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Far From Home: Mental Health as International Students ft Sanya & Manovichaar

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Tue, 14 Jan 2025 06:24:04 +0000

In this episode, we sit down with Sanya, the inspiring founder of Manovichaar, a platform dedicated to breaking mental health stigmas within South Asian communities. Sanya shares her personal journey of navigating cultural expectations, academic pressures, and identity while living abroad as an international student. Together, we explore the unique challenges faced by international students and discuss practical strategies for managing stress, building community, and prioritizing mental well-being in a foreign environment.

From busting myths about therapy to unpacking how cultural norms shape our perceptions of mental health, Sanya’s insights are invaluable. This episode is a heartfelt, enlightening conversation about finding balance, creating safe spaces, and fostering open dialogue within the diaspora.

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The Superwoman Myth, Self Worth & Productivity ft Ami Patel

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Mon, 14 Oct 2024 08:44:23 +0000

In this episode, Ami Patel and I dive deep into the intricate web of societal expectations, hustle culture, and gender dynamics that shape how women approach self-worth, work and productivity.

Ami Patel is a Psychotherapist and Clinical consultant with more than 22 years of experience in individual & joint therapy, parent education, professional training and student supervision. Ami’s areas of specialty are mental health care for adults through the feminist lens of culture, trauma and gender-based violence.

We explore the influence of patriarchy, the rat race for success, weaponized incompetence, self-worth, and the relentless pressure to “do it all”. We’ll also tackle the cultural conditioning that reinforces self-doubt, comparison, and the myth of the “superwoman.” Together, we examine these harmful narratives and discuss how we can break free from the cycle of self-doubt, competition, perfection and burnout.

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More Info & readings on these topics:

https://www.linkedin.com/pulse/patriarchy-productivity-perfectionism-akanke-adefunmi-cpcc

https://www.sciencedirect.com/topics/social-sciences/patriarchy

https://yorkspace.library.yorku.ca/server/api/core/bitstreams/bcb0e0e4-3529-42f4-8b99-e7ded5e67b5b/content

https://www.broadagenda.com.au/2021/the-super-woman-myth-can-we-have-it-all/

https://www.forbes.com/councils/forbescoachescouncil/2021/11/16/16-superwoman-myths-to-dispel-to-better-support-women-in-the-workplace/

BIPOC Therapy Directories: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1__MQSgObiX2UGxVacb7lOn6uAcqrQP475qLI93i3mmI/edit?usp=drivesdk

The Unconscious Mind, Neuro-Linguistic Programming & Limiting Beliefs ft Ayesha

andruskurian@gmail.com (Ayesha Joshi, Andrea Kurian) — Fri, 23 Feb 2024 08:53:17 +0000

In today’s episode, Ayesha (@ayeshacoaching), a somatic mindset coach, joins the podcast to explain the science and practice behind various coaching and therapy styles such as Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP). We uncover the power of our unconscious minds and the impacts it has on limiting beliefs, neuro pathways and individual perspectives. Ayesha’s goal is to empower everyone, especially those within the queer and South Asian community, to be themselves fearlessly. Ayesha is a cycle breaker whose work heavily concentrates on eradicating limiting beliefs, brown girl guilt and abandoning your authentic self.

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Need help with finding the right South Asian Therapist? Check the directory below!

BIPOC Therapy Directories: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1__MQSgObiX2UGxVacb7lOn6uAcqrQP475qLI93i3mmI/edit?usp=drivesdk

Alisha’s Guide to Confidence, Redirection, Insecure Friends & Solo Traveling (and MORE)

andruskurian@gmail.com (Alisha Bhojwani, Andrea Kurian) — Sun, 11 Feb 2024 03:38:02 +0000

In today’s episode, the extremely talented, multifaceted, content-creating queen Alisha (@alishabhojwani_) joins the podcast to dig deep into her self-love journey that was ignited after redirecting her career and ending a ten-year relationship. Today’s episode is a proper girly pop chit chat about confidence, self-love, dating culture, friendships, redirection and solo travelling (and so much more tbh)! Get ready for some insightful, entertaining and chaotic dialogues.

