the unique lens of Personal Branding and a focus on Mental Health.

But her charter isn’t just about helping them make positive changes within themselves! It’s also about making a positive impact on workplace culture…because when you have more effective Leaders, you have happier employees.

Lisa has been booked for Keynotes and Training Programs by countless well-known organizations, such as: Pfizer, Salesforce, Wyndham Worldwide Resorts, eBay, Wells Fargo, Johnson & Johnson, Pepsi, PayPal, USC, Blue Cross/BlueShield, Paul Mitchell, State University of New York, SHRM, and the National Diversity Council.
 

Lisa was even hired by the Government of Brunei to be the Keynote Speaker (IN Brunei) at their first-ever Women in Leadership Conference!

In addition to being a Speaker, Trainer, and Award-winning Author, Lisa is also a Certified Leadership & Success Coach who works with individuals and employee groups. She received her certification through an intensive one-year training program accredited by the International Coach Federation.

Her four popular business books on Amazon include: “Your Employee Brand is in Your Hands”; “Millennials into Leadership”; “Millennials Incorporated”; and “Boomers into Business”. Each of Lisa’s books are filled with useful tactics, tips, and strategies, so they are often ordered in bulk by organizations for their Learning & Development Programs.

And, based on her expertise and notoriety, Lisa has been interviewed by, or written articles for, many media outlets and research firms, including (partial list): ABC, NPR, NBC, MSNBC, CBS, The NY Times, Wall Street Journal, USA Today, U.S. News & World Report, Human Resource Executive, Diversity Business, Essence, HR.com, Monster.com, Recruiter.com, CollegeRecruiter.com, and CareerBuilder.com.

Website: https://www.theorrellgroup.com

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/thelisaorrell/

Facebook link: https://www.facebook.com/lisa.orrell

Linkedin link: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisaorrell/
 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Love stories without labels Jen Oliver 01:04:05 I am upping the ante on REAL conversations as I sit down with my close friends, Jill Osur and Lisa Orrell. Jill and Lisa's not-so-random meeting led to a partnership that's as dynamic as it is loving. Their relationship teaches and challenges me and our open-hearted talks underscore the power of honest friendships - the kind in which we can show up authentically while paving the way to a more equitable world. We unpack my once narrow, and sadly, homophobic perspective and how it has expanded in large part due to conversations with LGBTQ+ friends and loved ones. This conversation offers further proof that our lived experience and personal story can change minds when we share our truest selves with others. I also love our discussion on the gift of Gen Z - the next wave of humans who are pretty perplexed by older generations’ use of societal labels and our tendency toward categorizing human souls. I am upping the ante on REAL conversations as I sit down with my close friends, Jill Osur and Lisa Orrell. Jill and Lisa's not-so-random meeting led to a partnership that's as dynamic as it is loving. Their relationship teaches and challenges me and our open-hearted talks underscore the power of honest friendships - the kind in which we can show up authentically while paving the way to a more equitable world. We unpack my once narrow, and sadly, homophobic perspective and how it has expanded in large part due to conversations with LGBTQ+ friends and loved ones. This conversation offers further proof that our lived experience and personal story can change minds when we share our truest selves with others. I also love our discussion on the gift of Gen Z - the next wave of humans who are pretty perplexed by older generations’ use of societal labels and our tendency toward categorizing human souls. false full 67 e989bd94-a954-4ae9-bf47-63b143c13018 Soulgasm? I’ll have what she’s having I am doing my level best to get out of my head and connect more deeply with my soul and this conversation with Michal Spiegelman was right on time (aren’t all REAL conversations that way?) Michal is a master at helping us to tune into and dialogue with our soul. We discuss the spectrum of experiences and emotions that come with living soulFULLY –  and Michal explains the difference between soul-care and self-care. Join the conversation…

Guest Bio:

Michal Spiegelman is the visionary behind Beacons of Change, a transformative platform dedicated to guiding women and healing professionals toward a soul-fueled life lived at full power. As the founder and creator of the Soulful Healer Method for Profound Transformation, Michal empowers a diverse community of individuals to find their authentic voice and develop a distinctive identity.

Michal combines deep expertise and timeless wisdom with a comprehensive methodology enriched by a variety of traditional and holistic therapeutic tools. This powerful blend ignites transformation and growth, inspiring women and healing professionals alike to become soulful and shine brightly as beacons in their personal and professional lives.

Michal is the author of ‘Becoming Soulful: Six Keys for Profound Transformation in Your Therapy, Coaching, or Healing Practice,’ scheduled for release in the summer of 2024.”

She is a certified professional life coach, Reiki master, spiritual mentor, medical intuitive, and social worker, passionate about elevating consciousness in the world, one soul at a time.

Website: https://www.beaconsofchange.com/

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/michal.spiegelman/

Facebook link: https://www.facebook.com/BeaconsOfChangeCommunity/

Linkedin link: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michalspiegelman/

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 15 Jul 2024 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Michal Spiegelman, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com I am doing my level best to get out of my head and connect more deeply with my soul and this conversation with Michal Spiegelman was right on time (aren’t all REAL conversations that way?) Michal is a master at helping us to tune into and dialogue with our soul. We discuss the spectrum of experiences and emotions that come with living soulFULLY –  and Michal explains the difference between soul-care and self-care. Join the conversation…

Guest Bio:

Michal Spiegelman is the visionary behind Beacons of Change, a transformative platform dedicated to guiding women and healing professionals toward a soul-fueled life lived at full power. As the founder and creator of the Soulful Healer Method for Profound Transformation, Michal empowers a diverse community of individuals to find their authentic voice and develop a distinctive identity.

Michal combines deep expertise and timeless wisdom with a comprehensive methodology enriched by a variety of traditional and holistic therapeutic tools. This powerful blend ignites transformation and growth, inspiring women and healing professionals alike to become soulful and shine brightly as beacons in their personal and professional lives.

Michal is the author of ‘Becoming Soulful: Six Keys for Profound Transformation in Your Therapy, Coaching, or Healing Practice,’ scheduled for release in the summer of 2024.”

She is a certified professional life coach, Reiki master, spiritual mentor, medical intuitive, and social worker, passionate about elevating consciousness in the world, one soul at a time.

Website: https://www.beaconsofchange.com/

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/michal.spiegelman/

Facebook link: https://www.facebook.com/BeaconsOfChangeCommunity/

Linkedin link: https://www.linkedin.com/in/michalspiegelman/

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Soulgasm? I’ll have what she’s having Michal Spiegelman, Jen Oliver 01:12:00 I am doing my level best to get out of my head and connect more deeply with my soul and this conversation with Michal Spiegelman was right on time (aren’t all REAL conversations that way?) Michal is a master at helping us to tune into and dialogue with our soul. We discuss the spectrum of experiences and emotions that come with living soulFULLY – and Michal explains the difference between soul-care and self-care. Join the conversation… I am doing my level best to get out of my head and connect more deeply with my soul and this conversation with Michal Spiegelman was right on time (aren’t all REAL conversations that way?) Michal is a master at helping us to tune into and dialogue with our soul. We discuss the spectrum of experiences and emotions that come with living soulFULLY – and Michal explains the difference between soul-care and self-care. Join the conversation… false full 66 2bf0bc3d-e324-446e-a1a8-d73e06028a30 Straight talk beyond gender transition My preconceived notions on the gender transition experience got BLOWN UP thanks to this conversation with Andrea Leigh - a powerful woman of influence straight outta Oklahoma - with an affinity for fashion, tattoos, sports cars, Harleys and guns. Andrea has the unique perspective and wisdom that comes from living a full and satisfying life as a man and now, as a woman. She has strong opinions about being referred to as “trans” and the freedom to choose our own identities. This conversation provides another informed perspective - especially if you have opinions on people who identify as transgender. 

Guest Bio:

Andrea is a High Impact Coach dedicated to empowering ambitious professionals to break free from conventional expectations and achieve profound personal and professional growth.  Her coaching methodology combines a direct, no-nonsense approach with practical psychological principles to help clients embrace new experiences and discover the meaning and purpose of life through the journey itself.

With over three decades as a top sales specialist at Pfizer, where she excelled in multiple therapeutic divisions, Andrea retired at the peak of her career in 2022. Transitioning into the fashion industry, she quickly found success in the Oklahoma and Dallas markets, building and leading cohesive high-performing teams. 

As a leader in the C-Suite Network and LeadHERship Global, Andrea’s involvement in these communities allows her to foster a culture of acceptance and diversity, championing the power of embracing individuality and leveraging adversity as a catalyst for growth.

Co-hosting a streaming network TV show and her role as a professional stylist at the corporate level, representing WHBM, Chico’s, and Soma allows her to further inspire and motivate others.

Her coaching philosophy centers on the transformative value of embracing one’s unique identity and turning challenges into opportunities. Providing practical tools for self-acceptance and personal breakthroughs, guiding clients to reconnect with their life’s purpose and achieve lasting fulfillment. Andrea believes that the meaning of life is found in the experience, not before, and encourages her clients to say yes to new experiences as a pathway to discovering their most fulfilling future.

Website: https://www.andrealeigh.com/

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/therealandrealeigh?igsh=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

Facebook link: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100084531194868&mibextid=LQQJ4d

Linkedin link:  http://linkedin.com/in/andrea-leigh-borth-b72159b

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Tue, 2 Jul 2024 02:15:54 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Andrea Leigh, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com My preconceived notions on the gender transition experience got BLOWN UP thanks to this conversation with Andrea Leigh - a powerful woman of influence straight outta Oklahoma - with an affinity for fashion, tattoos, sports cars, Harleys and guns. Andrea has the unique perspective and wisdom that comes from living a full and satisfying life as a man and now, as a woman. She has strong opinions about being referred to as “trans” and the freedom to choose our own identities. This conversation provides another informed perspective - especially if you have opinions on people who identify as transgender. 

Guest Bio:

Andrea is a High Impact Coach dedicated to empowering ambitious professionals to break free from conventional expectations and achieve profound personal and professional growth.  Her coaching methodology combines a direct, no-nonsense approach with practical psychological principles to help clients embrace new experiences and discover the meaning and purpose of life through the journey itself.

With over three decades as a top sales specialist at Pfizer, where she excelled in multiple therapeutic divisions, Andrea retired at the peak of her career in 2022. Transitioning into the fashion industry, she quickly found success in the Oklahoma and Dallas markets, building and leading cohesive high-performing teams. 

As a leader in the C-Suite Network and LeadHERship Global, Andrea’s involvement in these communities allows her to foster a culture of acceptance and diversity, championing the power of embracing individuality and leveraging adversity as a catalyst for growth.

Co-hosting a streaming network TV show and her role as a professional stylist at the corporate level, representing WHBM, Chico’s, and Soma allows her to further inspire and motivate others.

Her coaching philosophy centers on the transformative value of embracing one’s unique identity and turning challenges into opportunities. Providing practical tools for self-acceptance and personal breakthroughs, guiding clients to reconnect with their life’s purpose and achieve lasting fulfillment. Andrea believes that the meaning of life is found in the experience, not before, and encourages her clients to say yes to new experiences as a pathway to discovering their most fulfilling future.

Website: https://www.andrealeigh.com/

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/therealandrealeigh?igsh=OGQ5ZDc2ODk2ZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr

Facebook link: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100084531194868&mibextid=LQQJ4d

Linkedin link:  http://linkedin.com/in/andrea-leigh-borth-b72159b

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Straight talk beyond gender transition Andrea Leigh, Jen Oliver 01:04:01 My preconceived notions on the gender transition experience got BLOWN UP thanks to this conversation with Andrea Leigh - a powerful woman of influence straight outta Oklahoma - with an affinity for fashion, tattoos, sports cars, Harleys and guns. Andrea has the unique perspective and wisdom that comes from living a full and satisfying life as a man and now, as a woman. She has strong opinions about being referred to as “trans” and the freedom to choose our own identities. This conversation provides another informed perspective - especially if you have opinions on people who identify as transgender. My preconceived notions on the gender transition experience got BLOWN UP thanks to this conversation with Andrea Leigh - a powerful woman of influence straight outta Oklahoma - with an affinity for fashion, tattoos, sports cars, Harleys and guns. Andrea has the unique perspective and wisdom that comes from living a full and satisfying life as a man and now, as a woman. She has strong opinions about being referred to as “trans” and the freedom to choose our own identities. This conversation provides another informed perspective - especially if you have opinions on people who identify as transgender. false full 65 02db95f7-599a-4f8d-a694-6addea4ff555 The non-negotiables of divorce, kids, and our emotional healing I invited Poonan Bhuchar on the pod because I believed her lived experience of marriage, divorce, and career differed from mine and would expand my perspective. Well...Poonan did teach me a great deal - but ultimately, we are more stunningly alike than different. 

From overriding our gut instincts, to not listening to our body, to doing the very best we can for our kids…we cover a lot of ground and it all relates to our ability to heal emotionally. Poonan called it out; we each have a social responsibility to take care of our emotional well-being and break the ties of generational trauma. This is a tell-it-like-it-is conversation…join us. 

Our Guest's Bio

Poonam Bhuchar, a practicing attorney, is an acclaimed speaker and coach on overcoming trauma and emotional pain in order to live a happy, fulfilled life. Born and raised in London of Indian parents, she immigrated to the United States at 21 and experienced a multitude of painful challenges in her life, including sexual assault, abuse, health issues, financial setbacks, and the aftermath and cultural humiliation of divorces. 

Poonam developed the S.A.F.E. Method to help others acknowledge, discuss, and grow from their emotional pain without self or imposed stigma or judgment. Her top-selling book "SAFE from the Pain” guides readers into the light of a prosperous, happy life.

Poonam has appeared on 30 podcasts, been interviewed on Fox, Forbes Riley on her show and is also a TedX speaker . In addition to her coaching and speaking, she is now using her legal knowledge and personal experience to create pre-divorce and individual wellness coaching. Poonam recently introduced an online course on "Becoming Emotionally S.A.F.E."

Website: https://www.emotionallysafe.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100064021724096

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/poonam-bhuchar-19961632/

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 17 Jun 2024 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Poonam Bhuchar, Jen Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com I invited Poonan Bhuchar on the pod because I believed her lived experience of marriage, divorce, and career differed from mine and would expand my perspective. Well...Poonan did teach me a great deal - but ultimately, we are more stunningly alike than different. 

From overriding our gut instincts, to not listening to our body, to doing the very best we can for our kids…we cover a lot of ground and it all relates to our ability to heal emotionally. Poonan called it out; we each have a social responsibility to take care of our emotional well-being and break the ties of generational trauma. This is a tell-it-like-it-is conversation…join us. 

Our Guest's Bio

Poonam Bhuchar, a practicing attorney, is an acclaimed speaker and coach on overcoming trauma and emotional pain in order to live a happy, fulfilled life. Born and raised in London of Indian parents, she immigrated to the United States at 21 and experienced a multitude of painful challenges in her life, including sexual assault, abuse, health issues, financial setbacks, and the aftermath and cultural humiliation of divorces. 

Poonam developed the S.A.F.E. Method to help others acknowledge, discuss, and grow from their emotional pain without self or imposed stigma or judgment. Her top-selling book "SAFE from the Pain” guides readers into the light of a prosperous, happy life.

Poonam has appeared on 30 podcasts, been interviewed on Fox, Forbes Riley on her show and is also a TedX speaker . In addition to her coaching and speaking, she is now using her legal knowledge and personal experience to create pre-divorce and individual wellness coaching. Poonam recently introduced an online course on "Becoming Emotionally S.A.F.E."

Website: https://www.emotionallysafe.com

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100064021724096

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/poonam-bhuchar-19961632/

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> The non-negotiables of divorce, kids, and our emotional healing Poonam Bhuchar, Jen Oliver Brown 01:00:27 I invited Poonan Bhuchar on the pod because I believed her lived experience of marriage, divorce, and career differed from mine and would expand my perspective. Well...Poonan did teach me a great deal - but ultimately, we are more stunningly alike than different. From overriding our gut instincts, to not listening to our body, to doing the very best we can for our kids…we cover a lot of ground and it all relates to our ability to heal emotionally. Poonan called it out; we each have a social responsibility to take care of our emotional well-being and break the ties of generational trauma. This is a tell-it-like-it-is conversation…join us. I invited Poonan Bhuchar on the pod because I believed her lived experience of marriage, divorce, and career differed from mine and would expand my perspective. Well...Poonan did teach me a great deal - but ultimately, we are more stunningly alike than different. From overriding our gut instincts, to not listening to our body, to doing the very best we can for our kids…we cover a lot of ground and it all relates to our ability to heal emotionally. Poonan called it out; we each have a social responsibility to take care of our emotional well-being and break the ties of generational trauma. This is a tell-it-like-it-is conversation…join us. false full 64 317e59bf-8955-45b9-bfe6-d808d23a87a8 How do we name this episode??? And other questions about touch. This conversation was a little edgy, but so illuminating for me. I connect with Jaclyn Foster, the insightful author of  "I Touch Myself" and we navigate awkward waters with laughter and REAL talk. There is more to consider with the intricacies of self-love and the art of body awareness. 

Plus, we get into the confusing paradox of our response to pleasure; we can desire unhealthy behaviors like overeating or excessive drinking and also instinctively shut down overwhelmingly positive sensations, such as those experienced during a sexual encounter. So much to unpack, join the conversation…

Our Guest's Bio

Jaclyn is known as The Provocateur of Love, on a mission to support women to dissolve shame and fear, so they can fall wildly in love with life and their relationships. She is a published author of the book, I Touch Myself, Lessons to Wake Up Desire & Fire Up Your Sex Drive;  a book that's all about her journey of following desire and unpacking the pull to follow rules and be a good girl. When she isn’t coaching and teaching, you’ll find her dancing, walking out in nature, joyfully soaking in her latest new awareness, and enjoying snuggle time with her fiance.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fosterjaclyn/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jaclynlaceyfoster/

 

 

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Mon, 3 Jun 2024 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jaclyn Foster, Jen Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com This conversation was a little edgy, but so illuminating for me. I connect with Jaclyn Foster, the insightful author of  "I Touch Myself" and we navigate awkward waters with laughter and REAL talk. There is more to consider with the intricacies of self-love and the art of body awareness. 

Plus, we get into the confusing paradox of our response to pleasure; we can desire unhealthy behaviors like overeating or excessive drinking and also instinctively shut down overwhelmingly positive sensations, such as those experienced during a sexual encounter. So much to unpack, join the conversation…

Our Guest's Bio

Jaclyn is known as The Provocateur of Love, on a mission to support women to dissolve shame and fear, so they can fall wildly in love with life and their relationships. She is a published author of the book, I Touch Myself, Lessons to Wake Up Desire & Fire Up Your Sex Drive;  a book that's all about her journey of following desire and unpacking the pull to follow rules and be a good girl. When she isn’t coaching and teaching, you’ll find her dancing, walking out in nature, joyfully soaking in her latest new awareness, and enjoying snuggle time with her fiance.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/fosterjaclyn/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jaclynlaceyfoster/

 

 

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> How do we name this episode??? And other questions about touch. Jaclyn Foster, Jen Oliver Brown 00:53:54 This conversation was a little edgy, but so illuminating for me. I connect with Jaclyn Foster, the insightful author of "I Touch Myself" and we navigate awkward waters with laughter and REAL talk. There is more to consider with the intricacies of self-love and the art of body awareness. Plus, we get into the confusing paradox of our response to pleasure; we can desire unhealthy behaviors like overeating or excessive drinking and also instinctively shut down overwhelmingly positive sensations, such as those experienced during a sexual encounter. So much to unpack, join the conversation… This conversation was a little edgy, but so illuminating for me. I connect with Jaclyn Foster, the insightful author of "I Touch Myself" and we navigate awkward waters with laughter and REAL talk. There is more to consider with the intricacies of self-love and the art of body awareness. Plus, we get into the confusing paradox of our response to pleasure; we can desire unhealthy behaviors like overeating or excessive drinking and also instinctively shut down overwhelmingly positive sensations, such as those experienced during a sexual encounter. So much to unpack, join the conversation… false full 63 73e18469-0871-42a2-be33-4e95331ce061 Am I allowed to call you disabled? And other confusing questions… REAL conversation with Alycia Anderson - a wheelchair user who responds with candor to discriminatory assumptions and uncomfortable conversations that happen in her presence or after she has rolled away. 

Alycia helped me to remove the fear and pity lens that I was looking at disabled folks through. I was operating from an ableist perspective - a notion that a “normal” body is the ideal - concluding that people in bodies different from the norm would want to be fixed or restored to whole. That is not necessarily the case and it’s favoring one ability over another. 

I am starting to unwire my old operating system; when we define someone by their disability we risk missing the person! 

About our guest:

Alycia Anderson is an international TEDx motivational speaker, disability advocate, DEI & accessibility corporate inclusion educator,  podcast host of Pushing Forward with Alycia and founder / CEO of The Alycia Anderson Company, LLC. Alycia’s company focuses on the education and advocacy of diversity, equity and inclusion in the workplace. Alycia was recently awarded 2022 Employee Business Resource Group (EBRG) Program of the Year.

Alycia holds a European Master’s Degree in Adapted Physical Activity emphasizing the benefits, practices and principles of inclusion. She is a tennis player, cyclist, identical twin and has been a wheelchair user since birth.

Alycia shares her journey globally to help companies and organizations understand the true benefits inherent to building a diverse, inclusive and accessible workplace and society. Shining light on how our diversities are core to the qualities that make each of us uniquely qualified and able in life.

Alycia’s authenticity and charisma draw others to her, and she naturally connects with them to inspire, mentor, champion, and support. Alycia right sizes everyday obstacles to open minds to a world of possibility. "And that's how she rolls!"

Alycia has spoken for the likes of: TEDx, Victoria's Secret, Abercrombie & Fitch Co.,  eHarmony, Hyatt, AAA, AbbVie, Blue Shield of California, Arizona State University, Burlington Stores and has been featured in an AT&T commercial, the Los Angeles Times, Chicago Tribune, and the Orange County Register. She's also been a guest on the Leeza Gibbons show, spotlighted on CBS news, and featured on the covers of Living Low and New Mobility Magazines.
 

TEDx Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ah_NWrE291o

Website: https://alyciaanderson.com/

Podcast link: https://alyciaanderson.com/podcast/

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/alyciaspeaking/

Youtube link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXCcsHc2guyzv7waaN6EVag

Linkedin link: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alyciaranderson/


 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 20 May 2024 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Alycia Anderson, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com REAL conversation with Alycia Anderson - a wheelchair user who responds with candor to discriminatory assumptions and uncomfortable conversations that happen in her presence or after she has rolled away. 

Alycia helped me to remove the fear and pity lens that I was looking at disabled folks through. I was operating from an ableist perspective - a notion that a “normal” body is the ideal - concluding that people in bodies different from the norm would want to be fixed or restored to whole. That is not necessarily the case and it’s favoring one ability over another. 

I am starting to unwire my old operating system; when we define someone by their disability we risk missing the person! 

About our guest:

Alycia Anderson is an international TEDx motivational speaker, disability advocate, DEI & accessibility corporate inclusion educator,  podcast host of Pushing Forward with Alycia and founder / CEO of The Alycia Anderson Company, LLC. Alycia’s company focuses on the education and advocacy of diversity, equity and inclusion in the workplace. Alycia was recently awarded 2022 Employee Business Resource Group (EBRG) Program of the Year.

Alycia holds a European Master’s Degree in Adapted Physical Activity emphasizing the benefits, practices and principles of inclusion. She is a tennis player, cyclist, identical twin and has been a wheelchair user since birth.

Alycia shares her journey globally to help companies and organizations understand the true benefits inherent to building a diverse, inclusive and accessible workplace and society. Shining light on how our diversities are core to the qualities that make each of us uniquely qualified and able in life.

Alycia’s authenticity and charisma draw others to her, and she naturally connects with them to inspire, mentor, champion, and support. Alycia right sizes everyday obstacles to open minds to a world of possibility. "And that's how she rolls!"

Alycia has spoken for the likes of: TEDx, Victoria's Secret, Abercrombie & Fitch Co.,  eHarmony, Hyatt, AAA, AbbVie, Blue Shield of California, Arizona State University, Burlington Stores and has been featured in an AT&T commercial, the Los Angeles Times, Chicago Tribune, and the Orange County Register. She's also been a guest on the Leeza Gibbons show, spotlighted on CBS news, and featured on the covers of Living Low and New Mobility Magazines.
 

TEDx Talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ah_NWrE291o

Website: https://alyciaanderson.com/

Podcast link: https://alyciaanderson.com/podcast/

Instagram link: https://www.instagram.com/alyciaspeaking/

Youtube link: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCXCcsHc2guyzv7waaN6EVag

Linkedin link: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alyciaranderson/


 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Am I allowed to call you disabled? And other confusing questions… Alycia Anderson, Jen Oliver 01:11:19 A REAL conversation with Alycia Anderson - a wheelchair user who responds with candor to discriminatory assumptions and uncomfortable conversations that happen in her presence or after she has rolled away. A REAL conversation with Alycia Anderson - a wheelchair user who responds with candor to discriminatory assumptions and uncomfortable conversations that happen in her presence or after she has rolled away. false full 62 b99264fe-9b1c-4eb3-af8f-b5449545f01e When Motherhood Looks (and feels) Different I learned so much during this conversation with Emelda De Coteau. Our motherhood journeys look very different - as we talk about the emotional terrain of raising a child with unique needs.

Tears were definitely shed in this episode; Emelda speaks honestly about her journey as a mother to her vibrant, neurodivergent child. At one point, she describes how it feels to watch your child struggle to find a playmate and be understood by other children - and what you do and don't do in hard moments like that. It was a wakeup call for me. We delve into the practical aspects of parenthood that many families encounter, from advocating for suitable educational resources to nurturing communication with children who experience the world differently. This was a very REAL and important talk that sharpened and bonded both of us. May no parent feel alone on their journey!

 

Our Guests Bio:

Emelda Juanita De Coteau is a loving wife, mama, creative (writer, podcaster, spiritual activist / organizer), and believer seeking God anew in each moment. Although based in Baltimore, this daughter of a Honduran immigrant feels at home throughout the world. She leads Pray with Our Feet (PWF), an online community lifting the intersection of progressive Christian faith and social justice; she co-hosts the PWF podcast with her Mom, Trudy.  

She is also the founder of When Motherhood Looks Different, a community-based small business helping Mamas of neurodivergent kids and Moms with chronic illness center well-being and connect in community by offering events, resources, support and mindfulness coaching. Emelda is a certified mindfulness coach and trauma informed mindfulness facilitator.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

When Motherhood Looks Different Self-Compassion Meditation - https://drive.google.com/file/d/1wE9AWQCLNMm1fS92NcQgjFN-6UW0Bvh_/view?usp=share_link

WMLD Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/whenmotherhoodlooksdifferent/ 

Pray with our Feet website - https://www.praywithourfeet.org 

PWF post on Ryan Gainer - https://www.instagram.com/p/C4dnyZcJ09f/?img_index=1

WMLD post on Ryan Gainer - https://www.instagram.com/p/C4jPOcwOxOC/?img_index=1

Video of Ryan Gainer, WMLD post - https://www.instagram.com/p/C4d7LY5RDcw/

Blog - https://www.praywithourfeet.org/blog

Devotional and Prayer Page - https://www.praywithourfeet.org/devotionals

Pray with our Feet Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/praywithourfeet/

 

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 6 May 2024 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com I learned so much during this conversation with Emelda De Coteau. Our motherhood journeys look very different - as we talk about the emotional terrain of raising a child with unique needs.

Tears were definitely shed in this episode; Emelda speaks honestly about her journey as a mother to her vibrant, neurodivergent child. At one point, she describes how it feels to watch your child struggle to find a playmate and be understood by other children - and what you do and don't do in hard moments like that. It was a wakeup call for me. We delve into the practical aspects of parenthood that many families encounter, from advocating for suitable educational resources to nurturing communication with children who experience the world differently. This was a very REAL and important talk that sharpened and bonded both of us. May no parent feel alone on their journey!

 

Our Guests Bio:

Emelda Juanita De Coteau is a loving wife, mama, creative (writer, podcaster, spiritual activist / organizer), and believer seeking God anew in each moment. Although based in Baltimore, this daughter of a Honduran immigrant feels at home throughout the world. She leads Pray with Our Feet (PWF), an online community lifting the intersection of progressive Christian faith and social justice; she co-hosts the PWF podcast with her Mom, Trudy.  

She is also the founder of When Motherhood Looks Different, a community-based small business helping Mamas of neurodivergent kids and Moms with chronic illness center well-being and connect in community by offering events, resources, support and mindfulness coaching. Emelda is a certified mindfulness coach and trauma informed mindfulness facilitator.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

When Motherhood Looks Different Self-Compassion Meditation - https://drive.google.com/file/d/1wE9AWQCLNMm1fS92NcQgjFN-6UW0Bvh_/view?usp=share_link

WMLD Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/whenmotherhoodlooksdifferent/ 

Pray with our Feet website - https://www.praywithourfeet.org 

PWF post on Ryan Gainer - https://www.instagram.com/p/C4dnyZcJ09f/?img_index=1

WMLD post on Ryan Gainer - https://www.instagram.com/p/C4jPOcwOxOC/?img_index=1

Video of Ryan Gainer, WMLD post - https://www.instagram.com/p/C4d7LY5RDcw/

Blog - https://www.praywithourfeet.org/blog

Devotional and Prayer Page - https://www.praywithourfeet.org/devotionals

Pray with our Feet Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/praywithourfeet/

 

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> When Motherhood Looks (and feels) Different Jen Oliver 00:52:57 I learned so much during this conversation with Emelda De Coteau. Our motherhood journeys look very different - as we talk about the emotional terrain of raising a child with unique needs. Tears were definitely shed in this episode; Emelda speaks honestly about her journey as a mother to her vibrant, neurodivergent child. At one point, she describes how it feels to watch your child struggle to find a playmate and be understood by other children - and what you do and don't do in hard moments like that. It was a wakeup call for me. We delve into the practical aspects of parenthood that many families encounter, from advocating for suitable educational resources to nurturing communication with children who experience the world differently. This was a very REAL and important talk that sharpened and bonded both of us. May no parent feel alone on their journey! I learned so much during this conversation with Emelda De Coteau. Our motherhood journeys look very different - as we talk about the emotional terrain of raising a child with unique needs. Tears were definitely shed in this episode; Emelda speaks honestly about her journey as a mother to her vibrant, neurodivergent child. At one point, she describes how it feels to watch your child struggle to find a playmate and be understood by other children - and what you do and don't do in hard moments like that. It was a wakeup call for me. We delve into the practical aspects of parenthood that many families encounter, from advocating for suitable educational resources to nurturing communication with children who experience the world differently. This was a very REAL and important talk that sharpened and bonded both of us. May no parent feel alone on their journey! false full 61 ed38fdd5-b4c3-4f27-b0a8-4a75174bef80 Sisterhood: We are Stronger as a Collective! I am back with the insightful Christie Watrous for a heartfelt conversation on the intricacies of sisterhood.  We get REAL about the social conditioning that often pits women against each other and share our own journeys toward meaningful connections. 


Christie and I discuss our shared passion around holding space for other women and the transformative experience of being seen in our most vulnerable moments. We emphasize the significance of environments that encourage curiosity over comparison.

I talk about my commitment to creating Red Tent (a best selling book by Anita Diamont)gatherings; the kind of  where women can gather to find solace and solidarity amidst life's challenges. isterhood that holds the potential to transform personal growth and communal resilience.

--------- HIGHLIGHTS ---------

0:03:33 - Reconnecting Through Sisterhood and Intimacy

0:14:18 - Understanding the Concept of Containers

0:22:44 - Building Sisterhood and Safe Spaces

0:33:52 - The Importance of Passing Down History

0:39:46 - Exploring Erotic and Personal Voice 

 

Our Guest: Christie Watrous

Christie (she/her) is currently a Sex & Relationship Coach practicing in Folsom, CA. She is clinically trained with a Master’s in Social Work and has spent most of her career working in a wide variety of grassroots and non-profit settings ranging from runaway and homeless youth to adults with traumatic brain injuries.  She graduated from the Advanced Sex & Relationship Coaching Program with the Somatica Institute. And most recently, Christie completed a sex educator mentorship program with the Back to the Body team and received her certification as a facilitator of The Lotus Lift Meditation ©, created by Pamela Madsen & featured in Oprah Magazine.

Christie's practice focuses on helping those whom identify as women to stay connected to their bodies in the midst of life transitions. She helps women discover their own unique erotic energy, prioritize pleasure, explore desire and integrate this awareness into daily life. Her work is inspired by her own mid-life embodied journey back to her erotic self and fuels her passion for women’s sexual wellness. 

As the founder of Embodied Life Transitions providing 1:1 Coaching for women, Christie also facilitates a collaborative community based Book Club called “Between the Covers”. She hosts a monthly, sex-positive Sisterhood Happy Hour with a focus on sexual wellness for women and teaches her own in-person experiential workshops in Historic Folsom as part of the Back to the Body Collective. She is an advocate for women's sexual wellness & is passionate about creating spaces for sisterhood, intimacy, and connection in her community.

website: https://www.embodiedlifetransitions.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christie-watrous-b3b350172/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/embodiedlifetransitions/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/embodiedlifetransitions/

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 22 Apr 2024 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Christie Watrous, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com I am back with the insightful Christie Watrous for a heartfelt conversation on the intricacies of sisterhood.  We get REAL about the social conditioning that often pits women against each other and share our own journeys toward meaningful connections. 


Christie and I discuss our shared passion around holding space for other women and the transformative experience of being seen in our most vulnerable moments. We emphasize the significance of environments that encourage curiosity over comparison.

