Palsys With Palsies

Disability Rights and Education Defense Fund on Medicaid advocacy: https://dredf.org/hands-off-our-medicaid/
United Church of Christ advocacy resources for the first 100 days, including on Medicaid and SNAP: https://www.ucc.org/first100days/

There is always joy

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Bekah Maren Anderson) — Fri, 4 Apr 2025 13:00:00 +0000

"We Are a Gentle Angry People" by Holly Near: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eYW0JDD38OA
"It's Quiet Uptown" from the Hamilton soundtrack: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bMAoOGnw9qQ
5 Calls political action tool: https://5calls.org/

SSI SOS

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 21 Mar 2025 13:00:00 +0000

SSA blog post about the overpayment change: https://blog.ssa.gov/social-security-to-reinstate-overpayment-recovery-rate/?fbclid=IwZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAR2-5IzxJVCBmKc_rBQcnTYgjcuMiaiOrTrEjLBXubZEzPLRitmN_DY92V8_aem_glMri1OCarQCznlyI_hcNg

Heather Cox Richardson on the SSA overpayment and reduction in force topics, among others: https://heathercoxrichardson.substack.com/p/march-8-2025

The Seattle Times on Social Security declaring peopledead: https://www.seattletimes.com/seattle-news/politics/heres-a-dead-person-on-social-security-in-seattle-with-plenty-to-say/

You must be THIS disabled to ride.

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 7 Mar 2025 14:00:00 +0000

Learn more at www.thejulianway.org

Solidarity forever - Protecting 505 and the spirit of 77

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 21 Feb 2025 14:00:00 +0000

https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Zw8T7-sKpRIP688nlfERFFDwZJZCwsc-oRkxj6jilpk/edit?usp=sharing

D E why?

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 7 Feb 2025 14:00:00 +0000

Learn more at www.thejulianway.org

Our Heroes Journeys

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 24 Jan 2025 14:00:00 +0000

TEDTalk referenced: Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie: The danger of a single story | TED: https://youtu.be/D9Ihs241zeg

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"Are the Ableds OK?": Resolutions, Public Encounters, and the Able-Bodied Identity

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 10 Jan 2025 13:57:36 +0000

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Beyond Christmas Cheer: Acknowledging the complexity of the holidays as a process of grace

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 20 Dec 2024 14:00:00 +0000

https://givebutter.com/thejulianway

https://www.thejulianway.org/home

Faith, Hope, Vigilance, Advocacy, and Empowerment in a changing world

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 6 Dec 2024 14:00:00 +0000

https://www.facebook.com/TheJulWay

https://www.thejulianway.org/
https://givebutter.com/thejulianway

PWP 100th episode spectacular!!!

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 22 Nov 2024 14:00:00 +0000

https://www.facebook.com/TheJulWay
https://www.thejulianway.org/

https://givebutter.com/thejulianway

The Magic of the music

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Bekah Maren Anderson) — Fri, 8 Nov 2024 14:00:00 +0000

In this weeks episode, Justin and Rebecca have fun discussing the Freedom joy And grace, they find in their mutual love for Broadway and musical theater!

Going bump in the night, the legacy of marginalized monsters

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Bekah Maren Anderson) — Fri, 25 Oct 2024 13:00:00 +0000

Transcript

References:

https://www.fangoria.com/a-brief-history-of-disability-in-horror/
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gill-man
https://www.wussymag.com/all/haunted-the-intersections-of-queer-culture-and-horror-movies
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Get_Out

Help-wanted??!

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Bekah Maren Anderson) — Fri, 11 Oct 2024 13:00:00 +0000

https://www.bls.gov/news.release/disabl.nr0.htm

What does One mean “bi“ curious?

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 27 Sep 2024 13:00:00 +0000

In this weeks episode, Rebekah and Justin have a curious, honest, and enlightening conversation around what might be considered the least understood portion of the LGBTQ community in celebration of bi visibility day, and bisexual awareness week.

The Sports Show!

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Bekah Maren Anderson) — Fri, 13 Sep 2024 13:00:00 +0000

In an unlikely turn of events, Bekah asks Justin if they can talk about sports. They discuss Bekah's new-found appreciation for very gay sports, the Paralympics, Justin's days as an assistant coach for a basketball team, and more!

The 2024 Election: Project 2025 and the Risks to Disabled Life

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 30 Aug 2024 14:01:43 +0000

https://defeatproject2025.org/project-2025/whos-behind-it/
https://defeatproject2025.org/issues/disability/
https://www.lflegal.com/2024/07/project-2025/

The Importance of Listening

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Andrew West) — Fri, 16 Aug 2024 15:26:31 +0000

This week, Andy West is back to talk with Bekah about his spiritual journey and call to ministry. Andy shares about his experiences with disability and ministry, his journey towards Anglicanism, and the role that listening and cultivating his spiritual life have played in his ministry.

Aging, Ageism, and Working Through the Fear of Death

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Bekah Maren Anderson) — Fri, 2 Aug 2024 13:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Justin and Bekah begin unpacking the concept of ageism, discussing its similarities to ableism, and how it harms older people. They speculate on the role that fear of death plays in ageism, and how to work through that fear in order to treat others well.

The Institute on Theology and Disability: Past Challenges, Present Joys, Future Hopes

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 19 Jul 2024 13:00:00 +0000

The Institute on Theology and Disability (ITD) is a yearly conference bringing together academics, religious professionals, and lay people who are interested in the intersections of disability, ministry, and theology. Justin and Bekah have attended several Institutes over the years, and found them useful and enriching, but also deeply challenging. In this episode, Bekah shares her experiences from the 2024 ITD, which she found to be a true joy, and improved in many ways. She and Justin discuss the need to center disabled voices in disability theology spaces, and consider the present and future of ITD.

Cricket conversations, and other spiritual sporting matters

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Andrew West) — Fri, 5 Jul 2024 13:00:00 +0000

This week, Justin and special guest Andrew West discuss the spirituality of , their favorite sports Cricket, and soccer. In order to discover how it helps, bring balance and peace to their lives.

From Protest to Parade: a Pride Month History Podcast

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Bekah Maren Anderson) — Fri, 21 Jun 2024 13:00:00 +0000

In honor of LGBTQ Pride month, Bekah and Justin explore a bit of queer history, investigating the origins of Pride Month, and how it has changed over time. With the aid of Wikipedia, they trace the activist origins of Pride in the Stonewall Riots, and discuss how to continue to live into that activist spirit today.

