Dads Who Lead Podcast

110 The 1Up Effect- Pathway to Personal Growth w/ Thomas Edwards

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner, Thomas Edwards) — Tue, 2 Jun 2026 14:30:00 +0000

In this episode, Thomas shares his journey from seeking validation through superficial success to discovering divine purpose and authentic fulfillment. You'll discover how to shift from running away from your fears and insecurities toward embracing them as fuel for growth. Thomas breaks down how the "game loop"—a simple framework of daily practices—can help you master your mindset, emotions, and relationships, ultimately transforming your identity as a dad, leader, and man.

The 1Up Effect by Thomas Edwards

Set for release on June 2, 2026

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109 Building Family Legacy One Weekend at a Time

dadswholead@gmail.com (Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 26 May 2026 16:10:00 +0000

This episode is perfect for dads committed to leveling up their leadership—whether you’re seeking more active weekends, stronger family bonds, or memorable shared experiences. Don’t let another weekend slip away. Take control, plan ahead, and turn your family time into one of the most impactful investments you’ll ever make.

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108 Stop Overthinking w/ Nicky Billou

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner, Nicky Billou) — Fri, 22 May 2026 14:30:00 +0000

In this episode, you'll discover how Nickys' childhood in Iran, escaping tyranny, shaped his relentless passion for freedom and entrepreneurship. He breaks down how understanding your true mission can elevate your leadership at home and in business, with concrete frameworks like the “Ideal Client Model” that help clarify your message. Learn the secrets behind turning small, heartfelt shifts into monumental results.

107 Ego Free Leadership

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner) — Thu, 14 May 2026 14:30:00 +0000

Most dads are unknowingly killing their kids’ development by trying to control the outcomes — and often doing it out of ego. What if the key to raising confident, resilient children isn't more commands or rewards, but instead creating environments that teach lessons naturally?

Free Leadership Coaching Consult

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106 Rewrite Your Beliefs

dadswholead@gmail.com (Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 5 May 2026 14:30:00 +0000

Dive into the transformative journey of understanding the subconscious mind with Thomas Pfanner. Fresh from a coaches training in Medellin, he unravels the myths surrounding fear and belief systems. Discover how subconscious programming shapes our reality and learn practical steps to rewrite these codes for personal growth.This episode challenges the notion of denial and emphasizes embracing both strengths and weaknesses. Stay tuned for actionable insights that can redefine your approach to life and leadership.

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105 Resilience Unleashed w/ Ty Gipson

dadswholead@gmail.com (Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner, Ty Gipson) — Tue, 28 Apr 2026 14:30:00 +0000

Most of us face unimaginable challenges in silence, but Ty Gibson's story is a testament to resilience, hope, and the power of small daily gains. From being one of the first juvenile diabetics to wear an insulin pump in the 1970s to enduring kidney and pancreas transplants, Ty's journey is nothing short of extraordinary. His ability to transform life's hurdles into motivation will leave you inspired and ready to face your own battles with renewed strength.In this episode, Ty shares the gritty reality of living with type 1 diabetes before modern technology, revealing how perseverance and attitude can change everything. You'll discover how he navigated primitive insulin pumps that resembled shoeboxes, the emotional toll of juggling blood sugars, and the profound lessons learned from his mother's selfless donation of a kidney. His story illuminates the importance of resilience through multiple life-altering surgeries, aging challenges, and the heartbreak of health setbacks—all while maintaining a forward-looking mindset.We break down Ty's transformative "No Options" philosophy, rooted in three powerful pillars: choosing growth over despair, finding hope amidst chaos, and using humor to navigate life's toughest moments. You'll learn actionable frameworks like the "1% growth mindset," tiny habits that lead to monumental change, and the importance of celebrating small wins. These insights are invaluable for any parent, leader, or individual seeking to turn adversity into an advantage—and to live a life full of color rather than black and white.

https://tygipson.com/

104- A Mission to Serve w/ Matt King

dadswholead@gmail.com (Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner, Matt King) — Tue, 14 Apr 2026 15:15:00 +0000

In this episode, discover how a simple childhood lesson—"find the way or make the way"—shaped Matt’s relentless pursuit of impact. From growing up in a small Wisconsin town to crossing the country on two wheels, he shares the surprising power of showing up for others in their moments of greatest need. His journey is more than just a long ride; it’s a profound act of leadership that begins with making a choice — every day.

www.backtheride.com

103 When Men Get Ignored with Sean Corcoran

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner, Sean Corcoran) — Thu, 9 Apr 2026 18:35:00 +0000

Join us on an inspiring journey with Sean Corcoran as he shares his powerful story of transformation and redemption. From facing the depths of addiction and personal loss to finding purpose and healing, Sean's candid account reveals the profound impact of vulnerability and faith. Discover how he overcame adversity to become a beacon of hope and a leader in the pro-life movement. This episode delves into the challenges of authentic masculinity and the importance of standing firm in one's beliefs. Tune in to hear how Sean's experiences can inspire you to embrace your own journey of growth and resilience.

menforlife.org

102 - Setting Expectations

Wed, 1 Apr 2026 14:30:00 +0000

Unlock the secret to influential leadership at home by mastering the art of expectation. This episode reveals how understanding and managing expectations can transform your relationships and elevate your authority, whether you're a parent, coach, or leader in any field. Through compelling stories and practical tactics, discover why setting high standards paired with genuine connection fosters trust and respect. Learn how to involve others in decision-making, expand boundaries, and model independence to build resilient standards that stick. Perfect for anyone eager to deepen their impact and build lasting relationships, this episode provides a framework to lead confidently with standards rooted in connection and purpose. Transform your approach to leadership and influence the next generation with actionable strategies.

101 - Groundbreaking Adventure

dadswholead@gmail.com (Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner, The Leadership Dad) — Tue, 24 Mar 2026 14:00:00 +0000

Ever wonder why teenagers often push back harder when you try to set boundaries? This episode reveals how shifting from restriction to building skills and trust can transform your role from a barrier into a mentor your teens respect. Discover how adventures like martial arts and sports deepen connection and foster maturity, turning rebellion into resilience. We explore the critical role of mutual respect and how expanding your child's world strengthens your bond. Learn practical strategies to be seen as a source of growth, not restriction, and develop trust like nothing else. Perfect for parents committed to raising confident young heroes, this episode is about creating a legacy, one adventure at a time.

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100 - The Art of Earning Respect

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner, The Leadership Dad) — Wed, 18 Mar 2026 14:00:00 +0000

Struggling to earn genuine respect from your teenagers? This episode reveals the hidden keys to shifting your influence as a dad.

Discover the TWO secret engines that drive respect and learn how small shifts can open doors to deeper trust. If you're sick of average, flat conversations with your teenager, lock in and prepare to get a clear understanding of what the teenage brain needs to receive and give mutual respect.