I talk about my commitment to creating Red Tent (a best selling book by Anita Diamont)gatherings; the kind of  where women can gather to find solace and solidarity amidst life's challenges. isterhood that holds the potential to transform personal growth and communal resilience.

--------- HIGHLIGHTS ---------

0:03:33 - Reconnecting Through Sisterhood and Intimacy

0:14:18 - Understanding the Concept of Containers

0:22:44 - Building Sisterhood and Safe Spaces

0:33:52 - The Importance of Passing Down History

0:39:46 - Exploring Erotic and Personal Voice 

 

Our Guest: Christie Watrous

Christie (she/her) is currently a Sex & Relationship Coach practicing in Folsom, CA. She is clinically trained with a Master’s in Social Work and has spent most of her career working in a wide variety of grassroots and non-profit settings ranging from runaway and homeless youth to adults with traumatic brain injuries.  She graduated from the Advanced Sex & Relationship Coaching Program with the Somatica Institute. And most recently, Christie completed a sex educator mentorship program with the Back to the Body team and received her certification as a facilitator of The Lotus Lift Meditation ©, created by Pamela Madsen & featured in Oprah Magazine.

Christie's practice focuses on helping those whom identify as women to stay connected to their bodies in the midst of life transitions. She helps women discover their own unique erotic energy, prioritize pleasure, explore desire and integrate this awareness into daily life. Her work is inspired by her own mid-life embodied journey back to her erotic self and fuels her passion for women’s sexual wellness. 

As the founder of Embodied Life Transitions providing 1:1 Coaching for women, Christie also facilitates a collaborative community based Book Club called “Between the Covers”. She hosts a monthly, sex-positive Sisterhood Happy Hour with a focus on sexual wellness for women and teaches her own in-person experiential workshops in Historic Folsom as part of the Back to the Body Collective. She is an advocate for women's sexual wellness & is passionate about creating spaces for sisterhood, intimacy, and connection in her community.

website: https://www.embodiedlifetransitions.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christie-watrous-b3b350172/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/embodiedlifetransitions/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/embodiedlifetransitions/

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Sisterhood: We are Stronger as a Collective! Christie Watrous, Jen Oliver 00:45:33 I am back with the insightful Christie Watrous for a heartfelt conversation on the intricacies of sisterhood. We get REAL about the social conditioning that often pits women against each other and share our own journeys toward meaningful connections. Christie and I discuss our shared passion around holding space for other women and the transformative experience of being seen in our most vulnerable moments. We emphasize the significance of environments that encourage curiosity over comparison. I talk about my commitment to creating Red Tent (a best selling book by Anita Diamont)gatherings; the kind of where women can gather to find solace and solidarity amidst life's challenges. isterhood that holds the potential to transform personal growth and communal resilience. I am back with the insightful Christie Watrous for a heartfelt conversation on the intricacies of sisterhood. We get REAL about the social conditioning that often pits women against each other and share our own journeys toward meaningful connections. Christie and I discuss our shared passion around holding space for other women and the transformative experience of being seen in our most vulnerable moments. We emphasize the significance of environments that encourage curiosity over comparison. I talk about my commitment to creating Red Tent (a best selling book by Anita Diamont)gatherings; the kind of where women can gather to find solace and solidarity amidst life's challenges. isterhood that holds the potential to transform personal growth and communal resilience. false full 60 5c273793-dd41-4c7c-82c4-47c6291657ca Pleasure is our birthright My conversation with Christie Watrous expands my limited viewpoint…again. We unpack what it means to connect with our bodies and each other, defining intimacy and pleasure in REAL terms. Spoiler alert: intimacy and pleasure are not always sexual and wow sometimes they are - AND it can look different than what the culture dishes up. 

As the founder of Embodied Life Transitions, Christie brings her personal experience of transformation and empowerment to our discussion, offering insights into reclaiming our bodies and desires. We talk candidly about our need to deconstruct shame narratives and embrace the pursuit of pleasure, which extends beyond the confines of the bedroom and into the joy of our simple daily rituals, from sipping a warm beverage to soaking in the melody of our favorite tune.

Christie and I confront our individual and collective truths - from unhealthy self-concepts to narratives that frame the end of a marriage as failure. Join the conversation. 

Resources referenced:

Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by  Emily Nagoski Ph.D.

--------- EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS ---------
(0:00:01) - Exploring the Erotic and Love
(0:10:10) - Prioritizing Pleasure and Desire
(0:24:10) - Unpacking Shame and Embracing Truth
(0:30:55) - Deconstructing Shame and Celebrating Growth
(0:41:59) - Human Need for Connection and Intimacy
(0:48:02) - Exploring Sexuality and Intimacy Beyond Stereotypes
(1:00:28) - Navigating Consent and Boundaries in Relationships

Our Guest: Christie Watrous

Christie (she/her) is currently a Sex & Relationship Coach practicing in Folsom, CA. She is clinically trained with a Master’s in Social Work and has spent most of her career working in a wide variety of grassroots and non-profit settings ranging from runaway and homeless youth to adults with traumatic brain injuries.  She graduated from the Advanced Sex & Relationship Coaching Program with the Somatica Institute. And most recently, Christie completed a sex educator mentorship program with the Back to the Body team and received her certification as a facilitator of The Lotus Lift Meditation ©, created by Pamela Madsen & featured in Oprah Magazine.

Christie's practice focuses on helping those whom identify as women to stay connected to their bodies in the midst of life transitions. She helps women discover their own unique erotic energy, prioritize pleasure, explore desire and integrate this awareness into daily life. Her work is inspired by her own mid-life embodied journey back to her erotic self and fuels her passion for women’s sexual wellness. 

As the founder of Embodied Life Transitions providing 1:1 Coaching for women, Christie also facilitates a collaborative community based Book Club called “Between the Covers”. She hosts a monthly, sex-positive Sisterhood Happy Hour with a focus on sexual wellness for women and teaches her own in-person experiential workshops in Historic Folsom as part of the Back to the Body Collective. She is an advocate for women's sexual wellness & is passionate about creating spaces for sisterhood, intimacy, and connection in her community.

website: https://www.embodiedlifetransitions.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christie-watrous-b3b350172/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/embodiedlifetransitions/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/embodiedlifetransitions/

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 8 Apr 2024 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Christie Watrous, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com My conversation with Christie Watrous expands my limited viewpoint…again. We unpack what it means to connect with our bodies and each other, defining intimacy and pleasure in REAL terms. Spoiler alert: intimacy and pleasure are not always sexual and wow sometimes they are - AND it can look different than what the culture dishes up. 

As the founder of Embodied Life Transitions, Christie brings her personal experience of transformation and empowerment to our discussion, offering insights into reclaiming our bodies and desires. We talk candidly about our need to deconstruct shame narratives and embrace the pursuit of pleasure, which extends beyond the confines of the bedroom and into the joy of our simple daily rituals, from sipping a warm beverage to soaking in the melody of our favorite tune.

Christie and I confront our individual and collective truths - from unhealthy self-concepts to narratives that frame the end of a marriage as failure. Join the conversation. 

Resources referenced:

Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by  Emily Nagoski Ph.D.

--------- EPISODE HIGHLIGHTS ---------
(0:00:01) - Exploring the Erotic and Love
(0:10:10) - Prioritizing Pleasure and Desire
(0:24:10) - Unpacking Shame and Embracing Truth
(0:30:55) - Deconstructing Shame and Celebrating Growth
(0:41:59) - Human Need for Connection and Intimacy
(0:48:02) - Exploring Sexuality and Intimacy Beyond Stereotypes
(1:00:28) - Navigating Consent and Boundaries in Relationships

Our Guest: Christie Watrous

Christie (she/her) is currently a Sex & Relationship Coach practicing in Folsom, CA. She is clinically trained with a Master’s in Social Work and has spent most of her career working in a wide variety of grassroots and non-profit settings ranging from runaway and homeless youth to adults with traumatic brain injuries.  She graduated from the Advanced Sex & Relationship Coaching Program with the Somatica Institute. And most recently, Christie completed a sex educator mentorship program with the Back to the Body team and received her certification as a facilitator of The Lotus Lift Meditation ©, created by Pamela Madsen & featured in Oprah Magazine.

Christie's practice focuses on helping those whom identify as women to stay connected to their bodies in the midst of life transitions. She helps women discover their own unique erotic energy, prioritize pleasure, explore desire and integrate this awareness into daily life. Her work is inspired by her own mid-life embodied journey back to her erotic self and fuels her passion for women’s sexual wellness. 

As the founder of Embodied Life Transitions providing 1:1 Coaching for women, Christie also facilitates a collaborative community based Book Club called “Between the Covers”. She hosts a monthly, sex-positive Sisterhood Happy Hour with a focus on sexual wellness for women and teaches her own in-person experiential workshops in Historic Folsom as part of the Back to the Body Collective. She is an advocate for women's sexual wellness & is passionate about creating spaces for sisterhood, intimacy, and connection in her community.

website: https://www.embodiedlifetransitions.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/christie-watrous-b3b350172/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/embodiedlifetransitions/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/embodiedlifetransitions/

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Pleasure is our birthright Christie Watrous, Jen Oliver 01:06:09 My conversation with Christie Watrous expands my limited viewpoint…again. We unpack what it means to connect with our bodies and each other, defining intimacy and pleasure in REAL terms. Spoiler alert: intimacy and pleasure are not always sexual and wow sometimes they are - AND it can look different than what the culture dishes up. As the founder of Embodied Life Transitions, Christie brings her personal experience of transformation and empowerment to our discussion, offering insights into reclaiming our bodies and desires. We talk candidly about our need to deconstruct shame narratives and embrace the pursuit of pleasure, which extends beyond the confines of the bedroom and into the joy of our simple daily rituals, from sipping a warm beverage to soaking in the melody of our favorite tune. Christie and I confront our individual and collective truths - from unhealthy self-concepts to narratives that frame the end of a marriage as failure. Join the conversation. My conversation with Christie Watrous expands my limited viewpoint…again. We unpack what it means to connect with our bodies and each other, defining intimacy and pleasure in REAL terms. Spoiler alert: intimacy and pleasure are not always sexual and wow sometimes they are - AND it can look different than what the culture dishes up. As the founder of Embodied Life Transitions, Christie brings her personal experience of transformation and empowerment to our discussion, offering insights into reclaiming our bodies and desires. We talk candidly about our need to deconstruct shame narratives and embrace the pursuit of pleasure, which extends beyond the confines of the bedroom and into the joy of our simple daily rituals, from sipping a warm beverage to soaking in the melody of our favorite tune. Christie and I confront our individual and collective truths - from unhealthy self-concepts to narratives that frame the end of a marriage as failure. Join the conversation. false full 59 dcd1c269-d0bb-46f3-ade9-d2cfc4d0d98a Two women and a conversation about race and grace Here I am, a white chick, learning what’s appropriate to ask of a black woman when it comes to her lived experience. Thank God for Wanda Smith who is grace and wisdom embodied into one beautiful human. I ask a lot of careful, race-related questions because I am so afraid of doing it wrong - but she gets me.

Our conversation highlights the importance of curious dialogue to create empathy and self-awareness. We talk about the importance of being in circles with safe people who get us and forged even greater bonds discussing grief and struggle. So grateful. Join us…

Resources mentioned during this podcast:

Ms. Wanda's Full Circle Radio - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/iammswanda

She Believed, Vol II Book - https://www.amazon.com/She-Believed-II-Unapologetic-Determined/dp/1726711714/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.mfAeqDkSrASMo9NsegZpPQ.4CyGlegEqkNbQ_XXYOPhAZD_XoTu40yzst8E0qM112w&dib_tag=se&qid=1710719111&refinements=p_27%3AWanda+Abney&s=books&sr=1-1&text=Wanda+Abney

SB188 The CROWN Act signed into law, making California the first state to ban hair discrimination in work and school - https://www.thecrownact.com/california

Wanda Smith's Bio:

Wanda Smith is a highly sought-after speaker, coach, moderator, talk show host and Founder of SpeakHer Consulting LLC. Ms. Smith walks alongside those who seek to become confident speakers by helping them craft a message that supports their vision and authentic voice.

Wanda is the host of Full Circle, a weekly radio show dedicated to empowering black women through conversation. Each week she hosts lively dialogue aimed at inspiring women to achieve their desired vision for their lives. You can hear “Ms. Wanda’s Full Circle Radio” on your favorite podcast platform.

Wanda is enthusiastic and has a heart for seeing people thrive in every situation. As a 20-year cancer survivor, she readily shares stories of her journey on stage and in workshops. In the anthology, She Believed, Vol. II, her chapter, “Freedom by G.R.A.C.E.”, recounts the steps she took to heal after a painful divorce. Her talk “Becoming Ms. Wanda” is one of the most viewed segments on Creative Mornings, the world's largest face-to-face creative community.

Wanda obtained her coaching certification from the UC Davis Coaching for Life and Work Program to add to her more than 25 years as a training and learning development professional for the State of California. By developing meaningful relationships with her clients, Wanda is an expert at creating space for individuals to disrupt thought patterns, get clear and show up and deliver their message with confidence. As a result, her clients grow their businesses, gain visibility in their organizations and become community leaders.

In 2019, Wanda was recognized as an Exceptional Women of Color by the Sac Cultural Hub Media Foundation. When not speaking or training, Wanda can be found spending time at the ocean, traveling or training for her next 5K.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/full_circle97.5/?fbclid=IwAR3DslCSI_RO9pO7WOo4jCbPmKCzgPPRDZO2qhSgO-g6c1VAlfG4kk5T318

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100045496076412

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/wanda-smith-b1003b125/

 

About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we converse on the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at

 REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 18 Mar 2024 07:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Wanda Smith, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com Here I am, a white chick, learning what’s appropriate to ask of a black woman when it comes to her lived experience. Thank God for Wanda Smith who is grace and wisdom embodied into one beautiful human. I ask a lot of careful, race-related questions because I am so afraid of doing it wrong - but she gets me.

Our conversation highlights the importance of curious dialogue to create empathy and self-awareness. We talk about the importance of being in circles with safe people who get us and forged even greater bonds discussing grief and struggle. So grateful. Join us…

Resources mentioned during this podcast:

Ms. Wanda's Full Circle Radio - https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/iammswanda

She Believed, Vol II Book - https://www.amazon.com/She-Believed-II-Unapologetic-Determined/dp/1726711714/ref=sr_1_1?dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.mfAeqDkSrASMo9NsegZpPQ.4CyGlegEqkNbQ_XXYOPhAZD_XoTu40yzst8E0qM112w&dib_tag=se&qid=1710719111&refinements=p_27%3AWanda+Abney&s=books&sr=1-1&text=Wanda+Abney

SB188 The CROWN Act signed into law, making California the first state to ban hair discrimination in work and school - https://www.thecrownact.com/california

Wanda Smith's Bio:

Wanda Smith is a highly sought-after speaker, coach, moderator, talk show host and Founder of SpeakHer Consulting LLC. Ms. Smith walks alongside those who seek to become confident speakers by helping them craft a message that supports their vision and authentic voice.

Wanda is the host of Full Circle, a weekly radio show dedicated to empowering black women through conversation. Each week she hosts lively dialogue aimed at inspiring women to achieve their desired vision for their lives. You can hear “Ms. Wanda’s Full Circle Radio” on your favorite podcast platform.

Wanda is enthusiastic and has a heart for seeing people thrive in every situation. As a 20-year cancer survivor, she readily shares stories of her journey on stage and in workshops. In the anthology, She Believed, Vol. II, her chapter, “Freedom by G.R.A.C.E.”, recounts the steps she took to heal after a painful divorce. Her talk “Becoming Ms. Wanda” is one of the most viewed segments on Creative Mornings, the world's largest face-to-face creative community.

Wanda obtained her coaching certification from the UC Davis Coaching for Life and Work Program to add to her more than 25 years as a training and learning development professional for the State of California. By developing meaningful relationships with her clients, Wanda is an expert at creating space for individuals to disrupt thought patterns, get clear and show up and deliver their message with confidence. As a result, her clients grow their businesses, gain visibility in their organizations and become community leaders.

In 2019, Wanda was recognized as an Exceptional Women of Color by the Sac Cultural Hub Media Foundation. When not speaking or training, Wanda can be found spending time at the ocean, traveling or training for her next 5K.

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/full_circle97.5/?fbclid=IwAR3DslCSI_RO9pO7WOo4jCbPmKCzgPPRDZO2qhSgO-g6c1VAlfG4kk5T318

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100045496076412

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/wanda-smith-b1003b125/

 

About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we converse on the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at

 REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Two women and a conversation about race and grace Wanda Smith, Jen Oliver 00:58:43 Here I am, a white chick, learning what’s appropriate to ask of a black woman when it comes to her lived experience. Thank God for Wanda Smith who is grace and wisdom embodied into one beautiful human. I ask a lot of careful, race-related questions because I am so afraid of doing it wrong - but she gets me. Our conversation highlights the importance of curious dialogue to create empathy and self-awareness. We talk about the importance of being in circles with safe people who get us and forged even greater bonds discussing grief and struggle. So grateful. Join us… Here I am, a white chick, learning what’s appropriate to ask of a black woman when it comes to her lived experience. Thank God for Wanda Smith who is grace and wisdom embodied into one beautiful human. I ask a lot of careful, race-related questions because I am so afraid of doing it wrong - but she gets me. Our conversation highlights the importance of curious dialogue to create empathy and self-awareness. We talk about the importance of being in circles with safe people who get us and forged even greater bonds discussing grief and struggle. So grateful. Join us… false full 58 f01e0d85-c8db-48f5-a5fd-cf0dba6b1a28 The Valentine letter I received A love letter ended up in my hands. It’s the week of all things LOVE and I’m feeling moved to record an impromptu, mini-episode with just us…you and me – as I share a message received on Valentine's Day. I hope that revealing something this personal - and then unpacking all that it represents - sets the stage for deeper love for ALL of us… Join me. 

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About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we converse on the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at

 REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

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Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Sat, 17 Feb 2024 08:10:31 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com A love letter ended up in my hands. It’s the week of all things LOVE and I’m feeling moved to record an impromptu, mini-episode with just us…you and me – as I share a message received on Valentine's Day. I hope that revealing something this personal - and then unpacking all that it represents - sets the stage for deeper love for ALL of us… Join me. 

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REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

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podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

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About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

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email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

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]]> The Valentine letter I received Jen Oliver 00:10:57 A love letter ended up in my hands. It’s the week of all things LOVE and I’m feeling moved to record an impromptu, mini-episode with just us…you and me – as I share a message received on Valentine's Day. I hope that revealing something this personal - and then unpacking all that it represents - sets the stage for deeper love for ALL of us… Join me. A love letter ended up in my hands. It’s the week of all things LOVE and I’m feeling moved to record an impromptu, mini-episode with just us…you and me – as I share a message received on Valentine's Day. I hope that revealing something this personal - and then unpacking all that it represents - sets the stage for deeper love for ALL of us… Join me. false full 57 7767f2e4-9f95-4afe-bfc8-7e03b684ea4d REALity check: Listening to our bodies Another REALity check on the couch with one of my besties - Christina and I share honest stuff about our bodies and how to process emotions and the sensations we feel. This episode comes with a CONTENT WARNING given I speak on matters relating to sex and trauma work and Christina discusses her experience around grief. 

We unpack my struggle with what can be trusted and acted upon and what can't. Sometimes the "antidote to the echo chamber" looks like this; verbally processing new info, experiences, and ways of being with a trusted person who asks key questions and refuses to go along with me when my perspective is limited. 

Guest Bio:

Christina Fichera is one of my (Jen) BFFs and a person with an abundance of roles and titles. I am settling on these… 

This girl is REAL - a deep feeler and eternal learner. She loves to break things down and mine for the most essential aspects in everything. Christina is a speaker, salesperson, athlete, customer relationship manager and curious soul.

A podcast junkie in the best way; she listens to dozens of podcasts each week and is known to stick Post-it® notes all over the place (literally and on social media) as a means of documenting and sharing what she is learning.

Christina is a loyal friend and collaborator AND the best pup-mom ever to a very spoiled dog named Teddy. 

You can follow Christina on Instagram @ChristinaFichera_

Resources mentioned on this episode:

Gone From My Sight, "The Little Blue Book" that changed the hospice industry by Barbara Karnes, RN

Episode 42 of Listen For REAL with guest, Christina Fichera

About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we explore the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Tue, 13 Feb 2024 03:23:52 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver, Christina Fichera) https://listenforreal.com Another REALity check on the couch with one of my besties - Christina and I share honest stuff about our bodies and how to process emotions and the sensations we feel. This episode comes with a CONTENT WARNING given I speak on matters relating to sex and trauma work and Christina discusses her experience around grief. 

We unpack my struggle with what can be trusted and acted upon and what can't. Sometimes the "antidote to the echo chamber" looks like this; verbally processing new info, experiences, and ways of being with a trusted person who asks key questions and refuses to go along with me when my perspective is limited. 

Guest Bio:

Christina Fichera is one of my (Jen) BFFs and a person with an abundance of roles and titles. I am settling on these… 

This girl is REAL - a deep feeler and eternal learner. She loves to break things down and mine for the most essential aspects in everything. Christina is a speaker, salesperson, athlete, customer relationship manager and curious soul.

A podcast junkie in the best way; she listens to dozens of podcasts each week and is known to stick Post-it® notes all over the place (literally and on social media) as a means of documenting and sharing what she is learning.

Christina is a loyal friend and collaborator AND the best pup-mom ever to a very spoiled dog named Teddy. 

You can follow Christina on Instagram @ChristinaFichera_

Resources mentioned on this episode:

Gone From My Sight, "The Little Blue Book" that changed the hospice industry by Barbara Karnes, RN

Episode 42 of Listen For REAL with guest, Christina Fichera

About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we explore the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> REALity check: Listening to our bodies Jen Oliver, Christina Fichera 00:58:33 Another REALity check on the couch with one of my besties - Christina and I share honest stuff about our bodies and how to process emotions and the sensations we feel. It gets pretty personal at points. Another REALity check on the couch with one of my besties - Christina and I share honest stuff about our bodies and how to process emotions and the sensations we feel. It gets pretty personal at points. false full 56 ecbb17ad-079a-438c-b35c-2d5762a0732a Adversity to REAL Impact with Dr. Sarah Almilli This talk with Dr. Sarah Almilli underscores the very reason I started this podcast! We start with my recap of when I was called a racist (among other fun things) on social media – and my determination to pursue conversations that broaden my limited perspective.

AND, Sarah delivered a REAL convo to be sure.

She moved from Egypt to the U.S. at the age of 17 and reflects on the challenges she faced as an immigrant and as a woman pursuing a career in medicine. As a middle easterner, she was often associated with terrorism and faced misconceptions about her home country. 

As a woman, she was discounted despite her brilliance and determination.

Sarah also shares vulnerably about the trauma of childhood displacement during the Iraq-Kuwait war. A timely recount given all that is occurring right now in places like Gaza, Ukraine, and even our own southern border.

It is incredible how all of this struggle informs her professional life; Dr. Almilli is both a clinician and entrepreneur redefining the human aspect in healthcare. 

Guest Bio:

Dr. Sarah Almilli, Advanced Clinical Pharmacist is the CEO of ELAK Health Inc. She graduated from the Loma Linda University School of Pharmacy and continued her post-graduate residency career at the Veterans Affairs HealthCare system in Southern California. 

Dr. Almilli is a certified Improvement Advisor with extensive clinical and executive leadership experiences - driving execution for healthcare organizations, leading them to remarkable organizational successes. Additionally, she is a clinical provider specializing in chronic conditions management, with special interest in cardiovascular diseases.

Dr. Almilli is a compassionate, eager and empathetic advanced clinical ambulatory care pharmacist provider. Her passion is driven by the bonds she builds with her patients and physicians over the course of their journey and the enjoyment she holds in keeping them engaged while saving thousands of dollars. Her patients call her “a true healer” and “lifetime health coach.” Physicians call her a “wonder worker with a magic wand.”

In her spare time, Dr. Almilli enjoys spending days on the beach, fashion browsing, and spending time with her husband and friends. She loves to travel and has been to countries in most continents of the world. She is conversant in Arabic and English.

Website: https://elakhealth.org/contactus/

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/elakhealth/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ELAKhealth.org/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRIUodZ8OE8kHXRbj-JG6SA

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elakhealth/

About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we converse on the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Thu, 1 Feb 2024 04:56:03 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Dr. Sarah Almilli, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com This talk with Dr. Sarah Almilli underscores the very reason I started this podcast! We start with my recap of when I was called a racist (among other fun things) on social media – and my determination to pursue conversations that broaden my limited perspective.

AND, Sarah delivered a REAL convo to be sure.

She moved from Egypt to the U.S. at the age of 17 and reflects on the challenges she faced as an immigrant and as a woman pursuing a career in medicine. As a middle easterner, she was often associated with terrorism and faced misconceptions about her home country. 

As a woman, she was discounted despite her brilliance and determination.

Sarah also shares vulnerably about the trauma of childhood displacement during the Iraq-Kuwait war. A timely recount given all that is occurring right now in places like Gaza, Ukraine, and even our own southern border.

It is incredible how all of this struggle informs her professional life; Dr. Almilli is both a clinician and entrepreneur redefining the human aspect in healthcare. 

Guest Bio:

Dr. Sarah Almilli, Advanced Clinical Pharmacist is the CEO of ELAK Health Inc. She graduated from the Loma Linda University School of Pharmacy and continued her post-graduate residency career at the Veterans Affairs HealthCare system in Southern California. 

Dr. Almilli is a certified Improvement Advisor with extensive clinical and executive leadership experiences - driving execution for healthcare organizations, leading them to remarkable organizational successes. Additionally, she is a clinical provider specializing in chronic conditions management, with special interest in cardiovascular diseases.

Dr. Almilli is a compassionate, eager and empathetic advanced clinical ambulatory care pharmacist provider. Her passion is driven by the bonds she builds with her patients and physicians over the course of their journey and the enjoyment she holds in keeping them engaged while saving thousands of dollars. Her patients call her “a true healer” and “lifetime health coach.” Physicians call her a “wonder worker with a magic wand.”

In her spare time, Dr. Almilli enjoys spending days on the beach, fashion browsing, and spending time with her husband and friends. She loves to travel and has been to countries in most continents of the world. She is conversant in Arabic and English.

Website: https://elakhealth.org/contactus/

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/elakhealth/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ELAKhealth.org/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCRIUodZ8OE8kHXRbj-JG6SA

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/elakhealth/

About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we converse on the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Adversity to REAL Impact with Dr. Sarah Almilli Dr. Sarah Almilli, Jen Oliver 00:50:30 This talk with Dr. Sarah Almilli underscores the very reason I started this podcast! We start with my recap of when I was called a racist (among other fun things) on social media – and my determination to pursue conversations that broaden my limited perspective. AND, Sarah delivered a REAL convo to be sure. Join us… This talk with Dr. Sarah Almilli underscores the very reason I started this podcast! We start with my recap of when I was called a racist (among other fun things) on social media – and my determination to pursue conversations that broaden my limited perspective. AND, Sarah delivered a REAL convo to be sure. Join us… false full 55 a9e6d1c5-3de6-4bf5-bc5e-ef5dde2a9f94 A spiritual conversation with no suitable title As someone who spent decades experiencing God and a faith practice in a limited, narrow way  - I am always looking to learn and stretch my perspective. Kerri Naber and I delve into an honest chat - touching on various aspects of faith plus the challenges of navigating religious constructs. She and I merge and diverge as we reflect on our experiences - in and out of organized religion.  We talk prayer, intuition, Holy Spirit, and the merits of raising kids with a faith practice and without. I also love Kerri’s take on spirituality from the millennial's perspective.  

Guest Bio:

Kerri Naber has an educational background in Social Work with a Mental Health concentration. She used her degree in the non-profit realm for 14 years via advocating, program direction, and fundraising. Through her personal business, Holy Spirit Hustler, Kerri hosts workshops that provide time, space, and encouragement for women to find their passion, gain confidence and build community. That first step of business ownership led the way for Kerri to retire her non-profit career in 2022 and start her own consulting company, Naber Engagement Consulting. Kerri is a Visionary Director for entrepreneurs. By identifying and solving blind spots, Kerri helps business owners thrive. 

On the personal side, Kerri is a new mom to Luke, a wife to David, a dog mom to a Corgi, Arrow and, as an Enneagram Type Seven, she is constantly dreaming, creating, and celebrating everyday life.

Instagram: https://instagram.com/Kerri_naber

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerrinaber/

https://www.linkedin.com/company/holy-spirit-hustler/

https://www.facebook.com/HolySpiritHustler

https://www.instagram.com/holyspirithustler/

About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we converse on the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 15 Jan 2024 08:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Kerri Naber, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com As someone who spent decades experiencing God and a faith practice in a limited, narrow way  - I am always looking to learn and stretch my perspective. Kerri Naber and I delve into an honest chat - touching on various aspects of faith plus the challenges of navigating religious constructs. She and I merge and diverge as we reflect on our experiences - in and out of organized religion.  We talk prayer, intuition, Holy Spirit, and the merits of raising kids with a faith practice and without. I also love Kerri’s take on spirituality from the millennial's perspective.  

Guest Bio:

Kerri Naber has an educational background in Social Work with a Mental Health concentration. She used her degree in the non-profit realm for 14 years via advocating, program direction, and fundraising. Through her personal business, Holy Spirit Hustler, Kerri hosts workshops that provide time, space, and encouragement for women to find their passion, gain confidence and build community. That first step of business ownership led the way for Kerri to retire her non-profit career in 2022 and start her own consulting company, Naber Engagement Consulting. Kerri is a Visionary Director for entrepreneurs. By identifying and solving blind spots, Kerri helps business owners thrive. 

On the personal side, Kerri is a new mom to Luke, a wife to David, a dog mom to a Corgi, Arrow and, as an Enneagram Type Seven, she is constantly dreaming, creating, and celebrating everyday life.

Instagram: https://instagram.com/Kerri_naber

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kerrinaber/

https://www.linkedin.com/company/holy-spirit-hustler/

https://www.facebook.com/HolySpiritHustler

https://www.instagram.com/holyspirithustler/

About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we converse on the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> A spiritual conversation with no suitable title Kerri Naber, Jen Oliver 01:03:38 I love convos where we explore spirituality without arguing religion, dogma, and “which faith corners the market on righteousness.” My beliefs have shifted profoundly over the years and a spirit of inquiry and exploration feels like church to me. Thanks Kerri Naber for going there with me! I love convos where we explore spirituality without arguing religion, dogma, and “which faith corners the market on righteousness.” My beliefs have shifted profoundly over the years and a spirit of inquiry and exploration feels like church to me. Thanks Kerri Naber for going there with me! false full 54 072a1eb6-809a-4d04-b319-eb852f998950 This is the face of PTSD? Megan explains the struggle of putting on a brave face while wanting to disappear in plain sight - the sheer exhaustion and sense of hopelessness when searching for help. This is the experience of countless individuals affected by post traumatic stress injuries.

Megan also shares hopeful insight from her current perspective as a coach and group facilitator for first responder peer support, outlining the actions that helped her on her journey. 

Guest Bio:

Megan is a PATHH Guide for the Boulder Crest Foundation guiding Veterans and First Responders through the Warrior PATHH Program - a week-long Post Traumatic Growth Training.

She spent 15 years in the Fire Service and retired as a Fire-Engineer/Paramedic after struggling with PTSD. Megan now runs her own First Responder Peer Support Group and has a weekly Zoom meeting where people from all over the country can voice their struggles, receive support, and find fellows and community.

In addition to being a Certified Life Coach, Megan also works as a Health Mentor and educates on using dōTERRA Essential Oils and holistic approaches to help with PTSD and everyday health concerns.

Megan lives in the Sierra foothills with her 2 dogs outside of El Dorado Hills, CA and has a vision of bringing people together for soulful gatherings, classes, in-person peer support groups, camping, and connection on her property.

Megan’s email is 4valiantcore@gmail.com

Website: https://www.4valiantcore.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/megonfire/

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/megan-o-connor-b60577258/

Resources mentioned on this episode: 

Bouldercrest.org Boulder Crest Foundation created the Warrior PATHH Training.

The Struggle Well Experience for first responders. 

Struggle Well by Ken Falke and Josh Goldberg - an excellent resource on Post Traumatic Growth

FRSN.org First Responder Support Network who puts on the WCPR the West Coast Post Trauma Retreat. They also have a great resource list of First Responder Meetings and Support Groups and calls on the website. 

My website (although more coaching focused and still under construction) is 4valiantcore.com

The Body Keeps the Score and resources by Bessel Van Der Kolk MD

Resource lists created by Megan O’Connor:

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About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we explore the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 8 Jan 2024 08:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Megan O’Connor, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com Megan explains the struggle of putting on a brave face while wanting to disappear in plain sight - the sheer exhaustion and sense of hopelessness when searching for help. This is the experience of countless individuals affected by post traumatic stress injuries.

Megan also shares hopeful insight from her current perspective as a coach and group facilitator for first responder peer support, outlining the actions that helped her on her journey. 

Guest Bio:

Megan is a PATHH Guide for the Boulder Crest Foundation guiding Veterans and First Responders through the Warrior PATHH Program - a week-long Post Traumatic Growth Training.

She spent 15 years in the Fire Service and retired as a Fire-Engineer/Paramedic after struggling with PTSD. Megan now runs her own First Responder Peer Support Group and has a weekly Zoom meeting where people from all over the country can voice their struggles, receive support, and find fellows and community.

In addition to being a Certified Life Coach, Megan also works as a Health Mentor and educates on using dōTERRA Essential Oils and holistic approaches to help with PTSD and everyday health concerns.

