https://simplecast.com Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse Confused by your relationship? Do you catch yourself second-guessing, walking on eggshells, or feeling emotionally drained? Whether you’re still in the chaos or trying to rebuild after leaving, this podcast is your lifeline.Join retired psychologist Dr. Kerry McAvoy as she exposes the hidden dynamics of toxic relationships. You’ll learn how destructive personalities operate, the manipulative tactics they use, and the stages of abuse—plus the practical steps to heal and reclaim your life.If you’re ready to break free, rebuild your self-worth, and find lasting emotional freedom, hit play and start your recovery journey today. © 2026 Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse en Thu, 18 Jun 2026 05:00:00 +0000 Thu, 18 Jun 2026 05:00:13 +0000 https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/ Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/57e553bd-8ec8-4476-a2d9-c7c21bf84698/f44053b3-2085-4b78-83dd-73d7197eac4c/3000x3000/1l5abz3xbmyfmjdlszwehgt3gv6v.jpg?aid=rss_feed https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/ episodic Confused by your relationship? Do you catch yourself second-guessing, walking on eggshells, or feeling emotionally drained? Whether you’re still in the chaos or trying to rebuild after leaving, this podcast is your lifeline.Join retired psychologist Dr. Kerry McAvoy as she exposes the hidden dynamics of toxic relationships. You’ll learn how destructive personalities operate, the manipulative tactics they use, and the stages of abuse—plus the practical steps to heal and reclaim your life.If you’re ready to break free, rebuild your self-worth, and find lasting emotional freedom, hit play and start your recovery journey today. Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. false https://feeds.simplecast.com/KhIa0xmV Narcissistic Abuse, Relationships, Self-Help, Advice, Coaching Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com 1804496c-dfc0-4be6-bddb-6bf034a242de Why Narcissists Refuse to Say Your Name: The 4 Patterns Survivors Miss Why has the person who claimed to love you gone years without once saying your name — not even once?

When a narcissist won't say your name, it isn't a quirk. It's name erasure: a slow, deliberate way of treating you as less than a full person.

In this Viewers' Stories episode, Dr. Kerry reads real survivor stories and unpacks four ways the same tactic shows up. Each one is a covert control tactic, and together they're a form of withholding affection most survivors don't recognize as emotional abuse until much later. You'll learn how to read what someone's use of your name reveals about how they actually see you, and why these small omissions add up to something far bigger than rudeness.

Key Moments

  • 00:00:00 — The Husband Who Never Said Her Name
  • 00:01:19 — When "Gorgeous" Was a Quiet Cruelty
  • 00:03:11 — The Trap Hidden Inside "Babe" and "Honey"
  • 00:04:08 — Hearing Your Name Until the Room Goes Foggy
  • 00:05:09 — Mispronounced on Purpose, Again and Again
  • 00:05:51 — What the Sound of Your Name Reveals

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]]> Thu, 18 Jun 2026 05:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/?post_type=gp_podcast_episode&p=283 Why has the person who claimed to love you gone years without once saying your name — not even once?

When a narcissist won't say your name, it isn't a quirk. It's name erasure: a slow, deliberate way of treating you as less than a full person.

In this Viewers' Stories episode, Dr. Kerry reads real survivor stories and unpacks four ways the same tactic shows up. Each one is a covert control tactic, and together they're a form of withholding affection most survivors don't recognize as emotional abuse until much later. You'll learn how to read what someone's use of your name reveals about how they actually see you, and why these small omissions add up to something far bigger than rudeness.

Key Moments

  • 00:00:00 — The Husband Who Never Said Her Name
  • 00:01:19 — When "Gorgeous" Was a Quiet Cruelty
  • 00:03:11 — The Trap Hidden Inside "Babe" and "Honey"
  • 00:04:08 — Hearing Your Name Until the Room Goes Foggy
  • 00:05:09 — Mispronounced on Purpose, Again and Again
  • 00:05:51 — What the Sound of Your Name Reveals

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]]> Why Narcissists Refuse to Say Your Name: The 4 Patterns Survivors Miss Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:09:07 Narcissists and other character-disturbed partners do odd things with their loved ones' names. Learn the four different patterns of this minimizing and objectifying psychological tactic. Narcissists and other character-disturbed partners do odd things with their loved ones' names. Learn the four different patterns of this minimizing and objectifying psychological tactic. false full 273 Buzzsprout-19344112 Why Narcissists Use Pet Names Instead of Calling You by Your Real Name What if the sweet pet name your partner calls you isn't affection at all — but rather designed to keep you off balance?

In this episode, Dr. Kerry and co-host Lynn Strathdee unpack one of the strangest and most overlooked patterns in narcissistic relationships: the use of pet names.

Learn why some narcissists even speak about themselves in the third person, and the chilling moment when a "compliment" reveals exactly what they really think of you.

Podcast Extra Exclusive Segment

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What does it actually take to heal when the abuse has shaped how you see yourself? In this members-only bonus, Lynn and Dr. Kerry discuss why recovery requires building a stronger sense of self.

Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here.

LYNN STRATHDEE is a UK-based psychodynamic psychotherapist specializing in echoism, narcissistic abuse recovery, and the unconscious patterns that keep survivors stuck in repeating relationship cycles. A former educator turned therapist, Lynn brings both clinical training and lived experience to her private practice, where she works with clients online and in person. Her approach goes beyond surface-level psychoeducation to the deeper identity work that creates lasting change.

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]]> Mon, 15 Jun 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-narcissists-use-pet-names-instead-of-calling-you-by-your-real-name/ What if the sweet pet name your partner calls you isn't affection at all — but rather designed to keep you off balance?

In this episode, Dr. Kerry and co-host Lynn Strathdee unpack one of the strangest and most overlooked patterns in narcissistic relationships: the use of pet names.

Learn why some narcissists even speak about themselves in the third person, and the chilling moment when a "compliment" reveals exactly what they really think of you.

Podcast Extra Exclusive Segment

Want to go deeper?

What does it actually take to heal when the abuse has shaped how you see yourself? In this members-only bonus, Lynn and Dr. Kerry discuss why recovery requires building a stronger sense of self.

Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here.

LYNN STRATHDEE is a UK-based psychodynamic psychotherapist specializing in echoism, narcissistic abuse recovery, and the unconscious patterns that keep survivors stuck in repeating relationship cycles. A former educator turned therapist, Lynn brings both clinical training and lived experience to her private practice, where she works with clients online and in person. Her approach goes beyond surface-level psychoeducation to the deeper identity work that creates lasting change.

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]]> Why Narcissists Use Pet Names Instead of Calling You by Your Real Name Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:25:41 What if the sweet pet name your partner calls you isn't affection at all — but rather designed to keep you off balance? In this episode, Dr. Kerry and co-host Lynn Strathdee unpack one of the strangest and most overlooked patterns in narcissistic relationships: the use of pet names. Learn why some narcissists even speak about themselves in the third person, and the chilling moment when a "compliment" reveals exactly what they really think of you. Podcast Extra Exclusive Segment ... What if the sweet pet name your partner calls you isn't affection at all — but rather designed to keep you off balance? In this episode, Dr. Kerry and co-host Lynn Strathdee unpack one of the strangest and most overlooked patterns in narcissistic relationships: the use of pet names. Learn why some narcissists even speak about themselves in the third person, and the chilling moment when a "compliment" reveals exactly what they really think of you. Podcast Extra Exclusive Segment ... narcissistic relationship, narcissist pet names, narcissistic abuse, devaluation narcissist, narcissist nicknames, narcissist contempt, covert narcissist false full 272 Buzzsprout-19329530 You've Been Brainwashed! How Manipulators Train You to Never Leave Were you brainwashed to stay — and didn't even know it?

A cult doesn't need a compound, robes, or a manifesto. All it needs is two people: one who sets the rules and one who lives by them.

Dr. Kerry reads your most powerful wake-up moments — from the woman who recognized every cult trait laid down in the first three months of a nine-year relationship, to the viewer who grew up in a home where productivity meant safety, to the one who finally had a word for what she'd survived: brainwashed.

This isn't about missing the signs. It's about a system that was designed to make coercive control feel like love, devotion, and belonging. Have you been struggling to leave? Stop asking why you didn't see it sooner. Start asking if you were trained not to.

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]]> Thu, 11 Jun 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/youve-been-brainwashed-how-manipulators-train-you-to-never-leave/ Were you brainwashed to stay — and didn't even know it?

A cult doesn't need a compound, robes, or a manifesto. All it needs is two people: one who sets the rules and one who lives by them.

Dr. Kerry reads your most powerful wake-up moments — from the woman who recognized every cult trait laid down in the first three months of a nine-year relationship, to the viewer who grew up in a home where productivity meant safety, to the one who finally had a word for what she'd survived: brainwashed.

This isn't about missing the signs. It's about a system that was designed to make coercive control feel like love, devotion, and belonging. Have you been struggling to leave? Stop asking why you didn't see it sooner. Start asking if you were trained not to.

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]]> You've Been Brainwashed! How Manipulators Train You to Never Leave Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:09:10 Were you brainwashed to stay — and didn't even know it? A cult doesn't need a compound, robes, or a manifesto. All it needs is two people: one who sets the rules and one who lives by them. Dr. Kerry reads your most powerful wake-up moments — from the woman who recognized every cult trait laid down in the first three months of a nine-year relationship, to the viewer who grew up in a home where productivity meant safety, to the one who finally had a word for what she'd survived: br... Were you brainwashed to stay — and didn't even know it? A cult doesn't need a compound, robes, or a manifesto. All it needs is two people: one who sets the rules and one who lives by them. Dr. Kerry reads your most powerful wake-up moments — from the woman who recognized every cult trait laid down in the first three months of a nine-year relationship, to the viewer who grew up in a home where productivity meant safety, to the one who finally had a word for what she'd survived: br... narcissistic relationship, narcissistic abuse recovery, psychological abuse, cult of two, trauma bond, what is coercive control, narcissistic abuse, covert, gaslighting, emotional abuse, brainwashed to stay, brainwashing, trauma bonding, coercive control false full 271 Buzzsprout-19309984 Born into a Cult. Then Married a Narcissist. Is Coercive Control Stealing Your Life? Were you born into a cult — or did you unknowingly marry one?

If you've ever felt trapped, controlled, and unable to trust your own reality — whether in a religion, a family system, or a relationship — you may have been living inside a cult of two.

Narcissistic abuse operates through the same coercive control and psychological manipulation that keep cult members from ever questioning their reality.

Brooke Deanne, trauma healing mentor and author of Shattered, Broken and Beautiful, joins Dr. Kerry to share her remarkable survivor's story: 36 years inside a high-control religious cult, followed by 17 years married to a narcissist. Discover the chilling similarities between coercive control in relationships and cult indoctrination that make narcissistic abuse so hard to name.

Coercive control doesn't always look like abuse — sometimes it looks like devotion, duty, and belonging.

PODCAST EXTRA — EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT

Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse

If you've been in a narcissistic relationship, how do you finally release the shame? In this members-only bonus, discover Brooke Deanna’s full healing steps.

BROOKE DEANNE is a Trauma Healing Mentor, Rapid Transformational Therapist (RTT), and NLP Practitioner empowering female survivors of abuse and trauma to reclaim their lives by rewriting their stories via a holistic approach to access new levels of mind, body, and spirit integration. After overcoming her history of abuse as an ex-Jehovah’s Witness and toxic relationships, Brooke brings profound insight to her work as an advocate against religious abuse and domestic violence.

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]]> Mon, 8 Jun 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/born-into-a-cult-then-married-a-narcissist-is-coercive-control-stealing-your-life/ Were you born into a cult — or did you unknowingly marry one?

If you've ever felt trapped, controlled, and unable to trust your own reality — whether in a religion, a family system, or a relationship — you may have been living inside a cult of two.

Narcissistic abuse operates through the same coercive control and psychological manipulation that keep cult members from ever questioning their reality.

Brooke Deanne, trauma healing mentor and author of Shattered, Broken and Beautiful, joins Dr. Kerry to share her remarkable survivor's story: 36 years inside a high-control religious cult, followed by 17 years married to a narcissist. Discover the chilling similarities between coercive control in relationships and cult indoctrination that make narcissistic abuse so hard to name.

Coercive control doesn't always look like abuse — sometimes it looks like devotion, duty, and belonging.

PODCAST EXTRA — EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT

Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse

If you've been in a narcissistic relationship, how do you finally release the shame? In this members-only bonus, discover Brooke Deanna’s full healing steps.

BROOKE DEANNE is a Trauma Healing Mentor, Rapid Transformational Therapist (RTT), and NLP Practitioner empowering female survivors of abuse and trauma to reclaim their lives by rewriting their stories via a holistic approach to access new levels of mind, body, and spirit integration. After overcoming her history of abuse as an ex-Jehovah’s Witness and toxic relationships, Brooke brings profound insight to her work as an advocate against religious abuse and domestic violence.

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]]> Born into a Cult. Then Married a Narcissist. Is Coercive Control Stealing Your Life? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:28:49 Were you born into a cult — or did you unknowingly marry one? If you've ever felt trapped, controlled, and unable to trust your own reality — whether in a religion, a family system, or a relationship — you may have been living inside a cult of two. Narcissistic abuse operates through the same coercive control and psychological manipulation that keep cult members from ever questioning their reality. Brooke Deanne, trauma healing mentor and author of Shattered, Broken and Beau... Were you born into a cult — or did you unknowingly marry one? If you've ever felt trapped, controlled, and unable to trust your own reality — whether in a religion, a family system, or a relationship — you may have been living inside a cult of two. Narcissistic abuse operates through the same coercive control and psychological manipulation that keep cult members from ever questioning their reality. Brooke Deanne, trauma healing mentor and author of Shattered, Broken and Beau... domestic violence, manipulation tactics, toxic relationship, religious abuse, narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, narcissistic relationsh, emotional abuse, psychological manipulation, religious trauma, coercive control, relationship red flags, trauma healing false full 270 Buzzsprout-19279301 You Saw the Red Flags and Stayed Anyway. Here’s the Real Reason Why Why can you spot every red flag, name every tactic, and still find yourself in another toxic relationship?

A commenter recently wrote that she had been raised by three narcissists, married to one, dated another for five years, recently lost a friendship to one, and a former partner just resurfaced. She wrapped up by saying “the law of averages can't explain it. So what can?”

In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks why insight alone never sets survivors free.

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]]> Thu, 4 Jun 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/you-saw-the-red-flags-and-stayed-anyway-heres-the-real-reason-why/ Why can you spot every red flag, name every tactic, and still find yourself in another toxic relationship?

A commenter recently wrote that she had been raised by three narcissists, married to one, dated another for five years, recently lost a friendship to one, and a former partner just resurfaced. She wrapped up by saying “the law of averages can't explain it. So what can?”

In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks why insight alone never sets survivors free.

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]]> You Saw the Red Flags and Stayed Anyway. Here’s the Real Reason Why Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:08:26 Why can you spot every red flag, name every tactic, and still find yourself in another toxic relationship? A commenter recently wrote that she had been raised by three narcissists, married to one, dated another for five years, recently lost a friendship to one, and a former partner just resurfaced. She wrapped up by saying “the law of averages can't explain it. So what can?” In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks why insight alone never sets survivors free. Submit Your Question ... Why can you spot every red flag, name every tactic, and still find yourself in another toxic relationship? A commenter recently wrote that she had been raised by three narcissists, married to one, dated another for five years, recently lost a friendship to one, and a former partner just resurfaced. She wrapped up by saying “the law of averages can't explain it. So what can?” In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks why insight alone never sets survivors free. Submit Your Question ... red flags in relationships, darvo, toxic relationship, love bombing, trauma bond, narcissist manipulation, narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, emotional abuse, why do people stay in toxic relationships, toxic relationship psychology, toxic relationship signs false full 269 Buzzsprout-19262942 Nobody Taught Us What a Healthy Relationship Looks Like — Here's the Cost Nobody taught us what a healthy relationship should feel like. Not in school. Not in graduate training. Not in the culture we grew up in.

And that missing lesson? It's costing survivors years of confusion, repeat heartbreak, and an obsession with understanding the very people who harmed them.

This week marks a major shift for Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse. After a year of flying solo, Dr. Kerry welcomes Lynn Strathdee as her new co-host — a UK-based psychodynamic psychotherapist, echoism specialist, and survivor whose path to this work mirrors so many of yours.

Inside this episode:

  • How Kerry and Lynn met through echoism — and why their shared focus on the survivor's inner world changes everything
  • How free, violent porn rewired intimacy into rage
  • The Predator's Playbook: cobras, pit bulls, and the deliberate targeting of survivors  (Get your copy of the Predator's A-Z Playbook here!)
  • Why you can't stop talking about the abuser
PODCAST EXTRA — MEMBERS-ONLY BONUS SEGMENT

Why does studying the abuser feel productive but actually keep you stuck?

In this exclusive bonus, Lynn and Dr. Kerry break down the difference between understanding your abuser and healing from them — and the one shift that moves you from analysis to recovery.

Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse

LYNN STRATHDEE is a UK-based psychodynamic psychotherapist specializing in echoism, narcissistic abuse recovery, and the unconscious patterns that keep survivors stuck in repeating relationship cycles. A former educator turned therapist, Lynn brings both clinical training and lived experience to her private practice, where she works with clients online and in person. Her approach goes beyond surface-level psychoeducation to the deeper identity work that creates lasting change.

Lynn’s Website

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]]> Mon, 1 Jun 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/nobody-taught-us-what-a-healthy-relationship-looks-like-heres-the-cost/ Nobody taught us what a healthy relationship should feel like. Not in school. Not in graduate training. Not in the culture we grew up in.

And that missing lesson? It's costing survivors years of confusion, repeat heartbreak, and an obsession with understanding the very people who harmed them.

This week marks a major shift for Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse. After a year of flying solo, Dr. Kerry welcomes Lynn Strathdee as her new co-host — a UK-based psychodynamic psychotherapist, echoism specialist, and survivor whose path to this work mirrors so many of yours.

Inside this episode:

  • How Kerry and Lynn met through echoism — and why their shared focus on the survivor's inner world changes everything
  • How free, violent porn rewired intimacy into rage
  • The Predator's Playbook: cobras, pit bulls, and the deliberate targeting of survivors  (Get your copy of the Predator's A-Z Playbook here!)
  • Why you can't stop talking about the abuser
PODCAST EXTRA — MEMBERS-ONLY BONUS SEGMENT

Why does studying the abuser feel productive but actually keep you stuck?

In this exclusive bonus, Lynn and Dr. Kerry break down the difference between understanding your abuser and healing from them — and the one shift that moves you from analysis to recovery.

Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse

LYNN STRATHDEE is a UK-based psychodynamic psychotherapist specializing in echoism, narcissistic abuse recovery, and the unconscious patterns that keep survivors stuck in repeating relationship cycles. A former educator turned therapist, Lynn brings both clinical training and lived experience to her private practice, where she works with clients online and in person. Her approach goes beyond surface-level psychoeducation to the deeper identity work that creates lasting change.

Lynn’s Website

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]]> Nobody Taught Us What a Healthy Relationship Looks Like — Here's the Cost Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:25:41 Nobody taught us what a healthy relationship should feel like. Not in school. Not in graduate training. Not in the culture we grew up in. And that missing lesson? It's costing survivors years of confusion, repeat heartbreak, and an obsession with understanding the very people who harmed them. This week marks a major shift for Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse. After a year of flying solo, Dr. Kerry welcomes Lynn Strathdee as her new co-host — a UK-based psychodynamic psychoth... Nobody taught us what a healthy relationship should feel like. Not in school. Not in graduate training. Not in the culture we grew up in. And that missing lesson? It's costing survivors years of confusion, repeat heartbreak, and an obsession with understanding the very people who harmed them. This week marks a major shift for Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse. After a year of flying solo, Dr. Kerry welcomes Lynn Strathdee as her new co-host — a UK-based psychodynamic psychoth... toxic relationships, psychopaths, narcissistic abuse, power dynamics, predatory behavior, narcissists, predation false full 268 Buzzsprout-19246545 Alpine Divorce: When Narcissistic Abuse Turns Physically Dangerous Have you heard of an Alpine Divorce?

During a listener’s two-year marriage to a psychopath, her husband took her hiking and then left her clinging to a rock in gale-force winds while he filmed her terror and laughed. This is what’s commonly called an "Alpine Divorce."

It is also an example of malignant sadism.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks one of the most chilling tactics in a dangerous personality's playbook.

Learn how some abusers engineer life-threatening situations to trap their victims in forced dependency. Also, learn how environmental gaslighting (the weaponized use of weather, terrain, and wilderness) gives these dangerous individuals plausible deniability.

If you or someone you know has experienced this:

▸ Be sure to preserve the photos and videos as digital evidence of criminal behavior

▸ Consider seeking out a CPTSD-specialized clinician

▸ And the only safe path is total severance

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]]> Thu, 28 May 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/alpine-divorce-when-narcissistic-abuse-turns-physically-dangerous/ Have you heard of an Alpine Divorce?

During a listener’s two-year marriage to a psychopath, her husband took her hiking and then left her clinging to a rock in gale-force winds while he filmed her terror and laughed. This is what’s commonly called an "Alpine Divorce."

It is also an example of malignant sadism.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks one of the most chilling tactics in a dangerous personality's playbook.

Learn how some abusers engineer life-threatening situations to trap their victims in forced dependency. Also, learn how environmental gaslighting (the weaponized use of weather, terrain, and wilderness) gives these dangerous individuals plausible deniability.

If you or someone you know has experienced this:

▸ Be sure to preserve the photos and videos as digital evidence of criminal behavior

▸ Consider seeking out a CPTSD-specialized clinician

▸ And the only safe path is total severance

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]]> Alpine Divorce: When Narcissistic Abuse Turns Physically Dangerous Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:12:20 Have you heard of an Alpine Divorce? During a listener’s two-year marriage to a psychopath, her husband took her hiking and then left her clinging to a rock in gale-force winds while he filmed her terror and laughed. This is what’s commonly called an "Alpine Divorce." It is also an example of malignant sadism. In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks one of the most chilling tactics in a dangerous personality's playbook. Learn how some abusers engineer life-threatening situati... Have you heard of an Alpine Divorce? During a listener’s two-year marriage to a psychopath, her husband took her hiking and then left her clinging to a rock in gale-force winds while he filmed her terror and laughed. This is what’s commonly called an "Alpine Divorce." It is also an example of malignant sadism. In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks one of the most chilling tactics in a dangerous personality's playbook. Learn how some abusers engineer life-threatening situati... psychopath, narcissistic abuse, sadism, divorce, alpine divorce false full 267 Buzzsprout-19232818 Narcissists Are Waging a Secret War Against You: 5 Dark Psychology Experts Expose Their Tactics As we honor Memorial Day, there's another war, something that rages invisible, deliberate, and inside the most intimate relationships. This episode is dedicated to you.

In this special compilation,  5 world-class experts answer the questions survivors ask most:

How did I end up here? Why didn't I see it coming? And why was I the one chosen?

Discover how narcissists and dangerous personalities identify, groom, and trap their targets — and why your kindness, not your weakness, made you vulnerable to narcissistic abuse.

Enjoy a full complimentary Substack newsletter this week.

EXPERTS FEATURED
• Joe Navarro — Former FBI Special Agent & Author (Dangerous Personalities)
• Dr. Peter Salerno — Psychologist & Author
• Don Hennessy — Irish Psychotherapist & Author (How He Gets Into Her Head)
• Dr. Leslie Dobson — Clinical & Forensic Psychologist
• Dr. Peter Favaro — Forensic Psychologist & Author

#NarcissisticAbuse #NarcissistRecovery #EmotionalAbuse #CPTSD #DangerousPersonalities #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #Narcissism #ToxicRelationship

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]]> Mon, 25 May 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/narcissists-are-waging-a-secret-war-against-you-5-dark-psychology-experts-expose-their-tactics/ As we honor Memorial Day, there's another war, something that rages invisible, deliberate, and inside the most intimate relationships. This episode is dedicated to you.

In this special compilation,  5 world-class experts answer the questions survivors ask most:

How did I end up here? Why didn't I see it coming? And why was I the one chosen?

Discover how narcissists and dangerous personalities identify, groom, and trap their targets — and why your kindness, not your weakness, made you vulnerable to narcissistic abuse.

Enjoy a full complimentary Substack newsletter this week.

EXPERTS FEATURED
• Joe Navarro — Former FBI Special Agent & Author (Dangerous Personalities)
• Dr. Peter Salerno — Psychologist & Author
• Don Hennessy — Irish Psychotherapist & Author (How He Gets Into Her Head)
• Dr. Leslie Dobson — Clinical & Forensic Psychologist
• Dr. Peter Favaro — Forensic Psychologist & Author

#NarcissisticAbuse #NarcissistRecovery #EmotionalAbuse #CPTSD #DangerousPersonalities #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #Narcissism #ToxicRelationship

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]]> Narcissists Are Waging a Secret War Against You: 5 Dark Psychology Experts Expose Their Tactics Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:24:50 As we honor Memorial Day, there's another war, something that rages invisible, deliberate, and inside the most intimate relationships. This episode is dedicated to you. In this special compilation, 5 world-class experts answer the questions survivors ask most: How did I end up here? Why didn't I see it coming? And why was I the one chosen? Discover how narcissists and dangerous personalities identify, groom, and trap their targets — and why your kindness, not your weakness, mad... As we honor Memorial Day, there's another war, something that rages invisible, deliberate, and inside the most intimate relationships. This episode is dedicated to you. In this special compilation, 5 world-class experts answer the questions survivors ask most: How did I end up here? Why didn't I see it coming? And why was I the one chosen? Discover how narcissists and dangerous personalities identify, groom, and trap their targets — and why your kindness, not your weakness, mad... red flags, psychopaths, narcissistic abuse, manipulation strategies, predatory behavior, coercive control, power & control false full 266 Buzzsprout-19214508 Why Your Kids May Have Blamed You for the Narcissist's Abuse — and What to Do Now A listener from Texas writes in: after escaping a narcissistic marriage, her adult daughter is now demanding that she admit that she was an abuser too.

How does she reach her daughter now?

In this episode, Dr Kerry unpacks one of the most painful and least-talked-about consequences of narcissistic abuse — what happens to your children when you stay. How do you hold two devastating truths at the same time: you were a victim, and your child was hurt by your inability to leave?

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]]> Thu, 21 May 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-your-kids-may-have-blamed-you-for-the-narcissists-abuse-and-what-to-do-now/ A listener from Texas writes in: after escaping a narcissistic marriage, her adult daughter is now demanding that she admit that she was an abuser too.

How does she reach her daughter now?

In this episode, Dr Kerry unpacks one of the most painful and least-talked-about consequences of narcissistic abuse — what happens to your children when you stay. How do you hold two devastating truths at the same time: you were a victim, and your child was hurt by your inability to leave?

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]]> Why Your Kids May Have Blamed You for the Narcissist's Abuse — and What to Do Now Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:10:28 A listener from Texas writes in: after escaping a narcissistic marriage, her adult daughter is now demanding that she admit that she was an abuser too. How does she reach her daughter now? In this episode, Dr Kerry unpacks one of the most painful and least-talked-about consequences of narcissistic abuse — what happens to your children when you stay. How do you hold two devastating truths at the same time: you were a victim, and your child was hurt by your inability to leave? Subm... A listener from Texas writes in: after escaping a narcissistic marriage, her adult daughter is now demanding that she admit that she was an abuser too. How does she reach her daughter now? In this episode, Dr Kerry unpacks one of the most painful and least-talked-about consequences of narcissistic abuse — what happens to your children when you stay. How do you hold two devastating truths at the same time: you were a victim, and your child was hurt by your inability to leave? Subm... post-separation abuse, should i stay or leave, narcissistic abuse, toxic family dynamics, divorce, staying for the kids, childhood neglect false full 265 Buzzsprout-19191561 Childhood Neglect: The Hidden Damage From Narcissistic Families That Follows You Into Every Relationship Did you experience childhood neglect? If you keep repeating painful patterns in your relationships — choosing wrong partners, feeling invisible, never asking for what you need — this might be why.

Dr. Rachna Buxani, author of "Unseen," joins Dr. Kerry to expose the hidden roles children are assigned in narcissistic family systems — and the lasting damage those roles leave behind in every relationship you'll ever have.

Childhoos neglect doesn’t stay in childhood — it follows you.

PODCAST EXTRA — EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT
Were you the invisible child — and do you even know it yet?

Find Dr. Buxani's specific, practical steps for healing from childhood narcissistic abuse in the members-only bonus segment and weekly newsletter.

DR. RACHNA BUXANI-MIRPURI is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and National Certified Counselor with over 23 years of experience across the United States, Dubai, and the Cayman Islands. Known for her compassionate, culturally sensitive approach, she specializes in trauma, family dysfunction, and identity development. She is the founder of Buxani Counseling Care in Miami, a mental health advocate, and a board member of NAMI Miami-Dade. Her work extends to prisons, schools, and underserved communities, reflecting her deep commitment to accessible, inclusive care.

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]]> Mon, 18 May 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/childhood-neglect-the-hidden-damage-from-narcissistic-families-that-follows-you-into-every-relationship/ Did you experience childhood neglect? If you keep repeating painful patterns in your relationships — choosing wrong partners, feeling invisible, never asking for what you need — this might be why.

Dr. Rachna Buxani, author of "Unseen," joins Dr. Kerry to expose the hidden roles children are assigned in narcissistic family systems — and the lasting damage those roles leave behind in every relationship you'll ever have.

Childhoos neglect doesn’t stay in childhood — it follows you.

PODCAST EXTRA — EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT
Were you the invisible child — and do you even know it yet?

Find Dr. Buxani's specific, practical steps for healing from childhood narcissistic abuse in the members-only bonus segment and weekly newsletter.

DR. RACHNA BUXANI-MIRPURI is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and National Certified Counselor with over 23 years of experience across the United States, Dubai, and the Cayman Islands. Known for her compassionate, culturally sensitive approach, she specializes in trauma, family dysfunction, and identity development. She is the founder of Buxani Counseling Care in Miami, a mental health advocate, and a board member of NAMI Miami-Dade. Her work extends to prisons, schools, and underserved communities, reflecting her deep commitment to accessible, inclusive care.

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]]> Childhood Neglect: The Hidden Damage From Narcissistic Families That Follows You Into Every Relationship Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:27:52 Did you experience childhood neglect? If you keep repeating painful patterns in your relationships — choosing wrong partners, feeling invisible, never asking for what you need — this might be why. Dr. Rachna Buxani, author of "Unseen," joins Dr. Kerry to expose the hidden roles children are assigned in narcissistic family systems — and the lasting damage those roles leave behind in every relationship you'll ever have. Childhoos neglect doesn’t stay in childhood — it follows you. PODCAST E... Did you experience childhood neglect? If you keep repeating painful patterns in your relationships — choosing wrong partners, feeling invisible, never asking for what you need — this might be why. Dr. Rachna Buxani, author of "Unseen," joins Dr. Kerry to expose the hidden roles children are assigned in narcissistic family systems — and the lasting damage those roles leave behind in every relationship you'll ever have. Childhoos neglect doesn’t stay in childhood — it follows you. PODCAST E... golden child, inner child, dr. kerry mcavoy, narcissistic fathers, childhood abuse, family roles, narcissistic family, narcissistic mothers, mother wound, narcissism, scapegoat, lost child false full 264 Buzzsprout-19175080 The Real Reason You Can't Stop Snooping on Your Narcissistic Partner A YouTube viewer asks: What about someone's makeup drives them to snoop instead of simply addressing the red flags?

In this episode, Dr. Kerry digs deeper into a question raised in the February 19, 2026, Fan Mail segment, Feeling the Urge to Snoop on Your Partner? Here's What It's Really Telling You. Learn why victims of narcissistic abuse feel compelled to hunt for proof and why it never brings the relief you're looking for.

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]]> Thu, 14 May 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/the-real-reason-you-cant-stop-snooping-on-your-narcissistic-partner/ A YouTube viewer asks: What about someone's makeup drives them to snoop instead of simply addressing the red flags?

In this episode, Dr. Kerry digs deeper into a question raised in the February 19, 2026, Fan Mail segment, Feeling the Urge to Snoop on Your Partner? Here's What It's Really Telling You. Learn why victims of narcissistic abuse feel compelled to hunt for proof and why it never brings the relief you're looking for.

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]]> The Real Reason You Can't Stop Snooping on Your Narcissistic Partner Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:15:00 A YouTube viewer asks: What about someone's makeup drives them to snoop instead of simply addressing the red flags? In this episode, Dr. Kerry digs deeper into a question raised in the February 19, 2026, Fan Mail segment, Feeling the Urge to Snoop on Your Partner? Here's What It's Really Telling You. Learn why victims of narcissistic abuse feel compelled to hunt for proof and why it never brings the relief you're looking for. Submit Your Question If you'd like Dr. Kerry to answer your... A YouTube viewer asks: What about someone's makeup drives them to snoop instead of simply addressing the red flags? In this episode, Dr. Kerry digs deeper into a question raised in the February 19, 2026, Fan Mail segment, Feeling the Urge to Snoop on Your Partner? Here's What It's Really Telling You. Learn why victims of narcissistic abuse feel compelled to hunt for proof and why it never brings the relief you're looking for. Submit Your Question If you'd like Dr. Kerry to answer your... betrayal trauma, snooping, betrayal, narcissists false full 263 Buzzsprout-19146617 Dreading Their Next Message? How to Stop the Toxicity With a Narcissistic Co-Parent Are you bracing for impact when your phone buzzes?

Does every conversation turn into a nasty fight?

This week, Sol Kennedy joins Dr. Kerry to reveal why co-parenting is never get better when dealing with a narcissistic or an emotionally immature co-parent.

Learn why courts don't understand narcissistic co-parents will never become reasonable and why most co-parenting apps only make the conflict worse. Sol Kennedy shares how to take back control by changing the entire dynamic.

List of the latest AI Tools for Narcissistic Abuse survivors

PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT

Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse

You can divorce a spouse — but you can't quit your co-parent.  In this members-only bonus, Sol Kennedy goes deeper on how to set firm limits on when and how often your ex can reach you.

SOL KENNEDY is a technology entrepreneur and co-parenting advocate who built the first AI-powered co-parenting app after navigating his own high-conflict divorce. BestInterest has earned the backing of renowned narcissism expert Dr. Ramani Durvasula and is now used by co-parents, family law professionals, and therapists across the U.S. and Canada. Sol also hosts the podcast Co-Parenting Beyond Conflict.

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]]> Mon, 11 May 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/dreading-their-next-message-how-to-stop-the-toxicity-with-a-narcissistic-co-parent/ Are you bracing for impact when your phone buzzes?

Does every conversation turn into a nasty fight?

This week, Sol Kennedy joins Dr. Kerry to reveal why co-parenting is never get better when dealing with a narcissistic or an emotionally immature co-parent.

Learn why courts don't understand narcissistic co-parents will never become reasonable and why most co-parenting apps only make the conflict worse. Sol Kennedy shares how to take back control by changing the entire dynamic.

List of the latest AI Tools for Narcissistic Abuse survivors

PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT

Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse

You can divorce a spouse — but you can't quit your co-parent.  In this members-only bonus, Sol Kennedy goes deeper on how to set firm limits on when and how often your ex can reach you.

SOL KENNEDY is a technology entrepreneur and co-parenting advocate who built the first AI-powered co-parenting app after navigating his own high-conflict divorce. BestInterest has earned the backing of renowned narcissism expert Dr. Ramani Durvasula and is now used by co-parents, family law professionals, and therapists across the U.S. and Canada. Sol also hosts the podcast Co-Parenting Beyond Conflict.

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]]> Dreading Their Next Message? How to Stop the Toxicity With a Narcissistic Co-Parent Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:27:36 Are you bracing for impact when your phone buzzes? Does every conversation turn into a nasty fight? This week, Sol Kennedy joins Dr. Kerry to reveal why co-parenting is never get better when dealing with a narcissistic or an emotionally immature co-parent. Learn why courts don't understand narcissistic co-parents will never become reasonable and why most co-parenting apps only make the conflict worse. Sol Kennedy shares how to take back control by changing the entire dynamic. List... Are you bracing for impact when your phone buzzes? Does every conversation turn into a nasty fight? This week, Sol Kennedy joins Dr. Kerry to reveal why co-parenting is never get better when dealing with a narcissistic or an emotionally immature co-parent. Learn why courts don't understand narcissistic co-parents will never become reasonable and why most co-parenting apps only make the conflict worse. Sol Kennedy shares how to take back control by changing the entire dynamic. List... post-separation abuse, high conflict divorce, co-parenting false full 262 Buzzsprout-19138961 5 Years of Stalking Hell After an Interaction With a Neighbor What happens when a simple, healthy boundary triggers five years of stalking, dismantling your life?

A viewer declined an odd social interaction with a neighbor that then sparked a stalking campaign that has followed her and her 15-year-old daughter across state lines. Learn what’s called "street theater” and how these repeated tactics were ussd to make this victim sound crazy.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains:

• Why the public tends to dismiss extreme gang stalking stories

• How stalking can be carried out across states and social circles

• How to protect yourself and your sanity if you’re being stalking.

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]]> Thu, 7 May 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/5-years-of-stalking-hell-after-an-interaction-with-a-neighbor/ What happens when a simple, healthy boundary triggers five years of stalking, dismantling your life?

A viewer declined an odd social interaction with a neighbor that then sparked a stalking campaign that has followed her and her 15-year-old daughter across state lines. Learn what’s called "street theater” and how these repeated tactics were ussd to make this victim sound crazy.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains:

• Why the public tends to dismiss extreme gang stalking stories

• How stalking can be carried out across states and social circles

• How to protect yourself and your sanity if you’re being stalking.

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]]> 5 Years of Stalking Hell After an Interaction With a Neighbor Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:12:17 What happens when a simple, healthy boundary triggers five years of stalking, dismantling your life? A viewer declined an odd social interaction with a neighbor that then sparked a stalking campaign that has followed her and her 15-year-old daughter across state lines. Learn what’s called "street theater” and how these repeated tactics were ussd to make this victim sound crazy. In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains: • Why the public tends to dismiss extreme gang stalking stori... What happens when a simple, healthy boundary triggers five years of stalking, dismantling your life? A viewer declined an odd social interaction with a neighbor that then sparked a stalking campaign that has followed her and her 15-year-old daughter across state lines. Learn what’s called "street theater” and how these repeated tactics were ussd to make this victim sound crazy. In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains: • Why the public tends to dismiss extreme gang stalking stori... manipulation, stalking, narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse, street theater, flying monkeys false full 261 Buzzsprout-19109260 Confessions of a Womanizer: "How I Became a Narcissist's Perfect Victim" What happens when the man who spent years love bombing and manipulating women becomes the victim of the very same tactics?

This week, Wade Belair joins Dr. Kerry for a raw, unflinching conversation about the shocking overlap between closeted men and narcissistic abuse — and what genuine healing actually requires.

Wade grew up the privileged son of an iconic retail brand founder — raised in an elite, hyper-masculine culture where conquest was currency, and vulnerability was weakness. He played the role perfectly for years: closeted, love bombing women, while living a dangerous double life.

Now openly gay and two years out of a narcissistic abuse relationship, Wade speaks candidly about what it looks like when repression mimics narcissism and what real change actually requires.

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Are you dating a man living a double life — and missing all the signs?

In this members-only bonus, Wade and Dr. Kerry break down exactly what to watch for in a man who may be closeted or on the DL, and why the red flags so often get buried under love bombing.

More About Wade:  Instagram

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]]> Mon, 4 May 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/confessions-of-a-womanizer-how-i-became-a-narcissists-perfect-victim/ What happens when the man who spent years love bombing and manipulating women becomes the victim of the very same tactics?

This week, Wade Belair joins Dr. Kerry for a raw, unflinching conversation about the shocking overlap between closeted men and narcissistic abuse — and what genuine healing actually requires.

Wade grew up the privileged son of an iconic retail brand founder — raised in an elite, hyper-masculine culture where conquest was currency, and vulnerability was weakness. He played the role perfectly for years: closeted, love bombing women, while living a dangerous double life.

Now openly gay and two years out of a narcissistic abuse relationship, Wade speaks candidly about what it looks like when repression mimics narcissism and what real change actually requires.

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In this members-only bonus, Wade and Dr. Kerry break down exactly what to watch for in a man who may be closeted or on the DL, and why the red flags so often get buried under love bombing.

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]]> Confessions of a Womanizer: "How I Became a Narcissist's Perfect Victim" Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:45:03 What happens when the man who spent years love bombing and manipulating women becomes the victim of the very same tactics? This week, Wade Belair joins Dr. Kerry for a raw, unflinching conversation about the shocking overlap between closeted men and narcissistic abuse — and what genuine healing actually requires. Wade grew up the privileged son of an iconic retail brand founder — raised in an elite, hyper-masculine culture where conquest was currency, and vulnerability was weakness. He play... What happens when the man who spent years love bombing and manipulating women becomes the victim of the very same tactics? This week, Wade Belair joins Dr. Kerry for a raw, unflinching conversation about the shocking overlap between closeted men and narcissistic abuse — and what genuine healing actually requires. Wade grew up the privileged son of an iconic retail brand founder — raised in an elite, hyper-masculine culture where conquest was currency, and vulnerability was weakness. He play... lgbtq relationships, manipulation tactics, toxic relationships, narcissistic abuse recovery, double life, love bombing, red flags, closeted men, healing from narcissism, survivor stories, emotional abuse, male narcissism false full 260 Buzzsprout-19098003 The Dark Truth About Growing Up Without a Mother’s Love A listener from Australia writes in: "l have been jealous of women who are loved unconditionally because being raised by a mother who cannot or does not love you, fully and completely without condition, entangles every aspect of you until many women are seething with anger, confusion, and hate."

In this episode, Kerry McAvoy, PhD explores why the mother wound - the emotional neglect left by a mother who withheld unconditional love - runs so deep. Whether your mother was narcissistic, emotionally unavailable, or simply unable to love fully, the childhood trauma it creates shapes your identity, your relationships, and your self-worth.

That jealousy you feel toward women with loving mothers? It may actually be grief in disguise.

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]]> Thu, 30 Apr 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/the-dark-truth-about-growing-up-without-a-mothers-love/ A listener from Australia writes in: "l have been jealous of women who are loved unconditionally because being raised by a mother who cannot or does not love you, fully and completely without condition, entangles every aspect of you until many women are seething with anger, confusion, and hate."

In this episode, Kerry McAvoy, PhD explores why the mother wound - the emotional neglect left by a mother who withheld unconditional love - runs so deep. Whether your mother was narcissistic, emotionally unavailable, or simply unable to love fully, the childhood trauma it creates shapes your identity, your relationships, and your self-worth.

That jealousy you feel toward women with loving mothers? It may actually be grief in disguise.

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]]> The Dark Truth About Growing Up Without a Mother’s Love Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:07:52 A listener from Australia writes in: "l have been jealous of women who are loved unconditionally because being raised by a mother who cannot or does not love you, fully and completely without condition, entangles every aspect of you until many women are seething with anger, confusion, and hate." In this episode, Kerry McAvoy, PhD explores why the mother wound - the emotional neglect left by a mother who withheld unconditional love - runs so deep. Whether your mother was narcissistic, em... A listener from Australia writes in: "l have been jealous of women who are loved unconditionally because being raised by a mother who cannot or does not love you, fully and completely without condition, entangles every aspect of you until many women are seething with anger, confusion, and hate." In this episode, Kerry McAvoy, PhD explores why the mother wound - the emotional neglect left by a mother who withheld unconditional love - runs so deep. Whether your mother was narcissistic, em... toxic mother, identity, emotional neglect, emotionally unavailable mother, healing from childhood trauma, unconditional love, childhood trauma, narcissistic mother, mother wound, self-worth, grief, inner child healing false full 259 Buzzsprout-19064242 Why We Fail to See the Warning Signs When Women Become Dangerous (feat. Anna Motz) Why are we more afraid of a violent woman than a violent man, even though men commit the vast majority of violent crimes?

This week, forensic and clinical psychologist Anna Motz joins Dr. Kerry to pull back the curtain on one of society's most carefully avoided truths: women are capable of real violence, and we've been trained not to see it.

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ANNA MOTZ is a consultant clinical and forensic psychologist with decades of experience working with violent women in prisons, secure units, and child protection settings across the UK. She is the author of If Love Could Kill: The Myths and Truths About Women Who Commit Violence.

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]]> Mon, 27 Apr 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-we-fail-to-see-the-warning-signs-when-women-become-dangerous-feat-anna-motz/ Why are we more afraid of a violent woman than a violent man, even though men commit the vast majority of violent crimes?

This week, forensic and clinical psychologist Anna Motz joins Dr. Kerry to pull back the curtain on one of society's most carefully avoided truths: women are capable of real violence, and we've been trained not to see it.

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What are the warning signs that a woman is moving toward danger — and why do we keep missing them? In this members-only bonus, Anna and Dr. Kerry break down exactly what to look for and why our instincts fail us.

ANNA MOTZ is a consultant clinical and forensic psychologist with decades of experience working with violent women in prisons, secure units, and child protection settings across the UK. She is the author of If Love Could Kill: The Myths and Truths About Women Who Commit Violence.

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]]> Why We Fail to See the Warning Signs When Women Become Dangerous (feat. Anna Motz) Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:38:12 Why are we more afraid of a violent woman than a violent man, even though men commit the vast majority of violent crimes? This week, forensic and clinical psychologist Anna Motz joins Dr. Kerry to pull back the curtain on one of society's most carefully avoided truths: women are capable of real violence, and we've been trained not to see it. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabu... Why are we more afraid of a violent woman than a violent man, even though men commit the vast majority of violent crimes? This week, forensic and clinical psychologist Anna Motz joins Dr. Kerry to pull back the curtain on one of society's most carefully avoided truths: women are capable of real violence, and we've been trained not to see it. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabu... domestic violence, female violence, female abusers, forensic psychology, anna motz, women and aggression, narcissistic women, women who abuse, breaking free from narcissistic abuse, psychology of violence, violent women, female perpetrators false full 258 Buzzsprout-19060685 When You Finally Leave—Why a Narcissist Becomes a "Monster” If you're experiencing betrayal trauma after discovering your spouse's secret life, how do you finally leave a long-term narcissistic partner without triggering their rage?

A listener from the US writes in, "We've been in and out of therapy for 7 years trying to save our marriage. Two months ago I found out he wasn't sober again. I left and I'm now living with my mother. How do I get out without him turning into a monster? I need strength. I need to be done."

In this episode, Kerry McAvoy, PhD explains why leaving a long-term narcissistic relationship feels nearly impossible. Learn the practical steps to protect yourself legally, financially, and emotionally as you finally walk away for good.

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]]> Thu, 23 Apr 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-you-finally-leave-why-a-narcissist-becomes-a-monster/ If you're experiencing betrayal trauma after discovering your spouse's secret life, how do you finally leave a long-term narcissistic partner without triggering their rage?

A listener from the US writes in, "We've been in and out of therapy for 7 years trying to save our marriage. Two months ago I found out he wasn't sober again. I left and I'm now living with my mother. How do I get out without him turning into a monster? I need strength. I need to be done."

In this episode, Kerry McAvoy, PhD explains why leaving a long-term narcissistic relationship feels nearly impossible. Learn the practical steps to protect yourself legally, financially, and emotionally as you finally walk away for good.

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]]> When You Finally Leave—Why a Narcissist Becomes a "Monster” Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:08:23 If you're experiencing betrayal trauma after discovering your spouse's secret life, how do you finally leave a long-term narcissistic partner without triggering their rage? A listener from the US writes in, "We've been in and out of therapy for 7 years trying to save our marriage. Two months ago I found out he wasn't sober again. I left and I'm now living with my mother. How do I get out without him turning into a monster? I need strength. I need to be done." In this episode, Kerr... If you're experiencing betrayal trauma after discovering your spouse's secret life, how do you finally leave a long-term narcissistic partner without triggering their rage? A listener from the US writes in, "We've been in and out of therapy for 7 years trying to save our marriage. Two months ago I found out he wasn't sober again. I left and I'm now living with my mother. How do I get out without him turning into a monster? I need strength. I need to be done." In this episode, Kerr... how to leave a narcissist, narcissistic rage, long-term narcissistic relationship, betrayal trauma, covert narcissism, emotional abuse recovery, financial abuse, divorce a narcissist, leaving a narcissist, protecting yourself from a narcissist, legal prot false full 257 Buzzsprout-19019736 Keep Finding Yourself in the Same Toxic Relationships? How to Break the Pattern Have you ever looked back at your relationships and realized they all feel disturbingly familiar?

That's not a coincidence — it's your relationship blueprint at work.

This week, therapist, bestselling author of Why Do I Keep Doing This?, and mental health YouTuber Kati Morton joins Dr. Kerry to break down why so many of us keep repeating toxic relationship patterns — and what it actually takes to rewrite them. Together, they unpack the attachment theory, childhood blueprints, people-pleasing dynamics, and trauma bonding that keep you stuck in cycles you can't explain.

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Why do certain people expect you to manage their emotions for them — and never learn to do it themselves? In this members-only bonus, Kati and Dr. Kerry flip the dynamic and explore the other side of the pattern.

KATI MORTON is a licensed marriage and family therapist, bestselling author, and one of YouTube's most trusted voices in mental health. Her newest book, Why Do I Keep Doing This, is her most personal yet — a candid look at her own healing journey and the relational patterns she's had to confront in her own life. She also hosts the weekly podcast Ask Kati Anything.

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]]> Mon, 20 Apr 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/keep-finding-yourself-in-the-same-toxic-relationships-how-to-break-the-pattern/ Have you ever looked back at your relationships and realized they all feel disturbingly familiar?

That's not a coincidence — it's your relationship blueprint at work.

This week, therapist, bestselling author of Why Do I Keep Doing This?, and mental health YouTuber Kati Morton joins Dr. Kerry to break down why so many of us keep repeating toxic relationship patterns — and what it actually takes to rewrite them. Together, they unpack the attachment theory, childhood blueprints, people-pleasing dynamics, and trauma bonding that keep you stuck in cycles you can't explain.

PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT  

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Why do certain people expect you to manage their emotions for them — and never learn to do it themselves? In this members-only bonus, Kati and Dr. Kerry flip the dynamic and explore the other side of the pattern.

KATI MORTON is a licensed marriage and family therapist, bestselling author, and one of YouTube's most trusted voices in mental health. Her newest book, Why Do I Keep Doing This, is her most personal yet — a candid look at her own healing journey and the relational patterns she's had to confront in her own life. She also hosts the weekly podcast Ask Kati Anything.

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]]> Keep Finding Yourself in the Same Toxic Relationships? How to Break the Pattern Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:31:47 Have you ever looked back at your relationships and realized they all feel disturbingly familiar? That's not a coincidence — it's your relationship blueprint at work. This week, therapist, bestselling author of Why Do I Keep Doing This?, and mental health YouTuber Kati Morton joins Dr. Kerry to break down why so many of us keep repeating toxic relationship patterns — and what it actually takes to rewrite them. Together, they unpack the attachment theory, childhood blueprints, peo... Have you ever looked back at your relationships and realized they all feel disturbingly familiar? That's not a coincidence — it's your relationship blueprint at work. This week, therapist, bestselling author of Why Do I Keep Doing This?, and mental health YouTuber Kati Morton joins Dr. Kerry to break down why so many of us keep repeating toxic relationship patterns — and what it actually takes to rewrite them. Together, they unpack the attachment theory, childhood blueprints, peo... toxic relationship, toxic relationships, mental health, relationship advice, self help, narcissistic abuse, people pleasing, relationships, kati morton false full 256 Buzzsprout-19019720 Is Your Partner Hiding Money? How Narcissists Use Finances to Control You Why does a partner hide money, and is it always a sign of financial abuse?

A viewer from the US writes in, "He is very good at hiding money using apps and credit cards. How do I find out what he's hiding?"

In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down the difference between financial secrecy and financial abuse and how to reclaim your power in an unsafe relationship.

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]]> Thu, 16 Apr 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-your-partner-hiding-money-how-narcissists-use-finances-to-control-you/ Why does a partner hide money, and is it always a sign of financial abuse?

A viewer from the US writes in, "He is very good at hiding money using apps and credit cards. How do I find out what he's hiding?"

In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down the difference between financial secrecy and financial abuse and how to reclaim your power in an unsafe relationship.

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]]> Is Your Partner Hiding Money? How Narcissists Use Finances to Control You Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:06:33 Why does a partner hide money, and is it always a sign of financial abuse? A viewer from the US writes in, "He is very good at hiding money using apps and credit cards. How do I find out what he's hiding?" In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down the difference between financial secrecy and financial abuse and how to reclaim your power in an unsafe relationship. Submit Your Question If you'd like Dr. Kerry to answer your question on air, email it to clients@kerrymcavoyphd.com ... Why does a partner hide money, and is it always a sign of financial abuse? A viewer from the US writes in, "He is very good at hiding money using apps and credit cards. How do I find out what he's hiding?" In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down the difference between financial secrecy and financial abuse and how to reclaim your power in an unsafe relationship. Submit Your Question If you'd like Dr. Kerry to answer your question on air, email it to clients@kerrymcavoyphd.com ... relationship advice, hiding money, narcissism, financial abuse, relationship dynamics false full 255 Buzzsprout-18994798 Why Covert Narcissists Always Make You Feel Guilty (Even When You've Done Nothing Wrong) Covert narcissism (NPD) is the hardest form of narcissistic abuse to identify — and the most damaging.

Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling like you did something wrong — even though you can't quite explain what?

In this episode, Dr. Kerry McAvoy sits down with Dr. Anthony Mazzella (The Narcissism Decoder) to break down exactly how covert narcissists use guilt and victimhood to keep you trapped.

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Think you might already be in one of these relationships? Dr. Mazzella and Dr. Kerry walk you through the internal warning signs — including the FOG of Fear, Obligation, and Guilt.

DR. ANTHONY MAZZELLA is a psychotherapist & psychoanalyst, educator, and podcaster who conducts research and lectures across the country. While his focus with his patients is psychodynamic in nature, his main goals are to build a trusting relationship and help each patient reduce the frequency and intensity of their emotional painful thoughts and suffering. He helps his patients overcome both acute and long-standing problems that may be more imbedded in their personality.

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]]> Mon, 13 Apr 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-covert-narcissists-always-make-you-feel-guilty-even-when-youve-done-nothing-wrong/ Covert narcissism (NPD) is the hardest form of narcissistic abuse to identify — and the most damaging.

Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling like you did something wrong — even though you can't quite explain what?

In this episode, Dr. Kerry McAvoy sits down with Dr. Anthony Mazzella (The Narcissism Decoder) to break down exactly how covert narcissists use guilt and victimhood to keep you trapped.

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Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse

Think you might already be in one of these relationships? Dr. Mazzella and Dr. Kerry walk you through the internal warning signs — including the FOG of Fear, Obligation, and Guilt.

DR. ANTHONY MAZZELLA is a psychotherapist & psychoanalyst, educator, and podcaster who conducts research and lectures across the country. While his focus with his patients is psychodynamic in nature, his main goals are to build a trusting relationship and help each patient reduce the frequency and intensity of their emotional painful thoughts and suffering. He helps his patients overcome both acute and long-standing problems that may be more imbedded in their personality.

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]]> Why Covert Narcissists Always Make You Feel Guilty (Even When You've Done Nothing Wrong) Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:33:49 Covert narcissism (NPD) is the hardest form of narcissistic abuse to identify — and the most damaging. Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling like you did something wrong — even though you can't quite explain what? In this episode, Dr. Kerry McAvoy sits down with Dr. Anthony Mazzella (The Narcissism Decoder) to break down exactly how covert narcissists use guilt and victimhood to keep you trapped. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive secon... Covert narcissism (NPD) is the hardest form of narcissistic abuse to identify — and the most damaging. Have you ever walked away from a conversation feeling like you did something wrong — even though you can't quite explain what? In this episode, Dr. Kerry McAvoy sits down with Dr. Anthony Mazzella (The Narcissism Decoder) to break down exactly how covert narcissists use guilt and victimhood to keep you trapped. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive secon... narcissistic abuse, npd, covert narcissism, narcissism false full 254 Buzzsprout-18987333 Why Narcissists Always Make Their Victims Look Unhinged Why does the person who calls out a narcissist end up looking like the unhinged one?

A Facebook follower writes in, "Why does the person recognizing and confronting the narcissistic behavior often appear unhinged to everyone else?" In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissists always appear calm and credible while their victims come across as unstable.

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]]> Thu, 9 Apr 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-narcissists-always-make-their-victims-look-unhinged/ Why does the person who calls out a narcissist end up looking like the unhinged one?

A Facebook follower writes in, "Why does the person recognizing and confronting the narcissistic behavior often appear unhinged to everyone else?" In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissists always appear calm and credible while their victims come across as unstable.

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]]> Why Narcissists Always Make Their Victims Look Unhinged Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:08:39 Why does the person who calls out a narcissist end up looking like the unhinged one? A Facebook follower writes in, "Why does the person recognizing and confronting the narcissistic behavior often appear unhinged to everyone else?" In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissists always appear calm and credible while their victims come across as unstable. Submit Your Question If you'd like Dr. Kerry to answer your question on air, email it to clients@kerrymcavoyphd.com or... Why does the person who calls out a narcissist end up looking like the unhinged one? A Facebook follower writes in, "Why does the person recognizing and confronting the narcissistic behavior often appear unhinged to everyone else?" In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissists always appear calm and credible while their victims come across as unstable. Submit Your Question If you'd like Dr. Kerry to answer your question on air, email it to clients@kerrymcavoyphd.com or... narcissistic abuse, relationships, narcissism, power & control false full 253 Buzzsprout-18965164 The #1 Mistake People Make When Divorcing a Narcissist Are you walking into your divorce expecting the court to finally see the truth about your narcissistic ex?

This week, divorce attorney Hannah Bell Hembree joins Dr. Kerry to pull back the curtain on what really happens in the courtroom when you're leaving a narcissist. With nearly two decades of legal experience and her own custody battle behind her, Hannah shares the hard truths every survivor needs to hear before they file.

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HANNAH BELL HEMBREE is a divorce attorney based in Austin, Texas, where she leads a firm of nearly 50 people dedicated to helping marriages end well. She is also the founder of the My Confident Life Circle, an online community supporting women through divorce and beyond, and the host of the new podcast Not Saving It for Later. Drawing on her own experience navigating divorce and two custody modifications, Hannah equips women with the practical strategies and mindset shifts they need to protect their kids, their money, and their sanity.

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]]> Mon, 6 Apr 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/the-1-mistake-people-make-when-divorcing-a-narcissist/ Are you walking into your divorce expecting the court to finally see the truth about your narcissistic ex?

This week, divorce attorney Hannah Bell Hembree joins Dr. Kerry to pull back the curtain on what really happens in the courtroom when you're leaving a narcissist. With nearly two decades of legal experience and her own custody battle behind her, Hannah shares the hard truths every survivor needs to hear before they file.

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HANNAH BELL HEMBREE is a divorce attorney based in Austin, Texas, where she leads a firm of nearly 50 people dedicated to helping marriages end well. She is also the founder of the My Confident Life Circle, an online community supporting women through divorce and beyond, and the host of the new podcast Not Saving It for Later. Drawing on her own experience navigating divorce and two custody modifications, Hannah equips women with the practical strategies and mindset shifts they need to protect their kids, their money, and their sanity.

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]]> The #1 Mistake People Make When Divorcing a Narcissist Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:37:31 Are you walking into your divorce expecting the court to finally see the truth about your narcissistic ex? This week, divorce attorney Hannah Bell Hembree joins Dr. Kerry to pull back the curtain on what really happens in the courtroom when you're leaving a narcissist. With nearly two decades of legal experience and her own custody battle behind her, Hannah shares the hard truths every survivor needs to hear before they file. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusiv... Are you walking into your divorce expecting the court to finally see the truth about your narcissistic ex? This week, divorce attorney Hannah Bell Hembree joins Dr. Kerry to pull back the curtain on what really happens in the courtroom when you're leaving a narcissist. With nearly two decades of legal experience and her own custody battle behind her, Hannah shares the hard truths every survivor needs to hear before they file. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusiv... post separation abuse, narcissistic abuse, narcissists, divorce false full 252 Buzzsprout-18948725 How to Help a Friend Who Can't Walk Away from a Narcissistic Relationship My best friend divorced her narcissistic ex two months ago — but she keeps talking to him, then ignoring him, then reaching out again. She says she wants to move on, but she can't seem to break the cycle.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why leaving a narcissist doesn't automatically break the trauma bond — and what's really driving the painful push-pull your friend can't escape. Learn how to support someone you love through this without shaming, lecturing, or pushing them further away.

