Soul Talks With Bill & Kristi Gaultiere

Heaven Is Your Home (Jesus Welcomes You into His Father's House)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 14 Apr 2026 10:00:00 +0000

Most of us would say that heaven is good and a place we'll be glad to make our eternal home. But often there's a gap between our beliefs and the emotions we experience in our bodies. Natural survival instincts sometimes make factors like the fear of death or letting go of control keep us from fully embracing the hopeful anticipation of heaven.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi help us take heart from Jesus, our older Brother who went before us to prepare a place in the Father's House. Your heart will long to find its home — both now and for all eternity — in the spacious refuge of acceptance, warmth, and delight alongside Jesus in God's place of residence.

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Returning to Harmony After a Conflict With a Loved One

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 7 Apr 2026 10:00:00 +0000

You’ve likely experienced the messiness that comes with conflict in close relationships. All of us are human — meaning we each have unique hurts, emotions, needs, and perceptions that we bring to difficult conversations. It’s tempting to hide our hearts from each other for the sake of “moving on.” Yet this misguided attempt to protect the relationships that matter most only creates a distance that ultimately weakens our connection.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss the importance of strengthening relationships through rupture and repair. You’ll get equipped to move toward the “hard” in relationship with emotional honesty, empathy for those who’ve hurt you, and the patience to stay present as you grow in understanding yourself and others.

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The Beauty and Blessing of Giving Yourself for Others (Taking Heart From Jesus on the Cross)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 31 Mar 2026 10:00:00 +0000

All of us experience times when the same grace that flows through us to others is hard to grasp for ourselves. Sadly our thoughts often slander us the same way religious bullies insulted Jesus: “You saved others but you can't save yourself” (Matthew 27:42 paraphrased). Thankfully we don't have to drown in shame — we can take heart from Jesus on the cross as he leads us into deeper experiences of grace.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi help us become more enthralled with Jesus this Holy Week. You'll experience him more personally and empathetically as you share in his experience of spiritual and emotional anguish on the cross. The Suffering Savior invites you to borrow his faith and trust that God is with you, loving you, and pleased with you as you grow in union with God and mature to become more like him.

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Empathy Practices to Care for Your Soul (Mental Health Insights #3)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 24 Mar 2026 10:00:00 +0000

You love the people around you and desire to support them — but your soul is also drained. It's common for those of us who are tender-hearted, sensitive, and attuned to others' needs to struggle with compassion fatigue. Thankfully we can learn to steward the gift of empathy Jesus has given us by setting boundaries and practicing soul care.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks for part three of a teaching Bill and Kristi shared at the American Association of Christian Counselors. It's impossible to overflow with empathy for others unless it's a wellspring in your own soul. You'll learn when and how to offer empathy and get equipped with practices (like Calming Touch Prayer and Empathy Prayer) so that your care remains healthy and fruitful.

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The Bible studies, research, diagrams, and practices referenced in this episode can be found in our book Deeply Loved: Receiving and Reflecting God’s Great Empathy for You

If you’d like Bill and Kristi to speak at your conference, event, or church, you can email contact@soulshepherding.org.

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How Empathy Heals Our Emotions (Mental Health Insights #2)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 17 Mar 2026 10:00:00 +0000

It's painful and overwhelming when stress, hurt, or trauma triggers us emotionally and affects our well-being. Often this leads us to pull away — judging our emotions, hiding our needs, and distancing ourselves from others. Sadly this keeps us from the empathy we desperately need to heal and recover.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks for part two of a message Bill and Kristi shared at the American Association of Christian Counselors. You'll see how empathy — both from Jesus and his ambassadors — leads to healing and fosters healthy qualities such as forgiveness, satisfaction, and resilience. The lost parts of you can be found by the Good Shepherd as you become restored in his acceptance, love, and care.

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How Empathy Helps Us Become Like Jesus (Mental Health Insights #1)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 10 Mar 2026 10:00:00 +0000

Many of us grew up in an empathy desert and missed out on being seen, known, and loved. Sadly, a lack of being understood and accepted often unintentionally creates emotional distance in our churches, friendships, and even our relationship with God. We might fail to realize that we can’t become more loving and healthy like Jesus without the grace of empathy.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks to listen to part one of a talk that Bill and Kristi shared at the American Association of Christian Counselors Conference. You’ll see that empathy is more than just a listening skill — it’s an expression of love that helps us cultivate the secure attachment necessary to persevere through trials and grow in Christlikeness.

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The Bible studies, research, diagrams, and practices referenced in this episode can be found in our book Deeply Loved: Receiving and Reflecting God’s Great Empathy for You

If you’d like Bill and Kristi to speak at your conference, event, or church, you can email contact@soulshepherding.org.

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How a Retreat Can Transform Your Faith (Conversation with Ron Thompson)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 3 Mar 2026 11:00:00 +0000

The demands of life and ministry have taught most of us to prioritize doing over being. Yet eventually we realize that “trying harder” doesn’t satisfy our deepest longing for a flourishing relationship with Jesus. Thankfully the Good Shepherd meets us at “the end of ourselves” and invites us into spacious places of renewal.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi talks to Ron Thompson, a pastor with 30+ years of experience who also serves as a Sr. Spiritual Director on our staff. Ron shares how coming on a Soul Shepherding retreat helped him become enthralled with Jesus, find freedom from depression, and transform how he cares for others in partnership with Christ. Friend, we pray that you can also go deeper in Jesus’ grace on a retreat.

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The Joy of the Cross for Jesus and You

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 24 Feb 2026 11:00:00 +0000

Let’s be honest — we’re not always naturally drawn toward the suffering of Jesus and his death on the cross. Yet all of us know the experience of struggling through hardship, loss, and distress. Where can we turn to find comfort and strength when we feel crushed underneath the weight of spiritual wrestling, emotional turmoil, or physical pain?

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi help reorient you to the surprising joy found at the cross. You’ll learn how Jesus’ empathy for suffering can become your secret source of strength — finding consolation in sharing the same closeness and comfort that he does with the Father.

(This episode highlights the Take Heart devotionals we read and discuss each morning over breakfast during Soul Shepherding retreats. You can receive a copy of the devotional read today by sending a donation of any amount to Soul Shepherding! The link is below ⬇️)

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On the Cross Jesus Bows His Head to Kiss You

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 17 Feb 2026 11:00:00 +0000

All of us long to know with confidence the love and forgiveness that Jesus poured out at the cross. Yet we remain distant from this deeper experience of grace when we lose touch with our bottomless need for Christ or become paralyzed by shame. Thankfully Jesus doesn’t beat us over the head with the cross — he gently woos us back with his unfailing mercy.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi reflect on a poetic portrayal of the cross from Johann Gerhard, an author of classic Christian devotion. This discussion will help you personalize the cross as you experience Jesus bending down to kiss you, opening his arms to embrace you, and offering you his heart of passion and delight.

(This special episode highlights the Take Heart devotionals we read and discuss each morning over breakfast during Soul Shepherding retreats. You can receive a new devotional sent to your inbox each month by setting up a recurring donation with Soul Shepherding!)

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Enjoying Life Without Lack (Dallas Willard's Best Teachings #6)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 10 Feb 2026 11:00:00 +0000

Dallas Willard taught us that Jesus offers us a life without lack in the Kingdom of God. But what do we do when experiencing the real pain of unmet needs, unhealed wounds, and unanswered prayers? You can learn to pause and pray — bringing your distresses and desires to Jesus to cultivate a peace and rest that’s rooted in his gentle love, wise leadership, and fierce faithfulness.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi talk about following Jesus through the many terrains of the spiritual journey. Praying and meditating on this Dallas-inspired paraphrase of Psalm 23 from will help you trust the Good Shepherd as he leads you into deeper union with God.

(If you want to go deeper into Psalm 23 and the insights we gained from Dallas Willard, we invite you to join us on a retreat or train to become a spiritual director with Soul Shepherding. You can learn more by following the links below.)

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Do Your Best. But Don't Trust Your Best--Trust God (Dallas Willard's Best Teachings #5)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 3 Feb 2026 11:00:00 +0000

It’s true that our best efforts are good and effective — we are beautifully and wonderfully created by God, after all. Yet it’s easy to slip into self-reliance and try to “make things happen” in our own strength. Instead, we can learn to keep watch with Jesus as we work, joining God’s presence and activity all around us.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share how learning to trust God, instead of relying solely on their own best efforts, transformed their apprenticeship to Jesus and helped them grow in emotional and relational health. This subtle shift in thinking will change how you approach life and ministry — especially during stress, trials, and conflict. You’ll be equipped with a lifelong practice to help you release control to God and find joy in creative partnership with the Good Shepherd.

(If you want to go deeper into the insights we gained from Dallas Willard, we invite you to join us on a retreat or train to become a spiritual director with Soul Shepherding. You can learn more by following the links below.)

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Don't Try--Train (Dallas Willard's Best Teachings #4)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 27 Jan 2026 11:00:00 +0000

How do we heal, grow, and change as apprentices of Jesus? Many of us have subscribed to the traditional Christian approach of “trying harder” to “believe and do what’s right,” only to find ourselves stuck and discouraged. Thankfully the vision Jesus casts for transformation shows us a different path forward.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share how Dallas Willard’s mantra, “Don’t try — train,” revolutionized their approach to spiritual formation. You’ll burn with a desire to become more loving and healthy and get equipped with a practical tool to help you grow in Christlikeness one area at a time.

If you want to go deeper into the insights we gained from Dallas Willard, we invite you to join us on a retreat or train to become a spiritual director with Soul Shepherding. You can learn more by following the links below.

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Grace is Opposed to Earning--Not Effort (Dallas Willard's Best Teachings #3)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 20 Jan 2026 11:00:00 +0000

Grace is central to our faith yet its meaning is often confused. Mixed messages can leave us in a tug-of-war between “doing nothing” and “trying harder” to earn God's favor. What is grace actually and how does it affect our daily apprenticeship to Jesus?

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack what they’ve learned about grace from Dallas Willard. Discover how grace can go beyond “undeserved merit” and become fuel for your life, relationships, and ministry. You can set aside pretending, presuming, and pushing to respond to grace and join God’s activity in everything you do!

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The Kingdom of the Heavens is Open (Dallas Willard's Best Teachings #2)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 13 Jan 2026 11:00:00 +0000

God is with us always — not only in “big” or “spiritual” moments but also during the ordinary challenges of day-to-day life. Yet it’s tempting to think we’re alone when experiencing stress at work, emotional hurt, or relational challenges. How can we become more aware of Jesus’ presence and live a God-saturated life?

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss a transformational vision they caught from Dallas Willard — the Kingdom of the Heavens is open, now! Their conversation will stir you to rethink the kind of life that’s possible with Jesus as you learn practical ways to integrate him into your life, ministry, work, challenges, and relationships.

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Dallas Willard's 3 Steps to Change Your Prayer Life (Dallas Willard's Best Teachings #1)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 6 Jan 2026 11:00:00 +0000

If prayer is so foundational to our relationship with Jesus, why do many of us find it so challenging? Maybe you’ve experienced practicing prayer as dutiful — something you do only because you’re “supposed to.” Perhaps you feel discouraged, disoriented, and unsure if talking to God really makes a difference at all.

Tune in for this updated episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi reflect on the teachings from Dallas Willard that have transformed how they understand and practice prayer. Your desire for prayer will be reignited as you explore the multi-dimensional layers of conversation with Jesus and learn how you can integrate partnership with the Good Shepherd into all of life.

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When Being a Better Person Feels Out of Reach

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 30 Dec 2025 11:00:00 +0000

Praying to become more like Jesus can seem out of reach or surface feelings of shame. Yet growing in Christlikeness is a lifelong journey that includes highs and lows, consolations and desolations, and a range of feelings. Regardless of your current spiritual terrain or emotional challenges, your life can become a school for training with Jesus.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi introduce the Apprentice Prayer — a prayer designed to stir your longing for Jesus and paint a picture of what life in the Kingdom of God can look like. This favorite podcast replay will help you connect with Jesus’ grace as you aim to grow and change this new year.

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Rejoice in the Greatest Gift

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 23 Dec 2025 11:00:00 +0000

Let’s face it — the chaos of travel, family gatherings, and exchanging presents can cause us to forget the miracle of Christmas. It’s easy to become numb or distracted from the treasure of Jesus. Meditating on Scripture helps us reorient ourselves to the surprising arrival of Immanuel and the stunning reality of his everlasting kingdom.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi unpackages the real gift of Christmas using the beautiful words of the prophet Isaiah. This reflection and prayer will stir your longing for more of Jesus and lead you into deeper worship of the One we call Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, and Prince of Peace.

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Drawing on Your Inner Storehouse of Love and Peace

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 16 Dec 2025 11:00:00 +0000

All of us long to know Jesus’ presence with us as we go about each day. Imagine sharing unbroken intimacy with the Good Shepherd during every mundane moment, challenging circumstance, and distressing emotion you experience. The good news is that Jesus desires to be with you always in the secret place of your innermost soul.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi draw you into the reality that Jesus is with you here and now. You’ll discover practical ways to practice God’s presence (like scripture memorization and breath prayers) and get help sorting through the emotions of your inner world as you move toward abiding in Christ.

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"I'm a Basket of Emotions!" (Bill Helps Kristi Find the Flowers in Her Basket)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 9 Dec 2025 11:00:00 +0000

Do you struggle to share your "big" emotions with God and others? Many of us are tempted to hide our feelings because we fear being "too much" or feel ashamed at some of the attitudes that lie underneath our hurts. Yet this keeps us from receiving the grace that all of our souls desperately need.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill listens to Kristi with empathy and helps her see how her emotional honesty is a blessing to her relationship with God and those around her. You'll be equipped to integrate thinking with your feelings as you find safe people (like a spiritual director or soul friend) who can help you sort through your emotions as you become more healthy and whole like Jesus.

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Interpreting Your Dreams - A Surprisingly Easy and Helpful Method

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 2 Dec 2025 11:00:00 +0000

Most of us experience our dreams as a collection of random events that leave us feeling confused or distressed. But what if your dreams were more than something to brush off? Inviting the Spirit of Jesus into your dreams can spark deep conversation with him and lead to emotional health.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi model a surprisingly easy and helpful method for discerning the psychological and possible spiritual meaning of your dreams. Through prayer and the help of others (e.g., a spiritual director or soul friends on retreat), you can learn to draw from the wisdom and direction that come to you in your sleep.

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Surprising Joy for Families at Christmastime (Conversation with Kristi and Briana)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 25 Nov 2025 11:00:00 +0000

The birth of Jesus changed history forever, yet it might not feel very personal in your heart. Let's be honest — it's easy for Advent to become white noise. Thankfully you can have a fresh experience with Jesus when you enter the story through the eyes of a "soul friend" like Mary, Elizabeth, or even one of the animals!

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi and Briana talk about becoming enthralled with Jesus during Christmastime through Surprising Joy Advent cards. You'll be inspired to get intentional about prayerful meditation and conversation with loved ones this Advent as you experience the impact it has made and continues to make on their family today.

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How to Root Deeper in God's Love through Empathy Scriptures

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 18 Nov 2025 11:00:00 +0000

What comes to mind when you think of God's posture toward you? All of us long to know for certain that Abba looks at us with eyes of love, but it's easy to project our own judgment and rejection onto his heart for us. Yet Jesus reconciles the love of God to us through his empathy and desires that we become familiar with his loving gaze of delight.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi get practical about cultivating a loving friendship with Jesus. You'll be blessed with fresh insight into scriptures that ooze Jesus' empathy as you're equipped with help to nourish your soul through his ever-deepening love and care.

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Relying on Love to Protect You From Self-Criticism

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 11 Nov 2025 11:00:00 +0000

You might be familiar with self-criticism that says, "Do better. Try harder. Stop making mistakes!" Listening to critical self-talk for too long can tempt us to react under pressure or retreat in shame. Thankfully God's voice of love sings a different song over us — the Lord desires to protect us from ruthless self-criticism.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share how you can replace self-criticism with self-empathy. You'll learn how to watch and pray with Jesus as you trust him to protect you from lies and judgment in areas of woundedness and weakness.

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Parenting with Empathy and Faith (Conversation with Briana)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 4 Nov 2025 11:00:00 +0000

Parents have an amazing opportunity to reflect the nature of God to their children. Yet the thought of shaping the way our kids come to see and know him sometimes feels like an overwhelming responsibility. How could anybody represent what our loving Papa is like? Thankfully Jesus redeems our mistakes, helps us in our weakness, and teaches us to support our children through empathy.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi talks with Briana about how Jesus wants to help you parent your children through his great empathy. You'll learn how to use empathy to pray for your kids, point them to God, and advocate for their needs in a unique and loving way.

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Growing Through Empathy Challenges in Parenting

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 28 Oct 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Those of us with children understand there is no parenting blueprint or path to “get it right” all the time. This can lead us to shy away from offering empathy as we become afraid of enabling poor behavior or stealing opportunities for them to build resilience. Yet it’s empathy — even imperfect empathy — that empowers us to help our children through grace and truth.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi chats with Briana about some empathy challenges in parenting and how to bounce back when you miss the mark. You’ll learn practical tools to care for your children through empathy in a way that helps them rise to the challenge of growth and independence. And this is helpful in all of our closest relationships — not just with kids!

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The Power of Empathy in Parenting (Conversation with Briana)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 21 Oct 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Empathy is valuable in all our relationships, but it's especially important when it comes to raising children. All of us long for our kids to love Jesus and fulfill his unique purposes for them. How can we help them get there? Empathy helps our children become secure and confident as they pursue Jesus and fullness of life in him.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi talks with her daughter, Briana, about what it was like to be raised in a home that practiced empathy. You'll learn practical ways to cultivate spiritual and emotional health in your family through simple means like intentional conversation at the dinner table and pursuing your children after conflict. And don't worry — being present is better than being perfect when it comes to empathy and family.

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Landscapes of the Soul (Conversation with Cyd & Geoff Holsclaw)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 14 Oct 2025 10:00:00 +0000

All of us are quick learners when it comes to fear and trauma, and because of this, have developed strategies to survive the landscapes of our childhood. Some of us anxiously protect our relationships while others avoid connection and become self-reliant. Thankfully you can follow the Good Shepherd into a new landscape — the pasture of secure attachment.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi chat with Cyd and Geoff Holsclaw — teachers, podcasters, and authors of Landscapes of the Soul: How the Science and Spirituality of Attachment Can Move You into Confident Faith, Courage, and Connection. You'll discover how to integrate intimacy and independence under Jesus' care to cultivate the same healthy attachment he experienced with the Father and others.

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Praying the Parables of Jesus (Conversation With Steve Macchia)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 7 Oct 2025 10:00:00 +0000

All of us long to open the Bible and have a meaningful conversation with Jesus. But learning to be with God through his Word feels more challenging than ever in a fast-paced world where answers are always at our fingertips. Thankfully there are tested-and-true spiritual disciplines that can help us slow down and soak up the grace-filled words of Scripture.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill chats with Steve Macchia — a spiritual director who helps leaders prioritize spiritual formation and the author of a new book titled Praying the Parables: A 40-Day Devotional Journey in Word and Image. You'll become enthused to approach Jesus' parables curiously through Lectio Divina as a fresh affection for him bubbles up in your heart and mind.

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Being a Safe Person, Not a Savior

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 30 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000

You listen to people's hurts and needs and feel genuine compassion for them. Yet giving too much empathy to others drains you and creates a deficit in your own soul. Thankfully, you can learn how to trust Jesus when helping others instead of trying too hard to be Jesus for them.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi teach how to let go of codependent patterns and offer healthy and helpful empathy. You'll learn how to protect yourself from compassion fatigue by paying attention to the cycle of codependency, setting healthy boundaries, and prioritizing soul care.

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How Empathy Supports Intimacy With Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 23 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000

All of us long to have a flourishing relationship with Jesus — experiencing his bottomless love for us as we walk through life with him. Yet it's easy to get discouraged when going deeper with Christ doesn't look or feel like we assumed it would. Thankfully you can learn the ways of authentic intimacy through empathy practices with God and others.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss their unique journeys to cultivating a deep connection with Jesus. You will learn how you can develop heartfelt closeness with the Good Shepherd by meditating on his emotions in the Gospels, agreeing with his grace through self-empathy, and embracing his loving care for you through others.

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The Gift of Mirror Neurons

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 16 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000

It's easy to think that some people are empathetic while others are not. And it's true that empathy comes more instinctively to some than others. But did you know that Jesus created your brain for empathy? This means that all of us naturally long to share the experience of being seen and known by God and each other.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss the gift of mirror neurons — brain cells that help us "feel with" those around us. You'll learn how to partner with Jesus to reflect the thoughts and feelings of others back to them by asking curious questions, attuning to their emotions, and being a warm presence.

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You Were Made for Deeper Love

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 9 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Research shows that only 36% of people can identify their emotions as they're experiencing them. Yet learning to feel and share authentically is the path to closeness and connection. This means your emotions and experiences (even the painful ones) are actually invitations to be deeply loved by God and others.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks to celebrate the launch of Bill and Kristi's new book, Deeply Loved: Receiving and Reflecting God's Great Empathy for You. They share wisdom on empathy that will help your relationships grow in intimacy, depth, and health. Plus you'll hear how you can enter to win a free copy of Deeply Loved.

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Does Empathy Reinforce Sin?

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 2 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Some Christians are skeptical about empathy, mistakenly assuming that it coddles others and reinforces sinful behavior. Yet genuine empathy (even when we sin) helps us understand our struggles and strengthens us to grow in Christlikeness. Thankfully, loving and healthy empathy is modeled all over the Bible and not only comforts us but leads us toward truth and responsibility.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi address concerns you might hear about empathy in some Christian circles. You'll discover fresh insights from the empathy scriptures they teach in their new book, Deeply Loved, and learn the importance of holding others in God's empathy while the Spirit draws them toward transformation.

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From Detached to Deeply Loved

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 26 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Many people are "thinkers" and "doers" whose natural tendency is to analyze their emotions and those of others. It's certainly true that reason and action are valuable parts of being human. But getting stuck in your head leaves you detached and lonely. Thankfully you can learn to feel and heal with Jesus and others.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi affirm the importance of empathy for everybody as they discuss their new book Deeply Loved: Receiving and Reflecting God's Great Empathy for You. Your connection with Jesus and others will grow as you discover that you can feel and share your emotions instead of judging them.

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From "Too Sensitive" to Deeply Loved

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 19 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Are your big feelings misunderstood by others? All of us have tender parts of ourselves that long for a safe place to call home. Sadly, it's easy for sensitivity to get rejected as "too emotional" or "unbiblical." Yet Jesus the Feeler welcomes our emotions and cares for us in his empathetic love.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi affirm the God-given need to be seen, known, and understood as they discuss their new book Deeply Loved: Receiving and Reflecting God's Great Empathy for You. You'll experience freedom from the shame placed on emotions as you learn how your feelings actually draw you deeper into Jesus’ heart.

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Being Immersed in the Beauty and Goodness of the Trinity

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 12 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000

All of us can fall asleep to the reality of God's trinitarian presence and slip into making life happen on our own. Yet the Three-Person God shows us how deeply relational he is and invites us to fully immerse ourselves in intimate friendship with him.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi help you wake up to the spiritual truth that the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit surround you and are with you always. You'll be enthralled by their powerful vision of the Kingdom and equipped with disciplines to help you rest in the Loving Community of God during all your daily activities and endeavors.

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Enjoying God Here and Now

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 5 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Most Christians know the importance of taking their faith seriously. But getting too serious when it comes to spiritual disciplines or ministry responsibilities can miss God's heart for relationship. Thankfully, our loving and joyful Papa wants to help us move from duty into sharing his delight.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi invite you to glorify God by enjoying the radiance of Jesus all around you! You'll learn to enjoy God through simple practices like sitting and relaxing, appreciating nature, and savoring time with friends.

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494 - Loving Sacrifice or Codependent Guilt?

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 29 Jul 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Many Christians share Jesus' big heart for others and desire to love people like him. But all of us can fall prey to caring for others in a way that's fueled by our own unrecognized needs or wounds. Even good intentions can drain our souls and leave us feeling resentful towards ministry and people.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi talk about the tension between loving sacrifice and codependency. You'll learn how to search your own soul with Jesus and cultivate an emotionally healthy attachment to Abba so you can discern who to serve and how to partner with God for greater fruitfulness.

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Using One Responsibility to Avoid Another Neglects Your Soul

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 22 Jul 2025 10:00:00 +0000

It's easy for all of us to get swept away by the powerful current of "doing more." Although too many responsibilities stress us out, we often don't realize that unconscious emotions and unmet needs drive us toward giving too much of ourselves. Thankfully we can learn to care for our souls with Jesus and approach life in God's Kingdom with a full tank.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi dive into the psychology behind busyness. You'll become aware of the unique factors that keep you from prioritizing soul care so you can establish new rhythms with the Good Shepherd and serve others in freedom.