Megan lives in the Sierra foothills with her 2 dogs outside of El Dorado Hills, CA and has a vision of bringing people together for soulful gatherings, classes, in-person peer support groups, camping, and connection on her property.

Megan’s email is 4valiantcore@gmail.com

Website: https://www.4valiantcore.com

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/megonfire/

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/megan-o-connor-b60577258/

Resources mentioned on this episode: 

Bouldercrest.org Boulder Crest Foundation created the Warrior PATHH Training.

The Struggle Well Experience for first responders. 

Struggle Well by Ken Falke and Josh Goldberg - an excellent resource on Post Traumatic Growth

FRSN.org First Responder Support Network who puts on the WCPR the West Coast Post Trauma Retreat. They also have a great resource list of First Responder Meetings and Support Groups and calls on the website. 

My website (although more coaching focused and still under construction) is 4valiantcore.com

The Body Keeps the Score and resources by Bessel Van Der Kolk MD

Resource lists created by Megan O’Connor:

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About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we explore the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> This is the face of PTSD? Megan O’Connor, Jen Oliver 01:10:49 Megan O’Connor was a 15-year career firefighter and medic when I met her; a woman of huge kindness and empathy while being equally determined and strong. AND she was suffering greatly. These things can be true at the same time. Megan O’Connor was a 15-year career firefighter and medic when I met her; a woman of huge kindness and empathy while being equally determined and strong. AND she was suffering greatly. These things can be true at the same time. false full 53 441b4ac3-fe17-4971-a11f-55a109e703c9 Redefining Success: From Big Law to Self-Care “How is this going to serve me?” I bristle when I hear that phrase because I once believed words like that were the epitome of “self-ish” — NOT SO! 

Julian Sarafian speaks to his high-pressured path from Berkeley to Harvard to a career in Big Law and then his decision to go a different direction.

We have romanticized hustle-culture and for what? It often tanks our mental and physical health - and it doesn't make much of a life either. 

This conversation illuminates the sheer necessity of relooking at what we want and what serves us so that we can live fully and contribute meaningful work and a full self to the world.

Guest Bio:

Julian is a lawyer and content creator. His legal practice focuses on content creators, social media influencers, and startups. His content surrounds mental health, the law, and politics. Julian's work has been featured in the NY Times, Bloomberg Law, American Lawyer, Business Insider, and on CNBC. A graduate of UC Berkeley and Harvard Law School, Sarafian has given several TEDx talks.

website: https://www.forcreatorsbycreators.co

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliansarafian/

LinkedIn: https://beacons.ai/juliansarafian

 

Resources mentioned on this episode:

Julian Sarafian “How Content Creators are Being Ripped Off on Social Media” TEDxFolsom

Julian Sarafian “The Cost of Success” TEDxCarrioba Studio

About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we explore the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 1 Jan 2024 08:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Julian Sarafian, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com “How is this going to serve me?” I bristle when I hear that phrase because I once believed words like that were the epitome of “self-ish” — NOT SO! 

Julian Sarafian speaks to his high-pressured path from Berkeley to Harvard to a career in Big Law and then his decision to go a different direction.

We have romanticized hustle-culture and for what? It often tanks our mental and physical health - and it doesn't make much of a life either. 

This conversation illuminates the sheer necessity of relooking at what we want and what serves us so that we can live fully and contribute meaningful work and a full self to the world.

Guest Bio:

Julian is a lawyer and content creator. His legal practice focuses on content creators, social media influencers, and startups. His content surrounds mental health, the law, and politics. Julian's work has been featured in the NY Times, Bloomberg Law, American Lawyer, Business Insider, and on CNBC. A graduate of UC Berkeley and Harvard Law School, Sarafian has given several TEDx talks.

website: https://www.forcreatorsbycreators.co

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/juliansarafian/

LinkedIn: https://beacons.ai/juliansarafian

 

Resources mentioned on this episode:

Julian Sarafian “How Content Creators are Being Ripped Off on Social Media” TEDxFolsom

Julian Sarafian “The Cost of Success” TEDxCarrioba Studio

About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we explore the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Redefining Success: From Big Law to Self-Care Julian Sarafian, Jen Oliver 00:43:50 A killer conversation with Julian Sarafian, former big law attorney turned private practice advocate for content creators, social media influencers, and startups. Julian's journey is a revelation about the intense pressures of high-powered professions and a testimony to choosing work on our own terms. A killer conversation with Julian Sarafian, former big law attorney turned private practice advocate for content creators, social media influencers, and startups. Julian's journey is a revelation about the intense pressures of high-powered professions and a testimony to choosing work on our own terms. false full 52 7f732406-843a-4d55-bafc-7641f928aeb5 Embracing peace in the wake of loss Christina reflects on her anxiety and desperate need for control along with the anticipatory grief she wrestled with for nearly 17 years, since her Mom’s first cancer diagnosis. And now, she has the gift of deeper insight and peace - something she never anticipated in the wake of losing her closest person. 

Guest Bio:

Christina Fichera is one of my (Jen) BFFs and a person with an abundance of roles and titles. I am settling on these… 

This girl is REAL - a deep feeler and eternal learner. She loves to break things down and mine for the most essential aspects in everything. Christina is a speaker, salesperson, athlete, customer relationship manager and curious soul.

A podcast junkie in the best way; she listens to dozens of podcasts each week and is known to stick Post-it® notes all over the place (literally and on social media) as a means of documenting and sharing what she is learning.

Christina is a loyal friend and collaborator AND the best pup-mom ever to a very spoiled dog named Teddy. 

You can follow Christina on Instagram @ChristinaFichera_

Resources mentioned on this episode:

Gone From My Sight, "The Little Blue Book" that changed the hospice industry by Barbara Karnes, RN

Episode 42 of Listen For REAL with guest, Christina Fichera

About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we explore the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 25 Dec 2023 08:05:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver, Christina Fichera) https://listenforreal.com Christina reflects on her anxiety and desperate need for control along with the anticipatory grief she wrestled with for nearly 17 years, since her Mom’s first cancer diagnosis. And now, she has the gift of deeper insight and peace - something she never anticipated in the wake of losing her closest person. 

Guest Bio:

Christina Fichera is one of my (Jen) BFFs and a person with an abundance of roles and titles. I am settling on these… 

This girl is REAL - a deep feeler and eternal learner. She loves to break things down and mine for the most essential aspects in everything. Christina is a speaker, salesperson, athlete, customer relationship manager and curious soul.

A podcast junkie in the best way; she listens to dozens of podcasts each week and is known to stick Post-it® notes all over the place (literally and on social media) as a means of documenting and sharing what she is learning.

Christina is a loyal friend and collaborator AND the best pup-mom ever to a very spoiled dog named Teddy. 

You can follow Christina on Instagram @ChristinaFichera_

Resources mentioned on this episode:

Gone From My Sight, "The Little Blue Book" that changed the hospice industry by Barbara Karnes, RN

Episode 42 of Listen For REAL with guest, Christina Fichera

About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we explore the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Embracing peace in the wake of loss Jen Oliver, Christina Fichera 01:09:58 A REAL conversation about losing Mom. Christina Fichera is back - and unpacks her recent experience of watching her mom die and the random hospice pamphlet that changed her own grieving process. A REAL conversation about losing Mom. Christina Fichera is back - and unpacks her recent experience of watching her mom die and the random hospice pamphlet that changed her own grieving process. false full 51 487f2e81-0a42-4c9d-aa50-876272f224af How to begin again, NO MATTER WHAT With humor and a crazy level of wisdom and instinct that comes only with pain and vulnerability – Erin and I talk about what it is like to build your own life for the first time. AND she is building something incredible, having lived through more than most before the age of 40.

Guest Bio:

Erin Nichols is the best-selling author of No Matter What: A Story of Unwavering Hope and the Power of Resilience. She grew up and still resides in the Sacramento area of Northern California. She loves the natural world and is always looking forward to her next adventure. She graduated from California State University, Sacramento with her Masters in Speech-Language Pathology. Erin works as a health coach and believes in always striving to learn and grow.

website: https://www.nomatterwhatmemoir.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nomatterwhat_memoir/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/chatwitherinn

Resources mentioned on this episode:

Carol Dweck and Growth Mindset body of work 

NO MATTER WHAT   by Erin Nichols 

Metahab and Dr. Joyce Mikal-Flynn

About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we explore the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Tue, 19 Dec 2023 16:10:47 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Erin NIchols, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com With humor and a crazy level of wisdom and instinct that comes only with pain and vulnerability – Erin and I talk about what it is like to build your own life for the first time. AND she is building something incredible, having lived through more than most before the age of 40.

Guest Bio:

Erin Nichols is the best-selling author of No Matter What: A Story of Unwavering Hope and the Power of Resilience. She grew up and still resides in the Sacramento area of Northern California. She loves the natural world and is always looking forward to her next adventure. She graduated from California State University, Sacramento with her Masters in Speech-Language Pathology. Erin works as a health coach and believes in always striving to learn and grow.

website: https://www.nomatterwhatmemoir.com/

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/nomatterwhat_memoir/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/chatwitherinn

Resources mentioned on this episode:

Carol Dweck and Growth Mindset body of work 

NO MATTER WHAT   by Erin Nichols 

Metahab and Dr. Joyce Mikal-Flynn

About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we explore the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> How to begin again, NO MATTER WHAT Erin NIchols, Jen Oliver 01:03:29 “Embrace the suck.” Not quite what I expected to hear from Marine widow Erin Nichols as she opens up about her commitment as a young wife of a deployed soldier, her husband Sam’s catastrophic injury while serving in Iraq, and their 13-year journey after his traumatic brain injury. “Embrace the suck.” Not quite what I expected to hear from Marine widow Erin Nichols as she opens up about her commitment as a young wife of a deployed soldier, her husband Sam’s catastrophic injury while serving in Iraq, and their 13-year journey after his traumatic brain injury. false full 50 aa9b0a2e-8465-4ad5-bcaf-acdbad66615e Imposter syndrome, DEI=B, and reframing the word “should” It took us a few minutes to get rolling in this episode because I was speaking carefully…and NOT because Tiffany K. Martin makes conversation difficult (quite the contrary - she is an exceptional woman). I was playing it safe.

We talk about life’s ever-shifting rules of engagement and our instinct of playing it safe or staying silent so we don’t “rock the boat.” And then, we dig into the value of rocking boats anyway. 

We won’t always tackle new information beautifully - but we can continue to show up, learn and grow. 

Guest Bio:

Tiffany K. Martin is an equity-minded thought leader, speaker, presenter and author, and she is the CEO of TKMartin Consulting LLC. Serving as an Executive Change Strategist and ICF-certified Professional Coach (CPC/CLC), Tiffany helps people leaders, professionals and small business owners clarify their objectives, develop a strategy and take action! Tiffany specializes in Executive, Leadership and Professional Coaching, Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Training and Strategic Planning and Facilitation. As a result of her multifaceted career serving as a hardware engineer (MSEE), Special Agent with the FBI, Business Consultant, and Health and Wellness Coach, Tiffany is uniquely positioned to help others understand the “big picture” and act with intention. Tiffany’s passion is to share her knowledge and experiences to help people and organizations become better and do better.

website: https://www.tkmartinconsulting.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tiffany-k-martin

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tkmfit/

Facebook: @realjenoliver

About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we explore the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Thu, 7 Dec 2023 18:10:59 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Tiffany K Martin, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com It took us a few minutes to get rolling in this episode because I was speaking carefully…and NOT because Tiffany K. Martin makes conversation difficult (quite the contrary - she is an exceptional woman). I was playing it safe.

We talk about life’s ever-shifting rules of engagement and our instinct of playing it safe or staying silent so we don’t “rock the boat.” And then, we dig into the value of rocking boats anyway. 

We won’t always tackle new information beautifully - but we can continue to show up, learn and grow. 

Guest Bio:

Tiffany K. Martin is an equity-minded thought leader, speaker, presenter and author, and she is the CEO of TKMartin Consulting LLC. Serving as an Executive Change Strategist and ICF-certified Professional Coach (CPC/CLC), Tiffany helps people leaders, professionals and small business owners clarify their objectives, develop a strategy and take action! Tiffany specializes in Executive, Leadership and Professional Coaching, Diversity, Equity and Inclusion Training and Strategic Planning and Facilitation. As a result of her multifaceted career serving as a hardware engineer (MSEE), Special Agent with the FBI, Business Consultant, and Health and Wellness Coach, Tiffany is uniquely positioned to help others understand the “big picture” and act with intention. Tiffany’s passion is to share her knowledge and experiences to help people and organizations become better and do better.

website: https://www.tkmartinconsulting.com/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tiffany-k-martin

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tkmfit/

Facebook: @realjenoliver

About Jen Oliver:

I pursue and create environments where we explore the REAL stuff that changes us. I’m designed to bring others on my personal journey with honest admissions to help us all transform - that’s my sweetspot and I speak, lead, and write from that space.

REAL conversations stir deeper connection and community - to explore ways that you can work with me, go to:

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Imposter syndrome, DEI=B, and reframing the word “should” Tiffany K Martin, Jen Oliver 00:59:16 I often wonder, “Who do I think I am? I’m having conversations around topics that I don’t fully understand. What if I say something wrong…what will people think?” Yep, imposter syndrome still rears its ugly head with me - and I am reminded of the reason for this podcast. I am meant for conversations on important things, especially the stuff I am called to shift and learn for REAL. I often wonder, “Who do I think I am? I’m having conversations around topics that I don’t fully understand. What if I say something wrong…what will people think?” Yep, imposter syndrome still rears its ugly head with me - and I am reminded of the reason for this podcast. I am meant for conversations on important things, especially the stuff I am called to shift and learn for REAL. false full 49 62996feb-d246-4461-b6e0-baa72268b3a9 Speaking y(our) truth by getting out of your head Never underestimate the power of a person who can connect to their truth and bring THAT voice forward! Maybe you relate, as I do, to the individual who is detached from their real feelings and stories. How often do we find ourselves in a battle with the constant chatter in our head - delivering words that represent half-truths, people-pleasing, and performative behavior. 

I am a classic example of a person who communicated with a need for validation and peace - keeping everything palatable. I am convinced that is why I was called into my work as a communications coach. Many of us are called into the work we NEED. 

Guest Bio:

Eliza Maroney is the host of the Radiance Training podcast where she explores all of the healthiest ways to become the best version of yourself! She and her guests share their favorite tools for personal growth; from self-optimization techniques to meditations, exploring alternative medicine, and mindset RESETS, Eliza’s podcast is your invitation to TURN UP YOUR TURN ON and RISE INTO YOUR Radiance. 

https://www.instagram.com/thecannabisyogi

https://www.facebook.com/radiancetrainingwitheliza

Resources mentioned on this episode:

Radiance Training with Eliza Maroney

About Jen Oliver:

I believe in conversation, connection, and community. I create platforms where we can share stories and information. I LOVE to hold space for people who want to elevate and amplify their truest voice. If you want to explore the ways you can work with me, let's connect!

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

Join us in person for the REAL Conversations Speaker Series - here’s details and tickets! 

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at  REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 27 Nov 2023 08:10:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (ELIZA MARONEY, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com Never underestimate the power of a person who can connect to their truth and bring THAT voice forward! Maybe you relate, as I do, to the individual who is detached from their real feelings and stories. How often do we find ourselves in a battle with the constant chatter in our head - delivering words that represent half-truths, people-pleasing, and performative behavior. 

I am a classic example of a person who communicated with a need for validation and peace - keeping everything palatable. I am convinced that is why I was called into my work as a communications coach. Many of us are called into the work we NEED. 

Guest Bio:

Eliza Maroney is the host of the Radiance Training podcast where she explores all of the healthiest ways to become the best version of yourself! She and her guests share their favorite tools for personal growth; from self-optimization techniques to meditations, exploring alternative medicine, and mindset RESETS, Eliza’s podcast is your invitation to TURN UP YOUR TURN ON and RISE INTO YOUR Radiance. 

https://www.instagram.com/thecannabisyogi

https://www.facebook.com/radiancetrainingwitheliza

Resources mentioned on this episode:

Radiance Training with Eliza Maroney

About Jen Oliver:

I believe in conversation, connection, and community. I create platforms where we can share stories and information. I LOVE to hold space for people who want to elevate and amplify their truest voice. If you want to explore the ways you can work with me, let's connect!

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

Join us in person for the REAL Conversations Speaker Series - here’s details and tickets! 

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at  REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Speaking y(our) truth by getting out of your head ELIZA MARONEY, Jen Oliver 00:51:10 Sara Bareilles sings, “...let your words be anything but empty…” and I discuss this concept with Eliza Maroney as a guest on her podcast last Spring. AND, in listening back to the podcast, I notice a slightly hollow sound in my voice - an honest revelation of where my head was at. Sara Bareilles sings, “...let your words be anything but empty…” and I discuss this concept with Eliza Maroney as a guest on her podcast last Spring. AND, in listening back to the podcast, I notice a slightly hollow sound in my voice - an honest revelation of where my head was at. #femalepodcast, #realjenoliver, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #interviews, #realconversations false full 48 e568d684-85b2-4673-b5f3-6a50350db186 We decide the end of the story even when we didn’t choose Chapter 1 Albert and I are close in age and shared values but we arrive at our conversation with very different origin stories…he grew up as a Mexican-American in LA surrounded by gangs, violence, insecurity and pain. I am a white girl raised in Silicon Valley with all of the privilege that comes with a stable family, education, and opportunity.  

We talk about trauma and transformation and navigating the circumstances that push us to “go to work” and rewrite our stories later in life.

Guest Bio:

Albert Chavez is not just a name; it's a symbol of transformation and resilience. An author, mentor, and founder of the Uncommon Man Transformation and Self-Mastery Program, he brings a riveting journey of personal growth and redemption that has inspired individuals worldwide.

From a turbulent past plagued with broken families and inner chaos, Albert emerged as a powerhouse of transformation. His best-selling book, "From Darkness to Redemption," is a beacon of hope for those seeking to overcome adversity and reclaim their lives. With this compelling narrative, Albert takes his audience on a profound voyage from despair to triumph.

As the father of three grown children (Kayleigh, Albert, Alyssa) and a doting grandfather to young Brielle, Albert knows the profound importance of his message. He’s a man who's walked the walk, and now he’s here to guide you along the path of self-discovery and redemption.

Albert delves into the core principles of personal growth and self-mastery. His insights offer invaluable tools for individuals to break free from the shackles of their past, confront their inner demons, and embrace a future filled with purpose and fulfillment.

Website: https://chavezfit.com/built-uncommon/

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/albertchavezfit/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/albertrchavez/

Amazon: From Darkness To Redemption

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@albertchavezofficial

Resources mentioned on this episode:

From Darkness to Redemption: A Journey of Transformation and Self-Mastery by Albert Chavez

About Jen Oliver:

I believe in conversation, connection, and community. I create platforms where we can share stories and information. I LOVE to hold space for people who want to elevate and amplify their truest voice. If you want to explore the ways you can work with me, let's connect!

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

Instagram: @realjenoliver

TikTok: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

LinkedIn: @realjenoliver

Join us in person for the REAL Conversations Speaker Series - here’s details and tickets! 

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 20 Nov 2023 08:10:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Albert Chavez, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com Albert and I are close in age and shared values but we arrive at our conversation with very different origin stories…he grew up as a Mexican-American in LA surrounded by gangs, violence, insecurity and pain. I am a white girl raised in Silicon Valley with all of the privilege that comes with a stable family, education, and opportunity.  

We talk about trauma and transformation and navigating the circumstances that push us to “go to work” and rewrite our stories later in life.

Guest Bio:

Albert Chavez is not just a name; it's a symbol of transformation and resilience. An author, mentor, and founder of the Uncommon Man Transformation and Self-Mastery Program, he brings a riveting journey of personal growth and redemption that has inspired individuals worldwide.

From a turbulent past plagued with broken families and inner chaos, Albert emerged as a powerhouse of transformation. His best-selling book, "From Darkness to Redemption," is a beacon of hope for those seeking to overcome adversity and reclaim their lives. With this compelling narrative, Albert takes his audience on a profound voyage from despair to triumph.

As the father of three grown children (Kayleigh, Albert, Alyssa) and a doting grandfather to young Brielle, Albert knows the profound importance of his message. He’s a man who's walked the walk, and now he’s here to guide you along the path of self-discovery and redemption.

Albert delves into the core principles of personal growth and self-mastery. His insights offer invaluable tools for individuals to break free from the shackles of their past, confront their inner demons, and embrace a future filled with purpose and fulfillment.

Website: https://chavezfit.com/built-uncommon/

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/albertchavezfit/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/albertrchavez/

Amazon: From Darkness To Redemption

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@albertchavezofficial

Resources mentioned on this episode:

From Darkness to Redemption: A Journey of Transformation and Self-Mastery by Albert Chavez

About Jen Oliver:

I believe in conversation, connection, and community. I create platforms where we can share stories and information. I LOVE to hold space for people who want to elevate and amplify their truest voice. If you want to explore the ways you can work with me, let's connect!

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

Instagram: @realjenoliver

TikTok: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

LinkedIn: @realjenoliver

Join us in person for the REAL Conversations Speaker Series - here’s details and tickets! 

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> We decide the end of the story even when we didn’t choose Chapter 1 Albert Chavez, Jen Oliver 01:05:28 I can’t get over this deep convo with Albert Chavez and the commonalities we share, despite vastly different backgrounds. A boy raised around violence, addiction, and fear teaches this “educated” white girl about excellence. I can’t get over this deep convo with Albert Chavez and the commonalities we share, despite vastly different backgrounds. A boy raised around violence, addiction, and fear teaches this “educated” white girl about excellence. #femalepodcast, #realjenoliver, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #interviews, #realconversations false full 47 47d7a97e-3b16-4860-b505-d9412db4b299 It’s not grandiose or sexy - but it sure is effective! I’m the kind of person who dreams and plans in grand fashion. For years, I operated under a notion that big ideas require even bigger action plans - and that small actions are insignificant and a waste of time. And predictably, my workload became unsustainable and I would stall in overwhelm. Here's a newsflash if you resonate with me  - starting simply is not only incredibly effective - it is a reliable entry point to getting what we want and need.

In this episode I speak with Kathleen Klug, coach and author of Start With ONE. We talk about mindset shifts and beginning simply -  building upon small wins to accomplish major endeavors. 

Guest Bio:

Kathleen Klug has been working as a Fitness, Health & Wellness Professional for more than 40 years in the roles of Fitness Professional (Group Ex; Personal Trainer; CEU Instructor),  an Institute of Integrated Nutrition Holistic Health Coach, a Health Educator, and the author of START With ONE: A Simple Approach to Upgrade your Health: Body, Mind, & Spirit, and hold a degree in Addition Studies.

Website: https://kathleenklug.com/

Amazon: Start With One

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/kathleenklughealth/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KKHealthCoaching/

Resources mentioned on this episode:

Atomic Habits by James Clear

The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz

 

About Jen Oliver:

I believe in conversation, connection, and community. I create platforms where we can share stories and information. I LOVE to hold space for people who want to elevate and amplify their truest voice. If you want to explore the ways you can work with me, let's connect!

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

Instagram: @realjenoliver

TikTok: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

LinkedIn: @realjenoliver

Join us in person for the REAL Conversations Speaker Series - here’s details and tickets! 

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Tue, 14 Nov 2023 06:14:23 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Kathleen Klug, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com I’m the kind of person who dreams and plans in grand fashion. For years, I operated under a notion that big ideas require even bigger action plans - and that small actions are insignificant and a waste of time. And predictably, my workload became unsustainable and I would stall in overwhelm. Here's a newsflash if you resonate with me  - starting simply is not only incredibly effective - it is a reliable entry point to getting what we want and need.

In this episode I speak with Kathleen Klug, coach and author of Start With ONE. We talk about mindset shifts and beginning simply -  building upon small wins to accomplish major endeavors. 

Guest Bio:

Kathleen Klug has been working as a Fitness, Health & Wellness Professional for more than 40 years in the roles of Fitness Professional (Group Ex; Personal Trainer; CEU Instructor),  an Institute of Integrated Nutrition Holistic Health Coach, a Health Educator, and the author of START With ONE: A Simple Approach to Upgrade your Health: Body, Mind, & Spirit, and hold a degree in Addition Studies.

Website: https://kathleenklug.com/

Amazon: Start With One

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/kathleenklughealth/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KKHealthCoaching/

Resources mentioned on this episode:

Atomic Habits by James Clear

The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom by Don Miguel Ruiz

 

About Jen Oliver:

I believe in conversation, connection, and community. I create platforms where we can share stories and information. I LOVE to hold space for people who want to elevate and amplify their truest voice. If you want to explore the ways you can work with me, let's connect!

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

Instagram: @realjenoliver

TikTok: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

LinkedIn: @realjenoliver

Join us in person for the REAL Conversations Speaker Series - here’s details and tickets! 

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> It’s not grandiose or sexy - but it sure is effective! Kathleen Klug, Jen Oliver 01:01:46 Join me and guest Kathleen Klug, author of "Start With ONE," as we explore the power of small actions in achieving big dreams. Discover why starting simply can be your best strategy! Join me and guest Kathleen Klug, author of "Start With ONE," as we explore the power of small actions in achieving big dreams. Discover why starting simply can be your best strategy! #femalepodcast, #realjenoliver, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #interviews, #realconversations false full 46 469cf531-3df0-4b4a-b51a-b5eaa6eba1a7 Reframing ADHD and it’s about time! Michelle Raz has a statement on the back of her business card that says, “ADHD is a gift…what’s yours?” Not gonna lie, I am not sure many kids and adults with ADHD would agree with her statement; for many it is excruciating terrain to navigate. There are answers!

Guest Bio:

Michelle Raz is an accomplished entrepreneur, author, and highly sought-after coach, specializing in ADHD and executive functioning skills that equates to academic and professional success. As the Co-Founder, Chief Executive Coach and Chief Business Officer of Thrivister, an innovative educational related mental health service company, she and her partner are pioneering an online academic coaching platform specifically designed to empower neurodivergent high school and college students. This is a culmination of her experience in the ADHD coaching industry which began in 2010. She serves on the Board of Directors for a non-profit promoting ADHD support for financially challenged students, Anthony’s Road To Kindness.  

She is also the founder of Raz Coaching,  a distinguished ADHD adult coaching service where she expertly navigates corporations to identify individuals who may struggle with executive functioning challenges and provide strategies to help harness their strengths, increasing employee retention and productivity that highlights individual potential and growth.

Beyond her entrepreneurial ventures, Michelle is a recognized thought leader in her field, cementing her authority through her book "Happiness+Passion+Purpose: A Step-by-Step Guide on How to Nourish the Patterns of Your Life Into the Job You Will Love and Land It!". Her insights and strategies have not only touched the lives of her readers but also inspired a wider audience through her features on prominent platforms like Attention Magazine and The Medium.

As a passionate advocate for neurodivergent individuals, Michelle Raz frequently shares her wisdom as a guest on popular podcasts and through her insightful blog posts. Her dedication to unlocking potential and fostering a culture of inclusivity reflects in every aspect of her work.

Michelle's overarching mission is to uncover the extraordinary gem inherent in each individual she encounters, intending to ignite a ripple effect of transformation and empowerment for all.

Website: http://www.thrivister.com

podcast website: https://tunein.com/podcasts/Podcasts/The-ADHD-Strategist-with-Michelle-Raz-p1251195/?topicId=161326949

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thrivister_coaching/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thrivister_coaching

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachmichelleraz

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Thrivister/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thrivister_coaching

Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Happiness-Passion-Purpose-Nourish-Patterns/dp/1795530170

Resources mentioned on this episode:

Fusion Academy

DEI+B Diversity, Equity, Inclusion + Belonging

The UnSchool of Disruptive Design

About Jen Oliver:

I believe in conversation, connection, and community. I create platforms where we can share stories and information. I LOVE to hold space for people who want to elevate and amplify their truest voice. If you want to explore the ways you can work with me, let's connect!

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

Instagram: @realjenoliver

TikTok: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

Join us in person for the REAL Conversations Speaker Series - here’s details and tickets! 

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Tue, 7 Nov 2023 13:00:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Michelle Raz, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com Michelle Raz has a statement on the back of her business card that says, “ADHD is a gift…what’s yours?” Not gonna lie, I am not sure many kids and adults with ADHD would agree with her statement; for many it is excruciating terrain to navigate. There are answers!

Guest Bio:

Michelle Raz is an accomplished entrepreneur, author, and highly sought-after coach, specializing in ADHD and executive functioning skills that equates to academic and professional success. As the Co-Founder, Chief Executive Coach and Chief Business Officer of Thrivister, an innovative educational related mental health service company, she and her partner are pioneering an online academic coaching platform specifically designed to empower neurodivergent high school and college students. This is a culmination of her experience in the ADHD coaching industry which began in 2010. She serves on the Board of Directors for a non-profit promoting ADHD support for financially challenged students, Anthony’s Road To Kindness.  

She is also the founder of Raz Coaching,  a distinguished ADHD adult coaching service where she expertly navigates corporations to identify individuals who may struggle with executive functioning challenges and provide strategies to help harness their strengths, increasing employee retention and productivity that highlights individual potential and growth.

Beyond her entrepreneurial ventures, Michelle is a recognized thought leader in her field, cementing her authority through her book "Happiness+Passion+Purpose: A Step-by-Step Guide on How to Nourish the Patterns of Your Life Into the Job You Will Love and Land It!". Her insights and strategies have not only touched the lives of her readers but also inspired a wider audience through her features on prominent platforms like Attention Magazine and The Medium.

As a passionate advocate for neurodivergent individuals, Michelle Raz frequently shares her wisdom as a guest on popular podcasts and through her insightful blog posts. Her dedication to unlocking potential and fostering a culture of inclusivity reflects in every aspect of her work.

Michelle's overarching mission is to uncover the extraordinary gem inherent in each individual she encounters, intending to ignite a ripple effect of transformation and empowerment for all.

Website: http://www.thrivister.com

podcast website: https://tunein.com/podcasts/Podcasts/The-ADHD-Strategist-with-Michelle-Raz-p1251195/?topicId=161326949

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thrivister_coaching/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@thrivister_coaching

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/coachmichelleraz

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Thrivister/

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thrivister_coaching

Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/Happiness-Passion-Purpose-Nourish-Patterns/dp/1795530170

Resources mentioned on this episode:

Fusion Academy

DEI+B Diversity, Equity, Inclusion + Belonging

The UnSchool of Disruptive Design

About Jen Oliver:

I believe in conversation, connection, and community. I create platforms where we can share stories and information. I LOVE to hold space for people who want to elevate and amplify their truest voice. If you want to explore the ways you can work with me, let's connect!

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

Instagram: @realjenoliver

TikTok: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

Join us in person for the REAL Conversations Speaker Series - here’s details and tickets! 

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Reframing ADHD and it’s about time! Michelle Raz, Jen Oliver 01:04:19 In this episode, I'm joined by Michelle Raz, co-founder of Thrivister and an advocate for recognizing ADHD as a gift. We explore the challenges and triumphs of parenting children with ADHD, sharing personal experiences and professional insights. Michelle's expertise in coaching those with executive function challenges offers valuable perspectives. In this episode, I'm joined by Michelle Raz, co-founder of Thrivister and an advocate for recognizing ADHD as a gift. We explore the challenges and triumphs of parenting children with ADHD, sharing personal experiences and professional insights. Michelle's expertise in coaching those with executive function challenges offers valuable perspectives. #femalepodcast, #realjenoliver, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #interviews, #realconversations false full 45 bc7f0e70-426a-421b-8e32-aca9139a1ac5 Domestic abuse, family court and a behind the scenes perspective (part 2) We have another kind of “me too” movement on our hands. This conversation with Eunice Brownlee blew my mind as she shared her personal experience with domestic abuse and the inequities often found in the family court system. It is enough to experience abuse at the hands of another; but to endure additional pain inflicted by the very system meant to arbitrate justice and provide protection? Disheartening.

BUT conversations like this one change things! Eunice explains the often missed distinctions between domestic violence and domestic abuse - and that information holds the power to liberate many more of us.

I gained an expanded perspective that allows me to contribute to meaningful solutions instead of looking away and simply assuming “it’s all ok” (that’s code for hoping I never have to deal with it myself). This convo is an opportunity to witness another person’s story - thus, delivering more hopeful perspective that invites change instead of preserving the status quo.

*A loving warning about our content, this episode references acts of domestic violence and homicide within families. Please take care in listening.

Guest Bio:

Eunice Brownlee has spent her life telling stories across many mediums. As a multi-passionate creative, she’s used photography, marketing, writing, and public speaking to connect her message to the world. Because the heart of building community begins with sharing stories, Eunice uses her stories to connect, heal, and inspire change. Eunice spends time teaching others the craft of story in her speaking and writing practice. She has coached speakers in telling their stories with WomanSpeak and TEDxFolsom. Eunice’s writing has been published in Jennifer Magazine, Motherscope, and Spoken Black Girl, to name a few. When she’s not doing any of the above, she can be found seeking her next passport stamp and drinking wine.

website: www.eunicebrownlee.com

Instagram: @eunicebrownlee

LinkedIn: @eunicebrownlee

Resources mentioned on this episode:

The Callisto Vault is a platform providing cutting-edge technology that protects and empowers survivors, while increasing the likelihood that repeated perpetrators will be detected and held accountable. 

Jess Michaels TEDxFolsom talk

Know My Name,  A memoir by Chanel Miller

Unbelievable -  a true crime drama based on real life stories found on Netflix

About Jen Oliver:

I believe in conversation, connection, and community. I create platforms where we can share stories and information. I LOVE to hold space for people who want to elevate and amplify their truest voice. If you want to explore the ways you can work with me, let's connect!