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]]> Thu, 2 Apr 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-to-help-a-friend-who-cant-walk-away-from-a-narcissistic-relationship/ My best friend divorced her narcissistic ex two months ago — but she keeps talking to him, then ignoring him, then reaching out again. She says she wants to move on, but she can't seem to break the cycle.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why leaving a narcissist doesn't automatically break the trauma bond — and what's really driving the painful push-pull your friend can't escape. Learn how to support someone you love through this without shaming, lecturing, or pushing them further away.

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]]> How to Help a Friend Who Can't Walk Away from a Narcissistic Relationship Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:08:48 My best friend divorced her narcissistic ex two months ago — but she keeps talking to him, then ignoring him, then reaching out again. She says she wants to move on, but she can't seem to break the cycle. In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why leaving a narcissist doesn't automatically break the trauma bond — and what's really driving the painful push-pull your friend can't escape. Learn how to support someone you love through this without shaming, lecturing, or pushing them further aw... My best friend divorced her narcissistic ex two months ago — but she keeps talking to him, then ignoring him, then reaching out again. She says she wants to move on, but she can't seem to break the cycle. In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why leaving a narcissist doesn't automatically break the trauma bond — and what's really driving the painful push-pull your friend can't escape. Learn how to support someone you love through this without shaming, lecturing, or pushing them further aw... post-separation abuse, trauma bond, hoovering false full 251 Buzzsprout-18921113 The Scary Reason Why Gaslighting Actually Works (And You’re a Part of the Problem) Have you ever tried to walk away from a toxic person, only to find yourself right back in the middle of their reality?

This week, Dr. Robin Stern (author of The Gaslight Effect) joins Dr. Kerry for a conversation that will change how you view manipulation. Most people think gaslighting is just about lying—but the truth is much darker. It’s a "relational mess" that requires two people to function.

Previous Interviews with Dr. Stern

What's wrong with me? The Power of Gaslighting to Confuse and Control: Interview with Dr. Robin Stern

Breaking Chains: Dr. Kerry McAvoy's Triumph Over Marital Gaslighting and Narcissism

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Dr. Stern shares the shift that breaks the cycle for good: "Don't allow somebody to matter more than you matter."

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• The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide: https://amzn.to/40qzc0B

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Dr. Robin Stern, Ph.D., is a licensed psychoanalyst, Co-Founder and Senior Advisor to the Director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, and one of the world's leading authorities on gaslighting. She is the author of The Gaslight Effect and host of The Gaslight Effect Podcast.

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]]> Mon, 30 Mar 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/the-scary-reason-why-gaslighting-actually-works-and-youre-a-part-of-the-problem/ Have you ever tried to walk away from a toxic person, only to find yourself right back in the middle of their reality?

This week, Dr. Robin Stern (author of The Gaslight Effect) joins Dr. Kerry for a conversation that will change how you view manipulation. Most people think gaslighting is just about lying—but the truth is much darker. It’s a "relational mess" that requires two people to function.

Previous Interviews with Dr. Stern

What's wrong with me? The Power of Gaslighting to Confuse and Control: Interview with Dr. Robin Stern

Breaking Chains: Dr. Kerry McAvoy's Triumph Over Marital Gaslighting and Narcissism

PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT

Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here.

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Dr. Stern shares the shift that breaks the cycle for good: "Don't allow somebody to matter more than you matter."

In this members-only bonus, Dr. Stern and Dr. Kerry unpack how to stay open and connected in relationships without surrendering yourself in the process.

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DR. STERN'S BOOKS

• The Gaslight Effect: How to Spot and Survive the Hidden Manipulation Others Use to Control Your Life: https://amzn.to/4b50aRu

• The Gaslight Effect Recovery Guide: https://amzn.to/40qzc0B

MORE ABOUT DR. ROBIN STERN

Dr. Robin Stern, Ph.D., is a licensed psychoanalyst, Co-Founder and Senior Advisor to the Director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence, and one of the world's leading authorities on gaslighting. She is the author of The Gaslight Effect and host of The Gaslight Effect Podcast.

Website: robinstern.com

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]]> The Scary Reason Why Gaslighting Actually Works (And You’re a Part of the Problem) Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:23:12 Have you ever tried to walk away from a toxic person, only to find yourself right back in the middle of their reality? This week, Dr. Robin Stern (author of The Gaslight Effect) joins Dr. Kerry for a conversation that will change how you view manipulation. Most people think gaslighting is just about lying—but the truth is much darker. It’s a "relational mess" that requires two people to function. Previous Interviews with Dr. Stern What's wrong with me? The Power of Gaslighting to Confuse and ... Have you ever tried to walk away from a toxic person, only to find yourself right back in the middle of their reality? This week, Dr. Robin Stern (author of The Gaslight Effect) joins Dr. Kerry for a conversation that will change how you view manipulation. Most people think gaslighting is just about lying—but the truth is much darker. It’s a "relational mess" that requires two people to function. Previous Interviews with Dr. Stern What's wrong with me? The Power of Gaslighting to Confuse and ... relationship power dynamics, narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, betrayal false full 250 Buzzsprout-18910163 Do Narcissists Enjoy Hurting You? Here's Dr. Kerry's Hard Truth Why does someone who divorces a narcissist keep going back to them?

A listener writes in, “My best friend divorced her narcissistic ex two months ago — but she keeps talking to him, then ignoring him, then reaching out again. She says she wants to move on, but she can't seem to break the cycle.”

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]]> Thu, 26 Mar 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/do-narcissists-enjoy-hurting-you-heres-dr-kerrys-hard-truth/ Why does someone who divorces a narcissist keep going back to them?

A listener writes in, “My best friend divorced her narcissistic ex two months ago — but she keeps talking to him, then ignoring him, then reaching out again. She says she wants to move on, but she can't seem to break the cycle.”

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why leaving a narcissist doesn't automatically break the trauma bond and why survivors struggle to escape.

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]]> Do Narcissists Enjoy Hurting You? Here's Dr. Kerry's Hard Truth Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:07:19 Why does someone who divorces a narcissist keep going back to them? A listener writes in, “My best friend divorced her narcissistic ex two months ago — but she keeps talking to him, then ignoring him, then reaching out again. She says she wants to move on, but she can't seem to break the cycle.” In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why leaving a narcissist doesn't automatically break the trauma bond and why survivors struggle to escape. Submit Your Question If you'd l... Why does someone who divorces a narcissist keep going back to them? A listener writes in, “My best friend divorced her narcissistic ex two months ago — but she keeps talking to him, then ignoring him, then reaching out again. She says she wants to move on, but she can't seem to break the cycle.” In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why leaving a narcissist doesn't automatically break the trauma bond and why survivors struggle to escape. Submit Your Question If you'd l... narcissistic abuse, emotional abuse, sadism false full 249 Buzzsprout-18883933 How to Tell You've Met a Narcissist: Coach Dan Ratner's Best Sniff Test Have you ever felt completely drained after spending time with certain people in your life?

This week, Coach Dan Ratner joins Dr. Kerry to explore the hidden world of emotional vampires: the 12 types of energy-draining people we all have in our lives and why narcissists are the most dangerous of them all. Dan shares his powerful KEEPER framework for identifying who truly deserves a place in your life.

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Already know you have an emotional vampire in your life? Here's what to do next.

Coach Dan breaks down practical strategies for managing toxic people you can't simply cut out — from family members to coworkers — and how to protect your emotional energy without blowing everything up.

DANIEL RATNER is a relationship coach, speaker, and author helping people build healthier connections by recognizing draining patterns and setting stronger boundaries. A former entrepreneur turned personal growth expert, he is the author of Infinite Marriage and The Ten Secrets to a Passionate Marriage, with his upcoming book, Emotional Vampires, teaching readers how to protect their happiness from toxic people. Through his coaching, books, and public talks, Daniel provides clear, practical tools for improving self-esteem, cultivating "keepers," and creating relationships that fuel joy.

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]]> Mon, 23 Mar 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-to-tell-youve-met-a-narcissist-coach-dan-ratners-best-sniff-test/ Have you ever felt completely drained after spending time with certain people in your life?

This week, Coach Dan Ratner joins Dr. Kerry to explore the hidden world of emotional vampires: the 12 types of energy-draining people we all have in our lives and why narcissists are the most dangerous of them all. Dan shares his powerful KEEPER framework for identifying who truly deserves a place in your life.

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Already know you have an emotional vampire in your life? Here's what to do next.

Coach Dan breaks down practical strategies for managing toxic people you can't simply cut out — from family members to coworkers — and how to protect your emotional energy without blowing everything up.

DANIEL RATNER is a relationship coach, speaker, and author helping people build healthier connections by recognizing draining patterns and setting stronger boundaries. A former entrepreneur turned personal growth expert, he is the author of Infinite Marriage and The Ten Secrets to a Passionate Marriage, with his upcoming book, Emotional Vampires, teaching readers how to protect their happiness from toxic people. Through his coaching, books, and public talks, Daniel provides clear, practical tools for improving self-esteem, cultivating "keepers," and creating relationships that fuel joy.

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]]> How to Tell You've Met a Narcissist: Coach Dan Ratner's Best Sniff Test Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:32:29 Have you ever felt completely drained after spending time with certain people in your life? This week, Coach Dan Ratner joins Dr. Kerry to explore the hidden world of emotional vampires: the 12 types of energy-draining people we all have in our lives and why narcissists are the most dangerous of them all. Dan shares his powerful KEEPER framework for identifying who truly deserves a place in your life. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and week... Have you ever felt completely drained after spending time with certain people in your life? This week, Coach Dan Ratner joins Dr. Kerry to explore the hidden world of emotional vampires: the 12 types of energy-draining people we all have in our lives and why narcissists are the most dangerous of them all. Dan shares his powerful KEEPER framework for identifying who truly deserves a place in your life. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and week... toxic relationships, emotional abuse false full 248 Buzzsprout-18872482 My Brother Is Stealing My Mother's Final Years & She Refuses to Stop Him Take the Toxic or Troubled? Quiz and get specialized help for your specific situation. https://kerrymcavoyphd.fillout.com/toxic-troubled-survey

My 62-year-old narcissistic brother moved in with my 86-year-old mother "temporarily" after his divorce six years ago. Now she's suffocating, the rest of the family stays away, and she won't let anyone intervene.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why some mothers choose guilt over peace — and what to do when someone refuses to set healthy relationship limits for themselves. Learn how to protect your own nervous system while supporting a parent who is trapped by fear, obligation, and guilt.

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]]> Thu, 19 Mar 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/my-brother-is-stealing-my-mothers-final-years-she-refuses-to-stop-him/ Take the Toxic or Troubled? Quiz and get specialized help for your specific situation. https://kerrymcavoyphd.fillout.com/toxic-troubled-survey

My 62-year-old narcissistic brother moved in with my 86-year-old mother "temporarily" after his divorce six years ago. Now she's suffocating, the rest of the family stays away, and she won't let anyone intervene.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why some mothers choose guilt over peace — and what to do when someone refuses to set healthy relationship limits for themselves. Learn how to protect your own nervous system while supporting a parent who is trapped by fear, obligation, and guilt.

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]]> My Brother Is Stealing My Mother's Final Years & She Refuses to Stop Him Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:11:19 Take the Toxic or Troubled? Quiz and get specialized help for your specific situation. https://kerrymcavoyphd.fillout.com/toxic-troubled-survey My 62-year-old narcissistic brother moved in with my 86-year-old mother "temporarily" after his divorce six years ago. Now she's suffocating, the rest of the family stays away, and she won't let anyone intervene. In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why some mothers choose guilt over peace — and what to do when someone refuses to set healthy rela... Take the Toxic or Troubled? Quiz and get specialized help for your specific situation. https://kerrymcavoyphd.fillout.com/toxic-troubled-survey My 62-year-old narcissistic brother moved in with my 86-year-old mother "temporarily" after his divorce six years ago. Now she's suffocating, the rest of the family stays away, and she won't let anyone intervene. In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why some mothers choose guilt over peace — and what to do when someone refuses to set healthy rela... narcissist, power dynamics, financial abuse false full 247 Buzzsprout-18847880 Want to Spot Red Flags the First Time You Meet? How Abusers Reveal Themselves Through Their Words, Featuring Dr. Jennie Young Ever ignored a gut feeling on a date because you wanted to "give him a chance"?

This week, Dr. Jennie Young — PhD linguist and creator of the viral Burned Haystack Dating Method — reveals how the words men use in dating profiles and early messages expose exactly who they are before you've even met.

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Dr. Young breaks down the top 5 most dangerous rhetorical patterns — with real examples from actual dating profiles — including "test and apologize," cult leader language, threats disguised as preferences, and the "blue ribbon for bare minimum" that's almost always a red flag.

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Dr. Jennie Young is a college professor with a PhD in rhetoric and discourse studies and a specialization in critical discourse analysis — the study of how language reveals what speakers don't want you to know. After applying her expertise to online dating, she built a 250,000-member Facebook group (Burn Haystack Dating Method) entirely by word of mouth.

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]]> Mon, 16 Mar 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/want-to-spot-red-flags-the-first-time-you-meet-how-abusers-reveal-themselves-through-their-words-featuring-dr-jennie-young/ Ever ignored a gut feeling on a date because you wanted to "give him a chance"?

This week, Dr. Jennie Young — PhD linguist and creator of the viral Burned Haystack Dating Method — reveals how the words men use in dating profiles and early messages expose exactly who they are before you've even met.

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Dr. Young breaks down the top 5 most dangerous rhetorical patterns — with real examples from actual dating profiles — including "test and apologize," cult leader language, threats disguised as preferences, and the "blue ribbon for bare minimum" that's almost always a red flag.

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Burn the Haystack: Decode Dating, Torch the Duds, and Make Room for Men Who Matter by Dr. Jennie Young

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Dr. Jennie Young is a college professor with a PhD in rhetoric and discourse studies and a specialization in critical discourse analysis — the study of how language reveals what speakers don't want you to know. After applying her expertise to online dating, she built a 250,000-member Facebook group (Burn Haystack Dating Method) entirely by word of mouth.

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]]> Want to Spot Red Flags the First Time You Meet? How Abusers Reveal Themselves Through Their Words, Featuring Dr. Jennie Young Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:32:24 Ever ignored a gut feeling on a date because you wanted to "give him a chance"? This week, Dr. Jennie Young — PhD linguist and creator of the viral Burned Haystack Dating Method — reveals how the words men use in dating profiles and early messages expose exactly who they are before you've even met. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Dr. Young breaks down the top... Ever ignored a gut feeling on a date because you wanted to "give him a chance"? This week, Dr. Jennie Young — PhD linguist and creator of the viral Burned Haystack Dating Method — reveals how the words men use in dating profiles and early messages expose exactly who they are before you've even met. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Dr. Young breaks down the top... abuse, relationship, power dynamics false full 246 Buzzsprout-18833676 What to Do When You Can't Leave: How to Protect Yourself from a Coercive Partner My husband forces sex on me, erupts in rage, and his wealthy family would never believe me — and I don't think I can leave.

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]]> Thu, 12 Mar 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/what-to-do-when-you-cant-leave-how-to-protect-yourself-from-a-coercive-partner/ My husband forces sex on me, erupts in rage, and his wealthy family would never believe me — and I don't think I can leave.

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]]> What to Do When You Can't Leave: How to Protect Yourself from a Coercive Partner Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:16:35 My husband forces sex on me, erupts in rage, and his wealthy family would never believe me — and I don't think I can leave. In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why you can't make an unsafe person safe through effort alone — and why that means your only real lever is increasing your own protection. Learn a practical two-stage framework to manage this impossible situation. Submit Your Question If you'd like Dr. Kerry to answer your question on air, email it to clients@kerrymc... My husband forces sex on me, erupts in rage, and his wealthy family would never believe me — and I don't think I can leave. In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why you can't make an unsafe person safe through effort alone — and why that means your only real lever is increasing your own protection. Learn a practical two-stage framework to manage this impossible situation. Submit Your Question If you'd like Dr. Kerry to answer your question on air, email it to clients@kerrymc... abuse, narcissist, sexual abuse false full 245 Buzzsprout-18806540 Why Am I Not Getting Better? The Hidden CPTSD Symptoms That Can Stall Your Healing You've done the work. Read the books. Tried the strategies. So why aren't you healing?

This week, survivor and educator Ellen Tift reveals the hidden CPTSD symptoms quietly keeping you stuck—and why naming them might be the most powerful thing you can do.

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There's a Word for That by Ellen Tift (Available on Amazon and Kindle Unlimited)

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Ellen Tift is a 30-year university educator and CPTSD survivor who turned her own healing journey into a comprehensive recovery resource. Her book breaks down the invisible symptoms of complex trauma into plain-English chapters—each with practical strategies and real-life scripts.

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]]> Mon, 9 Mar 2026 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-am-i-not-getting-better-the-hidden-cptsd-symptoms-that-can-stall-your-healing/ You've done the work. Read the books. Tried the strategies. So why aren't you healing?

This week, survivor and educator Ellen Tift reveals the hidden CPTSD symptoms quietly keeping you stuck—and why naming them might be the most powerful thing you can do.

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There's a Word for That by Ellen Tift (Available on Amazon and Kindle Unlimited)

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Ellen Tift is a 30-year university educator and CPTSD survivor who turned her own healing journey into a comprehensive recovery resource. Her book breaks down the invisible symptoms of complex trauma into plain-English chapters—each with practical strategies and real-life scripts.

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]]> Why Am I Not Getting Better? The Hidden CPTSD Symptoms That Can Stall Your Healing Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:30:07 You've done the work. Read the books. Tried the strategies. So why aren't you healing? This week, survivor and educator Ellen Tift reveals the hidden CPTSD symptoms quietly keeping you stuck—and why naming them might be the most powerful thing you can do. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Ellen dives deep into the little-known difference between existential shame ... You've done the work. Read the books. Tried the strategies. So why aren't you healing? This week, survivor and educator Ellen Tift reveals the hidden CPTSD symptoms quietly keeping you stuck—and why naming them might be the most powerful thing you can do. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Ellen dives deep into the little-known difference between existential shame ... narcissistic abuse, trauma recovery, cptsd false full 244 Buzzsprout-18788952 Watch Out for These 7 Empathy Weaponization Tactics That Will Trap You Have you heard, ‘If you truly understood me, you'd give me what I want?”

This week's Fan Mail comes from a listener in Sweden who asks Dr. Kerry to explain how empathy gets weaponized.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down the 5 types of empathy (affective, cognitive, compassionate, somatic, and perspective-taking) and explains why having empathy doesn't make someone safe.

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]]> Thu, 5 Mar 2026 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/watch-out-for-these-7-empathy-weaponization-tactics-that-will-trap-you/ Have you heard, ‘If you truly understood me, you'd give me what I want?”

This week's Fan Mail comes from a listener in Sweden who asks Dr. Kerry to explain how empathy gets weaponized.

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]]> Watch Out for These 7 Empathy Weaponization Tactics That Will Trap You Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:11:02 Have you heard, ‘If you truly understood me, you'd give me what I want?” This week's Fan Mail comes from a listener in Sweden who asks Dr. Kerry to explain how empathy gets weaponized. In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down the 5 types of empathy (affective, cognitive, compassionate, somatic, and perspective-taking) and explains why having empathy doesn't make someone safe. Follow on Apple Follow on Spotify Submit Your Question If you'd like Dr. Kerry to answer ... Have you heard, ‘If you truly understood me, you'd give me what I want?” This week's Fan Mail comes from a listener in Sweden who asks Dr. Kerry to explain how empathy gets weaponized. In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down the 5 types of empathy (affective, cognitive, compassionate, somatic, and perspective-taking) and explains why having empathy doesn't make someone safe. Follow on Apple Follow on Spotify Submit Your Question If you'd like Dr. Kerry to answer ... abuse, empaths, narcissistic abuse, abuse tactics false full 243 Buzzsprout-18764662 Why Did They Pick You? The Trait in ‘Good’ People Narcissists Love to Exploit Why do narcissists target good, empathetic people in relationships?

This week, forensic psychologist Dr. Peter Favaro reveals why being a good person might actually make you MORE vulnerable to narcissists—and how that one irrational belief creates the exact confusion toxic people exploit.

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Dr. Favaro breaks down the ABC model of cognitive behavior therapy—and shows you exactly how to break free from the "500 chances" trap.

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Bad People Bible by Dr. Peter Favaro

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Dr. Peter Favaro is a forensic psychologist with decades of experience in high-conflict custody cases and international child abduction cases. He's authored 21 books, including Bad People Bible, Anger Management, and upcoming titles Foundation and a book on mindfulness.

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]]> Mon, 2 Mar 2026 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-did-they-pick-you-the-trait-in-good-people-narcissists-love-to-exploit/ Why do narcissists target good, empathetic people in relationships?

This week, forensic psychologist Dr. Peter Favaro reveals why being a good person might actually make you MORE vulnerable to narcissists—and how that one irrational belief creates the exact confusion toxic people exploit.

Wondering if you met a “bad person?” Find out with this free gift from Dr. Kerry!

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Dr. Favaro breaks down the ABC model of cognitive behavior therapy—and shows you exactly how to break free from the "500 chances" trap.

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Bad People Bible by Dr. Peter Favaro

MORE ABOUT DR. PETER FAVARO

Dr. Peter Favaro is a forensic psychologist with decades of experience in high-conflict custody cases and international child abduction cases. He's authored 21 books, including Bad People Bible, Anger Management, and upcoming titles Foundation and a book on mindfulness.

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]]> Why Did They Pick You? The Trait in ‘Good’ People Narcissists Love to Exploit Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:30:06 Why do narcissists target good, empathetic people in relationships? This week, forensic psychologist Dr. Peter Favaro reveals why being a good person might actually make you MORE vulnerable to narcissists—and how that one irrational belief creates the exact confusion toxic people exploit. Wondering if you met a “bad person?” Find out with this free gift from Dr. Kerry! PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE AB... Why do narcissists target good, empathetic people in relationships? This week, forensic psychologist Dr. Peter Favaro reveals why being a good person might actually make you MORE vulnerable to narcissists—and how that one irrational belief creates the exact confusion toxic people exploit. Wondering if you met a “bad person?” Find out with this free gift from Dr. Kerry! PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE AB... abuse, narcissist, abuse tactics false full 242 Buzzsprout-18751611 Why Narcissists Follow You When You Move Away—And How to Create Distance That Actually Works My narcissistic brother is relocating to town after I moved away to escape him—why is he doing this?

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissists will often close the gap when there’s physical distance. How do you gain psychological distance when you can't move away? She also offers helpful strategies for creating boundaries when distance fails.

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]]> Thu, 26 Feb 2026 16:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-narcissists-follow-you-when-you-move-away-and-how-to-create-distance-that-actually-works/ My narcissistic brother is relocating to town after I moved away to escape him—why is he doing this?

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissists will often close the gap when there’s physical distance. How do you gain psychological distance when you can't move away? She also offers helpful strategies for creating boundaries when distance fails.

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]]> Why Narcissists Follow You When You Move Away—And How to Create Distance That Actually Works Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:07:39 My narcissistic brother is relocating to town after I moved away to escape him—why is he doing this? In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissists will often close the gap when there’s physical distance. How do you gain psychological distance when you can't move away? She also offers helpful strategies for creating boundaries when distance fails. Submit Your Question If you'd like Dr. Kerry to answer your question on air, email it to clients@kerrymcavoyphd.com or use t... My narcissistic brother is relocating to town after I moved away to escape him—why is he doing this? In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissists will often close the gap when there’s physical distance. How do you gain psychological distance when you can't move away? She also offers helpful strategies for creating boundaries when distance fails. Submit Your Question If you'd like Dr. Kerry to answer your question on air, email it to clients@kerrymcavoyphd.com or use t... abuse, toxic relationships, family dynamics false full 241 Buzzsprout-18717298 Struggling with Post-Separation Abuse? Get Real Help from a Surprising Direction Are you struggling with  post-separation abuse and drowning in documentation?

This week, Anne Wintemute introduces AimeeSays—an AI tool that helps abuse survivors make sense of chaos, document their experience, and present their story in a way family court will actually hear.

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Anne K Wintemute built AimeeSays after years of witnessing post-separation abuse survivors carry impossible burdens—forced to understand their trauma AND convince others of it. Her AI tool helps survivors document abuse, extract key events automatically, and transform emotional chaos into fact-based reports that courts can't dismiss.

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]]> Mon, 23 Feb 2026 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/struggling-with-post-separation-abuse-get-real-help-from-a-surprising-direction/ Are you struggling with  post-separation abuse and drowning in documentation?

This week, Anne Wintemute introduces AimeeSays—an AI tool that helps abuse survivors make sense of chaos, document their experience, and present their story in a way family court will actually hear.

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Anne K Wintemute built AimeeSays after years of witnessing post-separation abuse survivors carry impossible burdens—forced to understand their trauma AND convince others of it. Her AI tool helps survivors document abuse, extract key events automatically, and transform emotional chaos into fact-based reports that courts can't dismiss.

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]]> Struggling with Post-Separation Abuse? Get Real Help from a Surprising Direction Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:35:05 Are you struggling with post-separation abuse and drowning in documentation? This week, Anne Wintemute introduces AimeeSays—an AI tool that helps abuse survivors make sense of chaos, document their experience, and present their story in a way family court will actually hear. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Anne reveals how to use AI to document abuse to ov... Are you struggling with post-separation abuse and drowning in documentation? This week, Anne Wintemute introduces AimeeSays—an AI tool that helps abuse survivors make sense of chaos, document their experience, and present their story in a way family court will actually hear. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Anne reveals how to use AI to document abuse to ov... post-separation abuse, ai support, high conflict divorce false full 240 Buzzsprout-18705493 Feeling the Urge to Snoop on Your Partner? Here's What It's Really Telling You "I found proof he was cheating—but was snooping really what I needed to finally leave?”

This week's Fan Mail comes from a listener in Dublin, CA, who, after reading Dr. Kerry's book "Love You More," recognized her own relationship mirrored Dr. Kerry's experience, including the urge to snoop.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why the urge to snoop is actually all the evidence you need that something's wrong and why finding "proof" never actually breaks the cognitive dissonance.

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]]> Thu, 19 Feb 2026 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/feeling-the-urge-to-snoop-on-your-partner-heres-what-its-really-telling-you/ "I found proof he was cheating—but was snooping really what I needed to finally leave?”

This week's Fan Mail comes from a listener in Dublin, CA, who, after reading Dr. Kerry's book "Love You More," recognized her own relationship mirrored Dr. Kerry's experience, including the urge to snoop.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why the urge to snoop is actually all the evidence you need that something's wrong and why finding "proof" never actually breaks the cognitive dissonance.

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]]> Feeling the Urge to Snoop on Your Partner? Here's What It's Really Telling You Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:07:27 "I found proof he was cheating—but was snooping really what I needed to finally leave?” This week's Fan Mail comes from a listener in Dublin, CA, who, after reading Dr. Kerry's book "Love You More," recognized her own relationship mirrored Dr. Kerry's experience, including the urge to snoop. In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why the urge to snoop is actually all the evidence you need that something's wrong and why finding "proof" never actually breaks the cognitive dissonance. &... "I found proof he was cheating—but was snooping really what I needed to finally leave?” This week's Fan Mail comes from a listener in Dublin, CA, who, after reading Dr. Kerry's book "Love You More," recognized her own relationship mirrored Dr. Kerry's experience, including the urge to snoop. In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why the urge to snoop is actually all the evidence you need that something's wrong and why finding "proof" never actually breaks the cognitive dissonance. &... false full 239 Buzzsprout-18690696 How Narcissists Trap You: A New Movie Shows Gaslighting & Coercive Control Ever wonder why narcissists feel impossible to leave—even when you know something's wrong?

This week, filmmakers Ali & Stefanie Schmahl reveal how their docu-fiction hybrid "I Love You My Narcissist" portrays what no other film has: the internal experience of being slowly trapped by someone you love.

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]]> Mon, 16 Feb 2026 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-narcissists-trap-you-a-new-movie-shows-gaslighting-coercive-control/ Ever wonder why narcissists feel impossible to leave—even when you know something's wrong?

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Ali Schmahl (Director) and Stefanie Schmahl (Producer/Actress) are Berlin-based independent filmmakers who created "I Love You My Narcissist"—a groundbreaking docu-fiction hybrid featuring expert interviews with Dr. Kerry McAvoy, Dr. Ramani Durvasula, Lisa Sonni, and others.

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]]> How Narcissists Trap You: A New Movie Shows Gaslighting & Coercive Control Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:31:52 Ever wonder why narcissists feel impossible to leave—even when you know something's wrong? This week, filmmakers Ali & Stefanie Schmahl reveal how their docu-fiction hybrid "I Love You My Narcissist" portrays what no other film has: the internal experience of being slowly trapped by someone you love. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Ali and Stefanie take you ... Ever wonder why narcissists feel impossible to leave—even when you know something's wrong? This week, filmmakers Ali & Stefanie Schmahl reveal how their docu-fiction hybrid "I Love You My Narcissist" portrays what no other film has: the internal experience of being slowly trapped by someone you love. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Ali and Stefanie take you ... false full 238 Buzzsprout-18667508 When Your Abuser Won't Leave and Won't Change: Here's Your Options "My abusive partner refuses to leave or get help—and I'm trapped in a 'silent divorce.' What are my actual options?"

This week's Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener navigating an impossible situation: a long marriage, adult children, religious pressure against divorce, and an abusive partner who wants to maintain the status quo without doing any of the work to change.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry untangles the confusion between church annulment and legal separation, explains why staying together without changing is still a form of abuse.

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]]> Thu, 12 Feb 2026 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-your-abuser-wont-leave-and-wont-change-heres-your-options/ "My abusive partner refuses to leave or get help—and I'm trapped in a 'silent divorce.' What are my actual options?"

This week's Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener navigating an impossible situation: a long marriage, adult children, religious pressure against divorce, and an abusive partner who wants to maintain the status quo without doing any of the work to change.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry untangles the confusion between church annulment and legal separation, explains why staying together without changing is still a form of abuse.

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]]> When Your Abuser Won't Leave and Won't Change: Here's Your Options Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:09:04 "My abusive partner refuses to leave or get help—and I'm trapped in a 'silent divorce.' What are my actual options?" This week's Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener navigating an impossible situation: a long marriage, adult children, religious pressure against divorce, and an abusive partner who wants to maintain the status quo without doing any of the work to change. In this episode, Dr. Kerry untangles the confusion between church annulment and legal separation, expl... "My abusive partner refuses to leave or get help—and I'm trapped in a 'silent divorce.' What are my actual options?" This week's Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener navigating an impossible situation: a long marriage, adult children, religious pressure against divorce, and an abusive partner who wants to maintain the status quo without doing any of the work to change. In this episode, Dr. Kerry untangles the confusion between church annulment and legal separation, expl... false full 237 Buzzsprout-18639329 Why You’re Struggling to Feel Empathy for Yourself — Tammy Triolo Lost empathy for yourself? You've already lost the fight.

This week, Tammy Triolo reveals the shocking connection between self-empathy loss and narcissistic abuse.

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Tammy Triolo is a cultural strategist, author, and creator of the Empathy Scorecard. As founder of PCQ Consulting, she works with companies to improve culture and develop sustainable DEI initiatives.

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]]> Mon, 9 Feb 2026 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-youre-struggling-to-feel-empathy-for-yourself-tammy-triolo/ Lost empathy for yourself? You've already lost the fight.

This week, Tammy Triolo reveals the shocking connection between self-empathy loss and narcissistic abuse.

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• The Empathy Gap: It Is Black and White

• Workbook

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Tammy Triolo is a cultural strategist, author, and creator of the Empathy Scorecard. As founder of PCQ Consulting, she works with companies to improve culture and develop sustainable DEI initiatives.

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]]> Why You’re Struggling to Feel Empathy for Yourself — Tammy Triolo Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:35:46 Lost empathy for yourself? You've already lost the fight. This week, Tammy Triolo reveals the shocking connection between self-empathy loss and narcissistic abuse. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Tammy walks you through recognizing when thoughts are just thoughts—not truth—and how to stop surrendering to negative beliefs. Get immediate access to this ext... Lost empathy for yourself? You've already lost the fight. This week, Tammy Triolo reveals the shocking connection between self-empathy loss and narcissistic abuse. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Tammy walks you through recognizing when thoughts are just thoughts—not truth—and how to stop surrendering to negative beliefs. Get immediate access to this ext... false full 236 Buzzsprout-18623678 Gaslit by Your Doctor? Why Healthcare Attracts Narcissists and How to Protect Yourself “My doctor keeps telling me it's all in my head—but I know something's wrong. Why won't they listen?"

This week's Fan Mail question comes from a podcast listener who writes: "Dear Kerry, could you do a podcast on the topic of narcissism, psychopathy and healthcare?…”

In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down why healthcare settings attract people who crave power and control, how the doctor-patient dynamic creates dangerous vulnerability, and why women are especially at risk of medical dismissal.

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]]> Thu, 5 Feb 2026 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/gaslit-by-your-doctor-why-healthcare-attracts-narcissists-and-how-to-protect-yourself/ “My doctor keeps telling me it's all in my head—but I know something's wrong. Why won't they listen?"

This week's Fan Mail question comes from a podcast listener who writes: "Dear Kerry, could you do a podcast on the topic of narcissism, psychopathy and healthcare?…”

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]]> Gaslit by Your Doctor? Why Healthcare Attracts Narcissists and How to Protect Yourself Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:10:04 “My doctor keeps telling me it's all in my head—but I know something's wrong. Why won't they listen?" This week's Fan Mail question comes from a podcast listener who writes: "Dear Kerry, could you do a podcast on the topic of narcissism, psychopathy and healthcare?…” In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down why healthcare settings attract people who crave power and control, how the doctor-patient dynamic creates dangerous vulnerability, and why women are especially at risk of medica... “My doctor keeps telling me it's all in my head—but I know something's wrong. Why won't they listen?" This week's Fan Mail question comes from a podcast listener who writes: "Dear Kerry, could you do a podcast on the topic of narcissism, psychopathy and healthcare?…” In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down why healthcare settings attract people who crave power and control, how the doctor-patient dynamic creates dangerous vulnerability, and why women are especially at risk of medica... false full 235 Buzzsprout-18594351 You’ve Been Made to Think It’s Your Fault: The Truth About Predatory Behavior Ever wonder why you didn't see it coming?

This week, Don Hennessy joins Dr. Kerry to expose the hidden playbook male predators use to infiltrate your mind—without you knowing it happened. We unpack the shocking truth about what predators are actually really after.

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]]> Mon, 2 Feb 2026 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/youve-been-made-to-think-its-your-fault-the-truth-about-predatory-behavior/ Ever wonder why you didn't see it coming?

This week, Don Hennessy joins Dr. Kerry to expose the hidden playbook male predators use to infiltrate your mind—without you knowing it happened. We unpack the shocking truth about what predators are actually really after.

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Hennessy breaks down the grooming steps you never saw coming.

Don reveal why 75% of people think "it couldn't happen to me.”

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]]> You’ve Been Made to Think It’s Your Fault: The Truth About Predatory Behavior Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:34:00 Ever wonder why you didn't see it coming? This week, Don Hennessy joins Dr. Kerry to expose the hidden playbook male predators use to infiltrate your mind—without you knowing it happened. We unpack the shocking truth about what predators are actually really after. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Hennessy breaks down the grooming steps you never saw coming. Don ... Ever wonder why you didn't see it coming? This week, Don Hennessy joins Dr. Kerry to expose the hidden playbook male predators use to infiltrate your mind—without you knowing it happened. We unpack the shocking truth about what predators are actually really after. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Hennessy breaks down the grooming steps you never saw coming. Don ... false full 234 Buzzsprout-18582611 Does Narcissism Come and Go? Why Narcissists Seem Better & Then Suddenly Aren't Does Narcissism Come and Go? What "Good Periods" With a Narcissist Really Mean 

This week's Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Dubai who writes: "Can narcissism in a person wax and wane? There's been years when my husband was acting like a narcissist, and then there's also been chunks of years where he's been incredibly supportive and uplifting. Can a narcissist change depending on their current situation?" 

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissistic behavior can absolutely shift between good and bad periods and what those changes really means.

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]]> Thu, 29 Jan 2026 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/does-narcissism-come-and-go-why-narcissists-seem-better-then-suddenly-arent/ Does Narcissism Come and Go? What "Good Periods" With a Narcissist Really Mean 

This week's Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Dubai who writes: "Can narcissism in a person wax and wane? There's been years when my husband was acting like a narcissist, and then there's also been chunks of years where he's been incredibly supportive and uplifting. Can a narcissist change depending on their current situation?" 

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissistic behavior can absolutely shift between good and bad periods and what those changes really means.

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]]> Does Narcissism Come and Go? Why Narcissists Seem Better & Then Suddenly Aren't Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:08:38 Does Narcissism Come and Go? What "Good Periods" With a Narcissist Really Mean This week's Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Dubai who writes: "Can narcissism in a person wax and wane? There's been years when my husband was acting like a narcissist, and then there's also been chunks of years where he's been incredibly supportive and uplifting. Can a narcissist change depending on their current situation?" In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissistic behavior can a... Does Narcissism Come and Go? What "Good Periods" With a Narcissist Really Mean This week's Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Dubai who writes: "Can narcissism in a person wax and wane? There's been years when my husband was acting like a narcissist, and then there's also been chunks of years where he's been incredibly supportive and uplifting. Can a narcissist change depending on their current situation?" In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why narcissistic behavior can a... false full 233 Buzzsprout-18562424 Coercive Control: How It Steals Your Freedom (Before You Even Realize It) — Dr. Christine Cocchiola Slowly losing control in your relationship—but can't quite put your finger on what's happening?

This week, Dr. Christine Cocchiola breaks down coercive control as the invisible foundation beneath all abuse.

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DR. CHRISTINE COCCHIOLA is a leading expert on coercive control, protective parenting, and family court abuse. After surviving 27 years and 11 months with an abuser despite being a trained professional who taught about domestic violence, she now dedicates her work to helping others recognize the invisible tactics that strip autonomy. Dr. C specializes in supporting protective parents navigating family court. Submit your question to be answered on air here!

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]]> Mon, 26 Jan 2026 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/coercive-control-how-it-steals-your-freedom-before-you-even-realize-it-dr-christine-cocchiola/ Slowly losing control in your relationship—but can't quite put your finger on what's happening?

This week, Dr. Christine Cocchiola breaks down coercive control as the invisible foundation beneath all abuse.

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DR. CHRISTINE COCCHIOLA is a leading expert on coercive control, protective parenting, and family court abuse. After surviving 27 years and 11 months with an abuser despite being a trained professional who taught about domestic violence, she now dedicates her work to helping others recognize the invisible tactics that strip autonomy. Dr. C specializes in supporting protective parents navigating family court. Submit your question to be answered on air here!

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]]> Coercive Control: How It Steals Your Freedom (Before You Even Realize It) — Dr. Christine Cocchiola Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:35:55 Slowly losing control in your relationship—but can't quite put your finger on what's happening? This week, Dr. Christine Cocchiola breaks down coercive control as the invisible foundation beneath all abuse. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Think you might be losing yourself, but not sure how to tell? Dr. C provides the "identity assessment" you need and how to spot the... Slowly losing control in your relationship—but can't quite put your finger on what's happening? This week, Dr. Christine Cocchiola breaks down coercive control as the invisible foundation beneath all abuse. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Think you might be losing yourself, but not sure how to tell? Dr. C provides the "identity assessment" you need and how to spot the... false full 232 Buzzsprout-18546518 Narcissist vs. Narcissist: What Happens When These Two Toxic Personalities Match-Up "My coworker is a narcissist—and so is our boss. What happens when two narcissists have to work together?" 

This week's Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener who writes: "Thank you for all your content! Very helpful. I am curious to know - what tends to happen when 'a narcissist meets a narcissist' - meaning they are introduced to each other, are coworkers or need to cooperate with each other in some way or even end up being partners? Are there any patterns to or are there typical characteristics/outcomes to this dynamic? Might they not be aware that they are both narcissists?" 

In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down what really happens when two highly narcissistic people enter each other's orbit—whether they fast-bond over shared grandiosity, descend into brutal competition for dominance, or manage an ice-cold alliance for mutual benefit. She explains the collusion-to-competition pipeline, why narcissistic couples can look magnetic but feel exhausting, and why most narcissists will never see themselves the way they see each other. 

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]]> Thu, 22 Jan 2026 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/narcissist-vs-narcissist-what-happens-when-these-two-toxic-personalities-match-up/ "My coworker is a narcissist—and so is our boss. What happens when two narcissists have to work together?" 

This week's Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener who writes: "Thank you for all your content! Very helpful. I am curious to know - what tends to happen when 'a narcissist meets a narcissist' - meaning they are introduced to each other, are coworkers or need to cooperate with each other in some way or even end up being partners? Are there any patterns to or are there typical characteristics/outcomes to this dynamic? Might they not be aware that they are both narcissists?" 

In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down what really happens when two highly narcissistic people enter each other's orbit—whether they fast-bond over shared grandiosity, descend into brutal competition for dominance, or manage an ice-cold alliance for mutual benefit. She explains the collusion-to-competition pipeline, why narcissistic couples can look magnetic but feel exhausting, and why most narcissists will never see themselves the way they see each other. 

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]]> Narcissist vs. Narcissist: What Happens When These Two Toxic Personalities Match-Up Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:09:46 "My coworker is a narcissist—and so is our boss. What happens when two narcissists have to work together?" This week's Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener who writes: "Thank you for all your content! Very helpful. I am curious to know - what tends to happen when 'a narcissist meets a narcissist' - meaning they are introduced to each other, are coworkers or need to cooperate with each other in some way or even end up being partners? Are there any patterns to or are there typi... "My coworker is a narcissist—and so is our boss. What happens when two narcissists have to work together?" This week's Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener who writes: "Thank you for all your content! Very helpful. I am curious to know - what tends to happen when 'a narcissist meets a narcissist' - meaning they are introduced to each other, are coworkers or need to cooperate with each other in some way or even end up being partners? Are there any patterns to or are there typi... false full 231 Buzzsprout-18505520 Gone No Contact? Why Some Parents Have to Push Away Their Kids Why do loving parents sometimes push away the very children they'd do anything for?

This week, Catherine Hickem joins Dr. Kerry to unpack one of the most painful dynamics in modern families—parental estrangement. We explore how unspoken expectations create invisible walls, why parents mistake control for connection, and how grief work (yes, grief work) is the secret to letting your adult children become who they actually are, not who you needed them to be.

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Stuck waiting for certainty before you leave?

Catherine and Dr. Kerry tackle the cognitive dissonance trap—why you'll never feel "ready" to go, how to make the hardest decision of your life without clarity, and why almost no one regrets leaving once they finally do.

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CATHERINE HICKEM, LCSW, is a licensed clinical social worker, psychotherapist, executive and family coach, and founder of Parenting Adult Children Today. With over 40 years of experience and a master's degree in clinical social work from the University of Louisville, Catherine has dedicated her career to helping parents navigate the often-overlooked complexities of raising adult children. She is the author of Regret-Free Parenting and specializes in estrangement recovery, teaching parents how to release expectations, grieve unmet dreams, and rebuild relationships grounded in acceptance rather than control. Submit your question to be answered on air here!

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]]> Mon, 19 Jan 2026 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/gone-no-contact-why-some-parents-have-to-push-away-their-kids/ Why do loving parents sometimes push away the very children they'd do anything for?

This week, Catherine Hickem joins Dr. Kerry to unpack one of the most painful dynamics in modern families—parental estrangement. We explore how unspoken expectations create invisible walls, why parents mistake control for connection, and how grief work (yes, grief work) is the secret to letting your adult children become who they actually are, not who you needed them to be.

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Stuck waiting for certainty before you leave?

Catherine and Dr. Kerry tackle the cognitive dissonance trap—why you'll never feel "ready" to go, how to make the hardest decision of your life without clarity, and why almost no one regrets leaving once they finally do.

Get immediate access to this extended interview: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse

MORE ABOUT CATHERINE HICKEM

CATHERINE HICKEM, LCSW, is a licensed clinical social worker, psychotherapist, executive and family coach, and founder of Parenting Adult Children Today. With over 40 years of experience and a master's degree in clinical social work from the University of Louisville, Catherine has dedicated her career to helping parents navigate the often-overlooked complexities of raising adult children. She is the author of Regret-Free Parenting and specializes in estrangement recovery, teaching parents how to release expectations, grieve unmet dreams, and rebuild relationships grounded in acceptance rather than control. Submit your question to be answered on air here!

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]]> Gone No Contact? Why Some Parents Have to Push Away Their Kids Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:31:15 Why do loving parents sometimes push away the very children they'd do anything for? This week, Catherine Hickem joins Dr. Kerry to unpack one of the most painful dynamics in modern families—parental estrangement. We explore how unspoken expectations create invisible walls, why parents mistake control for connection, and how grief work (yes, grief work) is the secret to letting your adult children become who they actually are, not who you needed them to be. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE ... Why do loving parents sometimes push away the very children they'd do anything for? This week, Catherine Hickem joins Dr. Kerry to unpack one of the most painful dynamics in modern families—parental estrangement. We explore how unspoken expectations create invisible walls, why parents mistake control for connection, and how grief work (yes, grief work) is the secret to letting your adult children become who they actually are, not who you needed them to be. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE ... false full 230 Buzzsprout-18505305 Is It Really Estrangement… Or Is Your Toxic Ex Playing Parental Alienation Games? A listener pushes back and asks, "How do we know the parent claiming alienation isn't actually the abuser manipulating the narrative?"

When a child rejects contact with a parent after separation, is it parental alienation or justified estrangement?

In this week's fan mail, a listener pushes back with a challenge about a previous episode that aired October 16, 2025, titled "Why Does My Ex Always Blame Me When the Kids Want Nothing to Do with Him?" This listener wanted to know how to tell when the person complaining about a toxic co-parent isn't actually the abuser.

Dr. Kerry unpacks the difference between alienation and estrangement, and what "fostering a relationship" actually means when required by a custody agreement.

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]]> Thu, 15 Jan 2026 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-it-really-estrangement-or-is-your-toxic-ex-playing-parental-alienation-games/ A listener pushes back and asks, "How do we know the parent claiming alienation isn't actually the abuser manipulating the narrative?"

When a child rejects contact with a parent after separation, is it parental alienation or justified estrangement?

In this week's fan mail, a listener pushes back with a challenge about a previous episode that aired October 16, 2025, titled "Why Does My Ex Always Blame Me When the Kids Want Nothing to Do with Him?" This listener wanted to know how to tell when the person complaining about a toxic co-parent isn't actually the abuser.

Dr. Kerry unpacks the difference between alienation and estrangement, and what "fostering a relationship" actually means when required by a custody agreement.

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]]> Is It Really Estrangement… Or Is Your Toxic Ex Playing Parental Alienation Games? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:10:55 A listener pushes back and asks, "How do we know the parent claiming alienation isn't actually the abuser manipulating the narrative?" When a child rejects contact with a parent after separation, is it parental alienation or justified estrangement? In this week's fan mail, a listener pushes back with a challenge about a previous episode that aired October 16, 2025, titled "Why Does My Ex Always Blame Me When the Kids Want Nothing to Do with Him?" This listener wanted to know how to tell whe... A listener pushes back and asks, "How do we know the parent claiming alienation isn't actually the abuser manipulating the narrative?" When a child rejects contact with a parent after separation, is it parental alienation or justified estrangement? In this week's fan mail, a listener pushes back with a challenge about a previous episode that aired October 16, 2025, titled "Why Does My Ex Always Blame Me When the Kids Want Nothing to Do with Him?" This listener wanted to know how to tell whe... false full 229 Buzzsprout-18484405 Devastated After Betrayal? Here's Why: The Hidden Abuse That No One Talks About Ever wonder why betrayal feels so devastating—like more than just cheating?

This week, Hope Ray joins Dr. Kerry to introduce the concept of betrayal violence: the intersection of infidelity and abuse that most people don't recognize. We explore how sexual secrets strip partners of their consent and autonomy.

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When you're the victim: How do you know if you have the whole truth? Hope shares practical guidance on finding trauma-informed support and determining whether your relationship can truly heal or if it's time to leave.

Get immediate access to this extended interview.

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Website: https://www.hoperay.com

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HOPE RAY is a licensed therapist specializing in betrayal trauma and relationship repair after infidelity. She works extensively with couples navigating the aftermath of sexual secrets and deception, helping partners understand the abusive dynamics created by hidden betrayal.

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]]> Mon, 12 Jan 2026 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/devastated-after-betrayal-heres-why-the-hidden-abuse-that-no-one-talks-about/ Ever wonder why betrayal feels so devastating—like more than just cheating?

This week, Hope Ray joins Dr. Kerry to introduce the concept of betrayal violence: the intersection of infidelity and abuse that most people don't recognize. We explore how sexual secrets strip partners of their consent and autonomy.

PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT

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MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW

When you're the victim: How do you know if you have the whole truth? Hope shares practical guidance on finding trauma-informed support and determining whether your relationship can truly heal or if it's time to leave.

Get immediate access to this extended interview.

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Website: https://www.hoperay.com

TikTok: @HopeRayTherapy

HOPE RAY is a licensed therapist specializing in betrayal trauma and relationship repair after infidelity. She works extensively with couples navigating the aftermath of sexual secrets and deception, helping partners understand the abusive dynamics created by hidden betrayal.

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]]> Devastated After Betrayal? Here's Why: The Hidden Abuse That No One Talks About Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:32:31 Ever wonder why betrayal feels so devastating—like more than just cheating? This week, Hope Ray joins Dr. Kerry to introduce the concept of betrayal violence: the intersection of infidelity and abuse that most people don't recognize. We explore how sexual secrets strip partners of their consent and autonomy. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW When you're the victim: How... Ever wonder why betrayal feels so devastating—like more than just cheating? This week, Hope Ray joins Dr. Kerry to introduce the concept of betrayal violence: the intersection of infidelity and abuse that most people don't recognize. We explore how sexual secrets strip partners of their consent and autonomy. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW When you're the victim: How... false full 228 Buzzsprout-18461129 Can Someone Be Both Covert AND Overt? Understanding Narcissistic Types & What Actually Matters "My partner has traits of both covert and overt narcissism—is that possible?" This week's Fan Mail question comes from a podcast listener who writes: 

"Can a person be both a covert and an overt narcissist? I'm hearing the descriptions of each and my partner has traits of both." In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down the confusing language around narcissistic types—what "covert" and "overt" actually mean (hint: they describe symptoms, not people), why your partner can absolutely show both presentations, and most importantly, why the type matters far less than the pattern of harm you're experiencing. 

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]]> Thu, 8 Jan 2026 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/can-someone-be-both-covert-and-overt-understanding-narcissistic-types-what-actually-matters/ "My partner has traits of both covert and overt narcissism—is that possible?" This week's Fan Mail question comes from a podcast listener who writes: 

"Can a person be both a covert and an overt narcissist? I'm hearing the descriptions of each and my partner has traits of both." In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down the confusing language around narcissistic types—what "covert" and "overt" actually mean (hint: they describe symptoms, not people), why your partner can absolutely show both presentations, and most importantly, why the type matters far less than the pattern of harm you're experiencing. 

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]]> Can Someone Be Both Covert AND Overt? Understanding Narcissistic Types & What Actually Matters Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:09:28 "My partner has traits of both covert and overt narcissism—is that possible?" This week's Fan Mail question comes from a podcast listener who writes: "Can a person be both a covert and an overt narcissist? I'm hearing the descriptions of each and my partner has traits of both." In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down the confusing language around narcissistic types—what "covert" and "overt" actually mean (hint: they describe symptoms, not people), why your partner can absolutely show bot... "My partner has traits of both covert and overt narcissism—is that possible?" This week's Fan Mail question comes from a podcast listener who writes: "Can a person be both a covert and an overt narcissist? I'm hearing the descriptions of each and my partner has traits of both." In this episode, Dr. Kerry breaks down the confusing language around narcissistic types—what "covert" and "overt" actually mean (hint: they describe symptoms, not people), why your partner can absolutely show bot... false full 227 Buzzsprout-18446246 You Can Love Them and Still Be Exploited: Sexual Coercion with Cult Expert Pamela Takefman Ever wondered how someone can exploit you sexually while you still love them?

This week, Pamela Takefman joins Dr. Kerry to explain how sexual coercion works—and why it doesn’t always require kidnapping or obvious physical force to be real.

Learn how perpetrators gradually test boundaries until extreme exploitation feels normal, and why loving your abuser doesn’t mean the abuse isn’t real.

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Think you might be experiencing coercion but aren't sure? Wondering what legal options exist for survivors?

Pamela reveals what qualifies as trafficking under federal law and how to assess whether you're psychologically ready to pursue justice through the court system.

Get immediate access to this extended interview: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse

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Website: mcolaw.com

PAMELA TAKEFMAN is Deputy Head of the Sexual Misconduct in Spiritual Communities practice at McAllister Olivarius, where she represents survivors of sexual abuse, forced labor, and coercive control in cults, spiritual communities, and other high-control groups.

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]]> Mon, 5 Jan 2026 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/you-can-love-them-and-still-be-exploited-sexual-coercion-with-cult-expert-pamela-takefman/ Ever wondered how someone can exploit you sexually while you still love them?

This week, Pamela Takefman joins Dr. Kerry to explain how sexual coercion works—and why it doesn’t always require kidnapping or obvious physical force to be real.

Learn how perpetrators gradually test boundaries until extreme exploitation feels normal, and why loving your abuser doesn’t mean the abuse isn’t real.

PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT

Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse

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Think you might be experiencing coercion but aren't sure? Wondering what legal options exist for survivors?

Pamela reveals what qualifies as trafficking under federal law and how to assess whether you're psychologically ready to pursue justice through the court system.

Get immediate access to this extended interview: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse

MORE ABOUT PAMELA TAKEFMAN

Website: mcolaw.com

PAMELA TAKEFMAN is Deputy Head of the Sexual Misconduct in Spiritual Communities practice at McAllister Olivarius, where she represents survivors of sexual abuse, forced labor, and coercive control in cults, spiritual communities, and other high-control groups.

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]]> You Can Love Them and Still Be Exploited: Sexual Coercion with Cult Expert Pamela Takefman Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:30:28 Ever wondered how someone can exploit you sexually while you still love them? This week, Pamela Takefman joins Dr. Kerry to explain how sexual coercion works—and why it doesn’t always require kidnapping or obvious physical force to be real. Learn how perpetrators gradually test boundaries until extreme exploitation feels normal, and why loving your abuser doesn’t mean the abuse isn’t real. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here... Ever wondered how someone can exploit you sexually while you still love them? This week, Pamela Takefman joins Dr. Kerry to explain how sexual coercion works—and why it doesn’t always require kidnapping or obvious physical force to be real. Learn how perpetrators gradually test boundaries until extreme exploitation feels normal, and why loving your abuser doesn’t mean the abuse isn’t real. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here... abuse, sexual trafficking, grooming false full 226 Buzzsprout-18424510 Narcissistic In-Laws: Why They Deny the Truth (and What to Do) Ever wonder why your in-laws rallied around your abusive partner instead of protecting you?

This episode explores one of the most painful dynamics in narcissistic abuse: when families choose to protect the abuser and paint YOU as the problem. We revisit a past interview with Rossana where she shares her firsthand experience of this dynamic along with a Fan Mail listener who experienced something similar.

PODCAST EXTRA

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MORE ABOUT ROSSANA FAYE

ROSSANA FAYE knows what it's like to be trapped on an emotional rollercoaster. After surviving 14 years in an abusive relationship, she transformed her pain into purpose—becoming a Certified Life and Relationship Coach dedicated to helping others break free from narcissistic abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here!

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]]> Mon, 29 Dec 2025 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/narcissistic-in-laws-why-they-deny-the-truth-and-what-to-do/ Ever wonder why your in-laws rallied around your abusive partner instead of protecting you?

This episode explores one of the most painful dynamics in narcissistic abuse: when families choose to protect the abuser and paint YOU as the problem. We revisit a past interview with Rossana where she shares her firsthand experience of this dynamic along with a Fan Mail listener who experienced something similar.

PODCAST EXTRA

Next week, the Podcast Extra exclusive interviews will return.

SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT

All Substack paid subscribers now receive immediate access to the Toxic-Free Relationship Club, which includes: • Invitation to the monthly Q&A with Dr. Kerry • Quarterly club-wide events featuring narcissistic abuse experts • Weekly newsletter with exclusive insights •

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MORE ABOUT ROSSANA FAYE

ROSSANA FAYE knows what it's like to be trapped on an emotional rollercoaster. After surviving 14 years in an abusive relationship, she transformed her pain into purpose—becoming a Certified Life and Relationship Coach dedicated to helping others break free from narcissistic abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here!

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]]> Narcissistic In-Laws: Why They Deny the Truth (and What to Do) Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:28:17 Ever wonder why your in-laws rallied around your abusive partner instead of protecting you? This episode explores one of the most painful dynamics in narcissistic abuse: when families choose to protect the abuser and paint YOU as the problem. We revisit a past interview with Rossana where she shares her firsthand experience of this dynamic along with a Fan Mail listener who experienced something similar. PODCAST EXTRA Next week, the Podcast Extra exclusive interviews will re... Ever wonder why your in-laws rallied around your abusive partner instead of protecting you? This episode explores one of the most painful dynamics in narcissistic abuse: when families choose to protect the abuser and paint YOU as the problem. We revisit a past interview with Rossana where she shares her firsthand experience of this dynamic along with a Fan Mail listener who experienced something similar. PODCAST EXTRA Next week, the Podcast Extra exclusive interviews will re... false full 225 Buzzsprout-18396764 When Dangerous People Don't Look Scary: How to Spot the Dark Triad Personality Type Can a psychopath be a good person? And how do we spot dangerous people when they seem so charming?

This holiday special brings you an in-depth answer to one of your most-asked questions with highlights from Dr. Kerry's interview with Tara Blair Ball about the Dark Triad Personality.

We explore why dangerous people don't look scary and the critical difference between niceness and kindness.

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This week, there is no exclusive Podcast Extra interview. Instead, we're offering this special holiday edition to ALL Substack subscribers as our gift to you!

 

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]]> Mon, 22 Dec 2025 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-dangerous-people-dont-look-scary-how-to-spot-the-dark-triad-personality-type/ Can a psychopath be a good person? And how do we spot dangerous people when they seem so charming?

This holiday special brings you an in-depth answer to one of your most-asked questions with highlights from Dr. Kerry's interview with Tara Blair Ball about the Dark Triad Personality.

We explore why dangerous people don't look scary and the critical difference between niceness and kindness.

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]]> When Dangerous People Don't Look Scary: How to Spot the Dark Triad Personality Type Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:27:43 Can a psychopath be a good person? And how do we spot dangerous people when they seem so charming? This holiday special brings you an in-depth answer to one of your most-asked questions with highlights from Dr. Kerry's interview with Tara Blair Ball about the Dark Triad Personality. We explore why dangerous people don't look scary and the critical difference between niceness and kindness. PODCAST EXTRA This week, there is no exclusive Podcast Extra interview. Instead,... Can a psychopath be a good person? And how do we spot dangerous people when they seem so charming? This holiday special brings you an in-depth answer to one of your most-asked questions with highlights from Dr. Kerry's interview with Tara Blair Ball about the Dark Triad Personality. We explore why dangerous people don't look scary and the critical difference between niceness and kindness. PODCAST EXTRA This week, there is no exclusive Podcast Extra interview. Instead,... false full 224 Buzzsprout-18376887 How Do I Know If I'm in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship? Watch for These Signs "How do I know if I'm in an emotionally abusive relationship?" asks a YouTube listener. 

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why even asking this question is an important sign of possible trouble. Dr Kerry will outline what emotional abuse actually looks like (hint: it's not about one-off incidents—it's about patterns) and why you might feel like you're shrinking or walking on eggshells.  Abusive relationships turn people into functional objects instead of letting them shine as a fully autonomous and complex person. 

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]]> Thu, 18 Dec 2025 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/ "How do I know if I'm in an emotionally abusive relationship?" asks a YouTube listener. 

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why even asking this question is an important sign of possible trouble. Dr Kerry will outline what emotional abuse actually looks like (hint: it's not about one-off incidents—it's about patterns) and why you might feel like you're shrinking or walking on eggshells.  Abusive relationships turn people into functional objects instead of letting them shine as a fully autonomous and complex person. 