099 Leadership FORGE Part 1

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner) — Wed, 11 Mar 2026 00:40:00 +0000

Most dads—especially those struggling to connect with their teenagers—are missing the foundational leadership attributes that truly influence their kids. Imagine understanding the exact mindset shifts that can turn your role from distant authority to trusted leader in your home. This episode uncovers the secret sauce behind the Forge Leadership Pyramid, revealing the two most critical attributes—faith and ownership—that lay the groundwork for authentic influence and deeper connections.In this celebratory milestone episode, Thomas Pfanner dives into the five attributes of leadership designed specifically for dads wanting to lead at a higher level. You’ll discover how faith—both in a higher power and in yourself—acts as the bedrock of confident leadership. Learn why ownership isn’t just about controlling your actions but about honing the mindset of controlling what’s within your power to change, especially during chaotic moments at home. Thomas shares powerful stories, including how even Olympic athletes’ performances are impacted by their faith in their team and how leaders can harness this insight to build respect, trust, and authority.We break down the science of influence with tangible strategies—how to strengthen your faith in your divine role, enhance your belief in your ability to improve, and foster ownership that inspires respect from your family. You’ll also hear about why many dads fail to make a lasting impact and how working intentionally on these core traits can turn your home into a place of growth, love, and respect. This episode isn’t just theory—it's a blueprint for transformation, packed with practical tips you can start applying today to elevate your leadership and deeply connect with your teenagers.Perfect for dads feeling like they’re losing their influence, or those wanting to create a legacy of strong, respectful relationships—this episode will equip you to lead with purpose, confidence, and love. If you’re ready to move beyond surface-level parenting and build a trust-filled connection that lasts, this is essential listening.Guest Credibility:

Thomas Pfanner is a leadership coach and father who specializes in helping men become the intentional leaders their families need. With a passion for faith-based principles and proven frameworks, he guides dads through the transformation process to leave a lasting legacy of influence.

Why this works:

The opening hook immediately addresses a core pain point for dads—losing influence with their teens—while teasing the solution of mastering the Forge Pyramid’s key attributes. The description highlights concrete insights, real-world stories, and practical strategies that resonate with dads seeking impactful change. It sparks curiosity about the foundational concepts of faith and ownership, motivating listeners to take action—and click play now.

098 Discipline Is Freedom w/ Jerry Curl

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner, Jerry Curl) — Tue, 3 Mar 2026 21:25:00 +0000

Embracing Transformation, Faith, and Love: Insights from Jerry Curl's Journey

In this heartfelt episode, Jerry Curl shares his inspiring story of resilience, transformation, and the power of love and faith. Discover how personal suffering can ignite a drive to create positive change in oneself and others, especially as a father and leader.

https://tcsaleadership.com

Key topics:

The significance of mental and physical resilience demonstrated through plank challenges and life hardships
How loss and tragedy can fuel a deeper connection to purpose and faith
The importance of role modeling love, trust, and authenticity to children and communities
Practical steps to transform habits: education, routine, and discipline
The critical role of spiritual health in overall well-being and overcoming life's challenges
Strategies to educate and motivate the next generation about health and self-affirmation
Building trust through love and authentic connection
The power of belief, vision, and shifting old mindsets to create a better future
How routine and discipline free us to live intentionally and thrive

097 From Prison to Purpose w/ Alex Donnolo

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner, Alex Donnolo) — Tue, 24 Feb 2026 23:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Dads Who Lead podcast, host Thomas Pfanner interviews Alex Donnolo, a father of four and CEO of Mav Don Real Estate. Alex shares his incredible journey from a troubled childhood marked by family dysfunction and substance abuse to facing serious legal challenges as a teenager. After being falsely accused and spending time in prison, Alex found faith and purpose, transforming his life and becoming a successful entrepreneur. He emphasizes the importance of resilience, forgiveness, and using one's story to inspire others, especially in guiding the next generation through their struggles.

https://www.alexdonnolo.com/

096 Unpause Your Love w/ Lee Baucom

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner, Lee Baucom, Tom Pfanner) — Tue, 17 Feb 2026 21:15:00 +0000

Mastering Connection: How to Strengthen Your Marriage from the Inside Out

In this episode, Dr. Lee Balkham shares a powerful framework for understanding and improving marriage through emotional, physical, and spiritual connection. Whether you're dating, engaged, or already married, his insights provide practical steps to deepen intimacy and foster lasting love.

Key Topics Covered:

The limitations of traditional therapy for couples and why many approaches fall short
The concept of the "pause button" in marriage and how disconnection occurs gradually
The three levels of connection: physical, emotional, and spiritual—and how to strengthen each
The importance of role modeling and intentional conversations for healthy relationships
The chemistry shift from adrenaline to endorphins in sustaining attraction
Practical steps for proactive relationship development, even before crises emerge
The significance of servant leadership in marriage and leading with purpose, not domination
Resources for restoring and unpausing relationships: Unpause app and Save the Marriage system

https://leebaucom.com/

095 Rethink College w/ Shellee Howard

dadswholead@gmail.com (Shellee Howard, Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner) — Tue, 10 Feb 2026 20:30:00 +0000

Unlocking Purpose and Financial Success for High Schoolers: Shellee Howard's Approach to College and Life Preparation

Discover how Shellee Howard, founder of College Ready and author, transforms the way parents and teens approach college, career, and life by emphasizing purpose, values, and early leadership. This episode offers actionable insights to empower your child's journey with intentionality and confidence.

https://collegereadyplan.com/best-college-admissions-consultants/shellee-howard/

094 The ADHD Superpower w Calvin Leung

dadswholead@gmail.com (Calvin Leung, Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Wed, 4 Feb 2026 00:31:18 +0000

Understanding ADHD: How Personal Growth and Emotional Awareness Can Be Your Superpower

In this episode, Calvin shares his personal journey discovering and managing ADHD, transforming it from a challenge into a strength. We explore how understanding emotional patterns, leveraging focus, and developing self-compassion can empower dads and men to thrive.

Resources & Links:

093 Communication with Kids w/ Drew Norton

dadswholead@gmail.com (Drew Norton, Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 27 Jan 2026 15:30:00 +0000

The podcast episode features a conversation between Tom Pfanner and Drew Norton, focusing on leadership, family, and personal growth. Drew shares his journey of balancing a successful sales career with family life, the challenges he faced, and the lessons learned from a life-altering experience with his son. The discussion emphasizes the importance of communication, emotional safety, and personal development in leadership, both at home and in business.

theeverydaysalesleader.com

To contact or learn more from Drew- Text: RISE to 928-928-5985

092 The Spark (Part 2) w/ Megan Pfanner

dadswholead@gmail.com (Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner, Megan Pfanner) — Thu, 22 Jan 2026 15:30:00 +0000

In this episode of the Dads Who Lead Podcast, Thomas Pfanner shares a personal journey with his wife, Megan, discussing their unique relationship and intentional approach to marriage. They delve into their past experiences, the challenges they faced, and the decisions that shaped their lives. The conversation touches on themes of personal growth, commitment, and the importance of open communication in relationships.

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091 The Spark (Part 1) w/ Thomas and Megan

dadswholead@gmail.com (Megan Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner) — Tue, 20 Jan 2026 15:30:00 +0000

In this episode of the Dad's Elite Podcast, Thomas Pfanner and his wife Megan explore the significance of masculine drive in relationships, their experiences as a blended family, and the challenges and rewards of parenting. They share personal stories about their relationship, discuss various parenting philosophies, and emphasize the importance of intentionality in building a strong family foundation. This episode is part one of a two-part series.