Being Disabled in Public: Orientation and Mobility, and Other Tales of Disability Visibility

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Bekah Maren Anderson) — Fri, 7 Jun 2024 13:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Justin and Bekah discuss Orientation and Mobility, the set of tools and training that blind people use to learn and navigate new environments. Bekah shares stories of her experiences receiving ONM training, she and Justin talk more broadly about how strangers often react to their disabilities in public spaces.

Mattins and Evensong: An Introduction to the Practice of the Daily Offices

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Andrew West, Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 24 May 2024 13:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Justin and Bekah discuss the practice of the daily offices with sub-deacon Andrew West, a member of the Julian Way with a passion for daily prayer. Andrew explains the practice of morning and evening prayer, his own relationship to the practice, and some of the ways set prayers and Psalms can draw worshipers deeper into love of God and love of neighbor.

General Conference Rundown

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Bekah Maren Anderson) — Fri, 10 May 2024 12:58:45 +0000

In this week's episode, Justin and Bekah talk about the big changes coming to the United Methodist Church after the recent General Conference and what it means for the people of God.

Vulnerability and Authenticity: Lessons from Disabled Leadership

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 12 Apr 2024 13:00:00 +0000

This week, Justin and Bekah dive into how disability informs their leadership styles, and how groups and organizations function differently when lead by disabled leaders. They discuss the authentic, collaborative, flexible work environment they find in many disability organizations, and dream about what might be possible if the rest of society learned from disabled leaders.

Holy Week Reflections

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Bekah Maren Anderson) — Fri, 29 Mar 2024 12:47:23 +0000

Justin and Bekah reflect on the significance of Holy Week, the week leading up to Easter. They sympathize with Peter's need for sleep, and contemplate the importance of spending time with the difficult emotions of Holy Week.

Jewish Disability Awareness, Acceptance, and Inclusion Month

Fri, 1 Mar 2024 14:00:00 +0000

To find out more about JDAIM, and to access their webinars and recommended books, movies, and podcasts, visit their resource guide at: https://www.respectability.org/jdaim/

Crip Punk: Hanging on the Margins with DJ Pastor Rock

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Chris Wylie, Justin Hancock, Bekah Maren Anderson) — Fri, 16 Feb 2024 14:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Justin and Bekah chat with Rev. Chris Wylie, a.k.a. DJ Pastor Rock, about punk culture, love, identity, and music. Find out more about Chris and his music at http://djpastorrock.com/

Valentine’s Day: the social construct

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Bekah Maren Anderson) — Fri, 2 Feb 2024 14:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Justin and Bekah deconstruct Valentine’s Day, and discuss their relationship to it as people with disabilities.

Music, Travel, and… Political Involvement

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Bekah Maren Anderson) — Fri, 12 Jan 2024 18:40:12 +0000

To kick off 2024, Bekah and Justin reflect on what they’re looking forward to in the new year, or what they hope to manifest, and surprise themselves with their answers.

Canes, Trains, and Automobiles

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 22 Dec 2023 14:00:00 +0000

Episode description: in this weeks episode, Justin and Rebecca, take a deep dive into the often complex, and sometimes wacky world of traveling with the disability.

From true to blue it’s Christmas through and through

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 8 Dec 2023 14:00:00 +0000

This week, Rebecca and Justin, discuss the things that draw them to the holiday season, and specifically Christmas. As well as talking about how the holidays can be particularly isolating and lonely for many folks. We hope you enjoy this PWP span on a holiday special!

Rebekah and holy spirit, mischief. A Julian Way story.

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 17 Nov 2023 14:00:00 +0000

Transcript

embodied, community, disability, liturgy, and worship

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Lisa Hancock, Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 20 Oct 2023 13:00:00 +0000

in this weeks episode, Rebecca and Justin talk to the Director of worship boards for the united, Methodist church Dr. Lisa Hancock.About her work in worship arts and disability, and what it means to create worship experiences for all persons.

Getting an education on education

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 6 Oct 2023 13:00:00 +0000

Transcript

Curiouser and Curiouser

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 22 Sep 2023 13:00:00 +0000

Transcript

Loving Our Own Bones: A conversation with Julia Watts Belser

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 8 Sep 2023 13:09:41 +0000

View the transcript here.

Speak Now, No Longer Hold Our Peace!

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 25 Aug 2023 13:00:00 +0000

https://hpod.law.harvard.edu/news/entry/right-to-marry?ct=t(Spring2023)&mc_cid=623b68d004&mc_eid=b5f48594bd

H.R. 6405 — 117th Congress (2021-2022): Marriage Equality for Disabled Adults Act. Read more at: https://www.congress.gov/bill/117th-congress/house-bill/6405?s=1&r=29
Article about state misdemeanor laws: https://www.detroitnews.com/story/news/politics/2016/01/01/minister-sues-right-marriages-without-licenses/78182022/
PWP logo created by Jade Voyles. Find her on Etsy at: www.etsy.com/shop/stratosphereofskulls

PwP and ABC: A back to school special

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Fri, 4 Aug 2023 13:00:00 +0000

In this week's episode we go old school as original co-host and co-creator, Rebecca Mitts, returns for a wide-ranging conversation around working towards her masters in education and the advocacy for both the queer community and disabled community that she hopes to bring into the classroom as a teacher.

Let's Get Crazy! (No, Like Literally Crazy!)

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 21 Jul 2023 13:00:48 +0000

The Protest Psychosis: https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/206267/the-protest-psychosis-by-jonathan-m-metzl/

Fireweed Collective: https://fireweedcollective.org/

Peer respite: why it should be everyone’s concern: https://www.madinamerica.com/2021/10/peer-respite/

Afiya peer respite: https://wildfloweralliance.org/afiya/

Creating your mad map: https://drive.google.com/file/d/16EMbPSh9i4fo9UT5tMe3sD9VKrjyRT0C/view?usp=sharing

Pods and pod mapping worksheet: https://batjc.wordpress.com/resources/pods-and-pod-mapping-worksheet/

Mad activists: the language we use reflects our desire for change: https://www.madinamerica.com/2021/09/mad-activists-langauge/

Mad people of color: a manifesto: https://asylummagazine.org/2013/12/mad-people-of-color-a-manifesto-by-rachel-gorman-annu-saini-louise-tam-onyinyechukwu-udegbe-onar-usar/

Disabled Family Summer Survival Guide

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 7 Jul 2023 13:00:00 +0000

Justin and Lisa talk about the things that are helping them get through the summer, and helping them journey with a preschooler at home.

