Put A Ring On It: The Wedding Planning Podcast

Striking a Balance: Unplugged Weddings in the Digital Age

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 6 Feb 2024 06:00:00 +0000

Navigating the era of smartphones and social media, Daniel and Danielle explore the delicate balance between capturing memories and living in the moment. Get insights on implementing unplugged ceremonies with finesse and ensuring everyone feels included.

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2024 Wedding Trends

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 23 Jan 2024 07:00:00 +0000

Whether you're planning your own wedding or just curious about the trends that real couples are adopting, this episode is a fun exploration of what's hot in the wedding scene this year. Join us as we peel back the curtain on 2024's wedding trends — because weddings are not just about dreams; they're about creating memorable moments that reflect who you are.

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Beyond the 'Gram: Mastering the Basics

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 9 Jan 2024 06:00:00 +0000

In a world obsessed with the perfect Instagram moment, hosts Dan and Danielle break down the reality behind creating a wedding that's genuinely enjoyable. Tune in for tips on balancing social media aspirations with the essential elements that make your wedding day truly special.

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Breaking Tradition: A Deep Dive into First Looks

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 26 Dec 2023 06:00:00 +0000

What's the purpose of a first look, and why do some couples choose to break tradition? Settle in for a candid conversation about the emotional and logistical aspects of first looks. From the tap-on-the-shoulder moment to creative alternatives, this episode unravels the layers of the first look dilemma. Discover how this decision impacts your wedding timeline, emotions, and overall experience.

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Decoding Roles: Wedding Planner vs. Venue Coordinator

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 12 Dec 2023 06:00:00 +0000

Drawing from their experiences as a wedding planner and photographer, Dan and Danielle explore the differences between venue coordinators and wedding planners. Listen in as they discuss the vital role of a wedding planner in future-proofing the big day, providing insights on why couples might need more than they initially think. Discover the distinct responsibilities of planners and coordinators, gaining valuable insights into navigating the complexities of wedding planning.

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Challenges and Joys of DIY Backyard Weddings

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 28 Nov 2023 06:00:00 +0000

Join us as we discuss the unique challenges and rewarding experiences of planning and hosting a DIY backyard wedding. From muddy escapades to weathering unexpected storms, we explore the highs and lows of turning blank spaces into wedding venues.

Want more about planning a backyard wedding? Check out Ep. 17, "Planning a Backyard Wedding": https://putaringonitpodcast.com/episodes/017-2

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Wedding Don'ts: Guest Edition

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 14 Nov 2023 06:00:00 +0000

Dan found an interesting article sharing the "21 Rude Things People Will Do at Your Wedding". In this episode, we talk through each one, sharing our stories, what we've seen, why it's not ok to do these things, and hopefully bring some brevity to these potential pitfalls. Also, Danielle says "UGH" a lot.

HGTV article: https://www.hgtv.com/lifestyle/entertaining/10-rude-things-people-do-at-weddings-pictures

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Wedding Vendor Communication: Balancing Expectations and Etiquette

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 31 Oct 2023 05:00:00 +0000

Planning a wedding involves a myriad of communications, and it's essential to strike the right balance between expectations and etiquette when interacting with wedding professionals. In this episode, we dive into the delicate art of conversation with your wedding vendors. From those initial inquiries and consultations to the ongoing exchange of information and managing evolving expectations. We offer valuable insights to help you build positive, productive relationships with your wedding pros.

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Splurge vs. Save: Making Informed Choices for Your Wedding Budget

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 17 Oct 2023 05:00:00 +0000

We delve into the heart of wedding budgeting, uncovering the key factors that wield the greatest influence on your financial planning. Get ready to make informed choices and strike the perfect balance between splurging and saving, ensuring that every dollar invested creates a lasting impression.

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Home Stretch: The Last Week Before Your Wedding

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 3 Oct 2023 05:00:00 +0000

When it's the final week before your wedding, your task list should really about 98% completed (or more). But there's still some things you can do in those final days leading up to the big day to set yourself up for a GREAT day – physically, mentally, and emotionally.

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Behind-the-Scenes Generosity: Tipping Your Wedding Pros

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 19 Sep 2023 05:00:00 +0000

We're taking the "ick" out of talking about money. Specifically, when it comes to showing your gratitude to your wedding pros. We talk through which vendors SHOULD be tipped, MIGHT be tipped, and what to consider when making the determination.

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Navigating the Maze of Wedding Decisions

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 5 Sep 2023 06:00:00 +0000

Planning a wedding involves about .1% eating cake and 99.9% making decisions (so unfair). In this episode, we talk about how to navigate the MANY decisions involved in planning a wedding. Danielle talks about checklists (shocker) and Dan dives into the stuff from the heart.

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We're Coming Back!

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 1 Aug 2023 06:00:00 +0000

Did you miss us?!?! Because we missed YOU!! We're coming back with all new episodes starting September 5, 2023 – and can't wait!

Find out where we've been, why we took a break, and the changes you can expect for the next "season". 😳

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Season 9 Q&A

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 7 Sep 2021 05:00:00 +0000

It’s our final episode of Season 9 and we’ve compiled some of our favorite listener-submitted questions for our traditional, end-of-season Q&A. In this episode, we talked about Save the Dates, wedding party gifts, including pups in your wedding, organizing wedding emails, alcohol, and more. Thank you to our Ringer Club members for their support through another great season!

We talked about:

Whether Save the Dates are necessary
Can you not have a cocktail hour?
Do you need a table menu for buffet dinner?
When you should give your wedding party their gifts
Logistics and concerns when including pups in your wedding day
How and when to get your marriage license
Organizing wedding emails
Pros/cons of providing your own alcohol vs. using the caterer
A great resource for building your timeline

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State of the Wedding Industry

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 24 Aug 2021 05:00:00 +0000

Buckle up, Ringers. We’re sharing some major behind-the-scenes transparency as we recognize how COVID has affected the wedding industry and begin to look to the future. This episode is all about sharing what you might not realize is going on behind the scenes of the wedding industry, plus how and why it’s affecting you. It might be rough for now, but if we all come from a place of understanding, compassion, and grace - it will help everyone in the long run.

We talked about:

Some of the effects COVID has had on the wedding and event industry, both short-term and long-term
How vendors have specifically been affected and why that matters for you now
What it means for the future of weddings
What we can all do as we work to help find our balance again

Links mentioned:

Berlyn Events - Ohio wedding planner, Berlyn Martin (who you may remember from Episode 77 on Setting Boundaries)
Eventful - Wisconsin wedding planner, Sarah Welch
Social Maven - New York wedding planner, Syrie Roman
Your Inspired Event - California wedding planner, Savannah Gryskiewicz

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11 Things You Don’t Want To Forget To Do

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 10 Aug 2021 05:00:00 +0000

There are a lot of things on any wedding planning list you can find on Google. In this episode, we cover the items that are often forgotten about and WHY you should make sure to plan for them. This is a great episode to jot down some notes and do your future selves a solid.

We talked about:

What to check before booking your date
The best time to check out your wedding venue
Something you don’t want to forget in the budget
The best thing you can do for your timeline
What it means to get the “weird one” out of the way
Something you can do to put Mother Nature on your side
Being a good host to your vendors, too
The thing you absolutely MUST do before your wedding invites go out
Packing for the wedding day and the honeymoon
And wayyyy more!

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Tipping Guide

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Finding Your Wedding Mantra with Carrie-Ann Kloda

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak, Carrie-Ann Kloda) — Tue, 27 Jul 2021 05:00:00 +0000

In episode 105, special guest Carrie-Ann Kloda of Kith & Kin joins us to talk about finding your wedding mantra. We talk through why wedding planning is as stressful as it is and what you, as the couple, can do to find your focus and set healthy boundaries through the wedding planning process. Because the wedding is one day. The marriage that comes after is meant to last a lifetime.

We talked about:

Meet Carrie-Ann Kloda
Why wedding planning can be so stressful
Why you should have a “wedding mantra”
How to find your wedding mantra
Some mantra examples to get your wheels turning
Why setting boundaries now sets you up for a healthy marriage

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The Really, Really Big Guide To Wedding Photography

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 13 Jul 2021 05:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Dan really spreads his wings to share his wealth of knowledge about all-things wedding photography. We talk through every step of the process with logistics, helpful tips, and of course, with Dan at the wheel, you know there’s lots of feels.

We talked about:

What to look for in a photographer’s website
What to mention when reaching out
The most important items to look for in your photographer’s package list
Real and meaningful questions to ask your photographer during the meeting
What to expect after you hire them
Should you send a shot list?
What to expect after the wedding

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Microweddings: Go Big By Going Small

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 29 Jun 2021 05:00:00 +0000

Episode 103 is all about microweddings. What they are, why we think we’re going to see more of them in future years, and what makes them so incredibly special and wonderful. Danielle stepped away from her “tips” on this episode and got deep in the feels with Dan as they shared their experiences and opinions. Whether you’re going big or going small, this is still a great episode to enjoy and listen to with your SO.

We talked about:

What makes a wedding a “microwedding”
How they differ from big weddings and elopements
Amazing moments from past microweddings
How microweddings are similar to big weddings
What your first steps should be in planning one

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Mid-Season Q&A

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 15 Jun 2021 05:00:00 +0000

We’re halfway through Season 9 which means it’s time for another Q&A episode. In this episode, we’re picking some of our favorite listener-submitted questions and sharing our tips, advice, and encouragement.

We talked about:

Is your wedding planner included in your budget?
What to do when vendors aren’t living up to your expectations
When to book which vendors, especially in the very beginning of planning
Gift ideas for the Groom
Including teenaged nieces and nephews in the wedding day
Affordable wedding headpiece ideas
Bridal shower etiquette
Should you save money on a DJ and just do a Spotify playlist?
Personally written vows vs. repeated standard vows

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Wedding Party Trends for 2021 and Beyond

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 1 Jun 2021 05:00:00 +0000

Who you choose to be in your Wedding Party – and who you DON’T choose - is a very big decision for your wedding. In this episode, we share some trends on how couples are tweaking this age-old tradition to better reflect the people that matter most to them. This includes using more inclusive terminology, focusing less on someone’s gender or having “even” sides, and potentially forgoing having a wedding party altogether.

We talked about:

Modern and inclusive terminology
Traditions of the past
Is it ok to have uneven sides?
Mixed-gender wedding parties
VIPs that are supportive of both partners
Opting not to have a wedding party
Some tips to keep in mind when deciding who you do (and don’t) want to include

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Celebrating 100 Episodes! 🎉

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 18 May 2021 05:00:00 +0000

EPISODE 100!!! 🎉 Cue all the air horns and the confetti cannons! We’re celebrating episode 100 by going back in the archives and sharing some of our favorite moments over the years. We’re 100 episodes wiser and could not have done it without our amazing Ringer family! Thank you for cheering us on to this point and for being along for this wild ride!

We talked about:

Some of our favorite moments from the past 99 episodes

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Aligning Your Wedding Budget With Your Priorities

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 4 May 2021 05:00:00 +0000

In episode 99, we’re talking about how you can build your wedding budget around your priorities of the day. Because very few of us have a truly “unlimited” budget and that means that we can’t necessarily get #allthethings we want. So, starting with a budget and a conversation about your priorities makes navigating the world of wedding planning much less stressful and confusing.

We talked about:

Who should have a wedding budget
How to know what to budget
What makes a great event
Getting granular on what makes an event “great” to you
What your priorities have to do with your budget
Why it’s important to track your budget
A simple and beautiful way to keep track of your wedding budget

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Wedding Planning During a Global Pandemic

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 20 Apr 2021 05:00:00 +0000

It’s certainly an episode title that we never imagined having back in 2016. But in 2021, we’re now over a year into the COVID-19 global pandemic. In this episode, we’re discussing how it’s affected so many couples as they plan their weddings and what it means for those that are newly engaged.

We talked about:

How all areas and couples are experiencing this pandemic differently regarding restrictions around their weddings
Why we encourage everyone to follow your local, state, and CDC guidelines for the safety of everyone
Postponing a wedding and the ups and downs of that
Lessons learned from postponing MANY weddings
Dealing with wedding shaming as a couple
Some advice for those that are getting married in the upcoming months
Our official welcome to those that are newly engaged and hopping onto this wild ride
Two important tips for planning a wedding in 2022 and beyond

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Real Talk with Jamie Lee from Netflix’s “The Wedding Coach”

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Jamie Lee, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 6 Apr 2021 05:00:00 +0000

We’re back for Season 9 and coming at you with some REAL TALK, Ringers. In this episode, we chat with comedian, author, and former bride, Jamie Lee, as she shares her story of wedding planning and the parts of it that aren’t as “warm and fuzzy”. Jamie also gives us a peek at her upcoming show, “The Wedding Coach” which drops on Netflix on April 7th, 2021. (We had the chance to preview it and you do NOT want to miss it!)