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090 Faith and Fatherhood w/ David "Goose" Mills

Tue, 13 Jan 2026 17:10:00 +0000

In this episode of the "Dads Who Lead" podcast, Tom Pfanner and David "Goose" Mills delve into the transformative journey of fatherhood and faith. They discuss the founding of Men's Alliance, a movement aimed at helping men embrace their masculine drive through community and shared physical challenges. David shares his personal story of overcoming life's hurdles by turning to faith and building a supportive brotherhood. The conversation highlights the importance of authentic connections, spiritual growth, and the role of fathers as leaders in their families and communities. Tune in to discover how embracing challenges can lead to personal and spiritual growth.

www.mensalliancetribe.com/about/leadership

089 Global Boy Crisis w/ Cheyanne "Ferghe" Lake

dadswholead@gmail.com (Cheyanne Lake, Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 6 Jan 2026 15:30:00 +0000

Tune into the Dads Who Lead Podcast as Tom Pfanner hosts Fergie Lake, a passionate advocate on a mission to spotlight the global crisis facing boys and men. Fergie shares her daring journey across India in a rickshaw, aiming to raise awareness and spark change. Through her adventure, she highlights the challenges and stories of young men, offering insights that will inspire you to rethink narratives around masculinity and education. This episode promises to engage and enlighten from start to finish.

088 The Seven Summits w/ Jenn Drummond

dadswholead@gmail.com (Jenn Drummond, Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner) — Mon, 5 Jan 2026 23:09:00 +0000

In this empowering episode of the Dads Who Lead podcast, host Tom Pfanner sits down with Jenn Drummond, a remarkable mother of seven who has defied the odds to achieve extraordinary feats. Jenn shares her inspiring journey from surviving a life-altering car accident to becoming the first woman to summit the second highest peaks on each of the seven continents. The conversation delves into themes of resilience, balancing family life with personal ambitions, and embracing challenges as opportunities for growth. This episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking motivation and empowerment, whether you're a mom, dad, or simply someone looking to overcome life's struggles and pursue your dreams.

https://jenndrummond.com/

087 The Unfair Advantage w/ Alex Feinberg

dadswholead@gmail.com (Alex Feinberg, Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner) — Tue, 30 Dec 2025 15:30:00 +0000

Join us on the Dads Who Lead podcast as we dive into an inspiring conversation with Alex Feinberg, a former professional athlete and founder of Feinberg Systems. Discover how Alex's unique insights on gaining an unfair advantage, mastering mental models, and embracing discomfort can transform your approach to success. Whether you're a dad looking to lead or someone seeking personal growth, this episode offers valuable lessons on leadership, fitness, and the power of a winning mindset.

feinbergsystems.com

086 What Would Jesus Post w/ Shawn Whitson

dadswholead@gmail.com (Shawn Whitson, Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner) — Tue, 23 Dec 2025 15:30:00 +0000

In this episode of the Dads Who Lead Podcast, hosts Tom Pfanner and Shawn Whitson dive into the launch of Acts Social, a new Christ-centered social media platform. They discuss the challenges of mainstream social media, emphasizing the importance of gratitude and faith in creating a positive online community. With over 5,000 users in its soft launch phase, Acts Social aims to filter out negativity and promote a safe, uplifting digital space. Join Tom and Shawn as they explore how faith and technology can intersect to foster spiritual growth and community.

https://actssocial.com/

085 Teens, Tech & Trafficking w/ Nate Lewis

dadswholead@gmail.com (Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner, Nate Lewis) — Tue, 9 Dec 2025 15:30:00 +0000

Join us on the "Dads Who Lead" podcast as Thomas Pfanner and Nate Lewis delve into the pressing issue of keeping kids safe in the digital age. This episode explores the challenges parents face with technology, offering insights into building trust and open communication with children. Nate shares his personal journey and practical strategies for safeguarding children's innocence, making this a must-listen for any parent committed to protecting their family in today's tech-driven world.

https://theinnocent.org/

084 Starting from your Gut w/ Dane Johnson

dadswholead@gmail.com (Dane Johnson, Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Fri, 5 Dec 2025 15:30:00 +0000

In this episode of "Dad's Who Lead," host Tom Pfanner welcomes Dane Johnson, Founder & CEO of Crohn's Colitis Lifestyle, to discuss the transformative journey from pain to purpose. Dane shares his personal battle with inflammatory bowel disease and how it led him to create a movement focused on gut health and holistic healing.

The conversation delves into the importance of nutrition, the impact of environmental factors on health, and the philosophy of leading by example. Listeners will gain insights into making informed lifestyle choices that promote health, leadership, and personal growth.

https://crohnscolitislifestyle.com/

083 Navigating NIL w/ Chris Miller

dadswholead@gmail.com (Chris Miller, Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 25 Nov 2025 16:30:00 +0000

In this episode of the Dads Who Lead podcast, Tom Pfanner and Chris Miller explore the evolving landscape of college athletics, focusing on the impact of NIL (Name, Image, Likeness) deals and scholarships. They discuss how these changes affect high school athletes and the role of brand development versus skill development. The conversation also highlights the importance of maintaining a balanced perspective for both athletes and parents, offering insights into how parents can support their children's journey through college sports recruitment and preparation.

082 Movement Leadership w/ Dr. Rikki West

dadswholead@gmail.com (Dr. Rikki West, Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Thu, 20 Nov 2025 15:30:00 +0000

In this episode of the Dad's Lead Podcast, Tom Pfanner and Dr. Rikki West delve into the science of mirror neurons and their role in building stronger connections through shared activities. They explore how engaging in activities like rock climbing or biking can deepen bonds between parents and children, and how these principles can be applied to leadership and team dynamics. Dr. West shares insights from her research, highlighting the importance of synchronized activities in fostering emotional connections and trust, making it a must-listen for dads and aspiring leaders alike.

https://itsrikkiwest.com/

081 Breaking Chains w/ Caleb Altmeyer

dadswholead@gmail.com (Caleb Altmeyer, Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner) — Tue, 18 Nov 2025 15:30:00 +0000

Join Thomas Pfanner as he sits down with Caleb Altmeyer, the visionary behind Helping Captives, in this compelling episode of "Dads Who Lead." Discover how Caleb's personal journey, shaped by his parents' unwavering resilience, led him to create a sanctuary for trafficked women. Delve into the profound impact of fatherhood and the pivotal role dads play in preventing trafficking. This episode sheds light on the cultural challenges we face and emphasizes the power of engaged, supportive families in fostering change. Tune in for an inspiring conversation that highlights the transformative power of love, faith, and community.

https://helpingcaptives.org/team

080 Finding Your Voice w/ Salvatore Manzi

dadswholead@gmail.com (Salvatore Manzi, Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner) — Thu, 13 Nov 2025 15:30:00 +0000

In this episode of "Dads Who Lead," we dive into the art of authentic communication and leadership with Salvatore Manzi, a seasoned speaking coach. Discover how to harness the power of presence and courage in conversations, whether at home or on stage. Learn practical strategies to bridge generational gaps, align with your values, and lead with integrity. Perfect for dads aiming to strengthen family bonds and anyone eager to elevate their communication skills. https://www.salvatoremanzi.com/

079 Life and Death w/ Anne Farrens

Tue, 11 Nov 2025 18:45:41 +0000

In this compelling episode of the Dads Who Lead Podcast, we explore the transformative journey of Anne Farrens, a resilient advocate and survivor. Anne bravely shares her personal story, addressing sensitive topics such as rape and abortion, while focusing on healing, resilience, and the power of love.

This episode is particularly impactful for fathers who may have faced similar challenges or are navigating difficult conversations with their children. It serves as a powerful reminder of the strength found in family, faith, and the unwavering support of a community.

https://annefarrens.com/

078 Navy Seal Leadership w/ Ray Cash

dadswholead@gmail.com (Ray Cash, Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Wed, 22 Oct 2025 14:55:00 +0000

Today, we're diving into a real issue many of us face: turning life's tough moments into stepping stones for growth. Join us as Ray Cash, a former Navy SEAL, opens up about his journey from a rocky start to becoming a strong leader and father.