A Journey of Disability and Discovery

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 23 Jun 2023 13:00:00 +0000

Justin and Seth are both members of the sauntermore.us peer advisory group.

The Doctor Will NOT See You Now: Medical misadventures, and disability.

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 9 Jun 2023 13:00:00 +0000

On this weeks episode, Justin and Becca, discuss the ins and outs of navigating the medical system as an individual with a disability. From dealing with insurance to an office visit, it can be a wild ride going to the doctor with a disability.

Holy and Hilarious

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Tue, 30 May 2023 17:00:00 +0000

Editors Note: This episode was recorded to release on May 26th. We are releasing it today because we "took time off" in observance of Memorial Day. FWIW, I may or may not have forgot to schedule the episode to publish on time ;)

Coming home to intersectionality: Journeys of disability advocacy and queer affirmation.

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 12 May 2023 13:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Bekah and Justin talk with The Julian Way member and disability activist, Christian Huber. Christian shares his testimony of moving from narrow evangelicalism to a broad and expansive sense of connection to God's Kindom. He discusses how his journey of identifying as disabled makes that theological journey possible.

the audiobook adventures

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 28 Apr 2023 13:00:00 +0000

In this weeks episode Rebekah and Justin, discuss their mutual love for audiobooks, and how this opened both a love for reading, and a sense of disability empowerment in their lives.

Disability, Community, and Leadership

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 14 Apr 2023 13:00:00 +0000

https://sauntermore.us/

Exciting News!

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 7 Apr 2023 13:00:00 +0000

PwP is now available on the following platforms: Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, Stitcher, and, iHeartRadio.

Human Sexuality and The Church

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 31 Mar 2023 13:00:00 +0000

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bar-of-the-conference/id1662692088?i=1000604656965

Community and Disability

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 17 Mar 2023 13:00:00 +0000

In this week's Episode, Justin & Rebekah reflect on stories of growing up with a disability and talk about ways in which they've learned how to be disabled, or not, from those within their disability community.

Origin Stories

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 3 Mar 2023 14:00:00 +0000

Rebekah and I discuss this pressures of consistently, having to have a disability origin, story, ready and waiting for public consumption, as well as the vulnerability of always needing to prove your disability credentials to enter certain disability related conversations.

Disabled at Cons

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Bekah Maren Anderson) — Fri, 17 Feb 2023 14:00:00 +0000

https://www.arisia.org/

PWP 58: Why is the United Methodist Church No Longer United?

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Rebecca Mitts, Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Sat, 17 Dec 2022 23:23:37 +0000

In this episode, Justin and Bekah discuss the current state of the United Methodist Church. It is splitting due to a disagreement between conservative and progressive factions within the church over whether or not being gay/queer/a member of the LGBTQIA+ community is "compatible with a Christian life." Within the current Methodist Book of Discipline, it isn't. The discussion today is informative for those who want to know more, but may hit a raw nerve for those who are being affected. Take care of yourself.

"I will not let a human soul be sacrificed to my own conviction." -Justin Hancock

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Music is Tekilla Sunrise by Jon Presstone

PWP 57: Vocational Rehab 101

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Rebecca Mitts, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 2 Dec 2022 14:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Justin and Bekah dig into vocational rehabilitation, which is a series of services that are designed to facilitate the entrance into or return to work by people with disabilities or by people who have recently acquired an injury or disability. They discuss its history and their own experiences with it, both positive and negative. This is a very informative and personal episode, we hope you enjoy it!

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Music is Tekilla Sunrise by Jon Presstone

PWP 56: My Bekah, My Rebecca and Me

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Rebecca Mitts, Bekah Maren Anderson, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 21 Oct 2022 13:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Rebecca Mitts is back! Justin, Bekah, and Rebecca discuss the change in hosts as Rebecca is going back to school. We discuss her future, touch on the future of the podcast, and the two Rebecca's razz Justin making his regret putting them in the same episode!

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Music is Tekilla Sunrise by Jon Presstone

PWP 55: In Another Dungeon Far, Far Away...

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Anderson, Rebecca Mitts, Justin Hancock) — Sat, 1 Oct 2022 23:04:02 +0000

In this episode, Bekah and Justin discuss representation in fantasy shows, and jump deeper into disability representation and mechanics in Dungeons and Dragons. This is a part 2 to episode 3 of Palsys with Palsies, "In a Dungeon Far, Far Away."

Links from today's episode

DnD Disability

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Music is Tekilla Sunrise by Jon Presstone

PWP 54: Many Loves, Also Known as Polyamory

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Bekah Maren Anderson, Rebecca Mitts, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 16 Sep 2022 13:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Justin and his friend, Bekah Anderson, (not the usual Rebecca), discuss her polyamorous relationships. The term polyamory can be translated to mean "many loves," and Bekah shares her experiences of having many loves, none of which diminish or dominate the others.

Rebecca (the original, at least for this show) and Justin will post a shorter episode soon to give y'all the lay of the land going forward.

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Music is Tekilla Sunrise by Jon Presstone

PWP 53: "The Bible is Nothing" by Isaac Simmons

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Rebecca Mitts, Justin hancock) — Fri, 19 Aug 2022 21:13:43 +0000

In today's episode we talk in depth about the candidate for ministry within the Methodist church, Isaac Simmons, and their drag persona, Ms. Penny Cost. In particular the controversy that arose from their slam poem, "The Bible is Nothing." We dig into a lot of stuff, so if you are dealing with religious trauma, this might be a tough one. We are full of support and love for what Isaac has said and done, and we hope they continue forward with their ministries!

Editor's note: The caption of "The Bible of Nothing" video says that "it is directed to those who actively and passively cause harm against the LGBTQIA2S+ Community due to their understandings of Scripture." Had we recognized this before the recording, we might have had a slightly different discussion. Still, our belief that threats, cruelty, and attacks directed at Isaac are wrong still stands, regardless of who they were trying to reach with this poem.

