https://simplecast.com Into You Dating and relationships: are they dreams come true or living nightmares? That’s the question Fern Lulham, who is blind, asks each month on Into You. Fern, from Hastings, UK, and a regular contributor of Kelly and Company, welcomes guests to share in honest discussions about relationships and dating. Accessible Media Inc. en-us Wed, 2 Aug 2023 11:00:00 +0000 Mon, 9 Dec 2024 16:25:56 +0000 http://www.ami.ca Into You https://image.simplecastcdn.com/images/344cd3f3-aafe-450d-bdd3-d14ce5bdf9c9/d0121f31-d11d-47b0-b797-500770bb1680/3000x3000/intoyou-1400x1400-podcast.jpg?aid=rss_feed http://www.ami.ca episodic Dating and relationships: are they dreams come true or living nightmares? That’s the question Fern Lulham, who is blind, asks each month on Into You. Fern, from Hastings, UK, and a regular contributor of Kelly and Company, welcomes guests to share in honest discussions about relationships and dating. AMI false https://feeds.simplecast.com/6JBHTLSQ visually impaired, disability, accessibility, love, relationships, partially sighted, dating, dating stories, blind, single, sex, relationship advice Accessible Media Inc. podcasts@ami.ca 9b0e45e3-d188-4e3c-ba64-69ef0fcac1d4 The Candid Reality of Transexuality Wed, 2 Aug 2023 11:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca The Candid Reality of Transexuality Accessible Media Inc. 00:30:27 "In this episode, Fern chats with Kate Hutchinson about what dating is like as a transgender woman. Kate also shares her journey with self-confidence, disclosing her gender to others and what we can all do to support each other to fully be who we are. No matter what your gender identity or who you're attracted to, if you need a hit of inspiration and empowerment, this is the episode for you! Follow Kate on Twitter: @katiekhaos " "In this episode, Fern chats with Kate Hutchinson about what dating is like as a transgender woman. Kate also shares her journey with self-confidence, disclosing her gender to others and what we can all do to support each other to fully be who we are. No matter what your gender identity or who you're attracted to, if you need a hit of inspiration and empowerment, this is the episode for you! Follow Kate on Twitter: @katiekhaos " into you podcast, transexuality, kate hutchinson, low vision, into you, pansexuality, relationships, education manager, love, fern lulham, blind, dating, diversity role models, lgbtq+ false full 34 ec1380f6-760c-4060-b801-6dc768fe6d44 Pansexuality Unpacked Thu, 6 Jul 2023 11:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca Pansexuality Unpacked Accessible Media Inc. 00:28:31 "In this episode, Fern speaks to Kate Hutchinson, Education Manager at Diversity Role Models, about her personal experiences of pansexuality. Kate opens up about what it was like understanding her sexuality growing up, how being pansexual can impact her everyday life and why pansexuality is sometimes still not fully embraced, even within the LGBTQ+ community. If you've ever felt different in dating, feared being judged due to who you're attracted to or doubted yourself when it comes to love, this is the podcast for you. Full of words of wisdom and encouraging nudges in the right direction, this episode is guaranteed to inspire, empower and enlighten. Follow Kate on Twitter: @katiekhaos " "In this episode, Fern speaks to Kate Hutchinson, Education Manager at Diversity Role Models, about her personal experiences of pansexuality. Kate opens up about what it was like understanding her sexuality growing up, how being pansexual can impact her everyday life and why pansexuality is sometimes still not fully embraced, even within the LGBTQ+ community. If you've ever felt different in dating, feared being judged due to who you're attracted to or doubted yourself when it comes to love, this is the podcast for you. Full of words of wisdom and encouraging nudges in the right direction, this episode is guaranteed to inspire, empower and enlighten. Follow Kate on Twitter: @katiekhaos " into you podcast, kate hutchinson, low vision, into you, pansexuality, relationships, education manager, love, fern lulham, blind, dating, diversity role models, lgbtq+ false full 33 f881def2-8cc6-4c71-a042-3f0504bf3392 Defeating Cheating Thu, 1 Jun 2023 11:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca Defeating Cheating Accessible Media Inc. 00:28:59 "In this episode, we continue our conversation about cheating and betrayal with relationship coach Claire Grigson. Claire shares how technology has impacted betrayal, how being cheated on might affect you on a psychological level and the risks related to not being honest in a relationship. Whether you've experienced cheating first-hand or are simply intrigued by the psychology of it all, this episode is packed full of answers to your most burning questions. From stigma to psychology to statistics, we've got it all! Follow Claire on Instagram: https://instagram.com/claire_grigson_coaching?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=" "In this episode, we continue our conversation about cheating and betrayal with relationship coach Claire Grigson. Claire shares how technology has impacted betrayal, how being cheated on might affect you on a psychological level and the risks related to not being honest in a relationship. Whether you've experienced cheating first-hand or are simply intrigued by the psychology of it all, this episode is packed full of answers to your most burning questions. From stigma to psychology to statistics, we've got it all! Follow Claire on Instagram: https://instagram.com/claire_grigson_coaching?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=" into you podcast, claire grigson, low vision, marriage, into you, cheating, relationships, dating and relationship coach, love, infidelity, fern lulham, blind, divorce, dating, coach, affairs false full 32 0eabd428-6591-4c4b-9d56-96ba6ab1f8a9 How to Prevail after Betrayal Thu, 4 May 2023 11:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca How to Prevail after Betrayal Accessible Media Inc. 00:27:01 "On this episode of Into You, Fern delves even deeper into betrayal as she chats with dating and relationship coach Claire Grigson. Claire talks about whether it's ever OK to look through your partner's phone without them knowing, shares her own experience with infidelity and discusses which personality types are more likely to cheat. If you've ever felt suspicious in love, been driven to do things you wouldn't usually in your relationship, or are just as fascinated by the psychology behind it all, don't miss this one. Packed full of insight, intrigue and insider info on all your unanswered questions, it's time to find some peace of mind! Follow Claire on Instagram: https://instagram.com/claire_grigson_coaching?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=" "On this episode of Into You, Fern delves even deeper into betrayal as she chats with dating and relationship coach Claire Grigson. Claire talks about whether it's ever OK to look through your partner's phone without them knowing, shares her own experience with infidelity and discusses which personality types are more likely to cheat. If you've ever felt suspicious in love, been driven to do things you wouldn't usually in your relationship, or are just as fascinated by the psychology behind it all, don't miss this one. Packed full of insight, intrigue and insider info on all your unanswered questions, it's time to find some peace of mind! Follow Claire on Instagram: https://instagram.com/claire_grigson_coaching?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=" into you podcast, claire grigson, low vision, marriage, into you, cheating, relationships, dating and relationship coach, love, infidelity, fern lulham, blind, divorce, dating, coach, affairs false full 31 c1e80ae9-009d-4f45-bc70-9431ff9d5aaa Beating Cheating Thu, 6 Apr 2023 11:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca Beating Cheating Accessible Media Inc. 00:22:28 "On this month's episode of Into You, we continue our conversation with influencer Robbi Jan, whose marriage ended due to infidelity. Robbi describes what it's like to rebuild your life and step back into the dating pool after being cheated on, and shares some of the biggest lessons this has taught her about love. If you've ever feared being betrayed in a relationship, this episode will prove to you that it's not only possible to survive it, but you can also go on to thrive following it. Robbi offers a beautiful blend of emotional support and practical tools to help you discover yourself again after heartbreak and reclaim a life of strength, health, happiness and hope. Follow Robbi on Instagram: https://instagram.com/robbijan?