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]]> How Do I Know If I'm in an Emotionally Abusive Relationship? Watch for These Signs Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:10:08 "How do I know if I'm in an emotionally abusive relationship?" asks a YouTube listener. In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why even asking this question is an important sign of possible trouble. Dr Kerry will outline what emotional abuse actually looks like (hint: it's not about one-off incidents—it's about patterns) and why you might feel like you're shrinking or walking on eggshells. Abusive relationships turn people into functional objects instead of letting them shine as a fu... "How do I know if I'm in an emotionally abusive relationship?" asks a YouTube listener. In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why even asking this question is an important sign of possible trouble. Dr Kerry will outline what emotional abuse actually looks like (hint: it's not about one-off incidents—it's about patterns) and why you might feel like you're shrinking or walking on eggshells. Abusive relationships turn people into functional objects instead of letting them shine as a fu... false full 223 Buzzsprout-18350325 When Your Family Chooses the Narcissist Over You: What Survivors Must Know Ever felt like you're the problem in your family—even when you're the one being hurt?

This week, Ágatha Peters joins Dr. Kerry to explore how cultural expectations and family loyalty create the perfect conditions for narcissistic abuse to thrive undetected.

PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT

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Stuck as the family scapegoat? Wondering how to survive when you can't leave?

Ágatha reveals the psychological strategies that help you endure when escape isn't an option, why you can't change your role in a narcissistic family system, and how to build your own community within a community that's failed you.

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ÁGATHA PETERS is a licensed therapist specializing in narcissistic abuse recovery within multicultural contexts. Drawing from both her clinical expertise and personal experience navigating cultural expectations,

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]]> Mon, 15 Dec 2025 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-your-family-chooses-the-narcissist-over-you-what-survivors-must-know/ Ever felt like you're the problem in your family—even when you're the one being hurt?

This week, Ágatha Peters joins Dr. Kerry to explore how cultural expectations and family loyalty create the perfect conditions for narcissistic abuse to thrive undetected.

PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT

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Stuck as the family scapegoat? Wondering how to survive when you can't leave?

Ágatha reveals the psychological strategies that help you endure when escape isn't an option, why you can't change your role in a narcissistic family system, and how to build your own community within a community that's failed you.

Get immediate access to this extended interview

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ÁGATHA PETERS is a licensed therapist specializing in narcissistic abuse recovery within multicultural contexts. Drawing from both her clinical expertise and personal experience navigating cultural expectations,

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]]> When Your Family Chooses the Narcissist Over You: What Survivors Must Know Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:28:35 Ever felt like you're the problem in your family—even when you're the one being hurt? This week, Ágatha Peters joins Dr. Kerry to explore how cultural expectations and family loyalty create the perfect conditions for narcissistic abuse to thrive undetected. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Stuck as the family scapegoat? Wondering how to survive when you can't leave? Ág... Ever felt like you're the problem in your family—even when you're the one being hurt? This week, Ágatha Peters joins Dr. Kerry to explore how cultural expectations and family loyalty create the perfect conditions for narcissistic abuse to thrive undetected. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Stuck as the family scapegoat? Wondering how to survive when you can't leave? Ág... false full 222 Buzzsprout-18335035 Why Does Surviving Narcissistic Abuse Turn You into Someone You Don't Recognize? You dodged a bullet!" No—the bullet hit me. I just survived.

This week's Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener who writes: 

"People tell me I dodged a bullet. But the bullet hit me—I just survived. I feel like it turned me into a monster. The PTSD caused me to start reacting more strongly to smaller triggers and even did abusive things myself in what I felt was self-defense."

In this episode, Dr. Kerry addresses why "you dodged a bullet" feels so wrong, what survivor's guilt really is, why up to 75% of narcissistic abuse survivors develop PTSD, and how to make peace with the protective parts of yourself that helped you survive—without exiling them. 

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]]> Thu, 11 Dec 2025 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-does-surviving-narcissistic-abuse-turn-you-into-someone-you-dont-recognize/ You dodged a bullet!" No—the bullet hit me. I just survived.

This week's Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener who writes: 

"People tell me I dodged a bullet. But the bullet hit me—I just survived. I feel like it turned me into a monster. The PTSD caused me to start reacting more strongly to smaller triggers and even did abusive things myself in what I felt was self-defense."

In this episode, Dr. Kerry addresses why "you dodged a bullet" feels so wrong, what survivor's guilt really is, why up to 75% of narcissistic abuse survivors develop PTSD, and how to make peace with the protective parts of yourself that helped you survive—without exiling them. 

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]]> Why Does Surviving Narcissistic Abuse Turn You into Someone You Don't Recognize? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:10:00 You dodged a bullet!" No—the bullet hit me. I just survived. This week's Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener who writes: "People tell me I dodged a bullet. But the bullet hit me—I just survived. I feel like it turned me into a monster. The PTSD caused me to start reacting more strongly to smaller triggers and even did abusive things myself in what I felt was self-defense." In this episode, Dr. Kerry addresses why "you dodged a bullet" feels so wrong, what survivor's guilt re... You dodged a bullet!" No—the bullet hit me. I just survived. This week's Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener who writes: "People tell me I dodged a bullet. But the bullet hit me—I just survived. I feel like it turned me into a monster. The PTSD caused me to start reacting more strongly to smaller triggers and even did abusive things myself in what I felt was self-defense." In this episode, Dr. Kerry addresses why "you dodged a bullet" feels so wrong, what survivor's guilt re... false full 221 Buzzsprout-18311761 How are Narcissists Made: Is it Trauma or Genetic? Here's What Dr. Salerno Thinks Is narcissism caused by genetics or trauma? Ever heard “narcissists act that way because of bad parenting" or “because they’ve experienced trauma?”

This week, Dr. Peter Salerno returns to challenge everything you thought you knew about the cause of narcissistic personality disorder. We're diving into the controversial science of heritability.

PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT

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Stuck in cognitive dissonance? Are you struggling with the decision to leave and wondering why you can’t?

Dr. Salerno reveals why waiting for certainty keeps you trapped, how to make the hardest decision of your life without knowing if it's "right," and why almost no one regrets leaving once they do.

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Books: The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism: Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder from the Perspective of Gene - Environment Interaction

Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance: Healing from an Abusive Relationship with a Disordered Personality

'Cruelty by Nature: The Science of Intentional Abuse

DR. PETER SALERNO is a retired clinical psychologist with an expert understanding of personality pathology, narcissistic abuse recovery, and the genetic components of personality disorders.

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]]> Mon, 8 Dec 2025 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-are-narcissists-made-is-it-trauma-or-genetic-heres-what-dr-salerno-thinks/ Is narcissism caused by genetics or trauma? Ever heard “narcissists act that way because of bad parenting" or “because they’ve experienced trauma?”

This week, Dr. Peter Salerno returns to challenge everything you thought you knew about the cause of narcissistic personality disorder. We're diving into the controversial science of heritability.

PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT

Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here.

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Stuck in cognitive dissonance? Are you struggling with the decision to leave and wondering why you can’t?

Dr. Salerno reveals why waiting for certainty keeps you trapped, how to make the hardest decision of your life without knowing if it's "right," and why almost no one regrets leaving once they do.

Get immediate access to this extended interview.

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  • Instagram: @DrPeterSalerno
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Books: The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism: Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder from the Perspective of Gene - Environment Interaction

Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance: Healing from an Abusive Relationship with a Disordered Personality

'Cruelty by Nature: The Science of Intentional Abuse

DR. PETER SALERNO is a retired clinical psychologist with an expert understanding of personality pathology, narcissistic abuse recovery, and the genetic components of personality disorders.

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]]> How are Narcissists Made: Is it Trauma or Genetic? Here's What Dr. Salerno Thinks Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:47:35 Is narcissism caused by genetics or trauma? Ever heard “narcissists act that way because of bad parenting" or “because they’ve experienced trauma?” This week, Dr. Peter Salerno returns to challenge everything you thought you knew about the cause of narcissistic personality disorder. We're diving into the controversial science of heritability. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW ... Is narcissism caused by genetics or trauma? Ever heard “narcissists act that way because of bad parenting" or “because they’ve experienced trauma?” This week, Dr. Peter Salerno returns to challenge everything you thought you knew about the cause of narcissistic personality disorder. We're diving into the controversial science of heritability. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW ... false full 220 Buzzsprout-18292509 Were You the Family Scapegoat? Why Sensitive People Get Targeted First This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a Spotify listener: 

“Can you please do an episode on scapegoat children?”

Why do some people get scapegoated, especially in families? Dr. Kerry explains the role of the scapegoat and how families use this person to address systemic stress and dysfunctional. 

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]]> Thu, 4 Dec 2025 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/were-you-the-family-scapegoat-why-sensitive-people-get-targeted-first/ This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a Spotify listener: 

“Can you please do an episode on scapegoat children?”

Why do some people get scapegoated, especially in families? Dr. Kerry explains the role of the scapegoat and how families use this person to address systemic stress and dysfunctional. 

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]]> Were You the Family Scapegoat? Why Sensitive People Get Targeted First Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:08:59 This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a Spotify listener: “Can you please do an episode on scapegoat children?” Why do some people get scapegoated, especially in families? Dr. Kerry explains the role of the scapegoat and how families use this person to address systemic stress and dysfunctional. Submit Your Question If you’d like your question addressed on air, send it here: 👉 https://kerrymcavoyphd.fillout.com/fan-mail Submit your question to be answered on air here! Re... This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a Spotify listener: “Can you please do an episode on scapegoat children?” Why do some people get scapegoated, especially in families? Dr. Kerry explains the role of the scapegoat and how families use this person to address systemic stress and dysfunctional. Submit Your Question If you’d like your question addressed on air, send it here: 👉 https://kerrymcavoyphd.fillout.com/fan-mail Submit your question to be answered on air here! Re... false full 219 Buzzsprout-18276500 How Dangerous People Target You (Without You Even Knowing it!) Ever wonder why you didn't see the danger coming?

This week, Dr. Leslie Dobson joins Dr. Kerry to unpack the psychological mechanisms that drive narcissistic and antisocial behavior.

PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT

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Red flags you're missing: how to spot pressure, boundary testing, and grooming before it's too late.

Dr. Dobson breaks down the early warning signs—from gold-toothed "tests" to rushed intimacy—and why trusting your intuition could save your life.

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]]> Mon, 1 Dec 2025 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-dangerous-people-target-you-without-you-even-knowing-it/ Ever wonder why you didn't see the danger coming?

This week, Dr. Leslie Dobson joins Dr. Kerry to unpack the psychological mechanisms that drive narcissistic and antisocial behavior.

PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT

Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here.

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Red flags you're missing: how to spot pressure, boundary testing, and grooming before it's too late.

Dr. Dobson breaks down the early warning signs—from gold-toothed "tests" to rushed intimacy—and why trusting your intuition could save your life.

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DR. LESLIE DOBSON is a clinical and forensic psychologist specializing in dangerous personalities.

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]]> How Dangerous People Target You (Without You Even Knowing it!) Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:30:51 Ever wonder why you didn't see the danger coming? This week, Dr. Leslie Dobson joins Dr. Kerry to unpack the psychological mechanisms that drive narcissistic and antisocial behavior. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Red flags you're missing: how to spot pressure, boundary testing, and grooming before it's too late. Dr. Dobson breaks down the early warning signs—from gold-toothed "tests"... Ever wonder why you didn't see the danger coming? This week, Dr. Leslie Dobson joins Dr. Kerry to unpack the psychological mechanisms that drive narcissistic and antisocial behavior. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW Red flags you're missing: how to spot pressure, boundary testing, and grooming before it's too late. Dr. Dobson breaks down the early warning signs—from gold-toothed "tests"... false full 218 Buzzsprout-18241994 Why Don't Narcissists Feel Regret? And 4 Other Questions You Need Answered, Featuring Dr. Les Carter Dr. Les Carter has spent decades studying narcissists, and in this retrospective, he reveals what most people miss until it's too late.

We revisit five groundbreaking conversations about what's really happening behind the mask.

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Dr. Carter may have produced his last video, but his wisdom continues on his YouTube channel, Surviving Narcissism.

Thank you, Dr. Les Carter, for all your wonderful work. You have made the world a more lovely, enlightened place.

DR. LES CARTER is a retired clinical psychotherapist, best-selling author, and expert on narcissistic abuse who hosts the popular YouTube channel "Surviving Narcissism".

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]]> Mon, 24 Nov 2025 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-dont-narcissists-feel-regret-and-4-other-questions-you-need-answered-featuring-dr-les-carter/ Dr. Les Carter has spent decades studying narcissists, and in this retrospective, he reveals what most people miss until it's too late.

We revisit five groundbreaking conversations about what's really happening behind the mask.

Get a glimpse into the weekly Substack newsletter with this week’s complimentary copy. Sign up today using this link.

Dr. Carter may have produced his last video, but his wisdom continues on his YouTube channel, Surviving Narcissism.

Thank you, Dr. Les Carter, for all your wonderful work. You have made the world a more lovely, enlightened place.

DR. LES CARTER is a retired clinical psychotherapist, best-selling author, and expert on narcissistic abuse who hosts the popular YouTube channel "Surviving Narcissism".

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]]> Why Don't Narcissists Feel Regret? And 4 Other Questions You Need Answered, Featuring Dr. Les Carter Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:22:09 Dr. Les Carter has spent decades studying narcissists, and in this retrospective, he reveals what most people miss until it's too late. We revisit five groundbreaking conversations about what's really happening behind the mask. Get a glimpse into the weekly Substack newsletter with this week’s complimentary copy. Sign up today using this link. Dr. Carter may have produced his last video, but his wisdom continues on his YouTube channel, Surviving Narcissism. Thank you, Dr. Les Carter, for all ... Dr. Les Carter has spent decades studying narcissists, and in this retrospective, he reveals what most people miss until it's too late. We revisit five groundbreaking conversations about what's really happening behind the mask. Get a glimpse into the weekly Substack newsletter with this week’s complimentary copy. Sign up today using this link. Dr. Carter may have produced his last video, but his wisdom continues on his YouTube channel, Surviving Narcissism. Thank you, Dr. Les Carter, for all ... false full 217 Buzzsprout-18222103 Does the Dark Triad Personality Type Really Exist & Is This Person Dangerous? “Is the Dark Triad a real disorder—or just a dangerous type?”

This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Germany who writes after a recent video:

“You called ‘dark triad’ a personality disorder, but it isn’t in the DSM-5. Isn’t it a subclinical descriptor?”

In this episode, Dr. Kerry clarifies what is the Dark Triad and why we need to get better at spotting this type of personality. 

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]]> Thu, 20 Nov 2025 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/does-the-dark-triad-personality-type-really-exist-is-this-person-dangerous/ “Is the Dark Triad a real disorder—or just a dangerous type?”

This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Germany who writes after a recent video:

“You called ‘dark triad’ a personality disorder, but it isn’t in the DSM-5. Isn’t it a subclinical descriptor?”

In this episode, Dr. Kerry clarifies what is the Dark Triad and why we need to get better at spotting this type of personality. 

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]]> Does the Dark Triad Personality Type Really Exist & Is This Person Dangerous? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:07:59 “Is the Dark Triad a real disorder—or just a dangerous type?” This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Germany who writes after a recent video: “You called ‘dark triad’ a personality disorder, but it isn’t in the DSM-5. Isn’t it a subclinical descriptor?” In this episode, Dr. Kerry clarifies what is the Dark Triad and why we need to get better at spotting this type of personality. Submit Your Question If you’d like your question addressed on air, send it here: 👉 http... “Is the Dark Triad a real disorder—or just a dangerous type?” This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Germany who writes after a recent video: “You called ‘dark triad’ a personality disorder, but it isn’t in the DSM-5. Isn’t it a subclinical descriptor?” In this episode, Dr. Kerry clarifies what is the Dark Triad and why we need to get better at spotting this type of personality. Submit Your Question If you’d like your question addressed on air, send it here: 👉 http... false full 216 Buzzsprout-18190159 When You Feel Less & Less Safe: How Coercive Control Steals Your Freedom & Choice Ever feel like you’re slowly running out of air in a “nice” relationship?

This week, Eleni Sagredos joins Dr. Kerry to unpack how coercive control hides behind charm and “preferences.”

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🔹 Learn how escalation works—and why “just leave” can be a privilege, yet safety planning matters now.

Eleni and Dr. Kerry map the climb from small criticisms to coercion to high-risk moments, and where to get immediate support (DV hotlines, advocates, transitional housing). 

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]]> Mon, 17 Nov 2025 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-you-feel-less-less-safe-how-coercive-control-steals-your-freedom-choice/ Ever feel like you’re slowly running out of air in a “nice” relationship?

This week, Eleni Sagredos joins Dr. Kerry to unpack how coercive control hides behind charm and “preferences.”

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🔹 Learn how escalation works—and why “just leave” can be a privilege, yet safety planning matters now.

Eleni and Dr. Kerry map the climb from small criticisms to coercion to high-risk moments, and where to get immediate support (DV hotlines, advocates, transitional housing). 

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]]> When You Feel Less & Less Safe: How Coercive Control Steals Your Freedom & Choice Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:31:26 Ever feel like you’re slowly running out of air in a “nice” relationship? This week, Eleni Sagredos joins Dr. Kerry to unpack how coercive control hides behind charm and “preferences.” PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW 🔹 Learn how escalation works—and why “just leave” can be a privilege, yet safety planning matters now. Eleni and Dr. Kerry map the climb from small criticisms to coercion to... Ever feel like you’re slowly running out of air in a “nice” relationship? This week, Eleni Sagredos joins Dr. Kerry to unpack how coercive control hides behind charm and “preferences.” PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW 🔹 Learn how escalation works—and why “just leave” can be a privilege, yet safety planning matters now. Eleni and Dr. Kerry map the climb from small criticisms to coercion to... false full 215 Buzzsprout-18182450 How Do I Help My Adult Son Who's in an Abusive Marriage? “My son’s in a toxic marriage—how do we help without making it worse?”

This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Raleigh, North Carolina:

“My adult son is in a toxic marriage with a likely narcissist. He’s miserable, says he wants out, but stays—partly because of their three young kids. How can we support him when he shares the emotional abuse without pushing or making things worse?”

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains how best to support a loved one who’s being abused—especially when it’s your son. Learn what helps and what will make things worse.

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]]> Thu, 13 Nov 2025 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-do-i-help-my-adult-son-whos-in-an-abusive-marriage/ “My son’s in a toxic marriage—how do we help without making it worse?”

This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Raleigh, North Carolina:

“My adult son is in a toxic marriage with a likely narcissist. He’s miserable, says he wants out, but stays—partly because of their three young kids. How can we support him when he shares the emotional abuse without pushing or making things worse?”

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains how best to support a loved one who’s being abused—especially when it’s your son. Learn what helps and what will make things worse.

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]]> How Do I Help My Adult Son Who's in an Abusive Marriage? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:08:41 “My son’s in a toxic marriage—how do we help without making it worse?” This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Raleigh, North Carolina: “My adult son is in a toxic marriage with a likely narcissist. He’s miserable, says he wants out, but stays—partly because of their three young kids. How can we support him when he shares the emotional abuse without pushing or making things worse?” In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains how best to support a loved one who’s being abused—especially... “My son’s in a toxic marriage—how do we help without making it worse?” This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Raleigh, North Carolina: “My adult son is in a toxic marriage with a likely narcissist. He’s miserable, says he wants out, but stays—partly because of their three young kids. How can we support him when he shares the emotional abuse without pushing or making things worse?” In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains how best to support a loved one who’s being abused—especially... false full 214 Buzzsprout-18153865 How Abusive Relationships Shatter Your Identity & Cost You Your Voice Ever feel like you can’t find “you” anymore? That you’re second-guessing everything, going numb, or swallowing your words just to keep the peace?

This week, psychologist Dr. Shahrzad Jalali joins Dr. Kerry to unpack how long-term emotional abuse scrambles your nervous system and leads to identity confusion. 

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🔹 what to do if you either overwhelm others with pain or downplay what happened.

Dr. Jalali lays out a gentle, step-by-step plan that starts with naming what’s happening and accepting you’re not “overreacting.”

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SHAHRZAD JALALI, Psy.D. is a licensed clinical psychologist. She completed an M.A. in Clinical Psychology (Marriage and Family Therapy) and received training during her internship in the field of addiction. 

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]]> Mon, 10 Nov 2025 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-abusive-relationships-shatter-your-identity-cost-you-your-voice/ Ever feel like you can’t find “you” anymore? That you’re second-guessing everything, going numb, or swallowing your words just to keep the peace?

This week, psychologist Dr. Shahrzad Jalali joins Dr. Kerry to unpack how long-term emotional abuse scrambles your nervous system and leads to identity confusion. 

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🔹 what to do if you either overwhelm others with pain or downplay what happened.

Dr. Jalali lays out a gentle, step-by-step plan that starts with naming what’s happening and accepting you’re not “overreacting.”

👉 Get immediate access to this extended interview: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse

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SHAHRZAD JALALI, Psy.D. is a licensed clinical psychologist. She completed an M.A. in Clinical Psychology (Marriage and Family Therapy) and received training during her internship in the field of addiction. 

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]]> How Abusive Relationships Shatter Your Identity & Cost You Your Voice Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:31:28 Ever feel like you can’t find “you” anymore? That you’re second-guessing everything, going numb, or swallowing your words just to keep the peace? This week, psychologist Dr. Shahrzad Jalali joins Dr. Kerry to unpack how long-term emotional abuse scrambles your nervous system and leads to identity confusion. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW 🔹 what to do if you either overwhelm others... Ever feel like you can’t find “you” anymore? That you’re second-guessing everything, going numb, or swallowing your words just to keep the peace? This week, psychologist Dr. Shahrzad Jalali joins Dr. Kerry to unpack how long-term emotional abuse scrambles your nervous system and leads to identity confusion. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE SEGMENT Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA INTERVIEW 🔹 what to do if you either overwhelm others... false full 213 Buzzsprout-18138088 My Abusive Husband Claims He’s Trauma-Bonded to Me! “My abuser claims he’s ‘trauma bonded’ to me…Can that be true?

This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener on YouTube who wants to know how common it is for an abusive partner to be trauma bonded. Hers claims to be. She’s wonders if this true or if her partner is attempting to dodge responsibility. 

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]]> Thu, 6 Nov 2025 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/my-abusive-husband-claims-hes-trauma-bonded-to-me/ “My abuser claims he’s ‘trauma bonded’ to me…Can that be true?

This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener on YouTube who wants to know how common it is for an abusive partner to be trauma bonded. Hers claims to be. She’s wonders if this true or if her partner is attempting to dodge responsibility. 

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]]> My Abusive Husband Claims He’s Trauma-Bonded to Me! Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:06:42 “My abuser claims he’s ‘trauma bonded’ to me…Can that be true? This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener on YouTube who wants to know how common it is for an abusive partner to be trauma bonded. Hers claims to be. She’s wonders if this true or if her partner is attempting to dodge responsibility. Submit Your Question If you’d like your question addressed on air, send it here: 👉 https://kerrymcavoyphd.fillout.com/fan-mail Submit your question to be answered on air here! R... “My abuser claims he’s ‘trauma bonded’ to me…Can that be true? This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener on YouTube who wants to know how common it is for an abusive partner to be trauma bonded. Hers claims to be. She’s wonders if this true or if her partner is attempting to dodge responsibility. Submit Your Question If you’d like your question addressed on air, send it here: 👉 https://kerrymcavoyphd.fillout.com/fan-mail Submit your question to be answered on air here! R... false full 212 Buzzsprout-18122039 Has Your Adult Child Gone No Contact? Here's How to Rebuild That Damaged Relationship Has your adult child gone no contact? Cut off all communication with you? Are you struggling to figure out how to repair things with them?

This week, psychologist and author Dr. Joshua Coleman, author of Rules of Estrangement, joins Dr. Kerry to unpack why estrangement is on the rise and what actually helps parents reopen the door.

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🔹 In this members-only bonus, Dr. Joshua Coleman offers practical solutions, like boundary scripts, de-escalation moves, and how to say “no” to money requests. 

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]]> Mon, 3 Nov 2025 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/has-your-adult-child-gone-no-contact-heres-how-to-rebuild-that-damaged-relationship/ Has your adult child gone no contact? Cut off all communication with you? Are you struggling to figure out how to repair things with them?

This week, psychologist and author Dr. Joshua Coleman, author of Rules of Estrangement, joins Dr. Kerry to unpack why estrangement is on the rise and what actually helps parents reopen the door.

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🔹 In this members-only bonus, Dr. Joshua Coleman offers practical solutions, like boundary scripts, de-escalation moves, and how to say “no” to money requests. 

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]]> Has Your Adult Child Gone No Contact? Here's How to Rebuild That Damaged Relationship Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:28:23 Has your adult child gone no contact? Cut off all communication with you? Are you struggling to figure out how to repair things with them? This week, psychologist and author Dr. Joshua Coleman, author of Rules of Estrangement, joins Dr. Kerry to unpack why estrangement is on the rise and what actually helps parents reopen the door. Podcast Extra Exclusive Interview Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. More About the Podcast Extra Interview 🔹 In this members-only... Has your adult child gone no contact? Cut off all communication with you? Are you struggling to figure out how to repair things with them? This week, psychologist and author Dr. Joshua Coleman, author of Rules of Estrangement, joins Dr. Kerry to unpack why estrangement is on the rise and what actually helps parents reopen the door. Podcast Extra Exclusive Interview Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. More About the Podcast Extra Interview 🔹 In this members-only... false full 211 Buzzsprout-18097018 Can a Psychopath ‘Choose’ to Be a Good Person? “Can narcissists or psychopaths ever live moral lives?”

This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener who asks: “Do you think there are some narcissists or psychopaths who genuinely try to live moral lives—perhaps guided by religion or conscience—or are they all just pretending?”

Her question was prompted by years of watching her ex, a man she believes to be a malignant narcissist, play the part of a “righteous” and religious man in public while being manipulative and cruel in private.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explores the complex intersection between moral development, conscience, and personality disorders.

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]]> Thu, 30 Oct 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/can-a-psychopath-choose-to-be-a-good-person/ “Can narcissists or psychopaths ever live moral lives?”

This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener who asks: “Do you think there are some narcissists or psychopaths who genuinely try to live moral lives—perhaps guided by religion or conscience—or are they all just pretending?”

Her question was prompted by years of watching her ex, a man she believes to be a malignant narcissist, play the part of a “righteous” and religious man in public while being manipulative and cruel in private.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explores the complex intersection between moral development, conscience, and personality disorders.

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]]> Can a Psychopath ‘Choose’ to Be a Good Person? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:07:11 “Can narcissists or psychopaths ever live moral lives?” This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener who asks: “Do you think there are some narcissists or psychopaths who genuinely try to live moral lives—perhaps guided by religion or conscience—or are they all just pretending?” Her question was prompted by years of watching her ex, a man she believes to be a malignant narcissist, play the part of a “righteous” and religious man in public while being manipulative and cruel in private. ... “Can narcissists or psychopaths ever live moral lives?” This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener who asks: “Do you think there are some narcissists or psychopaths who genuinely try to live moral lives—perhaps guided by religion or conscience—or are they all just pretending?” Her question was prompted by years of watching her ex, a man she believes to be a malignant narcissist, play the part of a “righteous” and religious man in public while being manipulative and cruel in private. ... false full 210 Buzzsprout-18079321 Why You Keep Picking Narcissists and What to Do About It, Featuring Jessica Baum Ever wonder why you keep attracting the same kind of person—the ones who feel magnetic at first but end up draining you emotionally?

This week, therapist and author Jessica Baum, creator of Anxiously Attached and SAFE: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building Secure Relationships, joins Dr. Kerry to explore the hidden attachment wounds that pull us toward toxic partners. 

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JESSICA BAUM, is a licensed psychotherapist whose journey began with a lifelong curiosity about the “Whys” of life—why we feel, connect, and experience the world the way we do. 

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]]> Mon, 27 Oct 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-you-keep-picking-narcissists-and-what-to-do-about-it-featuring-jessica-baum/ Ever wonder why you keep attracting the same kind of person—the ones who feel magnetic at first but end up draining you emotionally?

This week, therapist and author Jessica Baum, creator of Anxiously Attached and SAFE: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building Secure Relationships, joins Dr. Kerry to explore the hidden attachment wounds that pull us toward toxic partners. 

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]]> Why You Keep Picking Narcissists and What to Do About It, Featuring Jessica Baum Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:34:25 Ever wonder why you keep attracting the same kind of person—the ones who feel magnetic at first but end up draining you emotionally? This week, therapist and author Jessica Baum, creator of Anxiously Attached and SAFE: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building Secure Relationships, joins Dr. Kerry to explore the hidden attachment wounds that pull us toward toxic partners. Podcast Extra Exclusive Interview Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. More About the Podcas... Ever wonder why you keep attracting the same kind of person—the ones who feel magnetic at first but end up draining you emotionally? This week, therapist and author Jessica Baum, creator of Anxiously Attached and SAFE: An Attachment-Informed Guide to Building Secure Relationships, joins Dr. Kerry to explore the hidden attachment wounds that pull us toward toxic partners. Podcast Extra Exclusive Interview Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. More About the Podcas... false full 209 Buzzsprout-18061301 Why I Stopped Being the Perfect Wife and Daughter-in-Law “How can someone seem loving for years—then suddenly turn cruel?”

This week’s Fan Mail revisits a letter that struck a nerve with listeners. A woman wrote about her daughter-in-law, who had seemed like a wonderful addition to the family for seven years—until she “suddenly turned into a monster.”

But after the episode aired, Dr. Kerry received another listener’s response who offered the opposite perspective: “I was in a 23-year marriage marked by coercive control and escalating abuse. My in-laws adored me—until I began calling out my husband’s behavior. Then they rallied around him and turned on me.”

In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks six possible explanations for why someone may seem to “suddenly change” in a relationship or family dynamic.

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]]> Thu, 23 Oct 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-i-stopped-being-the-perfect-wife-and-daughter-in-law/ “How can someone seem loving for years—then suddenly turn cruel?”

This week’s Fan Mail revisits a letter that struck a nerve with listeners. A woman wrote about her daughter-in-law, who had seemed like a wonderful addition to the family for seven years—until she “suddenly turned into a monster.”

But after the episode aired, Dr. Kerry received another listener’s response who offered the opposite perspective: “I was in a 23-year marriage marked by coercive control and escalating abuse. My in-laws adored me—until I began calling out my husband’s behavior. Then they rallied around him and turned on me.”

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]]> Why I Stopped Being the Perfect Wife and Daughter-in-Law Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:10:50 “How can someone seem loving for years—then suddenly turn cruel?” This week’s Fan Mail revisits a letter that struck a nerve with listeners. A woman wrote about her daughter-in-law, who had seemed like a wonderful addition to the family for seven years—until she “suddenly turned into a monster.” But after the episode aired, Dr. Kerry received another listener’s response who offered the opposite perspective: “I was in a 23-year marriage marked by coercive control and escalating abuse. My in-la... “How can someone seem loving for years—then suddenly turn cruel?” This week’s Fan Mail revisits a letter that struck a nerve with listeners. A woman wrote about her daughter-in-law, who had seemed like a wonderful addition to the family for seven years—until she “suddenly turned into a monster.” But after the episode aired, Dr. Kerry received another listener’s response who offered the opposite perspective: “I was in a 23-year marriage marked by coercive control and escalating abuse. My in-la... false full 208 Buzzsprout-18026999 Can You Spot the 5 Types of People Who Could Ruin Your Life? Here's Bill Eddy's List Ever feel blindsided by someone who seemed charming, helpful, or even caring—only to realize later they were quietly dismantling your peace?

This week, conflict expert Bill Eddy, author of The Five Types of People That Ruin Your Life, joins Dr. Kerry to unpack the five high-conflict personality types most likely to cause chaos in relationships, workplaces, and families.

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BILL EDDY, LCSW, Esq. is HCI’s co-founder and Director of Innovation. While pioneering High Conflict Personality Theory (HCP), he was the National Conflict Resolution Center’s Senior Family Mediator for 15 years, a Certified Family Law Specialist for 15 years, and a licensed clinical social worker and therapist for over 12 years.

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]]> Mon, 20 Oct 2025 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/can-you-spot-the-5-types-of-people-who-could-ruin-your-life-heres-bill-eddys-list/ Ever feel blindsided by someone who seemed charming, helpful, or even caring—only to realize later they were quietly dismantling your peace?

This week, conflict expert Bill Eddy, author of The Five Types of People That Ruin Your Life, joins Dr. Kerry to unpack the five high-conflict personality types most likely to cause chaos in relationships, workplaces, and families.

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]]> Can You Spot the 5 Types of People Who Could Ruin Your Life? Here's Bill Eddy's List Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:34:04 Ever feel blindsided by someone who seemed charming, helpful, or even caring—only to realize later they were quietly dismantling your peace? This week, conflict expert Bill Eddy, author of The Five Types of People That Ruin Your Life, joins Dr. Kerry to unpack the five high-conflict personality types most likely to cause chaos in relationships, workplaces, and families. Podcast Extra Exclusive Interview Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. More About the Podcast... Ever feel blindsided by someone who seemed charming, helpful, or even caring—only to realize later they were quietly dismantling your peace? This week, conflict expert Bill Eddy, author of The Five Types of People That Ruin Your Life, joins Dr. Kerry to unpack the five high-conflict personality types most likely to cause chaos in relationships, workplaces, and families. Podcast Extra Exclusive Interview Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. More About the Podcast... false full 207 Buzzsprout-18016937 My Ex is Blaming Me For His Broken Relationships With Our Kids “Why does my ex always blame me when the kids want nothing to do with him?”

This week’s Fan Mail comes from a listener in Rochester, New York, who writes about the heartbreak of watching her children pull away from their abusive father, only to be blamed for it.

Her ex insists she’s turned the kids against him, while his family defends him as “such a good man” who’s “done so much for us.”

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains how emotionally immature and abusive individuals deflect accountability, making others feel guilty for the natural consequences of their own harmful behavior.

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]]> Thu, 16 Oct 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/my-ex-is-blaming-me-for-his-broken-relationships-with-our-kids/ “Why does my ex always blame me when the kids want nothing to do with him?”

This week’s Fan Mail comes from a listener in Rochester, New York, who writes about the heartbreak of watching her children pull away from their abusive father, only to be blamed for it.

Her ex insists she’s turned the kids against him, while his family defends him as “such a good man” who’s “done so much for us.”

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains how emotionally immature and abusive individuals deflect accountability, making others feel guilty for the natural consequences of their own harmful behavior.

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]]> My Ex is Blaming Me For His Broken Relationships With Our Kids Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:07:42 “Why does my ex always blame me when the kids want nothing to do with him?” This week’s Fan Mail comes from a listener in Rochester, New York, who writes about the heartbreak of watching her children pull away from their abusive father, only to be blamed for it. Her ex insists she’s turned the kids against him, while his family defends him as “such a good man” who’s “done so much for us.” In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains how emotionally immature and abusive individuals deflect accountabili... “Why does my ex always blame me when the kids want nothing to do with him?” This week’s Fan Mail comes from a listener in Rochester, New York, who writes about the heartbreak of watching her children pull away from their abusive father, only to be blamed for it. Her ex insists she’s turned the kids against him, while his family defends him as “such a good man” who’s “done so much for us.” In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains how emotionally immature and abusive individuals deflect accountabili... false full 206 Buzzsprout-17996979 Why Narcissists Use Secrets to Avoid Intimacy Ever feel like your relationship was the most intoxicating connection of your life—only to discover shocking lies and betrayal later?

This week, intimacy expert Gary Katz reveals how narcissists protect themselves by keeping secrets, building false connections, and manipulating trust.

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]]> Mon, 13 Oct 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-narcissists-use-secrets-to-avoid-intimacy/ Ever feel like your relationship was the most intoxicating connection of your life—only to discover shocking lies and betrayal later?

This week, intimacy expert Gary Katz reveals how narcissists protect themselves by keeping secrets, building false connections, and manipulating trust.

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]]> Why Narcissists Use Secrets to Avoid Intimacy Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:41:16 Ever feel like your relationship was the most intoxicating connection of your life—only to discover shocking lies and betrayal later? This week, intimacy expert Gary Katz reveals how narcissists protect themselves by keeping secrets, building false connections, and manipulating trust. Podcast Extra Exclusive Interview Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. More About the Podcast Extra Interview 🔹 Think your relationship is missing intimacy, but not sure why? In th... Ever feel like your relationship was the most intoxicating connection of your life—only to discover shocking lies and betrayal later? This week, intimacy expert Gary Katz reveals how narcissists protect themselves by keeping secrets, building false connections, and manipulating trust. Podcast Extra Exclusive Interview Find the exclusive second segment and weekly newsletter here. More About the Podcast Extra Interview 🔹 Think your relationship is missing intimacy, but not sure why? In th... intimacy avoidance, betrayal, narcissism false full 205 Buzzsprout-17980450 My Husband Claims His Facebook Account Has Been Hacked!… What do you do when the evidence points to betrayal, but your partner insists you’re crazy?

This week’s Fan Mail comes from a listener in Atlanta, Georgia, who describes the heartbreak of suspecting her husband of nearly 50 years is living a double life. Despite finding suspicious phone activity and even an STD clinic reference, her husband denies everything—blaming and belittling her instead.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks the signs of DARVO (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender), explains why being called “crazy” is psychological abuse, and shares what to do when you feel destabilized by betrayal trauma. She also offers practical next steps—from documenting evidence to protecting digital privacy—to help regain clarity and safety.

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]]> Thu, 9 Oct 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/my-husband-claims-his-facebook-account-has-been-hacked/ What do you do when the evidence points to betrayal, but your partner insists you’re crazy?

This week’s Fan Mail comes from a listener in Atlanta, Georgia, who describes the heartbreak of suspecting her husband of nearly 50 years is living a double life. Despite finding suspicious phone activity and even an STD clinic reference, her husband denies everything—blaming and belittling her instead.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks the signs of DARVO (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender), explains why being called “crazy” is psychological abuse, and shares what to do when you feel destabilized by betrayal trauma. She also offers practical next steps—from documenting evidence to protecting digital privacy—to help regain clarity and safety.

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]]> My Husband Claims His Facebook Account Has Been Hacked!… Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:09:18 What do you do when the evidence points to betrayal, but your partner insists you’re crazy? This week’s Fan Mail comes from a listener in Atlanta, Georgia, who describes the heartbreak of suspecting her husband of nearly 50 years is living a double life. Despite finding suspicious phone activity and even an STD clinic reference, her husband denies everything—blaming and belittling her instead. In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks the signs of DARVO (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender), e... What do you do when the evidence points to betrayal, but your partner insists you’re crazy? This week’s Fan Mail comes from a listener in Atlanta, Georgia, who describes the heartbreak of suspecting her husband of nearly 50 years is living a double life. Despite finding suspicious phone activity and even an STD clinic reference, her husband denies everything—blaming and belittling her instead. In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks the signs of DARVO (deny, attack, reverse victim and offender), e... false full 204 Buzzsprout-17957643 Why It’s So Hard to See Predators Coming: The Story Behind Netflix's Bad Vegan Predators are often hiding in plain sight—and even the smartest, most capable people can miss the red flags. In this episode, Dr. Kerry McAvoy talks with Sarma Melngailis, the former restaurateur whose story was told in Netflix’s Bad Vegan.

Sarma opens up about how she was manipulated, criminalized, and misrepresented—and why her memoir The Girl with the Duck Tattoo finally tells the truth.

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• Sarma’s memoir: The Girl with the Duck Tattoo: The Girl with the Duck Tattoo

• Follow Sarma: on Instagram: @sarmamelngailis

• Sarma’s Substack: Sarma Melngailis on Substack

• Dr. Kerry’s book: Love You More: The Harrowing True Story of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross 

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]]> Mon, 6 Oct 2025 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-its-so-hard-to-see-predators-coming-the-story-behind-netflixs-bad-vegan/ Predators are often hiding in plain sight—and even the smartest, most capable people can miss the red flags. In this episode, Dr. Kerry McAvoy talks with Sarma Melngailis, the former restaurateur whose story was told in Netflix’s Bad Vegan.

Sarma opens up about how she was manipulated, criminalized, and misrepresented—and why her memoir The Girl with the Duck Tattoo finally tells the truth.

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• Sarma’s memoir: The Girl with the Duck Tattoo: The Girl with the Duck Tattoo

• Follow Sarma: on Instagram: @sarmamelngailis

• Sarma’s Substack: Sarma Melngailis on Substack

• Dr. Kerry’s book: Love You More: The Harrowing True Story of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross 

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]]> Why It’s So Hard to See Predators Coming: The Story Behind Netflix's Bad Vegan Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:45:41 Predators are often hiding in plain sight—and even the smartest, most capable people can miss the red flags. In this episode, Dr. Kerry McAvoy talks with Sarma Melngailis, the former restaurateur whose story was told in Netflix’s Bad Vegan. Sarma opens up about how she was manipulated, criminalized, and misrepresented—and why her memoir The Girl with the Duck Tattoo finally tells the truth. Resources Mentioned • Sarma’s memoir: The Girl with the Duck Tattoo: The Girl with th... Predators are often hiding in plain sight—and even the smartest, most capable people can miss the red flags. In this episode, Dr. Kerry McAvoy talks with Sarma Melngailis, the former restaurateur whose story was told in Netflix’s Bad Vegan. Sarma opens up about how she was manipulated, criminalized, and misrepresented—and why her memoir The Girl with the Duck Tattoo finally tells the truth. Resources Mentioned • Sarma’s memoir: The Girl with the Duck Tattoo: The Girl with th... false full 203 Buzzsprout-17924053 What to Do When You Lose Custody in Court: Answering Your Fan Mail This week’s Fan Mail brings us two powerful questions: 

• From Syracuse, New York: “The family referee took my custody and handed it over to the father who was absent for years. My children have been separated from their siblings, and I’m only allowed one hour a week of visitation. The court won’t let me present my evidence, and I feel silenced and helpless. What can I do?” 

  • From Wichita, Kansas
  • And from Kansas City, Missouri, a listener asks: “How do I get access to the Podcast Extras?” 

In this episode, Dr. Kerry tackles both concerns. First, she validates the heartbreak of a mother caught in post-separation abuse reinforced by the family court system.

Then, in response to the Wichita and Kansas City listeners, Dr. Kerry explains how to access the Podcast Extras—exclusive deep-dive interviews with leading experts on narcissistic abuse recovery. 

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]]> Thu, 2 Oct 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/what-to-do-when-you-lose-custody-in-court-answering-your-fan-mail/ This week’s Fan Mail brings us two powerful questions: 

• From Syracuse, New York: “The family referee took my custody and handed it over to the father who was absent for years. My children have been separated from their siblings, and I’m only allowed one hour a week of visitation. The court won’t let me present my evidence, and I feel silenced and helpless. What can I do?” 

  • From Wichita, Kansas
  • And from Kansas City, Missouri, a listener asks: “How do I get access to the Podcast Extras?” 

In this episode, Dr. Kerry tackles both concerns. First, she validates the heartbreak of a mother caught in post-separation abuse reinforced by the family court system.

Then, in response to the Wichita and Kansas City listeners, Dr. Kerry explains how to access the Podcast Extras—exclusive deep-dive interviews with leading experts on narcissistic abuse recovery. 

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]]> What to Do When You Lose Custody in Court: Answering Your Fan Mail Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:08:06 This week’s Fan Mail brings us two powerful questions: • From Syracuse, New York: “The family referee took my custody and handed it over to the father who was absent for years. My children have been separated from their siblings, and I’m only allowed one hour a week of visitation. The court won’t let me present my evidence, and I feel silenced and helpless. What can I do?” From Wichita, KansasAnd from Kansas City, Missouri, a listener asks: “How do I get access to the Podcast Extr... This week’s Fan Mail brings us two powerful questions: • From Syracuse, New York: “The family referee took my custody and handed it over to the father who was absent for years. My children have been separated from their siblings, and I’m only allowed one hour a week of visitation. The court won’t let me present my evidence, and I feel silenced and helpless. What can I do?” From Wichita, KansasAnd from Kansas City, Missouri, a listener asks: “How do I get access to the Podcast Extr... false full 202 Buzzsprout-17934061 Podcast Trailer: Welcome to Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse Join Dr. Kerry McAvoy on Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse for real talk about toxic relationships and recovery. Mondays feature expert interviews, Thursdays bring our new Fan Mail Q&A. Get clarity, validation, and tools to heal.

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In Love You More, Dr. McAvoy gives an uncensored glimpse into her survival of narcissistic abuse, and her workbook, First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist, helps victims break free from the confusion common in abusive relationships. She hosts the Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse podcast and offers trauma-related advice on social media.

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]]> Tue, 30 Sep 2025 18:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/podcast-trailer-welcome-to-breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/ Join Dr. Kerry McAvoy on Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse for real talk about toxic relationships and recovery. Mondays feature expert interviews, Thursdays bring our new Fan Mail Q&A. Get clarity, validation, and tools to heal.

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In Love You More, Dr. McAvoy gives an uncensored glimpse into her survival of narcissistic abuse, and her workbook, First Steps to Leaving a Narcissist, helps victims break free from the confusion common in abusive relationships. She hosts the Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse podcast and offers trauma-related advice on social media.

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]]> Podcast Trailer: Welcome to Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:00:46 Join Dr. Kerry McAvoy on Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse for real talk about toxic relationships and recovery. Mondays feature expert interviews, Thursdays bring our new Fan Mail Q&A. Get clarity, validation, and tools to heal. Stay in Touch with Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFacebookMore About Dr. Kerry Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D, a retired psychologist and author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships and deconstructing narcissism. Her blogs have been featured in Mamam... Join Dr. Kerry McAvoy on Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse for real talk about toxic relationships and recovery. Mondays feature expert interviews, Thursdays bring our new Fan Mail Q&A. Get clarity, validation, and tools to heal. Stay in Touch with Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFacebookMore About Dr. Kerry Kerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D, a retired psychologist and author, is an expert on cultivating healthy relationships and deconstructing narcissism. Her blogs have been featured in Mamam... false trailer Buzzsprout-17910024 When Men Say They’ve Been Abused: A Conversation with Josh from The Derelict Podcast Disclaimer: This interview features perspectives from a male divorce coach navigating toxic dynamics. While some views expressed differ from those of trauma-informed psychology, I found it valuable to explore these tensions in real time. Please listen with care, and note that I challenge certain assumptions as we go.

This week, I sit down with Josh Tomeoni, a divorce coach who shares his story of what he describes as abuse within his long-term marriage. Josh opens up about the male experience of toxic relationships and why so many men don’t recognize emotional abuse.

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]]> Mon, 29 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-men-say-theyve-been-abused-a-conversation-with-josh-from-the-derelict-podcast/ Disclaimer: This interview features perspectives from a male divorce coach navigating toxic dynamics. While some views expressed differ from those of trauma-informed psychology, I found it valuable to explore these tensions in real time. Please listen with care, and note that I challenge certain assumptions as we go.

This week, I sit down with Josh Tomeoni, a divorce coach who shares his story of what he describes as abuse within his long-term marriage. Josh opens up about the male experience of toxic relationships and why so many men don’t recognize emotional abuse.

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]]> When Men Say They’ve Been Abused: A Conversation with Josh from The Derelict Podcast Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:41:11 Disclaimer: This interview features perspectives from a male divorce coach navigating toxic dynamics. While some views expressed differ from those of trauma-informed psychology, I found it valuable to explore these tensions in real time. Please listen with care, and note that I challenge certain assumptions as we go. This week, I sit down with Josh Tomeoni, a divorce coach who shares his story of what he describes as abuse within his long-term marriage. Josh opens up about the male expe... Disclaimer: This interview features perspectives from a male divorce coach navigating toxic dynamics. While some views expressed differ from those of trauma-informed psychology, I found it valuable to explore these tensions in real time. Please listen with care, and note that I challenge certain assumptions as we go. This week, I sit down with Josh Tomeoni, a divorce coach who shares his story of what he describes as abuse within his long-term marriage. Josh opens up about the male expe... false full 201 Buzzsprout-17885265 When Your Therapist is the Narcissist! + Answering Your Fan Mail What happens when a narcissistic therapist uses their professional training against you?

This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Seattle who writes: “I dated a narcissist who was also a licensed clinical social worker. Can you talk about the weaponization of therapeutic training by narcissists?”

In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks how narcissistic mental health professionals can use psychology to pathologize your emotions and silence your voice, how the imbalance of power could be weaponized against you.

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]]> Thu, 25 Sep 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-your-therapist-is-the-narcissist-answering-your-fan-mail/ What happens when a narcissistic therapist uses their professional training against you?

This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Seattle who writes: “I dated a narcissist who was also a licensed clinical social worker. Can you talk about the weaponization of therapeutic training by narcissists?”

In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks how narcissistic mental health professionals can use psychology to pathologize your emotions and silence your voice, how the imbalance of power could be weaponized against you.

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]]> When Your Therapist is the Narcissist! + Answering Your Fan Mail Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:08:29 What happens when a narcissistic therapist uses their professional training against you? This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Seattle who writes: “I dated a narcissist who was also a licensed clinical social worker. Can you talk about the weaponization of therapeutic training by narcissists?” In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks how narcissistic mental health professionals can use psychology to pathologize your emotions and silence your voice, how the imbalance of power could ... What happens when a narcissistic therapist uses their professional training against you? This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a listener in Seattle who writes: “I dated a narcissist who was also a licensed clinical social worker. Can you talk about the weaponization of therapeutic training by narcissists?” In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks how narcissistic mental health professionals can use psychology to pathologize your emotions and silence your voice, how the imbalance of power could ... false full 200 Buzzsprout-17882523 How the Victim’s Personality & Attachment Styles Shape Healing and Recovery - Featuring Chelli Pumphrey Do you know what one of the most dangerous traps you can fall for? Believing that you can “fix” a narcissist’s early attachment wounds.

In this exclusive episode, therapist and author Chelli Pumphrey explains why narcissists rarely have secure attachments.

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]]> Mon, 22 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-the-victims-personality-attachment-styles-shape-healing-and-recovery-featuring-chelli-pumphrey/ Do you know what one of the most dangerous traps you can fall for? Believing that you can “fix” a narcissist’s early attachment wounds.

In this exclusive episode, therapist and author Chelli Pumphrey explains why narcissists rarely have secure attachments.

PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW

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What’s the attachment style of a narcissist?

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Get immediate access to this extended interview—and discover which attachment styles are more common among narcissists and other personality disorders.

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]]> How the Victim’s Personality & Attachment Styles Shape Healing and Recovery - Featuring Chelli Pumphrey Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:37:19 Do you know what one of the most dangerous traps you can fall for? Believing that you can “fix” a narcissist’s early attachment wounds. In this exclusive episode, therapist and author Chelli Pumphrey explains why narcissists rarely have secure attachments. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW Find it here for the exclusive interview and weekly newsletter. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA What’s the attachment style of a narcissist? In this powerful bonus conversation, Chell... Do you know what one of the most dangerous traps you can fall for? Believing that you can “fix” a narcissist’s early attachment wounds. In this exclusive episode, therapist and author Chelli Pumphrey explains why narcissists rarely have secure attachments. PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW Find it here for the exclusive interview and weekly newsletter. MORE ABOUT THE PODCAST EXTRA What’s the attachment style of a narcissist? In this powerful bonus conversation, Chell... false full 199 Buzzsprout-17859005 Can You Really Heal a Trauma Bond? + Why Do Narcissists Cheat? Answering Your Fan Mail Can you really heal a trauma bond—or is the damage permanent? 

This week’s Fan Mail features two powerful questions. The first comes from a YouTube listener who asks: “Is it really possible to break a trauma bond? Even Dr. Ramani says she still struggles daily—so what’s the point of fighting, especially if kids are involved?” 

The second comes from a listener in New York, New York who wants to know: “Why do narcissists cheat—and how can you tell if it’s happening to you?” 

In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks the reality of healing from trauma bonds, offering both hope and hard truth, and explores the eight most common reasons narcissists cheat—plus the warning signs to watch for in your relationship. 

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]]> Thu, 18 Sep 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/can-you-really-heal-a-trauma-bond-why-do-narcissists-cheat-answering-your-fan-mail/ Can you really heal a trauma bond—or is the damage permanent? 

This week’s Fan Mail features two powerful questions. The first comes from a YouTube listener who asks: “Is it really possible to break a trauma bond? Even Dr. Ramani says she still struggles daily—so what’s the point of fighting, especially if kids are involved?” 

The second comes from a listener in New York, New York who wants to know: “Why do narcissists cheat—and how can you tell if it’s happening to you?” 

In this episode, Dr. Kerry unpacks the reality of healing from trauma bonds, offering both hope and hard truth, and explores the eight most common reasons narcissists cheat—plus the warning signs to watch for in your relationship. 

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]]> Can You Really Heal a Trauma Bond? + Why Do Narcissists Cheat? Answering Your Fan Mail Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:11:22 Can you really heal a trauma bond—or is the damage permanent? This week’s Fan Mail features two powerful questions. The first comes from a YouTube listener who asks: “Is it really possible to break a trauma bond? Even Dr. Ramani says she still struggles daily—so what’s the point of fighting, especially if kids are involved?” The second comes from a listener in New York, New York who wants to know: “Why do narcissists cheat—and how can you tell if it’s happening to you?” In t... Can you really heal a trauma bond—or is the damage permanent? This week’s Fan Mail features two powerful questions. The first comes from a YouTube listener who asks: “Is it really possible to break a trauma bond? Even Dr. Ramani says she still struggles daily—so what’s the point of fighting, especially if kids are involved?” The second comes from a listener in New York, New York who wants to know: “Why do narcissists cheat—and how can you tell if it’s happening to you?” In t... false full 198 Buzzsprout-17839834 When Your Mother Hurts Instead of Loves You: Understanding The Controlling Mom Can you ever be “good enough” for a difficult mother?

In this episode, psychotherapist Katherine Fabrizio, author of The Good Daughter Syndrome, reveals why empathic daughters feel trapped in cycles of guilt, exhaustion, and approval-seeking—and how to reclaim your power and identity finally.

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Setting boundaries isn’t just about saying “no”—it’s about grieving the mother you wish you had while facing the reality of the one you do.

In this powerful bonus conversation, Katherine Fabrizio shares how to let go of the fantasy of a different mom,

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]]> Mon, 15 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-your-mother-hurts-instead-of-loves-you-understanding-the-controlling-mom/ Can you ever be “good enough” for a difficult mother?

In this episode, psychotherapist Katherine Fabrizio, author of The Good Daughter Syndrome, reveals why empathic daughters feel trapped in cycles of guilt, exhaustion, and approval-seeking—and how to reclaim your power and identity finally.

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Setting boundaries isn’t just about saying “no”—it’s about grieving the mother you wish you had while facing the reality of the one you do.

In this powerful bonus conversation, Katherine Fabrizio shares how to let go of the fantasy of a different mom,

Get immediate access to this extended interview—and discover the strength to set boundaries that honor your life.

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]]> When Your Mother Hurts Instead of Loves You: Understanding The Controlling Mom Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:27:45 Can you ever be “good enough” for a difficult mother? In this episode, psychotherapist Katherine Fabrizio, author of The Good Daughter Syndrome, reveals why empathic daughters feel trapped in cycles of guilt, exhaustion, and approval-seeking—and how to reclaim your power and identity finally. Tronick’s Still (Blank) Face Experiment PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW Find it here: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse for the exclusive interview and weekly newsletter.&nb... Can you ever be “good enough” for a difficult mother? In this episode, psychotherapist Katherine Fabrizio, author of The Good Daughter Syndrome, reveals why empathic daughters feel trapped in cycles of guilt, exhaustion, and approval-seeking—and how to reclaim your power and identity finally. Tronick’s Still (Blank) Face Experiment PODCAST EXTRA EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW Find it here: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse for the exclusive interview and weekly newsletter.&nb... false full 197 Buzzsprout-17814718 Why Do We REALLY Stay? Answering Your Fan Mail This week’s fan mail dives into two powerful questions about surviving emotional abuse.

First, Dr. Kerry explores what it means when you stop crying—and why emotional shutdown can be a survival mechanism in toxic relationships. Then she tackles whether the sunk cost fallacy is really what keeps us stuck with a narcissist, or if something deeper is at play.

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]]> Thu, 11 Sep 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-do-we-really-stay-answering-your-fan-mail/ This week’s fan mail dives into two powerful questions about surviving emotional abuse.

First, Dr. Kerry explores what it means when you stop crying—and why emotional shutdown can be a survival mechanism in toxic relationships. Then she tackles whether the sunk cost fallacy is really what keeps us stuck with a narcissist, or if something deeper is at play.

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]]> Why Do We REALLY Stay? Answering Your Fan Mail Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:06:27 This week’s fan mail dives into two powerful questions about surviving emotional abuse. First, Dr. Kerry explores what it means when you stop crying—and why emotional shutdown can be a survival mechanism in toxic relationships. Then she tackles whether the sunk cost fallacy is really what keeps us stuck with a narcissist, or if something deeper is at play. Submit Your Question! If you would like your question addressed on air, please respond here! Submit your question to be answered on air ... This week’s fan mail dives into two powerful questions about surviving emotional abuse. First, Dr. Kerry explores what it means when you stop crying—and why emotional shutdown can be a survival mechanism in toxic relationships. Then she tackles whether the sunk cost fallacy is really what keeps us stuck with a narcissist, or if something deeper is at play. Submit Your Question! If you would like your question addressed on air, please respond here! Submit your question to be answered on air ... false full 196 Buzzsprout-17781524 How to Outsmart a Narcissist in Court: Family Law Secrets from Michele Locke Going through a custody battle or divorce with a narcissist? The you know the legal system can feel stacked against you.

This week, former family law judge and attorney Michele Locke reveals exactly how narcissists twist the truth, exploit legal loopholes, and weaponize the court process — and what you can do to outsmart them.

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Choosing the wrong attorney in a custody battle can cost you more than money—it can cost you your case.

In this members-only conversation, former family law judge Michele Locke shares how to spot when your lawyer isn’t the right fit and exactly what to do if you need to make a switch mid-case.

Get immediate access to this extended interview—and make sure the person representing you is truly fighting for your future.

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]]> Mon, 8 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-to-outsmart-a-narcissist-in-court-family-law-secrets-from-michele-locke/ Going through a custody battle or divorce with a narcissist? The you know the legal system can feel stacked against you.

This week, former family law judge and attorney Michele Locke reveals exactly how narcissists twist the truth, exploit legal loopholes, and weaponize the court process — and what you can do to outsmart them.

Podcast Extra Exclusive Interview

Find it here the exclusive interview and weekly newsletter.

More About the Podcast Extra Interview

Choosing the wrong attorney in a custody battle can cost you more than money—it can cost you your case.

In this members-only conversation, former family law judge Michele Locke shares how to spot when your lawyer isn’t the right fit and exactly what to do if you need to make a switch mid-case.

Get immediate access to this extended interview—and make sure the person representing you is truly fighting for your future.

Join today: https://substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse.

More About Michele Locke:

Website: https://www.coldwellbowes.com/people/michele-l-locke

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/attorneymichelelocke/

Podcast - LoveLustLaw: https://www.michelelocke.com/podcast

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]]> How to Outsmart a Narcissist in Court: Family Law Secrets from Michele Locke Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:27:43 Going through a custody battle or divorce with a narcissist? The you know the legal system can feel stacked against you. This week, former family law judge and attorney Michele Locke reveals exactly how narcissists twist the truth, exploit legal loopholes, and weaponize the court process — and what you can do to outsmart them. Podcast Extra Exclusive Interview Find it here the exclusive interview and weekly newsletter. More About the Podcast Extra Interview Choosing the wrong attorney in a ... Going through a custody battle or divorce with a narcissist? The you know the legal system can feel stacked against you. This week, former family law judge and attorney Michele Locke reveals exactly how narcissists twist the truth, exploit legal loopholes, and weaponize the court process — and what you can do to outsmart them. Podcast Extra Exclusive Interview Find it here the exclusive interview and weekly newsletter. More About the Podcast Extra Interview Choosing the wrong attorney in a ... false full 195 Buzzsprout-17734099 Practical Steps to Stopping the Crazy Confusion: Answering Your Fan Mail What do you do when you can’t just cut off a toxic person?

This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener who asks: “How do I stop the cognitive dissonance and self-doubt when I can’t go no-contact with a toxic person?”

