https://simplecast.com 40 and other F Words I turned 40 thinking it was going to be the beginning of the end. I was a short haircut, acid wash mom jeans and an AARP card away from accepting my fate. How come I was considered old when I didn’t feel... OLD. Sure, when I need to pee, I MUST pee. And sure, I have thrown my back out while sneezing, but OLD? Nah. 40 and other F words uncovers the humor, surprises and unexpected beauty of the fourth decade of life. en Tue, 2 Mar 2021 11:00:00 +0000 Tue, 2 Mar 2021 11:00:15 +0000 https://40-and-other-f-words.simplecast.com 40 and other F Words https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/7d6566cd-bc8f-45c5-9ea7-daf47ca70e72/1f559812-56cf-4958-a15d-980d048ae635/3000x3000/3219535d-7dd3-430f-848b-44eed2302aae.jpg?aid=rss_feed https://40-and-other-f-words.simplecast.com episodic I turned 40 thinking it was going to be the beginning of the end. I was a short haircut, acid wash mom jeans and an AARP card away from accepting my fate. How come I was considered old when I didn’t feel... OLD. Sure, when I need to pee, I MUST pee. And sure, I have thrown my back out while sneezing, but OLD? Nah. 40 and other F words uncovers the humor, surprises and unexpected beauty of the fourth decade of life. Renee Pineda-Sagon no https://feeds.simplecast.com/DpWY0Eo_ aging, forty, joy, self care, self love Renee Pineda-Sagon naediculous@gmail.com b2521153-ff86-488d-a55c-f23aeeb50a5a 40 and Falling in Love In my 20s I was looking for butterflies, rainbows and pipe dreams. I have plenty of friends who got married in their 20s and evolved with their partners. Listen, you have more energy to take on a project in your 20s, I just don’t have it in my 40s.

Here are my rules for dating in my 40s:

  • My age range is 8 up and 8 down, I will date someone 8 years older or 8 years younger - any more than 8 years down and they don’t remember cassette tapes, and any older than 8 years, they might need tech support with their iPhone.
  • I ask early on, is there anyone who would be upset if they found out you were dating me? Listen I was an accidental mistress 3 different times - after a while you know how to ask the questions that matter
  • Integrity matters to me, what does one feel comfortable lying about? That will give me an answer.
  • Can you communicate? I am too grown to be teaching someone how to use their words.
  • Red flags, flares and  full fireworks -the bad kind- come out  when someone I am dating  mentions that every one of their exes is crazy - Homie, all of them? Cause at some point you are the common denominator - you likely made them that way.

 

]]> Tue, 2 Mar 2021 11:00:00 +0000 naediculous@gmail.com (Renee Pineda-Sagon) https://40-and-other-f-words.simplecast.com/episodes/40-and-falling-in-love-6CJ2t3_V In my 20s I was looking for butterflies, rainbows and pipe dreams. I have plenty of friends who got married in their 20s and evolved with their partners. Listen, you have more energy to take on a project in your 20s, I just don’t have it in my 40s.

Here are my rules for dating in my 40s:

  • My age range is 8 up and 8 down, I will date someone 8 years older or 8 years younger - any more than 8 years down and they don’t remember cassette tapes, and any older than 8 years, they might need tech support with their iPhone.
  • I ask early on, is there anyone who would be upset if they found out you were dating me? Listen I was an accidental mistress 3 different times - after a while you know how to ask the questions that matter
  • Integrity matters to me, what does one feel comfortable lying about? That will give me an answer.
  • Can you communicate? I am too grown to be teaching someone how to use their words.
  • Red flags, flares and  full fireworks -the bad kind- come out  when someone I am dating  mentions that every one of their exes is crazy - Homie, all of them? Cause at some point you are the common denominator - you likely made them that way.

 

]]> 40 and Falling in Love Renee Pineda-Sagon 00:11:47 Dating in your 40s can be complicated. Not everyone has the same intentions, some people are here for a good time not a long time. I am dating for connection and to hopefully find someone I can love. Dating in your 40s can be complicated. Not everyone has the same intentions, some people are here for a good time not a long time. I am dating for connection and to hopefully find someone I can love. 40, romacne, dating, forties, single, relationships, love no full 2 1 52949cf4-795a-48c4-951d-aa31befe1ecb 40 and First Episodes Fri, 12 Feb 2021 08:00:00 +0000 naediculous@gmail.com (Renee Pineda-Sagon) https://40-and-other-f-words.simplecast.com/episodes/40-and-first-episodes-PG8kaRcb 40 and First Episodes Renee Pineda-Sagon 00:23:11 The truth is there is a stigma when it comes to your 40s especially when you’re a woman. Men in their 40s become George Clooney, John Krasinski, Idris Elba, The rock, Daniel Dae Kim, Benjamin Bratt Women in their 40s get sent out to pasture- like our eggs, we are supposed to slowly dry up... The world may think that it’s time to wind down, but for me...it’s just turning up Now almost 2 years into my 40s - I have realized that your 40s kinda get a bad rap The truth is there is a stigma when it comes to your 40s especially when you’re a woman. Men in their 40s become George Clooney, John Krasinski, Idris Elba, The rock, Daniel Dae Kim, Benjamin Bratt Women in their 40s get sent out to pasture- like our eggs, we are supposed to slowly dry up... The world may think that it’s time to wind down, but for me...it’s just turning up Now almost 2 years into my 40s - I have realized that your 40s kinda get a bad rap no full 1 1