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=" "On this month's episode of Into You, we continue our conversation with influencer Robbi Jan, whose marriage ended due to infidelity. Robbi describes what it's like to rebuild your life and step back into the dating pool after being cheated on, and shares some of the biggest lessons this has taught her about love. If you've ever feared being betrayed in a relationship, this episode will prove to you that it's not only possible to survive it, but you can also go on to thrive following it. Robbi offers a beautiful blend of emotional support and practical tools to help you discover yourself again after heartbreak and reclaim a life of strength, health, happiness and hope. Follow Robbi on Instagram: https://instagram.com/robbijan?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=" into you podcast, social media, confidence, low vision, marriage, into you, cheating, relationships, robbi jan, love, fern lulham, blind, divorce, dating, influencer, affairs, self-esteem false full 30 d5e7e2d2-b20b-4896-b8ad-2f73c33c7c4a Cheating Challenges Thu, 2 Mar 2023 12:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca Cheating Challenges Accessible Media Inc. 00:23:26 "This month on Into You, Fern chats about cheating with social media influencer Robbi Jan. Robbi opens up about how her husband having an affair impacted her mentally, emotionally and even physically. She also explains how she rebuilt her confidence, self-esteem and trust in others after her marriage broke down. If you've ever been burned in love or wondered how to overcome a massive disruption to life as you thought you knew it, this one's for you. You are not alone and that there is a way through it. Understand your ability to overcome pain and build a stronger relationship with yourself, one day at a time. Follow Robbi on Instagram: https://instagram.com/robbijan?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=" "This month on Into You, Fern chats about cheating with social media influencer Robbi Jan. Robbi opens up about how her husband having an affair impacted her mentally, emotionally and even physically. She also explains how she rebuilt her confidence, self-esteem and trust in others after her marriage broke down. If you've ever been burned in love or wondered how to overcome a massive disruption to life as you thought you knew it, this one's for you. You are not alone and that there is a way through it. Understand your ability to overcome pain and build a stronger relationship with yourself, one day at a time. Follow Robbi on Instagram: https://instagram.com/robbijan?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=" into you podcast, social media, confidence, low vision, marriage, into you, cheating, relationships, robbi jan, love, fern lulham, blind, divorce, dating, influencer, affairs, self-esteem false full 29 5e83db52-4f96-4e7f-86c5-26fb81b4393a Cultivating Confidence Thu, 2 Feb 2023 12:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca Cultivating Confidence Accessible Media Inc. 00:18:42 This month on Into You, we delve back into the illusive world of confidence as Fern continues the conversation with relationship coach and trainer, Anna Rova. In this episode, Anna talks about why playing "hard to get" in dating is unlikely to get you what you want long-term, challenges us to look closer to home in regards to feeling confident about finding love and shares the secret to how we can stop beating ourselves up when it comes to comparisons with others. If you long to walk a little taller and hold your head a little higher in love, this episode is a must listen. Discover your strengths and get to know yourself better, while learning how to feel more comfortable, confident and secure in your relationships! Follow Anna on Instagram: https://instagram.com/annarova?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=" This month on Into You, we delve back into the illusive world of confidence as Fern continues the conversation with relationship coach and trainer, Anna Rova. In this episode, Anna talks about why playing "hard to get" in dating is unlikely to get you what you want long-term, challenges us to look closer to home in regards to feeling confident about finding love and shares the secret to how we can stop beating ourselves up when it comes to comparisons with others. If you long to walk a little taller and hold your head a little higher in love, this episode is a must listen. Discover your strengths and get to know yourself better, while learning how to feel more comfortable, confident and secure in your relationships! Follow Anna on Instagram: https://instagram.com/annarova?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=" into you podcast, dating trainer, confidence, low vision, into you, dating coach, relationships, love, fern lulham, blind, anna rova, dating, self-belief false full 28 d35ef9a2-2174-4f9a-8a3e-ecd50b2b0098 Self-Belief Debrief Thu, 5 Jan 2023 12:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca Self-Belief Debrief Accessible Media Inc. 00:25:46 "Ever heard that, in order to succeed in dating, you simply need to be more confident? In this episode of Into You, Fern chats with dating coach and trainer Anna Rova, to explore what confidence in dating is really all about! Anna discusses why we may lack confidence, what's keeping us stuck in those same old cycles of doubt in dating and how we can connect more to ourselves in the pursuit of getting what we want in love. If you're someone who is always second-guessing themselves and over-analyzing situations time and time again, this could be just what you need to hear to change that! Follow Anna on Instagram: https://instagram.com/annarova?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=" "Ever heard that, in order to succeed in dating, you simply need to be more confident? In this episode of Into You, Fern chats with dating coach and trainer Anna Rova, to explore what confidence in dating is really all about! Anna discusses why we may lack confidence, what's keeping us stuck in those same old cycles of doubt in dating and how we can connect more to ourselves in the pursuit of getting what we want in love. If you're someone who is always second-guessing themselves and over-analyzing situations time and time again, this could be just what you need to hear to change that! Follow Anna on Instagram: https://instagram.com/annarova?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=" into you podcast, dating trainer, confidence, low vision, into you, dating coach, relationships, love, fern lulham, blind, anna rova, dating, self-belief false full 27 b3242067-f3d3-4782-9a75-c9eba0a16552 Being Candid about Being Stranded Thu, 1 Dec 2022 12:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca Being Candid about Being Stranded Accessible Media Inc. 00:24:08 "In this month's episode, we rejoin Fern and her boyfriend, Josh, where we left them: stranded in Josh's broken-down car on their very first date! Josh attempts to explain himself, and also shares what this harrowing experience taught him and what he has learnt from dating a bubbly, blind podcast presenter! Lots of lessons, lots of laughs ... it's the perfect episode to put a smile on your face while teaching you a thing or two about trusting fate - even when fate is looking fatal to your love life! Follow Josh on Instagram: @joshhollandmusic" "In this month's episode, we rejoin Fern and her boyfriend, Josh, where we left them: stranded in Josh's broken-down car on their very first date! Josh attempts to explain himself, and also shares what this harrowing experience taught him and what he has learnt from dating a bubbly, blind podcast presenter! Lots of lessons, lots of laughs ... it's the perfect episode to put a smile on your face while teaching you a thing or two about trusting fate - even when fate is looking fatal to your love life! Follow Josh on Instagram: @joshhollandmusic" into you podcast, low vision, into you, josh holland, relationships, sound engineer, love, fern lulham, blind, dating, producer false full 26 79921c68-486d-4b25-8ec0-8771f8c0193e This One's On Me Thu, 3 Nov 2022 11:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca This One's On Me Accessible Media Inc. 00:28:08 "To mark the 25th episode of Into You, it's time to ""mix"" things up by speaking to producer, sound engineer and podcast perfector, Josh Holland, who also happens to be Fern's other half! We pull back the curtain of Fern and Josh's love affair, with an insider glimpse into how they found using dating apps, what Josh thought about Fern being blind, their (pretty disastrous!) first date and so much more! Join us as we put Fern and Josh's initial meeting under the microscope and find out what lessons you can learn about yourself in the process! Follow Josh on Instagram: @joshhollandmusic" "To mark the 25th episode of Into You, it's time to ""mix"" things up by speaking to producer, sound engineer and podcast perfector, Josh Holland, who also happens to be Fern's other half! We pull back the curtain of Fern and Josh's love affair, with an insider glimpse into how they found using dating apps, what Josh thought about Fern being blind, their (pretty disastrous!) first date and so much more! Join us as we put Fern and Josh's initial