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why cognitive dissonance is such a powerful trap in emotionally abusive relationships—especially when you’re forced to maintain contact.

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]]> Thu, 4 Sep 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/practical-steps-to-stopping-the-crazy-confusion-answering-your-fan-mail/ What do you do when you can’t just cut off a toxic person?

This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener who asks: “How do I stop the cognitive dissonance and self-doubt when I can’t go no-contact with a toxic person?”

In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why cognitive dissonance is such a powerful trap in emotionally abusive relationships—especially when you’re forced to maintain contact.

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]]> Practical Steps to Stopping the Crazy Confusion: Answering Your Fan Mail Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:06:58 What do you do when you can’t just cut off a toxic person? This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener who asks: “How do I stop the cognitive dissonance and self-doubt when I can’t go no-contact with a toxic person?” In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why cognitive dissonance is such a powerful trap in emotionally abusive relationships—especially when you’re forced to maintain contact. Submit Your Question If you would like your question addressed on air, please respond here!... What do you do when you can’t just cut off a toxic person? This week’s Fan Mail question comes from a YouTube listener who asks: “How do I stop the cognitive dissonance and self-doubt when I can’t go no-contact with a toxic person?” In this episode, Dr. Kerry explains why cognitive dissonance is such a powerful trap in emotionally abusive relationships—especially when you’re forced to maintain contact. Submit Your Question If you would like your question addressed on air, please respond here!... false full 194 Buzzsprout-17734080 Why We Miss the Abuse — And How to Break Free from the Confusion Why do so many survivors miss they’re being abuse?

In this Labor Day Special, I’m revisiting three powerful interviews that follow the journey from denial to freedom.

Whether you’re still in or out of a toxic relationship, learning to recognize the psychological patterns can help you plan your next step toward freedom.

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]]> Mon, 1 Sep 2025 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-we-miss-the-abuse-and-how-to-break-free-from-the-confusion/ Why do so many survivors miss they’re being abuse?

In this Labor Day Special, I’m revisiting three powerful interviews that follow the journey from denial to freedom.

Whether you’re still in or out of a toxic relationship, learning to recognize the psychological patterns can help you plan your next step toward freedom.

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]]> Why We Miss the Abuse — And How to Break Free from the Confusion Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:26:57 Why do so many survivors miss they’re being abuse? In this Labor Day Special, I’m revisiting three powerful interviews that follow the journey from denial to freedom. Whether you’re still in or out of a toxic relationship, learning to recognize the psychological patterns can help you plan your next step toward freedom. Have a Fan Mail Question? Submit it here! Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery ... Why do so many survivors miss they’re being abuse? In this Labor Day Special, I’m revisiting three powerful interviews that follow the journey from denial to freedom. Whether you’re still in or out of a toxic relationship, learning to recognize the psychological patterns can help you plan your next step toward freedom. Have a Fan Mail Question? Submit it here! Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery ... false full 193 Buzzsprout-17702434 Why the Narcissist’s Mask Slips: Answering Your Fan Mail Is my daughter-in-law a malignant narcissist? How did she hide her worst qualities for so long?

Today, Dr. Kerry answers 2 listeners’ questions.

The first is from New York, New York about narcissists’ public and private personas. Many narcissistic individuals create a false mask to hide their worst qualities.

The second comes from Southern Pines, North Carolina, who wants to know more about love-bombing.

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]]> Thu, 28 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-the-narcissists-mask-slips-answering-your-fan-mail/ Is my daughter-in-law a malignant narcissist? How did she hide her worst qualities for so long?

Today, Dr. Kerry answers 2 listeners’ questions.

The first is from New York, New York about narcissists’ public and private personas. Many narcissistic individuals create a false mask to hide their worst qualities.

The second comes from Southern Pines, North Carolina, who wants to know more about love-bombing.

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]]> Why the Narcissist’s Mask Slips: Answering Your Fan Mail Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:08:55 Is my daughter-in-law a malignant narcissist? How did she hide her worst qualities for so long? Today, Dr. Kerry answers 2 listeners’ questions. The first is from New York, New York about narcissists’ public and private personas. Many narcissistic individuals create a false mask to hide their worst qualities. The second comes from Southern Pines, North Carolina, who wants to know more about love-bombing. SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION! If you would like your question addressed o... Is my daughter-in-law a malignant narcissist? How did she hide her worst qualities for so long? Today, Dr. Kerry answers 2 listeners’ questions. The first is from New York, New York about narcissists’ public and private personas. Many narcissistic individuals create a false mask to hide their worst qualities. The second comes from Southern Pines, North Carolina, who wants to know more about love-bombing. SUBMIT YOUR QUESTION! If you would like your question addressed o... false full 192 Buzzsprout-17702422 Exposing Love Bombing: Insights from The Wolf of Wall Street’s Ex-Wife What if the person you fell in love with never really existed?

In this episode, Dr. Nae — psychologist, author of Run Like Hell, and former wife of the real “Wolf of Wall Street” — exposes how master manipulators use love-bombing, mirroring, and coercive control to create a false sense of intimacy.

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Leaving a trauma bond isn’t just about walking away—it’s about planning your freedom in a way that keeps you safe.

In this exclusive podcast extra conversation, Dr. Nae shares the exact steps survivors need to protect themselves before, during, and after leaving a toxic relationship.

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]]> Mon, 25 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/exposing-love-bombing-insights-from-the-wolf-of-wall-streets-ex-wife/ What if the person you fell in love with never really existed?

In this episode, Dr. Nae — psychologist, author of Run Like Hell, and former wife of the real “Wolf of Wall Street” — exposes how master manipulators use love-bombing, mirroring, and coercive control to create a false sense of intimacy.

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Leaving a trauma bond isn’t just about walking away—it’s about planning your freedom in a way that keeps you safe.

In this exclusive podcast extra conversation, Dr. Nae shares the exact steps survivors need to protect themselves before, during, and after leaving a toxic relationship.

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]]> Exposing Love Bombing: Insights from The Wolf of Wall Street’s Ex-Wife Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:28:30 What if the person you fell in love with never really existed? In this episode, Dr. Nae — psychologist, author of Run Like Hell, and former wife of the real “Wolf of Wall Street” — exposes how master manipulators use love-bombing, mirroring, and coercive control to create a false sense of intimacy. Podcast Extra Exclusive Interview Find it here the exclusive interview and weekly newsletter. More About the Podcast Extra Interview Leaving a trauma bond isn’t just about walking away—it’s abou... What if the person you fell in love with never really existed? In this episode, Dr. Nae — psychologist, author of Run Like Hell, and former wife of the real “Wolf of Wall Street” — exposes how master manipulators use love-bombing, mirroring, and coercive control to create a false sense of intimacy. Podcast Extra Exclusive Interview Find it here the exclusive interview and weekly newsletter. More About the Podcast Extra Interview Leaving a trauma bond isn’t just about walking away—it’s abou... false full 191 Buzzsprout-17678853 He Has Successfully Destroyed Me! Answering Your Fan Mail Welcome to our new podcast segment called Fan Mail! This is where Dr. Kerry answers your questions.

To kick off our weekly bonus episode, Dr. Kerry is responding to a listener who writes, “He has destroyed me and my world after 16 years of marriage.” -- from Westminster California

More About the Episode

Today Dr. Kerry answers two fan mail requests:

  1. "Please address abuse from a man's perspective." -Cleveland, Ohio
  2. "I can't heal...He's successfully destroyed my world. -Westminster, California

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]]> Thu, 21 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/he-has-successfully-destroyed-me-answering-your-fan-mail/ Welcome to our new podcast segment called Fan Mail! This is where Dr. Kerry answers your questions.

To kick off our weekly bonus episode, Dr. Kerry is responding to a listener who writes, “He has destroyed me and my world after 16 years of marriage.” -- from Westminster California

More About the Episode

Today Dr. Kerry answers two fan mail requests:

  1. "Please address abuse from a man's perspective." -Cleveland, Ohio
  2. "I can't heal...He's successfully destroyed my world. -Westminster, California

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]]> He Has Successfully Destroyed Me! Answering Your Fan Mail Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:06:44 Welcome to our new podcast segment called Fan Mail! This is where Dr. Kerry answers your questions. To kick off our weekly bonus episode, Dr. Kerry is responding to a listener who writes, “He has destroyed me and my world after 16 years of marriage.” -- from Westminster California More About the Episode Today Dr. Kerry answers two fan mail requests: 1. "Please address abuse from a man's perspective." -Cleveland, Ohio 2. "I can't heal...He's successfully destroyed my world. -Westminste... Welcome to our new podcast segment called Fan Mail! This is where Dr. Kerry answers your questions. To kick off our weekly bonus episode, Dr. Kerry is responding to a listener who writes, “He has destroyed me and my world after 16 years of marriage.” -- from Westminster California More About the Episode Today Dr. Kerry answers two fan mail requests: 1. "Please address abuse from a man's perspective." -Cleveland, Ohio 2. "I can't heal...He's successfully destroyed my world. -Westminste... false full 190 Buzzsprout-17670549 Dr. Les Carter on the #1 Sign Someone Lacks Emotional Maturity in Conflict What’s the single biggest giveaway that someone lacks emotional maturity — especially when the pressure’s on?

In this episode, Dr. Les Carter, psychologist, best-selling author, and expert on narcissism and emotional health, reveals the #1 sign of low emotional maturity during conflict. We dive into how this pattern plays out in everyday disagreements, and what you can do to protect your own emotional space when dealing with it.

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Ever wish you could walk away from a heated argument without feeling guilty—or second-guessing yourself?

In this exclusive bonus conversation, Dr. Les Carter shares his best strategies for stepping out of circular or controlling exchanges before they drain you.

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]]> Mon, 18 Aug 2025 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/dr-les-carter-on-the-1-sign-someone-lacks-emotional-maturity-in-conflict/ What’s the single biggest giveaway that someone lacks emotional maturity — especially when the pressure’s on?

In this episode, Dr. Les Carter, psychologist, best-selling author, and expert on narcissism and emotional health, reveals the #1 sign of low emotional maturity during conflict. We dive into how this pattern plays out in everyday disagreements, and what you can do to protect your own emotional space when dealing with it.

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Ever wish you could walk away from a heated argument without feeling guilty—or second-guessing yourself?

In this exclusive bonus conversation, Dr. Les Carter shares his best strategies for stepping out of circular or controlling exchanges before they drain you.

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]]> Dr. Les Carter on the #1 Sign Someone Lacks Emotional Maturity in Conflict Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:27:46 What’s the single biggest giveaway that someone lacks emotional maturity — especially when the pressure’s on? In this episode, Dr. Les Carter, psychologist, best-selling author, and expert on narcissism and emotional health, reveals the #1 sign of low emotional maturity during conflict. We dive into how this pattern plays out in everyday disagreements, and what you can do to protect your own emotional space when dealing with it. Podcast Extra Exclusive Interview Find it here for the exclusive... What’s the single biggest giveaway that someone lacks emotional maturity — especially when the pressure’s on? In this episode, Dr. Les Carter, psychologist, best-selling author, and expert on narcissism and emotional health, reveals the #1 sign of low emotional maturity during conflict. We dive into how this pattern plays out in everyday disagreements, and what you can do to protect your own emotional space when dealing with it. Podcast Extra Exclusive Interview Find it here for the exclusive... false full 189 Buzzsprout-17258524 The Part No One Talks About: What It Really Takes to Heal from Narcissistic Abuse This week, I’m pulling back the curtain on something few of us talk about—the emotional toll of surviving narcissistic abuse after the relationship ends. Healing is hard. Helping others heal while still navigating your own recovery? Even harder. In this episode, I share why I’m taking a short summer hiatus—and how you can still stay connected and supported during this time. 

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]]> Mon, 2 Jun 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/the-part-no-one-talks-about-what-it-really-takes-to-heal-from-narcissistic-abuse/ This week, I’m pulling back the curtain on something few of us talk about—the emotional toll of surviving narcissistic abuse after the relationship ends. Healing is hard. Helping others heal while still navigating your own recovery? Even harder. In this episode, I share why I’m taking a short summer hiatus—and how you can still stay connected and supported during this time. 

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]]> The Part No One Talks About: What It Really Takes to Heal from Narcissistic Abuse Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:09:02 This week, I’m pulling back the curtain on something few of us talk about—the emotional toll of surviving narcissistic abuse after the relationship ends. Healing is hard. Helping others heal while still navigating your own recovery? Even harder. In this episode, I share why I’m taking a short summer hiatus—and how you can still stay connected and supported during this time. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Comp... This week, I’m pulling back the curtain on something few of us talk about—the emotional toll of surviving narcissistic abuse after the relationship ends. Healing is hard. Helping others heal while still navigating your own recovery? Even harder. In this episode, I share why I’m taking a short summer hiatus—and how you can still stay connected and supported during this time. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Comp... false full 188 Buzzsprout-17202980 What’s Wrong With Me? Why Abuse Victims Believe They're the Narcissist This US holiday weekend, let’s revisit three of your favorite podcast episodes. Interestingly, they all have the same theme: why narcissistic abuse survivors initially think they’re the problem.

Clip 1 is from Season 3 Episode 133: "How mad can I make you?" The Toxic Games Covert Narcissists Play”

Video: https://youtu.be/pfU0y1ycgtg

Audio: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391/episodes/15052505

Clip 2 is from Seoson 3 Episode 123: “Am I The Narcissist? When Toxic People Accuse You of Being The Problem”

Video: https://youtu.be/wwKnai4Gu2M

Audio: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391/episodes/14715474

Clip 3 is from Season 2, Episode 107: “Here's Why You're Not Spotting a Covert Narcissist…”

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Audio https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391/episodes/13845831


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]]> Mon, 26 May 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/whats-wrong-with-me-why-abuse-victims-believe-theyre-the-narcissist/ This US holiday weekend, let’s revisit three of your favorite podcast episodes. Interestingly, they all have the same theme: why narcissistic abuse survivors initially think they’re the problem.

Clip 1 is from Season 3 Episode 133: "How mad can I make you?" The Toxic Games Covert Narcissists Play”

Video: https://youtu.be/pfU0y1ycgtg

Audio: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391/episodes/15052505

Clip 2 is from Seoson 3 Episode 123: “Am I The Narcissist? When Toxic People Accuse You of Being The Problem”

Video: https://youtu.be/wwKnai4Gu2M

Audio: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391/episodes/14715474

Clip 3 is from Season 2, Episode 107: “Here's Why You're Not Spotting a Covert Narcissist…”

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]]> What’s Wrong With Me? Why Abuse Victims Believe They're the Narcissist Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:24:36 This US holiday weekend, let’s revisit three of your favorite podcast episodes. Interestingly, they all have the same theme: why narcissistic abuse survivors initially think they’re the problem. Clip 1 is from Season 3 Episode 133: "How mad can I make you?" The Toxic Games Covert Narcissists Play” Video: https://youtu.be/pfU0y1ycgtg Audio: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391/episodes/15052505 Clip 2 is from Seoson 3 Episode 123: “Am I The Narcissist? When Toxic People Accuse You of Being The P... This US holiday weekend, let’s revisit three of your favorite podcast episodes. Interestingly, they all have the same theme: why narcissistic abuse survivors initially think they’re the problem. Clip 1 is from Season 3 Episode 133: "How mad can I make you?" The Toxic Games Covert Narcissists Play” Video: https://youtu.be/pfU0y1ycgtg Audio: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391/episodes/15052505 Clip 2 is from Seoson 3 Episode 123: “Am I The Narcissist? When Toxic People Accuse You of Being The P... false full 187 Buzzsprout-17179251 Have Bad Taste in Partners? The Red Flags We Often Miss Why do we pick bad partners? Is purely because of deception or are we missing early warning signs of a toxicity?

This week, author and clinician, Mary Crocker Cook joins us to discuss the problems of early socialization and different expectation in the dysfunctional relationship.

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]]> Mon, 19 May 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/have-bad-taste-in-partners-the-red-flags-we-often-miss/ Why do we pick bad partners? Is purely because of deception or are we missing early warning signs of a toxicity?

This week, author and clinician, Mary Crocker Cook joins us to discuss the problems of early socialization and different expectation in the dysfunctional relationship.

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]]> Have Bad Taste in Partners? The Red Flags We Often Miss Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:24:57 Why do we pick bad partners? Is purely because of deception or are we missing early warning signs of a toxicity? This week, author and clinician, Mary Crocker Cook joins us to discuss the problems of early socialization and different expectation in the dysfunctional relationship. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digita... Why do we pick bad partners? Is purely because of deception or are we missing early warning signs of a toxicity? This week, author and clinician, Mary Crocker Cook joins us to discuss the problems of early socialization and different expectation in the dysfunctional relationship. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digita... false full 186 Buzzsprout-17116702 How Your Relationship Changes When Your Partner Has Narcissism and ADHD Can someone be both narcissistic and neurodivergent?

This week, ADHD coach and neurodiversity educator Sheila Henson joins Dr. Kerry to explore the nuanced overlap between narcissistic traits and ADHD. Together, they unpack how these two very different dynamics can sometimes co-exist—and what that means for the health of your relationship.

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]]> Mon, 12 May 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-your-relationship-changes-when-your-partner-has-narcissism-and-adhd/ Can someone be both narcissistic and neurodivergent?

This week, ADHD coach and neurodiversity educator Sheila Henson joins Dr. Kerry to explore the nuanced overlap between narcissistic traits and ADHD. Together, they unpack how these two very different dynamics can sometimes co-exist—and what that means for the health of your relationship.

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]]> How Your Relationship Changes When Your Partner Has Narcissism and ADHD Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:26:15 Can someone be both narcissistic and neurodivergent? This week, ADHD coach and neurodiversity educator Sheila Henson joins Dr. Kerry to explore the nuanced overlap between narcissistic traits and ADHD. Together, they unpack how these two very different dynamics can sometimes co-exist—and what that means for the health of your relationship. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic ab... Can someone be both narcissistic and neurodivergent? This week, ADHD coach and neurodiversity educator Sheila Henson joins Dr. Kerry to explore the nuanced overlap between narcissistic traits and ADHD. Together, they unpack how these two very different dynamics can sometimes co-exist—and what that means for the health of your relationship. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic ab... false full 185 Buzzsprout-17096257 When Is It Really Over? The Top Signs a Dying Relationship Is your relationship displaying signs that it’s over? Maybe it’s on its last legs, and you wonder if it can be saved?

In this episode, Dr. Becky Whetstone delves into the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the challenges faced during marriage crises. She shares her experiences and insights as a marriage therapist, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and recognizing the signs of an unhealthy relationship.

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Dr. Becky's Blog

Book: I (Think) I Want Out: What to Do When One of You Want to End Your Marriage

 

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]]> Mon, 5 May 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-is-it-really-over-the-top-signs-a-dying-relationship/ Is your relationship displaying signs that it’s over? Maybe it’s on its last legs, and you wonder if it can be saved?

In this episode, Dr. Becky Whetstone delves into the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the challenges faced during marriage crises. She shares her experiences and insights as a marriage therapist, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and recognizing the signs of an unhealthy relationship.

Learn more about Dr. Whetstone:

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Dr. Becky's Blog

Book: I (Think) I Want Out: What to Do When One of You Want to End Your Marriage

 

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]]> When Is It Really Over? The Top Signs a Dying Relationship Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:29:43 Is your relationship displaying signs that it’s over? Maybe it’s on its last legs, and you wonder if it can be saved? In this episode, Dr. Becky Whetstone delves into the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the challenges faced during marriage crises. She shares her experiences and insights as a marriage therapist, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and recognizing the signs of an unhealthy relationship. Learn more about Dr. Whetstone: Website Dr. Becky's Blog Bo... Is your relationship displaying signs that it’s over? Maybe it’s on its last legs, and you wonder if it can be saved? In this episode, Dr. Becky Whetstone delves into the complexities of relationships, particularly focusing on the challenges faced during marriage crises. She shares her experiences and insights as a marriage therapist, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and recognizing the signs of an unhealthy relationship. Learn more about Dr. Whetstone: Website Dr. Becky's Blog Bo... false full 184 Buzzsprout-17028343 Are You an Over-Functioner? The Problem of Doing Too Much Are you living with a narcissist or a stressfully demanding person? These types of relationships often require us to step up with extra emotional labor without us even realizing it. 

This week, psychotherapist and author Terri Cole joins us to explore the hidden costs of high-functioning codependency. Learn why over-helping is often a trauma response, not a personality trait—and what to do if you're living with a boundary bully.

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]]> Mon, 28 Apr 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/are-you-an-over-functioner-the-problem-of-doing-too-much/ Are you living with a narcissist or a stressfully demanding person? These types of relationships often require us to step up with extra emotional labor without us even realizing it. 

This week, psychotherapist and author Terri Cole joins us to explore the hidden costs of high-functioning codependency. Learn why over-helping is often a trauma response, not a personality trait—and what to do if you're living with a boundary bully.

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]]> Are You an Over-Functioner? The Problem of Doing Too Much Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:23:34 Are you living with a narcissist or a stressfully demanding person? These types of relationships often require us to step up with extra emotional labor without us even realizing it. This week, psychotherapist and author Terri Cole joins us to explore the hidden costs of high-functioning codependency. Learn why over-helping is often a trauma response, not a personality trait—and what to do if you're living with a boundary bully. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ... Are you living with a narcissist or a stressfully demanding person? These types of relationships often require us to step up with extra emotional labor without us even realizing it. This week, psychotherapist and author Terri Cole joins us to explore the hidden costs of high-functioning codependency. Learn why over-helping is often a trauma response, not a personality trait—and what to do if you're living with a boundary bully. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ... false full 183 Buzzsprout-16990517 When Your Best Friend is a Narcissist: Cost of Toxic Female Relationships Are female friendships just as damaging as pathological love relationships?

This week, Sabrina Kirberg, author of We Used to be Best Friends, joins us to discuss the harmful consequences of toxic women friendships. Learn why we often miss spotting toxic female relationships and their common harmful dynamics.

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]]> Mon, 21 Apr 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-your-best-friend-is-a-narcissist-cost-of-toxic-female-relationships/ Are female friendships just as damaging as pathological love relationships?

This week, Sabrina Kirberg, author of We Used to be Best Friends, joins us to discuss the harmful consequences of toxic women friendships. Learn why we often miss spotting toxic female relationships and their common harmful dynamics.

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]]> When Your Best Friend is a Narcissist: Cost of Toxic Female Relationships Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:24:02 Are female friendships just as damaging as pathological love relationships? This week, Sabrina Kirberg, author of We Used to be Best Friends, joins us to discuss the harmful consequences of toxic women friendships. Learn why we often miss spotting toxic female relationships and their common harmful dynamics. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leav... Are female friendships just as damaging as pathological love relationships? This week, Sabrina Kirberg, author of We Used to be Best Friends, joins us to discuss the harmful consequences of toxic women friendships. Learn why we often miss spotting toxic female relationships and their common harmful dynamics. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leav... false full 182 Buzzsprout-16962719 The Shocking Psychological Cost of Living with a Narcissist: Interview with Lynn Strathdee Living with a narcissistic or emotionally toxic person will wreak havoc on your personality or sense of self.  

This week, Lynn Strathdee, mental health therapist and expert, joins us today to discuss the effects of chronic exposure to narcissistic abuse. Learn how dysfunctional relationship shapes your personality, giving “echoistic” tendencies.  

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]]> Mon, 14 Apr 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/the-shocking-psychological-cost-of-living-with-a-narcissist-interview-with-lynn-strathdee/ Living with a narcissistic or emotionally toxic person will wreak havoc on your personality or sense of self.  

This week, Lynn Strathdee, mental health therapist and expert, joins us today to discuss the effects of chronic exposure to narcissistic abuse. Learn how dysfunctional relationship shapes your personality, giving “echoistic” tendencies.  

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]]> The Shocking Psychological Cost of Living with a Narcissist: Interview with Lynn Strathdee Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:29:18 Living with a narcissistic or emotionally toxic person will wreak havoc on your personality or sense of self. This week, Lynn Strathdee, mental health therapist and expert, joins us today to discuss the effects of chronic exposure to narcissistic abuse. Learn how dysfunctional relationship shapes your personality, giving “echoistic” tendencies. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collecti... Living with a narcissistic or emotionally toxic person will wreak havoc on your personality or sense of self. This week, Lynn Strathdee, mental health therapist and expert, joins us today to discuss the effects of chronic exposure to narcissistic abuse. Learn how dysfunctional relationship shapes your personality, giving “echoistic” tendencies. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collecti... false full 181 Buzzsprout-16920540 Why Betrayal Keeps Abuse Survivors Trapped in a Victim Mindset: Interview with Dr. Debi Silber Are you trying to heal from a betrayal? 

If you have survived a narcissistic relationship then you have experienced betrayal. Often repetitive, devastating breaches of trust.

This week, Dr. Debi Silber joins us to discuss how to rebuild renewed confidence after betrayal. She outlines the five stages of betrayal recovery as well the common pitfalls that keep survivors stalled from fully healing after abuse.   

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]]> Mon, 7 Apr 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-betrayal-keeps-abuse-survivors-trapped-in-a-victim-mindset-interview-with-dr-debi-silber/ Are you trying to heal from a betrayal? 

If you have survived a narcissistic relationship then you have experienced betrayal. Often repetitive, devastating breaches of trust.

This week, Dr. Debi Silber joins us to discuss how to rebuild renewed confidence after betrayal. She outlines the five stages of betrayal recovery as well the common pitfalls that keep survivors stalled from fully healing after abuse.   

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]]> Why Betrayal Keeps Abuse Survivors Trapped in a Victim Mindset: Interview with Dr. Debi Silber Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:25:36 Are you trying to heal from a betrayal? If you have survived a narcissistic relationship then you have experienced betrayal. Often repetitive, devastating breaches of trust. This week, Dr. Debi Silber joins us to discuss how to rebuild renewed confidence after betrayal. She outlines the five stages of betrayal recovery as well the common pitfalls that keep survivors stalled from fully healing after abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou... Are you trying to heal from a betrayal? If you have survived a narcissistic relationship then you have experienced betrayal. Often repetitive, devastating breaches of trust. This week, Dr. Debi Silber joins us to discuss how to rebuild renewed confidence after betrayal. She outlines the five stages of betrayal recovery as well the common pitfalls that keep survivors stalled from fully healing after abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou... false full 180 Buzzsprout-16885122 Why Sex Goes Wrong in a Narcissistic Relationship: An Interview with Dr. Lisha Antiqua Toxic relationships tremendously impact our emotional selves, but what about our sexual selves? 

Dr. Lisha Antiqua, an expert in sexual intimacy and soul psychology, joins us to discuss how common toxic dynamics in narcissistic relationships, such as objectification and transactional relationships, diminish our intimate connection with one another. She also defines the importance of healthy interpersonal and sexual boundaries.  

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]]> Mon, 31 Mar 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-sex-goes-wrong-in-a-narcissistic-relationship-an-interview-with-dr-lisha-antiqua/ Toxic relationships tremendously impact our emotional selves, but what about our sexual selves? 

Dr. Lisha Antiqua, an expert in sexual intimacy and soul psychology, joins us to discuss how common toxic dynamics in narcissistic relationships, such as objectification and transactional relationships, diminish our intimate connection with one another. She also defines the importance of healthy interpersonal and sexual boundaries.  

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]]> Why Sex Goes Wrong in a Narcissistic Relationship: An Interview with Dr. Lisha Antiqua Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:26:07 Toxic relationships tremendously impact our emotional selves, but what about our sexual selves? Dr. Lisha Antiqua, an expert in sexual intimacy and soul psychology, joins us to discuss how common toxic dynamics in narcissistic relationships, such as objectification and transactional relationships, diminish our intimate connection with one another. She also defines the importance of healthy interpersonal and sexual boundaries. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resou... Toxic relationships tremendously impact our emotional selves, but what about our sexual selves? Dr. Lisha Antiqua, an expert in sexual intimacy and soul psychology, joins us to discuss how common toxic dynamics in narcissistic relationships, such as objectification and transactional relationships, diminish our intimate connection with one another. She also defines the importance of healthy interpersonal and sexual boundaries. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resou... narcissism., relationship, psychology false full 179 Buzzsprout-16820256 Is It Narcissism or Autism? When Neurodivergence Is Used as an Excuse Is it autism or narcissism? It’s become trendy lately to excuse toxic/abusive behavior as neurodivergence.

Today, Erica Little-Herron, an expert/advocate on autism, joins us to discuss the key differences between narcissism and autism.

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]]> Mon, 24 Mar 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-it-narcissism-or-autism-when-neurodivergence-is-used-as-an-excuse/ Is it autism or narcissism? It’s become trendy lately to excuse toxic/abusive behavior as neurodivergence.

Today, Erica Little-Herron, an expert/advocate on autism, joins us to discuss the key differences between narcissism and autism.

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]]> Is It Narcissism or Autism? When Neurodivergence Is Used as an Excuse Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:26:29 Is it autism or narcissism? It’s become trendy lately to excuse toxic/abusive behavior as neurodivergence. Today, Erica Little-Herron, an expert/advocate on autism, joins us to discuss the key differences between narcissism and autism. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live co... Is it autism or narcissism? It’s become trendy lately to excuse toxic/abusive behavior as neurodivergence. Today, Erica Little-Herron, an expert/advocate on autism, joins us to discuss the key differences between narcissism and autism. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live co... false full 178 Buzzsprout-16798908 When It’s Necessary to Go No Contact With a Narcissistic Mother: A Conversation with Alex Anderson, FOG Movie Going no contact with a parent, particularly when it’s your mother, is a gut-wrenching decision.

Alex Anderson, an independent film-maker and writer joins me to discuss his timely movie, FOG, which explores a toxic mother-daughter dynamics. He describes how Fog-Obligation-Guilt drives this challenging relationship.

Learn more about Alex and his work here: https://www.youtube.com/@alexanderson2467

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]]> Mon, 17 Mar 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-its-necessary-to-go-no-contact-with-a-narcissistic-mother-a-conversation-with-alex-anderson-fog-movie/ Going no contact with a parent, particularly when it’s your mother, is a gut-wrenching decision.

Alex Anderson, an independent film-maker and writer joins me to discuss his timely movie, FOG, which explores a toxic mother-daughter dynamics. He describes how Fog-Obligation-Guilt drives this challenging relationship.

Learn more about Alex and his work here: https://www.youtube.com/@alexanderson2467

To watch the FOG trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DacCvo7ngLA

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]]> When It’s Necessary to Go No Contact With a Narcissistic Mother: A Conversation with Alex Anderson, FOG Movie Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:23:45 Going no contact with a parent, particularly when it’s your mother, is a gut-wrenching decision. Alex Anderson, an independent film-maker and writer joins me to discuss his timely movie, FOG, which explores a toxic mother-daughter dynamics. He describes how Fog-Obligation-Guilt drives this challenging relationship. Learn more about Alex and his work here: https://www.youtube.com/@alexanderson2467 To watch the FOG trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DacCvo7ngLA See the full movie of FOG h... Going no contact with a parent, particularly when it’s your mother, is a gut-wrenching decision. Alex Anderson, an independent film-maker and writer joins me to discuss his timely movie, FOG, which explores a toxic mother-daughter dynamics. He describes how Fog-Obligation-Guilt drives this challenging relationship. Learn more about Alex and his work here: https://www.youtube.com/@alexanderson2467 To watch the FOG trailer: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DacCvo7ngLA See the full movie of FOG h... false full 177 Buzzsprout-16759044 The Disturbing Reasons Why Men Justify Violence Against Women: Interview with Chuck Derry, Co-Founder of Gender Violence Institute Why do men abuse? How does this behavior benefit them?

Today, Chuck Derry, the co-founder of the Gender Violence Institute, joins us to discuss the disturbing reasons for male violence and what community responses are needed to curb these toxic/dangerous behaviors.

To learn more about the results of Chuck Derry’s study, visit: https://voicemalemagazine.org/abusive-men-describe-the-benefits-of-violence/

Gender Violence Institute: https://www.genderviolenceinstitute.org

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]]> Mon, 10 Mar 2025 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/the-disturbing-reasons-why-men-justify-violence-against-women-interview-with-chuck-derry-co-founder-of-gender-violence-institute/ Why do men abuse? How does this behavior benefit them?

Today, Chuck Derry, the co-founder of the Gender Violence Institute, joins us to discuss the disturbing reasons for male violence and what community responses are needed to curb these toxic/dangerous behaviors.

To learn more about the results of Chuck Derry’s study, visit: https://voicemalemagazine.org/abusive-men-describe-the-benefits-of-violence/

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]]> The Disturbing Reasons Why Men Justify Violence Against Women: Interview with Chuck Derry, Co-Founder of Gender Violence Institute Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:22:02 Why do men abuse? How does this behavior benefit them? Today, Chuck Derry, the co-founder of the Gender Violence Institute, joins us to discuss the disturbing reasons for male violence and what community responses are needed to curb these toxic/dangerous behaviors. To learn more about the results of Chuck Derry’s study, visit: https://voicemalemagazine.org/abusive-men-describe-the-benefits-of-violence/ Gender Violence Institute: https://www.genderviolenceinstitute.org Submit your question to ... Why do men abuse? How does this behavior benefit them? Today, Chuck Derry, the co-founder of the Gender Violence Institute, joins us to discuss the disturbing reasons for male violence and what community responses are needed to curb these toxic/dangerous behaviors. To learn more about the results of Chuck Derry’s study, visit: https://voicemalemagazine.org/abusive-men-describe-the-benefits-of-violence/ Gender Violence Institute: https://www.genderviolenceinstitute.org Submit your question to ... false full 176 Buzzsprout-16687964 When Your Ex’s New Life Looks Like a Dream After They Shattered Yours You’re barely picking up the pieces, and your ex has already moved on—posting picture-perfect snapshots of their new, fabulous life. Meanwhile, you're left wondering: Were they always this happy, or is this just for show? 

In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Lisa Sonni dive into why narcissists and toxic personalities seem to seamlessly transition into a "perfect" new relationship. Is it real, or is it just another illusion? And if you’re struggling with the gut-punch of watching your ex’s highlight reel, we’ve got practical strategies to help you break free from the comparison trap and reclaim your healing.

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]]> Mon, 3 Mar 2025 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-your-exs-new-life-looks-like-a-dream-after-they-shattered-yours/ You’re barely picking up the pieces, and your ex has already moved on—posting picture-perfect snapshots of their new, fabulous life. Meanwhile, you're left wondering: Were they always this happy, or is this just for show? 

In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Lisa Sonni dive into why narcissists and toxic personalities seem to seamlessly transition into a "perfect" new relationship. Is it real, or is it just another illusion? And if you’re struggling with the gut-punch of watching your ex’s highlight reel, we’ve got practical strategies to help you break free from the comparison trap and reclaim your healing.

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]]> When Your Ex’s New Life Looks Like a Dream After They Shattered Yours Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:24:29 You’re barely picking up the pieces, and your ex has already moved on—posting picture-perfect snapshots of their new, fabulous life. Meanwhile, you're left wondering: Were they always this happy, or is this just for show? In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Lisa Sonni dive into why narcissists and toxic personalities seem to seamlessly transition into a "perfect" new relationship. Is it real, or is it just another illusion? And if you’re struggling with the gut-punch of watching your ex’s hi... You’re barely picking up the pieces, and your ex has already moved on—posting picture-perfect snapshots of their new, fabulous life. Meanwhile, you're left wondering: Were they always this happy, or is this just for show? In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Lisa Sonni dive into why narcissists and toxic personalities seem to seamlessly transition into a "perfect" new relationship. Is it real, or is it just another illusion? And if you’re struggling with the gut-punch of watching your ex’s hi... false full 175 Buzzsprout-16663185 Could Your Partner Be Sadistic? Why We Excuse Cruelty in Relationships Ever wondered if your partner’s cruelty is intentional? Do they know they’re being hurtful, or is it just thoughtlessness?

This week, Dr. Kerry and Lisa Sonni expose a chilling but often-overlooked dynamic in toxic relationships: sadism.

Learn what sadism really is, how it shows up in narcissistic partnerships, and why some toxic individuals seem to take pleasure in your pain. 

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]]> Mon, 24 Feb 2025 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/could-your-partner-be-sadistic-why-we-excuse-cruelty-in-relationships/ Ever wondered if your partner’s cruelty is intentional? Do they know they’re being hurtful, or is it just thoughtlessness?

This week, Dr. Kerry and Lisa Sonni expose a chilling but often-overlooked dynamic in toxic relationships: sadism.

Learn what sadism really is, how it shows up in narcissistic partnerships, and why some toxic individuals seem to take pleasure in your pain. 

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]]> Could Your Partner Be Sadistic? Why We Excuse Cruelty in Relationships Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:25:34 Ever wondered if your partner’s cruelty is intentional? Do they know they’re being hurtful, or is it just thoughtlessness? This week, Dr. Kerry and Lisa Sonni expose a chilling but often-overlooked dynamic in toxic relationships: sadism. Learn what sadism really is, how it shows up in narcissistic partnerships, and why some toxic individuals seem to take pleasure in your pain. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe C... Ever wondered if your partner’s cruelty is intentional? Do they know they’re being hurtful, or is it just thoughtlessness? This week, Dr. Kerry and Lisa Sonni expose a chilling but often-overlooked dynamic in toxic relationships: sadism. Learn what sadism really is, how it shows up in narcissistic partnerships, and why some toxic individuals seem to take pleasure in your pain. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe C... false full 174 Buzzsprout-16627274 The Four Most Dangerous Personalities Types to Avoid: An Interview with Joe Navarro, Former FBI Special Agent What signs warn that we’ve met not just a toxic person, but someone dangerous?

This week Joe Navarro, author and former FBI special agent joins us to discuss the four most dangerous personalities. Navarro is most well-known for his work as a body language expert. He’s authored several books, including What Every Body is Saying, Dangerous Personalities, Louder Than Words, and The Dictionary of Body Language.

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]]> Mon, 17 Feb 2025 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/the-four-most-dangerous-personalities-types-to-avoid-an-interview-with-joe-navarro-former-fbi-special-agent/ What signs warn that we’ve met not just a toxic person, but someone dangerous?

This week Joe Navarro, author and former FBI special agent joins us to discuss the four most dangerous personalities. Navarro is most well-known for his work as a body language expert. He’s authored several books, including What Every Body is Saying, Dangerous Personalities, Louder Than Words, and The Dictionary of Body Language.

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]]> The Four Most Dangerous Personalities Types to Avoid: An Interview with Joe Navarro, Former FBI Special Agent Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:27:19 What signs warn that we’ve met not just a toxic person, but someone dangerous? This week Joe Navarro, author and former FBI special agent joins us to discuss the four most dangerous personalities. Navarro is most well-known for his work as a body language expert. He’s authored several books, including What Every Body is Saying, Dangerous Personalities, Louder Than Words, and The Dictionary of Body Language. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-... What signs warn that we’ve met not just a toxic person, but someone dangerous? This week Joe Navarro, author and former FBI special agent joins us to discuss the four most dangerous personalities. Navarro is most well-known for his work as a body language expert. He’s authored several books, including What Every Body is Saying, Dangerous Personalities, Louder Than Words, and The Dictionary of Body Language. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-... false full 173 Buzzsprout-16584957 When the Narcissist Says They Love You: Are They Lying? Narcissists often claim to love us. That they want the save the relationship; but do they?

In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Lisa Sonni discuss the confusing dynamic of narcissistic partners claiming to be changing and addressing the relationship issues, only aren’t. Learn how survivors can tell the difference between genuine effort from sophisticated manipulation.

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]]> Mon, 10 Feb 2025 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-the-narcissist-says-they-love-you-are-they-lying/ Narcissists often claim to love us. That they want the save the relationship; but do they?

In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Lisa Sonni discuss the confusing dynamic of narcissistic partners claiming to be changing and addressing the relationship issues, only aren’t. Learn how survivors can tell the difference between genuine effort from sophisticated manipulation.

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]]> When the Narcissist Says They Love You: Are They Lying? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:27:28 Narcissists often claim to love us. That they want the save the relationship; but do they? In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Lisa Sonni discuss the confusing dynamic of narcissistic partners claiming to be changing and addressing the relationship issues, only aren’t. Learn how survivors can tell the difference between genuine effort from sophisticated manipulation. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Coll... Narcissists often claim to love us. That they want the save the relationship; but do they? In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Lisa Sonni discuss the confusing dynamic of narcissistic partners claiming to be changing and addressing the relationship issues, only aren’t. Learn how survivors can tell the difference between genuine effort from sophisticated manipulation. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Coll... false full 172 Buzzsprout-16543940 Why Toxic Relationships Always Leave Us Traumatized and Confused: An Interview with Dr. Peter Salerno Narcissists know they are being abusive--that they're being manipulative and exploitative. 

This week, Dr. Peter Salerno is back to discuss his latest book, Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance. He discusses with Lisa Sonni why abusive relationships with narcissists leave survivors feeling psychologically battered and confused. 

To Learn More About Dr. Peter Salerno: Website 

For a Copy of Dr. Salerno’s Books: Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance: Healing From An Abusive Relationship With A Disordered Personality

The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism: Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder from the Perspective of Gene - Environment Interaction

 

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]]> Mon, 3 Feb 2025 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-toxic-relationships-always-leave-us-traumatized-and-confused-an-interview-with-dr-peter-salerno/ Narcissists know they are being abusive--that they're being manipulative and exploitative. 

This week, Dr. Peter Salerno is back to discuss his latest book, Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance. He discusses with Lisa Sonni why abusive relationships with narcissists leave survivors feeling psychologically battered and confused. 

To Learn More About Dr. Peter Salerno: Website 

For a Copy of Dr. Salerno’s Books: Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance: Healing From An Abusive Relationship With A Disordered Personality

The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism: Understanding Narcissistic Personality Disorder from the Perspective of Gene - Environment Interaction

 

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]]> Why Toxic Relationships Always Leave Us Traumatized and Confused: An Interview with Dr. Peter Salerno Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:25:46 Narcissists know they are being abusive--that they're being manipulative and exploitative. This week, Dr. Peter Salerno is back to discuss his latest book, Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance. He discusses with Lisa Sonni why abusive relationships with narcissists leave survivors feeling psychologically battered and confused. To Learn More About Dr. Peter Salerno: Website For a Copy of Dr. Salerno’s Books: Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance: Healing From An Abusive Relationship Wi... Narcissists know they are being abusive--that they're being manipulative and exploitative. This week, Dr. Peter Salerno is back to discuss his latest book, Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance. He discusses with Lisa Sonni why abusive relationships with narcissists leave survivors feeling psychologically battered and confused. To Learn More About Dr. Peter Salerno: Website For a Copy of Dr. Salerno’s Books: Traumatic Cognitive Dissonance: Healing From An Abusive Relationship Wi... false full 171 Buzzsprout-16474072 Controlled by Guilt: A Popular Tool Narcissists Love to Use Against You Narcissists will use any means to control you, especially guilt.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Lisa discuss the common reasons guilt is such a powerful weapon in the hands of a narcissist or toxic personality.

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]]> Mon, 27 Jan 2025 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/controlled-by-guilt-a-popular-tool-narcissists-love-to-use-against-you/ Narcissists will use any means to control you, especially guilt.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Lisa discuss the common reasons guilt is such a powerful weapon in the hands of a narcissist or toxic personality.

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]]> Controlled by Guilt: A Popular Tool Narcissists Love to Use Against You Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:26:12 Narcissists will use any means to control you, especially guilt. In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Lisa discuss the common reasons guilt is such a powerful weapon in the hands of a narcissist or toxic personality. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community... Narcissists will use any means to control you, especially guilt. In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Lisa discuss the common reasons guilt is such a powerful weapon in the hands of a narcissist or toxic personality. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community... false full 170 Buzzsprout-16442577 Why Narcissists Are So Good At Disturbing Our Peace: Interview with Anna Runkle, Crappy Childhood Fairy Have you noticed how upset narcissists get? How they can't regulate themselves?

Anna Runkle of the wildly popular Crappy Childhood Fairy YouTube channel joins me today to talk about the importance of learning how to regulate yourself, especially after living with a narcissist.

Learn more about the role of psychological regulation plays in setting us free from the lingering effects of trauma and abuse.

To learn more about Anna:
Website: https:crappyChildhoodFairy.com
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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@crappychildhoodfairy
Get her latest book, Re-Regulated: Set Your Life Free from Childhood PTSD and Change the Trauma-Driven Behaviors That Keep You Stuck Here: https://amzn.to/3PpG8Fx

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]]> Mon, 20 Jan 2025 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-narcissists-are-so-good-at-disturbing-our-peace-interview-with-anna-runkle-crappy-childhood-fairy/ Have you noticed how upset narcissists get? How they can't regulate themselves?

Anna Runkle of the wildly popular Crappy Childhood Fairy YouTube channel joins me today to talk about the importance of learning how to regulate yourself, especially after living with a narcissist.

Learn more about the role of psychological regulation plays in setting us free from the lingering effects of trauma and abuse.

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]]> Why Narcissists Are So Good At Disturbing Our Peace: Interview with Anna Runkle, Crappy Childhood Fairy Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:25:22 Have you noticed how upset narcissists get? How they can't regulate themselves? Anna Runkle of the wildly popular Crappy Childhood Fairy YouTube channel joins me today to talk about the importance of learning how to regulate yourself, especially after living with a narcissist. Learn more about the role of psychological regulation plays in setting us free from the lingering effects of trauma and abuse. To learn more about Anna: Website: https:crappyChildhoodFairy.com Instagram: https://www.... Have you noticed how upset narcissists get? How they can't regulate themselves? Anna Runkle of the wildly popular Crappy Childhood Fairy YouTube channel joins me today to talk about the importance of learning how to regulate yourself, especially after living with a narcissist. Learn more about the role of psychological regulation plays in setting us free from the lingering effects of trauma and abuse. To learn more about Anna: Website: https:crappyChildhoodFairy.com Instagram: https://www.... false full 169 Buzzsprout-16394953 The Little Known Reasons Why Love-Bombing Works Every Time: Interview with Nadine Macaluso, Ex-Wife of the Wolf of Wall Street There are powerful psychological reasons why love bombing works nearly every time.

In this episode, Dr. Nadine Macaluso, the ex-wife of the Wolf of Wall Street shares what she’s uncovered about why we fall so easily spellbound for a toxic or narcissistic individual.

To learn more about Dr. Nadine Macaluso (often known to as Dr. Nae), please visit: https://drnae.com/
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FREE GIFT FOR LISTENERS: Download the First Chapter of Dr. Nae’s new book, Run Like Hell: A Therapist’s Guide to Recognizing, Escaping, and Healing from Trauma Bonds: https://drnae.com/giveaway-book/

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]]> Mon, 13 Jan 2025 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/the-little-known-reasons-why-love-bombing-works-every-time-interview-with-nadine-macaluso-ex-wife-of-the-wolf-of-wall-street/ There are powerful psychological reasons why love bombing works nearly every time.

In this episode, Dr. Nadine Macaluso, the ex-wife of the Wolf of Wall Street shares what she’s uncovered about why we fall so easily spellbound for a toxic or narcissistic individual.

To learn more about Dr. Nadine Macaluso (often known to as Dr. Nae), please visit: https://drnae.com/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drnaelmft
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealdrnadine/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheRealDrNadine
LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/therealdrnadine/

FREE GIFT FOR LISTENERS: Download the First Chapter of Dr. Nae’s new book, Run Like Hell: A Therapist’s Guide to Recognizing, Escaping, and Healing from Trauma Bonds: https://drnae.com/giveaway-book/

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]]> The Little Known Reasons Why Love-Bombing Works Every Time: Interview with Nadine Macaluso, Ex-Wife of the Wolf of Wall Street Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:24:11 There are powerful psychological reasons why love bombing works nearly every time. In this episode, Dr. Nadine Macaluso, the ex-wife of the Wolf of Wall Street shares what she’s uncovered about why we fall so easily spellbound for a toxic or narcissistic individual. To learn more about Dr. Nadine Macaluso (often known to as Dr. Nae), please visit: https://drnae.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drnaelmft Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealdrnadine/ YouTube: https://www.yout... There are powerful psychological reasons why love bombing works nearly every time. In this episode, Dr. Nadine Macaluso, the ex-wife of the Wolf of Wall Street shares what she’s uncovered about why we fall so easily spellbound for a toxic or narcissistic individual. To learn more about Dr. Nadine Macaluso (often known to as Dr. Nae), please visit: https://drnae.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/drnaelmft Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealdrnadine/ YouTube: https://www.yout... false full 168 Buzzsprout-16368336 When You Return to the Abuse: Why It Takes 7 Tries to Leave a Narcissist Victims return to a narcissistically abusive relationship an average of seven times.

In this episode, Lisa and I discuss why leaving a narcissist or toxic partner is so extremely difficult and share some thoughts on how to view leaving differently.

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]]> Mon, 6 Jan 2025 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-you-return-to-the-abuse-why-it-takes-7-tries-to-leave-a-narcissist/ Victims return to a narcissistically abusive relationship an average of seven times.

In this episode, Lisa and I discuss why leaving a narcissist or toxic partner is so extremely difficult and share some thoughts on how to view leaving differently.

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]]> When You Return to the Abuse: Why It Takes 7 Tries to Leave a Narcissist Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:26:37 Victims return to a narcissistically abusive relationship an average of seven times. In this episode, Lisa and I discuss why leaving a narcissist or toxic partner is so extremely difficult and share some thoughts on how to view leaving differently. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Rel... Victims return to a narcissistically abusive relationship an average of seven times. In this episode, Lisa and I discuss why leaving a narcissist or toxic partner is so extremely difficult and share some thoughts on how to view leaving differently. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Rel... false full 167 Buzzsprout-16338061 How Narcissists' Use Breadcrumbs of Love to Create an Agonizing Confusion Trauma bonds are one of the most misunderstood yet powerful connections that narcissists and toxic individuals exploit to keep their partners trapped.

These bonds create a confusing dynamic where the very person causing harm becomes the source of comfort—a cycle that is as addictive as it is painful.

In this replay of a fan-favorite episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to break down the making and breaking of trauma bonds. Together, we uncover how these devastating ties form, why they’re so hard to escape, and what you can do to break free.

If you’re battling a trauma bond—whether you’re still in the relationship or working to heal—there is hope.

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]]> Mon, 30 Dec 2024 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-narcissists-use-breadcrumbs-of-love-to-create-an-agonizing-confusion/ Trauma bonds are one of the most misunderstood yet powerful connections that narcissists and toxic individuals exploit to keep their partners trapped.

These bonds create a confusing dynamic where the very person causing harm becomes the source of comfort—a cycle that is as addictive as it is painful.

In this replay of a fan-favorite episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to break down the making and breaking of trauma bonds. Together, we uncover how these devastating ties form, why they’re so hard to escape, and what you can do to break free.

If you’re battling a trauma bond—whether you’re still in the relationship or working to heal—there is hope.

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]]> How Narcissists' Use Breadcrumbs of Love to Create an Agonizing Confusion Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:33:16 Trauma bonds are one of the most misunderstood yet powerful connections that narcissists and toxic individuals exploit to keep their partners trapped. These bonds create a confusing dynamic where the very person causing harm becomes the source of comfort—a cycle that is as addictive as it is painful. In this replay of a fan-favorite episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to break down the making and breaking of trauma bonds. Together, we uncover how these devastating ties form, why they’re so hard to... Trauma bonds are one of the most misunderstood yet powerful connections that narcissists and toxic individuals exploit to keep their partners trapped. These bonds create a confusing dynamic where the very person causing harm becomes the source of comfort—a cycle that is as addictive as it is painful. In this replay of a fan-favorite episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to break down the making and breaking of trauma bonds. Together, we uncover how these devastating ties form, why they’re so hard to... false full 166 Buzzsprout-16292721 Everything You Need to Know About Narcissism from 3 Experts: Dr. Les Carter, Dr. Peter Salerno, and Bill Eddy Today you are in for a treat with a longer interview, featuring three of my favorite experts on narcissism: Dr. Les Carter, Dr. Peter Salerno, and Bill Eddy.

In this episode, each of these men will describe what is narcissism, how narcissists view relationships, and why they behave as bullies.

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]]> Mon, 23 Dec 2024 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/everything-you-need-to-know-about-narcissism-from-3-experts-dr-les-carter-dr-peter-salerno-and-bill-eddy/ Today you are in for a treat with a longer interview, featuring three of my favorite experts on narcissism: Dr. Les Carter, Dr. Peter Salerno, and Bill Eddy.

In this episode, each of these men will describe what is narcissism, how narcissists view relationships, and why they behave as bullies.

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]]> Everything You Need to Know About Narcissism from 3 Experts: Dr. Les Carter, Dr. Peter Salerno, and Bill Eddy Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:51:10 Today you are in for a treat with a longer interview, featuring three of my favorite experts on narcissism: Dr. Les Carter, Dr. Peter Salerno, and Bill Eddy. In this episode, each of these men will describe what is narcissism, how narcissists view relationships, and why they behave as bullies. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online ... Today you are in for a treat with a longer interview, featuring three of my favorite experts on narcissism: Dr. Les Carter, Dr. Peter Salerno, and Bill Eddy. In this episode, each of these men will describe what is narcissism, how narcissists view relationships, and why they behave as bullies. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online ... false full 165 Buzzsprout-16275464 Why "Just Leave" is Terrible Advice: How Narcissists Keep You Trapped Have you been told that you should just leave?

In this episode, Lisa Sonni and I discuss why this advice severely misses the mark. Why exiting a narcissistically abusive relationship is difficult and even dangerous for most abuse survivors.

Resources Mentioned in the Episode
The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker
Character Disturbance by George Simon
Dangerous Personalities by Joe Navarro
The Passionate Marriage by Dr. David Schnarch

A Special Thank You!
I’ve deeply appreciated Lisa and Rossana Faye being regular special guests this past year. I’d also like to recognize the other behind-the-scenes people who helped make this show possible, especially Joe Duncan and Arianne Bansig. Each works tirelessly to make every episode extra special. You both are amazing!

Fan Mail
Thank you for the fan mail! For sharing your struggles and victories. We would also love to hear topic recommendations. Thank you so much for supporting us by being a regular listener. You are the reason for this show. We love and appreciate you so much!

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]]> Mon, 16 Dec 2024 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-just-leave-is-terrible-advice-how-narcissists-keep-you-trapped/ Have you been told that you should just leave?

In this episode, Lisa Sonni and I discuss why this advice severely misses the mark. Why exiting a narcissistically abusive relationship is difficult and even dangerous for most abuse survivors.

Resources Mentioned in the Episode
The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker
Character Disturbance by George Simon
Dangerous Personalities by Joe Navarro
The Passionate Marriage by Dr. David Schnarch

A Special Thank You!
I’ve deeply appreciated Lisa and Rossana Faye being regular special guests this past year. I’d also like to recognize the other behind-the-scenes people who helped make this show possible, especially Joe Duncan and Arianne Bansig. Each works tirelessly to make every episode extra special. You both are amazing!

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]]> Why "Just Leave" is Terrible Advice: How Narcissists Keep You Trapped Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:25:34 Have you been told that you should just leave? In this episode, Lisa Sonni and I discuss why this advice severely misses the mark. Why exiting a narcissistically abusive relationship is difficult and even dangerous for most abuse survivors. Resources Mentioned in the Episode The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker Character Disturbance by George Simon Dangerous Personalities by Joe Navarro The Passionate Marriage by Dr. David Schnarch A Special Thank You! I’ve deeply appreciated Lisa and Ro... Have you been told that you should just leave? In this episode, Lisa Sonni and I discuss why this advice severely misses the mark. Why exiting a narcissistically abusive relationship is difficult and even dangerous for most abuse survivors. Resources Mentioned in the Episode The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker Character Disturbance by George Simon Dangerous Personalities by Joe Navarro The Passionate Marriage by Dr. David Schnarch A Special Thank You! I’ve deeply appreciated Lisa and Ro... false full 164 Buzzsprout-16227869 Could This Be Right for You? New Help and Hope for Narcissistic Abuse Survivors Narcissistic abuse often leaves devastating consequences to the survivor’s confidence and self-esteem.

Today, Kristin Arden, DNP, APRN, PMHNP-BC, Mindbloom’s Clinical Director, and Shari Botwin, LCSW, trauma counselor, join me to discuss the use of ketamine therapy as a new alternate treatment option for trauma survivors.

If you would like to learn more about Mindbloom or ketamine therapy, please see https://mindbloom.com/kerrym100. To take advantage of the $100 off total of your first two treatments, use discount code “kerrym100.”

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]]> Mon, 9 Dec 2024 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/could-this-be-right-for-you-new-help-and-hope-for-narcissistic-abuse-survivors/ Narcissistic abuse often leaves devastating consequences to the survivor’s confidence and self-esteem.

Today, Kristin Arden, DNP, APRN, PMHNP-BC, Mindbloom’s Clinical Director, and Shari Botwin, LCSW, trauma counselor, join me to discuss the use of ketamine therapy as a new alternate treatment option for trauma survivors.

If you would like to learn more about Mindbloom or ketamine therapy, please see https://mindbloom.com/kerrym100. To take advantage of the $100 off total of your first two treatments, use discount code “kerrym100.”

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]]> Could This Be Right for You? New Help and Hope for Narcissistic Abuse Survivors Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:28:30 Narcissistic abuse often leaves devastating consequences to the survivor’s confidence and self-esteem. Today, Kristin Arden, DNP, APRN, PMHNP-BC, Mindbloom’s Clinical Director, and Shari Botwin, LCSW, trauma counselor, join me to discuss the use of ketamine therapy as a new alternate treatment option for trauma survivors. If you would like to learn more about Mindbloom or ketamine therapy, please see https://mindbloom.com/kerrym100. To take advantage of the $100 off total of your first two ... Narcissistic abuse often leaves devastating consequences to the survivor’s confidence and self-esteem. Today, Kristin Arden, DNP, APRN, PMHNP-BC, Mindbloom’s Clinical Director, and Shari Botwin, LCSW, trauma counselor, join me to discuss the use of ketamine therapy as a new alternate treatment option for trauma survivors. If you would like to learn more about Mindbloom or ketamine therapy, please see https://mindbloom.com/kerrym100. To take advantage of the $100 off total of your first two ... false full 163 Buzzsprout-16178212 Brainwashed & Spellbound: How Narcissistic Abuse is Really a Cult of Two Have you considered that a narcissistically abusive relationship is actually a cult of two?

Daniella Mestyanek-Young, author of Uncultured and expert in cult dynamics, joins us to discuss the similarities between cult leaders and narcissists.

Be sure to follow Daniella!
TikTok - @knittingcultlady
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]]> Mon, 2 Dec 2024 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/brainwashed-spellbound-how-narcissistic-abuse-is-really-a-cult-of-two/ Have you considered that a narcissistically abusive relationship is actually a cult of two?

Daniella Mestyanek-Young, author of Uncultured and expert in cult dynamics, joins us to discuss the similarities between cult leaders and narcissists.

Be sure to follow Daniella!
TikTok - @knittingcultlady
Website: Uncultureyourself.com
And get a copy of her book, Uncultured: https://amzn.to/3CDhFcY

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]]> Brainwashed & Spellbound: How Narcissistic Abuse is Really a Cult of Two Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:24:13 Have you considered that a narcissistically abusive relationship is actually a cult of two? Daniella Mestyanek-Young, author of Uncultured and expert in cult dynamics, joins us to discuss the similarities between cult leaders and narcissists. Be sure to follow Daniella! TikTok - @knittingcultlady Website: Uncultureyourself.com And get a copy of her book, Uncultured: https://amzn.to/3CDhFcY Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coachi... Have you considered that a narcissistically abusive relationship is actually a cult of two? Daniella Mestyanek-Young, author of Uncultured and expert in cult dynamics, joins us to discuss the similarities between cult leaders and narcissists. Be sure to follow Daniella! TikTok - @knittingcultlady Website: Uncultureyourself.com And get a copy of her book, Uncultured: https://amzn.to/3CDhFcY Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coachi... false full 162 Buzzsprout-16134468 Being Taken for Granted? How to Protect Your Big-Heartedness from Toxic People's Manipulation As a nod to this week’s holidays, let’s revisit three of my favorite episodes that discuss how to handle being too big- or kind-hearted.

We at the Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse podcast hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday!