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn: @realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

TikTok: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

Join us in person for the REAL Conversations Speaker Series - here’s details and tickets! 

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 30 Oct 2023 12:00:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Eunice Brownlee, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com We have another kind of “me too” movement on our hands. This conversation with Eunice Brownlee blew my mind as she shared her personal experience with domestic abuse and the inequities often found in the family court system. It is enough to experience abuse at the hands of another; but to endure additional pain inflicted by the very system meant to arbitrate justice and provide protection? Disheartening.

BUT conversations like this one change things! Eunice explains the often missed distinctions between domestic violence and domestic abuse - and that information holds the power to liberate many more of us.

I gained an expanded perspective that allows me to contribute to meaningful solutions instead of looking away and simply assuming “it’s all ok” (that’s code for hoping I never have to deal with it myself). This convo is an opportunity to witness another person’s story - thus, delivering more hopeful perspective that invites change instead of preserving the status quo.

*A loving warning about our content, this episode references acts of domestic violence and homicide within families. Please take care in listening.

Guest Bio:

Eunice Brownlee has spent her life telling stories across many mediums. As a multi-passionate creative, she’s used photography, marketing, writing, and public speaking to connect her message to the world. Because the heart of building community begins with sharing stories, Eunice uses her stories to connect, heal, and inspire change. Eunice spends time teaching others the craft of story in her speaking and writing practice. She has coached speakers in telling their stories with WomanSpeak and TEDxFolsom. Eunice’s writing has been published in Jennifer Magazine, Motherscope, and Spoken Black Girl, to name a few. When she’s not doing any of the above, she can be found seeking her next passport stamp and drinking wine.

website: www.eunicebrownlee.com

Instagram: @eunicebrownlee

LinkedIn: @eunicebrownlee

Resources mentioned on this episode:

The Callisto Vault is a platform providing cutting-edge technology that protects and empowers survivors, while increasing the likelihood that repeated perpetrators will be detected and held accountable. 

Jess Michaels TEDxFolsom talk

Know My Name,  A memoir by Chanel Miller

Unbelievable -  a true crime drama based on real life stories found on Netflix

About Jen Oliver:

I believe in conversation, connection, and community. I create platforms where we can share stories and information. I LOVE to hold space for people who want to elevate and amplify their truest voice. If you want to explore the ways you can work with me, let's connect!

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn: @realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

TikTok: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

Join us in person for the REAL Conversations Speaker Series - here’s details and tickets! 

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Domestic abuse, family court and a behind the scenes perspective (part 2) Eunice Brownlee, Jen Oliver 00:59:14 Join me and Eunice Brownlee for a crucial discussion on domestic abuse and family court inequities. Eunice shares her personal experiences, offering insights into the complexities of abuse and the justice system. Note: The episode contains sensitive content on domestic violence. Viewer discretion advised. Join me and Eunice Brownlee for a crucial discussion on domestic abuse and family court inequities. Eunice shares her personal experiences, offering insights into the complexities of abuse and the justice system. Note: The episode contains sensitive content on domestic violence. Viewer discretion advised. #femalepodcast, #realjenoliver, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #interviews, #realconversations false full 44 317e661c-443d-4333-b087-51c312a46772 Domestic abuse, family court and a behind the scenes perspective (part 1) We have another kind of “me too” movement on our hands. This conversation with Eunice Brownlee blew my mind as she shared her personal experience with domestic abuse and the inequities often found in the family court system. It is enough to experience abuse at the hands of another; but to endure additional pain inflicted by the very system meant to arbitrate justice and provide protection? Disheartening.

Guest Bio:

Eunice Brownlee has spent her life telling stories across many mediums. As a multi-passionate creative, she’s used photography, marketing, writing, and public speaking to connect her message to the world. Because the heart of building community begins with sharing stories, Eunice uses her stories to connect, heal, and inspire change. Eunice spends time teaching others the craft of story in her speaking and writing practice. She has coached speakers in telling their stories with WomanSpeak and TEDxFolsom. Eunice’s writing has been published in Jennifer Magazine, Motherscope, and Spoken Black Girl, to name a few. When she’s not doing any of the above, she can be found seeking her next passport stamp and drinking wine.

website: www.eunicebrownlee.com

Instagram: @eunicebrownlee

LinkedIn: @eunicebrownlee

Resources mentioned on this episode:

The Callisto Vault is a platform providing cutting-edge technology that protects and empowers survivors, while increasing the likelihood that repeated perpetrators will be detected and held accountable. 

Jess Michaels TEDxFolsom talk

Know My Name,  A memoir by Chanel Miller

Unbelievable -  a true crime drama based on real life stories found on Netflix

About Jen Oliver:

I believe in conversation, connection, and community. I create platforms where we can share stories and information. I LOVE to hold space for people who want to elevate and amplify their truest voice. If you want to explore the ways you can work with me, let's connect!

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn: @realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

TikTok: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

Join us in person for the REAL Conversations Speaker Series - here’s details and tickets! 

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 23 Oct 2023 12:00:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Eunice Brownlee, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com We have another kind of “me too” movement on our hands. This conversation with Eunice Brownlee blew my mind as she shared her personal experience with domestic abuse and the inequities often found in the family court system. It is enough to experience abuse at the hands of another; but to endure additional pain inflicted by the very system meant to arbitrate justice and provide protection? Disheartening.

Guest Bio:

Eunice Brownlee has spent her life telling stories across many mediums. As a multi-passionate creative, she’s used photography, marketing, writing, and public speaking to connect her message to the world. Because the heart of building community begins with sharing stories, Eunice uses her stories to connect, heal, and inspire change. Eunice spends time teaching others the craft of story in her speaking and writing practice. She has coached speakers in telling their stories with WomanSpeak and TEDxFolsom. Eunice’s writing has been published in Jennifer Magazine, Motherscope, and Spoken Black Girl, to name a few. When she’s not doing any of the above, she can be found seeking her next passport stamp and drinking wine.

website: www.eunicebrownlee.com

Instagram: @eunicebrownlee

LinkedIn: @eunicebrownlee

Resources mentioned on this episode:

The Callisto Vault is a platform providing cutting-edge technology that protects and empowers survivors, while increasing the likelihood that repeated perpetrators will be detected and held accountable. 

Jess Michaels TEDxFolsom talk

Know My Name,  A memoir by Chanel Miller

Unbelievable -  a true crime drama based on real life stories found on Netflix

About Jen Oliver:

I believe in conversation, connection, and community. I create platforms where we can share stories and information. I LOVE to hold space for people who want to elevate and amplify their truest voice. If you want to explore the ways you can work with me, let's connect!

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn: @realjenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

TikTok: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

Join us in person for the REAL Conversations Speaker Series - here’s details and tickets! 

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Domestic abuse, family court and a behind the scenes perspective (part 1) Eunice Brownlee, Jen Oliver 00:47:43 Join me and Eunice Brownlee for a crucial discussion on domestic abuse and family court inequities. Eunice shares her personal experiences, offering insights into the complexities of abuse and the justice system. Note: The episode contains sensitive content on domestic violence. Viewer discretion advised. Join me and Eunice Brownlee for a crucial discussion on domestic abuse and family court inequities. Eunice shares her personal experiences, offering insights into the complexities of abuse and the justice system. Note: The episode contains sensitive content on domestic violence. Viewer discretion advised. #femalepodcast, #realjenoliver, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #interviews, #realconversations false full 43 ddcde3f4-6196-4877-adab-bb04b700f4dd Make something pretty out of this mess I decided to converse with one of my besties, Christina Fichera, to unpack the past year and some difficult stuff that we both are processing. We approach the conversation from varied perspectives given our lives are so different; Christina is in her 30’s and I am in my 50’s. I’ve been married twice and have adult kids and didn’t build a career until the last five years. Christina hasn’t married or had kids yet, and built a significant career over the past two decades.

We share a newfound understanding that beauty can coexist with pain and end up processing our recent challenges through that lens.

We also agree that normalizing discussions around struggle can be incredibly useful - but simultaneously wrestle with the belief that talking about this stuff might come too close to “airing our dirty laundry.”

The fear of sharing our emotions and exposing our personal journey with others is delicate. Like many, we wonder how we will be perceived when we divulge setbacks - will it affect our career or relationships?

Does our candor make us appear less competent despite being damn good at what we do?

Do our stories present an appearance of weakness or instability that can limit opportunities?

Have we learned discernment around when to share and with who?

Join the conversation.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

We refer to the following books; The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk, MD and Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert

We mention the We Can Do Hard Things podcast.

 

I reference a body of work and platform called  TBM in this episode - this resource has played a vital role in my personal healing journey; relieving a huge amount of mental load and unnecessary burdens. Here are links and a discount code for you too!  Enter this coupon code for 15% discount: JEN

 

 

Christina Fichera is one of my (Jen) BFFs and a person with an abundance of roles and titles. I am settling on these… 

Christina is REAL - a deep feeler and eternal learner. She loves to break things down and mine for the most essential aspects in everything. Christina is a speaker, salesperson, athlete, customer relationship manager, all-around-life-guru and curious soul.

This girl is also a podcast junkie in the best way. Christina listens to dozens of podcasts each week and is known to stick Post-it® notes all over the place (literally and on social media) as a means of documenting and sharing what she is learning.

Christina is a loyal friend and collaborator and one of my soul sisters with whom I have the best conversations! AND, she is the best pup mom ever to a very spoiled dog named Teddy. 

You can follow Christina on Instagram @ChristinaFichera_

 

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: www.REALJenOliver.com

Instagram @REALjenOliver

TikTok @realjenoliver

Facebook @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Wed, 6 Sep 2023 16:29:54 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Christina Fichera, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com I decided to converse with one of my besties, Christina Fichera, to unpack the past year and some difficult stuff that we both are processing. We approach the conversation from varied perspectives given our lives are so different; Christina is in her 30’s and I am in my 50’s. I’ve been married twice and have adult kids and didn’t build a career until the last five years. Christina hasn’t married or had kids yet, and built a significant career over the past two decades.

We share a newfound understanding that beauty can coexist with pain and end up processing our recent challenges through that lens.

We also agree that normalizing discussions around struggle can be incredibly useful - but simultaneously wrestle with the belief that talking about this stuff might come too close to “airing our dirty laundry.”

The fear of sharing our emotions and exposing our personal journey with others is delicate. Like many, we wonder how we will be perceived when we divulge setbacks - will it affect our career or relationships?

Does our candor make us appear less competent despite being damn good at what we do?

Do our stories present an appearance of weakness or instability that can limit opportunities?

Have we learned discernment around when to share and with who?

Join the conversation.

Resources mentioned in this episode:

We refer to the following books; The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van Der Kolk, MD and Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert

We mention the We Can Do Hard Things podcast.

 

I reference a body of work and platform called  TBM in this episode - this resource has played a vital role in my personal healing journey; relieving a huge amount of mental load and unnecessary burdens. Here are links and a discount code for you too!  Enter this coupon code for 15% discount: JEN

 

 

Christina Fichera is one of my (Jen) BFFs and a person with an abundance of roles and titles. I am settling on these… 

Christina is REAL - a deep feeler and eternal learner. She loves to break things down and mine for the most essential aspects in everything. Christina is a speaker, salesperson, athlete, customer relationship manager, all-around-life-guru and curious soul.

This girl is also a podcast junkie in the best way. Christina listens to dozens of podcasts each week and is known to stick Post-it® notes all over the place (literally and on social media) as a means of documenting and sharing what she is learning.

Christina is a loyal friend and collaborator and one of my soul sisters with whom I have the best conversations! AND, she is the best pup mom ever to a very spoiled dog named Teddy. 

You can follow Christina on Instagram @ChristinaFichera_

 

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: www.REALJenOliver.com

Instagram @REALjenOliver

TikTok @realjenoliver

Facebook @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Make something pretty out of this mess Christina Fichera, Jen Oliver 00:47:19 Join me and Christina Fichera as we reflect on life's challenges from our unique perspectives. We discuss how beauty intertwines with pain and the complexities of sharing personal struggles. The episode includes insights from key resources like "The Body Keeps the Score," "Big Magic," and the "We Can Do Hard Things" podcast. Join me and Christina Fichera as we reflect on life's challenges from our unique perspectives. We discuss how beauty intertwines with pain and the complexities of sharing personal struggles. The episode includes insights from key resources like "The Body Keeps the Score," "Big Magic," and the "We Can Do Hard Things" podcast. #femalepodcast, #realjenoliver, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #interviews, #realconversations false full 42 3a75ed01-f307-48b2-830c-030129dede4e Trailer Mon, 14 Aug 2023 21:12:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com Trailer Jen Oliver 00:01:28 false trailer c5cc1cf0-0375-48a3-8c0c-ef9a7886fb95 Rewriting the stories we tell and the ones we were told The stories we believe shape our lives; even the ones we discard influence us. But what about the stories we boldly decide to rewrite?

This past year, I decided that many of my personal narratives were not serving me — they were even harmful at points. Ronna Detrick and I uncover the root of some of our personal stories and how they've influenced us, whether they emerge from sacred spiritual texts, mythology, history, or stories passed down through family. Story is our collective language and it has greater influence on us than we might realize. Investigating long-held tales and revising them where appropriate can be powerful.

“…What if I saw myself as a woman who has lived a million lives…who has made [tough] decisions in her past and has had hard things happen?

And, what if I saw a woman who has endured and persevered - who is brilliant - who can step into a conversation and hold her own - who has plenty to say and sees herself worthy of that conversation…” Ronna Detrick

No matter who you are - imagine this way of being in the world. We are reexamining the stories we tell and have been told.

Guest Bio:

Ronna Detrick left the church and its dogma nearly twenty years ago but took the stories of women with her. Over the past two decades she has reimagined these sacred texts, peeled back centuries of patriarchal harm, and given the women within the voice, agency, and honor they have always deserved. 

Ronna combines her Master of Divinity degree with decades of coaching and spiritual direction, training and public speaking, corporate leadership and entrepreneurship. She shocked and delighted her audience in her provocative TEDx presentation, where she turned the traditional biblical story of Eve on its head, challenged the embedded and assumed doctrine, and presented an Eve who inspires and empowers women instead of shaming and silencing them. 

After living most of her life in the Pacific Northwest, she is now just minutes from the Atlantic Ocean in Hampstead, NC, where she writes, drinks strong coffee, has beautiful conversations with her clients, and cannot be dissuaded from the belief that her two daughters are the most amazing humans on the planet.

Website: https://ronnadetrick.com
Instagram: @ronnadetrick
Facebook: @ronna.detrick
LinkedIn: @ronnadetrick
"subscribe"  https://ronnadetrick.substack.com
Amazon Books Rewriting Eve: Rescuing Women's Stories from the Bible and Reclaiming Them as Our Own

 

Jen Oliver holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jen@realjenoliver.com
podcast website: ListenForREAL.com
website: REALJenOliver.com
Instagram: @realjenoliver
TikTok: @realjenoliver
Facebook: @realjenoliver

Join us in person for the REAL Conversations Speaker Series - here’s details and tickets! 

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver. 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 14 Aug 2023 17:12:40 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Ronna Detrick, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com The stories we believe shape our lives; even the ones we discard influence us. But what about the stories we boldly decide to rewrite?

This past year, I decided that many of my personal narratives were not serving me — they were even harmful at points. Ronna Detrick and I uncover the root of some of our personal stories and how they've influenced us, whether they emerge from sacred spiritual texts, mythology, history, or stories passed down through family. Story is our collective language and it has greater influence on us than we might realize. Investigating long-held tales and revising them where appropriate can be powerful.

“…What if I saw myself as a woman who has lived a million lives…who has made [tough] decisions in her past and has had hard things happen?

And, what if I saw a woman who has endured and persevered - who is brilliant - who can step into a conversation and hold her own - who has plenty to say and sees herself worthy of that conversation…” Ronna Detrick

No matter who you are - imagine this way of being in the world. We are reexamining the stories we tell and have been told.

Guest Bio:

Ronna Detrick left the church and its dogma nearly twenty years ago but took the stories of women with her. Over the past two decades she has reimagined these sacred texts, peeled back centuries of patriarchal harm, and given the women within the voice, agency, and honor they have always deserved. 

Ronna combines her Master of Divinity degree with decades of coaching and spiritual direction, training and public speaking, corporate leadership and entrepreneurship. She shocked and delighted her audience in her provocative TEDx presentation, where she turned the traditional biblical story of Eve on its head, challenged the embedded and assumed doctrine, and presented an Eve who inspires and empowers women instead of shaming and silencing them. 

After living most of her life in the Pacific Northwest, she is now just minutes from the Atlantic Ocean in Hampstead, NC, where she writes, drinks strong coffee, has beautiful conversations with her clients, and cannot be dissuaded from the belief that her two daughters are the most amazing humans on the planet.

Website: https://ronnadetrick.com
Instagram: @ronnadetrick
Facebook: @ronna.detrick
LinkedIn: @ronnadetrick
"subscribe"  https://ronnadetrick.substack.com
Amazon Books Rewriting Eve: Rescuing Women's Stories from the Bible and Reclaiming Them as Our Own

 

Jen Oliver holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jen@realjenoliver.com
podcast website: ListenForREAL.com
website: REALJenOliver.com
Instagram: @realjenoliver
TikTok: @realjenoliver
Facebook: @realjenoliver

Join us in person for the REAL Conversations Speaker Series - here’s details and tickets! 

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver. 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Rewriting the stories we tell and the ones we were told Ronna Detrick, Jen Oliver 01:09:47 In this episode, I join forces with Ronna Detrick to explore the impact of our personal narratives. We delve into the origins of these stories, from spiritual texts to family tales, and discuss their profound influence on our lives. The focus is on the power of revising stories that no longer serve us, and how this can lead to a more empowered and insightful way of living. In this episode, I join forces with Ronna Detrick to explore the impact of our personal narratives. We delve into the origins of these stories, from spiritual texts to family tales, and discuss their profound influence on our lives. The focus is on the power of revising stories that no longer serve us, and how this can lead to a more empowered and insightful way of living. realconversationsspeakerseries, antidotetotheechochamber, #femalepodcast, #realjenoliver, #beingreal, #interviews, #realconversations false full 41 08b9f9ba-afec-4f35-a2c0-11e0a62e4ab1 I am back and a bit more REAL..Jen goes from crickets to full-disclosure Where has Jen been? A planned 8-week hiatus turned into a 6-month pause, by necessity...I have been processing a lot of personal stuff and the conversations are getting even more REAL. In this first episode back, I am unpacking one of the most difficult seasons of my life and getting more honest with myself and all of you. I invite dear friend and coach, Emily Nascimento, to join me in a discussion that hopefully encourages others who need permission, as I did, to:

a. take a break where necessary and get the care they need

b. normalize conversations about personal struggle and mental health

c. be true to themselves when making really difficult life decisions

Resources mentioned in this episode:

  • Emily references use of an app called InsightTimer
  • I reference a body of work and platform called  TBM in this episode - this resource has played a vital role in my personal healing journey; relieving a huge amount of mental load and unnecessary burdens. Here are links and a discount code for you too!  Enter this coupon code for 15% discount: JEN

https://login.tobemagnetic.com/a/2147524106/VKFvjsie
https://login.tobemagnetic.com/a/2147524155/VKFvjsie

Guest Bio: 

Emily Nascimento is a facilitator, ceremonialist, embodied leadership coach, philosopher, hiker and aspiring elder. 

Her vision for humanity is that we awaken to the magnificence of our cosmological story so that we can follow the evolutionary impulse to fully participate in the unfolding of creation before us. 

She leverages modalities rooted in depth psychology, nature-based rites of passage, ceremony and somatics to support people in discovering their authentic soul purpose and courageously committing to leading and living from this place.

Website:https://wildeyescoaching.square.site/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seeingwithwildeyes/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emilynascimento/

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jen@realjenoliver.com
podcast website: ListenForREAL.com
website: REALJenOliver.com
Instagram: @realjenoliver
TikTok: @realjenoliver
Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Thu, 8 Jun 2023 16:55:37 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Emily Nascimento, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com Where has Jen been? A planned 8-week hiatus turned into a 6-month pause, by necessity...I have been processing a lot of personal stuff and the conversations are getting even more REAL. In this first episode back, I am unpacking one of the most difficult seasons of my life and getting more honest with myself and all of you. I invite dear friend and coach, Emily Nascimento, to join me in a discussion that hopefully encourages others who need permission, as I did, to:

a. take a break where necessary and get the care they need

b. normalize conversations about personal struggle and mental health

c. be true to themselves when making really difficult life decisions

Resources mentioned in this episode:

  • Emily references use of an app called InsightTimer
  • I reference a body of work and platform called  TBM in this episode - this resource has played a vital role in my personal healing journey; relieving a huge amount of mental load and unnecessary burdens. Here are links and a discount code for you too!  Enter this coupon code for 15% discount: JEN

https://login.tobemagnetic.com/a/2147524106/VKFvjsie
https://login.tobemagnetic.com/a/2147524155/VKFvjsie

Guest Bio: 

Emily Nascimento is a facilitator, ceremonialist, embodied leadership coach, philosopher, hiker and aspiring elder. 

Her vision for humanity is that we awaken to the magnificence of our cosmological story so that we can follow the evolutionary impulse to fully participate in the unfolding of creation before us. 

She leverages modalities rooted in depth psychology, nature-based rites of passage, ceremony and somatics to support people in discovering their authentic soul purpose and courageously committing to leading and living from this place.

Website:https://wildeyescoaching.square.site/
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/seeingwithwildeyes/
LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emilynascimento/

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jen@realjenoliver.com
podcast website: ListenForREAL.com
website: REALJenOliver.com
Instagram: @realjenoliver
TikTok: @realjenoliver
Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> I am back and a bit more REAL..Jen goes from crickets to full-disclosure Emily Nascimento, Jen Oliver 00:53:27 After a six-month hiatus, I return to discuss a challenging personal period. Joined by coach Emily Nascimento, we aim to encourage openness about personal struggles and mental health, and the importance of self-care and authenticity in tough life choices. After a six-month hiatus, I return to discuss a challenging personal period. Joined by coach Emily Nascimento, we aim to encourage openness about personal struggles and mental health, and the importance of self-care and authenticity in tough life choices. #femalepodcast, #realjenoliver, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #interviews, #realconversations false full 40 7a8552f5-092a-4a8f-b181-4016ec308efc REAL sex education (part 2 with hubby) We wade into deeper waters with our grown up version of the sex talk we never got as kids. Allison’s husband joins us to bring his very REAL perspective. Check out the last episode if you missed it. Bottom line, like many, I am slowly dismantling old ways of being and the belief systems that do not serve me nor my relationships! My guest, Allison Carver, has gone before me - doing this work in her own world and now guiding others on a similar path. Our candid conversation only gets better with Ian in the mix - revealing his viewpoint on sex, relationship, and the stuff some of our partners may be thinking and feeling. 

Our Guest(s): Allison Carver is a certified Life, Mastery, and Sensuality Coach. With 15 years of coaching experience she now focuses on educating women of all ages about their personal sexuality. She operates from a mindset that says, “It's not about age it's about where you are on your self-discovery journey.”

Married for 23 years to her best friend and beloved - Allison assumed that the sex life they enjoyed was “good enough.” A number of years ago, she took a deep dive into her own physiology and sexuality, as well as her limiting beliefs, micro traumas, and stories. In that process, she discovered all that still held her back from receiving life’s pleasures fully. Allison’s life completely transformed and she extends the same to others through private coaching, workshops, and a custom online courses.

Allison acknowledges the many explanations for why we have been kept in the dark about our bodies and then challenges the status quo. She is passionate about lighting the path for others with her stories and experience. She delivers much needed support to her clients who value compassionate and non-judgmental guidance.

Ian Carver, is a 25+ year Law Enforcement professional, long time business owner, LE instructor and speaker. Despite spending the majority of his career in the Special Operations Division of a very large California sheriff' department, Ian has been married for 23 years and is father to two teen boys, as well as a lifelong athlete, strength and conditioning coach, and published author. Nearing retirement, Ian is passionate about sharing his knowledge to not only benefit the service and concern peace officers can bring to their communities and their own safety, but also to improve the personal lives of public safety professionals as they navigate through their careers and relationships in the hopes of making it to the final day of work mentally, physically, and spiritually intact.


 

Website: https://allisonjoywellness.com/

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/sexwithallisonjoy/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allisonjoyFBA

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHiQylkuk1tyrI6lgFTnWFg


 

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

Instagram: @realjenoliver

TikTok: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Thu, 15 Dec 2022 21:17:29 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Allison Carver, Jen Oliver, Ian Carver) https://listenforreal.com We wade into deeper waters with our grown up version of the sex talk we never got as kids. Allison’s husband joins us to bring his very REAL perspective. Check out the last episode if you missed it. Bottom line, like many, I am slowly dismantling old ways of being and the belief systems that do not serve me nor my relationships! My guest, Allison Carver, has gone before me - doing this work in her own world and now guiding others on a similar path. Our candid conversation only gets better with Ian in the mix - revealing his viewpoint on sex, relationship, and the stuff some of our partners may be thinking and feeling. 

Our Guest(s): Allison Carver is a certified Life, Mastery, and Sensuality Coach. With 15 years of coaching experience she now focuses on educating women of all ages about their personal sexuality. She operates from a mindset that says, “It's not about age it's about where you are on your self-discovery journey.”

Married for 23 years to her best friend and beloved - Allison assumed that the sex life they enjoyed was “good enough.” A number of years ago, she took a deep dive into her own physiology and sexuality, as well as her limiting beliefs, micro traumas, and stories. In that process, she discovered all that still held her back from receiving life’s pleasures fully. Allison’s life completely transformed and she extends the same to others through private coaching, workshops, and a custom online courses.

Allison acknowledges the many explanations for why we have been kept in the dark about our bodies and then challenges the status quo. She is passionate about lighting the path for others with her stories and experience. She delivers much needed support to her clients who value compassionate and non-judgmental guidance.

Ian Carver, is a 25+ year Law Enforcement professional, long time business owner, LE instructor and speaker. Despite spending the majority of his career in the Special Operations Division of a very large California sheriff' department, Ian has been married for 23 years and is father to two teen boys, as well as a lifelong athlete, strength and conditioning coach, and published author. Nearing retirement, Ian is passionate about sharing his knowledge to not only benefit the service and concern peace officers can bring to their communities and their own safety, but also to improve the personal lives of public safety professionals as they navigate through their careers and relationships in the hopes of making it to the final day of work mentally, physically, and spiritually intact.


 

Website: https://allisonjoywellness.com/

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/sexwithallisonjoy/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allisonjoyFBA

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHiQylkuk1tyrI6lgFTnWFg


 

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: REALJenOliver.com

Instagram: @realjenoliver

TikTok: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> REAL sex education (part 2 with hubby) Allison Carver, Jen Oliver, Ian Carver 01:13:32 In this episode, we dive into an adult version of the sex talk, featuring Allison Carver and her husband Ian. We explore dismantling outdated beliefs about sex and relationships, with Ian providing a candid male perspective. In this episode, we dive into an adult version of the sex talk, featuring Allison Carver and her husband Ian. We explore dismantling outdated beliefs about sex and relationships, with Ian providing a candid male perspective. #femalepodcast, #realjenoliver, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #interviews, #realconversations false full 39 b4468afb-fe07-446c-b2cf-965f92449b39 REAL sex education (part 1) Yep, we are going there. A real conversation about sex without common misconceptions and shame.  I have been pretty disconnected from my body much of my life and am slowly dismantling old ways of being and the belief systems that do not serve me. My guest, Allison Carver, has gone before me - doing this work in her own life and now guiding others on a similar path. We blow up culturally approved narratives and discuss taboos that only keep us confused and unfulfilled. The bottom line, many of us have been kept in the dark with regard to our bodies and the power of the feminine operating at its fullest and most engaged. 

Our Guest: Allison Carver is a certified Life, Mastery, and Sensuality Coach. With 15 years of coaching experience she now focuses on educating women of all ages about their personal sexuality. She operates from a mindset that says, “It's not about age it's about where you are on your self-discovery journey.”

Married for 23 years to her best friend and beloved - Allison assumed that the sex life they enjoyed was “good enough.” A number of years ago, she took a deep dive into her own physiology and sexuality, as well as her limiting beliefs, micro traumas, and stories. In that process, she discovered all that still held her back from receiving life’s pleasures fully. Allison’s life completely transformed and she extends the same to others through private coaching, workshops, and a custom online courses.

Allison acknowledges the many explanations for why we have been kept in the dark about our bodies and then challenges the status quo. She is passionate about lighting the path for others with her stories and experience. She delivers much needed support to her clients who value compassionate and non-judgmental guidance.

"Take my hand, and I will guide you to the light of pleasure."

Website: https://allisonjoywellness.com/

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/sexwithallisonjoy/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allisonjoyFBA

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHiQylkuk1tyrI6lgFTnWFg

 

Great resources and people referenced on this episode:

Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Pussy: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer

 

Your host: Jen Oliver holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

podcast website:ListenForREAL.com

website: realjenoliver.com

Instagram@realjenoliver

TikTok@realjenoliver

Facebook@realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver atREALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Mon, 28 Nov 2022 16:30:10 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Allison Carver, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com Yep, we are going there. A real conversation about sex without common misconceptions and shame.  I have been pretty disconnected from my body much of my life and am slowly dismantling old ways of being and the belief systems that do not serve me. My guest, Allison Carver, has gone before me - doing this work in her own life and now guiding others on a similar path. We blow up culturally approved narratives and discuss taboos that only keep us confused and unfulfilled. The bottom line, many of us have been kept in the dark with regard to our bodies and the power of the feminine operating at its fullest and most engaged. 

Our Guest: Allison Carver is a certified Life, Mastery, and Sensuality Coach. With 15 years of coaching experience she now focuses on educating women of all ages about their personal sexuality. She operates from a mindset that says, “It's not about age it's about where you are on your self-discovery journey.”

Married for 23 years to her best friend and beloved - Allison assumed that the sex life they enjoyed was “good enough.” A number of years ago, she took a deep dive into her own physiology and sexuality, as well as her limiting beliefs, micro traumas, and stories. In that process, she discovered all that still held her back from receiving life’s pleasures fully. Allison’s life completely transformed and she extends the same to others through private coaching, workshops, and a custom online courses.

Allison acknowledges the many explanations for why we have been kept in the dark about our bodies and then challenges the status quo. She is passionate about lighting the path for others with her stories and experience. She delivers much needed support to her clients who value compassionate and non-judgmental guidance.

"Take my hand, and I will guide you to the light of pleasure."

Website: https://allisonjoywellness.com/

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/sexwithallisonjoy/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/allisonjoyFBA

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHiQylkuk1tyrI6lgFTnWFg

 

Great resources and people referenced on this episode:

Come As You Are: The Surprising New Science that Will Transform Your Sex Life by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

Pussy: A Reclamation by Regena Thomashauer

 

Your host: Jen Oliver holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

podcast website:ListenForREAL.com

website: realjenoliver.com

Instagram@realjenoliver

TikTok@realjenoliver

Facebook@realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver atREALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> REAL sex education (part 1) Allison Carver, Jen Oliver 01:08:29 This episode features a frank discussion with Allison Carver about misconceptions and shame surrounding sex. We focus on reconnecting with our bodies and challenging unhelpful cultural narratives about sexuality and feminine power. This episode features a frank discussion with Allison Carver about misconceptions and shame surrounding sex. We focus on reconnecting with our bodies and challenging unhelpful cultural narratives about sexuality and feminine power. #sexeducation, #femalepodcast, #realjenoliver, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #interviews, #realconversations false full 38 968cb60a-93ad-4ffb-bb26-ce67fa92d539 Psychedelic assisted healing - a legal game changer for many I have always been an explorer with regard to self-help, personal growth, therapy, recovery and the like. This year I began hearing of people’s experiences with plant medicines as a means of doing deeper work on the mental and physical pain that can significantly impact our lives. AND then I met Dr. Alya Ahmad and Dr. Tasnim Khan - two physicians (and sisters) with stunning resumes and extensive experience in medicine and patient care - who left conventional medicine and started their own practice providing Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy. Their team is alleviating their clients’ suffering from conditions such as PTSD, depression, anxiety, chronic pain and more. What I LOVE is the path that brought them to this space. These are two doctors who finally acknowledged that they, as healers, needed help too. In their words, “We can only be as good for our patients as we are for ourselves…” Yes, to that, count me in.

Ketamine is legal and many are familiar with it as an anesthetic. But when used in a supervised and intentional setting it also relaxes a patient to a place where the nervous system is disarmed, mental chatter can be quieted, and deeper therapeutic work can begin. We talk all things Ketamine as it relates to our personal healing journeys and my mind is forever shifted as to what is possible.

Our Guests:

Dr. Tasnim Khan is a Primary Care Physician and Harvard University trained health care executive with over 27 years of experience in the healthcare field. She has owned, operated, and profitably exited health care practices and an IPA in the US and in the Middle East.

As a healthcare executive, Dr Khan has held leadership roles in private and public organizations in the US and abroad in countries such as Qatar and the United Arab Emirates. She led key nationwide innovative initiatives such as building a social health insurance scheme in Qatar ahead of the FIFA world cup event, private equity greenfield and brownfield launches of multispecialty clinics and hospitals in Dubai and the UK. Dr Khan also has deep experience in the health insurance sector, with her experiences working for United Healthcare, Aetna International and a large independent physician association in the Bay Area. She has also been a key member of the non-profit health sector in Sacramento, providing healthcare access to the underserved, uninsured and refugee populations.