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Quieting Your Heart in a Turbulent World

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 15 Jul 2025 10:00:00 +0000

It can feel impossible to attune to Jesus' presence and hear his voice when so many stressors fight for our attention. Factors like health issues, relational tension, and the busyness of life and work make it challenging to genuinely sense Christ with us. Even still, Jesus speaks to the deepest desire of our hearts when he invites us to abide in him through all of life (John 15:5; 16:33).

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi talk about the necessity of inner stillness in your relationship with Jesus. You'll be equipped with surprising ways to cultivate a centeredness with Jesus that integrate practicing spiritual disciplines with biblically-based psychology.

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The Spiritually Healthy Leader (Conversation with Dave Wiedis)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 8 Jul 2025 10:00:00 +0000

What are you most passionate about? Most Christians would respond by saying something like "loving Jesus" or "doing God's work." These are genuine expressions of devotion and warm Abba's heart. Yet it's true that all of us have hidden ruling passions (like loneliness, control, etc.) that can become the primary drivers of our motivation.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill talks with Dave Wiedis — founder of Serving Leaders Ministries and author of the new book The Spiritually Healthy Leader: Finding Freedom from Self-Sabotage. You'll learn how to grow in self-awareness and abandon yourself to God's care so that King Jesus becomes the supreme ruler of your heart and life.

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490 - The Power of Memory for Faith & Flourishing

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 1 Jul 2025 10:00:00 +0000

It's likely you have memories that you wish you could forget. Remembering times of suffering or trauma can feel uncomfortable and often triggers distressing emotions like fear, shame, or grief. But inviting Jesus into your memories can transform places of pain into precious moments of healing with our Redeemer.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi talk about how memory can nourish your faith and help you flourish with Jesus. You'll be surprised to learn how powerful reflecting on your journey — both the peaks and the pits — is to your spiritual and emotional growth in Christlikeness.

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The Key to Your Mental Health

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 24 Jun 2025 10:00:00 +0000

All of us have left conversations feeling hurt because somebody hopped to a quick judgment or attempted to fix us instead of genuinely listening. This is not only damaging to your mental health but also opposes your formation in Christlikeness. Thankfully, learning to receive and give empathy helps you agree with grace so you can know you are deeply loved by God and overflow with his affection when caring for others.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share from years of experience how they've seen God's powerful empathy heal and transform the lives of his children. You also don't want to miss the exciting news they share at the end of their conversation.

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What We Find in the Dark (Conversation with Aubrey Sampson)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 17 Jun 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Where is God when nothing makes sense? It's easy to dance around tensions like this instead of getting honest about the disorientation and desolation we all experience in our relationship with Jesus. But questions aren't opposed to authentic faith — they're one of the most valuable pieces of our formation.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi talks to Aubrey Sampson — teaching pastor and author of a new book titled What We Find in the Dark: Loss, Hope, and God's Presence in Grief. Her wrestle through grief and a dark night of the soul will help you grow with Jesus through the ups and downs of your own journey.

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When Grief Comes Home (Conversation with Erin Nelson & Colleen Montague)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 10 Jun 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Grieving the loss of a beloved person in your life is one of the most disorienting journeys you'll ever walk through. You deeply desire to support your children and loved ones but feel fragile and empty. It's okay to feel and heal with Jesus so you can lovingly hold others in their pain and loss.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi chats with Erin Nelson and Colleen Montague — authors of When Grief Comes Home: A Gentle Guide for Living Through Loss While Supporting Your Child. You'll learn how valuable it is to be vulnerable while finding the support you need and leaning into honest conversations with those who need you.

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Courage: Mental Health Attitude #5

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 3 Jun 2025 10:00:00 +0000

All of us know that courage is a virtuous quality and desire to live and love boldly like King Jesus. But it's easy to assume the path to operating more courageously looks like suppressing our fears and forcing ourselves into action.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi teach you how to break free from your comfort zone and experience the security, peace, and joy of courageous living. Getting honest about your feelings of inadequacy with God and others creates space for you to draw from Jesus' strength. Then, more and more, you can courageously embrace every day as a God-adventure.

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Acceptance of Reality: Mental Health Attitude #4

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 27 May 2025 10:00:00 +0000

"Acceptance of reality" isn't an attitude often supported in Christian circles. In fact, being oriented around your physical reality can sometimes be viewed as "unspiritual" or "lacking faith." But the truth is that a healthy and mature acceptance of reality leads to authentic and vibrant faith.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss something challenging for all of us — cultivating the humility required to be honest about your limitations while keeping your eyes fixed on our all-powerful God. You'll be refreshed by Jesus' willingness to take on humanity and live out an extremely relational faith with Abba and others.

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Trust: Mental Health Attitude #3

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 20 May 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Do you have trust issues? All of us have experienced the pain of broken trust from people who were supposed to be safe — parents, coaches, pastors, siblings, or friends. Sadly, learning to live in mistrust of others leads to us distrusting God and erodes our mental health.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi get honest about the risk of choosing trust. You'll be encouraged to take heart with Jesus and grow in security by getting vulnerable in safe relationships with his ambassadors. Praying the healing of Jesus flows to your inner child and establishes you in loving trust.

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Hope: Mental Health Attitude #2

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 13 May 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Hope is more than wishful thinking — it’s the anticipation of good things from a good God who has redeemed us, loves us, and cares for us. This is why Jesus' followers have the most reason to be hopeful humans. Even still, all of us experience times when feelings of shame and depression drain our hopefulness and crush our spirit.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi talk about cultivating hope to become healthy in your apprenticeship to Jesus. You will learn about the causes of depression, the dynamics of shame, and how powerful the presence of a safe friend can be when you find yourself spiraling. Praying that you overflow with hope by the power of the Spirit (Romans 15:13).

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Resilience: Mental Health Attitude #1

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 6 May 2025 10:00:00 +0000

A common misunderstanding in Christianity is that you won’t struggle with mental health issues if you read the Bible and pray. The reality is that we’re all human and factors like trauma, stress, and genetics can lead to wrestling with anxiety or depression. Part of apprenticeship to Jesus is engaging difficult yet valuable inner work to become healthy and loving like him.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss cultivating a resilient faith that will strengthen your emotional resolve and deepen your soul. You’ll learn how to return to joy after experiencing distress by attending to your heart, getting honest with safe friends, and taking courage from Jesus to do hard things.

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The Adventure of Staying Where God Puts You

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 29 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Are you feeling bored or restless in your current season with the Lord? It's natural to pursue transition when you feel the itch for something new. Yet all of us know that changing our circumstances doesn't automatically change us. There's often a deeper work of formation and preparation that Jesus desires to accomplish in our lives when he asks us to remain planted.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi teach why moving forward in the Kingdom often looks like staying put. You'll learn how to engage the mundane in a way that cultivates spiritual growth, a healthy soul, and a larger capacity to love Jesus and others.

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Restoring Love and Joy After a Relational Cut Off

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 22 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Relationships are complex! All of us carry wounds from our past, get triggered, and unintentionally hurt others. This means that conflict is a normal part of life with others. Thankfully, the presence of Jesus is available to help us repair our hearts and relationships even when navigating complicated dynamics and emotions.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi talk about the triggers and emotions they experienced from a recent conflict they had with each other. Hearing their story will equip you with a roadmap to handle conflict with Jesus as you grow in self-awareness, attune to his goodness during difficult moments, and learn to see through his eyes of forgiveness and empathy.

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The Joy of God is Your Comfort and Strength

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 15 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000

An important part of spiritual growth is learning to be comforted and strengthened by the joy of the Lord. Yet it can be challenging to experience joy in the midst of mundane life and human struggle. All of us can learn from Rabbi Jesus who teaches us to draw joy from Abba that transcends our circumstances.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi ponder Jesus’ invincible joy that endured the poverty of the manger and agony of the cross. You’ll be equipped with spiritual disciplines to help you “take heart” with Jesus and embrace joy through nature, relationships, contemplation, and the hope of redemption.

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Getting Out of a Shame Storm

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 8 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000

Have you ever been trapped in a shame storm? It’s tempting to isolate when feelings of judgment and rejection overwhelm us. But defending against our emotions only becomes a barrier to embracing our greatest need — to be fully seen, known, and loved by Jesus, often through one of his ambassadors.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi offer guidance to help you work through moments of feeling unworthy and unlovable. You’ll become aware of the sadness underneath your shame, learn to express your needs, and take the courage to care for yourself with Jesus and others.

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The Intimacy and Self-Discovery of Prayer

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 1 Apr 2025 10:00:00 +0000

It's vulnerable to ask for what we need or desire. Opening our hearts to others cultivates connection and trust but also leaves us susceptible to rejection and disappointment. And it's no different in a relationship with Jesus — depending on him wholeheartedly always requires risk.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi talk about the nuances of prayer. The closer you grow to the Good Shepherd, the more you'll sense him move you away from transactional prayer and into a conversational relationship. It's in this space of vulnerable interaction that you become more confident in Jesus' love, grow in self-awareness, and develop a larger capacity for emotional honesty and empathy.

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Steps to Become New (Conversation with John Ortberg)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 25 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000

The tension between our need for transformation and our inability to make it happen can leave us feeling helpless. Thankfully change doesn’t happen as a result of our own strength. It's through acknowledging our weakness that we develop a greater dependency on God's revolutionary love, care, and power.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi chat with John Ortberg — pastor, speaker, and author of a new book called Steps: Transforming Your Life When Willpower Isn't Enough. Their conversation will awaken you to the power of walking out your brokenness with Jesus and others in deep vulnerability and humility. You'll find freedom by learning to live with an attitude that says, "I can't, but God can…I think I'll let him!"

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Your Child's Sacred Wound Draws Them to Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 18 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000

All of us experience grief when we fall short of caring for others the way the Good Shepherd perfectly tends to us. It can be especially distressing for parents of adult children to look back and realize how their own lack of wholeness wounded their kids. Thankfully, there's hope for redemption! We can pray for their wounds to become sacred and create an unquenchable longing for Jesus in their hearts.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi comfort and encourage parents who feel overcome by regret. Not only can you trust Jesus to heal your children — you can meet the "God of all comfort" in your own brokenness as he redeems your hurt and transforms you into a wounded healer.

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When Your Loved One Deconstructs Their Faith

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 11 Mar 2025 10:00:00 +0000

All of us likely know somebody whose relationship with Jesus seems to be collapsing like a house of cards. It’s difficult to trust God when a loved one deconstructs — we could find ourselves anxiously searching for solutions or lost in despair. Yet it brings comfort to remember that our Prodigal Father is furiously loving and always working in the hearts of those who appear to be walking away from Christ.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share heartfelt empathy for you and your loved ones who are deconstructing. You will be moved to faithfully love those struggling in their faith and equipped to journey with them in the Spirit of Jesus. Plus, a powerful time of prayer will stir your faith for reconstruction to rise out of the ruins of deconstruction.

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Totally Loved Forever at the Cross

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 4 Mar 2025 11:00:00 +0000

Jesus’ suffering on the cross can make it seem like God is distant or mean. And it becomes hard to authentically trust God’s feelings toward us if we see him as someone who turned away from his own son. Thankfully, looking at the crucifixion with spiritual eyes shows us that Jesus is not only unforsaken at the cross — he’s deeply loved.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share incredible insight about Jesus’ interaction with his Papa during his suffering and death. Seeing Abba’s care for Jesus as he took humanity’s sin upon himself will encourage you to draw love, strength, comfort, and joy from your Father in the middle of your brokenness and shame.

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When Technology Interrupts Our Attachment to God

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 25 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000

Let’s be honest. It’s easy to trade attunement with Jesus and others for the low-hanging distraction of a screen. Smartphones aren’t sinful and digital devices aren’t all bad. But our compulsion to overuse technology says something about our souls — all of us long for loving connection with God and others.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss the spiritual and psychological damage you experience from too much screen time. You won't be “shamed” into changing your technology habits. Instead, you’ll be equipped with soul care practices to help you detach from your phone and attach to Abba and his best life for you.

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Sacred Attachment (Conversation with Michael Cusick)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 18 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000

Many of us carry trauma or wounds that make us believe there’s no hope for secure attachment with God. But what if Jesus is already present in the parts of you that feel wounded and embarrassed? The good news is that brokenness is a bridge — not a barrier — to embracing the depths of God’s love.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi chats with Michael Cusick —

professional counselor and author of Sacred Attachment: Escaping Spiritual Exhaustion and Trusting in Divine Love. His story of abuse and restoration will help you open every broken part of you to God’s healing love. Plus, you’ll be equipped with practices to help calm your body and cultivate a secure attachment with God.

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Warming Your Heart for Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 11 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000

All of us experience ups and downs in our devotion to Jesus. Sometimes we feel enthusiastic about our apprenticeship to him and burn with passion to share his love. But every season comes with unique challenges and it can feel discouraging when your heart isn’t fully throbbing for Christ.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi read and discuss a love letter to Jesus. Their conversation will help you break through the shame that arises when you lack passion and draw you to reorient your heart and mind with the grace of the Risen Christ.

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John Newton’s Amazing Grace

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 4 Feb 2025 11:00:00 +0000

It’s easy to assume God is absent when life gets chaotic or pain and hardship strike. But often the events we interpret as “useless” or “damaging” become the greatest blessings to our relationship with Jesus and formation in Christlikeness. That’s why we can take heart in the sovereign hand of God that guards us in all of our wanderings.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks and enjoy a “Soul Food Reading” from a recent Institute retreat. Bill shares the little-known story of John Newton — the preacher and hymnist who wrote Amazing Grace. You’ll be encouraged to see how God weaves all the details of your life together to draw you to himself, lead you deeper into grace, and shape you into a wounded healer who ministers to others with compassion.

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The Fix - A Surprising Path for Transformation (Conversation with Ian Cron)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 28 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000

Not everybody struggles with obvious addiction but all of us have a “fix.” The solutions we use to soothe our pain, meet our needs, and manage our lives apart from God seem to work temporarily but leave us with bigger problems. Thankfully, the brokenness of addiction serves as an invitation from Jesus to experience a level of intimacy and transformation that we didn’t think possible.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks for a conversation between Kristi and Ian Cron — bestselling author, psychotherapist, and Enneagram teacher. Your heart will long to surrender everything to our compassionate and powerful God after hearing Ian’s story and insights from his new book, The Fix: How the Twelve Steps Offer a Surprising Path of Transformation for the Well-Adjusted, the Down-and-Out, and Everyone in Between.

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A Pastor Displaced by LA Fires Shares His Experience and Ministry

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 21 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000

The wildfires in Los Angeles have destroyed thousands of homes and displaced even more people. Our hearts are devastated for everyone affected. We’re especially praying for the friends we’ve made through Soul Shepherding who find themselves both experiencing and ministering through trauma.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi talks with Terry Fouche — a Sr. Spiritual Director with Soul Shepherding and pastor in a neighborhood hit hard by the Eaton fires. You’ll be drawn to go deeper into the compassionate heart of Jesus as Terry shares how emotional honesty, lament, and empathy have shaped him and his community during these challenging times.

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Sharing What You Know With Empathy

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 14 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000

All of us find ourselves in conversations — with both Christians and those who don't know Jesus — who feel it's unloving, judgmental, and arrogant to share the truth of Christ with others. It's sad when somebody's belief system keeps them from trusting the Good Shepherd more deeply. We often feel lost because we don't know the best way to love and care for them.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi teach you how to confidently hold the truth about Jesus while simultaneously relating to others with empathy and humility. You will be encouraged to see that building your life on the foundation of Christ will both mature the way you think and help you grow in compassion for others.

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Resting in God's Providence Despite Difficulties

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 7 Jan 2025 11:00:00 +0000

Right now, there’s a war happening between darkness and God’s kingdom of light. Difficulties like financial hardship, sickness, loss, and relational tension can make it challenging to live in genuine peace. But all of us can train in Jesus’ easy yoke to experience the comfort of leaning into Abba’s providential care.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi wrestle through the fully integrated process (thoughts and emotions) of trusting God deeply when your circumstances feel desolate and disorienting. They’ll equip you with practices (like The Apprentice Prayer and emotionally honest conversation) to cultivate a heart that rests in God before, during, and after hardship.

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Reflecting and Rejoicing as You Start the New Year

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 31 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000

The new year is typically a time to “leave the old behind” and “look forward to the new.” But it’s easy to become so future-oriented that you miss Jesus’ presence with you here and now! That’s why it’s powerful to reflect and rejoice in Christ before you turn the page to next year.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share the heart of genuine gratitude — being thankful for who Jesus is and not only what he does. They’ll equip you with a practical discipline that will transform the way you find closure and step into new seasons with hope, focus, and a healthy soul.

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Carrying the Joy and Power of God's Presence

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 24 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000

Followers of Jesus carry the joy and power of his presence everywhere they go! This means we can cheerfully spread his mighty love to others during ordinary moments of everyday life. But opposition like hurry, stress, or over-earnestness can cause us to miss Jesus’ warm smile toward us and those around us.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpackage the miracle of the indwelling presence of Jesus’ Spirit and encourage you to live every moment in friendship with him. Your heart will come alive as you learn to joyfully and powerfully participate in your Best Friend’s work.

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Immersed in Jesus' Presence in Handel's Messiah

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 17 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000

Many of us only skim the surface when it comes to spiritual growth because we don’t know how to relate to Jesus personally. Yet an under recognized and undervalued part of growth in Christlikeness is immersion in Jesus’ presence. Engaging your senses through spiritual practices like Gospel meditation helps you come face to face with Jesus and embrace his cleansing, healing, and growth.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi reflect on a recent time of feeling saturated in Jesus’ presence while watching Handel’s oratorio, Messiah. You’ll be drawn to know and experience Christ more fully — participating in his joy, suffering, and ministry as a wounded healer. They then empower you with practical ways to go deeper with Jesus through spiritual practices.

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You are Wanted by Jesus and his Father

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 10 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000

It's easy to miss the many ways Papa God reveals his abundant love for us through Jesus. Focusing only on “major” themes when reading the Gospels (although this is good) can cause us to miss the “minor” yet meaningful ways Jesus expresses Abba’s heart. Thankfully, practicing slow and prayerful Scripture meditation helps us know and embrace God's desire for us.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share their recent Advent meditations from the life of Joseph. You will walk away confident that Abba sees, hears, and pursues you because of his gentle and relentless love.

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Rediscovering Christmas (Conversation with A.J. Sherrill)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 3 Dec 2024 11:00:00 +0000

Do you feel disconnected from the Christmas Story? It’s easy to feel like Mary, Zechariah, or the Innkeeper are “characters” or “super saints” far removed from real life in God. But diving into the ancient context and practicing prayerful meditation will help us find our story within the Advent Story.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi talks with A.J. Sherrill — lead pastor, teacher, and author of Rediscovering Christmas: Surprising Insights into the Story You Thought You Knew. Your heart will be filled with longing as you gain a deeper understanding of the Nativity and how it transforms your relationship with Jesus today.

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So Many Decisions and Responsibilities — How to Trust God?

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 26 Nov 2024 11:00:00 +0000

Does the responsibility of decision-making leave you feeling overwhelmed or anxious? As life and ministry move forward, all of us face the reality that there's too much to carry without Jesus. This is when we can learn to lean on Immanuel who wants to journey with us, help shoulder the heavy load, and lead us in making decisions.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share how they practice trusting the Spirit's work through stressful ministry situations and growth. You'll learn to depend more deeply on Abba through faith-stretching circumstances as you become aware of how he's leading you and come to trust he's also guiding those around you.

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Playful and Trusting Like a Child with Jesus for the Holidays

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 19 Nov 2024 11:00:00 +0000

Did you know that Jesus delights in the little child inside of you? It might be hard for some of us to believe that he wants to make us smile and laugh like an elated youngster during the holidays. But our Savior continues to pursue us out of his deep desire to bring us home into playful joy and secure trust.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share their reflections from a visual meditation on the Christmas Story. You will feel drawn to experience the depths of your Papa’s heart for you through the childlike experience of Jesus. Plus, they share practical ways to connect with Abba through the heart and eyes of a young one during the holidays.

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Loving Adult Children Who Disappoint You

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 12 Nov 2024 11:00:00 +0000

Any close relationship can bring us pain or grief when those we love make choices that are opposite of what we desired. This is especially true for parents with adult children. Thankfully, we can learn to trust our Perfect Father to teach us how to transition into a new season of parenthood.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi create a safe space to explore the relational dynamics with your adult children. You’ll be encouraged to trust Jesus to surround your kids with wounded healers, pray for relational restoration, and practice patience as part of your own apprenticeship to Jesus.

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Putting Your Problems in the Light of Jesus' Smile

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 5 Nov 2024 11:00:00 +0000

All of us know (maybe a little too well) that problems are everyday occurrences. Simultaneously, God's kingdom is always open to us and the risen Christ is present in every trial. Learning to put our problems in light of Jesus' smile helps us stay present to our Best Friend and loving to those around us.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi teach you how to practice Jesus' presence during distress. Cultivating awareness of Jesus does not mean denying your pain and needs during hard times. Instead, you can be comforted by the Good Shepherd through practices like meditating on his suffering and emotionally honest soul talks with friends.

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Jesus Runs to You With Open Arms

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 29 Oct 2024 10:00:00 +0000

All of us have an inner child who needs to be securely attached to God. But sometimes, hurts, wounds, and untrue belief systems complicate trusting his extravagant love for us. Thankfully, Jesus runs to us with open arms so we can find safety in Abba's delight.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share Bible insights that reveal a Heavenly Father who uniquely and personally pursues you in love. They give practical ways to build a secure attachment to God, including Scripture meditation, emotional honesty, finding healing for your inner resistance, and embracing warm empathy from others.

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Self-Talk for a Flourishing Life - It's Different Than You Think

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 22 Oct 2024 10:00:00 +0000

All of us talk to ourselves! Sometimes, the voices in our heads are holy and healthy while other times they’re shaming or critical. How do we cultivate self-talk that is truly helpful and draws us closer to God?

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi alert you to some of the biggest pitfalls of self-talk, including self-help projects, cheerleading your soul, and “claiming” truth at the cost of suppressing your emotions. They use the Psalms as a model to teach you how to engage in self-talk that’s prayerful, emotionally honest, and invites empathy from God and soul friends.

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Beyond Boredom Into Beauty, Intimacy, and Adventure

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 15 Oct 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Today's world of smartphones, streaming, and productivity keeps us from ever having to endure boredom. Plus, the restlessness that surfaces when left alone with our thoughts and feelings often reveals a discomfort we'd rather avoid. But constant distraction stops us from engaging in the meaningful spiritual work Jesus accomplishes when we are bored.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss the importance of embracing boredom. Sticking with practices like solitude, silence, and Sabbath (even when they feel boring) helps you get in touch with the deepest longings of your soul — your longings for Jesus. You can train to appreciate God in boredom and move into beauty, intimacy, and adventure with him.

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Spiritual Growth in Marriage (Conversation with Briana Gaultiere)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 8 Oct 2024 10:00:00 +0000

The union of marriage is one way we experience Jesus — his affection, his formation, and his invitation to selfless love. But navigating both our relationship with Jesus and a spouse doesn’t come without challenges. How do we love each other well when walking through different spiritual seasons?

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi and Briana Gaultiere discuss how stages of faith influence marriage dynamics. They teach you how to understand, support, and pray for each other’s unique needs in your marriage so you can grow closer together (and closer to Jesus) instead of farther apart.

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Cultivating a Healthy Marriage (Conversation with Briana Gaultiere)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 1 Oct 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Cultivating a marriage that is spiritually, emotionally, and physically healthy takes intentional work. Busy schedules, family dynamics, and personal woundedness (not to mention parenting kiddos) can make this challenging. But you and your spouse can grow closer together as you both grow in Jesus’ wholeness.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi and Briana Gaultiere talk about cultivating a marriage that honors Jesus and each other. You will learn to see and support your spouse more deeply by growing in relational awareness, spiritual friendship, and emotional safety.

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Smartphones and Spiritual Formation (Conversation with Briana Gaultiere)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 24 Sep 2024 10:00:00 +0000

The average person spends four and a half hours on their smartphone every day! Between text and email notifications, social media, sports news, and “trending” videos — there’s a lot fighting for our attention. Maybe it’s time to pause and ask an important question: What are the spiritual consequences of this constant distraction?

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi and Briana Gaultiere discuss the pros and cons of smartphones on your growth in Christlikeness. You’ll learn the valuable role that attention plays in spiritual formation and feel inspired to seek God’s wisdom on how you and your family can best use phones in apprenticeship to Jesus.