Links Mentioned:

• Codependent No More by Melody Beattie: Melody Beattie
• Facing Codependency: What It Is, Where It Comes from, How It Sabotages Our Lives by Miller, Miller, and McMillan
• Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty by Aziz Gazipura, PsyD

To learn more about the Dark Triad Personality Type, check out, “Could you be at risk? Why you should be afraid of the Dark Triad Personality” -  https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391/episodes/12978484

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]]> Mon, 25 Nov 2024 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/being-taken-for-granted-how-to-protect-your-big-heartedness-from-toxic-peoples-manipulation/ As a nod to this week’s holidays, let’s revisit three of my favorite episodes that discuss how to handle being too big- or kind-hearted.

We at the Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse podcast hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday!

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• Codependent No More by Melody Beattie: Melody Beattie
• Facing Codependency: What It Is, Where It Comes from, How It Sabotages Our Lives by Miller, Miller, and McMillan
• Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & Feeling Guilty by Aziz Gazipura, PsyD

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]]> Being Taken for Granted? How to Protect Your Big-Heartedness from Toxic People's Manipulation Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:28:42 As a nod to this week’s holidays, let’s revisit three of my favorite episodes that discuss how to handle being too big- or kind-hearted. We at the Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse podcast hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday! Links Mentioned: • Codependent No More by Melody Beattie: Melody Beattie • Facing Codependency: What It Is, Where It Comes from, How It Sabotages Our Lives by Miller, Miller, and McMillan • Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & ... As a nod to this week’s holidays, let’s revisit three of my favorite episodes that discuss how to handle being too big- or kind-hearted. We at the Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse podcast hope you have a wonderful Thanksgiving holiday! Links Mentioned: • Codependent No More by Melody Beattie: Melody Beattie • Facing Codependency: What It Is, Where It Comes from, How It Sabotages Our Lives by Miller, Miller, and McMillan • Not Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, & ... false full 161 Buzzsprout-16113147 The High Cost of Toxic Relationships on Health, Wealth, and Peace of Mind Narcissistic relationships are parasitic in nature. Toxic personalities often drain others of their time, money, attention, and resources.

In this podcast, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the high and sometimes hidden cost of narcissistic relationships.

Reference: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van de Kolk: https://amzn.to/3AtGt6z

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]]> Mon, 18 Nov 2024 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/the-high-cost-of-toxic-relationships-on-health-wealth-and-peace-of-mind/ Narcissistic relationships are parasitic in nature. Toxic personalities often drain others of their time, money, attention, and resources.

In this podcast, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the high and sometimes hidden cost of narcissistic relationships.

Reference: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van de Kolk: https://amzn.to/3AtGt6z

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]]> The High Cost of Toxic Relationships on Health, Wealth, and Peace of Mind Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:25:56 Narcissistic relationships are parasitic in nature. Toxic personalities often drain others of their time, money, attention, and resources. In this podcast, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the high and sometimes hidden cost of narcissistic relationships. Reference: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van de Kolk: https://amzn.to/3AtGt6z Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abus... Narcissistic relationships are parasitic in nature. Toxic personalities often drain others of their time, money, attention, and resources. In this podcast, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the high and sometimes hidden cost of narcissistic relationships. Reference: The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel Van de Kolk: https://amzn.to/3AtGt6z Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abus... false full 160 Buzzsprout-16062871 Feeling Confused? How Toxic People Keep Us Baffled and Stuck Have you noticed that when you’re finally ready to leave, your toxic or narcissistic partner suddenly does something amazing? Do they keep you off balance and confused about the state of the relationship?

In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss how narcissists and other toxic people use emotional manipulation to keep their partners and loved ones psychologically stuck in a bad relationship.

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]]> Mon, 11 Nov 2024 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/feeling-confused-how-toxic-people-keep-us-baffled-and-stuck/ Have you noticed that when you’re finally ready to leave, your toxic or narcissistic partner suddenly does something amazing? Do they keep you off balance and confused about the state of the relationship?

In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss how narcissists and other toxic people use emotional manipulation to keep their partners and loved ones psychologically stuck in a bad relationship.

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]]> Feeling Confused? How Toxic People Keep Us Baffled and Stuck Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:26:56 Have you noticed that when you’re finally ready to leave, your toxic or narcissistic partner suddenly does something amazing? Do they keep you off balance and confused about the state of the relationship? In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss how narcissists and other toxic people use emotional manipulation to keep their partners and loved ones psychologically stuck in a bad relationship. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powere... Have you noticed that when you’re finally ready to leave, your toxic or narcissistic partner suddenly does something amazing? Do they keep you off balance and confused about the state of the relationship? In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss how narcissists and other toxic people use emotional manipulation to keep their partners and loved ones psychologically stuck in a bad relationship. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powere... false full 159 Buzzsprout-16018844 When You Can't Leave or Stay: How to Recognize a Trauma Bond There comes a point when you know you need to leave, but you can’t. The connection with your loved one is too powerful.

In this episode, Rossana Faye joins me to discuss the signs and symptoms of a late-stage trauma bond.

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]]> Mon, 4 Nov 2024 12:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-you-cant-leave-or-stay-how-to-recognize-a-trauma-bond/ There comes a point when you know you need to leave, but you can’t. The connection with your loved one is too powerful.

In this episode, Rossana Faye joins me to discuss the signs and symptoms of a late-stage trauma bond.

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]]> When You Can't Leave or Stay: How to Recognize a Trauma Bond Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:23:58 There comes a point when you know you need to leave, but you can’t. The connection with your loved one is too powerful. In this episode, Rossana Faye joins me to discuss the signs and symptoms of a late-stage trauma bond. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live c... There comes a point when you know you need to leave, but you can’t. The connection with your loved one is too powerful. In this episode, Rossana Faye joins me to discuss the signs and symptoms of a late-stage trauma bond. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live c... false full 158 Buzzsprout-15975774 When You've Been Driven Mad and Snap: The Power of Reactive Abuse Has someone driven you to the breaking point? When you just lose it and snap?

This week, Rossana Faye joins me to discuss the destructive power of reactive abuse. Victims often feel terribly guilty afterward, yet they’ve been deliberately provoked into reacting.

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]]> Mon, 28 Oct 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-youve-been-driven-mad-and-snap-the-power-of-reactive-abuse/ Has someone driven you to the breaking point? When you just lose it and snap?

This week, Rossana Faye joins me to discuss the destructive power of reactive abuse. Victims often feel terribly guilty afterward, yet they’ve been deliberately provoked into reacting.

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]]> When You've Been Driven Mad and Snap: The Power of Reactive Abuse Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:24:01 Has someone driven you to the breaking point? When you just lose it and snap? This week, Rossana Faye joins me to discuss the destructive power of reactive abuse. Victims often feel terribly guilty afterward, yet they’ve been deliberately provoked into reacting. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseT... Has someone driven you to the breaking point? When you just lose it and snap? This week, Rossana Faye joins me to discuss the destructive power of reactive abuse. Victims often feel terribly guilty afterward, yet they’ve been deliberately provoked into reacting. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseT... false full 157 Buzzsprout-15929233 Is it Just the Silent Treatment or Really Rejection? Why Stonewalling is Harmful Is it Just the Silent Treatment or Really Rejection? Why Stonewalling is Harmful

Silence occurs for many reasons, but sometimes it’s intentionally used as punishment.

Rossana Faye joins me in this podcast episode to discuss why stonewalling is so painful. Silence can be weaponized to send powerful messages of rage and rejection.

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]]> Mon, 21 Oct 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-it-just-the-silent-treatment-or-really-rejection-why-stonewalling-is-harmful/ Is it Just the Silent Treatment or Really Rejection? Why Stonewalling is Harmful

Silence occurs for many reasons, but sometimes it’s intentionally used as punishment.

Rossana Faye joins me in this podcast episode to discuss why stonewalling is so painful. Silence can be weaponized to send powerful messages of rage and rejection.

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]]> Is it Just the Silent Treatment or Really Rejection? Why Stonewalling is Harmful Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:24:00 Is it Just the Silent Treatment or Really Rejection? Why Stonewalling is Harmful Silence occurs for many reasons, but sometimes it’s intentionally used as punishment. Rossana Faye joins me in this podcast episode to discuss why stonewalling is so painful. Silence can be weaponized to send powerful messages of rage and rejection. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse res... Is it Just the Silent Treatment or Really Rejection? Why Stonewalling is Harmful Silence occurs for many reasons, but sometimes it’s intentionally used as punishment. Rossana Faye joins me in this podcast episode to discuss why stonewalling is so painful. Silence can be weaponized to send powerful messages of rage and rejection. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse res... false full 156 Buzzsprout-15896276 Why is My Partner a Narcissist? Which is it—A Nature or Nurture Problem? Are narcissists born or made? And why does this question matter, considering the terrible toll of narcissistic abuse?

This week, psychotherapist Dr. Peter Salerno joins me to discuss the root causes of narcissism along with the common misunderstandings about Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  Learn the importance of understanding the underpinning of this character makeup when it comes to healing and recovery.

Follow Dr. Peter Salerno on social media: @drpetersalerno

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Check out his new book, The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism: https://www.drpetersalerno.com

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]]> Mon, 14 Oct 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-is-my-partner-a-narcissist-which-is-it-a-nature-or-nurture-problem/ Are narcissists born or made? And why does this question matter, considering the terrible toll of narcissistic abuse?

This week, psychotherapist Dr. Peter Salerno joins me to discuss the root causes of narcissism along with the common misunderstandings about Narcissistic Personality Disorder.  Learn the importance of understanding the underpinning of this character makeup when it comes to healing and recovery.

Follow Dr. Peter Salerno on social media: @drpetersalerno

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Check out his new book, The Nature and Nurture of Narcissism: https://www.drpetersalerno.com

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]]> Why is My Partner a Narcissist? Which is it—A Nature or Nurture Problem? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:24:36 Are narcissists born or made? And why does this question matter, considering the terrible toll of narcissistic abuse? This week, psychotherapist Dr. Peter Salerno joins me to discuss the root causes of narcissism along with the common misunderstandings about Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Learn the importance of understanding the underpinning of this character makeup when it comes to healing and recovery. Follow Dr. Peter Salerno on social media: @drpetersalerno Learn more about ... Are narcissists born or made? And why does this question matter, considering the terrible toll of narcissistic abuse? This week, psychotherapist Dr. Peter Salerno joins me to discuss the root causes of narcissism along with the common misunderstandings about Narcissistic Personality Disorder. Learn the importance of understanding the underpinning of this character makeup when it comes to healing and recovery. Follow Dr. Peter Salerno on social media: @drpetersalerno Learn more about ... false full 155 Buzzsprout-15847116 Does Childhood Abuse Leave a Lasting Legacy in Adult Relationships: An Interview with Nia Renee What is the impact of childhood abuse on adult relationships? Can children overcome early trauma?

Nia Renee joins me this week to discuss the lasting legacy of abuse. She describes the impact of chronic gaslighting and neglect on her later relationships. Learn what role resiliency and determination played in helping break the abuse cycle.

To learn more about Nia Renee: https://howtoloveabatteredwoman.com/

Follow her on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok: @howtoloveabatteredwoman

Resources Mentioned: Jennifer Freyd  - Blind to Betrayal: https://amzn.to/3NdpR5r

Richard Schwartz - Internal Family Systems Theory: https://amzn.to/3ZJ5RiI

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]]> Mon, 7 Oct 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/does-childhood-abuse-leave-a-lasting-legacy-in-adult-relationships-an-interview-with-nia-renee/ What is the impact of childhood abuse on adult relationships? Can children overcome early trauma?

Nia Renee joins me this week to discuss the lasting legacy of abuse. She describes the impact of chronic gaslighting and neglect on her later relationships. Learn what role resiliency and determination played in helping break the abuse cycle.

To learn more about Nia Renee: https://howtoloveabatteredwoman.com/

Follow her on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok: @howtoloveabatteredwoman

Resources Mentioned: Jennifer Freyd  - Blind to Betrayal: https://amzn.to/3NdpR5r

Richard Schwartz - Internal Family Systems Theory: https://amzn.to/3ZJ5RiI

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]]> Does Childhood Abuse Leave a Lasting Legacy in Adult Relationships: An Interview with Nia Renee Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:23:44 What is the impact of childhood abuse on adult relationships? Can children overcome early trauma? Nia Renee joins me this week to discuss the lasting legacy of abuse. She describes the impact of chronic gaslighting and neglect on her later relationships. Learn what role resiliency and determination played in helping break the abuse cycle. To learn more about Nia Renee: https://howtoloveabatteredwoman.com/ Follow her on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok: @howtoloveabatteredwoman Reso... What is the impact of childhood abuse on adult relationships? Can children overcome early trauma? Nia Renee joins me this week to discuss the lasting legacy of abuse. She describes the impact of chronic gaslighting and neglect on her later relationships. Learn what role resiliency and determination played in helping break the abuse cycle. To learn more about Nia Renee: https://howtoloveabatteredwoman.com/ Follow her on Instagram, Facebook, and TikTok: @howtoloveabatteredwoman Reso... false full 154 Buzzsprout-15812362 How Narcissistic Abuse Could Cost You Your Identity: The Dangers of Echoism Are you speaking up less? Fawning more? There’s a high cost to living with a narcissist, and it could be your identity.

This week, Lynn Strathdee, psychodynamic therapist, joins me to discuss echoism, the true opposite personality style to narcissism. She shares how fawning could result in a loss of our very self.

To learn more about Lynn’s work:
Website:  https://www.echoismrecovery.com
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theechochamber?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc

Lynn Strathdee is a dedicated psychodynamic therapist with a passion for helping adults recover from narcissistic abuse. Armed with a degree in Psychodynamic Counselling, a Master's in French Translation, and a Post Graduate Certificate in Education, Lynn combines her rich educational background with extensive therapeutic expertise.

Lynn specializes in working with "echoists"—individuals whose identities have been profoundly impacted by narcissistic relationships. Understanding their unique struggles, she employs a blend of self-psychology and psycho-education to guide her clients toward reclaiming their sense of self and living fulfilling lives.

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]]> Mon, 30 Sep 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-narcissistic-abuse-could-cost-you-your-identity-the-dangers-of-echoism/ Are you speaking up less? Fawning more? There’s a high cost to living with a narcissist, and it could be your identity.

This week, Lynn Strathdee, psychodynamic therapist, joins me to discuss echoism, the true opposite personality style to narcissism. She shares how fawning could result in a loss of our very self.

To learn more about Lynn’s work:
Website:  https://www.echoismrecovery.com
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theechochamber?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc

Lynn Strathdee is a dedicated psychodynamic therapist with a passion for helping adults recover from narcissistic abuse. Armed with a degree in Psychodynamic Counselling, a Master's in French Translation, and a Post Graduate Certificate in Education, Lynn combines her rich educational background with extensive therapeutic expertise.

Lynn specializes in working with "echoists"—individuals whose identities have been profoundly impacted by narcissistic relationships. Understanding their unique struggles, she employs a blend of self-psychology and psycho-education to guide her clients toward reclaiming their sense of self and living fulfilling lives.

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]]> How Narcissistic Abuse Could Cost You Your Identity: The Dangers of Echoism Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:24:41 Are you speaking up less? Fawning more? There’s a high cost to living with a narcissist, and it could be your identity. This week, Lynn Strathdee, psychodynamic therapist, joins me to discuss echoism, the true opposite personality style to narcissism. She shares how fawning could result in a loss of our very self. To learn more about Lynn’s work: Website: https://www.echoismrecovery.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theechochamber?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc Lynn Strathde... Are you speaking up less? Fawning more? There’s a high cost to living with a narcissist, and it could be your identity. This week, Lynn Strathdee, psychodynamic therapist, joins me to discuss echoism, the true opposite personality style to narcissism. She shares how fawning could result in a loss of our very self. To learn more about Lynn’s work: Website: https://www.echoismrecovery.com TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theechochamber?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc Lynn Strathde... false full 153 Buzzsprout-15765963 How Relationships Become Dangerous: The Slow Shift from Toxic to Deadly Dangerous relationships rarely begin physically abusive. Initially, you think you’ve met a fantastic partner, but slowly, the toxicity turns into something more insidious and lethal.

Trigger warning: this week, Lisa Sonni and I share vulnerable details of how we missed the early signs of danger in our narcissistic relationships.

IF YOU ARE A RISK of immediate danger or abuse, please get in touch with the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233.

References: Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft https://amzn.to/4e505fw

Blind to Betrayal by Jennifer Freyd  https://amzn.to/4d3xwxW

Ro’s TikTok warning video:   https://www.tiktok.com/@_rollercoasteroflove/video/7397857556867271942?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7413141517819479583

Am I the a-hole for divorcing my husband TikTok video: https://www.tiktok.com/@comfortlevelpodcast/video/7404870008377150766?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7413141517819479583

 

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]]> Mon, 23 Sep 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-relationships-become-dangerous-the-slow-shift-from-toxic-to-deadly/ Dangerous relationships rarely begin physically abusive. Initially, you think you’ve met a fantastic partner, but slowly, the toxicity turns into something more insidious and lethal.

Trigger warning: this week, Lisa Sonni and I share vulnerable details of how we missed the early signs of danger in our narcissistic relationships.

IF YOU ARE A RISK of immediate danger or abuse, please get in touch with the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233.

References: Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft https://amzn.to/4e505fw

Blind to Betrayal by Jennifer Freyd  https://amzn.to/4d3xwxW

Ro’s TikTok warning video:   https://www.tiktok.com/@_rollercoasteroflove/video/7397857556867271942?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7413141517819479583

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]]> How Relationships Become Dangerous: The Slow Shift from Toxic to Deadly Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:24:46 Dangerous relationships rarely begin physically abusive. Initially, you think you’ve met a fantastic partner, but slowly, the toxicity turns into something more insidious and lethal. Trigger warning: this week, Lisa Sonni and I share vulnerable details of how we missed the early signs of danger in our narcissistic relationships. IF YOU ARE A RISK of immediate danger or abuse, please get in touch with the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233. References: Why Does He Do That? b... Dangerous relationships rarely begin physically abusive. Initially, you think you’ve met a fantastic partner, but slowly, the toxicity turns into something more insidious and lethal. Trigger warning: this week, Lisa Sonni and I share vulnerable details of how we missed the early signs of danger in our narcissistic relationships. IF YOU ARE A RISK of immediate danger or abuse, please get in touch with the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 800-799-7233. References: Why Does He Do That? b... false full 152 Buzzsprout-15727705 If You're in a Narcissistic Relationship, Why Couples Therapy is a Bad Idea When there’s trouble in a relationship, most couples are urged to seek couples counseling.

In today’s episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to talk about why this suggestion is a terrible idea if your partner is a narcissist. Too many couples therapists lack the education to identify narcissistic abuse, and narcissistic and toxic partners are highly sophisticated at manipulating the therapeutic process.

For help breaking a trauma bond, see Lisa’s resources: https://strongerthanbefore.ca

 

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]]> Mon, 16 Sep 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/if-youre-in-a-narcissistic-relationship-why-couples-therapy-is-a-bad-idea/ When there’s trouble in a relationship, most couples are urged to seek couples counseling.

In today’s episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to talk about why this suggestion is a terrible idea if your partner is a narcissist. Too many couples therapists lack the education to identify narcissistic abuse, and narcissistic and toxic partners are highly sophisticated at manipulating the therapeutic process.

For help breaking a trauma bond, see Lisa’s resources: https://strongerthanbefore.ca

 

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]]> If You're in a Narcissistic Relationship, Why Couples Therapy is a Bad Idea Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:25:07 When there’s trouble in a relationship, most couples are urged to seek couples counseling. In today’s episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to talk about why this suggestion is a terrible idea if your partner is a narcissist. Too many couples therapists lack the education to identify narcissistic abuse, and narcissistic and toxic partners are highly sophisticated at manipulating the therapeutic process. For help breaking a trauma bond, see Lisa’s resources: https://strongerthanbefore.ca Submit yo... When there’s trouble in a relationship, most couples are urged to seek couples counseling. In today’s episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to talk about why this suggestion is a terrible idea if your partner is a narcissist. Too many couples therapists lack the education to identify narcissistic abuse, and narcissistic and toxic partners are highly sophisticated at manipulating the therapeutic process. For help breaking a trauma bond, see Lisa’s resources: https://strongerthanbefore.ca Submit yo... false full 151 Buzzsprout-15685432 Why Narcissists Have Problems with Being Securely Attached to You What’s the connection between attachment styles and narcissism? This week, Dr. Erin Leonard, a practicing psychotherapist, joins me to discuss the common problems narcissists have with emotional intelligence and creating secure connections with others. She’s recently authored How to Outsmart a Narcissist, where she describes the best ways to protect ourselves from narcissists’ efforts to manipulate and exploit.

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]]> Mon, 9 Sep 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-narcissists-have-problems-with-being-securely-attached-to-you/ What’s the connection between attachment styles and narcissism? This week, Dr. Erin Leonard, a practicing psychotherapist, joins me to discuss the common problems narcissists have with emotional intelligence and creating secure connections with others. She’s recently authored How to Outsmart a Narcissist, where she describes the best ways to protect ourselves from narcissists’ efforts to manipulate and exploit.

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]]> Why Narcissists Have Problems with Being Securely Attached to You Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:25:14 What’s the connection between attachment styles and narcissism? This week, Dr. Erin Leonard, a practicing psychotherapist, joins me to discuss the common problems narcissists have with emotional intelligence and creating secure connections with others. She’s recently authored How to Outsmart a Narcissist, where she describes the best ways to protect ourselves from narcissists’ efforts to manipulate and exploit. More about Dr. Leonard: BOOK- How to Outsmart a Narcissist: Use Emotio... What’s the connection between attachment styles and narcissism? This week, Dr. Erin Leonard, a practicing psychotherapist, joins me to discuss the common problems narcissists have with emotional intelligence and creating secure connections with others. She’s recently authored How to Outsmart a Narcissist, where she describes the best ways to protect ourselves from narcissists’ efforts to manipulate and exploit. More about Dr. Leonard: BOOK- How to Outsmart a Narcissist: Use Emotio... false full 150 Buzzsprout-15657423 Dr. Carter's Best Advice About Narcissists That Every Survivor Needs to Know Have you wondered what a narcissist was thinking? Why would they do what they do? Do they intentionally know they were being cruel?

This week, I’m going to re-release an interview I did with Dr. Carter in 2023. In it, he gave a unique perspective on the narcissist’s mindset and explained their worldview and defensiveness. Learn how they so effectively turn the tables on us, making us think we’re the crazy ones.

Stay safe this week! I look forward to having you back for our new episode featuring psychologist Dr Erin Leonard next week. She will be joining us to discuss resiliency, vulnerability, and attachment problems with narcissists.

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]]> Mon, 2 Sep 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/dr-carters-best-advice-about-narcissists-that-every-survivor-needs-to-know/ Have you wondered what a narcissist was thinking? Why would they do what they do? Do they intentionally know they were being cruel?

This week, I’m going to re-release an interview I did with Dr. Carter in 2023. In it, he gave a unique perspective on the narcissist’s mindset and explained their worldview and defensiveness. Learn how they so effectively turn the tables on us, making us think we’re the crazy ones.

Stay safe this week! I look forward to having you back for our new episode featuring psychologist Dr Erin Leonard next week. She will be joining us to discuss resiliency, vulnerability, and attachment problems with narcissists.

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]]> Dr. Carter's Best Advice About Narcissists That Every Survivor Needs to Know Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:29:09 Have you wondered what a narcissist was thinking? Why would they do what they do? Do they intentionally know they were being cruel? This week, I’m going to re-release an interview I did with Dr. Carter in 2023. In it, he gave a unique perspective on the narcissist’s mindset and explained their worldview and defensiveness. Learn how they so effectively turn the tables on us, making us think we’re the crazy ones. Stay safe this week! I look forward to having you back for our new episode... Have you wondered what a narcissist was thinking? Why would they do what they do? Do they intentionally know they were being cruel? This week, I’m going to re-release an interview I did with Dr. Carter in 2023. In it, he gave a unique perspective on the narcissist’s mindset and explained their worldview and defensiveness. Learn how they so effectively turn the tables on us, making us think we’re the crazy ones. Stay safe this week! I look forward to having you back for our new episode... false full 149 Buzzsprout-15612470 Why Family Court Too Often Takes the Side of the Narcissistic Abuser Have you noticed that too off family court becomes just another battle ground for the narcissist?

Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss post-separation of abuse. Most of us passionately want to protect our children from our toxic ex only to experience more helplessness in the mediation and courtrooms.

Resources Referenced:
Emotionally Bulletproof Kids
https://strongerthanbefore.ca/webinar-bulletproof-kids

When Dad Hurts Mom by Lundy Bancroft: https://amzn.to/3Xbg8mj

Angela - Family Court Corner: https://www.familycourtcorner.com

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]]> Mon, 26 Aug 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-family-court-too-often-takes-the-side-of-the-narcissistic-abuser/ Have you noticed that too off family court becomes just another battle ground for the narcissist?

Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss post-separation of abuse. Most of us passionately want to protect our children from our toxic ex only to experience more helplessness in the mediation and courtrooms.

Resources Referenced:
Emotionally Bulletproof Kids
https://strongerthanbefore.ca/webinar-bulletproof-kids

When Dad Hurts Mom by Lundy Bancroft: https://amzn.to/3Xbg8mj

Angela - Family Court Corner: https://www.familycourtcorner.com

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]]> Why Family Court Too Often Takes the Side of the Narcissistic Abuser Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:24:12 Have you noticed that too off family court becomes just another battle ground for the narcissist? Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss post-separation of abuse. Most of us passionately want to protect our children from our toxic ex only to experience more helplessness in the mediation and courtrooms. Resources Referenced: Emotionally Bulletproof Kids https://strongerthanbefore.ca/webinar-bulletproof-kids When Dad Hurts Mom by Lundy Bancroft: https://amzn.to/3Xbg8mj Angela - Family C... Have you noticed that too off family court becomes just another battle ground for the narcissist? Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss post-separation of abuse. Most of us passionately want to protect our children from our toxic ex only to experience more helplessness in the mediation and courtrooms. Resources Referenced: Emotionally Bulletproof Kids https://strongerthanbefore.ca/webinar-bulletproof-kids When Dad Hurts Mom by Lundy Bancroft: https://amzn.to/3Xbg8mj Angela - Family C... false full 148 Buzzsprout-15580547 Why Most People, Including the Victim, Fail to Recognize Narcissistic Abuse Are you being abused and don’t know it? Not only is society blind to narcissistic abuse, but so are most victims.

In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to talk about why narcissistic abuse is so difficult to spot, even to the victims, and the role this plays in the difficulty of getting help.

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]]> Mon, 19 Aug 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-most-people-including-the-victim-fail-to-recognize-narcissistic-abuse/ Are you being abused and don’t know it? Not only is society blind to narcissistic abuse, but so are most victims.

In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to talk about why narcissistic abuse is so difficult to spot, even to the victims, and the role this plays in the difficulty of getting help.

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]]> Why Most People, Including the Victim, Fail to Recognize Narcissistic Abuse Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:29:11 Are you being abused and don’t know it? Not only is society blind to narcissistic abuse, but so are most victims. In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to talk about why narcissistic abuse is so difficult to spot, even to the victims, and the role this plays in the difficulty of getting help. Resources Mentioned: More on Hannah Neeleman & the Ballerina Farms controversyHow He Gets Into Her Head by Don HennesseyHow I Met, Married, and Got Scammed by a Gold Digger TikTok seriesSubmit you... Are you being abused and don’t know it? Not only is society blind to narcissistic abuse, but so are most victims. In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to talk about why narcissistic abuse is so difficult to spot, even to the victims, and the role this plays in the difficulty of getting help. Resources Mentioned: More on Hannah Neeleman & the Ballerina Farms controversyHow He Gets Into Her Head by Don HennesseyHow I Met, Married, and Got Scammed by a Gold Digger TikTok seriesSubmit you... false full 147 Buzzsprout-15538412 Bill Eddy's Best Advice For Dealing with Narcissistic Bullies Every person who has dealt with a narcissist has been bullied.

This week, expert and author Bill Eddy joins me to discuss what we get wrong about bullying behavior and the practical steps we all should take to better protect ourselves from antagonistic and vindictive people.

To learn more about Bill Eddy and his work, visit: https://highconflictinstitute.com

And be sure to check out his latest book, Our New World of Adult Bullies: How to Spot Them - How to Stop Them: https://amzn.to/3Abr0r3

 

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]]> Mon, 12 Aug 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/bill-eddys-best-advice-for-dealing-with-narcissistic-bullies/ Every person who has dealt with a narcissist has been bullied.

This week, expert and author Bill Eddy joins me to discuss what we get wrong about bullying behavior and the practical steps we all should take to better protect ourselves from antagonistic and vindictive people.

To learn more about Bill Eddy and his work, visit: https://highconflictinstitute.com

And be sure to check out his latest book, Our New World of Adult Bullies: How to Spot Them - How to Stop Them: https://amzn.to/3Abr0r3

 

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]]> Bill Eddy's Best Advice For Dealing with Narcissistic Bullies Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:28:00 Every person who has dealt with a narcissist has been bullied. This week, expert and author Bill Eddy joins me to discuss what we get wrong about bullying behavior and the practical steps we all should take to better protect ourselves from antagonistic and vindictive people. To learn more about Bill Eddy and his work, visit: https://highconflictinstitute.com And be sure to check out his latest book, Our New World of Adult Bullies: How to Spot Them - How to Stop Them: https://amzn.to/3Abr... Every person who has dealt with a narcissist has been bullied. This week, expert and author Bill Eddy joins me to discuss what we get wrong about bullying behavior and the practical steps we all should take to better protect ourselves from antagonistic and vindictive people. To learn more about Bill Eddy and his work, visit: https://highconflictinstitute.com And be sure to check out his latest book, Our New World of Adult Bullies: How to Spot Them - How to Stop Them: https://amzn.to/3Abr... false full 146 Buzzsprout-15500479 Why Sometimes It Feels Wrong or Immoral to Leave a Narcissist Leaving is a moral choice. Often, breaking up or divorce is viewed as a personal choice, but it has ramifications and is character-defining.

Rossana Faye joins me this week to discuss why sometimes it becomes a moral dilemma to leave our narcissistic partner. Deciding to divorce is often not as clear-cut for many of us.

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]]> Mon, 5 Aug 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-sometimes-it-feels-wrong-or-immoral-to-leave-a-narcissist/ Leaving is a moral choice. Often, breaking up or divorce is viewed as a personal choice, but it has ramifications and is character-defining.

Rossana Faye joins me this week to discuss why sometimes it becomes a moral dilemma to leave our narcissistic partner. Deciding to divorce is often not as clear-cut for many of us.

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]]> Why Sometimes It Feels Wrong or Immoral to Leave a Narcissist Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:23:19 Leaving is a moral choice. Often, breaking up or divorce is viewed as a personal choice, but it has ramifications and is character-defining. Rossana Faye joins me this week to discuss why sometimes it becomes a moral dilemma to leave our narcissistic partner. Deciding to divorce is often not as clear-cut for many of us. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse r... Leaving is a moral choice. Often, breaking up or divorce is viewed as a personal choice, but it has ramifications and is character-defining. Rossana Faye joins me this week to discuss why sometimes it becomes a moral dilemma to leave our narcissistic partner. Deciding to divorce is often not as clear-cut for many of us. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse r... false full 145 Buzzsprout-15461286 When Your Partner is a Narcissist, Why the Term "Narcissistic" Matters These days, it seems like everyone is a narcissist. Is the label of narcissist or narcissistic harmful or helpful?

This week, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the importance and impact of identifying narcissistic abuse and dysfunctional relationship dynamics.

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]]> Mon, 29 Jul 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-your-partner-is-a-narcissist-why-the-term-narcissistic-matters/ These days, it seems like everyone is a narcissist. Is the label of narcissist or narcissistic harmful or helpful?

This week, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the importance and impact of identifying narcissistic abuse and dysfunctional relationship dynamics.

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]]> When Your Partner is a Narcissist, Why the Term "Narcissistic" Matters Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:25:52 These days, it seems like everyone is a narcissist. Is the label of narcissist or narcissistic harmful or helpful? This week, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the importance and impact of identifying narcissistic abuse and dysfunctional relationship dynamics. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course... These days, it seems like everyone is a narcissist. Is the label of narcissist or narcissistic harmful or helpful? This week, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the importance and impact of identifying narcissistic abuse and dysfunctional relationship dynamics. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital course... false full 144 Buzzsprout-15421774 Best Advice for Divorcing a Narcissist Without Losing Your Sh*t: Interview with The Dirty Laundry Podcast Divorcing a narcissist often ends up a contentious battle. Victims come into court shaken up and traumatized, whereas their toxic ex appears poised and confident.

Today, two Toronto legal mediators, Amanda Silver and Alex Howard, are joining me. They are also the co-hosts of the Dirty Laundry Podcast. They are going to share how to protect your interests better when leaving a narcissist.

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]]> Mon, 22 Jul 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/best-advice-for-divorcing-a-narcissist-without-losing-your-sht-interview-with-the-dirty-laundry-podcast/ Divorcing a narcissist often ends up a contentious battle. Victims come into court shaken up and traumatized, whereas their toxic ex appears poised and confident.

Today, two Toronto legal mediators, Amanda Silver and Alex Howard, are joining me. They are also the co-hosts of the Dirty Laundry Podcast. They are going to share how to protect your interests better when leaving a narcissist.

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]]> Best Advice for Divorcing a Narcissist Without Losing Your Sh*t: Interview with The Dirty Laundry Podcast Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:27:13 Divorcing a narcissist often ends up a contentious battle. Victims come into court shaken up and traumatized, whereas their toxic ex appears poised and confident. Today, two Toronto legal mediators, Amanda Silver and Alex Howard, are joining me. They are also the co-hosts of the Dirty Laundry Podcast. They are going to share how to protect your interests better when leaving a narcissist. To learn more about Amanda and Alex, please see: Podcast: https://dirtylaundry.buzzsprout.com YouTube... Divorcing a narcissist often ends up a contentious battle. Victims come into court shaken up and traumatized, whereas their toxic ex appears poised and confident. Today, two Toronto legal mediators, Amanda Silver and Alex Howard, are joining me. They are also the co-hosts of the Dirty Laundry Podcast. They are going to share how to protect your interests better when leaving a narcissist. To learn more about Amanda and Alex, please see: Podcast: https://dirtylaundry.buzzsprout.com YouTube... false full 143 Buzzsprout-15383746 When You Can't Leave: How to Survive a Narcissistic Relationship What if you're not going to leave a narcissist? What if leaving isn't possible? Is there a way to survive a toxic relationship? 

Sometimes, leaving a toxic relationship isn't possible due to complex reasons. Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss why some victims find themselves trapped in a bad partnership and what to do if this describes your situation. 

Resources Referenced:

Should I Stay or Should I Go? Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist by Dr. Ramani Durvasula: https://amzn.to/4cx4cAe

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]]> Mon, 15 Jul 2024 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-you-cant-leave-how-to-survive-a-narcissistic-relationship/ What if you're not going to leave a narcissist? What if leaving isn't possible? Is there a way to survive a toxic relationship? 

Sometimes, leaving a toxic relationship isn't possible due to complex reasons. Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss why some victims find themselves trapped in a bad partnership and what to do if this describes your situation. 

Resources Referenced:

Should I Stay or Should I Go? Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist by Dr. Ramani Durvasula: https://amzn.to/4cx4cAe

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]]> When You Can't Leave: How to Survive a Narcissistic Relationship Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:25:13 What if you're not going to leave a narcissist? What if leaving isn't possible? Is there a way to survive a toxic relationship? Sometimes, leaving a toxic relationship isn't possible due to complex reasons. Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss why some victims find themselves trapped in a bad partnership and what to do if this describes your situation. Resources Referenced: Should I Stay or Should I Go? Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist by Dr. Ramani Durvasula: htt... What if you're not going to leave a narcissist? What if leaving isn't possible? Is there a way to survive a toxic relationship? Sometimes, leaving a toxic relationship isn't possible due to complex reasons. Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss why some victims find themselves trapped in a bad partnership and what to do if this describes your situation. Resources Referenced: Should I Stay or Should I Go? Surviving a Relationship with a Narcissist by Dr. Ramani Durvasula: htt... false full 142 Buzzsprout-15339228 Stop trauma dumping on me! How to know if you're trauma dumping vs. trauma reprocessing Have you heard of trauma dumping? It’s become a new way to attack victims for talking about their narcissistic abuse experiences.

Rossana Faye joins me as this week’s special guest to explore the importance of sharing your trauma and the role it plays in helping you heal from abuse.

And you don’t want to miss this week’s Podcast Extra where Ro and I discuss the differences between trauma reprocessing and trauma dumping. For this exclusive interview, subscribe here: substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse

Reference:
Betrayal Blindness by Jennifer Freyd: https://amzn.to/3VIEvFU

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]]> Mon, 8 Jul 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/stop-trauma-dumping-on-me-how-to-know-if-youre-trauma-dumping-vs-trauma-reprocessing/ Have you heard of trauma dumping? It’s become a new way to attack victims for talking about their narcissistic abuse experiences.

Rossana Faye joins me as this week’s special guest to explore the importance of sharing your trauma and the role it plays in helping you heal from abuse.

And you don’t want to miss this week’s Podcast Extra where Ro and I discuss the differences between trauma reprocessing and trauma dumping. For this exclusive interview, subscribe here: substack.com/@breakingfreenarcabuse

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]]> Stop trauma dumping on me! How to know if you're trauma dumping vs. trauma reprocessing Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:28:32 Have you heard of trauma dumping? It’s become a new way to attack victims for talking about their narcissistic abuse experiences. Rossana Faye joins me as this week’s special guest to explore the importance of sharing your trauma and the role it plays in helping you heal from abuse. And you don’t want to miss this week’s Podcast Extra where Ro and I discuss the differences between trauma reprocessing and trauma dumping. For this exclusive interview, subscribe here: substack.com/@breakingf... Have you heard of trauma dumping? It’s become a new way to attack victims for talking about their narcissistic abuse experiences. Rossana Faye joins me as this week’s special guest to explore the importance of sharing your trauma and the role it plays in helping you heal from abuse. And you don’t want to miss this week’s Podcast Extra where Ro and I discuss the differences between trauma reprocessing and trauma dumping. For this exclusive interview, subscribe here: substack.com/@breakingf... false full 141 Buzzsprout-15308162 Aren't all relationships tough? Why We Struggle to Spot Narcissistic Abuse In celebration of the upcoming holiday, this episode features three of our listeners’ favorites.

Listen in as Tara Blair Ball and I discuss:
1. How narcissistic abuse is different from emotional abuse
2. Why covert narcissists are difficult to spot
3. If it's true that narcissists make good lovers

Listen to the full episodes here:

S2 EP 102: Were you emotionally abused or narcissistically abused? Why the differences matter

S2 EP 107: Are you trapped by a covert narcissist? The top reasons why you're not spotting covert narcissists faster!

S2 EP 99: Are all narcissists sex addicts? What goes wrong with intimacy in the bedroom

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Defining Narcissistic Abuse: The Case for Deception as Abuse by Dr. Kristen Milstead

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]]> Mon, 1 Jul 2024 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/arent-all-relationships-tough-why-we-struggle-to-spot-narcissistic-abuse/ In celebration of the upcoming holiday, this episode features three of our listeners’ favorites.

Listen in as Tara Blair Ball and I discuss:
1. How narcissistic abuse is different from emotional abuse
2. Why covert narcissists are difficult to spot
3. If it's true that narcissists make good lovers

Listen to the full episodes here:

S2 EP 102: Were you emotionally abused or narcissistically abused? Why the differences matter

S2 EP 107: Are you trapped by a covert narcissist? The top reasons why you're not spotting covert narcissists faster!

S2 EP 99: Are all narcissists sex addicts? What goes wrong with intimacy in the bedroom

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Defining Narcissistic Abuse: The Case for Deception as Abuse by Dr. Kristen Milstead

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]]> Aren't all relationships tough? Why We Struggle to Spot Narcissistic Abuse Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:25:44 In celebration of the upcoming holiday, this episode features three of our listeners’ favorites. Listen in as Tara Blair Ball and I discuss: 1. How narcissistic abuse is different from emotional abuse 2. Why covert narcissists are difficult to spot 3. If it's true that narcissists make good lovers Listen to the full episodes here: S2 EP 102: Were you emotionally abused or narcissistically abused? Why the differences matter S2 EP 107: Are you trapped by a covert narcissist? The top reason... In celebration of the upcoming holiday, this episode features three of our listeners’ favorites. Listen in as Tara Blair Ball and I discuss: 1. How narcissistic abuse is different from emotional abuse 2. Why covert narcissists are difficult to spot 3. If it's true that narcissists make good lovers Listen to the full episodes here: S2 EP 102: Were you emotionally abused or narcissistically abused? Why the differences matter S2 EP 107: Are you trapped by a covert narcissist? The top reason... false full 140 Buzzsprout-15276734 Only Me & Never You: Inside the Bizarre Mind of a Narcissist - Interview with Dr. Les Carter The mind of a narcissist is wildly self-absorbed and oblivious to those around them. They are excessively focused on me, me, me.

Dr. Les Carter joins me to discuss what victims get wrong about the mind of a narcissist. He shares how our assumptions and misunderstandings create false hope, causing us to stay too long and to give too many chances.

To learn more about Dr. Carter: Visit Website & his Surviving Narcissism YouTube channel.

Dr. Carter's book: When Pleasing You Is Killing Me

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]]> Mon, 24 Jun 2024 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/only-me-never-you-inside-the-bizarre-mind-of-a-narcissist-interview-with-dr-les-carter/ The mind of a narcissist is wildly self-absorbed and oblivious to those around them. They are excessively focused on me, me, me.

Dr. Les Carter joins me to discuss what victims get wrong about the mind of a narcissist. He shares how our assumptions and misunderstandings create false hope, causing us to stay too long and to give too many chances.

To learn more about Dr. Carter: Visit Website & his Surviving Narcissism YouTube channel.

Dr. Carter's book: When Pleasing You Is Killing Me

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]]> Only Me & Never You: Inside the Bizarre Mind of a Narcissist - Interview with Dr. Les Carter Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:21:10 The mind of a narcissist is wildly self-absorbed and oblivious to those around them. They are excessively focused on me, me, me. Dr. Les Carter joins me to discuss what victims get wrong about the mind of a narcissist. He shares how our assumptions and misunderstandings create false hope, causing us to stay too long and to give too many chances. To learn more about Dr. Carter: Visit Website & his Surviving Narcissism YouTube channel. Dr. Carter's book: When Pleasing You Is Killing Me... The mind of a narcissist is wildly self-absorbed and oblivious to those around them. They are excessively focused on me, me, me. Dr. Les Carter joins me to discuss what victims get wrong about the mind of a narcissist. He shares how our assumptions and misunderstandings create false hope, causing us to stay too long and to give too many chances. To learn more about Dr. Carter: Visit Website & his Surviving Narcissism YouTube channel. Dr. Carter's book: When Pleasing You Is Killing Me... false full 139 Buzzsprout-15250540 I desperately love and fear them: The Terrifying Power of a Trauma Bond Could you be trauma-bonded to a narcissist? Are you battling a strange mix of love and fear?

Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss trauma bonds--an intense connection to another person that is very difficult to break. We think we feel love when it's based on fear. 

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]]> Mon, 17 Jun 2024 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/i-desperately-love-and-fear-them-the-terrifying-power-of-a-trauma-bond/ Could you be trauma-bonded to a narcissist? Are you battling a strange mix of love and fear?

Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss trauma bonds--an intense connection to another person that is very difficult to break. We think we feel love when it's based on fear. 

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]]> I desperately love and fear them: The Terrifying Power of a Trauma Bond Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:29:37 Could you be trauma-bonded to a narcissist? Are you battling a strange mix of love and fear? Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss trauma bonds--an intense connection to another person that is very difficult to break. We think we feel love when it's based on fear. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital c... Could you be trauma-bonded to a narcissist? Are you battling a strange mix of love and fear? Lisa Sonni joins me this week to discuss trauma bonds--an intense connection to another person that is very difficult to break. We think we feel love when it's based on fear. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital c... false full 138 Buzzsprout-15190271 Why Can't I Leave? The Crazy Confusion from Late-Stage Cognitive Dissonance Have you asked yourself, "Why can't I leave?" You know you should. You've even started hiding the ugly truth of what's really going on behind closed doors. 

In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss late-stage cognitive dissonance. Learn the underlying cause of the agonizing confusion that paralyzes the victim from acting in their own best interest. Find out what it took for us to break free from its terrible grip.

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]]> Mon, 10 Jun 2024 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-cant-i-leave-the-crazy-confusion-from-late-stage-cognitive-dissonance/ Have you asked yourself, "Why can't I leave?" You know you should. You've even started hiding the ugly truth of what's really going on behind closed doors. 

In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss late-stage cognitive dissonance. Learn the underlying cause of the agonizing confusion that paralyzes the victim from acting in their own best interest. Find out what it took for us to break free from its terrible grip.

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]]> Why Can't I Leave? The Crazy Confusion from Late-Stage Cognitive Dissonance Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:25:52 Have you asked yourself, "Why can't I leave?" You know you should. You've even started hiding the ugly truth of what's really going on behind closed doors. In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss late-stage cognitive dissonance. Learn the underlying cause of the agonizing confusion that paralyzes the victim from acting in their own best interest. Find out what it took for us to break free from its terrible grip. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources Recla... Have you asked yourself, "Why can't I leave?" You know you should. You've even started hiding the ugly truth of what's really going on behind closed doors. In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss late-stage cognitive dissonance. Learn the underlying cause of the agonizing confusion that paralyzes the victim from acting in their own best interest. Find out what it took for us to break free from its terrible grip. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources Recla... false full 137 Buzzsprout-15148499 Feeling duped and conned? Why We Miss the Signs of a Covert Narcissist: An Interview with Eleni Sagredos Have you left a relationship feeling duped? Not just betrayed, but conned? You’ve likely met a covert narcissist.

In this episode, Elena Sagredos, author of But They’re So Nice, joins me to talk about the deceptiveness of covert abuse. We often miss the signs we’ve met a covert narcissism behind their guise of niceness, only later to discover their extreme duplicity.

To learn more about Eleni, you can follow her here:
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nonarcsense
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/no_narcsense

To purchase her book:
But They’re So Nice

Eleni Sagredos is an abuse educator and a certified Domestic Violence Advocate with a passion for raising awareness about covert abuse and domestic violence. She is the author of the book "But They're So Nice: Unmasking Covert Abuse & Narcissistic People," which sheds light on the insidious nature of emotional and psychological abuse often overlooked or minimized. Eleni is most active on TikTok, where she shares her insights, experiences, and resources to help others recognize the dynamics and tactics in abusive relationships.

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]]> Mon, 3 Jun 2024 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/feeling-duped-and-conned-why-we-miss-the-signs-of-a-covert-narcissist-an-interview-with-eleni-sagredos/ Have you left a relationship feeling duped? Not just betrayed, but conned? You’ve likely met a covert narcissist.

In this episode, Elena Sagredos, author of But They’re So Nice, joins me to talk about the deceptiveness of covert abuse. We often miss the signs we’ve met a covert narcissism behind their guise of niceness, only later to discover their extreme duplicity.

To learn more about Eleni, you can follow her here:
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nonarcsense
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/no_narcsense

To purchase her book:
But They’re So Nice

Eleni Sagredos is an abuse educator and a certified Domestic Violence Advocate with a passion for raising awareness about covert abuse and domestic violence. She is the author of the book "But They're So Nice: Unmasking Covert Abuse & Narcissistic People," which sheds light on the insidious nature of emotional and psychological abuse often overlooked or minimized. Eleni is most active on TikTok, where she shares her insights, experiences, and resources to help others recognize the dynamics and tactics in abusive relationships.

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]]> Feeling duped and conned? Why We Miss the Signs of a Covert Narcissist: An Interview with Eleni Sagredos Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:24:10 Have you left a relationship feeling duped? Not just betrayed, but conned? You’ve likely met a covert narcissist. In this episode, Elena Sagredos, author of But They’re So Nice, joins me to talk about the deceptiveness of covert abuse. We often miss the signs we’ve met a covert narcissism behind their guise of niceness, only later to discover their extreme duplicity. To learn more about Eleni, you can follow her here: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nonarcsense Instagram: https://www.insta... Have you left a relationship feeling duped? Not just betrayed, but conned? You’ve likely met a covert narcissist. In this episode, Elena Sagredos, author of But They’re So Nice, joins me to talk about the deceptiveness of covert abuse. We often miss the signs we’ve met a covert narcissism behind their guise of niceness, only later to discover their extreme duplicity. To learn more about Eleni, you can follow her here: TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nonarcsense Instagram: https://www.insta... false full 136 Buzzsprout-15112527 Is my partner a narcissist? Highlights from Dr. Kerry's 3 Favorite Interviews Relationships with narcissists can be confounding, confusing, and incredibly frustrating.

Join Dr. Kerry for this holiday episode when she revisits the highlights of her three favorite interviews. Hear Dr. Les Carter’s explanation of why narcissists are so tricky, Lisa Sonni’s three steps to breaking a trauma bond, and Dr. Robin Stern’s disturbing description of gaslighting’s power.

To listen to these full episodes:

Dr. Les Carter: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/podcast/s2-ep25-why-do-narcissists-have-to-make-life-miserable-dr-les-carter-explains-narcissism/

Lisa Sonni: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/podcast/s2-ep27-why-am-i-so-confused-the-making-breaking-of-a-trauma-bond-with-lisa-sonni/

Dr. Robin Stern: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/podcast/54-whats-wrong-with-me-the-power-of-gaslighting-to-confuse-and-control-interview-with-dr-robin-stern


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]]> Mon, 27 May 2024 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-my-partner-a-narcissist-highlights-from-dr-kerrys-3-favorite-interviews/ Relationships with narcissists can be confounding, confusing, and incredibly frustrating.

Join Dr. Kerry for this holiday episode when she revisits the highlights of her three favorite interviews. Hear Dr. Les Carter’s explanation of why narcissists are so tricky, Lisa Sonni’s three steps to breaking a trauma bond, and Dr. Robin Stern’s disturbing description of gaslighting’s power.

To listen to these full episodes:

Dr. Les Carter: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/podcast/s2-ep25-why-do-narcissists-have-to-make-life-miserable-dr-les-carter-explains-narcissism/

Lisa Sonni: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/podcast/s2-ep27-why-am-i-so-confused-the-making-breaking-of-a-trauma-bond-with-lisa-sonni/

Dr. Robin Stern: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/podcast/54-whats-wrong-with-me-the-power-of-gaslighting-to-confuse-and-control-interview-with-dr-robin-stern


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]]> Is my partner a narcissist? Highlights from Dr. Kerry's 3 Favorite Interviews Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:24:55 Relationships with narcissists can be confounding, confusing, and incredibly frustrating. Join Dr. Kerry for this holiday episode when she revisits the highlights of her three favorite interviews. Hear Dr. Les Carter’s explanation of why narcissists are so tricky, Lisa Sonni’s three steps to breaking a trauma bond, and Dr. Robin Stern’s disturbing description of gaslighting’s power. To listen to these full episodes: Dr. Les Carter: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/podcast/s... Relationships with narcissists can be confounding, confusing, and incredibly frustrating. Join Dr. Kerry for this holiday episode when she revisits the highlights of her three favorite interviews. Hear Dr. Les Carter’s explanation of why narcissists are so tricky, Lisa Sonni’s three steps to breaking a trauma bond, and Dr. Robin Stern’s disturbing description of gaslighting’s power. To listen to these full episodes: Dr. Les Carter: https://www.breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com/podcast/s... false full 135 Buzzsprout-15071652 "We're just trying to help!" How to Manage Toxic In-Law Drama Are you battling toxic in-law drama? Is your mother-in-law or father-in-law intruding into your relationship or family?

This week, Rossana Faye joins us to discuss common toxic in-law drama, particularly when it involves a narcissistic mother- or father-in-law. This week's self-help tip is the importance of strengthening your couple's boundaries over time.

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]]> Mon, 20 May 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/were-just-trying-to-help-how-to-manage-toxic-in-law-drama/ Are you battling toxic in-law drama? Is your mother-in-law or father-in-law intruding into your relationship or family?

This week, Rossana Faye joins us to discuss common toxic in-law drama, particularly when it involves a narcissistic mother- or father-in-law. This week's self-help tip is the importance of strengthening your couple's boundaries over time.

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]]> "We're just trying to help!" How to Manage Toxic In-Law Drama Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:27:30 Are you battling toxic in-law drama? Is your mother-in-law or father-in-law intruding into your relationship or family? This week, Rossana Faye joins us to discuss common toxic in-law drama, particularly when it involves a narcissistic mother- or father-in-law. This week's self-help tip is the importance of strengthening your couple's boundaries over time. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collec... Are you battling toxic in-law drama? Is your mother-in-law or father-in-law intruding into your relationship or family? This week, Rossana Faye joins us to discuss common toxic in-law drama, particularly when it involves a narcissistic mother- or father-in-law. This week's self-help tip is the importance of strengthening your couple's boundaries over time. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collec... false full 134 Buzzsprout-15052505 "How mad can I make you?" The Toxic Games Covert Narcissists Play Do you find yourself exasperated or angry at your partner, but you aren’t sure why? Do they put you into no-win binds?

Covert narcissists love to play subtle, often hidden mind games. They are masterful at twisting the truth, hiding exploitative agendas, and playing the victim, enraging their partners and families while keeping them in the dark. 

In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins to discuss the common mind games covert narcissists use. This week's self-help tip is how to use your emotional reaction and personal history to identify toxicity. 


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]]> Mon, 13 May 2024 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-mad-can-i-make-you-the-toxic-games-covert-narcissists-play/ Do you find yourself exasperated or angry at your partner, but you aren’t sure why? Do they put you into no-win binds?

Covert narcissists love to play subtle, often hidden mind games. They are masterful at twisting the truth, hiding exploitative agendas, and playing the victim, enraging their partners and families while keeping them in the dark. 

In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins to discuss the common mind games covert narcissists use. This week's self-help tip is how to use your emotional reaction and personal history to identify toxicity. 


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]]> "How mad can I make you?" The Toxic Games Covert Narcissists Play Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:26:47 Do you find yourself exasperated or angry at your partner, but you aren’t sure why? Do they put you into no-win binds? Covert narcissists love to play subtle, often hidden mind games. They are masterful at twisting the truth, hiding exploitative agendas, and playing the victim, enraging their partners and families while keeping them in the dark. In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins to discuss the common mind games covert narcissists use. This week's self-help tip is how to use your emoti... Do you find yourself exasperated or angry at your partner, but you aren’t sure why? Do they put you into no-win binds? Covert narcissists love to play subtle, often hidden mind games. They are masterful at twisting the truth, hiding exploitative agendas, and playing the victim, enraging their partners and families while keeping them in the dark. In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins to discuss the common mind games covert narcissists use. This week's self-help tip is how to use your emoti... false full 133 Buzzsprout-14982105 "You're trying to control me!" Why Managing Boundaries with Narcissists Fails Have you noticed managing boundaries with narcissists always fails? That they find some tricky way to evade limit setting? 

Suddenly, you’re being accused of being too controlling or sensitive, or they can’t understand what you're asking. 

In this podcast, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the problems of managing boundaries with narcissists. We'll explore this issue from a narcissist's perspective: why they find boundaries threatening. The self-help tip is the importance of evaluating both partners' investment in the relationship as a measure of a healthy relationship. 


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]]> Mon, 6 May 2024 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/youre-trying-to-control-me-why-managing-boundaries-with-narcissists-fails/ Have you noticed managing boundaries with narcissists always fails? That they find some tricky way to evade limit setting? 

Suddenly, you’re being accused of being too controlling or sensitive, or they can’t understand what you're asking. 

In this podcast, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the problems of managing boundaries with narcissists. We'll explore this issue from a narcissist's perspective: why they find boundaries threatening. The self-help tip is the importance of evaluating both partners' investment in the relationship as a measure of a healthy relationship. 


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]]> "You're trying to control me!" Why Managing Boundaries with Narcissists Fails Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:27:10 Have you noticed managing boundaries with narcissists always fails? That they find some tricky way to evade limit setting? Suddenly, you’re being accused of being too controlling or sensitive, or they can’t understand what you're asking. In this podcast, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the problems of managing boundaries with narcissists. We'll explore this issue from a narcissist's perspective: why they find boundaries threatening. The self-help tip is the importance of evaluati... Have you noticed managing boundaries with narcissists always fails? That they find some tricky way to evade limit setting? Suddenly, you’re being accused of being too controlling or sensitive, or they can’t understand what you're asking. In this podcast, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the problems of managing boundaries with narcissists. We'll explore this issue from a narcissist's perspective: why they find boundaries threatening. The self-help tip is the importance of evaluati... false full 132 Buzzsprout-14939362 "You’re not taking my babies from me!" How Jessica Kent Escaped Abuse (Trigger Warning: This episode contains graphic descriptions of abuse.)

This week, Jessica Kent, a wildly popular social media figure, joins me to share her story of escaping abuse. Jessica reveals how covert narcissistic abuse can go from subtle to violent, especially when victims leave the relationship.

Jessica Kent is best known for prison reform advocacy. To learn more about her and her work:

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JessicaKent
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesken12/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jesken12?lang=en
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OfficiallyJessicaKent


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]]> Mon, 29 Apr 2024 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/youre-not-taking-my-babies-from-me-how-jessica-kent-escaped-abuse/ (Trigger Warning: This episode contains graphic descriptions of abuse.)

This week, Jessica Kent, a wildly popular social media figure, joins me to share her story of escaping abuse. Jessica reveals how covert narcissistic abuse can go from subtle to violent, especially when victims leave the relationship.

Jessica Kent is best known for prison reform advocacy. To learn more about her and her work:

YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JessicaKent
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesken12/?hl=en
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@jesken12?lang=en
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/OfficiallyJessicaKent


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]]> "You’re not taking my babies from me!" How Jessica Kent Escaped Abuse Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:28:13 (Trigger Warning: This episode contains graphic descriptions of abuse.) This week, Jessica Kent, a wildly popular social media figure, joins me to share her story of escaping abuse. Jessica reveals how covert narcissistic abuse can go from subtle to violent, especially when victims leave the relationship. Jessica Kent is best known for prison reform advocacy. To learn more about her and her work: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JessicaKent Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesken12/... (Trigger Warning: This episode contains graphic descriptions of abuse.) This week, Jessica Kent, a wildly popular social media figure, joins me to share her story of escaping abuse. Jessica reveals how covert narcissistic abuse can go from subtle to violent, especially when victims leave the relationship. Jessica Kent is best known for prison reform advocacy. To learn more about her and her work: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JessicaKent Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesken12/... false full 131 Buzzsprout-14900059 How Could I Have Not Known? How Devastating Betrayals Blind Us Sometimes, the truth can be right in front of you, but you still can't see it. Rossana Faye joins me this week to discuss a concept Dr. Jennifer Freyd, in her book Blind to Betrayal, calls “betrayal blindness.” Some truths can be so devastating that they are difficult to face.

And, the self-help tip is the importance of listening to what feels off, uncomfortable, or wrong to recognize signs you may be missing critical details in your relationship or family.

Blind to Betrayal: Why We Fool Ourselves When We Aren’t Being Fooled by Jennifer Freyd, Ph.D.: https://amzn.to/3TRNPpO

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]]> Mon, 22 Apr 2024 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-could-i-have-not-known-how-devastating-betrayals-blind-us/ Sometimes, the truth can be right in front of you, but you still can't see it. Rossana Faye joins me this week to discuss a concept Dr. Jennifer Freyd, in her book Blind to Betrayal, calls “betrayal blindness.” Some truths can be so devastating that they are difficult to face.

And, the self-help tip is the importance of listening to what feels off, uncomfortable, or wrong to recognize signs you may be missing critical details in your relationship or family.

Blind to Betrayal: Why We Fool Ourselves When We Aren’t Being Fooled by Jennifer Freyd, Ph.D.: https://amzn.to/3TRNPpO

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]]> How Could I Have Not Known? How Devastating Betrayals Blind Us Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:26:31 Sometimes, the truth can be right in front of you, but you still can't see it. Rossana Faye joins me this week to discuss a concept Dr. Jennifer Freyd, in her book Blind to Betrayal, calls “betrayal blindness.” Some truths can be so devastating that they are difficult to face. And, the self-help tip is the importance of listening to what feels off, uncomfortable, or wrong to recognize signs you may be missing critical details in your relationship or family. Blind to Betrayal: Why We Fool O... Sometimes, the truth can be right in front of you, but you still can't see it. Rossana Faye joins me this week to discuss a concept Dr. Jennifer Freyd, in her book Blind to Betrayal, calls “betrayal blindness.” Some truths can be so devastating that they are difficult to face. And, the self-help tip is the importance of listening to what feels off, uncomfortable, or wrong to recognize signs you may be missing critical details in your relationship or family. Blind to Betrayal: Why We Fool O... false full 130 Buzzsprout-14836276 Why I'd Snoop Again: How this Toxic Behavior Sometimes Provides Closure and Safety Is it ever okay to go through your partner's phone? I've been guilty of snooping and might consider doing it again.