We talked about:

Meet Jamie Lee, author, comedian, former bride-to-be, and host of the “The Wedding Coach”
Jamie’s book: Weddiculous (a super-funny and must-read book for any couple, especially brides)
How planning a wedding can feel super isolating (and why)
Why the term “Bridezilla” is an insanely unfair label to place on anyone
How every couple has SOMEONE who is just tough to deal with when wedding planning
Her opinion on the most important aspects of a wedding
Some incredibly candid advice to couples who are feeling a little lost
Some of her favorite moments from the show and behind-the-scenes

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End of Season: Q&A

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 1 Dec 2020 05:00:00 +0000

Episode Notes

It’s our last episode of Season 8! While it’s been anything but a traditional year, we still wanted to wrap up this season with our favorite Q&A episode. Patreon supporters and Instagram listeners submitted their (excellent) questions and we answered them. We’ll be on a short break to recharge our batteries and plan out Season 9. During that time, feel free to go back and enjoy over 90 episodes of wedding planning advice. And you can always hit us up on Instagram (@putaringonitpodcast) and Patreon.

We talked about:

Alternative options if you don’t want to have dancing at your wedding
What to do once all of your vendors are booked
Dealing with family drama when you need to cut the guest list due to COVID restrictions
Our thoughts on venues that include EVERYTHING, like photography and DJ services
Whether custom signage is worth it
How far in advance you should book your vendors
Ways to incorporate your grandparents into your wedding day
How to get your fiancé “excited” about wedding planning

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Five Steps To Start Planning Your Wedding

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 17 Nov 2020 05:00:00 +0000

Getting engaged is so exciting! But it can also be insanely overwhelming as you start Googling what to do next. In this episode, we take you step-by-step through the first five steps you should take after you get engaged and you’re ready to dive into wedding planning.

We talked about:

It’s ok to just daydream a bit and brainstorm before diving in head first
What to do if people start asking you a million questions
Why priorities are important and the foundation of where to start
The dreaded B-word: Budget
Building your guest list and how it affects, like, everything
Why a wedding planner should be one of your first stops
Tips for choosing your venue
And much more!

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The Importance of Making Time For You On Your Wedding Day

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 3 Nov 2020 05:00:00 +0000

We always talk about how your wedding is your party for everyone else and the guest experience is SUPER important. But this episode is all about YOU. We dive into ways you can set yourself up, both individually and as a couple, for a day where you feel and act your best.

We talked about:

Why a wedding day goes by so fast
Why it’s important to make time for you as an individual
Starting your day as close to your regular routine as possible
The importance of FOOD on the wedding day
Why it’s just as important to make time for you as a couple
First looks and why they might be the right thing for you
Where the tradition of not seeing one another the night of the wedding or before you walk down the aisle came from
The post-ceremony “time out”
Pros and cons of a Sweetheart Table (and what it even is)
The BEST way to achieve what you want: PLAN FOR IT

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Including Your Family In Your Wedding Day

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 20 Oct 2020 04:00:00 +0000

Whether you love them to bits or they drive you a bit crazy, there are some traditional and untraditional ways of including family in your wedding day. In this episode, we break down what it could look like to include them in your wedding party. We also dive into some creative alternatives if you opt not to have them in your wedding party (which is TOTALLY ok and allowed). Finally, we talked about what you can do if YOU have kiddos and want to include them in your way.

We talked about:

The obvious: Put them in your wedding party
Untraditional and non-gender specific wedding party roles
The only rule when it comes to what “age” someone can be to be in your wedding party
What to do if you don’t want someone in your wedding party
Creative ways to involve family without making them part of your wedding party
Creating intentional moments on your wedding day to specifically include someone
What to do if you have kids yourself that you want to include on the wedding day (and should you include them)

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Our Favorite Tips for a Healthy Marriage

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 6 Oct 2020 04:00:00 +0000

We stuck our toes slightly outside of our lane in this episode. But, here’s the thing: Our goal is to give you the tools to plan a wedding that feels really good to you. But in all reality, we want to set you up for a happy, healthy marriage. This episode includes some of our favorite bits of “marriage advice” we’ve heard and why it matters. Grab your partner, snuggle up, and give this one a listen.

We talked about:

There’s no such thing as “the perfect marriage”, but the goal is a “healthy” marriage
Why we don’t necessarily agree with the common advice of “Don’t go to bed angry”
What lawn care has to do with a good relationship
The importance of love languages AND the languages of apology
The reason why we have two ears and one mouth
What’s more important: being kind or being right?
“The River Jordan Concept”
Creating a path back to one another
The idea of “50/50”
Sex (Don’t worry, we’ll give you a heads up if you’ve got young ears listening in, but we kept it short and PG-13)
The importance of communication

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How To Be A Great Groom

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 22 Sep 2020 04:00:28 +0000

Throughout the entire wedding industry, there is a LOT of talk about bride, bride, bride. But this episode is specifically for the grooms (though there are great tips for ALL MARRIERS and partners). We share some tips and tricks for navigating the wedding planning process. We also dive into some things you can plan for the wedding day itself. This is a great episode to share or listen to together with your partner.

We talked about:

What step #1 should always be (even if the planning has already started)
The five areas that really should involve BOTH partners in planning
Why “I’m good with whatever you want” doesn’t always fly
Think the wedding registry needs to be all about dishes and bath towels? Think again.
Ways to fill your partner’s love tank the morning of your wedding
The importance of showing gratitude
The talk you should have about indulging in libations
Tips for once the wedding is over

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Mid-Season Q&A

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 8 Sep 2020 04:00:11 +0000

You asked and we answered! This is a grab bag episode of questions submitted by YOU! We cover wedding favor alternatives, some tough COVID questions, creative ways to still have fun, New Years Eve weddings, and more! Thank you to everyone who submitted questions via Instagram (@putaringonitpodcast) and, of course, our fantastic Ringer Club members! (P.S. Have you joined yet??)

We talked about:

Wedding favor alternatives
Is it wrong to have a smaller ceremony now and a big celebration later on? (And how can you navigate that with minimal drama?)
Honoring the death of someone close to you without it feeling a memorial for them
A creative take on a wedding reception alternative
What to expect if you’re planning a NYE wedding
Whether you “need” to have your siblings in your wedding party — and what they can do instead to still feel special

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Find A Balance with Work, Life, and Wedding Planning

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 25 Aug 2020 08:00:04 +0000

Finding a good work life balance is essential to everyone’s mental health. Planning a wedding can throw that balance out of whack. This can easily add stress to anyone — especially during a global pandemic. In this episode, we have some real talk about trying to balance all the things and why it’s so important right now.

We talked about:

The DPNAK Shop is now open! (Ringer Club members get a special discount!)
Being realistic vs trying to be superhuman
How getting organized saves you time in the long run– which you need now more than ever
Some quick tips for getting organized
Why it’s important to give yourself permission to not focus on all of the things at once
Take a break Long – you’ll be better for it
Delegate – even if it’s hard
Don’t forget to celebrate the little (and big) wins

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Questions to ask when hiring your DJ or Wedding Band

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 11 Aug 2020 05:00:21 +0000

If you still need to book your wedding entertainment (specifically your DJ or Band), be sure to listen to this episode first. We share some questions to ask and WHY it’s important to ask them. If you’ve already hired your DJ or band, give this episode a listen and make sure you’ve got everything covered.

We talked about:

The DPNAK Shop is now open! (Ringer Club members get a special discount!)
Tips on asking your vendors questions
Where you snag more helpful questions to ask your vendors
Some of the best questions you can ask your DJ or Band before or after you’ve hired them
Why these questions are helpful to ask
What to consider based on their answers

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Food Truck Weddings: Pros, Cons, and What You Need To Know

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 28 Jul 2020 05:00:23 +0000

Having a food truck at your wedding can be such a GREAT guest experience. But in order to do it successfully, there are some MAJOR things you need to prepare and plan for. This wedding planning podcast episode covers some reasons why it’s so much fun to have a Food Truck wedding, but also some “very important things to consider”. Join us as we discuss this trendy style of wedding and learn a ton of info to plan a unique wedding your guests are going to RAVE about.

We talked about:

Why Food Trucks might be a safe alternative in a COVID world
Pros of having a food truck at your wedding
Seven “important things to know” with solutions to common problems of having a food truck at your wedding
A great resource for finding a wedding-friendly food truck in your area
Alternatives to consider to still achieve a unique “food truck” vibe

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It’s Time We Stop Using the Word “Bridezilla”

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 14 Jul 2020 05:00:08 +0000

Do you know where the term “Bridezilla” came from? We didn’t. So, we did some digging and discovered quite a few interesting details about it. More importantly, we discussed WHY it’s time we stop using the word “Bridezilla”. Because planning a wedding is stressful. We don’t need to add name-calling into the mix.

We talked about:

Where the word “Bridezilla” originated and why that matters
There is a ton of pressure surrounding couples, brides in particular, to be “perfect” — and that’s BULL
You’re allowed to make mistakes and not show up perfectly every time
What often leads to someone being called a “Bridezilla” and why that isn’t ok
Why it’s time to remove the word from our vocabulary
What someone can do instead of calling someone a “Bridezilla”

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Going Small: Elopements, Mini-monies, and Microweddings

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 30 Jun 2020 06:00:04 +0000

Episode 85 is all about going small on size and big on intention. Your wedding may be affected by COVID-19 and you’re considering an adjustment to your original plans. Maybe you’re downsizing your entire event. OR you might be choosing to postpone the big celebration for another time. But you still want to do something small on your original date. And just because something is “small” it does not need to be any LESS SPECIAL.

This episode breaks down all things small: Mini-monies (WTF?), microweddings, and elopements. We cover it all and we’re here to talk through it with you.

We talked about:

Our new “Ringer Club” membership
The differences between an elopement, minimony, and microwedding
Why going small does NOT equal a less special or less “real” wedding
The first step in planning a small/intimate microwedding
Why it’s still important to focus on the guest experience
You’re still allowed to splurge on whatever you’d like
The ONE vendor you should still have — no matter what

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Getting To Know "The Dans"

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 30 Jun 2020 05:00:01 +0000

It’s been awhile since we introduced ourselves on this wedding planning podcast. Over four years in fact. And a LOT has happened in the past four years. In this bonus episode, we share more about who we are, what we’ve been up to, and some fun facts about our friendship. We also breakdown our new Patreon membership tiers for Season 8!

Many of you long-time Ringers have been hanging with us for a while and know SOME of this stuff already. If you’re a newer listener, we’re so happy to “meet” you and honored you’re choosing to spend your time with us.

We talked about:

What Dan and Danielle do in the wedding industry
Danielle gives an update on her wedding planning with fiancé, Michael
Dan loves on his wife, Rachel, their kiddos, and two cats (with names inspired by Harry Potter)
Danielle shares her hometown, which you may be familiar with
Which Hogwarts house we’re both in
What Danielle does and doesn’t drink
Where this wedding planning podcast began
A fun fact about our Moms
Who’s older vs. who’s taller
Our new Patreon membership tiers
Join us on Instagram @putaringonitpodcast

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COVID-19: Another Discussion and an Update

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 9 Jun 2020 05:00:10 +0000

When we initially recorded episode 82 on COVID-19, it was maybe a week (!!) after our quarantine began. We could not have predicted all that has happened since. In fact, you would’ve called us crazy if we did. Now that some time has passed and we’re starting to see a glimpse of what our new normal might start to look like. As things open back up, we wanted to have another chat but we didn’t want you to have to wait until Season 8 to hear it. Enjoy this bonus episode and we’ll see you soon.