Ray delivers no-nonsense strategies on how embracing vulnerability and redefining what it means to be a man can help you lead with confidence. If you're looking to turn your struggles into strengths and lead your family with purpose, this episode is for you.

Learn more about Ray:

https://raycashcare.com/

077 When Second Chance Arrives

dadswholead@gmail.com (Ryan Reichert, Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Thu, 16 Oct 2025 17:42:50 +0000

Today we step into a candid conversation with Ryan Reichert, a veteran and author who has faced the challenges of addiction head-on and emerged with a renewed sense of purpose. In this episode, Ryan opens up about his journey, sharing practical insights and hard-earned wisdom that resonate with anyone looking to make a change.

Whether you're navigating your own struggles or simply curious about finding new direction, Ryan's story offers a relatable and inspiring perspective. Discover how embracing vulnerability and redefining success can lead to a more fulfilling life. This is an invitation to explore fresh ideas and connect with experiences that might just spark your own transformation. Tune in and see how one man's path can light the way for others.

Ryan's Website:

https://ourprotectordevelopment.com/

076 The Unbreakable Man Project

dadswholead@gmail.com (Steve Coughran, Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner) — Tue, 14 Oct 2025 14:30:00 +0000

Thomas welcomes guest Steve Coughran to delve into the journey of men who feel stuck in the daily grind, merely surviving rather than truly living. Steve shares his personal story of transformation, from feeling numb and disconnected despite achieving traditional success, to embracing a life of purpose and connection.

Through the Unbreakable Man Project, Steve offers insights into breaking free from societal norms, finding courage to change, and building a supportive community. This episode is a call to action for men to become the main characters in their own stories, seeking fulfillment in both the physical and spiritual realms.

https://www.theunbreakablemanproject.com/

075 The Science of Leadership with Dr. Nina Ahuja

dadswholead@gmail.com (Dr. Nina Ahuja, Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner) — Thu, 9 Oct 2025 14:30:00 +0000

Ever wondered why some leaders naturally inspire and motivate their teams, while others struggle to connect? In this episode of the Dads Who Lead podcast, Dr. Nina Ahuja delves into the fascinating world of leadership and neuroscience.

Discover how understanding the brain's inner workings can transform your leadership style, making you a leader who is not only heard but truly respected. From emotional intelligence to stress management, Dr. Ahuja shares insights that will keep you hooked from start to finish. Whether you're leading a team or aspiring to, this episode offers the keys to unlocking your full potential as a leader.

Free leadership quiz

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074 Legendary Fatherhood w/ Larry Hagner

dadswholead@gmail.com (Larry Hagner, Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 7 Oct 2025 14:30:00 +0000

Are you a dad navigating the challenges of fatherhood while carrying the weight of a difficult past? In this episode of the Dads Who Lead Podcast, we dive deep into the heart of what it means to rewrite your story as a father.

Larry Hagner opens up about his own struggles and triumphs, offering insights that resonate with any dad striving to break free from the shadows of their upbringing. This is more than just a podcast—it's a lifeline for dads seeking to lead with intention, love, and resilience. Listen in and discover how you can transform your past into a powerful foundation for your family's future.

Link to Larry's Book: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0FR54J19D

073 Top of the World w/ Bo Parfet

Thu, 21 Aug 2025 17:00:07 +0000

Join us on an exhilarating journey with Bo Parfet, a mountaineer and executive who defied the odds to conquer the world's highest peaks. Discover how his faith and relentless drive transformed adversity into triumph, inspiring him to make a global impact.

From scaling Everest to restoring sight to thousands, Bo's story is a testament to resilience and purpose. Tune in to hear how you can harness your own potential and leave a lasting legacy. This is an episode you won't want to miss!

Help End Blindness - See International: https://www.seeintl.org/

Dads Who Lead Leadership Quiz: https://dadswholead.com/

DLP Capital: https://dlpcapital.com/

072 From Pole to Pole w/ Martyn Williams

dadswholead@gmail.com (Martyn Williams, Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Wed, 6 Aug 2025 14:00:00 +0000

Join us on an inspiring journey with Martyn Williams, a man who has conquered the North and South Poles and summited Mount Everest.

Discover how his childhood adventures in the hills of Wales shaped his relentless curiosity and drive to explore the unknown. Martyn shares profound insights on fostering resilience, embracing challenges, and the power of perception in overcoming life's obstacles.

Whether you're a parent seeking to inspire your children or someone looking to push your own boundaries, this episode offers wisdom and stories that will captivate and motivate you from start to finish.

Martyn on Linked In - https://www.linkedin.com/in/martyn-williams-5990697/

071 Building Your Roadmap w/ Gary Chupik

dadswholead@gmail.com (Gary Chupik, Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 28 Jul 2025 14:00:00 +0000

This week I sit down with Gary Chupik, a renowned mental performance coach who has worked with top athletes from the MLB, NFL, and NHL. Discover Gary's journey from being an ordained pastor to becoming a leader in sports psychology. Learn about the "Leadership Pyramid" and how self-leadership forms the foundation of success in sports, business, and life.

Key Takeaways:

Connect with Gary:

Instagram: @elitemindset Website: Elite Mindset Nation

070 Living Your Bucket List w/ Trav Bell

Mon, 7 Jul 2025 15:00:00 +0000

We have one shot at this thing called life...

What do you want to accomplish? What do you want to achieve?

What do you want to create? And who do you want to do it with?

Today, the Bucket List Guy: Trav Bell, joins us to share how he coaches people to pursue and LIVE their bucket list—starting NOW. If you're hungry to squeeze all the juice out of the opportunity we have as a man, father and husband, today's episode will transform what you see as possible. Don't miss a minute of this one! Buckle up!

069: Faith Meets Manifestation w/ Anita Agular

Mon, 30 Jun 2025 14:00:00 +0000

Most men never realize how much power their thoughts and words actually carry—and how that power ties directly to their walk with God.

In this episode, Tom sits down with Anita Mae Aguilar, a manifestation expert who follows Jesus, to break down how faith and focus work together to shape your reality. From chasing success to creating lasting impact, Anita shares hard-earned wisdom about overcoming doubt, owning your voice, and aligning your actions with purpose. You’ll see why most men stay stuck—and how to start leading your life with clarity, conviction, and spiritual authority.

If you’ve ever felt like there’s more for you but didn’t know how to step into it, this conversation will wake something up in you.

Take our FREE Leadership Quiz at

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068: A Pain Free Life w/ Aaron Hague

dadswholead@gmail.com (Aaron Hague, Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner) — Tue, 24 Jun 2025 14:00:00 +0000

In this engaging conversation, Aaron Hague shares his journey from a physically active youth plagued by injuries to a mentor in pain-free living.

He emphasizes the importance of understanding the human body, the role of mentorship, and the necessity of consistency in recovery.

Tom and Aaron explore the intersection of parenting and leadership, emphasizing the importance of vulnerability and respect in both realms. The discussion also highlights how lessons learned from parenting can translate into effective business practices, culminating in an overview of opportunities available through Resilient Human Performance.

067 Industry of Liars with Mike Carter

dadswholead@gmail.com (Mike Carter, Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 16 Jun 2025 14:00:00 +0000

In this episode of the Dads Who Lead podcast, Thomas Pfanner sits down with Mike Carter, president of Lionstone CPA, to explore how fathers can lead with financial confidence and intentionality. Mike opens up about his journey through faith, self-discovery, and the courage it takes to make life-changing decisions—both in business and at home.

