Folger's incest commercial: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uMwFWDIFVCU

The Michelle Wolf bit we talked about: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GcyPVW5WrFI

The interview with Veronica Roth we quoted: https://www.hogwartsprofessor.com/10-questions-with-veronica-roth-author-of-the-divergent-trilogy-part-2-elizabeth-baird-hardys-questions/

This club has everything - cult talk, dtr, jokes at Four's expense, inconsistent characterization of Tris and so much more.

In this chapter we talk about Al, his incredibly fucked up memorial service and we touch on our favorite topic - cults.  We also talk about how Colleen's dad invented a boyfriend for her whole-cloth over Christmas so it's not all doom and gloom.

CW for the last 10 minutes: physical and sexual assault

In this episode we finally get more (but not better) information about being ~Divergent~ from both Four and Tori!  We also have more information about how deep the cult programming in this compound runs!  We get introduced to another character who's not like other girls because he's a dolphin!

Also notable, fun, and relevant fact - today I, Rebecca, learned that Joseph R McCarthy died in 1957.  Tune in to see how we connect those dots.

Article referenced: https://clickhole.com/heartbreaking-the-worst-person-you-know-just-made-a-gr-1825121606/

Quileute Move to Higher Ground Project: https://mthg.org/

The History of American Thanksgiving: https://www.potawatomi.org/blog/2020/11/25/the-true-dark-history-of-thanksgiving/

Find Joseph's Technicolor Memecoat here: https://twitter.com/josephsmemecoat?lang=en

Apologies for the break - life is happening! All the time! But we are still reading these bad books! 

Edit this episode done by Archer! Big thanks! 

SNL skit mentioned: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TOq0dzxouts

Content warning for SA and related situations (more in episode) from 13:26 to 21:32.

Shia LeBeouf: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o0u4M6vppCI

Contractually obligated: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXowfha2dTE

Ketchup article: https://www.newyorker.com/magazine/2004/09/06/the-ketchup-conundrum?fbclid=IwAR2jlRglsoXxgrPHy-opMWkq9IAc9T9Y_qMBIAvbTj_e-MymOL4ZTSy_f98

Article Colleen was talking about (sorry, it's the Houston Press): https://www.houstonpress.com/arts/no-it-s-not-your-opinion-you-re-just-wrong-updated-7611752

Steven Hassan's website: https://freedomofmind.com/

The book Rebecca mentioned: https://freedomofmind.com/resource-links/books/combating-cult-mind-control/

TedEd video about the history and flaws of the IQ Test: https://ed.ted.com/lessons/the-dark-history-of-iq-tests-stefan-c-dombrowski#watch

Tumblr post: https://weaver-z.tumblr.com/post/625486379103731712/thatbassistbitch-weaver-z-divergent-is-a-bad

Polygon article: https://www.polygon.com/22449675/ya-dystopia-fad-ended

Princess Weekes video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zT5unKXnSUk

Relevant links: Dear Prudie - https://slate.com/human-interest/2016/11/dear-prudence-i-told-my-wife-ive-been-more-attracted-to-other-women.html (The letter we reference is the first! CW for emotional manipulation and threatening suicide in one letter further down in this link)

Gotta Go My Own Way (Star Wars Edition) - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXowfha2dTE (a classic, always relevant)

Content warning for mention of suicide throughout the episode.

As a reminder we're taking next week off to celebrate Honda Days, we'll be back on 12/29 with Chapter 40.  Please forgive Rebecca's audio situation, it does get fixed by next episode we promise! 

It's American Thanksgiving! Here is the link to the Quileute Move to Higher Ground project if you'd like to donate, and the other podcasts, etc. that Rebecca and Colleen mentioned.

Move to Higher Ground

Strict Scrutiny episode on the Indian Welfare Act

5-4 episode on the current Supreme Court term, including the Indian Welfare Act

A Tribe Called Geek - a great Native resource for fans of genre things, pop culture, etc

The Reductress article Rebecca and Colleen mention

On the bright side, we talk about Jane Austen? 

Apologies again for the mic-bumping noises as we troubleshoot new mics and new set ups! 

The best video on the Internet: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXowfha2dTE 

Apologies for the thumping noises - we were recording in person (YAY) and getting used to a new mic set up! 

CW for end of life care.

No episode next week! 

