Kingdom Man

God's Love

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 6 Oct 2025 09:00:00 +0000

This episode is taken from a recent sermon when I was asked to speak at a friend's church. The audio was taken from a Facebook Live video and the quality leaves a lot to be desired, but the content I thought was worth sharing.

5 Things I Think You Should Know

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 7 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Having been around for 40+ years, this episode highlights some important life lessons I have learned and thought it would be beneficial to share.

Friends

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 10 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode we discuss the importance of having friends and why having only a couple of friends may be best.

Take a Breather

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 10 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode we discuss the importance of breathing and how it has a wide assortment of health benefits.

Does Knowledge Equal Power

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 3 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000

Did you grown up hearing the quote that "knowledge is power." Do you believe that? In this episode we will discuss this a bit more.

Practical Leadership

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 27 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000

We talk about leading your family all the time. In this episode we discuss some practical steps that you can use to do just that.

The Comeback

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 20 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000

We're back. After a brief break, we have doubled down our efforts to make 2025 a strong year for the podcast.

Persist

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 5 Feb 2024 15:25:39 +0000

How far are you willing to go? There are plenty of excuses to give up, but the actual reason to keep going comes from who you are and who you really want to be.

To the Limit

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 13 Nov 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Do you know where your limits are? Can you handle the stress and be the hero, or crumble under the weight and become the coward. We are capable of being both, so how do you know which you will be?

What Do You Do When You Don't Know What to Do

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Thu, 31 Aug 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Whether you have nothing to do, or no idea what you should do, this episode is for you.

How to Have Hope

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Thu, 10 Aug 2023 11:00:00 +0000

In an ever increasing environment of hopelessness, kingdom men should be beacons of hope. But it doesn't happen by just wishing things were better. Hope is the outcome of the work you put in.

Risk is the Path to Success

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Thu, 3 Aug 2023 12:06:58 +0000

In this episode we talk about avoidance of risk and how it doesn't lead to where you want to be. Sometimes you have to risk it for the biscuit.

Make It Happen

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 6 Mar 2023 12:00:00 +0000

What are you doing to be a better man than you were yesterday? This episode we discuss my journey to do just that and the lessons I am learning along the way.

5 Simple Steps to Crushing This Year!

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 23 Jan 2023 12:00:00 +0000

In this episode we discuss how to make this year your year! We discussed some of our previous episodes that you can find below as well as some information we found on PACE planning that you can utilize. Learning to Make Plans: https://kingdom-man.simplecast.com/episodes/how-to-avoid-failure Leaning from Failure: https://kingdom-man.simplecast.com/episodes/failure-is-not-final PACE information: https://youtu.be/duaMIboAvNM

The Most Valuable Gift You Can Afford

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 19 Dec 2022 12:30:00 +0000

Money can come and go, along with all the things it can purchase. However, your time is finite. You cannot save it for later. Don't waste it. Invest it where it matters most.

Know Your Rights!

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 14 Nov 2022 12:00:00 +0000

Do you know what your rights really are? There are plenty of people who will tell you all about so called "rights," but which ones are legit?

Would You Want You to Come to Your Rescue?

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 7 Nov 2022 12:00:00 +0000

This episode is a simple one that will require way more action than it does time to listen. The question is, would you want you to come to your rescue. Are you the kind of person that would meet the ideal description of someone who could help?

The Importance of Mentors

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 26 Sep 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Do you know who your mentors are? How do you define mentoring? In this episode we discuss these questions and more as well as why you need to be a mentor.

Choosing Adversity

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 12 Sep 2022 11:00:00 +0000

"Strength is only gained through adversity." It's more than a motivational saying, it's what we believe. Grow stronger by adversity or allow it to weigh you down. The choice is yours.

Killing Your Ghost

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 22 Aug 2022 11:00:00 +0000

If you want to level up, then you have to be able to kill your ghost...everyday! In this episode we discuss what that means and how you can use competition to make your better.

Finish Strong

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 15 Aug 2022 11:00:00 +0000

"It's not how you start. It's how you finish." Wise words that we need to keep in mind today.

Why Jesus?

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 1 Aug 2022 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode we discuss how important it is to know why you believe what you believe and that believing isn't enough! This is a good one.