Listeners will gain practical insights into financial strategy, personal growth, and how to lead by example in the chaos of family life. If you're ready to invest in yourself, embrace intentional living, and become a more present leader, this conversation is a must-listen from start to finish.

066 Separated to Transformed

dadswholead@gmail.com (Alex Tackes, Thomas Pfanner, Tom Pfanner) — Mon, 9 Jun 2025 14:00:00 +0000

If you’re a dad feeling the sting of separation or alienation from your child, this episode is a lifeline you can’t afford to miss. Tom sits down with single father Alex Tackes to uncover how he turned grief, legal battles, and heartbreak into a mission of reconnection and hope.

Through faith, emotional strength, and a powerful mindset shift, Alex shares hard-won insights that will inspire and equip you to fight for your relationship with your child. Listen from start to finish—your breakthrough might be one conversation away.

FREE Leadership Quiz at: https://dadswholead.com/

065 Simplifying the Feminine w/ Jocelyn Vance

dadswholead@gmail.com (Jocelyn Vance, Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 2 Jun 2025 14:00:00 +0000

Feeling distant from your wife and unsure how to bridge the gap? In this raw and powerful episode, Tom Pfanner and Jocelyn Vance uncover the hidden forces—like shame, silence, and fear—that quietly erode intimacy. You’ll learn how vulnerability, emotional leadership, and faith can reignite connection and bring your relationship back to life. If you’ve ever felt stuck or unseen in your marriage, this conversation is your wake-up call.

064: The Success Formula w/ Rock Thomas

dadswholead@gmail.com (Rock Thomas, Tom Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 26 May 2025 14:00:00 +0000

A challenging childhood to becoming a successful businessman and father. Rock discusses the importance of belonging, the impact of early experiences on his self-worth, and the lessons learned through fatherhood.

He emphasizes the significance of gratitude, personal growth, and the systems he has implemented to maintain focus and success in his life. The discussion also touches on the significance of community and mentorship in achieving success, highlighting the traits that differentiate successful individuals from those who struggle with self-doubt.

063: The Art of Survival w/ Michael Caughran

Mon, 19 May 2025 14:00:00 +0000

Do you value a resiliant mentality?

Enjoy tying those lessons to time in the outdoors?

Wilderness survival expert Michael Caughran shares how he teaches life skills by getting back to our primal roots. This episode will uncover what you are, not only capable of enduring, but also creating with your family!

Learn more about Micheal's programs at

https://arctraining.net/

062: The Power of Desire w/ Chaz Wolfe

dadswholead@gmail.com (Chaz Wolfe, Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 28 Apr 2025 22:16:06 +0000

I've grappled with desire...

What desires do I lean into? What desire must step way from?

In this episode, Chaz Wolfe pulls back the curtain on how he's learned to discern desires so that he can serve himself, his family and the kingdom. God has called him to help men understand and harness the desires of their hearts so they can become the kings we're meant to become.

https://gatheringthekings.com/

061 - The Question No One Asked w/ Marquess Dennis

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner, Marquess Dennis, Tom Pfanner) — Tue, 18 Feb 2025 15:19:16 +0000

From growing up without a father...

To spending time in Prison...

To rising above the noise to become a leader in fatherhood throughout the state of Oklahoma.

Today, Marquess Dennis will share his incredible story of being called upon to interview hundreds of inmates while he was in federal prison. He reveals the shocking pattern he uncovered about their relationship with their dad, which will change how you see fatherhood forever.

Buckle up!

060 Unearth Family Values

dadswholead@gmail.com (Mike McCarthy, Thomas Pfanner) — Thu, 16 Jan 2025 15:00:00 +0000

Want to capture the advantage of having a clear set of core values for your team or family?

If you answered yes, this episode is for you...

My guest is Mike McCarthy, an author and expert in helping families develop impactful values. What separates Mike is how he guides families to create a plan to integrate values into daily family life.

Today he'll be sharing his blueprint on how to get started with your crew. Let's drop in!

Click Here to Take our FREE Leadership Quiz: https://dadswholead.com/

059 Extreme Ownership w/ Codey Gandy

dadswholead@gmail.com (Codey Gandy, Thomas Pfanner) — Wed, 8 Jan 2025 01:17:29 +0000

Have you ever wondered how to strategically apply leadership principles that work in a military or team setting into your plan as a father?

This episode is for you! Codey Gandy from Echelon Front joins us to discuss how he applied the leadership principles he teaches across the world into his life at home. Codey works under leadership legend Jocko Willink and shares some incredible insights that dramatically transformed my perspective on family leadership! Let's go!

Echelon Front Website: https://echelonfront.com/

Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink

Dads Who Lead Website: https://dadswholead.com/

058 Youth Firearm Training w/ Kenneth Brown

dadswholead@gmail.com (Kenneth Brown, Thomas Pfanner) — Thu, 12 Dec 2024 18:30:59 +0000

Are you looking for ways to teach responsibility, confidence, and safety to your children?

In this episode, you’ll discover innovative approaches to raising kids who are prepared, skilled, and mindful in handling life’s challenges. Whether you're a gun owner or simply a parent focused on building resilience and trust, this episode offers invaluable insights.

Our guest, Kenneth Brown, is a U.S. Army Infantry Veteran, proud husband, father of two boys, and the owner of Liberation Fit Firearm Training. Kenneth shares his cutting-edge methods for teaching his sons to become knowledgeable, effective, and safe firearm handlers from a young age. His strategies are not just about firearms—they’re about instilling discipline, responsibility, and a sense of purpose.

🔥 Don’t miss this opportunity to learn from an expert who’s walking the walk. Hit play now!

LET'S GO!

Link to Kenneth's Website: https://liberationft.com/

FREE DWL Leadership Quiz: https://dadswholead.com/

057 Playing to Win - A Father Son Experience

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Sat, 23 Nov 2024 17:51:05 +0000

This episode highlights a powerful father-son retreat designed as a rite of passage to strengthen bonds and awaken young men to their potential. Through shared challenges, adventure, and meaningful connection, fathers guide their sons toward purpose and resilience, fostering lasting memories and preparing them to navigate life with confidence.

Click here to apply: https://dadswholead.com/dwl-retreats

056 The Power of Slow w/ Denise Mira

dadswholead@gmail.com (Denise Mira, Thomas Pfanner) — Wed, 6 Nov 2024 15:00:00 +0000

Ready to slow down?

Are you looking for traction with your child so they can anchor into the roots of your family's core values?

Today we have author Denise Mira sharing her incredible story of how she has raised 4 powerful sons to become convicted and self-directed men. Men who others know they can lean into for guidance.

If you are dad who wanted to sharpen your child's leadership skills this episode is for you.

Take our FREE Leadership Quiz at: https://dadswholead.com/the-leadership-dad-quiz

055 The Kingdom Ninja w/ Daniel Gil

dadswholead@gmail.com (Daniel Gil, Kingdom Ninja, Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 28 Oct 2024 14:00:00 +0000

What's your leadership superpower?

Free Leadership Quiz: https://dadswholead.com/the-leadership-dad-quiz

Learn more about the Kingdom Ninja Movement at: https://thekingdomninja.com/

054 The Fight for Her w/ Lance Riggen

dadswholead@gmail.com (Lance Riggen, Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 21 Oct 2024 23:06:47 +0000

Is your connection with your wife feel stale or empty? Tired of boredom or getting nagged? If you're a husband who is looking for a spark within your marriage this episode is for you. Lance Riggen's transformation within his marriage is like one I’ve never seen before. Today he is generously sharing his story of how he went from being a dark, empty place in his marriage and deflated as a man to creating a connection with his wife that is stronger than ever. This story will shift what you believe is possible in your marriage. Click below to hear the latest episode.

