https://simplecast.com Husband & wife podcasting team Ben & Lacy Jae - AKA Spacebear Media - sit down together and talk about emotional growth, middle-age, and all things marriage, including ethical non-monogamy. Join them for frank discussion, terrible jokes, a little bit of learning, and a lot of hilarity! en Mon, 31 Jan 2022 08:00:00 +0000 Tue, 13 Dec 2022 16:50:45 +0000 https://mawwage.simplecast.com https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/59658488-efe3-42e5-b004-c04409a26665/bcabbc08-3ee2-4680-ab42-38bcd6766ab8/3000x3000/mawwage.jpg?aid=rss_feed https://mawwage.simplecast.com serial Husband & wife podcasting team Ben & Lacy Jae - AKA Spacebear Media - sit down together and talk about emotional growth, middle-age, and all things marriage, including ethical non-monogamy. Join them for frank discussion, terrible jokes, a little bit of learning, and a lot of hilarity! Spacebear Media, Benjamin Trimpe, Lacy Jae yes https://feeds.simplecast.com/7ymw5NDH 40s, ethical non-monogamy, friendships, love, marriage, middle-age, relationships, sex, spacebear media, zero shame forties Lacy Trimpe spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com 70fe55e0-c5aa-4141-a5a6-1fec794f4b62 Mon, 31 Jan 2022 08:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/listener-questions-we-say-goodbye-wJ936wWR Listener Questions & We Say GOODBYE! Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe 00:48:41 In their final episode, Ben and Lacy take questions from the listeners, reminisce a little about the podcast, and say goodbye. In their final episode, Ben and Lacy take questions from the listeners, reminisce a little about the podcast, and say goodbye. real stories, ethical non-monogamy, bad dates, marriage, enm, conversation, listener questions yes full 20 1 0eb7c119-0249-43b3-aec5-69eacaadf4ac Mon, 17 Jan 2022 08:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Benjamin Trimpe, Lacy Jae, Spacebear Media) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/non-monogamy-take-three-_zd0uMho Non-monogamy: Take Three Benjamin Trimpe, Lacy Jae, Spacebear Media 00:47:00 Ben and Lacy are triple vaxxed and back in the dating game. Join them to hear how it's going including new friends, first dates, new sex, and a ghosting! Ben and Lacy are triple vaxxed and back in the dating game. Join them to hear how it's going including new friends, first dates, new sex, and a ghosting! real stories, relationships, marriage, non-monogamy, enm, conversation, dating, sex yes full 19 1 9bb3077c-ca28-40f0-b719-47613128f0b3 Mon, 3 Jan 2022 08:05:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/the-letter-of-all-letters-reflections-pdu_yju9 The Letter of All Letters: Reflections Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe 00:28:41 BONUS EPISODE! 2 1/2 months after recording episode 18, "The Letter of All Letters," Ben and Lacy have a little chat about how they feel after listening to the recording a few times. There are a few corrections, a few acknowledgments, and some final thoughts. BONUS EPISODE! 2 1/2 months after recording episode 18, "The Letter of All Letters," Ben and Lacy have a little chat about how they feel after listening to the recording a few times. There are a few corrections, a few acknowledgments, and some final thoughts. family, family drama, marriage, conversation, personal stories yes bonus 1 8d269ae8-52fc-414e-8171-5f4866b5002b Mon, 3 Jan 2022 08:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/the-letter-of-all-letters-3YpRy2_f The Letter Of All Letters Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe 01:11:46 Ben reads his father's letter, claiming Lacy has brainwashed him to her for the first time. She has a few thoughts. LOL. Ben reads his father's letter, claiming Lacy has brainwashed him to her for the first time. She has a few thoughts. LOL. real stories, family, family drama, drama, marriage, conversation, personal stories yes full 18 1 63371ad2-0228-46a8-966b-96d1b3e34d4d Mon, 20 Dec 2021 08:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Spacebear Media, Benjamin Trimpe, Lacy Jae) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/lacy-blacks-out-at-a-swingers-christmas-party-XdwiRyNi