meeting under the microscope and find out what lessons you can learn about yourself in the process! Follow Josh on Instagram: @joshhollandmusic" into you podcast, low vision, into you, josh holland, relationships, sound engineer, love, fern lulham, blind, dating, producer false full 25 a0a7573a-aa72-49e9-81fd-f4ab6bdbadeb Building Better Boundaries Thu, 6 Oct 2022 11:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca Building Better Boundaries Accessible Media Inc. 00:24:49 "This month on Into You, join Fern for Part 2 of our exploration of boundaries with relationship expert and author Dr Tracy Dalgleish. In this episode, Tracy identifies some factors that can make you less likely to set or stand by your boundaries, explains the psychology behind deciding whether our boundaries are ""reasonable"" or not, and shares the secret ingredient which makes receiving somebody else's boundaries taste a little sweeter. If you struggle to get your needs met in relationships or feel unable to speak up for yourself, this episode will be the reassuring nudge you need in the right direction. Packed full of tips, tricks and giggles along the way, you don't want to miss it! Follow Tracy on Instagram: @drtracyd" "This month on Into You, join Fern for Part 2 of our exploration of boundaries with relationship expert and author Dr Tracy Dalgleish. In this episode, Tracy identifies some factors that can make you less likely to set or stand by your boundaries, explains the psychology behind deciding whether our boundaries are ""reasonable"" or not, and shares the secret ingredient which makes receiving somebody else's boundaries taste a little sweeter. If you struggle to get your needs met in relationships or feel unable to speak up for yourself, this episode will be the reassuring nudge you need in the right direction. Packed full of tips, tricks and giggles along the way, you don't want to miss it! Follow Tracy on Instagram: @drtracyd" into you podcast, tracy dalgleish, low vision, into you, romance, boundaries, relationships, love, fern lulham, blind, dating, author, ottawa false full 24 514491f8-0af7-4178-b3cb-6b1ca88f3b70 Breaking Down Boundaries Thu, 1 Sep 2022 11:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca Breaking Down Boundaries Accessible Media Inc. 00:26:33 This month, Fern chats with relationship expert and author Tracy Dalgleish all about the social media buzzword "boundaries," and what it really means in modern-day romance. Are boundaries akin to angry, scary school rules, or could they actually help us to build healthier, more loving relationships? How do you know what YOUR boundaries even are? And, once you know, how do you go about addressing them with your partner? Find out the answer to all these questions and so many more in this jam-packed episode, which might just change your perspective and allow you to be more unapologetically who you really are. Follow Tracy on Instagram: @drtracyd This month, Fern chats with relationship expert and author Tracy Dalgleish all about the social media buzzword "boundaries," and what it really means in modern-day romance. Are boundaries akin to angry, scary school rules, or could they actually help us to build healthier, more loving relationships? How do you know what YOUR boundaries even are? And, once you know, how do you go about addressing them with your partner? Find out the answer to all these questions and so many more in this jam-packed episode, which might just change your perspective and allow you to be more unapologetically who you really are. Follow Tracy on Instagram: @drtracyd tracy dalgleish, boundaries, relationships, disability, blind, dating, ami, relationship expert false full 23 efb03141-a5d3-4f3a-97f7-a1c1fa0118a7 Relationship Rifts Resolved Thu, 4 Aug 2022 11:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca Relationship Rifts Resolved Accessible Media Inc. 00:24:06 This month, join Fern as she continues her chat with relationship coach and TikTok sensation Jacob Lucas. On this episode, Jacob shares how your location could be a factor in how easy it is to resolve an issue, and explains how to make amends after a heated disagreement with your beloved. If you're sick of getting sucked into the same old argumentative cycles of pointing the finger, it's time to put your foot down and change the conversation. Jacob gives practical strategies, tips and tools to help you overcome flammable situations or prevent them before they even ignite! You might want to make some notes, because this will save you a lot of time, stress and hard feelings in your love life. Follow Jacob on Instagram and TikTok: @jacoblucas101 Visit his website: jacoblucasdating.com" This month, join Fern as she continues her chat with relationship coach and TikTok sensation Jacob Lucas. On this episode, Jacob shares how your location could be a factor in how easy it is to resolve an issue, and explains how to make amends after a heated disagreement with your beloved. If you're sick of getting sucked into the same old argumentative cycles of pointing the finger, it's time to put your foot down and change the conversation. Jacob gives practical strategies, tips and tools to help you overcome flammable situations or prevent them before they even ignite! You might want to make some notes, because this will save you a lot of time, stress and hard feelings in your love life. Follow Jacob on Instagram and TikTok: @jacoblucas101 Visit his website: jacoblucasdating.com" into you podcast, tiktok, low vision, into you, jacob lucas, relationships, instagram, fern lulham, blind, arguments, dating false full 22 47ce3be4-6ff9-4f44-9fab-0804298e276f Dating Disagreements Thu, 7 Jul 2022 13:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca Dating Disagreements Accessible Media Inc. 00:27:20 This month, Fern chats to professional dating coach Jacob Lucas. With over 600,000 followers on TikTok, you could say Jacob knows a thing or two about attracting people and keeping them interested! The topic up for debate on this episode is arguments and how to have less of them when comes to your love life. Join Fern and Jacob for a light-hearted look into why we argue, how to defuse a heated discussion and when to have your cake and eat it too! All that and so much more, making for an episode you'd be mad to miss out on! Follow Jacob on Instagram and TikTok: @jacoblucas101 Visit his website: jacoblucasdating.com" This month, Fern chats to professional dating coach Jacob Lucas. With over 600,000 followers on TikTok, you could say Jacob knows a thing or two about attracting people and keeping them interested! The topic up for debate on this episode is arguments and how to have less of them when comes to your love life. Join Fern and Jacob for a light-hearted look into why we argue, how to defuse a heated discussion and when to have your cake and eat it too! All that and so much more, making for an episode you'd be mad to miss out on! Follow Jacob on Instagram and TikTok: @jacoblucas101 Visit his website: jacoblucasdating.com" into you podcast, tiktok, low vision, into you, jacob lucas, relationships, instagram, fern lulham, blind, arguments, dating false full 21 9893d048-3732-4e8f-9a3f-4c0640d1b4e8 Recognising Your Own Red Flags Wed, 1 Jun 2022 16:48:51 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca Recognising Your Own Red Flags Accessible Media Inc. 00:19:49 This month's episode of Into You is Part 2 of our exploration into red flags in relationships. Fern continues her conversation with liscensed psychologist, founder and director of Behr Psychology, Dr Jessica January Behr. Jessica shares why being too quick to spot red flags in others can end up hurting us, how we can identify and start to work on our own potential red flags, what red flags can teach us about relationships and so much more! If you love self-reflection and getting insight into why your relationship dynamics may play out the way they do, you're not going to want to miss this powerful episode of Into You! This month's episode of Into You is Part 2 of our exploration into red flags in relationships. Fern continues her conversation with liscensed psychologist, founder and director of Behr Psychology, Dr Jessica January Behr. Jessica shares why being too quick to spot red flags in others can end up hurting us, how we can identify and start to work on our own potential red flags, what red flags can teach us about relationships and so much more! If you love self-reflection and getting insight into why your relationship dynamics may play out the way they do, you're not going to want to miss this powerful episode of Into You! false full 20 6c535a34-b444-4aa5-9b25-9e6ccdf3fcfd The Dating Snags of Red Flags On this month's Episode of Into You, Fern chats to licensed psychologist, founder and director of Behr Psychology, Dr Jessica January Behr. Jessica explains what red flags actually are, what they can teach us about ourselves and whether there is any hope that the red flags we spot in our potential partners might ever change.