Leadership is the Lid

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 25 Jul 2022 11:00:00 +0000

This episode we discuss the actual 1st law of the 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership, The Law of the Lid. John Maxwell was a major influence on my leadership development that extends back to when I was 16 years old.

Your Attitude Determines Your Altitude

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Tue, 19 Jul 2022 00:32:18 +0000

One of the best indicators of potential is less about the skills you have rather than the attitude you carry.

How to Argue Without Fighting

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 11 Jul 2022 11:30:00 +0000

With recent Supreme Court rulings that have emerged, there has been an increase in people sharing their feelings online. This episode will give you some rules to follow to play along.

A Maskless Society

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 4 Jul 2022 13:45:08 +0000

In this episode we discuss the importance of being genuine and the difficulty we face by trying to be genuine.

Real Life and Real Hard Choices

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Tue, 14 Jun 2022 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode James Russell discusses how he has had to put to the test the lessons discussed from Episodes 1 & 2, by doing hard things.

The Kingdom Man's Role in Marriage

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 30 May 2022 12:00:00 +0000

In this episode we discuss the difference between mature and immature men and how they lead their wives.

The Kingdom Man's Political Role

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 23 May 2022 11:15:00 +0000

In this episode we talk about politics. What it is, what it was and what it should be. More importantly we discuss what role you should have in regards to politics.

3 Lesson Every Man Should Know

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 9 May 2022 12:44:28 +0000

In this episode we discuss life lessons that will set you apart from most of the guys around you.

Should You Always Keep Your Word?

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 2 May 2022 11:30:00 +0000

In this episode we discuss the Biblical account of Jephthah and the vow he made to God and how that panned out for him.

Peacemaker vs Peacekeeper

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 25 Apr 2022 13:00:00 +0000

In this episode we discuss differences in the one who makes peace and the one who attempts to keep the peace. And they are very different.

How to Avoid Failure

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 18 Apr 2022 11:15:00 +0000

"If you fail to plan, you can plan to fail." A goal without a plan is just a dream. We need men to take action and put some effort into their work, home and relationships.

The Key to the Rest

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 11 Apr 2022 11:00:00 +0000

We definitely promote the value of doing hard things, but have you ever imagined that resting is something that we have a difficult time with and yet it is key to our health? In this episode we dig into those thoughts.

4 Steps to a Better Life

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Tue, 29 Mar 2022 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode we discuss 4 points to creating your best possible life. It's simple, but it won't be easy.

What to Do When You Have a "Fine" Wife

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 21 Mar 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Have you ever felt the cloud enter the room and ask your wife what's wrong? If she said she is "fine" then this episode might help explain what she actually means.

Blood vs Water

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 14 Mar 2022 11:30:00 +0000

Have you ever heard the phrase, "blood is thicker than water?" But did you know there was more to the quote than that. In this episode we dig into the original quote and explore how it may be different than you originally thought.

Don't Play the Hitler Card

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Wed, 2 Mar 2022 01:00:00 +0000

The Hitler card is only played in a game of comparison. As men, we need to stop comparing and live with excellence.

Your Friends = Your Future

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Tue, 22 Feb 2022 00:00:00 +0000

How much of your environment affects you? Probably more than you realize. In this episode we discuss how what you expose yourself to will in quick succession become what you experience.

Goals Kill Boredom

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 14 Feb 2022 13:00:00 +0000

How do you deal with boredom? Instead of defaulting to your phone, develop a goal.

Silence vs Peace

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Wed, 9 Feb 2022 01:00:00 +0000

Have you ever avoided silence? Do you constantly find yourself with videos or music going? Then you might be missing peace in your life. In this episode we discuss the difference.

Churchianity

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 31 Jan 2022 23:30:00 +0000

If you ever asked someone if they were a Christian and they responded with, "I almost always go to church." That is the wrong answer. In this episode we discuss the difference between cultural and genuine Christianity.

Is Good Better than Best?

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Sun, 23 Jan 2022 19:00:00 +0000

Have you ever wanted to be the best? Sure, we all have. But have you considered what it will cost you in order to be the best?

Ignorant Good Men

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Thu, 13 Jan 2022 23:30:00 +0000

In this episode we dig into the often quoted, "All it takes for evil to win is for good men to do nothing." The quote itself is a bit longer and we take it point by point.