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Grieve, Breathe, Receive (Conversation with Steve Carter)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 17 Sep 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Sorting through grief is never fast or easy! All the “what ifs” and messy emotions feel unsettling and challenging to engage. Thankfully, we don’t grieve without hope. Because Jesus’ tomb is empty, we can trust in God’s goodness as we process times of complicated change and painful loss with him.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi interviews Steve Carter — teaching pastor and author of Grieve, Breathe, Receive: Finding a Faith Strong Enough to Hold Us. Drawing from Steve’s journey through the desert of grief, you will be empowered to take heart from Jesus in every season and embrace the healing work he wants to do inside your soul.

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Caring for Highly Sensitive People (A Conversation with Briana Gaultiere)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 10 Sep 2024 10:00:00 +0000

All of us are in a relationship with somebody who is a highly sensitive person. Sensitivity comes with both unique needs and gifts in marriage, friendship, etc. Whether you are highly sensitive or know somebody who is — you can help support the journey toward spiritual and emotional health.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi and Briana Gaultiere break down the distinct path to Jesus’ wholeness and purpose for highly sensitive people. If you’re highly sensitive, you’ll learn how to establish routines, set boundaries, and engage community in a way that cultivates growth. If you’re not, you’ll learn how you can give Jesus’ gift of understanding, safety, and respect to those who are.

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Emotional & Spiritual Growth for Highly Sensitive People (Conversation with Briana Gaultiere)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 3 Sep 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Highly sensitive people often relate to the world differently than others. They might be more easily overwhelmed by their environment, the emotions of others, and distressing movies or TV shows. If you are highly sensitive, this experience can present challenges! But embracing your sensitivity helps you care for your soul and unlock your unique giftings.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi and Briana Gaultiere uncover the unique path to emotional and spiritual growth as a highly sensitive person. You will feel encouraged to make room for life-giving spiritual disciplines and empowered to draw boundaries that will help you love Jesus, yourself, and others well.

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What It Means to Be a Highly Sensitive Person (Conversation with Briana Gaultiere)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 27 Aug 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Does it feel like you are more sensitive to your environment, the subtleties of your surroundings, and the emotional climate around you more than others? It can feel confusing or disheartening when you feel different from those you love. But high sensitivity (or understanding someone who experiences this) can be a gift in your relationship with Jesus and others!

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi and Briana Gautiere share their stories of learning and embracing life as highly sensitive persons. They define the traits of high sensitivity, talk openly about the difficulties, and help reframe how you think about sensitive experiences.

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Enneagram for Moms (Conversation with Beth McCord)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 20 Aug 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Personality affects the dynamics in all of our closest relationships—including our relationships with our kids. Unsurprisingly, we face relational challenges when caring for our dear children who are "different" from us. But we can learn to move toward them with the same understanding, empathy, and compassion Jesus has for us.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks for a conversation between Kristi and Beth McCord—author of The Enneagram for Moms: See the True Colors of Yourself and Your Children as God Intends. You will be moved to grow by Jesus’ grace in your unique personality so you can more lovingly embrace and nurture your children in their exceptional design.

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Trusting (and Hopefully Feeling) that God Works ALL Things for Your Good

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 13 Aug 2024 10:00:00 +0000

God is good in ALL things! But seeing his goodness can be challenging when we experience suffering, unjustness, or seasons of spiritual dryness. All of us need help to trust our Father’s loving care at times.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi teach you how to see your circumstances through the lens of Jesus’ goodness and love. During times of doubt, the Good Shepherd wants to minister to you in unique and powerful ways—you can take heart from soul friends, heroes of our faith who have persevered, and practices like healing prayer.

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When Being a Better Person Feels Out of Reach

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 6 Aug 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Resolving to “try harder” doesn’t make us look more like Jesus. But the flip side of the coin is also true—falling into passivity doesn’t form us in Christlikeness. Yet Jesus casts a vision about living as whole-souled apprentices of love because he intends to help us become like him.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss praying the Apprentice Prayer with the intention of living like Jesus. This practice will enthrall you with the vision of his life in the Gospels and help you become like him little by little through the power of the Spirit.

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Intrusive Thoughts, Spiritual Warfare, and Emotional Care

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 30 Jul 2024 10:00:00 +0000

All of us experience intrusive thoughts that invade our minds and disturb our peace. The emotions attached to these thoughts can feel alarming and leave us looking for answers. But should we pray against spiritual warfare or seek inner healing and emotional care?

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi teach you how to pursue freedom as a fully integrated disciple of Jesus. You will learn how to overcome lies by applying the powerful truth of the Bible in a spiritually, emotionally, and relationally healthy way.

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Simple Ways to Practice Sabbath

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 23 Jul 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Keeping a Sabbath is one of the most talked about commandments in the Bible, but it might be the most overlooked. Many people shy away from this practice—they fear it's a legalistic rule or too heavy a burden. Yet the Sabbath is a discipline of delight designed to nourish your soul!

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore Abba's heart for the Sabbath. They envision you with simple practices that will help you start where you are, partner with Jesus' grace, and cultivate his Sabbath rest in your life and work.

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Sabbath for Families

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 16 Jul 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Many of us long for the rest and rhythm of Sabbath. But setting aside an entire day can feel overwhelming and unattainable—especially if you are a parent with young kids. Yet Abba’s heart is that Sabbath would bring blessing into your life instead of adding more burden.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share how they started small and learned to practice Sabbath as a family. Regardless of your season of life, these practical steps will help you train with Jesus and start enjoying the gift of praying and playing with your Best Friend!

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When Following Christ Feels Dutiful

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 9 Jul 2024 10:00:00 +0000

All of us have experienced times when serving Jesus feels like a burdensome duty instead of a joyful delight. This realization feels confusing and concerning—often leading us to rely more heavily on our own abilities and become irritable or exhausted. But Jesus uses the "walls" we hit to invite us to pause, slow down, and surrender to the deep and beautiful he is doing inside our soul!

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explain what's happening when spiritual disciplines and serving others become obligations you should do instead of practices you want to do. You can be renewed by engaging in an inner journey of deeper honesty and life-giving intimacy with Jesus.

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Resilient Leadership Pt 2

Tue, 2 Jul 2024 10:00:00 +0000

A growing apprentice of Jesus walks through many stages in their journey with him. Following our Good Shepherd through change is necessary to know Jesus deeply and become more like him. But wanting to move forward doesn’t always help us get there—it can be unclear where we need to go or how to move ahead!

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi help bring awareness and language to your current stage of faith. You can learn how to embrace the unique needs of your season, continue to grow in spiritual and emotional health, and trust your Guide to move deeper into Jesus’ heart.

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Resilient Leadership Pt 1

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 25 Jun 2024 10:00:00 +0000

We don’t sign up to go through trials or crises in our faith, life, or leadership—they just happen! This can leave us feeling dry, worn out, and stuck. Hitting this kind of wall can be dangerous, but it’s also an opportunity to go deeper with Jesus in emotional health and loving leadership.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share part one of an insightful teaching on resilient leadership. You will be encouraged to learn that times of great renewal in Jesus often start by becoming emotionally honest and finding support during seasons of discouragement, disorientation, and doubt.

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Is Self-Love Selfish? (Mental Health & Faith)

Tue, 18 Jun 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Many of us neglect to receive the love and care we need from Jesus because our picture of self-love has been distorted. The Bible’s teachings about selflessness can be easily misunderstood and misapplied. Plus, culture promotes a type of self-love that is detached from Jesus and leads to a fractured soul.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi teach about biblically sound and psychologically healthy self-love. The true way to love others like Jesus is to fully embrace his love for you and agree with the song of grace he is singing over your life!

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Is it Codependent to Keep Forgiving? (Mental Health & Faith)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 11 Jun 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Jesus freely forgives our sins and instructs us not to limit the forgiveness we give others. But forgiveness can turn into a codependent relationship when we neglect to express how we really feel and overfunction to help others. This is why learning to handle relational conflict wisely is an important part of our apprenticeship to Christ.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi show you how Jesus modeled both forgiveness and limits. You can also grow to love yourself and others well by communicating your hurts and needs, setting necessary boundaries, and entrusting the care of others to the Good Shepherd.

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Is Shame Helpful to Resist Sin? (Mental Health & Faith)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 4 Jun 2024 10:00:00 +0000

It is confusing to hear "shame on you" after doing something wrong. Agreeing with shame seems like it will motivate us in the battle against sin, but it only reinforces the lie that we are "bad people" and leads to more temptation. Thankfully, Jesus forms us to be and act more loving by "taking shame off" instead of putting it on!

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss how to get free of shame by relying on Jesus' all-sufficient sacrifice, agreeing with his grace, and training with him. He equips you to resist sin the healthy way—by drawing empathy, support, and strength from him and his ambassadors during times of discouragement and temptation.

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Is Addiction Sinful? (Mental Health & Faith)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 28 May 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Those dealing with addiction can get categorized as bad people. Addiction certainly leads to sinful behavior, but to say those struggling are “just sinners” is a gross oversimplification. It is more accurate to call addiction a disease because most people don’t want to be addicted—they are formed with deep, habitual responses they can no longer control.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss how those dealing with addiction can heal from the hurts and unmet needs underlying their behavior through long apprenticeship to Jesus. Plus, we can all rally around those struggling, learn about their unique challenges, and love them with the compassion of Jesus.

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Is Depression a Lack of Faith? (Mental Health & Faith)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 21 May 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Depression makes us feel like we are walking around in a heavy darkness that will never get better. Judging our faith—or receiving criticism from others—only worsens the suffocating pit of sadness and grief. Thankfully, our Good Shepherd knows how to lead us through the darkest valleys.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpackage the true meaning of faith—authentic trust in Jesus that grows as you persevere through trials by walking with him. You’ll learn how tools like honesty, empathy, spiritual friendship, and sometimes therapy help you work through depression and renew your confidence in Christ.

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Is Anxiety a Lack of Faith? (Mental Health & Faith)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 14 May 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Many of us are familiar with the “control disease” called anxiety. Some of us attempt to rule over outcomes while others try to manage their image. But anxiety isn’t a conscious choice—it happens when we deny our emotions brewing under the surface and get overloaded.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpackage the sources and symptoms of anxiety. They turn to the Psalms as a model to show you how to process repressed emotions and access the best remedy for anxiousness—trusting Jesus with all your soul!

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Is Fear a Lack of Faith?

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 7 May 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Sadly, many of us have been taught that fear is wrong or even a sin. A faulty or incomplete interpretation of certain scriptures can lead us to stuff our fears, force ourselves to think positively, and try hard to muster up faith. Rest assured, there is a better route to a healthy and thriving confidence in Christ.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack what faith in relationship with Jesus really looks like. Their well-rounded and biblical approach to overcoming fear will help you get emotionally honest, receive the support you need, and empower you to act with your fearless Savior!

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Is Church Good for Mental Health? (Mental Health & Faith)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 30 Apr 2024 10:00:00 +0000

For many, church has had both helpful and harmful effects on their mental health. Church hurt is especially disorienting and sadly leads some to completely give up on Jesus’ body. But it is encouraging that studies show church is overall positive for mental health as God uses his family to bring reparative healing and growth to his beloved children.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share their experience with church and mental health—both their personal story and work with ministry leaders who are learning and teaching psychologically healthy faith. You will discover how valuable church is to a flourishing soul and take courage to engage in communal spiritual practices.

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The Benefits of Caring for Your Body as God’s Temple

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 23 Apr 2024 10:00:00 +0000

It’s common to think life with Jesus should be centered only around activities perceived as “spiritual”—devotions, prayer, going to church, etc. But healthy and whole apprenticeship to Jesus is an integrated life in Christ! This includes engaging and caring for our physical bodies to love God, ourselves, and others like Jesus does.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi teach the importance of valuing your body—God’s dwelling place—in spiritual formation. You will learn how to bring your whole soul into harmony with God’s kingdom through intentional stewardship of your body and incorporating spiritual disciplines into your physical life.

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427 - Sacrificing Too Much? Let God's Love Woo You!

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 16 Apr 2024 10:00:00 +0000

The idea of abandoning ourselves to God can feel scary. Our broken and wounded parts unconsciously hesitate to surrender, unsure how safe it is to trust the Lord with everything. Thankfully, Abba leads the way! He sacrificially abandoned himself to us in love by giving his One and Only Son.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi help you get caught up in the thrill of God’s affectionate abandonment. Abba doesn’t force you to surrender—he woos you! You will slowly but confidently come to trust him in every area as you allow yourself to be impacted by his courtship of your heart.

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How to Resist the Quicksand of a Bad Mood

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 9 Apr 2024 10:00:00 +0000

It’s easy to sink deeper into negative feelings until a bad mood becomes a lousy day or depressing season. Plus, our melancholy moods can drag others into the quicksand with us! Thankfully, Jesus extends his strong and gentle hand to pull us out of this destructive downward spiral.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share how they take heart from Jesus and each other to keep from losing themselves in the traps of self-pity and mood-matching. You will be equipped with tools to help you care for yourself and others when a bad mood strikes and remain present in God’s kingdom of grace.

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The Spiritual Practice of Storytelling (A Conversation with Dr. Barbara Peacock)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 2 Apr 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Jesus told powerful stories! He invites us, also, to draw closer to God through the practice of storytelling. It can feel scary to uncover past wounds and questions as we attempt to make sense of our journey. But our Redeemer desires to restore us by helping us see God’s story in our story.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi interviews Dr. Barbara Peacock—spiritual director, teacher, and author of Spiritual Practices for Soul Care: 40 Ways to Deepen Your Faith. You will be encouraged to embrace your whole story as you are empowered with spiritual disciplines to help you see it through God’s eyes.

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The Benefits of Setting Your Imagination on Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 26 Mar 2024 10:00:00 +0000

We all know the harm our imaginations can do when we live into stories that fall short of God’s best for our lives. But creative thinking can also be a powerful tool in your apprenticeship to Christ.Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi teach you how to set your imagination on Jesus and flourish in the reality of his invisible kingdom. Engaging your imagination during prayer and Bible meditation will help you encounter Christ in more personal and fresh ways.

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Is Jesus' Incarnation as Big a Suffering as His Cross?

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 19 Mar 2024 10:00:00 +0000

God is reaching out to us in innumerable ways, but the greatest demonstration of his love is through the Incarnation. We often reflect on Jesus’ suffering on the cross but may overlook the suffering he also endured while taking on human flesh and living among us.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss how God’s perfect empathy is revealed in his Incarnation. Meditating on Hebrews 4:15 and focusing on his experiences of suffering will help you find confidence in Jesus’ empathy for you in your trials. As you grow in this grace through community, your wounds can bring healing to others.

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For Type A Leaders and the Spouses Who Love Them

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 12 Mar 2024 10:00:00 +0000

Type A and Type B leaders can be on different wavelengths with opposing priorities and needs. While this may often result in conflict, there is also deeply important work to be done to learn and grow from these differences.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack their experiences as a couple with different values, drives, and personalities. We need relationships that refine us like iron sharpens iron. Even in painful times, you can come to see these differences as a gift of love from the Lord to shape you to love and serve like Jesus. You’ll also learn ways to talk about these issues with your loved one.

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Surprised by Grace in Hard Times

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 5 Mar 2024 11:00:00 +0000

We all face difficult circumstances at some point in our lives. Even though they may not be what we would choose, they provide us the opportunity for deeper formation in Christlikeness.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss enduring discipline. While we may struggle in hard times, we can learn to see God loving us in them and willing good for us. Reflecting on Jesus’ example of suffering helps us practice submission and trust and recognize the hidden blessings in our own sufferings.

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Real Community is Possible for You

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 27 Feb 2024 11:00:00 +0000

Real community is critical for the care of our souls. When you press into Jesus with your needs and join with others doing the same, your intimacy with Jesus grows and you find space for your soul to rest.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss the benefits of a retreat community. You’ll catch a vision for the ways this powerful form of soul care creates opportunities for necessary growth and healing and equips you for more fruitful ministry and life.

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Surprising Sweetness in Suffering

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 20 Feb 2024 08:00:00 +0000

Suffering is hard. When we face an unexpected stretch of illness or other difficult circumstances, we may feel disoriented and lost. Yet in the pause from our normal rhythm of life, God is doing a deep work.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss a recent experience of suffering. Even in the trial, there is intimacy and sweet companionship to be found in a greater understanding of Christ’s sufferings for you and his presence with you.

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The Enneagram & Marriage: A Conversation with Jackie Brewster

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 13 Feb 2024 11:00:00 +0000

How can the Enneagram help your marriage? The Enneagram is a beautiful tool for growth when it’s used in the right way. Increasing your understanding of yourself and your spouse strengthens your relationship so you can grow together.

Tune in to Soul Talks as Kristi interviews author, Enneagram coach, podcast host, and experiential specialist Jackie Brewster as they discuss her new book, The Enneagram and Your Marriage. When you understand behavior patterns in your relationship, you can take responsibility for your own challenges and grow in empathy and compassion for each other.

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Lessons From an Old Russian Spiritual Director

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 6 Feb 2024 11:00:00 +0000

Older devotional classics enliven our hunger for God and help us recognize our desperation for Jesus. Reading stories of average people powerfully transformed and used by God encourages our faith and deepens our intimacy with Jesus.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share insights gleaned from a Russian spiritual director in Poustinia: Encountering God in Silence, Solitude and Prayer. This expression of spiritual direction will inspire you to view your soul as a private prayer space for the Lord (a poustinia) where you receive others with hospitality and love.

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Q & A on Earning a Certificate in Spiritual Direction

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 30 Jan 2024 11:00:00 +0000

Are you longing to go deeper with Jesus in emotional health and loving leadership? Joyful, anointed by God, overflow ministry goes beyond techniques. It’s a rhythm of life and a way of being with God and others in relationship.

Tune in to this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi talk about their journey of growth through spiritual direction and answer common questions about Soul Shepherding’s certificate in spiritual direction. No matter what your background or life stage, whether this is for your own formation or to pursue working as a spiritual director, this accessible and practical training will equip you to joyfully follow Holy Spirit’s leading in all of your relationships and ministry.

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What it's Like to Earn a Certificate in Spiritual Direction

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 23 Jan 2024 11:00:00 +0000

Do you long for more in your relationship with God and from your relationships in ministry? Spiritual direction can foster your formation in intimacy with Jesus, and out of the overflow of your own growth, help others experience the same thing.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi talk about earning a certificate in spiritual direction. If you long for time to focus on your own discipleship to Jesus, meet with a spiritual director, process with soul friends, be guided by Holy Spirit, and train in soul care and spiritual disciplines, consider entering our spiritual direction training program. It is a powerful time of growth for your own journey that will bless others as well.

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The Joy of Living in Perpetual Wonder

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 16 Jan 2024 11:00:00 +0000

In life, the journey is as important as the destination. While goals and resolutions are important, focusing so much on outcomes can cause us to lose sight of God’s work around us.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss the joy of living in perpetual wonder. Remembering what God has done in the past feeds our hope and faith as we adventure with Holy Spirit and leave the outcomes to him.

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Real Hope for a Better Life

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 9 Jan 2024 11:00:00 +0000

In a culture full of wishes for a better life, true hope is much more than wishful thinking. Robust, Biblical hope is the anticipation of the goodness and truth of God in our lives.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore the impact of living with real hope. This honest exploration of hope, reflection, circumstances, trials, and transformation will encourage your heart as you look to the year ahead.

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How to Care for the Soul of a Leader

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 2 Jan 2024 11:00:00 +0000

God entrusts us with an eternal soul and we need to strengthen our souls in the Lord. To serve out of the overflow of God’s grace to us rather than our own strength, we need to cultivate our intimacy with God and pursue cycles of spiritual renewal.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack how to care for your soul as a leader. Through practical and specific guidance, you’ll understand the components needed to steward your soul for God’s glory and fruitfulness in ministry.

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Advent and the End Times - Jesus' Empathy and Hope

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 26 Dec 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Advent is a time of looking back at Jesus’ first coming and ahead to his second coming. But some aspects of the end times may feel frightening when we consider possible future suffering or lack of control. How do we draw on Jesus’ empathy and hope?

Tune in to this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi help us understand how to manage our emotions during a potentially traumatic time and keep our perspective on heavenly things. Rather than feeling consumed with worry for the future, we can train with Jesus now to find sufficiency and sweetness in God’s presence even in injustice and difficulty.

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A Very Present Help - Amy Carmichael

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 19 Dec 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Seasons of unanswered prayers, difficulty, and confusion can feel like walking through the mist of an unknown future. But joy, peace, love, meaning, and purposefulness are possible even when our future is unclear if we center our confidence in Jesus.

Tune in to this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share a devotional reading — In a Great Mist, Follow-on Right Behind Jesus — from Amy Carmichael, an Irish missionary who gave her life to help children in India. Her story of learning to follow Jesus while bedridden after a serious accident will strengthen your heart to trust in Jesus and encourage others during days of uncertainty.

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Returning to Joy and Peace in Holiday Stress

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 12 Dec 2023 11:00:00 +0000

The pace of our modern world is constant hurry and excitement. But rhythms of both high stimulation in joy and returning to quieter times of peace, safety, and rest are crucial for shalom. We get more joy from doing less.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi reflect on the balance between joy and peace in the middle of holiday stress. You’ll find ways to cultivate intentional rhythms to flow in the fruit of the Spirit, receive the blessings of the moment, and get the most from this holiday season.

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Expectations and Hopes in Holiday Stress

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 5 Dec 2023 11:00:00 +0000

The holidays are full of expectations and hopes, but we may not even be aware of some of our expectations until they aren’t met. During this season of heightened activity and stress, it is possible to keep our hopes fixed firmly on Jesus.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore the differences between hope and expectation. In navigating stress, disappointments, and family conflict, you can leave the outcomes with Jesus. Re-setting your hope in God and looking for evidence of his goodness will help you process unconscious expectations and renew your joy.

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Limits and Love in Holiday Stress

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 28 Nov 2023 11:00:00 +0000

“More” is often the theme of this season — more gatherings, more celebrations, more shopping, and more activities! But too much of a good thing can be stressful, and setting limits is key.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss boundaries around the holidays. These boundaries for self-care give us strength to be generous. The ability to say “No”, frees us to say “Yes”. You’ll draw encouragement to assess your own needs this holiday season and create limits that enable you to love well.

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Enjoying Advent—Even in the Stress

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 21 Nov 2023 11:00:00 +0000

In the coming season of Advent, we love to celebrate together with friends and family and in times of silence and solitude. You can experience greater depth and intimacy with Jesus during advent by meditating on the biblical accounts of Christ’s birth even in the midst of stressful circumstances.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share which character in the Christmas story they most relate to in this season of their life and ministry. You’ll learn how you can use Surprising Joy: A Journey with Jesus for Advent for visual devotions to deepen connections in your small group, ministry, and family gatherings as well as for your personal devotions.

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Emotional Enmeshment, Boundaries, and Compassion

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 14 Nov 2023 11:00:00 +0000

As soul shepherds, we can lose ourselves while caring for others. Maintaining our identity and boundaries and avoiding enabling, rescuing, and co-dependence is crucial for healthy relationships.

Tune in to this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss enmeshment and boundaries. Growing in emotional intelligence helps you create a clear and grounded sense of self. You’ll learn to care for your own emotions while loving and supporting someone in need.

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Grief Reactions, Repressed Emotions, and Empathy

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 7 Nov 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Powerful emotions like grief can feel overwhelming, especially if you are not used to recognizing or processing your feelings. But you don’t have to stay stuck in painful emotions! You can learn to have your emotions serve you rather than control you.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss healthy ways to process grief and sadness. You’ll understand the difference between repressing and containing your feelings, and how spiritual and emotional training can grow your emotional intelligence to make you effective in your life, relationships, and work.

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Come Alive in Spiritual Direction: Enneagram Nine Soul Care

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 31 Oct 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Peacemakers who tune into the needs of others have a vision for bringing harmony and collaboration to their relationships. But sometimes the desire for peace can cause you to fall asleep to your own needs and avoid stress and conflict.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss soul care for Enneagram Nines — spiritual direction. If you are a Nine or have a line, wing, or relationship with a Nine, you’ll learn the root sin, emotional alarm, and soul care practice to increase your self-awareness and self-activate in following God’s will.

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Enjoying Spiritual Friendship: Enneagram Eight Soul Care

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 24 Oct 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Energetic and dynamic personalities who are confident and bold influence and impact others as leaders. Yet you may resist vulnerability, using your strength to protect yourself.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore soul care for Enneagram Eights — spiritual friendship. If you are an Eight, or have a line, wing, or relationship with an Eight, you’ll learn the emotional alarm, family formation, root sin, stress emotion, virtue, and soul care practice to become vulnerable with the Lord and a soul friend to be your healthiest, most joyful, tender loving self.