053 The Education Crisis w/ Matt Beaudreau

dadswholead@gmail.com (Matt Beaudreau, Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 7 Oct 2024 15:03:53 +0000

Site Links: www.dadswholead.com

Learn more about the Apogee programs for families here:

https://apogeestrong.com/

Education vs. Schooling: Matt highlights the critical distinction between schooling and true education. He believes schooling teaches obedience and compliance, but real education fosters independence, critical thinking, and sovereignty.
Issues with the Current System: Schools often prepare students for grades, tests, and following orders rather than teaching them essential life skills. According to Matt, schooling fosters a reactionary lifestyle instead of helping kids proactively shape their futures.
Factory Settings Philosophy: Matt introduces the concept of "factory settings," the natural state of curiosity, resilience, and independence children are born with. He argues that society and the schooling system suppress these traits, and parents must work to preserve them.
Apogee’s Unique Approach: Apogee is an education system for the entire family, not just kids. While students on campus engage in K-12 programs designed to foster self-sufficiency and real-world skills, parents participate in separate verticals for men and women, ensuring the entire family is empowered to live independently.
Empowering Men, Women, and Families: Apogee also offers programs for adults, helping them reclaim their autonomy. These programs focus on personal psychology, physical health, marriage, financial independence, and parenting, ensuring the whole family thrives.

052: Father Son Episode

dadswholead@gmail.com (Charles Cooper, Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 30 Sep 2024 14:00:00 +0000

My son Charles joins the show for the first time! On this fun episode, we debate and discuss our top 20 MMA fighters of all time.

051 Leadership Between the Sheets w/ Alana Martens

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 30 Apr 2024 00:05:33 +0000

If you're a Dad who's looking to amplify your spiritual and physical connection with your wife, this episode is for you! Our special guest Alana Martens, from Kingdom Sexuality, peels back the darkness often cast over sex.

Expect to learn how to create a more powerful, passionate, and pleasurable experience with your wife!

You'll also walk away with new strategies to guide your teenagers as they begin to understand and explore sexuality. Will you be the Dad who your teenager pulls away from?

If you're a Dad who wants your wife and kids to lean into your leadership on the topic of sex, this episode is for YOU!

Take the Dads Who Lead FREE Leadership Quiz Here: https://dadswholead.com/

Learn more about the Kingdom Sexuality Movement at: https://www.kingdomsexualityministry.com/

Subscribe to the Kingdom Sexuality Podcast Here: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/kingdom-sexuality/id1570384112

050 Pat Tillman - A Warrior's Leadership

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 22 Apr 2024 13:51:16 +0000

It's been 20 years since we've lost one of our greatest heroes...

We’ll take a look back at how Pat Tillman created a seamless connection between his body and spirit allowing him to live FULL TILT. You'll learn how Pat's core values fuel his passion in every facet of life

If you’re a leader looking to align your inner compass with every decision you make, this episode is for you...

LINK to The Pat Tillman Foundation: https://pattillmanfoundation.org/the-foundation/

LINK to Our free Leadership Quiz: https://dadswholead.com/

049 The Trans Dilemma

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 16 Apr 2024 15:51:56 +0000

Today, we're breaking the silence. I'll take you inside this issue from an angle that has NEVER been shared before. I'll go behind the curtain and share what I saw and experienced during my time in public schools.

Are your kids equipped to rise above the noise?

Learn exactly what the trans-movement is, why it has begun, and what you can do about it as the father and leader of your home to prepare your kids for the road ahead.

It's time to speak freely about how this issue impacts our kids. LISTEN NOW to get the unfiltered truth!

Take our FREE Leadership Style Quiz: https://dadswholead.com/dwl-leadership-quiz

048 The Skill of Grit w/ Clay Speakman

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 9 Apr 2024 19:04:55 +0000

What happens when we lose our GIRT as men? What happens when a generation loses girt?

Founder of the Epic Grit Club, Clay Speakman joins us to teach you how to unlock your grit and use it to elevate your happiness, performance and leadership!

EPIC GRIT CLUB Website: https://freegrittour.com/

FREE Leadership Quiz: https://dadswholead.com/

047 Why Nick Saban was Silenced...

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Wed, 3 Apr 2024 15:43:22 +0000

Nick Saban's recent stunning comments about the direction of college athletics have been swept under the rug! We'll take a closer look at what his insights mean and how they affect the landscape of leadership today.

If you are a father with a teenage athlete, this episode will help you stay a step ahead of major issues affecting young men and women.

https://dadswholead.com/

046 Fighting without Fighting

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Sat, 2 Mar 2024 23:53:44 +0000

Young men ultimately want one thing... Respect. Respect from their peers. Respect from girls. Respect for what they're capable of...

What happens when this comes to ahead with an injection of testosterone?

In this episode, we'll take a look at why young men fight and how we can guide them to defuse fights from happening without running for help!

Head over to https://dadswholead.com/ to take our FREE Leadership Quiz and discover your fatherhood superpower!

045 From Crutches to Crushing It w/ Patricia Bartell

dadswholead@gmail.com (Patricia Bartell, Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 6 Feb 2024 21:42:44 +0000

Click Here to order Patricia's Book "From Crutches to Crushing It"

Patricia Bartell is a keynote speaker, TEDx presenter, business mentor, and performing solo artist. She is the founder of the Bartell Music Academy and Accordion Life Academy as well as a member of the Tango Volcado quartet. She has traveled the world as a sought-after adjudicator and as a woman of strong faith. Patricia’s years of music competition, performance, and business come together in her signature program, “Crush It” on stage and in business. Patricia’s motivational talks are a call to action for her audiences to reach their full potential and go “Crush It.”

044 Rock in the Storm w/ Dr. Redbread

Tue, 30 Jan 2024 15:00:00 +0000

When disaster strikes...

Will we be ready? Dr. David Powers aka Dr. Redbeard shares how we can stay one step ahead of disaster. Expect to walk away with an understanding of how to prepare yourself and your family both physically and mentally for the unexpected.

043 The World Championship

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 22 Jan 2024 19:58:20 +0000

Host Thomas Pfanner shares his insights from competing the No-Gi Jiu Jitsu world championship in Las Vegas. He'll uncover the mindset to compete at that level.

Who do we need to become to become to be the World Champion in 2024? What are the actions, mentality and positions we need to put ourselves in to be successful?

FREE Leadership Quiz: https://dadswholead.com/

042 The Danger of Fairness

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Thu, 14 Dec 2023 16:10:03 +0000

Our society is obsessed with fairness, with a level playing field, and with equality. All of this ignores a drive we have inside of us to compete and rise up. In this episode, I'll share why competing is such a huge part of building our family culture. We'll also expose how removing competition from our environment can backfire. Prepare to level up your game as a Dad.

https://dadswholead.com/

041 Building Your Family Culture w/ Steve Eckert

dadswholead@gmail.com (Steve Eckert, Thomas Pfanner) — Sun, 3 Dec 2023 00:05:29 +0000

Find Steve Eckert on Instagram to learn more about his program.