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BIPOC Therapy Directories: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1__MQSgObiX2UGxVacb7lOn6uAcqrQP475qLI93i3mmI/edit?usp=drivesdk

Growing Up with Cycle Breaking Parents & Ending Generational Patterns

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Thu, 25 Jan 2024 09:35:48 +0000

The rise of “cycle breakers” has taken social media by the horns, but what does being a cycle breaker actually mean and how does it relate to generational trauma? How does being a cycle breaker help overcome numerous health issues and general concerns for yourself and future generations? Tune in to find out, because in this episode Andrea uses her experience growing up with parents, who are cycle breakers, to highlight the importance of taking a stand and breaking negative patterns. It all starts with you!

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BIPOC Therapy Directories: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1__MQSgObiX2UGxVacb7lOn6uAcqrQP475qLI93i3mmI/edit?usp=drivesdk

Burnouts, Identity Crises & Learning to Slow Down

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Thu, 4 Jan 2024 08:54:54 +0000

Brown Bad and Bothered is Back!! In today’s episode, Andrea gives us some insight into her 2023, where she took a break from podcasting. Today’s chat includes conversations surrounding burnouts, breakups, identity crises, depression, hyper independence and learning to slow down.

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Model Minority Myth, Mental Health & Neurodiversity Stigma ft Mrinal

andruskurian@gmail.com (Mrinal Gokhale, Andrea Kurian) — Tue, 11 Apr 2023 13:31:24 +0000

Mrinal Gokhale, author of Saaya Unveiled: South Asian Mental Health Spotlight, is an Indian-American writer and advocate from Milwaukee. Mrinal has done a lot of work within various minor communities, hoping to expand mental health awareness and destigmatize the issue. Today's chat, inspired by topics covered in her first book, explores the impacts critical parenting, academic pressure, model minority myth, religion, and gender roles have on mental health and its healing journey. We also discuss culturally competent therapists, neurodiversity, and men’s mental health through the South Asian lens. Mrinal is currently wrapping up on her second book, an extension of the real-life mental health stories of Saaya Unveiled. Grab your chai and ENJOY!

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BFFs Talk Break Ups, Beating Anxiety, Bad Friends & MORE ft Gurpreet

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Mon, 3 Oct 2022 11:52:58 +0000

Gurpreet, the ultimate bestie-estie-estie, joins this episode to help ME answer YOUR questions. That’s right, we dive into all the friendship, mental health, dating, and parenting questions you threw at us. The best part? You also get to hear our favorite friendship stories of each other. We even do a bit of (crappy) karaoke. Get your cup of chai, settle down for some serious older didi advice and chaotic cackling.

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BIPOC Therapy Directories: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1__MQSgObiX2UGxVacb7lOn6uAcqrQP475qLI93i3mmI/edit?usp=drivesdk

Ladies, Get Familiar with the F-Word: FINANCES ft Diya @kajaldiaries

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Wed, 14 Sep 2022 11:51:45 +0000

Diya, @kajaldiaries, drops some serious advice & knowledge regarding financial literacy, confidence and planning! Not only does Diya address concerning trends, like educated women from challenging industries still putting financial planning aside or onto their men, but the impacts that these mindsets have on women and future generations. From culture shunning women from money talk to building financial wealth as homemaker, this conversation offers lessons for any women, at any age. It’s time we have an honest chat about the F word: FINANCES.

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Check out these financial resources:

Money and Mimosas: https://financialelevationllc.com/money-mimosas/

Savvy Ladies: https://www.savvyladies.org/

Boss Betis: https://www.instagram.com/bossbetis/

Finasana: https://www.instagram.com/finasana/

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Celebrating Sania, Failing Women & the Core of Femicide

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Sun, 7 Aug 2022 10:34:31 +0000

Sania Khan, talented South Asian photographer and dear friend, was killed by ex-husband, Raheel Ahmed. Sania was an integral member of the South Asian space and was an advocate for creative careers and finding happiness and beauty in life. Sania publicly opened up about the hardships she faced while filing for divorce and leaving an abusive relationship. She reminded women that they aren’t alone and that our society needs to do a much better job in supporting women and their right to safety. Today’s episode will celebrate Sania, including memories submitted by loved ones, but also address divorce stigma. lack of support, femicide and how we enable men.

**IMPORTANT** - I, unfortunately, forgot to mention Sania’s Memorial Scholarship Fund in the episode, DONATE here at

https://generositytrust.fcsuite.com/erp/donate/create/fund?funit_id=2041

The Sania Khan Memorial Scholarship will be awarded to a female graduate of Chattanooga School for Arts & Sciences (CSAS), with a minimum high-school GPA of 3.5, and a desire to further her education in fine arts through the UT system.