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Quiet Prayer for Deeper Joy - Surprising Soul Care for Sevens and Everyone

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 17 Oct 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Joyful enthusiasts are exceptional at creating and spreading happiness and fun among those they love. Yet you may also misuse enthusiasm and charisma to avoid anxiety, pain, and conflict.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss soul care for Enneagram Sevens — quiet prayer. If you are a Seven or have a line, wing, or relationship with a Seven, you’ll understand the emotional alarm, defense mechanism, stress line, and soul care practice to draw you into the depths with Jesus to experience maximum joy with a peaceful and quiet brain.

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Peace for Your Busy Brain: Enneagram Six Soul Care

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 10 Oct 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Practical thinkers who are effective multitaskers look out for the well-being of others. Yet underneath, you may struggle with fear and worry, looking for security and safety nets.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore soul care practices to quiet the busy brain of Enneagram Sixes. If you are a Six or have a line, wing, or relationship with a Six, you’ll learn the emotional alarm, Biblical examples, common mistypes, empathy statements, and soul care practices to find the sweet, peaceful center in your relationship with Jesus.

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Bible Study as Worship: Enneagram Five Soul Care

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 3 Oct 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Thinkers and analyzers are often keen observers who ask insightful questions. However, approaching your life primarily through analysis without emotional awareness can be an unhealthy way of coping with anxiety.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack soul care for Enneagram Fives — Bible study as worship. If you are a Five or have a line, wing, or relationship with a Five, you’ll learn your emotional alarm and soul care practices to engage your heart, increase your intimacy with God, and become emotionally alive.

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The Blessing of Thankfulness: Enneagram Four Soul Care

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 26 Sep 2023 10:00:00 +0000

If you are a deep feeler, sometimes living in melancholy emotions can cause you to lose sight of your positive emotions. Being able to find words for emotions is a gift, but our own deep emotions are not the only thing that is authentic about us.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack thankfulness as a soul care practice for Enneagram Fours. If you are a Four or have a line, wing, or relationship with a Four, you’ll learn an important virtue to cultivate and several soul care practices to regain emotional balance to see what is true, good, and beautiful.

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Being Real to Grow in Grace: Enneagram Three Soul Care

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 19 Sep 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Being successful and winning appeals to all of us, but when this becomes a measure of our worth we are imprisoned by our false self. Living up to conditions of worth can suffocate your soul and lead to burnout.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss the importance of emotional honesty. If you are an Enneagram Three or have a wing, line, or relationship with a Three, you’ll learn the emotional alarm and spiritual disciplines to help you grow in grace and emotional honesty to bring your authentic self to Jesus.

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Solitude Supports Self-Esteem: Enneagram Two Soul Care

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 12 Sep 2023 10:00:00 +0000

We all need to be loved. For Enneagram Twos, the deep core belief that you aren’t loved or wanted can drive you to secure love from others by focusing on meeting their needs while denying your own. If you are a Two or connect to Two through a wing, line, or relationship, understanding shame and the role solitude plays in soul care is critical.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss solitude as a key soul care practice for Twos to combat unconscious coping mechanisms. You’ll learn how to practice the discipline of solitude to reorient you to the love and embrace of Jesus rather than denying your own needs or striving to meet them in unhealthy ways.

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Letting Go Fosters Joy: Enneagram One Soul Care

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 5 Sep 2023 10:00:00 +0000

As leaders and soul shepherds, we seek to be responsible and do our best. But the wisdom of God is to do your best, but don’t trust your best!

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss abandoning outcomes to God, the primary soul care practice for Enneagram Ones. All types can struggle with wanting our work and relationships to go a certain way. You’ll learn specific ways to train in abandoning outcomes until it proves to be an easy yoke with Jesus and a source of joy and peace.

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The Blessing of Immersive Retreats for All Enneagram Types

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 29 Aug 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Stepping outside of our normal routines and habits of life to draw close to the Lord in retreat fosters incredible healing, growth, and life change. These extended windows of time allow you to explore your hurts, hopes, dysfunctions, and needs.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share the power of an immersive retreat for each Enneagram type. You’ll learn the key spiritual discipline for each of the nine types and ways to practice them on retreat to become more like Jesus.

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Devotion to Jesus in Your Enneagram Type

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 22 Aug 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Reading the classics of devotion to Jesus is an incredible source of encouragement for our faith. When a devotional classic highlights lessons and struggles by someone with our Enneagram type, the impact is even more profound.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore a devotional classic written by an Enneagram Three. Reading classics by Enneagram types you relate to personally or types of those you love helps you understand each type’s root sin and strengths in a deeper and more personal way. You’ll be blessed as you explore some of these classics for yourself.

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Appreciating Jesus in Your Enneagram Type

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 15 Aug 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Cultivating our enthrallment with Jesus is so important because we are shaped by what we love. For all nine Enneagram types, the Gospels show us Jesus as the healthy and holy perfection of our type.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi reveal Jesus as the perfect Enneagram Six. Jesus is the exemplary Loyalist, trusting in God’s authority, and a pragmatic problem solver. As you come to appreciate Jesus as the perfection of your own Enneagram type, you will be drawn to become more like him.

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Waking Up to the Emotional Alarm of Your Enneagram Type

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 8 Aug 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Each Enneagram type has a unique emotional alarm that is an unconscious behavior pattern. This alarm helps us identify the lie from the enemy that we have believed in the area we are most vulnerable.

Tune into this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss the power of your emotional alarm to reveal your slide into unhealthy parts of your personality. Learning to recognize this alarm will help you ask for the empathy you need to bring this lie to surface, refute it, and find greater freedom and dependence on Jesus.

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Don't Be Charmed to Death by Your Enneagram Type

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 1 Aug 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Our personality can charm us when we only focus on its positive aspects and remain unaware of our needs and the unconscious areas where we are broken or dysfunctional. These ways of coping work for a while, but ultimately limit our growth and health in Jesus.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore the blindspots of our Enneagram type through the example of type Nines. When you recognize the ways your personality is controlling you, you can process your core emotions with empathy to gain freedom in Christ and flourish in his love.

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Your Enneagram Map to Accepting Your Needs

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 25 Jul 2023 10:00:00 +0000

We each have habitual approaches to securing ourselves that come out of our unhealthy selves. When we learn to recognize these false messages operating in the background of our activities, we grow in awareness of our own needs and emotions.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss how to use your Enneagram map for growth and health. Through the example of Enneagram Twos, you’ll see how you can employ this map to recognize when you are depending on yourself to have your needs met rather than depending on Jesus. These targeted insights into your personality give you a path for growth and help you understand those you love.

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Your Enneagram Map to Greater Joy

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 18 Jul 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Much of our personalities are unconscious and habitual defense mechanisms and coping patterns for dealing with pain, problems, and sin, causing us to miss God’s love and grace. The power of the Enneagram as a tool is to help us grow in self-awareness so we can receive God’s grace in areas we need it most.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore Your Enneagram Map: Guides For Each Type to Flourish in God’s Love. We each have three to four subsidiary types for our primary Enneagram type, and this resource will help you understand the patterns of interaction between these wing, stress, and growth types both in your personality and in your relationships with others. As you learn to receive empathy for your specific areas of struggle, you can discover authentic joy.

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Enneagram for Intimacy With Jesus and Emotional Health

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 11 Jul 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Our journey of self-awareness is intertwined with our journey of knowing God. Having language to describe our experiences and understand ourselves and others helps us to love God and love our neighbor as ourselves. This knowledge opens the door for repentance and personal growth.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack the benefits of the Enneagram for intimacy with Jesus and emotional health. The Enneagram helps us become healthier, whole, and holy as we gain awareness of our unconscious sin, stress, and pain and learn how our personality blocks us from depending on Jesus. As you understand the challenges you and your loved ones face in your personalities, you can minister the Lord’s empathy to one another and become more like Jesus.

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Is the Enneagram Safe for Christians?

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 4 Jul 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Perhaps you have been curious about the Enneagram, but wonder about its origins and symbol. As Christians we ask questions of any tool we use — is this consistent with the teachings and values of the Bible? Is it helping me in my relationship with God? Is this helping me to become a more loving person? God is the source of truth, and all truth is God’s truth.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss using the Enneagram as Christians. As teachers of the Enneagram for over 15 years, they have found it to be a powerful tool for personal growth to help us understand the complexities of our personality — including our unconscious sin, pain, and defense mechanisms. You’ll learn a discerning and Christ-centered approach to the Enneagram that will deepen your intimacy with Jesus so you can grow in Christ-likeness.

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Hold That Thought: Conversation With Gem Fadling to Find the Voice of Love

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 27 Jun 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Our thoughts influence how we feel and act, and some of the thoughts in our heads can keep us from fully embracing God’s life and love for us. Allowing all of these narratives to remain unchecked can hinder our growth, but there is hope for us to quiet the noise and discern the voice of our Lord.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi and Gem Fadling discuss Gem’s newest book, Hold That Thought: Sorting Through the Voices in Our Heads. As they share some of the important questions you can ask of the thoughts in your head, you’ll learn to agree with God’s grace, become aware of the work of the enemy, and embrace a new pattern of noticing, discerning, and responding so you can be a vessel who overflows God’s love to others.

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Good & Beautiful & Kind: Conversation With Rich Villodas on Becoming Whole in a Fractured World

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 20 Jun 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Our stories are powerful. We make sense of our own soul stories as we find ourselves in God and his story becomes our story. Living reflectively, engaging curiosity, and cultivating a calm presence requires slowing down in our ordinary, day to day existence, so our story is woven together with Jesus.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi talk with Rich Villodas about his new book, Good and Beautiful and Kind: Becoming Whole in a Fractured World. You’ll be encouraged to live out of your true center, practicing abiding in Jesus, the calmest presence of all. As we live the contemplative life, Jesus himself enters our wounds, redeeming our stories so we can become wounded healers.

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What to Do for Real Rest

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 13 Jun 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Weariness, compassion fatigue, and burnout are the natural result of statistics like these: 44% of pastors are not taking a regular day off, let alone a sabbath day, 63% are not getting enough exercise based on the recommended minimum, 31% get no exercise at all, and 85% of pastors have never taken a sabbatical. We need the renewal that comes from truly resting in God’s presence.

Tune in to Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack our universal need for rest. You’ll receive practical tips for real rest through relational and individual disciplines that you can practice anywhere to draw in close to the Lord. Even small moments of time throughout your day can become opportunities for restorative intimacy with Jesus.

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Mental Health Benefits of Real Rest

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 6 Jun 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Spiritual rest in God’s presence is so important for our mental health. Yet sometimes we avoid true rest because we fear the influx of unprocessed emotional distress that rises up when we create space to slow down.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi examine the importance of rest for our mental health. Jesus set boundaries to care for his own soul by resting and prioritizing intimacy with his Abba. You can train in real rest with Jesus that invigorates you, focuses you, and makes you emotionally alive in order to flourish in your work, relationships, and ministry.

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Should I See a Therapist or Spiritual Director?

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 30 May 2023 07:00:00 +0000

How is therapy different from spiritual direction? How do I know which one I need? Understanding the difference is important, especially when there are not enough professionals to meet the growing mental health need.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore the distinctives and overlap between therapy and spiritual direction. While mental health disorders require the skills and training of a therapist for diagnosis and treatment, many of the things we often associate with therapy can be discussed in spiritual direction. Emotions, anxiety, discouragement, relationship problems, distress, conflict, and hurt can be processed with a spiritual director in a prayerful, safe, and confidential space where you can be emotionally honest and receive the care and love of Jesus.

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Mental Health Benefits of Spiritual Disciplines

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 23 May 2023 10:00:00 +0000

We can use spiritual disciplines in ways that are healing and helpful or in ways that are ineffective and toxic for our mental health. If we deny or negate our emotions, disciplines are not helpful because they disconnect our deeper self from God and from other people.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss the mental health benefits of customized spiritual disciplines. If practiced with emotional honesty, spiritual disciplines tailored to your personality can help you become more aware of your emotions, needs, brokenness, and sin so you can confess them, ask for what you need, and receive compassion and grace where you need it most.

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Caring for Anxiety & Panic Attacks

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Thu, 18 May 2023 10:00:00 +0000

When anxiety grips us, it can feel like the walls are closing in. Anxiety disorders affect 31% of Americans, and all of us will experience anxiety and stress overload at some point in our lives. Even though this feels like an inescapable part of life, it is possible to experience freedom from anxiety!

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore anxiety and panic attacks. Though it is common to think avoiding triggers is the answer, anxiety presents an opportunity from the Lord to dig deeper into underlying emotions. You will understand the roots of anxiety, find pathways for dealing with these feelings, and access the support you need. You don’t have to let anxiety limit your life.

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Understanding Depression

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 9 May 2023 07:00:00 +0000

Many Christians are told their depression is a lack of faith, and if they only think differently and trust God their depression will go away. This sort of shaming holds us back from getting the help we need. Mental health conditions affect our ability to access our insight, intelligence, and brainpower and can disconnect us from God. Depression is paralyzing, but action is curative.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi help us understand depression. You’ll learn about the spectrum of depression and various interventions that help so you can join Jesus in his love and ministry to those suffering in this way.

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Is Suicide a Sin? Offering Compassion and Hope

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 2 May 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Suicide is an issue that isn’t often discussed in church. Yet it is the 12th leading cause of death in the US and the 3rd leading cause of death for ages 10-19. As soul shepherds, we have an opportunity to compassionately love those struggling with mental health challenges, and most tenderly, anyone who is suicidal.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss suicide and God’s mercy for the hurting. You will learn some warning signs of suicide, ways to check in with someone who is struggling, and steps to get them help. As we care for those in a vulnerable state, we want to minister God’s kindness, empathy, and love to them.

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Finding Shelter From the Enemy in Jesus’ Face

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 25 Apr 2023 10:00:00 +0000

When you picture Jesus looking at you, do you see a smile? Many of us find we project a frown or a distant look on the face of God. But Jesus’ shining face is looking at you with a smile of love, and you can learn to see it!

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss the shelter of Jesus’ smiling face against the attacks of the enemy. Reflecting on an older translation of Psalm 31:20, they share the importance of agreeing with God’s grace and the challenges we face with that based on our stage of faith and our personality. You’ll learn ways of training to overcome unhealthy aspects of your personality that limit you from seeing his smile for you.

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Refuting Half Truths From the Enemy

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 18 Apr 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Areas of stress are opportunities for the enemy to drive us down. The father of lies takes something that is true and twists it into a half-truth with a lie embedded in it, hitting us right in the most vulnerable parts of our personality. Yet, with God as our shield, we can refute the lies of the enemy!

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share personally about recent attacks from the enemy. Understanding our emotions is the key to understanding our personality, particularly the four core emotions of anger, shame, anxiety and sadness. By working through those emotions we grow in self-awareness, intimacy with Jesus, and the ability to wake up and reject the lies of the enemy.

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Resisting the Enemy's Accusations

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 11 Apr 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Each day we experience the accusations and lies of the enemy that target our specific areas of weakness and bury us in fear, anxiety, resentment, shame, and isolation. Yet scripture tells us we are safe when we submit to God Almighty, our Creator and Redeemer, and resist the devil.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack the accusations of the enemy and how we can learn to agree with God’s grace instead. As you understand the ways the enemy attacks you personally, you can resist his lies and seek the help of brothers and sisters to receive God’s grace.

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Loving & Leading With the Risen Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 4 Apr 2023 10:00:00 +0000

You don’t have to be perfect. God often does his best work of grace telling the story of Jesus through our brokenness. As he meets us right where we are, we can learn to move from the cycle of works to the cycle of grace.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss Spirit-led Ministry from the CHRIST stages. While there isn’t less stress during this stage, there is less striving. In Spirit-led ministry you can learn to depend on the presence of the Risen Christ at work to empower you with his strength, giftings, abilities, and power like a sailboat is activated by the wind.

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A Life-Changing Journey For You

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 28 Mar 2023 10:00:00 +0000

Have you ever wondered if your current experience of spiritual life is all there is? Seasons of feeling distant and dry can be reframed as opportunities for a journey of deeper intimacy with God as you come to understand the stages of spiritual growth.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore the pathway for a life-changing spiritual journey. Understanding this roadmap gives you language for your own experience and opens doors for greater emotional honesty, freedom from shame, and deeper connection with the grace and power of God in your life.

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Living Immersed in God's Presence

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 21 Mar 2023 10:00:00 +0000

As Jesus’ apprentices, we have an invitation to live a life that is immersed in God’s presence. But sometimes we default to serving him out of our own strength or trying to earn his love without realizing it. When we focus on our enthrallment with Jesus, we return to live with him as our ultimate mentor!

Tune in to this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore this immersive life expressed in the great commission. By reminding yourself of past times in God’s presence and discovering new ways to awaken to his presence all around you, you’ll cultivate habits of thinking and feeling that deepen your apprenticeship to Jesus.

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Loving Others By Loving Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 14 Mar 2023 10:00:00 +0000

We tend to focus our attention and effort on our skills in ministry and the needs of those around us. Yet there is another way to encourage others to draw close to the Lord — through cultivating our own devotion to Jesus.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss a meditation on Song of Solomon 1:3. “Draw me and we will run after the fragrance of your love,” from The Story of a Soul by St. Teresa of Lisieux. You will be encouraged that your own devotion to Jesus can overflow and inspire others in their intimacy with Jesus, creating a community where we spur one another on to love and good deeds.

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Jesus Feels For You at the Cross

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 7 Mar 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Shame has many colors, variations, and related emotions. We see in Jesus' cross journey that he is unforsaken by God and we are unforsaken by God in our sin and shame. He invites us to bring all of our needs to him because he is our shame-taker.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi walk us through the journey of the cross. As you look at the fifteen stations of Jesus' cross from the gospel stories, you’ll see Jesus drawing close to show you his empathy for your sin and shame and mediating God’s grace to you.

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Unforsaken: Journey with Jesus on the Stations of the Cross

Jesus' Cross is For You Everyday

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 11:00:00 +0000

When we think about Jesus on the cross, we may only feel pain and shame for our sin and inadequacies. Yet Jesus chose to draw close to us in his humanity to reveal his great love for us!

Tune into this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack the power and beauty of the cross for our daily lives. As you recognize you are unforsaken through Jesus’ death, resurrection, and incarnate life, he replaces your shame with grace and you can have love, joy, and peace in any situation in the kingdom of God.

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The Cross Heals Your Shame

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 21 Feb 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Shame can leave us feeling worthless and isolated, disconnected from God’s loving presence and the support of friends. We may feel unable to access God’s best gifts and the abilities and capacities he has given us through his grace. Yet the cross of Jesus has the answers for our sin and shame!

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore shame and its effects. You’ll be encouraged to see you are unforsaken and Jesus’ love and empathy are ready to free you from shame and reorient you back to the truth of God’s embrace.

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Keys to Relationship Satisfaction

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 14 Feb 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Intimacy, communication, and understanding are so important to healthy relationships. We work out the practicalities of our discipleship with God in the context of our human relationships, and we all need at least one soul friendship where we can share vulnerably and be understood.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss how to cultivate understanding, safety, and trust in your closest relationships. Two Soul Shepherding assessments — Relationship Satisfaction Assessment, and Marriage Needs Test — will help you identify and communicate your own needs and the needs of your loved one, and address the key challenges in your relationship.

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365 - A Problem Well Defined is Half Solved

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 7 Feb 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Assessments for our mental, emotional, and spiritual health can give us language to describe our particular experience unique to our personality, stage in life, and situation. A problem well defined is half solved, and assessments are a powerful tool to help us identify problem areas.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi explore the power of assessments in two areas—adrenaline addiction and image of God. You’ll see the impact these areas can have on your life and learn how to train in order to experience freedom and peace.

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Whole Life Discipleship to Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 31 Jan 2023 11:00:00 +0000

What is discipleship? Often our understanding of discipleship separates our spiritual health from the other aspects of our life which can leave us disintegrated and soul sick. Our first call is to be a disciple of Jesus — ahead of the specific work of our ministry — so we learn to live in full dependence on him.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack whole life discipleship to Jesus. You’ll learn how to integrate your mental, emotional, relational, spiritual, and physical health within discipleship to live out of the overflow of your attachment to Jesus.

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Flourishing in Life by Practicing Solitude & Spiritual Direction

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 24 Jan 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Solitude and silence are essential for deeper submission, trust, and intimacy with the Lord. While our experience of these disciplines may change through different stages of our faith, they remain foundational for us to flourish in life.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share the power of practicing rhythms of solitude and spiritual direction. Together these practices transform and awaken your soul to perceive the beauty, goodness, and love of God, and the many ways he is caring for you right now.

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Dallas Willard, Renewing the Christian Mind: Essays, Interviews, and Talks
Soul Shepherding Institute

Sensing God’s Presence and Leading

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 17 Jan 2023 11:00:00 +0000

How can we know we are hearing God’s voice? We may hear a call from the Lord, but often there will be decades between receiving a word or promise and its fulfillment. How do we hold on to faith so we don’t lose heart and give in to doubt among the enemy’s attempts to steal it away?

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack the ways God speaks to us through different stages of our faith. You’ll see how the Lord often leads us through experiences and circumstances to become the kind of person who is living a “with God” life in the school of discipleship to Jesus, and that it’s never too late to learn to discern God’s presence, voice, touch, and encouragement more clearly.

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Staying Encouraged That God's Call for You Will Prosper

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 10 Jan 2023 11:00:00 +0000

We may feel called by God to use our gifts, yet experience confusion during seasons of deep discouragement or setback. David, Joseph, and Moses also walked through years of waiting and mystery, wondering about their dreams and calling.

Tune in to this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi and Bill discuss the seasons of waiting and discouragement that often accompany God’s calling. You will be encouraged to hear how God uses these seasons of perseverance to deepen your first call to love him faithfully and shape your character into the image of Christ.

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A Year of Slowing Down (Conversation With Alan Fadling)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 3 Jan 2023 11:00:00 +0000

Many of us have an incredibly strong work ethic, but we don’t have an equally robust rest ethic. The biblical vision of rest as sabbath is the very fabric of creation. Resting is a gift from God just as surely work is a gift from God, so how can we learn to welcome every gift that God has given us?

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill interviews Alan Fadling, author of A Year of Slowing Down: Following Jesus’ Rhythms of Work and Rest. You’ll be inspired by this conversation about pace of life, unique spiritual disciplines to slow down as an act of prayer, perfectionism, and learning to live unhurried in God’s presence.

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Disentangling From Codependent Relationships

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 27 Dec 2022 11:00:00 +0000

It is a challenge to be present to someone’s emotions with empathy while balancing our own emotions and needs. Patterns of codependency often result when we are unaware of our own unmet needs, unresolved disappointments, or stresses.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi continue their conversation about codependency, empathy, and disentangling from codependent relationships.You’ll learn to cultivate awareness of your own emotions and boundaries through intentional conversations with soul friends, freeing you to bear the burdens of loved ones while maintaining objectivity, hope, and peace.

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Empathy or Codependency?

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 20 Dec 2022 11:00:00 +0000

What is the difference between empathy and codependency? Sometimes our empathy for loved ones can cross over into codependency, rescuing, and trying to protect them from consequences of their choices that are necessary for their growth and maturity.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack empathy and codependency. You will learn from the Scriptural example of carrying someone’s burden versus his load, and how to draw close to people with empathy while also being able to step back with appropriate boundaries.

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Help For Anticipatory Grief

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 13 Dec 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Anticipatory grief is often triggered by our own aging, or a loss or grief we know is coming in the future. While these emotions can be robbers that steal the joy of the moment, they can also open us to receive more of God’s grace.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi talk about healthy and unhealthy ways of handling anticipatory grief. You’ll learn how to acknowledge these conflicting feelings of sadness and gratitude, grief and joy, and be present to enjoy the moments you still have now.

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Calming an Anger Allergy

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 6 Dec 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Some circumstances we encounter can trigger an “anger allergy”—a strong reaction that may connect to deeper feelings below the surface. Angry emotions are painful and we often want to avoid them, but they are actually a form of intelligence that can help us to grow.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack some recent anger allergies and model the importance and process of emotional repair. You’ll learn steps to understand your anger, resolve conflicts, and restore effective partnerships in life and ministry.

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How to Benefit From Empathy and Spiritual Direction

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 29 Nov 2022 11:00:00 +0000

We all need a safe place to be completely authentic, free from the pressure to manage our reputations. We are blessed when we have a person in our life who knows us, listens to us, and seeks the Lord on our behalf.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks where Bill and Kristi discuss the benefits of spiritual direction. You’ll learn how a spiritual director can help you in all seasons of your faith, creating space to be present to you and to God—praying for you, listening to the Lord, and helping you access emotions you may not be aware that you carry. This practice is a critical component to a healthy spiritual life.