Lacy Blacks Out at a Swingers Christmas Party Spacebear Media, Benjamin Trimpe, Lacy Jae 00:44:23 What happens when someone with social anxiety drinks to make it go away? Find out this week as Ben & Lacy discuss how Lacy let her anxiety get the best of her while she was dressed as an elf! What happens when someone with social anxiety drinks to make it go away? Find out this week as Ben & Lacy discuss how Lacy let her anxiety get the best of her while she was dressed as an elf! social anxiety, swingers, ethical non-monogamy, christmas, marriage, anxiety, enm yes full 17 1 bc7f4ee0-a044-41b9-b6cf-4bec91b02cec Mon, 6 Dec 2021 08:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Benjamin Trimpe, Lacy Jae, Spacebear Media) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/the-couple-bubble-Ezjmyx9u The Couple Bubble Benjamin Trimpe, Lacy Jae, Spacebear Media 00:53:22 This week Lacy & Ben explore something called the "couple bubble," which is an idea they learned in therapy that says a couple should face the world as a unit, thereby making a safe space for the relationship. This episode is about what happened when they put that into practice, specifically with a particular member of Ben's family. This week Lacy & Ben explore something called the "couple bubble," which is an idea they learned in therapy that says a couple should face the world as a unit, thereby making a safe space for the relationship. This episode is about what happened when they put that into practice, specifically with a particular member of Ben's family. real stories, therapy, relationships, marriage, couple bubble, conversations, personal stories yes full 16 1 7ae5b119-16b7-4baa-82f3-e1729927395d Mon, 22 Nov 2021 08:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Lacy Trimpe) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/the-time-we-both-crossed-boundaries-patreon-full-version-GV_0wEqu The Time We Both Crossed Boundaries Lacy Trimpe 00:50:15 This week, join Ben & Lacy as they get incredibly personal, telling the embarrassing story of when they crossed each other's boundaries, including how they managed to put their relationship back together afterward. This week, join Ben & Lacy as they get incredibly personal, telling the embarrassing story of when they crossed each other's boundaries, including how they managed to put their relationship back together afterward. yes full 15 1 f9e287b8-239f-475c-bc2f-e5727f77a17a Mon, 8 Nov 2021 08:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/have-you-packed-your-emotional-baggage-ZDYKeToL Have You Packed Your Emotional Baggage? Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe 00:51:59 Join Ben & Lacy as they discuss where the emotional baggage they brought into the relationship came from. They chat about their parents, what they learned, and what they changed as adults. Join Ben & Lacy as they discuss where the emotional baggage they brought into the relationship came from. They chat about their parents, what they learned, and what they changed as adults. real stories, family, ethical non-monogamy, relationships, marriage, non-monogamy, love, enm, conversation, commitment, mental health, personal stories yes full 14 1 6f096a2d-0ac0-487c-b7e6-73aa6010c42e Mon, 25 Oct 2021 07:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Benjamin Trimpe, Lacy Jae, Spacebear Media) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/kinks-do-we-have-any-patreon-full-episode-stWtYH70 Kinks! Do We Have Any?! Benjamin Trimpe, Lacy Jae, Spacebear Media 00:39:04 Join Lacy & Ben as they talk about kink! Spoiler alert: Lacy likes to watch. Join Lacy & Ben as they talk about kink! Spoiler alert: Lacy likes to watch. yes full 13 1 0ef149eb-2ce0-403f-899a-31c6466b6be7 Mon, 11 Oct 2021 07:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Benjamin Trimpe, Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/infertility-woes-pu41Iw8h Infertility Woes Benjamin Trimpe, Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae 00:49:38 Join Ben & Lacy as they talk about their infertility journey post-miscarriage. Join Ben & Lacy as they talk about their infertility journey post-miscarriage. real