We talked about:

We stand in support of Black Lives Matter
Where we’re currently at with re-opening here in PA
What we’ve seen for the weddings we’re currently working on
What our predictions might be for the upcoming months (based on a TON of learning, but we still don’t have full clarity just yet)
What to consider if you’re getting married in 2020
Some tips if you’re thinking about postponing your wedding
What to do if you’re getting married in 2021
Ways to re-focus and reframe the planning process to find the JOY again

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Season 7 Q&A

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 21 Apr 2020 05:00:04 +0000

We wrap up the roller coaster ride that was Season 7 with a Q&A episode. We chose some of our favorite questions submitted from our Patreon and Instagram followers and answered them here for you. Give it a listen and we’ll be back for Season 8 in no time! Stay safe, Ringers.

We talked about:

Ideas for kids activities at the reception
Dealing with in-laws that don’t approve of your “vision”
How to convince your partner to go with a higher-priced DJ
How to plan an event where your cocktail hour and reception are all in the same space
When to send out your invitations in a COVID world
Our take on microweddings

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Involving Kids In Your Wedding Plans

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 7 Apr 2020 05:00:19 +0000

We know that our world is still on its head. But we want to continue bringing you episodes to help you with your wedding planning journey.

Today, we’re talking about KIDS. Sweet, wonderful, sticky, unpredictable kids. You might be considering having children in your wedding party. Or you might want to keep things “adult-only”. Either way, we walk through different scenarios to consider and options depending on what route you plan to take.

We talked about:

Including children in your wedding party
Traditional roles of kids in a wedding party (and “appropriate” age ranges)
Whether you should invite kids to your wedding
What to do if you plan on inviting kids
What to do if you don’t plan on inviting kids

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COVID-19 and Your Wedding

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 24 Mar 2020 05:00:04 +0000

Ringers, we know it’s been a crazy and rocky time right now. We hope you’re staying safe and healthy throughout all that is going on in our world at the moment. While there are so many unknowns right and we can’t tell you what to do about your upcoming wedding, we want you to know that we’re here for you. Hopefully, this episode provides some comfort and, as always, some tips to help you through it all. We love you, Ringers.

Full disclaimer: We are here to support you and talk you through your wedding planning journey. We are not health experts, legal experts, medical experts, economic experts, or really anything other than two wedding professionals. We have truly no idea what the future holds. Now more than ever.

Finally, we get something VERY VERY wrong in this episode. For those of you that are Marvel/DC fans, we make a huge “oopsie” when talking about which characters are from which universe. Our apologies friends. We know Wolverine is from Marvel. What can we say? It’s been a rough week.

We talked about:

An update about future episodes
You have our permission to feel however you need to feel
Some mindset shifts to help you process all of this
What to do if you need to postpone your wedding
Wedding Insurance
Canceling your wedding vs. postponing it
Alternative options to consider, depending on what the restrictions are in your area
A reminder to take care of yourself, now more than ever
What we’re doing to stay positive (as much as possible) throughout this experience
How and what to be communicating with your guests about your upcoming wedding
Also, a wildly incorrect side-tangent about the Marvel/DC universe (oops)

Here is the letter that our patron, Alex Rogers, let us share with you:

Dear friends and family,

We hope you are all well and safe in these uncertain times!

Given the COVID-19 outbreak, we wanted to reach out regarding our DATE wedding in CITY (or at VENUE if more applicable).

As of today, we are still planning on having our wedding as scheduled. However, we’re closely monitoring the situation. We’d much prefer to stay the course, but our utmost importance is everyone’s health and safety, so we will postpone the wedding if travel restrictions don’t lift, people are required to be quarantined due to travel, or if it’s simply too unsafe for large gatherings.

We realize some of you have already booked travel and accommodation, so if we do postpone, we will do everything in our power to help you sweet talk airlines and hotels into providing refunds/waiving change fees (though given the circumstances, we believe people will be very accommodating).

Please bear with us as we wait for more news! We imagine we should be able to make the decision in about a month’s time, and will let you know as soon as we do.

In the meantime, stay safe, read, play, breathe, and watch Frozen 2.

Love,
Name and Name

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What to Expect the Final Days Before Your Wedding

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 10 Mar 2020 05:00:20 +0000

We talk often about what to expect on your wedding day, but in this episode, we focus on the final days leading up to your wedding day. What to expect, what to plan for, what to consider, and some interesting ideas to extend the fun!

We talked about:

Why it’s important to spend time together before the wedding
An important conversation about HOW MUCH time you want to spend together pre-wedding
The two most common pre-wedding events
Fun group activities to consider planning
Why it’s important not to overextend yourself
The final odds and ends you may need to wrap up
The dreaded WEATHER forecast
Some good health tips to keep in mind that final week
And a reminder to ENJOY THE PROCESS

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Hindsight is 20/20

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 25 Feb 2020 06:00:01 +0000

We firmly believe you should do whatever makes sense to YOU for your wedding. But there is always something we can learn from those who’ve gone before us. In this episode, we share common regrets couples have after their wedding is said and done. We share things they’d do differently and how you can use these regrets to plan a killer wedding.

p.s. DAN IS BACK!

We talked about:

How fast a wedding day actually flies by
How much time to give yourself before going on your honeymoon
The #1 most common regret amongst most couples
Regrets with regard to photography
What couples wished they did more of on the wedding day
How a lot of couples will feel pressured into doing something or settle for something they didn’t want
An important thing to remember when opting have a friend or family member help you with something

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Pabridalshow.com <– Join us on March 8, 2020!
Episode 32: Top 15 Wedding Regrets
Episode 70: First Look Photos
Episode 77: How To Set Boundaries While Planning Your Wedding with Berlyn Martin
Episode 38: Four Fundamentals to Hosting a Great Event
Episode 66: Ten Things Your Guests Won’t Care About
DPNAK Weddings
Daniel Moyer Photography

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The Little Details You Should Pay Attention to When Looking at a Venue with Kinsey Roberts

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Kinsey Roberts, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 11 Feb 2020 06:00:01 +0000

Colorado venue owner, Kinsey Roberts of Vista View Events at Open Heart Ranch, joins Danielle to discuss the details you should pay attention to when looking at a venue. If you’re currently looking for your venue, stop everything and give this episode a listen. If you’ve already selected your venue, this is still a good one to listen to and see how your venue ranks and see if there’s something you didn’t catch.

We talked about:

The top three things couple’s should be mindful of when choosing their venue
Little things you can do that will make your guest experience even more awesome
Red flags to keep an eye out for
Venue coordinators vs. wedding planners
Odd requests that Kinsey has gotten before as a venue owner
Some of Kinsey’s favorite things that she’s seen at weddings

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Wedding Florals and Decor with The Flower Guy Bron

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (The Flower Guy Bron, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 28 Jan 2020 06:00:04 +0000

This episode is all about the decor! Richmond wedding florist and designer, Bron Hansboro (The Flower Guy Bron) joins Danielle to discuss florals, decor, and trends for the upcoming year.

We talked about:

At what point in the planning process you should start thinking about your floral decor
What you should do BEFORE reaching out to a florist
Tips for using Pinterest for good vs. evil
Why it’s important to maintain consistency throughout your wedding design
Myths about “ways to save money” with florals
What you should and shouldn’t DIY when it comes to floral decor
New and fabulous trends for 2020 and 2021 (including some trends we’d both be ok with not seeing ever again)

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How to Set Boundaries While Planning Your Wedding with Berlyn Martin

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Berlyn Martin) — Tue, 14 Jan 2020 06:00:20 +0000

Wonderful friend and wedding planner, Berlyn Martin of Berlyn Events and Design shares her tips on how to set boundaries while planning your wedding. We discuss how to establish boundaries, practical tips on navigating questions from friends and family, add how to enlist the help of others. This is a great episode if you’ve got someone (or a few someones) in your life that might be adding to your stress levels in an unhealthy way.

We talked about:

Why it’s important to set boundaries as you plan your wedding
Where it all starts
How to establish boundaries with your immediate family
How to navigate tricky questions from friends and family members
When and how to enlist the help of others
Ways you can establish some boundaries with your wedding vendor team
What to do when someone crosses a line and breaks that boundary with you

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Feel Better In Your Body with Hanna Sender of Bride and Bliss

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Hanna Sender, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 31 Dec 2019 06:00:05 +0000

Hanna Sender of Bride and Bliss is today’s guest co-host and we’re talking all about how to feel better in your body. There is a lot of pressure when you get engaged to “look” your best, but we talk about how you can use your wedding at a great catalyst to make some healthy lifestyle shifts and what those shifts might look like.

We talked about:

How much of getting healthy is nutrition and how much is exercise
Why there aren’t many “one size fits all” tips when it comes to what to eat
How to deal with stress eating
How much time to give yourself to see a positive change from your new choices
How to maintain a healthy diet while also attending your shower, engagement party, and so on
What to do when you fall off the wagon and make a not-so-great choice
And our favorite apps for at-home yoga

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Wedding Photography with Tony Hoffer of Hoffer Photography

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Tony Hoffer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 17 Dec 2019 06:00:24 +0000

Tony Hoffer of Hoffer Photography steps in to co-host today and chat about all things wedding photography. He brings up some great points that we haven’t covered before and shares how photography has changed over the years.

We talked about:

How to find the right photographer for you
The ways that wedding photography has changed throughout the years and why it matters
What to do if you’re a little nervous about being in front of the camera
A really great reason why it’s important to hire a professional photographer for your day

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Holiday Survival Guide with Lauren Grove of Every Last Detail Blog

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Lauren Grove) — Tue, 3 Dec 2019 06:00:01 +0000

The holidays are fast approaching and we’ve got some tips on how to survive this season as an engaged couple. Wedding blogger, Lauren Grove of Every Last Detail joins Danielle to discuss traditions, questions, and even inexpensive gift ideas!

We talked about:

Why it’s so important to stay united as a team throughout the holiday season
How to deal with questions about your engagement/wedding
Remembering not to compete with fellow engaged couples or newlyweds
Navigating FOOD and all the guilty pleasures that come with the holiday season
Dealing with the EXPENSE that the holidays can bring (and ways to get around it)
Respecting old traditions while creating and building your own new traditions
What to expect from your wedding vendors during the holiday season

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Planning for a Marriage More Beautiful Than Your Wedding with Amber Anderson

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Amber Anderson, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 19 Nov 2019 06:00:06 +0000

We’re back for Season 7 and we kick off this season with guest co-host, Amber Anderson. Amber is a wedding planner based out of Austin, Texas and shares some real, hit-you-in-the-gut tips for couples to help plan for a marriage more beautiful than their wedding day (so, so important).

We talked about:

What SYMBIS is and why it can be really helpful for a lot of couples
Why it’s important for couples to have this mindset
Common things we see as planners that easily derail couples throughout the wedding planning process
Tips for couples who are struggling at the moment
What you can do RIGHT NOW to better prepare yourselves for a successful first year of marriage (possibly one of the hardest years)

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Bonus: Danielle chats with Weddings For Real podcast

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Megan Gillikin, Danielle Pasternak) — Wed, 13 Nov 2019 22:04:49 +0000

From Weddings For Real:

If you’re a member of the Rising Tide Society Facebook Group, you might have seen a post (since deleted) a few months ago from a photographer who said that when a wedding planner is involved, it makes other wedding vendors’ jobs more difficult and it messes up the flow of a wedding day. From his perspective, it’s better to have a wedding WITHOUT a planner. Well as you either saw or can imagine, this sparked a lot of debate, and shockingly, many people agreed with his perspective. Danielle Pasternak, wedding planner at DPNAK and co-host of the Put A Ring On It Podcast, has some thoughts, and she shares them on the show today!

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Some of the Craziest and Most Amazing Things We’ve Ever Seen At Weddings

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 3 Sep 2019 05:00:01 +0000

It’s the final episode of season six and we’re sharing some of the craziest and most amazing things we’ve ever seen at weddings. It’s a lot of feel-good moments. Danielle definitely cries and even shares what happened when the church started the wedding before the bride arrived!

We talked about:

Both of our favorite “end-of-night” moments that have stuck with us from years ago
A super-fun thing that a couple did right after they tied the knot
The time Danielle turned a clothing store into a reception in under 2.5 hours
A private moment Dan witnessed that will absolutely touch your hearts
Something that made Danielle cry (not that that’s hard to do)
The time that Dan was the first one to join the bride on a dance floor
Our plans for Season 7 when we come back on November 19th!

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8 Big Ways To Save Money On Your Wedding

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 20 Aug 2019 05:00:11 +0000

We never believe in the “cheap” approach. But we do believe there are tried-and-true ways to save in some big ways as you plan your wedding. Many of these are beneficial if you’re in the early stages of planning a wedding, but we packed tips in to help couples at all stages.