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Cultivating Grateful Emotions

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 22 Nov 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Many of us would like to become more thankful, but how do we cultivate grateful emotions? Research has shown the tremendous value of gratitude for our mental health and physical well-being, but in spite of simply trying to think the right thoughts, we may have emotions that could block our ability to feel thankful.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi discuss the benefits and pathways to cultivating a grateful life. You will learn keys to grow in gratitude and overcome emotional roadblocks to thankfulness.

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Enjoying Advent—Even in the Stress

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 15 Nov 2022 11:00:00 +0000

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Distracted? How to Wake Up to God's Presence

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 8 Nov 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Our lives are full of distractions— from both the world around us and from our own choices. Seeking to numb out as a medication for worry, fatigue, sadness, or overload robs us of true rest. Jesus invites us to join him in every moment of our day to find true refreshment and life.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks where Bill and Kristi unpack living in a world of distractions versus tuning into God. You’ll learn how to train your soul to live in God’s presence, and combat habits of distraction to redeem each moment as a work of love.

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Earth Filled with Heaven (A Conversation with Aaron Damiani)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 1 Nov 2022 10:00:00 +0000

We may wonder how we find God when our emotions, thoughts, and service are running dry. A season of hitting the Wall might feel like failure, but can actually be God’s means of grace in our lives. We find rest in Jesus’ easy yoke — through practices and sacraments that invite us into renewal with Jesus and his people.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks where Kristi talks with Aaron Damiani, lead pastor of Immanuel Anglican Church in downtown Chicago, and author of Earth Filled With Heaven: Finding Life in Liturgy, Sacraments, and Other Ancient Practices of the Church.

Hearing their discussion of his story and the 3 questions of spiritual formation will help you catch a vision for these ancient church practices that are essential supplies for Jesus’ life-and-death Kingdom rescue mission.

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A Prayer to Put Stress in the Father's Hands

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 25 Oct 2022 10:00:00 +0000

When we combine God’s word, simple breathing, and a specific need, we discover an effective, engaging, and powerful way to pray— forming a habit that will fill small moments throughout our day with meaningful spots of prayer.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share how practicing breath prayers can help you release stress into the Father’s hands. You will learn techniques you can practice regularly to nourish and strengthen your union with Jesus, and use for intercessory prayer.

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Leadership as Suffering—Yet, There is Joy in Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 18 Oct 2022 10:00:00 +0000

In leadership we experience different kinds of suffering, including loneliness, opposition, and spiritual attacks. Shepherding others involves following Christ into his way of blessing and also his suffering. Yet our Risen Savior walks with us through our trials, comforting us with his empathy, presence, and purpose.

Tune in to this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi unpack some of the challenges of leadership. You will be encouraged to find enduring joy even in painful times of leadership because you are not alone—you serve with Jesus and the God of all grace, and can find support from fellow soul shepherds who understand your suffering.

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Breaking the Cycle of Abuse

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 11 Oct 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Many of us have experienced emotional, physical, or sexual abuse ourselves, or care for people who have these wounds. The cycle of abuse can be emotionally and relationally trapping, but the good news is that it can be reversed.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks where Bill and Kristi unpack the dynamics of the cycle of abuse. You’ll learn the necessary steps to break this cycle, increase your own awareness of the needs of those around you, put words to experiences of abuse, and help bring healing and freedom to those who are hurting.

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Encouragement for Pastors

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 4 Oct 2022 10:00:00 +0000

We are blessed by our pastors who faithfully serve—loving us well, visiting hospitals and homes, counseling, teaching, and preaching. It’s a challenging time to represent Christ formally as a pastor. Often pastors carry the weight of expectations and responsibilities that many of us don’t see or understand.

Tune in for this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi share encouragement for those in pastoral leadership. You’ll receive insight to understand the challenges pastors face and learn practical suggestions to support and uplift your own pastors.

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Healing Hidden Hurts with Evan & Jenny Owens

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 27 Sep 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Trauma can come in many forms, and all of us have experienced soul wounds. Masking our trauma under addictions—to include busyness— denies and delays the healing the Lord can bring us. We can find courage to face our trauma through connectedness with one another, and connectedness with the redemptive heart of God!

Tune into this episode of Soul Talks, where Kristi talks with Evan & Jenny Owens, founders of Reboot Recovery, and authors of Healing What’s Hidden. You will find practical and accessible tips for overcoming trauma in your own life and turning your pain into purpose.

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Best of Soul Talks: The Energy You Need

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 20 Sep 2022 10:00:00 +0000

What is your source of motivation? Our culture tells us to focus on self-motivation, but Jesus tells us the ultimate power and purpose for our lives comes from our connection with God.

Join us for Best Soul Talks as Soul Shepherding’s Director of Operations and Programs, Jessica Stong, shares one of her favorite episodes—229 EQ: The Energy You Need. Bill and Kristi show how you can increase your emotional intelligence—focusing on the importance of activation and motivation— through greater intimacy and responsiveness to Jesus.

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Best Soul Talks: How to Love and Lead WITH Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 13 Sep 2022 10:00:00 +0000

So much of our lives focus on what we do for God. Yet burnout in ministry is common when we depend on our own strengths, natural gifts, and abilities instead of depending on Jesus. While this often leaves us feeling distant from God, there is hope!

Join us for Best Soul Talks as Soul Shepherding’s Director of Operations and Programs, Jessica Stong, shares one of her favorite episodes— 207: How to Love and Lead WITH Jesus. Bill and Kristi offer deep personal and biblical insight and practical tools to help you step into life with Jesus, where his love and delight restore your soul.

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Best Soul Talks: The Unbusy Person

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 6 Sep 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Workaholism and people-pleasing are well-worn paths that inevitably lead to burnout. Jesus offers a different way! Being overly busy can steal your peace and joy, and it affects those around you. But following Jesus’ way of working brings renewed peace and strength when we set aside time for what is most important instead of just what is most urgent.

Join us for Best Soul Talks this week as Sr. Spiritual Director and Coach Jessica Stong shares one of her favorite episodes— 299: The Unbusy Person.

Bill & Kristi extend an invitation to live “unbusy” and “learn the unforced rhythms of grace” (Mt. 11:28-30 MSG) Jesus demonstrated in his life and ministry.

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Sabbatical Guide
Sr. Spiritual Directors
Abandonment To Divine Providence by Jean-Pierre De Caussade
Your Best Life In Jesus’ Easy Yoke by Bill Gaultiere
Mere Christianity by C.S. Lewis

Best Soul Talks: Failure is not Fatal

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 30 Aug 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Feelings of failure in ministry and life are far more common than we may realize. Whether we are “feeling” as though we failed, or we have in fact failed at something, in Christ, failure is not fatal!

Join us for Best Soul Talks this week as Dave Rimoldi shares one of his favorite episodes— Failure is Not Fatal. Dave supervises the Soul Shepherding Spiritual Direction Training program and is a Sr. Spiritual Director and longtime pastor.

In this vulnerable, honest conversation, Bill and Kristi look at what it means to receive empathy from Jesus in our failures and how beautiful the redemption is when we trust him.

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Best Soul Talks: Is Faith Real If You Don't Feel It?

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 23 Aug 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Best Soul Talks: Psalm 23 Meditation to Renew Your Soul

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 16 Aug 2022 10:00:00 +0000

We all need time to slow down and re-center in the middle of overly-full lives. When we shift our focus back to Jesus, we can rest in his peace regardless of our circumstances. Come step into the reality of the Kingdom of the Heavens with Jesus, our Good Shepherd!

Join us for this episode of our Best of Soul Talks series where Sue Wood, Administrative Lead for the Soul Shepherding Institute and Spiritual Direction Certificate Program, shares her favorite episode: Psalm 23 Meditation to Renew Your Soul. Take a moment to allow Holy Spirit to minister to you in this time of quiet meditation on the powerful Psalm 23, led by Kristi. A spa for your soul!

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Best Soul Talks: When You’re Stuck in Your Head

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 9 Aug 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Many of us have been taught that if we can only change our thinking, we’ll change our lives. Yet, this often leaves us with a disconnection between our head knowledge and our emotions. Jesus invites us to spiritual authenticity through experiencing both our emotions and our thoughts resulting in lasting life-change.

Join us for this episode of our Best of Soul Talks series, where Sr. Spiritual Director and Ministry Relations Advisor Amy Dalke shares the Soul Talk that showed her the power of integrating emotions and thoughts: Episode 79 —When You’re Stuck in Your Head. Like some ministry leaders today, Nicodemus was stuck in his head and emotionally reluctant. As you listen, you’ll be blessed by this insightful look at John 3:1-17, and the way that Jesus engages the heart of Nicodemus and engages your heart as well.

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Emotional and Spiritual Recovery After Trauma

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 2 Aug 2022 10:00:00 +0000

If you are a survivor of abuse, our Shepherd Jesus sees you. He feels your pain and fear and wants to comfort you and help you experience healing, freedom from shame, and new courage. We want to help you heal and be restored in the care of Jesus.

In this episode of Soul Talks, Sr. Spiritual Director and Coach Jessica Stong shares her powerful and personal account of trauma and redemption with Kristi. Her story of healing is an inspiration to bring our painful memories and trauma to a wounded healer who is a conduit of Jesus’ healing grace. As we allow the Lord to minister to our sacred wounds, we can experience his beauty, grace, and goodness.

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Best Soul Talks: Emotional Healing for a Trauma Trigger

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 26 Jul 2022 10:00:00 +0000

We all have “implicit memories” of childhood distress that need divine compassion. The Lord is near to bring his consolation and healing to us. Thankfully, a deep hurt offered to the Lord can become a “sacred wound” that heals others.

Join us for the Best of Soul Talks series, where Soul Shepherding Director of Operations and Programs, Sr. Spiritual Director, and Coach Jessica Stong shares the Soul Talk that had a profound influence on her — Episode 73, Emotional Healing for a Trauma Trigger.

In this episode, Kristi shares her “trauma trigger” and how the Lord ministered his shining face of love on her through empathy and words of blessing. You will be inspired to have the courage to offer your own hurts and traumatic memories to the Lord and soul friends, and receive his empathy and healing.

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Is That Voice in my Head God?

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 19 Jul 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Seeking God (A Soul Talk with Trevor Hudson)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 12 Jul 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Sometimes we seek to avoid vulnerability and distract ourselves from areas where we may feel dependent. Yet in vulnerability there is a wonderful invitation into a different kind of life! Jesus has a tender way of meeting us in our places of deepest need and bringing us his joy.

Listen in to this episode of Soul Talks as Bill and Kristi interview Trevor Hudson, South African pastor, teacher of spiritual formation and spiritual direction, and author of Seeking God: Finding Another Kind of Life with St. Ignatius and Dallas Willard. You will be equipped to meet Jesus in a deeper way and experience his joy through the life of discipleship taught by Ignatius and Willard.

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You can find the transcript here.

The Discerning Leader (A Soul Talk With Steve Macchia)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 5 Jul 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Discernment isn’t just learning God’s will for our lives. We may have limited our understanding of discernment in the past, missing the opportunity to walk with and notice God in a deeper way through life and leadership. Take heart — we can grow in our intimacy with Jesus, receiving his love and noticing his presence all around us.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks where Bill and Kristi interview Steve Macchia, author and founder of Leadership Transformations. They discuss his new book, The Discerning Life: An Invitation to Notice God in Everything, and equip you to discern God in new and life-giving ways.

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You can read the transcript here.

Empathy is Not Coddling

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 28 Jun 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Sometimes considered weakness or coddling, empathy is often misunderstood. We may not think we need empathy, and we may underestimate its value in our relationships. Yet empathy is a major key to our growth, our intimacy with Christ, and our ministry with others.

In this episode of Soul Talks, Bill and Kristi unpack empathy and the role it plays in relationships. Tune in to see how, as you receive the empathy the Lord has for you, there is healing and grace. Then, you can do the same for others as you respond to them with this same empathy and grace!

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You can read the transcript here.

A Relaxed and Fruitful Life With Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 21 Jun 2022 10:00:00 +0000

We know that Jesus is loving, holy, compassionate, and powerful. On closer examination of his life in the book of Mark, we see he repeatedly handles stressful situations with a relaxed approach. We may struggle with stress and anxiety both in relationships and ministry. Yet our relaxed and loving Lord is a wonderful example of resting in the easy yoke!

In this episode of Soul Talks, Bill and Kristi focus on Jesus’ approach to life and ministry. He is our perfect example of walking in the easy yoke of the Father. You too can learn this way of life from our Lord, finding the freedom and rest he offers.

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You can read the transcript here.

Living With a Perfectionist

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 14 Jun 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Suffering, Empathy, and Returning Joy

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 7 Jun 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Some of us are enduring chronic pain or suffering that can be exhausting. We may struggle to accept our own grief, loss, and lament around difficult circumstances that drain us of life and joy. But even in the midst of these trials, sharing our true emotions with soul friends can be the means to receive God’s comforting presence.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks, as Bill and Kristi talk about long-term trials, chronic pain, and ways we can return to joy. As a wounded healers, you need to care for your soul by sharing your emotions with others who listen with compassion and love. You are then freed to be Jesus’ ambassador, offering empathy and grace to those around you.

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You can read the transcript here.

Post Traumatic Growth

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 31 May 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Post-traumatic stress is a frequent topic of discussion in our culture today. Sometimes we may experience trials and are unable to see hope for our future. But there is another, less well-known side of trauma that is accessible to us as we lean in with our Risen Lord — post-traumatic growth.

Tune into this episode of Soul Talks as Kristi interviews Georgia Shaffer — author, speaker, coach, psychologist, and four-time cancer survivor. Georgia is a wounded healer sharing the beauty of post-traumatic growth that can flourish in the midst of pain and suffering. In and after trials, soul care practices in your discipleship to Jesus can bring you post-traumatic growth too—empowering you to face your fears, embrace your limitations, and experience deeper intimacy with Jesus.

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You can read the transcript here.

Recovery From Spiritual Abuse

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 24 May 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Some of us may have been impacted by spiritual abuse or church hurt. Many of us have hit a wall spiritually and experienced prolonged desert seasons. This doesn’t have to be the ending of our story—there is hope for healing, restoration, and freedom as we discover the hidden treasure of the Kingdom of the Heavens!

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks where Bill and Kristi interview pastor Brian Steele unpacking his experiences in an abusive cult, and his journey with Jesus that ultimately led to true freedom, sabbath rest, and overflowing delight. Your heart will be encouraged to learn how you too can experience these gracious gifts from the Lord, regardless of the past seasons you’ve walked through.

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You can read the transcript here.

Care for Depression

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 17 May 2022 10:00:00 +0000

As we go through various trials in life, we may experience different types of depression. This can cause us to turn our anger inward, judging and shaming ourselves into loneliness and isolation. But friends, our Risen Savior goes ahead of us always, and we are not alone. One of the hardest but most crucial things the Lord wants for us in our depression is to take action!

Tune into this episode of Soul Talks, where Bill and Kristi share vulnerably about their experiences with depression. Be encouraged and filled with hope as you learn powerful, Biblical tools and practices to help you lean into an emotionally honest faith, receive empathy and support, and care for others around you who may be struggling.

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Help for Addiction and Compulsive Behavior

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 10 May 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Many of us have either personally experienced mental health issues like addiction, or we know and love people who have. These struggles are a normal part of our humanity, and there is no shame in these experiences. We have access to God’s healing power in the Kingdom of the Heavens right now!

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks, where Bill and Kristi unpack valuable tools and techniques for addressing and overcoming addictive behavior. Be encouraged with practical strategies that you can learn and integrate with your discipleship to Jesus.

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You can read the transcript here.

Caring for Anxiety and Mental Health

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 3 May 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Many people are held back in their lives by anxiety. Problems with anxiety are the most common mental-emotional disorder for American adults today. But here’s the good news: there is hope for people who are struggling with anxiety! Jesus heals anxious hearts.

Tune into this episode of Soul Talks, where Bill shares vulnerably about his experiences with anxiety. You’ll be equipped and inspired with tangible spiritual formation tools to help care for your own anxiety and mental health, and that of those around you as a wounded healer.

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You can read the transcript here.

How to Be a Spirit-Led Speaker

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 26 Apr 2022 07:00:00 +0000

When we are leading conversations, preaching, or speaking to others, it can be tempting to rely solely on our own strength — on our own preparation, experiences, and knowledge. But the Lord has given us his Spirit that dwells in us and intercedes on our behalf in the Kingdom of the Heavens! As such, the greatest blessings and biggest impacts of our words come when we are guided by the Holy Spirit.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks, where Bill and Kristi share their speaking experiences and continue teaching about how you can live a Spirit-led life. You’ll be equipped with practices and habits that engage your heart and turn your focus to Jesus, allowing your speaking to be reliant on the Spirit, and abounding in God’s will.

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You can read the transcript here.

The Blessing of Spirit-Led Ministry

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 19 Apr 2022 10:00:00 +0000

When we're serving God with our gifts, it can be easier than we think to become overly dependent on our own abilities and energy without realizing it.

In his graciousness, the Lord then often uses periods of trials or waiting to draw us into deeper intimacy with him and to cultivate a longing for his Spirit. And when we allow our work to be Spirit-led, we can be refreshed in Christ — relying on the presence and power of Jesus, and not on our own!

Tune into this episode of Soul Talks where Bill and Kristi unpack how you can lean into Spirit-led ministry. You’ll be encouraged and inspired to learn how you can experience a fresh awakening to God’s goodness and grace, leading you not only to doing your work for God, but with God.

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You can read the transcript here.

Returning to Joy

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 12 Apr 2022 01:00:00 +0000

As Christ followers, how can we find true joy that mingles with the sorrow, stress, and other negative emotions that we experience in our lives? We know that the Risen Lord was a man of great joy! And just like Jesus, we can learn how to care for all of our emotions and ultimately return to joy.

Tune into this episode of Soul Talks, where Bill and Kristi unpack how you can absorb the joy of Jesus (hint: it’s not by trying harder or denying your emotions!). Be encouraged with tangible practices and disciplines for genuinely processing your struggles and training to experience the fruit of the spirit of joy!

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You can read the transcript here.

Soul Care for the Overly Responsible

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 5 Apr 2022 10:00:00 +0000

When we feel overly-responsible for our own emotions and needs, we often carry anxiety, shame, or self-condemnation. It can be difficult to treat ourselves with the gentleness and kindness of Christ as we work through our struggles. But the truth is that our Risen Lord offers us patience and compassion in his presence and through soul relationships.

Tune into this episode of Soul Talks where Bill and Kristi unpack how we can both experience and offer healing soul care work through our relationships.You’ll be encouraged with tangible tools and practices that can help you feel seen and offer this empathy to others in an open and compassionate way.

Resources for this episode:

Soul Shepherding Spiritual Directors
Soul Shepherding Spiritual Direction Training Program
Abba's Child by Brennan Manning

You can read the transcript here.

The Power of Vulnerable Communication

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 29 Mar 2022 10:00:00 +0000

Being open and honest in sharing our thoughts and emotions takes courage, and can be intimidating. But Jesus is calling us out of our comfort zones and into this vulnerable space through safe relationships, because ultimately it leads us into greater intimacy with him!

Join Bill and Kristi for this Soul Talk on vulnerable communication, where they unpack how vulnerable communication helps free us from our shame and opens the door for personal and spiritual growth. You’ll learn how you can create a safe space for others to speak vulnerably, and how, in that, you are an ambassador of God’s love and grace!

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Renewing Your Inner Person as You Age

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 22 Mar 2022 10:00:00 +0000

As we get older, sometimes we wish those numbers would go in the other direction! We might even be feeling discouraged in a culture that idolizes youth. But when we lean in, we see that this is actually contradictory to what Scripture says about the eternal and the abundant life of God in us!

Tune into this episode of Soul Talks, where Bill and Kristi explore how God’s Word guides us in our aging experiences. You’ll be so encouraged to learn about the hidden, eternal glory of God’s presence and growing in Christlikeness that transcends your physical limitations and pains as you age!

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Aging Faithfully

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 15 Mar 2022 10:00:00 +0000

As we age, we can find ourselves grieving the loss of our younger selves, including physical capabilities and energy we might no longer have. But there is so much bright hope in knowing that our Sovereign Lord intended these very experiences of aging for us, and he desires to walk alongside us in them!

In this episode of Soul Talks, Kristi sits down with Christian author and spiritual director, Alice Fryling. Together they unpack her newest book, Aging Faithfully. You’ll be emboldened and enlightened as they share their perspectives, revelations, and encouragement about what it looks like to live (and age) vulnerably and authentically with Christ.

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Intimacy with Jesus for Thinkers and Doers

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 8 Mar 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Empathy and Intimacy with Jesus can be difficult experiences for those of us who are not bent toward emotion or are not naturally “feelers”. The Stations of the Cross is an enriching journey that the Lord has used for centuries in the lives of Christ followers to deepen our empathy and intimacy with him, and to remind us of magnitude of Jesus’ profound sacrifice.

Join us for this episode of Soul Talks where, as an Enneagram One, Bill tells of his own experience with the Stations of the Cross and Biblical suffering. You’ll be encouraged and enlightened by Bill’s account of the Apostle Paul’s faith both in Jesus and of Jesus during trials, and how we can learn from and model this in our own lives.

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Strength for Tender Hearts at Jesus' Cross

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 1 Mar 2022 11:00:00 +0000

It can be overwhelming and even painful to journey with Jesus as he takes up his cross and endures unimaginable suffering. Oftentimes, this can lead to feelings of guilt or shame and make it difficult for us to receive the gift of love that the Lord offers through this journey.

Tune into this episode of Soul Talks, where Bill and Kristi unpack a different experience of the Stations of the Cross — one of empathy and intimacy with Christ. Be encouraged to learn that through Jesus, we can draw on the joy of the Lord even in suffering. In Christ there is no condemnation for us!

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Is Faith Real if You Don't Feel It?

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 22 Feb 2022 11:00:00 +0000

All of us have experienced times in our lives that we have not felt God’s love and presence as deeply or as apparently as other times. It can leave us discombobulated and discouraged, asking ourselves, “Is my faith real if I don’t feel it?”

In these times of doubt, the Lord offers an invitation of emotional honesty – to bring those feelings even more into our relationship with him.

Tune into this Soul Talk where Bill and Kristi explore why it is Biblical and healthy to experience these seasons at “The Wall.” You’ll be encouraged to learn why both thinking and feeling are critical in your journey with Christ, and what you can do when you feel they are lacking!

Resources for this episode:

Journey of the Soul

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Taking Courage to Hope

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 15 Feb 2022 11:00:00 +0000

It can be scary and intimidating to hope. In fact, we often shrink ourselves and our lives in fear of disappointment. If we hope and things don’t turn out well, we can feel lost, sad, or like our faith isn’t strong enough.

But in the waiting, God is doing great things. When you go out on a limb in hope, the Lord meets you there. Even if your hopes don’t pan out like you thought, you can fall back into the loving arms of Jesus!

In this Soul Talk, Bill and Kristi inspire your hope in Christ. Listen in and be encouraged by the better life our Savior creates for you, your family, and the people you care for.

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Having Hope When You Fear Disappointment

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 8 Feb 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Often we are afraid to hope and be disappointed. The emotional let down of disappointment is painful and lonely. So naturally, we’re prone to guard against the pain by letting down our hopes.

But without hope we have nothing! All good things come from hope. The Bible says it’s the spring for faith and love (Colossians 1:5) and an anchor for your soul (Hebrews 6:19).

So how can we hold onto hope through fears of disappointment and loss? That’s what Bill and Kristi are unpacking in this Soul Talk. Tune in to discover what it means to have a robust Biblical hope and be encouraged to take the risk of hoping in the Sovereign Lord who is bringing good things to us.

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Help for Doubt

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 1 Feb 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Are you, a close friend, or a family member experiencing feelings of doubt? The truth is, we all have emotional experiences in life that can seem contrary to our faith. What do we do with those when they happen?

Simply trying not to doubt isn’t enough. Thinking the right thoughts and doing the right spiritual disciplines can only get us so far. We also need to pay attention to our emotions and share vulnerably about our experience of doubt with safe friends and Jesus.

In this Soul Talk, Kristi shares about a heavy season of doubt that she recently experienced and how she worked through it by being emotionally honest and receiving empathy. Her story will help you and the people in your life learn how to embrace and overcome times of doubt. Listen in and discover how the Lord lovingly enters into our brokenness, our doubting, and our shame to bring repair and resolution!

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Deconstructing Faith

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 25 Jan 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Many who deconstruct their faith do so because they feel it's not working for them, or it's not working for the people that they see; They’ve experienced a trial, been hurt, or had upheaval in their lives. Maybe you know someone going through this. Maybe, it’s you.