stories, ivf, marriage, children, conversation, miscarriage, infertility, embryos, personal stories, friendship, pregnancy yes full 12 1 527f6541-17ca-4faf-b3eb-aac7ba4a2856 Mon, 27 Sep 2021 07:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Lacy Trimpe) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/the-time-we-almost-became-a-foursome-patreon-full-version-BGHHuf9Y The Time We Almost Became a Foursome Lacy Trimpe 00:59:26 Join Lacy & Ben as they discuss the time they nearly moved another couple into their home after a year of dating as a foursome. Join Lacy & Ben as they discuss the time they nearly moved another couple into their home after a year of dating as a foursome. yes full 11 1 5eacf86e-b746-4d4b-a66c-467bf2cb423e Mon, 13 Sep 2021 07:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/2017-a-shitwagon-year-pUQtVMSx 2017: A Shitwagon Year Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe 00:53:32 Join Ben & Lacy as they discuss the toughest year of their relationship and how they got through it. Join Ben & Lacy as they discuss the toughest year of their relationship and how they got through it. stories, relationships, death, marriage, suicide, mental health, miscarriage, personal stories, interview, pregnancy yes full 10 1 03466c6e-8988-4436-8562-d45d965bd412 Mon, 30 Aug 2021 07:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Benjamin Trimpe, Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/listener-questions-auQwRoea Listener Questions!! Benjamin Trimpe, Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae 00:41:14 Join Ben & Lacy as they answer questions from the listeners. Although no topic was off-limits, the only one that came up was non-monogamy! Join Ben & Lacy as they answer questions from the listeners. Although no topic was off-limits, the only one that came up was non-monogamy! real stories, q & a, ethical non-monogamy, questions and answers, relationships, non-monogamy, enm, personal stories, sex yes full 9 1 3e6c698e-2481-4701-8359-c688bbb36e48 Mon, 16 Aug 2021 07:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe, Spacebear Media) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/the-time-we-got-used-by-a-unicorn-full-patreon-version-zR16IcPn The Time We Got Used by a Unicorn Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe, Spacebear Media 00:35:09 Join Lacy & Ben as they talk about the time they considered a triad but ended up (happily) getting used by a unicorn! Join Lacy & Ben as they talk about the time they considered a triad but ended up (happily) getting used by a unicorn! yes full 8 1 9183d8b6-8a6a-4a05-9e03-e72b394c4094 Mon, 2 Aug 2021 07:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/this-chicks-fucking-nuts-im-here-for-it-BP_39HR2 This Chick's Fucking Nuts & I'm Here For It Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe 00:49:53 Join Ben & Lacy as they talk about how mental illness has shaped their relationship. Join Ben & Lacy as they talk about how mental illness has shaped their relationship. real stories, relationships, marriage, life stories, conversation, mental health, real life, mental illness yes full 7 1 05afb569-509b-4c3c-b749-3525c087ab4a Mon, 19 Jul 2021 07:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Benjamin Trimpe, Lacy Jae, Spacebear Media) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/the-time-we-went-to-a-sex-club-patreon-full-version-ZLz2wKBy The Time We Went to a Sex Club Benjamin Trimpe, Lacy Jae, Spacebear Media 00:51:53 Join Ben & Lacy as they tell the tale of the one and only time they braved a sex club! Join Ben & Lacy as they tell the tale of the one and only time they braved a sex club! real stories, ethical non-monogamy, sex club, relationships, marriage, enm, conversation, personal stories, sex yes full 6 1 c2d24cca-e1b9-448b-92ff-ba783b46baaf Mon, 5 Jul 2021 07:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe, Spacebear Media) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/masculini-what-67dfKWLm Masculini-what? Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe, Spacebear Media 00:48:37 This week join Ben & Lacy as they explore masculinity, what it means, and how Ben's has affected their relationship. This week join Ben & Lacy as they explore masculinity, what it means, and how Ben's has affected their relationship. ethical non-monogamy, stories, masculinity, relationships, marriage, enm, conversation, personal stories yes full 5 1 a3751ee1-1873-4420-aa54-58fc979fd4c0 Mon, 21 Jun 2021 07:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Benjamin Trimpe, Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/non-monogamy-take-two-patreon-full-episode-BHQngP_k Non-monogamy: Take Two Benjamin Trimpe, Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae 00:46:58 Ben and Lacy talk about how they eased back into ethical non-monogamy after their first awkward experience, including stories about Lacy's pathetic attempts at finding a girlfriend and how a day at the Buddhist temple turned into a night at the sex club. Ben and Lacy talk about how they eased back into ethical non-monogamy after their first awkward experience, including stories about Lacy's pathetic attempts at finding a girlfriend and how a day at the Buddhist temple turned into a night at the sex club. ethical non-monogamy, stories, relationships, marriage, non-monogamy, enm, personal stories, sex yes full 4 1 4b4ff250-ba90-4fe2-acdb-ee6b0761214a Mon, 7 Jun 2021 07:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Lacy Jae, Spacebear Media, Benjamin Trimpe) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/i-hate-you-dont-leave-me-3gRAQezT I Hate You, Don't Leave Me Lacy Jae, Spacebear Media, Benjamin Trimpe 00:43:30 This episode gets a bit more serious than the previous two as Ben & Lacy discuss her abandonment issues that nearly destroyed the relationship. This episode gets a bit more serious than the previous two as Ben & Lacy discuss her abandonment issues that nearly destroyed the relationship. stories, marriage, conversation, mental health, personal stories yes full 3 1 1acc1f45-ab0c-4118-8c06-ecfa371f6a97 Mon, 17 May 2021 07:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Lacy Trimpe) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/non-monogamy-take-one-patreon-full-episode-WDP75AoD Non-monogamy: Take One Lacy Trimpe 00:30:34 Ben & Lacy talk about the first time they dipped their toes into non-monogamy and how it didn't go as planned. Thank you for being a Zero Shame Forties patron! Ben & Lacy talk about the first time they dipped their toes into non-monogamy and how it didn't go as planned. Thank you for being a Zero Shame Forties patron! yes full 2 1 b74953d8-3896-46a3-907c-31bb9a8e8b05 Mon, 3 May 2021 07:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe, Spacebear Media) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/who-we-are-how-we-met-sk29w2OG Who We Are & How We Met Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe, Spacebear Media 00:44:58 Husband & wife podcasting team Ben & Lacy Jae sit down together and talk about emotional growth, middle-age, and all things marriage, including ethical non-monogamy. Join them for frank discussion, terrible jokes, a little bit of learning, and a lot of hilarity! . . . For those wanting to hear the entire "2012" story, here's the link to the post that I promised: https://www.facebook.com/zeroshameforties/posts/719391875382291 Husband & wife podcasting team Ben & Lacy Jae sit down together and talk about emotional growth, middle-age, and all things marriage, including ethical non-monogamy. Join them for frank discussion, terrible jokes, a little bit of learning, and a lot of hilarity! . . . For those wanting to hear the entire "2012" story, here's the link to the post that I promised: https://www.facebook.com/zeroshameforties/posts/719391875382291 ethical non-monogamy, stories, relationships, marriage, personal stories, humor yes full 1 1 8ad5ff4c-c3d2-42ca-ab32-8de221716b24 Sat, 1 May 2021 07:00:00 +0000 spacebearmediaemail@gmail.com (Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe) https://mawwage.simplecast.com/episodes/everything-you-need-to-know-NqIBtsUf All the Things You Need to Know Spacebear Media, Lacy Jae, Benjamin Trimpe 00:01:49 It's everything you need to know about Mawwage! It's everything you need to know about Mawwage! real stories, ethical non-monogamy, relationships, marriage, conversation yes full 0 1