We talked about:

The BIGGEST and #1 factor that affects your total budget
Why your budget is important and how to use your priorities to make decisions
The best vendor to hire to save yourself money
What to consider when choosing your venue
Opting to get married any day but Saturday
Why where your lodging is matters so much
What having an “off-season” date could mean for your budget AND your guest experience
Some specific areas where we DON’T recommend trying to save money

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First Looks

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 6 Aug 2019 05:00:13 +0000

In this episode, we’re talking ALL about First Look photos. We break down what exactly they even are, some pros and cons to doing them or not doing them, how to plan for them and even some great alternatives you may want to consider.

We talked about:

What exactly are First Look photos, or “First Looks”
Pros and Cons of taking (or not taking) First Looks
Whether we’ve heard people regret doing them or not doing them
How to plan for First Looks
The best location to have your First Look moment
Things to consider with timing, travel and logistics
A sample timeline if you plan on doing First Looks and how much time each of us recommend
Opting to do First Looks with your family members
Some alternatives to doing a First Look that are super, super sweet

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10 Sustainable Wedding Ideas To Make Your Day More Eco-Friendly

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 23 Jul 2019 05:00:02 +0000

Being eco-friendly isn’t an “all or nothing” idea. It’s about making a few small changes that add up to make a big impact. Today’s episode shares ten sustainable wedding ideas to inspire you and get your wheels turning.

We talked about:

Renting vs. buying
Ways you can be sustainable with your attire choices
What to do with your flowers after the wedding
How to avoid receiving unnecessary gifts
Sustainable paper product alternatives
Straws!!
Our honest-to-goodness opinion on favors
Finding charitable vendors
Repurposing your decor
Recycling what you can

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Wedding Videography with Kevin Fonash of Fonash Studios

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Kevin Fonash, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 9 Jul 2019 05:00:06 +0000

We’ve got an amazing videographer and good friend joining us on today’s episode to talk about VIDEOGRAPHY! Opting not to have a wedding video is always on the top of couple’s regret lists after their wedding. If you’re on the fence, this is a good one to listen to.

We talked about:

Why you should consider hiring a videographer
The benefits of having a videographer for your wedding
What a “great” wedding film includes
Trends in wedding videography
What to look for when choosing a videographer
A good question to ask when searching for your videographer

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Wedding Registries: Tips and Super Unique Ideas

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 25 Jun 2019 05:00:08 +0000

You asked and we listened. Then we researched and shared. This episode is all about wedding registries (which is actually really hard to say for some of us). We dive into all the tips, some unique ideas and share some do’s and don’ts.

We talked about:

Traditional and untraditional wedding registry options
When you should register for items
What types of items you may want to register for
How to tell your guests where you’re registered (and how NOT to)
What to do when you just want cash
What happens when you receive something you didn’t want
And the deal with sending “thank you” cards

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10 Things Your Guests Won’t Care About

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 11 Jun 2019 05:00:02 +0000

REAL TALK: There are a lot of details that come together on a wedding day. Some details are worth it and some might not be. In this episode, we share the Top 10 Things Your Wedding Guests Won’t Care About. You officially have our permission to skip these things entirely, unless of course, they mean a great deal to you.

We talked about:

What to consider with your centerpieces
Some “popular” formalities to skip
What decor isn’t the best use of your money
The type of seating to avoid
Our thoughts on CAKE
Attire and what you’re wearing
How to structure your reception
Receiving lines
Plus, some things we think your guests will ALWAYS care about

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Questions To Ask Your Potential Wedding Planner

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 28 May 2019 05:00:12 +0000

Hiring a wedding planner can be a daunting task and when you add to it the fact that wedding planners all have their different packages and services to offer, it can really be overwhelming. In this episode, Danielle and Dan (well, mostly Danielle) talk about what to ask, what to look for you, what to consider when it comes to hiring your wedding planner, coordinator or event manager for your wedding day.

We talked about:

Different ways you can work with a planner/coordinator and how it’s often not an apples-to-apples comparison
Knowing the right questions to ask (and what questions won’t be very helpful if you ask them)
Finding out a planner’s strengths and weaknesses
How vendor recommendations work
What to do after your first meeting with a potential planner

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Small, Random Details That You Don't Want To Forget

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 14 May 2019 07:00:07 +0000

It’s easy to go down your wedding checklist of things and make sure you’ve got all your BIG details in place. Some small wedding details can rarely be found on a list but while they might be tiny, they can have a big impact to your day (in the best way possible). We took eight small (ish) things and shared why you might want to consider them to take your day to whole other level.

We talked about:

Making a “Getting Ready” playlist including some fun ideas and what not to forget
Signage and why it helps with your guest experience
The many, many ways to show your appreciation (big AND small) to the many people involved in your day
Fun ideas to keep any children attending your wedding entertained on their level
An extra touch for your guests to enjoy before your ceremony begins
Packing a day-of “emergency” bag and what to include
Clothing that ISN’T your official wedding attire, but will still need for before and after
Making a plan for what happens when your wedding is over

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How to Build Your Team of Wedding Vendors

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 30 Apr 2019 07:00:05 +0000

For episode 63, we’re doing a “refresh” of one of our first episodes we’ve ever done about picking your wedding pros. We break down a good hierarchy of when you should hire which vendors, where to find awesome people, and a ton more. It’s a doozy, so buckle up and get ready to take some notes.

We talked about:

A good hierarchy of which vendors should be hired before others
Where to find reputable vendors
What to look for when reading reviews
What happens when you only ask for pricing and things to keep in mind when comparing pricing amongst vendors
Some tips on making the initial contact
How to “interview” potential vendors for your wedding day
What to do once you’ve selected the best vendor and why GHOSTING is truly a bummer

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Danielle’s Shop with a full bundle of worksheets for “Questions to Ask…”
Ep. 003: How To Pick Your Pros
Ep. 024: Questions to ask your Photographer, Videographer, Band and DJ
Ep. 047: How To Choose Your Wedding Photographer
Ep. 034: Questions to ask your Wedding Venue
DPNAK Weddings
Daniel Moyer Photography

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Microweddings with Alisa Tongg

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 16 Apr 2019 07:00:23 +0000

We’ve got a very exciting guest for you in today’s episode! Meet Alisa Tongg, celebrant and intimate wedding venue owner, who shared her stories and thoughts with us about microweddings, a newer trend in the world of weddings. We also talked about intentionalism and ways to incorporate more meaning into your wedding day.

We talked about:

What exactly is a microwedding
How a microwedding is different from eloping and a traditional wedding
Why we think microweddings are becoming so popular
What a microwedding can or can’t include
Some things to consider before deciding to have a microwedding
What personalities microweddings are best suited for
How you can still incorporate intentionalism into your traditional wedding plans

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Wedding Trends for 2019 and 2020

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 2 Apr 2019 07:00:01 +0000

We're back for Season Six and starting with an exciting episode about WEDDING TRENDS we expect to see more of (and less of) in 2019 and 2020. We talk through trends with regard to the guest experience, colors and decor - including one up and coming trend that we both HATE!

We talked about:

Upcoming wedding trends with regard to the guest experience including minimalism, intentionalism, sustainability and more
Trends we're expecting to see with wedding color palettes
Wedding trends for decor including balloon arches, non-traditional floral decor, and a major shift towards lighting

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Did you hear our news?

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Fri, 22 Feb 2019 22:00:00 +0000

Season six is going to be launching on April 2, 2019. We’ve got some exciting news as we head toward that date and share some ideas for episodes we have in the works.

To join our Ringer Patreon community, visit patreon.com/paroi. And don’t forget, if you’re a supporter by April 2nd, you’ll be getting that SPECIAL OFFER and access before anyone else! If you’re already a member, THANK YOU SO MUCH! We truly could not do this without you.

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Season Five Q&A

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 5 Feb 2019 06:00:00 +0000

The final episode of season five where we answer six tricky (and GREAT) questions we received from Ringers this season. Sticky topics like parents, money, not wanting guests to come to your wedding, and how close is too close to plan a wedding to your siblings?

Questions asked:

“What do you do when you and your partner want completely different kinds of weddings?”
“Do we have to send ‘save the dates’ if we don’t actually want people to save the date?
“How close is too close to have a wedding to a siblings wedding?”
“Do I have to invite my Mom’s new boyfriend to my wedding?”
“At what point should you consider firing one of your wedding professionals, and how do you do it as politely as possible?”
“None of my family or wedding party is local. Is it rude to ask my friends for help with the wedding planning?”

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Tips on Wedding Toasts with Beth Sherman

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 22 Jan 2019 08:00:00 +0000

For the second-to-last episode of Season 5, we’ve got stand-up comedian and ghostwriter, Beth Sherman, on the show to share some practical and hilarious tips for giving toasts and speeches at weddings.

About Beth Sherman:

Beth Sherman is a stand-up comedian and writer who has won SEVEN daytime Emmy Awards. You’ve very likely seen Beth’s work on shows like Ellen, The Tonight Show, David Letterman, and more. She is absolutely hilarious and has recently fallen into a little sideline writing, adding comedy to all kinds of speeches, especially wedding speeches.

She has ghostwritten nearly a hundred best man speeches, grooms’ speeches, father-of-the-bride speeches, toasts for the rehearsal dinner, speeches for friends and family acting as officiants — she’s even ghostwritten the vows themselves.

We are SO glad to have her on the show today and we have a feeling that everyone out there is going to have a great time listening to this episode.

We talked about:

What exactly is ghostwriting and how does the ghostwriting process work
What makes for a "good" toast or speech
Our thoughts on roasting
Some of the best and most memorable speeches we've seen
Tips for delivering a great toast
How you should print your toast or speech
Where you should stand when giving your toast
How to make sure everyone can hear you (It's easier than you think!)
Where to put your best joke
Whether you should try to memorize your speech
Where to put your drink
Whether the couple should give a speech at their reception

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Dealing with Parents and Wedding Planning

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 8 Jan 2019 06:00:00 +0000

When parents are contributing to the wedding planning process, it can be a blessing or a curse. In this episode, we talk through some differences in generations and ways to navigate the planning process when your parents are involved.

We talked about:

The differences in generations
What a wedding in 1984 cost, adjusted for inflation (and why that matters)
What happens when parents are contributing financially
Ways to work with your parents when you feel they’re being overbearing
Common disagreements we see between parents and couples (with specific examples and ways to compromise and work through it)

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Why You Should Print Your Wedding Photos

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Mon, 24 Dec 2018 05:00:00 +0000

Once your wedding is over, aside from the memories, there are very few things that you'll be left with. While it's natural to want all of the digitals from your big day, Dan breaks down why it's also important to print your wedding photos.

We talked about:

The difference in today’s wedding photography scene vs. previous generations
Print is NOT “dead”
How printed photos survive vs. digital
Where to start when it comes to printing your photos
Where to print yourself if going through your photographer isn’t an option

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Keeping a Healthy Wedding Mindset

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 11 Dec 2018 05:00:00 +0000

Planning a wedding is a daunting undertaking and one that will be full of its own ups and downs. This is why it's so important to keep a healthy wedding mindset throughout the planning process and on your wedding day.

We talked about:

The buzzword that is “mindset”
The reminder that your wedding is a luxury and you get to make the rules, so there is no wrong decision
Go big or go home vs. keeping things small
Being present on your wedding day
Dan’s awesome analogy about “being on top of your mountain”

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Honeymoon Planning with Alle Travel

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 27 Nov 2018 05:00:00 +0000

We are so excited to have Irina Vishnevskaya of Alle Travel on today’s episode to talk all about honeymoon planning. Alle Travel is a custom travel planning agency who plans extraordinary adventures for their clients and Irina was so gracious to share with us some amazing tips and honeymoon advice for our amazing listeners.

We talked about:

Why it’s important to plan a honeymoon
When and where couples should start when planning their honeymoon
What you should know before you start honeymoon planning
How much you should plan to invest in a honeymoon
Places of the earth where you need a LOT of dough to travel and places where your money will go a LONG way
Our thoughts on honeymoon funds and mini-moons
When you should plan to leave for your honeymoon (or more specifically, when you SHOULDN’T plan to leave)
Common mistakes to avoid when honeymoon planning
Maintaining balance while ON your honeymoon (sooo important)
Some super-popular destinations for honeymoons (that may not be on your radar)

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How To: Run A Ceremony Rehearsal

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 13 Nov 2018 05:00:00 +0000

In this episode, we talk through the details of your ceremony rehearsal. Everything from why you should have one, who you should invite, where and when it should take place, and of course, HOW it should be run. This is an episode PACKED with good tips to be as prepared as possible for your ceremony rehearsal.