How to be Offended

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Thu, 6 Jan 2022 15:54:06 +0000

Have you ever wondered why so many people are offended these days? In this episode we explore that question and discuss what a Kingdom Man should do in those situations.

The Gift of Time

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 27 Dec 2021 20:30:01 +0000

The most valuable gift that you can give to your friends and loved ones is your time. It is not something that can be recovered or restored. Put in the effort to make sure it is spent wisely.

Taking Risks in the New Year

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 20 Dec 2021 13:00:00 +0000

In this episode we explore the thoughts on the past year and make plans for the upcoming year, including making yourself capable and taking a risk on yourself and your dreams.

Motivations and Addiction

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 6 Dec 2021 12:00:00 +0000

For more information about dopamine, check out this Art of Manliness podcast https://www.artofmanliness.com/health-fitness/health/do-you-need-to-take-a-dopamine-fast/

Motivations and Faith

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 29 Nov 2021 15:21:58 +0000

In this episode we discuss intrinsic motivations such as faith and character and how we need men who can not be bought to stand for what they believe.

Motivation and Money

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 22 Nov 2021 11:00:00 +0000

In this episode we begin a series on what motivates you. This episode we address money as motivation.

No Lone Wolves

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 15 Nov 2021 05:00:00 +0000

In this episode we explore a fundamental aspect of preparedness...community. A single operator, like Jason Bourne, who has every skill and no need for others is sexy, but unrealistic. We need others in order to truly succeed.

A Primer in Preparedness

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 8 Nov 2021 05:00:00 +0000

Have you ever wondered what would you would do if things hit the fan? Don't wonder. Plan. Preparedness is essential in a variety of situations, included every day life. What are you prepared for?

The Benefits and Detriments of Fear

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 25 Oct 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this episode we talk about the benefits and detriments of fear, and the role of fear in the life of a believer.

Lessons From My Grandfather

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 18 Oct 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this episode we discuss the importance of men guiding other men. In episode 3 we defined a man as one who Give, Guards and Guides. This episode elaborates to give more meat to what we mean by guiding.

Men Respond. Children React.

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 11 Oct 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this episode we challenge the desire to react when a man should respond. A man may not be able to control what happens to him or around him, but he can choose how he will respond to those challenging issues.

Failure is not Final

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 4 Oct 2021 04:00:00 +0000

James Russell recorded this episode while in the field on a business trip. The sound quality is not the typical, but the message is a strong one. In this episode we discuss the difference between failing and being a failure. Fear of failure is an excuse, not a reason.

The Keys to Showing UP

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 27 Sep 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this episode we examine the keys to showing up. These keys include timeliness and being present. Using these keys we can reach our goals more efficiently.

The Great Failing of Discipline

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 20 Sep 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this episode we discuss how discipline is a must-have to achieving dreams. But is discipline enough? Only if it linked with the proper answer to the question of "why?"

Put Your Money Where Your Mouth Is

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 13 Sep 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this episode we examine our values and see whether they actually reflect what we are willing to invest in.

You Can't Defend What You Can't Define!

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 6 Sep 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this episode we dig a little deeper in what it means for a man to guard, and the importance of having clearly stated values.

Leading by the Book

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 30 Aug 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this episode we discuss the importance of reading to the leader. Gathering thoughts and lessons from others will make you more capable of leading yourself, your family and others better.

Thinking vs Feeling

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 23 Aug 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this episode we discuss the difference between thinking and feeling in regards to how we make our decisions.

Give, Guard and Guide

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Sun, 15 Aug 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this episode we layout what we mean by "Kingdom Man." Then we discuss that a man is one who gives, guards and guides to benefit himself and others.

Do Hard Things

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Mon, 9 Aug 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this episode we piggy back on episode 1 and challenge men to not just do what you know you should do, but do hard things. We see that doing hard things pays off in a man's physical and mental health, as well as his quality of sleep.

Just Do It!

jrbarrs@hotmail.com (James Barrs) — Fri, 30 Jul 2021 04:00:00 +0000

In this podcast we cover the foundation of Kingdom Man Podcast and discuss how to avoid the trap of paralysis by analysis.