 

If you've been struggling with troublesome behaviour when it comes to your relationships - either from someone else or indeed yourself - Jessica will help you start to unpack why you feel the way you do and what signs might be waving right in front of your face!

 

Jessica's Website

Instagram/TikTok is @behrpsychology

]]> Thu, 5 May 2022 11:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca On this month's Episode of Into You, Fern chats to licensed psychologist, founder and director of Behr Psychology, Dr Jessica January Behr. Jessica explains what red flags actually are, what they can teach us about ourselves and whether there is any hope that the red flags we spot in our potential partners might ever change.

 

If you've been struggling with troublesome behaviour when it comes to your relationships - either from someone else or indeed yourself - Jessica will help you start to unpack why you feel the way you do and what signs might be waving right in front of your face!

 

Jessica's Website

Instagram/TikTok is @behrpsychology

]]> The Dating Snags of Red Flags Accessible Media Inc. 00:27:28 On this month's Episode of Into You, Fern chats to licensed psychologist, founder and director of Behr Psychology, Dr Jessica January Behr. Jessica explains what red flags actually are, what they can teach us about ourselves and whether there is any hope that the red flags we spot in our potential partners might ever change. If you've been struggling with troublesome behaviour when it comes to your relationships - either from someone else or indeed yourself - Jessica will help you start to unpack why you feel the way you do and what signs might be waving right in front of your face! Jessica's Links: www.behrpsychology.com Instagram/TikTok is @behrpsychology On this month's Episode of Into You, Fern chats to licensed psychologist, founder and director of Behr Psychology, Dr Jessica January Behr. Jessica explains what red flags actually are, what they can teach us about ourselves and whether there is any hope that the red flags we spot in our potential partners might ever change. If you've been struggling with troublesome behaviour when it comes to your relationships - either from someone else or indeed yourself - Jessica will help you start to unpack why you feel the way you do and what signs might be waving right in front of your face! Jessica's Links: www.behrpsychology.com Instagram/TikTok is @behrpsychology into you podcast, lecturer, psychologist, low vision, into you, jessica behr, fern lulham, blind, dating, blogger, author false full 19 9295b681-12ce-4d93-86c3-861a012288a3 Attraction in Action This is part two of our conversation with Dr James Jackson - a psychology researcher and lecturer on how hormones shape our bodies at Leeds Trinity University. James shares what online dating has done to attraction, whether marriage could be beneficial to your long-term health and if we can MAKE somebody become attracted to us. The sparks are flying, the chemistry's electric and you won't want to miss out!

Find out more about Dr. James Jackson

]]> Thu, 7 Apr 2022 12:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca This is part two of our conversation with Dr James Jackson - a psychology researcher and lecturer on how hormones shape our bodies at Leeds Trinity University. James shares what online dating has done to attraction, whether marriage could be beneficial to your long-term health and if we can MAKE somebody become attracted to us. The sparks are flying, the chemistry's electric and you won't want to miss out!

Find out more about Dr. James Jackson

]]> Attraction in Action Accessible Media Inc. 00:29:43 This is part two of our conversation with Dr James Jackson - a psychology researcher and lecturer on how hormones shape our bodies at Leeds Trinity University. James shares what online dating has done to attraction, whether marriage could be beneficial to your long-term health and if we can MAKE somebody become attracted to us The sparks are flying, the chemistry's electric and you won't want to miss out! This is part two of our conversation with Dr James Jackson - a psychology researcher and lecturer on how hormones shape our bodies at Leeds Trinity University. James shares what online dating has done to attraction, whether marriage could be beneficial to your long-term health and if we can MAKE somebody become attracted to us The sparks are flying, the chemistry's electric and you won't want to miss out! false full 18 74972d10-ad94-4259-9daa-35528718c09c The Anatomy of Attraction Sat, 5 Mar 2022 15:43:15 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca The Anatomy of Attraction Accessible Media Inc. 00:29:03 On this month's episode, we dig deep into the mystical phenomenon known as human attraction. I speak to Dr. James Jackson - a psychology researcher and lecturer at the Leeds Trinity University, who reveals why we are attracted to certain people more than others and what is going on inside our bodies at the time. James shares how tricky attraction can be and why so much of how we behave when it comes to attraction is completely unconscious and out of our control. To learn the secrets of attraction and how you can make yourself even more attractive to others, sit down and listen up, because this episode might just blow your mind! On this month's episode, we dig deep into the mystical phenomenon known as human attraction. I speak to Dr. James Jackson - a psychology researcher and lecturer at the Leeds Trinity University, who reveals why we are attracted to certain people more than others and what is going on inside our bodies at the time. James shares how tricky attraction can be and why so much of how we behave when it comes to attraction is completely unconscious and out of our control. To learn the secrets of attraction and how you can make yourself even more attractive to others, sit down and listen up, because this episode might just blow your mind! false full 17 c41e9541-0a87-4d36-9bfc-598280f88c49 Supporting An Anxious Partner On this episode of Into You, I talk to content creator, Trey Beckham, who runs a YouTube channel with his girlfriend, Alyssa. Alyssa has had anxiety since the start of their relationship five years ago and Trey talks about what this has meant for him and for them as a couple. Trey shares what Alyssa's anxiety has taught him and offers advice on the do's and definite don'ts to anyone trying to support an anxious partner. Whether you have been affected by anxiety yourself, have ever loved somebody who has or just want a little more insight into relationships in general, this episode has lots of valuable gems for you. From patience to empathy, from compromise to confidence, you will discover a huge amount about how to support a partner, whether they deal with anxiety or not.
 