We talked about:

Why you should have a ceremony rehearsal and why it’s important
Who you should invite to your ceremony rehearsal
Where you want to plan to have your rehearsal and some alternatives if you can’t have it in the same space as your ceremony
When you should try to schedule your ceremony rehearsal
How you should run your rehearsal including a full explanation of Danielle’s “3 Acts” tip

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The Truth About Venue Coordinators

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 30 Oct 2018 05:00:00 +0000

Everyone should play a very important role on your wedding day, but some titles can be confusing as to what you should expect from them. In today's episode, we break down the role of a "venue coordinator" and share what their responsibilities typically are along with why their job is often much different than that of an independent wedding planner.

We talked about:

What is a venue coordinator and what are their responsibilities?
What does it mean to have a venue coordinator?
Some pros of having a venue coordinator through your wedding venue
How venue coordinators are different from wedding planners/coordinators
Some stories and behind-the-scenes from experiences Dan and Danielle have had with venue coordinators

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Everything You Need To Know About Hotel Room Blocks

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 16 Oct 2018 05:00:00 +0000

Cheryl Bailey of Yellow Umbrella Travel joins us on today’s episode to talk about and answer all of our questions on hotel room blocks for your wedding guests. From the different types of blocks you can make to the extras you can negotiate with, this is a must-listen episode with TONS of great tips and advice!

We talked about:

What a hotel room block is and why you should consider one for your out-of-town wedding guests
Different types of hotel room blocks
WTF is “Attrition”?
When you should set up your block
How many rooms you should reserve
Why check-in time is important to consider when planning your day
How many hotels you should set up a room block at
What to negotiate and how to get the best deals
What to look out for with the “hotel shuttle” and why it’s never worth it
Additional fees you should look out for
How to let your guests know about the room block
And, of course, what services you can use to make a room block for your wedding

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The Definitive Guide to Wedding Food

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 2 Oct 2018 05:00:00 +0000

Today’s episode was inspired by questions from our amazing listeners about FOOD. So, we broke down just about every wedding food aspect of the day to create this Definitive Guide to Wedding Food. Bon Appetit!

Lovingly sponsored by Stillwhite.

We talked about:

Hors d’oeuvres and Appetizers, including different options for service
The three main styles of dinner service and what you should know about each one
Dessert: From wedding cake options to non-cake treats
Late-night and pre-ceremony snacks
The one meal you should NOT forget to plan for

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Viral Wedding Videos and Why They Matter

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 18 Sep 2018 05:00:00 +0000

We’re sure you’ve seen some viral wedding videos that always seem to be floating around the interwebs. For today’s episode, we specifically picked out four of our favorites to comment on, share our thoughts and note what you can take away from them.

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We talked about:

Viral vidoes and why they matter
What we can learn from watching these videos
Video one: JK Wedding Entrance Dance
Video two: “Bride Puts A Spell On Her Magician Groom During First Dance”
Video three: My Clumsy Best Man Ruins My Wedding
Video four: 4-Year-Old Boy Cries as Stepmom Reads Wedding Vows She Wrote For Him

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Video one: JK Wedding Entrance Dance
Video two: “Bride Puts A Spell On Her Magician Groom During First Dance”
Video three: My Clumsy Best Man Ruins My Wedding
Video four: 4-Year-Old Boy Cries as Stepmom Reads Wedding Vows She Wrote For Him
Honorable mention: “This Groom’s Emotional Reaction To His Bride Will Make You Teary-Eyed, Too”
Honorable mention: Isaac’s Live Lip-Dub Proposal(A favorite of Danielle’s)
Stillwhite
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It’s Your Party For Everyone Else – Part 2

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 4 Sep 2018 05:00:00 +0000

One of our first episodes in Season One started to unpack our core concept of "It's Your Party for Everyone Else". For Season Five, we decided to revisit this topic and really dig in to what it means and how it affects your wedding.

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We talked about:

Why we’re re-doing this episode from Season 1
What “It’s Your Party For Everyone Else” means
Focusing on your “WHY”
Battling the need to “top” or outdo other wedding’s you’ve been to or seen
Why it’s important to know your guests and make things easy for them
It’s ultimately about being a GREAT host

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Pre-Season (BIG) Announcements!

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 28 Aug 2018 05:00:00 +0000

Season 5 is launching on Tuesday, September 4, 2018! In the meantime, we've got two pretty big announcements to share with you!

We talked about:

Season 5 is launching Tuesday, September 4, 2018
Philly area meetup: Wednesday, October 3, 2018, 6pm-8pm
Danielle is….. ENGAGED!!! She shares some thoughts about being on this side of the fence and of course, the proposal story

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What We Can Learn From The Royal Wedding

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 12 Jun 2018 05:00:00 +0000

For the last episode of Season 4, we talk about Prince Harry and Meghan's Royal Wedding. Things we can learn from it, some things we liked, some (very few) things we didn't, and some things that we found to be really interesting and relatable.

We talked about:

Our thoughts on Prince Harry and Meghan Markle’s Royal Wedding
Some of our personal favorite moments
The comparison monster to Prince William and Kate’s wedding
Family drama leading up to the wedding (same as everyone else)
Decisions, traditions, and design elements that can inspire us (or uninspire)

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How To Choose Your Wedding Photographer

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 29 May 2018 05:00:00 +0000

It's episode 47 (whoa) and Dan is dropping some major knowledge and thoughts on how to choose your wedding photographer. We cover topics like where to start your search, how to reach out and important tips as you go through the process.

We talked about:

What inspired this episode
Where to start your search for wedding photographers
What to do once you think you’ve found a photographer you like
What to look for and some questions to ask
Thoughts on having a second photographer
What to consider when looking at and comparing pricing
One of the most important things to ask for when picking your photographer

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Kristy Rice, Stationery Artist and Author

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 15 May 2018 05:00:00 +0000

Award-winning stationery designer, painter, and stylist Kristy Rice of Momental Designs joins the Dans to discuss wedding invites, inspiration, and design. Momental Designs has garnered attention from wedding publications and celebrity couples worldwide - and she is sharing some AMAZING thoughts and tips in this episode.

We talked about:

Common questions about wedding stationery and custom design
The process of doing custom stationery and invitations
Kristy’s thoughts on paper invitations in a digital world
Is the “matchy-matchy” trend dead?
Where couples can go for their wedding inspiration

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Planning For The Morning Of Your Wedding Day

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 1 May 2018 05:00:00 +0000

You're likely putting a lot of thought into your ceremony and reception events, but it's easy to forget about the MORNING of your wedding. What will you be doing? What will you be wearing? What should the guys do? How much time should you budget for everything? In this episode, we'll talk you through it.

We talked about:

Hair and makeup for the gals
Remembering to eat and plan for breakfast/lunch
Some ideas for the gents to do in the morning
Getting dressed
When should your bouquets and boutonnieres be delivered?
First Looks with your partner
Pre-Ceremony Photos with your Wedding Party and families

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Self-Care

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 17 Apr 2018 05:00:00 +0000

While self-care is important throughout all stages of our life, we believe it can be very easy to put yourself (and your relationship) on the backburner when you're planning a wedding. And since planning a wedding can be so emotionally stressful and taxing, there's never been a better time to start making time for "you".

We talked about:

Planning Non-Wedding Time
Post-Wedding Blues
Maintaining personal hygiene and routines
Looking “your best” for your wedding
Rewards for accomplishing your goals

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Feelings of Guilt

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 3 Apr 2018 05:00:00 +0000

There are a lot of emotions you may expect to feel once you get engaged and start planning your wedding, but guilt may not be top of mind. Yet, it's so easy to feel guilt in MANY areas as you go through the process. In this episode, we discuss some areas you may be feeling guilt and some ways to help you through it.

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We talked about:

Asking for help with planning the wedding
Who you should and shouldn’t invite to your wedding (If you invite one Aunt/Uncle, do you have to invite ALL of them?)
Whether someone SHOULD be in your wedding party (Especially if YOU were in their wedding party)
Receiving gifts and being “showered”
Being the center of attention (Whether you enjoy it or hate it)

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Dear Dans: How do we include our dogs in our wedding day?

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 27 Mar 2018 06:00:00 +0000

It's another bonus episode of Dear Dans, where we take your questions and answer them in five minutes or less. Today's listener asks "How do we include our dogs in our wedding day?" and Danielle shares her thoughts.

This week's question:

How do we include our dogs in our wedding day?

“I was wondering if you had any advice on incorporating pups into the wedding day?

Our ceremony will be in a church so unfortunately we won’t have any doggie ring bearers, but our reception will be in a tent at my parents’ home, so the dogs will be staying in the home and hopefully we will incorporate them primarily by having them in photos.

If you have experience working with pets, I would love to hear any general advice you have, especially with logistics and photography.

Thank you for your help and for the great podcast!
All the best,
Emily”

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10 Tips For Making The Most Of Your Wedding Photos

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 20 Mar 2018 05:00:00 +0000

Investing in a great wedding photographer is a great start to achieving amazing photos of your wedding day, but we're sharing ten tips that you can do to get the MOST out of your wedding photography investment.

We talked about:

Thinking about what you’re wearing when you’re getting ready
First Looks
Planning enough time for portraits
Making a Family Formal list and discussing it with your photographer
Permits
Determining your outdoor ceremony time
Allowing for creative portrait time
Be present with the people around you
Lighting at your reception
Embracing the weather

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Dear Dans: How Do I Ask My Vendors For A Discount?

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 13 Mar 2018 05:00:00 +0000

It's another bonus episode of Dear Dans, where we take your questions and answer them in five minutes or less. Today's listener asks "Is it appropriate to ask for discounts from vendors? If so, how?" and Danielle shares her thoughts.

This week's question:

Is it appropriate to ask for discounts from vendors?

“Is it appropriate to ask for discounts from vendors? If so, how? (ie. free advertising, testimonials, etc)”

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Dealing with Pressures

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 6 Mar 2018 05:00:00 +0000

Planning a wedding can obviously add a lot of stress and overwhelming emotions to your already full plate. But when you add the feeling of PRESSURE from your friends, family, loved ones and vendors, it can take that stress to a whole other level. Join us as we chat about some pressures to expect and maybe how to work through them.

We talked about:

Pressures to have a “big” wedding
Pressures to have a “traditional” wedding
Why it’s important to talk about your priorities early on
Knowing your budget and what you can/can’t afford
What to say to someone you can’t/don’t want to invite to your wedding
What the “average cost of a wedding” should mean to you
How to work through situations where family is helping financially
Our thoughts on eloping

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Ceremony Talk with Celebrant, Lois Heckman

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 20 Feb 2018 05:00:00 +0000

We're so excited to have the fantastic and wonderful celebrant, Lois Heckman, on today's episode to chat with us about wedding ceremonies, ceremony ideas, religious and non-religious traditions, incorporating children, programs and more.

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We talked about:

How to choose your officiant
Certain legalities to keep in mind when planning your ceremony
Things to consider if you’re having a friend officiate your ceremony
Personalizing your ceremony with and without family and religious/non-religious traditions
Meaningful ways of incorporating your children into your wedding ceremony
Lois’s thoughts on ceremony programs
Some favorite moments and ideas from past wedding ceremonies

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Dear Dans: Is It Rude Not To Give A Plus One?

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 13 Feb 2018 13:24:00 +0000

It's another bonus episode of Dear Dans, where we take your questions and answer them in five minutes or less. Today's listener asks "Is it rude not to give a plus one?" and Danielle breaks it down. For bonus points, we also included a handy response if you opt NOT to invite someone and they ask you about it.

This week's question:

Is It Rude Not To Give A Plus One?

“My fiancé and I are getting married this September and we’re making our guest list. We are planning on having a very small wedding of around 60 people. We wanted your advice on plus ones. Most of our close friends have significant others, and we will be inviting both because we are friends with both of them. However, some of our friends who we don’t get to see as often we are not planning on giving a plus one because we either don’t know their significant other or they are friends with many other people who will be there. Is it rude not to give a plus one? One of our friends said everyone expects a plus one. Is this true? How do we word it on an invitation if we decide to not give a plus one?”