Yet, her deepest passion lies in helping people optimize their wellbeing and advocate for their health despite a very complicated and fragmented health care system.  She is constantly seeking ways to extend health span and focus on prevention rather than the sick model of care that is embedded in current treatment paradigms of our health care system. The opportunity to offer people a refreshed model of care also includes mental health. The modalities to address mental health are rapidly changing and replacing the dated therapeutics and approaches that are no longer serving peoples needs to heal from within. Dr Khan is excited to be able to learn, teach and offer these new treatment paradigms to people in need. IN 2021, she partnered with a colleague to open one of Sacramento’s first holistic mental health center, providing legal psychedelics with therapy and holistic wellness.

Dr. Alya Ahmad is a former Associate Professor of Pediatrics at UCSF, with experience in academic and private settings overseas and in Texas and California. She is fellowship trained in Integrative Medicine, psychedelic-assisted therapy, and Ketamine-assisted therapy. She is also training as a MAPS provider through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute.

Dr. Ahmad is also a mother, immigrant, and woman of color who remains a continuous learner and educator. Having witnessed the effects of trauma and social inequities, her journey as a healer focuses on treating the neediest of populations.

As clinical faculty at Baylor College of Medicine and UCSF, Dr. Ahmad teaches better ways to care for children and their families. She founded programs that emphasize “whole” person care and the narrative medicine process for children with special needs, Down syndrome, obesity and other patients requiring complex care consultation services.

Dr. Ahmad harnesses the methodology of Narrative Medicine learned during her training at Columbia University to teach and practice medicine through compassion-based inquiry as a means of addressing illness in light of the overall landscape of a patient’s life. She believes natural and holistic paths to healing are possible with integrative and psychedelic medicines and therapies. Her mantra for care is simple; healing the self and others must include empathy and the respectful fusion of self-wisdom, ancient and novel therapies. 

Website: https://shamynds.com/

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/shamynds.healing/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shamynds

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/shamynds-healing-center/

 

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

podcast website:ListenForREAL.com

website:www.REALJenOliver.com

Instagram@REALjenOliver

TikTok@realjenoliver

Facebook@realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Sun, 13 Nov 2022 01:38:08 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver, Dr Tasnim Khan, Dr. Alya Ahmad) https://listenforreal.com I have always been an explorer with regard to self-help, personal growth, therapy, recovery and the like. This year I began hearing of people’s experiences with plant medicines as a means of doing deeper work on the mental and physical pain that can significantly impact our lives. AND then I met Dr. Alya Ahmad and Dr. Tasnim Khan - two physicians (and sisters) with stunning resumes and extensive experience in medicine and patient care - who left conventional medicine and started their own practice providing Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy. Their team is alleviating their clients’ suffering from conditions such as PTSD, depression, anxiety, chronic pain and more. What I LOVE is the path that brought them to this space. These are two doctors who finally acknowledged that they, as healers, needed help too. In their words, “We can only be as good for our patients as we are for ourselves…” Yes, to that, count me in.

Ketamine is legal and many are familiar with it as an anesthetic. But when used in a supervised and intentional setting it also relaxes a patient to a place where the nervous system is disarmed, mental chatter can be quieted, and deeper therapeutic work can begin. We talk all things Ketamine as it relates to our personal healing journeys and my mind is forever shifted as to what is possible.

Our Guests:

Dr. Tasnim Khan is a Primary Care Physician and Harvard University trained health care executive with over 27 years of experience in the healthcare field. She has owned, operated, and profitably exited health care practices and an IPA in the US and in the Middle East.

As a healthcare executive, Dr Khan has held leadership roles in private and public organizations in the US and abroad in countries such as Qatar and the United Arab Emirates. She led key nationwide innovative initiatives such as building a social health insurance scheme in Qatar ahead of the FIFA world cup event, private equity greenfield and brownfield launches of multispecialty clinics and hospitals in Dubai and the UK. Dr Khan also has deep experience in the health insurance sector, with her experiences working for United Healthcare, Aetna International and a large independent physician association in the Bay Area. She has also been a key member of the non-profit health sector in Sacramento, providing healthcare access to the underserved, uninsured and refugee populations.

Yet, her deepest passion lies in helping people optimize their wellbeing and advocate for their health despite a very complicated and fragmented health care system.  She is constantly seeking ways to extend health span and focus on prevention rather than the sick model of care that is embedded in current treatment paradigms of our health care system. The opportunity to offer people a refreshed model of care also includes mental health. The modalities to address mental health are rapidly changing and replacing the dated therapeutics and approaches that are no longer serving peoples needs to heal from within. Dr Khan is excited to be able to learn, teach and offer these new treatment paradigms to people in need. IN 2021, she partnered with a colleague to open one of Sacramento’s first holistic mental health center, providing legal psychedelics with therapy and holistic wellness.

Dr. Alya Ahmad is a former Associate Professor of Pediatrics at UCSF, with experience in academic and private settings overseas and in Texas and California. She is fellowship trained in Integrative Medicine, psychedelic-assisted therapy, and Ketamine-assisted therapy. She is also training as a MAPS provider through the Integrative Psychiatry Institute.

Dr. Ahmad is also a mother, immigrant, and woman of color who remains a continuous learner and educator. Having witnessed the effects of trauma and social inequities, her journey as a healer focuses on treating the neediest of populations.

As clinical faculty at Baylor College of Medicine and UCSF, Dr. Ahmad teaches better ways to care for children and their families. She founded programs that emphasize “whole” person care and the narrative medicine process for children with special needs, Down syndrome, obesity and other patients requiring complex care consultation services.

Dr. Ahmad harnesses the methodology of Narrative Medicine learned during her training at Columbia University to teach and practice medicine through compassion-based inquiry as a means of addressing illness in light of the overall landscape of a patient’s life. She believes natural and holistic paths to healing are possible with integrative and psychedelic medicines and therapies. Her mantra for care is simple; healing the self and others must include empathy and the respectful fusion of self-wisdom, ancient and novel therapies. 

Website: https://shamynds.com/

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/shamynds.healing/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/shamynds

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/shamynds-healing-center/

 

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

podcast website:ListenForREAL.com

website:www.REALJenOliver.com

Instagram@REALjenOliver

TikTok@realjenoliver

Facebook@realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Psychedelic assisted healing - a legal game changer for many Jen Oliver, Dr Tasnim Khan, Dr. Alya Ahmad 01:10:55 This episode delves into the use of Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy with Dr. Alya Ahmad and Dr. Tasnim Khan. We discuss how this approach helps in treating PTSD, depression, anxiety, and chronic pain. The conversation highlights the transformative potential of ketamine in therapeutic settings for deep mental and physical healing. This episode delves into the use of Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy with Dr. Alya Ahmad and Dr. Tasnim Khan. We discuss how this approach helps in treating PTSD, depression, anxiety, and chronic pain. The conversation highlights the transformative potential of ketamine in therapeutic settings for deep mental and physical healing. #femalepodcast, #realjenoliver, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #interviews, #realconversations false full 37 54f3daba-c82b-4c5a-85cf-d14e2e7c45af Grey-area drinking and other honest admissions I appreciate this conversation with guest, Lisa May Bennett, about our shared history around grey-area drinking, sobriety, and the way in which addictive patterns can keep us stuck. We talk about our personal journeys with alcohol and how it can get in the way of closely-held dreams.  Full disclosure - Lisa has embraced sobriety and I have had short sprints with it.

We talk about the paradox of accepting a seemingly good life but forsaking ALL that is possible because we don’t want to give up that ONE thing. In Lisa’s case, giving up drinking altogether was essential to pursuing her goal of becoming a writer and published author. She did it! I

In my case, I’m still asking a lot of questions of myself…

Guest Bio:

Lisa May Bennett is a repeat late bloomer and the author of My Unfurling: Emerging from the Grip of Anxiety, Self-Doubt, and Drinking. She had a flourishing career in marketing and communications for more than two decades, including an eighteen-year stretch at the National Organization for Women. By publishing her first book in her 50s, she hopes to demonstrate that it's never too late to chase your dreams. Lisa is working on book number two about the process of self-publishing. She lives in Maryland and plans to cross the country in an RV with her husband one day.

Website: https://www.lisamaybennett.com/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisamaybennett

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisamaybennett/

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisamaybennett/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisamaybennett

Amazon: https://mybook.to/myunfurling

 

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: www.REALJenOliver.com

Instagram @REALjenOliver

TikTok @realjenoliver

Facebook @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Wed, 2 Nov 2022 22:57:31 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver, Lisa May Bennett) https://listenforreal.com I appreciate this conversation with guest, Lisa May Bennett, about our shared history around grey-area drinking, sobriety, and the way in which addictive patterns can keep us stuck. We talk about our personal journeys with alcohol and how it can get in the way of closely-held dreams.  Full disclosure - Lisa has embraced sobriety and I have had short sprints with it.

We talk about the paradox of accepting a seemingly good life but forsaking ALL that is possible because we don’t want to give up that ONE thing. In Lisa’s case, giving up drinking altogether was essential to pursuing her goal of becoming a writer and published author. She did it! I

In my case, I’m still asking a lot of questions of myself…

Guest Bio:

Lisa May Bennett is a repeat late bloomer and the author of My Unfurling: Emerging from the Grip of Anxiety, Self-Doubt, and Drinking. She had a flourishing career in marketing and communications for more than two decades, including an eighteen-year stretch at the National Organization for Women. By publishing her first book in her 50s, she hopes to demonstrate that it's never too late to chase your dreams. Lisa is working on book number two about the process of self-publishing. She lives in Maryland and plans to cross the country in an RV with her husband one day.

Website: https://www.lisamaybennett.com/

Twitter: https://twitter.com/lisamaybennett

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lisamaybennett/

Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lisamaybennett/

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@lisamaybennett

Amazon: https://mybook.to/myunfurling

 

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: www.REALJenOliver.com

Instagram @REALjenOliver

TikTok @realjenoliver

Facebook @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at REALJenOliver.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Grey-area drinking and other honest admissions Jen Oliver, Lisa May Bennett 00:53:41 In this episode, Lisa May Bennett and I discuss our experiences with grey-area drinking and sobriety. We explore how alcohol affects our ambitions and the tough choices involved in pursuing a fuller life, highlighting Lisa's journey to sobriety and becoming a published author. In this episode, Lisa May Bennett and I discuss our experiences with grey-area drinking and sobriety. We explore how alcohol affects our ambitions and the tough choices involved in pursuing a fuller life, highlighting Lisa's journey to sobriety and becoming a published author. #femalepodcast, #realjenoliver, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #interviews, #realconversations false full 36 b88f0d44-2d2b-4f4e-8780-c1671ce85546 Dazzling Codependents We begin the new season with a discussion on codependent behaviors. GOOD TIMES! Jen and Shannon speak candidly about their own need for approval and validation, past and present. Some of us find our worth based on how OTHERS feel and experience THEIR lives. Many more take responsibility for the world before they would ever consider their own needs. Yep, codependency shows up in many forms. 

Guest Bio:

Shannon Curtis is a recording artist who makes emotionally-resonant songs drawn from her experience as a grown-ass woman, wrapped up in irresistible artpop production. She's been working as an independent recording and touring artist since 2006, and will be releasing her 10th studio album in as many years in the fall of 2022. Shannon also co-hosts the Misfit Stars Podcast with her husband, music producer Jamie Hill. She lives in Tacoma, Washington.

Website: https://shannoncurtis.net

Twitter: https://twitter.com/shannoncurtis

Instagram: https://instagram.com/shannoncurtismusic

Facebook: https://facebook.com/shannoncurtismusic

YouTube : https://www.youtube.com/shannoncurtismusic

 

Shannon Curtis’ music can be found on Spotify or wherever you seek new music, PLUS you can preview her music at: https://shannoncurtis.bandcamp.com.

Jen and Shannon talk about Glennon Doyle’s podcast interview with Elizabeth Gilbert, a self-proclaimed codependent in recovery. #WeCanDoHardThings

Jen’s 2021 podcast episode with Shannon Curtis and her husband, music producer, Jamie Hill. 

 

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: www.REALJenOliver.com

Instagram @REALjenOliver

TikTok @realjenoliver

Facebook @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at REALJenOliver.

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Sun, 2 Oct 2022 20:12:04 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Shannon Curtis, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com We begin the new season with a discussion on codependent behaviors. GOOD TIMES! Jen and Shannon speak candidly about their own need for approval and validation, past and present. Some of us find our worth based on how OTHERS feel and experience THEIR lives. Many more take responsibility for the world before they would ever consider their own needs. Yep, codependency shows up in many forms. 

Guest Bio:

Shannon Curtis is a recording artist who makes emotionally-resonant songs drawn from her experience as a grown-ass woman, wrapped up in irresistible artpop production. She's been working as an independent recording and touring artist since 2006, and will be releasing her 10th studio album in as many years in the fall of 2022. Shannon also co-hosts the Misfit Stars Podcast with her husband, music producer Jamie Hill. She lives in Tacoma, Washington.

Website: https://shannoncurtis.net

Twitter: https://twitter.com/shannoncurtis

Instagram: https://instagram.com/shannoncurtismusic

Facebook: https://facebook.com/shannoncurtismusic

YouTube : https://www.youtube.com/shannoncurtismusic

 

Shannon Curtis’ music can be found on Spotify or wherever you seek new music, PLUS you can preview her music at: https://shannoncurtis.bandcamp.com.

Jen and Shannon talk about Glennon Doyle’s podcast interview with Elizabeth Gilbert, a self-proclaimed codependent in recovery. #WeCanDoHardThings

Jen’s 2021 podcast episode with Shannon Curtis and her husband, music producer, Jamie Hill. 

 

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

website: www.REALJenOliver.com

Instagram @REALjenOliver

TikTok @realjenoliver

Facebook @realjenoliver

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at REALJenOliver.

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Dazzling Codependents Shannon Curtis, Jen Oliver 00:57:59 The new season starts with Jen and Shannon discussing codependency, including their struggles with seeking approval and prioritizing others' needs over their own. The new season starts with Jen and Shannon discussing codependency, including their struggles with seeking approval and prioritizing others' needs over their own. #femalepodcast, #realjenoliver, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 34 440c1509-e0ab-4024-a0b2-c9af856207a5 Lessons from the SugarMama®  It isn’t every day that I lay on a treatment table with my nether regions exposed and a podcast is born. But…this is how I operate; we talk about the topics that many avoid. I loved recording this episode with my friend and SugarMama®, Shannon O’Brien. We discuss body image, getting your swagger back, and the weird things that many of us wonder about. We ponder the vulnerability phenomenon - that situation where you find yourself sharing the most intimate details of your life when doing a basic thing like getting your nails or hair done, or like me -  getting my bikini sugarwaxed. Something changes, the conversation gets REAL.

Our guest: SHANNON O'BRIEN AKA The SugarMama® is a certified Body Sugaring Professional, Founder of Love2Sugar.com and TheSugarNetwork.com, Host of The Sugar Show podcast, and overall badass boss babe.  She's a sassy and fun loving educator with 20 years of experience as a licensed esthetician and 12 years sugaring. After sugaring thousands of people from all walks of life, she has an interesting perspective on what people really feel after the door is closed and they jump up on her treatment table!

Connect with Shannon:

Website love2sugar.com

Instagram @love2sugar

Facebook @sugarmamashann

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

If you would like to find a place to get sugared in your area, check out our directory of certified Sugar Pros at  TheSugar Network.com

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

TikTok @beingrealjen

Facebook @beingREALcommunity

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at beingREAL.

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Sat, 30 Jul 2022 21:32:16 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Shannon O'Brien, Jen Oliver) https://listenforreal.com  It isn’t every day that I lay on a treatment table with my nether regions exposed and a podcast is born. But…this is how I operate; we talk about the topics that many avoid. I loved recording this episode with my friend and SugarMama®, Shannon O’Brien. We discuss body image, getting your swagger back, and the weird things that many of us wonder about. We ponder the vulnerability phenomenon - that situation where you find yourself sharing the most intimate details of your life when doing a basic thing like getting your nails or hair done, or like me -  getting my bikini sugarwaxed. Something changes, the conversation gets REAL.

Our guest: SHANNON O'BRIEN AKA The SugarMama® is a certified Body Sugaring Professional, Founder of Love2Sugar.com and TheSugarNetwork.com, Host of The Sugar Show podcast, and overall badass boss babe.  She's a sassy and fun loving educator with 20 years of experience as a licensed esthetician and 12 years sugaring. After sugaring thousands of people from all walks of life, she has an interesting perspective on what people really feel after the door is closed and they jump up on her treatment table!

Connect with Shannon:

Website love2sugar.com

Instagram @love2sugar

Facebook @sugarmamashann

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

If you would like to find a place to get sugared in your area, check out our directory of certified Sugar Pros at  TheSugar Network.com

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

TikTok @beingrealjen

Facebook @beingREALcommunity

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at beingREAL.

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Lessons from the SugarMama® Shannon O'Brien, Jen Oliver 00:49:50 In this episode with Shannon O’Brien, we discuss body image and personal confidence, inspired by candid conversations during intimate beauty treatments like bikini sugar waxing. In this episode with Shannon O’Brien, we discuss body image and personal confidence, inspired by candid conversations during intimate beauty treatments like bikini sugar waxing. #femalepodcast, #sugarwax, #bodysugaring, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #sugaring, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 33 a2d0e11a-f32f-4c2e-bff9-cd6b19d67a98 If crystals have magic, then we ARE magic While on retreat in Costa Rica, I met and immediately admired her vibrant soul. In this episode, I host Becca Kannapell, co-founder of POUND for an eye opening talk about magic, crystals, the universe, and the Divine - and how all of those offer beautiful metaphors and maps for being human. We discuss relationships, connecting to what we believe, and unearthing a voice that feels “more like me.”

Our guest: BECCA KANNAPELL is the co-creator of a female-family-run jewelry business called POUND Jewelry. POUND intuitively sources and designs handmade adornment pieces that are composed of healing crystals, stones, and rocks emitted from the Earth to be loved and used as tools for our transformational journeys in this life. Every single piece of wearable art that POUND puts into the world is created from our deep love of nature and the magic that lives inside the mineral multi-verse. 

Connect with Becca:

Website: poundjewelry.com  

Instagram @poundjewelry

Facebook @POUNDjewelry

Jen holds space for women who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

Facebook @beingREALcommunity

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at beingREAL.

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Tue, 12 Jul 2022 07:00:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Becca Kannapell, Jen Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com While on retreat in Costa Rica, I met and immediately admired her vibrant soul. In this episode, I host Becca Kannapell, co-founder of POUND for an eye opening talk about magic, crystals, the universe, and the Divine - and how all of those offer beautiful metaphors and maps for being human. We discuss relationships, connecting to what we believe, and unearthing a voice that feels “more like me.”

Our guest: BECCA KANNAPELL is the co-creator of a female-family-run jewelry business called POUND Jewelry. POUND intuitively sources and designs handmade adornment pieces that are composed of healing crystals, stones, and rocks emitted from the Earth to be loved and used as tools for our transformational journeys in this life. Every single piece of wearable art that POUND puts into the world is created from our deep love of nature and the magic that lives inside the mineral multi-verse. 

Connect with Becca:

Website: poundjewelry.com  

Instagram @poundjewelry

Facebook @POUNDjewelry

Jen holds space for women who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

Facebook @beingREALcommunity

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at beingREAL.

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> If crystals have magic, then we ARE magic Becca Kannapell, Jen Oliver Brown 01:04:22 This episode features Becca Kannapell, co-founder of POUND, discussing the intersection of spirituality, relationships, and self-discovery. This episode features Becca Kannapell, co-founder of POUND, discussing the intersection of spirituality, relationships, and self-discovery. #poundjewelry, #stones, #crystals, #mysticaljewelry, #femalepodcast, #pendulums, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #femalefamilybusiness, #healingjewelry, #pendulumnecklaces, #gems, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 32 3cd30c04-9e23-42eb-b28e-61b96f3d45c7 How a volatile past can lead to a successful future We often think we are successfully separating that which is personal (and in the past) - from that which is professional (and current). In this conversation, I talk with Deborah Brown-Volkman about her volatile upbringing and how

falling down and getting back up led to a journey of healing and growth - changing the trajectory of her career from problematic to exceptional. She took survival skills formed in childhood and made them assets in the workplace - there is power in the ability to read a room, being a deep listener, and seeing things that others don’t.

We also discuss the WomanSpeak™ program and the power of our voice in business and life. It isn’t enough to “get a seat at the table” - women and marginalized individuals need to use our truest voice and deliver the wisdom that lives inside us at that table! Too often, we wait to be chosen or called upon to speak. It is game-changing to trust our own voice and be set free from imposter syndrome.

Our guest: DEBORAH BROWN-VOLKMAN is a Career Optician who helps clients see new possibility in their career. Deborah believes that when you see your career differently, you are able to do things differently. As an author of several best-selling books, she taps into 20+ years of solid career coaching experience empowering 1,000’s of clients to find new jobs, new careers, and new ways of dealing with workplace challenges. Deborah has worked with clients in companies, including: Facebook, Google, Citibank, Bank of Singapore, Nautica, Verizon, and many others. She is a mix of data and intuition; both spiritual and practical. She dishes out tough love, while also creating a safe space for clients to talk, be understood, and be themselves. 

Connect with Deborah:

Website: surpassyourdreams.com  

LinkedIn: @ Deborah Brown-Volkman  

Instagram @CareerOptician 

Tiktok @CareerOptician  

 

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

WomanSpeak™ - The Art and Soul of Public Speaking

 

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

TikTok @beingrealjen

Facebook @/beingREALcommunity

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at beingREAL.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Sat, 9 Jul 2022 01:52:27 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Deborah Brown-Volkman, Jen Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com We often think we are successfully separating that which is personal (and in the past) - from that which is professional (and current). In this conversation, I talk with Deborah Brown-Volkman about her volatile upbringing and how

falling down and getting back up led to a journey of healing and growth - changing the trajectory of her career from problematic to exceptional. She took survival skills formed in childhood and made them assets in the workplace - there is power in the ability to read a room, being a deep listener, and seeing things that others don’t.

We also discuss the WomanSpeak™ program and the power of our voice in business and life. It isn’t enough to “get a seat at the table” - women and marginalized individuals need to use our truest voice and deliver the wisdom that lives inside us at that table! Too often, we wait to be chosen or called upon to speak. It is game-changing to trust our own voice and be set free from imposter syndrome.

Our guest: DEBORAH BROWN-VOLKMAN is a Career Optician who helps clients see new possibility in their career. Deborah believes that when you see your career differently, you are able to do things differently. As an author of several best-selling books, she taps into 20+ years of solid career coaching experience empowering 1,000’s of clients to find new jobs, new careers, and new ways of dealing with workplace challenges. Deborah has worked with clients in companies, including: Facebook, Google, Citibank, Bank of Singapore, Nautica, Verizon, and many others. She is a mix of data and intuition; both spiritual and practical. She dishes out tough love, while also creating a safe space for clients to talk, be understood, and be themselves. 

Connect with Deborah:

Website: surpassyourdreams.com  

LinkedIn: @ Deborah Brown-Volkman  

Instagram @CareerOptician 

Tiktok @CareerOptician  

 

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

WomanSpeak™ - The Art and Soul of Public Speaking

 

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

TikTok @beingrealjen

Facebook @/beingREALcommunity

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at beingREAL.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> How a volatile past can lead to a successful future Deborah Brown-Volkman, Jen Oliver Brown 00:54:21 I discuss with Deborah Brown-Volkman her transformation from a challenging childhood to a successful career, using her survival skills as professional strengths. We also delve into the WomanSpeak™ program, emphasizing the importance of authentic voice and overcoming imposter syndrome in business and life. I discuss with Deborah Brown-Volkman her transformation from a challenging childhood to a successful career, using her survival skills as professional strengths. We also delve into the WomanSpeak™ program, emphasizing the importance of authentic voice and overcoming imposter syndrome in business and life. #femalepodcast, #career, #motivation, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #careergoals, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations, #success false full 31 2b4aa6b7-b8aa-4e81-9134-6f0451ef5114 Burlesque as a form of therapy - not sexually charged entertainment. What if removing your clothing became an embodied means of shedding negative baggage and revealing more of your soul and essence? A burlesque solo is not merely a seductive dance performed for the gratification of the male gaze. Guest Kellita Maloof says, “In conscious burlesque an artist leaves the stage with her radiant essence more visible to herself and those lucky enough to witness her…” Jen and Kellita talk about consent, healing, trauma, and the artistry around all of it.

Our guest: KELLITA MALOOF is a Performing and Teaching Artist and Soulful Conscious Burlesque Mentor.  She works at the intersection where burlesque dance meets depth psychology meets attachment theory meets individuation meets autoimmune recovery meets spirituality.  For over 20 years, Kellita’s been helping kind, soulful, highly sensitive helpers who’ve been over-editing, over-managing and over-giving – and are attracted to dance theater and expressive arts performance – to trust and express themselves with confidence, presence and radiance. She integrates into her work Systemic Constellations, EFT, Transformational NLP and Interpersonal Neurobiology. Kellita’s mission is to support folks in dusting off the fountain of Self-Love that was hiding right in the center of their very own shimmy.

Connect with Kellita:

Website: showgirlawakening.com 

Instagram @kellitatheshowgirlshaman  

Linkedin  @Kellita Maloof

 

People, places, or things mentioned on this episode:

From The Inside Out short documentary: https://vimeo.com/659773799

What is your showgirl archetype? Take the quiz: https://showgirlawakening.com/quiz/

Order Kellita’s book, How To Create A Burlesque Solo...From The Inside Out  burlesquesolo.com

Jo Weldon

SarahPeyton.com

 

Jen holds space for women who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

TikTok @beingrealjen

Facebook @beingREALcommunity  

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at beingREAL.
 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

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]]> Sun, 26 Jun 2022 16:28:59 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jen Oliver, Kellita Maloof) https://listenforreal.com What if removing your clothing became an embodied means of shedding negative baggage and revealing more of your soul and essence? A burlesque solo is not merely a seductive dance performed for the gratification of the male gaze. Guest Kellita Maloof says, “In conscious burlesque an artist leaves the stage with her radiant essence more visible to herself and those lucky enough to witness her…” Jen and Kellita talk about consent, healing, trauma, and the artistry around all of it.

Our guest: KELLITA MALOOF is a Performing and Teaching Artist and Soulful Conscious Burlesque Mentor.  She works at the intersection where burlesque dance meets depth psychology meets attachment theory meets individuation meets autoimmune recovery meets spirituality.  For over 20 years, Kellita’s been helping kind, soulful, highly sensitive helpers who’ve been over-editing, over-managing and over-giving – and are attracted to dance theater and expressive arts performance – to trust and express themselves with confidence, presence and radiance. She integrates into her work Systemic Constellations, EFT, Transformational NLP and Interpersonal Neurobiology. Kellita’s mission is to support folks in dusting off the fountain of Self-Love that was hiding right in the center of their very own shimmy.

Connect with Kellita:

Website: showgirlawakening.com 

Instagram @kellitatheshowgirlshaman  

Linkedin  @Kellita Maloof

 

People, places, or things mentioned on this episode:

From The Inside Out short documentary: https://vimeo.com/659773799

What is your showgirl archetype? Take the quiz: https://showgirlawakening.com/quiz/

Order Kellita’s book, How To Create A Burlesque Solo...From The Inside Out  burlesquesolo.com

Jo Weldon

SarahPeyton.com

 

Jen holds space for women who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

TikTok @beingrealjen

Facebook @beingREALcommunity  

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About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Burlesque as a form of therapy - not sexually charged entertainment. Jen Oliver, Kellita Maloof 01:06:28 Jen and guest Kellita Maloof explore conscious burlesque as a means of self-expression and healing, discussing its role in addressing consent, trauma, and the deeper artistry involved. Jen and guest Kellita Maloof explore conscious burlesque as a means of self-expression and healing, discussing its role in addressing consent, trauma, and the deeper artistry involved. #expressivearts, #highlysensitiveperson, #psychospiritual, #femalepodcast, #attachmenttheory, #developmentaltrauma, #antidotetotheechochamber, #cptsd, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #embodiment, #realconversations false full 30 f668a087-e830-4bc9-b5b1-c4234d705e9d Loving the life we live; birthright or privilege? Our guest: LIA VENET’s vision is for ALL women to understand their divine brilliance, cultivating trust in sisterhood circles and sharing their truth in the world.

Lia is an Authentic Speaker, Co-Author of Wild and Wise Women around the world – Ten Inspiring Women Share their Feminine Fire in “365 Days of Gratitude.”  Beside her PhD in life experience, she is a Certified Transformational Coach (TCM), Certified Holistic Health Coach (IIN), Sacred Depths trained coach, relationship expert (assisted with John Gray for 7 years) a master Woman’s Speak enroller.  She is a connector, organizer, and gatherer of women, Women’s Circle Facilitator, Founder of Inner Compass Circles that includes organizing empowerment retreats for women.  

She is happily married for 29 years with two grown children who are successfully launched and doing amazing things in the world.

Connect with Lia:

Instagram @liavenet

Facebook @WellnessWithinGuidance

 

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

Wild and Wise Women around the world - Ten Inspiring Women Share 

Their Feminine Fire  Chapter Two - Lia Venet 

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

TikTok @beingrealjen

Facebook @/beingREALcommunity

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About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Thu, 9 Jun 2022 07:00:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Lia Venet, Jen Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: LIA VENET’s vision is for ALL women to understand their divine brilliance, cultivating trust in sisterhood circles and sharing their truth in the world.

Lia is an Authentic Speaker, Co-Author of Wild and Wise Women around the world – Ten Inspiring Women Share their Feminine Fire in “365 Days of Gratitude.”  Beside her PhD in life experience, she is a Certified Transformational Coach (TCM), Certified Holistic Health Coach (IIN), Sacred Depths trained coach, relationship expert (assisted with John Gray for 7 years) a master Woman’s Speak enroller.  She is a connector, organizer, and gatherer of women, Women’s Circle Facilitator, Founder of Inner Compass Circles that includes organizing empowerment retreats for women.  

She is happily married for 29 years with two grown children who are successfully launched and doing amazing things in the world.

Connect with Lia:

Instagram @liavenet

Facebook @WellnessWithinGuidance

 

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

Wild and Wise Women around the world - Ten Inspiring Women Share 

Their Feminine Fire  Chapter Two - Lia Venet 

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

TikTok @beingrealjen

Facebook @/beingREALcommunity

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About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Loving the life we live; birthright or privilege? Lia Venet, Jen Oliver Brown 01:10:46 “She designed a life she loved…” it’s not just a cute sign from Home Goods. There are plenty of people who pursue the life and work they love. I once thought it was a bit precious and indulgent to say things like that. I am a worker - a put-your-head-down and make-things-happen - kind of girl. No wonder I developed some pretty unhealthy coping mechanisms! So I ask Lia Venet for her perspective; she’s spent her entire adult life designing a full, non-conforming, and delicious existence. I admire her manner of living in the best of ways. We discuss the tyranny of socially approved boxes and the word “should.” We wonder aloud if it is a function of privilege to even have discussions like this. And, we both acknowledge that the best life comes from doing our own growth work; triggers and pain points may just be golden portals that take us where we ultimately want to be. “She designed a life she loved…” it’s not just a cute sign from Home Goods. There are plenty of people who pursue the life and work they love. I once thought it was a bit precious and indulgent to say things like that. I am a worker - a put-your-head-down and make-things-happen - kind of girl. No wonder I developed some pretty unhealthy coping mechanisms! So I ask Lia Venet for her perspective; she’s spent her entire adult life designing a full, non-conforming, and delicious existence. I admire her manner of living in the best of ways. We discuss the tyranny of socially approved boxes and the word “should.” We wonder aloud if it is a function of privilege to even have discussions like this. And, we both acknowledge that the best life comes from doing our own growth work; triggers and pain points may just be golden portals that take us where we ultimately want to be. #femalepodcast, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 29 62d2396b-1a00-4bbf-add2-98cb2edd4e6c No judgment: Motherhood, career, entrepreneurship and all the things Our guest: MELISSA HOFFMANN is a Life Coach for women who know they're meant for more. She helps women who want to get out of their corporate jobs - find their purpose and what they want to do for their work so they can start a business that lights them up. After 7 years in a job she hated, she discovered that she wanted to be a makeup artist and built a successful luxury beauty business. Two years ago she pivoted into becoming a Life Coach and helping women to discover what they really want to do for their work and build the confidence to go for it. Melissa is also a mama of a young child, so she is passionate about helping women let go of mom guilt so they can build a business that works for them and their lifestyle. She hosts a podcast called Pivot Into Your Purpose where she shares tips and inspiration to find the work you're meant to do, as well as shares stories from other women who have pivoted into businesses that are more aligned with who they are.

Connect with Melissa:

Website:www.melissahoffmann.com

Instagram @melissahoffmann

Facebook @melissahoffmannrangel

Tiktok @melissamhoffmann

Podcast  Pivot Into Your Purpose

Mellissa’s workshop:  Clarity In Your Calling- Get Clear On Your Purpose & The Work You're Meant To Do

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

TikTok @beingrealjen

Facebook @/beingREALcommunity

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About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Fri, 3 Jun 2022 01:46:19 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Melissa Hoffmann, Jen Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: MELISSA HOFFMANN is a Life Coach for women who know they're meant for more. She helps women who want to get out of their corporate jobs - find their purpose and what they want to do for their work so they can start a business that lights them up. After 7 years in a job she hated, she discovered that she wanted to be a makeup artist and built a successful luxury beauty business. Two years ago she pivoted into becoming a Life Coach and helping women to discover what they really want to do for their work and build the confidence to go for it. Melissa is also a mama of a young child, so she is passionate about helping women let go of mom guilt so they can build a business that works for them and their lifestyle. She hosts a podcast called Pivot Into Your Purpose where she shares tips and inspiration to find the work you're meant to do, as well as shares stories from other women who have pivoted into businesses that are more aligned with who they are.