Alyssa and Trey's YouTube


 

]]> Thu, 3 Feb 2022 12:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca On this episode of Into You, I talk to content creator, Trey Beckham, who runs a YouTube channel with his girlfriend, Alyssa. Alyssa has had anxiety since the start of their relationship five years ago and Trey talks about what this has meant for him and for them as a couple. Trey shares what Alyssa's anxiety has taught him and offers advice on the do's and definite don'ts to anyone trying to support an anxious partner. Whether you have been affected by anxiety yourself, have ever loved somebody who has or just want a little more insight into relationships in general, this episode has lots of valuable gems for you. From patience to empathy, from compromise to confidence, you will discover a huge amount about how to support a partner, whether they deal with anxiety or not.
 

Alyssa and Trey's YouTube


 

]]> Supporting An Anxious Partner Accessible Media Inc. 00:24:59 On this episode of Into You, I talk to content creator, Trey Beckham, who runs a YouTube channel with his girlfriend, Alyssa. Alyssa has had anxiety since the start of their relationship five years ago and Trey talks about what this has meant for him and for them as a couple. Trey shares what Alyssa's anxiety has taught him and offers advice on the do's and definite don'ts to anyone trying to support an anxious partner. Whether you have been affected by anxiety yourself, have ever loved somebody who has or just want a little more insight into relationships in general, this episode has lots of valuable gems for you. From patience to empathy, from compromise to confidence, you will discover a huge amount about how to support a partner, whether they deal with anxiety or not. On this episode of Into You, I talk to content creator, Trey Beckham, who runs a YouTube channel with his girlfriend, Alyssa. Alyssa has had anxiety since the start of their relationship five years ago and Trey talks about what this has meant for him and for them as a couple. Trey shares what Alyssa's anxiety has taught him and offers advice on the do's and definite don'ts to anyone trying to support an anxious partner. Whether you have been affected by anxiety yourself, have ever loved somebody who has or just want a little more insight into relationships in general, this episode has lots of valuable gems for you. From patience to empathy, from compromise to confidence, you will discover a huge amount about how to support a partner, whether they deal with anxiety or not. false full 16 544e039d-d214-44e9-aced-beec74327529 Dating Anxiety Diary On this episode, Fern chats to writer and YouTuber Lauren Rose, who has battled with severe anxiety, including agoraphobia and panic attacks, for many years. Lauren shares how anxiety has impacted her love life, giving tips on how to deal with anxiety when dating and opening up about some of her worst fears about the early stages of being in a relationship. She speaks openly and honestly about what having anxiety feels like and what has helped her to cope and build a long-term, lasting relationship.

As always, there is something for everyone in this episode. As Lauren points out, we all have our skeletons in the closet, but we all equally want to connect with others and be accepted and loved for who we are. If you have ever doubted yourself when it comes to dating or know somebody else who has, this is the episode for you!

Lauren's YouTube: 

 

 

]]> Thu, 6 Jan 2022 12:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca On this episode, Fern chats to writer and YouTuber Lauren Rose, who has battled with severe anxiety, including agoraphobia and panic attacks, for many years. Lauren shares how anxiety has impacted her love life, giving tips on how to deal with anxiety when dating and opening up about some of her worst fears about the early stages of being in a relationship. She speaks openly and honestly about what having anxiety feels like and what has helped her to cope and build a long-term, lasting relationship.

As always, there is something for everyone in this episode. As Lauren points out, we all have our skeletons in the closet, but we all equally want to connect with others and be accepted and loved for who we are. If you have ever doubted yourself when it comes to dating or know somebody else who has, this is the episode for you!

Lauren's YouTube: 

 

 

]]> Dating Anxiety Diary Accessible Media Inc. 00:30:07 On this episode, Fern chats to writer and YouTuber Lauren Rose, who has battled with severe anxiety, including agoraphobia and panic attacks, for many years. Lauren shares how anxiety has impacted her love life, giving tips on how to deal with anxiety when dating and opening up about some of her worst fears about the early stages of being in a relationship. She speaks openly and honestly about what having anxiety feels like and what has helped her to cope and build a long-term, lasting relationship. As always, there is something for everyone in this episode. As Lauren points out, we all have our skeletons in the closet, but we all equally want to connect with others and be accepted and loved for who we are. If you have ever doubted yourself when it comes to dating or know somebody else who has, this is the episode for you! Lauren's YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/LaurenRose1 On this episode, Fern chats to writer and YouTuber Lauren Rose, who has battled with severe anxiety, including agoraphobia and panic attacks, for many years. Lauren shares how anxiety has impacted her love life, giving tips on how to deal with anxiety when dating and opening up about some of her worst fears about the early stages of being in a relationship. She speaks openly and honestly about what having anxiety feels like and what has helped her to cope and build a long-term, lasting relationship. As always, there is something for everyone in this episode. As Lauren points out, we all have our skeletons in the closet, but we all equally want to connect with others and be accepted and loved for who we are. If you have ever doubted yourself when it comes to dating or know somebody else who has, this is the episode for you! Lauren's YouTube: https://youtube.com/c/LaurenRose1 false full 15 6c60ae8e-071f-4a7d-8677-ba896efe8bab Festive Romance Unwrapped In this month's episode of Into You, we take a good look at the psychology behind love during the holidays.  

Clinical psychologist, relationship expert and author of Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly, Dr. Carla Marie Manly, talks us through such issues as how to celebrate being single this holiday season, what strategies work best for a day at the in-laws', whether to avoid a break-up until after the holidays or simply bite the bullet, and helps us navigate the tricky topic of what to say if your partner doesn't quite get you want you were hoping for this festive season!  

Yes, whether you're happily single, seeking someone or romantically settled, this episode has something for everyone and is sure to well and truly get you in the holiday spirit!

Find Dr. Manly at her website www.drcarlamanly.com  

]]> Thu, 2 Dec 2021 11:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca In this month's episode of Into You, we take a good look at the psychology behind love during the holidays.  

Clinical psychologist, relationship expert and author of Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly, Dr. Carla Marie Manly, talks us through such issues as how to celebrate being single this holiday season, what strategies work best for a day at the in-laws', whether to avoid a break-up until after the holidays or simply bite the bullet, and helps us navigate the tricky topic of what to say if your partner doesn't quite get you want you were hoping for this festive season!  