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Music is Tekilla Sunrise by Jon Presstone

Links to references from today's show

Video about Isaac Simmons/Penny Cost (Note that the comments are very homophobic and generally upsetting to read. But the video is great.)

Ms. Penny Cost blog

Scroll all the way down on the blog until you see the videos; the video referenced in this episode is called "The Bible is Nothing"

PWP 52: History and Impact of the ADA

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Rebecca Mitts, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 29 Jul 2022 13:00:00 +0000

July is Disability Visibility month! To honor this, and the 32nd anniversary of the ADA (American's with Disabilities Act) being signed into law, Justin gives us a history lesson of the ADA. He was in the process of writing a book about how it came to be when the pandemic hit, and like it did with so many other things, disrupted his plans. But today he gets to share his knowledge of its history, its purpose, and what it is (and isn't) doing to help those with disabilities in America!

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Music is Tekilla Sunrise by Jon Presstone

PWP 51: The Overturn of Roe v. Wade isn't Just About Abortion

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Rebecca Mitts, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 8 Jul 2022 13:00:00 +0000

This episode is pretty heavy, as should be expected from the topic of Roe v. Wade being overturned. Justin and Rebecca talk about our feelings on it, as well as how this is a much more complicated issue then most people think. Abortion has been used, both in the past and in the present, as a way to get rid of disability, while the importance of bodily autonomy is incredibly important within the disability community. The overturning of Roe v. Wade also has implications for other rights to privacy (same sex marriage, contraception, etc.) that aren't "constitutional."

We do not have answers, or necessarily the "right" view point. But we hope that we can be another place where you can grieve, rage, lament, and maybe better understand why this is action by the Supreme Court isn't just about abortion.

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Music is Tekilla Sunrise by Jon Presstone

PWP 50: The Victorious Reclaiming of Hell by Lil Nas X

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Fri, 27 May 2022 22:57:38 +0000

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Here are links to somethings referenced in the show:

'Call Me By Your Name' music video

'Industry Baby' music video

'That's What I Want' music video

'Jolene' cover by Lil Nas X

Twitter thread by Dr. Sam Hirst on the CMBYN video's use of demonic imagery and that relationship with a longer tradition in literature.

Music is Tekilla Sunrise by Jon Presstone

PWP 49: Humor, Sexuality, and Vulnerability of "The Sessions"

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Sat, 14 May 2022 02:47:05 +0000

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In this week's episode we discuss the 2012 movie, "The Sessions," staring John Hawkes and Helen Hunt, which we both deeply enjoyed. Based on the essay, "On Seeing a Sex Surrogate" by writer and poet Mark O'Brien, the film explores Mark's journey of self discovery with sex alongside a sexual surrogate. Justin talks about his early dating life, noting how he felt seen when watching this movie. We also discuss the continued problem of non-disabled actors playing disabled characters; doesn't matter how good the film is, it needs to change. And of course look at Mark O'Brien's essay and poetry, both of which are real gift!

Below are the links to the movie review, essay, and poem referenced in the show:

'On Seeing a Sex Surrogate' by Mark O'Brien

Disability Horizons movie review by Kirsty Liddiard

'Love Poem for No-one In Particular' by Mark O'Brien

Music is Tekilla Sunrise by Jon Presstone

PWP 48: Disability, Sexuality, and Humanity in 'Me Before You'

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Rebecca Mitts, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 29 Apr 2022 21:00:00 +0000

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Below are the links to the articles and organizations referenced in the show:
Vanity Fair article, by Joanna Robinson

Hollywood Reporter article, by Rebecca Sun

Not Dead Yet UK

Not Dead Yet US

Dignitas

Death With Dignity

Opening & ending music: Tekilla Sunrise by Jon Presstone
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TRIGGER WARNING: This episode discusses assisted suicide in depth.

Palsies with Palsys is finally taking shape after nearly 50 episodes! We are shifting focus towards disability and queerness in pop culture, and we are starting with the 2016 romantic drama film, "Me Before You," a controversial love story between an able bodied manic pixie dream girl and a moody, wealthy, disabled man.

We really dig into this movie with our own reactions, Justin's personal experiences, as well as the initial backlash from the disabled community and advocates. This episode goes into A LOT of heavy issues and adult themes, so listener digression is advised.

PWP 47: Exploring Spirituality in D&D

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Fri, 15 Apr 2022 13:00:00 +0000

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Opening & ending music: Southern Love by Tencher Music

In this episode, Justin asks Rebecca about her experience with spirituality in the tabletop roleplaying game, Dungeons and Dragons aka D&D. We deep dive into how people can safely question their own faith, religion, and god within the bounds of a fantasy world. It can often be easier to process with a powerful, fantasy character then it is with ourselves. There is a lot of good discussion here, so grab a mug of your finest mead and join us!

PWP 46: How Is It With Your Soul, Justin?

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Fri, 1 Apr 2022 13:00:00 +0000

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Heyo, we're super late with this one because Rebecca is doing the big struggle. BUT at last we get to hear how it is with Justin's soul! Justin talks about how big world and US events have caused an internal struggle for him, but small, personal moments can help bring back focus and hope. We hope this can be a moment of hope for you.

PWP 45: How Is It With Your Soul, Rebecca?

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Fri, 11 Mar 2022 23:13:43 +0000

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In this episode we see how Rebecca's soul is! Spoilers, she's heading into a depressive episode, but has (sort of) figured out what the signs are, and what she can do to help herself from falling into the deep pit. We also spend a lot of time talking about coffee.

PWP 44: Disability in Secular and Christian Stories

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Fri, 4 Mar 2022 14:00:00 +0000

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In this episode, Justin and Rebecca discuss disability in stories: movies, TV shows, books, and the Bible. We go between the secular world and the Christian world and how disability is used and seen in these stories. Justin discusses disability theology, which I think is incredibly important, even if you are not religious.

PWP 43: Where are the Mothers on Disney Shows?

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Lisa Hancock) — Fri, 18 Feb 2022 14:00:00 +0000

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In this episode, Justin and his wife, Lisa, take over with one of their "car conversations." The two of them discuss the Disney shows their son Angus watches (usually involving Mickey Mouse and Co.), and the lack of parental figures, especially mothers. The talk about the poor representation that is there, how that reflects on motherhood, and what messages that sends to children and parents alike. On a brighter note, they discuss good parental representation in the show, "Bluey" and what it means for the two of them.