Connect with Melissa:

Website:www.melissahoffmann.com

Instagram @melissahoffmann

Facebook @melissahoffmannrangel

Tiktok @melissamhoffmann

Podcast  Pivot Into Your Purpose

Mellissa’s workshop:  Clarity In Your Calling- Get Clear On Your Purpose & The Work You're Meant To Do

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

TikTok @beingrealjen

Facebook @/beingREALcommunity

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About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> No judgment: Motherhood, career, entrepreneurship and all the things Melissa Hoffmann, Jen Oliver Brown 00:52:44 I have an admission. For many years, I chose not to work outside of the home while raising my kids. I wanted this way of life and erroneously assumed that those who didn’t were less committed to their kids’ well-being. UGGHH. There is so much wrong with that perspective. Melissa Hoffman joins the conversation this week and we talk about motherhood, meaningful work, and moving toward that which brings us joy. We discuss the value of pivoting through multiple careers and the varied seasons of motherhood -and the importance of being a stand for others, whether or not their decisions mirror our own. I have an admission. For many years, I chose not to work outside of the home while raising my kids. I wanted this way of life and erroneously assumed that those who didn’t were less committed to their kids’ well-being. UGGHH. There is so much wrong with that perspective. Melissa Hoffman joins the conversation this week and we talk about motherhood, meaningful work, and moving toward that which brings us joy. We discuss the value of pivoting through multiple careers and the varied seasons of motherhood -and the importance of being a stand for others, whether or not their decisions mirror our own. #startyourdreambusiness, #pivotintoyourpurpose, #femalepodcast, #freedombasedbusiness, #lifecoachingforwomen, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #findyourpurpose, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 28 e33275fb-2659-4ea7-b59c-113cb7101a71 Racial equity work: Building a world where ALL people are free, safe, and able to thrive Our guests:

DR. TAMU GREEN is a developmental psychologist and thought leader who brings expertise and lived experience in communities facing inequities in her pursuit of social justice through institutional and systems change. For nearly 30 years, she has been engaged in power building efforts that synergize resources, facilitate equity-oriented decision making, and turn advocacy into outcomes. Dr. Green is the CEO of the Equity and Wellness Institute, where she works collaboratively with a talented team of consultants to assess and meet a wide variety of clients’ and communities’ needs.

JUDAH SANDERS’ faith journey has fueled his passion for diversity, inclusion, equity, and wellness. As an Ordained Minister, Judah has served the Sacramento Region in full-time ministry since 2014. Judah's intersectional identity and his degrees in Communication and Theology help inform the way he participates in building a world where all people are free and safe. Judah specializes in coaching, training, and community healing for the Equity and Wellness Institute.

The Equity and Wellness Institute excels at community engagement and capacity building that promotes connection, resource distribution, and power sharing; training and coaching on all aspects of personal, institutional, and systemic change; facilitation of emotionally charged subject matter; and transformational strategic planning, particularly the development of racial equity action plans and decision support tools to increase transparency and accountability.  Among others, we have conducted training, created plans, engaged stakeholders, and facilitated change for the California Department of Public Health's Office of Health Equity, the California Arts Council, CalABLE, the Oakland Family Resource Center Network, the California Mental Health Services Oversight and Accountability Commission, and the Sacramento Continuum of Care.

Connect with Tamu and Judah:

Website: equityandwellnessinstitute.com

LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/company/equity-and-wellness-institute

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

UCLA Implicit Bias Series -- https://equity.ucla.edu/know/implicit-bias/

The podcast CodeSwitch

Blink by Malcolm Gladwell

How to be Less Stupid about Race by Crystal M. Fleming

Stamped: Racism, Antiracism, and You by Jason Reynolds and Ibram X. Kendi

Fatal Invention: How Science, Politics, and Big Business Re-Create Race in the Twenty-First Century by Dorothy Roberts

Black Futures by Kimberly Drew and Jenna Wortham

Caste by Isabel Wilkerson

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at beingREAL.

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Tue, 24 May 2022 05:09:31 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Judah Sanders, Jen Oliver Brown, Dr. Tamu Green) https://listenforreal.com Our guests:

DR. TAMU GREEN is a developmental psychologist and thought leader who brings expertise and lived experience in communities facing inequities in her pursuit of social justice through institutional and systems change. For nearly 30 years, she has been engaged in power building efforts that synergize resources, facilitate equity-oriented decision making, and turn advocacy into outcomes. Dr. Green is the CEO of the Equity and Wellness Institute, where she works collaboratively with a talented team of consultants to assess and meet a wide variety of clients’ and communities’ needs.

JUDAH SANDERS’ faith journey has fueled his passion for diversity, inclusion, equity, and wellness. As an Ordained Minister, Judah has served the Sacramento Region in full-time ministry since 2014. Judah's intersectional identity and his degrees in Communication and Theology help inform the way he participates in building a world where all people are free and safe. Judah specializes in coaching, training, and community healing for the Equity and Wellness Institute.

The Equity and Wellness Institute excels at community engagement and capacity building that promotes connection, resource distribution, and power sharing; training and coaching on all aspects of personal, institutional, and systemic change; facilitation of emotionally charged subject matter; and transformational strategic planning, particularly the development of racial equity action plans and decision support tools to increase transparency and accountability.  Among others, we have conducted training, created plans, engaged stakeholders, and facilitated change for the California Department of Public Health's Office of Health Equity, the California Arts Council, CalABLE, the Oakland Family Resource Center Network, the California Mental Health Services Oversight and Accountability Commission, and the Sacramento Continuum of Care.

Connect with Tamu and Judah:

Website: equityandwellnessinstitute.com

LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/company/equity-and-wellness-institute

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

UCLA Implicit Bias Series -- https://equity.ucla.edu/know/implicit-bias/

The podcast CodeSwitch

Blink by Malcolm Gladwell

How to be Less Stupid about Race by Crystal M. Fleming

Stamped: Racism, Antiracism, and You by Jason Reynolds and Ibram X. Kendi

Fatal Invention: How Science, Politics, and Big Business Re-Create Race in the Twenty-First Century by Dorothy Roberts

Black Futures by Kimberly Drew and Jenna Wortham

Caste by Isabel Wilkerson

Jen holds space for those who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at beingREAL.

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Racial equity work: Building a world where ALL people are free, safe, and able to thrive Judah Sanders, Jen Oliver Brown, Dr. Tamu Green 01:17:16 Jen explores racial equity work with two people who are creating change; Dr. Tamu Green and Judah Sanders are determined to spare us from another injustice - another atrocity - based simply on race. Messy conversations are most productive when a spirit of curiosity and grace is present. When Jen did not know ways to approach aspects of this topic or how to admit her ignorance as a white woman, she was met with “amnesty always.” Thus, she learned a bit more about her part in the work. May it be so for all of us. Jen explores racial equity work with two people who are creating change; Dr. Tamu Green and Judah Sanders are determined to spare us from another injustice - another atrocity - based simply on race. Messy conversations are most productive when a spirit of curiosity and grace is present. When Jen did not know ways to approach aspects of this topic or how to admit her ignorance as a white woman, she was met with “amnesty always.” Thus, she learned a bit more about her part in the work. May it be so for all of us. #racial equity, #femalepodcast, # community wellness, #antidotetotheechochamber, #courageous conversations, #beingreal, #power building, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 27 d52467c9-8a28-44f8-b28c-3c6021ad9a9c Intuition: We all have it but do we recognize it? Our guest: KARA LYNN EDWARDS is a business and intuition coach and the founder of Intuitive Femmepreneur Academy. In her work, she guides female entrepreneurs back to the clarity and certainty of their own inner knowing to create ease, flow and strategic alignment in their businesses.

Connect with Kara:

Website  xokaralynn.com

Instagram @xokaralynn

Facebook @xokaralynn

Jen holds space for women who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email  Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

TikTok @beingrealjen

Facebook @beingREAL

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at beingREAL.
 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

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]]> Mon, 9 May 2022 23:10:27 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Kara Lynn Edwards, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: KARA LYNN EDWARDS is a business and intuition coach and the founder of Intuitive Femmepreneur Academy. In her work, she guides female entrepreneurs back to the clarity and certainty of their own inner knowing to create ease, flow and strategic alignment in their businesses.

Connect with Kara:

Website  xokaralynn.com

Instagram @xokaralynn

Facebook @xokaralynn

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email  Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

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Facebook @beingREAL

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About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Intuition: We all have it but do we recognize it? Kara Lynn Edwards, Jennifer Oliver Brown 01:17:31 I assumed intuition was all in the mind - a sort of cerebral knowing that guides our decision making. I also thought this was a rare gift that few possess - akin to psychic abilities. So…I sought out Kara Lynn Edwards, a woman with a different perspective and asked her to share her own intuitive journey. Kara talks about intuition as a process of “...anchoring into the body and clearing the mind…” I don’t know about you, but I find this incredibly difficult. Little by little, I am starting to notice faint, internal murmurings in my body, but I still need help calibrating that inner compass so I can interpret those feelings reliably. My mind attaches some pretty confusing labels on the sensations in my body. Couple that with a deep spiritual hunger and desire to connect with the Divine and you can imagine my questions during our conversation. As Kara puts it, “We all experience intuition to some degree - it is simply a function of whether we acknowledge or dismiss it.” I assumed intuition was all in the mind - a sort of cerebral knowing that guides our decision making. I also thought this was a rare gift that few possess - akin to psychic abilities. So…I sought out Kara Lynn Edwards, a woman with a different perspective and asked her to share her own intuitive journey. Kara talks about intuition as a process of “...anchoring into the body and clearing the mind…” I don’t know about you, but I find this incredibly difficult. Little by little, I am starting to notice faint, internal murmurings in my body, but I still need help calibrating that inner compass so I can interpret those feelings reliably. My mind attaches some pretty confusing labels on the sensations in my body. Couple that with a deep spiritual hunger and desire to connect with the Divine and you can imagine my questions during our conversation. As Kara puts it, “We all experience intuition to some degree - it is simply a function of whether we acknowledge or dismiss it.” #femalepodcast, #intuitivelaunch, #antidotetotheechochamber, #divinefemininerising #trustyourintuition, #intuitioncoach, #beingreal, #intuitivebusinesscoach, #beingrealjen, #businesscoachforwomen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 26 ae2b1965-f296-49cb-ab42-7960f2141109 Surviving Epstein: Normalizing Our Response to Sexual Assault (part 2) Our guest: JESS MICHAELS is an accomplished dancer with 30 years of experience as a dance industry professional, educator, and entrepreneur. She is also a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and a 1991 rape by Jeffrey Epstein. Her healing journey began unexpectedly, over twenty years later, after her hometown of Newtown, CT was devastated by the mass shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School. In 2015, Jess joined Dylan’s Wings of Change, a foundation dedicated to Dylan Hockley, one of the first-grade victims in the shooting. It was there, in her hometown, teaching dance classes and working alongside the brave parents who had lost their children, that Jess began to connect the value of shame-free, community-based, early trauma intervention to the needs of sexual assault survivors. Her message normalizes a proactive, empowered emergency response to SA equipping us to effectively prepare for—rather than react to—one of society's most common, catastrophic crimes while advancing healing, justice and prevention. 

Connect with Jessica:

Website jessmichaelsspeaks.com

Instagram @jessmichaelsspeaks

Facebook jessmichaelsspeaks

TikTok @jessmichaelsspeaks

 

Jen holds space for women who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

TikTok @beingrealjen

 

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About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Sat, 30 Apr 2022 22:58:45 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jennifer Oliver Brown, Jessica Michaels) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: JESS MICHAELS is an accomplished dancer with 30 years of experience as a dance industry professional, educator, and entrepreneur. She is also a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and a 1991 rape by Jeffrey Epstein. Her healing journey began unexpectedly, over twenty years later, after her hometown of Newtown, CT was devastated by the mass shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School. In 2015, Jess joined Dylan’s Wings of Change, a foundation dedicated to Dylan Hockley, one of the first-grade victims in the shooting. It was there, in her hometown, teaching dance classes and working alongside the brave parents who had lost their children, that Jess began to connect the value of shame-free, community-based, early trauma intervention to the needs of sexual assault survivors. Her message normalizes a proactive, empowered emergency response to SA equipping us to effectively prepare for—rather than react to—one of society's most common, catastrophic crimes while advancing healing, justice and prevention. 

Connect with Jessica:

Website jessmichaelsspeaks.com

Instagram @jessmichaelsspeaks

Facebook jessmichaelsspeaks

TikTok @jessmichaelsspeaks

 

Jen holds space for women who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

TikTok @beingrealjen

 

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About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Surviving Epstein: Normalizing Our Response to Sexual Assault (part 2) Jennifer Oliver Brown, Jessica Michaels 00:46:13 PART 2 of the conversation between Jen and Jessica Michaels on the reality of sexual assault and its solutions. The publicity around Jeffrey Epstein's crimes and the recent trial of Ghislaine Maxwell was a trigger for Jess and countless other SA survivors. It also provided visibility that delivers lasting change. We discuss many of the common misconceptions around SA; an assault is an assault -sexual or otherwise - so how can we talk about this kind of violence in a productive way? How can we be allies for one another instead of unwittingly contributing to the problem? PART 2 of the conversation between Jen and Jessica Michaels on the reality of sexual assault and its solutions. The publicity around Jeffrey Epstein's crimes and the recent trial of Ghislaine Maxwell was a trigger for Jess and countless other SA survivors. It also provided visibility that delivers lasting change. We discuss many of the common misconceptions around SA; an assault is an assault -sexual or otherwise - so how can we talk about this kind of violence in a productive way? How can we be allies for one another instead of unwittingly contributing to the problem? #femalepodcast, #jessmichaelsspeaks, #antidotetotheechochamber, #sexualassaultawarenessmonth, #3joannes, #beingreal, #findyour3joannes, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 25 a80f9dea-5678-4f3e-924f-8fe75a8a3605 Surviving Epstein: Normalizing Our Response to Sexual Assault (part 1) Our guest: JESS MICHAELS is an accomplished dancer with 30 years of experience as a dance industry professional, educator, and entrepreneur. She is also a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and a 1991 rape by Jeffrey Epstein. Her healing journey began unexpectedly, over twenty years later, after her hometown of Newtown, CT was devastated by the mass shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School. In 2015, Jess joined Dylan’s Wings of Change, a foundation dedicated to Dylan Hockley, one of the first-grade victims in the shooting. It was there, in her hometown, teaching dance classes and working alongside the brave parents who had lost their children, that Jess began to connect the value of shame-free, community-based, early trauma intervention to the needs of sexual assault survivors. Her message normalizes a proactive, empowered emergency response to SA equipping us to effectively prepare for—rather than react to—one of society's most common, catastrophic crimes while advancing healing, justice and prevention. 

Connect with Jessica:

Website jessmichaelsspeaks.com

Instagram @jessmichaelsspeaks

Facebook jessmichaelsspeaks

TikTok @jessmichaelsspeaks

 

Jen holds space for women who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

TikTok @beingrealjen

 

Join us next week for the second half of this conversation and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at beingREAL.
 


 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Wed, 27 Apr 2022 00:37:44 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jessica Michaels, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: JESS MICHAELS is an accomplished dancer with 30 years of experience as a dance industry professional, educator, and entrepreneur. She is also a survivor of childhood sexual abuse and a 1991 rape by Jeffrey Epstein. Her healing journey began unexpectedly, over twenty years later, after her hometown of Newtown, CT was devastated by the mass shooting at Sandy Hook Elementary School. In 2015, Jess joined Dylan’s Wings of Change, a foundation dedicated to Dylan Hockley, one of the first-grade victims in the shooting. It was there, in her hometown, teaching dance classes and working alongside the brave parents who had lost their children, that Jess began to connect the value of shame-free, community-based, early trauma intervention to the needs of sexual assault survivors. Her message normalizes a proactive, empowered emergency response to SA equipping us to effectively prepare for—rather than react to—one of society's most common, catastrophic crimes while advancing healing, justice and prevention. 

Connect with Jessica:

Website jessmichaelsspeaks.com

Instagram @jessmichaelsspeaks

Facebook jessmichaelsspeaks

TikTok @jessmichaelsspeaks

 

Jen holds space for women who want to elevate and amplify their voice. If you desire support in speaking your truth and want to explore the ways you can work with Jen, let's connect: 

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

TikTok @beingrealjen

 

Join us next week for the second half of this conversation and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen Oliver at beingREAL.
 


 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Surviving Epstein: Normalizing Our Response to Sexual Assault (part 1) Jessica Michaels, Jennifer Oliver Brown 00:59:03 Picture this familiar scene - a woman bravely steps forward to reveal that a sexual assault was perpetrated against her. Then comes the barrage of ignorant questions such as: “Were you drunk?” “What’s your motive in this?” “How can you make these bold accusations and be so fuzzy on the details?” Jen admits to doubting women in the past and wonders if these "questions" are actually a form of veiled judgment (if we are willing to be honest). With a huge desire to be on the productive side of our response to sexual assault, Jen asks Jessica Michaels to speak about her own experience at the hands of Jeffrey Epstein and the movement she is creating to protect and empower others. Picture this familiar scene - a woman bravely steps forward to reveal that a sexual assault was perpetrated against her. Then comes the barrage of ignorant questions such as: “Were you drunk?” “What’s your motive in this?” “How can you make these bold accusations and be so fuzzy on the details?” Jen admits to doubting women in the past and wonders if these "questions" are actually a form of veiled judgment (if we are willing to be honest). With a huge desire to be on the productive side of our response to sexual assault, Jen asks Jessica Michaels to speak about her own experience at the hands of Jeffrey Epstein and the movement she is creating to protect and empower others. #femalepodcast, #jessmichaelsspeaks, #antidotetotheechochamber, #sexualassaultawarenessmonth, #3joannes, #beingreal, #findyour3joannes, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 24 f5b7de7d-79c0-441c-95ac-33e80d832660 Patriarchy Stress Disorder...seriously?! Our guest: DR. VALERIE REIN is a psychologist and women’s mental health expert who has discovered Patriarchy Stress Disorder (PSD) and created the only science-backed system for helping women achieve their ultimate success, happiness, and fulfillment by healing the intergenerational trauma of oppression.

She holds an EdM in Psychological Counseling from Columbia University and a PhD in Psychology from the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology. Her #1 Amazon bestselling book, Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Inner Barrier to Women’s Happiness and Fulfillment has been heralded by reviewers as "the most important body of literary work of our modern times" and "perhaps the most important book of the century for women."

Dr. Valerie’s cutting-edge programs have helped thousands of women shift from “how much can I bear?” to “how good can it get?" - from survival to thriving, in their work and personal lives.

Connect with Valerie:

Website: DrValerie.com  

Instagram @drvalerierein

Facebook  Dr. Valerie Rein

 

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen


Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

Download free first chapter of Dr. Valerie’s book Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Inner Barrier to Women’s Happiness and Fulfillment  @  drvalerie.com

Practices you can start doing now to get on your PSD-healing journey to shift from surviving to thriving and master the game of “How good can it get?” @  drvalerie.com/book-resources

Listen to The Dr. Valerie Podcast for real and raw conversations with powerful women about living, loving, and creating in the world where it’s never been safe for a woman to be visible. @  drvalerie.com/podcast

To benefit from Dr. Valerie’s science-based curriculum and/or her personal guidance in healing PSD, get on the waitlist to be notified when the next round of her signature virtual program, The Thriving Solution, opens its doors @  drvalerie.com/waitlist

Fill out an application to learn about the live experience or coaching with Dr. Valerie @ drvalerie.com/jailbreak-learn-more

 

Join us next week and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Fri, 15 Apr 2022 18:52:13 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Dr. Valerie Rein, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: DR. VALERIE REIN is a psychologist and women’s mental health expert who has discovered Patriarchy Stress Disorder (PSD) and created the only science-backed system for helping women achieve their ultimate success, happiness, and fulfillment by healing the intergenerational trauma of oppression.

She holds an EdM in Psychological Counseling from Columbia University and a PhD in Psychology from the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology. Her #1 Amazon bestselling book, Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Inner Barrier to Women’s Happiness and Fulfillment has been heralded by reviewers as "the most important body of literary work of our modern times" and "perhaps the most important book of the century for women."

Dr. Valerie’s cutting-edge programs have helped thousands of women shift from “how much can I bear?” to “how good can it get?" - from survival to thriving, in their work and personal lives.

Connect with Valerie:

Website: DrValerie.com  

Instagram @drvalerierein

Facebook  Dr. Valerie Rein

 

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen


Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

Download free first chapter of Dr. Valerie’s book Patriarchy Stress Disorder: The Invisible Inner Barrier to Women’s Happiness and Fulfillment  @  drvalerie.com

Practices you can start doing now to get on your PSD-healing journey to shift from surviving to thriving and master the game of “How good can it get?” @  drvalerie.com/book-resources

Listen to The Dr. Valerie Podcast for real and raw conversations with powerful women about living, loving, and creating in the world where it’s never been safe for a woman to be visible. @  drvalerie.com/podcast

To benefit from Dr. Valerie’s science-based curriculum and/or her personal guidance in healing PSD, get on the waitlist to be notified when the next round of her signature virtual program, The Thriving Solution, opens its doors @  drvalerie.com/waitlist

Fill out an application to learn about the live experience or coaching with Dr. Valerie @ drvalerie.com/jailbreak-learn-more

 

Join us next week and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Patriarchy Stress Disorder...seriously?! Dr. Valerie Rein, Jennifer Oliver Brown 01:06:40 A few short years ago, Jen was clueless to the reality of patriarchal influence on our human behavior - she admits thinking the term “patriarchy” was made up. It was time to get educated on the very systems that impact ALL OF US, regardless of where one falls on the gender spectrum. Jen and Dr. Valerie engage in a fascinating conversation that debunks misconceptions around the patriarchy. Knowledge is power, setting us free from the internalized stress and self-condemnation that patriarchal oppression lends to. Did you know there is an insidious and unspoken demand to be “patriarchy perfect?” Oh, and if you don’t believe that shared, generational trauma exists in our very makeup - ask the mice referenced at minute 31:15 in this episode! You can’t dismantle something if you don’t know it exists. A few short years ago, Jen was clueless to the reality of patriarchal influence on our human behavior - she admits thinking the term “patriarchy” was made up. It was time to get educated on the very systems that impact ALL OF US, regardless of where one falls on the gender spectrum. Jen and Dr. Valerie engage in a fascinating conversation that debunks misconceptions around the patriarchy. Knowledge is power, setting us free from the internalized stress and self-condemnation that patriarchal oppression lends to. Did you know there is an insidious and unspoken demand to be “patriarchy perfect?” Oh, and if you don’t believe that shared, generational trauma exists in our very makeup - ask the mice referenced at minute 31:15 in this episode! You can’t dismantle something if you don’t know it exists. #thethrivingexperience, #femalepodcast, #patriarchystressdisorder, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 23 c2b5b71d-c824-4146-8a62-3c0657c6fbdd Psychedelics and Plant Medicine Our guest: JULIE WOOD felt stuck for much of her life in the conditioning that she calls the “Good Girl Program” - which left her over-thinking, over-performing and over-conforming - afraid to be herself. She followed all the Rules, graduated from Princeton and spent 18 years managing big advertising clients like PepsiCo and JPMorgan Chase. Despite her outer success she felt inauthentic and unfulfilled.

Nine years ago, she left it all behind, setting off with her now-husband on a 5-year Spirit Journey in a little Jeep Wrangler, visiting 69 countries along the way.

While traveling through Mexico and South America, she was introduced to the “niños santos” (psilocybin mushrooms) in the mountains of Oaxaca and participated in over 50 plant medicine ceremonies. Eventually she started supporting others in the ceremonial space, which she still does today at retreats in Mexico.

Through her transformative experiences with the plants, Julie began to connect with the gifts she’s here to share. Julie has incredible clarity around her purpose here on Earth - to guide others in connecting with their gifts - through coaching, WomanSpeak public speaking circles, Family Constellations and, of course, plant medicine.

Connect with Julie:

Website: juliekwood.com

Instagram @julie.k.wood

Facebook Julie K Wood


Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

Website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

 

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

Films: For the Next 7 Generations  available on Amazon and YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qiGkKNG1p88

Fantastic Fungi - documentary on Netflix

Resources: MAPS.org - Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies. Excellent resource for reading about psychedelic research

 
The International Council of Thirteen Indigenous Grandmothers: https://www.facebook.com/13GrandmothersCouncil/

 

Note: In this episode, we reference the “War on Drugs” and how it relates to a lack of acceptance around plant medicine that also gets linked with drug use. This was interesting info and food for thought:

In 1994, Nixon’s Assistant to the President for Domestic Affairs and Watergate co-conspirator John Ehrlichman admitted to the real impetus for the War on Drugs, as quoted in  Smoke and Mirrors: The War on Drugs and the Politics of Failure, in Harper's Magazine by Dan Baum, published in 2016:

“The Nixon campaign in 1968, and the Nixon White House after that, had two enemies: the antiwar left and black people. You understand what I’m saying? We knew we couldn’t make it illegal to be either against the war or black, but by getting the public to associate the hippies with marijuana and blacks with heroin, and then criminalizing both heavily, we could disrupt those communities. We could arrest their leaders, raid their homes, break up their meetings, and vilify them night after night on the evening news. Did we know we were lying about the drugs? Of course we did.”

 

Join us next week and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Sun, 10 Apr 2022 04:03:38 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Julie Wood, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: JULIE WOOD felt stuck for much of her life in the conditioning that she calls the “Good Girl Program” - which left her over-thinking, over-performing and over-conforming - afraid to be herself. She followed all the Rules, graduated from Princeton and spent 18 years managing big advertising clients like PepsiCo and JPMorgan Chase. Despite her outer success she felt inauthentic and unfulfilled.

Nine years ago, she left it all behind, setting off with her now-husband on a 5-year Spirit Journey in a little Jeep Wrangler, visiting 69 countries along the way.

While traveling through Mexico and South America, she was introduced to the “niños santos” (psilocybin mushrooms) in the mountains of Oaxaca and participated in over 50 plant medicine ceremonies. Eventually she started supporting others in the ceremonial space, which she still does today at retreats in Mexico.

Through her transformative experiences with the plants, Julie began to connect with the gifts she’s here to share. Julie has incredible clarity around her purpose here on Earth - to guide others in connecting with their gifts - through coaching, WomanSpeak public speaking circles, Family Constellations and, of course, plant medicine.

Connect with Julie:

Website: juliekwood.com

Instagram @julie.k.wood

Facebook Julie K Wood


Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

Website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

 

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

Films: For the Next 7 Generations  available on Amazon and YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qiGkKNG1p88

Fantastic Fungi - documentary on Netflix

Resources: MAPS.org - Multidisciplinary Association for Psychedelic Studies. Excellent resource for reading about psychedelic research

 
The International Council of Thirteen Indigenous Grandmothers: https://www.facebook.com/13GrandmothersCouncil/

 

Note: In this episode, we reference the “War on Drugs” and how it relates to a lack of acceptance around plant medicine that also gets linked with drug use. This was interesting info and food for thought:

In 1994, Nixon’s Assistant to the President for Domestic Affairs and Watergate co-conspirator John Ehrlichman admitted to the real impetus for the War on Drugs, as quoted in  Smoke and Mirrors: The War on Drugs and the Politics of Failure, in Harper's Magazine by Dan Baum, published in 2016:

“The Nixon campaign in 1968, and the Nixon White House after that, had two enemies: the antiwar left and black people. You understand what I’m saying? We knew we couldn’t make it illegal to be either against the war or black, but by getting the public to associate the hippies with marijuana and blacks with heroin, and then criminalizing both heavily, we could disrupt those communities. We could arrest their leaders, raid their homes, break up their meetings, and vilify them night after night on the evening news. Did we know we were lying about the drugs? Of course we did.”

 

Join us next week and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Psychedelics and Plant Medicine Julie Wood, Jennifer Oliver Brown 01:06:40 Jen’s limited perspective around mind-altering drugs was simple; they’re wrong, damaging, and a form of escapism - something you do when you want to party. In recent years, Jen listened to several people who shared thoughtfully about their own ceremonial experience with psilocybin mushrooms and ayahuasca. This piqued her curiosity along with the growing body of scientific work supporting plant medicine as one more tool to combat the symptomatology of many common illnesses. Jen asks Julie to educate her on this entire topic and it yielded another amazing conversation. Jen’s limited perspective around mind-altering drugs was simple; they’re wrong, damaging, and a form of escapism - something you do when you want to party. In recent years, Jen listened to several people who shared thoughtfully about their own ceremonial experience with psilocybin mushrooms and ayahuasca. This piqued her curiosity along with the growing body of scientific work supporting plant medicine as one more tool to combat the symptomatology of many common illnesses. Jen asks Julie to educate her on this entire topic and it yielded another amazing conversation. #plantmedicine, #femalepodcast, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 22 a621cf9b-649a-4923-8aaf-dd809f66513e Warning! Domestic abuse occurs in many insidious forms Our guest: KAY SOLOMON  is the creator and founder of Women Walking in Wisdom’s Footsteps™ - a community of support designed for women who seek to recognize and walk in their brilliance; to become the women they have been called to be in their circles of influence regardless of the circumstances they’ve encountered in their past. Kay guides others from her lived experience, helping them to discover and live a truly empowered life, free from toxic relationships that stifle growth and joy. Kay earned a Master of Divinity from the Candler School of Theology at Emory University and teaches biblical and religious studies in a Christian independent high school in Atlanta, GA.

Connect with Kay:


website: kaysolomon.com

Instagram: @womenwalkinginwisdomsfootsteps

LinkedIn: @kayfsolomon

email: kay@kaysolomon.com


Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

 

Join us next week and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Wed, 23 Mar 2022 04:07:17 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Kay F. Solomon, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: KAY SOLOMON  is the creator and founder of Women Walking in Wisdom’s Footsteps™ - a community of support designed for women who seek to recognize and walk in their brilliance; to become the women they have been called to be in their circles of influence regardless of the circumstances they’ve encountered in their past. Kay guides others from her lived experience, helping them to discover and live a truly empowered life, free from toxic relationships that stifle growth and joy. Kay earned a Master of Divinity from the Candler School of Theology at Emory University and teaches biblical and religious studies in a Christian independent high school in Atlanta, GA.

Connect with Kay:


website: kaysolomon.com

Instagram: @womenwalkinginwisdomsfootsteps

LinkedIn: @kayfsolomon

email: kay@kaysolomon.com


Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen

 

Join us next week and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Warning! Domestic abuse occurs in many insidious forms Kay F. Solomon, Jennifer Oliver Brown 01:18:21 Many hear the term “domestic abuse” and assume it manifests in the obvious ways - violence, screaming, physical assault, etc. Jen hosts Kay Solomon to discuss lesser acknowledged forms of abuse that also take their toll; control, manipulation, gaslighting, and other issues of emotional and psychological abuse are exposed. Knowledge is power! We address the particularly troubling nature of certain religious settings where “remaining faithful and submissive” allows abuse to flourish. Many hear the term “domestic abuse” and assume it manifests in the obvious ways - violence, screaming, physical assault, etc. Jen hosts Kay Solomon to discuss lesser acknowledged forms of abuse that also take their toll; control, manipulation, gaslighting, and other issues of emotional and psychological abuse are exposed. Knowledge is power! We address the particularly troubling nature of certain religious settings where “remaining faithful and submissive” allows abuse to flourish. #femalepodcast, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #domesticabuse, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 21 789ec7ce-7348-4363-a3c8-70449788a433 How could you possibly know these things about me? Our guest: STACY ROWAN is a life coach and founder of Custom Built Life LLC. As a coach Stacy uses the tools of human design and mindset coaching to help entrepreneurs understand what makes them unique. She shows them how to cut through the overwhelming noise of expert opinions, tap into their inner wisdom, and make decisions that are right for them. This frees them to build, grow, and lead their company in a way that feels good and is true to who they are. Their detailed self-awareness allows her clients to more easily manage both life and business without overextending themselves so they can enjoy the success they have worked so hard for.

Connect with Stacy:

Website: https://www.custombuiltlife.com

https://calendly.com/stacyrowan/consult-call

Instagram @custombuiltlife

LinkedIn Stacy Rowan

 

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

The History of the Human Design System

https://www.jovianarchive.com


Join us next week and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.


 


 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Fri, 11 Mar 2022 04:17:54 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Stacy Rowan, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: STACY ROWAN is a life coach and founder of Custom Built Life LLC. As a coach Stacy uses the tools of human design and mindset coaching to help entrepreneurs understand what makes them unique. She shows them how to cut through the overwhelming noise of expert opinions, tap into their inner wisdom, and make decisions that are right for them. This frees them to build, grow, and lead their company in a way that feels good and is true to who they are. Their detailed self-awareness allows her clients to more easily manage both life and business without overextending themselves so they can enjoy the success they have worked so hard for.

Connect with Stacy:

Website: https://www.custombuiltlife.com

https://calendly.com/stacyrowan/consult-call

Instagram @custombuiltlife

LinkedIn Stacy Rowan

 

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

The History of the Human Design System

https://www.jovianarchive.com


Join us next week and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.