Yes, whether you're happily single, seeking someone or romantically settled, this episode has something for everyone and is sure to well and truly get you in the holiday spirit!

Find Dr. Manly at her website www.drcarlamanly.com  

]]> Festive Romance Unwrapped Accessible Media Inc. 00:33:34 In this month's episode of Into You, we take a good look at the psychology behind love during the holidays. Clinical psychologist, relationship expert and author of Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly, Dr. Carla Marie Manly, talks us through such issues as how to celebrate being single this holiday season, what strategies work best for a day at the in-laws', whether to avoid a break-up until after the holidays or simply bite the bullet, and helps us navigate the tricky topic of what to say if your partner doesn't quite get you want you were hoping for this festive season! Yes, whether you're happily single, seeking someone or romantically settled, this episode has something for everyone and is sure to well and truly get you in the holiday spirit! In this month's episode of Into You, we take a good look at the psychology behind love during the holidays. Clinical psychologist, relationship expert and author of Date Smart: Transform Your Relationships and Love Fearlessly, Dr. Carla Marie Manly, talks us through such issues as how to celebrate being single this holiday season, what strategies work best for a day at the in-laws', whether to avoid a break-up until after the holidays or simply bite the bullet, and helps us navigate the tricky topic of what to say if your partner doesn't quite get you want you were hoping for this festive season! Yes, whether you're happily single, seeking someone or romantically settled, this episode has something for everyone and is sure to well and truly get you in the holiday spirit! into you podcast, low vision, dr. carla marie manly, clinical psychologist, into you, date smart: transform your relationships and love fearlessly, fern lulham, blind, family, holidays, dating, christmas, author, break-ups, in-laws, gifts, relationship expert false full 14 a650ebe5-042d-4792-aea9-b891c56dfbde Getting Attached To Your Match Thu, 4 Nov 2021 12:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca Getting Attached To Your Match Accessible Media Inc. 00:28:56 This month on Into you, we are delving deep into the psychology of the relationship world as we ask: "What is your template for love?" Psychologist, author, blogger and lecturer Aimee Daramus discusses attachment theory and what it might mean for your love life. Find out which attachment style you have, how it impacts your relationships and what you can do to overcome any issues this might be causing. Aimee also tells us how talking about somebody's childhood memories on a first date could give you some key insight into who the person across the table from you really is. This episode is jam-packed with some juicy subjects and one you definitely don't want to miss, no matter what your relationship status! This month on Into you, we are delving deep into the psychology of the relationship world as we ask: "What is your template for love?" Psychologist, author, blogger and lecturer Aimee Daramus discusses attachment theory and what it might mean for your love life. Find out which attachment style you have, how it impacts your relationships and what you can do to overcome any issues this might be causing. Aimee also tells us how talking about somebody's childhood memories on a first date could give you some key insight into who the person across the table from you really is. This episode is jam-packed with some juicy subjects and one you definitely don't want to miss, no matter what your relationship status! into you podcast, lecturer, psychologist, low vision, into you, fern lulham, blind, dating, template, blogger, author, amiee daramus false full 13 d36bc98a-8b26-489b-8c0f-72d04112241e Long Distance Love Laid Bare This month on Into You, we dive deeper into the science of long-distance dating as Fern chats to psychologist, relationship coach and family therapist, Elena Semenek.

 Elena explains why someone may be drawn to a long-distance relationship, the hardest part about being so far away from your partner from a psychological perspective, and shares her six stages of long-distance relationships. Down-to-earth, honest and passionate, Elena's words will help you to decide whether long-distance love is the right thing for you or someone you care about. 

This is invaluable advice for anyone considering far-flung romance - or (as always) anyone fascinated by dating dynamics in general! 

Elena Semenek on YouTube

]]> Thu, 7 Oct 2021 16:18:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca This month on Into You, we dive deeper into the science of long-distance dating as Fern chats to psychologist, relationship coach and family therapist, Elena Semenek.

 Elena explains why someone may be drawn to a long-distance relationship, the hardest part about being so far away from your partner from a psychological perspective, and shares her six stages of long-distance relationships. Down-to-earth, honest and passionate, Elena's words will help you to decide whether long-distance love is the right thing for you or someone you care about. 

This is invaluable advice for anyone considering far-flung romance - or (as always) anyone fascinated by dating dynamics in general! 

Elena Semenek on YouTube

]]> Long Distance Love Laid Bare Accessible Media Inc. 00:30:13 This month on Into You, we dive deeper into the science of long-distance dating as Fern chats to psychologist, relationship coach and family therapist, Elena Semenek. Elena explains why someone may be drawn to a long-distance relationship, the hardest part about being so far away from your partner from a psychological perspective, and shares her six stages of long-distance relationships. Down-to-earth, honest and passionate, Elena's words will help you to decide whether long-distance love is the right thing for you or someone you care about. This is invaluable advice for anyone considering far-flung romance - or (as always) anyone fascinated by dating dynamics in general! This month on Into You, we dive deeper into the science of long-distance dating as Fern chats to psychologist, relationship coach and family therapist, Elena Semenek. Elena explains why someone may be drawn to a long-distance relationship, the hardest part about being so far away from your partner from a psychological perspective, and shares her six stages of long-distance relationships. Down-to-earth, honest and passionate, Elena's words will help you to decide whether long-distance love is the right thing for you or someone you care about. This is invaluable advice for anyone considering far-flung romance - or (as always) anyone fascinated by dating dynamics in general! into you podcast, psychologist, france, low vision, into you, relationship coach, taiwan, advice, long-distance relationships, therapist, pandemic, fern lulham, peru, blind, family therapist, elena semenek, dating, long-distance, youtube false full 12 1d2d9141-717a-4d2b-a0e6-574c668601ff Long Distance Love On this month's Into You, we're asking the question, "Does absence really make the heart grow fonder?" as we find out what it's like to be in love with someone who lives far away from you.

I chat to Leo (from France) and Kyomi (from Peru), about the long-distance relationship which started when they met via a language exchange app called Tandem. Leo and Kyomi share what it was like when their first meeting was rudely interrupted by the pandemic and how they kept their long-distance love alive during lockdown.

I also speak to Grace, a YouTuber from Taiwan, who has had three long-distance relationships and shares her roller coaster journey to happiness, and gives advice about what you should consider before jumping into "this kind of sweet nightmare."

So grab your map and get ready to go the distance as we find out what love is like when your partner lives half a world away!

Leo and Kyomi's blog

Grace's YouTube channel

]]> Thu, 2 Sep 2021 12:35:52 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca On this month's Into You, we're asking the question, "Does absence really make the heart grow fonder?" as we find out what it's like to be in love with someone who lives far away from you.

I chat to Leo (from France) and Kyomi (from Peru), about the long-distance relationship which started when they met via a language exchange app called Tandem. Leo and Kyomi share what it was like when their first meeting was rudely interrupted by the pandemic and how they kept their long-distance love alive during lockdown.