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Wedding Myths: Busted

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 6 Feb 2018 05:00:00 +0000

In today's episode, we talk through some common wedding myths and bust them WIDE open. We talk about guest lists, personalities, attire, budget and more.

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We talked about:

How the “average cost” of a wedding should affect you
The pressure of your wedding day being the BEST DAY OF YOUR LIFE
Having friends provide help
The concept of “It’s Your Day”
Will 30% of your guest list decline your invitation?
The perfect number of people to have in your wedding party
As a bride, must you wear white?
A common misconception on DJs
Who you should and shouldn’t invite to your wedding (and EXACTLY what to say to those that you’re not able to extend an invitation to)
What to do if you don’t have (or don’t WANT to have) that wedding “glow”?

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Dear Dans: How Do I Tell A Vendor “No”?

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 30 Jan 2018 05:00:00 +0000

Surprise! We're popping into your feeds totally off-schedule to bring you a new segment of the podcast we're calling "Dear Dans". Where we take the questions you send to us and answer them in a bonus, mini-episode of five minutes or less. This week's question is "How Do I Tell A Vendor 'No'?" and Dan passes along some great advice that anyone can benefit from!

This week's question:

How do I tell a vendor "no"?

“I recently met with 2 different photographers – and after meeting with them it was a clear decision for my fiance and I on who we wanted to go with. I have a really hard time letting people down and feel bad after someone spends the time to meet with me and answer questions through email. I also like to have options and want to meet with more than one vendor. With the planning just starting I know this will come up again with florists, rental items etc. I know this is part of their job but I’m having a hard time with it.”

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Four Fundamentals to Hosting a Great Event

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 23 Jan 2018 05:00:00 +0000

This may be a shorter episode but it is PACKED with some easy-to-digest and easy-to-apply knowledge for hosting a great event. If you are feeling stuck or overwhelmed, this is a perfect way to break it all down and re-focus your planning.

We talked about:

The Four Fundamentals to Hosting a Great Event
Tips on getting creative and thinking outside the box with each “fundamental”

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Engagement Sessions

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 9 Jan 2018 05:00:00 +0000

We are BACK for Season 4 and really, really excited to share some helpful tips on Engagement Sessions. We discuss what they are, when they should be done, some benefits and misconceptions, and of course, tips for making the most of your engagement session!

We talked about:

What are Engagement Sessions
When should you have your engagement session
Some benefits of doing an engagement session
Common misconceptions
Tips on making the most of your engagement session including locations, clothing and being yourself

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Season Three Q&A

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 3 Oct 2017 04:00:00 +0000

Holy moly, it's the end of Season Three and we've got another AWESOME Q&A episode coming your way! Thank you to everyone who sent in your questions and for bringing such killer questions to the table. We also have a fun announcement and give the launch date for SEASON FOUR!

We talked about:

What to do if you’re not having a sit-down dinner
What to do if your partner does/doesn’t want a wedding when you don’t/do
Whether RSVPs can be mailed or digital and who to send “Thank You” notes to
Fun ideas for multi-cultural wedding ceremonies
How far is “too far” of a distance between your ceremony and reception venues
What to do if you’re worried that your ceremony is going to be too “cheesy”
Seating charts and fake cakes- oh my!
When toasts should be given
Dan’s only real “regret” from his wedding

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Wedding Planning Stress

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 19 Sep 2017 05:00:00 +0000

This is the second-to-last episode of Season Three and it's a doozy! We're talking about wedding planning stress. What the common causes of wedding planning stress are, ways to work through it and some ideas on being proactive to avoid it.

We talked about:

How money contributes to stress of planning a wedding
Worrying about pleasing everyone
Danielle's Four Keys to a "Successful" Event
What to do if you don't like the spotlight
Dealing with the pressures of having a "perfect" day
Some tried-and-true ways of dealing with stress

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Episode 002: It’s Your Party For Everyone Else
Episode 011: Wedding Budget, Part 1
Episode 021: Wedding Budget, Part 2
Episode 031: Let’s talk about Booze
Episode 004: Bad Weather
Episode 015: Post-Wedding Blues
Minimalism: The Documentary
The Minimalists podcast episodes on Stress and the feeling of being Overwhelmed
The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman
Support the Show
Knotty Tie Co.
DPNAK Weddings
Daniel Moyer Photography

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Questions To Ask Your Wedding Venue

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 5 Sep 2017 05:00:00 +0000

It's episode 034 and we're talking about some TOUGH questions and conversations that you should have with your venue. Whether you're just starting to search for the perfect location, or if you're just weeks away from the big day, you'll want to give this episode a listen and make sure you are asking ALLLL the right questions!

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We talked about:

How many weddings do they take in one weekend and WHY that might matter to you
Guest list minimums and maximums
Talking through things rain plans, setup and timing
Knowing what you’re responsible for and what the venue is responsible for
What is and isn’t included when it comes to tables, chairs, linens, bathrooms, staffing, food, drink, etc.
Using a venue’s “preferred vendor” list
Being ready for the CLEAN UP of things
The dreaded Cancellation Policy… no, but really
And much more!

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Putting Your Own Spin On Wedding Traditions

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 22 Aug 2017 04:00:00 +0000

In episode 33, we talk about some popular American wedding traditions and why you should or shouldn't consider them for your wedding. We obviously talk about WHY we like or dislike certain traditions and go through some alternatives that may be better suited for you.

We talked about:

Should your Dad walk you down the aisle?
Some alternatives to Parents Dances
The Garter and Bouquet toss – and why you should probably NOT do this
Cake, cake and cake – To smash or not to smash? To have or not to have?
Our (disagreeing) thoughts on the couple seeing each other before the ceremony
Modern twists on having a “Wedding Party”
Avoiding sexist phrases like “Who gives this woman to be married” (and the proper term for a “group” of goats)
Seating friends and family at your ceremony and reception
Introductions: Who and How

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Top 15 Wedding Regrets

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 8 Aug 2017 04:00:00 +0000

We are NEVER ones to say what you "must" do for your wedding, but there are some common things that couples look back on and wish they'd done differently. In episode 32, we talk through the top 15 wedding regrets couples have and discuss why you may or may not want to do them for your wedding.

We talked about:

The vendors that couples wish they had hired
Woes on wedding budgets and priorities
The common mistakes couples make when building their wedding timeline
What a Wedding Day "Time Out" is and when to take it (and WHY you should plan for one)
Not putting enough thought or energy into the two least thought about aspects of your wedding weekend
What many couples wish they didn't do on their wedding day - or did less of
Also, what many couples wish they did MORE of on their wedding day
The people you should plan to thank
Whether you should tackle any DIY projects
And much more!

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Let’s Talk About Booze

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 11 Jul 2017 05:00:00 +0000

Whether you're tasked with providing every drop of alcohol for your wedding, or just need to decipher between doing a cash bar or open bar, this episode dives into the world of booze when it comes to wedding planning.

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We talked about:

Cash Bars vs. Open Bars
Full Bars vs. Limited Bars
Signature Drinks
Beer/Wine Only options
The best way for serving beer (according to Danielle)
Wine service
Champagne
Non-Alcoholic drinks
Ice, ice, baby

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Long-Term Engagements vs. Short-Term Engagements

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 20 Jun 2017 04:30:00 +0000

We've all heard of a "shotgun" wedding, but are there benefits to having a longer or shorter engagement? We talk through the pros and cons of each in this episode of Put A Ring On It.

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We talked about:

The pros and cons of having a long or short engagement
How your personality might be better for one or the other
Helpful tools to keep planning organized and on track
BONUS: A helpful tip when communicating with your wedding pros!

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Destination Weddings with Jennifer Doncsecz of VIP Vacations

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 6 Jun 2017 04:00:00 +0000

We're so excited to have travel expert, Jennifer Doncsecz of VIP Vacations (http://www.vacationsbyvip.com/) on today's episode to talk all about Destination Weddings. We discuss some good travel spots, what it's like working with a travel agency and some super-smart tips that you do NOT want to miss.

Special thanks to our sponsor for this episode: Knotty Tie Co! (https://www.knottytie.com/ring)

We talked about:

What you should have decided on before going to a travel agency
Whether a destination wedding is right for you
Non-tropical destination weddings
What it’s like working with a travel agency
How long most couples spend planning a destination wedding
What type of budget you should have
Proper guest etiquette when it comes to planning destination weddings
Legalities with destination weddings
Some awesome tips for those planning a destination wedding

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Location, Location, Location

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 23 May 2017 05:00:00 +0000

In this week's episode, we're talking about location. Specifically venues and whether it's better for you to have your wedding all in one location, or if you should spread it out over a few different places. We talk about pros and cons and some tips to help with it all.

Special thanks to our sponsor: Knotty Tie Co (www.knottytie.com/ring) and don't forget to join us on Facebook (www.facebook.com/putaringonitpodcast)!

We talked about:

Having your wedding at one location
Having your wedding at multiple locations
Pros, cons and timeline thoughts

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Contracts With Your Wedding Vendors

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 9 May 2017 01:00:00 +0000

Ok, guys. This episode might not seem like a "hoot", but we promise it's FULL of helpful info when it comes to signing on the dotted line. We talk about the purpose of vendor contracts, what to look for, how to negotiate and what to do if things just don't work out.

Special thanks to our sponsors for this episode: Tacboard (www.tacboard.com/ring) and Knotty Tie Co. (www.knottytie.com/ring).

Disclaimer: We are NOT lawyers and this episode is meant to help guide you based on our own experiences. It does not constitute or serve in place of specific legal advice and does not create any attorney-client relationship. The law changes very rapidly, differs from jurisdiction to jurisdiction, and is subject to interpretation by the courts. Legal advice must be tailored to the specific circumstances of each case, and this episode should not be used as a substitute for the advice of competent legal counsel.

We talked about:

Purpose of contracts
Who you should have contracts with
What type of contract is ideal
Why you should ALWAYS read your contracts
Who should sign your contract
What items are negotiable and how to negotiate
Red Flags when dealing with vendor contracts
Tips on what to do when you just don’t agree

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Wedding Rehearsals and Rehearsal Dinners

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 25 Apr 2017 04:00:00 +0000

In this episode we talk about the purpose of your wedding rehearsal, how to run one efficiently and with ease, as well as different options for having a fun rehearsal dinner to kick off your wedding festivities.

We also talk about how long you should factor for your rehearsal, and one of the BIGGEST reasons why rehearsals go longer than expected (so you can avoid it).

Special thanks to our sponsors for this episode: www.knottytie.com/ring and www.tacboard.com/ring
Check them out for great savings and to add a unique twist to your wedding day!

We talked about:

Purpose of wedding rehearsals
How to structure your rehearsal (if you’re in charge of that)
Assigning someone to run your rehearsal
What to go over and what NOT to go over during your rehearsal
How long you should factor for your rehearsal, and one of the BIGGEST reasons why rehearsals go longer than expected (so you can avoid it)
Purpose of the rehearsal dinner
Ideas for a fun, laidback rehearsal dinner
Some things you should consider doing at your rehearsal dinner (vs. on the wedding day)
Whether or not you should have your photographer join you for the wedding rehearsal and rehearsal dinner

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Wedding Trends for 2017 and 2018

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 11 Apr 2017 04:00:00 +0000

We're back for Season Three of the Put A Ring On It podcast and we're kicking off the season talking about all the wedding trends we're seeing come (and go) for 2017 and 2018 weddings.

Special thanks to our sponsors Knotty Tie Co. (www.knottytie.com/ring) and TacBoard (www.tacboard.com/ring)!

We talked about:

Guest list sizes
Non-Gender-Specific Wedding Party
Traditions and New Traditions
Decor, Colors and Themes
Fashion and Attire
Social Media
DRONES!
First Looks
Receiving Lines
Limited vs. Full Bars
Desserts
Food Trucks and Late-Night Snacks

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Questions to ask your Photographer, Videographer, Band and DJ

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 7 Feb 2017 04:00:00 +0000

It’s the last episode of Season Two and we’re talking about the BEST questions to ask your photographer, videographer, band and/or DJ for your wedding. Don’t forget to sign up for our newsletter to get the full list of these questions – broken down by vendor – written out for you!

We talked about:

General questions to ask your vendors as you decide who you want to work with for your wedding
Specific questions to ask your Photographer, Videographer, Band and DJ

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Lace and Liberty: A New Way to Shop For Your Wedding Dress

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 24 Jan 2017 04:00:00 +0000

Danielle Wen of Lace and Liberty joins Put A Ring On It to talk about her mix-and-match wedding separates and Try-At-Home system for busy brides who want a custom experience.

