https://simplecast.com What Am I Missing? Men in conversation, examining what the world has taught us about being men, and how we can do better. Your hosts Max and Shervin explore topics they come across in their work and everyday lives, bringing in the occasional guest to dig deeper and go further. Learn more or get in touch at whatamimissing.fm 2021 What Am I Missing? en Fri, 2 Sep 2022 16:54:44 +0000 Tue, 13 Sep 2022 19:32:28 +0000 https://www.whatamimissing.fm/ What Am I Missing? https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/bd8a37e1-e90c-4386-b797-4c86ac9d571b/202dc631-244a-45ff-aa85-e115e2a6a04c/3000x3000/whatamimissing-02.jpg?aid=rss_feed https://www.whatamimissing.fm/ episodic Men in conversation, examining what the world has taught us about being men, and how we can do better. Your hosts Max and Shervin explore topics they come across in their work and everyday lives, bringing in the occasional guest to dig deeper and go further. Learn more or get in touch at whatamimissing.fm Shervin Talieh, Max Velasco Knott no https://feeds.simplecast.com/JlIl5Z74 feminism, misogyny, sexism, missing, patriarchy, men, conversation, post-masculinity Shervin Talieh & Max Velasco Knott contact@whatamimissing.fm 5bfe71fc-7886-4607-acd0-d35130c8fcc0 Boundaries “Opinions are like assholes …” - Goodreads

Duty Calls - XKCD

R-Words: Refusing Research - Eve Tuck and K. Wayne Yang

The Feeling Wheel

Slapping incident

We Have The Right To Not Be Annoyed - Ijeoma Oluo

Life’s Kitchen

Listen Like You Mean It - Ximena Vengoechea

]]> Fri, 2 Sep 2022 16:54:44 +0000 contact@whatamimissing.fm (Max Velasco Knott, Shervin Talieh) https://www.whatamimissing.fm/ “Opinions are like assholes …” - Goodreads

Duty Calls - XKCD

R-Words: Refusing Research - Eve Tuck and K. Wayne Yang

The Feeling Wheel

Slapping incident

We Have The Right To Not Be Annoyed - Ijeoma Oluo

Life’s Kitchen

Listen Like You Mean It - Ximena Vengoechea

]]> Boundaries Max Velasco Knott, Shervin Talieh 00:36:34 Max and Shervin talk about boundaries, the Oscars, sharing feelings, and unsolicited opinions. Max and Shervin talk about boundaries, the Oscars, sharing feelings, and unsolicited opinions. sexism, men, boundaries, women, misogyny no full 8 5c3096ef-9778-46fd-a15f-afc9a3afc941 International Women’s Day International Women’s Day

Gender Pay Gap Bot

Francesca Lawson - Copywriter / social media manager, strategist behind the Gender Pay Gap Bot

Ali Fensome - Software consultant, data and tech for the Gender Pay Gap Bot

Gender discrimination in comes in many forms for today’s working women, Pew Research Center

Betty Friedan

Kate Millett

Bella Abzug

National Organization for Women (N.O.W.)

The New School

Lois Forbes

The On Misogyny Project

Telepath (now retired)

Shefaly Yogendra, PhD

What Am I Missing? - “How to Run a Feminist Company”

How to run a feminist company - Quartz

]]> Fri, 2 Sep 2022 16:46:47 +0000 contact@whatamimissing.fm (Max Velasco Knott, Shervin Talieh) https://www.whatamimissing.fm/ International Women’s Day

Gender Pay Gap Bot

Francesca Lawson - Copywriter / social media manager, strategist behind the Gender Pay Gap Bot

Ali Fensome - Software consultant, data and tech for the Gender Pay Gap Bot

Gender discrimination in comes in many forms for today’s working women, Pew Research Center

Betty Friedan

Kate Millett

Bella Abzug

National Organization for Women (N.O.W.)

The New School

Lois Forbes

The On Misogyny Project

Telepath (now retired)

Shefaly Yogendra, PhD

What Am I Missing? - “How to Run a Feminist Company”

How to run a feminist company - Quartz

]]> International Women’s Day Max Velasco Knott, Shervin Talieh 00:20:06 Max and Shervin reflect on International Women’s Day, and recognize the women that have left a significant impact on their lives. Max and Shervin reflect on International Women’s Day, and recognize the women that have left a significant impact on their lives. sexism, men, women, equality, misogyny no full 7 90b3f408-fc98-4b78-8f45-29efc40dc9a8 Therapy Naomi Osaka: 'It's O.K. Not to Be O.K.’

