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After catching up about Holly&apos;s sweet pup, Deputy (don&apos;t make her cry again), we go deeper on the importance of showing up for those who are grieving, whether through simple gestures, being present, or just listening. We share practical advice on how to support someone going through loss and highlight the importance of understanding individual needs. We also touch on what not to say to a griever, aiming to help listeners be better supporters and companions during difficult times.</itunes:summary>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>In this episode of The Only Guarantee Podcast, hosts Holly Hutchings and Dr. Kimberly Rich delve into the complex relationship between grief and faith. They discuss their personal experiences of losing faith amidst grief and share insights from notable authors and figures who have faced similar struggles. </p><p>Kim's book recommendations include: 'A Grief Observed' by C.S. Lewis, 'Barking to the Choir' by Father Greg Boyle, and 'As Long as You Need' by J.S. Park. </p>
<p><p>Email us about anything death, grief, or bird related - TheOnlyGuaranteePodcast@gmail.com</p><p>Find us on Instagram @TheOnlyGuaranteePodcast</p><p>You can reach Dr. Kimberly Rich about speaking, writing, or generally death-supporting at <a href="https://www.tomorrowmourningllc.com/" target="_blank">tomorrowmourningllc.com</a></p><p>&nbsp;</p></p>]]></description>
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      <description><![CDATA[<p>Introducing The Only Guarantee Podcast: Navigating Grief and Mortality with Honesty and Humor.</p><p>Join Holly Hutchings, a podcast producer, and Dr. Kimberly Rich, a death doula and grief expert, as they introduce 'The Only Guarantee.' In this episode, they share personal stories, their unexpected meeting at a writing retreat, and their mission to provide an open space for discussing grief, loss, and end-of-life care. With humor and insight, they aim to help listeners navigate these difficult topics, providing support and fostering community.</p><p>00:00 Introduction to The Only Guarantee Podcast</p><p>01:22 Meet Holly Hutchings: The Eternal Overthinker</p><p>02:38 Holly's Journey: From Mormonism to Buddhism</p><p>10:37 Kimberly Rich: From Education to End-of-Life Care</p><p>13:00 Navigating Grief and Bereavement</p><p>30:02 The Birth of the Podcast Partnership</p><p>33:58 The Retreat Experience</p><p>34:43 Applying to be a Speaker</p><p>37:54 The Pitch Process</p><p>39:08 Delivering the Talk</p><p>42:32 Audience Reactions</p><p>55:20 Opportunities and Connections</p><p>57:59 Meeting Holly</p><p>01:01:28 Launching the Podcast</p><p>01:05:46 Final Thoughts and Farewell</p>
<p><p>Email us about anything death, grief, or bird related - TheOnlyGuaranteePodcast@gmail.com</p><p>Find us on Instagram @TheOnlyGuaranteePodcast</p><p>You can reach Dr. Kimberly Rich about speaking, writing, or generally death-supporting at <a href="https://www.tomorrowmourningllc.com/" target="_blank">tomorrowmourningllc.com</a></p><p>&nbsp;</p></p>]]></description>
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