 


 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> How could you possibly know these things about me? Stacy Rowan, Jennifer Oliver Brown 01:32:38 Imagine talking with someone who told you more about yourself than you knew possible; AND, all they had to work with was the date and time of your birth along with location. Jen’s mind is blown as she continues to explore the science and practical application of human design with Stacy Rowan. Stacy has invested years studying and utilizing the principles behind this life changing and illuminating system on human understanding. Imagine talking with someone who told you more about yourself than you knew possible; AND, all they had to work with was the date and time of your birth along with location. Jen’s mind is blown as she continues to explore the science and practical application of human design with Stacy Rowan. Stacy has invested years studying and utilizing the principles behind this life changing and illuminating system on human understanding. #femalepodcast, #humandesign, #antidotetotheechochamber, #humandesignforentrepreneurs, #beingreal, #humandesigncoaching, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 20 92beeaba-099a-4a5e-aae4-75416ece23a5 Body, Mind, and a 9 ounce Soul Our guest: REBECCA THORNE is an intuitive spiritual healer, a licensed clinical social worker and certified coach. She uses energy techniques to help people with unsolvable problems de-layer themselves so they can shine. She helps people work with the invisible world to get real-world results through a variety of energetic and clinical modalities to find the perfect mix for each individual.

Connect with Rebecca:

Website: theartofexpansion.com

Instagram @the.art.of.expansion

 

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

The Art of Expansion Self-Love Cards

https://theartofexpansion.com/oracle-cards/

The History of the Human Design System

https://www.jovianarchive.com

 

Join us next week and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. 

It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Wed, 2 Mar 2022 05:09:39 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Rebecca Thorne, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: REBECCA THORNE is an intuitive spiritual healer, a licensed clinical social worker and certified coach. She uses energy techniques to help people with unsolvable problems de-layer themselves so they can shine. She helps people work with the invisible world to get real-world results through a variety of energetic and clinical modalities to find the perfect mix for each individual.

Connect with Rebecca:

Website: theartofexpansion.com

Instagram @the.art.of.expansion

 

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

The Art of Expansion Self-Love Cards

https://theartofexpansion.com/oracle-cards/

The History of the Human Design System

https://www.jovianarchive.com

 

Join us next week and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. 

It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Body, Mind, and a 9 ounce Soul Rebecca Thorne, Jennifer Oliver Brown 01:16:13 Jen is navigating some big life changes this year and is striving to operate more authentically. This feels like a moving target, so she asked Rebecca to share her experience and perspective. They discuss the invisible world, human energy and vibrational levels, and how our unique Human Design plays a profound role in the way we operate. So many revelations in this conversation! Jen is navigating some big life changes this year and is striving to operate more authentically. This feels like a moving target, so she asked Rebecca to share her experience and perspective. They discuss the invisible world, human energy and vibrational levels, and how our unique Human Design plays a profound role in the way we operate. So many revelations in this conversation! #femalepodcast, #humandesign, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 19 686f6cd9-821e-4a6f-9fe7-3944dd82a8dd Pioneer, game changer, life saver Our guest: DR. TAMU GREEN is a developmental psychologist and thought leader who brings expertise and lived experience in communities facing inequities in her pursuit of social justice through institutional and systems change. For nearly 30 years, she has been engaged in power building efforts that synergize resources, facilitate equity-oriented decision making, and turn advocacy into outcomes. Dr. Green is the CEO of the Equity and Wellness Institute, where she works collaboratively with a talented team of consultants to assess and meet a wide variety of clients’ and communities’ needs.

*IMPORTANT post-recording addendum: This episode covers a vital matter that proves itself out with many decades worth of empirically relevant data - thus, the compelling statistics around deaths by tobacco require no embellishment. That said, we want to be as accurate as possible with the statements we made during our conversation. When we discuss stats around the daily deaths attributed to tobacco use and the industry's pursuit of new smokers - it may be unclear when we were referencing the US market versus global markets. Dr. Green clarifies:  

"...the catastrophic loss on 9/11 (2,996 deaths on that date) and how there are more tobacco deaths daily. In the US there are currently 1,300 tobacco deaths daily but globally there are about 20,000 tobacco deaths daily..."

"...in addition, the tobacco industry once needed to gain approximately 7,000 new smokers per day, which is likely much higher on a global scale...these statistics were the recognized number years ago and may vary based on 2021 statistics..."


Connect with Tamu:

website: EquityandWellnessInstitute.com

LinkedIn: Tamu Green, PhD

 

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

Articles

https://time.com/6126252/brookline-tobacco-free-generation-law/

https://blogs.bmj.com/tc/2022/01/29/brookline-introduces-tobacco-free-generation-law/

https://magazine.ucdavis.edu/turning-tables-on-tobacco/


Join us next episode and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Fri, 25 Feb 2022 05:53:12 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Dr. Tamu Green, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: DR. TAMU GREEN is a developmental psychologist and thought leader who brings expertise and lived experience in communities facing inequities in her pursuit of social justice through institutional and systems change. For nearly 30 years, she has been engaged in power building efforts that synergize resources, facilitate equity-oriented decision making, and turn advocacy into outcomes. Dr. Green is the CEO of the Equity and Wellness Institute, where she works collaboratively with a talented team of consultants to assess and meet a wide variety of clients’ and communities’ needs.

*IMPORTANT post-recording addendum: This episode covers a vital matter that proves itself out with many decades worth of empirically relevant data - thus, the compelling statistics around deaths by tobacco require no embellishment. That said, we want to be as accurate as possible with the statements we made during our conversation. When we discuss stats around the daily deaths attributed to tobacco use and the industry's pursuit of new smokers - it may be unclear when we were referencing the US market versus global markets. Dr. Green clarifies:  

"...the catastrophic loss on 9/11 (2,996 deaths on that date) and how there are more tobacco deaths daily. In the US there are currently 1,300 tobacco deaths daily but globally there are about 20,000 tobacco deaths daily..."

"...in addition, the tobacco industry once needed to gain approximately 7,000 new smokers per day, which is likely much higher on a global scale...these statistics were the recognized number years ago and may vary based on 2021 statistics..."


Connect with Tamu:

website: EquityandWellnessInstitute.com

LinkedIn: Tamu Green, PhD

 

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

Articles

https://time.com/6126252/brookline-tobacco-free-generation-law/

https://blogs.bmj.com/tc/2022/01/29/brookline-introduces-tobacco-free-generation-law/

https://magazine.ucdavis.edu/turning-tables-on-tobacco/


Join us next episode and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Pioneer, game changer, life saver Dr. Tamu Green, Jennifer Oliver Brown 00:56:42 Big Tobacco may not be fond of discussions such as these. Jen invites Dr. Tamu Green to talk about a controversial approach designed to spare the next generation from tobacco dependence and compromised health. This is an example of steadfast pursuit of a worthy cause despite powerful opposition from deep-pocketed conglomerates. Big Tobacco may not be fond of discussions such as these. Jen invites Dr. Tamu Green to talk about a controversial approach designed to spare the next generation from tobacco dependence and compromised health. This is an example of steadfast pursuit of a worthy cause despite powerful opposition from deep-pocketed conglomerates. #femalepodcast, #antidotetotheechochamber, #endgame, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 18 56967eef-1111-4dab-911e-e9dab8337a3e A Heroine’s Journey: Unexpected and REAL Our guest: SHERRY WILLIAMS spent her first 28 years dropping in and out of life’s most difficult situations. The following 28 years produced shifts in belief systems formed by molestation and abuse and through addiction and prostitution. Sherry understands the hook that life on the darker side can have on a person. She also knows deeply the hurts and doubts life delivers and how remaining in the struggle can be easier to take than the fright of change. Sherry learned that the desire for transformation requires being inquisitive. Sherry speaks on her heroine’s journey and inspires many with her incredible ability to tell an honest story. Sherry looks to expand a sense of hope and direction in communities across the world. Her career has been varied, successful, and fulfilling. As a scientist, teacher, speaker and coach she is an enigma of expectation.

Connect with Sherry:

Instagram: @agr8erlove

Website: Sherry Williams

 

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

Join us next episode and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Fri, 18 Feb 2022 00:14:46 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Sherry Williams, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: SHERRY WILLIAMS spent her first 28 years dropping in and out of life’s most difficult situations. The following 28 years produced shifts in belief systems formed by molestation and abuse and through addiction and prostitution. Sherry understands the hook that life on the darker side can have on a person. She also knows deeply the hurts and doubts life delivers and how remaining in the struggle can be easier to take than the fright of change. Sherry learned that the desire for transformation requires being inquisitive. Sherry speaks on her heroine’s journey and inspires many with her incredible ability to tell an honest story. Sherry looks to expand a sense of hope and direction in communities across the world. Her career has been varied, successful, and fulfilling. As a scientist, teacher, speaker and coach she is an enigma of expectation.

Connect with Sherry:

Instagram: @agr8erlove

Website: Sherry Williams

 

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

Join us next episode and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> A Heroine’s Journey: Unexpected and REAL Sherry Williams, Jennifer Oliver Brown 00:54:06 Jen and Sherry cover new ground - shining light and changing the dialogue around darker topics like addiction, abuse, and prostitution. Come for the chat, stay for the epiphanies! We found our way to what feels true; heroines can travel from an existence defined, too often, by shame - to a full life of awe and wonder. Same heroines, new mindset. Jen and Sherry cover new ground - shining light and changing the dialogue around darker topics like addiction, abuse, and prostitution. Come for the chat, stay for the epiphanies! We found our way to what feels true; heroines can travel from an existence defined, too often, by shame - to a full life of awe and wonder. Same heroines, new mindset. #femalepodcast, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 17 c218d946-61c3-4293-93be-3aba176236f1 What if we are DEAD wrong about managing grief and loss? Our guest: JULIA NICHOLSON is a former CEO, business consultant, and adjunct professor of business who has excelled for decades as an industry-leading visionary on governance, strategic planning, team building, and executive performance. She now brings her expertise and passion to organizations and conferences across the world.

As a C-Suite executive for over 17 years, she has experienced firsthand the negative impact unwanted change, adversity, and loss can have on every individual, personally and professionally, and therefore, every aspect of an organization… every decision, interaction, and relationship, its culture, and ultimately the bottom line.

Throughout her life, she’s been told “No” or “Not possible” more frequently than she was ever encouraged or supported. Not to be deterred, she defied conventional wisdom and overcame stereotypes and great odds to identify what it takes to not only survive, but thrive after experiencing unwanted change, adversity, and loss over and over again.

Now she’s revealing the secrets to her success, the 5 Realizations, in keynote addresses around the world with proceeds from her talks going to charities that serve people in the areas of mental health and wellness, suicide awareness and intervention, and healthcare.

Connect with Julia:

Instagram: @julianicholsonpresents

Facebook: @julianicholsonpresents

Instagram:  @julianicholsonpresents

TikTok:  @julianicholsonpresents

Website: julianicholsonpresents.com

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

Julia’s 2021 TEDxFolsom talk

Look for Julia’s forthcoming book,

"It" Happened.  Now What?  The 5 Realizations: A Transformative Way to Process Loss and Turn Grief Into Grit in June 2022.

Proceeds from my speaking engagements and book sales are donated to charities supporting past, active, and retired military; charities supporting people with dementia and alzheimers; and organizations supporting disadvantaged children, mental health and wellness, and suicide intervention and its survivors.

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen


Join us next episode and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.


 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Thu, 10 Feb 2022 01:36:31 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Julia A. Nicholson, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: JULIA NICHOLSON is a former CEO, business consultant, and adjunct professor of business who has excelled for decades as an industry-leading visionary on governance, strategic planning, team building, and executive performance. She now brings her expertise and passion to organizations and conferences across the world.

As a C-Suite executive for over 17 years, she has experienced firsthand the negative impact unwanted change, adversity, and loss can have on every individual, personally and professionally, and therefore, every aspect of an organization… every decision, interaction, and relationship, its culture, and ultimately the bottom line.

Throughout her life, she’s been told “No” or “Not possible” more frequently than she was ever encouraged or supported. Not to be deterred, she defied conventional wisdom and overcame stereotypes and great odds to identify what it takes to not only survive, but thrive after experiencing unwanted change, adversity, and loss over and over again.

Now she’s revealing the secrets to her success, the 5 Realizations, in keynote addresses around the world with proceeds from her talks going to charities that serve people in the areas of mental health and wellness, suicide awareness and intervention, and healthcare.

Connect with Julia:

Instagram: @julianicholsonpresents

Facebook: @julianicholsonpresents

Instagram:  @julianicholsonpresents

TikTok:  @julianicholsonpresents

Website: julianicholsonpresents.com

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

Julia’s 2021 TEDxFolsom talk

Look for Julia’s forthcoming book,

"It" Happened.  Now What?  The 5 Realizations: A Transformative Way to Process Loss and Turn Grief Into Grit in June 2022.

Proceeds from my speaking engagements and book sales are donated to charities supporting past, active, and retired military; charities supporting people with dementia and alzheimers; and organizations supporting disadvantaged children, mental health and wellness, and suicide intervention and its survivors.

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen


Join us next episode and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.


 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> What if we are DEAD wrong about managing grief and loss? Julia A. Nicholson, Jennifer Oliver Brown 01:02:52 Jen and Julia skip the platitudes and go straight into the REAL toll of grief and loss. Julia shares her unique story and how it led to a book, TEDx talk, and an entire body of work around her 5 Realizations for processing loss. Jen and Julia skip the platitudes and go straight into the REAL toll of grief and loss. Julia shares her unique story and how it led to a book, TEDx talk, and an entire body of work around her 5 Realizations for processing loss. #transformation, #quitcarryheavyshitbuildgrit, #adversity, #femalepodcast, #grit, #5realizations, #antidotetotheechochamber, #tedxspeaker, #beingreal, #loss, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #grief, #realconversations, #unwantedchange false full 16 79307c44-659d-45d6-9c4a-97226e1cab50 Why are alternative educational methods considered “controversial”? Our guest: MATT BEAUDREAU is the founder of several Acton Academy campuses in Northern California, co-founder of Apogee Strong Mentorship Program, and the host of The Essential 11 podcast. He is also a highly sought keynote speaker, having taken the stage to speak to over 250,000 people around the world in the last decade.

Connect with Matt:

Instagram: @MattBeaudreau  https://www.instagram.com/MattBeaudreau

Facebook: @MattBeaudreau https://www.facebook.com/MattBeaudreau

Websites: www.actonplacer.com  and   www.apogeestrong.com

 

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

Matt’s 2021 TEDxFolsom talk

The Essential 11 podcast

Books by John Taylor Gatto


 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Wed, 2 Feb 2022 18:07:45 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Matt Beaudreau, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: MATT BEAUDREAU is the founder of several Acton Academy campuses in Northern California, co-founder of Apogee Strong Mentorship Program, and the host of The Essential 11 podcast. He is also a highly sought keynote speaker, having taken the stage to speak to over 250,000 people around the world in the last decade.

Connect with Matt:

Instagram: @MattBeaudreau  https://www.instagram.com/MattBeaudreau

Facebook: @MattBeaudreau https://www.facebook.com/MattBeaudreau

Websites: www.actonplacer.com  and   www.apogeestrong.com

 

Great people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

Matt’s 2021 TEDxFolsom talk

The Essential 11 podcast

Books by John Taylor Gatto


 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Why are alternative educational methods considered “controversial”? Matt Beaudreau, Jennifer Oliver Brown 00:57:20 Jen and Matt dive into counter-cultural beliefs around education. While many appear to thrive in our traditional system of schooling - many other children languish. We discuss parenting with high expectations and consistency, leading by example, and educating kids to become self-sufficient adults. How do we empower our brilliant young heroes to make unique contributions to the world - rather than suck it dry? Jen and Matt dive into counter-cultural beliefs around education. While many appear to thrive in our traditional system of schooling - many other children languish. We discuss parenting with high expectations and consistency, leading by example, and educating kids to become self-sufficient adults. How do we empower our brilliant young heroes to make unique contributions to the world - rather than suck it dry? #femalepodcast, #antidotetotheechochamber, #keynote, #beingreal, #education, #generations, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations, #mentorship false full 15 e9b304bd-dd13-407e-839b-919f2bce6d4b Love and attachment: Souls don't discriminate by gender Our guest: ANGIE K. LOVE has had a rewarding career as an Acupuncturist for the past decade and a half, finding deep fulfillment in helping people heal in body, mind, and spirit. Through her writing, she hopes to bring healing to people's hearts and souls.

From an early age, Angie has been an avid reader and prolific writer. It’s been her lifelong dream to be a published author. Awakening Hearts is her first novel, and she's currently working on the sequel.

Connect with Angie:

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/angie.k.love/

Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/AngieKLoveWriter

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCb1s65xmkbrQiTQcLk8XQcw

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@author.angieklove

Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/angieklove

Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/author/angieklove

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/angieklove/

website: https://www.angieklove.com/

email: angieklove.author@gmail.com

 

Great people, places, or things referenced during this episode:

Actor and Voice Narrator to the Awakening Hearts audio book - Helena Mueller

Alessandra Torre’s boot camps for writers- https://www.alessandratorreink.com

Books

Awakening Hearts: A Tale of Love Across Lifetimes: https://www.amazon.com/Awakening-Hearts-Tale-Across-Lifetimes/dp/B09L4HRWJR/

Save Me: https://www.amazon.com/Save-Me-Love-Pacific-Northwest-ebook/dp/B09CZ52ST9/

Wired for Love: https://www.amazon.com/Wired-Love-Understanding-Partners-Attachment-ebook/dp/B006HY0PH6/

Podcasts

We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle

Neil Sattin podcast interview with Stan Tatkin on attachment styles: https://www.neilsattin.com/blog/2015/12/19-recipe-for-a-secure-healthy-relationship-with-stan-tatkin/

 

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

Join us next episode and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Wed, 26 Jan 2022 05:47:51 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Angie K. Love, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: ANGIE K. LOVE has had a rewarding career as an Acupuncturist for the past decade and a half, finding deep fulfillment in helping people heal in body, mind, and spirit. Through her writing, she hopes to bring healing to people's hearts and souls.

From an early age, Angie has been an avid reader and prolific writer. It’s been her lifelong dream to be a published author. Awakening Hearts is her first novel, and she's currently working on the sequel.

Connect with Angie:

Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/angie.k.love/

Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/AngieKLoveWriter

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCb1s65xmkbrQiTQcLk8XQcw

TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@author.angieklove

Goodreads: https://www.goodreads.com/angieklove

Amazon: https://www.amazon.com/author/angieklove

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/angieklove/

website: https://www.angieklove.com/

email: angieklove.author@gmail.com

 

Great people, places, or things referenced during this episode:

Actor and Voice Narrator to the Awakening Hearts audio book - Helena Mueller

Alessandra Torre’s boot camps for writers- https://www.alessandratorreink.com

Books

Awakening Hearts: A Tale of Love Across Lifetimes: https://www.amazon.com/Awakening-Hearts-Tale-Across-Lifetimes/dp/B09L4HRWJR/

Save Me: https://www.amazon.com/Save-Me-Love-Pacific-Northwest-ebook/dp/B09CZ52ST9/

Wired for Love: https://www.amazon.com/Wired-Love-Understanding-Partners-Attachment-ebook/dp/B006HY0PH6/

Podcasts

We Can Do Hard Things with Glennon Doyle

Neil Sattin podcast interview with Stan Tatkin on attachment styles: https://www.neilsattin.com/blog/2015/12/19-recipe-for-a-secure-healthy-relationship-with-stan-tatkin/

 

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

Join us next episode and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Love and attachment: Souls don't discriminate by gender Angie K. Love, Jennifer Oliver Brown 00:58:25 Jen and Angie discuss stories of romantic love, beyond an idealized “you complete me” model of attraction between man and woman. Jen’s view on love expands as she admires the depth of connection between the lesbian characters in Angie's book. Can these varied love stories (fictional and real life) inspire greater possibilities in all of our relationships, regardless of where we land in gender identity or sexual orientation? Definitely. Jen and Angie discuss stories of romantic love, beyond an idealized “you complete me” model of attraction between man and woman. Jen’s view on love expands as she admires the depth of connection between the lesbian characters in Angie's book. Can these varied love stories (fictional and real life) inspire greater possibilities in all of our relationships, regardless of where we land in gender identity or sexual orientation? Definitely. #author, #femalepodcast, #healing, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #relationships, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #spirituality, #realconversations, #storytelling, #lgbtq false full 14 95905546-020d-456b-b75e-e59dc50fca4d Beliefs and Identity: the FIRST L4R podcast recording Our guests: Shannon Curtis and Jamie Hill

Shannon Curtis is an artist who works as a songwriter, singer, storyteller, speaker, and author. Her ninth studio album, entitled 2020101, was released on October 22, 2021.

Jamie Hill is an artist working at the intersection of music and community. He produces, mixes, and masters records for a wide variety of independent and alternative-music artists.

Shannon and Jamie happen to be madly in love, married, and living in the state of Washington.

Connect with Shannon and Jamie:

Websites: shannoncurtis.net  and  deptofenergymgmt.com

Instagram: @hilljam and @shannonkcurtis 

Facebook: facebook.com/hilljam and facebook.com/shannonkcurtis


Fantastic people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

  • Shannon and Jamie’s Misfit Stars podcast (this is the episode referenced in the conversation)
  • https://misfitstars.com/2020/02/19/i-didnt-get-murdered-on-todays-podcast-and-thats-something/
  • Fierce Conversations by Susan Scott (any Fierce book by Susan Scott!)

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram: @beingREALjen
Facebook: facebook.com/beingREALcommunity

Wondering how to find that cool theme music?   Zero by Shannon Curtis

Join us next episode and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters. And, if you believe that conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - even better, share this episode with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Fri, 14 Jan 2022 00:12:24 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Shannon Curtis, Jamie Hill, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guests: Shannon Curtis and Jamie Hill

Shannon Curtis is an artist who works as a songwriter, singer, storyteller, speaker, and author. Her ninth studio album, entitled 2020101, was released on October 22, 2021.

Jamie Hill is an artist working at the intersection of music and community. He produces, mixes, and masters records for a wide variety of independent and alternative-music artists.

Shannon and Jamie happen to be madly in love, married, and living in the state of Washington.

Connect with Shannon and Jamie:

Websites: shannoncurtis.net  and  deptofenergymgmt.com

Instagram: @hilljam and @shannonkcurtis 

Facebook: facebook.com/hilljam and facebook.com/shannonkcurtis


Fantastic people, places, or things we referenced during this episode:

  • Shannon and Jamie’s Misfit Stars podcast (this is the episode referenced in the conversation)
  • https://misfitstars.com/2020/02/19/i-didnt-get-murdered-on-todays-podcast-and-thats-something/
  • Fierce Conversations by Susan Scott (any Fierce book by Susan Scott!)

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram: @beingREALjen
Facebook: facebook.com/beingREALcommunity

Wondering how to find that cool theme music?   Zero by Shannon Curtis

Join us next episode and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters. And, if you believe that conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - even better, share this episode with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Beliefs and Identity: the FIRST L4R podcast recording Shannon Curtis, Jamie Hill, Jennifer Oliver Brown 00:55:43 This was the conversation that started it all….recorded in February 2020, weeks before life was altered by the pandemic. It is now being released because it is as relevant as ever. Jen discusses personal identity and core beliefs with dear friends and fellow podcasters and creators, Shannon Curtis and Jamie Hill. From lived experience to spiritual roots - these are three very different people having one beautiful conversation. Anyone who heard episode one of Listen for REAL knows that this couple played a major role in the launch of this podcast and the sense of community that Jen strives to create with her own work. This was the conversation that started it all….recorded in February 2020, weeks before life was altered by the pandemic. It is now being released because it is as relevant as ever. Jen discusses personal identity and core beliefs with dear friends and fellow podcasters and creators, Shannon Curtis and Jamie Hill. From lived experience to spiritual roots - these are three very different people having one beautiful conversation. Anyone who heard episode one of Listen for REAL knows that this couple played a major role in the launch of this podcast and the sense of community that Jen strives to create with her own work. #femalepodcast, #misfitstarspodcast, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 13 97c846c0-0d61-40d3-a8de-c9f752b56d06 Near death experience and near life decisions Our guest: Sean Smith, author, speaker, actor, poet, songwriter, and the owner of Elite Success Systems. He is dedicated to creating “neuro-transformation” in all areas of human behavior. Sean has produced over 3,000 articles, audio files, and video resources on topics related to success and leadership, with over 1,000,000 views on YouTube. He has spoken globally and was named “North America’s Next Greatest Speaker” in 2013.

Sean co-wrote, produced, and starred in a unique spoken-word, short film, Let’s Grow, about healing racism. He is also known for his gut-wrenching, one-man show, I Do, Mom.

“I am a father and husband first, speaker and coach second. I am thoroughly flawed, cracked and mired with as many internal blocks and challenges as the rest of us. I’m a recovering perfectionist, I have a PhD in procrastination, and I sabotage myself on a daily basis.

But, I am completely fascinated with figuring out this game of life, how the human mind works, why we hold ourselves back, and teaching other people what I learn along the way.

My main business obsession is helping entrepreneurs get rid of their fears, values conflicts, limiting beliefs and sabotaging patterns so they can live life with passion, presence and purpose.”

Connect with Sean:

www.Facebook.com/CoachSeanSmith
www.Instagram.com/CoachSeanSmith
www.YouTube.com/CoachSeanSmith
www.LinkedIn.com/in/CoachSeanSmith
www.CoachSeanSmith.com
Sean@CoachSeanSmith.com

Sean’s TEDxFolsom talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ruiPxhVDG4A&list=RDCMUCsT0YIqwnpJCM-mx7-gSA4Q&start_radio=1&rv=ruiPxhVDG4A&t=10

Sean’s critically acclaimed short film:  www.LetsGrowMovie.com

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

Join us next episode and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.


 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Wed, 5 Jan 2022 13:00:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Sean Smith, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: Sean Smith, author, speaker, actor, poet, songwriter, and the owner of Elite Success Systems. He is dedicated to creating “neuro-transformation” in all areas of human behavior. Sean has produced over 3,000 articles, audio files, and video resources on topics related to success and leadership, with over 1,000,000 views on YouTube. He has spoken globally and was named “North America’s Next Greatest Speaker” in 2013.

Sean co-wrote, produced, and starred in a unique spoken-word, short film, Let’s Grow, about healing racism. He is also known for his gut-wrenching, one-man show, I Do, Mom.

“I am a father and husband first, speaker and coach second. I am thoroughly flawed, cracked and mired with as many internal blocks and challenges as the rest of us. I’m a recovering perfectionist, I have a PhD in procrastination, and I sabotage myself on a daily basis.

But, I am completely fascinated with figuring out this game of life, how the human mind works, why we hold ourselves back, and teaching other people what I learn along the way.

My main business obsession is helping entrepreneurs get rid of their fears, values conflicts, limiting beliefs and sabotaging patterns so they can live life with passion, presence and purpose.”

Connect with Sean:

www.Facebook.com/CoachSeanSmith
www.Instagram.com/CoachSeanSmith
www.YouTube.com/CoachSeanSmith
www.LinkedIn.com/in/CoachSeanSmith
www.CoachSeanSmith.com
Sean@CoachSeanSmith.com

Sean’s TEDxFolsom talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ruiPxhVDG4A&list=RDCMUCsT0YIqwnpJCM-mx7-gSA4Q&start_radio=1&rv=ruiPxhVDG4A&t=10

Sean’s critically acclaimed short film:  www.LetsGrowMovie.com

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

Join us next episode and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.


 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Near death experience and near life decisions Sean Smith, Jennifer Oliver Brown 00:42:52 Sean tells the story of nearly being killed in an accident at age 13 - he was given the gift of survival and a vision for a long life of no regret or remorse. This leads Jen to open up and share her struggle with alcohol and recent decision to quit drinking. Many of us spend our lives trying to escape the present moment to get to the next one. Sean tells the story of nearly being killed in an accident at age 13 - he was given the gift of survival and a vision for a long life of no regret or remorse. This leads Jen to open up and share her struggle with alcohol and recent decision to quit drinking. Many of us spend our lives trying to escape the present moment to get to the next one. realconversations, #femalepodcast, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #interviews false full 12 0d2a83fc-c313-4566-a081-03054b52492c Racism: It's in the water and we're ALL wet Our guest: Sean Smith, author, speaker, actor, poet, songwriter, and the owner of Elite Success Systems. He is dedicated to creating “neuro-transformation” in all areas of human behavior. Sean has produced over 3,000 articles, audio files, and video resources on topics related to success and leadership, with over 1,000,000 views on YouTube. He has spoken globally and was named “North America’s Next Greatest Speaker” in 2013.

Sean co-wrote, produced, and starred in a unique spoken-word, short film, Let’s Grow, about healing racism. He is also known for his gut-wrenching, one-man show, I Do, Mom.

“I am a father and husband first, speaker and coach second. I am thoroughly flawed, cracked and mired with as many internal blocks and challenges as the rest of us. I’m a recovering perfectionist, I have a PhD in procrastination, and I sabotage myself on a daily basis.

But, I am completely fascinated with figuring out this game of life, how the human mind works, why we hold ourselves back, and teaching other people what I learn along the way.

My main business obsession is helping entrepreneurs get rid of their fears, values conflicts, limiting beliefs and sabotaging patterns so they can live life with passion, presence and purpose.”

Connect with Sean:

www.Facebook.com/CoachSeanSmith
www.Instagram.com/CoachSeanSmith
www.YouTube.com/CoachSeanSmith
www.LinkedIn.com/in/CoachSeanSmith
www.CoachSeanSmith.com
Sean@CoachSeanSmith.com

Sean’s TEDxFolsom talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ruiPxhVDG4A&list=RDCMUCsT0YIqwnpJCM-mx7-gSA4Q&start_radio=1&rv=ruiPxhVDG4A&t=10

Sean’s critically acclaimed short film:  www.LetsGrowMovie.com

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

Join us next episode and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.


 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Fri, 31 Dec 2021 01:30:28 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jennifer Oliver Brown, Sean Smith) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: Sean Smith, author, speaker, actor, poet, songwriter, and the owner of Elite Success Systems. He is dedicated to creating “neuro-transformation” in all areas of human behavior. Sean has produced over 3,000 articles, audio files, and video resources on topics related to success and leadership, with over 1,000,000 views on YouTube. He has spoken globally and was named “North America’s Next Greatest Speaker” in 2013.

Sean co-wrote, produced, and starred in a unique spoken-word, short film, Let’s Grow, about healing racism. He is also known for his gut-wrenching, one-man show, I Do, Mom.

“I am a father and husband first, speaker and coach second. I am thoroughly flawed, cracked and mired with as many internal blocks and challenges as the rest of us. I’m a recovering perfectionist, I have a PhD in procrastination, and I sabotage myself on a daily basis.

But, I am completely fascinated with figuring out this game of life, how the human mind works, why we hold ourselves back, and teaching other people what I learn along the way.

My main business obsession is helping entrepreneurs get rid of their fears, values conflicts, limiting beliefs and sabotaging patterns so they can live life with passion, presence and purpose.”

Connect with Sean:

www.Facebook.com/CoachSeanSmith
www.Instagram.com/CoachSeanSmith
www.YouTube.com/CoachSeanSmith
www.LinkedIn.com/in/CoachSeanSmith
www.CoachSeanSmith.com
Sean@CoachSeanSmith.com

Sean’s TEDxFolsom talk: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ruiPxhVDG4A&list=RDCMUCsT0YIqwnpJCM-mx7-gSA4Q&start_radio=1&rv=ruiPxhVDG4A&t=10

Sean’s critically acclaimed short film:  www.LetsGrowMovie.com

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

Join us next episode and until then…keep communicating, connecting, and listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.


 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Racism: It's in the water and we're ALL wet Jennifer Oliver Brown, Sean Smith 01:27:22 Sean and Jen discuss their white privilege and the idea that we are all influenced by racism if we live in the US. Sean created and delivered the epic TEDx talk, "Dear Racism, A Break-Up Letter from a White Man" - leading to this conversation, They explore the creative process, Divine downloads and sacred messages that need exposure and a willing vessel to evolve. Sean and Jen discuss their white privilege and the idea that we are all influenced by racism if we live in the US. Sean created and delivered the epic TEDx talk, "Dear Racism, A Break-Up Letter from a White Man" - leading to this conversation, They explore the creative process, Divine downloads and sacred messages that need exposure and a willing vessel to evolve. #femalepodcast, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #interviews false full 11 dc7b85d9-de9f-4596-9156-36de3ea729ac Women and inclusion: It's not a matter of optics - it's an imperative Our guest: Valerie Alexander is a renowned expert on workplace happiness and a leading voice on equity and inclusion. 

As a globally-recognized speaker on the topics of happiness, the advancement of women, and unconscious bias, her keynotes and workshops have entertained, trained and inspired lawyers, artists, truck drivers, doctors, investment bankers, software developers, homemakers, CEOs and countless others around the world.

Valerie’s books include:

plus several more she’s published in her trademarked “…as a Second Language” series.

Valerie started her career as a corporate securities lawyer, investment banker and Internet executive in the Silicon Valley, then transitioned to Hollywood, where she enjoyed success as a screenwriter and director.

In addition to inspiring audiences worldwide as a keynote speaker, Valerie writes Christmas movies for the Hallmark Channel, which she knows you secretly love, even though you’ll only admit to watching them with your mom.

Connect with Valerie: 

https://www.speakhappiness.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/speakhappiness-keynotespeaker/
 

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

Join us next episode and until then…keep speaking and definitely keep listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast. Even better, share it with someone else as a REALconversation starter.

 


 

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Thu, 23 Dec 2021 23:26:24 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Valerie Alexander, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: Valerie Alexander is a renowned expert on workplace happiness and a leading voice on equity and inclusion. 

As a globally-recognized speaker on the topics of happiness, the advancement of women, and unconscious bias, her keynotes and workshops have entertained, trained and inspired lawyers, artists, truck drivers, doctors, investment bankers, software developers, homemakers, CEOs and countless others around the world.

Valerie’s books include:

plus several more she’s published in her trademarked “…as a Second Language” series.