Readings on Femicide & Gender Violence:

https://www.peacefuldumpling.com/why-i-speak-up-about-femicide-rape-misogyny-in-india

https://asiafoundation.org/2018/03/14/four-things-know-gender-based-violence-asia/

https://article-14.com/post/the-silent-pandemic-of-violence-against-india-s-women--60e27646b30ae

RESOURCES/CONTACT DETAILS:

USA National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233 or by texting 'START' to 88788."

AUSTRALIA Call 1800 737 732 or reach out via the online chat on this website.

INDIA Women in Distress Call 1091, Women Helpline Domestic Abuse call 181

PAKISTAN National Helpline Call 1099 or download app “Helpline 1099”

CANADA 24-hour Crisis Line: 773.278.4566

UK National Domestic Violence Helpline is available on 0808 2000247 24 hours a day, 7 days a week.

www.nationaldomesticviolencehelpline.org.uk

Diving Into Divorce, Maintaining Intimacy & Toxic Dating Cycles ft Natasha

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Sat, 9 Jul 2022 14:58:38 +0000

Natasha, Relationship & Divorce Coach, doesn’t hold back in this episode. Despite having some of the best, heart-wrenching, blood pumping, and truly wholesome romantic movies - many South Asians are lost when it comes to off-screen healthy relationships. Tune into this episode to learn about how societal norms and culture impacts our ability to find and maintain healthy long-term love. Natasha (@natashacoaches) also shares the reality about divorce, its stigma, and finding faith in one’s post-divorce era. But it’s not all sad stuff, we talk about the power of reconnecting, elevating intimacy, and finding your own happiness. We giggle and gasp over our shared irritation for dangerous dating trends and gender double standards over sexual needs. Whether you are single or taken, this is a thoroughly inspiring and genuinely informative chat. Now grab your chai and tune in!

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Unraveling WOC, Historical & Generational Trauma ft Nancy (Trauma-Informed Therapist)

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Tue, 14 Jun 2022 16:28:56 +0000

Nancy Diaz, a trauma-informed specialist who is inspired by her own personal experiences, works closely with WOC and daughters of immigrants. In this episode, we dive deep into WOC trauma trends, realizing the very similar experiences WOC across all cultures and societies share. Nancy clears my doubts and questions over intricate theories and issues such as generational, childhood, and historical trauma. We explore what trauma means, due to the long-lasting impacts of historical events, for the Native American, African American & Aboriginal communities. Basically, I learned ALOT. From micro-aggressions, finding the right therapist, soul care to brain spotting, this convo is information-rich so make sure to clean up your ears!

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Navigating Brown Parenting & Generational Change ft Navneet

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Sun, 22 May 2022 11:13:02 +0000

Navneet Gill, Canadian certified counselor, joins this episode to have an open chat about brown parenting and it’s long lasting impacts across generations. Despite being raised in different generations, Navneet (@navneetgillcounselling) and I share strikingly similar experiences when it comes to battling mental health issues alone, surviving the pressure of society, and being badass cultural rebels. While the new generation is sure about what they want and don’t want to do as future parents, Navneet shares advice when it comes to implementing healthy parenting practices despite ever-lasting generational gaps. Get ready for a truly insightful and tender heart-warming episode that bonds two generations together.

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Desi Parents, Keep These Statements Out of Your Mouths!

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Fri, 13 May 2022 11:01:48 +0000

Is it just me or do all desi parents say the same irritating and bizarre things that drive us up the wall? Did they all attend the same parenting orientation? In this episode, Andrea chats about some go-to phrases that many brown kids are sure to find relatable and equally frustrating. How do these phrases affect children and young adults in the long run? Is it time brown parents learn to keep these phrases out of their mouths? Tune in to find out.

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Hello Mindfulness, Good Riddance Brown Girl Pain ft Urvi (Certified Life Coach)

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Mon, 25 Apr 2022 13:44:03 +0000

Urvi, a certified life coach, joins this episode to break down all things mindfulness. With expertise in mindfulness, breathwork & meditation, Urvi (@innerserenitylc) explains everything you need to know in order to start integrating mindfulness in your life. Most importantly, WHY you should start practicing it! We connect the dots between relatable brown girls' problems and the role mindfulness has in healing from our experiences in the South Asian community. Urvi also gives information on what to realistically expect from a life coach and debunks some myths! Don’t wait for things to magically get better - listen now and learn how to make your life more peaceful and fulfilled.