Narcissists and toxic personalities are masters at creating ambiguity. My ex used to readily offer me his credit card after we first started dating. He'd send photos of broken machinery and take me on company runs, all as a way to build trust so that I couldn't tell real company crises from manufactured ones.

I later learned he'd created this elaborate ruse to hide a double life.

Yet going through our loved one's phone can become a hard habit to break. Sometimes, we struggle to exit toxic relationships despite overwhelming evidence of betrayal.

In this podcast, Lisa Sonni and Dr. Kerry share their personal stories and discuss important considerations when facing these tricky situations.

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]]> Mon, 15 Apr 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-id-snoop-again-how-this-toxic-behavior-sometimes-provides-closure-and-safety/ Is it ever okay to go through your partner's phone? I've been guilty of snooping and might consider doing it again.

Narcissists and toxic personalities are masters at creating ambiguity. My ex used to readily offer me his credit card after we first started dating. He'd send photos of broken machinery and take me on company runs, all as a way to build trust so that I couldn't tell real company crises from manufactured ones.

I later learned he'd created this elaborate ruse to hide a double life.

Yet going through our loved one's phone can become a hard habit to break. Sometimes, we struggle to exit toxic relationships despite overwhelming evidence of betrayal.

In this podcast, Lisa Sonni and Dr. Kerry share their personal stories and discuss important considerations when facing these tricky situations.

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]]> Why I'd Snoop Again: How this Toxic Behavior Sometimes Provides Closure and Safety Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:27:57 Is it ever okay to go through your partner's phone? I've been guilty of snooping and might consider doing it again. Narcissists and toxic personalities are masters at creating ambiguity. My ex used to readily offer me his credit card after we first started dating. He'd send photos of broken machinery and take me on company runs, all as a way to build trust so that I couldn't tell real company crises from manufactured ones. I later learned he'd created this elaborate ruse to hide a double l... Is it ever okay to go through your partner's phone? I've been guilty of snooping and might consider doing it again. Narcissists and toxic personalities are masters at creating ambiguity. My ex used to readily offer me his credit card after we first started dating. He'd send photos of broken machinery and take me on company runs, all as a way to build trust so that I couldn't tell real company crises from manufactured ones. I later learned he'd created this elaborate ruse to hide a double l... false full 129 Buzzsprout-14809577 I Think My Pet is Being Hurt! The Danger Narcissists Pose to Our Animals An all-too-common problem is narcissists and pets. Toxic people often pose a serious danger to our beloved animals.

In this podcast, Lisa Sonni and Dr. Kerry discuss the relationship toxic people often have with their family pets. Narcissists will often shower animals with love and attention only to harm the pets in private. The self-help tip includes some important boundaries to consider when beginning a relationship with someone new.

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]]> Mon, 8 Apr 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/i-think-my-pet-is-being-hurt-the-danger-narcissists-pose-to-our-animals/ An all-too-common problem is narcissists and pets. Toxic people often pose a serious danger to our beloved animals.

In this podcast, Lisa Sonni and Dr. Kerry discuss the relationship toxic people often have with their family pets. Narcissists will often shower animals with love and attention only to harm the pets in private. The self-help tip includes some important boundaries to consider when beginning a relationship with someone new.

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]]> I Think My Pet is Being Hurt! The Danger Narcissists Pose to Our Animals Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:24:57 An all-too-common problem is narcissists and pets. Toxic people often pose a serious danger to our beloved animals. In this podcast, Lisa Sonni and Dr. Kerry discuss the relationship toxic people often have with their family pets. Narcissists will often shower animals with love and attention only to harm the pets in private. The self-help tip includes some important boundaries to consider when beginning a relationship with someone new. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Res... An all-too-common problem is narcissists and pets. Toxic people often pose a serious danger to our beloved animals. In this podcast, Lisa Sonni and Dr. Kerry discuss the relationship toxic people often have with their family pets. Narcissists will often shower animals with love and attention only to harm the pets in private. The self-help tip includes some important boundaries to consider when beginning a relationship with someone new. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Res... false full 128 Buzzsprout-14768790 Did the Church Groom Me for Abuse? When Spiritual Leadership Becomes Toxic Have you been a victim of spiritual abuse? It's not just interpersonal relationships that can be toxic, but also group systems and leaders. Many are stepping forward to expose toxic church leadership and oppressive and abusive spiritual belief systems.

This week, Natalie Hoffman, author of Is it Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse and her latest book, All the Scary Little Gods: a Memoir, joins me to discuss this sensitive topic.

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All the Scary Little Gods: a Memoir

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]]> Mon, 1 Apr 2024 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/did-the-church-groom-me-for-abuse-when-spiritual-leadership-becomes-toxic/ Have you been a victim of spiritual abuse? It's not just interpersonal relationships that can be toxic, but also group systems and leaders. Many are stepping forward to expose toxic church leadership and oppressive and abusive spiritual belief systems.

This week, Natalie Hoffman, author of Is it Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse and her latest book, All the Scary Little Gods: a Memoir, joins me to discuss this sensitive topic.

To learn more about Natalie, you can find her on
Instagram

And she's also the hold of the Flying Free podcast

Her books:
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All the Scary Little Gods: a Memoir

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]]> Did the Church Groom Me for Abuse? When Spiritual Leadership Becomes Toxic Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:28:49 Have you been a victim of spiritual abuse? It's not just interpersonal relationships that can be toxic, but also group systems and leaders. Many are stepping forward to expose toxic church leadership and oppressive and abusive spiritual belief systems. This week, Natalie Hoffman, author of Is it Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse and her latest book, All the Scary Little Gods: a Memoir, joins me to discuss this sens... Have you been a victim of spiritual abuse? It's not just interpersonal relationships that can be toxic, but also group systems and leaders. Many are stepping forward to expose toxic church leadership and oppressive and abusive spiritual belief systems. This week, Natalie Hoffman, author of Is it Me? Making Sense of Your Confusing Marriage: A Christian Woman's Guide to Hidden Emotional and Spiritual Abuse and her latest book, All the Scary Little Gods: a Memoir, joins me to discuss this sens... false full 127 Buzzsprout-14715474 Am I The Narcissist? When Toxic People Accuse You of Being The Problem Have you ever wondered, "Am I the narcissist?" Have you been accused of being the problem?

In this podcast episode, Rossana Faye joins me to discuss how to know who's creating the chaos. Narcissists are notorious for never seeing themselves as the root cause, but how do we know that the issue isn't us?

And the self-help tip is how to use your history to identify dysfunctional relationship patterns.

 

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]]> Mon, 25 Mar 2024 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/am-i-the-narcissist-when-toxic-people-accuse-you-of-being-the-problem/ Have you ever wondered, "Am I the narcissist?" Have you been accused of being the problem?

In this podcast episode, Rossana Faye joins me to discuss how to know who's creating the chaos. Narcissists are notorious for never seeing themselves as the root cause, but how do we know that the issue isn't us?

And the self-help tip is how to use your history to identify dysfunctional relationship patterns.

 

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]]> Am I The Narcissist? When Toxic People Accuse You of Being The Problem Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:29:52 Have you ever wondered, "Am I the narcissist?" Have you been accused of being the problem? In this podcast episode, Rossana Faye joins me to discuss how to know who's creating the chaos. Narcissists are notorious for never seeing themselves as the root cause, but how do we know that the issue isn't us? And the self-help tip is how to use your history to identify dysfunctional relationship patterns. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: D... Have you ever wondered, "Am I the narcissist?" Have you been accused of being the problem? In this podcast episode, Rossana Faye joins me to discuss how to know who's creating the chaos. Narcissists are notorious for never seeing themselves as the root cause, but how do we know that the issue isn't us? And the self-help tip is how to use your history to identify dysfunctional relationship patterns. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: D... false full 126 Buzzsprout-14684525 Is It Really Abuse If I Can't Do What I Want? What is Coercive Control? Is being overly controlling a form of abuse? 

In this podcast episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the subtleties of coercive control. Learn how to recognize the common control tactic of this insidious form of abuse. And this week's self-help tip is to assess how your partner's feelings and demands affect you. Are you doing less and becoming increasingly isolated to please them?


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]]> Mon, 18 Mar 2024 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-it-really-abuse-if-i-cant-do-what-i-want-what-is-coercive-control/ Is being overly controlling a form of abuse? 

In this podcast episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the subtleties of coercive control. Learn how to recognize the common control tactic of this insidious form of abuse. And this week's self-help tip is to assess how your partner's feelings and demands affect you. Are you doing less and becoming increasingly isolated to please them?


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]]> Is It Really Abuse If I Can't Do What I Want? What is Coercive Control? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:27:27 Is being overly controlling a form of abuse? In this podcast episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the subtleties of coercive control. Learn how to recognize the common control tactic of this insidious form of abuse. And this week's self-help tip is to assess how your partner's feelings and demands affect you. Are you doing less and becoming increasingly isolated to please them? Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching ... Is being overly controlling a form of abuse? In this podcast episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss the subtleties of coercive control. Learn how to recognize the common control tactic of this insidious form of abuse. And this week's self-help tip is to assess how your partner's feelings and demands affect you. Are you doing less and becoming increasingly isolated to please them? Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching ... false full 125 Buzzsprout-14626577 When Stonewalling Is Used Against You: How to Disarm Toxic Interactions Stonewalling or giving someone the silent treatment is one of the nastiest forms of unfair fighting. When we ignore or reject another person's bid for a connection more than thirty percent of the time, the likelihood the relationship won't make it dramatically increases. 

In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss why stonewalling is such a popular toxic behavior and what to do if it's happening to you.  

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]]> Mon, 11 Mar 2024 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-stonewalling-is-used-against-you-how-to-disarm-toxic-interactions/ Stonewalling or giving someone the silent treatment is one of the nastiest forms of unfair fighting. When we ignore or reject another person's bid for a connection more than thirty percent of the time, the likelihood the relationship won't make it dramatically increases. 

In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss why stonewalling is such a popular toxic behavior and what to do if it's happening to you.  

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]]> When Stonewalling Is Used Against You: How to Disarm Toxic Interactions Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:27:10 Stonewalling or giving someone the silent treatment is one of the nastiest forms of unfair fighting. When we ignore or reject another person's bid for a connection more than thirty percent of the time, the likelihood the relationship won't make it dramatically increases. In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss why stonewalling is such a popular toxic behavior and what to do if it's happening to you. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou:... Stonewalling or giving someone the silent treatment is one of the nastiest forms of unfair fighting. When we ignore or reject another person's bid for a connection more than thirty percent of the time, the likelihood the relationship won't make it dramatically increases. In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins me to discuss why stonewalling is such a popular toxic behavior and what to do if it's happening to you. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou:... false full 124 Buzzsprout-14488392 What's wrong with me? The Power of Gaslighting to Confuse and Control: Interview with Dr. Robin Stern Have you wondered what's wrong with me? This could be a sign of gaslighting.

Dr. Robin Stern, psychoanalyst, author, and expert on gaslighting, joins me to discuss the underlying dynamics of a toxic or narcissistic relationship. She delves into the hidden motivations of both the gaslighter as well as the gaslightee.

•Learn more about Dr. Stern
•The Gaslight Effect Podcast
•My Interview with Dr. Stern on The Gaslight Effect Podcast
•The Gaslight Effect book


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]]> Mon, 4 Mar 2024 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/whats-wrong-with-me-the-power-of-gaslighting-to-confuse-and-control-interview-with-dr-robin-stern/ Have you wondered what's wrong with me? This could be a sign of gaslighting.

Dr. Robin Stern, psychoanalyst, author, and expert on gaslighting, joins me to discuss the underlying dynamics of a toxic or narcissistic relationship. She delves into the hidden motivations of both the gaslighter as well as the gaslightee.

•Learn more about Dr. Stern
•The Gaslight Effect Podcast
•My Interview with Dr. Stern on The Gaslight Effect Podcast
•The Gaslight Effect book


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]]> What's wrong with me? The Power of Gaslighting to Confuse and Control: Interview with Dr. Robin Stern Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:31:09 Have you wondered what's wrong with me? This could be a sign of gaslighting. Dr. Robin Stern, psychoanalyst, author, and expert on gaslighting, joins me to discuss the underlying dynamics of a toxic or narcissistic relationship. She delves into the hidden motivations of both the gaslighter as well as the gaslightee. •Learn more about Dr. Stern •The Gaslight Effect Podcast •My Interview with Dr. Stern on The Gaslight Effect Podcast •The Gaslight Effect book Submit your question to be a... Have you wondered what's wrong with me? This could be a sign of gaslighting. Dr. Robin Stern, psychoanalyst, author, and expert on gaslighting, joins me to discuss the underlying dynamics of a toxic or narcissistic relationship. She delves into the hidden motivations of both the gaslighter as well as the gaslightee. •Learn more about Dr. Stern •The Gaslight Effect Podcast •My Interview with Dr. Stern on The Gaslight Effect Podcast •The Gaslight Effect book Submit your question to be a... false full 123 Buzzsprout-14451931 When Fear of Change Keeps You from Leaving: How to Say Goodbye to a Toxic Life Leaving often brings along with it a fear of change. We might dread how change will affect our kids or our friendships. Maybe we're concerned about how leaving could disrupt life as we know it. 

In this podcast episode, Tara and Dr. Kerry discuss the fears of change they faced and how they overcame them to leave. Tara also is leaving the show and shares about her future plans. 

The self-help tip is the power of letter writing to find closure after leaving a toxic relationship. 


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]]> Mon, 26 Feb 2024 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/when-fear-of-change-keeps-you-from-leaving-how-to-say-goodbye-to-a-toxic-life/ Leaving often brings along with it a fear of change. We might dread how change will affect our kids or our friendships. Maybe we're concerned about how leaving could disrupt life as we know it. 

In this podcast episode, Tara and Dr. Kerry discuss the fears of change they faced and how they overcame them to leave. Tara also is leaving the show and shares about her future plans. 

The self-help tip is the power of letter writing to find closure after leaving a toxic relationship. 


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]]> When Fear of Change Keeps You from Leaving: How to Say Goodbye to a Toxic Life Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:29:39 Leaving often brings along with it a fear of change. We might dread how change will affect our kids or our friendships. Maybe we're concerned about how leaving could disrupt life as we know it. In this podcast episode, Tara and Dr. Kerry discuss the fears of change they faced and how they overcame them to leave. Tara also is leaving the show and shares about her future plans. The self-help tip is the power of letter writing to find closure after leaving a toxic relationship.&nbs... Leaving often brings along with it a fear of change. We might dread how change will affect our kids or our friendships. Maybe we're concerned about how leaving could disrupt life as we know it. In this podcast episode, Tara and Dr. Kerry discuss the fears of change they faced and how they overcame them to leave. Tara also is leaving the show and shares about her future plans. The self-help tip is the power of letter writing to find closure after leaving a toxic relationship.&nbs... false full 122 Buzzsprout-14401524 Could Your Relationship be Making You Sick? The High Cost of Living With a Narcissist Could living with a narcissist be making you sick? Are you struggling with more illnesses? Maybe you even have an autoimmune disease.

In this podcast episode, Tara Blair Ball and Lisa Sonni discuss the invisible impact of living with a narcissist on our health. Learn how narcissists and other toxic people not only sabotage our self-care but also impact our physical and mental health.

Resources: The Body Keeps the Score by Dr. Bessel Van Der Kolk- https://amzn.to/3Sh06nc

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]]> Mon, 19 Feb 2024 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/could-your-relationship-be-making-you-sick-the-high-cost-of-living-with-a-narcissist/ Could living with a narcissist be making you sick? Are you struggling with more illnesses? Maybe you even have an autoimmune disease.

In this podcast episode, Tara Blair Ball and Lisa Sonni discuss the invisible impact of living with a narcissist on our health. Learn how narcissists and other toxic people not only sabotage our self-care but also impact our physical and mental health.

Resources: The Body Keeps the Score by Dr. Bessel Van Der Kolk- https://amzn.to/3Sh06nc

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]]> Could Your Relationship be Making You Sick? The High Cost of Living With a Narcissist Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:28:56 Could living with a narcissist be making you sick? Are you struggling with more illnesses? Maybe you even have an autoimmune disease. In this podcast episode, Tara Blair Ball and Lisa Sonni discuss the invisible impact of living with a narcissist on our health. Learn how narcissists and other toxic people not only sabotage our self-care but also impact our physical and mental health. Resources: The Body Keeps the Score by Dr. Bessel Van Der Kolk- https://amzn.to/3Sh06nc Submit your quest... Could living with a narcissist be making you sick? Are you struggling with more illnesses? Maybe you even have an autoimmune disease. In this podcast episode, Tara Blair Ball and Lisa Sonni discuss the invisible impact of living with a narcissist on our health. Learn how narcissists and other toxic people not only sabotage our self-care but also impact our physical and mental health. Resources: The Body Keeps the Score by Dr. Bessel Van Der Kolk- https://amzn.to/3Sh06nc Submit your quest... false full 121 Buzzsprout-14446949 Don't Trust Yourself? How Self-Doubt Keeps Us Stuck in a Bad Relationship Are you stuck in a bad relationship? Are you wondering if you have good enough reasons enough to leave?

In this podcast episode, Rossana Faye, Rollercoaster of Love, joins to me to discuss how self-doubt can trap us in a bad relationship. How we can get stuck in our own heads, which only adds to the confusion we already feel in narcissistic relationships. And the self-help tip is the power of finding forgiveness for ourselves through acceptance and love.

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]]> Mon, 12 Feb 2024 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/dont-trust-yourself-how-self-doubt-keeps-us-stuck-in-a-bad-relationship/ Are you stuck in a bad relationship? Are you wondering if you have good enough reasons enough to leave?

In this podcast episode, Rossana Faye, Rollercoaster of Love, joins to me to discuss how self-doubt can trap us in a bad relationship. How we can get stuck in our own heads, which only adds to the confusion we already feel in narcissistic relationships. And the self-help tip is the power of finding forgiveness for ourselves through acceptance and love.

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]]> Don't Trust Yourself? How Self-Doubt Keeps Us Stuck in a Bad Relationship Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:26:52 Are you stuck in a bad relationship? Are you wondering if you have good enough reasons enough to leave? In this podcast episode, Rossana Faye, Rollercoaster of Love, joins to me to discuss how self-doubt can trap us in a bad relationship. How we can get stuck in our own heads, which only adds to the confusion we already feel in narcissistic relationships. And the self-help tip is the power of finding forgiveness for ourselves through acceptance and love. Submit your question to be answere... Are you stuck in a bad relationship? Are you wondering if you have good enough reasons enough to leave? In this podcast episode, Rossana Faye, Rollercoaster of Love, joins to me to discuss how self-doubt can trap us in a bad relationship. How we can get stuck in our own heads, which only adds to the confusion we already feel in narcissistic relationships. And the self-help tip is the power of finding forgiveness for ourselves through acceptance and love. Submit your question to be answere... false full 120 Buzzsprout-14423239 Time to Leave? Top Dos and Don'ts When Divorcing a Narcissist: Interview with Kate Anthony Are you considering divorcing a narcissist? Wondering how to do it safely?

In today's podcast, Kate Anthony, a High-Conflict Divorce Coach and author of The D Word, joins me to discuss how to become our own best advocate when leaving a narcissist. She covers the top dos and don'ts to exiting these challenging and even dangerous relationships. 

Kate Anthony: https://kateanthony.com
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]]> Mon, 5 Feb 2024 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/time-to-leave-top-dos-and-donts-when-divorcing-a-narcissist-interview-with-kate-anthony/ Are you considering divorcing a narcissist? Wondering how to do it safely?

In today's podcast, Kate Anthony, a High-Conflict Divorce Coach and author of The D Word, joins me to discuss how to become our own best advocate when leaving a narcissist. She covers the top dos and don'ts to exiting these challenging and even dangerous relationships. 

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]]> Time to Leave? Top Dos and Don'ts When Divorcing a Narcissist: Interview with Kate Anthony Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:27:44 Are you considering divorcing a narcissist? Wondering how to do it safely? In today's podcast, Kate Anthony, a High-Conflict Divorce Coach and author of The D Word, joins me to discuss how to become our own best advocate when leaving a narcissist. She covers the top dos and don'ts to exiting these challenging and even dangerous relationships. Kate Anthony: https://kateanthony.com The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage: https://amzn.to/3HDbTHh Submit your questi... Are you considering divorcing a narcissist? Wondering how to do it safely? In today's podcast, Kate Anthony, a High-Conflict Divorce Coach and author of The D Word, joins me to discuss how to become our own best advocate when leaving a narcissist. She covers the top dos and don'ts to exiting these challenging and even dangerous relationships. Kate Anthony: https://kateanthony.com The D Word: Making the Ultimate Decision About Your Marriage: https://amzn.to/3HDbTHh Submit your questi... false full 119 Buzzsprout-14345514 Off-balanced by the ups and downs? How narcissists keep you confused. Are you feeling off-balanced? Do you wonder how your narcissistic partner or loved one is keeping you confused?

In this podcast episode, Tara is joined by Lisa Sonni of Stronger Than Before, and they delve into how narcissists and toxic people employ intermittent reinforcement and other manipulative strategies to keep victims confused.

The self-help tip is the importance of analyzing one's investment in a relationship. Ask yourself, "Is the giving and support mutually reciprocal and equitable?"

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]]> Mon, 29 Jan 2024 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/off-balanced-by-the-ups-and-downs-how-narcissists-keep-you-confused/ Are you feeling off-balanced? Do you wonder how your narcissistic partner or loved one is keeping you confused?

In this podcast episode, Tara is joined by Lisa Sonni of Stronger Than Before, and they delve into how narcissists and toxic people employ intermittent reinforcement and other manipulative strategies to keep victims confused.

The self-help tip is the importance of analyzing one's investment in a relationship. Ask yourself, "Is the giving and support mutually reciprocal and equitable?"

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]]> Off-balanced by the ups and downs? How narcissists keep you confused. Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:26:27 Are you feeling off-balanced? Do you wonder how your narcissistic partner or loved one is keeping you confused? In this podcast episode, Tara is joined by Lisa Sonni of Stronger Than Before, and they delve into how narcissists and toxic people employ intermittent reinforcement and other manipulative strategies to keep victims confused. The self-help tip is the importance of analyzing one's investment in a relationship. Ask yourself, "Is the giving and support mutually reciprocal and equit... Are you feeling off-balanced? Do you wonder how your narcissistic partner or loved one is keeping you confused? In this podcast episode, Tara is joined by Lisa Sonni of Stronger Than Before, and they delve into how narcissists and toxic people employ intermittent reinforcement and other manipulative strategies to keep victims confused. The self-help tip is the importance of analyzing one's investment in a relationship. Ask yourself, "Is the giving and support mutually reciprocal and equit... false full 118 Buzzsprout-14293436 Men can't be victims, right? Common myths about men and narcissistic abuse: An Interview with Brent MacLerie One of many harmful stereotypes men face is that they can't be victims of narcissistic abuse, yet the rates of narcissism are nearly equal between men and women.

In this episode, Brent MacLerie, social media activist and advocate for gender issues, joins Tara and me to discuss his experience of narcissistic abuse along with the common challenges many male victims face in abusive relationships.

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]]> Mon, 22 Jan 2024 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/men-cant-be-victims-right-common-myths-about-men-and-narcissistic-abuse-an-interview-with-brent-maclerie/ One of many harmful stereotypes men face is that they can't be victims of narcissistic abuse, yet the rates of narcissism are nearly equal between men and women.

In this episode, Brent MacLerie, social media activist and advocate for gender issues, joins Tara and me to discuss his experience of narcissistic abuse along with the common challenges many male victims face in abusive relationships.

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]]> Men can't be victims, right? Common myths about men and narcissistic abuse: An Interview with Brent MacLerie Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:28:55 One of many harmful stereotypes men face is that they can't be victims of narcissistic abuse, yet the rates of narcissism are nearly equal between men and women. In this episode, Brent MacLerie, social media activist and advocate for gender issues, joins Tara and me to discuss his experience of narcissistic abuse along with the common challenges many male victims face in abusive relationships. To follow Brent: https://www.tiktok.com/@expatriarch Resource: Couple Skills: Making Your Relati... One of many harmful stereotypes men face is that they can't be victims of narcissistic abuse, yet the rates of narcissism are nearly equal between men and women. In this episode, Brent MacLerie, social media activist and advocate for gender issues, joins Tara and me to discuss his experience of narcissistic abuse along with the common challenges many male victims face in abusive relationships. To follow Brent: https://www.tiktok.com/@expatriarch Resource: Couple Skills: Making Your Relati... false full 117 Buzzsprout-14216147 Deceived by your partner? The devastating effects of betrayal trauma When there's been a massive breach of trust, victims experience what's called betrayal trauma.  Yet, there's often a rush to fix the duplicitous partner instead of the one betrayed, neglecting the victims' psychological devastation.     

In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins Dr. Kerry as a regular special guest, and they discuss victims' common betrayal reactions. And the self-help tip is the importance of prioritizing your own mental health if you're the one who's been betrayed.  


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]]> Mon, 15 Jan 2024 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/deceived-by-your-partner-the-devastating-effects-of-betrayal-trauma/ When there's been a massive breach of trust, victims experience what's called betrayal trauma.  Yet, there's often a rush to fix the duplicitous partner instead of the one betrayed, neglecting the victims' psychological devastation.     

In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins Dr. Kerry as a regular special guest, and they discuss victims' common betrayal reactions. And the self-help tip is the importance of prioritizing your own mental health if you're the one who's been betrayed.  


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]]> Deceived by your partner? The devastating effects of betrayal trauma Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:28:56 When there's been a massive breach of trust, victims experience what's called betrayal trauma. Yet, there's often a rush to fix the duplicitous partner instead of the one betrayed, neglecting the victims' psychological devastation. In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins Dr. Kerry as a regular special guest, and they discuss victims' common betrayal reactions. And the self-help tip is the importance of prioritizing your own mental health if you're the one who's been betra... When there's been a massive breach of trust, victims experience what's called betrayal trauma. Yet, there's often a rush to fix the duplicitous partner instead of the one betrayed, neglecting the victims' psychological devastation. In this episode, Lisa Sonni joins Dr. Kerry as a regular special guest, and they discuss victims' common betrayal reactions. And the self-help tip is the importance of prioritizing your own mental health if you're the one who's been betra... false full 116 Buzzsprout-14206653 How narcissists can turn dream honeymoons into a waking nightmare! Did you think you had met the most amazing person only to discover you had married a stranger? 

Narcissists and other toxic personalities often wait until their partners are trapped by commitment before beginning more serious abuse and betrayals. In this episode, Tara and Kerry share how narcissists often unmask their real selves after moving in together or while on the honeymoon.  

And, the self-help tip is the importance of finding the right help with facing this kind of a crisis. 

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]]> Mon, 8 Jan 2024 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-narcissists-can-turn-dream-honeymoons-into-a-waking-nightmare/ Did you think you had met the most amazing person only to discover you had married a stranger? 

Narcissists and other toxic personalities often wait until their partners are trapped by commitment before beginning more serious abuse and betrayals. In this episode, Tara and Kerry share how narcissists often unmask their real selves after moving in together or while on the honeymoon.  

And, the self-help tip is the importance of finding the right help with facing this kind of a crisis. 

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]]> How narcissists can turn dream honeymoons into a waking nightmare! Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:24:21 Did you think you had met the most amazing person only to discover you had married a stranger? Narcissists and other toxic personalities often wait until their partners are trapped by commitment before beginning more serious abuse and betrayals. In this episode, Tara and Kerry share how narcissists often unmask their real selves after moving in together or while on the honeymoon. And, the self-help tip is the importance of finding the right help with facing this kind of a crisi... Did you think you had met the most amazing person only to discover you had married a stranger? Narcissists and other toxic personalities often wait until their partners are trapped by commitment before beginning more serious abuse and betrayals. In this episode, Tara and Kerry share how narcissists often unmask their real selves after moving in together or while on the honeymoon. And, the self-help tip is the importance of finding the right help with facing this kind of a crisi... false full 115 Buzzsprout-14138309 How to manage runaway triggers in new situations and at family celebrations Are you managing trauma triggers in new situations or at family holiday celebrations? Are you struggling with sudden fears, rushes of emotions, or disturbing flashbacks?

In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara discuss coping with trauma triggers after narcissistic abuse. Learn helpful strategies for managing these challenging and unexpected triggers.


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]]> Mon, 18 Dec 2023 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-to-manage-runaway-triggers-in-new-situations-and-at-family-celebrations/ Are you managing trauma triggers in new situations or at family holiday celebrations? Are you struggling with sudden fears, rushes of emotions, or disturbing flashbacks?

In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara discuss coping with trauma triggers after narcissistic abuse. Learn helpful strategies for managing these challenging and unexpected triggers.


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]]> How to manage runaway triggers in new situations and at family celebrations Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:25:42 Are you managing trauma triggers in new situations or at family holiday celebrations? Are you struggling with sudden fears, rushes of emotions, or disturbing flashbacks? In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara discuss coping with trauma triggers after narcissistic abuse. Learn helpful strategies for managing these challenging and unexpected triggers. Links: FX's The Bear Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Rec... Are you managing trauma triggers in new situations or at family holiday celebrations? Are you struggling with sudden fears, rushes of emotions, or disturbing flashbacks? In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara discuss coping with trauma triggers after narcissistic abuse. Learn helpful strategies for managing these challenging and unexpected triggers. Links: FX's The Bear Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Rec... false full 114 Buzzsprout-14102850 How to make your holidays special despite the yearly toxic family drama! Do you struggle each holiday with the toxic family drama? In this episode, Tara and I discuss the common traps that can keep us from having a meaningful celebration.

The self-help tip is how to re-adjust our mindset and expectations so that we accept imperfection as a part of every experience.

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]]> Mon, 11 Dec 2023 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-to-make-your-holidays-special-despite-the-yearly-toxic-family-drama/ Do you struggle each holiday with the toxic family drama? In this episode, Tara and I discuss the common traps that can keep us from having a meaningful celebration.

The self-help tip is how to re-adjust our mindset and expectations so that we accept imperfection as a part of every experience.

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]]> How to make your holidays special despite the yearly toxic family drama! Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:23:00 Do you struggle each holiday with the toxic family drama? In this episode, Tara and I discuss the common traps that can keep us from having a meaningful celebration. The self-help tip is how to re-adjust our mindset and expectations so that we accept imperfection as a part of every experience. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Onlin... Do you struggle each holiday with the toxic family drama? In this episode, Tara and I discuss the common traps that can keep us from having a meaningful celebration. The self-help tip is how to re-adjust our mindset and expectations so that we accept imperfection as a part of every experience. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Onlin... false full 113 Buzzsprout-14045667 What red flags are you missing in that new relationship? An Interview with Dr. Heidi Brocke What red flags are you missing? Are you ignoring the early warning signs of a possible toxic relationship?

In this podcast episode, Dr. Heidi Brocke from the It's Not Normal, It's Toxic podcast joins us to share the common reasons we fail to recognize the initial symptoms of a toxic relationship.

To learn more about Dr. Heidi: https://coachingwithdrheidi.com
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]]> Mon, 4 Dec 2023 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/what-red-flags-are-you-missing-in-that-new-relationship-an-interview-with-dr-heidi-brocke/ What red flags are you missing? Are you ignoring the early warning signs of a possible toxic relationship?

In this podcast episode, Dr. Heidi Brocke from the It's Not Normal, It's Toxic podcast joins us to share the common reasons we fail to recognize the initial symptoms of a toxic relationship.

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]]> What red flags are you missing in that new relationship? An Interview with Dr. Heidi Brocke Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:31:16 What red flags are you missing? Are you ignoring the early warning signs of a possible toxic relationship? In this podcast episode, Dr. Heidi Brocke from the It's Not Normal, It's Toxic podcast joins us to share the common reasons we fail to recognize the initial symptoms of a toxic relationship. To learn more about Dr. Heidi: https://coachingwithdrheidi.com It's Not Normal, It's Toxic podcast: https://coachingwithdrheidi.com/its-not-normal-its-toxic?sfw=pass1701135483 Submit your quest... What red flags are you missing? Are you ignoring the early warning signs of a possible toxic relationship? In this podcast episode, Dr. Heidi Brocke from the It's Not Normal, It's Toxic podcast joins us to share the common reasons we fail to recognize the initial symptoms of a toxic relationship. To learn more about Dr. Heidi: https://coachingwithdrheidi.com It's Not Normal, It's Toxic podcast: https://coachingwithdrheidi.com/its-not-normal-its-toxic?sfw=pass1701135483 Submit your quest... false full 112 Buzzsprout-14007948 Can't live without them? Watch out for this early sign of a trauma bond! Dependency can be an early red flag that you're trapped in a traumatic bond with a narcissist. When you feel like life without them is meaningless.

In this week's episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara draw from personal experience the first signs that signaled their trauma bonds and what to do if this is happening to you.

The self-help tip is on staying grounded in the present to sidestep the pitfalls of 'future faking.'

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]]> Mon, 27 Nov 2023 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/cant-live-without-them-watch-out-for-this-early-sign-of-a-trauma-bond/ Dependency can be an early red flag that you're trapped in a traumatic bond with a narcissist. When you feel like life without them is meaningless.

In this week's episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara draw from personal experience the first signs that signaled their trauma bonds and what to do if this is happening to you.

The self-help tip is on staying grounded in the present to sidestep the pitfalls of 'future faking.'

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]]> Can't live without them? Watch out for this early sign of a trauma bond! Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:26:05 Dependency can be an early red flag that you're trapped in a traumatic bond with a narcissist. When you feel like life without them is meaningless. In this week's episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara draw from personal experience the first signs that signaled their trauma bonds and what to do if this is happening to you. The self-help tip is on staying grounded in the present to sidestep the pitfalls of 'future faking.' Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Ke... Dependency can be an early red flag that you're trapped in a traumatic bond with a narcissist. When you feel like life without them is meaningless. In this week's episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara draw from personal experience the first signs that signaled their trauma bonds and what to do if this is happening to you. The self-help tip is on staying grounded in the present to sidestep the pitfalls of 'future faking.' Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Ke... false full 111 Buzzsprout-13966065 Are you arguing a lot? Here's why you should not try to win a fight with a narcissist Are you fighting a lot? Maybe it's better to learn how not to win an argument with a narcissist.

In this podcast, Dr. Kerry and Tara delve into the problem of arguing with a narcissist. Why these discussions often go sideways with the end result of hurt feelings and being defeated.

And the self-help tip is practical things to remember the next time a narcissist tries to bait you into a heated discussion. How to stay cool and in control of yourself.

Links:
Nameless Narcissist Video: https://www.tiktok.com/@thenamelessnarcissist/video/7289156751230881066?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7296199669347976750

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]]> Mon, 20 Nov 2023 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/are-you-arguing-a-lot-heres-why-you-should-not-try-to-win-a-fight-with-a-narcissist/ Are you fighting a lot? Maybe it's better to learn how not to win an argument with a narcissist.

In this podcast, Dr. Kerry and Tara delve into the problem of arguing with a narcissist. Why these discussions often go sideways with the end result of hurt feelings and being defeated.

And the self-help tip is practical things to remember the next time a narcissist tries to bait you into a heated discussion. How to stay cool and in control of yourself.

Links:
Nameless Narcissist Video: https://www.tiktok.com/@thenamelessnarcissist/video/7289156751230881066?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7296199669347976750

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]]> Are you arguing a lot? Here's why you should not try to win a fight with a narcissist Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:25:58 Are you fighting a lot? Maybe it's better to learn how not to win an argument with a narcissist. In this podcast, Dr. Kerry and Tara delve into the problem of arguing with a narcissist. Why these discussions often go sideways with the end result of hurt feelings and being defeated. And the self-help tip is practical things to remember the next time a narcissist tries to bait you into a heated discussion. How to stay cool and in control of yourself. Links: Nameless Narcissist Video: htt... Are you fighting a lot? Maybe it's better to learn how not to win an argument with a narcissist. In this podcast, Dr. Kerry and Tara delve into the problem of arguing with a narcissist. Why these discussions often go sideways with the end result of hurt feelings and being defeated. And the self-help tip is practical things to remember the next time a narcissist tries to bait you into a heated discussion. How to stay cool and in control of yourself. Links: Nameless Narcissist Video: htt... false full 110 Buzzsprout-13922710 Does the narcissist always ruin your holidays? How to handle celebration nightmares! Have you wondered why narcissists ruin holidays? Why they can't let you enjoy Thanksgiving, Christmas, or your birthday?

In this podcast episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara share their insights and tips, along with some personal stories about this common pattern among narcissists and other toxic people.

And the self-help tip is the importance of having "self-care" boundaries to handle uncomfortable holiday situations.

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]]> Mon, 13 Nov 2023 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/does-the-narcissist-always-ruin-your-holidays-how-to-handle-celebration-nightmares/ Have you wondered why narcissists ruin holidays? Why they can't let you enjoy Thanksgiving, Christmas, or your birthday?

In this podcast episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara share their insights and tips, along with some personal stories about this common pattern among narcissists and other toxic people.

And the self-help tip is the importance of having "self-care" boundaries to handle uncomfortable holiday situations.

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]]> Does the narcissist always ruin your holidays? How to handle celebration nightmares! Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:25:18 Have you wondered why narcissists ruin holidays? Why they can't let you enjoy Thanksgiving, Christmas, or your birthday? In this podcast episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara share their insights and tips, along with some personal stories about this common pattern among narcissists and other toxic people. And the self-help tip is the importance of having "self-care" boundaries to handle uncomfortable holiday situations. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. ... Have you wondered why narcissists ruin holidays? Why they can't let you enjoy Thanksgiving, Christmas, or your birthday? In this podcast episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara share their insights and tips, along with some personal stories about this common pattern among narcissists and other toxic people. And the self-help tip is the importance of having "self-care" boundaries to handle uncomfortable holiday situations. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. ... false full 109 Buzzsprout-13883841 Suddenly on your own? How narcissists use isolation to cut you off from others Are you suddenly alone? Learn how a narcissist isolates you as a way to gain control over you. How they cut you off from your closest friends and family, making you more vulnerable to abuse.

Are you looking for an understanding community? Join Dr. Kerry's Toxic-Free Relationship Club with weekly live group video office hours. https://kerrymcavoyphd.com/toxic-free-relationship-club/

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BIFF by Bill Eddy: https://amzn.to/3FFqm4D
Coparenting with a Toxic Ex by Amy J L Baker: https://amzn.to/40qKIIA

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2Houses: www.2houses.com
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]]> Mon, 6 Nov 2023 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/suddenly-on-your-own-how-narcissists-use-isolation-to-cut-you-off-from-others/ Are you suddenly alone? Learn how a narcissist isolates you as a way to gain control over you. How they cut you off from your closest friends and family, making you more vulnerable to abuse.

Are you looking for an understanding community? Join Dr. Kerry's Toxic-Free Relationship Club with weekly live group video office hours. https://kerrymcavoyphd.com/toxic-free-relationship-club/

Books mentioned:

BIFF by Bill Eddy: https://amzn.to/3FFqm4D
Coparenting with a Toxic Ex by Amy J L Baker: https://amzn.to/40qKIIA

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]]> Suddenly on your own? How narcissists use isolation to cut you off from others Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:26:16 Are you suddenly alone? Learn how a narcissist isolates you as a way to gain control over you. How they cut you off from your closest friends and family, making you more vulnerable to abuse. Are you looking for an understanding community? Join Dr. Kerry's Toxic-Free Relationship Club with weekly live group video office hours. https://kerrymcavoyphd.com/toxic-free-relationship-club/ Books mentioned: BIFF by Bill Eddy: https://amzn.to/3FFqm4D Coparenting with a Toxic Ex by Amy J L Baker: h... Are you suddenly alone? Learn how a narcissist isolates you as a way to gain control over you. How they cut you off from your closest friends and family, making you more vulnerable to abuse. Are you looking for an understanding community? Join Dr. Kerry's Toxic-Free Relationship Club with weekly live group video office hours. https://kerrymcavoyphd.com/toxic-free-relationship-club/ Books mentioned: BIFF by Bill Eddy: https://amzn.to/3FFqm4D Coparenting with a Toxic Ex by Amy J L Baker: h... false full 108 Buzzsprout-13845831 Are you trapped by a covert narcissist? The top reasons why you're not spotting covert narcissists faster! Do you want to know why you're not spotting a covert narcissist? Learn what is a covert narcissist and the early signs you've met someone toxic.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara take a deep dive into the top reasons why so many of us struggle to spot a this particularly toxic group of narcissists. And in the self-help tip, learn what to do if someone you know threatens to harm themselves.

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]]> Mon, 30 Oct 2023 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/are-you-trapped-by-a-covert-narcissist-the-top-reasons-why-youre-not-spotting-covert-narcissists-faster/ Do you want to know why you're not spotting a covert narcissist? Learn what is a covert narcissist and the early signs you've met someone toxic.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara take a deep dive into the top reasons why so many of us struggle to spot a this particularly toxic group of narcissists. And in the self-help tip, learn what to do if someone you know threatens to harm themselves.

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]]> Are you trapped by a covert narcissist? The top reasons why you're not spotting covert narcissists faster! Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:29:50 Do you want to know why you're not spotting a covert narcissist? Learn what is a covert narcissist and the early signs you've met someone toxic. In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara take a deep dive into the top reasons why so many of us struggle to spot a this particularly toxic group of narcissists. And in the self-help tip, learn what to do if someone you know threatens to harm themselves. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coac... Do you want to know why you're not spotting a covert narcissist? Learn what is a covert narcissist and the early signs you've met someone toxic. In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara take a deep dive into the top reasons why so many of us struggle to spot a this particularly toxic group of narcissists. And in the self-help tip, learn what to do if someone you know threatens to harm themselves. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coac... false full 107 Buzzsprout-13797177 Are all narcissists abusive? Aren't we unfairly demonizing a group of people? Are all narcissists abusive? Aren't we unfairly classifying a group of wounded people as toxic or dangerous? Tara and I address this common accusation about narcissists and other toxic people in this podcast episode.

The self-help tip is how to use a detailed history of our personal background to determine if we might be the one causing the relationship problems.

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]]> Mon, 23 Oct 2023 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/are-all-narcissists-abusive-arent-we-unfairly-demonizing-a-group-of-people/ Are all narcissists abusive? Aren't we unfairly classifying a group of wounded people as toxic or dangerous? Tara and I address this common accusation about narcissists and other toxic people in this podcast episode.

The self-help tip is how to use a detailed history of our personal background to determine if we might be the one causing the relationship problems.

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]]> Are all narcissists abusive? Aren't we unfairly demonizing a group of people? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:23:04 Are all narcissists abusive? Aren't we unfairly classifying a group of wounded people as toxic or dangerous? Tara and I address this common accusation about narcissists and other toxic people in this podcast episode. The self-help tip is how to use a detailed history of our personal background to determine if we might be the one causing the relationship problems. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery ... Are all narcissists abusive? Aren't we unfairly classifying a group of wounded people as toxic or dangerous? Tara and I address this common accusation about narcissists and other toxic people in this podcast episode. The self-help tip is how to use a detailed history of our personal background to determine if we might be the one causing the relationship problems. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery ... false full 106 Buzzsprout-13754429 Has the narcissist got you feeling confused? Here's how they keep you in the dark! Have you wondered what's real? Maybe you've noticed how narcissist keeps you in the dark--that they say one thing while doing something else.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara delve into this all-too-common victim's experience of intense confusion that accompanies most narcissistic relationships. And the self-help tip is the importance of having a nonjudgemental, supportive friend for a helpful perspective.

Link: Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay by Mira Kirshenbaum

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]]> Mon, 16 Oct 2023 06:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/has-the-narcissist-got-you-feeling-confused-heres-how-they-keep-you-in-the-dark/ Have you wondered what's real? Maybe you've noticed how narcissist keeps you in the dark--that they say one thing while doing something else.

In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara delve into this all-too-common victim's experience of intense confusion that accompanies most narcissistic relationships. And the self-help tip is the importance of having a nonjudgemental, supportive friend for a helpful perspective.

Link: Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay by Mira Kirshenbaum

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]]> Has the narcissist got you feeling confused? Here's how they keep you in the dark! Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:28:01 Have you wondered what's real? Maybe you've noticed how narcissist keeps you in the dark--that they say one thing while doing something else. In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara delve into this all-too-common victim's experience of intense confusion that accompanies most narcissistic relationships. And the self-help tip is the importance of having a nonjudgemental, supportive friend for a helpful perspective. Link: Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay by Mira Kirshenbaum Submit your quest... Have you wondered what's real? Maybe you've noticed how narcissist keeps you in the dark--that they say one thing while doing something else. In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara delve into this all-too-common victim's experience of intense confusion that accompanies most narcissistic relationships. And the self-help tip is the importance of having a nonjudgemental, supportive friend for a helpful perspective. Link: Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay by Mira Kirshenbaum Submit your quest... false full 105 Buzzsprout-13710248 Is it a boundary or an ultimatum? Why narcissists hate limit setting Have you wondered why narcissists hate limit setting? Why are your boundaries treated as though optional, yet they treat theirs like ultimatums?

In this podcast episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara explore the common difficulties we experience limit setting with narcissists. Instead of a self-help tip, we've answered a listener's question that was emailed to us. She asked how do you know when someone's addiction recovery isn't real.

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]]> Mon, 9 Oct 2023 07:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-it-a-boundary-or-an-ultimatum-why-narcissists-hate-limit-setting/ Have you wondered why narcissists hate limit setting? Why are your boundaries treated as though optional, yet they treat theirs like ultimatums?

In this podcast episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara explore the common difficulties we experience limit setting with narcissists. Instead of a self-help tip, we've answered a listener's question that was emailed to us. She asked how do you know when someone's addiction recovery isn't real.

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]]> Is it a boundary or an ultimatum? Why narcissists hate limit setting Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:29:42 Have you wondered why narcissists hate limit setting? Why are your boundaries treated as though optional, yet they treat theirs like ultimatums? In this podcast episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara explore the common difficulties we experience limit setting with narcissists. Instead of a self-help tip, we've answered a listener's question that was emailed to us. She asked how do you know when someone's addiction recovery isn't real. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimY... Have you wondered why narcissists hate limit setting? Why are your boundaries treated as though optional, yet they treat theirs like ultimatums? In this podcast episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara explore the common difficulties we experience limit setting with narcissists. Instead of a self-help tip, we've answered a listener's question that was emailed to us. She asked how do you know when someone's addiction recovery isn't real. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimY... false full 104 Buzzsprout-13667342 Why isn't my narcissistic partner changing when they say they're trying? Have you ever asked yourself, Why isn't my narcissistic partner changing despite going to therapy? Many narcissists claim they've never worked harder yet their abusive behavior continues.

In this podcast episode, Kerry and Tara share from their personal experiences how to know when a narcissistic partner is truly doing the work to save a troubled relationship.

And the self-help tip is a simple exercise on how to test a narcissistic partner's sincerity in making real change.


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]]> Mon, 2 Oct 2023 10:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-isnt-my-narcissistic-partner-changing-when-they-say-theyre-trying/ Have you ever asked yourself, Why isn't my narcissistic partner changing despite going to therapy? Many narcissists claim they've never worked harder yet their abusive behavior continues.

In this podcast episode, Kerry and Tara share from their personal experiences how to know when a narcissistic partner is truly doing the work to save a troubled relationship.

And the self-help tip is a simple exercise on how to test a narcissistic partner's sincerity in making real change.


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]]> Why isn't my narcissistic partner changing when they say they're trying? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:25:50 Have you ever asked yourself, Why isn't my narcissistic partner changing despite going to therapy? Many narcissists claim they've never worked harder yet their abusive behavior continues. In this podcast episode, Kerry and Tara share from their personal experiences how to know when a narcissistic partner is truly doing the work to save a troubled relationship. And the self-help tip is a simple exercise on how to test a narcissistic partner's sincerity in making real change. Submit your que... Have you ever asked yourself, Why isn't my narcissistic partner changing despite going to therapy? Many narcissists claim they've never worked harder yet their abusive behavior continues. In this podcast episode, Kerry and Tara share from their personal experiences how to know when a narcissistic partner is truly doing the work to save a troubled relationship. And the self-help tip is a simple exercise on how to test a narcissistic partner's sincerity in making real change. Submit your que... toxic relationships, narcissistic abuse, narcissism, narcissists false full 103 Buzzsprout-13627818 Were you emotionally abused or narcissistically abused? Why the differences matter. Why distinguish narcissistic abuse from emotional abuse? Aren’t both referring to the same thing? In this episode, Kerry and Tara take a closer look at how narcissistic abuse uses deception to confuse and dupe victims. And the self-help tip is on how to use expressive writing for healing from abuse.

LINK: Defining Narcissistic Abuse: The Case for Deception as Abuse by Kristen Milstead, PhD


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]]> Mon, 25 Sep 2023 11:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/were-you-emotionally-abused-or-narcissistically-abused-why-the-differences-matter/ Why distinguish narcissistic abuse from emotional abuse? Aren’t both referring to the same thing? In this episode, Kerry and Tara take a closer look at how narcissistic abuse uses deception to confuse and dupe victims. And the self-help tip is on how to use expressive writing for healing from abuse.

LINK: Defining Narcissistic Abuse: The Case for Deception as Abuse by Kristen Milstead, PhD


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]]> Were you emotionally abused or narcissistically abused? Why the differences matter. Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:21:32 Why distinguish narcissistic abuse from emotional abuse? Aren’t both referring to the same thing? In this episode, Kerry and Tara take a closer look at how narcissistic abuse uses deception to confuse and dupe victims. And the self-help tip is on how to use expressive writing for healing from abuse. LINK: Defining Narcissistic Abuse: The Case for Deception as Abuse by Kristen Milstead, PhD Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coachi... Why distinguish narcissistic abuse from emotional abuse? Aren’t both referring to the same thing? In this episode, Kerry and Tara take a closer look at how narcissistic abuse uses deception to confuse and dupe victims. And the self-help tip is on how to use expressive writing for healing from abuse. LINK: Defining Narcissistic Abuse: The Case for Deception as Abuse by Kristen Milstead, PhD Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coachi... abuse, relationship dynamics false full 102 Buzzsprout-13580629 Are you trapped? What to do if you're stuck in a bad relationship What should you do if you get trapped in a bad relationship? Narcissistic abuse victims often have limited financial means and little social support. In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara answer a listener's letter of someone who finds themselves exactly in this position.

The self-help tip is about the importance of giving yourself permission to prioritize your own needs first.

Link:
What to Say When You Talk to Your Self by Shad Helmstetter, PhD

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]]> Mon, 18 Sep 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/are-you-trapped-what-to-do-if-youre-stuck-in-a-bad-relationship/ What should you do if you get trapped in a bad relationship? Narcissistic abuse victims often have limited financial means and little social support. In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara answer a listener's letter of someone who finds themselves exactly in this position.

The self-help tip is about the importance of giving yourself permission to prioritize your own needs first.

Link:
What to Say When You Talk to Your Self by Shad Helmstetter, PhD

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]]> Are you trapped? What to do if you're stuck in a bad relationship Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:18:45 What should you do if you get trapped in a bad relationship? Narcissistic abuse victims often have limited financial means and little social support. In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara answer a listener's letter of someone who finds themselves exactly in this position. The self-help tip is about the importance of giving yourself permission to prioritize your own needs first. Link: What to Say When You Talk to Your Self by Shad Helmstetter, PhD Submit your question to be answered on a... What should you do if you get trapped in a bad relationship? Narcissistic abuse victims often have limited financial means and little social support. In this episode, Dr. Kerry and Tara answer a listener's letter of someone who finds themselves exactly in this position. The self-help tip is about the importance of giving yourself permission to prioritize your own needs first. Link: What to Say When You Talk to Your Self by Shad Helmstetter, PhD Submit your question to be answered on a... false full 101 Buzzsprout-13501046 Is it love bombing or real love? Can you tell the difference? How do you know if it's love bombing vs. real love? What signs should we be watching out for when meeting someone new? Does the problem of love bombing only apply to narcissists, or do other people do it too? 

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]]> Mon, 11 Sep 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-it-love-bombing-or-real-love-can-you-tell-the-difference/ How do you know if it's love bombing vs. real love? What signs should we be watching out for when meeting someone new? Does the problem of love bombing only apply to narcissists, or do other people do it too? 

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]]> Is it love bombing or real love? Can you tell the difference? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:23:55 How do you know if it's love bombing vs. real love? What signs should we be watching out for when meeting someone new? Does the problem of love bombing only apply to narcissists, or do other people do it too? In this podcast episode, Kerry and Tara share from their personal experience the common mistakes we make separating love bombing from real love. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery ... How do you know if it's love bombing vs. real love? What signs should we be watching out for when meeting someone new? Does the problem of love bombing only apply to narcissists, or do other people do it too? In this podcast episode, Kerry and Tara share from their personal experience the common mistakes we make separating love bombing from real love. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery ... false full 100 Buzzsprout-13483215 Are all narcissists sex addicts? What goes wrong with intimacy in the bedroom Can narcissism be linked with sex addiction, and what exactly is sex addiction? In this episode, Kerry and Tara delve into the intimacy challenges that some individuals with narcissistic tendencies face. Instead of providing this week's self-help tip, they address a listener's question: "Can a narcissist change?"

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]]> Mon, 28 Aug 2023 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/are-all-narcissists-sex-addicts-what-goes-wrong-with-intimacy-in-the-bedroom/ Can narcissism be linked with sex addiction, and what exactly is sex addiction? In this episode, Kerry and Tara delve into the intimacy challenges that some individuals with narcissistic tendencies face. Instead of providing this week's self-help tip, they address a listener's question: "Can a narcissist change?"

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]]> Are all narcissists sex addicts? What goes wrong with intimacy in the bedroom Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:19:54 Can narcissism be linked with sex addiction, and what exactly is sex addiction? In this episode, Kerry and Tara delve into the intimacy challenges that some individuals with narcissistic tendencies face. Instead of providing this week's self-help tip, they address a listener's question: "Can a narcissist change?" Link: Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse Season 2 Episode 83: Am I more vulnerable to toxic relationships because I have ADHD or Autism? The answer might surprise you Subm... Can narcissism be linked with sex addiction, and what exactly is sex addiction? In this episode, Kerry and Tara delve into the intimacy challenges that some individuals with narcissistic tendencies face. Instead of providing this week's self-help tip, they address a listener's question: "Can a narcissist change?" Link: Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse Season 2 Episode 83: Am I more vulnerable to toxic relationships because I have ADHD or Autism? The answer might surprise you Subm... false full 99 Buzzsprout-13441868 Have you met a narcissist? How sympathy sometimes can be a warning Is empathy a good indicator you've met a healthy person? Narcissists are often thought of as emotionally cold and insensitive, yet this stereotype couldn't be further from the truth.

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]]> Mon, 21 Aug 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/have-you-met-a-narcissist-how-sympathy-sometimes-can-be-a-warning/ Is empathy a good indicator you've met a healthy person? Narcissists are often thought of as emotionally cold and insensitive, yet this stereotype couldn't be further from the truth.

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]]> Have you met a narcissist? How sympathy sometimes can be a warning Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:12:41 Is empathy a good indicator you've met a healthy person? Narcissists are often thought of as emotionally cold and insensitive, yet this stereotype couldn't be further from the truth. In this episode, Kerry describes why we often initially miss the signs we've met someone toxic. Learn the difference between instrumental and compassionate empathy. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Nar... Is empathy a good indicator you've met a healthy person? Narcissists are often thought of as emotionally cold and insensitive, yet this stereotype couldn't be further from the truth. In this episode, Kerry describes why we often initially miss the signs we've met someone toxic. Learn the difference between instrumental and compassionate empathy. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Nar... false full 98 Buzzsprout-13401993 Feeling knocked down? Defeated? Here's Kerry's secret on how to become an overcomer In this episode, Tara flips the script and interviews Kerry. Dive in as Kerry reveals a hidden gem that's been her shield against tough times. Tune in to discover how you too can stand tall against the shadows of narcissistic harm.

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]]> Mon, 14 Aug 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/feeling-knocked-down-defeated-heres-kerrys-secret-on-how-to-become-an-overcomer/ In this episode, Tara flips the script and interviews Kerry. Dive in as Kerry reveals a hidden gem that's been her shield against tough times. Tune in to discover how you too can stand tall against the shadows of narcissistic harm.

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]]> Feeling knocked down? Defeated? Here's Kerry's secret on how to become an overcomer Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:27:17 In this episode, Tara flips the script and interviews Kerry. Dive in as Kerry reveals a hidden gem that's been her shield against tough times. Tune in to discover how you too can stand tall against the shadows of narcissistic harm. Links: How He Gets Into Her Head by Don HennesseySubmit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced... In this episode, Tara flips the script and interviews Kerry. Dive in as Kerry reveals a hidden gem that's been her shield against tough times. Tune in to discover how you too can stand tall against the shadows of narcissistic harm. Links: How He Gets Into Her Head by Don HennesseySubmit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced... false full 97 Buzzsprout-13361651 Why am I so confused? The Making & Breaking of a Trauma Bond with Lisa Sonni In this episode, Tara and Kerry interview Lisa Sonni, author and trauma bond expert, on the development of powerful psychological attachments. Lisa shares how to recognize if we’re  trauma bonded and how to know if we are breaking this toxic interpersonal connection. This episode demystifies the intense attachment so many of us have with toxic people with helpful, yet hard-hurting truths. 

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]]> Mon, 7 Aug 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-am-i-so-confused-the-making-breaking-of-a-trauma-bond-with-lisa-sonni/ In this episode, Tara and Kerry interview Lisa Sonni, author and trauma bond expert, on the development of powerful psychological attachments. Lisa shares how to recognize if we’re  trauma bonded and how to know if we are breaking this toxic interpersonal connection. This episode demystifies the intense attachment so many of us have with toxic people with helpful, yet hard-hurting truths. 

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]]> Why am I so confused? The Making & Breaking of a Trauma Bond with Lisa Sonni Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:35:28 In this episode, Tara and Kerry interview Lisa Sonni, author and trauma bond expert, on the development of powerful psychological attachments. Lisa shares how to recognize if we’re trauma bonded and how to know if we are breaking this toxic interpersonal connection. This episode demystifies the intense attachment so many of us have with toxic people with helpful, yet hard-hurting truths. Links: Lisa's WebsiteTrauma Bond Recovery JournalRebuilding After a Trauma Bond Su... In this episode, Tara and Kerry interview Lisa Sonni, author and trauma bond expert, on the development of powerful psychological attachments. Lisa shares how to recognize if we’re trauma bonded and how to know if we are breaking this toxic interpersonal connection. This episode demystifies the intense attachment so many of us have with toxic people with helpful, yet hard-hurting truths. Links: Lisa's WebsiteTrauma Bond Recovery JournalRebuilding After a Trauma Bond Su... false full 96 Buzzsprout-13320346 How to find joy and renewed power after surviving abuse: An interview with Tara In this episode, we get a behind-the-scenes look into our co-host, Tara's life. She shares how she has learned to find joy and where her real source of power is after surviving abuse.

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]]> Mon, 31 Jul 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-to-find-joy-and-renewed-power-after-surviving-abuse-an-interview-with-tara/ In this episode, we get a behind-the-scenes look into our co-host, Tara's life. She shares how she has learned to find joy and where her real source of power is after surviving abuse.

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]]> How to find joy and renewed power after surviving abuse: An interview with Tara Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:23:53 In this episode, we get a behind-the-scenes look into our co-host, Tara's life. She shares how she has learned to find joy and where her real source of power is after surviving abuse. Links: Tara's WebsiteGrit: The Power of Passion and PerseveranceSubmit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relatio... In this episode, we get a behind-the-scenes look into our co-host, Tara's life. She shares how she has learned to find joy and where her real source of power is after surviving abuse. Links: Tara's WebsiteGrit: The Power of Passion and PerseveranceSubmit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relatio... false full 95 Buzzsprout-13271172 Why do narcissists have to make life miserable? Dr. Les Carter Explains Narcissism In this episode, Tara and Kerry interview Dr. Les Carter, a psychologist with wildly popular YouTube channel and podcast, Surviving Narcissism about the narcissistic mindset. Dr. Carter demystifies why these individuals are so good at turning the tables on us, making us feel like the crazy ones.