PWP 42: Disability in a Rural Church Context

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Rebecca Mitts, Amber Mitts) — Sat, 12 Feb 2022 14:00:00 +0000

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Opening & ending music: Southern Love by Tencher Music

In this episode, Rev. Amber Mitts joins her wife, Rebecca, as Justin was unable to record this week. Amber goes in depth about how disability and accessibility is treated, preached, and lived in a rural church context. She discusses what she has done in her church to promote accessibility and advocate for the disability community, which could be helpful for other pastors (or lay leaders) who are unsure where to start. She also goes into what is happening on a broader scale within the Methodist church. We missed Justin this week, but I hope you enjoyed Amber's expertise and passion as much as I did! (Of course I enjoy it, she's my wife.)

PWP 41: Our Comfort Media

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Fri, 4 Feb 2022 14:00:00 +0000

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This is pretty short episode, since it was the end of our COVID discussion from last week, but we think it's a good balance. We discuss our comfort media that we go back to time and time again. It's okay if you need a break from people, from hearing about the world and COVID, if only for an afternoon. We hope you can find something that gives you comfort in this incredibly uncomfortable time.

PWP 40: Yup, COVID is Still Here

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Fri, 28 Jan 2022 14:00:00 +0000

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In this episode, Justin and Rebecca reflect on the past two years and how things have changed...and stayed the same. It is a heavier episode, discussing how the disabled community has taken the brunt of this pandemic, without recognition of the wider society. We also talk about our personal comparisons and expectations for 2022. (Spoilers: they're not very high.)

PWP 39: Tik Tok as an Advocacy Platform

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Rebecca Mitts, Justin Hancock) — Fri, 14 Jan 2022 23:00:00 +0000

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We're finally back! We hope you all had a good holiday season. In this episode, Rebecca and Justin discuss Tik Tok, the social media platform that has really taken over the last few years. Rebecca attempts to convince Justin to get one to join her in the doom scrolling. We discuss the pros and cons, and how the platform has been used for advocacy, representation, and connecting with others.

PWP 38: The Joys and Sorrows of the Holidays

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin hancock, Rebecca mitts) — Sun, 19 Dec 2021 14:00:00 +0000

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In this episode, potentially our last one of 2021, Rebecca and Justin get nostalgic about the holidays. We discuss our childhood traditions, our current ones, and the overzealous "Christmas cheer" that often leaves those who are in pain behind. The holiday season can certainly be a time of warmth, but for many (including Justin and Rebecca) there is a shadow wrapped up in it as well. We hope you all have a good holiday season, and know that we will sit with you if this isn't a time of cheer.

PWP 37: Found Family

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Mon, 13 Dec 2021 14:00:00 +0000

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In this episode, Justin and Rebecca talk about found family. Mostly we discuss how we, and our partners, are each others found family. But we also look at what that really means and what is the mark of someone you choose to be your family. It's a heart warming episode that we both really enjoyed doing.

PWP 36: Being a Healer Like Jesus with Rev. Jonathan Campbell

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Rebecca Mitts, Jonathan Campbell) — Fri, 3 Dec 2021 14:00:00 +0000

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Opening & ending music: Southern Love by Tencher Music

In today's episode, our guest, the Rev. Jonathan Campbell, joins Justin in deep and fascinating discussion about the Christian faith. They dive head first into justice work, righteousness, and what the church needs to be doing to do more then surface level ministries. Jesus' healing was not about a physical healing, Rev. Campbell says; it was about reuniting a marginalized person back into the community. Only when Christians can do the same, will be truly be healers like Jesus.

Let us know your thoughts on this episode! There's a lot to think on here, and we'd love to have more conversations like it.

PWP 35: The Julian Way Ministries and Dismantling Normalcy

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Sat, 20 Nov 2021 03:00:00 +0000

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In this episode, we discuss Justin's ministry, The Julian Way. It is an organization focused on education and empowerment with, for, and by, persons of diverse embodiments. They seek to help places of faith, and other cultural institutions, achieve greater universal accessibility, by fostering environments where persons of all embodiments can work for leadership and equity throughout the whole of human life together. We talk about its beginnings, Justin's personal experiences in spreading the Julian Way message, and how the church has responded to Justin's "aggressive" pride in his disability.

Links to the Julian Way website and the book, "The Julian Way: A Theology of Fullness For All of God's People" are in the show notes.

PWP 34: It's Nostalgic, But For Who?

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Sat, 13 Nov 2021 01:00:00 +0000

In this episode, Rebecca and Justin talk about nostalgia in its many forms; individual, collective, simple, complicated, grief bound, and joy filled. We start with our personal media nostalgia from childhood, then move into how most of those medias did not include us as a disabled man and a queer woman. Moving into collective or communal nostalgia, we discuss how the 80s in particular, may be very nostalgic for our generation, but that was also the time of the disability rights movement and during the AIDS epidemic. Many minority groups do not get the luxury of "rose-tinted" nostalgia. They have to grapple with no representation, trauma, oppression, isolation, and violence. You can be nostalgic for the past, but don't erase the reality of it either.

NPR episode on nostalgia: https://www.npr.org/2021/10/13/1045812865/the-nostalgia-bone

PWP 33: Nostalgic Horror of Neil Gaiman

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Fri, 5 Nov 2021 13:00:00 +0000

In our final Halloween episode, we look at the short story, "Closing Time," by Neil Gaiman. Justin and Rebecca focus on the nostalgic horror that Gaiman is a master of, and look at why childhood scares continue to affect us. Once again, we appreciate a story that is creepy to everyone, regardless of who they are. We both really enjoyed this story, and we hope to introduce it to more people! Also, say goodbye to our spooky opening and closing music, at least until next year.

Sorry this episode is so late! Been a no bones week for Rebecca, so here's hoping next week is better!

PWP 32: The Wonderful Horror of "The Magnus Archives"

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Rebecca Mitts, Justin Hancock) — Tue, 26 Oct 2021 13:00:00 +0000

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Spoilers for the first six episodes of "The Magnus Archives."