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Ending Mental Health Stigma Ft Poonam (Virtue Mental)

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Sun, 10 Apr 2022 13:38:13 +0000

Poonam, a 21-year-old CEO of Virtue Mental, joins this episode to chat about the great impact destigmatizing mental health has on one’s wellbeing journey. Poonam (@thepoonamrahman) is a psychology, neuroscience AND management senior, determined to provide free resources for marginalized groups. We chat about our own mental health experiences while covering topics such as bullying, finding support, education as a tool and starting a business in the middle of a pandemic.

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or their website here: https://www.virtuemental.org/

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Insecurities, Being Cheated On & Cosmetic Surgery Pressure

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Mon, 21 Mar 2022 13:41:56 +0000

Did you know insecurities aren’t just tied to body image or relationships? In this episode, Andrea dives into the basics of insecurities. She discusses the common signs, main causes, and different types of insecurities that exist. More so, Andrea bares all when it comes to the insecurities she has faced due to being cheated on, PCOS, Dubai’s insane beauty standards, & embracing her brown skin.

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Love is Blind: Body Positivity, Only Dating Blondes & Double Standards ft Payal

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Sun, 13 Mar 2022 13:56:27 +0000

Payal, a South Asian body positivity activist, joins this episode to chat about the various themes and "shakey" moments from the latest season of Love is Blind. Payal (@desianklet) shares her first-hand experience with the reality tv show, leaving us both in fits of laughter. We also dive deep into relevant & controversial topics such as body inclusivity, dating preferences, internalized racism, physical attraction, getting the ick, double standards and “keeping it real”

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Brown Girls Raised Abroad ft Urmi

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Sun, 27 Feb 2022 12:28:18 +0000

There’s nothing quite like the clash of cultures and finding your identity as children of immigrants. In this episode, Urmi (@urmamio) shares her unique yet relatable experiences as an Italian-born-and-raised Bengali. Urmi and Andrea explore what it’s like to grow up trying to assimilate to one culture yet stay true to their parents’ heritage. From double standards, feeling left out, making friends, proving our worth, accents, finding love to defining our own identities, today’s episode is sure to hit home for many children of immigrants and third culture kids.

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Some interesting reads on Child of Immigrants and TCK:

Guilt as Children of Immigrants:

https://www.risingkashmir.com/Why-children-of-immigrants-experience-guilt--90611

Mental Health Needs:

https://www.thinkglobalhealth.org/article/children-immigrants-and-their-mental-health-needs

Parenting as Immigrants

https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/parenting/wp/2017/02/01/how-the-immigrant-experience-shapes-what-i-teach-my-children/

Third Culture Kid Dilemma:

https://www.bbc.com/worklife/article/20161117-third-culture-kids-citizens-of-everywhere-and-nowhere

Struggles of a TCK:

https://www.internations.org/magazine/three-things-all-third-culture-kids-struggle-with-39417

Advantages and Advice for TCK:

https://growingupbilingual.com/raising-third-culture-kids-why-its-an-advantage/

Valentine's: Scam or Genuine Celebration of Love?

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Sat, 12 Feb 2022 07:59:52 +0000

Valentine’s Day can be a touchy subject for those who are single and taken. Society has done an unfortunately good job at marketing love and Valentine’s to fit a one-size-all template that doesn’t match everyone’s ideal display of affection or love language. While Valentine’s can be a great time to reflect and celebrate, Andrea explores her journey and different phases that are relatable to most. From using Valentines as a test of love, suppressing disappointment and resentment for years, feeling left out, and to now finding a healthy way to celebrate the occasion that makes sense for her & her partner. Tune into to episode and make sure you don’t make the same mistakes as Andrea did this Valentine's.

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Want to know YOUR love language? Here Is the Love Language Quiz: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language

Controlling Partners Aren't Romantic

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Sun, 30 Jan 2022 14:38:21 +0000

By now, many of us are aware of how media and Bollywood have normalized stalking and sexual harassment and the impact it’s had off-screen. However, in this episode, Andrea focuses on how media and traditional gender roles have enforced control in relationships and even conditioned us into thinking controlling behaviors are a show of care and love. What are examples of a subtle and extreme controlling partner? She also explores the science behind the attraction to dominant men and how media romanticizes negative dominant traits - blurring the lines of what is healthy and unhealthy.