Content Warning: assault, psychological manipulation, domestic violence, abuse, school shootings

Disability rights groups:

Disability Rights Advocates - https://dralegal.org/

National Disability Rights Network - https://www.ndrn.org/

Ryan Gosling SNL alien sketches: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PfPdYYsEfAE

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kELDEdMbkyg

Here is the Sarah Z video Rebecca referenced: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9RgI1yH2_ys&t=482s

How One Man Convinced 200 Klu Klux Klan Members to Give Up Their Robes

Alex Hirsch reporting the Hamburglar: https://twitter.com/_alexhirsch/status/1324893912461291521?lang=en

Sarah Z video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o52zD-aGqjA

I've only exaggerated a little bit...

Why is this wild disclaimer here? Listen to find out! 

Article on YA dystopia: https://www.polygon.com/22449675/ya-dystopia-fad-ended

McSweeney's article: https://www.mcsweeneys.net/articles/as-the-token-female-member-of-this-action-adventure-team-my-job-is-to-kick

Don't you love it when we're together? 

Also, Edward's a liar and a coward and we hate him.

It was quite short.

Video on sled dogs: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HDG4GSypcIE

Any editing mistakes are the gift of half of your favorite podcasting duo Rebecca who did her very best.  Be gentle, it's her first time.

Article about Stephanie Meyer's reticence towards diversity: https://www.indiewire.com/2018/10/catherine-hardwicke-twilight-diverse-cast-stephenie-meyer-refused-1202009330/

Here's the Sarah Z. video on Dr. Horrible: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cUxtQX9XSJs

Apologies again for the thunder in the background.

I obviously do not own that music so no one snitch, okay?

Here's the extremely long video Rebecca mentioned: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M0QhgQ-g4C0

Here is part of the movie scene (it has Marcus' ICONIC demise). WARNING: it is quite gory and definitely not for everyone, so if you hate violence and dismemberment this is not for you: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lTn0ytufQjU&t=88s

And we talk about the chapter too. 

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l6qeV4zwWRI

CONTENT WARNING: Discussions of intense racism throughout the episode. 

1) Back to Bella's perspective

2) Some flamin' hot takes on classic books and movies by Colleen

3) A very special guest segment starring Quentin! 

Some clarity on Rebecca's wild sci fi movie:

It came out way after Alien because Rebecca thought Alien came out in the 90s (it came out in the 70s)

It was NOT called Alien, it had a fully different title

It was not formative sci fi in any way

Sorry about Colleen's audio again. 

Also... Colleen's audio problems are new, different, and exciting this week! We apologize for the lower quality and promise we're hard at work on a solution. 

Content warning: This episode contains discussion of suicide and suicidal ideation. 

Content warning for: abortions, pregnancy, lost pregnancies 

"Kimye's" house, for reference: https://www.architecturaldigest.com/story/kim-kardashian-kanye-west-home

Here's a good video on gender abolition: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a_d6I76Sscw&feature=youtu.be&fbclid=IwAR18khTzi1YmEOj7bPA7Q-ev3MiSEO29na36BB0nWkH4cy5ge5UAPcjWf7Y&ab_channel=FuckingLautrec

Revenge of the Sith meets HSM2: https://trylonandperisphere.tumblr.com/post/140513518582/rkylo-princezilla-frozenmusings-ohtze?fbclid=IwAR2JzfXfdaoDOf9etwLfDC1sXXdwH8beL0QLuHUGc5L8UT6SuqrzEXgZxRU

Rise of Skywalker trailer music analysis: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pJssXWOYUGQ&ab_channel=CharlesCornell

Here's the video about the Supreme Court decision: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7gr6DpjEmWo

And if you want to see a hyena skull: http://facstaff.susqu.edu/p/persons/hyena.htm

Here are the death of the author videos!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MGn9x4-Y_7A

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NViZYL-U8s0

Article on homophobia in the Bible: https://um-insight.net/perspectives/has-%E2%80%9Chomosexual%E2%80%9D-always-been-in-the-bible/

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vRqU-93mHns

https://open.spotify.com/playlist/343NUu7X5WzdIt7Zqy0wTO?si=rIubLgkCQ7azSky032M7Pw

Email donation receipts to trashedlight@gmail.com and I will match up to $20 per person for those organizations in my parent's honor, for my mom's birthday and Father's Day.

More about Juneteenth: https://www.juneteenth.com/history.htm

Article on surprise kisses: https://archive.attn.com/stories/11152/misconceptions-surprise-kiss

Hotlines and websites for assault info: https://www.thehotline.org/ and https://www.rainn.org/

Here is an article on why Guy Fieri is important! If you can guess how we relate this to Twilight, I'll be super impressed. https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/scaachikoul/guy-fieri-food-people-alison-roman-chrissy-teigen

Get ready to get your socks knocked off in this one folks. 