'A deep depression after the Olympics.' The challenges facing athletes at home

Norris on why he's 'happy and confident' to be a mental health pioneer in Formula 1

Michael Phelps, The Weight of Gold

Michael Phelps says his mental health has been 'scarier than it's ever been' during the pandemic. Here's how he's coped.

Talkspace

Terrence Real, I Don't Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression

Humanistic and Existential Therapies (EHT)

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR)

Psilocybin

MDMA

Alcoholics Anonymous

 

Connect with us at contact@whatamimissing.fm and online at whatamimissing.fm.

]]> Tue, 22 Mar 2022 16:10:46 +0000 contact@whatamimissing.fm (Shervin Talieh, Max Velasco Knott) https://www.whatamimissing.fm/ Naomi Osaka: 'It's O.K. Not to Be O.K.’

'A deep depression after the Olympics.' The challenges facing athletes at home

Norris on why he's 'happy and confident' to be a mental health pioneer in Formula 1

Michael Phelps, The Weight of Gold

Michael Phelps says his mental health has been 'scarier than it's ever been' during the pandemic. Here's how he's coped.

Talkspace

Terrence Real, I Don't Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression

Humanistic and Existential Therapies (EHT)

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR)

Psilocybin

MDMA

Alcoholics Anonymous

 

Connect with us at contact@whatamimissing.fm and online at whatamimissing.fm.

]]> Therapy Shervin Talieh, Max Velasco Knott 00:40:09 Max and Shervin discuss their experiences with therapy, what they’ve learned, and what they recommend for others. Max and Shervin discuss their experiences with therapy, what they’ve learned, and what they recommend for others. men, therapy no full 6 eb72e684-d84a-472e-9f22-8ccceb1611b3 Identity and Intersectionality Kimberlé Crenshaw - Columbia Law School https://www.law.columbia.edu/faculty/kimberle-w-crenshaw

The intersectionality wars - Vox https://www.vox.com/the-highlight/2019/5/20/18542843/intersectionality-conservatism-law-race-gender-discrimination

Cisgender and Straight Don’t Mean the Same Thing - Healthline https://www.healthline.com/health/cisgender-vs-straight

Iranian Revolution - Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iranian_Revolution

The UNtraining https://untraining.org/groups/wlr

Silence is talk: Conversational silence in Australian Aboriginal talk-in-interaction https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S037821660800297X?via%3Dihub

]]> Mon, 7 Feb 2022 22:34:51 +0000 contact@whatamimissing.fm (Max Velasco Knott, Shervin Talieh) https://www.whatamimissing.fm/ Kimberlé Crenshaw - Columbia Law School https://www.law.columbia.edu/faculty/kimberle-w-crenshaw

The intersectionality wars - Vox https://www.vox.com/the-highlight/2019/5/20/18542843/intersectionality-conservatism-law-race-gender-discrimination

Cisgender and Straight Don’t Mean the Same Thing - Healthline https://www.healthline.com/health/cisgender-vs-straight

Iranian Revolution - Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Iranian_Revolution

The UNtraining https://untraining.org/groups/wlr

Silence is talk: Conversational silence in Australian Aboriginal talk-in-interaction https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S037821660800297X?via%3Dihub

]]> Identity and Intersectionality Max Velasco Knott, Shervin Talieh 00:32:18 Max and Shervin discuss some perspectives on identity, intersectionality, why they’re doing this show, and what they hope to achieve by having these conversations. Max and Shervin discuss some perspectives on identity, intersectionality, why they’re doing this show, and what they hope to achieve by having these conversations. intersectionality, kimberle crenshaw, identity no full 5 1b5442c6-5478-4d36-bae9-f98c56f731a7 Consent with Keyon Talieh Consent Tea - YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQbei5JGiT8

#MeToo Movement - Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/MeToo_movement

Consent - A VICE on HBO Special Report - YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DhFyGz8wQaY

Isobel Yeung - Twitter https://twitter.com/isobelyeung

Sexual Consent + FRIES - Planned Parenthood https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/relationships/sexual-consent

ConsentAwareness.net + #FGKIA https://consentawareness.net

Joyce Short - TEDx Talks - YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=imr5ZiAY_ao