Valerie started her career as a corporate securities lawyer, investment banker and Internet executive in the Silicon Valley, then transitioned to Hollywood, where she enjoyed success as a screenwriter and director.

In addition to inspiring audiences worldwide as a keynote speaker, Valerie writes Christmas movies for the Hallmark Channel, which she knows you secretly love, even though you’ll only admit to watching them with your mom.

Connect with Valerie: 

https://www.speakhappiness.com/

https://www.linkedin.com/in/speakhappiness-keynotespeaker/
 

Connect with Jen:

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

Join us next episode and until then…keep speaking and definitely keep listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast. Even better, share it with someone else as a REALconversation starter.

 


 

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Women and inclusion: It's not a matter of optics - it's an imperative Valerie Alexander, Jennifer Oliver Brown 01:05:27 "You can't tell me it isn't raining outside, just because you're warm and dry indoors..." This is not your typical DEI conversation. Jen and Valerie talk bias and inequality with regard to women in the workplace - oh and newsflash? Hollywood is not as "progressive" as one would think in this regard. Women need to be in the room and influencing the decisions, period. "You can't tell me it isn't raining outside, just because you're warm and dry indoors..." This is not your typical DEI conversation. Jen and Valerie talk bias and inequality with regard to women in the workplace - oh and newsflash? Hollywood is not as "progressive" as one would think in this regard. Women need to be in the room and influencing the decisions, period. #femalepodcast, #outsmartbias, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #speakhappiness, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 10 81a792d1-09ba-4068-b4d2-2a6dc370e40b The power of y(our) stories: Jen gets personal Learn more about Tarana Burke at https://metoomvmt.org

Books referenced in this episode:

Unbound: My Story of Liberation and the Birth of the Me Too Movement

2021

You Are Your Best Thing: Vulnerability, Shame Resilience, and the Black Experience

2021

Connect with Jen!

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen


Join us next episode and until then…keep speaking. And even more…keep listening for REAL. It matters.

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter.


 


 


 


 


 


 


 

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About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Fri, 17 Dec 2021 02:47:42 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Learn more about Tarana Burke at https://metoomvmt.org

Books referenced in this episode:

Unbound: My Story of Liberation and the Birth of the Me Too Movement

2021

You Are Your Best Thing: Vulnerability, Shame Resilience, and the Black Experience

2021

Connect with Jen!

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen


Join us next episode and until then…keep speaking. And even more…keep listening for REAL. It matters.

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About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> The power of y(our) stories: Jen gets personal Jennifer Oliver Brown 00:23:17 Jen goes solo and declares that y(our) stories hold the power to change humanity. Audacious? Maybe, but our stories matter. Jen shares a chapter from her own life and also expands on the importance of listening deeply to others. She learned big things reading Tarana Burke's recent book including the stories behind the me too. organization and subsequent #metoo movement. Jen goes solo and declares that y(our) stories hold the power to change humanity. Audacious? Maybe, but our stories matter. Jen shares a chapter from her own life and also expands on the importance of listening deeply to others. She learned big things reading Tarana Burke's recent book including the stories behind the me too. organization and subsequent #metoo movement. #taranaburke, #femalepodcast, #metoo, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #y(our)storiesmatter, #humanityisananthology, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 9 090756b6-eff7-4348-ad3f-2c67a08ec313 Immigrants as humans not sound bites. Guests: Vanassa Hamra, Kerry Ham, and Jawad* (last name withheld) work with World Relief, a global Christian humanitarian organization whose mission is to empower the local church to serve the most vulnerable. They aim to tackle the world’s greatest problems with holistic, locally-driven solutions that lead to lasting change — whether in response to disasters, extreme poverty, violence, oppression or mass displacement and immigration. World Relief’s work in the United States, specifically, focuses on helping refugees and other immigrants in vulnerable situations rebuild their lives in a new country.

Connect, give, or volunteer with the World Relief team at www.worldrelief.org/sacramento.

Connect with Jen!

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Fri, 10 Dec 2021 16:36:45 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Vanassa Hamra, Kerry Ham, *Jawad) https://listenforreal.com Guests: Vanassa Hamra, Kerry Ham, and Jawad* (last name withheld) work with World Relief, a global Christian humanitarian organization whose mission is to empower the local church to serve the most vulnerable. They aim to tackle the world’s greatest problems with holistic, locally-driven solutions that lead to lasting change — whether in response to disasters, extreme poverty, violence, oppression or mass displacement and immigration. World Relief’s work in the United States, specifically, focuses on helping refugees and other immigrants in vulnerable situations rebuild their lives in a new country.

Connect, give, or volunteer with the World Relief team at www.worldrelief.org/sacramento.

Connect with Jen!

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Immigrants as humans not sound bites. Vanassa Hamra, Kerry Ham, *Jawad 00:59:10 Jen owns the callous and ignorant manner in which she tossed around terms like: immigrant, illegal, refugee, and asylum seeker. Her largely erroneous assertions led to this vital conversation recorded two years ago - pre-pandemic and in a different political climate. We were determined to finally broadcast this episode because the topic is forever relevant. Jen asks questions of herself and of a pervasive, cultural narrative around immigration - chatting with three people who know of what they speak. Vanassa and Kerry share openly about their relationships with the faces and souls behind these terms and Jawad* (a SIV/Special Immigration Visa holder) provides his harrowing, real world experience fighting terrorism alongside US forces. Jen owns the callous and ignorant manner in which she tossed around terms like: immigrant, illegal, refugee, and asylum seeker. Her largely erroneous assertions led to this vital conversation recorded two years ago - pre-pandemic and in a different political climate. We were determined to finally broadcast this episode because the topic is forever relevant. Jen asks questions of herself and of a pervasive, cultural narrative around immigration - chatting with three people who know of what they speak. Vanassa and Kerry share openly about their relationships with the faces and souls behind these terms and Jawad* (a SIV/Special Immigration Visa holder) provides his harrowing, real world experience fighting terrorism alongside US forces. #femalepodcast, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #immigration, #interviews, #realconversations false full 8 ee7afa12-1ebd-4254-97a6-80179987d9a2 Self-love vs. Self-destruction Our guest: Kim Stevens works as a licensed holistic therapist, specializing in trauma healing, dance & movement therapy, Neuro-emotional Technique (NET), and Buddhist psychology. 

One of her main passions and purposes is supporting others in releasing limiting beliefs and owning their power, creativity and sense of worthiness. She guides others in the process of learning how to feel their feelings in the most empowering, freeing and effective way possible. 

Connect with Kim on Instagram and TikTok @DanceFreedomBeauty

Kim Stevens can also be found on Facebook and YouTube.

Connect with Jen!

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Wed, 1 Dec 2021 22:11:06 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Kim Stevens, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: Kim Stevens works as a licensed holistic therapist, specializing in trauma healing, dance & movement therapy, Neuro-emotional Technique (NET), and Buddhist psychology. 

One of her main passions and purposes is supporting others in releasing limiting beliefs and owning their power, creativity and sense of worthiness. She guides others in the process of learning how to feel their feelings in the most empowering, freeing and effective way possible. 

Connect with Kim on Instagram and TikTok @DanceFreedomBeauty

Kim Stevens can also be found on Facebook and YouTube.

Connect with Jen!

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Self-love vs. Self-destruction Kim Stevens, Jennifer Oliver Brown 00:56:49 Invest 90 seconds into feeling something now OR stuff it and foster a lifetime of neuroses- good times! Jen and Kim discuss love of self as a prerequisite to loving others. It's not hippy, self-indulgent, or weird...it's essential. We expand into eating disorders and other process addictions. Invest 90 seconds into feeling something now OR stuff it and foster a lifetime of neuroses- good times! Jen and Kim discuss love of self as a prerequisite to loving others. It's not hippy, self-indulgent, or weird...it's essential. We expand into eating disorders and other process addictions. #self-love, #femalepodcast, #eatingdisorders, #processaddiction, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 7 ea03b90b-6b80-484b-8655-88eaf3bed642 The episode that became a therapy session...sorta Our guest: Kim Stevens works as a licensed holistic therapist, specializing in trauma healing, dance & movement therapy, Neuro-emotional Technique (NET), and Buddhist psychology. 

One of her main passions and purposes is supporting others in releasing limiting beliefs and owning their power, creativity and sense of worthiness. She guides others in the process of learning how to feel their feelings in the most empowering, freeing and effective way possible. 

Connect with Kim on Instagram and TikTok @DanceFreedomBeauty

Kim Stevens can also be found on Facebook and YouTube.

Connect with Jen!

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Wed, 24 Nov 2021 13:00:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Kim Stevens, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: Kim Stevens works as a licensed holistic therapist, specializing in trauma healing, dance & movement therapy, Neuro-emotional Technique (NET), and Buddhist psychology. 

One of her main passions and purposes is supporting others in releasing limiting beliefs and owning their power, creativity and sense of worthiness. She guides others in the process of learning how to feel their feelings in the most empowering, freeing and effective way possible. 

Connect with Kim on Instagram and TikTok @DanceFreedomBeauty

Kim Stevens can also be found on Facebook and YouTube.

Connect with Jen!

email: Jennifer@beingREAL.me

website: www.beingREAL.me

Instagram @beingREALjen
 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> The episode that became a therapy session...sorta Kim Stevens, Jennifer Oliver Brown 00:53:15 Jen and Kim flesh out trauma, boundaries, and feelings - plus a whole lot more. Kim is a highly sensitive human (and therapist) who feels everything - while Jen explains living disconnected from her body and soul much of her adult life. Jen and Kim flesh out trauma, boundaries, and feelings - plus a whole lot more. Kim is a highly sensitive human (and therapist) who feels everything - while Jen explains living disconnected from her body and soul much of her adult life. #femalepodcast, #net, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #therapy, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 6 df17e5b2-0fc2-4939-a494-d6edc3db6d0d Overwhelm meets her problem-solving guru Our guest: Amanda Doucette  a.k.a “The Tax Chick” -  a tax lawyer practicing in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan. She is the host of “The Tax Chick Podcast” and the founder of “The Tax Chick Blog”
Email: thetaxchickpodcast@gmail.com
Instagram @tax.chick
LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/amanda-doucette-tep-83a9ab51/?originalSubdomain=ca
Website: www.shtb-law.com
Blog: https://taxchickca.wordpress.com/
Podcast: https://thetaxchickpodcast.transistor.fm/
(Also available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Podbean, Pocketcast, and Amazon
Music)

BIO: Amanda Doucette is a problem solver who loves showcasing the human side of professional careers. In her day job she is a lawyer, helping her clients navigate the complex world of income tax, GST, and employment insurance.

Her passion is helping people navigate problems that seem insurmountable and empowering them so they feel in control of their business and decision-making. She truly believes tax is fun and aims to help her clients feel more confident in their tax situations, helping them understand relevant laws so they can avoid future issues.

Amanda dispels misinformation by talking to clients in plain English and carefully explaining all the angles regarding their situation. It's important to her that her clients feel validated and motivated to take action. She also focuses on providing a collaborative approach to succession and estate planning, bringing together a variety of experts, including lawyers, accountants, bookkeepers, financial advisors, insurance advisors, and internal controllers to develop and implement customized solutions for her clients.

In 2020, Amanda launched The Tax Chick Blog and the Tax Chick Podcast, each aimed at educating audiences about tax and estate planning issues. Both the blog and podcast allow her to take part in curious conversations, learn new things while educating others, and laugh.

In addition to The Tax Chick Podcast, Amanda has appeared as a guest on The Swell’Cast Podcast, The Life Resume, Fit to Practice and Lawyerpreneur Podcast.  She was also a co-author of the Amazon best-selling book “Pursuit:365”, a book celebrating Canadian women in the pursuit of happiness, success and fulfillment.

She has been featured in The Wellness Esquire and is a regular contributor to Fresh Magazine.

When she is not practicing, talking about, or writing about tax law, Amanda loves baking, spin class, and Pilates.

Connect with Jen:

Website: www.beingREAL.me

Jen’s Instagram: @beingREALjen

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Thu, 18 Nov 2021 05:24:27 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Amanda Doucette, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: Amanda Doucette  a.k.a “The Tax Chick” -  a tax lawyer practicing in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan. She is the host of “The Tax Chick Podcast” and the founder of “The Tax Chick Blog”
Email: thetaxchickpodcast@gmail.com
Instagram @tax.chick
LinkedIn:
https://www.linkedin.com/in/amanda-doucette-tep-83a9ab51/?originalSubdomain=ca
Website: www.shtb-law.com
Blog: https://taxchickca.wordpress.com/
Podcast: https://thetaxchickpodcast.transistor.fm/
(Also available on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, Podbean, Pocketcast, and Amazon
Music)

BIO: Amanda Doucette is a problem solver who loves showcasing the human side of professional careers. In her day job she is a lawyer, helping her clients navigate the complex world of income tax, GST, and employment insurance.

Her passion is helping people navigate problems that seem insurmountable and empowering them so they feel in control of their business and decision-making. She truly believes tax is fun and aims to help her clients feel more confident in their tax situations, helping them understand relevant laws so they can avoid future issues.

Amanda dispels misinformation by talking to clients in plain English and carefully explaining all the angles regarding their situation. It's important to her that her clients feel validated and motivated to take action. She also focuses on providing a collaborative approach to succession and estate planning, bringing together a variety of experts, including lawyers, accountants, bookkeepers, financial advisors, insurance advisors, and internal controllers to develop and implement customized solutions for her clients.

In 2020, Amanda launched The Tax Chick Blog and the Tax Chick Podcast, each aimed at educating audiences about tax and estate planning issues. Both the blog and podcast allow her to take part in curious conversations, learn new things while educating others, and laugh.

In addition to The Tax Chick Podcast, Amanda has appeared as a guest on The Swell’Cast Podcast, The Life Resume, Fit to Practice and Lawyerpreneur Podcast.  She was also a co-author of the Amazon best-selling book “Pursuit:365”, a book celebrating Canadian women in the pursuit of happiness, success and fulfillment.

She has been featured in The Wellness Esquire and is a regular contributor to Fresh Magazine.

When she is not practicing, talking about, or writing about tax law, Amanda loves baking, spin class, and Pilates.

Connect with Jen:

Website: www.beingREAL.me

Jen’s Instagram: @beingREALjen

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Overwhelm meets her problem-solving guru Amanda Doucette, Jennifer Oliver Brown 00:50:29 Jen admits her tendency toward overwhelm and occasional tantrums when "things don't go right" - while Amanda provides methodical, constructive guidance with her #icann method of problem solving. These two couldn't be more different when it comes to life and career choices, but what a conversation! Jen admits her tendency toward overwhelm and occasional tantrums when "things don't go right" - while Amanda provides methodical, constructive guidance with her #icann method of problem solving. These two couldn't be more different when it comes to life and career choices, but what a conversation! #femalepodcast, #blog, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #womensupportingwomen, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations, #tax false full 5 4c5a789d-9a09-4c03-98bb-15a908e37d57 Feminism and the patriarchy? New input for the echo chamber Our guest: Julie Gohring is a feminine leadership & sales coach. She teaches women how to radically shift their mindset so they can be more effective in selling and bring forth their natural feminine superpowers to find more freedom & fun in sales. She is also the creator of the Selling is FeminineTM Selling Framework delivered in her Selling Is FeminineTM Live Training Course.

Julie graduated from UC Davis with a BS in Biology and has been selling for over 30 years and coaching women for the last 10 years. Her teachings are informed by her 1000’s of sales experiences across different industries including Fortune 500 companies, Pharmaceutical & Bio Tech Giants and for her own business.

One of her core teachings, contrary to the common idea that selling is competitive and aggressive, is that the most successful selling is always grounded in connecting and caring for your client and this fact makes women naturally gifted at sales.

When she’s not sharing her passion for the feminine rising in sales, she spends her time surfing, meandering the beach at sunset, and listening to the monkeys howl at her home in Costa Rica.

 

Jen’s website:

www.beingREAL.me

Jen’s Instagram:

@beingREALjen

Julie's contact info:

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Wed, 10 Nov 2021 15:53:13 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Julie Gohring, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Our guest: Julie Gohring is a feminine leadership & sales coach. She teaches women how to radically shift their mindset so they can be more effective in selling and bring forth their natural feminine superpowers to find more freedom & fun in sales. She is also the creator of the Selling is FeminineTM Selling Framework delivered in her Selling Is FeminineTM Live Training Course.

Julie graduated from UC Davis with a BS in Biology and has been selling for over 30 years and coaching women for the last 10 years. Her teachings are informed by her 1000’s of sales experiences across different industries including Fortune 500 companies, Pharmaceutical & Bio Tech Giants and for her own business.

One of her core teachings, contrary to the common idea that selling is competitive and aggressive, is that the most successful selling is always grounded in connecting and caring for your client and this fact makes women naturally gifted at sales.

When she’s not sharing her passion for the feminine rising in sales, she spends her time surfing, meandering the beach at sunset, and listening to the monkeys howl at her home in Costa Rica.

 

Jen’s website:

www.beingREAL.me

Jen’s Instagram:

@beingREALjen

Julie's contact info:

 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Feminism and the patriarchy? New input for the echo chamber Julie Gohring, Jennifer Oliver Brown 00:49:22 Jen confesses her ignorance regarding feminism, patriarchy, misogyny and other big words that she pretty much ignored or misjudged. Julie Gohring is a progressive thinker and feminist focused on human rights and equality. A random question about “mansplaining” brought them together and it has led to many REAL conversations since… Jen confesses her ignorance regarding feminism, patriarchy, misogyny and other big words that she pretty much ignored or misjudged. Julie Gohring is a progressive thinker and feminist focused on human rights and equality. A random question about “mansplaining” brought them together and it has led to many REAL conversations since… #femalepodcast, #sellingisfeminine, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 4 5fa2b314-3b1d-45ae-931e-6a60b9c07fad Marriage: lifetime covenant OR lease option? (part 2 with Staci Bartley) Jen’s website:

www.beingREAL.me

Jen’s Instagram:

@beingREALjen

Our guest for this episode:

Staci Bartley, Relationship Expert

Guest Bio: 

After more than 25 years of  personal struggle, shame, and guilt...I can honestly say I'm proud of my messy past. Because, it has given me the wisdom, knowledge, and the gifts to contribute to my clients. Trust me when I say I've lived many of the struggles that I now support and mentor my clients through. Including losing my dad at the age of 7, becoming a mom at 17, going through 2 divorces, and raising 6 children as a single mom. (Yes, I have a PhD in the school of life! In addition to my PhD- I am an Integrated Therapist, as well as a Divorce Mediator -incase you were needing some formal credentials too.:)

I empower couples and individuals from around the world to embrace their humanness, and love full out with NO regrets. We are not broken, we have just never been taught how to "do" relationships. This NOT knowing allows us to leverage and manipulate ourselves and our partners in the name of LOVE. It's time to stop spreading the lies and romantic stories that are just that: falsehoods and storybook fantasies that make us feel like we aren't good enough. Because the truth is: creating Love For A Lifetime looks nothing like fairy tales and movies.

If you're looking to really understand how relationships work, and learn real skills you can use for the rest of your life from a person who has LIVED what you're going through, then you can stop searching, because you've finally found the help you've been looking for.

Staci’s website:

https://stacibartley.com
 

Staci’s podcast and radio show:

https://stacibartley.com/podcast/

Staci’s Instagram:

@stacibartley

The origin story of Listen for REAL and the change we seek to create:

I am described as a white, cisgendered, straight-identifying, American-born woman with a history of Christian and conservative influences. My lived experience is one of solid economic security and educational privilege. This is the lens through which I viewed life  for the majority of my adult years - and it created a comfortable echo chamber where “my existing views were neatly reinforced and alternative ideas were rarely considered…”

I decided to pursue meaningful work, passion projects, and relationships that would serve as an antidote to the echo chamber. This podcast is part of that work.

Rather than put people in stereotypical  “boxes” -  I want to grow more curious and openminded and this means listening deeply to another person’s story, especially those who differ from me. It means challenging my old paradigms and assumptions.

I pursue this on a public platform because I want to see this mindset catch fire in our culture. We want to spur listeners toward healthy, candid conversations, and deep LISTENING with and for the people  in their lives and especially those whom they don’t know.

I am hopeful that the “antidote to the echo chamber” becomes a mantra for others - creating profound change. Thanks for being a part of this vision! -Jen 
 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Wed, 3 Nov 2021 22:09:30 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Staci Bartley, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Jen’s website:

www.beingREAL.me

Jen’s Instagram:

@beingREALjen

Our guest for this episode:

Staci Bartley, Relationship Expert

Guest Bio: 

After more than 25 years of  personal struggle, shame, and guilt...I can honestly say I'm proud of my messy past. Because, it has given me the wisdom, knowledge, and the gifts to contribute to my clients. Trust me when I say I've lived many of the struggles that I now support and mentor my clients through. Including losing my dad at the age of 7, becoming a mom at 17, going through 2 divorces, and raising 6 children as a single mom. (Yes, I have a PhD in the school of life! In addition to my PhD- I am an Integrated Therapist, as well as a Divorce Mediator -incase you were needing some formal credentials too.:)

I empower couples and individuals from around the world to embrace their humanness, and love full out with NO regrets. We are not broken, we have just never been taught how to "do" relationships. This NOT knowing allows us to leverage and manipulate ourselves and our partners in the name of LOVE. It's time to stop spreading the lies and romantic stories that are just that: falsehoods and storybook fantasies that make us feel like we aren't good enough. Because the truth is: creating Love For A Lifetime looks nothing like fairy tales and movies.

If you're looking to really understand how relationships work, and learn real skills you can use for the rest of your life from a person who has LIVED what you're going through, then you can stop searching, because you've finally found the help you've been looking for.

Staci’s website:

https://stacibartley.com
 

Staci’s podcast and radio show:

https://stacibartley.com/podcast/

Staci’s Instagram:

@stacibartley

The origin story of Listen for REAL and the change we seek to create:

I am described as a white, cisgendered, straight-identifying, American-born woman with a history of Christian and conservative influences. My lived experience is one of solid economic security and educational privilege. This is the lens through which I viewed life  for the majority of my adult years - and it created a comfortable echo chamber where “my existing views were neatly reinforced and alternative ideas were rarely considered…”

I decided to pursue meaningful work, passion projects, and relationships that would serve as an antidote to the echo chamber. This podcast is part of that work.

Rather than put people in stereotypical  “boxes” -  I want to grow more curious and openminded and this means listening deeply to another person’s story, especially those who differ from me. It means challenging my old paradigms and assumptions.

I pursue this on a public platform because I want to see this mindset catch fire in our culture. We want to spur listeners toward healthy, candid conversations, and deep LISTENING with and for the people  in their lives and especially those whom they don’t know.

I am hopeful that the “antidote to the echo chamber” becomes a mantra for others - creating profound change. Thanks for being a part of this vision! -Jen 
 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

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]]> Marriage: lifetime covenant OR lease option? (part 2 with Staci Bartley) Staci Bartley, Jennifer Oliver Brown 00:39:11 Jen embarks on a second episode with her friend and relationship guru, Staci Bartley, to discuss the institution of marriage over history (shocking!) and the origin of the shame and guilt often attributed to the marriage narrative. As you may recall from their first episode, Jen admits her view on marriage has been limited - the "holy grail and right way” being a long term, contract/covenantal marriage. Staci brings a new perspective stating that relationships may be better under a “lease option” scenario. A definite #antidotetotheechochamber kind of episode. Jen embarks on a second episode with her friend and relationship guru, Staci Bartley, to discuss the institution of marriage over history (shocking!) and the origin of the shame and guilt often attributed to the marriage narrative. As you may recall from their first episode, Jen admits her view on marriage has been limited - the "holy grail and right way” being a long term, contract/covenantal marriage. Staci brings a new perspective stating that relationships may be better under a “lease option” scenario. A definite #antidotetotheechochamber kind of episode. #loveforalifetime, #femalepodcast, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 3 b235f156-1fbf-46e8-bc37-e8b06626aacb Marriage: lifetime covenant OR lease option? Jen’s website:

www.beingREAL.me

Jen’s Instagram:

@beingREALjen

Our guest for this episode:

Staci Bartley, Relationship Expert

Guest Bio: 

After more than 25 years of  personal struggle, shame, and guilt...I can honestly say I'm proud of my messy past. Because, it has given me the wisdom, knowledge, and the gifts to contribute to my clients. Trust me when I say I've lived many of the struggles that I now support and mentor my clients through. Including losing my dad at the age of 7, becoming a mom at 17, going through 2 divorces, and raising 6 children as a single mom. (Yes, I have a PhD in the school of life! In addition to my PhD- I am an Integrated Therapist, as well as a Divorce Mediator -incase you were needing some formal credentials too.:)

I empower couples and individuals from around the world to embrace their humanness, and love full out with NO regrets. We are not broken, we have just never been taught how to "do" relationships. This NOT knowing allows us to leverage and manipulate ourselves and our partners in the name of LOVE. It's time to stop spreading the lies and romantic stories that are just that: falsehoods and storybook fantasies that make us feel like we aren't good enough. Because the truth is: creating Love For A Lifetime looks nothing like fairy tales and movies.

If you're looking to really understand how relationships work, and learn real skills you can use for the rest of your life from a person who has LIVED what you're going through, then you can stop searching, because you've finally found the help you've been looking for.

Staci’s website:

https://stacibartley.com
 

Staci’s podcast and radio show:

https://stacibartley.com/podcast/

Staci’s Instagram:

@stacibartley

The origin story of Listen for REAL and the change we seek to create:

I am described as a white, cisgendered, straight-identifying, American-born woman with a history of Christian and conservative influences. My lived experience is one of solid economic security and educational privilege. This is the lens through which I viewed life  for the majority of my adult years - and it created a comfortable echo chamber where “my existing views were neatly reinforced and alternative ideas were rarely considered…”

I decided to pursue meaningful work, passion projects, and relationships that would serve as an antidote to the echo chamber. This podcast is part of that work.

Rather than put people in stereotypical  “boxes” -  I want to grow more curious and openminded and this means listening deeply to another person’s story, especially those who differ from me. It means challenging my old paradigms and assumptions.

I pursue this on a public platform because I want to see this mindset catch fire in our culture. We want to spur listeners toward healthy, candid conversations, and deep LISTENING with and for the people  in their lives and especially those whom they don’t know.

I am hopeful that the “antidote to the echo chamber” becomes a mantra for others - creating profound change. Thanks for being a part of this vision!


 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Mon, 25 Oct 2021 17:24:00 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Staci Bartley, Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com Jen’s website:

www.beingREAL.me

Jen’s Instagram:

@beingREALjen

Our guest for this episode:

Staci Bartley, Relationship Expert

Guest Bio: 

After more than 25 years of  personal struggle, shame, and guilt...I can honestly say I'm proud of my messy past. Because, it has given me the wisdom, knowledge, and the gifts to contribute to my clients. Trust me when I say I've lived many of the struggles that I now support and mentor my clients through. Including losing my dad at the age of 7, becoming a mom at 17, going through 2 divorces, and raising 6 children as a single mom. (Yes, I have a PhD in the school of life! In addition to my PhD- I am an Integrated Therapist, as well as a Divorce Mediator -incase you were needing some formal credentials too.:)

I empower couples and individuals from around the world to embrace their humanness, and love full out with NO regrets. We are not broken, we have just never been taught how to "do" relationships. This NOT knowing allows us to leverage and manipulate ourselves and our partners in the name of LOVE. It's time to stop spreading the lies and romantic stories that are just that: falsehoods and storybook fantasies that make us feel like we aren't good enough. Because the truth is: creating Love For A Lifetime looks nothing like fairy tales and movies.

If you're looking to really understand how relationships work, and learn real skills you can use for the rest of your life from a person who has LIVED what you're going through, then you can stop searching, because you've finally found the help you've been looking for.

Staci’s website:

https://stacibartley.com
 

Staci’s podcast and radio show:

https://stacibartley.com/podcast/

Staci’s Instagram:

@stacibartley

The origin story of Listen for REAL and the change we seek to create:

I am described as a white, cisgendered, straight-identifying, American-born woman with a history of Christian and conservative influences. My lived experience is one of solid economic security and educational privilege. This is the lens through which I viewed life  for the majority of my adult years - and it created a comfortable echo chamber where “my existing views were neatly reinforced and alternative ideas were rarely considered…”

I decided to pursue meaningful work, passion projects, and relationships that would serve as an antidote to the echo chamber. This podcast is part of that work.

Rather than put people in stereotypical  “boxes” -  I want to grow more curious and openminded and this means listening deeply to another person’s story, especially those who differ from me. It means challenging my old paradigms and assumptions.

I pursue this on a public platform because I want to see this mindset catch fire in our culture. We want to spur listeners toward healthy, candid conversations, and deep LISTENING with and for the people  in their lives and especially those whom they don’t know.

I am hopeful that the “antidote to the echo chamber” becomes a mantra for others - creating profound change. Thanks for being a part of this vision!


 

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Marriage: lifetime covenant OR lease option? Staci Bartley, Jennifer Oliver Brown 00:55:42 Jen hosts friend and relationship guru, Staci Bartley, to discuss marriage and a whole new perspective on long term happiness. Both women talk candidly about their own marriages (past and present) and the idea that a successful marriage is not limited to the one model that Jen held dear for the past 5 decades. Staci proposes questions such as, "Is it possible that our concept of marriage is dead since it does not guarantee the life and outcome many of us (including Jen) crave?" Jen hosts friend and relationship guru, Staci Bartley, to discuss marriage and a whole new perspective on long term happiness. Both women talk candidly about their own marriages (past and present) and the idea that a successful marriage is not limited to the one model that Jen held dear for the past 5 decades. Staci proposes questions such as, "Is it possible that our concept of marriage is dead since it does not guarantee the life and outcome many of us (including Jen) crave?" #loveforalifetime, #femalepodcast, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #interviews, #realconversations false full 2 6a10aca7-ecee-4e3a-8e93-2823317a9577 Why Listen for REAL? The origin story of Listen for REAL and the change we seek to create:

I am described as a white, cisgendered, straight-identifying, American-born woman with a history of Christian and conservative influences. My lived experience is one of solid economic security and educational privilege. This is the lens through which I viewed life  for the majority of my adult years - and it created a comfortable echo chamber where “my existing views were neatly reinforced and alternative ideas were rarely considered…”

I decided to pursue meaningful work, passion projects, and relationships that would serve as an antidote to the echo chamber. This podcast is part of that work.

Rather than put people in stereotypical  “boxes” -  I want to grow more curious and openminded and this means listening deeply to another person’s story, especially those who differ from me. It means challenging my old paradigms and assumptions.

I pursue this on a public platform because I want to see this mindset catch fire in our culture. We want to spur listeners toward healthy, candid conversations, and deep LISTENING with and for the people  in their lives and especially those whom they don’t know.

I am hopeful that the “antidote to the echo chamber” becomes a mantra for others - creating profound change. Thanks for being a part of this vision! -Jen

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Fri, 20 Aug 2021 05:45:02 +0000 jennifer@beingREAL.me (Jennifer Oliver Brown) https://listenforreal.com The origin story of Listen for REAL and the change we seek to create:

I am described as a white, cisgendered, straight-identifying, American-born woman with a history of Christian and conservative influences. My lived experience is one of solid economic security and educational privilege. This is the lens through which I viewed life  for the majority of my adult years - and it created a comfortable echo chamber where “my existing views were neatly reinforced and alternative ideas were rarely considered…”

I decided to pursue meaningful work, passion projects, and relationships that would serve as an antidote to the echo chamber. This podcast is part of that work.

Rather than put people in stereotypical  “boxes” -  I want to grow more curious and openminded and this means listening deeply to another person’s story, especially those who differ from me. It means challenging my old paradigms and assumptions.

I pursue this on a public platform because I want to see this mindset catch fire in our culture. We want to spur listeners toward healthy, candid conversations, and deep LISTENING with and for the people  in their lives and especially those whom they don’t know.

I am hopeful that the “antidote to the echo chamber” becomes a mantra for others - creating profound change. Thanks for being a part of this vision! -Jen

About Jen Oliver:

Jen Oliver is a speaker, podcaster, and communications coach - equipping people to speak with greater impact and presence. Whether you are speaking on stage, promoting your brand, or voicing your needs in a relationship - communicating with your truest voice and cultivating human connection with your audience is the key to influence. Jen coaches individuals privately and within her Signature group programs - in addition to delivering workshops as a guest expert in a variety of settings. 

 

Jen serves as a 4-season Executive Producer, Director of Curation, and Speaker Coach for TEDxFolsom. She is a committed force behind WomanSpeak™ - an internationally recognized body of work teaching the art and soul of public speaking. Jen is on a mission to support 1 million women as they speak with uncommon levels of freedom and confidence. Tap into more at 

REALjenoliver.com

email: jen@REALjenoliver.com

podcast website: ListenForREAL.com

90-day TEDx Talk ACCELERATOR

WomanSpeak™

website: REALJenOliver.com

LinkedIn:@thejenoliver

Instagram: @realjenoliver

Facebook: @jen.oliver.806001

If you believe conversations like these belong in the world, please subscribe, rate & review this podcast - and even better, share it with someone else as a REAL conversation starter. Subscribe to all things Jen at REALJenOliver.

]]> Why Listen for REAL? Jennifer Oliver Brown 00:15:20 Jen talks candidly about why she created this podcast; from the embarrassing truth of being called out on social media to recognizing and owning her own limited viewpoints. Jen talks candidly about why she created this podcast; from the embarrassing truth of being called out on social media to recognizing and owning her own limited viewpoints. misfitstars.com, #femalepodcast, #antidotetotheechochamber, #beingreal, #beingrealjen, #realconversations false full 1