About Lace and Liberty:

Lace & Liberty was conceived for women who want to feel stunning on their wedding day in a dress that truly reflects her beauty, confidence and personal style. They offer an experience like no other, that focuses on quality, detail and an exquisite variety of choice. They’ve taken great care in handling the technical aspects of each piece, from each layer of tulle, placement of boning, to using the most beautiful and comfortable material. Lace & Liberty wants you to feel amazing and very you on this special day.

At Lace & Liberty, they want to bring you the luxury of a bespoke bridal wear experience at an accessible price point.

Their process:

Design the dress yourself, mix & match any two pieces together to create your perfect dress. Brides who want two looks on the day, simply remove or swap out your bridal separate skirt after the ceremony for a fun, easy-to-dance-in second look!
Made just for you in your own measurements to ensure a better fit. Reduce hefty alterations costs by having the perfect dress and skirt length.
Fast turnaround of 8-10 weeks. Have even less time on hand? Don’t despair and settle for off the rack, contact us!

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Handling Your Inner Bridezilla

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 10 Jan 2017 06:00:00 +0000

Bridezilla: A person who was a “completely normal” human being until they became a bride/groom and suddenly lost their dang mind. In today’s episode, we talk about why these Bridezilla feelings tend to surface and some ways to work through them, based on your personality.

We talked about:

What is a Bridezilla
What to do when things don’t go right with pros/vendors
What to do when things don’t go right with your family and friends
Dealing with Guest List drama
We can’t forget the guys… Groomzillas are a thing, too
Ways to be proactive and avoid those inner ‘zilla feelings

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The Wedding Budget: Part Two!

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 20 Dec 2016 04:00:00 +0000

Last season, we dedicated an entire episode to “Owning Your Wedding Budget” and this season, we wanted to dive into it a bit further. We dive into what a “budget wedding” means and break down some tips to save some major dough.

We talked about:

Who should and shouldn’t have a “wedding budget”
The term “budget wedding”
What happens when your budget is lower than the average in your area
Unique ways to save money when planning your wedding
BONUS: We also talked about Danielle’s first Laser Tag experience…

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What We Can’t Always Tell You

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 6 Dec 2016 04:00:00 +0000

It's the twentieth episode of Put A Ring On It and with the holidays around the corner, we're in a sharing mood. Join us as we tell some of our deepest secrets about the wedding industry and our roles on your wedding day.

We talked about:

What we won’t do for you on the wedding day
How much you’ll hear about after the wedding
The whole point of Engagement Sessions
How we feel about your wedding being the “best day ever”
What we’re doing the morning of your wedding
What we dream about before your wedding
What type of shot list you should REALLY provide your photographer (and what you shouldn’t)
How to set yourself up for killer “getting ready” photos
The fact that it’s your party for everyone else
What happens when you hire a friend to be on your wedding vendor team
What happens if you don’t spend “$30,000” on your wedding

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Green Weddings are the Not-So-New Black

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 22 Nov 2016 04:00:00 +0000

In this episode, we're talking about "green" weddings. Not so much the color GREEN, but finding ways to reduce or eliminate your footprint while planning your wedding. Also, Dan has found the male equivalent of yoga pants, folks.

We talked about:

What is a “green” wedding?
Why you should consider having a green wedding
Reducing your guest list
Sourcing local goods and services
Paper product alternatives
Favors that will do more than sit on your guests’ shelves
Eco-friendly wedding dress options
Jewelry that doesn’t kill our Earth
Lighting that saves on electricity
What can be donated after the wedding and repurposed throughout the day

Links mentioned:

Celia Grace(eco wedding dresses)
The Cotton Bride (NYC designer of eco-friendly wedding dresses)
Amy Kuschel (San Fran designer of eco-friendly wedding dresses)
Deborah Lindquist (LA designer of eco-friendly wedding dresses)
Simply Wood Rings(for a cool alternative to a traditional ring)
Brilliant Earth(for eco-friendly ring options)
Etsy(for untraditional weddings rings)
Moissanite(as an alternative to diamonds)
Wish Upon A Wedding(to donate your gown)
Brides Across America(to donate your gown to military brides)
The Angel Gown Program(to donate your gown to be turned into a burial gown for infants who pass during their hospital stay)
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DPNAK Weddings
Daniel Moyer Photography

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We Are Family

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 8 Nov 2016 15:40:00 +0000

Weddings can bring out the good, the bad and the ugly in people. And when it comes to family, there's usually no holding back. Dan and Danielle talk about dealing with parents, in-laws, siblings, best friends and more - and the key takeaway is: You are NOT alone.

We talked about:

Dealing with Parents
Parents that are not supportive or refuse to be a part of your wedding
In-Laws
Jealous siblings, cousins, BFFs

Links mentioned:

Episode 016: Using Social Media For Your Wedding
A Practical Wedding Blog > > a great resource with very “practical” advice… go figure?
Support the Show
DPNAK Weddings
Daniel Moyer Photography

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Planning a Backyard Wedding

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 25 Oct 2016 04:00:00 +0000

Much like getting a Brazilian wax, planning a backyard wedding is not for the faint of heart. Get some priceless tips and ways to prepare for your backyard wedding on this week's episode of Put A Ring On It, the wedding planning podcast with Daniel Moyer and Danielle Pasternak.

We talked about:

Questions to ask yourself before agreeing to have a “Backyard Wedding”
Where you should start when planning a backyard wedding
How to prepare for bad weather like rain and flooding
Crazy-important that you do NOT want to forget, but just might
Cleaning up your backyard wedding

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Using Social Media For Your Wedding

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 11 Oct 2016 04:00:00 +0000

In this sixteenth episode of Put A Ring On It, we talk about the pros and cons of using social media when it comes to your wedding. What to do, what not to do, and some unique trends for you to think about for your nuptials.

We talked about:

To hashtag or not to hashtag
Where your hashtag should go, if you have one
Using social media tools to organize your guest experience
A new trend in weddings: Livestreaming (WTF?)
Something to look for when booking your pros
As a guest, what you should and shouldn’t do
How NOT to use social media when planning your wedding

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Post Wedding Blues

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 27 Sep 2016 04:00:00 +0000

The "post-wedding blues" are something that Dan and Danielle are incredibly passionate about discussing. So many couples and individuals experience these feelings following their wedding and they decided to have an open, honest and transparent conversation about what to expect and how to avoid it.

We want you to know:

We’re not psychiatrists or psychologists. We’re sharing this information just as two wedding pros who care deeply about the well-being of our couples. This advice is not meant as a substitution for seeing a licensed mental health care provider. If you’re struggling with depression or a funk that you just can’t get out of, take the time to talk to a professional and get real help. You’re worth it.

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The “Wedding Tax” and Why It’s Mostly Bull

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 13 Sep 2016 05:00:00 +0000

This episode is inspired by a recent segment on The Today Show. Reporter Jeff Rossen opens the segment by telling its listeners that “experts” say there’s a secret wedding tax that vendors are applying to markup the cost of their products and/or services. Dan and Danielle talk through this concept and break down why it’s pretty much “bull”.

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Season Two Teaser

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 6 Sep 2016 05:00:00 +0000

Season Two of Put A Ring On It is officially launching next Tuesday, September 13th. In the meantime, we wanted to share some Fun Facts from Season One including snippets from each of our favorite episodes, as well as some topics and stories that we'll bring to you for Season Two.

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Season One Q&A Episode

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 17 May 2016 03:00:00 +0000

Wah wah... it's the final episode of Season one! Dan and Danielle are bringing you the Top 15 Wedding Planning questions that they received from listeners throughout the season. They cover everything from the best tools to use, how many guests you should invite, dealing with +1's and more.

We talked about:

How many guests you should invite if your venue has a “max”
Should you feed your pros at your wedding?
Some good (and mostly free) tools to help you stay organized
How to tell your guests that they don’t get a +1 or that kids aren’t invited
Which pros you should tip
What to do if you find a photographer, or something/one else, that you can’t afford
Using social media to find your pros
If you need a day-of coordinator when your venue provides it’s own Maître D’ or venue coordinator
What to register for if you already have the fine china and bedsheets (and a sneaky trick from Danielle!)
Should you hire your photographer for more than just your wedding day?
Truth or myth: mineral makeup and sunscreen are big no-no’s
Great gift resources for wedding party, family and each other
What you should pay for when it comes to your wedding party
RSVP dates and guidelines
Asking pros to hold a wedding date or basing your wedding off of their availability

Links mentioned:

Mini-sode 002: Feeding Your Pros
Evernote
Trello
Google Docs/Drive
Pinterest
Postable
Uncommon Goods
Etsy
Newlywish <– Danielle’s affiliate link that’ll give you $25 to spend at Newlywish!
Support the Show
DPNAK Weddings
Daniel Moyer Photography

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Owning your “Wedding Budget”

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 26 Apr 2016 03:00:00 +0000

It's the second to last episode of season one of Put A Ring On It and in this show we're talking about your wedding budget. We share our personal experiences, how to budget, how to negotiate with your pros, and much more.

We talked about:

Our personal experiences with setting a budget and what happens
The extra amount you should plan for for any miscellaneous items of your budget and what those miscellaneous items might be
How much you should budget (HINT: It’s not what The Knot tells you to budget)
Ways to negotiate with your pros to better fit your REALISTIC budget
How to avoid relative terms and figure out your own level of what’s “affordable”
The best conversation to have when planning your wedding and what NOT to assume
Working through your due dates of payments and some ideas to make it easier on the checking account

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What it means to “unplug” your Wedding

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 12 Apr 2016 06:00:00 +0000

We have hit DOUBLE DIGITS for season one of the Put A Ring On It podcast!! In this week’s episode, we talked about having an unplugged wedding. We broke down WHAT an unplugged wedding is, WHY you should or shouldn't have one and HOW to have one.

We talked about:

First, we’re not saying that all weddings should be unplugged, and we’re especially not saying that yours should be
We broke down what it means to have an unplugged wedding
Why you should or shouldn’t have one – pros and cons, if you will
Some ideas to communicate with your guests that your wedding will be unplugged
Alternatives and “happy mediums” to a full day of asking your guests to unplug

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How to: Be a Great Groom

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 29 Mar 2016 06:30:00 +0000

It’s episode 009 of Put A Ring On It Podcast with Daniel Moyer and Danielle Pasternak. This episode is one focusing on “Great Grooms” – from ways to get involved in the planning process to the wedding day, we talk about specific and general ideas to help you kick some Groom-butt.

We talked about:

Be a TEAM player
Speak up about what matters to you
Concede what’s important but still have an opinion
Come together on things you should BOTH be involved in, for example: Who you’re marrying (lol), the date, the venue, the registry, ceremony details, music, honeymoon and more.
Make sure to thank your wedding party
Be present and stay sober
Be a de-stresser. Period.
Look for ways to create meaningful moments
Go a classy route and give a “Thank You” toast to your guests

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How to: Use Pinterest to Plan Your Wedding

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 15 Mar 2016 06:00:00 +0000

Welcome to episode 008 of Put A Ring On It Podcast with Daniel Moyer and Danielle Pasternak. This episode is an action-packed one focused on using Pinterest to plan your wedding. We talked about having secret vs. public boards (and which is better) plus what it means to have a shared board. We also dove in to talk more about using Pinterest for good vs. evil including what NOT to pin, copying things you see and the truth behind most wedding pins.

We talked about:

Tips for organizing your wedding boards:

Danielle recommends avoiding ONE BIG “Wedding” board and, instead, breaking it down into a few categories based on what you need and what your priorities are for YOUR wedding. Here are some examples:

Florals and Decor (bouquets, boutonnieres, centerpieces, arrangements)
Attire (yourself, wedding party, kids)
Hair and Makeup
Food and Drink (cake, signature drinks)
Cool Details (signs, photo booth ideas, guest book ideas, bathroom baskets, lego cake topper)
Paper (save-the-dates, invitations, menus, ceremony programs, place cards)
Vibe/Theme (Harry Potter themed, modern black and gold)
Must-reads (Danielle’s personal favorite: A board to save all of the helpful wedding planning articles you find for future reference)
Catch-all/Miscellaneous (anything that doesn’t fit in your other boards)

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Focusing on Joy with Liz Susong from Catalyst Wedding Co.