To have doubts, questions, and to be wrestling with faith is natural. Similar to remodeling a house, our Sovereign God uses deconstruction to do or build a new thing in and through us. When we lean in, the risen Lord reveals the opportunity of deconstruction: reconstruction.

Tune in to this Soul Talk where Bill & Kristi discuss why deconstruction happens, what you can do when you or someone you love is working through a faith crisis, and how to come out on the other side with a greater sense of intimacy with Jesus.

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A Passion to Share God's Peace

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Mon, 17 Jan 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. continues to be an encouraging and inspiring example for us all. He was, first and foremost, a disciple of Jesus Christ and a preacher of the Gospel. He was a truth-teller dealing with injustice, but did so with great love and gentleness. He embodied the Lord’s peace while truly living out and guiding others in the character of Jesus.

Tune into this Soul Talks episode, where Bill is joined by Pastor and Sr. Spiritual Director, Sheridan McDaniel. Together they unpack several practical lessons we can learn about our own Christlikeness from Martin Luther King Jr.’s life. The insight and encouragement shared in this conversation will inspire you to shine the light of Christ so that others can pick from the fruit of your life.

Resources for this Episode

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Known and Named by God

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 11 Jan 2022 11:00:00 +0000

When we experience seasons of suffering, our faith is tested. We often experience doubt and we long to feel God’s presence. But the best news and unwavering truth is that the Lord Jesus hears us. He sees us. He is near to us. And he has known us long before we’ve known him!

In this Soul Talks episode, Kristi sits down with author, speaker, and radio host Aubrey Sampson. Together they unpack Aubrey’s journey through The Wall and how God meets us in grief and sorrow to draw us into the love of Jesus.

As Aubrey discusses her book, Known, you will be encouraged by the power and meaning behind the name of Jesus. Learn how living out the names that God has given us, transforms us into who we are called to be in Christ.

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Dallas Willard's 3 Steps to Change Your Prayer Life

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 4 Jan 2022 11:00:00 +0000

Prayer makes it possible for us to live like Christ. Through prayer, we can shine the light of the risen Jesus — a warmth that we and those around us so desperately need!

In this episode of Soul Talks, Bill and Kristi unpack 3 of Dallas Willard’s paradigm-shifting insights on prayer. Listen in to learn how you can integrate prayer into every aspect of your life and experience the great things God does in and through you when you pray!

Resources for this episode

The Soul Shepherding Network

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A Prayer of Renewal for the New Year

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 28 Dec 2021 11:00:00 +0000

God wants to do good things in your life this New Year! Whatever it is that you're going through — be it anxiety, relational conflicts, a stressful situation at work, depression, etc. — there’s an invitation for you to walk through it with Jesus.

When we enter our daily lives with submission to God, trust, worship, and prayerfulness, it gives God more room to work. And it helps us enter into life in the easy, peaceful, and loving yoke of Jesus.

In this Soul Talk, Bill and Kristi share a special prayer to help guide your heart and mind in submission and surrender to God each day. Tune in to discover how you can pray the Apprentice Prayer to be refreshed and resouled in the Lord!

You can read the transcript here.

Real Life, Real Talk in Christ's Presence

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 21 Dec 2021 11:00:00 +0000

It’s tempting to look to what you accomplish or what people say about you for personal meaning or security. But then we miss the smile of Jesus glowing over us!

Colossians 3 offers a wonderful promise that’s sadly elusive for most of us: “For you died, and your life is now hid with Christ in God.” This means that your best life – the abundant and eternal life that God offers – is here and now accessible to you in the secret place of the Holy Spirit’s presence.

In this episode of Soul Talks, Kristi asks Bill about his recent personal meditations on Colossians 3. You’ll discover inspiring and practical ideas for how to engage your relationships and work while enjoying the loving presence of the risen Jesus.

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Resolving Conflicts with Empathy and Grace

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 14 Dec 2021 11:00:00 +0000

We all experience conflict in our close relationships. When misunderstandings, disagreements, and hurt feelings arise, how do we resolve them?

The mistake that we’re most prone to make is to avoid or deflect our emotions. But this only leads to prolonged resentment, anger, and disconnection in relationships.

In this Soul Talk, Bill and Kristi show us a healthier way to resolve conflict. Listen in as they lead us step-by-step through a real conflict they recently faced and what they did to resolve it. Through love and empathy, by Christ’s example, they show us how we can walk the path to forgiveness and restoration.

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Spiritual Disciplines for Couples and Families

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 7 Dec 2021 11:00:00 +0000

In the midst of the chaos of life, work, or parenting it can be challenging to stay connected in your relationships and with the Lord.

In this Soul Talk, Bill and Kristi walk us through seven practical spiritual disciplines that have helped them experience more bonding and empathy with God, each other, and their children.

Tune in to learn these simple steps to create healthy rhythms that foster deeper relationships and draw you closer to Jesus.

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Christmas Traditions

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 30 Nov 2021 11:00:00 +0000

Have you ever felt like you’ve missed Jesus in the busyness of the Christmas season?

Christmastime is often full of festivities, shopping, distractions, and pressures. In the midst of the hustle and bustle of the Christmas season, it can be easy to miss out on moments of enjoyment, relationship, prayer, and meditation that are so essential to the spirit of Christmas.

In this Soul Talk, Bill and Kristi share with us some of their family’s Christmas traditions, and tangible, fruitful ways that we can joyfully find and focus on Christ, even in a secular culture and in the face of whatever we might be carrying into the holiday season with us.

Resources for this episode:
Surprising Joy Advent Cards

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Gratitude & Emotional Honesty

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 23 Nov 2021 11:00:00 +0000

How can we be thankful if we’re in a season where we don’t feel thankful? We may even be experiencing trials or grief and feeling downright bad!

Being thankful and experiencing feelings of grief, anger, or dissatisfaction are not opposed to each other. We don't have to deny our pain or suffering in order to express gratitude to God. In fact, true thankfulness comes from being emotionally honest about both the good and bad things we’re experiencing.

In this Soul Talk, BiIll and Kristi walk us through how our hearts and souls can have a truly thankful posture no matter what we are experiencing.

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How to Adjust Expectations in Relationships so You Both — Thrive

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 16 Nov 2021 11:00:00 +0000

Have you ever been disappointed by a family member?

We all have expectations for our families, but sometimes those expectations aren't met. When that happens, it can be stressful and hurtful.

In this episode, Bill and Kristi will give you a roadmap to navigating family expectations. They also share some tips on how to avoid disappointment in the first place!

Raising Kids With Healthy Faith & Feelings

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 9 Nov 2021 11:00:00 +0000

Celebrate the birth of Jesus with our Advent resource! These inspiring cards give you a fresh experience of celebrating the birth of Jesus. You’ll enter into the story of the first Christmas with 15 different characters.

The Unbusy Person

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 2 Nov 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Leading From a Rested Soul

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 26 Oct 2021 10:00:00 +0000

Resources mentioned in this podcast

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The easy yoke stage in the Journey of the Soul.
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Soul Care to Get Unstuck

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 19 Oct 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Recovery From Trauma

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 12 Oct 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Practicing Sabbath Rest

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 5 Oct 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Don't Let Depression Cause Shame & Isolation

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 28 Sep 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Unhurried Time to Feel God's Presence

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 21 Sep 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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5 Practices of Healthy Churches

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 14 Sep 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Empathy & Healthy Faith

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 7 Sep 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Emotional & Spiritual Growth for Church Leaders

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 31 Aug 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Soul Care for Pastors & Leaders

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 24 Aug 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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An Example of Spiritual Direction

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 17 Aug 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Lectio Divina in Spiritual Direction

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 10 Aug 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Empathy in Spiritual Direction

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 3 Aug 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Talking With a Spiritual Director

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 27 Jul 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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The Thing Beneath the Thing (A Conversation with Steve Carter)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 20 Jul 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Psalm 23 Meditation to Renew Your Soul

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 13 Jul 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Journey: Visual Devotion Cards in Psalm 23
"Walk With Good in Shepherd Psalm 23"
“Psalm 23 Outline of Your Journey”
“A Little Bag for a Big Psalm”

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Feeling Jesus' Joy

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 6 Jul 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Forgiving Emotionally

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 29 Jun 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Act Now to Feel Better Later

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 22 Jun 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Longing for a Father's Love

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 15 Jun 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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278 - Dallas Willard: The Joy of Blessing Others (Even if They Criticize You)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 8 Jun 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Dallas Willard: Hearing God Before You Speak to Others

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 1 Jun 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Dallas Willard: Relax With Jesus Before You Minister

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 25 May 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Dallas Willard: Speaking and Preaching Without Anxiety

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 18 May 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Unhindered Abundance With Ken Baugh

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 11 May 2021 10:00:00 +0000

Purchase your copy of Ken Baugh's book, Unhindered Abundance for 20% off with code "ken" from now until June 10th!

Join us at our next webinar with Papa Joe, "Healing Father Wounds" on May 26th at 6 pm PST!

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Dallas Willard: How to Enjoy Your Ministry

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 4 May 2021 10:00:00 +0000

Join us at our next webinar with Papa Joe, "Healing Father Wounds" on May 26th at 6 pm PST!

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Dallas Willard: Spiritual Hospitality as Ministry

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 27 Apr 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Journey of the Soul (T Stage)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 20 Apr 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Journey of the Soul (S Stage)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 13 Apr 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Journey of the Soul (I Stage)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 6 Apr 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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Hope For Your Church

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 30 Mar 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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It’s time to prepare your heart to celebrate Easter! Our new devotional, Unforsaken, will take you and your friends on a life-changing journey through the 15 stations of Jesus’ cross.

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Journey of the Soul (The Wall)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 23 Mar 2021 10:00:00 +0000

Join us at our next webinar, Jesus' Empathy for You. This webinar will take you on a journey with Jesus through a reflective experience on the Stations of the Cross. The webinar will be at 6 pm PST on March 24th.

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Journey of the Soul ( R Stage)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 16 Mar 2021 10:00:00 +0000

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It’s time to prepare your heart to celebrate Easter! Our new devotional, Unforsaken, will take you and your friends on a life-changing journey through the 15 stations of Jesus’ cross.

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Journey of the Soul (H Stage)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 9 Mar 2021 11:00:00 +0000

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It’s time to prepare your heart to celebrate Easter! Our new devotional, Unforsaken, will take you and your friends on a life-changing journey through the 15 stations of Jesus’ cross.

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Journey of the Soul (C Stage)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 2 Mar 2021 11:00:00 +0000

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We are so excited to announce our NEW online Sabbatical Guide course. Our program has everything you need to experience rest and renewal on your Sabbatical.

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Great Joy in Each Stage With Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 23 Feb 2021 11:00:00 +0000

Journey of the Soul released just a few days ago! You can order copies on Amazon or wherever books are sold. Please post a review to help other readers find us.

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Join us for our next webinar on February 24th at 10 am PST! Drawing on their book, Journey of the Soul, Bill and Kristi will unpack the CHRIST stages of faith in their webinar, A Map for Emotional & Spiritual Growth.

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Grace for All People's Journey

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Mon, 15 Feb 2021 11:00:00 +0000

Journey of the Soul releases tomorrow! (That means today is the last day to claim our pre-order bonuses!) You can order copies on Amazon or wherever books are sold.

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Balancing Marriage & Work

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 9 Feb 2021 11:00:00 +0000

We are so excited about our new book, "Journey of the Soul: A Practical Guide to Emotional and Spiritual Growth."

You can pre-order your copy today! When you pre-order you will receive a digital copy of the Leader Guide, a discount code for the Soul Shepherding Store, instant access to the first chapter of the book, and a Soul Kit: Prayers for Emotional Health!

In the soul Shepherding Institute, we’ll show you how to make space to hear God’s voice, be renewed spiritually, and engage in soul training that will equip you to thrive with Jesus in all you do as a pastor or ministry leader.

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Healthy Feelings & Faith in Small Groups

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 2 Feb 2021 11:00:00 +0000

We are so excited about our new book, "Journey of the Soul: A Practical Guide to Emotional and Spiritual Growth." You can pre-order your copy today! When you pre-order you will receive a digital copy of the Leader Guide, a discount code for the Soul Shepherding Store, instant access to the first chapter of the book, and a Soul Kit: Prayers for Emotional Health!

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Dallas Willard on the Journey of the Soul

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Mon, 25 Jan 2021 11:00:00 +0000

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MLK: Growing in Prayer, Empathy, and Justice

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Mon, 18 Jan 2021 11:00:00 +0000

We want you on our exclusive book launch team to help spread the word about Journey of the Soul. We have lots of special gifts for you: admission into our private Facebook group, a digital copy of the Leader Guide, a free ticket to our webinar on “Group Shepherding,” and more!

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Stepping Up to the Plate (Kristi’s Story)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Mon, 11 Jan 2021 11:00:00 +0000

But you need to act now because the launch team closes on January 14. To join just pre-order the book and upload your receipt at journeyofthesoul.org/launchteam.

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The Death & Resurrection of a Dream (Bill's Story)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 5 Jan 2021 11:00:00 +0000

Kristi and I want you on our exclusive book launch team to help spread the word about Journey of the Soul. We have lots of special gifts for you: admission into our private Facebook group, a digital copy of the Leader Guide, a free ticket to our webinar on “Group Shepherding,” and more!

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When God Breaks Through

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 29 Dec 2020 11:00:00 +0000

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Immanuel Journaling - A Soul Talk With Sungshim Loppnow

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 22 Dec 2020 11:00:00 +0000

To learn more about Immanuel Journaling check out Sungshim's book, Joyful Journey: Listening to Immanuel.

And you can check out their ministry, Presence and Practice, on their website.

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Celebrate the birth of Jesus with our new Advent resource, Surprising Joy: A Journey with Jesus for Advent.

In the Soul Shepherding Institute, we'll show you how to make space to hear God’s voice, be renewed spiritually, and engage in soul training that will equip you to thrive with Jesus in all you do as a pastor or ministry leader.

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The Conversation: A Christmas Reading

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 15 Dec 2020 11:00:00 +0000

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The Way of Presence - A Soul Talk With Alan Fadling

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 8 Dec 2020 11:00:00 +0000

Our friend Alan Fadling of Unhurried Living has written a guide to help us, The Way of Presence. In 60 thought-provoking reflections he invites us to experience the empowering reality of God-With-Us. These readings are great for Advent or a fresh start in the New Year.

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Enjoying God in Tough Times - A Soul Talk with Sheridan McDaniel

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 1 Dec 2020 11:00:00 +0000

Celebrate the birth of Jesus with our new Advent resource, Surprising Joy: A Journey with Jesus for Advent.

We invite you to join us at Soul Shepherding’s very first online Advent retreat!

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Surprise Blessings for Advent

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 24 Nov 2020 11:00:00 +0000

Celebrate the birth of Jesus with our new Advent resource, Surprising Joy: A Journey with Jesus for Advent.

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The Joy You're Waiting For!

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 17 Nov 2020 11:00:00 +0000

Celebrate the birth of Jesus with our new Advent resource, Surprising Joy: A Journey with Jesus for Advent.

We invite you to join us at Soul Shepherding’s very first online Advent retreat!

With real-life stories, fresh Biblical insights, and practical steps in his book, Bill invites you to enjoy Your Best Life in Jesus’ Easy Yoke.

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248 - Family Dynamics: Repairing Conflicts

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 10 Nov 2020 11:00:00 +0000

Celebrate the birth of Jesus with our new Advent resource, Surprising Joy: A Journey with Jesus for Advent.

To listen to more Soul Talks episodes about family dynamics you can go back and listen to episodes 123-129.

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247 - Family Dynamics: Conflict (Triangulating)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 3 Nov 2020 11:00:00 +0000

To listen to more Soul Talks episodes about family dynamics you can go back and listen to episodes 123-129.

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Family Dynamics: Secret Aggreements (Collusion)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 27 Oct 2020 10:00:00 +0000

To listen to more Soul Talks episodes about family dynamics you can go back and listen to episodes 123-129.

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Family Dynamics: Isolation to Healthy Relationships

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 20 Oct 2020 10:00:00 +0000

To listen to more Soul Talks episodes about family dynamics you can go back and listen to episodes 123-129.

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Family Dynamics: Enmeshment to Healthy Relationships

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 13 Oct 2020 10:00:00 +0000

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To listen to more Soul Talks episodes about family dynamics you can go back and listen to episodes 123-129.

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Great Hope in Divisive Times

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 6 Oct 2020 10:00:00 +0000

Check out Jesus' Greatest Teaching for a fresh reading of Jesus’ Sermon on the Mount. It is a great tool to apply to your daily life.

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Family Dynamics: Dysfunctional Roles

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 29 Sep 2020 10:00:09 +0000

To listen to more Soul Talks episodes about family dynamics you can go back and listen to episodes 123-129.

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Jesus' Easy Way to Do Hard Things Part 3

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 22 Sep 2020 10:00:02 +0000

With real-life stories, fresh Biblical insights, and practical steps in his book, Bill invites you to enjoy Your Best Life in Jesus’ Easy Yoke.

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Jesus' Easy Way to Do Hard Things Part 2

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 15 Sep 2020 10:00:14 +0000

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Jesus’ Easy Way to Do Hard Things: Part 1

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 8 Sep 2020 10:00:03 +0000

With real life stories, fresh Biblical insights, and practical steps in his book, Bill invites you to enjoy Your Best Life in Jesus’ Easy Yoke.

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1st Love: Ministry in the Smile of the Father

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 1 Sep 2020 10:00:16 +0000

Renew your soul and listen to God in Scripture in any of our three Prayer Guides.

In our new digital book, Emotional Intelligence: 5 Steps with Jesus to Better Living & Leading, we will walk you through how to increase your emotional intelligence through five core competencies so you can draw on Christ’s empathy, wisdom, and power, and lead the way Jesus did.

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1st Love: Intimacy with Jesus in Leadership

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 25 Aug 2020 10:00:39 +0000

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1st Love: Faith and Feelings

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 18 Aug 2020 10:00:23 +0000

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1st Love: When You Don’t Feel God’s Love Anymore

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 11 Aug 2020 10:00:17 +0000

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1st Love: Jesus Feels Your Emotions

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Mon, 3 Aug 2020 10:00:13 +0000

You can find the "Jesus is a Feeler" blog post (updated) Bill refers to in the podcast here and the Feeling Faces chart here.

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1st Love: Joining Jesus’ Intimacy with his Father

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Mon, 27 Jul 2020 10:00:12 +0000

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1st Love: Intimacy with Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 21 Jul 2020 10:00:05 +0000

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EQ: Teamwork for More Success

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 14 Jul 2020 10:00:10 +0000

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EQ: Leading with Empathy

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 7 Jul 2020 10:00:30 +0000

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EQ: The Energy You Need

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 30 Jun 2020 10:00:23 +0000

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EQ: Managing Your Emotions to Love and Lead Well

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 23 Jun 2020 10:00:05 +0000

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EQ: Your Emotions are a Source of Wisdom

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 16 Jun 2020 10:00:08 +0000

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Calming Your Emotions in Trauma

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 9 Jun 2020 10:00:09 +0000

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EQ: Emotional Intelligence Starts with Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 2 Jun 2020 10:00:03 +0000

If you’re feeling the heavy weight of fear and anxiety during this time…you’re not alone. To help you do just that, we’ve gathered some of our most relevant, free resources on this landing page.

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Help for Depression: One Pastor’s Story

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 26 May 2020 10:00:14 +0000

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When to Reopen Church

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 19 May 2020 10:00:05 +0000

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Dallas Willard’s 3 Keys for Prayer

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 12 May 2020 10:00:12 +0000

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Dallas Willard’s Personal Devotions

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 5 May 2020 10:00:32 +0000

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Help for Screen Fatigue

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 28 Apr 2020 10:00:05 +0000

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Prayer: Enjoying a Spacious Place

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 21 Apr 2020 10:00:12 +0000

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Prayer: Safe From Covid-19

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 14 Apr 2020 10:00:05 +0000

We are excited to share a special podcast. Bill was a guest on James Bryan Smith’s podcast. James and Bill discuss the importance of soul care, especially at a time when we are struggling with a global pandemic.

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Reflections of Jesus’ Cross

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 7 Apr 2020 10:00:26 +0000

We are excited to announce the release of our FREE, online resource. Unforsaken: A Digital Guide to the Stations of the Cross is now available. This is a wonderful resource as we go through Holy Week. We hope you will use this tool in your ministry and share with others.

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COVID-19: The Tiredness You Feel is Grief

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Mon, 30 Mar 2020 10:00:09 +0000

We are excited to announce the upcoming release of our FREE, online resource. Unforsaken: A Digital Guide to the Stations of the Cross will be ready in time for Holy Week. We hope you will use this tool in your ministry and share with others. Be on the lookout for more information. It will be released soon!

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COVID-19: Turning Social Distancing into Solitude with Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Wed, 25 Mar 2020 10:00:15 +0000

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COVID-19: Coronavirus Fears and Faith

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Wed, 18 Mar 2020 10:00:07 +0000

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COVID-19: “Fear Not” the Coronavirus? Empathy and Courage are Needed

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 14 Mar 2020 00:23:05 +0000

Here are a couple of free resources we want to offer you. Included is an article encouraging you to not let fear take over and two breath prayers to help refocus your mind and heart.

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EQ-Increasing Your Emotional Intelligence (SMART Love)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 10 Mar 2020 10:00:04 +0000

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Re-soul: Less is More - 4 Keys to Thrive in Your Mission

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 3 Mar 2020 11:00:03 +0000

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Re-Soul: 3 Ways to Add Margin in Your Ministry

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 11:00:20 +0000

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Re-Soul: 4 Ways Emotions Help You Excel

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 18 Feb 2020 11:00:16 +0000

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Re-Soul: How to Be a Non-Anxious Presence for Others

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 11 Feb 2020 11:00:14 +0000

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Re-Soul: How to Love and Lead WITH Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 4 Feb 2020 11:00:12 +0000

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Re- Soul: Preventing 5 Hidden Causes of Ministry Burnout

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 28 Jan 2020 11:00:19 +0000

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205 - Jesus’ Easy Way to Do Hard Things: Part 3

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 18 Jan 2020 11:00:03 +0000

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204 - Jesus’ Easy Way to Do Hard Things: Part 2

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 11 Jan 2020 11:00:05 +0000

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203 - Jesus’ Easy Way to Do Hard Things: Part 1

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 4 Jan 2020 11:00:19 +0000

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202 - Re-Soul in The Apprentice Prayer

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 28 Dec 2019 11:00:03 +0000

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201 - Make Room For Jesus in Real Life

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 21 Dec 2019 11:00:02 +0000

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200 - Your Greatest Pleasure!

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 14 Dec 2019 11:00:12 +0000

This is our 200th episode! We want to thank you for being a part of the Soul Talks community!

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199 - Appreciating Your Blessing

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 7 Dec 2019 11:00:05 +0000

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198 - De-Stress and Delight in Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 30 Nov 2019 11:00:08 +0000

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197 - Simplify Daily Life with Thankfulness

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 23 Nov 2019 11:00:11 +0000

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196 - Simplify Your Soul

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 16 Nov 2019 11:00:01 +0000

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195 - Your Ministry is Needed!

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 9 Nov 2019 11:00:31 +0000

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194 - Tips For Speakers & Bloggers

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 2 Nov 2019 10:00:01 +0000

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193 - Non-Jealous Leaders

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 26 Oct 2019 10:00:10 +0000

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192 - Words as Soul Touches

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 19 Oct 2019 10:00:02 +0000

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191 - Emotionally Healthy Leaders

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 12 Oct 2019 10:00:02 +0000

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190 - Burnout is Optional

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 5 Oct 2019 10:00:25 +0000

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189 - You Can Finish Well (Christly Leadership)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 28 Sep 2019 10:00:08 +0000

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188 - Hearing God to Lead Well

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 21 Sep 2019 10:00:05 +0000

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187 - Jesus as CEO of Your Life and Leadership

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 14 Sep 2019 10:00:25 +0000

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186 - Healing Prayer: When God Does Not Heal

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 7 Sep 2019 10:00:05 +0000

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185 - Healing Prayer: Your Path to Emotional Wholeness

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 31 Aug 2019 10:00:07 +0000

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184 - Healing Prayer: You Can Experience Divine Health

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 24 Aug 2019 10:00:12 +0000

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183 - Healing Prayer: Unblock Your Prayers for Healing

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 17 Aug 2019 10:00:12 +0000

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182 - Healing Prayer: The Courage to Pray for Healing

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 10 Aug 2019 10:00:03 +0000

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181 - Listen: Rest in the Word of Encouragement

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 3 Aug 2019 10:00:32 +0000

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180 - Listen: Feel Your Emotions in the Word Description

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 27 Jul 2019 10:00:14 +0000

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179 - Listen: Be Energized in the Word

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 20 Jul 2019 10:00:05 +0000

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178 - Imagine: Jesus Looks at You With Love

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 13 Jul 2019 10:00:01 +0000

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177 - Imagine: See Yourself With Jesus to be Free of Shame

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 6 Jul 2019 10:00:05 +0000

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176 - Imagine: Bible Reading that Blesses Your Soul

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 29 Jun 2019 10:00:00 +0000

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175 - If God is Angry it’s Loving

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 22 Jun 2019 10:00:00 +0000

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174 - Is God Angry?