Marital rape - Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marital_rape

]]> Mon, 7 Feb 2022 22:20:56 +0000 contact@whatamimissing.fm (Max Velasco Knott, Shervin Talieh) https://www.whatamimissing.fm/ Consent Tea - YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oQbei5JGiT8

#MeToo Movement - Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/MeToo_movement

Consent - A VICE on HBO Special Report - YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DhFyGz8wQaY

Isobel Yeung - Twitter https://twitter.com/isobelyeung

Sexual Consent + FRIES - Planned Parenthood https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/relationships/sexual-consent

ConsentAwareness.net + #FGKIA https://consentawareness.net

Joyce Short - TEDx Talks - YouTube https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=imr5ZiAY_ao

Marital rape - Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marital_rape

]]> Consent with Keyon Talieh Max Velasco Knott, Shervin Talieh 00:31:27 Max and Shervin discuss “consent” with Shervin’s son, Keyon, representing three different generations of experiences. Max and Shervin discuss “consent” with Shervin’s son, Keyon, representing three different generations of experiences. sex, metoo, me too, isobel young, consent no full 4 35397fad-b186-48b8-a313-bfd7f45f0dc1 Centering Exploring “Ted Lasso”, thoughts on “centering”, AOC at the MET, and feeling uncomfortable. A segment, “Not as woke as I thought I was."

 

Ted Lasso - Apple TV

On Misogyny: The Interviews - Masarat Daud

On Misogyny: The Interviews - Eileen Chow

What Am I Missing? - Episode 1

Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez Sent a Message With Her First Met Gala Appearance - Vogue

Woman Attacks Muhammed Ali's Character as Arrogant - YouTube

Douglas Adams - Quotable Quote - Goodreads

 

]]> Tue, 30 Nov 2021 15:08:42 +0000 contact@whatamimissing.fm (Shervin Talieh, Max Velasco Knott) https://www.whatamimissing.fm/ Exploring “Ted Lasso”, thoughts on “centering”, AOC at the MET, and feeling uncomfortable. A segment, “Not as woke as I thought I was."

 

Ted Lasso - Apple TV

On Misogyny: The Interviews - Masarat Daud

On Misogyny: The Interviews - Eileen Chow

What Am I Missing? - Episode 1

Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez Sent a Message With Her First Met Gala Appearance - Vogue

Woman Attacks Muhammed Ali's Character as Arrogant - YouTube

Douglas Adams - Quotable Quote - Goodreads

 

]]> Centering Shervin Talieh, Max Velasco Knott 00:41:19 Exploring “Ted Lasso”, thoughts on “centering”, AOC at the MET, and feeling uncomfortable. A segment, “Not as woke as I thought I was." Exploring “Ted Lasso”, thoughts on “centering”, AOC at the MET, and feeling uncomfortable. A segment, “Not as woke as I thought I was." sexism, men, woke, centering, missing, misogyny, ted lasso yes full 3 bba39787-0268-4748-9cd9-a4897ad8bf98 Cancel Culture A conversation that starts with game shows, explores Mike Richards becoming then stepping down as host, and discusses different sides of “cancel culture”.

The Price is Right - The Best Contestant Ever 

LeVar Burton - Growing Up Reading & His Dreams of Hosting “Jeopardy!” 

Mayim Bialik - Mayim Bialik Fans Are Going to Freak Out Over This Exciting 'Jeopardy!’ News - Good Housekeeping

Mike Richards - How journalism saved ‘Jeopardy!’ from an unworthy host after an utter failure of corporate vetting - The Washington Post

Cancel Culture - Wikipedia

Louis CK - Louis C.K. Is Accused by 5 Women of Sexual Misconduct - The New York Times

Louie - Bang Bang - YouTube

Adam Baldwin - Involvement in Gamergate - Wikipedia

Firefly - Metacritic

Gamergate - The Only Guide to Gamergate You Will Ever Need to Read - The Washington Post

Brianna Wu and the human cost of Gamergate: 'every woman I know in the industry is scared’ - The Guardian

Zoë Quinn: 'All Gamergate has done is ruin people's lives’ - The Guardian

Anita Sarkeesian: ‘It’s frustrating to be known as the woman who survived #Gamergate’ - The Guardian

Feminist Frequency

Trump's Access Hollywood Tape - The Moment That Should Have Changed Everything - Slate

The Case of Al Franken - The New Yorker 

What Am I Missing? - Episode 1

Monica Lewinsky - Wikipedia

ALOK: The Urgent Need for Compassion - YouTube

Gov. Andrew Cuomo resigns over sexual harassment allegations - Associated Press

]]> Tue, 30 Nov 2021 15:08:30 +0000 contact@whatamimissing.fm (Shervin Talieh, Max Velasco Knott) https://www.whatamimissing.fm/ A conversation that starts with game shows, explores Mike Richards becoming then stepping down as host, and discusses different sides of “cancel culture”.