UNLOCK your leadership superpower. Take our FREE leadership profile assessment at DadsWhoLead.com

040 Mother Care. Father's Prepare.

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Wed, 22 Nov 2023 19:48:48 +0000

Apply for our Father-Son Retreat: https://dadswholead.com/dwl-retreats

Take Free Leadership Style Test: https://dadswholead.com/

A Rite of Passage

dadswholead@gmail.com (Tim Gurule, Thomas Pfanner) — Fri, 17 Nov 2023 20:30:10 +0000

We dive into the cornerstone of Dads Who Lead: The power of a father-son retreat! Expect to walk away learning how to build an experience that can transform both your son's life and your own! Let's drop in...

Apply for your spot at this summer's father son Play to Win experience here: https://dadswholead.com/dwl-retreats

038 Rising from Darkness w/ Miguel Mendoza

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 7 Nov 2023 19:05:00 +0000

Check out more of the Leave Your Marc movement at:

https://www.patreon.com/posts/leave-your-marc-88092736

and on Instagram at

https://www.instagram.com/leaveyour_marc/

DWL Leadership Style Quiz Link: FREE at www.dadswholead.com

037 Seasons of Life

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Thu, 2 Nov 2023 17:14:19 +0000

Take our Free Leadership Quiz at: https://dadswholead.com/

036 Defeating the Storm w/ Jayson Waller

dadswholead@gmail.com (Jayson Waller, Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 24 Oct 2023 17:10:00 +0000

I've read Jayson's book and highly recommend checking it out! It's nothing short of life-changing.

Where can I get more from Jayson?

Order his Book: Own Your Power

https://www.amazon.com/Own-Your-Power-Excuses-Bullsh/dp/1544523874/ref=sr_1_7?crid=2Z7CELKHOYR4L&keywords=own+your+power&qid=1698082896&sprefix=own+your+power%2Caps%2C130&sr=8-7

Be sure to check out his show coming to Amazon this December: The BAM Fam Show
Follow his Podcast: "Jayson Waller Unleashed"

Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/50zYg4F5Am58EzIKnZrtVQ?si=1KCEdq8VRAC5LjToVi0vBg

Apple Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/true-underdog/id1500778745

Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jaysonwallerbam/\
Subscribe on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@jaysonwallerbam

035 Holding Frame

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Wed, 18 Oct 2023 02:49:29 +0000

In this special Episode, I cover the concept of Frame: What it is. Why it's so important for dads. And how to leverage it in our leadership. Expect to leave with an understanding of why it's easy for us (and our kids) to get stuck in the mindset of a role character.

034: The Ungovernable Man w/ Gabriel Alexander

dadswholead@gmail.com (Gabriel Alexander, Thomas Pfanner) — Sat, 26 Aug 2023 14:28:57 +0000

Gabriel Alexander shares how he has refused to comply with any path that's not led by God. His story of rebellion and truth fuels his mission to lead men to their own personal greatness.

033 Decentralized Command

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 9 May 2023 17:19:59 +0000

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032 Unlocking the Mind w/ Kacey McCallister

dadswholead@gmail.com (Kasey McCallister, Thomas Pfanner) — Thu, 20 Apr 2023 21:16:30 +0000

At the age of 6 years old, Kasey McCallister was involved in an accident that would change his life forever. Through the journey of living with out legs, the strength and resolve of his mind has become world class. Today, Kasey is a father 5, author, speaker, entrepreneur, combat and endurance athlete. In this episode he shares how his mindset has allowed him to always rise up during life challenges.

031 - The Skill of Failure

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Thu, 6 Apr 2023 15:01:04 +0000

Is your family avoiding failure? What lesson are being missed? In this episode we drop into the value and physiology of failure.

030 -Your Clock is Ticking w/ Eric Sardina

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Thu, 30 Mar 2023 15:54:12 +0000

Its all coming to an end... Special guest, Eric Sardina discusses the power that come from the actualization of our death. In this episode we will pull back the curtain on how this simple concept can transform the direction of your life.

029- Earning Respect from your Kids

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 21 Mar 2023 20:55:03 +0000

Disrespect can be crippling for not only our spirit but our ability to successfully guide our kids. In this episode, we pull the curtain back on respect and look at actionable steps we can take as fathers to stop demanding respect and start authentically earning it.

028: Rising from Rock Bottom w/ Danny Diaz

dadswholead@gmail.com (Daniel Diaz, Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 14 Mar 2023 14:30:06 +0000

How do we rise from rock bottom? Danny Diaz shares how he has transformed how he is from the inside out. And how shifting his attention and mindset has accelerated him in serving others. This episode is mission-critical for any parent who's teen is grappling with drug use.

027 Box Theory: Why Kids Rebel

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Henry, Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 28 Feb 2023 01:26:29 +0000

Thomas discusses box theory and why teens push back against leadership. Learn the psychology of rebellion and how you craft a parenting style that allows you to accelerate your teen's independence while staying on their team.

026 - The Luck Bubble w/ Kirk Westwood

dadswholead@gmail.com (Kirk Westwood, Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 14 Feb 2023 02:32:53 +0000

KIRK WESTWOOD: Diagnosed with an illness they said would kill him. Kirk Westwood turned to doing things he didn’t understand: Extreme Shamanic practices and rituals from around the world that fundamentally changed him as a person.

A core component of his miraculous journey back to vibrant health, was the development of an acute Intuition.

Fostering this ability to read people and situations led him to study at the feet of several masters of different arts for over 20 years, and a deep understanding of how profound change is achieved as succinctly as possible.

Not wanting to be a healer, he did the ultimate run-away and joined the military.

It was whilst serving with a Commando Unit for Special Forces Selection that he suffered a career ending injury to his left eye.

During recovery, he was tasked with how his particular skills could help to solve problems from outside-of “normal” thinking.

Namely, a faster way to determine which candidates can thrive during Selection, Training and Operations.

What he observed during this time was an all too common occurrence of Elite Special Forces Operators experiencing extreme luck in dire combat situations.

Thus the term “The Luck Bubble” was coined, and a trainable dynamic forged.

Obsessed with this concept, the impetus became to travel the world documenting extreme rituals and practices to understand the common thread of these events that miraculously change lives.

It was then companies and elite teams came knocking asking if he could create luck for them.

Those that heeded the insights gleaned have gone on to make millions, successfully pivot technologies and create winning teams, health and relationships, as a direct result of utilising the subjective data that Kirk provides.

Kirk now focus his energies on bringing meaning and lasting change to captains of industry, sport and politics to serve the highest good in the most efficient fashion.

025: Tapping into Your Inner Child

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner, Thomas Henry) — Mon, 6 Feb 2023 15:00:00 +0000

MYTH: The man who has fun being Dad is not the same man who can successfully guide his children to greatness. In this episode, we'll discuss how to tap into your inner child and how it can catapult the growth of our kids. Buckle up!!

024 How to Dominate your Calendar w/ Dan Milinazzo

dadswholead@gmail.com (Dan Milinazzo, Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 30 Jan 2023 21:01:25 +0000

Dan explains how the weekly and daily scheduling tactics he uses to maximize his time at work, with his family and for his own growth!

023 Greater Impact. Less Time.

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Fri, 27 Jan 2023 04:07:45 +0000

We are busy men. We want to make a difference. We want to make memories. Grab your notepad. In this episode, we cut straight into three steps to create a greater impact in less time with your family.

022 Diving for Clarity w/ Tim Rhode

dadswholead@gmail.com (Tim Rhode, Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 26 Dec 2022 18:48:34 +0000

Three time author Tim Rhode shares how he found clarity in his mission. Learn how confidence in direction can have a massive impact on how quickly we can make ground. This is a "can't miss" episode!