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 15 Jun 2019 10:00:00 +0000

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173 - Re-Form: Jesus Therapy For Addiction

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 8 Jun 2019 09:00:00 +0000

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172 - Re-Form: Repairing Emotions, Relationships, & Habits

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 1 Jun 2019 10:00:00 +0000

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171 - Re-Form: Emotional Growth is Spiritual

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 25 May 2019 10:00:00 +0000

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170 - Re-Form: Empowered By Grace, Free of Straining

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 18 May 2019 10:21:00 +0000

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169 - Re-Form: Easy Yoke Disciplines

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 11 May 2019 10:14:00 +0000

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168 - Re-Form: The Jesus Mentor (Dallas Willard’s Influence)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 4 May 2019 10:00:00 +0000

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167 - E-Soul: Your Face of Christ

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 27 Apr 2019 10:00:00 +0000

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166- E- Soul: How to Thrive in Your Intelligence Center

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 20 Apr 2019 06:00:00 +0000

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165 - Come Alive with Jesus!

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 13 Apr 2019 10:00:00 +0000

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164 - E-Soul: How Jesus Blesses Your Personality

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 6 Apr 2019 10:00:00 +0000

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163 - E-Soul: Repairing a Hurt or Conflict

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 30 Mar 2019 10:00:00 +0000

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162 - E-Soul: Step Out of Stress (All 9 Types)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 23 Mar 2019 10:00:00 +0000

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161 - Enneagram: Marriage & Ministry

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 16 Mar 2019 10:00:00 +0000

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160 - Enneagram: You Are Beloved

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159 - Enneagram: Anger & Love (Challenger Type)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 2 Mar 2019 11:00:00 +0000

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158 - Surprised by Jesus’ Joy at the Cross

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 23 Feb 2019 11:00:00 +0000

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157 - Enneagram: What You Don’t See in Your Personality

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 16 Feb 2019 11:00:00 +0000

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156 - Enneagram: Your Identity (Triads)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 9 Feb 2019 11:00:00 +0000

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155 - Enneagram: Quieting Your Mind (Head Types)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 2 Feb 2019 11:00:00 +0000

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154 - Enneagram: Relaxing Your Control (Gut Types)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 26 Jan 2019 11:00:00 +0000

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153 - Enneagram: Self-Acceptance (Heart Types)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 19 Jan 2019 11:00:00 +0000

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152 - Enneagram: Dealing with Conflict (Peacemaker Type)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 12 Jan 2019 11:00:00 +0000

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151 - Enneagram: Expressing Your True Self (Peacemaker Type)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 5 Jan 2019 11:00:00 +0000

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150 - How the Enneagram Has Helped Us.

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 29 Dec 2018 11:00:00 +0000

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149 - Come: Jesus is Playful with You

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 22 Dec 2018 11:00:00 +0000

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148 - Come: Jesus is Vulnerable For You

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 15 Dec 2018 11:00:00 +0000

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147 - Come: Jesus Speaks Truth to You

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 8 Dec 2018 17:00:00 +0000

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146 - Come: Jesus Feels Your Emotions

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 1 Dec 2018 11:00:00 +0000

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145 - Come: Jesus is Glad to See You!

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 24 Nov 2018 11:00:00 +0000

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144 - Unexpected Blessings

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 17 Nov 2018 11:00:00 +0000

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143 - Intimacy with Jesus in Leadership

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 10 Nov 2018 11:00:00 +0000

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142: Spiritual Direction

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 3 Nov 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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141 - PA: Women in Ministry

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 27 Oct 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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140 - PA: Ministry in the Smile of the Father

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 20 Oct 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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139 - PA: Finding Joy When Ministry is Hard

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 13 Oct 2018 10:00:00 +0000

In this series we’re focusing on Pastor Appreciation (PA).

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138 - PA: Ministry Begins With Rest

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 6 Oct 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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137 - When Pastors Fall

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 29 Sep 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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136 - Emotions: Befriending Our Sadness

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 22 Sep 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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135 - Emotions: Befriending Our Shame Pt. 2

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 15 Sep 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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134 - Emotions: Befriending Our Shame

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 8 Sep 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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133 - Emotions: Befriending Our Anxiety

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 1 Sep 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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132 - Selah: Be Still

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 25 Aug 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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131 - Emotions: Befriending Our Anger

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 18 Aug 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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130 - Emotions: Befriending Our Emotions

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 11 Aug 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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129 - Family: Ministry as a Single Person

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 4 Aug 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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128 - Family: De-Triangulate into the Circle of Love

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 28 Jul 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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127 - Family: Confessions of a Perfectionist

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 21 Jul 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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126 - Family: De-Enmeshing with Meta-communication

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 14 Jul 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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125 - Family: People Pleasing

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 7 Jul 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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124 - Family: Healthy Boundaries

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 30 Jun 2018 15:00:00 +0000

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123 - Family: Grief Leads to Joy!

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 23 Jun 2018 10:00:00 +0000

Did this episode hit home? Bill & Kristi themselves had to learn how to feel their emotions in the context of their marriage. Listen to this Soul Talks Episode as Bill & Kristi share how early in their marriage they learned how to grow in emotional differentiation, self-awareness, and true intimacy with one another and God.

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122 - Letter’s From Papa

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 16 Jun 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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121 - When You Don’t Feel God’s Love Anymore

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 9 Jun 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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120 - Courage: The Courage to Feel

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 2 Jun 2018 10:00:00 +0000

Check out these articles by Bill about navigating your feelings:
Faith & Feelings, Transforming Your Feelings & Emotions,
Feeling Your Emotions in a Relationship

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119 - Courage: Success is Not Sufficient

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 26 May 2018 10:45:00 +0000

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118 - Courage: Failure Is Not Fatal

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 19 May 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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DALLAS WILLARD: Wounded Healer For Criticism

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 12 May 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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DALLAS WILLARD: Wounded Healer For Rejection

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 5 May 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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Selah: Life Without Lack Psalm 23

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 28 Apr 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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DALLAS WILLARD: When Ministry-aholics Relax With Jesus Part 2

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 21 Apr 2018 10:00:00 +0000

This episode references Dallas Willard’s new book, Life Without Lack: Living in the Fullness of Psalm 23.

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DALLAS WILLARD: When Ministry-aholics Relax With Jesus Part 1

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 14 Apr 2018 10:00:00 +0000

This episode references Dallas Willard’s new book, Life Without Lack: Living in the Fullness of Psalm 23.

Experience a meditation on Psalm 23 with our Soul Talks Episode SELAH: Psalm 23

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Selah: Psalm 23

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Wed, 11 Apr 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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"Walk With Good in Shepherd Psalm 23"
“Psalm 23 Outline of Your Journey”
“A Little Bag for a Big Psalm”

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Dallas Willard - Life Without Lack

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 7 Apr 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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Living Into Your Resurrection

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 31 Mar 2018 10:00:00 +0000

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Shame-Free at the Cross

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 24 Mar 2018 10:00:00 +0000

In this episode Bill & Kristi refer to Soul Shepherding’s powerful prayer guide through the stations of the cross Unforsaken.

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Immanuel Journaling

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 17 Mar 2018 10:00:00 +0000

You can learn more about Immanuel Journaling and the power of interactive gratitude, emotional attunement, and praying our emotions by reading Joyful Journey by Jim Wilder, Anna Kang, John & Sungshim Loppnow.

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When Unconscious Trauma Causes Conflict

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 10 Mar 2018 11:00:00 +0000

As doctor’s of psychology as well as pastors and spiritual directors, Bill & Kristi specialize in spiritual psychology. Visit soulshepherding.org where they have hundreds of free resources to help you flourish in life, love and leadership with Jesus.

In this episode, Bill & Kristi referred to Soul Shepherding’s Sabbatical Guide, a resource designed to help men and women in ministry navigate an extended time of rest and renewal. You can find Soul Shepherding’s Sabbatical Guide in our online store.

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You can also listen to Bill & Kristi share vulnerably about Lent in past podcasts:

You Are “Unforsaken” (The Message of Lent)

You’re Not Alone With Your Burdens

Helping Jesus Helps Us

When You Feel Bad Look Into Jesus’ Face

Falling and Rising Again

Trusting God When You Feel Forsaken

Resting in God’s Grace

Finding Christ Risen in Your Life

Feeling Inadequate at Prayer

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 3 Mar 2018 11:00:00 +0000

In this season of lent Soul Shepherding’s booklet Unforsaken is a powerful prayer guide through the stations of the cross.

Rest: When Rest Doesn’t Feel Restful!

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 24 Feb 2018 11:00:00 +0000

We want to help you give the gift of extended Sabbath rest to a pastor or ministry leader — which may be yourself! Portions of this episode were taken from our Sabbatical Guide, a resource designed to help men and women in ministry navigate an extended time of rest and renewal. You can find Soul Shepherding’s Sabbatical Guide in our online store.

Rest: The Importance of Rest for Healthy Identity

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 17 Feb 2018 11:00:00 +0000

Check out our article Identity in Christ Verses in the Bible for some powerful verses on Identity.

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Lent Is Love

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 10 Feb 2018 11:00:00 +0000

Get up close and personal with Jesus as he carries his cross and is lifted up on it to be crucified. Meditate on each of the Gospel scenes in Soul Shepherding’s Unforsaken booklet.

If you would like to spend time in some powerful bible verses on identity check out our Soul Shepherding article Identity in Christ Verses in the Bible.

Selah: Praying With the Psalmist

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Wed, 7 Feb 2018 11:00:00 +0000

For more help with using the Psalms in prayer see our free Soul Shepherding articles on “Praying the Psalms”.

Rest: What Is Sabbatical

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 3 Feb 2018 11:00:00 +0000

Portions of this episode were taken from our Sabbatical Guide, a resource designed to help men and women in ministry navigate an extended time of rest and renewal. You can find Soul Shepherding’s Sabbatical Guide in our online store.

Also, you’ll appreciate these free Soul Shepherding resources:Addicted to Public Productivity (A Case For Sabbatical) and Our First Sabbatical (Why Pastors Need This!)

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Rest: Pray & Play With Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 27 Jan 2018 11:00:00 +0000

Also, you’ll appreciate these free Soul Shepherding resources: Smile, Play and Laugh with Jesus and Play, Play, Play!! (Having Fun With Jesus).

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Rest: Permission to Stop

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 20 Jan 2018 11:00:00 +0000

Selah: Breathing Selah

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sun, 14 Jan 2018 11:00:00 +0000

To learn more about Selah and how to practice this way of prayerfulness read Your Best Life in Jesus’ Easy Yoke: Rhythms of Grace to De-Stress and Live Empowered by Bill Gaultiere.

Rest: Catching a Breath in Your Everyday Life

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 13 Jan 2018 11:00:00 +0000

New “Selah” episodes! Soul Shepherding is now offering four to five minute Scripture meditations set to music. Subscribe to “Soul Talks With Bill and Kristi Gaultiere” and the “Selah” episodes will automatically drop into your feed. We hope to broadcast “Selah” semi-weekly on Sundays.

Rest: Sabbath the Misunderstood Gift

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 6 Jan 2018 11:00:00 +0000

We want to help you give the gift of extended Sabbath rest to a pastor or ministry leader — which may be yourself! Portions of this episode were taken from our Sabbatical Guide, a resource designed to help men and women in ministry navigate an extended time of rest and renewal. Here is a link to: Soul Shepherding’s Sabbatical Guide.

Joy In Jesus!

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 30 Dec 2017 11:00:00 +0000

To find more joy in Jesus read our book Your Best Life in Jesus’ Easy Yoke. The chapters on “Smiling in Your Storm (The Gospel)” and “Giving Thanks in Trials (Beatitudes)” especially focus on the power of rejoicing in Christ.

In this episode we talk about an artist’s rendering of Jesus’ face shining with love and delight. You can find that on our Soul Shepherding article: “Jesus Smiles at You!”

Jesus’ Abba Delights in You! (Your Best Christmas Gift!)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 23 Dec 2017 11:00:00 +0000

If you have a year end donation for Soul Shepherding it’d be great blessing! Soul Shepherding, Inc is a nonprofit ministry and donations are tax deductible. Your gifts subsidize this “Soul Talks” podcast, along with the counseling and mentoring we provide for pastors, missionaries and other men and women in ministry. Thank you!

Our book Your Best Life in Jesus’ Easy Yoke helps you deal with stress in the way of Jesus and features teaching on setting boundaries. With real life stories, surveys, Bible studies, meditations, prayers, and soul talk questions for small groups, we help you develop healthy boundaries in your life, relationships, and ministry.

This episode draws on Jesus’ Greatest Teaching: Living the Sermon on the Mount by Bill Gaultiere. This 42-page PDF booklet is a paraphrase of the Sermon on the Mount, based largely on insights from Dallas Willard in The Divine Conspiracy. It includes a guide for small groups. You’ll find these and other books and seminars on our website in the store.

Unhurried With Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 16 Dec 2017 11:00:00 +0000

Our book Your Best Life in Jesus’ Easy Yoke helps you deal with stress in the way of Jesus and features teaching on setting boundaries. With real life stories, surveys, Bible studies, meditations, prayers, and soul talk questions for small groups we help you develop healthy boundaries in your life, relationships, and ministry.

In Soul Shepherding’s online store you also find our “Advent Meditations and Prayer Cards.”

Soul Shepherding resources make great Christmas gifts and support the ministry of Soul Shepherding.

Healthy Boundaries for the Holidays

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 9 Dec 2017 11:00:00 +0000

Our book Your Best Life in Jesus’ Easy Yoke helps you deal with stress in the way of Jesus and features teaching on setting boundaries. With real life stories, surveys, Bible studies, meditations, prayers, and soul talk questions for small groups we help you develop healthy boundaries in your life, relationships, and ministry.

In Soul Shepherding’s online store you can also find our “Advent Meditations and Prayer Cards.”

Soul Shepherding resources make great Christmas gifts and support the ministry of Soul Shepherding.

Advent: Relaxed and Fruitful With Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 2 Dec 2017 11:00:00 +0000

We model for you the blessing of using Soul Shepherding’s “Advent Meditations and Prayer Cards.” This inspiring resource is for your personal devotions, small group, family meal, or holiday gathering.

Our Bible study discussion from the life of Jesus comes from our book Your Best Life in Jesus’ Easy Yoke in chapter one.

These and other resources make great Christmas gifts and your purchases support the ministry of Soul Shepherding. They are available in the online store on SoulShepherding.org.

Soul Shepherding, Inc. is a nonprofit ministry and your donations subsidize this “Soul Talks” podcast, along with the counseling and mentoring we provide for pastors, missionaries, and other men and women in ministry. Thank you!

The Surprising “Be-Gratefuls” of Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 25 Nov 2017 11:00:00 +0000

Let’s go deeper into Jesus’ “Be-Gratefuls”! This episode draws on Jesus’ Greatest Teaching: Living the Sermon on the Mount by Bill Gaultiere. This 42-page PDF booklet is a paraphrase of the Sermon on the Mount, based largely on insights from Dallas Willard in The Divine Conspiracy. It includes a guide for small groups. You’ll find these and other books and seminars on our website in the store.

You’re invited to participate in Soul Shepherding’s TLC Retreats! This is a certificate training program in “Spiritual Formation and Soul Care Ministry.” We start a new cohort January 15 - 19, 2018. For our podcast listeners we’re offering a $100 discount. Use the promo code “SoulTalksTLC”. To learn more visit our website and find our page TLC Retreats or Contact Kristi.

Advent starts soon. Check out Soul Shepherding’s “Advent Devotionals and Prayer Cards.” During Advent on “Soul Talks” we’ll be talking about “Four Ways Jesus Comes to Us With an ‘Easy Yoke’”

Finding a Blessing in Conflict

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 18 Nov 2017 11:00:00 +0000

In this podcast we (Bill and Kristi Gaultiere) teach on Jesus’ beatitudes in Matthew 5:3-10, especially his blessing for peacemakers (verse 7). We clarify Jesus’ teaching from common misunderstandings and illustrate it’s application through a relationship conflict that we had and how Christ and his kingdom helped us.

This conversation draws on the booklet Jesus’ Greatest Teaching: Living the Sermon on the Mount by Bill Gaultiere. The inspiring insights and applications in this 42-page booklet are great for personal devotions and small groups. You’ll find these and other books and seminars on our website in the store.

At the end of this episode we have an invitation for you to join us at our Soul Shepherding TLC Retreat January 15 - 19, 2018. For our podcast listeners we’re offering a $100 discount. Use the promo code “SoulTalksTLC”. To learn more visit our website and find our page TLC Retreats or Contact Kristi.

Is it Good to Vent Emotions?

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 11 Nov 2017 11:00:00 +0000

Dumping on people it’s not helpful! Effective listening enables people to feel cared for and to take personal personal responsibility — it doesn’t “fragilize” them. We discuss an example in parenting. Bill’s Bible study and reflective meditation from Habakkuk helps us be strengthened in faith through venting emotion wisely.

Don’t Just “Grin and Bear it”

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 4 Nov 2017 10:00:00 +0000

A pastor shares, “I thought it was wrong to vent emotions. I didn’t want to name negative emotions and make them more real so I just kept them inside.” Repressing emotions puts them in your body and diminishes your capacity to love and lead well. Kristi helps Bill process his feelings about Brennan Manning’s memoir confessions of ongoing alcoholism and deceit during his ministry.

Perfect Love Removes Fear

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 28 Oct 2017 10:00:00 +0000

When the Lord in his Word says, “Fear not” he’s not judging us for having worries or fears! He’s actually inviting us to feel, talk, and pray. He’s opening his arms to us in love. We share a meditation on Luke 12:32 to experience the love of Christ and the Father.

Enjoying Scripture Meditation

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 21 Oct 2017 10:00:00 +0000

Do you enjoy reading the Bible? You can! We talk about the blessing of “Digging Deeper in God’s Word” and Kristi leads a short “Lectio Divina” meditation on Psalm 138. We’re thankful for Jon Firey of FFH band for the music.

I Desperately Want Communion With God!

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 14 Oct 2017 10:00:00 +0000

This is the cry of “J. P.’s” heart. We share his story of not feeling God’s presence, struggling with depression and alcohol, being judged. His earnest faith, spiritual disciplines, and service in church aren’t helping. He asks, “Bill and Kristi, what would you say to me?” If you or someone you know relates to J. P., tune in for empathy, affirmation, and spiritual formation coaching.

Enjoying Ministry to Others

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 7 Oct 2017 10:00:00 +0000

Jesus says, “Give and it will be given back to you.” (Luke 6:38) But often when we serve, care, or lead in ministry we’re weighed down with burdens, overstressed, or discouraged. We’re missing the joy of Jesus! Bill and Kristi share their struggles and renewals to encourage you.

Alcohol & the Holy Spirit

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 30 Sep 2017 10:00:00 +0000

Kristi asks Bill, “How are you feeling?” He shares he feel’s sad for Jesus. Because a group of Christians regularly go from a church meeting to social meeting in which they drink too much and have unwholesome conversation. It’s like two different lives. Their is great joy and blessing in being with Jesus in all that we do. This is our best witness to the world.

When Listening Triggers Anxiety

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 23 Sep 2017 10:00:00 +0000

A Soul Talks listener asks, “How do I give empathy when what’s shared makes me feel anxious? I lose patience and just want to fix it.” We talk about repressed emotions, enmeshment, abandoning outcomes to God, and the need for mutuality with loved ones.

Hurricanes & Hearts of Empathy

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 16 Sep 2017 10:00:00 +0000

What’s God doing when hurricane’s hit? How do we deal with hardships? We go to Jesus together. We validate the emotions and offer empathy. We may need to re-think our perspective and faith and do some training to learn how to live and react to trials from within the spiritual reality of the Kingdom of God.

When You’re Stuck in Your Head

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 9 Sep 2017 10:00:00 +0000

Like some ministry leaders today Nicodemus was stuck in his head and emotionally reluctant. Jesus offers masterful empathy to help him re-think — and re-feel! — his life to be “born from above” in the Kingdom of God. Here’s an insightful Bible study on John 3:1-17 put into the format of a refreshing empathy-based conversation.

The Emotionally Reluctant Person

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 2 Sep 2017 10:00:00 +0000

A woman asks, “How can I help my husband share his feelings?” We all have family members or friends who are reluctant to share emotions. Maybe you are too! Here’s how to invite people to be emotionally vulnerable and draw them into the grace of Christ. In a replay of a conversation from the past, Kristi uses empathy to draw out Bill when he was an emotionally reluctant husband.

The Pressure to Please

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 26 Aug 2017 10:00:00 +0000

A pastor is caught in a church “worship war”. Speakers are criticized. Kristi is judged for teaching men in church. Bill is caught in the crossfires of mediating a church leader conflict. Probably you feel pressure to please people too. Empathy, the Word of God, and affirmation of Christ’s call give us courage to please the Lord in all things.

Boundaries For Tender Hearts

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 19 Aug 2017 10:00:00 +0000

A listener asks, “Kristi, how do you carry your tender heart into relationships that are not so safe?” Kristi and Bill share on the characteristics of an emotionally safe person, how to be vulnerable and yet “contained”, and how to receive empathy from God and his ambassadors.

Help For Hidden Emotions

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 12 Aug 2017 10:00:00 +0000

Probably we all have hidden emotions. Some of us feel emotionally lost, locked up, even numb. A listener who was abused as a child and shut down her feelings asks for pointers on re-learning how to feel. We help her and you not to judge yourself but to seek grace from God, through prayer and supportive people.

A Hope That Won’t Disappoint

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Fri, 4 Aug 2017 00:00:00 +0000

Bill and Bobby Schuller (pastor of the Hour of Power) talk about how they find hope in challenging times. All of us at times don’t feel hope. We may be afraid to hope and be disappointed. When we put our hope in God and the eternal good he is bringing we have an anchor for our soul.

Emotional Healing For a Trauma Trigger

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 29 Jul 2017 10:00:00 +0000

Kristi shares her “trauma trigger” and how the Lord ministered his shining face of love on her through empathy and words of blessing. We all have “implicit memories” of childhood distress that need divine compassion. Kristi shows us how a deep hurt offered to the Lord can become a “sacred wound” that heals others.

The Unbusy Leader

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 22 Jul 2017 10:00:00 +0000

“How are you?” Whatever our work, or even if we’re retired, often we answer, “Busy!” But CS Lewis taught, “Only lazy people are busy!” How can this be? The most effective and fruitful leadership is born out of rest, prayer, and discernment — it’s not just working hard, it’s working SMART!

When God Breaks Through

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 15 Jul 2017 10:00:00 +0000

God is always present loving us and inviting us to join the wonderful things he’s doing. C.S. Lewis calls this “Narnia.” But if we’re “checked out” emotionally we miss out. To help you experience the in-breaking of Christ and his Kingdom of the Heavens Bill tells the story of an alcoholic pastor he helped into recovery.

Hospitality From C. S. Lewis

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 8 Jul 2017 10:00:00 +0000

You’ll enjoy Bill and Kristi’s spiritual friendship as they share their experience of visiting C. S. Lewis’ home, “The Kilns” in Oxford, England. They share fascinating stories from this great Christian thinker. You’ll be inspired to have your own soul talk with a friend and to shine the light of Christ in your world.

Letting Grace Warm Your Heart

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 1 Jul 2017 10:00:00 +0000

The most important thing about our life, relationships, work, and ministry is having our heart warm with God’s love. Without this we become tired, discouraged, and see little fruit. Drawing on inspiration from John Wesley is a great way to get a heart-warming soul talk started!

Free of Shame, Full of Joy

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 24 Jun 2017 10:00:00 +0000

What do you do when you feel discouraged, inadequate, guilty, or ashamed? We may deny our emotions or escape into compulsive behavior. St Francis shows us that following the footprints of Christ is the path of great joy. Like Francis, we do this through prayer and soul friendship.

Healing a Father Wound

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 17 Jun 2017 10:00:00 +0000

Bill shares about his relationship with his dad: blessings he appreciates, wounds he’s forgiven, and his journey of emotional healing. He and Kristi also talk about Saint Francis’ father wound and how he overcame this to become a wounded healer in the service of Christ.