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Liz Susong, Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 1 Mar 2016 12:08:00 +0000

Welcome to episode 007 of Put A Ring On It Podcast. Today's episode dives right in with Liz Susong, of Catalyst Wedding Co., a community for wedding disrupters, creators, and critics alike. During our chat, Liz talks about some of her pet-peeves in traditional wedding magazines and blogs, some distractions she sees couples face, styled shoots and more. Also, Danielle tears up a bit in this one.

"The industry and just the simple fact of being the spotlight - the center of attention - can take so much away from you and can create so much stress. You really have to be ready to be present and start cultivating that intentionality and mindfulness ahead of time." - Liz Susong

About Liz:

Liz Susong is the editor-in-chief of Catalyst Wedding Co.

Catalyst is the first-ever print wedding magazine with a feminist consciousness, and they also host a traveling workshop, {un}convention, for progressive vendors who are passionate about working with diverse, down-to-earth, crazy-in-love couples.

A wedding magazine unlike any other, Catalyst Wedding Magazine features diverse couples’ love stories and explores the intersections of community, creativity, and feminist values.

Volume Two: Intentions takes a step back and asks what it means to choose love, weddings, and marriage in this moment in time.

We talked about:

Liz saw that many blogs and magazines focused on “straight, white and rich couples” and many couples don’t fit in that box
What a wedding is about to Liz
Liz’s pet peeves in the wedding industry and the biggest example of sexism in the industry
Some big distractions that couples face when planning a wedding
The truth behind styled shoots and what you see in traditional blogs and magazines
Whether there were mason jars at Liz’s OWN wedding
Your wedding should be focused on Joy vs. creating the next best photo on Pinterest
Liz shares a unique couple’s wedding story that makes Danielle cry

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Reinterpreting Weddings with Kathryn Hamm, publisher of GayWeddings.com

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Kathryn Hamm, Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 16 Feb 2016 12:32:00 +0000

It’s the sixth full episode of Put A Ring On It Podcast. We are BEYOND humbled to have Kathryn Hamm, publisher of GayWeddings.com, talking with us about same-sex weddings and reinterpreting what you see in the blogs and magazines in the wedding world. She helps to break down the core of wedding planning, ways you can personalize your wedding day, and how to be more inclusive of all communities.

“When it comes to ‘capturing love,’ especially when a same-sex couple is the subject, rules were also made to be broken. Reassembled. Reinterpreted. Revised. Repurposed. This is the gift that same-sex couples have introduced into the wedding trends of today.” - The New Art of Capturing Love, by Thea Dodds and Kathryn Hamm

About Kathryn:

Kathryn Hamm is the publisher of GayWeddings.com, which is not only an interactive planning resource but also offers community forums, free planning articles and the most comprehensive wedding vendor directory available to same-sex couples.

Kathryn also writes, speaks and consults on why same-sex weddings are meaningful and WHY MARRIAGE MATTERS. She’s written articles for the Huffington Post and she is considered a valuable resource for media outlets such as the New York Times, the Washington Post, CNN and CNBC.

Kathryn also recently co-authored a book with photographer Thea Dodds titled The New Art of Capturing Love.

We talked about:

There are over 120,000 LGBTQ-friendly wedding pros currently listed on GayWeddings.com for couples in planning mode
The results of a Spring 2015 survey showed that 96% of pros were ready to work with same-sex couples
Talk to your pros, whether you’re a same-sex or straight couple, about being more inclusive of ALL couples in their language, contracts, questionnaires, website, ads, etc.
Be open with your wedding photographer. If they’re posing you in positions that don’t reflect you, or you find yourself putting YOURSELF in weird poses, say something. Show your authentic relationship how it feels comfortable to you.
To many straight couples, the marriage license isn’t much of a big deal or just a “check” off the list. For many same-sex couples, the license is the WHOLE deal.
We should all be more inclusive of both partners and not just speak to the stereotypical “Bride”
Talk with your partner about your “non-negotiable” and your mission statement for your wedding
Mixed-gender wedding parties are a great new “trend” that will last far beyond 2016
In 2014, 71% of straight weddings were dividing their wedding parties based on gender. In comparison, 86% of same-sex couples were NOT dividing their wedding parties based on gender
Couples are starting to include their pets more in their wedding parties, too – 1-in-10 actually!!!
Don’t be afraid to break the “rules” of wedding traditions to fit your style and personalities

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Feeding Your Vendors On Your Wedding Day

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Tue, 9 Feb 2016 11:48:00 +0000

For our second mini-episode of Put A Ring On It, we’re talking about feeding your vendors. And we’re specifically talking more about the highly controversial article recently seen (and since removed) on Brides.com, called “Which Vendors Do You Have to Feed at Your Wedding?”. It’s a piece written by wedding planner, Sandy Malone, and it really gives some misleading information. We decided to talk through this article and give our own thoughts on the matter including WHO you should feed on your wedding day, WHY you should feed them and WHEN.

We talked about:

We talked about what it means when we say “feeding your vendors”
We talked about the three different categories of vendors and which of those categories you should extend the food invite to
And we talked about the WHY. Why you should feed the vendors and why it’s different than a traditional 9-5 job.

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Day-Of Coordination with Bree Ryback of Capitol Romance

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Bree Ryback, Danielle Pasternak, Daniel Moyer) — Mon, 1 Feb 2016 22:44:00 +0000

Welcome to the fifth episode of Put A Ring On It Podcast. In today’s episode, Bree Ryback of Capitol Romance talks all about wedding planning, specifically day-of coordination, and why every couple REALLY and TRULY deserves it. There is also a brief interlude that involves some major geeking out on Harry Potter.

About Bree:

Bree Ryback is the editor and founder of the DC wedding blog Capitol Romance. Not only has she achieved Danielle’s lifelong dream of having her house featured on Houzz, but this gal is also one stand-up wedding coordinator. Bree just celebrated her five-year anniversary to her main squeeze, Andy, and they have one pumpkin of a little girl who is just positively adorable.

So we’re talking with Bree today because Danielle is one of her several thousand followers on Twitter and has had the pleasure of getting to know her throughout the years and absolutely LOVES her approach to wedding days. We thought she would bring something extra special and unique and we’re truly honored to have her here!

We talked about:

Bree got hitched back in 2010 and started her blog, Capitol Romance, to help rad couples meet equally rad wedding pros, and then evolved into a practical wedding coordinator.
Bree identifies more as a “wedding coordinator”, “wedding consultant” or “wedding concierge” vs. a wedding planner. (Which is very similar to Danielle)
A venue coordinator’s job is to focus on the needs of the venue, first and foremost. Not all venue coordinators are the same, but most don’t cover all of the items an independent planner/consultant does. They act more as sales managers or catering managers, and some aren’t present on your wedding day. They don’t traditionally oversee any events of the day that do not take place on-site (like getting ready, photos, or even your ceremony).
Day-Of Coordinators give couples the support to make the day and/or weekend go smoothly. This includes giving advice, creating and driving a timeline, talking with your pros, and making sure all of your details are covered.
Day-Of Coordination starts WAY before the actual wedding day – often weeks or even months in advance.
Bree’s favorite part of the day: VOWS!!!
Don’t worry about incorporating
Bree’s advice for couples: hire professional vendors.
Bree had the best wedding day ever, but will never forget the one hiccup that happened…

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Breaking the “Rules” – A discussion on a recent wedding planning article on Vogue.com

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 26 Jan 2016 07:30:00 +0000

For our first mini-episode of Put A Ring On It, we’re talking about breaking wedding rules. And we’re specifically talking more about the highly controversial article recently seen on Vogue.com, called “The 10 Wedding Rules To Break”. It’s a piece written by Molly Guy and while it’s caused quite the stir in the wedding industry, we decided to take a pragmatic approach and break down the article a bit further.

We talked about:

A wedding is a luxury, not a necessity. The only pieces you technically “need” to officially tie the knot is a marriage license and someone who can legally marry you. Everything else is a bonus and completely up to you.
Want a fun alternative to the awkward garter and bouquet toss? Wrap a $20 bill around your bouquet and have your Band or DJ announce everyone to get on the dance floor and toss it. Watch your guests scramble and have a ball!
Make sure you PLAN time for the two of you to spend together on your day. Don’t let it be an afterthought.
If you want quality photos, hire a professional photographer. Don’t expect the same result from drunken guests with disposable cameras and uncharged iPhones.
You get what you pay for.
What you do with that day is up to you as a couple and the most important aspects of your day are also your choice.

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Preparing for Bad Weather On Your Wedding Day

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 19 Jan 2016 11:37:00 +0000

It’s episode four of the first season of the Put A Ring On It Podcast and we’re talking about bad weather on your wedding day. This episode features three guests who got married during two MAJOR weather events in 2011… and lived to tell the tale. First up, Amanda talks about her wedding in the middle of Hurricane Irene. In the second half, Kristen and Joe talk about the freak snowstorm that caused their venue to lose total power.

We talked about:

Have a Plan B – and make sure you’re “ok” with it as an option
Talk with your venue about WHEN you need to make the call as to whether or not you’ll be using your Plan B – most venues need HOURS or even a few days notice to make the adjustment.
Hire great pros that you feel comfortable with and that you trust
Your guests will take cues from you and your partner: If you freak out, they likely will, too; if you stay calm, they will probably follow suit.

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How To: Pick Your Wedding Pros

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 5 Jan 2016 06:00:00 +0000

It’s episode three of the first season of the Put A Ring On It Podcast. This episode is all about picking your wedding pros. Where to find them, how to reach out and how to get a great conversation going.

We talked about:

Ask your married friends for referrals and feedback
Check with your venue or other wedding pros to see who they recommend
Do some searching on Google, as well as wedding-focused search engines like WeddingWire or local wedding sites like LehighValleyWedding.com
Pick up a local or national bridal magazine
Hit up some of your wedding area’s bridal shows (just remember: not ALL wedding pros showcase at bridal shows, but they’re GREAT for finding your florist and baker, just to name a few)
Custom contact forms vs. general inquiry forms
If the pro you’re looking at is asking some unique questions to start, it’s for a REASON
If you’re filling out a general inquiry form, be sure to include the “must-haves”: Name, Partner’s Name, Email, Phone Number, Wedding Date (if possible), Wedding Location (if possible)
For bonus points, you can also include: Best way and time to contact you, Something you liked about their work/website/ad
When to call vs. email. vs. stop in (Hint: ALWAYS start with an email unless their website or ad says otherwise)
Setting an appointment is KEY!
Just how many pros you should reach out to to make an educated decision
You want their style to match the theme/style/overall vibe of your wedding and personality
It’s important not to try and change the style of the pro to match you
Things to check for clues about how good of a fit you might be for one another
Look for the “CONNECTION” and for the “warm and fuzzies”
Obviously, budget is a factor but learn how to move things around when you need to

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Meet Danielle Pasternak and Daniel Moyer

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 5 Jan 2016 06:00:00 +0000

Welcome to the first episode of Put A Ring On It, the anti-boring wedding planning podcast from wedding photographer, Daniel Moyer and wedding coordinator, Danielle Pasternak. In this first episode, we introduce ourselves and what the podcast is all about. Consider it our first handshake to you.

Meet Daniel:

His business, Daniel Moyer Photography, and where it all started
How much he loves his wife, Rachel
Their amazing wedding almost two years ago
Their favorite place to eat
His love for all-things Harry Potter

Meet Danielle:

Where the name “DPNAK” comes from (and how to say it)
Her business, DPNAK Weddings, and how it all began
Why she isn’t really a “wedding planner”
Her best friend and partner, Michael and their favorite things
An equal obsession/love for Harry Potter

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It’s Your Party For Everyone Else

putaringonitpod@gmail.com (Daniel Moyer, Danielle Pasternak) — Tue, 5 Jan 2016 06:00:00 +0000

It’s the first “official” podcast of Put A Ring On It and in this podcast, we’re talking about why your wedding is “your party for everyone else”. We unpack just what that means and show you five areas that you can really ensure your guests have an amazing time at your wedding.

We talked about:

It’s absolutely your wedding, but at the end of the day you only make up 1-2% (or less) of your guest list. The decisions you make should be focused on the 100% of your guest list.
When else will all of your friends and family be together under one roof again for a joyful reason?
Your wedding should not be about outdoing anyone or doing something because of pressure to do it.
Every decision you make during the planning process should be based around this overall theme of creating an amazing experience for your guests.
5 tips to make your wedding day amazing for your guests (and you!)

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