I also speak to Grace, a YouTuber from Taiwan, who has had three long-distance relationships and shares her roller coaster journey to happiness, and gives advice about what you should consider before jumping into "this kind of sweet nightmare."

So grab your map and get ready to go the distance as we find out what love is like when your partner lives half a world away!

Leo and Kyomi's blog

Grace's YouTube channel

]]> Long Distance Love Accessible Media Inc. 00:30:12 On this month's Into You, we're asking the question, "Does absence really make the heart grow fonder?" as we find out what it's like to be in love with someone who lives far away from you. I chat to Leo (from France) and Kyomi (from Peru), about the long-distance relationship which started when they met via a language exchange app called Tandem. Leo and Kyomi share what it was like when their first meeting was rudely interrupted by the pandemic and how they kept their long-distance love alive during lockdown. I also speak to Grace, a YouTuber from Taiwan, who has had three long-distance relationships and shares her roller coaster journey to happiness, and gives advice about what you should consider before jumping into "this kind of sweet nightmare." So grab your map and get ready to go the distance as we find out what love is like when your partner lives half a world away! Links: Leo and Kyomi's blog: https://my-sweet-ldr.com/ Grace's YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/channel/UCdDXxoBQ63BI1J3Fcsl0jqA On this month's Into You, we're asking the question, "Does absence really make the heart grow fonder?" as we find out what it's like to be in love with someone who lives far away from you. I chat to Leo (from France) and Kyomi (from Peru), about the long-distance relationship which started when they met via a language exchange app called Tandem. Leo and Kyomi share what it was like when their first meeting was rudely interrupted by the pandemic and how they kept their long-distance love alive during lockdown. I also speak to Grace, a YouTuber from Taiwan, who has had three long-distance relationships and shares her roller coaster journey to happiness, and gives advice about what you should consider before jumping into "this kind of sweet nightmare." So grab your map and get ready to go the distance as we find out what love is like when your partner lives half a world away! Links: Leo and Kyomi's blog: https://my-sweet-ldr.com/ Grace's YouTube channel: https://youtube.com/channel/UCdDXxoBQ63BI1J3Fcsl0jqA into you podcast, france, kyomi, low vision, into you, social media influencer, taiwan, long-distance relationships, pandemic, fern lulham, peru, blind, dating, long-distance, grace, youtube, leo false full 11 4be4d0d6-e78d-42ef-acea-33f2cf27b0b9 The Science Behind A Toxic Mind Thu, 5 Aug 2021 12:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca The Science Behind A Toxic Mind Accessible Media Inc. 00:32:17 In the final of our three-part series on domestic abuse, Fern speaks to psychologist and researcher Dr. Dina McMillan to uncover the science behind toxic relationships. Dr. Dina shares why people become abusive, what to look out for in a potential partner and offers some tips and tricks she has used in dating in order to avoid getting involved with an abusive person. Dr. Dina's passion for spreading the message about abuse and helping people find happy, healthy relationships is infectious and her insight into the psychology and dynamics behind domestic violence is invaluable. All that and more on this month's Into You. This is an episode not to be missed! In the final of our three-part series on domestic abuse, Fern speaks to psychologist and researcher Dr. Dina McMillan to uncover the science behind toxic relationships. Dr. Dina shares why people become abusive, what to look out for in a potential partner and offers some tips and tricks she has used in dating in order to avoid getting involved with an abusive person. Dr. Dina's passion for spreading the message about abuse and helping people find happy, healthy relationships is infectious and her insight into the psychology and dynamics behind domestic violence is invaluable. All that and more on this month's Into You. This is an episode not to be missed! into you podcast, psychologist, abuse, low vision, into you, fern lulham, researcher, blind, dating, domestic abuse, dr. dina mcmillan false full 10 aadf1e08-3291-43e1-b3aa-2b8f6474e0cc When Silence Hides Violence Thu, 1 Jul 2021 11:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca When Silence Hides Violence Accessible Media Inc. 00:29:29 In this month's episode of Into You, I speak to TEDx speaker Andrew Pain, a male victim of domestic violence. Andrew shares his story of hiding the emotional and physical abuse he was facing at the hands of his ex-wife, how he believed he needed to "man up," and why he feared leaving the relationship may mean losing his children. Andrew highlights the importance of boundaries in a relationship, and why having people you trust who can offer you an outside perspective can be crucial. He also speaks of the stigma and shame surrounding being a male victim of domestic abuse. Follow Andrew's journey and find out what he learned along the way about romantic relationships and about himself. Andrew's TEDx Talk In this month's episode of Into You, I speak to TEDx speaker Andrew Pain, a male victim of domestic violence. Andrew shares his story of hiding the emotional and physical abuse he was facing at the hands of his ex-wife, how he believed he needed to "man up," and why he feared leaving the relationship may mean losing his children. Andrew highlights the importance of boundaries in a relationship, and why having people you trust who can offer you an outside perspective can be crucial. He also speaks of the stigma and shame surrounding being a male victim of domestic abuse. Follow Andrew's journey and find out what he learned along the way about romantic relationships and about himself. Andrew's TEDx Talk into you podcast, abuse, andrew pain, trust, low-vision, ex-wife, into you, boundaries, fern lulham, blind, male, dating, domestic abuse, tedx talk false full 9 81cc44e6-2fbd-4c2c-9092-34d24c4e695a When Love Turns Lethal Thu, 3 Jun 2021 13:36:16 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Blind, Leslie Morgan Steiner, ex-husband, abuse, Crazy Love, Low-Vision, gunpoint, domestic abuse, strangled, Into You Podcast, beaten, TED Talk, Fern Lulham, gun, Into You, Dating) http://www.ami.ca When Love Turns Lethal Blind, Leslie Morgan Steiner, ex-husband, abuse, Crazy Love, Low-Vision, gunpoint, domestic abuse, strangled, Into You Podcast, beaten, TED Talk, Fern Lulham, gun, Into You, Dating 00:29:18 This month on Into You, we're getting serious as we delve into the dark depths of domestic abuse. I speak to two-time TED speaker and the author of Crazy Love, Leslie Morgan Steiner, about the roller coaster romance she had with her abusive ex-husband. Leslie was beaten, strangled and held at gunpoint on numerous occasions by a man who claimed to love her. She tells the story of how she fell into this relationship, how the abuse unfolded and what made it so hard to walk away from. Leslie also smashes many stereotypes and misconceptions around abuse and highlights the importance of "breaking the silence" about this chilling subject. Powerful, informative, captivating and authentic, Leslie's story has a lesson for everyone. Watch Leslie's TED Talk Anti-Violence Resources in Canada Resources in UK This month on Into You, we're getting serious as we delve into the dark depths of domestic abuse. I speak to two-time TED speaker and the author of Crazy Love, Leslie Morgan Steiner, about the roller coaster romance she had with her abusive ex-husband. Leslie was beaten, strangled and held at gunpoint on numerous occasions by a man who claimed to love her. She tells the story of how she fell into this relationship, how the abuse unfolded and what made it so hard to walk away from. Leslie also smashes many stereotypes and misconceptions around abuse and highlights the importance of "breaking the silence" about this chilling subject. Powerful, informative, captivating and authentic, Leslie's story has a lesson for everyone. Watch Leslie's TED Talk Anti-Violence Resources in Canada Resources in UK false full 8 3411f3bb-46d0-4def-afe7-5cdab537e76f Disabled Dating Kelsey's YouTube channel:

Liz Mazur

]]> Thu, 6 May 2021 11:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca Kelsey's YouTube channel:

Liz Mazur

]]> Disabled Dating Accessible Media Inc. 00:34:23 Following April's "Disability Kissability" podcast, May's edition of Into You will bring you the second in this two-part series on dating with a disability. In this episode, I chat to an interabled couple about how disability affected their dating journey. Kelsey, (who was born with a limb difference) and Paul who does not have a disability share their story of doubts, indecision, communication and breaking down barriers in order to understand one another - and how, these days, they both very often forget Kelsey even has a disability at all! I also speak with psychologist, Elizabeth Mazur, who has researched the topic of dating with a disability and talks about aspects such as which sex is more likely to date a disabled person, the dynamics behind why people are so hesistant to date somebody with a disability and how we can change our way of thinking to be more open-minded from both sides. Funny, relatable, honest and down-to-Earth about issues which disabled and non-disabled people alike will find equally as identifiable, this is an episode not to be missed! Following April's "Disability Kissability" podcast, May's edition of Into You will bring you the second in this two-part series on dating with a disability. In this episode, I chat to an interabled couple about how disability affected their dating journey. Kelsey, (who was born with a limb difference) and Paul who does not have a disability share their story of doubts, indecision, communication and breaking down barriers in order to understand one another - and how, these days, they both very often forget Kelsey even has a disability at all! I also speak with psychologist, Elizabeth Mazur, who has researched the topic of dating with a disability and talks about aspects such as which sex is more likely to date a disabled person, the dynamics behind why people are so hesistant to date somebody with a disability and how we can change our way of thinking to be more open-minded from both sides. Funny, relatable, honest and down-to-Earth about issues which disabled and non-disabled people alike will find equally as identifiable, this is an episode not to be missed! false full 7 105bcb00-67fd-4199-b694-322486c688ff Disability Kissability Thu, 1 Apr 2021 11:00:00 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca Disability Kissability Accessible Media Inc. 00:33:16 What is dating like when you have a disability, and what lessons can we all take from that - disabled or not? In this episode of Into You, we're talking about a topic which, (as a blind lady myself) is close to my heart: dating with a disability! I chat with mental health advocate and vlogger Paige, who has been a life-long wheelchair user, and model, actor and personal trainer Julian, who was born with only one arm. We discuss everything from disclosing your disability to maintaining confidence despite stark rejection, and what makes it so important to understand why some people may be hesitant about dating a person who is disabled. Paige speaks about her very own social experiment in which she tested out Tinder users' reactions to pictures of her both with and without her wheelchair in her profile and Julian shares some psychological facts which very much made him doubt his chances of dating success as a young man with a disability. It's a subject surrounded by taboos and uncertainty, so join me as we seek to dispel misconceptions and help break down barriers when it comes to dating and disability from both sides. Links: Paige can be found on social media: @alifelookingup Julian can be found online: @julianwlucas What is dating like when you have a disability, and what lessons can we all take from that - disabled or not? In this episode of Into You, we're talking about a topic which, (as a blind lady myself) is close to my heart: dating with a disability! I chat with mental health advocate and vlogger Paige, who has been a life-long wheelchair user, and model, actor and personal trainer Julian, who was born with only one arm. We discuss everything from disclosing your disability to maintaining confidence despite stark rejection, and what makes it so important to understand why some people may be hesitant about dating a person who is disabled. Paige speaks about her very own social experiment in which she tested out Tinder users' reactions to pictures of her both with and without her wheelchair in her profile and Julian shares some psychological facts which very much made him doubt his chances of dating success as a young man with a disability. It's a subject surrounded by taboos and uncertainty, so join me as we seek to dispel misconceptions and help break down barriers when it comes to dating and disability from both sides. Links: Paige can be found on social media: @alifelookingup Julian can be found online: @julianwlucas into you podcast, low-vision, into you, sex, sexuality, fern lulham, blind, awareness, dating, accessibility false full 6 6440f172-0e5a-468d-9804-2537f265d1cc Ghosting with Renee Slansky Fern chats with dating expert Renee Slansky about her professional take on ghosting. We explore how people are affected differently, how to know when it's time to give up on someone, and how we get stuck in a haunted house of our own making by refusing to let go of somebody who has ghosted us. Whether you've experienced being ghosted, know somebody who has, or share a fascination for dating dynamics, this is a must-hear episode guaranteed to blow away the cobwebs and leave you in high spirits.

Renee's links: www.reneeslansky.com or search Renee Slansky on social media for more. 

]]> Thu, 4 Mar 2021 15:49:35 +0000 podcasts@ami.ca (Accessible Media Inc. ) http://www.ami.ca Fern chats with dating expert Renee Slansky about her professional take on ghosting. We explore how people are affected differently, how to know when it's time to give up on someone, and how we get stuck in a haunted house of our own making by refusing to let go of somebody who has ghosted us. Whether you've experienced being ghosted, know somebody who has, or share a fascination for dating dynamics, this is a must-hear episode guaranteed to blow away the cobwebs and leave you in high spirits.

Renee's links: www.reneeslansky.com or search Renee Slansky on social media for more. 

]]> Ghosting with Renee Slansky Accessible Media Inc. 00:28:23 Fern chats with dating expert Renee Slansky about her professional take on ghosting. We explore how people are affected differently, how to know when it's time to give up on someone, and how we get stuck in a haunted house of our own making by refusing to let go of somebody who has ghosted us. Whether you've experienced being ghosted, know somebody who has, or share a fascination for dating dynamics, this is a must-hear episode guaranteed to blow away the cobwebs and leave you in high spirits. Fern chats with dating expert Renee Slansky about her professional take on ghosting. We explore how people are affected differently, how to know when it's time to give up on someone, and how we get stuck in a haunted house of our own making by refusing to let go of somebody who has ghosted us. 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It may sound like an impossible task, but this is the guy for the job. He reassured me, "With online dating you can create a love life from scratch guaranteed always". We delve into the psychology behind topics such as why people are dishonest in their profile, what makes online dating so difficult and how a spoonful of self-awareness can make meeting someone online taste so much sweeter. This is your one-stop shop for online dating advice and positivity, which is sure to shift your perspective and leave you feeling motivated. In this episode, I chat to TV dating coach, author and TEDx speaker, Evan Marc Katz about how to transform your online dating experience and make it something you feel excited about. It may sound like an impossible task, but this is the guy for the job. He reassured me, "With online dating you can create a love life from scratch guaranteed always". 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