021: 7 Mistakes that are Killing your Sex Life

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 26 Dec 2022 16:02:23 +0000

This episode breaks into new territory. As Dads, we are responsible for the success of our family and the relationship with our women. Intimacy is the glue that holds that relationship together. This episode will look at how you can become the man your wife genuinely desires so your home can continue to thrive.

The Road Ahead w/ Mike Liguori

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 12 Dec 2022 16:15:00 +0000

Author Mike Liguori shares his journey of finding a connection with his father after decades of resistance. This episode will provide powerful insights into the healing and development of the father-son relationship.

How to get Kids to Listen (in 5 steps)

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Henry, Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 5 Dec 2022 17:35:52 +0000

The number one question I get from dads: How can I get my kids to listen to me? In this episode, I cover 5 proven techniques that will help you capture your child's attention.

The Conscious Man w/ Jim Vance

dadswholead@gmail.com (Jim Vance, James Vance, Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 28 Nov 2022 16:00:00 +0000

Jim Vance discusses becoming a man who is committed to himself and how it transforms the impact we can create. In the episode, we dive into the power of understanding who you are as a man and how you can bring that to every scenario in life.

The Quiet Crisis

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Sat, 19 Nov 2022 01:12:39 +0000

In the special episode, we discuss the quiet crisis that is steadily spreading through the US. In my first solo podcast, we'll explore the number around adults living at home with their parents and the action we can take as dads to elevate our kid's independence skills from the jump!

Dog-Doo to Freedom w/ Dillyn Saurdiff

dadswholead@gmail.com (Dillyn Saurdiff, Thomas Pfanner) — Wed, 9 Nov 2022 16:00:00 +0000

Dillyn discusses his unique journey. Learn how he crafted a willingness to take on anything and the skill of connecting with others. His commitment to this craft has led him to live a life outside of society's rules. This is a unique episode that will help Dads gain a new perspective on how we can create success in the game of life.

Rebel & Create w/ Ned Schaut

dadswholead@gmail.com (Ned Schaut, Thomas Pfanner) — Wed, 19 Oct 2022 16:30:00 +0000

Author and Ted X speaker Ned Schaut shares how he rebelled against societal expectations to create his own identity as a father. We take a deep dive into how writing our own story as a dad can transform not only our family but who we are as men.

Post Traumatic Growth w/ Kevin Demmons

dadswholead@gmail.com (Kevin Demmons, Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 4 Oct 2022 23:25:00 +0000

Kevin shares his story of how he has transformed traumatic experiences into growth that has moved him forward

Leading Extraordinary Men w/ Pat Hiban

dadswholead@gmail.com (Pat Hiban, Thomas Pfanner) — Fri, 16 Sep 2022 03:45:00 +0000

As a young child Pat Hiban was labeled “Learning disabled with Speech Deficiencies” and put into special classes. Throughout his teenage years he struggled – failing with sports, academics, and the ladies. He graduated college with a 2.3 GPA and took the only job without a barrier to entry -Real Estate Sales. Through consistent application of 6 steps , Pat grew his real estate business each and every year. In 2004 he became the #1 Re/Max Agent in the world and in 2006 he was honored with the same recognition #1 recognition by Keller Williams Realty. Over his more than 25-year career he sold over 4,000 homes with a volume of over a billion dollars. After leaving the sales side of the business and failing forward at multiple new endeavors, Pat settled down and became a professional investor. He is a co-founder of DAPT Acquisitions which offers apartment housing to over 2,000 tenants in Georgia and Florida. Pat also co-founded GoBundance , A mastermind for guys and gals just like him with over 1,000 current members in 4 countries. Pat lives outside of Charleston, South Carolina with his wife of 30 years. He has 2 adult daughters.

Playing to Win w/ Gabriel Hamel

dadswholead@gmail.com (Gabriel Hamel, Thomas Pfanner) — Fri, 2 Sep 2022 18:25:00 +0000

From humble beginnings, Gabriel Hamel discusses how he forged the habits and mentality of success long before the results came. Gabriel has left evidence of success in the world of finance, athletics and building relationships. Gabriel is a whole-life millionaire because of his commitment to being great in all aspects of his life.

Building Your Swagger w/ former NFL QB Chris Miller

dadswholead@gmail.com (Chris Miller, Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 15 Aug 2022 00:00:00 +0000

Chris Miller discusses how his NFL career as a player and coach has transformed his view on leadership and life.

First to a Million w/ Dan Sheeks

dadswholead@gmail.com (Dan Sheeks, Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 2 Aug 2022 15:00:00 +0000

First to a Million Author Dan Sheeks discusses his new book and his mission to help young people achieve financial independence.

GO ALL IN w/ Evan Huslage

dadswholead@gmail.com (Evan Huslage, Thomas Pfanner) — Wed, 29 Jun 2022 06:30:00 +0000

Evan Huslage takes us through how he went ALL IN on himself. His journey in rental arbitrage has taken him to new heights but the journey was not without tears, difficulty, and grit. Learn how he calibrated himself to unlock his full potential. Don't miss it!

Leverage Your Inner Language w/ Ian Lobas

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 20 Jun 2022 15:45:00 +0000

Stop holding yourself back. Business Coach Ian Lobas delivers a transformational episode. Learn how the language we speak to ourselves and others manifests and directs the future we create.

Tapping into Your Subconscious w/ Brandon Epstein

dadswholead@gmail.com (Brandon Epstein, Thomas Pfanner) — Tue, 7 Jun 2022 07:00:00 +0000

Brandon Epstein and Thomas take a deep dive into how the subconscious impacts our thoughts, actions, relationships and the results we get in the game of life. Do not miss this episode!!

Called to Serve w/ John Pfanner

dadswholead@gmail.com (John Pfanner, Thomas Pfanner) — Sat, 28 May 2022 16:15:00 +0000

John Pfanner discusses his relentless call to serve God, his country and his community.

Why Optimism Works w/ Cody Caswell

dadswholead@gmail.com (Cody Caswell, Thomas Pfanner) — Fri, 13 May 2022 01:25:00 +0000

24-year-old millionaire Cody Caswell joins us to uncover how optimism has fueled his daily decisions and ascent in construction and house flipping!

How to Leverage Failure w/ Aaron Velky

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Sun, 1 May 2022 17:20:00 +0000

Author, entrepreneur and coach Aaron Velky, discusses how to grapple with the failure and transform our mindset around facing a challenge. This episode goes deep into how mental limits can set a ceiling on the risks we are willing to take in the game of life. Learn how our relationship with risk governs how far we go. BUCKLE UP!!

"Breaking Chains" with Dennis Morolda

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 25 Apr 2022 03:05:00 +0000

Don't miss this episode! Building Men host Dennis Morolda shares how he broke through limiting beliefs and childhood trauma to become a leader of men.

Lessons from a 2700 mi hike w/ Phil Pfanner

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner, Phil Pfanner) — Thu, 14 Apr 2022 07:00:00 +0000

Long-distance backpacker Phil Pfanner discusses how he overcomes the element and uncertainty in his relentless pursuit of adventure. Learn how it affects his daily life and discussion. Learn more about our opportunities at unlockingmanhood.org

Setting a Life of Intention w/ Gabe West

dadswholead@gmail.com (Thomas Pfanner) — Mon, 4 Apr 2022 03:28:00 +0000

This episode will help you learn how to set intentions so you can live out the experiences and build a life of abundance.