Following a Saint, Feeling Like a Failure

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 10 Jun 2017 10:00:00 +0000

When we read about a great saint’s experiences with God it’s tempting to compare ourselves negatively. Feeling bad about yourself or overwhelmed, you may avoid a book that could really bless you. Here’s the help you need to stay out of shame and glean all the good that can come from a classic of Christian devotion.

Imagining Yourself In a Gospel Adventure

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 3 Jun 2017 10:00:00 +0000

There is so much profit in meditating on a Bible passage! But it’s a challenge for us to slow down and really open our hearts to God. Ignatius’ ancient approach of visualizing ourselves in a Gospel story helps us to actually experience and feel God’s grace — and then to live it out in our work and ministry.

Emotional Cut Offs Hurt

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 27 May 2017 10:00:00 +0000

Bill and Kristi had an emotionally upsetting conversation. Each was tempted to “cut off” and avoid working through the mess, but they stayed with it. God helped them put into practice the Bible’s teaching to “be patient, bearing with one another in love.” It’s raw. It’s real. It’s grace. It works. This is the last of 6 in the series “Repairing Torn Hearts & Relationships”

Repairing a Relational Wound

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 20 May 2017 10:00:00 +0000

When we hurt the people we love it’s important to seek repair. Saying, “I’m sorry” is just a start. In real time Bill and Kristi process a conflict and demonstrate the power of empathy for emotional healing, reconciliation, and learning to amend problem behavior. This is the 5 of 6 in the series “Repairing Torn Hearts & Relationships”

Through a Dark Valley With Your Spouse

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 13 May 2017 10:00:00 +0000

When your spouse or another loved one hurts you hurt. Pastor’s wife Susan Baugh shares her story of feeling alone, confused, and afraid when her lead pastor husband was opposed by church leaders and lost his pulpit. Here’s how to “carry each other’s burdens” to make it through a dark valley to see the sunrise. This is the last of the 4-week series, “Repairing Torn Hearts and Relationships.”

Emotionally Healthy Community

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 6 May 2017 10:00:00 +0000

“We couldn’t have made it through the church conflict, pain, and fear without our friends who supported us.” That’s what Pastor Ken and Susan Baugh share with Bill and Kristi as we continue our series on “Repairing Torn Hearts and Relationships.” Here’s what it looks like to heal, forgive, bless, and love those who hurt us in our church or family. This is the third of the 4-week series.

Leading With Vulnerability

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 29 Apr 2017 10:00:00 +0000

“Excuse me, Lord, why should I go the elders and apologize? They wronged me!” That’s how Ken Baugh felt after being terminated as lead pastor. But having receiving empathy and emotional healing, now he took ownership of his part of the leadership conflict, humbled himself, and said, “I want to listen and understand how I hurt you.” This is the second of a 4-week series on “Repairing Torn Hearts and Relationships.”

Becoming a Wounded Healer

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 22 Apr 2017 10:00:00 +0000

“I was burned out and didn’t even know it,” Ken Baugh says to Bill, reflecting on being a lead pastor. He shares his story of stress overload, church conflict, fear, shame, anger, and how God used this to call him into a new and deeper ministry of being a wounded healer to disciple people to Jesus. This is the first of a 4-week series on “Repairing Torn Hearts and Relationships.” Scripture: 2 Corinthians 1:3-7

Finding Christ Risen in Your Life

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 15 Apr 2017 10:00:00 +0000

Joy! Joy! Joy! Christ is risen! This is history and it’s the great opportunity of each day to appreciate that the Spirit of Jesus is resurrected, alive in our midst. He’s unseen, but we can greatly benefit from his presence and power in whatever we do. Stations 15 in “Unforsaken: With Jesus on the Stations of the Cross”

Resting in God’s Grace

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 8 Apr 2017 10:00:00 +0000

Grace comes to nourish and empower us as we pray Jesus’ cross prayer of abandonment, “Father, into your hands I commit my spirit.” It’s “letting go” and resting in God’s provision. We need this prayer each day and when we or a loved one die. We can hold Jesus in our heart — even as Mary cradles Jesus when he dies. Stations 13 and 14 in "Unforsaken: With Jesus on the Stations of the Cross"

Trusting God When You Feel Forsaken

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 1 Apr 2017 10:00:00 +0000

It’s in times of pain and distress that we’re most likely to feel alone. Yet, that’s when we most need care and help! On the cross Jesus shows us how to trust God when we feel abandoned. He gives himself to us and connects us with a soul friend. Stations 11 and 12 in “Unforsaken: With Jesus on the Stations of the Cross”

Falling and Rising Again

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 25 Mar 2017 10:00:00 +0000

We all fall down — physically or emotionally. Jesus fell under the weight of the cross and rose again. Looking to Jesus together, heart to heart, we can recover from discouragement, even depression and abuse. We can forgive. We can learn to love our enemies.

Stations of the Cross 9 and 10 of "Unforsaken"

When You Feel Bad Look Into Jesus' Face

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 18 Mar 2017 10:00:00 +0000

The two times we tend to feel depressed or ashamed are when we fall down and when we suffer loss. On his crosswalk Jesus helps us carry these burdens and shows us the better way of reaching up to take hold of God's hand of grace. Stations 7 and 8 in "Unforsaken"

Helping Jesus Helps Us

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 11 Mar 2017 11:00:00 +0000

In pain it’s tempting to isolate and feel sorry for ourselves, but on his crosswalk Jesus shows us the way into the graces of companionship and kindness. This week’s Scriptures and stories in the “Unforsaken” (Lent) journey are precious and powerful! Stations 5 and 6 of “Unforsaken”

You’re Not Alone With Your Burdens

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 4 Mar 2017 11:00:00 +0000

We continue the Lent journey of “Unforsaken.” Under the weight of the cross Jesus falls — into his Abba’s arms of love! With his mother Mary we feel his burden. Then we realize Jesus falls for us! With perfect, saving empathy he’s taking on our burden. Stations 3 and 4 in "Unforsaken: With Jesus on the Stations of the Cross"

You Are Unforsaken! (The Message of Lent)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 25 Feb 2017 11:00:00 +0000

We begin a special Lent series in which we journey with Jesus as he carries his cross out of love for us. Through his cross our Lord and Savior invites us into the Kingdom of God. In Christ there is no condemnation for us! With Jesus we can draw on the joy of the Lord even in suffering.

The Emotionally Sensitive Person

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 18 Feb 2017 11:00:00 +0000

Maybe you struggle with being emotionally sensitive — certainly there are people you care for who do. It’s very difficult to be a Feeler surrounded by thinkers and doers! Bill offers empathy for Kristi’s tender heart and draws out her emotional intelligence to benefit us all.

A Love Letter to Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 11 Feb 2017 11:00:00 +0000

The source of joy and power in your life is enthusiastic devotion to the Lord Jesus Christ. Kristi asks Bill to share his intimate, affectionate love letter to Jesus. It’ll warm your heart for God. Based on the Soul Shepherding article: “A Love Letter to Jesus”

True Love

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 4 Feb 2017 11:00:00 +0000

We may equate love with desire or romance, but authentic love is to will good for other people. It’s 1 Corinthians 13 love. But trying hard to be patient and kind won’t work. We need to get caught up in the eternal dance of love between Father, Son and Spirit and invite others to join us. Based on the Soul Shepherding article: “Without Love I Am Nothing.”

Delighting in the Streams of God

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 28 Jan 2017 11:00:00 +0000

Join us as we drink in from the happy river of Psalm 46! We can bring our stress, family conflict, loneliness, or busyness into the loving presence of God and find refuge. The word (message) of God’s grace to us through Christ is ministered through Scripture and soul talk.

Faith and Feelings

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 21 Jan 2017 11:00:00 +0000

Often we try to fix our feelings with good advice or cheery reassurance. (This is the same thing we do to other people.) It’s one of the “Biblical Blunders That Bruise and Confuse.” Real life is a lot more messy than the old dictum to get on the “Fact-Faith-Feeling Train.” The truth and grace of the Bible brings comfort and help to troubled emotions.

Converting Distress Into Joyful Apprenticeship to Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 14 Jan 2017 11:00:00 +0000

When we look to the spiritual presence of Christ welcoming us into his Father’s world we find reason for joy — even in emotional distress and intrusive frustrations. Bill and Kristi share how “The Apprentice Prayer” helps them and they discuss the Scriptures it’s based on.

Renew Your Life in the Apprentice Prayer

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 7 Jan 2017 11:00:00 +0000

At the opening of this podcast you can join in with Bill as he offers his daily prayer to apprentice himself to Jesus in the Kingdom of God. Then he and Kristi unpack the prayer's insights, peace and power in a soul talk. This two-minute prayer has propelled spiritual renewal for many servants of the Lord. You’ll be inspired to pray it over and over and watch what God will do in your life and ministry!

The Blessing of Breath Prayers

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Fri, 23 Dec 2016 19:30:00 +0000

Here’s a simple and powerful way to pray a Scripture phrase, using your breathing to engage your mind and heart with God’s loving presence. Bill and Kristi share specific Breath Prayers From the Bible and guide you in how to use them to refresh and renew in God’s Word and to intercede for other people.

Basking in the Light on the Longest Night

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 17 Dec 2016 11:00:00 +0000

“A great light dawns for those in the darkness,” Isaiah says in the Bible. In the darkness of winter (including Seasonal Affective Disorder) and in holiday stress our body and soul long for the light and warmth of Christ. He comes to us!

“I Am Pleased With You!”

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 10 Dec 2016 11:00:00 +0000

Like Jesus’ mother Mary you need to know that the Lord is pleased with you — that he delights in you! So do the people you care for. Bill and Kristi talk about what it’s like to receive and trust God’s loving affirmation and to fight off Satan’s accusations.

Advent Brings Hope of Resurrection

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 3 Dec 2016 11:00:00 +0000

The great hope of our lives is meeting Jesus face to face in heaven. The Bible teaches that we’re sowing our bodily lives like seeds that will blossom as resurrection bodies in heaven. This hope can sustains us through discouragement, stress, and grief. It’s our source of faith, love, joy and peace.

A Special Journey With Christ in Advent

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 26 Nov 2016 11:00:00 +0000

Celebrating the birth of Christ brings us great joy! But only if we can cultivate a fresh appreciation for the Lord. This is true even in the midst of holiday stress, disappointment, loneliness, and family conflict. Bill and Kristi share an advent devotional practice that facilitates heart-warming spiritual conversation with friends and family (even school-aged children).

Setting Boundaries to Bless Your Children

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 19 Nov 2016 11:00:00 +0000

Children need care to learn to bond in relationship and to develop boundaries. Parents need to have limits with their children for their own relationship with God. This looks different for infants, pre-schoolers, school-aged, and young adults. Bill and Kristi share some practical strategies.

Nurturing Your Marriage to Bless Your Children

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 12 Nov 2016 11:00:00 +0000

A married couple asks us, “How do you care for your marriage when you have young children? The responsibilities of parenting are so demanding!” Bill and Kristi talk about effective parenting and putting priority on your marriage as a way to love your children drawing from Psalm 127 which calls us to be a family that rests in the Lord.

A Storm of Emotions

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 5 Nov 2016 10:00:00 +0000

Bill has an emotional day and for someone who has historically been a strong thinker and an active do-er this is news! Kristi talks with him about when he used to repress his emotions versus feeling and expressing them now. The benefits are greater friendship and peace. Also they talk about a very emotional baseball game that night when Bill’s beloved “Cubbies” won the World Series!

The Busy Leader

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 29 Oct 2016 10:00:00 +0000

C.S. Lewis said, “We’re busy because we’re lazy!” How could it be lazy to be busy with our work, ministry, and family?! Because when we do too much or go too fast we’re relying on ourselves rather than God with us. If you struggle with busyness you’re not alone! Let’s talk about how to prioritize the life of our soul in Christ.

Serve What You're Cooking

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 22 Oct 2016 10:00:00 +0000

"Many a spiritual cook scarcely licks their fingers, yet prepares for others the most costly dishes." These are words of the great puritan Richard Baxter in the 17th Century. If we don't care for our own souls under God as pastors, people-helpers and Christian workers we will get depleted. Bill and Kristi share about some practical ways to enjoy eating the food that we cook for others.

When Ministry Engulfs Your Marriage

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 15 Oct 2016 10:00:00 +0000

Caring for others spiritually is so compelling that it can swallow up your marriage. Other jobs can also take over your life. You may find that you and your spouse are always doing church stuff, solving problems, helping people, or talking about those things! It’s great to partner with our spouse in God’s work but not at the expense of intimacy and fun in our marriage.

Finding Yourself in Jesus’ Eyes

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 8 Oct 2016 10:00:00 +0000

We don’t really know our true selves until we look in Jesus’ eyes of love. This is Bill listening to Kristi’s grief when she loses her cat Charlie. This is the Good Shepherd finding the lost sheep in Luke 15 and Jesus’ teaching in the Sermon on the Mount. This is a grace-based relationship in which we’re empathized with, known, forgiven and eternally loved! You long for this with God and safe people. The people around you need this from you.

Calming Down Distress (Going Numb vs Praying)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 1 Oct 2016 10:00:00 +0000

When recovering from a major surgery a pastor realizes that he’s been using pain pills to cope with emotional distress. This is one of many unhealthy ways to “calm down” negative emotions. But denying feelings separates us from experiencing the love of God and of friends. In Psalm 55 David uses many feeling words in his prayer and experiences the true comfort that strengthens us to offer care to others.

Feeling Your Emotions in a Relationship

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 24 Sep 2016 10:00:00 +0000

Kristi and Bill talk about what it was like earlier in their marriage when he wasn’t aware of his emotions. Kristi felt disconnected from him and he felt pressured by her. They share how they grew in emotional differentiation, self-awareness, and true intimacy with one another and God.

Porn, Sex and True Intimacy

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 17 Sep 2016 10:00:00 +0000

A man said he overcame his porn addiction by fishing! How could that be? Bill and Kristi talk about the X-rated advice this man received from a secular therapist, and what really helped him, like his 12 Step recovery group. Pornography and other compulsive behaviors deaden the soul and hurt loved ones. Real life, love, joy and peace come through intimate relationships with God and people.

Intimacy With Jesus Online

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 10 Sep 2016 10:00:00 +0000

Bill and Kristi introduce the new Soul Shepherding website which invites people into a closer walk with Jesus. They share with others from their own inward journey with the Lord, a kind of online library that Jesus provides out of an overflow of intimacy with Him.

Resting in Jesus as Enough

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 3 Sep 2016 10:00:00 +0000

Praying a psalm or verse of Scripture helps us to embrace Christ. Using Psalm 131 helps us release ambitions and worries while finding delight and peace in drawing close to Jesus and his Father. Kristi ministers to you the “Jesus is Enough For Me” prayer that Bill wrote from Psalm 131. She also shares how God used this to comfort an anxious woman seeking her help.

Making Your Mind New

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 27 Aug 2016 10:00:00 +0000

A pastor and Soul Talks listener asks how to use Soul Shepherding's list of “Electric Scriptures” to renew our minds and turn on God’s power. Bill and Kristi share how we can memorize Bible passages and use them in prayer. Bill has been renewing his mind in 1 Peter 5 in humble leadership and Kristi has been using Romans 8 in the life of the Spirit.

Join Jesus' Intimacy with His Father (TLC Time)

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 20 Aug 2016 10:00:00 +0000

The TLC you desire is available through extended quiet time “To Love Christ”. Our Lord invites us to join his intimacy with his Father and find new joy and power for ministry to others. Bill and Kristi share examples of what happens when pastors and leaders set aside their work for some TLC time.

When Empathy is Not Enough

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 13 Aug 2016 10:00:00 +0000

Maybe you keep trying to offer empathy to someone — to listen, understand, and care but you’re getting exhausted! Sometimes empathy is not enough. Here’s what it looks like to empathize, but also to “speak the truth in love” (Ephesians 4:15) and to ask for the empathy that you need (Matthew 7:7-8).

Overcoming Discouragement in Ministry

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 6 Aug 2016 10:00:00 +0000

50% of pastors are discouraged right now. Everyone who cares for others in any capacity at times feels frustrated, tired, and down-hearted about their ministry. “Do not be discouraged,” the Bible says. Should we just shut down our emotions and put on a happy face or try harder? No. “For I am with you,” the Lord says (Joshua 1:9). It’s God’s empathy that encourages us and often it needs to come through people.

God is at Work in Your Life Story!

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 30 Jul 2016 10:00:00 +0000

Sometimes we all feel disconnected from God or insignificant. Kristi shares how she was inspired to see the supernatural ways that God worked in Brother Andrew’s life. It’s true for all of us, including in the mundane things and in our brokenness. To see what God is doing we need to reflect prayerfully on our life story and share it with others. Key Scripture: Romans 8:11-15 (God wants to move in your life and do wonderful things. We can trade our “do-it-yourself life” for a new life, a resurrection life. We can live “adventurously expectant, greeting God with a child-like, ‘What’s next Papa?’”

Who Carries the Emotion in Your Relationship?

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 23 Jul 2016 10:00:00 +0000

In relationships there’s often a dynamic called “collusion.” One person carries an emotion for another. One is sad, the other happy. One is fearful, the other courageous. One is calm, the other reactive. To get unstuck, the two of you need to talk about it and practice changing roles. The Lord Jesus shows us what healthy, loving collusion looks like.

Loving and Letting Go

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 16 Jul 2016 10:00:00 +0000

Releasing our children to be their own persons is part of loving them. It starts when they’re little and continues all through life! Celebrating their daughter’s wedding has Bill and Kristi rejoicing, grieving, empathizing with one another, and praying to God as Abba.

Cross the Border: Your Mission with Jesus

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 2 Jul 2016 10:00:00 +0000

We all need a mission from the Lord that’s beyond our comfort zone and abilities. Maybe it’s sharing the love of Christ with the poor and needy in the city, people from a different culture, or traveling to another country. We grow when we venture on God. Drawing on Jesus’ commission of the 72 disciples in Luke 10, Bill and Kristi share the challenges and fruits of caring for pastors from poor villages in Mexico.

Vacation Blessings and Trials

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 25 Jun 2016 10:00:00 +0000

What does a truly soul restoring vacation look like? Of course, it would be fun, but often entertainment is not truly fulfilling and meaningful. Bill and Kristi invite Jesus into their time away and find renewal, not only in rest and play, but also in sharing their emotional struggles and seeking the Lord apart and together.

Play and Process Together

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 18 Jun 2016 10:00:00 +0000

You need spontaneous fun in your life. You also need to verbalize and understand your emotional distress. Soul friends help us to do both. Bill and Kristi model this in their conversation about the pros and cons of an Abbey’s “rule of life” to not say anything bad about someone that you wouldn’t tell them directly.

Sexual Intimacy in Marriage

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 11 Jun 2016 10:00:00 +0000

We tend to separate sexuality and spirituality, but God put them together. God’s plan is for husbands and wives to enjoy sex in the context of emotional and spiritual intimacy. Bill and Kristi share personally about the challenges and opportunities of sex in marriage.

Sharing Words of Affirmation

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 4 Jun 2016 10:00:00 +0000

Many people are uncomfortable looking someone in eye and saying something they appreciate and admire about that person. Maybe it’s unfamiliar and awkward. Maybe it feels too vulnerable or emotional. Bill and Kristi share their experiences and ideas on giving and receiving affirmations so that it’s truly a blessing!

Christly Leadership: Lessons From Dallas Willard

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 28 May 2016 10:00:00 +0000

For many years Dallas Willard was a key mentor to Bill and Kristi and he offered himself as a friend. They share some of his best counter-cultural leadership lessons that have shaped their lives and their “Soul Shepherding” ministry to pastors and leaders.

Good Grief: Seeking Comfort When You Feel Sad

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 21 May 2016 10:00:00 +0000

We all experience disappointments and losses but how do we react? We may deny our sadness, get busy, or judge ourselves, but that diminishes our joy and our capacity to offer compassion to others. Asking for emotional comfort is different than complaining or wallowing in self-pity — it’s the path of regaining energy for life and ministry.

Kristi's Cat Charlie Teaches Us to Trust God

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 14 May 2016 10:00:00 +0000

First thing in the morning Charlie meows for Kristi to cuddle him! He follows her around all day and purrs in her lap. But he’s scared of cleanings and needs a “severe mercy”! Bill and Kristi draw out lessons from their cat and the Bible on trusting God.

Sharing Emotions Without Dumping

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 7 May 2016 10:00:00 +0000

Do your emotions help or hinder your life and your relationships? Being vulnerable is different than dumping on people. Caring for people is different than rescuing them. Galatians 6:1-5 teaches these things.

Mother's Day: Gratitudes and Griefs

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 30 Apr 2016 10:00:00 +0000

Kristi talks with Bill about being a mother of three children, a daughter, and a therapist for people struggling in the mother relationship. She says, “Being a mother is the hardest and most rewarding thing I’ve done.” On these matters we all have gratitudes and griefs to express to God, our perfectly loving mother (Isaiah 66:10-13).

Loving the Child In You and Others

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 23 Apr 2016 10:00:00 +0000

The Apostle John writes to us as “My little children.” In this spirit Bill and Kristi help you connect with the vulnerable child in you and in others. They share examples from their lives and their ministry to help you more fully trust in Jesus and grow up in the Father’s love. Kristi uses Psalm 131 to show you how to pray for yourself and others: “Jesus is Enough.”

Wrapped Around the Lord

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 16 Apr 2016 10:00:00 +0000

Most of us don't like to wait. But in a time of praying Psalm 27 Kristi discovers that waiting is "wrapping herself around her loving Lord!" This is not a burden -- it's a delight! In this 20-minute soul talk she and Bill help you experience greater intimacy with God in your prayers for yourself and others. "I will see the goodness of the Lord... Be strong and take heart and wait for the Lord." (Psalm 27:13-14)

The Blessing of Mentoring Relationships

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 9 Apr 2016 10:00:00 +0000

Officiating a wedding together for a ministry couple has Bill and Kristi reminiscing on life lessons they’ve learned from their spiritual mentors. In a 20-minute conversation they share wisdom for marriage and all relationships. They inspire you to shine your light and pass on the blessing of spiritual mentoring.

The Loneliness of Leadership, Part 2

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 2 Apr 2016 10:00:00 +0000

A. W. Tozer said there’s a solitary road that you walk as a Christian leader or giver of mercy. We yearn for a deeper intimacy with Jesus and to share this with others -- so much so that we'll do whatever it takes. Our secular culture opposes us and even many in the Church don’t understand us. But if we band together as soul friends it helps us to abide in Christ and bear great fruit!

The Loneliness of Leadership

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 26 Mar 2016 10:00:00 +0000

Most Christian leaders say they don’t have a close friend. There’s a certain aloneness and feeling of being unappreciated that goes with being a pastor, pastors’ spouse, counselor, boss, or parent. You carry others’ burdens but who carries yours? Bill and Kristi feel the struggle — do you? Join our conversation to discover with us that the risen Christ meets us in lonely places and he enables us to love one another (Luke 5:16; John 15:12).

Trusting the Risen Christ in Trials

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 19 Mar 2016 10:00:00 +0000

We invite you to join our 20-minute conversation on living by Christ’s cross and resurrection. Kristi shares that her sensitive heart absorbs the pain of others, including that of Christ on the cross. We explore how to trust the risen Christ with us in pain and difficulty. As the Bible says, “For the joy set before him Jesus endured the cross” (Hebrews 12:2).

Good Enough

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 12 Mar 2016 11:00:00 +0000

Bill shares that despite an abundance of positive feedback in response to the recent launch of this Podcast he’s battled with releasing “imperfect” episodes of Soul Talks. Kristi shares about her issues with perfectionism in the home and in her appearance. Wanting to be ideal and in control are manifestations of anxiety that many men and women in ministry struggle with. Ephesians 2:8-10 shows us that receiving God’s grace means relying on his work to propel us toward excellence without being perfectionistic.

When It's Good to Fail

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Sat, 5 Mar 2016 11:00:00 +0000

Bill and Kristi have a spontaneous conversation about the fear of launching this Podcast and failing. It’s a risk to venture out on a dream with faith in the Lord! But even when we do fall down it can be a surprising opportunity to grow in grace of Christ and minister this to others (2 Peter 3:18). They also discuss the sacred wound and pastors as heroes.

Spiritual Hospitality

Bill@SoulShepherding.org (Soul Shepherding) — Tue, 23 Feb 2016 11:00:00 +0000

Bill and Kristi say that the hospitality of Christ begins with a demeanor and actions that say, "I'm glad to see you!" It deepens as we offer empathy — “stepping into another’s skin to feel for them” — and prayer. (1 Peter 4:8-9) They invite you into their own spiritual friendship in marriage. They encourage your soul and empower your ministry.