In our third episode of our horror media series, Justin and Rebecca look at the horror podcast, "The Magnus Archives," produced by the Rusty Quill. We discuss the first six episodes and how they tapped into different fears for both of us. From there, we go broader to discuss how TMA appeals to us by not using problematic horror tropes (some of which we discussed last week) that we have seen in other horror media. We end with telling each other some of our own fears that would really freak us out if they were put on the show. Stay safe out there folks, and try stay away from dark alleys that have mysterious creatures in them.

PWP 31: Sexuality and Spirituality in "It" (Chapter 2)

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Rebecca Mitts, Justin Hancock) — Tue, 19 Oct 2021 13:00:00 +0000

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TW: mention of homophobic violence, sexual assault

Our second part in discussing Stephen King's "It" focuses on three main things; the LGBTQ+ representation, Beverley's sexual trauma, and how spirituality is handled. As with every issue we discuss, we don't have answers for the issues and frustrations we bring forward. What we hope for is that by having open discussions we can have better representation and greater communal compassion for those around us. "It" in all its forms is not perfect, but it does touch on trauma, both personal and communal, in a way that forces the viewer or reader to look at the world around them. Indifference is the true evil, and only by acting can we defeat it. That could be stepping in when someone is being bullied or assaulted; volunteering at a shelter; reaching out to someone who is suffering; and in very rare instances, going into the sewers to beat the shit out of an evil space entity disguised as a clown.

PWP 30: Communal Trauma in "It" (Chapter 1)

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Rebecca Mitts, Justin Hancock) — Tue, 12 Oct 2021 13:00:00 +0000

TW: mention of suicide, trauma, abuse, racism

The beginning of spooky month (at least at Palsys With Palsies) is here! We had to break up our discussion of the "It" story/media into two parts...two chapters if you will. (hohoho, we are very clever) This first episode focuses on the communal trauma that is explored in the story, both by the town of Derry and by the kids. We compare the three forms that this story has taken: the book, the mini-series, and the most recent films, and how each one handles the aforementioned trauma. And also the grief Rebecca feels that Bill's ponytail is only included in the mini-series.

PWP: Our Spooky Plan for October

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Sun, 10 Oct 2021 13:00:00 +0000

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Opening & ending music: "Skeletons in the Closet" by Bobby Cole

This is a really episode where Justin and Rebecca go more in depth on their plans for October. We will be looking at "It," "The Magnus Achieves" and some short stories by Neil Gaiman. We hope you will join us for our deep dive into some of our favorite horror media.

PWP Extra: Upcoming for Oct 2021!

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Rebecca Mitts, Justin Hancock) — Wed, 29 Sep 2021 20:36:55 +0000

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No episode this week, due to illness and life stuff. But we'll be back in October to talk about horror media that affects us as individuals, and as members of our respective communities. We'll be talking about "IT," "The Magnus Archives," and some of Neil Gaiman's short stories. We are really looking forward to it! Stay safe y'all.

PWP 28: If You Don't Laugh, You'll Cry

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Rebecca Mitts, Justin Hancock) — Wed, 22 Sep 2021 19:18:00 +0000

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In this episode, Justin and Rebecca talk about how humor gets them through hard times. Both of us use humor to process and express our most vulnerable moments, whether it be to distance ourselves from the hardship or in an attempt to connect with others or just to laugh so we don't cry. Justin remembers a practical joke between him and his brother that almost ended very badly, and Rebecca recounts the comedy of errors that was the spreading of her dad's ashes. Morbid humor can make people uncomfortable, but can also be a comfort to those who have gone through what is being joked about.

PWP 27: What is Intentional Community?

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Tue, 14 Sep 2021 18:24:40 +0000

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In this episode, it's just Rebecca and Justin again! So, to connect back to our roots, we discuss when we lived together in intentional community. Intentional community "is a planned residential community designed from the start to have a high degree of social cohesion and teamwork. The members of an intentional community typically hold a common social, political, religious, or spiritual vision and often follow an alternative lifestyle." (taken from wikipedia) We discuss our own intentional christian community and what it meant to us. Maybe someday we can return to that!

PWP 26: Playfulness and Relationship in the Church

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Ken Crawford, Justin Hancock) — Tue, 7 Sep 2021 13:00:00 +0000

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Rebecca was visiting family when this episode was recorded, so we brought on a guest! Justin talks to his good friend, Rev. Ken Crawford about how they have collaborated over the years, the state of the church, and looking towards the future of the church. It is a playful, interesting discussion about the importance of tradition, but not the rigidness that often accompanies it. Without flexibility, playfulness, and relationship with those different from us, there will be no growth. This is true both in church and outside of it.

PWP 25: Grief in All Its Forms (ft. Lindsay Wms)

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Wed, 25 Aug 2021 13:00:00 +0000

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In this episode, we talk with Lindsay Wms, a long time friend of Justin's, as well as an anthropologist and grief expert. She sheds light on the multiple kinds of grief, beyond the loss of a person through death; loss of relationships, divorce, a favorite restaurant shutting down, racial grief, etc. We go in depth on what it means to open ourselves up to feeling all kinds of grief, and how we can be in community with those who are grieving. This is a very in-depth discussion, that we all got a lot of dopamine from, despite its heavy nature. We hope this can begin many more discussions about grief in all its forms and phases.

(We did have some auditory issues that Rebecca did her best to fix/edit, so this episode is noticeably late. Hopefully y'all didn't grieve the delay too much.)

PWP 24: Dating as a Queer Person with a Disability (ft. Matthew Schroeder)

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Rebecca Mitts, Matthew Schroeder, Justin Hancock) — Tue, 17 Aug 2021 13:00:00 +0000

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In this episode we have a guest! Matthew Schroeder is a mutual friend, a seminary student, and an intern at The Julian Way, Justin's ministry. Matt also has cerebral palsy (the sexiest of the palsies), is pan, and is nonbinary. We discuss dating, both as a queer person and as a person with a disability; the good, the bad, and the awkward. Since Justin and Rebecca have been out of the dating pool for several years, Matt is our new dating expert. We had a lot of fun with Matt, and hope they can come back again!

PWP 23: How Isolation and the Pandemic Have Affected the Disabilty Community

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Tue, 10 Aug 2021 13:00:00 +0000

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In this episode, we talk in depth about how the pandemic has affected those with disabilities, including some of Justin's friends. We discuss how one of his friends thinks everyone should mask, even if vaccinated, while another thinks once vaccinated you shouldn't have to wear a mask. These opinions are more nuanced within the disability community, given various health concerns that wearing/not wearing a mask might complicate. We go into how the isolation has hidden those who are struggling from others, and have left some forgotten.