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]]> Mon, 24 Jul 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-do-narcissists-have-to-make-life-miserable-dr-les-carter-explains-narcissism/ In this episode, Tara and Kerry interview Dr. Les Carter, a psychologist with wildly popular YouTube channel and podcast, Surviving Narcissism about the narcissistic mindset. Dr. Carter demystifies why these individuals are so good at turning the tables on us, making us feel like the crazy ones.

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]]> Why do narcissists have to make life miserable? Dr. Les Carter Explains Narcissism Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:30:12 In this episode, Tara and Kerry interview Dr. Les Carter, a psychologist with wildly popular YouTube channel and podcast, Surviving Narcissism about the narcissistic mindset. Dr. Carter demystifies why these individuals are so good at turning the tables on us, making us feel like the crazy ones. Links: Dr. Carter's YouTube Channel Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic ab... In this episode, Tara and Kerry interview Dr. Les Carter, a psychologist with wildly popular YouTube channel and podcast, Surviving Narcissism about the narcissistic mindset. Dr. Carter demystifies why these individuals are so good at turning the tables on us, making us feel like the crazy ones. Links: Dr. Carter's YouTube Channel Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic ab... false full 94 Buzzsprout-13235426 If it was just a "situationship", why do I feel so miserable? In this episode, Kerry and Tara respond to a listener's letter about the struggle of recovering from even just a situationship with a narcissist. Relationships with narcissists can impact us negatively even when they aren't long-term ones! And today's self-help tip is about learning to replace previous/negative habits and behaviors with positives ones. 

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]]> Mon, 17 Jul 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/if-it-was-just-a-situationship-why-do-i-feel-so-miserable/ In this episode, Kerry and Tara respond to a listener's letter about the struggle of recovering from even just a situationship with a narcissist. Relationships with narcissists can impact us negatively even when they aren't long-term ones! And today's self-help tip is about learning to replace previous/negative habits and behaviors with positives ones. 

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]]> If it was just a "situationship", why do I feel so miserable? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:20:03 In this episode, Kerry and Tara respond to a listener's letter about the struggle of recovering from even just a situationship with a narcissist. Relationships with narcissists can impact us negatively even when they aren't long-term ones! And today's self-help tip is about learning to replace previous/negative habits and behaviors with positives ones. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collecti... In this episode, Kerry and Tara respond to a listener's letter about the struggle of recovering from even just a situationship with a narcissist. Relationships with narcissists can impact us negatively even when they aren't long-term ones! And today's self-help tip is about learning to replace previous/negative habits and behaviors with positives ones. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collecti... false full 93 Buzzsprout-13150918 Does everyone deserve our kindness? How to reduce the risk of being exploited In this episode, Kerry and Tara share some of their struggles with figuring out the difference between being selfish and having self-respect. Many of us see boundaries or self-care as inherently "selfish." And today's self-help tip is assessing the motive of your or others' actions.

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]]> Mon, 10 Jul 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/does-everyone-deserve-our-kindness-how-to-reduce-the-risk-of-being-exploited/ In this episode, Kerry and Tara share some of their struggles with figuring out the difference between being selfish and having self-respect. Many of us see boundaries or self-care as inherently "selfish." And today's self-help tip is assessing the motive of your or others' actions.

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]]> Does everyone deserve our kindness? How to reduce the risk of being exploited Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:21:59 In this episode, Kerry and Tara share some of their struggles with figuring out the difference between being selfish and having self-respect. Many of us see boundaries or self-care as inherently "selfish." And today's self-help tip is assessing the motive of your or others' actions. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced dig... In this episode, Kerry and Tara share some of their struggles with figuring out the difference between being selfish and having self-respect. Many of us see boundaries or self-care as inherently "selfish." And today's self-help tip is assessing the motive of your or others' actions. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced dig... false full 92 Buzzsprout-13105921 Am I still trauma bonded? Top Signs That You’ve Broken That Toxic Connection In this episode, Kerry and Tara share the initial signs they had broken the trauma bond with their exes. Intense connections get formed with toxic partners and family members that can be very controlling. Breaking them is an essential part of healing. And today's self-help tip is using your observational power to recall possible consequences of any potential action as a personal boundary.

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]]> Mon, 26 Jun 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/am-i-still-trauma-bonded-top-signs-that-youve-broken-that-toxic-connection/ In this episode, Kerry and Tara share the initial signs they had broken the trauma bond with their exes. Intense connections get formed with toxic partners and family members that can be very controlling. Breaking them is an essential part of healing. And today's self-help tip is using your observational power to recall possible consequences of any potential action as a personal boundary.

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]]> Am I still trauma bonded? Top Signs That You’ve Broken That Toxic Connection Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:23:29 In this episode, Kerry and Tara share the initial signs they had broken the trauma bond with their exes. Intense connections get formed with toxic partners and family members that can be very controlling. Breaking them is an essential part of healing. And today's self-help tip is using your observational power to recall possible consequences of any potential action as a personal boundary. Links: Betrayal Bonds: Breaking Free of Exploitative Relationships by Patrick CarnesBreaking Free... In this episode, Kerry and Tara share the initial signs they had broken the trauma bond with their exes. Intense connections get formed with toxic partners and family members that can be very controlling. Breaking them is an essential part of healing. And today's self-help tip is using your observational power to recall possible consequences of any potential action as a personal boundary. Links: Betrayal Bonds: Breaking Free of Exploitative Relationships by Patrick CarnesBreaking Free... false full 91 Buzzsprout-13064027 My relationship is toxic? I thought all relationships required a lot of work In this episode, Kerry and Tara address a common fallacy that all relationships are a lot of hard work. We will explore why many of us struggle to recognize signs of a toxic partnership. And the self-help tip is using our bodily sensations to identify safe connections and situations.

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]]> Mon, 19 Jun 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/my-relationship-is-toxic-i-thought-all-relationships-required-a-lot-of-work/ In this episode, Kerry and Tara address a common fallacy that all relationships are a lot of hard work. We will explore why many of us struggle to recognize signs of a toxic partnership. And the self-help tip is using our bodily sensations to identify safe connections and situations.

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]]> My relationship is toxic? I thought all relationships required a lot of work Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:25:40 In this episode, Kerry and Tara address a common fallacy that all relationships are a lot of hard work. We will explore why many of us struggle to recognize signs of a toxic partnership. And the self-help tip is using our bodily sensations to identify safe connections and situations. Links: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay GibsonRecovery from Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay GibsonToxic People by Lillian GlasseBreaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse Seaso... In this episode, Kerry and Tara address a common fallacy that all relationships are a lot of hard work. We will explore why many of us struggle to recognize signs of a toxic partnership. And the self-help tip is using our bodily sensations to identify safe connections and situations. Links: Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay GibsonRecovery from Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay GibsonToxic People by Lillian GlasseBreaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse Seaso... false full 90 Buzzsprout-13017080 How will I know when I'm supposed to leave? What if I make the wrong decision? In this episode, Kerry and Tara tackle one of the most asked questions of abuse survivors: how do I know if I should leave? We'll discuss the common hindrances to making this decision and how to support a loved one who's trapped in this kind of indecisiveness. Today's self-help tip is to make a realistic budget for expenses if you should decide to leave.

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]]> Mon, 12 Jun 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-will-i-know-when-im-supposed-to-leave-what-if-i-make-the-wrong-decision/ In this episode, Kerry and Tara tackle one of the most asked questions of abuse survivors: how do I know if I should leave? We'll discuss the common hindrances to making this decision and how to support a loved one who's trapped in this kind of indecisiveness. Today's self-help tip is to make a realistic budget for expenses if you should decide to leave.

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]]> How will I know when I'm supposed to leave? What if I make the wrong decision? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:29:00 In this episode, Kerry and Tara tackle one of the most asked questions of abuse survivors: how do I know if I should leave? We'll discuss the common hindrances to making this decision and how to support a loved one who's trapped in this kind of indecisiveness. Today's self-help tip is to make a realistic budget for expenses if you should decide to leave. Links: Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay by Mira KirshenbaumBreaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse Season 1 Episode 52: I just... In this episode, Kerry and Tara tackle one of the most asked questions of abuse survivors: how do I know if I should leave? We'll discuss the common hindrances to making this decision and how to support a loved one who's trapped in this kind of indecisiveness. Today's self-help tip is to make a realistic budget for expenses if you should decide to leave. Links: Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay by Mira KirshenbaumBreaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse Season 1 Episode 52: I just... false full 89 Buzzsprout-12978484 Could you be at risk? Why you should be afraid of the Dark Triad Personality In this episode, Kerry and Tara discuss a particularly dangerous group of people, the Dark Triad Personality Disorders. And today's self-help tip is how to  assess if someone you know is a one.

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]]> Mon, 5 Jun 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/could-you-be-at-risk-why-you-should-be-afraid-of-the-dark-triad-personality/ In this episode, Kerry and Tara discuss a particularly dangerous group of people, the Dark Triad Personality Disorders. And today's self-help tip is how to  assess if someone you know is a one.

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]]> Could you be at risk? Why you should be afraid of the Dark Triad Personality Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:28:07 In this episode, Kerry and Tara discuss a particularly dangerous group of people, the Dark Triad Personality Disorders. And today's self-help tip is how to assess if someone you know is a one. Links: Is My Partner Toxic or Dangerous? Find out with this short survey If you’re wanting to exit a toxic relationship safety, here are some things to consider. Adam GrantDefinition of the Light Triad Personality type Robert Hare, Ph.D. Expert on psychopathyBrea... In this episode, Kerry and Tara discuss a particularly dangerous group of people, the Dark Triad Personality Disorders. And today's self-help tip is how to assess if someone you know is a one. Links: Is My Partner Toxic or Dangerous? Find out with this short survey If you’re wanting to exit a toxic relationship safety, here are some things to consider. Adam GrantDefinition of the Light Triad Personality type Robert Hare, Ph.D. Expert on psychopathyBrea... dark triad false full 88 Buzzsprout-12893581 Friends as Enemies: What to do when those you love are narcissistic In this episode, Kerry and Tara tackle how complicated it can be when the narcissists in your life can also be friends or family members. And the self-help tip is a visualization strategy for your boundaries.

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]]> Mon, 22 May 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/friends-as-enemies-what-to-do-when-those-you-love-are-narcissistic/ In this episode, Kerry and Tara tackle how complicated it can be when the narcissists in your life can also be friends or family members. And the self-help tip is a visualization strategy for your boundaries.

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]]> Friends as Enemies: What to do when those you love are narcissistic Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:25:43 In this episode, Kerry and Tara tackle how complicated it can be when the narcissists in your life can also be friends or family members. And the self-help tip is a visualization strategy for your boundaries. Links: Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse Season 1 Episode 69: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391/12420137-ready-for-the-holidays-my-three-top-tips-for-dealing-with-difficult-relatives-and-in-lawsSubmit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry'... In this episode, Kerry and Tara tackle how complicated it can be when the narcissists in your life can also be friends or family members. And the self-help tip is a visualization strategy for your boundaries. Links: Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse Season 1 Episode 69: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391/12420137-ready-for-the-holidays-my-three-top-tips-for-dealing-with-difficult-relatives-and-in-lawsSubmit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry'... false full 87 Buzzsprout-12849559 How can my narcissistic ex move on so easily? The Problem of Grief Victims of narcissistic abuse often complain about seeing happy photos of their exes on social media. In this episode, Kerry and Tara will discuss why some people move on so quickly and easily after leaving a relationship. And the Self-Help Tip will be how to use "containment" for intense emotions like grief.

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]]> Mon, 15 May 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-can-my-narcissistic-ex-move-on-so-easily-the-problem-of-grief/ Victims of narcissistic abuse often complain about seeing happy photos of their exes on social media. In this episode, Kerry and Tara will discuss why some people move on so quickly and easily after leaving a relationship. And the Self-Help Tip will be how to use "containment" for intense emotions like grief.

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]]> How can my narcissistic ex move on so easily? The Problem of Grief Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:25:35 Victims of narcissistic abuse often complain about seeing happy photos of their exes on social media. In this episode, Kerry and Tara will discuss why some people move on so quickly and easily after leaving a relationship. And the Self-Help Tip will be how to use "containment" for intense emotions like grief. Links: "Understanding the Way Men Grieve" Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay Gibson, Ph.D. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Reso... Victims of narcissistic abuse often complain about seeing happy photos of their exes on social media. In this episode, Kerry and Tara will discuss why some people move on so quickly and easily after leaving a relationship. And the Self-Help Tip will be how to use "containment" for intense emotions like grief. Links: "Understanding the Way Men Grieve" Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay Gibson, Ph.D. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Reso... false full 86 Buzzsprout-12805478 Waking up to a Stranger: What Happens Once Love Bombing is Over Have you noticed how narcissists and toxic people morph into someone new once love-bombing is over? In this episode, Kerry and Tara examine the chameleon-like nature of personality disorders and how this creates confusion and self-doubt for victims. And the self-help tip is a helpful exercise to expose if this dynamic is happening in your current relationship. 

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]]> Mon, 8 May 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/waking-up-to-a-stranger-what-happens-once-love-bombing-is-over/ Have you noticed how narcissists and toxic people morph into someone new once love-bombing is over? In this episode, Kerry and Tara examine the chameleon-like nature of personality disorders and how this creates confusion and self-doubt for victims. And the self-help tip is a helpful exercise to expose if this dynamic is happening in your current relationship. 

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]]> Waking up to a Stranger: What Happens Once Love Bombing is Over Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:27:03 Have you noticed how narcissists and toxic people morph into someone new once love-bombing is over? In this episode, Kerry and Tara examine the chameleon-like nature of personality disorders and how this creates confusion and self-doubt for victims. And the self-help tip is a helpful exercise to expose if this dynamic is happening in your current relationship. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery ... Have you noticed how narcissists and toxic people morph into someone new once love-bombing is over? In this episode, Kerry and Tara examine the chameleon-like nature of personality disorders and how this creates confusion and self-doubt for victims. And the self-help tip is a helpful exercise to expose if this dynamic is happening in your current relationship. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery ... false full 85 Buzzsprout-12710612 Announcement Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse will be dropping a new episode on May 8, 2023. In the meantime feel to listen to previous episodes here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391 

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]]> Mon, 24 Apr 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/announcement/ Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse will be dropping a new episode on May 8, 2023. In the meantime feel to listen to previous episodes here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391 

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]]> Announcement Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:00:24 Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse will be dropping a new episode on May 8, 2023. In the meantime feel to listen to previous episodes here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391 Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! Yout... Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse will be dropping a new episode on May 8, 2023. In the meantime feel to listen to previous episodes here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2150391 Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! Yout... false bonus Buzzsprout-12664002 Could I be the narcissist? The power of reactive abuse to make victims feel crazy. In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara tackle the power of reactive abuse to make some narcissistic abuse victims feel crazy. And the self-help tip is how to increase the effectiveness of an affirmation by pairing it with a positive behavior. 


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]]> Mon, 17 Apr 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/could-i-be-the-narcissist-the-power-of-reactive-abuse-to-make-victims-feel-crazy/ In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara tackle the power of reactive abuse to make some narcissistic abuse victims feel crazy. And the self-help tip is how to increase the effectiveness of an affirmation by pairing it with a positive behavior. 


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]]> Could I be the narcissist? The power of reactive abuse to make victims feel crazy. Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:25:21 In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara tackle the power of reactive abuse to make some narcissistic abuse victims feel crazy. And the self-help tip is how to increase the effectiveness of an affirmation by pairing it with a positive behavior. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationshi... In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara tackle the power of reactive abuse to make some narcissistic abuse victims feel crazy. And the self-help tip is how to increase the effectiveness of an affirmation by pairing it with a positive behavior. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationshi... false full 84 Buzzsprout-12619876 Am I more vulnerable to toxic relationships because I have ADHD or Autism? The answer might surprise you. In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the vulnerabilities those of us with ADHD or Autism might have in regards to toxic relationships. And, the self-help tip is on how to practice boundaried sharing with the social skyscraper.

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]]> Mon, 10 Apr 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/am-i-more-vulnerable-to-toxic-relationships-because-i-have-adhd-or-autism-the-answer-might-surprise-you/ In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the vulnerabilities those of us with ADHD or Autism might have in regards to toxic relationships. And, the self-help tip is on how to practice boundaried sharing with the social skyscraper.

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]]> Am I more vulnerable to toxic relationships because I have ADHD or Autism? The answer might surprise you. Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:31:08 In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the vulnerabilities those of us with ADHD or Autism might have in regards to toxic relationships. And, the self-help tip is on how to practice boundaried sharing with the social skyscraper. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live c... In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the vulnerabilities those of us with ADHD or Autism might have in regards to toxic relationships. And, the self-help tip is on how to practice boundaried sharing with the social skyscraper. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live c... false full 83 Buzzsprout-12576137 Aren’t narcissists fantastic lovers? Tackling the myth of great sex in abusive relationships In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the myth of sex in the narcissistic relationship, and how it might be bad, weaponized, or even assaultive. And, the self-help tip is on how to practice red light/green light in assessing if and what you should do in regards to physical intimacy in a current or new relationship.

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]]> Mon, 3 Apr 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/arent-narcissists-fantastic-lovers-tackling-the-myth-of-great-sex-in-abusive-relationships/ In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the myth of sex in the narcissistic relationship, and how it might be bad, weaponized, or even assaultive. And, the self-help tip is on how to practice red light/green light in assessing if and what you should do in regards to physical intimacy in a current or new relationship.

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]]> Aren’t narcissists fantastic lovers? Tackling the myth of great sex in abusive relationships Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:26:59 In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the myth of sex in the narcissistic relationship, and how it might be bad, weaponized, or even assaultive. And, the self-help tip is on how to practice red light/green light in assessing if and what you should do in regards to physical intimacy in a current or new relationship. Links: Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse season 1, episode 44: Listen here.As an Amazon affiliate, commission is earned from qualifying purchases. Submit ... In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the myth of sex in the narcissistic relationship, and how it might be bad, weaponized, or even assaultive. And, the self-help tip is on how to practice red light/green light in assessing if and what you should do in regards to physical intimacy in a current or new relationship. Links: Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse season 1, episode 44: Listen here.As an Amazon affiliate, commission is earned from qualifying purchases. Submit ... false full 82 Buzzsprout-12522254 Why do I feel so confused and awful? Are these signs of cognitive dissonance? In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the signs of cognitive dissonance and the impact it can have on us physically, mentally, and emotionally. And, the self-help tip is on how to practice H.A.L.T in order to get back to practicing the basics.

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]]> Mon, 27 Mar 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-do-i-feel-so-confused-and-awful-are-these-signs-of-cognitive-dissonance/ In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the signs of cognitive dissonance and the impact it can have on us physically, mentally, and emotionally. And, the self-help tip is on how to practice H.A.L.T in order to get back to practicing the basics.

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]]> Why do I feel so confused and awful? Are these signs of cognitive dissonance? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:27:48 In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the signs of cognitive dissonance and the impact it can have on us physically, mentally, and emotionally. And, the self-help tip is on how to practice H.A.L.T in order to get back to practicing the basics. Links: Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse season 1, episode 24: If it’s that bad, why don’t narcissistic abuse victims just leave? Listen here.Anonymity by Susan Bergman Why Can't I Just Leave? by Dr. Kristen Milstead Submit... In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the signs of cognitive dissonance and the impact it can have on us physically, mentally, and emotionally. And, the self-help tip is on how to practice H.A.L.T in order to get back to practicing the basics. Links: Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse season 1, episode 24: If it’s that bad, why don’t narcissistic abuse victims just leave? Listen here.Anonymity by Susan Bergman Why Can't I Just Leave? by Dr. Kristen Milstead Submit... false full 81 Buzzsprout-12474735 Are you a gaslighter? How we might unintentionally gaslight in even healthy relationships In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss how we might actually gaslight in healthy relationships and how to avoid doing this in the future. And, the self-help tip is on letting others "earn" our trust before blindly giving it to them.

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]]> Mon, 20 Mar 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/are-you-a-gaslighter-how-we-might-unintentionally-gaslight-in-even-healthy-relationships/ In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss how we might actually gaslight in healthy relationships and how to avoid doing this in the future. And, the self-help tip is on letting others "earn" our trust before blindly giving it to them.

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]]> Are you a gaslighter? How we might unintentionally gaslight in even healthy relationships Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:32:36 In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss how we might actually gaslight in healthy relationships and how to avoid doing this in the future. And, the self-help tip is on letting others "earn" our trust before blindly giving it to them. Links: Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse season 1, episode 30: Listen here.Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resou... In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss how we might actually gaslight in healthy relationships and how to avoid doing this in the future. And, the self-help tip is on letting others "earn" our trust before blindly giving it to them. Links: Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse season 1, episode 30: Listen here.Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resou... false full 80 Buzzsprout-12428199 Is Codependency a Bad Word? Should it be Used to Describe Narcissistic Abuse Victims? In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss codependency vs. Super Traits, what's the difference, and why we differ in how we feel about each of the terms. And, the self-help tip is on how to create a list of top lines for yourself.

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]]> Mon, 13 Mar 2023 13:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-codependency-a-bad-word-should-it-be-used-to-describe-narcissistic-abuse-victims/ In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss codependency vs. Super Traits, what's the difference, and why we differ in how we feel about each of the terms. And, the self-help tip is on how to create a list of top lines for yourself.

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]]> Is Codependency a Bad Word? Should it be Used to Describe Narcissistic Abuse Victims? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:28:03 In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss codependency vs. Super Traits, what's the difference, and why we differ in how we feel about each of the terms. And, the self-help tip is on how to create a list of top lines for yourself. Links: Repeat After Me by Claudia BlackCodependent No More by Melody Beattie: Melody BeattieFacing Codependency: What It Is, Where It Comes from, How It Sabotages Our Lives by Miller, Miller, and McMillanNot Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, &a... In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss codependency vs. Super Traits, what's the difference, and why we differ in how we feel about each of the terms. And, the self-help tip is on how to create a list of top lines for yourself. Links: Repeat After Me by Claudia BlackCodependent No More by Melody Beattie: Melody BeattieFacing Codependency: What It Is, Where It Comes from, How It Sabotages Our Lives by Miller, Miller, and McMillanNot Nice: Stop People Pleasing, Staying Silent, &a... codependency, super traits, relationships false full 79 6405c8f51d175d0011550a5c Why do I love my abuser? The power of a trauma bond explained In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara give an intimate look at the emotional power of a trauma bond. How trauma bonds create mental confusion and a psychological dependence on the abuser. And, the self-help tip is on the importance of identifying and protecting non-negotiable boundaries.

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]]> Mon, 6 Mar 2023 14:00:19 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-do-i-love-my-abuser-the-power-of-a-trauma-bond-explained/ In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara give an intimate look at the emotional power of a trauma bond. How trauma bonds create mental confusion and a psychological dependence on the abuser. And, the self-help tip is on the importance of identifying and protecting non-negotiable boundaries.

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]]> Why do I love my abuser? The power of a trauma bond explained Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:25:42 In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara give an intimate look at the emotional power of a trauma bond. How trauma bonds create mental confusion and a psychological dependence on the abuser. And, the self-help tip is on the importance of identifying and protecting non-negotiable boundaries. Links: Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse season 1 episode 58: Listen here.Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Reco... In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara give an intimate look at the emotional power of a trauma bond. How trauma bonds create mental confusion and a psychological dependence on the abuser. And, the self-help tip is on the importance of identifying and protecting non-negotiable boundaries. Links: Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse season 1 episode 58: Listen here.Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Reco... false full 78 63fc3b869e798800112213f8 What's best for the kids, leaving or staying in a toxic relationship? In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss co-parenting challenges when you have a toxic ex. How do you stay regulated when kids are involved, and what do you do when the kids are being used as pawns? Today's self-help tip is learning to talk to yourself as if you were a friend.

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]]> Mon, 27 Feb 2023 14:00:35 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/whats-best-for-the-kids-leaving-or-staying-in-a-toxic-relationship/ In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss co-parenting challenges when you have a toxic ex. How do you stay regulated when kids are involved, and what do you do when the kids are being used as pawns? Today's self-help tip is learning to talk to yourself as if you were a friend.

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]]> What's best for the kids, leaving or staying in a toxic relationship? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:26:32 In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss co-parenting challenges when you have a toxic ex. How do you stay regulated when kids are involved, and what do you do when the kids are being used as pawns? Today's self-help tip is learning to talk to yourself as if you were a friend. Links: OnwardOurFamilyWizardWeParentCustodyConnectionParentship2HousesBreaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse season 1 episode 66: Listen here.Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources Reclaim... In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss co-parenting challenges when you have a toxic ex. How do you stay regulated when kids are involved, and what do you do when the kids are being used as pawns? Today's self-help tip is learning to talk to yourself as if you were a friend. Links: OnwardOurFamilyWizardWeParentCustodyConnectionParentship2HousesBreaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse season 1 episode 66: Listen here.Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources Reclaim... false full 77 63f306a7d9d274001208134d Can we still be friends? How to handle the toxic post-split lovebomb request In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss why your toxic ex might come back and try to lovebomb you after the break-up through, what may seem like, innocent requests of friendship. We agree that while their offer may seem tantalizing, DON'T do it! Today's self-help tip is a different way to approach communicating with toxic people.

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]]> Mon, 20 Feb 2023 14:00:49 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/can-we-still-be-friends-how-to-handle-the-toxic-post-split-lovebomb-request/ In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss why your toxic ex might come back and try to lovebomb you after the break-up through, what may seem like, innocent requests of friendship. We agree that while their offer may seem tantalizing, DON'T do it! Today's self-help tip is a different way to approach communicating with toxic people.

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]]> Can we still be friends? How to handle the toxic post-split lovebomb request Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:25:03 In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss why your toxic ex might come back and try to lovebomb you after the break-up through, what may seem like, innocent requests of friendship. We agree that while their offer may seem tantalizing, DON'T do it! Today's self-help tip is a different way to approach communicating with toxic people. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse... In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss why your toxic ex might come back and try to lovebomb you after the break-up through, what may seem like, innocent requests of friendship. We agree that while their offer may seem tantalizing, DON'T do it! Today's self-help tip is a different way to approach communicating with toxic people. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse... false full 76 63e9ab8402ceee001174c852 Do I really need to go no contact with my narcissistic ex? In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss following through with limited contact or no contact after a break-up. What is limited vs. no contact? How long should you do it for? And WHY should you do it? Today's self-help tip is one way to self-soothe during reactive abuse.

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]]> Mon, 13 Feb 2023 14:00:54 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/do-i-really-need-to-go-no-contact-with-my-narcissistic-ex/ In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss following through with limited contact or no contact after a break-up. What is limited vs. no contact? How long should you do it for? And WHY should you do it? Today's self-help tip is one way to self-soothe during reactive abuse.

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]]> Do I really need to go no contact with my narcissistic ex? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:25:52 In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss following through with limited contact or no contact after a break-up. What is limited vs. no contact? How long should you do it for? And WHY should you do it? Today's self-help tip is one way to self-soothe during reactive abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital c... In this week's episode, Kerry and Tara discuss following through with limited contact or no contact after a break-up. What is limited vs. no contact? How long should you do it for? And WHY should you do it? Today's self-help tip is one way to self-soothe during reactive abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital c... false full 75 63dee0c1089ce100113bdecd Help, I think I'm being financially abused! What can I do about it? Research has found that over 99% of victims in abusive relationships were also being financially abused. Could you be experiencing financial abuse? In this episode, Kerry and Tara will identify the common indicators of this abuse type along with some suggestions on how to overcome it. And today's self-help tip discusses the importance of leading with your head and not your heart when making big relationship decisions.

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]]> Mon, 6 Feb 2023 14:00:39 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/help-i-think-im-being-financially-abused-what-can-i-do-about-it/ Research has found that over 99% of victims in abusive relationships were also being financially abused. Could you be experiencing financial abuse? In this episode, Kerry and Tara will identify the common indicators of this abuse type along with some suggestions on how to overcome it. And today's self-help tip discusses the importance of leading with your head and not your heart when making big relationship decisions.

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]]> Help, I think I'm being financially abused! What can I do about it? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:27:42 Research has found that over 99% of victims in abusive relationships were also being financially abused. Could you be experiencing financial abuse? In this episode, Kerry and Tara will identify the common indicators of this abuse type along with some suggestions on how to overcome it. And today's self-help tip discusses the importance of leading with your head and not your heart when making big relationship decisions. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. ... Research has found that over 99% of victims in abusive relationships were also being financially abused. Could you be experiencing financial abuse? In this episode, Kerry and Tara will identify the common indicators of this abuse type along with some suggestions on how to overcome it. And today's self-help tip discusses the importance of leading with your head and not your heart when making big relationship decisions. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. ... false full 74 63d72f37e60bff0012c2f2ce What to do when your narcissistically abusive ex tries to come back In this week’s episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the common problem of exes trying to return after a breakup. Tara also shares why it's necessary to be careful with following self-help advice in this week's self-help tip. 

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]]> Mon, 30 Jan 2023 12:00:41 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/what-to-do-when-your-narcissistically-abusive-ex-tries-to-come-back/ In this week’s episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the common problem of exes trying to return after a breakup. Tara also shares why it's necessary to be careful with following self-help advice in this week's self-help tip. 

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]]> What to do when your narcissistically abusive ex tries to come back Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:24:12 In this week’s episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the common problem of exes trying to return after a breakup. Tara also shares why it's necessary to be careful with following self-help advice in this week's self-help tip. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching &am... In this week’s episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the common problem of exes trying to return after a breakup. Tara also shares why it's necessary to be careful with following self-help advice in this week's self-help tip. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching &am... false full 73 69a51cbf-7c73-47e8-ac22-15070c65e803 What Is "Narcissistic Abuse?" How Is It Different from Abuse? Is It Being Overused? In this week’s episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the use of narcissistic abuse. It's become a very popular topic on social media. Is it being overused? Then in the Self-Help Tip for today, we'll share how to handle a common argument tactic like DARVO.

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]]> Mon, 23 Jan 2023 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/what-is-narcissistic-abuse-how-is-it-different-from-abuse-is-it-being-overused/ In this week’s episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the use of narcissistic abuse. It's become a very popular topic on social media. Is it being overused? Then in the Self-Help Tip for today, we'll share how to handle a common argument tactic like DARVO.

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]]> What Is "Narcissistic Abuse?" How Is It Different from Abuse? Is It Being Overused? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:23:04 In this week’s episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the use of narcissistic abuse. It's become a very popular topic on social media. Is it being overused? Then in the Self-Help Tip for today, we'll share how to handle a common argument tactic like DARVO. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship... In this week’s episode, Kerry and Tara discuss the use of narcissistic abuse. It's become a very popular topic on social media. Is it being overused? Then in the Self-Help Tip for today, we'll share how to handle a common argument tactic like DARVO. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship... false full 72 84ff9640-f9de-40c8-ae71-1fc12264ff1b As a survivor of abuse, are you setting realistic goals for yourself in 2023? In this week’s episode, Kerry and Tara discuss setting realistic goals in 2023 and the Self-Help Tip is a simple strategy on how to hold better boundaries.

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]]> Mon, 16 Jan 2023 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/as-a-survivor-of-abuse-are-you-setting-realistic-goals-for-yourself-in-2023/ In this week’s episode, Kerry and Tara discuss setting realistic goals in 2023 and the Self-Help Tip is a simple strategy on how to hold better boundaries.

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]]> As a survivor of abuse, are you setting realistic goals for yourself in 2023? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:28:14 In this week’s episode, Kerry and Tara discuss setting realistic goals in 2023 and the Self-Help Tip is a simple strategy on how to hold better boundaries. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFacebookKe... In this week’s episode, Kerry and Tara discuss setting realistic goals in 2023 and the Self-Help Tip is a simple strategy on how to hold better boundaries. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFacebookKe... false full 71 476a84f9-f455-4a0c-9c8c-9821ef9b03ba Big changes for the new year! Let’s make it one of wholeness & health Welcome back to a new season! I’m being joined with a co-host, Tara Blair Ball, author & relationship coach and kicking off a new self-help tip segment. 

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]]> Mon, 9 Jan 2023 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/big-changes-for-the-new-year-lets-make-it-one-of-wholeness-health/ Welcome back to a new season! I’m being joined with a co-host, Tara Blair Ball, author & relationship coach and kicking off a new self-help tip segment. 

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]]> Big changes for the new year! Let’s make it one of wholeness & health Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:22:48 Welcome back to a new season! I’m being joined with a co-host, Tara Blair Ball, author & relationship coach and kicking off a new self-help tip segment. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFac... Welcome back to a new season! I’m being joined with a co-host, Tara Blair Ball, author & relationship coach and kicking off a new self-help tip segment. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFac... false full 70 e670fae9-f41d-474b-98f7-2afffc3a5e5c Ready for the holidays? My three top tips for dealing with difficult relatives and in-laws Narcissist and other difficult people love to ruin the holidays. They will find some way to make it harder on you.

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]]> Thu, 22 Dec 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/ready-for-the-holidays-my-three-top-tips-for-dealing-with-difficult-relatives-and-in-laws/ Narcissist and other difficult people love to ruin the holidays. They will find some way to make it harder on you.

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]]> Ready for the holidays? My three top tips for dealing with difficult relatives and in-laws Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:25:36 Narcissist and other difficult people love to ruin the holidays. They will find some way to make it harder on you. In this episode I’m going to offer three of my favorite tips on how to manage this year’s holiday season so that it’s more manageable and meaningful. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Fr... Narcissist and other difficult people love to ruin the holidays. They will find some way to make it harder on you. In this episode I’m going to offer three of my favorite tips on how to manage this year’s holiday season so that it’s more manageable and meaningful. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Fr... false full 69 3241390c-0119-4882-9d47-0783f679f45c I've lost my sense of self after narcissistic abuse. How do I reclaim it? Narcissistic abuse damages our sense of self because our sense of self is constantly in flux. An exchange of psychological influence occurs between us and those around us.

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]]> Mon, 19 Dec 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/ive-lost-my-sense-of-self-after-narcissistic-abuse-how-do-i-reclaim-it/ Narcissistic abuse damages our sense of self because our sense of self is constantly in flux. An exchange of psychological influence occurs between us and those around us.

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]]> I've lost my sense of self after narcissistic abuse. How do I reclaim it? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:22:14 Narcissistic abuse damages our sense of self because our sense of self is constantly in flux. An exchange of psychological influence occurs between us and those around us. This episode will look closely at this process and how abuse impacts it as well as outline some ways to begin healing self-esteem after abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to... Narcissistic abuse damages our sense of self because our sense of self is constantly in flux. An exchange of psychological influence occurs between us and those around us. This episode will look closely at this process and how abuse impacts it as well as outline some ways to begin healing self-esteem after abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to... false full 68 e5e6fd34-f773-4e29-a2d2-4bb988446ad7 Why does every issue turn into an argument? My partner says I'm the problem Have you noticed how narcissists can take a seemingly straightforward decision and turn it into an exhausting, nonsensical circular argument? The constant conflict can mess with us and make us think we’re the problem.

In this episode, we will explore this common dynamic, including how to determine who’s creating the problems.

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]]> Thu, 15 Dec 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-does-every-issue-turn-into-an-argument-my-partner-says-im-the-problem/ Have you noticed how narcissists can take a seemingly straightforward decision and turn it into an exhausting, nonsensical circular argument? The constant conflict can mess with us and make us think we’re the problem.

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]]> Why does every issue turn into an argument? My partner says I'm the problem Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:23:20 Have you noticed how narcissists can take a seemingly straightforward decision and turn it into an exhausting, nonsensical circular argument? The constant conflict can mess with us and make us think we’re the problem. In this episode, we will explore this common dynamic, including how to determine who’s creating the problems. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesF... Have you noticed how narcissists can take a seemingly straightforward decision and turn it into an exhausting, nonsensical circular argument? The constant conflict can mess with us and make us think we’re the problem. In this episode, we will explore this common dynamic, including how to determine who’s creating the problems. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesF... false full 67 10e68f77-d6df-4f63-8197-7c874f529335 Is the abuse harmful to children? Two survivors share their personal experiences Does abuse affect children the same way as the adult partner? Today, I’m joined by Bri Peterson of Abuse is Abuse. Both of us experienced emotional or narcissistic abuse as children and adults.

In this episode, we will explore the differences between both types of abuse. Was the cognitive dissonance the same? How did that affect our sense of self?

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]]> Mon, 12 Dec 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-the-abuse-harmful-to-children-two-survivors-share-their-personal-experiences/ Does abuse affect children the same way as the adult partner? Today, I’m joined by Bri Peterson of Abuse is Abuse. Both of us experienced emotional or narcissistic abuse as children and adults.

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]]> Is the abuse harmful to children? Two survivors share their personal experiences Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:41:58 Does abuse affect children the same way as the adult partner? Today, I’m joined by Bri Peterson of Abuse is Abuse. Both of us experienced emotional or narcissistic abuse as children and adults. In this episode, we will explore the differences between both types of abuse. Was the cognitive dissonance the same? How did that affect our sense of self? Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narciss... Does abuse affect children the same way as the adult partner? Today, I’m joined by Bri Peterson of Abuse is Abuse. Both of us experienced emotional or narcissistic abuse as children and adults. In this episode, we will explore the differences between both types of abuse. Was the cognitive dissonance the same? How did that affect our sense of self? Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narciss... false full 66 6272f258-7174-4240-b11f-1a929fa7c8b2 Why can't I find a therapist who knows something about narcissistic abuse? Anyone looking for a mental health clinician with expertise in narcissistic abuse knows this is challenging. What makes this so difficult?

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]]> Thu, 8 Dec 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-cant-i-find-a-therapist-who-knows-something-about-narcissistic-abuse/ Anyone looking for a mental health clinician with expertise in narcissistic abuse knows this is challenging. What makes this so difficult?

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]]> Why can't I find a therapist who knows something about narcissistic abuse? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:27:44 Anyone looking for a mental health clinician with expertise in narcissistic abuse knows this is challenging. What makes this so difficult? In this episode, we’ll explain why finding a therapist is difficult and give tips on how to vet a potential one. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationsh... Anyone looking for a mental health clinician with expertise in narcissistic abuse knows this is challenging. What makes this so difficult? In this episode, we’ll explain why finding a therapist is difficult and give tips on how to vet a potential one. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationsh... false full 65 8555b6c1-743e-4ac9-b5b4-9ca67e7884d5 I think I'm trauma bonded. Now what? How do I start my healing? Trauma bonds are painful connection with another person that is based on fear. There’s an addictive quality making them very hard to break.

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]]> Mon, 5 Dec 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/i-think-im-trauma-bonded-now-what-how-do-i-start-my-healing/ Trauma bonds are painful connection with another person that is based on fear. There’s an addictive quality making them very hard to break.

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]]> I think I'm trauma bonded. Now what? How do I start my healing? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:27:50 Trauma bonds are painful connection with another person that is based on fear. There’s an addictive quality making them very hard to break. In this episode, we will briefly define a trauma bond and then identify the initial steps to breaking one. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Cl... Trauma bonds are painful connection with another person that is based on fear. There’s an addictive quality making them very hard to break. In this episode, we will briefly define a trauma bond and then identify the initial steps to breaking one. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Cl... false full 64 f67fa476-300a-4480-98d7-9e365bddb23b Is it healthy to obsess over my past narcissistic partner and what happened to me? It’s become popular to spend time thinking about psychopathic and narcissistic abuses—for us to obsess over what’s happened to us.

In this episode, we’ll explore whether this way of thinking is good for us and how to tell if we’re falling into unhealthiness as we try to make sense of the 

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]]> Thu, 1 Dec 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-it-healthy-to-obsess-over-my-past-narcissistic-partner-and-what-happened-to-me/ It’s become popular to spend time thinking about psychopathic and narcissistic abuses—for us to obsess over what’s happened to us.

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]]> Is it healthy to obsess over my past narcissistic partner and what happened to me? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:28:51 It’s become popular to spend time thinking about psychopathic and narcissistic abuses—for us to obsess over what’s happened to us. In this episode, we’ll explore whether this way of thinking is good for us and how to tell if we’re falling into unhealthiness as we try to make sense of the Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online sel... It’s become popular to spend time thinking about psychopathic and narcissistic abuses—for us to obsess over what’s happened to us. In this episode, we’ll explore whether this way of thinking is good for us and how to tell if we’re falling into unhealthiness as we try to make sense of the Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online sel... false full 63 91951f80-e9fd-40ea-8f59-f16f181f4073 How do I combat my partner turning every issue into a "me" problem? Have you heard of the acronym DARVO? It’s a nasty type of gaslighting that flips the script and attacks us when we bring up an issue.

In this episode, we will address the underlying dynamic of this abusive practice along with the three steps to combatting it effectively.

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]]> Mon, 28 Nov 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-do-i-combat-my-partner-turning-every-issue-into-a-me-problem/ Have you heard of the acronym DARVO? It’s a nasty type of gaslighting that flips the script and attacks us when we bring up an issue.

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]]> How do I combat my partner turning every issue into a "me" problem? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:18:57 Have you heard of the acronym DARVO? It’s a nasty type of gaslighting that flips the script and attacks us when we bring up an issue. In this episode, we will address the underlying dynamic of this abusive practice along with the three steps to combatting it effectively. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseT... Have you heard of the acronym DARVO? It’s a nasty type of gaslighting that flips the script and attacks us when we bring up an issue. In this episode, we will address the underlying dynamic of this abusive practice along with the three steps to combatting it effectively. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseT... false full 62 d38f705f-a80e-4d12-a0ac-957ff64af948 How do I rebuild trust in myself after surviving narcissistic abuse? It’s tough when you first leave a narcissistically abusive relationship. Your partner has made most of the decision, and over time, you’ve given up more and more of yourself, betraying yourself and your sense of safety. How is trust rebuilt?

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]]> Mon, 21 Nov 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-do-i-rebuild-trust-in-myself-after-surviving-narcissistic-abuse/ It’s tough when you first leave a narcissistically abusive relationship. Your partner has made most of the decision, and over time, you’ve given up more and more of yourself, betraying yourself and your sense of safety. How is trust rebuilt?

In this episode, we will examine why reclaiming our self-integrity and relying on our intuition is challenging, along with a few practical steps to begin your healing. 

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]]> How do I rebuild trust in myself after surviving narcissistic abuse? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:29:19 It’s tough when you first leave a narcissistically abusive relationship. Your partner has made most of the decision, and over time, you’ve given up more and more of yourself, betraying yourself and your sense of safety. How is trust rebuilt? In this episode, we will examine why reclaiming our self-integrity and relying on our intuition is challenging, along with a few practical steps to begin your healing. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry'... It’s tough when you first leave a narcissistically abusive relationship. Your partner has made most of the decision, and over time, you’ve given up more and more of yourself, betraying yourself and your sense of safety. How is trust rebuilt? In this episode, we will examine why reclaiming our self-integrity and relying on our intuition is challenging, along with a few practical steps to begin your healing. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry'... false full 61 968abda8-75a3-41a2-8144-0c6fc1f7b339 What people don’t understand about abuse and why it’s hard to leave a toxic relationship The most common, useless advice given to victims is just to leave. Why do we say this when we know it’s hurtful and probably, not useful?

In this episode, we will examine the underlying biases and assumptions about abuse and abuse victims. Why there’s a cultural blindness to victims’ plight and how it leads us to neglect this most vulnerable group.

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]]> Thu, 17 Nov 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/what-people-dont-understand-about-abuse-and-why-its-hard-to-leave-a-toxic-relationship/ The most common, useless advice given to victims is just to leave. Why do we say this when we know it’s hurtful and probably, not useful?

In this episode, we will examine the underlying biases and assumptions about abuse and abuse victims. Why there’s a cultural blindness to victims’ plight and how it leads us to neglect this most vulnerable group.

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]]> What people don’t understand about abuse and why it’s hard to leave a toxic relationship Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:27:11 The most common, useless advice given to victims is just to leave. Why do we say this when we know it’s hurtful and probably, not useful? In this episode, we will examine the underlying biases and assumptions about abuse and abuse victims. Why there’s a cultural blindness to victims’ plight and how it leads us to neglect this most vulnerable group. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcis... The most common, useless advice given to victims is just to leave. Why do we say this when we know it’s hurtful and probably, not useful? In this episode, we will examine the underlying biases and assumptions about abuse and abuse victims. Why there’s a cultural blindness to victims’ plight and how it leads us to neglect this most vulnerable group. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcis... false full 60 9e05eafd-af10-430e-badb-a93aa698a80c Should we blame victims for not spotting the signs they've met a dangerous person? I recently started reading a book that’s been around a while—Neil Strauss’ book called The Game, though he’s since come out against the practices described in it. It’s all about his experiences of learning how to manipulate women sexually through post-hypnotic suggestions and other psychologically manipulative strategies. Despite knowing there are online resources and groups encouraging predatory behavior, we tend to hold victims responsible for the abuse.

In this episode, we will take a closer look at the dynamics of abuse and the responsibility for the abusive & predatory behavior.

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]]> Mon, 14 Nov 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/should-we-blame-victims-for-not-spotting-the-signs-theyve-met-a-dangerous-person/ I recently started reading a book that’s been around a while—Neil Strauss’ book called The Game, though he’s since come out against the practices described in it. It’s all about his experiences of learning how to manipulate women sexually through post-hypnotic suggestions and other psychologically manipulative strategies. Despite knowing there are online resources and groups encouraging predatory behavior, we tend to hold victims responsible for the abuse.

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]]> Should we blame victims for not spotting the signs they've met a dangerous person? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:22:27 I recently started reading a book that’s been around a while—Neil Strauss’ book called The Game, though he’s since come out against the practices described in it. It’s all about his experiences of learning how to manipulate women sexually through post-hypnotic suggestions and other psychologically manipulative strategies. Despite knowing there are online resources and groups encouraging predatory behavior, we tend to hold victims responsible for the abuse. In this episode, we will take a clos... I recently started reading a book that’s been around a while—Neil Strauss’ book called The Game, though he’s since come out against the practices described in it. It’s all about his experiences of learning how to manipulate women sexually through post-hypnotic suggestions and other psychologically manipulative strategies. Despite knowing there are online resources and groups encouraging predatory behavior, we tend to hold victims responsible for the abuse. In this episode, we will take a clos... false full 59 627f82ea-6172-4f38-b788-74eaf3d315ec Why can't I leave my partner? The seven stages of a trauma bond Have you heard of the term “trauma bond?” It’s a condition similar to being brainwashed by Stockholm’s Syndrome. Victims recovering from narcissistic abuse liken the breaking of a trauma bond to overcoming a heroin addiction.

In this podcast episode, we will cover the seven stages of a trauma bond and how to begin recovery.

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]]> Thu, 10 Nov 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-cant-i-leave-my-partner-the-seven-stages-of-a-trauma-bond/ Have you heard of the term “trauma bond?” It’s a condition similar to being brainwashed by Stockholm’s Syndrome. Victims recovering from narcissistic abuse liken the breaking of a trauma bond to overcoming a heroin addiction.

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]]> Why can't I leave my partner? The seven stages of a trauma bond Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:31:29 Have you heard of the term “trauma bond?” It’s a condition similar to being brainwashed by Stockholm’s Syndrome. Victims recovering from narcissistic abuse liken the breaking of a trauma bond to overcoming a heroin addiction. In this podcast episode, we will cover the seven stages of a trauma bond and how to begin recovery. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFir... Have you heard of the term “trauma bond?” It’s a condition similar to being brainwashed by Stockholm’s Syndrome. Victims recovering from narcissistic abuse liken the breaking of a trauma bond to overcoming a heroin addiction. In this podcast episode, we will cover the seven stages of a trauma bond and how to begin recovery. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFir... false full 58 d645fbb4-6b5c-4f53-b9b4-3d54dc480a6b What quality did I miss when I got into a relationship with a toxic person? Every victim wants to know how they got into a toxic or dangerous relationship. Was there an early sign of danger that they missed? Were they too trusting, gullible, or naive? Most victims have been accused of being codependent. What does research have to say?

In this episode, we will dig deeper into this topic, particularly Sandra L. Brown’s groundbreaking research into the dynamics of pathological love relationships. What personality qualities made us predator’s target, and how can we protect ourselves better? Speaking of Sandra Brown, I’ll be interviewing her live Thursday evening. There are still a few remaining tickets to that event. This interview will debunk many commonly held myths about victims. Find out the truth about predatory behavior and pathological love relationships. Get your tickets through the link in the show notes. And if you’re hearing this after November 10, no worries. You can still purchase the video replay to keep in your library of mental health resources.

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]]> Mon, 7 Nov 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/what-quality-did-i-miss-when-i-got-into-a-relationship-with-a-toxic-person/ Every victim wants to know how they got into a toxic or dangerous relationship. Was there an early sign of danger that they missed? Were they too trusting, gullible, or naive? Most victims have been accused of being codependent. What does research have to say?

In this episode, we will dig deeper into this topic, particularly Sandra L. Brown’s groundbreaking research into the dynamics of pathological love relationships. What personality qualities made us predator’s target, and how can we protect ourselves better? Speaking of Sandra Brown, I’ll be interviewing her live Thursday evening. There are still a few remaining tickets to that event. This interview will debunk many commonly held myths about victims. Find out the truth about predatory behavior and pathological love relationships. Get your tickets through the link in the show notes. And if you’re hearing this after November 10, no worries. You can still purchase the video replay to keep in your library of mental health resources.

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]]> What quality did I miss when I got into a relationship with a toxic person? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:26:52 Every victim wants to know how they got into a toxic or dangerous relationship. Was there an early sign of danger that they missed? Were they too trusting, gullible, or naive? Most victims have been accused of being codependent. What does research have to say? In this episode, we will dig deeper into this topic, particularly Sandra L. Brown’s groundbreaking research into the dynamics of pathological love relationships. What personality qualities made us predator’s target, and how can we prote... Every victim wants to know how they got into a toxic or dangerous relationship. Was there an early sign of danger that they missed? Were they too trusting, gullible, or naive? Most victims have been accused of being codependent. What does research have to say? In this episode, we will dig deeper into this topic, particularly Sandra L. Brown’s groundbreaking research into the dynamics of pathological love relationships. What personality qualities made us predator’s target, and how can we prote... false full 57 bf3a6d69-c31f-4abe-9960-6ae938f02395 Is it too much masculine energy for women to protect their boundaries? On social media, it’s gotten popular to discuss masculine and feminine energy. Boundaries have come under attack as something masculine.

In this episode, we will define what a personal boundary is and what makes healthy and unhealthy. We’ll also touch on why cheating happens in narcissistic and non-narcissistic relationships.


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]]> Thu, 3 Nov 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-it-too-much-masculine-energy-for-women-to-protect-their-boundaries/ On social media, it’s gotten popular to discuss masculine and feminine energy. Boundaries have come under attack as something masculine.

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]]> Is it too much masculine energy for women to protect their boundaries? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:22:40 On social media, it’s gotten popular to discuss masculine and feminine energy. Boundaries have come under attack as something masculine. In this episode, we will define what a personal boundary is and what makes healthy and unhealthy. We’ll also touch on why cheating happens in narcissistic and non-narcissistic relationships. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resource... On social media, it’s gotten popular to discuss masculine and feminine energy. Boundaries have come under attack as something masculine. In this episode, we will define what a personal boundary is and what makes healthy and unhealthy. We’ll also touch on why cheating happens in narcissistic and non-narcissistic relationships. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resource... false full 56 c9d91588-aa9e-4bdf-b47b-a2e0a6ac128b Could chronic stress or trauma be making me sick? Why are we surprised that there is a mind-body connection? That what we experience, like abuse, will affect us physiologically?

We cover a lot of ground in this episode, including how we see the world blinds us from recognizing dangerous people, the possibility of having narcissism and other mental health conditions, and defining dog-whistling when it comes to abuse.


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]]> Mon, 31 Oct 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/could-chronic-stress-or-trauma-be-making-me-sick/ Why are we surprised that there is a mind-body connection? That what we experience, like abuse, will affect us physiologically?

We cover a lot of ground in this episode, including how we see the world blinds us from recognizing dangerous people, the possibility of having narcissism and other mental health conditions, and defining dog-whistling when it comes to abuse.


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]]> Could chronic stress or trauma be making me sick? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:22:10 Why are we surprised that there is a mind-body connection? That what we experience, like abuse, will affect us physiologically? We cover a lot of ground in this episode, including how we see the world blinds us from recognizing dangerous people, the possibility of having narcissism and other mental health conditions, and defining dog-whistling when it comes to abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recove... Why are we surprised that there is a mind-body connection? That what we experience, like abuse, will affect us physiologically? We cover a lot of ground in this episode, including how we see the world blinds us from recognizing dangerous people, the possibility of having narcissism and other mental health conditions, and defining dog-whistling when it comes to abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recove... false full 55 8efca8ad-3209-4d78-9b41-23b1059782a2 What is a Dark Triad Personality, and how dangerous is this person? Have you heard of the Dark Triad Personality disorder? Some have suggested this is a new personality type.

In this episode, we are going to take a look at the makeup of this individual and why they pose such a risk to us. We’ll also discuss ambiguous grief and the importance of allowing ourselves to process all kinds of losses, even toxic relationships, safely.


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]]> Thu, 27 Oct 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/what-is-a-dark-triad-personality-and-how-dangerous-is-this-person/ Have you heard of the Dark Triad Personality disorder? Some have suggested this is a new personality type.

In this episode, we are going to take a look at the makeup of this individual and why they pose such a risk to us. We’ll also discuss ambiguous grief and the importance of allowing ourselves to process all kinds of losses, even toxic relationships, safely.


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]]> What is a Dark Triad Personality, and how dangerous is this person? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:28:16 Have you heard of the Dark Triad Personality disorder? Some have suggested this is a new personality type. In this episode, we are going to take a look at the makeup of this individual and why they pose such a risk to us. We’ll also discuss ambiguous grief and the importance of allowing ourselves to process all kinds of losses, even toxic relationships, safely. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Col... Have you heard of the Dark Triad Personality disorder? Some have suggested this is a new personality type. In this episode, we are going to take a look at the makeup of this individual and why they pose such a risk to us. We’ll also discuss ambiguous grief and the importance of allowing ourselves to process all kinds of losses, even toxic relationships, safely. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Col... false full 54 beb06778-54ee-42f1-bdaf-8a7f97b0eeb8 Am I a bad friend if I shut someone down for talking about a toxic relationship? It’s become popular to call it “trauma dumping” when someone talks about their abuse. But is that an accurate description? Might we be harming others when we pathologize their need to share?

In today’s episode, we’ll look closely at why victims tend to overshare traumatic experiences and how we can help support them in the healing process.

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]]> Mon, 24 Oct 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/am-i-a-bad-friend-if-i-shut-someone-down-for-talking-about-a-toxic-relationship/ It’s become popular to call it “trauma dumping” when someone talks about their abuse. But is that an accurate description? Might we be harming others when we pathologize their need to share?

In today’s episode, we’ll look closely at why victims tend to overshare traumatic experiences and how we can help support them in the healing process.

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]]> Am I a bad friend if I shut someone down for talking about a toxic relationship? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:21:57 It’s become popular to call it “trauma dumping” when someone talks about their abuse. But is that an accurate description? Might we be harming others when we pathologize their need to share? In today’s episode, we’ll look closely at why victims tend to overshare traumatic experiences and how we can help support them in the healing process. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic ab... It’s become popular to call it “trauma dumping” when someone talks about their abuse. But is that an accurate description? Might we be harming others when we pathologize their need to share? In today’s episode, we’ll look closely at why victims tend to overshare traumatic experiences and how we can help support them in the healing process. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic ab... false full 53 40b91b79-3164-4ea0-92d2-bffe6b6a9cdf I just left the narcissist; how do I stop this terrible pain? I can’t even begin to describe the horrific pain I felt after leaving a narcissistically abusive relationship. The intense confusion, rage, sense of betrayal, and fear. Some have likened this stage to heroin withdrawal.

In this episode, we’ll talk about how to begin healing after leaving a toxic relationship. We’ll also touch if spirituality can save narcissists from this disorder and if the partner gets a better version of our narcissistic ex.

How He Gets Into Her Head: The Mind of a Male Intimate Abuser by Don Hennessy


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]]> Thu, 20 Oct 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/i-just-left-the-narcissist-how-do-i-stop-this-terrible-pain/ I can’t even begin to describe the horrific pain I felt after leaving a narcissistically abusive relationship. The intense confusion, rage, sense of betrayal, and fear. Some have likened this stage to heroin withdrawal.

In this episode, we’ll talk about how to begin healing after leaving a toxic relationship. We’ll also touch if spirituality can save narcissists from this disorder and if the partner gets a better version of our narcissistic ex.

How He Gets Into Her Head: The Mind of a Male Intimate Abuser by Don Hennessy


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]]> I just left the narcissist; how do I stop this terrible pain? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:26:35 I can’t even begin to describe the horrific pain I felt after leaving a narcissistically abusive relationship. The intense confusion, rage, sense of betrayal, and fear. Some have likened this stage to heroin withdrawal. In this episode, we’ll talk about how to begin healing after leaving a toxic relationship. We’ll also touch if spirituality can save narcissists from this disorder and if the partner gets a better version of our narcissistic ex. How He Gets Into Her Head: The Mind of a Male In... I can’t even begin to describe the horrific pain I felt after leaving a narcissistically abusive relationship. The intense confusion, rage, sense of betrayal, and fear. Some have likened this stage to heroin withdrawal. In this episode, we’ll talk about how to begin healing after leaving a toxic relationship. We’ll also touch if spirituality can save narcissists from this disorder and if the partner gets a better version of our narcissistic ex. How He Gets Into Her Head: The Mind of a Male In... false full 52 f92923b3-1bc2-4cd7-a866-9430aaac2dae Why doesn't my partner want sex? Is it because of women's sex drive? There are many assumptions and myths about sexuality, especially regarding the differences between men and women. How does the objectification of women impact their sexuality, particularly their interest in sex? And what improves a couple’s connection when it comes to sex?

In this episode, we will be looking at some of the common dynamics that affect physical intimacy.

Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

The Passionate Marriage by David Schnarch, Ph.D.


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]]> Mon, 17 Oct 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-doesnt-my-partner-want-sex-is-it-because-of-womens-sex-drive/ There are many assumptions and myths about sexuality, especially regarding the differences between men and women. How does the objectification of women impact their sexuality, particularly their interest in sex? And what improves a couple’s connection when it comes to sex?

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Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D.

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]]> Why doesn't my partner want sex? Is it because of women's sex drive? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:25:52 There are many assumptions and myths about sexuality, especially regarding the differences between men and women. How does the objectification of women impact their sexuality, particularly their interest in sex? And what improves a couple’s connection when it comes to sex? In this episode, we will be looking at some of the common dynamics that affect physical intimacy. Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. The Passionate Marriage by David Schnarch, Ph.D. Submit your question to be answere... There are many assumptions and myths about sexuality, especially regarding the differences between men and women. How does the objectification of women impact their sexuality, particularly their interest in sex? And what improves a couple’s connection when it comes to sex? In this episode, we will be looking at some of the common dynamics that affect physical intimacy. Come as You Are by Emily Nagoski, Ph.D. The Passionate Marriage by David Schnarch, Ph.D. Submit your question to be answere... false full 51 d7d94b4d-1ed0-4000-b47e-7ce3d6eb536b Isn't there any way to make leaving a narcissist easier? Why do victims find it so hard to leave a difficult or toxic relationship? Conventional wisdom says it should be as simple as just leaving, but it’s not.

In this episode, we’ll explore the challenges victim face when trying to leave a narcissist or an even more dangerous type of person.

Insight is 20/20 by Chelli Pumphrey


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]]> Thu, 13 Oct 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/isnt-there-any-way-to-make-leaving-a-narcissist-easier/ Why do victims find it so hard to leave a difficult or toxic relationship? Conventional wisdom says it should be as simple as just leaving, but it’s not.