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Further reading & sources:

Gender & Power Dynamics –

https://bit.ly/genderpowerdynamics

Controlling Behavior, Signs, Causes and What to Do –

https://bit.ly/controllingpartner

20 Signs Your Partner is Controlling –

https://bit.ly/3uhAewW

Do Women Prefer Dominant Men? –

https://bit.ly/studyondominanttraits

Raising Voices to End Male-Dominated Power Dynamics –

https://bit.ly/3AIejQV

Are You Kind To Yourself?

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Sun, 16 Jan 2022 13:04:22 +0000

We spend so much time worrying about how people view us and if we are "nice enough"...but the real question is - how kind are you to yourself? Andrea navigates the impacts of a harmful inner critic and explores the importance and benefits of positive self-talk. Self-talk can actually be helpful in keeping us motivated toward goals and an overall healthy well-being, so join into the conversation to learn how to be your biggest supporter.

My 2021 Recap: The Good, Bad & Sad

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Sun, 2 Jan 2022 14:54:22 +0000

Let's take a look into Andrea's 2021 that was filled with academic growth, alone time and mental breakdowns. What battles did she win? What did she unlearn? What made her sad? Tune in to find out.

Our Conflict with Confrontation

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Mon, 20 Dec 2021 14:07:56 +0000

Do you struggle with conflict? Does the thought of confrontation put you on edge? Have all your bottled-up emotions resulted in you being aggressive in confrontations? Do you feel guilty when expressing your needs, thoughts, and concerns? Andrea addresses our inner conflict with confrontation while diving into her journey navigating confrontation and healthy communication as a girl inside and outside the brown community.

Toxic Friendship Confession Session

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Sun, 5 Dec 2021 14:42:31 +0000

Wowza! In this week's episode, Andrea shares her listeners' toxic friendship storytimes. From backhanded compliments, trying to steal boyfriends, taking advantage of money, victim-blaming, and straight-up disrespect, it feels like everyone has had some sort of horrible toxic friend in their life. Listen to stories that are relatable while experiencing Andrea's unfiltered first reaction to some jaw-dropping events. And if you stick until the end, get inside scoop to a shocking but hilarious storytime from Andrea's life!

Creative Careers as a South Asian ft Sania

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Sun, 7 Nov 2021 12:29:45 +0000

So thrilled to have Sania on the show this week! Sania is a South Asian professional photographer based in Chicago. We dive into the mentally exhausting, challenging yet hopeful journey of embarking on creative careers as a brown girl. Sania shares funny, memorable, and emotional stories of her journey, along with advice, that will leave you feeling inspired and seen. Make sure to follow her on Instagram at @itssaniak - Follow @brownbadnbothered on insta for more content and BTS!

Struggles with Overthinking & Fear of Failure

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Sun, 24 Oct 2021 11:22:36 +0000

Are you a persistent over-thinker or have an underlying fear of failure? Let's find out in this episode as Andrea dissects what overthinking is and how to break the habit. While she shares her own personal struggles, Andrea also explores the ways in which brown culture can promote overthinking behaviors and the correlation it has with achievement anxiety or fear of failure.

Is Love Enough? Relationship Q&A with David

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian, David) — Sat, 9 Oct 2021 13:44:57 +0000

Andrea invites her first guest, David, to reflect on their approach to love and relationships while answering fun, thought-provoking, and personal questions. Join in for this chat and be ready to hear a lot of giggles and potential eyebrow-raising moments.

My Stalker Was Encouraged

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Fri, 24 Sep 2021 13:28:14 +0000

Andrea shares a storytime of what started off as a prank set by young immature boys but led to her being stalked. She details the way in which her frustration and experience were disregarding by her peers due to the normalization of certain behaviors and mindsets regarding safety, persistence and stalking. What happens when victims are ignored? What role does stalking play in other crimes such as femicide? Listen to find out.

Brown Parenting & People Pleasing

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Wed, 5 May 2021 11:53:29 +0000

Today's episode unravels the core effect parenting can have on people-pleasers. Andrea also studies and explores the connection people pleasers have with achievement anxiety and anxious attachment tendencies in relationships.

Welcome to Brown, Bad n' Bothered

andruskurian@gmail.com (Andrea Kurian) — Sat, 10 Apr 2021 09:17:39 +0000

Join Andrea as she unravels cultural and social norms and expectations that bother brown girls across the globe. Grab your cup of chai and settle down for honest and insightful chats regarding mental health, body shaming, freedom, bitchy aunties, friendships, beauty standards, double standards, relationships, and more!