We hope this episode can be a motivator to think critically about what you can do to reconnect with others in your community, in particular those who may have been pushed to the sidelines in the midst of the pandemic.

PWP 22: No Justin is an Island

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Tue, 27 Jul 2021 20:41:01 +0000

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In this super short episode, we chit chat about Justin's recent birthday (his 40th!), aging, and spend maybe too long on the 2005 sci-fi movie, "The Island." Like, it's at least 1/3 of the runtime.

Just a chatting episode, but we have some plans for upcoming episodes that we hope will be exciting for y'all, including guests!

PWP 21: How Many Spoons Do You Have Today?

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Tue, 20 Jul 2021 21:40:57 +0000

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In this episode, Justin and Rebecca talk about spoons! (Not the ones for cereal and soups, sadly.) Spoons is a term used in mental health circles to describe how much mental energy a person has to perform certain tasks or take in information. As a man with a disability and an anxious, pansexual woman, we have a variety of things that take up our spoons before we even start our days.

Justin speaks about voting legislation, complicated Medicaid benefits; Rebecca talks about having to constantly come out, anti-lgbtqia legislation and both bring up having to explain things to others. But being around people who love us as whole beings--like each other--gives us spoons instead of taking them away. We hope you have folks in your lives that give you spoons, so you can enjoy as many good cereals and soups as you can!

PWP 20: Let's Talk About Sex

Tue, 13 Jul 2021 23:13:34 +0000

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In this episode, Justin and Rebecca bring their spouses on the show to discuss sex! We do not get explicit, but we are honest. We talk less about sex acts, and more how growing up with southern, purity culture affected our perception of sex as we got older and even after marriage. We also focus on how OTHERS perceive our sex lives, and feel entitled to knowing about them because we are "non-normative" couples.

PWP 19: A Very Special Show

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Tue, 29 Jun 2021 13:00:00 +0000

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In this SPECIAL episode, Justin and Rebecca discuss the Netflix comedy show, "Special," which follows the life of Ryan, a gay young man with cerebral palsy as he gets his dream job and comes into his own. Justin shares his own experiences from his youth from being single, and how the show depicts cp. We touch on the importance of media representation and our hope for more shows like "Special."

PWP 18: Body Neutrality vs. Body Positivity

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Tue, 22 Jun 2021 18:11:35 +0000

TW: body dysmorphia, body talk
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In this episode, Justin and Rebecca talk about the body positivity movement, both in regards to women's weight and disabled bodies. While the intention behind "body positivity" is good, it has often left bodies that have chronic pain, disabilities, and mental illnesses out of the picture. We discuss how we have both reached a certain degree of "body neutrality" which has helped us enjoy life in our bodies more.

PWP 17: PRIDE!

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock, Rebecca Mitts) — Tue, 15 Jun 2021 22:00:00 +0000

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Eli Clare's "Exile and Pride: Disability, Queerness, and Liberation": https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0144DKSKA/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1

This fashionably late episode is all about Pride! We briefly discuss it's history, the original leaders of the movement/protest, before jumping into our own experiences at Pride events. Justin helped make the first ADA seating at Dallas Pride, and Rebecca...well, she covered herself in glitter. We end by talking about the latest version of the debate about kink at Pride. Let us know your thoughts and experiences at Pride!

PWP 16: Episode Swap w/ The Neighbor Next Door

Tue, 8 Jun 2021 13:00:00 +0000

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Our first ever episode swap! In this episode, dear listeners, you will be hearing from Matt Johnson and Adam Barlow-Thompson, two of the co-founders of the Neighboring Movement. They bring a joy-filled approach to learning about, and practicing, good neighboring. They are joined by John McKnight to discuss the six (possibly even seven) attributes of a culture of contribution, how these characteristics in a community could foster peace, and then continues with the roles that we play within our neighborhood.

PWP 15: The Noise of Mental Illness

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Tue, 1 Jun 2021 13:00:00 +0000

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TW: suicide, death, trauma, sexual assault

In this episode, Rebecca goes through her mental health journey, which has been a long, bumpy road to the present. This is a pretty heavy episode, though we try to keep it hopeful and have plenty of laughs between us. Rebecca talks about her dad's sudden death which triggered her anxiety, depression, and PTSD, and her experience of going to the psychiatric hospital, and where she is now. (Spoiler: it's a much better place. Not perfect, but better.)

We hope this episode can help break down the stigma surrounding mental disorders, trauma, and grief. We don't need to fix people in low places. We need to love them.

PWP 14: Parenting with a Disability

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Tue, 25 May 2021 22:43:10 +0000

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Sorry we're a bit late on this one!

In this episode, Justin takes center stage as he talks about being a parent. He shares his joys and struggles of being a dad with a disability, and how he fights back against the expectations of others. (And himself.) Being a parent is messy, difficult, beautiful and fun work, and no one can define what that looks like for you. If you or your spouse or someone you know has a disability and is starting your journey towards parenting, we have added Justin's e-mail to the show notes. Please send him your questions, worries, and joys!

PWP 13: Hopeful and Hospitable Accessibility

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (rebecca mitts, justin hancock) — Tue, 18 May 2021 19:39:27 +0000

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In this episode, we discuss accessible (and non-accessible) spaces and what that REALLY looks like. Justin explains his super power of being able to go into any building and quicker then the speed of sound figure out how hospitable it is for him. Hospitable accessibility is more then just wide doors and bars in the bathroom stalls. But he remains hopeful for the future of accessibility, and lifts Rebecca's spirits. This is an important topic, but it doesn't have to be serious. Keep your eyes, ears, and hearts open and curious to accessibility needs, so our spaces (churches or otherwise) can truly flourish!

PWP 12: May the 11th Be With You

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Tue, 11 May 2021 13:00:00 +0000

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We missed our shot for a perfectly timed Star Wars episode, but just like every stormtrooper, we're just going to keep on shooting. This episode is a full blown discussion of Star Wars, with Justin who is a super fan, and Rebecca who enjoys old men with beards and robes. Justin lays out his deep love and criticisms of his favorite franchise, while giving us some hot takes and some good recommendations. Rebecca talks mostly about Obi Wan Kenobi, the weird Jar Jar Binks puppet she had, and how Finn has Poe's jacket.