The Price is Right - The Best Contestant Ever 

LeVar Burton - Growing Up Reading & His Dreams of Hosting “Jeopardy!” 

Mayim Bialik - Mayim Bialik Fans Are Going to Freak Out Over This Exciting 'Jeopardy!’ News - Good Housekeeping

Mike Richards - How journalism saved ‘Jeopardy!’ from an unworthy host after an utter failure of corporate vetting - The Washington Post

Cancel Culture - Wikipedia

Louis CK - Louis C.K. Is Accused by 5 Women of Sexual Misconduct - The New York Times

Louie - Bang Bang - YouTube

Adam Baldwin - Involvement in Gamergate - Wikipedia

Firefly - Metacritic

Gamergate - The Only Guide to Gamergate You Will Ever Need to Read - The Washington Post

Brianna Wu and the human cost of Gamergate: 'every woman I know in the industry is scared’ - The Guardian

Zoë Quinn: 'All Gamergate has done is ruin people's lives’ - The Guardian

Anita Sarkeesian: ‘It’s frustrating to be known as the woman who survived #Gamergate’ - The Guardian

Feminist Frequency

Trump's Access Hollywood Tape - The Moment That Should Have Changed Everything - Slate

The Case of Al Franken - The New Yorker 

What Am I Missing? - Episode 1

Monica Lewinsky - Wikipedia

ALOK: The Urgent Need for Compassion - YouTube

Gov. Andrew Cuomo resigns over sexual harassment allegations - Associated Press

]]> Cancel Culture Shervin Talieh, Max Velasco Knott 00:38:58 A conversation that starts with game shows, explores Mike Richards becoming then stepping down as host, and discusses different sides of “cancel culture”. A conversation that starts with game shows, explores Mike Richards becoming then stepping down as host, and discusses different sides of “cancel culture”. sexism, men, missing, cancel culture, misogyny yes full 2 8eeb05b1-8f7c-428e-9dde-84ba7e6189b8 How to Run a Feminist Company Max and Shervin discuss an article by Lila MacLellan called, “How to run a feminist company”, where the author interviews M. Gloria González-Morales, an organizational psychologist at Claremont Graduate University.

Topics explored include workplace culture, fear and scarcity, our relationships with anger and shame, and what we can do differently.

 

How to run a feminist company

M. Gloria Gonzalez-Morales

Glengarry Glen Ross - Always Be Closing

Alok Vaid-Menon: The Urgent Need for Compassion (The Man Enough Podcast)

Learn more or contact us at whatamimissing.fm

]]> Wed, 3 Nov 2021 17:45:18 +0000 contact@whatamimissing.fm (Max Velasco Knott, Shervin Talieh) https://www.whatamimissing.fm/ Max and Shervin discuss an article by Lila MacLellan called, “How to run a feminist company”, where the author interviews M. Gloria González-Morales, an organizational psychologist at Claremont Graduate University.

Topics explored include workplace culture, fear and scarcity, our relationships with anger and shame, and what we can do differently.

 

How to run a feminist company

M. Gloria Gonzalez-Morales

Glengarry Glen Ross - Always Be Closing

Alok Vaid-Menon: The Urgent Need for Compassion (The Man Enough Podcast)

Learn more or contact us at whatamimissing.fm

]]> How to Run a Feminist Company Max Velasco Knott, Shervin Talieh 00:37:58 Discussing “How to run a feminist company” on Quartz. Max and Shervin explore workplace culture, fear and scarcity, our relationships with anger and shame, and what can be done differently. Discussing “How to run a feminist company” on Quartz. Max and Shervin explore workplace culture, fear and scarcity, our relationships with anger and shame, and what can be done differently. sexism, men, alok vaid-menon, feminism, post-masculinity, misogyny no full 1