Cookies and Cream

Yearning for something real.

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Tue, 2 Mar 2021 17:12:57 +0000

A lot has happened in our lives since last September. We dive into some of that and talk about our desire for something deeper in Christ. Warning this episode is just 2 people who love Jesus keeping it real, so if you don't want real talk this may not be for you.

Episode 034 Before you unfriend everyone

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 19 Jun 2020 04:30:25 +0000

Hyper politicization. Fractures in the church. Brokenness rearing its ugly head. We talk about how we need to be led by Jesus in how we are responding to one another about. We aren't called to unfriend everyone who disagrees with us. We are not called to hate our enemy.

Episode 033 A lot has happened

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Mon, 15 Jun 2020 17:57:23 +0000

In this episode, we talk about how we have been processing the Black Live Matter movement around the globe and how difficult it can be to be brutally honest in the environment we live in.

Episode 032 Is toxic positivity a thing?

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Mon, 20 Apr 2020 05:30:07 +0000

We talk about being positive. How we're experiencing it and how grace can look different in this season. We also dive into what it looks like to rejoice with those who are rejoicing when you're mourning.

Episode 031 Is this God?

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Mon, 13 Apr 2020 14:08:31 +0000

We talk about our reactions to Covid-19 and the questions we all asked in one way or another... Is this God? Where is God?

Episode 030 Redefining failure.

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 14 Jun 2019 04:31:47 +0000

Is the fear of failure stopping you from being everything God has called you to be? Is failure keeping you in a state of constant guilt and shame? Well listen as we try to redefine failure and find freedom.

Episode 029 The problem with "You do you."

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 7 Jun 2019 03:00:09 +0000

We explore the problem with the phrase you do you and what we are really saying when say that.

Episode 028 Self-image Part 2.

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 17 May 2019 14:09:53 +0000

We revisit our most popular episode and talk about self-image.

Episode 027 The court of public opinion .

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 3 May 2019 04:23:49 +0000

Hear our thoughts on the court of public opinion. Social media shaming and why we don't like redemption stories.

Episode 026 Divorce.

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 12 Apr 2019 02:48:29 +0000

In this episode we tackle the tough topic... Divorce. Listen in and share your thoughts with us!

Episode 025 Liar, Liar!!

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 5 Apr 2019 04:32:02 +0000

We dive into telling lies and how destructive that habit can be... Even little white lies count!

Episode 024 Self image.

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 1 Mar 2019 03:02:00 +0000

Do you struggle with how you look? Are you okay with how you look and just want to look better? Is Botox a no-no for Christians? Listen in and let us know what you think!

Episode 023 Dealing with rejection

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 22 Feb 2019 03:19:42 +0000

Rejection is hard. Either you've been rejected or rejected someone. How do we tackle this beast and get over our fear of it to live the life we were meant to live.

Episode 022 Unanswered prayer, Fyre festival and Scott's Tot's.

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 8 Feb 2019 02:29:33 +0000

We dive into living through broken promises talk a bit about the Fyre fest and living in the space of unanswered prayer.

Episode 021 Should Christians watch R rated movies?

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 1 Feb 2019 03:18:15 +0000

Well, we pretty much bash the Bachelor for like 45 minutes... Just kidding! Listen in as we talk about convictions, culturally assimilated Jesus and the effects of what we consume.

Episode 020 When things get dark but God is good.

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 25 Jan 2019 05:19:40 +0000

How do you balance the reality of the darkness we face in this world and also knowing the truth that God is good? How do we hold on to the reality that your pain is not wasted, in fact, it just may be the doorway to your destiny!

Episode 019 Alcohol & Christianity

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 18 Jan 2019 03:32:41 +0000

This week we address the elephant in the room called alcohol!

Episode 018 Why Millennials are not interested in church part 1.

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 11 Jan 2019 13:31:20 +0000

We look at our 3 reasons as to why millennials are not interested in church and why we need to change.

Episode 017 New Year, New You. Excess

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 4 Jan 2019 03:24:58 +0000

We're talking about resolutions, reading books, getting rid of excess and Rob's big announcement!

Episode 016 Beefing with Santa

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 21 Dec 2018 04:16:01 +0000

Hey guys we're talking all things Christmas especially the dude who takes all the credit for all my hard work... Santa!

Episode 015 Kidz

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 14 Dec 2018 05:06:29 +0000

Children are a blessing but... Can we be real about how hard it is to be a kid and have kids. Check this one out!

Episode 014 Millennial myths

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 7 Dec 2018 04:49:20 +0000

What are millennials? Who are they? Where do they live? How do they think? This is a very interesting conversation about the myths around this generation.

Episode 013 Slow down your life.

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 30 Nov 2018 03:03:15 +0000

Burnout is real! Everywhere we go, most of the roads we drive down on have speed limits. Why then do we live our lives without putting speed limits around us.

Bringing thank you back.

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 23 Nov 2018 05:21:07 +0000

Check out our special thanksgiving episode.

Episode 011 Money, Money, Money

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 16 Nov 2018 03:21:43 +0000

We're talking about money in this episode. We're going right at the awkward but much talked about topic. It's gonna be a cold winter bundle up!!

Episode 010 Gender Roles

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 9 Nov 2018 05:00:08 +0000

Male/Female Man/Woman what were we created to do and what are some of the stereotypes that mess us up. Check this episode out!!

Episode 009 Friend Zones

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 2 Nov 2018 01:49:16 +0000

There are two different friend zones we're talking about. A good one to listen to no matter where you're at in life. Boundaries are good things so we dive into what healthy ones look like.

Episode 008 Culture shock (Our journey so far)

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 19 Oct 2018 04:30:51 +0000

We talk about culture shock and some of our own experiences being an interracial couple in Zimbabwe and here in the U.S.

episode 007 Yoke Status

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 12 Oct 2018 03:34:41 +0000

Can Christians marry or date non-Christians? Is it cool or nah. What does being unequally yoked mean... Check this episode out!

Episode 006 #Goals

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 5 Oct 2018 04:14:35 +0000

This week we're talking about goals. Do we need them? What is it like to watch someone achieving their goals while you fail at yours? Tune in and let us know what you think.

Episode 005 Skeletons in the closet.

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 28 Sep 2018 04:26:31 +0000

We talk about how to deal with your past in a healthy way.

Episode 004 10 things we wish we knew before getting hitched.

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 21 Sep 2018 03:07:47 +0000

Not exactly 10 but these are the things we wish we knew before we got hitched!

Episode 003 How far is too far?

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Fri, 14 Sep 2018 01:50:45 +0000

We talk about the question that we get asked the most... How far is too far when it comes to physical intimacy outside of marriage.

Episode 002 Conflict

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Thu, 6 Sep 2018 20:22:37 +0000

Conflict... How do you deal with it in life, family, and relationships? Take a listen to what we think about this!

Episode 001 The List

robdare2serve@gmail.com (Robert Chifokoyo) — Thu, 30 Aug 2018 21:26:18 +0000

We are talking about "The List" on this epic 1st episode of Cookies and Cream. We all have or had a list of who we hoped to be with. Is the list good or bad? Does it bring up expectations that lead to failure in relationships? We recorded this at 3 am and the power went out halfway through the episode. Enjoy the drama!!