PWP 11: The Gaze and The Dance

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Tue, 4 May 2021 13:00:00 +0000

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Opening & ending music: Southern Love by Tencher Music

In this episode Justin talks about his experience with "the gaze," known in the disability community as being stared at by and interacting able bodied people who don't know how to inhabit the space with a person with a disability. He shares one the best experiences and some of his lousiest experiences with "the gaze." There is a social dance that happens whenever you meet someone different from yourself; so if you step on toes, don't keep stepping on their toes. Be curious, but not an asshole.

PWP 10: Inhabiting the Divine

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Tue, 27 Apr 2021 22:13:20 +0000

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In this episode, Justin and Rebecca reflect on our growth within our faiths. Having both been raised Methodist, we come from similar stock, but because of our various experiences have become unique individuals within our faiths. We get a bit mystical and speak very broadly about our experiences with the divine. Whoever you are and whatever you believe or are reaching for, we hope you can find fulfillment and peace!

PWP 9: Let the Trans Community Flourish

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Tue, 13 Apr 2021 13:00:00 +0000

TW: suicide mention, anti-trans legislation
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Opening & ending music: Southern Love by Tencher Music
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In this episode, Justin and Rebecca talk about the anti-trans legislation currently being presented, passed, and fought against throughout the US. Though we did do research, this episode is primarily our response to these bills and how they are hurting the trans communities, trans kids, and just the US at large. Policies like these are so often done under the guise of "protecting" children, when they are actually hurting them. It's a very heated episode, and Rebecca turns into a literal goblin at the end.

Below are links to news sources to follow in order to get the details on legislation affecting the LGBTQ+ community, and to expand your news intake in general.
Translash: https://translash.org/
The 19th News: https://19thnews.org/
Axios: https://www.axios.com/
Consider This (April 9, 2021 episode): https://www.npr.org/podcasts/510355/considerthis
It's Been a Minute with Sam Sanders (April 9, 2021 episode): https://www.npr.org/podcasts/510317/its-been-a-minute-with-sam-sanders

PWP 8: Carerecieving-The Good, The Bad, & The Spectacularly Weird

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Tue, 6 Apr 2021 13:00:00 +0000

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In this episode, Justin returns to give his experience as a carereciver. He speaks on the struggles, the joys, and the weird moments that come from it. Rebecca has obviously been apart of some of those weird moments. We are so glad he is back, though Lisa was a wonderful palsie by proxy.

PWP 7: Caregiving and Casseroles

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Tue, 30 Mar 2021 13:00:00 +0000

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Opening & ending music: Southern Love by Tencher Music

In this episode, Justin is still recovering from surgery (he is doing well!) so his wife, Lisa, becomes the "palsie by proxy!" We dive into caregiving from the perspective of a spouse, a mother, and a friend. Caregiving is a labor of love where both the caregiver and carereciever should recognize each other's humanity and vulnerabilities, as we should in every relationship. So, bring a casserole to your local caregiver today; they probably need it.

PWP Guest Announcement

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Sun, 28 Mar 2021 13:00:00 +0000

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Justin had a routine surgery March 26, so we will be having a very special guest to speak in his stead. We hope and pray for a speedy recovery!

PWP 6: Call Me By WHAT Name?

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Tue, 23 Mar 2021 13:00:00 +0000

Opening & ending music: Southern Love by Tencher Music

In this episode, Justin and Rebecca take inspiration from their wives’ work with disability advocacy, and dive into one of the most powerful tools in their belt: language. We figure out what’s so bad about “differently abled,” or “handicappable” and why some within the LGBTQ+ community do not use the word “queer.” We can only speak for ourselves, and what we understand within our own communities. Do not take what we say here and use it to hurt others.

Special Guest: Rebecca’s washing machine! Because she hasn't figured out how to record clean audio, apparently.

PWP 5: Hobbits and Mental Health

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Tue, 16 Mar 2021 13:00:00 +0000

TW: suicide mention, trauma

Opening & ending music: Southern Love by Tencher Music

In this episode, Justin and Rebecca delve into the tough topic of mental health and trauma using Frodo’s journey, from Lord of the Rings, as a guide. Rebecca speaks about her own struggles in darkness and Justin provides a light of hope in the midst of it.

PWP 4: Barely Gettin' By; It's All Takin' and No Givin'

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Tue, 9 Mar 2021 19:17:07 +0000

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In this episode, Justin and Rebecca discuss disability in the workforce and how much harder it is for those who don’t fit the “cookie cutter” to flourish in the ol’ 9 to 5. We discuss our own experiences and while we don’t fix the system, we hope to give some encouragement to those struggling, just as Dolly Parton has done before us.

PWP 3: In a Dungeon Far, Far Away...

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Tue, 2 Mar 2021 19:51:28 +0000

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We suggest following Krystina and Jennifer on twitter so you can see their work and bask in their nerdiness!
Krystina Arielle: https://twitter.com/KrystinaArielle
Jennifer Kretchmer: https://twitter.com/dreamwisp

Opening & ending music: Southern Love by Tencher Music

In this episode, both Justin and Rebecca dive head first into their favorite fandoms. With a lightsaber in their hands and a bag of dice at their hip, they discuss inclusion, representation and perceived ownership within the Star Wars and D&D communities.

We’ll be talking about disability, racism, nerdy things, what makes us mad, what makes us laugh, and everything in between.

PWP 2: What I Want to be When I Grow Up

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Wed, 24 Feb 2021 14:00:00 +0000

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We are dropping the first two episodes back to back to get the ball rolling! In this episode, it’s Justin’s turn to bring the drama as he experiences an entire existential mid-life crisis in 25 minutes. A lot of wouldas, couldas, and shouldas.

PWP 1: Double, Double, Social Media Trouble

revjustinhancock@gmail.com (Justin Hancock) — Wed, 24 Feb 2021 00:01:42 +0000

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In our first episode, we introduce ourselves and Rebecca gets incredibly heated over the social media reaction to the controversy surrounding the 2020 remake of ‘The Witches.’ Justin agrees, speaking on disability in media, and stays out of friendly-fire range.