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]]> Isn't there any way to make leaving a narcissist easier? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:26:29 Why do victims find it so hard to leave a difficult or toxic relationship? Conventional wisdom says it should be as simple as just leaving, but it’s not. In this episode, we’ll explore the challenges victim face when trying to leave a narcissist or an even more dangerous type of person. Insight is 20/20 by Chelli Pumphrey Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFir... Why do victims find it so hard to leave a difficult or toxic relationship? Conventional wisdom says it should be as simple as just leaving, but it’s not. In this episode, we’ll explore the challenges victim face when trying to leave a narcissist or an even more dangerous type of person. Insight is 20/20 by Chelli Pumphrey Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFir... false full 50 8c708653-621e-42b9-b472-93626f5a588d Is this really abuse? Maybe my partner or parent just lacks kindness What constitutes abuse? Have you ever stopped to consider the definition? Is it something that hurts a person’s feelings? In this episode, take a closer look at abuse and its subtleties. We’ll also discuss why narcissists often struggle to hold a job and the difference between narcissistic personality disorder and narcissistic traits.

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]]> Mon, 10 Oct 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-this-really-abuse-maybe-my-partner-or-parent-just-lacks-kindness/ What constitutes abuse? Have you ever stopped to consider the definition? Is it something that hurts a person’s feelings? In this episode, take a closer look at abuse and its subtleties. We’ll also discuss why narcissists often struggle to hold a job and the difference between narcissistic personality disorder and narcissistic traits.

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]]> Is this really abuse? Maybe my partner or parent just lacks kindness Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:24:32 What constitutes abuse? Have you ever stopped to consider the definition? Is it something that hurts a person’s feelings? In this episode, take a closer look at abuse and its subtleties. We’ll also discuss why narcissists often struggle to hold a job and the difference between narcissistic personality disorder and narcissistic traits. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse r... What constitutes abuse? Have you ever stopped to consider the definition? Is it something that hurts a person’s feelings? In this episode, take a closer look at abuse and its subtleties. We’ll also discuss why narcissists often struggle to hold a job and the difference between narcissistic personality disorder and narcissistic traits. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse r... false full 49 65ea15c9-edb7-42da-9808-6da4c29f4fe5 How can my narcissistic ex move on so easily after saying they loved me? Victims spend a lot of time trying to make sense of what happened. This is understandable since doing an analysis is part of improving our sense of safety. It goes awry when it is based on the wrong information. Men and women view the world differently but so do narcissists and the rest of the population.

In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at these different frameworks and their impact on understanding ourselves and the world.

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]]> Thu, 6 Oct 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-can-my-narcissistic-ex-move-on-so-easily-after-saying-they-loved-me/ Victims spend a lot of time trying to make sense of what happened. This is understandable since doing an analysis is part of improving our sense of safety. It goes awry when it is based on the wrong information. Men and women view the world differently but so do narcissists and the rest of the population.

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]]> How can my narcissistic ex move on so easily after saying they loved me? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:27:21 Victims spend a lot of time trying to make sense of what happened. This is understandable since doing an analysis is part of improving our sense of safety. It goes awry when it is based on the wrong information. Men and women view the world differently but so do narcissists and the rest of the population. In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at these different frameworks and their impact on understanding ourselves and the world. Learn more about Deborah Tannen’s work. Submit your quest... Victims spend a lot of time trying to make sense of what happened. This is understandable since doing an analysis is part of improving our sense of safety. It goes awry when it is based on the wrong information. Men and women view the world differently but so do narcissists and the rest of the population. In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at these different frameworks and their impact on understanding ourselves and the world. Learn more about Deborah Tannen’s work. Submit your quest... false full 48 eb7931f2-fdcb-46d3-ae68-7819cff91149 How does a narcissist or a psychopath differ? Aren't both abusive? What is the difference between a narcissist and a psychopath? Do those characteristics matter if both groups are abusive?

In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at the core motivations and relationship styles of both groups as well as get into why a trauma bond is so challenging to break.

What is narcissistic abuse? Dr. Milstead’s proposed definition in PsychCentral


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]]> Mon, 3 Oct 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-does-a-narcissist-or-a-psychopath-differ-arent-both-abusive/ What is the difference between a narcissist and a psychopath? Do those characteristics matter if both groups are abusive?

In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at the core motivations and relationship styles of both groups as well as get into why a trauma bond is so challenging to break.

What is narcissistic abuse? Dr. Milstead’s proposed definition in PsychCentral


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]]> How does a narcissist or a psychopath differ? Aren't both abusive? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:24:48 What is the difference between a narcissist and a psychopath? Do those characteristics matter if both groups are abusive? In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at the core motivations and relationship styles of both groups as well as get into why a trauma bond is so challenging to break. What is narcissistic abuse? Dr. Milstead’s proposed definition in PsychCentral Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Reco... What is the difference between a narcissist and a psychopath? Do those characteristics matter if both groups are abusive? In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at the core motivations and relationship styles of both groups as well as get into why a trauma bond is so challenging to break. What is narcissistic abuse? Dr. Milstead’s proposed definition in PsychCentral Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Reco... false full 47 1d930207-c62b-4ab7-899f-0990157fbd25 I think my partner is an addict. Will they become a narcissist too? It’s not uncommon for narcissists to struggle with addictions, but it isn’t unusual for addicts to behave narcissistically. Does that mean those with addictions also have a personality disorder?

In this episode, we explore the effects of addiction on personality, the roots of narcissism, and if we should hold out hope for our narcissistic partner to make changes.


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]]> Thu, 29 Sep 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/i-think-my-partner-is-an-addict-will-they-become-a-narcissist-too/ It’s not uncommon for narcissists to struggle with addictions, but it isn’t unusual for addicts to behave narcissistically. Does that mean those with addictions also have a personality disorder?

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]]> I think my partner is an addict. Will they become a narcissist too? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:23:20 It’s not uncommon for narcissists to struggle with addictions, but it isn’t unusual for addicts to behave narcissistically. Does that mean those with addictions also have a personality disorder? In this episode, we explore the effects of addiction on personality, the roots of narcissism, and if we should hold out hope for our narcissistic partner to make changes. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery C... It’s not uncommon for narcissists to struggle with addictions, but it isn’t unusual for addicts to behave narcissistically. Does that mean those with addictions also have a personality disorder? In this episode, we explore the effects of addiction on personality, the roots of narcissism, and if we should hold out hope for our narcissistic partner to make changes. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery C... false full 46 6eb32303-7479-452f-9e95-9d48f92f97ed How could I've fallen for the narcissist's love-bombing tactics? After an abusive relationship is over, most victims want to know how they couldn’t have fallen for the narcissist’s love-bombing. They often are blamed for missing the red flags, as if they were naive or, worse yet, stupid.

In this episode, we’ll analyze the five elements of love-bombing and what makes each of these strategies so effective  


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]]> Mon, 26 Sep 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-could-ive-fallen-for-the-narcissists-love-bombing-tactics/ After an abusive relationship is over, most victims want to know how they couldn’t have fallen for the narcissist’s love-bombing. They often are blamed for missing the red flags, as if they were naive or, worse yet, stupid.

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]]> How could I've fallen for the narcissist's love-bombing tactics? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:24:50 After an abusive relationship is over, most victims want to know how they couldn’t have fallen for the narcissist’s love-bombing. They often are blamed for missing the red flags, as if they were naive or, worse yet, stupid. In this episode, we’ll analyze the five elements of love-bombing and what makes each of these strategies so effective Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcis... After an abusive relationship is over, most victims want to know how they couldn’t have fallen for the narcissist’s love-bombing. They often are blamed for missing the red flags, as if they were naive or, worse yet, stupid. In this episode, we’ll analyze the five elements of love-bombing and what makes each of these strategies so effective Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcis... false full 45 8b14d4ed-ab9b-4062-a77d-65d626425d2c What's wrong with me? Why isn't my partner interested in sex? Sexual intimacy is a common problem in narcissistically abusive relationships. It's often a sign that the narcissist is becoming disillusioned.

In this episode, we address why some couples experience a loss of sexual interest in the bedroom. We'll also explore the defense mechanisms narcissists prefer to use, why hoovering is so prevalent, and what causes so many victims to fear romantic relationships after abuse.


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]]> Thu, 22 Sep 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/whats-wrong-with-me-why-isnt-my-partner-interested-in-sex/ Sexual intimacy is a common problem in narcissistically abusive relationships. It's often a sign that the narcissist is becoming disillusioned.

In this episode, we address why some couples experience a loss of sexual interest in the bedroom. We'll also explore the defense mechanisms narcissists prefer to use, why hoovering is so prevalent, and what causes so many victims to fear romantic relationships after abuse.


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]]> What's wrong with me? Why isn't my partner interested in sex? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:25:32 Sexual intimacy is a common problem in narcissistically abusive relationships. It's often a sign that the narcissist is becoming disillusioned. In this episode, we address why some couples experience a loss of sexual interest in the bedroom. We'll also explore the defense mechanisms narcissists prefer to use, why hoovering is so prevalent, and what causes so many victims to fear romantic relationships after abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Ke... Sexual intimacy is a common problem in narcissistically abusive relationships. It's often a sign that the narcissist is becoming disillusioned. In this episode, we address why some couples experience a loss of sexual interest in the bedroom. We'll also explore the defense mechanisms narcissists prefer to use, why hoovering is so prevalent, and what causes so many victims to fear romantic relationships after abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Ke... false full 44 56517cea-cf32-4e06-8608-9fbde8ad08c5 What emotional voodoo has the narcissist used to keep me trapped? During the last months of narcissistic abuse, I knew I was in trouble, yet I couldn’t leave. The paralysis was palpable. A physical pain. In this episode, we’ll explore the psychological reinforcement style used and why this is so paralyzing.

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]]> Mon, 19 Sep 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/what-emotional-voodoo-has-the-narcissist-used-to-keep-me-trapped/ During the last months of narcissistic abuse, I knew I was in trouble, yet I couldn’t leave. The paralysis was palpable. A physical pain. In this episode, we’ll explore the psychological reinforcement style used and why this is so paralyzing.

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]]> What emotional voodoo has the narcissist used to keep me trapped? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:23:25 During the last months of narcissistic abuse, I knew I was in trouble, yet I couldn’t leave. The paralysis was palpable. A physical pain. In this episode, we’ll explore the psychological reinforcement style used and why this is so paralyzing. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: ... During the last months of narcissistic abuse, I knew I was in trouble, yet I couldn’t leave. The paralysis was palpable. A physical pain. In this episode, we’ll explore the psychological reinforcement style used and why this is so paralyzing. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: ... false full 43 4f208287-2fc8-418f-b2fc-d9c0d6a815e8 If narcissists are born this way, are they responsible for the abuse? Research confirms that narcissism is primarily a biosocial problem, meaning narcissists are born with personality deficits. Is it fair to hold them accountable for the damage they cause? We’ll explore this topic in depth in this podcast episode.

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]]> Thu, 15 Sep 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/if-narcissists-are-born-this-way-are-they-responsible-for-the-abuse/ Research confirms that narcissism is primarily a biosocial problem, meaning narcissists are born with personality deficits. Is it fair to hold them accountable for the damage they cause? We’ll explore this topic in depth in this podcast episode.

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]]> If narcissists are born this way, are they responsible for the abuse? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:23:55 Research confirms that narcissism is primarily a biosocial problem, meaning narcissists are born with personality deficits. Is it fair to hold them accountable for the damage they cause? We’ll explore this topic in depth in this podcast episode. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Clu... Research confirms that narcissism is primarily a biosocial problem, meaning narcissists are born with personality deficits. Is it fair to hold them accountable for the damage they cause? We’ll explore this topic in depth in this podcast episode. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Clu... false full 42 c64dc05c-ebe6-46b9-ae19-e2261f28534f Should I let my narcissistic ex come back and be a part of the family? Narcissistic exes often return, claiming they’ve changed. They ask to be in a relationship or to rejoin the family. In narcissistic abuse circles, this is called “hoovering.”

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]]> Mon, 12 Sep 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/should-i-let-my-narcissistic-ex-come-back-and-be-a-part-of-the-family/ Narcissistic exes often return, claiming they’ve changed. They ask to be in a relationship or to rejoin the family. In narcissistic abuse circles, this is called “hoovering.”

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]]> Should I let my narcissistic ex come back and be a part of the family? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:35:30 Narcissistic exes often return, claiming they’ve changed. They ask to be in a relationship or to rejoin the family. In narcissistic abuse circles, this is called “hoovering.” In this podcast episode, we’ll explore if agreeing to this request is wise, define “breadcrumbing,” and take a closer look at the connection between gaslighting and cognitive dissonance. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Colle... Narcissistic exes often return, claiming they’ve changed. They ask to be in a relationship or to rejoin the family. In narcissistic abuse circles, this is called “hoovering.” In this podcast episode, we’ll explore if agreeing to this request is wise, define “breadcrumbing,” and take a closer look at the connection between gaslighting and cognitive dissonance. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Colle... false full 41 5a12dac3-244e-42c8-8b7d-c595d2bc8e5f Why do we keep picking dangerous people as romantic partners? The bad boy stereotype is well-known and, unfortunately, too often true. So why do some of us repeatedly get into a relationship with someone dangerous?

In this podcast, we’ll take a closer look at how we confuse intensity for attraction, the ten different personality disorders, and the common problem of the non-apology apology.


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]]> Thu, 8 Sep 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-do-we-keep-picking-dangerous-people-as-romantic-partners/ The bad boy stereotype is well-known and, unfortunately, too often true. So why do some of us repeatedly get into a relationship with someone dangerous?

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]]> Why do we keep picking dangerous people as romantic partners? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:25:35 The bad boy stereotype is well-known and, unfortunately, too often true. So why do some of us repeatedly get into a relationship with someone dangerous? In this podcast, we’ll take a closer look at how we confuse intensity for attraction, the ten different personality disorders, and the common problem of the non-apology apology. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resou... The bad boy stereotype is well-known and, unfortunately, too often true. So why do some of us repeatedly get into a relationship with someone dangerous? In this podcast, we’ll take a closer look at how we confuse intensity for attraction, the ten different personality disorders, and the common problem of the non-apology apology. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resou... false full 40 b289b147-a0f4-4b4b-ba4b-92b7150f1912 What's wrong with me? Why I can't I leave this toxic relationship? A trauma bond is a fear-based connection between abusers and victims. Combine that with the mental confusion of cognitive dissonance, and the victim is stuck.

In this podcast episode, we’ll examine why this powerful dynamic makes it so difficult to leave. We’ll also cover the five types of narcissists and the difference between overt and covert narcissism.


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]]> Thu, 1 Sep 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/whats-wrong-with-me-why-i-cant-i-leave-this-toxic-relationship/ A trauma bond is a fear-based connection between abusers and victims. Combine that with the mental confusion of cognitive dissonance, and the victim is stuck.

In this podcast episode, we’ll examine why this powerful dynamic makes it so difficult to leave. We’ll also cover the five types of narcissists and the difference between overt and covert narcissism.


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]]> What's wrong with me? Why I can't I leave this toxic relationship? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:37:37 A trauma bond is a fear-based connection between abusers and victims. Combine that with the mental confusion of cognitive dissonance, and the victim is stuck. In this podcast episode, we’ll examine why this powerful dynamic makes it so difficult to leave. We’ll also cover the five types of narcissists and the difference between overt and covert narcissism. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collecti... A trauma bond is a fear-based connection between abusers and victims. Combine that with the mental confusion of cognitive dissonance, and the victim is stuck. In this podcast episode, we’ll examine why this powerful dynamic makes it so difficult to leave. We’ll also cover the five types of narcissists and the difference between overt and covert narcissism. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collecti... false full 39 a6b00192-5fed-43c2-bd8c-f0e9dc34e6d7 My partner tells me I'm the problem. How do I know I'm not being gaslit? Gaslighting has become a pretty popular term. Sometimes it’s used properly, but not always. Gaslighting, however, is a common experience of narcissistic abuse victims.

In this episode, we’ll discuss the history of gaslighting as well as how it shows up in toxic relationships. We’ll also touch on when does the first symptoms of narcissism make its appearance and how to address our children’s confusion about an uninvolved or missing parent.


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]]> Mon, 29 Aug 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/my-partner-tells-me-im-the-problem-how-do-i-know-im-not-being-gaslit/ Gaslighting has become a pretty popular term. Sometimes it’s used properly, but not always. Gaslighting, however, is a common experience of narcissistic abuse victims.

In this episode, we’ll discuss the history of gaslighting as well as how it shows up in toxic relationships. We’ll also touch on when does the first symptoms of narcissism make its appearance and how to address our children’s confusion about an uninvolved or missing parent.


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]]> My partner tells me I'm the problem. How do I know I'm not being gaslit? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:28:15 Gaslighting has become a pretty popular term. Sometimes it’s used properly, but not always. Gaslighting, however, is a common experience of narcissistic abuse victims. In this episode, we’ll discuss the history of gaslighting as well as how it shows up in toxic relationships. We’ll also touch on when does the first symptoms of narcissism make its appearance and how to address our children’s confusion about an uninvolved or missing parent. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Res... Gaslighting has become a pretty popular term. Sometimes it’s used properly, but not always. Gaslighting, however, is a common experience of narcissistic abuse victims. In this episode, we’ll discuss the history of gaslighting as well as how it shows up in toxic relationships. We’ll also touch on when does the first symptoms of narcissism make its appearance and how to address our children’s confusion about an uninvolved or missing parent. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Res... false full 38 bc3b99bd-19a6-4c5f-9b67-9148b0a46146 Is the term narcissism being overused? Aren't all of us a bit narcissistic? With the popularity of social media's focus on narcissism, are we overusing the term? Isn’t everyone a little bit narcissistic? In this episode, we will explore what defines pathological narcissism as well as how to deal with narcissistic loved ones and family members.


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]]> Thu, 25 Aug 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-the-term-narcissism-being-overused-arent-all-of-us-a-bit-narcissistic/ With the popularity of social media's focus on narcissism, are we overusing the term? Isn’t everyone a little bit narcissistic? In this episode, we will explore what defines pathological narcissism as well as how to deal with narcissistic loved ones and family members.


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]]> Is the term narcissism being overused? Aren't all of us a bit narcissistic? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:25:24 With the popularity of social media's focus on narcissism, are we overusing the term? Isn’t everyone a little bit narcissistic? In this episode, we will explore what defines pathological narcissism as well as how to deal with narcissistic loved ones and family members. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseT... With the popularity of social media's focus on narcissism, are we overusing the term? Isn’t everyone a little bit narcissistic? In this episode, we will explore what defines pathological narcissism as well as how to deal with narcissistic loved ones and family members. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseT... false full 37 c9ca825c-42c5-448a-bad1-56b4d6457fa0 The trauma bonding has me trapped, and I don't know how to leave! There’s nothing worse than knowing you’re in a bad relationship but can’t leave. What is a trauma bond, and why does it make acting on our behalf so difficult?

In this podcast episode, we’ll explore the role mental confusion and fear play in creating an intense bond with the one harming us.


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]]> Mon, 22 Aug 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/the-trauma-bonding-has-me-trapped-and-i-dont-know-how-to-leave/ There’s nothing worse than knowing you’re in a bad relationship but can’t leave. What is a trauma bond, and why does it make acting on our behalf so difficult?

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]]> The trauma bonding has me trapped, and I don't know how to leave! Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:29:11 There’s nothing worse than knowing you’re in a bad relationship but can’t leave. What is a trauma bond, and why does it make acting on our behalf so difficult? In this podcast episode, we’ll explore the role mental confusion and fear play in creating an intense bond with the one harming us. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self... There’s nothing worse than knowing you’re in a bad relationship but can’t leave. What is a trauma bond, and why does it make acting on our behalf so difficult? In this podcast episode, we’ll explore the role mental confusion and fear play in creating an intense bond with the one harming us. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self... false full 36 f21859f5-26b1-4d5c-a234-82a02ab7971d Can't a narcissist be changed by love or God? Most of the time, our everyday problem-solving skills work, but not for those stranded in toxic relationships. In this podcast episode, we will delve into why our love or spiritual intervention often doesn’t help.


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]]> Thu, 18 Aug 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/cant-a-narcissist-be-changed-by-love-or-god/ Most of the time, our everyday problem-solving skills work, but not for those stranded in toxic relationships. In this podcast episode, we will delve into why our love or spiritual intervention often doesn’t help.


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]]> Can't a narcissist be changed by love or God? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:29:47 Most of the time, our everyday problem-solving skills work, but not for those stranded in toxic relationships. In this podcast episode, we will delve into why our love or spiritual intervention often doesn’t help. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & communi... Most of the time, our everyday problem-solving skills work, but not for those stranded in toxic relationships. In this podcast episode, we will delve into why our love or spiritual intervention often doesn’t help. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & communi... false full 35 d5c429ab-3644-4568-a024-083700a82fc6 How I became confused and trapped because of cognitive dissonance I drove to my therapy appointment four years ago, praying and pleading for answers. Something was terribly wrong in my marriage. Should I stay? Or was I being naive for believing our relationship could be fixed?

In this podcast episode, I share more of my story and what I know now and wish I’d known then.


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]]> Mon, 15 Aug 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-i-became-confused-and-trapped-because-of-cognitive-dissonance/ I drove to my therapy appointment four years ago, praying and pleading for answers. Something was terribly wrong in my marriage. Should I stay? Or was I being naive for believing our relationship could be fixed?

In this podcast episode, I share more of my story and what I know now and wish I’d known then.


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]]> How I became confused and trapped because of cognitive dissonance Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:36:10 I drove to my therapy appointment four years ago, praying and pleading for answers. Something was terribly wrong in my marriage. Should I stay? Or was I being naive for believing our relationship could be fixed? In this podcast episode, I share more of my story and what I know now and wish I’d known then. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leavi... I drove to my therapy appointment four years ago, praying and pleading for answers. Something was terribly wrong in my marriage. Should I stay? Or was I being naive for believing our relationship could be fixed? In this podcast episode, I share more of my story and what I know now and wish I’d known then. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leavi... false full 34 dcdeb01c-a63a-418a-b2d6-0817fec20451 I know I should leave this toxic relationship but why can't I? What makes it so difficult to leave a toxic relationship? This question is the one I most frequently get asked. So why don’t those trapped in a narcissistically abusive relationship walk out? In this episode, we will discuss the underlying dynamics that make it challenging to end a toxic relationship.

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]]> Thu, 11 Aug 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/i-know-i-should-leave-this-toxic-relationship-but-why-cant-i/ What makes it so difficult to leave a toxic relationship? This question is the one I most frequently get asked. So why don’t those trapped in a narcissistically abusive relationship walk out? In this episode, we will discuss the underlying dynamics that make it challenging to end a toxic relationship.

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]]> I know I should leave this toxic relationship but why can't I? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:40:05 What makes it so difficult to leave a toxic relationship? This question is the one I most frequently get asked. So why don’t those trapped in a narcissistically abusive relationship walk out? In this episode, we will discuss the underlying dynamics that make it challenging to end a toxic relationship. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: On... What makes it so difficult to leave a toxic relationship? This question is the one I most frequently get asked. So why don’t those trapped in a narcissistically abusive relationship walk out? In this episode, we will discuss the underlying dynamics that make it challenging to end a toxic relationship. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: On... false full 33 c509df66-bed2-497d-8c47-958ad5ae36c2 Is all this talk about narcissism good? Isn't it demonizing hurting people? Is all of this focus on narcissism and narcissists productive? Isn’t it attacking a broken group of people? Could we be demonizing them?

In this episode, I tackle this tough topic, the difference between a mental condition and a personality disorder, how to recognize a toxic person on the first meeting, and what to do about a smear campaign.

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]]> Mon, 8 Aug 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-all-this-talk-about-narcissism-good-isnt-it-demonizing-hurting-people/ Is all of this focus on narcissism and narcissists productive? Isn’t it attacking a broken group of people? Could we be demonizing them?

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]]> Is all this talk about narcissism good? Isn't it demonizing hurting people? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:26:59 Is all of this focus on narcissism and narcissists productive? Isn’t it attacking a broken group of people? Could we be demonizing them? In this episode, I tackle this tough topic, the difference between a mental condition and a personality disorder, how to recognize a toxic person on the first meeting, and what to do about a smear campaign. Women Who Love Psychopaths by Sandra L. Brown Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appT... Is all of this focus on narcissism and narcissists productive? Isn’t it attacking a broken group of people? Could we be demonizing them? In this episode, I tackle this tough topic, the difference between a mental condition and a personality disorder, how to recognize a toxic person on the first meeting, and what to do about a smear campaign. Women Who Love Psychopaths by Sandra L. Brown Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appT... false full 32 5e3b5d44-d987-4670-9873-8e5c7f03d8bd How do I know I've healed enough from abuse to start dating again? Surviving narcissistic abuse is tough enough. How do we know when we are ready to start date again? What are the red flags we should watch out for so we don’t end up in another toxic relationship? In this episode, we will tackle this topic as well as the importance of learning to listen to your gut and why narcissists give such mixed signals.


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]]> Thu, 4 Aug 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-do-i-know-ive-healed-enough-from-abuse-to-start-dating-again/ Surviving narcissistic abuse is tough enough. How do we know when we are ready to start date again? What are the red flags we should watch out for so we don’t end up in another toxic relationship? In this episode, we will tackle this topic as well as the importance of learning to listen to your gut and why narcissists give such mixed signals.


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]]> How do I know I've healed enough from abuse to start dating again? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:26:43 Surviving narcissistic abuse is tough enough. How do we know when we are ready to start date again? What are the red flags we should watch out for so we don’t end up in another toxic relationship? In this episode, we will tackle this topic as well as the importance of learning to listen to your gut and why narcissists give such mixed signals. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissist... Surviving narcissistic abuse is tough enough. How do we know when we are ready to start date again? What are the red flags we should watch out for so we don’t end up in another toxic relationship? In this episode, we will tackle this topic as well as the importance of learning to listen to your gut and why narcissists give such mixed signals. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissist... false full 31 1d4445f2-ebca-4651-bb78-1c9b96e0857b Something is really wrong with this relationship, could I be the narcissist? When relationships start to go wrong, it’s common for us to wonder if we’re the problem. Especially if there’s been a string of failed relationships. In this replay of a TikTok live, we will take a closer look at this issue as well as discuss how to resolve a trauma bond and start our healing after narcissistic abuse.


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]]> Mon, 1 Aug 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/something-is-really-wrong-with-this-relationship-could-i-be-the-narcissist/ When relationships start to go wrong, it’s common for us to wonder if we’re the problem. Especially if there’s been a string of failed relationships. In this replay of a TikTok live, we will take a closer look at this issue as well as discuss how to resolve a trauma bond and start our healing after narcissistic abuse.


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]]> Something is really wrong with this relationship, could I be the narcissist? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:28:23 When relationships start to go wrong, it’s common for us to wonder if we’re the problem. Especially if there’s been a string of failed relationships. In this replay of a TikTok live, we will take a closer look at this issue as well as discuss how to resolve a trauma bond and start our healing after narcissistic abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst S... When relationships start to go wrong, it’s common for us to wonder if we’re the problem. Especially if there’s been a string of failed relationships. In this replay of a TikTok live, we will take a closer look at this issue as well as discuss how to resolve a trauma bond and start our healing after narcissistic abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst S... false full 30 bf9b2fe8-40c2-41f8-ac47-f6ad098a8aeb Help, I'm married to a narcissist and don't know how to get out Most of us slowly realize something is wrong in a relationship. We often think the problems are a normal part of a new relationship—we don’t consider that maybe the problem isn’t us but our partner. What should we do when we realize we are in a relationship with a narcissist? How do we get out? In this replay of a TikTok live, we will explore what to do when we feel stuck in a destructive relationship, why we gaslight victims instead of hold predators responsible for their behaviors, dealing with a gaslighting co-parent and a vengeful partner, and finally some discussion on using the Gray Rock technique.


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]]> Thu, 28 Jul 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/help-im-married-to-a-narcissist-and-dont-know-how-to-get-out/ Most of us slowly realize something is wrong in a relationship. We often think the problems are a normal part of a new relationship—we don’t consider that maybe the problem isn’t us but our partner. What should we do when we realize we are in a relationship with a narcissist? How do we get out? In this replay of a TikTok live, we will explore what to do when we feel stuck in a destructive relationship, why we gaslight victims instead of hold predators responsible for their behaviors, dealing with a gaslighting co-parent and a vengeful partner, and finally some discussion on using the Gray Rock technique.


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]]> Help, I'm married to a narcissist and don't know how to get out Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:33:30 Most of us slowly realize something is wrong in a relationship. We often think the problems are a normal part of a new relationship—we don’t consider that maybe the problem isn’t us but our partner. What should we do when we realize we are in a relationship with a narcissist? How do we get out? In this replay of a TikTok live, we will explore what to do when we feel stuck in a destructive relationship, why we gaslight victims instead of hold predators responsible for their behaviors, dealing ... Most of us slowly realize something is wrong in a relationship. We often think the problems are a normal part of a new relationship—we don’t consider that maybe the problem isn’t us but our partner. What should we do when we realize we are in a relationship with a narcissist? How do we get out? In this replay of a TikTok live, we will explore what to do when we feel stuck in a destructive relationship, why we gaslight victims instead of hold predators responsible for their behaviors, dealing ... false full 29 f54408cb-f38c-4d63-af27-aa70fa7ac1ed Is there something wrong with me for falling in love with a narcissist? Nearly every abuse survivor wants to know why they got into a relationship with a narcissist. Are we co-dependent, people-pleasers or could there be another dynamic in play?

In this episode we’ll talk about the latest research into this area as well as discuss the definition of marital coercion and how to grow empathy in our children.


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]]> Mon, 25 Jul 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-there-something-wrong-with-me-for-falling-in-love-with-a-narcissist/ Nearly every abuse survivor wants to know why they got into a relationship with a narcissist. Are we co-dependent, people-pleasers or could there be another dynamic in play?

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]]> Is there something wrong with me for falling in love with a narcissist? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:25:02 Nearly every abuse survivor wants to know why they got into a relationship with a narcissist. Are we co-dependent, people-pleasers or could there be another dynamic in play? In this episode we’ll talk about the latest research into this area as well as discuss the definition of marital coercion and how to grow empathy in our children. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse... Nearly every abuse survivor wants to know why they got into a relationship with a narcissist. Are we co-dependent, people-pleasers or could there be another dynamic in play? In this episode we’ll talk about the latest research into this area as well as discuss the definition of marital coercion and how to grow empathy in our children. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse... false full 28 35fb0177-50b7-4eb8-b9d5-c253067be672 Wondering if you met your soulmate? Here's how narcissists make us fall in love If narcissists are such awful people, why have so many fallen in love with one? It’s because of the mask. They create an illusion that you’ve met someone just like you. In this episode, we will explore how this happens along with other common narcissistic tactics in this replay of a TikTok live.

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]]> Thu, 21 Jul 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/wondering-if-you-met-your-soulmate-heres-how-narcissists-make-us-fall-in-love/ If narcissists are such awful people, why have so many fallen in love with one? It’s because of the mask. They create an illusion that you’ve met someone just like you. In this episode, we will explore how this happens along with other common narcissistic tactics in this replay of a TikTok live.

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]]> Wondering if you met your soulmate? Here's how narcissists make us fall in love Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:32:00 If narcissists are such awful people, why have so many fallen in love with one? It’s because of the mask. They create an illusion that you’ve met someone just like you. In this episode, we will explore how this happens along with other common narcissistic tactics in this replay of a TikTok live. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online s... If narcissists are such awful people, why have so many fallen in love with one? It’s because of the mask. They create an illusion that you’ve met someone just like you. In this episode, we will explore how this happens along with other common narcissistic tactics in this replay of a TikTok live. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online s... false full 27 a73db609-fdfc-43fb-9b19-83af09afbec5 I think this relationship is killing me. Why does it feel heartless to set boundaries? We often know something is terribly wrong with our relationship. Yet, many abuse survivors struggle to set boundaries. In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at why it’s challenging to do so for victims along with other topics, including how to help a friend who’s being abused and my post-trial thoughts on Amber Heard and Johnny Depp.

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]]> Mon, 18 Jul 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/i-think-this-relationship-is-killing-me-why-does-it-feel-heartless-to-set-boundaries/ We often know something is terribly wrong with our relationship. Yet, many abuse survivors struggle to set boundaries. In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at why it’s challenging to do so for victims along with other topics, including how to help a friend who’s being abused and my post-trial thoughts on Amber Heard and Johnny Depp.

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]]> I think this relationship is killing me. Why does it feel heartless to set boundaries? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:32:29 We often know something is terribly wrong with our relationship. Yet, many abuse survivors struggle to set boundaries. In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at why it’s challenging to do so for victims along with other topics, including how to help a friend who’s being abused and my post-trial thoughts on Amber Heard and Johnny Depp. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abus... We often know something is terribly wrong with our relationship. Yet, many abuse survivors struggle to set boundaries. In this episode, we’ll take a closer look at why it’s challenging to do so for victims along with other topics, including how to help a friend who’s being abused and my post-trial thoughts on Amber Heard and Johnny Depp. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abus... false full 26 331406e7-5e88-4abe-bda3-3c1c60056c77 Why can't I tell if I'm in a relationship with someone good or bad? Narcissistic abuse victims’ biggest complaint is the confusion. They can’t tell if they have partnered with someone who’s good or bad. In this episode, we’re going to explore what creates the narcissist’s dual sense of self.

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]]> Thu, 14 Jul 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D. & Tara Blair Ball, Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-cant-i-tell-if-im-in-a-relationship-with-someone-good-or-bad/ Narcissistic abuse victims’ biggest complaint is the confusion. They can’t tell if they have partnered with someone who’s good or bad. In this episode, we’re going to explore what creates the narcissist’s dual sense of self.

Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships by Dr. David Schnarch

NarcAvengers' Durham Meet-Up

Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship?

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Get your ticket to the Cognitive Dissonance Live Webinar with Dr. Kristen Milstead!

Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club!

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]]> Why can't I tell if I'm in a relationship with someone good or bad? Ph.D. & Tara Blair Ball, Kerry McAvoy 00:29:10 Narcissistic abuse victims’ biggest complaint is the confusion. They can’t tell if they have partnered with someone who’s good or bad. In this episode, we’re going to explore what creates the narcissist’s dual sense of self. Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships by Dr. David Schnarch NarcAvengers' Durham Meet-Up Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this is the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why ... Narcissistic abuse victims’ biggest complaint is the confusion. They can’t tell if they have partnered with someone who’s good or bad. In this episode, we’re going to explore what creates the narcissist’s dual sense of self. Passionate Marriage: Keeping Love and Intimacy Alive in Committed Relationships by Dr. David Schnarch NarcAvengers' Durham Meet-Up Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this is the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why ... false full 25 e7f7feac-60a0-460a-8b79-69d3c40a07bf If it’s that bad, why don’t narcissistic abuse victims just leave? It takes the average narcissistic victim an average of seven tries before they are able to leave. I contemplated abandoning the relationship for a long time before I finally was able to. Why are these toxic relationships so difficult to end?

As mention in this episode, here are the channels of Sam Vaknin and Dr. Ramani. Here are the books referred to: Something’s Not Right by Wade Mullen and Sandra Brown: Women Who Love Psychopaths


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]]> Mon, 11 Jul 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/if-its-that-bad-why-dont-narcissistic-abuse-victims-just-leave/ It takes the average narcissistic victim an average of seven tries before they are able to leave. I contemplated abandoning the relationship for a long time before I finally was able to. Why are these toxic relationships so difficult to end?

As mention in this episode, here are the channels of Sam Vaknin and Dr. Ramani. Here are the books referred to: Something’s Not Right by Wade Mullen and Sandra Brown: Women Who Love Psychopaths


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]]> If it’s that bad, why don’t narcissistic abuse victims just leave? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:22:09 It takes the average narcissistic victim an average of seven tries before they are able to leave. I contemplated abandoning the relationship for a long time before I finally was able to. Why are these toxic relationships so difficult to end? As mention in this episode, here are the channels of Sam Vaknin and Dr. Ramani. Here are the books referred to: Something’s Not Right by Wade Mullen and Sandra Brown: Women Who Love Psychopaths Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ... It takes the average narcissistic victim an average of seven tries before they are able to leave. I contemplated abandoning the relationship for a long time before I finally was able to. Why are these toxic relationships so difficult to end? As mention in this episode, here are the channels of Sam Vaknin and Dr. Ramani. Here are the books referred to: Something’s Not Right by Wade Mullen and Sandra Brown: Women Who Love Psychopaths Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ... false full 24 59335980-cb8a-4040-ac34-8c93e73b4211 Why is it so hard to please someone narcissistic? Am I the problem? Have you noticed how difficult it is to manage relationships with a narcissist? Why do things seem to go wrong? Could we be the problem hoping that they would change? What is the cognitive dissonance, the Marsha Mitchell effect, the mask of sanity? We will tackle this issue in a replay of a TikTok live.


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]]> Thu, 7 Jul 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-is-it-so-hard-to-please-someone-narcissistic-am-i-the-problem/ Have you noticed how difficult it is to manage relationships with a narcissist? Why do things seem to go wrong? Could we be the problem hoping that they would change? What is the cognitive dissonance, the Marsha Mitchell effect, the mask of sanity? We will tackle this issue in a replay of a TikTok live.


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]]> Why is it so hard to please someone narcissistic? Am I the problem? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:26:49 Have you noticed how difficult it is to manage relationships with a narcissist? Why do things seem to go wrong? Could we be the problem hoping that they would change? What is the cognitive dissonance, the Marsha Mitchell effect, the mask of sanity? We will tackle this issue in a replay of a TikTok live. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving... Have you noticed how difficult it is to manage relationships with a narcissist? Why do things seem to go wrong? Could we be the problem hoping that they would change? What is the cognitive dissonance, the Marsha Mitchell effect, the mask of sanity? We will tackle this issue in a replay of a TikTok live. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving... false full 23 b2ecfcdc-7e4f-47bf-9353-8ad3be4d3eea Do narcissists know they're hurting those who love them? Do they even care? Are narcissists aware they are hurting me? Why are they so ruthless? In this episode, we will take a closer look at the predatory nature of many narcissists and sociopaths.

Kolhberg's Theory of Moral Development

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LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross

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]]> Thu, 30 Jun 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. & Tara Blair Ball) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/do-narcissists-know-theyre-hurting-those-who-love-them-do-they-even-care/ Are narcissists aware they are hurting me? Why are they so ruthless? In this episode, we will take a closer look at the predatory nature of many narcissists and sociopaths.

Kolhberg's Theory of Moral Development

Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship?

Then this IS the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it renders us helpless in this upcoming live event, "Why Can't I Just Leave?" August 18, 6:30 p.m. EST

Be sure to get your ticket today!

Are you looking for community support after narcissistic abuse? Check out Dr. McAvoy's Toxic-Free Relationship Club!

Want to read a true story of narcissistic abuse?

LOVE YOU MORE: The Harrowing Tale of Lies, Sex Addiction, & Double Cross

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]]> Do narcissists know they're hurting those who love them? Do they even care? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. & Tara Blair Ball 00:29:10 Are narcissists aware they are hurting me? Why are they so ruthless? In this episode, we will take a closer look at the predatory nature of many narcissists and sociopaths. Kolhberg's Theory of Moral Development Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this IS the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it renders us helpless in this upcoming live event, "Why Can't I Just Leave?" August 18, 6:30 p.m. EST Be sure to get your ticket today! Are y... Are narcissists aware they are hurting me? Why are they so ruthless? In this episode, we will take a closer look at the predatory nature of many narcissists and sociopaths. Kolhberg's Theory of Moral Development Are you feeling trapped in a toxic relationship? Then this IS the event for you! Come hear Dr. Milstead define cognitive dissonance and why it renders us helpless in this upcoming live event, "Why Can't I Just Leave?" August 18, 6:30 p.m. EST Be sure to get your ticket today! Are y... false full 22 92c0e35d-1144-427d-9be5-a65cec114a99 What should I do when a narcissistic family member starts to make trouble? Do you have a narcissistic family member? Someone who frequently stirs up trouble? Or maybe they insist on doing things their way. What's the best way to navigate these tricky dysfunctional family relationships? We will be addressing this issue on this replay of a TikTok live.

Passive-Aggressive Compliment Video 

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]]> Mon, 27 Jun 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/what-should-i-do-when-a-narcissistic-family-member-starts-to-make-trouble/ Do you have a narcissistic family member? Someone who frequently stirs up trouble? Or maybe they insist on doing things their way. What's the best way to navigate these tricky dysfunctional family relationships? We will be addressing this issue on this replay of a TikTok live.

Passive-Aggressive Compliment Video 

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]]> What should I do when a narcissistic family member starts to make trouble? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:24:13 Do you have a narcissistic family member? Someone who frequently stirs up trouble? Or maybe they insist on doing things their way. What's the best way to navigate these tricky dysfunctional family relationships? We will be addressing this issue on this replay of a TikTok live. Passive-Aggressive Compliment Video Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Ste... Do you have a narcissistic family member? Someone who frequently stirs up trouble? Or maybe they insist on doing things their way. What's the best way to navigate these tricky dysfunctional family relationships? We will be addressing this issue on this replay of a TikTok live. Passive-Aggressive Compliment Video Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Ste... false full 21 ef8fe290-bde2-4f41-b1e1-9fa87c347940 To avoid being lovebombed by a narcissist, how much is too much to share? When we meet someone new how much should we share? Predatory people use basic details to create their mask during initial meetings. Should we be more careful in what we reveal to prevent lovebombing? In this episode we will discuss this and other topics on this replay of a TikTok live. 

Ego Strength video


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]]> Fri, 24 Jun 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/to-avoid-being-lovebombed-by-a-narcissist-how-much-is-too-much-to-share/ When we meet someone new how much should we share? Predatory people use basic details to create their mask during initial meetings. Should we be more careful in what we reveal to prevent lovebombing? In this episode we will discuss this and other topics on this replay of a TikTok live. 

Ego Strength video


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]]> To avoid being lovebombed by a narcissist, how much is too much to share? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:27:03 When we meet someone new how much should we share? Predatory people use basic details to create their mask during initial meetings. Should we be more careful in what we reveal to prevent lovebombing? In this episode we will discuss this and other topics on this replay of a TikTok live. Ego Strength video Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to ... When we meet someone new how much should we share? Predatory people use basic details to create their mask during initial meetings. Should we be more careful in what we reveal to prevent lovebombing? In this episode we will discuss this and other topics on this replay of a TikTok live. Ego Strength video Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to ... false full 20 66ad47e6-2abd-4748-9d8c-3f4f5d068021 Are narcissists different than the rest of us? Might they be evil? The latest research has found the brain of narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths to be different, causing them not to see the world differently. In this episode we will tackle this difficult topic, including if it's going too far to call narcissists' behavior evil. 


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]]> Mon, 20 Jun 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/are-narcissists-different-than-the-rest-of-us-might-they-be-evil/ The latest research has found the brain of narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths to be different, causing them not to see the world differently. In this episode we will tackle this difficult topic, including if it's going too far to call narcissists' behavior evil. 


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]]> Are narcissists different than the rest of us? Might they be evil? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:20:24 The latest research has found the brain of narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths to be different, causing them not to see the world differently. In this episode we will tackle this difficult topic, including if it's going too far to call narcissists' behavior evil. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital co... The latest research has found the brain of narcissists, sociopaths, and psychopaths to be different, causing them not to see the world differently. In this episode we will tackle this difficult topic, including if it's going too far to call narcissists' behavior evil. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital co... false full 19 1180241d-04c3-4ced-804a-3b1a33e1169a How could I be so stupid to have missed the red flags? Why did we miss the early warning signs that we've met a toxic person? It's common to blame ourselves for this mistake. Most of us, however, don't think to analyze a person's ego strength, but maybe we should. Let's take a closer look at issue in this episode of TikTok live replay.


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]]> Fri, 17 Jun 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/how-could-i-be-so-stupid-to-have-missed-the-red-flags/ Why did we miss the early warning signs that we've met a toxic person? It's common to blame ourselves for this mistake. Most of us, however, don't think to analyze a person's ego strength, but maybe we should. Let's take a closer look at issue in this episode of TikTok live replay.


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]]> How could I be so stupid to have missed the red flags? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:23:48 Why did we miss the early warning signs that we've met a toxic person? It's common to blame ourselves for this mistake. Most of us, however, don't think to analyze a person's ego strength, but maybe we should. Let's take a closer look at issue in this episode of TikTok live replay. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced di... Why did we miss the early warning signs that we've met a toxic person? It's common to blame ourselves for this mistake. Most of us, however, don't think to analyze a person's ego strength, but maybe we should. Let's take a closer look at issue in this episode of TikTok live replay. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced di... false full 18 67a3eae9-db0a-4e9f-a6a8-0528910d0143 Is it my fault that I'm trapped in a narcissistic abusive relationship? Are victims to blame for getting trapped in a narcissistic abusive relationship. And why do we struggle to hold healthy boundaries? These are a couple of the issues addressed in this podcast episode.


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]]> Mon, 13 Jun 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-it-my-fault-that-im-trapped-in-a-narcissistic-abusive-relationship/ Are victims to blame for getting trapped in a narcissistic abusive relationship. And why do we struggle to hold healthy boundaries? These are a couple of the issues addressed in this podcast episode.


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]]> Is it my fault that I'm trapped in a narcissistic abusive relationship? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:26:11 Are victims to blame for getting trapped in a narcissistic abusive relationship. And why do we struggle to hold healthy boundaries? These are a couple of the issues addressed in this podcast episode. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFoll... Are victims to blame for getting trapped in a narcissistic abusive relationship. And why do we struggle to hold healthy boundaries? These are a couple of the issues addressed in this podcast episode. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFoll... false full 17 780b5819-646d-439c-9e54-0310fc8d4ade What should I do if my children are protective of the toxic ex-parent? In this episode we will review Dr. Milstead's definition of narcissistic abuse along with address how to handle the tricky situation of co-parenting with a toxic parent. 


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]]> Mon, 6 Jun 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/what-should-i-do-if-my-children-are-protective-of-the-toxic-ex-parent/ In this episode we will review Dr. Milstead's definition of narcissistic abuse along with address how to handle the tricky situation of co-parenting with a toxic parent. 


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]]> What should I do if my children are protective of the toxic ex-parent? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:22:31 In this episode we will review Dr. Milstead's definition of narcissistic abuse along with address how to handle the tricky situation of co-parenting with a toxic parent. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeIns... In this episode we will review Dr. Milstead's definition of narcissistic abuse along with address how to handle the tricky situation of co-parenting with a toxic parent. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeIns... false full 16 015b8556-a213-44ac-93fd-004c5e3a4e78 Am I a narcissist if I want to be special? To have others understand me? How do we find support when we come from a narcissistic home? Is it wrong to want to be seen as special? These are the types of questions addressed in this podcast episode.

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]]> Fri, 3 Jun 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/am-i-a-narcissist-if-i-want-to-be-special-to-have-others-understand-me/ How do we find support when we come from a narcissistic home? Is it wrong to want to be seen as special? These are the types of questions addressed in this podcast episode.

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]]> Am I a narcissist if I want to be special? To have others understand me? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:24:23 How do we find support when we come from a narcissistic home? Is it wrong to want to be seen as special? These are the types of questions addressed in this podcast episode. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagra... How do we find support when we come from a narcissistic home? Is it wrong to want to be seen as special? These are the types of questions addressed in this podcast episode. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagra... false full 15 0198e557-113c-4cba-96b2-48f3291b527d Could this friendship be narcissistic or does abuse only happen in love relationships? Does narcissistic abuse only happen in love relationships or can it happen in other kinds of relationships or communities? Dr. McAvoy tackles this question in this episode.


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]]> Tue, 31 May 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/could-this-friendship-be-narcissistic-or-does-abuse-only-happen-in-love-relationships/ Does narcissistic abuse only happen in love relationships or can it happen in other kinds of relationships or communities? Dr. McAvoy tackles this question in this episode.


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]]> Could this friendship be narcissistic or does abuse only happen in love relationships? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:26:42 Does narcissistic abuse only happen in love relationships or can it happen in other kinds of relationships or communities? Dr. McAvoy tackles this question in this episode. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstag... Does narcissistic abuse only happen in love relationships or can it happen in other kinds of relationships or communities? Dr. McAvoy tackles this question in this episode. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstag... false full 14 6435106a-5a38-4847-b59e-661f8e592f99 What’s wrong with me that I can’t leave this toxic relationship? Why is it so hard to leave a toxic relationship? What does a trauma bond have to do with it? Dr. McAvoy addresses this issue in this episode. 


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]]> Fri, 27 May 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/whats-wrong-with-me-that-i-cant-leave-this-toxic-relationship/ Why is it so hard to leave a toxic relationship? What does a trauma bond have to do with it? Dr. McAvoy addresses this issue in this episode. 


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]]> What’s wrong with me that I can’t leave this toxic relationship? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:26:59 Why is it so hard to leave a toxic relationship? What does a trauma bond have to do with it? Dr. McAvoy addresses this issue in this episode. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFacebookKerry Ke... Why is it so hard to leave a toxic relationship? What does a trauma bond have to do with it? Dr. McAvoy addresses this issue in this episode. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFacebookKerry Ke... false full 13 cd9286fb-d5eb-4d47-afb9-4412d9f427c8 Could I be the one with the problem? Maybe I'm overreacting. Do you wonder if you're being too sensitive? Maybe you're overreacting to your partner's behavior. Perhaps you're the one with the problem. In this episode, Dr. McAvoy answers these and TikTok listeners' other questions about narcissism and narcissistic abuse.

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]]> Mon, 23 May 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/could-i-be-the-one-with-the-problem-maybe-im-overreacting/ Do you wonder if you're being too sensitive? Maybe you're overreacting to your partner's behavior. Perhaps you're the one with the problem. In this episode, Dr. McAvoy answers these and TikTok listeners' other questions about narcissism and narcissistic abuse.

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]]> Could I be the one with the problem? Maybe I'm overreacting. Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 01:01:39 Do you wonder if you're being too sensitive? Maybe you're overreacting to your partner's behavior. Perhaps you're the one with the problem. In this episode, Dr. McAvoy answers these and TikTok listeners' other questions about narcissism and narcissistic abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free R... Do you wonder if you're being too sensitive? Maybe you're overreacting to your partner's behavior. Perhaps you're the one with the problem. In this episode, Dr. McAvoy answers these and TikTok listeners' other questions about narcissism and narcissistic abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free R... false full 12 5ce87ffb-6d91-40e9-82c0-6d73ca7a67b1 My narcissistic partner says they're working hard to change. Am I silly to believe them? Do narcissists change? What realizable expectations should we have? In this episode, we will address this question along with other listener-related concerns.


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]]> Fri, 20 May 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/my-narcissistic-partner-says-theyre-working-hard-to-change-am-i-silly-to-believe-them/ Do narcissists change? What realizable expectations should we have? In this episode, we will address this question along with other listener-related concerns.


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]]> My narcissistic partner says they're working hard to change. Am I silly to believe them? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:59:53 Do narcissists change? What realizable expectations should we have? In this episode, we will address this question along with other listener-related concerns. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFaceb... Do narcissists change? What realizable expectations should we have? In this episode, we will address this question along with other listener-related concerns. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFaceb... false full 11 2fe55784-90f2-43db-b9b0-dde27e5ef3bc Help! My ex is using the legal system to abuse me! Narcissistic abuse doesn't end when the relationship is over. Many narcissistic exes find new ways to abuse their former partners, including using the legal system. In this episode of a TikTok live replay, we will explore how to protect yourself better, along with addressing other listeners' questions. 

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]]> Mon, 16 May 2022 14:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/help-my-ex-is-using-the-legal-system-to-abuse-me/ Narcissistic abuse doesn't end when the relationship is over. Many narcissistic exes find new ways to abuse their former partners, including using the legal system. In this episode of a TikTok live replay, we will explore how to protect yourself better, along with addressing other listeners' questions. 

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]]> Help! My ex is using the legal system to abuse me! Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:52:28 Narcissistic abuse doesn't end when the relationship is over. Many narcissistic exes find new ways to abuse their former partners, including using the legal system. In this episode of a TikTok live replay, we will explore how to protect yourself better, along with addressing other listeners' questions. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leav... Narcissistic abuse doesn't end when the relationship is over. Many narcissistic exes find new ways to abuse their former partners, including using the legal system. In this episode of a TikTok live replay, we will explore how to protect yourself better, along with addressing other listeners' questions. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leav... false full 10 e5c8cd62-b318-47e2-9447-c562388948a9 I’m stressed and overwhelmed--is this cognitive dissonance? What is cognitive dissonance? Victims of narcissistic abuse complain that they are in agonizing pain due to this psychological state. In this episode, we'll take a closer look at this psychological concept along with answering other TikTok audiences' questions. 


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]]> Fri, 13 May 2022 19:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/im-stressed-and-overwhelmed-is-this-cognitive-dissonance/ What is cognitive dissonance? Victims of narcissistic abuse complain that they are in agonizing pain due to this psychological state. In this episode, we'll take a closer look at this psychological concept along with answering other TikTok audiences' questions. 


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]]> I’m stressed and overwhelmed--is this cognitive dissonance? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:57:22 What is cognitive dissonance? Victims of narcissistic abuse complain that they are in agonizing pain due to this psychological state. In this episode, we'll take a closer look at this psychological concept along with answering other TikTok audiences' questions. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseTox... What is cognitive dissonance? Victims of narcissistic abuse complain that they are in agonizing pain due to this psychological state. In this episode, we'll take a closer look at this psychological concept along with answering other TikTok audiences' questions. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseTox... false full 9 0882b3f3-dcfd-4e55-b6f4-e9210294ca2d Am I co-dependent if I've fallen for a narcissist? Have you wondered what's wrong with you for falling for a narcissist? Listen as we discuss this along with other topics related to narcissistic abuse.


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]]> Mon, 9 May 2022 19:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/am-i-co-dependent-if-ive-fallen-for-a-narcissist/ Have you wondered what's wrong with you for falling for a narcissist? Listen as we discuss this along with other topics related to narcissistic abuse.


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]]> Am I co-dependent if I've fallen for a narcissist? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 01:06:21 Have you wondered what's wrong with you for falling for a narcissist? Listen as we discuss this along with other topics related to narcissistic abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFacebookKerry... Have you wondered what's wrong with you for falling for a narcissist? Listen as we discuss this along with other topics related to narcissistic abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFacebookKerry... false full 8 807bcf0c-5192-415f-8c6e-0e13a79096ef Who's more narcissistic: men or women? In this episode, we will explore the gender differences among NPD, define what is a narcissistic discard, and identify the early signs of grooming. 


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]]> Fri, 6 May 2022 19:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/whos-more-narcissistic-men-or-women/ In this episode, we will explore the gender differences among NPD, define what is a narcissistic discard, and identify the early signs of grooming. 


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]]> Who's more narcissistic: men or women? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 01:09:12 In this episode, we will explore the gender differences among NPD, define what is a narcissistic discard, and identify the early signs of grooming. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFacebookKe... In this episode, we will explore the gender differences among NPD, define what is a narcissistic discard, and identify the early signs of grooming. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFacebookKe... false full 7 60e2491e-297d-4e68-b5d2-45e3dd8032e9 Is this “thing” I feel what's called a trauma bond? In this episode, we take a closer look at trauma bonds as well as explore several excellent resources on understanding the ins & outs of toxic relationships. 


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]]> Mon, 2 May 2022 19:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-this-thing-i-feel-whats-called-a-trauma-bond/ In this episode, we take a closer look at trauma bonds as well as explore several excellent resources on understanding the ins & outs of toxic relationships. 


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]]> Is this “thing” I feel what's called a trauma bond? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 01:06:59 In this episode, we take a closer look at trauma bonds as well as explore several excellent resources on understanding the ins & outs of toxic relationships. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTi... In this episode, we take a closer look at trauma bonds as well as explore several excellent resources on understanding the ins & outs of toxic relationships. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTi... false full 6 53a4b408-25c8-45e9-9f36-42dffd4be9c8 Is this relationship asking too much of me? What's reasonable to expect from a relationship? How do you know when you're giving too much of yourself or doing too much for another person? Listen in as we explore these and other questions in today's episode. 


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]]> Fri, 29 Apr 2022 19:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/is-this-relationship-asking-too-much-of-me/ What's reasonable to expect from a relationship? How do you know when you're giving too much of yourself or doing too much for another person? Listen in as we explore these and other questions in today's episode. 


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]]> Is this relationship asking too much of me? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:55:47 What's reasonable to expect from a relationship? How do you know when you're giving too much of yourself or doing too much for another person? Listen in as we explore these and other questions in today's episode. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & co... What's reasonable to expect from a relationship? How do you know when you're giving too much of yourself or doing too much for another person? Listen in as we explore these and other questions in today's episode. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & co... false full 5 0c7d3518-5e53-4330-b36c-8e6a00e4519b Why can't I relax after surviving narcissistic abuse? Are you struggling to slow down, unwind, and relax? Are you easily startled? These are signs of an overexcited nervous system and common after narcissistic abuse. 


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]]> Mon, 25 Apr 2022 19:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/why-cant-i-relax-after-surviving-narcissistic-abuse/ Are you struggling to slow down, unwind, and relax? Are you easily startled? These are signs of an overexcited nervous system and common after narcissistic abuse. 


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]]> Why can't I relax after surviving narcissistic abuse? Ph.D., Kerry McAvoy 00:53:39 Are you struggling to slow down, unwind, and relax? Are you easily startled? These are signs of an overexcited nervous system and common after narcissistic abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramT... Are you struggling to slow down, unwind, and relax? Are you easily startled? These are signs of an overexcited nervous system and common after narcissistic abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramT... false full 4 ac3f130f-f54e-4d5f-8390-40a4daee6dc5 What? I have basic emotional rights? Did you know you have basic emotional rights? Today, we explore an emotional Bill of Rights created by Dr. Lindsay Gibson. You can find a copy of those rights in her book called Self Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. 


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]]> Fri, 22 Apr 2022 19:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/what-i-have-basic-emotional-rights/ Did you know you have basic emotional rights? Today, we explore an emotional Bill of Rights created by Dr. Lindsay Gibson. You can find a copy of those rights in her book called Self Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. 


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]]> What? I have basic emotional rights? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 01:07:14 Did you know you have basic emotional rights? Today, we explore an emotional Bill of Rights created by Dr. Lindsay Gibson. You can find a copy of those rights in her book called Self Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship C... Did you know you have basic emotional rights? Today, we explore an emotional Bill of Rights created by Dr. Lindsay Gibson. You can find a copy of those rights in her book called Self Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship C... false full 3 7f3d4f6c-63de-435a-80bf-5027d06b40f0 Are you being groomed by a narcissist? In this episode Dr. McAvoy addresses many issues, including the process of how narcissists groom their next victim.


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]]> Mon, 18 Apr 2022 19:00:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/are-you-being-groomed-by-a-narcissist/ In this episode Dr. McAvoy addresses many issues, including the process of how narcissists groom their next victim.


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]]> Are you being groomed by a narcissist? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 01:18:28 In this episode Dr. McAvoy addresses many issues, including the process of how narcissists groom their next victim. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFacebookKerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D, a retired psych... In this episode Dr. McAvoy addresses many issues, including the process of how narcissists groom their next victim. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFacebookKerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D, a retired psych... false full 2 f3af23d6-1447-47c1-8c8f-d5ef0574ea18 Managing Healthy Boundaries: What are They? In this episode, we discuss boundaries in narcissistic abuse. 


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]]> Fri, 15 Apr 2022 03:34:00 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/managing-healthy-boundaries-what-are-they/ In this episode, we discuss boundaries in narcissistic abuse. 


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]]> Managing Healthy Boundaries: What are They? Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D. 00:54:43 In this episode, we discuss boundaries in narcissistic abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFacebookKerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D, a retired psychologist & author, is an expert on cultivatin... In this episode, we discuss boundaries in narcissistic abuse. Submit your question to be answered on air here! Resources ReclaimYou: Dr. Kerry's AI-powered coaching appThe Complete Recovery Collection: Narcissistic abuse resourcesFirst Steps to Leaving: Online self-paced digital courseToxic-Free Relationship Club: Live coaching & community supportFollow Dr. Kerry! YoutubeInstagramTikTokFacebookKerry Kerr McAvoy, Ph.D, a retired psychologist & author, is an expert on cultivatin... false full 1 63fe915b-f361-4e95-bf63-b0fd11da32d1 Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse (Trailer) Trailer for Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse podcast

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]]> Thu, 14 Apr 2022 03:34:47 +0000 hello@breakingfreenarcissisticabuse.com (Kerry McAvoy, Ph.D.) https://bleav.com/shows/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse/episodes/breaking-free-from-narcissistic-abuse-trailer/ Trailer for Breaking Free from Narcissistic Abuse podcast

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