Government inaction around Native populations and the coronavirus: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/tribes-covid-19-federal-relief-treasury-deb-haaland_n_5ea9decac5b633a8544487d9?guccounter=1

Quileute Nation webpage: https://quileutenation.org/

Raven Tales: https://quileutenation.org/stories-and-tales/

Here's an article about grooming: https://wonder.ph/popculture/what-is-grooming-drake-millie-bobby-brown/

Here's that Reductress article: https://reductress.com/post/how-to-support-prison-abolition-while-still-hoping-harvey-weinstein-rots-in-prison-for-the-rest-of-his-days/

Here's that divorce link (or something similar): https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No-fault_divorce#Controversy

Here is the link about Nikki Reed and Ian Somerhalder and his relational abuse: https://www.huffpost.com/entry/ian-somerhalder-said-he-secretly-threw-out-wife-nikki-reeds-birth-control-pills_n_59c5443ee4b0cdc773311967

Here is the comic about mental load: https://english.emmaclit.com/2017/05/20/you-shouldve-asked/

Send us your team Edward (or Jacob) testimonials! You know that email: trashedlight@gmail.com. 

Apologies for the slightly our of tune violin playing - I didn't want to spend two hours getting it exactly right. 

Here's one of the best videos on the Internet: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VXowfha2dTE

Here, as promised, is a link to a small article from the Burke Museum in Seattle entitled "Truth vs. Twilight". The museum seems like a wonderful place and you should check the rest of the website out! https://www.burkemuseum.org/static/truth_vs_twilight/

Here is the Indiebound link for the book Colleen mentioned: https://www.indiebound.org/book/9780062470836

If you're interested in a wild Michael Sheen performance (and a different take on this scene than the book gave us), here is a clip from the movie: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qfsS2lJWTUg

Colleen was wrong about the cell phones on planes thing but right about the gas station thing and here are the receipts from Mythbusters to prove it: https://mythresults.com/episode49 and http://www.slate.com/blogs/business_insider/2014/10/03/cellphones_at_gas_stations_mythbusters_debunk_one_of_the_biggest_myths_in.html

Here is the vampire simulator Rebecca mentioned: https://www.omnicalculator.com/other/humans-vs-vampires

Here's the SparkNotes for R&J if you need a plot refresher: https://www.sparknotes.com/shakespeare/romeojuliet/

This episode has a section with content warnings for substance abuse, suicide, and suicidal ideation. If you or a friend or loved one ever feel like you need help, please talk to someone. The AFSP is a great place to start: https://afsp.org/ 

This week that well spent money will buy you: multiple rants/anecdotes from Colleen, and multiple uses of the word "woof" unironically from Rebecca. 

Reductress article mentioned: https://reductress.com/post/this-man-is-happy-he-owned-up-to-past-however-triggering-it-may-be-for-you/

Article on trauma and how it affects the body: https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/emotional-trauma-18/emotional-trauma-mind-body-connection

Hell's Angels helping victims of child abuse: https://harleyliberty.com/2018/08/03/biker-organization-supports-protects-children-of-abusepolice-concerned-about-rise-of-hells-angels-puppet-clubs/

Hugh Jackman magazine covers: https://themarysue.tumblr.com/post/58716099250/jadelyn-enterprisingly-this-is-the-same

(Any other/better Into the Woods parodies can be sent to trashedlight@gmail.com for approval by your favorite podcasting duo)

For those interested, from 0:35-1:13 in this video is the fun ~hand-holding~ scene in the New Moon movie: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nijGK0Qw-e0

Here is the Margaret Atwood quote we reference, but only read it if you're ready to be haunted by it every day for the rest of your life: https://www.goodreads.com/quotes/329778-male-fantasies-male-fantasies-is-everything-run-by-male-fantasies 

Here is a link to the full text of "The Yellow Wallpaper"

Here is the Wikipedia article on it, which provides some nice context.

And here is an article about drug abuse in rural America.

--Colleen, for way too long in this episode, as is her right as a podcast host.

Also there are some weird clicking noises in this episode that your fearless editor half tried to get rid of as completely as possible, and we apologize for the ones still there. 

Here is a link to the Twitter thread Rebecca mentioned about men expecting women to wait for them: https://cheezburger.com/7841285/twitter-user-shares-story-about-how-his-friend-lost-love-and-its-an-important-message-6-tweets

If you want to start therapy and are unsure how, reach out to your general practitioner doctor or start a web search of therapists in your area! We highly recommend it.

Book #2 babbbyyyyy!!!! I looked for almost 20 minutes and I could NOT find the David Tennant interview I referenced, sorry babes. I'll just let that morsel tempt you into finding out why we talk about David Tennant in this episode!